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Conference rdvax::grateful

Title:Take my advice, you'd be better off DEAD
Notice:It's just a Box of Rain
Moderator:RDVAX::LEVY::DEBESS
Created:Thu Jan 03 1991
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:580
Total number of notes:60238

456.0. "Yet Another Goodbye...." by ROMEOS::QUACKENBU_KI () Tue Apr 18 1995 23:19

    
    Well, another goodbye from a devoted head. I resigned from
    Dig-it-all today to start anew with (gasp) Oracle. I'll
    still be in the interactive TV world, from the software
    view instead of the hardware, video server slant. 
    Last day here is 4/28.
    
    Haven't been with this grate notesfile too long, only because 
    it took me some time to find you folks. It's one of my favorite 
    things to do...
    
    Thanks for all the friendship, afar as it is for the left coaster.
    
    Hope to see some of you in Vegas. I'll have the Dechead shirt
    on. I'll send a note to rfb or da ve with my new email address
    at Oracle.
    
    Peace and Love
    
    Kip
    
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456.1TRLIAN::DUGGANBornInTheDesert,RaisedInTheLionsDenWed Apr 19 1995 10:396
    Adios... see you in Vega$...
    I'm easy to spot.
    I'll be the largest person there.
    
    ...mike
    
456.2good luck Kip.CSLALL::LEBLANC_CPlease don't dominate the rapJACKWed Apr 19 1995 11:333
    be safe and may the road rise to meet you
    
    chris
456.3STOWOA::JOLLIMOREIn a word: overrunWed Apr 19 1995 11:533
	'bye Kip. Good luck!
	
	Jay
456.4toodle-oooooo...ALFA2::DWESTbut i play one on tv...Wed Apr 19 1995 12:473
    take care Kip...  namaste...
    
    					da ve
456.5BSS::DSMITHA Harley, & the Dead the good lifeWed Apr 19 1995 13:478
    
    
    Anther person goes and finds life after DEC..
    
     Good luck Kip see you in Vegas
    
     Divide Dave
    
456.6:-)SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Order WivesWed Apr 19 1995 13:486
Take care, Kip!

Conga Rats on the new yob!!!

- jeff
456.7NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedWed Apr 19 1995 17:154
Good luck at Oracle, Kip.  I'll be looking for you at Vegas in the dechead
t-shirt.

adam
456.8STRATA::IRZAliving on an abstract planeWed Apr 19 1995 17:594
    
      best of luck Kip, will probally see ya in the streets of vegas!
    
                                                         ^dave
456.9USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Apr 20 1995 12:395
    
    Good Luck Kip,
      Leaving to go and work for Oracle should be good.  
    	
    	Mark
456.10CXDOCS::BARNESThu Apr 20 1995 14:404
    c-ya at the jubaleee's
    look for us on the back dancewalk at Vegas...
    
    rfb
456.11Bags are packed..ROMEOS::QUACKENBU_KIThu Apr 27 1995 22:238
    
    I'm done. Somehow it feels grate that these are the last characters 
    I'll  input into a Digital (internal) system. Nice to end it in
    GRATEFUL. Indeed.
    
    Over and Out.
    
    
456.12gotta BIODTLSEGAD3::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidMon Mar 11 1996 18:2326
    Gee, there's quite a few goodbye topics here... 
    My last term as a DECco-op is coming to a close, only a week left. 
    
    I was originally planning on working here over the summer, but now I
    realize deep down that this is not where my calling lies.  I am
    eternally grateful that I had the opportunity to work here and meet
    soooo many bright, intense, dedicated (and crazy!) characters... just
    good people.  Not to mention, I feel very lucky to have met all the
    kind noters here!  (Thanks to Rich Fromm, wherever you are.)  What a
    wonder it is that this technology can bring people together like this. 
    I will miss you all!  
    
    What I will be doing remains quite a mystery... so many roads...  In
    the meantime, I still have another year of school and unless I
    completely switch gears, another quarter of coop somewhere.  Been 
    thinking of checking out a smaller company, maybe doin something in 
    education, also itchin' to hit the road and visit some intentional 
    communities and see what the tribes have been up to.  Whew.
    
    Hopefully, I'll be visiting soon - who's going to Bread and Puppets?!
    
    
    'noky
    mcharnok@ddt.eng.uc.edu
    
    
456.13STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneMon Mar 11 1996 18:3818
	'noky - you've brought much to this community from your young and wise
	perspective - I'm going to miss you alot...

	best wishes in whatever lies ahead for you...

	Debess

	ps - I am -definately- planning on B&P this year - they've already
	figured out their date btw - it's the weekend of Aug 24th - we've
	found a pretty good camping spot that we'll probably try to go to
	again this summer - so I'll try to remember to write down some
	direx to that so we can be extra sure to run into you, or you into
	us!  (or is that too planned?!?)  In any case, I'd really love to see 
	you up there!

	pps - will you come to Oktoberfest again next fall?!?

456.14may the four winds blow you safely all over the place... :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Mon Mar 11 1996 18:5117
i'm definitely doing B&P again this year...
 and it would be really cool to see you there! :^)

i think i told you this before, but last year at B&P
they had a lot of stuff available on communities
and community building in your own community...
some of it fits what we talked about once before
and some of it is designed more around fostering
community ideals in existing urban areas where
there isn't much "community" as we think of it...

unfortunately i can't find my community handbook
i picked up there (which had a web site URL in it too)...

coming to the taping party?

			da ve
456.15SEGAD3::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidMon Mar 11 1996 19:2617
    Debess - nah, writing down direx isn't too planned out.  B&P sounds too
    cool to pass up!
    
    da ve - I have the Communities Directory from FIC
    (http://www.well.com/user/cmty/) - excellent resource!
    
    Not sure if i can make the taping party; maybe the tail end.  A friend
    of mine since 4th grade has been planning a visit this weekend and i
    also made some other plans.  :(
    
    boy, when I was a kid I had two maybe three good friends, tops.  now
    that i move all over the place and meet so many people, its hard to
    keep up!
    
    'noky
    
     
456.16MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamTue Mar 12 1996 10:156
	best of luck to ya, 'noky.
	
	glad i had the opportunity to meet ya.
	
	take care,
	Jay
456.17TOLKIN::OSTIGUYI am a man waving at the wavesTue Mar 12 1996 11:023
Best of Luck to ya ,Noky...iz a lunch at the 'Shoe in order?

Wes
456.18hope to see ya aroundRECV::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneTue Mar 12 1996 14:367
    
    Hey now Mike where ya going? Good luck and keep smiling!
    
    Keep in touch.
    
    Cath
    
456.19AOSG::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobelTue Mar 12 1996 17:354
best o luck, 'noky. Glad we met. Maybe catch you at B&P or elsewhere on the 
road.

jeff
456.20SEGAD3::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidWed Mar 13 1996 13:435
    > iz a lunch at the 'Shoe in order?
    
    mmmmm tastee breeews!  anyone game for lunch friday?
    
    'noky  
456.21could be... :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Wed Mar 13 1996 14:373
i could probably be talked into it... :^)

			da ve
456.22NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Wed Mar 13 1996 18:234
Grate idear...'Shoe lunch, and then a late meeting at ZKO4 (D.B.
Coopers)...followed by Slipknot @ Tamany...the weekend's lookin' up
already! ;-)

456.23DELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by & byWed Mar 13 1996 18:292
    
    I may be able to swing Friday lunch.
456.24ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingWed Mar 13 1996 18:511
    I'll be there.
456.25USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyWed Mar 13 1996 19:417
    
    Grate luck on your new adventure.  Glad to have had a chance to meet
    you.
    
    	Peace and joy
    	Mark
    
456.26beeeeer!AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidFri Mar 15 1996 14:393
    lunch!  hit the shoe at noon???
    
    'noky
456.27line...NOW?TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backFri Mar 15 1996 14:393
"Shoe anyone?

Wes
456.28too long of a driveMKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topFri Mar 15 1996 14:405
	:-(
	
	i gotta eat tuna from the mko cafe.
	
	
456.29NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Mar 15 1996 14:518
welp, i had intended to go down and have a cold one with
you all, but alas, i am stuck here after all...  meetings
i have to get stuff ready for doncha know...  :^(

i'll try and stop up later on...  i forget, are you coming to the 
taping party dude?

			da ve
456.30AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidFri Mar 15 1996 16:478
    re: taping party
    
    i'd sure like to come... but some friends are visiting from Ohio and
    there are some other plans.  still, nothing's fixed in stone ;) 
    
    hey!  what time is CTW playing to-nite???  mebbe we could make that!
    
    'noky
456.31CtW tonightNECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Mar 15 1996 17:045
we usually start around 930 or so...

rt 135 in Ashland...  hope to see you there!

			da ve
456.32STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneMon Mar 18 1996 13:523
	Nokey are you still here?

456.33Can't get ridda me!AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidMon Mar 18 1996 16:068
    Still here ;^) finishing up with all the housekeeping, paperwork,
    loose ends.  Gotta stuff my collection of Junk into the car yet - I'll
    probably hit the road Wed.
    
    Keep in touch - let me know about B&P, Octoberfest.  I already missed
    enough events... :(
    
    'noky    
456.34ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingMon Jun 24 1996 20:4332
I have some news for my Grateful friends...

I have handed in my resignation, and Friday will be my last day
at Digital.  I am not leaving to work for another semiconductor
company, but will instead be taking the rest of the summer, fall,
and winter off. 

I have been working at Digital for 4 years now as an IC Layout
Designer, working on the latest Alpha chips.  I came here straight out
of college, and before that entered college straight out of high school.
I have never had a chance to take a break and just take some time off.
Now, I'm 24 and the time has been flying by so fast that I want to
do this while I can.  I don't have kids, or a house, or a car payment.
This is probably the only chance I will have to do this without heavy
strings attached.  So I am doing it!  :-)  It has taken such a long
time for me to get the guts and ignore the fear and just do it.

My plans are to lay back this summer and concentrate on music and
enjoying the outdoors.  Hopefully, this fall I will be moving to either
Vermont or Colorado and doing the skiing/bartending thing through the
winter.  I'm going to go with the flow, and follow where it takes me.

I will really really (REALLY) miss this notesfile, and all of the wonderful
people in it.  My Dead years have probably been the happiest of my
life.  I have met so many awesome people and have had so many
wonderful experiences.  Nothing could compare to it.   

So, I will miss all of you very much!  Take care and always smile!
The only thing to fear in life is fear itself, and in the end
everything will work out.  I believe in the universe.

/danielle
456.35TEPTAE::WESTERVELTMon Jun 24 1996 20:494
    Danielle, good for you!  I'll miss your posts.

    Tom
456.36applause applause!! :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Mon Jun 24 1996 21:0710
congratulations Danielle!!!!!!!!!!!  :^) :^) :^)

i know it's been preying on your mind for some time now...
i'm glad you're "going for it"...  much better than looking back
someday and wondering "what if"...

hugs and best wishes...  

			da ve
456.37SPECXN::BARNESMon Jun 24 1996 21:226
    sigh.....sounds like a dream come true....have fun, be safe, try and
    stay 24 %^). Give us a call when you are in Colorado...depending on
    where you finally come to rest, we could be seeing each other
    occasionally. Again...have a good time! 
    
    rfb
456.38Bon ChanceTOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backTue Jun 25 1996 12:056
Danielle, Congratulations !!!  Best of luck no matter what you end up doing,
and keep in touch...

Hmmm, sounds like lunch on Friday at "The Shoe?"

WO
456.39MILKWY::MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Jun 25 1996 12:256
	Wow, what a bold move. Congratulations and have a great time with it!
Definitely do it while un-burdened and enjoy yourself thoroughly. Here's
wishing you luck and great happiness along your way!


	Geoff
456.40MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREDancing Madly BackwardsTue Jun 25 1996 12:437
	/danielle,
	
	it's nice to see someone leave for the right reasons.
	and, the universe believes in you, too.
	
	take care,
	jay
456.41BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITETue Jun 25 1996 12:526
    
    
    Congratulations and the best of luck. As rfb said if you land in
    Colorado let us know where...
    
    Divide Dave
456.42RAGE::JCYou name it, I do itTue Jun 25 1996 13:502
Excellent move /danielle.
You'll never regret it
456.43MAIL2::TURNOFGreetings from the Big AppleTue Jun 25 1996 14:086
    Danielle,
    
    Such wonderful news!  I'm very jealous!  Go for it and have a wonderful
    time, seeing, doing, and being!
    
    Fredda
456.44that path is for your steps alone...QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyTue Jun 25 1996 16:276
And if you're going to do the Appalachian Trail, be sure to send us
post cards...  ;-)  Sounds like a good move.  Wish I'd had the time
and means to do it myself back then.  Not that I'm a bitter washed
out old fart or anything!  

PeterT
456.45STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSshe lays on me this roseTue Jun 25 1996 16:428
	/danielle,
	
	I'm envious!  I think that you will be thankful for the rest of
	your life that you take this opportunity now...best wishes!

	Debess

456.46LUDWIG::IRZAas they chased us out of townTue Jun 25 1996 16:4521
   best of luck danielle....sounds like the start of a wondrous adventure!
   it seems like i met you not too long ago, hard to believe it was over
   three years ago.

   and speaking of goodbyes, next wednesday will be my last day at digital.
   i've accepted a position with analog devices in cambridge. i'm now in the
   process of finding a place to live up that way (allston/cambridge) and
   plan on taking night courses at northeastern come september to finish
   up my degree.

   i started working at DEC in 9/87 (my first show was 7/87). I recieved
   my first tapes through this file (thanx Mystery Hill, i asked him for
   one show and he gave me six 8^). did my first mail order with the help
   of grateful (oxford plains '88, what a weekend!!!). i'm goNna miss this
   file immensely, and all the truly amazing people in it. 

                             take care of each other and spread the faith,
                                                         
                                                                  ^dave
                                                              
456.47Another one, Wow!MILKWY::MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Jun 25 1996 17:029
^dave, 
	Analog seems to be doing that hiring thing. Sonds like you're making 
a good move too. Remeber, We still do life tests and FA here in what used
to be SBO. Analog is an established external customer, so if you need some 
FA send it our way. Good luck with the move!  (But, there does seem to be a 
contradiction in my mind with ^dave and close to the city). 

	Good luck!
	Geoff
456.48SPECXN::BARNESTue Jun 25 1996 17:494
    and we will miss you too ^dave
    
    keep da faith
    rfb 
456.49WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsTue Jun 25 1996 19:037
    the away team grows in number 
    
    good for you Danielle - everyone's dream is with you as you go
    
    Dave - best of everything, continue to have a music filled life
    
    carol
456.50NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedTue Jun 25 1996 19:218
Sounds like a plan, Danielle.   Have a fun extended vacation and good luck
finding a place to settle down and work.  Take care, sweetie!

Dave, your Dead/DEC dates are similar to mine!  Good luck at Analog.  Maybe
now that you'll be up here I'll run into you at Slipknot.  It's been a few
years since I've seen you!

adam
456.518^)ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingTue Jun 25 1996 20:1314
    Thanks everyone!!!  I am so excited!  I'm still going to keep in touch
    with Grateful.  I don't have a computer at home (so no email/internet
    access), but I will be keeping touch with some of you here, and then
    you can post updates in Grateful.  If anyone is coming into Boston,
    look me up!  And if Grateful plans any camping or biking trips, give
    me a ring and update me (now I'll have lots of time).  I am 
    planning on going up to the Bread & Puppets festival the end of August,
    so maybe we can meet up there.  
    
    And dave, YES!  That is so excellent, I am so happy for you!  Also, once 
    you move to Allston/Cambridge we'll be living right near one another :-)
    
    /danielle
              
456.52DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meTue Jun 25 1996 20:516
    
    Congrats Danielle and Dave!!!
    
    I'd say a DEChead gathering in the Hudson area is called for!!!
    
    How bout Thursday after work?
456.53 8^) LUDWIG::IRZAas they chased us out of townTue Jun 25 1996 21:025
    
      i'm off the rest of the week, but would be up to a dechead gathering.
    if something is arranged please call me at the homestead 508-883-7776
    with the details. 
                                                                 ^dave  
456.54MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREDancing Madly BackwardsWed Jun 26 1996 12:168
	congrats to ^dave.
	and, best of luck. 
	
	
	i can't make it thursday. if it's tonite, or friday i'd love to
	celebrate the good nooz.
	
	jay
456.55or tomorrow but jay can't goSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneWed Jun 26 1996 13:364
    
      da shoe for a gathering? I'm there. Can folks go tonight?
    
    Cath
456.56ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingWed Jun 26 1996 14:114
    Thursday night is the best for me.  I could go for a little while 
    tonight but I have to leave early for practice.
    
    /d
456.57NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Wed Jun 26 1996 14:215
i might be able to go for a few minutes tomorrow
night, but i'd have to leave early... CtW is gigging
at Tammany tomorrow night...

			da ve
456.58MKOTS3::MCONNORSWed Jun 26 1996 14:477
    
    
    Congrats to you both - Danielle and Dave!
    
    All the best! :-)
    
    MJ
456.59TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backWed Jun 26 1996 15:024
Fwiw, softball beckons 2nite and 2morrow..Friday (or Friday lunch) or I'll have
to make the "Welcome back" rage

WO
456.60good luck you guysSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneWed Jun 26 1996 15:1677
 
        Oh the Place You'll Go !
		From Theodore Geisel
    				... better known as Dr. Suess. 
	
	Congratulations!
	Today is your day.
	You're off to great places! 
	You're off and away!

	You have brains in your head.
	You have feet in your shoes.
	You can steer yourself
	any direction you chose.

	Oh, the places you'll go!  There is fun to be done!
	There are points to be scored.  There are games to be won.
	And the magical things you can do with that ball
	will make you the winning-est winner of all.
	Fame!  You'll be famous as famous can be,
	with the whole wide world watching you on TV.

	
	Except when they don't.
	Because, sometimes they won't.

	I'm afraid that some times
	you'll play lonely games too.
	Games you can't win
	'cause you'll play against you.


	All alone!
	Whether you like it or not,
	Alone will be something
	you'll be quite a lot.
	
	And when you're alone, there's a very good chance
	you'll meet things that scare you right out of your pants.
	There are some down the road between hither and yon,
	that can scare you so much that you won't want to go on.

	But on you will go
	though the weather be foul.
	On you will go
	though your enemies prowl.
	On you will go
	though the Hakken-Kraks howl.
	Onward up many 
	a frightening creek,
	though your arms may get sore 
	and your sneakers may leak.

	On and on you will hike.
	And I know you'll hike far
	and face up to your problems
	whatever they are.

	You'll get mixed up of course, as you already know.
	You'll get mixed up with many strange birds as you go.
	So, be sure when you step.
	Step with care and great tact
	and remember that Life's a Great Balancing Act.
	Just never forget to be dexterous and deft.
	And never mix up you right foot with your left.

	And will you succeed?
	Yes! You will, indeed!
	(98 and 3/4 percent guaranteed.)

	So....
	be your name Buxbaum or Bixby or Bray
	or Mordecai Ali Van Allen O'Shea,
	you're off to Great Places!
	Today is your day!
	Your mountain is waiting.
	So.... get on your way!   
456.61OUTPOS::EKLOFWaltzing with BearsWed Jun 26 1996 15:464
	Good luck to both Danielle and Dave!  It sounds like you're both doing
what you want.  :)

Mark
456.62Best wishesFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveWed Jun 26 1996 15:537
	Good luck Danielle 7 ^Dave!

	Hope you both get what you want out of life...


	Toby
456.63WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsWed Jun 26 1996 16:102
    very cool reply Cathysloan
    
456.64USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyWed Jun 26 1996 16:286
    
    Another good luck to both!  It sure seems like lot o folks are heading
    for the hills nowadays.  Enjoy!
    
    	Mark
     
456.65Shoe - Thursday 5:00PMDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meWed Jun 26 1996 17:162
    
    Thursday after work, at the Ol Shoe, is good for me.
456.66SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobelWed Jun 26 1996 20:473
congrats. Can't beat doing what you want to do.

jeff
456.67DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Jun 27 1996 13:482
    
    So are we on for tonight at the Horseshoe???
456.68yesSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneThu Jun 27 1996 15:271
    
456.69tonight - horseshoe - yumARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingThu Jun 27 1996 18:061
    I'm up for it
456.70DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Jun 27 1996 18:302
    
    Cool!  I'll be swinging over there about 5:30
456.718^)ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingFri Jun 28 1996 20:596
    Hey now, I'm outta here!  
    
    Thanks for the well wishes, everyone!  I'm leaving right now so I 
    won't see your email.  Please take care and always smile!
    
    /danielle
456.72 sniff... LUDWIG::IRZAas they chased us out of townWed Jul 03 1996 16:0914
    
        and now,
        the end is near.....
    
          well, this is it. my final transmission. thanks for all the well-
        wishes. had a grate time at the shoe last week. 'twas nice to see
        peter, adam, and dean-o, and danielle again. and *very* cool to
        meet cathy sloan. i absolutely love your reply a few back. i
        extracted it and hung it on my fridge 8^). hope to see some
        of ya's at the further festival at grate woods. 
       
    
                                                  Au Revoir,
                                                  ^dave