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Conference rdvax::grateful

Title:Take my advice, you'd be better off DEAD
Notice:It's just a Box of Rain
Moderator:RDVAX::LEVY::DEBESS
Created:Thu Jan 03 1991
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:580
Total number of notes:60238

463.0. "Eric Fields" by WILLEE::OSTIGUY () Fri Jun 23 1995 12:03

Folks, I have the privilige of announcing yesterday's arrival to the world of

Eric William Fields, Son of Chris & Jen !!!
6/22/95  4:30am  7lb. 6oz. 20 inches long...Mom and Eric doing fine, I haven't
heard about Chris !!!

Jen, Chris and Eric hopefully will all be going home today... Eric is named
after Mr. Eric Clapton (Surprise :)  )  and is reported to have long fingers,
so maybe a Stratocaster is in his future !!!

Congratulations from Wes & Karen O !!!
    
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463.1ALFA1::DWESTbut i play one on tv...Fri Jun 23 1995 13:201
    and from da ve too... :^)
463.2 :^) USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Jun 23 1995 13:325
    
    Big congrats to the Fields!!!!!!  Grate News indeed 
    
    	Mark
    
463.3SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Order WivesFri Jun 23 1995 13:3510
4:30am... Ahhh, a fellow morning child! :-)


Conga Rats to the three Fields!!  

:-)


- jeff
463.4ALFA1::DWESTbut i play one on tv...Fri Jun 23 1995 15:122
    actually, conga-rats to the 4 Fields... :^)  we can't forget
    big sister Julie... :^) :^) :^)
463.5ROCK::FROMMThis space intentionally left blank.Fri Jun 23 1995 15:366
>4:30am... Ahhh, a fellow morning child! :-)

aren't most babies born in the middle of the night?  i think i was born around
4-something AM.

- rich
463.6USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Jun 23 1995 15:475
    
    I am not sure about being born, but I'd say many are conceived in the
    middle of the night,  after the bars close
    
    	
463.7but then again, it's always the middle of the night SOMEPLACE...SMURF::PETERTrigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertaintyFri Jun 23 1995 15:556
    Congrats to the Fields.  
    
    As for the middle of the night stuff, my children do not support
    that statistic.   ;-)
    
    PeterT
463.8USOPS::MNELSONInspiration, move me BrightlyFri Jun 23 1995 16:365
    
    Same here with my kids,  Lindsey was born at 5:41 p.m., Daniel was
    born at 6:03 p.m.
    
    Mark 
463.9CXDOCS::BARNESFri Jun 23 1995 17:113
    congratulations all! happy birthday Eric!
    
    rfb
463.10SMURF::HAPGOODJava Java HEY!Fri Jun 23 1995 18:065
Wow,  Congrats to Chris, Jen and Julie.

Fantastic!
bob

463.11NETCAD::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedFri Jun 23 1995 18:184
Eric is God!
Eric is God!

congratulations Mr and Mrs. Fields! :-)
463.12BIGQ::DCLARKlet your soul shineFri Jun 23 1995 18:232
    congrats! It's also my son Jimmy's birthday (we call him
    purplefinger instead of slowhand) :-)
463.13MROA::MCONNORSMon Jun 26 1995 11:186
    
    congrats to the Field's!  :-)  Happy news!  
    
    :-)
    
    MJ
463.14Yippeeeee!CSLALL::LEBLANC_CPlease don't dominate the rapJACKMon Jun 26 1995 13:272
    Wonderful news to hear first thing on a monday
    COOL!
463.15BINKLY::DEMARSEEnjoy beingMon Jun 26 1995 13:451
    AWESOME!!!!  :-)  :-)  :-)
463.16DELNI::DSMITHWe've got mountains to climbMon Jun 26 1995 14:125
    
    Awesome!!!
    
    I thought fer ser we would have heard something before Highgate...
    leave it to Sparky to wait for the Summer Solstice  :-)
463.17apologies to the big sis!SUBPAC::MAGGARDMail Order WivesTue Jun 27 1995 15:2911
>     actually, conga-rats to the 4 Fields... :^)  we can't forget
>     big sister Julie... :^) :^) :^)

Yipes!  <smack!>  

How could I forget!!! 

%-)


- jeff
463.18STOWOA::JOLLIMOREBack from the DeadTue Jun 27 1995 15:516
	Eric 'Slohand' Fields.  kinda rings, don't it?  ;-)
	
	BIG congrats!!
	
	:-)
	
463.19STAR::HUGHESCaptain SlogThu Jun 29 1995 17:224
    Big congrats to the Fields family. Another member of Future Deadheads
    of America...
    
    gary
463.20WILLEE::OSTIGUYMon Jul 10 1995 14:2297
    posted per Eric's Daddy...
    
From:	US4RMC::"fields@slohan.shr.qntm.d5net.qntm.com" "Ain't gonna worry my life anymore" 10-JUL-1995 10:00:50.49
To:	"ostiguy@willee.enet.dec.com"@shrdns.enet.qntm.com
CC:	FIELDS@shrdns.tdh.qntm.com
Subj:	WES CAN YOU POST THIS IN THE ERIC NOTE OF GRATEFUL

	Eric William Fields	June 22, 1995

	As I look at my beautiful son, Eric William, I realize just how
	fortunate I am to be a mother. Children are miraculous, and ours
	is no exception. Reflecting on the 14 hours prior to his birth,
	I feel an even greater closeness to Eric and to his wonderful
	father.

	Chris and I had gone into my regular checkup on Wednesday 6/21
	@2:30PM. The mid-wife could not be certain if the baby was in the
	head-down position and called in an OB/Gyn doctor to check. He 
	could not be certain either. Since I was 39 1/2 weeks and had been
	4+cm dialated for over 3 weeks they requested an ultrasound to
	verify the baby's position. Off to St. Vincent's we went...but
	not before stopping by the house, feed Navajo Kitty and grabbing
	my bag (instinct is truly amazing!).

	By the time we got to St. Vincent's, were checked in and brought
	to a labor room it was @4:00PM. They hooked me up to the monitors
	and to our surprise I was having contractions @4-5 minutes apart !
	(And I still couldn't really feel them.)

	The OB/Gyn doctor on duty that afternoon was Dr. McNicholas. She
	came in and checked the baby. Definitely breech. Rear-end down.
	At this point I was still in a state of disbelief... as though
	it weren't happening to me.

	Our first course of action would be to try and turn the baby. I
	was given a shot to relax my uterus (which has the not-so-wonderful
	side effect of uncontrollable shaking), and the attempt was made.
	No luck.

	Reality set in when Dr. McNicholas gave us our options. If the baby
	was small enough (a weight would be determined via ultrasound) we
	could try labor. If anything started going wrong or labor stalled 
	I would be given a cesarean. Or, we could "go home", have a nice
	dinner, a good nights sleep and return in the morning for a cesarean.
	Either way I knew I wouldn't be getting much, if any, sleep. I also
	knew that it was rare to even be given an option. Most doctors 
	nowadays will not deliver a breech baby - they will automatically
	give a C-section. Because I had been born breech I knew it was
	possible - my Mom did it and I had to try.

	The ultrasound showed the baby to be @7 1/2 lbs. give or take a
	half pound. Pitocin was started to regulate my contractions and
	keep them going. We were on our way.

	By 10:00PM I was 5cm dialated and feeling the contractions. I knew 
	they were going to give me an Epidural sometime before delivery...
	standard with breech births to relax the muscles as much as possible
	and in case forceps would be required during delivery of the head.

	Around 11:00PM I gave into severe back labor and requested the 
	epidural. They were quick to oblige as I was too weak to try alternate
	positions and too emotionally drained to care.

	1:00AM 6/22 still only 5cm dialated, no progress. This is when the
	threat of a C-section really hit me. I cried on Chris' shoulder for 
	around a half an hour before facing reality. If a C-section was the
	way my baby was to enter the world, that's the way it was to be.

	3:30AM 9 3/4cm ! No wonder I could feel the contractions ! 
	Dr. McNicholas, bless her soul, had been delivering all night. She
	wanted one hours sleep before breaking my water and starting the 
	pushing. Chris and I dozed until 4:10AM when my water broke so 
	loudly it woke him.

	In a matter of 5 minutes the nurses had cleaned me up and started
	me pushing. 4:30AM they wheeled the bed into Delivery. There were
	approximately 15 doctors/nurses standing by and observing. A breech
	delivery was so rare all that could attend were in attendance.

	4:38AM. The most amazing surge of adrenaline and emotions as Eric
	William makes his entrance into the world to a standing ovation
	from all in the room. No forceps, only a very large episiotomy 
	required. As Chris and I cried, hugged and then I held Eric for
	the first time it all blurred away. I lost sight of all who were
	in the room....it was just the three of us and for an instant,
	nothing else existed.

	It is true what they say - it is worth it, all of it. When Eric
	looks up at me with those loving, curious eyes I know I'd do it
	all again for him. I have yet to decide the best day of my life
	so far - the day Chris and I were married or the day I had his son.
	I do know I'm terribly lucky to have two such wonderful men in
	my life !

		Jennifer Fields


463.21CXDOCS::BARNESMon Jul 10 1995 15:004
    sniff, sniff.....wonderful, simply wonderful....i need a cup of coffee
    and to go wipe my eyes.....
    
    rfb
463.22ALFA2::DWESTparagon of avian virtue...Mon Jul 10 1995 15:061
    awwwwwwwww.... :^)
463.23AWATS::WESTERVELTi feel good about hoodMon Jul 10 1995 16:065
    shucks!  :-)
    That's a note to cut out and save to show Eric someday...

    Tom
463.24ASDG::IDEMy mind's lost in a household fog.Mon Jul 10 1995 16:525
Obviously the epidural hasn't worn off yet.  :-)

Congratulations to all.

Jamie
463.25AWECIM::HANNANBeyond description...Mon Jul 10 1995 17:133
	Great story!   I wonder if that's what my mom went through...

	/Ken, breech-born too ;-)
463.26Conratulations to the Fields'sFABSIX::T_BEAULIEUHappiness is a warm gunMon Jul 10 1995 22:096
	That was a beautiful note!!!

	It makes you realize (Childbirth) just how precious Life is.

	Toby_typing_with_tears_in_my_eyes
463.27ZENDIA::FERGUSONSplit open and Melt!Wed Jul 19 1995 19:533
congrats mon!

JC_400+_behind!