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Conference rdvax::grateful

Title:Take my advice, you'd be better off DEAD
Notice:It's just a Box of Rain
Moderator:RDVAX::LEVY::DEBESS
Created:Thu Jan 03 1991
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:580
Total number of notes:60238

329.0. "Gearing up for that big change!" by LJOHUB::RILEY (Namer of chaotic individuals everywhere!) Fri Dec 18 1992 17:29

    
    
    
    Rock a bye baby on the treetop
    
    When the wind blows, the cradle will rock
    
    When the bough breaks the baby will fall,
    
    and down will come cradle, baby and all.
    
    
    
    
    I'm going to be a Dad !   :^)
    
    
    Treemon
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329.1:-)STUDIO::IDECan't this wait 'til I'm old?Fri Dec 18 1992 17:326
    I'm very happy for you, but at the same time I fear for your wife!  How
    big a baby were you, Tree?  :-)  Splinters . . . yeeOUCH!
    
    Congratulations on your growing family tree!
    
    Jamie
329.2And you didn't tell me earlier!LJOHUB::GILMOREShame on the MoonFri Dec 18 1992 17:3412
    AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRRRGHHHHHHHHHHHHH~
    
    (that was a happy one!)
    
    
    No %^#^%@^&%# WAY!  That is TOO cool TREE!
    
    
    YAYAYAYA!
    
    
    :)sparky
329.3LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Fri Dec 18 1992 17:4114
    
    
    re .1
    
    Thanks Jamie!  Ah, she'll be alright...  I was only a mere sapling at 
    8 lbs 4 oz.  Though I must say, she is a bit nervous  :^)
    
    re .2
    
    Sparky, I love you, but I know you well enough to know this news woulda
    been plastered all over GRATEFUL a bit earlier than expected if I told
    you!!  ;^)
    
    Tree
329.4TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonFri Dec 18 1992 17:426
    
    What great news!  Congrats Tree, and please pass on a congrats to Stacy
    too!  :-)
    
    Phyllis
    
329.5ah a little SaplingSLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithFri Dec 18 1992 17:447
    Hey I didn't tell anyone !!!! Congrats again Tree !!!! almost blew it
    the other day when we called you on Saturday though but I bit my tonge
    rilly hard...:')
    
    Chris
    
    
329.6!JURAN::DCLARKcherish well your thoughtsFri Dec 18 1992 17:502
    yow! time to re-prioritize the old priorities! have fun, your
    life will never be the same again!
329.7:-)ISLNDS::CONNORS_MFri Dec 18 1992 18:206
    	
    	C O N G R A T U L A T I O N S ! ! ! ! ! !
    
    	ALL THE BEST TO YOU AND TREEWIFE!!!
    
    	MJ
329.8A BIG Congratulations!!!!DRINKS::WEISSThree French Toast, Two Turtle Necks, and a Beer.Fri Dec 18 1992 18:257
Way to go, Treemon!!!!!  (or is that Treedad) :-)

Give my congrats to Stacy!!!!

Dave

(Who's smilin' now!) 
329.9wowCIVIC::ROBERTSa blinding flash o'the obviousFri Dec 18 1992 18:268
    
    Congratulations, Tree & Stace...grate news indeed :-)  :-)
    
    Carol_who_is_pysched_for_our_postxmas_trip_to_MI_and_CA_to_see_our
    collective_grandchildren.  I have 3 and John has 1.
    Definition of 'grandchild' = what you get from a child. 
    
    c :-}
329.10Can't wait :-)NECSC::LEVYIt takes alot to win...even more to loseFri Dec 18 1992 18:285
Oh boy...can't wait to tell the little sapling all those nice camel jokes
you shared with us at DECUS. :-)

	~y'know

329.11VMPIRE::CLARKthe Gong ShowFri Dec 18 1992 18:293
Congrats!  :^)

- DC
329.12SCOONR::GLADUFri Dec 18 1992 18:463
    Hmmm, I think I'll head there after work today. :-)
    
    ger
329.13If its a girl, gonna call her sproutina?CSCMA::M_PECKARPray for snowFri Dec 18 1992 18:4756
That's Sprout-a-rific, tree-mon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

One Thing To Try  by Robert Hunter


Break out your bottle, be in trouble by noon
Never get satisfaction cause ya boil too soon
Them downtown chippies know your weight to the ounce
But the harder you fall, Jack, the higher you bounce!

Stoke up your get, be ready to ride
Keep your head and your heart inside
Take it as far as you wanna go
Until we can't see the desert for the burning snow

But if you're in a hurry, I really got to go,
If you're in a hurry, might have to find out slow
That it's one thing to try, another to fly,
You get there quicker just a step at a time,
It's one thing to bark and another to bite,
The show ain't over til ya pack up at night.

Ah well, ninety-nine people all running around
Not one in a hundred got his feet on the ground,
In fact one in a thousand holding some in reserve
For when the real, true action comes around the curve.

Take care of your people,  get some of them fed
Hide the ones in trouble out under your bed
Keep an eye to the future, an ear to the past
Cause after thinkin' it over, know there's nothing much lasts.

So if you're in a hurry, I really go to go,
If you're in a hurry, might have to find out slow
That it's one thing to try, another to fly,
You get there quicker just a step at a time,
It's one thing to bark quite another to bite,
Ain't none of it over til ya pack up at night.

Don't ever let it get the best of you
Plan what you can, let the rest shine through
Just so many angles you can possibly see
Got to figure on those let the other ones be

Don't be a collector of more than you need
Got a lotta things growing but keep watching your seeds
Got to SPROUT in December what you planted in May
If the harvest is empty, find some other good way

But if you're in a hurry, I really go to go,
If you're in a hurry, might have to find out slow
That it's one thing to try, another to fly,
You get there quicker just a step at a time,
It's one thing to bark quite another to bite,
And none of it's over til ya pack up at night.

329.14Yea!!!SALES::GKELLERyrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2ndFri Dec 18 1992 18:5611
Congratulations:-)...

This is the obligitory note from someone who has known and congratulated 
you in person but figures he should dhow his face in the file when 
something like this happens:-)

Peace,

Geoff

P.S. It's about time you let GRATEFUL know...
329.15:):):):)BINKLY::DEMARSEWalk me out in the morning dewFri Dec 18 1992 19:224
    Congrats !!!!
    
    ;'), danielle
    
329.16"we demand, a SHRUBBERY!" :^)ROULET::DWESTif wishes were horses...Fri Dec 18 1992 19:315
    
    congrats dude!  (i didn't tell anyone either!  well, i told Ed, 
    does that count?  :^)....
    
    					da ve
329.17NAC::TRAMP::GRADYShort arms, and deep pockets...Fri Dec 18 1992 23:2211

	No words can shine their beam so bright
	No songs of passionate lovers' night
	Nothing lights the heart so true
	When one is born of the love of two
	

	I'm very happy for you both.

	tim
329.18LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Mon Dec 21 1992 12:2037
    
    
    Wow!  What a great way to come in on a Monday morning!  Thanks for the
    good wishes everyone, and thanks for posting some appropo lyrics Fog
    and Tim.  I'll be sure to extract these replies and bring them home to
    Stace.  
    
    This'll be yet another of those life experiences that you hear a lot
    about in anticipation of doing it yourself, but until you actually do
    it, there's no way to abstract meaning of any relevant significance
    from the words of others.  
    
    It's interesting, even though it's early, my mind has already deeply
    tread through some of the untouched space that sits in the corner of
    the mind awaiting one's child bearing experience...  The first thing
    I've pondered:  
    
    Most of the things one "does" in life, they have full control over. 
    This is not the case in having a child.  The creation of life is
    something that I can affect, but when it comes down to it, I have to
    accept what will be...  I can start to see why people fundamentally
    change (not just in their routines) when having children.
    
    Life is a pattern...  cycles, birth to death, death feeding birth and
    on and on.  In this universal pattern, the human being is nothing more
    than a blip of infinitescimal probability (I don't really want to
    address the religious aspect of our existence, just the fact that we
    do exist), and within that blip, you and I are happenstance creations,
    beings that grew from our parent's togetherness (or lack thereof).
    
    Now, I have made an effort to make this pattern continue THROUGH me,
    with good fortune, the fractal geometry of life itself does not stop
    here!
    
    Thanks for indulging me...
    
    Ramblin'_Tree
329.19another tree!!!:^)SALEM::BURNSworld peace begins at home :^)Mon Dec 21 1992 12:263
    !!!!Grate!!!!News!!!!Treemon!!!!Congratulations!!!!
    
    Andy
329.20MRNGDU::YETTOthe future is hereMon Dec 21 1992 12:306
Tree, that's wonderful news!!  Congratulations to both you and Stacy!!  You
guys will make great parents I just know it.

:-)

329.21SLOHAN::FIELDSand we'd go Running On FaithMon Dec 21 1992 12:3620
    >This'll be yet another of those life experiences that you hear a lot
    
    this is so true Tree...when you think your not ready for a kid to
    become part of your life, think back to your 1st day of school (1st
    grade) that was a big change in your life and you got through it
    alright or so it seems :')....I can only say this "Hell if I can do it
    anyone can !" thats about the only advice I can give to a soon to be
    Daddy....its very cool watching the kid grow learn and understand new
    things....and what is most cool is how much you will grow learn and
    understand new things too :')
    
    take what everyone tells you about babies and all the fun stuff that
    comes with having one living in your house and forget it ! kids don't
    come with a manual.....you have had it all along, its your heart...it
    will tell you how to raise the little one.....
    
    
    peace
    
    Chris
329.22CSLALL::HENDERSONgohangasalamiimalasagnahogMon Dec 21 1992 12:4312


 Congrats Tree and Treewife :-)







 Jum
329.23Are you having a "Shrubbery"?MR4DEC::JHINEEstimated ProphetMon Dec 21 1992 12:4511
    Big, Big, Big, Big Congrats to you and your wife!!!!!!!
    
    :-))))) Lots of smiles and Joy!!!
    
    
    PS:  Its kind of strange hearing this since mostly what I know of you
    is your legendary frisbee golf prowess.
    
    Good Luck,
    Jeff
                   
329.24Some are allergic, some aren'tXCUSME::MACINTYREMon Dec 21 1992 12:556
    That explains the extra high pollen count this year.  Way to go
    TreeFather.  That's great news.
    
    
    Marv
    
329.25ZENDIA::FERGUSONA blues guitar echoes in my mindMon Dec 21 1992 12:5523
Congratulations Treeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeemon and Stacy!!!!!!!!!!!



Not sure if I wrote this in here (i seem to recall writing it to someone), but
treemon and I were at our "new" group meeting when he told me.  The mtg was
just sorta stahtin', when he told me and I freaked out!!!!!!!!!!

later, The Treeemon apologized for springing the news on me at the mtg!  I said
no problem mon, things like that are much more important then a work mtg!!!




congrats again mon.

btw, when is the expected due date?  Sounds like it could be close to my bday,
depending on how long ya "held" out on us!  :-)

/jc :-)   

btw: i told deb and she also wishes you and Stacy much congratulations!!!!!!

329.26AWECIM::RUSSOclaimin!Mon Dec 21 1992 13:134
    
    Congratulations Treemon!!!! :^)
    
    Hogan
329.27remember, beat those skins! Not your kids! :-)SMURF::PETERTMon Dec 21 1992 15:1914
    Congratulations Treemon.  Things will never be the same ;-)  So when is
    the little sapling due?  JC (? I think) asking a few notes back 
    reminded me that we didn't tell our family (or was it just my family :)
    about our 2nd one until about 1/2 way through the pregnancy.  It 
    started out that we just didn't want to draw any attention away from 
    our sister-in-law who was expecting her first, and then we just fell
    into the habit of not telling.  I think we sprung it on my folks 
    a bit earlier, but the rest of brothers (4 and no sisters, my 
    folks kept trying to no avail ;-) found out at bro #2's surprise
    40th birthday party.  Surprise, and  surprise!
    
    Best of Luck,
    PeterT
    
329.28way to go, Johnny Appleseed!!!!!!!!SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Mon Dec 21 1992 16:247
Congrats Treemon!!!!!! That's the best news I've heard in toooooo long a 
time. Being a parent is great.

So, when is Arbor Day, anyway? ;-)

jeff

329.29EZRIDR::SIEGELThe revolution wil not be televisedMon Dec 21 1992 16:345
Another sprout in the forest!

Congratulations!

adam
329.30CXDOCS::BARNESMon Dec 21 1992 16:423
    congrats from Colo....
    
    rfb
329.31LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Mon Dec 21 1992 16:595
    
    
    Thanks again, all ya'll for the good words.  The due date is July 10th.
    
    TreeDIT
329.32I just couldn't keep from barking!SUBPAC::MAGGARDI am the Rhombus!Mon Dec 21 1992 18:1111
A chip off the old bl- er, stump!



Cheers to you and the TreeFamily...!!!




- jeff
329.33Congrat's from someone who *knows* :^)ROADKL::INGALLScastles made of sandMon Dec 21 1992 19:359
Hey  Congrat's Tree!!!  

Believe me when I say I *KNOW* how you feel!!! 


Glenn_with an unexpected, yet GRATE surprise on the way and soon to be 
	married too :^) 

329.34LJOHUB::RILEYNamer of chaotic individuals everywhere!Mon Dec 21 1992 20:0610
    
    
    Wow Glenn!  Did you already put that in here somewhere?  I musta missed
    it!
    
    CONGRATS!  It'll be good to compare notes (so to speak)... 
    
    Congrats on the wedding plans too!
    
    Tree
329.35Have fun!ANGLIN::GEBHARTMet her accidentally in St.Paul, MNMon Dec 21 1992 20:295
    Congratulations!!!  You are in for the greatest joy on earth. 
    This point is debatable at time you will see ;-)  
    
    :-)
    Scott G who has a one and another on the way in February. :-)
329.36CXDOCS::BARNESTue Dec 22 1992 00:505
    congrats Scott also...and Glenn, Is this the OFFICIAL announcement?
    come on, need more fanfare than that! I've refrained from putting
    anything in here waiting for banners, ballons and all....
    
    rfb
329.37Enjoy your last christmas as a couple, it all changes next yearSALES::GKELLERyrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2ndTue Dec 22 1992 11:1614
Hey now Tree...

Any time you want practice you are welcome to take our two for awhile:-)
:-):-).

They are incredibly wonderful...


...as Scott said, most of the time

As I've said before and I'm sure I'll say again, YIIIIIIIIIIIPEEEEEEEEE, 
congratulations...

Geoff
329.38TERAPN::PHYLLISin the shadow of the moonTue Dec 22 1992 12:456
    
    Congrats Glenn!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    (is there something in the water around here or what???) ;-) ;-)
    
    
329.39CSLALL::HENDERSONSomewhere in San FranciscoTue Dec 22 1992 12:4822

RE:       <<< Note 329.38 by TERAPN::PHYLLIS "in the shadow of the moon" >>>

    
       
   > (is there something in the water around here or what???) ;-) ;-)
    
    

     Geesh, I hope not :-)



     Congratulations Glenn..





 Jum

329.40another myth debunkedJURAN::DCLARKcherish well your thoughtsTue Dec 22 1992 13:052
    gee, we're a fertile bunch! I guess oat bran really doesn't
    affect certain hormone levels.
329.41no, Dan, just go back to sleep....SMURF::PETERTTue Dec 22 1992 13:2121
    Congrats to Glenn and Scott too.  Heard on the radio the other day
    someone calling in to wonder if there's going to be a baby boom 
    in central MA. in about nine months :-)  Kids are wonderful.  But
    everyone reaches their limits sometimes.  Like last night when Dan
    was screaming his head off everytime we put him back in his crib.
    He goes down for the night in it fine, but when he wakes up at 
    2 or 3 or 4, he just wants to get in bed with mom and dad.  Guess
    we'll try to Ferberize him after the holidays :-)  Of course he's
    been coming off colds and possibly antibiotics related diarrhea,
    so we're trying to be tolerant.  Tempers do work a little short 
    sometimes when nobodies getting a good nights sleep.  Actually the
    kids get good sleep, but the adults have been suffering.  Don't 
    worry though, we don't take it out on the kids.  
    
    Another thought for the soon to be dads and re-dads.  One thing I
    like about being a father of a new-born (and not so new ;-) is that
    you get to act like a complete idiot, and everyone thinks it's 
    wonderful!
    
    PeterT
    
329.42CSCMA::M_PECKARPray for snowTue Dec 22 1992 13:502
FYI, Jody and Sue have another one coming, too...
329.43VERGA::STANLEYwhat a long strange trip it's beenTue Dec 22 1992 16:393
    Ah... spring is in the air already... lots of babies being born.
    
    I had a feeling about this Tree.. :-) ... congratulations!
329.44SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Tue Dec 22 1992 17:495
Congratulations Glenn. Geez, could you be a bit more subtle about your news? 
"Let's see, rwad the paper, I'm getting married, went to a meeting, gonna be 
a dad, had some lunch, won the nobel prize..................." :-)

jeff
329.45SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobelexpecting something witty?Tue Dec 22 1992 17:525
passing (actually most of my thoughts are passing) thought - this outbreak 
of pregnancies couldn't be tied to the cancelation of the fall tour? Ya know, 
"what should we do since we don't get to go see the boyz?"

;-) Just_wonderin'_jeff
329.46Congratulation!!!!!!!!BSS::MNELSONTue Dec 22 1992 18:1110
    
    Much congrats to Tree and Glenn.  Children can be one of the greatest 
    joys of life.  There is nothing better for me than walking by my 22 
    month old daughters room in the morning and hearing a beautiful little
    voice say "Daaaddeeeeeee". Then walking in and seeing a little face 
    beaming with Joy just because I am there.  
    
    Hope your new additions will bring you much joy, happiness and Love
    
    - mark
329.47shhhh, it's still a secret....ROADKL::INGALLScastles made of sandTue Dec 22 1992 19:4615
>Congratulations Glenn. Geez, could you be a bit more subtle about your news? 
>"Let's see, rwad the paper, I'm getting married, went to a meeting, gonna be 
>a dad, had some lunch, won the nobel prize..................." :-)

:^)

yeah, I'm still kind of quiet about this cause it's been such a surprise and
although we've talked everything out, I still need to get the ring and 
do up the whole proposal thing the right way...

this whole thing still has me in a kinda a crazed&dazed 
"OBOY!OMIGAWD!OBOY!OMIGAWD!OBOY!OMIGAWD!" state of mind...


329.48Other peoples babies are GRATE!!! :-)DRINKS::WEISSThree French Toast, Two Turtle Necks, and a Beer.Tue Dec 22 1992 20:136
Congratulations, Glenn!!!!

If it's a boy, you can name him Glen, and them give him your extra
'n' for his 18th birthday! :-)

Dave
329.49Good for you GlennCX3PT3::IDWCS3::SMITHTue Dec 22 1992 20:209
    
     Congratulations Glenn!!!!
    
    Think I'll write it all over town, no need to keep it quite!!!
    
    So whens the BIG day.
    
    Divide Dave!