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Title:Discussions from a Christian Perspective
Notice:Prostitutes and tax collectors welcome!
Moderator:CSC32::J_CHRISTIE
Created:Mon Sep 17 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1362
Total number of notes:61362

367.0. "Love and the Christmas Spirit" by CSC32::J_CHRISTIE (On a peaceable crusade) Wed Dec 18 1991 16:48

    Crossposted with permission of the author.
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TNPUBS::PAINTER "let there be music"                 53 lines  17-DEC-1991 14:51
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Hi everybody,

Rama Karedla contacted me the other day with a suggestion for expressing
Love during this Christmas season.  Since it sounded so good, I thought
you all might be interested in participating too.

There are two ideas.  In several correspondences from Rama to me, 
they are:

1. I feel like sending christmas cards saying "i love you" to the 25 
   most hated people in America.. People that come to my mind are 
   Leona Helmsley, Jim and Tammy Bakker (of PTL), Pamela Smart, 
   Imelda Marcos, etc.

   A friend of mine also suggested that i include people that may
   be feeling unloved..For example, people on the death row..
   I think that's a great idea...They are divine beings and carry 
   the Divine light in them.

   I was wondering if you could suggest some more names and if possible, 
   help me scout around for their addresses too.. I would really 
   appreciate this..

   The goal is to send christmas cards to persons perceived as being
   the most hated, as well as those that possibly have a lot of hate
   in their hearts because of life's experiences..I was thinking of
   saying we recognize them as embodiments of the Divine, that they 
   are a part of us and they are loved by us and by our Creator. 
   Just something to tell them they are loved without any preaching...

   Let's make this our joint project !
   As a matter of fact we could ask people to join in; They could 
   either send cards directly or we could sign their names on their 
   behalf on the cards we will be mailing.
   what do you think... ?

2. Another thing each of us could perhaps do is to send a christmas 
   card to a person we have a negative reaction to, or who has some 
   form of negativity or dislike towards us.
   This way we cleanse ourselves and 
   contribute to our own peace by taking a step towards forgiving 
   ourselves.. Perhaps some people may prefer this.. 

So, what do you all think?  If you'd like to contact either of us
offline, please do so.  Rama can be reached at STARCH::RAMAKR.

If you can provide names and addresses for the people who fall 
under the first suggestion, please do so, and reply in this note 
topic.

Cindy

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367.1Of well known peopleCSC32::J_CHRISTIEOn a peaceable crusadeWed Dec 18 1991 17:0917
A few suggestions for the most "unlovable" in the U.S. Christmas Card list:

	o  Manuel Noriega

	o  Geraldo Rivera

	o  Jimmy Swaggart

	o  Jeffrey Dahmer

	o  Madeline Murray O'Hare

	o  Board of Directors of the ACLU

	o  The American Nazi Party

					Richard
367.2CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierThu Dec 19 1991 00:1230
Classifications or groupings of persons most frequently perceived
as contemptible, disgraceful, shiftless, perverse, bitchy, whiney,
pitiful and/or lost:

	o  Welfare or ADC recipients

	o  The overweight, especially overweight women

	o  Gays, lesbians, bisexuals

	o  Outspoken women

	o  Americans who refuse to pledge allegiance to the flag

	o  The elderly, especially those on a fixed income

	o  Ambitious and/or aggressive women

	o  Pacifists, war resisters

	o  Satanists

	o  Whistleblowers

	o  The chronically ill

	o  Secular humanists


					Richard
367.3A few more for the Christmas card listCSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierSat Dec 21 1991 18:1918
	o	Roseanne Barr Arnold, especially since her stylization of the
		national anthem.  She's also an overweight, outspoken, and
		ambitious woman (see list in .2).

	o	Jane Fonda, who can't seem to be able to escape her image as
		a traitor.

	o	Lynden LeRouche

	o	Charles Manson

	o	Richard Nixon

	o	Rev. Sun Myung Moon


						Peace,
						Richard
367.4Another Light in the world!ATSE::FLAHERTYThat's enough for me...Mon Dec 23 1991 13:2012
    Hi Richard,
    
    I would send Roseaane Barr Arnold a Christmas card, but not for because
    she is hated.  Instead for the wonderful work she is doing with adults
    and children who are victims of incestual abuse.  I heard her speak 
    recently on Oprah about her own childhood and the abuse she suffered.
    The work she is doing is inspirational and she has a large following of
    admirers because of it.  It took courage for her to speak out as she
    has.  Three cheers to Roseanne, poor singing voice et al.
    
    Ro
    
367.5CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierMon Dec 23 1991 17:279
    I personally bear no ill will against any celebrity I've listed.
    I am opposed, I confess, to many of the actions and the mindsets
    of Oliver North, George Bush, Pat Robertson and Jerry Falwell.
    
    The people I really have a problem liking have never reached celebrity
    status.  No use in posting their names.  No one would recognize them.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
367.6AKOCOA::FLANAGANwaiting for the snowFri Dec 27 1991 15:347
    Richard,
    
    I find myself in several of those groupings that you identifies in .2
    as the most despised.  What does this mean?
    
    
    pat
367.7CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierFri Dec 27 1991 18:3710
    Re: .6
    
    Pat,
    
    	I find myself in several of those groupings, also!  I think it
    makes us more difficult for some people to love.  I think it makes us
    less likely to be universally popular.
    
    Peace,
    Richard
367.8Hating and loving simultaneously?BUFFER::CIOTOMon Dec 30 1991 17:4222
    Cindy,
    
    How can one send a card to someone one hates?  Doesn't that smack of
    hypocrisy?   Wouldn't it be better to send a card when we no longer
    harbor hatred toward, and genuinely forgive, said hated person?
    
    I sent a Christmas card to my ex, after a year and a half of non-
    communication, to demonstrate 'no hard feelings.'  A simple note, 
    with best wishes for health/happiness.  I feel I hold ample forgiveness 
    in my heart at this point -- even after what this monstrous person DID 
    to me!  ;) ;) -- and hope that it is a genuine gesture.
    
    St. Paul
    
    P.S.  I admit I can't muster up much love/forgiveness in my heart for
    people like Jimmy Swaggart -- people who, in the name of God, dupe and rip
    off the general public.   Any advice?
    
    Richard, re:  Your groupings.  Who the hell DOESN'T belong to one or
    more of these groups!?  ;)   All of us seem to be hated by SOMEONE for
    SOME reason at any given moment in our lives!
                                                
367.9CSC32::J_CHRISTIEPeace: the Final FrontierMon Dec 30 1991 18:2121
>    How can one send a card to someone one hates?

It's a real stretch, isn't it?

>   Doesn't that smack of hypocrisy?

Only if you don't mean it.

>   Wouldn't it be better to send a card when we no longer
>   harbor hatred toward, and genuinely forgive, said hated person?

This seems to be a worthwhile exercise, as well.

>   Richard, re:  Your groupings.  Who the hell DOESN'T belong to one or
>   more of these groups!?  ;)   All of us seem to be hated by SOMEONE for
>   SOME reason at any given moment in our lives!

Good point!  What does that say about the nature of hate?

Peace,
Richard
367.10A bit of a diversion, but...LJOHUB::NSMITHrises up with eagle wingsTue Dec 31 1991 10:1831
|>    How can one send a card to someone one hates?
|
|It's a real stretch, isn't it?
|
|>   Doesn't that smack of hypocrisy?
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|Only if you don't mean it.
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|>   Wouldn't it be better to send a card when we no longer
|>   harbor hatred toward, and genuinely forgive, said hated person?
|
|This seems to be a worthwhile exercise, as well.
    
    
    Changing *behavior* can lead to changed feelings.  Many of our laws,
    such as integrating schools, are enacted before we "feel like
    associating with *them*."  If we are never forced to *behave*
    differently, there is much less motive to change our feelings and
    attitudes.
    
    Someone once said that the best way to make an enemy your friend is to
    ask him for a favor!  If he grants that favor, it will be much less
    difficult for him to continue to be as strong an enemy!  (Kind of the
    reverse of "heaping coals of fire" in Romans.)
    
    Anyway, it's all part of the same picture, IMO... (Not that I would
    be the least inclined to send a card to some public figure I dislike...
    but I might consider sending one to someone from whom I was personally
    estranged...)
    
    Nancy