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Conference misery::feline_v1

Title:Meower Power is Valuing Differences
Notice:FELINE_V1 is moving 1/11/94 5pm PST to MISERY
Moderator:MISERY::VANZUYLEN_RO
Created:Sun Feb 09 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 11 1994
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:5089
Total number of notes:60366

2572.0. "House-hold war!" by UTROP1::RUEDISUELI () Wed Jun 14 1989 12:22

    
    I need some help on the following:
    
    Last August I got another cat (a kitten actually) to keep
    my other cat company. 
    
    Cocktail got along fine with Christy (kitten) even if  Christy
    was a little bit wild for her. But since a few months Christy
    has taken to attacking Cocktail for no apparent reason.
    At first I thought it was a new game they invented but it isn't
    funny anymore.
    
    Cocktail can't eat in peace, is jumped on when she's asleep and
    attacked when she's walking around the house. She's even taken to
    sleeping on top of my bedroom cupboard.
    
    What's going on? Things used to be so peaceful!
    
    I don't want to take sides but if it comes to separation, Christy
    will have to go. But I'd rather avoid taking that decision.
    
    Please help!
    
    Caroline
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2572.1VAXWRK::SKALTSISDebWed Jun 14 1989 17:423
    Are your cats "fixed"?
    
    Deb
2572.2CRUISE::NDCTake my cat...PLEASEWed Jun 14 1989 17:506
    If they're not fixed - especially if Christie is male - that
    may have alot to do with their behavior.  Males especially can
    become very aggressive when they mature.  Neutering them can
    solve the problem.
      Nancy DC
    
2572.3girls can get pushy tooIOWAIT::WILDEAsk yourself..am I a happy cow?Wed Jun 14 1989 23:329
>    If they're not fixed - especially if Christie is male - that
>    may have alot to do with their behavior.  Males especially can
>    become very aggressive when they mature.  Neutering them can
>    solve the problem.

I have also seen it happen in young females when they "mature" and start
challenging as "top cat".....maybe a trip to the vet is in order?
    

2572.4.UTROP1::RUEDISUELIThu Jun 15 1989 07:0910
    
    Both of them are female and both of them are fixed.
    
    I thought cats calmed down a lot after they were fixed,
    but Christy seems to get more agressive every day. 
    
    Could it be a matter of "challenging the top-cat", I thought
    only males concerned themselves with that?
    
    Caroline
2572.5CRUISE::NDCTake my cat...PLEASEThu Jun 15 1989 11:275
    re: "I thought only males concerned themselves with that"
    
    THAT is 3/4 of the problems we've had with Tymothee!  Isis,
    Mao & Bumpy got really upset by the new cat in their territory!
    Dundee never cared and he's the neutered male.
2572.6mine have a definite "pecking order"CADSYS::RICHARDSONThu Jun 15 1989 16:1914
    My two former-female kitties have a definite "pecking" order.  The
    little cat (Nebula, my half-Siamese) is in charge, unless she gets too
    far out of line.  If she does, my big cat (JFCL, white with black spots
    and about 6 months older than her companion) will give her a swat on
    the nose as if Neb were still a kitten.  Things were pretty panicky for
    the first few weeks after I got Neb, though, until the two of them got
    themselves straightened out.  I think that The Fickle at first did not
    realize that Neb was a small CAT, as opposed to some other kind of
    small, potentially dangerous, animal - she had never seen a cat younger
    than she was (an old, non-fixed tomcat had come with the house, so she
    was used to him - he eventually vanished, probably the loser in some fight
    - my (ex-)husband would never let me get that cat fixed because he was
    a tom).  They did better after that. Neb became the leader when she was
    close to full-grown; she is much more aggressive like most Siamese.
2572.7PENUTS::PENNINGTONWhere have all the SeaGulls gone?Fri Jun 30 1989 16:559
    Absotively, she is establishing her self as Boss-cat.
    I have two cats about seven years old, both spayed females.  The
    smallest one who has extra claws has established that when food
    is given she eats first.  The other cat, a larger mackeral striped
    tabby sits and waits until the other one is finished.
    
    The smaller cat is also very picky about who the other cat selects
    for a male companion.  She has chased away several of the cats who
    come calling.