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Conference moira::parenting

Title:Parenting
Notice:Previous PARENTING version at MOIRA::PARENTING_V3
Moderator:GEMEVN::FAIMANY
Created:Thu Apr 09 1992
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1292
Total number of notes:34837

404.0. "Hyperactivity and Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)" by FDCV06::WILSON (Charlene) Tue Dec 08 1992 16:00

    I did a dir/title and keyword of hyper and nothing came up. Is there
    any note on hyperactive kids?
    
    
    Thanks for any info, Charlene
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404.1pointer and clarificationTNPUBS::STEINHARTLauraTue Dec 08 1992 16:0710
    Please see a general discussion about children with school attention
    problems in note 368.  This includes children who are not hyperactive
    and do not have ADD.  It includes strategies for dealing with
    educators.
    
    Please use this note to discuss clinical hyperactivity and ADD.
    
    Thanks,
    L
    co-mod
404.2NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Dec 08 1992 16:131
See note 9.5 for a pointer to the Learning Disabilities conference.
404.3Long noteFDCV06::WILSONCharleneTue Dec 08 1992 18:4335
    Maybe I should clarify myself more now that I have seen what is in 
    those notes.
    
    I am referring to a 5 month old baby. Hyperactivness in babies, that
    are so overactive that you can just imagine what they may be like as
    a toddler. I have a child already besides this one, so I know what I
    am seeing is quite different from any child I have seen. 
    
    He is like a fish out of water and it is really getting more and more
    with each week he gets older.  Up until he was 3 months old, he was
    very colicky so I am thinking that this type of personality was always
    there but was just communicated that way. He is happy now but is so
    active he can creep across the entire living room floor in 1 minute
    and whenever you hold him to burp him he thinks he is on an excersize
    machine and climbs right up you so fast that you cannot even hold on 
    to him. Terribly strong, his legs are like daggers, he never relaxes
    and breaths very heavy like he is just so determined. I cannot even 
    give him a bath in the little tub anymore, he arches forward so much 
    that before I can even catch him, he dives himself underwater. 
    
    Even feeding him his food on spoon he has to vigorously help me with
    putting the spoon in his mouth and grabs it every time, and grabs the
    bottle with both hands and fondles it hard every minute. He even takes
    a bite out of our shoulders so hard that even with no teeth he makes
    a mark. I feel like it is beyond being a strong baby. He is a blast
    but I would like to hear other people who have had hyper children tell
    what their babies were like. I feel like he is going to stand up and
    jump out of the crib he is so strong. He rolls over so much all night
    that he is awake at all hours and he has not eaten at night since 2
    months.
    
    Any feedback is appreciated. 
    
    Charlene
     
404.4CNTROL::JENNISONWalk softly & Carry a big Sword!Tue Dec 08 1992 19:2322
	Charlene,

	Please consider that you may just have an active baby.  I
	have a book by Dr. Brazleton that compares a quiet baby,
	an average baby, and an active baby, and have noticed that
	Emily most closely resembles the "active" baby.

	She too wakes frequently at night (rolling over), creeps across
	a room in a minute, moves quickly, is very strong (has to hold
	EVERYTHING that comes into sight, and has been holding her own
	bottle since she was 3 months old).  I took her out of the
	baby tub at 5 months for the same reasons you described.  She
	likes the big tub better, anyway!  

	I'm certainly not qualified to make a judgement, but wanted
	you to know that your description of your son sounds just like
	my daughter, and her pedi thinks she's doing great.

	Emily is 6 months old, btw.

	Karen
404.5another active babySHARE::HOUGHTONWed Dec 09 1992 16:1618
    sounds alot like my son. He thrashed around so much when he slept that at 
    2.5 months we had to put him in a crib because we thought he would knock 
    over the bassinet. He was always extremely active and still is. If you 
    take your eyes off him for one minute he is off and up the stairs in no time
    flat. We put two pairs of pajamas on him at night because he will never
    keep a blanket over himself. He just turned 19 months and I have
    noticed that he has started to sleep with a little less thrashing. He
    actually woke up this morning with a blanket on.
    
    I guess I would just lump him in the active baby catagory. He certainly
    is a lot of work and a monster baby in terms of activeness, but I still
    consider it normal child development as does my doctor.
    
    Good luck. I know at feeding time I could never tell how much actually 
    got in him vs on him (just wait until they insist upon feeding
    themselves ;) ) I'm sure you will be kept on your toes!
    
    
404.6COmmentsFDCV06::WILSONCharleneWed Dec 09 1992 18:3510
    Thanks for all the input, I too had to get him outta that bassinet for 
    fear he would knock it over and he never stays covered at night. I 
    have to laugh at how different he is than my daughter, she was the
    best natured baby and took to changes with no problem and has not 
    really had a LOT of tantrums, he however I feel like will be a 
    handful. Hubby has his hands full all day with him.
    
    Thanks again.
    
    Charlene
404.7Sounds too familiar!POWDML::CORMIERThu Dec 10 1992 12:596
    Yup, sounds exactly like my son David.  He just turned 3 yesterday, and
    still hasn't stopped!  He, too, was colicky (worst case the doctor ever
    saw - 24 hours a day for 2.5 months!).  He's a real climber, will jump
    off anything, used to bruise my ribs when he was an infant with those
    strong little toes trying to get a foothold and climb over my shoulder!
    Sarah  
404.8HELP - ADD CHILDREN NUTS::KANEWed Feb 10 1993 11:1643
I hope someone can help me with a problem I am having with my seven year 
old son and his school.

Last year my son was having difficulty in school (K), and I had requested a 
complete core evaluation on him.  They ruled out any physical problems, 
but it was apparent that he has ADD (Attention Deficit Deficiency).  This 
means that he needs a structured environment.  Academically he doing fine.  
Socially he is not.

It was recommended that my son see a counselor a least once per week, 
because he is showing a lot anger in him and he has a hard time controlling 
his temper.  I have seen a counselor and she keeps insisting that ADD 
children do not need to be seen by counselor, and what really needs to be 
down is to keep his life in a more structured fashion.

Another problem for my son, is that his father and I have divorced for 
over four years now, and I had re-married last April.  So there is a lot of 
changes in his life.

Has anyone been in this same situation?  If so how do you deal with it.  

I usually get a phone call or a note home once per week, telling me about 
my sons bad day.  This week is especially rough for him I think because he 
will be going with his father on Friday and they are DRIVING to Florida and 
my son would like to go, but does want to drive.

My mind is so messed up with this whole situation that I am not sure what 
the best thing for me to do.

I have one fault, since I have remarried, I have noticed that when my son 
is in trouble, I don't talk to him, I actually yell and scream.  I think 
this is one problem that he can't deal with.

So 

If anyone has been in my shoes, PLEASE write to me and let me know if you 
have any tips or suggestion that I can have.

Waiting to hear from someone,

Terri
    
    
404.9See Learning Disabilities notesfileGAVEL::SATOWWed Feb 10 1993 12:3111
Terri,

See note 9.5 of this conference for a pointer to the learning disabilities 
conference.  There is a wealth of information in there.

Also, where are you located?  I know of resources in the greater Maynard area, 
but that doesn't do you much good if you are located elsewhere.

I'll try to respond here or by mail when I have more time.

Clay
404.10NUTS::KANEWed Feb 10 1993 12:497
    I Live and work in Hudson, MA.
    
    I will also check out the other notes file.
    
    Thanks for letting me know.
    
    Terri
404.11Get another counselorGAVEL::SATOWWed Feb 10 1993 15:2949
>Academically he doing fine.  

Not uncommon for ADD kids in the early years of school.  Long attention spans
aren't generally needed the first few years in school.  Our daughter's
problems did not become apparent until fourth grade.

>Socially he is not [doing fine].

>It was recommended that my son see a counselor a least once per week, 
>because he is showing a lot anger in him and he has a hard time controlling 
>his temper.  I have seen a counselor and she keeps insisting that ADD 
>children do not need to be seen by counselor, and what really needs to be 
>down is to keep his life in a more structured fashion.

Is it the school counselor?  If the counselor is associated with the school
system, her opinions may be clouded by the possibility that the school may be
obligated to provide your child with resources that they don't want to
provide.

If it not a school counselor, get another counselor.  A counselor who is not
convinced that a child (or adult, for that matter) should be seeing her/him
won't do the child any good, and in fact may be harmful.  In getting a
counselor, make sure that you get one that is experienced (preferably one who
specializes) in dealing with ADD kids.

<Flame on>

We obviously don't have the full story here, especially about what your son's
social problems are.  But based on what I see here, the counselor is
abysmally ignorant to the point of incompetence.  A child who is having
social problems for reasons that he doesn't understand, and even if he does
understand is not capable of correcting DOESN'T NEED A COUNSELOR?  How do you
create a "structured" environment on a school playground?  I might buy an
argument that not all ADD kids need a counselor; I might even buy the
school's concentrating on the educational, as opposed to the social, aspect
of your son's condition.  But if the ADD is causing social problems (very
common in ADD kids due to the inability to control impulses, and for other
reasons) the counselor is WRONG to say you son doesn't need a counselor.  

<Flame off>

In fact a counselor may not be enough.  A psychiatrist may be needed, since
the treatment for moderate to severe cases of ADD frequently includes
medication, which can only be prescribed by a doctor.  (See the learning
disabilities conference for more on this). 

Additionally, get help for yourself.  There may be a support group near you. 

Clay
404.12Hyperactive? ADD? Symptoms?POWDML::CORMIERWed Jun 30 1993 18:3116
    Is hyperactivity a description, or a condition?  I had the opportunity
    to meet a friend's 4-year old son over the weekend, and I've never seen
    behavior like this!  The child literally cannot control himself!
    Running up to other kids, knocking them down. Running up to a pile of
    toys, kicking them all over the floor.  His parents simply scream at
    him, which has little to no effect.  He didn't appear to me to be
    malicious in his behavior, but just seemed unable to keep from wrecking
    things.  All the other parents were furious with him, but I have a
    nagging feeling of pity for him, that he needs some professional help,
    and that his parents are denying his behavior is anything out of the
    ordinary.  His aunt, who is a very good friend of mine, said she has to
    hold him by the shoulders and make deliberate eye contact to get him to
    listen. Does this description set off any bells for anyone?  I kept
    thinking if I was armed with some good information, I could pass it
    along to the aunt, who could influence the parents. Ideas?
    Sarah
404.13GAVEL::PCLX31::satowgavel::satow, dtn 223-2584Wed Jun 30 1993 18:4811
My take on this is that hyperactivity is a description of behavior that can 
be caused by a number of conditions, one of which is ADD; other possible 
causes are dietary (e.g. sugar shock, food dyes, antihistamines in some 
children) and emotional.  ADD itself is based on a description of behavior as 
it pertains to age; that is what is hyperactive in an six year old may be a 
normal activity level for three.

You can find a lot of information in the Learning Disabilities notesfile (see 
note 9.5).

Clay 
404.14Looking for information regarding attention deficiETPAC::DESOUSAWed May 04 1994 16:3732
This note is from a friend, any help would be appreciate.

						Thanks in advance,
								Jose' DeSousa



Looking for information regarding attention deficit/hyperactivity.

My son - 7 year old - 1st grade - having difficult in school, not able 
to sit for too long and focus on lessons.  Sometimes he claims it's 
boring or does not understand.
School evaluation not definite that it is attention deficit but neurologist 
says it is and put him on "Cylert" which at times makes him very talking - 
even non-stop - and although he is doing better he still does not focus well 
on lessons. With family and friends he is very friendly, can talk very 
intelligent about anything from news to hobbies.  Teachers and everyone admits 
his long-range memory is excellent even though at certain moments he cannot 
remember what he was just taught. 
At times he is very unsure of himself and sensitive to some things and requires 
more attention.  At times he acts wild and crazy. Having difficulty with HMO 
Blue paying for full evaluation, they think school should pay for it - not able
to get referral to a good hospital.  STUCK IN THE MIDDDLE!
Would like to transfer pediatricians and go to someone at Children's Hospital 
and start all over but do not know anyone there or where to start.
School also thinks Children's would be the best place to get a full evaluation
and also a nutritional work-up as he is very picky and sometimes will not eat.  
Could his not eating be attributing to attention deficit.  his food choices 
are limited, will not eat fruit, chicken, pork, hamburgers, hot dogs.  Will 
eat pizza and occasionally peanut butter and a stack but the minute anything 
tastes different or if there is fat in steak, he will not eat at all.
404.15Check Learning Disabilities notesLEDS::TRIPPThu May 05 1994 16:168
    Look in the Learning Disabilities notes file.  There is lots of
    discussion around this subject.  Including a multipoint checklist of
    the symptoms.
    
    (Mike G., where are you?  You've probably got a ton more info on this
    than I do.)
    
    Lyn
404.16WWDST1::MGILBERTEducation Reform starts at home....Wed May 11 1994 17:318
I'm here, been busy. I need to know whether this is 
Mass. or not. If Mass. you need to understand your
rights under 766. If you wish the child COREd then
the school has to pay for it. While the school and
your HMO should be working together the issue here 
is what is being done EDUCATIONALLY for your child. 
If you would like more info read through the LD 
notesfile and/or contact me offline.
404.17if anyone knows of this, pls post...EVER::LALIBERTEGT&amp;NS Tech ServicesTue Oct 17 1995 12:4818
        <<< ASABET::USR08:[NOTES$LIBRARY]LEARNING_DISABILITIES.NOTE;2 >>>
                           -< Learning Disabilities >-
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Note 175.17                  ADD Information wanted                     17 of 17
DPE1::ARMSTRONG                                      11 lines  17-OCT-1995 08:52
                                -< ADD on PBS? >-
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    I've heard there will be an intersting show on PBS
    about ADD.  I think it will be very controversial.

    It did not seem to be in this week's TV GUIDE, so
    it may be on next week.  I thought it would be shown
    sometime between Friday and next Friday, or some
    range like that.

    Has anyone heard more?  I dont want to miss it.
    thanks
    bob
404.18here's the informationMKOTS3::ISBELLTue Oct 17 1995 15:28103
    I really hesitate to post this info.  Based on the description of the
    program I feel it will have a very negative impact on the way children 
    with ADD, AD/HD are looked at and treated within the educational
    environment. If you consider how long it has taken most schools to
    acknowldge the fact that ADD exists, and in most situations it still
    takes just shy of an act from God to provide the classroom
    modifications and support that these kids need.
    
    But in the interest of the parenting community here goes.
    
    PBS DOCUMENTARY INVESTIGATES A.D.D. EPIDEMIC. 
    
    Beginning Friday, October 20, at 10pm PBS will present a special report
    about
    A.D.D.   "ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER: A DUBIOUS DIAGNOSIS?", examines
    the
    hidden factors that have created the current A.D.D. epidemic among
    children
    and teenagers.
    
    The factors include misinformation about the disorder, pressure on
    parents,
    doctors, teachers, and children to diagnose and medicate, and the role
    of
    Ciba-Geigy,  the pharmaceutical giant that manufacturers Ritalin,  in
    promoting "A.D.D. awareness".   That role may come as a surprise to
    thousands
    of parents of children with A.D.D. 
    
    Are tens of thousands of children being incorrectly diagnosed and
    improperly
    medicated?   How do young people feel about drugs like Ritalin?  And
    who
    benefits when more than 2 million children and teenagers take
    prescription
    drugs to help them pay attention?  These are among the questions
    addressed
    in
    "ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER: A DUBIOUS DIAGNOSIS?".  The answers may
    surprise
    you.
    
    The program has been strongly endorsed by the National PTA, the
    American
    Federation of Teachers, the National Education Association, and the
    National
    Committee to Prevent child Abuse. PTA President Joan Dykstra described
    the
    documentary as "A wake up call for all parents and educators". 
    
    What follows is a partial list of upcoming air dates for "ATTENTION
    DEFICIT
    DISORDER: A DUBIOUS DIAGNOSIS?"  If you don't see your city here, then
    please
    contact the programming office at your local PBS station for further
    information or contact the producers at the address below. 
    
    New York, NY... WNET...  Oct. 20th at 10pm.
    Los Angeles, CA... KCET...Nov. 10th at 10pm and Nov. 12th at 5pm.
    Chicago, IL... WTTW...Oct. 24th at 11pm
    San Francisco, CA... KQED... Oct. 23rd at 11pm
    Boston, MA...WGBX...Nov. 5th at 10pm and WGBH Nov. 28th at 10pm.
    Washington, DC...WETA... Oct. 22nd at 6pm
    Dallas, TX... KDTN...Oct. 22nd at 8pm.
    Detroit, MI...WTVS... Nov. 12th at 5pm.
    Atlanta, GA...WPBA... Nov. 14th at 11:30pm
    Georgia (state wide) on Public TV stations-- Nov. 14th at 11:30pm
    Seattle, WA... KCTS...Oct. 22nd at 10:30am.
    Minneapolis, MN... KTCI... Oct. 23rd at 8pm
    Tampa, FL...WEDU... Oct. 22nd at 3pm
    Miami, FL... WPBT... Oct. 20th at 3pm.
    Pheonix, AZ...KAET... Nov. 17th at 9pm
    Sacramento, CA... KVIE... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    All PBS stations in Maryland...Oct. 26th at 11pm.
    San Diego, CA...KPBS... Oct. 22nd @ 2pm
    Cincinnati, OH... WCET...Oct. 21st at 4pm
    Milwaukee, WI... WMVS...Oct. 29th at 7pm.
    Kansas City, MO...KCPT...Oct. 24th at 9pm
    Columbus, OH...WOSU... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    All PBS station in South Carolina... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    All PBS stations in Oklahoma... Oct. 25th at 10pm
    West Palm Beach...WXEL... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Scranton, PA...WVIA... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    All PBS stations in Alabama... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Albuquerque, NM... KNME... Oct. 21st at 1pm
    Schenectady, NY... WMHT...Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Richmond, VA...WCVW... Oct. 29th at 10pm
    Athens, OH... WOUB... Oct. 24th at 10pm
    Knoxville, TN...WSJK... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Austin, TX...KLRU... Oct. 23rd at 11pm
    Roanoke, VA... WBRA... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Rochester, NY...WXXI... Oct. 20th at 12:30am
    Spokane, WA... KSPS...Oct. 22nd at 2pm.
    Urbana, IL...WILL...Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Springfield, MO... KOZK...Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Pheonix, AZ...KUAT...Oct. 20th at 10:30pm
    Chattanooga, TN...WTCI... Oct. 20th at 10pm and Oct. 24th at 2pm.
    Fort Meyers, FL....WSFP.... Oct. 22nd at 11pm
    All PBS stations in Mississippi... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    All PBS stations in Vermont... Oct. 20th at 10pm
    Alliance, OH... WNEO...Nov. 5th at 3pm
    Evansville, OH... WNIN... Oct. 20th at 9pm.
    
404.19thanks!DPE1::ARMSTRONGTue Oct 17 1995 15:387
    Thanks.

    Better to see the show and know what is being put out there
    than just to ignore it.

    I suspect there will be a lot of truth as well as a lot of exageration.
    bob
404.20did anyone see Attention Deficit Disorder: A dubious diagnosisSSDEVO::PHERSONWed Dec 06 1995 16:137
   Well??? Did anyone see the program, was it worth while?

   I missed it, but am thinking about calling our public television station
   to see if it will be re-broadcast.

/jim

404.21PERFOM::WIBECANHarpoon a tomataWed Dec 06 1995 16:206
I saw part of it, and felt it was mostly a discussion about unethical behavior
on the part of the Ritalin manufacturer and various doctors than a show about
whether ADD exists at all.  Of course, any amount of fraud makes people suspect
all the legitimate cases, as is true with pretty much anything these days.

						Brian
404.22CSC32::BROOKWed Dec 06 1995 17:1243
>I saw part of it, and felt it was mostly a discussion about unethical behavior
>on the part of the Ritalin manufacturer and various doctors than a show about
>whether ADD exists at all.  Of course, any amount of fraud makes people suspect
>all the legitimate cases, as is true with pretty much anything these days.

The trouble with ADD as I see it is that like so many things, it can be
a convenient label to get special consideration for a child ... there
can be little doubt that Ritalin HELPS a lot of children ... and so the
question then arises "Do all these children have ADD?" as if ADD were some
black or white / true or false thing.

ADD, like many other mental and physical ailments, is diagnosed on the basis
of a certain combination and number of non-specific symptoms, so as a result
diagnoses CANNOT be conclusive.  (A non-specific symptom is one which is
not specific to any one ailment ... like a runny nose ... a specific symptom
is one like white spots on swollen tonsils!)

To complicate matters, many of these non-specific symptoms for ADD are some-
what subjective ... for example ... "Is the child distracted easily ?"  Of
course he is if other children are doing something that interests him!  They
TRY to eliminate subjectivity, but it's not completely possible.

Then of course, some symptoms may exist some times and not others, some
may be mild, others may be strong.

So, is it possible for ADD to be a "graduated" illness with differing degrees
of severity ?  Of course it is ... but it's just one label. ADD or not ADD.

Is it possible for a child to suffer ADD today and not tomorrow ... ? Probably.
So, is it any wonder that children with behavioural problems end up being
tested ADD, and maybe found positive ?  Whether they have true ADD or not ?

Then is it not possible that there are other behavioural traits that may be
impacted by Ritalin use ?  Sounds plausible to me.

Then people like to have names for things they are dealing with.  Their child
goes bananas in a store ... they get sympathy if the parent says "oh ... he
suffers from ADD" ... but scorn otherwise for having a disruptive kid.

What can you do ?

Stuart