Conference hydra::dejavu

2035.0. "Dream Interpretation: Death, and wedding" by EISYFI::ISLER () Thu Mar 02 1995 14:09

    It has been a long time since I visited this notes file. 
    
    But today is the day. What I dreamt last night really starting
    bothering me. I am hoping for a different interpretation than mine.
    
    As a background, my father passed away 3 months ago. My mother died 5+
    years ago. Through both ordeals, my sister and I helped each other out
    a lot. Especially the last one had been quite draining on us. We are
    very close, and I am also very close with my 8 year old niece.
    
    - A few weeks ago I had a dream in which I knew that my sister would die
    soon. I was very upset of course. I could not believe that I would be
    able to live after loosing her, but I thought of my 8 year old niece;
    and decided in the dream that I should live for my niece when something
    happens to my sister.
    
    - A few days later I had a dream in which my niece was already dead. It
    was quite upsetting as well.
    
    In real life - The three of us went to vacation last week, I had to
    return back last Sunday. They are to stay there until Saturday.
    
    - Last night, I had a dream in which my sister was having her wedding.
    Actually the marriage ceremony was already done apparently, and she was
    married by the time my dream started. 
    She was all dressed in white, including a little white scarf tossed
    over her head. We were in a big hall, and there were also other people
    all dressed in white who were getting married. The funny thing is my
    brother-in-law was not there, my sister was alone, yet she had gotten
    married to him (in the dream). My niece was next to me, and we were
    facing my sister. My sister was standing against a desk. 
    I wanted to take my sister's photograph, even though her husband (the
    groom) was not there. She did not want me to take her picture, and she 
    was almost mad.
    
    As we speak, my sister is vacationing in the caribbeans with my niece.
    Her husband is back here. My sister was supposed to call me last
    night, but she hasn't. I remembered this morning that my sister dreamed
    of my mother (or my grandmother, I can't remember now) in a white
    wedding gown the night she had died. In the moslem religion (our
    heritage), the dead is buried in a pure white cloth.
    
    Now is a bad time to call the hotel they are staying. Because they
    would be normally outside, and can't be reached. So, I am getting
    extremely worried with my interpretation of these dreams. 
    
    What do you make of them?
    
    Yasemin  
    

    I think it's very important to note that now and in your dream your
    sister is physically separated from your brother-in-law.  I think
    you're just worried about your sister and niece as they travel without
    him. Are you uneasy about air travel? Is she?
    	Dreaming their deaths and her wedding is just probably your mind
    worrying about all the what ifs...if anything happened to them.
    Weddings and funerals recall to us some of our strongest "family group"
    emotional times.
    	Call her tonight and remind her to wear sunblock.   BillM