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Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
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447.0. "spouse's ordination paper" by OLDTMR::FRANCEY (M/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18) Mon May 04 1992 14:29

    Enclosed is my spouse's draft of her ordination paper.  She goes before
    the Church & Ministry Committee on June 10th for attaining the standing
    of "approved for ordination subject to a call".  Your generosity of
    comments on my ordination paper helped me really get my thoughts and
    beliefs in a structured and presentable order.  Perhaps you might like
    to do the same for my spouse.
    
    She would be most pleased to continue a dialog via this notes file or
    through email which I will send her.
    
    	Thanks in advance and Peace!
    
    	Ron
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                                  Ordination Paper

                                 Dorothy C. Francey
                                   April 30, 1992
          
          
          We have  a story  to tell!   We,  the people  of God, are part of
          God's narration.   We all are on a journey and part of my path in
          that journey will be shared with you here.
          
          
                               Theological Reflection
          
          Our story  begins before  recorded time.   "God  calls the worlds
          into being  ...."   God, being so full of love that creation must
          flow from God, creates us in God's image.  God creates the worlds
          and humankind  out of  a desire to have a creation to love and to
          lead.   We are  created in  the image  of God,  but are unable to
          fully grasp what that means.  We have the opportunity to know God
          and to  know the way God wants us to live by opening ourselves to
          God's presence.  My understanding, my insight into who God is and
          what God  does, my  theology is  an evolving  one.   I believe my
          faith journey  to be  an ever-growing understanding of God, God's
          plan for  the world,  and God's will for me.  My hope is for this
          growth to continue for the rest of my life.
          
          I believe in God, the Eternal Spirit, Creator of all that is, and
          in Jesus  Christ, God's  Son and  our Savior.   I  believe in the
          trinity of  God, traditionally  expressed as Father, Son and Holy
          Spirit.   God, as  triune,  helps  us  understand  that  ultimate
          reality is  a dynamic life together where the three are one.  God
          is love!   This  inner reality  of God  is expressed  through the
          mission of God as Creator, Reconciler, and Redeemer.  This vision
          of God helps us understand God's inclusive character.
          
          God is  all powerful, yet has given us free will.  We are made as
          free yet  responsible human  beings.   That freedom  allows us to
          come nearer to the divine will and nature of God, and we thus are
          able to  enjoy an  ever-growing communion  with  God.    This,  I
          believe, is  God's purpose  for us.   Upon death, we will have an
          eternal, spiritual  life in  God.  Sin is our separation from God
          and God suffers with us in that separation.
          
          We learn through the Old Testament of the covenants that God made
          with the  people of  Israel.   God has been reaching out to God's
          people since  the beginning  of creation.   Declared  through the
          prophets, our understanding of God's judgment of us has developed
          throughout history and continues to grow as we discern God's will
          in our lives.
          
          Jesus was  that individual  that connected  with God  in a unique
          way.   Jesus came  to us, lived among us, and took on the sins of
          the world  so that  we might  be free to love God and others in a



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          new way.   Jesus,  the Christ, further demonstrates God's purpose
          for us  as God  unites with  humankind.   Because of  Jesus,  our
          understanding of  God is  more comprehensible  and our  vision is
          clearer  than   ever  before.     As   Christians,  we  take  our
          understanding of God from the acts of God with their center point
          in Jesus Christ.
          
          God's Holy  Spirit is  alive among  and with  us and  calls us to
          unite in  the church,  to be  a faithful people of God, and to be
          the body of Christ in the world.  God calls us to affirm the cost
          and to  discover the  joy of  discipleship, to covenant with each
          other, to search to learn God's will and way for us as disciples,
          to witness  to the  Good News  of God's  love throughout  all  of
          creation, and  to welcome  all in inclusiveness to be part of the
          body of  Christ.  We are empowered to be partners in making God's
          love, justice, and peace visible and real in the world.
          
          We have  a covenantal relationship with God.  God's grace, peace,
          and love  are given  to us  as gifts  which are  not earned,  but
          freely given.   We  need to  trust in  those gifts so that we can
          respond to  the covenant  that has been made.  God is with us and
          provides support,  guidance, and  presence throughout  all of our
          lives.
          
          What we do and are as a church grows out of what God does and who
          God is.   In  the worship of church, two acts are acknowledged as
          sacraments, Baptism  and Holy  Communion.  These are the "outward
          and visible signs of an inward and spiritual grace."
          
          Throughout the  New  Testament  we  encounter  the  sacrament  of
          baptism.   Baptism is  an ancient  rite of  the Christian church,
          practiced by Christians in every land.  Baptism is a promise from
          God to  love and  accept us.  Baptism is an act of worship and an
          act of  faith.   When adults  come to  be baptized or bring their
          child to  be baptized  they come in hope that through God's grace
          they might  seek to  be an  instrument of  peace  in  the  world.
          Baptism signifies a new relationship with our triune God and with
          a community  of believers.   In  the sacrament of baptism all our
          hopes, joys, and fears are entrusted to God.
          
          Celebrating The  Last  Supper  or  Holy  Communion  is  to  share
          intimately in  a meal  which brings  us closer  to the  spirit of
          Jesus and  to one another.  Holy Communion is a meal of great joy
          and thanksgiving.  It is joyful because we know that God loves us
          so much  that Jesus  was sent from God to share our lives.  Jesus
          said that  every human  being ever  born or  yet to  be born  was
          important to  God.   We are  thankful that Jesus came to teach us
          how to live and love.
          
          Ordinary things  like bread and wine are signs of the presence of
          God.  They are signs that all life is sacred.  There is a mystery
          in bread.   The  grain has died in the earth, and has borne fruit
          after its death.  The death yields hundreds of new grains.  Jesus




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          used the  image of bread for himself.  In like manner, Jesus said
          that when we drink the cup it is in remembrance of him.
          
          Scripture provides the platform on which we, as learners in God's
          world, search  for the  meaning of  being a  Christian in today's
          world.   Active discipleship  is an  important goal  which,  when
          based on extensive Biblical study, produces a Biblical foundation
          for what  we do.   Our  Christian tradition comes from the Bible,
          the synagogue  and the  teachings of  Jesus.  Our other resources
          include  the  history  of  the  church,  the  traditions  of  the
          Christian community,  and our  personal experiences  with God  as
          they are  accountable to the Scriptures.  The consistency in this
          revelation is how we know what is true for us.
          
          One of  the things  we learn  from Jesus  is that the church is a
          serving community.  Because of Jesus' examples and teachings, the
          church is involved in service and ministers to persons within and
          beyond the  worshiping community.   We  become a church - a truly
          nurturing community  -  first  by  believing  in  Jesus  and  his
          teachings as  the essence  of the  church, then  by  sharing  and
          supporting each other within the community and finally by serving
          or sharing outside of the church or community.
          
          Each church  has a  personal ministry.   What  is going on in the
          lives of the members of the congregation needs to be addressed as
          are problems  and issues going on in the community and the world.
          We are  called to  be learners and teachers as we share our faith
          story in  exciting ways.   The  church needs to have a vision, to
          know itself  and its gifts, to see itself as a part of the whole,
          to be empowered by God for ministry, to rejoice in its diversity,
          to be open to God's will and to be an open community to others.
          
          The church  needs to accept people where they are, help them meet
          their needs  and then  equip them to go out and witness and serve
          in the  wider community.   Whether  a church is successful or not
          can be  evaluated by the varying degrees that the wider community
          exhibits love,  peace, justice,  righteousness, and freedom.  The
          local church helps people relate to God and then prepares them to
          enable others  to relate  to God  in the  wider community.    The
          church lives  in community  and to  be an  effective  and  viable
          entity must relate to the culture in which it finds itself.
          
          The world  we live in is the family of God.  We often talk of the
          small church  as being a family, yet the larger church should try
          to be  a family  too.   The church,  as a  family of  God, should
          represent that  wide context of the community of faith.  We are a
          diverse family;  intergenerational, and  including all  races and
          ethnic groups.  This diverse  family of  humankind, as created by
          God, should be accepted and celebrated in the church as community
          and lifted  up in  the presence  of God in love and esteem.  Each
          person should  be able  to celebrate his or her unique self as an
          aspect of  humanness and  as part  of the  discipleship of  God's
          family.   We are members of the one body of Christ.  We recognize




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          our common  need for God and for one another.  In God's family we
          experience different gifts from different people.
          
          Since we  are all different we experience God's call in a variety
          of ways.   Calls  of ministry are not the only kinds of call that
          Christians receive  from God.   A  decision to  join a church, or
          accept a task, or setting aside time for prayer can be a response
          to God.   People hear God's call in different ways and respond in
          different ways.   Each of us needs the help and guidance of other
          Christians in  order to  follow Christ.   Each  person  needs  to
          discover their  gifts and to use them to glorify God and to serve
          others.













































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                             The United Church Of Christ
          
          The United  Church of  Christ was  formally united at the Uniting
          General Synod  of 1957.    This  union  of  The  Evangelical  and
          Reformed  Churches  and  The  Congregational  Christian  Churches
          represents a journey of shared understandings.  The vision of The
          United Church  of Christ  attempts to be a more inclusive church,
          celebrating the  diversity of its people, and acknowledging Jesus
          Christ as its sole Head.  Our unity is in Christ, who is the head
          of the  church as  we attempt  to be  the body  of Christ  in the
          world.
          
          While the  church government  of the  United Church  of Christ is
          generally acknowledged  to be  "congregational" which  insists on
          the scriptural  authority and  autonomy of  individually gathered
          churches,  our  understanding  must  be  broader  to  reveal  the
          fullness of the life and polity which marks the uniqueness of our
          church.   The freedom  of autonomy  of each local church involves
          rights as  well as  responsibilities and  accountabilities.  What
          evolved from  the dreams  of the founders of The United Church of
          Christ was  a  covenantal  model  which  is  ever  growing,  ever
          changing, ever  approaching the  true body of Christ in the world
          as each  new generation struggles with the cost and discovers the
          joy of discipleship.
          
          Understanding our past history is important as well as confusing.
          It is  important because  it helps  us understand  that as  a new
          church we  have roots  in the stream of Christian history.  It is
          confusing because,  we are  not the  sum of  our parts, but a new
          beginning committed  to one  another as  members of  the body  of
          Christ.
          
          Books and  articles from  our history  reflect the  way in  which
          Christianity informed  our culture.   American  women  are  today
          engaged in  the exciting task of rediscovering their own history.
          Antoinette Brown  Blackwell, an  important historical  woman from
          our Congregational  heritage, is an outstanding example for me of
          a woman  who fought  against racism  and sexism  in a world where
          women had  no vote  and little voice.  Today non-whites and women
          still have  to fight for equality in a world that is dominated by
          white males.  Women and minorities continue to live by rules made
          not by  God's hand,  but by  a patriarchal society.  On September
          15, 1853,  overcoming many  obstacles, Antoinette Brown Blackwell
          was the first woman to be ordained in America.  Women today still
          face many obstacles in answering their call to ordained ministry.
          How many churches find it difficult to call a minister who varies
          from the  white male  model?  How is our worship affected by this
          lack of  pluralism in  our pulpits?   What  can we  do to further
          enhance our openness to others?
          
          We live  in a  world that  is a  global community.   We live in a
          pluralistic community  that seeks  to accept  the reality  of the
          various strains in our culture.  We, The United Church of Christ,
          seek in  our unity  to affirm the positive value of the fact that



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          there are  different strains.   And  we strive  to celebrate that
          diversity by respecting the integrity of each group.
          
          The mission  of the  church is to work for justice for all and to
          establish God's  rule in the world.  We must share our faith with
          each other as we gather together in worship. We must support each
          other and help each other as we respond in faith and gratitude to
          God and  to Jesus,  the Christ.   To  be a  Christian is  to be a
          disciple.  Active participation in the life of the church and the
          ministry of  Jesus, the  Christ is  an underlying principle of my
          belief and my understanding of the belief of The United Church of
          Christ.
          
          The mission of the church is to serve God by declaring God's love
          for all  people and  demonstrating that  love by  acts -  acts of
          love, kindness,  and helping.  This is the story we have to tell.
          The Good News - the telling of the Gospel - is that God loves all
          human beings and because God's love is so great, we are compelled
          to tell  that story  -  to  share  that  story  with  all  people
          everywhere.
                                          
          



































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                               Personal Faith Journey
                                          
          I grew  up in  a nuclear  family consisting  of a  nurturing  and
          caring mother  who did not work outside of the home, a father who
          was loving  and  supportive,  an  older  sister,  and  a  younger
          brother.  Since neither of my parents had any siblings and we had
          many great aunts and uncles with no children, my sister, brother,
          and I  grew up  with many adults to care for our emotional needs.
          I always  felt loved  and special,  and grew  up thinking  that I
          could do  or be  whatever I  wished with  the full  support of my
          family.  I believe I am a caring and giving person because of the
          care and  love given to me as a child.  God's love was first made
          evident to me by the love that was shown among my family members.
          
          Economically our family was middle class  and did not suffer from
          having our  basic needs  met.  My parents were not extravagant or
          materialistic and  I can  remember feeling  that we  were somehow
          blessed and fortunate in having the family that we had.
          
          When I think back on my childhood years, I can only remember that
          God was  at the very center of my life.  I loved nature and would
          often take long solitary walks through the fields and woods which
          surrounded my  home.   I felt  God "with  me" and  even though  I
          wasn't living the way God wanted me to, I "knew" somewhere inside
          what God  wanted for  me and  our world.  I didn't understand why
          our world  couldn't be  the way  God wanted  it to  be -  full of
          peace, love,  with justice   for all - when the message seemed so
          clear.  Many times my brother, friends or dolls would be gathered
          together to  sit and  listen while I read from the Bible and then
          interpreted  it   to  them,   most  often  with  fist  held  high
          admonishing them  for their "evil ways" and preaching to them the
          ways of goodness and righteousness.
          
          The church  has always  been an  important part  of my  life.   I
          attended church school regularly as a child and joined the junior
          choir and  fellowship.  Our family was involved in all aspects of
          the life of the church.  It became the place where I could act on
          my beliefs, express my joy of community, and be enabled by others
          to share  my faith.   My family of origin was active and involved
          in our  church and  has continued to be throughout our collective
          lives.  I have been nurtured and cared for by my family, friends,
          and my local church.
          
          As an  adult, I became a member of the Missions Committee, was an
          active Deacon,  and taught  in the Church School.  It was while I
          was the Church School Director that that position was elevated to
          a part-time  paid position  and my gifts were nurtured and lifted
          up as  an important aspect of ministry.  I was also challenged to
          grow through my association with other educators and ministers in
          the Association  of United Church Educators (AUCE).  I became the
          Rhode Island  representative to  New England  AUCE which  further
          broadened my experience.  This experience was influential in  the
          discovery of  my gifts  and in  clarifying my  call  to  ordained
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          In two  of my  previous part time jobs, my need to be helpful and
          of service  to others  was fulfilled.   Working in a library at a
          hospital was  a growing  and rewarding  experience.   I learned a
          great deal  and enjoyed  being part  of the  professional  health
          team.
          
          I was  also part  of a  team in  my other part-time job of Church
          School Director.   I  met weekly  with the  other church staff to
          help coordinate  the program  of the  church.    I  was  directly
          responsible  for  volunteers,  and  coordinated  the  educational
          program for  the children  and youth  of our  church of  over 650
          members.   We had  close to  200 children and youth from birth to
          high school  age in  our church  school.  I especially found that
          being a  part of  the children's growth and faith development was
          most stimulating and satisfying.
          
          My years  of study at Andover Newton Theological School have been
          interesting, rewarding  and stretching.   The  people I  have met
          have been friendly and supportive, and I have felt part of a real
          caring community.   My Clinical Pastoral Education experience was
          illuminating to  me.   Although I  was  attending  seminary,  was
          feeling spiritually  renewed, and  was feeling  called by  God to
          ordained ministry, I had serious doubts as to my abilities and so
          was questioning  my call.   This  was  my  first  opportunity  to
          function as  a pastor and to minister to patients.  It was grand!
          My congregation  for the  summer was  a floor of one of the state
          mental hospitals, housing over fifty men and women, many who were
          there against  their will.   Many  were fearful of their illness,
          afraid that  they might loose their children, and confused by the
          lack of  control in  their life.   I was able to be with them, to
          hold them,  and to  bring God's  presence to  them.   My Clinical
          Pastoral Education  experience makes  it clear  to me  that I  am
          called to a ministry where there is a need for an intersection of
          God's love with God's people.  My ministry includes preparing the
          people of God to reclaim that love.
          
          Within the  church as the body of Christ, I seek to be a servant-
          leader of  those called  to be  about God's  task in  a world  of
          brokenness, alienation,  and suffering.   As an ordained minister
          in the  local church, I would see my role as that of the enabler.
          Since we  are all  called to be the body of Christ, it is fitting
          that we  should  recognize,  understand,  affirm,  encourage  and
          provide guidance  in loving  support to  each other.  We are on a
          faith journey  together and  we are growing toward and are called
          to be a community as we grow and work for the Kingdom of God.
          
          My call  to ordained  ministry has developed over many years with
          the nurture  and love  of people around me and with the knowledge
          that God  is always with me.  Being aware of my gifts and knowing
          my strengths  and weaknesses  is important.   I really care about
          people and can demonstrate and share the love of God with others.
          I love  to lead  worship and  feel that  sermon  preaching  is  a
          growing edge  for me.   I have some good leadership skills and am



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          interested in  learning more about pastoral care and counselling.
          I am  an enabler  and a  perceptive person  who listens  well  to
          others and  helps them  learn to use their gifts.  I wish to help
          others know  God's love  and the  power of  God's Holy  Spirit as
          shown to us through Jesus, the Christ.
          
          The church  throughout history  has been  a people struggling and
          involved with  the faith issues and real life issues of a complex
          world.   Helping people to work through these issues in the light
          of the  Gospel is  a primary task of the church.  I not only want
          to be  a part  of helping  people  to  live  Christianity  as  we
          understand it to be, but I also feel called to leadership in this
          important work of God as shown to us through Jesus, the Christ.












































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447.1I'll go first, I guessCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierTue May 05 1992 00:1989
The future Rev. Francey,

>          We have  a story  to tell!   We,  the people  of God, are part of
>          God's narration.   We all are on a journey and part of my path in
>          that journey will be shared with you here.

I like the exuberance I hear framed in these words.


>          Our story  begins before  recorded time.   "God  calls the worlds
>          into being  ...."   God, being so full of love that creation must
>          flow from God, creates us in God's image.

Outstanding imagery.

>	   My understanding, my insight into who God is and
>          what God  does, my  theology is  an evolving  one.   I believe my
>          faith journey  to be  an ever-growing understanding of God, God's
>          plan for  the world,  and God's will for me.  My hope is for this
>          growth to continue for the rest of my life.

A refreshingly honest and humble self-assessment.

>          We are empowered to be partners in making God's
>          love, justice, and peace visible and real in the world.

Amen!  I just wish more Christians would acknowledge this.
          
>          Ordinary things  like bread and wine are signs of the presence of
>          God.  They are signs that all life is sacred.  There is a mystery
>          in bread.   The  grain has died in the earth, and has borne fruit
>          after its death.  The death yields hundreds of new grains.  Jesus
>          used the  image of bread for himself.  In like manner, Jesus said
>          that when we drink the cup it is in remembrance of him.

Yes!  Nice use of one of Jesus' sayings.

>          One of  the things  we learn  from Jesus  is that the church is a
>          serving community.  Because of Jesus' examples and teachings, the
>          church is involved in service and ministers to persons within and
>          beyond the  worshiping community.

So true.  A church does not exist simply for its own benefit.

>          How many churches find it difficult to call a minister who varies
>          from the  white male  model?  How is our worship affected by this
>          lack of  pluralism in  our pulpits?   What  can we  do to further
>          enhance our openness to others?

Excellent questions!

>                             The United Church Of Christ

>          We live  in a  world that  is a  global community.   We live in a
>          pluralistic community  that seeks  to accept  the reality  of the
>          various strains in our culture.  We, The United Church of Christ,
>          seek in  our unity  to affirm the positive value of the fact that
>          there are  different strains.   And  we strive  to celebrate that
>          diversity by respecting the integrity of each group.

Well put!  Certainly an ideal worth striving for.


>                               Personal Faith Journey
                                          
  
>          active Deacon,  and taught  in the Church School.
          
>          My Clinical Pastoral Education experience was
>          illuminating to  me.

>          Within the  church as the body of Christ, I seek to be a servant-
>          leader

These echo my own experience and background.

Of course, there is little I can say either about the UCC or your personal
faith journey.  I lack expertise in both areas.  I can say that these
portions seem to me to be articulate and thoughtful appraisals (which I
believe is the most beneficial purpose of such an exercise).

As for your theological reflections, I found only positive things to say
and nothing I could punch holes in.

Ron, how much of your interview focused on in what your paper said?  100%?
50%?  10%?

Peace,
Richard
447.2Response to RichardOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Tue May 05 1992 22:1219
    Richard,
    
    Thanks so much for taking the time to thoughtfully read my Ordination
    Paper.  I sometimes lack confidence in myself (and my ability to
    express myself) so your comments make me feel great!  I also don't mind
    constructive criticism, but usually get plenty of that from Ron.
    
    I am happy for you and your congregation that your service went well on
    Sunday.  We also had a great day, as Ron told you.
    
    Well, I'm off to study for my Old Testament Final, which is on Friday. 
    (I'll be glad when that's over!)
    
    Thank you for your kind words.
    
    Shalom,
    
    Dot
    
447.3You're welcome!CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierTue May 05 1992 22:589
Also, I wanted to add that I appreciated your use of inclusive language,
which I noticed in Ron's paper, as well.

I've had to write a statement of faith before and I know that it is no easy
task.  Judging from your paper alone, I'd say that you're as good as
board approved.

Peace,
Richard
447.4CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu May 07 1992 16:4716
    re: 447.1 
    
    >Ron, how much of your interview focused on in what your paper said? 
    >100%?  50%?  10%?

	I guess I was trying to get a feeling for how thoroughly and
severely this document is scrutinized.

	I take it the meeting with the board tends to lean toward the
supportive, rather than the critical.  And I take it that there's no
restrictive formula for conducting the interview with the candidate.

	Might we pose a few questions for Dot like we did for you?

Peace,
Richard
447.5on the examination processOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Thu May 07 1992 17:3534
    Richard,
    
    The paper is presented via mail to each member of the Church & Ministry
    Committee at least two weeks prior to the scheduled meeting.  The
    committee consists of from nine to twelve people, half lay, half
    clergy.  The contents of the paper and the interview are taken very
    seriously as the vote of the committee is binding for all UCC churches
    around the world.
    
    The person's academic credentials, fitness for ordained ministry, sense
    of call (inward, outward, church's affirmation), letters of
    recommendation are all part of the process.  As you may recall
    regarding my ordination paper, I intentionally did not focus my
    theology in a traditional way.  I left an "invitation" for q's based on
    some of my statements.  
    
    Generally, one of my strengths is my interviewing abilities and
    therefor many of the comments made by noters regarding my paper gave me
    cause to reflect on areas of concern noters and therefor, committee
    people, might have.  The comments by noters were invaluble to me as I
    worked thru the preparation process.
    
    By all means, please fire away questions to my spouse.  If you were
    interviewing a candidate for becoming the pastor of your (for us, UCC)
    church, what questions would arise out of the reading of Dot's paper? 
    What has she told you too little about, too inconsistently about?  
    
    You, as a committee member (if that was your role), are voting for the
    whole UCC denomination.  Do you want this person to be ordained?
    
    	Shalom,
    
    	Ron
    
447.6CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu May 07 1992 21:0334
Dot,

	Well, the questions in Note 381.16 would still be applicable.
In addition, here are a few more to ponder:

1.  What do you feel is the most rewarding aspect of serving as an
    ordained minister in the UCC?

2.  What gifts and graces do you bring to the professional ministry?

3.  What do you see as the benefits and potential difficulties of
    serving in a shared ministry?

4.  You seem to have a grasp of the suppressive roles traditionally
    thrust upon women and minorities.  How do you handle situations
    which arise out of that traditional mindset, such as, when you
    sense that someone expects you to defer to your husband even
    though you've both emphasized that yours is a shared ministry?

5.  What awareness do you have of sexual harrassment among women in
    the clergy?

6.  What do you do to prevent "overdoing" for others?

7.  You mentioned your CPE experience.  Having you considered serving as
    a chaplain?  How do you see yourself utilizing this training and
    experience?

8.  Describe in your own words how servant-leadership varies from other
    types of leadership.

    
						Peace,
    						Richard
447.7Update requestedCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistWed Jun 03 1992 00:5011
    Hey Ron!
    
    	How is Dot feeling about the upcoming meeting with the ordination
    review board?  And how (besides proud) are you feeling about your
    spouse's encounter with the board?
    
	Praying that a church for you two to pastor will just fall in
    your laps.

    Peace,
    Richard
447.8on Dot's statusOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Wed Jun 03 1992 13:5851
    Thanks for checking in on us.  Dot seems to be much more low key about
    the upcoming event than I was.  I was off busily working on my paper,
    trying to check out my systematic foundation, trying to find any
    inconsistencies, trying to work on potential questions that might be
    posed.  I received much support from the C-P noters both within the
    notesfile and through direct email.
    
    I am a bit of a worrier, a bit of a person who wants so much to be able
    to present myself well and at the same time present my real self.  I
    like to take time to work toward a goal such as the examination.
    
    Dot is much more at ease with herself, is much more relaxed, is more of
    an introvert than I am.  So, I haven't pushed her to bang away on the
    keyboard to answer your qusetions.  She is a person who reads said
    questions, mulls them over for a long time by herself and then whenever
    she speaks or acts, it is usually with content that delightfully
    surprises me - although I'm becoming less and less surprised!
    
    We received our fourth monthly listing of UCC churches within
    Massachusetts that lists churches currently looking for a pastor(s) and
    hope to fire off profiles to them as soon as the June 10th examination
    is over.  The churches are located in Maynard (next to the Mill!), in
    Clinton, West Boxford and Westboro (or Southboro?).
    
    Most likely, a church will not "fall into our lap" although we surely
    hope that God has a big part in helping to show us where and when the
    call is coming from - and so in this sense, letting go (by me more than
    Dot) and letting God is in a way having a church indeed fall in our
    laps.
    
    This is Dot's last week free from seminary as she will be taking a
    course in medical ethics beginning next week (for two weeks).  Then she
    will be taking her last two courses this fall (her last Old Testament
    and her last ethics courses).
    
    	Shalom,
    
    	Ron
    
    ps: I mentioned in an earlier note that I was going to try to enter the
    Old Testament Final for all who were interested could take.  To be
    honest, my work at Digital has been very stressful for the past few
    months as it is difficult for me to do (technically).  So by the time I
    go home, I'm exhausted.  We've been going to bed around 8:00 to 10:00pm
    and have been using our waking hours catching up on the day.  During
    the weekends, we are now sailing from Friday nights thru Sunday
    evenings - this is our last shot for having this kind of freeedom as
    the church work life doesn't offer two days off in a row, or two days
    off period.  We hope to have a church to pastor before summer is over
    or during the fall at the latest - if this is at all possible.
    
447.9regarding questionsOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Wed Jun 03 1992 19:2624
    Richard,
    
    Thanks for the questions regarding my Ordination Paper and I'm sorry I
    haven't responded.  When I finished school three weeks ago, it felt so
    good just to relax and not think for awhile.  I've been enjoying the
    garden, our new three month old puppy, and catching up on other house
    and personal things that I had let go during school.  I've also been
    trying to get ahead on some of my reading for the Medical Ethics course
    I'll be taking the next two weeks.
    
    Your questions have given me some very good areas to think about, both
    for when I go before the Church and Ministry Committee and for when Ron
    and I go into ministry together.  Thank you for them.  I hope it is ok
    with you that I use them for my own personal value instead of
    officially answering them in this notes file.  As Ron responded to you
    in the previous note, our lives have been rather busy lately and I
    don't have the energy for writing more at this time.
    
    Thanks for your warm wishes for our future - it means alot!
    
    Shalom,
    
    Dot
    
447.10CARTUN::BERGGRENheart full of songThu Jun 04 1992 02:2910
    It's nice to hear from you Dot, and that you're having the time now to 
    relax and enjoy the other important things in your life. :-)  I'm still
    plugging away at my thesis; I feel very good about it, though I have 
    about 6 weeks to go. 8^/
    
    Wishing you and Ron the very best!
    
    Shalom,
    
    Karen
447.11CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistTue Jun 09 1992 02:487
    Ron,
    
    	I'll be keeping you and Dot blanketed with prayer all through
    this coming Wednesday.
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
447.12Thanks for prayersOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Tue Jun 09 1992 14:2217
    Thanks, Richard!  Frankly, I'm swetting and she's doing fine!  It
    wasn't until last night when we finally found out what time she's going
    to be examined.  I had called the chair of the C&M Committee about a
    half dozen times over the past few days without making contact and
    without a returned message.  Anyway, she's on for 2:00pm.
    
    Dot's off doing things other than what I'd be doing at this time.  She
    just began a course in Med'l Ethics and is presenting this WEDNESDAY
    (!!!) on recent developments on contraception and abortion.
    
    I dreamed last night on Creation, the Fall, Sin, Evil, Death, Christ,
    Salvation, Consummation ...  She snored!
    
    	Shalom,
    
    	Ron
    
447.13yip-yip-hooray!OLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Thu Jun 11 1992 18:2711
    Yeah!!!  Hurrah!!! Whoopee!!! Son-of-a gun!!! Super!!!  What-a
    way-to-go-Dot!!!
    
    NOW, GET BUSY WRITING THAT PROFILE!!!  (whoops!  me, too!)
    
    	Shalom,
    
    	Ron
    
    ps: I hope Dot posts some comments!
    
447.14Atta-woman!!!ATSE::FLAHERTYWings of fire: Percie and meThu Jun 11 1992 18:575
    Three cheers for Dot.  That is wonderful news.  If the church turns out
    to be close by, we would love to attend a service some time.
    
    Ro
    
447.15Praise God from whom all blessings flowCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistThu Jun 11 1992 21:294
    Sincerest congratulations to Dot!
    
    Shalom,
    Richard
447.16CARTUN::BERGGRENheart full of songFri Jun 12 1992 00:534
    That's terrific Dot!  Congratulations!  Now maybe *you* can sleep
    a little easier Ron. :-)
    
    Karen
447.17Thanks, comments next weekOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Fri Jun 12 1992 10:5426
    Thanks for your "congrats" for Dot.  She's off to class early this am
    and then we're off sailing for the weekend.  Dot said she'd like to
    comment about her "day" early next week.
    
    We're going to meet my youngest daughter and her husband in Portland,
    ME early this evening (and her inlaws) and go together to a "Christian
    Concert", then out for pizza and then to the boat.  Saturday, we're
    taking everyone out for a day-sail and a barbeque.  Sounds like fun!
    
    My daughter and her husband belong (actively) to the Church of the
    Nazerene.  I don't know much about their tradition but I may get a good
    indoctrination (and maybe lots of hand waving and "Praise the Lord") by
    evening's end.  I'm a little uncomfortable, well, actually a little
    more than a little, with outward demonstrations like handwaving -hmmm- yet,
    I'm very comfortable within the black traditional "yes, Jesus, yes, yes" and
    "amen".  Maybe I feel this way because one seems more personal and more
    an act of devotion and the other seems too showy, too much like "see, I 
    praise Jesus".
    
    Pardon my rambling, I'm still just kind of bubbling over Dot's great
    day!
    
    	Shalom,
    
    	Ron
    
447.18OFFSHR::PAY$FRETTSFri Jun 12 1992 12:408
    
    
    Ron,
    
    Please also add my congratulations for Dot......and enjoy your weekend
    on the water!
    
    Carole
447.19now that's an idea!OLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Fri Jun 12 1992 12:575
    Now that's pretty neat.  Imagine, one day a few days ago passing the
    ordination exam and then just a few days later "on the water"! - 
    
    glug, glug - oh me, of little faith  ;-)
    
447.20Thank youOLDTMR::FRANCEYM/L&CE SECG dtn 223-5427 pko3-1/d18Mon Jun 15 1992 19:5732
    I want to thank all (especially Richard, Ro, Karen, and Carole who
    wrote congrats to me) for your prayers and good wishes over my meeting
    with The Church and Ministry Committee last Wednesday.  It was a good
    experience and a "User friendly" one too.
    
    People asked me questions that were framed in a supportive way and were
    aimed at information gathering rather than at trying to "catch" me on
    some theory of doctrine or theology.  Richard, your questions about
    our shared ministry were on target as people wanted to know how I
    envisioned that to be and what might be some of the problems.  Someone
    else wanted to know how I felt about giving sermons every week etc.  I
    was asked about the UCC Statement of Faith since I had used that as an
    outline for the theology part of the paper.
    
    Since I've known most of the people on the committee for some time
    (Rhode Island is a small state and I've been active in my church for
    many years), everyone was very supportive and commented on the growth
    they have seen over the years.
    
    When I reentered the room after leaving so that they could deliberate
    on my session with them, they applauded and I received hugs and smiles
    all around.  A minister next to me said, "Go for it, Dot!"  I sang in
    the car all the way home.  And there was Ron waiting on our front steps
    with a pot of flowers and a big sign on the garage door saying
    "Congrats"  So he did have confidence in me after all.
    
    Thanks again.  You all feel like friends (and I know you are).
    
    Shalom,
    
    (One step closer to being Reverend)
    Dot
447.21We are blessed by your presenceCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace ReservistMon Jun 15 1992 21:537
Dot and Ron,

	I'm very happy for you both and honored to have you as part of
the CHRISTIAN-PERSPECTIVE noting community.

Shalom,
Richard