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Title:Take my advice, you'd be better off DEAD
Notice:It's just a Box of Rain
Moderator:RDVAX::LEVY::DEBESS
Created:Thu Jan 03 1991
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:580
Total number of notes:60238

125.0. "Bummer Note!" by CLOSUS::RYAN () Thu Feb 14 1991 03:34

Oh nuts!!!!! Just now my treasured Poetical Works with
Illustrations of Robert Burns dated 1808 just fell off the shelf
and totally destroyed the binding. Damn it anyway, oh well, guess
it's just a pocession, it's been a bad week!  Did you know he is the 
one that wrote Auld Lang Syne that we sing on New years?  and Green Grow
the Rushes? and the Ballad of Tam O'Shanter?  He was the best of the
Irish poets, his best are quite long but a small sample even
though you didn't ask:

To a kiss

Humid seal of soft affections,
Tenderest pledge of future bliss,
Dearest tie of young connections,
Love's first snowdrop, virgin kiss.

Speaking silence, dumb confession,
Passions birth, and infants play,
Dove-like fondness, chaste concession,
Glowing dawn of future day.

Sorrowing joy, adieu's last action
(Lingering lips must now disjoin),
What words can ever speak affection
So thrilling and sincere as Thine!

He would have liked the Boyz as although he was a very good husband, he
was a merry partier that often wrote of his love the mountains and rivers
and such.

  john
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125.1001 :-(SMURF::PETERTTue Sep 01 1992 20:276
    Best of luck rochelle!  How to look on the bright side?  Well, maybe
    George Bush will be in the same situation in a few months?
    
    Keep on truckin'
    PeterT
    
125.1002CSLALL::HENDERSONfrom a guitar...Tue Sep 01 1992 20:3910

 The deeper they get with this layoff stuff, the more people that I know and
 care about are getting hit...:-(





 Jum
125.1003SKYLRK::TINGGive Peace a Chance!!!Tue Sep 01 1992 21:515
But you just got here 8-(.  Good luck in your new beginning, Rochelle!
There *is* life after DEC!

peace,
t!ng
125.1004Good luck!MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Sep 01 1992 22:3910
    I'm sorry to hear this Rochelle, it was nice getting to know you over
    this short time. I gotta admit I didn't always get the tiltles either
    but you sound pretty alive and happy so I figured they were probably
    cool. 
    
    	I just read that Mike Lampson and Oso got hit also, I'm not used to
    seeing so many people leave notes at once.
    
    	Have fun Rochelle, Maybe I'll meet you at a show someday.
    Geoff  
125.1005:^(ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Sep 01 1992 23:173
    au revoir Rochelle, Mike and Oso...
    
    					da ve
125.1006either wayZENDIA::FERGUSONRoll me awayWed Sep 02 1992 13:1311
	I believe that I will be finding out the fate of my product
	at an 11:00 am meeting today.  I told 'em that I gotta split
	at 11:20 in order to make it up to the slash_go_away_lunch...

	
	So, what's it gonna be boys?  Yes, or no?

		.... story at 11am!


125.1007goodbye Rochelle, Mike, Oso, /OCTOBR::GRABAZSNot fade away!Wed Sep 02 1992 16:0610
	turning points in our lives are never easy - even when we
	initiate them ourselves.

	not knowing exactly what to say but wanting to say something...
	I hope things work out well for you down the road, that you
	look back on this turning point someday and know that it was
	for the best.  Good luck and best wishes to all of you.

	Debess
125.1008:-(OCTOBR::GRABAZSNot fade away!Wed Sep 02 1992 16:104
	i'm real bummed cause I'm missing /'s going-away lunch
	cause I have no way to get there...

125.1009LEDS::MRNGDU::YETTOdiscover the wonders of natureWed Sep 02 1992 16:137

I want to be sad for you Rochelle, but I can't be - thanks to your (usual)
uplifting note.  I know you'll shine wherever you are, enjoy yourself and
be sure to tell everyone you meet how lucky there are to know you.  ;^)

Lisa
125.1010CSCMA::M_PECKARWed Sep 02 1992 19:374
Wow, just when I was agetting so psyched because we had all sort of new virtual 
faces, they all disappeaer into virtual space!

Definitely a bummer...
125.1011EBBV03::SMITHwe were meant to be hereWed Sep 02 1992 20:157
	yes, this is depressing,

	I can almost compare the same feeling as when all my friends
	would go off to college in September, I never had the money to 
	go to school, all I could do is wave goodbye.  I get an empty
	feeling when I have to say goodbyes.
125.1012...STAR::SALKEWICZIt missed... therefore, I am Wed Sep 02 1992 20:2114
    Well folks,. its sad for us leaving too and we gets lumps in our
    throats too (especially reading about other lumps,.. I'm going to have
    to ask Derek if theres anything he can do about all these lumps :-)
    
    But rilly,... for me,.. I feel like it aint a "final" goodbye. I look
    forward to satying in touch with lots of you via e-mail, seeing
    folks at Ronnie/Slipknot/KIND gigs, getting together for parties
    (like the one I keep threatening to have),. you know,.. so..
    it aint necessarily "goodbye",.. as "til next time"
    
    	So,. 'til next time...
    
    							/Soko
    
125.1013Speckled moon, shiny star, upon this earth, I look afarSANFAN::SCOTT_ROALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflifeThu Sep 03 1992 19:4727
    Well HELLO everyone!  I'm still on the system til Fryday.  
    
    I want to thank all of you for all the wonderful replies.  It makes me
    feel really grate inside to think that I've made alot of you smile.  As
    for the strange titles, ummm, I make those up....there is no *real*
    meaning.  The only meaning of them is to make you smile.....and it
    seems I succeeded.  Actually, you know, in the beginning I was a little
    worried you would look down on me for kind of _mirroring_ the way some
    of the Dead lyrics go.....but, well, they were mine and someday I will
    take them and put them to use.
    
    If all goes right, I'm taking a train out of dreadful Reno, and I'm
    coming your way to attend the Slippin Outta Summer party.... Now how's
    that for adventure!!!  I've never been out of Nevada and California
    since I was about 2 yrs old....Imagine! *ME* all be myself going accross
    country!!  My mom is gonna hit the floor!!  So hopefully all will go
    right, they will cash my check (no credit card anymore to guarantee
    the check, could be a problem 8-\  but I'm confident everything will
    work out and I will begin a new adventure....and I will have the chance
    to meet alot of you.........:^)))))))))
    
    Till next time....
    
    	may all the rainbows shine upon you
    
    
    rochelle
125.1015Fixing an incorrect titleGR8FUL::WHITEWithout love in a dream...Thu Sep 03 1992 20:349
Re:<<< Note 125.1014 by SANFAN::SCOTT_RO "ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife" >>>

>    Heck!!  ruined that last word on my title...:-|

	That can be fixed after the fact, i.e., without redoing the note
	itself with:

	Notes> SET NOTE/TITLE="your words go here"

125.1016CXDOCS::BARNESThu Sep 03 1992 20:365
    keep an eye out for the friendly DEA man on board, rochelle
    they are in the habit lately of harrasing ANYONE that REMOTELY looks
    suspicious or fits "the profile".........better safe that sorry
    
    rfb
125.1017CSLALL::HENDERSONfrom a guitar...Thu Sep 03 1992 20:4911

 Good point RFB....Rode the train from SF to Boston last year and there were
 a bunch of people hauled off for all sorts of stuff.  They don't mess around.






 Jum
125.1018TLE::ABBOTJ. R. &quot;Bob&quot; Dobbs in 92Thu Sep 03 1992 21:0322
    I've never been hassled yet in travelling overseas.  In '89 they asked
    to look through my luggage, that was mainly because there was a lot of
    terrorism that year and they were stopping everyone.  But while waiting
    in line at customs in Logan this year (Logan seems to be much more
    paranoid than Heathrow) an officer was walking around with a sniffer
    dog, casually strolling by everyone.  The dog must have smelled Nigels
    dogs or cats on my backpack, as he sniffed it for a while.  I wasn't
    really worried since I had nothing to hide, and just told the guy that
    I had been staying in a house with dogs and cats.
    
    BTW, I think we've finally gotten our revenge on the Brits in the beer
    market.  For years they've been dumping bleedin Watney's Red Barrel on
    us because no one else in the world likes the stuff.  Can't even get it
    in England.  Other Watney's products are pretty good, so I don't know
    why they continue to make this vile brew.  But while doing some beer
    shopping in an off license shop, in between all these bottles of fine
    small brewery beers and Belgian trappistes was Mickey's Big Mouth, at
    99p (almost $2) a bottle.  I thought it was pretty funny, since Chimay
    Red was only about 30p more.
    
    Scott
    
125.1019CXDOCS::BARNESThu Sep 03 1992 21:078
    Even though we know what the DEA is looking for, that was not the
    intent of my warning. I meant to imply that the DEA WILL HARRASS you
    because of the way you look, act, walk, talk. and I should have said,
    "DON"T LET THEM!" tell 'em to shove off, you are an American and have
    certain rights, no matter what George says or the DEA does. 
    
    so there %^)
    rfb
125.1020the train speeds on, thinking becomes unclear, I feel myself flySANFAN::SCOTT_ROALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflifeThu Sep 03 1992 22:3112
    Thanks for the word of advice!  I won't  be wearing my tye-dyes on
    board for sure then!  I doubt they'll harrass me for that reason if
    they do.  I don't fit the profile of the "Deadhead" if there *really*
    is a profile...;^)  
    
    And you're right, I have certain rights, and if I want to alter my
    thinking, then that's MY choice and not George's, the DEA or even my
    mom's!  It's MINE!  And they have no reason to bother me if I'm not
    bothering anyone so they can all shove off and kiss my big toe, cuz,
    well, I'LL BEHAVE MYSELF!! *8^)
    
    rochelle
125.1021OCTOBR::GRABAZSNot fade away!Fri Sep 04 1992 00:3512
    
>    If all goes right, I'm taking a train out of dreadful Reno, and I'm
>    coming your way to attend the Slippin Outta Summer party....

	Rochelle - if you can possibly hold off on your plans for a few
	more weeks - WAIT TILL OCTOBER to come to New England...believe
	me, it would be well worth the wait!  It is the most spectacular
	of seasons here then!  (I'm sure Slipknot will be playing around
	here in October too ;-)

	Debess

125.1022LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Fri Sep 04 1992 12:598
    
    
    > (I'm sure Slipknot will be playing around October too)
    
    Sure will!  Tell you what Rochelle... Come out now, and STAY thru
    October!  
    
    Tree_one_of_the_many_who'd_be_glad_to_meet_ya
125.1023come back to New England mon !SLOHAN::FIELDSBetter make it through todayFri Sep 04 1992 13:107
    but Debess Slip-Out_of_Summer is such a wonderful event how can you
    discourge Rochelle from waiting ! just to see a few trees change color,
    and anyway the weather has kinda pushed up the color changing so she
    might get the best of both worlds :') and like tree said, stay ! and
    she can go see more Slipknot and Cross the Water shows !
    
    Chris
125.1024Red leaves, fallen acorns, the smell of autumn fills my noseSANFAN::SCOTT_ROALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflifeFri Sep 04 1992 19:025
    WAITING?!?!  HA!  Not a chance!!  Actually I'm looking at staying for 6
    weeks, so I guess I'll catch it all!  I heard the colors were changing
    early this year, that's cool I'll be able to catch it.
    
    rochelle    who_can't_wait_to_meet_all_my_new_friends!
125.1025To take a step up, one must first step forward....SANFAN::SCOTT_ROALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflifeFri Sep 04 1992 21:2821
    Well, it's come time to sign off and say goodbye.  I have a frown upon
    my heart doing that, but well, there is a warm smile INside knowing
    I will be meeting many of you next weekend!  I have the money in hand
    (god only knows how the hell I got my mom to front me the money!) and
    am heading to pick up my ticket!!
    
    Thank you all for all the warm wishes and allowing me to become a part
    of GRATEFUL.  I have met many wonderful people in here and I JUST CAN'T
    WAIT TIL I GET THERE!!!!  I have enjoyed my time with Digital and I'm
    walking away with greater knowledge than when I first started.  I have
    met many wonderful people in the company, and I hope they can make it
    thru all the downsizing.
    
    Welp, this isn't really goodbye, it's hello to my new adventures......
    Hopefully we'll have the boys back on the road in no time, and may
    Jerry get well soon!
    
    I love you all, and bid you goodnight....
    
    
    rochelle
125.1026Help!NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Sep 04 1992 21:5242
I'm starting to get really bummed out.  It looks like the
one or two guys that were going to help me move next 
weekend are blowing me off - i.e. they don't return my
calls.

I have a rilly big truck reserved for the 12th (and 13th,
if I need it) and we're getting absolutely everything 
into boxes this week and next, but I need some muscle.
I'd really like to get it over with so I can still go to
S.O.S., but I'm going to need some help if that's going
to happen.

I was thinking of offering to supply the beer, but I 
figure that's not a productive way to go about driving 
between Amherst NH and Littleton MA - i.e. we don't want
any accidents....   So, instead of buying a case/keg,
I thought I'd offer to buy a ticket to S.O.S. for all
of my volunteers who are generous enough to help me out.
I figure that way I can show my appreciation, and at the
same time motivate the crew to get things done...so I can
go!

I have about eight rooms of stuff to move.  I'm not the
least bit chauvinistic - your help is welcome regardless
of gender.  We accept muscles of all sizes...after all,
size doesn't really count, right?  Right? ;-) ;-)

So, please, Please, PLEASE send me mail if you think you
can help me out.  I figure the more bodies the faster 
it'll get done.  Makes sense, right?

Then, if we get it all moved soon enough, we'll hook up 
the stereo, plug in the fridge, and throw an impromptu
pre-S.O.S. party in Littleton.

Most humbly yours (especially if you volunteer), and
eternally Grateful,

tim

DTN: 226-5108/508-486-5108
Home:603-672-2816
125.1027OCTOBR::GRABAZSNot fade away!Tue Sep 08 1992 12:3712
>    but Debess Slip-Out_of_Summer is such a wonderful event how can you
>    discourge Rochelle from waiting ! just to see a few trees change color,


	you're absolutely correct Chris...I just couldn't contain myself
	because it's getting so close to the best month of the year
	and I just had to say something...but you're right - she should
	do both!

	Debess

125.1028I understand Debess, it is the best time of the year !SLOHAN::FIELDSBetter make it through todayTue Sep 08 1992 13:018
    gee Im right ! wow !!! ;')
    
    	anyway she needs to see the green before the colors to rilly see
    just how wonderful it is !
    
    and SOS will be a not to miss day ! (pray for lots-o-sun)
    
    Chris
125.1029SELL3::ROBERTSa blinding flash o'the obviousTue Sep 08 1992 16:153
    If October is coming - it must be time for a Debess_Pahty!
    
    c
125.1030keep October 10 weekend open...OCTOBR::GRABAZSNot fade away!Tue Sep 08 1992 16:5311
>    If October is coming - it must be time for a Debess_Pahty!
    

	yes Carol ... this is true ... stay tuned for an
	imminent announcement (I'm trying to convince Guntis
	that it doesn't matter if I'm employed or not - we
	still -need- to have an Oktoberfest ;-) )

	Debess

125.1031BACK TO SCHOOL DAMMITEBBV03::SMITHwe were meant to be hereTue Sep 15 1992 15:313
	School starts tonight, major bummer! no more partyin til
	May..... :-(
125.1032DEDSHO::CLARKEver breathe oxygen, kid?Tue Sep 15 1992 15:336
School's going to stop you from partying?  Good lord, man, you can't simply
make your brain cells go cold turkey like that!

;^)

- dc
125.1033EBBV03::SMITHwe were meant to be hereWed Sep 16 1992 13:574
re -1
	Yes, it's hard not to party ;-)  After I get mt degree I'll
	have 5 years of partyin to catch up on :-)
125.1034Oops, I guess Tull is a month after Hedges - study time! 8-)SKYLRK::TINGGive Peace a Chance!!!Wed Sep 16 1992 17:5616
Yeah, school starts again next week.  This quarter, I'm taking Spanish,
Advanced System Administration, and Korn Shell Programming.  I think
Spanish is going to be the hard one 8-) (I took French in high school).
I decided that Spanish is a good language to know in California.  To
get all my partying in before school starts, I'm starting my weekend
tonight with the Rads in Santa Cruz, tommorrow night is acoustic Rads
in San Francisco, then electric Rads Friday night, Miles Davis Tribute
tribute Saturday night, Ben & Jerry's One World One Heart Festival in
Golden Gate Park Sunday afternoon (featuring the Band, Jefferson Starship,
Michelle Shocked, Pele Juju), and Wynton Marsalis in Berkeley Sunday
night.  Then school is every Monday, Tuesday, and Thrusday night (which,
of course, leaves Wednesday night open for shows 8-).  Next Wednesday is
Michael Hedges at Great American Music Hall, and the Wednesday after
that is Jethro Tull at the Warfield.  I think I'll have to study at
the stoplights driving to work ;-).  School??  Partytime!!  8-)  It's
the attitude, I guess 8-).
125.1035Hedges is awesome!DEDHED::SpineTom SpineWed Sep 16 1992 19:294
Enjoy Michael Hedges, T!ng!  I've only seen him once, about 2 years ago...
it was without a doubt one of THE BEST concerts I've ever seen.

tms
125.1036NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Wed Sep 16 1992 19:3711
    Hedges is impressive.  We saw him about a year ago, and hung around
    after the show and even met him...  He just wandered out into the hall
    from backstage before the crowd was gone.  Tampa Theatre only seats a
    few hundred people, so it was a very cozy atmosphere to begin with.
    
    I would definitely go see him anywhere I could find the chance...
    
    Have fun!!
    
    tim
    
125.1037CSCMA::M_PECKARWed Sep 16 1992 20:044
A grate way to learn spanich is to watch the spanish programmed TV stations.
They have one here (Chanell 27) and they talk real slow, especially on the soap 
operas. the vocab they use is perfect for first year spanich studints!
125.1038DEDHED::SpineTom SpineWed Sep 16 1992 20:076
> A grate way to learn spanich...

Tell me, Fog, is spanich something like spanish spinach? :-)

tms

125.1039CSCMA::M_PECKARWed Sep 16 1992 20:146
:-)


Spainiards cannot pronounce the "sh" sound.

:-)
125.1040Some fine entertainment!LJOHUB::GILMOREYou know and I know it's time for changeWed Sep 16 1992 20:184
    I instantly think of Cheech & Chong
    
    :) :) :)
    sparky
125.1041Me brain be fried...DRINKS::WEISSBrain surgery with a monkey wrench.Wed Sep 16 1992 20:283
And are studints numbers that have lots of girlfriends?

Dave (math/cs-weenie...)
125.1042SKYLRK::TINGGive Peace a Chance!!!Wed Sep 16 1992 21:269
>A grate way to learn spanich is to watch the spanish programmed TV stations.
>They have one here (Chanell 27) and they talk real slow, especially on the soap 
>operas. the vocab they use is perfect for first year spanich studints!

I don't have a TV (no time! 8-) and I can't get Channel 27 from the Bay
Area even if I *had* an IB 8-).  I think I'll just hang out at Mexican
town (downtown San Jose ;-).  Of course, Mexican Spanish is to Spain
Spanish what Canadian French is to France French, so if my Spanish sounds
a little warped, you'll know why 8-)!
125.1043DEDHED::SpineTom SpineWed Sep 16 1992 21:2811
> And are studints numbers that have lots of girlfriends?

Ha!  Either that or they might be carpenter's numbers - perhaps a measure
of wall studs!

	"Why that's a mightly big house you're building there, Fred."

	"Ayup, why it took me three hundred and twenty studints just
	to frame out the first floor."

tms :-)
125.1044Didn't bother me, i couldn't say half their names eitherMR4DEC::WENTZELLIfMusicBeTheFoodOfLove,PlayOn!!!Thu Sep 17 1992 14:056
>Spainiards cannot pronounce the "sh" sound.

Can't pronounce words (or names) that begin with "sc" either.  When I lived in 
Spain my name became Escott. 8^)

Scott
125.1045AAAACK!!RDVAX::MOLLENHAUERCenturion! Peel me a grape!Thu Sep 17 1992 19:209
    Well, my friend Shane is hitchin' home from North Carolina - he
    was hoping to be here by now but he just called from f***ing 
    Harrisburg, PA!!!:-(  UGH!!  Hopefully he'll get a lot closer
    in the next 4 hours or so or I may have a loooooong drive ahead
    of me - and I only got 4 hours of sleep last night!!  Everyone
    send pick up hitchhiker vibes to motorists travelling from PA 
    to this area!!!
    
    chaotic individual
125.1046Shane! Come Back Shane!LJOHUB::GILMOREYou know and I know it's time for changeThu Sep 17 1992 19:2916
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125.1047RDVAX::MOLLENHAUERCenturion! Peel me a grape!Thu Sep 17 1992 19:303
    Thanks Sparks - I knew I could count on you!:-)
    
    c_i
125.1048CXDOCS::BARNESThu Sep 17 1992 19:368
    GEEEESUUUS T!ng, how do you do it!? I'm havin a terrible time keeping
    up with my JOB, an English oriented 32 week course every Tues and
    Thurs WITH intense homework, my wife and kids (lemme tell ya 'bout kids...) 
    the high country, all my piece-o-sh*t cars, the end of summer/
    beginning of our all too short fall, the remainder of fishing/start of
    hunting, sexdrugsandrockandroll, taping,.......i just re-depressed
    myself.
    rfb
125.1049SKYLRK::TINGGive Peace a Chance!!!Thu Sep 17 1992 20:1313
>    GEEEESUUUS T!ng, how do you do it!? 

Easy.  I don't have the kids!  8-)  Last night after the Rads show at the
Catalyst, Reggie walked through the crowd.  He stopped to say to me with a
grin, "I always know I'm on the west coast when I see you - you're my west
coast barometer!"  8-)  Gee, it was good to find out I was useful for some
stuff.  I gave him a hug!  I don't think I mind being a barometer - how
hard can the job be??  I hope Reggie doesn't get too disillusioned when
I don't show up for the shows Saturday and Sunday night 8-}.  There is just
too much good music going on around here to catch them all!  8-( 8->

peace,
t!ng
125.1050Pneumococcus BluesNECSC::LEVYMon Sep 21 1992 17:0712
    Well, I've got my own bummer goin'.
    
    I started feeling a little under the weather about a week and a half
    ago, but though nothing of it.  Started running a fever, and continued
    to try to push through.  I've been out of work since last Thursday and
    saw the doc for the 2nd time today.  He had a chest X-Ray done and,
    yep, I've got Pneumonia!  Yuck.
    
    Medicine, rest, etc.  Gotta stay home for another week.
    
    	~dave
    
125.1051CSLALL::HENDERSONSqueak I tell you, squeakMon Sep 21 1992 17:139

 Wow, ~  take it easy and get better!





 Jum sending healing vibes in your direction
125.1052No partying for you for a while!LJOHUB::GILMOREYou know and I know it's time for changeMon Sep 21 1992 17:239
    Sorry dude.
    
    Want some chicken soup?  I'm making some tonight!
    
    	Get well soon!
    
    			sparky
    
    :)
125.1053SKYLRK::TINGGive Peace a Chance!!!Mon Sep 21 1992 19:364
Wow, sounds serious!  Hope you get better soon, Dave!!

peace,
t!ng
125.1054CXDOCS::BARNESMon Sep 21 1992 21:303
    take care Probz....that stuff can be bad, even for a health nut such as
    yerself! %^) seriously...TAKE CARE!!!!
    rfb
125.1055The BumsAWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Thu Oct 01 1992 12:326
    
    The Red Sox have clinched LAST PLACE for the first time since this fan
    has been around :^/
    
    Hogan who feels they needed a kick in the ass anyway, and isn't that
    sad about it
125.1056Ready for Bs and Cs season...MR4DEC::WENTZELLIfMusicBeTheFoodOfLove,PlayOn!!!Thu Oct 01 1992 12:5814
    >The Red Sox have clinched LAST PLACE for the first time since this fan
    >has been around :^/
    

Yeah, too bad Frank Viola couldn't salvage some dignity for the team and 
complete the no-hitter last night.  The lead-off hitter in the bottom of the 
9th got Toronto's first (and only) hit of the night.  Still an admirable effort 
though.  Oooops sorry, wrong notefile...  8^)

Scott

PS - I'm actually going to game last two games of the season, against the 
     dreaded Yanks, this weekend.  Probobly wear a paper bag over my head 
     though...
125.1057EBBV03::SMITHwe were meant to be hereThu Oct 01 1992 13:155
> Probobly wear a paper bag over my head 
> though...

	har har, heh heh!!  what a riot
	
125.1058I look for your bag :-)SALEM::MARTIN_SDepartment of Redundancy Dept.Thu Oct 01 1992 13:2215
    
    
    psssssst!...hey, Scott...(whisper)..I'll be there Sunday, too!..sshhh
    
    
    (My Dad is friends with Mike Stanley (C) of the Yanks, so we get
    freebies when they're in town)
    
    Steve-O_who_refuses_to_wear_a_bag_on_his_
    head_because_it'll_mess_up_his_"do"  :-)
    
    
    
    
    
125.1059That's "I'LL" look for your bag...SALEM::MARTIN_SDepartment of Redundancy Dept.Thu Oct 01 1992 13:305
    
    
    :-)
    
    
125.1060Transcending ForwardLJOHUB::GILMOREIt's time for ChangeMon Oct 12 1992 11:5410
    My boss' father passed away over the weekend . . . he had suffered
    from Alzheimer's for years and then developed pneumonia a few
    weeks ago.  My boss was "waiting" . . . but still, I know it'll
    be hard on her.
    
    Never easy losing someone you love, but it really makes you
    appreciate those that are alive even more.
    
    sparky_bein'_bummed_for_my_ultra_cool_boss
    
125.1061Hug 'em!SUBPAC::MAGGARDWashaUffitze &amp; drive me to FirenzeTue Oct 13 1992 19:4818
>     My boss' father passed away over the weekend . . . he had suffered
>     from Alzheimer's for years and then developed pneumonia a few
>     weeks ago.  My boss was "waiting" . . . but still, I know it'll
>     be hard on her.

I know how you feel.

This spring, my girlfriend lost her mother to a slow/debilitating terminal 
illness.  It had been coming for almost 6 years--Dori had spent the last
three years going to the hospital every weekend to see her mother.  It was
really tough for her to deal with losing her mother, even though everyone
knew it was coming.  It was also tough for me, since I never had the chance
to get to know her mother.  What did I do about it?  Offer a shoulder to 
cry on and give lots of hugs!

Hugs are good!

- jeff
125.1062just bums me outBOOKIE::BOOSWed Oct 21 1992 23:515
    
    	Saw another 3-car accident on the way home from work today.  I 
    	only live 4 miles from work, but this is the third or fourth 
    	accident I've seen in the past couple months.  One time a car
    	was completely flipped over...
125.1063VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindThu Oct 22 1992 13:4610
Yeah, a two-car accident happened right outside my house last
night ... from the conditions of the two vehicles, I worry about
the occupants.

It's probably just my imagination, but does it seem like people
are driving even more frantically and aggressively than usual,
lately?  Maybe the pre-winter blahs combined with economic worry?
Strange days ....

- DC
125.1064CXDOCS::BARNESThu Oct 22 1992 13:555
    I've heard that's how all ya'll drive back there!! %^)
    really not a funny topic, we have the same problem here in Colo Springs
    with people running redlites. 
    
    rfb
125.1065It really a bummer driving with a one year old...CSCMA::M_PECKARAs the decnet turnsThu Oct 22 1992 13:5711

>are driving even more frantically and aggressively than usual,


I think so. I've been getting cut off more than usual of late, and if you 
looked at my car, you'd think twice about cutting me off, since it has an 
implicit "Hit me, I need the insurance money" bumper sticker.

I dunno, I think its because the thousand points of light-bulbs are all burned 
out.
125.1066it must be scary out there when this can happen !SLOHAN::FIELDSBetter make it through todayThu Oct 22 1992 14:017
    >I think so. I've been getting cut off more than usual of late, and if
    
    
    and this coming from the man that invented the breakdownlane cutoff !
    
    
    :')
125.1067Then there's the 95mph on the way to Big Rock & Back . . .LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's time for ChangeThu Oct 22 1992 14:0712
    Taking route 9 to 495 north every day -- I'll tell ya, there are
    some A$$hole drivers out there recently!!!!   Like the type that just 
    change lanes, without looking, nearly causing an accident!
    
    There was a 2-car accident on route 2 last night right at the
    Acton/Maynard exit -- right before I got there.  They were in
    such a rush to be hours late . . . 
    
    I usually go 65 - 75 mph to work, and I get passed like I'm
    standing still!  Rediculous!
    
    sparky
125.1068MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Thu Oct 22 1992 14:2811
	Yeah, there have been a lot of accidents lately. Yesterday
	morning on the news there was mention of a major one up
	the street from my house, at Rts 20 and 31, requiring the
	life-helicopter :-/   And on the way home, I was delayed
	by a multi-car multi-ambulance accident on Rt 20 in Auburn.

	Ever notice how people drive *really bad* when there's a full moon ?
	
	(But yesterday, the moon ws about 1/4 full).

	Ken
125.1069Fasten up! and use sign language! :-)EBBV03::SMITHI've got a peaceful easy feelingThu Oct 22 1992 14:3015
	Everyone PLEASE fasten up out there! 

	I go around the Concord rotary every
	morning, lately it's gotten so I just
	automatically roll down my window upon
	arrival at the rotary, and hang my 
	middle finger out the window for the 
	period of time I travel around the 
	rotary, when I get on to Rt 2 I roll 
	my window back up! :-)  My friend usually
	is there when I am and we flip eachother
	off as well.  It's getting to be a 
	tradition! 
	
125.1070In a GREAT mood today!!! :)LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's time for ChangeThu Oct 22 1992 16:5718
	
    >>Ever notice how people drive *really bad* when there's a full moon ?
	
    >>	(But yesterday, the moon ws about 1/4 full).
    
    
    The moon affects people in different ways.  I believe it mostly has
    to do with your sign (if you're Fire, Water or Earth).  I'm a Fire
    sign.  When the moon waxes (from New to Full) I'm in a wonderful
    mood, things generally go right, etc.  When it Waines (Full to New)
    I'm a clutz, in a bad mood, drive bad, etc.
    
    I think Fire and Earth signs are ok with the waxing moon, but
    Water signs aren't.  They boil . . . 
    
    This is my belief -- not necessarily fact.
    
    sparky
125.1071Concord Rotary rules...CSCMA::M_PECKARAs the decnet turnsThu Oct 22 1992 17:3016
Article XVI, Paragraph's 32 & 33, Commonwealth Of Massachusetts general Law
18974, adopted Oct 22nd, 1959 by the Massachusetts State Legislature and signed
into law by Governer Tobin, December 2nd, 1959... 

	Yield right of way to traffic in the rotary unless you are entering the
rotary from Rte. 2 eastbound or Rte 2 westbound. Motorists in the rotary have
the right of way over fleeing inmates at the state prison, but motorists
entering the rotary from Commonwealth Ave must yield to loose Doberman's from
the State Police K9 unit, but only when they are in pursuit of fleeing inmates.
	
	Motorists traveling with other motorist's, pedestrian's, Doberman's, or
State Police's blood on their vehicles have the right of way over all motorists
excepts those on Rte 2 Eastbound during the hours of 7:00 A.M to 9:00 A.M
Monday through Fridays except holidays and those traveling on Rte 2 Westbound
during the hours of 4:00 P.M. to 6:00 P.M. Moday through fridays except
holidays. 
125.1072EBBV03::SMITHI've got a peaceful easy feelingThu Oct 22 1992 18:017
	hee hee hee

	That's a riot! oh so true :-))))))

	I enter from Commonwealth ave myself, have 
	seen inmates, but no K-9's. :-) 
125.1073WHY ME ?!?CUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorThu Oct 22 1992 18:4718
    The more some things change, the more they remain the same!
    
    I just got off the phone with my mechanic.  Brought the car in 'cuz I
    noticed the little pulley thingie that the crankshaft is connected to
    was a-wobblin'.  Hmmmm, he sez, never saw anything like that before.
    
    Well, now he's tellin' me it's gonna cost me several hundred $$, and I
    won't get my car back till the middle of next week.
    
    The good news is that I brought it in before the gear thingies
    exploded, which woulda wrecked the crankshaft, snapped the timing belt,
    and generally cost me most of the moving engine parts.
    
    And this is why I spent several thousand $$ on a nice car just four
    months ago, right?
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1074EBBV03::SMITHI've got a peaceful easy feelingThu Oct 22 1992 18:535
	Bobbb,

	Try to get a 2nd opinion if you can, sounds
	a little weird!
125.1075the engine's in pieces all over his floorCUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorThu Oct 22 1992 18:5811
    That WAS a 2nd opinion ... the guy who does my routine maintenance
    pointed out the problem, and I then took it to the mechanic that does
    all my other work, cuz I've known him for years and trust him to do a
    good job.
    
    I just don't get it ... this thing was in GREAT shape when I bought it.
    
    Mebbe I should change my p'name to "Certified Ski & Car Destructor"  :^(
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1076MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Thu Oct 22 1992 19:3011
re:         <<< Note 125.1070 by LJOHUB::GILMORE "It's time for Change" >>>

>    The moon affects people in different ways.  I believe it mostly has
>    to do with your sign (if you're Fire, Water or Earth).  I'm a Fire

	I'm scorpio, is that fire, water or earth ?   I tend to get
	a bit ansi around full moons, though not always.

	Aaaaaaaaaoooooooooooooooooooooo ;-)

	Ken
125.1077BizzaroLJOHUB::GILMOREIt's time for ChangeThu Oct 22 1992 19:3117
    Bobbb . . . 
    
    I know you have a Sentra too.  I've NEVER heard of something like
    this happening.  Did your mechanic tell you WHY it happened?
    
    Who do you go to?  My mechanic is PHIL (Phil's service in Stow) --
    who only works on Nissans/Datsuns.  Great guy  . . .  and he tells
    me WHY things happen -- especially if I can avoid having them happen
    again in the future.
    
    What year is it?
    
    Hmmmmm -- sounds odd.
    
    Sorry dude.
    
    sparky
125.1078I always follow the rulesOK4ME::CAFE1Mike Lampson - lampson@eisner.decus.orgFri Oct 23 1992 11:3110
        Re: .1071
        
        Thanks for the rules.  Since I'm staying at the HoJo almost
        directly across Rt 2 from the prison and driving through the
        rotary to get to AKO1 for the next 4 weeks, they will come
        in handy.
        
        _Mike
        
        ;^}
125.1079I should get a job doing QC for a car company!CUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorFri Oct 23 1992 12:2233
    >>   <<< Note 125.1077 by LJOHUB::GILMORE "It's time for Change" >>>
    >>                            -< Bizzaro >-
    
    I'll say ... nobody's ever heard of this kind of failure, apparently. 
    That's why it's gonna take him a week to get a replacement part (and I
    get to drive a Dodge Aires-K rent-a-wreck ... GAK!!).
    
    My knowledge of automobilia is rather limited, but basically what it
    boils down to is that there's this bolt that holds a pulley in place. 
    And the bolt somehow loosened up, causing the pulley to wobble, causing
    the bolt to strip it's threads, causing the pulley to wobble more.
    
    Inside the pulley is a gear, about four inches in diameter and an inch
    or so thick.  It's got a slot in the center hole that's keyed to the
    crankshaft, and somehow the gear has something to do with the timing
    belt.
    
    Because of the wobbling of the pulley, the key slot in the gear started
    to wear, causing the gear to eventually get slightly out of mesh with
    whatever it was gearing, and slowly wearing the teeth rounded.  This
    gear is the part that's holding everything up, cuz it "never breaks" so
    nobody ever stocks it, and it'll take a few days to get here by the
    usual ordering routine.  All he's gotta do is replace the bolt and the
    gear, and - while he's in there, he's gonna replace the timing belt (the
    car's within a couple hundred miles of 50K).  It ain't as bad as it
    sounded on the phone, but it's still a pain in the a$$ (and still a few
    hundred $$ when you throw in the cost of a rent-a-wreck).
    
    Just my luck ... who else could manage to break a car part that supposedly
    "never breaks" ?!?
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1080car 1-oh-1SLOHAN::FIELDSBetter make it through todayFri Oct 23 1992 12:285
    gee Bobbb didn't ya know a flat tire can cause the timing belt to
    break also ? matter of fact everything leads to the timing belt, even
    the cigerette light burning out !
    
    :'o
125.1081Rotate those tires or the timing belt will snap!LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's time for ChangeFri Oct 23 1992 13:049
    Good thing you're getting the timing belt replaced while they're
    in there!  Very smart move Bobbb!
    
    I don't know what's worse -- your car being broken, or having to
    drive a ***sheesh**** DODGE!
    
    You poor soul.
    
    :( sparky
125.1082You *DO* know why they call'em DODGE's dontcha?SUBPAC::MAGGARDWashaUffitze &amp; drive me to FirenzeFri Oct 23 1992 14:4512


        Yeah, I drove a Dogde once...
        



        ONCE!!!
        
        - jeff
        
125.1083Watchit buddy:-)SALES::GKELLERJust Say Anything (To get elected)Fri Oct 23 1992 16:126
Hey, watch it.  My wife has a Dodge.  It's got 104K on it and still starts 
first time every time.

Wouldn't have been my first choice for a car but it runs great.

Geoff
125.1084Arrggh!CSCMA::M_PECKARAs the decnet turnsFri Oct 23 1992 17:1027
Yesterday, I received the scariest letter in my life.

Some of you might remember me getting on my soapbox some time in the past about
a law which went into effect in Massachusetts some time ago which allows
certain paying customers access (for a small handling fee) to certain of the
states' data bases. 

Well, yesterday, I got a letter from a Ford Motor Company marketing division
advertising add-on products for the '84 Ford I bought used from another state.

The only way they could have gotten my name, address, car model, make, year, 
_and_ Vehicle Identification Number was from the state.

I'm really upset by this. I believe there should be free access to all to 
public information but I do not believe that private information should be made 
public without the option for the individual to request his data be "unlisted".

I have no recourse on this. The People have spoken and said through their 
representatives in the Massachusetts state legislature that this is Good. 

One thing you can guarantee I will do is write a letter to this marketing 
division manager and clearly speak my mind...

Its bad enough my phone is barraged almost daily by mass marketeers who have 
targeted me by other means as a white middle class homeowner in the suburbs.

:-/
125.1085The paper wasted . . . LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's got WICCABILITY!Fri Oct 23 1992 17:1916
    Not only do they get your name & assorted information from
    the registry, but it seems the post office also gives out
    that information.
    
    It is pretty scary.
    
    You can request to be taken off the mailing list (from each
    place that sends you info), so they don't turn around and
    sell your name to someone else.
    
    I was in Marketing for two different publishing companies -
    can you believe that some places can get $.15 a name?
    
    Rediculous
    
    
125.1086CSCMA::M_PECKARAs the decnet turnsFri Oct 23 1992 17:399
    
>    You can request to be taken off the mailing list (from each >    place
that sends you info), so they don't turn around and >    sell your name to
someone else. 
    
While this is true of mass amrketing companies and private companies, I don't
believe this is true with the registry... 

Somebody. PLEASE tell me I'm wrong...
125.1087Scariest letter of your life...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Mon Oct 26 1992 11:1711
You have obviously never received the one that starts out with:

"Greetings from the President of the United States..."

If and when you think about voting for Perot, think about this letter, and your
kids.

tim

P.S. It used to come from your local draft board...;-)

125.1088VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenMon Oct 26 1992 14:421
    I don't understand.  Can you explain a little bit?
125.1089Conscription CorespondenceNAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Mon Oct 26 1992 22:1811
    Up until the late  70's, when the Selective Service was still in full
    swing, a candidate (male, 19-year-old) for the draft was notified to
    show up for induction into the military by a letter that began thusly:
    
    "Greetings from the President of the United States,"
    
    which, since we were still at 'policing action' (i.e.  War) with Viet
    Nam, could be loosely translated into "kiss your ass goodbye".
    
    tim
    
125.1090NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Mon Oct 26 1992 22:2212
    Oops, almost forgot the Perot reference.  Ross is extremely
    pro-military, and it would not surprise me that he would bring back the
    draft in a heartbeat.  Considering his inflamatory and confrontational
    style, I expect he'll have no trouble coming up with a reason.
    
    He's a hawk.  A right-wing, pro-military, flag-waving, nationalist.
    I think nationalists should all be classified 1-A, irregardless of age,
    sex, or health.  Let them get shot at first, and maybe it'll give 'em
    some REAL religion!
    
    tim
    
125.1091my $.02 on Ross and the militaryJURAN::CLARKI Was WarnedTue Oct 27 1992 12:1213
    I don't know about Ross and the military. He left the Naval 
    Academy when he found it to be full of phonies and unpleasant
    people. Having done the same thing, I can see where he's
    coming from. He's not 100% pro-military.
    
    Ross says we're involved in an economic war with the rest of the
    world. I agree 100%. Both Digital and the U.S. have been slow 
    to respond to the changes that technology is bringing to the
    world. We need to be fast and efficient to compete with the rest 
    ofthe world. A large military bureaucracy sucks up a lot energy
    and resources out of the nation's economy; resources we need to
    compete with countries who are eating our lunch today because they
    don't have huge military budgets.
125.1092VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenTue Oct 27 1992 12:343
    He's right about that... we are in an economic war... but we mustn't
    go overboard and cut defense too much... it's a dangerous world out 
    there.
125.1093Consider this, for a change...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Oct 27 1992 18:1972
You can make a very convincing argument, if you so choose, that ALL wars
are econmically based.  That's not the issue.  The issue is more one of
arbitration, negotiation, concession and  cooperation, both within our
own country and it's government, as well as with our fellow sovereign 
countries.  Every major war in the past century or four has been based
around the clash of competing nations for dwindling economic oppotunities
and resources.  World War II: why do you think Germany wanted the rest
of Europe, and so they invaded it?  To convert them to the Aryan Nazi faith?
I don't think so!  Same for the Japanese in 1941.  How about that white
minority in South Africa: why do you suppose they don't want to give up
control of the government to the black majority?  BECAUSE THEY'RE ROLLING 
IN IT!  Ferdinand Marcos?  Francisco Franco?  That ugly little bugger in
Panama?  Dun Xiao Ping?  Clarence Thomas?  I don't think these folks worry
about balancing their checkbooks.

So, whom would you rather have out there working towards an equitable and
stable economic environment, that can at least give us a shot at making
some bucks and staying afloat?  The environmental president who vetoes the
Clean Air Act, and whose fortune was amassed in the Oil Industry,
with his trusty, albeit learning disabled V.P.?  Indeed, George, who
can we trust?  How about the abrasive billionaire computer executive
with a history of walking away from tight  situations, whether
it's the Naval Academy, General Motors, or the Presidential
race itself?  I mean, the man's very funny, and he says a lot of righteous 
things, but can you imagine sitting across the table from that
face, trying to work out a deal?  Picture Ross as the guy you meet
when you go work out a deal for a new car, or the person across the
desk from you at the IRS Audit!  Ross' public image has been anything
but one of peacemaker...he wins the hard way, and he's been telling us
that every night for a month now.  He worries me.  Luckily, he has about
the same chance of winning that John Anderson did, with the sole
exception that I liked Anderson.

Better yet, which one most closely resembles what you believe to be
the direction that the country should head towards overall, while 
simultaneously keeping us from incinerating it in the mean time?
Much of our values as people with interests like those in this file
see a different way of living in this country than we now must tolerate.
Which man looks to you like the first step out of this vale of
tears toward a more progressive society, and not just a more
progressive pocketbook?

We have a chance to have a voice in this election - we haven't had that
since Carter won.  The misguided pranksters who still manage to haunt the 
Republican party have contrived to mass-hypnotise the country throughout 
most of the recent presidential elections with red herrings about flag 
burning, Willy Horton, family values, and God knows what other symphony of 
media trash.  But not this time.  This time it's a close race.  This time
there's a reason to vote, simply because that vote can make a difference
by overturning the cruel regime that has driven us not only into the ground,
but underground socially as well, with hyperbolic rhetoric about
Evil Empires and the War on Drugs!

I believe that a vote for Perot is wasted not simply because it might 
draw the race between Bush and Clinton closer without chance of electing
the candidate of choice, but because it's a vote for a single-issue 
charicature whose values otherwise directly conflict with ours.  He
hardly resembles even a remote vision of my viewpoint on life.
I think he'd make a fine Secretary of Abrasion, if we ever need one.

Clinton isn't the ideal candidate.  I don't like some of the things he
has said and done.  He is what he embodies in his own history: a
compromise.  But he is, nevertheless, a compromise I can live with.
And he's the one that comes closest to the direction I'd like to see
the country as a whole take, and not only with respect to the economy.

Even if he didn't inhale.

This time we have a voice.  Say something.  Say Goodbye to the old 
establishment, forever.  Vote for Clinton.

tim
125.1094VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindTue Oct 27 1992 18:347
Amen, Tim.

I've never understood it when people say that being president is nothing
more than running a business.  What are we, citizens of a democracy
or human resources?

- Dave
125.1095CSCMA::M_PECKARAs the decnet turnsTue Oct 27 1992 19:2416
RE: <<< Note 125.1093 by NAC::TRAMP::GRADY "Short arms, and deep pockets..." >>>

Nice werds, tim. After reading that, I convinced. Think I'll vote for Clinton.  

 :-)

>countries.  Every major war in the past century or four has been based
>around the clash of competing nations for dwindling economic oppotunities
>and resources.  World War II: why do you think Germany wanted the rest

Yes, Resources are one of the three reason we war. Resources are power, but so
is religious hegemony and just plain stoopid male ego. Power-hungry leaders
wanting more power, etc.

Gold, God, Glory, in that order, are the reason we war, the legacy left to us by
Bush, Hitler, Columbus, Marco Polo, Ceasar, Moses... 
125.1096VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenTue Oct 27 1992 19:251
    how are we treated?
125.1097I won't know which way to go until 11/3YNGSTR::STANLEYSometimes you get shown the light...Tue Oct 27 1992 19:327
I'm beginning to lean towards Clinton even though I don't agree with all of his
policies.  While the Libertarians most closely match my views, I really don't
want Bush to win again.  I'll most likely vote for the Libs or Reps in the
congressional race.  I wouldn't feel too comfortable with a Dem president *and*
a Dem controlled congress.

		Dave
125.1098TLE::ABBOTJ. R. &quot;Bob&quot; Dobbs in 92Tue Oct 27 1992 19:407
    Another reason for war:  it boosts the economy.  Pump all sorts of
    money the govt doesn't have into building war toys, thereby making lots
    of jobs and supporting the big lobbiers.  Take a look at our economic
    history and it's taken a war to pull us out of every depression.
    
    Scott
    
125.1099VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindTue Oct 27 1992 19:475
Though it's only a temporary boost ... the weapons either sit out
there and rust, or get blown up.  Put the money into the infrastructure.
Russia collapsed because it directed too much money into its military
(though George would like us to believe he waved some magic wand);
when are we going to learn the lesson?
125.1100CSLALL::HENDERSONIf wishes were changes...Wed Oct 28 1992 00:3616

 Speaking of Bush taking credit for ending the cold war..my boss asked me
what I wanted put in my review under accomplishments...I told him the Berlin
Wall came down and teh cold war ended..I figured if Bush could take credit
for it so could I :-)






ZEX
^^^^

dang keyboard :-/
125.1101havin' a baaaad day ... :^(CUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorWed Oct 28 1992 15:368
    Just got off the phone with my mechanic ... the gear (balancer?) came
    in yesterday, and after he installed it he realized the crankshaft is
    bent, and will have to be replaced ... gonna cost me $1,500 to put this
    car back on the road, and that doesn't count for the two week's worth
    of rental car ... I'm f#&%ing disgusted (not to mention broke!).
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1102Positive vibes heading your wayMR4DEC::WENTZELLJust a little sweetnessWed Oct 28 1992 15:585
Wow, Bobbb, that hurts.  I feel for ya man....

Scott

125.1103keep your chin up dude!ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Oct 28 1992 16:008
    hey Bobbb...  if it will make you feel better, i have your coffee
    pot from the camping trip still at my house...  i can bring it back
    to you anytime you want it...
    
    at least then you'll have a pot to, well, you know!  :^)
    
    					da ve_hoping_the_worm_turns_again_
    					for_you_soon
125.1104DEDHED::SpineTom SpineWed Oct 28 1992 16:0311
>    Just got off the phone with my mechanic ... the gear (balancer?) came
>    in yesterday, and after he installed it he realized the crankshaft is
>    bent, and will have to be replaced ... gonna cost me $1,500 to put this
>    car back on the road, and that doesn't count for the two week's worth
>    of rental car ... I'm f#&%ing disgusted (not to mention broke!).

Jeesh, Bobbb, what are you complaining about?  For $1500 you're getting
a gear balancer *and* a crankshaft -- I couldn't even replace my car's damn
clock fer that! ;-)

tms
125.1105It's a gorgeous fall day outside.LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's got WICCABILITY!Wed Oct 28 1992 16:1112
    Hey Bobbb . . . 
    
    This is a MAJOR bummer!  You bought the car used right?  Could
    it be something that happened _before_ you bought it and it
    just kept getting progressively worse?
    
    Maybe time for a lunch (we'll pick you up!) . . . what do you all
    think???
    
    
    :'( Sparky_way_bummin_out_for_Bobbb's_car
    
125.1106CXDOCS::BARNESWed Oct 28 1992 16:142
    ain't cars grate????
    rfb with 4 pieces of sh*t
125.1107NOPROB::JOLLIMOREkids'ey dance and shake der bonesWed Oct 28 1992 16:264
125.1108MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Wed Oct 28 1992 16:418
	Bobbb, that's a bummer.  If it were me, I'd be real suspicious that 
	(or disappointed with) the mechanic didn't advise you earlier on the 
	cam shaft, which, IMO, should have been known.   That's a lot of $ 
	to put into a car!

	BTW, how long have you had this car ?  I'm thinking lemon law.
	
	Ken
125.1109Attempt to cheer up Bobbb follows...DRINKS::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Wed Oct 28 1992 16:447
Bummer, Bobbb.

  BUT...I hear that Cannon's gonna try to open for skiing on Holloween!

:-)

Dave
125.1110standin' in the toilet bowl, hand on the flusher ...CUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorWed Oct 28 1992 17:4915
    >> BUT...I hear that Cannon's gonna try to open for skiing on Holloween!
    
    Well, that might cheer me up if I had some way to get there ... but at
    15 cents a mile, I ain't takin' no rent-a-car skiin' ... besides, I'm
    gonna need all the shekels I can muster to spring it outta the shop
    when it does finally get fixed, so it looks like another week-end of
    hybernating around the shanty and makin' tapes for people.
    
    The real bummer is that this car was checked thoroughly before I bought
    it, and it was in incredibly good shape.  It doesn't even have 50K
    miles on it yet.  And nobody's ever heard of this kind of problem
    before.  Like I said earlier in the week ... WHY ME!  
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1111EBBV03::SMITHI've got a peaceful easy feelingWed Oct 28 1992 17:579
	holy cow!

	$1500 ??????

	well, at least it wasn't..er..um..$2500..um...never mind!

	Hang in there Bobbb....I hope your mechanic is
	truely trustworthy.
125.111239682::HANNANBeyond description...Wed Oct 28 1992 19:115
	< 50K miles ?   5 year/50K mile warranty is pretty standard
	when a car is new, and I think it's transferrable.   Have
	you checked with a dealer ??

	Ken
125.1114The Bobbby FundSUBPAC::MAGGARDWashaUffitze &amp; drive me to FirenzeWed Oct 28 1992 19:1418
125.1115VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenWed Oct 28 1992 19:1636
CSLALL::HENDERSON 
    
>Speaking of Bush taking credit for ending the cold war..my boss asked me
>what I wanted put in my review under accomplishments...I told him the Berlin
>Wall came down and teh cold war ended..I figured if Bush could take credit
>for it so could I :-)

    (heh, heh, heh) and you're probably more justified in taking credit
    for it than he is also Jim. :-)

TLE::ABBOT 
    
>    Another reason for war:  it boosts the economy.  Pump all sorts of
>    money the govt doesn't have into building war toys, thereby making lots
>    of jobs and supporting the big lobbiers.  Take a look at our economic
>    history and it's taken a war to pull us out of every depression.
    
	Lots of things could boost the economy though... imagine if the
    Mars Observer found actual hard evidence of intelligent life?  You'd
    see so much money from all over the world just poured into the space
    program... the economy would boom ... they couldn't hire enough people.
    all sorts of technical skills would be needed... every country would 
    want in on the action.. they'd all be trying to buy their way into the 
    program with us... the race for a manned mission would be on... I can't
    wait..
    
YNGSTR::STANLEY 
    
>I'm beginning to lean towards Clinton even though I don't agree with all of his
>policies.  While the Libertarians most closely match my views, I really don't
>want Bush to win again.  I'll most likely vote for the Libs or Reps in the
>congressional race.  I wouldn't feel too comfortable with a Dem president *and*
>a Dem controlled congress.

    Me too, Dave.. now I'm leaning towards Clinton too.  Gee will I be glad
    when this is over.
125.1116TLE::ABBOTJumbo Hunderglitz in '92Wed Oct 28 1992 19:5122
    I certainly wasn't supporting the idea of war with my comment.  I
    oppose war and anything related to it.  But, throughout history war has
    been the most powerful influence on bringing a country together and
    getting us out of bad economic times.  I think it's the idea of having
    a goal that keeps us moving forward in such times.  These days it
    doesn't seem like we have a goal.  And with the USSR gone we don't even
    have anyone to compete with - like when Kennedy set a goal for the
    USA to put a man on the moon by the end of the decade.  Look at all the
    jobs created by the space program.
    
    It's time for another goal, but what?  A manned mission to Mars may be
    worthwhile scientifically, but these days the space program is being
    driven by private enterprise.  If we have a manned moon base, most
    likely it will be to exploit the moon of whatever riches it holds.  The
    same goes for Mars, if it doesn't prove to be a good investment for
    private enterprise.
    
    Too bad the space program seems so dead, they had some great visions 25
    years ago.  Maybe it was the drugs. :-)
    
    Scott
    
125.1117VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindWed Oct 28 1992 20:013
Maybe if we had a president with a vision to fix this country, who
could communicate that vision to the people, *that* could be our goal.
There's quite a bit to do right down here on Earth.
125.1118LEDS::MRNGDU::YETTOdiscover the wonders of natureWed Oct 28 1992 20:0715
    
>    It's time for another goal, but what?  

	getting Jum elected? :-)  OK ok, seriously my answer off the top
	of my head (and most definitely not the only answer) - Education!

	without getting too high on my soapbox teaching is one of the oldest
	and should be (IMO) one of the most respected professions.  But for lots
	of reasons it isn't.  We don't need to change the teachers, we need
	to change the system so the teachers can gain the respect they deserve
	(from within as well!) which will give them the power to answer thier
	calling and educate this country.  This is going to take ALOT of 
	something and that probably means money.

	Lisa_who'd_be_a_teacher_if_she_weren't_so_afraid_of_becoming_calloused
125.1119Junkyards: the answer to high car repairsZENDIA::FERGUSONRoll me awayThu Oct 29 1992 14:2410
I just sent mail to Bobbb suggesting for him to call some junkyards to price
out a used engine.  

Whenever a mechanic wants to do more then $500 worth of work on your engine,
SERIOUSLY think about getting a used one.

I've purchased used engines before w/o _any_ problems.  I'm almost certain
that a used engine for Bobbb's car would cost much less then $1500.00....


125.1120I've saved THOUSANDS on used parts!!ZENDIA::FERGUSONRoll me awayThu Oct 29 1992 14:2710
Just a case and point about junkyards:  my old Z28 ran on used parts:

	alternator - $20 .. dealer cost about $150
	power steering pump - $25 ... dealer cost > $100
	rear axle - $35 - dealer cost probably > $100
	air pump - $20 .. dealer cost probably more then 4 times that.
	intake manifold - $25 .. dealer cost in the hundreds...

I believe _some_ mechanics will go to junkyards and get parts for you if
you request it / make it a condition of giving him the work.
125.1121MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Thu Oct 29 1992 17:0615
	To add to what JC said, recent parts for the Subaru before
	we dumped it due to *ridiculous* astronomical parts + repair 
	costs:

			At the Junkyard		From the Dealer
			---------------------------------------
	Altenator	$35 			$350
	Distributor	$35			$700+ (yes seven hundred!)
	
	
	Amazing difference for basically good quality replacement parts.

	Ken

	P.S. Thanks for turning me onto those places in Leominster JC! :-)
125.1122usedZENDIA::FERGUSONRoll me awayFri Oct 30 1992 14:0310
re         <<< Note 125.1121 by MONTOR::HANNAN "Beyond description..." >>>

>	P.S. Thanks for turning me onto those places in Leominster JC! :-)


Hey, no problem Ken!  In the 6.5 years that I owned my camaro, I estimate that
I personally SAVED more the $10,000 worth of repair bills and parts costs by
doing it myself and buying JY parts.  $10,000 !!!

buy used!!!  recycle, save $$ ...
125.1123I was just used to GM interchangabilityMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windFri Oct 30 1992 22:1713
    Yah know, this is one of the problems with owning a recent Ford. Maybe
    it's a trend with all newer cars, but at least the VW is all similar. 
    My truck is too new to have many transmissions accessible. A few years
    older and it won't fit. Everything is custom, and yah can't do the JY 
    trip!  
    	But, right now the truck is running as well as it has to and I'm
    counting on it to drive many a ski trip this winter, again. I really do 
    like my truck when it's working, but I'm reminded of this JY stuff
    every it's not. 
    
    Geoff 
    	I blew up the transmission from my Vega by putting it in my
    Chevelle and getting wheel hop in a drag race. 
125.1124ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Nov 03 1992 14:022
    
    drunken rednecks with chips on thier shoulders are bummers...
125.1125:(LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's got WICCABILITY!Tue Nov 03 1992 14:347
    way so.
    
    Sorry da ve.
    
    Big hug ~~~~~
    
    	sparky
125.1126Re: 11.2LJOHUB::GILMOREIt's got WICCABILITY!Wed Nov 04 1992 13:2710
    Wow . . . 
    
    I can't imagine NO Grateful!  Hope it doesn't happen.
    
    Good thing I've started looking for a REAL job!  (Ok,
    so now the cat's out of the bag.)  Don't want to leave,
    but I need benefits and tuition reimbursement and something
    closer to home!
    
    sparky_keepin'_my_fingers_croseed_for_Grateful
125.1127ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Nov 06 1992 16:128
    sigh...  it's been one of *those* weeks...  can't even get a 
    gd snickers bar out of the candy machine...  had to settle for a dove
    bar...  (actually 3 dove bars-they wouldn't come out until i pumped
    $1.50 into the f!@#$%^ amchine!)
    
    come on universe...  back off a little will ya?
    
    					da ve
125.1128ps.ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Nov 06 1992 16:133
    re .1125  thanks...  i needed that!  :^)
    
    				da ve
125.1129;^)ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMThere is no way to peace;peace is the way.Fri Nov 06 1992 16:394
>    can't even get a 
>    gd snickers bar out of the candy machine...

i didn't know they made Grateful Dead Snickers bars?
125.1130TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonFri Nov 06 1992 17:105
    
    Hmmm.  So either Dove makes candy bars or your candy machine makes ICE
    CREAM!  :-)
    
    
125.1131ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Nov 06 1992 18:353
    dove makes candy bars and my candy machine makes me nuts!
    
    
125.1132ISLNDS::CONNORS_MFri Nov 06 1992 18:414
    
    but what do nuts make?
    
    
125.1133ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Nov 06 1992 18:441
    nut n' hunny...  :^)
125.1134I know the answer to that one!!!LIOVAX::MERRILLNY's got the ways and meansFri Nov 06 1992 19:223
    RE .1132
    
    BABIES!!!
125.1135flames, flames, everywhere...ICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 12:5425
    So anyway, I'm driving home from MSO2 yesterday and I stop to fill my
    car with gas.  Twelve bucks later I varoom off again and notice the
    engine still races a little when I put in the clutch.  My ol' Mazda
    and I are chugging up a hill - it's floored and we're still peaking at
    only about 21 MPH.  We crest the hill and I find that I'm hurtling
    towards the blue Taurus just ahead.  I see that this car is so cool it
    doesn't even need a foot to press the gas pedal; it'll do it itself. 
    I'm a bit leary of rear-ending the station wagon - don't wanna die - so
    I put in the clutch.  This sends the RPMs up around half a million and
    soon I realize I can't see the Taurus anymore.  In fact, I can't see
    anything.  `Cept smoke and flames.  Now folks, I have a mind like a
    steel trap; nothing gets by me.  I quickly deduce that my car should
    *not* be on fire and that this is un-good.  I pull over and calmly ask
    the gentleman sweeping up the auto shop floor if he might have anything
    along the lines of a fire extinguisher?  He does,a nd soon the flames
    are out.
    
    It's times like these when I really wish I could have afforded
    insurance . . .
    
    Anybody know someone who's trying to unload a reliable, fireproof car
    for not a lot o' money?
    
    Peace,
    David
125.1136i'm getting a !@#$ing horse...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Nov 10 1992 14:107
    
    !@#$ing flat tire pulling into the parking lot this morning...  and 
    i just bought these damn things a few weeks ago!!!!  grrrrr....
    
    i guess it is a bad week for dave's and cars???
    
    					da ve
125.1137a horse, a horse, my Mazda for a horseICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 14:153
    I'm with ya on the horse thing da ve . . .
    
    How do I install my stereo though?
125.1138:^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Nov 10 1992 14:401
    velcro...
125.1139and who signed me up?ICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 14:483
    Hey da ve, Sooze just called me & said *her* car is down, too . . .
    
    What's up with this?  Some kinda network?
125.1140ClassifiedsSALES::GKELLERTrickled-on economicsTue Nov 10 1992 14:494
Try the CLASSIFIED Notesfile for cheap cars.  There are always a few for 
under $1000

Geoff
125.1141CIVIC::ROBERTSa blinding flash o'the obviousTue Nov 10 1992 15:067
    re : .1139
    
    what's up is that today is the full moon!  That's why things
    mechanical are going belly up. 
    
    :-)
    
125.1142LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Tue Nov 10 1992 15:217
    
    I've got a car for sale, and it's even got a Dead sticker (SYF) on the
    back window!
               
    See the Goin' Down the Road note...
    
    Tree
125.1143BUSY::IRZAblame it on that simple twist of fateTue Nov 10 1992 15:4821
*>        <<< Note 125.1136 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
*>                      -< i'm getting a !@#$ing horse... >
    
*>   i guess it is a bad week for dave's and cars?
    
              you said it!  last week my car died at the emerald square
           mall. being the weekend  i left it overnight thinking it would
           be cheaper having it towed monday during business hours. well
           when monday rolled around i returned to discover someone smashed
           a window and trashed the steering collumn trying to steal it (of
           course it wouldn't start). i don't have comprehension insurance
           and mechanic estimates ~$500. to fix window and steering collumn     
           . car already needs new steering rack ($450 w/ tie rods and
           alignment) tires, brakes, shocks, plus the unknown problem that
           caused it to die. could run ~$1500-2000. not worth it for a car
           with 130k on it. i'm gonna try to sell it as a parts car. it's
           a 1987 olds delta 88 royal broughm (sp?) fully loaded with no
           dents or rot. i should be able to get $500+ for it. so pretty
           soon i'll be looking for something to bounce off snowbanks with.
    
                                                                 ^dave
125.1144VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindTue Nov 10 1992 15:523
Oh oh ... maybe I'll take a taxi home tonight ....

- D stands for Dave C
125.1145Much friendlier than carsLJOHUB::GILMOREIt's got WICCABILITY!Tue Nov 10 1992 16:2018
    >>      <<< Note 125.1137 by ICS::ODONNELL "I am the Lorax . . ." >>>
    >>              -< a horse, a horse, my Mazda for a horse >-

    >> I'm with ya on the horse thing da ve . . .
    
    >> How do I install my stereo though?
    
    
    I KNOW!
    
    SADDLEBAGS!
    
    Get a portable little stereo, and buy some saddlebags for your
    horse.  You'll be all set!
    
    Just remember your Chaps in the winter, or you'll freeze!
    
    sparky
125.1146CSLALL::HENDERSONTo the bright side of the roadTue Nov 10 1992 16:2710

 Get one o' them horse and buggy thingies and put the stereo in the buckboard
or whatever the h*ll they call those thingamabobs..





 Jum
125.1147Duuhhhhh . . .ICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 16:414
    Anyone know how I can access the CLASSIFIEDS note?
    I'm a mental midget.
    Peace,
    David
125.1148NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Nov 10 1992 16:418
> Get one o' them horse and buggy thingies and put the stereo in the buckboard
>or whatever the h*ll they call those thingamabobs..

	Hey! Let's not get so f(*&ing technical!!!

;-)

tim
125.1149NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Nov 10 1992 16:448
Try this:

Notes> Add entry iese::classified_ads
Notes> Open class

good luck.

tim
125.1150any other avenues?ICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 16:499
    tim-
    
    thanks, but I got squashed.  It said:
    
    "insufficient system resource at remote node"
    
    or sumpin' like that.
    
    Hmmm . . .
125.1151CSCMA::M_PECKARfast times at Decnet HighTue Nov 10 1992 16:507
    
>    "insufficient system resource at remote node"
    
Wait until after five...


I think the file has hours, now
125.1152VMPIRE::CLARKleave your stepping stones behindTue Nov 10 1992 16:5615
There's discussion about this in topic 1002 of the EASYNET_CONFERENCES
conference (press KP7 to add to your notebook) ... here's a blurb
from the troubleshooting guide posted in note 1.5 of that conference:

2) If the error is "insufficient system resources at remote node," it means
   that the remote system is overloaded right now and cannot service your
   request.  If you wait and try again later, eventually you will get in.
   If this condition persists for several days, you may wish to complain
   **VIA MAIL** (NOT a note in this conference) to the conference moderator
   or to the system manager (user SYSTEM) on that machine.

Last I read, I think they were saying that the node hosting CLASSIFIED_ADS
was having some problems ....

- Dave
125.1153ICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Tue Nov 10 1992 16:581
    thanks for the help, folks . . . we'll see what happens . . .
125.1154CSLALL::HENDERSONTo the bright side of the roadTue Nov 10 1992 17:0015

RE:  <<< Note 125.1148 by NAC::TRAMP::GRADY "Short arms, and deep pockets..." >>>


>	Hey! Let's not get so f(*&ing technical!!!



 Sorry, Veep...got a little carried away there :-)




 Jum
125.1155still tenderly driving the TorchICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Mon Nov 16 1992 16:2021
    Ok, update on the burning Lorax-hicle:
    
    My friend offered to give me his old Nissan Sentra `cause he's tired of
    it being stolen (3 times in 1 year).  I picked up a speedometer at a
    junkyard on Saturday (thieves stole it - why?) and cruised up to Lowell
    on Saturday to pick it up.  I pulled into the church parking lot (this
    friend is a priest) and went inside.  Had a beer with Seamus, then went
    outside to get the car.
    
    It was GONE!
    
    It had been sitting there untouched for 3 weeks & somebody rips it off
    (no plates, no ignition, no speedometer) an hour before I get there.
    
    Pretty funny, huh?  Somebody's stolen this priest's car 4 times . . .
    somebody's goin' to The Hot Place . . .
    
    We hit the pub.
    
    Peace,
    David the Lorax
125.1156theys gonna burn fursureSLOHAN::FIELDSBetter make it through todayMon Nov 16 1992 16:263
    gee Dave your notes of late have been such a bundle of joy to read !
    
    Chris
125.1157I should move outta this Bummer noteICS::ODONNELLI am the Lorax . . .Mon Nov 16 1992 17:1010
    That's what I'm here for Chris!
    
    Actually, my life is pretty great - I think it's funny when all this
    stuff happens at once.  Aaannnd, good news:  I saw my first Slip Knot
    show this weekend and *loved* it.
    
    Much Peace to da ve, Geoff, and Geoff, and Treemon , and anyone else I
    met there but forget names.  Geat folks & great tunes all around!
    
    Lorax
125.1158LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Tue Nov 17 1992 11:467
    
    
    Yeah Lorax, Nice ta meet ya...
    
    See you next time (in whatever you'll be driving)
    
    Tree
125.1159:^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Nov 17 1992 16:466
    yeah Lorax!  i think it's time to move out of the bummer note! :^)
    
    good meeting you the other night...  maybe we'll get to do the powwow
    thing sometime?
    
    					da ve
125.1160I can hear the drums already...ICS::ODONNELLIt's hard being string all the timeTue Nov 17 1992 17:159
    Absolutely da ve!  I'll keep me ears open to the wind; you do the same
    and we'll hit the first Ceremony that comes along.
    
    Hozhoni ("peace" in Navajo)
    Lorax
    
    P.S.  Can't get the image of your daughter out of my head; it's a
    beautiful one.  I actually started to write a poem about it.  I'll send
    it to you if it turns out OK.
125.1161really bad news about a fellow DEChead ...CUPTAY::BAILEYCertified Ski DestructorMon Nov 30 1992 16:3612
    I heard from Pete Kibling that my friend (and sometimes Grateful Noter)
    Bud Samiljan had a heart attack last week !!!
    
    Please send some good vibes Bud's way ... he's far too young and too
    nice a person to be having to deal with something as serious as a heart
    attack.
    
    Pete says he's doing OK ... that's all I know for now.  I'll post any
    further news as I hear it.
    
    ... Bobbb
    
125.1162Positive Energy ~~~~~~~LJOHUB::GILMOREShame on the MoonMon Nov 30 1992 16:4610
    ~~~Good Vibes to Bud~~~
    
    I remember him from a few notes here & there . . . what a total bummer,
    I hope whatever stress which caused his heart attack is no longer a 
    part of his life!
    
    Big hugs to you Bobbb . . . 
    
    
    				sparky
125.1163TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonMon Nov 30 1992 16:595
    
    bummer indeed. :-(  good, healing vibes heading out from this direction
    as well..
    
    
125.1164CXDOCS::BARNESMon Nov 30 1992 17:043
    always around the holidays!!!
    
    VIBES------------------->
125.1165And anti-stress vibes, too...2977::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Mon Nov 30 1992 18:105
Get Well SOON vibes headed out to Bud!

Peace and warmth...

Dave
125.1166Oh no!MR4DEC::WENTZELLHypothetical destinationMon Nov 30 1992 18:154
Good vibes X 1,000,000

Scott
125.1167CSLALL::HENDERSONWorkle while you whistMon Nov 30 1992 18:2210

 More get well vibes from me too...






Jum
125.1168ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Mon Nov 30 1992 19:191
    from me 3...   ohmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm............
125.1169NOPROB::JOLLIMOREkids'ey dance and shake der bonesTue Dec 01 1992 10:406
	bummer :-(
	
	I've worked with Bud on a cupla projects.
	Please keep us posted.
	
	postive thoughts for the gratest good.
125.1170CSCMA::M_PECKARDyslexics Untie!Wed Dec 02 1992 16:2435

Gone forever!...

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Newsrc file safely closed...
Newsrc file purged ...

125.1171field of ScreamsSSGV02::GPEACE::StrobelCorn Dawgs Only Bark @ NiteWed Dec 02 1992 17:083
re -.1

worse yet fog, you broke the rec.chain.letter ;-)
125.1172NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Mon Dec 07 1992 14:1421
Tough day, even for a Monday.

I'm trying to close on a house this week...I'm out of the one I'm
renting as of Saturday, so if I don't close, I'm homeless.  No
small risk.

So I get up this morning and get ready, and the lens in my
glasses popped out.  Pop it back in and head out to the Bronco,
pull into the street and notice I have a flat.

Finally get in here, and find more and more goodbyes -- I've got
a billion things to do if I'm going to move by Friday, and it's
just not getting started...

And I know for sure I'm having a good day compared to a lot of
people on Pearl Harbor day - positive vibes to all of you out 
there - I hope we make it through the day.

Either way - see ya Wednesday night!

tim
125.117312 years ago, RIP, JohnBSS::MNELSONTue Dec 08 1992 20:118
    
    
    Don't know if this is the right place.  12 Years ago today John Lennon
    was murdered in NY.  I remember driving back from a Bruce Stringbean 
    concert in Hartford and hearing the news.  An incredibly depressing
    ride home.  Couldn't help but shed some tears.
    
    	
125.1174All we are saying...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Wed Dec 09 1992 01:0523
    Jeez, I forgot.  As a kid, Lennon was my first hero.  I had grown up
    disliking the Beatles at first because of their bubble-gum sound
    (mostly due to tunes like "I Wanna Hold Yer Hand") but as I got into
    high school (no pun intended) I became a fiercely loyal Beatle Freak. 
    It was a major disappointment in my early life when they split up.  I hated
    Yoko, for my perception that she was to blame.  Silly me.
    
    Anyway, believe it or not, the only copy of Playboy I ever bought was
    the December 1980 edition, that had the extensive interview with John,
    ironically published the very month he was murdered.  I doubt that I
    have it any more...
    
    Nothing you can do that can't be done.
    Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
    Nothing you can do, but you can learn how to play the game.
    It's easy.  All you need is love.
    
    I miss him, still.  Occasionally, I wonder how he'd think of our world
    today.  Is  it closer to his vision of peace and love, or, like Abby
    Hoffman seemed to think, is it dessimated beyond the point of despair?
    
    tim
    
125.1175VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenWed Dec 09 1992 13:5715
NAC::TRAMP::GRADY 
    
>    Nothing you can do that can't be done.
>    Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
>    Nothing you can do, but you can learn how to play the game.
>    It's easy.  All you need is love.
    
     It's true, Tim... it's still true today.
        
>    I miss him, still.  Occasionally, I wonder how he'd think of our world
>    today.  Is  it closer to his vision of peace and love, or, like Abby
>    Hoffman seemed to think, is it dessimated beyond the point of despair?
    
     Neither... but it's heading in the right direction now.. I think so
     anyway.    
125.1176CXDOCS::BARNESWed Dec 09 1992 14:284
    yep, i remember not going back to work after lunch.....riding around
    listening to beatles/lennon tunes, wiping away the tears in
    disbelief...
    rfb
125.1177I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round...SMURF::PETERTWed Dec 09 1992 19:4312
    I remember where I was when Kennedy was shot (3rd grade classroom, got 
    sent home early, very eerie).  I remember where I was when I heard 
    Lennon was shot (first computer job, night shift operator.  I wrote
    John Lennon is dead!! on the computer roll).  I don't remember where
    I was when Regan or the Pope were shot, but I do remember thinking that
    it didn't compare to the other two (though perhaps Regan was shot
    before Lennon?  Don't think so though.  Somehow I think I knew the
    name Mark David Chapman before I knew the name John Hinkley).
    Sniff.....
    
    PeterT
    
125.1178EZRIDR::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedThu Dec 10 1992 16:4613
I was in 8th grade.  I was home for the day with a cold, so I heard about it
pretty quickly on the local (NYC) news.  I heard 3 women committed suicide that
week, apparently related to his shooting.  Hard to believe...

Reagan was shot a few months later, sometime in 1981.  I remember coming home
from school on the subway and hearing about it there.

Which reminds me, speaking of subways.  In 1980 (or was is 81) when John Bonham
died, I barely knew Led Zeppelin, but as I was walking down the stairs to the
subway platform after school, I heard mumblings about "John Bonham is dead".  I
had to ask who he was.

adam
125.1179GRANPA::TDAVISThu Dec 10 1992 17:117
    I can remember not wanting to go into work, but did anyhow, and I 
    was in a daze from the news, the recent 20/20 interview with Chapman
    made me ill. It is unbelivable what 1 insane person can do with a gun.
    
    I remember waking up to all Beatle music in the morning, and having
    the feeling something was not right, I also blamed Yoko for the
    breakup. 
125.1180ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Thu Dec 17 1992 12:405
    todays bummer...   hmmm...  hard telling which is worse...  still being
    sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
    work again...  :^/
    
    					da ve
125.1181ZENDIA::FERGUSONgot the Canned Heat BluesThu Dec 17 1992 13:0815
re        <<< Note 125.1180 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>

>    todays bummer...   hmmm...  hard telling which is worse...  still being
>    sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
>    work again...  :^/
 

	i just went to mr doctor this am for a throat problem.  i have this
	white virus growing on one of my tonsils... yuk!

	:-%

	yukko!


125.1182TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonThu Dec 17 1992 13:234
    
    sounds like strep, JC.  Did he give you penicillan?
    
    
125.1183VMPIRE::CLARKthe Gong ShowThu Dec 17 1992 13:423
Soak that virus in homebrew, JC ... a good source of vitamin B!  ;^)

- DC
125.1184Doctor's prescription - I would hope notSALES::GKELLERyrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2ndThu Dec 17 1992 15:0215
>      <<< Note 125.1182 by TERAPN::PHYLLIS "in the shadow of the moon" >>>
>
>    
>    sounds like strep, JC.  Did he give you penicillan?
 

Strep Throat is a bacterial infection, not a viral infection.  Never ever 
ever take Penicillan, or any other *cillan for viral infections.  it won't 
do any good, as cillan's are antibiotics, and you will build up resistances 
to the cillan's so they won't do any good when you need them for something 
else.

Dr. Geoff    
    

125.1185ZENDIA::FERGUSONgot the Canned Heat BluesThu Dec 17 1992 16:1014
re: doctor

He took a culture of the "thing" and he said it was either a virus, which should
just go away on its own, or strep.  If it is strep, he'll give me penicillan.
If not, he said just to hang out and if it doesn't go away in a weeks time,
that I should see Mr. Throat_Doctor....

I hate going to doctors/hospitals/etc !!!  I had a bad experience once and
now it is nothing but a stressful time for me!!  Anyone have this problem?
Anyone get over it?  If so, what did ya do?  Whenever I go, even for the
most basic things, I get nervous and typically break out in a sweat... makes
my blood pressure crank up and everything... Doctorphobia!!!


125.1186CXDOCS::BARNESThu Dec 17 1992 16:254
    I usually make sure I have a good buzz goin before I enter a dentists
    office.....I usually scedule apts. for after lunch and drink my
    lunch....
    rfb
125.1187what I do at the dentists...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Thu Dec 17 1992 16:343
Ask for nitrous, and lie about your weight....

tim
125.1188I'll have to change again when/if I'm under Fallon!LJOHUB::GILMOREShame on the MoonThu Dec 17 1992 16:3540
    JC,
    
    I had an EVOL doctor for 4 years!  He was my "everything" doctor
    from sore throats to my gyn exam.  My mother and two sisters had
    gone to him, so I followed in their footsteps.  I should have
    questioned him when my mom told me what he'd done to her.  My mom's
    had a real bad back for close to 15 years.  He diagnosed her with
    Degenerative Disk Disease . . . even gave her a presciption.  When
    her back didn't get better, she finally went to a chiropractor.  
    Turns out she had a slipped disk the whole time!
    
    But, I continued to go to him.  It seemed every time I went in for
    an exam, he'd call a day or so later and tell me I had this infection
    or that infection, and I'd have to take a prescription and come back
    for a recheck.  Now, most people know if they have an infection 
    (and definitely most women know when they do!) of that sort.  I never
    had any symptoms and thought it to be a little odd.
    
    The last time I went to this doctor was when my knees were at their
    worst (I could barely walk).  I was waiting in the room with my
    file for the doctor.  I just happened to decide to look through
    my file . . . and at the lab reports for the past 5 female exams
    with him.  Each test on each lab report for the past 5 times 
    when he'd told me I'd had an infection was NEGATIVE.  I NEVER had
    anything!
    
    I was so mad I didn't do anything, except stop going to him.  I
    should have sued, but it would have been more trouble than it was
    worth.  I now have a wonderful doctor:  Dr. Sheila Kennedy at
    Emerson Practice Associates, Inc. in Westford.  I told her of
    my horror experience with my previous doctor and she said she's
    heard of it before.  Basically it was insurance fraud.
    
    I *was* extremely nervous when I first went to Dr. Kennedy, but
    when she asked why I'd changed doctors and I told her, we
    instantly formed a bond of trust.  I think in order to feel
    comfortable with your doctor, you have to let them know of 
    problems you've had in the past.
    
    :)sparky
125.1189Less filler than beforeMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windThu Dec 17 1992 17:418
    I've had good doctors and I've had bad doctors, but I also have had
    more internal organs previously in my life as well. I guess the overall
    experience of remaining alive helps mainatin my confidence, but there 
    are certainly those I would not trust for the time of day. 
    
    Too much of this doctor stuff to get into here. 
    
    Geoff
125.1190ISLNDS::CONNORS_MThu Dec 17 1992 17:4814
    RE: JC and Doctorphobia...
    
    I have it too!  Real bad!  
    
    I usually get myself so worked up and all that I end up
    fainting!  It's horrible!  Not to mention getting shots!
    AUGH!!!!!  Instant head rush and plop...  I'm on the ground!
    
    I've passed out getting x-rays and just visiting someone 
    in the hospital!  Gawd, I hate that smell in hospitals!
    
    MJ_fainting_expert!  (right DW and LS?)  ;-)  ;-)  ;-)
    
    
125.1191Danny Boy is off to his 9mo checkup tomorrow...SMURF::PETERTThu Dec 17 1992 19:0810
    Gee, I kind of like doctors.  I don't even mind getting shots.  I'm
    always trying to check out what's going on when they take blood and
    I often donate.  Biology is pretty interesting and we're just 
    another biological organism.  Obviously there are good and
    bad doctors.  A second opinion is always wise to get if you 
    suspect the one treating you is not up to par.
    
    PeterT
    
    
125.1192VMPIRE::CLARKthe Gong ShowThu Dec 17 1992 19:123
Unfortunately, this biological specimen can feel fear and pain ... ;^}

- dc who also has gets the palpitations
125.1193Leading doctors and dave prescribe.....SPOCK::IRONSThu Dec 17 1992 19:1922
>        <<< Note 125.1180 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
>
>    todays bummer...   hmmm...  hard telling which is worse...  still being
>    sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
>    work again...  :^/
>    
>    					da ve
    
    
    Had this same thing, da ve.  It's been making it's rounds.  It took me
    a whole month to get back to normal.  First I had post nasel drip,
    which turned into Broncitis, which turned into an ear infection.  This
    virus/cold really has it's ups and downs! :^).
    
    It's been about 3 weeks since I got rid of it.  Now my wife just got
    it!  Strange!  My brother-in-law has it, too.
    
    I took antibiotics (2 prescritions), cough syrup with real Codeine
    (yea!!), Tavist-D for a while, then Sudafed, which worked better than
    Tavist-D.  Lot's o water and vitamins also.
    
    dave
125.1194ZENDIA::FERGUSONgot the Canned Heat BluesThu Dec 17 1992 20:1221
re                   <<< Note 125.1190 by ISLNDS::CONNORS_M >>>

>    RE: JC and Doctorphobia...
>    
>    I usually get myself so worked up and all that I end up
>    fainting!  It's horrible!  Not to mention getting shots!
>    AUGH!!!!!  Instant head rush and plop...  I'm on the ground!
>    
>    I've passed out getting x-rays and just visiting someone 
>    in the hospital!  Gawd, I hate that smell in hospitals!
    
This sounds just about like me, although I've never actually fainted.  It
seems that I can pull it together right before the moment of doom!  One time
I remember feeling wicked light-headed and ready to fall over.  The nurse
noticed this and grabbed some smelling salts.  I saw that and snapped right
back to normal!!!  Man I hate those places!!!!!!!!

i'm getting worked up just thinking about it!!!  when the Doc said i might
have to see a throat doctor, i gasped!!!  another doctor!!!!  

man, i need a drink right now!! :-)
125.1195CXDOCS::BARNESThu Dec 17 1992 20:304
    Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
    ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
    
    rfb holisticdeadheaddoctor
125.1196ZENDIA::FERGUSONgot the Canned Heat BluesFri Dec 18 1992 12:0413
re                     <<< Note 125.1195 by CXDOCS::BARNES >>>

>    Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
>    ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
 
i'm not a big diary product mon anymore, so this is not a problem!  milk (1%)
on the cerial in the morning, and that is about it....

i've been drinking a modest about of brew - this seems to help! :-) actually,
mr doctor is gonna call today to tell me the news.  hopefully, i won't have
to take any drugs for it.

/drugfree/jc/:-)
125.1197MAST::DUTTONInspiration, move me brightly...Fri Dec 18 1992 16:1016
re                     <<< Note 125.1195 by CXDOCS::BARNES >>>

>    Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
>    ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
 
Interesting comment... I assume you're referring to the mucus
producing effects of milk when you make that recommendation?
Any other reasons?  And why this bit about antibiotics?

I'm also recovering from this nasty bronchial infection, and
an R.N. friend of mine recommended that I eat yoghurt (with active
cultures).  Antibiotics tend to kill of the intestinal flora, 
leaving you susceptible to other infections (and perhaps killing
off the flora that allow you to digest milk products?)

 
125.1198SELL1::ROBERTSa blinding flash o'the obviousFri Dec 18 1992 17:126
    RE: .1194
    
    hey JC .. that's exactly the way I feel when I have to go talk to
    my mechanic!
    
    
125.1199ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Dec 21 1992 12:3416
re    <<< Note 125.1198 by SELL1::ROBERTS "a blinding flash o'the obvious" >>>

>    RE: .1194
>    
>    hey JC .. that's exactly the way I feel when I have to go talk to
>    my mechanic!
 
:-)  really???


anyways, the doc called on frieday w/ a preliminary prognosis:  NO STREP.
ya hoo.  he's going to call me today only if the prelim. diag. was wrong.

/feeling_much_better/jc   
    

125.1200don't askSTUDIO::IDECan't this wait 'til I'm old?Mon Dec 21 1992 13:016
    re .1181
    
    That sounds like what I had once: a yeast infection in my throat.  Very
    contagious, but just annoying.
    
    Jamie
125.1201no more soreness; must have been the Beer MedicineZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Dec 21 1992 13:1112
re      <<< Note 125.1200 by STUDIO::IDE "Can't this wait 'til I'm old?" >>>
>                               -< don't ask >-
>


	i pondering this for a minute then started laughing a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!


:-)


	btw, the "white thing" is still there, but its death is near.
125.1202CXDOCS::BARNESMon Dec 21 1992 16:1516
    re .1197
    yep 
    
    you answered the question in yer second paragraph....
    
    When my 15 year old was 4-5, she had tonsils and adnoids removed
    because of excess fluids in the ENT path. Wasn't good enough for the
    butcher doctor..he wanted to poke holes in her head and install tubes
    for drainage. Bout that time, we discovered our holistic healer, she
    put Tiffany on certain herbs and vitamins, instructed us to keep her
    off of certain foods (dairy mainly) and feed her LOTS of other certasin
    foods (beans and rice mainly)..within one week fluids were gone. Took
    Tiffany back to butcher-doctor and he couldn't believe the progress...i
    came unglued and alomost killed  the b#st#rd right in his own office.
    
    rfb
125.1203One person's bummer is another person's delightZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Jan 04 1993 16:599
	Well, this weather is a real bummer for me.  I know for some that a
nice warm sunny day in the winter is about as good as yummie pizza, but not
for me.  I was really psyched on Dec 11-13 when we got a ton of snow.  Now
all that snow is just about gone.  Tomorrow it is supposed rain again.  Is
this winter or spring?  I want to live in a place where it snows in the winter
and rains in the summer.  None of this mostly rainy winter stuff we've been
having for about 12 years or so!!

	jc_bummed_because_my_favorite_season_ain't_what_it_used_to_be
125.1204ISLNDS::CONNORS_MMon Jan 04 1993 17:054
    
    I think you better head out to Utah or Montana, JC!  ;-)
    
    
125.1205CSCMA::M_PECKARPray for snowMon Jan 04 1993 17:377
    
    

	Or buffle off to shuffalo...


:-)
125.1206ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindTue Jan 05 1993 13:0020
re            <<< Note 125.1205 by CSCMA::M_PECKAR "Pray for snow" >>>

>	Or buffle off to shuffalo...


Nah, New York ain't for me....  

re: MJ


Too bad Mont. doesn't have a lot of computer companies out there otherwise
i'd be there.   In mont, you pretty much have to be a logger or host some
sort of tourist activity....  logging is a very hard and scary job!




MAN THIS WEATHER SUX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  WHERE IS WINTER????????????????????

	:-(
125.1207CXDOCS::BARNESTue Jan 05 1993 13:364
    high temp for Great Falls Mont today......-1 degree
    
    rfb who lived in great falls for 3 years in the late 60's and wouldn't
    go back in the winter for anything
125.1208Maybe in March?MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Jan 05 1993 15:3310
    And the record High temperature for th 5th of Jan. was broken today at
    4:00 AM at Logan Airport. Sixty Two degrees eff at four in the morning.
    What's wrong with this picture? 
    
    	They say it's unusually warm air leading a cold front. Winter
    should return by tonight as soon as any trace of snow has been washed
    away. 
    
    Disheartened 
    Geoff 
125.1209CXDOCS::BARNESTue Jan 05 1993 18:3812
    well my luck finally ran out...got a $58.00, 4 point speeding tix at
    lunch, 68 in a 55 mph zone. I KNEW he hung out where he was, just
    wasn't payin attention, dammit! he was nice though, despite the dancin
    bears and world peace bumper stickers (wife's honda with a 5th gear
    DAMMIT!) called me sir and i called him sir back. 
    said "take care of yerself" as he left. 
    My plan is to throw myself on the mercy of the court with the "good
    driver option", no tixs in over 3 years, reduction in points, hopefully
    a reduction in the fine too. This usually means a wave of troubles in
    the near future, so I'll be lookin over me shoulder.
    
    rfb
125.1210slow down and smell the rosesCX3PT1::IDWCS3::SMITHTue Jan 05 1993 20:1319
    
    Guess we'll have to call you Blaze from now on!!
    You going get a haircut and wear a suit to court to see if it gets ya
    any more mercy!  . .
                      ,
                    \___/
    
    
    Sorry to hear that the cops have time to chase speeders when there are
    so many "real" crooks out there.
    
    
    See ya tonight
    
    
    Divide Dave
    
    
    
125.1211Bad week for dads... :-(DRINKS::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Mon Jan 11 1993 16:2420
Well, over the weekend, I found out about 3 people's father's dying.

1 was the father of friend of a friend.

1 was the father of a casual acquaintence.

Never met these 2 men.

The hardest on me was the father of my roommate from college.  I've
known him, and his dad (who was a great guy) since I've been 8.

F!CK

The older I get, the more people that I know die.

I don't like it! :-(

Life goes on...

Dave
125.1212ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Jan 11 1993 17:5625
	Yesturday, I was out skating around Long Lake in littleton and I 
noticed a dog hanging out on the ice by the edge of the land.  I approached
the dog and it got up, limping quite badly, and went into the woods a bit.
I tried to convince the dog to come to me but it wouldn't:  it even growled
a bit at me.  So, I skated along.  On my return trip, I decided to check out
the dog again.  It was lying on the ice near the edge of the woods.  Once again
I approached it and it went into the woods, out of my reach.  So, I skated
across the lake and told some kids about the dog ('cus they lived very close,
I though they'd call for help).  Anyways, these kids had no interest in the
well-being of the dog.  I skated back and the dog was just hangin' out, like
he wanted to just die and go away.  Its rear leg looked really bad.  So, i
walked home and told deb about my adventure and she thought I should call the
cops.  I did, and ended up meeting them at the beach around dusk.  they asked
me where i was skating and I told 'em the dog was right about there (pointing
to a jutt of land about 1/2 mile out).  the cop said there's nothing they can
do right now "because we're not allowed on the ice and the animal control
person isn't working."  I thought the dog would freeze to death over night.
The cop didn't care.

	So, last night I went to sleep wondering about the dog.  This morning,
I put on my skates and skated back to the place where I saw the dog.  Thank
god I didn't find him, but, I still have to wonder if the poor fellow
survived the cold night?

125.1213TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonFri Jan 22 1993 20:074
    
    somebody stole my electric pencil sharpener.  :-/
    
    
125.1214Someone needs some help...FRSBEE::YOUNGwhere is this place in space???Fri Jan 22 1993 20:093
    Now that is a bummer...that anyone would steal anything is just beyond
    me...but an electric pencil sharpener???  What people will do to obtain
    the comforts in life...*;')
125.1215not the electric pencail sharpener!!!!CIVIC::ROBERTSa blinding flash o'the obviousMon Jan 25 1993 12:3110
    acck Phyllis!  That would really bother me too.  At long last, after
    years of yearning after one, my daughter bought me my very own
    non-DEC-issue Electric Pencil Sharpener (capital letters to show the
    importance of the item).  They can't take it away - bu tI guess someone
    COULD steal it.
    
    I firmly believe that some of us are pencil people and some of us are
    pen folks.
    
    Carol
125.1216TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonMon Jan 25 1993 12:347
    
    yep - this is what happens when we are no longer allowed to order
    supplies.
    
    wondering what will go next..
    
    
125.1217ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Jan 25 1993 16:5116
re      <<< Note 125.1216 by TERAPN::PHYLLIS "in the shadow of the moon" >>>

    
>    wondering what will go next..
 
Maybe your workstation!


Actually, when my group was disolving, the word got around and many "outsiders"
came down to our area and did some shopping.  We nailed one person who took an
entire VS3100 !!


   
    

125.1218takes one to know one!!!LIOVAX::MERRILLNY's got the ways and meansMon Jan 25 1993 16:533
    F***in' NYers will steal *ANYTHING*, eh???
    
    Marc (A F***in' NYer!!!)
125.1219TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonMon Jan 25 1993 18:1314
    
    :-)
    
    They moved the ACT into our office building a couple of weeks ago and
    when they were unpacking the equipment they discovered tons of memory
    and disks had been stolen.  
    
    Of course that's nowhere near as traumatic as having your very own
    electric pencil sharpener stolen off your very own desk, but I just
    thought I'd mention it.  ;-)
    
    Good thing we hired all this new security...
    
    
125.1220ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMNothing's worth nothing, but it's free.Tue Jan 26 1993 19:1111
>    wondering what will go next..
 
someone stole my mousepad a month or so ago; someone else's mousepad also
disappeared that same night

i've done some legitimate "swiping" of my own; got a nice desk chair from one
person who quit, got some screen cleaner from another person that quit, and
i swapped my old monitor for a hi-res monitor used by a co-op whose term was
up   
    
- rich
125.1221lock them up !SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithTue Jan 26 1993 19:207
    quit ? or do you mean layed-off ?
    
    I've come into lots of stuff over the past few years after the
    layed-off people left, matter of fact a few came to me with the office
    supplies they could not take with them....
    
    Chris
125.1222CXDOCS::BARNESTue Jan 26 1993 20:521
    i stole some salt form the cafe......
125.1223a salt mover & shakerSSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Tue Jan 26 1993 21:547
re: -.1 >>>rfb:
    i stole some salt form the cafe......
		      ^^^^

what form was it in? ;-)

jeff
125.1224Mice need shelter tooMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windWed Jan 27 1993 00:216
    re: Rich and the missing mouse pads.
    
    It's obvious Rich a new, large family of mice moved in to the area and
    they all needed a place to live. Clearly one pad wasn't enough ;^),
    
    
125.1225ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindWed Jan 27 1993 11:367
As of this morning, it does not look like snow in the Littleton area.  What is
the story on this storm?????

i'm bummed to have awakened this am w/ no snow!!!!!!!!!!!!



125.1226The Official Knot WeatherSALES::GKELLERyrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2ndWed Jan 27 1993 11:4023
>  <<< Note 125.1225 by ZENDIA::FERGUSON "A blues guitar echoes in my mind" >>>
>
>As of this morning, it does not look like snow in the Littleton area.  What is
>the story on this storm?????
>
>i'm bummed to have awakened this am w/ no snow!!!!!!!!!!!!


it blew out to sea.  Forcast now is for light snow and flurries.  Heavier 
snow towards the coast.  Not much accumulation.  Posible breaks of 
sunshine.  Tomorrow starting sunny, turning cloudy, chance of flurries 
every day through Sunday.  No major storms.  temps about normal.  Lows 0 - 
10 below north, and 5 - 10 south.  Highs in the upper teens north, low to 
mid 20's south.

Thats it for now.  At least the can blow snow.  The Down East Section of 
Maine still expection some heavy snow later today.  Nothing in the 
mountains.

Geoff



125.1227Once upon a time, there was a low pressure systemMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windWed Jan 27 1993 11:4311
    Yes the storm went east. I was bummed that with every breath Mr.DJ dude
    with a last name I won't try to spell had to tell me that the storm
    wasn't.
    
    	NOAA says the storm went east and Chatham might get an inch. The
    word was that it no longer threatened the main land but, "Will make
    life nasty for mariners". It's still a storm, but you can't ski well
    off shore.
    
    At least it's cold {:*}
    
125.1228CXDOCS::BARNESWed Jan 27 1993 15:583
    what form? dyslexic form of course!!!!!
    
    rfb
125.1229ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMNothing's worth nothing, but it's free.Mon Feb 01 1993 20:479
>    quit ? or do you mean layed-off ?

i mean quit; last summer our project was in quite a state of disarray
(officially it was "re-directed", but i consider that it was "canceled"),
and people weren't too happy with DEC; offhand i can quickly think of 7 people
that left to take jobs elsewhere; i think the actual number was a bit higher;
this was definitely people leaving voluntarily

- rich
125.1230Positive vibes neededBSS::MNELSONMon Feb 01 1993 21:138
    
    Howdy all,
      Big Bummer, I am heading into the hospital for a liver biopsy 
    Wednesday.  Any spare positive vibes out there around then would 
    be appreciated.
    
    	-Mark
    
125.1231Good luck monSPICE::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithMon Feb 01 1993 21:387
    Mark, a *liver biopsy*?!  What is it that's wrong?  Man, some
    good vibes heading your way !
    
    Sparky sends good vibes too and she's keeping you in her thoughts.
    
    
    	Chris
125.1232TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Feb 02 1993 11:267
    
    Mark,
    
    Major good {{{vibes}}} headed out your way.  Hang in there..
    
    Phyllis
    
125.1233I hate the hospital...BINKLY::DEMARSEEstimated Prophet...Tue Feb 02 1993 11:313
    Yow, Mark....I'm sending out positive vibes...many good lucks...
                            
    :), danielle
125.1234we're with ya buddy! BUSY::IRZAdance out of the rainTue Feb 02 1993 11:494
    
        i hope this just sounds more serious than it is...major vibes
    heading your way!!!!
                                           ^dave
125.1235MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Feb 02 1993 12:074
	all the good vibes (and thoughts!) I have are headed your way!!
	

125.1236XCUSME::MACINTYRETue Feb 02 1993 12:196
    Mark,
    
      Prepare to receive mucho good vibes and a prayer or two.
    
    Marv
    
125.1237We're here for youSALEM::MARKIEWICZenfant de l'UniversTue Feb 02 1993 12:338
    
    Sending all the good vibes~~~~~~~~~~I can muster your way.
    I can definitely relate to the tension surrounding getting
    a biopsy ( though not for liver problems).  My thoughts and
    prayers are with you.
    
    Rose
    
125.1238GIAMEM::DPHILBRICKTue Feb 02 1993 12:404
I can also relate -- just finished with that biopsy "stress" myself.  All my good 
vibes are yours!!!!

Dorothy
125.1239VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenTue Feb 02 1993 12:453
    Mine heading out there too..
    
    mary
125.1240bummerCSCMA::M_PECKARunder eternityTue Feb 02 1993 13:084
Mark, Many vibes from Rachel, Charlie, and myself...


125.1241ISLNDS::CONNORS_MTue Feb 02 1993 13:194
    
    good luck Mark,  All the good vibes I can muster are yours!!!
    
    MJ
125.1242Thanks for the vibesBSS::MNELSONTue Feb 02 1993 13:309
    
    Thanks for all the grate thoughts.  No worry for the big C, just
    finding out what kind of damage has been done by hepatitis.  If 
    things come out well, no problem.  If not, I can give up booze
    start some treatment to prevent future damage and resort to just 
    reducing my cholesterol for my entertainment.  
    
    Thanks for the vibes,  I know they'll help
    Mark
125.1243hoping things turn out fine...SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyTue Feb 02 1993 13:333
Gary Burton heading your way Mark ;-)  Best of luck

PeterT
125.1244still more...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Feb 02 1993 13:417
    still more vibes emanating from my corner of the net-world...
    
    			oooohhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......
    
    
    
    						da ve
125.1245\ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindTue Feb 02 1993 13:527
....and more good vibes!


	hope the results are ok mon.......


			.... rastamon/jc
125.1246CXDOCS::BARNESTue Feb 02 1993 14:462
    good luck Mark...I'll be in touch later
    rfb
125.1247EBBV03::SMITHThink showTue Feb 02 1993 15:146
	Good vibes being sent........

	Medical stuff is a b!tch!

	Hope things work out!
125.1248SALEM::BURNSworld peace begins at home :^)Tue Feb 02 1993 15:225
    ...good luck there Mark.
    
        crossed fingers and good vibes fer ya :^)
    
         Andy
125.1249EZRIDR::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedTue Feb 02 1993 16:105
Good luck, Mark.

Good vibes from Maynard, MA.

adam
125.1250SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Tue Feb 02 1993 16:211
and even more vibes {{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}{{{{{{{{{{{{{} headed your way Mark
125.1251This really belongs in the Feel Good NoteBSS::MNELSONWed Feb 03 1993 02:0317
                   
    Hey there,
    
      I just received an 11th hour reprieve from the Doctor, Yah.  I had 
    to take a last series of tests for pre-admittance and the Doctor
    said that my liver enzymes were within the normal range!  He gave
    me the option of following through with the procedure or to hold off
    and continue monitoring the enzymes periodically.  I told him I think 
    I'll avoid the intrusive procedure along with it albeit small risks. 
    
    Thank's so much for the positive vibes and wishes.  I have faith they 
    helped and it really meant a lot to me.  Now I just hope the counts 
    stay down there.   
    
    Thanks for the Vibes!
    	
      -Mark 
125.1252The vibes worked!SALEM::MARTIN_SDon't Fake the Funk on the DunkWed Feb 03 1993 09:465
    
    Excellent news, Dude! Keep on smilin'  :-)
    
    Steve-O
    
125.1253CXDOCS::BARNESWed Feb 03 1993 10:295
    glad for ya Mnelson! good talkin to ya last nite, too...
    take care of yerself, keep da faith, and stay away from that devil
    whiskey!!!!!
    
    rfb
125.1254Power of PrayerXCUSME::MACINTYREWed Feb 03 1993 11:484
    That's grate to hear.  Good health.
    
    Marv
    
125.1255ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindWed Feb 03 1993 12:103
	Phew!  Wipe the sweat mon!!

	Good news that you can safely avoid surgery!
125.1256ROADKL::INGALLScastles made of sandWed Feb 03 1993 14:233
Glad to here it Mark :^) 

125.1257ISLNDS::CONNORS_MTue Feb 09 1993 13:355
    
    did someone set my clock back this morning?  this day
    seems to be crawling along awfully slowly....  :-(
    
    MJ
125.1258slow me down!LANDO::HAPGOODTue Feb 09 1993 13:3712
                   <<< Note 125.1257 by ISLNDS::CONNORS_M >>>
>    did someone set my clock back this morning?  this day
>    seems to be crawling along awfully slowly....  :-(
    
Hey MJ,

Just think of they all speed along at a fast pace then you'll be old in
not time...

?? :)
bob

125.1259ISLNDS::CONNORS_MTue Feb 09 1993 13:488
    
    Yeah, your right I suppose!  ;-)
    
    there's plenty of times I'd like to slow things down...
    but work I wouldn't mind zipping right through with the
    blink of an eye!  ;-)
    
    
125.1260NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Feb 09 1993 15:053
You must be waiting for something....? ;-)

tim
125.1261Chief must have a different meaning.....SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Feb 12 1993 10:5810
    for all you Celts Fans, if ya didn't see the news over the past 12
    hours heres a news flash.....Robert Parish was busted for marijuana
    in San Fran a drug sniffing dog pointed out a packaged address to the
    Chief (it had @7 oz of MJ) when the package got to the Federal Express
    office in Natick it again was pointed out by drug sniffing dogs ....
    the cops now had reason to get a warrant to search his home where they
    found @5 oz of MJ.....Parish was charged with possion.....
    
    
    Chris
125.1262BUSY::IRZAthis species has amused itself to deathFri Feb 12 1993 12:316
    
    
    
         i heard he didn't inhale! ;^)
    
      
125.1263ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesFri Feb 12 1993 14:394
	Apparently, they might have a hard time proving that it was solicited,
but, i dunno know the details.   I doubt he'll do any time, but, ya never know,
they might wanna make an example out of him which would get a boost due to his
"celebrity" status.  
125.1264NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Feb 12 1993 15:2020
I saw the news item last night about this, and thought it was encouraging,
in perverse kinda way...First of all, I thought they said it was 2 oz. in
the mail, and another 5 oz. at home - totalling 7 oz.  The cops said they
saw no indication that this was for any purpose but personal use, and wouldn't
be pursuing 'intent to distribute' charges.  I got the impression that being
a first time offender, he could get a suspended sentence or n months of
probation.

Think about the precedent.  Five years ago, he would have gone to jail for
5-10 years.  7 oz. is a LOT of pot to get busted for nowadays, only to get
a suspended sentence.  It used to be that more than a couple ounces was
de facto grounds for getting busted for dealing, no matter what.

It was also a good little reminder for that part of the population that
thinks mailing contraband via Federal Express is 'safe'...

Maybe I'm just being prematurely optimistic, but the whole incident sure had
a very different tone about it compared to when Ronald Raygun was prez...;-)

tim
125.1265at least he should be force to share it !SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Feb 12 1993 15:287
    ya know Tim, this might be good for the drugs on war...or is that war
    on drugs...well I see your point, but in the same vein the media might
    start sticking their little pointy heads into it and causing a problem.
    like so if you are someone like Chief you get a slap on the wrist but
    if you're a avg. joe you get 6months "." although I like to see the
    laws get relaxed by this HIGH-profile )ooo a double pun) bust I only 
    feel it will get worse.....
125.1266STUDIO::IDECan't this wait 'til I'm old?Fri Feb 12 1993 15:487
    They would've found a diet scale in Joe Pothead's house and he'd get
    intent to distribute.  Seven oz.?!?  The Chief wasn't recreating
    prudently . . .
    
    Who (beside me) thinks they'll bust Bill Walton on the other end?
    
    Jamie
125.1267mixed emotions on this one!ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Feb 12 1993 15:5224
    supposedly on tv the Weston police say he is still considered a "model
    citizen"...
    
    my thoughts are somewhere between Chris and Tim...  on the one hand,
    if Robert Parrish can get misdemeanor posession for almost HALF A POUND
    (not to mention totally overlooking the potential interstate trafficing
    charges) then it bodes well for those of us who might pick up a bag
    every so often...  however i suspect that he is being treted this way
    for who he is...  if i got picked up in Weston with half an OUNCE i
    would expect to be arrested and treated like a criminal...
    
    maybe it's time for some letters to the editor that start out "Three
    Cheers for the New Drug Policies in MA!"... :^)  
    
    if indeed he gets special treatment for his celebrity status i will be
    pissed...  i have no doubt in my mind that if you or i were bagged in
    that town with almost half a pound of dope we'd be sitting in jail
    calling our lawyers right now...  i hope this will signal a change
    in policy but i suspect it will become evidence of the fact that there
    is one set of rules for the people of "status" and another for you and
    i...  and guess what, they aren't the same...
    
    					da ve_who_hopes_we_all"get_off"_
    					including_the_Chief
125.1268it'll be interestingMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windFri Feb 12 1993 15:5711
    It'll be interesting to see what happens. With the forfeiture laws he 
    could stand to loose an amazing enormous pile of property. 
    	If this were persued, he's big enough to afford a good lawyer for 
    a long time and get things possibly changed.
    	If they (the estaBlUSHment) recognizes this and want to continue 
    getting free cars and houses, then they probably wont pursue anything.
    
    	Coincidentally this with the new administration and hopefully a new 
    line of reasoning maybe some things can change
    
    Geoff but_what_do_I_know_?
125.1269ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Feb 12 1993 16:011
    hey, i completely forgot about that!!!!  shouldn't he be homeless now?
125.1270AKOCOA::DMITCHELLBring back Day JobFri Feb 12 1993 16:276
    
    re.1266
    
    Jamie, thats the first name that popped in my head..
    
    Don
125.1271NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Feb 12 1993 16:3619
Au contraire - I hope they DO let him off easy because of who he is.  Six
months suspended sentence would be perfect, maybe a little community service,
or such.  No big cash fines - that would be a regressive precedent.

Da ve, the way I look at it is this: if that happens, and then next summer
you get pulled over in Weston with a half ounce in your car, then when you
go to court you have a perfect precedence (assuming you're a first time
offender) to get exactly the same treatment.  It would be discriminatory 
for the courts to come down harder on you than they did on the Chief, and
they couldn't go back and make his sentence harsher after the fact.

Since I've never been arrested for anything, I like having this kind of
insurance.

Legal precedence is a wonderful weapon, especially when it's married to
massive media coverage.  They're doing us all a big favor, and maybe they'll
relieve a little of the overcrowding in prisons in the process.

tim
125.1272SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Fri Feb 12 1993 16:4514
Does the forfeiture law apply if he's charged with a misdemeanor which, at 
least by last night's news, is what he's being charged with?

Walton: Someone asked about the who sent the package and the answer was no 
one connected with the NBA. Granted maybe Bill knows of a good source or 2 
and the source could implicate him, but I don't know if they can directly tie 
him to anything.

Ah, the war on drugs. They'll bag the Chief for smoking pot but turn their 
head on the steroids being sold to the local high school football teams (at 
least as long as they win)


jeff
125.1273SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Feb 12 1993 16:508
    >    supposedly on tv the Weston police say he is still considered a
    >"model citizen"...
    >
    >    my thoughts are somewhere between Chris and Tim...  on the one
    >hand,
    
    
    so da ve which one of us is the model citizen ? me or Tim ? :'j
125.1275NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Feb 12 1993 17:237
That's exactly what I'm talking about.  Parrish was arrested with 2118 times 
that much pot.  That means his fine should be $1,186,080, right? ;-)

Busted for 1.5 grams...that's assinine.  Do you have the option to have your
record erased (expunged) after some period of time has passed?

tim
125.1276thanks Deane!ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Feb 12 1993 17:4122
    
    that's exactly what i'm talking about too...  Robert gets nothing
    (really) while Deane gets reamed...  that's the inequity that 
    irks the shit out of me...
    
    now, don't get me wrong...  i agree with you Tim, in that this kind of
    precendent would be really nice...  still, i have little or no reason
    to believe that the law would be applied equally no rich-rich,
    non-famous, non-NBA heroes...  i still say that if you or i get busted
    for close to a half pound of pot, we would lose our property and be
    faced with charges of posession, intent to distribute, conspiracy to
    transport across state lines (a FEDERAL rap mind you) and that's
    probably just for starters...  none of this misdemeanor "model citizen"
    bs...  
    
    again, i want to see him get off because *in principle* that means you
    and i will get the same treatment in the future...  however, just as
    much as it would set a precedent, i believe it also illustrates how
    the law (sheeeesh, i almost said "justice"!) is not applied evenly to
    the haves and the have-nots...
    
    						da ve
125.1277NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Feb 12 1993 18:109
I agree.  That's the difference between having a good lawyer, and having
a public defender.

A good lawyer would apply the precedent.  A public defender might have
trouble spelling the word.

Sigh.

tim
125.1278MR4MI2::REHILLVisualize Whirled PeasFri Feb 12 1993 18:1013
    
    	I'm having a little problem with all of this flying off the handle
    stuff. I heard the reports, last night the first report said
    several ounces, then later it was 5 ounces, and this morning I
    heard 7 ounces.....It reminds me of those busts in the 70's
    where they would exagerate the "street value" - "Last's nights
    bust collelcted over $10,000 worth of pot". We would joke, yeah,
    that's by the pencil thin joint.... no one would buy that.....
    
    	I think we really have to wait for all the dust to die down, and we
    get a chance to see the real facts, if we ever do....
    
    
125.1280STAR::HUGHESCaptain SlogFri Feb 12 1993 18:3921
    I heard on two different news services that it was 2oz in fedex, and
    another 5oz when they raided his house (the discovery of the fedex
    shipment being sufficient probable cause for a search). 7oz total.
    
    re .1272
    
    You do not have to be charged with ANYTHING for the forfeiture laws to
    kick in. Remember, they appear in civil court where "guilty until
    proven innocent" does not apply. The prosecution need only establish a
    "preponderance of guilt" to win the case. In other words, he would have
    to prove that everything he owned was purchased with money legally
    earned. The RICO laws allow the Feds to seize this property until the
    civil case is resolved.
    
    The Feds tend to avoid high profile cases like this; it is more
    profitable to go after people who can't afford lawyers.
    
    The Government has no place in civil court IMO. It has laws to protect
    it.
    
    gary
125.1281XCUSME::MACINTYREFri Feb 12 1993 18:4717
    re .1279
    
    "My record will be there forever."
    	Don't let that bother you.  Most people don't give a shit about
    that type of thing.  Granted, some do but they are usually the type
    that are anti everything.  
    
       	I speak from experience on this.  That "permanent record" rap is a
    guilt trip tactic and is as bogus as things get.  
    
    	Unless you want to be a FBI agent, a cop or a few other things, a
    non-feloney reefer bust is a non-issue.
    
    Regards,
    
    Marv
    
125.1282inhale to the chiefROCK::CAMPR::FROMMNothing's worth nothing, but it's free.Fri Feb 12 1993 20:2317
>    You do not have to be charged with ANYTHING for the forfeiture laws to
>    kick in. Remember, they appear in civil court where "guilty until
>    proven innocent" does not apply. The prosecution need only establish a
>    "preponderance of guilt" to win the case. In other words, he would have
>    to prove that everything he owned was purchased with money legally
>    earned. The RICO laws allow the Feds to seize this property until the
>    civil case is resolved.

yup; this basically means that you are guilty until proven innocent; if you
want to read more about how absurd this abuse of the system is, send me
e-mail and i'll try to dig up my copies of the Pittsburgh Press cover stories
from August 1991 and send them out to you; it's pretty scary stuff

hoping that the system will someday change, but not too hopeful that it will
happen anytime soon...

- rich
125.1283ughCSCMA::M_PECKARQuestion realityFri Feb 19 1993 17:1713
Viral bronchitus.

This is day eight of this. Ruined last weekend in the Whites and its going to 
ruin this weekend too. Had to miss four days of work, including important 
training that I won't get another opportunity to take. Only been able to 
sleep a couple of hours at a time for the past few days, and am on this awful 
narcotic drug that makes me feel constantly hung over, but without it, I'd be 
constantly hacking. 

vibes, pleez.

Wheezing Idiot
125.1284:^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Feb 19 1993 17:247
    ask and you shall recieve...  i've had my share of that sort of thing
    this year!!
    
    			oooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm............
    
    
    					da ve_vibing_from_a_safe_distance
125.1285CXDOCS::BARNESFri Feb 19 1993 17:386
    bummer, that stuff is nasty...avoid all dairy products and stay away
    from all that candy you eat!!!!!!!! %^)
    
    candy IS dandy,
    but likker is quicker
    rfb
125.1286EBBCLU::SMITHThink showFri Feb 19 1993 17:414
	
	sorry to hear your ill mon!

	I had pnuemonia over Christmas....I can sympathize
125.1287Vibes heading eastBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateFri Feb 19 1993 17:548
    
    Hey there Fog,
      Bronchitis is a real drag.  Lisa had it for 12 days and is just
    coming out of it.  Send some positive thoughts eastward.
    
    Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    	Mark 
125.1288hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmSLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Feb 19 1993 18:046
    		here have a cough drop !
    
    viiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiibeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
    
    
    Chris
125.1289TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonFri Feb 19 1993 18:214
    
    {{{vibes}}} headed straight at ya!  
    
    
125.1290time to be a couch potatoSALEM::MARKIEWICZenfant de l'UniversFri Feb 19 1993 18:237
    Fog,
    Sending all the good vibes I have your way~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
    Get all the rest you can.  Bronchitis, like pneumonia is 
    aggravated by physical activity.
    
    Rose
    
125.1291ROADKL::INGALLScastles made of sandFri Feb 19 1993 18:305
~~~~~~~~ healthy vibes ~~~~~~~~~



125.1292health on the way....SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Feb 19 1993 18:464
    ouch, not fun.  Hope you get better soon Fog...
    
    PeterT
    
125.1293some rill blues fur sureSLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Feb 19 1993 18:541
    a rill bummer news......bellbottoms are back in fashion.....yuk
125.1294The Bobby Brady effectEBBCLU::SMITHThink showFri Feb 19 1993 19:0211
>    a rill bummer news......bellbottoms are back in fashion.....yuk

	awe..cmon...

	I've wanted to whip on a pair of them all my life!!!

	I would like to snag a pair of orange,purple,and
	brown plaid ones!!!!!

	

125.1295spent the nite in Utah.AKOCOA::DMITCHELLwith my head in sparkling cloverFri Feb 19 1993 19:126
    
    re. 1294 Bobby Brady effect
    
    my brother met Bob Brady out in Utah at a Dead show in '83..
    
    Don
125.1296CXDOCS::BARNESFri Feb 19 1993 19:153
    you guys are makin me feel old!!!
    
    rfb who had some wayout bells in his younger days
125.1297EBBCLU::SMITHThink showFri Feb 19 1993 19:152
	did he have on bell bottoms?  ;-)
125.1298NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Feb 19 1993 20:027
C'mon, bellbottoms weren't that bad.  I mean, it could be worse.  It could
be polyester leisure suits.


;-)

tim
125.1299CXDOCS::BARNESFri Feb 19 1993 20:054
    I ADMIT...I NEVER wore a plyester leisure suit...except on halloween
    one year
    
    rfb
125.1300ESGWST::MIRASSOUSat Feb 20 1993 00:012
    You mean I shouldn't have been wearing those bell bottoms all these
    years?  And I thought I was being so hep.
125.1301CSCMA::M_PECKARQuestion realityMon Feb 22 1993 18:3111
Good new/bad news...


First the bad news: My condition has been upgraded to pneumonia, so I'm 
officially on STD now and won't be back to work til march.

The good news: I'm totally naked!!!


Fog_who_is_little_punchy_on_Hycodan,_a_narcotic_cough_suppressant.
125.1302CXDOCS::BARNESMon Feb 22 1993 18:354
    hang in thar Fog...sounds serious but cureable...keep da faith
    
    rfb
    p.s and put some clothes on dammit, yer makin me sick! %^)
125.1303ISLNDS::CONNORS_MMon Feb 22 1993 18:558
    
    Well at least your illness hasn't effected your sense of humor!
    
    :-)
    
    Good vibes to you Fog, get well quick!!!!
    
    MJ
125.1304yCIVIC::ROBERTS_CRa blinding flash o'the obviousMon Feb 22 1993 19:055
    I think Fog likes the medication!  
    
    get well soon ... and stay warm!
    
    c
125.1305#2 on the way???:-):-):-)SALES::GKELLERyrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2ndMon Feb 22 1993 19:111
Rachael...   Get home quick.  Fogs naked and Charlie's asleep:-):-):-)
125.1306NRSTA2::CLARKHour of SlackMon Feb 22 1993 19:335
Hmm, if Fog is naked, should we really be sending him vibes?

Get well soon Fog ...

- DC
125.1307MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Feb 23 1993 11:275
as CharlieO would say .... "uh oh!" .... take care of yourself Fog

I'll stop by with sugar fixins for ya ifn you want, let me know.

Lisa
125.1308still a Sesame St fan...SALEM::MARKIEWICZenfant de l'UniversTue Feb 23 1993 12:367
    Fog,
    Good wishes for a speedy recovery coming your way.  Now you and
    Charlie can watch Sesame Street together.  It's about the best
    show on daytime TV
    
    
    Rose              
125.1309NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Feb 23 1993 13:114
Be careful, Fog.  And put some clothes on, fer chrissakes...howdaya think
you got sick in the first place?! ;-)

tim
125.1310Get Well FogBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateTue Feb 23 1993 13:125
    
    Good Health to ya Fog,
    
    	Take Care
    	Mark
125.1311ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesTue Feb 23 1993 14:549
Hope you get better mon!

Are ya gonna quit cigs as a result of this illness?
I know a couple of people who quit due to illnesses
similar to yours....


take it slow and not too many drugs now!

125.1312MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Feb 23 1993 15:106
JC, Fog quit smoking years ago.  Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
sure it is more than 2.....



125.1313ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesTue Feb 23 1993 18:1512
re           <<< Note 125.1312 by MRNGDU::YETTO "the future is here" >>>


>JC, Fog quit smoking years ago.  Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
>sure it is more than 2.....

where does the time go (or, where does my mind go???) ???





125.1314MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Feb 23 1993 18:4412
Re:     <<< Note 125.1313 by ZENDIA::FERGUSON "I had one of those flashes" >>>

>>JC, Fog quit smoking years ago.  Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
>>sure it is more than 2.....

>where does the time go (or, where does my mind go???) ???

	have another homebrew and think about it, then let me know tomorrow.

:-) ;^)  ;^)  ;^)  :-)


125.1315bummerCSCMA::M_PECKARQuestion realityTue Mar 02 1993 14:5764
Today is day 20 of my illness, and the tenth day of work I've missed. The
third antibiotic treatment I started Saturday isn't doing diddly. I've
learned that some strains of Pnuemonia are tough, but this whole ordeal would
probably be over, however, if I had received a bit more attentive care in the
first place. 

Serious malcontent spleen venting follows:

Fallon has really sucked in caring for me, too. How unfortunate that places
like Fallon are the way Clinton is steering our Health Care industry. They
really could give a shit about my condition. Here I am feeling reeally bad,
even a phone call is an effort, and I'm having to expend a lot effort just to
get an appt with a doctor. On my first visit, five days after my first phone
contact with them, which would not have been sceduled at all had I not
emphatically insisted on seeing a doctor, I was told I had pnuemonia, but the
doctor only passively mentioned that furthur tests might be available, like
chest xray and culture test, which would have given them some indication
which antibiotic to subscribe. I feel that they just pidgeon-holed me into 
some pre-defined corporate program of medications which were empirically 
derived by a panel of statisticians and whose primary purpose is to save 
money (I've noticed my treatments have only progressively gotten more 
expensive).

On Friday, when my condition worsened, I asked the nurse to have the doctor
call me. I'm not allowed to talk to my doctor, or even schedule an
appointment without going through what seems to be a labarythine computer
program written in ADA or COBOL to maximize profit/minimize personal
engagement.  Over the weekend, I was prescribed some stuff by the weekend
fill-in, but I still wanted to talk to my doctor. I called again yesterday,
and again this morning, still no call back. On this last call, I insisted on
talking to my doctor, and having her schedule an appointment for her to see
me again for furthur tests, but its against thier rules.  In this whole 
ordeal, I've spent hours on the phone, yet less than five minutes with my 
doctor.

In general, you don't get anything from this seemingly faceless corporation
without insisting on it. After three phone calls, I still have not been able
to get anyone their to call the DEC STD people to let them know I'm sick. 

This is not the first time I've have serious problems getting adequate
care from this HMO, sme of you have heard me vent at length about these 
people. Wish I could change now. 

PLEASE, I request you do not forward this outside this conference. I am not
reccomening that if you are considering them as an hmo, you change your mind.
I am only relating my personal experiences with them. I MUST say that when
Rachel was pregnant, they were superb in delivering care for Rachel and
Charlie; they are the only HMO around here who currently offer midwifery
services, and while the whole birth experience did seem a little like an
aseemblyt line procedure, the people were greate and the care exceptional;
but for general healthcare, I've had nothing but nightmares. 


Under Clinton's health plan, assembly-line healthcare will become the norm, 
not the exception. Not everyone, including me knows how to, has the aptitude 
for, or the disposition to "work the system". While I agree it is essential 
that health care can be provided to all that need it, I do not agree that it 
can be successfully done under capatilistic control; in order to control 
health care, it must be socialized, even if its just a little; unfortunately
that will _never_ happen in The United States of Ronald Reagan.

Nap time for mikey....

125.1316my $.02GOOROO::DCLARKspare a bone, Chief?Tue Mar 02 1993 15:274
    switch to CMHC. They've been good for my family. Dr. Hart in
    Sterling is good. 
    
    - DAve
125.1317kick some Butt FogSLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithTue Mar 02 1993 15:5526
    Gee Fog that sucks, you go to the one in Worcester right ? I have not
    heard much good about that site....odd they did a great job with the
    baby thing but can relieve a flu/namonya.....get well you sicky-poo you
    
    I just switched to Fallon from CMHC, reason was my Drs. kept quiting or
    dying....and at one point I could not get a Dr. and was told I was no
    longer covered until I found one, but I stilled had to pay the
    $27/week. I switched to Fallon and the 1st time I used it they tried to
    charge me $50 for Julie's eye exam, it should have cost me $5 
    (which was part of the coverage, and the main reason I choose them) 
    after a call to the head office explaining my problem they told me that 
    the remote office had made a mistake (duh!) they told me when the bill 
    came to my house (I refused to pay (even the $2 or is it $5 co-payment) 
    and walked out the door after the lady headed me the bill) to call them 
    back and they would take it off the books. Well I got the bill, I called 
    them told them the story and was treat very nicely and they apologized 
    for the mess up...I asked if this was going to happen again and asked 
    them to check my records for the type of coverage....
    so I will be going for a full check up soon and I hope this is going to 
    be a good HMO....
    My Mom & Dad have the same Dr as I do and they have praised him up and 
    down.....and the office is in my home town (Westboro) so no trips to 
    Worcester.
    
    
    Chris
125.1318CSCMA::M_PECKARQuestion realityTue Mar 02 1993 19:0618
Yes, Chris, Worcester is where we're based. fwiw, I finally got in, got my 
X-Ray, got a good twenty minutes of my doctor's time, and some good drugs. 
took yet another phone call, though.

Unfortunately, I am stuck with these people until the next open enrollement: 
November.

>    $27/week. I switched to Fallon and the 1st time I used it they tried to
>    charge me $50 for Julie's eye exam, it should have cost me $5 

Funny you should mention this. I tried to get an exam last month and also was
told it would be $50.00. They said they could schedule me for four months
down the road. I said "screw it", cause that's the kind of person I am. I
_thought_ when I signed up that there was only a $5 copay on eye exams, but I
couldn't find the paper work when I got back home.  This sucks. I'm _really_
_really_ _really_ pissed now. 

I wonder how many other poor saps these people have phucked over???
125.1319Take CareSHKDWN::TAYLORNothing shakin'Tue Mar 02 1993 19:0910
Fog,

Be importunate as necessary to get the care you need.  Pneumonia kills.  This
is no joke.

Tufts health plan is expensive, but we've been very happy.  Everything is 
coordinted through your family physician, and you get to talk to him if there 
are problems.

Bill
125.1320hold on before you bust a vein son...SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithTue Mar 02 1993 19:134
    Well Fog the eye exam is $50 for you (you are over the age of 17...and
    under the age of 65).....
    
    Chris
125.1321ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesWed Mar 03 1993 12:005
I have a friend who used to be a hospital administrator in CA.  He basically
said that all HMOs pretty much suck as they are always looking for ways to
do the job cheaply.

FWIW - he would know - he dealt w/ them.
125.1322Taking It In MassachusettsSTUDIO::IDECan't this wait 'til I'm old?Wed Mar 03 1993 15:218
    I owe this lousy state $300 in taxes.  All because they tax interest
    (which came from US savings bonds which we cashed for a house
    downpayment) income at 12%, unless it's from a Mass. bank which is
    taxed at 5.95%.  Why oh why did I ever leave New Hampshire?
    
    I wouldn't feel too bad if I thought my tax money were well spent.
    
    Jamie
125.1323your tax dollars at work... trying to get mine!!!SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Mar 04 1993 13:5515
    I got home last night and there was a letter from the IRS (hey that was
    a quick return!)  Turned out they wanted to make an adjustment to my
    1990 return as I failed to report my 401K income.  This would just 
    result in my owing about $5000 in taxes!!!
    
    Well, at least I know what's going on.  I left Prime in 1990 and 
    withdrew my 401K money with nothing withheld.  After finally getting
    the check, I rolled it over into the 401K plan at my next employer.
    There is a 60day grace period to allow this, and I was well within
    it.  I guess, though, that instead of not reporting it as income, 
    maybe I should have indicated somehow that I received it and rolled
    it over.  Sigh....   More forms to fill out.
    
    PeterT
    
125.1324ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesFri Mar 05 1993 13:439
I tell ya, that f'n FORM 1 and the Scheds. in the MA tax forms are a total
piece of shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!    they have so many "do this if it is < x but
if x is from source abc, then put 45.564% of x in box 10 and 20% of x in
box 11, and if the remaining x is > nnn, turn to page 224345 of MASS tax
code 4902-ADSFD to figure out what to do"



lots of cussing comin' outta my mouth while doing that one!
125.1325PilgrimSPOCK::IRONSTue Mar 09 1993 19:4711
    RE: HEALTHSCARE
    
    I belong to Pilgrim Healthcare and am very satisfied.  Pilgrim HMO is
    not located in big building, instead, they have doctors scattered all
    over MAss. and RI that belong to the HMO.  You can pick any primary
    care physician you want!  The doctors I've had have been very good.
    
    I pay around $7.00 a week, single.  That's up from $3.00 something a
    week last year.
    
    dave
125.1326More on Pilgrim...BINKLY::DEMARSEJust say NO to hummus!Tue Mar 09 1993 21:1911
    re: [dave]
    
    I belong to Pilgrim, also, and I am also satisfied.  I like the eyecare
    part...discounts range from 20% to 40% off eyeglasses and contact
    lenses at various optometrists.  I went to Cambridge Eye.  I recieved
    a 40% discount on glasses, a free eye examination (the limit is
    1/year), and a free pair of contacts (they have a free eyewear program
    for those that fall under the guidelines....and I have no idea what the
    guidelines were).  They have a wide selection of doctors, and they have
    been great...and it's $3.00/visit.... I pay the same as Dave, around
    $7.50 a week, single, which has doubled form last year...
125.1327BUSY::IRZAin the shadow of the seasonWed Mar 10 1993 10:4310
    
        wow, i've got to look into that! i've also got pilgrim (fallon 
      bites, i had it once...ONCE!) and i have an appointment for an eye
      exam TODAY, but i think i'll cancal cuz this place only offered a
      10% discount off glasses, and nothing towards contacts or the 
      appointment fee itself. luckily i brought all my pilgrim stuff
      with me today, guess i'll hafta actually read through it ;^).
      thanks for the timely reply!
                                                        ^dave                                            
    
125.1328Do bothSPOCK::IRONSWed Mar 10 1993 15:5012
    You can always see your regular doctor and ask him for a prescription. 
    Then buy your glasses, etc. at Cambridge.  This is what I do, however,
    I haven't tried Cambridge yet for glasses and contacts.  I dought if
    I'll get free contacts from them; my contacts are pretty expensive for
    my prescription.
    
    Personally I never trust optomitrists that have their practice at optometry
    stores like Cambridge.  I tend to go for the ones that own their own
    practice.  I have pretty bad eyes and am not going to screw around.  It
    sounds prejudice but it's my eyes and no one elses.
    
    dave
125.1329Doing both IS a good idea....\BINKLY::DEMARSEJust say NO to hummus!Wed Mar 10 1993 16:1615
    ->> Personally I never trust optomitrists that have their practice at
    ->> optometry stores like Cambridge.  I tend to go for the ones that own 
    ->> their own practice.  I have pretty bad eyes and am not going to screw
    ->> around. It sounds prejudice but it's my eyes and no one elses.
    ->>
    ->> dave
    
    Dave, although i go to Cambridge Eye, I do agree with you.  Their
    service was good, but I was very lery of going there at first...I've
    always had optometrists with their own practices before I moved to 
    Mass.  Cambridge Eye has been good to me, though.  But if you have bad 
    eyes I suggest going to a private optometrist.....
    
    :),d
    
125.1330BUSY::IRZAin the shadow of the seasonWed Mar 10 1993 16:197
    
         good advice dave. i think i will stick my regular doctor. they 
    just really irked me last time, when i asked for a copy of my
    prescription they kinda hassled me. i guess they take offense by
    their patients going elsewhere. but hey, it's my right. 
    
                                        thanx for the input...^dave
125.1331EBBV03::SMITHThink showWed Mar 10 1993 16:2712
	Hey!!!

	Is today just a bad day or is there some sorta
	stratospheric disturbances happening?

	It seems as though everyone everywhere is pissed
	at me and at eachother, I just can't figure why, 
	I had better check my de-oderant.....although, 
	that shouldn't make it through the ethernet wires....

	Anyone else having a rotten day?
125.1332"Have a crappy day!" - CarlinSUBPAC::MAGGARDGone Phishin'Wed Mar 10 1993 16:319
>	Anyone else having a rotten day?

Yup.  I got into the lab this morning to find that someone had hacked up
some test equipment I needed to use.  Spent the bulk of the morning fixing
stuff that someone else broke!

...makes me feel like I'm back in grad-school... 8-|

- jeff
125.1333ZENDIA::FERGUSONI had one of those flashesWed Mar 10 1993 16:408
re               <<< Note 125.1331 by EBBV03::SMITH "Think show" >>>

>	Anyone else having a rotten day?

nope, not me, foretunately.


You guys _need_ a DOSE of the blues tonight to cure dem rotten daze bluez!
125.1334CXDOCS::BARNESWed Mar 10 1993 16:473
    i am having a bad week....earache for 3 days now, no Phish last nite
    due to earache, weather sucks, kids givin me a hardtime.....
    rfb
125.1335no problem hereMONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Wed Mar 10 1993 17:017
	Im having a decent day.  First off, I think the flu from hell
	is finally departing my body - it's about time, been 2 weeks and a 
	couple of days!  Current project just about done.  And I just got
	back from a really wierd Garth Hudson brown bag 30 minute concert 
	at Mechanics Hall in Worcester.  Oh, and it's gorgeous outside!

	Ken
125.1336call me the breezeSLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithWed Mar 10 1993 17:097
    the only bummer about today is that Im inside and not outside welcoming
    SPRING !
    
    otherwise its a wonderful day in the na-bore-hood.....
    
    
    Chris
125.1337EBBV03::SMITHThink showWed Mar 10 1993 17:1117
	Yup, there is definitely something up....

	hang in there! 

	Did anyone hear that the moon has jumped off 
	it's normal axis?  I heard something this morning
	on the radio and they mentioned that high tides
	and volcanoe erruptions will be a direct result
	as well as the unseasonal weather.	

	JC- 

	don't think I can make it to dah Bull cause 
	I have school tonight....I'll try...

	"I sing the blues nearly all night long!"
125.1338it's the moon, but i wouldn't head for the hills just yet! :^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Mar 10 1993 17:2719
    i was going to suggest the moon thing as a possible cause...
    
    fwiw, i don't think it's off its normal axis though...  :^)
    my understanding is we just had a full moon and it was at it's lowest 
    orbital point in years and won't come as close to us again for
    decades...  
    
    i wouldn't be heading for the shelters however, to protect myself from
    earthquakes, floods and volcanoes...  kinda chicken little thinking to 
    me...  remember all the disasters that were predicted for the harmonic
    convergence a couple of years back?  we had most of the planets in the
    solar system all lined up and the chicken little's were predicting
    earthquakes, floods and volcanoes then too...  never happened...
    
    high tides and out-of-the-ordinary weather i might believe (esp tides
    as the moon controls them), but if you're looking forward to the other
    natural disasters, i'm afraid you may be disappointed! :^)
    
    					da ve 
125.1339EBBV03::SMITHThink showWed Mar 10 1993 17:4611
>    as the moon controls them), but if you're looking forward to the other
>    natural disasters, i'm afraid you may be disappointed! :^)
    
	awe...I was all hyped out for total chaotic hell! ;-) 
	
	I think Saturday's and Sunday's weather may impact 
	the coastal regions extra heavily due to this....

	maybe the moon will prolong the ski season for me :-)

	
125.1340just wondering...BINKLY::DEMARSEJust say NO to hummus!Wed Mar 10 1993 18:051
    How can the moon affect high tides?
125.1341RAISE::GLADUWed Mar 10 1993 18:239
re: Note 125.1340 by BINKLY::DEMARSE 
    
>How can the moon affect high tides?
    
    Tides are caused by the moon's gravitational pull on the Earth. 
    In essence, the closer the moon, the higher the tide. I now
    turn this topic over to Mr. Pedantic for a more in depth
    explanation. :-) Provided he is well enough to log in.
    
125.13428^)BINKLY::DEMARSEJust say NO to hummus!Wed Mar 10 1993 18:274
    Neat......I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters
    ...I think it was that gravitational pull.....                        
    
    :), danielle
125.1343MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed Mar 10 1993 18:337

Full Moon's have also been known to effect female cycles.  I wouldn't be
suprised to learn births are up during them either.  Two things I never
underestimate ... gravity and hormones!  :-)


125.1344SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithWed Mar 10 1993 18:341
    so true....
125.1345 :^) BUSY::IRZAin the shadow of the seasonWed Mar 10 1993 18:347
 >>   Neat......I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters
 >>   ...I think it was that gravitational pull.....                         
    
    
           ha ha ha!!!!  too funny!
    
                                             ^d
125.1346And as bugs bunny says....DRINKS::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Wed Mar 10 1993 18:466
> Two things I never
> underestimate ... gravity and hormones!  :-)

'course, I never studied law...

Dave :-)
125.134711SRUS::MARKWaltzing with BearsWed Mar 10 1993 18:538
re: .1342

>I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters

	But if they're your younger sisters, how could you have been born on
them? :-)

Mark
125.1348EBBV03::SMITHThink showWed Mar 10 1993 19:042
	Green Grass and High tides....and hormones!
125.1349...BINKLY::DEMARSEJust say NO to hummus!Wed Mar 10 1993 19:183
    re: [mark]  funny, funny.......:)
    
    so was the full moon last night?
125.1350TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonWed Mar 10 1993 19:344
    
    Monday night.
    
    
125.1351from the "strange but true" department...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Mar 10 1993 19:4426
    congrats to Danielle for being the first confirmed birth on the moon-
    full or otherwise! :^)
    
    the moon has also been given credit (or blame as the case may be) for
    affecting human personality...  ever heard of LUNAcy?  seriously!
    that's where the term comes from...  there are even theories that
    work to support this conclusion...  to put it simply, lunar gravity
    affects bodies of water here on earth...  your body is mostly water...
    in the full moon the gravitational pull is stronger...  more water is
    pulled into your cranial cavity thereby affecting mental states and
    functioning...  or so the theory goes...  your mileage may vary...
    
    also, from an etymological standpoint (no, i am not the pedantic one
    but i may play him on tv) it is no accident that early treatments
    for LUNAtics was to have them sit in SOLARiums...  it was thought that
    the sun had purifying effects on people suffering from too much of the
    moon's influence...  and again, interestingly enough, there is some
    evidence to support this (though it only tends to support mild cases
    of depression and not actual "lunatics"...  no amount of sunshine is 
    going to make a nut into a sane person!  i mean, look at me?! :^)...
    ever heard of SAD (seasonally adjusted depressions or something like
    that?)  they think it comes on as a result of less sunlight and even
    now is often treated by having sufferers sit under sun lamps...
    
    					da ve
    
125.1352Birthing on the MoonSHKDWN::TAYLORNothing shakin'Wed Mar 10 1993 19:5215
125.1353phasing out massive changesMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windThu Mar 11 1993 11:3420
    	Now this time I know it's the wrong note, but I have a problem with
    the idea that the moon's gravitational pull in greater during a full
    moon. It just simple make no physical sense. Gravity is directly
    related to mass and proximity and if the mass doesn't change the 
    gravitational attraction can't change it the distance doesn't change. 
    The moon being at Apogee (the closest to earth it gets in it's orbit)
    will increase the gravitational pull, but being full doesn't. 
    	The reason the effect is greater when the moon is full or new is
    because the sun has an effect on us too. When the two effects are in
    phase then they add up. A new moon tide is actually higher than a full
    moon tide. While the forces are out of phase, somewhere between full
    and new, there is a funky vector that is working wuth a canceling
    effect. The full moon doesn't cancel out the higher tide because there
    are two high tides each day. 
    
    	It has more to do with the phase matching with the sun than the 
    gravitational attraction of a body changing. 
    
    Does this mean I get another point on the nerd test??
    Geoff 
125.1354yes, you're correct, and not a nerd... :^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Thu Mar 11 1993 12:2412
    awww, c'mon Geoff...  of course the moon's gravitational pull is
    stronger when it's full...  anyone can see that the moon is bigger
    then, right?  ;^)  :^)  :^)
    
    seriously though, you are right...  the fullness of the moon will not
    change it's gravitational pull, but it's proximity to earth will...
    i erred in my note...
    
    as to whether or not you score another point on the nerd test, i think
    we should leave that open to another round of voting...  :^)
    
    					da ve
125.1355XCUSME::MACINTYREThu Mar 11 1993 13:079
    .1351 and 1353/1354
    
    Hey Geoff and da ve.  How did Fog get into your accounts?  Did you know
    he's been masquarading as U's guyz?
    
    :-)
    
    Marv
    
125.1356RAISE::GLADUThu Mar 11 1993 13:135
>Hey Geoff and da ve.  How did Fog get into your accounts?  Did you know
>he's been masquarading as U's guyz?
    
    Yeah guys, who *died* and made *you* Mr. Pedantic? :-)
    
125.1357:^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Thu Mar 11 1993 13:438
    much like a hindu deity, we are actually different revelations
    of a single entity, dispensing peace and enlightenment on the general
    populace...  
    
    either that, or it's another one of those aftermath-of-the-full-moon
    things...  :^)
    
    					da fogeoff ve :^)
125.1358STAR::HUGHESCaptain Pedantic and the Space CadetsThu Mar 11 1993 16:054
    Actually, the moon is at or near perigee at present, i.e. its as close
    as it gets to Earth. Apogee is the furthest point.
    
    gary
125.1359Taping failureSHKDWN::TAYLORNothing shakin'Thu Mar 11 1993 16:056
My tape of Parts I/II of the 30 year Dylan thing ended in the middle of  Neil 
Young's Watchtower.  Caught all the groveling though.

Grr.

Bill
125.1360SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithThu Mar 11 1993 16:354
    see ! its a curse I swear ! Neil could be behind this ya know....gets
    those bootlegers going then snip snip ! AAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG !
    
    Chris
125.1361CopsNECSC::LEVYTakes alot to win, even more to loseFri Mar 12 1993 10:3214
When I got home last night, I noticed a couple of unmarked police cars and 
a couple of other marked ones down the street.  Small crowd of people hanging
out.

It seems a neighbor (whose kid my kid hangs out with) was being busted for 
drugs...unknown what type, etc.  Sniffer dogs and the whole thing.

Yikes!  This is just three houses away from me.

We're all freaked.  Don't know what's up with the kiddo (who's 10 years old) 
or the parents.

	dsn%dave

125.1362Dealing, or just holding?NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Mar 12 1993 12:510
125.1363dunnoNECSC::LEVYTakes alot to win, even more to loseFri Mar 12 1993 14:298
I don't have details.  It was certainly planned, though.

A reporter from the Patriot Ledger was there.  The "authorities" had made
arrangements with the local animal shelter to house the family pets before hand.

I doubt that they'd go through all that just for a possession bust.

	dsn%dave
125.1364 think i'll just trek up to worcester BUSY::IRZALongDistanceRunner,WhatYouHoldingOutFor?Mon Mar 15 1993 11:2727
    
       i saw slipknot at jack's saloon in uxbridge friday night. i won't
     be back to that place anytime soon. first off, there didn't seem to
     to be too many heads there, just obnoxiuos locals. i met my friends
     patrick and jennifer there, and we had a table in the back. jennifer
     went to the bathroom and while she was gone this gross druken biker
     type chick sits down and starts running off at at the mouth. she kept
     pointing at me and saying "i could f*ck you up". i was like "i believe
     you". well finally she spills her drink all over our table and leaves.
       next during the break we decided to go out for scoobie snacks. we
    walked downstairs and out the door, and i noticed "spike", a bartender/
    bouncer type dude follows us to the door. well, once i stepped outside
    i noticed about 8 people in line trying to get back in, uncertain if
    they would. so we run back up to spike, tell him we still have our
    coats and stuff inside, end up getting into a big argument with him,
    but finally get back inside (snackless nonetheless).
       for the second set we went right up front and danced, trying to
    forget where we were. this seemed to work (that scarlet was smokin').
    well we left after the end of the second set and walked out to
    patrick's car to catch up on the snacks, only to find some as*hole
    slammed into his car causing major damage. no note, noone around.
    major bummer. come to find out though that there were a couple of
    witnesses who gave police apartial description of the truck, with
    some company lettering on the side of it. they'll be investigating
    it today. 
    
                                                               ^dave 
125.1365I'll let you know about next time....SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Mar 15 1993 14:409
    Sorry to hear that Dave.  I guess you won't be all that interested
    in finding out when Crystal Ship is playing there?  I'd been
    considering going Friday night, but ended up making a cheesecake 
    instead.  Oh well.  I think Slipknot is due back there in April.
    Unless I have other plans, I'll let you know if there's been any 
    improvement.
    
    PeterT
    
125.1366Can I take this whole weekend back?MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windMon Mar 15 1993 15:0211
    Yah, I was going to mention that Lynn ????? (not from DEC) saw the car
    slamming. Sounds like she's the one who gave the description. When you
    were up front you missed the fight back by the bar. Did you notice that
    it closed a little early. Last call was immedeately after the fight and 
    no encore ate 12:45. 
    
    	Jack's has it's problems and except for the snow most of my weekend
    belongs in the bummer note. I guess some people wouldn't have even
    enjoyed the snow.
    
    Geoff
125.1367SPOCK::IRONSMon Mar 15 1993 16:105
    Yeah, theres some odd, mutant folk up around that Blackstone river
    area!  I believe it starts around Woonsocket and flows in either
    direction.  :^)
    
    dave
125.1368BUSY::IRZALongDistanceRunner,WhatYouHoldingOutFor?Mon Mar 15 1993 16:3813
    
       re: -1
    
          ain't it the truth!!! (big smile on my face cuz i know exactly
          what you're talking about, living next door to woonsocket ;^)
    
       re: geoff
    
          well make sure you give her a grate big thank you from patrick!
          hopefully the police will catch up to this jerk. i'll keep you
          posted.
    
                                                           ^dave
125.1369ZENDIA::FERGUSONI got ramblin' on my mindTue Mar 16 1993 01:174
Man, that Jack's Saloon sounds like a totally beat place to go!
Sorry to hear that your friend got hit... that sux.


125.1370I can't remember my point anymore!!!SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyTue Mar 16 1993 15:3919
    > Man, that Jack's Saloon sounds like a totally beat place to go!
    
    But... they do have Bass on tap for a $1.50 a pop!  It can't be all
    bad!  Unfortunately you can have bad experiences anywhere you go.
    And sometimes when you don't go anywhere!
    This car problem reminds me of a semi-amusing incident that happened
    to me.  I was dating my friends sister at the time and went with her
    to see some movie.  It turned out that we sat right behind my 
    lifeguard buddy and his friend.  Well, after the movie we went out
    into the parking lot and my girlfriend started to freak out because
    someone had put a crowbar through the back window of her VW bug.
    But then she realized it wasn't HER bug, so she started laughing from
    relief.  At which point my lifeguard buddy comes up and wants to 
    know why she's laughing at the crowbar sticking out of the back of 
    HIS window!
    Somebody is always affected.
    
    PeterT
    
125.1371start the day off with a screw-up... it's a real eye opener...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Apr 21 1993 13:337
    doesn't it really bum you out when you show up in the morning and
    someone meets you at the front door to let you know that you 
    made a mistake that has you in a little hot water????
    
    what a drag...  looks like another shitty day in paradise...
    
    					da ve
125.1372ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyWed Apr 21 1993 13:3412
re        <<< Note 125.1371 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
      -< start the day off with a screw-up...  it's a real eye opener... >-

>    doesn't it really bum you out when you show up in the morning and
>    someone meets you at the front door to let you know that you 
>    made a mistake that has you in a little hot water????
 
care to elaborate mon?

hope things work out for ya mon!!!


125.1373just stoooopidity... on my part...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Apr 21 1993 13:567
    
    a scheduling mix up...  i was supposed to run a training session for
    third shift last night at 2:30 am...  i thought it was tonight...
    had the whole third shift production crew waiting on me while i was
    home snoozing...
    
    					da ve
125.1374CXDOCS::BARNESWed Apr 21 1993 14:263
    don't get me wrong, and i feel for ya dwest, but......
    I FIND THAT VERY FUNNY!!!! %^) prob. because a similar thang happened to me 
    rfb
125.1375seems like they could have been pro-active...SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyWed Apr 21 1993 16:306
    And nobody had your phone number??  I've worked on the night shift and
    I was told, 'don't call any one unless the building is on fire!'
    But I've also done support duty and the operators seemed to have
    particular glee in calling up at 2 or 3 AM.
    
    PeterT
125.1376always a bright side!CSCMA::M_PECKARBe kind: unwindWed Apr 21 1993 16:526

Look at the bright side, da ve..

At least you distracted all those over-worked folks from having toi do their 
jobs for a few minutes.  They probably deserved the break...
125.1377couldn't even get my sweater off...ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Wed Apr 21 1993 17:036
    we will survive...  all of us! :^)
    
    just a really crappy way to start the day...  caught it from 3 people
    between the front door and my office...  :^/
    
    					da ve
125.1378ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyWed Apr 21 1993 17:2026
this reminds me of a story with a similar twist....



I was livin' in NJ at the time with this family who had a business as an
OEM for DEC (I was working there).  Anyways, this guy was my college roommate
and we loved to go out and get hammered.  well, one this one particular
morning, his parents were due to fly out toe Germany in the early am and
we were responsible for opening up the business (unlocking it for the most
part and turning off the alarm).  so, the night before, we go out, and get
VERY drunk... stumble home, and his parents were packing and what not for
their trip.  we went outside on the porch and ate something then passed out
on the floor (it was pouring rain outside that night)...  around 2-3am, his
parents (still packing) discover us on the porch, totally drunk and passed
out!  i helped my friend up to bed and i crashed too... the next morning, his
parents wake us up (gave all sort of talk about being drunks and how our
rooms smelled like booze/beer/bar) and remind us that we have to open up....

....

at 9:00 am, 45 minutes late, we get a call saying there are 60 (!!) people
waiting outside to get in!!   my roommate rushes over and opens up... looking
very hung-over........  we caught a bit of hell about that plus his parents
wanted to send us to detox !!

it was funny at the time anyways!  :-)
125.1379Lost dogTRACTR::MACINTYRETue Apr 27 1993 13:0446
    Shit, I am so tightly wrapped that I actually feel like I'm going to
    vomit.  My wife is a basket case and my son is bummed big time.
    
    We are currently taking care of my wife's old dog.  When we got married
    we lived in an apartment and could not take the dog with us.  Her
    ex-husband and his new family agreed to take Smoker and she's lived
    with them for hte past 3 years.
    
    They went away on a vacation and we agreed to dog-sit since we now live
    in our own home.  The dog is 16 yrs old, slow, frail and deaf.  The
    first night with us the dog kept my wife up much of the night whining. 
    The next night we brought the dog upstairs to our room and she was
    quiet but had crapped on the floor.
    
    Early this morning, about 3:15am, the dog woke me and I decided to take
    her out for a quick pee and whatever.  As I was letting her out my cat
    distracted me and tried to get out the door.  I grabbed the cat and
    tossed him back into the house, turned on the outside light and THE DOG
    WAS GONE!!!!!
    
    This animal is so old I figured it could be far off.  It was dark and
    snowing and cold.  I was in my bathrobe and sneakers.  No other
    clothes.  After a couple of minutes I went back in, put on pants and a
    coat and went back out looking for her.  No luck.
    
    I spent an hour walking the area.  Then after a quick warm up, I went
    out on my bike for another 1/2 hour.  Another warm up and my son and I
    drove around, still without finding Smoker.
    
    I've called the Nashua Police, the Milford and Merrimack Police as
    well.  I'll be calling the Nashua Humane Society when they open at
    10:00am.  I can't think of anything else to do.
    
    My wife has lost three dogs in the past and she is taking this very
    hard.  I know she blames me and that hurts a lot.  I'm so worried that
    if Smoker doesn't show up, she'll never forgive me.  My son says HE
    will not tell the owners what happened.  Of course, I said I would if
    we can't find Smoker.
    
    What am I going to do?  I feel so bad.  I LIKE SMOKER and don't want
    anything to happen to her.  
    
    This sucks so much...
    
    Marv
    
125.1380Hang in there...DRINKS::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Tue Apr 27 1993 13:1210
Hi Marv.

I'm sending good vibes your way!  I wish you the best of luck finding
her!

Dave

p.s. What area of Nashua do you live in?  You may wanna post a note in
the DOGS notesfile (DOGS::CANINE) and definitely the New Hampshire
notesfile, too.
125.1381More info on Afgan houndTRACTR::MACINTYRETue Apr 27 1993 13:2312
    North end of Nashua.  Fox street, off of broad, between the Dairy Queen
    and Berman Realty.  I posted in New Hampshire conference.
    
    Anyone in my general area are urged to call family and friends and ask
    them to be on the lookout.
    
    Home is 598-8527, office is dtn 264-2963.
    
    Thanks Dave and to all,
    
    Marv
    
125.1382LJOHUB::RILEYIt missed me and hit the SLASH-Mon!Tue Apr 27 1993 13:256
    
    Hey Marv,
    
    Hang in there, more good vibes are on there way...  :^)
    
    Tree 
125.1383CSCMA::M_PECKARBe kind: unwindTue Apr 27 1993 13:432
Beams to you marv...
125.1384TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Apr 27 1993 13:474
    
    Hang in there Marv..
    
    
125.1385MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Apr 27 1993 14:417

My vibes are with you and Smoker Marv!  Check quiet, private alcove type
places like underneath porches ... she has probably hid herself and stayed
put for hours.


125.1386 positive vibes coming your wayBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateTue Apr 27 1993 14:448
    
    Lots of positive vibes coming your way Marv.  I know the pain of
    looking for a lost animal.  Keep the faith and hopefully everything
    will work out.
    
    Ohhhhhhmmmmm,
    
    	Mark
125.1387TRACTR::MACINTYRETue Apr 27 1993 14:5414
    Thanks you guys.  Nothing's turned up yet.  I'm scared.  
    
    Lisa, good points.  I have a lunch meeting with the Big Boss from
    Maynard and after that I'm going to try to split and do a thorough
    "house-to-house".
    
    Come on Smoker!  Come home.
    
    Marv
    
    P.S.
     I'm also going to head to Smokers real home and see if she's tried to
    make it back there.
    
125.1388SALES::GKELLERKeep passing the open windowsTue Apr 27 1993 15:179
>    P.S.
>     I'm also going to head to Smokers real home and see if she's tried to
>    make it back there.
 

This is probably where you'll find him.

Geoff   

125.1389SALEM::BURNShow's 'bout a war on violence!Tue Apr 27 1993 15:313
    My fingers are crossed for ya Marv. Hope ole Smoker turns up for ya.
    
    Andy
125.1390Smoker returnsTRACTR::MACINTYRETue Apr 27 1993 15:4116
    I am so happy to tell you all that Smoker has been found.
    
    She was spotted about 5 miles away near the Merrimack River in east
    Nashua.  A man saw her laying on a lawn down the street and called the
    Police.  The cops called my home and then the man called my wife.  She
    had to lift Smoker into the car.  Smoker is shivering and very stiff
    but is fine otherwise.
    
    My marriage is saved.  My stomach is settling down.  My fatigue is
    beginning to overtake me (up since 3:15am and tense the whole time).
    
    My deepest thanks to everyone who sent vibes and good wishes and
    suggestions.  I am in your collective debt.
    
    Marv
    
125.1391whew!VXTST6::BOURDESSTue Apr 27 1993 15:495
    congratulations; glad to hear smoker's OK and you're no longer a
    nervous wreck.
    
    	Mike
    
125.1392:^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Apr 27 1993 15:516
    cool!  i like happy endings...  
    
    strange coincidence...  just last night a friend was telling me how she
    had searched all day for a cat...  never found the kitty though... :^(
    
    						da ve
125.1393ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMGUMBO!!!Tue Apr 27 1993 15:573
good to hear that everything turned out ok

- rich
125.1394SUBPAC::MAGGARDHave YOU changed your logo lately???Tue Apr 27 1993 15:598
Glad to hear Smoker's okay!

When I was a kid we had a cat that would 'disappear' for ~3 months at a time
every spring and come back in the summer.  We never knew where or how far
she went, but she always came back...

- jeff
125.1395BSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateTue Apr 27 1993 16:036
    
    Grate News Marv,
      Glad it all turned out ok.  
    
    	Peace,
    	Mark
125.1396warming vibes to Smoker !SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithTue Apr 27 1993 17:144
    great news !!! so do you think it will be a movie of the week soon ?
    :')
    
    Chris
125.1397(big sigh of relief!)DRINKS::WEISSBeer -- It does a body good.Tue Apr 27 1993 17:338
GRATE, Marv!

   I was very nervous that this was gonna have an unhappy ending!  I'm
very glad for Smoker (and you) that it didn't!

  Good vibes are a good thing!!! :-)

Dave
125.1398ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyTue Apr 27 1993 17:4312
re                   <<< Note 125.1390 by TRACTR::MACINTYRE >>>
                              -< Smoker returns >-

>    My marriage is saved.  My stomach is settling down.  My fatigue is
>    beginning to overtake me (up since 3:15am and tense the whole time).
 

sounds like you need some oatbran muffins with a couple of brews mon! :-)
yikes, major stress for ya!  

glad everything turnout cool mon!

125.1399MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Apr 27 1993 17:443
     Phew!  I feel much better so I know you must Marv.  Good news!

125.1400TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Apr 27 1993 18:026
    
    Great news!
    
    :-)
    
    
125.1401Smoker ReturnsTRETOP::SAMILJANTue Apr 27 1993 19:0316
    Gee, I had a good feeling about the whole Smoker Affair from the
    beginning.  But, being a pet owner, I know how unnerving it is when
    they disappear.
    
    Our deaf cat got out on one occasion when my wife and I were living in
    the Hollywood Hills.  There were often hungry coyotes coming down into
    the residential areas, so were concerned.  (Deaf cats don't come when
    you call them.)  We told our dog to "go find the kitty" and I'll be
    damned if he didn't run up the street two houses and into the garage
    where the cat was hiding under a car.  Took him all of 30 seconds.
    True story.
    
    Anyway, I'm relieved to hear about the happy ending to Smoker's Big
    Adventure.
    
    Bud
125.1402CXDOCS::BARNESTue Apr 27 1993 19:126
    happy ending before I could send vibes! %^) 
    
    having raised basset hounds and owning Arti the Assh*le now, i can
    relate....
    
    rfb (get a german shepard, they come home!)
125.1403MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue Apr 27 1993 19:444
Not quite on the same vein but my dog used to find the gerbils when they
routinely escaped. This pleased my mother to no end.  :-)

125.1404EBBV03::SMITHThe sun is getting highTue Apr 27 1993 19:566
	whew!

	I was glad to log in and see that good news!

	I like that name "Smoker"   heh heh
125.1405MISERY::VASQUEZ_JETue Apr 27 1993 22:217
>>Not quite on the same vein but my dog used to find the gerbils when they
>>routinely escaped. This pleased my mother to no end.  :-)
    
    Our cat was in charge of finding the hamsters when they got out.  Of 
    course, his idea of retreiving them varied a bit from ours. :-) As a
    matter of fact, I am convinced that the cat had learned how to open the
    hamster house whenever he needed some exercise.
125.1406i have to endure another summer of this....BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Tue Apr 27 1993 23:3511
    I'm all excited to go to the Rat this Friday to see my favorite Boston
    band, Mystery Jones.  Then I call and find out the show is 21+ !!!!!!!!
    AAAAARRRGGHHH!!!!  This is sickening....I don't even care about drinking, 
    I just get upset that I can't get into any shows because I'm not 21...
    and worse yet, I won't be 21 until October 25....that's 6 months away! 8(  
    I'm Mega bummed...:(  I was all excited to go....this happens to me all 
    the time.....I'm going to have to get some form of identification
    soon...
    
    :(, danielle
       
125.1407I remember saying that,, a LOOOOOOng time agoVOYAGR::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Apr 27 1993 23:445
    If it's any help I'm pretty sure slip-into-summer is all ages and
    that's only 1 month away.
    
    	It may be a long month, but that's just me
    Geoff
125.1408Can't wait to see slipknot!BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Tue Apr 27 1993 23:4910
    That's cool...Most of the slip shows have been 21+ this winter....i
    can't wait to see you guys!  
    
    There are some clubs I can get into, but I have to pay $8-$10 to get in
    because I'm under 21 and they won't make any money off me from drinks... 
    whereas my 21+ friends get in free...
    
    Bummer bummer...
    
    :), danielle
125.1409the 21 year old drinking age is stupidROCK::ROCK::FROMMGUMBO!!!Wed Apr 28 1993 03:148
>I'm going to have to get some form of identification
>    soon...

not that i would ever advocate breaking any laws, but it's amazing what a
macintosh, a camera, and a little investment of time will do for gaining
entry into bars

- rich
125.1410SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithWed Apr 28 1993 13:087
    I remember when the state of Massashottis raised the age to drink from
    18 to 21.....I was 3 months and 16 day away from 18.....well RI was
    anoly a 30 minute drive :') fridays in school was get the list and
    money day for the weekend parties, take the old mans micro-bus, fill it
    up and bring it back ! white-lightin' runners :')
    
    Chris
125.1411may your cup be full...SALEM::MARKIEWICZenfant de l'UniversWed Apr 28 1993 13:2911
    Marv,
    I just logged into notes after several days absence.  Was very glad
    your fright had a happy ending.  Be good to yourself today.  That
    was a tremendous range of emotions you went through yesterday.
    
    Danielle,
    
    I hope something happy happens to you to make up for your loss.  
    
    Rose
    
125.1412memoriesZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyWed Apr 28 1993 13:384
I remember when the drinking age was lower also.... i was on the "find a 
location for senior High school skip day committee" and MA was 21 by this
time.  VT was still 18, but, too far to go.  CT was 19, and we had i think
1 guy in our class who was 19, so we went there... Thompson CT.  
125.1413GNPIKE::HANNANBeyond description...Wed Apr 28 1993 13:438
	The drinking age was 18 when I started college at 17 yrs.
	So after a couple of months I was legal.  But then when I was 
	19 yrs old, the drinking age was raised to 20!  So I was legal 
	then illegal!  That was tough, until I found an id which 
	coincidentally I could use till I turned 20 - I could pass
	for the picture. 

	Ken
125.1414ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyWed Apr 28 1993 13:474
A popular thing to do to get an ID in my day was to take you older brother's
stuff (birth cert, ss card, etc) and go to the registry and say you lost your
license.  bars were not concerned w/ duplicate licenses then, nor was society
as litigious at today, and this made it easier to get 'in'.
125.1415TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonWed Apr 28 1993 13:515
    
    Sounds like I had it easy.  Not only was the drinking age 18 when I was
    young, but NY didn't have picture licenses.  
    
    
125.1416I remember them raisein' it tooBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateWed Apr 28 1993 13:5110
    
    I also remember when they raised the drinking age from 21 to 18 and
    then back up to 21.  I was 20 years 9 months when the age was raised
    back up.  I was illegal for 3 months again.   I had a tab down at the
    local packie and he told me to wait til I was legal again.
    
    Weird, old enough to vote, get married, fight and die for your country 
    yet too young to be trusted with a beer.
    
    	Mark
125.1417CXDOCS::BARNESWed Apr 28 1993 13:593
    i rememebr when the drinkin age was 10........
    
    rfb
125.1418MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed Apr 28 1993 14:017
yea, in NY it was 18 (till I turned 17 I think) but there were no pictures
on liscences so I just gave my friend Sue, who was also 5'1" with blue eyes,
money to get me a duplicate liscence.  She hit all the grandfather clauses
when the drinking age went from 18 -> 19 -> 21 so coincidentally so did I. ;^)


125.1419BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Wed Apr 28 1993 14:107
    My cousin is 22 and she was going to let me borrow her I.D....she was
    supposed to send it out a month ago and hasn't done it yet... but like I 
    said I could care less if I drink I just hate being turned away from shows
    because I'm not an 'adult'...I don't have any older sisters either. 
    But I do have 3 younger sisters.....they will be all set...;"))...
    
    :), danielle
125.1420 yeah...that's the ticket! BUSY::IRZAits a plaid, plaid, plaid, plaid weekendWed Apr 28 1993 14:185
    
       well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
     walk uphill to AND from the bar....
                                                        ^dave
                                                         
125.1421 8^) BUSY::IRZAits a plaid, plaid, plaid, plaid weekendWed Apr 28 1993 14:328
    
        FWIW...the loompanics catalogue has a whole section of books
     about false id's. this catalogue should be on everyone's coffee
     table...never saw such a collection of strange, exotic, bizzare
     books in my life...definitely worth the $5. investment...thanx
     to whoever it was who posted the ordering info a few months back!
    
                                                            ^dave
125.1422Hurry up & take your time :-)SALEM::MARTIN_SHit me with your rhythm stick...Wed Apr 28 1993 15:1216
    
    
    Call me prude, dude, but messing with fake ID's, borrowing ID's, et al,
    isn't worth the risk. Some places will just confiscate them, but others
    will call the 5-O's. Believe me, getting arrested *SUCKS* no matter
    what they bust you for. Just wait it out...time flies (really),
    especially if you don't count the months, days...
    
    re: Getting in to see the band
    
    If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
    They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
    assistant. It works most of the time.  
    
    
    Steve-O
125.1423What I might do....BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Wed Apr 28 1993 15:1612
    >> If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
    >> They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
    >> assistant. It works most of the time.
    
    Well, I know the singer pretty well (or so I think).  I was thinking of
    doing this, but I think that they get there early to set up, then come
    back right before they go on...but I'm not sure.  They need someone to
    sell tapes and shirts for them, so I was thinking of going in with that
    excuse...maybe it'll work...
    
    :), d
                                                        
125.1424LANDO::HAPGOODWed Apr 28 1993 15:3012
    >> If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
    >> They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
    >> assistant. It works most of the time.
    
I know a couple bands that can't play the Whitehorse any more because
of that (well maybe not that but what happened after they are in and are
having some drinks and not acting responsible ... not to even remotely 
imply that anyone in this conversation would do that).

bob


125.1425I know this story too!MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed Apr 28 1993 15:306
    
>       well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
>     walk uphill to AND from the bar....
 
	:-)  yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!

125.1426sob sobVXTST6::BOURDESSWed Apr 28 1993 15:366
>>       well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
>>     walk uphill to AND from the bar....
> 
>	:-)  yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!
    
    and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the bar :-(
125.1427MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed Apr 28 1993 15:3711
>>>       well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
>>>     walk uphill to AND from the bar....
>> 
>>	:-)  yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!
    
>    and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the bar :-(

	HA!  ;^)  My mom used this one too - which carried absolutely NO
	weight considering her father was a shoe maker!

125.1428BINKLY::CEPARSKISittin' plush with a Royal FlushWed Apr 28 1993 15:5513
    >>       well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we
    had to
    >>>     walk uphill to AND from the bar....
    >>
    >>      :-)  yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our
    eyelashes!
    
    >    and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the
    bar :-(
    
    
    But we were glad to have it!!      ;^)              -jeff
    
125.1429weird lawsQUIVER::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedWed Apr 28 1993 16:488
I turned 19 when the drinking age in NY was still 19.  I was legal as of Oct.
14.  Then, on Nov. 1, NY raised the drinking age to 21, with no grandfather
clause.  I had to wait another year and 11 months to drink again!

Then again, when I was home in CT, there was a liquor store that served me
anyway.  Of course, I'd have to get there before 8 pm! :-(

adam
125.1430talk about STUPID laws...SUBPAC::MAGGARDHave YOU changed your logo lately???Wed Apr 28 1993 21:3812
re -< weird laws >-

Hozabout that wonderful rule at the Garden where if you have an out-of-state
license, they won't sell you a beer unless it says you're 25!!!  What kind
of rule is that?!?!

...so now I hafta turn in my perfectly good NY license and stand in line for
3 hours and blow $80 to get a $%#&* MA license in order to drink a beer at a
B's game???  Nuh, uh!  Not this cowboy!  No siree!


- jeff_who_gets_his_girlfriend_to_buy_the_beer_instead_8-)
125.1431ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMGUMBO!!!Wed Apr 28 1993 21:5715
>Hozabout that wonderful rule at the Garden where if you have an out-of-state
>license, they won't sell you a beer unless it says you're 25!!!  What kind
>of rule is that?!?!

i'd rather drink nothing than blow $5 on a cup of the piss-water that they
call beer

but the rule is stupid anyway

at Great Woods they won't serve you if you have a license that was valid before
you were 21; i.e. if you got your license renewed when you were 20 and it's
good for 4 years, they won't serve you until you get a new one at 24; they
might just be this anal for out-of-state licenses 

- rich
125.14328)BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Thu Apr 29 1993 02:136
    >> i'd rather drink nothing than blow $5 on a cup of the piss-water that
    >> they call beer
    
    hahahaha...
    
    :), d
125.1433ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyThu Apr 29 1993 13:2311
Well folks, YOU CAN'T BLAME THE BARS/LIQUOR STORES FOR THE PARANOIA...



Blame the people who provoked them, mainly, lawyers and all the people who
like to sue others for everything and anything they can get whenever there
is a chance to get some money outta someone.....


btw jeff, MA license doesn't cost $80... actually, after July 1, Gov Weld
lowers the rates... not sure what it'll be though....
125.1434XCUSME::MACINTYREThu Apr 29 1993 13:2521
    I was a senior in H.S. back in 1974 when I turned 18.  The drinking age
    in NH at that time was 18.  It was a weird situation in that I could
    legally go to a bar, have some drinks and then have to get up the next
    morning and go to highschool.  I don't think it was a very good idea
    having the drinking age that low.
    
    I wasn't an overachiever in H.S. and I think *some* of that had to do
    with the fact that I could booze it up.  
    
    My little (younger) brother was caught in the "Legal then not legal
    drinking age" change when he was 18.  After drinking legally for about
    6 months he had to stop and wait for another 2-plus years to do it
    again.
    
    Maybe now that I'm an old fart I'm a little more conservative on this
    but I think 21 is as good an age as any and better than 18.
    
    Just MHO,
    
    Marv
    
125.1435ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyThu Apr 29 1993 13:3734
re                   <<< Note 125.1434 by XCUSME::MACINTYRE >>>

IMO, not attacking you marv, just commenting...


>    morning and go to highschool.  I don't think it was a very good idea
>    having the drinking age that low.
 
during my H.S. years, it was always 21.  BUT, that did not stop us from 
getting whatever we needed whenever we needed it.  we had a network of
guys we could call to make packy runs for us.  the drinking age thing presented
nearly ZERO resistance.

>    Maybe now that I'm an old fart I'm a little more conservative on this
>    but I think 21 is as good an age as any and better than 18.
    
i think it has to do primarily with the way alcohol is treated in this
country.  my old man used to let me and my friends have a couple around the
house when i was younger... it was no big deal, i sort of grew up with it.
but, i saw some folks who hit college, had their first drinks, and ended
up flunking out later on.  it starts in the home, really.  education on
alcohol is important, and should be taught by those who have experience...
alcohol can be used responsibly.

when i was in austria, you'd often see young kids having a beer.  these kids
didn't slam back 10 beers, they'd just have one or two.  same with the young
kids i saw in ireland.  same in germany.  same in the netherlands.  it is
a social thing there, where as kids in the USA today are taught that alcohol 
is taboo.  

about the ID thing people have been talking about:  never once have i been
or have i seen anyone asked for proof of age while travelling in europe.
definitely a USA kinda thing.

125.1436Things could be worse, I guess....NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Thu Apr 29 1993 16:3713
This leaves me with a couple of impressions...

First of all, I always feel grateful to anyone nice enough to card me.  I've
been known to frequent places more often because they will.  Mid-life crisis,
I guess...;-)

The other thing - a friend of mine from long ago (high school) became a high
school teacher when he got his B.S.  At the time, in New Jersey, the drinking
age was 18.  He found it more than a little awkward going to a bar on a friday
night only to find his waitress was one of his students....I guess that's the 
other side of Marv's coin, eh?

tim
125.1437ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMGUMBO!!!Thu Apr 29 1993 17:208
>At the time, in New Jersey, the drinking
>age was 18.  He found it more than a little awkward going to a bar on a friday
>night only to find his waitress was one of his students....

that could still happen; you can serve alcohol if you're 18 - you just can't
drink it

/r
125.1438few places card me anymore, sigh....SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Apr 30 1993 14:5715
    When I turned 18 back in '73 the drinking age was still 18, but I
    wasn't interested in alcohol at the time.  I had some other vices
    which appealed to me more ;-)  I think it was about towards the
    end of my freshman year that I had my first drink, and it still wasn't
    all that thrilling.  I eventually found beer ;-) and settled into my
    niche.  I've still got all the hard liquor we bought for the guests
    that was left over from our wedding coming up on 10 years next 
    month.  I did open up some vodka recently to try to soak the flavor
    out of a vanilla bean when I was making choclate chip cookies and
    ran out of vanilla extract.  I guess I could have used some of the
    kahlua we made a few years back too.  Hmmm, now that would probably 
    make some interesting cookies ;-)
    
    PeterT
    
125.1439bummer w/questionCSLALL::BRIDGESAnods asGood asA wink toA blindBatTue May 18 1993 13:2222
   A bummer and a question. 
 First the story.  Last night we witnessed for the second time one of our 
 cats have a siezure. The first time it happened (that we witnessed) was
 in the middle of the night, Our son woke my wife and I up screaming at the
 cat to "Stop it!". When we went in his room the cat was spazing out, foaming
 at mouth and his bladder let loose. We called Angel (?) memorial in Boston.
 They explained that it was epelipse (sp?) and that if he was ok wait till
 morning and call our vet.

   Well, this occurred again last night at 3:00 am. And who knows how many 
  other times. We have found other areas he likes to sleep that smell of urine.

   My wife is bring him to the vet today to discuss options.

  My question is to pet owners, in particular pet owners who have had pets die
 when they have had young children attached to said pet. 

  "How did you (or would you) explain to a young child the death of a pet?"

 Shawn

125.1440MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereTue May 18 1993 13:5517
Wow Shawn ... death is never easy, young or old and I think that of a pet is
especially tough because the pet can't tell you how they feel.  However, it is
important not to lie to or mislead children.  As his parents your son will trust
and believe anything you and your wife tell him - and you may be suprised to 
hear what he remembers 20 years from now.

If I were you I'd be as gentle as I could while I said that the cat was sick
and is now in Heaven with God (or whatever your personal religious beliefs
dictate) where he/she feels much better and is enjoying herself/himself.

At some point in our lives we are all exposed to death and must learn to accept
it.  That is a long process, takes some of us a lifetime and we don't get it -
but the best thing you can do for your son is give him a realistic, valid
base to start with so that he won't have to deprogram himself years from now. 

Lisa
125.1441like she said...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue May 18 1993 14:124
    ...and a lot of  hugs...
    
    tim
    
125.1442many concernsCSLALL::BRIDGESAnods asGood asA wink toA blindBatTue May 18 1993 14:2037
>>           <<< Note 125.1440 by MRNGDU::YETTO "the future is here" >>>


>>Wow Shawn ... death is never easy, young or old and I think that of a pet is
>>especially tough because the pet can't tell you how they feel.  However, it is
>>important not to lie to or mislead children.  As his parents your son will trust
>>and believe anything you and your wife tell him - and you may be suprised to 
>>hear what he remembers 20 years from now.

  I wouldn't be suprised at all. At 3 1/2 yrs. his memory is already sharp as
 a tack. He brings thing up from over a year ago.

  I'm really hoping my wife comes back from the vet with some optomistic news.
 But the last time we talk with the vet about medication he said the cat 
 would not have much of a life.

>>If I were you I'd be as gentle as I could while I said that the cat was sick
>>and is now in Heaven with God (or whatever your personal religious beliefs
>>dictate) where he/she feels much better and is enjoying herself/himself.

  I really don't want to put the cat down because of this. Yesterday my son
 saw a commercial for the show "Highway to Heaven". He then asked me 
 "What's heaven?" I ignored him for a while (not the right thing to do, but
 I didn't want to try to explain my beliefs till he's a little older.).

 When he persisted (which he always does. 8-) I told him.. "It's where you go
when you die if your good."  He then said "Well I'm Bad." I asked "Why?"

  he replied "I don't want to die." so I explained that you don't die if your
 good... etc. He misunderstood what i said.   NEways since he is a little 
 confused right now about death I fear that if I put the cat down and tell
 him it was because the cat was sick, my son might equate "sick" to dying.
 

 Shawn

ps. thanks for the support, Lisa.
125.1443CSCMA::M_PECKARBe kind: unwindTue May 18 1993 15:3019
Here's my take. I do not have experience with kids this age however.

I believe its o.k. to tell kids this age about heaven and hell, the devil 
and angels, and God, regardeless of your own religion/philosophy. Our 
culture is too proliferated with these symbols anyway, so every time he see's 
a reference, it creates an uncomfortable situation. Same deal with Santa 
Claus, etc.

Do it, however, with the understanding that when the child is old enough to
grasp more abstract concepts, then you tell him/her that devil's don't
really exist; they are only stories made up for little children to explain
life and death in simpler terms. Older children will understand this. Not
only will your child be less confused in the long run, but he/she will feel
more mature when the understanding comes. Perhaps mature enough even to
understand the logic behind the lie. The child must definitely learn that 
the parent is fallable and human too...

Does that help?
125.1444CXDOCS::BARNESTue May 18 1993 17:5311
    My kids are 13 and 16 now, but we've had oddles of pets die throughout
    the times our family has been together...that's cause we've had oddles
    of pets. Death is inevatable <--(sp), the best thing to do if the cat
    has to go is get another one real quick. Replace the pain with anew
    love. We have a german shep that gettin old, maybe one more year. I do
    not believe in letting animals suffer, even if i do stick to the theory
    "it's just a -----" (insert dog, cat, mouse etc.) which just helps me
    cope. Death IS a part of life...that concept eventually must be taught
    to kids, at whawt age dependss on the kid....IMO anyway. 
    
    rfb
125.1445GOOD NEWSCSLALL::BRIDGESAnods asGood asA wink toA blindBatWed May 19 1993 12:4425
   Well some good news.

  When the vet called with the results of the blood tests he gave Max (the cat)
 a clean bill of health. He then spent twenty minutes on the phone with my wife.
 He said that cats feel no pain and suffer no ill-effects from the siezures.
 It's alot more painful for the person viewing it. After seeing two of them 
 I can say it is VERY horrible to watch, and I find it hard to believe that
 cat can't feel anything. But I not a vet(and i don't play one on tv 8-).

  The vet gave us a choice 1. is to do nothing except chart the siezure the
 best we can, and if we see one LEAVE THE CAT ALONE. Let it run it's course
 and time it, as long as it's short (no more than five minutes) he'll be ok.
 Also make sure there is nothing near the cat that he could knock over onto 
 himself. The best thing would be to confine him at night and look for signs
 (puddle of urine) in the morning.

  The second choice is to put him on medication. The downside of that is Max 
 must have it at the same time of day every day of his life, which could be
 another ten years 8-).  The vet thinks that unless Max was has five siezures 
 a day there really is no need for medication.

  NEways it turned out to be good news in the end.

 Shawn

125.1446CXDOCS::BARNESWed May 19 1993 13:024
    jeez, as long as it doesn't hurt Max, I'd think you'd have a most
    excellent party trick to show people...%^)
    
    rfb
125.1447NRSTA2::CLARKElectric Music for the Mind and BodyWed May 19 1993 13:144
Shawn, did the vet say what causes the seizures?  Maybe a poisonous plant,
or something?

- dc
125.1448They really don't knowCSLALL::BRIDGESAnods asGood asA wink toA blindBatWed May 19 1993 13:3325
 RE: <<< Note 125.1447 by NRSTA2::CLARK "Electric Music for the Mind and Body" >>>

>>Shawn, did the vet say what causes the seizures?  Maybe a poisonous plant,
>>or something?

   They really don't know. He said with dog's it's usually from alot of 
  excitement through out the day, ie; a party with alot of people, then 
  when they sleep they dream about it and have a siezure, but where cat
  have a BFD attitude about everything it's not that. What I can't believe is
  that no brain damage or pain occurs. It really is a traumatic thing to see.


    When I was in grade school I saw a classmate have an epileptic siezure.
  That doesn't compare IMO to the cat's. 

    My other cat Tigger (with 2 g's) doesn't know what to make of it. If
   a cat can look concerned, Tigger does. 

 RE: rfb 

   AS warp as ever 8-), I've sure missed read your notes for the past year 
  or so. 


Shawn
125.1449MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed May 19 1993 14:244
phew Shawn!  Thanks for the update.  I'm happy for Max, and the rest of the
family!!!

125.1450SUBPAC::MAGGARDRoll Like a Canteloupe, Out of Your Bowl!Wed May 19 1993 16:4631
> What I can't believe is that no brain damage or pain occurs. It really is
> a traumatic thing to see.

With human epilepsy, a person can sallow her/his tongue and choke, causing
dain bramage or death in rare instances.  Human epileptics can also injure
themselves falling (when the seizure starts) or thrashing about banging
their heads into the floor, objects, etc.  That's why if you see someone
have a seizure, its good to hold/protect their head and make sure they are
breathing.  Just don't stick your fingers in the person's mouth (they might
bite).

I don't know if the same things can happen to cats, but the vet should know.


re: lying to kids about pet deaths

My parents lied to me two times when two pets died when I was young.  They
said that the pets just ran away.  For years I waited for them to come back,
expecting that eventually some day they would.  MANY years later, the topic
came up in conversation and I found out the truth.  It pissed me off that
they lied to me like that, assuming that my young tender mind couldn't
handle it.  Sheesh, I'd been killing things (ants, worms, etc.) for years!  

It's better for a child to experience the pain of the loss of a loved
one/pet/etc., than to be put (unknowningly, to find out later) through
denial.  Teaching one's children to deny traumatic events, either by example
or directly, rather than to face their pain and get-over it is very wrong,
imo.


- jeff
125.1451watch for cause and effectCAADC::BABCOCKFri May 21 1993 16:4020
    Hi, 
    
    I had a dog that had seizures (?).  He was a big poodle (maybe 85 lb.).
    We kept him at our farm for about a year while his people were having
    housing problems.  My biggest fear was that he would have a seizure
    while among the goat, who do NOT like dogs at all.  Well, one day it
    happened.  he collapsed with the herd around him.  They all stood there
    looking at him for a minute and then roamed off.  It was as if they
    understood that he was harmless in that state, and did not require any
    defensive action.  
    
    NOTE:  I did find a strong correlation between his seisures and hunger.
    If he go really hungry, like with a lot of exercise and excitement, and
    missed a meal, he would have problems.  If I fed him several small
    meals a day, so he never really got hungry, he would go for months
    without a seisure.  Your cat's case may be entirely different, but it
    is ssomething worth observing.
    
    Judy
    
125.1452end of a chapter...SALEM::MARKIEWICZenfant de l'UniversMon May 24 1993 15:546
    Well, Digital in its infinite wisdom has decided to give me the summer
    off ( and the rest of my life too).  I put this in the bummer note
    because losing the ability to enjoy this notesfile is the worst part. 
    I've sensed for awhile that this was coming.  I'm going to take this as
    an opportunity to investigate new directions for my life.  I'll be
    around for a few more days so I won't say good bye yet.
125.1453TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonMon May 24 1993 17:036
    
    :-(  We'll miss you in here, Rose.  Good luck on your new path.
    
    peace,
    Phyllis
    
125.1454Truly a Bummer XCUSME::MACINTYREMon May 24 1993 17:286
    The "Bummer Note" is exactly where this belongs.  Sorry to hear this. 
    Other friends here in MKO are being notified today also.  Good luck
    Rose.
    
    Marv
    
125.1455BSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateMon May 24 1993 17:326
    Hey Rose,
      THis is a big bummer.  Sorry to hear the news and hope you find
    something good to do in the future.  Keep the faith and positive vibes
    coming your way.
    
    	Mark
125.1456NRSTA2::CLARKElectric Music for the Mind and BodyMon May 24 1993 17:571
:^(
125.1457ouch :^(SALEM::BURNShow's 'bout a war on violence!Tue May 25 1993 10:338
    Oh nooo! I'll miss your smiling face here. You've always made me
    happier with your peaceful, caring attitude. Stopping and chatting
    with you every now and again left me with a good feeling that there
    are indeed people like you in this world :^)
    
    peace, and good luck,
    
    Andy
125.1458ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyTue May 25 1993 13:162
Best wishes Rose!
jc
125.1459STUDIO::IDECan't this wait 'til I'm old?Fri May 28 1993 14:4219
    Here comes another holiday which has been corrupted into a three day
    weekend.  How long before all of our holidays lose their meaning?  I'm
    especially ticked off this year because New Hampshire has given in and
    made Memorial Day fall on a Monday instead of celebrating it on its
    traditional day (May 30).  That leaves Vermont as the only state which
    puts any stock in this tradition.

    That also leaves Independence Day and Christmas (Religion Appreciation
    Day or somesuch if you live in Cambridge) as the only federal holidays
    celebrated on their traditional days.

    I like a three day weekend as much as anyone, but these holidays lose
    much of their meaning, and we lose a bit of our heritage, when we move
    them around to suit our schedules.

    Jamie

    PS - You older GRATEFUL noters can feel free to bemoan the loss of
         Armistice Day.  :-)
125.1460MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CRa blinding flash o'the obviousFri May 28 1993 15:1010
    RE: .1459
    
    Armistice day you say!?!?!??!!  Sllllowly I turn, step by step .... 
    Jamie - what about the real arbor day?  what about the real
    thanksgiving day?  what about the real Ode To Batman day?
    
    let's keep our priorities straight :-)
    
     
    
125.1461CXDOCS::BARNESFri May 28 1993 15:453
    take a 4 day weekend!!!!
    
    rfb goin fishin
125.1462:)BINKLY::DEMARSERipple in still water...Fri May 28 1993 16:195
    I kinda like the long weekend.....and specific days are irrelevent to
    me.  Whether Memorial Day is on a Monday or on May 30th I'll still 
    memorialize the same....<  
    
    :), danielle
125.1463VXTST6::BOURDESSFri May 28 1993 19:084
>    me.  Whether Memorial Day is on a Monday or on May 30th I'll still 
>    memorialize the same....<  
    
    Here Here !!!
125.1464;^)VOYAGR::SAMPSONDriven by the windFri May 28 1993 19:555
    Re; Here Here!!!
    
    Not me! I'm going home!
    
    
125.1465bye nowCAADC::BABCOCKTue Jun 01 1993 16:356
    Well gang, I just got TFSOed.  I has been grate noting with you all.
    I am not sure what I will do next, but I am sure it will be
    interesting.  Best of luck to all of you.
    
    Blessed Be
    Judy
125.146633593::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Jun 01 1993 17:267
    
    :-(  Sorry to hear that Judy.  :-(  
    Good luck wherever life leads you.
    
    peace,
    Phyllis
    
125.1467ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Jun 01 1993 18:413
    best wishes in life beyond DEC!
    
    					da ve
125.1468fare thee well...SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyTue Jun 01 1993 20:116
    Yikes!  It's starting again.  I got a call from a head-hunter this
    afternoon looking for bodies to place.  I guess they're useful, but
    I don't like the tactics.  Good luck Judy!
    
    PeterT
    
125.1469MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereWed Jun 02 1993 13:555
good luck Judy, and enjoy your life after DEC ... it exists if you'll let it!!

    

125.1470you know your a parent when....SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyWed Jun 02 1993 20:2712
    Just got a call from my wife that she had a small car accident.
    It seems that while driving into the garage, she got distracted by my
    daughter, and ended up impaling the car on one of the handles of 
    the wheelbarrow!  And now she can't get it out.  Well, hopefully it's
    just the bumper (as she said) and it hasn't gone through and
    impaled the radiator as well.
    Hannah (daughter) said it was all her (Amy's) fault ;-)
    Somebody suggested I get a picture of this, as it isn't an everyday 
    occurence...
    
    PeterT
    
125.1471MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windThu Jun 03 1993 12:364
    sorry to her you're leave Judy! This seems to be hitting the file agin.
    
    Good luck with your future!!!
    	Geoff
125.1472yet another round :^(SALEM::BURNShow's 'bout a war on violence!Thu Jun 03 1993 13:413
    Good luck with whatever comes your way Judy. 
    
    peace,Andy
125.1473:^(BSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateThu Jun 03 1993 13:476
    
    Sorry to hear the news Judy.  Hopefully something grate will come your
    way.  keep the faith
    
    	Mark
    
125.1474CXDOCS::BARNESThu Jun 03 1993 14:324
    wanna second, third, and fourth all the good luck wishes in here for
    you Judy...keep da faith
    
    rfb
125.1475CX3PST::BSS::DSMITHFri Jun 04 1993 17:487
    
    Good,good,good luck Judy!
    
    Things will be better in your new life!
    
    
    Divide Dave
125.1476:-(CSCMA::M_PECKARLive together, Play togetherFri Jun 11 1993 13:0116
I thought I enetered this a few days ago, but probs reminded me that I 
hadn't.

Rachel broke her lower fibula while taking a bad step off the kitchen porch
last friday. To top it all off, I had gum surgery Monday and my back is out
after having to move about four tons of stuff last weekend. Funny thing is,
My back was fine until yesterday when I picked up just one thing the wrong
way. Just goes to show... 

The big bummer is having to cancel a camping trip we've been planing for
two months; our first trip this season. Having to punt on doing EICON
training in Montreal next week and missing Giants wasn't so bad in
comparaison. 

Many thanks to da ve in particular for helping us out this weekend...
125.1477CXDOCS::BARNESFri Jun 11 1993 13:432
    keep da faith fog.....hope both ya'll are back in the pink soon
    rfb
125.1478TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonFri Jun 11 1993 14:305
    
    lots of {{{beams}}} to the fogs!  Hope Charlie's taken good care of you
    two. :-)
    
    
125.1479ohhhhmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!BSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateFri Jun 11 1993 15:105
    hey fog,
       I sending some good vibes your way also.  Tell Rachel I said hello. 
    
    	Mark
    
125.1480Be careful out there!!!QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Jun 11 1993 15:2324
Hope you feel better soon Fog.  I know how that back situation can go.
Sometimes I wonder if doing a lot of heavy work pre-dispositions you
for for the "How the hell could I hurt my back lifting that book?!"
type accident.  But, I'm not a doctor and I don't play one on TV.

Saw a nasty looking accident this morning.  Coming off the Rte offramp onto
495 northbound, one small red sedan was flipped over onto it's roof, a 
delivery van had the drivers side (fortunately behind the driver)
crumpled in.  A few other cars might have been involved but those were
the worst.  This must have happened just minutes before I got there.
No real backup on the road, no cops yet, and one woman looking into the
window of over-turned car to check on the person or persons inside.
It occured to me to stop and help out, but there were already about 10
or more cars pulled over and I think I would have just added to the 
inevitble tie-up and confusion.  I did think about flagging down a cop
as I continued on, but didn't see any in the usual construction areas
that I pass by up Rte 3. (Well, I did see one car, but not the cop, and
there wasn't really enough space to stop)  Sigh.... Doing a lot of driving
as I do it hits home how one minute you can be listening to a dead
tune and the next ....
Hope everyone was all right.

Later,
PeterT
125.1481gloomy day in nerdvilleNRSTA2::CLARKElectric Music for the Mind and BodyFri Jun 11 1993 17:2310
Fun with Pathworks:

	C: COPY R:*.*
	C: DEL R:*.*
	All files will be deleted!  Are you sure [y/n]? y
	C: DIR

	WHERE THE HECK ARE MY FILES?!?

Oh well ... 5 hours of work down the drain, what the heck ....
125.1482ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyFri Jun 11 1993 17:368
re  <<< Note 125.1481 by NRSTA2::CLARK "Electric Music for the Mind and Body" >>>
                          -< gloomy day in nerdville >-

>Fun with Pathworks:

Sounds more like fun with DOS!   DOS does some really stupid non-intuitive
things sometimes!

125.1483NRSTA2::CLARKElectric Music for the Mind and BodyFri Jun 11 1993 17:417
I think what happened is Pathworks locked up a bunch of files, and the
DOS COPY command wasn't able to copy them but didn't report that it
couldn't ... and being the naive kinda guy I am, I assumed it did.

Oy.

- DC
125.1484SSGV01::GPEACE::StrobelJust Say No - To BARNEY!!!Fri Jun 11 1993 19:325
healing vibes heading to the Fog estate. Based on all of the running I saw 
Charlie doing at SIS, he should be able to take care of you and Rachel easily 
:-)

jeff
125.1485CSCMA::M_PECKARLive together, Play togetherFri Jun 11 1993 19:547
Thanks for the vibes.  Speaking of accidents, last weekend while I was 
driving up I-95 in CT in a large truck, I saw a guy fall asleep at the 
wheel and swerve off the highway into the gaudrail right in front of me.  
He also severed a tall light pole, and I watched helplessly as it slowly 
fell right in my path. I ran over it just after it hit the road. Scary, but 
no damage to me or the truck. The guy was allright, too. It was actually 
fun to watch those alluminum poles work the way they are supposed to.
125.1486ZENDIA::FERGUSONYour recipe is so tastyTue Jun 15 1993 17:541
Geezus Fog, that musta scared the crap out of you mon!!!!!!!!!!
125.1487CSCMA::M_PECKARLive together, Play togetherTue Jun 15 1993 19:2710
Not really. I used to commute up and down that very same section of I95 
between Bridgeport and The Bronx, seen all kinds of stuff: hey you gotsta 
when there are 200,000 cars per day crusin' through.  Also, those public 
safety films from the seventies which showed how collapsable light poles 
worked sure went a long way towards easin' my worried mind when it came down.

The most scary incident: Discovering that I had passed over the section of 
Mianus River Bridge between 10 and 15 minutes before it collapsed back in 
'84 or '85-ish. I still get the heebie geebies thinking about that one.
125.1488LANDO::HAPGOODTue Jun 29 1993 15:195
Missed saying bye to all those folks who left last week.

oh well that's what happens when you are/were on vacation....
bob

125.1489SUBPAC::MAGGARDI want a workstation now dammit!Tue Jul 06 1993 18:179
My folks called me last night...

...to tell me my grandmother passed away.

8-(


- jeff_bummin'
125.1490TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Jul 06 1993 18:334
    
    sorry to hear that, Jeff.  :-(
    
    
125.1491:^(ESKIMO::DWESTif wishes were horses...Tue Jul 06 1993 18:483
    me too Jeff...  peace...
    
    					da ve
125.1492Hang in ther, jeffBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateTue Jul 06 1993 18:524
    
    thoughts are with you.  
    
    	Mark
125.1493CXDOCS::BARNESTue Jul 06 1993 19:043
    my thought are with you too.....keep da faith
    
    rfb
125.1494POWDML::MACINTYRETue Jul 06 1993 20:044
    Sorry to hear about it.  Blessing to you and family.
    
    Marv
    
125.1495CX3PST::BSS::DSMITHWed Jul 07 1993 18:516
    
    
     Jeff sorry to hear that.. 
    
    Divide Dave
    
125.1496Good times bad times, ya know I've had my shareEBBCLU::SMITHSo many roads tease my soulThu Jul 08 1993 20:5616

	I hate going to the doctors, but this time I was smart to go,
	cause it may save my life.  I was unfortunately told that I have 
	a form of skin cancer and that it needs to be removed.
	I wasn't to pleased to say the least.  I really shouldn't 
	be putting this in the bummer note because it seems that as long 
	as the spreading is minimal, I am going to be fine, I guess I'll 
	know fer sure come Monday.  
	
	It seems like everything in my life is going to pot right now...
	cept my lungs! ;-)

	"I'll get back on my feet someday"		

	
125.1497vibe, vibe, vibe, vibe ...ROCK::CAMPR::FROMMGUMBO!!!Thu Jul 08 1993 21:073
sending good vibes your way, deane

/rich
125.1498TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonThu Jul 08 1993 21:078
    
    major {{{vibes}}} heading your way...
    
    skin cancer is definately completely curable.
    
    wear that sunscreen everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    
125.1499CXDOCS::BARNESThu Jul 08 1993 21:099
    hey SMITH (DEAN?),
    keep da faith, man. My dad has had a form or skin cancer for years.
    He's only had it cut out twice in those many, many, many years. 
    And the procedure was no big deal. 
    Keeping out of direct sun will help in the future also. 
    So, although it looks/sounds bad now, hang in there and things will be
    all right.
    
    rfb
125.1500SUBPAC::MAGGARDLife is like a blowoff hose...Thu Jul 08 1993 21:4214
Thanks for the kind thoughts and words, everybody!


------

re: last few

Dean-O ... I'm vibin' for ya!!!


OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm............

- jeff
125.15010000hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmBSS::MNELSONNo Time To HateThu Jul 08 1993 23:086
    
    hey Dean-o al sorts of good vibes headin' your way.  Positive attitude
    can go many many miles.  Keep the faith and take extra care mon.
    
    	Mark
    
125.1502keep smilin'! :^)ESKIMO::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Jul 09 1993 13:046
    still more vibes comin for Deane....
    
    a friend of mine here just recently had some similar problems...  fear
    not dude...  this is one thing they know how to deal with...
    
    						da ve
125.1503EST::BOURDESSFri Jul 09 1993 13:263
    best wishes Deane-O'  Keeep yer head up!
    
    	Mike
125.1504former lifeguard - hardly ever get a tan these days....QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Jul 09 1993 13:353
Hope things look up soon for you Deane.  Watch out for the sun!

PeterT
125.1505my middle name is now SPF15 ;-)EBBCLU::SMITHSo many roads tease my soulFri Jul 09 1993 14:0520
	Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

	sniff....

	It's real major to know how great of a support group 
	there is out there.  

	It's also nice to see grate things happening to 
	other people out there (Julie's skating, birthdays,
	newborns) and it gives me da faith that good things
	will happen soon, despite the bad things! :-)

	Speaking of good things, last night I got a 98% on a
	difficult exam...

	it just goes to show you don't ever know. :-)

	and everyone wear sunblock DAMMIT! it can happen to 
	anybody!
125.1506ooooooooooooooooooooohhmmmmmmmmmmmSSGV01::GPEACE::Strobelwhere's my hammock?Fri Jul 09 1993 17:181
Deane, hang in there. The positve-vibraphone is aimed in your direction
125.1507One of those days pet owners dread most...TRETOP::SAMILJANMon Jul 19 1993 18:5843
    Well, there comes a time in every good kitty's life when #9 rolls
    around.  The cat we had for the last 13 years died on Friday.  He'd 
    had some kidney problems and they just kept gettin' worse.  The vet
    said he was probably comfortable, not in pain, so we might as well
    keep him around the people he loved.  Mr. Kitty got darn near skeletal
    in the last couple weeks, but he just seemed lazy more than anything
    else.
    
    When my wife and kids got home Friday afternoon, Kitty was curled up
    on the chair, just where we'd left him earlier.  He looked like he was
    sleeping with his eyes open, only he had gotten kind of stiff.  He would
    have made a good coat hook at this point.
    
    My wife and I found that cat the day we moved in together 13 years ago.
    We figured he was about a year old back then.  He was deaf and had two
    different color eyes.  He'd been through a lot with us; travelled 
    cross-country, moved to several homes, watched us have a couple of kids.  
    He was a part of us, as you pet owners know.  He was a good friend,
    even though we did use him as a pin to play "Bowling for Kitties" in
    his younger days.
    
    My three-year-old and I went out and dug a good hole along the stone
    wall in the back yard.  (Three-year-olds are a BIG help on projects such
    as this.)  It was kind of tough explaining to him why we had to put
    his old pal Kitty into this hole in the ground, but he didn't seem too
    upset.  I tried to explain how living things eventually stop breathing,
    moving, seeing, and just plain stop "being."  This was a difficult
    concept when he could see the cat right there all wrapped up.  My son
    is still asking about the cat, and I expect he will continue to do so.
    In fact, the next morning, my son told me he had seen Mr. Kitty walking
    away from the house up the street.  I'm not so sure he didn't.
    
    It's funny when you lose an animal you've had for along time---you
    still see him around out of the corner of your eye, still hear his steps, 
    or the jingle of his collar.
    
    We're pretty bummed out still, but we're doing fine.  These things take
    time.  You can't easily forget a presence that's been in your life for
    that many years.
    
    I knew I'd find some understanding here.
    
    Bud
125.1508ISLNDS::CONNORS_MMon Jul 19 1993 19:259
    
    Bud, I'm so sorry....  I'm sure Kitty had a wonderful life 
    with you and your family.  I have not experienced the loss
    of a pet (yet... my kitty (TJ) is 16+).  I'm sure this is a
    tough week for you.  
    
    peace...
    
    MJ 
125.1509EBBCLU::SMITHSo many roads tease my soulMon Jul 19 1993 19:4921
	Sorry to hear Bud,

	I've never had a pet too long....I did see my parakeet
	crawl up and croak right in front of me when I was about
	5 or so.  My Mother told me that I had no choice but 
	be strong and face the fact that ol Tweety was gone and
	it wasn't bad to have been told this at a young age...
	thats fer sure!
	
	Little did I know, she taught me what I consider now
	to be one of the most valuable things I ever learned:

	How to try'n deal with loss!

	I don't know anyone who's got the ol loss thing mastered
	but if someone out there has a recipe or something,
	don't hesitate to post it! :-) 
	
		

125.1510CXDOCS::BARNESMon Jul 19 1993 21:278
    sorry to hear that Bud, get another cat, it's the best thing to help
    eleveate the loss..
    
    Dean, 
    I cry.....
    
    
    rfb
125.1511TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonMon Jul 19 1993 21:506
    
    Sorry to hear that, Bud.  I remember what I felt like when our dog
    died.. it definately hurts.  Peace to you..
    
    Phyllis
    
125.1512CSLALL::BENJAMINTue Jul 20 1993 00:373
      Some #@&*%^# truck driver ran over one of our swans here at DAS
    over the weekend....the other swan just stands around looking so
    sad.... :-(
125.1513Some thoughts on loss...LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Jul 20 1993 12:2826
Bud, sorry to hear about your loss.

Deane brings up a good point: learning to deal with loss.  The death of a
pet to a child can be a dramatic introduction to dealing with loss.  As an
adult, there are so many different times you need to use this skill that
it's valuable to learn it early on.  The death of someone close, like a
parent or a child, or even a good friend; divorce or the loss of a serious
relationship; even serious financial loss, like being laid off and the
social pressure that can result - these all remind us of the ephemeral
nature of our lives.  Put two or three of them together in a short time
frame, and you really have a problem.

It undermines our sense of security, especially in the future.  A child sees
this in the loss of a pet, and wonders about the mortality of their parents
or themselves.  An adult sees it in the loss of a parent or loved one, and
questions their own values, goals and even self-worth.  The challenge is to
face the grief, go through it without losing yourself, accept the loss and
move on.  The last part is the hardest.  Friends and family can help, but
in the end we must find the strength in ourselves.  I think, more often than
not, we surprise ourselves at how much strength we have.  After all, in most
cases it's not like we have any choice but to go on living.  It takes time.
You cry alot.

Carpe diem.

tim
125.1514TRETOP::SAMILJANTue Jul 20 1993 13:065
    re: -.1
    
    Thanks, Tim.  Nicely said.
    
    Bud
125.1515Bad Karma for me for Bahston? NahBSS::MNELSONRipples in still WaterMon Aug 30 1993 18:4313
    
    First I get shut out on series 1 for Bahston Gahden,
    
    Then I get shut out on series 2 for same,
    
    Final straw comes Friday afternoon when the decision to do
    training via Video conferencing rather than face to Face back east.
    
    This is almost too much bad karma for me.  I made my own reservations
    this a.m. anyway.  
    
    	Mark
    
125.1516gross!GOOROO::DCLARKwhere the shadows run from themselvesWed Sep 22 1993 14:014
    driving to work and all 3 'commercial' stations I had
    programmed in (BOS, ZLX, and BCN) were playing Don
    Henley songs SIMULTANEOUSLY. I almost spewed hot coffee
    on the radio :-(
125.1517As Mojo Nixon says....CASDOC::ROGERSperipheral visionaryWed Sep 22 1993 14:081
    ...Don Henley must die!!!
125.1518I really hope its not bad....SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewThu Sep 23 1993 14:5511
    NEWSFLASH......
    
    
    
    I just got a call from Jen (aka Sparkey) she told me that CHETS is on
    fire !!!! (she was told by a co-worker who just got to work)
    
    I will have an update after lunch.....
    
    
    Chris
125.1519Chet is not fire !!!!SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewThu Sep 23 1993 15:0310
    good news....
    
    	its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....
    
    I called John Brigham (Slipknot's Bass player) to confirm....
    
    
    the party is still on for the 29th !!!
    
    Chris
125.1520QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Sep 23 1993 17:417
>     good news....
>     
>    	its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....

Of course, not good news for the Car-Craft folk...

PeterT
125.1521MONTOR::GNPIKE::HANNANBeyond description...Thu Sep 23 1993 20:089
>>     good news....
>>     
>>    	its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....
>
>Of course, not good news for the Car-Craft folk...

But you haven't seen their lineup of used cars...

;-)
125.1522GOOD VIBES TO BRETT!!SPOCK::IRONSWed Oct 06 1993 17:526
    Brett Turner is going into surgery today.  They're removing some stones
    from his bladder.  OUCH!!  Puts a new meaning to getting stoned!  :^}
    
                       Let's send him some GOOD VIBES!!
    
    dave
125.1523Peace and healing...SALES::GKELLERbe alert, we need more lertsWed Oct 06 1993 18:0615
>                      <<< Note 125.1522 by SPOCK::IRONS >>>
>                           -< GOOD VIBES TO BRETT!! >-
>
>    Brett Turner is going into surgery today.  They're removing some stones
>    from his bladder.  OUCH!!  Puts a new meaning to getting stoned!  :^}
>   
>                       Let's send him some GOOD VIBES!!
>    
>    dave


Hang in there Brett.  Healing energy coming your way.  We'll see you back 
here soon...

Geoff
125.1524:-) Good luck Brett! :-)BINKLY::DEMARSEInspiration, move me brightly...Wed Oct 06 1993 18:553
    Yow!  Sending some vibes...
    
    :), danielle
125.15258-)SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Wed Oct 06 1993 20:0115
    Lots-o-good-vibes comin' your way, Brett!!!!
    
    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

    /\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\/\

    _-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-

    .'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'
    
    Take it easy, dude!  
    
    
    - jeff
125.1526MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CRdust off those rusty stringsThu Oct 07 1993 15:223
    
    really cool screen SUBPAC::MAGGARD!  looks alot like a sewing machine
    instruction manual i used to own.
125.1527Good one, I'm in stitches!!! 8-)SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Thu Oct 07 1993 21:186
    ...Yeah, I'll be all set when I can figger out how ta do button-holes
    in ASCII...
    
    ;-)
    
125.1528hey, someone had to do it...STRATA::DWESTreality is not...Thu Oct 07 1993 22:271
    aw, Jeff...  i'm sure you'll have that sewn up in no time...  :^)
125.1529MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windFri Oct 08 1993 11:191
    	Oh no, do I see another thread of puns going here?
125.1530;-)SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Fri Oct 08 1993 13:474
    I'm on pins and needles in anticipation!
    
    
125.1531NRSTA2::CLARKzzzzzzzzzzzzz huh? ... zzzzzzzzzzzzzzFri Oct 08 1993 14:001
You guys got me in stitches!
125.1532NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Oct 08 1993 14:587
Christ, another SERGE of puns.  Seams like you'd have 
something better to do than to needle us with all of this
silliness...

;-)

tim
125.1533thanks, I needed thatSSGV01::STROBEL&amp; now for something completely different...Fri Oct 08 1993 19:274
    don't want to get collared on this thread, especially since many of
    these puns are, at best, sew sew
    
    :-)
125.1534todays bummer...STRATA::DWESTchoose wisdom over intelligence...Wed Nov 10 1993 12:337
    the bummer today...
    
    one of my friends here in my group lost her brother last evening...
    young guy, long illness...  :^(  i'm sure it's a relief for them that
    it's over, but it sure does suck for them saying goodbye now...
    
    					da ve
125.1535$700 paper loss!BIODTL::JCNothing like a good dose of the DeadFri Dec 10 1993 12:086
Shares of Novell Inc. dropped 3 5/8 yesturday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ouch....


jc_who_has_200_shares
125.1536SSGV01::GPEACE::StrobelPsychotic Friends NetworkFri Dec 10 1993 16:148
I'd hold the Novell (I have a few myself) for a while. With Ray Noorda 
retiring in June and a low stock price, I think they could be attractive 
to a Lotus or maybe Sun.

Then again, if I'd sold before yesterday I wouldn't have to worrry about 
the paper loss either.....


125.1537BIODTL::JCNothing like a good dose of the DeadFri Dec 17 1993 16:3014
re  <<< Note 125.1536 by SSGV01::GPEACE::Strobel "Psychotic Friends Network" >>>

>I'd hold the Novell (I have a few myself) for a while. With Ray Noorda 
>retiring in June and a low stock price, I think they could be attractive 
>to a Lotus or maybe Sun.
>
>Then again, if I'd sold before yesterday I wouldn't have to worrry about 
>the paper loss either.....

that's my plan: to hold.  however, in retrospect, i should have dumped it
at 25 1/2 and rolled into a few other companies i'm looking at...   btw, do
you use a discount broker?  full service?  some other means?


125.1538BUSY::IRZAJuneau Oates Neely..best line in hockeyThu Jan 20 1994 14:3518
y
    
    after years of not getting pulled over, it happened again today. this
 morning on the way in, i was travelling at 60mph in the left hand lane
 and saw the statie coming up on me (learnt my lesson from last week).
 i pulled over into the middle lane and he pulled up on the side of me.
 he then faded back and pulled behind me and flashed his blues. i thought
 "oh great, he's gonna write me up for doing 60". turns out my taillights
 were out....blown fuse. i fixed it right there, but was still given a
 $35. citation for operating with defective equipment. you would think
 he would have given me a warning. what sucks worse is that i don't even
 think i had to have my lights on. sunrise was at 7:08am today and the
 citation was written at 7:05am. i believe mass law states that headlights
 (and not taillights) must be on up until a half hour *before* sunrise. i
 definitely plan to fight this one also. geez, i believe if i get one more
 infraction i'll lose my license for 30 days. MA staties suck!!!

                                  ^dave_who_can't_wait_'til_biking_season   
125.1539easy to fight, i thinkBIODTL::JCJust one thing I ask of youThu Jan 20 1994 17:0711
re  <<< Note 125.1538 by BUSY::IRZA "Juneau Oates Neely..best line in hockey" >>>


this one should be a piece of cake to fight mon.  

	"now judge, if you were driving, how would you know your
	tail lights we're not working?  I checked 'em this morning
	and they were working fine;  must have been that big pot hole
	the DPW failed to fix that screwed 'em up, eh?"


125.1540TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonThu Jan 20 1994 17:4210
    
    :-)
    
    I just mailed $52 to the Boston Office of City Parking for 2 tickets I
    picked up Halloween weekend.  They were $20 tickets but went up $6 each
    for non-payment.  I knew they'd catch up with me eventually (it was a
    rental car - pretty easy to trace) but I figure $12 was worth the
    chance they'd slide through somehow.
    
    
125.1541THAT SUCKS!SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Thu Jan 20 1994 19:289
Dave,

Take a different route to/from work!!!!  


"...Gonna get your number, and finger prints too, and they gotta little place
down in Virginia stirrin some soup just for yooooouuu...   Gonna getcha, Gonna
getcha, Gonna getcher numbaaaahhhhhh....."
125.1542ouch...QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Jan 20 1994 19:535
Actually Dave, just go to work latter.  Maybe that's my secret.  There's
so many damn people on the road when I drive, I'm not the most 
obvious person out there.

PeterT
125.1543SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewTue Jan 25 1994 19:506
    geesh what is it with that Jackson Family anyway ? Janet Jackson just
    canceled her Worcester Centrum concert tonite....now what will I do for
    the nite ?
    
    
    ;')
125.1544TECRUS::DEMARSEThat Lucky Old SunTue Jan 25 1994 21:201
    Apparently, she was injured in a show last night....
125.1545winkwinknugenugeSLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewTue Jan 25 1994 21:556
    yup thats what they said....even more of a bummer, the show will now be
    this sunday, the only day I CAN'T make it !!! :') its Superbowl Sunday
    and I got a few loads of whites to wash too :'o
    
    
    Chris
125.1546I'll have to skiMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windWed Jan 26 1994 12:514
    It's SUper Bowl Sunday!?! Wow, I have to go skiing on Super Bowl
    Sunday. But this year I think I'll go nordic. but that's another topic
    
     
125.1547ROCK::FROMMIt's hard to care about a don't care.Wed Jan 26 1994 13:447
>    It's SUper Bowl Sunday!?! Wow, I have to go skiing on Super Bowl
>    Sunday.

i guess super bowl sunday is a good day to avoid crowds while skiing, right?
so what sunday is it, this sunday, or next?

- rich-who-cares-infinitely-more-about-skiing-than-football
125.1548SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewWed Jan 26 1994 13:471
    this sunday<
125.1549ROCK::FROMMIt's hard to care about a don't care.Wed Jan 26 1994 13:518
>    this sunday<

then i definitely wanna go skiing somewhere, perhaps killington; anyone wanna
join me?

(hmmm, perhaps this should be somewhere other than the bummer note)

- rich
125.1550not reallyMILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windWed Jan 26 1994 15:154
    Actually I've tried this several times and it doesn't work out.
    More than once I've been waiting in one of the longest lift lines
    of the season and heard people around me say, "I figured with the
    super bowl, no one would be skiing". 
125.1551Ya gotta use INVERSE psychology! :-)SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Wed Jan 26 1994 15:1811
Same logic applies at Disney World:

"Nobody goes to DW on Tuesday, right?"

That's what I mistakenly thought, too.  :-)


- jeff_who_sez_to_go_to_DW_during_the_
  2nd_week_in_January_and_the_first_
  week_in_September_for_no_lines_;-)
125.1552Mickey marathonerSSGV01::TPNSTN::StrobelJetson, you're TFSO'd !!!Wed Jan 26 1994 16:427
jeff -
	Drop the 2nd week in Jan from your DW options. They had the first 
Disney World marathon this year which had the (planned) effect of filling 
up the hotels and the park for much of the 2nd week according to a friend 
who ran.

jeff
125.1553AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Wed Jan 26 1994 18:036
    
    re: Disney World
    
    I was there last year first week in February.  Good time to go....
    
    Hogan
125.1554Record Breaking Crowds!JUPITR::OCONNORSWed Jan 26 1994 18:096
    
     I was at DisneyWorld on the 4th of July one time....talk about
    HUGE! crowds.
    
    Sean
    
125.1555SUBPAC::MAGGARDCareful with that AXP Eugene!Wed Jan 26 1994 20:5910
re: 2nd week in Jan


Duhhhh  ...no wonder why they chose that week for the marathon... :-)
If yer bizniss is slow, throw a party!  

(Hmmm, here's hopin that BP is reading this note :-)

- jeff
125.1556October4156::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Wed Jan 26 1994 22:4219
    Try October.  School's in session, the weather is still quite warm,
    enough to swim but not sweltering, crowds are minimal, Europeans have
    all gone home, it's a good time to go.
    
    Avoid: all summer, November through mid-January (Holidays), March-April
    (Spring Break)...
    
    I've been going ever since they opened - lived in Florida half my life,
    and if ya gotta go (and some of us find the place a little repulsive *
    now that we've grown up) then October's the time to go.
    
    *to many Floridians, Disney World represents everything that's totally
    phoney about Florida - the antithesis of the Floridian experience.  I
    tend to waiver, having kids who just oggle over the place tends to sway
    my opinion.  If you want to see real Florida, well, that's hard to do. 
    Sanibel used to be it, but it's pretty commercial now too.
    
    tim
    
125.1557does this rilly belong here ?SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewThu Jan 27 1994 12:1016
    yeah Oct is a good time (mid to late Oct) the last time I was there was
    Oct 31 - Nov 9 1990....the main Park closed at 9 I think but Epcot was
    open until 1230.....so spend the day in the main park then head over to
    Epcot arund 6ish check out the sights then have a nice dinner at the 
    English pub (they serve beers) at around 8-9 (get a reservation in th AM) 
    kick back at your table and watch the lazer light show and fireworks...
    then head over to the Hard Rock Cafe (at Universal Studios) for some 
    drinks to cap off the nite...
    
    
    did this 7 nites in a row ! the last night at the hard rock they paid
    our tab because the manager was a head and I believe withoutanet had
    just came out and we listened to it most every nite over the HRC
    system kinda made friends with the people there :')
    
    Chris
125.1558ISLNDS::CONNORS_MThu Jan 27 1994 18:046
    
    re: Tim
    
    Don't EVER grow up Tim!!!!!
    
    ;-)
125.1559;-)NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Thu Jan 27 1994 18:293
Easy for you to say, short-stop! ;-) ;-)

tim
125.1560ECRU::CLARKCan you picture what will be?Thu Jan 27 1994 20:084
I've been to Disney World twice in early December (five years apart ;^) ...
both times the weather was perfect and there were practically no crowds.

- DC
125.1561ah, this too shall pass...STRATA::DWESTchoose wisdom over intelligence...Tue Mar 15 1994 20:5917
    wow...  we went the entire month of february without a single bummer
    entry!!!!
    
    kinda makes me not want to enter mine...  :^(  but i hafta...
    cuz i'm bummin' so much...  i've been trying (to no avail) to get
    soime of my counterparts to cover my classses sos i could have my
    birthday off...  but NNOOOOooooOOOOOOOoooooOOOOOOO...  can't get
    help...  only sympathy!  :^)  now i have to teach two (yes two) 
    protocol classes for the cleanroom from hell on my birthday...
    yucko...  what could be worse???  (yeah yeah...  i know... 3 protocol
    classes... :^)  i sure wish i'd thought of this way back when the
    schedule first came out...
    
    i think this is going to call for a long lunch...  followed by taking
    thursday off (doesn't everyone have st patricks day off? :^)
    
    					da ve
125.1562ROCK::FROMMThis space intentionally left blank.Wed Mar 16 1994 01:5812
>now i have to teach two (yes two) 
>    protocol classes for the cleanroom from hell on my birthday...

i'll teach 'em for you!

don't forget to wash your hands, brush your teeth, ...

or is it not that kind of cleanroom?

;^)

- rich
125.1563:^)STRATA::DWESTchoose wisdom over intelligence...Wed Mar 16 1994 12:094
    SOLD!!!  thanks!  :^)  (just don't forget to mention that it has to be
    a cleanroom approved, lint-free toothbrush and you'll do fine :^)
    
    					da ve
125.1564SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewWed Mar 16 1994 12:433
    in the words of Marty Feldman...
    
    "....could be worse, could be raining !"
125.1565RealityAKOCOA::SMITH_D24 and there's so much moreWed Mar 16 1994 16:3834
	Some disturbing news today.....
	
	In March of 1991 I read that by 1995, the average American will 
	know 1-2 people that are HIV positive....

	Well, here it is, 1994, one year ahead of time, and I know 2 
	people with HIV positive and 2 people that have passed from Aids, 
	not too mention the dozen or so people who are friends of friends 
	that I have heard are HIV positive, or have Aids.  

	HIV+ in heterosexuals is up 125% since the last study (when that 
	was I don't know), almost 75% of this number are women who are
	especially vulnerable to the virus.
	   
	Being what I consider to be your average, Heterosexual, 24 
	year old American male, I am frightened by these stats, and 
	although I have been tested and have always been cautious,
	I am scared for those who refuse to do so, or are unaware
	of the facts.

	I think it's time they start putting the facts up on billboards,
	or something.  

	

	

	 

	
	
	 
	
125.1566:(TECRUS::DEMARSEHere in the last mile of your raceWed Mar 16 1994 16:5410
    I know, it's a really scary thing....
    
    some people just don't get it.  Wear a condom if you are going to have
    sex.  Plain and simple. 
    
    There are too many ignorant people out there that don't think they
    could ever get AIDS...then voila as a result of not taking precautions
    he/she becomes HIV Positive...it's really sad.
    
    :(, danielle
125.1567ECRU::CLARKChairman of the BoredWed Mar 16 1994 17:2515
Unfortunately, education about AIDS and HIV has been sparse, and not exactly
consistent either.  For example, on "World AIDS Day" in Nashua last year,
there were speakers at Nashua High School telling the students that latex
condoms have pores in them which are ten times larger than the HIV virus,
so the virus can get through.  

Also, even when the correct messages get through, they can be confusing.
For example, kids are told that you can get infected thru the exchange
of bodily fluids, and then are told that you can't get infected by kissing.
Isn't saliva a bodily fluid?

I think the quality of education about these issues could stand to improve
dramatically ....

- DC
125.1568hmmmNAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Wed Mar 16 1994 17:4711
First of all, I think it's about time somebody went and told the
Catholic Church about this stuff.  They're still parked in the
wayback machine...

Secondly, DC - from what I've read and heard, the virus is not
particularly robust and cannot survive in the relative acidity of
saliva...so not ALL bodily fluids count (urine too, I suspect)...

That bit about latex is also wrong.  Animal membrane yes - latex, no.

tim
125.1569ECRU::CLARKChairman of the BoredWed Mar 16 1994 17:5617
>Secondly, DC - from what I've read and heard, the virus is not
>particularly robust and cannot survive in the relative acidity of
>saliva...so not ALL bodily fluids count (urine too, I suspect)...

Yep ... I just think it would be nice if kids were given more specifics,
to avoid what sounds like conflicting information ... maybe I'm being
idealistic.

>That bit about latex is also wrong.  Animal membrane yes - latex, no.

I know ... I read about this event in the local paper, and other things
mentioned in the article about these speakers led me to believe that they
may have had a religious-right agenda.  I just found it discouraging that
the high school would allow this kind of misinformation to be given to
the students on a day which was (nationally) dedicated to HIV/AIDS education.

- DC
125.1570NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Wed Mar 16 1994 18:006
Good point.  I wasn't trying to correct you - there wasn't anything
in your note to indicate the inaccuracy of those two points, so
I just sort of felt compelled to say something...source was 
C. Everett Koop from an interview a couple years ago, btw...

tim
125.1571ROADKL::INGALLSmay the four winds blow you home againWed Mar 16 1994 19:277

BUMMER!  Our babysitter (the one and only one we know) just backed out on us
for friday night -- looks doubtful for Tom's B-day at Shakedown :^(

Glenn_bummin...

125.1572 let's have an anti-bummer summer! BUSY::IRZAit's good to be back from the deadWed Mar 16 1994 19:347
    
       wow! da ve enters a bummer and opens up a floodgate!
    
          NO MORE BUMMERS, DAMMIT!
    
                                                     ^dave
    
125.1573Call the babysitters club!!!QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyWed Mar 16 1994 20:359
re .1571

Glenn, sounds like it's time to court a few more babysitters!  Ask friends,
check local bulletin boards (if such exist).  It's happened to us before,
and we've lucked out. (Of course not all those babysitters were all that
good, though nothing totally bad towards the kids.  One ran up quite
a phonebill though!)

PeterT
125.1574BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Thu Mar 17 1994 12:495
I should have gone skiing today!
dammit!

anyone know how much the NH mountains got?
we have about 6-7" in littleton.
125.1575AIDS Cases Increase Last Year (from AIDS_WALK)TECRUS::DEMARSEHere in the last mile of your raceThu Mar 17 1994 12:58131
        Copyright 1994. The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved. 
    
        ATLANTA (AP) -- The number of new AIDS cases unexpectedly more than
        doubled last year under a broader definition of the disease and
        boosted by a sharp increase in the number of infections among
        heterosexuals.  
    
        The federal Centers for Disease Control had projected 1993 AIDS
        cases would jump 75 percent in the first year of the new definition. 
        It actually increased by 111 percent, from 49,016 in 1992 to 103,500
        in 1993, the agency reported Thursday.  
    
        Last year, the CDC expanded its definition to include those
        infected with HIV who also have a severely suppressed immune system,
        tuberculosis, recurrent pneumonia or invasive cervical cancer.  
    
        Most of the AIDS cases under the new definition were reported in
        the first three months of the year. The surge had dropped off by the
        end of 1993, and the CDC expects the number in 1994 cases to drop 
        below last year's figure.  
    
        The groups most affected by the expanded definition were women,
        blacks, heterosexual intravenous drug users and hemophiliacs.  
    
        The increase was greater among women (151 percent) than among men
        (105 percent), and greater among blacks and Hispanics than whites.  
    
        The largest increases reported were among teens and young adults,
        mostly from heterosexual transmission.  
    
        "This is where the growth of the epidemic is," said Dr. John Ward,
        chief of the CDC's AIDS surveillance branch.  
    
        Although the epidemic overall still mostly infects gay men,
        heterosexuals represented the largest proportionate increase in
        1993, said Pat Flemming, chief of reporting and analysis in the CDC's
        AIDS division.  
    
        AIDS cases resulting from heterosexual contact jumped 130 percent
        last year over 1992, from 4,045 to 9,288. Cases attributed to male
        homosexual or bisexual contact increased 87 percent, from 25,864 to
        48,266.  
    
        At highest risk among heterosexuals, Flemming said, were those with
        several lovers who were infected with HIV or other sexually
        transmitted diseases, or were intravenous drug users.  
    
        Women accounted for about two-thirds of heterosexual cases, but the
        number of men who are infected through heterosexual contact is also
        increasing.  
    
        Half of the heterosexual cases were among blacks, with Hispanics
        and whites representing about 25 percent each. And young adults ages
        13-29 accounted for 27 percent of the heterosexual cases.  
    
        The total number of AIDS cases in the United States through Sept.
        30, 1993, was 339,250. The total number of deaths from AIDS through the
        same time period was 204,390, according to the CDC. 
    
        AP 03/10 17:39 EST V0641
    
        Copyright 1994. The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved. 
        By The Associated Press
    
       New AIDS Cases 
       1992--49,016  
       1993--103,500  
       111 percent increase
          
       Men 
       1992--42,445  
       1993--86,986  
       105 percent increase
          
       Women 
       1992--6,571  
       1993--16,514  
       151 percent increase
          
       Race-Ethnicity
    
       Whites 
       1992--23,305  
       1993--47,003  
       102 percent increase
          
       Blacks 
       1992--16,582  
       1993--36,951  
       123 percent increase
          
       Hispanics 
       1992--8,541  
       1993--18,318  
       114 percent increase  
    
       HIV Exposure Categories
    
       Male homosexual-bisexual contact 
       1992--25,864  
       1993--48,266  
       87 percent increase
          
       Heterosexual contact 
       1992--4,045  
       1993--9,288  
       130 percent increase  
    
       IV Drug Use 
    
       --Among women and heterosexual men 
    
       1992--12,163  
       1993--28,687  
       136 percent increase
          
       --With gay-bisexual contact 
       1992--3,028  
       1993--5,745  
       90 percent increase
          
       Hemophilia 
       1992--360  
       1993--1,041  
       189 percent increase  
    
       Transfusion 
       1992--710  
       1993--1,219  
       72 percent increase 
    
125.1576spring skiing is where it's atMILKWY::HEADSL::SAMPSONDriven by the windThu Mar 17 1994 13:247
I don't know why this snow should go in the bummer note. My understanding 
from yesterday  afternoons weather was that it should be snowing lightly 
through the day today. 
	But regardless of today's snow fall, the conditions are set, they're 
great.

Go skiing !
125.1577AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Thu Mar 17 1994 13:5918
    
    Tim, I can't help but notice that you've been ragging on the Catholic
    Church a lot lately.....
     
    The church is against birth control....right.  But the church is also
    against pre-marital sex.  If you combine those two, then there is no
    need for a condom as a deterrent to AIDS, because you'd only have *1*
    partner anyway.
    
    The Church has its stance.  Why should it change that, merely because
    *most* people don't follow its teachings.
    
    I'm not a big Catholic Church supporter (though I am Catholic), but I
    don't understand the cry for the Catholic Church to suddenly change its
    stance on certain issues.  Just because millions of people practice
    pre-marital sex, should the Church condone it?
    
    Hogan 
125.1578STUDIO::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Thu Mar 17 1994 14:3712
    re .1577
    
    I have two problems with the CC, the first being the inferior position
    of women in it.  The second is the issue of birth control.
    
    I don't understand why the Church doesn't at least endorse barrier
    methods (condoms) for married couples.  I'm all for recreation without
    procreation.  :-)
    
    I miss Marv . . .
    
    Jamie
125.1579ROADKL::INGALLSmay the four winds blow you home againThu Mar 17 1994 14:3918
	In the most recent discussion I think the difference is
	between religious education and AIDS education.
	AIDS education, IMO, should not be a forum for espousing
	church views. 

>    The Church has its stance.  Why should it change that, merely because
>    *most* people don't follow its teachings.

	let's reverse this -- can you imagine saying to the church:
	"Why should people change, merely because you want them to follow
	your teachings"

	IMO, the only correct answer would be "it makes sense".
	It makes sense for the church to change some - times have changed.
	It makes sense for people to have a moral doctrine or code to follow.
	If the code makes sense, people will follow it.

125.1580PONDA::64423::BELKINthe slow one now will later be fastThu Mar 17 1994 15:296
I second JC's snow-bummer, and add my own.  
The bummer of it is, there's great snow out there today and we're not
out skiing (telemarking! ;-) on it!   Its started melting already... :-(

Josh
125.1581NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Thu Mar 17 1994 15:5819
    Re: .1577
    
    I am a Catholic.  Not only was I raised a Catholic, I have a
    substantial, formal Catholic education, and I'm well informed on
    Catholic teachings and policy.  All of my family, on both sides, is
    Irish Catholic - and there are tons of us (average number of children
    per couple is about five - I'm one of five, each of my parents were,
    most of my cousins are - do the math, there's a bunch of us).  I have
    about fifty first cousins.  I strongly disagree with the Catholic
    Church's policies and teachings in a number of areas.  I think that the
    Church should recognise the antiquity of these policies and update them
    to the 20th Century.  There's nothing wrong with doing that - and in
    fact, there's something very wrong with refusing to do that simply
    based on tradition and concepts that were created by people who lived
    in caves, for Chrissakes...
    
    tim
    
    
125.1582HAPPY SAINT PATRICKS DAYBSS::MNELSONWon't ya try just a little bit harderThu Mar 17 1994 16:0510
    
    Hello Tim,
      Hate to digress from a religous discussion however you mentioned 
    that you are an Irish Catholic.  Happy Saint Patrick's day to you and
    everyone else. 
    
      Back to regularly scheduled program
    
    	HAPPY SAINT PATRICKS DAY
     
125.1583AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Thu Mar 17 1994 16:2620
    
    RE .1578
    
    Yeah, I miss Marv too, thats why I had to enter .1577
    
    FWIW, I'm not a big proponent of the church, I'm just trying to keep
    ya'll honest.....its OK to bash the church these days, and its gotten
    very easy to just blame the church for anything you want to.
    
    Personally, I don't believe that promoting "safe sex" is the best thing
    to do (its better than nothing), like it or not, promiscuity is what is
    causing the spread of AIDS.  I think we need to promote self-control
    *first* rather than "wear a condom."  A lot of people don't accept that
    as a viable solution, and that bothers me.  If we really want to stop
    the spread of AIDS, its going to require a sacrifice.  But our current
    society doesn't want to be told that they should abstain from doing
    something that they want to do.  Safe Sex is not a solution, it will
    merely slow down the spread of the disease.
    
    Hogan (I've had this in me for a while....now its out, and I'm done)  
125.1584the snow, the green, the church, kids, and beer (that about covers it!)QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Mar 17 1994 16:3220
I tried doing some x-country this AM, but we only had about 2" on the 
ground and it was very light and my skis kept scrapping against dirt
and rock and road.  Oh well.

Yes.  A Happy St. Patty's Day to all.  Gee, I even have some green on,
though I forgot totally at the time I put it on.  Must have been
the subconscious working again (or the laundry ;-).  I'm even
partial Irish (catholic).  Don't know the percentage.  My dad say's
he's 100%, but I'm not quite so sure he's right ;-)  Heck, he doesn't
even drink!

I had a Catholic schooling too, Tim.  And feel pretty much the same
way you do about the Church.  Sigh...  But we're bringing the 
kids up Jewish with some christianity mixed in for seasoning ;-)

Hmmm, I wonder if Sam Adam's Cream Stout is appropriate tonight.
Guiness would be more correct, but then I'd have to go out and
BUY some.

PeterT
125.1585ROCK::FROMMThis space intentionally left blank.Thu Mar 17 1994 16:406
>I have
>    about fifty first cousins.

wow.  that's a lot.  i have 5.

- rich
125.1586this should raise some "healthy" debateSALES::GKELLERAn armed society is a polite society - RHThu Mar 17 1994 16:5922
Ok, lets see what I can say to get everyone pissed off at me:-)


First of all AIDS, that horrible syndrome created by the government (US/
USSR) back in the fifties to eliminate the black african's, who they 
thought would be the greatest political menace by the next century.  Well 
if a person isn't smart enough to A) abstain, B) choose one partner be 
tested and remain monagamous C) use a condome to make the sexual experience 
as safe as it can be, then we should let darwinism(survival of the fittest) 
take over and we can reduce the world population and there won't be as much 
overcrowding. 

Regarding the Catholic Church, St. Patricks day and all that...  The Irish 
would have been better off if St. Pat never came to Ireland and converted 
them.  Choice a) Paganism, people generally having a good time with little 
guilt a few virgin sacrafices and generally living in harmony with the 
earth.  choice b) Catholicism/Protastantism -- lots of guilt and war for 
over 1000 years over which god or way of worshiping is right.

There that should do it:-)

Geoff_speaking_slightly_with_toungue_in_cheek
125.1587STUDIO::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Thu Mar 17 1994 17:067
    Geoff, "The Prisoner" was NOT a documentary!!
    
    >C) use a condome
    
    Sheesh, and I thought the standard ones were less sensitive.  :-)
    
    Jamie
125.1588NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Thu Mar 17 1994 20:4611
    isn't condome' french for condiment?
    
    What ever happened to the condiment note anywayz? ;-)
    
    I definitely think people should use more condiments...whether it's
    before, during or after having safe sex. 
    
    :-)
    
    tim
    
125.1589AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Fri Mar 18 1994 12:2611
    
    >>    I definitely think people should use more condiments...whether
    >>    its before, during or after having safe sex.
    
    I prefer spicy Mustard.....that honey dijon stuff makes me burp, so I
    avoid that.  Mayo will really turn me off, though.  Just forget that
    ;^)
    
    Is beer a condiment?
    
    Hogan
125.1590reamed!BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Fri Mar 18 1994 12:5516
Don't get married!

No, no, deb and i are not on the "rocks".... it is tax time, y'know, and last
night i did a first pass on our taxes to find that Uncle Sam enjoys shafting
married people pretty nicely.  Our tax obligation, when filing "married status",
is $1000.00 MORE than if we were filing "single-not-married status".  I
couldn't believe it!!  $1000.00 bucks MORE 'cuz i'm married.  pissed me right
off..........i figured 'em out married, filing seperately and came to the
conclusion that i'll save about $8.00 filing jointly.  but man, married status
really sux for taxes!!!!!!!!!!!!  for married people, the personal exemption
is $3100 per person vs. $3700 if you're not married...  man o man, where's
those Republican family value people when ya need 'em?????  if anything, the
gov't discourages marriage with these HIGH taxes...  geeezusss!!!

next is the MA taxes....

125.1591lonsome george BUSY::IRZAthe wisest man is deemed insaneFri Mar 18 1994 12:597
    
>         <<< Note 125.1590 by BIODTL::JC "You know when your mouth is dry..." 
    
                                           ...you're pretty high.
           
            good tune!
    
125.1592CX3PST::BSS::DSMITHthats a joke son!Fri Mar 18 1994 13:0214
    
    Hey J.C
    
     Thats what our tax man told us 2 years ago!
    
     We have no desire to have off spring and I don't like giving the
    government any more money than I have too.
     
    The government will screw very chance they get.
    
    
    Divide dave
    
     
125.1593TRETOP::SAMILJANFri Mar 18 1994 13:399
    JC,
    
    Buy a house and have kids.  It'll turn that tax situation around right
    away.  See, right now you're DINKs (Double Income, No Kids).  You guys 
    get screwed royally.  (We did, too, for years.)  But Uncle Sam does
    help a bit when you contribute to the economy by buying a house and 
    creating new little consumers.  It's an incentive program.
    
    Bud
125.1594It's all in the numbersQUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Mar 18 1994 13:4829
Yeah, JC.  I remember getting married and thinking, wow, we should get
more money back because we're filing jointly now.  Bzzzt!  Wrong.
That was the end of the refund years and the beginning of the pay up
on April 15th years.  There are, however, solutions to this.  1)
Withhold more taxes, taking 0 exempts and signing in as married rather
than single, and if need be, contributing X amount each paycheck.
The two others I'll mention show how the government actually encourages
family values, but are guaranteed to change your life more than "merely"
getting married do.  2)  Stop renting and buy a house.  3) You guessed
it, have kids.
Now, you guys are newlyweds, so I wouldn't want to push #3 on you.  Citing
only myself as an example, we were living together for 5 years before we
got married, and then married another 5 to 6 years (depending on how 
you view it, conception vs birth) before we had kids.  I think folks 
should enjoy life together a little bit before having kids, but that's 
just my opinion.  And #3 is not always a viable option for some, due to 
fertility or health reasons.

But, having gone through all three steps now, we just deposited a 
refund check that equaled in $ amounts, the year of my birth
(and yes, I was born this century ;-), which I thought was rather neat
and definitely needed.  

So, definitely investigate #1, give some thought to #2, and when you
think you're ready for it, give #3 some consideration.  Though #2 is
a never-ending money sucker, my heart is currently owned by the #3's
running around in #2, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

PeterT
125.1595NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Mar 18 1994 13:497
    JC,
    
    Get divorced, live together and pay her alimony.  Alimony is
    deductible. ;-) ;-)
    
    tim
    
125.1596QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Mar 18 1994 13:515
Bud - oops, note collisions!!!

Tim,  gotta admire your spin on things  ;-)

PeterT
125.1597The taxman comethBSS::MNELSONWon't ya try just a little bit harderFri Mar 18 1994 14:159
    
    The tax man will be getting 2300+ from me this April 15.  I am 
    married, have 1.5 kids, a golden retriever and house interest to 
    deduct.  I usually figure it so I break pretty close to even but 
    got screwed this year, bad.  The withholding rate was reduced as 
    a last ditch effort by George Bush.  I should have paid closer 
    attention I guess.
    
    	Mark 
125.1598CXDOCS::BARNESFri Mar 18 1994 14:243
    you guys obviously make too much money!!!!!!!!!
    
    rfb
125.1599CXDOCS::BARNESFri Mar 18 1994 14:583
    tragady has hit the Lawlor family out herer in COlorado..TOm and
    Rosannes ex-daughter-in-law passed away this week. good vibes,
    prayers, and healing thoughts are needed....
125.1600There is a 2 year grace periodSALES::GKELLERAn armed society is a polite society - RHFri Mar 18 1994 15:5721
>  <<< Note 125.1597 by BSS::MNELSON "Won't ya try just a little bit harder" >>>
>                             -< The taxman cometh >-
>
>    
>    The tax man will be getting 2300+ from me this April 15.  I am 
>    married, have 1.5 kids, a golden retriever and house interest to 
>    deduct.  I usually figure it so I break pretty close to even but 
>    got screwed this year, bad.  The withholding rate was reduced as 
>    a last ditch effort by George Bush.  I should have paid closer 
>    attention I guess.
>    
>    	Mark 


Actually you were probabl;y hit with Mr. Clinton's new taxes as much if not 
more that the lower withholding rate.  There is a two year grace period to 
catch up because the taxes were retro-active.  Of course the good side of 
this is that you are and "Upper Class" citizen because our "Dear President" 
said he would not raise taxes on the poor or the middle class.

Geoff
125.1601BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Tue Mar 22 1994 12:5024
re <<< Note 125.1600 by SALES::GKELLER "An armed society is a polite society - RH" >>>
                      -< There is a 2 year grace period >-

>Actually you were probabl;y hit with Mr. Clinton's new taxes as much if not 
>more that the lower withholding rate.  There is a two year grace period to 
>catch up because the taxes were retro-active.  Of course the good side of 
>this is that you are and "Upper Class" citizen because our "Dear President" 
>said he would not raise taxes on the poor or the middle class.

Sorry Geoff, i don't think so.  there is no way the tax increases by Clinton
caused for MNELSON to pay $2300 in taxes unless MNELSON makes $150000+.  i'll
believe $150.00, but no way no how $2300 !

you seem to be all sour on Clinton.  you think we would have been better off
with Bush?  you are already going to be living the legacy of 12 yrs of
republican rule for the next 40 years 'cuz of some of those SC appointments.
THomas comes to mind.  and, all this deficit crap, how do you expect to pay 
for it?  repubs/demos, it doesn't matter.  they all have their own little
state programs they want funded by uncle sam.   maybe by raising taxes, the
irresponsible (most of the american population, i think) americans will wake
up and start voting for things that effect them.  what was the voter turnout
last time around?  45% ?


125.1602clinton=Bush=democan=republicrat=politics22441::GKELLERAn armed society is a polite society - RHTue Mar 22 1994 12:5711
the $2300 was probably a combination of both the lowered exemptions and the 
raised taxes.

The ONLY difference between Clinton and Bush is that Mr. Clinton acts like 
he is holier than thou and stands on some Moral high ground that neither 
you nor I nor anyone else except his wife can reach.

They are both SCUM and I can thankfully say that I didn't waste my vote on 
either of them.

Geoff
125.1603Get it off our chestMAGPIE::SAMILJANTue Mar 22 1994 13:065
    re: -.1
    
    Geoff, don't mince words.  Tell us how you REALLY feel!
    
    Bud
125.1604BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Tue Mar 22 1994 13:1214
re<<< Note 125.1602 by 22441::GKELLER "An armed society is a polite society - RH" >>>
                 -< clinton=Bush=democan=republicrat=politics >-

>the $2300 was probably a combination of both the lowered exemptions and the 
>raised taxes.

no way mon!

my gross income to fed tax ratio is about 18.2% (that is, I pay 18.2% of my
gross income to the feds).  this is most likely a very high ratio when compared
to others (by this virtue, i pay more).  18.2% of $12,627 is $2300.  1) the 
gov't didn't lower the redemptions anywhere near 12k !! and they didn't raise 
the taxes anywhere near $2300...

125.160521793::HANNANBeyond description...Tue Mar 22 1994 13:149
	I found '93 taxes to be at an equivalent rate to past years.
	Nothing has really changed at all as far as tax rate for us.

	My tax dude told me this is to be expected: they get their
	money one way or the other.  The repubs give ya less deductions,
	but claim no increase in taxes;  the dems might increase taxes 
	but they give you more deductions.  It all works out the same.

	/Ken
125.1606what are you talking about?NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Tue Mar 22 1994 13:3322
    The change in the deduction rate (the w-4 stuff) was Bush, not Clinton,
    and I think that hit last year.
    
    I can't really comment on the rates - I'm so overloaded with deductions
    that my % rate of tax/income has always been totally skewed...but let's
    take a simple example, ok?
    
    Look at the tax tables for 1991, and 1993...Head of Household (that's
    what I am)...and pick $40,000 taxable income, more or less at random. 
    How much taxes would you pay?  In 1991, $7,658 - in 1993, $7,359...or
    how about $30,000 taxable income? 1991: $4,858, 1993: $4,559...
    Big difference...in our favor.
    
    Oh, and by the way, if you have kids, the deduction on the 1040 went up
    $200 per dependent from 1991 to 1993, so taxable income went down
    too...
    
    So, all things considered, I can't bitch.  Sorry, but I didn't have my
    1992 tables handy to compare year-to-year.
    
    tim
    
125.1607STUDIO::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Tue Mar 22 1994 13:548
    I took a look at this last night to find out what you all were talking
    about.  The personal deduction is a big difference, $3700 for
    singles/$3100 for couples (per person).  That's where the incentive to
    buy a house comes in, then you itemize your deductions and put $12k or
    more into that box.  The combined incomes could also push you into a
    higher tax bracket.
    
    Jamie
125.1608MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Tue Mar 22 1994 14:3319
re:    <<< Note 125.1607 by STUDIO::IDE "My mind's lost in a household fog." >>>

>  The combined incomes could also push you into a higher tax bracket.
    

	It's important (and nice;-) to note that if/when you get into
	a higher tax bracket that only the portion which exceeds the
	limit is taxed at the higher rate.

	So say you have a combined income well below $80,000 (close to
	the threshold for a higher rate) and suddenly that income increases
	to say, $90,000.   You are only taxed at the higher rate for the
	amount over the threshold, in this case, $10,000.   The 80K is
	still taxed at the "old" rate.

	At least this is what my tax guy told me, and I have reason to
	believe his expertise.

	/Ken
125.1609Use money now, pay taxes laterBSS::MNELSONWon't ya try just a little bit harderTue Mar 22 1994 16:2015
    
    Howdy Geoff,
      
      I am below the the minimum level for tax increases, even those 
    suggested by the GOP during election time.  I have spoken with several 
    others who have used various accountants and have told the same story
    regarding with change in withholdings.  It was a last ditch effort by 
    Ex-pres Bush to boost the economy.  I have no doubt that Clinton's tax
    package will effect a much larger set of people than he projected.
    However, I am not currently one of those effected by the plan.  I fall
    below the most pessimistic of numbers for those to be effected. 
      In one respect, I am glad to have had the use of the cash for the
    year. The bummer is paying my debt.
    
    	Mark 
125.1610BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Wed Mar 23 1994 12:0917
re  <<< Note 125.1609 by BSS::MNELSON "Won't ya try just a little bit harder" >>>
                      -< Use money now, pay taxes later >-

    
>      In one respect, I am glad to have had the use of the cash for the
>    year. The bummer is paying my debt.

you may also have to pay quarterly tax with a $2300 tax bill.  i forget what
the metric is, something llike, if you owe more than 10% of your obligation,
you have to pay quarterly.....


with taxes, the idea is to owe no more than 10% of your obligation.  if you
owe more, you have to deal with quarterly.  if you are getting _any_ refund
at all, that translates into a interest-free loan to the gov't!!  adjust your
withholding such that you owe the gov't vs. having the gov't owe you!

125.1611BIODTL::JCYou know when your mouth is dry...Wed Mar 23 1994 12:208
Sorry I didn't go skiing today!!!

Whites got 12" +
Sugarloaf 18"

:-(

tomorrow it is supposed to be crappy.
125.1612I'd rather be skiingSMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Wed Mar 23 1994 12:3114
    <<< Note 125.1611 by BIODTL::JC "You know when your mouth is dry..." >>>
Sorry I didn't go skiing today!!!
>Whites got 12" +
>Sugarloaf 18"

I KNOW!  I'm supposed to go Friday :^/  So I held off and when I was out 
walking the dogs in the sun it was nice and warm.....

general NH report:
Supposed be ok tomorrow during day changing to rain in the afternoon
and continuing in to friday morning and clearing in the afternoon.  

bob

125.1613That ain't no bummer to me!!!MILKWY::HEADSL::SAMPSONDriven by the windWed Mar 23 1994 14:179
I am Psyched!! 18" At tha loaf is no bummer what so ever! Since tomorrow is 
the last work day before I spend a week there I am more than happy to hear 
18"!

	SO JC, what's this thing about post snow in the bummer note?

I really dig every thing in spring!!! especially skiing

Geoff
125.1614after you swallow that bird, have some pride for dessertSTRATA::DWESTchoose wisdom over intelligence...Thu Mar 24 1994 19:499
    
    set voice=homer
    
    	mmmMMMMMMMmmmm, Crow!!!!!  yum yum....  thank you sir may
    	i have some more????            
    
    					da ve_whose_whole_day_belongs_in_
    					this_note_but_is_heading_for_
    					some_bloody_mary's_almost_immediately
125.1615it won't die, nor be killed ;-)MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Fri Apr 22 1994 14:528
	My Sentra, which just turned over to 200,000 miles, was hit on the
	way in this morning by a driver who swerved into my lane on a side-	
	street while trying to find a cigarette lighter :-(  Took out the
	right rear side panel.

	But it still drives! 

	/Ken
125.1616ECRU::CLARKChairman of the BoredFri Apr 22 1994 15:364
Glad it's still alive, Ken!

I was astonished and amazed to witness a person reading a paperback while
driving on rte 495 a while ago ... sheesh.
125.1617the shavers and make-up appliers are real winners too...STRATA::DWESTeach has it's own moment...Fri Apr 22 1994 15:517
    not much surprises me on the road anymore...   some real winners
    out there... :^(
    
    but i must admit, the woman who flashed her breasts at me one afternoon
    still ranks pretty high on the list of *pleasant* surprises! :^)
    
    					da ve
125.1618BIODTL::JCGimmie a shorty!Fri Apr 22 1994 16:0919
re      <<< Note 125.1617 by STRATA::DWEST "each has it's own moment..." >>>
         -< the shavers and make-up appliers are real winners too... >-

>    but i must admit, the woman who flashed her breasts at me one afternoon
>    still ranks pretty high on the list of *pleasant* surprises! :^)

this once happened to me on route 2!!!   man, that was the best way to 
polish off an already great week!!!  ya mon!  it was friday, good week at
work, and i was just done with workin' out... i'm headin' home on route 2
to conkid and flash time!!!!!!  



re: ken

sorry to hear that ken!  BUT.... could work to your advantage.  my bro
bought a junker car for $280 and drove it for about 2 yrs.  one day, someone
plows into the already-falling-apart car.  insurance company totals it and
cuts him a check for $600.  talk about ROI!!!
125.1619not my dayMONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Fri Apr 22 1994 18:0525
	Yeah, I could make out insurance-wise.  I wonder what they'll offer ?
	I also *need* to keep driving it till July, when another vehicle will	
	become available, so I hope to get *some* compensation and keep the car.
	A check would be nice since I probably couldn't sell it now if I 
	wanted to. :-/

	To make things worse, I fill out the accident report at the Marlboro
	police. It says on it, "send original to registry, give copy to police".
	I ask the police clerk to make a copy so I can do as instructed, and 
	she says, sure, for $5.00!   "We're not a copy center".  So I go to 
	WalMart up the street, and when I'm leaving (they didn't have a copier),
	a gust of wind takes my report and sends it sailing across the parking
	lot, and here I am looking like an idiot chasing a piece of paper all
	over the damned place ;-) 

	It lands, a car drives over it, marks it up, and I finally retrieve it.
	Sheesh!!
	
	I think I'll go home soon and lock myself in a room, just to be safe
	;-);-);-)

	It could be worse though.  10-15 feet slower on my part, and it would
	have been a head-on collision!

	/Ken
125.1620$5.00 for copies, what a deal!SALEM::LEBLANCFri Apr 22 1994 18:115
    Ken
    you should have told her your taxes paid her salary and for the damn
    copies you needed.. unreal
    
    chris
125.1621AKOCOA::SMITH_Dsimple twist of fateFri Apr 22 1994 18:368
	re- JC

	Man, I think I'll blast up and down Rt 2 for a while after 
	work!!!! ;-)


	Deane_who_wishes_things_like_that_would_happen_to_him
125.1622Local Gov't At WorkBINKLY::CEPARSKIShow Me Something Built To LastFri Apr 22 1994 18:363
    >>>$5.00 for copies
    
    So that's where they get all the money for those fancy new cop cahs ;^)
125.1623BIODTL::JCGimmie a shorty!Mon Apr 25 1994 17:384
speaking of cops (and digressing a bit), i saw a chase yesturday in concord
after mt biking.  2 young kids were in some beat up car trying to outrun the
cops...  they did get busted.,.!

125.1624Believe it if you need it, leave it if you dare...CARROL::YOUNGwhere is this place in space???Tue Jun 07 1994 18:4985
    Now for a bummer of a head trip...
    
From the WEEKLY WORLD NEWS, May 24, 1994

MOSCOW --

Doctors are blaming a rare electrical imbalance in the brain for the bizarre
death of a chess player whose head literally exploded in the middle of a
championship game!

No one else was hurt in the fatal explosion but four players and three
officials at the Moscow Candidate Masters' Chess Championships were  
sprayed with blood and brain matter when Nikolai Titov's head suddenly blew  
apart.

Experts say he suffered from a condition called Hyper-Cerebral Electrosis or
HCE.

"He was deep in concentration with his eyes focused on the board," says
Titov's opponent, Vladimir Dobrynin.  "All of a sudden his hands flew to
his temples and he screamed in pain.  Everyone looked up from their  
games, startled by the noise.  Then, as if someone had put a bomb in his  
cranium, his head popped like a firecracker."  Incredibly, Titiov's is not the
first case in which a person's head has spontaneously exploded.  Five
people are known to have died of HCE in the last 25 years.  The most
recent death occurred just three years ago in 1991, when European  
psychic Barbara Nicole's skull burst.  Miss Nicole's story was reported by
newspapers worldwide, including WWN.  "HCE is an extremely rare  
physical imbalance," said Dr. Anatoly Martinenko, famed neurologist and expert  
on the human brain who did the autopsy on the brilliant chess expert. 

"It is a condition in which the circuits of the brain become overloaded by 
the body's own electricity.  The explosions happen during periods of intense
mental activity when lots of current is surging through the brain.  
Victims  are highly intelligent people with great powers of concentration.  
Both Miss Nicole and Mr. Titov were intense people who tended to keep those  
cerebral circuits overloaded.  In a way it could be said they were literally  
too smart for their own good." Although Dr. Martinenko says there are probably  
many undiagnosed cases, he hastens to add that very few people will die  
from HCE.

"Most people who have it will never know.  At this point, medical science
still doesn't know much about HCE.  And since fatalities are so rare it
will probably be years before research money becomes available." In the
meantime, the doctor urges people to take it easy and not think too hard
for long periods of time.  "Take frequent relaxation breaks when you're
doing things that take lots of mental focus," he recommends. 

(As a public service, WWN added a sidebar titled HOW TO TELL IF YOUR  
HEAD'S ABOUT TO BLOW UP:)

Although HCE is very rare, it can kill.  Dr. Martinenko says knowing  
you have the condition can greatly improve your odds of surviving it. A "yes"  
answer to any three of the following seven questions could mean that you 
have HCE:

1.  Does your head sometimes ache when you think too hard?  (Head pain can
indicate overloaded brain circuits.)

2.  Do you ever hear a faint ringing or humming sound in your ears?  
(It could be the sound of electricity in the skull cavity.)

3.  Do you sometimes find yourself unable to get a thought out of  
your head?
(This is a possible sign of too much electrical activity in the cerebral
cortex.)

4.  Do you spend more than five hours a day reading, balancing your
checkbook, or other thoughtful activity? (A common symptom of HCE is  
a tendency to over-use the brain.)

5.  When you get angry or frustrated do you feel pressure in your  
temples?
(Friends of people who died of HCE say the victims often complained  
of head pressure in times of strong emotion.)

6.  Do you ever overeat on ice cream, doughnuts and other sweets?  (A  
craving for sugar is typical of people with too much electrical pressure in  
the cranium.)

7.  Do you tend to analyze yourself too much?  (HCE sufferers are  
often introspective, "over-thinking" their lives.)
    
    
    
125.1625SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewTue Jun 07 1994 19:065
    I think Im gonna go home and watch some mindless MTV :') this should
    save me from the HCS (know to people in music circles as Spinnel
    Tap-itise) !
    
    Chris
125.1626SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewTue Jun 07 1994 19:125
    oppps, that HCE ! I gotta headache.....yeah know this might throw off
    the 2 shooter theory in the JFK killing ! but then again politicians
    don't have minds to think with, so maybe Stone is right ! 
    
    :')
125.1627Don't even think about it....CARROL::YOUNGwhere is this place in space???Tue Jun 07 1994 19:483
    Well they say relaxing your brain is important so maybe 'stoned' is
    right...ah anyway, might as well go home and 'relax' that dreaded HCE 
    away...*;')
125.1628AKOCOA::SMITH_DAnybody really know what time it is?Mon Jun 13 1994 14:095
    
    Ouch! :-(
    
    Started off my week by helping carry boxes out to a TSFO'd employee's 
    car....today is not our day here in Mfg.
125.1629This might make you cry.XLIB::REHILLMystery HillTue Jun 21 1994 14:48123
	
	My wife has a cousin. Her name is Elaine Johnson. Her husband 
is Bob Johnson. Bob presently owns a small company that grinds mirrors
for telescopes. Bob tells me that they are the ones that did the corrected 
Hubble lense. I see no reason not to believe him.

	Elaine and Bob have a son. Being the hippies that they are, 
and being big fans of Bob Dylan, they named him Dylan Paul Johnson.
Dylan would have been 13 this August 8th. (Now you know why I'm 
writing this).

	Elaine and Bob live up in Vermont, just outside of 
Brattleboro. Being close to the mountains, Dylan was a very active 
young boy. He skied competitively, usually taking first place. He rode 
his mountain bike through the woods. He was very interested in all 
sorts of animals.

	At the age of 10, Dylan started showing signs of heart 
disease. He went to the hospital, underwent many tests, took much 
medication, but he was too young. He needed a heart transplant, but 
his body was too big for a children's heart, and too small for an 
adults. The Doctors told him to take it easy, not to over do things, to 
take his medication, and when he was 14 or 16, they would do the heart 
transplant. The figured he would PROBABLY make it to 16.

	But Dylan couldn't give up his ski racing, and his love of the 
outdoors. He still raced, but he took it easy. Somehow he still 
managed to take home first place.

	Saturday, June 4th, Dylan slept over at his best friends 
house. Sunday morning, the mother called Elaine to talk about picking 
Dylan up. Mom said, "No big hurry, Dylan is still sleeping". Elaine 
thought "Wow, 9:00 and he's still sleeping, they must have stayed up all 
night talking, he doesn't sleep this late at home". Five minutes later 
the phone rang, it was the mother, saying, "Something is wrong, we 
called 911, Dylan is cold, and we can't wake him up".

	It was too late, even though they took him to the hospital, 
and tried to revive him. Dylan had died peacefully in his sleep 
sometime that night.

	Elaine and Bob, being the hippies that they are, living in a 
hippie town, didn't want to have a wake and a funeral. They had a 
memorial service, last Saturday, June 18th.

	Being a close family, Mike and I, plus her sisters, and their 
family all went up. Elaine and Bob own "The House on Solar Hill", and 
just past the house is the Neighborhood School House, where Dylan went to 
school. Everyone from the schoolhouse was at the memorial, which 
was held at the local Congregational Church.

	We entered the church to the sounds of Pink Floyd's "Wish You 
Were Here". The Program said we were listening to a selection of 
Dylan's favorite artist's and songs. The list included P-funk's "Maggot 
Brain", Stevie Ray Vaughan doing "Little Wing", Hendrix doing "Red 
House", Clapton doing "Presence Of The Lord", and others.

	After the last song, Jane Sibury's "Calling All Angels", the 
minister started the ceremony with a prayer. (This past Saturday, the 
temperature was in the 90's, it was not comfortable in the church). 
The minister then spoke of practicality. He told us where the Rest 
Rooms were, he said if you needed to get up and walk, or get fresh 
air, that would be fine. He mentioned that there were boxes of Kleenex
at the ends of most aisles, and we should feel free to help ourselves.

	He spoke of death and mentioned this ceremony would involve 
three things. It would involve Remembering, Grieving, and Sharing. He 
said, just for this ceremony, the ground rules were: "its OK to cry, 
to make sounds, to display emotion. It is important to grieve, and to 
mourn, in order to get over this".

	Then all Dylan's Schoolhouse classmates came forward and sang 
two songs. One of them, they had written this week, just for Dylan. 
This was an indication of what was to follow. 

	After the songs, Dylan's half-sister came forward to read a 
poem, and share some remembrances. She told us of Dylan-ism's. For 
example, one Christmas, Dylan handed his brother Robin a present, and 
said "Open this now, its your basketball". This humor calmed Mari and 
she was able to read her poem. The poem ended with:

	"This isn't what I meant
	When I said you'd grow to break hearts." 

	By now there wasn't a dry eye in the church. 

	Aunt Carol came forward, and read three poems she had written.
First the poem she wrote when Dylan was born, explaining his name
sakes, especially the powerful voice of revolution Bob Dylan. Then two
she wrote after his death. The first a thank you to Dylan. Carol
hadn't been able to write for about three years, and this broke her
block. The second, a remembrance of Dylan in the pine trees of Maine.

	Brother Robin shared some of his thoughts on growing up with 
Dylan. Again, the Dylan-ism's were present. He talked of swimming in 
the Caribbean, the lakes in Maine and Vermont, and the ocean in Cape 
Cod, of driving Dylan around, feeling like the world' best chauffeur.

	Then the minister opened it to the full group to share.

	I learned that Dylan was an accomplished poet, several of his 
teachers read his poetry. He was a musician. He was a lover of 
animals, always stopping by the pre-school to see what had been born, 
and trying to figure a way to convince Elaine to let him have one.
He was an athlete, playing softball, soccor, whatever, and especially 
skiing. He felt at home with the pre-school kids as well as his own 
classmates, and he seemed to spend more time with the girls than with 
the boys (Dylan-ism - I spend so much time with girls, do you think I 
might be a woman in a boy's body?).

	Many of his classmates shared their remembrances, not always 
an easy thing for a 12 year old to do in a crowd of 100 adults.

	A young classmate said:

	"Dylan was a pest. He always sat in front of me, and wouldn't 
move. I haven't gotten rid of all my pests yet, but I wouldn't mind if 
I had this one back".

	Rest in Peace Dylan Paul Johnson, in 12 years you've lived 
more than many people I've known.


125.1630:^(STRATA::DWESTriding on Blaine the Mono...Tue Jun 21 1994 15:084
    wow...  vibes to Dylan and all who knew him...  may you all find some
    peace...
    
    					da ve
125.1631MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREain't no luck, i learned to duck!Tue Jun 21 1994 16:013
>                         -< This might make you cry. >-

	yup. It did.
125.1632MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CRthe evening sky grew darkTue Jun 21 1994 17:184
    
    thanks, mystery ... helps me get a grip on what's real 
    
    
125.1633CXDOCS::BARNESTue Jun 21 1994 17:293
    had to get out of this right after reading as I had no idea what to say...
    good vibes to all involved.
    rfb
125.1634AKOCOA::SMITH_DAnybody really know what time it is?Tue Jun 21 1994 17:414
    
    	Sounds like this fellow left some real nice memories to the people
    	he left behind.  I admire those who can find positivness in times
    	of loss and mourning.  Vibed to all of them!
125.1635...SALES::GKELLERStop Global WhiningTue Jun 21 1994 19:018
Jim,

That was a wonderful write-up of a very touching day.  I've got tears in my 
eyes as I write this, for Dylan, and for his family.  Tears of sorrow that 
a wonderful person is gone, and tears of joy that there are people who make 
everyone around them so happy.

Geoff
125.1636 :^(BSS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyTue Jun 21 1994 19:1410
    
    Thanks for the write too.  It certainly does put life in perspective.
    One thing I always try to remember is that life is finite.  Tell those
    that you love that you love them.  You never know when it might be the
    last chance to say I love You.  
    
    It was really grate that Dylan had an impact on those around him.  Sad
    he is gone.  More vibes to those who loved him.
    
    	Mark
125.1637live for todayMAGEE::OSTIGUYTue Jun 21 1994 19:161
    sad story for sure...I'm sure Dylan is resting in peace
125.16388-(MVLMC1::shawnGuard with jealous attention the public liberty... -Patick HnryTue Jun 21 1994 19:505
 ..sad story for sure. Vibes to all who share time with Dylan.



 Shawn
125.1639BIODTL::JCpositive vibrationTue Jun 21 1994 20:302
	peace............
125.1640Gone on before us...CARROL::YOUNGwhere is this place in space???Tue Jun 21 1994 20:441
    ...everlasting peace Dylan...we be thar before too long...
125.1641MR4MI2::REHILLCall Me Mystery HillWed Jun 22 1994 00:0010
    The memorial is something that will stay with me for a long time.
    I knew Grateful was the place to share that story with. I still
    keep hearing Mari say:
    
    "This isn't what I meant when I said you'd break hearts"....
    
    And to echo and earlier statement, make sure those you love know you
    love them!
    
    
125.1642Adios ColoradoBSS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Aug 12 1994 15:3013
Today is my last day of work in Colorado.  I'll be packing up the truck 
this weekend.  Pass papers on my house on Monday morning and start driving
after dropping Lisa and the kids off at the airport.  

I'll miss the hell out of Colorado and the folks I've met here.  Thanks
for the times and guidance.  Sometimes you get shown the light in the
strangest of places.   We'll cross paths again I'm sure.

I'll miss the beautiful sights, beautiful weather, and grate folks

	Peace and love to you all
	Mark
125.1643sad indeed Im sureSLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewFri Aug 12 1994 15:419
    hey what are we chopped liver ?
    
    :')
    
    well we here in the east will try to live up to those standards 
    
    Welcome friend
    
    Chris
125.1644BSS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Aug 12 1994 16:067
    
    Chopped Liver, not at all.
    
    Just remeniscing (sp) about Colorado.  I'll
    add a good news not later, once I get myself under composure.
    
    	Mark
125.1645CXDOCS::BARNESFri Aug 12 1994 16:334
    if youse guys do any hangin with MNELSON, your liver WILL be chopped!!!
    %^)
    
    rfb
125.1646SLOHAN::FIELDSStrange BrewFri Aug 12 1994 16:363
    thanks for the warning rfb !
    
    :')
125.1647no comparison :-)NACAD2::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedFri Aug 12 1994 17:2810
re:      <<< Note 125.1642 by BSS::MNELSON "Inspiration, move me Brightly" >>>

>I'll miss the hell out of Colorado and the folks I've met here.  Thanks
>I'll miss the beautiful sights, beautiful weather, and grate folks

Ahh, Hudson blows Colorado away!

adam

ps. :-)
125.1648your rightBSS::DSMITHA Harley, &amp; the Dead the good lifeFri Aug 12 1994 18:4412
    
    Hey Adam
    
    
     What you been drink'n back there? The water....
    
       . .
        ,
      \___/
    
    
    Divide Dave
125.1649i can't believe i screwed up so badlyPONDA::64423::BELKINi want to tell youFri Aug 12 1994 20:5832
Everybody all together now, 

		"hey Josh, it sucks to be you!"

I just realized (from reading a post in r.m.gd) that I send in Shawmuut Bank
money orders for the fall tour, NOT Amex or Postal money orders.
I ordered 2 tix for the Fri/Sat MSG, and 2 tix for each of the Boston shows.

ohhh  f***********************************!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i wanna kill myself....

called Fog for a reality check, and reality bites!

called the GDTS problem line, they said I can redo my order (correctly this
time), put 3 index cards, 3 money orders, 3 SASE's in ONE envelope addressed
to GDST-Problems
   P.O. Box 9812
with a letter explaining my situation, and throwing myself to their mercy.

         aaaaaauuuuuugggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

They said they'll be doing the Boston mail order next week, so if I got it in
the mail real soon I might have chance.
I can't to it today though, can't get to the bank and then the PO before the
PO closes.. damn.. have to do it tomorrow.. 

I got MOSSSS ... Mail Order Stupid Sucker Suicide Syndrome.....


Josh
125.1650My letter to GDTsPONDA::NOKNOK::BELKINi want to tell youFri Aug 12 1994 21:3944
Dear Grateful Dead Ticket Sales:

	I have been mail ordering for about as long as you've been doing the 
mail order.  I finally screwed up my order, and I throw myself at your
feet begging for mercy (and tickets).

	Being enet-connected, I got word of the fall tour mail order very 
soon after it was announced.  I printed out someone's post summarizing the
myriad details and very carefully filled out the index cards and envelopes,
"as per usual".  Then I went to the bank and bought money orders.  Not AMEX 
or postal money orders, just regular Shawmut Bank money orders.  Blissfully
stuffed them in my envelopes, and postmarked the Boston and Madison Sq. Garden
orders on the correct days.

	I just was reading in the enet's rec.music.gdead newsgroup about some 
poor guy who sent his wife to get the money orders because he landed in the 
emergency room.  She got BANK money orders....  thats when I realized I
screwed up too!

	I just called you folks up, and you advised me that I might have
a chance if I redo my order (correctly, of course!) and get it to you ASAP.
This is what you are holding in your hands now: three index cards, SASEs,
and money orders, for 2 tix to each of the 6 Boston Garden shows, and 2 tix 
to each of Friday/Sat. (10/14,15) MSG shows.

	I feel particularly dumb and bone-headed about all this, because I 
realize you must institute a closely-adhered-to system in order to deal with 
the sheer volume of ticket requests.  A kind of natural selection, which I,
this one time, have failed :-(  

	I thought I was the cool dude
	Never could do no order wrong
	Had everything posted up tight
	I smugly lay sleeping all night long

	Just one think I ask of you, just one thing for me, 
	Please ignore my screwed-up order
	My darling G D T S order referee
						  (hey, that rhymes, right? :-)


		Faithfully yours,

			Josh Belkin
125.1651GOOD LUCK JOSH!CXDOCS::BARNESFri Aug 12 1994 22:143
    send a picture too Josh...with a real hang-dog look on yer face...%^)
    
    rfb
125.1652TOOK::PECKARsleep tightMon Aug 15 1994 14:406
>    send a picture too Josh...with a real hang-dog look on yer face...%^)
    
That should do the trick...

Good luck Josh...
125.1653:^(STRATA::DWESTriding on Blaine the Mono...Fri Aug 26 1994 19:574
    can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
    supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
    
    					da ve_in_agony
125.1654POWDML::PENTLICKIFri Aug 26 1994 20:168
   
>    can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
>   supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
    
I've never had one, but an old girlfriend had 4, yikes!  And
yes, she was miserable for a long time

Steve
125.1655Could be worse, could be raining...;-)NAC::TRAMP::GRADYInto the night, an angel to be...Fri Aug 26 1994 20:235
    Yeah, da ve, after the novacaine wears off, it can hurt for a few days. 
    Look at the bright side: it's only a root canal, not a vasectomy! ;-)
    
    tim
    
125.1656SALES::GKELLERAccess for allFri Aug 26 1994 20:294
I've never had a root canal, but from what people tell me it sounds alot 
more painful thana vasectomy.

Geoff
125.1657:(BINKLY::DEMARSEEnjoy beingSat Aug 27 1994 15:3112
    >>    can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
    >>    supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
    
    
    I had one many years ago, but my dentist never believed in using
    novicane and therefore the whole root canal HURT really bad.  I was
    brought up with this dentist so I didn't know that novicane existed.
    To make a long story short, yes it hurt a few days after the root
    canal.
    
    A few weeks later, I got an infected jaw from the ordeal and
    my right cheek puffed out like the elephant man.  That was not fun.
125.1658SSGV01::TPNSTN::Strobelbag it tag itMon Aug 29 1994 13:414
fwiw, the root canal I had bothered me for about a day. The gum was still a 
bit tender for a couple of days after that, but no real pain.

jeff
125.1659absess!!! ouch!!!STRATA::DWESTriding on Blaine the Mono...Mon Aug 29 1994 14:2213
    well, since i know that you are all very much concerned for my health
    and welfar, i figured i'd give you an update...  :^)
    
    i left friday and called the dentist...  he asked me to describe the
    feeling and i told him "it's like i got punched in the face"...
    he had me come in and sure enough, it had absessed...  so i cancelled
    my friday night plans and stayed home with a bottle of scotch and
    a bottle of prescription pain killers...  :^)  a DRASTIC improvement
    over the day before...  
    
    so for this week, da ve's drugs of choice are penicillin and vicatin...
    
    					da ve :^)
125.1660he's a sickoPONDA::64423::BELKINi want to tell youMon Aug 29 1994 15:3718
da ve,

you can take some small comfort in the fact that Bob Wier would rather have
root canal that write lyrics ;-).   Yup its a true fact I read it in the
"Bob Weir" entry in the new book "Skeleton Key", the deadhead dictionary.

danielle,
your old dentist was (is?) a certified sadist.  I think he got off on a power
trip of putting little girls in pain.  I bet his favorite movie scene
is in "Marathon Man" where Laurence Oliver the Nazi tortures Dustin Hoffman
by drilling his front teeth with a Dremel tool.

My dad's a dentist, and I can't imagine _any_ drilling etc. of any sort 
without anathestics.  Root canal without pain killers is absolutely 
inexcusible.  I can't imagine this so-called dentist being taugh in dental
school _not_ to use pain killers for root canal!

josh
125.1661BINKLY::DEMARSEEnjoy beingMon Aug 29 1994 15:586
    >> danielle,
    >> your old dentist was (is?) a certified sadist.  I think he got off on a
    >> power trip of putting little girls in pain.
    
    He was really old, and I think he was "stuck in the old ways", if the
    old ways meant not using novicane.  I grew up hating the dentist. :)
125.1662MONTOR::HANNANBeyond description...Mon Aug 29 1994 16:0012
On root canals, a lot depends on the state of the nerve as far as I know.
I had a root canal done on a front tooth about 20 years ago, and it was
no problem/little pain.  The dentist said the nerve was totally dead.
I've found some drilling and filling cavities to be much worse.  When 
the nerve is live, I guess that's a different story, and root canals
can be more painful.

re: Danielle

It should be up to the patient, not the dentist, as to novacaine and stuff!

/Ken
125.1663CXDOCS::BARNESMon Aug 29 1994 16:081
    percodan!!!!
125.1664NAC::TRAMP::GRADYInto the night, an angel to be...Mon Aug 29 1994 16:177
>    percodan!!!!

Truer words were never spoken.

Is it safe yet? ;-)

tim
125.1665CXDOCS::BARNESMon Aug 29 1994 16:396
    my dentist just called to remind me I have an apt at noon for
    drilling....that's why i entered my note,,,,safe???? just don't
    drive....
    rfb
    
    
125.1666NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedTue Oct 18 1994 12:4715
Well, it's about time I put a note in here.

You all heard about my latest tragedy.  I slipped on the stairs at the Garden
and sprained my ankle and broke my fibula just above the ankle.  The bone was
re-set with a few screws and a plate during some out-patient surgery.  The bone
has healed perfectly and now I am concentrating on the sprain.  I have to wear
a leg brace until Nov. 14 at which time I am a free man.  I'll hopefully start
some kind of therapy at that time to help heal the ankle, since my foot is
pretty stiff and I only have about half the range of motion I should.  But I'm
walking with a cane now and there's no pain unless I try to stretch my muscles
too much.

Funny thing, this thing called life.

adam
125.1667STOWOA::JOLLIMORECulture out the wazooTue Oct 18 1994 13:0111
>  <<< Note 125.1666 by NETCAD::SIEGEL "The revolution wil not be televised" >>>
                 ^^^
	         |||
	Pushin ur luck, ain'tcha?     ;-)
	
	I'd hold out for a SkyBox(tm). Or at least a lifetime Annie Oakly
	for ALL Dead shows.  ;-)
	
	Bummer. Glad you're healing ok.
	
	Jay
125.1668!@#$%^& and then back to something pleasant...ALFA1::DWESTbut i play one on tv...Fri Oct 28 1994 20:0713
    
    
    can i just jump in here for a minute to bitch about life???   i mean,
    in general it's a wonderful thing, but this afternoon it really
    sucks to be me...  :^(
    
    no, i don't want to talk about it...  i just want to bitch for a minute
    and then go break something...
    
    
    					da ve_who_would_be_a_lot_happier_
    					with_one_aspect_of_life_if_decpc_
    					466_MTE_machines_had_PCI_slots
125.1669Keep da faith!SUBPAC::MAGGARDIntegrate!Fri Oct 28 1994 20:538
Keep yer chin up, da ve!!!!!

>B-|
^^^^
My Give_Em_Hell(tm) smiley! :-)

- jeff
125.1670GRANPA::TDAVISThu Dec 15 1994 13:2010
    My Army son calls us this morning to inform us he will be going
    to Haiti for 6 weeks or 6 months, and he leaves Ft. Drum, Friday
    evening..... eariler in the week he was coming home for Christmas.
    
    The Army has some interesting parallels to this place, in terms of 
    communication, scheduling, etc....
    
    
    
    
125.1671BINKLY::DEMARSEEnjoy beingThu Dec 15 1994 14:127
    >> My Army son calls us this morning to inform us he will be going
    >> to Haiti for 6 weeks or 6 months, and he leaves Ft. Drum, Friday
    >> evening..... eariler in the week he was coming home for Christmas.   
    
    :(:(  
    
    BTW, I grew up in Watertown, NY, which is right next to Ft. Drum...
125.1672SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Thu Dec 15 1994 14:4314
RE:  Fort Drum

re:    BTW, I grew up in Watertown, NY, which is right next to Ft. Drum...

My family is from Potsdam/Watertown (Whitehall too).  Mike Rogers is from 
Potsdam as is Randy Switts.

And I lived in Canton for 3 years....

bob

Sorry to hear your son is not going to be home for the holidays....it could be
much worse though ....Bosnia/Middle east...

125.1673LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADYStop The Violins.Mon Dec 19 1994 11:499
>    The Army has some interesting parallels to this place, in terms of 
>    communication, scheduling, etc....
    
    ...and this surprises you?
    
    Same reason(s).
    
    tim
    
125.1674BIODTL::JCdon't criticize itWed Dec 21 1994 01:5314
well, our group is dwinding in size rapidly...
it is really kinda sad, kinda like the exodus that
has occurred here for the last 3 yrs...

we've lost 6 people in 3-4 weeks.  all attrition.
all moving on to new things... kiunda sad.  i almost
moved on myself but digital answered and made it
worth my while to remain.... 

we're just about to release a v1.0 product... the
demand is unreal.. can't understand why people are
cruising... oh well...


125.1675BIODTL::JCGreen is the colourTue Feb 21 1995 16:412
A friend and sometimes-work collegue of mine died last night of cancer.
may he rest in piece.
125.1676CXDOCS::BARNESTue Feb 21 1995 16:465
    I'm sorry to hear that JC....think of him often and keep him alive in
    yer head and heart..how old was he? (if that's not too offensive of a
    question)
    
    rfb
125.1677TRLIAN::DUGGANTue Feb 21 1995 18:034
    That's a bummer... My condolences to you, and to his family...
    
    
    ...mike
125.1678BIODTL::JCGreen is the colourTue Feb 21 1995 19:443
about 45 yrs old.
3 kids too.
sad.
125.1679CXDOCS::BARNESTue Feb 21 1995 19:503
    very sad, JC...right around the corner for some of us to, age wise..
    live life to the fullest but be careful, one never knows when ones time
    is up....
125.1680STOWOA::JOLLIMOREFood for a crowWed Feb 22 1995 10:422
	yeah, what rfb sed: live life to it's fullest each day.
	and may he rest in peace.
125.1681Now where'd I park my car?OBJRUS::SLOANTell ME all that 'cha knowFri Jul 21 1995 18:3311
        
    	 My new car (just 200 miles) was towed out of bank parking lot last
         night. I did get to catch slipknot but it was a very expensive
         night. It's bummer when you come out dancing only to find your
         car has disappeared.
    
         I forgot that Boston towing companies are busy everywhere
         trying to make money while we're out playing.  Just
         not enough legal parking spots to go around ..
        
         Cath      
125.1682:(WILLEE::OSTIGUYWed Aug 30 1995 19:1210
    Bummer...I comeback to work this morning after hangin' at Lake Tahoe,
    I walk into my office expecting to see my Lake Tahoe calendar staring
    me in the face...
    
    IT's GONE ???!!!   either someone is playing a bad joke on me, or it
    fell in my basket (which the calendar hung directly over) and the
    cleaning folks didn't care to notice it was the Only thing in the
    basket (seeing I'm on vaca) and threw it away...
    
    Drag
125.1683Wallowing in the mireDELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byTue Jan 16 1996 13:297
    
    School starts tonight.  Talk about heavy depression...tempted to get
    liquored up before class.
    
    This semester:   - Accounting 1  (barf bags being handed out at the door)
    		     - Pascal Programming (as exciting as driving a 1972 Dodge Dart
    					   up Mt Washington Auto road)
125.1684TEPTAE::WESTERVELTTue Jan 16 1996 13:492
    Pascal!!  Did they already teach you C?
125.1685Could be worse...could be COBOLNETRIX::danDan HarringtonTue Jan 16 1996 20:136
>	     - Pascal Programming (as exciting as driving a 1972 Dodge Dart
>				   up Mt Washington Auto road)

What is this, a history class?

Dan
125.1686DELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byWed Jan 17 1996 12:526
    
    Apparently PASCAL is the way they teach novice programmers.
    
    I ended up bagging Accounting which was not a core course.  Replaced
    it with Psychology which I have absolutely no interest in but it is
    needed for all Mgmt. courses.   
125.1687TEPTAE::WESTERVELTWed Jan 17 1996 13:224
>    [...] Psychology which [...] is needed for all Mgmt. courses

    Something about this strikes me as incredibly funny.
125.1688SPECXN::BARNESWed Jan 17 1996 13:449
    re; [...] Psychology which [...] is needed for all Mgmt. courses
    Something about this strikes me as incredibly funny.
                                                                 
    
    funny in a sad and disturbed way when I think of the Psychology
    manager types around here in CXO use...freakin ironic, i'd say
    
    
    rfb
125.1689TEPTAE::WESTERVELTWed Jan 17 1996 13:571
    same reason i liked Pulp Fiction  ;-)
125.1690Cie la VieDELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byWed Jan 17 1996 14:064
    
    Speaking of Pulp Fiction....what is the name of the catagory of that 
    soundtrack music??????????  My Mother told me and I've forgotten.  I'd
    like to participate in that music more often.   
125.1691Hurtin pretty badFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveSat Jan 20 1996 13:498
    
    	Got a call late last nite about one of my aunts.
    	She's dying of Cancer and the MD says there is nothing he can do
    	The worst part is she went through Chemo & Radiation last year
    	and it (Cancer) was in remission....
    
    
    	Toby 8-( 8-( 8-(
125.1692sadRECV::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneSat Jan 20 1996 16:176
        Toby
        
        I hope that your Aunt does not have to suffer too much.
	Best wishes to you and your family.
    
        Cath
125.1693MKOTS3::JOLLIMORECouldn't stand the weatherMon Jan 22 1996 10:337
	:-(   sorry, toby.
	
	remind her that her own mind is more powerful than any MD.
	tell her not to give away her power.
	and that she is in our prayers.
	
	jay
125.1694heading your wayPCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Jan 22 1996 11:224
    good vibes to your family my man..
    
    
    chris
125.1695healing vibes...ALFA2::DWESTthe storyteller makes no choice...Mon Jan 22 1996 12:454
    vibes for you and yours bud...  i've been watching another friend deal
    with cancer in his step-daughter...  it's a tough one for everyone...
    
    					da ve
125.1696SPECXN::BARNESMon Jan 22 1996 13:143
    rough stuff Toby...hang in there. Vibes and much peace to your aunt.
    
    rfb
125.1697AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidMon Jan 22 1996 13:313
    bad history of cancer in my family, too.  your aunt is in my thoughts.
    
    noky
125.1698SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Ordered HusbandMon Jan 22 1996 13:504
...vibes of peace, comfort, and strength comin' your way, Toby...

- jeff
125.1699USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyMon Jan 22 1996 13:552
    
    More vibes heading to you and your family.  Peace and healing
125.1700STAR::ECOMAN::DEBESSWake Now, Discover...Mon Jan 22 1996 14:4312
	Toby - even here without seeing you in person, your pain is evident.
	I'm glad you came here for solace because it seems to be a caring
	bunch of people who will hold you in their thoughts.  Hope there's
	someone close by who can give you a real hug and let you cry on
	their shoulder.  And I hope you are able to let your aunt know how
	much you care about her.

	and, I hope she is in peace right now.

	take care,
	Debess
125.1701Still hanging in thereFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveWed Jan 24 1996 12:545
    
    Thanks for all the good vibes folks I relly needed them!!!
    
    
    Toby
125.1702STAR::ECOMAN::DEBESSWake Now, Discover...Wed Jan 24 1996 16:145
	...just walked past a window...it's POURING out there...and
	the snow is disappearing quickly...I know that makes some people
	happy, but to me, it's a major bummer.

125.1703TEPTAE::WESTERVELTWed Jan 24 1996 16:232
    I miss complaining about the snow and giving JC a hard time!
125.1704SALEM::MARTIN_SPerpetual Smile...Fri Feb 02 1996 14:3010
    
    I am bummed today.
    My wife (who works for DEC @ MKO) is being sent to HOLLAND (Digital) 
    for a month! She takes off this afternoon.  
    No fair. A week would be no problem. Two weeks: enough. But a month?
    Just me and Jaz (she's only 15 months old).
    
    It's gonna be a rough month...
    
    Steve-O_bummmed                           
125.1705good luckSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Feb 02 1996 14:5512
    
    That is a bummer Steve. Hope you have lots of family/friend support
    for you and JAZ.
    
    Can't you get DEC to send you over for a long weekend at least?
    Call your travel agent to see if there's any deals going on if
    not.  This time of year the prices get pretty low to England. Then
    maybe you could take a train to Holland - look in this sunday's globe.
    
    Maybe you could meet up in Amsterdam for a wild weekend ;).
    
    Cath
125.1706SPECXN::BARNESFri Feb 02 1996 15:163
    I DO NOT envy you....keep da faith!
    
    rfb
125.1707and Mom will be home!ALFA2::DWESTthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Feb 02 1996 16:023
    chin up little buckaroo... :^)  it'll be march before you know it...
    
    					da ve
125.1708Inquiring minds wanna knowPCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeFri Feb 02 1996 16:111
    do men instantly become helpless when they marry?
125.1709MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamFri Feb 02 1996 16:241
	no.
125.1710WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsFri Feb 02 1996 16:322
    
    it takes longer than that
125.1711SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Ordered HusbandFri Feb 02 1996 16:515
Steve-O, mon, I sympathize.  My wife, Dori, was in CA for twelve months.


- jeff
125.1712SPSEG::COVINGTONI drive for music.Fri Feb 02 1996 16:535
    
    I'm not married and I'm already helpless...
    
    Well, I can feed myself if you give me five bucks, but that's about it.
    
125.1713ALFA2::DWESTthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Feb 02 1996 16:532
    i dunno... i know a number of women who would claim that men are
    helpless long before they marry... :^)
125.1714ALFA2::DWESTthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Feb 02 1996 16:551
    oopps! notes collision... :^)
125.1715Even though it's a Leap yearFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveFri Feb 02 1996 17:258
    
    Hang in there Steve  at least the Month is the shortest one of
    the year.  
    
    
    Peace,
    
    Toby
125.1716GRANPA::TDAVISFri Feb 02 1996 17:383
    I know the reverse problems with travel (30%) for me, use to be
    50%, good luck, a month can be long, but I would rather be home
    than on the road for the month. 
125.1717MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamFri Feb 02 1996 17:427
>    I would rather be home than on the road for the month. 

	cuz you're not married to steve-o.
	his wife was last seen dancing her way to the airport with the
	perpetual smile.
	
	;-)  ;-)
125.1718AWECIM::HANNANBeyond description...Fri Feb 02 1996 18:3212
re: Leblanc

It's not marriage, it's caring for young kids 101% of your time that
takes its toll.

re:         <<< Note 125.1711 by SUBPAC::MAGGARD "Mail Ordered Husband" >>>

> Steve-O, mon, I sympathize.  My wife, Dori, was in CA for twelve months.

And you're kidless!

/Ken
125.1719fehNAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 18:3751
Ok, it's flame time.

I, for one, am getting very, very weary of the growing popularity in our
culture to slam men.  Television, film, the news media, and virtually every
aspect of our society today takes great glee in portraying men as evil fools,
while their female counterparts are noble heroes...  I'm probably just a
little cranked up because of events in my personal life over the past year or
five, but I tell you I see it everywhere.

Deadbeat dads.  Never heard of a deadbeat mom.

Wife beaters.  Husband beaters are funny.

I don't even want to start talking about child custody laws.

Single fathers whose kids show up at school with a bruise or a black eye find
their kids being interrogated by the school nurse, "does your father hit you".
Yes, it does happen - it happened to mine, and more than once.  Why?  Because
the schools are run by WOMEN!

TV sitcom husbands are invariably amiable buffoons, and foils for their wiley
wives or significant others.(Tim Allen, Roseann, etc)  Men can't make
commitments, but women are born for it.  My ass! My kids asked me to rent a
movie last night, so I rented Nine Months (Hugh Grant).  Slapstick comedy, but
what a vile image of manhood!  A woman gets pregnant, decides to keep the
baby, and then manipulates the shit out of her boyfriend, who is already
scared shitless, and completely without any choice except to go along or lose
both her and the child.  All the while, he is portrayed as a spineless,
hapless fool.  What crap!

I'm tired of it all.  If people of color as a class strata were portrayed
today this way (and they WERE in the forties and fifties) there would be an
outcry!  

I got a hint of this watching that first episode of "Third Rock from the Sun"
a couple weeks ago.  The male lead (John Lithgow) kisses the female lead (Jane
Curtin) unexpectedly, and without explicit invitation, but nevertheless
without malice or agression either.  She slaps him.  He slapped her back.  It
was slapstick(he's an alien, unaware of our customs), but it got me thinking: 
Good for him!  If roles had been reversed, and he slapped her for kissing him,
he'd be in jail.

I'm just so sick of hearing about the poor, heroic lot of women as subjugates
of the bumbling, malicious, potentially violent, selfish men in our society,
it really ticks me off.

I feel much better now.

Thanks.

tim
125.1720TEPTAE::WESTERVELTFri Feb 02 1996 18:532
    
    typical male grousing  ;-)
125.1721but seriouslyTEPTAE::WESTERVELTFri Feb 02 1996 19:0418
    Actually, Tim, I've felt this way my whole life! - the women's
    liberation movement (which I wholeheartedly support) began 
    when I was a teenager.  I learned early that males are brutes
    and only interested in One Thing, scum that we are.

    I also have a friend who is having a majorly bad time with
    DSS and it sure looks like male bashing to me (they assume
    he beats his kids because his wife said so; meanwhile he won
    legal custody of his kids, his ex doesn't even get visitation
    rights.  That was in the court - which is not where DSS 
    conflicts play out).  

    We can rightly blame the excesses of the past, but I also think the
    pendulum is starting to swing back (towards true equality).  I think
    it's the same thing in race relations.

    Tom
125.1722no comprendezSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Feb 02 1996 19:2324
    
      OK Tim why now? Is this your way of telling SteveO that you
      sympathize with taking care of his child(ren) on his own.
    
      You may be sick of how men are protrayed in movies, film, life,
      but think if even in 50%  what is protrayed in the tv/films/media
      is true how sick the victims are of the men that act that way, ie. 
      wife/children abuse. 
      
      Even us baby boomers still have a lot of the
      old hangups about roles women and men play in life and families
      inherited over the generation.  I personally think it's more
      alchohol, drug abuse, and chemical imbalance/mental instability 
      that drive people (regardless of gender) to abuse others.
                  
      In any case I don't think men have it any worse off than women.
      Life has it's share of problems and coping skills are important.
    
      Oh ya, woman still don't run the schools, most of the 'power
      positions' are still held by men, but that's another story.
    
      Cath
       
                                                                 
125.1723NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 19:2421
I see and hear it all the time, and it's getting very old.

I'm sick of the newly "empowered" woman, rising from the oppressive
male-dominated, glass-ceilinged society.  BFD.  Instead of actually seeing a
new collection of strong, self-secure and mature women, it seems like there
are just a lot more insecure, relationship-paranoid, self-absorbed women with
a sense of entitlement, as if the world owes them a life because Newsweek said
so.  What an improvement.

It isn't that I don't believe there has been a great deal of oppression and
gender discrimination.  I know, first hand, and probably better than most
women in the U.S., exactly what it's like to be faced with the generally
accepted social attitude that I'm not good enough simply because of my gonads.
I've been a single father for five years.  I think I have more empathy than
most white males for those who suffer from discrimination.  That's not my
point.

My concern is with the deification of womanhood and the demonization of men. 
There's nothing equal about that...and equal is the only thing I'll tolerate.

tim
125.1724good luckSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Feb 02 1996 19:3311
    
        Re: I'm probably just a little cranked up because of events
        in my personal life over the pastyear or five, but I tell
        you I see it everywhere.
    
        guess I can see where you're coming from Tim. I hope that
        you are able to rise above your hostility towards women 
        and meet someone that proves you wrong sometime soon .. 
        there's still a few out there that are not screwed up by bad
        experiences.
             
125.1725NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 19:3941
>You may be sick of how men are protrayed in movies, film, life,
>but think if even in 50%  what is protrayed in the tv/films/media
>is true how sick the victims are of the men that act that way, ie. 
>wife/children abuse. 

There is a growing stereotype in the media of the evil male.  Women
abuse JUST AS OFTEN AS MEN DO...but popular media makes us think 
that it's a gender-specific malady.  It's NOT!!!  Women are just
as capable of abusing men and children as men are, AND THEY DO SO
JUST AS OFTEN!  Why don't you believe this?  Because the media
tells you otherwise...

>In any case I don't think men have it any worse off than women.
>Life has it's share of problems and coping skills are important.

Really?  If you kiss me, and I slap you, I go to jail.  The other
way around, and it's just humor.  In fact,
you can probably get away with a hell of a lot more violence 
against me, simply because you're female, than if our roles were
reversed.  This isn't about coping skills.  It's about equality.
Women are NOT being portrayed in the media as buffoons, slobs, or
irresponsible mistriant vagabonds, but men are every day.

>Oh ya, woman still don't run the schools, most of the 'power
>positions' are still held by men, but that's another story.

You don't have kids, you're not a man, and you haven't been there.  I
have.  Most of the people who work in the child 'industry', i.e.
schools, child care, and caretakers in general, are women.  The VAST
majority.  Many, many of them have a real problem with men being
primary caregivers.  I have had no less than six female so-called
educators interject themselves into my family life with intent to
change it, and influence my custody arrangement, an arrangement that I
achieved simply by mutual agreement with my ex-wife.  They had no
business doing that.  Every single school that my children have
attended, and that's a total of FIVE schools, has seen fit to question
the validity of my role as primary caregiver and custodial parent,
PURELY because I'm male.  They have ALL been women.  Women don't run
the schools?  Bullshit.

tim
125.1726NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 19:4622
>I hope that
>you are able to rise above your hostility towards women 
>and meet someone that proves you wrong sometime soon .

C'mon, Cath, that sounds awfully condescending.  It isn't an issue of
my having a chip on my shoulder, and simply need to meet a "good
woman".  That's irrelevent.

The fact is that men are being discriminated against in the media and
society as a whole, often in ways that would never be accepted if the
target of the discrimination was female, black, hispanic,
gay/lesbian/bisexual, Jewish, or whatever.  Discrimination and a media
that encourages it, is intolerable.  I, for one, am tired of seeing
caricatures of people who look just like me being portrayed as the
subject of ridicule.  It effects me in my every day life in the way
that people, especially women, treat ME because they're buying the
bullshit.  It also undermines the self image of men and boys, like my
13 year old son, who see the subtle message that because they're
masculine, they're not as good as women.  The message is definitely
there, and it's wrong. 

tim
125.1727SEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Feb 02 1996 19:4819
    
     Tim -
      I do think you have sound reasoning and that your experiences
      are valid.
    
      My point about school systems is they may be the majority
      employeed but they ARE the minority in positions that pay
      and don't get promoted as high up the ladder as men.
    
      Sorry that you've had so much turmoil for being a single
      male parent... 
    
      I don't think it's necessary to remind me or others that
      I'm not a man and I don't have kids.
    
      Cath
      
    
     
125.1728HELIX::CLARKFri Feb 02 1996 19:4918
  I sort of agree with the "men are from Mars, women from Venus" approach,
  cutesy and oversimple though it is.
  
  If you start with the proposition that men & women fundamentally
  (genetically) are wired differently, down to basic ways of thinking,
  feeling, analyzing, and communicating...  Which most people "know" on some
  level I believe...
  
  And uphold equal-opportunity-for-life-liberty-pursuit...  (Noone's going
  to deny that to any female, or male, relative of mine, I'll tell ya...)

  And believe in the world family, we're all in this together concept, which
  deadheads seem to have a head start on...

  I think it's possible to float above the general inanity on this topic...
  Ignoring demagogues anxious to push your buttons or push their agendas is
  a must though.  Real people just deal with it as they go, with who they
  know....  - Jay
125.1729NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 19:4910
>I don't think it's necessary to remind me or others that
>I'm not a man and I don't have kids.
 
Sorry.  I didn't think it was necessary to imply that I'd be ok if I
just got laid.

:-)

tim
  
125.1730ready for happy hourSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Feb 02 1996 19:558
    
    Getting laid well that is an interesting topic! I don't know if
    that would help or not but your view point might change if you 
    had some good experiences with women in school system or 
    otherwise.
    
    Cath
    
125.1731:^)PCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeFri Feb 02 1996 20:014
    well 
    let's close that can of worms for a friday afternoon
    
    Steve-O you are helpless regardless
125.1732NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 20:0634
Sorry about the cheap attempt at humor, but at first read, it sounded
like you thought I just needed to meet a good woman...that's not it,
that won't change things.  It's the media itself that portrays middle
class white men as fools...it's as if we suddenly had a barrage of
media events, films and tv shows about how well black people can
dance...but are otherwise lazy and shiftless...same thing.  And people
are buying it, especially women...who are being exhalted as the
antithesis of their lowlife male counterparts...they've got a vested
emotional interest in buying it, because it's connected to their own
rise to glory.

Most of the people who deal with my kids are female, and they thereby
control the childcare industry by sheer presence.  It isn't an issue
of structural/organizational power, it's more an issue of influential
control, and women have that cornered....

Female school 'counselor' pulls my kids out of class during the
divorce to question them if they want to live with their father.

Female school gym teacher wishing to influence the custody outcome
calls the state childcare anonymous hotline number to accuse me of
molesting them.

Female school nurse asks my daughter if she got her black eye from her
father (when in fact she took an elbow from her sister).

These are normal, albeit somewhat dim-witted, women who are buying the
media line that men are worthless, untrustworthy, lazy, selfish,
perverts...  Jeez, we don't even get the advantage of a reputation for
having 'natural rythm"...;-)

...and on and on and on...

tim
125.1733NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSubvert the dominant pair of dimesFri Feb 02 1996 20:073
"A riot is an ugly thing...and it's about time we had one!"

			- Mel Brooks, "Young Frankenstein"
125.1734where am i ??MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamMon Feb 05 1996 10:154
	wow. i thought i was reading womennotes for a mintue!
	
	;-)
	
125.1735vive la difference! :^)ALFA2::DWESTthe storyteller makes no choice...Mon Feb 05 1996 12:257
    re men and women being intrinsically different...
    
    this belongs in the "bummers" topic?????
    
    				:^) :^) :^)
    
    					da ve
125.1736STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSWake Now, Discover...Mon Feb 05 1996 12:459
	kinda related, kinda not, I read over the weekend that in Florida
	a father (who had been convicted and served time for murdering
	his 2nd? wife) sued and got custody of his child from a subsequent
	marriage because the child's mother is a lesbian.

	to me, something is wrong with this picture.

	Debess
125.1737WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsTue Feb 06 1996 13:4913
    wow - interesting stuff going on in this note whilst i was not 
    paying attention.  Good points made by all ... and for the most
    part, arguing the point and resisting the impulse to trash the 
    person turned out to be the best way to be heard.
    
    My son is now a single parent with full custody of his 3 kids.  I know
    from my own experience when he was a child as single parent myself that
    nothing *I say nothing* is one sided.  I must agree that most of
    society sees female parent when they hear 'single parent'.  That
    stereotype needs to change - we can all get better from being less
    bitter.
    
    
125.1738car jinxAD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidFri Feb 23 1996 13:2121
    Strange stuff goin' on with my roomie, Scot...
    
    In the past four months, he's been in 2 auto accidents.  In fact, he
    JUST got his car back from the auto body shop, where its been
    sittin for over a month.
        
    Well, last night he came home at 12:30 with a friend... then they
    both proceed to tell this story of how Scot swerved to avoid a dog
    in the fog, how his car managed to FLIP COMPLETELY OVER, how he
    managed to crawl out a broken window...
        
    I thought it was a joke.  This was just too far fetched to be true, but
    it WAS true!  I was dumbfounded!  Luckily, he wasn't hurt at all, but
    Scot's pretty shook up.  REALLY out there...
        
    So, I was wondering if you could help beam me him some ~ PoSiTiVe 
    ViBeS ~ ???  His email is AD::SHILDEBR
        
        Thanks!!
        
        'noky
125.1739SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Ordered HusbandFri Feb 23 1996 19:229
1 year.  1 brand new car.  3 accidents.  

I say the car is hexed... tell 'im to get rid of it (then again, if it's
totalled, then that's not too difficult).

Glad Scot-mon's okay.   VVVVvvvvibezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..............

- jeff
125.1740AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Sat Feb 24 1996 03:319
    
    I've been driving for 16 years now, and have had only 2 accidents.  But
    they were 10 days apart.  And for a couple months after the 2nd
    accident, I had a lot of near accidents.....bad karma that I eventually
    shook off.
    
    Hope his luck changes
    
    Hogan
125.1741{{beams}} to da veAWECIM::HANNANBeyond description...Thu Feb 29 1996 17:256
    da ve needs some healing beams sent his way...

    According to Ed from Cross the Water, da ve had a mean fall down
    some stairs yesterday, injured his neck or back, and is hurting.

    /Ken
125.1742MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamThu Feb 29 1996 17:286
	i wondered where he was today!
	
	:-(
	
	vibes to da ve.
	
125.1743STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSLeap from ledges high and wildThu Feb 29 1996 17:305
	I've wondered where he's been all week...

	ouch da ve - take care of yourself and feelgood soon.

125.1744SUBPAC::MAGGARDOutta Here!Thu Feb 29 1996 17:3610
Bummer :-(


OOOOOOHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm..............

Get well soon, da ve!!!


- jeff
125.1745BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEThu Feb 29 1996 17:413
    Good south bound vibes to da ve..
    
    divide
125.1746MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamThu Feb 29 1996 17:436
	da ve was here and noting toozday.
	in wimin's underwear!
	
	;-)
	
	
125.1747OwPCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Feb 29 1996 18:372
    wow da ve
    take care and get well soon
125.1748ouch!QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Feb 29 1996 20:184
Gosh, what with the luck his family has been having, you knew da ve was
about due for his share!  Hope you're feeling better man.

PeterT
125.1749well, sort of "normal" anyway... :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Mar 01 1996 13:3015
thanks to everyone for the vibes!  i'm back today.... 

yeah, it's been interestin' being me for the last few months... :^)   

wednesday i took the spill and yesterday i was still walking around like Rain Man...
head down and turned a little to the left...  i'm ok now, as long as i don't have to turn right
quickly... :^)    

seriously, went to the chiropractor and he restored a lot (though not quite all) of the range
of motion...  i can turn my head to the right now almost all the way...  no more sharp pain
but kind of a dull ache...  essentially, falling down the stairs at my apartment agravated an
old back injury...  a few days of exercises and stretches, and another trip or two to the
back-cracker and things should be getting back to normal...

				da ve
125.1750reformated to fit your screen ...MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamFri Mar 01 1996 13:4718
                   -< well, sort of "normal" anyway...  :^) >-

thanks to everyone for the vibes!  i'm back today.... 

yeah, it's been interestin' being me for the last few months... :^)   

wednesday i took the spill and yesterday i was still walking around like
Rain Man...  head down and turned a little to the left...  i'm ok now, as
long as i don't have to turn right quickly... :^)    

seriously, went to the chiropractor and he restored a lot (though not
quite all) of the range of motion...  i can turn my head to the right now
almost all the way...  no more sharp pain but kind of a dull ache...
essentially, falling down the stairs at my apartment agravated an old
back injury...  a few days of exercises and stretches, and another trip
or two to the back-cracker and things should be getting back to normal...

				da ve
125.1751AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidFri Mar 01 1996 13:485
    da ve - good to hear that you're feelin a bit better!  Back probs are
    the pits... especially sitting in front of these screens all day. 
    Hmmm, now I'll hafta get up and strech!
    
    'noky
125.1752thanks!NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Mar 01 1996 14:0112
uhhhh, thanks for re-formatting that!!!!

still haven't quite figured out this !@#$%ing Teamlinks
interface...  there HAS to be a way i can set this up so 
that i don't go over 80 cols!  :^(

this lack of Ctrl Z drives me nuts too!  i always
try to ctrl z to enter my note and stuff disappears!

grrrr...

			da ve
125.1753welcome back SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Fri Mar 01 1996 14:549
<<< Note 125.1749 by NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes "the storyteller makes no choice..." >>>
                   -< well, sort of "normal" anyway...  :^) >-

>....  i'm back today.... 

a spineless attempt at humor?

bobo

125.1754honey come quick with the iodineQUOIN::BELKINNothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-)Fri Mar 01 1996 15:395
da ve, the first thing I thought of when I read here about you was what a
hassle it must be going up and down staircase to your apartment with a sore
back!   Glad to see you're up and about.  Don't lift anything heavier than,
say, a 12-oz. curl :-)
  Josh
125.1755QUOIN::BELKINNothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-)Fri Mar 01 1996 15:403
 I think we should re-christen da ve  to be Tennessee Jed :-)

  Josh
125.1756a new nickname?NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Fri Mar 01 1996 15:565
does that mean you have to pour alcohol over my head?

sign me up!!!  :^)

			da ve
125.1757SPECXN::BARNESFri Mar 01 1996 16:335
    that's serious stuff da ve...don't mess around. keep an eye on yer back
    and keep goin back to the backcracker...
    
    
    vibes...rfb
125.1759STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSLeap from ledges high and wildMon Mar 04 1996 14:027
	tim!  I always got the impression that we were friends...

	Debess

	(so sorry to hear your frustrating news, but really, I don't think
	I deserve this)
125.1760MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamMon Mar 04 1996 14:054
	ugh. that sux.
	sorry you have to go through this, tim.
	
	jj
125.1761and the saga continuesSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneMon Mar 04 1996 14:1921
    
         Ya Tim, can't you limit your attack on women to 'some woman' at
         least.
    
         I find it hard to think of you as a friend after these kinds of
         attacks on all of us ...
    
         Sorry that you're so bitter about life with at least half the human
         race.
    
         BTW. I thought after reading your Vancouver note that things were
         getting better for you.. I thought maybe you met some nice
         folks there...   Too bad you had to come back to that ex of yours
         who seems to know how to push all your buttons.
    
         Try not to take it out on all women.
    
         hang in.
    
         Cath
           
125.1762NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 14:3431
I'm tired of being used - again and again.  I'm tired of a mindset that
seems to feel entitled to use men to gain security, or simple profit, and
I can tell you that mindset is rampant.  I see it repeatedly, and not
just in my own life, but in others around me as well.  I'm tired of
hearing rationalizations that make it seem almost noble to have taken
some poor man for everything he's worth, and then have the unmitigated
gall to refer to some very few of them as 'deadbeat dads'.  It's not the
men who are the true deadbeats in this equation.

I'm sick of a female dominated culture (and yes, girls, the *culture* is
definitely female dominated, if not the economy) that thinks it's ok to
denounce and ridicule men at every turn - to propagate the image of the
second-class male gender, only good for reproduction and being the good
worker-drone...all the while pretending to be the oppressed, down-trodden
female....what a convenient ruse.

I'm sick of the whole mess - I'm sick of the stupid head games, the
blatant dishonesty, and the selfish motives of (some) women who wouldn't
know how to be truly independent, self-sufficient humans if their lives
depended on it - but luckily for them, it doesn't.  There's always some
slob they can manipulate, at least until he wises up.  Parasites.  No,
it's not ALL women...but it's a hell of a big number of them.  Go figure.

There must be some out there who aren't like this - my faith in humanity
itself, though, is deeply shaken by this - or at least, half of humanity.

To my female friends in here, those of you who still are, my apologies. 
I see little, though, at this point to be optimistic about.  I wish a lot
of your colleagues would get there heads on straight, for a change.

tim
125.1763DELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byMon Mar 04 1996 15:099
           
    Tim mon....try to cool down, although I know that's probably really 
    tough to do right now.  
      
    It's terrible that you and your children have to go through with this 
    sort of financially driven greed.  Seems your ex bases her legal 
    assaults on you when things are convenient for her.  For certain
    she's just a bad egg in the basket and not all women would chart this
    course.                            
125.1764ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingMon Mar 04 1996 15:2629
    You know, Tim, I can see exactly what you mean.
    
    When I meet new guys, the first thing I look for is the checkbook.
    Hell, I don't even consider a guy that doesn't meet up to my financial
    standards and I need a man that can support me in the fullest regards,
    in case I decide I don't want to work anymore or just in case we do
    get married/then divorced I'm all set financially.
    
    And that is why I am going out with Bow, my current boyfriend of 1.5 years.
    Bow is a starving musician with no financial security.  He probably
    makes about $6,000/year.  BUT, my plan is to get pregnant ASAP, so he can
    indebt the rest of his life to me (NOT!).  I love him very much and I 
    clearly do not give a shit how much money he makes, and the last thing
    on my mind is devising a plan to mooch as much off him as possible,
    
    Look, I'm sorry that you have been having bad experiences with those of
    the female gender, but please DON'T aim your comments at females in
    general and the evolution of the womens rights movement.  As far as 
    the custodial/child support battle goes, I am sorry that there are 
    some women that take advantage of it, but there are also a lot of 
    a**hole guys out there that really do deserve the term 'deadbeat dads',
    and really should help out more than they do with child support.  This 
    is one area that I have experienced first-hand.
    
    There are some really awesome, genuine women out there, and I hope 
    that you meet some of them soon.
    
    /danielle  
                  
125.1765NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 15:3125
>she's just a bad egg in the basket and not all women would chart this
>course.                            


Really?  What about the others since her?  What about all the friends of
mine who have been through similar hell?  What about the dozens of other
women I see tooling men left and right, never having the spine to just
take care of themselves, by themselves?

How about a little survey?  How many of you know, first-hand, of a woman
who manipulated/seduced some unsuspecting guy, simply for her own gain,
financially, emotionally/security, career-wise or other - with little or
now semblance of sincerity?  We won't even get into the all-too-common
scenario of those who convince themselves they're "in love", only to
unconvince themselves when the well runs dry.  How many of you know more
than one or two such cases?  Guys, how many of you have been used, big
time, at some point in your life?  Ladies, how many of you have, or have
a friend who has, slept with a guy just to get something he had to offer
but woudn't give it freely otherwise?

It happens all the time.  Every day.  If you don't think it's an
epidemic, compare it to a real epidemic, i.e. how many people do you know
with AIDS?  Which number is bigger?

tim
125.1766GRANPA::TDAVISMon Mar 04 1996 15:4316
    Tim, I am sorry about your pain, perhaps your survey could also include
    how many people (try this file) are involved in long term relationships
    that are happy? Let me be the first, I met my wife 26 years ago, and 
    we are coming up on our 24th year of marriage. I am happy.
    
    I do not know your situation but please do not take it out
    on all women, this is not the case at all. I have ran into the
    type of woman you are generalizing about and maybe they comprise
    5%-10% of the population. I am not sure how an agreement that you
    reached in mediation can be put aside, perhaps you should
    seek better legal representation.  I would not comply with an court
    order whereby I am living on 15% of my gross, that is impossible,
    and enforcable. Please do not let "her" get to you in this way.
    Life is too short to be this mad.
    
     
125.1767SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 04 1996 15:509
    very sensitive subject....let's all remember that for some people, and
    I'm sure Tim IS ONE, GRATEFUL is their only outlet where they feel
    there's a "like-minded" audience. Can you imagine the kind of response
    Tim would have gotten in say, soapbox, or any other of the conf. where
    there's a higher percentage of assholes than non-assholes??? Though we
    may not agree with his sentiments, let's remember this is GRATEFUL. and
    he's one of us.
    
    rfb 
125.1768NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 15:5119
>    There are some really awesome, genuine women out there, and I hope 
>    that you meet some of them soon.

Yes, I know.  I just can't seem to think of any right now - or at least
certainly none that I've been lucky enough to get involved with.

This is my only outlet.  It is the only place I feel I can go and say
exactly what I'm thinking.  I'm sorry if that offends some - it isn't my
intention to hurt others, but mostly to vent. I just want to scream about
this...  For years, and years I've been wrestling with one example after
another of this type of behavior, and despite my best efforts to avoid
it, it just keeps repeating.  I know I'm responsible for making poor
choices, I suppose, but it remains a simple fact that this situation is
epidemic...perhaps far more frequent than many women would like to think
of their gender.

I'm not saying *all* women are like this, or even most - but it might be
most - sometimes it sure seems like most, when you're on this side of the
bench.  All I know is, it's one might big percentage...
125.1769AOSG::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobelMon Mar 04 1996 16:0023
lessee, um da ve, hope you feel better, mon

Tim, not sure what I can say here. In going through my divorce, I agree 
with you on a number of points (the bias against men in the courts, the 
high rate of support payments without accountability as to how/where the 
money is spent, etc.). Fortunately for me my situation has not been the 
trip(s) through hell yours has been.

Yes, there are manipulative women, and there are manipulative men too. I 
feel that in cases of divorce that any hope of civil, logical and fair 
dialogue goes out the window when lawyers get involved. I'm sure your 
wife's lawyer pushed her to scrap the mediation agreement and to go for the 
jugular. I know of instances where men have done this too. I hate to see 
you have to be put through this again.

I feel lucky in that some of my best friends are women. Given what you've 
been through and what you're going through I'm sure you probably don't want 
to here any more advice, but I feel compelled to pass along this food for 
thought -- try and think of your friends as just people, regardless of 
gender. I'm sure that in considering those who you feel are friends you'll 
come up with a list that includes both men and women.

jeff
125.1770Tdavis..my parents DIVORCED year 24 of theirsPCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Mar 04 1996 16:007
    I said this to Tim offline and I'll say it here online
    I saw my mom do this to my dad and even though Tim was heavy handed in
    what he said,......it happens more times than naught...
    And if the man wants to vent, let him vent
    
    
    
125.1771SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Mon Mar 04 1996 16:057
Outlet or not it was/is still VERY offensive...

Tim,  

Maybe write it down and then read it in an hour and see if you want
to post it.....

125.1772NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 16:1521
>Outlet or not it was/is still VERY offensive...

If you don't like what's on, change the channel.  Life isn't all peace,
love and understanding.  IMHO, Grateful's been getting pretty vanilla
lately anyway, so I don't feel at all bad about stirring the pot with a
real issue for a change.  I didn't direct my comments at *all* women, and
so it is not sexist...and based on the volume of private email I'm
getting, I'm not alone in my observations.

>Maybe write it down and then read it in an hour and see if you want
>to post it.....

I did, and I did.  Let's not get all huffy on one occasion about freedom
of speach and the Telecomm. Act of a coupla weeks ago, and then censor
simple personal opinions the next, shall we?  Would you defend my right
to post pictures of naked women, but not my right to be outraged at a
prevalent behavior pattern amoung the politically protected (un)fairer
sex?

tim

125.1773QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Mar 04 1996 16:1733
125.1774STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSLeap from ledges high and wildMon Mar 04 1996 16:2516
	you may be venting, tim, but it sure feels like an attack to me...

	If you had truly vented - against your ex/against the system -
	you would have probably gotten an outpouring of support from this
	community - men AND women alike.  Instead, in your anger, you've
	lumped all us women into a stereotype and attacked us.  And now,
	all the sympathy I have for your situation is clouded over by these
	feelings you've caused in -me- because of what you've said -about-
	me, simply because I happen to be a woman.  

	you may call it venting, but to me, it seems very hurtful, what
	you're doing.  AND, you're not hurting the people that you're mad at,
	you're hurting people that like you...  

	Debess
125.1775$.02JARETH::LARUMon Mar 04 1996 16:4522
    re: .1758.
    
    Tim,
    
    I'm not taking sides here, but I happen to know the woman in question
    and her husband, and I suggest that there are [at least] two sides to
    every story.
    
    Or, as my Sergeant used to say:
       "There are four ways to do anything...
           The right way
            the wrong way
             the Air Force way
    
              and MY way!"
    
    There are rarely winners in these kinds of things.  I'm sorry for
    all of you that things are so bitter between you.   I hope you can
    remember the love that originally brought you together and reach 
    some kind of mutual understanding and peace.
    
    /bruce
125.1776NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 16:547
Bruce,

>but I happen to know the woman in question

Believe me, you don't.

tim
125.1777STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSLeap from ledges high and wildMon Mar 04 1996 17:0527
	wow - good thoughts, /bruce (hey, he's back!)...

	I've got this personal spiritual belief that we're here at this
	particular time, dealing with the particular people in our lives,
	because we are to learn something from the situations we are in.
	I often ask myself that very question - what am I to learn from
	this?

	so, while you're dealing with the reality of this terrible situation,
	maybe you could take some time to ponder that question yourself.
	If this is the only kind of woman you end up involved with, then why?

	a friend of mine took /bruce's words to heart over a situation she
	was dealing with.  She married someone with an 8 or 9 year old
	daughter.  Now, that daughter is a teenager and causing them lots
	of misery.  One time I saw her and she said to me "I can't help it
	but I sometimes feel like I hate Stacy".  The next time I saw her,
	she told me that she has been working on her problem from a different
	angle.  Now, when she is in a confrontational situation with her
	step-daughter, she says she tries to look deeply into her daughter's
	eyes to look for that 8 year old child that she first met and that
	she loved very much.  That person is still there.  Admittedly, it's
	hard work.  (She has taken this approach after reading a biography
	on Gandhi).

	Debess
125.1778NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 17:0812
...and sometimes the person that you thought was there, never was...

But you make a very good point about learning - almost all real change
seems to come with some significant pain.  Anytime I am in pain, I too
think there must be something to learn by it, and time this is no
exception. The frustration for me, though, is in having to deal with this
sort of thing repeatedly, over many years' time now.  I'm fed up.

I've decided to delete the original, offending note, with my apologies to
those whom I may have offended.  Maybe someday I'll learn.

tim
125.1779WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsMon Mar 04 1996 17:1724
    Repeating patterns is something most humans do all too well.
    The partners we pick almost always have a direct connect to the way 
    we learned to deal with others when we were children.  Unless 
    we (editorially speaking) have had some insight into why we keep
    getting snagged into the same ol' same ol' - we are bound to repeat
    the pattern over and over again.  This is often why any one
    of us can watch a friend go headlong into the same kind of relationship
    as they have always had .. may be a few variations but with the same
    kind of twists to it .. and wonder why they can't see it.  And at the
    same time - lots of people wish to pooh pooh that kind of introspective
    work.  Call those people angry, call them fooling themselves, call them
    terminally frustrated with life - and you can also call them the last
    ones to realize that they've walked into yet another warped
    relationship.  
    
    A full scale attack on all women was an unfortunate reaction to a very 
    frustrating situation.  I have a bit of an idea what you're going thru
    as my son is a single parent of three - has full custody.  never
    knowing from one week to the next if his ex will decide the money's
    better if she takes the kids.  It's heartbreaking for everyone concerned
    but you know as well as I do that painting everyone with the same brush
    is extreme.
    
    carol  
125.1780SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 04 1996 17:238
    RE: *THE* woman in question....
    
    I *don't* know *the* woman in question, but I'd sure like to ask her why
    she thinks it important to take half of Tim's money and life when she
    has married a man that *CAN* (i assume) support her????
    
    
    sigh.................
125.1781NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 17:2722
Thanks Carol,

I'm not trying to paint everyone - I just think it's a very prevalent
problem with relationships, one that women aren't likely to acknowledge
either.  It's also not terribly popular to bring up something that might
not fit the stereotypical image of the downtrodden and disadvantaged
female. 

As for repeating patterns - the problem is recognizing how they begin and
breaking the pattern.  I know full well that the repetition is based in
part upon bad choices on my part, but it's hard as hell to break away
from the fundamentals that lie beneath the choices.  Simple introspection
is not enough.  Some choices made with all the best intentions are
naturally doomed to a painful end - set up, like a bowling pin.  Breaking
the pattern is the hardest part.  Meanwhile, guys like me are just
magnets for women like that, I guess...

Nevertheless, that does not absolve the behavior of those who selfishly
and maliciously take advantage of others.  It's just not very popular to
think of men as being the victims, rather than the other way around.

tim
125.1782This place is grateNECSC::LEVYHalf-Step Mississippi Uptown ToodleooMon Mar 04 1996 18:0519
I want to acknowledge the mature and thoughtful responses of all here...and
especially the women...to Tim's issue.

It's obvious that Tim is having a tough time and needed to vent.  It's good
that GRATEFUL is a safe place to do that.

In many other places, Tim would have been flamed big time.

What happened here?  Everyone expressed their feelings and tried to help Tim
look at the issue from another viewpoint.

Very very healthy discussion, IMHO.

Thanks to all here for, once again, affirming the intangible value of this
file and the spirit that goes with us as DeadHeads.

Tim, lemme know what I can do to support you.

	dave
125.1783SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 04 1996 18:198
    ahhh scr*w off, levy!    %^)
    
    
    
    my really, real thoughts...AMEN!
    
    
    rfb
125.1784WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsMon Mar 04 1996 18:265
    and furthermore !  :-)
    
    tim is getting a really raw deal and it does indeed suck.  
    
    
125.1785NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 18:4026
You know, Dave's got a very good point, which affirms why I felt I could
come here.

First, my sincere apologies to the women in the audience.  I've been
going around and around with this issue for over five years now, and in
that much time, sometimes the weight can get to be too much.  I really
appreciate that no one chose to flame me.

Secondly, the idea that repetitive patterns of behavior bring similar
results is certainly very familiar to me - the primary focus of my
introspection for most of those five years, yet I have yet to find the
key to unlock that door.  In time.  I'm still learning, at age 41, which
I suppose is better than things might be.  As a very long-term friend of
mine keeps reminding me, one definition of crazy is to do the same thing
over and over, and expect to get different results.

Finally, to everyone, thank you for your moral support.  I brought this
here because I think of you as friends, and hoped to find some peace. 
It's reassuring to see that I was right.  Just having the chance to talk
about it, to hear from other sides, to at least see some hope that the
world isn't as bleak as it appeared this morning, was a big, big help.

Daniele, Debess, Cathy, Carol, MJ (?) and everyone else - thanks for not
ripping my head off..;-)

Thanks
125.1786Two songs for this road...NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 18:5014
Thinking of lawyers, legal and other issues:

Since it costs a lot to win,
and even more to lose,
you and me bound to spend some time,
wonderin' what to choose,

...and...

The wheel is turning and you can't slow down,
you can't let go and you can't hold on,
you can't go back and you can't stand still,
if the thunder don't get ya then the lightning will.

125.1787SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 04 1996 18:562
    send lawyers, guns and money...
    the shit has hit the fan!
125.1788STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSLeap from ledges high and wildMon Mar 04 1996 19:1020
	it was difficult not to spit back at ya tim (i'm not kidding,
	it took lots of control)...

	one last word from me ;-) - this situation sux big time for you...
	but most likely the biggest losers are going to be your kids.
	The money and the custody and all that are your issues - but
	kids probably just want to know they're loved.  If I, as an adult,
	was hurt by what you were saying even though I -knew- it didn't
	apply to me - how would your daughters feel to hear that?
	They're young -women-, and they're also that woman's daughters...

	you can't hide your feelings, but somehow, you have to be able to
	control your personal attacks around the children, in the long run
	it will be most helpful to them....  IMHO!

	of course, I don't know what's going on in your household, so if this
	is the place that it comes out in instead of there...spew on!

	Debess
125.1789DELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byMon Mar 04 1996 19:297
    
    >if this is the place that it comes out in instead of there...spew on!
    
    	Right on!  :-)                                             
    
    	Imagine if all the world had a comfortable place to spew...things 
    	would be much different (and probably a little messy..er..nevermind).
125.1790NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 04 1996 19:2913
No need to worry about my mood effecting my daughters - I don't get to
see my daughters right now.  My ex has insisted on having them for three
consecutive weeks, due to my business trip, and is insisting that I
cannot see them until Friday.  My fifteen year old daughter has been
calling me for two days, begging to see me, but her mother won't allow
it, and I can't override her. 

Bruce, still think you know her?

I know enough not to trash their mother to them.  There's nothing special
about that when it comes to a daughter versus my son.  

tim
125.1791JARETH::LARUMon Mar 04 1996 19:5112
125.1792MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamTue Mar 05 1996 10:2713
>	it was difficult not to spit back at ya tim (i'm not kidding,
>	it took lots of control)...

	well debess, i'm glad you had enough control not to 'spit back'.
	i have a hard time understanding how tim's rage could be taken
	personally. knowing the person, and given some time i could just
	imagine a retraction and apology. this is not to invalidate your
	feelings, which i believe to be genuine and honest. i just viewed
	tim's outburst for what it was: an extreme reaction to
	devastating news. 
	
	now, that crack about ::GRATEFUL being vanilla lately... i think
	we outta tar him for that!   ;-)
125.1793USCTR1::CONNORSTue Mar 05 1996 12:138
    
    Wow...  I was out yesterday...  
    
    /whew!
    
    MJ
    
    ps...  good luck tim...  :-(   
125.1794ReflectionSIOG::OSULLIVAN_DWed Mar 06 1996 13:109
    Tim
    
    I don't know if you ever read books.  I've found they help for all
    sorts of things.  If you're only going to read one then I would
    recommend Anthony De Mello's Awareness.  
    
    Best Wishes,
    
    Dermot
125.1795bury labelsHELIX::CLARKWed Mar 06 1996 18:1023
  Recommend y'all give this month's CD Review a miss.  The one with
  Springsteen on the cover.
  
  There's a regular feature just inside the back cover (Endpage? Backpage?)
  where one of their editors gets to sound off on something or other.
  
  The title of this month's is "Bury Garcia".
  
  In this guy's opinion, Jerry will go down as a Phenomenon, not as a Genius
  or Innovator.  (Jerry would readily agree.)
  
  Wasn't the opinion that offended me, but the title.  Might send a little
  note, esp. if the magazine's on the web.
  
  If you can get past the title, the rest is mostly an oh-so-familiar slam
  by someone who's listened, doesn't get it (so far), and wants us all to
  share in his personal pigeon-holing.  Under a different title, would rate,
  maybe, 1/4 on the shrug-o-meter...  (Musicians understand.)  - JayC.

     P.S.  I am mildly curious who the author would consider a Genius or
     Innovator.  (Jerry considered folks like Ludwig Van Beethoven, Charlie
     Parker and Art Tatum geniuses, who in pop rates next to them?)  Not
     curious enough to ask 'im though.
125.1796SPECXN::BARNESWed Mar 06 1996 18:534
    snail-mail address please, in the mood i'm in today, i think i have a
    few choice words for them....
    
    rfb
125.1797i'd like to read it...NECSC::SANITY::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Wed Mar 06 1996 19:446
actually, i wouldn't mind seeing the article...

not so much azs to go buy the magazine, but if someone
wanted to type it in, i'd be grateful...

			da ve
125.1798HELIX::CLARKWed Mar 06 1996 20:2611
>                          -< i'd like to read it... >-

  Well, I can try to type it in over the weekend (can't do sooner, have a
  kid birthday to stage Th. and a presentation Fri.).

  Maybe it'll pop up on the Web (I can't imagine other grieving fans won't
  be stung by "Bury Garcia").
  
  Gotta re-read it to type it in though, don't I?  (Shoulda sharpened those
  content-oblivious touch-typing skills like they tried to teach us...)
     - JayC.  
125.1799the rock lit. generatorOBSESS::BEAUPREFri Mar 08 1996 12:3417
    A quick consultation of my all-but-useless American Heritage Dictionary
    (the tiny blue one with all the words you already know how to spell),
    reveals that a phenomenon can be "a person outstanding for an extreme 
    quality or achievement." So, in this authors mind, Jerry Garcia 
    is only a common phenomenon, and not an actual genius. And for this 
    we cut down a tree?
    
    This type of discussion -- genius, innovator, phenomenon, or floor
    wax? -- is usually, nay almost always, a waste of time. Granted, 
    there are a few rock critics out there who are capable of thinking, 
    as well as reacting, but not that many. Mostly, you either get the
    cold-blooded technician types who apply strict mathematical formulas 
    to arrive at someone's all-important "chops" factor (otherwise 
    as known as the St. Joe Satriani complex) or you get the "infinite 
    college lite syndrome" where in all art is reflected off what the 
    author consumed for breakfast (otherwise known as the Spin magazine 
    syndrome).
125.1800SPECXN::BARNESFri Mar 08 1996 15:584
    what da &*%$ ??????
    
    
    rfb
125.1801another armchair critic speaksPCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeFri Mar 08 1996 16:064
    well
    i had a bottle of mountain dew and 3 rolaids for breakfast,...and i
    still think Jerry was a kick ass musician....
    phenomenon or not
125.1802HELIX::CLARKFri Mar 08 1996 16:2530
>    ...phenomenon can be "a person outstanding for an extreme 
>    quality or achievement." So, in this authors mind, Jerry Garcia 
>    is only a common phenomenon, and not an actual genius.

  If/when you have a chance to see the article, I think you'll agree the
  kind of "phenomenon" he's calling Garcia is different -- more in the sense
  of "ephemeral".

  (Ironically, Jerry would agree.  Part of his charm...)
  
  I actually wonder if the article is an extra-musical comment (distaste for
  deadheads) masquerading as a musical comment.
  
  I agree with your comments (SB) about rock literature -- IMO even the best
  among rock critics [Bangs? Christgau? Palmer?] are useful mainly as
  consumer weather-vanes (whenever they egocentrically label something
  Important, or Significant, or Matters, well, that must mean they like it,
  relative to all the garbage they have to wade through, and maybe it's
  worth a listen...  Avoiding the nonmusical lyrically-obsessed bunch I'm
  convinced are English majors who took up criticism to make rent and get
  stuff free...  People should have to play an instrument or study music to
  earn a license to label).

  And critics are absolutely deadly for musicians to read -- as the UMass
  coach told his team about the sports press, "Poison only if you swallow it."

  The writer isn't a bad guy -- lots of deadheads probably badmouthed the
  Dead plenty in the dark time before...  8)
  
  I just thought   "BURY GARCIA"    was tasteless.  - JayC.
125.1803SPECXN::BARNESFri Mar 08 1996 16:307
    we always jokingly "bad-mouthed" the boyz....that was part of OUR
    charm...Jerry and Bobby, I'm sure would agree, that if ya can't take
    a little rib-poking, then ya need something to spice up yer humor. 
    
    but Bury Garcia......grrrrrrrr
    
    rfb
125.1804Adventures on the RoadNECSC::LEVYHalf-Step Mississippi Uptown ToodleooSun Mar 10 1996 22:52105
							03/10/96 7:44 PM

Occasionally there are experiences in life that serve to remind you of what is
really important. Take Wednesday, March 6 for instance.

I was on my way to a customer engagement in Kentucky.  I was a bit nervous
about this meeting, so I had not slept real well the night before and had
gotten up extra early.  The weather was pretty lousy in Boston, so I made sure
that I got to Logan plenty early for my 2pm flight.  

When I arrived at the ticket counter, I discovered that my flight to Chicago
for the connection was canceled.  However, there was a flight leaving in 10
minutes that I could just make.  I jumped at the opportunity and hustled to the
plane.  Little did I know at the time that this apparently fortunate occurrence
would wind up being the first  of a series of events leading to the longest
night of my life.

When we arrived in Chicago, it was snowing.  Flights were being canceled all
over the place.  My plane to Evansville IN was one of them.  I got a ticket on
a later flight, though, so I thought all was well.  The snow was stopping,
after all.

By the time they finally canceled this flight, it was almost 9:30 and there
were no hotel rooms to be had anywhere.  The meeting at the customer site was
scheduled for the next morning.  They had arranged for about 10 people to
attend and there were 2 other Digital folks who had traveled for this event. 
All I could think about was the inconvenience that they'd be experiencing.

I was told by a couple of people that it was a 4-5 hour drive, so I decided to
rent a car.  Later, it was made clear to me that it was more like an 8 hour
drive, but by then it didn't matter much.

By the time I retrieved my luggage, acquired the car, and got on the road it
was about 10:30.  I was feeling ok.  The car had a tape player.  I figured that
I'd drive until I got too tired, catch a few hours sleep in a motel, and get up
real early to get to the customer site before 9am.

Driving was slower than I expected.  Finally, I got to clear road on Route 41
in Indiana.  After a while I had listened to a whole tape.  I was still feeling
ok and going just about 60 with the cruise control on.  The road was straight
and clear, at least on the travel lanes.  The verge of the road was all icy,
however, with a pretty steep incline to a ditch by the side.

I reached over to grab the tape case for the one that had just finished.  I had
to glance over to my right to find it.  When I looked up again, the road had
begun a gentle curve to the left and the car had drifted over to the right so
that the right side tires were on the ice.

I steered gently to the left and the rear tires immediately lost traction.  The
car began to spin counter-clockwise.  I tried to correct the spin and, after
going about 90 degrees, it caught and quickly snapped a full 180 degrees the
other way and headed off the road sideways.  As the car headed down the
incline, I started yelling something incomprehensible.  Something caught and
the car rolled onto its roof and continued sliding.  I thought that I was going
to die, or be badly hurt.  I thought about my family.  I thought about the car
rental company and the insurance.  I thought about the what I was going to do
about the customer.  Finally, the car came to rest upside down at the bottom of
the ditch in about 6 inches of water.

There I was hanging upside down, held fast by the seat belt.  Nothing hurt.  I
know that serious injuries dont hurt right away, so I tried moving and wiggling
everything that I could.  Everything worked fine.   Now, I started getting
concerned about the car catching on fire.

Somehow, I figured out how to release myself from the seat belt without banging
my head.  The inside of an upside-down automobile is a very confusing place to
be.  I managed to get into the rear of the car and get the door open.  I
clambered out and surveyed the situation.  Pretty grim.  About 50 feet off the
road along a lonely stretch of state highway.

I got up to the road and tried flagging down the few cars that were passing by. 
It was cold.  I was worried that I would have to find a house or something. 
After about 10 minutes, a Jimmy came back on the other side of the highway and
swung around my way.  The folks inside helped me to retrieve the rest of my
stuff from the car and used their CB to call the police.

The police were wonderful.  Very helpful and concerned.  They took my statement
and made sure that there was a room somewhere for me to stay the night.

The tow trucks arrived after a while and pulled the car out.  If you're ever in
need of service in Kentland, IN, check out Bernies Amoco!  Great folks.  Bernie
gave me a ride to the most run-down and sleazy motel I've ever seen.  I never
really slept that night, partially due to the lousy room but mostly due to my
inability to shut out images of the crash in my head.  I did get my calls to
the rental company and a few others taken care of.

Next morning, Bernie gave me a lift to Indianapolis (he was going there anyway)
and, from there, I was able to finally fly to Evansville and then get to my
hotel in Kentucky.  I met with my other Digital colleagues and we strategized
for the meeting the next day with the customer.  I finally got some good sleep
that night.

The meetings with the customer were rescheduled for Friday and we got
everything done we needed to.

I got home Saturday evening and have now spent a very enjoyable day with my
family.  Its more enjoyable being with them than ever, considering how close I
came to never seeing them again.  Thats what's important and I hope that the
next time I get overwhelmed by the need to be somewhere on time, I remember
that.

	Evil_Knievel_Levy


    
125.1805ASDG::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Mon Mar 11 1996 10:5611
    Yikes!  I'm glad you're all right.
    
    >I thought about the car rental company and the insurance.
    
    I haven't entered my not-nearly-as-exciting saga yet, but take my word
    for it, you have to report the accident to First Bank Visa within 20
    days.  The rental LDW insurance is now covered by the credit card, not
    a deal with Avis.  If you don't, your cost center will eventually have
    to shell out $3k to Avis.
    
    Jamie
125.1806nice to hear the cops et al were helpful tooTOLKIN::OSTIGUYI am a man waving at the wavesMon Mar 11 1996 11:224
well, this is the bummer note, and that episode was certainly a bummer Dave, but
it's make ya feel good news that you are ok, head to toe...

Wes
125.1807MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREOn the threshold of a dreamMon Mar 11 1996 11:267
	holy sh*t.
	glad things worked out the way they did.
	i probably would've crashed in the airport and made it to the
	customer's site at the earliest opportunity. i hope your
	dedication to keeping a commitment is somehow rewarded.
	
	jay
125.1808AD::CHARNOKYThe time has come, the walrus saidMon Mar 11 1996 11:574
    talk about bad kar karma, sheesh!  seems nobody is immune lately!
    thanks to the universe that you are AOK
    
    'noky
125.1809DELNI::DSMITHAnswers aplenty in the by &amp; byMon Mar 11 1996 12:004
    
    Glad your ok!!!
    
    Good story, horrible experience.
125.1810QUOIN::BELKINNothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-)Mon Mar 11 1996 12:377
Dave,
Having been through an automotive near-death experience myself (caught a
deer last year) I know how what you're going through feels!  I'm glad that
you made it through ok.  I, too, kept replaying my accident in my head,
wondering if I could have done anything different to avoid it.  

 - Josh
125.1811AWECIM::HANNANBeyond description...Mon Mar 11 1996 12:424
    Wow that was quite the ordeal!  Glad you're OK!  That story makes
    me real glad I don't travel regularly for the job anymore...

    /Ken
125.1812Dave Levy-the voice of reason PCBUOA::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Mar 11 1996 12:422
    good to hear you were wearing a seat belt and that you are ok my
    man....
125.1813STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneMon Mar 11 1996 12:596
	phew!  Dave, that was scary just reading that.
	glad you're back home, safe and sound.

	Debess

125.1814TEPTAE::WESTERVELTMon Mar 11 1996 13:196
    Congrats on being ALIVE Dave!!

    My heart is pounding just reading about it.  

    Tom
125.1815GRANPA::TDAVISMon Mar 11 1996 13:276
    WOW.... glad to see your OK.. as a frequent traveler "I share your
    pain". I may get home two days later than I should, but never car
    accidents, and sheer terror. Stay home for a change.
    
    
    
125.1816NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 11 1996 15:444
Wow, Dave, and I thought *I* was having a bad week! Glad to hear you came
out of it in once piece!

tim
125.1817me too...NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Mon Mar 11 1996 15:5621
here's your typical "me too" note...

re "glad you're ok"

	me too...

re "scary story, had me shakin' in my shoes"

	me too...

re "glad it all worked out ok"

	me too.......

re all the other sentiments in these last few notes...

	me too.....

			:^)

				da ve
125.1818NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedMon Mar 11 1996 16:066
Scary story.  I think about all the spinouts I've had on various roads, and
how I've been lucky that there were never any other cars around to hit.

I'm glad you're OK.

adam
125.1819glad you weren't hurt...SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Mar 11 1996 16:5611
    ...And if the kids had been in the car, they would have shouted
    "That was cool Dad!  Can we do it again??"
    
    ;-)
    
    Well, you're apparently well enough to write about it, so I knew 
    you weren't killed in the mishap!  Take it calm and relax Dave.
    Sometimes being reminded we're only that close to the end of
    it all makes life a little sweeter...
    
    PeterT
125.1820SPECXN::BARNESTue Mar 12 1996 17:354
    whew! close one Probz!!!  Don't be so damn dedicated!!!
    sure am glad yer OK.
    
    rfb
125.1821i need to get a karma infusion...NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Thu Mar 14 1996 12:1251
boy i wish i could stay out of this note...

well, except to commiserate with OTHER people
that is...  :^)


my bummer today...  got home last night from work, to
discover my apartment had been broken into...  :^(

on th e plus side, they didn't get much...  they left me
the tv and the stereo and my musical instruments....

on the minus side, they rifled my dresser drawers,
stole some jewelry (earrings and such), stole my
10 year anniversary watch from digital, got some
loose cash, and took a lot of rolled up change that
belongs to my daughter (close to $70 in quarters,
nickels, dimes and pennies).... oh, and some of my
credit cards, including my dcu atm spare...

so mostly what they accomplished was to really
PISS ME OFF...  and make me feel violated somewhat...
but mostly PISS ME OFF!!!!

man, i have to re-examine my life...  i'm apparently
working out some bad karma from past actions...
probably some bit of deviant behavior in my misspent
youth...

the cop was cool...  let me know that i probably would
never see or hear anything about it (i knew that already)
but that they'd pass it along to the detectives just in case...
he also said that frequently in cases like this that it's either
neighborhood kids or someone you know...

i don't really want to know who it is...  i prefer to like
the people i know and it disgusts me to think that someone
i welcome into my house might do such a low life thing...


it was an old day yesterday, 
	but's it's a new day now...

i can't waste time being pissed off at ignorant assholes...
i hope they enjoy my daughters money...

i hope they got a hernia carrying it...  all that change
was pretty heavy...  :^)

			da ve

125.1822SPECXN::BARNESThu Mar 14 1996 12:2816
    sorry to hear that da ve
    vibes comin at ya....
    
    
    being stolen from pisses me off more than just about any other
    violation one could do to me...I don't steal and i expect people to not
    steal from me. 
    
    I REALLY doubt if it was someone you hang with...most likely it was
    neighborhood kids, they seem to be the petty thieves now-a-days.
    and don't blame yerself, ie: some bad deed in the past, that's for 
    people that call the pshycic hotline. 
    
    Get a big German Shepard and teach it to bite teenagers.
    
    rfb
125.1823ouchRICKS::CALCAGNIwhat if dogs were one of us?Thu Mar 14 1996 12:328
    Yow Da ve! I feel for you.  I know the feeling all too well.
    For me the stuff they took was a minor annoyance; the sense of
    violation was the real bummer.
    
    Treat yourself good for awhile.
    
    /rick
    
125.1824MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topThu Mar 14 1996 12:346
	dunno what to say, da ve.
	sux big time.
	your karma is fine.
	unfortunately, crap like this happens all too often.
	
	
125.1825QUOIN::BELKINbut from that cup no moreThu Mar 14 1996 13:003
sheeesh!
da ve, did they get any of your stereo gear?  the DAT deck and tapes?
   -J
125.1826TEPTAE::WESTERVELTThu Mar 14 1996 13:2419
    da ve, man!  You are having the worst time!

    Maybe a little joke is in order.  

    A man is feeling lost and lonely, confused and downtrodden.
    Things are not going well.  He wanders through the park and
    rests his weary downtrodden bones on the park bench and mutters
    to himself.

    Soon, through the gloomy fog, comes a voice, as if from the
    spheres:  "Cheer up!  Things could be worse!"

    So the guy cheered up.

    And you know what?   Things got worse!


    ha ha hope this helps  ;-)  better daze ahead
125.1827STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneThu Mar 14 1996 13:3827
	psychic hotline notwithstanding, if ya do believe in karma,
	ya gotta wonder ;-)

	da ve, some people believe that karma is not just about this
	lifetime, but about past lifetimes too.  I'm one of those "some
	people".

	while I don't believe that you deserve this string of bad luck
	that you've been experiencing, I personally believe (here she
	goes again ;-)) that we're incarnated to learn lessons, that
	we didn't learn before in another life and really needed to -
	so we get to experience something that we can choose to learn
	from (or not) - but if we don't - then we'll get to experience
	it again in another lifetime.

	and why I'm saying all this, is that from how we see you react
	to all this misfortune is truly exemplory.  You've seemed to
	have kept a positive outlook through it all, and have still
	managed to give "random acts of kindness" to others and it's
	made an impression on me and probably lots of other folks that
	know you.  

	I think you've learned your lessons well in this lifetime....
	ENOUGH ALREADY!

	Debess
125.1828SPECXN::BARNESThu Mar 14 1996 14:1621
    speaking of the psychic hotline....
    
    My wife recently went to a psychic for the first time on the suggestion
    of her Nutrionalist. AMong other things, she was told that she and my
    daughter Tiffany are new spirits in this earth, having lead no
    previous lifes. Me and my daughter Lindsey have "been around" .
    
    I think she's on drugs.
    
    I believ you make yer own karma....and you pay for or reap the benifits
    afterwards for the life you've lead. So, da ve, your OK! %^)
    
    ANd *IF* by some chance we do *ALL* end up in the same afterworld, i only 
    hope that god or whoever let's us kick peoples ass that were assholes on 
    this earth, cause if Pat Robertson or Pat Bucchanen or many other
    assholes i can easily think of are in the same
    heaven as i am and i can't kick their ass, I'm gonna be one pissed
    angel....
    
    
    rfb_angel to be
125.1829more than half seriousASDG::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Thu Mar 14 1996 14:257
    I think your run of bad luck is because you live in Worcester, a city
    which is known to always be on the losing end.  There's some sort of
    curse on that city that only restoring or demolishing Union Station can
    remove (the signs are fuzzy on this).  I'd get out of town if I were
    you.
    
    Jamie
125.1830today is a good day... :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Thu Mar 14 1996 14:2836
thanks everybody...  between the notes here
and the emails i've gotten, you guys sure know 
how to pick up someone's mood... :^)

mr westervelt...  :^)   made me laugh...  and reminded
me of a line me and a few friends of mine like to throw
out at time's like this... "could be worse... could be raining"
:^)

Josh...  nope...  they were pretty stupid actually...  they
left the most valuable stuff behind and stuck to cash, credit 
cards, and a couple of pretty baubles...

oddly enough, i am really pissed baout losing my DEC 10 yr
watch...  put in a lot of time and took a lot of shit to get it...
it's kind of a symbol...

Debess...  you  have this way of just making me want to
hug the stuffin's out of you... :^)  and rfb, i too believe you make
your own karma, and as Debess sez, i believe  it comes from all 
your past experiences and lives...   i like to think that i, as well
as most of you here, are on the path to being true human beings...
and it is good to see (apologies to the Dances with Wolves folks :^)...

and my psychic has told me i'm a very old soul... :^)  fwiw...

on the plus side, they didn't take anything that i wouldn't have 
GIVEN to someone if i thought they really needed it...  no one
was hurt, no serious harm done...  

it would have been nice if they'd asked though... 

thanks again freinds... :^)   ain't it a be-oooooooo-tiful day?


				da ve 
125.1831:^) :^) :^)NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Thu Mar 14 1996 14:307
but Jamie, Worcester is MY city...  :^)

i was born there...  and recognize that it needs
all the help it can get...  if everyone like me 
moved out, then what hope would there be? 

			da ve
125.1832NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Thu Mar 14 1996 14:3220
>    I think she's on drugs.

:-)

Is that good or bad? ;-)

I used to work for this wonderfully funny district manager in Tampa years
ago, who was quite religious and very wise.  We'd get together once a
month or so, and he usually would come out with one brilliant statement
each time.  He once told me that he knows it's a sin to wish ill-will on
someone, and you should never want someone to go to hell, but just in
case it ever stopped being a sin, he had a list of people who deserved
it...;-)

He also once said that no one is really a good liar.  It's not possible,
in the long run.

Cool.

tim
125.1833keep da faith ve...FLUME::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Mar 14 1996 14:453
So, da ve, just how long ago did you break that mirror?

PeterT
125.1834SPECXN::BARNESThu Mar 14 1996 14:4510
    for some reason, i find it *extremly* funny that da ve is so worried about
    his 10 year DEC watch......i'd be more concerned about how to explain
    to my daughter that her allowence has been lifted. %^)
    
    I can see him, now, checking every punk kids wrist in Worchester for a
    DEC watch. "OFFICER, OFFICER! HE"S WEARIN MY 10 YEAR WATCH THAT"S
    WOTRTH 10 CENTS!"
    
    
    rfb
125.1835no flamesTOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backThu Mar 14 1996 16:0711
set/Wes/defensive :)))    I gotta defend wormtown again...unfortunately, da ve
and I are familiar with some of the negativities and violence that occurs in
our hometown...but, statistically speakin', it's still a decent city to live
in...I'd pick it over many other New England cities, but I won't name places as
not to offend anyone living in...it has a lower murder rate tha most NE cities,
it can't compare to others in terms of arson etc...

Wormtown has a Lot of Positive to offer, a lot of good cultural happenings,
and there are many good neighborhoods too...

Wes
125.1836NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedThu Mar 14 1996 16:168
Sorry to here about this, da ve.  At least they left you your guitars for
your gig tomorrow!

If there is a pawn shop in town, I'd check it out for the watch.

It's just bad luck.

adam
125.1837rah rah rahJARETH::LARUThu Mar 14 1996 16:167
125.1838FABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Mar 21 1996 17:2215
    
    My aunt finally succumbed to the Big "C" last tuesday 8-(
    
    
    I guess it's a blessing as she's suffering no more. Got
    to see alot of family I hadn't seen in years. wish it coulda
    been under better circumstances tho...
    
    
    
    Sorry to hear about your luck da ve  keep da faith
    
    Toby
    
                                                      
125.1839TEPTAE::WESTERVELTwhat's up widdat?Thu Mar 21 1996 17:322
    god bless, Toby
125.1840NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Thu Mar 21 1996 17:373
you too Toby my friend...  you too...

		da ve
125.1841SPECXN::BARNESFri Mar 22 1996 15:584
    toby, peace....keep the memories...
    
    
    rfb
125.1842WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsMon Mar 25 1996 12:005
    
    a pox on worcester was applied the year they stopped allowing the Dead
    to come to town.  sorry Da ve ,,, things have to get better! 
    
    
125.1843TEPTAE::WESTERVELTwhat's up widdat?Wed Mar 27 1996 13:3611
    Got a call Monday afternoon that my Mom had fallen and broke her
    hip.  :-(

    Drove down to Ct. and then yesterday she had her surgery... all
    is well, all things considered, but she's got a hell of a 
    recuperation coming up.

    It's a bummer.

    Tom
125.1844SPECXN::BARNESWed Mar 27 1996 14:086
    Recovery from a broken hip does
    take a long time, so Both U and Yer mom hang in there, Tom.
    
    vibes
    
    rfb
125.1845TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backWed Mar 27 1996 14:173
Yer mom's had her share lately Tom...hang in there

Wes
125.1846MothersDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meWed Mar 27 1996 16:4620
    
    Tom, I hope your Mother heals fast and painlessly.
    
    My Mother was going in for normal female surgery last Friday...no problem.  
    Saturday, I talked to her and found out the operation lasted 2 1/2 hours 
    too long....hummm, somethings wrong.  Monday morning I get a disturbing 
    telepathic message from her.....I fumble for the phone and call her
    room.  She had just found out she has cancer...colon cancer.  I cry all 
    day and night Monday and then I cry a little more Tuesday.  Tuesday night,
    under the comet, I pray on my knees for her and all people on the internet 
    c-cancer digest.  This morning, I find out from Bob (her husband) that
    her system is beginning to work again....this is a good sign for the
    difficult days of treatment ahead of her.  
    
    I love my Mother so much.  After my parents divorced, she the one who 
    basically raised me and she did a hell of a job...so we're very close
    mentally despite that she's so far away physically.  I noticed she has 
    sure become strong lately, and so have I.  We're in for a long strange 
    trip, but we're ready.  We're going to fight this.  We're going to fight 
    this together and we're going to win.
125.1847SPECXN::BARNESWed Mar 27 1996 16:494
    may the health gods be on your side, dean. our prayers go out to your
    mom.
    
    rfb
125.1848MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topWed Mar 27 1996 16:557
	tom,
	
	healing vibes to your mom!
	
	deanne-o, 
	man, my heart is heavy right now.  :-(
	good luck to you and your mom.
125.1849STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneWed Mar 27 1996 17:0611
	hey now Tom - a speedy recovery wish to your mom.

	Deane, I can feel your anguish.  My heart stopped beating, I think,
	when I read your note.  Lots of strength and love to you and your
	mom in this difficult time that lies ahead for her and you.

	I've been through this, myself, so anytime you feel the need to
	talk or cry or whatever...I'm here.

	Debess
125.1850TEPTAE::WESTERVELTwhat's up widdat?Wed Mar 27 1996 17:092
    Deane, peace and love.  
125.1851Love will see us throughDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meWed Mar 27 1996 20:087
    
    Thanks so much for the vibes.  Through the past few days, the well
    wishes and support from our friends and family has been the only
    thing has gotten us through all this!!!  And it does work....
    
    Just got a call from my Aunt Sally, my Mother got up and went for short 
    walk this afternoon!!!  I'm floating...this is good news.
125.1852RDWOLF::KUPIECThu Mar 28 1996 09:240
125.1853RDWOLF::KUPIECThu Mar 28 1996 09:256


	Hang in there Dean. KEEP THE POSITIVE THOUGHTS!!!!!

Chris
125.1854USCTR1::CONNORSThu Mar 28 1996 11:145
    
    
    Tom and Deane...  my heart is with you both...
    
    /mj
125.1855NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Thu Mar 28 1996 12:103
ditto that...  vibes to both moms...

			da ve
125.1856TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backThu Mar 28 1996 12:3610
Wow, some moms goin' thru some ruff times lately...my folks live in FLA, and last
Friday my mom went for an evening walk with a friend of hers from the 'hood...
Mom got a call later that eve, her friend had died about an hour after they
finished their walk...my mom thinks that she may have been the last person her
friend spoke to before she died...Mom's kinda freaked out by that, but doin'
ok...

Good Vibes...

Wes
125.1857hang inSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneThu Mar 28 1996 13:357
     
      My thoughts and wishes for quick recoveries to Tom and Dean's mothers.
    
      Lot's of hugs in order this Mother's day for sure!
    
      Cath
     
125.1858AOSG::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobelThu Mar 28 1996 14:205
Deane-o & Tom:
	Positive vibes, well wishes and speedy, complete recoveries for 
your moms. Hang in there.

jeff
125.1859USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Mar 28 1996 15:083
    Deano and Tom,
      Sending the positive vibes your moms ways.  Keep the faith
    	Mark
125.1860TEPTAE::WESTERVELTwhat's up widdat?Thu Mar 28 1996 16:558
    thanks for the vibes, all - it really helps!!  

    the maternal unit ;-)  is recuperating and doing "as well as
    expected" - it pays not to think about the near future too
    much tho!

    Tom
125.1861ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingThu Mar 28 1996 17:095
    Tom and Deane-
    	
    	love and positive healing vibes heading your way...
    
    /d
125.1862FLUME::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Mar 28 1996 19:004
Best wishes and health to the moms.  Tom and Dean, take care of them and
yourselves...

PeterT
125.1863Keep the faith!FABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Mar 28 1996 19:175
	Vibes of Love & healing to both your mom's dudes...


	Toby
125.1864ZENDIA::FERGUSONMr. Plumber's coding servicesFri Mar 29 1996 00:513
Deano,
keep da faith mon
jc
125.1865SPECXN::BARNESMon Apr 01 1996 14:146
    today is the first of two layoffs, during the month of April,
    that DEC MCS will "participate" in..... this is the group that funds me, so
    who knows.....happy april fools day
    
    
    rfb
125.1866MAIL1::TURNOFGreetings from the Big AppleMon Apr 01 1996 17:037
    It's like death here.  So many people I know have been handed their
    walking papers.  I almost didn't come in today.
    
    I just don't get the short term reasoning why this is happening.  I'm
    too thick to "get it".
    
    Fredda
125.1867SPECXN::BARNESMon Apr 01 1996 17:104
    well, i hope U don't "get it" (literally) Fredda....
    
    
    rfb
125.1868MAIL1::TURNOFGreetings from the Big AppleMon Apr 01 1996 17:263
    naw, we're "safe" through June - after that who knows?
    
    ft
125.1869love NOTESSTAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneMon Apr 01 1996 19:5418
	I've been kinda shying away from this note because mention of
	the L word gives me the shakes...I been bit by it personally and
	so have lots of folks I care about...and I know that even when it's
	not you that gets hit, it hurts when the people around you do...and
	it's mighty scary...

	...but that hasn't stopped me from talking about it in email ;-)

	I've been talking with Lisa today...and I mentioned this bummer that
	rfb and Fredda have been experiencing today...and she said "Fredda
	is such a sweetheart...and you can tell her I said that"  and I said
	"what about rfb" and she said "yeah, you can say that about him too"

	so, just passing on the sweetness...

	Debess

125.1870SPECXN::BARNESMon Apr 01 1996 19:561
    ***BLUSH****
125.1871WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsMon Apr 01 1996 20:095
    
    somehow - seeing the word blush and the name Barnes on the same
     screen ..... 
    
    
125.1872MAIL2::TURNOFGreetings from the Big AppleTue Apr 02 1996 13:0620
    All of you are the sweethearts!!  Got a wonderful e-mail from Lisa this
    morn - she doing great!  BTW (for you trivia buffs) - I now live in the
    town that Lisa grew up in!  Her Mom's house is walking distance (what a
    concept!) from me!
    
    All the positive vibes really helped me yesterday!  Also, leaving a 4PM
    worked wonders also!
    
    This is the part about these layoffs that I don't get.  In Feb. and
    yesterday a MCS layoff occurred.  The "big" managers didn't make their
    margin number so heads rolled.  This has nothing to do with profits -
    since that's happening - but with the amount of profit.  Ok, now why
    don't the "big" managers get whacked?  Since they obviously can't do
    their jobs.  No, instead the "worker bees" get it.  
    
    Just needed to vent!
    
    Have a nice day!
    
    Fredda  
125.1873ASABET::DCLARKvoodoo mathematicianTue Apr 02 1996 13:146
    re .-1
    
    don't ask questions like that. You'll just get angrier and angrier.
    
    - Dave who made an intense effort to find out stuff like that a 
      few years back and got nowhere but mad.
125.1874DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meTue Apr 02 1996 14:506
    
    Sorry to hear about these layoff's.
                
    On the positive side, a layoff can be a bright fresh way to re-start 
    a life.  I wouldn't object to being tapped....probably would give me 
    a good hard kick to get out and do something real. 
125.1875get your design spec ready...JARETH::LARUTue Apr 02 1996 15:1014
125.1876SPECXN::BARNESTue Apr 02 1996 15:1515
    re;
    
    
        On the positive side, a layoff can be a bright fresh way to
    re-start a life.  I wouldn't object to being tapped....probably would give
    me a good hard kick to get out and do something real.
    
    -------------------------------------------------------------
    
    
    as a father of two almost adult children, facing age discrimination if
    I lose a job, with a mortgage and other debts *AND* still the desire to 
    *PLAY* alot....I will argue that point heatedly with ya deano.....
    
    rfb
125.1877QUOIN::BELKINbut from that cup no moreTue Apr 02 1996 17:245
I agree with rfb.  Having a mortgage and other big-time debts (auto loan)
can sure change your attitude about getting layed off.
Epsecially having a mortgage with lots of negative equity.

 -Josh
125.1878been there, done that...no thanksSTAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneTue Apr 02 1996 17:3832
	I must say that, intellectually, I am very fond of the idea
	of following my bliss, finding a way to get what I'm passionate
	about into my daily life, and not just surviving but prospering
	because I'm doing a great job because I love what I'm doing.  I 
	believe that.  And yet, when faced with the reality of having to 
	do it (kicked in the butt by being layed off), while at the same
	time supporting a family, and as rfb says, wanting to PLAY, I found
	I was faced with an entirely different prospect.  The reality is,
	I'm not a go-getter, and bliss-following requires a lot of work
	and a lot of lean times...

	...probably best to do when younger with lots less responsibilities
	and lots more motivation and energy...

	I like my job here.  I like not having to drum up business for
	myself.  I like having someone tell me they need a particular job
	done, and doing it.  I like the flexibility I have, timewise.  I like 
	the regular, good, paycheck.  I like that there is respect and trust 
	and personal freedom to decide how I'm going to do my job.  I may not 
	be passionate about it, but I enjoy it, so I feel that's a great 
	situation for me.  

	For some lucky people, following their bliss and making a living
	are the same thing.  For me, following my bliss is not directly 
	connected with what I do for a living.  It is indirectly though -
	my job, and not worrying about it, allows me to be able to afford 
	to have what I am passionate about in my life, outside of work.  

	that's why I don't view being layed off as an opportunity...

	Debess
125.1879STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneTue Apr 02 1996 18:088
	but then again ;-), I have absolutely LOVED hearing stories
	from people I know who -have- been layed off and -have- viewed
	it as a great opportunity and ended up turning their lives
	completely around and ended up doing something they only
	dreamed of before.  You can see the sparkle in their eyes!

	Debess
125.1880DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meTue Apr 02 1996 19:1529
      
     	Well, I look at what I do and I have to ask:
    
    	Am I helping people?  Nope
    	Am I helping the environment?  Nope
    	Am I making the world a better place?  Nope
    	Am I rich? Nope..... huh
    
    	I would much rather die a poor man...no, let me reword this....
    	I would much rather die a man with without money, but with a 
    	soul that is fullfilled and a family that could look back and 
    	see the differences that I made.  Maybe soon I'll do this.
    
    	I wrote this poem a couple years ago...had to post it:
    
        Here I am
        in my cube all day.
        Sitting here 
        just rotting away.
        The sun is shining
        I want to go out and play.
        But, I'm on the clock 
        and I need pay 
        so here I stay
        In my cube 
    	rotting
    	rotting
    	away
    
125.1881SPECXN::BARNESTue Apr 02 1996 19:229
    deano -off the subject, but yer poem reminded me of one I wrote years
    ago when still on the manufacturing line.....please, no one take
    offense, just appreciate the muse and humor....
    
    
    another day at work,
    while i set here like a jerk,
    having bend-over fantasies, 
    joint and coffee burnt out realities.....(tm)
125.1882ZENDIA::FERGUSONMr. Plumber's coding servicesWed Apr 03 1996 03:2218
everyone is in a diff situation.
so, i can hear deano's side of the story: provide a kick in the butt
and rfb's: i gotta have a job 'cuz i owe,owe,owe

i'm somewhere in the middle.
yeah, gotta a mortgage, but, no kids.  i could sell and cruise.


my advice is for everyone to stay current.
read the help wanted pages.
make sure you are getting the skills others are demanding.
if this means work outside of work to get these skills, DO IT!
read books.,
take classes.
stay current.
stay marketable....


125.1883MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topWed Apr 03 1996 11:386
	... and don't be fearful.
	fear paralyzes.
	every turn can lead to bliss if you allow it.
	even the most devastating event can open a door otherwise unseen.
	but, you need to be 'aware' to see it.
	
125.1884follow your bliss...JARETH::LARUWed Apr 03 1996 12:519
    IMO,  the best thing you can do for yourself is to
    decide what you want...  Set goals.  It doesn't make
    any difference if they are you ultimate goals (there
    ain't no such thing;  goals are always evolving/changing).
    If you have specific goals in mind, you will find/make ways
    to achieve them...   As Joseph Campbell said, "doors will open
    for you where for others there will be only walls."
    
    /bruce
125.1885ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingWed Apr 03 1996 14:175
    >> Note 125.1883 by MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE
    >> ... and don't be fearful.
    >> etc.
    
    Amen!  
125.1886vibes for some friends...NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesthe storyteller makes no choice...Wed Apr 03 1996 14:2245
well, back to the bummer note for da ve...  :^)

at least this time it's not happening to me directly...

many of you know my good friend and former bunkie Chriso...
i spent a long time on the phone with him last night...  his
step daughter is dying...  

some of you are somewhat familiar with the story...  Christina
is 12...  she's also a dancer...  she competed nationally with her
dance group...  she was diagnosed with the cancer after going
to see a doctor after lots of complaints about aches and pains,
mostly in her back, after her dance sessions...

she's been undergoing radical chemo and radiation therapy
for over a year...  it looked for a long time like they might actually 
have it licked...  unfortunately the cancer wins in the end... 

Chris and his wife have a new baby too...  born with Down's Syndrome...
so now they are making arrangements for it's christening at the same
time that they're making funeral arrangments for Chritina...   Christina's
dance group has organized a huge recital type thing at Worcester State
College's auditorium... looks like it's going to sellout too...  unfortunately,
the money will most likely go to the funeral rather than the treatment... :^(

Christina is a remarkable young person...  when she started her treatments,
she began writing a book...  she created a main character, a super heroine,
called "Chemo-Girl" who fights cancer with her dog side kick, named after
one of the pieces of hardware used in her treatments...  Simon and Shuster
are publishing it and it looks like it's going to be a big hit in cancer wards 
and stuff for kids...  the nurses at the hospital wear pins now that say 
"i believe in Chemo-Girl!" and it looks like Christina will leave behind a
lasting legacy for kids like herself...

naturally, this is all the reader's digest condensed version...  but needless to 
say the whole thing has been real hard on Chris and his whole family...  

he doesn't know i'm putting this in here, but he does tell me to say hi to
the heads that know him, and those that don't... :^)   but anyone who has
spare vibes, prayers, or whatever else works for you all, Chriso, Christina,
and the rest of the family and extended involved folks could sure use them...

i believe in Chemo-Girl......

				da ve
125.1887MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topWed Apr 03 1996 14:319
	oh, man!
	
	:-(
	'
	
>i believe in Chemo-Girl......

	a new CtW hit single?
	
125.1888too sadSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneWed Apr 03 1996 14:398
    
    Geez Da ve you got to stop making me cry. Christina sounds like
    a real heroine and her story is bitter sweet.
    
    Sounds like Chriso and his wife will need your continued support.
    
    Hang in,
    Cath
125.1889SPECXN::BARNESWed Apr 03 1996 14:5110
    oh man....
    
    re:stop making me cry.
    ditto...
    i'm off to take a small break now, after that.
    
    
    *big* vibes to all involved, sounds like a very brave little girl
    
    rfb
125.1890:-(USCTR1::CONNORSWed Apr 03 1996 14:528
    
    
    Wow....  how sad...  I'm so sorry for Chrisso and his
    entire family...  
    
    all the vibes I can muster are theirs.....
    
    /mj
125.1891TEPTAE::WESTERVELTwhat's up widdat?Wed Apr 03 1996 15:047
    Very sad.  Sorry to hear, da ve.

    Christina sounds like a very special person... I'm sure 
    her parents are, too.

    Tom
125.1892DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meWed Apr 03 1996 15:057
    
    My thoughts and wishes are going out to her family and friends.
    
    I believe in chemo girl.
    
                        	- Deane
			
125.1893ARBEIT::DEMARSEEnjoy beingWed Apr 03 1996 15:182
    wow....sending all positive healing vibes to Cristina and the rest of 
    the family.  
125.1894I believe in Chemo-Girl!FABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveWed Apr 03 1996 15:577
	Vibes going to Chrisso & family

	Christina sounds like an angel...

	
	Toby  8-(
125.1895SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Wed Apr 03 1996 16:2123
sad da ve,

I went through something like this with  very good friends and neighbors.
Our neighbors in Merrimack when I was in high school had a little boy
named Chris as well.  Chris went from the bottom to almost the top and
then sank back down again.  I'll never forget that phone call at 3am.
I still see his parents from time to time...it does something to everyone.

It's times like that I wonder about religion (seeing children with promising
futures suffer).

My prayers go out to Chris.  

On another note my friend and old roommate (more than once) Harvey aka Skip 
who just turned 50 is battling this again.  This is his 3rd round.  Last time
he had a bone marrow transplant at B&Women's hospital.  Who knows what's up
this time.  It took 2 or was it 3 years to revisit....

:(




125.1896ZENDIA::FERGUSONMr. Plumber's coding servicesWed Apr 03 1996 16:313
My heart goes out to Christina's family.
peace
jc
125.1897ZENDIA::FERGUSONMr. Plumber's coding servicesWed Apr 03 1996 17:2221
re        <<< Note 125.1880 by DELNI::DSMITH "Can you see the real me" >>>

      
>    	Am I helping people?  Nope
>    	Am I helping the environment?  Nope
>    	Am I making the world a better place?  Nope
>    	Am I rich? Nope..... huh
 

\deano mon.
just because your job does not able you to do those things doesn't
mean you cannot do them.
as far as helping people, work in a soup kitchen.  become a big brother.
volunteer to drive an older person somewhere they need to go.
i see many volunteer oppts in the groton herald each week looking
for people to help.
as far as helping the environment:  volunteer at a local dump to
sort plastic, paper, metal,etc.  or, organize a "Dechead roadside cleanup"
program... there are so many thigns you can volunteer to do to help
out, and this may help you feel better about your contribution to
"Earth" or whatever you wanna cawl it.
125.1898HELIX::CLARKWed Apr 03 1996 17:3424
  Prayers for Christina and family...  Remarkable about Chemo-girl!!
  
  I stumbled on last night's episode of Home Improvement while looking for a
  ballgame.

  Very well done IMO (about what a kid & family go through in connection w/
  cancer) -- but I was glad my kids, who normally would be, weren't
  watching.  I wouldn't have been ready, at that moment, to answer "Can that
  happen to me?" for any of mine.  Guess I better prepare myself...


  Quick comment on earlier "Don't be fearful" string:
  And don't let your family's fears for you make you fearful.  Given there
  are times to be cautious and secure, and other times to be bold and
  free...  Loved ones who want to protect you are never going to recognize
  when taking a risk (w/ no guarantees) is the right thing.
  
  Last year my brother gave up a big-dinero tech job for secondary school
  teaching, because he believed in it.  Good thing he didn't count on the
  extended family for support -- most are still clucking about it...
  
  Anyway, I agree running scared is the worst way to go, esp. if you feel
  deep down, at a key moment, that something is right.  (Risks with safety
  nets aren't a good thing either -- but that's a different rant.)  - JayC.
125.1899rage on though, these cubes will get ya downSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneWed Apr 03 1996 17:425
    
    Ya Deane, I've been meaning to tell you, I think you brighten up
    the world with your good humor and friendly gestures...
    
    Cath
125.1900BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEWed Apr 03 1996 18:206
    
    
    Sending all my vibes...
    
    
    
125.1901DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meWed Apr 03 1996 18:415
    
    >Ya Deane, I've been meaning to tell you, I think you brighten up
    >the world with your good humor and friendly gestures...
    
    	I know of many people who say the same of you cathy. 
125.1902a favor with regards to sharing this story...NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Wed Apr 03 1996 22:2820
ummm, one thing i would ask of everyone...

i've gotten a couple of mail messages asking for more information
and a note or three from other folks who know Chriso and are
interested in this news of his life, some of whom are outside digital...

PLEASE be careful/conscious of  who you send this out to!!!!!!!!!!!

while i know that everyone's intentions are pure, i also understand
how stories like this can propogate on the internet....  sometimes the
best intentions can lead to trouble though...  what it comes down to 
is i'd hate to see this very painful and trying time for this family
turn into another Craig Shergold type of thing where they get swamped 
with inquiries and attention that they really don't need right now...

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, can we keep this more or less "between us?"
there's no problem with letting "interested others" know what's going on,
but please let's not have this passed all around the net!

				da ve
125.1903SPECXN::BARNESThu Apr 04 1996 12:523
    where can we donate...
    
    rfb_very saddened by this
125.1904WECARE::ROBERTSclimb a ladder to the starsThu Apr 04 1996 13:018
    
    Thanks for posting the info about Chemo-girl.  ITs so inspiring.  I 
    continue to marvel at the courage some people have to strive for one 
    more step/go a bit more/reach for a goal... against odds that at times
    seem insurmountable.  Reading about Christina and the way she has and
    will inspire people makes me think twice about whining when i'm tired.
    
    C
125.1905I believe in Chemo-GirlSIOG::OSULLIVAN_DThu Apr 04 1996 13:4322
    A list i received which helps dealing with fear:
    
    Do something you have never done before
    Perform an act of courage
    Make a plan and then follow it
    Keep doing what you are doing for five more minutes
    Do something extremely slowly
    Say 'no' when it is easier to say 'yes'
    Do what seems to you the most important thing to be done
    When facing a minor choice, choose without hesitation
    Act contrary to all expectations
    Behave independently of what others might think or say
    Postpone an action you would prefer to begin
    Begin an action you would prefer to postpone
    Eliminate something superflous from your life
    Break a habit
    Do something that makes you feel insecure
    Carry out an action with complete attention and intensity, as if it
    were your last
    
    -Dermot
    
125.1906i don't have that handy, but i'll try and get it...NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Thu Apr 04 1996 13:4919
i don't have the info handy on donations for the benefit...
there's been some talk of another type of event for
her and her family later on...  if she's not with us anymore
it may be something like donations in her name to the
children's hospital cancer unit or the children's make-a-wish
foundation or soemthing like that...  the make a wish people
gave her an incredible day that she still talks about last
year...  limo ride to fenway for practice, meeting the team,
sitting with Valentin her fav (i think she had a crush on him :^)
name on the scoreboards welcoming her and her family, sitting
in the dugout with the team etc...

i'll know more after i talk with the family again, (tentative plans
to see them saturday) but for now that kind of thing is pretty far
from their minds...  

			da ve


125.1907USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Apr 04 1996 14:026
    
    Gee da ve,
      You've got me welled up with tears again.  I'd love to know if
    there is anything I can do.
    
    	Mark
125.1908SSGV02::STROBELJeffMon Apr 08 1996 01:043
    my prayers & vibes to an incredible girl.
    
    jeff
125.1909STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESSsuch a long long time 2B goneMon Apr 08 1996 15:299
	for such a young person, she is a great inspiration...
	I can only hope that if I am ever faced with such pain/sadness/tragedy,
	that I can be as courageous as Christina...I wish her the best,
	whatever that might mean today, and tomorrow, and for the rest of
	her life...

	Debess

125.1910MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topThu Apr 11 1996 15:5550
125.1911:((( r.i.p.TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backThu Apr 11 1996 16:072
Wow, this is a major drag...I saw Jessica on the news recently...7 years old, 
so sad
125.1912NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Thu Apr 11 1996 17:319
I saw her on the news this morning.  How sad.

Perhaps now the FAA will put a g&ddamned minimum age on
pilot's licenses -- I mean, really...cars and recently boats
require it, and they rarely even leave the ground.

How sad.

tim
125.1913rust or burn?JARETH::LARUThu Apr 11 1996 17:414
    Another perspective is that they died in the service of their
    dream...  Pushing the envelope...  and we can all be inspired...
    
    /bruce
125.1914NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Thu Apr 11 1996 18:0213
Well, yeah maybe. I can kinda see that...  But there's a
7-year-old girl who never got the chance to really dream.  No
Senior Prom; no graduation; no career or family of her own. 
She had only been flying for a year - and never had the chance
to really live. It hit me because I saw her on the toob this
morning as I was leaving home and she was leaving Wyoming, I
think, or maybe it was Half Moon Bay still.

We would never have heard of a 7-year-old girl who was trying
to simply drive across North America...it's illegal, and
illogical.

I just think it's really very sad.
125.1915GRANPA::TDAVISThu Apr 11 1996 18:163
    Yea, I was thinking along the same lines. Are there no rules around
    the age issue?  she must have been an amazing child to be able
    to attempt such a thing.
125.1916DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Apr 11 1996 18:185
    
    That is so sad.
    
    I'm sure she was more than qualified for the mission.  Mechanical
    failure is the most common problem with small plane accidents.
125.1917MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways stop at the topThu Apr 11 1996 18:5311
	imo, there should be an age limit.
	i wouldn't let my kid drive at 7.
	i wouldn't even let a 7 year old make that decision.
	at 7, you still have to think for them.
	it was clearly her father's decision. he made the decision for
	her. he was pushing the envelope. for what? bragging rights?
	what if his (hypothetical) 11 year old son wanted to cross the
	country on a motorcycle??
	i think it was cool she knew how to fly a plane. i question the
	wisdom of this decision.
	
125.1918OUTPOS::EKLOFWaltzing with BearsThu Apr 11 1996 18:598
	There is a minimum age for a pilots licence - sixteen years old for
powered airplanes (which a C-177 is).  She didn't have a pilots license.  That's
why the instructor was there.  Legally, he was the pilot-in-command, and with
the dual controls in virtually all planes, could have controlled the plane at
any time.  This isn't a case where we need more rules.  I can't help wonder how
much of this was her father's idea, though, instead of hers.

Mark
125.1919SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Fri Apr 12 1996 12:1821
          <<< Note 125.1918 by OUTPOS::EKLOF "Waltzing with Bears" >>>
>any time.  This isn't a case where we need more rules.  I can't help wonder how
>much of this was her father's idea, though, instead of hers.

I was watching the news this morning was wondering the same thing.
The the news showed an interview where her father was saying it was his
idea, he checked w/ the mother for an ok, then asked the daughter
to think it over ... of course at 7 she said YES right away.

I think this is a case of adults having bad judgement;  the flight instructor
could have convinced a 7 year old that it would be bad judgement to take off
in high winds and t-storms.  

sad very sad....
bob

p.s.  they had an onplane camera for this trip - showed her crossing 
the Rockies where she'd never seen this sort of turbulence...the flight
instructor asked her, "what would you do it you lost power right now?"
and the answer was "I don't know."

125.1920MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Fri Aug 16 1996 13:546
	My mother is in the hospital with pneumonia.
	She's 65, and a victim of Parkinson's disease.
	Her name is Lucille.
	
	Your thoughts, good vibes and prayers would be appreciated.
	
125.1921MKOTS3::MCONNORSFri Aug 16 1996 14:084
    
    Very sorry to hear that Jay!  The good vibes are on their way....
    
    MJ
125.1922Keep da faithFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveFri Aug 16 1996 14:097
	JJ

	Good Vibes and prayers are on their way


	Toby
125.1923BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEFri Aug 16 1996 14:284
    
    Sorry to hear about your mom J. Sending my vibes to her now.
    
    Divide Dave
125.1924BINKLY::CEPARSKIMay Your Song Always Be SungFri Aug 16 1996 15:191
    I'll be thinking of Lucille today, Jay.
125.1925Good vibesKOOLIT::VALLONEFri Aug 16 1996 16:374
    Jay...  More vibes and prayers headin' in your 
    mom's direction!!  
    
    --t
125.1926GRANPA::TDAVISFri Aug 16 1996 16:434
    Some vibes coming your Mom's way...
    
    
    
125.1927RICKS::CALCAGNIlike lightning giving birthFri Aug 16 1996 20:282
    I feel the vibes most when I'm playing; I'll do a tune for her tonight
    
125.1928MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Mon Aug 19 1996 12:058
	thanks, all.
	
	she's still in the hospital. she may come home today. the
	pneumonia is better, but she has little strength.
	
	i'll let y'all know.
	
	jay
125.1929TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backMon Aug 19 1996 12:093
JAy, more Healthy vibes to your Mom

Wes
125.1930mums are coolWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Aug 19 1996 12:174
    
    same here jayjolls
    
    good vibes to mum!
125.1931NECSC::CRONIC::16.127.176.129::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Mon Aug 19 1996 13:023
vibrating in this cube too....

			da ve
125.1932DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meMon Aug 19 1996 13:314
    
    Hope all is well with your ma Jay. 
    
    Thoughts are currently being directed to you and her.
125.1933SPECXN::BARNESMon Aug 19 1996 14:313
    ditto all that's been said, Jay. Keep us informed. 
    
    rfb
125.1934& good vibesTEPTAE::WESTERVELTTue Aug 20 1996 15:481
    peace, jay
125.1935NETRIX::danDan HarringtonTue Aug 20 1996 18:413
Thinking of Lucille...

Dan
125.1936take careSTAR::64881::DEBESSthings we've never seen seem familiarWed Aug 21 1996 14:585
	good vibes headed to Lucille...and Jay

	Debess

125.1937MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Thu Aug 22 1996 11:397
	Mom was released from the hospital on Tuesday. She's still on
	antibiotics (along with the dozens of pills she takes each day).
	She's feeling better, but still weak.
	
	Thanks for all the well-wishes. It always helps.
	
	Jay
125.1938SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobelThu Aug 22 1996 19:566
Jay:
	Glad your mom's doing better. Vibes for a speedy, complete 
recovery.


jef
125.1939SPECXN::BARNESFri Aug 23 1996 16:524
    so, SO glad to hear that Jolly. 
    
    keep da faith
    rfb
125.1940sorry if this gets kinda long...NECSC::CRONIC::16.127.176.129::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Wed Sep 04 1996 21:1471
hi... me again...  back in the friggin' bummer note...  again...

i've been purposely trying to stay out of here cuz it seems like 
so many times in the last year, this topic could be largely owned
and operated by yours truly...  and believe me, with the crap
that's been going down i could fill it up...  

but that's not what i'm here to whine about now...  :^)

since there are now a few of you that are hip to my situation,
and it's getting harder to keep up with everyone individually,
i figureit's time to put something in grateful so i can put stuff here
and save some typing...  :^)  also, anyone that has a vibe or three
to share, i can use them too...

the spicific bummer i'm on today is that Fallon Clinic is a drag
to try and get stuff set up with lately...  usually not too bad but it
seems like everyone i'm dealing with now is filling in for someone
who's either sick or on vacation...  

but here's the story...  and i'll try to be brief... (HA! :^)

back when we were dong the "Rockin' for Christina" benefit i had
some excitement happenin...  the day before i was brought into the
hospital with severe abdominal pain...  turned out to be no big deal...
kidney stones, that when passed, left me a little sore but supposedly
that was it...

but when i went back the following week for my followup visit the 
Urologist sat my butt down and told me that while they were checking
me out for stones, they found a "growth" on one of my kidneys...  he was
concerned cuz it's apparently very unusual for someone in my age group
(which is somewhere between LeBlanc and Grady for those keepingtrack :^)...
the immediate concern was whether or not it's a malignant tumor, but 
malignant or not, i should plan on kidney surgery to make it go away...
i hate it when they say "this *is* a big deal, you should be concerned..."

well, since then i've been in and out of the dr's office and the hospital for 
tests...  they've drawn enough blood to float Jay's fishin' boat...  taken x-rays...
 IVP's...  CT scans... full renal scans...  and a CT needle guided biopsy... 
fun stuff...

so far all they've figured out for sure is that it's not normal kidney tissue,
so there's still cause for concern, but it's NOT a malignant tumor... (whew!!!)
so at least it appears no to be the cancer tey originally feared...  i suppose
that's a plus...  but since they still don't know what it is, that means more tests...
oh joy...

so i'll be in and out of here over the next week...  the next round of tests involve 
day surgery(s)...  so i have to go in for a complete physical on monday, i have to
meet with the anesthesiologist on wednesday and i'll be out on thursday for the 
procedure... i think this time it's a cystoscopy and left retrograde study? not 
sure if i'll be in on friday...  according to the Dr, "there may be some discomfort 
afterwards"...  swell...

so what's it mean?  we still don't really know... they say there's still an outside
chance that it could be a "genetic abnormality" that will not require surgery,
even though the renal scan shows it is not normal, healthy kidney tissue...
if it does call for surgery, i can look forward to a week or so in the hospital
and 8 to 10 weeks of convalescence afterwards...  so we'll see...  in the meantime,
if you find an extra vibe laying around that you don't need yourself, send it my
way will ya?  especially in the latter part of next week...  i promise to put it
to good use...    :^)  and i'll let you know what's happening as i find out results...

and that's the view from here...

				da ve


ps.  for vibes you find *this* week, send 'em to Rochelle...  i won't go into the whole
story, but she's back in the hospital fighting her own demons and could use the boost...
125.1941GRANPA::TDAVISWed Sep 04 1996 21:2816
    Sorry to hear of your problems, many good vibes coming to you and 
    yours. Medical stuff is a real drag in the 90's, last week
    my Nueroligist called me twice (yes called me) to let me know that
    the results of a recent MRI are showing a Brain Aneurysm.
    My wife the Nurse begins freaking out that I am on the road all
    the time, etc... and I go get a followup MRI. I go on Thursday
    evening and hope to hear Friday, of what is happening. Well
    since it was a holiday no one calls until Tuesday (despite
    repeated follow ups).... bottom line only a scare.
    
    One thing I will not ever do again is research my "condition"
    on the Internet.... a sobering experience. By the way I know
    two people at Digital that have died this way, both around my
    age (closer to Grady). Scary stuff. 
    
    I sure hope all turns out well, sorry for the digression.
125.1942hope your luck changes da veFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveWed Sep 04 1996 22:079
	Vibes to you & Rochelle da ve
	keep a positive attitude if you can...

	TDavis glad to hear it was only a scare betcha aged alot
	over the weekend.


	Toby
125.1943NAC::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Wed Sep 04 1996 22:1313
Vibes to Da ve, Roche and Tom...


...but when did I get elected as the designated milestone of old age
around here, anyways?

;-)

tim

P.S. In an attempt to cheer up things with a non-bummer, so far nobody
has sued me this month...;-)

125.1944SPECXN::BARNESWed Sep 04 1996 22:185
    peace, vibes and prayers to all...I don't know what else to say
    right now...I'm kinda in shock...I'm always asking myself (about da ve)
    can someone really be this cool???
    
    vibes..rfb
125.1945vibesDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Sep 05 1996 04:004
    
    da ve & rochelle
    
    late night vibes currently headed in your direction
125.1946MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Thu Sep 05 1996 12:0511
	da ve, you're gonna be fine, mon. it's important to remember that
	you are the ultimate healer. please, believe in your ability to
	heal. you control your own body, not some white coat. and,
	nothing happens by chance.
	
	that said, we'll be asking the universe to provide what it is you
	need at this time. and, we'll be praying that spirit help our
	sister rochelle. you two are ten of the kindest people i know.
	
	peace,
	
125.1947MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Thu Sep 05 1996 12:113
	tdavis, scary stuff. glad all is well.
	(all this medical talk is making me quesy. i pass out when the
	dentist gives me novacaine!! ;-)
125.1948HmmmmmmmmmNECSC::LEVYHalf-Step Mississippi Uptown ToodleooThu Sep 05 1996 12:176
    Vibes to all.  Yow.  However, I do believe that I am officially an
    older fart than Grady.  I'll be 45 this October.  Yikes!  I guess that
    can qualify as a bummer, eh?
    
    	dave
    
125.1949vibes vibes everywhere are vibesWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Sep 05 1996 12:209
    da ve and rochelle
    vibes to both of you......some of the kindest people i have had the
    pleasure of meeting....
    
    tdavis bud......glad to hear you are gonna be ok too.....vibes for you
    and the missus....
    
    tim grady...my lawyer will be in touch with you later today
    
125.1950TOLKIN::OSTIGUYRipples never come backThu Sep 05 1996 12:435
Good Health Vibes to da ve and Rochelle...
non-legal vibes to Tim :)
Safe vibes to all S.O.S.ers this weekend, and raise one for me, I can't make it.

Actually, PEACE and SMILE vibes to everyone reading this...
125.1951BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEThu Sep 05 1996 12:547
    
    More VIBES to those in need.
    
    BTW I know of at least 1 in here older than 45 so you old farts don't
    have't feel so old.
    
    Divide Dave
125.1952hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmUSOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Sep 05 1996 13:2410
    
    da ve,
      Peace and lotsa vibes heading your and rochelles way.  I'll keep you
    in my thoughts adn keep sendin the vibes.
    
    Tdavis,
      Hope the scare passes uneventfully and vibes to you to.
    
    	mark
    
125.1953MKOTS3::MCONNORSThu Sep 05 1996 13:457
    da ve,
    
    many good healing vibes heading your way friend...
    
    BIG HUG!
    
    mj
125.1954STAR::64881::DEBESSfull of cloudy dreams unrealThu Sep 05 1996 14:1710
	da ve, you know that you and Rochelle have been in both
	Guntis' and my thoughts alot lately...and you will continue
	to be until this is all just a bad memory ;-)

	take care,
	Debess

	ps TDavis: phew!

125.1955i'm so weirdSTAR::64881::DEBESSfull of cloudy dreams unrealThu Sep 05 1996 14:183
	just wanted this reply cause it's the year I was born

125.1956;-)JARETH::LARUau contraire...Thu Sep 05 1996 14:208
125.1957:^) hee heeWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Sep 05 1996 14:226
    1955?
    
    hmmmmm
    electricity was discovered
    the first transatlantic balloon flight 
    running water comes to New england
125.1958queen of denialSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneThu Sep 05 1996 14:3513
    
    It's scary to think that you folks are having these health issues. I hope
    it all just goes away... I can't stand the thought of friends being
    in pain. 
    
    I'll remain optimistic that you guys will be soon smiling and this
    will all be history... like it was for Tom.
    
    I was hoping to see Rochelle at SOS too ? Da ve good to hear you'll
    be there.
    
    Cath
    
125.1959TEPTAE::WESTERVELTThu Sep 05 1996 14:395
    da ve, may the love & healing you've sent to others
    bounce back your way ten times over... hang tight.

    Tom
125.1960Bailiff, make him stop dancing!NETRIX::danDan HarringtonThu Sep 05 1996 14:566
Positive vibrations to one and all...this puts my little job
jitters in perspective...think positively, treat your bodies
well, and Tim, please try to stay out of court!

Dan
125.1961TEPTAE::WESTERVELTThu Sep 05 1996 15:002
    
lots of Change in the wind
125.1962AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Thu Sep 05 1996 15:018
    
    da ve, you'll be fine.....vibes going your way (and Rochelles)
    though.....
    
    Hogan
    
    PS: I'm sure its that unidentified stuff on your kidney is just some
    bong resin or somethin' ;^)
125.1963NETRIX::danDan HarringtonThu Sep 05 1996 15:025
> Note: 125.1960
> Author: NETRIX::dan "Dan Harrington"

Hey whaddayaknow...I got the year of my birth, too.  You've started
a trend, Debess!
125.1964hogan..toooo muchWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Sep 05 1996 15:047
    re. .1962
    
    Now THAT is funny!
    
    
    scrape your liver for resin if you need a fix
    :^)
125.1965SPECXN::BARNESThu Sep 05 1996 15:2411
    re; resin  
              HA!
    
    re; Probably Dave and Divide Dave
               I was wondering when you old farts would respond! 
    
    "You can('t) stay 20, 
    on Sugar Mountain..though you think you're leavin there too soon, 
    You're leavin there too soon..."
    
    rfb_born in 55 also, but "I can't drive 55!"
125.1966SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Thu Sep 05 1996 15:389
Da ve and Tom,

Hope all works out for you guys!
take care, follow Jollimore's advice...
think good thoughts :)

bobo young buck born in 56 (big year for me this year....)


125.1967GRANPA::TDAVISThu Sep 05 1996 15:431
    Do we need a Old farts note? I am afraid I may be it!
125.1968STAR::64881::DEBESSfull of cloudy dreams unrealThu Sep 05 1996 15:463
	see note 377 ;-)

125.1969the big 40SEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneThu Sep 05 1996 17:036
    
    Re: 125.1966
    
    When's your birthday bobo ? When/where's the Party?
    
    Cathy
125.1970GRANPA::TDAVISThu Sep 05 1996 17:071
    Thanks for the pointer, It's not me....
125.1971SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Thu Sep 05 1996 17:2815
          <<< Note 125.1969 by SEND::SLOAN "music is my aeroplane" >>>
                                -< the big 40 >-

    
    Re: 125.1966
 >    When's your birthday bobo ? When/where's the Party?
    
 >   Cathy


I'll have to get Rae in line for this one :)  She threw me a 30th that
was memorable ... or was it?  I can't remember :) :)   Right Mike?

bobo

125.1972RAGE::JCNever trust a PranksterThu Sep 05 1996 17:327
Well, i wasn't born in 1972 (the reply number i think i will get)!


anyways, vibes heading your way da ve + rochelle

man, everything seems to be crumbling around me these days...

125.19731973STAR::64881::DEBESSfull of cloudy dreams unrealThu Sep 05 1996 18:533
	I'll grab another reply - the year I first saw the Dead!

125.1974QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Sep 05 1996 19:5618
Peace and good health to you and Rochelle, da ve...
I don't think I mentioned that I caught that Letterman show
with the Happy Da  Birthday Ve girls on again during the
summer.  I tried taping it so you could have a copy, but
I tuned in too late for that part.  Oh well...

Tom, glad to hear it wasn't anything serious.  I often
go cruising the net to catch up on ailments (mostly things
my kids come down with)  Usually it is decent info,
but I can imagine searching on Aneurysm would be a 
bit scary.  

And Debbess, do you mind if I ride on your coattails for 
1955 and 1973 notes?  I experienced similar events in those
years...


PeterT
125.1975SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobelThu Sep 05 1996 20:264
geez, all the vibes I can muster are headed to all da ve, & Rochelle and a 
big sigh of relief for TDavis.

jeff
125.1976QUOIN::BELKINbut from that cup no moreThu Sep 05 1996 21:5214
hah! this is the year _I_ first saw the Dead :-)

My little bummer (all fixed now) was my hot water heater.  Noticed about 3 
cups of red rusty water underneath it on Friday night.
Luckily, it never did burst, but it took me a few days and 6 trips to
Home Depot to install the new one.  Take it from me - compression fittings
don't work for shit.  Ya gotta solder copper pipe.  But, any project that
involves: 
	1) soldering 
	2) a propane torch  
has a certain element of fun for me, even it if is hassling with a hot water
heater!

 - Josh
125.1977hope to be hearing from ya in the good news noteGEMGRP::GEMGRP::SAMPSONThe sky was yellow and the sun was blueFri Sep 06 1996 13:165
Good vibes and lots of them for Da ve and Rochelle.  Hope things get better 
real quick.

Robyn

125.1978SPECXN::BARNESFri Sep 06 1996 14:261
    U R weird Josh
125.1979RAGE::JCNever trust a PranksterFri Sep 06 1996 18:475
1979

may have been the first time i enjoy a bowl of
oats... can't say fer sure, but 14 years old sticks in
my mind
125.1980Scary shitFABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Sep 19 1996 22:0835
125.1981TEPTAE::WESTERVELTFri Sep 20 1996 14:384
125.1982SPECXN::BARNESMon Sep 23 1996 15:595
125.1983STAR::64881::DEBESSa leaf of all colors plays...Thu Sep 26 1996 20:258
125.1984SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Thu Oct 10 1996 19:4726
125.1985ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Thu Oct 10 1996 19:543
125.1986EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungThu Oct 10 1996 20:029
125.1987SPECXN::BARNESThu Oct 10 1996 20:163
125.1988NETRIX::danDan HarringtonThu Oct 10 1996 20:383
125.1989DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Oct 10 1996 20:564
125.1990BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEThu Oct 10 1996 21:1610
125.1991TEPTAE::WESTERVELTThu Oct 10 1996 21:372
125.1992FABSIX::T_BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Oct 10 1996 22:378
125.1993USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Oct 11 1996 01:574
125.1994Peace and vibesWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeFri Oct 11 1996 11:545
125.1995MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Fri Oct 11 1996 12:137
125.1996hang inSEND::SLOANmusic is my aeroplaneFri Oct 11 1996 13:348
125.1997SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Fri Oct 11 1996 13:596
125.1998SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Oct 14 1996 20:144
125.1999Blood Donors Needed!MKOTS3::MCONNORSThu Oct 17 1996 16:0121
125.2000bummer indeed!SPECXN::BARNESThu Oct 17 1996 16:174
125.2001I'd like to helpDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Oct 17 1996 17:295
125.2002ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Thu Oct 17 1996 18:018
125.2003call me O+WMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Oct 17 1996 18:036
125.2004hope things work out...QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Oct 17 1996 18:0513
125.2005DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Oct 17 1996 18:126
125.2006STAR::64881::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungThu Oct 17 1996 18:138
125.2007MKOTS3::MCONNORSThu Oct 17 1996 18:1517
125.2008ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Thu Oct 17 1996 19:187
125.2009NETRIX::danDan HarringtonThu Oct 17 1996 19:193
125.2010DELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meThu Oct 17 1996 19:318
125.2011MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Thu Oct 17 1996 19:323
125.2012MKOTS3::MCONNORSThu Oct 17 1996 20:528
125.2013From 290 tooMILKWY::MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windFri Oct 18 1996 14:0713
125.2014MKOTS3::MCONNORSFri Oct 18 1996 18:0712
125.2015ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Fri Oct 18 1996 19:174
125.2016SPECXN::BARNESFri Oct 18 1996 20:043
125.2017:^)ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Fri Oct 18 1996 20:094
125.2018And I got a pretty blue bandage on my arm...NETRIX::danDan HarringtonFri Oct 18 1996 21:3012
125.1984SUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveSat Nov 23 1996 21:2317
125.1985MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREAlways a hoot!Mon Nov 25 1996 11:078
125.1986Take care...FOUNDR::OUIMETTEZat was Zen, Dis is Dao...Mon Nov 25 1996 11:2914
125.1987like chuck said...talkWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Nov 25 1996 12:106
125.1988CRONIC::sms53.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Mon Nov 25 1996 12:5213
125.1989sorry manTEPTAE::WESTERVELTMon Nov 25 1996 13:083
125.1990:-(RDVAX::LEVYIf the thunder don't getcha the lightnin' willMon Nov 25 1996 13:2010
125.1991EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungMon Nov 25 1996 13:348
125.1992SPECXN::BARNESMon Nov 25 1996 13:347
125.1995look farSEND::SLOANseek alternate routes - expect delaysMon Nov 25 1996 14:0712
125.1996SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobelMon Nov 25 1996 17:3711
125.1997GRANPA::TDAVISMon Nov 25 1996 18:016
125.1998USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyMon Nov 25 1996 19:428
125.1999NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedMon Nov 25 1996 21:388
125.2000I can relateDELNI::DSMITHCan you see the real meTue Nov 26 1996 14:0818
125.2001EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungTue Nov 26 1996 16:593
125.2002Thanks for being there!SUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveWed Nov 27 1996 12:299
125.2003QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Dec 02 1996 18:274
125.2004SPECXN::BARNESWed Dec 11 1996 19:0115
125.2005LJSRV2::JCI'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox MonThu Dec 12 1996 21:278
125.2006LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Thu Dec 12 1996 22:3518
125.2007SPECXN::BARNESFri Dec 13 1996 14:318
125.2008LJSRV2::JCI'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox MonMon Dec 16 1996 15:1123
125.2009SPECXN::BARNESMon Dec 16 1996 16:234
125.2010LJSRV2::JCI'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox MonMon Dec 16 1996 18:486
125.2011goodbye 96SEND::SLOANseek alternate routes - expect delaysMon Dec 30 1996 12:3723
125.2012SPECXN::BARNESMon Dec 30 1996 15:005
125.2013QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Dec 30 1996 19:539
125.2014accidents suckDELNI::DSMITHIn a minute I'll be freeTue Dec 31 1996 13:514
125.2015LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Fri Jan 10 1997 16:2217
125.2016SPECXN::BARNESFri Jan 10 1997 16:244
125.2017TEPTAE::WESTERVELTFri Jan 10 1997 16:353
125.2018GRANPA::TDAVISFri Jan 10 1997 16:366
125.2019phewWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeFri Jan 10 1997 16:561
125.2020pain in the neckSUBSYS::TURCOTTEArmand TurcotteFri Jan 10 1997 16:5833
125.2021CRONIC::sms53.hlo.dec.com::notesi believe in Chemo-Girl!!!Fri Jan 10 1997 17:184
125.2022BSS::DSMITHRATDOGS DON'T BITEFri Jan 10 1997 17:365
125.2023Good luck mon.... glad to hear you're OKSUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveFri Jan 10 1997 17:527
125.2024DELNI::DSMITHIn a minute I'll be freeFri Jan 10 1997 17:536
125.2025USOPS2::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Jan 10 1997 17:558
125.2026SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Jan 10 1997 19:1421
125.2027LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Fri Jan 10 1997 20:0913
125.2028STAR::EVANSMon Jan 20 1997 16:395
125.2029GEMGRP::MILKWY::SAMPSONDriven by the windTue Feb 11 1997 11:496
I still can't get to Grateful from Milkwy. But since Robyn told me she
had no problem, I thought I'd try linking through her system. I'm glad to
be back


Geoff
125.2030DECnet weirdness on MILKWYRDVAX::LEVYRun Like an AntelopeTue Feb 11 1997 12:3623
125.2031no hunter for da ve... :^(ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Mon Feb 24 1997 13:019
    i hate it when Mondays start with a bummer...
    
    i was looking through the band's schedule for March to make up
    the next batch of mailers and found out that i have a gig on
    march 13th at the firehouse...  !@#$%^!!!!!!!!!!!!!   looks like
    i won't be seeing Robt Hunter from the 8th row center afterall...  :^(
    :^(  how could i have let that happen???????
    
    					da ve
125.2032SPECXN::BARNESMon Feb 24 1997 14:497
    re; i hate it when Mondays start with a bummer...
    
    ditto...$450.00 on new clutch for daughters Honda on Friday...Honda
    dumping entire oil contents on Monday morning...back in shop..late to
    work.
    
    rfb
125.2033SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 24 1997 12:3118
    Death don't have no mercy in this land...indeed...
    
    Friday Nite Hoot, Patty and I are groovin to Leftover Salmon whan I see 
    Shap, one of the "26-year olds" we met in Vegas in 95. Helped him out
    with rides. Said howdy and went on partyin. Shap lived in Manitou
    Springs when I met him and had moved to Leadville last winter to
    furthur his adventures in extreme snowboarding. Shap died on Pikes Peak
    last Staurday on the run known as Little Italy. His two buddies,
    extreme back-country skiers, saw most of it. He fell over 2000 feet and
    probably died on the first impact against the first bunch of rocks he
    hit. no one really knows if he slipped or fell immediately upon taking
    off on the run, but he didn't make it far before nature and God took
    over. 
    
    I went out last nite and checked out the eclipse for awhile. As the
    clouds came in and slowly obscured the moon, I said my final goodbye to
    Steve Shapiro.... 
    
125.2034GRANPA::TDAVISMon Mar 24 1997 12:395
    My Boss, and his family could use some positive vibes, his only daughter
    was killed by a drunk driver on Friday while riding her bicycle
    out in Phoenix, Arizona where she lived since graduating last
    year from Boston College.   
    
125.2035SPECXN::BARNESMon Mar 24 1997 12:491
    ..death will leave you standin and cryin in this land...
125.2036:^(WMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Mar 24 1997 12:544
    wow
    grim news all around
    
    my condolensces to both families
125.2037"feeling like it's all a lot of oysters, but no pearls"ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Mon Mar 24 1997 13:088
    groove on Shap...  while sad, he apparently left this life doing 
    what he loved most...
    
    as for Tom's boss, healing vibes abound...  no doubt a cold wind
    is blowing on the family these days...  hope the spring sun can 
    let in some light and life...
    
    					da ve
125.2038UCXAXP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 24 1997 13:4025
    Wow, I came looking for this note today, but not for want of news...
    
    A year ago this coming weekend, four teenage boys in Littleton were
    cruising a little to fast down a hill on Harvard Rd. in Littleton, when
    they skid off the road and into a ravine near my house.  All four boys
    were from Littleton, a small town of maybe  7,500 people.  One was
    killed on impact, two more were injured, one of them seriously.  The
    driver was not injured physically, but never recovered from the
    emotional impact and dropped out of high school his senior year.
    The town was devastated by the death of the grandson of one of the
    town's most active citizens.
    
    Why do I mention this?
    
    Last night, three Littleton teenagers were involved in an accident in
    Acton.  The driver, a young boy of maybe 17, was killed, and the two
    passengers, both girls, were medivac'ed into Boston.  One's in Mass
    General and the other in Boston City Hospital.  The former is in
    critical condition.
    
    On both occasions, the weather was clear but cold, and as far as I know
    there were no other vehicles involved.
    
    tim
    
125.2039QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Mar 24 1997 15:381
Sigh...
125.2040ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Mon Mar 24 1997 16:4712
    
    (vibin' so hard stuff is shaking off my cube walls)
    
    
    this is turning into a real good news day ain't it?
    
    Tim, not that it matters, and more out of curiousity than anything
    else, but is there any word on what might have caused the accidents?
    considering the conditions ("clear and cold" should be no problem)
    and the lack of other vehicles, i hafta wonder.......
    
    					da ve
125.2041UCXAXP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 24 1997 17:277
    I don't know about yesterday's accident yet.  The one a year ago was
    the result of a very inexperienced driver who realized he was going too
    fast down a long, gradual hill.  He hit the breaks on sand, and lost
    control.  I think he was charged - but I'm not sure exactly what
    charges...
    
    
125.2042LJSRV2::JCNo friends on powder daysWed Mar 26 1997 01:514
the accy last year that tim mentioned i think they went up on the
imbankment to the right, rolled the car, and off to the left it went
uinto the farmer's field... but, i'm not sure....

125.2043watch your speed!...JARETH::LARUau contraire...Wed Mar 26 1997 11:174
    yesterday's glob had a statement from the police that the cause
    of this year's event was excessive speed...
    
    /b
125.2044EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungWed Mar 26 1997 12:349
	Guntis' 82 year old dad fell down the stairs yesterday and
	broke his neck...he was airlifted to Hartford Hospital where
	they have a neck specialist...so far, the news seems good
	(as it can be) - I don't think he's paralyzed.  I am hearing
	that they are expecting a good recovery.  We are worried.

	Debess

125.2045MKOTS3::JOLLIMOREWed Mar 26 1997 12:385
	bummer.
	
	healing vibes to Guntis' dad.
	helping vibes to Guntis and you.
	
125.2046SPECXN::BARNESWed Mar 26 1997 12:533
    ditto what Jolly said.....hope all goes well.
    
    rfb
125.2047vibes aroundWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeWed Mar 26 1997 13:051
    here is to a speedy recovery
125.2048GRANPA::TDAVISWed Mar 26 1997 13:121
    Vibes from down here, hope all goes well.
125.2049BSS::DSMITHI'LL GET UP AND FLY AWAYWed Mar 26 1997 13:314
    
    Rocky Mountain vibes too both..
    
    Divide
125.2050More on the Vibe frontFABSIX::D_TODDWed Mar 26 1997 13:517
Sorry to hear the news   8-(

	wishing him a speedy recovery


	
125.2051ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Wed Mar 26 1997 14:564
    
    	oooooooOOOOOOOOoooooOOOOOOoooooooHHHHHhhhhhhhhHMMMmmmmmMMMMMMmmmmm
    
    
125.2052SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyWed Mar 26 1997 18:484
    What he said...  Yikes, hope all goes well...
    
    PeterT
    
125.2053To LifeUCXAXP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Wed Mar 26 1997 19:1347
    For the second time in less than a year, Life has visitted upon me a
    view of my worst nightmare.  I can think of nothing more tragic than
    the senseless death of a child.  In a world in which I have always felt
    that everything happens for some reason, such lessons elude me on a day
    like today.
    
    Two children, both only 16, were buried today as an entire town said
    farewell.  For this town of barely 7,500, it is the second time in
    almost exactly a year that such tragedy has struck, and it seemed
    apparent in the looks on the faces of many of the mourners.  Stunned,
    as if the numbness of grief had bleached all expression from their
    faces.  Thoughts of attending such an event for one of my own dredge me
    up from the deepest of sleeps in a cold sweat in the middle of a winter
    night.  I know it's spring already, but here, today, it is not.
    
    Littleton said goodbye to Craig Hinkley and Jordan Cone this afternoon. 
    Both friends of my own children, Jordan had visitted my home last Fall
    on Halloween - a bright and happy face, she stood out in the crowd of
    mid-teenaged kids horsing around in costume.
    
    Delayed by obligations to my work, I arrived at the end of the funeral
    at St. Anne's Church to find a crowd of hundreds overflowing the seats
    and aisles.  Standing at the back of the church, some horrible sense of
    sadness overcame me to see two caskets, side by side, as the priest
    went back to last year's funeral for Brian Crory.  Like Craig and
    Jordan, Brian was killed when the car in which he was a passenger lost
    crontrol and he lost his life.  Surely the lesson cannot be as simple
    as a need to wear seatbelts, can it?  Daniele, another teenager in
    Sunday's accident, was the only passenger wearing one, and the only
    passenger to survive, albeit with considerable injury.  Daniele is out
    of Intensive Care at Mass. General.
    
    Like Sunday, today is a bright, sunny but windy day, not one that would
    normally be the setting for such a mournful time.  Leaving the
    cemetery, I hugged my kids as they walked with their friends to spend
    more time together in solace.  As I walked towards my car, a cold wind
    cut across my face, bringing tears to my eyes all too easily.  I am
    alive, and all the urgency and compulsion of the daily routine pales
    before these events.  I cannot imagine a lesson so important that it
    costs the lives of children to impart its message.  Who would presume
    to understand a message that could be so important?
    
    Hold close your loved ones today, my friends.  Nothing else really
    matters.  
    
    tim
    
125.2054ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Wed Mar 26 1997 19:2212
    
    fine...  like i wasn't bummed out before....    :^(
    
    
    but i have to agree bud...  life...  live it, taste it, smell it, 
    feel it, see it, hear it, experience it, savor it, share it, 
    revel in it, for it is all too fleeting...  and when it's gone,
    there's not much to be done for it except to say goodbye....... 
    
    so, does anyone need another reason to hug somebody today???
    
    					da ve 
125.2055SPECXN::BARNESWed Mar 26 1997 19:245
    i need a beer........
    
    Tim...well said my friend...ditto da ve....
    
    rfb_outa here
125.2056JARETH::LARUau contraire...Wed Mar 26 1997 19:2510
125.2057EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungThu Mar 27 1997 12:4012
	ugh.  Tim, what a picture you've painted.  We hear these stories
	so often - and they are just statistics to us - but when you
	know them personally, the tragedy cuts deeper.  

	I think /bruce may be correct - that is the lesson I get from
	tragedies such as this - show the ones you love that you do while
	you can.  Love is really all there is.

	take care,
	Debess

125.20588-(SUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Mar 27 1997 17:199
    
    Tim,
    
    that was beautiful but very painful. my heart goes out to you
    and the families of the children. you never know when it's
    your last day so live them all to the fullest.
    
    
    Toby
125.2059SUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Mar 27 1997 17:206
    
    Debess,
    
    healing vibes to Guntis' grampa....
    
    hope he's doing better
125.2060USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Mar 27 1997 17:295
    
    What a shame.  Unfortunately, its hard telling a teenager that they are
    not immortal.  Very very sad. 
    
    	Mark
125.2061USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyThu Mar 27 1997 17:314
    hey debbess,
      Lots of vibes to guntis and the family.
    
    	Mark
125.2062SPECXN::BARNESFri Mar 28 1997 11:3611
    re;
    
        What a shame.  Unfortunately, its hard telling a teenager that they
    are
        not immortal.  Very very sad.
    
    yep...saw two kids yesterady about 14 zipping thru crawling 
    traffic on a "murder-cycle"doin about 60, kid in back had no helmet on
    and was barely holding on...made me shiver to watch...
    
    rfb
125.2063NIOSS1::LEEMon Mar 31 1997 13:2210
    Tim,
    
    You made me all weepy here in my cube...very very sad and tragic.
    
    I've instituted a personal policy in the last few years of making
    sure nothing is "left unsaid" with those that I love--I've never
    been good at hiding my emotions, but I'm trying to tell everyone
    how I feel about them a lot more often these days..
    
    Alicia
125.2064UCXAXP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Mar 31 1997 15:4120
    As a follow up to this story, on Friday I drove my daughter and three
    of her friends to Mass. General to visit Daniele, the surviving
    passenger.  I didn't realize until Friday that the "Mass." in Mass.
    General actually stands for Massive.
    
    Daniele was freed of the resperator on Tuesday and able to have
    visitors shortly thereafter.  Fourteen teenagers crowded her small room
    while they watched a videotape of dozens of her classmates who had
    gathered that afternoon at Oak Hill Conservation to send their get well
    wishes.  Today, Daniele is moving to a rehabilitation center in Salem
    NY.
    
    Jeff Smith, the driver of the car, was still in  intensive care at MGH
    on Friday..
    
    Gradually, life is coming back around to normal, or so it seems.
    
    
    tim
    
125.2065EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSseeking all thats stil unsungWed Apr 02 1997 13:254
Ram Dass had a stroke on Wednesday February 19
and is in a wheelchair, but learning to walk
and talk again, slowly. 

125.2066SPECXN::BARNESWed Apr 02 1997 14:032
    WHOA! there's a piece of news I missed! See what that 'cid does to ya!
    %^)
125.2067Address for Get-well cards to Ram DassFOUNDR::OUIMETTEZat was Zen, Dis is Dao...Fri Apr 04 1997 21:3117
    
    	Thanks for posting that info, Debess, I hadn't heard about that.. I 
    did some web cruising, and found the following address for sending 
    cards/flowers, for anyone interested (and April 6th is his Birthday!):
    
    From: http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Heights/1143/ramdass.html
    
Ram Dass c/o
524 San Anselmo Avenue
San Anselmo, CA 94960
    
	BTW, the web site also has regular updates on his condition, and
    lots of other cool links to other related sites...
    
    
    -Chuck
    
125.2068getting dark, too dark to seeEVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSthe ghosts of 'lectricity HOWLMon Apr 07 1997 18:0146
	whatever good sh*t is coming da ve's way in conjunction with
	the comet's appearance (and he's right - he deserves it!!),
	it seems like all the bummers that were following him around
	last year have found someone new -> Guntis :-(

	we saw his dad over Easter, home from the hospital with his broken 
	neck in this big plastic collar thing - and every visible bit of
	his body black and blue from the tumble down the stairway - and I
	imagine every bit not visible was pretty bruised up too.

	we knew the recovery would be a long one - but he's a strong guy - 
	so we were feeling quite hopeful.

	at his checkup on Tuesday last week, it was determined that the
	vertebra was cracked too much, and that if it moved at all, it
	might cause paralysis.

	so, he was back in the hospital on Saturday, having some bone
	from his hip fused to his neck bone and some steel plates inserted
	to stabilize things.  When they opened him up, they discovered that
	more than one vertebra had been broken (why didn't xrays show this,
	I wonder)

	when he gets out of the hospital in a few days, he will go into
	a convalescent home to recover.

	last night, when Guntis returned from working up north all weekend,
	he called his mom.  After he got off the phone he said to me
	"things don't sound so good" - and I thought he was talking about
	his dad.  Nope, he said his mother sounded like she couldn't catch
	her breath, she's having trouble swallowing, in some sort of constant 
	pain that is keeping her awake at night.

	he called her again this morning - no answer.  He was concerned 
	because of the way she was talking last night, and didn't think that
	she would be able to even go up and down the stairs where they live,
	so how come she didn't answer the phone.
	He made a call to one of her neighbors to check on her, and it turns
	out that she too is in the hospital, called an ambulance herself
	this morning.

	I knew that we would be dealing with this kindof stuff as our
	parents got older, but all at once?

	Debess
125.2069still have access but not for longRECV::SLOANWind in the willows plays tea for twoMon Apr 07 1997 18:077
    
    Geez Debess sounds like Guntis is having his share of worries. Please
    send him our best wishes for speedy recoveries for his Mom and Dad!
    
    And ditto on the good news with Da ve. What's up with that?
    
    S l o a n
125.2070ICS::SMITHDESo many roadsMon Apr 07 1997 18:5210
    
    Debess...make sure Guntis knows I'm thinking of him and his parents.
    
    Todays technology will truely benefit Guntis's Dad.
    
    I've found (especially with my grandparents) that when one goes through
    a dip, the other dips as well.  I think it has to do with telepathy or
    being with that person for so long...or somthing like that.  Certainly, 
    if the person I loved for all my adult life suddenly fell ill, I too 
    would fall ill.
125.2071Cubes abuzzWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeMon Apr 07 1997 19:028
    
    good vibes coming  your way debess....
    
    
    deane i can relate
    
    my great aunt grace passed away exactly one year to the day that her
    husband...great uncle joe did
125.2072I would not feel so all aloneEVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSthe ghost of 'lectricity HOWLsMon Apr 07 1997 19:1910
    
>    my great aunt grace passed away exactly one year to the day that her
>    husband...great uncle joe did

	when my brother was living in Hartford, his landlords were this
	very old couple.  Just like Chris' great aunt and uncle - these
	two old lovers died on the same date - one year apart.

	Definately not coincidental, I'd say...

125.2073ohhmmmmmmmm....ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Mon Apr 07 1997 19:214
    big vibes coming at Guntis and Debess and familiy from this
    corner of the cube world too.........
    
    					da ve
125.2074QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyMon Apr 07 1997 19:373
Hale-Bopp is innocent!  But best health wishes to Guntis's folks.

PeterT
125.2075UCXAXP::GRADYSquash that bug! (tm)Mon Apr 07 1997 20:375
    Debess,
    
    Big vibes to Guntis & Family from here too!
    
    
125.2076USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyTue Apr 08 1997 11:115
    
    hey debbess,
      tell Guntis he's got my vibes coming at him.
    
    	Mark
125.2077SPECXN::BARNESTue Apr 08 1997 13:248
    Healing vibes and thought yer way, Debess and Guntis and family. I can
    relate, having had my dad go thru several heart-attacks last summer and both
    my mom and dad have a flu right now that hasn't been too kind to older
    people. 
    
    Keep da faith
    
    rfb
125.2078GRANPA::TDAVISTue Apr 08 1997 15:3811
    Healing vibes on the way from down yonder. Several years ago
    my Father had a stroke, and was out of it for 28 days (95% recovered)
    during the time he was hospitalized, my Mom falls at home, and hurts
    her hip, and cannot walk.. or visit him in Hospital, as he is coming
    out of a coma like condition, he keeps asking for my mother, where is
    she etc... My Mother wants to keep her fall from him so as not
    to add additional stress... two parents being ill at the same time
    is very difficult. 
    
    
    
125.2079SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobeljeff strobelTue Apr 08 1997 17:535
more vibes headed toward Debess, Guntis & family.



mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
125.2080matty d is a cool dudeWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeTue Apr 08 1997 19:039
    more news from the files of "this sucks"
    
    my budy matty is in the hospital for a collapsed lung and was supposed
    to be released yesterday or today
    
    due to complications he is staying in for further observations and
    possible surgery to get it reinflated
    
    think good thoughts
125.2081ALFA2::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Tue Apr 08 1997 19:093
    (da ve puts on thinking cap)
    
    coolthoughtscoolthoughtscoolthoughtscoolthoughts...............
125.2082toughSEND::SLOANWind in the willows plays tea for twoTue Apr 08 1997 19:194
    
    Matty D - who's mom died this past winter? what hospital?
    
    sloan
125.2083SPECXN::BARNESTue Apr 08 1997 19:203
    wow...collapsed lung??  vibes goin out....
    
    rfb
125.2084stop on byWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeTue Apr 08 1997 19:215
    yes
    
    he is in nashua regional memorial
    
    room 311B
125.2085what's worse is this pain in here...EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESSand the wind began to HOWLTue Apr 08 1997 20:035
	thanks for all the vibes, folks, 'ppreciate it most sincerely!

	I'll turn around and send some of my own out to Matty --------<@

125.2086hope everyone gets better real soonSUBPAC::BEAULIEULike A steam LocomotiveThu Apr 10 1997 14:294
    
    Vibes to Guntis' folks and Matty D
    
    Toby
125.2087:^)WMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Apr 10 1997 14:419
    
    Stopped over Nashua Memorial yesterday to find an empty bed in room
    311B
    
    
    matty is at home in Dover....
    
    
    thanks folks.........it REALLY does help
125.2088SPECXN::BARNESThu Apr 10 1997 14:531
    good news!!!!!!!!!!
125.2089eat it...ICS::SMITHDESo many roadsThu Apr 10 1997 16:306
    
    Hey thats great!
    
    I certainly hope I don't see him smoking anything next time we're
    hangin out.  Tell Matty to get in touch with me...I've been forced into
    the same situation (no smoke) and have some grate new recipes!!!! 
125.2090TEPTAE::WESTERVELTThu Apr 10 1997 17:292
    debess - peace
125.2091RDVAX::ROBERTSThu Apr 10 1997 17:563
    debess & guntis ... hang in ... hoping all is well
    
    carol & john 
125.2092Well wishesFABSIX::D_TODDSun Apr 13 1997 22:5624
    Perhaps the warmer weather will help play a bigger role in recovery.
		   Gotta love all that extra sun!!


      Tons of vibes and sun's healing rays to all still working their
		  way back to healthful happiness.

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125.2093not me or mine, but a good friend...QUARRY::petertrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyThu Apr 17 1997 18:5934
A good friend of mine, Carl, is going through some tough times. Carl and
I go WAY back.  Born on the same day in the same hospital (not that we 
knew it at the time ;-)  In the same boy scout troop, high school.  Share
interests in sciene fiction (and Babylon 5), astronomy and certain recreational
uh, things.  He's been up to visit me in MA more than any of my relative have
(if only to look through my telescope ;-)
Carl got married to Gianna about 4 years ago, a nice Italian girl who's
parents immigrated and settled in an Italian neighborhood, never bothering
to learn much English.  Gianna's father passed on about 3 years ago from
cancer.  Tragic, but it had been coming for a while.  Carl and Gianna
have since had 2 kids, Katherine, about 16 months old, and Melissa,
just 6 weeks old.  They're all fine, but 2 weeks ago, Gianna's mom had
a massive heart attack late at night.  Since the mom doesn't speak much
English, and Gianna is the only relative, she had to leave at 2AM to 
head off to the hospital in NJ, about 2 1/2 hours from Carl's and Gianna's
house on Long Island.  To make matters worse, Gianna doesn't drive that
much, and certainly not well enough to get all the way to the hospital.
So they hired a car that night.  I don't know what they've been doing since.
Her mom seemed to improve after the first weekend, but has had a relapse
since.  Gianna's spent a lot of time at the hospital since she's the only
one they can communicate with, and they're calling when she isn't there.
Bad as this is, it's been complicated with the newborn.  Gianna hasn't been
home for much more then 24 hrs at a stretch in the past 2 weeks, and even
if her mom improves, she probably won't be able to care for herself 
anymore.  Carl's had to take time off and, working for a financial consulting
firm on Wall Street, his employers are getting a bit impatient, as they are
rather busy and Carl basically runs the computer system there.  So they've
all been under a lot of stress lately.

Sigh... life can turn on you pretty quick sometimes.  I think I'll send
down a few Hale-Bopp photos, as I don't know when I'll get down there in 
the near future.

PeterT
125.2094heading to nuevoy york and jollyjayWMOIS::LEBLANCCAll good things in all good timeThu Apr 17 1997 19:023
    vibes all around
    
    
125.2095ALFA1::DWESTi believe in chemo girl!Thu Apr 17 1997 19:351
    more here....
125.2096when will spring get sprung?SEND::SLOANWind in the willows plays tea for twoThu Apr 17 1997 19:376
    
    some fishing and some slipknot will help jay i hope.
    
    Good luck and quick recovery to your buddy's family PeterT.
    
    sloan
125.2097BSS::DSMITHI'LL GET UP AND FLY AWAYThu Apr 17 1997 19:524
    
    Some western vibes for your buddy!
    
     Divide
125.2098Calamity SloanSEND::SLOANWind in the willows plays tea for twoMon May 05 1997 18:3215
              
    Well my VW is heading to the shop for repairs again. Some yoyo drove
    into my car's rear end while I was stopped with my blinker on to turn
    on to Bruce.  He said, 'I just didn't see you'.  He was going about
    30mi/hr. at the time.
    
    Went to have x-rays on my neck today. got some pain killers and muscle
    relaxers (for after today's margaritt's)..
    
    I'm getting to know the accident/claims/insurance/dr's. drill pretty
    well.
    
    what don't kill you makes you stronger .. 
    
    Cath