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Conference lgp30::christian-perspective

Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
Notice:Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome!
Moderator:CSC32::J_CHRISTIE
Created:Mon Sep 17 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1362
Total number of notes:61362

983.0. "Sadness from Joy" by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (Crossfire) Mon Oct 10 1994 23:06

    How come our saddest sadness comes from what once was our most joyous
    joy?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
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983.1AIMHI::JMARTINTue Oct 11 1994 12:404
    November 21, 1992.  There was no joy in Mudville but there was
    definitely the saddest sadness!!!!
    
    -Jack  
983.2CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireTue Oct 11 1994 15:216
    .1  Off hand, I don't recall the significance of November 21, 1992.
    Is it something personal?
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.3AIMHI::JMARTINTue Oct 11 1994 15:541
    The winner...by such and such electoral votes...our new CiC...
983.4GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerTue Oct 11 1994 18:348
I believe the election was on the second Tuesday of the month, not the
21st.  Did the electoral college vote on the 21st?

Anyway, the '92 election gave me nothing but joy.  The only thing that
will make me sad is if the Republicans win control of Congress, or if
the Democrats continue to back down in the face of the conservative menace.

				-- Bob
983.5AIMHI::JMARTINTue Oct 11 1994 18:564
    Yes Bob, then government can think for us again because we are
    incapable of thinking for ourselves..
    
    -Jack
983.6just slightly off the deep endLGP30::FLEISCHERwithout vision the people perish (DTN 297-5780, MRO3-3/L16)Tue Oct 11 1994 19:1410
re Note 983.5 by AIMHI::JMARTIN:

>     Yes Bob, then government can think for us again because we are
>     incapable of thinking for ourselves..
  
        I never realized you were such an anarchist, Jack.  (With
        logic like that, one could justify the repeal of *all* laws
        regulating behavior of any kind.)

        Bob
983.7AIMHI::JMARTINTue Oct 11 1994 19:3011
    Ha ha ha...
    
    I have always said it isn't a matter of who's more trustworthy, that is
    a given.  The current cabinet have all prospered during the "Decade of
    Greed".  That's the funny part.
    
    The real issue is who do we distrust the most?!  It is the nature of
    all political systems.  I've already had my fill of 45+ years of
    Kennedy types running the Congress.  
    
    -Jack
983.8CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireTue Oct 11 1994 21:1512
    So, lemme see if I've got this right, Jack.  Based on the question posed
    in the basenote, Bush-Quayle was to you your most joyous joy?
    
    Well, I can't say that about anyone who's ever made it to office!
    
    Sometimes I've been pleased, but a joyous joy?  Never!
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
    PS  I, too, think you're off on the date being November 21.
    
983.9AIMHI::JMARTINTue Oct 11 1994 22:3215
  >>      PS  I, too, think you're off on the date being November 21.
    
    You're probably right.
    
    No, Bush/Quayle wouldn't have been my joyest joy.  Not even Reagan
    would be my joyest joy.  I should rejoice that God placed Clinton there
    for His purposes, but my lack of faith sometimes keeps me from doing
    this.
    
    If the democrats were appointed to take the White House, my human,
    finite mind tells me that God could have placed somebody more worthy,
    and the American public could have used more discernment in choosing
    a leader.  
    
    -Jack
983.10TINCUP::BITTROLFFCreator of Buzzword Compliant SystemsWed Oct 12 1994 15:098
>    If the democrats were appointed to take the White House, my human,
>    finite mind tells me that God could have placed somebody more worthy,
>    and the American public could have used more discernment in choosing
>    a leader.  

So why didn't he?

Steve
983.11AIMHI::JMARTINWed Oct 12 1994 16:365
    Hey, why did God appoint leaders like Manassah, Saul, Rehoboam, and
    other misfits?  Who knows other than to say it was part of His
    plan!!!
    
    -Jack
983.12CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireWed Oct 12 1994 17:312
    .11  It's simple, Jack.  God is the product of a dysfunctional family.
    
983.13CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireWed Oct 12 1994 17:336
    I really wish the basenote question was being addressed in other than
    a flippant way.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.14GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerWed Oct 12 1994 18:1012
When we become emotionally attached to a person or activity it can be
emotionally devastating when we are rejected by that person, or when we
begin to realize that the activity that once gave us pleasure now brings
us nothing but pain.  Divorce, loss of one's job (especially being fired
for cause), being sexually or physically abused by someone we respected,
death of a loved one - these all all major traumatic events in a person's
life.

Richard, has there been a recent event in your life that prompted this
note?  (Don't feel obligated to answer if you'd rather keep it private.)

				-- Bob
983.15CSLALL::HENDERSONI'm the traveller, He's the wayWed Oct 12 1994 18:2113

 I'll go along in part with Bob's first sentence.  I was involved with someone
 who brought more joy into my life than I had had in years.  That the involve-
 ment was extramarital on my part did not matter (at the time).  I was "happy"
 and every minute we were together was wonderful, no matter how that minute
 was spent.  Then one day, I realized just what had happened.  That joy,
 turned into profound sadness that will be with me til the Lord calls me
 home.



Jim
983.16thank God that Americans are wising upFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingWed Oct 12 1994 19:073
    Despite the CiC's use of American young men as cannon fodder for his
    own political gain, the joy comes next month when this pot-smoking 
    womanizer will become a lame duck with only 2 years left to do nothing!
983.17CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireWed Oct 12 1994 21:1314
.14 No, Bob.  In fact, I first saw the question asked in a Ziggy cartoon, of all
places.  It just rang true that where we place our greatest emotional investment
is where we risk our greatest loss.

This is illustrated extremely well in a book called "The Little Prince" and
in the film "Shadowlands."

.16  It was Jack's God who put the current administration into office.
The President of the United States is more than a CiC (a military
rank), thank God.
    
Shalom,
Richard

983.18another way of looking at itFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingWed Oct 12 1994 21:434
>.16  It was Jack's God who put the current administration into office.
    
    how true.  If he stays in there, I guess God is going to fulfill
    Revelations sooner than I expected.
983.19Allelujah, amen!CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireWed Oct 12 1994 21:529
    .18  I really doubt it, but we'll see.
    
    My take on the apocalyptic writings is not very intense, but I do know
    that the Revelation (or the Revelation of St. John the Divine) is not
    plural.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.20GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Oct 13 1994 13:0910
Re: .16 Mike

>    the joy comes next month when this pot-smoking 
>    womanizer will become a lame duck with only 2 years left to do nothing!

If there's one thing the Republicans are good at, it's gridlock.  If
that's what the American people want then voting Republican is certainly
the way to go - they'll get the government they deserve.

				-- Bob
983.21FRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingThu Oct 13 1994 15:264
>    that the Revelation (or the Revelation of St. John the Divine) is not
>    plural.
    
    yeah but the revelations within Revelation are plural ;-)
983.22FRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingThu Oct 13 1994 15:2813
>If there's one thing the Republicans are good at, it's gridlock.  If
    
    How is that when the Dems have dominated Congress for at least the last
    25 years?
    
>that's what the American people want then voting Republican is certainly
>the way to go - they'll get the government they deserve.
    
    Such a stalemate is addition.  Clintoon(tm) has done enough damage to
    this country and the freedoms of its citizens.  It's time to return
    basic civil rights to the people.
    
    Mike
983.23GRIM::MESSENGERBob MessengerThu Oct 13 1994 15:5640
Re: .22 Mike
    
>    How is that when the Dems have dominated Congress for at least the last
>    25 years?
    
There's this little thing called the filibuster rule.  The Republicans
have used it frequently, especially in the last few weeks (Dole was
juggling five filibusters at once the last I heard).  It's surprising that
the Democrats have accomplished as much as they have in this Congress
considering that there are 42 Republicans in the Senate and it takes only
41 votes to block legislation by filibustering it.

In theory, if everyone in Congress always voted along party lines, the
Democrats and Republicans would have equal political power even though the
Democrats have majorities in both houses of Congress and the president is
a Democrat.  No law could be passed unless both the Republicans and the
Democrats agreed to it.

In reality, of course, politicians don't always vote along party lines.
The word "Democrat" is not synonymous with "liberal" and the word
"Republican" is not synonymous with "conservative".  That's why the
Democrats were able to pass things like the crime bill, which most
Republicans opposed.  It's also why the Democratic "domination" of
Congress doesn't mean very much: there are Democrats and there are
Democrats, and they don't always agree with each other.

I suspect that you're right that the Democrats are going to be stymied
over the next couple of years, as the Republicans gain either a majority
in the Senate or a cloture-proof minority and they pick up a lot of seats
in the House.  The Republicans won't be able to accomplish much either,
since even if they gain majorities in both the House and the Senate they
won't have enough votes to override a presidential veto.

That's one of the problems with the American political system: there are a
lot of people with their foot on the brake pedal and not very many people
with their foot on the accelerator.  It works both ways, of course: it's
nice when the other side can't accomplish their objectives, but it's not
so nice where your side can't accomplish anything either.

				-- Bob
983.24AIMHI::JMARTINThu Oct 13 1994 16:085
    Filibusters and vetoes keep each branch in check.  I thank God for
    filibusters as many of the bills being presented are simply budget
    busters...nothing less.
    
    -Jack
983.25we're outta hereFRETZ::HEISERGrace changes everythingThu Oct 13 1994 16:242
    I changed my mind.  I want Clinton to do whatever he wants and get
    re-elected.  I want to look up and see my redemption draweth nigh ;-)
983.26CSC32::J_CHRISTIECrossfireThu Oct 13 1994 16:4914
    There is much about the US that makes me sad.
    
    Clinton is just another symptom.  So was Bush.  So was Reagan.
    
    Much of my saddness comes from caring, which, I believe, is an element
    of the basenote question.
    
    Like my conservative friends and foes, I think our priorities as a
    nation are all messed up.  Where we differ is on what we believe those
    priorities should be and, most distinctly, how they should be implemented.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.27ASDG::RANDOLPHMon Dec 05 1994 14:423
    
    I've heard it said that the greatest pain comes from the 
    removal of pleasure.
983.28CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Mon Dec 05 1994 18:245
    .27  Why, that has kind of a Zen ring to it.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.29Pain 'n' joySEFI04::GRILLETTATue Dec 06 1994 06:313
    Pain comes from attachment, joy from detachment.
    
    	Agostino
983.30CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Wed Dec 07 1994 00:129
    .29
    
    I find a great deal of joy in my spouse, children, and friends.  I'm
    kind of emotionally attached to them.  (Or perhaps I should use the
    term 'bonded')
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.31What kind of joy ...?SEFI04::GRILLETTAWed Dec 07 1994 08:469
    .30
    
    But if you loss a friend ...? If you think that is possible to loss a
    friend, are still you happy? I mean, is your joy egoistic or not? Is it
    important for you that they are there, or for theirselves? 
    
    Peace
    
    	Agostino
983.32CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Wed Dec 07 1994 20:449
.31

Losing a friend or a loved one is perhaps a selfish loss of joy.  But
having friends and loved ones is a joy I'm not willing to deprive myself
of in order to avoid sorrow.

Shalom,
Richard

983.33Without cravingSEFI04::GRILLETTAFri Dec 09 1994 07:3912
    .32
    
    Hi, Richard.
    
    I think you (and me, too) have not to deprive yourself of having
    friends. I think we should love them avoiding to become attached to
    them. You should enjoy your joy with mindfulness without craving for
    it.
    
    Peace
    
    	Agostino
983.34CSC32::J_CHRISTIEOkeley-dokeley, Neighbor!Fri Dec 09 1994 14:538
    .33
    
    Hmmmm.  Craving.  I wouldn't say I ever had a craving for my
    friends.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
    
983.35SEFI04::GRILLETTAMon Dec 12 1994 11:487
    .34
    
    So ... no problem :-)
    
    Peace
    
    	Agostino