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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

363.0. "swaddling - wrapping a baby for comfort?" by USCTR2::PNOVITCH (PAM) Fri Sep 21 1990 18:40

    Has anyone ever heard of wrapping at baby securely in a blanket to
    comfort them to sleep?  I think it's known as swaddling (sp?)
    
    A friend of mine knows someone who had twins that did it from 6mos -
    2yrs and it worked like a charm.  My babysitter tried it with mine
    today at nap time and it worked.
    
    They wrap babies at the hospital this way.  Does anyone know if this is
    way?
    
    Thanks,
    Pam
    
    
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363.1Yes, swaddleISTG::DAVILAFri Sep 21 1990 18:579
In fact, when I took my Lamaze classes (almost five years ago), they show you
how to do it, since it is supposed to make new babies feel secure - remember
they are pretty tight in the uterus before they are born.  I wished I could have
done it for more than a couple of months.  I found that as babies get bigger
they kick themselves out of the blanket. 

It's amazing that somebody did this with a 2 year old!  That sounds wonderful.

Mari
363.2yes it worked for me for a whileEMASA2::TRUMPOLTLiz - ML05-3/T92 - 223-6321Fri Sep 21 1990 19:158
    My husband and I did this to my son for the first couple of months when
    he was born.  He loved it and he slept realy good and for longer
    periods of time inbetween feedings which was great for me becasue I
    could get some rest.  I wish I could do it to him know, he is almost 11
    months old and by no means stay wraped in a blanket.  But it would be
    nice if he did.
    
    Liz
363.3dittoTOOK::CURRIERFri Sep 21 1990 20:193
    I swaddled my human electron when she was an infant.  She was able to
    relax and sleep much better.  I did it as long as she liked it.  I
    can't remember when I stopped.
363.4CSC32::WILCOXBack in the High Life, AgainSat Sep 22 1990 01:008
We tried it, as it was supposed to ease colic.  Well, for Kathryne
nothing but time did the trick.  Not swaddling, not trying 4 different
formulas, not drugs.  (yes, we were THAT desparate!)

It did, however, make it easy to tote her around and looks cute, not
to mention keeping them cozy.

LIz
363.5Depends upon the childMAJORS::MANDALINCIMon Sep 24 1990 08:109
    No way with my son - he came out kicking!!! The first day he stayed
    swaddled but the next day, he was ready to let loose!!! The even kicked
    off what the nurses were able to wrap tight around him. Just like his
    Dad, who HATES to have his feet covered. You should see the beds in the
    morning between the 2 of them!!!
    
    If it works do it but the child's personality might dictate!!!
    
    Andrea
363.6FDCV07::HSCOTTLynn Hanley-ScottMon Sep 24 1990 12:297
    We did it for all of 2 days.... since Ryan was a summer baby, it was
    just too warm to wrap him up tightly.
    
    FYI, not only is it done to keep babies snug as bugs in rugs, but also
    keeps them from "scaring" themselves initially with their startle
    reflex... when their limbs start randomly flying!
    
363.7Worked for usNOVA::WASSERMANDeb Wasserman, DTN 264-1863Mon Sep 24 1990 14:488
    We swaddled Marc for about the first 4 months or so... until he got too
    big for the blanket and too wiggly to stay wrapped.  We used to wrap
    him in a receiving blanket and lay him down on his side with the flap
    of the blanket under him.  He'd stay in that exact position all night. 
    We laugh about that now when we check on him at night and he's laying
    any which way in the crib (stomach, back, side, feet-and-head reversed,
    squished in the corner, etc.).  When he was born, I used to wonder what
    we needed the bumpers for anyway, he didn't move a muscle all night!
363.8Also, try a NestVAXUUM::FONTAINEMon Sep 24 1990 15:4711
    Another thing to do to keep the child feeling secure is to make a
    "nest" in his/her crib.  Do this by taking towels and rolling them up
    (tube-like) and placing them in a rectangle in the crib.  take a large
    receiving blanket and lay it over the whole square and place the baby
    in the center.  The nest has sides; you can make it as big or small as
    you want.  It helped Andrew; he felt the boundaries which made him feel
    secure.  We only did this till around 4-5 months because at that age
    they like to move around a little more.
    
    Nancy
    
363.9an 8 month old - too old?USCTR2::PNOVITCHPAMMon Sep 24 1990 18:106
    Michele is 8 months old.  I'd have to pin the back of the blanket
    because she's mighty strong!
    
    Any thoughts on that?
    
    Pam
363.10He still likes being wrapped..at 3.5!NRADM::TRIPPLMon Sep 24 1990 19:3812
    I'd say if you have to pin the blanket, then it's defeating the
    purpose. (But JMHO)
    
    AJ still likes to have a blanket wrapped around him when he's not quite
    feeling right, and we still rock him occationally (his front to our
    front blanket over his back).  For that matter we watch about a half hour 
    of TV before bedtime and he insists on having a blanket over his lower half
    (looks like an old person with a lap blanket)  What we've noticed is that 
    he'll wake up during the night if he's kicked off the blankets.
    
    Lyn
    
363.11help to settle down.USCTR2::PNOVITCHPAMTue Sep 25 1990 14:196
    .10 - regarding 'defeating the purpose'
    
    The purpose for this is to settle her down so she falls asleep.  Sorry
    if I was not clear.
    
    Pam
363.12works for a 31 year old!FRAGLE::KUDLICHWed Nov 07 1990 15:227
    If holding her helps, swaddling or nesting might help also.  It used to
    with Nathan, but he's too active now...but it still helps with me! 
    When I'm unhappy, nothing's better than wrapping up in a big friendly
    quilt or being held!
    
    Adrienne