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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

1235.0. "Help for others at Christmas" by GEMVAX::WARREN () Tue Dec 03 1991 22:03

    Does anyone know how I can "adopt" a child or family for Christmas? 
    You know how some organizations assign you someone who can't afford 
    Christmas presents and you shop for them?  I've always wanted to do
    that, but I don't know how to go about it.  
    
    We do give to Toys for Tots, Globe Santa, etc., but it's not the same.
    Besides helping someone out, I think it's important to teach our 
    children and remind ourselves that Christmas isn't just about getting,
    and that everyone doesn't have it as well as we do.
    
    I live in Auburn, Mass., and work in Maynard, so something in those
    general areas is best.
    
    Thanks,
    
    -Tracy 
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1235.1Try the Box ProjectCNTROL::STOLICNYWed Dec 04 1991 08:3523
    
    Our site (HLO) does this through a program called "The Giving Tree".
    Children in shelters, foster care, etc. who might not receive something
    (or much) for christmas express their needs and wants (not always
    the same for kids!) through their social worker.  Their name, age,
    size, needs, wants, etc. are put on a card and hung as an ornament
    on a tree for site employees to take and purchase a gift for.   A
    very nice program, but I that doesn't help you!
    
    I also give through a program called the Box Project where I have
    a needy family in the rural South that I supply with a box of food,
    clothing, etc EACH month.  However, the Box Project does have
    additional families available that need help for Christmas.  It 
    may be a little late for them to get you in contact with someone
    for this Christmas but their address is:
    
    The Box Project
    P.O. Box 435 
    Plainville, CT  06062
    
    I'll see if I can find the phone # and add it later.
    
    Carol
1235.2Call your town clerkMCIS5::TRIPPWed Dec 04 1991 12:3912
    Tracey, Last year my group got the description of a needy family in
    *Auburn* from Mrs. Hill in the Town Clerk's office.  She gave me the
    name of a family that has slipped through the cracks of burocracy, and
    was unable to receive public assitance. (There's a note I started just
    about this time last year somewhere in here, with my request).
    
    Call her, she's a wonderfully helpful lady!
    
    For what it's worth I still have a wonderful thankyou note from the
    mother, maybe between you and I we can do something collective?
    
    Lyn
1235.3related noteTNPUBS::STEINHARTWed Dec 04 1991 13:464
    Please also see note 570 which discussus buying gifts for the needy.
    
    Laura
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1235.4will give info on requestTLE::RANDALLliberal feminist redneck pacifistMon Dec 09 1991 13:5122
    We participate in a program that operates in southern NH (Nashua,
    Manchester, Wilton). It's an ad-hoc program set up by a woman who
    works with children in one of the area schools.  Since she sees
    the kids through the year, she has a good idea of which families
    need help.  She also gets contacts through local service
    organizations.  
    
    I believe these are families who need help but often have too many
    resources for formal government agency programs.  Usually we buy
    them  clothing, gifts, and a food basket.  They get donations of
    hats, coats, etc.  from other sources.   Since it's not an
    approved, registered program, it's not tax deductible or anything,
    but it's approved to the extent that the Mt. Pleasant school lets
    them use the facilities for distributing the gifts.  
    
    If someone's interested in this program, they can send me mail and
    I'll give them the contact info.
    
    You can also contact your area soup kitchen, Y, Salvation Army,
    etc.  The need is incredible this year. 
    
    --bonnie
1235.5yesterday's Worc T&GTIPTOE::STOLICNYMon Dec 09 1991 14:007
    
    Paul Della Valle (I think that's it)  ran a column on pg. 2 of 
    the Worcester Telegram and Gazette yesterday (Sunday 12/8) listing
    all kinds of opportunites for helping Worcester-area shelters,
    soup kitchens, etc.   
    
    Carol
1235.6try your churches tooFSOA::DJANCAITISto risk is to liveMon Dec 09 1991 15:4111
Tracy,

One other idea I'd like to suggest is to check with your neighborhood/local
churches. Ours (in Leominster, MA) has put up a Secret Santa tree where every-
one at Church (before, after Mass or just drop in) can pick an "ornament".  On
the ornament, there's a slip for you to fill out saying you'll provide that
gift and there's information on the receipient - boy or girl and how old, woman,
man or family.  All the gifts get dropped at the church (unwrapped with the
id number) and then get wrapped and distributed by one of the church groups.

Debbi J