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Conference lgp30::christian-perspective

Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
Notice:Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome!
Moderator:CSC32::J_CHRISTIE
Created:Mon Sep 17 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1362
Total number of notes:61362

9.0. "The Processing Topic" by EDIT::SMITH (Passionate committment/reasoned faith) Wed Oct 03 1990 15:47

    Use this string to question policies, etc., relative to how all other
    strings are handled.  (If mods are open to this, that is!)  This is
    a very useful approach in at least one other conference.
    
    For example:  How come you let note xxx stand but questioned my note
    yyy?  Doesn't note ababa violate the mumblefritz agreement?
    
    Nancy 
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9.1"hurts and manners"?XANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 03 1990 15:5511
re Note 9.0 by EDIT::SMITH:

>     Use this string to question policies, etc., relative to how all other
>     strings are handled.  (If mods are open to this, that is!)  

        We are VERY open to this!

        (I had my doubts about the title "processing" -- it has none
        of the above connotations to me.  But I'm sure I can learn!)

        Bob
9.2What's on your heart and mind?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEA Higher CallingWed Oct 03 1990 15:573
This note to deal with matters of concern and peripheral interactions
within this conference.

9.9moderator requestXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 15:4610
re Note 27.66 by CSC32::MORGAN:

        Mikie,

        Would you please refrain from using the term "Bible bangers"? 
        I personally find it offensive, and I can imagine others
        would, too.  (There is precedent for requesting the avoidance
        of certain terms, e.g., "Pro-abortionist".)

        Bob
9.10moderator request (start a new topic)XANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 15:5214
        Mikie,

        It is not at all clear to me that your notes 27.62-27.68
        address the topic "Apparent Errors in the Bible" at all.

        Perhaps you meant to start a new topic?  It would seem that
        you are writing about common misconceptions about the Bible.

        (In any event, the title you've been using "Satanic Verses,
        part N of 7" is totally uninformative about the content of
        the notes -- perhaps it IS informative of where you are
        coming from?)

        Bob
9.3Satanism?DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerTue Oct 16 1990 16:096
I submit this question for general discussion: is it appropriate to discuss
Satanism in this conference?  Why or why not?  I have my own thoughts about
this but I'd like to hear what others have to say.  (Of course, a lot of
people have already voted with their feet, so to speak.)

				-- Bob
9.4CSC32::J_CHRISTIEA Higher CallingTue Oct 16 1990 16:1510
    I'm of the opinion that the wall of Christianity is able to withstand a
    few tomatoes hurled against it.  Mikie is one of my favorite tomato
    hurlers. 8-) He prods.  He pokes.  He makes us uncomfortable.  In this
    sense, Mikie is something of a prophet. (Sorry if that offends you,
    Mikie!)
    
    Let's do something different with this prophet.  Let's *not* stone him.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.13quote with careXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 16:5914
re Note 27.72 by CSC32::MORGAN:

>     I didn't use the term "Bible Bangers." It was a quote of Loren. A short
>     look at the header will indicate who is responsible for the term. 

        A simple rule -- if you put it here, you're responsible for
        it.


>     Would you agree that apparent errors includes hypocracy [sic]?

        No.    
    
        Bob
9.14mod commentXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 17:1131
re Note 27.74 by CSC32::MORGAN:

>     It is the current convention that where as articles over 100 lines
>     should be broken up they should also be numbered in order.
  
        No it isn't -- the current convention (in this conference) is
        that IF AT ALL POSSIBLE each participant in a discussion
        limit themselves to about 100 lines or less per exchange in a
        dialogue.  

        In fact, if you must use more than 100 lines for a single
        exchange, please keep it together in one note.

        Breaking a long monologue into multiple contiguous bits does
        nothing to maintain the flow of discussion.

        (Note that, if you are responding to more than one note or
        point, you may use separate replies, even in succession.)


>     Satanic Verses comes from Salmon Rushdie's book SATANIC VERSES. We all
>     know what happened to him.
>     But for those who haven't read the paper in the last two years Salmon
>     Rushdie published his book which contained an elightening commentary on
>     Mohammed's trip in a cave where he received instruction from Allah.
>     Because of this commentary his DEATH was ordered.
  
        Yeah, so what does that have to do with the text in your
        notes?

        Bob
9.7Can we ignore something that *is*?BSS::VANFLEETNoting in tonguesTue Oct 16 1990 17:5010
    I agree with Richard.  We need to explore even those topics that make
    us feel uncomfortable.  If we live with our heads in the sand all we
    can really witness to is the qualities of sand, which don't necessarily
    apply to the myriad of gifts God has seen fit to grace our existence
    with.
    
    (But I'd call Mikie a "fiery prophet" rather than a "tomato
    prophet".)  ;-)
    
    Nanci
9.17OKXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 17:5418
re Note 27.81 by CSC32::MORGAN:

>        ... -- the current convention (in this conference) is
>        that IF AT ALL POSSIBLE each participant in a discussion
>        limit themselves to about 100 lines or less per exchange in a
>        dialogue.  
>
>        In fact, if you must use more than 100 lines for a single
>        exchange, please keep it together in one note.

    Ok. I'll do that in the future or now, you decide.

        The future will be soon enough.

        (By "I'll do that", do you mean both "keep it together" AND
        "limit to about 100 lines or less per exchange"?  I hope so.)

        Bob
9.15CARTUN::BERGGRENPlease, don't squeeze the shaman...Tue Oct 16 1990 18:0123
    Mikie,
    
    > Let's take the human mind out of the box.  Let's rev it up, squeel
    > the tires and see what it will do.
    
    It's apparent to me that you enjoy doing this Mikie and can do it
    rather well.  I've learned a lot from some of your notes in the past
    year, not that I agree with some of the ideas you put forth in them.
    
    > Let's put the human mind to good use and develop a Christian
    > philosophy worthy of the knowledge and power of the 21st century. 
    > Let's do it right, or not at all.
    
    If this is your intention, it is a surprise to me based upon the notes
    you've entered here thus far.   What interest would you, an agnostic, 
    have in developing a Christian philosophy for the 21st century?
    And how could an agnostic provide leadership in Christian philosophy?
    
    Karen
    
    p.s.  My opinion is that discussions of Satanism are appropriate
          for the Religion conference.
    
9.19explanation of recent movesXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Oct 16 1990 18:055
        I just moved a whole bunch of notes between Mikie Morgan and
        myself, in my moderator capacity, from the "Apparent Errors
        in the Bible" topic to this one (Processing).

        Bob
9.21continue discussionBTOVT::BEST_Gyou are living in eternal mindTue Oct 16 1990 18:5820
    
    The discussion of Satanism here does not seem totally out of place.
    
    If one was to go to counseling sessions trying to "get to the bottom"
    of his/herself, then would it be wise to simply ignore the shadow side
    of oneself?
    
    Jung (who some might say was a Christian mystic, as well as a psych-
    iatrist) would probably have been all for such discussions (FWIW).
    
    I think it's this inability to face this side of things that cripples
    Fundamentalist Christianity.
    
    This is not to suggest that we become Satanists - just that we be
    allowed to question with good intentions the firmly held convictions
    of old.
    
    Who's afraid of the big, bad wolf? :-)
    
    guy
9.22SA1794::SEABURYMZen: It's not what you thinkWed Oct 17 1990 00:3512
    
      Here's a radical idea. Let's let those who wish to discuss
    Satanism have at it and those who don't want to can ignore
    the discussion can note around it.
    
    
    
    
    
    
                                                       Mike
                                                                                   
9.23Protest to ModeratorsANKH::SMITHPassionate committment/reasoned faithWed Oct 17 1990 00:4042
    re: .50
    
    >Blasphemy really isn't such a crime when viewed in a different light.
    ><Snicker>
   > 
   > I'd also like to remind you that Satanism, like every other religious
   > scheme in the U.S. is PROTECTED BY LAW.  I'd also like to remind you
   > that I am NOT a Satanist, but rather an agnostic. You could stick
   > around and try to convince this poor deluded agnostic of the error os
   > his ways.
   > 
   > My intentions here were not to destroy the Christian religion (I can't
   > do that anyway, it's *beyond* my power) but to expose hypocracy and
   > ignorance.
    
    Once again, I strongly protest the *tone* of this note, especially in
    this conference.  I especially protest it if Mikie's sarcasm and
    "smarter-than-thou" attitude is what is driving away those in
    3.47-3.49.  
    
    Those of us who espouse *Christian* perspectives that differ strongly
    with Barry's, Irena's, and Collis's have enough problems -- and cause
    enough problems to our more fundamentalist brothers and sisters -- 
    without tolerating Mikie's inappropriate and unacceptable notes.
    
    I just spent several months working successfully to remove an
    emotional abuser from my local church community.  It was our years of
    silent tolerance of his beahvior that kept our church from growing.
    
    Because of that experience and what we learned there, I cannot sit
    quietly by without speaking out against what I view as Mikie's
    harrassment of people in this file.
    
    I feel no Christian responsibility whatsoever to be hospitable to
    harrassment and abuse.
    
    I call on the moderators to take some kind of appropriate action and to
    then inform Barry, Irena, and Collis of that action (whatever it may
    be), in case Mikie's notes were the precipitating factor in their
    leaving.  
    
    Nancy Smith
9.25is that appropriate?XANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 17 1990 14:1916
re Note 9.22 by SA1794::SEABURYM:

>       Here's a radical idea. Let's let those who wish to discuss
>     Satanism have at it and those who don't want to can ignore
>     the discussion can note around it.
  
        That's certainly an option.

        It would also be an option to have a group of notes expressly
        for the discussion of Buddhism, or the stock market.

        Would either or both be appropriate here, especially when
        there are other conferences that expressly allow for such
        topics?

        Bob
9.26WILLEE::FRETTSAncient Mother I feel Your laughterWed Oct 17 1990 14:3121
    
    
    It seems to me that Satan and Satanism are concepts held by both
    Christians and Muslims (I think? - correct me if I am wrong on the
    Muslim faith).  Very often I read or hear Christians saying that
    Satan has control of the world, or this type of activity is 
    satanic.  IMO, a discussion of Satan and Satanism is very appropriate
    here.  There are many things in this world that are labeled satanic
    that have nothing at all to do with it.  Isn't it better to be able
    to have information shared on this and to have some clarity on the
    different perspectives?
    
    Regarding Mikie's presentation of his material and opinions - yes,
    I think that there are many different ways he could express what
    he has to share that would be less disruptive and "button-pushing".
    I understand what he is doing, but confrontation does not always
    go over well.  I must say that I always learn something though,
    and different feelings get stirred up - and this I appreciate.
    
    Carole
    
9.27ClarificationANKH::SMITHPassionate committment/reasoned faithWed Oct 17 1990 14:3313
>   < I just spent several months working successfully to remove an
>   < emotional abuser from my local church community.  It was our years of
>   < silent tolerance of his beahvior that kept our church from growing.
>   
>    Congrats, you did something. Perhaps you'd like to read my Clergy Abuse
>    topic in ::Religion. If more persons were like you at least 200 major
>    crimes would have be averted.
    
    In case anyone cares, the person removed from office in our local
    church was a layman, not a member of the clergy.  In our church system,
    it is *much* easier to remove a pastor -- with or without cause -- than
    to affect the status of a lay member.
    
9.28Still hereXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonWed Oct 17 1990 14:4113
I'm still here.  I have been thinking the last day about how to respond
to Mikie's notes.  I *hate* so say that I won't respond, since I often
will.  But, in my mind, I think that I'm not very tempted to respond to
what Mike has to say anymore.  Because I don't think that he's interested
in an honest pursuit of truth.  Rather, he's interested (as far as I can
tell) in bashing this and bashing that.  (Or as he might say, "stirring
things up".)

Correct me if I'm wrong, Mikie (which distinguishes you from the other
"Mike's around).  You have yet to correct any of the perceptions of you
that I have offered, so I continue to believe what I have said.

Collis
9.29XANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 17 1990 14:5112
re Note 9.26 by WILLEE::FRETTS:

>     It seems to me that Satan and Satanism are concepts held by both
>     Christians and Muslims (I think? - correct me if I am wrong on the
>     Muslim faith).  Very often I read or hear Christians saying that
>     Satan has control of the world, or this type of activity is 
>     satanic.  

        I said nothing against a discussion of Satan, just Satanism. 
        We have had such a topic for quite a while.

        Bob
9.30WILLEE::FRETTSAncient Mother I feel Your laughterWed Oct 17 1990 15:0910
    
    
    Hi Bob,
    
    I guess I don't see a distinction in discussion.  Could you explain
    for me what you see as the distinction, as far as discussion in
    this conference is concerned?
    
    Thanks,
    Carole
9.31elaborationXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 17 1990 15:1916
        Satanism, by my understanding, is a system or teaching and
        belief centered on the worship of and/or following of Satan
        as "Lord."

        I think that a discussion of "a system or teaching and belief
        centered on the worship of and/or following of Satan as
        'Lord'" is a non-Christian topic.

        Satan is a term used in the Bible for a personification of
        evil -- the enemy of the good.  As such is is unquestionably
        a Christian topic.

        While I can understand that you might not agree that the gulf
        is as wide as I think it is, certainly they are different.

        Bob
9.32DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Oct 17 1990 15:2811
Re: .31 Bob

I agree that Satanism and Christianity are different religions.  However, I
think that Mikie and others are entitled to write notes countering
misinformation (as they see it) about Satanism entered by other people.

In a mail message Mikie agreed to move his Satanism notes to RELIGION and have
only a pointer to these notes in C-P.  However, since then he's written a note
which seems to indicate that he's dropping out of C-P.

				-- Bob
9.34a rhetorical responseXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 17 1990 15:4111
re Note 9.33 by CSC32::MORGAN:

>     I'm asking you to take the tape off the Turing Machine
>     and respond to me in genuine dialogue. I'm asking you to think.
  
        Mikie,

        I suspect that you misunderstand both Turing Machines and
        people.

        Bob
9.40don't knock my background, it's almost all I've gotXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 17 1990 16:5716
re Note 9.39 by CSC32::MORGAN:

>     My point is that it is sometimes difficult to
>     determine if I'm conversing with a human or an automation. Automations
>     are dull and gray. No life. Humans have spark, fire and passion. 
  
        But humanity, and all that is considered human, requires
        those "tapes", if by the tapes you mean the individual's and
        community's tradition, writings, legends, moral precepts,
        culture, etc.

        Certainly, those tapes should not be merely recited;  but a
        human who could not draw from the well of individual and
        community background would hardly be human at all!

        Bob
9.42SA1794::SEABURYMZen: It's not what you thinkThu Oct 18 1990 01:1812
    re.25
    
          My guess is that any such rathole that is so very
       far removed from the basic purpose of this conference
       would soon die a natural death.     
          So, I guess you could say that my opinion about any
       digression from the intent of this forum would be. 
       "Don't worry it'll go away soon enough".
    
    
                                                       Mike
          
9.45WILLEE::FRETTSAncient Mother I feel Your laughterThu Oct 18 1990 13:5017
    RE: .44 Mikie
    
    >  I speculate that this is the real meaning of the Garden myth. But that
    >  wasn't a fall, it was an elevation from animal consciousness to human
                      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    >  consciousness. A climb in status we haven't fully dealt with.
       ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
        
    I have been thinking about a similar concept based on something
    I read recently.  That the so-called fall from the garden may have
    been a shift from something similar to 2-dimensional reality to
    3-dimensional reality.  A shift in consciousness - a shift to 
    self-awareness.  I also feel that humankind is very close to 
    another shift.
    
    Carole
9.46bridgingATSE::FLAHERTYStrength lies in the quiet mindThu Oct 18 1990 13:596
    Carole (.45),
    
    Yes, Carole I very much agree with your perceptions.  
    
    Ro
    
9.47radically opposite viewsGOLF::BERNIERThe Organic ChristianThu Oct 18 1990 18:459
    Carole,
    
      well, from my Christian perspective on your reasoning I guess that man 
    is headed for another low. I believe the Fall to be just that, a fall.
    I also believe that the Bible talks about a time great apostacy tat is
    coming. If you the Fall as a rising up, then perhaps the next rising up 
    that you refer to will be seen by me as another falling (apostacy).
    
    Gil
9.48yeah, but...GOLF::BERNIERThe Organic ChristianThu Oct 18 1990 19:3420
    To the mods,
    
      I just read the definition of Christianity that is to be used for
    this conference. Not bad.
    
    A question though, what about the teachings of Paul, John, Peter,
    James,etc. - are these to be considered since they are based on the
    teachings of Jesus?  What about the Old Testament from which many of Jesus'
    teaching have their basis?
    
    
    Again, I am not trying to tell you how to run this conference (I have
    enough to kepp tabs on in that "other" one:-) - but I find it hard to
    seperate the teachings of Jesus from the other parts of the Bible. They
    are intertwined like the threads of a banner proclaiming the Glory of
    God.
    
      I admire you for trying to set a usable standard. It's a tough call.
    
    Gil
9.49DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Oct 18 1990 19:4910
Re: .48  Gil

I don't think "based on the teachings of Jesus" means "based *only* on the
teachings of Jesus".  That's why we said that we intended to interpret the
definition in an inclusive way.  Different Christian sects accept different
sources of authority.  I'd think that Mormonism, Gnosticism, etc. would be
suitable subjects for discussion, and of course the epistles etc. are very
much part of Christianity.

				-- Bob
9.50WILLEE::FRETTSAncient Mother I hear Your songThu Oct 18 1990 22:2517
    
    RE: .47
    
    Hi Gil,
    
    Yes, I understand that we are at "radically opposite views" on this
    topic.  For me, I don't necessarily accept the Genesis story in
    the Bible "as is", nor do I accept that humanity "fell".
    
    Actually, I ponder on some possibilities that most would feel are
    "way out there" ;-), and don't feel at this time that this is the
    forum where I want to get into any discussions about them.
    
    But I can fully accept where you are coming from on this, Gil.
    
    Carole
9.51I do judge beliefsCARTUN::BERGGRENGo now and do heart work...Wed Oct 31 1990 17:0862
    I'd like to offer a few thoughts as a participant (not co-mod) on 
    the concerns Jamey noted in the first paragraph of 91.48: 
    
    > First, it seems to me that the level of tolerance for 'fundamental' 
    > Christian beliefs here is pretty low.  I don't mind the questioning 
    > and disagreeing with the, but the spirit seems to be more derision 
    > than anything else...
    
    Since this is a conference which welcomes differing viewpoints on 
    Christianity, questioning and disagreements will be very evident 
    in the discussions as we've seen.  If the questioning becomes a 
    ridiculing of one for their beliefs it does not serve anyone's best 
    interest.  I have not seen where derision or riduculing is the
    pervading spirit of this conference toward fundamentlist beliefs.  
    I have seen isolated instances where both conservative and liberal 
    viewpoints have contained language that can be construed as such.  
    With emotions running deep on some issues, I know I have come close 
    to writing derisively myself on occasion, although I hope and pray I 
    have not done this to anyone through my notes.
    
    > I find the label of intolerance offensive...
    
    This is a sincere question - is there another word you would prefer
    that isn't offensive?  Narrow?  Strict?
    
    > The lip service to valuing others beliefs is shallow and 
    > hypocritical.
    
    The corporate policy (speaking as a moderator now) we seek to adhere 
    to in this conference is to value others, to value differences, to 
    appreciate the richness a group offers through the diversity of
    hamanity that each person brings to this conference.  Some
    participants, myself included, also hold this as a personal value in 
    their hearts.  It is difficult, if not impossible however, to insure 
    that we can extend that policy to people valuing the *beliefs* of 
    others when those beliefs are contradictory.  
    
    I value *you* Jamey, (I think you *know* that I do :-)) and I know 
    your beliefs have value for you, but it would be hyprocritcal for me 
    to claim that I value them (all of them) because some of them are in 
    conflict with my own.  Regardless, I try to address you with the 
    respect and dignity we share as a brethren human beings.  
    
    > Most here really do not want to hear the 'fundmental' Christian 
    > viewpoints and sit in judgement of them.
    
    Speaking for myself, I _do_ want to hear the 'fundamental' Christian 
    viewpoints;  I try to be open to them; I listen, and think about 
    them, sometimes I've prayed to understand;  but yes, in the final 
    analysis, I do sit in judgement of them.  My judgement consists of
    determining/feeling whether or not they speak to me more than the 
    beliefs already in my heart.  If they speak to me more, I begin to 
    change.  I try my best to not judge _people_ however, and God sees 
    to it that I get a chance to work on this everyday.  Bless His and 
    Her Soul.
    
    My thoughts and prayers are with you Jamey and anyone else who feels 
    similarly.
    
    Love,
    Karen
     
9.52Rethinking...ANKH::SMITHPassionate committment/reasoned faithWed Oct 31 1990 18:5792
   I am not pleased with myself!  I am not pleased with much of my noting in
   this conference.  It will take a bit to explain my thinking, so please
   don't jump to any conclusions until the end.  

   I came to this conference with false expectations:

	- I looked at GOLF::CHRISTIAN and saw (from *my* point of view) a
	  conference that created a "safe space" for conservative Christians!
	  I saw (again from *my* point of view) a conference that, because of
	  its stated beliefs, does not fully value the differences of Gays and
	  Lesbians, of New Agers, of liberal Christians, etc.  But it appeared
	  to be a place where people of like mind could share and grow.  I try
	  -- not always successfully!!! :-( -- to respect the principles and
	  foundations of that conference when I note there.  I sometimes
	  strongly state a totally opposite viewpoint, but I try to respect the
	  differences of the majority.

	- I looked at the WOMANNOTES conference and saw a conference that
	  attempts to create a "safe space" for women and their concerns.
	  (Its success varies a great deal, but it *does* try and has
	  guidelines to further that goal.)  I participate in that conference
          from time to time.

	- When I heard about C-P, I was thrilled at the prospect of a conference
	  that would be a "safe space" for "liberal" Christian sharing and
	  discussion.  At last I could talk about things in a way that was
	  forbidden in CHRISTIAN!  I could avoid, or overlook, challenges
	  from a Biblical-literalist position.  I could hear the experiences
	  of other Christians who also felt inhibited in the CHRISTIAN
	  conference.  I was excited at the prospects!  However, my hopes and
          expectations have been only partially fulfilled.

NOTE:
   By a "safe space," I mean a place where discussions from the specific
   perspective (whatever it may be) can take place without sarcasm, insults,
   or condemnations from people who are admittedly outside of that perspective.
   I mean a place where "outsiders" (those who *by their own admission* differ
   with the conference's perspective) recognize that they are there as "guests"
   and so *try* to be polite and considerate, even when they hotly disagree.

   Well, what I found here has been interesting (to say the least!).  I realize
   that many of my *expectations* were unfounded!!  What I have experienced
   here is *not* the fault of the moderators but of my having unrealistic,
   unfounded expectations. 

   I expected openness and the kind of behavior described above.  At times 
   when I found the opposite, I was quick to jump in and "defend" whatever
   group I felt was being "put down," in hopes of protecting that desired
   openness and "safe space."  It seems to have backfired nearly every time!!
   :-( 

   - When I felt that Mikie was being unfair to conservatives, I strongly
     protested -- only to have the person I was "defending" object to my
     criticism of Mikie!

   - When I felt that Gays and Lesbians were being denied a "safe space" 
     here, I spoke out, and again felt that other noters considered the
     objectionable comments to be proper.

   Well, who am I to be defending other folks anyway????  If, in fact, 
   this conference *isn't* a "safe space" for those at either end of the
   Christian spectrum, it also doesn't *feel* as "safe" for me!  :-(

   That *doesn't* mean I would stop participating!!  :-)  It has been too
   valuable for me to do that!  But it *does* mean that I need to rethink *how*
   I participate and that I need to let other folks fight their own battles.
   Unfortunately, that's something I can't quite figure out how to do!  It
   seems to me to be a part of my Christian obligation to do defend the
   persecuted.  But, I have to ask myself, "Whether they want it or not?  
   Maybe they don't feel persecuted!"

   Furthermore, I am *hearing* those of you who are defending free speech and
   limiting it only to the degree dictated by corporate policy -- you are
   right and I feel ashamed by comparison.  More questions that I ask myself:

   - How can I contribute with more grace and love (and less antagonism) and
     so witness more effectively to my faith?
   - How much energy do I want to continue to invest in defending *myself*
     in this space that is not as "safe" as I had expected?
   - How can I stifle my natural bent to argue and try to convince?
   - How can I treat with respect those whom *I* perceive as being
     disrespectful of others (and thus dangerous to the freedom of all)?

   [In short, how the heck do some of you (Richard, Karen, Mike) whom I admire
    so much do it??????] 

   All in all, I must rethink my expectations and my participation to bring
   them more in line with what C-P really *is*!

   Sigh,
   Nancy
9.53yesWMOIS::B_REINKEbread&amp;rosesWed Oct 31 1990 19:0828
    Nancy
    
    I believe that the vision you have/had of C-P is close to that
    of the founding moderators.
    
    The question is, is that vision possible.
    
    and I don't know.
    
    I too would like to see a file that is a place were people of
    the end of the spectrum of Christianity like yours and mine,
    can feel safe. I'd like to be sure that gay Christians could
    come here and note knowing they are loved and accepted.
    
    I'd like to see a file where there are not negative notes about
    Jewish people.
    
    Etc etc..
    
    and I don't know how to do that either, other than totally restrictive
    moderation, which I don't see as an option. The moderators can
    prune and encourage and fertilize ways of noting, but I don't think
    it is even possible, much less reasonable, to try to control the
    direction and content further than that.
    
    Maybe what we need to do is pray for the conference and it's vision?
    
    Bonnie
9.55Maybe it's the NOT that shouldn't be there?ANKH::SMITHPassionate committment/reasoned faithWed Oct 31 1990 19:3135
    Mike,
    I am not disagreeing with you!  I am just describing (a) how my
    expectations were inaccurate and (b) my personal shortcomings and (c)
    the issues I am rethinking. 
    
    BTW, is this a typo:
    >This notes
    >conference is a safe space for those who are not welcome in C-P in 
    								 ^^^
    >the sense that we establish no "standard" that excludes them.  
    
    
    I, too, want it to be "open to all points of view concerning
    Christianity."  (If my note conveys otherwise, then I failed once 
    again to communicate properly! :-( )
    
    But it hurts, nevertheless, when the expression of a point of view is
    harsh toward people who hold some other point of view.  And the debates
    that sometimes result are tiring and make it harder to find the wheat
    amidst the chaff.  Yet I participate in those debates.  And maybe I
    shouldn't.  (Or at least not so quickly!! :-\ )
    
    As to your last question:
    >Can we be true to corporate guidelines and
    >also censor views that we do not like (GOLF::CHRISTIAN
    >notwithstanding)?
    
    Yes, evidently you *could* (by adding other restrictions).  
    
    *Should* you?  No.
    
    Is there any other solution?  Probably not.
    
    Sigh (again),
    Nancy
9.56visions and frustrationXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonWed Oct 31 1990 19:3252
Re:  Vision of this conference

Others had a different vision for this conference.  At least different
in some aspects.  Many of them have gone because they realized their
vision was not shared.

The vision you had, Nancy, is not the vision that I understood others
as having.  I never viewed this conference as a "safe haven" for "liberal
Christians".  I saw it as a meeting ground for liberal Christians, but
not as a safe haven.

The reason for that is because, although liberal Christians tend to rail
against what conservative Christians profess, they also want to be
"liberal" and allow the conservatives in.  Conservatives, on the other
hand, do not have a problem with telling a liberal that his/her
understanding is wrong because it is "clearly" against the Bible.

So, I'm not sure a "safe haven" for "liberal Christians" can exist,
at least without making it quite clear that it is to be a supportive
environment only.

It is interesting that liberals are pressing conseratives in the gay note
for a response to .3.  This is *exactly* what happened in Golf::Christian.
And it is *not* what is wanted here.  I think.  Because the conservatives
will restate how such a such an understanding is Scripturally unsound
and liberals will argue that it is in principle right.  Possibly a 
liberal will deal with the Scriptural basis (but not to the satisfaction
of the conservative) and possible a conservative will deal with the
liberal principle (like I am trying to do) and perhaps not get a response
or not be able to agree on a general understanding (much less a specific
understanding).

Re:  frustration

My frustrations lie elsewhere.  They are in a failure to communicate
(despite many notes - which happened in the situational ethics topic)
or in an inability to deal with the base issues (which has happened when
dealing with an understanding of Scripture) or an inability to get a
response (for example, the gay topic - both here and in Gol).  All frustrate 
me because we never get to understand *why* we disagree at the base level.

I am very appreciative of Mark Sorenson's replies because we *do* get to
this level and understand why we disagree.  It is because he chooses a
different interpretation on this verse because this word is interpreted
this way.  To reach that point in a discussion is fruitful for
me.  To reach a point that simply says, "I believe differently than you
do" and to not know what you are basing your belief on (worse yet, to
*know* what you are basing your belief on and be able to show that it
is inconsistent with other things you believe but not be heard) simply
results in frustration.  But it is only minor frustration.

Collis
9.57community building...ATSE::FLAHERTYStrength lies in the quiet mindWed Oct 31 1990 19:4326
Nancy (.52),

Your first line in your note states that you are not pleased with 
yourself, but I want you to know that I'm pleased with you!!!  Your 
note expressed exactly how I was feeling.  In fact, because I no longer 
felt that C-P was a 'safe space' I had intended to quietly walk away 
from it.  However, some kind messages from some people offline made me 
'rethink' my position.

From my involvement with women's groups, a couple of other notesfiles, 
and workshops I've attended, I too came into C-P with the expectation 
of having it be a 'space space' thinking this was becoming the norm.  
I believe someday it will be, but unfortunately we aren't there yet.

What to do in the meantime?!  ;')  Guess all I can do is, like you, 
rethink my expectations and my participation.  Perhaps by doing so and 
sticking around, we can bring C-P to a place of 'community' (as in F. 
Scott Peck's view of the term - getting through the pseudo-community, chaos,
emptiness, till we finally reach true community).

Love and Light to you,

Ro

P.S.  And hugs to Karen and Bonnie!!!

9.58CARTUN::BERGGRENGo now and do heart work...Wed Oct 31 1990 19:5821
    Nancy,
    
    I have and continue to struggle with many of the same questions you
    brought up in .52, which the other moderators here can attest to. ;-)
    
    I feel the same way Mike does.  The reality of a "safe space" or refuge
    and "freedom of speech" or open forum are mutually contradictory.  I
    know for me personally, I feel I need a "refuge" on some days.  Other
    days I _thrive_ in an "open forum".  Unfortunately C-P is not able to
    accomodate my own personal mood swings. :-)  So I try to take stock of
    where I am on any given day, and if I know its a day that I need refuge, 
    I tend to seek it by sending a message off-line to a special friend(s)
    and share with them what my needs are.  I also take a few moments as I'm
    able and sit in quiet contemplation, but that's sometimes difficult in
    my job.  
    
    I really admire your willingness and courage to take a good long look 
    in the mirror Nancy, and your humbleness in sharing what you see.
    That takes a lot of heart.   
    
    Karen
9.59COOKIE::JANORDBYThe government got in againWed Oct 31 1990 20:1464
Hi Karen,
    
	 
>    If the questioning becomes a  ridiculing of one for their beliefs it 
>    does not serve anyone's best interest.
    Applying any label essential boxes up a point of view for ridicule.
    Especially when the opposing viewpoint is generating the label. In the
    current example, the conservative viewpoint on homosexuality is
    opposite that of most participants in this file. Why must the liberal
    contingent apply the lable of 'intolerant' to somebody elses beliefs.
    The irony of this blows me away. Yes, we do have to judge beliefs of
    ourselves and others in establishing a framework for ourselves of what
    is right. But the hypocrisy of promoting free thinking and
    expression while applying labels that amount to judgement and
    condemnation is appalling. 
    
    Just look at the topic for tolerating the intolerant. One person's
    views (mine) were quoted from another topic, labeled as intolerant and
    then presented publicly for discussion. Give me a break. A conservative
    would have been crucified had he taken a liberal position on
    homosexuality, started a new topic, and asked the question: how do we
    deal with this 'sinful distorition of God's will'.
    
    
    
>    The corporate policy (speaking as a moderator now) we seek to adhere 
>    to in this conference is to value others, to value differences, to 
>    appreciate the richness a group offers through the diversity of
>    hamanity that each person brings to this conference.  
    I understand this policy. However, labeling the beliefs of
    conservatives as intolerant or anything else is contrary to this
    policy. There is also a clear distinction between sharing one's beliefs
    and acting in such a way as to violate corporate policy. For example, I
    may have some distinct views on homosexuality. However, corporate
    policy does not (I believe) prohibit me from having those beliefs, it
    merely prohibits me from treating a homosexual poorly (which I hope I
    would not do anyway). 
	
    >It is difficult, if not impossible however, to insure 
    >that we can extend that policy to people valuing the *beliefs* of 
    >others when those beliefs are contradictory.  
    I am not asking anybody to value my beliefs. I am just very aware of
    the tendency to label me (and others) as intolerant for sharing those
    beliefs. It is not a matter of tolerant or intolerant, it is simply a
    statement of belief about what is right and what is not.
    
    
    >I value *you* Jamey, (I think you *know* that I do :-)) and I know 
    >your beliefs have value for you, but it would be hyprocritcal for me 
    >to claim that I value them (all of them) because some of them are in 
    >conflict with my own.  
    If anything, I have demonstrated that I value people and their views
    both here and in CHRISTIAN (yes, I have gotten out of hand a time or
    two  ;).  I also know the sincere valuing of myself from most
    participants. The intolerant label just set me off a little. Unless
    every position desires to have an unflattering label applied to it, I
    suggest that it cease. My position on homosexuality does not need its
    own label beyond a conservative Christian perspective. If not, we will
    end up with the old pro-life/anti-abortion/pro-abortion/pro-choice
    situation on every single issue.
    
    Thanks, Karen for taking the time to address this.
    
    Jamey
9.60CARTUN::BERGGRENGo now and do heart work...Wed Oct 31 1990 20:343
    Big warm hugs to you Ro!
    
    Kb.xo
9.61A prayerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEA Higher CallingWed Oct 31 1990 21:1818
I, quite frankly, am ashamed of the attitudes that many of my conservative
brothers and sisters in Christ possess towards gays, lesbians, etc..
At the same time, I'm certain I'm seen as a heretic.  One person wrote
me offline that I was "spewing Satan's vomit" in response to some
entries I made in another conference.

I get the feeling that some are here as a kind of retaliation.  I
get the feeling some are here because because they believe it is
their "mission" to straighten us out.  Some, I know, are here to
learn, to share and to grow.  Others are here to observe (and I
consider that valid).

Hopefully, when the dust settles, C-P will be a deeply enriching
environment where respect and mutuality prevail.  May God grant it.
Amen.

Peace,
Richard
9.62COOKIE::JANORDBYThe government got in againWed Oct 31 1990 21:2613
    
    
    Well, Richard, it's kind of hard to know who this is target towards. I
    hope you don't see my presence here as retaliation or to straighten you
    out. That would be inacurate. 
    
    Without beating around the bush, it has certainly seemed that some were
    in CHRISTIAN on their own little mission as well. And please don't be
    ashamed, it might be reciprocated.
    
    Jamey
    
    
9.54Typo has been corrected...CSC32::M_VALENZANote in rhythm.Wed Oct 31 1990 22:2424
    Those are tough questions, Nancy.  The goals of a "safe space" and
    freedom of speech are often mutually contradictory.  This notes
    conference is a safe space for those who are not welcome in
    Golf::Christian in  the sense that we establish no "standard" that
    excludes them.  But unless we want to censor views that we do not
    approve of, we cannot exclude the more intolerant or conservative views
    from being expressed here.

    I think that this is inherent to the nature of notes.  I don't believe
    that we can legitimately exclude opinions in order to form a "safe
    space".  To a certain extent, this is also true with Womannotes. 
    Womannotes tries to create a safe place by its use of FWO-FGD, and
    SRO-FGD notes.  Perhaps if we did more of that, we could approximate
    the same sort of thing.  Perhaps we need, for example, an SRO topic on
    gays, and another one for group discussion (FGD). 

    This conference was really not established with the intent of being
    just a mirror image of GOLF::CHRISTIAN.  Rather than being strictly for
    "liberal" Christians, we wanted it to be open to all points of view
    concerning Christianity.  Can we be true to corporate guidelines and
    also censor views that we do not like (GOLF::CHRISTIAN
    notwithstanding)?

    -- Mike
9.63CSC32::J_CHRISTIEA Higher CallingWed Oct 31 1990 22:2520
Note 9.62

>    Well, Richard, it's kind of hard to know who this is target towards.

No targets intended.  No darts in hand.

>    Without beating around the bush, it has certainly seemed that some were
>    in CHRISTIAN on their own little mission as well.

Doubtlessly.

>    And please don't be
>    ashamed, it might be reciprocated.

I know I've infuriated others.  I know I'm something of an embarrassment
to some who consider themselves the *real* Christians.  The "spewing
Satan's vomit" note made that clear.

Peace,
Richard
9.64my $.02DELNI::MEYERDave MeyerWed Oct 31 1990 23:2710
    Nancy,
    	when I heard of this conference I understood it would be a "safe
    place" for all manner of christians to discuss issues related to their
    beliefs. Some of us, you and I included, have occasionally violated the
    "safe" of the place, but it could be much worse. It IS hard for people
    of strongly held divergent opinions to discuss things and maintain a
    civil manner, but we can try. It is possible to segregate some strings
    into Conservatives, or Liberals, or Sympathetic Replies Only, but that
    limits the breadth of the intellect and learning applied to a subject.
    It would also greatly increase the feeling of a "safe place". 
9.65WILLEE::FRETTSwooing of the wind....Wed Oct 31 1990 23:4316
    
    
    Thanks for the honest sharing here!  You know, building and
    maintaining community is *not* easy...it takes conscious effort
    and the willingness to look at ourselves and be honest.  It is
    usually very easy to have a community where everyone is like-
    minded and believes the same things.  But that does not truly
    reflect the reality we live in.  We are a diverse world, and
    this is a diverse community.  I applaud all of you for looking
    at what is really happening and honestly sharing about it.
    By doing so, you *are* creating "safeness"....you *are* creating
    an environment where people, maybe slowly at first, will be able
    to really share where they are at in such a way that it is a threat
    to no one.
    
    Carole
9.66from a happy camperCVG::THOMPSONRationally IrrationalThu Nov 01 1990 13:3822
    I admit to being a little unusual (my wife calls me unique)
    but this conference has turned out to be just about what I
    expected. For me I find it "safer" then the conference of
    GOLF (and infinitely "safer" then WOMANNOTES). There is a lot
    of give and take here but, and this may relate to the topics
    I participate in and who I relate to, I find a lot of love
    here.

    I wonder it the mail people get offline are from read only Noters.
    Especially in the gay topics while there is great disagreement on
    the rightness of homosexuality there are strong statements of belief
    that gays are in fact good people and are no more sinners then anyone
    else. For myself I know I feel great personal affection for my gay
    friends just as I do for my heterosexual friends who participate
    in activities (sexual and otherwise) that I believe to be Biblically
    incorrect. I believe others feel the same way.

    There is no truly safe place for Christians BTW. I do believe that
    this place is saver for a wider variety of Christian than any other
    conference I have seen though.

    		Alfred
9.67I need to say thisCARTUN::BERGGRENGo now and do heart work...Thu Nov 01 1990 18:4612
    I'd like to mention something I see occuring in this file that's 
    bothering me.  
    
    I don't like the continuing negative references I'm seeing to 
    GOLF::CHRISTIAN, sometimes simply referred to as the 'other conference'.  
    I do not see how comments such as these add value to the discussions 
    taking place here, or bring us closer to God or whatever we see as our
    highest, most compassionate ideals.  In fact, I feel they take something 
    away from us all and they are beginning to cut into my soul.
    
    Karen
    (community member) 
9.68WMOIS::B_REINKEbread&amp;rosesThu Nov 01 1990 19:019
    Alfred,
    
    actually I agree very much with something you said in your note! ;-)
    
    If being a Christian is ever 'easy' then we aren't doing it right.
    
    hugs
    
    Bonnie
9.69CVG::THOMPSONRationally IrrationalThu Nov 01 1990 20:275
>    actually I agree very much with something you said in your note! ;-)
    
    Accidents will happen. :-)
    
    			Alfred
9.70it paints us badlyXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Mon Nov 05 1990 20:4712
re Note 9.67 by CARTUN::BERGGREN:

>     I don't like the continuing negative references I'm seeing to 
>     GOLF::CHRISTIAN, sometimes simply referred to as the 'other conference'.  
>     I do not see how comments such as these add value to the discussions 
>     taking place here, or bring us closer to God or whatever we see as our
>     highest, most compassionate ideals.  In fact, I feel they take something 
>     away from us all and they are beginning to cut into my soul.
    
        I most definitely am in agreement with this!!!!!

        Bob
9.71some thoughtsCARTUN::BERGGRENOpen the heart to enchantmentFri Nov 09 1990 14:1546
   Re: 104.26 XLIB::JACKSON:
    
    > You are right that different people have different objectives in 
    > sharing in the notes file.  I use it as a forum to discern truth.  
    > Others want a supportive environment where they may feel free to 
    > share without being questioned about their beliefs.  Maybe I should 
    > change my focus?  Possibly.  I'm willing to change if that is 
    > what's best.
    
    > I'll process this for awhile.  Comments welcome.
    
    I *really* admire your openness and willingness to 'change' in 
    considering the needs of others and striving towards an ideal of what 
    is best for all concerned, Collis.  I personally would not want to 
    see you change purely on my behalf.  I well understand you and I have 
    world views that, while probably overlapping in some areas, are 
    extremely divergent in others.
    
    I sense my notion of truth is different from yours as well.  
    I feel that truth is relative and is always emerging - I believe that 
    truth is found in everything, but our eyes do not always see it, our 
    ears do not always hear it.  If an 'absolute' Truth does exist, I 
    think it is beyond my logical mind to grasp and certainly beyond my 
    ability to bless others with it.  I guess I'll entrust that to God.  
    And yet, that doesn't make my life any less meaningful or chaotic.  
    Quite the contrary.  With all its mystery and wonder this world is 
    making a whole a lot of sense to me.   Strange huh?
    
    Therefore if and when we converse, these differences in world views 
    and belief systems will quickly rise to the surface of our 
    conversations.  But, <shrug>, so what?  Sure, it can lead to 
    frustration on both sides, (and it has before  :-)) but when the 
    impasses arise we can simply agree to disagree at those points and 
    then move on.  Nothing lost, but could be a lot gained.  But that 
    doesn't depend on you, it depends on me and the value I place on our 
    conversation and you will apply your own value to it.
    
    That's perfectly okay with me.
    
    So why change?  But change if you want to.  I don't care.  It's all 
    the same to me. :-)  Every experience is an opportunity to learn 
    whatever the 'form', whomever the teacher.  
    
    Thanks for being here :-),
    
    Karen
9.72CSC32::M_VALENZALambada while you bungee jump.Fri Nov 09 1990 15:396
    Karen, I agree with your thoughts.  I think that debate can only go so
    far among people who don't share the same Weltanshauung.  But I also
    think it is valuable to understand someone else's Weltanshauung anyway,
    and that is where exposure to different ideas can be useful here.
    
    -- Mike
9.73XANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Nov 09 1990 15:516
re Note 9.72 by CSC32::M_VALENZA:

>     I think that debate can only go so
>     far among people who don't share the same Weltanshauung.  

        Or the same language! :-}
9.74Weltanshauung expositionsCARTUN::BERGGRENOpen the heart to enchantmentFri Nov 09 1990 17:5813
    Mike .72,
    
    > I think that debate can only go so far among people who don't share
    > the same Weltanshauung.  But I also think it is valuable to understand 
    > someone else's Weltanshauung anyway, and that is where exposure to 
    > different ideas can be useful here.
    
    Absolutely!  That's why one of my _very_ favorite pasttimes is exposing
    myself to other people's Weltanshauungs, and them to mine.  I've learned 
    that contrary to the old saying, once you've seen one, you _haven't_ seen 
    them all.  8-)
    
    Kb                                      
9.75Welt- what a mouthfulDELNI::MEYERDave MeyerFri Nov 09 1990 20:574
    	My German is limited to "Hi, how are you" and "Thanks". Does
    Weltanshauung translate to mean about the same as what Collis means
    when he says Framework ?  (knowing enough to not starve in a couple of
    languages does NOT equate to being multi-lingual)
9.76CSC32::M_VALENZALambada while you bungee jump.Sat Nov 10 1990 14:313
    The American Heritage Dictionary entry for Weltanschauung:

        A comprehensive world view, esp. from a specified standpoint.
9.77thanksDELNI::MEYERDave MeyerMon Nov 12 1990 18:012
    	Ah, so the answer is "yes, it means about the same as Collis's term
    'framework'". The AHD Office Edition didn't include the term. 
9.78CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMourning the CarnageThu Mar 07 1991 23:0310
Note 162.78

>        I'm a Catholic (although admittedly a non-traditional one),
>        and I didn't find the above offensive, even though I disagree
>        with it.

Sometimes we "bleeding heart" types try too hard to look out for others,
don't I? *<8+}

Richard
9.79CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUncomplacent PeaceThu Apr 04 1991 23:5815
Note 197.14

>    Ok, so what's all this silence about?

There have been notes I thought sure would just take off, but didn't.
It's difficult to predict.  And so, I have come to the conclusion that
the volume of responses is frequently not proportionate to the weight
or validity of the topic.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, "Don't let the silence lead you to
believe that nobody cares or that the topic is not an important one to
people."

Peace,
Richard
9.80CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUncomplacent PeaceFri Apr 05 1991 21:216
Note 197.46  -< No, don't do it...it is a sign of weakness to them... >-

I regret this allusion to an adversarial relationship.  Personally, I don't
consider this an "Us versus Them" conference!

Richard
9.81CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUncomplacent PeaceSat Apr 06 1991 02:5618
Note 197.44

>    I am sorry I even got into this debate now that I have found I have
>    been debating with an idol worshipper.  Zen Budaism is the worship of
>    man.

In all fairness, I feel obligated to point out that the Buddha deplored
and spoke out in no uncertain terms against idolatry.  And, to the best
of my knowledge, Buddha never condoned the worship of humanity.

It has never been a secret that there is a Zen Buddhist within our midst.
Personally, I am honored to have Mike's interest and participation here.
Mike has not promoted his religion here, but has shared with us in such
a way as to allow us to see ourselves from outside in, rather than from
the inside out.

Peace in Christ, Who loves the Buddhist as much the Christian,
Richard
9.82SA1794::SEABURYMZen: It's Not What You ThinkMon Apr 08 1991 18:3225
    Re.81

      Richard:
                That you feel honored by being stuck with me brightens
      my day a great deal.
                 I am sorry that there seems to be a considerable 
      misunderstanding about what I believe and that Marshall would
      leave this conference rather share his beliefs with all of here
      this conference both Christian and non-Christian. 
                 It has never been my intent to proselytize for my 
      personal beliefs here, but to gain a better understanding of
      the beliefs of others. 
                 I am in no way offended by what was written, a bit
      bewildered to be sure, but not offended. I will send Marshall
      mail and ask him to continue to participate here. I would not
      want to be the cause of him leaving because of a misunderstanding
      about what I believe. 


                                                               Mike

                                                                       

      
9.83CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUncomplacent PeaceMon Apr 08 1991 22:3122
No one here has a corner on Truth.  Neither does anyone here fully comprehend
the nature of God.  This is important to keep in mind since some here speak
as though they have God and Truth contained in a neat little package.

Christian-Perspective, as our banner indicates, welcomes those who are
frequently not welcome elsewhere.  C-P is a noble experiment.  In the
beginning, it was hoped that C-P might become an inclusive haven, a place
where people of many varieties and levels of faith might share and learn
from one another.

It is very discouraging for me to I know that this vision of C-P has been
somewhat tarnished.  Some have decided to leave C-P primarily because of
the belligerent way in which notions were presented.  The notions themselves
were not the problem.  As far as I can determine, it was the way in which the
notions were presented which resulted in 2 noters exiting from C-P.

Another noter left because he judged he was keeping bad, possibly even demonic,
company by being here.  I'm not sure *what* to make of *this* situation! :-(
I do not like the idea of excluding fundamentalists, either.

Peace,
Richard
9.84Plea to newcomersLJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Apr 09 1991 00:0637
Recently I have felt particularly hurt by some who have left, because I
am part of this file and feel that all of us are being blamed for the
objectionable noting style of one or two people.  I hurt when people I would
like to be in dialogue with leave, directing anger at all of us, not just at
those who caused them pain.  It makes me feel helpless because I *couldn't*
protect them and frustrated because apparently they thought I (we) could and 
should!

I suppose people note here for a variety of reasons:  some come to express 
their Christian perspective, some to debate perspectives with others, and some 
out of curiosity or out of a desire to learn and grow.  I'd like to direct
the rest of these comments to those in the third category:

The difference between this file and GOLF::CHRISTIAN is that the *official*
position of this file is openness.  Simply stated, it means that there is
no exclusionary standard that defines "Christian perspective."  That, however,
does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people whose "mode of being"
is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive.  (Nor does it guarantee that you
will not encounter usually-open-minded people who happen to be feeling grouchy
or defensive on a given day.)

If you are new here, please understand that this file does *not* have a
standard of behavior that is different from the standard expected of all
Digital notes conferences!  This conference does *not* claim to have all the
right answers -- *nor* all the right behavior!  So please don't expect "better
treatment" here than people receive in other notes conferences.  That's
unrealistic and, in my opinion, very unfair.

It is impossible for the noters or the moderators to guarantee a safe or
comfortable place for you -- or for anyone.  So, if a particular noter offends
you, you have a number of options: you can simply choose to ignore and not
respond to the objectionable entries (hit NEXT USEEN), or you can tell the
person to back off, or you can state that you are not going to continue
discussion with that noter.  (You can also request intervention from the
moderators when a note violates DEC noting standards.) 

Nancy
9.85DPDMAI::DAWSONCould be....But I doubt it!Tue Apr 09 1991 00:5115
    
    
                 I would like to echo Nancy in the previous reply.  My
    perspective of my faith, requires me to try to both understand and give
    loving care to those who are searching for truth.  Those "on the
    brink" of truth are fragile creatures and IMHO ought to be given the
    chance to find life thru careful study and thought. As a Christian,
    I am *required* to state my belief, but just as Jesus tried to "love"
    people into heaven and not "scare" them out of hell, so to must I
    respect and love my fellow human beings.  I can't help but think about
    the old-testament truth of "love thy neighbor as thy self" or "do unto
    others as you would have them do unto you".
    
    
    Dave
9.86GAZERS::NOONANThe Giggling GothTue Apr 09 1991 12:4025
    I have come back simply to answer these points.  The reason I left this
    file was the amount of hate-mongering I saw going on.  My spirituality
    is not new, nor fragile, nor on the brink.  I am quite comfortable with
    my spirituality and the fact that I still have lots of growing to do.
    
    One of the reasons I left the Catholic Church was the insistance of
    that Church that I believe a set doctrine.  I didn't.  I left.  After
    many years of searching, I found the Friends.  Was I being intolerant? 
    No.  I was taking care of my spirit.
    
    If people want to get offended by the fact that I will not accept
    unacceptable behaviour, then people will get offended.  That doesn't
    mean that I have to accept the unacceptable behaviour.  This conference
    is not important enough to me to risk losing my serenity.  I like
    active discussion.  I don't even need everyone to agree.  But when
    people refuse to allow me my own beliefs, then it is time to leave.
    
    This note is probably very disjointed.  I'm sorry about that.  You see,
    I am angry, and that is not an emotion with which I have a lot of
    experience.  I feel that the messenger is being punished for the
    message.  I also feel that I was somehow not supposed to step out of my
    "sunny disposition", and now that I have, I am no longer credible, and
    that I have somehow betrayed people.  So, I'll just be leaving again.
    
    E Grace
9.87ATSE::FLAHERTYA K'in(dred) SpiritTue Apr 09 1991 12:469
Hugs and Love to you E Grace.  I support you in your decision, having been on
the brink of leaving a few times myself.  So far I've managed to stick it out, 
but that is me and how I feel today.  You are correct, you do not have to 
accept unacceptable behavior and I'm proud that you have the conviction to 
be true to yourself.

Cheers to you Friend,

Ro
9.88GAZERS::NOONANThe Giggling GothTue Apr 09 1991 13:033
    My reply .86 was not in response to any one note.
    
    E Grace
9.89Including exclusion thinkingISVBOO::JACKSONCollis JacksonTue Apr 09 1991 13:4944
Re:  9.84

Nancy,

  >That, however, does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people 
  >whose "mode of being" is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive.  
  >(Nor does it guarantee that you will not encounter usually-open-minded 
  >people who happen to be feeling grouchy or defensive on a given day.)

It is clear for the above that you view "exclusionary" as being negative
and "open-minded" as being positive.

This is certainly true in some circumstances.  Likewise, it is certainly
false in many other circumstances.

I would like you to reconsider this, Nancy, in the area of religious
commitment (where you apparently think that "open-mindedness" is a
benefit and "exclusionary" is wrong).  The first and most important
commandment that God gave to all of us is that we be extremely
exclusionary about who we worship.

  I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the
  land of slavery.  You shall have no other gods before me.  You shall
  not make for yourself an idol in the form of anything in heaven above
  or on the earth beneath or in the waters below.  You shall not bow down
  to them or worship them; for I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God,
  punishing the children for the sin of the fathers to the third and
  fourth generation fo those who hate me, but showing love to thousands
  who love me and keep my commandments.  Ex 20:2-6 (NIV)

The issue, as I see it, is not that exclusionary is wrong and 
open-mindedness is right, but rather that following God is right and
disobeying God is wrong.  Sometimes this means being exclusionary and
sometimes it means being open-minded.  Do you agree?  

If so, I would ask that that you not use words such as "exclusionary"
only in negative contexts and "open-minded" only in positive contexts
since this tends to distort the truth you really believe and to put a
barrier between you and other Christians who strongly believe in the
need of being "exclusionary" at times.

Thanks,

Collis
9.90CARTUN::BERGGRENLet the Spirit muse you!Tue Apr 09 1991 13:526
    E Grace,
    
    You are one of the most credible and authentic persons I've had the
    privilege to meet.  Like Ro, I am also inspired by the woman you are!
    
    Karen                              
9.91I feel...BSS::VANFLEETUncommon WomanTue Apr 09 1991 14:0426
    I have felt much the same as E Grace at times.  Part of that could be a
    problem with my expectations of what this file was to be.  I had
    originally expected it to be a "safe haven" in which to exchange ideas,
    a place where I could talk about my own unconventional spiritual path
    and the problems I've encountered along the way without being judged by
    anyone or having anyone else's beliefs rammed down my throat.  As I
    have spent more time in this file I realize that I was both right and
    wrong.  
    
    On one hand I am free to talk about my spiritual beliefs here due to
    the open-mindedness of the moderators.  On the other hand, because I am
    free to discuss my beliefs, others are also free to discuss theirs. 
    Some belief systems are inherently exclusionary.  They are based on
    a belief system that does not allow for differences.  In order to
    follow the guidelines of this conference they must be allowed a voice
    just as I must be allowed a voice.  This may make me uncomfortable and
    conflict with my beliefs and how I choose to respond to that is *my*
    choice.  For some, leaving the file is the best choice.  To those who
    take that option I wish them the best.  For me, right
    now my choice is to stay but do more listening than sharing.  I don't
    feel safe sharing with some members of this file.  This is not a
    reflection on most of the membership, nevertheless, because of where I
    am I don't feel safe enough to share much here.
    
    Nanci                                   
    can freely share in a file where   
9.92No, CollisLJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Apr 09 1991 14:3321
    re: .89, Collis,
    
  >That, however, does *not* guarantee that you will not encounter people 
  >whose "mode of being" is exclusionary or closed-minded or offensive.  
  >(Nor does it guarantee that you will not encounter usually-open-minded 
  >people who happen to be feeling grouchy or defensive on a given day.)

>>It is clear for the above that you view "exclusionary" as being negative
>>and "open-minded" as being positive.
    
    Your note goes on to attribute to me things I did not say.  My view
    that "exclusionary" is negative when applied to this Digital notes 
    conference still stands and I have no reason to reconsider it.  This
    notes conference is the *only* thing I was referring to.  
    
    I am sorry, Collis, but I do not feel like discussing my views on
    open-mindedness and exclusiveness "in other circusmtances" within this
    file on processing. (That *is* the string I writing it at the moment,
    isn't it?  I *do* get confused sometimes!)
    
    Nancy
9.93A requestCARTUN::BERGGRENLet the Spirit muse you!Tue Apr 09 1991 16:1827
    Playtoe,
    
    Re:  204.1
    
    > I am able to "discern the spirit/heart," as this IS one of several
    gifts I have received from God, and actually the very first, many years
    ago.  I use this gift to "admonish my brothers and sisters," and above
    all myself.<
    
    This is the crux of my discomfort.  Your noting style does not reveal 
    the presence of this "gift" you speak of.  Many times you have not
    accurately discerned the spirit/heart in me and have actually distorted 
    it as you have with Ro and others.  
    
    Furthermore it is not keeping in the spirit of this conference, to 
    "admonish" others.  Everyone is encouraged to state and discuss their 
    views openly, but I draw the line when one takes it upon him/herself 
    to "admonish" others for their views.
    
    I do admire your intelligence Playtoe and hope you will continue noting
    here, but I request that if you wish to continue "admonishing" people you
    will do so outside of this conference. 
    
    Thank you for your consideration,
    
    Karen
    (co-moderator)                    
9.94ISVBOO::JACKSONCollis JacksonTue Apr 09 1991 16:5912
Re:  9.92

  >Your note goes on to attribute to me things I did not say.

I am sorry, I did not mean to do that.  I was only interpreting what
you said as best I could.  What I wrote is what I hear you saying.

I am disappointed about your choice as I felt that a change in mindset
(which is what I had hoped for) would allow for a better appreciation
of each other.

Collis
9.95Strength and weaknessISVBOO::JACKSONCollis JacksonTue Apr 09 1991 17:0114
Re:  9.84

  >Simply stated, it means that there is no exclusionary standard that 
  >defines "Christian perspective."  

Since all standards are exclusionary to some extent, this really means
that there is no (definable) standard at all that defines "Christian 
perspective".

I agree with you that this is true (if indeed you will accept that this
is what you said).  It is not only a strength of this notesfile, it is
ultimately the critical weakness.

Collis
9.96Conjunction of OppositesWMOIS::REINKEHello, I'm the Dr!Tue Apr 09 1991 17:125
    Re:  .95 - Strength and Critical Weakness 
    
    That's a paradox I can live with.
    
    DR
9.97ResponseLJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Apr 09 1991 20:0212
>I am disappointed about your choice as I felt that a change in mindset
>(which is what I had hoped for) would allow for a better appreciation
>of each other.
    
    Collis, *this* isn't the string to debate whether or not one's faith
    can or should be exclusionary -- or for you and I to come to "a better
    appreciation of each other."  Please don't feel rejected.  You were 
    asking questions of me that were beyond the scope of my note, which was
    directed at my feelings about this conference.  If you want to start
    another string, fine; I may participate.  But *for this time and place* 
    I have been trying to deal with very strong personal feelings that are 
    only tangentially connected with the questions you raised.
9.98LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Apr 09 1991 20:0724
    re: .95, Collis,
    
  >Simply stated, it means that there is no exclusionary standard that 
  >defines "Christian perspective."  
>>Since all standards are exclusionary to some extent, this really means
>>that there is no (definable) standard at all that defines "Christian 
>>perspective".

    *For this notesfile* I believe that that is true.
    
>>I agree with you that this is true (if indeed you will accept that this
>>is what you said).  
    
    Huh?  I never denied saying it -- I only said that my statement was
    RESTRICTED TO THIS NOTES FILE!!!!
    
>>It is not only a strength of this notesfile, it is
>>ultimately the critical weakness.
    
    That, of course, has been debated here many times, especially when the
    conference first began (which is one reason I have no personal interest
    in resuming the debate).
    
    Nancy
9.99Name calling?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEExtended familyTue Apr 30 1991 23:1237
Re: 91.405
    
>    Perhaps the definition of homophobia could be expanded to
>    include the belief that it is sinful to be homosexual and engage in
>    homosexual behavior.

Alfred,

	I reread 91.382.  I still do not see where you personally were
labeled homophobic.

	I can see where you *might* feel threatened by the suggestion
which appears above, if your identity is inseparable from your belief
system.  Is this what you are referring to?

	If so, it puts a curious spin on the argument about being tolerant
of the believer, but intolerant of the belief:

Note 34.133

>I do
>indeed desire to be tolerant in some situations - and intolerant (which
>in my mind is just as important) in others.  Not intolerant to the
>person, but totally intolerant to the belief.  Some might even consider
>it being "dogmatic".  :-)

Note 34.135

>             Sometime you'll have to explain how you can tolerate
>     a person and not their beliefs.

Note 34.138

>Re:  accepting the person, rejecting the belief
>God accepts me but rejects my sin.  I do it the same way He does.  :-)

Richard
9.100CVG::THOMPSONWhich side did you say was up?Wed May 01 1991 12:2026
>	I reread 91.382.  I still do not see where you personally were
>labeled homophobic.

    If someone were to describe homosexuals in general as "morally deficient" 
    would you tell a gay person that they personally were not being so
    labeled? Would you expect them to remain silent and not protest? I
    think not. Certainly the claim that homosexual sex is a sin has not
    gone unprotested in this conference.

>	I can see where you *might* feel threatened by the suggestion
>which appears above, if your identity is inseparable from your belief
>system.  Is this what you are referring to?

    Nope, I was referring to the fact that a person does not have to be
    named nor do they have to be directly addressed to be labeled unfairly
    or their position ridiculed and denigrated. 

    In the discussion of homosexual sex being or not being a sin the
    assertion that it is has to be made or there is no dialogue. Not
    permitting the assertion prohibits dialogue so must be allowed if
    dialogue is to continue. On the other hand labeling such a belief as
    homophobia adds nothing to the discussion. What it is is an ad homomin
    case of name calling. As such it acts as a barrier to dialogue just as
    repeated use of derogatory names for gays would.

    			Alfred
9.101Angry!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEExtended familyFri May 10 1991 18:558
	I am deeply disturbed by the behavior that led to the deletion
of 217.5.  It is exactly this kind of behavior which has given Christianity
the hateful and homophobic reputation it presently possesses.

	I personally consider it harassment.  I've been on the receiving
end of harassment myself, and believe me, it is very distressing.

Richard
9.102Angry, Appalled and AshamedWMOIS::REINKE_Bbread and rosesFri May 10 1991 20:3613
    I feel that the sort of attitude that led to the deletion of
    note 217.5 is the antithesis of the kind of vision that led to
    the founding of this file. Anyone who reads this file, just to
    take advantage of the open environment that people are attempting
    to create here, and to send nasty harassing mail to people
    who open up, is no Christian. They deserve to be reported to 
    personnel for harassment. If this happens in the future, *please*
    report this sort of harassment to the moderators and to personnel.

    I am disgusted that anyone who calls themself a Christian should
    act in such a hateful fashion.

    Bonnie
9.103hate missing things2B::THOMPSONWhich side did you say was up?Sun May 12 1991 23:065
    I can't believe I missed it all. I haven't a clue of what the last
    two notes are about. I'm going to have to think about following the
    conference closer.
    
    		Alfred
9.104Christians are not clones of each otherCSC32::J_CHRISTIEProud Sponsor FAWoLTue May 21 1991 22:0024
Note 91.470

>    Re: 455 & .459

>    I don't understand either of these notes. It seems to me from these notes
>    that Christians judge not only homosexuals but each other. Are you supposed
>    to do that?

Collis and I do not see eye to eye in many areas.  We each believe that our own
position is the superior one.  Collis places a greater emphasis on the Bible
than I do.  I place a greater emphasis on what I believe to be the leadings
of the Holy Spirit in my life.

I love Collis.  And, I admire the convictions he demonstrates when he takes a
firm stand for the beliefs he holds.  Who knows, perhaps Collis holds me
and others here with a similar regard.

If you are asking if it is alright that Christians do not agree, I'd say the
answer is - yes.  If you are asking if is alright for Christians to make
personal attacks towards each other, I would say the answer is - no, but that
it happens anyway.

Peace,
Richard
9.106Explaining judgmentXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonWed May 22 1991 13:3038
Re:  .105

John,

I did not enter a note explaining judgment right away because

  1)  I have done this about 10 times over 1-1/2 years (and it gets
      tiresome)

  2)  I just wrote such a note about 2 weeks ago (although where it is
      is beyond me)

But I am aware that you have not read any of these notes and have a desire
to understand this area, so here goes again.

The Bible talks about judgment in two ways.  One way I'll call punishment
and the other way I'll call discernment.

The Bible also clearly gives responsibility to three structures of
authority (which are the church, the government and the family) and
gives a different type of responsibility to the individual.

The three structures of authority are not only allowed, but actually
instructed to judge and give punishment when the circumstances call for
it.  The individual is NEVER responsible for punishment (as an individual,
as an agent of authority from one of the three structures of authority
he/she may punish).

The individual is ALWAYS to be discerning and loving.

I haven't seen any "punishment" judgment going on in this notesfile.  :-)
Just "discernment" judgment.  You are right that these discernment judgments
should always be done in love.  I ask your and Richard's forgiveness for
failing to always do this.

Collis

(Scriptural references provided on request.)
9.107Nice touch, Collis!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEProud Sponsor FAWoLWed May 22 1991 16:348
>(Scriptural references provided on request.)

Collis,

	I *like* this! 8+}  I grinned ear-to-ear when I read it!

Peace,
Richard
9.109Shoulders shruggingCSC32::J_CHRISTIEProud Sponsor FAWoLThu May 23 1991 01:3718
Note 229.67

>    can I again echo what I've asked before, why don't Christians
>    carry on in here about people who work on Sunday, or dishonor
>    their parents, or steal, or .......

Bonnie,

	This has caused curiosity within me, as well.  Topic 111.*
attempts to explore this a bit.  What message is there when the
dominant notes concern sexuality, and by contrast, so little attention
is given to working for peace, healing and Christian service?

	Perhaps it doesn't say anything beyond the possibility that
sexual issues seem to easily set off our "hot buttons."  I don't know.

Peace,
Richard
9.110WMOIS::REINKE_Bbread and rosesThu May 23 1991 03:368
    Richard,
    
    lets talk more about healing , and peace, and Christian service.
    
    
    love
    
    Bonnnie
9.111JURAN::VALENZAStop picking your notes!Thu May 23 1991 18:1513
    As a C-P moderator, I would like to re-emphasize that sometimes the
    moderators participate here as moderators, and other times as
    participants.  It is important to distinguish between these occasions,
    and normally when we are acting in the capacity as moderator we
    explicitly say so.  Otherwise, we are expressing ourselves as
    *participants*.  We would not be moderators if we were not interested
    in Christianity, and we thus cannot help but have opinions on many of
    the subjects being discussed here.  Thus we want to stress that merely
    expressing a strong opinion on a particular issue does not convey the
    force of authority; it is only when we state that we are acting as
    moderators that we are exercising moderator authority.

    -- Mike (co-moderator)
9.112Random thoughtsXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonThu Jun 13 1991 13:4033
I seem to have struck a nerve in some of my notes about this notesfile.

Some apparently seem to think that it makes sense for me to not note
here if I think that this conference misses the mark.  And yet, what I
heard when many conservative Christians left (because they felt this
conference missed the mark) were expressions of regret and invitations
to stay.  Perhaps it's just me that you'd like to leave?

Several weeks ago, I tried to distinguish between the expectations of
this notesfile and the expectations of participants.  This notesfile,
as a notesfile, has a set of standards apart from the individuals
who participate.  They are outlined in the first topic.  I found out
by experience how important these standards were when I violated them
out of ignorance of what this conference holds as most important (which
is the right of all to proclaim what they believe without threat of
condemnation regardless of anything that God may say).  Perhaps it's the 
way I focus on uncomfortable issues and their implications which is 
found threatening?

No, I don't really think it is either.  I think that people simply
dislike that which disagrees with them and like what agrees with
them.  I know I do.  :-)

On another note, I do find it disheartening that so many of you have
reached a conclusion on the inerrancy of the Bible without knowing
the facts.  I definately plan on pursuing putting in some of the
facts for your perusal (even if it doesn't make a difference :-(),
but right now a move to a new house and new job interviews and
whatever are keeping my occupied.

God bless you,

Collis
9.113OK by me, but puzzlingXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Jun 13 1991 13:5618
re Note 9.112 by XLIB::JACKSON:

> Some apparently seem to think that it makes sense for me to not note
> here if I think that this conference misses the mark.  And yet, what I
> heard when many conservative Christians left (because they felt this
> conference missed the mark) were expressions of regret and invitations
> to stay.  Perhaps it's just me that you'd like to leave?
  
        I certainly would like you to stay, Collis!

        I am a bit perplexed by what appears to be almost an
        obsession on your part to discuss this conference as much if
        not more than you discuss Christ or Christianity.

        On the other hand, such an obsession is far less disturbing
        to me than an obsession with "fornication"!  :-}

        Bob
9.114DEMING::VALENZANotes cutie.Thu Jun 13 1991 14:0225
    Collis, I am always sorry when anyone leaves this notes conference
    when it represents a feeling that C-P doesn't suit their needs.  My
    reason for feeling that way is that I would like for C-P to satisfy
    people's needs; but if that is not the case for some individuals, I
    also believe it is best for them to leave.  I do recognize the fact
    that a notes conference cannot be all things to all people; and if so,
    it is reasonable (even if it is also unfortunate) that they should want
    to leave.

    In your case, I get the impression that you don't draw any value from
    C-P, and that it doesn't suit your needs, and yet you participate
    anyway.  Is it fair to say that you participate here, not in order to
    draw personal value from it, but rather to "correct" others or "set the
    record straight"--as a sort of proselytizer for your own viewpoint?  Is
    that why you feel the need to present us with the "facts" (as you see
    them), so that you can impart your Superior Knowledge to the rest of
    us?

    Frankly, Collis, I find it disheartening that so many people believe in
    inerrancy of the Bible without knowing the facts.  :-)  I have no doubt
    that you believe that you "know the facts", and that the rest of us
    don't, and I guess we should all feel honored by your tireless altruism
    in trying to get us to see things your way.

    -- Mike
9.115WMOIS::REINKE_Bbread and rosesThu Jun 13 1991 14:229
    Collis,
    
    I do not wish you to leave this conference. However, I do wish that
    you would accept it as it was founded and stop nagging on that
    particular topic.
    
    You have a lot of value to offer.
    
    Bonnie
9.116DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Jun 13 1991 14:4112
Collis:

I hope you stay, if only to stop certain people from becoming too complacent.
;^)

Mike:

Couldn't you have said the same about me and others about our participation
in CHRISTIAN a while back?  We complained about the conference rules and yet
we stayed in the conference anyway.

				-- Bob
9.117DEMING::VALENZANotes cutie.Thu Jun 13 1991 14:5011
    Bob, I never understood why many people participated in CHRISTIAN,
    other than the fact that before C-P was formed it was the only
    Christian notes file available.  Even when it was sole Christian notes
    file, I almost always stayed out of it, because it didn't satisfy my
    needs.  That was why I wanted to start an alternative Christian notes
    file, with a different set of rules.  There are now alternative
    Christian notes files, each with their own approach.  I suspect that
    many of those who are not satisfied with one of them will be satisfied
    with the other, and vice versa.  

    -- Mike
9.118DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Jun 13 1991 15:059
Mike,

One reason I participated in CHRISTIAN was that I said to myself "Why should
these people own the word 'Christian'"?  Another reason is that I like a
good argument.

I left because I got (a) bored, (b) annoyed, and (c) busy.

				-- Bob
9.119Agreement possible? I hope soXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonThu Jun 13 1991 17:4332
Re:  9.115

  >However, I do wish that you would accept it as it was founded and stop 
  >nagging on that particular topic.
    
Bonnie,

In spite of the amount of discussion I've generated on this topic, we
(that is the particpants in this notesfile) still can't come to an
agreement on exactly what this notesfile is.  Personally, I think it
is *very* important to know what this notesfile is because it makes
*all* the difference in the world in terms of what is appropriate or
inappropriate to either say or expect of others.

I think you'll agree with me that there is quite a difference between
calling this a "Christian" notesfile and saying that this is not a
"Christian" notesfile.  And yet there is disagreement on even as basic
an issue as this.

The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
"Christianity".  The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
Christianity (since all views are equally welcome).  This is a necessary
conclusion from trying to be an all-inclusive notesfile.  And yet, I
don't think that there is broad agreement about this either.

Ideally, what I would like is an up front disclosure in the introduction
topic to this notesfile either stating these truths to be the case or
perhaps stating that some (such as me) believe these assertions to be
true.

Collis
9.120Guilty!XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonThu Jun 13 1991 17:5426
Re:  9.114

  >Is it fair to say that you participate here, not in order to draw 
  >personal value from it, but rather to "correct" others or "set the
  >record straight"--as a sort of proselytizer for your own viewpoint?

Certainly there is a desire to accurately present the Word of God
in this notesfile.  After all, that is the truth.  :-)  But I also
am stimulated to discuss and think and grow.

So, I plead guilty to be a proselytizer.  Perhaps this is inconsistent
with what I should do from the perspective of your beliefs?

  >Is that why you feel the need to present us with the "facts" (as you see
  >them), so that you can impart your Superior Knowledge to the rest of us?

If I participated here in the hopes of being admired for my "Superior
Knowledge", I think I failed.  But who knows, maybe I have a number
of secret admirers.  :-) :-)

  >Frankly, Collis, I find it disheartening that so many people believe in
  >inerrancy of the Bible without knowing the facts.  :-)  

I agree.  It leaves them open to attack from Satan and room for doubt.

Collis
9.121DPDMAI::DAWSONA Different LightThu Jun 13 1991 17:5717
    RE: .119  Collis,
    
                       I *HAD* thought to stay out of this but then again
    maybe I shouldn't.  In every notes conference I have ever looked at,
    there is a statement asking people to look and read 1.* containing the 
    policy's existing in the file.  It, with me, has become a habit
    everytime I enter a file that I don't often look at....I read 1.* just
    in case there is something different since the last time I went in.  
    
                       When I first entered C-P, I read the policy's
    concerening noting here....I wasn't confused in the slightest.  I felt
    it was pretty straight forward statement of policy.  Now as far as I
    know *ALMOST* every moderator has tried to explain what *exactly* this
    file is for to you.  It is for *ALL* people....including you. 
    
    
    Dave
9.122DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Jun 13 1991 17:5828
Re: .119 Collis

>The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
>this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
>"Christianity".  The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
>Christianity (since all views are equally welcome).

Acceptable to whom?  Yes, all views (within the limits of corporate policy)
on Christianity are welcome in this file, i.e. the moderators will not (or
at least should not) censor them.  This does mean that we are taking a
position on whether those views are "acceptable" in any kind of absolute
sense.  The opinions expressed might be dead wrong - we aren't taking a
position on that one way or the other.

You're right that there is disagreement on many points.  For example, I don't
consider this a Christian conference (even though many or most of the people
who follow it are Christians).  If this was a Christian conference then I
wouldn't be a moderator.

>Ideally, what I would like is an up front disclosure in the introduction
>topic to this notesfile either stating these truths to be the case or
>perhaps stating that some (such as me) believe these assertions to be
>true.

IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.

				-- Bob
9.123WILLEE::FRETTSThru our bodies we heal the EarthThu Jun 13 1991 17:598
    
    Collis,
    
    I know what this file is.  It just seems to me that you are not
    satisfied with how it has been defined so far.  Seems like it is
    only your issue.
    
    Carole
9.124What if the shoe was on the other foot?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEEl Gallo de PazFri Jun 14 1991 01:3515
Note 9.112

>I seem to have struck a nerve in some of my notes about this notesfile.

Would it not strike a nerve within you if I stated that you "do not claim
to be a Christian person?"

Would it not strike a nerve within you if I said that you could not really
be a Christian because the only proof you have that you are a Christian is
your tenacity to an ancient book?

Please, note that nobody has said these things to you.  Why do you suppose
this is?

Richard
9.125XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 14:279
Yes, Richard, it would strike a nerve if you claimed that I was not
a Christian.

However, the subject here is not an individual but a notesfile.  As you
have already read, others believe that this is not a Christian notesfile
as well.  I don't know why this strikes a nerve with you or even why you 
believe that this is a Christian notesfile.  Perhaps I'll never know.

Collis
9.126XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 14:3216
Re:  9.123

Carole,

You are right that it is an issue for me, but it is not "only" my
issue.  Obviously, when Tony was new to the file and expressed a few
opinions, it was an issue for him.  In general, I believe it is a
potential issue for any new reader and even sometimes for existing
readers (such as myself) who sometimes misconstrue (with much
attendant hoopla) just what this notesfile is all about.

I am glad that you (and many others) know just what this file is.  I
think I do too.  Perhaps our understandings are even similar.  :-)
(Perhaps not.)

Collis
9.127XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 14:4030
Re:  9.122

  >Acceptable to whom?  

Acceptable to (the standards of) the notesfile.  Just as individuals
have standards, so do notesfiles.

The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
"open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard.  Now that
standard could be for example the Bible (whatever that means) or
it could be no limitations (whatever that means) or it could be
something else.  But there is a standard.  And by being a standard,
it defines what is acceptable to say to others and expect others to
say to you.

There was intense opposition to me appealing to an outside standard
(i.e. God - or should I say my understanding of God :-) ) within
this notesfile because that is *NOT* the standard of this notesfile.
*This* is what I think should be explicitly stated up front.  I am
not the first one who has run into this and will not be the last.
But properly positioning this conference and the standards of this
conference should keep these problems to a minimum.

  >IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
  >processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.

I agree with you Bob.  An opinion in the introduction was not a very
good idea.

Collis
9.128we see better when we see from multiple viewpointsXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Jun 14 1991 15:1239
re Note 9.127 by XLIB::JACKSON:

> The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
> "open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard.  Now that
> standard could be for example the Bible (whatever that means) or
> it could be no limitations (whatever that means) or it could be
> something else.  But there is a standard.  

        A text ultimately resolves to "whatever that means" and no
        further.  However, it may be very convenient to those in a
        power position (such as moderators) to make reference to the
        text as if it were unambiguous in significance, meaning, or
        application.

        The problem with simply regarding the Bible (or any other
        text) as the "standard" is that it derives its effective
        meaning from consensus of interpretation in a given
        community.  The moderators, and most of the participants, of
        another notes conference have convinced themselves that their
        standard is some objective text when in fact the standard by
        which they judge conference-related actions is their
        tradition of interpretation of that text.

        (This is very clear to those who come from a different
        tradition of interpretation.  It is quite clear that the
        standard in the golf::christian file, for example, is not the
        Bible but the Bible as traditionally understood by Protestant
        conservatives.  To a person from within that tradition, there
        is in fact no such distinction -- they are effectively blind
        to seeing that it could equally validly be some other way.)

        I believe that regarding a "tradition of interpretation" of
        the Bible as an unchanging objective reality is a fundamental
        error (pun intended) (it was also the Pharisaic error), and a
        very serious one at that.  The moderators of this conference
        may make other errors, perhaps equally serious errors, but I
        am glad that they are refraining from making that error.

        Bob
9.129JURAN::SILVAMore than wordsFri Jun 14 1991 15:5912
| > The problem is that it is hard (perhaps impossible) to have an
| > "open" forum without an explicit or implicit standard.  

	I actually thought it would make things even easier Collis. Reason
being is that if there isn't a standard that anyone has to meet, then it may
make more people stand up and speak. With this happening you end up with a
diverse notesfile, which is what I feel this is. Your views quite differ from
mine for example. Some of them may be similar at times, but for the most part
they are different. It still makes good noting to have BOTH styles and views in
here. 

Glen
9.130DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerFri Jun 14 1991 16:1437
Re: .127 Collis

>>>The other reason that I want to get this issue dealt with is because
>>>this notesfile does indeed have a standard of what is/is not acceptable
>>>"Christianity".  The standard is that any Christianity is "acceptable"
>>>Christianity (since all views are equally welcome).
>>
>>Acceptable to whom?
>
>Acceptable to (the standards of) the notesfile.

Fair enough, although this isn't quite accurate - not all beliefs are equally
acceptable to all of the moderators.  Ideally, though, you're right: all
varieties of Christian belief are equally acceptable under the conference
rules, and this is stated up front.

>And by being a standard,
>it defines what is acceptable to say to others and expect others to
>say to you.
>
>There was intense opposition to me appealing to an outside standard
>(i.e. God - or should I say my understanding of God :-) ) within
>this notesfile because that is *NOT* the standard of this notesfile.

Was there "intense opposition" from (a) the moderators, (b) individual noters,
or (c) "the notesfile", whatever that means?

>  >IMO the place for individual noters to state their opinions is in the
>  >processing topic or other world-writable topics, not in the introduction.
>
>I agree with you Bob.  An opinion in the introduction was not a very
>good idea.

What opinions do you think were stated in the introduction by (a) moderators,
and (b) individual noters?

				-- Bob
9.131XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 18:0313
Bob,

The opposition was from individual noters who had a different understanding
of "the standards of the notesfile" than I did.

I have since adjusted my standards of this notesfile to more closely
conform to theirs.  It was, indeed, the standards of this notesfile
which I was violating.  It was not my intention to do this and it is
still not clear to me that I was wrong in doing this.

Please don't confuse the standards of the notesfile either with the
moderators or the individual contributors.  The standards of the
notesfile stand on their own whether or not anyone agrees with them.
9.132No trying to change C-PXLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 18:0922
Just thought that this needed to be stated.

I have no goal of changing C-P at all (at this time - I did a while
back).  I am certainly not persuing this to suggest that C-P should
be different than it is.

Some of you have noted that there is a different notesfile with
different standards related to Christianity and that is quite right.
We don't need another Golf::Christian.

But I strongly think that we need to be as clear as we can be about
what C-P is.  Doesn't this make sense?  Admittedly, if you are very
clear about where C-P stands on an important issue such as the authority
of God in this notesfile, some will be offended and will not join.
Of course, if you are not clear then others will join and offend
existing noters creating ill feelings (which have already caused
people to leave from opposite ends of the theological perspective).

As I see it, the choice has been clearly defined.  Do with it what
you will.

Collis
9.133WILLEE::FRETTSThru our bodies we heal the EarthFri Jun 14 1991 18:1514
>But I strongly think that we need to be as clear as we can be about
>what C-P is.  Doesn't this make sense?  
    
    But Collis, it *is* clear to other people.
    
    If people are going to be offended no matter what you do then
    why don't we just drop this whole discussion?
    
    I have seen 'standards' used to drive people away instead of having
    healthy, honest, and tolerant communication.  There are two sides
    to every story.
    
    Carole
9.134XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonFri Jun 14 1991 18:2212
.133

But Carole, it *isn't* clear to other people.  I've referred to those
who it wasn't clear to.  Do you deny that this is true?

This notes conference has standards.  Period.  The only question is,
"what are the standards"?  That's what the introduction note is
all about.  It defines the standards.  All I'm saying is that it is
incomplete and that making it more complete will be a benefit both
to existing noters and new noters in the conference.  That's all.

Collis
9.135JURAN::SILVAMore than wordsFri Jun 14 1991 18:3629
	Collis, you first stated:


| This notes conference has standards.  Period.  

	You then go on to say:

| The only question is, "what are the standards"?  

	How can you say this conference has standards if you can't figure out
just what they are? It is my opinion that you wish there to be standards, but
as you have even told us yourself, "what are the standards?". If you don't
know, maybe there aren't any then. Maybe it's just a bunch of different people
telling others how they perceive God and His works, past and present, and
everyone joins in and compares their thoughts. I don't see any standard here.
Do you? If so, what is it?

	I know you take the Bible literally. Maybe this is the standard or
something like it that you wish to see here. It isn't going to work as not
everyone agrees with your logic on the subject. Many do, and many don't. Does
that make you wrong? Heck no! It's just your view of the world and God. Does
that mean you should never note in here? No, please keep noting. All it means
is you are expressing your view of the situation as how you see it, and that's
fine. We're doing the same as well. You must admit we're a very diversified
group. :-)



Glen
9.136and a halleujah, tooMEMORY::ANDREWSEcce compostus!Fri Jun 14 1991 18:458
    re: .132
    
    "We don't need another Golf::Christian"
    
    
    AMEN to that, Brother Collis   ;>)
    
    peter
9.137DECWIN::MESSENGERBob MessengerFri Jun 14 1991 18:4915
Collis,

I agree with Carole: C-P is made up a diverse set of people with different
expectations, so it's meaningless to ask what the standard of the conference
is.  You could ask what moderator A's standard is, or what individual noter
B's standard is, but there is no single conference standard.  That's why
I've been making a dictinction between the way rules are "ideally" applied
and the way they're applied in practice, or between the way the moderators
respond to the expression of a particular opinion and the way individual
noters might respond.

I don't think the conference introduction is misleading: it makes it clear
that we are not imposing a doctrinal standard on the conference.

				-- Bob
9.138XLIB::JACKSONCollis JacksonMon Jun 17 1991 12:559
Re:  .135

Glen,

I've explained it 5 or 7 or 10 times.  Is one more time going to make
a difference?  I think not.  If you want my explanations, please reread
the notes I've written in the last week.

Collis
9.139Maybe I'm dense, but...BSS::VANFLEETmm-mM-MM!!!!Wed Jun 26 1991 17:4427
Since I've been on vacation for the past 10 days I managed to
read all of the notes you've written on the subject of C-P
and it's standards or lack of standards in a single shot!  Whew!

Collis, it's still unclear to me what your goal is by continuing 
your requests for the moderators to define standards for the notesfile.  
What exactly do you want?  What is your goal?  Are you objecting to the 
term "Christian" in the conference name?  An inanimate object, especially
one as nebulous as a public forum on a network can only be defined as the 
sum of it's parts.  Since all of us are the parts of this particular entity 
and since our viewpoints are so different I don't see how we can define
a standard other than that we are all here to discuss subjects according to
an amorphously defined "Christian" perspective.  So, in a way, I would agree 
with you in that there is no standard definition of what a "Christian" 
perspective as it pertains to this notesfile.  On the other hand, because of
the diversity of viewpoints and the conflict that inevitably arises between
those with different viewpoints, it provides a unique opportunity for one to 
hone and define his or her beliefs without the fear of a dogmatically based 
censorship.

So again, I ask you Collis, what is your goal in trying to define a set of 
standards for this notesfile?  What do you hope to achieve by setting and
understanding these standards?  If you could define the standards of this
notesfile, taking into consideration the multiplicity of beliefs of the 
readership and what has been said in 1.*, what would they be?

Nanci 
9.140CSC32::J_CHRISTIEFull of green M&amp;M'sThu Jul 11 1991 21:078
>Note 31.201
>COMET::HAYESJ "Duck and cover!"

>re:  .198  Richard

I don't know about Bob, but I consider this a compliment!

Richard
9.141COMET::HAYESJDuck and cover!Sun Jul 14 1991 08:3910
    re:  .201  Richard (the real one)
    
    I'm glad you took it that way.  I hope Bob did too.
    
    Sorry for the mix-up.  Must be this 3rd shift schedule getting to me
    again.  Or my age.  Or both.
    
    
    Steve
    
9.142SDSVAX::SWEENEYSOAPBOX: more thought, more talkSun Sep 08 1991 21:243
    What does "SRO" mean in this conference?
    
    How can the last few replies to Note 30 be described as supportive?
9.143DPDMAI::DAWSONA moment....in time.Sun Sep 08 1991 23:098
    
            I always treat "SRO" as "sensitive reply's only".  IE....state
    you own opinions remembering that others might not agree or even like
    what you say.
    
    
    Dave
    co-mod
9.144*co-mod response*DPDMAI::DAWSONA moment....in time.Sun Sep 08 1991 23:1718
    RE: 9.142 re:30.*  Mr. Sweeney,
    
                             
                    I just read over the notes you are refering to and
    really saw no problem except a discussion about the defination of sin.
    IMHO that is a *VERY* valid discussion.  I did not read any discussion
    that might be termed "hateful".  
    
                    I *DO* have a problem with the "Supportive" part of the
    "SRO" issue.  If that is really what it means then only those who agree
    with the basenotes premise would be allowed to respond.  I do dislike
    notes that are nothing more than "back-slapping" and agreement.  This
    file exists for discussion of *ALL* points of view as ling as you can
    respect others opinions....and IMHO thats being done there.
    
    
    Dave
    co-mod CP
9.145SDSVAX::SWEENEYSOAPBOX: more thought, more talkMon Sep 09 1991 00:186
    Looks to me like your moderators really ought to get together and agree
    if the "S" in SRO is for sensitive or supportive.
    
    Your note 8.1 here indicates that the "S" is supportive.  If you don't
    enforce the SRO policy then you might want to disavow it, or am I
    reading this wrong and the SRO designation is only a suggestion.
9.146DPDMAI::DAWSONA moment....in time.Mon Sep 09 1991 02:2714
    RE: .145  SDSVAX::SWEENEY,
    
    
                               I read your note to say that "supportive"
    should, in your mind, mean all should agree.  There is *NO* notes file
    I know where this is true.  So rather than come in here and redefine
    our policy's, I suggest you look to your own motives.  The word
    "supportive" could well have the same meaning as "sensitive" in this
    context.   If all agree within a file string, then why have it at all?   
    Discussion of all points of view is the reason for this file.  I looked
    at the string you pointed out and did not find a problem, are we now to
    argue semantics?
    
    Dave
9.147Again: What does SRO mean?SDSVAX::SWEENEYSOAPBOX: more thought, more talkMon Sep 09 1991 11:303
    No, we're not arguing semantics, I'm asking questions to understand
    exactly what is an what isn't "SRO" here.  Hey! It's your policy, not
    mine... And you're questioning my motives???
9.148I think Pat's right on thisXANADU::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Mon Sep 09 1991 11:4811
re Note 9.147 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:

        Pat,

        I'm inclined to agree with you -- SRO was intended, IMHO, to
        mean non-critical responses only, as you say, supportive. 
        This is especially true for a topic that has two other
        companion topics:  SRO for the opposition, and general
        discussion!

        Bob
9.149SA1794::SEABURYMZen: It's Not What You ThinkMon Sep 09 1991 12:078
      I thought SRO meant Standing Room Only. Shows how much I know.

      The companion topic for follow-up discussion that has evolved
     seems to work pretty good. 


                                                                Mike 
9.150CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWatch your peace &amp; cuesMon Sep 09 1991 19:529
    I have moved 30.45 through 30.57 to Note 31, which has been
    renamed from "Abortion Debate Note" to "Abortion Discussion &
    Debate Note."
    
    While the moderators were not in total unanimity, this action
    seems to reflect the consensus of the team.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    CoModerator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
9.151OVER::JACKSONCollis Jackson ZKO2-3L06Mon Sep 09 1991 20:124
I would have preferred to have left some (if not all) of my notes
where they were, but it's no big deal.

Collis
9.152CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWatch your peace &amp; cuesMon Sep 09 1991 22:4012
.151

Collis,

	I'll move the notes you want moved.  Just let me know which ones.
You also have the capability to move your own notes via the command
SET NOTE/NOTE=30.XX.

	I saw greater continuity in keeping the notes together.

Peace,
Richard
9.153Not strictly for accumulation of dataCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierTue Dec 24 1991 19:4830
Note 91.738

>    If, after 737 replies, anyone believes that there is anything new to
>    this discussion that would increase the community's collective
>    understanding of the various points of view, then by all means please
>    share it with us.

I, too, doubt that new evidence, whether empirical, Scriptural or otherwise,
is likely to surface under topic 91 in the foreseeable future.

>    But
>    one can vigorously disagree with a position that one understands, and
>    understanding does not imply agreement.  It is acceptable to be morally
>    offended.

Verily.

>    There is only so much
>    that can be said before you repeat yourself.  Then what?  Butting one's
>    head against a brick wall?  From my perspective, you don't waste your
>    breath (or your fingers) trying to convince the unconvinceable.

I find the spiritual wrestling I do in 91 and other topics to be a worthwhile
thing in most instances.  I find the gymnastics I am put through, spiritually
speaking, strengthens and shores up the faith I possess.  I have no illusions
about my inability to change other people's minds.  If it ever happens that I
do, I will be shocked and surprised, and I will praise the Most High God.

Peace,
Richard
9.154Are our notes here not examples of philosophizing?CRBOSS::VALENZAGordian knoteWed Dec 25 1991 01:048
    Good point, Richard.  That is probably one reason why philosophy
    fascinates me; after at least 2500 years of wrangling over the great
    issues, philosophers in the West have not shown much success at
    producing any final answers.  But that is not really what it is all
    about.  It is the process of philosophizing that is often its own
    reward (Murray Code refers to this process as one of storytelling.)

    -- Mike
9.155A minor nit... (a mousehole?)LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Dec 31 1991 10:2510
    Gee, I think philosophizing is discussing our *thoughts and beliefs*,
    in other words, the conclusions we have distilled from our experiences,
    our life-stories.  Story-telling is the telling of our experiences
    themselves rather than the conclusions we have reached as a result of
    those experiences.
    
    While I enjoy both, story-telling is usually much more powerful for me.
    
    Nancy
    
9.156CARTUN::BERGGRENGrab yer candle and dance!Tue Dec 31 1991 12:415
    Story-telling is more powerful for me too Nancy! :-)
    
    happy holidays,
    
    Karen
9.157we almost have general pointers NOWLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Jan 02 1992 11:4226
re Note 370.11 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (and 370.10 by Pat Sweeney):

>     Pointers also have their value.
    
        Digital has it now! (well, almost)

        The latest version of the DECwindows interface for VAX Notes
        supports "linkworks" (a.k.a. Memex) -- Digital's hypermedia
        linking mechanism.

        However, the links are not associated and shared with the
        conference (by default), but are part of each user's private
        "linkbase" file.  LinkWorks (not sure of the proper
        capitalization of the trademark) does allow users to access
        additional, shared linkbases over DECnet connections.  As of
        today, VAX Notes does nothing to support shared link bases
        automatically.  We could, however, set up a shared linkbase
        to the Christian-Perspective conference.

        One BIG drawback would be that character cell users of VAX
        Notes, and indeed all users who did not use DECwindows VAX
        Notes 2.2 and do the setup for the shared linkbase, would see
        none of this at all, not even an indication of what they were
        missing.

        Bob
9.158LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Jan 10 1992 20:1013
re Note 383.9 by AITE::WASKOM:

>     But my stand on this is not that taken by the rest of
>     the conference.  

        It really isn't appropriate to say this -- "the conference"
        is not an entity whose position on issues can be easily
        ascertained.  There are at least as many readers who never,
        or almost never, write as there are occasional writers.  And
        only a small percentage of the total readers and writers are
        frequent writers.

        Bob
9.159CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierWed Mar 25 1992 01:3521
Note 91.867

>You people be patient with me.  It's been a long long time since I've
>been in the House of the Lord ... but ... as your conference"welcome"
>message says ... you invited me here, although I am neither a prostitue
>nor a tax collector, I get the general idea :-) ...

And as long as I am employed by Digital Equipment Corporation and as long
as God grants that I may draw breath, your insights and participation will
*always* be welcome in this conference.

In all fairness to you, Jerry, I must also report, with no small degree of
heartache, that some participants here have driven a number of people away
from this conference and have done so without blatant infractions of Digital
policies.

Though I would like to think it an unnecessary precaution, I beg you to wear
your steel-toed shoes.

Peace,
Richard
9.160CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierWed Mar 25 1992 15:3120
Note 91.885

>	I had no expectation that the same people who complained about my note
>	would complain about Jerry's. That would have been hoping for fairness
>	that I do not believe exists. And I do not nor have I ever believed
>	that my comments equated gays and Nazi's. Jerry's note did seem to
>	equate the proposed law to Nazi laws. Thus if anything his comments
>	were more objectionable than mine.

Alfred,

	I agree that your comments have not equated gays to Nazis, rather
the one note that comes to mind tried to parallel the appreciation of gays
with an appreciation of Nazis.

	I did vote you, incidentally.  Because I do appreciate you and believe
you to be someone of responsibility and enormous integrity.

Peace,
Richard
9.161I decide. MORO::BEELER_JETwo stepin' wid' dogsWed Mar 25 1992 17:0326
.159> And as long as I am employed by Digital Equipment Corporation and as
.159> long as God grants that I may draw breath, your insights and participa-
.159> tion will *always* be welcome in this conference.

Thank you.  I appreciate your taking the time to say that.  I really do.

.159> In all fairness to you, Jerry, I must also report, with no small degree
.159> of heartache, that some participants here have driven a number of people
.159> away from this conference and have done so without blatant infractions
.159> of Digital policies.

I doubt seriously that I could be "driven away".  I, and I alone, will decide
whether or not I stay or leave.  I watched with utter disgust as some members
of Christian-Perspective were "driven", in no uncertain terms, from another
conference.  I will not enter notes in this aforementioned (and unnamed) con-
ference for the simple reason that there is a 'guilt by association' in par-
ticipating, not to mention the hypocrisy, unprofessional and rude treatment
of members, and blatant double standards.  I left.  I was not "driven away".

.159> Though I would like to think it an unnecessary precaution, I beg you
.159> to wear your steel-toed shoes.

You think right.  It is an "unnecessary" precaution.  I thank you for your
concern and "warning".

Bubba
9.162COOKIE::JANORDBYThe government wins most electionsWed Mar 25 1992 17:105
    re .159.
    
    AMEN!
    
    Jamey
9.163As the world turns ....MORO::BEELER_JETwo stepin' wid' dogsThu Mar 26 1992 03:1738
I am what is commonly called a Note-a-holic.  I love VAX Notes.  I love a
good thought provoking discussion.  I thrive on diversity for I feel that we
can all learn from each other.

I do not deny but that I entered this conference realizing that I may be "as
an ox goeth to the slaughter, or a fool to the correction of the stocks".  I
knew that there would be disagreement - sometimes emotional.  Yet, in the
very short time here I've received what I perceive to be a warm welcome:

9.159> .. your insights and participation will *always* be welcome in
9.159> this conference.

A misunderstanding with a prompt and sincere apology:

91.901> I'm sorry for misunderstanding you, then, Jerry.

A comment regarding my integrity:

91.889> It would be great if those involved could handle themselves with the
91.889> integrity that Jerry shows here.

At the same time I have clearly stated my opposition to a proposed political
stance - compared it to the Nazis, no less. Clearly stated that I haven't set
foot in a place of worship in nearly 20 years.  Do not subscribe to any
organized religion.... yet I feel welcome.  Incredible.  I'm impressed.
I'm pleased.  I'm flattered.

Oh, knowing VAX Notes and the type of discussions that can result, and, the
inadequacies of this electronic medium .. I'm sure that my trial by fire,
in this conference, will come.  Don't worry, Mr. Christie, this battered old
Marine has been shot at before.  They haven't got me yet.  Close, but, no
cigar.

In the meantime I feel welcome and just wanted to say 'thanks'.

Bubba

PS:  However, as George Washington said, "In times of peace, prepare for war". 
9.165CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu Mar 26 1992 18:2715
Re: "Driven away" versus "leaving."

People who are tender in the faith are less likely to withstand the
winds of aggression than those whose faith is more deeply rooted.

The person who enters a casino with $10 is less likely to risk and is
more like to depart earlier than the one who enter the same casino at
the same time with $1000.

So, strictly speaking, you are correct.  No one is really driven away.
At the same time, some people may leave because they have the feeling
that they can no longer afford to risk.  That's all I mean.

Peace,
Richard
9.166CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierWed Apr 29 1992 17:379
>    Wrong! It's your topic, but you don't control nor own any replies. 

Yes, Steven (aka Playtoe).  You've got us there.  You can certainly disregard
whatever you choose to disregard.

Of course, you may neither win nor come to understand the hearts and minds
of others.  But, that's not really a priority for you, I gather.

Richard
9.167VIDSYS::PARENTThe girl in the mirrorThu Apr 30 1992 13:3814
>    Wrong! It's your topic, but you don't control nor own any replies. 

   Yes, Playtoe tis true.  They are your opinions, a truly personal part
   of yourself you have shared.  I respect that they are dear to you.
   I have done the same in sharing mine.  I was trying to reach the
   healing ministry of Christ.  I could continue the topic, but to what
   point, there is only one true light and we have been subjected to 
   yours, like a deer in a spotlight.  

   Peace,
   Allison


9.168Warts and allCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierFri May 15 1992 20:2320
Bubba,

	Actually, I'm glad you're getting a glimpse of the broad range
of perspectives which Christians hold.

	Some Christians are supremely inclusive and reconciling, others are
less so.  Some Christians' lives are ruled by unselfish love, others are less
so.  Some will hold open the Bible to you in an expression of invitation,
others will beat you over the head with it.

	We Christians are not without our blemishes.  Neither is our history. 
Some of the worst atrocities ever committed have been done in the name of
Christ.  Some of the greatest and most compassionate works ever carried
out have been done in the name of the same Christ.

	I think Bob Fleischer said it eloquently and succinctly in note
91.1091.

Peace be with you,
Richard
9.169Thanks! I needed that!MORO::BEELER_JEOne mean Marine!Fri May 15 1992 21:5210
    Thanks, Richard.  I have (for the most part) been of the mind that to
    be a "Christian" ... well ... I've got to fit into some sort of mold.
    Such is obviously not the case.  The diversity of Christian beliefs
    tends to boggle the mind.  Perhaps there is an outside chance that I
    may some day wonder back ... you never know.

    There is still once side of "religion" and/or Christianity that scares
    me though ... perhaps we'll get to that later.

    Bubba
9.170COOKIE::JANORDBYnext year...Fri May 15 1992 23:037
    
    
    And some, Jerry, will water it down until it means nothing, pandering
    to every human whim and trying to make the Bible say that it is OK.
    Surely God would approve.
    
    Jamey
9.171CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierFri May 15 1992 23:585
    Fortunately (or perhaps, unfortunately), Jerry, there's nobody here that
    fits the description in 9.170.
    
    ;-)
    Richard
9.172A call for self-restraintCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierTue May 19 1992 19:0313
I'm beginning to find statements that say, "I have the only true and correct
answer and your words are simply so much garbage!" unnecessarily
disrespectful and insulting.

I believe such remarks to be in violation of the spirit of corporate
values and policy.

I apologize for any similarly derogatory statements I may have made in the
past.  And I urge voluntary self-restraint on the part of all participants
in all future dealings within this notesfile.

Peace,
Richard
9.173does the source matter?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue May 19 1992 21:2511
re Note 9.172 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

> I'm beginning to find statements that say, "I have the only true and correct
> answer and your words are simply so much garbage!" unnecessarily
> disrespectful and insulting.
  
        Do you feel any differently about words such as "The Bible
        has the only true and correct answer and your words are
        simply so much garbage!"

        Bob
9.174Disparity versus DiversityCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierTue May 19 1992 22:1419
Note 9.173

>        Do you feel any differently about words such as "The Bible
>        has the only true and correct answer and your words are
>        simply so much garbage!"

Well, it depends.

What the above really says is, "*My interpretation (understanding, paradigm)
of the Bible* is the only true and correct answer and your words....."

But what really disturbs me is not this so much as the unqualified and
sweeping allegation contained in such statements as, "You have no
understanding of....(Christianity, the Bible, humanity, whatever)."

To me, this is creating disparity, not valuing diversity.

Peace,
Richard
9.175Also see .172 and .174CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu May 21 1992 01:3910
Note 91.1217

>    This is amazing, Glen, that you would come to this realization...

There are at least two ways that this remark may be taken.  At least
one of the ways to interpret the remark is as an insult.

Would you please explain what you meant by this remark, Jamey?

Richard
9.176Wazzup?MORO::BEELER_JEOne mean Marine!Thu May 21 1992 04:454
    What I want to know is ... how's the petition drive going in the State
    of Colorady?  How 'bout an update.
    
    Bubba
9.177CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu May 21 1992 15:406
Bubba,

Enough signatures were gathered.  The proposed amendment, as it appears in
91.844, will be on the November ballot in Colorado.

Richard
9.178COOKIE::JANORDBYnext year...Thu May 21 1992 16:4016
    
    
    Richard,
    
    To me, amazing is the appropriate word. So many folks, here and in
    other places, have tried to convey this concept to Glen over hundreds
    of replies. It truly stunned me to see him so succinctly verbalize it
    so well. It tells me that he indeed understands the concept. If he
    would take it just a step further, he would understand the implications
    for those who believe homosexuality to be sinful. The only point of
    contention would be that of the sinfulness of homosexuality. Once that
    is established, we would be in agreement. The rest of the 'rights'
    stuff would fall be the wayside. 
    
    
    Jamey
9.179I'm with Richard...DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeMon May 25 1992 15:2623

                I am going to add my voice to Richards and ask the the 
current community, within Christian-Perspective, exercise restraint when
discussions threaten to become heated.  The policy and purpose of this file
has been stated on numerous occasions.  As in all types of communications,
each individual is required to assume responsibility for what is related 
by him/her.  This includes the natural feelings of anger and frustration
associated with views contrary to your own.  In *THIS* file, and I speak
for this one alone, *ALL* views are allowed except when they cross the
boundries covering issues of entire entities such as an entire religious
organization (the Catholic Church), sweeping and derogatory statements
regarding a race or people (Jews, Blacks, or Women), or personal statements
that are insulting and combative to another.  This is a place to learn 
of other thoughts and ideas....discuss them and see what might come of them.

                I see Christian-Perspective as a place to learn about other
thoughts and religions.  I do not see it as a place to "cram" my religion
down someone elses throat, though I will and have discussed what *I* 
believe. 


Dave
9.180Reiteration and pointerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistTue May 26 1992 23:317
So that there's no confusion, allow me to reiterate that there is a file
where the parameters are defined exclusively by the Bible.  This is not it.
    
Please see Note 7.3 for more information.

Peace,
Richard
9.181CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistWed Jun 03 1992 20:1016
Note 463.13

>     These have been great REPLYs.  Wish some of the other topics  (need  I
>     mention 91 :^/) could be as well mannered!

Alvin,

	Yes, Topic 91 has become pretty intense at times.  At the same
time, I feel positive about the fact that 91 has been a topic which *could*
be approached at all.

	Other sensitive topics which have been addressed fairly well here
include 352, Christianity and Naturism, and 229, Christianity and Sexuality.

Peace,
Richard
9.182With fear and trepedation ...MORO::BEELER_JERoss Perot for PresidentThu Jun 04 1992 18:2514
    This conference has actually inspired me.  I *think* (undecided as of
    yet) that I'm going to find me a Methodist church somewhere in my
    neighborhood ... and attend services next Sunday.

    Should I advise the pastor (in advance) that he should increase his
    insurance on the structure? I have been forewarned that the roof may
    indeed collapse when I walk in.

    Wish me luck.  There's a lot of things that I've lost.  I think that I
    may well go looking for them again and see if they've aged any in the
    last 20 years.  I don't know.  I'm almost scared.  Incredible isn't it,
    actually scared.

    Bubba
9.183Nice First StepMICRON::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAThu Jun 04 1992 18:323
    Don't worry about it Jerry. You will move forward at your own pace.
    
    Marc H.
9.184RE: .182 - Best of luck, Bubba. Wish I could be there to help.HLYCOW::ORZECHAlvin Orzechowski @ACIThu Jun 04 1992 19:280
9.185SOLVIT::MSMITHSo, what does it all mean?Thu Jun 04 1992 19:291
    Think of it as an opportunity to explore, to challenge yourself.
9.186CARTUN::BERGGRENheart full of songThu Jun 04 1992 20:274
    Good for you Bubba!  Another adventure!  I'll be sending you 
    warm thoughts, and a hand to hold as you walk in. ;-) :-)
    
    Karen
9.187CARTUN::BERGGRENheart full of songThu Jun 04 1992 20:287
    Alfred?  Alfred?
    
    
    
            I think Alfred has fainted.
    
    
9.188WMOIS::REINKEThe year of hurricane BonnieThu Jun 04 1992 21:291
    I think so too, Karen!
9.189CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistThu Jun 04 1992 23:429
Bubba .182!

This is phenomenal news!  This is great news!  I can't help but suspect
that perhaps the Spirit has been nudging you for awhile.

Richard

PS  Of course you know that since you announced it you'll be expected to
report back to us on the experience.
9.190But .. I'm still scared ...MORO::BEELER_JERoss Perot for PresidentFri Jun 05 1992 00:1520
.189> Of course you know that since you announced it you'll be expected to
.189> report back to us on the experience.

Well, perhaps in "announcing" it there's a certain element that will nudge
me closer toward doing it....sorta' like now_I've_said_it_I've_got_to_do_it.
Like I said, I'm *thinking* about it.  That is, in my opinion, a reasonable
first step.

As to "reporting back" .. Ha!  When Alfred hears of this he'll want a call
from the minister of the church, and, in all probability 8" x 10" photos of
everything!  I'm sure that he'll provide adequate "after action" reports.

Oh, and, if y'all hear of a magnitude 7 earthquake centered in Bakersfield,
on a Sunday ... don't get all excited ... it's probably God's way of saying
"Beeler, *what* are you doing *here*?"

Bubba

PS - we haven't heard from Alfred yet.  If anyone knows where he lives,
best call "911" and get the paramedics over there - quick.
9.191don't worry, the church will not bite and if the minister does let me know and I take care of itCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistFri Jun 05 1992 13:0518
	RE: .187,.188, .190

	OK, I'm ok now. I think. Actually  I was out most of yesterday. First
	with car trouble and then picking my mother in law up at the airport.
	So this was strong stuff to read first thing in the morning. But I'm
	opening my morning decaf Coke and trying the deep breathing to relax.

	Jerry, now don't worry. Attending a church will not automatically turn
	you into a sober, boring, Christian like myself anymore than attending
	graduation at Parris Island makes one a Marine. And the building will
	be fine. I make no such claim for the minister. :-) Though most likely
	he/she's seen lots worse come through the door. God BTW will know 
	exactly why you're there. Knowing things is his "thing." :-)

	I've been praying for you (as you know). Now I've got to start praying
	for some minister I don't even know. He may need it more then you.

			Alfred
9.192SOLVIT::MSMITHSo, what does it all mean?Fri Jun 05 1992 14:138
    Hmm, the last time I walked into a church, my daughter's wedding, you
    see, the skies became dark and threatening, and eventually opened up
    with lightning and thunder as hadn't been seen in October for many a
    year.  Do you think somone was trying to tell me something, or was it
    just a coincidence?
    

    Mike
9.193CARTUN::BERGGRENheart full of songFri Jun 05 1992 14:395
    Alfred .191,
    
    :-) :-)  
    
    Karen
9.194CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistTue Jun 16 1992 22:2615
I want to emphasize that topic 463 is in no way intended to bash or
slur either Catholicism or the Roman Catholic Church.  But I believe
the Catholic experience to be unique, and strongly suspect that there
is value in focusing on that unique experience.

I would not be opposed to a topic on "Recovering Fundamentalists" or
"Burned by the church."  In fact, I've been toying with the idea of
initiating a basenote on "Unitarian-Universalism as 'religious safety
net,'" which would doubtlessly raise eyebrows among UU's.

I would like to believe that this notefile honors its diversity and
is willing to consider difficult topics.

Peace,
Richard
9.195Are we playing "old tapes"?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistMon Jun 22 1992 20:3123
I suspect there may exist some degree of unnecessary defensiveness towards
Collis, and that his feeling of being unfairly responded to may, to that 
degree, be accurate.

I would remind all that Collis Jackson has been a part of C-P practically
since its inception.  Though we've not always shared congruent perspectives,
Collis has never denounced anyone here as a heretic or worse.

I have to confess that I felt more than a little uneasy about Jehovah's
Witnesses being labeled a cult in Note 472.5.  The term "cult" is fraught
with less than favorable connotations.  However, after re-reading it several
times, I concluded that Collis was simply presenting the view of a segment
of Christianity, which may or may not reflect his personal views.

On the other hand, it is perfectly understandable to me that those of us
who've been confronted by zealous guardians of conservative doctrine in the
past may draw conclusions, which may or may not be accurate, based upon the
previous confrontation(s).  As Mark Twain once said, "A cat, having sat upon
a hot burner, will never sit upon a hot burner again...but neither will it
sit upon a cool one."

Peace,
Richard
9.196CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistTue Jun 23 1992 02:4313
Note 469.26
    
SDSVAX::SWEENEY "Gotham City's Software Consultant"   2 lines  22-JUN-1992 22:24
    
>                       -< Play games with someone else >-
    
>    I won't be baited into some sort of rhetorical trap by people who
>    claim to have a knowledge of things Christian and things Catholic.

I perceive no trap here, nor do I perceive a reason to flame on.

Agnus Dei, Dona nobis pacem!
Richard
9.197What's so bad about feeling good?SDSVAX::SWEENEYGotham City's Software ConsultantTue Jun 23 1992 11:2712
    The rhetorical trap is to describe who is not saved.
    
    If we don't start from a premise that the Bible is the word of God, and
    that Jesus meant what is recorded in the Bible, then anyone who teaches
    what Jesus taught regarding sin is going to be as a crank or worse.
    
    Local orthodoxy in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is all religions are good
    religions if they inspire good feelings: To feel good about oneself is
    the ultimate goal.
    
    Every question I enter is answered with a call to examine my own
    beliefs. Well, folks, start examining your own.
9.198DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeTue Jun 23 1992 12:5710
    RE: .197 Pat,
    
    
    		The premis of this file is to allow all peoples and beliefs
    a place to express, in public, what they believe.  The key word here is
    what "they" believe.  Statements of Christianity needs to be owned by
    the author.  I cannot remember when I convinced someone I was right by
    stating that they were wrong.  Its a matter of perspective.
    
    Dave
9.199You're kidding, I hope, RichardCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 13:0811
>>    I won't be baited into some sort of rhetorical trap by people who
>>    claim to have a knowledge of things Christian and things Catholic.
>
>I perceive no trap here, nor do I perceive a reason to flame on.

	I perceive no flame. The rhetorical trap Pat speaks of though is
	quite obvious to even to most casual of observers. Assuming they
	have any idea of what the Catholic church teaches about salvation.
	Or for that matter, what Jesus teaches.

			Alfred
9.200What is the church's position on salvation via other religions?BUFFER::CIOTOLazy, hazy, crazy days...Tue Jun 23 1992 13:2613
    The question I posed in 469.25 about the possibility of salvation via
    other religions was a very sincere one.   Moreover, it was asked
    primarily due to Patrick's 'fundamental question' regarding the way to
    salvation in 469.14 and Mike's subsequent inquiries about the church's 
    written stand on salvation through other religions.  Therefore, I am
    very interested in finding out whether the Catholic church and
    individual Catholics believe that it is possible for people to realize 
    salvation via other religions.   The reluctance on the part of some to 
    state their opinions/beliefs at face value, and instead accuse others
    of playing games and setting traps, pretty much puzzles me.
    
    Paul
                                                 
9.201one can get burned in this conferenceCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 13:3513
	Paul, you have to understand that some of us have had others refuse
	to answer our questions while they at the same time demanded we answer
	theirs. One gets gun shy after a while until trust is re-built. 

	You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
	church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
	sort of like claiming you went to school but don't know how to read.
	Sure it happens that people go to school and don't learn how to read
	but it's not the normal case. So perhaps you were raised a Catholic
	and yet don't know one of the most basic teachings but it's hard to
	me to accept easily.

			Alfred
9.202JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jun 23 1992 13:3545
    I admit I was also quite taken aback by Pat's hostile response to Paul's
    questions, which struck me as heartfelt and sincere.  I suspect that
    Paul was simply trying to understand where Pat was coming from. 
    Simply because a person from a different perspective than asks
    a series a questions about one's beliefs, that doesn't necessarily
    mean that there is always a hidden motive, a desire to trap or bait,
    or otherwise attack.  The assumption of hidden motives seems
    unnecessary, and the overt hostility unfortunate.

    I admit that I am as confused as Paul was about the point of Pat's
    questions about salvation and other religions, and I was interested in
    hearing the answers to Paul's questions.  I honestly don't know what the
    point of Pat's criticisms are, so answering questions would help me (and
    others, I am sure) better understand what he is saying.  I'm pretty
    sure he is criticizing something--that much is clear.  It would seem,
    unfortunately, that further elaboration and discussion doesn't seem
    possible, since any questions by any of us for more information are met
    with hostility and sarcasm.  A give and take of dialogue doesn't seem
    to be the order of the day.

    Now I am hearing that the question of salvation for non-Christians is a
    trap.  The only reason I can fathom this view that is that Pat
    believes, as his church does, that salvation exists for non-Christians,
    but that he also believes, as his church does, in the primacy of
    Christianity; and perhaps he feels that when others ask about this
    belief in salvation for non-Christians, they are trying to "trap" him
    into agreeing to an acceptance of equal theological validity of all
    religions.  I don't see it that way.  I, for one, recognize that his
    church takes both of these positions--the theological truth of
    Christianity, and salvation for people of non-Christian faiths--and I
    understand why his church believes as it does. 

    Where the confusion lies is that his questions about Christ being the
    only source of salvation seemed to be directed criticizing at those who
    believe in tolerance of other faiths, as if this is a bad thing.  But
    since a belief in salvation for non-Christians implies a tolerance for
    other faiths--for example, the passage I cited from Vatican II shows
    great respect for the relationship with God that Moslems have--it isn't
    clear where the criticism is coming from.

    And Alfred, correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression
    that you believe that non-Christians are denied salvation.  If so, then
    it would seem that you and Pat disagree on this point

    -- Mike
9.203JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jun 23 1992 13:397
	>You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
	>church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
    
    So Alfred, are you calling Paul a liar?  Are you questioning the
    sincerity and motives of people who participate here?
    
    -- Mike
9.204SDSVAX::SWEENEYGotham City's Software ConsultantTue Jun 23 1992 13:5010
    The insincerity is in denying knowledge of the answer.

    Do you honestly think that I can write into this conference what the
    Roman Catholic Church teaches regarding salvation, and have people
    reply "Gee, I didn't know that"?

    No, the question is a rhetorical trap to trigger hostility towards the
    beliefs of Roman Catholics.  Many here know what the Roman Catholic
    Church teaches regarding salvation and lie in wait for a foil to
    mention those beliefs only so that they can be disparaged.
9.205CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 13:5210
>    And Alfred, correct me if I am wrong, but I was under the impression
>    that you believe that non-Christians are denied salvation.  If so, then
>    it would seem that you and Pat disagree on this point

	I believe that anyone who has never sinned gets salvation. If one
	has ever sinned then Jesus is required for salvation. If Pat or the
	Catholic church teaches differently then, yes, we disagree. It would
	not be the only disagreement I had with the Catholic church.

			Alfred
9.206CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 13:5513
>	>You claim to have been raised a Roman Catholic and yet not know the
>	>church's teaching on salvation. I'm skeptical of that claim. It's
>    
>    So Alfred, are you calling Paul a liar?  Are you questioning the
>    sincerity and motives of people who participate here?

	Not calling him a liar. That would require that I know he knows the
	church's teachings. Just expressing reasonable skepticism. I do not
	question the sincerity and motives of people in general in this
	conference. Though I do from time to time question the sincerity and 
	motives of some individuals here. I thought that was clear already.

			Alfred
9.207JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jun 23 1992 14:2530
    First of all, Patrick, it may surprise you, but not everyone who
    participates here is infinitely knowledgeable on Roman Catholic
    doctrine.  Many of us may very well be surprised by what we learn here.

    As for the following paragraph:

        No, the question is a rhetorical trap to trigger hostility towards
        the beliefs of Roman Catholics.  Many here know what the Roman
        Catholic Church teaches regarding salvation and lie in wait for a
        foil to mention those beliefs only so that they can be disparaged.

    Your attacks on the motives of the people who participate here is
    really unfortunate, not to mention offensive.  I honestly don't
    understand why you carry such a chip on your shoulder, and attack
    people here simply because many of us (but not all) have different
    opinions than you do.  The fact that others have different opinions
    than you do doesn't mean that their motives are all malicious when they
    discuss a subject with you, and such vehement attacks are uncalled for.

    Furthermore, I, for one, am not interested in "disparaging" Roman
    Catholic beliefs on salvation, particularly since they are generally
    more tolerant and respectful of other faiths than the views of many
    Protestants; so I actually have a certain degree of respect for the
    Catholic position, even if I don't completely agree with it.  You are
    certainly entitled to your views, and I respect your right to hold your
    views, but if you are interested in discussing the motives of people who
    participate here, there is no need to assume a priori that they are all
    malicious in intent.

    -- Mike
9.208OFFSHR::PAY$FRETTSTue Jun 23 1992 16:5613
     RE: .201
    
     >> -< one can get burned in this conference >-
    
     >, you have to understand that some of us have had others refuse
     >to answer our questions while they at the same time demanded we
     >answer theirs.  One gets gun shy after a while until trust is
     >re-built.
    
     Give it a rest, Alfred.
    
    
     Carole
9.209thanks for proving my pointCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 17:140
9.210No, I'm not playing dumb. What is the current church position?BUFFER::CIOTOLazy, hazy, crazy days...Tue Jun 23 1992 17:3333
    Gee, can I say something???
    
    ;)
    
    Um, Patrick and Alfred, it is unfathomable to me that you think I am
    pretending ignorance, pretending to not know about present Catholic
    church positions regarding the salvation of non-Christians.  Plus
    I'm also baffled over how/why you think I am deliberately 'lying in
    wait' in an effort to trip you up or make you look bad or whatever it
    is you think I am doing.
    
    Alfred, I left the Catholic church in 1972, the year I turned 18.
    Back then, my understanding of the church's position on this matter --
    given impressions I received from my parish leaders and CCD and other
    Catholics in general during the 1960s, the era I grew up in the church
    -- was that even *protestants* would not realize salvation, let alone
    non-Christians.   This was my understanding back then, for better or
    for worse.
    
    I've been away from the church for 20 years, so I'm not familiar with
    its stances on this or that, in the form of written decrees or
    whatever, today.  I am not going to pretend to know something when I 
    really don't know, contrary to what you may surmise about me.   So, I 
    would *sincerely* like to know the church's position on the possibility 
    of salvation for non-Christians.  Is it possible?  If so, under what
    circumstances?
    
    As for deriving Truth and meaning from, and appreciating, the gospels
    and the teachings of Jesus, IMHO, one does not have to call oneself
    'Christian' in order to do so.
    
    Paul
    
9.211JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jun 23 1992 17:3710
    I don't know, Paul, perhaps it is easier to start from the assumption
    that you are lying unless you prove otherwise, than to start from the
    assumption that you are being honest.  Why give you the benefit of the
    doubt when instead one can assume ulterior motives and malicious intent?
    
    But the good side of this is that if you can convince Alfred that you
    are not lying, at least then you won't be on his blacklist of insincere
    noters--at least not for now.
    
    -- Mike
9.212CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Jun 23 1992 18:058
>    But the good side of this is that if you can convince Alfred that you
>    are not lying, at least then you won't be on his blacklist of insincere
>    noters--at least not for now.

	He convinced me. Wasn't too bad was it? Is making a list your goal
	Mike? 

			Alfred
9.213if I only knew I was ignorant....PACKED::PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Jun 23 1992 18:051
Hey, Paul, I believe you.  :-)
9.214Don't worry, my friend, we know you're ignorant too. ;)BUFFER::CIOTOLazy, hazy, crazy days...Tue Jun 23 1992 18:155
    Hey Collis, don't worry.  We can remind you of what you don't 
    readily realize yourself.   8)
    
    Paul
    
9.215A call for restraintCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistTue Jun 23 1992 18:5812
    I'm calling for restraint from personal attacks and innuendo.  If
    the only way you can make your point in this forum is through insult
    and belittlement, then your argument carries very little integral
    strength of its own.
    
    If it bothers you to engage persons who do not necessarily share the
    beliefs you hold as wholly right and true, then I suggest that you
    consider a more suitable notesfile.  I will ask no one to conform to
    any orthodoxy.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
9.216HEFTY::SEABURYMZen: It's Not What You ThinkTue Jun 23 1992 20:4410
     Let me rephrase Richard's comments for those of you did 
    not quite get his point:

                        Chill Dudes. 


                                                   Mike

     Geeze, play nice, OK ?
9.222Reference 101.47DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeThu Jul 16 1992 18:2814
    RE: .47  Mr Sweeney,
    
    		That, Mr Sweeney, is the second time, that I know of, that
    you have accused this file with having a "clique".  I ask you now to
    state your reasons why believe such and name names.  Such volitile
    statements offends me and belittles a file whose intent and purpose it
    to give *ALL* people a voice.  Why you would choose to disrupt the
    harmony of this file I have no idea.
    
    		As for your accusations against Richard, I find them
    without any merit what-so-ever.  His tone was not one of ridicule, as I
    read it, but I do find that your last two notes in this string do.
    
    Dave  
9.217CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeaceThu Jul 16 1992 19:1518
Brother Sweeney 101.47,

>    The tone of ridicule isn't an invitation to debate opinion, it's an

I guess if you're referring to my note 101.43, then you're right.  It's
not an invitation for debate.  It's my own editorial commentary based on
my own Christian perspective.

>    Look, if you want to contend that people of New York City would be
>    better off _not_ to follow the advice for living Pat Robertson has than
>    _to_ follow it, that would be an interesting discussion.

I know very little of what it's like to live in New York City and so I
would be reluctant to initiate such a string myself, but you may feel free
to do so.

Peace,
Richard
9.223Reference 101.47WMOIS::REINKEthe fire and the rose are oneThu Jul 16 1992 19:4712
    in re .47
    
    The only reason that there appears to be a clique here, is the same
    reason that people have been accused of such behavior in other files,
    i.e. that people have been noting here for some time and have come
    to know each other. There is no coordinated 'sub group' that plans
    actions off line against other people.
    
    We are a friendly group, and we try to be as welcoming as people
    will let us.
    
    Bonnie
9.224DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Thu Jul 16 1992 19:589
    There is no clique here, as has already been discussed in top 479. 
    This is actually one of the warmer and more welcoming notes communities
    on the network.  Of course, if one approaches this or any other
    community with repeated hostility, sarcasm, and negatively charged
    language directed at others, they are not likely to get a positive
    response from the community.  That isn't cliquishness--that's just
    human nature.

    -- Mike
9.218DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Thu Jul 16 1992 20:0032
    This issue has popped up here from time to time, but it is worth
    repeating that not everyone who participates in this or other notes
    files is necessarily interested in debating.

    Debating has its place in the world, and for those who enjoy doing it I
    say more power to them.  But notes conferences are loosely structured
    forums for discussion, with few formal rules or procedures governing
    what gets said.  It thus leaves a lot of room for different styles of
    discussion, and people often have clashing motives or agendas implicit
    in their noting style.  I think there is often a macho ethic in notes
    surrounding the alleged superiority of "debates" versus informal
    discussion; it often attempts to shame or bait people into playing the
    game by one's own rules.  This often drives people away from notes
    files (including this one).

    Debates have winners and losers.  Consensus and reconciliation are
    irrelevant in debates.  Full exploration of the consequences of a world
    view or a belief system are discouraged when every step along the way
    is derailed.  Debates express a "me vs. you" mentality.  Debates
    encourage endless back and forth wrangling as each party tries to get
    in the last word.  There is nothing wrong with sharing one's feelings
    or perspective on an issue without having to back every single
    statement with a citation gleaned from the local public library, and
    there is nothing wrong with agreeing to disagree.  There is nothing
    wrong with starting from an assumption not universally shared by all,
    and then expanding on that assumption, without allowing the discussion
    to be derailed by the insistence of others that one must justify and
    explain to their satisfaction each detail of that assumption.  The need
    to argue each every point may satisfy some people, but for others it is
    a pointless and time-wasting exercise in futility. 

    -- Mike
9.219WMOIS::REINKEthe fire and the rose are oneThu Jul 16 1992 20:353
    Thank you Mike
    
    
9.225even without a clique, the perception that it exists may remainCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistThu Jul 16 1992 21:0917
>    There is no clique here, as has already been discussed in top 479. 
>    This is actually one of the warmer and more welcoming notes communities
>    on the network.

	We must hang around in mostly different conferences. Not that this is
	as hostle as say SOAPBOX or worse yet WOMANNOTES but it is more hostle
	at times then most of the conferences I read regularly. It's often a
	warm and welcoming place, this conference, but it is often hostle 
	especially to minority ideas. Not that I'm saying that several sides
	don't get involved. But just because both sides (actually there is 
	often more than 2 sides) get hostle doesn't mean the conference is
	warn and welcoming. :-)

	And BTW perhaps the disagreement is about what makes a clique. A subject
	I don't have time to discuss today. Perhaps in a month when I get back.

			Alfred
9.220SDSVAX::SWEENEYRum, Romanism, RebellionThu Jul 16 1992 21:245
    The use of ridicule is an intimidation tactic.
    
    You're free to ridicule a public figure like Robertson, but that's not
    a sign that this conference welcomes the expression of a diversity of
    ideas of Christianity in the United States and in the world.
9.221Could you be more specific?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeaceThu Jul 16 1992 21:538
    .220
    
    And, pray tell, what *would* be a sign, Brother Sweeney?  Are you
    suggesting that C-P should become more like GOLF::CHRISTIAN?  Or perhaps
    CATHOLIC-THEOLOGY?
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.226Enjoy your vacation - come back refreshed!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeaceThu Jul 16 1992 23:2218
Alfred 9.225,

	First of all, let me say I hope your time off is just as relaxing
and rejuvenating as you anticipate it to be.  My prayers go with you.

	Secondly, I agree with you.  I've noticed that minority opinions
draw more responses here than majority opinions.  With this awareness,
I've withheld what I wanted to say a number of times simply because I
didn't want to appear to "dog pile on the rabbit," so to speak.

	Though you and I seldom share totally congruent perspectives,
I truly appreciate your input here in C-P.  I actually encourage dissenting
opinions, especially when those opinions are framed with ownership and when
those opinions refrain from attacking another noter or the integrity of
another noter.

Pax vobiscum,
Richard
9.227WMOIS::REINKEthe fire and the rose are oneFri Jul 17 1992 12:192
    and Alfred, I strongly disagree that Womannotes is less welcoming
    than Soapbox.
9.228DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Fri Jul 17 1992 12:3324
    I am not sure how anyone knows which opinions are the minority ones
    here, unless they have taken some sort of secret poll that I wasn't let
    in on.  I see a great diversity of opinion expressed here, and while I
    know how certain individuals feel about certain specific issues, I
    wouldn't go so far as to characterize any of them as having minority or
    majority status among the (presumably) hundreds of people who read and
    write here.  Furthermore, except when corporate policies are in effect,
    the moderators don't formally enforce any theological or political
    opinion here, unlike other religiously oriented notes files.

    I therefore repeat:  there is no clique here.  No group of people are
    acting in concert here.  A lot of individuals express their opinions,
    and will respond strongly to opinions that offend them--would anyone
    expect otherwise?  But the fact that all opinions are not welcomed with
    open arms by everyone does not a clique make.  For one thing, every
    individual here has their own unique set of opinions, so the definition
    of who or who isn't in this alleged clique would have to change with
    the issue in question.  More importantly, disagreement, even strongly
    expressed, does not mean that anyone is excluded from participation in
    this community.  I repeat my earlier comment that anyone here who posts
    a prayer request, regardless of their opinions on other issues, gets a
    warm response from the community.  So much for the alleged clique.
    
    -- Mike
9.229CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistFri Jul 17 1992 13:428
>    and Alfred, I strongly disagree that Womannotes is less welcoming
>    than Soapbox.
    
    I knew that you would. But I don't feel welcome in womannotes but
    concider SOAPBOX a friendly place. It often depends on where you're
    coming from.
    
    			Alfred
9.230WMOIS::REINKEthe fire and the rose are oneFri Jul 17 1992 14:589
    While I feel very welcome in womannotes and find soapbox at least
    mildly hostile..
    
    Alfred, isn't it great that we can disagree on so much and still
    agree that we like each other a lot!
    
    hugs and have a good vacation.
    
    Bonnie
9.232DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Sat Jul 18 1992 02:2211
    Thank you, Friend Richard, for putting it so eloquently.

    I might add that the sorts of attacks against Unitarian Universalism in
    topic 473 have certainly been a common element of discussions in this
    notes file that I somehow suspect are ignored when allegations of
    cliques get bandied about.  It is interesting to note that Sister
    Patricia posted a note here at one time because she felt that *her*
    perspective, which is quite different from Alfred's, was not welcome
    here.

    -- Mike
9.231I'm black, too!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeaceSat Jul 18 1992 02:5252
Note 473.36

>            -< talk about the pot calling the kettle black >-

Brother Alfred,

	Let's all start on equal footing.  Let's just say that, for the
purposes of this conference, we're all black.

>    RE: .28 I don't see my note as being anywhere near as hostle as
>    those of Richard about Pat Roberson. And both of us pale by comparison
>    to your own hostility. Especially towards me.

	By your title in .25, you've admitted sarcasm (a form of hostility):

>                               -< Sarcasm alert >-

	And true to your title, it was.

>    	Oh, get with the program John. You don't have to believe in
>    anything to be a Christian. You just have to be a nice guy.
    
	It was, in part, this less-than-complementary remark to which
Friend Valenza was responding (or reacting, if your prefer).

	I don't recall anyone saying anything that would lead you to
draw your conclusion about just being "a nice guy" in order to be a
Christian.

	Now, there is difference between my editorial about Pat Robertson
and intra-conference criticisms.  As Brother Patrick Sweeney pointed out
in note 9.220, Pat Robertson is a public figure.  As such Robertson is
subject to severe scutiny and criticism (or ridicule, if you prefer).  It
is an occupational hazard of being in the public eye.  Like it or not, it
goes with the territory, as I'm sure Pat Robertson knows by now.  The
membership of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE, on the other hand, is not made up of
public figures and therefore, at least in theory, participants are exempt
from the same kind of severe scrutiny and criticism (or ridicule, if you
prefer).

	In another part of .28, Friend Valenza addresses the perception of
C-P as a 'clique.'  Truly, Alfred, you've not come out and said "yay" or
"nay" on whether you share the position that it is (Note 9.225).  Friend
Valenza may have thought you did or perhaps presumed that you do.  In any
case, I believe Friend Valenza's motivation was more to affirm the validity
of the participation here of Sisters Patricia and Ro than to express hostility
toward you or any other member of the conference.

	But then, who knows?  I could be wrong! 8-}

Peace,
Richard
9.233PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youMon Jul 20 1992 13:2645
Re:  473.26

  >Give me a break, Collis.  

My feelings exactly, Mike.  You're insistence on wrapping my (shared)
beliefs into a little box and isolate them from other beliefs is quite
clearly a strategy (conscious or not) to undermine whatever I say.
It would be a pleasure if you actually addressed *the issues* that
were raised rather than continue this strategy (which you do in nearly
every reply to me).  Please, Mike, take the time to review your last
20 replies to what I've said.  Look to see if this is what you do.
I'm not making this up!

  >I insist that what you share here is a personal perspective precisely 
  >because you continue to present your own theological opinions as if they 
  >were the only conceivable theological formulations.  

Poppycock.  I do accept God's revelation from the Bible and it's claim
as being truth.  There are many issues that I don't have the answers to,
but how one can be saved is not one that God has been unclear on.

And because God has been clear on this is, again, no excuse for the
strategy that you continually use to attempt to discredit Biblical
claims.

  >You state that by pointing out that what you state is *your* opinion, I
  >am denying "the proclaimed truths of God in the Bible as well as the
  >validity of the beliefs of those who believe the same."  Well gee, if I
  >accepted your premise that your beliefs are the expression of God's
  >truths, then certainly I would accept your conclusions.

Well, then address the *issue* which is that I have misrepresented
the claims of God in the *Bible*.  Go ahead.  Please.

But the facts are that I *haven't* misrepresented the Bible, so that
point of attack is fruitless.  And to admit that the Bible (and Bible-
believing Christians) totally disagree (in some instances) with what you 
believe is not part of what you care to do.  Or else you might simply
say, "Yes, indeed the Bible says that and conservative and moderate
Christians accept that today and have accepted it over the centuries,
but I choose not to believe that."  What a breath of fresh air this
kind of statement would be!  Unfortunately, you instead choose to attack 
my reliability and integrity as one who has studied the Bible.

Collis
9.234JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Jul 20 1992 13:425
    Re: .218
    
    Very good Mike! I agree.
    
    Marc H.
9.235JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Mon Jul 20 1992 13:5134
    Collis, the reason I make a point of establishing that your beliefs are
    *your* beliefs is that you continue to use the fact that your beliefs
    are shared by others as a kind of argument unto itself.  The fact
    remains (and this is a fact that you seem to have considerable
    difficulty acknowledging) is that it is *your* decision to accept your
    interpretation of the Bible as the truth.  It is *your* opinion. 
    Whether or not others agree with you, even a whole large body of
    people, makes it no less *your* opinion.  Justifying your opinion by
    establishing it as the "conservative/moderate" point of view is not
    only unconvincing, but it simply adds an unnecessary dogmatic veneer to
    the discussion.

    We have already discussed ad nauseam the differences of opinion with
    respect to how the Bible should be interpreted.  But you simply cannot
    accept the existence of these disagreements.  You cannot agree to
    disagree, because that would not coincide with the extreme dogmatism of
    your religious views.  You implicitly and repeatedly present your
    opinions as God's truth, and when people call you on it you accuse them
    of a strategy.  We never see an "I believe X" from you on matters of
    theology, do we?  No, it is "God has clearly revealed X".  As long as
    you continue to write notes in that dogmatic fashion, I will continue
    to respond as I do.  I will call you on your own implicit strategy,
    which is to implicitly present your dogmatically held beliefs as fact.
    That is the issue at hand, one that I have addressed in response to
    your notes because your notes continue to make the unstated assumptions
    that need to be brought out into the open.  What you call a "strategy"
    is simply my attempt to get to the root of what you are saying, and if
    that unmasks your own strategy, that would explain why it irks you
    off so much.  That's too bad, but it appears that you are clearly not
    interested in communicating with others here.  Communicating is a
    two-way process, but when you are so busy preaching at others by
    presenting your opinions as fact, then communication shuts down.

    -- Mike
9.236PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youMon Jul 20 1992 17:5584
Re:  9.235

  >Collis, the reason I make a point of establishing that your beliefs are
  >*your* beliefs is that you continue to use the fact that your beliefs
  >are shared by others as a kind of argument unto itself.

I use this fact simply as a response to the argument (which you
continually argue) that what I say is simply my opinion.

  >The fact remains (and this is a fact that you seem to have considerable
  >difficulty acknowledging) is that it is *your* decision to accept your
  >interpretation of the Bible as the truth.

If this is what's bothering you, I'll clear it up for you.  I, now
and forevermore, firmly acknowledge that it is my decision to accept
my interpretation of the Bible as the truth (except where I'm wrong
and, in those instances, the Bible is correct).

  >It is *your* opinion. 

Firmly agreed.

It is *also* *more* than my opinion.  Agreed?  Good.  Then stop
trying to *limit* it to my opinion.  Thank you.

  >We have already discussed ad nauseam the differences of opinion with
  >respect to how the Bible should be interpreted.  But you simply cannot
  >accept the existence of these disagreements.

Again, you are wrong.  Again, I will cheerfully say that there are
many disgreements as to how the Bible should be interpreted. 

  >You cannot agree to disagree, because that would not coincide with the 
  >extreme dogmatism of your religious views.

I understand that your viewpoint forces you to this conclusion of
my unwillingness to "agree to disagree".

Actually, what I am unwilling to do is accept "B" as truth when it
contradicts "A" which God has revealed as truth.  Many in this conference
are more than happy to ignore contradictions (or somehow explain them
away as not contradictions).  I am not.  I also would claim that
Jesus was not.

  >You implicitly and repeatedly present your opinions as God's truth..

I explicitly claim the God's revelation through the Bible to be truth 
and my opinions are truth as far as they align themselves with God's
revelation.

  >...and when people call you on it you accuse them of a strategy.  

I thought I explained what *you* do very well.  A few others have
once in a while done the same thing, but it is you and you alone who
respond consistently avoiding the issue of what the Bible says and
concentrating your full efforts on attempting to prove that what I
say is simply an individual's opinion devoid of any substance beyond
any other opinion.  I deny that this is the case and will *continue*
to deny that this is the case.  You know full well that my opinion
is:

  - based on what the Bible says
  - almost always in agreement with what conservative scholars
    interpret the Bible as saying

Really, Mike.  If you don't like what I express, it is only a simple
matter of logic to see that you don't like what conservative scholars
express and that you don't like what the Bible says.  If indeed you
*do* like what the Bible says and you *don't* like what I say, then
we have an opportunity to discuss - not me - but your differing understanding
of what the Bible says.  You (usually) choose not to do so.  That
would actually lead to fruitful discussion.

  >As long as you continue to write notes in that dogmatic fashion, I will 
  >continue to respond as I do.

So will I.

  >That's too bad, but it appears that you are clearly not interested 
  >in communicating with others here.  

:-)  :-)  :-)

Collis
9.237JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Mon Jul 20 1992 19:2048
    Actually, Collis, I have never claimed that your opinion is devoid of
    any substance beyond any other opinion.  What I *have* done is point
    out that what you often present here implicitly as God's truth is in
    fact not accepted by everyone here as God's truth.  It's as simple as
    that.  Other people in this notes file have just as much right to their
    understanding of God as you do.  It is one thing to say, 'Let me share
    with you my understanding of God's truth.'  It is another thing
    altogether to chide others for having a different understanding of
    God's truth than yours.  It is the difference between sharing your
    theology and attacking that of others.  The former approach is much
    more likely to get a positive response than the latter.

    The first step to fruitful discussion is to keep it on track.  I think
    it is a common phenomenon in this notes file, and perhaps in notes
    files generally, for a discussion on one subject, which peripherally
    relates to another topic, to get bogged down or derailed by arguments
    over the secondary subject.  The whole point of the original discussion
    gets lost.  It is one thing to debate endlessly the underlying
    conceptual differences on some issue; it is another to say, okay, given
    a set of premises that we may or may not accept, where do we go from
    here?  How do our assumptions drive us in this way or that? 
    Unfortunately, the latter kind of analysis continually gets turned into
    an argument over various premises.  Some people would rather argue than
    analyze, it seems.  Higher level, meta-discussions never get off the
    ground, because everyone wants to go back to square one and argue over
    the premises.

    You already know fully well what my views on the Bible are.  Restating
    them in the context of another discussion serves no purpose, other than
    perhaps the satisfaction of arguing over a favorite topic at the
    nearest convenient excuse.  You say that you are unwilling to accept
    "B" as truth when it contradicts "A" which (you think) God has revealed
    as truth.  The fact is that no one is asking you to accept what you
    don't accept as truth.  The problem is that you feel the need to tell
    everyone else what they should think is the truth also.  In other
    words, you are forcing other people to do what you yourself
    resent--namely, you are trying to get other people to accept as God's
    truth that which they strongly feel is not.  The shoe is on the other
    foot.  Remember the Golden Rule?  Why not do unto others here, and
    consider how others might feel about being chided for their sincere
    beliefs about God? How do you think that makes them feel?  How would
    you feel about that?  And if you give yourself an honest answer, you
    might then realize why people are offended.

    But presmuably the difference, of course, is that you *know* you are
    right and that they are wrong.  So that makes it okay.
    
    -- Mike
9.238On ownershipCSC32::J_CHRISTIEClimb aboard the Peace Train!Mon Jul 20 1992 20:5610
Some may wonder what I mean by "opinions framed with ownership" in 9.226.
As an example, I have modified the first paragraph of Note 496.4 and include
it below to demonstrate ownership:

   (It is my understanding that) The divinity of Jesus is a defining
   attribute of Christians.  (I recognize that) Those who believe it are
   Christians.  Those who do not (to my mind) are not Christians.

Peace,
Richard
9.239p.c. or faithfulness to God?PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youMon Jul 20 1992 21:0978
Re:  9.237

  >Actually, Collis, I have never claimed that your opinion is devoid of
  >any substance beyond any other opinion.  

True enough.  Then again, you insist that it not be considered in
the light of what the Bible says and what conservative scholars say.
You insist that it be treated as simply another opinion rather than
an informed exposition of what the Bible says.

  >What I *have* done is point out that what you often present here 
  >implicitly as God's truth is in fact not accepted by everyone here 
  >as God's truth.  It's as simple as that.  

No it is not.  I recognize already what you are "pointing out".  I
acknowledge this.  You need not make any more replies to inform me
of this fact.  :-)

  >Other people in this notes file have just as much right to their
  >understanding of God as you do.

God, indeed, gives everyone the right to believe what they will.

  >It is another thing altogether to chide others for having a different 
  >understanding of God's truth than yours.

Indeed, I understand why you desire that everyone say, "Oh isn't 
that different expression of Christianity wonderful" or "I hope
they are comfortable with the god they have chosen".  

I also understand that God as He has revealed Himself says something
quite different.  You have acknowledged in the past that the revelation
in the Bible does indeed have a very different picture of God (particularly
in the Old Testament) than you want.  Applying this perspective of
God today makes you (and others) feel uncomfortable.  Yes, I know.

  >The first step to fruitful discussion is to keep it on track.  

Agreed.  Are you willing to acknowledge that you *invariably* take
the discussion off-track by focusing on disassociating my statements
from the Bible and conservative scholars?

  >You already know fully well what my views on the Bible are.  Restating
  >them in the context of another discussion serves no purpose, other than
  >perhaps the satisfaction of arguing over a favorite topic at the
  >nearest convenient excuse.

Perhaps you have nothing relevant to say then?

  >The problem is that you feel the need to tell everyone else what they 
  >should think is the truth also.  

I was sharing my general reaction to what revolts me and I understand
as revolting God.  If you're not interested in a typical conservative
reaction, then this notes conference should not invite conservatives to
participate.  

  >In other words, you are forcing other people to do what you yourself
  >resent--namely, you are trying to get other people to accept as God's
  >truth that which they strongly feel is not.

I hardly expect Patricia or Ro to change their opinions.  The problem
is that you are unhappy with my sharing my opinion based on the Bible
in such a way that it is proclaimed as truth.  Well, my framework includes
the acceptance of the Bible as God's revealed truth and opinions which
are Biblically-based *are* truth (to the extent that they are Biblically
based).  You may (and I'm sure will) continue to object to the noting
style if you wish.  There is an absolute standard which has been
revealed to us.  I know that doesn't sit well with you.

It's not politically correct to refer to absolute standards in a notes
conference which desires to welcome all opinions and beliefs pertaining
to Christianity.  However, one of those beliefs (in fact, one of the
predominant beliefs) is that there is indeed an absolute standard given
to us.  And being politically correct was never a goal of mine.  Being
faithful to my God is.

Collis
9.240CSC32::J_CHRISTIEClimb aboard the Peace Train!Mon Jul 20 1992 23:3617
Note 9.239

I would like to affirm that Collis has consistently maintained that
"There is an absolute standard which has been revealed to us."

I would further affirm that Collis believes that opening a notes conference
which welcomes all opinions and beliefs pertaining to Christianity is a
politically correct (in the negative sense of the term) thing to do.

I would further affirm that Collis believes he is being faithful to his God
by taking the stance that he does.

Please correct me wherever I've misrepresented you, Collis.

Peace,
Richard

9.241DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jul 21 1992 13:173
    Collis, I realize that you think you are being faithful to God.  
    
    -- Mike
9.242p.c.PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Jul 21 1992 13:2217
Re:  .240  politically correct

Indeed, there are two sides to being "politically correct".

Since it is primarily a liberal agenda where p.c. is important,
this notesfile fits in well with politcal correctness (in the
positive sense of the term).

On the other hand, you can if you wish also claim that this
notesfile was not well received at all by many in the
conservative camp.  The main problem being not politcal
correctness, as I see it, but rather the constant denial of
many essential truths of the Bible that define true followers
of Jesus.  As the foreign auto mechanic told Columbo as he
looked over his 15 year old Peugot, "There are limits, man".

Collis
9.243JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jul 21 1992 13:539
    I think Collis has summarized here why we are such an impasse.  Collis
    believes that what I and others would describe as intolerance are in
    fact expressions of God's will.  Thus he feels called to do--he feels
    he *must* do--what others here just as strongly find deeply offensive.
    
    There appears to be no resolution of this issue.  So the arguments will
    continue unabated here.
    
    -- Mike
9.244one "resolution" reachedPACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Jul 21 1992 14:406
True enough.

Now maybe we can resolve your strategy of isolating
everything I say as simply my opinion?

Collis
9.245We are blessedLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Tue Jul 21 1992 14:4311
re Note 9.243 by JURAN::VALENZA:

>     There appears to be no resolution of this issue.  So the arguments will
>     continue unabated here.
  
        I appreciate the fact that they may continue.

        In many other places and at many other times, the argument
        would be settled through political or physical force.

        Bob
9.246DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Tue Jul 21 1992 15:1522
    Gee, Collis, do you mean to say that what you write isn't your opinion?

    So much for my attempt at trying to summarize both sides of the issue
    as a way of "agreeing to disagree".  I forgot who I was dealing
    with--someone who doesn't believe in agreeing to disagree, and who will
    let no stone unturned as long as there is anyone with a different
    opinion than his own.  Let's just continue this discussion endlessly,
    shall we?

    When you repeatedly write the same types of notes, well then,
    maybe--just maybe--they will get the same kinds of responses.  And when
    you get the same kind of response to various instances of a particular
    type of note you then call that response a "strategy".  The question
    is, of course, who is continually writing those notes that evoke the
    response in the first place?  Perhaps that is what we should be looking
    at when we talk of "strategies."

    Now that we've settled that issue, perhaps we can return to the more
    important issues at hand, the ones that really matter, like "why my
    religion is great and your religion sucks."

    -- Mike
9.247Faulty quotingCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jul 21 1992 18:017
>    Gee, Collis, do you mean to say that what you write isn't your opinion?

He said "simply my opinion."

Deliberately ignoring the word "simply" is something you should apologize for.

/john
9.248PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Jul 21 1992 18:495
Thank you, Mike, for your response.

I accept your answer of no.

Collis
9.249Ours is not to determine doctrinal correctnessCSC32::J_CHRISTIEClimb aboard the Peace Train!Tue Jul 21 1992 21:196
Are 496.8 and 22.137 slams against Jehovah's Witnesses?  I confess ignorance.
I have a feeling that a line has been crossed, but I'm not knowledgeable
enough to say for certain.  I pray this feeling of mine is inaccurate.

Peace,
Richard
9.250DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Wed Jul 22 1992 01:336
    Come now, Collis.  Your question was just as bogus as when the
    politician is asked when they stopped beating their spouse.  Given the
    fact that I rejected your premise (for reasons I stated), I therefore
    gave you the appropriate response.
    
    -- Mike
9.251DEMING::VALENZABeing and notingness.Wed Jul 22 1992 01:419
    Uh, /john, I did not "quote" Collis (I see no quotation marks in that
    note, nor did I use the noting convention of preceding anything he
    wrote with a ">".)  The sentence that you objected to was a tongue in
    cheek response to his false accusation of a "strategy". 
    
    I would think that false accusations, such as Collis's, are deserving
    of apologies, if anything.
    
    -- Mike
9.252COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Jul 22 1992 01:477
It is not necessary to use quotation marks or other symbols to quote
someone.

In any case, I'll accept that your misrepresentation of what he said
was tongue-in-cheek.

/john
9.253JURAN::VALENZABeing and notingness.Wed Jul 22 1992 02:564
    Well, I did not represent, "mis-" or otherwise, what he said, but I'll
    accept that you accept that what I wrote was tongue-in-cheek.
    
    -- Mike
9.254CSC32::J_CHRISTIEClimb aboard the Peace Train!Wed Jul 22 1992 23:5524
Note 101.64

>    Jesse Jackson and our own moderator are not adverse to making a cheap
>    shot aganist Vice President Dan Quayle.
    
>    What motivates the ridicule of Dan Quayle?

	My first inclination is to respond to your questions, Brother Sweeney,
as well as you do mine.  But upon further reflection, I decided to go ahead
and respond to this one anyway.

	I see Quayle not so much as a Herod, but more as one of the Pharisees
to whom Jesus spoke when he said:  "You put onto people's backs loads which
are hard to carry, but you yourselves will not stretch out a finger to help
them carry those loads.  How terrible for you!"

	Of course, some may say Jesus' words were not words of ridicule.
Luke 11.45 seems to indicate that they were indeed insulting, however.

	Oh, as kind of a PS, would you prefer it if I stepped down as
moderator?  Or perhaps if Jesse Jackson resigned from the ministry?

Peace,
Richard
9.255SDSVAX::SWEENEYRum, Romanism, RebellionThu Jul 23 1992 02:2621
    In Luke 11.45 Jesus is delivering a rebuke.  He is not attempting to
    evoke laughter.
    
    We have a matter of interpretation of the Bible, as Jesus describes a
    "burden".
    
    Taxes are a burden to rich and poor alike.  In our nation's largest
    city our liberal Democratic Mayor David Dinkins didn't file taxes for
    three years while taking that political position that they should be
    raised. That's a more literal application I think, and you don't have
    to be a partisan Republican to see it so.  Real prosperity is created
    by economic activity not by political advocacy.
    
    Jesus loves taxpayers, tax collectors, and even the tax evaders.
    
    The government is filled with hypocrites, I don't think Dan Quayle is
    one of them.  If you have a good Republican tale of hypocrisy.  I'm
    here to listen to it.
                         
    I'm not arrogant enough to give advice to the Rev. Jesse Jackson nor
    the moderators here.  I'll pray for you.
9.256Just a silly sinnerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEClimb aboard the Peace Train!Thu Jul 23 1992 02:406
    .255  How right you are.  How wrong I am.  Thanks for clearing things
    up for me.  I'm certain it's what Jesus would have you do.  And thanks
    for the prayers.
    
    Pax vobiscum,
    Richard
9.257oh, an example of your humor!!ATSE::FLAHERTYWings of fire: Percie and meThu Jul 23 1992 13:079
.255
        
<<    I'm not arrogant enough to give advice to the Rev. Jesse Jackson nor
<<    the moderators here.  I'll pray for you.
    
    Hmmm, could have fooled me!   ;')
    
    Ro
    
9.258co-mod plea....DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeTue Aug 04 1992 22:5335

		I write this note with a very heavy heart.  Just today we,
in CP, have lost two people because they have the belief that Christians
cannot show love and tolerance to them.  How can we truely call ourselves
Christians and ask others to listen and believe when we are unwilling to
return that same consideration?  I once heard a very respected and 
knowledgeable preacher/pastor talk about fanaticism in Christianity.  He
believed, and I agree, that there is as much danger in fanatic beliefs 
as there are in atheism.  

		Our policy in this file is that each and every person "owns"
what they write and believe.  We will not, and should not, tolerate persons
who continuously try to put down and call absolutely wrong other belief 
structures.  For myself, I believe that Christ is so powerful and loving that
my witness is better served, as well as Christianity as a whole, by showing 
patience and love to those who do not have the same knowledge as I have.


		For several months now I have watched several people in this 
file use there beliefs to belittle and chastise this file for the very 
openness most of us value so much.  To you Christians I ask; What better 
opportunity is there than a file like this to share your witness and love?
Bible "thumping" has long proved ineffective in witnessing situations.  For
myself I have to say that I have had much better luck *SHOWING* the love in my
heart and expressing the care God has for me.

		Beyond all that, Digital *requires*, by policy, that we value
differences.  There have been several instances which I belive that the line
between valuing and prejudice has been crossed.  Since this is a Digital network
and Digital system, that policy will, in the future, be adhered to strictly.


Dave Dawson
CP co-moderator
9.259COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Aug 05 1992 02:3413
The affirmation that Jesus is God is a defining characteristic of
Christianity.

DEC policy requires its employees to value the differences of others.

However, DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference
which asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God.

When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
claim is erroneous.

/john
9.260CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOnly Nixon can go to ChinaWed Aug 05 1992 03:0018
Note 9.259

>However, DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference
>which asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God.

No one has asked you to give up any belief, John.

>When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
>Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
>claim is erroneous.

Rest assured, your mission has been accomplished!

I, too, believe Christ to be the Incarnation.  However, I am not so compelled
to thrust upon others the beliefs I hold.

Peace,
Richard
9.261Read, or re-read, 1.0 pleaseCARTUN::BERGGRENUnexpect the expectedWed Aug 05 1992 03:1828
    > The affirmation that Jesus is God is a defining characteristic of
    Christianity. <
    
    In _your_ belief system, John, and for some other Christians as well, 
    but not all Christians.
    
    Please review the standards and guidelines of this conference outlined 
    in 1.0.
    
    You will see that, by purposeful design, there is an obvious absence of 
    such a defining characteristic of Christianity in this conference.  
    
    > DEC policy does not require its employees to value a difference which
    asks Christians to give up their belief that Jesus is God. <
    
    No one here has said anything to you even remotely resembling a 
    suggestion, nevermind asking you to give up your belief that 
    Jesus is God.  
    
    In fact, it is quite clearly the opposite.  
    
    You have been actively _imposing_ your belief upon others that 
    Jesus is God -- an activity that the moderatorship and the 
    foundation of this conference does not support you in.
    
    Karen
    Co-Moderator, Christian-Perspective  
    
9.262Christianity is defined by belief in God IncarnateCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Aug 05 1992 06:1428
In reply to:

;an inclusive definition of Christianity should not require that Christians 
;believe that Jesus is God.

Phil wrote:

>Jehovah's Witnesses would say that those professing to be Christian would
>recognize that Jesus is not God.

If we allow the above two statements, then we have to allow the statement

"Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."

I have not attempted to silence, through use of policy or other threats,
those who make the above statements.  Nor have I claimed any knowledge of
their eschatological fate, for God is more merciful than you or I can
imagine.  This is no Inquisition.  I do not seek banishment of these people.

All I have done is countered statements like the above by classifying them
according to theological terms assigned to them by respected theologians.

You may continue to claim what you wish.  And so may I.

Avoid the Arian heresy.  Stay clear of all-inclusive syncretism.
Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God.

/john
9.263YERKLE::YERKESSbring me sunshine in your smileWed Aug 05 1992 08:1112
John,

You may voice your opinion, there is nothing wrong with that, in fact this
is encouraged from my understanding by those who moderate this Digital 
employee interest notes conference. Where you over step the mark is when
you insist that a certain group makes an Arian claim and it is quite clear
that this group makes no such claim.

How would you feel if someone made a similar attack on your religion?.

Phil.
9.264that was the objectiveLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Aug 05 1992 10:5623
re Note 9.259 by COVERT::COVERT:

> When a group claims to be Christian and claims in a forum titled "Christian-
> Perspective" that Jesus is not God, Christians must point out that such a
> claim is erroneous.
  
        There is no such "group" in this conference.

        All are participating here as individuals.

        It is clear that there are a number of individuals who
        espousing the "Jesus is not God" claim, there are more
        individuals who are simply declaring tolerance of the "Jesus
        is not God" claim, and there are several active writers who
        denounce the "Jesus is not God" claim.

        This conference exists precisely to allow the above to
        occur.

        Jesus (and Christ) most definitely is the centerpiece of our
        discussions.

        Bob
9.265JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Aug 05 1992 12:0220
    Re: .264
    
    Well said Bob. I'm of the camp that believes in the trinity....but...
    after stating it, I don't have the need to continue to "fight" against
    other noter's who have a different opinion.
    
    Make your point once....then leave it be. Continuing to make THE SAME
    POINT AGAIN AND AGAIN , quoting the Bible or other figures again
    just comes across as brow beating.
    
    I thought that this file was different from the other files....
    it always seemed like a nice, polite gathering of friends.
    Lately, it has taken on the flavor of "Sapbox" where one upmanship
    and making points is important.
    
    Lets return to the polite gathering of friends.
    
    I'll go to "sapbox" when I want to...
    
    Marc H.
9.266DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeWed Aug 05 1992 12:4530

		Most of the people in this file know that I am Southern 
Baptist and do some fill ins for preachers and teachers.  With that said,
let me further state that I am a Christian first and a Southern Baptist
a long distant second.  My inclusion to the moderatorship of this file was
based mainly on the fact that I am part of a "fundamentalist" denomination.
The moderators at that time believed that all segments of religion needed
representation.  That is one reason this file carries so many moderators.
Far more that the normal file.  

		So to those who would criticize the policy's here, I would 
say that your viewpoints are taken into account as much as possible while
keeping the purpose of this file intact.  Some of you have used, what I 
would consider, derisive comments about this file and its stated purpose.
My answer to you is that there are files who purpose is to discuss Christian
issues within a purely Christian atmosphere.  I invite you to those files.

		To those who have the purpose of "purifying" this file to
what you might consider a Christian conference, I say don't.  This file 
has a purpose and even the other Christian files admit that this file meets
a need.  Too many people in this country have been "left" behind in the
witnessing  efforts of most Churches.  This file invites all to discuss
their beliefs without fear of condemnation.  If my belief structure cannot
stand on its own and "win" people to Christ, then it would be time to give
it up, but quite the reverse is true.  By showing love and patience, I have
seen many who say "Maybe I need to take a closer look".  And they have!


Dave
9.267God IncarnateCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Aug 05 1992 13:2311
>you insist that a certain group makes an Arian claim and it is quite clear
>that this group makes no such claim.

The claim that Jesus is not God is historically classified as an Arian claim.

It is not a claim compatible with Christianity, for it strikes at the root
of almost twenty centuries of what Christianity teaches.

Christianity teaches that Jesus is God.

/john
9.268JURAN::SILVAIf it weren't for you meddling kids....Wed Aug 05 1992 13:4123



| My answer to you is that there are files who purpose is to discuss Christian
| issues within a purely Christian atmosphere.  I invite you to those files.

	Dave, I know all about this one. I have been told by many in the
Christian file that I should come in here for the same reasons. Funny how
they don't always seem to practice what they preach.

| To those who have the purpose of "purifying" this file to
| what you might consider a Christian conference, I say don't.  This file
| has a purpose and even the other Christian files admit that this file meets
| a need.  Too many people in this country have been "left" behind in the
| witnessing  efforts of most Churches.  This file invites all to discuss
| their beliefs without fear of condemnation.  

	Dave, I think this says it all. Thanks for reminding us.



Glen
9.269Can I ramble for a whileMORO::BEELER_JEBush in '92Wed Aug 05 1992 14:3253
67.133> I'm signing out, indefinitely.  It doesn't feel good to be here with
67.133> people showing such intolerance to others' beliefs.

    Well, since this is somewhat of a "Christian" conference I guess that
    it's appropriate to quote Scripture.

    Consider (one of my favorite): "He that troubleth his own house shall
    inherit the wind...". 

    I don't deny that there are conferences (that I have walked away from)
    because they are intolerant - they preach understanding, acceptance,
    tolerance, and all the appropriate words.  They practice reverse hate,
    non-acceptance of opposing views and are resolutely intolerant of any-
    thing but the "politically correct" stance.  There is little question
    in my mind but that they will most assuredly and ultimately "inherit
    the wind".

    It is my considered opinion as a long-time participant in VAX Notes
    that C-P is at this point in time TOLERANT of and RESPECTS others
    opinions.  I may not personally agree with everything that I read, but,
    I am free to state an opposing opinion without fear of massive personal
    attack.  There will be those who disagree with me, and, there will be
    those who agree with me.  There are those who are going to be tolerant
    of me and those who will be intolerant.  This is called "reality".

    I do not seek out those who are tolerant of me and my opinions.  I do
    not seek out those who agree with me and my opinions.  To do so is to
    stagnate and cease the learning process.  This, in my opinion, is
    equivalent to death.

    "And ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free".  I
    don't know what the "truth" is ... I keep looking.  Who knows where
    I'll find it.

    Then again ... one cannot attack my faith because I have none.  One
    cannot attack my God, because I'm not all that sure that I believe in
    one.  One cannot attack my Church because I have none.  One cannot
    attack my "Christian" beliefs because I do not profess to be a
    Christian.  Perhaps I am spiritually dead?  For that reason I feel
    comfortable in this forum?

    Well, I don't intend to "inherit the wind".  Not just yet.  Perhaps I
    find peace in adversity.  There are those who do not.  I can only urge
    the author of 67.133 to be part of the solution and not part of the
    problem.

    Rambling.

    Sorry.

    Bubba


9.270CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOnly Nixon can go to ChinaThu Aug 06 1992 22:1112
Yes, it seems there are some vocal individuals who have identified a number
of what they consider problems with this particular conference.

Not one solution has been offered.  So, I'm forced to conclude that these
negative criticisms are nothing more than so much noise.  An unpleasant
clanging of gongs, to be sure, but that's all.

As Jesus said, "By their fruits ye shall know them."

Peace,
Richard

9.271When Jesus said that, he was NOT talking about tolerance!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Aug 07 1992 03:098
>As Jesus said, "By their fruits ye shall know them."

I suggest you read the rest of that chapter, where our Lord talks about false
prophets, wolves in sheep's clothing, casting pearls before swine, and the wide
and easy road that leads to destruction.

"For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there
are few who find it."  -- God.
9.272NopeLJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsSat Aug 08 1992 14:3520
    .262:
    
>Phil wrote:

>Jehovah's Witnesses would say that those professing to be Christian would
>recognize that Jesus is not God.

>If we allow the above two statements, then we have to allow the statement

>"Christianity is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
    
    
    Sorry, John, that doesn't follow.  What *would* be comparable is a 
    statement similar to the following:
    
    "John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
    is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."
    
    No one that I know of in this conference would object to *that*
    statement. 
9.273COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertSat Aug 08 1992 15:119
>    "John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
>    is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."

Many?  Try "over one and one half billion Christians".

In fact, does any group _other_ than the Jehovah's Witnesses claim to
be Christian yet deny that Jesus is God?

/john
9.274Nice Side-stepping!LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsSat Aug 08 1992 15:472
    re: .273
    
9.275JURAN::SILVAIf it weren't for you meddling kids....Mon Aug 10 1992 13:2314
| >    "John Covert and many other Christians would say that Christianity
| >    is defined by the belief that Jesus is God."

| Many?  Try "over one and one half billion Christians".

	John, not to say that jesus isn't God (I believe He is), but to use 
numbers as any type of defense is a pretty weak defense. Remember, there were 
many Christians who also thought that burning witches was the correct thing to 
do.



Glen
9.276Localized in time and place to actual problem sitesCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Aug 10 1992 13:3110
Witch burnings were a local phenomenon.

Belief that Jesus is God is the worldwide belief of ALL Catholics and
Protestants.

Belief that Jesus is God is that which defines Christianity.

Are Jehovah's Witnesses the only group which applies the name "Christian"
to their organization while denying that Jesus is God and claiming that
all of Christendom is mistaken in their belief?
9.277CARTUN::BERGGRENmovers and shakersMon Aug 10 1992 14:059
    John,
    
    A "local phenomenon?"  That's a most interesting way of defining 
    it.  That "local phenomenon" was responsible for the deaths of 
    approximately 8 _million_ people, 75% of which are estimated 
    to have been women....nevermind how many countless others were 
    torturted and disfigured as a result.
    
    Karen
9.278JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Aug 10 1992 14:345
    Re: .277
    
    Karen, surely you are not just talking about the Salem Witch Trials?
    
    Marc H.
9.279COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Aug 10 1992 14:3616
Witchcraft was then and still does remain incompatible with Christianity.

Burning of witches was done in a time when punishments for almost any crime
were, by today's standards, barbaric.  In addition, it was done in a time when
"innocent until proven guilty" was not a popular idea.

In Salem, Massachusetts, witchcraft was, indeed, being performed, though not
by all the people who were accused and convicted of it.

Witchcraft is psychological terrorism, and deserves to be punished if it is
used against other people.

A major difference between Witchcraft and Jehovah's Witnesses is that witches
(actual witches) do not claim to be Christian.

/john
9.280DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeMon Aug 10 1992 14:437
    
    		The Crusades and Spanish Inquisition doesn't look well for
    the early church.  I believe that Karen is refering to the witch trials
    in Europe as well as the U.S.
    
    
    Dave
9.281COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Aug 10 1992 14:451
Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
9.282JURAN::SILVAIf it weren't for you meddling kids....Mon Aug 10 1992 14:5412
| <<< Note 9.276 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| Witch burnings were a local phenomenon.

	Does that make it any less of a sin? There are many other things that
have been done to inocent people in the name of God. Like I said, using numbers 
doesn't make a good defense as the numbers aren't all to good against the past
of some Christians.



Glen
9.283DPDMAI::DAWSONthe lower I go, the higher I becomeMon Aug 10 1992 15:3721
    RE: COVERT::COVERT,
    
    		
    >Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
    
    
    			Thats true but wondering why people have a "bad
    taste" in their mouth because of some of the horrific things done in
    the name of Christ is only natural.  Even in my own denomination I have
    seen people abused for a variety of reasons.  When a Church has a
    pledge card signed by a member and then that member loses their job and
    is unable to pay, for the deacons to arrive on their doorstep and
    demand something of equal value is not Christian in my opinion.  And if
    you think that this is an isolated case come on down to the so-called
    Bible belt and I'll show you some things.  Too many Churches have
    decided to "become" a government and "rule" over their people instead
    of loving them.  
    
    		
    
    Dave
9.284COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Aug 10 1992 15:4411
>    seen people abused for a variety of reasons.  When a Church has a
>    pledge card signed by a member and then that member loses their job and
>    is unable to pay, for the deacons to arrive on their doorstep and
>    demand something of equal value is not Christian in my opinion.

No, it certainly isn't.

But we aren't talking about little behavioural problems.

We're talking about the central thesis of Christianity:  "Jesus Christ is God,
and by being God reveals God to us."
9.285MAGEE::FRETTSHave you faced a fear today?Mon Aug 10 1992 16:047
    RE: Witchcraft is psychological terrorism
    
    
    John, I believe you do not have any idea what witchcraft (aka Wicca)
    is all about.
    
    Carole
9.286CARTUN::BERGGRENmovers and shakersMon Aug 10 1992 16:3757
    Marc .278,
    
    > Karen, surely you are not just talking about the Salem Witch 
    Trials? <
    
    You're right.  As Dave Dawson kindly indicated, .277 refers to the 
    majority of "witch trials" which occured in Europe and the millions 
    of people who lost their lives as a result.
    
    John .279,
    
    > Witchcraft was then and still does remain incompatible with 
    Christianity. <
    
    Curiously enough, Matthew Fox, a Dominican priest, does not share 
    this opinion.  He appointed Starhawk, a modern-day "witch," to the 
    faculty of the Institute for Culture and Creation Spirituality at 
    Holy Names College in Oakland, CA several years ago.  Since then he's 
    been having an on-going "discussion" with the Catholic Church about 
    the compatibility of witchcraft and Christianity.  His books 
    _Original Blessing_ and _The Coming of the Cosmic Christ_ touch upon 
    this issue in more depth.
    
    > Witchcraft is psychological terrorism, and deserves to be punished 
    if it is used against other people. <
    
    This view has been manufactured over the centuries and a little 
    objective research will show that it is more a product of religious 
    propaganda and bigotry, with very little basis in fact.  However, 
    your statement contains a degree of truth, though not exclusive to 
    Wiccans.  
    
    Any belief or belief system can, is, and has been used, as psychological 
    terrorism by some against others.  Some Wiccans have most clearly done 
    this, as well as some Christians, some Muslims, some Jews, etc.
    
    However, speaking of "psychological terrorism," did you know the idiom 
    "getting the third degree" has its origins in the activities of the 
    Inquisition?  Purported "witches" would be interrogated in attempts 
    to force them to confess their witch identity.  Torture was used to 
    not only help "encourage," but to insure the confession.  If they did 
    not confess that which the inquisitioners were seeking during this 
    "first degree" of interrogation, they were then subjected to the second 
    degree, which as you might suspect, involved an increased level and 
    intensity of torture.  Those who hadn't yet confessed through this 
    first and second degree were then subjected to the "third degree," an 
    experience from which many did not survive, a result, however, which 
    was the essential intention of the "third degree." 
    
    A profound example of psychological terrorism at its finest, I'd say.
    
    > Bad things done in the name of a Truth do not invalidate the Truth.
    
    True, they just obscure and render it unintelligible....at best, 
    temporarily -- at worst...
    
    Karen
9.287CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOnly Nixon can go to ChinaMon Aug 10 1992 18:266
    .273
    
    The majority is always right?  I think not.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.288The central definition of Christianity for nearly 2000 years!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Aug 10 1992 19:169
>    The majority is always right?  I think not.

We're not just talking about the majority here.

We're talking about all of Christianity, save the Jehovah's Witnesses (noone
has yet named another group calling itself "Christian" and denying that Jesus
is God).

/john
9.289CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOnly Nixon can go to ChinaMon Aug 10 1992 19:317
    Thank you, Brother John .288, but I refuse to allow you or anyone else to
    tell me what I am talking about.  I would encourage an increased
    measure of perceptivity if there is a genuine interest in understanding
    what I am talking about.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.290NoLJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsMon Aug 10 1992 20:518
              <<< Note 9.276 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>
            -< Localized in time and place to actual problem sites >-

>Belief that Jesus is God is the worldwide belief of ALL Catholics and
>Protestants.
    
    Please be more careful/accurate in your statements.  This simply
    is not true.
9.291GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Aug 13 1992 16:5656
I'm sorry to see that people are dropping out of the conference.  I'm no
longer a moderator here, but I can relate to the dilemma the current
moderators are facing.

People have sharply differing beliefs about religion - that's obvious.
Since people feel so strongly about their religious beliefs they tend to
feel threatened or become belligerent when opposing religious views are
expressed.  Without intervention from the moderators the natural course of
events (as far as I can tell) is that some people will become angry or fed
up and will drop out of the conference.

What should the moderators be doing?  In the past there have been two main
ideas about the kind of conference CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE should be: some
have felt that C-P should be an open forum where anyone could state their
opinions about Christianity and point out the flaws in opposing opinions,
while others would like C-P to be a safe haven where liberal Christians
and non-Christians could be protected from criticism of their beliefs.

It seems to me that for the most part the "open forum" approach has won
out.  One reason for this is that C-P was founded as a reaction to the
excesses of the GOLF::CHRISTIAN conference, where the moderators imposed a
doctrinal standard on the conference.  In order to make C-P a "safe haven"
the moderators would similarly be imposing a standard on the conference,
perhaps by requiring that statements of beliefs be preceded by disclaimers
such as "in my opinion..." or "others may disagree, but...".  In effect
the moderators would be imposing a doctrinal standard that religious truth
is relative rather than absolute.

An open forum works both ways: conservatives are free to criticize
liberal beliefs and liberals are free to criticize conservative beliefs.
It appears that neither side likes having their beliefs criticized!
Conservatives complain about the liberal slant of the conference (because
most noters here are liberal) and liberals complain about being preached
at by the conservatives. It doesn't seem to be possible to satisfy both
sides.  Personally I hope that C-P continues to be an open forum, even
though some people have regrettably decided to drop out of the conference,
because I am interested in seeing the free exchange of ideas.

Still, the conference rules do impose restrictions on the form in which
opinions can be expressed.  From the John Sims memo of 30-Jan-1992 (note
8.11) "Statements that attribute improper, illegal or immoral motives or
actions to others; statements that cast aspersions on the character or
integrity of others or that amount to libel or slander are not permitted.
... Comments that degrade, devalue or discriminate against others are
also prohibited.  ... Employee interest notes files and conferences
provide an electronic forum to share ideas and opinions about matters of
common interest.  In supporting these conferences, the company understood
that there would be occasions where employees would disagree on issues
being discussed, but we believed and continue to believe that it is
possible to disagree without being disagreeable."

IMO, the moderators may have to enforce this policy more vigorously.  I
hope they will continue to apply it equally to all noters: liberal,
conservative, in between, or none of the above.

				-- Bob
9.292How do you define "open"?LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsThu Aug 13 1992 17:5123
    I like to think I'm open, but sometimes I'm the one who asks -- or
    appears to be asking -- for a "safe haven."  Some comments from those
    who differ strongly with me are written in a way that I find dismissive
    and a put-down -- and thus they are exactly opposite to any kind of
    "open" forum.  Openness, like lack of discrimination, can sometimes be 
    in name only.
    
    I am accused of "not knowing what I'm talking about" or of "denying the
    implications" of this or that.  Or blanket black-and-white statements are 
    made in such a way as to allow for *no* disagreement, i.e., "ALL
    Christians believe such-and-such!"  Those who differ are not given the 
    human respect or courtesy of acknowleding that they have honest,
    thoughtful beliefs that differ.  
    
    C-P does not have to be as "safe" for liberal Christians as the other
    conference has become for fundamentalist Christians, but surely there
    must be a way to allow absolutists to maintain their integrity
    without insulting the intelligence or honesty of others?  If not, then
    how can this be considered even an "open" forum?
    
    I don't know the answer, but I truly hope that there *is* one!
    
    Nancy
9.293good insightATSE::FLAHERTYWings of fire: Percie and meThu Aug 13 1992 18:0110
    Thank you Nancy (.292)!  As always, you have a way of getting to the
    'heart' of the matter.  You've put your finger on exactly what I've
    felt has been happening the last few weeks.  
    
    BTW, Collis, I believe your noting style is different than Mr. Covert's
    and Mr. Sweezey's.  I don't sense that you carry the animosity that
    their notes indicate that they harbor.
    
    Ro
    
9.294GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Aug 13 1992 21:3554
Re: .292 Nancy

>    I am accused of "not knowing what I'm talking about" or of "denying the
>    implications" of this or that.

Notes like that could be deleted, but for C-P to be an "open forum" a
policy of deleting hostile notes would need to be applied consistently.
It isn't just conservatives who write hostile notes.  Even some notes
written by present or former C-P moderators might need to be deleted under
that standard, and who would do the deleting?

Once you start deleting notes it is all to easy to cross the line into
censorship of ideas rather than just the expression of those ideas.
Personally I'm not always sure I know the difference.

>    Or blanket black-and-white statements are 
>    made in such a way as to allow for *no* disagreement, i.e., "ALL
>    Christians believe such-and-such!"  Those who differ are not given the 
>    human respect or courtesy of acknowleding that they have honest,
>    thoughtful beliefs that differ.  
    
So you'd like to make it a rule that any time someone states a belief
they must acknowledge that others who disagree with that belief have
honest, thoughtful beliefs that differ?  If I say "I am opposed to genocide"
I have to add "but I'm sure that those who favor genocide have honest,
thoughtful reasons for their position"?

The question I have for you, Nancy, is:  why does it bother you when
someone says "ALL Christians believe such-and-such"?  You can present
arguments to show that person why they are wrong, and if they remain
unconvinced you can just ignore them.  Isn't that enough?

>    C-P does not have to be as "safe" for liberal Christians as the other
>    conference has become for fundamentalist Christians, but surely there
>    must be a way to allow absolutists to maintain their integrity
>    without insulting the intelligence or honesty of others?  If not, then
>    how can this be considered even an "open" forum?
    
An open forum means that everyone is free to state their opinions.  It
does not necessarily mean that people are free from having their
intelligence or honesty challenged.  Not everyone will feel comfortable in
an open forum, and some will drop out.  In my opinion (you may disagree)
this does not mean that the forum is not open.

However, it could well be argued that notes which question another noter's
intelligence or honesty should be deleted in conformance with the
conference rules, and in particular the John Sims memo.  Maybe if the
moderators did this, and did it consistently, the conference would become
more pleasant for most noters while still remaining "open".  Considering
some of the hostile notes that have been written recently and the fact
that people are dropping out, perhaps it's time for the moderators to start
doing this.

				-- Bob
9.295R-E-S-P-E-C-T "sockitome,sockitome"CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Aug 13 1992 23:0012
    Collis,
    
    	I, too, consider your contributions to be positive ones - well, at
    least, *most* of them.  I considered most of Alfred Thompson's entries
    to be valuable.
    
    	I think a key element is the degree of respect with which an entry
    is perceptably infused.  And, I suppose I, too, am guilty of neglecting
    to speak with respect at times.  Hell, I ain't perfect!  8-}
    
    Peace & love in Jesus,
    Richard
9.296LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsFri Aug 14 1992 00:3246
    re: .924
    
    Gee, Bob, seems like you came down pretty hard on me for expressing
    how some notes affect me.  Notice that I haven't left the conf. (though
    I don't note as much as when it first started due to work).  And,
    frankly, it never entered my mind when I wrote .292 that any notes
    should be deleted (at least not at this point)!  I was assuming that
    if additional **acceptable** guidelines **could** be added, folks
    would abide by them! (Was that naive of me?)
    
>So you'd like to make it a rule that any time someone states a belief
>they must acknowledge that others who disagree with that belief have
>honest, thoughtful beliefs that differ?  If I say "I am opposed to genocide"
>I have to add "but I'm sure that those who favor genocide have honest,
>thoughtful reasons for their position"?
    
    C'mon, Bob, that's not what I said -- and you don't usually put words
    in other folks' mouths!  Your analogy would be a more accurate one if 
    you stated: "ALL Americans are opposed to genocide."  (Probably some 
    are not opposed to it in every case.)  
    
    In fact, when *anyone* says "I..." that's fine with me -- great!!  It's
    the arrogance that states that "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so"
    that I -- please note that this is a personal-feeling-statement here -- 
    find personally offensive (as well as intellectually dishonest and untrue).
    
    I don't even object to someone saying, "I don't consider anyone who
    doesn't agree with me to be a Christian."  That's fine -- but that's a
    lot different from saying "All Christians agree with me."  
    
    In .292 I said I find that personally objectionable and offensive and 
    rude and, for that matter, factually incorrect.  I was expressing some 
    painful feelings about it -- perhaps I didn't do it very well.  I know 
    how difficult it must be to moderate this conference, and I value having 
    it open.  
    
    If you remember, I raised the question of whether there might be *some*
    way to *preserve the integrity of absolutists* while creating a more
    "non-absolutist-friendly" -- and there *IMO* more open -- file. 
    (Frankly, I doubt that there *is* a way, and I'm pretty much resigned
    to that.  I'll probably resort to read-only soon.)
    
    But maybe you'd prefer that I keep my feelings and objections to
    myself?
    
    Nancy
9.298METSYS::GOODWINTwo things ye must know about the wise woman...Fri Aug 14 1992 12:447
    I'm not sure if this is the right place but...
    
    I've stopped noting here - for various reasons. One of them being my
    feeling of distance between myself and christianity and the other the
    feeling that this notesfile is heading down a path I no longer tread.
    
    Pete.
9.299CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Fri Aug 14 1992 21:0041
Nancy .296,

	Some of the recent interactions and exchanges here have truly grieved
my soul.  I, too, wish we could find a way to preserve the integrity of
absolutists while creating a more non-absolutist-friendly environment.

	I have attempted to address the situation by suggesting that notes
be "framed with ownership:"

>Note 9.226

>	Though you and I seldom share totally congruent perspectives,
>I truly appreciate your input here in C-P.  I actually encourage dissenting
>opinions, especially when those opinions are framed with ownership and when
>those opinions refrain from attacking another noter or the integrity of
>another noter.

	Genuinely, I think it would improve things if we could avoid the
communication pitfalls created by polarity; generalizations spoken as
absolute truths.

	I have also tried planting seeds, such as initiating the "When
Christianity is confrontational," "How to make CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE more
hospitable," and the "Homogeneity" topics.

	Other times, I have just plain gone toe-to-toe with another noter.  I
am least proud of these entries of mine; so much so, in fact, that I have even
gone back and deleted some of my notes later.

	Somewhat ironically, I find often myself philosophically at odds with
some people in C-P with whom I communicate extremely well!  And I find myself
theologically alligned with others who have nothing positive to say about me,
the conference, and most other noters here!

	At this point, I'm simply saying a prayer for this conference.  I, too,
am grateful for the existence of this file and its premise.  However, I may
go read-only for awhile myself.

Peace,
Richard
    
9.300Hello, Pete!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Fri Aug 14 1992 21:0810
    Pete,
    
    	Good to hear from you.  I hope you'll continue to browse through
    and respond occasionally.
    
    	I'm curious about the path you longer tread.  What path is that?
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.301GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerFri Aug 14 1992 21:3953
Re: .296 Nancy

>    Gee, Bob, seems like you came down pretty hard on me for expressing
>    how some notes affect me.

Sorry, Nancy, I wasn't trying to "come down hard" on you.  I was trying to
analyze what you wanted out of the conference to see whether it would be
possible to make the conference both "open" and "safe" (as seen by you and
others).

>    I was assuming that
>    if additional **acceptable** guidelines **could** be added, folks
>    would abide by them! (Was that naive of me?)
    
I wouldn't say that it's naive, but my own personal opinion is that you
(generic) aren't going to be able to change people's noting styles just by
announcing new guidelines, unless you're willing to enforce those
guidelines.  That's where "deleting" comes in.

>    In fact, when *anyone* says "I..." that's fine with me -- great!!  It's
>    the arrogance that states that "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so"
>    that I -- please note that this is a personal-feeling-statement here -- 
>    find personally offensive (as well as intellectually dishonest and untrue).
    
OK, noted.  When someone says "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" then you
find it personally offensive.  But the other person may be just as offended
that you said that you felt that their statement was intellectually
dishonest and untrue.  You might ask that person as a favor not to make
such sweeping statements, or the moderators might ask people not to make
such sweeping statements, but if the moderators start enforcing that
policy by deleting notes then they'll be letting you dictate the content of
the other person's notes.  They'll be deleting notes based on the ideas that
are expressed.

>    If you remember, I raised the question of whether there might be *some*
>    way to *preserve the integrity of absolutists* while creating a more
>    "non-absolutist-friendly" -- and there *IMO* more open -- file. 

Well, what the moderators *could* do would be to start deleting notes that
are hostile or question another noter's intelligence or character.  Maybe
if they struck the right balance between ruthlessness and tolerance the
character of the conference could be preserved.  But based on what you've
written this might not be enough from your point of view, unless I've
misunderstood you: you'll be offended if another noter says "All
Christians believe xxx" even if he stops insulting you.

>    But maybe you'd prefer that I keep my feelings and objections to
>    myself?
    
Not at all!  Just because I disagree with you doesn't mean that I don't
want to hear what you have to say.

				-- Bob
9.302LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsSat Aug 15 1992 00:1544
    re .301 - Bob,
    
    For the record, I was musing about "openness" and *not* asking for the
    conference to be made "safe."
    
>OK, noted.  When someone says "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" then you
>find it personally offensive.  But the other person may be just as offended
>that you said that you felt that their statement was intellectually
>dishonest and untrue.  
    
    Well, I suppose you have a point that I should consider.  To my
    understanding, saying "ALL Christians believe thus-and-so" violates
    a very basic rule of logic, which is why I said it is intellectually 
    dishonest and untrue.  It's like saying that Dobermans are dogs, that 
    all Dobermans I've ever seen are black, and that therefore all dogs 
    are black.
    
    I had supposed that this understanding of logic was accepted by others, 
    but perhaps I was mistaken.  I don't have a basis for communicating with 
    those who don't accept that that kind of logic is false -- perhaps that 
    is a weakness of my own.  In any case, it's clear that I cannot do it
    and so should keep quiet.
    
>Well, what the moderators *could* do would be to start deleting notes that
>are hostile or question another noter's intelligence or character. 
    
    I'm *not* asking the mods to delete anyone's notes.  You keep
    referring to that, as though you are convinced that that would be the
    only way to do it.  If you are right, then probably it cannot be done.
    
    I do want to emphasize, though, for the sake of others reading this,
    that *you* are the one who keeps talking about the deleting of notes.
    I have not asked for that (and in fact, wasn't even thinking of it till
    you brought it up) and am still not asking for that.
    
    I'm not sure exactly what you disagree with me about, since feelings
    just *are* and aren't to be agreed or disagreed with and since *I* 
    did not ask for other's notes to be deleted.  Maybe you disagree with
    me on logic -- or maybe just the manner in which I expressed myself.
    
    In any case, it *is* ok with me that you disagree with whatever it is 
    you disagree with me about! :-)
    
    Nancy
9.303CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Sat Aug 15 1992 00:5315
    Nancy .302 & Bob .301,
    
    	I see a kind of parallel going on here with a situation I have come to
    recognize in my marriage. :-)
    
    	One of the partners will be in "relational" mode, while the other is in
    "problem-solving" mode.  Needless to say, as long as we continue without
    recognizing what is going on, we don't really communicate.  We just
    wonder at what's is going on in the other's mind and why we can't get
    through to the other.
    
    	I'll butt out now.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.304GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerSun Aug 16 1992 22:4712
Re: .303 Richard

>    	One of the partners will be in "relational" mode, while the other is in
>    "problem-solving" mode.

Oh, so *that's* what's going on.  Thanks.

>    	I'll butt out now.
    
Sounds like a good idea.

				-- Bob
9.305Be glad she's gone to her reward ....MORO::BEELER_JEBush in '92Mon Aug 17 1992 00:296
    I wish my grandmother was around ... she'd read this string and head
    for the peach tree to find a switch ... and *wow* do they sting.  You
    boys would be ah' droppin youah' britches and grandmother would cure
    this "argument" right quick!
    
    Bubba
9.306LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsMon Aug 17 1992 00:395
    Since I can't figure out which mode Richard thinks I'm in, and since
    I didn't intend to *argue* with anyone (in this string, that is), I'll
    butt out, too!
    
    Nancy
9.307just a suggestionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Aug 21 1992 15:1415
re Note 496.80 by JUPITR::HILDEBRANT:

>     This series of replies by the "Biblical" Experts, nit pickers, and spell
>     checkers, is yet another example of why this notes file is turning
>     people *away*.
>     
>     More and more, people are becoming "read only's" while the self
>     proclaimed keepers of the faith continue to argue away and make points
>     for themselves.
  
        Well, it usually takes two sides to sustain a continuing
        series of points and counterpoints.  Either side should be
        able to stop it, no?

        Bob
9.308just don't get it?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Aug 21 1992 15:2833
re Note 505.9 by COVERT::COVERT:

> It appears the "agenda" of this conference is to apply the label "narrow-minded"
> to those who profess and proclaim that Christianity is defined by the belief
> that Jesus is God.
  
        John,

        Would you please give us a break here?

        There is no "agenda" to this conference!  Never was, never
        will be.

        Individuals who participate in this conference may or may not
        have a personal agenda in so doing.  For some the agenda may
        be simply to have a challenging discussion about Christianity. 
        For others the agenda may very well be to call to question
        the traditional majority Christian doctrines.  For yet others
        the agenda may be to defend traditional Christian orthodoxy.

        All are welcome to participate regardless of their agenda as
        long as that agenda is consistent with Digital corporate
        guidelines for such conferences.

        If it is fair to infer that the '"agenda" of this conference
        is to apply the label "narrow-minded" to those who profess
        and proclaim that Christianity is defined by the belief that
        Jesus is God', then it is equally true that the agenda of this
        conference is to 'proclaim that Christianity is defined by
        the belief that Jesus is God', since there are very active
        participants who have been doing just this.

        Bob
9.309JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Aug 21 1992 15:296
    Correct Bob,
      However, if I want to add something to the conversation, and its
    being dominated by these type of people, I will most likely *NOT*
    respond...that is what I mean.
    
    Marc H.
9.310Can we talk?YAMS::FERWERDADisplaced BeirutiSun Aug 23 1992 02:2944
    As someone who falls into the camp that has sometimes been labeled as
    "narrow-minded", I've been doing a lot of thinking about the dialog
    between both sides, especially given the Republican National Convention
    this past week.
    
    I see on one side, folks who believe in absolutes that apply to all
    people in all times.  On the other side are the folks whose only
    absolute is that no one should tell them that there are absolutes.  The
    folks on the absolute side feel they have to confront every example of
    an absolute being trashed in order to preserve truth.  The folks on the
    non-absolute side take it as an insult that someone else insists that an
    absolute applies to them.
    
    I believe that there can be dialog but it takes work on both sides. 
    The disagreement is often much deeper than the issue being discussed
    since the fundamental assumptions about the world, man, God, etc. are
    so different.  We need to make those assumptions explicit where we can
    to reduce additional misunderstanding of where we're starting from.
    
    The problem comes when folks on both sides feel insulted or that they
    aren't respected.  Speaking as someone on the "narrow-minded" side that
    sees myself as fundamentally flawed and sinful, I have to remember that
    folks who don't accept what to me is a fundamental assumption are not
    necessarily going to cheerfully embrace the distinction I make between
    the person and their actions.  I can say, God's love for an individual
    is the ONLY thing that gives them worth, all other sources of
    self-worth will eventually let them down, and then say "that action is
    wrong", without meaning to insult.  The person on the receiving end of
    my "point", may see any condemnation of their actions to be a
    condemnation of their worth as an individual, which is not what I
    intend or condone (sp?).
    
    Both sides, I think see the other as arrogant.
    
    Although I'm not sure we can have a dialog between the two sides, I'm
    willing to try.  I'm also willing to try to bend over backward to not
    insult without being false to what I see as the truth, hoping that
    those on the receiving end will cut me a little slack for my "handicap"
    of being stuck with absolutes. 8-)
    
    Peace,
    Paul
    
    
9.311LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Mon Aug 24 1992 00:405
re Note 9.310 by YAMS::FERWERDA:

        Thanks, Paul; that was quite thoughtful.

        Bob
9.312CARTUN::BERGGRENmovers and shakersMon Aug 24 1992 02:5520
    Re .310,
    
    I agree with you, Paul.  Both sides, the absolutist and non-absolutist,
    _must_ enter into dialog.  It might help if both sides could identify
    a reason they both share as to why this dialog is important.  This
    would help to address the arrogance you speak of and foster a more  
    "listening and open heart" in both.
    
    Currently in the socio-political arena, that shared reason, or common 
    ground, has not yet been created or articulated.  Instead, it seems 
    we're polarizing to even further extremes.  Given that this country 
    is composed primarily of a two-party body politic, perhaps polarization 
    is inevitably the nature of the beast?  
    
    Still, I pray for personal courage and Divine Grace to dialog openly, 
    honestly and respectfully with one another.  
    
    *Thanks* for your thoughts,
    
    Karen 
9.313on ridiculeLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Aug 26 1992 18:2322
        The issue has come up, from time to time, that it is unfair
        to "ridicule" the beliefs of particular denominations.

        "Ridicule", as define by the dictionary I have at hand, is
        "speech or action intended to cause contemptuous laughter".
        "Ridicule" is therefore defined by intention, and therefore
        cannot be directly observed.

        The unabridged dictionary I am using (Random House) goes on
        to give usage notes.  It states that "TO RIDICULE is to make
        fun of, either sportively and good-humoredly, or unkindly
        with the intention of humiliating" (there goes that word,
        "intention", again!).

        Thus, to ridicule is not always to be unfair or intend harm.

        What is the boundary between ridicule and mere criticism?  I
        observe that in the U.S. political field, the most common and
        apparently successful form of criticism does appear to be
        ridicule.  Is it unfair?

        Bob
9.314SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkWed Aug 26 1992 18:529
    We're not called by Christ to be "successful".  So while we can discuss
    if ridicule is successful criticism, that's really besides the point.

    The point is that making a person or the beliefs a person the object of
    laughter is immoral.

    Recall the last sin of men against Jesus was not the crucifixion.
    No, after Jesus was on the Cross and dying, he continued to be mocked
    to the end.
9.315VIDSYS::PARENTdeep voices in the amazoneWed Aug 26 1992 19:2030
 
   Patrick,

   While you have expressed your indignation you have done little else
   to defend the Catholic Church.  Rather than point out a specific way
   to not defend the faith I will suggest how you could and do it in an
   enguaging fashon as well.

   I would suggest presenting us with a copy of "In Humane Vitae" which
   I understand is the clear statement of the Church regarding several
   issues here.  While I may disagree with Catholic Churches stance on 
   many things I would be inclined to regard serious presentation of 
   same as valid and worthy of discussion.  Replies generally without 
   prior substance stating that's just the way it is are uninformative
   and devoid of scriptures as backup.  By using that document as an
   example you would have presented the Catholic interpretation of the
   Bible and how it supports the faith.  A defense of this kind is logical
   and sincere and bridges many Christian faiths.  It is likely to be
   interesting to those that don't believe as well.

   Regarding Menchen, A simple explanations of who he was and what he
   is known for would have been informative.

   Peace,
   Allison

   PS:  AHD: Bemuse; to confuse, stupify.  My comment in 508.37 was not
   	of amusement, but born out of bewilderment!


9.316Is it the author?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Aug 26 1992 19:5516
re Note 508.47 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:

>     Since you asked, the quotation in .27 is not an invitation to
>     respectful discussion of the Christian perspective on birth control,
>     but a mocking wisecrack of an anti-Christian and anti-Catholic bigot.
>     
>     It makes Roman Catholic belief the object of laughter.
  
        Pat,

        Would it have made any difference if Mike had made a similar
        observation to Mencken's in his own words?  (In fact, I and
        others have done this in the Catholic-Theology and Christian
        conferences over the years.)

        Bob
9.317SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Aug 27 1992 00:2210
    When you are presented with an ridiculous claim, it's a simple matter
    to dismiss it and move on.  What serious view of birth control has been
    presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
    assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.
    
    As for the message versus the messenger:  It would not be possible for
    me to judge the intent of a participant here.  Mencken's life was full
    of contempt, hatred, and bigotry for Christians, especially Catholics,
    Jews, Blacks, Jews, women, in fact, everyone except the native-born
    irreligious Americans of whom he is the saint.
9.318VIDSYS::PARENTdeep voices in the amazoneThu Aug 27 1992 00:5231
<    When you are presented with an ridiculous claim, it's a simple matter
<    to dismiss it and move on.  What serious view of birth control has been
<    presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
<    assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.

   Patrick,

   Responses like that are why some will never be taken serious.  To me
   there are the sins of religious vanity:

   	Rather than answer that I'll pray for you...  
   	Because, it says right here...
   	that ridiculous claim, I'll dismiss that.

   Those statements are offensive, rude, contemptous, and condesending
   but I've heard them much too often.  It contributes nothing to any
   discussion, save maybe to send the searcher on their way unanswered.

<    As for the message versus the messenger:  It would not be possible for
<    me to judge the intent of a participant here.  Mencken's life was full
<    of contempt, hatred, and bigotry for Christians, especially Catholics,
<    Jews, Blacks, Jews, women, in fact, everyone except the native-born
<    irreligious Americans of whom he is the saint.

   Are you sure you really wanted to post that last sentence?  It is rather
   hateful and bigoted.  


   peace,
   Allison
9.320SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Aug 27 1992 01:587
    When a claim is made that is ridiculous I will dismiss it.
    When a claim is made that I consider to be of merit to discuss, I will.
    
    What standard do you apply to Notes?
    
    Readers can judge for themselves if the claim is serious, ridiculous,
    or an appeal to bigotry.
9.321I have to agreeCSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Aug 27 1992 02:298
Note 9.320

>    Readers can judge for themselves if the claim is serious, ridiculous,
>    or an appeal to bigotry.

Verily, most readers and most of the time.

Richard
9.319CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Aug 27 1992 02:5135
Note 9.317
>    What serious view of birth control has been
>    presented in that note that merits a discussion, perhaps Richard's
>    assertion that natural family planning is also contrary to God's will.

What I actually said in Note 508.48 was:

>	Practicing NFP, after all, could be considered choosing to deny
>life also, could it not?  I mean, perhaps I have a false notion of what NFP
>is all about, but NFP seems to me to be a pretty contrived way of
>controlling reproduction.

By introducing the possibility of my own misconception I practically paved the
way for you to explain why you believe NFP is the will of God.  You may choose
to ignore that opportunity.  It's your decision.

But, please hear this:

I don't hate Catholics.  I won't bother with the 'some of my best friends' line,
even though it's true.  The last Marriage Encounter weekend my spouse and I
were on was Roman Catholic.  I take pride in having served 2 years as a chaplain
in a hospital owned and operated by the Sisters of Charity.  I have exchanged
hand written correspondence and had phone conversations with Bishop Thomas
Gumbleton.  I have worked closely in conjunction with the Roman Catholic
diocese of Colorado Springs on a number of issues of mutual concern.

We don't hate Catholics here.  But I get the distinct impression that you
believe most of us here do.  I get the distinct impression that you believe
that one of our primary objectives here is to persecute either Catholicism
or the Holy Roman Catholic Church.  If that is so, then you are most
profoundly in error.

That is all.

Richard
9.322JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAThu Aug 27 1992 12:499
    Re: Pat and catholic bashing....
    
    Pat, you are wrong...period. There is no hidden agenda. Its in your
    own mind, really.
    
    I think that you have the feeling that C-P is the same as soapbox.
    It isn't. 
    
    Marc H.
9.323confused about your standardLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Aug 27 1992 13:1424
re Note 9.320 by SDSVAX::SWEENEY:

>     When a claim is made that is ridiculous I will dismiss it.
>     When a claim is made that I consider to be of merit to discuss, I will.
>     
>     What standard do you apply to Notes?
  
        I am really confused, then.

        As I pointed out elsewhere, I too questioned whether the
        choice of technologies involved in NFP vs. chemical vs.
        barrier made any substantial difference.  Mencken's
        statement, as quoted, states what I wrote more concisely but
        uses no words or phrasing that is generally used to taunt or
        mock.  (I confess next to no knowledge of Mencken, thus I
        judges his words without reference to his heart, life, or
        reputation.)

        Mencken's statement is in no way a prima facie ridiculous
        claim (in fact, the quote is literally a claim that the
        church was making a ridiculous claim -- but that in itself
        isn't ridicule or mockery).

        Bob
9.324CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Sat Aug 29 1992 02:5314
Note 508.108

>    The overall context here for CP participants to take shots at Roman
>    Catholic teaching on marriage and family life.

Allegations of persecution again, eh??

Were it true you could take comfort from Jesus' words about being persecuted.
But you can't.

So, are you ready to propose some constructive suggestions yet?

Pax Christi,
Richard
9.325It has to do with heat and kitchens ...MORO::BEELER_JEBubba for President!Sat Aug 29 1992 04:415
    I would quote a very famous phrase by Harry Truman .. but it would
    serve no purpose other than to alienate people .. so ... you can fill
    in the blanks.

    Bubba
9.326Welcome to CP: The Church of What's Happening NowCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertSat Aug 29 1992 04:559
It's just not PC here in CP to claim that there is any moral or theological
standard associated with Christianity.

If you do so, people take pot shots.

Jesus commands the faithful believer to stay in the kitchen and face the
heat.

/john
9.327talk about pot shots!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Sat Aug 29 1992 11:4513
re Note 9.326 by COVERT::COVERT:

> It's just not PC here in CP to claim that there is any moral or theological
> standard associated with Christianity.
  
        Ah, com'on!  If there is a Catholic-related issue in these
        recent discussions at all, it is whether the Roman Catholic
        teaching authority is to be taken as inerrant and binding
        without question.

        If that's PC, then Martin Luther and Calvin were PC.

        Bob
9.328QuestionMORO::BEELER_JEBubba for President!Sat Aug 29 1992 17:193
    Was Christ "PC"?
    
    Bubba
9.329SOLVIT::MSMITHSo, what does it all mean?Sat Aug 29 1992 18:081
    Christ was actually a bit of a revolutionary, methinks.
9.330CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistSat Aug 29 1992 23:293
    Christ was not PC 2000 years ago. He is not PC now either.
    
    		Alfred
9.33110-4MORO::BEELER_JEBubba for President!Sun Aug 30 1992 17:073
    Precisely my point, Mr. Thompson.
    
    Bubba
9.332CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 17 1992 19:3311
Nanci 91.1555,

	I understand and appreciate your intent, but if we didn't represent
such an enormous threat, Patrick wouldn't say anything!

	He's providing an invaluable service for us as a barometer.  And so,
I'd really rather keep him here.

Peace,
Richard

9.333SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 17 1992 20:093
    Disparagement and ridicule of Christianity is routine in
    CHRISITAN-PERSPECTIVE.  It certainly seems "welcome" when the
    moderators set the tone for the conference.
9.334It all depends on whose bull is being goredCSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 17 1992 20:3411
    I am simply a commentator.  I don't claim to be objective.  Much of what
    I say is supposed to be funny and I believe is funny.  My calling is
    simply to call into question to the conservative Christian's smug
    satisfaction with the status quo.

    If I was Rush Limbaugh doing the "disparagement and ridicule", Patrick
    would be cheering me on.

    Peace,
    Richard

9.335CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Sep 17 1992 20:4412
    I disagree, Patrick, that Christianity is routinely ridiculed here.
    
    Certain doctrines are examined, cross-examined, and/or commented upon, 
    as well as various Biblical passages, and demoninations such as UU's, 
    JW's, Quakerism, and Catholicism, to name a few.  
    
    Sometimes emotions run high in certain topics and are reflected thusly 
    in notes written with tones of sarcasm and, yes, sometimes, ridicule.  
    But from what I've seen, you're no stranger at lapsing into these 
    types of comments from time to time yourself...as am I.  
    
    Karen
9.336SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 17 1992 21:134
    I believe Richard has it right.  Christianity is the target of
    contempt, humor and sarcasm here.
    
    I respect Christianity and the sincere beliefs of others.
9.337perceptions and expectations...BSS::VANFLEETDon't it make you wanna dance?Thu Sep 17 1992 21:1749
    Patrick - 
    
    I was merely suggesting that perhaps your expectations of the purpose
    of this conference are unrealistic.  I see some people who disagree
    with what you say and they are called "disparaging and ridiculing
    Christianity" and yet I don't see those who disagree with you levelling
    the same charges on you.  So the conclusion that I came to was that the
    reality of what C-P is is not in alignment with your expectations of
    what you think it _should_ be.
    
    There are several different ways in which to resolve this misalliance,
    so to speak:
    
      1.  You can change your expectations of what C-P is.
          (In MHO, unlikely given what I've read, but possible.)
    
      2.  We can change the nature of C-P to align with your personal
          belief system.
          (Highly unlikely since, as I see it, C-P in reality is very
          closely aligned with the intent of those who conceived it.)
    
      3.  You can find a conference that fills your expectations.
          (GOLF::CHRISTIAN)
    
      4.  We can leave you here, you can make C-P what you think it
          _should_ be and we can all go someplace else and recreate the
          intent of this conference elsewhere.
          (A little ridiculous, don't you think?)
    
    
    I'm sure there are other alternatives but this was all I could come up
    with at the moment.
    
    Patrick, I respect your faith.  It is obvious that you hold it with
    great fervor and passion.  There are others of us who hold our own
    faith with no less commitment and passion as you hold yours.  I would
    not have you change your faith any more than I would change the nature
    of God as I understand Him.  And I would ask for the same respect for
    my faith from you.  Granted, you have the right to refuse to honor me
    in this request.  That is your right.  However, as someone once said, 
    I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not
    in this world to live up to mine.  
    
    And as for God's expectations?  Well, I think the best any of us can do
    in this world is to live up to what we *believe* God's expectations of
    us are as we *perceive* them to be.
    
    Nanci
    
9.338SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 17 1992 21:265
    Perhaps the reason that I am not "charged" with disparaging and
    ridiculing Christianity by the people I disagree with is because as a
    factual matter I do not disparage and ridicule Christianity.
    
    My expectations of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE are irrelevant.
9.339CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 17 1992 21:447
    .336
    
    You are wrong.  But I'm sure there is nothing I could say that would
    convince you of that.
    
    Richard
    
9.341CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 17 1992 21:4810
Note 9.338
    
    >    Perhaps the reason that I am not "charged" with disparaging and
    >ridiculing Christianity by the people I disagree with is because as a
    >factual matter I do not disparage and ridicule Christianity.
    
    Correction.  You do not disparage or ridicule traditional perspectives.
    
    Richard

9.342God is *NOT* "Mother, Lover, Friend"COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Sep 17 1992 22:056
Chrisitianity is a historical religion.

The new secular religion that is not based on the bible or the traditions
of the historical Church is not Christianity.

/john
9.343CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 17 1992 22:539
    Thank you, /john (.342).  That is one possible perspective.  To me
    Christianity has a rich history; a history of triumph, of turmoil,
    of tragedy.  We have much to gain from our history, and much to
    avoid repeating.
    
    I believe God *is* Mother, Lover and Friend, among other descriptors.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.344Are you willing?DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Sep 18 1992 11:5516
Mr. Sweeney,

		Someday, perhaps soon, I would love to have the opportunity
to witness to you about the Jesus Christ I know.  The love and care he 
brought to the world.  The one who came not to condem the world but that
through him it might be saved.  The one who commanded that we love our
neighbors as ourselves and show that love to the world.  Jesus, who 
though reviled continue to love and witness to a lost and dying world.
Ridiculed for his words, he returned hate and condemnation with love and
truth.  Who spoke to all of us about turning the other cheek.

		Seeing what you have written over the last several months
I feel inclined to ask you if I could witness to you.


Dave
9.345WrongJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Sep 18 1992 12:026
    Re: .333
    No, YOUR version of what YOU think Christianity is is being discuss,
    and YOU think its being ridiculed.
    
    
    Marc H.
9.346JURAN::VALENZAMarilyn Monroe was a Russian spy!Fri Sep 18 1992 12:2381
    After being away from this notes file, I have a few reflections to
    offer.

    It is not the moderators per se, but *all* of the participants who set
    the tone of this conference.  In GOLF::CHRISTIAN, where the moderators
    are heavy handed and rigidly control what can and can't be said, the
    situation is probably different, but here the conference is shaped by
    everyone who participates.

    Noting styles vary considerably.  Some styles are warm and friendly,
    others cold and hostile.  To what extent various notes personalities
    mirror the actual flesh-and-blood personalities probably depends on the
    individual.  And when a lot of people who are nice to each other get
    together into a notes community, they can form a warm and caring
    community.  On the other hand, when someone comes into that community
    with a predisposition of hostility, that also sets a tone--a negative
    one, in this case.

    It is sometimes hard to judge whether or not those who are impersonal
    and unfriendly to others in notes are actually that way in real life. 
    It is also difficult to judge people who come from different parts of
    the U.S. or the world.  For example, there is a stereotype among many
    Americans about New Yorkers being brusque, rude, and obnoxious.  I
    think that to a certain extent you have to get beyond superficial
    appearances and realize that the stereotypical New York style of
    interacting may not be meant to be as obnoxious as it might appear.  On
    the other hand, I have met my share of nice New Yorkers, so maybe it
    isn't fair to the nice ones to say of the others, "Oh, he's not a jerk,
    he's just from New York".

    But how noting styles affect others in a community is worth
    considering.  For example, there is one noting style that I will
    call--let's see, oh, for want of a better name, the Sweevert style of
    noting.  It can be characterized by the following traits:

        o Identify certain people as the enemy, based on the fact that they
          have different opinions than your own.

        o Once you have determined who your enemies are, make sure that you
          do not engage in any behavior that would break the ice, make the
          discussions more personal, acknowledge your enemy as a feeling
          human being, or otherwise build a sense of community with them.
          Jesus may have said that you should love your enemies, but that
          doesn't mean you have to be nice to them.  Specifically:
        	-  Avoid all forms of small talk or banter.  And NEVER use
		   a smiley face (it is optionally permissible to use smiley
		   faces with sarcastic comments, but if smiley faces are not
		   your style then you should just avoid them altogether.)
        	-  Refuse to address your enemy directly by name. That would
		   be far too personal and friendly.
        	-  Refuse to engage your enemy directly in a dialogue. 
        	   That includes asking no questions of them, and
        	   responding to any questions that they put to you by
        	   accusing them of baiting you or of putting down your
        	   faith, or at best giving them a brusque one-sentence
    		   reply (see below).  It doesn't matter what they say to
    		   you, this always works.  For example, if someone says to
    		   you, "Hi, how's the weather down where you live?", accuse
    		   them of ridiculing your religion, or tell them that the
    		   weather is not relevant, or that your own opinion of the 
    		   weather is not relevant.

        o Cast all notes in the form of theological or some other kind of
          pronouncements.  This means using paragraphs with only one or two
          sentences at most, thus giving each sentence greater impact and
          meaning.  This will also lend an air of talking down to others. 
    	  When responding to an individual comment (although not addressing
    	  the author by name) with a simple one sentence paragraph, you
    	  also indicate to them that one sentence is all their comment
          deserves.
    
    I think the key point about the Sweevert mode of noting is that a notes
    file is not viewed as a community in which you wish to take part.  Your
    job is to deliver a message, as pointedly and directly as possible, and
    you have no time for social interaction with the boors who participate
    there.  It is spreading your message of the Truth to a wider audience
    that matters.  The other people in the notes file are sources of
    opinions to differ with, no more and no less.  Any personal side to the
    discussions here are to be dispensed with as irrelevant.
    
    -- Mike
9.347Jesus did not teach his followers that anything goesCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Sep 18 1992 12:2411
re .344

Do you plan to witness to what Jesus Christ taught about obedience to
God and living a life of holiness, or do you plan to witness to the
modern American secular "anything goes" religion?  The Church of What's
Happening Now?

Permissiveness towards sin and a denial of the truth of the Holy Scriptures
are not in accordance with the commandment to love thy neighbor as thyself.

/john
9.348Sure Got that Right!JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Sep 18 1992 12:275
    Re: .346
    
    Well said Mike! Right on target.
    
    Marc H.
9.349DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Sep 18 1992 14:0814
    RE: .347  Mr. Covert,
    
    			   I would plan to witness to what the Bible really
    said about obedience and judgements.  They were/are directed at the
    individual and not to be "forced" on groups.  In other words....We are
    to deal with ourselves as individuals.  Kinda like the mote in my eye
    while I look at the splinter in other's eyes.  The biblical lifestyle
    directly refers to the individual.  I would witness to the saving grace
    of Jesus Christ and not worry about what my prejudices are.  I believe
    that Jesus can change the individual if its needed if the person has a
    relationship with Christ based on love and truth.
    
    
    Dave
9.350JURAN::SILVAIf it weren't for you meddling kids....Fri Sep 18 1992 14:459



	Dave, that was really nice. Thanks for posting that. 



Glen
9.351COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Sep 18 1992 15:035
You're absolutely right, Dave.

What makes you think that Pat Sweeney does not see Christ exactly the same way?

/john
9.354DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Sep 22 1992 12:2414
    RE: .351  Mr. Covert,
    
    			   Forgive me for not answering before now...Busy
    ya know.
    
    
    		To answer your question, I really wish Mr. Sweeney had
    deemed to answer, but since your his surrogate so-to-speak, I'll say
    this to you.  I have sensed a lot of anger in his answers and his many
    claims of persecution.  I would love to see a change to a more positive
    aspect of Christianity....sharing the witnes of Christ for example.
    
    
    Dave
9.355Is God's Truth compatible with Individual Truth?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Sep 22 1992 12:5715
Dave,

What do you think the witness of Christ is?

Certainly it is that God loves you and provides salvation to all.  That's
the easy part though.  Salvation is a free gift, but it requires a response.

The witness of Jesus is that the required response is living a life in
accordance with God's commandments.

Those who bear this witness are often subject to ridicule (and the Bible
even says that this will be so) by those who would prefer to follow their
own definition of God and morality, rather than the commandments of God.

/john
9.356CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Wed Sep 23 1992 19:5316
Note 519.81

>    In any case, is the new dialog
>    suppression tactic for CP to doubt the sincerity of people one
>    disagrees with?

I thought you said you didn't engage in ridicule and disparagement.

>    You're own position is supported by citing your references and
>    diminished when don't.

Thanks for the tactical advice, but I'm not interested in debate.  This is
*not* SOAPBOX.

Richard

9.357CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 24 1992 00:0514
>Note 516.12

>                         -< The Christian Perspective >-

There you go again, /john, defining for us all what the one true Christian
perspective is.

It's an interesting approach.  But I'm of the firm belief that readers and
contributors in C-P are intelligent enough to make such determinations for
themselves.

In Christ's light,
Richard

9.358VIDSYS::PARENTFormally, recovering well!Thu Sep 24 1992 00:2734
>                         -< The Christian Perspective >-

   John,

   My understanding of this is you are saying this is how I percieve
   it from the Christian perspective as I know it.  I am of course
   substituting "My" for the "The".  I am not saying your alone in your
   views either, only that I would expect you speak for yourself not as
   the spoksman for everyone.

   	A sampling of similar statements:
   	
   		A Christian(s') perspective
   		One Christian(s') perspective
   	        From a Christian(s') perspective

   	And we have:

   		The Christian Perspective

   It is easier for me to respect you and your personal views over
   someone espousing the official view even if they are the same.

   Am I being harsh?  Yes, a bit.  For that I apologise.  The strident
   tone is to harsh to me and next_unseen is tempting.  You have said 
   important things and I'm not always receptive to the presentation. 
   I have to listen hard to hear, why make it harder to be heard?

   I bid you well,
   Allison



9.359The Independent Thinker's PerspectiveMORO::BEELER_JEUnity without uniformity!Thu Sep 24 1992 01:4117
.357> It's an interesting approach.  But I'm of the firm belief that
.357> readers and contributors in C-P are intelligent enough to make
.357> such determinations for themselves.

Thank you.  My first "impression" of this conference was that of 
a great deal of diversity in opinions.  Quite frankly, as of late
I've seen a lot of "this-is-the-way-that-it-is" that you reference
Richard.  You're right.  I have a brain and I intend to use it.

.358> Am I being harsh?  Yes, a bit.  For that I apologize.  The strident
.358> tone is to harsh to me and next_unseen is tempting.

Am I being harsh?  Yep.  I don't apologize.  I'm sick of it.  Sure, I
respect it, just that I'm sick of it.  <NEXT UNSEEN> is not only tempting
but comes in quite handy as of late.

Bubba
9.360Not just a perspective, but THE CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVECOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Sep 24 1992 02:003
Is it not the Christian Perspective that there is One and only One God?

Not MY perspective, but THE CHRISTIAN perspective.
9.361CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Thu Sep 24 1992 02:4710
    .360
    
    It wasn't just that particular note, /john.
    
    It's not about monotheism, /john.
    
    Are you saying you have no idea to what we're referring, /john?
    
    Richard
    
9.362A blessing for the lions of DiocletianSDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 24 1992 02:4910
    Agenda:
    
    How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in support of
    Christ and His Church can be rejected...
    
    How much of what has been taught for nearly 20 centuries in opposition
    to Christ and His Church can be accepted...
    
    in order to have a Christian perspective 
    
9.363Response to "agenda"LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsThu Sep 24 1992 13:2313
    RE: .362
    
    A Christian's perspective cannot be validated or invalidated by measuring
    some quantity of teachings.  *Most* who note here are interested in
    discussing the *meaning and value* of various different Christian
    perspectives (note the use of the plural!), not in counting them and 
               ^
    assigning them to various "camps."  You seem to be interested only in
    fighting -- almost literally at times -- for one very narrow and
    specific set of beliefs.  Thus you frequently alienate others who
    might otherwise listen to, and learn from, *your* perspective.
    
    
9.364not rejection but questioning and examinationLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Sep 24 1992 13:2738
9.365a good topic for discussion, anywayLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Sep 24 1992 13:3216
re Note 522.1 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

> Prompted by Note 23.77:
> 
> >For those of you foolish enough to contest this,
> >it's not worthwhile going into details and/or discussions.
> >Can't you see?!  Are you so blind?!
> 
> I got the impression that some wanted to go into detail and/or discussion
> concerning the creation story.
  
        I think Collis was pulling our leg by giving us his
        impression of how some of the other participants have been
        noting as of late, but I might be wrong.

        Bob
9.366COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Sep 24 1992 14:1316
The creation account is a case where there may be several perspectives
that could all be considered "The Christian Perspective," positions that
one could hold and not be in serious conflict with the historic teachings
of Christianity.

However, there are definitely non-Christian perspectives.

"The Christian Perspective" (and for that matter, the perspective of Judaism)
is that a pre-existing, transcendent God created _everything_ that exists
_out_of_nothing_.

How he did it, and how literal (not how true) the biblical account is can lead
to different Christian Perspectives.

Perspectives that make creation a part of God, that have God actually giving
birth to the universe, are not a Christian Perspective.
9.367PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youThu Sep 24 1992 14:1410
Re:  9.357

  >But I'm of the firm belief that readers and contributors in C-P are 
  >intelligent enough to make such determinations for themselves.

Ah, but intelligence is not the only (or even the most significant)
part of the equation (which is not a comment on John or his noting, 
but only a comment on Richard's response).

Collis
9.368CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Sep 24 1992 14:4512
    re: .366 (/john)
    
    > Perspectives...that have God actually giving birth to the universe,
    are not a Christian Perspective. <
    
    Oh, I'm not so sure about that. :-)  There's many well-known Christian
    mystics who'd disagree with you.  (i.e. Meister Eckart, Hildegard of 
    Bingen, Teresa of Avila, Fr. Matthew Fox)  
    
    Does the word "birth" somehow emasculate your image of God?
    
    Karen
9.369SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 24 1992 14:557
    Oh I get it.

    When the tradition of nearly 20 centuries of teaching about Christ and
    his Church is rejected is it "questioning" and "seeking validation".

    When the tradition of nearly 20 centuries of teaching about Christ and
    his Church is defined and accepted it is "fighting".
9.371SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 24 1992 15:027
    In context, the word "birth" as used by these Christian mystics affirms
    the Christian perspective of creation as an act of the Divine Will from
    nothing and only by distortion can be used to support pantheism.

    Fr. Matthew Fox, as I understand it, has made a formal renunciation of
    his Dominican vows, has been released from his order, and is seeking a
    release from his obligations as a Roman Catholic priest.
9.372JURAN::VALENZABat child escapes!Thu Sep 24 1992 15:0614
>"The Christian Perspective" (and for that matter, the perspective of Judaism)
>is that a pre-existing, transcendent God created _everything_ that exists
>_out_of_nothing_.
    
    That's one man's opinion.
    
>Perspectives that make creation a part of God, that have God actually giving
>birth to the universe, are not a Christian Perspective.

    That is also one man's opinion.  In certain ways process theology
    presents a conception of God that is closer to the Bible's portrayal
    than the theistic philosophy of Anselm and Aquinas does.
    
    -- Mike
9.373JURAN::VALENZABat child escapes!Thu Sep 24 1992 15:087
    >In context, the word "birth" as used by these Christian mystics affirms
    >the Christian perspective of creation as an act of the Divine Will from
    >nothing and only by distortion can be used to support pantheism.
    
    No one here that I know have has advocated pantheism.
    
    -- Mike
9.374CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Sep 24 1992 15:1511
    Re: .369
    
    > Oh I get it.
    
    No, I don't think so, Patrick.  
    
    (Are you even remotely interested in "getting it?")
    
    Curiously,
                                                 
    Karen         
9.375"birth" and beliefSDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Sep 24 1992 15:159
    We're dealing here with the inherent ambiguity of "birth" applied to
    the denial of Christian belief of God who created everything from
    nothing.
    
    What belief system is affirmed by such a denial?
    
    In my reading of works opposing Christianity it is pantheism.  Once
    people get back the simple denial of Christian beliefs, we'll both see
    what beliefs they hold.
9.376DEMING::VALENZABat child escapes!Thu Sep 24 1992 17:085
    The distinction is between pantheism and panentheism.  While I would
    describe myself as a panentheist, I would definitely not describe
    myself as a pantheist.
    
    -- Mike
9.377CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Sep 24 1992 17:183
    <--- And panentheism is both biblically-based and supported.
    
    another panentheist 
9.378One more try...BSS::VANFLEETQue bummer!Thu Sep 24 1992 17:2915
    The point being that there is not necessarily ONE Christian Perspective
    that is recognized and embraced by all of the noters in this file. 
    Patrick and John, YOUR Christian Perspective is YOURS.  It does not
    necessarily belong to the rest of the noters here.  When C-P was begun
    the moderators purposely left a definition of "Christian Perspective"
    out of the file's guidelines so that all could present their OWN
    Christian Perspective and learn from and share with each other.  THAT
    is the purpose of this notesfile, not to silence voices or convert or
    to define that term for the rest of the noting public.
    
    I don't know if I can be any clearer.
    
    Sigh!
    
    Nanci
9.379CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Tue Sep 29 1992 23:1315
Note 525.2

>    Too many terms have been co-opted by the religious right; I fight each
>    attempt... "Born-again" has taken on a connotation that it did *not*
>    have 20-30 years ago; "Christian" as defined in the notesfile of that
>    name makes be cringe -- but I *refuse* to give up that identity!

	I stand proudly beside you in this effort, Nancy.

	I guess it's no secret that there are a few who resent the existance
of this conference and would like to see it undone.  They're not hard to spot.

In Christ,
Richard

9.380CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistWed Sep 30 1992 10:297
>	I guess it's no secret that there are a few who resent the existance
>of this conference and would like to see it undone.  They're not hard to spot.

	This same is of course true of the other conference. That has been
	true since long before this one was created. 

				Alfred
9.381COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Oct 05 1992 21:1019
>    Patricia,
>    
>    i don't believe that your definition of normal and moral reflect a
>    Christian perspective at all.  If you think it does then how does it?
>    
>    thanks!
>    jeff

Jeff, you don't seem to have figured out that in this conference, the
perspective on morality is the morality of today's hedonists.

Sort of "If it makes me feel good and I don't think it separates me from
God, then it won't, so it's not immoral."  Everyone has their own personal
"Goddess/God" and life is just all hunky-dory.

Forget anything Judaism and Christianity have taught for 4000 years.
That's old fashioned and sexist.

/john
9.382CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Mon Oct 05 1992 21:248
    .47
    
    Well, that's certainly one possible perspective.  Not a particularly
    benign one or one that would encourage the participation of others,
    but one that's possible, nevertheless.
    
    Richard
    
9.383SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkMon Oct 05 1992 23:424
    I'd rather place my beliefs in the words of the patriarchs, prophets,
    apostles, and saints of 4000 years than in the trends of the moment.
    
    That's my perspective.
9.384JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 11:265
    It is obvious that John Covert neither understands the perspectives of
    those he disagrees with in this notes file, nor is he interested in
    doing so. 
    
    -- Mike
9.385CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 11:358
>    It is obvious that John Covert neither understands the perspectives of
>    those he disagrees with in this notes file, nor is he interested in
>    doing so. 
 
	This is obvious and at least as true about Mike Valenza. I
	do not believe it is true about John Covert. 

			Alfred
9.386JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 11:374
    Unfortunately, Alfred, his comments in reply .381 show that he clearly
    does not understand what he attacks.
    
    -- Mike
9.387CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 11:407
>    Unfortunately, Alfred, his comments in reply .381 show that he clearly
>    does not understand what he attacks.
 
	I would argue that .381 shows that he clearly *does* understand
	what he attacks.

			Alfred
9.388JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 11:413
    Then you also clearly don't understand it.
    
    -- Mike
9.389CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 11:415
>    Then you also clearly don't understand it either.

	Explain it to me.

			Alfred
9.390JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 11:488
    Maybe some other time, Alfred.  While I would be interested in
    discussing my own religious perspective with those who are interested
    in serious and respectful dialogue with people from other perspectives.
    
    Given the tone of .381, a note you have already said that you agree
    with, this is clearly not the place for that type of discussion.
    
    -- Mike
9.391CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 11:509
>    Maybe some other time, Alfred.  I am always interested in discussing my
>    own religious perspective with those who are interested in serious and
>    respectful dialogue with people from other perspectives.
 
	I wish I could believe you but given the tone of your notes
	throughout this conference I do not believe you have respect
	for people who disagree with you.

			Alfred
9.392Blasphemy against the Holy Ghost is its formal nameCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 11:5024
Oh, but I do understand it:

   The sinner must admit to himself that he has done wrong; he must face
   the fact that he is a sinner.  So long as the sinner refuses to
   recognize what he did was wrong, he naturally does not ask for
   forgiveness.  The sinner has rationalized his actions, and has
   convinced himself that his evil is not evil but good.  Since he has
   lost the sense of the difference between good and evil, he is not
   sorry for what he has done.
   
   Sex sinners sometimes are an illustration of this, whether sin be
   adultery or homosexual practices, or some other form of sex sin.  The
   adulterer rationalizes his sin something like this: "I deserve
   happiness is this life, and I am not happy with my wife, because she
   doesn't do what I want her to do.  Now, this other woman is sweet to
   me, she wants to please me, she really devotes hersolf to making me
   happy.  She makes me happy, and I really love her.  Therefore, even
   though the Church calls our relationship adultery [or homosexual sin,
   or fornication, or whatever] it is really a good thing because it
   makes me happy.  It is not really sin, even if it is contrary to one
   of the Ten Commandments [or other constant teachings of the Church
   for 4000 years]."
   
   				-- The Episcopal Church, Fr. Roy Pettway
9.394JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 11:575
    Alfred, you obviously haven't been paying much attention to my notes,
    then.  Since you have admitted that you don't even read the user names
    of notes when you read them, that is hardly surprising.
    
    -- Mike
9.395CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 12:028
>    Alfred, you obviously haven't been paying much attention to my notes,
>    then.  Since you have admitted that you don't even read the user names
>    of notes when you read them, that is hardly surprising.
 
	This reply shows that you don't read mine with any attempt
	at understanding as it misstates what I said.

			Alfred
9.396JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 12:0711
    Alfred, I find it interesting that when I pointed out that Mr. Covert's
    note was nothing but a gross caracature, and an inaccurate attack
    against people he disagreed with--even though this did not concern you
    directly any sense, you felt the need to rise to his defense by
    attacking me.
    
    The Christian love you display in this notes file is enough to make me
    want to go down on my knees and say, "Puh-rayze the Loh-ud!  Ah've been
    say-uved!"
    
    -- Mike
9.397as John has shown, his note was not inaccurateCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 12:159
>    Alfred, I find it interesting that when I pointed out that Mr. Covert's
>    note was nothing but a gross caracature, and an inaccurate attack
>    against people he disagreed with--even though this did not concern you
>    directly any sense, you felt the need to rise to his defense by
>    attacking me.
 
	Your unfair attack aroused my sense of justice.

		Alfred
9.398JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 12:2710
    Sorry, but John did not "show" that his note was not inaccurate.  All
    he did was "support" his caricature of views he disagreed with by
    quoting from someone else who also shared his views.  Note .392 was not
    in any sense a "support" for his gross characterization of what those
    who disagree with him allegedly believe.

    Since unfair attacks arouse your sense of justice, then obviously you
    should be aroused by Mr. Covert's vicious attack in note .381.

    -- Mike
9.399dialogue takes two - are you interested in it or just shutting down the other side?CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 12:304
	There has been no evidence that what John said was either
	unfair or untrue.

			Alfred
9.400JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 13:0331
    Let's start from the beginning, Alfred.  (May I call you Alfred?) 
    Dialogue means making an honest effort at understanding what another
    party believes, and a willingness to be corrected if one is wrong.  It
    doesn't preclude offering tentative speculation on what others might
    believe, in an attempt at further understanding--as part of the overall
    dialogue.  But for that to happen, you have to offer your speculation
    to the party you disagree with.  (Of course, if one is smarter and
    knows more than the rest of us, perhaps there is no possibility of him
    ever being wrong in any tentative speculation.)

    Here's a clue.  If Mr. Covert were interested in understanding what
    Patricia or others here believed, he could have directly addressed her,
    posed a question containing his own interpretation of her views, and
    said, "Is this an accurate assessment of what you believe?"  But he
    didn't address her, did he?  He instead addressed a third party, and
    offered his own characterization, beginning with the words, "you don't
    seem to have figured out that..."

    Telling a third party "you don't seem to have figured out that..." is a
    time honored tactic for initiating a put down of another set of beliefs
    and the people who subscribe to them.  The whole point of the note is
    to engage in a put down of what people X believe, by offering an
    interpretation of where they *really* are coming from, by offering a
    negative slant on it.  There is no need for dialogue when you have
    already offered your snide conclusions to a third party, is there?
    
    Alfred, since you criticize me for being disrespectful of other points
    of view, do you really believe that the contents of note .381 are in
    any way respectful of the opinions he characterizes?

    -- Mike
9.401AKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowTue Oct 06 1992 13:0525
    re 9.381
    
    This note is a snide, offhanded attach against me.  I am not a
    Hedonist.  Many of The messages and examples in the bible regarding human
    sexuality can certainly be debated.  They are absolutely sexist and
    some have more regard for male property rights over woman than sexual
    moralitly.  None of the replies to my note had much to do with the
    issue.  The typical answer is well that certainly is not a Christian
    Perspective, you Patricia certainly are  a heretic and a hedonist and
    definately not a Christian.
    
    And what is the purpose of a Christian perspective.  To attack others
    whom are determined to be less Christian.  Unfortunately there
    has been a lot of that in the 2000 year history of Chistianity.
    
    If I don't interpret the bible exactly the way someone else does than I
    must be less Christian than they.
    
    Is dialogue really possible?  Is Christianity really one unified
    religion.
    
                            Patricia        
    
    This is clearly name calling and attack and a complete disregard for my
    perspective. 
9.402in supportATSE::FLAHERTYRo ReinkeTue Oct 06 1992 13:3217
    Patricia,
    
    I also take Covert's notes as attacks against my beliefs as well.
    As an Episcopalian, I find his words harmful as he implies he speaks
    for all Episcopalians as well.  The quotes he site in .392 which
    speaks about adulterers implies that those of us with a different
    Christian-Perspective are advocating adultery.
    
    Why when I read his notes do I never feel compassion, concern, caring,
    or love all the while he is professing his Christianity?  Makes me sad
    to feel his heart appears to be so hardened.  He is in my prayers.
    
    Please continue sharing your Christian perspective here, Patricia. 
    Many of us honor, respect, and often, share those views...
    
    Ro
    
9.403what is justiceAKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowTue Oct 06 1992 14:0521
    RE 9.385
    
    Alfred
    
    "I do not believe it is true about John Covert"
    
    Does John's reply to me seem to either understand my perspective or
    be interested in understanding my perspective.  Are you interested in
    understanding my perspective?  You said you agreed with John's
    response. Do you think his response was insulting to me?  
    
    Did his response ridicule my relationship with Goddess/God?
    
    Do you think it is OK for him to insult me here? 
    
    Do you respond out of a impartial sense of justice  or only justice to those
    who share your views?
    
    Please reread 9.381 before you respond.
    
                               Patricia
9.404FATBOY::BENSONCLEAN THE HOUSE!Tue Oct 06 1992 14:136
    
    I believe Ms. Flanagan answered my original reply by saying that it was
    not a Christian perspective but a human perspective or something like
    that.  That is enough for me.  
    
    jeff 
9.405SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 14:2310
    The position of moral relativism that you advance as a Christian
    perspective justifies hedonism.

    You personally may not equate the pursuit of pleasure with submission
    to the will of God, but if you argue that each person defines morality
    according to their own desires and their own idea of the will of God,
    they then may reason in this frame of reference that their pleasure is
    the primary end of life.
    
    God loves a good party.
9.406If ye love me, obey my commandmentsCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 14:3218
>    Why when I read his notes do I never feel compassion, concern, caring,
>    or love all the while he is professing his Christianity?  Makes me sad
>    to feel his heart appears to be so hardened.  He is in my prayers.
   
   We are called to love sinners, not to condone their sin or explain
   it away with modern hedonistic ideas.
   
   In the sermon preached last Sunday at Trinity Episcopal Church in Rutland,
   Vermont, the Rector recalled the words of another Rutland clergyman, a
   Roman Catholic Monsignor, who had just been buried last week.  When
   asked what is necessary to be a member of the Church, the Monsignor
   replied, "all that is necessary is to be a sinner."
   
   Condoning denial of the Church's teachings on sin is not love. 
   Compassion, concern, caring, and love are the call to obey God's
   commandments.
   
   /john
9.407CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 06 1992 14:3652
>    Does John's reply to me seem to either understand my perspective or
>    be interested in understanding my perspective.  

    	Yes. John's reply was very much a restatement of how I interpreted
    the perspective you and others have stated. 

>Are you interested in
>    understanding my perspective?  

    	Of course. I would welcome a discussion that explains how what John
    said does not reflect your opinion. Or that of others here. Obviously
    what John said is how some peoples perspective is coming across to more
    then one reader here.

>Do you think his response was insulting to me?  

    	Insulting is often in the eye of the person being insulted. I do
    not believe that John's response was flattering. I do not believe that
    insult of a person was intended. John tends, in my experience, to use
    a somewhat strident form at times. This tends to make some people feel
    uncomfortable. And I do not believe that John's note singled out any
    individual. Not you but a pervasive idea that runs though this
    conference was criticized. Ideas not people.

>    Did his response ridicule my relationship with Goddess/God?

    I think John implied that the idea that there was no universal constant 
    for morality was not one that he believed to be correct and/or Christian. 
    But no I don't believe he ridiculed anyones relationship with their own 
    particular idea of God.

>    Do you think it is OK for him to insult me here? 

    It appears to be ok for people to insult him, or me for that matter. If
    you are asking if I feel you should have special privilege I would have
    to answer no. Do you feel it should be more ok for people to insult him
    or me than to insult you? If the answer is no, have you criticized
    people who have insulted people you disagree with?

>    Do you respond out of a impartial sense of justice  or only justice to those
>    who share your views?

    A sense of justice is based on ones belief in right and wrong. I
    respond when I believe justice is wronged. Certainly I respond when
    when people who disagree with me are wronged. I would ask you the same
    question.

>    Please reread 9.381 before you respond.

    Several times.
    
    			Alfred
9.408Forgive me Father .. er... ah . .John ...MORO::BEELER_JEThe few, the proud, the MarinesTue Oct 06 1992 14:3822
.47> Jeff, you don't seem to have figured out that in this conference, the
.47> perspective on morality is the morality of today's hedonists.

Thank you, most omnipotent one, for this thumbnail summary of this
conference:  "... in *this* conference ... *the* perspective .. *is* ...".
From all external appearances I need not read the conference, just ask
you for periodic summaries.  Mea Culpa.

.47> Sort of "If it makes me feel good and I don't think it separates me from
.47> God, then it won't, so it's not immoral."  Everyone has their own personal
.47> "Goddess/God" and life is just all hunky-dory.

Indeed.  And from what I've seen as of late from some of the so-called
"Christians" in this conference - it's the same IDENTICAL way.  You pick
and choose from the Bible whatever you want - use that to justify whatever
suits your fancy - and ignore the rest - and life is just all hunky-dory.

To use your own words ... "you don't seem to have figured out" ....

My sympathies.

Bubba
9.409in reply to .402, by Ro Reinke, an EpiscopalianCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 14:4517
>The quotes he cites in .392 which speaks about adulterers implies that those
>of us with a different Christian-Perspective are advocating adultery.

The quote is very clear that it speaks to sexual sinners, which is what
much of this conference is about; .381 it was first posted in a topic
advocating tolerance for homosexual sexual intercourse and moved here by
a moderator.

The official position of the Episcopal Church is that the only acceptable
expression of sexual love is within the lifelong union of husband and wife.
This position was affirmed at the last General Convention.  Many Episcopalians
are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
states that the experience of many members is otherwise.  That experience
does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
much control the liberals have gained.

/john
9.410Who you callin hedonist?VIDSYS::PARENTit's only a shell, mislabledTue Oct 06 1992 14:5518
The official position of the Episcopal Church is that the only acceptable
expression of sexual love is within the lifelong union of husband and wife.
This position was affirmed at the last General Convention.  Many Episcopalians
are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
states that the experience of many members is otherwise.  That experience
does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
much control the liberals have gained.

/john

   Is that proof the liberals are in force or that the conservatives are
   now trying to impose their law?   

   Polarization is easy to achieve, you have proven that repeatedly.

   Pax Roma,
   Allison
9.411God loves a good partySDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 15:022
    Are you agreeing with the position that I entered earlier, namely that
    the affirmation of moral relativism is inclusive of hedonism?
9.412JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 15:187
    >But no I don't believe he ridiculed anyones relationship with their own 
    >particular idea of God.
    
    Yeah, right, that note was extremely respectful of the views he
    characterized.  How could I have missed that?  :-)
    
    -- Mike
9.413AKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowTue Oct 06 1992 15:236
    Ro,
    
    Thanks for the support.
    
    
                      Patricia
9.414JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 15:249
>Thank you, most omnipotent one, for this thumbnail summary of this
>conference:  

    Actually, Jerry, I think the word you are looking for is "omniscient",
    not omnipotent.  Just because he is so much smarter and more
    knowledgeable than the rest of us, that doesn't mean that he claims to
    be all-powerful.  :-)

    -- Mike
9.415MORO::BEELER_JEThe few, the proud, the MarinesTue Oct 06 1992 15:427
    Mike ...
    
    
    Mea Culpa.
    
    
    Pastor Bubba
9.416JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 15:471
    Okay, Pastor.  :-)
9.417JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 16:0560
    A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
    the issues involved is the use of the term "moral relativists" to
    characterize those with a different position than their own.  Along
    with "hedonism" (which has been used despite the fact that no one here
    has called him or herself a hedonist, and one--Patricia--has explicitly
    denied being a hedonist), these terms are used as a kind of
    intellectual shorthand.  By attaching these labels, which the people so
    labeled don't use to describe themselves, with the intended negative
    connotation, people are thus boxed into categories and the depth of
    their views ignored.

    Who is a moral relativist?  The way it is being bandied about here, it
    would seem to be "anyone who doesn't share the exact same views on
    morality that I do."  I don't know of anyone here, including the
    alleged "moral relativists", who think that all morality is relative,
    that whatever people think is right is okay, or that the pursuit of
    pleasure is the highest principle.

    For one thing, the basis of the sexual morality that is being attacked
    here is a belief in love and compassion.  Others may disagree that this
    morality is truly loving and compassionate, but the point is that there
    *is* a firm principle involved, even if it is one that the critic
    disagrees with.  This is anything but a morally relative position that
    says that everything is okay.  In fact, it says just the
    opposite--that what hurts is anything but okay, but in fact is very
    much in the wrong.  Far from an "anything goes" morality, this is a
    morality which condemns certain actions as being morally wrong.  Now
    not every Christian need agree with this morality, and in fact many do
    not.  But for those who disagree with it to condemn it as "moral
    relativist" and "hedonism" is to grossly caricature it and to fail to
    understand that it, too, is founded on firm principles.

    I come from the Midwest, and some conservative Protestant congregations
    think (or used to think) that dancing and playing cards were evil. 
    Perhaps they label as "moral relativists" those who think it should be
    left up to the beholder whether those activities are okay or not.  The
    fact is that people often identify CERTAIN activities as up to the
    individual, and OTHERS as having strong moral content.  As a pacifist,
    I have my own strong moral beliefs about killing.  I do, however,
    respect and understand the views of those who are not pacifists and who
    believe that killing is a necessary act in certain circumstances.  I
    don't endorse the idea of going around tossing labels at them and
    saying, "you haven't yet figured out that these people are moral
    relativists who think blah blah blah..."

    The reality is that many of us have a set of firmly entrenched values
    in some areas, and a less firmly entrenched set of values in other
    areas.  When my set of firm values coincides with yours, there is no
    problem; but when there is a partial overlap and also a disjunction of
    these two sets, that is when problems arise.  My firm values are in
    some cases the same, and in others different from those held by various
    Christians.  What I am firmly opposed to in some cases they are not so
    firmly opposed to.  And vice versa.  But somehow *I* am the moral
    relativist, and they are not.  That is, of course, complete nonsense,
    and to accuse people of moral relativist in those instances, and in
    particular to accuse them of hedonism even when they explicitly deny
    that is what they believe, is to engage in petty name calling and to
    attack without attempting to understand.

    -- Mike
9.418SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 16:189
    A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
    the issues involved is to begin a reply with...
     
    "A further example of the lack of attempt at serious understanding of
    the issues involved ..."
    
    What you deny to be moral relativism seems to be moral relativism. What
    defines the boundries of beliefs that you do not hold but nevertheless
    "respect and understand".
9.419Let's stop beating around the bushCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 16:234
Maybe we should stop using terms like "moral relativist" and "hedonist" and
just use the one we all understand: "sexual sinner."

/john
9.420Re: .418JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 16:2516
    I don't know the answer to your question off the top of my head.  How's
    that for an answer?  I suppose it comes from the fact that I recognize
    that many moral questions are complicated and difficult to resolve, and
    in some cases I sympathize with the reasoning that may have lead
    someone to come to a different conclusion than I have.  In other cases,
    I don't feel that way at all.  I can see no reason for sympathizing
    with or respecting the morality of mass murder, for example.
    
    However, I stand by my point that if I hold a firm set of values on
    certain subjects, and you hold a firm set of values on certain
    subjects, but those set of views are not completely identical, then
    that does not make me a moral relativist simply because you don't like
    what I believe, any more that you are a moral relativist simply because
    you don't agree with all of *my* firmly held notions.
    
    -- Mike
9.421polaritiesATSE::FLAHERTYRo ReinkeTue Oct 06 1992 16:4818
              -< in reply to .409, by John Covert, an Episcopalian >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
<<This position was affirmed at the last General Convention.  Many Episcopalians
<<are shocked that the moral relativists were able to get a codasyl added which
<<states that the experience of many members is otherwise.  That experience
<<does not change the constant teaching of the church; it merely shows how
<<much control the liberals have gained.
    
    Many Episcopalians were pleased to see that the experience of many
    members is being validated by the Church by the addition of this codasyl.
    The members (and pastors) of the Episcopal churches I attend in both
    Nashua and Athol that I spoke to about this subject were among those
    in support of this codasyl.  But then perhaps I only spoke to the
    liberals...   ;')
    
    Ro
    
    
9.422CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Oct 06 1992 17:2877
    Patrick .405,
    
    > The position of moral relativism that you advance as a Christian 
    > perspective justifies hedonism.
    
    I have to be very honest.  This issue of Christian moral absolutism vs 
    relativism has always confounded me.  I have a difficult time understand
    -ing how anyone can claim to be, not only a moral absolutist but a Biblical 
    absolutist.  Here's a few examples why...
    
    About 300 years after the death of Christ, a council of the 
    "Christian fathers" took place.  One of their items of business was 
    to determine whether or not women possessed souls.  This was a grave 
    *moral* issue of their time, for it affected how women were treated,
    and how they "should" be treated.  Some of the council members argued 
    that women did have souls, others that women did not.  Both camps used 
    the Bible and Church doctrine to support their positions.  
    
    Finally after all the debating was done a vote was taken on the issue 
    and counted up.  Women were declared to have souls.  It had passed by a 
    margin of one vote.  It seems almost unbelievable, doesn't it?
    
    In later centuries, the same issue came up again.  It was about 
    ensoulment again, but this time it was not only about women - it 
    included men as well.  But this time it was about other races of
    people, for it was generally believed that blacks and other indigenous 
    people did not have souls either.  And because of this, (as with women 
    of their own race) people's whose ensoulment was in question were treated 
    little more than animals and "property."  Is this moral?  Again, the 
    Bible and church doctrine was cited to support the belief that
    indigenous people possessed no souls.  (I mean, all you had to do was
    consider their obvious lack of self-consciousness and shame around their 
    own nudity, right?  Even Adam and Eve were ashamed of their nakedness,
    weren't they...?)
    
    Then we have the Creation story (which was discussed recently in 
    another topic) and how scientific discovery has contradicted some 
    passages of what was recorded in the Bible as to how the universe 
    is "arranged" and "worked."  
    
    The Church had also taught that the earth was the center of the 
    universe.  Science later proved it was the sun.  Some people who 
    first aligned with this heretical scientific theory were burned at 
    the stake (i.e. Giordano Bruno).
    
    Anyway, the point is, how can anyone be an absolutist when it comes 
    to God, the Bible and matters of faith?   Does anyone here adhere to 
    any of the above early conclusions once found to permeate the Christian 
    church and most devout of Christian faith?  
    
    Looking back over these examples, and there are others, I'm sure, it 
    seems to me that deeper truths are always being revealed.  Our 
    understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not?  If so, are
    we getting "closer" to God or further away, I wonder?  (I feel we're
    getting closer.)  
    
    That these examples demonstrate "truths" that were once acceptable, 
    but are now generally viewed as errors of interpretation, do you ever 
    wonder what Biblical truths still remain hidden to us today by our 
    current "relativist" interpretations?   
    
    I also have to say I'm genuinely perplexed by how can anyone claim to 
    know an absolute truth, absolutely, unless they are the Absolute 
    themself...?  If an Absolute anything exists how can any person's 
    interpretation and understanding of it be anything BUT relative?
    
    Does moral relativism justify hedonism?  As much as moral absolutism 
    does.  We are basically comfort and pleasure seeking creatures, no 
    matter how profane or pious our faith or "perspective," are we not?  
    There is the hedonist in each and every one of us.  But in either the 
    profane or pious person's case, we oftentimes wind up shutting the 
    door in God's face in our zeal to be comfortable and secure.  And for 
    the pious it is doubly unfortunate.  For the profane person intends 
    to shut the door.  The pious person believes they are not, that they 
    are in fact sitting at the feet of God.
    
    Karen
9.423kudos kbATSE::FLAHERTYRo ReinkeTue Oct 06 1992 17:418
    Karen (.422),
    
    Your note touched me deeply.  Eloquent and well-thought out.
    
    Thank you,
    
    Ro
    
9.424SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 18:2011
    Are you referring to the Council of Nicea?

    That this council would discuss whether or not women possessed souls
    seems bizarre.  What is your source for this claim?

    The Church has always taught that men and women possessed souls and were
    made in the image and likeness of God.

    I don't why you answer questions I raise about what you believe and why
    by introducing irrelevant and fictional claims that I have not
    asserted.
9.425CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Tue Oct 06 1992 18:2411
    I would like to go on record as one who not "absolutely relativistic."
    
    I have said in this conference that rape is wrong, that rape is always
    wrong.  That's pretty absolute, isn't it?
    
    I dare say, even our absolutists would say that telling a lie, under
    some circumstances, may be morally justifiable.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.426JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 18:269
    >But in either the  profane or pious person's case, we oftentimes wind
    >up shutting the  door in God's face in our zeal to be comfortable and
    >secure.  And for  the pious it is doubly unfortunate.  For the profane
    >person intends  to shut the door.  The pious person believes they are
    >not, that they  are in fact sitting at the feet of God.
    
    That is a truly profound statement, Karen.  Thanks for writing that.
    
    -- Mike
9.427COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 18:2810
Although .422 may be eloquent, it is an obvious work of fiction.

The assertion that any of the ecumenical councils discussed a question of
whether women have souls or not, or whether other races have souls, is
clearly a fabrication designed to ridicule Christianity.

"My soul doth magnify the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my
 Saviour"...

/john
9.428CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Oct 06 1992 18:5227
    Patrick,
    
    I assume .424 was written to me.  
    
    > What is your source for this claim?
    
    I believe it is in _The chalice and the blade_ by Eisler, but I'll
    check and let you know.
    
    > I don't know why you answer questions I raise about what you believe
    > and why by introducing irrelevant and fictional claims that I have not
    > asserted.
    
    Nice side-stepping, Patrick. :-)  I've come to recognize this as a 
    way you "address" questions which either make you uncomfortable, or you 
    have no answer to.  
    
    If you're uncomfortable with the information I offered on the
    ensoulment issues, put it aside, then, for the moment.  What remains is
    the basic question for me -- what is the thought process involved on how 
    one views oneself as a moral and/or Biblical absolutist while taking into 
    account the ultimate relativistic nature of that position?
    
    How have you, if you think of yourself as a moral and/or Biblical 
    absolutionist, come to reconcile this?
    
    Karen                                
9.429SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 19:0618
    Side-stepping??  I was asking the question and letting you know that I
    thought your answer was an evasion.  We're discussing the linkage
    between morality and sin, or at least I thought we were.

    My "comfort" isn't the issue.  The truth is.  We can examine claims
    made here based on outside sources by looking it up.

    Is this council critical to your worldview of morality?  Are you saying
    that your position would be reversed if I were to demonstrate to you
    that that council which you allege discussed whether or not women had
    souls, in fact, did not have any such discussion?
    
    My answer: I believe that Jesus Christ has revealed to us the one way,
    the one truth, and the one life.  I believe the on the great moral
    issues of our time, the Bible and my Church are the source of
    inspiration and my teacher which I follow by the grace of God in my
    life.
                                                     
9.430JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 19:228
    It seemed to me that Karen was addressing the general question of moral
    relativism, and how we determine what is true and what isn't.  It
    struck me as very much relevant to the discussion at hand.  All this
    focus on the existence or non-existence of those council proceedings
    seems to be missing the overall point she was making with respect to
    the process of discerning theologically based moral standards.
    
    -- Mike
9.431CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Oct 06 1992 19:4431
    Mike,  
    
    You're exactly right.
    
    Patrick .429,
    
    > Side-stepping?? I was asking the question and letting you know that
    > I thought your answer was an evasion.  We're discussing the linkage
    > between morality and sin, or at least I thought we were.
    
    Your note .405 which I already highlighted and your note .411
    where you reiterated your original question is what I responded 
    to.  The specific issue you raised was moral relativism and it's
    linkage to hedonism: 
    
    from .411,
                                              
    > Are you agreeing with the position that I entered earlier, namely
    > that the affirmation of moral relativism is inclusive of hedonism?
    
    I offered both my views and confusing in understanding the relationship
    between moral relativism and absolutism in .422;  in the last paragraph 
    I addressed your question directly, offering my perspective of the 
    relationship between moral relativism and hedonism.
    
    Now, would you care to answer the questions I raised to you directly on
    how a moral and/or Biblical absolutist reconciles the relativism of his
    or her position;  would you prefer to pass;  or would you prefer to
    think on it and get back to me?             
    
    Karen 
9.432PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Oct 06 1992 19:486
Re:  .417

Well explained, Mike.  I agree with most of your
objections.

Collis
9.433CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Oct 06 1992 19:5010
    /john .427,
    
    > Although .422 may be eloquent, it is an obvious work of fiction.
    
    No, believe it or not, I wrote it myself.  I have witnesses.  Therefore, 
    thank you for the compliment.  This is BIG coming from you, /john. 
    
    :-)
    
    Karen   
9.434JURAN::VALENZASupport Judeo-Buddhist values.Tue Oct 06 1992 19:504
    Thanks, Collis (you've been awfully silent here lately, by the way--I
    was wondering what happened to you!).
    
    -- Mike
9.435re .430, importance of existence of proceedingsCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 06 1992 19:5110
But it is important.

If Pat and I maintain that absolute Truth is found by the process of
Revelation through Holy Scriptures and the work of the Holy Spirit
in Ecumenical Councils, and Karen maintains that those councils
determine whether women have souls or not by slim majority vote,
then we have to determine who is right before we can have a meaningful
dialogue.

/john
9.436answers to .422PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youTue Oct 06 1992 20:1095
Re:  9.422
    
  >I have a difficult time understanding how anyone can claim to be, not
  >only a moral absolutist but a Biblical absolutist.  Here's a few
  >examples why... 

O.K. Karen, let's take a look.
    
  >Women were declared to have souls.  It had passed by a 
  >margin of one vote.  It seems almost unbelievable, doesn't it?

Yup.  What does this have to do with the Bible being accurate?
Assuming that the facts are as you presented, this has not stopped
people from misinterpreting (whether intentionally or unintentionally)
the Bible.

Personally, I think the Bible is clear on this issue.  It sure would
be interesting to hear the Biblical "reasons" why women do not have
souls.
    
  >In later centuries, the same issue came up again.

And the same answer applies.

  >Then we have the Creation story (which was discussed recently in 
  >another topic) and how scientific discovery has contradicted some 
  >passages of what was recorded in the Bible as to how the universe 
  >is "arranged" and "worked."  

I thought the readership of this conference was too educated to
take seriously Richard's "dome" arguments.  I honestly mean that.
It wasn't even worth effort refuting - but I guess it is.

Where has Richard shown that the Hebrew word in Genesis means
exactly what you and I think of when we hear the word "dome"?  And
must this be interpreted as a dome in the sense of a dome on a
domed stadium?  Does the atmosphere provide a "dome" around the
earth?  I hear that spaceships returning to earth have to enter
at a specific angle.  I still don't know if this is true or not
(although I think it is).  If it is (and they could bounce away
if entering at the wrong angle), could we then say that there is
a "dome" around the earth - even if Richard can't see it?

  >The Church had also taught that the earth was the center of the 
  >universe.  Science later proved it was the sun.  

They're both right.  They're both wrong.  The center is whatever
you wish to define it as.  Because it is easier to consider one
or the other as the center (whether for calculating orbits or
for viewing stars) does not *make* it the center.

  >Anyway, the point is, how can anyone be an absolutist when it comes 
  >to God, the Bible and matters of faith?

The question boils down to whether or not you are willing to believe
the claims that the Bible makes - claims that are consistently assumed
and supported by all the prophets including God's own Son.  I choose
to believe BY FAITH, despite the few difficulties that I have not 
explained.  You choose not to believe BY FAITH what the Bible says
about its own accuracy.

  >Our understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not?

Personal understanding is always changing.  The church's understanding
tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous generations.

  >If so, are we getting "closer" to God or further away, I wonder?  (I 
  >feel we're getting closer.)

Clearly (in my view), we as "Christians" are getting further away
since more "Christians" are denying what God has revealed.

  >That these examples demonstrate "truths" that were once acceptable, 
  >but are now generally viewed as errors of interpretation, do you ever 
  >wonder what Biblical truths still remain hidden to us today by our 
  >current "relativist" interpretations?   

Indeed, all interpretation by individuals is biased to some extent.

One advantage of the many factions of the church today (different
denominations as well as spread out over the world) is that it becomes
easier to recognize some biases.  For these reasons, I tend to have
more confidence in the interpretations of Scripture made in the
past 100 years than those made 1000 years ago (when made by those
that accept the Biblical claims of inerrancy).

  >I also have to say I'm genuinely perplexed by how can anyone claim to 
  >know an absolute truth, absolutely, unless they are the Absolute 
  >themself...?

If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone 
that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less than
the absolute truth?

Collis
9.437SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkTue Oct 06 1992 20:2214
    Karen, I had already answered .431 in .429:
     
from .431 
    Now, would you care to answer the questions I raised to you directly on
    how a moral and/or Biblical absolutist reconciles the relativism of his
    or her position;  would you prefer to pass;  or would you prefer to
    think on it and get back to me?             
    
from .429:
    My answer: I believe that Jesus Christ has revealed to us the one way,
    the one truth, and the one life.  I believe that on the great moral
    issues of our time, the Bible and my Church are the source of
    inspiration and my teacher which I follow by the grace of God in my
    life.
9.438DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Oct 06 1992 21:0612
    RE: 9.435  Mr. Covert,
    
    				Part of the problem here is that very few
    people that I know...in fact none....would go and "dip themselves seven
    times in the river Jordan" if a blemish showed up on their face.  Most
    women don't "cover" their heads while in church anymore so as humanity 
    matures I believe that the scriptures are revealed more and more to us.
    So placing yourself in the position of having the absoulute truth is 
    unrealistic at least.  
    
    
    Dave
9.439CSC32::J_CHRISTIEKeep on loving boldly!Tue Oct 06 1992 22:5111
    Say..uh...Dave .438,
    
    	Doesn't overlooking those injunctions sound a lot like "picking
    and choosing"?
    
    	Since it's likely someone besides Dave will answer, this question
    should not be construed as ridiculing Christianity, but rather questioning
    the ideas that some people hold of Chrisitanity.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.440COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Oct 07 1992 00:5125
Karen,

I went to the library tonight and picked up a copy of "The Chalice and the
Blade" by Eisler.  I spent some time looking for a reference to ecumenical
councils, and even with the help of the index, I couldn't find it, or any
other reference to women's or other races' souls.  Please let me know where
it is.

The book is openly hostile to Christianity.  It proclaims that time still
remains to repent and regain the favor of The Great Mother Goddess.  It
calls Mary Magdalene a prostitute and uses such spurious works as "The Gospel
of Thomas" and "The Gospel of Mary" -- works not recognized by the Church --
to make its points rejecting Christianity!

I also read a review of the book in the October 4, 1987, New York Times.
The book purports to be history, yet in the review, Elizabeth Fox-Genovese
writes, "the absurdities of `The Chalice and the Blade' have less to offer
than Isaac Asimov's avowedly speculative `Foundation Trilogy'".

If your perspective of history and creation is formed by reading such strange
books, then it's no wonder it is so far from the Christian Perspective.

Read some C.S. Lewis.  It could change your life.

/john
9.441C.S. Lewis in our midstCSC32::J_CHRISTIESet phazers on stunWed Oct 07 1992 01:1818
Note 9.440

>Read some C.S. Lewis.  It could change your life.

And Karen,

	You may not even need to pick up any books by C.S. Lewis in order to
read C.S. Lewis:

>Note 473.40

>    I knew C.S. Lewis, and Bonnie, if there's a C.S. Lewis in this
>    conference, it's me, not you.

8*)

Richard

9.442DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureWed Oct 07 1992 02:0313
    RE: .439  Richard,
    
    			Well nuts!  :-)  I guess you caught me out.  These
    and many other strictures have confused many Christians thru the years.
    Yes....There are answers and I believe I have the right one but I was
    hoping that our esteemed Mr. Covert or Mr. Sweeney would deem to
    answer.  Many of the "traditional" values present in the Church today
    can be brought right back to these kinds of topics in the Bible.  Now
    that doesn't make the Bible wrong...just richer and maybe a little more
    complicated than most people would like to think.
    
    
    Dave
9.443CSC32::J_CHRISTIESet phazers on stunWed Oct 07 1992 02:079
    .442,
    
    Dave,
    
    	I tend to agree!  :-}
    
    Pax,
    Richard
    
9.444my viewLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Oct 07 1992 10:2027
re Note 9.439 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

>     	Doesn't overlooking those injunctions sound a lot like "picking
>     and choosing"?
  
        I certainly agree with your observation that we all "pick and
        choose" from the Bible.

        I would add that what makes a Christian perspective,
        historically, is that the picking and choosing is done from
        the Bible.

        I would also add that what makes a conservative Christian is
        that once the picking and choosing is done, nobody gets to do
        it again.

        A liberal Christian is one who believes that we must continue
        to go back to the Bible and each generation gets to pick and
        choose.

        I don't know which is the more risky and error-prone, but I
        believe that Christians are guided by the Holy Spirit in the
        above (guided, not forced), and that the liberal approach, to
        me, would seem to be more able to recover from error than the
        conservative.

        Bob
9.445JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Oct 07 1992 11:448
    I have a lot of respect for both Mike and Alfred. Both seem to have a 
    clear, straight insight into a topic and have given me a lot.
    
    Hay, even John C. has his moments!!!
    
    Alfred, Mike V. is right this time.
    
    Marc H.
9.446CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistWed Oct 07 1992 14:165
>    Alfred, Mike V. is right this time.

	About what?

			Alfred
9.447JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Oct 07 1992 16:225
    RE: .446
    
    Sorry......reference 9.400.
    
    Marc H.
9.448CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Oct 08 1992 16:2782
    I've not been able to keep up here lately, but I hope to. :-)
    
    Collis .422,
    
    >>Our understanding of the Bible is always changing, is it not?
    
    > Personal understanding is always changing.  The church's 
    > understanding tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous 
    > generations.
    
    Yes, I agree.  What we are both saying, essentially, is that everyone 
    is a moral relativist, including the church, whether or not some are 
    aware or care to admit it.
    
    > What does this have to do with the Bible being accurate?  
    
    The accuracy or inaccuracy of the Bible was not my point, but I can 
    see where you might have construed this, both from my note and our 
    "acquaintance."  :-)  Actually I find it fascinating that the Bible 
    has remained constant over the centuries, while _some_ of the 
    Church's interpretations of morality, and perhaps MORE importantly, 
    the actions taken by the church to enforce their interpretions of 
    morality have changed.
    
    [Hmmm...then again, <Digression Alert> maybe things haven't changed 
    that much.  I was just thinking of the Church's sanction of the death 
    penalty for a variety of offenses, and how regularly it was enforced 
    in centuries gone by.  Does the church put anyone to death today?  
    No, I guess that's left to the state.  But then again....as the 
    interview with the imprisoned gay bashers pointed out, (which was 
    entered in topic 91) many of them said, ITO, their church and clergy 
    condoned, and even encouraged (?) their "gay bashing" actions....so 
    perhaps SOME churches still believe they should be issuing death 
    penalties for certain interpretations of moral infractions, and do 
    so, in a covert sort of way.  (Errr...no pun meant there, /john.)]
    
    > Assuming that the facts are as you presented, this has not stopped 
    > people from misinterpreting (whether intentionally or 
    > unintentionally) the Bible.
    
    A big statement with major implications, Collis.
    
    If individuals and the Church, (as you say and to which I agree) tend 
    "to grow" in their understanding, that suggests to me their 
    _interpretation_ of what they are reading (in this case, the Bible) 
    changes.  So looking back over Church history, and looking into our 
    own personal lives at these changes, a conclusion may be drawn that 
    at any point in time, understanding -- at best -- is a mixture of, 
    what you might say, falsehoods and truths...
    
    But considering that our understanding grows and changes, doesn't 
    that beg the question of what things we accept or are told to be 
    morally right today, we may grow to understand are not?  (Or vice 
    versa?)
    
    Yet some people, denying the relativity of their understanding, (and 
    hence the inherent incompleteness of it) to the Absolute, go to great 
    lengths to convice others, but more importantly, themselves I think, 
    that their understanding IS the Absolute Truth, or that they are 
    <oxymoron alert> moral absolutists.  I think that's because for some, 
    security, (of the existential type) is found there in this notion of 
    Absolute Truth, which has to be respected, for we all need certain 
    types and levels of security and stasis and others find their 
    security in other beliefs and concepts.
    
    So when I hear people, or the church, make pronouncements of Absolute 
    Truth, I see such pronouncements like a cloak one uses to tightly 
    wrap around oneself to weather the inevitable storm of life's 
    ambiguities and paradoxes, as best as one can.  Though sometimes the 
    cloak never seems to come off...
    
    > If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone 
    > that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less 
    > than the absolute truth?
    
    Actually Collis, if the truth really be told, I think that person 
    would probably be one of the WISEST people on earth.  For to make 
    such a claim, s/he would realize that to be _told_ the truth and to 
    _know_ the truth are two different things, indeed.  
    
    Karen

9.449Another aspect....DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureThu Oct 08 1992 18:5413
RE: Karen and Collis,
    
    
		Another aspect of this question might be the "Temporal" 
blessing of the Bible Scriptures.  For those of you that haven't heard of this 
before the simplest explanation of this occurance is after reading a particular
verse and then waiting for a period of time (week or so) and the rereading
it, many times the meaning is different.  In Christian circles, we believe
that it is the Holy Spirit that interprets the scripture according to 
individual needs at that moment.  


Dave
9.450CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Oct 08 1992 19:064
    Thanks Dave, for that.  I've experienced that before, many times.  
    I didn't know there was a name for it. :-)
    
    Karen
9.451CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Oct 08 1992 20:56137
    Hello /john.  Hope you didn't think I'd forgotten you. :-)
    
    re: 440,
    
    I'm really glad you went to the library, picked up a copy of the 
    highly acclaimed _The chalice and the blade_ and perused it for that 
    reference.  I haven't found it either, btw, but appreciate your effort.  
    Your cursory glance at the book, however, has given rise to a few 
    assumptions about the author's treatise which aren't very accurate.
    
    The book is not openly hostile to Christianity, per se, as Eisler 
    believes Jesus Christ presented Christianity, but rather to the 
    "dominator model" of social organization orthodox Christianity has 
    embraced -- the very same model which has suppressed and oppressed 
    women in practically every sphere of life.  The very same model that 
    equated women to little more than men's personal property, and a 
    recepticle for their sperm, (despite a woman's willingness to be or 
    not.)
    
    If you read more deeply into the book, you'll find how the author 
    identifies with and _highlights_ the teachings of Jesus and his 
    approach, which clearly views and treats women as equals to men.  Her 
    treatise also states this is what orthodox Christianity has not only 
    lost, but DELIBERATELY suppressed, contrary to Christ's teachings.
    
    Let me provide a few citations from her book while also answering 
    the following (negatively implied) charge of yours:
    
    > It calls Mary Magdalene a prostitute....
    
    	In Luke 10:38-42, we read how Jesus openly included women among 
        his companions - and even encouraged them to transcend their 
        servile roles and participate actively in public life....And in 
        every one of the official Gospels we read about Mary Magdelene 
        and how he treated her -- presumably a prostitute -- with respect 
        and caring.
    
    	Even more astonishing, we learn from the Gospels that it is to 
        Mary Magdalene that the risen Christ first appears.  Weeping in 
        his empty sepulcher after his death, it is Mary Magdalene who 
        guards his grave.  There she has a vision in which Jesus appears 
        to her "before" he appears in visions to any of his much- 
        publicized twelve male disciples.  And it is Mary Magdalene whom 
        the risen Jesus asks to tell the others that he is about to 
        ascend (p 122).
    
    In John 4:7-27 Jesus violated the androcratic customs of his time by 
    openly talking to women.  Even Jesus' male disciples "marveled that 
    he should talk to women at all, and then at such great length...or 
    that he would not condone the customary stoning to death of women 
    who, in the opinion of their male overlords, were guilty of the 
    heinous sin of having sexual relations with a man who was not their 
    master."
    
    And Eisler goes on to mention other women Christian leaders:  such as 
    Tabitha or Dorcas, a disciple of Jesus mentioned in Acts 9:36, and in 
    Romans 16:7 "we find Paul respectfully greeting a woman apostle named 
    Junia, whom he describes as senior to himself in the movement...
    'Salute Andronicus and Junia my kin and my fellow prisoners, who are 
    of note among the apostles, who also were in Christ before me.'"  
    
    Eisler's conclusion:  "So, clearly, despite the very strong social 
    pressures of that time for rigid male dominance, women took leading 
    roles in the first Christian communities."
    
    And yet the Christian legacy adopted and still very much in place 
    today, is CONTRARY to Christ's clear teachings on women's equality 
    and involvement in Christian spiritual affairs:
    
    	"Despite the previous public activity of Christian women," Pagels 
        observes, "by the year 200, the majority of Christian communities 
        endorsed as canonical the pseudo-Pauline letter of Timothy, which 
        stresses (and exaggerates) the anti-feminist element in Paul's 
        views:  'Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. I 
        permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men: she is to 
        keep silent'...	By the end of the second century, women's 
        participation in worship was explicitly condemned:  groups in 
        which women continued on to leadership were branded as 
        heretical."
    
    [Hence, one of the primary reasons for the Christian's intense 
    "dis-affection" toward the Gnostics, where men and women alike 
    participated equally as priest, bishop, or prophet.]
    
    > ...and uses such spurious works as "The Gospel of Thomas" and "The 
    > Gospel of Mary"  -- works not recognized by the Church -- to make 
    > its points rejecting Christianity!
    
    Have you ever wondered WHY these works were not recognized by the 
    Church, /john?  Eisler explores why and this is her conclusion:  The 
    suppressed gospels show time and time again the importance of women 
    to Jesus Christ, and his consideration of them as EQUALS to the men 
    in Christian discipleship and spiritual leadership.  They also show 
    that Mary Magdalene was one of the most important figures in the 
    early Christian movement:
    
    	In the Gospel of Mary we again read that she was the first to see 
        the risen Christ....[and here's part one of the REAL rub, imo] 
        Here we also read that Christ loved Mary Magdalene more than all 
        the rest of the disciples, as is also confirmed in the Gnostic 
        Gospel of Philip.  But just how important a part Mary may have 
        played in the history of early Christianity only comes to light 
        in these suppressed scriptures.  What we read in the Gospel of 
        Mary is that after the death of Jesus, [and here's rub #2, 	 
    	the most important one, imo]  Mary Magdalene was the Christian 
        leader who had the courage to challenge the authority of Peter as 
        the head of a new religious hierarchy based on the claim that 
        only he and his priests and bishops had a direct line to the 
        godhead.
    
    Let's face it, /john.  After Christ's death, as Christianity entered 
    "adolescence" it's culture reverted back to misogyny, and though there's 
    been some improvements since then, it still remains largely that way 
    today.  And we ALL suffer for it, men and women alike.  
    
    Eisler's essential criticism of orthodox Christianity can be summed 
    up in the following:
    
    	Jesus' recognition that our spiritual evolution has been stunted 
        by a way of structuring human relations based on violence-backed 
        rankings (the dominator model) could have led to a fundamental 
        social transformation.  It could have freed us from the andro- 
        cratic system.  But as in other times of gylanic (egalitarian) 
    	resurgence, the system's resistance was too strong.  And in the 
        end the church fathers left us a New Testament in which this 
        perception is often smothered by the superimposition of the 
        completely contradictory dogmas required to justify the Church's 
        later androcratic structure and goals.
    
    /john, if I were you, I'd put C. S. Lewis down for awhile and read 
    Eisler's book and others like it, _thoroughly_.  It could change your 
    life.
    
    Karen
    
    p.s. I'm looking through Fr. Matthew Fox's _The coming of the Cosmic 
    Christ_ for that reference on women's souls....
9.452DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureThu Oct 08 1992 22:267
    RE: .451  Karen,
    
    			Thank you Karen!  You have really set my mind to
    working and wondering.  
    
    
    Dave.....who is a bit dazed...
9.453COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Oct 09 1992 02:3434
>    /john, if I were you, I'd put C. S. Lewis down for awhile and read 
>    Eisler's book and others like it, _thoroughly_.  It could change your 
>    life.

Karen,

Apparently you are unaware that I have, in fact, read quite a few books
on feminism and misogyny.  You seem to be unaware that it was not that
long ago, about seven or eight years, that much of what I wrote on the
network was about the sin of sexism.  My watchword was and still is:
"In the world, we must treat men and women exactly the same, exactly as
equals, except where their physical procreative roles are concerned."

Eisler's book perpetuates the myth/misunderstanding that the Catholic
Faith is misogynist.  That is not true at all.  The Church is full of
stories of the holy lives of both men and women.  Look at the names of
Roman Catholic and Episcopal churches.  Look at a Kalendar of Saints'
days.  Look at the great works done by great women of God throughout
the ages.  Their works are so great that it completely compensates for
the fact that God Incarnate was, by God's own choice, a man, and that
those who act as his hands and mouth consecrating his Body and Blood
making his sacrifice present for us should, at least for now, also be
men.  I think that might change, but if it changes, it will change
quietly and naturally, and not in response to demands from people seeking
power or seeking to reconcile us to Eisler's "Great Mother Goddess".

The world and the Church are full of so many wonderful and important
roles for women.  Noone should demand the seat at the head of God's table,
for, in the words of Mary, God exalts the humble and meek.  Jesus echoes
Mary's words in the parable of the guests at the dinner party:  Take the
lowest seat, and wait to be called to sit with the host in the place of
honor.

/john
9.454TNPUBS::STEINHARTLauraFri Oct 09 1992 12:3522
RE:  525.38
    
>COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                       5 lines   6-OCT-1992 10:23
>         -< Begin by considering the position of women in society... >-
>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>   I can provide you with libraries full of substantiation.
>   
>   You can start in the Judaica section of Brandeis.
>   
>   /john
    
    I find this incredibly condescending.  I haven't replied
    previously because I simply didn't know how to reply to what I perceive
    as rudeness.  A long explanation is unnecessary, I believe.
    
    I don't want to get into a joust with you, so even if you have some
    smart comeback, I will probably let it go after this reply.  Just so
    you understand in the future, that if I ignore such condescension, it's
    not because I agree with you, but just that such exchanges leave a bad
    taste in my mouth. 
    
    Laura
9.455COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Oct 09 1992 12:5716
There was no rudeness intended, and you should not have taken offense.

I made a statement about the relationship between Judaism and Christianity
being closer than the relationship between either of them and Islam.

You asked for substantiation.  Since you have often expressed distrust of
the Christian Perspective on Judaism and other religions, I suggested the
Judaica section of the library at Brandeis, an excellent library, I may add,
as a place to look for such substantiation.

One of the best ways for us to live in better harmony in this conference
is to not take offense when none is intended.  I would suggest that noone
else reply within the conference to this reply or to Laura's, and that it
be handled in mail, offline.

/john
9.456moral relativistPACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONAll peoples on earth will be blessed through youFri Oct 09 1992 13:3543
Re:  9.448
    
    > Personal understanding is always changing.  The church's 
    > understanding tends to grow upon the building blocks of previous 
    > generations.
    
  >Yes, I agree.  What we are both saying, essentially, is that everyone 
  >is a moral relativist, including the church, whether or not some are 
  >aware or care to admit it.

No, that is *not* what is being said.

A moral relativist believes that morality changes.  The Bible teaches
the exact opposite.  Morality does not change - regardless of what
we may or may not believe is moral/immoral at any given time.  In
other words, you can and should deny being a moral relativist if
you believe that morality does not change - even as your understanding
of God's morality does change.
    
  >But considering that our understanding grows and changes, doesn't 
  >that beg the question of what things we accept or are told to be 
  >morally right today, we may grow to understand are not?  (Or vice 
  >versa?)

Certainly that is possible.  Somehow or other, inerrantists today seem 
to be in violent agreement on the *vast* majority of moral issues.
The reason?  I expect it is that God has told us clearly what is
right and what is wrong - and we choose to believe it.

     >>If the Absolute tells someone the absolute truth and tells someone 
     >>that it is the absolute truth, why would someone claim to know less 
     >>than the absolute truth?
    
  >Actually Collis, if the truth really be told, I think that person 
  >would probably be one of the WISEST people on earth.  For to make 
  >such a claim, s/he would realize that to be _told_ the truth and to 
  >_know_ the truth are two different things, indeed.

Good point.  I revise my statement to contain the idea that someone
knows the truth well enough to tell someone else the truth that he/she
was told.

Collis
9.457taking it a step furtherLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Oct 09 1992 13:4711
re Note 9.455 by COVERT::COVERT:

> One of the best ways for us to live in better harmony in this conference
> is to not take offense when none is intended.  

        Actually, one almost never knows for sure whether offense was
        intended.

        I think the best policy is just not to take offense.

        Bob
9.458one reference on "presence of soul?"CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Oct 09 1992 15:3538
    From _Original Blessing_, Fr. Matthew Fox:
    
    	Whether we are listening to reasons why women are put down, or 
    homosexuals, or Jews, or Native Americans, or blacks, the invariable 
    argument is that in some way these people are or do something against 
    nature.  They are "naturally below" those who pronounce their fate.  
    
    	For example, the notion that women are to be submissive to men is 
    given by Paul and Deutero-Paul as the "order of creation" (1 Cor. 
    11:2-16).  The hierachy of male over female is the order of nature, 
    we are told.  After all, women are "misbegotten males" (Aristotle and 
    St. Thomas Aquinas) who are "made of blood without souls" (John 
    Marston) and, unlike men, are not made in the image and likeness of 
    God (St. Augustine).
    
    	And the question that preoccupied the theorists while Native 
    Americans were being slaughtered and enslaved was whether Indians are 
    human (i.e., have souls) or not.  As Native Americans put it, the 
    Spanish conquistadors reached
    
    	a conclusion that Native peoples did not have "souls," and 
        therefore it was perfectly all right to enslave or murder them.  
        Much of that same kind of thinking is alive and well today in 
        such countries as Paraguay, Brazil, Chile and others where Native 
        peoples are still hunted down and killed....The question at this 
        point that needs to be addressed is, what kind of theology were 
        the institutionalized churches propagating that could lead to 
        such a dehumanizing analysis of missions of peoples?  And, is 
        that kind of theology still functioning in the churches in the 
        1980's?
    
    	A missionary in Brazil told me the story of a bounty hunter in the 
    Amazon who was paid to kill Indians.  In a recent interview about his 
    work, he said he once shot an Indian who did not die at once but 
    appeared to be in pain and suffering, "just as if he were a human 
    being"  (Fox, 1983, p. 268).
    

9.459CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Oct 09 1992 17:0452
    /john .453,
    
    I must admit to not having picked up on your advocacy of sexual 
    equality in your writings before.  I do not note reguarly in other 
    conferences, so I wouldn't have bumped into you elsewhere.  However, 
    I have difficulty seeing your advocacy in light of the following two 
    statements.  
    
    > My watchword was and still is: "In the world, we must treat men and 
    > woman exactly the same, exactly as equals, except where their 
    > physical procreative roles are concerned."
    
    > ...that God Incarnate was, by God's own choice, a man, and that 
    > those who act as his hands and mouth consecrating his Body and 
    > Blood making his sacrifice present for us should, at least for now, 
    > also be men. 				^^^^^^
      ^^^^^^^^^^^
    Why do you believe only men "should" be allowed to perform the types 
    of clerical roles described above, and why "at least for now"?  It 
    may not be your intention, but that statement as it is, reveals a 
    bias favoring men. It implies incompetence, and/or perhaps an 
    intelligence disparity between the genders in performing the same 
    clerical role.  Is that your belief?
    
    Also a comment:
    
    > I think that might change, but if it changes, it will change 
    > quietly and naturally...
    
    It hasn't changed in almost 2000 years, /john.  Jesus was, amongst 
    other things, a radical social activist and transformer.  He set the 
    precedence for women's equal involvement in relgious affairs and 
    spiritual leadership.  I believe it would be hard to submit a 
    convincing argument that Jesus intended Christianity to be anything 
    other than egalitarian:  to honor, respect, and value all people 
    equally.  But after his death, Christianity unfortunately reverted 
    back to a male-based hierachical order, which, advocated by the 
    church, subsequently installed an impenetrable "glass ceiling" for 
    women.   
    
    > The world and the Church are full of so many wonderful and 
    > important roles for women.
    
    Oh yes, to be sure.  All beneath the glass ceiling, however.
    
    I wish I could agree with you, but I can't:  I don't think it 
    would've changed quietly and naturally.  Injustices never do -- do 
    they...?  Besides, I think it's too late to see if you would've been 
    right anyway.  
    
    Karen

9.460COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Oct 09 1992 17:1719
It does not imply incompetence.  It takes no special intelligence and not much
competence to stand at the altar and recite a prayer.

It merely means that in order to fully represent Jesus Christ (which is what
a priest does at the consecration), the celebrant must be male.

I don't know if this can change.  As long as we have people concerned that
the role of an Asian in Miss Saigon must be played by an Asian, as long as
people care about such things, then I think people are incapable of ignoring
such differences, regardless of how unimportant they seem to me.

Why do you want women to be priests?  Why can't women do other important
leadership roles?  Teach, counsel, lead important organizations.  Do roles
which _do_ require intelligence and competence!

Everything but be Jesus's hands and mouth at the consecration.
Everything but be the Bridegroom at the Wedding Feast of the Lamb.

/john
9.461SOLVIT::MSMITHSo, what does it all mean?Fri Oct 09 1992 17:1710
    Many Conservative Catholics don't even want girls acting as altar
    servers during liturgical ceremonies.  I can remember when I got to be
    an altar boy my sister feeling quite keenly the sense of unfairness
    that she couldn't be one, too. 
    
    Although, in all fairness, I must say this was hardly a defining issue
    for me, and apparently it wasn't for her, either, as she is still a
    practicing Catholic.  But it does seem a bit unfair, though.
    
    Mike
9.462COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Oct 09 1992 17:2813
re women acolytes

Yep, that seems pretty silly.  My Episcopal parish (which would not like to
ever have Bishop Harris exercise her office within the parish) uses adult men
and women as servers, torchbearers, crucifers, thurifers, etc.

Since serving a priest may help a young man to discern his calling to be
a priest, and since the Roman Catholic church is having a shortage of men
feeling the calling, I think I understand the reasons for it.

But Roman Catholic women can be readers and even Eucharistic ministers.

/john
9.463SOLVIT::MSMITHSo, what does it all mean?Fri Oct 09 1992 18:0710
    The argument that boys might use their experience as altar servers to
    consider a priestly vocation would make a bit more sense, I think, if
    out of the thousands of altar boys who have served, more actually
    tried to become a priest.
    
    On the other hand, were it not for my experience as an altar boy, I may
    very well have not gone to seminary, although my classmates there were
    by no means all ex-altar boys. 
    
    Mike 
9.464JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Oct 09 1992 18:125
    I'll state it again, women should be allowed to be priests.
    There just isn't any reason to deny them. I don't understand,/john
    why you take your position.
    
    Marc H.
9.465curiousATSE::FLAHERTYRo ReinkeFri Oct 09 1992 18:1810
    I don't understand /john's position either, especially since the
    Episcopal church allows woman to become priests.  That there were two
    women priests at the Episcopal church in Nashua was one of the reasons
    I came back to my Episcopal roots.
    
    Do you not agree with the church's decision to allow women to become
    priests in your religion, /john?
    
    Ro
    
9.466The problem relates to the celebration of the MassCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Oct 09 1992 19:2937
Unless you completely understand the significance of the Eucharist, you
can't understand the significance of the priest.  The Eucharist is not
just a memorial, it is a "making present", a "re-presenting" of the
sacrifice of Christ on Calvary.

I do not completely understand why the sex of the person re-presenting
Christ is as important as the Church believes it to be.

I would like to see the Church decide that it isn't important -- that a
woman being the Bridegroom doesn't change the sex of the Bridegroom from
male to female.  But there does seem to be a problem for a lot of people.

Some men cannot ignore the sex of a woman if she stands and acts as Christ
stating "This is my Body".

Some women want to change the sex of Christ when they say "This is my Body."

I think we have to get beyond that, on both sides.  I think I am beyond
that, but I know other people aren't.  Once we get beyond it, maybe women
can be priests.

There is no such thing as "The Episcopal Priesthood".  Page 526 of the
1979 Book of Common Prayer says:  "... we present you to be ordained
a priest in Christ's holy catholic Church."  One small part of the holy
catholic Church really did not have the authority to change the nature
of the historic presbyterate and episcopate without agreement, at least
in principle, from the whole Church.  A General Council.  Not just a
local council.

I visited a parish in Vermont last weekend which uses women's ministry
in a way that does not cause a problem for the historic priesthood and
episcopate.  There is a woman who is an ordained deacon, and there is a
woman who is a "lay pastor".  Both are important roles of responsibility
and leadership.  But they do not involve standing as Bridegroom before
the congregation.

/john
9.467CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineSat Oct 10 1992 01:3112
    /john -1,
    
    Thanks for offering your views, and the way in which you offered 
    them.  That note shows a different side of you, and it was edifying
    on other levels as well.  I appreciate that.  I also agree with much 
    of what you wrote.
    
    I can't say the same for .460.  If I was a priest I'd probably be
    very angry and highly insulted, and down on my knees praying for you, 
    and me.
    
    Karen
9.468JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Oct 12 1992 11:0012
    RE: .467
    
    Agreed....../john's view on Woman in the church seems to be a
    refreshing change from the "party line" that I received in the Roman
    Catholic faith.
    
    The Congregational Church that I belong to has an interim Pastor
    who happens to be a woman. Having a woman in the church service after
    42 years of Roman Catholic men sure was "strange" at first, but
    today, it just seems normal.
    
    Marc H.
9.469moderator actionCARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineWed Oct 14 1992 17:045
    Previous note 9.469 through 9.486 re: Matthew Fox have been moved
    to topic 12.
    
    Karen Berggren
    Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
9.470JURAN::VALENZAChew your notes before swallowing.Tue Oct 20 1992 11:3311
    Enough time has passed that I now can reveal one of my deep, dark
    secrets.
    
    
    
    I voted for Alfred Thompson in the DCU elections.
    
    Yes, that indeed makes me part of a select, albeit *extremely* small,
    company of people.  :-)
    
    -- Mike
9.471Thank you Mike. I appreciate your voteCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Oct 20 1992 11:387
>    Yes, that indeed makes me part of a select, albeit *extremely* small,
>    company of people.  :-)

	Well, it may not have been enough to win but it was still over 
	3000 people. All of whom I offer my thanks for your support.

			Alfred
9.472COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Oct 20 1992 12:231
So did I, but then I doubt that surprises anyone.
9.473surprise!BSS::VANFLEETThe time is now!Tue Oct 20 1992 12:363
    So did I.
    
    Nanci
9.474CRETE::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 03 1992 13:3823
    Mike 546.28,
    
    As you know, I've struggled with the same issue of some Christians
    considering their chastisements and corrections of others to be a
    "virtue."  I've found it offensive as well at times, and so can
    empathize with you.  
    
    As moderators, and when you were one yourself, we struggle with this
    issue regularly, and frankly, we're discussing it again off-line.  We 
    want to encourage and support dialogue, and yet it invariably leads to 
    people offending one another, sometimes intentionally, other times
    unintentionally.  Some people, we realize, are not interested in
    dialogue, or to respect others opinions and beliefs.  
    
    So what do we do...?
    
    I feel that name-calling can be easily interpreted as a violation
    of Digital's Policies and Proceduces, which we as moderators need to
    enforce;  so, imo, it would probably be best to find other ways to 
    communicate frustration and offenses one experiences in this conference.
    
    Peace,
    Karen
9.475JURAN::VALENZAMaster of time, space &amp; notes.Tue Nov 03 1992 13:406
    Karen, you are of course correct, and I was wrong to use that term.
    
    My frustration and my anger had reached the boiling point, and as such
    I exceeded the proper bounds.  My apologies to all concerned.
    
    -- Mike
9.476CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistTue Nov 03 1992 13:565
    There are some opinions that can not be expressed without saying
    something that someone will take offense at. In fact, some will be
    insulted by someone else merely disagreeing with them.
    
    			Alfred
9.477CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 03 1992 17:1010
    Jill 546.36,
    
    > For people who value critical thinking and valuing all opinions, you
    > sure censor alot of opinions.
    
    I've observed some people objecting to ways in which other people express 
    their beliefs and opinions, and sometimes disagreeing with the opinions
    themselves, but I've yet to see an opinion "censored" here. 
    
    Karen       
9.478COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 17:117
>but I've yet to see an opinion "censored" here. 

I spent several hours last night dissuading a moderator of this conference
from complaining to personnel about an opinion I had expressed of this
conference.

/john
9.479DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Nov 03 1992 17:2112
    RE: .478  Mr. Covert,
    
    				First, your opinion was *NOT* expressed
    "here" but in another conference not related to this one.  I backed
    off *ONLY* because of your adherrence to the "worlds" legalisms.  Seems
    to me to be very contrary to you professed faith as I stated in my last
    "offline" letter to you.  I resent *VERY* much you bringing up a
    subject that had been taken out of the public eye so-to-speak.  I am
    even beginning to wonder at the "practice" of a faith you so loudly
    profess.
    
    Dave....not a moderator at this moment.
9.480CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 03 1992 17:2612
    /john,
    
    Censoring would take place here, and in other conferences as well
    *if* said "opinion" is interpreted by the moderators as infringing 
    upon or violating Digital's Policies and Procedures.  In some
    conferences certain subjects are censored - they're not even open to
    discuss.  That doesn't happen here.  
    
    I don't believe the situation you're referring to took place in C-P,
    and if so, probably should not be discussed here, unless you'd like to?
    
    Karen
9.481COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 18:0371
>I am even beginning to wonder at the "practice" of a faith you so loudly
>profess.

You don't say!

OK, let's process this:

In "Things to Hate Today" in SOAPBOX, I had grumbled that Jerry had written
a note that claimed that "wife" didn't clearly mean a "female wife".  I was
accused of being sanctimonious and a few people suggested that I should
delete that note, which follows:

                     -< SOAPBOX: Not So Humble Opinions! >-
================================================================================
Note 12.5028*                 Things to Hate Today                  5028 of 5102
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                       2 lines   1-NOV-1992 16:32
       -< Biblical support for homosexual marriage, according to Bubba >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 91.1866 in LGP30::Christian-Perspective written by Jerry Beeler, claiming
that when Jesus says "wife" in Mark 10:7, he must mean a male "wife".
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

In reply to that, I wrote:

|If your definition of sanctimonious includes getting angry about a bunch of
|self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others creating a conference
|called "Christian-Perspective" and using it to ridicule the Bible and many
|of the beliefs and moral teachings of main-line Christianity, then YES, I'm
|sanctimonious.  Thank you very much.
|
|That conference has an even larger army of moderators than this.
|
|I'll delete my note when CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is deleted or has its
|name changed to RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.

Dave Dawson, who has never written a note in Soapbox, became aware of the
above note and asked me to delete it, as it was contrary to company policy.
I disagreed with him on that point, replying:

Now, let's take the parts that reference CP piece by piece:

>a bunch of self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others

I can't see you having a problem with this statement.  There are notes
in CP where various people claim to be neo-Pagans or non-Christians, and
then there are others.  I trust you are one of the others.

>using it to ridicule the Bible and many of the beliefs and moral teachings
>of main-line Christianity

Is it not a fact that some of the people, some of whom are neo-Pagans,
some of whom are non-Christians (by their own explicit descriptions of
themselves) and others, find CP a good forum to make ridiculous statements
about the bible (e.g. "wife doesn't mean female")?  Is it not a fact that
there are many statements which ridicule many of the beliefs and moral
teachings of main-line Christianity?

>That conference has an even larger army of moderators than this.

CP has more moderators than Soapbox.  "Army of moderators" is a standard
Soapbox phrase; I doubt you think it violates policy.

>RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.

Don't so many of the notes in CP fall much more in the category of skepticism
than in the category of edification of Christianity?

Where is the violation of company policy in the note you are complaining
about?

/john
9.482COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 18:0458
Dave then sent me some more information on how company policy was
violated, but still was not specific about what parts of my note were
a violation of company policy.  I replied:

>    letters, making defamatory statements, disclosing private facts about any
>             -----------------------------

Whom, specifically, have I defamed?  What statement defames whom?
In short, what statement is not true and obvious to any reader of CP?

>    statements that one may disagree with but statements with the intent
>                                              -------------------------- 
>    of provoking anger, persistent insulting language, or ridicule.
>   ----------------------------------------------------------------

This must be a reference to notes in CP about the Bible, right?

>    behavior, or compromise the personal integrity of Digital employees.
>                 -------------------------------------------------------

Show me the statement and explain which employee's integrity is compromised
and how.

>Your last statement concerning the "name" of C-P

(RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM)  Is there not an awful lot of skepticism, even some
hostility, to mere belief in God and traditional morality, expressed in an
overwhelming number of notes in C-P?

>Now I am perfectly willing to let an outside, objective group decide this
>matter.

Now wait a minute.  We're talking about a note in Soapbox.  A note in the
"Things to Hate Today" topic.  A topic where people gripe about things that
are annoying them.  Sort of like a "Primal Scream" topic.

Are you really thinking about getting someone else (in your other note you
mentioned personnel, I think) involved in this, like, during their working
hours?  Over a note in Soapbox?  You think a single note in Soapbox is
worth the risk that someone in Personnel might decide to delete not just
my note in Soapbox but half the notes in CP?  You really want to involve
that group of people?  You want to bring employee interest religious noting
to their attention?  Are you serious?

I've never understood why people want notes deleted.  It has always seemed
to me that if you don't like a note, you just write a better note, showing
the error in the one you don't like.

You can prove me wrong by future notes in CP.  You could write notes that say
things just like what Jill Kinsella says.  She's brilliant.  You could try to
develop convincing arguments for Christianity.  Follow the Great Commission.
Call others to do likewise.  That would be a real Christian Perspective.

/john

After this, Dave decided to abandon his plans to complain to personnel.

/john
9.483DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Nov 03 1992 18:1133
    
    
    
    Here is what I wrote back to Mr. Covert and I stand by it.   
    
    
    
    _____________________________________________________________________
Mr. Covert,

			Ok.  I am going to let the matter drop.  I suppose
within the "legalisms" of this world, a case may be made for your point of view
about the note you entered.  But you and I know different.  Your intent was to
hurt and you succeeded.   So you win a victory but at what expense?  You say
that you believe in the cause of Christ but did that note really inculcate
the patient love that Christ commands us to have?  

			You seem unable to understand the very people you are
talking to in C-P.  Many of them have been hurt badly by missguided Christians
and their Church.  You seem to not be able to understand that fact, either that
or you really don't care.  There is a terrific book out called Evangelism 
Explosion written by Dr. Kennedy.  I would strongly suggest you read it.  It
gives you a beautiful way to witness the cause of Christ.  Most people do not 
know how to witness.

			Well, at any rate this is my last communication offline
with you unless I truely see a change of attitude.  I am sure you will believe
that "the truth hurts".  I remind you that its a two edged sword.



Dave Dawson

9.485JURAN::SILVAMurphy, it's ONLY Dan Quayle!Tue Nov 03 1992 18:2622



	John, what if we put in notes about how you view Christianity, how we
may perceive you, whatever? What would it accomplish? No more than what your
note did. Sure, you may actually believe that you didn't do anything wrong, but
unless this is how you treat yourself, then just maybe you should relook at
what was written.

	Remember, the way you wrote it the outcome is false. Your explaination
of what you wrote would be great if you could just take part of a sentence
here, part of one there, then everything is great. I've seen you do that with
Scripture too. But let's look at the ENTIRE picture, without the sentences
standing by themselves, but as a whole, what you wrote paints a false picture,
period. Is being false how you really are? Is it what God would want you to be?





Glen
9.486JURAN::VALENZAMaster of time, space &amp; notes.Tue Nov 03 1992 18:3243
    I can see why Dave objected to that attack against this notes file.

    However, it does show exactly what Covert's agenda is here.  His snide
    attack against C-P illustrates that his purpose for participating here
    is anything but amicable--as if there were any doubt about that.  If he
    wishes to see C-P deleted, as he suggested, then he clearly and
    explicitly expresses once and for all his hostility to this notes file
    and its participants.

    To set the record straight:

>>a bunch of self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others
>
>I can't see you having a problem with this statement.  There are notes
>in CP where various people claim to be neo-Pagans or non-Christians, and
>then there are others.  I trust you are one of the others.

    What, pray tell, are the "others" that he refers to?  Could that be a
    euphemism for "Christians"?  The system host of C-P, without whom this
    file could not exist, is a Roman Catholic and a Christian.  A phrase
    like 'self-professed neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others' could just
    as easily have been phrased as "a group of Christians and
    non-Christians".  Phrasing it the way he did was clearly a deliberate
    slight against the Christians who have been involved with the creation
    of this notes file, and as such is inflammatory.  Yes, there are notes
    here by people who are non-Christians.  The same could be said about
    GOLF::CHRISTIAN, for that matter--this is a Digital notes file, and
    must be open to all.  His use of the word "others" rather than
    "Christians" in his sneering description of the spectrum of people who
    participate here speaks for itself.

>(RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM)  Is there not an awful lot of skepticism, even some
>hostility, to mere belief in God and traditional morality, expressed in an
>overwhelming number of notes in C-P?

    While there are many participants who disagree with Covert's moral
    beliefs, the only skepticism I have seen expressed here towards a
    belief in God has been stated by Bob Messenger, who infrequently
    contributes here, and possibly also Jerry Beeler.  I don't know of any
    other frequent and regular contributor here who has expressed disbelief
    in God.

    -- Mike
9.487Bottom line was _don't_go_deleting_things_you_dislike_COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 18:558
> If he wishes to see C-P deleted, as he suggested, then he clearly and
> explicitly expresses once and for all his hostility to this notes file
> and its participants.

I did not suggest deleting CP until it was suggested that a note I had
written be deleted.

/john
9.488DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Nov 03 1992 19:028
    
    
    		To clear the record Mr. Covert, I did *NOT* ask that your
    original note be deleted.  Only the one in which you expressed what you
    thought of the people who note here, the very same note in which you
    asked for this entire conference to be deleted.
    
    Dave
9.489Do not claim I said what I did not sayCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 19:147
I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be deleted.

I said, and you can read that that is what I said, that I would delete
my note (the one various people suggested should be deleted) if this
conference were deleted or changed its name.

I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be deleted.
9.490DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureTue Nov 03 1992 19:196
    
    		Why don't you just "delete" this conference from your 
    notebook and then you can say its been deleted.
    
    
    Dave
9.491JURAN::VALENZAMaster of time, space &amp; notes.Tue Nov 03 1992 19:244
    Naw, it's so much more fun to participate in a notes file that you hate
    so that you can trash it and the people who participate there.
    
    -- Mike
9.492VIDSYS::PARENTit's only a shell, mislabledTue Nov 03 1992 19:4019
   John,

   Yes your right.  You did not say to delete the file, your words were
   to rename it.  

   Renaming the file is effectively deletion from the notes client point
   of view as the file searched for wounld not exist.  Subtle difference,
   or implied meaning?  

   Serious request.  Though others may disagree in part or whole, your 
   opinions are valued by many here.  If you dislike the file so much 
   that you made those comments why note here?

   In search of Peace,
   Allison



9.493COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 19:437
I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be renamed.

I said, and you can read that that is what I said, that I would delete
my note (the one various people suggested should be deleted) if this
conference were deleted or changed its name.

I did not, I repeat, did not ask that this conference be renamed.
9.494VIDSYS::PARENTit's only a shell, mislabledTue Nov 03 1992 20:0320
|
|I'll delete my note when CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is deleted or has its
|name changed to RELIGIOUS-SKEPTICISM.

  John,

   Is this not a direct extraction from your note posted by you in an
   earlier note?

   You either want it deleted or renamed as is it a condition to
   delete another note.  Either that or you don't want it renamed
   or deleted and it is not a condition.

   You only defended something you believe is in error.  There was a
   question placed before you.  Why do you note here if you dislike it so?


   Allison


9.495CSC32::J_CHRISTIETue Nov 03 1992 20:4210
    I've deleted my previous warning, but I will say that whining in
    another conference about this one is both cheap and childish.  I
    know because I used to be critical of GOLF::CHRISTIAN in this file
    until someone pointed out the unworthiness of such actions to me.
    
    Neither do I wish to see CP become a dumping ground for discussions
    occuring in other conferences.
    
    Richard
    
9.496COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 03 1992 20:5121
>   You either want it deleted or renamed as is it a condition to
>   delete another note.  Either that or you don't want it renamed
>   or deleted and it is not a condition.

Allison, you and I have had this problem before.  Obviously we don't
speak the same version of English, because you claim I say things I
haven't said, and I can't parse your sentence above.

I said what is written in ones and zeroes.  What stands before says that
I will delete x _if_ y is deleted or renamed.  It does not say that I
want anything to happen to either x or y -- it is a response to a demand
that x be deleted.

>Why do you participate here?

For the same reason that Jill, Collis, Alfred, and Pat participate here:
To present the central truths of Christianity: death to sin and new life
in Christ, in the midst of what is claimed to be a Christian Perspective
but which denies millenia of teaching on the calling of Christ.

/john
9.497CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 03 1992 20:528
    Well, hurt feelings and/or disparaging comments aside, I must say I 
    think /john was well-baited with a topic named "Things to hate today." 
    
    :-)  
    
    And so weren't we.    
    
    Karen 
9.498CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 03 1992 20:5710
    /john .496,
    
    You're splitting hairs here now.  Anyway, I think we understand the 
    basic gist of your message.
    
    Rest yourself.  It's been a loooong day.
    
    Peace,
    
    Karen
9.499smile it's not so grimVIDSYS::PARENTit's only a shell, mislabledTue Nov 03 1992 22:2010
   John,

   Since my native language is assembler, binary will do.

   Of course I could resort to Pascal and forget a semicolon or
   two... ;-)

   Allison

9.500My "Christian" perspectiveMORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offWed Nov 04 1992 00:1264
.482> I've never understood why people want notes deleted.

If that's the case please help me to reconcile this with your commentary
in SOAPBOX .. Note 12.5034.   In 12.5034, your response to an individual
who asked you to delete a note: "...if Bubba offered to delete C-P
91.whatever..."

It appears that you will delete a note if someone named Bubba offered to
delete C-P 91.whatever.  Why in the world would you want note 91.whatever
deleted?  I've never understood why people want notes deleted.

.482> seemed to me that if you don't like a note, you just write a better
.482> note, showing the error in the one you don't like.

I agree ... why would you want C-P 91.whatever deleted?  Why not just write
a better note showing the error in the one that you don't like, 91.whatever?

.482> That would be a real Christian Perspective.

One thing that I have learned from this conference is that there is more
than one Christian Perspective.  For this I am forever thankful.  I have
learned that my actions speak louder than words - and those actions seem
to label me as a Christian.  There are a number of people in this conference
- people that by all reasonable measures would be considered "Christians" ...
that have told me that I exhibit the qualities of a Christian.   That made 
me feel good.  Darned good.

Don't ask me to explain "why" it makes me feel good because if you have to
ask ... you wouldn't understand the answer.

Now, you personally can (and probably will) rant and rave all you want.
Believe it or not I will defend to the death your right to do that ... but
guess to what end it effects me - personally?  Try ... a hill of beans.  I
am proud to be called a Christian and that's what matters to me.

If the hallmark of Christianity is rooted in lack of common courtesy and
lack of respect - I want nothing to do with it.  This conference (and I use
the term 'conference' in the global sense has) shown me that this is NOT
the case.  Christianity is indeed rooted in respect and understanding.

Such is the case in my refusal to even respond to the not-so-veiled request
that you made in SOAPBOX for me to delete 91.whatever in C-P.  To have
responded to such a pusillanimous request was to give it dignity.  This, I
refuse to do.  I was not afforded the simple courtesy of correspondence
which would indicate dissatisfaction with the 91.whatever note.  I was
not afforded those simple elements of professionalism, and courtesy.  I do
not and will not respond to such a decided lack of even minimal professional
and social graces.

If such deficiencies are elements of your "Christian perspective" you
may rest assured that I wholeheartedly and resolutely reject your Christian
perspective.  Without reservation.  Without hesitation.  Without fear.

My personal perspective:  You may with all your heart and soul - defile
C-P and/or me.  You may do it in any forum that you so desire.  You may,
within the limits of P&P, do so in any language that you so desire.  For me,
personally, the "hill of beans" syndrome comes to mind.  For other participants
of this conference ... I'm sure that they'll pray for your rapid recovery.

John, take a look at St. Luke 23:34.  I'm sure that that Jesus will include you
in His request.

Bubba

9.501CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineWed Nov 04 1992 02:0910
    Bubba A Christian, and proud of it?
    
    God has *surely* wrought a miracle.
    
    Amen.  I DO believe!
    
    Seriously...I have an inkling as to how big a statement that is
    for you to make, Bubba.  Wow.  
    
    Karen
9.502COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 04 1992 03:3714
>I agree ... why would you want C-P 91.whatever deleted?

I don't want any notes deleted.

You know I don't, because you are the author of C-P 91.whatever, and I never
asked you or any one of the moderators to delete C-P 91.whatever.  I do not
want it deleted.  I have never wanted it deleted.  The note was just a "Thing
to Hate Today" one day.  There was no request for you to do anything about it. 

>to label me as a Christian.

'Lujah, sag i, lujah!

/john
9.503Lemme' think on this ....MORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offWed Nov 04 1992 04:3318
.501> Bubba A Christian, and proud of it?
.501> God has *surely* wrought a miracle.

Now .. hold youah' horses there mah' little magnolia.  I said that people
had pinned the label on me and I'd be proud to wear it.  Yep', I'd be
right proud to wear it ...  all this time I thought that I had to do
something special or be something special .. and here I find out that
I don't need to do nothin' but be myself and pretty much keep doin'
things that I've always done.  That do make me feel good.

Then again .. I gotta' be real careful right now for I am ..well..
NUI (Noting Under the Influence).  Tonights elections results have
caused me to partake in a number of Michelob "Golden Draft" to try to
dround my sorrows.  Fure not for I has not done it to excess .. I'm
in fall cuntrol of my facalties - and that's what I tole the ossifer
what brunged me home.

Bubba
9.504JURAN::VALENZAMaster of time, space &amp; notes.Wed Nov 04 1992 11:3135
    It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
    notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
    those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
    here.

    I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
    absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs. 
    Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
    would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
    the rest of us.

    One possible response to this is to simply take note of those authors
    who clearly have a hostile agenda against this notes file and its
    mission; then, when you are reading notes, simply check the author
    before reading the text.  If the note is from one of those people who
    clearly hate this notes file, simply ignore the note.  Don't even read
    it.  Its content will probably only get your dander up, and responding
    to it will accomplish nothing because those individuals have clearly
    eschewed any interest in legitimate dialogue and honest communication. 
    We are their enemy, and their have made clear that consider it a virtue
    and a calling from God not to respect theological differences of
    opinion with us.

    I understand the obvious objection to this approach. By ignoring
    them--as hard as I know it must be to let their offensive comments go
    without a response--we are not somehow conceding victory to them.  That
    is a macho way of looking at notes, that implies that one must somehow
    always have the last word.  By simply choosing to ignore them, we can
    build this into the kind of notes file we wish it to be, without
    allowing ourselves to be dragged down by such disruption.

    Comments?  Is this a good or a bad idea?  How many people would be
    willing to take a vow towards that end?

    -- Mike
9.505JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Nov 04 1992 12:425
    Re: .500
    
    Excellent Jerry!
    
    Marc H.
9.506Children do like to play ...MORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offWed Nov 04 1992 13:2328
.504> One possible response to this is to simply take note of those authors
.504> who clearly have a hostile agenda against this notes file and its
.504> mission; then, when you are reading notes, simply check the author
.504> before reading the text.

I always do this .. as a matter of "habit".  It makes reading notes much
easier and faster and at times a lot easier on the blood pressure.  Indeed,
the NEXT UNSEEN or NEXT REPLY gets quite a workout at times.

.504> I understand the obvious objection to this approach. By ignoring
.504> them--as hard as I know it must be to let their offensive comments go
.504> without a response--we are not somehow conceding victory to them.

Not at all!  I well (WELL) remember the day my first-born used a very
healthy swear word.   The wife and I took a very deep breath and didn't
crack a smile, didn't say a word.  Totally ignored the incident.  Worked
like a charm - she never tried it again.

Same in notes.  Some people limply like to be seen and heard and they
use notes to draw attention.  The more attention they draw .. the more
they pontificate.  

.505> Re: .500
.505> Excellent Jerry!

Thank you, Sir.

Bubba
9.507AKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowWed Nov 04 1992 17:327
    re .504
    
    Excellent idea Mike.  There are lots of questions I sincerely want to
    dialogue about.  Since I cannot dialogue with those who reject free and
    open dialogue, I too choose not to.  
    
    Patricia
9.508Re: The Processing TopicQUABBI::&quot;ferwerda@loptsn.enet.dec.com&quot;Wed Nov 04 1992 19:3020
In article <9.504-921104-083102@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, valenza@juran.enet.dec.com (Master of time, space & notes.) writes:
X-Note-Id: 9.504 (504 replies)
Date: Wed, 4 Nov 92 08:31:02 EST

Title: The Processing Topic
Reply Title: (none)

>    It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
>    notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
>    those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
>    here.
>
>    I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
>    absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs. 
>    Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
>    would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
>    the rest of us.

[posted by Notes-News gateway]
9.509I can search backup tapes, tooLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Wed Nov 04 1992 19:4416
re Note 545.36 by CSC32::KINSELLA:

>     I believe it's vanished.  It was moved from 546 to 23.  Now my note
>     is no more.  <weeping, sobbing>  No notification or explanation of 
>     why, it's just non-existent.  Maybe I anger a moderator or two, so
>     the gods that be, deleted me.  I don't honestly know where it is
>     or it's replies.  I imagine it didn't fit in with genre.  Maybe it 
>     was relocated again.  Oh well.
    
        I'm not 100% sure what your getting at, Jill, but in this
        conference I found several notes of yours written since
        26 October addressed in part to Dave:

        	300.83, 300.85, 544.47, 546.47

        Bob
9.510DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureWed Nov 04 1992 20:011
    Thank you Bob. 
9.511CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWed Nov 04 1992 20:399
.509 & 510,
    
    I concur.  No notes have been lost or deleted.  500.55 explains.

    The notes could easily be found by using the command:
    SET SEEN/BEFORE=03-NOV-1992<CR> then pressing next unseen <kp",">
    through the day's activity.

Richard
9.512CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWed Nov 04 1992 23:389
	I recognize my brother in Christ, "Bubba" Jerry Beeler, and welcome
him into the family of God.

Peace,
Richard

PS  Actually, I was beginning to wonder, Jerry, if you would ever notice the
family resemblence. ;-)

9.513:-)MORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offWed Nov 04 1992 23:5210
.512> Actually, I was beginning to wonder, Jerry, if you would ever notice the
.512> family resemblance. ;-)

"family resemblance" ... between who and who?

If you're talking resemblance between me and you ... Richard .. whatever
you're sippin' ...  it's gotta' be better than any Texas moonshine that I 
ever tasted.  Hey, save me a quart or so ...
    
Bubba
9.514CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Nov 05 1992 02:5017
    Re: 545.62
    
    Patrick,
    
    The original note you're querying Richard on was directed to Jill, not
    you, in case you hadn't noticed.  Richard never claimed you used any 
    labels, but rather was describing the ones he used and why.  
    
    "Projecting" a C-P speak term?  On the slim chance you aren't joking,
    it's a common psychological term, the meaning of which you'll 
    find in any dictionary:  to ascribe one's own feelings to others.   
    
    Karen
    
    p.s.  Richard, you forgot the label "sick."  Oh, and "heathen" is 
    an accurate term, and not just mere projection on your part:  We do 
    have self-professed non-Christians who contribute here regularly.
9.515Most Likely Tastes Bad!JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAThu Nov 05 1992 11:165
    Re: .513
    
    I didn't think that Texan's knew how to make shine....
    
    Marc H.
9.516SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Nov 05 1992 11:5417
    re: 545.62

    I have no idea what is meant by "the original note".  To me and I hope
    to other readers, 545.62, 545.60, 545.58, etc. form a discussion of
    the Christian perspective.

    What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
    case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?

    Is the "projection" here I'm too stupid to notice something?  Is this a
    campaign to intimidate me by insults scattered through the conference
    without connection to a discussion of the Christian Perspective?

    I write here for myself.  I ask direct questions to understand or
    disambiguate the statements of others.  I do not label, I do not
    project, I do not attribute my own opinions into others.  This is an
    example that others would do well to follow. 
9.517CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Nov 05 1992 12:479
    Patrick,
    
    It's obvious you're having a "bad" day.         
    
    I wish you well.
    
    Adieu,
    
    Karen
9.518YAMS::FERWERDADisplaced BeirutiThu Nov 05 1992 13:4270
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In article <9.504-921104-083102@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, valenza@juran.enet.dec.com (Master of time, space & notes.) writes:
X-Note-Id: 9.504 (504 replies)
Date: Wed, 4 Nov 92 08:31:02 EST

Title: The Processing Topic
Reply Title: (none)

>    It seems to me, given the sometimes open admission of hostility to this
>    notes conference, that it might be worth considering the usefulness by
>    those of us who value it to simply ignore what its attackers write
>    here.
>
>    I know that it is always difficult to remain silent in the face of
>    absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against one's own beliefs. 
>    Nevertheless, ignoring those individuals who are disruptive and hostile
>    would have the benefit of making for valid and useful discussions among
>    the rest of us.

.
.
.
>    -- Mike

Mike,
	It was my understanding that John Covert felt that it was "difficult
to remain silent in the face of absurd or simply obnoxious attacks against
one's own beliefs." and that his note in SOAPBOX reflected that. I should
say as someone who as only looked in on SOAPBOX once or twice in the last
few years that it was very apparent to me that the "THINGS I HATE TODAY"
note is clearly a steam-venting note and not to be taking seriously.

	The difficult things about this conference is that both
"sides" see the other as carrying out absurd or obnoxious attacks.
The folks who plant themselves in the "orthodox" camp see the
characterization of non-orthodox beliefs as orthodox as an insult
against God.  The folks who don't plant themselves in the orthodox
camp see the constant harping of the "orthodox" on a narrow view of
truth as insulting because it implicitly (or explicitly) dismisses
their views as non-truth.

	Both sides see the others' statements as devaluing their beliefs.

	The answer?  I'm not sure, but as I've said in other notes I'm
trying to figure out how to dialog when the other side rejects and demeans
some of my fundamental assumptions about the world.

PS.  In a conference like this you have to have thick skin.  I try to listen
to what folks say, and think about it.  If it doesn't fit then I try not
to get worked up about it as the other person is most likely wrong anyway. 8-)

--
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9.519non-orthodoxy is how Christianity started!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Nov 05 1992 14:3430
re Note 9.518 by YAMS::FERWERDA:

> it was very apparent to me that the "THINGS I HATE TODAY"
> note is clearly a steam-venting note and not to be taking seriously.

        I thought that was true of just about everything in SOAPBOX!


> The folks who plant themselves in the "orthodox" camp see the
> characterization of non-orthodox beliefs as orthodox as an insult
> against God.  

        Paul,

        Are you saying that those who present non-orthodox beliefs
        here try to imply that they are actually orthodox beliefs?  I
        can't recall any examples of that.  On the other hand, I have
        seen examples of where a non-orthodox belief is presented
        with the claim that the orthodox belief is wrong or
        incomplete.

        I can see that that is challenging, but why is it taken as so
        threatening -- can't the holders of orthodox beliefs simply
        refute or deny the non-orthodox beliefs without being
        offended or worse?

        They seem to forget that Christianity in its early years was
        unorthodox in its entirety.

        Bob
9.520CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceThu Nov 05 1992 23:0033
Patrick 9.516,

>    What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
>    case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?

I've known Karen long enough and well enough to know when she might be being
snide or not.  And she's not this time.  If one reads the sentence without the
tag "in case you hadn't noticed," the statement comes across as brutal and
unforgiving; two qualities which "Moderator Karen" seldom, if ever,
exhibits.  And further, why did you put the tag "Moderator" in front of
Karen's name??  Do you have a problem with women in positions of authority?

>    Is the "projection" here I'm too stupid to notice something?

What motivates you to ask something as insulting as this??

>   Is this a
>   campaign to intimidate me by insults scattered through the conference
>   without connection to a discussion of the Christian Perspective?

I see no evidence of any campaign to intimidate you by insults scattered
through the conference.  There is no conspiracy of any kind.  There is
an effort here by the moderators to maintain some semblance of order and
continuity.  If a topic is becoming derailed, it is not unusual for the
derailing notes to be moved to a more appropriate topic or perhaps placed
under an entirely new topic.  Parallel topics are frequently combined.  I
know that as a moderator yourself, you already know about these kinds of
things.

Furthermore, the inference that there exists something called "C-P Speak"
is simply bizarre.  What motivates you to make such an inference??

Richard
9.521CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistFri Nov 06 1992 11:0916
>>    What motivates a reply like 9.514 with the snide personal comment "in
>>    case you hadn't noticed...", Moderator Karen?
>
>I've known Karen long enough and well enough to know when she might be being
>snide or not.  And she's not this time.  
    
    Alas not all of us know Karen that well. I though she was being snide.
    
>And further, why did you put the tag "Moderator" in front of
>Karen's name??  Do you have a problem with women in positions of authority?
    
    Gee, are you projecting your own sexist feelings on Pat? Would you
    assume that using the tag in front of your name suggested a problem
    with men in positions of authority?
    
    		Alfred
9.522DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 06 1992 11:366
    
    		No Alfred, I don't think so.  I believe that Richard was
    only using Mr. Sweeney's own tatic of questioning motives.
    
    
    Dave
9.523JURAN::VALENZAOpen your note and say 'Ah!'Fri Nov 06 1992 11:474
    Yes, but when Mr. Sweeney questions people's motives, I am sure that it
    is done only in the spirit of Christian love.  :-)
    
    -- Mike
9.524SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkFri Nov 06 1992 13:442
    A reply like 9.523 is never examined by Karen or Richard or the other
    moderators in the processing topic.
9.525JURAN::VALENZANot necessary the notes.Fri Nov 06 1992 14:254
    I am sure that Mr. Sweeney's questioning of the moderator's motives is
    done in the spirit of Christian love and compassion.  :-)
    
    -- Mike (who Mr. Sweeney has characterized as a great evil)
9.526VIDSYS::PARENTit's only a shell, mislabledFri Nov 06 1992 14:397
   Mike,

   Please be aware.  Patrick did not question the moderators.  I saw
   no question asked, though I did read the notes in question.  ;-)

   Allison
9.527CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 06 1992 15:2671
    My motive in .514 was to resolve a conflict by being clear and concise.  
    Snideness was not intended, and I thought for several minutes how I should 
    word my note to be clear and concise.  The following is how I saw the 
    "conflict" unfold which eventually resulted in my note, 9.514:
    
    Richard to Jill in 545.46:
    
      > ...you may feel it your mission to stay and make sure us "heathens"
     			   ^^^^
      > don't get away with saying anything even slightly heretical or 
      > extra-biblical.
    
    Richard is _specifically_ addressing _Jill's_ mission, (i.e. motives) 
    here, no one else's.  
    
    Patrick to Richard in 545.58:
    
      > In sincerity, what motivates your description of participants here as 
      > "heathens and "slightly heretical or extra-biblical"?
      
      > I reject such motives imputed to me.
    					 ^^
    Patrick reads Richard's note, removes Jill and replaces her with himself
    as the recipient of Richard's comments.
    
    Richard to Patrick in 545.60:
    
      > I suppose I'm projecting what I suspect are the perceptions of some.  
      > I suspect the mere existence of this conference is a source of 
      > enormous consternation for some.  
    
    Patrick to Richard in 545.62:
    
      > I don't have a clue what's meant by CP-speak term "projection."
      > As for labels, it is you rather than me who has chosen to apply 
      > labels, to me and then to yourself.  You yourself commit the fault you 
      > accuse me of.
    
    Patrick is absolutely correct in saying Richard has "choosen to apply 
    labels," but incorrect in saying Richard "accused him" of using them.
    
    Again, the labels "heathen" and "slightly heretical or extra-biblical" 
    were in the original note to Jill.  Richard plainly owned them and 
    clarified, when asked by Patrick what his motivations were for using 
    them.  Richard did mention two other labels in 545.60 he's seen used in 
    C-P such as "A Great Evil" and "Wicked" to describe some participants and 
    what they share;  but I do not read where Richard does what Patrick states, 
    and that is to accuse Patrick of using them.  
    
    So at this time I entered .514, to point out the one detail that 
    apparently Patrick missed -- a detail which could "potentially" resolve 
    this escalating conflict, which was that Richard specifically addressed 
    _Jill_ and _her mission_ in his original note 545.46.  I then followed 
    with "Richard never claimed you used any labels, but rather was describing 
    the ones he used and why."  
    
    Bottom line, .514 was not written to be snide -- it was written to be 
    clear and concise, with the hopes of illuminating the point at which a
    conflict ignited.  I am definately open to suggestions as to other ways 
    I could have said the same thing without having appeared "snide" to some.  
    If anyone has other alternatives, please write them here or send them to 
    me off-line.  More than likely we'll encounter a similar situation again.
    
    I freely admit what I suspect is obvious to all.  
    
    ...I did dip .514's p.s. in a bath of salt and satire.  Though perhaps 
    obvious to all, I'm sure it wasn't appreciated by some.  But I think 
    that's a quality I share with everyone here, I don't always do or say 
    what's appreciated.   
    
    Karen
9.528JURAN::VALENZANot necessary the notes.Fri Nov 06 1992 15:476
    A self-deprecating reference to this notes file with words like
    "heathens", "slightly heretical", and "extra-biblical" can be seen as a
    response to a recent pejorative description of this notes file as
    having been founded by "neo-Pagans, non-Christians, and others".

    -- Mike (the Great Evil)
9.529CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceSat Nov 07 1992 18:476
    .527,
    
    That is one of the most *thorough* explanations I've ever seen in Notes!
    8*)
    
    Richard
9.530COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 10 1992 02:263
I think it's very interesting that Richard, when copying news articles
from GOLF::CHRISTIAN to this conference, as he does almost daily, skipped
the Globe article posted there yesterday.
9.531JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Nov 10 1992 11:015
    Re: .530
    
    Why don't you copy it? I don't read Golf::Christain
    
    Marc H.
9.532And why did he skip this particular one?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 10 1992 11:491
I didn't copy it because Richard usually copies them all.
9.533JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Nov 10 1992 11:593
    Still....Why don't you copy it? I'm curious now...
    
    Marc H.
9.534COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 10 1992 12:171
Done.
9.535CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 10 1992 12:265
    Thanks /john. Soundbite noted. :-)  Btw, I didn't think Richard copied
    these over from GOLF::, rather that he posts them directly from CLARInet.  
    Was this article distributed by that news service?
    
    Karen
9.536COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 10 1992 12:364
I have good reason (and evidence) to believe he copies them from
GOLF::CHRISTIAN.

/john
9.537JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Nov 10 1992 12:403
    Thanks /john...interesting article. Interesting quote you gave too.
    
    Marc H.
9.538CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 10 1992 13:1512
    .536,
    
    If he does /john, then he also missed a couple other recent postings
    there as well, so I wouldn't automatically feel slighted.  I did notice 
    that CLARInet didn't distribute yours;  but knowing Richard as I do, if
    he had read your posting and seen your soundbite in it, he would've 
    been sure to post it here and recognize your contribution.
    
    In any event, please feel free to post news items yourself in the
    future.
    
    Karen   
9.539It wasn't in Topic 29CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceTue Nov 10 1992 18:4613
I do gleen the news items that I post from GOLF::CHRISTIAN Topic 29.  It's
mostly because I've never been able to successfully access CLARInet directly.
And even those extracted from Topic 29 in GOLF::CHRISTIAN are done so
selectively.  After checking topic 29, in recent days I've simply been doing
a SET SEEN.

I regret having missed the article which included John Covert's statement.
It was not intentional.  My apologies for any hard feelings my oversight
may have caused.

Peace,
Richard

9.54029.457COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 10 1992 18:484
>                           -< It wasn't in Topic 29 >-
>Richard

?????
9.541CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceTue Nov 10 1992 19:098
    .540
    
    Okay.  I missed it.  No excuses.
    
    It wasn't deliberate.  It's probably due to some malady related to
    aging, waning eye-sight, or overall incompetence on my part.
    
    Richard
9.543COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 12 1992 02:3232
Well, maybe it wasn't deliberate last time, but it was this time:

From CHRISTIAN:
================================================================================
Note 29.466                   Religion in the News                    466 of 468
                 -< Church of England voting on women priests >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
From: clarinews@clarinet.com (PETER SHADBOLT)
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 29.467                   Religion in the News                    467 of 468
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                       5 lines  11-NOV-1992 14:32
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It passed.

It still has to be approved by Parliament and given royal assent.

/john
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 29.468                   Religion in the News                    468 of 468
                 -< UPI: Tilton sues ABC-TV, Prime Time Live >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

And in here:
================================================================================
Note 41.270                   Religion in the News                    270 of 274
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Strength through peace"           78 lines  11-NOV-1992 18:54
                 -< Church of England voting on women priests >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Note 41.271                   Religion in the News                    271 of 274
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Strength through peace"           42 lines  11-NOV-1992 18:55
                   -< Tilton sues ABC-TV, "Prime Time Live" >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
9.544Lots of revelations MORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offThu Nov 12 1992 05:0021
    You know ... I checked note 41 and much to my amazement replies are
    enabled.  What this means is that anyone can enter a reply in note 41.
    Truly a revelation!

    I also checked the basenote of 41.  I read each and every word and
    carefully analyzed both the spirit and the letter of what was said.
    I found no commitments, expressed or implied, as to the accuracy,
    timeliness, or relative content of the "news" notices which were to be
    posted in the string.  Truly a revelation!

    I diligently searched basenote 41 and could not find any indication of
    commitments with respect to any detailed comparisons between news items
    posted in another conference and similar news items posted in this con-
    ference.  Truly a revelation!

    Perhaps the author of 9.543 takes joy in his folly?  Ah ... I recall
    Proverbs 15:21 (the first part) ... now I understand.

    Bubba


9.545I have a personal policy about cross-posting personal notesCSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceThu Nov 12 1992 17:313
    .543  Yes, it was deliberate this time.
    
    Richard
9.546CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceThu Nov 12 1992 20:0211
    John Covert,
    
    	You do exceptionally well at pointing out the faults of
    CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.  There *is* some edifying purpose to it,
    isn't there??
    
    	The message I get is that your chronic trashing of C-P is
    either for its own sake or because the conference fails to embrace
    your particular brand of Christianity.
    
    Richard
9.547COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 12 1992 21:027
This conference fails to embrace what any Church which is a member of the
National Council of Churches of Christ in the USA would call Christianity.

References to "Goddess" are extremely offensive in a conference which
claims to represent a Christian Perspective.

/john
9.548CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceThu Nov 12 1992 21:159
    John,
    
    I suspect you fail to grasp what CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE is all about.
    
    I regret that you are offended by the term "Goddess," but it's use is
    not prohibited here.
    
    Richard
    
9.549DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureThu Nov 12 1992 21:217
    
    		Be it known that I will not be a member of *ANY* church
    which belongs to the National Council of Churches of Christ or its "big
    brother" the World Council of Churches.  Read their "agenda" and you'll
    know why.  
    
    Dave
9.550"Goddess" and a "Christian Perspective" are mutually exclusiveCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 12 1992 21:2910
Note that I was not affirming the NCC, but merely using that as an easy
way of listing a large number of Churches.

Yes, Richard, I know what this conference is all about.  It is about
putting forward a theology which is contrary to historic Christianity
as it is received by Baptists, Catholics (Anglican/Episcopal, Roman,
or Orthodox), Methodists, Presbyterians, Lutherans, or any other mainstream
Christian Church.

/john
9.551CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceThu Nov 12 1992 21:4111
    .550
    
    John,
    
    	That is your perception, and perhaps some others, of what this
    conference is all about.  However, it is certainly not my perception
    of what this conference is all about.  Neither do I believe it is what
    a number of others who note here preferentially perceive this conference
    is all about.
    
    Richard
9.552Bye?MORO::BEELER_JEStop the world. I want offThu Nov 12 1992 21:567
    John .. if you wish I'll send you the VAX Notes documentation which
    will tell you how to start your own conference.

    Personally ... I don't stay in conferences that I don't like.  It never
    ceases to amaze me that others do.

    Bubba
9.553VIDSYS::PARENTcracklyn nuts, sweetsThu Nov 12 1992 22:0511
   John,

   Since when does reference to Goddess, or many other things represent
   the global view of the conference?  We do allow the airing of divergent
   views but that is not represent endoresment.  You are assigning someones
   personal belief or outlook to the conference, we cannot do that.

   Regards,
   Allison

9.554CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Nov 12 1992 22:2016
    > References to "Goddess" are extremely offensive in a conference which
    > claims to represent a Christian Perspective.
    
    Think again /john.  "Goddess" simply refers to the feminine aspect of
    God.  Have you read about Sophia in the Bible?  That's another name for
    God's feminine aspect.  And may I remind you of Pope John Paul I's
    pronouncement shortly before his untimely death:  "God is both mother 
    and father, but God is more mother than father."
    
    Imagine if this visionary Pope had lived longer.  What a wonderful 
    renaissance the church might have experienced.
    
    sigh.
    
    Karen 
         
9.555This quote attributed to John Paul I is probably spuriousCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 12 1992 22:3915
>"Goddess" simply refers to the feminine aspect of God.
>Have you read about Sophia in the Bible?  That's another name for
>God's feminine aspect. 

Nonsense.  Holy Wisdom (Sophia) is generally referred to as "she" but is never
referred to as "Goddess".  Just because you might have some masculine aspects
does not mean we can refer to you as Mr. Berggren.

>And may I remind you of Pope John Paul I's pronouncement shortly before his
>untimely death:  "God is both mother and father, but God is more mother than
>father."

References?  The Holy Father contradicting Jesus?  Unlikely.

/john
9.556CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineThu Nov 12 1992 23:5411
    Unfortunately /john, we have no name that would embrace both the
    masculine and feminine aspects of God.
    
    Pope John Paul I's statement is originally cited from _In God's 
    name: An investigation into the murder of Pope John Paul I_ 
    (Yallop, 1984).  
    
    I have a feeling most things you don't agree with are shrugged off 
    as "probably spurious."  I guess I can understand that reaction.
    
    Karen
9.557Was anyone ever prosecuted for this "murder"?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 00:349
I wonder about the authority of a book entitled "An Investigation into the
Murder of John Paul I".

Clearly someone with an axe to grind.

What is his source for the quote?  When did John Paul I say it, and who
else heard him say it?  What independent sources quote it?

/john
9.558CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 01:445
    > Clearly someone with an axe to grind.
    
    Yes, perhaps that's all there is to it.
    
    Karen
9.559What is the Problem?JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Nov 13 1992 10:597
    /john.......For someone who is as smart as you are, I'm surprised you
    have just a warped view of this conference. I don't believe for one
    moment in the Goddess labeling and I have a very hard time with
    abortion..but....what is the problem with listening to different points
    of view? 
    
    Marc H.
9.560bothers me, too, but I accept pluralismTAMARA::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Nov 13 1992 11:0113
re Note 9.548 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

>     I regret that you are offended by the term "Goddess," but it's use is
>     not prohibited here.
  
        Actually, I am a bit bothered (I wouldn't say "offended") by
        the term "Goddess" as well because to me it implies that the
        Godhead has gender, which I do not believe.  I personally do
        not interpret the English word "God" to imply male gender
        (although I can understand that some would read the record of
        tradition as saying that "God" is a male term).

        Bob
9.561DEMING::VALENZATo note me is to love me.Fri Nov 13 1992 11:1414
    It is true that there are individuals here who express theological
    points of view that others might find offensive.

    It is untrue that this conference is "about" putting forward any
    theology, particularly one that anyone happens to disapprove of.  The
    reality is that anyone who writes a note here objecting to a theology
    expressed here is too a participant of this conference, and therefore
    is is part of what this conference is "about".  The conference has no
    theology, and it puts forward no theology; it is the individuals who
    participate here who have theologies.  The conference offers a forum
    where people of diverse theologies, including those being trashed by
    certain individuals here, can express them.

    -- Mike
9.562CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistFri Nov 13 1992 11:279
>    Unfortunately /john, we have no name that would embrace both the
>    masculine and feminine aspects of God.

	Fortunately Karen, we have a name that embraces both the masculine
	and feminine aspects of God. It is "Father." Only the most sexist
	or those ignorent of the role of father would deny that role having
	both masculine and feminine aspects. Or those trying to insult.

			Alfred
9.563COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 11:347
If this conference has no theology, then why is it called
"Christian-Perspective"?

The Christian Perspective is that worshipping a Goddess is
mortal sin.

/john
9.564DEMING::VALENZATo note me is to love me.Fri Nov 13 1992 11:5520
    Perhaps you are confused over the distinction between content and
    subject matter.  The subject matter of this conference is Christianity;
    the content is up to the individuals who participate here.  Individuals
    can adhere to whatever theology concerning Christianity they want, and
    in fact freely do so.  There is a notes file that conflates content and
    subject matter--it is located on GOLF.  In that notes file, not only is
    the subject matter controlled by the moderators, but only certain
    theologies *about* that subject matter are allowed to be expressed
    there.

    If you have a problem with the name of this conference, that's
    unfortunate, but the fact remains that this conference has no theology. 
    "This conference" does not worship a Goddess; individuals who
    participate here have every right to do so.  While we all appreciate
    your opinions on what constitutes "The Christian Perspective" on
    Goddess worship, this conference exercises no censorship over people
    who feel otherwise.  If you want to participate in a notes conference
    that does exercise this kind of censorship, press keypad 7.

    -- Mike
9.565Or are you suggesting I should be censored?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 12:022
Perhaps you confuse my rebuttal of and disapproval of non-Christian statements
by moderators of Christian Perspective with censorship.
9.566DEMING::VALENZATo note me is to love me.Fri Nov 13 1992 12:0913
    Since your "rebuttal of and disapproval of" allegedly non-Christian
    statements by partipants was made in the context of your false
    assertion that this notes file has a theology, it was reasonable to
    infer that you wish for the notes file to have a different theology
    than it currently has.  Since the only way for the notes file to "have
    a theology" would be through censorship, such as implemented by the
    moderators of GOLF, then your complaints about a non-existent theology
    of this notes file could only be addressed through censorship.
    
    But perhaps you now admit that this notes file has no theology.  If so,
    then there is no disagreement.
    
    -- Mike
9.567COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 12:2810
I think it can be quite confusing for people as to whether the discussions in
this conference are to represent primarily a Christian Perspective or not.

Especially considering what 1.0 says -- especially about non-Christian topics.

If we agree that "the Goddess" is a non-Christian topic, maybe we should
consider how _repeated_ references to this pagan concept can and should be
reconciled with 1.0.  Especially coming from a moderator.

/john
9.568DEMING::VALENZATo note me is to love me.Fri Nov 13 1992 12:4529
    Whether or not discussions in this conference represent primarily what
    you consider to be a Christian Perspective or not is entirely up to the
    theological composition of its participants.  

    Allow me to fill you in on a little history.  This notes file was
    created in no small part in response to the censorship exercised by the
    moderators of GOLF.  That notes file imposes certain theological
    "standards" that determine which opinions on matters of theology can be
    expressed there.  For you to wish for this notes file to impose
    precisely the censorship that was the purpose for this notes file's
    creation would be to eliminate that purpose; this conference would
    simply be a GOLF clone.

    What you seem to want this notes conference to do is contrary to its
    purpose.  If you want the imposition of a theological standard, I once
    again offer you the opportunity to press keypad 7; I am sure that you
    will be happy participating in GOLF.  If your complaint is that this
    notes file exists at all, that's unfortunate, but the moderators are
    not going to impose a theological standard here simply because you want
    it.  That would defeat the reason for its existence.

    If you don't like the charter and purpose under which a notes file
    operates, you are always free to create your own.  Carrying out a
    guerrilla war against it, in the hopes that it will someone become what
    it was precisely created not to be, is not going to get you anywhere. 
    We've been through these discussions from the moment it was created;
    participants from GOLF wanted to mold this file in the image of GOLF. 
    Well, that just isn't going to be--at least I hope not!  If it ever
    does, I'll be among the first to leave.
9.569COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 12:5620
Can you find any notes by me that there should be censorship in this
conference?  (Maybe you can; I'm not sure.)

What I have done is deplored the fact that this conference, under the
name "Christian Perspective" and under the charter in 1.0, has become
a forum for certain people in positions of authority in this conference
to present very non-Christian views -- views that most of us can agree
are non-Christian.

The censorship I see is your call for me to go elsewhere when I complain
that certain things being presented here (especially references to "the
Goddess") are manifestly contrary to Christianity, and not just to the
practice of Christianity which I practice, but to _any_ historic definition
of Christianity.

The Christian (and Jewish or Moslem) Perspective is that such a drastic
reformulation of the nature of God is not only not Christianity, but is
paganism, a serious violation of the First Commandment.

/john
9.570DEMING::VALENZATo note me is to love me.Fri Nov 13 1992 13:0928
    You say that you are not in favor of censorship, yet you complain that
    people present what you consider "non-Christian" views.  Your objection
    is over the existence of these opinions that you disagree with, here in
    this notes file.  Since this conference exists in no small part to
    allow a wide range of views to be expressed here, then how do you
    propose to prevent those opinions from being expressed here, except by
    censorship?  What is the purpose of complaining about the existence of
    certain opinions you disagree with being put forth, if not to wish for
    those opinions *not* to be expressed here?
    
    It is hardly censorship to ask people who object to hearing opinions
    that they don't like to simply NOT LISTEN TO THEM.  If you don't like
    the contents of a magazine, my suggestion is that you don't buy it.  If
    you don't like the opinions expressed on a television show, change the
    channel.  And if you don't like the fact that opinions you don't like
    are expressed here, go to another notes conference, or else create your
    own.  Not liking opinions that you hear is simply a null and void
    complaint against a notes conference (with the exception of those
    expressions that violate P&P).  What do you propose for people to do
    about this?  Not express those opinions?  If not, if you accept the
    right of various opinions that you object to being expressed here, then
    what's the complaint?
    
    It's really very simple.  Either these opinions that you object to
    should be allowed here, or they shouldn't.  If you agree that they
    should be allowed here, then there is no problem.
    
    -- Mike
9.571GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerFri Nov 13 1992 13:1013
Note 1.0 was written by one of the original moderators, Bob Fleischer, and
reflects his perspective.  (It's his workstation so he got to write 1.0).
Bob also chose the conference title.  But there are other perspectives
here besides Bob's.  Even though the moderators agree on many things,
probably each moderator has a slightly different idea of what this
conference is about.  For example, Bob Fleischer doesn't seem to be
comfortable with the word "Goddess", while other moderators freely use it.

Yes, it's confusing when there is a mixed message from the moderators, but
diversity is one of the most important virtues (as I see it) of this
conference.

				-- Bob
9.572CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 13:2818
    Alfred .562,
    
    > Fortunately Karen, we have a name that embraces both the masculine
    > and feminine aspects of God. It is "Father." Only the most sexist
    > or those ignorent of the role of father would deny that role having
    > both masculine and feminie aspects. Or those trying to insult.
    
    Alfred, then you have here an opportunity to enlighten.  Please do so
    without the disparaging comments.  I don't know if the insights you
    have on the word "Father" have been presented here before.  I am
    interested in hearing them, but I would greatly appreciate you doing 
    so without pronouncing me as the most sexist or ignorant, or as 
    deliberately trying to insult, just because I do not see things as 
    you do, nor had the chance to.  
    
    Thank you.
    
    Karen                         
9.573DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 13:3812
    RE: .562  Alfred,
    
    
    			Again, we slide down into a semantics issue. 
    Actually "Abba" is more closely translated into "daddy", however
    thinking God has only the masculine traits is fostered by the use of a
    term associated with a specific gender...."Father".  This is why
    English is not a very good language to translate into as I have
    mentioned many times.  These issues constantly arise due to our lack of
    sensitivity toward other's.  I like Supreme Being.
    
    Dave
9.574rambling...TFH::KIRKa simple songFri Nov 13 1992 13:4634
As a member in good standing of a mainstream church (Episcopal) I am happy to 
say that I see a healthy mix, for myself, of ideas both within and without my 
Christian knowledge and experience.  Those within my purview serve to bolster 
my foundation and strengthen what is helpful while those without help me to 
examine that foundation for cracks that need repairing, and to broaden that 
foundation.

I particularly welcome entries that share of the participants' love, pain,
grief, experience and knowledge, especially when presented as their personal
perspective, whether or not they claim to be Christian.  For those who share
burdens which have alienated them from Christianity, I would seek, though
imperfectly at times, to demonstrate the love that Christ brought to the whole
world, not focusing on converting that person to Christianity, but simply to
show the love of Jesus in the world. 

Many times in the Gospels, Jesus answers questions about what one must do to
follow him, but there are also many times when he takes a person's burden upon
himself with no admonition of "I've done this for you, now you'd better follow 
me".  Unconditional love, with no strings attached, can be very hard to come 
by.

People read what they read and hear what they hear, and then they decide what 
speaks more directly to them.  It is a function of both the content and the 
tone of the words.  Lies can be sugar coated, the Truth can be wrapped in 
bitterness.  Neither serves to allow Love into the world.

Here's a thought.  What we have in this conference is basically a collection 
of letters to one another.  Imagine that they might someday be canonized in a 
book that will be read for centuries to come.  What missives would you keep, 
what would you discard?  What would you do differently?

Peace,

Jim
9.575JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri Nov 13 1992 14:235
    RE: .570
    
    Well said!
    
    Marc H.
9.576GEMVAX::BROOKSmodified radical feministFri Nov 13 1992 15:4712
.555 and others -

As I understand it, the Goddess is very much a part of Christianity, in the
figure of Mary, albeit in greatly diminished form. 

I believe this is discussed in Marina Warner's recent book Alone of All Her
Sex, for one. Also Matthew Fox talks about it in the 1990 film "The Burning
Times." 

Dorian

9.577CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistFri Nov 13 1992 16:179
    RE: .572 Perhaps you did not mean to suggest that father didn't
    cover both female and male aspects of God. But it looked that way.
    I was of course insulted by that suggestion. Being a father myself
    I don't see a difference in roles of father and mother beyond those
    obvious physical ones (giving birth and providing milk). There are no
    aspects of being a mother beyond those physical ones that I don't
    associate with a father as well.

    			Alfred
9.578COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 16:2512
re .573

It's my understanding that "Abba" is not "Daddy", but a very respectful
form of "Father".  Can anyone confirm or deny?

re .576

Mary is completely human, not a goddess.  As the Mother of the most important
Man that ever lived, she is the spiritual mother of us all, but she does not
give birth to the universe in the manner of the pagan Goddess.

/john
9.579DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 16:387
    RE: .578  
    
    
    			"Abba" is the "diminutive" for of father in the
    Greek.  Most translate it as closest to "daddy".
    
    Dave
9.580re "positions of authority"LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Fri Nov 13 1992 17:3020
re Note 9.569 by COVERT::COVERT:

> a forum for certain people in positions of authority in this conference

        The only authority that the moderators of this conference
        have and exercise is the authority to enforce Digital
        corporate policy -- period.

        There is NO ONE who in this conference has or exercises
        teaching, theological, or religious authority -- period.

        When a moderator -- or anybody else in this conference --
        writes on a religious topic they are not doing so from a
        position of authority.

        Do not regard any moderator in this conference as having any
        religious authority over the religious content of this
        conference -- they don't have any such authority.

        Bob
9.581Abba - transliterated from the Aramaic "Abw"CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 17:3235
    Most Biblical scholars agree that Aramaic was Jesus' native 
    language.
    
    One of the challenging aspects of this language, (which is still 
    used today in areas of the Middle East) is that the root word(s)
    can have several different meanings, and all can apply;  i.e. the 
    root "shm" (pronounced schem) means:  name, light, sound, experience, 
    and atmosphere that extends through all things.  
    
    When the original Aramaic texts were translated into Greek, much 
    of the full aramaic meanings were lost because of the inequities 
    between the two languages, and to make the translation task 
    easier, the Greek translators chose only one interpretation.  
    (For example the root "shm" appears numerous times in the original 
    text.  One of the Greek translations for it was the phrase "Pray 
    in My name", however, its meaning expands greatly when one considers 
    the full meaning of "shm" referenced in the above paragraph.)
    
    Perhaps even more importantly, many Aramaic roots have _both_ 
    masculine and feminine genders identified with them, such as "Abw" 
    from which the Greek "Abba" is derived.  One definition of the 
    Aramaic root "Abw," for example, is "all sources of parenting."  
    But the Greek translations, having no gender inclusive terms, 
    chose the masculine gender for those Aramaic words which were 
    gender inclusive.  (And according to Aramaic scholars Klotz and 
    Errico, the Greeks choose to transliterate most feminine gender 
    Aramaic words into a Greek word with neutral gender.)  The end 
    result is that most of the gender inclusive aspects of God which 
    are obvious in the Aramaic language, get lost as they were 
    converted into strictly masculine terms in the Greek.
    
    For further reading:  Prayers of the Cosmos:  Meditations with the 
    Aramaic Jesus -- Neil Douglas-Klotz.
    
    Karen
9.582GEMVAX::BROOKSmodified radical feministFri Nov 13 1992 17:598
.578

Nevertheless, in the persistence of such pronounced reverence for Mary over
so long a period of time -- and in the proliferation of cathedrals dedicated
to Mary during the Middle Ages -- there are strong parallels with the
reverence for the Pagan Great Mother Goddess. 
    
9.583COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 18:3110
re .579

>"Abba" is the "diminutive" for of father in the
>Greek.  Most translate it as closest to "daddy".

Sources, please.  What is the non-diminutive form?

This doesn't seem to agree with Karen in .581

/john
9.584CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 18:4917
    Actually it is very compatible /john.  One definition of the Aramaic 
    "Abw" as mentioned is "all sources of parenting."  The Greek "Abba" 
    meaning "daddy" captures, probably as close as possible, the Greeks
    translation of this ultimate "parenting" activity.  Again, since they 
    do not, have a gender inclusive word for "Abw", they opted for daddy 
    over mommy, and instead of daddy and mommy.  
    
    It's common for people to conceptualize God in anthropomorphic terms, 
    therefore it would've been a challenge to present God as both daddy and
    mommy.  The Aramaic people did not have that issue, apparently.  Notice
    too, that many translations of Aramaic language are highly nuanced and
    rich in metaphors.  Abw, the "source of all parenting" has a more
    poetic nature than anthropomorphic.  Thus, this points to just some of 
    the innate challenges, I think, inherent in rendering a comprehensive
    translation of some of the old Aramaic texts.
    
    Karen
9.585CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 18:511
    p.s. non-dimunitive form of daddy -- father.
9.586SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkFri Nov 13 1992 19:109
    Such "strong parallels" need to be elaborated upon.  

    The devotion that Roman Catholics and other Christians have to the
    Blessed Virgin Mary and to the other saints is not the worship that is
    due to God alone.

    It is insulting to have my beliefs characterized in such a way so as to
    support the idea of a "Pagan Great Mother Goddess".  Such a
    characterization is pagan by definition and not Christian.
9.587DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 19:2118
    RE:  .586
    
    		
    >the devotion that Roman Catholics and other Christians have to the
    >Blessed Virgin Mary and to the other saints is not the worship that is
    >due to God alone.
    
    
    >It is insulting to have my beliefs characterized in such a way so as to
    >support the idea of a "Pagan Great Mother Goddess".
    
    
    		Ok.  Lets talk about insults.  I find it offensive that a 
    person would believe that *ANYONE* other than God needs to be prayed
    to.  Then you talk about pagan....ok....Catholics pray to "icons" the
    Greek word for idol...explain that to me.
    
    Dave
9.588DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 19:3911
    RE .587
    
    		Let me explain that I am not belittling *ANYONE'S* belief here
    and certainly not the Roman Catholics.  But I am trying to point out
    that words can be misleading unless you investigate what is meant by
    them.  God by *ANY* other name is still God and there is only one.
    I have heard *NO ONE* claim to be pagan and yet you insist on putting
    that label on them.  
    
    
    Dave
9.589COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 19:4917
re .587

Doesn't this conference have a "Prayer request" topic?

I don't know anything that Catholics do that you described in .587 that
is different than what you do in this conference when you ask (pray)
that someone might pray for you or for an intention.

Christians believe that we can ask other Christians to pray for us.
The Bible says that "not even death will separate us" (this is the
communion of saints), thus, even though someone is no longer alive
in this world, we believe s/he is alive in Christ, and that through
Christ we can pray that s/he pray for us or for our intentions.

"icon" does not mean "idol", it means "picture" or "represenation".

/john
9.590COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 19:5514
>    p.s. non-dimunitive form of daddy -- father.

Very funny.

Though I may be wrong, it is my understanding that "Abba" is a respectful
title for "Father", and not a dimunitive.

If "Abba" is a Greek diminutive, as it is claimed, I would like someone
to provide a linguistic source documenting this.  We've just had someone
claim that "icon" means "idol" (which it doesn't) and that "angel" is a
Hebrew word (which it isn't); so I think you can see why I'm skeptical and
am asking for sources.

/john
9.591COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 20:0010
BTW, I didn't expect to find it in my dictionary, but it's there:

    Abba [Middle English, from Late Latin, from Greek, from Aramaic abba]
    FATHER -- a title of honor given variously to the Deity in the New
    Testament, to bishops and patriarchs in many Eastern Churches, and
    to Jewish scholars in the Talmudic period.

I submit the claim that "Abba" is a diminutive is spurious.

/john
9.592DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 20:018
    
    		Well I haven't seen anything from you either but I will 
    check with my Strongs Exhaustive Concordance.  Chuck Swindoll, John
    McArthur, Dr. Charles Criswell and other agree about "Abba".  And I
    think your mincing words with the word Icon....but we'll see.
    
    
    Dave
9.593SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkFri Nov 13 1992 20:1811
    You insult Catholics and myself by claiming that we pray to "icons".

    Icons are images of God and the saints and serve the purpose that
    photographs and paintings do and in a pious way allow the mind to
    focus on prayerful thought.

    You used insulting language "icons the Greek word for idol" without even
    being certain.  The words are distinct in meaning and etymology.

    What motivates you to accuse Catholics of praying to idols?  Do you
    sincerely believe this?
9.594DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 20:4326
    RE: .593  Mr. Sweeney,
    
    
    				So.....you may insult other beliefs but no
    one can yours?  Interesting.  What you fail to see is that your
    (Catholics) praying in front of icons can be thought of as "praying
    to".  Doesn't feel very good does it?  But non-the-less its there and
    your constant desire to place your belief above all others at their
    expense is also insulting.  Am I certain of icon being "idol"?  Yes I
    am!  But thats my belief, supported by a priest of your own faith that
    I interviewed while I looked into the Catholic Church.  But its *MY*
    belief and you cannot take that away from me, just as your's is yours.
    
    		My *ONLY* motivation is to point out that accusations can
    also be made against your beliefs just as you do against others here in
    this file.  Your calling those who use the word "Goddess" as pagan is
    also insulting and yet you still do it.  Why?  Because you believe that
    your right?  Ok...have you ever thought that they might think that they
    are right?  
    
    		As a rule I do not discuss others beliefs but I had to in
    this case because of your "insulting" statement about "pagans".  What
    you have been seeing in others, you do.  
    
    
    Dave
9.595COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Nov 13 1992 20:4929
>And I think your mincing words with the word Icon....but we'll see.

Icon and idol have different Greek roots.

"eikon" means an image or represenation.

"eidolon" means a phantom, shape, type, image of God.

Both the 2nd Council of Nicea (787) and the Council of Trent forbade both
the worship of icons and the desecration of images of saints.  Both Councils
differentiated the forbidden worship from the practice of creating images of
saints to recall them and their devotion to God.  It is false to claim that
Catholics worship icons; instead, they are used as means of calling ourselves
to imitate their holy lives.

The Eastern Orthodox view, specified by St. John of Damascus, is:  "Just as
in the Bible we listen to the word of Christ and are sanctified, ... in the
same way through the painted icons we behold the representation of his human
form ... and are likewise sanctified."

St. Basil wrote: "The honor shown to the icon passes to the prototype."  It
guides us to a vision of the divine Kingdom where past, present and future
are one.  It makes vivid our faith in the communion of saints.  From the
2nd Council of Nicea: "The more frequently [icons] are seen, the more those
who behold them are aroused to remember and desire the prototypes and to
give them greeting and the veneration of honour; not indeed true worship
which, according to our faith, is due to God alone."

/john
9.596DPDMAI::DAWSONt/hs+ws=Formula for the futureFri Nov 13 1992 21:0317
    
    		This little exercise has been useful and yes I did it on
    purpose because its the only way I could think of to show you what your
    doing.  
    
    		What I neglected to share was what the Priest said to me
    when I asked the question "why do you pray to icons?".  He related that
    "to" was the wrong word, but it was a reminder of what is in your
    heart.  A beautiful illistration of where you mind and heart should be.
    This is a also professed by Christ.  Its not enough to *NOT* do
    something but you need to not *WANT* to do these things.  Its what is
    in your heart and not what seems to be physical.  The same thing go for
    words....its the meaning and not what *YOU* think the meaning is thats
    important.  
    
    
    Dave
9.597SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkFri Nov 13 1992 22:2330
9.598CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineFri Nov 13 1992 23:4035
    Alfred .577,
    
    > Perhaps you did not mean to suggest that father didn't cover both
    > female and male aspects of God.
    
    Yes, I did mean to suggest that.
    
    > I was of course insulted by that suggestion.
    
    Sincerely not intended.  But why be "insulted"?  I've not been
    enculturated to conceptualize father as covering male and female
    aspects of God.  Is that so unbelievable?
    
    > ...I don't see in roles of father and mother beyond those obvious
    > physical ones (giving birth and providing milk).  There are no aspects
    > of being a mother beyond those physical ones that I don't associate
    > with a father as well.
    
    Okay.  Well if the roles of mother and father are so interchangeable
    and so mutually inclusive of each others roles and attributes, (which 
    btw, I agree with) why do you feel insulted if I or others use the word 
    "mother" or other feminine descriptives in talking about God.  What's 
    causing your discomfort and the taking of personal offense, Alfred?  
    I don't understand.
    
    And because I share similar feelings with what you've written in .577,
    and I know Jesus referred to God at times in a gender inclusive way,
    (looking at Aramaic texts) I don't have any issues at all with conceiving 
    and talking about God in terms of Father-Mother and/or God-Goddess.  
    That's my reasoning for using such terms and descriptors.  
    
    Can you understand why I do this, and that I do it without intending 
    offense to you or anyone else?  
    
    Karen   
9.599CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineSat Nov 14 1992 00:0330
    Patrick,
    
    I don't know what kind of comparative study or research you've done 
    into the pre-Christian religions, and I'm not expert, but from the
    research I have done, there are many highly-regarded authors which 
    have made parallels and associations between Christianity and
    the early matrilineal or Goddess-based religions.  What makes the
    sharing of such information "bigotry"??
    
    And as far as attacking the Catholic faith and devotional practices, I
    just want to say that as a child growing up non-Catholic, I always
    looked forward to the few times I went to Mass with my friends.  I
    loved the devotional practice of praying with the various saints and
    religous icons.  My neighbor, this little old lady who I thought was
    crazy, had a statue of Mary out in her garden and I used to derive
    great comfort praying in its presence.  So I just want to say I really
    appreciate, and for whatever reason, have always loved, this aspect of 
    Catholic devotion, even from the little I really know about it - 
    theologically speaking.  (I also treasure two statues I currently have
    of Saint Fiacra? and Saint Francis.)
    
    Anyway, I've read similar associations made between recognizing a
    divine female form (Goddess) and the devotion showed to Mary.  My own
    feeling about it is that many Christians will naturally gravitate and 
    desire to express a devotion and faith to not only a male image but a 
    female one as well.  I believe this because deep in our hearts there 
    is a knowing that the Most Divine is neither one nor the other, but
    both.
    
    Karen
9.600SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkSat Nov 14 1992 00:2110
9.601CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineSat Nov 14 1992 01:2517
    It's my guess, Patrick, that most of these critics are non-Catholics.
    
    I can see how they might interpret devotion and honor of the Blessed
    Mother as idolatory.  And there's the crux of the matter, actually 
    in most matters, I think -  people "interpret" other's experience(s)
    all the time.   
    
    And the Catholic who endeavors to explain it more fully will rarely,
    if ever perhaps, be able to "convince" the critic.  Not because they're 
    deficient or inarticulate, but because there's a much deeper truth and 
    experience of sanctity in the Catholic experience (as with other
    faiths) that is ineffable.  And so from those people there may always 
    be criticism.  But I think if the critics could experience the sanctity 
    of this presence themselves, their criticism would undoubtably unfold
    into Grace.
    
    Karen 
9.602SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkSat Nov 14 1992 01:5610
    Karen,
    
    Roman Catholics don't insist that all Christians practice special
    devotion to Mary.  There is no special devotion to Mary that is
    required of Catholics beyond attendence at Mass on the feast of her
    Glorious Assumption and the feast of her Immaculate Conception.
    The common ground for belief regarding Mary is the virgin birth of
    Jesus.
    
    I'm asking for tolerance of our beliefs, not ridicule of them.
9.603An olive branch?DLO15::DAWSONSat Nov 14 1992 08:5542
9.605CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineSat Nov 14 1992 13:3011
    .602,
    
    Mae culpae, Patrick.  I didn't mean to imply that Roman Catholics 
    insist on special devotion to Mary, rather I was trying to comment 
    on devotional practices in general.  But I can see where my note 
    may seem to indicate otherwise.  (That's the risk when you have 
    a non-Catholic commenting on the Catholic faith.)  My apologies, 
    and thanks for setting possible misconceptions straight.
    
    Peace,
    Karen  
9.606CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineSat Nov 14 1992 14:098
    re: "Abba"
    
    	"The relation between Father and child in the term Abba or "papa"
    	is a deeply intimate one" (Fox, 1983, p. 67).
    
    The translation of Abba as "papa" is also supported by Edward
    Schillebeeckx, theologian, who Fox cites several times in _Original
    Blessing_.
9.607JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Nov 16 1992 11:285
    RE: .594
    
    Excellent Dave ! You have made the point quite well.
    
    Marc H.
9.608CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistMon Nov 16 1992 11:4028
RE: .598

>    Sincerely not intended.  But why be "insulted"?  I've not been
>    enculturated to conceptualize father as covering male and female
>    aspects of God.  Is that so unbelievable?
 
	No it's not unbelievable. It's just that that is such an old fashioned
	sexist attitude that I did not expect it from you. 

>    Okay.  Well if the roles of mother and father are so interchangeable
>    and so mutually inclusive of each others roles and attributes, (which 
>    btw, I agree with) why do you feel insulted if I or others use the word 
>    "mother" or other feminine descriptives in talking about God.  What's 
>    causing your discomfort and the taking of personal offense, Alfred?  
>    I don't understand.

	I don't like the substitution of mother for father in this context
	because it implies that the word and role of father is less than that
	of mother. The use of father is traditional and what Jesus uses. Why
	change it if not to imply that the role of father is not fully good
	enough to apply to God? That is what I don't understand and why I
	believe it is a put down. There is also the idea that Goddess is very
	closely identified with non-Christian religions. Much more so than
	God because the use of femenine terms for God are not found in the
	Bible. Thus I feel it's use is more confusing than enlightening and
	is more detrimental than positive.

			Alfred
9.610What(!) is the big deal?MORO::BEELER_JEDon't mess with TexasMon Nov 16 1992 15:5427
    Someone has *got* to help me out here ... I'm lost ... I've seen
    conference after conference (non-work-related) that I don't like
    or don't agree with.  I do my best to "explain" my position with
    respect to the subject matter at hand .. and .. well ... if the
    result is not to my liking I go somewhere else.

    The best description of VAX Notes that I've ever heard was the
    comparison to an electronic cocktail party.  There's little groups
    of conversations going on all over the place .. if you don't really
    like and/or agree with one conversation you take your martini and
    mingle on over to another conversation.  As a final resort if you
    don't like anything about the party you take your hat and leave
    the party.

    It never ceases to amaze me that people continue to hang around
    parties that they don't like.  Help me to understand why people
    do such things?  If there are those who are so (obviously) depressed
    at what *they* perceive as the purpose of this conference *should*
    be and what *they* perceive the conference *is* ... and they are
    (literally) voices in the wilderness .. why don't they take their
    hat and coat and look for the door?

    No, I'm not by the wildest stretch of the imagination suggesting
    that I want anyone to leave .. but .. good grief ... it's only
    a party.

    Bubba
9.611JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Nov 16 1992 16:087
    RE: .610
    
    Agreed Bubba.....by the way, I've been meaning to talk to you about
    the liquor being served at this party. Where's the Old Grandad?
    This white wine with breu cheese is not for me.
    
    Marc H.
9.612B Y O B MORO::BEELER_JEDon't mess with TexasMon Nov 16 1992 17:221
    
9.613re AbbaCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 17 1992 04:3229
                            THE FINAL BLESSING
                                   from
                     The Divine Liturgy of St. Basil

May God have compassion upon us, bless us, manifest His face upon us and
have mercy upon us.  Lord, save Your people, bless Your inheritance, pasture
them and raise them up forever.  Exalt the horn of the Christians through
the power of the life-giving Cross, through the supplications and prayers
which our lady, the lady of us all, the holy Theotokos Saint Mary, makes
for us, and those of the three great holy luminaries Michael, Gabriel, and
Raphael; the four Incorporeal Beasts, the twenty four priests, all the
heavenly ranks; Saint John the Baptist, the hundred and forty four thousand,
our lords the fathers the apostles, the three holy youths, Saint Stephen;
the beholder-of-God St. Mark the evangelist, the holy apostle and martyr;
Saint George, Saint Theodore, Philopater Mercurius, Saint Abba Mina, and
the whole choir of the martyrs; our righteous father, the great Abba Antony,
the righteous Abba Paul, the three holy Abba Macarii, our father Abba John,
our father Abba Pishoi, our father Abba Paul of Tammoh, our Roman fathers
Maximus and Domitius, our father Abba Moses, the forty-nine martyrs and
the whole choir of the cross-bearers; the just, the righteous, all the wise
virgins, the angel of this blessed day; and the blessing of the holy
Theotokos first and last.

May their holy blessing, their grace, their might, their favour, their
love and their help be with us all forever.  Amen.

O Christ our God, King of peace, grant us Your peace, establish for us
Your peace, and forgive us our sins.  For Yours is the power, the glory,
the blessing and the might, forever.  Amen.
9.614moderator actionCARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 17 1992 13:035
    Please be advised, the last 4 notes regarding pre-Christian religions
    have been moved to their own topic, #554.
    
    Karen
    Co-Moderator, Christian-Perspective
9.615CARTUN::BERGGRENdrumming is good medicineTue Nov 17 1992 13:237
    Alfred .608,
    
    I see.
    
    Abwoon bless you and keep you,
    
    Karen 
9.616JURAN::VALENZAGo ahead, note my day.Mon Nov 30 1992 11:358
    >It's part of the clique's routine...
    
    Please identify the members of this alleged "clique", and what criteria
    are used to assign them to this clique.
    
    Thank you.
    
    -- Mike
9.617CSC32::J_CHRISTIEStrength through peaceMon Nov 30 1992 18:159
    .616
    
    I have come to understand that when our brother says things like that,
    he's simply expressing his perception of being the outsider here, as
    well as other painful feelings.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.618CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace WarriorThu Dec 31 1992 16:0812
Note 229.142

>    It seems fitting that the traditional teaching regarding the
>    transmission of human life in marriage remains a object of laughter
>    here.

I regret that my remarks continue to be such a thorn in your side, Patrick.

No malice was intended in 229.141

Richard

9.619*clusionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO3-2/T63)Thu Jan 07 1993 12:5320
re Note 571.144 by CSTEAM::MARTIN:

>     Its funny Mike how your exclusionary statement toward John is the same
>     attitude that purported you to leave the "Christian" notefile and aid
>     in starting "Christian Perspective".
  
        Individuals in this conference, including the moderators when
        participating as individuals, are free to promote, espouse,
        and discuss exclusionary as well as inclusionary notions.

        The difference I see is that this conference as a forum is
        inclusionary rather than exclusionary.

        However, individuals are urged to "be true to themselves"
        (within the bounds of Digital company policy).

        (In fact, the conference's inclusionary policy should allow
        all exclusionists, and not just some, to be heard.)

        Bob
9.620CSC32::J_CHRISTIECelebrate DiversityThu Feb 11 1993 15:4311
I can understand the feeling of being overwhelmed by the number of responses
a Notes entry might provoke.  At the same time, I understand that it's partly
the nature of the beast (Notes, that is).

If I see that a number of replies to a note have accumulated, I try to withhold
a reply of my own unless I think I can add something to the discussion.  I
confess, my sense of restraint is not always the greatest. ;-)

Peace,
Richard

9.621CSC32::J_CHRISTIERise Again!Wed Mar 24 1993 16:067
    626.0
    
    I'm concerned that this will lead to confusion.  I am, however,
    willing to listen.
    
    Richard
    
9.622BUSY::DKATZI touch the future - I TEACHThu Apr 15 1993 11:4622
    this seems like the best place to put this:
    
    I wanted to share this news with the friends I've made here --
    
    Last night, I received an informal job offer to participate in the
    teacher mentor program at Punahou Academy in Honolulu!!!!
    
    
    
    I'M GOING TO BE A TEACHER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    8-)
    
    Next Fall, I'll be teaching two sections of high school English and
    assisting in the drama program (not to mention -- living in Hawaii!!!)
    
    This has been my dream for *so* long now...and it's finally going to
    come true!
    
    anyway, I just wanted to share that!
    
    Daniel
9.623JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAThu Apr 15 1993 12:059
    RE: .622
    
    I'm really glad to heat that! Congradulations.
    
    I applied to the engineers into education program in the past....
    couldn't get in at the time. Its still something that I really
    want to do.
    
    Marc H.
9.624Hooray for Daniel!!!!ROKEPA::REINKEAtalanta! Wow, look at her run!Thu Apr 15 1993 13:1111
Wow Daniel!  Talk about manifesting one's dreams!!!  From your notes 
in -wn-, I know how long and hard you've worked towards this goal and 
now to have it become a reality in such an unbelievable way!  You're 
an inspiration to any of us who are working at creating their reality.

Terrific news!!

Bless you!!!

Ro

9.625MAYES::FRETTSwe're the Capstone generationThu Apr 15 1993 13:136
    
    RE: .622 Daniel
    
    Now *that* sounds like a great job! :^)  Congratulations!
    
    Carole
9.626AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webThu Apr 15 1993 17:368
    Daniel,
    
    Congratulations!
    
    Now how are you going to note from Honolulu?
    
    
    Patricia
9.627BSS::VANFLEETHelpless jelloThu Apr 15 1993 20:179
    YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    I'm so happy for you, Daniel!!!!
    
    Congratulations!
    
    :-D  :-D
    
    Nanci
9.628...or the highwayCSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Wed Apr 21 1993 15:059
Note 637.34

>Please see what I'm saying from my viewpoint so that our discussion
>can amicably and fruitfully be pursued.

This struck me as the most telling remark I've seen here in a long time.

Richard

9.629JURAN::VALENZASanitized for your protection.Wed Apr 21 1993 17:1312
    >The clique here goes further than to deny that there will a judgment
    >and accounting for the way we choose to conduct our lives, they
    >insist that this Christian perspective is narrow-minded.
    
    "The" clique?  Please identify the members of "the" alleged clique.  I
    am sure that we would all be interested in seeing the list of names.
    
    And if you are unwilling to be specific and back up that slanderous
    comment by naming names, then I suggest that you cut the crap and cease
    using that term.
    
    -- Mike
9.630JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 21 1993 17:156
    RE: .629
    
    I'm with you on that , Mike. Smart A%^ cracks like the one from Pat
    do *nothing*, absolutely, *nothing* to foster a Christian Spirit.
    
    Marc H.
9.631SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkWed Apr 21 1993 17:282
    I regret that you found the term offensive and will not use the word in
    the future.
9.632Sincere Thank YouJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 21 1993 17:435
    RE: .631
    
    Thank you Pat. Can't ask for more.
    
    Marc H.
9.633the ol double standard rears its headCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistThu Apr 22 1993 11:554
    Clique is more offensive then sect? Wow, never would have guessed based
    on dictionary definitions.

    			Alfred
9.634JURAN::VALENZASanitized for your protection.Thu Apr 22 1993 12:2910
    First of all, the word "sect" isn't offensive at all to many of us, and
    in any case it is not a direct personal attack in the way that "clique"
    is.  The comment about the "clique" was contained in a snide commentary
    about the noters who participate here, while the discussion of "sect"
    was made in the context of a sincere disagreement over the definition
    of the word, it was not directed as an attack against the noters here,
    and the name "sect" was not applied in a way that was intended to be
    demeaning, insulting, or snide.
    
    -- Mike
9.635surely you jestCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistThu Apr 22 1993 14:427
    RE: .634 Clique is not offensive at all to some of us. And I did not
    see it as an attack though I did see the use of the word sect that way.
    
    I admit that I find *you* being critical of "snide commentary" as
    humorous.

    		Alfred
9.636JURAN::VALENZASanitized for your protection.Thu Apr 22 1993 15:0028
    Oh, give me a break.  While one might *take* the word "sect" as an
    insult, you can't seriously believe that it was intended as such by
    those who were using the term.  The word was used with innocuous
    intention, given a definition that Richard supplied, and, most
    importantly, it was not used to characterize the noters here in a
    negative way.  The use of the word "clique" *was* a commentary on the
    participants here, and it was expressed in a negative personal attack
    against the participants here.  If you can't see the distinction
    between taking insult at a personal characterization directed directly
    at you, and taking offense at the use of a theological term that
    doesn't have any personal implications, then I'm sorry, but there isn't
    much I can do to help you.

    Of course, since we all know that you *never* write anything snide or
    obnoxious in this notes file :-), I can see where your confusion lies. 
    However, I am glad to take this opportunity to clear it up for you.

    I will be the first to admit that I I often say things here that I
    probably shouldn't.  However, as you are fully aware, that does not
    invalidate my point whatsoever about the snideness involved in the use
    of the world "clique".  Regarding the insult that you directed at me,
    all I can say is that while, perhaps, turning the other cheek in
    response to your frequently obnoxious notes here would be the proper
    response, it is often difficult for we frail humans to live up to that
    high standard.  I for one will try to be more patient and Christ-like
    in response to you.

    -- Mike
9.637CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Thu Apr 22 1993 15:106
    Patrick has always portrayed himself here as an outsider from some
    exclusive "in-crowd," hence, a clique.  It is entirely imaginary,
    a delusion, a lie.
    
    Richard
    
9.638DEMING::VALENZASanitized for your protection.Thu Apr 22 1993 15:177
    It has been my experience that when you are warm to people, they are
    more likely to like you than when you are hostile to them.  The
    negative reaction that one gets from frequently evincing hostility has
    nothing whatsoever to do with any alleged cliques.  It has everything to
    do with human nature.

    -- Mike
9.639CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Tue Apr 27 1993 15:4332
Note 604.63

>>    	You're probably referring to the term "clique;" the use of which
>>   did not offend me, but which I asserted was false.

>    Wrong. Your memory is too short. Perhaps you remember topic 91? And
>    there have been other times as well. The use of the term "goddess" to
>    refer to the one true God is at least as offensive as using the term
>    "baby killer" for abortionists, "queer" for Gay and Lesbians, and on
>    and on. If you expect people to use non-offensive words for somethings
>    you should expect that of everyone.

My problem is that I can understand why someone would take offense at
being labeled a "baby-killer" or "queer," but I do not understand why
the gender identification of the Deity, particularly the female identity,
would be offensive or taken so personally by some.

Surely God is bigger than this.

It reminds me of the complaints Pilate received about the 'crime' for which
Jesus was being punished.  Some pleaded for the placard to be changed to
say, "Claims to be King of the Jews," instead of "King of the Jews."  A
big thing, yet it is a petty thing, too.

I'm not sure I understand what you're saying about topic 91.  Though emotions
have run high at times, I've noticed that, generally speaking, there's a
great deal of self-restraint and maturity practiced there.  I sincerely
doubt that you, my friend, would even desire to use the term "queer" in 91.

Peace,
Richard

9.640When you pray, say: "Our Father, ..."COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Apr 27 1993 15:507
The issue isn't gender identification, Richard.

The issue is invoking a pagan goddess, rather than God.

And doing so in the Christian Perspective conference.

9.641DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Apr 27 1993 16:357
    
    	What exactly leads you to believe that the term "Goddess" is pagan?
    Is it possible that their belief is that God is androgineous and are
    only making a political statement?
    
    
    Dave
9.642I know.... keep quiet and step to the rear.....DEMING::SILVAMemories.....Tue Apr 27 1993 16:528


	But Dave, politics and God don't mix.... well, unless politics = God...



Glen
9.643JURAN::VALENZAMy note runneth over.Tue Apr 27 1993 17:0918
    My admittedly limited understanding of Hinduism is that its many gods
    are perceived as being different aspects of God (if someone more
    knowledgeable than I wants to elaborate on that or correct this, please
    feel free.)

    I think many feminist Christians may look at the Goddess as simply an
    aspect of God.  The "available God" is what we in our finite
    understanding can comprehend about the "actual God", who is infinite
    and beyond our complete comprehension.  Referring to the Goddess instead
    of God the Father would simply involve replacing the lens through which
    we view God with another one, no more and no less.  Given the pain that
    women suffer through the sin of sexism, it may have desirable
    consequences and serve as a means for some women to better their
    relationship with God.  From that perspective, there would be no
    contradiction between the Goddess and Christianity, and by invoking the
    Goddess one would also be invoking God.

    -- Mike
9.644CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistWed Apr 28 1993 13:339
>My problem is that I can understand why someone would take offense at
>being labeled a "baby-killer" or "queer," but I do not understand why

    So that's it is it? Complaints are valid if you understand them but not
    if you don't? It's not enough for people to say they're are offended
    and act offended - you know they're not really offended unless you can
    understand why they're offended? Frankly I don't understand.

    			Alfred
9.645DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Apr 28 1993 13:4010
    RE: .644  Alfred,
    
    			It occurs to me that this may very well be how
    religious wars begin.  People become so offended by the semantics of
    the situation that any communication is impossible.  Don't take me
    wrong, I'm not taking sides but looking at both.  Very constructive and
    interesting conversation.
    
    
    Dave
9.646CVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistWed Apr 28 1993 13:464
    RE: .645 Also having one side invalidate the feelings of the other
    doesn't help things. This invalidation is what my .644 complains about.

    			Alfred
9.647JURAN::VALENZAMy note runneth over.Wed Apr 28 1993 13:5424
    I think the issue is, as I pointed out earlier, that there is a big
    different (in my mind, anyway) between taking offense at name calling
    and taking offense at someone affirming a theology that you don't like.
    The former case involves personal attacks and insults against other
    people; the latter case involves nothing of the kind.  Equating the two
    is, in my view, not appropriate at all.  It is the difference between
    taking offense at "You are a jerk" and taking offense at "I believe
    that God has attribute X".

    If someone is offended at the first kind of statement, then I think
    they have a legitimate complaint--it was a personal insult, after all. 
    If they are offended at the second kind of statement, my reaction is,
    "Well, that's a shame, but that's your problem."  Intolerance about
    positive theological affirmations expressed by others is simply not in
    the same category as being hurt by a personal characterization of other
    people.  If we started shutting down discussions on that basis, then
    there could not possibly be any religious dialogue whatsoever, because
    anyone could claim to be offended by anybody else's heartfelt religious
    beliefs.  Now if one went one step farther and said, "I believe that
    God has attribute X, and your beliefs about God are stupid", then we
    are getting back into the personal realm once again, and that is a
    legitimate issue that needs to be addressed.

    -- Mike
9.648DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Apr 28 1993 14:0320
    RE: 646  Alfred,
    
    			Ah....theres that word again.  Sorry, but I never 
    did understand the word "invalidate" as it is associated with feelings.
    I remember Womannotes trying to drive that into my head but it didn't
    quite take. :-)  Sure I can recognize what your feelings are but to
    "validate" them?  Or worse yet to "invalidate" them?  Seems to me that
    to properly validate someones feelings you need to *FULLY* understand 
    what they are saying and feeling at the time.  Since I cannot read
    minds and I'm not a very good empath, I guess I'll always "invalidate"
    others feelings.
    
    		Now Alfred I went thru all that to show that semantics can
    interrupt communication and send it spinning down the abyss.  I think I
    understand what your saying but I will never be completely aware of
    exactly what your trying to say and what that means.  When we begin to
    pick on individual words it becomes even worse.
    
    
    Dave
9.649CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Wed Apr 28 1993 15:5820
Okay, Alfred.  Let's say it's valid to be offended by someone referring to
God as Goddess.  Whether I understand it or not matters little.  I was
merely processing.  This seemed like an appropriate string in which to do
that.

Now, for a solution.  Since some may be offended by strictly masculine
characterizations of the Deity, we might consider asking all participants
to use simply the letter G.  Actually, this might even please some of
our Jewish guests.

But if another way is possible, I would rather not do this.

I would rather simply urge all participants to be sensitive of each others
perspectives.

Anybody got any better ideas?

Peace,
Richard

9.65020374::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Apr 28 1993 16:3214
Re: .649 Richard

>I would rather simply urge all participants to be sensitive of each others
>perspectives.
>
>Anybody got any better ideas?

What do you mean by "sensitive", Richard?  If I am an agnostic and other
people are offended by that fact, do I need to be careful not to write
anything that might suggest that I doubt the existence of God?  If Dorian
believes in the Goddess and other people are offended by that fact, does
Dorian need to be careful not to refer in any way to the Goddess?

				-- Bob
9.651CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Wed Apr 28 1993 16:5112
    .650
    
    Oh, Bob.  I don't know.
    
    This is not a sheltered environment.  Our shields, to use a Star Trek
    term, are never up.
    
    The down side is that the orthodox and unorthodox alike all feel they're
    being picked on, invalidated, or worse.
    
    Richard
    
9.652from Lazarus Long perhaps?TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Apr 28 1993 17:0911
This reminds me of the Two Rules for Utopia (I forget where I first heard 
them).
		#1.  Try not to rile others too much.

		#2.  Don't be too easily riled yourself.

Very similar to the Golden Rule, I think.

Peace,

Jim
9.653JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 28 1993 17:523
    Letter G......oh, I don't know....it can't be as bad as that!
    
    Marc H.
9.654STUDIO::GUTIERREZCitizen of the CosmosThu Apr 29 1993 13:5012
    
    	I prefer to call God as " " because it is unpronouncible,
    	it can't be humanly spoken, that way we don't degrade the 
    	idea.  Here is a quote I saw in a book.
    
    		When " " thinks, " " makes universes.
    
    		When we think, we make ourselves.
    
	    			
          		Juan
                            
9.655SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Apr 29 1993 14:104
    "...we make ourselves"  That's a perspective that isn't a Christian
    perspective.  All of us are made by God.
    
    Or you want to want to discuss what "make" means?
9.656here we go again....BUSY::DKATZI touch the future - I TEACHThu Apr 29 1993 14:111
    
9.657Is that clear enough ?.STUDIO::GUTIERREZCitizen of the CosmosThu Apr 29 1993 14:2422
    	
    
    	RE. .655
    
    	I don't mind answering that question from Pat.  What it means
    	is that as a person thinks so he/she is.  If you think you are
    	a sinner, you are a sinner.  If you think you are free, even if
    	you are in prison, you are free.  If you think you are lonely, 
    	even when sorrounded by hundreds of people, you are lonely.  
        If you think you are never alone even though there is no-one
    	around, then you are not alone.
    
    	If you think you are a failure, then you are a failure.  If you 
    	think you can succeed, then you are on the way to success.  If you
    	think you can be better than you are, then you are on your way 
    	to becoming better.  It all depends on your mental state.
    
        That is what is meant by "Mind is the Builder".
    	I hope that's clear enough.
    	 
			Juan
                                       
9.658SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu Apr 29 1993 14:378
    I believe you have confused "is" with "make", unless you want to apply
    a broad definiton of "make" here, like the aphorism "clothes make the
    man" and I don't believe you have denied creation by an act of God's
    love and will as held by Christians.
    
    Taking what you wrote as I think you meant it to be read, we return to
    the recurring theme of relativism, the concept that an act is right or
    wrong only in the mind of that person.
9.659STUDIO::GUTIERREZCitizen of the CosmosThu Apr 29 1993 14:589
    
    	I afirm that creation was an act of love and *will* of " ", once we 
    	were created, we make (mold) ourselves by what we think, so what I am 
    	today is the result of all my past thoughts and actions.   I let my
    	conscience, intuition and "still" voice within tell me what is
    	right/wrong for me, which *may/may not* be right/wrong for someone 
    	else.  Each individual has to find his/her own answers.  
    
    			Juan
9.660Perhaps at a later dateCSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Thu Apr 29 1993 16:325
    I have deleted Note 651 "Francis of Assisi," and all it's replies
    (which were all my own) due to lack of participation.
    
    Richard
    
9.661CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Tue May 04 1993 20:3212
Collis 662.30,

	I'm not some journalist who feels obligated to present both sides
of an issue.  Moreover, I believe balance in itself is a matter of relative
perspective.

	If someone takes exception to my perspective as a Christian, they're
certainly entitled to verbalize it.  It has been my experience that in such
instances there is generally very little hesitation to do this.

Richard

9.662TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayWed May 05 1993 14:3013
Re:  9.661

I hardly consider most journalists to be the epitomy of
fairness.  Be that as it may, I had some hopes that when your
one-sidedness was pointed out to you that you would reconsider
your decision to avoid saying anything favorable about a
position you ultimately disagree with.  In my opinion, this
is an affront to truth.

Instead, you choose propoganda.  This is certainly your right,
however it does cause me to lose respect for you.

Collis
9.663nausea from within my stomachMR4DEC::RFRANCEYdtn 297-5264 mro4-3/g15Wed May 05 1993 14:5610
    and Collis, "however it does cause me to lose respect for you" (re .-1)
    seems so unnecessary and hurtful to say or write to someone and is that
    kind of tone which has driven me to be pretty much "read only" over the
    past several months.  I really think God weeps and the nails seem
    driven further into the flesh when hostilities rage within what once
    God had earlier created and had been so pleased with - humans.
    
    	Peace, Collis, peace.
    
    	Ron
9.664TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayWed May 05 1993 15:2216
I am sorry to be seen as hurtful.  Indeed, I am not as
sensitive as I should be.  The tone that I have is one of
sincerity and honesty - much as I would address a friend
that I disagreed with.  There is no malice present on my
part nor is any intended.  Perhaps this explanation will
allow you to see this statement in a different light, but
perhaps not.

The statement is true whether or not I express it.  I do
believe that we should be pursueing more than simply a sharing
of perspectives or a pushing of our own (or God's) agendas.  I
also believe that we should respect truth.  I lose respect for
anyone who refuses to do so.  I, again, am sorry if this is
insensitive to say.

Collis
9.665balance depends on where you standCSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Wed May 05 1993 17:2315
Note 9.662

>I hardly consider most journalists to be the epitomy of
>fairness.

Indeed, a common perception.  Yet journalists are taught, I assure you,
to be objective and neutral, to present both sides of an issue fairly
and impartially.  All perspectives seem to agree that most journalists
fail miserably.

As you doubtlessly know, there is a news segment to every installment of
the 700 Club.  Some people actually believe these reports are fair, accurate,
and balanced!

Richard
9.666TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayWed May 05 1993 18:566
  >Some people actually believe these reports are fair, accurate,
  >and balanced!

I expect that sometimes they are.  :-)

Collis
9.667SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkThu May 06 1993 11:255
    The point surely is that while the 700 Club (Pat Robertson's talk show)
    is an advocate for Christianity and doesn't conceal that, the three
    networks and CNN do try to claim "objectivity" and deny that they are
    an advocate for secularism and they deny that they are hostile to
    Christianity.
9.668DEMING::SILVAMemories.....Thu May 06 1993 16:348


	Richard, I think it might have something to do with anything that comes
from a church will be considered unbiased by most church goers.....


Glen
9.669no bias there!TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayThu May 06 1993 18:343
Re:  .668

Now there's a fair-minded reply...
9.670In appreciationCSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Fri May 07 1993 16:5314
	I feel moved to speak up in appreciation of our own Collis Jackson
Yes, Collis and I operate from differing paradigms and I know it's not always
easy to relate with persons who have perspectives very dissimilar to one's
own.

	However, Collis has been with us from the outset, now approaching
three years, and I think that speaks very highly of him.  Collis' conduct
has been civil and considerate.  Yet, Collis has consistently presented his
point of view without apologizing for it.  (Nor should Collis or anyone feel
compelled to apologize for their beliefs)

Peace,
Richard

9.671TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayFri May 07 1993 17:111
Why thank you, Richard.
9.672Hear! Hear!WELLER::FANNINFri May 07 1993 18:509
    Yes, Collis, I appreciate you, too.  I have been thinking about how
    grateful I am to you for assisting me in working through the pain of my
    childhood.  

    The Christ within you shines.

    Love,

    Ruth
9.673Red Herring Alert!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Fri May 14 1993 22:0317
Note 654.55

>>Since women were said to not be created in the image of God ...

>I really wish you would stop proclaiming this without backing it
>up.  I have told you before that it is not true.  Now, please stop.

>I consider this harassment, this constant lying about my religion.

You haven't got a leg to stand on, John.  All that Patricia was indicating
is that, right or wrong, that was the understanding of her friends at the time.

Since it was simply a personal observation, it cannot accurately be called
a lie.

Richard

9.674And I would like to see it stopCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertSun May 16 1993 19:2913
It's not a personal observation when Patricia constantly puts forth the
falsehood that the Church has said that women were not created in the image
of God.

The Church has said no such thing.  In fact, the Church believes that
God has exalted one particular woman to be considered the greatest of
all created beings, higher than all other humans and all the angels,
crowned in glory.

Patricia has made a deliberate slander of an institution that is very
meaningful to many employees.

/john
9.675JURAN::VALENZAIt's flip flop season.Mon May 17 1993 12:138
    >In fact, the Church believes that God has exalted one particular woman
    >to be considered the greatest of all created beings, higher than all
    >other humans and all the angels, crowned in glory.

    That depends on which "Church" you are talking about.  The Christian
    church I was brought up in taught no such thing.

    -- Mike
9.676JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon May 17 1993 12:3911
    RE: .674
    
    John, I can understand your dislike...really. The statements make me
    uncomfortable also. Howevere, I would really think, that the notes
    sections by the agnostics, etc. would be more offensive.
    
    My take? I think that the idea that calling God, father, does *NOTHING*
    against women. To me , its silly to insist on a goddess...but....
    no the less, Pat has a right to continue to talk about it.
    
    Marc H.
9.677?SPARKL::BROOKSMon May 17 1993 12:425
    
    So does this mean that, e.g., instead of saying "Heavenly Father" we
    could be saying "Heavenly Mother"?
    
    Dorian
9.678JURAN::VALENZAIt's flip flop season.Mon May 17 1993 12:4423
    Following up on this idea of "the Church" teaches, I would argue that a
    phrase like that is insulting to Protestants, because the people who
    use that phrase are typically slighting or ignoring Protestants.  What
    they *really* mean is "my church teaches", because they often describe
    teachings that Protestants don't accept.

    Either Protestants are accepted as Christians, or they aren't.  Either
    they are part of the greater Christian Church, one with the body of
    Christ, or they are not.  If one accepts Protestants as legitimately
    Christian, then it would seem to be an insult to them to ignore them
    and what they believe when one states "the Church" teaches.

    Take out the definite article, and replace it with "my", and you solve
    the problem.  I thus would suggest that contributors to this notes file
    would do everyone a service if no longer used the phrase "the Church
    teaches", and instead replaced that with a more acceptable phrase, such
    as "my church teaches", "my denomination teaches", "the X church
    teaches", or "Churches X, Y, and Z teach".  Leaving out any description
    of *which* church you are talking about implies a universality of
    doctrine among Christians which may not exist (such as when describing
    the veneration of Mary.)

    -- Mike
9.679Mary, the choir director of heaven!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon May 17 1993 13:0214
Well, I don't know -- it seems that an awful lot of Protestant Churches
sing the following; I know it's in both the Presbyterian and Methodist
hymnals:

O higher than the cherubim,
O higher than the seraphim,
Lead their praises, Alleluia!
Thou bearer of the eternal Word,
Most gracious magnify the Lord!
Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia! 

That clearly puts Mary higher than all created beings.

/john
9.680JURAN::VALENZAIt's flip flop season.Mon May 17 1993 13:077
    Presbyterians and Methodists do not constitute all of Protestantism.
    The church I was brought up in, which is affiliated with the North
    American Christian Convention, and which is theologically similar to
    the Southern Baptists, does not put Mary above all other created
    beings.
    
    -- Mike
9.681COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon May 17 1993 13:1115
Too bad.  This loss of the respect due to women and to one woman in particular
is possibly one of the reasons that women feel disenfranchised.

When you take the Whole Faith, women are given equal standing with men, and
many of them are given great honors.

Yet when you rip out a part of the religion, you leave women feeling
disenfranchised.

There is no need to create a new religion; no need to restore goddess
worship.  The Whole Faith, the complete Faith of the Apostles, the most
authentic teaching of the Church has honored women and continues to do
so.

/john
9.682SDSVAX::SWEENEYPatrick Sweeney in New YorkMon May 17 1993 13:248
    The foundation argument of Patricia, namely that the Roman Catholic
    Church teaches that women are not made in the image of God is
    factually false, insulting to my faith, and it is often repeated here.

    The consequent discussion is not over if and where this teaching
    appears in the Bible or the doctrine of the Church, but in mocking
    anecdotes, and my "defensiveness" of what my Church teaches and what I
    believe.
9.683JURAN::VALENZAIt's flip flop season.Mon May 17 1993 13:4219
    I am sure that the practitioners of my childhood faith would strongly
    deny that they are ripping anything out of the religion; I think they
    would see the veneration of Mary as something added to the faith.  But
    I am certainly in no position to expound on their beliefs, since I have
    long ago left that church, and am not an expert in their theology.

    I think we have to recognize sexism where it exists.  Even my current
    denomination, which has believed in the spiritual equality of men and
    women throughout its 350-year history (in contrast to the official
    misogyny of most of Christianity), has not been immune from sexism
    in practice.  Patricia brought up the issue of ordination of women; it
    is a little like comparing apples and oranges, since Quakers don't
    ordain *anyone*, but the denomination has believed that men and women
    are equally capable in the art of ministry.  However, Quakers are as
    much a part of society as anyone else. and there have certainly been
    sexist attitudes among Quakers over the years.  Where that sexism
    exists, it can and should be legitimately criticized.

    -- Mike
9.684CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDeclare Peace!Mon May 17 1993 15:498
Some would try to cover up the ills of the past, denying they ever existed,
claiming harrassment and insult, and bitterly wailing and gnashing their teeth.

I refused to be intimidated by such behavior.  And I am frankly ashamed that
some observers may come to believe that these reactionary behaviors are
the norm among the representatives of Christ.

Richard
9.685Re: The Processing TopicQUABBI::&quot;ferwerda@loptsn.nuo.dec.com&quot;Tue May 18 1993 16:5943
In article <9.684-930517-114856@valuing_diffs.christian-perspective>, j_christie@csc32.enet.dec.com (Declare Peace!) writes:
|>
|>Some would try to cover up the ills of the past, denying they ever existed,
|>claiming harrassment and insult, and bitterly wailing and gnashing their teeth.

	We're all sinners after all.

|>I refused to be intimidated by such behavior.  And I am frankly ashamed that
|>some observers may come to believe that these reactionary behaviors are
|>the norm among the representatives of Christ.

	I agree that there are times when we should be ashamed.  On the other
hand we need to recognize when we should be ashamed and when we shouldn't.
The fact that a behavior is reactionary (if I understand the word) doesn't
say anything about its rightness or wrongness, although we usually mean it
in a negative sense. There are some reactionary behaviors that should be
the norm.  For example, I'm confident that you wouldn't be ashamed if friends
believed that it was the norm among Christians to condemn pre-marital sex,
although these days that is an extremely reactionary attitude. That is not
to say that Christians don't fall as well.

	I'm pretty sure that in your first paragraph you're refering to 
Christ's failure to ignore the sexist stereotypes of his day in his
references to God, but someone less discerning might think you were applying
it to more than just that.

|>Richard
|>

Paul

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9.686COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue May 18 1993 17:5236
re Note 9.685 by QUABBI::"ferwerda@loptsn.nuo.dec.com"

>I'm confident that you wouldn't be ashamed if friends believed that it was
>the norm among Christians to condemn pre-marital sex, although these days
>that is an extremely reactionary attitude.

A court in Germany just declared biblical morality to be immoral:

>In einer aufsehenerregenden Entscheidung hat das Arbeitsgericht
>Loerrach einem Homosexuellen im Streit gegen ein kirchliches
>Behindertenheim Recht gegeben. Laut Urteil verstoesst die Morallehre
>der katholischen Kirche, die vor- und ausserehelichen sowie gleich-
>geschlechtlichen Sexualverkehr verbietet, nicht nur gegen die guten
>Sitten, sondern auch gegen die Verfassung. Sie sei mit 'wesentlichen
>Grundsaetzen des deutschen Rechts' unvereinbar, heisst es in der erst
>am Freitag (14.5) bekanntgewordenen Entscheidung vom August 92.

In a sensational decision the Loerrach labor court has found in favor
of a homosexual in a dispute with a church operated home for the disabled.
According to the decision, the moral teaching of the Catholic Church,
which forbids premarital, extramarital, and homosexual intercourse, is
not only opposed to good morals but also opposed to the Constitution.
It is irrecocilable with "essential principles of German law", according
to the decision in August 92 first announced on Friday the 14th of May.

>....
>Das Gericht stuetzte sich in seiner Entscheidung auf Erkenntnisse der
>Sexualwissenschaft und schloss daraus:'Die geschlechtliche Betaetigung
>in Formen, die die katholische Glaubenslehre missbilligt, gehoert zum
>Regelverhalten' und somit zur menschlichen Natur. Deren Schutz aber
>sei hoeher zu bewerten als der Moralkodex der Kirche.

The Court based its decision on findings of sexual science and determined
"Sexual activity in forms which Catholic religious teaching disapproves
belong to regular behaviour" and thus to human nature.  Their protection
is to be more valued than the moral code of the Church.
9.6871939THOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Tue May 18 1993 19:3512
>The Court based its decision on findings of sexual science and determined
>"Sexual activity in forms which Catholic religious teaching disapproves
>belong to regular behaviour" and thus to human nature.  Their protection
>is to be more valued than the moral code of the Church.

    Sounds like the rights of a few have been protected.

    Judaism was likewise deemed "immoral."  What followed has been
    almost universally condemned.  Perhaps the Germans are trying
    not to make the same mistake again.  A courageous step.

    Tom
9.688Should DEC be forced to employ someone in league with IBM?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue May 18 1993 19:514
>    Sounds like the rights of a few have been protected.

Sounds like the right of the Church to decide whom to employ has been
trashed.
9.689THOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Tue May 18 1993 19:5812
>Sounds like the right of the Church to decide whom to employ has been
>trashed.

    Yes, if its decision is based not on ability or willingness to 
    work but on "political/religious" correctness.  DEC must follow
    the same laws

>        -< Should DEC be forced to employ someone in league with IBM? >-

    What are you implying here?

    Tom
9.690COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue May 18 1993 20:176
What am I implying?

Well, should DEC continue to employ me if I tell our customers that DEC
is wrong and IBM is right?

/john
9.691metaphors?THOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Tue May 18 1993 20:2711
>Well, should DEC continue to employ me if I tell our customers that DEC
>is wrong and IBM is right?

    Is this an analogy or simply a statement in its own right?  If it
    is a simple statement, what is it doing here?  It seems out of
    context.

    If, in the analogy, DEC is the church, "you" are the homosexual,
    then who is IBM?  (all metaphorically, of course.)

    Tom
9.692Or the World? Our Spiritual Enemies?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue May 18 1993 20:361
The court, maybe?
9.693THOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Tue May 18 1993 20:537
    So the Church shouldn't accept:

		people who live in the world?
		people who work on the court?
		people who are associated with the Church's 
			spiritual enemies?

9.694mod reminderLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO2-2/T63)Tue May 18 1993 21:124
The last eight replies or so constitute an interesting and relevant 
discussion but do not belong in the "processing" topic.

Bob
9.695COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue May 18 1993 22:253
re .693

Well twisted.
9.696logical conclusionsTHOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Wed May 19 1993 14:0813
>Well twisted.

    Perhaps, but my point here is that if homosexuals are
    refered to as in league with "spiritual enemies" of 
    the Church that's similar to saying they are in league
    with the devil.  This sort of reasoning has gotten out
    of hand in the past with horrific results.

    Although the Pope disagrees with the homosexual lifestyle
    I don't think he believes they are in league with the devil
    nor that they should be mistreated because they are homosexual.

    Tom
9.697TLE::COLLIS::JACKSONRoll away with a half sashayWed May 19 1993 14:4718
Re:  .696

We all oppose God when we sin.  In this sense, we are all
"in league with the Devil" who encourages and promotes
disobedience to God (sin).

Those who submit to Jesus through faith in His blood-sacrifice
are filled by the Holy Spirit and have supernatural power to
resist sin as well as an atonement for their sin.  They are
in league with God, even when they disobey Him (sin).  Those
who have not accepted Jesus through faith are opposed to God
(reference in I John 1:5-9 for all of this is one of many
references) and, as such, are "in league with the Devil".

Those who choose constant disobedience to God are not "in
league with God".

Collis
9.698COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed May 19 1993 15:0012
>    Although the Pope disagrees with the homosexual lifestyle
>    I don't think he believes they ... should be mistreated because
>    they are homosexual.

Is it mistreatment for a Church to ask its employees to at least _try_
to live the kind of lifestyle the Church proclaims to be the right way
to live?

Is it mistreatment to refuse to employ someone who actively speaks out
against the philosophy of their employer?

/john
9.699JURAN::SILVAMemories.....Wed May 19 1993 16:3013



	Sigh..... John, I had thought you base your decision on how well the
person will be able to do the job. Maybe your view of life is different. But
something to think about, this is a huge company. Look at all of the different
types of people that work here, their values, their <insert anything>. Do all
of us = the philosophy of Bob Palmer? I bet we don't, but as a group we are
doing well. 


Glen
9.700COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed May 19 1993 17:262
re .699
-
9.701GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed May 19 1993 17:319
Re: .700 John

>re .699
>-

Interesting.  This could be interpreted to mean "I have seen your note and
have chosen to ignore it."  I guess maybe it's a blessing...

				-- Bob
9.702DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed May 19 1993 17:369
    RE: .701  Bob,
    
    			Yeah...I would agree.  There is however a part of
    me that would like to delete such notes as they only take up disk space
    and offer nothing to the subject.  But...some people feel the need to 
    publically inform everyone that they are ignoring them.  An odd kind of
    editorial.
    
    Dave
9.703prioritiesTHOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Wed May 19 1993 17:3912
    I'm going to reiterate what I see as importent here:

    When you start painting people as being in league with the 
    devil because their sexual/racial identity differs from yours
    you set up an atmosphere where atrocities can occur.  Germany
    is especially *painfully* aware of this.  The court acted wisely.

    I find it is wiser to learn to love your fellow human than to
    find reasons to condemn him/her.  I somehow remember Christ
    saying something similar about priorities.

    Tom
9.704CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed May 19 1993 17:4416

 RE .699



 I'm not John, but I'm curious as to how you would label a Christian organiza
 tion, that subscribes to the teaching that certain activities are sinful, that 
 employs an individual that freely pracitices that sin and shows no sign of
 repentance, and said organization ignores that sin.





 Jim
9.705Good and bad distinctionsDATABS::FERWERDADisplaced BeirutiThu May 20 1993 13:0331
    re:                <<< Note 9.699 by JURAN::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
    
    
    >	Sigh..... John, I had thought you base your decision on how well the
>person will be able to do the job. Maybe your view of life is different. But
    >
    >Glen
    
    It sounds good in theory but I suspect that nobody really believes that
    it works when it comes to organizations that are organized around
    fundamental philosophical perspectives.  According to your argument,
    the NAACP should hire a racist as long as the racist can do her job, or
    a Jewish organization should hire a Nazi, or an orphanage should hire
    someone who feels there is nothing wrong with having sex with young
    children.  Even if the employee does the objectionable behavior on
    their own time I can't see the NAACP being comfortable with an employee
    who marches in KKK marches, nor should they have to.  I see a profit-making
    corporation as different in that it is organized to make money and
    very often it doesn't really see a connection between employee's
    behavior or views and their work.  The typical corporation isn't
    taking a stand (although maybe it should) on what are appropriate and
    inappropriate attitudes. It seems to me that by definition, the NAACP,
    B'nai B'rith (sp? 8-) ), etc. stand against certain attitudes by
    definition, as do most churches.
    
    
    Am I making distinctions where there aren't any?
    
    
    Paul
    
9.706Does this help?JURAN::SILVAMemories.....Thu May 20 1993 13:1334
| <<< Note 9.704 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>




| I'm not John, 

	But you play one on tv? ;-)

| but I'm curious as to how you would label a Christian organiza
| tion, that subscribes to the teaching that certain activities are sinful, that
| employs an individual that freely pracitices that sin and shows no sign of
| repentance, and said organization ignores that sin.


	Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.
But one thing to remember is the person, using government law can, if they
choose, go after the church if they feel their rights had been violated. I
guess it would depend on what the church viewed as a sin. Take for example on
last nights news. The Church of Christ came under fire from former members as
many felt it was a cult. This one lady mentioned how she was going to go on a
business trip and the church said she was a baby Christian (with the church for
only 10 weeks) and that she should not go because of this reason and that it
would be a sin if she disobeyed the church. Another woman was told she had to
attend church meetings 4-5 times a week. If she missed just one, she was
sinning. So I guess what I am trying to say is just because a church may label
something a sin, it doesn't mean that it really is.





Glen
9.707CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu May 20 1993 13:3934
RE:               <<< Note 9.706 by JURAN::SILVA "Memories....." >>>
                              -< Does this help? >-


>| I'm not John, 

>	But you play one on tv? ;-)


 :-)

  

>	Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
>sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.

 Or by Biblical standards?


>business trip and the church said she was a baby Christian (with the church for
>only 10 weeks) and that she should not go because of this reason and that it
>would be a sin if she disobeyed the church. Another woman was told she had to
>attend church meetings 4-5 times a week. If she missed just one, she was
>sinning. So I guess what I am trying to say is just because a church may label
>something a sin, it doesn't mean that it really is.


 That certainly is questionable on the part of the church, IMO.  I believe
 the Bible should be the standard for what is and is not sin, would you agree?




 Jim
9.708JURAN::SILVAMemories.....Thu May 20 1993 14:4827
| <<< Note 9.707 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>




| >	Jim, if <insert person> is sinning by the church standards and shows no
| >sign of repentance then yes, that church has the right to dismiss the person.

| Or by Biblical standards?

	No, I'll explain why further down.

| That certainly is questionable on the part of the church, IMO.  I believe
| the Bible should be the standard for what is and is not sin, would you agree?

	Now to explain. :-)  I would say no for 2 main reasons. 

1) The Bible is only as good as the person interpreting it.

2) The Bible has flaws so it shouldn't be used as a standard. 


	So this is why I don't agree with what you wrote.



Glen
9.709CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu May 20 1993 15:2114

 Well, I suppose I could ask the question as to what should be used as a 
 standard, but we know where that would go, so I'll drop it.





 Thanks



 Jim
9.710CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWe will rise!Tue Jun 01 1993 16:4811
    689.85
    
    I see nothing in .84 which indicates Daniel's sexual orientation.
    
    Therefore, I take it that either Daniel mentioned it in another entry
    or you took it upon yourself to "out" him.
    
    Richard
    
    I read somewhere recently that same-sex marriages could not be denied
    in Hawaii.
9.711BUSY::DKATZCountless Screaming ArgonautsTue Jun 01 1993 16:5614
    Hi Richard,
    
    Actually, I believe I did make mention of my orientation in another
    string here.  It was in response of a question of John's that had to do
    with what gay people "wanted" in a relationship. can't remember the
    string, however.
    
    John did not "out" me.  I don't mention it often here because there are
    far fewer strings where it is of any relevence in C-P than in some
    fora.
    
    thanks, though!
    
    Daniel
9.712COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jun 01 1993 17:475
He tells us his orientation in note 91.2814.

But thank you for your concern, Richard.

/john
9.713CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWe will rise!Wed Jun 09 1993 17:417
    wallie,
    
    	Will you stop deleting your entries here, please?  These strings
    are starting to appear like the teeth of ice hockey players!
    
    Richard
    
9.714That's the way God made 'im.WELLER::FANNINWed Jun 09 1993 22:5618
    Richard,

    Like a dadaistic artist, it's just Wal's style.

    He deletes notes because the act of deletion is part of his message. 
    Part of what he is saying relates to the temporal illusion of
    everything that we perceive as real.  His notes intentionally have a
    shelf life.

    At first, I also wondered what was going on, but once I tuned into
    Wallie's intent I realized that it's his dance.

    So, if I want to write a reply to one of Wal's notes, I *extract* it
    first!

    Ruth
    
    
9.715CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWe will rise!Wed Jun 09 1993 23:026
    Yeah, wallie sent me e-mail once explaining his position, but wouldn't you
    know it?  By the time I was ready to read it, it had already been deleted.
    
    8-)
    Richard
    
9.716Where have all the noters gone..?VNABRW::BUTTONDo not reset mind, reality is fuzzy !Wed Jul 21 1993 05:4513
    	Good morning!
    
    	Have I missed something, or has the Digital Exodus reached such
    	horrifying proportions?
    
    	Up to a few weeks ago, it was not unusual to find 60-plus unread
    	new notes in CP.  Now it is rare if the number reaches 10.
    
    	At first, I thought it was because of the trouble with the node
    	change/move, but CP has been back up to normal long enough now
    	to eliminate that as the cause. Who knows more?
    
    	Greetings, Derek.
9.717perhaps notes authors ARE the prime TFSO candidates!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (381-0899 ZKO2-2/T63)Wed Jul 21 1993 11:3915
re Note 9.716 by VNABRW::BUTTON:

>     	At first, I thought it was because of the trouble with the node
>     	change/move, but CP has been back up to normal long enough now
>     	to eliminate that as the cause. Who knows more?
  
        I suspect that the node move does cause some of the less
        severely addicted to drop off.

        Anybody out there who wants to do a "dir/all/sin=1-may" and
        see where the authors are now?

        Anybody out there?

        Bob
9.718fewer people doing more workCVG::THOMPSONRadical CentralistWed Jul 21 1993 12:456
    Speaking for myself, my output here and elsewhere has dropped for
    two reasons. One is that I am way behind on a project I'm trying to
    catch up on. The other is that I'm trying to comment only when I have
    something to say and I haven't had much to say.
    
    			Alfred
9.719JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Jul 21 1993 12:526
    I'm still around....but, in general with all the layoffs and low moral,
    I find my excitement level is way off.
    
    My quest for Christianity hasn't changed..though.
    
    Marc H.
9.720CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Jul 21 1993 19:368
There's definately a lull.  Kind of pleasant in a way, isn't it? :-)

In the past I've felt responsible to try to initiate provocative topics.

I'm not feeling so impelled at the moment.

Richard

9.721THOLIN::TBAKERDOS with Honor!Thu Jul 22 1993 14:415
>I'm not feeling so impelled at the moment.

    Or, do you mean "impaled" ;^)

    Tom
9.722Too tired of struggling...CSC32::KINSELLABoycott Hell!!!!!!Thu Jul 22 1993 19:279
    
    Well...I've pretty much been in read only mode.  I just haven't felt 
    real motivated to come back and have any disagreements.  So in a way I 
    feel like I'm on holiday.  That will probably continue as I'm in
    training full-time for the first 2 weeks of August and part-time for
    the last 2 weeks of August and on short vacations on both ends of 
    August.  Yeah!
    
    Jill
9.723CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Jul 28 1993 16:249
I've noticed some contributors spell Christian with a lower case c (christian),
too.  Some use "bible" and "scripture," which are words traditionally
capitalized, as well.  Some choose to even spell their own proper name using
all lower case letters.

I detect no agenda.

Richard

9.724AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webWed Jul 28 1993 17:063
    Some of us mispell words too.
    
    And our grammar sometimes!!!
9.725JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Jul 28 1993 17:193
    I thought that grammer was your mother's mother?
    
    Marc H.
9.726DEMING::VALENZAeman lanosrep polf pilfWed Jul 28 1993 19:0512
    > I detect no agenda.

    Ah, but Richard, the accusation was that there was a *hidden* agenda. 
    So the fact that you didn't detect it is consistent with its
    hiddenness.  You obviously don't have the finely honed skills at
    finding subtle attacks against your church and your faith.

    However, I do demand that you explain and justify your interest in
    agendas.  I think you are clearly biased against agenda-detectors, and
    therefore you have no right to participate in a discussion of agendas.

    -- Mike
9.727JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Jul 28 1993 19:315
    Re: .726
    
    Sounds like an agenda to me......
    
    Marc H.
9.728TINCUP::BITTROLFFTheologically ImpairedThu Jul 29 1993 12:0211
Just to come clean, here is my agenda for this notesfile:

1. To discuss differing views of the world with christians, er, I mean 
   Christians.
2. To help foster tolerance for differing points of view.
3. To engage in lively yet friendly debate with those whose views differ from 
   mine.
4. **THIS AGENDA ITEM HAS BEEN SET HIDDEN**
5. To learn something.

Steve
9.729CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatSun Nov 21 1993 03:219
Note 91.3082
    
>    I must say you've come along way Baby! :-) :-)

Curious you should choose a phrase commercially engineered by a tobacco
company to target women as consumers of cigarettes.

Richard
    
9.730JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSun Nov 21 1993 15:4111
9.731My next entry will be written for me by NancyCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatSun Nov 21 1993 22:2515
    .730
    
    Moi?  Predictable?
    
    Is it me who speaks in cliches?!
    
    I didn't realize that about myself.  Another blind spot, I suppose.
    
    Funny how predictability is considered a flaw, and yet, it's a synonym
    for dependability, consistency, reliability and being well-ordered.
    I wonder how many people who've consciously cultivated the latter only
    to be labelled the former.
    
    In Jesus,
    Richard
9.732JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSun Nov 21 1993 23:286
9.733Oh. <pause> Never mind. :-/CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatMon Nov 22 1993 16:061
    -1
9.734COORS::J_CHRISTIEWar is costly, Peace pricelessWed Dec 08 1993 23:1811
Note 781.9
    
>    In your opinion.  I didn't realize until you said so that this was a
>    problem...therefore, as a moderator redirect the discussion and move to
>    an appropriate note.  

Unlike some other conferences, the moderators here expect each participant
to accept a measure of ownership.  You may wish to browse through Topic 8.
    
Richard

9.735CSC32::J_CHRISTIEWar is costly, Peace pricelessThu Dec 09 1993 00:0524
781.10
    
>    You never cease to amaze me.  I have corresponded with you on and off
>    for a year now and my impression is that you promote a humanistic kind
>    of doctrine, in a Christian Perspective conference no doubt.

I don't see how that's so amazing.  Jesus promoted a humanistic doctrine
in a Jewish culture dominated by Rome.

>    Then you
>    have the gumption to tell me how offensive I am in that I am derailing 
>    the conversation.

I said I didn't appreciate it.  An important topic was being turned into
"another homosexuality note," as Collis might say (and has said before).

>    For what its worth, I have broken bread with some of
>    the participants here who are gay.  Seems I have more tolerance for 
>    gays than you have for fundementalists!!!

Bully for you, Jack.

Richard

9.736CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodSat Dec 11 1993 19:0024
    4.332,

    No.  Thanks for asking though, Nancy.  I hold no grudges.  If you
    reread what I said in 4.319, and depending on your connotations of
    "fundamentalist," I really didn't say anything to get so bent
    out of shape about.

    Not visible to you is that for ease of updating, I have my notebook
    set up thusly:

    MODIFY ENTRY CHRISTIAN/NAME=FUNDAMENTALISM

    And so, it was quite natural for me to refer the file as such.
    
    Forgive me if I have sinned.  Mea culpa.

    In the latter entry I also took the opportunity to demonstate (Not to
    Mark, but to other readers) that the PC business and making sweeping
    unqualified statements cuts both ways.  A pity that the effort apparently
    didn't make a dent.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard

9.737JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Dec 11 1993 20:2417
    Richard,
    
    There are no brooms in my closet... I promise you that.  :-)
    
    Uhmmm... I really was poking fun at you.  No hard feelings, no reason
    to apologize for calling the file or myself fundamental... actually
    it's a compliment, for which I thank you endlessly.
    
    I pray you and yours have a wonderful Holiday Season and May God Bless
    you Abundantly, Richard.    As far as dents are concerned, I've got
    assurance, assurance of salvation from a God that doesn't want us to
    guess our way into eternity. :-)
    
    Love in Him,
    Nancy
    
    
9.738CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodSat Dec 11 1993 21:1312
Note 9.737

>    As far as dents are concerned, I've got
>    assurance, assurance of salvation from a God that doesn't want us to
>    guess our way into eternity. :-)
     ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    
I didn't realize anyone was sending you the message that this was the case.

Peace in Christ Jesus,
Richard

9.739CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Dec 21 1993 17:246
    91.3350  If I were Cindy, I'd be thankful you've made clear your
    potential antagonism *before* risking on any deeper level of
    dialogue.
    
    Richard
    
9.740COMET::DYBENTue Dec 21 1993 17:286
    
    
    ...ah finally someone else to draw Cindy's scorn instead of me :-) :_)
    
    
    David
9.741CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Dec 30 1993 16:149
    798.57
    
    I'm a lover, not a fighter, Collis.  I'm more likely to dry your feet
    with a towel than to throw it into some make-believe ring.
    
    This conference is not a boxing match and I resent the equation.
    
    Richard
    
9.742JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Dec 30 1993 18:2413
    Riochard,
    
    perhaps you are unaware of the phrases of sarcastic banter that you use
    frequently in this conference against certain noters of your
    choosing????????????????
    
    There is sarcastic humor ... which is acceptable, but sarcastic banter
    is the little jab at the left jawbone, that says, "So, there take
    that!"
    
    I've felt it...:-)
    
    Nancy
9.743CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Dec 30 1993 18:2715
Note 812.17

>    Typically for me though, it won't lead to contention unless ridicule or
>    jabs [such as Richard's towards me] begins.  Then I'll respond to them.
    
I did not "jab" you, Nancy.  (I did notice how quickly you picked up the
pugelististic metaphor from Collis, though)

I "called" you.  (A poker metaphor)

If I have sinned against you, please, forgive me.

Shalom,
Richard

9.744JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Dec 30 1993 18:383
    You were forgiven before asked. :-)  Thanks for asking Richard.
    
    Nancy
9.745CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Dec 30 1993 18:406
    .742, Mea culpa.  I am sorry for sinning against you.  My perception
    of the situation is entirely different.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.746JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Dec 30 1993 18:438
    .745
    
    >  .742, Mea culpa.  I am sorry for sinning against you.  My perception
    >  of the situation is entirely different.
      
    I *believe* you.
    
    Nancy
9.747CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Dec 30 1993 23:1322
Note 18.546

> My honest, sincere apologies, Patricia, Richard and anyone else who
> feels I'm taking a jab at them.  I was not.

Actually, Jim.  Your putdown --

>> It means that in the last 100 years we became intelligent enough
>> to question the authority/accuracy/inerrancy of the Bible.

-- implies, "Anyone who disagrees with my more conservative (authority/
accuracy/inerrancy) posture on the Bible is simply foolish."

> Shall I delete it?

No need, as far as I'm concerned.  I believe it was an honest assessment
of your outlook, and I would have taken it that way even if you had singled
me out personally.

Shalom,
Richard

9.748CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Dec 31 1993 14:2911


 See 1 Corinthians 1:18-25, 2:14






 Jim
9.749Lord, thank you for your patience.HURON::MYERSFri Dec 31 1993 18:1213
    re  Note 9.748 by CSLALL::HENDERSON

    This reference addresses the trouble many people in Paul's time had with
    identifying a man who would submit to crucifixion as being the
    manifestation of a powerful and mighty God. It does not refer to the
    relatively modern notion of the Bible (i.e. the collection of stories and
    letters compiled in the book we call the Bible) as being the complete,
    literal and inerrant word of God.

    May the humility of Christ be an example to us all.
    
    
    Eric
9.750CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Dec 31 1993 23:3029

RE:                       <<< Note 9.749 by HURON::MYERS >>>
                    -< Lord, thank you for your patience. >-

   
   > This reference addresses the trouble many people in Paul's time had with
   > identifying a man who would submit to crucifixion as being the
   > manifestation of a powerful and mighty God. It does not refer to the
    
    Yes, however it also tells us that worldly wisdom ( on which the Corinthians
    placed a great deal of value) is the very antithesis of the wisdom of God.


   > relatively modern notion of the Bible (i.e. the collection of stories and
   > letters compiled in the book we call the Bible) as being the complete,
   > literal and inerrant word of God.

    
   Relatively modern notion?  I didn't realize Paul's writings in 2 Timothy was
   considered modern.

 


    Jim



9.751AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webMon Jan 03 1994 12:493
    Except Paul did not write Timothy.
    
                               Patricia
9.752HURON::MYERSMon Jan 03 1994 12:5720
    re Note 9.750 by CSLALL::HENDERSON
    
    >> Yes, however it also tells us that worldly wisdom ( on which the
    >> Corinthians placed a great deal of value) is the very antithesis of the
    >> wisdom of God.
    
    I agree with this insofar as worldly wisdom operates under the confines
    of our understanding of the natural world and the logic we apply to
    that understanding. God's wisdom is of a mystical and spiritual nature,
    unburdened by time, space, or natural-physical laws.
    
    >> Relatively modern notion?  I didn't realize Paul's writings in 2
    >> Timothy was considered modern.
    
    And I didn't realize that Paul had knowledge of the book we call the
    Bible. 
    
    Eric
    
    
9.753Huh?CFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonMon Jan 03 1994 14:439
>    Except Paul did not write Timothy.

"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the command of God our Savior and of
Christ Jesus our hope, To Timothy my true son in the faith:"  1 Tim 1:1-2

"Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus by the will of God, according to the
promise of life that is in Christ Jesus, To Timothy, my dear son:"  2 Tim 1:1-2

-Steve
9.754COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Jan 03 1994 15:044
As discussed elsewhere, Timothy was probably put together by a loyal disciple
of Paul from unpublished Pauline writings.

/john
9.755AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webMon Jan 03 1994 16:006
    Boy,
    
    What hoops we go through when the Bible misreprents facts.
    
    
                                    Patricia
9.756JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jan 03 1994 17:0014
>As discussed elsewhere, Timothy was probably put together by a loyal disciple
                                     ^^^^^^^^
>of Paul from unpublished Pauline writings.

    
    There doesn't seem to be any proof whatsoever that Paul DID NOT write
    Timothy... instead there seems to words used such as "likely" or
    "probably"... all assumptions.
    
    Why does your assumption lend more credit then the verses themselves?
    
    Incredible logic ...
    
    
9.757Paul wrote Timothy. Did Too! Did Too! :-)PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Mon Jan 03 1994 17:1548
Getting back to processing  :-)

Richard,

Our interactions often follow a similar pattern.  To wit:

  - I make a claim
  - you dispute the claim in a way that often includes
    a comment that I perceive as belittling (not to me personally,
    but to those who accept the Biblical claims of inerrancy)
  - I respond with evidence for the claim
  - you back away from making a comment

Sometimes, I push on to the next stage:

  - I, again, show why I believe your comment to be wrong
    covering most of the bases and note that you are avoiding
    the issue
  - you distance yourself further from the issue

As I reflect upon this pattern of communication, I view your
role as simply one who sits back and criticizes while rarely
putting your reasons to the test (since you rarely enter your
reasoning, only your opinions).  This is one of the reasons why
many of us with different viewpoints (myself certainly included)
from you are frustrated or upset at you.  Your hit and run style
promotes such feelings.  Note that this is not dependent on your
viewpoint - Patricia and I, for example, differ in our viewpoints
more than you and I differ, yet I rarely feel frustrated in
talking with Patricia (other than the fact that we disagree :-) ).

I'm not trying to say that you should always attempt to justify
your beliefs or comments.  But I think that it is reasonable to
usually share enough so that one might understand why you believe
what you believe.  The tactic of rarely sharing why you believe
something leads one (leads many of us) to conclude that you have
few reasons to actually believe that and that your comment is mostly
put in to offend (which it often does) rather than to share (since
you rarely follow up in the sharing).

I hope this helps you understand not only how you are perceived,
but why you are perceived this way (at least from my viewpoint).
I recognize that you rarely are attempting to offend (just as I
rarely attempt to offend), but your success at promoting the peace
you sign your messages with is hampered by the content (or lack
thereof) that you include.

Collis
9.758CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Jan 04 1994 16:4617
    .757
    
    I refuse to respond with evidence which I already know you will not
    accept.
    
    And I refuse to participate with my every note structured like a term
    paper.
    
    I've also refrained from answering on occasion because I *know* I
    could not answer without that answer coming across as insulting.
    
    If you want to read something else into my silence, you are free to.
    Meaning, even when wrong, is in people.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.759just being analytical mePACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Tue Jan 04 1994 17:2636
   >I refuse to respond with evidence which I already know you will not
   >accept.
 
You are right that I will not accept your evidence.  And I will
make it quite clear what I *cannot* accept your evidence.  I
will point out the flaws, the hidden assumptions and the bias
that the evidence is presented with.  Surprisingly, sometimese I
actually change my mind or my views based on the reasons that
people (including yourself) present.  Your choices are:

 - stop "hitting and running" by being willing to discuss
   the reasoning behind your opinions

 - be viewed as someone with an agenda constantly being
   pushed who makes comments without justification and
   with little desire for real communication

You have chosen the second option and many (not simply myself
by any means) have decided that this is what you are often
doing.  That is why when you open a new topic (which really was
a reasonable topic to open), you get only comments about your
agenda rather than a discussion on the topic.  We *know* you,
Richard - even better (in some ways) than you know yourself.

I believe that you do not even see yourself in this light.  The
real problem with that is that you are very unmotivated to change
because you don't see a problem with just "being you".  And I don't
write this to bash you - just to explain the constant frustration
that I (and sometimes others) have in attempting to have *meaningful*
communication.  It doesn't happen often with you.  Things will
probably not change.  (I also admit that changes are needed from
my end for more meaningful communication at times.  It is certainly
not all your fault.)

Collis
9.760JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jan 04 1994 17:3913
    We are a way too fragile society.  While I believe that we should not
    seek out to destroy someone with our words, honesty wrapped in
    compassion is better for me, then words being withheld so that
    assumptions can destroy the relationship.
    
    I have a friend who says one thing because she can't say not and
    express what her needs are, and then when the commitment that she
    really didn't want to make comes around, she resents having to follow
    through.  Why?  Because she couldn't say no and hurt someone's
    feelings.  This same inhibition in other forms, destroys the ability
    for intimacy, true intimacy with friends, mates and loved ones.
    
    Nancy
9.761CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Jan 04 1994 17:438
    .759  Should I leave payment for this session with your receptionist?
    
    I guarantee you, anything I might add at this point would be perceived
    as an insult, so you leave me no choice but to praise God.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.762CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Jan 04 1994 17:467
    814.50
    
    Wrong.  You're free to produce all the evidence you want whether or
    not I ever do.
    
    Richard
    
9.763DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Jan 04 1994 17:5315
Collis,

		I am afraid that I cannot accept your "dissection" of 
Richard.  I feel that you have attributed beliefs and conduct that are
erroneous and differ wildly from my experience.  I have known Richard 
to be both loving and caring in his concern for truth.  While the 
Bible is a beautiful book written as a way of life it cannot hold all
of God that we can learn and the belief that the Bible is the first and
last word of God is both dangerous and narrow minded.  It is this very 
narrow mindedness that I feel we need to change and relize that a living
God speaks thru people as well as books.



Dave
9.764PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Tue Jan 04 1994 18:0724
Re:  .763

Dave,

Since I don't believe the Bible is the first and last word
of God, that is not the issue.

Yes, I am narrow-minded.  I believe Jesus is the Savior.  I
exclude all others.  I am narrow-minded.  Broadmindedness in
some areas is an open invitation to disaster.

I believe the prophets of God.  I am narrow-minded.  To disbelieve
them was wrong 100% of the time (as related in the Bible).  To
be broadminded in this area is an open invitation to disaster.

In terms of Richard, I agree with you that Richard is a loving
and caring person.  He *wants* to follow God.  None of that
negates what I said in the slightest (as I see it).  Perhaps
you do not understand how Richard could be loving, caring
and as I describe him in my previous note.  Then again, many
do not see how God can be fully loving, caring and send most
of us to hell for our unrepented sin.

Collis
9.765DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Jan 04 1994 18:2813
    Collis,
    
    		Fine.  I would just ask that you "allow" people their
    belief and not belittle them for it.  And I am sorry but your thoughts
    about Richards beliefs and thoughts got very close to the line on a
    personal attack within the context of this discussion.  You are and
    have been allowed room for your thoughts and beliefs but when those
    discussions turns into a personality discussion, its time to end it.
    Not only is it not Christian (as you have defined it) but it also might
    very well come close to crossing the line for digital notes policy.
    
    
    Dave
9.766JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Jan 04 1994 18:404
    As a neutral observer, I feel that the discussions, while somewhat
    rough at times, sure have made me think!
    
    Marc H.
9.767JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jan 04 1994 19:3814
    I don't see where Richard has been maligned but his noting behavior as
    Collis views their interaction being called out.  And if I know Collis
    at all [which isn't completely intimate], I do believe he's asking for
    change in their communication by bringing out the frustration areas.
    
    I find this Biblical, even Christianlike, I would that more cared
    enough about relationships to try and smooth the contentiousness that
    oftimes exists.
    
    Perhaps a better way to have handled it may have been offline.  I have
    respect for Richard, but I do agree that he oftens throws out tidbits
    of inflammatory remarks on purpose.  Fight and Flight.
    
    Nancy
9.768Some of us don't have as much time as Collis.WELLER::FANNINTue Jan 04 1994 20:0017
    Y'know, it's like having kids...they wear you down because they got
    nothing better to do.  They'll win every time.

    I like Richard's tidbits.  I find them interesting and
    thought-provoking.  I know Richard on a personal basis and the Light
    shines in his eyes.

    And Collis, I'm praying for you too.  I really feel sorry for those
    Christians who are still caught in the entanglements of the Law.  But I
    trust that seeds that are planted in this conference may someday grow
    in your heart and bear the fruit of grace and freedom.

    For me to return to your beliefs would be idolatry.  It would be making
    something (The Bible) more important than God.


    Ruth
9.769PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Tue Jan 04 1994 20:0712
   >For me to return to your beliefs would be idolatry.  It would be making
   >something (The Bible) more important than God.

I'm just giving the Bible its due according to God's
prophets.  I expect you realize that, but you may not
have been thinking in those terms.

Collis

P.S.  The Bible isn't more important than God.  But I know
what you are trying to say.
9.770HURON::MYERSTue Jan 04 1994 20:0713
    I see Collis as the scholarly brother, formally trained and well versed
    and Richard and the self-taught brother, reading scripture and
    interpreting it as his common sense would dictate. And true to form,
    like brothers, they will spar. One prefers detailed exegesis, the
    other witty repartee. One works very hard to stay between the line,
    and the other views all of life as his canvas. Each striving to live a
    life in a way they understand to be the will of God.

    I have the image of Collis as a Banker and Richard as a hippie! :^)
    Go figure... When they're not engaged in tit-for-tat noting, each adds
    tremendously to this conference.

    Eric 
9.771CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Jan 04 1994 22:1411
Note 9.770

>    I have the image of Collis as a Banker and Richard as a hippie! :^)
                           |                      |
                    Thomas Aquinas          Francis of Assisi

Hmmm.  Forgive me for toying with your image, Eric.

Peace,
Richard

9.772HURON::MYERSTue Jan 04 1994 22:506
    re 9.771
    
    Funny. It hadn't occured to me to cast the two of you as saints...
    
    A thousand "yuks",
      Eric
9.773CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodTue Jan 04 1994 23:075
    .772  Consider me duly humbled, Eric.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.774is THAT your personal stand?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed Jan 12 1994 13:3023
re Note 824.23 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     However, in practice of this premise, I see the term Christian
>     being perverted.
>     
>     Therefore, I believe as stated this conference stands for nothing.
>     But, also see sincere, caring and loving individuals participating.
  
        The question is, Nancy, what do YOU stand for?

        Is your message to this conference "this conference stands
        for nothing"?  If so, we hear you loud and clear -- you are
        able to say that (and others are able to challenge you on
        that, too).

        Is your message to this conference "I see the term Christian
        being perverted"?  If so, we hear you -- you are free to say
        that.

        Is that what you stand for, Nancy?  If not, perhaps you
        should be writing something else.

        Bob
9.775JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jan 12 1994 16:1619
    .774
    
    I'm sorry but your note doesn't say very much to me.  If you wish to
    know what I stand for read the notes in which I pour my heart.  See my
    introduction...this will give you what I *stand* for.  
    
    However, if you cannot surmise based on my in-depth responses what I
    stand for, then perhaps eyes are closed as your reading the notes...
    oh, I'm not talking physical eyes, but the spiritual eyes needed for
    discernment.
    
    Yes, I am against the term CHRISTIAN being used for anything other then
    for CHRIST.. and I will not apologize for having said so.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
    His = Jesus
    
9.776Request - Lee Lafferty's addressTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Jan 12 1994 21:0210
    
    This isn't exactly a processing topic...
    
    Does anyone know Lee Lafferty's most recent address?  He sent me a card
    a few months ago, however I've lost it in the piles at home and can't
    find it anywhere.
    
    Thanks,
    
    Cindy
9.777and what does God think of all this?PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Wed Jan 12 1994 21:3810
Yes, Nancy, those who accept the Bible as true see the
term "Christian" perverted in this conference.  This
subject came to somewhat of a head several years ago in
the "Fornicators - and proud of it" topic.  To get a
feeling for the depths that those who like to be called
Christian will sink to, it is worth browsing in that
note.  On the other hand, the title just about sums it
up.

Collis
9.778AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webThu Jan 13 1994 13:536
    I still miss Mike.
    
    Does anyone know how he is doing?
    
    
    Patricia
9.779CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 16:266
    .776
    
    I don't remember Lee Lafferty, Cindy.  Sorry.
    
    Richard
    
9.780CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 16:296
    .777  As if Evangelicals never commit sins of perversion.  As if
    other conferences were blemishless and truly representative of the
    will of Yahweh.
    
    Richard
    
9.781GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Jan 13 1994 16:309
Cindy,

Probably the CHRISTIAN conference is the best place to ask about Lee.

If you send a note or card to Lee, say "hi" from me too.  I enjoyed the
conversation we had at the CHRISTIAN noters party we attended a few years
ago.

				-- Bob
9.782CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 16:317
    .778  Mike's birthday was last week.  Another January baby, like
    Limbaugh, Ali, Elvis, Nixon and me.
    
    Haven't heard hide nor hair of him.
    
    Richard
    
9.783TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Jan 13 1994 16:335
    
    Will do, Bob.  Yes, I remember that party!  That's where I think you
    and I first met too.
    
    Cindy
9.784ILLUSN::SORNSONAre all your pets called 'Eric'?Thu Jan 13 1994 16:3620
    re .776 (TNPUBS::PAINTER)
    
>    Does anyone know Lee Lafferty's most recent address?  He sent me a card
>    a few months ago, however I've lost it in the piles at home and can't
>    find it anywhere.
    
    Boy ... there's a blast from the past.  I remember Lee.
    
    A few years ago Lee moved to Nashua, NH (from upstate NY -- he lived in
    Maryland when he worked for DEC), and we got together once.  I haven't
    talked to him since, but the Nashua phone book lists a:
    
    		Kim & Lee Lafferty 29 Congress Nash
    
    There's no zip code, naturally; and Nashua has several.  I'll e-mail
    you the phone number if you'd like.  I don't remember his wife's name,
    so this is just a guess (but it makes sense).
    
    
    								-mark.
9.785PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Thu Jan 13 1994 16:4521
Re:  .780

Richard,

Why are you putting down other conferences?  Perhaps you
see this as a battle between the two conferences?

If you feel the way I do about some of what has happened
here in this conference, then confess the sins, ask for
forgiveness and move on.

If you are unhappy with my beliefs that all kinds of
perversion have been and are embraced by some of the
participants of this conference, then feel free to make
comments to me and defend those activities.

But what has another conference to do with this?

This conference was not started to condemn other conferences.

Collis
9.786CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 16:5812
    .785  It is apparent to me from your chronic criticisms
    of this conference that you assume a superior one must
    exist.
    
    If you'll re-read .780 you'll see that I put down no other
    conference, but indicated that a blemishless one doesn't exist.
    Neither did I indicate that there were only two conferences.
    
    Perhaps you could use a little word study in this area.
    
    Richard
    
9.787TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Jan 13 1994 17:014
    
    Why do you put down 'liberals', Collis?  
    
    Cindy
9.788COMET::DYBENThu Jan 13 1994 17:3010
    
    
    > why do you put down liberals
    
    
     I know this was for Collis, but I could not resist. I find liberals
    far to often in opposition to christianity. I associate the word
    liberal with the word Hollywood..
    
    David
9.789JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jan 13 1994 17:379
    .788 good answer
    
    Richard,  just what did you mean by your comment?  It sure sounded as
    though you were using a comparative statement to me.  What were you
    comparing to and were you referring to conferences like SOAPBOX? :-)
    
    Very interesting dance move I must say.
    
    Nancy
9.790PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Thu Jan 13 1994 20:0710
  >why do you put down liberals

I strongly oppose many beliefs of liberal Christians.
It is very hard to consistently question and disprove
the beliefs without also putting down the individuals,
although I try.  I apologize for any unkind comments
that may have hurt you and will try to show my respect 
for you despite your beliefs.

Collis
9.791CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 20:0912
    .789  I don't dance, not with my legs anyway.
    
    I was not skirting the issue.  I am not a devious person.  I was not
    referring to any other conference specifically.  If you cannot accept
    that, it is you that has the problem, not me.
    
    FYI, there are a multitude of conferences both inside and outside
    Digital which deal with Christianity and related topics, including
    SOAPBOX.
    
    Richard
    
9.792JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jan 13 1994 21:2126
>    .789  I don't dance, not with my legs anyway.
    
    That's why it was interesting.  Legs had nothing to do with it.  
    
>    I was not skirting the issue.  I am not a devious person.  I was not
>    referring to any other conference specifically.  If you cannot accept
>    that, it is you that has the problem, not me.
    
    I would never use the word devious, mischievious maybe, but devious
    never!  
    
    Richard, your note had a connotation of a snideness towards ANOTHER
    conference.  Now the inferred can never be proven, which is the reason
    its inferred and not named... right? :-)  
    
    BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
    *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
    have the term CHRISTian in its name.  
    
>    FYI, there are a multitude of conferences both inside and outside
>    Digital which deal with Christianity and related topics, including
>    SOAPBOX.
   
    Tell me is that the ol' slip and slide move? :-) :-)
    
    Nancy
9.793aren't you, for example, a "regular participant"?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Thu Jan 13 1994 21:5622
re Note 9.792 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
>     *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
>     have the term CHRISTian in its name.  
  
        Nancy,

        Which regular participants?

        Are you saying that the "consensus of regular participants"
        is that the conference stands for *nothing* (whatever it
        might mean for a conference to stand)?  Or are you saying
        that there is no consensus among "regular participants" about
        what this conference stands?

        It seems to me that the "regular participants" of this
        conference range rather evenly across the
        liberal-conservative spectrum, and also range across the
        believer-non-believer spectrum.

        Bob
9.794you are welcome, but if being here bothers youLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Thu Jan 13 1994 22:0728
re Note 9.792 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
>     *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
>     have the term CHRISTian in its name.  
  
        The Home_Work conference has "home" and "work" in its name. 
        While that conference is VERY rigidly moderated, almost
        anything related to homes, by almost any definition, is
        acceptable there.

        This is that type of conference and I believe it is entirely
        legitimate for our name to reflect the fact that ANY
        discussion regarding Christ as the participant understands
        Christ is acceptable here.

        It would be absurd for the name of this conference NOT to
        have "Christ" in it.  It would be absurd for the name of this
        conference to imply a bias or favor to a particular
        understanding of Christ since this conference was established
        precisely not to be so oriented.

        If you are disturbed by the fact that many in this world
        understand Christ differently than you do, there's little
        anyone can do to help you other than avoiding the occasions
        for hearing such contrary views.

        Bob
9.795CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodThu Jan 13 1994 22:2321
.792  So, Nancy, you distrust me.  I can live with that.

I believe the name Christian is entirely appropriate for this conference,
as much as any other, whether or not all participants claim to be Christian,
and whether or not the fundamentalists like it.

I believe many of the participants here are more genuinely Christian in
thought and deed (belief and action, faith and works) than, say, Jerry Falwell.

You, on the other hand, might have a problem with Bishop John Spong.
        
>    BTW, the reason for my concern and conviction about this conference's
>    *nothing* stand [by consensus of regular participants], is because you
>    have the term CHRISTian in its name.  

Again, conferences do not have stands, people do.  I do not have a "nothing
stand" any more than you do.

Peace,
Richard

9.796JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jan 13 1994 23:1216
    
    Well, you so neatly have taken this conversation and interspersed into
    about 3 topics; lets see if memory serves me the topics are/were 824
    originally 22, 9, 34, ... hmmm where else... so for me to go back show
    you the *nothing* statements from which I pulled the *nothing* [oooh,
    anybody see that movie?] it seems rather a waste of time.
    
    Bob, no-one has indicated that noting here is discomforting, what has
    been said very clearly is that the perversion of the term Christian
    will be challanged by this noter.  
    
    My purpose isn't to antagonize this conference but to discuss, challange 
    and be challanged on spiritual Truths.... the question is can you take 
    the challange without inferring that I should leave?
    
    Nancy
9.797JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jan 13 1994 23:2437
>.792  So, Nancy, you distrust me.  I can live with that.

    Now Richard what gave you that idea!
    
>I believe the name Christian is entirely appropriate for this conference,
>as much as any other, whether or not all participants claim to be Christian,
>and whether or not the fundamentalists like it.
    
    No problem for me that you believe this... absolutely.  Richard you are
    the only one on the mod team who says they believe in the Trinity or
    deity of Christ... [if someone else on the mod team does, nows the time
    to step up.]
    
    However, I reserve the right to challange the term CHRISTIAN when
    beliefs other then in CHRIST are being incorporated into that term.
    

>I believe many of the participants here are more genuinely Christian in
    >thought and deed (belief and action, faith and works) than, say, Jerry
    Falwell.
    
    You may not believe this, but I have difficulty with Falwell myself...
    as I also do with many Television preachers perverting the word of God
    for worldly gain.
    
>You, on the other hand, might have a problem with Bishop John Spong.
    
    I might, don't know him though. :-)  Tell me is he married?
        
>Again, conferences do not have stands, people do.  I do not have a "nothing
>stand" any more than you do.
    
    Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
    was exactly what it stood for... 
    
In His Love,
    Nancy
9.798OKLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Fri Jan 14 1994 12:5724
re Note 9.796 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     Bob, no-one has indicated that noting here is discomforting, what has
>     been said very clearly is that the perversion of the term Christian
>     will be challanged by this noter.  
  
        OK -- I understand.

        I hope that you too will understand that I will challenge the
        perversion that the traditional orthodox understandings of
        Christ and the Bible are the only reasonable ones.
          
>     My purpose isn't to antagonize this conference but to discuss, challange 
>     and be challanged on spiritual Truths.... the question is can you take 
>     the challange without inferring that I should leave?
  
        It seemed to me that you were bothered more than you were
        bothering those who disagreed with you -- perhaps you
        aren't.  I don't mind you attacking my (or any other
        person's) doctrine or positions.  I do mind when you seem to
        challenge not just others' positions but the appropriateness
        of even having such a forum for such discussions.

        Bob
9.799TFH::KIRKa simple songFri Jan 14 1994 12:5824
re: Note 9.797 by Nancy  "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

Hi Nancy,

>    However, I reserve the right to challange the term CHRISTIAN when
>    beliefs other then in CHRIST are being incorporated into that term.

I hope you are as thankful for that "right" as I am.  I've participated in 
other conferences (no names, of course) where such "rights" only extended 
to a very narrow range of beliefs.
    
>    Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
>    was exactly what it stood for... 

Huh?  I'm a co-moderator of this conference and I certainly never concurred 
with anything like that.  I've read several notes (not necessarily from you) 
stating that the "conference" has this view or that view.  I see conferences 
as nothing more than a playing field, and this one I find much more level 
than many others.  I think the players here have a wonderful range of beliefs 
and are very sincere about them.

Peace,

Jim
9.800AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webFri Jan 14 1994 13:2928
    I am a moderator.
    
    I believe in a couple of trinities.  I believe in the trinity of God in
    so far as I perceive three separate complementary natures of God.
    
    God the Transcendent God, The Other, The Father/Mother
    
    God the Immanent God, The God in us and around us and immediately
    available to us, The Holy Spirit
    
    God, the God we meet in human relationships, The God at work through
    others,  The Christ.
    
    I guess I believe in the Divinity of Christ.
    
    I do not believe in the Divinity of Jesus except in so far as he
    represents the perfect example of the Incarnation of God in a human
    personality .  In the same way I can accept the divinity of Jesus, I
    also accept the divinity of all men and women who accept the
    incarnation of God into their hearts and lifes.
    
    Yes I do accept that some of you feel that I pervert the name
    Christian.  As long as I think Christianity in a live and vibrant
    religion, I will continue to "pervert" the name.  When those who see
    the errors of fundementalism stop "perverting" the name, then
    Christianity will truly be in trouble.
    
    Patricia
9.801in a word, "discussion"LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Fri Jan 14 1994 14:0822
re Note 9.797 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     Agreed, but the moderators of this conference concurred that *nothing*
>     was exactly what it stood for... 
  
        I was taken aback by this one, too.

        I have been a moderator from day 1, and we have never taken
        such a position (although it seems that some traditionalists
        assume from the nature of discussion here that we somehow
        must have taken such a position).

        In note 824.23, you quote approvingly from this conference's
        introduction in note 1.0.

        That is it, THAT is the "consensus of the moderators"
        concerning this conference.  In a phrase, this conference
        "stands" for "discussion from a Christian perspective"
        (having no other definition of "Christian" than that found
        in an English dictionary).

        Bob
9.802some thoughtsTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonFri Jan 14 1994 14:5032
                                                                         
    Re.790
    
    Collis, it's not so much me specifically, as it is the problem
    that comes in when you label individuals as 'liberal' (for example),
    then assign all these characteristics to them that don't even apply 
    in many cases.  
    
    For example, some of the things you have said/assumed about 'the
    liberal position' don't even apply to that which I, or others, 
    actually believe. And yet continually I see your notes, and the notes
    of others, this lapse into 'well, liberals believe...' when the going
    gets difficult.  I feel cheated at times like that, because you're 
    putting assumptions onto me based on your own concept, rather than 
    trying to understand my position more clearly...or the position of 
    whoever you are having a note exchange with. 
    
    Yes, I am guilty of doing a similar thing, having just used the label
    'fundamentalist' in a note a few moments ago.  (It was before I read
    your apology here.)  So perhaps from now on, we can do our best to not
    let labels get in the way of trying to understand what's really going
    on.
    
    Not all liberals agree with abortion, for example.  And not all
    fundamentalists support the actions of the group that blocks clinics.
    
    So while there are generalizations that one can make, if we can try to
    have a little less of them here, we may be able to eventually come to
    some common ground that we *do* agree on, and all in all, that would 
    be a wonderful thing to have happen, actually.
    
    Cindy
9.803JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 14:5719
    Thanks...  Again exactly where the *nothing* comments were [and they
    were from moderators] is beside the point.  You've come forward and
    stated what you believe and this is exactly what I wanted from the very
    first question for what does this conference stand.  Thank You.
    
    It is very clear that the conference is not here to make a distinction
    about the CHRISTIANITY of CHRIST, but to use the term CHRISTIAN to
    promote an acceptability of multiple beliefs in the CHRISTIAN world
    [not meaning el mundo].  And yes, Jim, I do like the right to voice my
    challanges to this unacceptable trend happening today.  However, I do
    not want to and need to be held accountable should I cross over that 
    fine line from challange to insult.  I think it is important that all
    pov are discussed as long as insult or personal insult is not a part of
    that discussion.
    
    In CHRISTian Love,
    Nancy
    
    
9.804you're reading too much into itLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Fri Jan 14 1994 15:4722
re Note 9.803 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     It is very clear that the conference is not here to make a distinction
>     about the CHRISTIANITY of CHRIST, but to use the term CHRISTIAN to
>     promote an acceptability of multiple beliefs in the CHRISTIAN world
>     [not meaning el mundo].  

        Conference policy promotes the "acceptability of multiple
        beliefs" only in the sense that we do not suppress or muzzle
        certain beliefs.

        (Throughout history free speech and free thought have been
        suppressed on the grounds that "error has no rights" and that
        to permit error is somehow to endorse it.  That is not the
        policy here.)

        Again you personify the conference:  "the conference is not
        here to make a distinction..." -- the conference IS here and
        has ITS policy specifically to allow ANYONE to make ANY
        distinction they wish regarding CHRIST.

        Bob
9.805JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 16:015
    .904
    
    Thanks Bob for your clarification.  
    
    Nancy
9.806CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodFri Jan 14 1994 16:098
    Nancy,
    
    	Are you willing now to say that you may have been in error in
    asserting that the people of this conference have a "*nothing*
    stand," as you declared in 9.792?
    
    Richard
    
9.807JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 16:227
    No, I'm not in the context of what was written and the question being
    asked about a SPIRITUAL STANCE of this conference...the nothing is
    accurate.  
    
    This conference does stand for what Bob has declared it to in the
    previous notes, which is something... wish that had been my first
    answer instead of the last, sure coulda saved a lot of notes.
9.809JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 16:4410
    .808
    
    What a pompous remark!!  Richard where do you get off being judge?  
    Does a noter who believes in the inerrant word of God and has the guts 
    to challange those who don't, considered a hip-carrying gun slinger?
    
    Sheesh!  
    
    You are rude and insulting...      
    
9.810ILLUSN::SORNSONAre all your pets called 'Eric'?Fri Jan 14 1994 17:313
    I think the title of the basenote should be changed to 
    
    			"The Bickering Topic"
9.811JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 17:404
    I second the motion. :-)
    
    Those of you who have seen me, imagine me with guns on hip... actually
    its sounds fun... now where is that video game haven?
9.812TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonFri Jan 14 1994 17:5211
    
    Richard,
    
    While in a way I do agree with you (not fully with your observation on
    Nancy, but definitely with other people here who clearly more
    interested in preaching than in real listening), I have this aversion 
    to being called a 'young woman'.  Whenever someone says that to me - 
    except in very rare circumstances - it feels patronizing and somewhat
    condescending.
    
    Cindy
9.813CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Jan 14 1994 17:5411


 If a "conservative" had made such a statement (young woman) regarding a
 "liberal" I'm sure the heat from such a statement would be felt 'round the
 world.




 Jim
9.814Retraction and ApologyCSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodFri Jan 14 1994 19:3825
    I retract the "young woman" portion of my remark and I apologize for
    having used it, though Nancy is in fact younger than me and a woman.
    I do understand how "little lady" or "missy" or "sweetie" would have
    been more genuinely condescending.  None of these, you'll note, did
    I use nor did I intend.
    
    I also apologize for sounding pompous.
    
    At the same time:
    
    o  Nancy has consistently ignored references and pointers to any matter
       which was discussed extensively prior to her arrival.
    
    o  Nancy has consistently ridiculed this conference, not caring whether
       or not it might mean something to anyone else.
    
    o  Nancy holds this unwavering notion:  Inerrantist = "CHRISTian"
     				        non-inerrantist = non-Christian
    
    I apologize most thoroughly, but I've just become a little weary of
    the clanging gong I am chronically hearing as of late.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.808This entry edited and re-enteredCSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodFri Jan 14 1994 19:416
    9.807  And you, Nancy, could have saved a lot of notes if
    you had come into the conference with intentions of listening,
    rather than with "righteous" guns blazing!
    
    Richard
    
9.815Something else to bicker about for awhileCSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodFri Jan 14 1994 19:5914
Note 800.59

>    ..yuh huh pardner, Paul did however predict the little fellows
>    would make an appearance towards the end times.

I think it's real curious that no one of the "conservative" persuasion
has bothered to set David straight on this assertion.

Could it be that the conservative Christians are happy to let people
believe something which is false just so long as it's in keeping with
the conservative perspective (agenda)?  God help us if that's so.

Richard

9.816JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jan 14 1994 20:2918
    800.59
    
    Wasn't following the discussion and still do not know in what context
    it was written.
    
    Richard,
    
    You don't like me I can live with that... and no where have I stated
    that this conference has no value... what I have tried to ascertain is
    how the term CHRISTian which is near and dear to my heart is being
    used.
    
    BTW, I'm still praying for you... even though I don't know for what I
    am praying.  May God enrich your life, bring healing if necessary and
    preserve your heart in Him.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.817CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodFri Jan 14 1994 20:3711
    .816  Thank you, Nancy.  You remain in my prayers as well.  For
    as often as you and I seem to butt heads here, I hold up a higher
    hope for you than for anyone else active in the conference right
    now.
    
    Why?  Because I know you are a genuinely tender-hearted person.  And
    if there was ever a shortage of anything in this world, it is tender-
    hearted people.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.818COMET::DYBENSun Jan 16 1994 12:4712
    
    
    > I think it's real curious that no one of the " conservative "
    
      
     What were they supposed to say? That I was right about there having
    been a prediction but wrong about it being Paul? Then when the fight
    really gets interesting you claim that a particular scripture used by
    your opponent was not interpreted correctly? It's worthless to argue 
    with you. 
    
    David
9.819CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodSun Jan 16 1994 14:187
    .818
    
    	God knows where you acquired such a notion about gays and the
    so-called end times.  I don't.
    
    Richard
    
9.820COMET::DYBENSun Jan 16 1994 18:208
    
    
    > God knows where you acquired such a notion
    
     ..perhaps your opening suggest where I got it :-)
    
    
    David
9.821CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodSun Jan 16 1994 19:399
    .820 Not!




    ;-}
    
    Richard
    
9.822COMET::DYBENSun Jan 16 1994 20:325
    
    
    -1
    
     ...did to
9.823PleaseCSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn loan from GodMon Jan 24 1994 00:2014
Note 830.18
    
>    > methinks you have it backwards
        
>     No doubt anyone who does not swim in the grey area of new agedom is
>     thought of this way.....
    
Can we dispense with the non-productive, for-slurs'-sake slurs
and putdowns?

And I'll try to watch it, myself.

Richard

9.824more fun than a tilt-a-whirlTFH::KIRKa simple songMon Jan 24 1994 01:375
so many windmills, so little time

.-)

Jim
9.825long day...anyway, hope this clears it upTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonMon Jan 24 1994 02:4829
                                      
    Ah, OK, I guess David was perceiving that I was calling *him*
    backwards.  (Not.)
    
    Whereas I was merely referring to the fact that in the original
    CHRISTIAN conference, those of us who were perceived as 'liberal' were
    in there to convert the 'true believers' to something 'less' or
    'unpalatable', when most of the time we were just in there presenting
    our views.  At least I was.  I could have cared less about converting
    anybody to anything.
    
    I recall the general circumstances around this conference being formed
    as a place where the more liberal view could be presented (as opposed to
    said notes being set hidden a lot of the time, which they were, and
    still are on occasion.  But now this conference exists, so we have a
    place to express our views without being perceived as crashing the
    tea party in the other conference.)
    
    Paraphrasing from memory here...
    
    Richard stated that when he goes into certain places, he does not go
    with the intention of converting.  David mentions something about
    him refraining from doing that here.  I said that I think David has it
    backwards (and was implying that David is the one who has come into a
    more liberal place trying to educate us on the err of our ways. Etc.)
    
    Hope this makes things more clear.
    
    Cindy 
9.826JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jan 24 1994 03:474
    Hmm... I wonder if this is a good reason why employees shouldn't work
    longer then 2 years in one place. :-) :-)  Memories pressed between
    the keyboard of my mind. :-)
    
9.827COMET::DYBENMon Jan 24 1994 12:019
    
    
    Cindy,
    
     ..and if you look real hard you can see a smiley on the end of the
    remark I made toward Richard, just like this one :-)
    
    
    David
9.828CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Feb 03 1994 14:269
Note 840.1

>    Nancy,the simpleton

Nancy,  Why is it you refer to yourself this way?  I do not think you're
a simpleton.

Richard

9.829Welcome! Hope you'll say Hello!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Feb 03 1994 14:277
I would appreciate it if our newer participants would take a moment to
introduce themselves in Note 3.  It's not mandatory, of course, but a
social amenity.

Peace,
Richard

9.830JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Feb 03 1994 16:5710
    Simpleton?  Why?  Because I believe God said what he said and meant
    what he said and gave the writers of the Bible divine inspiration to
    get that point across.
    
    I think too often we go on a supposed treasure hunt in the Word, when
    the SIMPLE TRUTH stares us in the face.  Exegesis has its merit, but
    for the most part its intellectual banter.
    
    IMHO,
    Nancy :-)
9.831AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webThu Feb 03 1994 17:121
    I do agree with you Nancy that Exegesis is intellectual banter.
9.832PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Thu Feb 03 1994 17:1710
I agree that Exegesis at times can be intellectual banter.

However, I think that exegesis the vast majority of the time
is simply taking the time to truly understand what was
originally written.  My experience has consistently been
that those who put forth the time and energy to understand
the relevant text usually have a much better grasp on the
meaning than those who do not.

Collis
9.833TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Feb 03 1994 18:246
    
    >Exegesis
    
    Isn't that a video game?
    
    Cindy
9.834JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Feb 03 1994 19:248
    -1
    
    Cindy,,,, did you get hit by lightening last night or sumpin'???? :-)
    
    This is the second note in about 2 seconds that I've read  where your
    wonderful sense of humor has shown through!  Thanks for the smiles.
    
    Nancy
9.835you musta misunderstoodTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Feb 03 1994 19:406
    
    Oh no, Nancy...I was *serious*.   
    
    [Not.]  (;^)
    
    Cindy
9.836JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Feb 03 1994 20:517
    -1
    
      -< you musta misunderstood >-
    
    Seems I've  heard that before. :-)
    
    
9.837CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Feb 03 1994 23:4218
Note 839.33,
    
>    You can read a little more in note 1085 in VAXWRK::INDIA to get
>    another perspective on the topic.

I read 1085.11.  It speaks quite truly.

While it is reprehensible, there are plenty of reprehensible things
happening to women in this culture.

In parts of Africa the practice of female circumcision persists.
When the western cultures of the UN pursued the barbaric practice,
the African people pointed to how we "enlighted" people slice up
women for such unnatural "enhancements" as breast implants - all
for the sake of vanity in a sexist society.

Richard

9.838written with great sadnessTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonFri Feb 04 1994 18:3923
    Re.837
    
    Richard,
    
    There is more on female circumcision in last month's Reader's Digest 
    in an article entitled, "All In The Name Of Islam".  It's called FGM -
    female genital mutilation.  
    
    This is a far more widespread practice than just in parts of Africa.  
    Apparently, in certain subgroups, it even continues in the US.
    
    At times I often wonder if it better for female children to be aborted
    or killed in infancy, rather than live a life of being hated for their
    gender, having their bodies mutilated, and suffering the tremendous
    cultural subjugation that goes on throughout their entire lives.  
    
    I'm sure there must be mothers out there who do this, not because the 
    don't love and want their daughters-to-be, but out of their own suffering, 
    they do it *for* the love of their daughters, knowing that their death 
    for them would be easier to bear than the life they would have if they 
    lived.
    
    Cindy
9.839CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatFri Feb 04 1994 19:2910
Note 839.48

>    Re. venomous whatever....
    
>    I suggest just ignoring notes like that. 
    
I already do.  :-)

Richard

9.840PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Fri Feb 04 1994 19:3211
Killing in the name of love is still killing.

We are indeed a misguided society when we start to believe
that individuals have the right to determine when others live
and die.

It is not an individual's decision and should never be.  It
is God's decision and, in some instances, the decision of
God's instituted authorities.

Collis
9.841The New PC = Being Anti-PCCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatSat Feb 05 1994 20:3412
    839.55

    Dyben,
    
    	Do you always view things through the new PC (anti-PC) glasses?
    
    	How come you won't allow yourself to see how serious the issue
    is instead of offering ridicule or pretending such matters are not a
    problem?
    
    Jones-Christie
    
9.842C-P renamed = Blame America/Traditional ChurchCOMET::DYBENSun Feb 06 1994 14:1719
    
    
    
    Richard,
    
     As some of my fellow noters have alreay discovered a jab is just as
    inneffective as a prolonged study. The people in this conference strain
    gnats but swallow camels. You choose to believe whatever tickles your
    ears. Look at the liberal crowd and their lifestyle and you will see
    why they can never be led to the truth...  You fancy yourselves to be
    the philosophical arm of the church but I say you are the crowd that
     Paul(?) warned us about, forever wrangling over words not for the
    sake of learning, but rather to create grey area to swim in. I choose
    to jab because I have not the patience that my older brothers do for
    the sheer silliness that typifies( new word) this conference..
    
    Deleting this conference for an unspecified time,
    
    David 
9.844God be with youCSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianSun Feb 06 1994 20:4024
David,

	I know your departure is in haste and anger, and perhaps that
is the best way to handle the situation right now.

	Perhaps I am a little too critical of paradigms and institutions
you might hold tenaciously as good and right and true.  The way I see it,
if a wall cannot withstand having a few tomatoes hurled against it, it
wasn't constructed very well or it wasn't made of substantial materials
to begin with.  (House built on sand)

	I don't see myself as the philosophical part of anything.  But
I appreciate the underlying compliment.

	My vocation is to be a Christian.  I'm constantly pushing the
limits of what that means.

	I hope that when you return and we can have a more meaningful
exchange, next time "with our shields down" (A Star Trek expression, for
our non-US readers).

Peace,
Richard

9.843we probably know different "liberals"LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Feb 07 1994 12:3065
re Note 9.842 by COMET::DYBEN:

>     The people in this conference strain
>     gnats but swallow camels. You choose to believe whatever tickles your
>     ears. 

        I know you can't see this, David, but that is PRECISELY what
        I see when I look at conservative Christians and forums such
        as the other Christian notes conference.  However, we see
        different things as gnats and different things as camels. 
        Your ears are tickled by different things, and you delight to
        hear them and call them "belief".

        (Please note that I am not describing ALL conservatives by
        the above statement.  I have come to know many conservatives,
        including many who participate in this conference, to whom
        the above does not seem to apply.  It is quite possible that
        I am judging conservatives at least in part by some of the
        more extreme examples I see in the media and then trying to
        understand how the attitudes expressed by conservatives in
        this and other conferences could lead to the excesses I see
        in conservatives elsewhere.  David, is it possible that
        conservatives are judging liberals in general by the same
        round-about processes?)

        At least in this conference we have no rules to ensure that
        the ears of the majority are not offended from time to time
        by what they hear.  There were two major arguments at the
        time of the founding of this conference.  One, suggested by
        the conservatives, was whether this conference should
        establish a "standard" for judging the appropriateness of
        entries.  The other, suggested by some more liberal, was
        that this conference should have rules against entries that
        offend people on sensitive religious issues.  Neither was
        adopted.  Sometimes the conservatives are offended by what
        the liberals are free to write.  Sometimes the liberals are
        offended by what the conservatives are free to write.

        This is not a feel-good conference for either liberals or
        conservatives.  (Nevertheless I hope that free and caring
        discussion about Christ can help lead the wounded to feel
        better.)


>     Look at the liberal crowd and their lifestyle and you will see
>     why they can never be led to the truth...  

        One of the reasons I pay a lot of attention to the so-called
        "liberal crowd" is because I and many others have looked at
        the conservative crowd and their lifestyle and can see that
        it is not based entirely upon truth and I saw positive
        aspects of the way the so-called "liberal crowd" lived that
        was rooted in what they believed.

        (I suspect that even when we say "liberal crowd" we are
        thinking of different things.  You probably are thinking of
        gay activists and the like.  I'm thinking of Martin Luther
        King, the Berrigan brothers, and some Paulists I've known who
        work in reconciling divorced Catholics with their church.)

>     Deleting this conference for an unspecified time,
    
        Whatever pleases your ears, David...

        Bob
9.845JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Feb 07 1994 22:391
    What's an Honorary Lesbian?
9.846CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianMon Feb 07 1994 23:276
    .845  You asking anyone in particular, Nancy?
    
    ;-)
    
    Richard
    
9.847JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Feb 08 1994 04:033
    Nope... just thought the guy with the label *might* answer! :-)
    
    I'd like to be the HONORARY PRESIDENT for one day... 
9.848JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Feb 08 1994 12:025
    Re: .845
    
    Thought I had heard it all....that's a new one!
    
    Marc H.
9.849CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianTue Feb 08 1994 14:327
    .847  Honorary President?  Of what?
    
    Cindy Painter, you out there?  What do you think I mean by using
    the "p_n" Honorary Lesbian?
    
    Richard
    
9.850I know.... it's not the same.... :-)DEMING::SILVAMemories.....Tue Feb 08 1994 14:358


	I have a male friend who has a shirt that says, "Nobody knows I'm a
lesbian". I really luv that shirt! :-)


Glen
9.851a try at itTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Feb 08 1994 16:5811
    
    No, I'm here, Richard.  heeheeheehee!  [LETMEOUTOFHERE!!!!!]
    
    It means just what it says....you are an honorable friend to lesbians, 
    you have been recognized for your work in dispelling myths and putting
    forth what they are faced with continually (among other things), and 
    are therefore worthy of the title 'honorary'.
    
    Just like I'm an honorary Hindu Gujarati Indian.  (;^)
    
    Cindy
9.852CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianTue Feb 08 1994 19:027
    .851  Thanks, Cindy.  I hoped it would be understood as you've
    articulated.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
    
9.853JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Feb 08 1994 21:136
    .852
    
    Funny I thunked that was what you meant too. :-)  But just wanted to
    make sure it wasn't a NEW LIFESTYLE. 
    
    
9.854Let's identify the *real* Sodomists!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianTue Feb 08 1994 22:3114
    .853  Lesbians and I share at least one thing in common.  We're
    affectionally attracted to women.
    
    My lifestyle is the style in which I live.  I struggle with it because
    of the sinful degree to which I'm materially entrenched.  I trust my
    concern over lifestyle is not one that's disturbing to the average
    Christian conscience.
    
    I am concerned over the sins of Sodom, the sins as cited by Ezekiel.
    (Chapter 16, verses 49-50)
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.855JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Feb 09 1994 03:533
    -1
    
    Real sodomists [as I understand the word] are not lesbians.
9.856CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianWed Feb 09 1994 17:296
    .855  In fact, according to Ezekiel 16.49-50, Sodom's sin had zip to do
    with sexual orientation.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.857PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Wed Feb 09 1994 18:177
And, of course, according to Jude 7-8, Sodom and Gommorah
gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion and
now serve as an example of those who are in hell.

(Might as well include this meaningful piece of information,
right, Richard?)

9.858COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Feb 09 1994 18:307
One doesn't have to look just at Jude.

According to Ezekial Sodom and Gomorrah did abominable things.

And according to Genesis, we know what those abominable things were.

/john
9.859CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHonorary LesbianWed Feb 09 1994 19:068
    .857  Well, Hell!  Why bother with Ezekiel when you can get it
    straight from Jude, right?!
    
    .858  That's not quite true, John.  It's still speculative.
    (And I take it you do know the correct spelling of Ezekiel's name.)
    
    Richard
    
9.860APACHE::MYERSThu Feb 10 1994 12:516
    Does the list of sexually immoral and perverse things contain only one
    element: homosexuality? I bet if we used a little imagination we could
    come up with a list we'd find really immoral and perverse yet, didn't
    include a single homosexual act.

    Eric
9.861CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairThu Feb 10 1994 15:4711
    .860
    
    Rape, involuntary violation, sexual abuse -- the list is limitless.
    These things are not to be ignored.
    
    But what gets me about the moral interest of so many is the concentration
    on the pelvic area.  There's so little interest in confronting the sins
    of Sodom as Ezekiel expressed them.
    
    Richard
    
9.862JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Feb 10 1994 16:2324
    Perhaps for another discussion...
    
    Richard, I believe that our sexuality and spirituality are deeply
    connected.  There are many references in the Bible of an "adulterous
    nation" and fornication and adultery... sexual impurity breeds
    spiritual impurity...
    
    Think about it for just a moment...
    
    What is the strongest human drive?
    
    D E S I R E
    
    1.  SEX is usually the one on top for most people
    2.  MONEY - greed
    3.  LOVE - Agape [unconditional]
    
    And typically the order in which I have listed desires is the order in
    which *most* people live there lives.
    
    Just think about it...
    
    
    
9.863PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Thu Feb 10 1994 16:318
  >.857  Well, Hell!  Why bother with Ezekiel when you can get it
  >straight from Jude, right?!

Why should it bother you that I add the facts you chose to
omit?  The only one pursuing half the picture (instead of
the whole picture) is you; I affirm what Ezekiel says.

Collis
9.864APACHE::MYERSThu Feb 10 1994 18:1121
   re: Note 9.862 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    > I believe that our sexuality and spirituality are deeply connected.

    Hmm... You've been reading Freud, haven't you :^) Only teasing, but
    Freud did observe a strong connection between human sexuality and human
    spirituality.

    > What is the strongest human drive?

    Hunger. Or rather the desire to satisfy the urges for hunger. Perhaps,
    this is why we see fasting as a form of submission to God through self
    denial.

    The Donner party was concerned about who was going to fornicate whom...

    The second strongest desire is for power -- to achieve superiority over
    ones neighbor. 


    	Eric
9.865JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Feb 10 1994 19:5112
    Nope haven't been reading Freud.. but can't say I'm necessarily
    surprised...
    
    As a matter of fact, just FYI the only books I've read on psychology
    have been Dobson's Dare to Discipline, and Love Must be Tough.  I've
    skimmed a few others and must confess to having watched Bradshaw on
    TV... 
    
    I believe HUNGER and DESIRE are very closely related and at times can
    be interchanged in its word usage.
    
    :-)
9.866CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairFri Feb 11 1994 00:1910
    .863  Here I go again, getting in hot water with biblical inerrantists
    just like I pointed out in 18.666 and 843.81.
    
    I'm glad you affirm the Ezekiel passage.  I've not noticed your passion
    previously concerning the "weightier matters of the Law" when they're
    discussed within this forum.  Perhaps I've been inattentive.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.867PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Fri Feb 11 1994 18:5510
   >I've not noticed your passion previously concerning the "weightier 
   >matters of the Law" when they're discussed within this forum.

I expect that this is because our definitions of the weightier
matters of the Law differ.  I include essential beliefs of the
Christian faith as well as the actions associated with these
beliefs under this definition (doctrines such as who God is
and what is required for salvation).

Collis
9.868CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairFri Feb 11 1994 20:1111
    .867
    
    I suspect you're right, Collis.  At the same time, let me add that
    it was Jesus who defined the weightier matters of the Law as justice,
    mercy and honesty (Matthew 23.23).  Perhaps Jesus could have and
    should have added more, to include doctrines about who God is and
    what is required for salvation.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.869JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Feb 11 1994 20:193
    so Richard,
    
    You ignoring my spirituality/sexuality note?
9.870CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairFri Feb 11 1994 20:276
    .869
    
    I don't think I am, Nancy.  I'll go back and make sure.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.871CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairFri Feb 11 1994 20:468
    .869  No, I wasn't ignoring it.
    
    I created a response and entered it in the Christianity and Sexuality
    topic.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.872JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Feb 11 1994 21:281
    Where is that?  I use next unseen and never saw it.
9.873CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairSat Feb 12 1994 00:125
    .872  It looks like you found it. ;-}
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.874JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSun Feb 13 1994 19:233
    -1
    
    Yupperama!
9.875:-}LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Feb 14 1994 14:048
9.876picking, choosing, and changing definitions...TFH::KIRKa simple songMon Feb 14 1994 14:1910
re: Note 9.875 by Bob "without vision the people perish 

>        To a true conservative, "neo-" (and all forms of "new") are
>        by definition "non-", opposite, false, bad, ....

Is "neo-" a politically correct prefix?  .-)

.-)

Jim
9.877CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairTue Feb 15 1994 15:5310
    850.10  I know Mike personally and already knew him to be an honest
    person.  I guess I take Mike's and other's basic honesty within the
    conference for granted.
    
    That doesn't reduce one's responsibility toward tactfulness and
    sensitivity.  The ones who pride themselves on their "honesty" usually
    fall short in the area of courtesy and respect.
    
    Richard
    
9.878JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Feb 15 1994 16:084
    .877
    
    Agreed Richard.  Tact is important.  Why do you follow me around and 
    pick a part everything I write? :-)
9.879APACHE::MYERSTue Feb 15 1994 16:128
    RE:  Note 9.878 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
    
    > Why do you [Richard] follow me around and pick a part everything I
    > write? 
    
    Hey, I thought that was *my* job? :^)
    
    	Eric
9.880JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Feb 15 1994 16:144
    .879
    
    Well that's the spirit, spread it around a little bit, lace it with
    plum jelly and you got sandwich! :-)
9.881Christian-PerspectiveLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Feb 15 1994 20:0511
re Note 856.12 by TNPUBS::PAINTER:

>     While the definition of 'goddess is pagan' may be *A* Christian 
>     Perspective (yours, for example), this is the Christian Perspectives 
>     (note the plural) conference, and therefore *all* perspectives are 
>     welcome to be presented and discussed.  
  
        Well, it is now and has always been Christian-Perspective
        (singular, see note 1.0).

        Bob
9.882Re.881TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Feb 15 1994 22:1311
    
    Bob,
    
    Thanks - you are right.  Technically it is not a pluralized word,
    however 1.0 indicates, to me anyway, that in principle my assertion
    is correct.  If not, let me know.  
    
    I still say that the idea of 'goddess is pagan' is 'a' Christian
    perspective, and not 'the' Christian perspective.
    
    Cindy
9.883Read with a calm voice....DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Feb 16 1994 23:5138
RE: file issues
    
		
		Lately, acrimony has increased in this file.  As a Christian
this saddens me because of what I see as the purpose of this file.  So in a
few short words let me explain what I see as our purpose and charter for
Christian-Perspective.  

		Originally, Mike and Karen and the others believed that there
needed to be a file where people could discuss alternative beliefs that they
related as Christian.  An alternative, if you like, to YUKON::CHRISTIAN 
where they believed views were stricter than were their beliefs.  So they
came up with an idea for a notes file where all perspectives were sought
and allowed without the normal outcry against it.  Those of you who have been
in this file for a while will notice that the moderators (myself included)
have had to play "referee" far too often because of an escalation of the
discussion.  

		As a fundamentalist Christian, there are of course views 
stated that I have a hard time grasping let alone believing.  However,
My beliefs are just that...mine.  And while I might believe that the people
here are many times forgetting Biblical principles or might even have 
rejected those principles, the purpose of this file is to allow all beliefs.

		I am sure that many Christians here believe that I am some 
sort of traitor to the cause of Jesus.  Nothing could be further from the
truth but rather than defend myself, I want to encourage the Christians in
this file to use this conference as an opportunity.  When we, as Christians,
act like we are angry, holier than thou, or refuse to converse in a civil
manner we only drive off these opportunities.  It is the human dynamic that
makes us not like to be "nailed to the wall" in public.  Without harassing
people I would suggest that witnessing situations be taken offline.  Not 
because its not allowed but I have found much more success without the 
entire conference looking in.  The old axiom "praise in public and chastise 
in private" might be worth thinking about.  
    
    
    Dave Dawson
9.884PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Thu Feb 17 1994 18:3813
   >I suspect you're right, Collis.  At the same time, let me add that
   >it was Jesus who defined the weightier matters of the Law as justice,
   >mercy and honesty (Matthew 23.23).

Agreed.  I suspect that these are the elements included because
these are the issues that they neglected most.  We still have a
problem with these today (as a body of believers).

I think Jesus didn't address the issues I raised because
there was a fair amount of agreement on them (unlike today
in this notesfile).

Collis
9.885CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairThu Feb 17 1994 18:4911
Note 9.884

>I think Jesus didn't address the issues I raised because
>there was a fair amount of agreement on them (unlike today
>in this notesfile).

Perhaps.  But I get another impression of the times from reading the
Gospel accounts and supplemental resources.

Richard

9.886CSC32::J_CHRISTIEI'm 2 sexy 4 my chairThu Feb 17 1994 18:557
    9.883
    
    	Thanks for the gentle reminders, Dave.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.887DEMING::SILVAMemories.....Fri Feb 18 1994 14:0810


	Dave, you're some kind of guy! You make perfect sense. I know I for one
would never think of you as a traitor to God, even though we disagree on many
things. Talking with you in the past has always been just that, talk. I really
like that and as Richard said, thanks for reminding us. :-)


Glen
9.888Pointer to discussion on ImmoralityJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Feb 22 1994 03:5214
    In YUKON::CHRISTIAN I have started a topic on adulter/infidelity.  The
    first of the series of lessons [from my Pastor, with a flair of Nancy
    intermixed] is on the Myths surrounding Affairs.  The topic #414 with
    discussions in #415.  The only reason for not cross posting is my
    inability to keep up with two discussions.
    
    The reason I am mentioning it in here, is because I believe this issue
    of morality runs very deep in our homes.  The statistics are that 75%
    of all marriages suffer an adulterous affair.  And in our churches
    today it runs around 50%.
    
    Each week as my Pastor teaches, I'll enter the notes from his lessons.
    
    
9.889when quoting other's notes...TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Mar 02 1994 12:1216
Folks,

When quoting another noter's notes, could you please quote the author's
name as well?  It would certainly help me keep my bearings when reading
strings, I wouldn't have to keep scanning backwards until I find the note
being quoted.

		> author's name and note number

		> blah blah blah blah blah blah 
		> blah blah blah blah blah blah 
		> blah blah blah   .-)

Thanks,

Jim
9.890support for prejudice? :-}LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed Mar 02 1994 14:1013
re Note 9.889 by TFH::KIRK:

> When quoting another noter's notes, could you please quote the author's
> name as well?  It would certainly help me keep my bearings when reading
> strings, I wouldn't have to keep scanning backwards until I find the note
> being quoted.
  
        I actually agree with you -- and practice accordingly -- but
        I wonder how often we judge the words by our perception of
        the person who wrote them, e.g., "I know where Collis [or
        Richard] is coming from."

        Bob
9.891TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Mar 02 1994 16:4814
re: Note 9.890 by Bob "without vision the people perish"

>                        -< support for prejudice? :-} >-

Well, there's that.  But since the quoted words still exist *somewhere*,
why not make them easier to find?

>        I actually agree with you -- and practice accordingly 

As those guys from Bartel & James used to say, "thank you for your support"

.-)

Jim
9.893The Re: Way is the Best WayJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Mar 02 1994 18:027
    RE: .892
    
    Sounds cumbersome.
    
    I just like the RE: .....
    
    Marc H.
9.892CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 02 1994 18:5310
    My snag is that sometimes I'm not addressing the writer whom I'm
    referencing in my reply.  If I use a name, it might be interpreted
    as a request for a response to my reply -- which I'm not always
    looking for.
    
    So, what I'll start doing is putting the note number and name within
    parenthesis if I'm not looking for a response, and leave same off
    if I am.  Howzat?
    
    Richard
9.894to what are you referring?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Fri Mar 04 1994 14:0820
re Note 867.30 by PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSON:

> The C-P conference cannot both be an open conference for theology
> while totally rejecting the presentation of classical Christian
> theology down through the ages.  I think you need to reconsider
> what is right or appropriate in this conference.

        Well, this "conference" (to the extent that a conference can
        do any such thing) does not reject in whole or in part "the
        presentation of classical Christian theology down through the
        ages".

        It is specifically allowed by the guidelines.

        It was certainly the intention of at least one of the
        founders that this would take place.

        So why do you raise this issue, Collis?

        Bob
9.895PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Fri Mar 04 1994 14:2820
        >So why do you raise this issue, Collis?

I'll try again to explain why I raise this issue (although
I thought my explanation the first time was clear).

People can be (and are sometimes) offended by the message
of the gospel.  The Bible, in fact, indicates that this
will be the case.  Therefore, there is sometimes a call
to cease and desist with this offensiveness.  Sometimes
that call is made in regards to the presentation of the
message, sometimes to the message itself and sometimes
a combination of both.

I just want to make it quite clear that the message of the
gospel should be discussed even when it is considered
offensive.

Collis
        
9.896AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webFri Mar 04 1994 21:239
    Several of you have suggested that I am being overly sensitive.  I
    thank you for the feedback and have deleted most of the notes where I
    may have been oversensitive.  The ones I could find anyway.
    
    I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
    community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are.  I will
    attempt that more earnestly in my noting.
    
    Patricia
9.897COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Mar 04 1994 21:3812
>    I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
>    community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are.

Our Lord loved people no matter who they were.

But he did not accept them for who they were.  He called them to radical
change, to lead a new life, following God and living according to His
commandments.

As Christians we can do no less.

/john
9.898JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Mar 07 1994 12:019
    RE: .897
    
    What does that mean? Will you cause dis-harmony here because you have
    the correct inside track to salvation?
    
    Come on /john......there is a spirit in here to keep the dialog open.
    Surely that is a Christian ideal.
    
    Marc H.
9.899We all work for the same company, don't we?RDGENG::YERKESSbring me sunshine in your smileMon Mar 07 1994 12:1837
RE .986

;    I do think it would help if each of us strive to create a noting
;    community in here where everyone is accepted for who they are.  I will
;    attempt that more earnestly in my noting.
  

  Patricia,

  It has been said before (Bob Fleischer I think) but is worth reiterating,
  the common factor that we all have is that we work for Digital. This is
  is a Digital employee interest notes conference so we should show the 
  respect that is owing to fellow work colleagues. This should be especially 
  true for those that profess to be Christian. So I would commend you for 
  what you wrote above. Fellowship is something else however.

  A little bit of decorum is required, rather like that shown by the 
  Moses when told by Pharoah that they could sacrifice their lifestock 
  to Jehovah on the condition that they did not leave. In reply Moses
  said that this would not be proper for it would offend the Egyptians.
  How would the Egyptians feel if the Israelites openly sacrificed animals,
  in their worship, whom the Egyptians revered?, Exodus 8:25-27. 

  Personally, what I like to hear is peoples hopes or fears. I switch off 
  when people go round putting someone elses beliefs down so as to elivate 
  themselves (the self-righteous Scribes and Pharisees where a good
  example of this as the constantly laid traps for Jesus and his disciples.)

  Many who note here profess to be Christian and so the following words from
  Jesus come to mind "Let your light shine before men, that they may see
  your good works" and "For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds
  that of the Scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of
  heaven." Mathew 5:16a, 20 RSV. 

  Phil.

  
9.900COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Mar 07 1994 12:2312
>    What does that mean? Will you cause dis-harmony here because you have
>    the correct inside track to salvation?

The Bible is not just an "inside track" -- it is the proclamation of God's
love for mankind and his commandment to them on how to live their lives.

In a conference entitled "Christian Perspective" we can do no less than
to teach what the Bible teaches.

Love.  And radical change.

/john
9.901JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Mar 07 1994 12:3312
    RE: .900
    
    Sure.....All agree, but, how are *you* going to be effective as
    a Christian?
    
    When people have real questions about their faith, when people are
    looking for a warm, comfortable place, when people are open to
    discussing what is in their heart of hearts.....will you just
    throw quotes from Bishops at them or take the time to try and
    understand what they are asking?
    
    Marc H.
9.902COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Mar 07 1994 12:5916
re .901

Is that what Patricia was asking for?

Or was she asking for people to be silent about the Gospel and accept
New Age fallacies?  To fail to love New Agers by sharing the Truth.

Why is it OK for liberal points of view to be expressed in this
conference (even when they are intolerant of traditional positions),
but everytime someone attempts to present what Our Lord has said to
His Church through the ages, cries of "intolerance" go up?

Love is teaching the Truth that Jesus taught.  He taught both Love
and Right Living.  He spoke out against falsehoods.  So must we.

/john
9.903Last TryJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Mar 07 1994 13:4313
    RE: .902
    
    Yes, That is what Patricia and I and others are asking for.
    As far as conservative goes, I'm a little to the right of Attilia
    the Hun...but...quoting Bishop's statements from 302 AD, doesn't
    help most people along their spiritual journey.
    
    The former DEC employee Pat Sweeney and I bumped heads too on this
    point, too....so I don't expect you to change. But, if you want to 
    help people get back to Christ, you will need to change your method
    of presentation.
    
    Marc H.
9.904wrongLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Mar 07 1994 13:5710
re Note 9.902 by COVERT::COVERT:

> Why is it OK for liberal points of view to be expressed in this
> conference (even when they are intolerant of traditional positions),
> but everytime someone attempts to present what Our Lord has said to
> His Church through the ages, cries of "intolerance" go up?
  
        I do not believe that this is true.

        Bob
9.905JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Mar 07 1994 14:3413
    .904
    
    Bob, I'd disagree with you... Patricia was talking about her belief
    system and I spoke of my belief system.. of course which contradicts
    hers....  
    
    And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
    gammit...  
    
    All I did was simply state what I believe God's word says about said
    subjects...  Is this or is this not a forum in which to have this kind
    of dialogue... ?????????????
    
9.906CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatMon Mar 07 1994 16:1312
(re .902 COVERT)

>Is that what Patricia was asking for?

Patricia is asking for nothing.  She says she is not a Christian.
She is presenting her viewpoints on a number of issues and sometimes
she asks questions.  She almost always frames her assertions with her
own ownership, saying, "I believe...," rather than this is the way it
is -- take it or leave it.

Richard

9.907CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatMon Mar 07 1994 17:2613
Note 9.905

>    And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
>    gammit...  

Much to the chagrin of some, this conference imposes no particular credo.  At
the same time, that doesn't mean contributors don't have their own ideas about
what constitutes being tolerant or being Christian.

I have been accused of the same things.

Richard

9.908What differing view do you tolerate?HURON::MYERSMon Mar 07 1994 17:5421
    re: Note 9.905 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    > And then I was accused of being intolerant, UnChristian and the whole
    > gammit..

    How is this any different than accusing someone of being *over-tolerant*
    and un-Christian? Although I'll grant you that two wrongs don't make a
    right.

    By the way, I thought one of the themes of your message WAS
    intolerance. Intolerance to: alternate views of Christ's message and
    purpose, alternate views of what is required for salvation, alternate
    view of the nature of the Bible, alternate view of the Biblical
    interpretations... I'm not criticizing, but aren't you intolerant of
    these thing's. 

    (By tolerant I mean that one would disagree with the alternative
    position but still grant the other person has not lost redemption
    or is not a Christian.) 

    	 
9.909PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Mon Mar 07 1994 19:5617
    >(By tolerant I mean that one would disagree with the alternative
    >position but still grant the other person has not lost redemption
    >or is not a Christian.) 

This seems strange to me.

Someone who believes the Bible should feel free to disagree with
someone who espouses views very differently than the Bible, but
then deny the gospel message by acknowledging that someone who
has chosen to not trust in the shed blood of Jesus for forgiveness
of sins is a child of God?

I guess I'm just intolerant.  But, then again, so is Jesus so
I'm not in such bad company.

Collis
   
9.910some thoughtsTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonMon Mar 07 1994 20:4234
    
    Perhaps using statements such as: 
    
       "I believe, according to my interpretation/understanding of the Bible, 
        that you are not a Christian, or that you have lost redemption."
    
    would go a long way toward making such statements less offensive.  
    
    Since this is the processing topic, I'll also say that I find such 
    holier-than-thou comments to be very obnoxious, whether the person
    believes they are 'absolutely' right 'since the Bible says so', or not.
    
    I truly feel that only God can determine if a person is a Christian or
    not, because ultimately it is in a person's heart what truly matters,
    and not in the opinion of another person or words in a book - even the
    Bible.  
    
    Several years ago - back in 1987 - when I first took a peek into the
    CHRISTIAN conference, I looked at some of the entries and thought to
    myself, "This is what Christian behavior is all about?  If that's
    the case, then no thanks." and promptly deleted the conference from 
    my notebook.  But then I added it back in, and participated actively
    for a few years until time no longer permitted.   Occasionally I look 
    over there from time to time even now, and there are still many notes 
    that my original impression can still apply to.  I wish it weren't so,
    but it is.
    
    In short, I do not see the problem being so much the message (of Christ, 
    the Bible, God, etc.) as many who have proclaimed it have claimed here.  
    Rather, most of the time I feel that it's the really messenger, attitude 
    of the messenger, and the way the message is presented, that cause the 
    majority of the problems in this conference.
    
    Cindy
9.911CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatMon Mar 07 1994 22:1212
(Note 9.909 Collis)

>I guess I'm just intolerant.  But, then again, so is Jesus so
>I'm not in such bad company.

Jesus also had an inclusive side, a side that embraced the last, the
least and the lost.  He rejected the ones who behaved as though they had
the correct slant on God and the Law.  Jesus' harshest words were directed
toward these.

Richard

9.912JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 15:3216
    I guess Chris by your standards I'm intolerant of heresy.
    
    Patricia,
    
    Yes, only God can judge the heart... I agree with you.  But he has
    given us a clear path via His Word and when that path  is distorted we
    can rightfully divide the word of Truth and discern what is on that
    path and what is parallel.
    
    It doesn't take God to judge what is written by someone else when it
    clearly contradicts His word.
    
    No, I won't get into another inerrancy discussion.   
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.913JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 15:3724
    Richard,
    
    You are correct in that Christ called the Pharisees hypocrites.  He was
    not tolerant of the religion of works versus faith.
    
    On the same hand, he was very clear about sin versus tolerance.  Jesus
    likened himself as to a door... knock and it shall be opened.  Belief
    in Christ and his identity was, during his walk on the earth and is
    today after his ressurection, the single point of faith that *he*
    required.
    
    Just believing Jesus existed is not enough.  You must embrace his
    *identity* completely, as part of Trinity, the Son, the Sacrifice and
    the Resurrection.  Without any of those in your belief around Christ it
    is not enough.  Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will say he never knew
    them.
    
    Before you start pointing fingers at holier then thou... be sure that
    your not looking at the 4 pointing directly back at yourself.
    
    It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.914Chris?TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Mar 08 1994 15:396
    
    Re.912 (Nancy)
    
    Who's Chris?
    
    Cindy
9.915JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 15:444
    er, uh... myers.. or is that eric?  most folks don't sign there first
    names to notes more then naught and I can't remember ... blush
    
    :-) :-)
9.916TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Mar 08 1994 15:5014
    
    Re.913 (Nancy)
        
    >It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
    
    Correct.  True.  Absolutely right.  Couldn't agree more.
    
    It is the ************* WAY *************** you and others do it most 
    of the time that causes the problems.  
    
    It's the *messenger*, NOT the message.  It's the *salesperson*, NOT 
    the product.
    
    Cindy
9.917CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 08 1994 16:2918
Note 9.913

>    You are correct in that Christ called the Pharisees hypocrites.  He was
>    not tolerant of the religion of works versus faith.

Yes, he was tolerant of works.  Jesus was not tolerant of hypocrisy, lack
of compassion and failing to address the weightier matters of the Law.

>    It is *not* holier then thou to espouse the Bible way to salvation.
    
I believe Jesus is the way.  There is no way to Jesus - Jesus is the way.

And you've yet to define exactly what salvation is and why anyone should
want salvation.

In Christ Jesus,
Richard

9.918LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Mar 08 1994 16:5813
re Note 9.913 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     Just believing Jesus existed is not enough.  You must embrace his
>     *identity* completely, as part of Trinity, the Son, the Sacrifice and
>     the Resurrection.  Without any of those in your belief around Christ it
>     is not enough.  Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will say he never knew
>     them.
  
        So Jesus didn't say "Many will say Lord, Lord, and he will
        say THEY never knew HIM" (which is what you are claiming is
        one test for salvation)?

        Bob
9.919APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 08 1994 17:0223
    re Note 9.912 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    > I guess [Eric] by your standards I'm intolerant of heresy.

    No. By *my* standards you are intolerant of interpretations of Bible
    that do not agree with your personal views. By *your* standards you are
    intolerant of heresy -- where heresy, apparently, means Biblical
    understanding different than your own.

    By *my* standards your view's are simply different than mine. I assume
    your heart is in the right place, that you are doing you very best to
    understand and follow the message of Christ. So am I. I have a clean
    conscience that when I am judged by God he will forgive my human
    failings and see what is in my heart. So if I'm to be labeled a heretic
    -- as was Jesus in the eyes of the Pharisees -- then I consider myself
    in good company (as Collis pointed out).

    Eric

    PS  Sorry for not "signing" my other note. Purely accidental.

    PPS Do you view heretical opinions as blasphemous as well? Just trying
        to clear up any problems with semantics.
9.920JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 17:4511
    Eric,
    
    No, I happen to believe very much in your God-given right to choose or
    to reject the Christ of the Bible.
    
    Heresy = Beliefs that do not align with God's plan for salvation
    
    Jesus was not tolerant of *works* Mr. Christie..  Show me where he was. 
    I can show where he wasn't.
    
    
9.922TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Mar 08 1994 17:579
    
    Re.921
    
    Nancy,
    
    Are you replying to Patricia or me?  Please also reference the note
    number(s) you are replying to.
    
    Cindy
9.923JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 18:156
    Seem to be getting names confused, note numbers would delineate more
    accurately...
    
    To you Cindy... I humbly beg your forgiveness Patricia. 
    
    
9.921Corrected/repostedJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 18:1624
    Cindy,
    
    So when one speaks in ABSOLUTES as defined by God's word, you are
    offended... because this creates something called "exclusion".
    
    God is very clear that those who do not accept Christ [for all that he
    is] are excluded.  This is the Biblical view as *anyone* can read it,
    not just my interpretation.
    
    The bottomline is what do you accept as AUTHORITY and then do you place
    yourself under submission to that AUTHORITY.  I *choose* to place
    myself under the *AUTHORITY* of the Bible as I believe it is the ONLY
    ABSOLUTE alive today.
    
    Others choose differently, again, that is their GOD GIVEN right.  So as
    long as I don't speak the ABSOLUTE OF GOD"S WORD, then I will be
    considered tolerant?
    
    Sounds to me as though you are INTOLERANT of my INTOLERANCE [as you've
    defined it]... so who is the interolerant?
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
9.924JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 18:163
    Fixed it to address the *right* person.
    
    Again apoligies.
9.925CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 08 1994 18:3719
Note 9.920

>    Jesus was not tolerant of *works* Mr. Christie..  Show me where he was. 
>    I can show where he wasn't.

If you must, it's accurately Mr. Jones-Christie.    
                                 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Matthew 23 and Matthew 25.31-46.
Luke 10.25-37.

These are off the top.

Don't misinterpret me.  I never said Jesus accepted "works" as a substitute
for faith.

In Christ's service,
Richard

9.926JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 19:1221
    .925
    
    I did misinterpret you... but let's get some definitions of tolerance
    
    I believe most folks think that tolerance means acceptance...
    
    Therefore cries of INTOLERANCE are shouted when one does not ACCEPT
    another's beliefs as *T*ruth.
    
    I believe that I am tolerant in that I respect EVERYONE's God-given
    ability to choose or reject the Christ of the Bible.
    
    I am tolerant not accepting... this is the rub.
    
    I don't embrace or accept another's pov of Christ [when it contradicts
    the Bible] and therefore, I am considered intolerant.
    
    I believe that this is a sad semantics, but nonetheless how I perceive
    things to be.
    
    
9.927PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees? NO!!!Tue Mar 08 1994 19:2719
Those who tend to believe in all paths leading to salvation
often define tolerance to mean accepting that what the
other person believes for themselves will work for them
(to get to God).  In other words, being "tolerant" means
(in some sense) re-affirming their own belief that all
paths lead to God.

Those who believe what the Bible says are often occused as
being intolerant because we forthrightly deny that all paths
lead to God; Jesus and all the prophets make it clear that
this is a totally wrong.  By disbelieving the claims of
another, we are accused of intolerance.

I don't know how to deal with the issue of tolerance.  I
do not that it is difficult to hold to absolute truth
(and even share it at times) while being considered
tolerant.

Collis
9.928CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 08 1994 19:5622
Note 9.926 Ms. Morales

>    I believe most folks think that tolerance means acceptance...

It doesn't to me.  I believe that in reality there's a continuum.
    
>    I don't embrace or accept another's pov of Christ [when it contradicts
>    the Bible] and therefore, I am considered intolerant.
    
I don't agree with your point of view frequently, Nancy.  I'm sure this
comes as no surprise.  Now, am I perceived by you as intolerant of your
point of view?  Perhaps I am.

I see my own faith as being incongruent in some areas with yours.  However,
I do not see my Christian faith as better than yours and, correct me if your
perception is to the contrary, I've not endeavored to persuade you to change
or discard your beliefs.  Does that mean I embrace or accept your points of
view?  (No)

Peace,
Richard

9.929JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 20:1110
    .928
    
    Richard quite frankly you *do* insult Christians quite regularly. :-)
    
    
    I often log into CP with the little jingle, "Have you had your insult
    today?" [from Richard Jones-Christie].
    
    :-)  I am smiling, even though it truly is how you come across.
    
9.930JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 08 1994 21:5014
    Richard,
    
    You said something that really was eating at me ...
    
    "Better Than" yours... it's the better than that got me.
    
    No, I don't think I am better than anyone, of sinners as Paul said I am
    the chiefest.  The difference between you and I is...
    
    "The *only* way to salvation"
             versus
    "One of *many* ways to salvation"
    
    
9.931CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 08 1994 22:1210
Note 9.929
    
>    Richard quite frankly you *do* insult Christians quite regularly. :-)
 
I admit taking fundamentalism to task.  I am no harsher (imo) than those who
imply there-are-no-true-Christians-other-than-the-fundamentalists.

Peace,
Richard

9.932When you get as old as Reagan, the memory slips, I guessCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 08 1994 22:1817
Note 9.930

>    No, I don't think I am better than anyone,

I don't recall saying this.  I reread my note and it doesn't say that, either.

>    "The *only* way to salvation"

You've yet to tell me what you believe salvation to be.

>             versus
>    "One of *many* ways to salvation"

I don't recall saying this, either.

Richard
    
9.933JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Mar 09 1994 12:088
    RE: .931
    
    Seems correct to me, also. I would say that in the "Big Picture", the
    scale is just about balanced in here.
    
    I'll continue to watch the scale, as a public service....
    
    Marc H.
9.934LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed Mar 09 1994 12:187
re Note 9.933 by JUPITR::HILDEBRANT:

>     I'll continue to watch the scale, as a public service....
  
        Thanks.

        Bob
9.935APACHE::MYERSWed Mar 09 1994 16:4614
    Note 9.920 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    > No, I happen to believe very much in your God-given right to choose or
    > to reject the Christ of the Bible.

    But that's just it. I *don't* reject Christ or the Bible. Please, show
    me where I have. 

    > Heresy = Beliefs that do not align with God's plan for salvation

    Then my view's are not heretical... unless you're saying that your
    understanding of the Bible and Christ are perfect and without flaw.

    Eric 
9.936JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 09 1994 19:2616
    I have spoken time and time again on what salvation is per the word of
    God... 
    
    You take the cake fellas... really do... and eat it too I bet!
    
    The intolerance of my beliefs are recognized, noted and received.  For
    a conference the proclaims the receipt of *all* beliefs, you've not
    demonstrated this to me... not at all.
    
    :-)
    
    Your intolerance has silenced this lamb.
    
    
    
    
9.937No Problem HereJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Mar 09 1994 19:307
    RE :.936
    
    I don't know Nancy.....I sure don't think that I am "intolerant"
    of your beliefs. I don't *agree* with everything you say, but I'm
    not one to stop you from saying whats in your heart.
    
    Marc H.
9.940CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 09 1994 23:4711
Note 9.936 Nancy Morales,

>    I have spoken time and time again on what salvation is per the word of
>    God... 

I confess my own density then.  Could you give me a pointer (topic and reply
number)?

Shalom,
Richard

9.941TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Mar 10 1994 00:3446
    Re.a few
    
    Nancy,
    
    OK, let me try once again.
    
    For the most part, it's not WHAT you (and others) say, it's ***HOW***
    you say it.
    
    For example, there may be the most magnificent product in the world
    available to me.  But if the salesperson comes across as being
    obnoxious, condescendng, holier-than-thou, (etc., and so on), chances 
    are that no matter how great the product is, I will walk away.  THIS 
    is my point.  It's not necessarily the message, but the *messenger* 
    and how the messenger acts, that is the problem.  I'm not aiming this
    solely at you (although I did try long ago to make this point with you
    offline, and clearly I failed even then), but to all that behave like
    this.
    
    Now the second point.  Let's take an example from the Bible that to me
    is absolutely crystal clear in its statement.  "Thou shalt not kill."
    This, to me, means quite simply, Do Not Kill.  Black and white.  Open
    and shut case.  And it's often used when supporting the case against
    abortion.  However, it doesn't seem to apply to Christians who support 
    the death penalty. 
    
    Now, me, as a liberal-sort, looks at that "Do Not Kill commandment and
    I have put it into my life and do not support the death penalty because
    of it.  I've even taken it a step further and to the best of my ability
    I do not consume or wear animal products (I'm a vegetarian and avoid
    purchasing leather and fur products, or items that are tested on
    animals.)
    
    I guess I could go around, Bible in hand, and find out here just who is
    not a vegetarian and be completely righteous in my reasons to continue
    to preach at them until they 'convert' and steer away from their
    'sinning' ways.  Because the Bible says, "Do Not Kill."   
    
    But I don't do this.  Because I know that it is not the most effective
    way of convincing people to change their lifestyle.  I believe that by
    living my life as a vegetarian, and others seeing the benefits in my
    life, that I have both won and influenced more people toward
    vegetarianism than any amount of pointing at a Bible verse or being
    self-righteous about it could ever do.
    
    Cindy
9.942JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 10 1994 14:5444
    .941
    
    Cindy,
    
    I confess to being extremely convicted and sure of my beliefs.  While
    as an individual I am very insecure within myself.  This is the side
    that doesn't come across in notes.  The side you see is the side I
    reveal of ABSOLUTE certainty of my belief in Christ Jesus, the ONE way
    to SALVATION.
    
    I apologize if that seems harsh and unacceptable to you.  But clearly
    you do not know me very well and your judgement is based solely and
    understandingly on these *few* interactions in regards to Christianity.
    
    Let me state very clearly, compassion is probably my downfall, passion
    most definitely an achilles heel for me.... but as I am imperfect, God
    is perfect and when our hearts condemn us, God is greater then our
    hearts and when I fail as a parent, I claim Psalm 27:10 for my
    children....
    
    You know Cindy, you've seen my testimony [I think] that my life has had
    some atrocities of its own... most of which I was a victim, and much of
    which I must take ownership and blame....  God is *real* to me for He
    has been reproven in my life over and over again.  I've seen miracles,
    I've seen healings [and I'm not talking evangelistic ones either] and
    I've seen heartache enough for anyone's lifetime....  
    
    I know its hard to see the tender side of me in a battle for Truth....
    but its there and my heart grieves...  When I talk to you, Patricia or
    others about Truth, while my words may seem strong, my heart is
    breaking... but you don't see my eyes which show the depth of the
    heart...  
    
    I believe there is a time for tenderness and there is a time to *stand*
    and always on the side of *love*.  In other words, firmness with love
    is a much better presentation, then firmness with love hidden...
    perhaps as I note longer and more, I will learn how in notes to show
    the inflection of gentleness in my voice and the tenderness in my eyes
    and the heart that is full of compassion while in a battle for Truth...  
    I am just a child in Him... and I'm learning.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
9.943pointerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 10 1994 15:326
    Notefile CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE Note 9.938 by Jill Kinsella, containing a
    description of salvation, has been moved to 220.77.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    Co-Moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE

9.944JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 10 1994 16:0212
    Richard,
    
    You're erratic movement of notes is rather irritating... Continuity is
    important... you asked a question in THIS topic about salvation.  The
    ANSWER should remain in this topic.. if you wish to cross post for
    whatever reason.. so be it.. 
    
    I'd like to request that continuity be left in its place and if you
    must move notes to their appropriate topic, move ALL THE NOTES
    associated with that note.
    
    
9.945CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 10 1994 16:1214
    I will try to honor your request Nancy, .944.
    
    I'm sometimes asked the whereabouts of a note.  I sometimes wonder
    myself where to find a certain note again.  It sure makes it easier
    for me to find if it's at least under a relevant topic.
    
    I sometimes copy a note into a relevant topic, but you've remarked
    that doing that is annoying, also.
    
    I will make a conscious attempt at restraint.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
    
9.946GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Mar 10 1994 16:344
Actually, moving ALL THE NOTES in the latest rathole wouldn't be a bad
idea...

				-- Bob
9.947JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 10 1994 16:429
    crossposting isn't annoying... I promise you that... as long as the
    crosspost shows the topic # that in which it was originally written...
    communication such as this *can* and *should* have an audit trail...
    but that audit trail gets convuluted when a discussions starts one
    place and ends in another... then in the middle of the discussion
    someone says, "Show me where I said that!" and you go well, I remember
    it but where *was* that comment?" :-) :-)
    
    Thanks for understanding.
9.948CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 10 1994 17:3645
Note 9.947 
JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"

>    crossposting isn't annoying... I promise you that... as long as the
>    crosspost shows the topic # that in which it was originally written...

Here's where I got the impression it was less than appreciated.  Note 248.23:

>    I think you must, you sure do spend a lot of time duplicating, moving
                                                       ^^^^^^^^^^^
>    around notes in order to avoid continuity of discussions.
                  ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Your words immediately followed a note (my own) which I had cross-posted:

===============================================================================
        <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
                 -< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
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Note 248.22          Why should I believe what you believe?             22 of 25
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat"                 23 lines   4-MAR-1994 18:43
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        <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;1 >>>
                 -< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 820.125           The Bible: Totally Inerrant or Not?            125 of 125
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat"                 17 lines   4-MAR-1994 18:36
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    .124 JACKSON
    
    Are you saying you and Nancy can answer for each other?
    
    I was really quite serious, Collis.
    
    If you want someone to believe what you believe, I would hope you
    would have a good reason for wanting that.
    
    Nancy hasn't offerred anything enticing, desirable, or even intriguing
    for me (or anyone) to *want* to believe what she believes.  Frankly,
    neither have you.  And I am probably just as guilty of this as anyone.
    I don't know.
    
    Pax,
    Richard
    
9.949Thanks, RichardPACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONDCU fees: VoteThu Mar 10 1994 18:326
In general, I appreciate the moving of notes to
a better topic.

just_to_make_things_more_complicated,

Collis
9.950JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 10 1994 19:395
    Richard,
    The duplicating remark was indicative of dual discussions in more then
    one topic with no continuity not the duplication of notes.
    
    Are we clear now?
9.951CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 10 1994 19:477
    .950 Nancy Morales,
    
    There's an everpresent risk with crossposting that one (duplicating)
    will lead to the other (dual discussions).  Surely you recognize this.
    
    Richard
    
9.952APACHE::MYERSThu Mar 10 1994 19:558
    I suggest you create a note call "Discussion of Conference Issues" and
    move the preceding string of replies to that note. Just to make things
    interesting, I suggest the you move the replies in reverse order to how
    they appear here :^)

    Eric
    
    
9.953CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 10 1994 20:038
    .952
    
    It's a funny thing, Eric, but if you read 9.0 it says pretty much
    what you had in mind for a new string.  Were yew jest a'pullin'
    my lag? :-)
    
    Richard
    
9.954JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 10 1994 20:107
    Yep you is correct that it *could* happen... 
    
    Nonetheless for continuity [beginning to hate that word] can we try ?
    
    I accidentally typed for Collis.. Coolis :-)  
    
    Collis, wanna fight? :-) :-)
9.955TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Mar 10 1994 23:4818
    
    Re.942
    
    Nancy,
    
    Ok.  
    
    Please do trust me though - my note was not aimed solely at you, though 
    it may seem it - but it was aimed to all those who are trying to sell 
    the idea of Christ=Salvation=Love and completely make a mess out of it 
    due to their presentation, and end up driving away the very people that
    are in need of the central Message (of Divine Love) the most.  It
    bothers me greatly when this happens, and so *I* may come across
    equally as hard when I see this going on. 
    
    With God's Love,
    
    Cindy
9.956JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Mar 11 1994 15:0314
    Thanks for the acknowledgement Cindy.  As I was reading your note this
    phrase really struck out to me:
    
    >central Message (of Divine Love) 
    
    I'm curious what you define as Divine Love and why it is the central
    message.  If you feel inclined to help me understand your belief, I
    would appreciate it.
    
    I would like to discuss it... even with possibly our different views
    and hope that it could remain a discussion, not sparring match.
    
    Thanks,
    Nancy
9.957TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonFri Mar 11 1994 15:3018
    
    Re.956
    
    Nancy,
    
    Christ came to present the two most important commandments, which are
    (paraphrased), "Love God, and love your neighbor as yourself."
    
    Divine love is what Christ showed when all the men were ready to stone
    the prostitute in their self-righteousness.  The idea that God loves
    and accepts us, no matter what, is what I call Divine love.  Too often,
    people withhold love from other people until they 'sin no more'.  This 
    is conditional love.  But Christ showed Divine love, and showed that 
    first we love and accept the person as they are, and as a result of that, 
    the Divine love will transform.
    
    Cindy
                      
9.958Yahoo got anudder x58 number!JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Mar 11 1994 16:106
    Just FYI, I am studying I John at the moment and God is doing a very
    deep work within me regarding "uncondtional love", or "Diving love" as
    you have written.
    
    What other ways do you believe Jesus demonstrated unconditional love 
    or "Agape".  Also in your opinion is Divine Love only from God?
9.959CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatFri Mar 11 1994 16:446
    Allow me to *suggest* turning this recent exchange into its own
    topic -- perhaps "Divine Love"?  (If you have a problem with this,
    just blaim it on the J of my ENFJ, okay?)
    
    Richard
    
9.960Go aheadJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Mar 11 1994 16:485
    WAIT... DOES THAT MEAN I LOSE X58 POSITION??? :-) :-)
    
     Blame it on the P of my ENFP, kay?
    
    
9.961I'm smiling... kinda...:-}DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesMon Mar 14 1994 18:5215
    RE: Everyone...
    
    			Could we *PLEASE* play nice?  Wouldn't it be great
    if we *ALL* assumed that everyone else was in a great mood and wrote
    every note with a smile on their face?  It seems to me that we are all
    taking these discussions much too seriously.  And people?  Can we first 
    ask about percieved insults before we go ballistic?  Forgive me but I
    am sick and tired of note after note after note after note of "you said
    this and you said that".  It may be an erronous assumption but I
    *THOUGHT* we were all adults here.  There are some wonderful discussion
    topics being trashed by questions of intent.  Assume the best and go
    on.
    
    
    Dave  No mod....just me. :-)
9.962JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Mar 14 1994 19:133
    .961
    
    Good reminder
9.963CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 22 1994 15:2811
    (877.68 MORALES_NA)
        
>    Of course, we have gotten into insults more lately in this conference,
>    then not... 

I deliberately avoided saying anything that might be construed as an insult.
I've been on my very best behavior for the past week.  But if merely saying,
"I disagree," is an insult, then we're all in trouble.

Richard
    
9.964JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 15:438
    .963
    
    What did you disagree with?  It is a fact that rumors of untruth start
    but a whole host of people will jump on the bandwagon who are convinced
    its truth... 
    
    That was the only point.  If you are saying that this *doesn't* happen,
    then I'd say we are all in trouble.... 
9.965Removed from 877.72AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 15:4657
Let's look at the progression here.



>>Note 877.58                     Timothy And Titus                       58 of 70
>>JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"    13 lines  21-MAR-1994 13:33

>>    GREAT and I get .58 to boot!  THanks for asking Marc!

Friendly tone set here.
  
 >>    In other words just be "questioning" I can cause doubt to have folks
 >>   looking at Hillary differently then before.

Point made without being pajorative   
 
>>    The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in the Bible,
>>    doesn't deem it truth, just as with Hillary.
  
If anything, Nancy is on Hillary's side here!!
  
>>    BTW, this has happened.  A Rumor started that Hillary was really
>>    bi-sexual, but preferred women and now there is a whole host of people
>>    saying stupid things like, "So that's why she cut her hair so short!"
    
>>    Ridiculous, eh?

Nancy has again defended the first lady and is supporting the fact that rumors
can cause division and pain in peoples lives.  

Now, let's see the response.


>>                         -< argument lacks integrity >-

>>    What is really offensive is a scholarly discussion
>>    degenerating into mischevous labelling and insinuation.
  
As Nancy replied...Huh???  Like...uuuhhh...where did this come from?
  
>>    It is a means of argumentation that lacks integrity.
  
It does lack integrity.  Too bad it never took place here and is a figment
of one's imagination.
  
>>    If the facts and rational arguments are incontestable, why not just use
>>    accusations, defamation, and homophobia to prove that Paul wrote
>>    Timothy and Titus.
  
Can't do that...that would be using a liberal method of debate.  Kind of like
Clinton's no no no no No No No NO NO NO NO... speech last week (Slam that
podium!!)  I didn't hear Nancy defaming anybody and ...homophobe???  Since
when is Nancy scared of gays?  You lost me when you used the word homophobe
because it is a stupid meaningless term used by the left in this country.
Absolutely no substance. 

-Jack  
9.966JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 15:4815
    Richard, et. al.,
    
    As you have stated, that you have tried for the last week to be on your
    good behavior... well, as have I.
    
    And since we are trying [and I'd say together], let's not be too quick
    to dismiss wounds that aren't completely healed by poking and prodding
    each other in subtle ways.
    
    Now Richard if you wish to give me an invitation to leave and not
    participate here [Patricia that includes you], then do so.  Be up
    front, say that you wish I wasn't here, or let's continue our
    discussions for the value that they *can* have.  
    
    Otherwise, this will not end.
9.967DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 16:0428
    RE: the last few...
    
    				I have (once again) been asked to step in 
    and restore order.  Guess its my Football ref's background. :-)  So I
    am going to be very direct.
    
    				Insults are the responsibility of *BOTH*
    the giver *AND* the reciever.  If you choose to take insult then you
    surely will.  Its hard for me to personally believe that "I disagree"
    could be insulting under *ANY* circumstances.  On this one I am asking
    all of you to "convince me".  
    
    				To my knowledge *NO ONE* has been asked to
    leave and if anyone is you can rest assured I will fight that incident
    to the best of my abilities....to the point of resigning as a
    moderator.  Thats a promise you can take to the bank.  Now I will say
    that I have *INVITED* one person to leave but never asked.
    
    				I tried the "play nice" note and it doesn't
    seem to be working.  From now on, as much as work will allow, I will be
    serving as moderator as much as is possible.  Up and to the point of
    deleting notes and hiding them as they deserve.  I had expected adult
    behavior but maybe I was wrong.  I encourage *EVERYONE* to reread the
    policy's of this conference and be warned.   
    
    
    Dave Dawson
    C-P co-mod
9.968JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 16:066
    RE: .966
    
    You will never get someone to tell you to leave, Nancy. Never.
    Other conferences, most likely, here. never.
    
    Marc H.
9.969AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 16:139
    David:
    
    If it was implied that you use accusations defamations and homophobia
    as the foundation for your position, would you be quick to call it
    nonsense?....I would!
    
    Thx.,
    
    -Jack
9.970JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 16:2211
    .968
    
    So in other words, no-one will be up front with their desires, they
    will use other tactics in which to get the message across???
    
    Or did you have another meaning?
    
    Dave, I asked you to step in... and I respect your
    choices/decisions/moderation of this conference as you are well aware.
    
    
9.971JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 16:233
    .969
    
    Actually, I *tried* to let it pass... 
9.972Means What It SaysJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 16:255
    RE: .970
    
    No, no, no. I didn't mean anything else. Don't be paranoid.
    
    Marc H.
9.973No paranoia here that I can tellJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 16:271
    Which is what?  What are the reasons I won't be asked to leave?
9.974DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 16:317
    Nancy,
    
    			Because while I am a moderator, It won't be
    allowed.  This is a file for *ALL* which includes you .
    
    
    Dave
9.975JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 16:575
    RE: .973
    
    Dave's answer in .974 is quite simple.
    
    Marc H.
9.976JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 17:1517
    Well, if its conference policy, sobeit.  Thanks Dave.
    
    However, fwiw, I am very well aware that my position of morality in the
    family [God's way, Adam and Eve] and my position on Salvation through
    no other venue but Christ as the Son of God, creates an aura of
    unacceptance from *most* of you towards myself.
    
    As I've honestly and with much integrity [despite what others may
    think] tried to note in here, I've too, sense the same honesty and
    integrity from others.  While we disagree on much, I still value each
    and every one of you.  
    
    I have a belief that each human entity, created by God, is valuable,
    loveable and valid... and  I mean *EVERY* individual.
    
    Nancy
    
9.977And I quote...APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 22 1994 17:3537
    I'd like to address a point around noting syntax. What do quotes ("")
    mean? When someone uses quotes around a single word or phrase, e.g.

    	The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in 
        the Bible...

    The implication is that the word in quotations means something more
    than, or other than, its face definition to the writer. The word in
    quotations is read:

     	so-called questioning
    or
    	alleged questioning

    If all the writer wants to do is use the word, then quotes are not
    necessary. For example the following two sentence pairs insinuate
    different things:

       1) The anti-abortion protesters were "non-violent."
       2) The anti-abortion protesters were non-violent.
    or
       1) Some people who "love" their children will use spankings as a
          form of discipline.
       2) Some people who love their children will use spankings as a
          form of discipline.

    The first sentences imply that the writer himself would not use the
    quoted term to describe the actions or characteristics. The writer
    can come along later and claim that they didn't qualify peoples
    actions. 

    This is a pet peeve of mine. It a root of contention and/or
    misunderstanding in some note streams.

     	Peace,
    		Eric

9.978JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 17:418
    It denotes emphasis... that's all.. for me.  sometimes I use asterisks
    * ... this is for voice fluctuations as well if you read that way.
    
    Petpeeves are hard to break, considered a Petpeeves anonymous group?
    
    :-) :-)
    
    
9.979 " Pet Peeves"JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 17:445
    RE: .977
    
    "O.K."
    
    Marc h.
9.980APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 22 1994 17:4920
    re: Note 9.976 by JULIET::MORALES_NA 


    > However, fwiw, I am very well aware that my *POSITION* of morality in the
    > family [God's way, Adam and Eve] and my position on Salvation through
    > no other venue but Christ as the Son of God, creates an aura of
    > unacceptance from *most* of you towards myself.

    In the most calm and gentle way I possibly can, I wish to point out
    that Cindy P., Mark H., Patricia F. and others (myself included) have
    told you explicitly, and more than once, that it is your *PRESENTATION*
    and not your *POSITION* that, on occasion, raises some peoples hackles.

    Now I know you used the qualifying word *most*, so perhaps you were
    not speaking of these folks. I just wanted to make sure you understood
    that some people find certain *presentations* more grating than the
    positions being put forth. 

    Eric

9.981"Peace"APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 22 1994 17:528
    re Note 9.978 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    Well in that case, I feel "much better." :^)
    But I'll still get confused if you use quotes as opposed to CAPS or * *
    for indicating emphasis.

    Eric

9.982once again...TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Mar 22 1994 17:587
    
    Re.980
    
    Thank you, Eric.  Yes, Nancy, it is the *PRESENTATION*, and not the 
    *POSITION*.  
    
    Cindy
9.983Learn From Us Nancy!!AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 18:0812
    Nancy has a real problem in this area.  Nancy, it is the way you
    present your position, not the position itself.
    
    Nancy, I would strongly recommend you read some of the gentle replies
    from the rest of us, particularly those with a liberal point of view.
    Most importantly, please please Please go into womannotes and try to
    learn from their style also.  There is nothing sweeter than the gentle 
    persuasion of a radical feminist!
    
    Love,
    
    -Jack
9.984JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 18:129
    RE: .983
    
    Jack,
     
    Your reply does nothing to help. All it does is cause division and
    more resentment.  
    Think about it.
    
    Marc H.
9.985APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 22 1994 18:229
    Just when I thought some barriers were falling, along comes a note like
    that. 

    I was going to enter a real pithy sarcastic response, but I thought
    better of it. I'm going to try to be more respectful of the people who
    end up reading my notes.
    
    Sad,
    	Eric
9.986DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 18:295
    
    		"And they cried Peace....Peace...but there was no peace".
    
    
    Dave
9.987AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 18:359
    Marc:
    
    I said the same thing as everybody else.  Even if I was being a cynic,
    I think I made a valid point!
    
    Believe me...None of us are the epitomy of virtue in the methods we
    bring our position to the table...None of Us!
    
    -Jack
9.988DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 18:4210
    Jack,
    
    		I appreciate what your trying to say but unfortunatly the
    very process by which you said it belies the point you were trying to
    make.  In other words you did exactly what your asking Nancy not to do.
    Gentle persuasion avoids the temptation of being a "cynic".  And your
    right.  None of us are perfect...but we try. :-)  
    
    
    Dave
9.989Words alone do not equal the message...APACHE::MYERSTue Mar 22 1994 18:4311
    Jack,


    > I said the same thing as everybody else.

    No you didn't. Your cynicism, as you call it, says the *opposite* of
    what the other noters were saying.

    You confuse the words use with the message you convey...
                                     
    Eric
9.990AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 18:5418
    Okay, fair enough.  Now that I got everybody's attention, let's ask a
    serious question.
    
    My dear colleagues, how do we deal with serious problems of today
    without being called a racist, unfeeling, homophobic?  This is on the
    level.  It seems that whenever a subject gets brought up that involves 
    alittle controversy, one side of the pendulum starts with the name
    calling.  I have proven this just this morning.  
    
    As an opinion of an inddividual contributor, I respectfully submit that
    the big lies of our society such as multiculturalism, etc., have turned
    our countries brains into mush.  It has robbed us of the honest dialog
    that we need to have in order to make our world better for our
    children.  
    
    Best Rgds.,
    
    -Jack
9.991JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Mar 22 1994 19:159
    RE:  .990
    I'll give you a serious answer. You deal with serious problems 
    by talking about them in an adult way. This isn't soapbox or
    other forums where points are scored and kept. 
    And do yourself and others a favor. If you don't agree with someone,
    just say, I don't agree without adding a psuedo dialog or dragging
    in labels like racist that will inflame feelings.
    
    Marc H.
9.992DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 19:1715
    Jack,
    
    		You bring up some interesting questions.  In the Navy we
    used to have seminars dealing with racist beliefs.  Without fail they
    turned into finger pointing sessions and served to promote racist
    attitudes rather than disperse them.  So when I hear "lets all talk
    about this or that", these instances come to mind.  I would dearly love
    to have an open and honest discussion about these issues but I sense a
    danger.  Frank discussions tend to get out of hand quickly so before I
    could participate in them I would want some pretty firm ground rules
    governing conduct.  Digital has and is very careful about these kinds
    of conversations.
    
    
    Dave
9.993on the moneyRDVAX::ANDREWSis you is or is you ain't?Tue Mar 22 1994 19:244
    
    .991..eggsactly..thanks, marc
    
    peter
9.994JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 19:2710
    Hmmm.. interesting feedback.  I guess its the fingerpointing at
    Christians that fires my logs and then in haste I react to it, which
    then points the finger at *me*...
    
    Interesting concepts... albeit one-sided.  Reminds me of childhood as
    well.
    
    You chide, make fun of and humiliate a child until they finally react
    and punch the chider in the nose... then the child who punched is now
    reprimanded, suspended and told again HE/SHE is the unacceptable one.
9.995TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonTue Mar 22 1994 20:0516
    
    Re.994
    
    Not once has anyone ever said here, Nancy, that you are the
    unacceptable one.  If they have, please provide the note reference.
    
    You told us that we have a problem with you and your position,
    despite repeated attempts by many of us that it is NOT your
    position that we have a problem with.  Please tell us - HOW can
    we be clear to you about this?  
    
    I don't particularly like the swipes and stereotyping in here 
    that the conservatives take toward the liberals either.  It goes 
    *both* ways.
    
    Cindy
9.996AIMHI::JMARTINTue Mar 22 1994 20:1439
Re: Note 9.991                    The Processing Topic                    991 of 994

Marc:

>>    RE:  .990
>>    I'll give you a serious answer. You deal with serious problems 
>>    by talking about them in an adult way. This isn't soapbox or
>>    other forums where points are scored and kept. 
>>    And do yourself and others a favor. If you don't agree with someone,
>>    just say, I don't agree without adding a psuedo dialog or dragging
>>    in labels like racist that will inflame feelings.
    
>>    Marc H.

Okay Marc, let's talk about adult dialog for a minute.  Do you know the 
distinguished gentleman from New York, Senator Patrick Moynihan?  During
the Johnson Administration, Senator Moynihan was chairman I believe of 
somwthing equivalent to Housing and Urban development.  The Senator wrote an
official document regarding minorities in urban regions and developments. 
In this document, he hit head on in regards to issues.  His final analysis 
was this.  There are serious problems in Black America and if something isn't 
done, there are going to be serious problems in the next 20 years.
(Jesse Jackson affirmed this in his black on black crime forum on CSPAN.)

Back in the late 60's,
Mr. Moynihan was labelled a racist...a bigot...unfeeling...and shunned by 
black leadership.  Marc, it is now 25 years later.  Mr. Moynihan was very un
PC...but he stood by his convictions and history has proven him right. 
Would you say that it was the content of what he said or was it the way he 
said it that annoyed people?  I say it was the content.  Maybe if we had
    listened back then, things would be better today, but we didn't.  

Now in regards to noting, you are right.  Perhaps political arguments and 
the like need to be left in Soapbox.  May I remind you however, that I wasn't
the one who brought in the words like homophobe into the conversation...
somebody else did.  I was just responding to it!

-Jack
                                                                      
9.997LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Mar 22 1994 20:2821
re Note 9.977 by APACHE::MYERS:

>     The first sentences imply that the writer himself would not use the
>     quoted term to describe the actions or characteristics. The writer
>     can come along later and claim that they didn't qualify peoples
>     actions. 
  
        That has always been my understanding of the use of quotes as
        well.

        Today, in MSO2, the Tobin corporation (which runs the
        cafeteria) had a "chowder fest" in which they gave samples of
        12 different chowder recipes created by twelve members of
        their cooking staff from various facilities (non-Digital as
        well as Digital).  Each of them had a small sign in front of
        their chowder giving their name with the word "Chef" -- in
        quotes, in front of the name!

        It figures.

        Bob
9.998JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 20:376
    Cindy,
    
    I understand what you are saying.. and your last sentence is the one on
    which I'd like to place the most emphasis, "it swings both ways".
    
    We do agree.
9.999JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 22 1994 20:451
    Is it possible to be firm and loving at the same time?
9.1001Feelings...nothing more than feelings....CSC32::KINSELLAWhy be politically correct when you can be right?Tue Mar 22 1994 22:2230
    
    You know I've hestitated in saying something about this, but I feel 
    I must anyway...
    
    I've been back in this file more consistently for the last few weeks
    and have caught up on most strings and I few I just blew off.  I don't
    see a problem with Nancy's initial presentation of what she believes. 
    I do see things unravel when she's been attacked.  It takes awhile to
    develop a tough skin in this file and other times it takes being able
    to walk away from it.  I've felt some of the treatment that Nancy
    received was extremely harsh and I have addressed this offline with the
    offending party as not to drag all this through the mud.  I think we
    need to do that more. I think we need to work individual issues offline
    to help keep a more peaceful atmosphere in this conference.
    
    Most of all, along the same lines as Dave, we need to practice
    forgiveness. There are many here that I don't agree with.  So what. 
    That doesn't mean we can't converse without name calling.  I think all
    of us can be reasonable.
    
    One last word...I do think that part of the flack that Nancy and other
    conservatives receive is because of the message of the gospel...which
    lets face it is definitely exclusive by nature.  This grates on the
    nerves of those who feel there are many ways to God.  But beware that
    is inherent to her belief system and is not meant to offend.  I find
    there to be a great deal of intolerance over this not only in this
    conference, but in this nation.  
    
    Jill
     
9.1002DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 22 1994 23:506
    RE: .1001  Jill,
    
    			Thank you.  Sanity at last. :-)
    
    
    Dave
9.1003Cross-posted from a relevant topicCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 22 1994 23:5730
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                 -< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
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(Note 9.1001 KINSELLA)

>    conservatives receive is because of the message of the gospel...which
>    lets face it is definitely exclusive by nature. 

I disagree utterly and completely, though I know some, perhaps many, would
prefer that Christianity was indeed exclusive by nature.

In fact, it grated on the nerves of Jesus' detractors that he was so inclusive.
My guess is that it still goes against the grain of those who believe they
have the correct handle on God, and that anybody who is out of sync is a
deceiver.

Be aware that the inclusive nature of Christianity is inherent to my belief
system (Christian) and it is not meant to offend.

Richard

PS  The notion of exclusivity is the main reason I cannot get enthused
  about the resurrection of the dead.  I mean, if only the people there
  are the ones who are sure they're going to be there, I'm not so sure
  I have any reason to want to be there with them.

9.1004DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Mar 23 1994 00:1311
    RE: .1003 Richard,
    
    			You bring up an interesting contrast.  By what do
    you percieve are the requirements to enter heaven?  In other words, If
    you were standing before God right this minute and God asked you why
    you should be allowed into Heaven what would your answer be?  :-)
    
    			'Course this might be better as a topic in itself.
    
    
    Dave
9.1005Cross-posted to topic 351CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 01:0127
    .1004 Deacon David Dawson,
    
    	I'm not so sure Heaven is a realm which is realized after bodily
    functions cease.  I've spoken of this in the Salvation topic and
    the Everlasting Life topic.
    
    	Heaven, to me, is God's Kingdom.  Moreover, it is God's Kingdom
    come, God's will be done on earth.  Jesus spoke of the Kingdom of God
    in terms of both the present and future, of both the already and the
    not yet.
    
    	I don't believe Peter stands at the pearly gates of the cloud-
    carpeted entrance to Heaven directing admissions and rejections of
    deceased souls.
    
    As a bit of an aside:
    
    	I remember hearing about a famous man (whose name doesn't come to
    mind) who had a dream.  In his dream, he had died and gone to Heaven.
    Shocked and alarmed, he told the beings there that he had been an atheist
    while alive and that some dreadful mistake had been made that he was
    actually gaining admittance to Heaven.  The angelic beings said to him
    something like, "We're sorry, but that's really something you don't get
    to decide."
    
    Peace,
    Richard
9.1006DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Mar 23 1994 01:1814
    RE: .1004  Richard,
    
    			Thank you Richard.  Sincerely.  I've heard that
    idea before and its a popular one.  I hope and pray that your right,
    I really do.  And to tell you the truth I like the idea.  Unfortunatly
    its not what I believe and experienced but you know all about that one,
    right? :-)  Not because your all knowing but I am sure people here have
    introduced you to conservative viewpoints. :-)  I truly do believe that
    there is a God in Heaven preparing a place for me.  Too many miracles
    have happened to me to believe otherwise.
    
    
    Peace brother,
    Dave
9.1007CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 02:537
    .1006,
    
    I can honor that, Dave.  Especially coming from you.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1008ditto...TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Mar 23 1994 02:5922
                                                      
    Re.1001
    
    Jill,
    
    It also grates on the nerves of conservatives that liberals say they
    believe there are many paths to God, that homosexuality is not
    necessarily a sin, and so on and so on, and they tend to feel that it's
    their God-given duty to 'present the Truth' as they see it.  It's even
    gone so far as for some to say this conference is not about Christian
    Perspectives at all, in fact.  Or certain members who choose to call
    themselves Christians and happen to have a liberal stance, have been 
    told that they are not.  And so on. 
    
    Presenting the Truth as you/they interpret it is fine, but it's when you/
    they get downright obnoxious and self-righteous about it that it really 
    is exasperating and frustrating.  I'm sure I could find just as many
    entries in this conference to support my point as you can for yours.
    
    It goes both ways.
    
    Cindy
9.1009re .1003COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Mar 23 1994 03:2311
re Richard.

Jesus was very inclusive -- of people.

	Wide embrace of all the world.

Jesus was very exclusive -- of ideas -- of the way to the kingdom of heaven.

	Narrow road to heaven.

/john
9.1010JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 04:0523
    That is why we have two conferences.  I do not expect to be embraced in
    here.  I expect opposition. 
    
    BTW, I agree with Jill's writing of exclusivity, I've mentioned that
    very same thing in here before, even mentioned today to another noter
    in here.  
    
    Cindy, your perception of self-righteousness is yours.  I've not seen
    it demonstrated since I've been participating.  If you are referring to
    me, then please let me say right here.  Of sinners, I am the chiefest,
    much like Paul.  No self-righteous indignation from this venue.  
    
    Christ rightfully divided the ones whose hearts were turned toward him
    from those who gave lipservice.  While you don't know me all too well,
    I can tell you that liperservice is not my tea.  I am a person who like
    others has every founding principle to believe there is *no* God.  But
    despite the events of my life, I've embraced Him, which means facing my
    sinfulness, my ugliness if you will.
    
    No, there is no *self* righteousness here....  and I don't see it
    elsewhere.
    
    
9.1011TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Mar 23 1994 11:3922
re: Note 9.1010 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    That is why we have two conferences.  I do not expect to be embraced in
>    here.  I expect opposition. 
    
Could this be a case of `you find what you're looking for'?

>    I can tell you that liperservice is not my tea.  I am a person who like
>    others has every founding principle to believe there is *no* God.  But
>    despite the events of my life, I've embraced Him, which means facing my
>    sinfulness, my ugliness if you will.

Good for you, I can identify with that.
    
>    No, there is no *self* righteousness here....  and I don't see it
>    elsewhere.
    
Good to hear.    

Peace,

Jim
9.1012JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Mar 23 1994 12:1714
    RE: .996
    
    Moynihan is far from the Christian-Perspective...but.
    
    I am old enough to remember lots of similar statements made in the
    60's. Yes, sometimes the actual truth is hard for people to accept,
    and as such labels of racist and liberal are thrown out. Equally
    on both sides...I should add.
    
    Moynihan? I don't like him...he is anti second amendment and to much
    of a liberal for me. Although he is correct about Clinton's Health
    Care.
    
    Marc H.
9.1013AIMHI::JMARTINWed Mar 23 1994 13:1755
Re: Self Righteousness.  Please see below.  I think humility has been more the
norm than self righteousness by far.  Perhaps we are all guilty of reading into
other notes alittle too much.

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>>AIMHI::JMARTIN                                        8 lines  15-MAR-1994 12:44
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>>    I pray for Jack Martin.  Although he has eternal life through faith in
>>    the savior, spiritual growth is an ongoing process and will be
>>    throughout his life.
    
>>    Help him to build his testimony through integrity and character,
>>    becoming a witness for the risen redeemer, Jesus Christ.
    
>>    Thank You!

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>>JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"    11 lines  15-MAR-1994 12:45
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>>    .0
    
    
>>   Well, it sure seems like there could be very little entered here at
>>   least for myself, as I'm sure I've been a hypocrite at least once in my
>>   lifetime... perhaps you can pray for me.  I've oftimes known to do
>>   right and even taught the principle and then found myself failing
>>    miserably in that area. :-(
    
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>>Note 879.6              Prayers for Pagans and Hypocrites                 6 of 8
>>CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready"          8 lines  15-MAR-1994 13:11
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>> What .3 said

>> Jim
------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Marc:

I agree with you about Moynihan.  I hope some of us see the main point of
what was being said.  If people are labeled for speaking their convictions
just as Moynihan was, or even Noah for that matter, history will teach us 
that it is not prudent and can be detrimental in the end.  Just so you will 
understand where I am coming from, this is why I am so hard on the 
sensitivity advocates.  Well meaninged they may be; however, communication 
and truth is stunted and we all suffer the consequences.  That's all I'm saying.

Rgds.,

-Jack


9.1014GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Mar 23 1994 14:047
Re: .1010 Nancy

>    Of sinners, I am the chiefest, much like Paul.

So no one in all the world sins and much as you and Paul, eh?  Braggart! ;^)

				-- Bob
9.1015replyTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Mar 23 1994 14:3532
    
    Re.1010
    
    Nancy,
    
    As Jim said, it is your perception that you do not expect to be
    embraced here, and that you expect opposition.  One typically gets and
    sees what they expect to see.  I recall my entry into the other
    conference many, many years ago.  I entered quite a few things from
    Scott Peck's "The Different Drum", because I thought they would be
    genuinely welcomed and considered for the discussion.  But among the 
    responses I got were openly hostile in many cases (typical anti-New Age
    comments), there was one in particular that said I was 'cold as a stone' 
    (however I will refrain from citing who that person was.)  Tell me, 
    Nancy, has anyone ever said that to you here?  
    
    The one time that comes to mind for you is when you told Patricia she
    was not a Christian (back when she was calling herself one), and that
    she did not have the Holy Spirit.
    
    It's fine for you to measure your own self up against that which you
    read in the Bible, to determine if you are a Christian or not, and if
    you have the Holy Spirit or not.  But I really have a problem with
    your doing this to another.  Only God knows who the real Christians
    are, since it is not on the outside, but what is inside one's own heart
    that is truly the place where the difference lies.  Who are you to
    judge?
    
    As for other examples, see the Christian and Gays topic, for starters.
    
    Cindy
          
9.1016JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 15:147
    .1015
    
    Ah.. now lets jump on the ol' you get what you expect wagon?  I should
    have stated, "I *learned* to expect oppostion after having noted in
    here for a short time."  This is EXACTLY what my sentence failed to
    portray... I didn't come in here noting expecting to be jumped on..
    truly I didn't.  I came because of an invitation.
9.1017JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 15:2435
    .1015
    
    In regards to my statement regarding Patricia... the discussion at hand
    warranted the measurement of the Bible's way to salvation.  If this is
    offensive, there is not much I can do about it.  It is my conviction
    and a part of my belief as much as my fingers are a part of my hand. 
    If I am rejected for citing the Word of God. Praise Him!
    
    There was no malice, no hate, at all in the conversation.  I again ask
    the question how do be *firm* in what you believe/know is Truth and
    *loving*.  I said all the cognitive words of "I believe"... what more
    can a person do?  This is a CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVES conference
    supposedly to embrace all beliefs, right?  Now I'm not allowed to state
    that when someone boldly says that Jesus is not deity, that I BELIEVE
    that belief is wrong and what I BELIEVE the consequences are as a
    result of said belief?
    
    Here it is and here is what I will defend regardless:
    
    Jesus Christ is Deity, earth born Son of God
    Jesus Christ is Lord, the only way for salvation
    The Holy Spirit only indwells those who receive Jesus Christ
    The Bible is inerrant
    
    I will not relinquish one iota of the above to make friends in here.  I
    accept you as you are, though we believe differently.  I value each
    person in here, though we believe differently.  When you state your
    beliefs, I will challange said beliefs as long as I'm noting in here,
    if they are not congruent with the Bible.  When I state my beliefs, I
    expect [now] that you will do the same.
    
    Now what?  Shall we stop all discussions?  Shall we not struggle for
    better understanding of one another, regardless of conversion?  
    
    Your call Cindy [and others].
9.1018CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 15:356
    (.1017 MORALES_NA)
    
    Actually, this is the CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE (No S on the end) conference.
    
    Richard
    
9.1019not quite...TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Mar 23 1994 15:3910
re: Note 9.1017 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>   This is a CHRISTIAN PERSPECTIVES conference
>   supposedly to embrace all beliefs, right?  

No one is asked by the conference to embrace any particular belief.

Peace,

Jim
9.1020JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 15:4312
    Geez you guys are pedantic...! :-)
    
    Unbelievable... haven't you got anything better to say?
    
    Richard, I am truly offended at your inability to communicate properly
    with me.. so there is an S missing, big hairy deal!
    
    Jim... let's see now how shall I re-word this so as to make it non
    confrontational and kind....  The conference was formed to *allow* all
    beliefs to be freely discussed... Crimoney I used the word embrace not
    convert!
    
9.1021CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 15:4910
    .1019
    
    Buddhists, agnostics, atheists, pagans and hypocrites are allowed
    to participate without requirement by the conference to change.
    Strangely enough, from time to time people have changed.  Is it
    not true?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1022JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Mar 23 1994 16:135
    RE: .1021
    
    Change? You bet. I've changed.
    
    Marc H.
9.1023AIMHI::JMARTINWed Mar 23 1994 16:1843
    Cindy:
    
    As one who has participated in this kind of dialog, I would like to
    participate in this discussion if it is alright.  I know you are
    speaking to Nancy so I am here as another who takes interest in what
    you have to say.
    
    It has become apparent to me from reading in here the last few years
    that the standards by which we measure ourselves and others are quite
    different.  This is the case throughout the world.  As an example, what
    a private school may call average work, a public school may call
    excellent work, or vice versa.  We see things differently because we
    don't share the same foundation and hence our scopes aren't in parity
    with one another.
    
    Patricia has stated to me anyway as far back as a year ago that her
    truth and my truth are not the same.  I respect her for that, it's her
    God given right to believe as she wishes.  John Covert hit it right on
    the head a few replies back.  Christianity is inclusionary in that the
    invitation of eternal life is available to all.  It is also
    exclusionary in the sense that "...not all who say to me Lord Lord will
    enter the kingdom of God."  
    
    Since I believe eternal life to be completely by God's grace and not of
    our works, it stands to reason that acting Christian and being
    Christian are two completely different things.  I believe the atoning
    death of the cross is the absolute crux of the Bible.  We are all
    adults here and I presume we are striving for truth, even through
    challenge to one another.  
    
    My standard of belief is on the cross, no other.  There have been and 
    are millions of spiritual leaders in the world, all of different
    religions, who were great mral teachers...but that's as far as it goes!
    
    Now for a little bit of medicine...If somebody challenges you as I have
    been challenged in my life, for crying out loud let's stop whining. 
    Just write back and say..."Nancy..your full of prunes and here's
    why!!!"  This isn't a sensitivity exercise.  
    
    Rgds.,
    
    -Jack
    -Jack
9.1024CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 17:025
    A friend has said that PC really stands for Plain Courtesy.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.1025AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webWed Mar 23 1994 17:1418
    Nancy,
    
    I ask the same question that you ask.  How to be firm but loving. 
    There is no doubt that your remarks about Hillary are defamatory,
    gossipy, and homophobic.  There was no need for the remarks.  They
    have nothing to do with the point being debated.  Conservatives and
    Liberals universally recognize the questions about those letters.
    
    The remarks imply much about Hillary and much about Homosexuality.  The
    remark was inappropriate. I am committed to the worth and Dignity of
    each person as a basic tenent of my faith.  Your remark supported the
    basic worth and dignity of Hillary or of people who are Lesbian.
    
    I cannot in good conscience let insults like that pass in a conference
    which does have standards.  Nancy, I have no desire to insult you. 
    Your statement was inappropriate.
    
    Patricia
9.1026AIMHI::JMARTINWed Mar 23 1994 17:2112
    Patricia:
    
    This is what's so annoying about the dialog here.  Nancy NEVER SAID
    IT!!!  She was telling you what the media was saying and how idol
    gossip sometimes appears as fact.  If anything, Nancy was supporting
    Hillary but you jumped to conclusions.
    
    I for one could care less who Hillary sleeps with or who her preference
    is toward...that is her business, until it affects her husbands ability
    to lead.  Just keep it out of our faces, that's all we ask.  Thank you.
    
    -Jack
9.1027CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 17:457
    .1026
    
    "Idol" gossip, eh?  I realize it's a mere misspelling, but it conjures
    up some interesting implications.
    
    Richard
    
9.1028Well..here they are.DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesWed Mar 23 1994 18:1249
    RE: .1025  Patricia,
    
    				Below are the two notes in which you seem
    concerned.  After reading these two I am kinda wondering how you might
    have interpreted them to read that Nancy was homophobic?  Her point,
    and I think well made, was that evil rumors can destroy a person and
    color how people react to them.  Now before you say anything understand
    that I voted for and support our President and his wife so I am not
    doing any "ax grinding" here.
    
    
    Dave
    
    
    
    
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    .53
    
    My faith is unshaken as well... so what's the point? 
    
    I could start questioning whether or not Hillary is a lesbian... and
    get that spread out over the country so that it leaves the "question"
    in folks minds... that doesn't mean its true.

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JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"    13 lines  21-MAR-1994 13:33
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    GREAT and I get .58 to boot!  THanks for asking Marc!
    
    In other words just be "questioning" I can cause doubt to have folks
    looking at Hillary differently then before.
    
    The "questioning" behind the authorship of said books in the Bible,
    doesn't deem it truth, just as with Hillary.
    
    BTW, this has happened.  A Rumor started that Hillary was really
    bi-sexual, but preferred women and now there is a whole host of people
    saying stupid things like, "So that's why she cut her hair so short!"
    
    Ridiculous, eh?
9.1029JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 18:3811
    Patricia,
    
    I understand how you could jump to those conclusions about my note.  I
    really can.  I hope you can see now that what you think you read and
    what was said are two different things.
    
    Sensitivities play a big part of our reactions... and I'm just as
    guilty of reacting without thoroughly understanding at times.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.1030TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Mar 23 1994 20:3611
    
    Re.1017
    
    Nancy,
    
    >When I state my beliefs, I expect [now] that you will do the same.
    >[challenge my beliefs]
    
    Great.  We have an understanding, then.  
    
    Cindy
9.1031JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 23 1994 20:4310
    .1030
    
    Uh,er,I *think* so.  Not sure.. the way you picked this out is
    strange... Now I'm getting paranoid.. :-) :-) :-)
    
    Perhaps a routine will be written to bomb conservatives,
    and it will be christened, "Nancy"!
    
    
    Eeeps! :-)
9.1032It is better to break breadCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed Mar 23 1994 22:455
    .1031  Some us us don't believe in bombing others.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1033AIMHI::JMARTINWed Mar 23 1994 23:096
    Richard:
    
    If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
    German or Japanese right now.
    
    God Bless America!!!
9.1034APACHE::MYERSThu Mar 24 1994 12:189
    > If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
    > German or Japanese right now.
    
    Some people believe it's more important to follow Christ than to follow
    politicians.
    
    God save America from its own pompous selfrighteousness.
    
     Eric
9.1035AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webThu Mar 24 1994 12:3329
    Putting in a remark about Hillary being a Lesbian in a discussion that
    has nothing to do with the topic is a rhetorical method.  To imply, I
    don't believe this but I am going to quote it anyway in a publlic place
    is to give space to an unfounded mischievous defamatory homophobic
    rumor.  Nancy has already made clear her personal belief that
    homosexual acts are an abomination.  Even while denying it she is
    spreading a rumor about Hillary that she considers an abomination. 
    The analogy of a spurious defamatory rumor about Hillary and a
    recognized scholarly debate about the authorship of three books of the
    Bible is no valid analogy.  Every Biblical Scholar regardless of what
    there opinion recognizes the issues with those three books.  I have no
    problem with anyone either agreeing or disagreeing with my opinion
    about the authorship.  Many people put excellent legitamate arguments
    in here both supporting and contending with my opinion.  That is
    valuable interchange.
    
    It is a common rhetoric device by those who oppose the feminist movement to
    insinuate that powerful women are Lesbian.  This creates a delemma for
    most Feminists who affirm a women's right to their own sexual
    orientation but who like everyone else struggle with their own
    homophobia.
    
    I for one would like to make sure that this conference does have
    standards.  One of the standards I would propose is to not pass on
    unfounded rumors even in the pretense of not really passing on the
    rumor.  Particularly a rumor that one has already stated represents in
    their oppinion abomination.
    
    Patricia
9.1036SighCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be readyThu Mar 24 1994 13:482

9.1037CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 24 1994 15:5111
    .1033
    
    Jack:
    
    	Your speculation is based in fear and not the Gospel.
    
    	God bless the world!!!  Not just a few, the ones with the money
    and the might.
    
    Richard
    
9.1038AIMHI::JMARTINThu Mar 24 1994 15:5645
RE:  Note 9.1037                   
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Pacifist Hellcat"                 10 lines  24-MAR-1994 12:11
    
>>    Jack:
    
>>    	Your speculation is based in fear and self-preservation.
    
>>    	God bless the world!!!  Not just a few.
    
Richard:

God bless America has a deep interpretation.  It means, God, I pray for
America because we are going down the toilet!!  It is a prayer for America.
I'm surprised that you of all people would attempt to discredit the strong
possibility of my statement.  The Germans had a very intelligent team of 
scientists working on the A Bomb and with the help of their V2 rockets 
would surely have put a strike on the United States, definitely England.
You were around in the early 60's and surely must remember the emotions during
the Cuban missle crisis.  Richard...Fear is an international language.  Don't
forget that.  Ever see the add on TV which said...NATO...the only thing that 
has kept Europe from going up in flames.  We are to be the light of the 
world, no doubt but we must be prudent in our decisions.      

Re: Note 9.1034                   The Processing Topic                  1034 of 1037
APACHE::MYERS                                         9 lines  24-MAR-1994 09:18

XX    > If we all believed that way, you'd most likely be speaking either
XX    > German or Japanese right now.
    
>>    Some people believe it's more important to follow Christ than to follow
>>    politicians.

Eric:

Jesus said to be as innocent as doves but as cunning as wolves.  Tell me,
had we not interceded in WW2 and built up a strong defensive posture in a 
wicked world, where do you think you would be right now?
    
>>    God save America from its own pompous selfrighteousness.

Yes, without Jesus we can only proclaim ourselves as righteous.  Thank God
I was paid for with an expensive price.  I am worth little but of great value.

-Jack
                                          
9.1039JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 24 1994 16:0710
    .1035
    
    From this point forward all I can say to you is..
    
    Regardless of our differences, I still value you.  Trash me if you
    like, it won't change one penny of your value to me.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
9.1040CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 24 1994 16:0816
    .1038  Jack,
    
    	Documents revealed in recent years have indicated that Hitler's Germany
    had given up on plans to build the A-bomb, believing it was years away.
    I know this puts some holes in the rationale for all those who believe
    the U.S. has always done what is right and good, but so be it.
    
    	There also exists a body of evidence that the Japanese would have
    ceased the war anyway within 3 or so months of dropping Little Boy and
    Fat Man on populated areas.  I know this puts some holes in the
    rationale for all those who believe the U.S. has always done what
    is right and good, but so be it.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1041BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Mar 24 1994 16:3814
| <<< Note 9.1039 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| Regardless of our differences, I still value you.  Trash me if you
| like, it won't change one penny of your value to me.

	I guess I don't see where she is trashing you. But Patricia has
explained it the clearest way possible, so if ya don't understand her, then
there is nothing I could do to help.



Glen
9.1042APACHE::MYERSThu Mar 24 1994 16:4621
    > Jesus said to be as innocent as doves but as cunning as wolves.

    And in your mind that means meeting violence with greater violence?
    Jesus was addressing the twelve apostles as he sent them out to preach
    his message... he was not referring to military strategy. 

    FWIW, the KJV uses "...wise as serpents" and the NIV says "... shrewd
    as snakes." I'm not sure it matters, but for me the "cunning as wolves"
    statement brings a different, more predatory image to my mind.  

    > Tell me, had we not interceded in WW2 and built up a strong defensive
    > posture in a wicked world, where do you think you would be right now?

    I really don't know. Maybe we'd be like the Swiss. I'm not really upset
    that we did what we did, I'm just not sure Jesus would support our
    actions. I think He places a higher value on dying young and pure than
    old and compromised.

    Eric

9.1043JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 24 1994 16:553
    .1041
    
    Well Glen, perceptions are like fingerprints.
9.1044arms and securityTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Mar 24 1994 17:046
    
    Maybe we should build and give a nuclear bomb to every person on Earth,
    then we'd feel so infinitely secure that we'd all sleep better at
    night...
    
    Cindy
9.1045AIMHI::JMARTINThu Mar 24 1994 17:0725
    Richard:
    
    I believe Japan's whole motive for attack against the US was for
    territorial rights in the Pacific, i.e. the Allusian Islands, etc.
    I concede the fact that Japan did not have the resources to conquer the
    United States.  
    
    Whether Germany did or did not come close to developing the ABomb
    doesn't really matter.  You may very well be right.  You bring a
    perception to me that I don't fully understand.  
    
    Richard, you have always impressed me as an activist, not a pacifist.
    Do you believe FDR's intervention in Europe was correct or incorrect?
    
    There is no question that the US will pour resources only into that 
    which has National interest; Kuwait is a good example.  There are
    currently about 24 conflicts going on in the world today.  Certainly
    we cannot become involved in all of them!
    
    Eric:
    
    No, it means to be a testimony but have a solid defense.  Our country
    would not exist without it...face it!
    
    
9.1046AIMHI::JMARTINThu Mar 24 1994 17:098
    Cindy:
    
    North Dakota and Vermont have the lowest government intrusion on gun
    control and firearms.  Guess which two states have the least crime??
    
    Go on...take a guess!!
    
    -Jack
9.1047don't fix it if it ain't brokenTFH::KIRKa simple songThu Mar 24 1994 17:1310
re: Note 9.1046 by Jack

>    North Dakota and Vermont have the lowest government intrusion on gun
>    control and firearms.  Guess which two states have the least crime??
    
Which is the cause, which is the effect?  

Peace,

Jim
9.1048BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Mar 24 1994 17:149


	How many big cities do they have Jack? Do you think a city like Boston
could work under the same rules for guns as Vermont and North Dakota?



Glen
9.1049JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAThu Mar 24 1994 17:206
    RE: .1048
    
    I'll give you my opinion...yes, it would work in Boston too. I trust
    the people of Boston as much as Burlington , VT.
    
    Marc H.
9.1050AIMHI::JMARTINThu Mar 24 1994 17:277
    Per Capita, Vt. and North Dakota have the lowest crime rates.
    If every law abiding citizen in Boston was armed, crime in the city
    would drop dramatically.
    
    Fear is an International language!!!
    
    -Jack
9.1051conference policy? I think not.LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Thu Mar 24 1994 17:3010
re Note 9.1040 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

>     .1038  Jack,
>     
>     	Documents revealed in recent years have indicated that Hitler's Germany

        Please move to the Politics and Christianity topic (or, I
        would prefer, SOAPBOX).

        Bob
9.1052musing...TFH::KIRKa simple songThu Mar 24 1994 17:3210
re: note .1050 by Jack

>    If every law abiding citizen in Boston was armed, crime in the city
>    would drop dramatically.
    
"--and then there was one" just popped into my head when I read this.

.-)

Jim
9.1053Drove my spell checker crazy on this one ;-}CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 24 1994 19:2413
Note 692.27

>    I think this is nothing more than an interesting word play where in
>    English word can be convoluted into a French-like word -- 

I see this quite a bit, especially is such forms as Sonshine, Sonrise,
Son worshiper, etc..

Homonyms, puns and such don't translate very well into other languages.

Peace,
Richard

9.1054big differenceTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Mar 24 1994 19:304
    
    I was talking about nuclear weapons, not guns, Jack.
    
    Cindy
9.1055JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 24 1994 21:0313
    Having written this:
    
    > perceptions are like fingerprints
    
    I made a framed picture out of it with in smaller print underneath the
    larger print
    
                   PERCEPTIONS ARE LIKE FINGERPRINTS
               Don't be shocked when mine doesn't match yours
    
    and pinned it up on my wall.
    
    :-)  Lotsa folks LIKE it. :-)
9.1056CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Mar 24 1994 22:4817
Note 9.1020

>    Richard, I am truly offended at your inability to communicate properly
>    with me.. so there is an S missing, big hairy deal!

I wanted to wait until things cooled off a bit before responding to this.

The question of CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE versus CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVES is
one which has arisen before.  Because it has, I thought it wise to clarify
the matter right away.

I can see how you might have thought I making a big deal out of nothing.
However, it was truly not my intention to nit-pick.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1057JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 24 1994 22:515
    .1056
    
    Thanks for clarifying Richard.  Cool off, huh?  I hope you're right.
    
    
9.1058JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 24 1994 22:523
    P.S.
    
    I hope you know that I value you too, Richard.
9.1059CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Mar 29 1994 20:317
    The personal, negative remarks are to cease at once no matter what
    is going on in any other file.
    
    I'm just enough of a bully to delete the offending entries.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
9.1060DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesTue Mar 29 1994 20:435
    <---  Me too!
    
    
    Dave Dawson
    C-P co-mod
9.106238099::SILVAMemories.....Tue Mar 29 1994 21:2218

| You know Nancy, in many different notes you have said things. When people ask 
| you to explain it you seem to say it can't be done. 

	How many people have had this happen to them? If many feel it has, then
it is a true statement.

| If you aren't gonna answer the questions so people will understand you, why 
| don't you not make the statements?

	This is a real question wondering why she will not answer others
concerns for her views.

	Where does the sweeping/etc stuff come in?


Glen
9.1063JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 29 1994 23:1017
    Glen,  I will not justify myself to you.  Quite frankly, I've not had
    to turn down conversations from anyone other then yourself up until
    recently.  In case you don't know, I have a REAL job here at Digital
    and am rated a 1 performer by my boss [who has never rated any peer of
    mine a 1 before].  You know why I'm a 1 performer? Because I know when
    to say No... and when to say Yes.
    
    And I always give everything I do my whole heart... and if I can't give
    it my whole heart, then I won't do it halfway.
    
    If who I am, what I believe is not apparent to you by now, then there
    is definitely a problem which is not of my own.  I don't believe in
    notes you will find many who are as open and as direct as I am in
    communicating.  Albeit not errorless, but certainly the effort is made.
    
    I will not allow myself to be measured by your instruments.  Besides
    they don't work on me. :-)
9.1064BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Mar 30 1994 12:5927
| <<< Note 9.1063 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| Glen,  I will not justify myself to you.  Quite frankly, I've not had
| to turn down conversations from anyone other then yourself up until
| recently.  In case you don't know, I have a REAL job here at Digital
| and am rated a 1 performer by my boss [who has never rated any peer of
| mine a 1 before].  You know why I'm a 1 performer? Because I know when
| to say No... and when to say Yes.

	Uhhhh.... yeah..... errr.... thanks for sharing that with us Nancy. But
isn't bragging wrong?

| And I always give everything I do my whole heart... and if I can't give
| it my whole heart, then I won't do it halfway.

	There ain't nothin' wrong with that. But don't get upset or anything
when you are called for it.

| I will not allow myself to be measured by your instruments.  Besides
| they don't work on me. :-)

	Yeah.... I know....


Glen
9.1065JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Mar 30 1994 15:415
    Glen, it's not bragging for one to recognize their own strengths and
    commenting when it is appropriate.  It is bragging when you come in
    boasting about yourself just for the sheer joy of it.
    
    But you knew that, didn't you?
9.1066Thoughts on TOLERANCE. these strategies can be fVNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtTue Apr 05 1994 11:5180
	There has been long discussions about tolerance in these notes
	and I would like to add my 2c.

	It struck me that there was some confusion of terms in the
	debate:
		Tolerance was related to *belief*
		Tolerance was related to *acceptance*
		Tolerance was related to *patience*

	Unless I missed it, I did not see tolerance related to understanding,
	yet I feel that this might have come closest.

	It is very clear that any discussion which focuses on (a) religious
	topic(s) will be permeated with differing points of view. These
	pov's may arise from different conclusions from a common starting
	point (various braches of Christianity from the same Jesus: or
	differing weight on specific biblical texts, etc.), or they may
	arise from a differing starting point (Judeo-Christians versus
	Pauline Christians, for example), or they may arise from a mix
	of both.

	Whatever the reasons, it is clear that each of us has a given
	postition based on a choice that we each, as individuals have
	made.

		 We adopt our position based on an act of faith. 
		*We adopt our position based on an act of faith.*

	Whether we believe historians, scientists, theologians or the
	oracles, at the final step, there is *faith* that those in whom
	we have placed our trust "got it right".

	Tolerance, IMO, is the *understanding* that, no matter how divergent
	the opinions are, the basis for them is this faith.

	From this follows:
	* Belief in the opinion of the other is not a requisite.
	* Acceptance (or the adoption) of the other opinion is not a 
	  requisite.
	* Patience with the other's opinion is not a requisite.
	* Understanding that the opinion arises from faith is a requisite.

	The non-requisites are not excluded as a result of the discussion.

	It also follows that:
	* It is out of order to attack the position of the other. His
	  position, based on faith, is his own, personal and individual
	  choice. To attack it is to attack the person. (Some might also
	  see it as an attack on God, since this free, personal and 
	  individual choice is from God).

	* It is misplaced to defend one's own position since defense is
	  required only in the face of attack and because a position
	  based on faith cannot be rationally defended by any argument
	  other than "my faith put me here".

	Finally, it follows that:

	* If your motive for discussion is to change the position of the
	  other, the strategy requires that those in whom he has put his
	  trust "got it wrong." or

	* If your motive is to examine your own position, the strategy
	  is to examine the reasons why the other's faith is so strong.

	* If your motive is "pure interest", the strategy is to ask
	  questions and/or to listen carefully.

	In all cases, this adds another dimension to the word "tolerance"
	and that is *love*. For, without love and understanding, none of
	these strategies can be fruitful.

	(Of course, tolerance can be exercised in spheres other than
	discussions)

	I know that, in some of my notes, I have allowed these thoughts
	on tolerance to become somewhat defocussed. But I do try to
	abide by them.

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1067AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webTue Apr 05 1994 13:257
    Derek,
    
    Wow.
    
    Those are real fruitful thoughts on tolerance.
    
    Patricia
9.1068JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Apr 06 1994 16:4910
    Derek,
    
    It's funny I've been saying that tolerance doesn't equal acceptance of
    another's value system, but understanding is much better accomplished. 
    If I understand what motivates you, then I can tolerate your beliefs,
    values, standard of living, etc., while not accepting it for myself.
    
    But when I said it, I was called a liar. :-) :-)
    
    Nancy
9.1069commendableCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildWed Apr 06 1994 20:3115
Note 9.1068

>    But when I said it, I was called a liar. :-) :-)
    
Nancy,

	I know not what note(s) called you a liar.  I have no doubt in my
mind that you felt accused, and unjustly at that, by whatever it was that
was said.

	It speaks highly of your character to risk further with us.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1070JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Apr 06 1994 22:4426
    Richard,
    
    I have been wondering how to respond to your note.  Thank you is one
    way, perhaps even the best way, but it just didn't feel right to say
    thank you alone.
    
    Risk is a funny word... I learned about Rock Climbing in Yosemite,
    actually met Mike Corbett who climbed [hmm was it Half Dome or El
    Capitan, I think it was El Capitan] with then park ranger, paraplegic
    Mark Wellman a few years ago.  And of course risk is a big factor with
    Rock Climbing....  and you know I actually would *like* rock climbing
    and the funny thing is Mike Corbett spoke to me after the group left
    and identified that I would like it. :-)  We spoke for a while... and
    quite frankly it as well, er, uh, rather stimulating.  You see I also
    enjoy parasailing, which has a risk factor involved as well.
    
    So, I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm a risk taker, always have
    been, probably always will be... to some extent [and No I ain't gonna
    climb Half Dome :-)], besides believe it or not, I actually have a very
    tender heart and care deeply about people, all people and this
    motivates me to take risks even with people.
    
    Now don't send me any pet rocks, okay? :-) :-)
    
    and BTW, thanks.
    
9.1072To Nancy: On truth.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtThu Apr 07 1994 07:5254
	Re: 1068: Nancy.

	Hello, Nancy!

	I am truly sorry that you feel that you have been called a liar.
	Frankly, I would be very disenchanted with CP (or any other
	forum) if such an expression had been allowed to pass unchallenged.

	However, I have re-examined the notes in this string (you did not
	say that it was here, but I cannot scan the whole conference) and
	did not find that. There are notes which reject your views on
	tolerance, true. But I do not find the accusation, or even the
	implication, that you were lying. However, I am aware that feelings,
	especially in the face of "negative appendages" are highly
	subjective; which means that if I don't find the accusation, it 
	does not prove that it is not there for you. That -- as I am sure
	you are aware -- is one reason why a moderator's job is not easy
	and frequently thankless.

	To call someone a liar, or to imply it, is a massive affront. Why?

	A lie is when one says or does) something *which is contrary to his own
	belief or knowledge*. Any other expression of opinion is truth.

	It may not be correct, it may not conform to majority view but,
	if the opinion is stated from a position of personal conviction,
	it is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth! The
	very worst that can be said is that the opinion is erroneous (and
	even this statement, could be, objectively, incorrect).

	I try to assume that everyone with whom I communicate expresses
	his own opinion and, thus, by definition, speaks the truth. I
	may not agree, I may find his opinion to be wrong, but it is the
	truth and I cannot deny that.

	Thus;: to accuse a person of lying is to accuse that person of
	denying his own person. At the very least, an infamous charge.
	Similarly, one who lies -- deliberately says (or does) something
	while beleiveing something else is guilty of self-abuse of the
	worst possible kind. (IMO)

	In this vein -- and this will raise some eyebrows -- I hold the bible
	to be 100% true. But not inerrant!

	This leads to another point. You may have seen that I use the
	abbreviation IMO and never IMHO. The H is for "humble". But I
	have spent a (relatively) long and eventful life, have read widely
	and tried to be an example to my peers. When called, I have "gone
	the extra mile." My opinions are not humble! Right or wrong, they
	are mine and are as valuable to me as my eyes. I will not pluck
	out my eyes; neither will I humiliate my*self*.

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1073Communicating Properly is Difficult at BestJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 07 1994 15:4645
    .1072
    
    Derek... was there a point to your dissertation?  Subjective reading,
    emotional intonations [accurate or inaccurate] are all apart of this
    forum and I am as subject to these things as the next person.
    
    You are correct it was not in this string when I was told I was liar...
    oh the person was very careful to not use the word lie, but just that
    my statements were contradictory and impossible.  They could not
    understand that tolerance [to me] comes through understanding, not
    accepting.. period and therefore BLASTED me with very derogatory
    statements.
    
    You can play semantical games in notes, but the bottom line is
    perspective and as I have stated before, perspectives are like
    fingerprints.  
    
    My perspective is valid to me and your perspective is valid to you. 
    The crux of communication is understanding the perspective of another
    regardless of agreement or disagreement.  An *understanding* brings
    about a calmness in communicaton, that butting heads will never bring.
    
    My Pastor taught a series on communication and he said the key question
    to ask when in conflict is what is motivating your opponent?  Is it
    anger, greed, hate or sincerity.  If a person is truly sincere with
    their position on something, cut them some slack, they aren't trying to
    make you look like a fool, they truly believe in their cause.  If they
    are just being rude, then you choose to be rude back or walk away.  I
    often have trouble walking away when someone is rude... but I'm still
    growing... and hopefully learning.
    
    I realize that this takes quite a bit of discernment on a person's
    part, but I'm a believer if we *know ourselves* we can appreciate
    other's inadequacies much better.. because they are no different then
    me... we all cry, we all hurt, we all have wounds, we all have trials,
    and so on....  
    
    Crimoney... we're all flesh and blood .... and worth the effort to
    communicate properly.
    
    IMHO [the h for humble simply means TO ME that my opinion isn't BETTER
    than anyone elses, it is MINE]  See how that works????
    
    Nancy
    
9.1074BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Apr 07 1994 19:2510


	Nancy, I really think Derek hit the nail on the head. No one disputes
that you actually believe what you say. They may not agree with your views, but
I don't remember anyone even coming close to calling you a liar. Could you
perhaps give us a pointer to a specific note or even just the topic?


Glen
9.1075JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 07 1994 20:452
    -1
    no.
9.1076JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 07 1994 21:036
    addendum
    
    Since I know you'll ask why... because, glen, I have nothing further to
    say or prove to you, it's over, buddy, argue with someone else.
    
    
9.1077CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildThu Apr 07 1994 21:189
Glen .1074,

	It's water under the bridge.  There's no benefit to dredging it
up, unless the offending note is in unquestionable violation of Digital
policies and conference guidelines.

Peace,
Richard

9.1078Yes and no,VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtFri Apr 08 1994 11:5214
	re: .1073 Nancy.

	>Derek... was there a point to your dissertation?

	Yes, I did tend to go on a bit, didn't I?  :-)
	However, I do believe that I made a point.

	> IMHO [the h for humble simply means TO ME that my opinion isn't
	  BETTER than anyone elses, it is MINE] See how that works????

	Frankly, no!  Why is it necessary for anyone to put a value
	judgement on his own opinion?

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1079JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Apr 08 1994 19:085
    .1078
    
    It appears as though you are putting a value judgement on a phrase that
    is intimated for a good purpose... Why?  This seems a bit argumentative
    over a very insignificant thing.. [imho] :-)
9.1080Let's agree to differ.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtMon Apr 11 1994 08:0811
	RE: .1079 Nancy.

	Hello Nancy!

	OK, I was being a bit argumentative: but, just as you do not
	allow certain things to go unchallenged, neither do I. My
	opinions are -- to me -- no "insignificant thing."

	Let's agree to differ.

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1081BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Apr 11 1994 12:467


	Errrr... Nancy, if it was so insignificant, why did ya bring it up?


Glen
9.1082Don't blame Nancy.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtMon Apr 11 1994 13:009
    	Re: -1, Glen
    
    	>...why did ya bring it up?
    
    	I think *I* brought it up, Glen: I tend to ramble a bit from time
    	to time. (So did Methusela when he was as old as I am  .-) )
    
    	Greetings, Derek.
                   
9.1083JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Apr 11 1994 15:063
    Thanks Derek.
    
    
9.1084The reposting of entries within a stringCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildThu Apr 14 1994 20:3411
    I can understand and appreciate cross-posting notes to related and/or
    more appropriate topics.  I don't think it adds much value to repost
    whole notes within the same string.  All it takes to move to a reply
    within a string is to type the period, the reply number, and carriage
    return. (.1084<CR> for this note, for example)
    
    I may be alone in my feeling about this.  How do others feel?
    
    Pace Y Bene,
    Richard
    
9.1085JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 14 1994 20:498
    I would agree with you Richard for the most part...
    
    But all rules have exceptions...
    
    and we know how I feel about perceptions which may determine
    exceptions, right?
    
    Fingerprints...
9.1086JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 14 1994 20:491
    Why is 890 writelocked?
9.1087DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesThu Apr 14 1994 20:595
    RE: .1086  Nancy,
    
    			See 890.131
    
    Dave
9.1088JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Apr 14 1994 21:153
    Dave,
    
    Thanks... somehow I knew it was you. :-)
9.1089SNOC02::LINCOLNRNo Pain, No Gain...Fri Apr 15 1994 02:3315
    Yes.  You can also flip to the note mentioned and then back to the one
    you are currently reading by hitting the "Previous Note" key.  So if
    you are reading note 111.11 and they refer to note 222.22 and you want
    to quickly look at it and then return to 111.11 just do the following:
    
    Reading 111.11
    Type: 222.22 <return>
    Read note 222.22
    Hit <previous note> key to return to 111.11
    
    The <previous note> key is the "-" key on the numeric keypad on non-PC
    keyboards, and <ALT> numeric keypad "+" on the PC keyboard.
    
    Rob
    
9.1090Thanks for the lock.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtFri Apr 15 1994 06:587
    	Thanks for locking 890, Dave.
    
    	I most sincerely hope that I have not been witnessing *real* 
    	Christianity action. If so, my search ends here and I will look
    	further in Pagan Perspectives.
    
    	Greetings, Derek.
9.1091CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildSat Apr 16 1994 15:3415
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    Very well.  In the future, I shall leave off the note number and
    name to any note to which I am replying and not seeking further
    response from that particular individual.
    
    This is an announcement only.  Any response to it is unsolicited.
    
    Thank you,
    Richard
    
9.1092CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildTue Apr 19 1994 16:155
    890.203 is not the note to which 890.204 responded.  The original 890.203
    was evidently deleted and re-entered.
    
    Richard
    
9.1093JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 19 1994 16:184
    You are right I reworded .203 so as to truly get the answer I was
    desiring versus letting my emotion drive my response...
    
    I'd still appreciate the answer.
9.1094CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildFri Apr 22 1994 22:4714
Note 96.32
    
>    The truth is there is a
>    one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
>    here that leaves out fairness to all noters.

I cannot agree with this blanket statement.  There's no one here in
CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE who hasn't chastized me when they thought I was
out of line.  I have always appreciated that genuineness, whether I
agreed with them on the issue or not.

Shalom,
Richard
    
9.1096Cross-posted for contextJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Apr 22 1994 22:5028
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    Richard,
    
    I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
    to me...
    
    The truth is there is a
    one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
    here that leaves out fairness to all noters.
    
    When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
    Richard, that was unkind.  But when it is reversed many pile in...
    
    The point is we all err.  I forgive you your errors before you even
    ask.. I care about you as a person, as an eternal being and as an
    overcomer....  Blessed are the overcomers.
    
    May God's light rest on you Richard... may His loving arms hold you
    close to his bosom, I believe He has touched your life... His hand is
    on you... hold tight as I know you have.
    
    
    
9.1095JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Apr 22 1994 22:549
    > When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
    >Richard, that was unkind.  But when it is reversed many pile in...
    
    I shooda added since I've been online... and in our interactions... not
    ONline.. maybe offline, but not on... 
    
    I may have missed one buried in the pile of arrogant accusations and
    other derogatory notes directed my way.
    
9.1097CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildFri Apr 22 1994 22:5512
    .1095
    
           We're not into attaboys/attagirls very much here, though it
    happens from time to time.
    
    	   We're not much into snarfing, either.  I did it once.  I
    later deleted it.
    
    	   I guess we're just lacking in depth.
    
    Richard
    
9.1098JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Apr 22 1994 23:217
    .1097
    
    Another derogatory remark from you Richard?  When does it end?
    
    >"Lacking in depth"????
    
    
9.1099CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildFri Apr 22 1994 23:3126
Note 9.1096,

Well, I'll probably regret not ignoring this one, but here goes...
    
>    I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
>    to me...

And you don't think it's childish to bring up a misunderstanding that has
supposedly been resolved?

>    When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
>    Richard, that was unkind.  But when it is reversed many pile in...

Consider the time of day.  It's after 4:00 your time and most of our
readers have gone for the day.  A lot of folks dropped out more than
an hour ago.  Our Australian and British friends may be kicking in pretty
soon, though.

I know you think you are being picked on, Nancy.  I know you think you
don't get the reinforcement you deserve here.

I, too, keep you in my most loving thoughts and prayers.

Peace,
Richard

9.1100JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Apr 23 1994 00:0415
    Richard,
    
    I don't think I'm being picked on... heck I'm full of holes! :-)
    
    Then that would make me holy wouldn't it. :-)
    
    Sheesh, I don't have a mean bone in body that lasts longer then 2
    seconds...
    
    Time of day of noting of no consequence btw, I often don't start until
    well after everyone else.  While this is a realtime conference, few 
    participants are realtime.
    
    
    
9.1101JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Apr 23 1994 00:067
    Making a pointer to a resolved conflict in this written forum and with
    our communication pattern is not at all childish...
    
    The reasons necessitating it ... is very much childish of which I am
    50% of the picture.
    
    
9.1102HURON::MYERSSat Apr 23 1994 00:3031
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    > I refused to put a pointer online for anyone because it seems childish
    > to me...

    All I asked is that you to do was provide a reference for your
    accusation, which you sort of did offline. I am at a loss as to why you
    would consider it childish to support your statements online? I'm
    confused, not upset, BTW.

    > The truth is there is a
    > one-sided-I'll-defend-you-no-matter-what-you-say kinda mentality in
    > here that leaves out fairness to all noters.

    I respectfully, yet vehemently, disagree with this characterization
    applies to ANYONE in this file. Speaking for myself, I try my very best
    to call 'em like I see 'em. I'll spare you the childish pointers to
    replies where I raised a flag of caution to both Cindy and Richard.

    > When you have wronged me, no-one has come in and said online, now
    > Richard, that was unkind. 

    Neither Jack, nor Jim, nor Collis, nor Roger, nor... This says
    something different to me that it does to you.

    Peace,
    	Eric
9.1103Time of day *is* of consequenceCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildSat Apr 23 1994 01:5616
    .1100  I'm afraid you've misunderstood, Nancy.  What I was saying is
    that 890.250 through 890.260 took place during a time when most noters
    weren't around to validate you and tell me what an incredibly insensitive
    dolt I am online. (18:45 [6:45PM] to 19:49 [7:49PM] EDT on April 20th)

    By the time a greater audience was online, the matter had supposedly been
    resolved.  Now, I suppose somebody *could* have raked up and regurgitated
    it again.  However, since the matter was supposedly resolved, it would
    have been in pointlessly poor taste to have pursued it any further.

    96.19 through 96.29, on the other hand, were entered between 13:48 [1:48PM]
    to 15:14 [3:14PM] EDT today, when plenty of folks would have still been
    around to provide their active input.

    Richard

9.1104JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Apr 23 1994 03:437
    .1103
    
    I see what you are saying.
    
    Eric,
    
    One word - disproportionate.
9.1105JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Apr 23 1994 03:507
    Eric,
    
    Was Richard's remark about "depth" acceptable to you?  
    
    You say Inerrancy bashing is loaded, so was that remark.
    
    disproportionate
9.1106Re-read .1095 and then .1097CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildSat Apr 23 1994 16:2312
    My remark about the depth of this conference was just plain sarcasm.
    I guess I grow weary of the seemingly chronic negativity about this
    conference, how unfair and unbalanced it is, and how lacking it is.
    
    It seems to me the ones who are the most vocal in their criticisms of
    CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE have also been the ones least likely to promote
    a healthy exchange of ideas, least likely to initiate positive new topics,
    and most likely to speak of others in terms like "agenda" and "politically
    correct."
    
    Richard
    
9.1107Invitation for inputCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildSun Apr 24 1994 00:5812
    I can see how one could "bash" a human being or class of human
    beings.
    
    Inerrancy is not a human being.
    
    And I'm not sure doctrine, dogma, pedagogy and paradigms should
    ever be exempt from critical examination.
    
    I would welcome input from others.  My mind is not made up on this yet.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
9.1108HURON::MYERSSun Apr 24 1994 16:0414
    > It seems to me the ones who are the most vocal in their criticisms of
    > CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE have also been the ones least likely to promote a
    > healthy exchange of ideas, least likely to initiate positive new
    > topics, and most likely to speak of others in terms like "agenda" and
    > "politically correct."

    In an effort to be even-handed, I think this paragraph, although surely
    Richard's sincere belief, push the conversation into a we-they
    confrontation. It specifically refers to participants in this
    conference as opposed to general ideas and/or beliefs. It qualifies
    certain participant's replies as healthy or not, as positive or not,
    etc.
    
    	Eric
9.1109HURON::MYERSSun Apr 24 1994 16:1615
    > Was Richard's remark about "depth" acceptable to you?

    Yes. Perhaps I don't see the personal indictment of character that you
    do in this remark. I saw it as sarcastic and not a personal
    condemnation.

    > You say Inerrancy bashing is loaded, so was that remark.

    In the context that it was used, I disagree. Bashing, racist,
    anti-Semitic, ultra-left, ultra-right, denying God, lair... these are,
    in my opinion, charged words; words that paint another noter's ideas or
    intent as radical or extreme. Depth is not.

    	Eric

9.1110CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMost Dangerous ChildSun Apr 24 1994 20:0426
Note 9.1108

>    In an effort to be even-handed, I think this paragraph, although surely
>    Richard's sincere belief, push the conversation into a we-they
>    confrontation.

Interesting exercise, Eric.  While you indicate the paragraph pushes the
coversation into a we-they thing, I maintain that such a dynamic was already
in place.

>    It specifically refers to participants in this
>    conference as opposed to general ideas and/or beliefs.

Actually, it refers to the tone, attitude, and behavior of participants,
rather than to actual persons.

>    It qualifies
>    certain participant's replies as healthy or not, as positive or not,
>    etc.
    
Indeed, but without specifying which is which, leaving that to the
judgment of the reader.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1111JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSun Apr 24 1994 22:4410
    Well, Eric,
    
    Since the comment was directed towards *me*, it was most definitely an
    insult as though I cannnot hold a conversation at a deep level, or at
    least as in depth as Richard. 
    
    You can disagree all you like, but since it wasn't direct towards you,
    you really cannot speak for how it made me *feel*.
    
    Richard often guises his insults in what appears to be innocent.
9.1112On questioning dogma etc.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtMon Apr 25 1994 08:4519
	Re: .1107 Richard

	>And I am not sure doctrine, dogma, pedagogy and paradigms should
	>ever be exempt from critical examination.

	I am sure that critical examination of all this, and more, is
	essential. This, I think, is especially true of one's personal
	paradigms.

	However: the force driving the critical examination should be
    	neutrally vectored, allowing a shift in any direction, or no shift
    	at all: (objectivity).

	On a theological level, I would find it very hard to accept that
	intellectual blindness can be any part of God's intent.

	Greetings, Derek.
                 
9.1113Simple..ReallyJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Apr 25 1994 13:025
    RE:.1111
    
    Maybe the insults aren't there at all, Nancy.
    
    Marc H.
9.1114APACHE::MYERSMon Apr 25 1994 13:0812
    > Note 9.1111 by JULIET::MORALES_NA

    I don't agree with your reading of this note. In fact I think Richard
    was saying something quit the opposite of what you read into that note.
    In my view, Richard was saying, albeit sarcastically, was perhaps this
    conference is too shallow for a person possessing such depth, as
    yourself.
                                                                
    In my opinion you may have got flustered just at the sight of Richard's
    name and went off half-cocked... but what the heck do I know.

    Eric
9.1115BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Apr 25 1994 13:2621

	Nancy, why is it in this and other notesfiles you feel you have been 
picked on? Could it possibly have to do with your always expressing your 
opinions? I think you need to understand that if you state your opinions, people
who don't agree will say something to refute your words. There will be times 
even where people will say things they may not really mean or you may interpret
things wrong, and some who will just want to pull your leg to get you going.
There will also be times where people will interprete what you are saying in
the wrong manner (which seems to happen a lot for some reason). You can either
make an issue out of the situation and continue to make yourself look like the
damsel in distress, or you could look past it and continue on with the topic.
It would seem that if you would do the latter more often instead of the former,
you could probably finish more conversations with people. We all know this may
not be a great place to always understand what another is saying (notes in
general, not just CP), but if we could stop using, "I feel you're attacking me"
stuff and just let it slide or ask in a NON-confrontational manner what the
person meant, things would run a whole lot smoother.


Glen
9.1116DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesMon Apr 25 1994 16:2215
    RE: Glen,
    
    		I truly wish we could back off this issue.  It is very
    natural for someone who believes in the perfection of the Bible to take
    offense at being told it isn't.  Just like others who believe it isn't
    perfect taking offense when they are told it is.  I cannot help but
    think that some of the heat is from past experiences with Christians.
    While it is interesting to discuss all these issues, there does come
    the point of deminishing returns...and I think we have reached that
    point.  
    		I will also request that we not take issues all over the
    file.  There is a topic for inerrency so lets use it. :-)
    
    
    Dave
9.1117JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Apr 25 1994 16:347
    Eric,
    
    I will accept that you believe what you believe and validate your 
    opinion of said disagreement.
    
    Thanks,
    Nancy
9.1118HURON::MYERSMon Apr 25 1994 16:598
    Note 9.1117 by JULIET::MORALES_NA
    
    val-i-date: v. To substanciate; to verify.
    
    Here's one of those nouveau-chic words. I'm not sure you mean you agree
    with my opinion, or merely agree that I have a right to have an opinion.
    
    	Eric
9.1119JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Apr 25 1994 17:138
    No, Eric, I don't agree and yes I do validate your right to have your
    opinion... I don't wish to argue anymore... I will say what I believe
    is right and truth, if anyone disagrees.. they too have the right to
    their opinion of said subject.
    
    That's all, hands down.
    
    Nancy
9.1120APACHE::MYERSMon Apr 25 1994 17:397
    Thank you for substantiating my right to have an opinion. 

    Eric The Validated

    PS I don't wish to "argue" either. I do wish to understand, however. If
    asking for a clarification of ambiguous statements equates to arguing...
    awww skip it.  I'm getting too weary of all this anyway...
9.1121BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Apr 26 1994 14:5419
| <<< Note 9.1116 by DPDMAI::DAWSON "I've seen better times" >>>



| I truly wish we could back off this issue.  It is very natural for someone who
| believes in the perfection of the Bible to take offense at being told it isn't

	Agreed. But I was refering to the many notes that Nancy seems to feel
attacked. Not for her beliefs, but just that people are attacking her
personally. 

| While it is interesting to discuss all these issues, there does come the point
| of deminishing returns...and I think we have reached that point.

	Agreed Dave. As usual, you're the level headed one! :-)  



Glen
9.1122JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 15:1918
    Nancy doesn't feel like everyone is attacking her personally.  
    I feel attacking the Bible, and diminishing to Jesus to be
    insulting at best to those around us.
    
    What RJC has done is taken Patricia's advice and is repeating his
    attack on the fundamentals of Christianity as often as he can, whilst
    still claiming to be a Christian who believes in Christ.
    
    Since Jesus lives in me and I am a temple of Him, this attack often
    feels very personal... another example would be if you began to
    ridicule my sister.  I'd come to her defense.
    
    But then again I don't expect for you to value this in me.  After all
    we only value diversity of the PC kind, right?
    
    
    
    
9.1123JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 15:2010
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                 -< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 86.13                 Out of Fundamentalism - SRO                  13 of 13
JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"     3 lines  25-APR-1994 18:39
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    This is so insulting I could regurgitate..
    
    
    
9.1124JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Apr 26 1994 15:246
    RE: .1122
    
    The mistake here (IMHO), is that you are equating Christian with
    Fundamentalism *ONLY*.
    
    Marc H.
9.1125CSLALL::HENDERSONIt will be worth it allTue Apr 26 1994 15:3518


 Those of us who are baseball fans groan when a team fails in the fundamentals
 of the game, and we praise those who fail to observe the fundamentals..when
 a business is in trouble we talk about their failure to observe the
 fundamentals of business..when a marriage fails, we find its due to the
 failure of the man or wife, or both, to observe the fundamentals..on and
 on we can cite examples of fundamentals we all practice in life..


 However, those who observe the fundamentals of the Christian faith are subject
 to ridicule, chastisement and anger (and FA Hotlines)...




 Jim
9.1126CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoTue Apr 26 1994 15:5110
    Nancy and Jim,
    
    	I wish I could unveil the truth in a fashion that you would
    understand it.  I have not demeaned the Bible or Jesus or Christianity
    as you say I have.
    
    	I am a Christian.  Jesus is my Sovereign.  I take the Bible seriously.
    
    Richard
    
9.1127Can ya see why there could be an uproar?BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Apr 26 1994 17:3024

	Marc H. I think we have finally agreed on something. I was gonna write
pretty much the same thing. Scary, huh? :-)

| However, those who observe the fundamentals of the Christian faith are subject
| to ridicule, chastisement and anger (and FA Hotlines)...

	Jim, ya don't have companies, marriages, etc telling you unless you do
it there way you will end up in Hell. The funny thing is that what you may view
as the fundamentals, someone else may not agree. Hense there is your problem.
You are trying to align something that is not perfect (people's version of
fundamentalism) to something that is perfect (God's version of the same). In
all the other ones you have mentioned there are a varrying degree of difference
because not everyone thinks the fundamentals are cut and dry. Walt Reniack (sp)
has his set of fundamentals to hitting, while someone like Mike Easler has
another set. They and the rest of the world knows that there will be
differences and don't try and come off and say their way is the only one that
is acceptable.




Glen
9.1128JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 17:316
    .1126
    
    Richard,
    
    I guess its hard for me to tell.
    
9.1129JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Apr 26 1994 18:015
    RE: .1128
    
    Why? Its clear to me that both of you are.
    
    Marc H.
9.1130JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 18:025
    Marc,
    
    That was kind of you.
    
    Nancy
9.1131JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 18:0614
    P.S.
    :-)
    
    The difference perhaps between you and I is that Christianity is
    defined for me.  When Christianity is undefined or all inclusive
    everyone looks the same.
    
    I believe as you've heard me state before that God is inclusive in that
    He sent Jesus for all.  He is exclusive to those who reject what is
    given freely.
    
    Can a person be saved and not believe in the inerrant word of God? 
    This is probably where I battle the most with those who claim to be
    Christian.  This is a *barrier* for me.
9.1132JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Apr 26 1994 18:2410
    RE: .1131
    
    That is indeed the key. The way you said it, though, is interesting.
    "Inerrant word of God" or "Inerrant words in the Bible of God".
    
    To me, they are different. God's word is inerrant, but the Bible's
    words have to be studied.....and then you find the correct, true
    meaning.
    
    Marc H.
9.1133AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webTue Apr 26 1994 19:0168
    
<    What RJC has done is taken Patricia's advice and is repeating his
<    attack on the fundamentals of Christianity as often as he can,whilst
<    still claiming to be a Christian who believes in Christ.
    
    
    Nancy,
    
    I believe that you are missing the whole intent and purpose of this
    notes file with this statement.  In this file, The "Fundamentals of
    Christianity" have been deliberately left open so each of us can decide
    for ourselves what it means to call oneself Christian.  I note in here
    so I can dialogue with a variety of people who have different notions
    of what it means to call themselves Christian or to not call themselves
    Christian while still having a strong interest in Christianity and why
    they do not call themselves Christian even when inspired by J.C.  
    
    If you are offended by persons not accepting the "fundementalals of
    Christianity" then you are in fact offended by the very existence of
    this conference.  You are a moderator of the other conference where
    there is some agreement of what the "Fundementals of Christianity are"
    
    I believe it is an attack on the best of what Christianity is to insist
    on the inerrancy of things in the Bible that are in fact very small. 
    There are many things in the Bible that are very small.  By allowing
    for a human perspective on the Bible I can find integrity and benefit
    in a book that in fact allows for the rape of women, the acceptance of
    slavery, the equation of the slave master with Christly authority, the
    acceptance that God created some humans only for damnation to be used
    as a tool for the grace of others, the supremacy of men over women, the
    holiness of first born males children over female children, the ritual
    impurity of childbirth and menstruation etc etc etc.  It is heresy in
    my opinion to equate any of these things as the Word of God.  That is
    why I believe that inerrancy is wrong.  I am not attacking you by
    saying inerrancy is wrong.  I am not suggesting that you a less
    Christian than anyone else for believing in inerrancy.
    
    
    Nancy, I read your last note to Richard(.1128) as saying it was hard
    for you to tell that Richard was a Christian.  If I have read your
    statement correctly, you are saying that Richard is not Christian
    because he does not believe in innerrancy.  That is insulting and
    wrong.  That is why I think it is necessary to speak out against
    innerancy.  Not because of what it does for the "believer" but for what
    it does in permitting and encouraging "believers" to bash other peoples
    religious self definitions.
    
    I admit to a classic liberal delemma which I think liberals have to
    confront.  As a liberal I support your right to believe and preach
    anything you want.  As a liberal however, I do not have to accept your
    beliefs for myself that would in fact limit my freedom to believe what
    I want to believe or Richard's freedom to believe what he wants.
    
    Every person's freedom to define themselves as they wish to define
    themselves in my opinion has precedents over your freedom to define
    other people as Christian or non Christian.  You have the same freedom
    to define yourself as Christian as Richard does.  Richard has the same
    freedom to define himself as Christian as you do.
    
    Patricia
    
    If that is in fact what you intended it is extremely insulting.
    
    
    
    
    
9.1134the human conditionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Apr 26 1994 19:3130
re Note 9.1133 by AKOCOA::FLANAGAN:

>     If you are offended by persons not accepting the "fundementalals of
>     Christianity" then you are in fact offended by the very existence of
>     this conference.  You are a moderator of the other conference where
>     there is some agreement of what the "Fundementals of Christianity are"

        It certainly seemed, at the time of the founding of this
        conference, that certain people (I don't know if Nancy was
        among them or even active in Notes at that time) were
        offended by the very *existence* of this conference with the
        word "Christian" in its name.

        (Of course, to be fair, those who founded this conference did
        so because we were offended by the official position espoused
        in another conference that defined "Christian" in such a way
        that it clearly excluded many who in fact are followers of
        Christ.)

        I grew up at a time when Catholics generally didn't consider
        Protestants to be Christian (they certainly weren't "saved")
        and likewise Protestants considered "Catholic" to mean
        something other than Christian.

        It wasn't that long ago.

        We shouldn't be surprised if such attitudes are with us
        always.

        Bob
9.1135Been ThereJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Apr 26 1994 19:426
    RE: .1134
    
    I had those very idea's drilled into me by nuns, Bob. I have finally
    removed them, after 40 years!
    
    Marc H.
9.1136For whose benefit is Christianity?CFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonTue Apr 26 1994 20:1624
>    The "Fundamentals of
>    Christianity" have been deliberately left open so each of us can decide
>    for ourselves what it means to call oneself Christian.

Do you mean that "Christianity" can mean different things to different
people?

For whose benefit, ultimately, is Christianity?

>    the
>    acceptance that God created some humans only for damnation to be used
>    as a tool for the grace of others

Why is this a problem for you?

>a book that in fact allows for the rape of women

Huh?  I'm assuming you're talking OT here?  The neat thing about the OT is
that it shows a long-term view.  The rapist does not always get slammed
at the time, but it comes around somewhere down the road.  God does not take
rape lightly.


-Steve
9.1137PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinTue Apr 26 1994 20:1821
We can all agree on some facts:

  Patricia does not accept the atoning death of Jesus on the
  Christ as necessary for salvation.

  Neither does Richard.

  Nancy does.

  Jim does.

  Collis does.

How this stacks up in terms of whether we believe another
is a Christian depends on:

  - how we view the Bible
  - what we hear the Bible saying
  - miscellaneous other info

Collis
9.1138AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webTue Apr 26 1994 20:2219
    The point is that it seems to me that the very existence of this
    conference is to have a friendly place to discuss multiple approaches
    to Christianity.
    
    Given that understanding of the conference, I don't think participants
    should be criticized in here for accepting multiple approaches to
    Christianity.  
    
    To be accepting of others does not mean we should be accepting of a
    philosophy that says we should not even exist.  Sure we accept that
    others have a right to question our existence.  But we don't have to
    take that questioning as an equally valid arguement.
    
    I personally would like to see a voluntary ground rule in here that
    states that no persons individual self identification should be
    questioned in here.  If I decide to call myself a Christian, nobody
    should  tell me I cannot do that.  If I decide not to call
    myself a Christian nobody should question that either.
    
9.1139PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinTue Apr 26 1994 20:3610
Hi Patricia,

I can accept that you call yourself a Christian.

However, that does mean I accept that you are a
Christian (because IMO the Bible does a very good
job of defining a Christian and you have done a very
good job defining where you stand).

Collis
9.1140AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webTue Apr 26 1994 20:446
    All voluntary organizations are for the benefit of the particants.
    
    Asking for whose benefit is CHristianity is like asking for whose
    benefit is God's Grace.
    
    Patricia
9.1141CSLALL::HENDERSONIt will be worth it allTue Apr 26 1994 20:5812


 Christianity can benefit everybody..God' grace can also benefit everybody
 except there are those who refuse to accept it.






 Jim
9.1142JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Apr 26 1994 22:1418
    First off, Patricia your note .1134 is very well written and
    expressive.  However, you are stating exactly to me what I feel Richard
    does with his notes constantly picking Christianity apart bit by bit. 
    That is extremely insulting to me.
    
    If we are going to live insult free in this file, then the fact that
    more then even myself from the fundamentalist pov feels this icepick
    chipping away sensation, says a lot about the concept.
    
    I wasn't around when CP was created.  I accidentally happened into
    notes about 2 years ago.  So, I cannot speak for any attitudes that
    existed between Christian and CP.  Sorry.
    
    I can tell you my offense at the name of Christ being used in the term
    Christian to represent anything but complete faith in Him would be
    natural whether CHRISTIAN existed or not.
    
    
9.1143HURON::MYERSTue Apr 26 1994 23:0114

    If one is insulted when their statements are critically examined, then
    they are doomed to certain disappointment the moment they leave the
    security of the company of those who parrot their beliefs. If one finds
    insult in the mere existence of alternate viewpoints, that person is in
    the doomed to play the martyr till the end of their days. 

    	Eric

    PS. This note is not directed at anyone in particular. Any feelings of
    personal insult are strictly in the mind of the insulted. This shoe
    applies only to those feet on which it fits. If it doesn't fit don't
    wear it... it's not for you
9.1144CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoTue Apr 26 1994 23:4222
    Collis, you seem particularly cranky today.
    
    I don't recall discussing with you or anyone here the details
    of the doctrine which you've indicated that I do not accept.
    
    I realize that you and Nancy and others believe you have the inside
    track, the real truth, and that by defending the Bible as being
    inerrant, for example, you are defending God, Jesus, and the one
    true Christian faith.
    
    The truth of the matter is that Christianity, even from the outset,
    was far more varied and diverse in its range of beliefs and opinions
    than Christianity has ever been since.
    
    For nearly 400 years after Jesus death there was no NT canon to call
    inerrant.  And not until Gutenburg (sp) was the Bible widely available
    and accessible to nearly everyone.
    
    Christianity does not revolve around the inerrancy of the Bible.
    
    Praise God,
    Richard
9.1145CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoWed Apr 27 1994 00:3010
    820.261  It is not your usual habit, Collis, when having difficulty
    with something said, that you choose to make allegations about the
    noter rather than focusing on the content of the note.
    
    You are much more convincing and successful (imo) at the latter than
    the former, not that you won't improve with practice.
    
    Blessings,
    Richard
    
9.1146CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoWed Apr 27 1994 00:3410
    .1143
    
    Eric,
    
    	Is it okay if I agree with you?
    
    :-)
    
    Richard
    
9.1147HURON::MYERSWed Apr 27 1994 00:4611
    Great... just great. As if I don't have enough problems, now I've got
    Jones-Christie agreeing with me! Marc H. I can handle, but that nuts-o
    Richard... oy!

    A thousand :^)

    	Eric

    BTW, how'd it go today?...


9.1148COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Apr 27 1994 04:3270
Richard incorrectly stated:

>    For nearly 400 years after Jesus death there was no NT canon to call
>    inerrant.  

This is incorrect.  The writings in the NT became available to the Church
before all the Apostles had died, and there were very early canons which
included much of today's NT.

The way inerrancy worked in the early Church was a little different, though.
The standard was being able to answer the question "Who told you that?" with
the name of an Apostle or another person of high standing among the Fathers.

Here is the history of the early canons:

New Testament Canonization

Around 140, Marcion, who had Gnostic tendencies, set up a canon which
totally repudiated the Old Testament and anything Jewish.  His canon
consisted of "The Gospel" (a version of Luke, the least Jewish) and
the "Apostolikon" (ten epistles of Paul with Old Testament references
edited out, excluding Hebrews, I and II Timothy, and Titus).  Because
of this heresy, the Church decided it needed to form a canon more in
line with the thought of the universal church.

By the end of the 2nd century, Irenaeus used the four Gospels, 13 letters
of Paul, I Peter, I and II John, Revelation, "Shepherd of Hermas", and Acts.

The first clear catalog of authoritative New Testament writings is found in
the so-called Muratorian Canon, named for its modern discoverer, L.A.
Muratori (1672-1750).  Written late in the second century, it included the
four gospels, thirteen Pauline epistles (not including Hebrews), Jude, two
of John's letters, and Revelation. It mentions the "Apocalypse of Peter",
saying that it may be read, but that some object, and rejects the "Shepherd
of Hermas" as lacking any connection with the apostolic age.  It includes
The Wisdom of Solomon.

Clement of Alexandria, in the 2nd century, was essentially unconcerned about
canonicity, and made use of the "Gospel of the Hebrews", the "Gospel of the
Egyptians", the "Letter of Barnabas", the "Didache" and other extracanonical
works.

Origen (died c. 254) listed works based on his travels as "undisputed in the
churches of God throughout the whole world": the four Gospels, 13 Pauline
letters, I Peter, I John, Acts, and Revelation, "disputed": II Peter, II and
III John, Hebrews, James, and Jude, and "spurious": Egyptians, Thomas, and
others.  He used the term "scripture" for "Didache", the "Letter of Barnabas",
and the "Shepherd of Hermas", but did not consider them canonical.

Eusebius shows the situation in the early fourth century:  Universally
accepted: the four Gospels, Acts, 14 Pauline letters (including Hebrews),
I John, and I Peter.  He divided the disputed writings into two classes:
those known and accepted by many (James, Jude, II Peter, II and III John)
and "spurious" but not "foul and impious" (Acts of Paul, Shepherd of Hermas,
Apocalypse of Peter, Letter of Barnabas, Didache, and possibly Gospel of the
Hebrews).  He calls "Gospel of Peter" and "Acts of John" "heretically spurious".
Revelation is listed both as fully accepted "if permissible" and as spurious
but not impious.  Eusebius makes authoritative use of the disputed writings,
showing that canon and authoritative revelation were not the same thing.

Athanasius, Bishop of Alexandria in the fourth century, delimited the canon
and settled the strife between East and West.  On a principle of inclusiveness,
both Hebrews and Revelation were included, even though some felt that they
contradict each other as to whether those who have heard the Gospel and turn
away from it can ever be saved from their apostasy.  At this point, the
definitive 27 books of the New Testament were canonized.  In the Greek
churches there was still controversy over Revelation, but in the Latin
Church, under the influence of Jerome, Athanasius' decision was accepted.
It was not until the 7th century that the Syriac canon came into agreement
with the 27 books.
9.1149JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Apr 27 1994 06:0418
    Sitting back tonight thinking about this...
    
    Patricia,
    
    I need to thank you for being careful to make an effort to speak with
    me about faithfulness.  When I look back on that string, I realize that
    we went from being rather antagonistic to finding some common ground on
    which to note... I'm sorry that something as beneficial as this got
    covered in mire of fundamentalist attacks to which I reacted.
    
    I got so incensed at Richard's notes, that I failed to see the value of
    real discussion... Yeah I got emotional, but you all know that. 
    
    I don't know... but I do know a very fruitful discussion was let go
    because of the defocus of these notes... My fault, I apologize to you.
    
    
    
9.1150We can all agree...?VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtWed Apr 27 1994 06:1810
    re: .1137 Collis
    
    >We can all agree on some facts:
    
    Kindly refrain from making decisions for me.
    
    I dislike the "broad brush" tactic in any context. I abhor it when it
    touches on my personal feelings/opinions.
    
    Greetings, Derek.
9.1151JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 27 1994 12:246
    ER: .1137
    
    In my opinion, dividing people in that manner with the accompanying
    "message between the lines", is not done in a Christian spirit.
    
    Marc H.
9.1152JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 27 1994 12:265
    E: .1144
    
    I agree, Richard.
    
    Marc H.
9.1153still feistyPACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinWed Apr 27 1994 13:1515
Rre:  .1150

    >>We can all agree on some facts:
    
  >Kindly refrain from making decisions for me.

The statement is there just so others such as yourself can
respond.  Since you offer no disagreement with the facts
themselves, I assume the issue you have is simply with the
audicity of my proclamation that you and I can agree on
something.  But perhaps your knowledge of what others have
proclaimed differs from mine - and you don't wish this to
be explored.

Collis
9.1154it is so difficult to always be silent on such a common topic...PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinWed Apr 27 1994 13:3240
Re:  .1144
    
   >I don't recall discussing with you or anyone here the details
   >of the doctrine which you've indicated that I do not accept.
    
It is indeed true that you have consistently refused to discuss
the details of this ages old and Biblically-solid doctrine of
have to be saved.

However, since this issue comes up time after time, week after
week, day after day, you have occassionally shared a little
insight now and again.  Since I believe that an
individual's standing with respect to their acceptance of Jesus
death on a cross as an atoning sacrifice for their sins is
critical, my senses are heightened whenever someone addresses this
issue, no matter how obliquely.

You, once, several years ago, indicated that you did not believe
that Jesus' death on a cross was an atoning sacrifice for sins.
I immediately picked up on this and questioned you about it.  You
changed the subject.

A number of months later, I indicated that you did need believe that
Jesus' death on a cross was an atoning sacrifice for sins.  You
questioned why I said that (since you work very hard at not
sharing your thoughts on this subject).  I pointed out this
past reference.  You subsided.

This same scenerio played itself out again some time later.  
And now again.  In fact, I would have been almost disappointed
had you not questioned me again this time.  :-)  Given all this, 
I fully expect this to happen more in the future.  :-)

Of course, you are free to share any or all of your beliefs on
this subject at any time in this notesfile.  I have no reluctance
in sharing my understanding of what you have stated in the past on
this very important topic.  In fact, I think it is helpful in
trying to understand who you are and where you are coming from.

Collis
9.1155reasons and explanation for summary in .1137PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinWed Apr 27 1994 13:5057
Hi Marc,

    >In my opinion, dividing people in that manner with the accompanying
    >"message between the lines", is not done in a Christian spirit.

I certainly think there is some truth to this.  Our goal should
not be to categorize and compartmentalize one another, but rather
to share ideas, feelings and reasons as we encourage and support
one another with appropriate rebuke, apologies and forgiveness
thrown in.

However, there is more to the story than simply this.  We are
*also* to be wise and discerning.  We are to divide truth
correctly.  Personally, I think a noter's relationship to Jesus
Christ is very important information to know in this conference.
For one thing, there are Biblically different approaches that are
to be applied between a fellow believer and a non-believer.

My goal in sharing such obvious information (at least all of
it is well documented and admitted except for Richard's position)
was the following: 

 - this was precisely the issue under discussion
 - this note summarized positions and put it on the table
   that we are going to view each other's claims differently
   based on where are beliefs come free

I have often found that a summary clears the issues and settles
down the discussion.  If you have noticed, this summary did
exactly that.  Admittedly, it brought up different issues
such as:

 - Evidently not everyone agrees with the facts of the summary
   although no fact was ever refuted
 - the purpose of the summary (being answered in this note)

I fully expect that after these issues are dealt with that
this discussion will promptly die down.

In summary, I don't think anyone who believes something is
true has anything to be ashamed of (regardless of whether they
are right or wrong).  When we start acting as if our beliefs
may not be freely aired because there is something wrong with
them, then I think we have lost quite a bit.  That is all I
did.  A statement of facts of beliefs and how we interpret
these facts to mean different things based on our individual
choices of truth.

Does this give you a different perspective on the relevance
and usefulness of .1137?  I still think it was an appropriate
note and that it has actually accomplished its purpose (which
was not to divide - hey, this conference is divided already;
but rather to put the facts on the table and have everyone
acknowledge them so that we can move on - just like we're
about to do).

Collis
9.1156AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webWed Apr 27 1994 14:3850
    Nancy,
    
    Re: 9.1142
    
    I respect and appreciate your note. Our continuing conversation is
    helpful to me as well as you.  I am learning that there are a lot of
    things that we agree on in spite of some essential differences.
    
    I am also beginning to appreciate that your own self identification is
    so closely tied to your identity as a Christian that to argue against
    those principles that you define as essential to Christianity become
    very personal.
    
    I can understand that while at the same time knowing that the some elements
    that I consider essential to Christianity are directly opposite to
    those you determine to be essential.  I know also that the Bible itself
    contradicts some of those elements that I consider essential to
    Christianity.  I have more Faith in what I call Christianity than in
    the Inerrancy of the Bible, so I have concluded that the Bible is a
    Fallable instrument.
    
    Let me provide an example.
    
    The Goodness and excellence of God is a key principle in my theology. 
    A good and excellent God does not create some humans for destruction. 
    If a good and excellent God is all powerful, that God could save all
    humanity.  If that God choose not to, then God would not be faithful to
    goodness and excellence.  Since I know that God is always faithful then
    I know that God did not create some people for destruction.  Romans
    does clearly say that God created some humans for destruction. 
    Therefore Romans is wrong.
    
    In my opinion the principle of the Goodness and excellence of God
    contradicts the principle of the inerrancy of the Bible and I choose
    the first principle.
    
    I know that you and I do not reason the same way on this issue but I
    also accept that our differences are reality.  I am going to be just as
    faithful to my religious beliefs as you are to your religious beliefs. 
    I am going to defend everybodies right to there own beliefs.  My reason
    for asking people to proclaim the untruth of Biblical Inerrancy is not
    because I want to attack anyone's beliefs but because I truly believe
    that that belief prevents people from accepting and understanding
    "real" Christian truths about the nature of God and the nature of
    humanity created in the image of God.
    
    In spite of our differences I do appreciate your sincere effort to
    understand my perspective.
    
    Patricia
9.1157AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webWed Apr 27 1994 14:5714
    Collis,
    
    I have no issue with the way you summarized my beliefs about the
    atoning sacrifice.  I do not believe that Jesus literally needed to die as
    an atoning sacrifice.  Mythically, metaphorically, or allegorically, I
    don't know.
    
    I also have become biblical enough to understand that Romans does
    explain Jesus' death that way as does some of non pauline letters.
    
    I do not believe that accepting this doctrine is required to define
    myself as a Christian.
    
    Patricia
9.1158JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed Apr 27 1994 15:0620
    E: .1155
    
    
    Your reply helps to explain your comments. And, most I can accept,
    but ( there is always a but)....
    
    For many people, myself included, I struggle to understand the Bible
    and my own faith. I can not understand the *why* of Christs death
    on the cross as atonement for sins. Its not a question of faith
    per say, rather it doesn't make sense to me. Why torture and kill
    your son for someone elses sins?
    
    Honest questions that should be discussed, not questions that allow
    someone to then label you as non CHristian or an Unbeliever.
    Maybe its a fine line...but it's a very important line.
    
    For many here, our faith journey is still evolving. I find Richard's
    and others questions as helpful in exploring idea's. Nothing else.
    
    Marc H.
9.1159This point of view makes it hard to see the truth of the BibleCFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonWed Apr 27 1994 17:4255
I quote Patricia's notes here.  I do that not to be a Patricia-basher, but
because her responses are honest, and illustrative.

In .1136, I asked for whose benefit, ultimately, is Christianity.
In .1140 Patricia responded with:

>    All voluntary organizations are for the benefit of the particants.
>   
>    Asking for whose benefit is CHristianity is like asking for whose
>    benefit is God's Grace.

Saying, in essence, that Christianity is for the good of us humans.
Many people (not singling out Patricia) have this view that comes down to
people being the most important, and God is there to do good for us and
validate us.

I'd like to turn the view around and state that God is in the central point
of all, with his plans, rights, views, and justice being most important.
From the beginning this has been the case - God gives us great freedom, but
defines the proper way to live.  Also from the beginning we have gone against
what God declares.  God says the penalty for that is death.

But we're still here.

Is God just?

In Romans 3:21 and following Paul is saying that righteousness is by faith in
Jesus.  In v25-26 Paul makes the central point: 

	"God presented him [Jesus] as a sacrifice of atonement (the one who
	would turn aside his wrath, taking away sin), through faith in his
	blood.  He did this to demonstrate his justice, because in his
	forbearance he had left the sins committed beforehand unpunished -
	he did it to demonstrate his justice at the present time, so as to
	be just and the one who justifies the man who has faith in Jesus."

So, Christianity is for God's benefit, ultimately.  He has upheld his
justice.

Yes, we who believe benefit greatly, unspeakably.  But only on God's terms.
Jesus, himself God, paid the death penalty for our sin.  Aside from that,
we are under the penalty.

The danger in all this is redefining God to be who or what we want.  Even
accusing him of injustice.  Why?  I believe that from Cain on down, it is to
avoid the penalty - to avoid the guilt - of sin.  I am guilty of this approach
often also - redefining situations to get me out of a jam - ask my wife (well,
no, don't do that ;-)

I'm not saying all this to jab at people.  I say this because at some point,
the games are going to be over, and then the judgement will come.  By the
merit of Jesus' death, I'm going to be with Jesus.  I want to see you there
too.

-Steve
9.1160AKOCOA::FLANAGANhonor the webWed Apr 27 1994 17:5819
    Actually Steve
    
    The question was 
    "Who's benefit is Christianity"
    
    my answer  "Humanity's.
    
    Another way to ask the same question is
    
    Does God need humanity or does Humanity need God?
    
    To answer "Humanity needs God" is the same as to say that "Christianity is
    for the benefit of Humanity".
    
    Of course I have not pursued Process thought yet, so I reserve the
    right to change my mind.  Perhaps God really does need us!
    
    Patricia
    
9.1161LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed Apr 27 1994 18:029
re Note 9.1159 by CFSCTC::HUSTON:

> So, Christianity is for God's benefit, ultimately.  He has upheld his
> justice.
  
        You probably believe that the Sabbath was for God's benefit,
        too.

        Bob
9.1162CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoWed Apr 27 1994 18:3911
    .1148  John is correct to a degree.  The materials which became the
    canon for the NT were around long before 400 years after Jesus death,
    along with a lot of other materials culled in the canonization process.
    If you interpretted what I said in any other way when I said that 'for
    nearly 400 years after after Jesus death there was no NT canon to
    call inerrant,' you misinterpretted what I was saying (which really
    doesn't surprise me).
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1163CFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonWed Apr 27 1994 19:008
re: 1161

>        You probably believe that the Sabbath was for God's benefit,
>        too.

I don't follow...  could you explain this please?

-Steve
9.1164Cross-posting under "Salvation"CSC32::J_CHRISTIESister of AmarettoWed Apr 27 1994 19:1430
Note 9.1154

>It is indeed true that you have consistently refused to discuss
>the details of this ages old and Biblically-solid doctrine of
>have to be saved.

The fact of the matter is that the doctrine of Jesus' death and
atonement for sin lights up something in my head, but lights up
nothing in my heart.  That's kind of a signal to me that the matter
has become too cerebral, too sterile, too flat; that rationalization
has kicked in and taken over, akin to explaining emotions like love
and anger in terms of chemicals and neural transmitters.

For me to fully embrace a particular doctrine, to drink it in and
incorporate it, the light must come on in both my head and my heart.
I realize this is probably yet another handicap I have to deal with
in my humanness.  If my soul was more advanced, I suppose my faith might
mirror more perfectly that of others who not only embrace the doctrine,
but have made it the litmus test of the true Christian faith.

So, what it really boils down to on the doctrine is that I've
not really made up mind.  I'm still waiting for clearness.  If it
causes me the loss of right relationship with God and to lose out
on salvation, then I guess you won't be hearing from me again after
this earthly life.  No great loss.

Jesus is Sovereign.

Richard

9.1165PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinWed Apr 27 1994 19:475
Re:  .1164

Thank you for sharing that, Richard.

Collis
9.1166Agreement?VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtThu Apr 28 1994 05:5920
	Re: .1153 Collis.

	Hi Collis!

	The facts as you stated them would never get my agreement, simply (and
	only) because I would never be so presumptious as to summatize another
	person's belief system as simply as you did.

	My issue, however, was not (and cannot be) whether or not I agree with
	you on this point. It was your statement that I (we all) would agree.
	If you has stated: "I think that there will be wide agreement..." or
	"Are we in general agreement that...?", I would have had no bones to
	pick.
		
	I am sure that you did not intend it as arrogantly as it came across
    	to me. My reaction was, therefore, probably too sharp. If so, I
    	apologize. I am, futher, sure that there will be thing upon which we
    	would agree: we just haven't found them yet.
    
	Greetings, Derek
9.1167Is God even exclusively rational?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Thu Apr 28 1994 11:0325
re Note 9.1166 by VNABRW::BUTTON:

> 	The facts as you stated them would never get my agreement, simply (and
> 	only) because I would never be so presumptious as to summatize another
> 	person's belief system as simply as you did.

        Derek,

        Most of what passes for rational discourse (in this or any
        other forum, on these topics or any other) is actually
        rhetoric.  (I am not addressing this to Collis or anyone else
        in particular:  it is a general observation, and applies to
        myself as well.)

        It is a common rhetorical approach to claim as much as one
        can get away with in the process of making the argument.  We
        all do it.  Preachers and demagogues do it.  We rarely claim
        merely what can be rigorously proven.

        I despair that human beings can really engage in totally
        logical argument -- after all, we are not totally rational
        beings, thus to be totally rational would be "against human
        nature"!

        Bob
9.1168Thanks, Bob.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtThu Apr 28 1994 11:259
    re: .1167 Bob
    
    >rhetorical practice... declare as much as one can get away with...
    
    Point taken, Bob. That's why I drew my particular line: This far and
    no further. I'm not mean and I enjoy a good discussion. It can even be
    fun when the dirt hits the fan occasionally. But there are limits.
    
    Greetings, Derek
9.1169PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinThu Apr 28 1994 20:018
Well, I sure thought we could agree on those things.

It turns out that maybe we do agree on them - but
that Derek doesn't wish to necessarily agree with
anything.  :-)  At least, that's how I've processed
what he's said.

Collis
9.1170CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace Power RangerFri Apr 29 1994 01:5014
Note 9.1169

> At least, that's how I've processed
> what he's said.

An excellent demonstration on how two (or more) people can read the
same thing and yet process it very differently.

Perhaps the Holy Spirit doesn't aid us with Notes like it's supposed
to with other materials.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1171sad!VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtFri Apr 29 1994 07:2713
	Re: .1169 Collis

	I thought that I had presented you with a rare opportunity to make a
	retraction. What I wrote was neither scriptural nor theological dogma,
	so a retraction by you would not have been a sin. :-). In my previous
	reply, I offered an apology for the sharpness of my original reaction.
	You apparently decline to accept it.

	Sad! I would be sincerely happy if we could find a piece of ground where
	we both could lie down with the lions in peace.

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1172Didn't know where else to put this! JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Apr 29 1994 16:2515
    O' to grace how great a debtor
    daily I'm constrained to be
    have they goodness like a fetter
    bind my wondering heart to thee
    
    Prone to wander
    Lord I feel it
    Prone to leave the God I love
    Here's my heart oh take and seal it
    seal it to thy court's above!
    
    
    Man that song wells up sumpin fierce in my soul... 
    
    Just had to sing it... :-)
9.1173PACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinFri Apr 29 1994 16:4020
Well, I'm not looking to retract, but I'll happily
modify Richard's position in light of what he has
since shared.

You viewed what I wrote as summarying a person's belief
system.  I viewed it as restating beliefs.  You are quite
right in thinking that a belief system is much more than
1 or 2 beliefs.  However, I never said that these facts
constituted a belief system (nor do I think that they do).

It puzzles me.  What facts about beliefs can we agree upon
that won't hit the same objection that it is (apparently)
improper from your point of view?  I don't see any - and
thus think your objection is not a good one.

It makes no sense to me why we can't agree that certain
people believe certain things.  But then again, perhaps
this isn't really the issue you are objecting to?

Collis
9.1174CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace Power RangerFri Apr 29 1994 21:039
    In .1166, Derek was stating his autonomy, in effect saying, "Don't
    put that blanket over my head.  With regards to this issue, it would
    be a lie for me to be included there."
    
    That's how I processed it.  But then, of course, I'm not a terribly
    perceptive person.  I may have missed the mark.
    
    Richard
    
9.1175Moved to appropriate topicCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace Power RangerMon May 02 1994 20:585
    9.1175 and 9.1196 have been move to 864.4 and 864.5.
    
    Richard Jones-Christie
    Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE
    
9.1176Moved to appropriate topicCSC32::J_CHRISTIECopernicus 3:16Mon May 09 1994 20:255
9.1176 through 9.1178 have been move to Note 91.3623: Christianity and Gays

Richard Jones-Christie
Co-moderator/CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE

9.1177CSLALL::HENDERSONBe thereFri May 13 1994 13:2823

RE:        <<< Note 732.116 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist" >>>
                    -< Do you really desire to understand? >-

>Mike,

>	If you're truly interested in a dialogue, I suggest that statements
>such as that which appears above are counterproductive.

>	It clear that the propaganda you've gotten a hold of is biased
>and intended to weaken and crush some of the basic tenets held by Jehovah's
>Witnesses



Based on the above, how would you categorize the material you posted in
topic 908, and what if any differences are there between what Mike posted
and what you posted in 908?



Jim
9.1178CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking PacifistFri May 13 1994 16:3027
Note 9.1177

>RE:        <<< Note 732.116 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist" >>>
                    -< Do you really desire to understand? >-

>Based on the above, how would you categorize the material you posted in
>topic 908, and what if any differences are there between what Mike posted
>and what you posted in 908?

Jim,

	I regret that this somehow managed to evade you and others.  Mike
asked for clarification.  His was a solicitation for opposing viewpoints.
In 732.116, I asked Mike about the sincerity of his request and suggested
that the material he presented was less than conducive to an unhindered
exchange.

	I presented material in 908 from the book, "Fundamentalism: Hazards
and Heartbreaks," providing viewpoints opposing the fundamentalist mindset
and did *not* solicit clarification from fundamentalists.  Of course,
fundamentalists were free to respond.

	I might add that the material used from the book in 908 was neither
disrespectful nor malicious in its assertions.

Richard

9.1179JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri May 13 1994 17:553
    -1
    
    not disrespectful or malice??? In Your Opinion, perhaps.
9.1180CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking PacifistFri May 13 1994 18:026
    .1179  Well, I just scanned my quotes from the book in 908 again,
    and yes, in my opinion the quotes are neither disrespectful nor
    malicious.  And I doubt that that is solely my opinion.
    
    Richard
    
9.1181CSLALL::HENDERSONBe thereFri May 13 1994 18:1228
re .908



 Are you saying then, that the topic in 908 is not intended to weaken 
 and crush the tenets held by "fundamentalist Christians" and is not biased,
 which seems to be your point regarding Mike's posting?  





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================================================================================
Note 732.116                   Jehovah's Witnesses                    116 of 129
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking Pacifist"            16 lines  12-MAY-1994 15:09
                    -< Do you really desire to understand? >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Mike,

	If you're truly interested in a dialogue, I suggest that statements
such as that which appears above are counterproductive.

	It clear that the propaganda you've gotten a hold of is biased
and intended to weaken and crush some of the basic tenets held by Jehovah's
Witnesses.

Richard
9.1182CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking PacifistFri May 13 1994 18:2215
Note 9.1181

> Are you saying then, that the topic in 908 is not intended to weaken 
> and crush the tenets held by "fundamentalist Christians" and is not biased,
> which seems to be your point regarding Mike's posting?  

No, that was *not* my point regarding Mike's posting.

How can I make this any clearer to you than I did in 9.1178?

I have no problem with presenting opposing viewpoints here.  You certainly
haven't been prevented from expressing yours.

Richard

9.1183JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAFri May 13 1994 19:184
    Actually, the replies in the processing note by the "fundamentalists"
    have given me more insight then the parts quoted from the book!
    
    Marc H.
9.1184POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue May 24 1994 15:3028
    Greg,
    
    >    I've been out of town (for what seems like forever) again.  I spent a
    >    couple of hours yesterday and some time this a.m. wading through the
    >   130+ notes added to this string in the last couple of weeks.  I came to
    >   a conclusion:
    
    >   Nothing whatsoever has been gained, **by anybody**, through the supposed
    >   conversation had in this note.  It's a waste of time. 
      
    Greg,
    
    It sounds like you may have wasted a few hours but it is pretty
    presumptious of you to state that "Nothing whatsoever has been gained
    by anybody through the conversion."  I would prefer you speak for
    yourself and not for everybody.
    
    I gained quite a bit from the conversation.  I gained a better understanding
    of  what it means for my brothers who are Gay and Christian.  I
    have gained a better understanding of how deep the gulf is among
    Christians on this issue.  I have gained a deeper understanding of how
    real and deep the lack of acceptance of gay and lesbians is.  I have
    gained an increased commitment for myself to be an advocate for Gay,
    Lesbian and Bisexual rights.
    
    Those are all significant gains for me.
    
    Patricia.
9.1185JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue May 24 1994 15:365
    RE: .1184
    
    I had just the opposite result.
    
    Marc H.
9.1186On topic 91CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue May 24 1994 16:559
    .1185
    
    Throughout your time noting here, have you always had that same
    feeling about that particular string, Marc?  Or is this something
    more recent?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1187I've moved all aroundJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue May 24 1994 17:2620
    RE: .1186
    
    Richard,
      To tell you the truth, in the beginning I found myself moving more
    and more away from my previous ( before C-P) position...I.E. starting
    to accept homosexual behavior/life style/etc. as just another dimension
    to being a human. Later on, I found myself moving back to the more
    "conservative" view of out right rejection of homosexuals.
    Maybe the earlier replies were more "balanced" or something, but the
    mid to late section has been much more "agressive" and confrontational.
    At first, we could talk as people, almost face to face. Lately, its
    just one challenge after another...picking notes apart sentence by 
    sentence.
      For me, the quiet, steady method works.
    
    By the way, a was an anti-gun person a couple of years ago....since
    then I have reformed, and the method was a "notes file". So, people
    can change.....
    
    Marc H.
9.1188POBOX::DIERCKSNot every celebration is a party!Tue May 24 1994 20:447
    
    
    You're correct -- I stated my feelings rather poorly.  I apologize for
    that.  For me, it was a waste of time.  But then, as a Gay Christian,
    I'm tired of doing battle here.
    
       Greg
9.1189POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue May 24 1994 20:497
    Greg,
    
    I can understand that.  Sometimes I speak in generalities too and
    represent more than just my own opinion.  I am sorry that you have to
    do battle here.
    
    Patricia
9.1190CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed May 25 1994 00:2913
I can appreciate your feelings, Greg.

I, too, have experienced 'battle fatigue' at times.  I use the martial
expression metaphorically, as I do not wish to cause my opponent's
suffering or demise.

Is it sometimes wise to distance oneself and pray, "Abba, forgive them..."

I know this prayer has been prayed by others on my behalf countless times.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1191from a different perspectiveLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed May 25 1994 12:3911
re Note 9.1190 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

> Is it sometimes wise to distance oneself and pray, "Abba, forgive them..."
  
        This is perhaps one instance in which we *shouldn't* pray
        just as Jesus prayed.

        We perhaps should pray instead:  "Father, forgive them, and
        me, for they, and I, know not what we do."

        Bob
9.1192foot washingSOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckWed May 25 1994 14:2419
    This is what I saw when I flipped the page of my perpetual calendar
    this morning:

	Surely to wash on another's feet is to cleanse them completely in our
	thoughts, and to find through the lowly but adventurous service of
	love a means of helping them.
					Kingdom of Love, p. 105

	Now that I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you also
	should wash one another's feet.  I have set you an example that you
	should do as I have done for you.
					John 13:14-15 NIV

    Which got me to wondering why this didn't become a sacrament, like the
    Eucharist (Communion).  In our church (Episcopal) we do feet washing on
    Maundy Thursday, but that is the only day.  And it is not considered a
    sacrament.  

    Any thoughts?
9.1193serve othersRDGENG::YERKESSbring me sunshine in your smileWed May 25 1994 15:1223
re .1192

Debby,

Sorry but not being Episcopal I can't answer your question. But you did
say, any thoughts?.

Jesus wasn't saying that one should literally wash each others feet, but
that they should show humility, ready to take the lead and *serve* the other. 
In Jewish society at the time it was important to have prominence, and this
rubbed of onto Jesus' disciples as they often would argue who was the greatest
among them. However, they all recognised Jesus as their master, hence Jesus
washing their feet was an excellent way of Jesus showing the need for those
taking the lead to serve the others rather than "lord it over them" as was the
case with the Pharisees and their flock.

So it's not so much the washing of feet that should be copied, but that of
learning the lesson that Jesus taught and making application of it in every
day life.

Phil.

9.1194CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatWed May 25 1994 18:197
    .1191 :-}
    
    Agreed.  As certain as I sound here sometimes, there's always within
    me a nagging question: Could I be wrong about this?
    
    Richard
    
9.1195DPDMAI::DAWSONI've seen better timesFri Jun 03 1994 16:2914
    
    Well folks, this is my last day so I'll say so-long! :-)  I already
    have two kob offers one of which I'll have internet access so maybe
    you all will be hearing from me again...at any rate...Good bye.
    
    
    I do wish this file well but I think all here are going to have to be a
    lot more accepting than they have been in the past.  I am not speaking
    of changing your beliefs but understanding that others might have
    different beliefs and respecting their right to have them without anger
    and guilt trips.  Good luck.
    
    
    Dave
9.1196Words escape meCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatFri Jun 03 1994 16:334
    Farewell, friend.  Farewell!
    
    Richard
    
9.1197CSLALL::HENDERSONBe thereFri Jun 03 1994 16:393

 Best of luck, Dave..
9.1198POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jun 03 1994 16:545
    Good Bye, Dave.
    
    I will miss you.
    
    Patricia
9.1199JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jun 03 1994 17:285
    Dave, it sounds like God had opened doors in both directions for you. 
    Praise Him for his faithfulness.
    
    You will be missed,
    Nancy
9.1200CSLALL::HENDERSONBe thereFri Jun 03 1994 17:334


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9.1201byeLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Fri Jun 03 1994 18:565
        Dave, you'll be greatly missed!

        Farewell, and continue to walk with the Lord!

        Bob
9.1202A call for cessationCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatFri Jun 03 1994 22:0611
I request Glen and Nancy to take their opposing viewpoints offline.

It's obvious that you two are irresistably irritated by each other's entries.

As a casual observer, I think I can safely say that neither of you are
"winning," nor are you gaining the respect of the readership by continuing
to poke and probe at each other.

Richard
(temporarily filling in for Marc H.)

9.1203JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Jun 04 1994 16:163
    Just one question... cessation? :-)
    
    Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
9.1204LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Sun Jun 05 1994 13:337
re Note 9.1203 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     Just one question... cessation? :-)
>     
>     Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
  
        ???
9.1205Need more than just the Bible sometimesHURON::MYERSSun Jun 05 1994 15:509
    re Note 9.1203 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:
    
    >     Just one question... cessation? :-)
    >
    >     Is that the fizz in my pepsi?
    
    Where would you like me to send the dictionary?
    
    Eric (only half joking)
9.1206JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 06 1994 01:534
    I like the way the word sounds when you pronounce it...
    cessssssssssss ation :-)
    
    Sounds fizzy to me.
9.1207Richard is RightJUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAMon Jun 06 1994 14:346
    RE: .1202
    
    Correct Richard. I'm back from a short vacation, and after reading
    the Glen/Nancy exchange, clearly the discussion hurts both sides.
    
    Marc H.  
9.1208CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Jun 07 1994 04:004
    .1207  Welcome back, Marc.  I gladly return to you your hat. ;-}
    
    Richard
    
9.1209JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRATue Jun 07 1994 13:305
    Re: .1208
    
    Thanks......hat back on.
    
    Marc H.
9.1210Side conversationsCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatThu Jun 09 1994 23:175
    932.64 seems like the kind of question which might be better asked
    offline or, at least, in the appropriate notesfile.
    
    Richard
    
9.1211JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jun 10 1994 16:148
    I do believe it was this notesfile from which the discussion began...
    and it is very relevant to the discussion at hand.  When noting on
    subjects such as these, it is good to know the background of the
    personw with whom you are noting... something about them that clicks
    and says, "Oh, now I understand."  That is why I believe we have an
    introduction note?
    
    Your sensitivity is noted.
9.1212CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatFri Jun 10 1994 17:148
Well, asking things like, "Aren't you the one who said such and such a
while back in this or another conference?" seems like clutter to me.

But as long as introductions were brought up, allow me to invite Jim
(SLBLUZ::DABLER "Is it 1996 yet?") to introduce himself in Topic 3.

Richard

9.1213JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Jun 11 1994 15:0625
    Richard,
    
    I noticed that you are following me around this conference again
    nitpicking my notes in .933.  Is because Dave is gone you feel more free
    to antagonize me?
    
    I'm putting this out here right in the open.  I told Dave that with him
    gone, that I wouldn't last in this conference because you guys would do
    exactly what Richard you are currently attempting.
    
    I just got out of .933 and saw your, "Don't you think it's rather.."
    note and I thought to myself, "Don't you think it's rather obsessive to
    continue this with me?  I am having a discussion with someone else, not
    you, if you wish to talk with me about something, then talk to me, but
    why interrupt the flow of a discussion that has no antagonism
    whatsoever and attempt to stir some up.
    
    And FWIW, Absolute Morality was in reference to God, Jehovah and the
    Bible... although, I detest the fact that I have to explain this to
    you.
    
    BTW, I didn't read any notes after yours before coming into this topic.
    
    
    
9.1214CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatSat Jun 11 1994 21:0514
    I take it you are saying in .1213, in so many words, "Get off my back,
    Richard."  It sounds like you're almost accusing me of persecuting you
    or harassing you.
    
    I don't see it that way.  I tend to comment after entries which are of
    some interest to me or catch my attention.  Isn't that pretty much how
    it works for everyone?
    
    I regret Dave is gone, but I also regret that he was apparently something
    of a crutch for you in this conference.
    
    Shalom in Jesus,
    Richard
    
9.1215JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeSat Jun 11 1994 22:503
    .1214
    
    Not a crutch, just a balance.
9.1216Like Richard I reply to what catches my eyeBIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Jun 13 1994 13:258


	Nancy, you're claiming the victim again. Maybe ya should stop reading
attack in others notes and just read the note itself.


Glen-who-is-not-following-you
9.1217JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 13 1994 18:261
    Well, it's apparent that antagonism runs rampant in this file then.
9.1218CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatMon Jun 13 1994 20:595
    There are less antagonistic files, I suppose.  Of course, the price
    is likely to be increased censorship.
    
    Richard
    
9.1219JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 14 1994 04:265
    Ohhh, ooooh, here we go with the battle of the conferences again.  
    
    :-) :-)  This really is hilarious..
    
    
9.1220This is funny, eh?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Jun 14 1994 14:288
    It's funny (odd).  The people who complain the most about how awful and
    unfriendly C-P is, seem to me to be the same ones who rarely or never
    say anything positive about the file.
    
    I'm not so amused.  :-{ :-{
    
    Richard
    
9.1221JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 14 1994 16:468
    Richard,
    
    It's hard to be positive, with negativity nippin at your heels in an
    unpredictable fashion.
    
    I truly wish it were different.
    
    
9.1222POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jun 14 1994 17:394
    There is negativity in this conference, but I have seen very
    little lack of predictability in here.
    
    Patricia
9.1223JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 14 1994 17:423
    .1222
    
    Thank you. 
9.1224CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPacifist HellcatTue Jun 14 1994 23:038
I wish things were other than they are, also.  However, as long as
I as truly care about having others hear me, I'll not label an entire
conference filled with individuals of diverse backgrounds, experiences,
loyalties, pre-suppositions, communication skills, stages of spiritual growth,
and a bevy of other variables, in exclusively negative terms.

Richard

9.1225POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienWed Jun 15 1994 13:4227
    Richard,
    
    I hope you do not feel that I have labelled this whole conference in
    negative terms.  I am continuing to learn the value of the interchange
    in this conference even when the interchange is not pleasant.
    
    The negativity in this conference can speak to the negativity that is
    within me and help me to comprehend how I at times project my own
    negativity onto others.
    
    THe negativity has promoted some gut wrenching exchanges that help me
    and hopefully others understand the complexity of moral delemma's that
    we encounter in our lifes.  
    
    A lot of the negativity and heated exchange has been regarding Gay,
    Lesbian, and Bisexuality.  I hope and pray that everyone of us, gay and
    straight have learned something from that interchange.  I have learned
    that it is a complex issue that all people of faith must wrestle with. 
    None of us can ignore the delemma.
    
    I guess I ultimately believe that any honest exchange of views is
    better than no exchange of views.  Nobody grows from leaving a
    difficult issue undiscussed.
    
    Shalom,
    
    Patricia
9.1226CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistWed Jun 15 1994 17:0718
    .1225  Not at all.  I expect, and actually welcome, negative
    criticism.  I also expect, and welcome even more, favorable
    comments regarding CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
    
    Marc Hildebrandt, Alfred Thompson, and even Collis Jackson
    could hand out both.
    
    Others, perhaps more reform-minded, enter the file with a mission to
    straighten out the wayward ones among us; to fix us; to bring us in
    line with their particular orthodoxy (brand of Christianity).  If not
    wholly successful, the reformers often 'shake the dust from their
    sandals' and cerebrally distance themselves by refering to
    CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE as "this file," as if it were an unclean or
    disgusting thing.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1227BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jun 15 1994 17:213

	But they always come back for more... :-)
9.1228signing outCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Jun 15 1994 17:2424

RE:               <<< Note 9.1227 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>



>	But they always come back for more... :-)



 Not this reformer...




 I've been outta here before, and now I'm outta here again.



 have fun



Jim
9.1229HURON::MYERSSun Jun 19 1994 15:2534
9.1230COMET::DYBENSun Jun 19 1994 19:2713
    
    
    
    ..and my experience has shown me that God accepts all who come to him
    even with a partially impure motive. I to have seen those that you 
    describe. I have also seen God take the drug addict loser and turn him
    into a fine person. Those who know they are  broken and lost souls are
    deemed by others to be weaklings, perhaps God, who can see into the
    future, can see the clay after he is done molding it. He also probably
    knows that some clay is to high in its own estimation to be molded at
    all......
    
    David  
9.1231JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 20 1994 23:2615
    Eric,
    
    It's the age old question of submission.  The reason that we have
    abusive males is lack of submission to God [imho].  The role model of
    the male in the Bible is not one of tyranny, but of agape.   If a man
    is truly surrendered to the Lord, he will not abuse usurp authority
    over his wife in this fashion.
    
    We all choose to whom we submit, all of us.  I choose the Bible and
    believe it to be right...  God gives you the right to not choose the
    Bible as well...  So, if you choose Jesus, but you don't choose the 
    Bible... well, I'm told by those more scholarly then myself that this
    does not stop one from having eternal life.
    
    I find it conflicting... very conflicting... but that is me.
9.1232I question Man's ability, not God's power.APACHE::MYERSTue Jun 21 1994 14:209
    re Note 9.1230 by COMET::DYBEN

    My note was referring to how some people latch on to a particular
    dogmatic view of the Bible. How they react to any alternate reading of
    the Bible as an assault on them, and God himself. I wasn't questioning
    God's ability to profoundly affect people's lives (which is what I
    think your note addressed).
    
    Eric
9.1233POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jun 21 1994 14:5421
    Actually God is the role model of the Male as potrayed in the Bible.
    
    In the Old testament in Issiah, Jeremiah, Hosea, there are many
    instances of the role model as being one of tyranny and abuse.  In the
    prophets , the disobedient Israel is potrayed as a disobedient wife and God
    punishes this disobedient wife by abandoning her, abusing her, killing
    her children, allowing her to be raped.  When this disobedient wife has
    been punished enough, God is potrayed as forgiving her and accepting
    her back and displaying love for her.  Many feminists believe this
    potrayal of God in the prophets provides divine justification for Abuse
    of women and children.
    
    Going into the new testament, Paul borrows extensively from Isaiah and
    Jeremiah.  His treatment of women, while certainly chauvanistic is not
    quite as bad as in the OT.
    
    Paul relies heavily on the figure of Abraham.  Questions regarding the
    Abraham story thus also become questions relevent to understanding
    Paul.
    
    Patricia
9.1234COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jun 21 1994 14:593
>Issiah

Isaiah.
9.1235JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 21 1994 15:523
    .1233
    
    Do you ever do anything without your "I am woman" badge?
9.1236random questionsSOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckTue Jun 21 1994 16:5513
    I vaguely remember hearing once that Paul, when measured by the
    standards of his day, was actually pro-women.  That he permitted and
    encouraged participation of women in the church far more than was
    normal for that period.  This is NOT the feeling I get from the
    epistles, but I wonder if anyone more familiar with history might be
    able to elaborate on this.

    Also, we had a minister once who pointed out that Paul's epistles, read
    in chronological order, show that he believed the second coming would
    come in his lifetime, and that is at least part of why he preached
    celibacy.  And that as time went on, and it become clear that the end
    wasn't that near after all, he changed his tune some.  Again, can
    anyone comment on this from a historical perspective?
9.1237POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jun 21 1994 17:0136
    Nancy,
    
    I am proud to be a feminist.  I am proud of the work feminist
    Theologians are doing.  I would be proud to consider myself a feminist
    theologian or Biblical Scholar someday.
    
    The task of the feminist Biblical Scholar is to understand that the
    Bible is completely Male dominated and then find ways to use the Bible
    to affirm the humanity of both women and men.
    
    I am proud of the work that I have done in analyzing and understanding
    Paul.  I can admire him in spite of his errors and in spite of his
    chavanism.  I have decided to move into the Old Testament and one of
    the ways I am reading the OT is in light of Paul.  It is fascinating to
    read in Isaiah and Jeremiah the passages that Paul later edits and
    quotes in his letters.  It is fascinating how Paul modifies and uses
    this material.  Paul speaks right out of the prophetic tradition.
    
    Isaiah and Jeremiah are hard books to read and be inspired by.  Yes
    there are some wonderfully inspiring passages, but most of the books is
    God delivering punishment to his "wayward bride". One cannot understand
    the prophetic books without confronting this metaphor.  Isaiah and
    Jeremiah like most of the books of the Bible contain allusions to the
    Patriarch's and there wifes.  The books are neatly tied together.
    
    Feminist Theologians read the Bible with a "Hermeneutic of Suspicion" 
    A suspicion of the Male Bias within the book.  For every story I read,
    I ask the question, how would that story be told if the woman were
    telling it.  How would Lot's daughters tell the story.  How would Sarah
    tell the story.  How would Hagar tell the story.  Any one who has
    studied literature learns to discuss the narrators point of view.  How
    would the stories change if we change the narrators.  By the way, this
    perspective denies that God is the narrator.  God is revealed only
    indirectly in the Biblical stories.
    
    Patricia
9.1238POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jun 21 1994 17:1645
    Debby,
    
    I don't know whether Paul was more accepting or less accepting of women
    than others.  He certainly was less accepting than Jesus.  In Paul's
    letters there are examples of women Apostles and women deacons.  Paul
    worked side by side with women leaders Prilla being the most famous.
    
    There is a big difference in the attitude toward women in the
    undisputed letters of Paul and in the disputed letters.  I believe that
    the disputed letters were written after Paul's death.  In Paul's
    undisputed letters we see a charismatic kind of church.  Life in Christ
    and all that means is what is emphasized.  In Christ there is not Male
    or Female as is stated in Galatians.  There are some liberating words
    in Paul.  The institutionalization of the church is reflected in the
    psuedo Pauline letters.  
    
    The Hebrew religion excluded women almost completely from
    participation.  Much of the idolatry identified in the Old Testament is
    about women participating in ritual in which women were invited to
    participate.  The women were "baking Cakes to the Queen of Heaven" as
    emphasized by Jeremiah.
    
    In Paul's time, the mystery religions were very popular.  The mystery
    religions had a very large participation by women particulary the Inana
    cult.
    
    Paul drew heavily upon the Old Testament.  Some of the most offensive
    words attributed to Paul, are believed by some scholars to have been
    added when the letters were edited.  Of the undisputed letters, 1
    Corinthians is the most harsh to women telling women to be silient in
    church and ask their husbands if they have a question.  1 Corinthian
    also suggests that only men are created in the image of God and women
    in the image of men.  Some scholars believe that the statement for
    women to be silient in church is an addition dating to the same time as
    the book of timothy.
    
     Timothy, a letter almost universally believed to
    be written by someone other than Paul, is perhaps the worst of the
    disputed letters.
    
    I believe that Paul is a man of his time and definately had his biases. 
    I also believe that Paul is accused of being a lot more chavanistic
    than he was.
    
    Patricia
9.1239SOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckTue Jun 21 1994 21:194
    Thank you, Patricia.  That was very enlightening.
    +++
    Debby
    
9.1240COMET::DYBENWed Jun 22 1994 00:2511
    
    
    > The task of the feminsist Scholoar is to understand that te bible is 
    > completely male dominated
    
     It's not a task its an inherant(sp) preconception that all feminsists
    spout at every nauseating(sp) opportunity. Men are child molesting wife
    beating testosterone drenched sexist pigs, or atleast I think thats in
    feminist handbook of undeniable truths.....
    
    David
9.1241but of course!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Wed Jun 22 1994 05:2314
re Note 9.1240 by COMET::DYBEN:

>     > The task of the feminsist Scholoar is to understand that te bible is 
>     > completely male dominated
>     
>      It's not a task its an inherant(sp) preconception that all feminsists
>     spout at every nauseating(sp) opportunity. 

I certainly don't think of myself as a feminist, but I find the claim that the
Bible is male-dominated to be patently obvious.  I find it incredible that one
would think it were otherwise (unless, of course, one had some agenda that
would be disrupted by such a recognition).

Bob
9.1242JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 23 1994 02:581
    There is a difference between domination and leadership.
9.1243POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jun 24 1994 15:1123
    Jill in her notes 938.71, 938.95, & 938.97 accuses me of being very
    negative about men, displaying Hatred in my heart, and displaying
    bigotry.
    
    I find these comments offensive and I do not think they are true. 
    Perhaps that is a defensive reaction.
    
    I appreciate the comments by Glen, Bob, and Jim K which I find very
    supportive.
    
    If any of you feel any of these accusations are true, I would
    appreciate your pointing to the comments and how you hear them.
    
    I am commited to a world where men and women are equal and in harmony
    with each other.  This is part of my vision of what it means to be a
    feminist.
    
    If my notes come across otherwise, I would like to
    understand where and how.  
    
    Thanks
    
    Patricia
9.1244JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 27 1994 17:0317
    .1243
    
    Perceptions are like fingerprints... :-)
    
    I remember not too long ago saying that your perception on one of my
    comments was incorrect... but you insisted on your truth, Patricia, not
    mine.
    
    It seems that perhaps, and I hope that you would learn that when
    someone such as myself states that a perception is wrong, that you
    would be more flexible in accepting the error.
    
    I accept the fact that you believe in equality for all men and women,
    albeit some of your notes *seem* to say differently.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.1245POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jun 27 1994 17:056
    Nancy,
    
    I am asking for specifics.  In which notes do I appear bigoted and
    filled with Hatred? 
    
                                    Patricia
9.1246JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 27 1994 17:3913
    .1245
    
    Patricia,
    
    That will be addressed by Jill.  I believe one person addressing this
    is enough, don't you?  
    
    However, I had hoped that with this current situation, you would relax
    your insistance on a perceived statement that was incorrect.  I was
    hoping that you could see commonality.  Perhaps I hope for too much.
    
    Sadly,
    Nancy
9.124725286::SCHULERGreg - Acton, MAMon Jun 27 1994 18:089
    For the record (and as a man) - I'd like to say that I haven't
    seen anything in any of Patricia's notes that even *hints* at
    bigotry or hatred towards men.
    
    I am completely baffled as to where this perception is coming from
    and would like to echo Patricia's request for references and
    clarification.
    
    /Greg
9.1248BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Jun 27 1994 18:1021
| <<< Note 9.1246 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| That will be addressed by Jill.  I believe one person addressing this is 
| enough, don't you?

	Then why did you jump into the middle of it, make a comment, and then
when Patricia asks for you to back your claim you write this stuff? If one
person addressing this is really enough, one would have thought you never would
have responded. You opened the can of worms Nancy, how about backing your
claims about Patricia? Is it that you can't? From reading her notes that would
be my guess.

| However, I had hoped that with this current situation, you would relax
| your insistance on a perceived statement that was incorrect.  I was
| hoping that you could see commonality.  Perhaps I hope for too much.

	Perhaps you opened a new can of worms.


Glen
9.1249POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jun 27 1994 18:2245
    Nancy,
    
    You don't give up, do you?
    
    I was  very specific about the statement.  I weighed that statement
    against other statements that you have made and your long standing
    dispute with Glen.  My perception there holds.  Nancy, It's only my
    perception.  If it is not true then disregard it.
    
    I personally don't care if someone continues to have  a misperception of
    me after I make an honest attempt to communicate my true feeling. If
    they continue to have a misperception it is their issue and not mine.
    I'm proud to be liberal, proud to be a Feminist, and proud to be a
    liberal, feminist Christian.  Some people in this conference are
    offended by me because I am a liberal and a feminist.  You are offended
    if I call myself a Christian.  Neither is my issue.
    
    I do however care about my own stereotypical thinking and
    communications and my noting.  If I am truly communicating a negativity
    or bigotry, I would like to understand where I am doing that so I can
    change my behavoir.  Paul is my guide to how I note.  All things should
    be for building up.  Holding fast to one's principles is for the
    building up and not tearing down.  Exposing Idolatry for idolatry is
    for building up and not tearing down.  Exposing oppression for
    oppression is for building up.  I accept that you and I and everyone
    else in here are all part of a holy community and responsible for each
    other.
    
    I am very interested in the emerging men's movement and its coexistence
    with the women's movement.  Men do have a legitimate gripe about a lot
    of men bashing done by women.  I do understand the frustration behind
    many negative comments that women make, but I believe it is
    unacceptable to bash women or men, gay or straight.
    
    I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
    epidemic in our society.  To state that is not male
    bashing.  It is a fact in society.  I believe that  The Bible
    particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
    violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
    relationships.  This is sinful.
    
    Patricia
    
    
     
9.1250POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jun 27 1994 18:267
    Thank you Greg.  Thank you Glen.
    
    It is particularly important for me to get feedback from men in here
    because you are the once who would know it and feel it if I were saying
    something offensive.
    
    Patricia
9.125131224::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 27 1994 20:2181
>    You don't give up, do you?
    
    Not easily...
    
    
>    I was  very specific about the statement.  I weighed that statement
>    against other statements that you have made and your long standing
>    dispute with Glen.  My perception there holds.  Nancy, It's only my
>    perception.  If it is not true then disregard it.
    
    You were specific and wrong.... 
    
>    I personally don't care if someone continues to have  a misperception of
>    me after I make an honest attempt to communicate my true feeling. If
>    they continue to have a misperception it is their issue and not mine.
    
     The only point to make is that you are capable of misperception,
     Patricia.. something that with me at least you are unwilling to
     concede.
    
>    I'm proud to be liberal, proud to be a Feminist, and proud to be a
>    liberal, feminist Christian.  Some people in this conference are
>    offended by me because I am a liberal and a feminist.  You are offended
>    if I call myself a Christian.  Neither is my issue.
    
    You are correct I am offended that you would call yourself Christian. 
    The other two are inconsequential to me.  As we've been over this
    before, when Christ is not the only way for salvation, calling yourself
    Christian is misleading.
    
>    I do however care about my own stereotypical thinking and
>    communications and my noting.  If I am truly communicating a negativity
>    or bigotry, I would like to understand where I am doing that so I can
>    change my behavoir.  Paul is my guide to how I note.  All things should
    
    Changing even towards me?  Can you change your attitude towards me, can
    you not make assumptions about my notes?  Can you ask if you are making
    an assumption instead of accusing one?
    
>    be for building up.  Holding fast to one's principles is for the
>    building up and not tearing down.  Exposing Idolatry for idolatry is
>    for building up and not tearing down.  Exposing oppression for
>    oppression is for building up.  I accept that you and I and everyone
>    else in here are all part of a holy community and responsible for each
>    other.
    
    Tearing down the Word of God is for building up?????????
    We do differ greatly don't we?
    
>    I am very interested in the emerging men's movement and its coexistence
>    with the women's movement.  Men do have a legitimate gripe about a lot
>    of men bashing done by women.  I do understand the frustration behind
>    many negative comments that women make, but I believe it is
>    unacceptable to bash women or men, gay or straight.
    
    I agree with you... 
    
>    I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
>    epidemic in our society.  To state that is not male
>    bashing.  It is a fact in society.  I believe that  The Bible
>    particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
>    violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
>    relationships.  This is sinful.
    
    It is sinful to view the Bible this way... agreed.  I see nowhere in
    God's word where it is okay to harm a woman... nowhere.  If you see it,
    you are truly straining or taking things out of context, imho.  I've
    read the Bible from cover to cover, no I haven't memorized it... but
    this tearing down of the Bible, is not building up imo.
    
    You can justify your position all you want Patricia... but the fact is
    God's love does not condone nor does the Bible condone the mistreatment
    of women.  Men are to love their wives as Christ loved the church and
    gave Himself for it.
    
    To say anything less then this, is blasphemy against God.
    
    Imo,
    Nancy    
     
    
9.1253LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Jun 27 1994 20:3527
re Note 9.1251 by 31224::MORALES_NA:

> >    I also know there is a phenemonon of violence against women that is
> >    epidemic in our society.  To state that is not male
> >    bashing.  It is a fact in society.  I believe that  The Bible
> >    particular when viewed as the "Innerrant Word of God" encourages
> >    violence against women and encourages women to stay in abusive
> >    relationships.  This is sinful.
>     
>     It is sinful to view the Bible this way... agreed.  I see nowhere in
>     God's word where it is okay to harm a woman... nowhere.  If you see it,
>     you are truly straining or taking things out of context, imho.  I've
>     read the Bible from cover to cover, no I haven't memorized it... but
>     this tearing down of the Bible, is not building up imo.
  
        We *clearly* have an impasse here -- Patricia reads a text,
        and sees how others have read it, and concludes one thing,
        and Nancy reads the same text and concludes the opposite.

        Could I ask both of you to please refrain from simply
        reiterating these positions?  You have both stated your cases
        as clearly as I suspect either of you can, we hear you.

        Not all differences of opinion -- including differences of
        interpretation -- can be resolved.

        Bob
9.1254POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jun 27 1994 20:4128
    Nancy,
    
    Are these facts or assumptions?
    
    1.  You have stated your belief that the homosexual act is an
    abomination.
    
    2.  You have stated that effeminate men make you naseus.
    
    3.  You have posted a memo in here about a rumor that Hilary may be a
    Lesbian.
    
    4.  You have continue a long standing dispute with Glen in here.
    
    5.  You have continually refused to answer Glen's request for
    clarifications around some of these issues.
    
    
    Nancy,  I do try to accept you as you are.  There are lots of things
    that I admire you for.  Your affirmation and acceptance of Gay and
    Lesbians is not one of them.  I am not dealing with assumptions.  I am
    dealing with the facts as noted above.  I am more than willing to let
    drop the discussion around just one of those items.  You keep bringing
    it up asking me to change my opinion.  My opinion stated was not about
    you.  It was about a rumor that your reposted in here which I believe
    is homophobic.  Period.  Keep bringing it up all you like.
    
                                      Patricia
9.1272JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jun 27 1994 21:1463
    Are these facts or assumptions?
    
    Some are facts, some are assumptions.
    
    
    >1.  You have stated your belief that the homosexual act is an
    >abomination.
    
    I  have stated the Bible calls the act an abomination and I believe in
    the Bible.  To balance this, I have also stated that God loves
    homosexuals as well as he does anyone else... AND that I'm teaching my
    children to not be prejudicial against anyone... which is my value
    system.
    
    
    >2.  You have stated that effeminate men make you naseus.
    
    A tad exageration of my own... I do not like being around effeminate
    men, it is offensive to me.  Not fearful of them nor do I hate them...
    I just don't like it.  There are exceptions to every rule, you know. 
    For example, my cousin [by marriage] who is both gay and effeminate is
    an exception, we get along very well.
    
    
    >3.  You have posted a memo in here about a rumor that Hilary may be a
    >Lesbian.
    
    Fact.. but in context, it was example of something, not a malicious
    desire to spread a rumour.
    
    4.  You have continue a long standing dispute with Glen in here.
    
    Wrong.. Glen and I only began bumping heads seriously a few months ago. 
    I have many times come to Glen's defense in other conferences.  I love
    Glen through Christ and while we may go at it, I hope deep in his heart
    he remembers that I do care.
    
    
    >5.  You have continually refused to answer Glen's request for
    >clarifications around some of these issues.
    
    Wrong... after two years of noting I believe that my position speaks
    for itself, I am unwilling to go into a time sink hole around it.
    
    >Nancy,  I do try to accept you as you are.  There are lots of things
    >that I admire you for.  Your affirmation and acceptance of Gay and
    >Lesbians is not one of them.  I am not dealing with assumptions.  I am
    >dealing with the facts as noted above.  I am more than willing to let
    >drop the discussion around just one of those items.  You keep bringing
    >it up asking me to change my opinion.  My opinion stated was not about
    >you.  It was about a rumor that your reposted in here which I believe
    >is homophobic.  Period.  Keep bringing it up all you like.
    
    So, as I read this you didn't mean to call me homophobic, but that the
    rumour itself is homophobic????
    
    Well, now that's a whole different ball of wax... cause I'd agree with
    that.  
    
    Nancy
    
                                      Patricia
    
9.1271mod actionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Jun 28 1994 04:254
I moved the recent discussion sparked by a non-US participant asking
about "liberals" to Topic 388.

Bob
9.1273for clarityTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Jun 28 1994 12:4411
re: Note 9.1272 by NANCY "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    A tad exageration of my own... 

How can we tell when you're stating what you really believe and when you're 
exaggerating?  Perhaps something similar to the ubiquitous "smily face"?

Peace,

Jim
    
9.1274JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 28 1994 15:168
    .1273
    
    It's not something I do often... I know that not much grace is given me
    in here... but considering what my physical health has been like over
    the last 8 months, Praise God I didn't do worse.
    
    :-(
    Nancy
9.1275CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistTue Jun 28 1994 15:545
    She's always being picked on, even though she never picks on anyone else.
    
    C'mon, guys!  Have a little charity and respect!
    
    
9.1276JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 28 1994 17:115
    .1275
    
    Humorous, kind and loving comments... 
    
    Thanks Richard.
9.1277BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jun 28 1994 17:306

	Richard, sort of a "victim" scenerio would you say?



9.1278JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jun 28 1994 17:4711
    .1277
    
    Glen, 
    
    The same goes for you... though we have very different views, I still
    care and value you.  I pray that you enjoy an enriching, joyful and
    peaceful life.
        
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
9.1279Perception check...CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Thu Jun 30 1994 22:2041
    
    I decided to put this note in just so people know that it didn't get
    dropped.  I decided this issue with my perception of Patricia's 
    comments was getting way too volatile, so I took it off line and
    sent her mail.  In hindsight, perhaps I should have voiced my 
    perceptions offline.  Although, I don't think that would have kept
    her from being upset.  Sometimes that's unavoidable.  Sorry that you
    felt unjustly treated Patricia.  I think Nancy's point was, haven't 
    you done the same thing stating your perceptions about me.  What's
    the difference?  Sometimes and I'd say this has happened with most 
    of us we express our perceptions about someone.  I mean for most of us 
    we've noted together for 2 years plus.  And while we're not all 
    friends, there is respect on some level for everyone.  If we really 
    have the openness that we claim, someone should be able to say "I see 
    this in you."  Now...none of us always like what others see in us.  
    But if we're going to be honest with each other that includes good 
    and bad traits.  I've learned more about myself from what others say 
    they see.  I don't always agree with it, but it makes me analyze myself 
    closer and hopefully honestly.  We are all adults and while we might 
    get angry for a time, we should be able to process the comments and 
    decide if it has or doesn't have merit.  I'm sure there are times 
    when it's more appropriate to tell someone something offline and I
    guess each of us has to judge that for themselves.
    
    I will state however that too many times others jump in and really 
    pound on one person or the other.  Sometimes people jump in on their 
    own, other times a person asks for input.  I think this is where things
    start getting really volatile.  Sides are taken, lines are drawn,
    unhealthy rivalries continued, and sarcastic barbs harpooned at people.
    I think it's important to remember that just because your hammering a 
    person doesn't mean they are going to change their perception or that 
    just because you disagree they are wrong.  I'm talking to myself as 
    much as anyone here.  All that this hammering does is stir up 
    hostilities.  I think other comments are supportive (whether they 
    agree or disagree) because they just state whether they agree or not 
    and don't take on hostile tones.
    
    What do you all think?  Are we a healthy enough group to voice our
    perceptions openly or should we take ALL such comments offline?  
    
    Jill
9.1280JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 30 1994 22:3138
    Jill,
    
    Voicing opinions about a person specifically can be touchy.  For
    instance, I've heard everything commented on me from homophobic to
    incredibly perceptive :-), I can take it, but if I feel it is in error,
    I want the ability to flesh it out and come to an agreement. Oftimes
    this agreement is accepting that each perception is valid though that
    doesnt necessary equal truth or as they say agree to disagree.
    
    I think for the most part unless a person has been open about
    themselves, that such comments are not fruitful in the public
    environment.  
    
    Now for instance, I've said that I'm divorce, a victim of child abuse
    and a born-again Christian.  I've opened the door to discuss any of
    those subjects, but hopefully without *attack*.  But if attack occurs,
    my choices are very few, respond or not respond.  And if I choose to
    respond, then my decision is to decide in what intonation.
    
    We all get emotional about these subjects because, I believe, that our
    spirituality cannot be separated from who we are as a whole individual. 
    If you attack my God, you've attacked me.  
    
    I've tried desperately to not be emotional about said notes and find
    that my failure rate is too high.  For this, I humbly apologize to said
    reader/particpant population.  
    
    For me, even though I may respond emotionally, after the fact, I can
    reason better.  Also, I take none of this home with me, it doesn't
    effect my personal life whatsoever.  It enhances it, my friends are
    rather intrigued and ask me often to let them read a sequence of
    conversations.
    
    But for the most part, my life is fulfilling.  This conference and said
    discussions are exactly that, this conference.
    
    With love,
    Nancy
9.1281CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistThu Jun 30 1994 22:548
    Yeah!  *THIS* conference!

    The one with the clique-ish moderators.

    The one where they twist Scripture.

    The one where they spew lies while bearing the name CHRISTian!
    
9.1282Not appreciated.CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Thu Jun 30 1994 22:596
    
    Did you have a point Richard?  Do you have anything productive to
    add to help us process this issue?  Or can we just expect you to 
    continue to pop up in notes with your **humor**?  
    
    Jill
9.1283Still unsure.CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Thu Jun 30 1994 23:2021
    Thanks Nancy for the response.
    
    Yes, emotions do tend to run hot sometimes.  I do try not to write in
    anger.  If I have to take a day or a week away, I've learned that is
    better.  Although, I do note in frustration at times.  I guess we
    wouldn't be a very active notesfile if we didn't.  ;^)
    
    Hmmm...I'm really torn.  In some ways I feel working this offline would
    have been better, but at the same time I felt the cumulative negativity
    of the comments made at least in my perception warranted a rebuttal. 
    If the comments were public, why not the rebuttal?  I've gone off line
    at other times.  Actually, thinking back I'm not sure either way is
    very successful with some people and any way successful with others.  I
    do try to work issues I see with people who I think are reasonable and
    have the maturity to handle it.  There are those I wouldn't even bother
    raising issues with because it's pointless.  So I guess in some ways I
    usually only risk rebutting those I respect.  A point that I'm sure
    does not help the receiver process what I've said any easier.
    
    Jill
          
9.1284CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistThu Jun 30 1994 23:2012
    Yes, there's a point.  The contempt and disdain in this conference
    for this conference has been chronic since it's very inception.
    
    Is there anything in .1281 you've not heard here before?  Are you
    not guilty of making similar such remarks within this conference
    yourself?
    
    Oh, we might reconcile for a while.  But sooner or later, someone
    on a mission, perhaps someone we've not even met yet, will come in
    and it'll be .1281 all over again.
    
    Richard
9.1285Kind of ironic...CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Thu Jun 30 1994 23:2810
    
    So then you're point in doing this is why keep the peace if it's
    eventually going to disintegrate anyway?  I wish you were as much
    of a pacifist in your noting as you strive to be with the rest
    of your life.  If there is to be peace, peace starts with a
    conscious choice on the part of each one of us.  If we hold on 
    to the past, there will never be peace.
    
    Jill
        
9.1286JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 30 1994 23:287
    .1284
    
    FWIW, just for you Richard.  That note could and does apply in *any*
    conference in which I participate up to and including CHRISTIAN.
    
    Sincerely,
    Nancy
9.1287JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 30 1994 23:3417
    Jill, 
    
    For me the the key to successful noting is the ability to forgive.
    Forgiveness has a lot to do with being able to have discussions that
    though may run hot and near unforgiveable, but are reconciled
    through looking in the mirror and seeing my own imperfections.  This 
    allows for me to forgive others easily.
    
    Life is too short and too much love is lacking in this world.  May God
    forgive my unforgiveness... though those situations have been few.  I
    mean my goodness, if I could forgive my father, there ain't nothing in
    here that beats that!
    
    :-)
    Sincerely,
    Nancy
    
9.1288CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistThu Jun 30 1994 23:458
    Jill,
    
    	I'm open to reconciliation.  And I'm of a mind that your desire
    is sincere.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1289JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 30 1994 23:5718
    Richard,
    
    On reconciliation:
    
    I don't believe this to be 100% possible.  Our beliefs are too
    different.  But I do believe that while we may never be aligned, we
    don't have to rude to each other.  I think that forgiveness as I stated
    in my previous memo is key to this.  In other words, I don't hold
    anything against you for your differing view...or perhaps insults. 
    This helps me to reconcile and accept you as who you are.
    
    Does that mean we won't disagree?? No, but *how* we disagree can be
    handled differently... 
    
    Can you see this?
    
    Nancy
    
9.1290CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 00:326
    It would be refreshing to me to simply experience an absence of the
    sentiments echoed (mirrored) in .1281.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1291JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 03:4417
    Richard,
    
    I mean this with all due respect, but it would be refreshing to me to
    not see the cynicism towards fundamental Christianity, as well.
    
    Can't you relinquish the fact that your view isn't the only view?  I
    certainly can.  If you wish to see the absence of such opinions, it
    would then mean the absence of *your* opinion. :-)  Can you see how
    ridiculous this can become.
    
    That is why reconciliation can only be as good as the intonation of the
    words used in discussion.
    
    I pray you see that and the mirror in which I am looking... 
    
    With love,
    Nancy
9.1292BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Jul 01 1994 13:4014

	Nancy, something you should look at though is everyone has their view
of what Christianity is. If I, Richard, or anyone else has a different view on
Christianity and you disagreed with it, I'm sure we could live with it. It is
when you come right out and say we do not serve the same God that will always
cause the problems. I mean, when have we ever said that to you? You see, in
your note you talk about different opinions, but then it appears that those
opinions are really one sided. We have the opinions on Christianity and you
have the facts. The only one who is capable of having all the facts is God
Himself. We can all have beliefs, but only God can have the facts. 


Glen
9.1293POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jul 01 1994 13:5548
    Jill,
    
    I have received no mail from you regarding you accusations against me.
    
    I have no hostility toward you.  I feel if you are going to say in your
    notes that my notes display bigotry and a hatred toward men, you should
    back those notes up with specifics.
    
    Because you have not done that, I am left with the assumption that
    because I am an outspoken feminist, that you think I hate men.  I
    believe that somehow you have the impression that all feminists hate
    men.  Without any other knowledge of why you feel about me the way you
    do, that is the only conclusion I could draw.
    
    I personally prefer that these issues be resolved in here so that we
    can get feedback from others.  I find that feedback invaluable.  When
    anyone says anything about me, I try to listen.  I don't have to agree. 
    I asked for feedback from others to test my own perceptions.  Many
    Persons whose opinions I respect indicated that they saw nothing in my
    notes to agree with your conclusions.  I review some of my notes
    particularly the notes on the Biblical view of women.  I found one note
    that I probably should have qualified.  It discussed "White Men" during
    the days of slavery in the U.S. feeling it appropriate to use female
    slaves and asked whether the story of Abraham and Hagar provided
    justification for abusing female slaves.  It should have said "some
    white men".  A minor offense I believe.  Other than that I could find
    nothing that would cause you to draw your conclusions.
    
    David Dyden has jumped in occasionally to the conversation with
    adjectives such as  asanine, pathetic, disgusting refering I believe to
    all liberals.  I not sure I find that feedback terribly helpful.
    
    Nancy may also support your conclusion.  I don't exactly recall right
    now.  She too has given no specific reason for the conclusion.
    
    So Jill, I am reasonable comfortable, that you see something in my
    noting that is not there.  I don't hold that against you, I affirm your
    right to believe what you want to believe.  I don't need for you to
    agree with me.  I'm willing to let the whole thing drop.  I'm also
    willing to listen to specifics.  I will be careful that my noting does
    not reflect an anti male bias because I am personally committed to be
    anti bigoted.  If I am not doing that I appreciate someone pointing
    that out.
    
    Shalom
    Patricia
    
    
9.1294CynacismPOWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jul 01 1994 14:0637
    Nancy
    
    re 9.1291
    
    "It would be refreshing to me to not see the cynicism towards
    fundamental Christianity, as well"
    
    As a result of noting in this conference I feel that fundamental
    Christianity threatens some deeply held beliefs that I cherish. The
    most important belief that it threatens is my belief in religious
    freedom.  The right and duty of each one of us to decide for ourselves
    our own relationship with Goddess/God.
    
    You have been vocal in here about your opposition to anyone who
    worships differently than you calling themselves a Christian.  You have
    personally told me you are offended by my calling myself a Christian.
    
    If you in support of your fundementalist Christianity hold believes that
    are radically non accepting of the beliefs of others, how can you
    expect others not to be cynical about fundamental Christianity?
    
    If fundementalist Christianity espouses a relationship between Husbands
    and Wife where the wife always makes meal time special and never offers
    criticism to her husband, How can Feminists be anything but cynical of
    fundemental Christianity.
    
    If fundementalist Christianity take active steps to threaten the civil
    rights of Gay and Lesbians, how can anyone who is Gay or Lesbian or
    anyone who supports the rights of Gay and Lesbians not be cynical about
    fundamental Christianity. 
    
    Fundamental Christians appear to me to be cynical about anyone and
    everyone who does not agree with their beliefs.  How can you as a
    Fundamental Christian not expect that cynicism to be returned.
    
                                    Patricia
    
9.1295JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 15:4811
    Patricia,
    
    The answer to your question is already located in .1291, I believe
    around the 3rd paragraph.  
    
    Please let me know if you see it and how you feel about it... it is in
    regards to reconciliation.  Also, I would like your comments about
    forgiveness, if you would.
    
    Thanks,
    Nancy
9.1296Perhaps this should be a topic of its own?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 16:088
Two opposing paradigms:

1.  Fundamentalist Christianity isn't *all* of Christianity.

2.  If you're not a fundamentalist Christian, then you're not really
    Christian at all.


9.1297internal pointerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 16:145
    9.1296 has been given its own topic.  Note 945.0.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1298POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jul 01 1994 17:3047
    Nancy,
    
    I accept and respect you Nancy.  You seem to be seriously and sincerely
    struggling with some issue in here.  I don't believe you would be
    noting in here if you did not take the discussions seriously.
    
    If by reconciliation, you mean that you accept that others in here may
    define their own Faith differently than you do and you intent to
    practice taking everyone's faith commitments as a serious expression of
    who they are, then reconciliation is possible.  If you continue to
    lambast my faith, Richard's Faith, Glen's Faith, then no reconciliation
    is possible.  
    
    I will totally accept you as who you are and I will accept your faith
    as an expression of who you are as long as the expression of your Faith
    does not criticize my own expression of Faith.  I will defend and stand
    up for the freedom of expression of my Faith as well as the freedom of
    expression of anyone else's faith as long as those faith's do not put
    others into jeopardy.
    
    Based on my experience here, I do not think I can be reconciled to your
    expression of Fundementalist Faith because I believe that part of the
    very essence of that faith is the believe that opinions different than
    it are evil.  I cannot be reconciled to a faith that claims that which
    I know to be beautiful and good is evil.
    
    so yes, I can be reconciled to you as a person. I hold no ill feelings
    toward you. I accept that both you and I have our shortcomings and as a
    human being it is often easier to see the shortcomings of others than
    it is to see my own shortcomings.
    
      I  cannot be reconciled to fundemental Christianity as it
    has been expressed here.  It defines as evil that which I know is good
    and defines as good some expressions which I believe to be evil. It
    allows for the victimization of Gays and lesbians, Women, Jews, Pagans
    and other non Christians, and in the past People of Color.  If you
    cannot separate out my criticism of fundementalism from personal
    criticism, then you most likely will continue to have real issues with
    my noting.  I don't like the possibility of disagreements, but I will
    stand firm for my principles just as I know you will stand firm for
    your principles.
    
    I hope I have answered your question as seriously and truthfully as I
    can.
    
    Patricia
    
9.1299JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 17:3821
    .1298
    
    You did answer my question and proved my point... reconciliation is not
    possible, but discussion with proper intonation can be reconciled.  I
    appreciate the tone of your note, but I do not appreciate your taking
    this opportunity to once again list your agenda against fundamental
    Christians.
    
    I didn't use this opportunity to do so towards anti-Christian dogma. 
    I chose not to so that emotions could remain stable and perhaps gain a 
    foundation on which to note.  
    
    I am saddened and grieved by your note, Patricia.  What it said to me
    more then a statement of our differences, was that you will not cease
    in your battle against that which I consider to be good.  I also see
    that while you are true to your noble cause, you condemn fundamental
    Christians for being true to theirs.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
    
9.1300POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jul 01 1994 17:4411
    I guess that your answer suggests that you are not serious in you
    desire for reconciliation.
    
    I do not have any agenda against persons practicing fundamentalism.
    
    I have a definate agenda against any doctrinal belief system that
    lambasts other belief systems.
    
    
    
    
9.1301JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 18:0016
    Your guess is wrong...
    
    Please read carefully what I am proposing.  I am not proposing you
    change your agenda.beliefs, I am proposing that noting be done
    without inuendo or insult.
    
    I am saying you will not change, I am not changing.  A better
    understanding can be beneficial, but not at the expense of raucous
    bantering.  I believe that each time you state "A", and I state "B"
    there is potential for emotional rubbing.  I don't think it can be
    avoided entirely, I do think it can be maintained at an acceptable
    level... but then again I am an optimist. :-)
    
    Richard, where are you with me in this process?
    
    Nancy
9.1302POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienFri Jul 01 1994 18:2121
    Nancy,
    
    You asked a question and I answered it as honestly as I could.
    
    When you started your reply, 
    
    "You did answer my question and proved my point...reconciliation is not 
    possible"
    
    you admit insincerity and games in asking the question.  By your
    admission you did not ask the question to bring about reconciliation
    but to prove your point. 
    
    Do you feel good saying to yourself, well I tried to reconcile, but
    nobody wants to.  Perhaps nobody believes that you are trying to
    reconcile, but only prove a point.
    
    My anger is apparent.  I don't like playing games.  You ask me a
    question and I answer it.  I also know that there is nothing wrong with
    anger when directed appropriately.  It is the most powerful emotion we
    have.
9.1303COMET::DYBENFri Jul 01 1994 18:2715
    
    
    Flanangan 9.1298
    
      What you have asked for is a relationship in a vacumn. Let me have
    my space and I will let you have yours. This is, in my opinion, empty
    and shallow. If someone truly believes that what you espouse is wrong
    they cannot for the sake of having you approve of them remain silent..
    
    
    David   p.s.  Somewhere in the bible it mentions truth that seperates the
                 bone and the marrow, husband and wife. Jesus did not
                 advocate peace at any price. I and others are morally
                 opposite of some of your positions and remarks and must
                 say so...
9.1304COMET::DYBENFri Jul 01 1994 18:2810
    
    
    
    > I guess that your answer suggest that you
    
      More emotional manipulation....
    
    
    sad,
    David
9.1305BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Jul 01 1994 18:3037
| <<< Note 9.1299 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


RE: .1298


	Patricia, what a well written note. I really enjoyed reading it. 


RE: .1299

	Nancy, Patricia answered you very honestly. She also listed those areas
where she did not think reconciliation would be possible, and she also included
why. But you take it as listing her agenda against the fundamental Christians.
Would it have been better maybe if she just said certain areas would not have
reconciliation and left it at that? I'm sure someone in here would have asked
her to list those areas. She did so, did it in a tone that we could all learn
from, and above all she was open and honest. What else would you have liked her
to do?

| I didn't use this opportunity to do so towards anti-Christian dogma.

	Nancy, funny how she mentioned this in her note. :-)  You see, your
beliefs are just that, yours. You are one who believes if anyone drinks any
alcohol, they are sinning. Does this mean anyone who believes differently is
now part of the anti-Christian dogma of yours? Only God knows what is 100%
right/wrong. You have your beliefs, and if you want to state them then please
do. But if you would not critisize others beliefs and make them out to be
non-Christian, things would be much better. Tell them their beliefs do not
match yours, but do not tell them they aren't Christian. You, or anyone else on
this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
you would have no disagreements in ANY area. Only God has it down pat.




Glen
9.1306back to read onlyCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Jul 01 1994 18:4314
RE:               <<< Note 9.1305 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>


>this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
>you would have no disagreements in ANY area.

> Only God has it down pat.


 And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?



 Jim
9.1307Abandoning the experimentCSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 19:1517
    I, too, refuse to compromise with the truth.
    
    I've tried to help certain readers see how others see them by mirroring
    and mimicking their slurs, attitudes and less than benevolent approaches
    within this conference.  Perhaps some have seen, but in a mirror darkly.
    
    I'm prepared to abandon this effort, which is either in itself ineffective
    or I'm lacking the skill to make it work successfully.
    
    I know this much.  This ones who claim to be Christ's truest ambassadors
    are the very ones who drive away from the arms of Christ not the liars,
    but the seekers; not the demons, but the last, the least, and the lost
    for whom Christ came.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1308Sorry for the redundant comment in para #1, also see .1309JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 19:1912
    .1302
    
    This is where my frustration level gets extremely HIGH.  My note said
    originally that reconciliation under the false belief of 100% alignment
    is false and unattainable.
    
    You never commented on this statement you just took an opportunity to
    voice once again your IRRECONCILABLE differences with me. :-) :-)
    
    This is ALMOST comedic.
    
    
9.1309JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 19:196
    Bottom Line
    
    Can you and RICHARD specifically note in here without inuendos and
    insults?
    
    That is where TRUE reconciliation begins, imho.
9.1310BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Jul 01 1994 19:2618
| <<< Note 9.1306 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| >this planet do not have a lock on what is or is not Christian. If you did then
| >you would have no disagreements in ANY area.

| > Only God has it down pat.


| And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?


	Jim, be real, will you? We are only as good as our interpretations of
whatever signs, etc God has or will give us. Only God has it right. Clearer
now?


Glen
9.1311And exactly whom is insulting whom?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 19:312
    Where is the innuendo in .1281?
    
9.1312JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 19:3912
    .1307
    
    Richard,
    
    You are correct, it is some of those who *think* themselves to be the
    purest that can be the most corrupt.  I do not at all exclude myself
    from being over zealous at times.  My mirror should be Christ himself
    through the Spirit.  If you find fault with me, I ask that you pray for
    me.
    
    In His Love,
    Nancy
9.1313JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 19:4718
    I just read the rest of the replies from .1302.  Glen, it's a mule
    point. :-)
    
    Richard,
    
    I am confessing my sins and asking for forgiveness, you can choose to
    either forgive or not.  Tell me do you see insults in any of your
    noting?
    
    et.,al.,
    
    God is not a cloaking device.  He has revealed Himself.  Those who
    choose to see his revelation as mere historical legend with some truth
    scattered therein, can only suppose what God is or isn't like, can only
    hope they're doing right.  I thank my God that his revelation is full
    and allows us to KNOW our eternal life through Jesus Christ.
    
    
9.1314CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 20:438
Forgiveness was granted even before asking.

As I indicated before, I am open to reconciliation.  Reconciliation
does not mean jumping into bed with anyone.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1315JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 21:5510
    .1314
    
    Jumping into bed?????????????????????????
    
    Wow, a slumber party! 
    
    :-)
    
    
    But you didn't answer my question, oh well.
9.1316CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 23:0810
    Nancy,
    
    	I may not have answered your question to your satisfaction,
    but answer it I did.
    
    	I think we're going to need to play this out and see what happens.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1317JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 23:146
    > Tell me do you see insults in any of your noting?
    
    Can you point me to where you answered this?
    
    Thanks,
    Nancy
9.1318CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 01 1994 23:297
    Nancy,
    
    If I believed it would be beneficial to provide a response to that
    particular question, I would.  I don't, so I won't.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
9.1319Finally caught up...CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Fri Jul 01 1994 23:2943
    
    Richard,
    
    You are correct.  I do not desire to fight with anyone here.  The
    reason I left this file sometime last year was to take a break from 
    all the hostilities and to decide if I could come back and not stoop 
    to the same level as this file has apparently sunken to again.  I 
    personally would welcome you abandoning your mirroring techniques in 
    favor of a more sincere style.  As much as we disagree, I at least
    used to respect your noting.  I would like to again.  As we both
    know, God will confirm who His true followers are, not us.  But we
    also know that He didn't leave us in the dark on how to become a
    follower.
    
    Patricia,
    
    I thought I sent the mail, must have goofed somehow.  I sent it now
    with specifics.  I think it's find that you asked others there 
    opinions, it might have been better to do offline as might my 
    accusations.  The ones who agreed with you know you better and 
    probably know your heart better than I do.  I was basing my comments
    strictly on your notes and how they hit me.  Perhaps sharing those
    specifics with a few people you respect offline will bring a true
    judging of what I saw and why I react the way I did.  I do not think
    I have you stereotyped.  You are one of the most unique people I know.  
    
    Some questions about your "discussion" with Nancy.  How does the fact
    that any of us "fundamentalist" Christians voicing our beliefs threaten
    your religious freedom?  Does it prevent you from speaking out or 
    practicing your faith as you please?  Don't we all have the same right 
    to voice our beliefs and practice our faith?  It doesn't matter what any 
    of us say, your expression of faith is still your own choice.  Just like 
    it doesn't matter what anyone says about my faith, I still express it 
    as I believe I should.  We deal with each other in a small environment
    and we need to be careful not to draw conclusion based on movements
    outside this file.  For instance, I based my comments about my
    perception specifically regarding the notes you wrote as you will
    see in my mail and not on anything to do with the feminist movement 
    at large.  Perhaps we can limit our discussions to what each other 
    says and our responses, instead of saying that anyone of us is to 
    blame for larger movements (on either side) sweeping this country.
    
    Jill
9.1320JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 01 1994 23:489
    .1318
    
    That is your call and I respect it.  I have admitted my error in at
    least 3 different notes in this string and hope that as Jill has stated
    that we can abandon the past methodologies and begin anew.  Isn't that
    part of what being Christian is truly all about... new beginnings.
    
    Nancy
    
9.1321NITTY::DIERCKSI just am, that's why!!!Sat Jul 02 1994 01:2112
    
    <<If fundementalist Christianity take active steps to threaten the civil
    <<rights of Gay and Lesbians, how can anyone who is Gay or Lesbian or
    <<anyone who supports the rights of Gay and Lesbians not be cynical about
    <<fundamental Christianity. 
    
    	Excellent statement.  Even one of my pastors has made the comment
    that if she were in my shoes she isn't sure she'd have been able to
    maintain her faith.  My cynicism is, if you will, earned.  Plus, it
    helps to know that I'm right!  8-)
    
        Greg
9.1322ever-revealingTFH::KIRKa simple songSat Jul 02 1994 02:1012
re: Note 9.1313 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    God is not a cloaking device.  He has revealed Himself. 

I would say that God is still in the process of revealing the Divine.

I hold the Bible as a monumental witness of God, but I believe God
is not bound by a book.

Peace,

Jim
9.1323CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistSat Jul 02 1994 02:125
    .1322  Thee has spoken my heart, friend.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1324People can only handle so muchCFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonSat Jul 02 1994 02:5012
>I hold the Bible as a monumental witness of God, but I believe God
>is not bound by a book.

No, God is not bound by a book.  He is all-everything, infinite, etc.
But, we people are bound by limits - the Bible says everything we need to
know about God, who He is, and how to approach and relate to Him.
Sure, there are things not spelled out in the Bible that are, and would
be, neat to know.  But it's not necessary.

I'm thankful for that, since I often have a hard time groking the Bible.  ;-)

-Steve
9.1325CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistSat Jul 02 1994 03:5314
    .1324
    
    Steve,
    
    	Is that notion, the one that the Bible says everything you need
    to know about God, etc., is that something you concluded on your own,
    something you've been taught, or something you believe the Bible
    says about itself?
    
    	In other words, how did you come to your conclusion?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1326CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistSat Jul 02 1994 03:5910
    .1324
    
    PS  Steve,
    
    	When you have a moment, would you do us the honor of introducing
    yourself in topic 3?
    
    	It's a courtesy.
    
    RJC
9.1327CFSCTC::HUSTONSteve HustonSat Jul 02 1994 19:4324
>    	Is that notion, the one that the Bible says everything you need
>    to know about God, etc., is that something you concluded on your own,
>    something you've been taught, or something you believe the Bible
>    says about itself?

Richard, I don't remember what I had for breakfast yesterday, and I always
have the same thing... ;-)  Let me think about this for a minute...

All of the above, I think.  At the start, I think I remember learning that
from a pastor, and I've heard it a few more times along the way.  Also,
the Bible says that about itself, I believe, not so explicitly.  Places
like Deut 29:29 ("The secret things belong to the LORD our God, but the things
revealed belong to us and to our children forever...") tell me that there's
only so much I'm going to know, no matter how hard I look.  Places like
Psalm 1 tell me that studying God's written word will do me quite well.
And, I've been satisfied with all I have learned from studying the Bible,
and the ways it has taught me to relate to God, to Jesus Christ.  There
are things I don't understand that I'd like to.  But they aren't central,
or critical, to being secure in my relationship with God through Jesus.


re: introduce myself - sorry - I forgot I hadn't done that.

-Steve
9.1328CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistSat Jul 02 1994 23:386
    .1327  Thanks, Steve.  Yes, I've heard as much from certain pulpits
    myself.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1329CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Sun Jul 03 1994 18:4438

RE:               <<< Note 9.1310 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>


| > Only God has it down pat.


| And He's keeping it a secret from us, right?


>	Jim, be real, will you? We are only as good as our interpretations of
>whatever signs, etc God has or will give us. Only God has it right. Clearer
>now?


 No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard.  And I don't believe that he
 gave us a standard that is ambiguous and dependant upon how we interpret it.
 There are standards all around us..we have standards for baseball, business,
 driving our cars along the road and they are not subject to interpretation.
 We have standard of measurment..how about building a house when the carpenters
 argue over the interpretation of what an "inch" is, or the interpretation of
 a blueprint..how about running a track meet, where the participants are told
 to determine the distance they are required to run and they aren't given
 the rules..the officials say "OK..just start running when you feel like it, and
 when you feel like you've run enough, stop.  And the rules?  Well, I'm not 
 going to tell you what they are..you figure it out, and we'll let you know 
 at the end of the race if you were right"..

 God's word is clear..it is the standard.  The God who created the universe
 is capable of delivering to his people the standard by whcih He expects us
 to live..Some choos to reject it and to twist it..but it remains the standard
 




 Jim
9.1330CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistSun Jul 03 1994 20:4114
Note 9.1329

> No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard.

I take it you're speaking of the Bible as the standard.  I'm not quite
as confident as you that the canon (and there are some variations in
which set of Scriptures constitute the full canon) was given by God so
much as the canon was selected by human beings.

For me personally, Christ Jesus is the standard.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1331CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Mon Jul 04 1994 14:1022

RE:        <<< Note 9.1330 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist" >>>



>I take it you're speaking of the Bible as the standard.  I'm not quite
>as confident as you that the canon (and there are some variations in
>which set of Scriptures constitute the full canon) was given by God so
>much as the canon was selected by human beings.

>For me personally, Christ Jesus is the standard.



 And for me as well...however, what is the source of our knowledge about 
 Jesus?



 Jim

9.1332CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistMon Jul 04 1994 16:4312
    The Gospels are sources of knowledge.
    
    So is the witness of others.
    
    But probably the most powerful is the first-hand encounter with the
    Living Christ.
    
    The Way is greater than the Map, don't you agree?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1333CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Tue Jul 05 1994 01:1219

RE:        <<< Note 9.1332 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist" >>>

       
   > But probably the most powerful is the first-hand encounter with the
   > Living Christ.
    
   > The Way is greater than the Map, don't you agree?
    
    

   Aye, but without the map we are liable to take a wrong turn and become lost.




 Jim    

9.1334JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 05 1994 03:136
    It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so willing to believe in
    a God that hasn't the power to pass down through men, His revelation.
    
    Why believe in God at all?  
    
    
9.1335CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistTue Jul 05 1994 04:258
    .1333  As you well know, I've never advocated eliminating the Bible.
    
    I've read and studied it, and continue to do so.  I own several copies
    myself.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1336what I hearSOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckTue Jul 05 1994 13:583
    I don't remember reading in here a denial of God's power.  Rather I
    hear people questioning whether or not He used that power.  But maybe
    my reading is colored by my beliefs, and my questions.  
9.1337CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Tue Jul 05 1994 14:0818


 I don't mean to engage in a back and forth debate on this issue..but I
 gathered from Glen's note a few back that there is a belief that God
 knows what He expects of us and has left us here hanging in the breeze
 to try to figure it out and maybe we'll get it right, and maybe we won't,
 and that He left us no clues as to what those expectations are.


 I believe that the God who created the universe has the power and has used
 that power to ensure that we can hold in our hands His very words to mankind,
 through which He is revealed, and a standard upon which we should base our
 lives.



 Jim
9.1338JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 05 1994 15:433
    .1337
    
    Jim, you are correct.
9.1339BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 06 1994 12:2322
| <<< Note 9.1329 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>



| No, its not clearer..God has given us a standard.  And I don't believe that he
| gave us a standard that is ambiguous and dependant upon how we interpret it.

	Jim, does everyone interpret that standard you talk of exactly the same
way? Look at all the wrongs that have been caused because people wrongly
interpreted that standard. Only God has it right, we are only as good as an
interpretation.

| There are standards all around us..we have standards for baseball, business,
| driving our cars along the road and they are not subject to interpretation.

	Because we wrote them Jim. There isn't all this hype that God wrote any
of this stuff. But to play along with this, look at how the Constitution has
had many interpretations....



Glen
9.1340BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 06 1994 12:248
| <<< Note 9.1334 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>

| It never ceases to amaze me how people can be so willing to believe in
| a God that hasn't the power to pass down through men, His revelation.
| Why believe in God at all?

	Because He gave us free will......

9.1341JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jul 06 1994 15:111
    How do you know he gave us free will?
9.1342JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jul 06 1994 16:323
    945.37
    
    Thanks Richard.
9.1343CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistThu Jul 07 1994 01:202
    9.1342  You're welcome.
    
9.1344BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Jul 07 1994 02:596

	I read it in a guide.


Glen
9.1345JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 08 1994 15:3324
>Note 945.47                  Two opposing paradigms                     47 of 47
>CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Heat-seeking pacifist"             6 lines   7-JUL-1994 23:30
    
>    This topic, it seems, has drifted considerably from the basenote
>    proposition, as well.
>    Shalom,
>    Richard
 
    Richard,
    
    This happens all the time... in EVERY topic.. and in EVERY conference. 
    As a mod in another conference, I wonder if it can EVER be corrected...
    do you think Richard that we could like shake some OJ over our terminal
    screens and say something like "uja bookga eegee", that people wouldn't
    stray?
    
    :-) :-)
    
    I just live with it and I stopped trying to correct every diversion
    that happens.  I believe that most of the time if it gets to be 20 or
    more notes about said diversion, then I'll move it.
    
    What do you think?   
    
9.1346CSC32::J_CHRISTIEHeat-seeking pacifistFri Jul 08 1994 16:3419
    Nancy,
    
    	I only made a comment comparable to the following.  Perhaps you
    intended to address your remarks in .1345 to multiple persons?
    
    Ex-moderator Richard

================================================================================
Note 942.41                    women in the Bible                       41 of 41
CSC32::KINSELLA "A tree with a rotten core cannot s" 16 lines   7-JUL-1994 18:31
                           -< Outside influence... >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    
    Excuse me gentlemen...
    
    The topic is women of the Bible...maybe we could turn this note back
    around in that direction.  Why don't someone start a new string on 
    Christianity and Rush Limbaugh and go debate all this stuff over there.
    
9.1347JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Jul 08 1994 16:377
    No,  I meant it towards you.   As an ex-moderator, I just wondered if
    you had a rule of thumb by which you went by?  I don't know whether
    Jill has ever moderated or not.
    
    But since it seems you didn't like the interaction... let it drop.
    
    
9.1348hee heeCSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Fri Jul 08 1994 20:519
    
    Yes Richard I caught the inference.  It was duly noted and received
    warmly with a chuckle.
    
    Jill
    
    P.S.  I've never been a moderator but that has never stopped me from
          saying "Yo...back up, turn right, look out for the edge."  ;^)
    
9.1349My Spiritual JourneyPOWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jul 11 1994 15:5090
Jill did send me a mail response and I am posting my answer to Jill here 
    because Jill asked some great questions and I would like to share my
    response with the rest of you too.
     
                                     Patricia

Thank you for the time and thought that you put into your response.  It is 
important to me that I understand where you are coming from and how I do
treat you as a sister even if your beliefs and assumptions are different 
than mine.  

Spiritual truth and understanding what Goddess/God wants from me is very
important to me.  I do have resentment toward those who assume they have
a correct handle on Divine truth and anyone who comes up with conclusions
that are different than theirs are wrong and damned and whatever.  That was
the basis of our disagreement when I started noting in hear.  I felt that
you and others were telling me that I was evil for my beliefs and I 
resented that.  My search for truth is as valid as
your search for truth.  Your search for truth is as valid as mine.

I strongly believe that my spiritual journey is propelled by the Divine and
I will follow that journey wherever it leads.

At the heart of our disagreements really is the different assumptions that
you and I make about the nature of the Bible.  You believe that the Bible is
is the unerrant word of God.  As such it is the source of your Faith.  I 
believe that the Bible is a fallible human attempt by the men who wrote it
to document their relationship with the Divine and document the meaning of 
their life and historical events in terms of their relationship with the 
Divine.

I believe that the Bible is only indirectly a source of Divine Revelation. 
Because of this assumption,  a big piece of my study and journey right now
is to understand what the Bible does mean to me.  First I accept that it is
written by men and not women.  It excludes the experience of women as written
by women.  In the stories of women written by men it tells us much about how
men felt about and treated women at that time.  The way men treated women as
recorded in the Bible is very negatively.  My intent in the Abraham string was
to say, Hey, let's look at the Bible stories.  How are woman treated.  Why? 
How might these stories be reconstructed if written by women?  How do these 
stories relate to the issues faced today by women and men.  If I accept that 
there are major parts of the Bible that are patriarchal and chauvanistic in
their treatment of women, can I still find meaning in those stories.  What do
I do with those stories.  If I can help it, I certainly will not allow those 
stories to be a model of how woman should be treated.  In honestly reading 
those stories, I am curious as to how you and Nancy and other "Bible believing"
women can accept those stories and regard them as sacred.

I don't believe that looking at these stories and saying "Look, these stories
are abusive to women" is male bashing.  I believe the stories are sacred 
legend and not historic truth.  The question I ask, is why are these stories
about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed incorporated into sacred
legends.  What do they tell us about the relative value of women and men in
700 BC culture.  What does it mean that it was considered entirely 
legitamate by women and men, that slave women be used as baby making machines
for infertile couples.

I believe that how we use the Bible today can be a source of inspiration.  I
also believe that identifying these stories as God ordained can also be used
as a source of oppression and evil.  My noting is to identify the stories, and
use them as a source of discussion about the nature of the Bible and how we use 
it for inspiration today.

Jill, you also asked how I viewed the Goddess.  Today I pray to Goddess/God.
That is an affirmation for me that each of us, man and woman is created in 
the image of the Divine.  For this to be true then the divine is neither
exclusively Male or Female but both.  I struggle with exactly what this means.
I do believe that there is One Divine reality and that Divine reality is 
available to all people in all times.  There were times when that reality was
worshipped as a woman.  There were times when that reality was worshipped as
a series of different women and men in relationship with each other.  Judaism 
and Orthodox Christianity worship the Divine as a Asexual Man.  I believe that
there is value in all religions and that no religion truly understands the
mystery of Divine Reality.  I believe that how each of us images the Divine
has enourmous consequences on our personal lifes.  I actually have more 
difficulty imaging the Divine as a woman than  I do as a man even though I 
know that the Divine is neither Man or Woman and Man and Woman.  As I 
continue to grow, to read, to study, I will obtain a greater and greater 
understanding of the Wisdom I seek.  I don't believe the fullness of the 
mystery will ever be totally revealed to me or anyone else.  An essential
element of my Faith is the Pauline belief that Faith is a belief and trust in
that which we cannot know.

I hope this helps.  

I may also post this in the note file to share with others.

peace and love

Patricia
9.1350JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 16:297
    .1349
    
    This statement about women being given to be raped just jumped out at
    me.  Why you insist on this interpretation is beyond me...  I'd sure
    like to see where rape is described as something permissable in God's
    word.  If you care to point me to scripture that describes a rape
    situation following a blessing from God.
9.1351POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Jul 11 1994 17:349
    There are two stories.  The lot story is the one I am most familiar
    with.  When the crowd was going to rape the Male strangers visiting
    Lot's house, Lot in order to protect the strangers offered his Virgin
    daughters to the crowd.
    
    There is a similiar story in the historic books, which I need help in
    citing here.
    
    Patricia
9.1352JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 17:384
    .1351
    
    Could you provide me the references, please.  I'd like to read this for
    myself.  Thanks.
9.1353BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Jul 11 1994 17:438


	I believe you'll find it in Leviticus? It's all tied in with the story
of Sodom & Gommorah (sp?). 


Glen
9.1354Lot's daughters are NOT touched by the men of SodomCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Jul 11 1994 18:127
The story of Lot and his experience with the Sodomites is in the 19th
chapter of Genesis.

God makes it quite clear that offering his daughters to be raped is
not acceptable.

/john
9.1355BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Jul 11 1994 18:2810


	John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the
daughters were raped by the townspeople? Can't figure out why you wrote about
that. Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
up to be raped?


Glen
9.1356COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Jul 11 1994 19:5122
re .1355

>John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the daughters were
>raped by the townspeople?

in .1349 "given to be raped"

>why are these stories about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed
>incorporated ...

re .1355

>Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
>up to be raped?

The angels drew Lot back into the house and removed him and his daughters
from the city.  Then God destroyed the city for all of its various forms
of sexual depravity.  This is an important story for anyone involved in or
tempted to be involved in sexual immorality: God will save you from it if
you trust in Him.

/john
9.1357my reading of the phraseTFH::KIRKa simple songMon Jul 11 1994 20:259
re: Note 9.1356 by /john

>in .1349 "given to be raped"

"Given to be raped" does not mean that they were in fact raped.

Peace,

Jim
9.1358JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 20:309
    "given to be raped" implies it is explicitly known as fact.
        
    I'd like to see this substantiated or brought forth as a
    "suppositional" statement.  If in fact, this is a misrepresentation of
    scripture, and is just a "the way I read it" kind of statement.  Then
    let's get the scripture on line and let folks see for themselves. 
    
        
    
9.1359TFH::KIRKa simple songMon Jul 11 1994 20:4311
re: Note 9.1358 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    "given to be raped" implies it is explicitly known as fact.
        
Huh?  

If I hand you a book, "given to be read", that does not mean it will be read. 

Peace,

Jim
9.1360a distinction that isn't thereLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Jul 11 1994 20:4614
re Note 9.1358 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     I'd like to see this substantiated or brought forth as a
>     "suppositional" statement.  If in fact, this is a misrepresentation of
>     scripture, and is just a "the way I read it" kind of statement.  Then
>     let's get the scripture on line and let folks see for themselves. 
  
        When you're talking about one uncorroborated textual report
        of an incident, "the way I read it" is the *only* kind of
        *substantiated* statement one can make about it.

        You're trying to drive a wedge between one thing!

        Bob
9.1361JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 21:0116
    If the distinction is not there why imply something so contradictory to
    God's nature?  
    
    This is a very inflammatory statement to make as a fact...
    
    If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
    just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
    raped is well... irresponsible.
    
    If you are going to make a claim like this put up the proof or qualify
    so that you are defining factor and not the Word of God.
    
    Put it on display.  I'd like to request again instead of bantering over
    the point of contention, for Patricia to give me the text from which
    she derives her accusation.
    
9.1362JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 21:0311
    .1359
    
    Your argument is moot.  I'm not questioning said results, I am question
    said intent.
    
    I've given you this book to read it... 
    I've given you these girls to rape...
    
    Whether you read or rape isn't what we are talking about.  It's the
    giving that is in question.
    
9.1363you just didn't want her to write it at allLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Mon Jul 11 1994 21:3528
re Note 9.1361 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     This is a very inflammatory statement to make as a fact...
>     
>     If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
>     just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
>     raped is well... irresponsible.
  
        It's inflammatory only because of a third-party's perspective
        (yours) -- you view the text as God's own writing, so you
        view any reading of the text similar to Patricia's to be
        defamatory to God.

        Patricia has repeatedly stated that the texts are mankind's
        recording, to the best of their ability given their
        viewpoint, prejudices, and other human limitations, of their
        experience of God's working in the world.  She has been very
        open and expressive about her view of Scripture.  She has not
        been concealing it or pretending that she accepts Scripture
        as God's own writing.

        Patricia seems to be saying that the human writers assumed
        that such an action was morally acceptable.  In fact she
        explicitly denies that the text can be used to claim that the
        true Godhead endorsed such action.  So don't put such words
        into her mouth (or onto her keyboard :-).

        Bob
9.1364Good Grief Charlie BrownJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 22:0310
    .1363
    
    Why are you defending her?  Can she not speak for herself?  I'm not
    putting words into her mouth and your just arguing for the sake of
    arguing. :-)
    
    I am asking for a SCRIPTURE REFERENCE to back up her VIEW of the
    Bible's view on rape.  Why is this bothering you?
    
    
9.1365Patricia's pernicious claim that Genesis supports rape is falseCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Jul 11 1994 22:2814
HEY!

I never said that they were raped, or even GIVEN to be raped.  That was
Patricia.  I provided what Patricia said in response to Glen's question.
Patricia's statement was what started the discussion going down this path.

I said that they were NOT touched by the men.

They were offered, but before they were given, the angels of the Lord
pulled Lot back into the house.

So don't misrepresent what I said, OK?

/john
9.1366JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 22:403
    /john
    
    who are you writing to?
9.1367AIMHI::JMARTINMon Jul 11 1994 22:4621
    In his human wisdom, Lot tried to intervene where he had no business.
    It was Lot that offered his daughters to the men of Sodom and Gomorrah
    and it was the angels who by the power of God struck the men with
    blindness.  They were well in control of the situation and in my
    opinion, offered these men grace by simply striking them blind.  Heck,
    Elijah had three men mauled by a bear for calling him baldy! :-)  Kind
    of sick humor if you will.
    
    Lot was well aware of who these two men were and realized these were
    not just men but angels sent by God.   There is no question here that
    the culture of that time was a far cry from today but consider this.
    For Lot to have two virgin daughters in a city as permiscuous as Sodom
    tells me that Lot had quite a handle on his role in the family as a
    spiritual leader.   My opinion is that knowing who these two men were,
    Lots reverence for these messengers must have been very strong for him
    to consider what he offered the men of Sodom and was willing to do so 
    as to not defile the messengers of God.  What Lot didn't realize was
    that these angels had the power of God in them and werequite capable of
    taking care of the men of Sodom.
    
    -Jack
9.1368AIMHI::JMARTINMon Jul 11 1994 23:1939
    Patricia:
    
    I believe the other incident you are referring to is from the book of
    Judges and involved a female servant or concubine.  The text is Judges
    chapter 19 and in all honesty, I must agree with you wholeheartedly on
    this one.  This is probably one of the most hideous parts of the Bible.
    
    The scenario:
    
    1. Man travels with his concubine.
    2. Concubine wants to lodge for the evening among the Jebusites.
    3. Older man comes along and says, "Stay at my house, don't lodge in 
       the streets."
    4. They go to old mans house.
    5. Exactly like Sodom, band of men bang on door and demand sex with
       male traveler.
    6. Old man entreats them, "Please take the concubine and my daughter 
       and do as you see fit, but not the man"
    7. Band of men don't listen.
    8. Old man puts concubine (female servant) out his doors.
    9. Band of men abuse her all night, found dead next morning.
    10.Man finds her, chops her up into 12 pieces, sends each piece of her
       to one of the tribes of Israel.
    
    Does this say that God's word condones this action?  Certainly not.  It
    records it as Biblical history.  There are a few possible conclusions
    we can draw from this.
    
    A. Women in that particular society were treated as chattel.
    B. The man found homosexuality far more offensive that sexual
       intercourse among men/women.
    
    I'm not choosing one or the other.  This is open to speculation.  
    I am of the belief that women overall were treated more as property in
    those times and are no better off in the middle east than they were
    3000 years ago.  
    
    -Jack

9.1369JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Jul 11 1994 23:224
    .1368
    
    So while God was not in agreement with said action, he allowed the
    truth to be recorded for what purpose?
9.1370LotCSC32::J_CHRISTIEThe rocks will cry out!Tue Jul 12 1994 00:436
    Great traditional family values that Lot had.  Say, where's it
    say Lot *knew* these men were really angels (in advance of them
    blinding the crowd, that is)??
    
    Richard
    
9.1371COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jul 12 1994 00:5617
re .1370

Not sure why it's important that Lot knew they were angels -- but he did
bow down with his face to the ground and address them as "my lords", so
he knew they were important.

Re .1368

Note that the "old man" who took the travelers in and who sent the
woman out to the marauding crowd was a foreigner -- i.e., not one
of God's people.

The sending of the pieces of the dead women to each of the tribes was
a method `before television' of publishing the gruesome truth of the
horrendous deed of the Benjaminites.

/john
9.1372Ancient Hebrew hospitality customsCSC32::J_CHRISTIEThe rocks will cry out!Tue Jul 12 1994 03:0311
    .1371  The reason why it might be important:  Providing hospitality to
    the stranger was an extremely important custom to the ancient Hebrews,
    though it is not written in as such a way that this message comes down
    through the ages to us with great clarity in the Hebrew Bible.  And
    only the best and the freshest was to be offered to one's guests.
    
    Saying Lot knew they were angels is saying Lot would have done less
    for others.
    
    Richard
    
9.1373True, Lot is not mentioned by name, but...CSC32::J_CHRISTIEThe rocks will cry out!Tue Jul 12 1994 03:109
PS  The author of Hebrews appears to have believed Lot didn't know
    the men were angels:

    Hebrews 13:2  Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby
    some have entertained angels unawares.

    Shalom,
    Richard

9.1374BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 12:1836
| <<< Note 9.1356 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| re .1355

| >John, thanks fer the clarification. BTW, who ever said that the daughters were
| >raped by the townspeople?

| in .1349 "given to be raped"

| >why are these stories about giving women to strangers to be raped and killed
| >incorporated ...


	John, it would appear that you tied this in with Lot on your own,
doesn't it? You did specify Lot's daughters. Don't you think you jumped 
the gun?

| re .1355

| >Also, could you show us where God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
| >up to be raped?

| The angels drew Lot back into the house and removed him and his daughters
| from the city.  Then God destroyed the city for all of its various forms
| of sexual depravity.  This is an important story for anyone involved in or
| tempted to be involved in sexual immorality: God will save you from it if
| you trust in Him.

	Gee John, sounds like it's Twister tm  time again. The towns people
were about to attack Lot, the angels pulled him in before they could. Could you
try again, where does it say that God was upset by Lot offering his daughters
up to be raped? 



Glen
9.1375BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 12:2222
| <<< Note 9.1361 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| If the distinction is not there why imply something so contradictory to
| God's nature?

	Nancy, your entire faith is based on what you wrote above. You do not
see the distiction, so if anyone else does then they are contradicting God's
nature. My question to you is if you believe something in the Bible to be true,
do you allow any other interpretation of the same thing to be true or is it the
word according to Nancy?

| If you say, "The way I read it, or I see this" it is one thing, but to
| just blatantly say that it was God-blessed to offer these women to be
| raped is well... irresponsible.

	Psssttt.... who said it was God blessed?



Glen
9.1376BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 12:2616
| <<< Note 9.1365 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>


| I never said that they were raped, or even GIVEN to be raped.  That was
| Patricia.  

	No, that was you. John, it was in YOUR title of YOUR note. Patricia
never mentioned Lot in her note, yet you tied it into that. 

| They were offered, but before they were given, the angels of the Lord
| pulled Lot back into the house. So don't misrepresent what I said, OK?

	John, we would never do that. But I think you misrepresented the Bible.


Glen
9.1377BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 12:4423
| <<< Note 9.1368 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>


| Does this say that God's word condones this action?  Certainly not.  It
| records it as Biblical history.  There are a few possible conclusions
| we can draw from this.

| A. Women in that particular society were treated as chattel.
| B. The man found homosexuality far more offensive that sexual
| intercourse among men/women.

	Jack, aren't there a few more we could choose from this? How about the
man did not want the stranger that he took in to be hurt? That women were
lesser human beings than a man, so they were offered? We could go on. Please
don't try to make it into a one or two thing for conclusions Jack. Many
conclusions could be made from the passage.

	Women being treated as slaves (which you said) or as even less, would 
very much back up Patricia's viewpoints. Thank you so much for helping out
Jack. :-)


Glen
9.1378you seem to want a fightLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 223-8576, MSO2-2/A2, IM&amp;T)Tue Jul 12 1994 13:0329
re Note 9.1364 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     .1363
>     
>     Why are you defending her?  Can she not speak for herself?  I'm not
>     putting words into her mouth and your just arguing for the sake of
>     arguing. :-)
  
        I do not argue for the sake of arguing -- I argue because you
        stubbornly ignore what another says in favor of pursuing your
        own notions of some sort of mission you have in this
        conference and I realize that I could easily be your next
        target, since my position has some similarity with
        Patricia's.
          
>     I am asking for a SCRIPTURE REFERENCE to back up her VIEW of the
>     Bible's view on rape.  Why is this bothering you?
  
        Genesis 19:8 has been so frequently referenced in this
        conference, and the story of Lot offering his daughters to be
        used sexually by the men of Sodom so often alluded to, that
        it hardly seems necessary to cite it to somebody who claims
        familiarity and reverence for Scripture!

        What bothers me is that you clearly just want to pick a fight
        with Patricia, will say anything to accomplish that, without
        regard to the content of the conversation.

        Bob
9.1379at.,ku! nfue!; fjheiu!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jul 12 1994 13:216
Glenn see .1351

And furthermore

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9.1380POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jul 12 1994 13:3865
    I think this discussion is a wonderful discussion regarding the two 
    passages.
    
    John thank you for the Genesis 19 citation for the Lot story, Jack thank
    you for the Judges 19 citation for the other story.  Those are the two
    stories that I was referring to and I trust the citations are accurate.
    
    Nancy,
    
    re 9.1364.  Why are you so upset that Bob is expressing his opinion in
    here and supporting me.  I find it very important that Bob support me
    here because he is a man for one and I have been accused of male
    bashing for my interpretation of these scriptures and he is more
    conservative in his theology and more learned in his study of
    scripture.  His affirmation helps me to know that I am not an off the
    wall angry feminist in reading what I read in scripture.
    
    I note in here to generate discussion for everybody.  We all grow from
    a serious honest discussion of scripture.  Liberal or conservative, we
    all must deal with these stories and seek to understand why they are
    part of the scripture and what they tell us culturally and historically
    about the relationship between women and men and what they tell us
    about the relationship between men and God and woman and God.
    
    Bob has very accurately restated my position.  What each of us believes
    about the nature of scriptures and the nature of the Divine critically
    impacts how we interpret these passages. 
    
    Goddess/God loves both women and men and wants both women and men
    treated with dignity and respect.  Goddess/God does not advocate Rape or
    violence to women as a punishment or a way to protect men.  This I know
    intuitively.  This is contrary to how I read scripture.  There are many
    instances in Genesis and the passage in Judges where women's bodies are
    given and used to protect men.  No where in these passages does it
    indicate that God is doing the giving but no where does it indicate
    that God is specifically opposed to the practice.  To me these passages
    clearly indicate that the men of the culture felt it was OK to barter
    with women's body and did not think it was sinful to do so.  To me
    these passages also show that the scripture is the work of men and not
    directly the work of God.  I respect that many of you do not agree with
    that conclusion.
    
    The way women's bodies have been traditional thought of as property and
    used for the benefit of men is evil.  It always has been evil.  In the
    twentieth century our culture is addressing that evil and calling it
    what it is.  This is prophetic witness occuring now.  It seems that
    from this discussion here, everyone is offended by the thought that women
    could be given over to be raped.  That is a common assumption that we
    all share and that is progress.  We all share the assumption that God
    is good and that God does not want woman's bodies to be used.  That is
    progress.  What we differ on is our own answers to why these passages
    are in scripture and what these passages tell us.  I think that we all
    may agree that based on these passages women were in fact used as
    property in this period.  That is a lot of common ground for
    discussion.  Perhaps we do need to focus more on what we agree in
    common and not on what our differences are.
    
    The issue of violence against women and children is an issue that
    plagues our country and our world.  To know and to affirm that this is
    an issue that is at least 3 thousand years old tells us how difficult
    it is to resolve this issue.  Hopefully it will make each of us more
    prophetic around this issue.
    
    
    Patricia
9.1381BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 13:4920
| <<< Note 9.1379 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>


| Glenn see .1351

	John, she said offering, not that it happened. You have still yet to
prove that anyone said anything about Lot's daughters being raped. The reason I
am harping on this is because you say and say a lot of things. To show us that
others actually said these things are totally different.

| And furthermore

| asldkfj aslkdwq aoiweroqrn asdiuwi.asjrey aaoueoua aidsokr
| akajbn ais.ka asyt.e ataf lakjeya alkey abbfqakk aqlqleucyaq!

	John, did you know that you used 23 "a"'s in that? Why 22.3% of all the
letters were the letter "a"! AmAzing John! 


Glen
9.1382AIMHI::JMARTINTue Jul 12 1994 14:1120
    Glen:
    
    All your possibilities fall under the guise of choice A, that being
    that women were treated as chattel.  Anything that demeans a woman as a 
    second or third class citizen falls under selection A.  
    
    It is apparent to me that selection B offends you.  It is most
    certainly possible that homosexuality was looked upon as detestable
    over fornication of men and women so please Glen, don't put any victim
    hats on yet.  I said it was just a possibility and a strong one at
    that.
    
    Nancy:
    
    To answer your question regarding why God recorded this incident in
    Judges, the answer is that I'm not really sure.  Perhaps it is yet just
    another piece of the historical puzzle that proves the period of the
    Judges to be the darkest portion of Israel's history.   
    
    -Jack
9.1383POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jul 12 1994 14:3826
    9.1368
    
    The problem with the second alternative 
    
    B.  The man found homosexuality far more degrading than other sexual
    evils is
    
    That this is NOT about homosexuality.  It is about Rape and violience.
    
    B needs to become that 
    
    B.  That the man found rape and violance against Men as far more
    degrading than rape and violence against women.  This makes B.
    equivalent to A.
    
    It is a very far stretch to equate this story with the love and
    intimacy between any two people, man with woman, woman with man or man
    with man.  woman with woman is not even considered here. 
    
    THIS IS A STORY ABOUT RAPE AND VIOLENCE AND NOT ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY.
    
    
    
    Patricia
    
    
9.1384COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Jul 12 1994 15:0616
re .1381

ewrtiu cizoi zxoi, rezusd.

re .1383

God makes it clear that the entire situation in Sodom is wrong, not only
by having his angels prevent the daughters from being delivered to the
mob, but by destroying the city.

In the case of the Benjaminites, it is a foreigner who delivers the woman
(not someone whose actions are approved of by God); the sending of the news
of what happened is yet another clear indication that depravity is not to be
tolerated.

/john
9.1385BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 15:1828
| <<< Note 9.1382 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>

| Glen:

| All your possibilities fall under the guise of choice A, that being
| that women were treated as chattel.  Anything that demeans a woman as a
| second or third class citizen falls under selection A.

	No. A slave is a personal property at the time, but were male slaves
offered before the women? I mean, even with the women who were not slaves to 
begin with? There is a difference between the two, there is a difference
between personal property and 3rd class people. 

| It is apparent to me that selection B offends you.  It is most certainly 
| possible that homosexuality was looked upon as detestable over fornication of 
| men and women so please Glen, don't put any victim hats on yet.  

	Jack, please show me where I have put a victim hat on. I did say there
are many other possibilities for the offering of a woman over a man. I didn't
say a word about the homosexuality part of it. I DID say that more than TWO
reasons were possible. Hope this helps! :-)

| I said it was just a possibility and a strong one at that.

	And uhhhh... how do ya know that?


Glen
9.1386BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 15:2419
| <<< Note 9.1384 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>



| God makes it clear that the entire situation in Sodom is wrong, not only
| by having his angels prevent the daughters from being delivered to the
| mob, but by destroying the city.

	The angels PULLED Lot into the house because the mob was gettin', shall
we say, a leeeetle upset. The towns people already rejected Lot's offer John.
And the angels went to the city to destroy it for many reasons. It was up to
Lot to find just one person in the town who was good. The towns people wanting
to rape the strangers (angels) was the last straw. Sodom was NOT a good place
to be in. That was known from the start. But your analogy above seems to be
wrong according to what the book says.



Glen
9.1387AIMHI::JMARTINTue Jul 12 1994 15:575
    Yes, Potipher's wife is an example.  Joseph was a servant in the house
    of Potipher.  The sequence of events reveals that Potipher's wife had
    reign over the servants of the household.
    
    -Jack
9.1388JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 16:0921
    Bob,
    
    Actually, all I wanted was for her to give me the reference in
    Scripture that says that the Bible condones women to be given in Rape. 
    Reporting something doesn't mean it is condoned.  Her note could be
    used as a way invalidate the Bible and if their is truth in her
    writing, I for one, want to see it.
    
    Is this not a conference in which to explore, discuss and perhaps learn
    about such things????
    
    Why is that construed as picking a fight?????
    
    Bob, it truly seems as though you wish to pick the fight with me.  
    
    I have not "target" and your even mentioning such a thing is
    ridiculous.  I've stated it very clear what I believe, where I stand
    and who I am... there is no hidden target or agenda.  
    
    Bob, why are you so angry with me?
    
9.1389JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 16:2721
    Patricia I just found your .1380.
    
    First off,  I don't have a problem with Bob contributing to the
    discussion at hand.  But instead he was "questioning" the intention of
    my participation.  That's the difference and a very distinct one imho.
    
    Secondly, I agree with everything you've written about women and the
    sinfulness of man's perversion of God's intent for the roles of men and
    women.  The only point of contention is that you seem to think the
    Bible lauds this.  I do not.  Again as news is being reported does that
    mean the publisher agrees with everything in the paper?
    
    God allowed for the truth to be told, so the Truth could be received. 
    The scriptures do not condone in any way, shape, or form the abuse
    towards women.  
    
    God's word states that husbands are to love their wives as Christ loved
    the church and gave himself for it.    This is the God that you speak
    of in your note and He is alive and well through His word.
    
    
9.1391JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 16:3114
    Thirdly,
    
    You stated that your view of God's word is predetermined by the
    attitude you already hold.  In other words, you *can* look at even recent
    history of how women were treated in this country by their husbands,
    and form a belief that religion played a role in this behavior.
    
    I agree. 
    
    Again, when the Bible is examined closely as a whole and not in
    microcosms, this predisposition is false and it has clouded eyes, 
    hearts and ears to the Truth of God's nature as revealed in His word.
    
    Nancy
9.1392Bible condoning violencePOWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jul 12 1994 16:3524
    
    As to your question, Where does the Bible condone violence toward
    women.
    
    1.  Genesis indirectly  condones violence toward women.  This book is
    very clear on stating that some things are very sinful.  By never
    specifically stating that the giving of daughters, the rape of slave
    women, the taking of many concumbines, the offering of wifes, the rape
    and murder of women are evil, it indirectly makes these acts less
    offensive than acts against men. 
    
    2.  Issiah, Hosea, and Ezekiel directly condones violence against
    women by using the metaphor of God as an authoritarian Husband and
    Israel as a "whoring bride".  God punishes Israel by raping her,
    killing her children, casting her out and accepting her back only when
    she is sufficiently punished.  THis provides a divine model of a
    relationship between  husband and wife that is scandelous. 
    
    Does a man have a right to beat and abuse an unfaithful wife?
    
    These points do not invalidate the Bible.  They point to how the Bible 
    can be used to understand the cultural reality of women and men.  I do
    agree that these points could invalidate certain reading and
    interpretation of the Bible.
9.1393POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jul 12 1994 16:4318
    re: 9.1391
    
    When the Bible is reviewed as a whole it confirms the view of the Bible
    being patriarchal and capable of being used to condome oppression of women,
    slaves, persons not of "the chosen people", and Gays, Lesbians, and
    Bi-sexuals.  When read as literal truth, oppression is inevitable. 
    THis notes file bears witness to that in the discussions regarding
    homosexuality.  When history is reviewed, the opposition to the
    abolition of slavery and the slaughter of non Christians bares witness
    to how the Bible has been used as an instrument of oppression.
    
    There is a need for all Christians to band together and make sure that
    Holy Scripture is not allowed to be used as a weapon of oppression. 
    There is a need for Christians to be faithful enough to the "Word" of
    God written on their hearts to oppose all abuses in the name of
    Christianity.
    
    Patricia
9.1394JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 16:4625
   > When the Bible is reviewed as a whole it confirms the view of the Bible
   > being patriarchal and capable of being used to condome oppression of women,
   > slaves, persons not of "the chosen people", and Gays, Lesbians, and
   > Bi-sexuals.  When read as literal truth, oppression is inevitable. 
   > THis notes file bears witness to that in the discussions regarding
   > homosexuality.  When history is reviewed, the opposition to the
   > abolition of slavery and the slaughter of non Christians bares witness
   > to how the Bible has been used as an instrument of oppression.
    
    There are evil men who use the Holy Book for many things.  Let me see
    Patricia, by this same logic, I ask you, would you throw out the use
    medicines to treat illnesses, that many use on the streets illegally?
    After all the medicine must be what is evil, right?
    
    
    >There is a need for all Christians to band together and make sure that
    >Holy Scripture is not allowed to be used as a weapon of oppression. 
    >There is a need for Christians to be faithful enough to the "Word" of
    >God written on their hearts to oppose all abuses in the name of
    >Christianity.
    
    AMEN to that!  I agree wholeheartedly.
    
    Nancy
    
9.1395POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienTue Jul 12 1994 16:5716
    Nancy,
    
    I am not suggesting throwing out the use of the Bible.  I am suggesting
    studying the Bible carefully and accepting as revelation that in the
    Bible which is truly inspirational.
    
    I am suggesting the extreme danger of using the Bible as literal truth
    and suggesting the extreme danger of accepting everything in the Bible as
    equally revelatory.
    
    "Slave obey your master"  "women obey your husband"  "Endure in your
    Suffering"  are all literal messages that are or can be abusive messages. 
    
    
    
    
9.1396JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 17:1816
    Balance those scriptures with the duty of a master to a slave or a
    husband to a wife and then you have a Truth... not a microcosm of a
    Truth.
    
    Did you know that a parallel can be drawn between the Master and Slaves
    as with Digital and you?
    
    Do you believe that your employment with Digital requires that you
    perform certain tasks, at a certain level and expectations are very
    real?
    
    If so, then a slave or employee has a responsibility to their master or
    employer.
    
    There is balance.
    
9.1397BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 17:248


	Nancy, do you really think that a master/slave type of relationship is
anything like Digital/employee?


Glen
9.1398JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 12 1994 17:302
    I think there are parallels... especially in the Bible.  Remember I am
    not speaking of Black slavery.
9.1399AIMHI::JMARTINTue Jul 12 1994 17:338
    Glen:
    
    Isaac served his Father n law 7 years to get the hand of Rachel. 
    Master/Slave relationships were not as oppressive in the Bible as they
    were in the 17/1800's in America.  Most of the slave market was either 
    to pay debt or for monetary compensation.
    
    -Jack
9.1400BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 12 1994 17:5212
| <<< Note 9.1398 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| I think there are parallels... especially in the Bible.  Remember I am
| not speaking of Black slavery.

	Nancy, I too was not speaking of black slavery. Could you provide some
examples?


Glen
9.1401COMET::DYBENWed Jul 13 1994 15:2714
    
    
    Along the lines of woman and men and who was treated worse. I think the
    men were given the short end of the stick. We have always been cannon
    fodder. Sent to do battle torn to sheds by mortars. When I hear an
    American woman crying " I am mistreated" I am reminded of the fact
    that per year in America more is spent on womans apparel and make-up
    then on one years worth of military hardware.. Perhaps the best thing
    that is happening in America is the tide is turning against the Fems.
    Woman are waking up to the destructive force the Feminist really stands
    for. Forever bashing men is is any wonder that 30 to 40 % of the N.O.W.
    gang are lesbians and bisexuals. 
    
    David
9.1402who decided this?TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Jul 13 1994 15:4810
re: Note 9.1401 by David

>   We have always been cannon fodder. Sent to do battle torn to sheds by 
>   mortars. 

Of course it was men who came up with this system...

Peace,

Jim
9.1403COMET::DYBENWed Jul 13 1994 15:5210
    
    
    > of course it was men who came up with this system..
    
     Yep, and because of their willingness to stand and fight for what they
    believed your able to be here today and bad mouth them. If it were left
    to the liberal ilk there would never have been any wars becuase you
    have a transitional value system. 
    
    David
9.1404BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 13 1994 15:548


	Good note David. Honest good that is. I don't see it the same way as
you, but at least you're honest.


Glen
9.1405AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 15:556
    Jim:
    
    This only proves the point that there can be no peace without the
    Prince of Peace.
    
    -Jack
9.1406trying to pick a fight?TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Jul 13 1994 15:5610
re: Note 9.1403 by David

>     Yep, and because of their willingness to stand and fight for what they
>    believed your able to be here today and bad mouth them. 

Excuse me, David?  When did I bad mouth them.  Supply references.

Please do not put your words in my mouth.

Jim
9.1407yes, but...TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Jul 13 1994 15:5811
re:  Note 9.1405 by Jack

>    This only proves the point that there can be no peace without the
>    Prince of Peace.
    
I agree that there can be no real peace without the Prince of Peace, but how 
is that point proved?  

Peace,

Jim
9.1408COMET::DYBENWed Jul 13 1994 15:5911
    
    
    Jim,
    
      You right Jim, I just ass-u-me-d that your criticism of men and their
    willingness to develop the weapons of war would naturally follow into
    a criticism of war and warriors. If you actually support war and
    warriors then I openly extend my apologies to your sir.....
    
    
    David
9.1409AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 16:045
    The point I am making is that the world is trying in vain to establish
    a lasting peace without Christ.  We are seeing the fruits of this in
    our society today.  
    
    -Jack
9.1410thanks for explaining yourselfTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Jul 13 1994 17:4416
re: Note 9.1408 by David

Thank you for explaining that David.  Do I actually support war?  Well, I 
sadly believe that sometimes war is the only response humans have been able to 
come up with.  On the other hand, I have great respect for the men and women
who truly believe that they are fighting for some Good.  To give or be willing
to give one's life to a cause one believes in is a heroic act.  I also respect
those who were drafted into the armed services and served their country from
that standpoint.  Yet on the other, other hand, I am saddened when these
people are caught up in a war that turns out to be not so glorious, but
motivated by politics, greed, and deceit.  But my respect for the individual
soldiers, nurses, ... does not waver. 

Peace, 

Jim
9.1411BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 13 1994 17:537


	What are some of those fruits you see Jack?


Glen
9.1412COMET::DYBENWed Jul 13 1994 17:579
    
    
    
    JIM,
    
     Not quite sure I undertand you. Is war okayh sometimes? Under certain
    circumstances??
    
    David
9.1413AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 18:327
    Glen:
    
    As mentioned in the past, divorces, STDs, Racism, Murder, Crime,
    Godlessness.  I can get the US Beureau of Statistics data on this. 
    
    Grief has grown rampant since the 1960's.  Too bad nobody listens to
    me! :-)
9.1414to war or not to warTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Jul 13 1994 18:3516
re: Note 9.1412 by David

David, It's a topic I'm a bit uncertain of, myself.  I've heard the concept of 
a "Just War", when it is plain and clear that a country or group must defend 
themselves or another.  Many times, however, wars are fought for the wrong 
reasons.  I guess I can believe that in this world, war may be necessary as a
last resort.  However, I believe that too often, that "last resort" comes far
too quickly. 

I'm reminded of a quote from Abraham Lincoln that goes something like 
"The question is not whether God is on our side, but are we on God's side?"
This was an answer to a question regarding the War Between the States.

I hope this helps,

Jim
9.1415BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 13 1994 19:3329
| <<< Note 9.1413 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>



| As mentioned in the past, divorces, STDs, Racism, Murder, Crime, Godlessness. 

	Jack, I can see what you mean. And with what you put above it was all
caused by many many different reasons. The last one bothers me some though. Do
you mean Godlessness as in atheist or is someone who believes differently than
you do on spiritual things thrown into that catagory too? 

| I can get the US Beureau of Statistics data on this.

	No need fer that Jack. I know the numbers have risen. But I wish you
weren't so blind about the past. Today everything is made public. Back then
everything was hidden. A perfect example is you heard very little about a
parent physically or mentally abusing their child. It still happened, but it
was just not talked about. 

| Grief has grown rampant since the 1960's.  Too bad nobody listens to me! :-)

	Nobody listens to you because ya ain't got the right picture about the
60's and stuff. I'd much rather have everything out in the open and try to deal
with the problems of the world that way instead of trying to keep things hidden
like it will go away or something.



Glen
9.1416A bit of history all too easily dismissedCSC32::J_CHRISTIEThe rocks will cry out!Wed Jul 13 1994 20:308
The so-called "Just War" notion evolved over time.  For the first 300
years (nearly 100 longer than the U.S. has existed as an entity),
Christianity was a virtually pacifistic movement.  It was only when
the church jumped into bed with the state under Constantine that the
church acquiesced to the martial interests of the state.

Richard

9.1417AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 20:406
    Didn't the state actually jump into bed with the church?  My
    understanding was that Constantine proclaimed all to be Christians.
    
    (He actually worshipped Rah the sun god).
    
    -Jack
9.1418jumped into bed togetherCSC32::J_CHRISTIEThe rocks will cry out!Wed Jul 13 1994 22:295
    I don't know what your experience is when it comes to jumping into bed,
    Jack.  Doubtlessly, to some degree, it was consensual.
    
    Richard
    
9.1419AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 22:548
    I believe at the time the church existed underground, in hiding from
    persecution.   It seemed the more the church was persecuted, the more
    it grew.  Constantine's edict was ingenious because by proclaiming the
    whole world to be Christian, it took most of the persecution away.   
    Christianity was infiltrated by Baal worship and Christianity was like
    salt that lost its savor.
    
    -Jack
9.1420CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Wed Jul 13 1994 23:025
    And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
    they had been done to in prior times.
    
    Richard
    
9.1421AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 23:0317
    Darn, I wrote a whole thing to have the link aborted...bummer.
    Glen:
    
    I should have used the word lasciviousness instead of Godlessness.  
    Kind of like the men of Sodom and Gomorrah.  
    
    I am not hiding my head in the sand; I realize throughout history
    things have been just as bad or worse.  Lord knows the apostles went
    through far worse social problems than we have encountered.  Yes,
    I do believe things should be in the open.  I see leadership pushing
    conformity instead of responsibility.  I see leadership looking for the
    quick fix and similarly flushing us down the toilet with them.  Again
    I submit that this is why parents are abandoning the public schools in
    droves.  I'm not happy about this either but it is a fact we need to
    deal with.
    
    -Jack
9.1422AIMHI::JMARTINWed Jul 13 1994 23:2431
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>>    And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
>>    they had been done to in prior times.
  
This statement is painted with an extremely broad brush.  That would be like 
saying that all Israelites during Christ time were paumpous and arrogant 
because of the actions of the Pharisees.  It would be like saying all 
Germans during WW2 were ruthless butchers because 6M Jews were killed in
Germany.  The fact is that most Israelites in that time were humble and
poor; and most Germans in Germany feared reprisals and grew to hate what
Germany had become.

It would be a hasty generalization to say that it was acceptable for 
Christians to kill....  I believe it was the Acts of Constantine that laid the
foundation for Papacy in the world, something that lead to the claiming of
being the only ones to interpret scripture and eventually the self given
right to kill based on who was a heretic and who wasn't.  I would have been
considered a heretic had I lived in those times and would have eventually
    been martyred by those who claimed to be Christians.   Constantine was
    no less than an idol worshipper.

"Truly I say unto you, you will know a tree by its fruit.  A good tree 
cannot produce bad fruit and likewise a bad tree cannot produce good fruit."
Gospels Someplace!

You may also note that some of the epistles like third John address the issue
of false bretheren in the Church.  

-Jack
  

9.1423thanksTFH::KIRKa simple songThu Jul 14 1994 01:3610
re:  Note 9.1416 by Richard "The rocks will cry out!" 

>                 -< A bit of history all too easily dismissed >-

Thanks for the history.  As I said, I've heard of the concept but I am not 
very comfortable with it.

Peace,

Jim
9.1424thanksTFH::KIRKa simple songThu Jul 14 1994 01:385
Jack, thanks for your input as well.

Peace,

Jim
9.1425CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 04:559
    Jack,
    
    	I didn't say all Christians instantly bought into the legitimization
    of state sponsored warfare.  Not all Christians ever have.
    
    	So please don't read more into it than what I said.
    
    Richard
    
9.1426CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 05:038
>Thanks for the history.  As I said, I've heard of the concept but I am not 
>very comfortable with it.

Indeed, it's part of what makes Jesus' life and teachings so radical even
still.

Richard

9.1427BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Jul 14 1994 12:449


	Thanks for clarifying Jack. I appreciate it. Lust was part of the
problem with the cities, but not the entire thing. Far from it. But then you
did list other things too. :-)


Glen
9.1428AIMHI::JMARTINThu Jul 14 1994 13:3511
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>>    And it became acceptable for Christians to kill and do unto others as
>>    they had been done to in prior times.
  
The statement needed to be clarified.  I assumed from the way it looked 
    that there is a definite article that should be placed before the
    word Christians.  You have now clarified that the word "some" 
    belongs in there.
    
    -Jack  

9.1429CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 15:526
    .1428  I'm not here to discuss the subtleties of the English language,
    Jack.  Just because something becomes acceptable doesn't mean that all
    will participate in it.
    
    Richard
    
9.1430AIMHI::JMARTINThu Jul 14 1994 16:134
    Normally I would agree; however, subtleties in grammer and nomenclature
    can cause miscommunication and misunderstanding.
    
    -Jack
9.1431CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 16:155
    I think it's more than that, but don't care to expend the effort to
    explore it further here.
    
    Richard
    
9.1432Pacifists all of us?CSC32::KINSELLAA tree with a rotten core cannot stand.Thu Jul 14 1994 16:2825
    Hi Richard,
    
    I hesitate to respond right now because I don't know if I'm truly at
    the end of my search yet, but I will anyway.  I respect that you are
    called to be a pacifist.  What I'm not sure I'm as crazy about is your
    denigrating attitude towards Christians who aren't pacifists.  I have 
    tried this week to let go of any beliefs I have about peace, war,
    fighting, etc....and search God's Word for what He has to say and I
    just don't see this clear cut of a call to all Christians.  I've
    searched on the word peace, war, fighting, soldier, centurion, and
    probably a few others I don't remember, but just can't come to this
    conclusion that you claim.  Indeed God established Israel as a warring
    nation.  In Acts, Cornelius, a Roman centurion, is called a devout man,
    so devout in fact that God hears His prayers and responds... here he is
    in soldier in one of the most corrupt governments and yet he's not
    condemned for that.  We're not told that after he here's the message
    that he feels led of God to leave His post.  And the nation of Edom is
    even punished by God for not coming to Israel's defense when it was
    invaded.  I just don't find a peace about all Christians being called
    to this pacifist role.  I have no trouble with the fact that you are
    called to it, indeed we probably need reminders about peace in this
    world, but I think you need to be sensitive to the fact that God may
    not have called all of us to that stance.
    
    Jill
9.1433CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 17:019
    I cited Christian history.  And yes, I believe the church compromised
    itself beginning about the time of Constantine, about 300 years after
    Jesus.
    
    You are free, of course, to continue to call this a "denigrating
    attitude."
    
    Richard
    
9.1434COMET::DYBENThu Jul 14 1994 18:075
    
    
    > I didn't say all christians
    
      You didn't say they they didn't either, oh sly one :-)
9.1435CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 14 1994 18:242
    I like to credit the reader with the ability to think. ;-)
    
9.1436COMET::DYBENThu Jul 14 1994 20:169
    
    
    When reading you for the totality of your thoughts I believe they
    had valid concerns and reasons to questions you meaning...
    
    
    ping and pong and ping and pong :-)
    
    David
9.14373737::JMARTINMon Jul 18 1994 15:5911
    Richard:
    
    Sorry, your initial response was not straightforward.  It called for an
    assumption on the part of the reader.
    
    You may recall that John 1:1's meaning is interpreted by other faiths 
    to refer to small god verses large God.  All of this because I believe 
    it says, "The God" verses "a god".  Amazing how one little article can 
    make such a drastic difference.
    
    -Jack
9.1438CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Mon Jul 18 1994 16:576
    John 1:1 is one of the most complex assertions in the entire Bible.
    To genuine appreciate it, I believe one must have firm grasp of both
    Logos Theology and Genesis 1:1.
    
    Richard
    
9.1439CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Mon Jul 18 1994 17:006
    Not everything is as straightforward as we would like to believe it is.
    I assure you, Jack, I was as straightforward as the situation which it
    addressed.  And I resent the underlying implication.
    
    Richard
    
9.1440AIMHI::JMARTINMon Jul 18 1994 22:1014
    Richard:
    
    Tell me something, what DON'T you resent in life?  I mean, everytime 
    somebody says something to you in the slightest admonition, you resent
    it.
    
    Richard, you didn't state it clearly.  You said Christians, not just
    some Christians, and you're not at least dealing with this is hurting
    the cause of Christ.  There are Read Only individuals ya know!
    
    Please make your statements clearly so that others will not misread
    them.
    
    Thank you!
9.1441CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Tue Jul 19 1994 04:147
    91.4149 & 91.4151
    
    What, if anything, do you believe you were contributing to the topic by
    making the remarks you did, Jack?
    
    Richard
    
9.1442CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Tue Jul 19 1994 04:4516
    9.1440
    
    More accurately, I said it became acceptable for Christians.  Now,
    I believe the average reader is intelligent enough to recognize
    that, at minimum, Christian children, the Christian elderly, the
    Christian infirmed, and Christian women at that time in history
    would have been excluded from participation in killing at the
    direction of the state through military service.  It might or
    might not have excluded a lot more.
    
    If you continue to have this problem with my notes, I suggest you
    just skip over them.  I refuse to make a habit of this.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
    
9.1443just musing...TFH::KIRKa simple songMon Jul 25 1994 13:0715
On more than one occasion, I've heard people say "your just arguing semantics"
in a disparaging way, as if that was somehow disingenuous or being too picky. 
Semantics is "the study or science of meaning in language forms, especially
with regard to its historical change" (American Heritage Dictionary.) 

It seems to me, that as many of us base our beliefs on a collection of books 
written many centuries ago, and subject to many translations, semantics can be 
very important.  

Why is it so objectionable to some people to try to understand what a person, 
or indeed God, means by a particular word or phrase?

Just musing...

Jim
9.1444AIMHI::JMARTINMon Jul 25 1994 16:1513
    That was the point I was making.   There is a difference between these
    two statements.
    
    Christians is Colorado are religious bigots.
    
    Some Christians in Colorado are religious bigots.
    
    The indefinite artcle changes the meaning of the comment drastically.
    Furthermore, Richard and I miscommunicated.  I thought he was referring
    to the crusades but based on a few replies ago, he seems to be
    referring to military conflicts.
    
    -Jack
9.1445It works for other things too!BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Jul 26 1994 13:5214


	Jack, I don't think you will find anyone in here to disagree with what
you are saying between some and all. I think from time to time some of us will
use a blanket term to describe something when it should not be done so. In our
minds we may know what we mean, but if we don't speak clearly we will give off
a wrong impression. That's why I am glad there are people like you who will
make sure the some and all are distinguished to prevent all Christians from
getting a bad rap. 



Glen
9.1446POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienWed Jul 27 1994 17:1989
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Note 942.102                   women in the Bible                     102 of 110
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    .101
    
   > You just don't stop with your character assasination of the God of the
   > Bible do you?  This is your goal, your mission in life... to say it
   > over and over and over and over and over again.
    
   > You think are "thought provoking",  but most of the time you are just
   > provoking.
    
    >Oxymoronic is a paradoxical statement such as, "cold hot".
    
   > You have more conclusions than you are readily admitting.  This whole
   > q & a is a farce, a venue for you to repeat yourself over and over and
   > over and over again.
    
   > This is what *I* think.
    
    The question for me is what really are my objectives in the string
    Women in the Bible.
    
    Yes I do like take an uncommon perspective of an issue and arguing it. 
    The devil's advocate position.  I will not take a devil's advocate 
    position unless I find merit to the position.
    
    Yes, I do have a deep rooted attachment to the Unitarian Universalist
    perspective.  To the Religious Liberal Perspective.  It is my Faith and
    I define myself by my Faith.
    
    Yes, I do take a consistent Feminist position.  The feminist position
    is the source of many of my assumptions and influences my views on
    other issues.  Because of my feeling that men are treated as normative
    and women are treated as other, I relate these feelings to other kinds
    of oppressions such as the oppressions of Gay and Lesbians, and Racial, 
    Ethnic, and Class Oppressions.
    
    All of my assumptions are stated up front.
    
    Now why have I invested perhaps 80 hours over the last month reading
    the prophets and noting about some of my perspectives.  Why am I
    commited to read and study the entire old testament in spite of my
    negative reactions to some of the material that is in that book.
    
    1.  To understand from a literary and historic perspective what the
    Bible is all about.
    
    2.  To determine how the Bible informs my own Faith.
    
    3.  To understand how the Bible informs the Faith of others.
    
    4.  To determine whether I as a Feminist can continue to call myself  a
    Christian.  To determine whether I want to.
    
    5.  To understand the fundementalist personality.
    
    6.  To defend myself and my world view from any real, reactionary threat
    based on anti women and other negative  material in the Bible.
    
    
    I have done my best to state all my assumptions and to answer all real
    questions to me as honestly as I can.
    
    Before I posed the question on Jezebel, I had not read the material in
    Kings for at least 2 years.  As a result of the discussion, I reread
    that material.  I read and enjoyed Isaac Asinov's interpretation as
    posted in here.  I read the Encyclopedia write up on Jezebel and I read
    my woman's Bible commentary on those passages of Kings.
    
    Nancy, it is quite a set of assumptions on your part to assume that my 
    questions were a farce.  In spite of your accusations I have enjoyed
    much of this interchange and have learned a lot from it.  I have
    learned enough to feel the time spent was worthwhile.
    
    I can appreciate and respect some elements of Jezebel's personality
    without condoning everything she did.  I like strong women and I like
    seeing strong women identified in historic records and in the Bible.  I
    like reading behind the obvious to discover new things.  I know Jezebel
    a lot better today than I did a month ago?  If a few of  us now know a
    little more about Zezebel and about feminist interpretation of the
    scriptures than the discussion in  my opinion has been worthwhile.
    
                                    Patricia
    
    
9.1447JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jul 27 1994 17:448
    I'm glad it was personally satisfying for you.  Unfortunately I cannot
    tell you the same.  Your noting from the "devil's advocate" only allows
    me to see you as an antagonist.  It does not show any sincerity in a
    serach for truth, but more in search of what you can find to prove your
    way of thinking is better.
    
    Based on your previous note... I'd say this view is rather correct.
    
9.1448WYSIWYG ?DNEAST::DALELIO_HENRWed Jul 27 1994 17:5121
  Patricia,

  Ok lets accept the fact that Israel is likened to an unfaithful wife
  with Jehovah being the betrayed. The fact is that Israel and Judah
  were both taken away into captivity, suffering a great deal of persecution
  and destruction. However the prophets were speaking prophetically (did you
  lose sight of that fact?) warning Israel and Judah of their impending doom.
  They chose to ignore these warnings and the allegories came to pass. 
  He chose to use *meaningful and contemporeous* allegories to warn them of
  their soon-to-be demise. So what? 

  Your complaint about the bible portrayal of women as being negative losses
  somewhat of its sincerity and impact, as I remember you pointing out 
  (and rightfully so) that Wisdom is personafied as a woman in the Book of 
  Proverbs. The allegories, types and word pictures of the Bible are rich
  and varied. We all (thumpers included) need to look at the deeper message 
  and not use the the surface message to promote an agenda.

  Hank D
  
9.1449BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Jul 27 1994 18:2221


	Nancy, did you read Patricia's entire note or did you stop at the
devil's advocate part? I think if maybe you read the entire note you would have
realized just where Patricia is coming from. Like she said, she has been very
honest and upfront. 

	Oh, the accusations you made towards her were pretty funny as well. She
told you what she meant, but now you are telling her what she meant. She bases
herself on her faith, you say she really is an antagonist. As the U2 song goes:

	Have you come here to play Jesus, to the lepers in your head!!??


	In other words, you seem to know what the reasons Patricia has for her
beliefs even though she is telling you differently. 



Glen
9.1450POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienWed Jul 27 1994 18:2512
    Hank,
    
    I have only read small portions of the Wisdom literature.  Some feel
    that it is the most conducive to the feminist perspective.  I am eager
    to get on with my study.  I started reading Job last night.
    
    Based on Genesis, The prophets, and the Historic books which I remember
    from two years ago,  I find overwhelming evidence that the OT is
    unfriendly to women.  Perhaps I will change my mind after reading the
    Wisdom books.  I promise to let you know.
    
                                      Patricia
9.1451You reject the whole concept of punishment for wrongCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Jul 27 1994 21:256
Patricia,

What you seem to reject is the concept that there is a penalty for wrong
behaviour.

/john
9.1452JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jul 28 1994 01:2113
    At 11:30 A.M. today, I as in a car accident.  I hit a car turnin front
    of me.  I was going around 30 mph.  I found out today I have no car
    insurance.  My van is going to require at least a minimum of $3000.00
    to fix.  The van currently is not drivable.  I do not have the money to
    fix it.
    
    My body is in shock, my neck, back and shoulders are as well.  My knees
    are bruised.. but by a miracle of God, my chest and ribs are unharmed
    as though something was between me and the steering wheel that is bent
    forward.  
    
    Nancy
    
9.1453CSC32::J_CHRISTIEAccept no substitutes!Thu Jul 28 1994 02:028
    Nancy,
    
    	I'm glad you were not injured any worse.  It sounds like it
    could have been very serious.  Was anyone else injured?  Other
    than prayer, is there a way we can help you?
    
    Richard
    
9.1454JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jul 28 1994 03:4315
    Richard,
    
    Pray... pray that the guy I hit doesn't sue me.  Pray that through a
    miracle of God I find the money to repair my van...  The van itself is
    worth about $13,000 and its paid for.
    
    If it cost $3K to repair, I think it's worth it...  I called asking if
    anyone would take a payment plan for fixing the van... and of course
    the answer is No.  So that's a matter of prayer.
    
    Perhaps God will send someone who can loan me the money who doesn't
    need it back very quickly.  I can't afford much, but I can afford to
    pay about $200 per month... it'll be tough, but I think I can manage.
    
    Nancy
9.1455BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Jul 28 1994 11:559

	Nancy, I'm sorry to hear about your news. I do hope that things fall
into place for you. You'll be in my prayers.

	Does California allow cars to not have insurance?


Glen
9.1456prayingTFH::KIRKa simple songThu Jul 28 1994 12:327
Nancy,

I'm praying for you.

Peace,

Jim
9.1457COMET::DYBENMon Aug 01 1994 15:489
    
    
    ..pray for me please, I am stuck in Schewsbury(sp) Mass for several
    weeks and these liberals are killing me :-) :-)
    
    
    lord it is humid here,
    
    David
9.1458POWDML::FLANAGANResident AlienMon Aug 01 1994 19:3910
    David,
    
    I am praying for you.
    
    Hoping you might go back home thoroughly convinced of the liberal
    position.
    
    That may be quite a challenge for the liberals in SHR.
    
    Patricia
9.1459COMET::DYBENTue Aug 02 1994 10:499
    
    
    >that might quite a challenge for the liberals in SHR
    
    
    ...just the price of a frontal labotamy :-)
    
    
    David  
9.1460welcome to New England!TFH::KIRKa simple songTue Aug 02 1994 12:4416
re: Note 9.1457 by David

David,

Are you free for lunch?  Thursday this week, any day except Friday next week 
are open for me.  dtn 237-3269 / SHR1-3/B9, look for the pink flamingos.

Peace,

Jim (one of those Shrewsbury liberals, and I won't even try to convert you .-)
    
>    lord it is humid here,

Yeah, but you should be here when it's HOT!  .-)
    
p.s.  Can we arrange a CP dinner in honor of David?
9.1461COMET::DYBENTue Aug 02 1994 13:5610
    
    Yes.
    
    
    > can we arrange  a c-p dinner
    
     Oh no need to fuss over me :-)
    
    
    David
9.1462BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Aug 02 1994 14:024


	That would be cool! 
9.1463COMET::DYBENTue Aug 02 1994 16:389
    
    
    I can do the lunch but would prefer to hold off on the cp dinner. 
    
    Jim,
      Thursday for lunch in the cafeteria 11:30 a.m.? I will stop by your
    office beforehand and meet with you.
    
 David
9.1464Thursday it isTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Aug 02 1994 16:547
re: Note 9.1463 by David

I'll be waiting for you Thursday.

Peace,

Jim    
9.1465AIMHI::JMARTINTue Aug 02 1994 17:125
    Actually, 
    
    I wish we could all do lunch...I'd like to meet you all.
    I told Patricia if I ever get down to the Mill I am going to look her
    up!
9.1466[string moved from 938.134 and following]CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Fri Aug 19 1994 18:071
    	What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.
9.1467BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Aug 19 1994 18:1910
| <<< Note 938.134 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>


| What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.


	Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile you seem so nice. Why do you
come in here and spew off the venom that this note of yours projects? Are you
one of those chameleons? I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
Christian.....
9.1468CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Fri Aug 19 1994 18:3522
>	Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile 
    
    	This isn't "another Christian notesfile".  You only delude 
    	yourself when you pretend to believe it.  Oh, it may have
    	the word "Christian" in the name, but anyone can call
    	himself Christian.
    
    	This conference's welcoming banner "Prostitutes and tax
    	collectors welcome" has much more meaning that you might
    	think.  It is one thing to know you are a sinner and to
    	then seek forgiveness.  It is another to revel in that
    	sinfulness.
    
>I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
>Christian.....
    
    	And are Christians barred from expressing their opinions?
    
    	Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
    
    	This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher
    	demeanor.  Deal with it.
9.1469GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerFri Aug 19 1994 19:258
Re: .136 Joe

>    	This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher
>    	demeanor.  Deal with it.

The "Next" command works quite well...

				-- Bob
9.1470This note SET HIDDEN in the "real" Christian conferenceCSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Fri Aug 19 1994 19:548
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CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Luke 1.78-79"                      2 lines  19-AUG-1994 15:46
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    What a pathetic topic for an equally pathetic conference.
    
9.1471CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Fri Aug 19 1994 20:114
    	Well maybe it wouldn't be set hidden if you placed it is a 
    	truly pathetic conference.
    
    	Thus mine remains unhidden.
9.1472LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Aug 19 1994 20:277
re Note 938.138 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

>     What a pathetic topic for an equally pathetic conference.
  
        They don't want you reveling in your pathos!

        Bob
9.1473JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 19 1994 21:1418
Note 938.134       Abraham & Sarah : Sexual Morality in the OT        134 of 134
    Joe,
    
    While I agree with you and have gone round and round in this conference
    over the use of the term Christian to include things which have nothing
    to do with Christ, I have to admit I am aghast at your expression here.
    
    Richard,
    
    Why would you come over to the CHRISTIAN notes conference and put such
    a thing when your grievance is with a single individual?
    
    Joe is not a moderator of the conference, is there some misperception
    about this?
    
    Nancy
    
    
9.1474Avoid the near occasion of sin...CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Fri Aug 19 1994 21:354
    	re .1469
    
    	Actually the DELETE ENTRY command would be more useful.  I'll
    	probably do that sooner than later.  
9.1475CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Fri Aug 19 1994 22:192
    Such an articulate defense.  Jesus and Paul Wicker would be proud.
    
9.1476CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Fri Aug 19 1994 22:355
    	Frankly I think they would.
    
    	And am I suppose to be impressed that you know who my pastor
    	is?  I think you know, then, that he would be embarrassed for
    	you if he saw what you write in here.
9.1477JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 19 1994 22:462
    Care to answer my note, Richard?
    
9.1478TFH::KIRKa simple songSat Aug 20 1994 00:239
re: Note 9.1466 by Joe "decolores!" 

>    	What a pathetic topic in an equally pathetic conference.

I love you, Joe.

Peace,

Jim
9.1479See new topic 960CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Sat Aug 20 1994 19:337
    9.1476
    
    I really don't care whether you're impressed or not.  And, as you
    probably already realize, I question the veracity of your conclusion.
    
    Please, do continue your persecution.
    
9.1480A postscript to 9.1479CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Sun Aug 21 1994 21:328
Incidentally, I do not place the names Jesus and Paul Wicker in close
proximity casually.

I look up to Paul Wicker as a deeply spiritual human being and think
of him as one of Christ's more faithful servants.

No, I'm not saying this to impress anyone.

9.1481?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Mon Aug 22 1994 11:059
re Note 9.1480 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

> Incidentally, I do not place the names Jesus and Paul Wicker in close
> proximity casually.
> 
> I look up to Paul Wicker as a deeply spiritual human being and think
> of him as one of Christ's more faithful servants.
  
        Who is Paul Wicker?
9.1482BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 22 1994 15:2843
| <<< Note 9.1468 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>

| >	Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile

| This isn't "another Christian notesfile".  You only delude yourself when you 
| pretend to believe it.  Oh, it may have the word "Christian" in the name, but 
| anyone can call himself Christian.

	Ahhhh..... so that means because you believe it is not a real Christian
notesfile, then you believe it is ok to rip people apart. Now I get it. Sounds
like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one way,
towards anyone else you act another. Do I have this right Joe? If not, then
please explain how you SEEM to have a double standard when it comes to treating
people.

| This conference's welcoming banner "Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome" 
| has much more meaning that you might think.  

	I think what might be happening is you have projected your own thoughts
into the meaning. Tell us what you believe it means, and I'm sure that the
person who origionally wrote it will explain it to you. Why do I get the
feeling we're gonna see two different definitions....

| >I mean, you're like this in SOAPBOX too. Such a loving
| >Christian.....

| And are Christians barred from expressing their opinions?

	In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending 
and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....

| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.

	Huh?

| This conference is as degenerate as soapbox and requires a tougher demeanor.  
| Deal with it.

	The Word according to Joe......can't deal with it my friend...


Glen

9.1483AIMHI::JMARTINMon Aug 22 1994 15:3814
    There is quite a distinction between acting Christian and being
    Christian.
    
    Christian- (My own definition) - One who has surrendered their life to
    Jesus Christ.  One who acknowledges that we are eternally separated from
    The Loving Holy God without accepting Christ' death and resurrection as
    an atoning sacrifice and payment for sin.
    
    If you do not believe this, then in my mind, one has a religious
    perspective.  There is nothing wrong with this but the word Christian
    as a noun is different from using "Christian" as an adjective.  I know
    athiests who act Christian.  
    
    -Jack
9.1484BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 22 1994 16:0210


	But Jack, there will be those who would consider you a non-Christian by
your definition. Why? Because you did not include they have to believe the
Bible is the inerrant Word of God. It seems to be more than just a faith thing
for some.


Glen
9.1485CSC32::J_OPPELTdecolores!Mon Aug 22 1994 16:3033
    	.1482
    
>| >	Gee Joe, in the other Christian notesfile
>
>| This isn't "another Christian notesfile".  
>
>	Ahhhh..... so that means because you believe it is not a real Christian
>notesfile, then you believe it is ok to rip people apart. Now I get it.
    
    	My initial reply that precipitated this particular discssuion (now
    	posted in .1466 and elsewhere) was not intended to "rip apart" any
    	particular individual, but the conference itself.  Appropriate,
    	wouldn't you say, for a confernce by its design exists to rip
    	apart real Christianity.
    
>like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one way,
    
    	This conference reaps what it sows.  By its very nature it is
    	confrontational.  So confrontation you get.  You chide me to
    	"act Christian".  What is that really?  Are you looking for me 
    	to be silent and meek in the face of your attacks on my religion?
    	Is that "acting" Christian to you?
    
>	In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending 
>and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....
    
    	You first.

>| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
>
>	Huh?
    
    	That you don't understand this says a lot.
9.1486AIMHI::JMARTINMon Aug 22 1994 16:3311
    Well then, while we're at it...how about Baptism, the need to attend
    church, communion.  The prophets foretold the coming of the Messiah,
    this is the pivotal point of the salvation message.  
    
    If there is disagreement then it is worthy of discussion.  The
    inerrancy issue has been discussed in the past.  I see it as the Word
    of God, you see it as a book.  The old...Your Truth..My Truth illogic.
    If I rely completely in it with confidence, then you as believing it
    only a book must rely on it with somewhat a lack of confidence.
    
    -Jack
9.1487BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 22 1994 18:4840
| <<< Note 9.1485 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "decolores!" >>>



| >like in front of those who you perceive to be real Christians you act one 
| way,

| This conference reaps what it sows.  By its very nature it is confrontational.  
| So confrontation you get.  

	Let's see, you entered lashing out. That's a heck of a hello.

| You chide me to "act Christian".  What is that really?  Are you looking for me
| to be silent and meek in the face of your attacks on my religion? Is that 
| "acting" Christian to you?

	Nope. You can have your beliefs, you can speak out when you believe
others have twisted what you believe to be the truth. It's the condensending
manner that you have chosen to do it. That is what would be great to see
changed. Do you feel it is impossible to get God's message out without being in
attack mode, without having a hateful tone? 

| >	In a nondemeaning manner would be helpful. Stop being so condensending
| >and people might actually see that your heart is filled with love.....

| You first.

	wow.... this was origional....

| >| Such tolerance from a person who purports to promote tolerance.
| >
| >	Huh?

| That you don't understand this says a lot.


	So splain it to me.


Glen
9.1488BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 22 1994 18:5116
| <<< Note 9.1486 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>

| Well then, while we're at it...how about Baptism, the need to attend
| church, communion.  The prophets foretold the coming of the Messiah,
| this is the pivotal point of the salvation message.

	Exactly Joe. I am not trying to turn this into your belif vs my belief,
you believe the Bible to be the Word of God, I do not. What I was pointing out
was you did not include tat in your definition of Christianity. Because of that
many could think you don't quite have the whole picture. But does that make you
any less a Christian to God if you do not believe everything another Christian
does?



Glen
9.1489AIMHI::JMARTINMon Aug 22 1994 19:107
    Certainly not.  I am just amazed at how you put your faith in something
    you don't believe to be of authority.  In your mind then, how do you
    separate the Bible from the Book of Mormon as an example?  They are 
    both religious books yet you choose the doctrine of the bible over the
    doctrine of the BoM.
    
    -Jack
9.1490CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Mon Aug 22 1994 19:4613
Note 9.1481  Bob,

>        Who is Paul Wicker?

Father Paul Wicker is or was at one time the pastor at Holy Apostles
(Roman) Catholic Church in Colorado Springs.  He is or was at one time
connected with the pastoral care staff at Penrose Hospital.

But seeing how I'm so painfully wrong and so sinfully wayward in so many
ways, according to at least one of his parishoners, I'm probably going to
wet my pants when it finally dawns on me how wrong I am about Paul Wicker,
too!

9.1491BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 22 1994 19:5315
| <<< Note 9.1489 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>



| Certainly not.  I am just amazed at how you put your faith in something you 
| don't believe to be of authority. 

	I don't put my faith in the Bible. I have stated many times that I put
my faith in God Himself. That He will lead me where He believes I should be. I
do think that He does use the Bible, but he could also use a theif as well. It
is a guide to me, not something I would put my faith in.



Glen
9.1492LEDS::LOPEZA River.. proceeding!Tue Aug 23 1994 17:0613

	Not sure what all the fuss is about. Joe is expressing himself with
conviction as do many others who frequent this conference. That he is making
assertions about the conference itself is no less valuable than the thousands of
other topics discussed here. Maybe it's more valuable. Based on the reaction
toward Joe, I'm inclined to believe he may be on to something. It seems to me
that there is a fair amount of denial going on here. 

	I find Joe's perspective refreshing. Perhaps we could learn something
about ourselves if we are willing.

ace   
9.1493CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 17:3720
    Ace,
    
    	Hello!  Good to see you, as usual.
    
        How would it be if I were to enter a meeting where you were present
    and, without even introducing myself, to "take a dump?"  How would it
    be if I told you that you were under the influence of Satan and that
    someday you'll wet your pants when you realize the Truth (which,
    incidentally, I already possess)?
    
        Perhaps it would be okay with you.  I don't know.  I do know that
    when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
    gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
    
        I find it more than a little queer that you should define such a
    perspective as "refreshing".
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1494JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 17:405
    >      Perhaps it would be okay with you.  I don't know.  I do know that
    >    when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
    >    gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
    
    How is Joe Oppelt = to the CHRISTIAN notes conference?
9.1495JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 17:4416
    Whoever ran those statistics about particpation in this conference,
    should do a check on Joe Oppelts particpation over the last 6 months!
    
    Richard, this is exactly the reason why I wrote the note I did to you,
    which you so eloquently side-step.
    
    Deal with the root problem man, not the symptoms!
    
    Joe is no way represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference.  How you can
    equate the two is merely a reflection of your emotional dilusion about
    the two conferences still being at odds with one another.
    
    Get into 1994 and put the past behind you!  There's barely a remnant of
    particpants that even existed back then!  
    
    
9.1496CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Tue Aug 23 1994 17:4815
RE:             <<< Note 9.1493 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Luke 1.78-79" >>>

       
   >     Perhaps it would be okay with you.  I don't know.  I do know that
   > when a little sauce applied to the goose was then applied to the
   > gander, it was SET HIDDEN unapologetically and without excuse.
    
    
    The author was notified.  Conference policy also describes the process
    of hiding notes.




    Jim
9.1497CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 17:5318
    .1494
    
    Nancy, (sigh),
    
    	Joe Oppelt does not = CHRISTIAN.
    
    	Neither do I = CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
    
    	You've heard this same message echoed here, yet you still do not hear
    it.  Methinks perhaps you're a little too attached to that other conference.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
    PS  I already know you'll reply to this, perhaps with some of your
    typically insightful analysis of me and/or the human condition.
    Please understand, I do not promise to respond any further.
    
9.1498I never said I wasn't notifiedCSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 17:5729
.1496 I can certainly verify that!

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    What a pathetic topic for an equally pathetic conference.
    

9.1499CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Tue Aug 23 1994 18:028

 Thank you.





9.1500AIMHI::JMARTINTue Aug 23 1994 18:0727
    Richard:
    
    Greetings from the Northeast.  Maybe it might be best instead of
    allowing anger in your heart (that is if you have it), to just bring it
    out and say it. 
    ---------------------------------------------------------------------
    This was the response to the set hidden question.
    
   >>  RE:     what's with all the 'set hidden' replies....?
    
   >>  Oh, I caught one before "set hidden"... there was some incredibly nice
   >>  employee who valued our christian difference so much she/he had to take
   >>  the opportunity to express his/her feelings and opinions here in the
   >>  christian conference. I just know the Lord loves that person as much 
   >>  as everyone else...
    
    I read some of the Chit Chat a few replies before and a few replies
    after.  Apparently the noter above who carried the dialog at the time
    was completely thrown off guard by your message that was set hidden. 
    The discussion was on political party distinctives.  
       
    So our fellow co-laborers can better understand, what was the
    provocation?
    
    Rgds.,
    
    -Jack
9.1501AIMHI::JMARTINTue Aug 23 1994 18:102
    Sorry, never mind...Now I see how Joe explained it a few replies later. 
    I'm slow...sorry!!
9.1502BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Aug 23 1994 19:4212
| <<< Note 9.1501 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>



| I'm slow...sorry!!


	Gee Jack... you were always quick to point out things before!!! You
must be slippin... :-)


Glen
9.1503JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 19:4332
>    	Joe Oppelt does not = CHRISTIAN.
    
    Fine, then why on heaven's earth did you post that note in the
    CHRISTIAN notes conference?
    
    
>    	Neither do I = CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.
    
    Then why did you start that last note?
    
    >    	You've heard this same message echoed here, yet you still do not hear
>    it.  Methinks perhaps you're a little too attached to that other conference.
    
    I've heard only Glen Silva state this... others have indicated that you
    have kept it alive.  This doesn't negate my belief.
    
        
>    PS  I already know you'll reply to this, perhaps with some of your
>    typically insightful analysis of me and/or the human condition.
>    Please understand, I do not promise to respond any further.
    
    Why wouldn't you get into some meaningful dialogue?  Instead of arguing
    over the statement, why not understand the pain behind the statement?
    
    You don't like insightful?  Why not?  I see you as very insightful and
    on occasion I have enjoyed your wit and pov.  
    
    Let's neither of us be hypocritical here Richard.  I want to get over
    this US vs THEM syndrome that appears to be perpetuated by you.
    
    
    
9.1504Check out the topics RJC started in CHRISTIANJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 19:448
    It didn't take a rocket scientist to understand why the note in
    chit-chat was deleted.
    
    BTW, out of the two notes that I started in this conference, can anyone
    tell me which of them were sarcastic or antagonistic to this
    conference?
    
    
9.1505JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 19:5710
>    I am skeptical of any who would limited discussion.  I wonder how this
>    question would be handled in the other conference.
    
    
    We've had a whole lot more controversial subjects than this one in the
    conference.  The difference would have been the number of responses
    from Bible believing Christians, thats all.
    
    Why do you ask Patricia?  Do you wish to also perpetuate a wedge that
    need not exist?
9.1508CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 20:1512
    .1503 & .1504
    
    	You've missed the point again, Nancy.  And, realizing the
    limits of my ability to communicate with you, I have decided not
    to pursue it with you any further.
    
    	You wish I would see the light.  And I wish you would see the
    light.  I will pray that God will bring about one or the other, or both.
    
    Shalom in Jesus,
    Richard
    
9.1509CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 20:1610
    .1501
    
    Jack,
    
    	It takes great strength of character to admit error.  You'll
    never see me ding you for it or praising anyone who does.
    
    Your brother in Christ,
    Richard
    
9.1510JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 20:2712
    >Fine, then why on heaven's earth did you post that note in the
    >    CHRISTIAN notes conference?
     
    What point have I missed.  I've asked direct questions and received one
    answer.  The question above continues that discussion.
    
    Why would you not continue?  What have you to hide.  Answer the
    question, Richard and lets put to rest this ridiculous fude [sp].
    
    Please...
    
    Nancy
9.1511Wake-up Call...LEDS::LOPEZA River.. proceeding!Tue Aug 23 1994 21:0915
re .1493

	Hi Richard,

	I know there is a lot of history between conferences. And there have
been a lot of personal attacks. I don't think focusing on those matters is
beneficial to anyone. 

	Joe's perspective was refreshing in the sense of a wake-up call. 8*)

	We all need that.

regards,
ace
9.1512JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 21:1010
    Richard wrote me offline and said  "No thanks" to my attempt at coming
    to an understanding...
    
    I, for one, would like to see this childish rivalry end.  I'm weary of
    battles from long ago, in which I did not participate.
    
    My feeling is let it go and move on.... 
    
    I hope Richard you can do this.
    
9.1513my 2 scentsTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Aug 23 1994 21:1114
re: Note 9.1510 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    What point have I missed.  I've asked direct questions and received one
>    answer.  The question above continues that discussion.

My guess is that while such a note was entered here and was not set hidden and 
was discussed (well, some of us tried to discuss it), it was set hidden in 
Yukon::Christian.  If it doesn't take a rocket scientist to understand why it 
was hidden there, it doesn't take one to understand why it was NOT deleted 
here.  Hope that helps...
    
Peace,

Jim
9.1514JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 21:1413
    Jim,
    
    My question is "why was it entered there?"
    
    What was the purpose, intent, motivation?
    
    My question is what equated JOE to Christian notes conference?  I was
    told that he wasn't equal to.. my next logical question is then why was
    that note entered into Christian?
    
    I appreciate your attempt at answering the question, but I don't think
    you understand the question in its entirety.
    
9.1515CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 21:306
    .1513  Thanks, Jim.  I'm certain any attempt by me would not have
    come out so well.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1516more dialogueTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Aug 23 1994 21:3732
re; Note 9.1514 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"

>    My question is "why was it entered there?"

My guess is that Richard was using it to point out one of the differences 
between the two files.  It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than 
C-P.  My guess is that Richard used the wording of Joe's note to vividly point
that out, knowing that such a statement would not be tolerated there.
    
What equates Joe with Yukon::Christian?  My guess is that he seemed 
representative of many Yukon::Christian noters.  (I'm not saying I agree with 
that.  From what I've seen, I think Joe is on the right hand fringe of the
folks in that conference.)  There were several notes in the beginning days of
this conference by more "conservative" Christians asking that more ground
rules be spelt out.  My memory is that some people wanted a literal view of
the Bible to be a cornerstone.  These ground rules were intentionally left
blank.  

I view Richard as a very bold Christian, ready to enter a challenge face to
face, one might even say "in your face".  I think he wanted to point out one
of the differences between these two conferences. 
    
>    I appreciate your attempt at answering the question, but I don't think
>    you understand the question in its entirety.
    
I hope this helps.  If not, ask more questions till we come to an 
understanding of what happened over the last few days.

Peace,

Jim
9.1517POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amTue Aug 23 1994 21:4020
    Nancy, 
    
    The wedge exists.  The wedge is perpetuated by every response that
    instead of addressing the issue raised addresses the motivation for
    asking the question, makes values judgements regarding the question and
    the conference, complains that the question is an attack upon the Bible
    etc.
    
    I have been dissappointed in this conference in expecting to find a
    kind of electronic spiritual community to find instead an arena where
    people instead of being encouraged and pushed and positively challenged
    in there journeys are instead condemned and  disparaged for their
    journeys whether the questions involved theological issues, ethical
    issues, or spiritual issues.
    
    I guess I do in a way feel badly that the liberal position of valuing
    everyone right to free speech, means that the liberal must support the
    right of free speech of someone who comes in here only to disrupt the
    meeting so to speak.  
    
9.1518He's accountable for his actions, not youJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 21:416
    Why should you guess?  Why can't Richard answer this?  You are enabling 
    his behavior by covering up for him.  
    
    Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)
    
    
9.1519didn't know the question was just for RichardTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Aug 23 1994 21:4718
re:  Note 9.1518 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>                 -< He's accountable for his actions, not you >-

This is true.

>    Why should you guess?  Why can't Richard answer this?  You are enabling 
>    his behavior by covering up for him.  

see 9.1515  .-)
    
>    Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)
    
.-)    

Peace,

Jim
9.1520POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amTue Aug 23 1994 21:5718
    Nancy,
    
    There is a difference between co-dependence and support.  Each of us
    must  examine only our own hearts and motivations to know whether our
    behavoir is supportive which is positive or  codependent which is
    harmful to ourselves and others.
    
    I stand here in support of Richard, and Jim, and Bob, and Glen and many
    others. They
    are each in here struggling for intellectual and spiritual principles
    which they hold dear.  No one likes to come under attack.  Richards tactics
    of going into the Christian Notes file are direct.  In a way they are
    similiar to him entering the Air Base.  I deeply support Richard's right
    to use his own conscience to judge the extent of direct challenge he applies
    to abusive structures.  I deeply support Jim's right to support a friend
    being challenged.
    
    
9.1522JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 21:5938
    Patricia,
    
    I've been disappointed much in my lifetime.  I am not bitter, nor do I
    disappoint others as way of "getting even". :-)  [And I'm not
    suggesting you do]
    
    But disappointment will abound in life, we have expectations and many
    of them are "pipe dreams", this will lend to much disappointment.  Then
    there are those expectations that are reasonable, and when they are
    unfulfilled can lead to anger.
    
    I'm sorry you find disappointment in the lack of "spiritual energy"
    in this conference, but there can be no less when there is no unity. 
    You call yourself "Unitarian", however, are you unified with me?  Are
    we one in Spirit?  I don't think so, do you?  It's this diversity
    because we worship totally different Gods that lends to alienable
    feelings.
    
    In CHRISTIAN, whether we be of one CHRISTIAN faith or another, i.e.,
    "Evangelistic, Baptist, Catholic, Nazarene, etc., we are unified by the
    common belief in Jehovah and the Word of God.
    
    Yes, we are desparaging in our beliefs on the Word, but we are unified
    that is the Word.  Chit-chat has been criticized in here as being
    fruitless.  I beg to differ.  It's a place away from our "differences"
    where we can unify in our "likenesses" as workers, parents, husbands
    and wives, and Christians.
    
    I see no wedge between here and there... I really don't.  I see room in
    this company for both conferences.  I have no need to destroy or trash
    this place.  And I certainly have no desire to trash RJC.  But I do
    call for a higher standard in him coming to terms with the co-existence of 
    CHRISTIAN. I think it's imperative to closing this issue with RJC.
    
    Nancy
    
    
    
9.1524TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsTue Aug 23 1994 22:019
re: .1516 TFH::KIRK "a simple song"

>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than 
>C-P. 

Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
not even be permitted to post.

9.1525CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 23 1994 22:029
    .1518  Nancy,
    
    	It is because of that kind of response that I know that you
    will not hear anything I might say.  Label it what you will (and I
    know you will).  I know my limits, at least concerning our abilities
    to communicate.
    
    Richard
    
9.1526JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 22:1610
    .1521
    
    Your running away from confrontation.  I'm surprised.  You are a very
    confrontational person by nature... but your shrinking from my
    confrontation, why?
    
    No-one should speak for you.  It was your action, not Jim's or anyone
    elses.
    
    Why is it in 1994, accountability is such an issue?
9.1527Sorry if you don't like my logic, but its hereJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Aug 23 1994 22:4114
    .1515
    
    Jim,
    
    This is merely RJC wiping hand off brow, going "Whew" you fixed my
    dilemma.
    
    It's not adequate.  Your postulation should have never been entered to
    give RJC a way out of being accountable for his action.
    
    When we care about someone we tend to do this for them... but it's not
    healthy and it undermines growth.
    
    
9.1528CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Wed Aug 24 1994 02:5013
    .1526 & .1527
    
    I saw both of those coming.
    
    I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
    Reject it as you see fit.
    
    I already know where it will lead and I will have nothing to do with
    it.  Accuse, poke, fish and falsify all you like.  (And then assert that
    your real purpose is to overcome an adversarial mentality.)  You might as
    well bay at the moon.  The moon will pay no attention and will continue
    to reflect the light it receives.
    
9.1529CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 02:5250

 Re .1524


>>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than 
>>C-P. 

>Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
>not even be permitted to post.


 Have you ever read the ASKENET Conference?  There are groundrules posted in
 there which state the purpose of the conference.  Among other things, there
 is a statement that it is not a conference where one should ask about the
 whereabouts of another conference.  Notes are (or were when I frequented 
 that conference) nonetheless entered asking about the whereabouts of this 
 of that conference and they are met with a message to read the guidelines,
 and once in a while someone comes along to challenge such an intollerant
 policy.

 Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point.  It states in the 
 guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
 and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
 Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
 the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
 premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
 purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.  Do you argue with 
 the moderators of the ASKENET conference about their stated premise..do
 you go  into other conferences and complain about the intollerant bigoted
 moderators who won't entertain questions that are clearly mentioned as
 not meant for that conference?  I would guess not.  Then why harrangue
 the CHRISTIAN conference for doing essentially the same thing?  

 Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
 conference guidelines, do you even care?  Do you blast the baseball conference
 for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?  Do you blast the book
 conference for not allowing talk about how to fix a leaky faucet?  

 If you don't agree with the premise of the conference that's fine..we are
 there because we DO.



 Jim who is typing this while valiantly trying to keep his cat from walking
 on the keyboard.



9.1530CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Wed Aug 24 1994 04:415
    .1529  A cat?  I *love* cats!  Wish we could have one.  Allergies,
    you know.
    
    Richard
    
9.1531I'm very surprised at you RichardJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 05:0032
>    I saw both of those coming.
    
    See I knew you were perceptive.
      
>    I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
>    Reject it as you see fit.
    
    You've explained nothing other than not being willing face
    confrontation, period.
    
>    I already know where it will lead and I will have nothing to do with
>    it.  Accuse, poke, fish and falsify all you like.  (And then assert that
    
    You know more than I at this point than.  I have no idea where it will
    lead, however, my hope is to stop this Us vs. Them theme that runs so
    cold in your bones.
    
>    your real purpose is to overcome an adversarial mentality.)  You might as
    
    Amen!  You got that right.  That is our job to be overcomers, right? 
    You are an overcomer, I've learned that much about you.  Why not
    overcome this adversarial mentality?  I don't have to prove it's there,
    it's not a false observation, it's real. 
    
    >    well bay at the moon.  The moon will pay no attention and will continue
>    to reflect the light it receives.
    
    If the reflection includes further rivalry towards the CHRISTIAN notes
    conference, then it is not light you are reflecting, but a grudge. A
    grudge that has no pall bearers at this time, but should.  
    
    
9.1532a multilogueTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Aug 24 1994 14:0022
re: several notes entered by Nancy

Nancy, your entry .1510 was addressed to Richard, I volunteered some verbiage 
I thought might be helpful.

Your entry .1514 was addressed to me.  I answered it.

I don't see where Richard went "'Whew' you fixed my dilemma".

It is very common in notes for others to enter their views on the discussion 
of others.  I take exception to your position that my note should never have 
been entered.  Yes, I care about Richard, and I care about you, that is why I 
entered into the conversation.  You may look at it as letting Richard off the 
hook, I look at it as conversation, mediation.  Perhaps you can look at it as 
"couple's counselling".

I stand by what I write as my perspective in a topic that interests me.  You 
may accept it or not, Richard may accept it or not.

Peace,

Jim
9.1533Guidelines for ConfrontationAIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 14:2522
    It's funny but I sit at my terminal and type reply...then I sit for a
    few minutes and ask myself..."How can I communicate this without
    truly offending the other party?  How can I communicate partisanship
    for the betterment of myself and the individual to whom it is
    addressed?  I fail to see how I can do this other than stating two 
    rules I believe everybody can agree on...hopefully.
    
    Rule #1:  When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal, 
    writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then said
    person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all 
    scrutiny and challenge thereof.
    
    Rule #2:  All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
    and completely devoid of ambiguity.  This means no metaphors, no 
    analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
    NO AMBIGUITY.
    
    I think this guideline will help us to better communicate.
    
    In Christ and Faithfully Submitted,
    
    -Jack
9.1534BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:0516
| <<< Note 9.1505 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>

| >    I am skeptical of any who would limited discussion.  I wonder how this
| >    question would be handled in the other conference.


| We've had a whole lot more controversial subjects than this one in the 
| conference. The difference would have been the number of responses from Bible 
| believing Christians, thats all.

	And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
that was completely deleted in there....



Glen
9.1535CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 15:0913
RE:               <<< Note 9.1534 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>


>	And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
>that was completely deleted in there....



Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?



Jim
9.1536BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:0924
| <<< Note 9.1510 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| Why would you not continue?  What have you to hide.  Answer the
| question, Richard and lets put to rest this ridiculous fude [sp].

	Nancy, why do you refuse to answer some of the things I ask you? Now
reread the above question, but this time, put some of that same reasoning into
it. There are many scenerio's that can come from it I'm sure. Four that I can
think of off the top of my head are:

	1) you'll realize that it is ok for Richard to NOT answer the question

	2) you'll realize that YOU should answer all questions asked of you

	3) you'll have a seperate reasoning than the 2 listed

	4) you'll learn absolutely nothing from this

	Guess which one I think it will be....


Glen
9.1537AIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 15:146
    Glen:
    
    There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
    asks themself..."What's the dif".
    
    
9.1538AIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 15:1616
        I am not going to let this get lost in the pile.  Response
    please!!!
    ---------------------------------------------------------------------
    
     	Rule #1:  When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal,
        writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then
        said person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all
        scrutiny and challenge thereof.
    
        Rule #2:  All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
        and completely devoid of ambiguity.  This means no metaphors, no
        analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
        NO AMBIGUITY.
    
        I think this guideline will help us to better communicate.
                                                  
9.1539it's happened beforeTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Aug 24 1994 15:1816
re: Note 9.1535 by Jim "Friend will you be ready?" 

>Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?

Some time ago (before Nancy was a co-moderator) I had entered a note 
concerning the mythological value of Genesis.  I had also explicitely defined 
the meaning of the word "myth" meaning, basically, a story telling of the 
interaction between a deity and mortals.

My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the 
same sentence.  Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how 
the current moderatorship would handle it.

Peace,

Jim
9.1540BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:2544
| <<< Note 9.1522 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| You call yourself "Unitarian", however, are you unified with me?  Are we one 
| in Spirit?  

	Nancy, you probably will not like what I have to say, but I do feel
compelled to say it. There is only one reason why Patricia and you are not
unified at this time. It is you. I have seen Patricia time and time again try
to hold conversations with you, where she has tried again and again to answer
your questions, tried to push away the attacks, and tried very very hard to be
as open as she possibly could be. No one says the two of you have to agree with
each others religious thoughts, beliefs, faiths. But you can't even come to
grips that she, like you, is a Christian. Patricia, on the other hand, while
not agreeing with everything you say, seems to still accept you as being a
Christian. (at least that is what I gathered from her notes) So if there is no
unity, it is because YOU will not allow it. 

| In CHRISTIAN, whether we be of one CHRISTIAN faith or another, i.e.,
| "Evangelistic, Baptist, Catholic, Nazarene, etc., we are unified by the
| common belief in Jehovah and the Word of God.

	How many different interpretations of that book are there in that file
Nancy? Everytime someone has a different belief as to what Scripture means,
major discussions start, but more often than not it leads to either people
saying YOU'RE WRONG or it ends in an argument. Belief in God is what matters
most. Faith in Him is what will save you. He will use many things in your
lifetime to show you this, including the Bible, but even you will agree that
without Faith in Him, you have nothing.

| Yes, we are desparaging in our beliefs on the Word, but we are unified
| that is the Word.  Chit-chat has been criticized in here as being
| fruitless.  I beg to differ.  It's a place away from our "differences"
| where we can unify in our "likenesses" as workers, parents, husbands
| and wives, and Christians.

	Ahhhhh.... I agree with it not being fruitless. There is a lot that
goes on in there. I think you tend to see more of how the people of that file
really are. It's a place where people seem to be themselves, and aren't out
trying to make themselves seem unhuman. 


Glen
9.1541CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 15:2919
RE:                <<< Note 9.1539 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>
                           -< it's happened before >-


>My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the 
>same sentence.  Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how 
>the current moderatorship would handle it.



 A quick glance at the conference guidelines will show you that the Christian
 conference is not a place where the Bible is considered "myth".  We hold the
 Bible to be the inerrant Word of God, and the conference is a place where
 those who share in that belief gather.


Jim

9.1542JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 15:3024
    Jim K.,
    
    BTW, perhaps I misread your attempt at mediating as "answering for",
    after all you did come to some conclusions about Richard's entry. 
    Mediating would remain without conclusions, perhaps???  Well at least I
    think so.
    
    Glen, eat bugs! :-)  The reason you don't get answered every time you
    ask is because it's a round robin of the same debates.  I get weary of
    covering the same ground under new guises.
    
    Now back to Jim K., 
    
    In regards to Genesis having mythological value... :-) :-)  I can see
    where the previous moderatorship would set that hidden.  I, for one,
    would probably lean more towards stating the premise of the conference
    and explaining that there is no mythology in Genesis and therefore, no
    value in discussing something one which the premise cannot be accepted.
    
    Deleting it???  Questionable... each case is different... but it would
    have to be a concensus of all the mods before such an act would take
    place.
    
    Nancy
9.1543BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:3228
| <<< Note 9.1529 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point.  It states in the
| guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
| and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
| Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
| the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
| premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
| purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.  

	Jim, why don't you post the rules as they should be. Only one way of
thinking is allowed. Any other way of thinking will not be tolerated and or
deleted. That is what it comes down to, doesn't it? 

| Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
| conference guidelines, do you even care?  Do you blast the baseball conference
| for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?  

	If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
of being a Christian. See the difference?

	Oh, and to have a one sided view of Christianity kind of makes it cult
like... imho

Glen
9.1544BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:3416
| <<< Note 9.1531 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| >    I've already explained why I won't engage you further on this matter.
| >    Reject it as you see fit.

| You've explained nothing other than not being willing face confrontation, 
| period.

	Psst.... Nancy.... that's how YOU have explained it.... I hope this
helps....



Glen
9.1545POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Aug 24 1994 15:3431
     	Rule #1:  When an individual, man or woman, conservative or liberal,
        writes questionable or controversial statements in a string, then
        said person is accountable by ALL participants and is fair game to all
        scrutiny and challenge thereof.
    
    
    I agree 100%
    
        Rule #2:  All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
        and completely devoid of ambiguity.  This means no metaphors, no
        analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
        NO AMBIGUITY.
    
    I 100% disagre
    
    	1.  Each of us chooses what we answer and don't answer.
    	2.  Succint answers are not always possible.(They also represent a
    	strong Male bias-re. Men are from Mars, Women from Venus)
    	3.devoid of ambiguity-No communication is ever devoid of ambiguity.
    	4. No assumptions-No communications is devoid of assumptions
    	5. No metaphor-Metaphor is a viable form of communication that
    	appeals to the heart and soul and not the rational mind. (another
    	strong Male bias)                                 
    	6. No analougous remarks-Another valid form of communication(And
          another Male bias)
    
    (In identifying Male bias I do recognize that each of us has a male
    and female side of us.  I know this is controversial with both women
    and men, conservative and liberal) 
    
    I too am frustrated by this string but rule number 2 is not the answer.
9.1546JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 15:3421
    .1540
    
    Is that supposed to offend me?????
    
    Glen, eat bugs!
    
    There is no way on earth Patricia and I could spiritually unite!  Her
    God is different than mine, period.
    
    Have you noticed that in the last few months all that you have done is
    attack me?  You've got a burr in your saddle and the intials are NM.
    :-) :-) :-)
    
    I remember our interactions differently, as I believe Patricia would as
    well, she and I have several times come to a place of palatable and
    beneficial dialogue, for which I am most appreciative.
    
    But conflict will exist and unity isn't brought about through manners. 
    It's brought about through the Spirit.  
    
    
9.1547BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:3513
| <<< Note 9.1535 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| >	And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
| >that was completely deleted in there....



| Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?



	The premise was changed and the topic deleted.
9.1548BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:368
| <<< Note 9.1537 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>


| There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
| asks themself..."What's the dif".

	splain please...

9.1549BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:4019
| <<< Note 9.1539 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>



| My notes were set hidden because I used the words "Bible" and "myth" in the
| same sentence.  Of course that was then, this is now, and I do not know how
| the current moderatorship would handle it.


	Jim, to add to that there was a topic in one of the versions of YUKON
that was called, "Why believe the Bible?"  You could talk about many things in
there. Whether the Bible was true, or false. But you know what? Once they 
changed the premise of the conference you had to look at that topic one way
only, as in why SHOULDN'T we believe the Bible, and NOT both that and why
SHOULD we believe the Bible. Again, this was something they changed in
midstream.


Glen
9.1550BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:4217
9.1551BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:4415
| <<< Note 9.1542 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| Glen, eat bugs! :-)  The reason you don't get answered every time you
| ask is because it's a round robin of the same debates.  I get weary of
| covering the same ground under new guises.

	I take it you did not apply your reasoning to why Richard won't answer
you....




Glen
9.1552JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 15:4710
    Richard and I have not gone round robin over the "same" subjects.
    
    Granted we take entirely different points of view [on occasion agree]
    in most topics, but nonetheless, the same logic doesn't apply.
    
    And furthermore, my interaction with Richard doesn't go back 2 years,
    as it does with you. :-) :-)  Crimoney Glen... push that ol' burr off
    yer saddle and git along leetle doggy! :-)
    
    
9.1553BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 15:5643
| <<< Note 9.1546 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| Is that supposed to offend me?????

	It was not meant to offend you, but to possibly help you see the answer
to your question.

| Glen, eat bugs!

	Boy, think of all the protien I'm gonna get from eating all these bugs
Nancy wants me to! 

| There is no way on earth Patricia and I could spiritually unite!  Her God is 
| different than mine, period.

	This is the first time I have seen you use a G when refering to
Patricia's God. Did you slip? :-)  I guess what I don't understand is you say
this, like you have the one and only way God should be known. God has been
known so many different ways and it has always come back to being the same God.
If someone is dieing and calls out for God to save them, and they never read
the Bible, but in their hearts they are calling out, will God save them? You
bet He will. Even though they saw God in a different light than you, is it not
the same God that will save them? 

| Have you noticed that in the last few months all that you have done is
| attack me?  You've got a burr in your saddle and the intials are NM.

	Nancy, I'll be frank with you. Ever since you wrote that note to the
mod ripping apart my character, I decided that from now on I will speak up if I
see you doing this to anyone else. I guess it happens often.....

| I remember our interactions differently, as I believe Patricia would as
| well, she and I have several times come to a place of palatable and
| beneficial dialogue, for which I am most appreciative.

	Dialogue is not the same as you not allowing the two of you to unify. I
specifically said you do not have to agree with each other. I also specifically
said that you not seeing her for what she is, a Christian, is what is keeping
the two of you ununited.


Glen
9.1554ambiguityLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Aug 24 1994 15:5829
re Note 9.1533 by AIMHI::JMARTIN:

>     Rule #2:  All accountability must be answered succinctly, precisely,
>     and completely devoid of ambiguity.  This means no metaphors, no 
>     analogous remarks, definitely no assumptions, and definitely....
>     NO AMBIGUITY.
  
        I would second what I think Patricia said in another string: 
        communication without ambiguity is extremely difficult, and
        may be impossible in practical situations.

        I think we are all familiar with "legalese" -- the
        excessively wordy, clause-filled prose riddled with arcane
        words used in legal contracts (which includes a lot of
        everyday situations such as the back of admission tickets,
        product guarantees, and the like).

        The whole reason for such prose is to be precise -- to avoid
        ambiguity or misunderstanding (in a court of law, not by the
        general public).

        Even such difficult writing, as practiced by those who spend
        years to learn it, is not 100% effective in eliminating
        ambiguity.  After all, many issues in the courtroom stem from
        ambiguities.

        Ambiguity is an unavoidable part of human communication.

        Bob
9.1555BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 16:0118
| <<< Note 9.1552 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| And furthermore, my interaction with Richard doesn't go back 2 years,
| as it does with you. :-) :-)  

	Nancy, it isn't time that is the problem, it's how you interact with
others. You do the same thing with me, Richard, Patricia and Cindy to name a
few.

| Crimoney Glen.. push that ol' burr off yer saddle and git along leetle doggy! :-)

	Kind of funny how you keep saying this to everyone, huh?


Glen


9.1556JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 16:039
    -1
    
    Glen, no it's not funny, it's atypical of human behavior.  Forgiveness
    for perceived wrongs is not readily given by individuals.  We tend to
    cling to the hurt, the wrong whether it is real or not.
    
    Forgiveness and moving on sets you free... grudges do not.
    
    
9.1557CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 16:0761

RE:               <<< Note 9.1543 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>



>| Its similar in the Christian Conference to a point.  It states in the
>| guidelines what the purpose of the conference is, and the intended audience
>| and its premise..the belief that the Bible is the inerrant Word of God, etc..
<| Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
>| the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
>| premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
>| purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.  

>	Jim, why don't you post the rules as they should be. Only one way of
>thinking is allowed. Any other way of thinking will not be tolerated and or
>deleted. That is what it comes down to, doesn't it? 


How you think is of no consequence to me (though I do care about your eternal
soul).  You are free to think as you wish.  However, we in that particular
conference believe a certain way, and that conference is where we share our
beliefs.  So, what it comes down to is..why would anyone who does not hold the
beliefs as described in the conference continue to participate there, when there
is a conference (this one) where one is free as a bird to believe whatever
they wish?  Have you been in the Mormonism conference arguing with them about
their beliefs?  I haven't.  Why?  Because I don't share their beliefs and my
presence their would be antagonistic to the premise of that conference.



>| Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
>| conference guidelines, do you even care?  Do you blast the baseball conference
>| for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?  

>	If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
>about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
>variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
>of being a Christian. See the difference?


OK..how about the Red Sox conference?  That conference is set up for discussion
of the Boston Red Sox..a more specific subset of baseball.  Do you go in there
and start a topic on the San Diego Padres and then argue with the moderators be-
cause you don't believe the Red Sox are the only baseball team that should be
talked about in there?  Do you go into the Baseball conference and complain
about how intollerant the Red Sox conference is because they only allow
conversation related to the Red Sox in there?



>	Oh, and to have a one sided view of Christianity kind of makes it cult
>like... imho



Right..



Jim
9.1558wasn't there then anywayCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 16:0923
RE:               <<< Note 9.1547 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>



>| >	And the number of notes that would be set hidden. I do remember a topic
>| >that was completely deleted in there....



>| Was the topic in line with the premise of the conference?



>	The premise was changed and the topic deleted.



Oh...well, I would have typed "DELETE ENTRY CHRISTIAN" and gone back to
work.



Jim
9.1559CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 16:0925
9.1560AIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 16:3642
>>    | There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
>>    | asks themself..."What's the dif".
    
>>            splain please...
    
    Glen, please take this constructively.  Lord knows I have my faults. 
    Glen, in your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.
    Since Patricia disagrees that we should be able to use analogies...
    you can be like an annoying relative who comes over to visit...
    and then stays for dinner.   I don't know why I perceive this...I can't
    explain it...but there you have it.  Sometimes you can be like a gnat
    on a hot July day.  Now, feel free to rebutt and tell me I give a new
    meaning to the word hemerhoids!!! :-)  
    
    Also, I want to touch on another issue.  In your note to Nancy you
    stated:
    
    >>No one says the two of you have to agree with
    >>each others religious thoughts, beliefs, faiths. But you can't even
    >>come to grips that she, like you, is a Christian. 
    
    Glen I have discussed the attributes of being Christian and acting
    Christian.  One may act more Christian than an actual Christian, yet
    may not be a Christian at all.  I myself have challenged Patricia
    on her belief that Christ' death and resurrection in an atoning act for
    our sin.  She has openly denied this belief.  I admire her openness
    and respect her right to believe as she wishes.    I would think 
    anyway, that your statement above might be presumptuous and could 
    possible annoy Patricia, but Patricia should speak for herself.
    
    Glen, what to you in one or two sentences makes a Christian?  Since the 
    Bible is a guide to you, I assume you must respect its contents.  
    Your belief based on the gospel according to...........
    
    
    -Jack
    
    
    
    Cordially,
    
    -Jack
9.1561I was an eye witnessTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Aug 24 1994 17:3120
9.1562POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Aug 24 1994 17:5025
    Nancy,
    
    Your notes are downright insulting to both Glen and Richard and to me.
    I have difficulty reading those notes and then reading your response on
    Christian forgiveness and cringe.
    
    As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
    two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
    years ago.  I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
    do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on".  But then
    perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
    yours.  
    
    Nancy, I will paraphrase John here.  Let those without Sin cast the
    first stone.  Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
    brothers and sisters.  I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
    against me, against Glen, and against Richard.
    
    Nancy, although you may not know, you and I have the same God and it is
    the God of the Christian Scriptures.  Just as I recognize that I am
    fallible and do not have a perfect handle on the nature of that God, I
    also allow for your fallability in interpreting who God is.  Please be
    careful how you try to limit God.
    
    Patricia
9.1563AIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 18:2137
    To me, comparing Christian to Christian-Perspective is like comparing 
    a set of encyclopedias for knowledge to calling a well rounded Radio
    Talk Show host for knowledge.  The two serve different purposes.
    
    When I am teaching an adult Sunday School class on...apologetics for
    example, I will go to Christian as a source of information to get 
    input from a likeminded believer.  I don't care about different
    opinions on apologetics from different readers...this doesn't interest
    me.  
    
    Now, if I want to get into a debate on the validity of apologetics, a
    very noble and informative exercise, then I will come to
    Christian-Perspective.  Christian = Fellowship/Unity in doctrine; 
    Christian Perspective = Inquiry/Proslethyzing of POV.  Absolutely
    nothing wrong with the two but very very different in nature.
    
    Based on this and I hope we somewhat agree, Joe's initial remark was
    not warranted, but permissable...lawful but perhaps not profitable.  
    The other party who did the same in the other forum...well, that may
    have been meant to make a statement, however, it was not lawful.  
    Likened to the idea we have the right of free speech but not the right
    to yell fire in a crowded theatre; the proposal of hiding clear signs 
    of non-edifying remarks may be in order.  Not as PC police but as an
    electronic conscience if you will.  
    
    Look, we're all adults here!  Two years of bantering has gotten
    us...what...absolutely nowhere.  Let's concede that right now.  I am
    however, a firm believer that God's Word will not return unto Him 
    void, but will accomplish what He purposes it to do.  Disagreement with
    Civility; if not, then I urge those to consider dropping out of this
    forum.  If a worldly godless Congress can do it, there is absolutely 
    no reason why we can't do it!!
    
    Cordially,
    
    -Jack
    
9.1564AIMHI::JMARTINWed Aug 24 1994 18:3124
      Re: Patricia - Cross Posted from the Abraham/Sarah String
    
      >>  I was going to reply to your note in the processing topic regarding
      >>  complete, unambiguos, concices communication without metaphor or
      >>  assumptions.  I was going to ask whether you were joking because I
      >>  believe such a standard for communication would mean no one would
      >>  ever be allowed to talk with anyone because such is impossible.
    
    I concede that.  Let me put it this way.  
    When somebody makes an vehement inflamatory statement, they must be
    held accountable and either satisfactorily justify it or apologize.  
    Secondly, when said person is justifying, they MUST NOT:
    
    A. Refuse to answer to the charges.  It is part of developing
       Christian maturity and is a cop out to avoid or go through denial.
    
    B. Said person must answer questions clearly and not leave the reader
       scratching his/her head wondering what the heck the individual has
       just said.  It is nonsense to make inuendos and flowery, feel good
       replies that lack substance.  This is all I'm saying!!
    
    Cordially,
    
    -Jack
9.1565What attack?TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Aug 24 1994 18:5940
re: .1529 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?"

>>It should be no surprise that many (mostly "liberal")
>>noters here perceive Yukon::Christian as maintaining a much narrower view than 
>>C-P. 

>Doesn't it? I've read the ground rules there and by my interpretation I would
>not even be permitted to post.

 Now, folks are welcome to join in, but it is quite clear what the basis of
 the conference is..the conference guidelines do not invite dispute with that
 premise, because those who frequent the conference are there for the stated
 purpose of sharing in the beliefs of that conference.  Do you argue with 
 the moderators of the ASKENET conference about their stated premise..do
 you go  into other conferences and complain about the intollerant bigoted
 moderators who won't entertain questions that are clearly mentioned as
 not meant for that conference?  I would guess not.  Then why harrangue
 the CHRISTIAN conference for doing essentially the same thing?  

Jim, I think you read a *whole* lot more into my post than I meant. All I was
asking was doesn't it have a narrower viewpoint than this conference. I wasn't
arguing about it, it doesn't bother me. Because I do not share the stated goals
of the conference, I do not participate, out of respect for the groundrules. 

 Why, if you (or anyone) don't share our beliefs as clearly stated in the
 conference guidelines, do you even care?  Do you blast the baseball conference
 for not allowing talk about brocolli recipes?  Do you blast the book
 conference for not allowing talk about how to fix a leaky faucet?  

I don't care. There was no blast! I am personally glad that you have a forum to
share your beliefs in. I simply asked if the viewpoint wasn't narrower than that
of this conference, since it seems that way to me. I don't even mean to imply
that narrower has a negative conotation in this case.

 If you don't agree with the premise of the conference that's fine..we are
 there because we DO.

And that is why I leave you in peace to post there. 

Steve 
9.1566JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 19:0262
>    Your notes are downright insulting to both Glen and Richard and to me.
    
    Insulting????? We've been over this before, haven't we.  I'd say that
    perceptions are equal in that area.  You will find I have "responded"
    to insult not created it.  This is ajoke.  You fling your accusation,
    as though you have no part in the communication.  Typical.
    
    
>    I have difficulty reading those notes and then reading your response on
>    Christian forgiveness and cringe.
    
    Then you can empathize with my cringe each time you tear down the Bible
    and it's precepts.  I forgive, I have no problem with forgiveness, each
    time you insult, I forgive, and that goes for the others as well.
    
>    As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
>    two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
>    years ago.  I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
    
    Patricia you don't know very much at all about this.  That was a
    playful way of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance.  If you have
    no grace whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would
    find this insulting.  Did you fail to see the smiley face, which is an
    accepted symbol for light heartedness?
    
    
>    do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on".  But then
>    perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
>    yours.  
    
    Amen you got that right.  Our brands are totally different. 
    Yours teaches tolerance, while you are intolerant of my pov.  :-)  You
    have just spent this entire memo doing exactly what you accuse me of.
    
    [insert chuckle here, genuine incredulous chuckles]
    
>    Nancy, I will paraphrase John here.  Let those without Sin cast the
>    first stone.  Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
>    brothers and sisters.  I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
>    against me, against Glen, and against Richard.
    
    I'm not casting stones, that fact that you see it that way, must mean
    I've come very close to the truth.
    
>    Nancy, although you may not know, you and I have the same God and it is
>    the God of the Christian Scriptures.  Just as I recognize that I am
>    fallible and do not have a perfect handle on the nature of that God, I
>    also allow for your fallability in interpreting who God is.  Please be
>    careful how you try to limit God.
    
    No we do not and we've been over this multiple times.  Your insistence
    does not make for truth.  My God has a son Jesus Christ who is also One
    with Him and another spiritual entity called the Holy Spirit.  My God
    required the blood and life of Christ for the sins of mankind and he
    alone is to whom we are to be "faithful"... no other gods.  
    
    The crux of your insult is that you wish to call yourself Christian and
    I refuse to accept this from you.  If you feel that it is insulting
    that I do so, so be it.  I will not lie about God's word.
        
    Nancy
    
9.1567CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 19:0414

 re .1565 (I think)



 My apologies for reading more into your note than I should have..


 Seriously



 Jim
9.1568TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Aug 24 1994 19:1712
.1567 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?"

No apology needed, I just wanted to set the record straight.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

I would like to suggest that we start a 'bash' note. This topic would get all
notes that have, as the primary topic, other people in the conference, ie. where
the discussion is around someone's behavior rather than their beliefs. Maybe the
processing note is the right place, but other interesting notes come along often
enough that I don't want to use next unseen from here, if possible. 

Thanks, Steve
9.1569BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Aug 24 1994 19:5947
| <<< Note 9.1557 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| How you think is of no consequence to me (though I do care about your eternal
| soul).  You are free to think as you wish.  However, we in that particular
| conference believe a certain way, and that conference is where we share our
| beliefs.  So, what it comes down to is..why would anyone who does not hold the
| beliefs as described in the conference continue to participate there, when there
| is a conference (this one) where one is free as a bird to believe whatever
| they wish?  

	People can learn in both conferences Jim. I see good and bad in both
places, I learn in both places. But if I disagree with something, in any
conference, I will say something. Do I think everyone in this file has the same
belief system as me? Nope. Do I think everyone in here enjoys every note I put
in? Nope. Same goes for the YUKON conference. 

| >	If I want to talk about baseball in the baseball conference, I can talk
| >about all aspects of it. I can talk about my own perceptions of rules, discuss
| >variations of play, etc. In Christian you can only talk about a one sided view
| >of being a Christian. See the difference?


| OK..how about the Red Sox conference?  That conference is set up for discussion
| of the Boston Red Sox..a more specific subset of baseball.  Do you go in there
| and start a topic on the San Diego Padres and then argue with the moderators be-
| cause you don't believe the Red Sox are the only baseball team that should be
| talked about in there?  

	Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.

| Do you go into the Baseball conference and complain about how intollerant 
| the Red Sox conference is because they only allow conversation related to 
| the Red Sox in there?

	No need to, as there is more that gets talked about in there than the
Red Sox. Oh, what is the cute little message that is displayed everytime
someone logs into the file? "Hallelujah, it's football season"



Glen
9.1570my kids are better disciplined than...LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Aug 24 1994 20:5028
re Note 9.1566 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

> >    As an onlooker I listen to your tell Glen to "go away little Doggy" and
> >    two notes later ask glen whether he will forgive you for acrimony two
> >    years ago.  I don't know the basis for your feud with Glen but I sure
>     
>     Patricia you don't know very much at all about this.  That was a
>     playful way of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance.  If you have
>     no grace whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would
>     find this insulting.  Did you fail to see the smiley face, which is an
>     accepted symbol for light heartedness?
  
        Nancy,

        A bit of advice:  if your interaction with another person
        requires some knowledge of the history of the interactions
        between you two that is not generally known, don't do it in
        front of others.  OK?  We will judge your public interaction
        with Glen by what we know.  If that will lead to wrong
        conclusions, don't interact in front of us, please!  If you
        need to respond to Glen in such circumstances, send Email. 
        Or just grit your teeth, clench your fist, say a prayer --
        and then forget about it (advice we all might follow).

        I really am getting tired of the Glen-and-Nancy show (this
        message is to Glen as much as to Nancy).

        Bob
9.1571CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 21:0146
RE:               <<< Note 9.1569 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>


>	People can learn in both conferences Jim. I see good and bad in both
>places, I learn in both places. But if I disagree with something, in any
>conference, I will say something. Do I think everyone in this file has the same
>belief system as me? Nope. Do I think everyone in here enjoys every note I put
>in? Nope. Same goes for the YUKON conference. 


OK, that's fine.  But you do understand the premise of the YUKON conference
do you not?  And you do understand that those who participate there share
a common belief?  And you do understand that the reason they participate there
is that it is a place where they can share in that common belief?  Thus, one
who comes in NOT sharing in that common belief, and proceeds to attack or
present a belief other than that common belief can be viewed as antagonistic,
do you not?  


>	Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
>entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
>1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
>Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
>note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
>narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.


OK..I'll ignore the fact that the first 100+ notes were entered in 1989 and
state that perhaps I chose a poor example.  Do you participate in the 
Catholic Theology conference?


>	No need to, as there is more that gets talked about in there than the
>Red Sox. Oh, what is the cute little message that is displayed everytime
>someone logs into the file? "Hallelujah, it's football season"



Well, I'm not sure when the last entry was placed in the Texas Ranger topic,
but the "Hallelujah...." message is, I'm sure satirical in nature as it
gives some relief to those of us who are fans of the Olde Towne Team.




Jim
9.1572Here's an analogy for ya, Glen CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Wed Aug 24 1994 21:0344
Fishing.... (religion)

This notes conference is dedicated to fresh water fishing. (Christian)
Salt water fishing can be discussed elsewhere.  (Other)

"Hey, salt water fishing is fishing, and what about aquatic life in 
the estuaries where fresh water meets salt water?"

"This conference is for fresh water fishing."

"No, I think it should be for all kinds of fishing.  Fresh water fishing isn't
the only kind of fishing, you know."

"That doesn't matter.  We want to discuss fresh water fishing; not salty water
fishing; not fishing in the briny estuaries."

----

Note xx.x

"Yesterday, I fished in on a lake and caught some wide-mouthed bass..."

"Yeah, but if you fished on the bay, you could catch some flounder..."

"This notes conference is about fresh-water fishing."

"It should be about all fishing."

"It isn't.  We don't want to talk about that kind of fishing."

"Are you intolerant of salt water fishing?"

"What!?  Look, we just want to talk about fresh water fishing.  We don't want
to talk about other fishing."

"You are intolerant!  This is a double standard!  You can talk all you 
want about fresh water fishing but don't allow talking about other fishing.
And after all, the world is covered with salt water, and more fish are in
salt water than fresh water, and there are many more different kinds of fish..."

"This notes conference is about fresh water fishing."


9.1573we don't have to like each other to be civilLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Aug 24 1994 21:1828
        I wish folks, especially those folks that don't particularly
        like the other conference with "christian" in its name, would
        just quit poking fun or taking jabs at the other conference. 
        (I know, I know, I've done it, too -- it's so easy ...  aahh,
        stop it, Bob!)

        Such criticism serve no purpose -- there simply are two
        conferences with two very different moderation policies.  As
        far as I can tell, both are operating within Digital policy. 
        If you don't like the other one, my advice is to stay out
        (which is precisely what I've done for many months).

        However, it is very hard for participants to have sufficient
        self-discipline to refrain from such comments when people
        come into this conference and spend most or all of their
        energy criticizing this conference.

        Please, feel free to criticize anything written in this
        conference.  But please don't write just to make blanket
        condemnations of this conference, its participants, or its
        right to even exist.

        OK?

        It's really hard to be a verbal pacifist when people keep
        lobbing insults your way.

        Bob
9.1574Bottom Line RJC was out of line, imo.JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 21:3941
    
    
    >my kids are better disciplined than..
    
    your frustration is showing. :-) 
    
    Bob,
    
    It's very difficult to take something offline that is being projected
    from one direction online.   I do agree that much of the discussion
    between Glen and myself should've been taken offline.  But let's
    remember, I didn't start this conversation.
    
    I've started one conversation in this string and it was to RJC.  Now
    he's gone into hiding from it.
    
    Some facts to bear in mind:
    
    1.  Joe Oppelt slung a slur against this conference.
    2.  RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
    3.  Joe Oppelt no more represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference than
        I do this one.  
    4.  I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
        CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
    5.  RJC has never answered the question.
    6.  Others have attempted to answer the question.
    
    7.  The question is still outstanding to RJC.
    
    What I'd like to see happen [wish list if you will]:
    
    1.  RJC apologize for his emotional outburst.
    2.  Reconcile his emotions about said conference and move on.
    
    Those two items have about as much chance of happening as my being in
    two places at once!
    
    This saddens me, because I grow weary of the same old, same old, that
    keeps going on about these two conferences.  
    
    
9.1575good company .-)TFH::KIRKa simple songWed Aug 24 1994 21:5910
re: Note 9.1518 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    Co-dependancy does not become you. :-) :-) :-)

I suppose Jesus is co-dependent as well, 
being our mediator and advocate to God.

.-)
    
Jim
9.1576JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 22:0314
    Jim Kirk,
    
    If you truly have yourself equated as the "great mediator", well no
    comment.
    
    I answered that already... did you see my definition of a mediator.
    
    A mediator never takes sides, never forms an opinion, simply calls for
    order and set a direction towards better communication.
    
    Jesus doesn't take our words to God and change them... he simply
    presents them to God as we have stated.
    
    
9.1577peace to youTFH::KIRKa simple songWed Aug 24 1994 22:137
re:  Note 9.1576 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

Nancy Morales, did you see my smily faces?

Geesh!

Jim
9.1578JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 22:1713
    You know Joe Oppelt has deleted this conference from his notebook as he
    cannot reconcile himself to the premise on which this conference
    stands.
    
    It would lend to reason, although I am echoing Jim H., that if you feel
    the same about the CHRISTIAN notes conference, that you do not agree
    with the premise in 2.1 of that conference, then don't go there.  
    
    It's as simple as taking alternate road that is better suited to get 
    you where you wanna go.
    
    I will do the same... 
    
9.1579:-(JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 22:186
    .1577
    
    oops guess in the embroilment of reading Fleischer's note, I missed it.
    
    Sorry,
    Nancy
9.1580JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Aug 24 1994 23:4431
    >Nancy, I'll be frank with you. Ever since you wrote that note to the
    >mod ripping apart my character, I decided that from now on I will speak
    >up if I see you doing this to anyone else. I guess it happens often.....
    
    Now we are getting somewhere in communication.  
    
    I'm sorry that you feel as though your character was maligned.  Quite
    frankly I don't recall your character coming into question.  What I
    recall was your written communication style... which really does get to
    me... honesty is sometimes not the best policy???
    
    Glen, you have a tendency to go over the same arguments over and over
    and over again...this what I called into question and declared as
    being personally irritating and frustrating. :-(
    
    Now, if you equal that to your character we have differing opinions. 
    Even knowing that you can also be a burr in my saddle :-), it doesn't
    cause me to value you any less.  I may not put a high value on our
    ability to communicate, but imo that doesn't effect your character.
    
    Character to me is somewhat synonymous with integrity.  Your integrity
    does not come into question for me.
    
    I hope that you understand now that never was my intent to malign your
    character.. I was merely expressing frustration.
    
    Thank you for bringing this to my attention.
    
    Nancy
    
    
9.1581CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Aug 25 1994 01:2934


RE:               <<< Note 9.1569 by BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....." >>>


>	Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
>entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
>1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
>Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
>note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
>narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.


FWIW, the Red Sox conference was in place ~1 year before the Baseball conference
so there was no other place to talk about the Rangers, but the Red Sox conf.



(with apologies to all, but I couldn't help but point this out.




Jim who will bid C-P adieu after this note.


(again)






9.1582BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:0767
| <<< Note 9.1560 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>

| >> There are many times where your questions split hairs and the reader
| >> asks themself..."What's the dif".

| >>            splain please...

| Glen, please take this constructively. Lord knows I have my faults. Glen, in 
| your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.

	Please splain, as it might make the rest of it clearer. 

| you can be like an annoying relative who comes over to visit... and then stays
| for dinner. 

	Ahhhh.... is it you feel I go where I haven't been invited?

| Now, feel free to rebutt and tell me I give a new meaning to the word 
| hemerhoids!!! :-)

	Can't do that until I know exactly what you're talking about.

| >>No one says the two of you have to agree with each others religious thought
| >>beliefs, faiths. But you can't even come to grips that she, like you, is a 
| >>Christian.

| One may act more Christian than an actual Christian, yet may not be a 
| Christian at all.  

	Agreed. Faith in Him is what I believe is needed. I know for a FACT
that BOTH Nancy & Patricia have faith in Him.

| I myself have challenged Patricia on her belief that Christ' death and 
| resurrection in an atoning act for our sin. She has openly denied this belief.

	SO WHAT!!?? You are talking about why things happened in the past, you
have your beliefs, she has hers. You may not agree that she is right, she may
do the same. You're making a book of words, and it's meanings, come between two
people who believe in Him, love Him, try their best to serve Him. Discuss the
words all you like, but don't let the words drive something between the 2 of
you (or anyone) as the thing you BOTH have in common is faith in God Himself.
Why is it that you can't see this? 

	I think I'll jump the gun here, as if you don't bring it up Jack, I'm
sure someone will. It will more than likely be said that the 2 of you are
serving seperate God's. I do NOT believe this is true. While I am sure the
belief is there, it is being said so by humans. God will let anyone who wants
to know if they are serving Him. We can all do better I'm sure, but in our
hearts, where He will be looking, we do serve the same God.

| Glen, what to you in one or two sentences makes a Christian?  Since the Bible 
| is a guide to you, I assume you must respect its contents. 

	It's a book Jack. If God leads me to it for help, whether it be help
for me or another, then I will find an answer. But you know what? And this has
happened to me before. He has led me to the same Scripture for 2 different
problems. Same answer, but totally different situations. But to put the book
equal to or above Him, which I see a lot of people doing, is doing Him an
injustice.

| Your belief based on the gospel according to...........

	God. 



Glen
9.1583BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:1955
| <<< Note 9.1566 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>



| Patricia you don't know very much at all about this.  That was a playful way 
| of dealing with a very irritating reoccurance.  If you have no grace 
| whatsoever your heart for me, then I can see where you would find this 
| insulting.  

	Nancy, if I say rub your face in dog poo, and put a smiley afterwards,
would you get upset? I see it exactly the way Patricia did. The only thing I
did differently is to ignore it, as it's something that appears in a lot of
your notes. 

| >    do see a lot of very "Unchristianlike insulting going on".  But then
| >    perhaps that's because my brand of Christianity is different than
| >    yours.

| Amen you got that right.  Our brands are totally different. Yours teaches 
| tolerance, while you are intolerant of my pov.  :-)  

	Is that a lighthearted response Nancy? :-)  <-- is that?  Patricia has
on MANY occasions stated that she does see where you are coming from, but she
does NOT agree with it. You have done the same. Why do both of you do this?
Because your faith tells you that the other is wrong on this area. But Patricia
still sees you as a Christian. Something you won't do for her. There is where
any intolerance comes into play.

| >    Nancy, I will paraphrase John here.  Let those without Sin cast the
| >    first stone.  Let all those with sin stop casting stones at their
| >    brothers and sisters.  I feel a lot of stones being cast in here
| >    against me, against Glen, and against Richard.

| I'm not casting stones, that fact that you see it that way, must mean
| I've come very close to the truth.

	Wow, I bet you play Twister a lot, huh?

| No we do not and we've been over this multiple times.  Your insistence
| does not make for truth.  My God has a son Jesus Christ who is also One
| with Him and another spiritual entity called the Holy Spirit.  My God
| required the blood and life of Christ for the sins of mankind and he
| alone is to whom we are to be "faithful"... no other gods.

	I think you are then serving the same God...

| The crux of your insult is that you wish to call yourself Christian and I 
| refuse to accept this from you.  If you feel that it is insulting that I do 
| so, so be it.  I will not lie about God's word.

	Let me know when you find something that claims to be God's Word that
uses something other than itself to prove that point....


Glen
9.1584BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:2723
| <<< Note 9.1571 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>



| And you do understand that the reason they participate there is that it is a 
| place where they can share in that common belief?  Thus, one who comes in NOT 
| sharing in that common belief, and proceeds to attack or present a belief 
| other than that common belief can be viewed as antagonistic, do you not?

	Jim, the premise changed in midstream. One of the reasons for the
change was purely estetics. It did not "look good" to have Christians arguing.
Go back and read some of the old versions of Christian. You'll see this.

| OK..I'll ignore the fact that the first 100+ notes were entered in 1989 and
| state that perhaps I chose a poor example.  Do you participate in the Catholic
| Theology conference?

	Are you saying that religion is where things are most narrow? BTW, I do
not participate in the Catholic Theology conference.



Glen
9.1585BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:309
| <<< Note 9.1577 by TFH::KIRK "a simple song" >>>



| Nancy Morales, did you see my smily faces?


	Jim, you would think Nancy of ALL people would pick up on those smiley
faces!!! heh heh...
9.1586BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:3823
| <<< Note 9.1580 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| I'm sorry that you feel as though your character was maligned.  Quite frankly 
| I don't recall your character coming into question.  

	I guess this statement you made was just something you deemed a
non-character issue:

Glen, just is taking cheap shots wherever he can to express the hate he has for 
me. :-(  I expect it...  He cannot and will not accept me as I am with my 
convictions about his lifestyle... and I understand that too.

	Everything in what was written above is a lie. It is a slam against my
character. 

| I hope that you understand now that never was my intent to malign your
| character.. I was merely expressing frustration.

	Uh huh.....


Glen
9.1587BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 13:5427
| <<< Note 9.1581 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>




| >	Jim, do you read the RED SOX notesfile? Of course you do, as you
| >entered a note in there today. Now go in and do a directory. I looked at the
| >1st 100 notes, and guess what? 25 out of the 1st 100 notes were NOT about the
| >Red Sox! I even remember seeing the Texas Rangers note, the Toronto Blue Jays
| >note... so thanks for showing us that other conferences don't have such a
| >narrow path to walk down like YUKON does.


| FWIW, the Red Sox conference was in place ~1 year before the Baseball conference
| so there was no other place to talk about the Rangers, but the Red Sox conf.


	Let's look from topic 400-533, shall we? (533 is the last topic) 24
out of 134 notes (17.9%) are about things not pertaining to the Red Sox. Note
400 was entered March 16, 1993. Some titles that come to mind are, "Astros
Rangers remaining home games", "La Russa-itis", and "Toronto Blue Jays tix
info". Let's see, 17.9% for the red sox notesfile that do not deal with them, 
and 0% for yukon. Are you sure you want to use that file as a comparrison Jim?



Glen
9.1588AIMHI::JMARTINThu Aug 25 1994 14:0362
    | Glen, please take this constructively. Lord knows I have my faults.
    Glen, in
    | your dialog with people, you reach a point of critical mass.
    
            Please splain, as it might make the rest of it clearer.
    
    For example Glen, we discussed one time in Soapbox whether or not
    marriage was an institution strictly for Christians.  My reply was
    a wholehearted NO.  It was union between a man and a woman and was
    ordained to Adam and Eve, the parents of all humanity if you will.
    Then we got into gay marriages, etc.  My point was then that a marriage
    is a marriage when it is sanctified by God, Christian and atheist
    alike.  Certain marriages IMO are sanctified, others are not.  Well 
    Glen, about twenty questions by you and finally Tine had to break in
    and tell you to stop making a pest of yourself.  In other words, you
    were, perhaps without realizing it, attempting to manipulate the 
    conversation in any way to get me to throw in the towel....and I have,
    with all due respect, seen you do this a number of times in both 
    Soapbox and in C-P.
    
    | I myself have challenged Patricia on her belief that Christ' death
    and
    | resurrection in an atoning act for our sin. She has openly denied
    this belief.
    
    >>SO WHAT!!?? You are talking about why things happened in the
    >>past, you have your beliefs, she has hers.
    
    I realize this Glen and I respect her right to believe as she does.  
    Unfortunately there is a dichotomy here.  But let me cross post a small
    sentence that says it all...
    
    >>>>>>>It's a book Jack.
    
    Therein lies the whole dispute.  Our foundations are vastly different,
    therefore we cannot come to a consensus on this issue.  Ya see, I
    believe that Jesus death and resurrection was the paramount reason for 
    coming here.  I believe that only by receiving Christ through his death
    and resurrection does one inherit eternal life.  Furthermore, I believe
    that this is the ONLY door to God and absolutely no other exists.  To
    spell it out, I believe that an individual can go to church all their 
    life, recite prayers all their life, tithe all their life, visit the
    sick and elderly all their life, feed the poor all their life, even
    join the clergy....and yet, without receiving Christ as their personal
    savior, fall into a Christ-less grave.  I am spelling it out Glen
    because quite frankly, my perception is that you don't fully realize 
    the consequences of sin...and I really don't either by some degree.
    Otherwise, I would stop!
    
    Getting back to the Bible...I believe the Bible is 100% inspired by God
    and was written by man through the Holy Spirit.  I believe the
    unpopular writings have equal footing to the popular ones.  I believe
    the scripture reveals that God is a loving and merciful God yet at the 
    same time a just and Holy God and will not let sin go unpunished.  It
    is either dropped off at the cross or we will have to pay for them
    ourselves.  No, I spurn the notion that the Bible is simply a book, a 
    guide to better living.  To say this would put it on equal footing
    with Joyce Brothers, Norman Vincent Peale, and James Dobson.  
    
    Respectfully,
    
    -Jack 
9.1589JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Aug 25 1994 15:1121
    Glen,
    
    There is a problem with your logic.  One very transparent flaw.  You
    claim that you began your attack of me due to this message that was
    offline.  BTW, there are guidelines about publishing private mail in a
    public forum, have you read them?  You need to ask the author's
    permission to post.
    
 The context of my note was an expression of the already existing attack.
 ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
       
    So who's telling the truth here?  What is truth?  Can it be known?  Is
    it your truth or my truth? :-) :-)
    
    If you find that expression of frustration at your persistent attack as
    a malignment of your character, you should be careful how you
    participate in notes, because Glen I'm not the only one that feels this
    way about you.
    
    Nancy
    
9.1590TFH::KIRKa simple songThu Aug 25 1994 15:1310
re: Note 9.1579 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

Apology accepted.

Let's all of us try to moderate ourselves and remember that we are not 
responding to screens of text, but to real, honest to God, people.

Peace,

Jim
9.1591I wanted YOU and I to talk, not You for someone else and IJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Aug 25 1994 15:1412
    Glen,
    
    Obviously, you have no intention whatsoever of attempting to come to a
    resolution of our communication/value/spiritual differences.  I thought
    there was some glimmer of hope that there could be.  But alas, you must
    participate and speak for everybody else in the conference..
    
    How many times I've read your notes, I'm not "so & so",  BUT...
    
    I next unseen them now... 
    
    
9.1592JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Aug 25 1994 15:151
    Thanks Jim.
9.1593Truce!SOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckThu Aug 25 1994 15:2122
    How about this people - If you feel like an issue is in a repetitive
    cycle, then don't add another revolution.  If you feel you've already
    explained something to the best of your ability then let it go.  Say
    that is what you're doing if you don't want to leave people wondering
    if you have changed your mind.

    If you're going to use a specific person's name in your reply - first
    insert your name in the sentence and see how it feels.  If it would
    hurt your feelings, don't say it.  

    If your name was used and you are responding - is there any anger in
    your reply?  Or indignation?  Then wait.  Let the sun set.  Watch it if
    you can.  Calm down.  Then compose a reply.  Don't just write it -
    compose it.

    Please - be gentle with each other.  We are all here, I hope, to learn
    and share and grow.  And I for one have found support in some of my
    darker hours.  Thank you, my friends, for your loving support of a
    faceless sister.

    +++
    Debby
9.1594BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Thu Aug 25 1994 17:0136
| <<< Note 9.1589 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| There is a problem with your logic.  One very transparent flaw.  You claim 
| that you began your attack of me due to this message that was offline.  

	To start off with, there was no attack. I was correcting what you
stated earlier. The message said it all.

| The context of my note was an expression of the already existing attack.

	A mod stepped in and asked 3 people to control their anger. You and I
were 2 of them. Your note then responed with that paragraph in it. What you had
said attacked my character, and it was false. You made claims that were all
untrue. 

| So who's telling the truth here?  What is truth?  Can it be known?  Is it 
| your truth or my truth? 

	The words you wrote was the truth as you saw it. But in reality, in
this case, your truth was 100% false.

| If you find that expression of frustration at your persistent attack as a 
| malignment of your character, you should be careful how you participate in 
| notes, because Glen I'm not the only one that feels this way about you.

	Nancy, I would have thought that by showing you that the context of
your note was false, that you could realize that I do not hate you, and
regardless of how you feel about my lifestyle, it doesn't matter to me. You
have the right to think what you want, but let the truth be known that I do not
hold it against you. I do disagree with a lot you have to say about it, but
that is something entirely different. I guess showing you the truth did no
good, I can only hope that God can open your heart to the truth in this matter.


Glen
9.1595JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Aug 25 1994 19:2116
    .1594
    
    Glen,
    
    You are refusing to accept any part of the blame in our communication,
    but putting it completely on me.
    
    There has been the same thing said about you just today by someone else
    and yet you stay in denial of it.
    
    Communication must be two ways... 
    
    This is it for me... 
    
    God Bless you all,
    Nancy
9.1596Isaiah 53.7CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Fri Aug 26 1994 02:021
    
9.1597No victimization in here/simple unrefuted factsJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 17:3912
     Some facts to bear in mind:
    
    1.  Joe Oppelt slung a slur against this conference.
    2.  RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
    3.  Joe Oppelt no more represents the CHRISTIAN notes conference
        than I do this one.
    4.  I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
            CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
    5.  RJC has never answered the question.
    6.  Others have attempted to answer the question.
    7.  The question is still outstanding to RJC.
    
9.1598hard to discuss forbidden topicsLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Aug 26 1994 17:5918
re Note 9.1597 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     2.  RJC slung the exact same slur against the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
...
>     4.  I questioned the reason behind such an action taken against the
>            CHRISTIAN noters by RJC.
>     5.  RJC has never answered the question.

        As a moderator of *this* conference, I would suggest that the
        only appropriate place for RJC to answer such a question
        (should he choose to answer it) would be in the conference he
        allegedly slurred -- *not* here.

        It would seem that moderation policy of the other conference
        would make that unlikely/impossible, but that is not our
        concern here.

        Bob
9.1599Simply amazing the dance routineJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 18:028
    You can think all you want about where it should be discussed, but that
    doesn't make you right. 
    
    FACT!
    
    It started here!  Read #1 of my list.
    
    
9.1600you're too modest, you should take more credit!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Aug 26 1994 18:196
re Note 9.1599 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>                      -< Simply amazing the dance routine >-
  
        As they say, "it takes two to tango" -- and you're one of the
        best!
9.1601Would you like to be added to my dance card, Bob?JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 19:3111
    Yes, I am one of the bests.
    
    Now what!
    
    :-)  Sheesh, you guys just simply refuse to accept the FACT that RJC
    was in error in his flaming note  at CHRISTIAN noters...
    
    He got caught with his pants down and now everybody wants to pull
    them up for him.
    
    You can insult all you want but the FACTS there!  
9.1602you can't demand that which you won't allowLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Aug 26 1994 20:0319
re Note 9.1601 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     :-)  Sheesh, you guys just simply refuse to accept the FACT that RJC
>     was in error in his flaming note  at CHRISTIAN noters...
  
        I'm hardly defending him.

        I'm merely saying that it is unrealistic of you to expect an
        explanation, much less an apology, to the aggrieved members
        of the other conference if RJC is not allowed to discuss the
        offense in that conference.

        He can't apologize or justify his action to them here.

        Here's not there.

        It's that simple.

        Bob
9.1603I didn't!JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 20:2810
    Bob,
    
    The note was deleted due to its volatile nature.  I came over here to
    find out what was going on, when in fact I saw Joe's note and RJC's
    reposting of his note from CHRISTIAN.
    
    Now who brought it in here?
    
    
    
9.1604JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 20:299
    P.S.
    
    If you didn't want it discussed in here, you should have deleted RJC's
    reposting or set it hidden...
    
    It stands as he posted it.. .and now you can't stand the heat its
    drawn.
    
    
9.1605LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Aug 26 1994 20:4526
re Note 9.1604 by JULIET::MORALES_NA:

>     If you didn't want it discussed in here, you should have deleted RJC's
>     reposting or set it hidden...
  
        I'm not objecting to your notes being in here.  (You are
        seeing this through the eyes of the other conference's
        moderation policy.  It's OK here as long as you are not
        mounting a personal attack or are disruptive though frequent
        repetition.)
          
>     It stands as he posted it.. .and now you can't stand the heat its
>     drawn.
  
        Don't fool yourself -- I'm not feeling any heat from your
        banter.  However, I feel like I'm dealing the logic of
        pre-school age child: you claim RJC offended another group,
        you want him to explain or apologize, yet you don't seem to
        understand that he is not allowed to communicate on this
        subject to the aggrieved group.  Instead you want him to
        apologize to you personally instead of to that group.

        I'm simply saying that you are demanding something that isn't
        likely to happen, for patently obvious reasons.

        Bob
9.1606Defocusing is a great communication tool,nice dance movesJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 21:4710
    Bob, I was part of the offended group.  Had RJC not reposted the note
    here, I would have not entered the discussion.  Simple.
    
    Now you wish to somehow use twisted logic and insult [school-age] as a
    way to discredit my response to said note. 
    
    I am not vicitmizing RJC, what you and others wish to do is throw
    diversions from the topic-at-hand to defocus the topic.
    
    
9.1607why isn't the matter closed?TFH::KIRKa simple songFri Aug 26 1994 21:5117
re: Note 9.1603 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    The note was deleted due to its volatile nature.  

As a moderator of YUKON::Christian, did you (or the other moderators) contact 
Richard about his offending note and come to a course of action (deletion)?

The fact that the note was deleted sort of implies that some moderator action 
occured over there and that the matter is closed.

Peace,

Jim

p.s.  If somebody says "I beleive Richard's motive was xxx" and Richard 
acknowledges that it was indeed xxx, then you have your answer, albeit not 
first hand.
9.1608JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 22:128
    Because he brought it over here as another aspersion against the
    CHRISTIAN notes conference.  It's not the first attack that I've heard
    since being involved in this conference.
    
    Do you believe that I have "no reason" to believe that this behavior
    would continue just because this one note was deleted in the CHRISTIAN
    notes conference?
    
9.1609I hate to interrupt, but...CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Fri Aug 26 1994 22:155
    If nobody minds, I'm going to initiate another new basenote in C-P.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1610JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 22:1716
    Jim,
    
    All I'd like to see happen is for this "rivalry" to be put to rest. 
    RJC has made it abundantly clear that there is "sour grapes" in his
    heart towards the CHRISTIAN notes conference.
    
    But that conference has long since been gone.  There are no moderators
    that I know of that are still on board on the CHRISTIAN notes
    conference when the supposed "split" occured.  Andrew Yuille was only a
    participant then, not a mod.  He was a mod previous to the "split".
    
    I've said it before, I'll say it again.  If RJC had not posted his note
    in here, I would have written him offline.
    
    
    
9.1611Stubborn to a faultJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Aug 26 1994 22:2420
    Richard,
    
    You interrupted the peace of this conference when you took me on, dear
    sir.  I'm sorry to be the hurricane at this given time.  But your lack
    of acknowledging the wrong you've committed, and furthermore, being
    unwilling to let go of bitterness is what is rabid here.
    
    Your rabidness towards a "conference" infected me.  Now the squeaky
    wheel gets the grease [the criticism]... and I'm the squeaky wheel.  
    
    I know after this repertoire of songs, that a request for another song
    perhaps more melodious won't be forthcoming, but God knows my heart...
    my only intent was to try and put to rest this disease of bitterness.
    
    Perhaps I'm creating more bitterness from you and others... amazing how
    this sinful behavior increases, even from one who just wished to stop
    the disease... I got infected.
    
    Sorry folks,
    Nancy
9.1612stop playing the gameTFH::KIRKa simple songSun Aug 28 1994 22:2311
re: Note 9.1610 by Nancy "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" 

>    All I'd like to see happen is for this "rivalry" to be put to rest. 

As Cindy Painter once said, 

	"the only way to stop playing the game is to stop playing the game."

Peace,

Jim
9.1613I think it is an infinit loop......BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 29 1994 14:0818


	Nancy, here is a list. Maybe you can make sense of it finally:


1) You want RJC to apologize for the actions he took in YUKON.

2) RJC can not discuss what he wrote in that file or he will be set hidden, so 
   therefore he can not do anything in that file.

3) We all wonder what about this you can't see.

4) Reread 1-3 until you feel pleased.




9.1614JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Aug 29 1994 16:389
    >I've said it before, I'll say it again.  If RJC had not posted his note
    >in here, I would have written him offline.
    
    Glen, one would wonder who cannot understand. This is sad... very sad
    that you wish to perpetuate ill will.
    
    But I'm reluctant to say, I am not surprised.
    
    
9.1615In amazement...JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Aug 29 1994 16:408
    >Bob, I was part of the offended group.  Had RJC not reposted the note
    >here, I would have not entered the discussion.  Simple.
    
    Glen another one for you.. though I found several more...
    
    
    
    
9.1616JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Aug 29 1994 16:5423
    Debby,
    
    You were the moderator who was involved in the offline discussions
    between Glen and myself.  I'd like to first of all say that it was a
    3-way conversation, not 2-way.  Glen was copied on all of my memos, it
    was an attempt at that time to come to terms with my interpretation of
    hate being directed towards me.
    
    I saved several of what I would call "hateful" memos that Glen wrote,
    but recently deleted them. :-(  I'm like that... I tend to want to
    forgive and let it go... 
    
    Glen, maybe you don't have hate for me.. but at *that* time it
    certainly felt that way... you were not being talked about behind your
    back, it was not an attempt to put you down and your insinuation that
    it was this is an emotionally charged statement.
    
    Back up and remember... it was an attempt at trying to come to
    reason... which obviously failed.
    
    I have no reason to believe that it would succeed now.
    
    
9.1617BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Aug 29 1994 17:4851
| <<< Note 9.1616 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


	This will be my last note in this file on this subject. If anyone would
like to discuss it further, send mail to BIGQ::SILVA. 

| I saved several of what I would call "hateful" memos that Glen wrote, but 
| recently deleted them. :-(  I'm like that... I tend to want to forgive and 
| let it go...

	I have that whole conversation Nancy. If you want, anyone who sends me
mail can see what it was we talked about. It's up to you though, if you want
people to see what happened.

| Glen, maybe you don't have hate for me.. but at *that* time it certainly felt 
| that way... 

	Nancy, what was being talked about at that time had NOTHING, to do with
my lifestyle. But that was the reason you gave for why I hate you. No way of
side stepping that one Nance.

| you were not being talked about behind your back, 

	No one said it was.

| it was not an attempt to put you down 

	To bear false witness is one of the best ways to put someone down. You
said I hate, then you gave the reason why. You were 100% wrong at what you
said. You should not have made mention of what you thought to anyone, and
especially when you made it sound like it was a FACT, unless you know for sure
you are correct. Otherwise, without proof, you could, and were in this case,
bearing false witness. So yeah, it was a put down.

| Back up and remember... it was an attempt at trying to come to reason... which
| obviously failed.

	Yeah, by saying I hate you for X reason is going to make me come to
reason with you on any subject.... uh huh...

| I have no reason to believe that it would succeed now.

	Then I guess you're right about something Nancy, we can't possibly
serve the same God. I know with the God I serve all things are possible. Me
thinks in this case, and many others that have gone on in your life, you have
been applying the human thinking to it all, which really puts limits on things. 
Let God handle it for you Nancy....


Glen

9.1618JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Aug 29 1994 18:0314
    Glen, 
    
    It boils down to the fact that Nancy isn't allowed to be human.  
    I'm not allowed to have feelings about "how" and "what" you said. 
    
    So you wish to hold me to a higher standard than you hold for yourself?
    
    Interesting... but typical.
    
    You didn't even acknowledge what I wrote about my "perception" of your
    notes being hateful... did you?  
    
    
    
9.1619Anyone wishing to keep in contact with me, send mailJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Aug 29 1994 18:046
    It's been less than fun being in this conference, it's been a burden..
    one in which I no longer wish to participate.
    
    Some of you will say good riddance... so be it.
    
    delete/entry
9.1620CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 30 1994 04:454
    I have written Nancy offline, as I'm reasonably certain others have.
    
    Richard
    
9.1621CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 30 1994 20:222
    Hello, Mike Heiser!  Haven't heard from you in quite some time!
    
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9.1623CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 30 1994 20:287
    .1622  Cute graphic.
    
    I didn't know it was about winning or losing, Jack.
    
    I bid you peace,
    Richard
    
9.1624AIMHI::JMARTINTue Aug 30 1994 20:3614
    >> I didn't know it was about winning or losing, Jack.
    
    I know...I put it in there strictly for laughs.  But at the same time, 
    I am also making a statement.  
    
    "Knowing this, we now have Peace through Jesus Christ our Lord."
    
    Are we a reflection of the abundant life that Jesus promises us?  I
    think it can be forgotten that the conference is also a ministry to
    read-only's.
    
    Peace back,
    
    -Jack
9.1625CSC32::J_CHRISTIELuke 1.78-79Tue Aug 30 1994 20:435
    I think so.  Abundant life does not mean constantly blissful and
    lack-luster lives.  Neither is peace the mere absence of conflict.
    
    Richard
    
9.1626AIMHI::JMARTINTue Aug 30 1994 21:367
    Just as there is no temptation that cannot be overcome; likewise there
    is no spat that cannot be resolved.  I believe the outcome Christ calls
    us to come to is dialog and concensus.
    
    In Christ,
    
    -Jack
9.1627tough to come backFRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Tue Aug 30 1994 21:481
    Hi Richard!  I was on vacation for a large chunk of the summer.
9.1628APACHE::MYERSFri Sep 09 1994 17:4419
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    Tony, you use too many Biblical references for that article to be valid
    in here.
    
    hope this helps,
    Mike
    
    
    =-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-
    
    Please, I beg you, can we stop the ad hominem slamming of this
    conference and it's noters. I don't mind spirited disagreements,
    but this crosses the line. Let's give it a rest, ok. 
    
    Peace,
    		Eric
9.1629speaks for itselfLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Sep 09 1994 18:0215
> ================================================================================
> Note 966.5                       The Two Crosses                          5 of 5
> FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!"                            5 lines   9-SEP-1994 13:07
> --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>     Tony, you use too many Biblical references for that article to be valid
>     in here.
>     
>     hope this helps,
>     Mike

        This is patently false, and says a lot more about the mind
        and character of Mike Heiser than any words I could have
        entered.

        Bob
9.1630AIMHI::JMARTINFri Sep 09 1994 18:517
    Okay...point well made!  We've been doing good over the last few weeks.
    
    Mike, your input is valuable...now Knock it Off!!
    
    The issue is closed...let's move ahead!
    
    -Jack
9.1631speaking of characterFRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Fri Sep 09 1994 19:035
    It actually says nothing about my character.  I was just propagating
    the theme of recent days to prove a point - the Bible is only accepted
    as God's Word in CP when it's convenient.

    Mike
9.1632AIMHI::JMARTINFri Sep 09 1994 19:224
    Well then, this reenforces my premise that the scriptures used COULD be
    perceived as "Not God Breathed", this is quite a dangerous assumption.
    
    -Jack
9.1633BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Sep 09 1994 19:3419
| <<< Note 9.1631 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>



| the Bible is only accepted as God's Word in CP when it's convenient.


	I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
one believe's it is.

	You see, in here people can share their beliefs, no matter how
different. No one has to agree with them, and that's ok too. But to be
able to share, well, that's a real plus, and that makes this file much
more sharing oriented. No one has to hide anything. Doesn't mean they
won't get a challenge or two, but a challenge is MUCH better than getting
a deletion....


Glen
9.1634FRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Fri Sep 09 1994 20:0126
    Re: -2
    
    Not sure I understand what you're saying.
    
    Re: Glen in -1
    
>	I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
>one believe's it is.
    
    I don't agree that's a positive.  If we believe in Christ, we should
    believe in His Word.  I don't think you can separate the two or have a
    right to pick and choose as you will.

>	You see, in here people can share their beliefs, no matter how
>different. No one has to agree with them, and that's ok too. But to be
>able to share, well, that's a real plus, and that makes this file much
>more sharing oriented. No one has to hide anything. Doesn't mean they
>won't get a challenge or two, but a challenge is MUCH better than getting
>a deletion....

    Sharing is fine, but where's the common bond?  What is the mission of
    CP?  Love of religion?  Love of God?  Doing God's Will?  Spreading the
    Gospel?
    
    thanks,
    Mike
9.1635AIMHI::JMARTINFri Sep 09 1994 21:016
    Mike:
    
    There is very little common bond...But, it is an opportunity to plant
    seeds!!!
    
    -Jack
9.1637BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Sep 12 1994 13:5750
| <<< Note 9.1634 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>



| >	I tend to see it that the Bible is accepted as God's Word in CP when
| >one believe's it is.

| I don't agree that's a positive.  

	According to your belief system, yeah, I can understand that. But let
me ask you Mike. Do you think that two people can discuss what any passage from
the Bible means to them without having both, or either person believe that the
book is the Word of God? If not, why?

| If we believe in Christ, we should believe in His Word.  

	That is your belief, and that's fine. But not everyone will follow your
belief. I know you realize that there are gray areas for each and every
individual when it comes to beliefs in God, and in the interpretations of the
various verses in the Bible. Do you feel these gray areas should be held
against everyone? A book alone will not change most people's mind. A book,
along with all the wonderful things God has for us, the problems, sometimes
VERY difficult that He guides us through, how hHe has helped others, all help in
our belief in Him. If we spend our lives arguing that one can not believe in
Him unless the believe in a book, then a lot of people will be driven AWAY from
Him, not to Him. If we need belief in Him to join Him in Heaven, then do I have
it correct that your belief also says that you must believe the Bible to be the
Word of God in order for entrance of Heaven to happen?

| I don't think you can separate the two or have a right to pick and choose as 
| you will.

	I have never understood how the pick and choose thing gets applied. Is
it possible in your eyes Mike to view the Bible as a history type book?

| Sharing is fine, but where's the common bond?  

	I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is the common
bond that I have seen in here.

| What is the mission of CP?  

	Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
closer to, Jesus Christ.

	Does this make sense to you?


Glen
9.1638FRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Mon Sep 12 1994 17:2256
>	According to your belief system, yeah, I can understand that. But let
>me ask you Mike. Do you think that two people can discuss what any passage from
>the Bible means to them without having both, or either person believe that the
>book is the Word of God? If not, why?
    
    If one of them doesn't believe it's the Word of God, their views on the
    passage will not only differ most of the time, but the discussion will
    turn into a debate.  This doesn't edify the Body of Christ.

>	That is your belief, and that's fine. But not everyone will follow your
>belief. I know you realize that there are gray areas for each and every
>individual when it comes to beliefs in God, and in the interpretations of the
    
    There are no gray areas in John 14:6.
    
>various verses in the Bible. Do you feel these gray areas should be held
>against everyone? A book alone will not change most people's mind. A book,
    
    There are no gray areas in Proverbs 30:5-6
    
>Him, not to Him. If we need belief in Him to join Him in Heaven, then do I have
>it correct that your belief also says that you must believe the Bible to be the
>Word of God in order for entrance of Heaven to happen?
    
    Salvation is only conditioned on accepting Jesus and His atonement -
    but you have to read the Bible to realize that.  The map to the door of
    salvation is in there.  Not everyone finds it or looks for it on their
    own.  Bottomline: you can be saved without the Bible, but you won't
    grow without it.

>	I have never understood how the pick and choose thing gets applied. Is
>it possible in your eyes Mike to view the Bible as a history type book?
    
    The Bible's historical aspect is but one of many aspects.  It can be
    used as a historical reference (and is at some educational
    institutions), but you're cheating your growth as a Christian by
    limiting it in this way.

>	I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
>place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is the common
>bond that I have seen in here.
    
    Than why all the New Age and non-gospel overtones?  You're big on
    Jesus-only and He had a lot to say about this in John 14:6.

>	Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
>closer to, Jesus Christ.
    
    That's admirable, but He said He's the only road and I see people
    trying to build new/alternate roads in here.

>	Does this make sense to you?
    
    Nope.  We're called Christians because we follow Him, not ourselves.
    
    Mike
9.1639AIMHI::JMARTINMon Sep 12 1994 17:5217
    >I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
    >place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is
    >the common bond that I have seen in here.
    
    Glen, I beg to differ.  Not in an insulting way, it's just that
    different people in this conference have a different view of what Jesus 
    came for.  I believe he came to seek and save that which was lost.
    
    Sanctification - To be made holy.             (Done by Jesus)
    Redemption -  To be bought with a price.      (Done by Jesus)
    Atonement - To satisfactorily meet the requirements of the blood
                sacrifice.    (Done by Jesus)
    Propititation - To satisfactorily meets God's wrath.  (Done by Jesus)
     
    Kind of makes us charity cases, doesn't it?!
    
    -Jack
9.1640BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Sep 12 1994 18:5468
| <<< Note 9.1638 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>


| If one of them doesn't believe it's the Word of God, their views on the 
| passage will not only differ most of the time, but the discussion will
| turn into a debate.  This doesn't edify the Body of Christ.

	Oh.... one is just supposed to roll over and believe? A debate may very
well be needed. A debate can very much edify the Body of Christ. If you think
about it, people read/hear the debate, they can see what others think. It will
either clear up problems some may have had, or even prompt others to ask other
questions. In the end a person can very well see the light. Oh, it may not be
either of the 2 debators, it could just be someone completely different.

| There are no gray areas in John 14:6.

	Mike, do you really believe that everyone interprets the Bible in the
exact way on every single verse, that everyone's beliefs system is exactly the
same on every level? 

	Hmmm... something just came to me. Is it your belief that the Bible is
what has no gray areas, and it is only the humans who have the gray? 

| Salvation is only conditioned on accepting Jesus and His atonement but you 
| have to read the Bible to realize that. The map to the door of salvation is 
| in there. Not everyone finds it or looks for it on their own. Bottomline: you 
| can be saved without the Bible, but you won't grow without it.

	Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
to show you what one might see in the Bible? 

| The Bible's historical aspect is but one of many aspects. It can be used as a 
| historical reference (and is at some educational institutions), but you're 
| cheating your growth as a Christian by limiting it in this way.

	Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?

| Than why all the New Age and non-gospel overtones?  You're big on Jesus-only 
| and He had a lot to say about this in John 14:6.

	Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
proof. Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe
as I do, why would I include just the gospels? He uses everything. NOTHING is
left out. Jesus only to *me* does not mean Jesus and the Bible. It means Jesus,
AND whatever He wants to use to convey the message.

| >	Again, from what I have seen the mission is simple. Bring people to, or
| >closer to, Jesus Christ.

| That's admirable, but He said He's the only road and I see people trying to 
| build new/alternate roads in here.

	New to your belief, or new roads period? If the end result is that this
file brings people closer to Jesus, what is the problem?

| Nope.  We're called Christians because we follow Him, not ourselves.

	Mike, how are people following themselves in here?


Glen
9.1641BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Sep 12 1994 19:0021
| <<< Note 9.1639 by AIMHI::JMARTIN >>>

| >I can't speak for CP as a whole, but from *my* view of it, CP is a
| >place where people believe that Jesus Christ is our Saviour. That is
| >the common bond that I have seen in here.

| Glen, I beg to differ.  Not in an insulting way, it's just that different 
| people in this conference have a different view of what Jesus came for. I 
| believe he came to seek and save that which was lost.

	Jack, if people learn from each other, if people ask questions, if in
the end they still believe in Him, then doesn't that make this a conference
where people believe Christ is our Savior? We may not all have the same
beliefs, but if one common thread is Christ, then there is common ground. It's
Him. Otherwise it would be total chaos as the person who is speaking at the
time can be the only one who has the correct vision of Christ, well, if you are
one that thinks you belief is correct, and anothers isn't.

| Kind of makes us charity cases, doesn't it?!

	See, there is another common ground..... :-)
9.1642CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireMon Sep 12 1994 19:033
    Glen, haven't you learned yet?  Homogeneity is what's edifying, even
    when it's enforced.
    
9.1643BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Sep 12 1994 19:203

	I KNEW there had to be a reason! :-)
9.1644FRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Mon Sep 12 1994 20:2494
    >well be needed. A debate can very much edify the Body of Christ. If you think
    
    these kind don't because they're endless, like this one.  God isn't the
    author of confusion, Satan is (1 Corinthians 14:33).  These divide the
    Body of Christ, not unite them.
    
>	Mike, do you really believe that everyone interprets the Bible in the
>exact way on every single verse, that everyone's beliefs system is exactly the
>same on every level? 
    
    No because religion (beliefs system) is man-made.  The Bible is a
    spiritual book and must be spiritually discerned.  To spiritually
    discern it you must be spiritually alive.  To be spiritually alive, you
    must have God's Holy Spirit within you.  To be filled with the Holy
    Spirit, you must be born again by accepting Jesus Christ as God and
    Savior.  God came to man via the cross because He knew belief systems
    were man's feeble and fallible attempt to reach Him.  Religion will get
    you nowhere.
    
>	Hmmm... something just came to me. Is it your belief that the Bible is
>what has no gray areas, and it is only the humans who have the gray? 
    
    God and His Word have no gray areas.  It is humans who try to
    compromise His Word and rationalize their sinful ways.
    
>	Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
>you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
>believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
>to show you what one might see in the Bible? 
    
    It's possible and I know people it has happened to.  Those that don't,
    continue to struggle with the flesh and don't grow.  Most usually
    backslide to a point where they lose their joy of their salvation. 
    Then they feel inadequate, unworthy, and guilt-ridden and give up
    serving God altogether.
    
>	Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
>the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
>words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?
    
    Good question.  People that say these things probably believe that one
    can lose their salvation.  I'm not so sure at this point if I believe
    one can lose their salvation.  I lean toward the position that states
    that if someone backslides to that point, they probably weren't really
    saved to begin with (no commitment or half-hearted).  Another difficult
    position your question puts you in is knowing when you're being led by
    God or not.  1 John 4 is good for testing the spirits and knowing when
    you are being led in the right direction.  Generally speaking, God will
    never contradict what's in His Word when leading you.  If you don't
    stand on the foundation of His Word, you've lost that advantage and are
    prone to the winds of false doctrine and cultic beliefs.  God has no
    limits in dealing with people, but you're putting yourself on dangerous
    ground.  You have to know how to determine that what you are doing is
    God's Will beyond *any* doubt.  As the saying goes, "Where God guides,
    God provides..."
    
>	Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
>proof. 
    
    I've supplied you with lots of facts and information on prophecies,
    probabilities, evidences of changes lives, original and copied manuscript 
    tests, etc., and we're still debating.  This proves that the Gospel of
    Jesus Christ is truly a matter of the heart and not the mind.  Read
    about Paul's visit to Athens in Acts 17:16-34.  Paul tried to reason
    with them too, but received the same reaction that people have to the
    gospel today: some believed, some sneered, some said maybe later on
    your next visit.  Paul never returned there.  I may be way off base
    here, but I sense by your participation in various conferences that you
    still are searching and don't have 100% peace in your soul.  Given all
    this, my advice to you would be to pray to God to reveal Himself to you
    through His Word and prove to you that the Bible is for real.  Pray for
    Him to show you and give you that peace that you know beyond any doubt.
    Pray that He will fill you with His Holy Spirit so that you may gain
    wisdom in discerning His book.
    
    >Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
>on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
>my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
>Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe
    
    Actually I look at it and compare what I see to what God's Word says. 
    Your debate isn't with man, it's with God.  
    
>as I do, why would I include just the gospels? He uses everything. NOTHING is
>left out. Jesus only to *me* does not mean Jesus and the Bible. It means Jesus,
>AND whatever He wants to use to convey the message.

    When all else fails in your mind, you still have the quotations of
    Jesus in the Bible.  Jesus excluded EVERYTHING but Him in John 14:6.
    Like I said before, you better be sure you *KNOW* everything that's
    extra-Biblical is from God.  Otherwise, you're in the Devil's
    playground.
    
    Mike
9.1645BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Sep 13 1994 14:0296
| <<< Note 9.1644 by FRETZ::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>


| No because religion (beliefs system) is man-made. The Bible is a spiritual 
| book and must be spiritually discerned. To spiritually discern it you must be 
| spiritually alive. To be spiritually alive, you must have God's Holy Spirit 
| within you. To be filled with the Holy Spirit, you must be born again by 
| accepting Jesus Christ as God and Savior. 

	Mike, I have accepted Jesus Christ as our Savior. Would you agree then
that I have God's Spirit within me?

| God and His Word have no gray areas. It is humans who try to compromise His 
| Word and rationalize their sinful ways.

	I agree with this. But I think it is done on both sides of the fence.
Both by those who are perceived to be Christians, and by those who are
perceived to NOT be Christians. 

| >	Thank you for clarifying that. Let me ask you something. If God knows
| >you believe in Him with all your heart, and He knows up front that you do not
| >believe the Bible to be the Word of God, do you believe He will use other means
| >to show you what one might see in the Bible?

| It's possible and I know people it has happened to. Those that don't, continue
| to struggle with the flesh and don't grow.  

	Mike, are you saying you never struggle with the flesh? I didn't think
that was possible for humans to do.

| Most usually backslide to a point where they lose their joy of their salvation
| Then they feel inadequate, unworthy, and guilt-ridden and give up serving God 
| altogether.

	About how many people have you seen that did not believe the Bible to
be the Word of God, and then how many have you seen back slide? 

| >	Mike, do you feel it is wrong for people to say that without the belief
| >the Bible is the Word of God, you can not enter the Kingdom of Heaven? In other
| >words, they are putting limits on what God can use to help one grow?

| Good question.  People that say these things probably believe that one
| can lose their salvation.  I'm not so sure at this point if I believe
| one can lose their salvation.  I lean toward the position that states
| that if someone backslides to that point, they probably weren't really
| saved to begin with (no commitment or half-hearted).  

	I have a hard time with part of your answer. I have seen some very good
people with very strong faiths go through some extremely difficult times that
back peddled. I can't believe that they weren't really saved to begin with.
Circumstances can play a BIG part in everything, especially when you're dealing
with humans. 

| Another difficult position your question puts you in is knowing when you're 
| being led by God or not.  1 John 4 is good for testing the spirits and knowing
| when you are being led in the right direction.  Generally speaking, God will
| never contradict what's in His Word when leading you.  If you don't stand on 
| the foundation of His Word, you've lost that advantage and are prone to the 
| winds of false doctrine and cultic beliefs.  

	Well, I guess we just believe differently. I don't think you have an
advantage either way.

| God has no limits in dealing with people, but you're putting yourself on 
| dangerous ground.  

	If He has no limits, as you say, how am I on dangerous ground?

| >	Mike, prove the Bible is the Word of God without using the Bible as
| >proof.

| I've supplied you with lots of facts and information on prophecies, 
| probabilities, evidences of changes lives, original and copied manuscript
| tests, etc., and we're still debating.  

	But Mike, you have not given any facts that the Bible is the inerrant
Word of God. Prophecies is using the Bible. Probabilities is anything but fact.
Someone changing their life is not proof that the Bible is the inerrant Word of
God, but more that God used the Bible as one of His tools to save a life. The
origional text give no proof, without using itself, that the Bible is the
inerrant Word of God. It is impossible to prove the Bible is the inerrant Word
of God without using the book itself. It would be like trying to prove a liar
is telling the truth by using the liar as your proof. It ain't gonna happen.

| >Now, to answer your question. I am big on Jesus only, and I am also big
| >on my belief that the Bible is not the Word of God. What you have done is take
| >my belief of this file, which is a place where people believe Christ is our
| >Saviour, and looked at it through your own belief colored glasses. If I believe

| Actually I look at it and compare what I see to what God's Word says.
| Your debate isn't with man, it's with God.

	The debate IS with man, the belief is with God.


Glen
9.1646as I read itTFH::KIRKa simple songTue Sep 13 1994 19:0312
re: Note 9.1644 by Mike "Maranatha!" 

>    Generally speaking, God will never contradict what's in His Word when 
>    leading you.  

The phrase "generally speaking" means "as a rule of thumb", or "usually".
You are saying that indeed *sometimes* God *will* "contradict what's in His 
Word when leading you".

Peace,

Jim
9.1647FRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Tue Sep 13 1994 20:081
    Sorry Jim.  Poor choice of words on my part.  
9.1648His Word is Alive and will make you AliveFRETZ::HEISERMaranatha!Tue Sep 13 1994 20:167
    A wise man once said, "Try it, you'll like it."  Another wise one once
    told you to allow the Bible to filter your life, instead of you
    filtering it.  Like I said, this is a matter of the heart, not the
    head.  Further discussions are futile until you seek the Lord in prayer
    and ask for the discernment you are searching for.

    Mike
9.1649moderator actionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Sep 16 1994 19:293
        Notes 960.114-117 have been set hidden.

        Bob
9.1650The Bible says that Satan is seeking whom he may devourJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeMon Sep 19 1994 20:0031
    I have remained silent during the monologues from Greg, however, I find
    it important to let everyone in here know.. that I told Greg in an
    offline mail, [actually opened my heart up to him] regarding what
    happened to me here in CP.  The note basically was to help him
    understand something very vitally important; a lesson that I learned
    from my experience here.
    
    I said that I found myself wound up emotionally and spiritually while
    discussing the rivalry between these two conferences as held by
    Richard.  That in the process of trying to reason, I became rather
    unreasonable and had to apologize and bow out of here.  Why?  To grow,
    to assimilate, to refresh my commitment to the Lord as He called us to
    peace, and to reflect.
    
    I'm sorry that in my sharing of this with Greg, he chose to disrespect
    that trust.  I feel rather violated, but then again, I believe
    that we are known by the words of our mouth... and oftimes I hang my
    head in shame at what comes out of this orifice.
    
    I learned that being right about something doesn't necessarily equal
    righteousness.   And I believe that Richard will understand what I mean
    by this.  :-)
    
    BTW, Richard wrote me offline and I responded.. and I apologized again
    to Richard I told him, " I'm sorry, very sorry for not having more 
    wisdom about this."
    
    Again, I apologize to all for this fray... 
    
    Nancy
    
9.1651mod actionLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Sep 21 1994 17:584
        Notes 960.190-.193 have been set hidden (and the topic
        temporarily set nowrite for some cooling-off).

        Bob
9.1652introductions are *not* requiredLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Sep 23 1994 14:3010
re Note 974.76 by YIELD::GRIFFIS:
                
>               I'd like to stop discussing an entry of
>     		3 so that we can continue on with this discussion.  Whether
>     		or not I have an entry in 3, is not going to change the

        There is absolutely no requirement that you or anyone else
        place an introduction in topic #3.  

        Bob
9.1653Introductions optionalCSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireFri Sep 23 1994 17:139
    .1652  I'll affirm that.  Mine was only an invitation, which I gave
    only once to Greg and after that explained why it might be a good
    thing to do.
    
    I figure Greg will enter an introduction when and if he's ready.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1655AIMHI::JMARTINMon Sep 26 1994 15:0425
    Greg:
    
    If I am one of these conformists in your eyes, i.e. one who is calling
    you luner, an idol worshipper, etc., then let me set the record
    straight.  
    
    I see you as a contributor, and one who is capable of applying
    scripture to certain situations or topics.  I like that, I find alot of
    merit in this and I would like to see more of it.  
    
    What really turns me off is when I see an individual harbor sin in his
    heart...having a score to settle if you will.  Now, say a woman came
    over to my cube and started telling me about her visit to the 
    gynocologist today.  Do you really thin it is proper, appropriate 
    behavior?  I don't.  I think it goes against gender protocol...but
    that's me.  
    
    Now I'm glad that your glad that everybody is happy once again.  But
    Glen, if a person in Yukon made false accusations about you in another
    file, please don't bore us with it.  We're not interested.  
    
    Oh, and as far as being dangerous...no, you're not dangerous.  Just too
    outspoken at times.
    
    -Jack
9.1656AIMHI::JMARTINMon Sep 26 1994 15:061
    Sorry Glen.  I meant to say Greg in the 3rd paragraph!!
9.1658BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Sep 26 1994 16:464


	Do you have me on your mind Jack? heh heh... I'm flattered!
9.1660AIMHI::JMARTINMon Sep 26 1994 17:043
    Greg:
    
    Please write whole song...I like that one!!!
9.1662BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Sep 28 1994 13:545


	Jack, I saw that coming, and STILL found it quite humorous. Good one
Greg!
9.1663AIMHI::JMARTINWed Sep 28 1994 16:441
    Okay, you got me on that one!! :-)
9.1666GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Sep 29 1994 15:293
Does this count as a snarf?

				-- Bob
9.1668AIMHI::JMARTINThu Sep 29 1994 16:112
    You're right...Mr. Kimball is offensive.  How bout Hank Ziffel or Mr.
    Haney!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????
9.1669CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Sat Nov 19 1994 15:567
Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.

Could this be simply an ebbing of the tide?  Or could it be something else?

Shalom,
Richard

9.1670couldn't resist! :=}LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Sun Nov 20 1994 21:035
re Note 9.1669 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE:

> Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.
  
        What's your point?
9.1671The rise and fall of ...VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtMon Nov 21 1994 05:3240
	Re: .1669 Richard.

	> Well, the conference certainly seems to me to be in decline.

	How does one objectively measure decline? The number of times a
	moderator needs to intervene in a given time-span? Or the ratio
	set-hidden : not-hidden?

	I cannot believe that you mean that the decline is because, in recent
	months, there has been less conflict than in the period before that,
	since that would run contrary to my image of you as a pacifist.

	I wondered if your perception of decline is related to the ratio of
	"fundies" : "libs" which appears to have slightly increased recently?
	Maybe!  Personally, I welcome a more balanced participitation: I
	have a better chance to digest the pros and cons of the presented
	arguments without being swamped by one side or the other.

	It could be that the decline, as you percieve it, is a natural result
	of the loss of some very fine and knowledgeable noters in the last
	year (concomitant with the real decline of another "group"). In
	this, I would concur. I, too, miss Collis and Mike and a few others 
	quite a lot.

	Personally, my "bright-light-euphoria" tends to go into decline at
	the end of Summer , reaching a low about mid-January and curving
	upwards as Spring and Summer draw nearer. I wonder if you see the
	world through "seasonal" spectacles, too. "Dark nights make dark mood
	make dark thoughts make dark deeds. Turn on the lights!" (Quote from
	my Aunt Maria, anno ~1950).

	> Could this be simply an ebbing of the tide?

	Most probably.

	> Or could it be something else?

	Maybe you just wanted to hear yourself type?  ;-)

	Greetings, Derek.
9.1672AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Mon Nov 21 1994 12:226
    What we need is for somebody to make an inflammatory remark here or
    perhaps in another conference so that somebody will be victimized and
    deeply offended.  Personnel will possibly be contacted...something like
    that!!!
    
    
9.1673COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 21 1994 12:3510
The latest word from Corporate Personnel is that they are out of the
notesfile business.

If someone is offended, or if a moderator has a problem with a participant,
they are to go to their own management and human resources person to resolve
the problem.  Only if their own management feels it is appropriate to contact
the management of the other party directly (not via corporate) will anything
be done.

/john
9.1674AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Mon Nov 21 1994 14:297
    You mean...womannotes is vulnerable now?!!??!
    
    
    Thanks John....that's all I wanted to know `..'
                                                 ^
                                                `--'
                                                 
9.1675How's that for controversy!!??BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Nov 21 1994 14:359


	Well John, if you didn't cry to them about everything it wouldn't have
been this way. Maybe someday when you grow up and accept the punishments for
the problems you've caused, the notes world will be a better place. 


Glen
9.1676AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Mon Nov 21 1994 18:369
    Glen:
    
    John didn't cause any problems.  It was the ladies flaming rampant
    sensitivity crowd-like attitudes that caused the problems.  They were
    unable to take in truth because it would marr their falso ideological
    outlook on the way the world is...hence their counterfeit utopia would
    be shattered!!!
    
    -Jack
9.1677BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Mon Nov 21 1994 19:134


	Jack..... you've just stepped into the world of the Right..... :-)
9.1678CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Thu Nov 24 1994 15:3019
Note 9.1671

>	How does one objectively measure decline? The number of times a
>	moderator needs to intervene in a given time-span? Or the ratio
>	set-hidden : not-hidden?

I thought of this after I entered the question, but decided to accept whatever
subjective responses the question might generate.

>	I cannot believe that you mean that the decline is because, in recent
>	months, there has been less conflict than in the period before that,
>	since that would run contrary to my image of you as a pacifist.

The Christian pacifists I know do not avoid conflict, but realize that conflict
is an inevitable, even necessary part of life.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1679CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Tue Nov 29 1994 19:0314
Note 176.13

>    Thanks for the welcome Richard, I added my intro to the Christian
>    Notes thinking it would cover both files.
    
>    Bruce
    
Oooo!  Not true, Bruce.  Some here hardly ever visit our sister conference.

You're welcome to extract and copy your intro there into here though.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1680TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Nov 30 1994 21:057
.1679 

   Oooo!  Not true, Bruce.  Some here hardly ever visit our sister conference.

Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference by-laws :^)

Steve
9.1681COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Dec 01 1994 04:036
>Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference bylaws :^)

Does sticking a smily face after making a bogus statement always mean that
you're just kidding?

/john
9.1682CSLALL::HENDERSONDig a little deeperThu Dec 01 1994 11:4512
>Some here are not allowed in the sister conference by the conference by-laws :^)


There are no "by-laws".  There are conference guidelines and statements of
 the purpose for the conference.  Those who do not agree with those guidelines
 and/or the purpose of the conference are not compelled to participate.




Jim
9.1683DNEAST::MALCOLM_BRUCThu Dec 01 1994 12:534
    somehow I can't do an extract.....???
    
    Bruce
    
9.1684TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsThu Dec 01 1994 13:0855
.1681 COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"

>>Does sticking a smily face after making a bogus statement always mean that
>>you're just kidding?

.1682 CSLALL::HENDERSON "Dig a little deeper"
>>Those who do not agree with those guidelines and/or the purpose of the
>>conference are not compelled to participate.

In this case the smiley means that we have been over this before, but I am not
kidding and the statement is NOT bogus. 

According to Digital guidelines employee interest notesfiles are to be respected
regarding the intent of the noters, ie. respect diversity. This means that the 
guidelines to the conferences should be taken seriously. 

From the guidelines to the other conference:

THE BIBLE       THE BIBLE, GOD'S WORD, IS THE STANDARD. As such it
                becomes the standard by which entries will be judged.

                Any entries that are derogatory, attempt to alter it,
                or attack Biblical beliefs will be be set hidden and/or
                deleted.
---
                Entries that are deemed to be in conflict with Biblical
                beliefs, and/or not in the spirit of the conference
                guidelines, will be set hidden and/or deleted.

                Arguments that repeatedly deny any of the basic
                tenets as put forth in the Statement of Faith and
                Conference Guidelines will not be entertained.

                Such arguments will be viewed as not valuing the
                difference of belief, and will be handled as the
                situation requires.

These groundrules are essentially repeated in other notes, such as 2.8. The
Bible (God's word) is the standard. I do not believe that the Bible is God's
word. I cannot make the 'Statement of Faith'. My views cannot possibly be in the
spirit of the conference guidelines (by definition). The last paragraph
basically says that if I do note, stating any of my true beliefs, my management
may be notified. 

Jim says that I am not compelled to participate. I maintain that by the rules, I
am basically barred from participating because of MY beliefs.

Now don't get me wrong, I don't have a problem with this. You have a right to
form this kind of forum for discussion among like-minded individuals, just as
you have a right to form community churches (I believe that church-crashing as
practiced by some gay groups recently is wrong). But I don't see how you can
argue that I would be able to participate given the guidelines. The reality of
the conference may be different, but the guidelines are quite clear...

Steve
9.1685CSLALL::HENDERSONDig a little deeperThu Dec 01 1994 13:1511

 Perhaps Patricia would comment (which I believe she already has) on
 her recent experiences in "the other conference".






Jim
9.1686POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amThu Dec 01 1994 13:2110
    I was respected and treated well in the "other notes conference".  I
    was however very much aware of the rules of the Christian Conference
    which meant I could only argue based on what was recorded in the Bible.
    
    That is not my worldview so ultimately I do not note there.
    
    I do respect the right of a group of persons to define the limit of the
    conversation and be left alone to converse within that limit.
    
                                        Patricia
9.1687CSLALL::HENDERSONDig a little deeperThu Dec 01 1994 13:4016

RE:         <<< Note 9.1686 by POWDML::FLANAGAN "I feel therefore I am" >>>

       
   > I do respect the right of a group of persons to define the limit of the
   > conversation and be left alone to converse within that limit.
    
    


 Thank you for that.  



 Jim
9.1688it shouldn't be a stumbling block to youFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingThu Dec 01 1994 15:525
    Every conference has guidelines.  Despite the "by laws" there have been
    many discussions in there that deal with subjects that aren't strictly
    Biblical.  
    
    Mike
9.1689TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsThu Dec 01 1994 20:2020
.1688 FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything"
 Title:  it shouldn't be a stumbling block to you

    Every conference has guidelines.  Despite the "by laws" there have been
    many discussions in there that deal with subjects that aren't strictly
    Biblical.  

I don't disagree, as I said, the reality of the conference may be different from
the guidelines. Just like the letter and the practice of the law can vary.

I assume, however, that some level of thought went into the guidelines, and they
were meant to define the types of discussions the originators wanted to have.
Based on my interpretation those discussions are to take place between people
that base thier beliefs on the Bible. As my beliefs are not based there, I do
not feel that this is a conference that wanted to deal with folks such as
myself. That's OK, and I've respected what I believe their wishes to be by
staying out. (I do believe I would be subject to disciplinary action if I noted
honestly there, but that has played no part in my decision to not participate).

Steve
9.1690COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Dec 02 1994 02:0316
The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
revelation of God in Jesus Christ.

There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
is time literal and absolute, etc.

But the conference presumes that there are other forums on the network for
attempting to prove that God doesn't exist or that Christianity is not the
unique divinely established religion by Jesus Christ for all humanity and
for all time, until the end of the world.

/john
9.1691but in practice one must stay far from the edgeLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Dec 02 1994 12:1535
re Note 9.1690 by COVERT::COVERT:

> The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
> who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
> as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
> revelation of God in Jesus Christ.
> 
> There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
> completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
> which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
> is time literal and absolute, etc.
  
        The problems arise, John, when an argument that a certain
        text is literal, or about the nature of inspiration itself
        (not whether "inspired", but what "inspired" means), or any
        of a dozen other issues is interpreted by some as equivalent
        to attacking the authority and inspiration of the Bible
        itself, or questioning the nature of Christ.

        While such discussions may be tolerated, I have witnessed
        over the years (and I was one of the first participants in
        the first CHRISTIAN conference) that honest discussions on
        such things do bring some regular and vociferous participants
        to the point of at least suggesting a violation of the ground
        rules.  I think in some cases it has gone a lot farther than
        that (notes hidden and deleted).

        I know that I, for one, cannot comfortably participate in the
        chilling shadow of such possibilities.

        Certainly one of my motivations in helping to establish this
        conference was to allow discussions to take place "on the
        borderline," primarily by eliminating the formal border!

        Bob
9.1692POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Dec 02 1994 12:4519
    Re -1
    
>The purpose of the ::Christian guidelines is to make it clear that those
>who participate there are not to argue against the authority of the bible
>as being divinely inspired, against the existence of God, or against the
>revelation of God in Jesus Christ.
    
    John, if that is the purpose of the guideline, then I can personally agree
    with that guideline.  However, there is a huge difference between
    saying that the Bible is divinely inspired and the Bible is inerrant.

There are frequent discussions of exactly what that means -- are words
completely literal, are they for individual or community interpretation,
which translations are most accurate, are the truths physical or spiritual,
is time literal and absolute, etc.
    
    Those discussions are  narrowed by the concept of inerrancy which is
    also part of the conference.
    
9.1693Spiritual inerrancy vs. physical inerrancyCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Dec 02 1994 12:537
But there is quite a bit of room for discussion, even within the scope
of "inerrancy".

For example, one can consider the bible to be inerrant, but not consider
the seven day creation story to be inconsistent with the Big Bang theory.

/john
9.1694POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Dec 02 1994 13:113
    But if you assume that the Bible is innerant, it is pretty difficult to
    argue that God did not create women to be subordinate to men.
    
9.1695BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Dec 02 1994 14:1524


	Steve, if you look at the discussions that have come from your note,
you should be able to clearly see that your participation if valued and
welcomed here. We have seen many people talk about what this conference means
to them, what can be discussed, possible problems that could arise. each one
has a little different view of it all. Each one is welcomed, and each one of
their views has and will continue to be discussed. Please don't think you
shouldn't discuss your views in here. Your views are another piece of the pie.
If we are truly to be a nation that follows God, then ALL views, ALL people
must be heard, and loved. You are not right, wrong, or anything else. You have
your beliefs. In the end, you'll find if they are right or wrong. But
discussion will help you see other venues that are out there. It really is
amazing.

	Think about the peace talks that have happened this past year. Did
either side think the other belonged? At one time, no. But through dialogue
they have STARTED to open up. So please, stay in the file and discuss your
views. It may get heated from time to time, and if it does too much, step back
for a bit. But please don't stop participating.


Glen
9.1696FRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingFri Dec 02 1994 14:2010
>    But if you assume that the Bible is innerant, it is pretty difficult to
>    argue that God did not create women to be subordinate to men.
    
    It's not difficult at all.  Eve is called a "helpmeet" or partner for
    this very reason.  If Eve was a subordinate, she would've been made
    from Adam's feet.  If she was superior, she would've been made from
    Adam's head.  They're equal because woman was made from man's side. 
    It's all really very simple.
    
    Mike
9.1697TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsFri Dec 02 1994 16:5011
.1695 BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....."

Glen,

Thanks. I feel comfortable in this file, by and large this group is pretty
understanding. 

My comments were directed to the other Christian notesfile. I would not (out of
politeness) participate in that file because the guidelines clearly leave me out.

Steve
9.1698POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Dec 02 1994 17:023
    "helpmeet" and Subordinate mean the same things.
    
    
9.1699help meetLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Dec 02 1994 17:1020
re Note 9.1698 by POWDML::FLANAGAN:

>     "helpmeet" and Subordinate mean the same things.
  
        I'm not so sure that the word rendered "help meet" implies
        "subordinate" (unless you always consider a "helper" to be
        subordinate to the "helpee" :-).


        On the other hand, probably less ambiguous and more
        problematical for you, Patricia, might be Ephesians 5:23 --
        "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is
        the head of the church..."

        (Of course, this only applies to the marriage relationship,
        and one could argue that the meaning of "head" is unclear,
        but the comparison to the Christ-Church relationship probably
        leaves little doubt who is the "superior".)

        Bob
9.1700POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Dec 02 1994 17:3614
    Ephesians and Timothy are good examples too!
    
    I was thinking of things like
    
    Electrician
    Electrician's helper
    
    Nurse
    Nurse's Aid
    
    Vice President
    Assistant to the Vice President.
    
    It is clear in each case, who is on top!
9.1701BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Fri Dec 02 1994 18:515



	Steve, that never stopped me..... :-)
9.1702CSC32::J_OPPELTI'm an orca.Fri Dec 02 1994 19:1615
>        On the other hand, probably less ambiguous and more
>        problematical for you, Patricia, might be Ephesians 5:23 --
>        "For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is
>        the head of the church..."
    
    	Sure, when taken as a single sound-bite, this one line can
    	be very problematic.  But what is the line before it?  "Submit
    	to each other..."  And what comes after it?  "Husbands, love
    	your wives as Christ loved the Church ***AND GAVE HIMSELF UP FOR
    	HER***"   (Clearly these are paraphrases, and the emphasis is
    	mine...)
    
    	Why do people refuse to pay attention to the whole passage, and
    	the spirit of that passage?  Why must they home in on the one
    	line that, standing alone, is so volatile and so misunderstood?
9.1703must be my male bias on the issue of "helper" :-)LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Dec 02 1994 19:4926
re Note 9.1700 by POWDML::FLANAGAN:

>     I was thinking of things like
>     
>     Electrician
>     Electrician's helper
>     
>     Nurse
>     Nurse's Aid
>     
>     Vice President
>     Assistant to the Vice President.
  
        "Help meet" isn't a title, but a description.

        I was thinking like:

        the teacher helps the student,

        the doctor helps the patient,

        the parent helps the child,

        the manager helps the employee get what is needed to get the job done.  :-}

        Bob
9.1704POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Dec 02 1994 20:0216
    We are getting off the subject.  We are talking about the differences
    of the two conferences.
    
    In this conference, I can argue that it is my belief
    
    1.  That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
    2.  That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
    divinely inspired.
    
    I am not allowed to link those two statements together in the other
    conference.  The only way I can argue that women should not be
    subordinate to men, is to pretend that the Bible does not really say
    they should be in Corinthians, Timothy, Titus, Ephesians and who knows
    where else.
    
    Patricia
9.1705CSC32::J_OPPELTI'm an orca.Fri Dec 02 1994 20:1213
>    1.  That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
>    2.  That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
>    divinely inspired.
>    
>    I am not allowed to link those two statements together in the other
>    conference.  
    
    	Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
    	as you see it.  It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!
    
    	But I see your point.  I agree that there are certain things
    	one cannot say/profess/argue in ::CHRISTIAN, and personally
    	I like it that way.
9.1706FRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingFri Dec 02 1994 20:5110
    >    1.  That the Bible calls for the subordination of women to men,
    
    I don't think anyone in here has proven this.  helpmeet <> subordinate.
    
>    2.  That the subordination of women to men is erroneous and not
>    divinely inspired.
    
    Agreed and God's Word supports this.
    
    Mike
9.1707BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Dec 06 1994 13:5216
| <<< Note 9.1705 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca." >>>


| Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
| as you see it.  It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!

	The Bible????

| But I see your point.  I agree that there are certain things one cannot say
| profess/argue in ::CHRISTIAN, and personally I like it that way.

	It does make it easier to see just one side of anything that way.
Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here. 


Glen
9.1708Help Meet <> SubordinationFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingTue Dec 06 1994 14:515
    I checked out "helpmeet" in my Hebrew dictionary last night.  The
    Hebrew word used there means "to surround, protector, aid, to succor." 
    None of these sound like subordination at all to me.

    Mike
9.1709CSC32::J_OPPELTI'm an orca.Tue Dec 06 1994 14:5216
>| Sure you are, because the Bible does NOT call for subordination
>| as you see it.  It *is* erroneous, and *NOT* divinely inspired!
>
>	The Bible????
    
    	I hope you're just PRETENDING to be stupid.

>Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here. 
    
    	What you see as "openess" I see as something else.  I need not
    	say more on that.  It's OK that we see it differently.  That's
    	the beauty of the two conferences -- to meet different needs,
    	which is why you spend more time in here than I do.


Glen
9.1710TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsTue Dec 06 1994 17:388
.1709 CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca."

    	What you see as "openess" I see as something else.

Joe, of course you don't have to elaborate, but I would be real interested in
what you see it as...

Steve
9.1711BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Tue Dec 06 1994 19:2125
| <<< Note 9.1709 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "I'm an orca." >>>


| I hope you're just PRETENDING to be stupid.

	It was a joke Joe. Why do you feel the need to always be so insulting?

| >Personally, I like the openess of everyone in here.

| What you see as "openess" I see as something else.  

	Joe, maybe we have a different opinion on what openess is. I was
looking at it from the viewpoint that people in this file seem to open up and
tell us exactly what their beliefs are, how they came to their conclusions, how
it has effected their lives. Not whether it was right or wrong. Were you
thinking along the lines of either of the two I mentioned, or something else
entirely?

| the beauty of the two conferences -- to meet different needs, which is why you
| spend more time in here than I do.

	What need do you think I am searching for Joe?


Glen
9.1712CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Tue Dec 06 1994 22:215
    This is *not* SOAPBOX.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1713BIGQ::SILVAMemories.....Wed Dec 07 1994 13:0811
| <<< Note 9.1712 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Okeley-dokeley, Neighbor!" >>>

| This is *not* SOAPBOX.


	Richard, just curious, what about that last note made you think it was
a SOAPBOX type note? 


Glen

9.1714CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Thu Dec 08 1994 13:329
    271.292 and 271.294
    
    Ray,
    
    Thank you.  Permit me to extend the hand of Christian reconciliation.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1715BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Dec 20 1994 12:3843

	Jack, let's continue here, seeing we're not talking about demons.
Please explain what you meant in note 1020.10. I've included that note,
the note you were referring to, and the note I had been referring to below:



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AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"               5 lines  19-DEC-1994 15:19
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    Right Glen...let's keep the old liberal skeleton's in there that seem
    to live by this notion that your too stupid to make decisions for
    yourself!!
    
    -Jack


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Note 1020.9                          Demons                              9 of 22
BIGQ::SILVA "Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box!"      4 lines  19-DEC-1994 15:09
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	Richard, I liked that analogy! :-)



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Note 1020.7                          Demons                              7 of 22
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Unquenchable fire"                10 lines  19-DEC-1994 13:48
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I've changed my mind a number of times about demons, their existance and
the nature of their existance.  I wouldn't doubt that I'll change my mind
again.

I've personally never seen a demon, unless you count Gingrich and Helms.
(But I would prefer to believe these two are simply "Dumb and Dumber") ;-}

Shalom,
Richard
9.1716AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Tue Dec 20 1994 15:3123
    Okay Glen...
    
    It has been two weeks since the election, and I have seen nothing but
    demonization of Gingrich.  Even when Bill Clinton was elected, I at
    least stated that I hope he succeeds (selfish reasons only).
    
    I realize Richards posting was done in humor...probably with a tad of
    genuineness in the reply.  That's okay, but what baffles me is why Newt
    Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done anything
    yet. 
    
    I am a big proponent of debate of the issues.  I have found this
    contract, political or not, will AT LEAST bring the issues to the
    floor.  Remember that there are democrat reps who have always wanted to
    debate things like the Line Item veto, Term Limits, etc.  Foley and his
    ilk have been holding these things up for years.
    
    I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful
    change that will make a difference, I see people belly aching. 
    Remember, Clinton has the veto power and I believe the Senate can still
    fillibuster...So Newt and Dole aren't as in control as people think.  
    
    -Jack
9.1717CSLALL::HENDERSONLearning to leanTue Dec 20 1994 15:363

 Its been about 6 weeks since the election, FWIW
9.1718double standardFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingTue Dec 20 1994 16:031
    Jack, I think that shoe only fits when we have to wear it.
9.1719BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Dec 20 1994 16:1670
| <<< Note 9.1716 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>


| It has been two weeks since the election, 

	Jack, this explains it. You've taken about 4 weeks off of your life
somewhere so you probably didn't hear the stuff he said. :-)

| and I have seen nothing but demonization of Gingrich.  

	True, because of the things he has said.

| I realize Richards posting was done in humor...probably with a tad of
| genuineness in the reply.  That's okay, but what baffles me is why Newt
| Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done anything yet.

	I think it's based on what he has said he would do. Does it make sense
if you know that what a person says doesn't fit your views to wait until said
person does the action they're talking about before you mention that you don't
like it? That you think it will hurt more than help? To voice the opinions may
or may not prevent something good/bad from happening. But seeing in this case
Gingrich has stated he is for the people, then he should listen to what the
people say.

| I have found this contract, political or not, will AT LEAST bring the issues 
| to the floor.  

	You're right about that Jack, it will bring it to the floor. I wonder
how many people who voted GOP because of the contract, did so because they
thought these things would pass? 

| Remember that there are democrat reps who have always wanted to debate things 
| like the Line Item veto, Term Limits, etc. Foley and his ilk have been holding
| these things up for years.

	As well as he and the others should have. We have term limits now Jack.
They are called elections. The line item veto will give the party in charge the
power, which is wrong. If you have a bill that is about crime, then it has to
have ZERO attatchments. Large chunks of bills have stuff that isn't related to
it added on just so people will vote for it. Let each bill stand on its own,
and if it means more hours are put in voting issues, so be it. But the 2 things
you've talked about are things that should never come to pass.

| I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful change 
| that will make a difference, I see people belly aching.

	Jack, apparently not everyone views the changes as meaningful, and that
some may even view some of the changes as useless, or hurting. Welfare reform
has to happen. But it has to be done the right way, not a way that will harm
people. It's kind of funny. They say they don't want to allow mothers extra
money if they are on welfare and have another kid. I agree with this. BUT, then 
they offer a middle class tax break that deals with so much money being taken 
off of your taxes based on how many kids you have.....does this make sense?

| Remember, Clinton has the veto power and I believe the Senate can still
| fillibuster...So Newt and Dole aren't as in control as people think.

	The fillibuster should be done away with as well. People working
together is what is needed. Getting the neighborhoods back to what they should
be is one area that I would like to see done. That will involve state gov & the
people themselves. 

	But Jack, you still haven't answered my origional question. The, "can't
think for themselves" one? I mean, you stated that you thought Richards remark
was humor, yet your reply towards my comment, which had a :-) with it to show
it too was humor, was kind of harsh. So could you clear that up as well?



Glen
9.1720BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Dec 20 1994 16:1710
| <<< Note 9.1718 by FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything" >>>


| Jack, I think that shoe only fits when we have to wear it.
| -< double standard >-

	Mike, could you explain the double standard?


Glen
9.1721APACHE::MYERSTue Dec 20 1994 16:5213
    re .1716

    > Newt Gingrich is demonized by everybody...when he hasn't even done
    > anything yet.

    This is a false statement because:

         1) Everybody is *not* demonizing Newt. Given the election results
            I would say that a minority disagrees with him and even fewer
            "demonize" him.

         2) Newt is *not* a new face in congress. He is a senior member who
            has done plenty.
9.1722AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Tue Dec 20 1994 17:0836
    Glen:
    
    Apparently Newt is listening to the people...otherwise, it would stand
    to reason that the pubs would have lost.
    
    It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. 
    Problem is that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along
    the problems in the first place.  It's all a matter of perspective.  I
    find the great society started by LBJ has been one of the great evils
    of our time.  Wealth redistribution...welcome to downtown Roxbury...we
    know you'll enjoy your stay.
    
    Surely you can understand that a thirty year dismal failure is going to
    leave the country skeptical of governments answers to poverty.  No
    Glen...you just think your helping people.  Fact is, your setting a
    paradigm of entitlements and government dependency.  If you were a
    Heroin addict, the last thing I'd do is encourage you to stay on
    heroin!
    
    As far as thinking for yourself...the democrat party for years has been
    preying on the weakminded and the utopia seekers.  Now you know why the
    democrats want illegal aliens to be able to vote.  Hey...just come to
    America...register at the Registry of Motor Vehicles (Because your too
    stupid to register anywhere else and hence you won't vote for me)...and
    I will give you these goodies.  You need me because your not
    intelligent enough to think for yourselves...you need me on Beacon Hill
    or Capitol Hill because I'm for you...I'm for the little guy!  Glen,
    your reps think your an idiot!  But guess what, I don't and that's why
    I'm so against the liberal establishment.  For example...Leon Panetta,
    one of the biggest patronizers of our time!  I loathe him as a
    politician because he thinks you're a chump and I resent that.  I've
    never seen a bigger bunch of elitists than I have in this current
    administration.  Every cabinet is a millionaire...but they feeeeel your
    pain!
    
    -Jack
9.1723good luckFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingTue Dec 20 1994 17:453
    >	Mike, could you explain the double standard?
    
    Glen, I think you can figure it out.
9.1724APACHE::MYERSTue Dec 20 1994 17:5510
    > the democrat party for years has been preying on the weakminded and the
    > utopia seekers... [etc.,etc.]
    
    And you think the Republican congress-critters are any different!?
    The joke's on you my friend. (Exactly who the weakminded are is up for
    debate.)
    
    	Eric
    
     
9.1725BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Dec 20 1994 18:5334
| <<< Note 9.1722 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>


| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is 
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the 
| first place.  

	STOP. :-)  This is your first mistake. What the reality of the
situation is that I think Newt is to the far right, while many of the people
who have been running the country are to the far left. We need a middle ground.
The BASIC ideas Newt has, well... some of them are good. Welfare reform is
needed. His ideas on it leave me with a bad taste in my mouth. The way it is
now leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What we need is a middle ground to solve
the problems, not create new ones like Newt and the Left will do.

| Surely you can understand that a thirty year dismal failure is going to leave 
| the country skeptical of governments answers to poverty.  

	If you state it as that, yeah. But if people listen to the answers the
government is now saying, you'll see it is NOT saying the same thing it was
before.

| No Glen...you just think your helping people.  

	STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.

| Fact is, your setting a paradigm of entitlements and government dependency.  

	Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong. 



Glen
9.1726BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Dec 20 1994 18:548
| <<< Note 9.1723 by FRETZ::HEISER "Grace changes everything" >>>


| >	Mike, could you explain the double standard?

| Glen, I think you can figure it out.

	Mike, if I could figure it out, believe me, I would have said so. 
9.1727TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsTue Dec 20 1994 22:078
.1716 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"

    I hear people decry change but when change comes along...meaningful
    change that will make a difference, I see people belly aching. 

Clinton has proposed a lot of change. To him I'm sure it was meaningful, and it
would have made a difference. The key is whether or not you agree with it :^)

9.1728AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Tue Dec 20 1994 22:1812
    Example:  Universal Healthcare.
    
    End Result:  14% of the GNP handed over to the federal government and
    alot of red tape that you didn't ask for.  I see this as a change...for
    the worse.  All it's doing is accelerating the same direction we've
    been going in LBJ.  That isn't change...thats the same Santa Claus
    rhetoric we've been hearing for years.
    
    Universal coverage is an admirable goal but I'm not willing to sell out
    the country to get it.
    
    -Jack
9.1729CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireTue Dec 20 1994 22:236
    Yes, people tend to vote with their checkbooks, not the Good Book,
    in mind.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1730TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsTue Dec 20 1994 22:448
.1728 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"

    Example:  Universal Healthcare.

As I said, it is a change, it would have an difference, you just don't agree
with it.

Steve
9.1731BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Wed Dec 21 1994 12:325


	Jack, will you be addressing .1725?????

9.1732AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Wed Dec 21 1994 14:5440
Re: Note 9.1725             
BIGQ::SILVA "Nobody wants a Charlie in the Box!"     34 lines  20-DEC-1994 15:53

| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is 
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the 
| first place.  

>>	STOP. :-)  This is your first mistake. What the reality of the
>>situation is that I think Newt is to the far right, while many of the people
>>who have been running the country are to the far left. We need a middle ground.
>>The BASIC ideas Newt has, well... some of them are good. Welfare reform is
>>needed. His ideas on it leave me with a bad taste in my mouth. The way it is
>>now leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What we need is a middle ground to solve
>>the problems, not create new ones like Newt and the Left will do.

I disagree.  What exactly is wrong with Newts idea on welfare reform?  The
churches will have the onus of picking up the slack.  I see this as very good.  
What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.
It has continually been proven time and time that the government does a poor 
job managing money...getting the most bang for the buck.  Schools are a good 
example.  Typical cost of educating a child in Boston is 5 to 7K.  A private
Christian School does a better job for 3200.  

| No Glen...you just think your helping people.  

>>>	STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.

Glen, you seem to communicate that government is the answer on alot of issues.
I tend to disagree.  

| Fact is, your setting a paradigm of entitlements and government dependency.  

>>	Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
>>of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong. 

Oh, so you believe the status quo, which is something Bill Clinton et al has
not addressed too much, will stop the continuing paradigm of government 
dependency?  I don't.

-Jack
9.1733AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Wed Dec 21 1994 14:5815
    >>    Yes, people tend to vote with their checkbooks, not the Good Book,
    >>    in mind.
    
    Richard, there is nothing Godly or even prudent in disorganized
    spending.  There are 100s of alternatives...better than the ones put
    forth by both parties.  God tells us to be prudent with our finances.
    You act as if it is not virtuous to not trust government with something 
    as important as healthcare.  
    
    As it stands, my wife is diabetic.  I cannot get life insurance and
    health insurance would be impossible without a company like Digital.  
    I AM NOT willing to prostitute America in the name of a little
    security...and I do stress the word, little!
    
    -Jack
9.1734BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Wed Dec 21 1994 16:1365
| <<< Note 9.1732 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>

| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.

	Jack, the part I was hoping you would address is above. The part where
you say I am looking to rely on the same people etc. I explained that I thought
Newt was too far to the right for me, and even stated that I thought others
were too far to the left. So it's the claim you made that I wish you would
address.

| I disagree.  What exactly is wrong with Newts idea on welfare reform?  

	I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor 
will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose 
benefits is not a good plan. I agree that people need to get back to work if
they are able. But I think training will need to be implimented, child care for
those who need it (but couldn't afford it otherwise), job placement programs
(like they have for the unemployed) things like that. Taking children away from
teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
problems. 

| The churches will have the onus of picking up the slack.  

	Jack, can they handle the way it is right this very second? We both
know that overall the answer is no. Some may do better than others, but some
may be in areas that aren't too hard hit. So by putting more of a burden on
them is somehow better?

| What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.

	If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?
Government charity has to go as well, but lets do it the right way, and not so
the problems and the number of people living in the streets goes up. God can do
a lot, but He will use us, our minds, our bodies, everything, to fix the
problems.

| | No Glen...you just think your helping people.

| >>>	STOP. Again you have made an incorrect statement about my position.

| Glen, you seem to communicate that government is the answer on alot of issues.
| I tend to disagree.

	Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
do. But it is incorrect.

| >>	Jack, I wish you knew what you were talking about here. Truth is, all
| >>of the things you have said I thought, have been wrong.

| Oh, so you believe the status quo, which is something Bill Clinton et al has
| not addressed too much, will stop the continuing paradigm of government
| dependency?  I don't.

	That's just it Jack. Neither do I. I don't support the status quo. I
have stated that in here and in other notesfiles we have participated in. You
have even participated in some of those conversations. I'm guessing you weren't
paying attention, or confusing me with others AGAIN, as how I have stated my
opinions in there and here do not match your portayal of me.

Glen
9.1735AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Wed Dec 21 1994 17:1383
| It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| first place.

Glen, I guess I am gambling here.  I would assume you voted for Kennedy, your 
incumant Congresscritter (Kennedy or Moakley...not sure which).  Is this the 
case?  Did you vote all the democrat incumbents in...even for Beacon Hill?
If so, I understand that you voted for who you feel best represents your 
interests...the beauty of America.  Only problem is...you voted for the same 
o ld crowd!!!

>>	I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor 
>>will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose 
>>benefits is not a good plan. 

Is this really as overt as that...or is he just making the timeframe for 
accepting aid shorter.  I know when people lose jobs, you can lose the 
aggressiveness to find another.  What better way to motivate people than to 
shorten the safety net?

Glen, there are low skilled jobs available.  I know this for a fact.  Help
wanted signs all throughout Boston!
 
>>Taking children away from
>>teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
>>nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
>>different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
>>than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
>>problems. 

Glen, the liberal DSS (Dept. of Social Services) has been taking kids away from
abusive mothers for years.  Still going on today.  

| The churches will have the onus of picking up the slack.  

>>	Jack, can they handle the way it is right this very second? We both
>>know that overall the answer is no. Some may do better than others, but some
>>may be in areas that aren't too hard hit. So by putting more of a burden on
>>them is somehow better?

Yes.  It is their resposibility foremost...not the governments.  Besides, 
giving will be on the increase when tax relief comes.
 
| What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.

>>	If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?

Glen, who have you been listening to?  Boston is basically owned by two 
entities...that being Harvard University and the Catholic Church.  The Arch 
Diocese in Boston is not as poor as you have been lead to believe.  
Not picking on the catholic church only.  Consider the fact that most of the 
medical institutions in Boston are affiliated or owned by a church or 
synagogue.  Glen, ther is money Money MONEY!!!!  Oh what a difference the role
of the church would make if government would just mind its own affairs...
defending the borders and legislating. 

>>	Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
>>do. But it is incorrect.

Correct me if I'm wrong...you are pro...

ACLU
Affirmative Action
Taxation of Churches and Religious Institutions
Bill Clinton
Choice even if you wouldn't have one if you were a woman.
Goals 2000 and Prophyllactic distribution in schools.
Government controlled healthcare
Gun Control

Now I realize that alot of these things have alot of pull while in your mind 
some have less.  However, you are still far more pro government intervention 
than I am.  

>>	That's just it Jack. Neither do I. I don't support the status quo. I
>>have stated that in here and in other notesfiles we have participated in. You
>>have even participated in some of those conversations. I'm guessing you weren't
>>paying attention, or confusing me with others AGAIN, as how I have stated my
>>opinions in there and here do not match your portayal of me.

Okay, I concede on that...unless you voted all the incumbents in!

-Jack
9.1736TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Dec 21 1994 18:4818
.1732 AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!"

>>Schools are a good example.  Typical cost of educating a child in Boston is 5
>>to 7K.  A private Christian School does a better job for 3200.  


An interesting point. In Colorado Springs we are experimenting with 'charter
schools'. In these schools a private organization comes in, takes over a school
building (gratis) and implements there own program, if approved by the local
school board. Of the organizations that have applied for a charter, all have
asked for the complete allotment per student available (ie. what the public
schools get), most have asked for more free assitance (administrative support,
etc., although I don't believe they will get it) and they still claim they will
lose money overall. The hook, of course, is that they will do a much better job
on education. I'm sure that districts effective use of money varies widely
across the U.S.

Steve
9.1737BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Wed Dec 21 1994 18:5598
| <<< Note 9.1735 by AIMHI::JMARTIN "Barney IS NOT a nerd!!" >>>

| | It sounds to me like you are looking for change for the better. Problem is
| | that you are relying on the same bunch that brought along the problems in the
| | first place.

| Glen, I guess I am gambling here.  I would assume you voted for Kennedy, your
| incumant Congresscritter (Kennedy or Moakley...not sure which).  Is this the
| case?  Did you vote all the democrat incumbents in...even for Beacon Hill?

	You see, this is what puzzles me. Maybe ya just skip over some of the
notes or somethin... :-)  I voted for Kennedy, and I voted for Weld. I voted
Malone. 1 dem, 2 repubs. I vote for who I think can do the best job. I've
stated that in my notes about voting. I've stated voting the party line is not
always voting for the best candidate. I'm an independant anyway, so I get the
best of both worlds. Jack, do you have a bad memory or do you just skip notes?
I know you've replied to some notes dealing with voting, so possibly it's your
memory?

| >>	I want you to read the entire thing before you respond to it. The poor
| >>will get pooer for starters. To take everyone and tell them work or lose
| >>benefits is not a good plan.

| Is this really as overt as that...or is he just making the timeframe for
| accepting aid shorter.  

	There is nothing wrong with shortening the timeframe Jack. Nothing
unless that's all you're doing. Training and stuff like that is needed as well.

| Glen, there are low skilled jobs available.  I know this for a fact.  Help
| wanted signs all throughout Boston!

	Low skilled jobs, low wages. How can someone who is on welfare to begin
with expect to get off of it if they have kids? You can't leave them at home
alone, they can't afford to pay to have someone take care of them. You end up
with no answer, just more problems. 

| >>Taking children away from
| >>teen mothers is wrong (imho). Newt is of the cut and save money, but does
| >>nothing to address the real problems involved. Different locals will have
| >>different problems. People in the burbs may have fewer, and different problems
| >>than those of the inner city. A cut and dry program will not address the
| >>problems.

| Glen, the liberal DSS (Dept. of Social Services) has been taking kids away from
| abusive mothers for years.  Still going on today.

	Does abusive = teen mothers in your mind?

| Yes.  It is their resposibility foremost...not the governments.  Besides,
| giving will be on the increase when tax relief comes.

	You can say that and mean it? Look at what will be given back. Not much
Jack. Will people really take that little amount and give it to the churches?
Come on Jack. You still haven't answered the question if churches can handle
things as they are right this second.

| | What better way to reach the world...churches charity or governments charity.

| >>	If a church has no charity to give, then how will it be better?

| Glen, who have you been listening to?  Boston is basically owned by two
| entities...that being Harvard University and the Catholic Church.  The Arch
| Diocese in Boston is not as poor as you have been lead to believe.

	Got proof Jack? Why don't we have more shelters then Jack? Why are
people turned away night after night? Sorry Jack, if they got it, they ain't
sharing it. (but ya gotta prove they got it first)

| >>	Jack, your statement is wrong about me. If you can prove this, please
| >>do. But it is incorrect.

| Correct me if I'm wrong...you are pro...

| ACLU - y
| Affirmative Action - y
| Taxation of Churches and Religious Institutions - n
| Bill Clinton - y/n
| Choice even if you wouldn't have one if you were a woman. -n
| Goals 2000 and Prophyllactic distribution in schools.- n/y (goals 2000?)
| Government controlled healthcare - y/n
| Gun Control - y

| Now I realize that alot of these things have alot of pull while in your mind
| some have less.  However, you are still far more pro government intervention
| than I am.

	Well, with things like murder and such going on, which we both would
agree the government should have laws against, it's easy to see why gun control
should be in place. :-)

| Okay, I concede on that...unless you voted all the incumbents in!

	I vote for who I think is best. If I thought all the best were the
incumbents, your statement would still be false.


Glen
9.1738AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Wed Dec 21 1994 19:093
    Okay Okay Okay...I give up...Uncle Uncle Uncle!!!!!  You Win...I lose.
    
    Now...how do I get deprogrammed>!!!???
9.1739BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Thu Dec 22 1994 12:543

	but will you remember..... :-)
9.1740AIMHI::JMARTINBarney IS NOT a nerd!!Wed Dec 28 1994 12:305
    Remember what?!  What are you talking about my friend?
    I haven't a clue as to what you are referring to.  
    
    I'm not a schitzo and neither am I!
    
9.1741BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Tue Jan 03 1995 13:554


	<grin>
9.1742is mention of disbelief inappropriate?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Jan 04 1995 12:2538
re Note 1023.12 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:

> .9>>    	else while I was there.)  I've been told that my doubt will
>   >>    	keep me blind to them.
> 
> >As an aside (or a rathole if you prefer :^), I have the same problem with belief
> >in God, and have heard the last line more often than I can count. 
>     
>     	What does that have to do with CHRISTIAN perspective?  That's 
>     	supposed to be the subject matter of the conference, isn't it?
  
        Joe,

        I just want to point out that the passing remark made by
        Steve in .9 that your observation regarding visions in .6 was
        *precisely* Steve's observation regarding faith in general is
        *entirely* appropriate in *any* discussion of Christian
        faith.  How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
        disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
        is not allowed?

        Is your faith so insecure that those four lines *identifying
        with you*, albeit in a different faith context, are cause for
        generalized bashing?


>      	I can see your point of view regarding God.  I can respect it too.
>     	I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of 
>     	view among "Christian perspectives", and that's what keeps me
>     	wary of this conference.

        And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
        me so wary of the other Christian conference that I don't
        even read it (although I was, in many ways, a "charter
        member" of the original CHRISTIAN conference).

        Bob

9.1743CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 15:1850
>        I just want to point out that the passing remark made by
>        Steve in .9 that your observation regarding visions in .6 was
>        *precisely* Steve's observation regarding faith in general is
>        *entirely* appropriate in *any* discussion of Christian
>        faith.  
    
    	Belief in God MUST BE A PREQUISITE of Christianity.  If you
    	disagree, we simply have nothing more to discuss.  I'm not even
    	pushing a belief in the Bible here.  Merely a belief in God
    	Himself.
    
>        How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
>        disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
>        is not allowed?
    
    	He did not express a "mere mention of disbelief", but rather
    	an absolute disbelief in God (at least as I interpreted it.)
    
    	There is a big difference between doubting certain practices
    	or manifestations of a religion, and doubting God Himself, and
    	somewhere in between lies the doubt of certain doctrines.
    	Encouraging discussion of Christian practices, of differences in
    	various Christian faith expressions, even discussion about the
    	validity of universal doctrine, would seem to me to be appropriate
    	fare for a conference that purports to embrace Christianity.
    
    	Fostering discussion that espouses disbelief in God Himself,
    	or discussions that rend the very fabric of Christianity, is
    	simply not appropriate *IF* this conference is really a
    	Christian conference.  Rename it FAITH_PERSPECTIVES if you
    	really want to be honest.
    
    	What I'd expect from a truly Christian conference is one where
    	non-believers can come to learn about Christianity and perhaps
    	find Christian faith.  As it stands today, this conference is
    	one where the non-believer comes to defend and explain his
    	non-belief to the Christian so that believers can come to 
    	understand non-belief.  That's not "Christian perspectives".
    	It's "non-Christian perspectives."

>>     	I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of 
>>     	view among "Christian perspectives", and that's what keeps me
>>     	wary of this conference.
>
>        And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
>        me so wary of the other Christian conference 
    
    	What attitude?  Honesty?  Is including atheism/agnosticism
    	among "Christian perspectives" really honest?  That's all I'm
    	trying to point out.
9.1744are you thinking?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Jan 04 1995 15:4844
re Note 9.1743 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:

        Why don't you address Steve's objection, rather than
        objecting merely to the fact that he mentioned it?  Or is the
        problem that you have no answer to Steve, so you just bash
        the conference?


> >        How can one discuss faith if the mere mention of
> >        disbelief (and that is all that .9 was -- just four lines!)
> >        is not allowed?
>     
>     	He did not express a "mere mention of disbelief", but rather
>     	an absolute disbelief in God (at least as I interpreted it.)
  
        I can assure you most solemnly, Joe, that I will have no part
        of any conference in which atheists/agnostics cannot
        participate or in which they cannot use four lines to state
        that they are atheists/agnostics and why.

        It is hardly "fostering" disbelief to allow such statements.


>       Rename it FAITH_PERSPECTIVES if you
>     	really want to be honest.
  
        ... but then some jerk will chime in "how can someone espouse
        a position of no faith in a conference named
        FAITH_PERSPECTIVE" -- believe me, you can't win in this game.

          
> >        And it is the prevalence of attitudes such as this that keeps
> >        me so wary of the other Christian conference 
>     
>     	What attitude?  Honesty?  Is including atheism/agnosticism
>     	among "Christian perspectives" really honest?  That's all I'm
>     	trying to point out.

        Do you really think it is wise to allow a non-believer into a
        discussion of Christianity but never allow them to say *why*
        they don't accept Christianity?  Won't this put an incredibly
        large hole in your ability to evangelize, if nothing else?

        Bob
9.1745GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Jan 04 1995 16:0051
Re: .1743 Joe

>    	What I'd expect from a truly Christian conference is one where
>    	non-believers can come to learn about Christianity and perhaps
>    	find Christian faith.  As it stands today, this conference is
>    	one where the non-believer comes to defend and explain his
>    	non-belief to the Christian so that believers can come to 
>    	understand non-belief.  That's not "Christian perspectives".
>    	It's "non-Christian perspectives."

In other words, you'd like CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE to be more like
CHRISTIAN.  I hope that never happens.

Steve Bittrolff and I have been completely open about the fact that we do
not consider ourselves to be Christians.  There is no dishonesty here; the
fact is that both believers and non-believers have been welcome in C-P
from its inception.  (Otherwise, how could I have been one of the original
moderators?) From note 1.0:

    The purpose of this conference is to discuss various doctrines, 
    teachings, and spirituality and their application to living from a 
    Christian perspective, in which all denominations are welcome, and in 
    fact, those who have no denominational affiliation are equally 
    welcome as well....

    It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or 
    spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and 
    contrast them with Christianity.  This is entirely appropriate.  We 
    would ask all participants to refrain from lengthy exchanges that are 
    primarily about non-Christian topics.  Instead, we encourage the 
    placement of "pointers" to other notefile conferences, including, but 
    not limited to RELIGION, where such discussions might take place at 
    greater length.

Yes, the primary subject matter of C-P is Christianity, as defined in note
8.7.  When Mikie Morgan wrote an extended series of notes about Satanism a
few years ago he was asked to take the discussion to the RELIGION
conference.  But it's certainly within the scope of C-P for a non-Christian
to explain his or her reasons for not believing in Christian doctrine.
The conference rules do not impose any kind of doctrinal standard on the
participants.  As stated in note 8.19:

        The only authority that the moderators of this conference
        have and exercise is the authority to enforce Digital
        corporate policy -- period.

        Do not regard any moderator in this conference as having any
        religious authority over the religious content of this
        conference -- they don't have any such authority.

				-- Bob
9.1746CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 16:0127
>        I can assure you most solemnly, Joe, that I will have no part
>        of any conference in which atheists/agnostics cannot
>        participate or in which they cannot use four lines to state
>        that they are atheists/agnostics and why.
    
    	It is more than just a matter of one person entering "4 lines"
    	(BTW, the header of the entry in question says 18 lines...)
    
    	It is a matter of the entire tenor of the conference.  One 
    	reply is but a fragment of the whole.  The conference seems
    	to me to be more geared towards disbelief and dissent than
    	towards understanding true Christian perspectives.  Read the
    	last line of 1023.9.  *THAT* seems to me to be the real
    	purpose of the conference, at least what it has evolved to
    	today...

>        It is hardly "fostering" disbelief to allow such statements.
    
    	I see more than just "allow" here.  And it's more than just
    	disbelief I've mentioned, so you are missing the point if 
    	that's all you've read in my replies.
    
>        Do you really think it is wise to allow a non-believer into a
>        discussion of Christianity but never allow them to say *why*
>        they don't accept Christianity?  
    
    	You miss the point entirely, I see.
9.1747POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Jan 04 1995 16:1330
    In the call to the great commission in Matthew Jesus calls the
    disciples to go out to the world and teach the world what he has
    taught.
    
    1/2 of the Gospel of Matthew is about ethical living and a radical
    demand to love.  To love neighbors, to love enemies, to turn the other
    cheek, to not seek revenge.
    
    The great commission can easily be interpreted as going out and
    creating a world community where people live in love and harmoney. 
    Where all people are connected by this sisterly/brotherly love.
    
    Instead, some have interpreted this great commission to mean rounding
    up an exclusive body of "believers" that can band together and hold
    themselves in isolation from the evil world.  THis is in my opinion a
    perversion of the message of Jesus.
    
    I see the purpose of this conference as fulfilling the foundemental
    message of the Great Commission.  Create a community that is accepting
    and welcoming and members are urged and encouraged everyone who
    participates to treat every participant as a neighbor and with love.
    
    The purpose need not be to believe in doctrines about Christ, but to
    determine if we can live our lifes, just a little bit like Jesus lived
    his life.
    
    That is the "true" Christian Perspective.  But only my "true" Christian
    Perspective.
    
                                   Patricia
9.1748CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 16:2233
    	.1745

    	Bob --

>In other words, you'd like CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE to be more like
>CHRISTIAN.  I hope that never happens.

    	No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
    	Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
    	it is.  

    	Now, I realize that I don't have a chance of seeing my preferences 
    	in this matter come to fruition, so I choose to do what I can.  I'm 
    	entitled to hold an opinion, and I'm being vocal about calling it 
    	as I see it.  Nothing more.

>    It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or 
>    spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and 
>    contrast them with Christianity.  

    	In my opinion, "time to time" is disproportionately represented
    	in this conference.  You may not see it as being that way.  I do.

    	Sorry if my opinion bothers you, but that opinion will not be 
    	going away.  I was directly challenged in 1023.9 to "understand
    	where [he is] coming from", and I took that opportunity to
    	voice my concerns about the prevalence of that call throughout
    	the conference.  Since my return to this conference I have been
    	silent on this point, but a direct challenge was enough to
    	resurrect my concerns.  

    	Again, if this is to be a prevalent theme in the conference, then 
    	the conference is misnamed.
9.1749CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 16:257
>    In the call to the great commission in Matthew Jesus calls the
>    disciples to go out to the world and teach the world what he has
>    taught.
    
    	Great.  To believe in that Great Commission, you must believe in 
    	the bible, or at the very least believe in Jesus (and therefore
    	God.)
9.1750CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireWed Jan 04 1995 17:136
    I thank God atheists and agnostics are welcome to participate so fully
    in a conference built around Christianity.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1751CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireWed Jan 04 1995 17:176
    I feel sorry for those who would exclude, as if that somehow would be
    doing God a favor.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1752TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Jan 04 1995 17:2343
1023.12 CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"

Joe,

This has been covered before. When I first joined this conference I made sure
that I would be welcome as a participant, despite my views. My goal was to
attempt to learn how something that seems so obviously false to me could have
such a huge impact on such a large number of people, and thus on me through
their actions. At the same time I hope to help others understand where I am
coming from. I see a dangerous polarization in society today, and it is getting
worse. I believe that in almost all cases of this sort of thing an us vs. them
mentality, without understanding the them, is a requirement and a prerequisite
to possible violence. I also believe that once you get to know the other side
they are no longer 'them' and both can learn to live together. This conference
gives me an opportunity to do this, and I was assured when I began that I would
be welcome here.

Reading the guidelines for the other conference, it was clear to me that I would
not be welcome there, so I do not participate there. If you want a conference
where everyone agrees with your baseline, I would suggest that you participate
(only) there. If you want honest debates and questions where everything is open,
please stick around.

However, if you would like, I will no longer respond to your notes.

Specifically to my note, I was trying to make a point, to give you (and any
other interested reader) of where I am coming from and why, in the hopes that
common understanding can't hurt and might someday help. I don't believe that
atheists are 'congregating' here (there are three active participants including
myself, that I am aware of, that more or less share my non-belief) nor do I
claim my views as a Christian perspective, and I am certainly not promoting them
in the name of Christianity (just the thought of this makes me smile). If I rub
you the wrong way, well, that's the way it works in this conference sometimes.
If you want me out of the conference it's easy. Call for a vote of participants.
If after a week the majority decides that they do not want me noting here, I
will respect that and (sadly) bow out.
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
.1742 LGP30::FLEISCHER "without vision the people perish
 Title:  is mention of disbelief inappropriate?

Bob,

Well said, thanks.
9.1753APACHE::MYERSWed Jan 04 1995 18:0137
    By and large this conference consists of discussions that explore ideas
    of God, Jesus and scripture in an effort to better understand the
    message of Christ. These ideas, affirmations and beliefs may not fit
    into what *you* call "Christian". They may not fit what I might call
    "Christian", but the point is they are the best humanly possible
    beliefs that person has in striving to fulfill the message of Christ.   

    Now, there are those who participate in this conference that deny the
    existence of God and the holiness of Jesus and his message. It is their
    perspective on Christianity. Do those statements attempt to fulfill the
    message of Christ? No. Do they cause us to reflect on our beliefs? Yes.
    Steve's comments certainly have caused you to react on your beliefs, if
    not reflect on them. Steve said "here's why I believe the way I do."
    Rather than responding in kind ("here's why I believe the way I do")
    you scream "throw the heretic out." But that, I suppose, is your
    Christian perspective.

    This conference explores what it means to be a Christian from very
    personal and individual points of view, rather than from a parochial,
    institutional point of view. The beliefs held by atheists and
    agnostics cannot be countered or addressed unless they are raised. No,
    I think this conference is aptly named; all are welcome to express
    their perspectives of Christ.


    From 1.0 (the conference "Welcome" note) 

    "It is to be expected that from time to time, other religions or
    spiritual philosophies will be discussed in order to compare and
    contrast them with Christianity.  This is entirely appropriate."
    
    
    Regards,
    
    	Eric
    
    
9.1754TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Jan 04 1995 18:0829
re: .several by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"

Joe,

I have no interest in 'unconverting' anybody. Even were it possible, I would not
feel good about yanking something away from somebody that helped them cope. I am
here to understand the Christian perspective, not agree with it. And I would
hope that others might understand my perspective, even if they don't agree with
it.


  	going away.  I was directly challenged in 1023.9 to "understand
    	where [he is] coming from", and I took that opportunity to
    	voice my concerns about the prevalence of that call throughout
    	the conference.  Since my return to this conference I have been
    	silent on this point, but a direct challenge was enough to
    	resurrect my concerns.  

Intereting. In no way did I mean this as a challenge. It was simply a query, you
had mentioned something that I also felt applied to me from a somewhat different
angle. I was simply wondering if I had made the point, or missed it. (BTW, did
I make the point or miss it :^)

This note is moving too fast for me. My previous reply was supposed to go in
about 10 notes before it actually made it, so my context might have been off.
Having read those 10 notes I would have left off the vote suggestion, as it
comes off sounding sort of smug...

Steve
9.1755CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 18:2860
.1748> (me)    	No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
.1748> (me)    	Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
.1748> (me)    	it is.  
    
    ------------------------------------------------------------------

.1750>    I thank God atheists and agnostics are welcome to participate so fully
.1750>    in a conference built around Christianity.
    
	Of course I didn't say that anyone should be excluded.  Hopefully
    	your reply, Richard, wasn't meant to imply that I did.
        
.1751>    I feel sorry for those who would exclude, as if that somehow would be
.1751>    doing God a favor.
    
	Of course I didn't say that anyone should be excluded.  Hopefully
    	your reply, Richard, wasn't meant to imply that I did.
    
	Shalom to you too, Richard.
        
.1752> However, if you would like, I will no longer respond to your notes.
    
    	Surely you don't mean to imply that I ever said I don't want
    	you to reply to my notes!  Where did you get that idea?  Why
    	attempt to villify me with this statement?  
    
    	Please refer back to my statement quoted at the top of this reply.
    	Thank you.

.1752>I don't believe that
>atheists are 'congregating' here 
    
    	Again I repeat, it is more than just an issue of fostering 
    	non-belief.  If that's all you seem to see in my entries, it
    	shows to me either an over-sensitivity to this one point, or
    	a stubbornness in refusing to see beyond it.
    
>If I rub
>you the wrong way, well, that's the way it works in this conference sometimes.
    
    	...as I have already stated today myself.  Just don't take my
    	disagreement personally, and we may just get along better than
    	you seem to expect!
    
.1752>If you want me out of the conference it's easy. 
    
    	Now really.  As I said before, surely you don't mean to imply that 
    	I ever said I don't want you in the conference!  Where did you get 
    	that idea?  Why attempt to villify me with this statement?  Please
    	go back to my statement quoted at the top of this reply.
    
.1753>    you scream "throw the heretic out." But that, I suppose, is your
>    Christian perspective.
    
    	And you too, Eric.  See my statement quoted at the top of this
    	reply.  You are being totally unfair, if not dishonest, in saying
    	that I've even SUGGESTED throwing anybody out.
    
    	Reading these witch-hunt-type replies, I expected to see Connie
    	Chung's name in the headers!
9.1756what a nit!LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Jan 04 1995 19:0717
re Note 9.1755 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:

> .1748> (me)    	No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.
> .1748> (me)    	Let the subject matter and participant mix and focus stay as
> .1748> (me)    	it is.  
  
        Look, Joe, I don't like the way the other conference has the
        name ::CHRISTIAN, since that implies a breadth covering all
        branches of Christian thought which is painfully not the case
        (although was the case at the start of Christian V1, I might
        add).

        However, I don't go in that conference, and if I should ever
        do so, I wouldn't use some flimsy excuse to react to some
        other topic by suggesting the conference be renamed.

        Bob
9.1757CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 19:212
    	So you are admitting that the "breadth of thought" in here is
    	covered under Christianity?
9.1758DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveWed Jan 04 1995 19:2343
re .1755

you make an important point with your objection - you'd like to see the
conference renamed. if i think your objection through to the bottom, in fact, 
you'd like to see the participants who don't agree with you in here, rename 
the christian faith!

seriously though, i can understand that you feel upset. 

this won't be of any real help what i am going to write now, but maybe
it can give some consolation (sp?)

several mentions have been made of the CHRISTIAN conference. always the
same story as it would appear - i too looked around for a place where i can 
share views of christianity, for a place of growth. i looked first in the 
CHRISTIAN file, as the name looked promising, and i was immediately befallen 
by an all to familiar depression - the first notes in that file make it 
quite clear that disagreement is not welcome. the depressing bit for me 
though, how can i discuss christianity in that CHRISTIAN conference if i 
have an unusual homegrown and ever evolving interpretation of the life and 
meaning of christ.

and i sure as hell resent to be depressed, have no doubt about it. i know,
my problem. i wish i had the diginity of some of you in here, to deal 
differently with resentment. but i haven't. maybe you can understand how 
i feel?

in contrast, what a relief, what a discovery this place turned out to be. 
the welcome notice touches me like a fresh breeze every time i look here 
- "prostitutes and tax collectors welcome", what more is there to say, this 
place is wide open, this is where we can get to know our faith!

i think you're doing a good job by airing your objections. you've got
to be vocal, you've got to voice your disagreement when you are DRAWN
to object. this is what i would have done (maybe a year ago) in that 
CHRISTIAN conference (in the meantime i have however experienced the limits 
to my wisdom so i perfer to limit myself to constructive dialogue).

well, not sure if this helped, if it didn't just yell! :-)

regards,
andreas.

9.1759CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 19:305
>you'd like to see the participants who don't agree with you in here, rename 
>the christian faith!

    	Not exactly.  I think that certain participants want to redefine
    	what Christianity is.
9.1760DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveWed Jan 04 1995 19:341
coming to think of it, the thought is quite revolutionary!
9.1761APACHE::MYERSWed Jan 04 1995 19:4228
    re: 1023.12

    > What does that have to do with CHRISTIAN perspective?  That's supposed
    > to be the subject matter of the conference, isn't it?
                                  .
                                  .
    > I just question the appropriateness of including such a point of view
    > among "Christian perspectives"

    
    re: 9.1743

    > Belief in God MUST BE A PREQUISITE of Christianity.  If you disagree,
    > we simply have nothing more to discuss.  I'm not even pushing a belief
    > in the Bible here.  Merely a belief in God Himself.
    


    These are some of the comments that I read that led me to believe you
    do not think atheists and non-believers should be allowed to share
    their beliefs in this conference. The above statements make my
    assertion that you wish(ed) to silence the non-believer (i.e. "throw
    the heretic out") a reasonable one.

    I am troubled that you chose to call me "totally unfair" and "dishonest"
    rather than simply state that I was mistaken. I think you over-reacted.
    
    Eric 
9.1762LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Wed Jan 04 1995 19:5610
re Note 9.1757 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:

>     	So you are admitting that the "breadth of thought" in here is
>     	covered under Christianity?
  
        Yes (or at least we try).

        However that name was taken.  :-}

        Bob
9.1763GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Jan 04 1995 20:4026
Re: .1748 Joe

>	I'm entitled to hold an opinion, and I'm being vocal about calling it 
>    	as I see it.  Nothing more.

Fair enough.

>    	Sorry if my opinion bothers you

It doesn't.  I just wanted to make sure you understood that non-Christians
have always been welcome in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE, at least by the
moderators and the more liberal participants, despite the wrong impression
that might be given by the conference's name.  Many conservatives before
you have claimed, explicitly or implicitly, that non-Christian
perspectives shouldn't be welcome in a conference named
"CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE".

As for changing the name, it's difficult to sum up the entire scope of a
conference in one or two words.  As Bob Fleischer pointed out, CHRISTIAN
isn't a very descriptive name for the other Christian conference, either,
since the name implies that the conference is for all Christians instead
of just "Bible-believing" Christians (evangelicals and fundamentalists).
The name CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE doesn't bother me since I know that
non-Christian perpectives are also welcome here.

				-- Bob
9.1764TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Jan 04 1995 21:0513
.1755 CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?"

    	Surely you don't mean to imply that I ever said I don't want
    	you to reply to my notes!  Where did you get that idea?  Why
    	attempt to villify me with this statement?  
[also replies to other parts of my note along the same lines]

No implication, and no attempt to villify. It was a sincere offer, based on a
misunderstanding (from your later notes) of your position. I wrote that reply 
before I read your clarification (conference name changing), so I was operating
under incorrect assumptions. 

Steve
9.1765CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Jan 04 1995 21:1313
>    I am troubled that you chose to call me "totally unfair" and "dishonest"
>    rather than simply state that I was mistaken. I think you over-reacted.
    
    	Maybe I did.  My apoligies.
    
    	I think that what it all comes down to is a disagreement (as
    	further demonstrated in .1762 and .1763) about what exactly
    	Christianity is.
    
    	I think we'll all just have to agree to disagree, because I
    	see little chance of either side of this difference bending
    	much at this time.  But, if we all agreed on everything, then
    	that would make this meduim pretty boring, huh?
9.1766Untimely Comment from EuropeVNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtThu Jan 05 1995 05:3429
	This note sure is moving fast: there's no way a European can get
	a timely entry in here.

	However, I must say this:

	There is no way that I, as a moderator, would ever agree to a vote
	on Steve's continuing participation in this conference. You are as
	welcome here as all other current participants (as is implied by
	the message on our "doormat").

	As for renaming the conference: I can see that the occasional note
	(especially some from the fairly recent path) could be used as 
	evidence to support this. However, the overwhelming majority of 
	notes in this conference either directly present a Christian 
	perspective or are such as to provoke thought and responses within
	the scope of Christianity. On balance, therefore, I view the
	conference to be appropriately named.

	I would ask all participants in this conference to avoid "bashing"
	CHRISTIAN. We are all, in the meantime, well informed about the
	"terms and conditions" for participation there. If you don't like
	them, stay away; it's as simple as that. It is no part of the
	"mission" of this conference to reform (or antagonize) that
	conference or its participants. Frankly, I feel that there are
	more important things to discuss.

	Thank you.
                                                      
	Greetings, Derek.
9.1767BIGQ::SILVANobody wants a Charlie in the Box!Fri Jan 06 1995 12:2819
| <<< Note 9.1748 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| No, I'd like the conference to be more appropriately-named.

	The conference IS named appropriately. Many different perspectives of
Christianity are allowed in here. But wait, this conference also adds in one
other thing, non-believers can speak their mind. That is something that can not
be done in the Christian conference to the degree it is done here. In that
conference as soon as it's brought up, the guidelines are thrown at you. In
here, as soon as it is brought up, it's discussed. The many perspectives of
Christianity in this file are great. Non-believers can learn a lot from those
who believe. It doesn't mean they are going to convert. It doesn't mean they
won't. But what this conference does is allow everyone to see the many
different perspectives Christians have, without having to worry about being a
non-believer, or as being perceived as a non-Christian because your perpective
is different from the fundamentalist's view.


Glen
9.1768TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsFri Jan 06 1995 12:583
Maybe we should call it 'Perspectives on Christian Perspectives'? :^)

Steve
9.1769CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Jan 06 1995 19:112
    	Buy.  I thought the issue was already resolved.  Why are we
    	bringing it up again?
9.1770CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jan 06 1995 19:2111
Note 9.1769

>    	Buy.  I thought the issue was already resolved.  Why are we
>    	bringing it up again?

A part of being human, I guess.  We sometimes continue to process things
long after they're over.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1771POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amFri Jan 06 1995 20:0610
    Well since everything is in process anyway, its not a bad idea to
    reflect upon our identity on a regular basis.
    
    ARe we a community?
    What is it that makes us a Community?
    
    
                       patricia
    
    
9.1772pointerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jan 06 1995 21:5610
Note 9.1771

>    ARe we a community?
>    What is it that makes us a Community?
    
Questions worthy of their own topic, methinks.  See new note 1034.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1773when were nominations open?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Fri Jan 20 1995 17:3016
re Note 1030.22 by DECALP::GUTZWILLER:

> .20> Lately the tenor of this conference has appeared to me to be outright 
> .20> attacks of Christianity, not discussion or promotion thereof.
> 
> if any of my notes caused offence, i kindly request you to show me which notes 
> offended and why they offended. i don't enter my notes with the intention to 
> offend. most often i enter my notes with the intention to provoke discussion, 
> since i am myself unclear on the issue.
  
        Apparently, Andreas, you have been appointed official
        spokesperson for "this conference"!

        How did it happen?

        Bob
9.1774CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Jan 20 1995 18:066
    	Give it a rest, Bob.
    
    	If your entry was intended to be a stab at me (and I give you	
    	plenty of leeway here to deny it) you would be interested to 
    	know that my response to Andreas in 1030 left plenty of room
    	for you to wear that spokeperson hat if you want it.
9.1775DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveFri Jan 20 1995 18:2413
re .1773 


no bob, i just don't like global accusations (whoever makes them). a global
accusation always leaves me as an individual reader with that nagging feeling
of "am i meant with this?! what is my part in this?!" i think global 
accusations, wherever they come from, are a cowardly approach. i'd rather be 
told straight and take the 'stick' for whatever i put about! :-)

have a nice weekend squire!


andreas.
9.1776My name is NobodyCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireWed Feb 01 1995 22:374
    Why is it that some don't sign their entries?  Is it simply another
    way of maintaining a measure of detachment, like wearing sunglasses
    at night?
    
9.1777Octal snarfCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Feb 02 1995 01:441
My name is at the top of every entry I post.
9.1778HURON::MYERSThu Feb 02 1995 02:463
     -< Octal snarf >-
              
              Cool! I haven't used octal since my PDP8 days!
9.1779MKOTS3::JMARTINI lied; I hate the fat dinosaurThu Feb 02 1995 12:447
    In other conferences when somebody doesn't sign their note, I write
    
    Dear ? 
    
    or Mr./Ms.
    
    -Jack
9.1780ooops....forgot to sign (see 3.150 for name)DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveThu Feb 02 1995 12:574
yes, the thought did indeed cross my mind that 
Mrs. J_OPPELT may just be a bit shy. 

:-)
9.1781APACHE::MYERSThu Feb 02 1995 14:1028
    RE: Note 217.138              

    > As Joe said and as I initially stated at the onset before my
    > friends here in CP started brow beating me...

    I think "brow beating" is too strong a term for the vigorous
    exchange of ideas, terminology, and ideology that goes on in this
    conference. Upon reviewing of the exchange in 217, and using your
    measure of what constitutes brow beating, one would have to
    conclude there was no monopoly of brow beating on the part of your
    friends in CP. I reject this of course, and am not suggesting that
    you or Joe (I think that's his name) were brow beating anyone:
    merely passionately stating you point(s) of view.

    This may be a bit knit picky, but I think this is where the heat
    starts to rise. One person refers to another group, albeit
    obtusely, as committing some indiscretion and a counter
    insinuation ensues. The next thing you know people stomp off in a
    huff shouting character insults at each other.
     
    > So please don't shoot me, I'm only the messenger!
    
    This is just it; don't confuse repudiation of a point of view
    (real or perceived) as "brow beating" the messenger.

    Peace,

    	Eric
9.1782Emily DickinsonSOLVIT::HAECKMea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa!Thu Feb 02 1995 14:1811
    I'm nobody.  Who are you?
    Are you nobody too?
    Then there's a pair of us!
    Don't tell.  They'd banish us you know.

    How dreary to be somebody.
    How public like a frog.
    To tell your name the live long day.
    To some admiring bog.

    :-)
9.1783CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Feb 02 1995 14:5316
    	I simply don't (as a general practice) sign my name.  I don't
    	know why.  I just don't.  I used to, but haven't been doing so
    	for the past few years.
    
    	Perhaps I see notes conversations as just that -- conversations.
    	I don't give my name through conversational discussions when I
    	speak directly to people, and I see notes as speaking directly
    	to people, albeit electronically.
    
    	When I send email I usually sign my name unless the exchange
    	becomes conversational, and then I stop tacking my name to
    	the end.
    
    	Don't expect me to change, TYVM.
    
    	Joe 	(for the sake of this particular exchange).
9.1784MKOTS3::JMARTINI lied; I hate the fat dinosaurThu Feb 02 1995 14:5538
    Thank you Emily!! :-)
    
    Eric, I too have seen this sequence.  If you recall the exchange, it
    went like this in my mind.
    
    Jack:  We must stop the PC Talk in dealing with AIDS.  AIDS is
    propogated by immoral behavior.  We must make a paradigm shift and 
    teach our children that what is acceptable is now uncool!
    
    Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you.  How dare you judge who
    is moral and who is immoral.
    
    Person B: Yes, how could you kick and kick somebody when they're down?
    
    Jack:  I'm not kicking anybody.  I am stating that by the scriptural
           tone measuring right and wrong, drugs and free sex is immoral
           and we as a society need to change the way we're teaching.
    
    Person C: Who are you to decide what is moral and what isn't?
    
    Jack:  Good point, but I am in a Christian Perspective conference and
    am echoing a scriptual tenant on the issues of free sex.
    
    So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
    fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS.  I
    have been since the beginning judging society for its poor handling of
    the teaching of Christian morals.  Silence is the real killer.  It
    deprives children of the proper education they need.
    
    Monogamy and abstinence are very very cool.
    
    Premarital sex, particularly of adolescence is not cool.  
    
    What is wrong with this process?  
    
    To continue in the AIDS topic!
    
    -Jack
9.1785TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsFri Feb 03 1995 20:4922
.1784 MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I lied; I hate the fat dinosaur"

Making some assumptions...

    Jack:  We must stop the PC Talk in dealing with AIDS.  AIDS is
    propogated by immoral behavior.  We must make a paradigm shift and 
    teach our children that what is acceptable is now uncool!
    
    Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you.  How dare you judge who
    is moral and who is immoral.

Assuming I am person A...

You completely missed my point. I was not reacting to your judging of other
people, I was reacting to your claim that you *weren't* judging. 

    So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
    fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS.  I

Because I, at least, believe you are. 

Steve
9.1786CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Feb 03 1995 21:1212
>>    Person A: Jack you insensitive individual you.  How dare you judge who
>>    is moral and who is immoral.

>>    (Jaack) So my big curiosity here is that I haven't seen any affirmation from my
>>    fellow noters here that I am not judging the poor victims of AIDS.  I
>
>Because I, at least, believe you are. 

    	There is a big difference (at least to me) between judging
    	WHO is (im)moral judging WHAT is (im)moral.
    
    	I've only seen Jack speak about the "what".
9.1787Makes me wonder how I'll be spoken of when I'm goneCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Feb 03 1995 23:4612
Note 217.179

>    Is Greg back again!!! :-)

Greg Griffis is not back and is not likely to be back.  I don't think it's
right or fair to keep bringing him up.  I realize these recent remarks are
rooted more in ribbing and SOAPBOX-style hazing than in mean-spiritedness.
But enough is enough and I hope such references to Greg will subside.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1788TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsSun Feb 05 1995 19:3812
.1786

    	There is a big difference (at least to me) between judging
    	WHO is (im)moral judging WHAT is (im)moral.
    
    	I've only seen Jack speak about the "what".

The impressiong I was left with from Jack's earlier notes is that he was judging
both. He seems to be making an effort to say that he did not mean it that way.
That's fine with me, now we can discuss the what.

Steve
9.1789MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Mon Feb 06 1995 13:2912
 >>   Greg Griffis is not back and is not likely to be back.  I don't think
 >>   it's right or fair to keep bringing him up.  
    
    Richard,
    
    Not to worry, Greg and I correspond regularly.  I put the smiley face
    after my inquiry on Greg being back because Greg was notorious for
    making puns and what not!   I wasn't degreding Greg.  I usually forward
    notes to Greg.  In Soapbox note 20 on abortion, I spent about 50
    replies defending Greg.
    
    -Jack
9.1790MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Mon Feb 06 1995 13:302
    I mentioned Greg's name 6 times in that short paragraph.  What poor
    grammer habits! :-)
9.1791BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeMon Feb 06 1995 14:186
| <<< Note 9.1790 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

| I mentioned Greg's name 6 times in that short paragraph.  What poor
| grammer habits! :-)

	I don't think your gram had anything to do with it Jack!!! :-)
9.1792MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Mon Feb 06 1995 14:501
    Ha ha ha hhaaaaaaa you slimer!! :-)
9.1793CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireMon Feb 06 1995 17:3216
Note 9.1789

Jack,

>   In Soapbox note 20 on abortion, I spent about 50
>   replies defending Greg.
    
I'm hearing SOAPBOX echoed quite a bit here lately.  I guess the boundries
become blurred after awhile.

I'm glad you and Greg are on good terms.  I've only had a couple of mail
messages from him since his departure.

Peace,
Richard

9.1794why?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Tue Feb 07 1995 16:2820
re Note 908.111 by CSC32::J_OPPELT:

>     	I guess that Fundamentalism is one Christian perspective that
>     	is not welcome in this conference.
  
        What makes you say that?

        Fundamentalism *is* criticized by some of the participants in
        this conference -- do you interpret that as "not welcome"?

        If so, please note that liberalism is *also* criticized by
        some of the participants in this conference.

        So I would guess that the answer is that fundamentalism is as
        welcome as liberalism.

        This is in accordance with the stated objectives for this
        conference.

        Bob
9.1795Do we feel it only when our own toes are stepped on?CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireTue Feb 07 1995 19:529
    .1794
    
    I would be quick to affirm that fundamentalism is not the only
    version of Christianity which has been subject to critical remarks
    within this conference.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1796CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Feb 07 1995 22:485
>           -< Do we feel it only when our own toes are stepped on? >-
    
    	I assume that this is for me.
    
    	I do not consider myself fundamentalist, so you missed the mark.
9.1797BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 13:2533

	Below is a good example of someone crossing the line and saying how a
person is this or that because of their beliefs. I know Jack Martin was looking
for an example of it, so here is one that just came in today.





        <<< LGP30::DKA300:[NOTES$LIBRARY]CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.NOTE;2 >>>
                 -< Discussions from a Christian Perspective >-
================================================================================
Note 91.4636                  Christianity and Gays                 4636 of 4639
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                      17 lines   8-FEB-1995 02:29
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It is extremely dishonest

	1. to bring up the specific people that homosexual advocates
	   frequently cite

	2. to refer to them as "same sex couples"

	3. to speculate on whether they were "more than just friends"

	4. to do this in a topic discussing homosexuality

	5. and then to claim that you were not implying that their
	   relationship was homosexual.

Offensive, dishonest, and shameful.

/john
9.1798APACHE::MYERSWed Feb 08 1995 14:305
    
    John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
    then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?
    
    Eric
9.1799BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 15:2512
| <<< Note 9.1798 by APACHE::MYERS >>>


| John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
| then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?

	Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were disagreeing
with is the term he origionally used, erotic. 


Glen

9.1800CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Feb 08 1995 15:325
    	You're going to have to search a little harder, Glen, to find
    	something really indicting.  Too often you are so interested
    	in attacking the PEOPLE who oppose your point of view that you
    	have to stretch stuff like this into weak accusations as you
    	just did here.
9.1801CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireWed Feb 08 1995 15:469
Note 9.1796

>    	I do not consider myself fundamentalist, so you missed the mark.

If by my comment I stepped on your toes, I extend to you my apologies.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1802APACHE::MYERSWed Feb 08 1995 15:5010
    re Note 9.1799 by BIGQ::SILVA

    > Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were
    > disagreeing with is the term he origionally used, erotic.

    I'm confused. I thought you include John's note in your reply because
    that's what you were objecting to. It would have been clearer to me if
    you had pointed to the note to which you actually took exception.
    
    Eric
9.1803BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 15:5720
| <<< Note 9.1802 by APACHE::MYERS >>>


| > Eric, that is what John said in his note. What people were
| > disagreeing with is the term he origionally used, erotic.

| I'm confused. I thought you include John's note in your reply because
| that's what you were objecting to. It would have been clearer to me if
| you had pointed to the note to which you actually took exception.

	Eric, that IS the note. He stated it was dishonest, which is false.
Let's look at what you wrote though:

    John said it is dishonest to make an implication or insinuation, and
    then deny the insinuation was made. What do you disagree with this?

	No one made an insinuation, and then denied it. John seemed to equate
it to erotic. Nobody said anything about erotic. So the part about his note
that said people were denying what was implied, is another thing that is false. 
	
9.1804APACHE::MYERSWed Feb 08 1995 16:0610
    
    Describing a relationship as heterosexual or homosexual indicates
    physical sexual desires. Without sexual desires it makes no sense to
    identify a relationship as being hetero- or homosexual. Therefore, there
    is indeed an erotic element to relationships characterized as such.

    What is the issue with using the word "erotic" to describe physically
    amorous relationships? 
    
    Eric
9.1805MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Wed Feb 08 1995 16:4914
    Glen:
    
    Erontic implies a negative element, i.e. erotic dancing, the combat
    zone. etc.  It could be that John meant fulfilling sexual desire...be
    it sanctified or unsanctified.  The bottom line is that when I read the
    note about the love of Jesus and John...in THIS venue, the first
    message that came to me was that John and Jesus were sexually attracted
    to each other...or, they had an eros love for each other.  Not that
    they did anything but they did have it.  You're going to get mad but I
    have to say it.  I reject the teaching because I believe it is
    impossible for a Holy Messiah to exchange that which is natural for
    that which is unnatural.
    
    -Jack
9.1806COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Feb 08 1995 16:5813
Glen,

Learn to read.

What I said was dishonest was to do items 1, 2, 3, and 4, and THEN to do
item 5.

You cannot deny that items 1, 2, 3, and 4 were done.

It is dishonest to deny that there is a clear implication made by items 1, 2,
3, and 4.

/john
9.1807POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Feb 08 1995 17:0321
    Jack,
    
    Using your  argument, you reject the possibility only because of your
    preconceived opinion that homosexual attraction is unnatural.
    
    If there is nothing unnatural about homosexual attraction as both Glen
    and I are claiming, then there would be nothing unnatural about an
    attraction between Jesus and the Beloved Disciple.
    
    THe examples that Peter gave (Ruth and Naomi, and David and Jonathan)
    as well as the example of Jesus and the Beloved disciple, are examples
    of deep love and intimacy between members of the same sex. 
    
    Any speculation regarding what kind of physical feelings or non
    feelings between these individuals is pure speculation.
    
    It is only when someone has already pre determined that for David to
    have a sexual feeling about Jonathon would be evil, that they are
    insulted by the suggested possibility.
    
                                       Patricia
9.1808POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Feb 08 1995 17:0512
    
    I can now recount three specific incidents in notes where I have been
    labelled demonic, participating in the demonic, or under the influence
    of the demonic for my notes.  The first time I was enraged.  The second
    time, challenged.  This time I am amused.  Amused in a sarcastic way
    though.  
    
    Behind the amusement it is  frightening how quick "Christians"
    are to judge others as demonic.  Any one who can embrace something that
    they cannot comprehend most be under the influence of the Devil!
    
    Patricia
9.1809MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Wed Feb 08 1995 17:156
    Patricia:
    
    A person can follow a demonic doctrine without any intent to be
    demonic.
    
    -Jack
9.1810not really a matter to be amused byDECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveWed Feb 08 1995 17:2315
.1808>  Behind the amusement it is  frightening how quick "Christians"
.1808>  are to judge others as demonic.  

a more serious fear is, how quick are "Christians" to kill others which they
call demonic.

the question was raised in 369.160, and reasked in 692.37

i would like john covert to answer the question in 692.37 

as i see it, the man has an infantile notion of evil. 
i stand to be corrected.


andreas.
9.1811WHat is a demonic doctrine?POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Feb 08 1995 17:4314
    Jack,
    
    What is a demonic doctrine?
    
    Who determines that it is a demonic doctrine?
    
    How do you know that it is a demonic doctrine?
    
    Given that a good number of "Christians" believe that Feminism is a
    collection of demonic doctrines, how does this knowledge impact the
    answers to the above!
    
    
                                  Patricia
9.1812BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 19:0030
| <<< Note 9.1804 by APACHE::MYERS >>>


| Describing a relationship as heterosexual or homosexual indicates physical 
| sexual desires. 

	One can be het/homosexual without ever having sex with anyone. One can
have a relationship based on the same thing. It does not state in the Bible
that they ever had sex, so why does it default to erotic? 

| Without sexual desires it makes no sense to identify a relationship as being 
| hetero- or homosexual. 

	Eric, I really feel sorry for you. If you need sex as an identifier,
they you aren't looking at the whole picture.

| Therefore, there is indeed an erotic element to relationships characterized 
| as such.

	I disagree.

| What is the issue with using the word "erotic" to describe physically
| amorous relationships?

	No one stated the relationships were such. There was a question of
whether they were more than friends, but no one mentioned sex. Maybe it's just
a default now a days....


Glen
9.1813BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 19:0727
| <<< Note 9.1805 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| Erontic implies a negative element, i.e. erotic dancing, the combat zone. 

	Yes, erotic CAN imply a negative element. But I wasn't thinking on
those terms.

| The bottom line is that when I read the note about the love of Jesus and 
| John...in THIS venue, the first message that came to me was that John and 
| Jesus were sexually attracted to each other...or, 

	Maybe sex is the default...

| I reject the teaching because I believe it is impossible for a Holy Messiah 
| to exchange that which is natural for that which is unnatural.

	Jack, your belief says to reject this teaching. It's ok to have your
belief on this. I believe Jesus could make the switch, He can do anything,
unlike humans. I do not think He would WANT to give up what is natural for 
unnatural though. But it comes down to what was natural for Him? Heterosexual
or homosexual? I haven't given it much thought. Until Patricia brought it up, I
had never heard it before. 



Glen
9.1814BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Feb 08 1995 19:1218
| <<< Note 9.1806 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>



| What I said was dishonest was to do items 1, 2, 3, and 4, and THEN to do
| item 5.

	John, that's just it. #5 was never done. Unless you equate
homosexuality to = sex ONLY, your statement is false. No one claimed they were
NOT homosexual. What was done was to say it did not = erotic. Homosexual does
not = erotic. A homosexual relationship does not have to = erotic. When you see
that, you will understand how #5 never happened. Maybe if you provided pointers
to those notes that say it didn't happen John, it would back up your assertion
of dishonest. 



Glen
9.1815MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Wed Feb 08 1995 19:3170
Hi Patricia:
    
>>    What is a demonic doctrine?
  
      Good question and is actually answered in scripture.

	"For the time will come when they will not endure sound doctrine, but
	after their own lusts shall they heap to themselves teachers, having
	itching ears; and they shall turn their ears from the truth and shall
	be turned unto fables.  But watch thou in all things; endure 
	afflictions, do the work of an evangelist, make full proof of thy 
	ministry.  For I am now ready to be offered and the time of my 
	departure is at hand."  2nd Timothy 4:3-6.

	We know that other gospels and other doctrines do exist.  I believe 
	the source of these gospels is demonic.   

 >>>    Who determines that it is a demonic doctrine?
    
	As you go through the Old Testament you will read in Deuteronomy, the
	book after Leviticus, that we are to test the Spirits of a prophet.
	John, the beloved follower and apostle of Jesus Christ also wrote
	the following.

	"And this is the love, that we walk in his commandments.  This is
	the commandment that, as ye have heard from the beginning, ye should
	walk in it.  For many deceivers are entered into the world who 
	confess not that Jesus Christ has not come in the flesh.  This is a
	deceiver and an antichrist.  Look to yourselves, that we do not lose
	things which we have wrought, but that we receive a full reward.  
	Whoever abideth not in the doctrine of Christ hath not God, He that
	abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both God and the Son.  
	If there come any to you, and bring not this doctrine, receiveth him
	not into your house, neither bid him Godspeed.  For he that biddeth 
	him Godspeed is a partaker of his evil deeds."  2nd John 6-11.

	I believe that the Word of God is to be our measure in testing the
	Spirits of true doctrine and false doctrine.  This is why I was
	exhorting you to continue your discussion in Yukon on the feminism
	issue.  Being a disciple of Christ is not an easy task.  It involves 
	affliction and perseverance.  It was your responsibility to set them
	straight.

>>>     How do you know that it is a demonic doctrine?
    
	Of the 50 lines I wrote regarding Jesus' purpose, I took a passage 
	from Matthew 16.  Jesus told of how he was to be delivered unto death.
	Peter, another of Jesus' close followers stated, "Oh Lord, may this 
	never happen."  Jesus said, "Get Thee Behind Me Satan for Thou art a 
	Rock of Offense to Me."   So my answer Patricia is simply this and
	is actually redundant to what the apostle John stated above.  Any 
	gospel that is not in accordance with the gospel of Jesus Christ...
	His coming, his death and resurrection, and his future coming, 
	anything not of these matters is a false gospel. 

>>    Given that a good number of "Christians" believe that Feminism is a
>>    collection of demonic doctrines, how does this knowledge impact the
>>    answers to the above!
  
Good point.  Alot of Christians believe speaking in tongues in the 
pentacostal movement is demonic.  It is not in accordance with what Paul
teaches in 1st Corinthians.  But tongues and feminism are only temporal
because the social ills of our society are going to burn.  The gifts of the
Holy Spirit are of no consequence once we're dead.  I believe that social
issues of today can help mold bad doctrines...or they can mold good 
doctrine.  That's why knowledge of the Word is so important.  To help us
discern good from bad.

-Jack
9.1816Go in peace...HURON::MYERSWed Feb 08 1995 20:1411
        re: Note 9.1812 by BIGQ::SILVA

    I wrote "sexual desires" you read "having sex." I describe the
    criterion for labels ending in "-sexual," you read that as my entire
    world picture. What you read from my notes is not what I said in my
    notes. I will concede that I am a poor communicator and bow out of the
    discussion. To continue would be frustrating for both of us.
                    
    Peace my brother,

    	Eric
9.1817CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Feb 24 1995 16:008
Is there a conspicuous absence of female voices in C-P in the last few
days?  Or is it my imagination?

But then, there seems to be a conspicuous absence of any voices today! :-?

Shalom,
Richard

9.1818DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveFri Feb 24 1995 18:1812
> But then, there seems to be a conspicuous absence of any voices today! :-?

work is known to have its occasional toll on victims :-)

and besides, do you mean patricia and the 'rare' debby haeck by "female voices",
or are there more female noters participating in here? 


have a nice weekend!

andreas.
9.1819Alas, and alasCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Feb 24 1995 21:298
    .1818
    
    Yeah, maybe you're right.  Maybe I've got my expectation levels set
    too high.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1820for posterityDECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveThu Mar 02 1995 18:368
in case any one wonders, i have moved my 91.4810, 91.4811 to the more
appropriate topic.

the new notes are now 1060.15, 1060.16 respectively


andreas.
9.18211053.6 (re revelations) moved to 1061.5DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveMon Mar 06 1995 16:180
9.1822A Noter's PrayerCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireTue Apr 04 1995 00:106
Forgive me the times I rathole topics as I forgive others who've rathole topics
I'd rather not have ratholed.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1823gilded ruleHBAHBA::HAASrecurring recusancyTue Apr 04 1995 14:493
Rathole others as you would have them rathole you.

TTom
9.1824MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Tue Apr 04 1995 15:105
    Greet one another with an unholy rathole.
    
    Ahhh forget it!  I tried!@
    
    -Jack
9.1825TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Apr 05 1995 22:351
A rathole a day keeps discussion away?
9.1826MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Apr 06 1995 13:021
    Hmmmmmmmmm....okay...we'll accept that one!!
9.1827A pleaCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireThu Apr 06 1995 15:206
    I'd appreciate it if everyone would at least check the title of the
    topic before adding their entry.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1828MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Apr 06 1995 16:211
    Awwww....you don't want to play this game????
9.1829CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireThu Apr 06 1995 16:232
    It's just a request.
    
9.1830POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amThu Apr 06 1995 19:449
    But Richard, it goes against the grain of us UU's
    
    We tend to be oppositional and anti authoritarian.
    
    What do you mean, we can only talk about what is in the title of the
    string.  That is too many rules for me!!
    
    
                               Patricia
9.1831CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireThu Apr 06 1995 20:105
    It's only a request.  It's not compulsory.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1832POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amThu Apr 06 1995 21:532
    That's good then.  Rules that nobody has to follow.  I like it.
    
9.1833BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu May 11 1995 02:4312

	Well, after softball practice tonight we went and had dinner at Wendy's
in Hudson. I ran into my friend Chris, and went to sit with my friends, who
happened to be sitting next to Chris. Chris then intoduced me to her friend,
who ended up being none other than our own former DEC employee Jim Kirk! I
nearly died! He told me to tell everyone he is doing fine, and he says hi to
everyone! Even to Jack Martin, who he said he has had many a good conversation
with! He like ya dude!


Glen
9.1834MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu May 11 1995 14:344
    I honestly find that gratifying.  Apparently I'm not the old oger
    everybody thought I was!!!! :-)
    
    -Jack
9.1835BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu May 11 1995 19:173

	I didn't tell you everything he said Jack..... :-)
9.1836CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireSat Jun 03 1995 16:317
My views and stances as a Christian on a variety of issues are hardly a
well-kept secret here in CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE.

If one is genuinely curious, one can do a little research.

Richard

9.1837MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Mon Jun 05 1995 15:276
    Richard:
    
    No offense...you write ambiguously and there are still alot of things I
    don't know where you stand on.  
    
    -Jack
9.1838POWDML::FLANAGANI feel therefore I amWed Jun 07 1995 14:455
    Boy, does it feel good to be back!
    
    
                               Patricia                            
    
9.1839I never claimed to have all the answersCSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireWed Jun 07 1995 20:409
>    No offense...you write ambiguously and there are still alot of things I
>    don't know where you stand on.  

On some issues I am ambiguous.  On some issues I've not determined a stand.

I am a human being, not a binary digit.

Richard

9.1840CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jul 07 1995 17:406
Interesting who has decided to resurface in recent weeks after lengthy
absences.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1841MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Jul 07 1995 18:079
    Yeahhh...What a troublemaker!!!
    
    
    
    Shoooe....
    
    
    
    Go..way!
9.1842CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jul 07 1995 23:122
    Simply an observation, Jack.
    
9.1843MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 10 1995 13:551
    Yeah Yeah Yeah...I'm kidding!
9.1844CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jul 14 1995 19:452
    Snarfing is not simply assinine, it's *not* Biblical.
    
9.1845CSLALL::HENDERSONLearning to leanFri Jul 14 1995 19:499


 Yes, and we certainly don't want Christians having a little fun either.




 Jim
9.1846MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Jul 14 1995 19:491
    Time for a snarfy confession!
9.1847CSC32::J_CHRISTIEUnquenchable fireFri Jul 14 1995 22:462
    So, snarfing is your idea of a Christian having fun, eh?
    
9.1848OUTSRC::HEISERwatchman on the wallFri Jul 14 1995 23:011
    most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.
9.1849CSLALL::HENDERSONLearning to leanSat Jul 15 1995 05:149


 Yeah, we're kinda old fashioned that way, I guess.  Its a religious
 right thing, I guess.



 Jim
9.1850CSC32::J_CHRISTIEDemote MoronitySat Jul 15 1995 17:306
Note 9.1848

>    most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.

I believe it.

9.1851APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyMon Jul 17 1995 13:0912
    
    > most fun I've ever had with my clothes on.

    Oops... you mean you're supposed to have your clothes *on* when you
    snarf. Well now I'm with Richard; I fail to see the point or the fun in
    that. :^)

    While I don't see the understand the joy of snarfing, it seems harmless
    enough. Sort of like when the giggle my younger kids get when the both
    say the same thing at the same time, like "are we there yet." 
    
    	Eric
9.1852MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 17 1995 13:307
    Hey, this is a choice issue.  Roe v. Wade has set a precedent in this
    country and by golly snarfing is certainly included within the scope of
    the freedom to choose.  I choose to snarf because it is one of the most
    intimate actions one can do in the box...staking your territorial claim
    for a reply that is the turn of a century of a millineum!
    
    -Jack
9.1853MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 17 1995 13:313
  ZZZ     intimate actions one can do in the box.
    
    Ooops....I'm in C-P....nevermind!
9.1854POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineMon Jul 17 1995 13:3710
    I'd never admit to snarfing!
    
    
    But please don't refer to 1111.1
    
    
                                         Thanks
    
    
                                         Patricia
9.1855BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Jul 17 1995 13:553

	Wow.... Jack Martin forgot where he was noting...... too funny! :-)
9.1856MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 17 1995 14:094
    Patricia:
    
    I know exactly where one or two of your snarfs are so you'd better
    behave or else!!!! :-)
9.1857POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineMon Jul 17 1995 14:344
    Shhhhh!
    
    
                              Patricia
9.1858CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Jul 21 1995 18:3812
For the record:

o  I did say snarfing is not biblical.

o  I did say snarfing is assinine.

o  I did not say snarfing was "original sin."

o  I did not say snarfing is a sin, which is not to say it isn't.

Richard

9.1859POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Jul 21 1995 19:189
    Common Richard,
    
    You mean when good old King David was sitting down writing all those
    psalms he did not say to himself, now I am at Psalm 100.  What is a good
    snarfing psalm for the number 100?
    
    Now wouldn't that make it biblical?
    
                                   Patricia
9.1860CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sat Jul 22 1995 19:1613
1114.1

Tony,

I have to confess, issues of systematic doctrine don't usually peak my
interest.  But that doesn't mean that such issues won't somebody's.

Consider giving the topic a little nudge the beginning of the week.  It
sometimes works for me.  And sometimes it doesn't.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1861MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Aug 03 1995 13:571
    I believe snarfing is spiritually uplifting!
9.1862A recapitulationCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sat Sep 09 1995 02:3299
================================================================================
Note 1134.3         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             3 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"          6 lines   7-SEP-1995 13:59
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Incidently, I consider their ministry highly honorable.  I am just
    curious as to their methodology...i.e. do they consider themselves
    potential martyrs, do they try to speak to multiple people as Paul did,
    do they do it more on a personal level as Mother Theres does, etc.
    
    -Jack
================================================================================
Note 1134.4         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             4 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10"                         2 lines   7-SEP-1995 14:15
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    How nice.
    
================================================================================
Note 1134.5         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             5 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"          5 lines   7-SEP-1995 14:27
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Either you are being genuine here, which I would appreciate, or this is
    a knee jerk reaction to a discussion we are having in another string. 
    Which is it?
================================================================================
Note 1134.6         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             6 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10"                         4 lines   7-SEP-1995 15:22
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Or it's something else.
    
    Richard
    
================================================================================
Note 1134.7         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             7 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"         10 lines   7-SEP-1995 15:30
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Great, care to let me in on it?
    
    It is a Godly act to confront somebody who has wronged you.  It is an
    ungodly principle to harbor ill feelings and not confront your brother. 
    Therefore, I would appreciate the same consideration you would afford
    anybody wlse here in this forum!  
    
    Hold no punches please.  I have been known to apologize!
    
    -Jack
================================================================================
Note 1134.8         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             8 of 16
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10"                        11 lines   8-SEP-1995 12:20
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
.3

>    Incidently, I consider their ministry highly honorable.  I am just
>    curious as to their methodology...i.e. do they consider themselves
>    potential martyrs, do they try to speak to multiple people as Paul did,
>    do they do it more on a personal level as Mother Theres does, etc.
    
I neither seek nor want your pat-on-the-head approval.

Richard

================================================================================
Note 1134.9         Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams             9 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"          5 lines   8-SEP-1995 13:14
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Richard:
    
    Stop walking in the flesh and start walking in the Spirit!
    
    -Jack
================================================================================
Note 1134.10        Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams            10 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"          6 lines   8-SEP-1995 13:16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
 ZZ   I neither seek nor want your pat-on-the-head approval.
    
    In fact, I am not going to let you get away with this.  I think you owe
    me an apology.
    
================================================================================
Note 1134.15        Discussion of Christian Peacemaker Teams            15 of 16
MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal"         16 lines   8-SEP-1995 16:56
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    So do I Eric.  Yesterday I challenged by brother on some of the issues
    regarding Mario Cuomo's policies, he didn't want to answer...that's
    fine.  Then in other notes such as this one, I started getting
    condescending replies back from my entries.  I then followed by asking
    if there was something I did and even stated I would apologize. 
    Richard not only refused to tell me what I did wrong but then continued
    with the snide remarks.  I then told him he was being cranky and needed
    to walk in the Spirit.  Finally, I thought to myself, "I'm being
    treated like dirt in this forum and I don't appreciate it."  To me,
    this is malicious and based on a carnal attitude."
    
    Richard, either tell me what I did wrong or apologize.  It is part of
    manhood Richard and it is what Jesus taught about resolving conflict
    with your brother.  How about it?!
    
    -Jack

9.1863CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sat Sep 09 1995 23:4035
Look, Jack.  After revisiting 1134.3 and granting you the benefit of the
doubt, I extend to you an apology.  It's possible I misread it.

At the same time, I recognize that people very rarely acknowledge their
own patronizing attitudes.

>    Richard, either tell me what I did wrong or apologize.

I'm having a hard time believing you're as clueless about this as you
portray, Jack.

Nevertheless, I apologize.

Shalom,
Richard


PS  I figure you said --

>    It is part of manhood Richard and it is what Jesus taught about
>    resolving conflict with your brother.

-- just to yank my chain (get my goat, or whatever).  But if that's not the
case, let me make it clear that I neither seek nor desire your counsel on
manhood, thank you very much.


PPS  I find your most recent emphasis characterizing me as your brother
fascinating.  I guess maybe this exchange has evoked some of your more
fraternal impulses.


PPPS  I don't know the weather conditions are in Hell, but it sure has
cooled off locally.

9.1864CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sat Sep 09 1995 23:4115
About note 1048.25, Jack, I'll remind you this one time that I decided to
delete my entry even *before* you entered yours.  Notice there's no gap in
the numerical reply signatures.

Moreover, metaphorically speaking, just because the tune is familiar and
you're feeling frisky doesn't mean I'm willing to dance with you every
time you approach me.

Richard

PS  Since Mario Cuomo has been out of office for awhile, I've got to
suspect that the situation you cite has arisen out of one of Rush's
reruns or some such.


9.1865well, I'll be - you did apologize, Richard!USAT05::BENSONEternal WeltanschauungMon Sep 11 1995 12:171
    
9.1866MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Sep 11 1995 13:1634
zz    I'm having a hard time believing you're as clueless about this as you
zz    portray, Jack.
    
    Well I am Richard.  Please 
    
    
    COMM-UN-I-CATE
    
    
    next time so this sort of thing won't happen again.  Nevertheless, the
    fact is I WAS NOT trying to be patronizing at all.  You started two
    topics...one on war, another on peace.  EXPECT people to participate
    and stop getting cranky every time somebody disagrees with you.  It
    doesn't become you and quite frankly all it tends to prove is that you
    do not value diversity like you claim to.  You need to work on
    communicating Richard, you really do.
    
    Now regarding the use of the word brother, I have nothing to say about
    that since I assumed you were saved, but that's between you and God. 
    Paul and Barnabbus did not get along either and yet they were co
    laborers in Christ.  
    
    Finally, would you PLEASE get off this Rush Limbaugh kick.  You
    completely lose your credibility when you continually harp on the same
    fallable generalizations you continually make.  Rush is on too late for
    me...Rush is on the radio when I am here at work, I don't subscribe to
    the Limbaugh letter...GET OFF IT!  You're being a pain Richard.
    
    I apologize for seemingly coming across patronizing.  I will not
    challenge your beliefs anymore.
    
    Rgds.,
    
    -Jack 
9.1867This thread belongs here.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 16:1048
                  <<< Note 1138.147 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, you do realize many feel the same exact way about your theology,
> right? And you won't be making a fuss anymore when people continue to point
> that out to you, right?
    
    	Oh, I have no doubt about it, and I do not seek to silence
    	those critics by sending them off to other conferences.
    
    	All I'm pointing out is that my "harassment" of someone's
    	theology is no different from that person's "harassment" of 
    	the religion I follow.

>| I suppose that you fail to see that your style of participation here is viewed
>| by people like me as constant harrassment on your part.  
>
>	That's bunk, Joe. This is a file where people aren't tied into a little
> corner and driven one way. This is a file that allows many perspectives to be
> talked about. 
    
    	Ah, but if I speak out in defense of attacks on my religion, I
    	am attacked for that.  It seems to me that in this conference
    	I am expected to flushed out of the corner I want to occupy, and
    	I am expected to embrace the "theologies" that I disagree with.
    	Attack of Catholicism is OK here.  I saw no outrage from the
    	core supporters here when the Catholic Church was called an
    	exclusive men's club, but definite outrage when I challenged 
    	that opinion as originating from someone's personal agenda.
    
> I know you know this, so if you continue to note here, how can it
>be considered harrasment when you know the rules going into it? Sorry Joe, you
>make no sense here.
    
    	It sounds to me like you are condoning this harassment, and that
    	I should simply ignore it and go away without defending it.
    
>| Why then, Patricia, do you harass the Yukon conference? Quite a hypocritical 
>| stand you are taking here!
>
>	Joe, she does not harass in the YUKON file. She is not being
>hypocritical. What you did above was to bear false witness. Why?

    	Dump this "bear false witness" garbage, Glen.  I can provide
    	you a dozen notes -- perhaps even a dozen topics -- where
    	Patricia is taken to task for violating the conference rules,
    	and where she continues with her tact even after having it 
    	pointed out to her.  (Spare me the "prove it" request.  You
    	know where those notes are as anyone else does.)
9.1868BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 17:1068
| <<< Note 9.1867 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| Ah, but if I speak out in defense of attacks on my religion, I am attacked for
| that.  

	Joe, am I right in saying that when you talk about pointing out the 
holes in one's theology, it isn't supposed to be viewed as an attack? If that
is true, why can't you view that others are pointing out holes they see in your
theology and leave it as that? Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a
sudden it is an attack? Again, this victim stuff is getting quite old. First it
seemed to be that it was just me who you thought was attacking you, but now it
seems to have spread to others as well. 

| It seems to me that in this conference I am expected to flushed out of the 
| corner I want to occupy, and I am expected to embrace the "theologies" that I 
| disagree with.

	I could be wrong, but I don't believe anyone has asked you to embrace
the "theologies" you disagree with. Your faith is built up on <insert reasons>.
You live by that faith. Others do the same. Can everyone be right? No. But we
all go based on our beliefs. That is the BEST anyone can do. Stick by your
beliefs, as will other people. If you do not want to embrace another's
theology, then by all means, don't. We will all have our differences in
religion, denominations, etc. We have to live how we believe He is telling us
to. I don't agree with a lot of your beliefs. (like that wasn't obvious :-) I
will not embrace a lot of what you have to say. You will do the same as well
towards me. Why is that? Because our beliefs are different. 

	But if you could provide a pointer that shows where someone has
expected you to embrace their theologies, it would help make it easier to
understand where you are coming from.

| Attack of Catholicism is OK here. I saw no outrage from the core supporters 
| here when the Catholic Church was called an exclusive men's club, 

	I guess if you take it as just the words, it's hard to understand what
was meant. I think Bob explained it quite well when he said that it probably
had to do with women are supposed to not really have a say in what goes on,
can't be a priest, etc. With that in mind, it is a true statement. 

| but definite outrage when I challenged that opinion as originating from 
| someone's personal agenda.

	I think maybe you should ask the person what they mean, and not tell
them what they mean. If everyone could do just that, a lot of confusion, anger,
etc could be avoided.

| It sounds to me like you are condoning this harassment, and that I should 
| simply ignore it and go away without defending it.

	There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying. In a file where
the sky is the limit, you can't seriously take someone's belief and make it
into a case of harassment. This file is set up to talk about the many
perspectives people have. You know that is what it is about. No one is telling
you to not point out your ideals, etc, but to don't put labels on something
that isn't so. In other words, this is not harassment, just a discussion of
people's perspectives. Again, drop the victim stuff.

| I can provide you a dozen notes -- perhaps even a dozen topics -- where
| Patricia is taken to task for violating the conference rules, and where she 
| continues with her tact even after having it pointed out to her. (Spare me the
| "prove it" request. You know where those notes are as anyone else does.)

	There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it. 


Glen
9.1869DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveThu Sep 21 1995 17:1622
re .1867



joe, you are asking for feedback. it would be unkind not to provide it.

as regards me, your recent entries in here are next to unreadable
due to the level of aggression and noise in them.

personally i hold the catholic faith in high esteem and i haven't seen
much catholic harassing going on. i am quite sure that the several noters 
in here which are also close to catholicism would have pointed this out.

are you going through a rough patch or what's up with you? why are you
so agressive? your current behaviour doesn't make that harrassement 
claim of yours very credible. what's up with you joe?

chill out, man!



andreas.
9.1870CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 18:0223
                   <<< Note 9.1868 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, am I right in saying that when you talk about pointing out the 
> holes in one's theology, it isn't supposed to be viewed as an attack? 
    
    	True.
    
> Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a
> sudden it is an attack? 
    
    	I don't know.  Why is that?  I didn't say it.
    
>	There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying. 
    
    	And that is what I'm saying too.  I didn't harass.  Or if
    	my entry is declared to be harassment, then Patricia's is
    	equally so.  I will not allow myself to be subjected to a
    	double standard.  The claim of harassment was definitely 
    	started against me, not the other way around.
    
>	There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it. 

    	Forget it, Glen.
9.1871POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineThu Sep 21 1995 18:1814
    Joe,
    
    If I tell you that I am not Catholic and you insist that I accept the
    authority of the Pope, then that is Harrasment.
    
    If I tell jack that I don't believe that Bible to be the innerrant Word
    of God, and he insists that I read the Bible as the innerrant Word of
    God, then that is harrasment.
    
    If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your tell
    me that that is riduculous,  that is harrasment.
    
    THat is the sense in which I use the Word.
    
9.1872CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 18:2818
         <<< Note 9.1871 by POWDML::FLANAGAN "let your light shine" >>>

>    If I tell you that I am not Catholic and you insist that I accept the
>    authority of the Pope, then that is Harrasment.
    
    	Maybe it would be.  Where have I done this?  I have only 
    	expressed what *I* do with regards to authority, and I've
    	made the argument that one must find (or at least test
    	against) some larger authority than oneself.  My argument
    	has always left room for people to find that authority in
    	some Church other than the Catholic Church.  In fact I've
    	specifically said that this argument is valid for Jews,
    	Muslims, etc., too.
    
>    If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your tell
>    me that that is riduculous,  that is harrasment.
    
    	Maybe it would be.  Where have I said this?
9.1873BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 18:3424
| <<< Note 9.1870 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>



| > Why is it if one disagrees with you, all of a sudden it is an attack?

| I don't know.  Why is that?  I didn't say it.

	People showed where they believed holes were in your theology. You made
the claim they were attacking you. So in essence, yes, you did make the claim.

| >	There is no harassment Joe, that is what I am saying.

| And that is what I'm saying too. I didn't harass.  

	I was refering to your claim of harassment by others in here Joe. If
you can see it from your own perspective, why is it you don't seem to see it 
with other people's perspectives? 

| >	There are not any notes there Joe. So please go prove it.

| Forget it, Glen.

	Of course Joe. Why go prove what you know can not be proven.
9.1874CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 18:586
                   <<< Note 9.1873 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	I was refering to your claim of harassment by others in here Joe.
    
    	I explained myself in the very note you quoted here. (.1870)
    	Your continued assertion to the contrary is dishonest.
9.1875BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 19:0413
| <<< Note 9.1874 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| I explained myself in the very note you quoted here. (.1870)

	You explained that you did not harass as a starting point. I was not
referring to you at all. You already stated that you were harassed. In .1870
you state if you were looked at as harassing, then others were doing the same.
Yet you're the one who made the claim.

| Your continued assertion to the contrary is dishonest.

	No, it is more that you're looking at it from a different standpoint
than I am. You made the claim. That was what I based it on.
9.1876CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 19:061
    	Bye, Glen.
9.1877BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 19:083

	It's about time! :-)
9.1878MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 19:5035
ZZ    If I tell you that I seek God in the "Still Small Voice", and your
ZZ    tell me that that is riduculous,  that is harrasment.
    
    Patricia:
    
    No....I never said that and you KNOW I never said that.  What I said
    was something similar to this.
    
    ----------------------------------------
    
    Patricia, I find the term "Still Small Voice" as a warning sign.  I
    assume that you are referring to the "Still Small Voice" as your
    conscience.  Based on that, it is fallable because a conscience is only
    as reliable as the person who has it.  Since man is in a perpetual
    state on sin, then the still small voice cannot be trusted.  A guard
    for example who worked at a concentration camp, was able to throw the
    babies into the fire and then dauntlessly go home to his family is an 
    example of one listening to his Still Small Voice"  Therefore,
    I tend to rely on God's Word as my source for truth.
    
    ----------------------------------------
    
    This is a far cry from your accusation Patricia.  You make it sound as
    if I carelessly flaunt your ideas off as ri-diculous (insert snobby
    elitist voice here).
    
    No..no...no...I heard your idea, I reasoned it out, I drew a
    conclusion, and I explained to you why I drew that conclusion.  I want
    you to admit this please so I will be assured you are hearing me! 
    
    I wait with eagerness.
    
    Thanks,
    
    -Jack
9.1879APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Sep 21 1995 21:5532
    
    I WISHED PEOPLE WOULD GET THIS STRAIGHT! 

    Joe is NOT being harassed; never claimed to be. He is being attacked. 

    Patricia, on the other hand, IS being harassed... and oppressed, I
    think. 

    Jim Henderson is neither being harassed nor attacked. He is being
    sexually, racially and religiously victimized. He is also being oppressed
    and maybe even persecuted.

    Jack is simply misunderstood.  

    Richard is hounded by hypothetical "what if's" and redundant questions
    (but I think secretly he too is misunderstood).

    John Covert... he moved out, shaking the dust from his shoes. He was
    neither attacked, harassed nor misunderstood; however his notes were
    not met with the gasps of awe his intellect and stewardship of
    tradition so richly deserved. So, I'd have to say he was insulted.

    Me? I'm attacked, harassed, misunderstood AND victimized. People just
    don't show me the respect my witty repartee deserves, either. Too
    oblique, I guess. But I'm happy. 

    :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) :^) 

    Peace, dudes,                   

    Eric

9.1880CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Sep 21 1995 22:098
    .1879
    
    <laughing to the point of making snorting noises>
    
    Thanks, Eric.
    
    Richard
    
9.1881CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Sep 22 1995 02:479


  Jim Henderson was being more tongue in cheek than anything else,
 but I'm sure no one will believe that.



 Jim
9.1882HURON::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyFri Sep 22 1995 03:1612
    
    > Jim Henderson was being more tongue in cheek than anything else,

    And you think I wasn't? Duh. *Mostly* tongue in cheek anyway.

    > but I'm sure no one will believe that.

    Is this another example of your wry wit? Hard to tell without the
    customary :^) symbol.

    Eric
    
9.1883CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Sep 22 1995 03:218
9.1884HURON::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyFri Sep 22 1995 03:366
    
    See guys, humor and civility diverts another potential flash point :^)

    I wish you peace, Jim.

    	Eric
9.1885CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Sep 22 1995 17:015
    Perhaps we need to take the back and forthing to the perception topic. 
    I think this is where most of the problems originate.
    
    
    -steve
9.1886CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Sep 22 1995 18:258
    1138.195
    
>   Sometimes your disposition leaves alot to be desired!
    
    Ahem!  Who among us is without fault in this area?
    
    Richard
    
9.1887MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 18:499
    Nobody.  It's just that there are times when I shower Patricia with
    great compliments...like comparing her to Kissenger and all that.  
    
    She did say though that I was likable...of course there was that part
    about strangling me.  Ohhh never mind!  
    
    Patricia, didn't mean to speak for you.  I assumed you were over it.
    
    -Jack
9.1888conclusions based on faulty assumptionsTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonMon Sep 25 1995 19:1618
                
    Re.1887
    
    Jack,
    
    While you really are a likable sort (;^), still you DO have this 
    uncanny ability to assume something about a person and their beliefs, 
    then draw your own conclusions based *on your assumptions*, and state 
    the conclusion here.
    
    So your logic is airtight most of the time, but the problem lies in 
    the premises you are using to draw the conclusions that you come up 
    with, which are, at times, quite false.  Both Patricia and I have
    pointed this out to you on several occasions...but if you want an
    updated example, I'm sure you'll come through with a suitable one 
    in a day or two that we can reference for you.  (;^)
    
    Cindy
9.1889MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Sep 25 1995 19:357
    Yes, and Patricia has this uncanny way of putting me into a box, i.e.
    anybody who disagrees with her is either a racist or oppressive.  There
    may be times when I make faulty assumptions but I simply refuse to
    believe there isn't a communication problem on the other persons
    part...at times that is!
    
    -Jack
9.1890BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 25 1995 22:287

	WOW, Cindy. Who would have thought it would have only taken one note
for him to do that! You have some gift there Cindy! :-)


Glen
9.1891MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 26 1995 12:211
    Glen....Excellent note!!!!!
9.1892line limit, pleaseLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8)Wed Sep 27 1995 02:554
May I remind writers that we have an informal limit of 100 lines per
posting (some recent postings have been several times bigger).

Bob, as co-mod
9.1893will doTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Sep 27 1995 19:154
    
    Sorry Bob - I completely forgot about that.
         
    Cindy
9.1894CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Tue Oct 17 1995 23:126
    *This* is not SOAPBOX.
    
    SOAPBOX is SOAPBOX.
    
    Richard
    
9.1895MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Oct 18 1995 13:092
    Oh for crying out loud Richard...lighten up.  Silly?  Perhaps, but I
    thought it was humerous.  Maybe you didn't but...oh well!
9.1896Help wanted.VNABRW::BUTTONAnother day older and deeper in debtThu Oct 19 1995 05:5114
    This note is outside the scope of CP, I know, but I was at a loss to
    know where to post it.
    
    When I leave Digital, I am seriously considering returning to my
    homeland, UK. (Around 1 year from now).
    
    After 22 years in Austria, I am a bit our of touch with things there.
    
    Are there and Brits in this forum who, via VAXmail, would be willing to
    answer occasional questions on life in UK?
    
    If so, I would be grateful if you would mail me on VNABRW::BUTTON
    
    Thanks and regards, Derek. 
9.1897DECALP::GUTZWILLERhappiness- U want what U haveThu Oct 19 1995 09:3614
re 1.11



congratulations on your appointment to your second term as moderator,
richard!

will you be continuing the policy of non-intervention and of nurturing
diversity? 




andreas.
9.1898CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sun Oct 22 1995 14:5018
Note 9.1897

Andreas-Barnabas,

>congratulations on your appointment to your second term as moderator,
>richard!

Thank you.

>will you be continuing the policy of non-intervention and of nurturing
>diversity? 

Well, I would have put it in terms a little different from the ones you
used, but I think you've got the idea.

Shalom,
Richard

9.1900CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Oct 27 1995 01:199
1170.2

>    Funny you say that, Cindy.  Some people in the LitterBox(tm) claim that
>    SRA is a fabrication of Christiandom.

Exactly what is "the Litterbox(tm)?"

Richard

9.1901MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Oct 27 1995 12:221
    No doubt he's referring to Soapbox! 
9.1902CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Sat Oct 28 1995 15:309
I have a doubt, Jack.

The way it's phrased, 1170.2 would make more sense if Cindy participated
in the conference in question, which from SOAPBOX she has the uncommon
wisdom to refrain (at least, in its present incarnation).

Shalom,
Richard

9.1903Re.1902 (;^)TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonMon Oct 30 1995 14:491
    
9.1904Still waiting, Mike Heiser.....CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Mon Oct 30 1995 23:431
    
9.1905MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 13:2712
    Richard:
    
    The clue which lead me to believe it is Soapbox was the (tm).  Over in
    the box, some of the participants (tm) phrases or words they use and
    are very protective of their trademarks.  No where to my knowledge in
    any other conference does this occur.  
    
    Soapbox is like the city where Obe Juan and Luke met Hans Solo and
    Chewbaka.  Nowhere in all of Digital will you find a bigger consortium
    of scum and villiany!
    
    -Jack
9.1906OUTSRC::HEISERwatchman on the wallTue Oct 31 1995 16:121
    Richard, what are you waiting for?
9.1907MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 16:191
    He wants to know what litterbox (tm) is referring to!
9.1908OUTSRC::HEISERwatchman on the wallTue Oct 31 1995 16:371
    Soapbox of course, what else?
9.1909CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Tue Oct 31 1995 23:186
    .1908
    
    Thanks, Mike.
    
    Richard
    
9.1910CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 02:403
    	Well, that was more exciting than "who shot Mr. Burns"...
    
    	:^)
9.1911ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 01 1995 13:541
    I always called it Sandbox.
9.1912request for slight change in noting styleTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 01 1995 17:3314
    
    I didn't know what it was either, until I was thinking about it 2 days
    later and finally realized that litterbox=soapbox.
    
    You all might want to put in parenthesis what some of these things
    really mean for those of us who truly do not know, or those not
    following the string actively.  Something like:
    
    	 Litterbox(tm) (Soapbox)...for example.
    
    There was one other one too - the Evita and Bubba comment - you could
    write Evita (Hillary) and Bubba (Bill)...well, you get the idea I hope.
    
    Cindy
9.1913MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 17:3811
    Cindy, I promised I would not refer to Hillary as Evita in this
    conference...but I understand you were using it as an example.
    
    And by the way, Evita (Eva) was the first lady of a dictator in
    Argentina, cheap actress, hung around rabble and other malcontents, 
    and of course was mourned by the peasantry when passing away.
    
    No more said.  Just mentioned this to clarify what I was thinking at
    the time.
    
    -Jack  
9.1914Re.-1TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 01 1995 17:395
    
    Huh?  Well, if it makes you feel better, I don't even remember the
    original topic.
    
    Cindy
9.1915MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 17:401
    It was political babble on my part, that's all.  
9.1916VentingAPACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyTue Nov 14 1995 19:5465
    Some folks talk about logic a lot. I really haven't approached matters
    of faith from a formal logic system. But, for what it's worth, I've
    been unimpressed with some the examples of self-described logic posted
    here. I don't mean to be insulting, it's just that I don't think my
    demonstration of logic would fit what some have demonstrated as their
    system of logic.

    From an admittedly defensive point of view, here is how the
    Fundamentalist logic system appears to me. 
    -------------------------------------------------------------
    From the point of view of the Fundamentalist --

    My_View = Literal_Inerrant = TRUE

    IF Verse1 .CONFLICT. Verse2 THEN
    	IF (CONTEXT_AVAILABLE == TRUE)
    		IF ALTERNATE CONTEXT THEN
    			My_Context > Your_Context
    		END_IF
    	ELSE
    		Verse1 + Verse2 = Divine_Mystery
    	END_IF
    END_IF

    IF SUGGESTED(My_View) == UNREASONABLE THEN 
    	My_View = TRUE
    	Your_View = FALSE
    	PRINT "Paul said the faithful will be called foolish"
    END_IF

    IF SUGGESTED(Your_View) == UNREASONABLE THEN
    	Your_View = FALSE
    	My_View = TRUE
    	PRINT "Your view is illogical"
    	Logical = My_View
    END_IF

    ------------------------------------------------------

    From Jeff Benson..
    
    > So, you're almost a deist, huh?  It's nice to have a context for
    > framing your presentations here.

    Here's a suggestion for anyone who cares: frame my notes in the context
    of someone who has been through a lot of "stuff"; who has seen the
    power of faith and prayer; who has no need for labels; who abhors the
    divisiveness that accompanies religious absolutism. Read my notes as
    from someone who has strong beliefs in some things but is struggling
    for growth and understanding in others. Read my notes as from someone
    who believes that Satan/evil is as active in ultra fundamentalist
    circles as he/it is in the ultra liberal circles. Read my notes as from
    someone who believes that Christ came to heal the weak in spirit and
    not to praise the saint; that the banner of the Cross should be waved
    like the symbol of the Red Cross -- as a sign of hope for all -- and
    not like the symbol of a nation -- as a sign of separation or
    superiority.

    Sneer at my lack of having a neat cubby-hole in which to frame myself,
    but it's not your validation I seek. I know that without an
    off-the-shelf ideology it makes it harder for people to say "A-ha I got
    you! You say this and yet claim to be a mumblefratz?!"   

    Eric
9.1917USAT05::BENSONEternal WeltanschauungTue Nov 14 1995 20:085
    
    I believe that spilling one's guts is as unpleasant as it sounds, and
    recommend against it.
    
    jeff
9.1918POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineTue Nov 14 1995 20:115
    Jeff,
    
    you can get downright nasty can't you!
    
                                            Patricia
9.1919MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Nov 14 1995 20:3522
    Eric:
    
    Again as stated in the past, it is difficult to have dialog when there
    is no likemindedness.  
    
    It seems to me that there are people who want to be a Christian but at
    the same time also be something else.  This something else in my view
    needs to be tested with fire.  As somebody with, although limited
    knowledge of scripture, have enough knowledge to recognize a
    counterfeit when I see it, one does not have to be a rocket scientist
    to detect the holes in the DNA strand if you will.  DNA strand being
    symbolic of one's belief system.  
    
    Now we can all feel gooey, warm and cozy in our own little incubators
    of comfort, you believe your thing and I'll believe mine...all that
    good stuff.  I don't believe this is what Jesus has called for us.  I
    believe there is accountability amongst those who profess Christianity
    and I believe that accountability needs to be surfaced.  
    
    I find false doctrine to be just as nasty as a nasty disposition.  
    
    -Jack
9.1920Thanks for the uplifting fellowship :^(HURON::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyWed Nov 15 1995 01:5326
    
    > Again as stated in the past, it is difficult to have dialog when there
    > is no likemindedness.

    Which is why I replied here in "Processing." I didn't want to propagate
    the discussion, if you can call it that, I just wanted to express my
    feelings... spill my guts, dump a load, or what ever bodily analogy one
    wishes to apply.

    > Now we can all feel gooey, warm and cozy in our own little incubators
    > of comfort, you believe your thing and I'll believe mine...all that
    > good stuff.

    I believe that knowing Christ *should* be a warm and cozy experience. I
    don't subscribe to the "if it feels good it must be wrong" mentality any
    more than I subscribe to the "if it feels good do it" mentality. Like
    you, I too believe that I am accountable... but to my God, not to those
    who claim to be his standard bearers here on Earth. I would be offended
    if I thought you were implying I'm copping out -- rationalizing a
    loosey-goosey, amoral, spiritual free ride.

    > I find false doctrine to be just as nasty as a nasty disposition.  
    
    Me too.

    Eric    
9.1922HURON::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyWed Nov 15 1995 11:375
    
    I believe that spilling one's guts from time to time is a healthy thing
    to do. Not doing so results in emotional constipation. 
         
    Eric
9.1923USAT05::BENSONEternal WeltanschauungWed Nov 15 1995 11:438
    
    Like I said, Eric, I recommend against it - for others' sake.
    
    But spilling one's guts to Jehovah, assuming belief in, and covering by the
    blood of, Jesus, the Christ, is called for and quite appropriate.  No
    need ever for the Christian to be emotionally constipated.
    
    jeff
9.1924GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Nov 15 1995 12:595
Re: .1921 Jeff

What an unbelievably sexist statement.

				-- Bob
9.1925COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 15 1995 14:062
Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have different
emotional responses?
9.1926APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyWed Nov 15 1995 14:1719
    
    RE .1925 

    > Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have
    > different emotional responses?

    Ah, but that's not the question. The question is do women suffer a
    "malady.. to exaggerate, to misunderstand, to blow out of proportion,
    to emotionalize that which is not inherently complicated."

    Now we can discuss if men and women have different emotional responses,
    or we can discuss the inferiority of the female psyche, which is what
    was raised.

    Saying the American and Japanese cars handle differently is one thing.
    But there is a great leap from that statement to saying American cars
    handle like trash. Any reasonable person would see this :^).

    Eric
9.1927BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 14:298

	I have to agree with Erik here. I wonder if someone said in return to
Jeff's response, "Typical Christian reaction", if Jeff would have seen fault in
that?


Glen
9.1928so?LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8)Wed Nov 15 1995 17:0814
re Note 9.1925 by COVERT::COVERT:

> Well, is it or is it not a proven fact that men and women have different
> emotional responses?
  
        Well, it is certainly *not* a proven fact, and contradicted
        by everyday experience, to imply that every woman's response
        is different from every man's.

        As far as this particular woman, Patricia, and this
        particular man, Jeff, they both seem at times to more alike
        than different in emotional response.

        Bob
9.1929TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 15 1995 17:119
    
    Re.9.1921  
    
    Next I suppose we'll hear some similar choice stereotypical 
    observations about our brothers and sisters with darker skin
    from you as well?  Because that's the level to which .1921 
    managed to stoop to.
    
    Cindy
9.1930BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 17:2010

	I never thought I would hear such talk in this file. Especially from
those who are doing the topic. The *good* thing this does show us is that we
are all far from being infallible. I just wonder if those who made the
comments they did see what is wrong with them?



Glen
9.1931CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Wed Nov 15 1995 17:274
    Actually, I find it revealing.
    
    Richard
    
9.1932MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 17:5527
       ZZ     As far as this particular woman, Patricia, and this
       ZZ     particular man, Jeff, they both seem at times to more alike
       ZZ     than different in emotional response.
    
    Bob, I will say I admire your objectivity here.  Thank you for this.
    
    On one side, I can honestly say that to draw the conclusion that women
    become more emotional over (fill in whatever), would be termed a Hasty
    Generalization in any critical thinking course.  Speaking for myself,
    there is a man in my organization who is a perpetual pain in the neck,
    emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.
    
    On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.
    They are most assuredly not.  I think this has been discussed and
    perhaps not necessary to rathole here.
    
    Cindy, I do have to comment on something you just mentioned.  You also
    are guilty of a hasty generalization and without possibly realizing,
    inciting trouble by inferring that one would make perjorative remarks
    against people of color.  First, there is no evidence of this being a
    habit here in C-P.  Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
    again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
    regarding women, then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe,
    or a republican.  This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman
    with your intellect!
    
    -Jack
9.1933TINCUP::inwo.cxo.dec.com::BittrolffRead a Book!Wed Nov 15 1995 18:1312
.1923 BENSON


    But spilling one's guts to Jehovah, assuming belief in, and covering 
    by the
    blood of, Jesus, the Christ, is called for and quite appropriate.  No
    need ever for the Christian to be emotionally constipated.

Covered in the blood of Jesus, you're right, that is a much nicer image 
than spilling your guts... :^}

Steve
9.1934BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 18:3213
| <<< Note 9.1932 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.

	Jack, you pretty much summed that up when you said:

| emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.




Glen
9.1935MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 18:409
    | emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to
    |women.
    
    Thanks for pointing out my sincere typo.  Should read...
    
    
    ...and all these other labels that are being misapplied to women.
    
    
9.1936we are what we do? (think?)LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO2-3/E8)Wed Nov 15 1995 18:5131
re Note 9.1932 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN:

>     On the other hand, I reject the belief that women and men are the same.
>     They are most assuredly not.  I think this has been discussed and
>     perhaps not necessary to rathole here.
  
        I'll go further than you -- I reject the belief that any two
        people are the same.

>     habit here in C-P.  Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
>     again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
>     regarding women, then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe,
>     or a republican.  This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman
>     with your intellect!
  
        That's kind of like calling it "victim mentality" to say that
        if some individual makes a hasty act to kill another, that
        therefore they are a murderer.

        For some reason, we are willing to characterize a person by a
        single act for certain acts, but some of us bristle at doing
        the analogous characterizing as a result of other acts.

        If a person becomes a murder by one act of murder, why don't
        they become a sexist by one act of sexism?  As suggested by
        Jesus, perhaps they become a sexist by one sexist thought!

        (Doesn't one act of "republicanism" make one a republican? 
        What if one has a republican thought? :-)

        Bob
9.1937MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 19:0614
    ZZ        I'll go further than you -- I reject the belief that any two
    ZZ        people are the same.
    
    Well, what the heck....we'll rathole!  Speaking on observation of the
    genders, I believe there are certain traits women portray more than men 
    and likewise there are traits portrayed by women more often then
    men.
    
    If a man does one act of sexism, then he may unfairly be labeled a
    sexist for life; however, he should not be clumped in with racists.
    Furthermore, one who disagrees with political policy does not make them
    a racist or a sexist.   
    
    -Jack
9.1938TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 15 1995 19:2017
    
    Re.1932
    
    Jack,
    
    That was no 'hasty generalization' made.  I've known the writings of 
    said person in notes files for well over 8 years now, and this is most
    definitely not the first time it's happened.
    
    There is a very strong parallel between racism and sexism, and I put
    the note in to show just that.  You may - quite literally - not be old
    enough to remember the stereotypical generalizations of darker skinned
    people in the 1960s, but they sound an awful lot like what was said 
    about women in that note I referenced.  Yet it's still OK to say such
    things about women.
    
    Cindy
9.1939BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 19:2315
| <<< Note 9.1937 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| I believe there are certain traits women portray more than men

| and likewise there are traits portrayed by women more often then men.

	Am I missing something or do these two things say the same thing?

	Jack....thanks for clearing up your misque.

	Bob, God has certainly gave you the capability of writing and getting
right to the point. Great note!


Glen
9.1940TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 15 1995 19:2414
    
    Re.1932 (again)
    
    >This is fallacious thinking...
    
    Yes, Jack, it is.  You might want to correct some of your incorrect
    premises, and then you won't arrive at the conclusion that you did.
    
    Again, another case of you assuming something incorrectly, using it 
    as part of a logical deduction, arriving at a faulty conclusion, and
    projecting it back onto the person you are referring to.
    
    Cindy
                  
9.1941APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyWed Nov 15 1995 19:277
    
    >  Yet it's still OK to say such things about women.
    
    Only in some circles, but do you think this sort of thing is accepted
    in normal society?
    
    Eric
9.1942Yes...TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 15 1995 19:3175
9.1943POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineWed Nov 15 1995 19:423
    so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?
    
    
9.1944TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonWed Nov 15 1995 19:456
    
    Yes, I'm wondering that too, Patricia.  Thanks for asking the question.
    
    Waiting for replies...
    
    Cindy
9.1945USAT05::BENSONEternal WeltanschauungWed Nov 15 1995 19:5718
    
    there are so many options for dealing with a note like .1921.
    
    - ignore it.
    - overlook it.
    - stew over it.
    - accept it.
    - forget it.
    - get mad about it.
    - if you think its evil, return good as Jesus commanded.
    - think about it.
    - respond to it thoughtfully.
    - cry a little.
    - show it to your friends.
    - frame it so you can look back on it.
    ....
    
    jeff
9.1946MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 21:1314
    ZZ    Yes, Jack, it is.  You might want to correct some of your incorrect
    ZZ    premises, and then you won't arrive at the conclusion that you did.
    
    Cindy, since you are the only one of about 50 noters that I communicate
    with, seemingly to have this problem, I would be most glad if you would
    assist me.
    
    What was my incorrect premise on this one?  I was just a babe in the
    early 60's and missed much of the parellels between racism and sexism 
    of that time.  Judging from what you wrote, it was you that brought
    racism into the equation when racism wasn't even mentioned.  I had no
    choice but to make some sort of premise...correct or incorrect.
    
    -Jack
9.1947MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 21:167
  ZZZ  so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?
    
    Show that you have the integrity to look beyond it.  I do it all the
    time.  
    
    -Jack
    
9.1948BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 22:341
<---would you do the same for abortion?
9.1949APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 12:0316
    
    > so what is an effective way to deal with a note such as 9.1921?

    Normally, I would respond voicing my strong disagreement with the views
    stated in such a note. However, one must consider not just the text of
    any given note, but also its author. If you believe the author is open
    to discussion, to the possibility of error, then I would go ahead and
    respond. If you believe the author is absolutely closed minded, or
    worse, may in fact feed on the rebukes he or she receives... the old "I
    wear your condemnation as a badge of honor", then I would not respond
    directly to the note. 

    The goal should be to squelch evil ideas, not fertilize them.


    Eric
9.1950APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 12:1016
            re .1942

    Cindy,

    I wasn't denying that sexual harassment exists, I was just wondering if
    it was tolerated in normal society. Since the case you cite was
    settled to the satisfaction of Ms. Valentine, I'd say it is an example
    of how normal society does *not* tolerate debasing women.

    It appears, however, the impolite society is larger than I might have
    expected.

    Eric

    PS. I bet you have some opinions on the Hooter's Restaurant sexual
        discrimination charges! :^)
9.1951POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineThu Nov 16 1995 12:1013
    Jack,
    
    Cindy is not the only one.  The way you make an incorrect assumption
    then draw bizarre  conclusions from that assumption is obvious to me as
    well as cindy.
    
    In you noting I do see an very strong link between sexism and
    homophobia.  Those are the two that I see as strongly linked.  And as
    you have admitted in here, you have gotten yourself in hot water
    several times in notes files for referring to men using female
    allusions in a derogatory way.
    
    That is an example of both sexism and homophobia
9.1952POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineThu Nov 16 1995 12:1513
    For me, that note is just another fairly typical example of how deep
    rooted sexism really is.
    
    My response to sexism is anger and frustration.  It is very real and
    just beneath the conscious level.
    
    Of course as a woman, almost any response I make could be viewed as
    overreacting and being "too emotional".
    
    I personally have spent a lot of time and effort getting in touch with
    my feelings and honoring my feelings.  All of them.  My feelings are
    what make me human.  I hate being put in a position where I need to
    defend being a feeling person.
9.1953MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 16 1995 12:3115
    Glen:
    
    If somebody called me the poster boy for abortion...or said that it is
    the existance of the likes of me that add merit to the abortion debate,
    then I would...as you are well aware, reply with a...
    
    
    
    Grrrrrrrrrrrr.........
    
    
    
    Equating the act of abortion with an insult doesn't parse.
    
    -Jack
9.1954MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 16 1995 12:5345
ZZ    Cindy is not the only one.  The way you make an incorrect assumption
ZZ    then draw bizarre  conclusions from that assumption is obvious to
ZZ    me as well as cindy.
    
    Or perhaps the incorrect assumption is based at times on poor
    communication.  I seem to communicate well with everybody else.
    I think "bizarre" is a bit strong; considering some of the ideas
    brought forth here by yourself, Cindy, and others are, with all due
    respect, quite foreign to logic and critical thinking.  It's all about
    perspective and although I disagree, with it, or make it a point to
    challenge it, I at LEAST give you the benefit of respecting your right
    to believe it.  In other words, I don't give you the silent treatment,
    ignore you...you know...the silly things we as humans do to hurt each
    other from time to time.  
        
 ZZ       In you noting I do see an very strong link between sexism and
 ZZ       homophobia.  Those are the two that I see as strongly linked.  And
 ZZ       as you have admitted in here, you have gotten yourself in hot water
 ZZ       several times in notes files for referring to men using female
 ZZ       allusions in a derogatory way.
    
    Actually Patricia, it happened one time.  ONE time.  And I shared it in
    here, with you.  I certainly didn't have to do this.  You never asked
    me to but I did so for two reasons.  The first reason Patricia is to
    show you that people evolve, mature, and learn.  Secondly, I am
    attempting to demonstrate that in a forum of differing points of view,
    one can openly humble themselves and admit when they are wrong...or
    admit when they have learned something.  I referred to a certain
    individual in Soapbox as "Senorita", with the intent to passively
    demean his manhood, not to demean women.  It had been pointed out to me
    that although this might have been my intent, it is not taken that way.
    After thinking it through, I found I was without recourse and had to
    admit my oversight.  I did so and the matter came to a close.    
    
    That is an example of both sexism and homophobia.
    
    You mean how they are linked together?  I suppose this can be the case.  
    Needless to say however, I find the term homophobia a misused term.  I
    would say it is a matter of hate more than fear.  I still don't believe
    however that racism and sexism can be interchangable; at least not in
    all cases.
    
    -Jack  
    
    
9.1955POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineThu Nov 16 1995 13:3383
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>    respect, quite foreign to logic and critical thinking. 
    
    
    Jack, this is a common example of sexism which can be found in your
    writing.
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
    
9.1956MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 16 1995 13:469
    ZZ   Jack, this is a common example of sexism which can be found in your
    ZZ    writing.
    
    No...thats plain cold observation Patricia.  I directed it at you and
    Cindy because YOU stated YOU agreed with Cindy.  You didn't bring up
    anybody else.  It was gender neutral and nonsensical for you to bring
    it up.
    
    -Jack
9.1957APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 14:3022
    
    > Of course as a woman, almost any response I make could be viewed as
    > overreacting and being "too emotional".

    Of course as a man, almost any response I make could be viewed as
    typical male arrogance and dominance... but then *they'd* be acting
    irrationally, illogically, and emotionally. :^)

    Sexist stereotypes, as you yourself have said, hurt *everyone*. And in
    fact sexual stereotypes swing both ways (there's a double-entendre for
    you :^)). One claims to merely be stating factual observations and when
    rebuffed, claims the rebuke is proof of the original stereotype
    assertion.

    Stereotypes and generalization need not be a bad thing. As I have said
    in the past we all use stereotypes. They are the framework for
    evaluating new experiences and making course decisions. It is only when
    we treat stereotypes as unyielding absolutes that we get into trouble.

    Eric


9.1958APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 14:4011
    
    Jack,

    > I seem to communicate well with everybody else.

    And you base this on...?

    *I've* got no problem with you personally, Jack, but I think you're
    over reaching here.

    Eric
9.1959MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 16 1995 14:4612
 ZZ      And you base this on...?
    
    I don't claim I have no enemies Eric.  I most assuredly do.  I am
    basing it on the fact that people know where I stand, I don't speak in
    riddles, I don't flower my language lest I trample on somebody's flower
    garden, and it would seem that because I am unable to always decifer
    peoples hidden riddles here in C-P, I am accused by one person of
    basing a response on a presupposition.  I was pointing out that
    interestingly enough, this certain person is the only one who has a
    consistent habit of pointing it out to me; therefore, either the masses
    suffer fools gladly or there isn't a communication gap between me and
    everybody else.  How's that for logic?
9.1960CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Nov 16 1995 15:494
    As my communications teacher insisted, "You cannot NOT communicate."
    
    Richard
    
9.1961TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Nov 16 1995 15:5560
    Re.1932

    Jack,
    
    OK - here's my response...
    
    >On one side, I can honestly say that to draw the conclusion that women
    >become more emotional over (fill in whatever), would be termed a Hasty
    >Generalization in any critical thinking course.  Speaking for myself,
    >there is a man in my organization who is a perpetual pain in the neck,
    >emotional, hysterical, and all these other labels that apply to women.

	Comment duly noted...and appreciated.
    
    >Cindy, I do have to comment on something you just mentioned.  
	
	Very well.

    >You also are guilty of a hasty generalization 

	False, Jack.  It was based on 8 years of noting experience,
	with said person, and therefore (unless you call 8 years 'hasty') 
	warranted.

    >and without possibly realizing,
    >inciting trouble by inferring that one would make perjorative remarks
    >against people of color.  

	"...inferring that one *would*..."  No, Jack, I inferred 
	that one 'could' and 'might'...and not 'would'.  

	Sexism and racism go hand in hand.  There's no difference to
	me whether you label a woman 'emotional' and 'not logical',
	and labeling someone having darker skin of being (insert your
	stereotypical labels here, etc. - and here are where all the 
	old stereotypes apply that you probably missed, having not 
	lived much into the 60s).  Even I missed a lot, having been
	born in 1957, but still once I actually saw a segregated 
	bathroom in the south.

    >Secondly, it presumes the old victim mentality
    >again...the concept that if somebody makes a hasty generalization
    >regarding women, 

     	It wasn't 'hasty' Jack.  False.

    >then they in fact are a racist, a bigot, a homophobe, or a republican.  

     	It wasn't 'hasty' Jack.  False again.  Also, I did not label the
	*person* in my note...I only referred to the *conversation
	direction*.  You used the labels, and rather unfairly at that,
	since I'm very careful never to refer to anyone by a label.
	Remember we went through that already, where I said to you that
	I've never labeled you as 'sexist', yet you assumed that I had,
	and were responding accordingly?

    >This is fallacious thinking, especially from a woman with your intellect!
    
	And therefore, this is a false conclusion based on false premises.
9.1962TNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Nov 16 1995 15:578
    
    Re.1950
    
    Eric,
    
    Hooter's Restaurant?  I missed that one.  Sounds intriguing!
    
    Cindy
9.1963MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 16 1995 16:193
    Born in 1961 by the way.  Thanks for your reply!
    
    -Jack
9.1964APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 16:2719
    
    re 9.1962

    Hooter's Restaurant openly and exclusively hires young, attractive
    women as waitpersons and requires them to wear short-shorts ("hot"
    pants) and halter tops. Four(?) men in the Chicago area want to bring
    changes of sexual discrimination for denying them employment. The Labor
    Department (or some federal labor interest) is backing the men on this.

    The surprise, to me anyway, is that the Hooter's women are rallying
    against the men, saying that Hooter's *should* fight to maintain it's
    ban on male waitpersons. One outraged waitress said that there were
    plenty of *other* job opportunities within the restaurant for men. One
    of the protest signs I saw charged the *men* of sexism, saying that the
    men were trying to "steal" jobs from women. (I found this, as Jack
    would say, bizarre and illogical). Now pretend it's 1962 and instead of
    "men" they were taking about women or "colored folk."...

    Eric
9.1965CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Nov 16 1995 16:3114
================================================================================
Note 9.1917                   The Processing Topic                  1917 of 1963
USAT05::BENSON "Eternal Weltanschauung"               5 lines  14-NOV-1995 17:08
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    
>    I believe that spilling one's guts is as unpleasant as it sounds, and
>    recommend against it.
    
>    jeff

I say that, in keeping with the metaphor, it actually takes guts to do.

Richard

9.1966re: a fewTNPUBS::PAINTERPlanet CrayonThu Nov 16 1995 16:5110
    
    Yes, I know your age, Jack.  You admitted it at the dinner.  (;^)  
    I've found it the case that even 4 years can make a tremendous 
    difference when there's such a major societal turning point taking
    place.  
    
    And here I thought it was a sitcom, Eric.  (;^)  I don't really have
    an opinion on it, at least at this moment.
    
    Cindy
9.1967GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Nov 16 1995 17:099
Re: .1964 Eric

>    The Labor
>    Department (or some federal labor interest) is backing the men on this.

EEOC = Equal Employment Opportunity Commission, an agency which is
temporarily out of business due to the government shutdown.

				-- Bob
9.1968APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 17:1814
    
    > ...therefore, either the masses suffer fools gladly or there isn't a
    > communication gap between me and everybody else. How's that for logic?

    Weak. You come up with two possibilities and arbitrarily chose the
    latter to be fact. I would have chosen the former :^)

    What I see happening quite frequently, myself included, is a thought
    process passed off as logic, as in: I have a thought process therefore
    I am logical. You have a different process therefore you are illogical.
    It's like starting off a proof with the statement "Given that I am
    correct..."

    Eric
9.1969APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Nov 16 1995 18:3121
        Not to turn this into Pick on Jack Day (oops, too late) but given

    >Note 9.1959 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN
    >
    > I am accused by one person of basing a response on a presupposition.

    and...

    > Note 641.102 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN
    > 
    > Sorry but I'm not a mind reader and I act impulsively based on
    >                                    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    > expectations!
    > ^^^^^^^^^^^^

    
    You seem to prove your accuser's case! :^)
    If I'm wrong then you have a communication problem with me. :^)

    Eric

9.1970APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyFri Nov 17 1995 13:257
    
    I'd like to suggest that noters not drag conversation and disagreements
    for Soapbox, or other conferences, into Christian-Perspectives. Not
    only is it confusing for the rest of the readership, it also tends to
    lower the degree of civility. 
    
    Eric
9.1971MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Nov 17 1995 14:056
    Normally Eric, this would be the case.  Since my word, "Senorita"
    created mass (I want to say hysteria but I won't), lynch mobs, it
    probably was an appropriate example to bring here.  Otherwise, you're
    right.  
    
    -Jack
9.1972CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsFri Nov 17 1995 14:156
    Eric,
    
    I agree there are plenty of examples of dehumanization of women and the
    accompanying sexism right here in this file.  
    
    meg
9.1973MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Nov 17 1995 14:2110
    Meg:
    
    Then let's focus right in our own media.  Considering the media is the
    biggest propoganda tool used in this country, how do you feel when
    Clinton uses terms like Radical Right, Mean Spirited, and other
    perjorative words to describe his opponents?  Do you consider this to
    be sexist against males/females?  By your definition, again I expect
    you will show objectivity here...unless of course you have an agenda.
    
    -Jack
9.1974CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Nov 17 1995 16:037
>    I'd like to suggest that noters not drag conversation and disagreements
>    for Soapbox, or other conferences, into Christian-Perspectives.
    
Amen!  Set mode=NOSOAPBOX

Richard

9.1975CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Nov 30 1995 21:3710
    1182.203
    
    Six new entries in a topic in one day is what you call silence?
    
    What makes you so itchy, Jack?
    
    Try giving folks a few days before figuring they're not going to respond.
    
    Richard
    
9.1976MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 13:541
    Sorry, I have this thing about accountability.
9.1977POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Dec 01 1995 15:253
    Jack,
    
    Just own it as your own problem.  No one elses.
9.1978MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 15:481
    Okay Doctor.
9.1979CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Dec 01 1995 15:546
    No one here is accountable to you, Jack.
    
    Participation is voluntary.  I suggest you honor that.
    
    Richard
    
9.1980MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:0414
    Richard, when somebody begins a topic, particularly a volitile one,
    then I expect accountability.  I see the one starting the topic as the
    inviter to a lecture, or a party, or a discussion.  When somebody
    arbitrarily makes blanket accusations and then says, "I'm not going to
    talk about it anymore", I see this as discourteous.  When somebody
    arbitrarily makes accusations of sexism and is then asked to justify
    why something good for the goose is not good for the gander, my
    conspiracy suspicion arises and the inviter is left with an image of
    unreliability.  I expect more of people here.
    
    Furthermore, if we are all believers, then I believe we ARE accountable
    to one another.  Not only as Christians but also as a community.
    
    -Jack
9.1981BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 16:095
| <<< Note 9.1976 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Sorry, I have this thing about accountability.

	Since when? :-)
9.1982CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Dec 01 1995 16:1510
    9.1980
    
    See it as you will.
    
    No one here is accountable to you, Jack.
    
    Participation is voluntary.  I suggest you honor that.
    
    Richard
    
9.1983MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:191
    I honor the right but I don't have to respect it!
9.1984APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyFri Dec 01 1995 16:3311
    
    We should respect the fact that people are participating here while on
    the job (for the most part.) It should be expected that replies may not
    always suit our expectation of expediency, particularly if the
    respondent is expected for form a coherent, thoughtful note. 

    I know of at least one noter who, in his haste, has followed up with a
    "what I meant to say.." clarification note on more than one occasion.
    :^)

    Eric
9.1985MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:531
    Gosh, and I've talked to Glen about this so many times!!!!!!!
9.1986APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyFri Dec 01 1995 17:194
    
    Hey, I'm not pointing fingers... :^)
    
    Eric
9.1987MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 18:361
    Ho ho....!
9.1988BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 19:126
| <<< Note 9.1985 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Gosh, and I've talked to Glen about this so many times!!!!!!!

	This is true...and each time your note started with, "what I meant to
say was...." :-)
9.1989CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 21 1995 13:5012
I seriously doubt that 1193.1 originated with John Covert.

It smacks of a parody written most probably by a Unitarian-Universalist.

It would have a whole different meaning if it had been entered here by
a Unitarian-Universalist, but it wasn't.

Dick Gregory can entitle his book, "Nigger," but Mark Fuhrman is a
racist for his use of the word.

Richard

9.1990MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Dec 21 1995 13:5916
    Richard:
    
    This is exactly the point I brought up in the other conference.  I took
    a Val Div course a few years back and brought up the point that a joke
    isn't validated by one group and not by another.  The example I used
    was rap singers using pejorative terminology toward women of African
    American descent.  It matters not that the singer is black, it is still
    classless and pejorative.
    
    Likewise, parody's like Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor, JC,
    Superstar, Godspell, etc., are sanctioned parodies put out by Broadway
    and supported by tax dollars.  Therefore, a parody of this type should
    be viewed as humorous, light hearted, and anybody being offended at
    such things needs to take a chill pill!
    
    -Jack
9.1991CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 21 1995 15:2811
    .1990
    
    I don't think the point I'm making is the point you're making at all, Jack.
    
    I don't think spirit, intent and motivation can be summarily dismissed.
    
    And I think in so many cases those who claim to be 'color blind' are
    really just turning a blind eye.
    
    Richard
    
9.1992APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Dec 21 1995 15:3214
9.1993CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 21 1995 15:388
    .1992
    
    I felt the same way about Godspell.  One person's gargoyle is
    apparently another's spire.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.1994POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineThu Dec 21 1995 19:559
    Richard,
    
    Thank you for understanding the basis of my feelings about the note. 
    It is precisely that it is posted by John who seems to abhor Unitarian
    Universalism and has posted his Gem in no fewer than three conferences.
    
    If it were UU's laughing at themselves or other religious  liberals
    joking at a likeminded organization, it would have a whole different
    feel.
9.1995MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Dec 21 1995 20:0815
 Z   If it were UU's laughing at themselves or other religious  liberals
 Z   joking at a likeminded organization, it would have a whole
 Z   different feel.
    
    Oh, so you affirm that there is in fact a barrier or a line between
    those of different faith, ethnicity and the like.
    
    Thank you for affirming what I have suspected all a long.  Diversity is
    a convenient buzz word when it becomes a tool of convenience for the
    sensitive type.  But my oh my, let me make disparaging remarks about
    people of my club but God help you if you do likewise.
    
    Just shows the whole diversity thing can be a big sham when misapplied.
    
    -Jack
9.1996COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Dec 21 1995 20:118
>...John who seems to abhor Unitarian Universalism ...

I am absolutely certain that I have nowhere near the hostility
towards UUism that you obviously have towards the Church founded
by Jesus Christ, as you constantly demonstrate in your slanderous
attacks on the catholic faith and its followers.

/john
9.1997CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 21 1995 20:3110
    .1995
    
    Is that what you learned in your 'Val Div' class?  That valuing
    diversity is about blurring the lines that make us distinct and
    unique from one another?
    
    It is a very shallow understanding, at best.
    
    Richard
    
9.1998POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Dec 22 1995 12:3520
    Jack,
    
    I don't think you could have learned a thing in your valuing diversity
    class.  Maybe another one might help.
    
    An insider can be critical of themselves, should laugh at themselves. 
    An insider does it out of respect for themselves.
    
    When someone outside of a group decides to make fun of the group, then
    the question of motivation comes up.  And if the motivation is to tear
    down, that the act itself is to tear down.
    
    You have asked me a number of times why I am critical of sexism within
    Christianity and not within Islam.  I have tried telling you without
    your hearing, that because Christianity is my heritage, my criticism of
    it has the intent to want to make Christianity better.  With someone
    else's religion, I need to be much more careful that my motivation is
    not to deride.  
    
                                 
9.1999POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Dec 22 1995 13:0065
>I am absolutely certain that I have nowhere near the hostility
>towards UUism that you obviously have towards the Church founded
>by Jesus Christ, as you constantly demonstrate in your slanderous
>attacks on the catholic faith and its followers.
    
    
    First of all, Jesus Christ did not found a church.  Jesus Christ from
    his birth to his death was a Jew.  Jesus Christ' mission on earth was
    to reform Judaism and not to start a new religion.
    
    The Apostles, Paul, and the author of "John" "Matthew" "Luke" and
    "Mark"  all contributed to the founding of Christianity.   Christianity
    was not founded until after the death of Jesus.
    
    Second, I was baptised into the Roman Catholic Church as a baby.  My
    father and my Grand parents were Catholic.  I found my way into the
    Congregation Church as a child.  I was educated for four years at
    Stonehill College, a Catholic College.  As an adult, I consider myself
    a Christian Unitarian Universalist and am studying to become a
    Unitiarian Universalist minister, at Andover Newton Theological School,
    a thouroughly Christian Seminary.  This is hardly evidence of hostility
    toward the Church.
    
    There is one practice of the Catholic Church that I believe is very
    wrong and that needs to be corrected.  I will do whatever I can to see
    that that evil practice is corrected, not out of hostility toward the
    church but out of love and respect for the church.  The Physical church is 
    a human organization and is subject to all the sins that humans are
    subject too.    The systematic sin, the Original sin that the catholic
    church is guilty of is sexism, and the catholic church is the world's
    largest practioner of institutional sexism.   This sin, if not
    corrected will destroy the  church.
    
    I believe that the Catholic Church is good for Protestant Churches and
    that Protestant churches are good for Catholic Churches.  They balance
    and influence each other.  There is a tremendous pull in Christianity
    toward the reforming of itself.   The vision and ideals of Christianity
    are high.  They are beyond that possible for any individual and for any
    institution.  There is also the presence of forgiveness and grace. 
    
    So each of us both individually and institutionally are encouraged to
    "be perfect as your God in heaven is perfect" even as we know,
    individually and institutionally that we will never achieve perfection. 
    We are forgiven for not achieving perfection, but never relieved of our
    responsibility to seek perfection.
    
    Perfection is visioned within Scripture itself.  "Within Christ, there
    is no male of female, Jew or Gentile, Slave or Free"  All people are
    equal within Christ.  The church itself is held up to that standard and
    each of us are called to help pull the church in that direction.
    
    Identify sin as sin is not destructive.  It's purpose is the
    elimination of sin.  I have faith that the Catholic Church and all
    other Christian Churches that descriminate against women, will repent
    and reform themselves.  These churches absolutely need members who
    constantly remind those in the church of its vision, and of the
    possibility of moving toward that vision and establishing the Reign of
    the Divine, here on earth.
    
    I do not criticize sinful practices of Christian Churches out of
    hostility.  I name sinful practices sinful, because I desire to see the
    Church become all that it can become.
    
                                                 Patricia
    
9.2000POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Dec 22 1995 13:021
    So be it!
9.2001MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 22 1995 13:3241
    You missed a snarf there Patricia!  I congratulate you on your self
    control! 
    
    First, let,s touch on the church thing.  The Church was MOST DEFINITELY
    founded by Jesus Christ.  Jesus spoke in Matthew 16 as saying, "...and
    upon this rock I WILL BUILD MY CHURCH, and the gates of hell shall not
    prevail against it."  Yes, the first church in Acts was established as
    a body after the resurrection, but the church was operated and
    controlled under the command and direction of the Holy Spirit. 
    Otherwise, it would have faded out in a relatively short time.
    
    Now for the fun stuff, Val Div...  In regards to taking it again, no
    thank you.  I found the course for the most part to be made up of a
    consortium of whiners and malcontents who had nothing better to do than
    to bicker, argue, and most definitely devalue anything the other person
    had to say.  Why would I want to subject myself to that again?  Oh and
    by the way, the whining came from both white and black alike.  Now in
    reference to your statements regarding the inherent right for people
    within their own group to poke fun...since the name Flanagan tends to
    be Irish or possibly have a little Irish in it, does this make it
    within protocol for me as one who is part Irish to carry on with
    drinking jokes or some such?  No, I find this to be condescending and
    whats more, I find it to be an attitude which goes against the very
    objective you have, that being to build one another up instead of
    tearing each other down.  In the Val Div course, quite frankly, I
    brought up the very fact that the greatest racist and sexist attitudes
    portrayed toward African American women in this country come from black
    men and not white.  The example I used was this unsophisticated noise
    on the radio called rap music.  Apparently, the singers feel since they
    are black that they have this inherant right to refer the "N" word on
    many occasion not to mention the frequent use of the terms, "ho's and
    *%itches", to wit I stand by your side and condemn such messages as
    pejorative, barbaric, and condescending.  You DO agree with me on this
    do you not?  This was the point I was making about tearing one another
    down.  I realize lighthearted humor toward one's one tribe, be it
    white, black, catholic, hebrew...is all in fun.  But I DON'T believe
    across the board that people of one's own race has the inherent right
    to exploit their own race in this manner.  The utopia of solid race
    relations will never be equitable if we are cutting each other down.
    
    -Jack
9.2002POWDML::FLANAGANlet your light shineFri Dec 22 1995 13:435
    Jack,
    
    The idea was that you focus on yourself and how stereotypes affect your
    own life and not that you focus on someone else and how the stereotypes
    affect them.
9.2003MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 22 1995 13:4911
    You'll be surprised to know that I sat in the course and did more
    listening than speaking.  Sounded like there were alot of people there
    that needed to vent.  I interjected at times but found meself to speak
    soberly and circumspectly.  I found some of the videos to be
    interesting and admittedly, I had the teacher pegged after the first
    hour.  Sorry but she fit the stereotype of a lesbian woman...her hair
    style, her interests and her own attitudes.  Sometimes, you can tell a
    person by patterns and she had them.  She was a very nice individual
    and she and I seemed to respect what the other was saying.
    
    -Jack
9.2004MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 22 1995 13:5513
    Thinking about this a few minutes ago while getting my tea.  I get my
    hair cut at National Hair Care Center.  A few months ago the stylist, a
    man relatively new there, signed me in.  He has quite a different hair
    cut, five ear rings, and I'm sorry but he struck me as having the
    pattern.  Well, he cut my hair a few weeks ago and this is what I
    learned about him....
    
    
    He's an X Marine and he is married.
    
    So much for patterns!
    
    -Jack
9.2005Sort of sounds like a campaignCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Fri Dec 22 1995 17:166
9.1994

>   and has posted his Gem in no fewer than three conferences.

Let me guess.  One of them is SOAPBOX.

9.2006MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 22 1995 20:191
    Correct.  
9.2007If it's not too much to askCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 28 1995 16:156
    I request that cross-conference talk be avoided, that exchanges
    initiated elsewhere remain there.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.2008MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Dec 28 1995 16:4712
    Richard, a third option may be to start a string entitled, "Why
    Witchcraft?"  Which I may do in about a month or so.  Some time after
    January 1.  
    
    There is a string in womannotes where somebody who is a believer in
    Jesus Christ wants to feel more comfortable in the area of witchcraft
    or wicca.  Instead of addressing this in womannotes where it most
    likely would have been deleted for insensitivity, I thought it more
    appropriate to ask the question here.  Most people in WN probably
    wouldn't want to indulge or listen to a conversation of that nature.
    
    -Jack
9.2009CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 28 1995 18:585
    The Box keeps coming up, too.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.2010MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Dec 28 1995 19:346
    Richard, who are we kidding here?  I defy you to go back a thousand or
    so replies in this very string.  Go into ANY of these strings and you
    will find a flavor of cynicism here...just like your reply to me not
    one hour ago.  
    
    -Jack
9.2011It's a request, not a jestCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Thu Dec 28 1995 19:3711
================================================================================
Note 9.2007                   The Processing Topic                  2007 of 2010
CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Ps. 85.10"                         6 lines  28-DEC-1995 13:15
                        -< If it's not too much to ask >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    I request that cross-conference talk be avoided, that exchanges
    initiated elsewhere remain there.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
9.2012APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyWed Jan 17 1996 16:2526
    re 14.387

    > MLK's heirs can't even stand in his shadow, and they have espoused the
    > very opposite concepts MLK had about peaceful dissent.  I believe my
    > comments regarding the three I mentioned are NOT backbiting, they are
    > truth.  They squandered what MLK stood for. 

    It would have been better, my friend, if you had said this to begin
    with. We too often conserve words at the expense of clarity. We may
    still disagree about the "truth" of the above statement, but what you
    have said here is far different the the message you gave in your
    original retort to Richard.

    Your reflex to see symbolism and hidden meaning in Richard's notes
    seems to have caused you to reply in an unnecessarily defensive way. I
    am also guilty of this malady of defensiveness. On a day when we should
    reflect on the noble civil rights struggle as exemplified by Dr. King,
    I felt your indictment on *exclusively* black men as racist bigots was
    in bad form. We have all year to vilify controversial black men. Do you
    understand why some of us found the use of MLK's birthday to spotlight
    what you see as what's wrong with the black community's leadership was
    unnecessary.
    
    Peace,
       Eric

9.2013MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Jan 17 1996 17:0615
 Z   Your reflex to see symbolism and hidden meaning in Richard's notes
 Z   seems to have caused you to reply in an unnecessarily defensive way.
    
    Eric, yes, I do see how that can be the case.  Richard has this
    way at times of not revealing his intent.  It wasn't so much defensive
    as it was an observation.  I believe it is truly sad that MLK's legacy
    ended up as it did.  I kept it exclusively to black men because
    frankly, the plight of civil rights was pretty much exclusive to blacks
    and therefore, I thought it an appropriate line of discussion regarding
    how people like Farrakhan and Sharpton actually promote the opposite
    of what MLK espoused to.  I see more segregation being promoted today
    than ever before and I think it is a tremendous waste that the younger
    generation are getting exposed to this.
    
    -Jack
9.2014CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPs. 85.10Wed Jan 17 1996 18:3319
re 14.387

    > MLK's heirs can't even stand in his shadow, and they have espoused the
    > very opposite concepts MLK had about peaceful dissent.  I believe my
    > comments regarding the three I mentioned are NOT backbiting, they are
    > truth.  They squandered what MLK stood for. 

Jack,

My request to cease the backbiting was NOT in response to your note concerning
the three black men.

I didn't want to mention names, but it was actually in response to the
exchange of January 16 between you and Glen.

You'll notice the request was entered as a separate posting.

Richard

9.2015MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Jan 17 1996 18:393
    Fair enough.  Sorry Glen.
    
    -Jack
9.2016CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPsalm 85.10Tue Mar 05 1996 22:236
>Note 1222.0             I'll let Richard choose a title

I'm flattered, Dave.  But you need not defer to me.

Richard

9.2017MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jul 03 1996 18:221
    Have a nice weekend everybody!
9.2018Yellow lightCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPsalm 85.10Sat Jul 20 1996 03:399
    I would caution participants against ad hominum slurs and insults.
    In addition to being unconvincing, such entries reflect poorly on
    the participants who use them.
    
    The moderators have not received any complaints, but that doesn't mean
    the line hasn't been crossed.
    
    Richard
    
9.2019HURON::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyTue Jul 23 1996 14:1522
    
    I must strenuously object to the collapse of civility I see creeping
    into this conference. Let me suggest that people start using statements
    like "I strongly believe...," "It seems clear to me that...," etc.
    rather than absolute declarations of superiority. 

    Let me further suggest that we not tempt another into increasing
    incivility by pushing their buttons. Sometimes you've just got to draw a
    line and bow out. Just as anger is a sin, so to is tempting (taunting)
    another to the point of anger. Be aware of how your words affect
    another, even if you thing them benign. You will not bring someone
    closer to Christ by pushing them to sinful emotions.

    If you feel so strongly about a point, and so upset that people are not
    receiving your message, perhaps it is time to shake the dust from your
    sandals and move on. I'm not suggesting that any one butt out of the
    notesfile, just that a break may serve one well if they are consumed by
    frustration, anger and loathing. 

    Peace,
    
    	Eric
9.2020CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPsalm 85.10Wed Jul 24 1996 22:3912
Note 1243.380

> Why does it seem that just about every topic with frequent entries
> winds up being ratholed with the homosexuality issue, he asked rhetorically..

I suppose I'm guilty of doing this myself.

To the degree that it's possible, can we stay on the topic of the string and
continue tangental issues under their respective topics?

Richard

9.2021Am I too sensitive?APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Sep 05 1996 19:0423
    
From Note 1269.30

    > Oh, it should be mentioned that in the South everyone who is not a Jew
    > considers himself a Christian, mostly a Baptist.  It's much like
    > Catholicism in the northeast.
    >
    > jeff
    
    This note could be read in at least two ways. One way is with the
    implication that in the Northeast, if one is not a Jew they consider
    themselves a Christian, mostly Catholic.

    The other reading is that in the Northeast, if one is not a Catholic
    they consider themselves a Christian, mostly Baptist.

    While I find both options sadly generalistic, I find the latter
    personally offensive. 

    Jeff, could you please clarify what your assumptions of the Northeast
    are with regard to this note.

    	Eric                                
9.2022MKOTS3::JMARTINI Need To Get Out More!Thu Sep 05 1996 19:119
    Eric:
    
    Yes, you're too sensitive. :-)  Jeff's on vacation by the way.
    
    Consider the following.  If Saudi Arabia is generally Moslem, then in
    their eyes, I am a dog.  But that's okay...they're entitled to their
    opinion.
    
    -Jack
9.2023THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionThu Sep 05 1996 19:2320
>    Consider the following.  If Saudi Arabia is generally Moslem, then in
>    their eyes, I am a dog.  But that's okay...they're entitled to their
>    opinion.

    But, they're not noting with us and not calling us dogs in here.

    If they were to note in here then they may not call us dogs, 
    even if it is their opinion.

    As far as I know, it is against Digital policy to call others
    within Digital names.

    That's why notesfiles are moderated by wise and learned
    moderators, whose judgment no one can question, whose insight
    is beyond the comprehension of mere mortals, whose grace
    and style we can but hope to emulate, whose wisdom...

    You get the idea :*)

    Tom
9.2024MKOTS3::JMARTINI Need To Get Out More!Thu Sep 05 1996 19:2817
 Z   As far as I know, it is against Digital policy to call others
 Z   within Digital names.
    
    This isn't true you tinplated sarcophagus!!!! :-)
    
 Z       That's why notesfiles are moderated by wise and learned
 Z       moderators, whose judgment no one can question, whose insight
 Z       is beyond the comprehension of mere mortals, whose grace
 Z       and style we can but hope to emulate, whose wisdom...
    
    Richard and other's job is to make sure we don't say dirty words! :-)
    
    But seriously, I personally could care less if a moslem came in here
    and called me an imperialist dog.  It shows integrity to speak one's
    mind!
    
    -Jack
9.2025APACHE::MYERSHe literally meant it figurativelyThu Sep 05 1996 20:333
    
    I am concerned that Jeff may be differentiating Catholicism as
    something other than "christian" if the second example is his meaning.
9.2026MKOTS3::JMARTINI Need To Get Out More!Thu Sep 05 1996 20:4210
    Eric:
    
    Patricia thinks I'm an idol worshiper.  In other words...even if Jeff
    does think this...oh well...
    
    Michele worked for Campus Crusade for Christ as a staff member ten
    years and Jeff had no problem expressing his opinion on parachurches to
    her.  Hey, everybody has an opinion!
    
    -Jack
9.2027BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Thu Sep 05 1996 21:386
| <<< Note 9.2026 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I Need To Get Out More!" >>>


| Patricia thinks I'm an idol worshiper.  

	Yeah, you worship yourself!
9.2028MKOTS3::JMARTINI Need To Get Out More!Thu Sep 05 1996 22:014
    Yes, I have a big picture of David Schwimer on my dresser and bow down
    to it every night!! :-)  Or I'm a secular humanist...pick yer poison!
    
    -Jack
9.2029Chapter, verse, quoteCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticMon Jan 20 1997 22:015
9.2029Chapter, verse, and what it saysCSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticTue Jan 21 1997 03:435
9.2030MKOTS3::JMARTINEbonics Is Not ApplyTue Jan 21 1997 14:132
9.2031CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticTue Jan 21 1997 18:086
9.2032MKOTS3::JMARTINEbonics Is Not ApplyTue Jan 21 1997 19:264
9.2033CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticTue Jan 21 1997 20:498
9.2034MKOTS3::JMARTINEbonics Is Not ApplyWed Jan 22 1997 12:267
9.2035CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticWed Jan 22 1997 14:5810
9.2036PHXSS1::HEISERR.I.O.T.Wed Jan 22 1997 15:0612
9.2037source document cited too?SALEM::RUSSOWed Jan 22 1997 15:064
9.2038SUBSYS::LOPEZHe showed me a River!Wed Jan 22 1997 15:238
9.2039PHXSS1::HEISERR.I.O.T.Wed Jan 22 1997 16:221
9.2040THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionWed Jan 22 1997 16:294
9.2041MKOTS3::JMARTINEbonics Is Not ApplyWed Jan 22 1997 17:128
9.2042CSC32::J_CHRISTIEMirthful MysticWed Jan 22 1997 20:319
9.2043PHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Thu Apr 03 1997 23:121
    What would Ghandi do if he were a moderator?
9.2044CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessThu Apr 03 1997 23:4121
    .2043
    
    Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
    
    Everytime I have done something as a moderator I have made it clear
    that I doing it as a moderator.  Most of the time I don't wear that
    hat.
    
    I believe there should not be separate standards, one for moderators,
    one for participants.  I realize many would agree with me cerebrally,
    but would draw decisive lines between the two in practice.
    
    I am prepared to relinquish my moderator hat altogether.  That would
    not change much, however.
    
    Would it be satifying to you?
    
    Richard
    
    PS  Gandhi spelled his name this way: Gandhi  ;-)
    
9.2045PHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Thu Apr 03 1997 23:483
    |    Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
    
    not even close.
9.2046CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 04 1997 00:4510
Note 9.2045

>    |    Is it that I'm a moderator that's got you upset, Mike?
    
>    not even close.

What would be closer?

Richard

9.2047THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionFri Apr 04 1997 14:0216
What if Richard had done this:



RE: 1339.22

>    |And it's amazing what they get into when they do.
>    
>    yes, this conference is a perfect example.



Would it have been such a "damnable" offence?


Tom
9.2048ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Apr 04 1997 15:161
    So....how bout them Red Sox!!!
9.2049DUHPHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Fri Apr 04 1997 15:522
    No wonder we can't discuss doctrine!  I spelled out the offense for you
    clearly, several times, and you still want to know what's wrong!
9.2050CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageFri Apr 04 1997 16:4911
    Mike,
    
    when a person is asked why they are upset about something and the
    person will only cite dogma, I tend to smell a large furry rodent with
    a naked tail.  
    
    If this had been something that showed you or your metaphysical beliefs
    in a good light, would you have been so quick to jump Richard about
    this?  
    
    meg
9.2051CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 04 1997 17:1611
.2049

>    No wonder we can't discuss doctrine!  I spelled out the offense for you
>    clearly, several times, and you still want to know what's wrong!

The letter is clearer than the spirit.  At least it's in black and white.
Not everyone, not even every Christian, comprehends or knows the spirit
(even though they'll tell you otherwise).

What would Jesus have done if he were as participant?

9.2052APACHE::MYERSFri Apr 04 1997 19:547
    
    What does "repost" mean in commandment, "thou shall not repost..."?
    And in the strictest sense, wouldn't it mean *any* copy-paste action
    taken by a non-author?
    
    Eric
    
9.2053CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 04 1997 20:024
    What would Jesus do if he were a participant?
    
    Richard
    
9.2054THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionFri Apr 04 1997 20:218
>    What would Jesus do if he were a participant?

    Blast some.  Comfort others and pray for the lot of us.

    We'd be really hard pressed to agree who He's blast and
    who He'd comfort.  :-)

    Tom
9.2055APACHE::MYERSFri Apr 04 1997 20:292
    
    DELETE ENTRY C-P
9.2056too trueJAMIN::TBAKERDOS With HonorFri Apr 04 1997 20:465
    RE: .2055
    
    > DELETE ENTRY C-P
    
    I'm afraid you're probably right...
9.2057ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Apr 04 1997 21:003
    Eric:
    
    You leave and I'll get you back!!! :-)
9.2058CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 04 1997 22:0313
The reader must decide which participants are bearers of good fruit and
which are not.  It's not decided for the reader in advance like it might
be elsewhere or like some might prefer.

One need not be doctrinally correct to be able to tell good fruit from the
not so good.

Jesus failed to fit the filters of the faithful of his time, also.  In fact,
it raised their ire to hear Jesus point to people outside the faithful as
favored by God.

Richard

9.2059CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 04 1997 22:1112
>    RE: .2055
    
>    > DELETE ENTRY C-P
    
I don't think Jesus would pull the plug on us.

He would probably allow us to make accusations against him, spit on him,
demean and ostracize him, place a crown of thorns on his head, and crucify
him....again.

Richard

9.2060rulesTHOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionMon Apr 07 1997 19:0416
    So, do we want to run this conference by the book or don't we?

    In the web page on Digital policy that Mike so kindly pointed
    out it includes the following line of things not acceptable
    over Digital's network:
    
>Promoting discrimination, disrespect for an individual, or 
>making personal attacks 

    By saying someone doesn't belong here due to their beliefs,
    someone is violating this rule.
    
    It doesn't matter if the victum does or doesn't mind.  It still
    isn't allowed.

    Tom
9.2061CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessMon Apr 07 1997 19:108
    What gets me is that the ones most likely to do this think they're
    somehow helping or enlightening us by culling the sheep from the
    goats.
    
    The way I see it, there's room for both and more.
    
    Richard
    
9.2062APACHE::MYERSMon Apr 07 1997 19:2122
    
    Re 1341.95

    Jeff,

    You have been misled and I pray for those how have done so. Roman
    Catholics do not believe that "one's redemption is directly tied to
    one's participation in the seven sacraments of the RC church." We
    believe that it is only through faith and by the grace of God that any
    one is saved. This has been mentioned numerous times before, and it
    troubles me that you persist in spreading this venom. 

    There are many things with which one may take exception to in the
    Catholic church. We Catholics do it all the time. But to resort to
    centuries old misinformation and bigotry merely casts that detractor
    not as a reformer, but in the light of a mad-man shaking his fist and
    demanding that up is down and down is up. 

    Peace be with you,

    Eric

9.2063PHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Mon Apr 07 1997 19:549
|    In the web page on Digital policy that Mike so kindly pointed
|    out it includes the following line of things not acceptable
|    over Digital's network:
|    
|>Promoting discrimination, disrespect for an individual, or 
|>making personal attacks 
    
    ...but Tom, you still had a good ole time at my expense last week,
    making light of the situation in several replies.
9.2064PHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Mon Apr 07 1997 19:5612
|    You have been misled and I pray for those how have done so. Roman
|    Catholics do not believe that "one's redemption is directly tied to
|    one's participation in the seven sacraments of the RC church." We
|    believe that it is only through faith and by the grace of God that any
|    one is saved. This has been mentioned numerous times before, and it
|    troubles me that you persist in spreading this venom. 
    
    Eric, didn't Vatican I & II condemn anyone that believes in salvation by
    grace through faith in God *alone*?  If true, this pretty much excludes
    all Protestants/Evangelicals from salvation in the RCC view.
    
    Mike
9.2065LGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 381-0426 ZKO1-1)Mon Apr 07 1997 20:284
        Please take any discussion of "what Catholics believe" to a
        more appropriate note.

        Bob (as mod)
9.2066BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Apr 07 1997 21:138
| <<< Note 9.2063 by PHXSS1::HEISER "Maranatha!" >>>


| ...but Tom, you still had a good ole time at my expense last week,
| making light of the situation in several replies.

	Are you the pot, or the kettle, Mike. Oh wait, when you do it the
tables are turned as you are doing it, "in God's love". 
9.2067PHXSS1::HEISERMaranatha!Wed Apr 09 1997 16:012
    SET NOTE /NOTE_ID= 
    works much better for notes moved by a moderator.
9.2068THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionWed Apr 09 1997 16:327
    Thanks!

    I don't know if my DOS based notes reader can do that.

    I'll try it if I get another chance.

    Tom
9.2069CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessThu Apr 17 1997 01:449
531.158
    
>    Jack does need to work on his delivery when addressing those of
>    different ideologies, though.  8^)

Are you listening, Jack?

Richard

9.2070ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsThu Apr 17 1997 14:0613
    Why would I do that?!
    
    Haven't you all figured out the intent by now?  I may be one of the
    more disliked individuals in the notes conferences...but one little
    condescending inuendo in a discussion spawns a series of at least 50
    replies at times.  Hundreds in many cases over in the other file.  
    
    Good omlettes require the breaking of eggs and the making of a pearl
    requires irritation.  But in the interest of understanding others
    better, dialog must take place.  Therefore, it has been a pleasure to
    become the sacrificial lamb and dress up in the clown outfit.
    
    -Jack
9.2071gored or not....THOLIN::TBAKERFlawed To PerfectionThu Apr 17 1997 14:251
    Sometimes it's more like a bull in a china shop.
9.2072ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsThu Apr 17 1997 16:161
    Yeah but that's for effect Tom.
9.2073BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Thu Apr 17 1997 16:475

	Jack, you once told me before sometimes you note to make others respond
by flying off the handle. I will have to admit you are quite good at it. But
maybe a little bit too convincing. 
9.2074ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyThu Apr 17 1997 18:181
    Personally, I've always enjoyed Jack's "take no prisoners" approach. 
9.2075ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsThu Apr 17 1997 22:2213
    There were times when I went home thinking I would be barred from
    noting again...perhaps even fired!  But my instincts proved me
    correct...that being anyone who notes is in there for a reason...and
    has the fortitude and integrity to transcend perceived insults..which
    weren't really meant as insults but was pretty sure it wouldn't be
    received too well.
    
    It's risk...because you can either come out of it having made valid
    points or with mud in your face...to which both happened frequently!
    I still feel it was worth it because I got to know people alot more
    intimately!
    
    -Jack
9.2076CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 18 1997 00:498
    Jack,
    
    	I've been called a fire-starter, myself.  But I like to think that
    with time I've learned to stimulate rather than to stab at, and to provoke
    rather than to, well, piss off.
    
    Richard
    
9.2077ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Apr 18 1997 13:136
    Well, don't worry Richard...you still piss people off!! :-)
    
    Seriously though, I wouldn't say I've been that abrasive in the last
    half a year!
    
    -Jack
9.2078BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Fri Apr 18 1997 14:138
| <<< Note 9.2075 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>

| It's risk...because you can either come out of it having made valid
| points or with mud in your face...to which both happened frequently!

	When did you ever make a valid point? :-)


9.2079BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Fri Apr 18 1997 14:143

	Richard... you were upset about me using butt? :-)
9.2080ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Apr 18 1997 14:232
    You're jealous Glen, because I've made more valid points than you
    have!! :+)
9.2081CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 18 1997 15:0414
.2079

>	Richard... you were upset about me using butt? :-)

It ain't what ya say, it's the way that you say it.

"Baby's butt, rifle butt, cigarette butt, Beavis & Butthead..."

"You're talking out your butt..."

Hear the difference?

Richard

9.2082CSC32::J_CHRISTIESpigot of pithinessFri Apr 18 1997 16:1510
    .2079
    
    Incidentally, Glen, I was speaking to you at the time as a fellow
    participant and not as a moderator.
    
    It's mostly that I know you are capable of better that I bring
    such things to your attention.
    
    Richard
    
9.2083BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Fri Apr 18 1997 17:167
| <<< Note 9.2081 by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE "Spigot of pithiness" >>>

| Hear the difference?

	except I was comparing it to you pissing people off. The wording you
used was wording that I never expected from ya.

9.2084ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Apr 18 1997 17:394
    Yeah but Glen, you could care less anyway so forget about the
    titfortat!  
    
    -Jack