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Conference lgp30::christian-perspective

Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
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Moderator:CSC32::J_CHRISTIE
Created:Mon Sep 17 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1362
Total number of notes:61362

920.0. "Are we bad people who sometimes do good things?" by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (Heat-seeking Pacifist) Wed May 18 1994 14:55

    ...Or are we good people who sometimes do bad things??
    
    What do you think?
    
    Richard
    
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920.1the short answerTFH::KIRKa simple songWed May 18 1994 15:038
re: Note 920.0 by Richard "Heat-seeking Pacifist" 

My perspective is that we are essentially good people, made in God's own 
image, who have fallen.

Peace,

Jim
920.2an even shorter answer ;-)SOLVIT::HAECKDebby HaeckWed May 18 1994 15:437
    yes
    
    Well.... not that short :-)

    I think that I am both good and bad.  And my acts are both good and
    bad.  And sometimes my good intentions result in bad acts.  And
    sometimes my bad intentions result in good acts.
920.3AIMHI::JMARTINWed May 18 1994 16:1619
    Very good question.  It reminded me of Jesus' response to the
    pharisees...
    
    "Good teacher, we know that you havee come from God...
    Jesus answer, Why do you call me good?  There is none good except God
    in Heaven."  
    
    I believe Jesus was saying, (to paraphrase)  Hey guys, if you don't
    believe who I claim to be, then why are you calling me good since only
    God is good.
    
    I hate to always be the negative guy here but here goes.  Jeremiah
    writes that the heart of man is desparately wicked, above all else.
    I believe to one another, good is subjective.  We are generally good to
    one another, for the most part.  I do believe however that God sees us
    differently.  Although loved deeply, we are separated by our
    wickedness.  
    
    -Jack
920.4All have sinnedMARLIN::KLIMOWICZWed May 18 1994 17:1336
 ROM 3:23	for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.
     
     5:12	Therefore, just as sin entered the world through on man,
		and death through sin, and in this way death came to all
		men, because all sinned

 ISAI 64:6	All of us have become like one who is unclean, and all
		our righteous acts are like filthy rags;

 ROM 7:18	I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my
		sinful nature.

 The Bible tells us that we all fall short of God's expectations of "Good".

 We can do nothing on our own to please God! 

 Our only hope to stand "clean" before God, is if we accept the invitation
 of Jesus TO STAND IN OUR PLACE BEFORE GOD. Only through the blood of the
 Lamb are we washed clean, and have the hope of spending eternety with
 Him.

 His invitation still stands:

 REV 3:19	Those whom I love I rebuke and discipline. So be
		earnest, and repent.
      :20	HERE I AM! I stand at the door and knock. If
		anyone opens the door, I will come in and eat
		with him, and he with me,
      :21       To him who overcomes, I will give the right to
		sit on my throne, just as I overcame and sat
		down with my Father on his throne..
    
     Oleg
 
    
920.5JUPITR::HILDEBRANTI'm the NRAWed May 18 1994 17:286
    When questions like the basenote come up, I'm always reminded of
    the story "Lord of the Flies".
    
    Mankind is by nature evil.
    
    Marc H.
920.6JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed May 18 1994 17:4890
    This topic cuts close to emotionally related issues in our individual
    lives which can be summed in one phrase, self esteem.
    
    The message below is an extract from a previous conversation regarding
    self-esteem, which I believes lies in the value God has for us.  And
    the value God has for us is beyond our instruments of human measure or
    reason.  God sent Jesus to die for us... he valued us that much.
    

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When our lives have been thrown out of balance by sin/shame everything changes 
and that which appears lucid becomes tainted, like looking through a dirty 
window.  What you see behind, is still the *same* thing, but the view is dirty 
from the stains on the window.

I see shame producing different results, as it affects our self image and 
ability to have a loving relationship with Christ:

1. shame - guilt - humility - salvation
2. shame - guilt - humility/humiliation - salvation
3. shame - guilt - humiliation - lost

Shame leads to guilt, and that guilt can lead to humility and eventually to 
salvation.  For others, the shame leads to guilt, humiliation and a sense of 
being completely and unreachably lost.

While I agree with you wholeheartedly that Christ needs to be the center of our 
lives, I propose to you that the process in getting there (based on childhood 
experiences), can be a long, difficult haul for the child that suffers from 
humiliation.

Our self image or mirror comes from:

    Parents / Authorities

In the Old Testament, God ordained by the law that if a man is caught 
breaking a law that the sons would bear the humiliation for generations and 
oftimes the consequences. (Cain banished and his people would be marked.)
Exodus 34:6-7

Children mirror their image in their parents.  If a parent is neglectful, 
unstable, deceitful, physically or sexually abusing, then the child has the 
"God-given shame" to know that is wrong, but the wounded child takes the 
parent's shame or sin and applies it to themselves.  When one of these 
children (it could be an adult who comes from this environment) accepts 
Christ as Savior, their salvation spawns hope beyond measure.  

The disconnect is that they are still carrying the sin/attitude of the 
parents.  Yes, God forgave them of their sin, and that is a miracle on its 
own merit.  But the wounded child cannot be forgiven for their father's 
(lineage) sins.  So once again that image can be tainted by sin (that which 
is not their own).

However, if salvation occurs while the child is still under the direct 
influence of their parents, who are abusive or dysfunctional, the child can 
grow into an adult who rarely has victory in their Christian walk.  They will 
become active in the church for a while, then temptation comes and due to the 
shame of their inability to overcome their father's sin, they abandon 
Christianity.  But, like a see-saw the desire to "do right" will bring them 
back and forth through churches, temporarily serving God, but never 
victorious for consistent Christian service.  

The condemnation of their self image creates an aura of "I'm not good enough 
to serve God."  Negative self criticisms like, "I don't deserve a place of 
service for God" or "I'll never be enough for God" mirrors and the image 
becomes distorted as to how God views his children.

Granted *we* never are enough.  But there comes a point in ones life when 
acceptance of *never* being enough is balanced by the grace and mercy of our 
Lord Jesus Christ, and not the knot deep within the pit of our stomachs that 
reeks havoc in the heart.  (Romans 7 & 8)

With this in mind, Sandy, can you really assert that a person's self image is 
not important to the very vitality of Christianity?

Nancy




    
    
    
920.7old problemDNEAST::DALELIO_HENRWed May 18 1994 18:226
 Isn't this what got us in all this trouble in the first place  :-(  .

 "ye shall be as gods, knowing good and evil"

  Hank
920.8YesPACKED::COLLIS::JACKSONLive freed or live a slave to sinWed May 18 1994 18:321
bad = sinful (i.e. tendency to sin)
920.9The Love of GodMARLIN::KLIMOWICZWed May 18 1994 20:5751
    
 The Love of God...

 PSALM 103	Praise the Lord, o my soul; all my inmost being, praise
		his holy name.
		Praise the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his
		benefits
		who forgives all your sins and heals all your deseases,
		who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with
		love and compassion,
		who satisfies your desires with good things so that your
		youth is renewed like the eagle's
		The Lord works righteousness and justice for all the
		oppressed.
		He made known his ways to Moses, his deeds to the people 
		Israel:
 		The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger,
		abounding in love.
	        He will not always accuse, nor will he harbor his anger
		forever;

		HE DOES NOT TREAT US AS OUR SINS DESERVE OR REPAY US
		ACCORDING TO OUR INIQUITIES.
		FOR AS HIGH AS THE HEAVENS ARE ABOVE THE EARTH, SO GREAT
		IS HIS LOVE FOR THOSE WHO FEAR HIM;
		AS FAR AS THE EAST IS FROM THE WEST, SO FAR HAS HE
		REMOVED OUR TRANSGRESSIONS FROM US.

		As a father has compassion on his children, so the Lord
		has compassion on those who fear him;
		for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we
		are dust.
		As for man, his days are like grass, he flourishes like
		a flower of the field;
		the wind blows over it and it is gone, and its place 
		remembers it no more.
		But from everlasting to everlasting the Lord's love is
		with those who fear him, and his righteousness with
		their children's children
		with those who keep his covenant and remember to obey
		his precepts.
		The Lord has established his throne in heaven, and his
		kingdom rules over all.
		Praise the Lord, you his angels, you mighty ones who
		do his bidding, who obey his word.
		Praise the Lord, all his heavenly hosts, you his servants
		who do his will.
		Praise the Lord, all his works everywhere in his dominion.
		Praise the Lord, O my soul.
		
    
920.10My ThoughtsLUDWIG::BARBIERIFri May 20 1994 16:0122
      Hi,
    
        Outside of the grace of God, our minds cannot help but
        serve self.  The old man is in us and our mind will serve
        him unless there is a new motivation.  That motivation is
        the love of Christ.  When we surrender to this new motivation,
        the old man (love of self) is crucified.  Of course, the experience
        of serving our new Master is gradual.
    
        If we are 'good' people who sometimes do bad things, it would
        follow that we intrinsically have righteoussness.  And thus, we
        could be righteouss (at least in part) all on our own.  But, we
        can only be righteouss by faith; by allowing God to shed abroad
        in our hearts His righteoussness.
    
        To summarize: outside of the grace of God, we are evil to the
        core.  When we beging submitting to a new motivation, our
        affections are split until (unless) perfection results.  However,
        during this 'split' time, God accounts us righteouss because He
        knows that what He started, He can finish.
    
                                                      Tony
920.11HYLNDR::TRUMPLERHelp prevent truth decay.Fri May 20 1994 18:066
    I think both kinds of people exist.  I also think there are people who
    don't do any good things.
    
    I don't think anyone exists who does no bad things.
    
    Mark