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Conference moira::parenting_v3

Title:Parenting
Notice:READ 1.27 BEFORE WRITING
Moderator:CSC32::DUBOIS
Created:Wed May 30 1990
Last Modified:Tue May 27 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1364
Total number of notes:23848

164.0. "Muscular Dystrophy (Duchennes)" by DEMING::JMOORE () Sat Jul 21 1990 04:44

    Hi, I'm Jim Moore.  I work in HLO as the calibration lab supervisor.
    My wife and I have three kids Brian (5), Jessica (3), Jamie (1.5) and
    Teresa (my wife) is due with our fourth child in Sept.  As you can see 
    by the size of our family that we our very family oriented.  We just 
    completed building our "dream home" and I reall enjoy my job at DEC.
    
    Then>>>>>>>>>IT HAPPENED,  we discovered our oldest child Brian has     
                
    the genetic disorder Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy.  My son and I are 
    
    extremely close (we do everything together, well not "everything") and 
    
    it has been a real struggle dealing with this tragedy.   
    
    
    I would like to talk to other parents that are trying to deal with 
    this disorder. 
    I am a very "up" person and do not wish to talk about such a heavy
    subject unless there are others that would find it helpful also.
    
    I do have a lot of information about the disorder as well as a lot of 
    questions!!
    
    			Is there anyone out there?
    
    				Jim  
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164.1Contact Local MDANEURON::REEVESMon Jul 23 1990 16:3220
    Jim, 
    	Although I do not have any experience with MD, my son was born 
    with Down Syndrome.  The reason I am replying is to strongly urge 
    you to seek out the local Muscular Dystrophy Association.  
    	When our son was first born I think the hardest thing was trying to 
    accept our fate.  Our family and friends were very supportive and tried
    to understand how we felt, but unless you've been there it is almost 
    impossible.  I went through some very strange emotions and guilt.  Not 
    to mention how I felt all alone in this problem.  We got in touch with 
    the local support group and after _making_ ourselves go to several
    meetings my whole attitude has changed.  
    	We have learned so much from the experience of the other parents
    and now that we are veterans, we can help out new families, it's a 
    great feeling being able to give something back.
    	The local associations are a great resource of knowledge and
    support.  IMHO.
    	Hope this will be of some help.  
    
    Good luck and God Bless.
    Malinda	
164.2exDEMING::JMOOREFri Aug 03 1990 20:244
    Thanks to both Melinda and Kathy (from Atlanta)  for the feedback and
    support.
    
    			Jim
164.3New treatments at U. Tenn. ?ATSE::LEVANLiving in a Gemini dreamMon Oct 01 1990 19:0313
I just read an article on some advances in the treatment of this disease. There
are experiments being done at Univ. of Tenn. (I think) and I read about a boy 
around 9 years old for whom the treatment had been quite successful. It had to 
do with transplanting healthy cells which would generate more healthy cells (or
something like that). Anyway, their success rates were awfully good. Have you
heard anything more about this? I'm sorry that I didn't pay closer attention
and record the details. My dad has a muscle disease of some sort; it does not 
exactly fit any known description of MD, but it comes close to it. I thought
of him when I read the article.

	Sue


164.4Reactions???NRADM::TRIPPLMon Oct 08 1990 16:3218
    To the parents I can only hope you will find the strength you need. 
    I'd like to ask a question, and wondering if others arn't asking the same
    one.  I'm not trying to pry just simply curious, after last night's
    movie "when you remember me"  I can only ask is this "real" or was this
    another Hollywood Hype?  I found the events portrayed to be quite
    dynamic, and yet depicted as depressing conditions.  My other question
    is realisticly, today, how many MD patients are actually
    institutionalized?  With all the recent advances, including Visiting
    Nurse and other home health aids, wouldn't home care be more common. 
    
    The other thing I guess I blame on ignorance is, is it always fatal and
    which factor(s) of the disease cause death.  It seems these kids only
    live through teenage years, I find that awful.
    
    Lyn