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323.0. "The AIDS topic" by SX4GTO::OLSON (Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto) Wed Mar 01 1995 22:39

    The Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) topic.
    
    Discuss AIDS and/or the HIV virus associated with it as it affects your
    lives and those around you, the arts, your community, and public
    policy.
    
    DougO
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323.1SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Mar 01 1995 22:4150
    Study Confirms Drug Epidemic Is Top AIDS Worry
    / Addicts largest group of new HIV infections 
    
    
    Gina Kolata 
    
    The AIDS epidemic, continuing its demographic evolution, is becoming
    ever more closely tied to the drug epidemic, a new study shows. 
    
    Not only are intravenous drug users becoming infected, but so are crack
    addicts and other drug abusers, many of whom are women. 
    
    An extensive, unpublished analysis by researchers at the federal
    Centers for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta has found that
    nearly three-quarters of last year's 40,000 new infections with HIV,
    the virus that causes AIDS, were among addicts. 
    
    Many of the addicts are IV drug users who share infected needles, but
    an increasing number are crack addicts who are contracting the AIDS
    virus through unprotected sex, often with multiple partners. Men and
    women alike often go on binges, having sex with many partners in
    exchange for crack or the money to buy it. ``Maybe as much as half of
    the new infections among heterosexuals are occurring in relation to
    crack cocaine,'' said Dr. Scott Holmberg, a CDC epidemiologist who
    conducted the study. 
    
    Data and analyses from the CDC show that the people diagnosed with AIDS
    in 1993, the most recent year for which statistics on the disease are
    available, are a very different group from those the 1994 statistics
    show are now being infected with the virus. Development of AIDS
    generally occurs about a decade after infection. 
    
    Of those whose new diagnosis of AIDS occurred in 1993 -- who were
    probably mostly infected in the early to mid-1980s -- about half were
    gay men and a little more than a quarter were intravenous drug users.
    Fewer than 10 percent were heterosexuals. The remaining cases were
    hemophiliacs and gay men who injected drugs. 
    
    Now, in his analysis of national data for new HIV infections in 1994,
    Holmberg finds a very different pattern, which is continuing this year.
    Only a quarter of the most recent infections are in gay men. About half
    of the new infections are among drug users who shared needles. And
    about a quarter are heterosexually transmitted. 
    
    Holmberg said 70 percent to 80 percent of people who are getting HIV
    infections through heterosexual transmission are women, and the
    majority of those are women who had sex with men who got infected when
    they injected drugs. 
    
    Published 2/28/95 in SF Chronicle
323.2... for the sake of discussion: CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Mar 01 1995 22:592
    	People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated
    	in AIDS hospices.
323.3SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Mar 01 1995 23:069
      <<< Note 323.2 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated
>    	in AIDS hospices.

Joe,	You are so full of [colloquial term for excrement] that it amazes
	me that any of your co-workers can stand the smell.

Jim
323.4SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Mar 01 1995 23:076
       <<< Note 323.0 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>


	It cost me a brother.

Jim
323.5SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Mar 01 1995 23:114
    I'm sorry to hear it, Jim.  While I know several people with AIDS, I
    haven't lost anyone near and dear.  Yet.
    
    DougO
323.6LJSRV2::KALIKOWTechnoCatalystThu Mar 02 1995 00:442
    My sympathies too, Jim.
    
323.7MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Mar 02 1995 00:555
My sympathies as well, Jim.

Joe,
   Are you actually so obtuse as to genuinely mean that?

323.8MPGS::MARKEYMother is the invention of necessityThu Mar 02 1995 03:3415
    Well, we're talking about about someone who thinks it's
    a hoot to equate homosexuals and pedophiles, so the
    equation here is skewed.
    
    As for AIDS, I have known its victims, and it is horrible.
    The most difficult part for me has been looking into the
    face of people my age or younger than myself and seeing
    a disease which makes them look very old. AIDS is an
    ugly mirror to look into, and I have nothing but the
    deepest heartfelt sympathy for anyone with this disease,
    regardless of how they got it.
    
    -b
    (who, frankly, is bordering on PO'd at some of the mean and
     hateful garbage he reads here.)                
323.9JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 02 1995 03:386
    I heard a report that aids is rising in teenagers today and that they
    believe that it is being transmitted through =kissing=. 
    
    Anybody else heard this?
    
    
323.10Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Thu Mar 02 1995 03:554
    Nancy,
    
    I had herd something along those lines to. They have always contested
    that it can not be transmitted by saliva (sp?) though....
323.11SUBPAC::SADINOne if by LAN, two if by CThu Mar 02 1995 10:396
    
    
    	My family doctor is dying of aids (he has left his practice since
    being diagnosed).
    
    jim
323.12Hideous disease.GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Mar 02 1995 11:279
    
      An aquaintance recently died of it - I didn't know he was gay.
    
      What an absolutely apalling way to die !  As bad as cancer, and I
     have had numerous friends die horribly in pain from that.
    
      Bring back heart attacks !
    
      bb
323.13SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 11:3332

	A sincere thanks for the kind sentiments.

	David was the best and the brightest of us. The first one in 
	our family to achieve a graduate degree. Talented in his chosen
	profession. Respected by his peers, loved by his friends and
	mourned by all those who knew him.

	He was the Technical Director of the Houston Opera when	he died.
	The only show of his that I ever saw was the memorial performance
	that the Company invited us to the day after he died. I had not
	realized, up to that point, just how talented David was. He was 
	responsible for those little things in a show that, if done REALLY
	well, you never notice. Lighting effects, sound, etc. 

	I was with him when he died. after having spent 3 weeks watching
	him suffer the effects of ever progressive pneumocystitis. Talking
	to the doctors with my Mother (a R.N.), knowing that there was
	nothing they could do (this was pre AZT). 

	David contracted the disease at a time before AIDS even had a name,
	long before anyone had heard the term HIV, but it killed him
	nonetheless.

	Today the NIH is still searching for treatement. A report this morning
	talks about the use of interluekin therapy that can double the white
	blood cell counts of those that are HIV+. It doesn't help Dave, but
	hopefully it will prevent some other person from suffering the
	horrible death that he experienced.

Jim
323.14POLAR::RICHARDSONAlledged DegirdificationThu Mar 02 1995 11:364
    AIDS is terrible.

    One good thing about it though is that it's a virus. Eventually it will
    be possible to control it.
323.15GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA member in good standingThu Mar 02 1995 11:596
    
    
    Sorry to hear about your brother, Jim.  He sounds like he was a
    wonderful person.  
    
    Mike
323.16ROWLET::AINSLEYLess than 150 kts. is TOO slow!Thu Mar 02 1995 12:053
Joe,

You ceased to amaze me a long time ago, but ...
323.17POBOX::BATTISContract StudmuffinThu Mar 02 1995 12:456
    
    joe, you sound like you need to be quarantined, from the rest of us.
    I don't know of anybody with Aids or related diseases, but it
    definitely is a hideous disease.
    
    Mark
323.18NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Mar 02 1995 12:454
>    One good thing about it though is that it's a virus. Eventually it will
>    be possible to control it.

Explain.
323.19BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 13:1710
| <<< Note 323.2 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| People with AIDS should be quarrantined or at least isolated in AIDS hospices.

	I'm trying to figure out if he means it, or if he is just trying to get
some sort of reaction out of the crowd. One never knows for sure with someone
who stated that notes is a game to him.


Glen
323.20POLAR::RICHARDSONAlledged DegirdificationThu Mar 02 1995 13:1814
    A vaccine.

    Look at what was done to the small pox virus. It now only exists in a
    container at the center for disease control in Atlanta.

    Now, if it was possible for people to be a little, or a lot, more careful 
    about sex and intravenous drug use, AIDS would even be easier to control.

    It's not like cancer, the AIDS virus can be controlled to a certain extent 
    now in that we know how it's transmitted. Imagine if it was an airborne
    virus, or transmitted by touch or ingestion? We'd all be dead.


    Glenn
323.21NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Mar 02 1995 13:222
From what I've heard, HIV has a remarkable ability to mutate.  I don't believe
this is the case with smallpox.
323.22CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 13:339

 Just out of curiousity, what is the big problem with using quarantine for
 AIDs victims?




 Jim
323.23Not a logical response.GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Mar 02 1995 13:377
    
    Because, Jim, it isn't a contagious disease.  And isolation cannot
    be a good for treating people who are terribly depressed.
    
    Quarantine is only justified if the disease is "catching".
    
      bb
323.24POLAR::RICHARDSONAlledged DegirdificationThu Mar 02 1995 13:531
    If the AIDS virus was an airborne type, they'd be quarantined.
323.25MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 13:5620
    ZZ    Well, we're talking about about someone who thinks it's
    ZZ    a hoot to equate homosexuals and pedophiles, so the
    ZZ    equation here is skewed.
    
    NO NO NO think damit!!  See, this pisses me off.  First of all, I was
    the one who brought up the pedophile issue here.  Secondly, I was
    equating pedophilia with predispositions.  I wasn't saying that all
    homosexuals can not control themselves as a pedophile can't.  This is
    what you implied above and I resent this because you are using this as
    a toll for miscommunicating my intent.   Homosexuals have a
    predisposition toward attraction to their own gender.  The argument was
    that this is OK.  I was merely stating that pedophiles have a
    predisposition to children.  We all know this is not good.  The bottom
    line is just because something comes naturally to a person DOESN'T
    necessarily make it okay, good, or moral.  The way you worded it above,
    you twisted this point to make it sound like I was saying homosexuals
    are uncontrollable sexaholics like pedophiles are.  What were you
    thinking about here?!
    
    -Jack
323.26MPGS::MARKEYMother is the invention of necessityThu Mar 02 1995 14:1814
    Jack,
    
    Calm down, I wasn't talking to you. I was talking to Joe, who
    made it a point to mention that he enjoyed taking a poke at
    Glen with the pedophilia analogy (look in 56. from yesterday).
    
    It wasn't the analogy that I was responding to, it was the idea
    that in order to game some "points" in the debate around here,
    anything goes, even cruelty. This is an extremely sad commentary
    on this conference, extremely sad. Sadder still, in that it
    frequently comes from those who are supposedly under the guidance
    of the Holy Spirit.
    
    -b
323.27CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantThu Mar 02 1995 14:2113
    RE: Kissing and AIDs.  
    
    The question is whether or not saliva is the carrier.  I can see where
    two younsters in the heat of teen passion cut themselves on their
    braces drawing blood or some similar mechanism.  Then again it could
    be a rumor started by the keep the chidren chaste crowd.  
    
    RE: .2 
    
    If this was a wind up, it's in bad taste IMO.  I strongly disagree with
    the opinion but am open to hearing the rationale.  
    
    Brian
323.28CASDOC::HEBERTCaptain BlighThu Mar 02 1995 14:3637
re: .23

Therein lies the problem.

> Because, Jim, it isn't a contagious disease. 
 
False. The CDC (and respected medical centers) found - and reported - the
conditions under which it can be communicated, which include simply
transmitting body fluids from one who is afflicted, onto mucous membranes
of another person.

The variables include the viability of the virus during the time of
communication. In other words, if someone coughs in your face, can the
virus live in the air (what temp, humidity...) between you and the person
in front of you? Common cold germs certainly can.

 >And isolation cannot be a good for treating people who are terribly
 >depressed.
 
If the world had always followed this liberal line of thought, man would
have died off (like Dutch Elms and other living things that have
succumbed to disease) from tuberculosis or leprosy. But calmer heads
prevailed, and highly communicable diseases were treated in isolation.

My sons caught mumps at the same time. So, instead of isolating them in
their bedroom, I should have minimized their depression by staying with
them and conducting family business as usual, and just cluck-clucked when
the inevitable happened, and I caught it from them? Too bad, what happens
when an adult male catches mumps. You don't want to make the boys feel
bad. (Do I hear Barney in this?)

The political correctness of AIDS says that we're not supposed to expect
-or force- carriers to alter their behavior. So, despite the knowledge
that we do have have a cure, we also give up any chance of controlling
the spread.

Art
323.29WMOIS::GIROUARD_CThu Mar 02 1995 14:434
    i read somewhere that there is no confirmed case that was caused by
    simple saliva exchange...
    
    Chip
323.30GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA member in good standingThu Mar 02 1995 14:498
    
    It's the confirmed case thing that bothers a lot of people.  Some of
    the fear is irrational and some of it is not.  Anyone who thinks the
    government is telling us everything about this and other things (IMO)
    is foolish.  
    
    
    Mike  
323.31Would you quarentine your KID!BRAT::MINICHINOThu Mar 02 1995 14:5315
    So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will 
    "quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS. You guys need some serious
    help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease. Instead
    of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
    and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!! 
    
    God help you if your infant needs a transfusion, God help you if you do 
    too..I hope YOUR not judged too harshly when that happens. LIVE with
    AIDs or the ravages of it, then tell me you'll quarentine them....
    
    give it a rest. Ignorance is obviously something you cure. Learn
    alittle about the disease, because ignorance and fear could kill you or
    a loved one. Would YOU take that chance.
    
    
323.32POBOX::BATTISContract StudmuffinThu Mar 02 1995 14:554
    
    <-------- calm down friend, its only joe who believes in quarantine
    
    Mark
323.33JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 02 1995 15:0219
    .31
    
    Emotionalism.
    
    You tell me would you be happy if your child infected another?
    
    I wouldn't.  I'd rather keep my child at home and away from other
    children especially at the younger age where biting is common.  If I
    had a baby at this time, there is absolutely NO WAY I'd take my child
    to a community daycare.  
    
    The mothers don't even have to tell their daycare parents that the
    child is HIV +.  And if they do, the daycare mother CANNOT reject
    caring for them on that basis... nor can the daycare mother tell other
    mothers that she's caring for a child who is HIV+.
    
    Something's wrong with this.
    
    
323.34CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 15:0219


RE:                     <<< Note 323.31 by BRAT::MINICHINO >>>
                      -< Would you quarentine your KID! >-

   >    help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease. Instead
   > of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
   > and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!! 
    

    Who said anything about judging anybody?




    Jim    
    

323.35MPGS::MARKEYMother is the invention of necessityThu Mar 02 1995 15:0520
    Well gosh by golly, if we're gonna do this quarantine thing,
    we better get going on it right now, because there's
    a potential incubation period of 5 to 10 years and, well,
    we better make sure we separate them all out now... of
    course, if they've contracted the virus in the last six
    months we have no test to even detect its presence so we'll
    have to keep testing them.
    
    Oh, and let's start with those grandmothers who had hip
    replacements, or those athletes that had orthopedic surgery,
    ' cause it just so happens that many of them may have been
    given tainted bone material; seems they use crushed bone
    matter or bone parts in such surgery and the companies
    that supply it weren't always dilligent about checking
    their sources.
    
    Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
    evil people, the lot of them.
    
    -b
323.36CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 15:1110

    
>    Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
>    evil people, the lot of them.
    
 


 Who the heck has said anything about "sinful" anything?
323.37didn't mean to generalize.BRAT::MINICHINOThu Mar 02 1995 15:1736
    re. Nancy, 
    
    No as a matter of fact I wouldn't like my Infant in a daycare where
    your child could be bitting her/him. So this is the deal.. you quarentine 
    your infant and tell me what it's like. If my kid has AIDS they are
    well past the HIV infection. I would keep them home for their last
    days. 
    You quarentine your child..
    
    Different histeria I guess. I would give my child the best protection I
    could, because they would be more apt to catch something from another
    child if they are HIV + because of the decreased immune system. 
    
    
    .34
    
    you don't think separating someone from others because of their disease
    is making a judgement. Wake up, before people knew what cancer was,
    they separated them too. My mother has terminal cancer, would you have
    separated her from her family say.....20 years ago...yeah.
    
    AID patients know the capacity of their disease, HIV+ people also know
    what is in store for them. They have seen many with the disease die a 
    very painful and horrible death. I have compassion not judgement for
    these people. They are fighting a battle they can't win and doing it
    with more pride and honor than most of the people that would quarentine
    them, forget them or separate an infant. 
    
    Ps...didn't mean to generalize about the quarentine..I just didn't want 
    to corner someone who obviously doesn't have control of their OWN 
    environment....
    
    
    
    Nancy, did your infant crawl out of it's basinette to bite another
    child..boy if your INFANT can do that...i give you credit. 
323.38JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 02 1995 15:194
    Nobody did..  we're talking about disease and the filters begin just
    cause we admit that we believe in God.
    
    
323.39CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 15:2111


RE:    <<< Note 323.38 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>

   > Nobody did..  we're talking about disease and the filters begin just
   > cause we admit that we believe in God.
    
    
     yeah, I guess so..

323.40CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 15:2740
    
>    you don't think separating someone from others because of their disease
>    is making a judgement. Wake up, before people knew what cancer was,

      No, I don't.  Are we interested in ridding ourselves of the disease,
      or in people's self esteem?


>    they separated them too. My mother has terminal cancer, would you have
>    separated her from her family say.....20 years ago...yeah.
    
  
     Mine died of cancer 35 years ago.  I also had relatives with TB who
     were quarantined..at the time I didn't understand it, but it did seem
     to rid us of the disease.




   > AID patients know the capacity of their disease, HIV+ people also know
   > what is in store for them. They have seen many with the disease die a 
   > very painful and horrible death. I have compassion not judgement for
   > these people. They are fighting a battle they can't win and doing it
   > with more pride and honor than most of the people that would quarentine
   > them, forget them or separate an infant. 
    

    And I have compassion as well..however, my compassion for them is not
    ridding us of the disease, nor is your's.  

    Get rid of the "judgement" mindset.  I judge nobody.


     Jim




 
323.41MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 15:286
    Well, I'm sorry but medicine is NOT an exact science and I'm sorry if
    it offends others needlessly but I will continue to approach AIDS
    cautiously.  I don't believe the scientific community knows enough and
    I don't believe we know the whole truth is being put forth.
    
    -Jack
323.42SWAM2::SMITH_MAThu Mar 02 1995 15:379
    I used to teach AIDS awareness some time ago and, at the time, it was
    not believed that the HIV virus could be transmitted through kissing. 
    
    There was suspicion that if a person was in the advanced stages of AIDS
    and his/her saliva came into direct contact with another persons blood
    stream, ie an open sore or wound, then the virus could be transmitted. 
    _However_, this was only a suspicion.  There was not then, nor do I
    believe is there now, any proof of this.  It was simply a possibility
    that was being argued by the CDC.
323.43MKOTS3::MACFAWNMy mother warned me about you...Thu Mar 02 1995 15:4422
    What really urkes me is the drug addicts who are receiving free needles
    to help in preventing the spread of AIDS, but diabetics like myself
    have to pay for their needles.
    
    I met this woman in the drug store a few years ago that looked like she
    was rather poor.  She was getting a presciption for syringes.  I looked
    at her and said, "You're a diabetic too?"  She wasn't, but the little
    girl standing next to her was.  This little girl looked like she needed
    a warm bubble bath, some fuzzy pajamas and a good hot cooked meal.  The
    mother was paying for the needles with change.  Why can't the
    government help people like this woman who obviously needs help?  No,
    they want to help prevent a deadly disease by giving out free clean
    needles to drug users, but the rest of us poor bastards have to buy
    ours if we want to survive until tomorrow.
    
    We're talking life and death here.  I need the needles to administer
    the insulin to keep me alive.  The drug users don't need the drugs to
    live!  They won't die without it.
    
    I don't know where the government's head is when they think up these
    "brilliant" ideas.  Well, yes I do know...
    
323.44OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Thu Mar 02 1995 15:583
    Re: .43
    
    How many diabetics share needles?
323.45MKOTS3::MACFAWNMy mother warned me about you...Thu Mar 02 1995 16:098
    Diabetics don't share needles...obviously you missed my whole point.
    
    Diabetics NEED the needles, drug addicts don't.  The drug addicts know
    damned well that sharing the needles will probably result in the AIDS
    virus, but they don't care, they do it anyway.  Why should we give
    these stupid people free needles?
    
    
323.46SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 16:1114
              <<< Note 323.28 by CASDOC::HEBERT "Captain Bligh" >>>

>False. The CDC (and respected medical centers) found - and reported - the
>conditions under which it can be communicated, which include simply
>transmitting body fluids from one who is afflicted, onto mucous membranes
>of another person.

	And those same agencies have determined that transmission
	is extremely difficult. A direct transmission of body fluid,
	ususally blood, is required. There is no medical research that
	would support the use of quarruntine regulations for HIV+,
	or even full blown AIDS, patients.

Jim
323.47PENUTS::DDESMAISONSno, i'm aluminuming 'um, mumThu Mar 02 1995 16:137
	>>Why should we give
        >>these stupid people free needles?

    Because their stupidity might cause the disease to spread even more?
    
    

323.48BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 16:158
| <<< Note 323.28 by CASDOC::HEBERT "Captain Bligh" >>>

	Art, are you comparing the spread of AIDS to how a cold is spread? I
hope I read that wrong.



Glen
323.50And hope it doesn't touch someone you loveDECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Mar 02 1995 16:2916
    Quarantine will never work because there is a large percentage of
    our population that is HIV+, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IT!!
    
    The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
    population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time.  It's teen-
    agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
    them who are continuing to spread the disease.  As was pointed out
    in an earlier article, drug use is tied to the current leap in
    the spread.  The disease is spreading fastest within the female
    population (is this because women are resorting to sex to support
    drug habits?)
    
    No matter how you look at it, the disease is a hideous way to die.
    Forget about the moralizing and lectures; just pray someone finds
    a cure for it, and fast!!
    
323.51Not bubonic plague...GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Mar 02 1995 16:3111
    
       Re, contagion...I'm no doctor, and know little about this disease
      except that it is mostly sexually transmitted.  I agree with the
      earlier comment, that if it were spread through the air, then the
      public safety would justify quarantine.  But my amateur understanding
      has been that the mere presence of HIV+ people poses no health
      threat.
    
       I'd change my mind and run away fast if I feared catching it !
    
       bb
323.52CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 16:3352
    	.31
    
>    So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will 
>    "quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS. 
    
    	I would, just as I would for any other disease that warrants
    	it.
    
>    You guys need some serious
>    help in the Humane dept. People are dieing form this disease.
    
    	Precisely.  People are dying from the disease.  And people
    	are still contracting the disease -- at an alarming rate.
    	People with AIDS are still giving it to others.  It seems
    	that we can't count on their behavior to stem the spread,
    	so I can see no other choice.
    
>    Instead
>    of casting judgement on them, doing away with them by quarentining them
>    and forgetting they exist, do something. Your child could be next!! 
    
    	Who said anything about forgetting about them?  Quarantine
    	doesn't mean tossing them in a box.  The "boy in the bubble"
    	was quarantined, for example.  (FOR EXAMPLE, OK?  Don't go
    	ratholing this by suggesting that this is what I propose 
    	for AIDS victims.)  A quarantined patient can have all the
    	comforts that everyone else has.  
    
>    God help you if your infant needs a transfusion, God help you if you do 
>    too..I hope YOUR not judged too harshly when that happens.
    
    	Today's blood supply is very safe, and very monitored.  It is
    	a miniscule vector (if even one at all) of the disease.
    
>    LIVE with
>    AIDs or the ravages of it, then tell me you'll quarentine them....
    
    	Live with the ravages of ANY disease that requires quarantine.
    	What's your point?  Actually, I'm not as concerned with those
    	in the last stages of the ravages of AIDS.  They are less likely
    	to spread it through dangerous behavior, and are treated with
    	the utmost of caution by society as a whole.  It is those who
    	are still sexually/IV-drug active, who don't show the outward
    	signs of the disease, that need to be quarantined.
    
>    give it a rest. Ignorance is obviously something you cure.
    
    	What's your purpose of this statement.  Show me where I have
    	expressed anything ignorant about the disease.  Rather than attack
    	me, perhaps you should put your efforts into showing real reason
    	(other than your emotionalism) that quarantine would not be
    	effective.
323.53CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 16:3923



RE:    <<< Note 323.50 by DECLNE::REESE "ToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGround" >>>
                -< And hope it doesn't touch someone you love >-

       
   > The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
   > population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time.  It's teen-
   > agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
    

      Wasn't there an article in the WSJ or NYT earlier this week that
      stated that the gay community has become lax in their prevention
      habits?  I recall hearing this on Monday, but didn't catch all the
      details, but the jist seemed to be that the gay community was not
      being all that responsible of late.


  Jim
    

323.54CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 16:4149
    	.35
    
>    Well gosh by golly, if we're gonna do this quarantine thing,
>    we better get going on it right now, because there's
>    a potential incubation period of 5 to 10 years and, well,
>    we better make sure we separate them all out now... 
    
    	Good point.  If those who could spread the disease within
    	society were removed from contact with the general population,
    	we could virtually eliminate the disease in this society
    	in that 5 to 10 years.
    
    	For that matter, we could eliminate it if we could count on
    	all those with AIDS to refrain from the behavior that spreads
    	it.  We could have eliminated it by now (it's been 10 years
    	since the basic vectors were identified) but that hasn't worked,
    	and continues to fail to work.  What else would you suggest in
    	the absence of a cure (or even the reasonable hope of a cure at 
    	this point.)
    
>    of
>    course, if they've contracted the virus in the last six
>    months we have no test to even detect its presence so we'll
>    have to keep testing them.
    
    	There are plenty of identified cases that continue to spread
    	the disease.  As more are identified, they can be added to
    	the program.  For that matter, as each case is identified,
    	their sexual partners should also be identified and tested,
    	though I'm sure that idea will also go over like a lead
    	balloon with this crowd.
    
>    Oh, and let's start with those grandmothers who had hip
>    replacements, or those athletes that had orthopedic surgery,
>    ' cause it just so happens that many of them may have been
>    given tainted bone material; seems they use crushed bone
>    matter or bone parts in such surgery and the companies
>    that supply it weren't always dilligent about checking
>    their sources.
    
    	Medical companies certainly are diligent now, and have been
    	so for quite some time.  As I said in another reply, transmission
    	of HIV through medical blood and tissue transfer is practically
    	nil now.
    
>    Not to mention those sinful hemophiliacs and EMTs. Nasty,
>    evil people, the lot of them.
    
    	Stick to the facts if you want to be taken seriously.
323.55CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 16:4931
    	.50
    
>    Quarantine will never work because there is a large percentage of
>    our population that is HIV+, BUT THEY DON'T KNOW IT!!
    
    	So test for it!  Don't you remember in grade school getting
    	an annual TB test?  Where was the public outcry against 
    	testing for that?  This is a killer disease, just like TB.
    	Why doesn't society do all that it can to find it and 
    	remove it from society?
    
>    It's teen-
>    agers who don't/won't believe it can touch them, and others like
>    them who are continuing to spread the disease.  As was pointed out
>    in an earlier article, drug use is tied to the current leap in
>    the spread.  The disease is spreading fastest within the female
>    population (is this because women are resorting to sex to support
>    drug habits?)
    
    	Well we could work to get society to accept sexual responsibility
    	and drug prevention, but it is clear that society does not want
    	to address them either.  So if promiscuous sex and drug use are to 
    	be accepted as commonoplace, we'd better protect society from a
    	disease that is becoming rampant through those behaviors.
    
>    No matter how you look at it, the disease is a hideous way to die.
>    Forget about the moralizing and lectures; just pray someone finds
>    a cure for it, and fast!!
    
    	We have a cure in our midst today -- sexual responsibility and
    	drug use prevention.
323.56NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Mar 02 1995 16:514
   > The gay community is probably the most responsible portion of our
   > population regarding HIV & AIDS at this point in time.

Nonsense.  Celibates and monogamous couples are more responsible.
323.57BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 16:5137
| <<< Note 323.49 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| >    Quarantine is only justified if the disease is "catching".

| It doesn't develop in someone all by itself.

	That has to be one of the most intelligent statements I have ever seen
you write. With the diseases that required a quarantine, it was because they
were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease. Education could do wonders for
people, and could do wonders for learning about this disease.
	
| Had we been quarantining those who have been diagnosed with AIDS and or HIV+ 
| since the disease was identified, we wouldn't have anywhere near the 
| prevalence of the disease as we have today.

	If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
is large numbers. The numbers for this disease started to grow, but until they
grew involving hets, nothing was done about it by the country. Within the gay
community, education became the best weapon. New AIDS cases for gays dropped,
while they grew at a great rate for hets. So realizing earlier in this country
that this was indeed a terrible disease would have cut the numbers down
drastically. Of course if Reagan and co. looked at the worlds numbers, they
would have seen hets had the disease at a far greater % than did gays. Why in
North America it was the oppisite is unkown. 

| Instead we have merely been relying on the sensible behavior of those who have
| the disease, and that has failed miserably.

	No Joe, it has not.



Glen
323.58SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 16:5544
      <<< Note 323.52 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>>    So which one of you "sick" people (if you can be called that) will 
>>    "quaurentine" (sp) your child with AIDS. 
    
>    	I would, just as I would for any other disease that warrants
>    	it.
 
	Just how often do you children exchange body fluids with 
	other people?

>    	Precisely.  People are dying from the disease.  And people
>    	are still contracting the disease -- at an alarming rate.
>    	People with AIDS are still giving it to others.  It seems
>    	that we can't count on their behavior to stem the spread,
>    	so I can see no other choice.
 
	So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
	patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a 
	portion of that population. For someone who is always
	telling us that people should be respnsible for their 
	own actions, it seems illogical that you intend to punish
	people for the actions of others.

>    	Who said anything about forgetting about them?  Quarantine
>    	doesn't mean tossing them in a box.  The "boy in the bubble"
>    	was quarantined, for example.  (FOR EXAMPLE, OK?  Don't go
>    	ratholing this by suggesting that this is what I propose 
>    	for AIDS victims.)  A quarantined patient can have all the
>    	comforts that everyone else has.  
 
	Then what is YOUR quarrantine proposal. the number of infected 
	people right now is roughly equivalent to the population of
	Colorado Springs. Do you plan on isoalting them all in the
	same place, or will each city and town have its own ghetto?

>    	Today's blood supply is very safe, and very monitored.  It is
>    	a miniscule vector (if even one at all) of the disease.
 
	According to the CDC, you chances of contracting AIDS via
	a transfusion is about 1 in 75,000. Not high, but not zero
	either.

Jim
323.59BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 16:595

	Jim, lets hope Joes doesn't quarentine them to Colorado Springs. It
would be bad enough to be quarentined, but to have him in the same town???
That's too much burden for any one person to take.
323.60MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 17:0867
    >	For that matter, we could eliminate it if we could count on
    >	all those with AIDS to refrain from the behavior that spreads
    >	it.  We could have eliminated it by now (it's been 10 years
    >	since the basic vectors were identified) but that hasn't worked,
    >	and continues to fail to work.
    
    1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
    in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
    disease takes it toll? Are you planning on giving them medical
    assistance during this time?
    
    This number represents less than 5 percent of the estimated
    cases worldwide. You're gonna need a hell of a big leper
    colony Joe.
    
                                        What else would you suggest in
    >	the absence of a cure (or even the reasonable hope of a cure at 
    >	this point.)
    
    There will likely never be a cure. Viral diseases are rarely
    cured. Most likely, DNA research will find a mechanism for
    blocking the T-cell receptors that HIV uses to replicate.
    However, this requires genetic manipulation of the cell, and
    such therapy has its own consequences. Chief among them is
    that 10 or 20 years down the road, such manipulation could
    trigger other immuno responses such as cancer. Therefore,
    the "test" period for an AIDS vaccine (several such tests
    are underway) is likely to be the longest in medical history.
    
    So, the answer is Joe, there is no answer. Nature is a bitch.
    Get used to it. Quarantine, aside from being a logistical
    impossibility, has certain Constitutional and ethical
    implications.
    
    >	There are plenty of identified cases that continue to spread
    >	the disease.  As more are identified, they can be added to
    >	the program.  For that matter, as each case is identified,
    >	their sexual partners should also be identified and tested,
    >	though I'm sure that idea will also go over like a lead
    >	balloon with this crowd.
    
    Your "plenty" is believed to be in the small minority. Only
    a small portion of our population is tested; a vast majority
    of those who carry the AIDS virus are unaware of it. Are
    you about to mandate world-wide testing to go along with
    your identification process? Where are you planning on
    having your AIDS test conducted, Joe?
    
    >	Medical companies certainly are diligent now, and have been
    >	so for quite some time.  As I said in another reply, transmission
    >	of HIV through medical blood and tissue transfer is practically
    >	nil now.
    
    But the point is, that until the middle 1980s, there was no
    test at all and many people were infected. Until the last
    few years, there was no DNA test, which is the only
    effective way to identify the virus in most tissue. So,
    all of the potential victims in this group are still within
    the standard incubation period.
    
    >	Stick to the facts if you want to be taken seriously.
    
    History has shown that I have no hope of being taken seriously
    unless I agree with you, in which case, I'm more than happy
    not to be taken seriously.
    
    -b
323.61....ignorance becomes fear.NEMAIL::BULLOCKThu Mar 02 1995 17:1419
    
    
    
       re.54
    
       Just round em' up,.....huh?? Sounds like Gestapo.
    
       I can envision this "future security force" roping off
       a particular neighborhood,...dressed in environmental
       suits with bullhorns and sidearms. "...ATTENTION,....ATTENTION
       ALL MALES AND FEMALES WHO'VE HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH A CASUAL
       PARTNER WITHIN THE LAST SIX MONTHS ARE ORDERED TO THE FOLLOWING
       STAGING AREAS........,FAILURE TO COMPLY WITH THIS ORDER WILL
       RESULT IN YOUR IMMEDIATE ARREST,.........RESISTANCE WILL RESULT
       IN AN INDEFINITE INCARCERATION,.....DRUG ADDICTS ARE SUBJECT TO
       BEING SHOT ON SITE,....WE KNOW WHO YOU ARE"!
    
       Ed
    
323.62SWAM2::SMITH_MAThu Mar 02 1995 17:186
    RE .56
    
    And there aren't celibate or monagamos homosexual men and women?
    
    Give me a break!
                                  
323.63NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Mar 02 1995 17:255
>    And there aren't celibate or monagamos homosexual men and women?

Certainly.  But "the homosexual community" as a whole isn't celibate or
monogamous.  Assuming that the CDC knows what it's talking about, celibate
homosexuals and celibate heterosexuals have equally low risk of contracting HIV.
323.64GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA member in good standingThu Mar 02 1995 17:277
    
    
    The scarlet letter perhaps?
    
    
    This sounds terrible, I know, but there have knowingly put other people
    at risk.  Is there an answer to this type of problem? 
323.65MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 17:3417
    Re: Reagan and Company
    
    I hope you include Ted Kennedy in that company because he didn't do
    chit either.
    
    
    ZZ      Just round em' up,.....huh?? Sounds like Gestapo.
    
    Ed:
    
    Recently, Fidel Castro sent quite a few AIDS patients to the shores of 
    Florida...exiled them if you will.  You may make jokes about the
    gestapo but it is currently the Clinton ilk that is the most open to
    allowing AIDS patients in the United States.  As an American citizen, I
    resent this.
    
    -Jack
323.66BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 18:1913
| <<< Note 323.63 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>


| But "the homosexual community" as a whole isn't celibate or monogamous.  

	HO HO! And those non-gay people are oh so celibate (pregnancy rate for
unmarried is sooooo high) and monogomous (how many people get a divorce because
they cheated on the spouse). Sacks.... you are quite funny...

| Assuming that the CDC knows what it's talking about, celibate homosexuals and 
| celibate heterosexuals have equally low risk of contracting HIV.

	Now that's very intelligent of you to say. :-)
323.67BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 18:2113
| <<< Note 323.65 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| I hope you include Ted Kennedy in that company because he didn't do chit 
| either.

	Jack, I'm glad you stated this. Now, if you would prove it, I'd be
surprised. I would really like to see you prove this, or let us know if this is
just a gut feel of yours. I got the .com warming up.... DOH!



Glen
323.68TROOA::COLLINSConsultants Of SwingThu Mar 02 1995 18:255
    
    Joe, do you feel that you or your family are at risk of contracting
    AIDS?  If so, why?  How?
    
    
323.69OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Thu Mar 02 1995 18:2815
    Re: .45
    
    >Diabetics don't share needles
    
    Yes, I know.
    
    >obviously you missed my whole point.
    
    I got it.  I just don't think it's a very good one.  The reason drug
    addicts get free needles is to discourage needle sharing.  Sharing
    needles promotes the spread of AIDS.  People with AIDS can spread it to
    other people.  People with AIDS require treatment, often times
    expensive treatment.  That is why we should "give these stupid people
    free needles" -- because a small expense now helps avoids huge expenses
    down the line.
323.70BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 18:3211

	I have a hard time with this one. On one hand it makes sense to hand
out needles to help stop the spread of the disease, but on the other hand it
promotes the use of drugs. I guess it is like the condom abstinance thing.
Abstinance will automatically keep <insert disastor> from happening, but in
this day in age, who can believe that everyone will follow the abstinance
message?


Glen
323.71OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Thu Mar 02 1995 18:3419
    Re: .54
    
    >If those who could spread the disease within society were removed from 
    >contact with the general population, we could virtually eliminate the 
    >disease in this society in that 5 to 10 years.
    
    That means no one travels to or from Africa or southeast Asia.
    
    That means that we have to fund multiple HIV tests (a single test is
    inconclusive) for every single person in this country, since the
    disease can take years to manifest itself.
    
    That means that hundreds of facilities will have to be staffed and
    maintained around the clock.
    
    That means that Ryan White and hundreds of other children would not
    have been allowed to be with their parents and families as they died. 
    That means that _all_ AIDS patients die with only medical practitioners
    in attendance.
323.72CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 18:3739
	.57

>were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
>spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease. 
    
    	AIDS **IS** that type of disease.  It is spreading, and at
    	increasing rates.  What more do you need to see it?
    
>Education could do wonders for
>people, and could do wonders for learning about this disease.
    
    	We've been educating for more than a decade.  People are
    	still getting contracting it today.  What more do we need
    	to "learn"?
    
>	If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
>it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
>it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
>is large numbers. 
    
    	Blaming Reagan is bogus.  How is it Reagan's fault that hundreds
    	(thousands?) will contract it this very day?  And just as many
    	more tomorrow...
    
    	Virtually everybody (in this country at least) knows about AIDS.
    	We all know how it is transmitted.  We all know it is deadly.
    	But it continues to spread.  
    
    	We need to remove the infected from the general population.  I
    	see no other way to stop the spread, given society's morals and
    	values.
    
>| Instead we have merely been relying on the sensible behavior of those who have
>| the disease, and that has failed miserably.
>
>	No Joe, it has not.

    	You can say "it has not" ONLY when the spread has stopped.  
    	Today you cannot.
323.73replyBRAT::MINICHINOThu Mar 02 1995 18:4118
    .58
    
    In response to your obvious one eyed look at HIV spreading....blood
    products, BLOOD PRODUCTS....this includes plasma, platelets, or any 
    other BODY fluids. So Those infants so unlucky enough to be born with
    hemophilia or other blood diseases, are at high risk.. 
    
    So ten or fifteen years ago, your child receives a blood transfusion
    from a car accident, just last week......they find they are HIV+. So 
    now what, We need to put this on a personal level. We need to get these
    people help by finding a cure. 
    
    As for the needles, I don't think that diabetics should have to pay for
    the syringes...but I don't think that drug programs don't help. 
    
    I've never been a drug addict, but yes..DT's could kill you. 
    
    
323.74CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 18:4842
	.58
     
>	So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
>	patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a 
>	portion of that population. 
    
    	That seems to be our only resort.  
    
>	For someone who is always
>	telling us that people should be respnsible for their 
>	own actions, it seems illogical that you intend to punish
>	people for the actions of others.
    
    	True, I espouse personal responsibility.  The problem is (as
    	I previously stated) that society seems to have decided that
    	it will condone and even embrace the absence of that
    	responsibility.  At the same time we as a society seem to
    	want to refuse to address the results of that absence of
    	responsibility, but we sure like to do a lot of complaining
    	about the tragic individual devastation that comes from
    	the result of that absence of responsibility.
    
    	You can't have it both ways.  

>	Then what is YOUR quarrantine proposal. 
    
    	I don't have a specific proposal.  Yes, the numbers are high.
    	I propose taking the logistical hit now (and manage it for 
    	the 10 years it takes for the majority of current cases to
    	run their course) rather than have to deal with the continued
    	spread and propogation of the disease for the unforseeable
    	future.
 
>	According to the CDC, you chances of contracting AIDS via
>	a transfusion is about 1 in 75,000. Not high, but not zero
>	either.

    	I believe I used the term "virtually nil".  We can quibble over
    	semantics, but I think we both agree that this is no longer a
    	significant vector at all.  And taking known cases out of
    	the general population will further reduce the chances of
    	contracting it through transfusions.
323.75BRAT::MINICHINOThu Mar 02 1995 18:5117
    .70
    
    So by handing out needles does this make YOU want to do drugs????
    
    
    that line "promotes the use" always gets me. We are not all going to
    run out and do IV drugs because the government decided to give needles
    to drug abusers...
    
    but you're right. Do we give the drug users needles 
    to help them do drugs and stop the spread of HIV or do we allow the
    drug users to spread the disease (however conscious of the disease they
    may be). I think I'd go for the Needles free thing. It seems like it
    would help, even save one person...isn't that what prevention is all
    about. 
                      
    
323.76SMURF::BINDERvitam gustareThu Mar 02 1995 18:5211
    .74
    
    >> So your answer is to isolate the entire population
    >
    > That seems to be our only resort.
    
    UNCLEAN!  UNCLEAN!
    
    gee, we could rebuild the leper colony in hawaii, and maybe the one off
    the coast of massachusetts, too.  show our kids the dirtier side of our
    history by actual example.
323.77ICS::VERMAThu Mar 02 1995 18:5221
    Not too long ago PBS traced AIDS history on Frontline or some such
    program. one of the conclusions was that if San Fransisco had the
    political courage to close Turkish baths and isolate known HIV+
    gays and drug addicts in time, spread of AIDS would have been
    contained. It was not done and rest is history.
    
    Then last year 60 minutes did a piece about AIDS in Cuba, which at
    the time was the ONLY country where spread of AIDS was declining.
    It was revealed that Cuba had a quarantine policy for AIDS patients.
    One of the US doctors interviewed by 60 minutes agreed that quarantine
    can reduce spread of AIDS but USA cannot muster political will to
    do that. Knowledge of Cuban quarantine promptly led the Human Rights
    organizations to criticise Cuba and forced it to relax quarantine
    policy. Since then AIDS is on the rise in Cuba.
    
    Cuba is not a country worthy of any praise but the ONLY one that
    used quarantine and proved that it can work. PC crowd in USA made
    sure Cuba dismantled it, and so it was.
    
    Is quarantine cruel? yes. But it should not be condemned because
    it ain't PC. 
323.78SMURF::BINDERvitam gustareThu Mar 02 1995 18:553
    and china has an effective policy against drugs, too.  it's called a
    bullet in the brain if you're convicted of possession.  maybe we should
    try that one, too.  clean that ol' drug problem right up, it would.
323.79.....too many chiefs.NEMAIL::BULLOCKThu Mar 02 1995 18:5719
    
    
    
        The thing that bothers me to no end about this disease is 
        the number of "factions" and "collaboratives" that are 
        working on a "cure" seems endless. Do these scientist really
        share information?
    
        There was piece in Time magazine last week about Salk, his
        HIV/AIDS research and a "vaccine" that he's trying to get
        approved for testing. The article was followed  by a ton of
        skeptics who doubted the research. At the conclusion of every
        worldwide AIDS conference,.....the message is that things are
        getting a lot worse. It appears that everyone wants to get there
        first,......what about getting there together?
    
    
        Ed
    
323.80MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 18:5911
    Oh yeah Glen...I remember the outcries of the democrat controlled
    Congress throughout the Reagan years and even as they controlled the
    Senate during the second term.  There was such an outpouring of
    compassion in those days by the democrat leadership...NOT!!
    
    The democrat party was just as befuddled as Reagan was.  They didn't
    know what kind of plague was going to hit the country, or even the
    world for that matter.  Believe me Glen, there was no agenda to wipe
    out the gay population...okay!?
    
    -Jack
323.81knee jerk reaction!ICS::VERMAThu Mar 02 1995 19:025
    
    Re: .78
    
    that happens to one of your least thoughtful responses, Binder.
    
323.82MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 19:035
    Chite. I never realized I was PC. Always thought I was just about
    the opposite really. Never realized that being PC meant respecting
    the Constitution or not treating people like garbage.
    
    -b
323.83eddie speghettiBRAT::MINICHINOThu Mar 02 1995 19:0625
    I am with you eddie, there is another note in here about the government
    and what are they doing for a cure. You want to bet, any of those
    officials in the upper mucky muck get HIV and they'll be misteriously
    cured of the disease or we won't hear of it anymore. 
    
    Does it really matter where the disease orginated from or who started
    it or what SHOULD have been done.....guess not for those of us who know
    someone with HIV or someone that's died of AIDS or AIDs related
    diseases. 
    
    Ignorance does equal fear. If you are fearful of something to a point
    of ignorance of the subject, then fear will cloud your thoughts. 
    
    So how do the health officials keep from catching the disease if it's
    so CATCHY.....they take precautions, they were gloves and they are VERY
    VERY careful with needles, no matter who you are...even the dentist
    wheres face mask and gloves. 
    
    Precautions and more valid and useful research, the spread of HIV isn't
    just rising in the gay community, it could kill anyone we know. I
    thought I heard (sorry can't PINPOINT the statement) but by the year 2000
    all of us will know atleast know of, one person with HIV. That is
    stifling for me to hear. 
    
    
323.84SMURF::BINDERvitam gustareThu Mar 02 1995 19:067
    .81
    
    no, actually, i thought about it carefully.  i put it there to point
    out, by offering a concrete example, that emulating another country's
    policy of human rights violation just because doing so happens to solve
    a rather sticky problem may not necessarily be the appropriate course
    to take.  too bad you missed the point.
323.85CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:0774
 	.60
       
>    1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
>    in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
>    disease takes it toll? 
    
    	In quarantine.  AIDS communities.  Whatever.  Just because
    	the idea hasn't been worked out in detail doesn't mean that
    	it should be discarded.  Glen joked about shipping them all
    	to Colorado Springs.  Maybe he'd be interested to know that
    	Colorado Springs was once a prime location for TB sanatoriums.
    	(Sanitoria?)  That history is preserved in some of the locations
    	of the institutions as well as the Pioneer Museum downtown.
    	Why can't there be similar AIDS sanatoriums? 
    
    	These people all have to be cared for in the latter stages of
    	the disease anyway.  As the number of cases grows, we may some
    	day be faced with 1,000,000 victims all in the latter stages who
    	need hospice care.  Why not do a million now instead of 100,000
    	per year forever.  Make the investment in logistics now, and
    	we can practically mark an end to the disease.
    
>    Are you planning on giving them medical
>    assistance during this time?
    
    	Why not?  Why do you even suggest this?
    
>    This number represents less than 5 percent of the estimated
>    cases worldwide. You're gonna need a hell of a big leper
>    colony Joe.
    
    	Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
    	Why are you against stopping the spread of the disease?  You
    	haven't proposed a better alternative.
    
>    There will likely never be a cure. 
    
    	So all we can do is stop the spread, and let the current cases
    	run their course.  I see two ways to stop the spread.
    
    	1)  Behavior modification.  (Has failed miserably so far.)
    
    	2)  Remove those whose presence cause risk to others in the
    		absence of behavior modification.  (Unworkable due
    		to sensitivity issues)
    
    	I'd be willing to hear your additions to the list.
    
>    So, the answer is Joe, there is no answer. Nature is a bitch.
>    Get used to it. 
    
    	Maybe you can get used to the continued spread of the disease.
    	I can't.
    
>    Quarantine, aside from being a logistical
>    impossibility, has certain Constitutional and ethical
>    implications.
    
    	Bull.  They quarantine lots of people today for other diseases.
    	Why isn't it a constitutional or ethical problem in those
    	cases?
    
>    Your "plenty" is believed to be in the small minority. Only
>    a small portion of our population is tested; a vast majority
>    of those who carry the AIDS virus are unaware of it. Are
>    you about to mandate world-wide testing to go along with
>    your identification process? Where are you planning on
>    having your AIDS test conducted, Joe?
    
    	Yes.  Not worldwide, but certainly nationwide, and other 
    	countries are willing to join in.  And you can't enter this
    	country unless you are tested.
    
    	We do no less for TB and other diseases.
323.86CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:1211


 In the 10+ years since AIDS appeared on the scene, what has been done to
 rid ourselves of it, and how effective have those measures been?





 Jim
323.87BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 19:1347
| <<< Note 323.72 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| >were easily spread and unless the people were put seperate, it would keep
| >spreading. AIDS is not that type of disease.

| AIDS **IS** that type of disease.  It is spreading, and at
| increasing rates.  What more do you need to see it?

	Joe, if you had AIDS and were talking to me, would I get the disease?
If I gave you a hug, would I get the disease? If I gave you a kiss good-bye,
would I get the disease? Hell, if I slept naked with you, would I get the
disease? The answer to all of these is NO. So there is your difference Joe. 

| We've been educating for more than a decade.  

	Joe, when did Magic Johnson come out and say he had the disease?
199.... education only started for a lot of heterosexuals because the last
couple of years because most thought it was the gay plague. 

| >	If we had recognized it in this country as a real disease to begin with
| >it would have helped immensly with the spread of AIDS. But Reagan did not think
| >it was that important cuz in this country it had not gotten around to the hets
| >is large numbers.

| Blaming Reagan is bogus.  How is it Reagan's fault that hundreds (thousands?) 
| will contract it this very day?  

	I'll give you a hint. If you take all that Reagan did during his
administration to educate people about AIDS, and put it up against what Magic
Johnson did by telling people he had contracted the disease, Reagan loses by a
landslide. Magic Johnson was the KEY person who made many heterosexuals wake up
to the fact they could catch this disease too. 

| Virtually everybody (in this country at least) knows about AIDS.

	They have heard the word. It does not mean that they know anything
about it. You're a prime example of that with you quarentining AIDS patients.

| We need to remove the infected from the general population. I see no other way
| to stop the spread, given society's morals and values.

	That's only because you refuse to look.




Glen
323.89you assumed too muchICS::VERMAThu Mar 02 1995 19:1811
    
    re: .84
    
    reread my note. everyone was criticizing Joe for proposing quarantine.
    I merely pointed out that quarantine was considered but rejected even
    though it was thought to be able to contain AIDS. Cuban exmaple was
    to show that quarantine was used by a country and it worked. you made 
    the assumption that I proposed emulating another country's policies. 
    Did no such thing.
    
    
323.90"ATTENTION,....ATTENTION"....NEMAIL::BULLOCKThu Mar 02 1995 19:2015
    
    
    
       If the US tried to quaratine 1,000,000 people,....the civil
       unrest in this country would be staggering. Do you think people
       are just gonna' stand around and watch their families taken
       away? Like I said earlier G E S T A P O! Round em' up. Once
       the "authorities" begin the "AIDS quarantine",...what's gonna'
       prevent "them" from "quarantining"[sp] other "people",....for
       "other" things.
    
    
       
       Ed
    
323.91CSOA1::LEECHbeware of flaming gerbil projectilesThu Mar 02 1995 19:218
    re: .69
    
    These programs have not proven to be effective...especially if earlier
    figures posted in here are true.  If anything, it encourages them to
    continue in their lifestyle.
    
    
    -steve
323.92CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:2232
	.71
    
>    That means no one travels to or from Africa or southeast Asia.
    
    	Not necessarily.  Those who travel out of the country could be
    	required to have a post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
    	If they turn up positive, quarantine them.
    
    	For that matter, a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
    	would be sufficient to catch those cases returning on the backs
    	of travelers who participate in behaviors whiel outside the
    	country that expose them to the disease.
    
>    That means that we have to fund multiple HIV tests (a single test is
>    inconclusive) for every single person in this country, since the
>    disease can take years to manifest itself.
    
    	Whatever it takes.  It's better than doing nothing and watching
    	the disease continue to spread.
    
>    That means that hundreds of facilities will have to be staffed and
>    maintained around the clock.
    
    	Whatever it takes.  But after 10 years, once all the cases have
    	run their course, we can disassemble most of the structure
    	developed to handle it.  A skeleton structure can remain in
    	place to handle the inevitable reduced flow.
    
    	Still, it's better than doing nothing, which would only result
    	in the contunied spread of the disease.  Eventually we will have
    	to have SOMETHING ELSE anyway to handle all the end-of-life cases
    	we will be having.
323.94BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 19:2636

	Joe, you've been given a number of 1,000,000 people. You want to see
them quarentined. Yet you state you do not know how to go about this. Meg made
some real good points a few notes back, and hopefully you've gotten to them.
But even if you don't, this is still something you want. So give us a plan that
you feel will work. Remember, your plan should include the following, if not
more:


1)  finding all those who are hiv

2)  finding a way to escort them from their families/friends

3)  finding a place to house them

4)  finding a way to set up the housing (buildings, bathrooms, etc?)

5)  finding a way to feed and clothe them

6)  finding medical personel who can take care of 1 mil people

7)  finding medical supplies for this quarentine area

8)  finding seperate housing to keep the uninfected medical staff

9) finding a way to keep all americans in the country and all illegal aliens out

10) finding new cases every year

11) finding the funding


	Can you answer these things Joe? 


323.95PENUTS::DDESMAISONSno, i'm aluminuming 'um, mumThu Mar 02 1995 19:283
	.94  bah... details!  ;>

323.97DECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Mar 02 1995 19:3146
    .77  Closing the bath houses would have reduced the spread of AIDS
    in the SF area, but that wouldn't have prevented it elsewhere.
    
    The CDC has traced the initial spread of the disease to a flight
    attendant for Air Canada who flew an international route.  CDC in-
    vestigators traced the outbreaks in every major city in the US and
    several other countries to stops on this man's schedule.
    
    I remember watching a special about this; after they identified the
    attendant they contacted him about the disease (thinking he might
    not know he had it).  By the time the CDC contacted him he was
    experiencing symptoms (but his onset was long after that of some
    of his partners).  Unfortunately, he was mean spirited as well as
    promiscuous and continued to have sexual contacts after the CDC
    indicated to him that he was spreading the infection.  He died from
    Karposi's Sarcoma; before he was too ill to leave his house they
    said he sought out partners in the darkness of certain gay bars and
    he also used body make-up to try and hide the Karposi's.
    
    However, this man is the exception, not the rule of individuals
    who KNOW they are HIV positive.  When this happened, there was no
    laws on the books to address such behavior, now there are.  Just two
    weeks ago a man was arrested here in Atlanta after 2 women from
    Arkansas traced him here.  They claim he had sexual contact with
    them knowing he was HIV positive; he has been placed under arrest
    and returned to Arkansas.
    
    Jim, it was the during the coverage of this local issue that the
    reporter indicated the AIDS is spreading much slower within the gay
    community than in the hetero.  The guy arrested is thought to be
    an IV drug user; he is not gay. I find it difficult to believe that
    the gay community is getting lax about safety issues; here in
    Atlanta they are pro-active in educational programs etc.  Also, most
    gay folks have lost too many friends and loved ones to get cavalier
    about safety now.
    
    I still don't know how a quarantine could be carried out; since many
    people HIV positive are not having symptoms and not ill, it would
    take armed guards and a prison-like setting to contain them (again,
    assuming they could be identified).
    
    I can't believe people would go along with INvoluntary testing;
    especially when I see so many notes in here spouting off about our
    constitutional rights :-)
    
    
323.98BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 19:3224
| <<< Note 323.80 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| The democrat party was just as befuddled as Reagan was.  

	Jack, why did you switch from Ted Kennedy to the democratic party?
Could you please go back and prove how Ted Kennedy did nothing please? That WAS
what I asked.

| They didn't know what kind of plague was going to hit the country, or even the
| world for that matter.  

	Jack, it had already hit the world hard before it hit us hard. All they
had to do was open their eyes. North America was the ONLY place where the
disease hit gays is higher numbers. EVERYWHERE else it hit the heterosexual
population FAR greater. Go read the CDC's results once in a while. 

| Believe me Glen, there was no agenda to wipe out the gay population...okay!?

	I didn't say there was. I did say there was no hurry by Reagan to do
anything because he thought it was a gay disease.


Glen
323.99BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 19:338
| <<< Note 323.82 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>


| Chite. I never realized I was PC. Always thought I was just about the opposite
| really. Never realized that being PC meant respecting the Constitution or not 
| treating people like garbage.

	I'm glad you're PC on this Brian.... :-)
323.100SMURF::BINDERvitam gustareThu Mar 02 1995 19:3420
    .88
    
    > If someone is found
    > to have bubonic plague...
    
    which is perhaps the most contagious disease we have ever been
    confronted with.  aids isn't in the same league in this regard.
    
    > And they are quarantined
    > if found to have the disease.
    
    but only until they are cured, not for the rest of their lives.  there
    is adifference of magnitude here, joe.  for the plague, you are taking
    their liberty for a short period to prevent them from spreading a
    HIGHLY contagious disease.  you simply have no idea how fast the plague
    spreads if not contained - if someone in colorado springs has it today,
    and there is no treatment, the entire city will have it in two weeks.
    aids is not like this.  obtw, the plague's fatality rate is something
    in excess of 99 percent if it is left untreated, right up there with
    aids but a lot faster.
323.101MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 19:3515
    Glen:
    
    If you believe AIDS is a national epidemic, then do you believe
    education will work fast enough?  Is the trend changing for the better
    or is it getting worse?  If AIDS grows into a greater epidemic, this
    would tell me that all the education in the world will not reverse the
    trend; therefore any solution that WILL reverse the trend would be
    considered.  We know pissing money down the toilet is doing no good.  
    We're too proud to bend knee and ask God to remove this plight from us,
    therefore, don't be surprised if something radical is done if AIDS
    becomes a major epidemic or even becomes a threat to National security.  
    Right now the status quo isn't working fast enough!  Or is AIDS really
    as epidemic as the gay lobby wants to admit.
    
    -Jack
323.102POLAR::RICHARDSONAlleged DegirdificationThu Mar 02 1995 19:394
    Aren't there more deaths caused by breast cancer?
    
    It was no. 1 woman killer in Canada up until last year, now it's lung 
    cancer.
323.103CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:4034
	.87
    
>	Joe, if you had AIDS and were talking to me, would I get the disease?
>If I gave you a hug, would I get the disease? If I gave you a kiss good-bye,
>would I get the disease? Hell, if I slept naked with you, would I get the
>disease? The answer to all of these is NO. So there is your difference Joe. 
    
    	The vectors for AIDS spread in this society are currently
    	commonplace practices.  We *COULD* (as a society) change that,
    	but it appears that society doesn't want to do that.  Either
    	we change the practice, or change the risk in the practice.
    	Since the practices aren't likely to be changed, I only see
    	quarantine as the way to change the risks.  Do you have a
    	better solution?
    
>| We've been educating for more than a decade.  
    >
>	Joe, when did Magic Johnson come out and say he had the disease?
    
    	Magic Johnson isn't any magical timeline event.  When did Ryan
    	White die?  Well practically everyone in this country (we can
    	never say EVERYONE) knew the basic disease vectors long before
    	his death.  They were making AIDS quilts well before I moved
    	to Colorado in 1989, and you know how important it was to the
    	AIDS lobby that non-gay victims be highlighted on those quilts.
    
    	We as a society have known for a long time what was what.  Don't
    	try to kid us into believing otherwise.

>	They have heard the word. It does not mean that they know anything
>about it. You're a prime example of that with you quarentining AIDS patients.
    
    	You still haven't proposed anything better, nor shown how
    	quarantine would not be effective.
323.104MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 19:419
    Glen:
    
    Ted Kennedy's ilk is what I meant.  Ted Kennedy WAS the democrat party
    Glen, and he did zilch!  Remember, they are the ones who appropriate
    funding to the various departments.  There was no writhing dissent in
    appropriations to AIDS research and this was CONTROLLED by Ted Kennedy
    et al.
    
    -Jack
323.106CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:4617
	.94

>you feel will work. Remember, your plan should include the following, if not
>more:

>	Can you answer these things Joe? 
    
    	We as a society are currently doing those things, Glen, only
    	we are just dealing with those at the end of their lives.
    	Every AIDS patient needs care.  All million of them will
    	eventually need it, and by permitting the disease to continue
    	to spread we are assuring ourselves that we will continue to
    	have to do all those things.  Forever.  For the next million,
    	and the next million.  And what's worse, the number of cases 
    	aren't remaining constant, but increasing, so that some day
    	we will be dealing with a million patients a year at the end
    	of their lives.  Can't you see this?
323.108BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 19:5347
| <<< Note 323.101 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| If you believe AIDS is a national epidemic, then do you believe education will
| work fast enough?  

	Yes. And it will be MUCH cheaper than quarentining people. 

| Is the trend changing for the better or is it getting worse?  

	Better.

| If AIDS grows into a greater epidemic, this would tell me that all the 
| education in the world will not reverse the trend; therefore any solution that
| WILL reverse the trend would be considered.  

	Education has and will continue to reverse the trend.

| We're too proud to bend knee and ask God to remove this plight from us,

	You know, this is a piece of chite Jack. Tell me right now that no one
has done this. Tell me and mean it. You know you can't, so don't go spewing
that crap please.

| therefore, don't be surprised if something radical is done if AIDS becomes a 
| major epidemic or even becomes a threat to National security.

	And don't be surprised at the radical uproar that will happen from the
family/friends of those you want to radically take away.

| Right now the status quo isn't working fast enough!  

	Jack, education for heterosexuals got started in a big way in 93 when
Magic came out. Numbers will go down once we get past those who once thought
they were invincible before he talked all get tested.

| Or is AIDS really as epidemic as the gay lobby wants to admit.

	This has got to be one of the most assinine things I have ever had the
displeasure of reading from you. You don't even know who the hell is stating
what it is. You go off and state things that are not even happening. The CDC is
reporting many things about this disease Jack. Gee, what # killer is it for
people 25-40??? Could that tell you anything?? For once Jack, really, think
before you open your mouth.


Glen
323.109CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:5511


 So, in the 10+ years since AIDS appeared on the scene, what has been done
 to rid ourselves of the disease, and how effective have those efforts been?





 Jim
323.110CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 19:5512
	.108

>| Is the trend changing for the better or is it getting worse?  
>
>	Better.
    
    	The number of new AIDS cases continues to grow.  You are only
    	fooling yourself.

>	Education has and will continue to reverse the trend.
    
    	The trend is far from reversing.  You are only fooling yourself.
323.111MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 19:5854
    >	In quarantine.  AIDS communities.  Whatever.  Just because
    >	the idea hasn't been worked out in detail doesn't mean that
    >	it should be discarded.  Glen joked about shipping them all
    >	to Colorado Springs.  Maybe he'd be interested to know that
    >	Colorado Springs was once a prime location for TB sanatoriums.
    >	(Sanitoria?)  That history is preserved in some of the locations
    >	of the institutions as well as the Pioneer Museum downtown.
    >	Why can't there be similar AIDS sanatoriums? 
    
>    Are you planning on giving them medical
>    assistance during this time?
    
    >   Why not?  Why do you even suggest this?
    
    Because, it is part of the overall equation. AIDS takes a
    long time to runs its course, a long time. OK, so you
    manage to find a place to put all these people (highly
    unlikely, but I'll play along). So you can accept the
    morality of isolating them, but not the morality of letting
    them die quickly. Would it be acceptable to you if we
    saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
    and just executed people when they are identified as
    HIV+.
    
    >   Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
    
    It very well may Joe. It's not like it's in anyone's control
    at this point. New viral strains are identified all the time.
    Epidemics are on the rise. Some think its because of end-
    time prophecy, others because it's what happens in any population
    which exceeds the capacity of its environment (which is what
    I believe), but either way, its there, its happening, it
    would be nice if we could do something, but it's extremely
    unlikely.
    
    >	So all we can do is stop the spread, and let the current cases
    >	run their course.  I see two ways to stop the spread.
    
    >	1)  Behavior modification.  (Has failed miserably so far.)
    
    >	2)  Remove those whose presence cause risk to others in the
    >		absence of behavior modification.  (Unworkable due
    >		to sensitivity issues)
    
    >	I'd be willing to hear your additions to the list.
    
    I'm sorry Joe, I don't have the answer. I'm pretty much along
    for the ride, I'm afraid God hasn't clued me in here and
    neither has medical science. I hope a treatment will be produced
    someday.
    
    More later...
    
    -b
323.112BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 20:0057
| <<< Note 323.103 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| The vectors for AIDS spread in this society are currently commonplace 
| practices. We *COULD* (as a society) change that, but it appears that society 
| doesn't want to do that.  

	Education has been doing that Joe.....

| Since the practices aren't likely to be changed, 

	Even though if you would open your eyes you would see they are....

| I only see quarantine as the way to change the risks.  

	I know you only see that, but now it is time to open your eyes.

| Do you have a better solution?

	Education.

| Magic Johnson isn't any magical timeline event.  

	Oh yes he is. He got the disease from SEX. Up until that point, most
heterosexuals did not think they could get it that way.

| When did Ryan White die?  

	Ryan White got it from a transfusion Joe. People were scared about the
blood, not sex. 

| They were making AIDS quilts well before I moved to Colorado in 1989, 

	Yeah, by friends and family members of those who died from AIDS.

| and you know how important it was to the AIDS lobby that non-gay victims be 
| highlighted on those quilts.

	I don't quite understand this one.

| We as a society have known for a long time what was what. 

	Yeah, the gay plague....then reality set in.

| Don't try to kid us into believing otherwise.

	Don't need to kid anyone Joe. The facts back it all up. You equate Ryan
White to hets realizing they could get AIDS from sex, and you talk about
kidding? 

| You still haven't proposed anything better, 

  E	D	U	C	A	T	I	O	N	!



Glen
323.113BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 20:0216
| <<< Note 323.104 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| Ted Kennedy's ilk is what I meant. Ted Kennedy WAS the democrat party Glen, 

	He was part of it Jack, but many other cogs made up the dem party.

| and he did zilch!  

	No Jack, he fought for funding, he fought for education. Again, it
appears you are talking without looking at the facts....why should I find this
surprising????



Glen
323.114MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 02 1995 20:097
    Kindly blow it out your shorts Glen.  First you say things are getting
    better and then you get offended when I infer it isn't a rising
    epidemic.  If things are getting better and education is working, then
    why are the numbers continuing to climb?  No, it wasn't a stupid
    question Glen.  You just presented a knee jerk reaction!
    
    -Jack
323.115BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 20:1040
| <<< Note 323.106 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| We as a society are currently doing those things, 

	No Joe, we are not. We are not going around and testing EVERY
individual, we are not going out rounding them all up and putting them in one
centerally located area, we are not rounding up all these health care workers
and shipping them off to one central location, etc. 

| Glen, only we are just dealing with those at the end of their lives.

	Have you even been to a hospice Joe? Do you even know what they do?
Based on what you have been saying, I think not. Families are not split up like
you would have it. (or are you gonna cart them away too?) You are not looking
at reality Joe, you are looking at something without taking into consideration
what it entails.

| Every AIDS patient needs care. All million of them will eventually need it, 

	Joe, just a hint, the 1 mil number includes all who are HIV+ as well.
You know, the ones who can still take care of themselves, who you want to
isolate.

| and by permitting the disease to continue to spread 

	No one is permitting anything Joe. 

| And what's worse, the number of cases aren't remaining constant, but 
| increasing, 

	Joe, where are they increasing? In the het community. Why are they
increasing? For the same reason they did back with the gay community before.
Some people get tested who have had the disease for quite some time. So while
the numbers go up, it is only because more people are getting tested. People
are far more cautious now. The numbers will be going down for the het community
like they have for the gay community.


Glen
323.116CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 20:1223
	.111
        
>    Would it be acceptable to you if we
>    saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
>    and just executed people when they are identified as
>    HIV+.
    
    	You proposed this.  I didn't.  This statement almost made
    	me ignore the rest of your reply.
    
>    >   Do nothing and the whole world can end up being a leper colony.
>    
>    It very well may Joe. 
    
    	And that's what my little debating exercise is attempting to
    	address.
    
>    would be nice if we could do something, but it's extremely
>    unlikely.
    
    	I also agree that it is unlikely that we would be able to
    	quarantine AIDS patients.  However I believe the biggest
    	roadblock to doing it is not logistical, but political.
323.117CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 20:1310
	.112

>| practices. We *COULD* (as a society) change that, but it appears that society 
>| doesn't want to do that.  
>
>	Education has been doing that Joe.....

    
    	You are sorely mistaken, and it would be fruitless to even
    	continue reading the rest of your reply.
323.118BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 20:1418
| <<< Note 323.114 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

| Kindly blow it out your shorts Glen.  First you say things are getting
| better and then you get offended when I infer it isn't a rising epidemic.  

	No Jack, I get PISSED OFF when you infer the gay community is making a
big deal about it, when it's people, straight and gay, who are doing this. And
it is the CDC that rates what kind of epidemic it is. You make a lot of
statements Jack and try to tie them to certain groups, when they really aren't
from that group.

| If things are getting better and education is working, then why are the 
| numbers continuing to climb?  

	Read a couple of notes back for your answer.


Glen
323.119BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 02 1995 20:164

	Joe, will you please tell us your plan? I and others are waiting to see
how you would handle this. Thank you...
323.120MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 20:1824
>    Would it be acceptable to you if we
>    saved all the time and money and logistical nightmare
>    and just executed people when they are identified as
>    HIV+.
    
    >	You proposed this.  I didn't.  This statement almost made
    >	me ignore the rest of your reply.
    
    Ignore it if you like, I'm not holding your hand to the flame
    here. It was a serious question (and was intended as a question,
    even though I forgot the ?).
    
    I'll try again. If you can you accept the morality of isolating
    a portion of the population (and you seem to be able to accept
    it as that is what you are arguing for), can you accept the
    notion of executing this same population, and if not, why
    not?
    
    I can't take you further down this road until you answer this
    question, and again, it is a serious questions, so please
    answer it (especially the why not part, as I already assume
    you will say no to the first part).
    
    -b
323.121SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 20:2611
               <<< Note 323.59 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>

>	Jim, lets hope Joes doesn't quarentine them to Colorado Springs. It
>would be bad enough to be quarentined, but to have him in the same town???
>That's too much burden for any one person to take.

	Luckily, I live outside the city limits.

	;-)

Jim
323.122SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 20:2812
      <<< Note 323.60 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>

>    1,000,000. That's the conservative estimate of infected individuals
>    in the US. Where you planning on keeping these people while the
>    disease takes it toll?

	Ooops, my estimate was off my a factor of 3.

	Joe, We'll need the city of Denver, not the Springs.

Jim

323.123TROOA::COLLINSConsultants Of SwingThu Mar 02 1995 20:3310
    
    Joe, is AIDS spread by casual contact or by specific behaviours?
    
    Since you know the answer, lets carry on...
    
    Do you think it is right to punish those who have AIDS (by depriving
    them of their liberty and civil rights) simply because they MAY at
    some time in the future participate in one or more of those specific
    behaviours?
    
323.124SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 02 1995 20:4044
      <<< Note 323.74 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

     
>>	So your answer is to isolate the entire population of HIV+
>>	patients because of the irresponsible actions of only a 
>>	portion of that population. 
    
>    	That seems to be our only resort.  
 
	Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?

   
>    	True, I espouse personal responsibility.  The problem is (as
>    	I previously stated) that society seems to have decided that
>    	it will condone and even embrace the absence of that
>    	responsibility.  At the same time we as a society seem to
>    	want to refuse to address the results of that absence of
>    	responsibility, but we sure like to do a lot of complaining
>    	about the tragic individual devastation that comes from
>    	the result of that absence of responsibility.

	Then anyone that dirnks and has a driver's license should be 
	arrested? and sentenced to life in prison? After all they too
	have the POTENTIAL for causing great harm. 

	At first I thought your statement was just a windup. But now I see
	that you are actually arguing in favor of this inane proposal.
    
>    	I don't have a specific proposal. 

	Look at MY suprise. The impact on the national budget alone
	should make you realize that your proposal is about the
	stupidest suggestion that has ever been made. Let alone the
	issue of Constitutional rights.

>    	I believe I used the term "virtually nil".  We can quibble over
>    	semantics, but I think we both agree that this is no longer a
>    	significant vector at all.

	Define "significant". 1 in 75,000. Just how many pints do you
	think are transfused in this country every year? I'll give you
	a hint, it's in the MILLIONS.

Jim
323.125CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 20:4418
	.119

>	Joe, will you please tell us your plan? 
    
    	I don't have a specific plan.  All I've done is propose the
    	idea.  It's rather narrow-minded of society to reject an idea
    	simply because Joe Oppelt doesn't have all the details worked
    	out.  But you seem perfectly willing to do that.
    
    	Glen, I know very well that this idea doesn't have a snowball's
    	chance in hell.  The biggest drawback, though, isn't logistics,
    	and it isn't even the emotional cost of "breaking up families"
    	(which I don't understand why that issue couldn't be addressed).
    	The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes
    	knee-jerk reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this
    	topic, starting with the very first reply to mine.
    
    	Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
323.126TROOA::COLLINSConsultants Of SwingThu Mar 02 1995 20:467
    
    Note 323.125
    
    	>Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?
    
    Why do you see AIDS as such a threat to you?

323.128TROOA::COLLINSConsultants Of SwingThu Mar 02 1995 20:5310
    
    Note 323.127

        >...but someone 
        >who has contracted AIDS (or HIV) has not perpetrated a crime 
    	>against society.
    
    ...therefore... ?????
    
    
323.129DECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Mar 02 1995 20:559
    .127  Joe, how did Ryan White perpetrate a crime against society?
    As was pointed out, he was infected via a blood transfusion, also
    Elizabeth Glazer and many, many others.
    
    BTW, people ARE being prosecuted for knowingly putting others at
    risk and/or infecting them.  Most states now have laws to address
    this issue.
    
    
323.131MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 21:2665
>    can you accept the
>    notion of executing this same population, and if not, why
>    not?
    
    >	No, I cannot.  I have a hard enough time trying to justify to
    >	myself the idea of executing the worst of criminals, but someone 
    >	who has contracted AIDS (or HIV) has not perpetrated a crime 
    >	against society.
    
    Thank you Joe. Now, here's the rub. What happens when you
    break the law? Society incarcerates you. In some cases,
    if the nature of the transgression is severe enough, society
    may incarcerate you for life.
    
    As it stands today, AIDS is a death sentence. But it is a
    death sentence carried out by nature, not man. While the
    sentence is "pending", the individual goes about their
    life with some level of normalcy for a number of years.
    
    What you propose is essentially "taking over the adminsitration
    of the death sentence", to, in essence, treat HIV+ individuals
    in such as way as if they had committed a crime. What do
    criminals do? They try to avoid prosecution. In this case,
    prosecution is the knowledge of the HIV status. If someone
    turns up HIV+ they get whisked off to some place that they
    are not allowed to leave - they are not allowed to return
    to the general population. Unlike other people in quarantine,
    they are probably not particularly sick, for years. Yet,
    they can no longer pursue their livelihood or otherwise
    allowed to contribute to society. This doesn't sound like
    a big incentive to me Joe. Once (whoever is in charge...)
    finds out you're HIV+, off you go.
    
    So, what would you do? Go and get tested, or _avoid_
    getting tested as best you could, for fear your number
    might come up? Make testing mandatory. Well, fine,
    any time you make something mandatory, you have to come
    up with an "or else" clause? Or else what? What carrot
    and/or stick are you going to use to get the entire
    population of the US to submit to testing? 
    
    You mentioned previously that TB testing is mandatory;
    yes it is in public and (most) private schools. So fine,
    you have TB, you can't go to school. What "you can't..."
    are you going to use to get the entire country to
    submit to testing? Whatever it is, it's probably a
    fairly hefty whack at those pesky civil rights, wouldn't
    you say?
    
    As it stands now, some portion of the population is tested,
    on a voluntary basis. Confidentiality is insured and
    people feel comfortable knowing their status. But start
    mandatory testing programs, with a guaranteed trip to
    the behavioral leper colony for the happy lottery winners,
    and you'll see virtually everyone trying as best they
    can _not_ to be tested.
    
    This is just one of many logistical arguments against
    your proposal. But, you must also consider that it's
    not just your proposal. It's been discussed many times,
    but the flaws are so gargantuan that it never gets
    past the talking phase. Good thing too, I'd rather not
    live in a country where such things happen.
    
    -b
323.132(*)ICS::EWINGThu Mar 02 1995 21:3610
    
    .130
    
    >  Probably some place warmer.  :^)
    
    So you're suggesting some place like Mojava desert, right? That way
    the Buzzards can do all the dirty work. And I thought I've seen
    it all in the 'box.
    
                                                          
323.134MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Mar 02 1995 21:4424
After wading through all of the replies since I left earlier today, it
was nice to see that Brian just summarized some of the nightmare aspects
I'd been considering.

Imagine for a moment, the number of folks who may be HIV+ but are
unaware of it. Some may not even want to know, because they're already
scared silly by the disease and have just coccooned themselves in
a lifestyle which will both keep them clean if they are and prevent
them from spreading it if they aren't. They just want to continue to
enjoy a productive life for as long as they can. Now they get herded like
cattle into testing sites and take a crap roll that they can have their
lifestyle whisked away from them (and how 'bout them false positives, eh?)

If they have a job, and a home, and responsibilities, what happens to all
of that? Can't keep the job, even though they're still able to work. I
expect we'll have to give them their LTD bennies if we force them out
the door. They've got to leave their house behind. Who's responsible for
mortgage and other financial responsibilities if they can't sell? And,
now that you've taken them away somewhere against their wishes, I suppose
you get to confiscate their assets and disability income to subsidize
their upkeep even though this wasn't their idea?

Sounds to me like being treated like garbage.

323.135CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 21:5051
	.124
     
>	Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?
    
    	I see that theatrics are your only answer too.

>	Then anyone that dirnks and has a driver's license should be 
>	arrested? and sentenced to life in prison? After all they too
>	have the POTENTIAL for causing great harm. 
    
    	We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk
    	driving).  We as a society are **NOT** working to change
    	the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in fact are (arguably)
    	encouraging them.
    
    	In addition, prison terms are used for rehabilitation (supposedly).
    	Drunk driving can be "cured".  AIDS cannot.

>	At first I thought your statement was just a windup. But now I see
>	that you are actually arguing in favor of this inane proposal.
    
    	I'd be interested in hearing what you have to offer that is
    	better.
    
    	I have answered many of the opposition points raised against
    	the idea.  You have primarily contributed emotional sound
    	bites and insults.
    
>	Look at MY suprise. The impact on the national budget alone
>	should make you realize that your proposal is about the
>	stupidest suggestion that has ever been made. 
    
    	And what is the imact on the national budget for AIDS care
    	today, and as an ongoing program that will only grow with
    	the epidemic?
    
>	Let alone the issue of Constitutional rights.
    
    	I fail to see how constitutional rights are impacted by
    	disease testing and quarantine.  We have exactly that for
    	other diseases.  Why is AIDS different.  If anyone can
    	show me, it would be you.  (And I ask you that with the
    	utmost of sincerity.)
    
>	Define "significant". 1 in 75,000. Just how many pints do you
>	think are transfused in this country every year? I'll give you
>	a hint, it's in the MILLIONS.

    	Removing a larger percentage of the AIDS victims (through 
    	routine and regular national testing) from the donor pool would
    	serve to reduce that percentage even more drastically.
323.138CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 22:1255
	.131
        
>    What you propose is essentially "taking over the adminsitration
>    of the death sentence", to, in essence, treat HIV+ individuals
>    in such as way as if they had committed a crime. What do
>    criminals do? 
    
    	Again, quarantine does not have to be like prison.
    
>    they can no longer pursue their livelihood or otherwise
>    allowed to contribute to society. This doesn't sound like
>    a big incentive to me Joe. Once (whoever is in charge...)
>    finds out you're HIV+, off you go.
    
    	Through all the arguments, this is the first that has any
    	validity to me, and unfortunately one that shows a terrible
    	flaw in the idea.  Jack's addition about paying the mortgage
    	and all those dependent upon the quarrantined person adds to
    	it.
    
    	This still doesn't put up a roadblock for me against a national,
    	mandatory testing program though.  I think that anytime someone
    	gets blood drawn, for any reason, a sample should be taken if
    	that person hasn't already been tested within the last 12 months.
    
>    Make testing mandatory. Well, fine,
>    any time you make something mandatory, you have to come
>    up with an "or else" clause? Or else what? 
    
    	You can't give blood, for starters.
    
>    population of the US to submit to testing? 
    
    	It doesn't have to be as heavy-handed as "submitting".  As I
    	proposed above, any time a person gets blood drawn and hasn't
    	been tested in the last 12 months, a sample goes to the AIDS
    	test lab.  And the government should entirely fund the program.
    
>    But start
>    mandatory testing programs, with a guaranteed trip to
>    the behavioral leper colony for the happy lottery winners,
>    and you'll see virtually everyone trying as best they
>    can _not_ to be tested.
    
    	Previously it was stated that most people become very responsible
    	with their behavior once they know they are HIV+.  If we had a
    	national testing program without the consequences of the "leper
    	colony", wouldn't such a program allow the majority of HIV+
    	people who otherwise didn't know their plight to then become
    	more responsible and, in effect, "self-quarantine" through
    	responsible behavior modifications?  
    
    	Couple that with laws that make it illegal to knowingly transmit
    	HIV, and we might very well achieve a significant reduction in
    	the spread of AIDS.
323.139MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsThu Mar 02 1995 22:4240
    Joe,
    
    You're crossing over into a whole other area here. Good. I'm
    glad you seem to be putting this quarantine thing to rest. In
    fact, we are close to agreeing.
    
    It's a very simple matter to ask for an AIDS screening when
    blood is drawn... and it happens automatically in a number
    of cases.
    
    I've had it done several times as part of insurance physicals,
    and my local hospital has a clinic that does screening for $20.
    
    So, even if for some reason people would prefer to be checked
    by someone other than their regular physician, they can.
    
    I guess the only thing we don't agree on is the "mandatory".
    Sure, you definitely want to keep HIV+ people out of the
    blood and tissue banks. But, there's already 2 step (over
    the mimimum incubation period) blind DNA testing for that
    anyway. But the problem with mandatory testing is what is
    done with the information? If it is used to inform the
    individual of their status and is held confidential, then
    I suppose testing would be OK.
    
    What I would like to see happen is the development of a
    home test, that could be self-administered. The ideal
    test would be one that worked quickly and identified
    several common STDs (as well as HIV). If two people are to
    have sex, they can take a few minutes to make sure they're
    not infected. Such tests are under development. If the
    cost could be kept to a minimum, it could join all the other
    boink paraphenalia we already put up with... (the condoms,
    the foam, etc. etc.).
    
    Also, making people aware of the combined benefits,
    not only to birth control but disease prevention,
    of condoms and contraceptive foam, is further help.
    
    -b
323.140OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Thu Mar 02 1995 22:5014
    Re: .92
    
    >Those who travel out of the country could be required to have a 
    >post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
    
    They can infect a lot of people in 6-12 months.  Not a very effective
    quarantine.  If you want a quarantine, then stick to it.
    
    >a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
    
    Well, so much for balancing the budget.
    
    I notice you didn't address the human aspects.  If your child had AIDS,
    could you really stand to not be there?
323.141OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Thu Mar 02 1995 22:547
    Re: .110
    
    >The number of new AIDS cases continues to grow
    
    Given the latency between infection and development of AIDS, the number
    of new cases today does not reflect the effectiveness of today's
    policies.  We'll see the effect a couple of years down the road.
323.142CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 23:0129
	.140
    
>    >Those who travel out of the country could be required to have a 
>    >post-return test at 6 months and 12 months.
>    
>    They can infect a lot of people in 6-12 months.  Not a very effective
>    quarantine.  If you want a quarantine, then stick to it.
    
    	In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time
    	is still better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what
    	is currently in place, given the approximate 10-year average
    	life expectancy once you get it.)
    
>    >a nationwide periodic testing for all residents
>    
>    Well, so much for balancing the budget.
    
    	The budget currently pays for a significant portion of AIDS
    	treatment anyway, considering that many in their end stages
    	are no longer employed and don't have insurance.  Medicaid,
    	medicare, welfare.  And you can top that off with hospitalization
    	costs that get absorbed by the hospitals for people who die
    	broke and have rung up serious treatment costs.
    
>    I notice you didn't address the human aspects.  If your child had AIDS,
>    could you really stand to not be there?
    
    	If you bothered to catch up before writing you would have noticed
    	some other things too.
323.143CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 02 1995 23:0827
	.139
        
>    I guess the only thing we don't agree on is the "mandatory".
    
    	It would have to be mandatory to be effective.
    
>    But the problem with mandatory testing is what is
>    done with the information? If it is used to inform the
>    individual of their status and is held confidential, then
>    I suppose testing would be OK.
    
    	I understand your concern.  I even harbor the same doubts --
    	even paranoia -- that you might about the government misusing
    	the database.  Ideally it should remain confidential.
    
    	Yet at the same time it wouldn't be unreasonable to have
    	uniform laws that make the transmission of AIDS a serious
    	crime.  If one person were to contract it from another, the
    	database could easliy be used to determine if the first
    	infected person knew s/he was infected at the time s/he
    	passed it on to another.
    
>    What I would like to see happen is the development of a
>    home test, that could be self-administered. 
    
    	Not an unreasonable option at all.  It eliminates the
    	national database.
323.144Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Fri Mar 03 1995 00:0811
    Do you people realise, that in 143 replies you have got absolutely 
    nowhere ?
    
    May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
    - couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
    last was note .109. I believe that if you look at what the professionals
    (key word) have done over the last 10+ years you will be able to
    provide your own possible solutions. Solutions that are just and humane
    and solutions that society as a whole (not just yourself) would agree on
    
    The answer lies within these answers. 
323.145CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Mar 03 1995 00:4711



 Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?




 Jim
323.146Lots of money is being spent...GAAS::BRAUCHERFri Mar 03 1995 10:5812
    
    Well, actually there are now 3 competing drugs that extend the
    prognosis from 5 to 6-7 years.  Two have FDA approval, and Merck's
    application is in process.  Not cures, but shown to have beneficial
    effects.  The reason the private companies do not co-operate is that
    there are big bucks in successs, not to mention fame.  Not that only
    capitalistic motives have proven at all effective so far, although
    many governments are sponsoring research into this.  I don't think
    anybody can claim the drug researchers aren't trying as hard as they
    can.  It is a very difficult bioengineering problem.
    
      bb
323.147 SUBURB::COOKSHalf Man,Half BiscuitFri Mar 03 1995 11:213
    People who are found to have AIDS should have their bottoms branded
    with an 'A' to warn others.
    
323.148MKOTS3::MACFAWNMy mother warned me about you...Fri Mar 03 1995 11:5311
    .147
    
    Sure...then we should brand all the jerks in this world with "A$$",
    all the prostitutes with "P", all the drunk drivers with "D", all
    the child molesters with "C", all the rapists with "R"....
    
    And what about those people who don't know if they have AIDS or not?
    You would have to brand EVERYONE with "A?"
    
    
    
323.149MAIL2::CRANEFri Mar 03 1995 11:583
    .148
    I think they are truing the "C" for child molesters in N.J. and are
    having a very hard time with it.
323.150Kids are angels...MKOTS3::MACFAWNMy mother warned me about you...Fri Mar 03 1995 12:3823
    Besides, branding people isn't going to solve the problem.  Sure it
    would help minimize it, but then again you're faced with the issue that
    a bazillion people don't even know yet.
    
    I have a friend who is a foster parent for AIDS babies.  The mothers
    have abandoned their babies, and now the little guys are going to die
    without their mother.  So my friend tries to give them as much love and
    hope and comfort she can while they are still here.  She says it's the
    only thing she can do for them.  She feels horrible because the
    children are in so much pain and are so sick, but at least she can hold
    them and let them know that they are loved.
    
    Just because someone is sick, you can't abandon them.  You must show
    them that they are cared for and loved just the same as when they're
    not sick.      
    
    Children didn't do anything to get this disease except for being born
    or needing blood.  How could anyone condemn them?  
    
    Thank God there are people like my friend who care more about the
    children than the disease they are carrying.
    
    
323.151BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 12:4328
| <<< Note 323.125 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| I don't have a specific plan. All I've done is propose the idea. It's rather 
| narrow-minded of society to reject an idea simply because Joe Oppelt doesn't 
| have all the details worked out. But you seem perfectly willing to do that.

	I think if Joe Oppelt did work it out he would see how unfeasible of a
plan it is. Another thing you can add into the equation is law suits. Joe, if
you can't come up with the plan that will work, why bring it up and push it
like it's a good idea? How can an idea that isn't even formulated past the word
quarentine be considered as something real? 

| The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes knee-jerk 
| reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this topic, starting with the very 
| first reply to mine.

	Gee Joe, people would like to one, try and understand where you're
coming from, two, see a plan (DETAILS) laid out, and three, have a real reason
for doing this. You have provided us with #1, but the other two are real
important as well. Hey, what if Congress had a way to solve the budget
problems, but never said what the details were. Would you feel a little
worried? I would. Would you be one of the people who would vote for this plan?
A plan without details is really just a dream, isn't it?

| Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?

	How did you come up with this one Joe?
323.152BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 12:5219
| <<< Note 323.133 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| then the only thing to do is to prevent those who have the disease from 
| participating in those behaviors with those who do not have the disease.

	Joe, why is it that you don't seem to hold the uninfected person at
fault in any of this? I mean, if they are going to have sex, doesn't that mean
they could be potential carriers? Shouldn't we now wisk all of them off too to
prevent their behaviors from harming them? 

	And you know, now that you're talking about it, we should also take all
the smokers of the world and put them in a big bubble. This way none of us will
have to get lung cancer because of their behaviors. We should ban cars too, or
take those who drive and stuff them into a bubble or two as well.... 

| Can you think of a better way?

	Yeah, education.
323.153SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 13:0022
     <<< Note 323.125 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


>    	The biggest drawback is the political sensitivity that causes
>    	knee-jerk reactions as were so amply demonstrated in this
>    	topic, starting with the very first reply to mine.
 
	Just goes to show how out of touch you really are. The biggest
	drawback is the COST.

	Let's assume that we can isolate these patients for the same 
	cost as incarcerate criminals, about $30k per year. No medical
	care, no frills. You're looking at a cost of $10 BILLION bucks
	every year. Where are you going to find the $10 BILLION.

>    	Why do you see this suggestion as such a threat to you?

	Any proposal that threatens the civil liberties of ANY population
	threatens me. I have an automatic response when I hear the sound
	of jackboots.

Jim
323.154BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:0134
| <<< Note 323.135 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk driving). We as a 
| society are **NOT** working to change the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in 
| fact are (arguably) encouraging them.

	Let's see, the beer companies talk about how one should not drink and
drive. The AIDS commercials are talking about the disease and what it can do.
Sounds like both are doing the same things, yet one is acceptable to you, one
is not. It might be that in AIDS commercials they are talking about condoms as
well. But what is the #1 way people hear about beer? By these clever ads that
has people drinking at the beach, having parties and drinking, going to bars
full of people drinking, athletes promoting the stuff. Why don't you see this
as being in the same boat as AIDS Joe? I think out of the two, AIDS commercials
do much more to help stop the disease, than one out of 5 beer commercials
talking about no drinking or driving. EVERY AIDS commercial talks about it. 

| I have answered many of the opposition points raised against the idea.  

	Joe, you have answered nothing until you provide details. You can't
even do that!

| You have primarily contributed emotional sound bites and insults.

	Has anyone noticed that Joe plays the victim routine when he can't
answer questions? I mean, things like theatrics, sound bites, insults, etc.

| Why is AIDS different.  

	People have shown you Joe. You just keep those eyes squeezed shut so
you can't see the obvious answers.

Glen
323.155SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 13:0311
     <<< Note 323.133 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	I can't think of another way to prevent the spread through
>    	those behaviors.

	So because YOUR mental proccesses are inadequate, we should
	lock them all up?

	Well I'M convinced.

Jim
323.156BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:0412
| <<< Note 323.139 by MPGS::MARKEY "Send John Thomas some doughnuts" >>>

| What I would like to see happen is the development of a home test, that could 
| be self-administered. The ideal test would be one that worked quickly and 
| identified several common STDs (as well as HIV). 

	Brian, a plan like this would definitely get more people to do testing.
That would be a real good idea. I also think if it's accurate, it could very
easily save the medical community big $$$$.


Glen
323.157BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:1112
| <<< Note 323.142 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>



| In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time is still 
| better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what is currently in place, 
| given the approximate 10-year average life expectancy once you get it.)

	Joe, you just shot your quarentine idea in the foot. Now how about
addressing the people who visit here, or those who sneak into the country, etc.

Glen
323.158BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:1412
| <<< Note 323.143 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| I understand your concern.  I even harbor the same doubts -- even paranoia -- 
| that you might about the government misusing the database.  

	Joe, are you one who trusts the government now? IF your answer is no,
why would you want them to run a database?

	Are you one who believes the government should get out of our lives? IF
yes, why would you want them to run the database?

323.159BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:1513
| <<< Note 323.144 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>


| May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
| - couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
| last was note .109. 

	Jim's question has been addressed over several notes in this topic. All
the muppet man has to do is read.



Glen
323.160SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 13:1653
     <<< Note 323.135 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>>	Just how many pairs of jackboots do you own?
    
>    	I see that theatrics are your only answer too.

	I see that you did not answer my question. That many, huh?

>    	We as a society are working to change this behavior (drunk
>    	driving).  We as a society are **NOT** working to change
>    	the behaviors that spread AIDS, and in fact are (arguably)
>    	encouraging them.
 
	It has been pointed out to you on a number of occasions that 
	there ARE laws dealing with someone who, knowing that they
	are HIV+, engages in that behavior. So your statement is a
	simple lie.

>You have primarily contributed emotional sound
>    	bites and insults.
 
	That's about all your propsal deserves.

>    	I fail to see how constitutional rights are impacted by
>    	disease testing and quarantine.  We have exactly that for
>    	other diseases.  Why is AIDS different.  If anyone can
>    	show me, it would be you.  (And I ask you that with the
>    	utmost of sincerity.)
 
	Joe, you keep harping about "other diseases". Please give us
	a list of the diseases that are subject to quarrantine that
	are as difficult to transmit as is AIDS. TB? easily transmitted
	throught the air. Pneumonic plague? Same. Bubonic plague, 
	beleive it or not is not quarrantined, it has to be transmitted
	via flea bites.

	Give us a list. You ask why AIDS is different. Look at the 
	transmission vectors and you will find the answer.

>    	Removing a larger percentage of the AIDS victims (through 
>    	routine and regular national testing) from the donor pool would
>    	serve to reduce that percentage even more drastically.

	Joe, EVERY ONE of those pints has been tested for HIV and they
	STILL slip through. Tell me why you believe that testing of
	the population will be any more effective.

	Oh and BTW, the test costs about $40, there's another $10 BILLION
	that you have to come up with.

Jim


323.161BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:167
| <<< Note 323.145 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
| community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?

	Actually Jim, that's the 1st I heard of it.
323.162SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 13:2114
     <<< Note 323.142 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

    
>    	In defense of the quarantine idea, allowing a 6-12 month lag time
>    	is still better than allowing a 10-year lag time (which is what
>    	is currently in place, given the approximate 10-year average
>    	life expectancy once you get it.)
 
	More ignorance. The virus itself can have a 10 year latent
	period before the patient develops symptoms (AIDS). From
	the onset of symptoms to death varies widely but 3 to 5 years
	is not unusual.

Jim
323.163CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Mar 03 1995 13:2124


RE:              <<< Note 323.159 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>

| <<< Note 323.144 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>


| May I suggest that somebody researches the answers to Jim's (muppetman
| - couldn't resist :*)) question. The question he has asked twice. The
| last was note .109. 

>	Jim's question has been addressed over several notes in this topic. All
>the muppet man has to do is read.



I've been reading.  the only answer I've seen is "education", but I haven't
seen how effective education has been in curbing the problem.




Jim
323.164GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA member in good standingFri Mar 03 1995 13:2227
    
    
    Glen,
    
    Why do you question him when you just reprinted his answer with regards
    to the same subject?
    
    
    
    
    It seems that the concerns here all revolve around the fear of you or
    of someone you know dying from the disease.  
    
    Well, people die of this disease every day, we don't really have to
    deal with it until it hits close to home.  This point was driven home 
    to me in the last week, with the death of Ryan.  Children and adults 
    die of this and other diseases every day and I don't give it a thought 
    because I don't know them or of them.  It has been a lesson to me to 
    be more cognizant of what is happening in the lives of others that I 
    do not know.  To say a prayer for the sick and the dying.  To enjoy 
    the time I have with the people in my life and to let them know how 
    I feel about them.  Sorry for the tangent, but this has been on my mind
    quite a bit lately.  
    
    
    
    Mike
323.165CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Mar 03 1995 13:2420



RE:              <<< Note 323.161 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>



>| Any comments on Monday's WSJ (or NYT) article stating tht the homosexual
>| community is not doing enough to police themselves wrt AIDS prevention?

>	Actually Jim, that's the 1st I heard of it.


 I haven't read the article myself, but I heard bits and pieces of it on 
 Monday. 



 Jim
323.166BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:2414
| <<< Note 323.153 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

| Let's assume that we can isolate these patients for the same cost as 
| incarcerate criminals, about $30k per year. No medical care, no frills. You're
| looking at a cost of $10 BILLION bucks every year. 

	Steve, if you have 1,000,000 people who are infected with AIDS, at the
cost of 30k/year, doesn't that come out to 30 BILLION, and not 10 BILLION? I
wonder what the actual cost will be to add in the cost of medical? The cost of
doctors/staff? Police to keep crime in order? Sounds like Joe really hasn't put
much thought into this at all.


Glen
323.167POBOX::BATTISContract StudmuffinFri Mar 03 1995 13:245
    
    Finnally!!!! A well thought out answer, to the point and poignant to
    boot!!
    
    Mark
323.168POBOX::BATTISContract StudmuffinFri Mar 03 1995 13:252
    
    .164's I mean
323.169POLAR::RICHARDSONAlleged DegirdificationFri Mar 03 1995 13:291
    finally
323.170BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:3012
| <<< Note 323.163 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>

| I've been reading.  the only answer I've seen is "education", but I haven't
| seen how effective education has been in curbing the problem.

	Jim, the answers are there. When Magic Johnson came out as HIV+, he
educated the world that hets could get it too. When gays were getting infected,
THEY went out and educated the masses. Part of that education is to get tested,
what one should or should not do. 


Glen
323.171MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 03 1995 13:311
    Don't screw around!
323.172CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantFri Mar 03 1995 13:3322
    As an interesting side note to this (IMO) a new movie is coming out
    called Outbreak (I think) that deals with an Ebola type outbreak and
    the subsequent panic/containment measures used.  Not unlike the Stand
    in some ways.  
    
    I personally believe that a disease, any disease in uncontainable due
    to the sheer numbers of exposures that will occur in a very short
    period of time.  There is no practical way of starting/enforcing a
    quarantine.  The numbers worldwide are too large and movement or the
    population is too frequent.  The TB sanitaria were adequate though the 
    disease was not that contagious and virulent as to pose a threat to the 
    entire population of the world.  It was containable through vaccinations 
    and segregation of those that caught it.  
    
    I will agrgee with Joe on one point and that is the need for behavior
    modification by both sides of the sexual preference fence and the IV drug
    abusers.  IMO it is the only way short of a vaccine or treatment after
    the fact that will halt the advance of the disease.  To round up and
    place HIV+ in a single place is incomprehensible numerically and
    economically, if not socially.  No practical way to do it. 
    
    Brian
323.173BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 13:3732
| <<< Note 323.164 by GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER "NRA member in good standing" >>>

| Why do you question him when you just reprinted his answer with regards
| to the same subject?

	Could you specify who "him" is?

| It seems that the concerns here all revolve around the fear of you or of 
| someone you know dying from the disease.

	How is that? 

| Well, people die of this disease every day, we don't really have to deal with 
| it until it hits close to home.  

	I guess the same could be said about any disease. But doesn't it make
sense to educate oneself to this or any other disease so they can know the
warning signs? 

RE: tangent

	Mike, there is nothing wrong with what you have said. It can take a
death to have people realize about a situation, whether it be a disease or
something entirely different. But does it always make sense to wait until
something happens before one does anything about it? Education alone, about
this and other diseases, can save lives. 20 years ago women weren't really
educated about checking from breast cancer, were they? Look what education has
done for them. Fewer and fewer women die as a result of breast cancer each
year. 


Glen
323.174SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 13:4524
              <<< Note 323.166 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>

>	Steve, if you have 1,000,000 people who are infected with AIDS, at the
>cost of 30k/year, doesn't that come out to 30 BILLION, and not 10 BILLION?

	See what happens when I try to do math before I have my coffee.
	
> I
>wonder what the actual cost will be to add in the cost of medical? The cost of
>doctors/staff? Police to keep crime in order? Sounds like Joe really hasn't put
>much thought into this at all.


	Let's not forget the LOST tax revenues from these 1 million
	people.

	Wait a minute, didn't Joe tell us some time back that Gays
	were particularly affluent. Average $60k a year jobs? Doesn't
	that work out to $16.8 million a year in lost revenues? Over
	10 years, another 1.68 BILLION bucks.

	Geez, this is getting expensive.

Jim
323.175GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA member in good standingFri Mar 03 1995 14:3319
    
    
    Glen, Only the first line was directed at you and your previous reply
    to Glen.
    
    
    
    Has education been working?  Are you saying that education hasn't been
    going on for the last 10 or so years?  Talk to any child 10-12 years
    old and ask them if they know what AIDS is and how it is contracted,
    I'll bet you 80-90 percent could tell you the answer.  AIDS is still on
    the rise.  I'm not saying that education should stop or that it's a bad
    thing.  I'm saying that maybe we need something to shock these people a
    bit more.  I wonder if Magic will be out there when his health starts
    to deteriorate.  I think he should be out there if he is serious about
    showing others what the disease can do.  (I use Magic because his name
    has been used before)
    
    Mike
323.176 SUBURB::COOKSHalf Man,Half BiscuitFri Mar 03 1995 15:215
    Er,.147 was a joke.
    
    Don`t ask me what to do about AIDS. Except take up gardening instead
    of sex. Like Hilda Ogden of Coronation Street fame did.
    
323.177POWDML::LAUERLittle Chamber of Fuzzy FacesFri Mar 03 1995 15:252
    
    As well she should have; I wouldn't have done Stan.
323.178CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 03 1995 16:3320
	.153
     
>	Just goes to show how out of touch you really are. The biggest
>	drawback is the COST.
    
    	Jim, we as a society are already absorbing the cost of AIDS
    	treatment.  Without an end to the spread of AIDS we are 
    	destined to absorb that cost in ever growing amounts for the
    	unforseeable future.
    
    	As for the rest of your replies -- laced with jackboots and
    	insults but little substance -- and the same for Glen's 
    	volumes of vitriol, you two are arguing with your own demons
    	because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to
    	Jack and Brian.  That you attempt to continue to argue the 
    	issue with me tells me that you are only interested in
    	arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have).  Were you
    	really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion,
    	you would have acknowledged my change in position (which
    	neither of you did), accepted it, and moved on.
323.179SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 16:3711
     <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	Jim, we as a society are already absorbing the cost of AIDS
>    	treatment.  Without an end to the spread of AIDS we are 
>    	destined to absorb that cost in ever growing amounts for the
>    	unforseeable future.
 
	Joe, the costs we are discussing are INCREMENTAL to the
	costs for health care. 
   
Jim
323.180OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Fri Mar 03 1995 16:4013
    Re: .142
    
    >In defense of the quarantine idea
    
    Only it's _not_ a quarantine idea.  It's a sort of quarantine idea.  If
    you're going to propose a quarantine, if you really believe that we
    have to do whatever it takes, then shut down travel to foreign areas,
    particularly those where AIDS is nearly endemic.
    
    >The budget currently pays for a significant portion of AIDS treatment 
    >anyway
    
    So what?  "We already spend a lot of money.  So let's spend more."
323.181MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 03 1995 16:4310
    How about this, anybody who passes on the HIV virus through sex will
    have committed a felony and will be exiled to a remote
    Island...provided, they haven't been tested in the past 4 months.
    Greenland might be a good choice.  Consider the fact that this would
    eliminate prostitution one way or the other and would...yes you guessed
    it, force morality on the public.
    
    Better get tested!
    
    -Jack
323.182BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 16:4443
| <<< Note 323.175 by GRANPA::MWANNEMACHER "NRA member in good standing" >>>



| Glen, Only the first line was directed at you and your previous reply to Glen.

	To Glenn or did you confuse me with who you meant?

| Has education been working?  

	Yes, look at the decline for gays in new cases of HIV. Like it was
stated earlier, it will take a couple of years for the results to be seen. The
study that was talked about has stated that 3/4 of all new AIDS cases for
heterosexuals is due to drugs. If this is true, then it shows that education IS
working for transmitting the disease sexually for heterosexuals as well. 

| Are you saying that education hasn't been going on for the last 10 or so 
| years?  

	In the mainstream? Not really. I heard of peoples doctors who said
straight people had nothing to worry about. Until Magic Johnson told the world
he had the disease, most of mainstream America (het) thought they could not get
the disease. You did not see commercials on tv until about 3 years ago. 

| Talk to any child 10-12 years old and ask them if they know what AIDS is and 
| how it is contracted, I'll bet you 80-90 percent could tell you the answer.  

	Errrrr.... Mike, what does this have to do with education happening 10
years ago? It's out there now, so I hope they are hearing about it.

| I wonder if Magic will be out there when his health starts to deteriorate. 

	I guess that will depend on how far he is willing to let it go before
he wants his privacy. 

| I think he should be out there if he is serious about showing others what the 
| disease can do.  (I use Magic because his name has been used before)

	You get to a point Mike where you will want to have your privacy. I
would bet he would want to still be out there, but it will be far less.


Glen
323.183NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Mar 03 1995 16:441
Have you asked the Greenlanders?
323.184BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 16:4716
| <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to Jack and Brian. 
| That you attempt to continue to argue the issue with me tells me that you are 
| only interested in arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have).  

	I think we were responding to your notes. That might have something to
do with it Joey.

| Were you really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion, you 
| would have acknowledged my change in position (which neither of you did), 
| accepted it, and moved on.

	Joe, if we see a note, why would we not respond to it. Keep cryin pal.
It fits ya.
323.185BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 16:484

	Jack, the last line of your note was beautiful, and I agree with it
100%! The rest of that note was pure crap though. 
323.186MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 03 1995 16:577
    Of course it was crap to you Glen...you didn't disappoint me once
    again!  So Glen, how many prostitutes do you think go to planned
    parenthood clinics for advice?  My guess is very few.  But hey, if you
    don't care for the lives of the prostitute or the Jon, then let's keep 
    playing the game your way Glen!!
    
    -Jack
323.187SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 17:0437
     <<< Note 323.178 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	As for the rest of your replies -- laced with jackboots and
>    	insults but little substance -- and the same for Glen's 
>    	volumes of vitriol, you two are arguing with your own demons
>    	because I've already dropped the quarantine idea thanks to
>    	Jack and Brian.

	Oh Really? In .135 you were still defending it. In .138 you 
	appear to disavow it, admitting that your proposal was fatally
	flawed. BUT, then in .142 you come back with "in DEFENSE of 
	the quarantine idea" (empahsis added). .143 is the last entry
	of yours prior to .178 and it does not deal with quarantine.

>  That you attempt to continue to argue the 
>    	issue with me tells me that you are only interested in
>    	arguing (for whatever personal reasons you have). 

	I continue to argue with you about because your last statement
	on the subject was "in DEFENSE of the quarantine idea". I
	don't know about others, but a statment defending an idea
	does not imply to me that you have changed your position.

> Were you
>    	really interested in any sort of resolution to the discussion,
>    	you would have acknowledged my change in position (which
>    	neither of you did), accepted it, and moved on.

	It's tough to acknowledge a position that changed 49 minutes
	later.

	Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
	or AIDS patients would be helpful for Glen an I in determining
	just exactly what position you now hold (assuming that you don't
	reverse yourself again after you make it).

Jim
323.188BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 17:0511
| <<< Note 323.186 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

| So Glen, how many prostitutes do you think go to planned parenthood clinics 
| for advice?  

	How does PP get dragged into all of this Jack?????

| But hey, if you don't care for the lives of the prostitute or the Jon, then 
| let's keep playing the game your way Glen!!

	Uh huh.... whatever Jack...
323.189NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Mar 03 1995 17:101
That's john, not Jon.
323.190MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 03 1995 17:2010
    Glen:
    
    PP was established to offer reproductive health aid to the inner city.
    (Margaret Sanger hated human weeds remember?)  Prostitutes mainly hang
    around the metropolitan areas of the country Glen, that's why I brought
    it up.  You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I
    was saying was prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to
    spread the disease.
    
    -Jack
323.192SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 18:1710
     <<< Note 323.191 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	Were quarantine to work, it would eliminate perpetual costs
>    	that we are currently destined to bear.  Consider it an 
>    	investment.  A stitch in time.

	I take it that you are back on the quarantine bandwagon?

Jim

323.193CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 03 1995 18:2126
    	.187
    
>	Oh Really? In .135 you were still defending it. In .138 you 
>	appear to disavow it, admitting that your proposal was fatally
>	flawed. BUT, then in .142 you come back with "in DEFENSE of 
>	the quarantine idea" (empahsis added). .143 is the last entry
>	of yours prior to .178 and it does not deal with quarantine.
    
    	I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
    	mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
    
>	I continue to argue with you about because your last statement
>	on the subject was "in DEFENSE of the quarantine idea".
    
    	I guess some of us are more contextually challenged than
    	others.
    
>	I don't know about others, but a statment defending an idea
>	does not imply to me that you have changed your position.
    
    	idem.

>	Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
>	or AIDS patients would be helpful 
    
    	You now have it.  Again.
323.195BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 18:3013
| <<< Note 323.190 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| PP was established to offer reproductive health aid to the inner city. 
| Prostitutes mainly hang around the metropolitan areas of the country Glen, 
| that's why I brought it up.  

	Thanks for clearing that up Jack.

| You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I was saying was 
| prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to spread the disease.

	No, but people do go to the prostitutes and talk to them.
323.196SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 18:4123
     <<< Note 323.193 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
>    	mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
 
	Certainly. Of course clarity of communication is primarily
	the responsibility of the communicator.
   
>    	I guess some of us are more contextually challenged than
>    	others.
 
	Well I didn't want to make the accusation, but if you are willing
	to confess, that's OK by me.

>>	Now maybe a CLEAR statement that you disavow quarantine for HIV+
>>	or AIDS patients would be helpful 
    
>    	You now have it.  Again.

	Does this statement precede or supercede .191?

Jim

323.197SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 03 1995 18:4311
     <<< Note 323.194 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	Since I figure that's pretty well cleared up, can I ask if
>    	you disagree with the statement you took erroneously?

	Since you appear to be having a case of "Clinton Flip-Flop" in
	stating your true position on this matter, it is hard to figure
	out what to respond to in your various replies.

Jim

323.198TROOA::COLLINSConsultants Of SwingFri Mar 03 1995 18:453
    
    Joe firmly believes in <mumble>.    :^)
    
323.199CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 03 1995 19:0016
	.196
    
>>    	You now have it.  Again.
>
>	Does this statement precede or supercede .191?
    
    	Neither.  You already know what's what based on the beginning of
    	.196, namely:
    
>>    	I would hope that one is still allowed to address specific
>>    	mistakes/misunderstandings of something he no longer supports.
> 
>	Certainly. 
    
	Any further claim of lack of clarity is now a problem on your
    	part.  I'll let .197 slide.
323.200BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 03 1995 19:103

	how snarf of you
323.201OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Fri Mar 03 1995 19:3813
    Re: .190
    
    >Margaret Sanger hated human weeds
    
    She was also not psyched about women suffering the aftereffects of
    do-it-yourself abortions.
    
    >You said education was the key...well, it is a key but what I was
    >saying was prostitutes won't flock to PP to find out how not to
    >spread the disease.
    
    If Planned Parenthood were the only source of education about AIDS,
    that would be a problem.
323.202OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Fri Mar 03 1995 19:4115
    Re: .191
    
    >it would eliminate perpetual costs that we are currently destined to
    >bear
    
    First, you don't know that AIDS will persist into perpetuity.  Second,
    you don't know what the future costs will be.  Third, you don't know
    how much of those costs would come out of public funds.  Fourth, you
    don't know what a quarantine would cost.  Fifth, you don't know if the
    cost of a quarantine would, in fact, offset the public cost of dealing 
    with AIDS.
    
    This is why people are made to submit detailed proposals before
    proceeding to the implementation phase.  Right now, it looks like you'd
    have a really tough time getting past the design phase.
323.203BRAT::MINICHINOFri Mar 03 1995 19:4317
    .191..      Oppelt
    
    Are you suggesting that we put these people to work after we quarantine
    them....how pretell can we get SICK AND DIEING people up and atom and
    working...so what about the infants, toddlers and young adults, should
    we make them work too, gee, take away their families, friend and any
    other contact that is familiar to them, then make them work!!!
    Brilliant..so who's going to pay these people?
    
    come on, you seem somewhat intelligent...think this through. 
    If you're not in a high risk group, you're taking precautions to
    prevent the spead of HIV, then guess what, your chances of aquiring
    HIV are about as good as YOU working in the AIDS COLONY!!!!!
    
    Again, How come the health officials are not aquiring the virus
    everyday?
    
323.204CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 03 1995 19:558
	.203
        
>    Are you suggesting that we put these people to work after we quarantine
>    them....how pretell can we get SICK AND DIEING people up and atom and
>    working...
    
    	I don't know how you got that (or anything else you said in .203)
    	from my .191 or anything else I've said.
323.205CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 03 1995 20:0941
	.202
        
>    First, you don't know that AIDS will persist into perpetuity. 
    
    	Perhaps.  But wouldn't you consider it rather shortsighted
    	to assume it won't, given current knowledge and trends of
    	AIDS?
    
>    Second, you don't know what the future costs will be.  
    
    	True, but given the current knowledge and trends, wouldn't
    	you expect it to at least remain the same, if not increase
    	due to inflation?  (Nevermind the current trend in the increase
    	in cases...)
    
>    Third, you don't know
>    how much of those costs would come out of public funds.  
    
    	Wouldn't it seem reasonable to assume that given the current
    	political trends, public funding will at least remain the
    	same if not increase?  And what public funding does not
    	absorb, society itself will be forced to absorb (insurance,
    	hospital-absorbed defaults, etc.)
    
>    Fourth, you don't know what a quarantine would cost.  
    
    	First thing I agree with 100%.
    
>    Fifth, you don't know if the
>    cost of a quarantine would, in fact, offset the public cost of dealing 
>    with AIDS.
    
    	Of course I don't.  And you don't know the converse.
    
>    This is why people are made to submit detailed proposals before
>    proceeding to the implementation phase.  Right now, it looks like you'd
>    have a really tough time getting past the design phase.
    
    	Well if I ever intend to take this anywhere beyond the DISCUSSION
    	stage (nevermind the design phase) I'll be sure to let you know
    	first, OK?  Sheesh.
323.206OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Fri Mar 03 1995 21:5814
    Re: .205
    
    >But wouldn't you consider it rather shortsighted to assume it won't
    
    But you must then consider how common it will be.
    
    >Nevermind the current trend in the increase in cases...
    
    That is not a current trend; we have always seen an increase.  However,
    the rate of growth is decreasing.
    
    >Of course I don't.
    
    Then you cannot claim reduced costs as a justification for quarantine.
323.208DNA vs RNA virusesCSC32::D_STUARTFri Mar 03 1995 23:5419
    well I did about 40+ replies.....going to skip the rest but I would
    like to address the statement/question raised back there somewhere 
    about aids being a virus thus a cure is soon to happen...
    
    I don't think there will be a cure in the near future if ever as the
    aids virus seems to be of the DNA varity (of viruses) which can mutate from
    generation to generation thus making it very hard to develope vaccines
    and anti-bodies. The other common varity is RNA based and does not
    mutate and vaccines can be made that work over generations.
    
    Examples of the RNA type are polio,small pox I think, and other
    diseases that have been irradicated from mankind. DNA types are
    represented by colds and flu's and of course the aids virus. Why they
    can develop a flu vaccine even though it is DNA based I'm not sure but
    I will ask our Dept's physician advisor next time I see her.
    
    If this was already addressed between .40 and here then ..oh well!!
    
    dick 
323.209POLAR::RICHARDSONAlleged DegirdificationSat Mar 04 1995 18:561
    it wasn't.
323.210SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROSun Mar 05 1995 13:077

Joe,	I'm still looking for an example of a disease that is as 
	difficult to transmit as AIDS, ever having a quarantine
	imposed on its patients.

Jim
323.211"If we can put a man on the moon..."HELIX::MAIEWSKISun Mar 05 1995 14:138
  Even though AIDS may be a DNA type virus I see no reason why there will not
one day be a cure. 

  Very few technological problems have proven too hard to solve once the
problems were understood. I think it' just a matter of time before AIDS,
cancer, and other diseases are cured.

  George
323.212POLAR::RICHARDSONAlleged DegirdificationSun Mar 05 1995 18:454
    Cancer will take longer to beat, but gene therapy will be more and more
    common in the next decade.
    
    Glenn
323.213OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Sun Mar 05 1995 19:4322
    Re: .207
    
    >It would then be very UNcommon under that scenario.
    
    Under a proper quarantine (which you have yet to require), certainly. 
    But in order to show benefits, you must contrast the situation with a
    quarantine to the situation without a quarantine.  You do not know how
    common cases will be in the future, at least not past a time frame of
    some 5-10 years.
    
    >Quarantine would have to have a tremendous one-time cost
    
    And tremendous ongoing costs.  The ongoing costs must be at least as
    high as the costs of treating and caring for AIDS patients now, for a
    period of at least 5-10 years.
    
    >to outweigh perpetual
    
    Again, you do not know that the current rate of cases will persist into
    perpetuity.  Therefore, you don't know that there will be perpetual
    costs; therefore, you don't know that you will show significant
    savings, especially given your enormous ramp-up costs.
323.214CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 00:5015
    	.213
    
>    >to outweigh perpetual
>    
>    Again, you do not know that the current rate of cases will persist into
>    perpetuity.  Therefore, you don't know that there will be perpetual
>    costs; 
    
    	As it stands today, and as most medical sources believe today,
    	we will not have a cure.
    
    	If it doesn't persis into perpetuity, society is the big winner.
    	To treat it as if it were not going to be perpetual with the
    	knowledge we have today would be terribly shortsighted and
    	incredibly foolish.
323.215CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 00:5918
    	re .210
    
    	Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself.  You're not 
    	going to find another disease like it for the comparison of 
    	respective social policies.
    
    	And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is 
    	difficult to transmit.  We as a society would be doing an 
    	awful disservice to impressionable youth (just to name one
    	group) if we started declaring the disease to be difficult
    	to transmit.
    
    	I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine
    	would be unconstitutional.  If anyone could demonstrate it,
    	Jim, it would be you.  We trivilaize the constitution when
    	we randomly and improperly start declaring what we don't
    	like to be unconstitutional.  Don't be the boy who cried
    	wolf.
323.216SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Mar 07 1995 02:2559
     <<< Note 323.215 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself.  You're not 
>    	going to find another disease like it for the comparison of 
>    	respective social policies.
 
	But the concept of quarrantine is used for diseases that ARE
	easily transmitted, not for those that are not.

>    	And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is 
>    	difficult to transmit.

	And you are being particularly gullible to believe that
	it is not. Accept the fact that due to a very personal
	interest, I know a fair amount more about AIDS than you
	do.

>  We as a society would be doing an 
>    	awful disservice to impressionable youth (just to name one
>    	group) if we started declaring the disease to be difficult
>    	to transmit.
 
	Better that we LIE to them then? Why not tell them the truth?
	You can catch it from sex, you can catch it from sharing needles,
	you even take the risk of catching it from a blood transfusion.
	You MUST share body fluids, one way or the other. There is NO
	other way. You can't catch it from being in the same room, you
	can't catch it from shaking hands. You can't even catch it from a 
	toilet seat.

>    	I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine
>    	would be unconstitutional.  If anyone could demonstrate it,
>    	Jim, it would be you.  

	AIDS is not a contagious disease in which a quarrantine is
	medically required. It CAN be transmitted between to people
	that engage in some of the practices listed above. But 
	casual contact is not a risk. You can outlaw those behaviors
	and be within the Constitution, but you can not incarcerate
	a person because they MIGHT engage in a behavior. Under our
	laws, you can only punish someone for what they DO, not for
	what they MIGHT do.

>We trivilaize the constitution when
>    	we randomly and improperly start declaring what we don't
>    	like to be unconstitutional. 

	We destroy the Constitution when we ignore the protections
	that it provides. Even if those protections cover a group that
	we may personally dislike.

> Don't be the boy who cried
>    	wolf.

	Don't be so willing to don the brownshirt and jackboots.

Jim


323.217JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 07 1995 03:1634
    This one always concerns me;  You can't catch it from a toilet seat.
    
    What about a woman on her menstrual cycle who has aids or is HIV+?
    What about urine?
    
    Jim, my heart goes out to those folks who are HIV+ and those with aids. 
    If quarantine is questionable, would you be in favor of some
    restrictions regarding employment for those who carry this disease
    [which is still virtually a mystery to the medical association]?
    
    Example:
    
    HIV+ or Aids persons not being allowed to work in food preparation or
    service [waiter waitress]
    
    Daycare parents being able to turn away HIV+/Aids children who are at
    the biting age? 
    
    That disinfectants that kill the aids virus be required for use for
    janitorial purposes in all public places, including schools and
    daycares.
    
    That if one can be proven to be HIV+ prior to having unprotected sex
    with another person that they be charged with attempted murder?
    
    I'm just tossing these things out there as they come to mind...
    
    The bottom line for me is that we've proven that this generation and
    the one's following that sexual activity is encouraged, not
    discouraged.  And with this attitude permeating our youth, what kind of
    responsibility can we see being enacted by those who are HIV+?
    
    
    
323.218SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Mar 07 1995 11:2558
    <<< Note 323.217 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>

>    This one always concerns me;  You can't catch it from a toilet seat.
 
	Actually, I put that one in as a bit of a joke. The "toilet
	seat" excuse was a favorite explaination of those that contracted
	other "social diseases". The truth is that the HIV virus can not
	survive outside the human body for the length of time that it would
	take for the transmission to occur.

>    If quarantine is questionable, 

	There is no "if" about it.

>would you be in favor of some
>    restrictions regarding employment for those who carry this disease
>    [which is still virtually a mystery to the medical association]?
 
	Only in cases where there was sound medical science to back up the
	restriction. Far from being a mystery, the transmission vectors
	for the HIV are well understood.

    
>    HIV+ or Aids persons not being allowed to work in food preparation or
>    service [waiter waitress]
 
	No particular problem with requiring this restriction. Of course
	normal food handling precautions would also suffice.
   
>    Daycare parents being able to turn away HIV+/Aids children who are at
>    the biting age? 
 
	"The biting age"? What age is that? Is this stage universal to
	all children? If so, my daughter seems to be an underachiever.

>    That disinfectants that kill the aids virus be required for use for
>    janitorial purposes in all public places, including schools and
>    daycares.
 
	Any of the common cleaning products will do the job. Nothing
	exotic is required.

>    That if one can be proven to be HIV+ prior to having unprotected sex
>    with another person that they be charged with attempted murder?
 
	I think that laws that prohibit those with the disease from
	having sex are OK. Not sure that you could make a case
	for attempted murder though. 

>    The bottom line for me is that we've proven that this generation and
>    the one's following that sexual activity is encouraged, not
>    discouraged.  And with this attitude permeating our youth, what kind of
>    responsibility can we see being enacted by those who are HIV+?
 
	The same as you will find in the general population, they are
	no better or worse than the rest of us.

Jim
323.219CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikTue Mar 07 1995 11:2714
    Nancy,
    
    Are you planning on testing every individual in the US for HIV? 
    Chances are you have eaten food prepared or served  by someone who is
    HIV+.  It can take years for a person to become ill enough to manifest
    any o the outward signs of HIV infection.  
    
    Have you caught syphillis, gonnorhea, clamydia, herpes, or NSV, from a
    toilet seat?  Your risks are no greater for catching HIV from one. 
    Besides why do you sit on a toilet that looks filthy.
    
    meg
    
    
323.220BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 13:3624
| <<< Note 323.215 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not going to find 
| another disease like it for the comparison of respective social policies.

	Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?

| And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is difficult to transmit.
| We as a society would be doing an awful disservice to impressionable youth 
| if we started declaring the disease to be difficult to transmit.

	It is difficult to transmit Joe. We have the answer to prevent it from
spreading. No, not quarentine. The TRUTH is what is needed to combat the
disease, not hysteria.

| I'm still looking for an explanation from you why quaranitine would be 
| unconstitutional.  

	I'm glad to see you really gave up this idea Joe....


Glen
323.221BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 13:4618

	Nancy, do you see what you just did? You asked questions about the
disease, you had concerns and got answers about them. You were just educated
about the disease. Do you think this will help you in the future when you talk
about ways of getting the disease? My guess would be yes, but please correct me
if I am wrong. Can you now see where education can actually be of some real
good use? 

	One thing that has always bugged me is about people saying, "What about
those who know they're HIV+, but go out and have sex anyway?". While this is a
TRUE statement, people have forgotten about the other person. In this day and
age, who is going to have unprotected sex with a stranger? The answer to that
question is the target audience for education. BOTH people play a part in all
this, don't they?


Glen
323.222Room 222JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 07 1995 13:565
    .221
    
    Most of the time it's not a stranger, Glen.  :-(
    
    
323.223BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 14:027
| <<< Note 323.222 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>


| Most of the time it's not a stranger, Glen.  :-(

	Nancy, what leads you to believe that?

323.224OOTOOL::CHELSEAMostly harmless.Tue Mar 07 1995 15:358
    Re: .214
    
    >To treat it as if it were not going to be perpetual
    
    That's not what I said.  I said the current rate of cases might not
    persist.  The incidence of AIDS could easily go down in the future. 
    Without knowing what the incidence will be, you cannot predict future
    costs and cannot promise any savings.
323.225LABC::RUTue Mar 07 1995 16:228
    
    I believe those easy HIV test should be available in
    drug store.  A lot of people don't know about their HIV
    status because they believe they are clean.  Any they keep
    spreading the HIVS to others.  I can't understand why those
    self-labeled know-everything want to ban the availability of
    the tests.  Also the government should have  records of all
    HIV positive on file through the reporting process of doctors.
323.226Very narrow band of transmission possibilities ...BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Tue Mar 07 1995 19:0819
| And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is difficult to transmit.
| We as a society would be doing an awful disservice to impressionable youth 
| if we started declaring the disease to be difficult to transmit.

 My understanding is that this virus needs a host cell to survive. Outside
 the body, a blood cell deforms rather quickly and the virus is 'dead' in short
 order.

 Since a blood cell in a pool deteriorates quickly the possibility of 
 transmission is infintesimal. Injestion of infected blood is also not
 likely to transmit the disease.

 Transfer of infected cells into an environment where the cell can survive is the
 only way I know of to transmit the disease. Sex, transfusions, needles.

 It's not like TB or Rabies or plague ... It is difficult to transmit (casual
 contact doesn't pass the infection).

 Doug.
323.227CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 20:1515
	.220
    
>| Sorry, Jim, but AIDS is a disease all by itself. You're not going to find 
>| another disease like it for the comparison of respective social policies.
>
>	Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
>thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?
    
    	To show legal precedent for quarantine.  TO show that it is
    	not unconstitutional.
    
>	It is difficult to transmit Joe. 
    
    	One day you tell us (not in this topic) that this disease is
    	an epidemic, and now you tell us it is not difficult to transmit.
323.228CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 20:1912
	.218
     
>	The truth is that the HIV virus can not
>	survive outside the human body for the length of time that it would
>	take for the transmission to occur.
    
    	If true, then why does it survive in shared needles or unsterilized
    	medical instruments?  If HIV can't survive outside of the human
    	body for a certain length of time, wouldn't it be sufficient to
    	simply let the needles or medical instruments sit out for a day
    	or so (or even just the length of time that it takes for one
    	person to get off the toilet and the next to get on)?
323.229BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 20:3136
| <<< Note 323.227 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| >	Then why did you spend so much time telling us we did the quarentine
| >thing for other diseases, when it doesn't even compare with those diseases?

| To show legal precedent for quarantine.  

	Joe, if it does not even come close to the other diseases, which it
does not, then you have set nothing. 

| >	It is difficult to transmit Joe.

| One day you tell us (not in this topic) that this disease is an epidemic, and 
| now you tell us it is not difficult to transmit.

	Wow.... talk about taking stuff out of context Joe. Yes, I said both
things. 

1) It is an epidemic

	Because people do not have all the facts on the disease, or feel that
	they can't "get it". Education will cure this.

2) It is not difficult to transmit

	The ways of getting the disease are known. If you do not participate
	in these things, you will not get the disease. Education would show
	people this.


	Good twistin Joe. Someday maybe people will be able to hold real
conversations with you. But then I guess the game won't be as fun for ya. 


Glen
323.230CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 20:3144
	.216
    
>>    	And you're being terribly naive if you think that it is 
>>    	difficult to transmit.
>
>	And you are being particularly gullible to believe that
>	it is not. Accept the fact that due to a very personal
>	interest, I know a fair amount more about AIDS than you
>	do.
    
    	And frankly, you are letting the emotionalism of your involvement
    	with the disease to tarnish your participation here.  Even our
    	court system recognizes that people with direct (and even
    	indirect) connection to the case often allow emotionalism to
    	cloud their thinking and participation, and such people are
    	excused from being on a jury for the case.
    
>	Better that we LIE to them then? Why not tell them the truth?
>	You can catch it from sex, you can catch it from sharing needles,
>	you even take the risk of catching it from a blood transfusion.
>	You MUST share body fluids, one way or the other. There is NO
>	other way. 
    
    	I guess that you fail to realize that in our society, the sharing
    	of body fluids is becoming rather commonplace.  We have evolved
    	into a sexual society, Jim, where "getting" sex as early and as
    	often as you can is becoming the norm.  We are bathed in sex from
    	the media and advertising industries.  We also have a growing
    	movement against the control of drugs because "it's just a 
    	victimless crime".  

>	AIDS is not a contagious disease in which a quarrantine is
>	medically required. It CAN be transmitted between to people
>	that engage in some of the practices listed above. But 
>	casual contact is not a risk. 
    
    	Sexual contact is becoming as casual as going to dinner.
    	By our society's standards today, AIDS *IS* a risk of a
    	contact that is becoming more and more casual.  Even Glen
    	agrees with me in .223, and I think you'll find that more
    	people that you appear to suspect would agree with me.
    
	I don't agree with your assessment that AIDS quarantines
    	would be unconstitutional.
323.231SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Mar 07 1995 20:3625
     <<< Note 323.228 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	If true, then why does it survive in shared needles

	In the case of needles, you are talking only a few seconds
	between parties.

> or unsterilized
>    	medical instruments? 

	There is no documented case of any person contracting HIV from
	unsterilized medical instruments.

> If HIV can't survive outside of the human
>    	body for a certain length of time, wouldn't it be sufficient to
>    	simply let the needles or medical instruments sit out for a day
>    	or so (or even just the length of time that it takes for one
>    	person to get off the toilet and the next to get on)?

	Yes. Of course there are other bacteria that CAN survive for
	a day and you risk infecting a person with some disease other
	than AIDS.

Jim

323.232BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 20:375

	Joe, what note am I supposed to be agreeing with you again? .223 is my
reply to Nancy. Wanna specify so I can see if I really do agree or if you have
twisted my words again? Thank you
323.233BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 07 1995 20:418

	Joe, while you're at it, why don't you also explain why you sent me a
note from SB in mail that is no longer listed in this file? Do you mind if I
post it so others can see?


Glen
323.234SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Mar 07 1995 20:4228
     <<< Note 323.230 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	And frankly, you are letting the emotionalism of your involvement
>    	with the disease to tarnish your participation here. 

	Yes, some of my comments to you are emotionally driven. But the
	facts that I have given you are facts nonetheless.

>    	I guess that you fail to realize that in our society, the sharing
>    	of body fluids is becoming rather commonplace.

	Does not adress the issue as to whether or not we should lie to kids
	about AIDS. Education vs. Ignorance.

>    	Sexual contact is becoming as casual as going to dinner.
>    	By our society's standards today, AIDS *IS* a risk of a
>    	contact that is becoming more and more casual. 

	Different use of the term "casual". If you want to make a case
	concerning too much casual sex, fine. But that is a completely
	seperate issue than requiring a quarrantine for HIV+ patients.

>	I don't agree with your assessment that AIDS quarantines
>    	would be unconstitutional.

	Then you would, of course, be wrong.

Jim
323.235CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 20:5322
	.231
    
>>    	If true, then why does it survive in shared needles
>
>	In the case of needles, you are talking only a few seconds
>	between parties.
    
    	So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
    	there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission?  The
    	last part of you .231 seemed to indicate that this would
    	be the case, but current "education" tells us that any
    	used needle is a risk.

>> or unsterilized
>>    	medical instruments? 
>
>	There is no documented case of any person contracting HIV from
>	unsterilized medical instruments.
    
    	So why the strong push for sterilizaton?  And how did those
    	patients get HIV from that dentist?  He certainly didn't have
    	sex with them.  
323.237CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 07 1995 21:0620
    	.234
    
>	Yes, some of my comments to you are emotionally driven. But the
>	facts that I have given you are facts nonetheless.

>	Does not adress the issue as to whether or not we should lie to kids
>	about AIDS. Education vs. Ignorance.
    
    	Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit.  I guess
    	that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
    	grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
    	likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
    	partner.
    
    	Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
    	not make your opinion fact.  Just ask your brother.

>	Different use of the term "casual". 
    
    	Not the way I intended it.  
323.238MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsTue Mar 07 1995 21:4166
    Some facts:
    
    In males, the chances of contracting HIV in highest to lowest
    order of probability are:
    
    1. Sharing needles
    2. Being on the receiving end of anal intercourse with an
       unprotected male partner.
    3. Performing oral sex on an unprotected male partner.
    4. Unprotected sex of any kind with a menstruating women.
    5. Performing unprotected anal sex on a male partner, with
       transmission via the penis.
    
    All other sexual practices, including heterosexual intercourse
    with transmission via the penis, oral sex with a female partner,
    and receiving oral sex from either a male or female partner,
    pose lesser probability of infection.
    
    In females, the list is:
    
    1. Sharing needles
    2. Anal or vaginal intercourse with an unprotected male partner.
    3. Performing oral sex on an unprotected male partner.

    All other sexual practices, including oral sex with a female
    partners, pose lesser probability of infection. There is little
    statistical data to suggest a high degree of risk amound lesbian
    partners, while the risk is somewhat higher among bisexual
    women. A vast majority of women who contract AIDS through sexual
    contact do so from a man.
    
    In heterosexual sex, the use of a condom is statistically
    more significant to an uninfected woman having sex with an
    infected male, than vice versa.
    
    Vaginal secretions in infected females generally pose a lower
    risk than does semen from an infected male.
    
    For both men and women, the probability of transmission
    during intercourse is greatly reduced with the use of
    a latex condom; while simultaneous use of contraceptive
    foam and a condom provide a significant improvement in
    protection over the use of a condom alone.
    
    The greatest risk of infection occurs during the two
    peaks in viral reproductive activity. The first peak
    occurs between three weeks and six months of initial
    infection, and is accompanied by an antibody response
    in the infected individual. Generally, the infected
    individual is unaware of the infection at this time.
    The virus then lies dormant for an extended time
    (possibly as long as seven years in some individuals).
    During the dormancy period, the concentration of
    the virus in body fluids is reduced, but can still
    be identified through testing. With the onset of
    AIDS related symptoms, the viral concentrations
    rise again and remain high throughout the course
    of the illness.
    
    And finally, let me say that the person who suggested that
    all HIV+ people be reported to the government... I thought
    I'd already heard a lifetime supply of bootlicking fascist
    tripe, but I guess I hadn't... a new low in Soapbox. What
    a distiction.
    
    -b
323.239SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Mar 08 1995 00:3526
     <<< Note 323.235 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
>    	there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission? 

	True.

>but current "education" tells us that any
>    	used needle is a risk.

	Not true. Several programs provide bleach to sterilize needles
	in between "customers". Your ignorance is showing again.

>    	So why the strong push for sterilizaton? 

	Get yourself a dictionary. Look up the word SEPSIS. Get back
	to us.

> And how did those
>    	patients get HIV from that dentist?  He certainly didn't have
>    	sex with them.  

	The last theory that was put forth was that he infected them
	deliberately. More ignorance.

Jim
323.240SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Mar 08 1995 00:5746
     <<< Note 323.237 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

    
>    	Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit. 

	True. Like the other "social diseases" it is so difficult
	to contract you have to have sex in order to get it.

> I guess
>    	that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
>    	grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
>    	likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
>    	partner.
 
	"Likely". Can you provide proof of this statement? I have seen
	information that lists HIV as a RISK. I have not seen any that
	says that it is LIKELY.

	A little "embellishment" here Joe? Or just more ignorance?

>    	Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
>    	not make your opinion fact.  Just ask your brother.

	Joe, I have a suggestion for you. But I doubt that you are limber
	enough to pull it off.

	My brother was a homosexual living in San Fransico in the 70s and
	80s.

	He had a number of partners. One of those partners was HIV+ 
	(before anyone knew what that meant). He had sex with him on 
	more than one occasion. They lived together for 6 months.

	Now for the other side. I spent 3 weeks living in the same room
	with my brother at the Traub Medical Center. I took care of him,
	bathed him, helped him to the bathroom until he couldn't walk,
	then I emptied his bedpan. I held his hand and was holding it
	when he took his last breath.

	With all that contact, I didn't contract HIV (and yes, before
	you ask, I HAVE been tested).

	So when you are ready to put aside your ignorance and fear
	get back to us. Until then, refer back to my previous suggestion.

Jim
323.241Lost in the fog?BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Wed Mar 08 1995 14:0311
> I guess
>    	that the current "education" out there is a lie, because any
>    	grade school or high school sex-ed class will say that HIV is
>    	likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex with an infeted
>    	partner.
 
The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
/sores ...

Its possible, but not likely ...
323.242guide me, preacherCLYDE::KOWALEWICZ_MThe Ballad of the Lost C'MellWed Mar 08 1995 14:526
 
  So where to I have to park my car to get one of these tracts that will
   enlighten me to the _real_ dangers of catching AIDS and why "they" all
    should be quarrantined?
kb

323.243CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikWed Mar 08 1995 16:089
    If you feel frisky and risky, park a car with a gay rights sticker on it
    near some of the more virulent churches in ne colorado springs.
    
    meg who recieved a pamphlet of trash whne taking a basket weaving class
    at a school near one of said same churches.  "Hate is Not a Family
    Value" was apparently interpreted to mean my car was owned bby "on fo
    them dangerous critters"
    
    meg
323.244CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Mar 08 1995 18:239
	.241
     
>The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
>partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
>/sores ...
>
>Its possible, but not likely ...
    
    	So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?
323.245MPGS::MARKEYSend John Thomas some doughnutsWed Mar 08 1995 18:327
    That 2% figure, I don't know where it came from, but... the chance
    of a woman becoming infected from an infected male's semen is
    much greater than the chance of a male becoming infected
    from an infected woman's normal (non-menstrual) vaginal discharge.
    
    Depends on who the infector/infectee is...
    
323.246CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Mar 08 1995 18:4266
	.239
    
>> And how did those
>>    	patients get HIV from that dentist?  He certainly didn't have
>>    	sex with them.  
>
>	The last theory that was put forth was that he infected them
>	deliberately. More ignorance.

    	"The last theory ... more ignorance"
    
    	We were talking about medical instruments.  Deliberately or
    	not, even "the last theory" says that the vector of infection
    	was unsterilized instruments.
    
    	.240
    
>	True. Like the other "social diseases" it is so difficult
>	to contract you have to have sex in order to get it.
    
    	And again, the fact that you don't want to recognize the prevalance
    	of HIV-spreading practices does not negate the existence of it.
    
    	(Should I also deride you about ignorance and remind you that
    	there are other vectors besides sex?  I won't.  I know what you
    	meant.)
    
>>    	Just because you discount the likelihood of that happening does
>>    	not make your opinion fact.  Just ask your brother.
>
>	Joe, I have a suggestion for you. But I doubt that you are limber
>	enough to pull it off.
>	My brother was a homosexual living in San Fransico in the 70s and
>	80s.
>	He had a number of partners. One of those partners was HIV+ 
>	(before anyone knew what that meant). 

    	Somebody else's brother will get HIV today.  It will be easy
    	for him.  It will be a commonplace practice for him that will
    	introduce the virus into his body.
    
    	And somebody else's sister will catch it tomorrow.  She won't
    	expect that it can happen to her.  She won't know about it
    	until a long time from now.
    
    	Everybody knows what HIV and AIDS are.  Yet people still easily
    	get it.
    
    
    >	A little "embellishment" here Joe? Or just more ignorance?
    
    
    	You know, Jim, we've been pretty civil as of late, but I enter
    	something that touches you emotionally and you lose your usual
    	decorum.  Now you seem to need to hurt me with your writing, and
    	you are willing to prostitute yourself to your emotions and twist
    	anything I say into claims of ignorance or insults.  You are a
    	big boy, Jim.  You should be able to deal rationally with subjects
    	that raise your emotional hackles.  Check your own embellishments
    	at the door, TYVM.
    
    	I realize that we are getting nowhere between us here.  I'd like
    	to bow out of this discussion with you and let you cool off a
    	bit.  I'm sorry for you about your brother.  Attacking me won't
    	bring him back.  Being truthful about what is happening today 
    	would be much more fruitful.
323.247incredibly rudeAXPBIZ::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Mar 08 1995 18:565
    You think you were civil, Joe, when you told Jim to "ask your brother"?
    That went way beyond the pale.  You certainly didn't deserve a civil
    response.
    
    DougO
323.248SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Mar 08 1995 19:5757
     <<< Note 323.246 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	We were talking about medical instruments.  Deliberately or
>    	not, even "the last theory" says that the vector of infection
>    	was unsterilized instruments.
 
	A deliberate act does not equate to a blanket indictment
	of AIDS transmission via unsterilized instruments.

>    	And again, the fact that you don't want to recognize the prevalance
>    	of HIV-spreading practices does not negate the existence of it.
 
	I freely admit that certain practices can transmit HIV. But
	you are arguing for quarrauntining people whether they participate
	in those practices OR NOT. THIS is where we disagree.

>    	Somebody else's brother will get HIV today.  It will be easy
>    	for him.  It will be a commonplace practice for him that will
>    	introduce the virus into his body.
    
>    	And somebody else's sister will catch it tomorrow.  She won't
>    	expect that it can happen to her.  She won't know about it
>    	until a long time from now.
 
	And they will contract tthe disease because they will participate
	in one of the behaviors that are already known to be high risk.
	THAT'S why a number of us favor education about the disease.

>    	Everybody knows what HIV and AIDS are.  Yet people still easily
>    	get it.
 
	You'd be suprised about how many people DON'T know. More
	importantly they do not understand the information about
	transmission of the diesease.

	Look at the reports about the critical shortage of blood in the US
	today. People are not donating blood because they THINK they can get 
	HIV from donating. Now you and I know this is wrong, but enough people 
	believe it that it is affecting	the supply dramatically.

>    	You know, Jim, we've been pretty civil as of late, but I enter
>    	something that touches you emotionally and you lose your usual
>    	decorum. 

	You throw a bomb like "ask your brother" and you expect
	decorum? Guess again. Shoot at me, I shoot back.

>Being truthful about what is happening today 
>    	would be much more fruitful.

	One statement on which we agree. I suggest you take the time to
	educate yourself. THis will help immensely in helping you to
	see the truth about this disease.

Jim


323.249CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Wed Mar 08 1995 22:0332
    	.248
    
>	And they will contract tthe disease because they will participate
>	in one of the behaviors that are already known to be high risk.
>	THAT'S why a number of us favor education about the disease.
    
    	Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough
    	they know the risks would then have only themselves to blame?
    
    	Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while
    	paying lip service to the risks, at the same time enables and
    	encourages those very same behaviors?

>	You throw a bomb like "ask your brother" and you expect
>	decorum? Guess again. Shoot at me, I shoot back.
    
    	First of all, you've been uncivil from your very entry into this
    	discussion.  Laying all the blame for your behavior now on a 
    	single statement made near the end is rather unfair, wouldn't
    	you agree?
    
    	But let me apologize for a remark that was out of line.  It did
    	not come across as I intended.  
    
>>Being truthful about what is happening today 
>>    	would be much more fruitful.
>
>	One statement on which we agree. I suggest you take the time to
>	educate yourself. THis will help immensely in helping you to
>	see the truth about this disease.
    
    	Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.
323.250RICKS::TOOHEYWed Mar 08 1995 22:3046
    
    RE: .208 (types 0f viruses)
    
    There are 3 types of viruses - DNA, RNA, Retro.  HIV is a retrovirus.
    HIV consists of two single strand RNA molecules, which are enclosed by 
    a lipid coated protein shell. Once inside the host cell (by a membrane
    fusion process) the RNA molecules undergo reverse transcriptase. This
    process converts the RNA to DNA molecules. These DNA molecules then 
    insert themselves into the host cell's genome, and is now called a
    provirus. The provirus then commandeers the host cell's 'manufacturing
    machinery' and assembles virus RNA. Viral protein is also manufactured.
    The viral protein encloses the viral RNA and leaves the host cell by a
    mechanism know as 'cell budding'. The lipid coat is 'donated' by the
    host cell, as the new virus leaves the host cell (lipid is part of the
    cell membrane). This is an ongoing process, until the host cell dies.
    Long before cellular death, the host cell can no longer do its normal
    cellular functions, so it is in effect physiologically useless.
    
    There are several reasons why HIV is so intractable a problem. As
    pointed out earlier, it mutates rapidly. All types of viruses (DNA,
    RNA, Retro) are subject to mutation, but HIV excessively so. (HIV
    mutates during reverse transcriptase). I don't know if rapid mutation
    is a characteristic of all retroviruses or not. A vacine is very
    problematic because of this mutation factor.
    
    Another negative factor is the type of cells HIV infects. It infects
    helper T cells and monocytes. These cells are immune system cells. Both
    of these cells have CD4 protein recepters, which are what HIV binds to.
    Helper T cells regulate killer T cells and also B cells. Killer T cells
    attack cells which are infected by pathogens, B cell produce
    antibodies. Moncytes are precursors of macrophages, another type of
    immune cell. (This is how HIV infects the brain, by the way. HIV gets
    to the brain riding inside monocytes, thereby bypassing the blood/brain
    barrier.) Anyway, the final result is a complete collapse of the immune
    system and death by opportunistic infection.
    
    The long asymptomatic latency period of HIV results in infected people
    infecting other people, before they themselves are aware they are
    carriers.
    
    
    Paul
    
    
     
    subject to mutation, by HIV (I'm not sure if all retroviruses
323.251SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 09 1995 01:2223
     <<< Note 323.249 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

    
>    	Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough
>    	they know the risks would then have only themselves to blame?
 
	I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
	I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.

>    	Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while
>    	paying lip service to the risks, at the same time enables and
>    	encourages those very same behaviors?

	I've not seen the ads placed by "society" that say "Go ahead
	and have unprotected sex". I HAVE seen ads that warn people
	of the dangers of doing so. 

>    	Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.

	As I have suggested, do some research, read the literature.
	The our truths will have much more in common.
	
Jim
323.252Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Thu Mar 09 1995 01:282
    Hey you, don't be silly,
    Put a condom on your willy.
323.253JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 09 1995 03:454
    Bumper Sticker:
    
    A tisket a tasket
    a condom or a casket.
323.254MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 09 1995 12:5611
    Just as an FYI...and it may already be in here.  The article about AIDS
    rising due to irresponsibility in New York came from an article from
    the Village Voice.  It was written by Mike Warner, a homosexual himself 
    who stated that HIV is 4 times higher than in 1987, and alot of it is
    because people know there is a risk but have unprotected sex anyway
    because the danger or the risk of death adds to the sexual experience.
    
    Great sex lies in the ability to take a chance.  I'm just telling you
    what the report said.  The problem is with heteros as well.
    
    -Jack
323.255CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 09 1995 13:0110


  I've referred to that article in here (however I had thought it was in 
 the WSJ or NYT)..




 Jim
323.256BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Thu Mar 09 1995 13:5715
>>The likely hood of herterosexual transmission of HIV is less than 2% for
>>partners with no open wounds. It is higher for those with cuts/abrasions/tears -
>>/sores ...
>>
>>Its possible, but not likely ...
>   
>    	So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?

 No I'm not. Perhaps I should have used the word vaginal instead of heterosexual.

 But to add to this, anal intercouse (hetero or homo) has a much higher rate 
 of transmission that does vaginal intercourse (for obvious reasons).

 Doug.
  
323.257BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 14:2513
| <<< Note 323.235 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>



| but current "education" tells us that any used needle is a risk.

	During drug use, yeah, as they don't wait long enough for the disease
to die. They shoot up, pass the needle, and shoot up some more. 




Glen
323.258BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 14:3844
| <<< Note 323.236 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| You can figure it out, Glen.

	If I knew what note you were talking about I could easily see what you
mean. But I do not. It's kind of funny, really, that you make the claim I
agreed with you, but can't back it. Might be because you realized you once
again took it out of context Joe?

| re .233

| What I sent you in mail was a reply to your own .229.  You'll see your own 
| name in the header if you look closely. I sent it in mail because they were 
| primarily rathole issues that are better handled offline.  

	Let's look and see:

1) You talked about how the other quarentines set a precident for one being
   called for AIDS, and how it would not be unconstitutional. Of course you
   failed to tell me how it relates to other diseases, which is what I had 
   asked.

2) You said that you were getting tired because I tell you that not all people
   have the facts on the disease, and that education would cure that, and then
   I turned around and said that the ways of getting the disease are known. You
   then state that I am contradicting myself. Yet with what you did, you once
   again took what I said out of context. The ways are known for contracting 
   the disease, but not everyone knows them. 

3) When I call you on twisting the words from your .227 note, you responded 
   with the word loser. 

	One and two DO have EVERYTHING to do with this topic. But #3 really
doesn't. Sounds like there might have been other reasons than the rathole issue
Joe. 

| Therefore I'm not surprised that you want to dump it in here.

	No, I'd rather dump it in here to address the issues you brought up.
But I guess I have done that anyway, without having to dump it in. 


Glen
323.259CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 15:1831
	.251
    
>	I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
>	I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.
    
    	You're not mistaken at all.  Glad we agree.

>>    	Our "truths" do not agree in all areas.
>
>	As I have suggested, do some research, read the literature.
>	The our truths will have much more in common.
    
    	Case in point:
    
>	I've not seen the ads placed by "society" that say "Go ahead
>	and have unprotected sex". I HAVE seen ads that warn people
>	of the dangers of doing so. 
    
    	The ads are the "lip service" that I mentioned.  So are many
    	so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes.  Feel-good
    	buzzwords are fine, but whether you are willing to accept it
    	or not, society embrace and encourages many of the behaviors
    	that spread HIV.  For instance, whether art imitates life or
    	life imitates art, our entertainment industry is rather hostile
    	to the monogamous, married lifestyle that will practically
    	ensure safety from AIDS.  It condones, if not glorifies, 
    	promiscuous and casual sex.  No, Jim, there aren't any specific
    	ads that say "Go ahead and have unprotected sex," but you'd
    	have to be blind not to see that we are bathed in the message,
    	and in some circles even totally immersed.

323.261BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 16:1326
| <<< Note 323.237 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| Your "fact" says that HIV is not easy to transmit. I guess that the current 
| "education" out there is a lie, because any grade school or high school sex-ed
| class will say that HIV is likely to be caught if you have unprotected sex 
| with an infected partner.

	I wish I knew when you were being serious or not. Joe, if one is
instructed to know about your partner before having sex with them (know as get
tested after 3 months), to not have sex at all (which is also part of the
education), then there will be no way they will contract the disease. If one
wears a condom properly, it cuts down the risk of contracting HIV almost 100%.
(even with a condom one should not ejaculate in someone) So yeah, it is very
hard to transmit, but it is very easy to transmit to someone who has not been
educated on the disease. Something I wonder if you have taken the time to do.
Judging by your entries, my GUESS would be you've learned things from what
other people have said, but never taken the time to look into it. If I am
wrong, please correct me and tell me where you actually got training from.

| Just ask your brother.

	I've seen you go low, but this low? 


Glen
323.262BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 16:1711
| <<< Note 323.244 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>




| So you are saying that is really *IS* a gay disease?



	I swear your game playing gets better and better Joe. Of course I guess
it could be your ignorance. 
323.263BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 16:2116
| <<< Note 323.246 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| Now you seem to need to hurt me with your writing, and you are willing to 
| prostitute yourself to your emotions and twist anything I say into claims of 
| ignorance or insults.  

	Your own words do that Joe. You are either being very non-funny with
more of your "game", or you are very ignorant to this disease. It doesn't make
you a lesser person to not know about something, but you'd probably get more
respect if you didn't try to make it seem like you did know. And who are you to
talk about twisting words Joe?

| Being truthful about what is happening today would be much more fruitful.

	Then why don't you start?
323.264BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 16:3133
| <<< Note 323.249 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>



| Are you suggesting that those who so participate eventhough they know the 
| risks would then have only themselves to blame?

	Is it any different for anything Joe? If one gets lung cancer through
smoking, if they knew the dangers, they have themselves to blame for it to
happen. If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
from, we would only have ourselves to blame.

| Or is society in part to blame because we as a society, while paying lip 
| service to the risks, at the same time enables and encourages those very same 
| behaviors?

	Let's see, we talk of abstinance, we talk about condoms, we talk about
knowing your partners status, we talk about being monogomous, etc. Sounds to me 
like we are trying to get the right message out Joe. You see, two people can 
have any type of sex they want, unprotected at that, and they will NEVER get the
HIV virus if 1, both partners are uninfected to begin with, and 2, they are 
monogomous. Pretty simple, huh? 

| First of all, you've been uncivil from your very entry into this discussion.  
| Laying all the blame for your behavior now on a single statement made near 
| the end is rather unfair, wouldn't you agree?

	Joe, for one who threw the comment out to bitch about how you feel they
let emotions get involved and skew their answers and how it led to them
insulting you has got to be one of the lamest things you've tried to pull off.


Glen
323.265BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 16:3510
| <<< Note 323.260 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| precedent.

	HAAA!!! I knew you would avoid that one. It would only show that you
are wrong once again. HAAAAA!!!!


Glen
323.266CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 09 1995 16:425


 It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
 of Mr. Oppelt
323.267JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Mar 09 1995 16:501
    :-)  Nice radio announcing Jimbo.
323.268CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 17:0219
    	.261
    
>So yeah, it is very
>hard to transmit, but it is very easy to transmit to someone who has not been
>educated on the disease. 
    
    	Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.  
    	Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
    
    	Almost anyone in this country who gets the disease today is
    	educated on it -- especially those who get it through needle-
    	sharing and sexual contact.  It will happen today.  And tomorrow.
    	And each day of the forseeable future.
    
    	The education you espouse has limited benefit.  If education is
    	the solution, the education it really takes is to see your best 
    	friend die from it.  And given the lag time between contracting 
    	HIV and its manifestation, even that education often comes too 
    	late.
323.269CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 17:1034
	.264
    
>	Is it any different for anything Joe? If one gets lung cancer through
>smoking, if they knew the dangers, they have themselves to blame for it to
>happen. 
    
    	Yet we have so many suits against the tobacco industry on behalf
    	of people who died from smoking.
    
    	And can you say that there is any significant number of people
    	in this country who smoke but do not know the risks?  Yet they
    	continue to do so.  It is no different for people who participate
    	in behaviors that expose them to HIV.  More "education" won't
    	help either group.
    
>If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
>from, we would only have ourselves to blame.
    
    	Yet you were blaming Ronald Reagan just the other day.
    
>You see, two people can 
>have any type of sex they want, unprotected at that, and they will NEVER get the
>HIV virus if 1, both partners are uninfected to begin with, and 2, they are 
>monogomous. Pretty simple, huh? 
    
    	Yet you were trying to convince me that having one partner at
    	a time, say a year at a time, was monogamy.  Surely you agree
    	that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation --
    	especially if all the people participating in this chain were
    	practicing the same.
    
    	And how are we supposed to know if our next partner does/doesn't
    	have HIV?  Are you willing to support regular testing for all
    	sexually-active people?
323.270BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:148
| <<< Note 323.266 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
| of Mr. Oppelt

	Could it be that Mr. Oppelt is not accurate with the stuff in his notes
have anything to do with it Jim? Me thinks that's the whole reason.....
323.271MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Thu Mar 09 1995 17:1519
    Glen:
    
    I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used to be
    one and then propogated into the straight community.  I'm not saying by
    any means that it is a judgement or anything like that...simply that it
    started amongst the gay community then branched out.
    
    Question is Glen, if the gay community doesn't think it's a gay
    disease, then why is the gay community treating this disease above all
    others.  
    
    I have this theory Glen...and it is just a theory.  
    The AIDS industry is a 6 billion dollar industry and I believe the gay
    lobby is attaching itself to this disease for political reasons.  I
    have no doubt but that many are personally effected by deaths of
    friends, etc.  But I believe the gay lobby needs to champion something
    to stay powerful.  6 Billion dollars is very powerful.
    
    -Jack
323.273BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:2444
| <<< Note 323.268 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.

	Greg Louganis got the disease before education even game out on it.
Greg Louganis also caught the disease from his longtime lover. Someone he
thought he could trust.

| Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.

	Magic Johnson said he thought he was invinsible. While he knew sex was
a way to transmit the disease, he considered it a gay disease. Being partially
educated about AIDS will not stop it from spreading, will not stop people from
spreading untruths, will not stop the hysteria. I'm not sure where you got your
information from Joe, but it certainly isn't complete by any means.

| Almost anyone in this country who gets the disease today is educated on it 

	You base this on what information Joe? Your own view or something that
you can back with facts? And once you know the amount of people who are
educated, can you tell us how many of these people are only partially educated
Joe? You mentioned Magic was educated, but not completely. You mentioned
Louganis was educated, but he got the disease before education was even out
there, and got it from someone he trusted.

| -- especially those who get it through needle sharing and sexual contact.  

	A source will be good. Hopefully your source won't be the same thing I
keep receiving in the mail from you. The source where you call me a loser. 

| The education you espouse has limited benefit.  

	No, the education has a 100% chance of working. 

| If education is the solution, the education it really takes is to see your 
| best friend die from it.  

	An extreme is one way of making one open their eyes. Look what it took
Magic Johnson to open his eyes. Through education it will hopefully not take
that kind of extreme to open one's eyes. But through Magic, many hetersosexuals
have opened their eyes.


Glen
323.274CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 17:3331
	.273
    
>| Greg Louganis said that he was educated about the disease.
>
>	Greg Louganis got the disease before education even game out on it.
    
    	There was no education in 1986-88?  ESPECIALLY among gays?
    
>Greg Louganis also caught the disease from his longtime lover. Someone he
>thought he could trust.
    
    	And the same thing continues to happen today.  In spite of
    	education.
    
>| Magic Johnson said that he was educated about the disease.
>
>	Magic Johnson said he thought he was invinsible. While he knew sex was
>a way to transmit the disease, he considered it a gay disease. 
    
    	That doesn't mean that he was "partially educated" as you claim.
    
>I'm not sure where you got your
>information from Joe, but it certainly isn't complete by any means.
    
    	Both made the statements themselves.  Why deny their statements?
    
>But through Magic, many hetersosexuals
>have opened their eyes.
    
    	Sure looks like it, considering that the disease is spreading
    	fastest among hets, according to recent reports posted here.
323.275BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:4056
| <<< Note 323.269 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| And can you say that there is any significant number of people in this country
| who smoke but do not know the risks?  

	Yeah, kids.

| It is no different for people who participate in behaviors that expose them to
| HIV.  More "education" won't help either group.

	Education has already helped Joe. Getting education will and is
helping. 

| >If you or I were to catch HIV through a way we knew it could happen
| >from, we would only have ourselves to blame.

| Yet you were blaming Ronald Reagan just the other day.

	Again, taking what I said out of context. Why is it you always do this
Joe? Explain to me, if you would, how you can compare Reagan not pushing for
education about the disease which led to more people catching it to someone who
KNOWS HOW IT IS CAUGHT getting the disease and having it be their fault? You
simply amaze me.

| Yet you were trying to convince me that having one partner at a time, say a 
| year at a time, was monogamy.  

	HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct 
label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?

| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation 

	No, it can not. If you follow what is being taught, it will not. If you
just jump into bed without knowing your partners history, you could. This is
why it would be nice for you to get yourself educated on this disease so you
would not go around and spread falsehoods.

| And how are we supposed to know if our next partner does/doesn't have HIV?  

	Follow what is being taught, you will have no problems. Don't, and what
you mention above could actually come true.

| Are you willing to support regular testing for all sexually-active people?

	No. It is not needed. Those who engage in sex without following what
has been taught should be tested. Take for example me. I went to the doctor
yesterday to get my physical. During it he asked me about my sex life. I told
him the types of things I have engaged in, and he told me that I did not need
an HIV test. I had gotten one with him before, and it was negative. If I follow
what is being taught, I will NEVER need another test again.



Glen
323.276CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 17:4934
	.275
    
>	Yeah, kids.
    
    	Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to
    	cancer.

>| More "education" won't help either group.
>
>	Education has already helped Joe. Getting education will and is
>helping. 
    
    	Yes, it has already helped.  More (for those who are alread
    	educated) won't be effective.
    
>	Again, taking what I said out of context. Why is it you always do this
>Joe? Explain to me, if you would, how you can compare Reagan not pushing for
>education about the disease which led to more people catching it to someone who
>KNOWS HOW IT IS CAUGHT getting the disease and having it be their fault
    
    	No wonder you think it was out of context.  I didn't say that.

>	HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
>1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct 
>label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?
    
    	There you go.  Serial monogamy.  One day even.  This is not
    	a safe practice.

>| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation 
>
>	No, it can not. 
    
    	Yet you insist it is.
323.277BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:4939
| <<< Note 323.271 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>


| I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used to be one 
| and then propogated into the straight community.  

	Jack, if you looked at the world wide figures of 2 years ago, you would
see an 11-1 ratio for the disease leaning towards the straight people. In North
America though, it had hit the gay community at first far greater than the
straight community. So for North America, you would be right to say that it
effected gays first. Why North America is the only place this happened is
something I can not explain.

| Question is Glen, if the gay community doesn't think it's a gay disease, then 
| why is the gay community treating this disease above all others.

	That's easy Jack. Take the North American stats, combine it with a
President who didn't push education because it seemed to infect gays and or
drug users, and you can see that unless we educated the masses ourselves, this
was going to be one hell of a disease. We could see where it was going, but it
would appear that Reagan did not. Like I said, until Magic Johnson got the
disease, most of the heterosexuals of our nation didn't wake up. The rest of
the world knew long before that, but somehow we didn't.

| The AIDS industry is a 6 billion dollar industry and I believe the gay lobby 
| is attaching itself to this disease for political reasons.  

	Interesting theory. But one that is not true I'm glad to say. Reread
what I wrote above Jack. That is the real reason behind everything. Are women
lining up to jump on the Breast Cancer bandwagon? 

| But I believe the gay lobby needs to champion something to stay powerful.  

	Believe me Jack, watching what others do, listening to what others say
that is derogatory towards gays is a big enough champion to hang onto. Jumping
on a disease bandwagon absolutely makes no sense.


Glen
323.278BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:528
| <<< Note 323.272 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| Could be, but I'd be more apt to believe it if it were someone else who had 
| the obsession.

	It just looks worse cuz I was out yesterday and am still catching up.:-)

323.279CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 09 1995 17:5822



RE:              <<< Note 323.270 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>


>| It appears Mr. Silva has dropped his obsession with Mr. Benson, in favor
>| of Mr. Oppelt

>	Could it be that Mr. Oppelt is not accurate with the stuff in his notes
>have anything to do with it Jim? Me thinks that's the whole reason.....


  I suppose that's possible.  However it seems to me that Mr. Oppelt and/or
 Mr Benson could enter a note stating that today is Thursday March 9 and 
 you'd carry on a 15 reply spiral disagreeing with them




Jim
323.280You knew that last week for that matterBIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 17:5842
323.281BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 18:0543
| <<< Note 323.276 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| >	Yeah, kids.

| Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to cancer.

	Be real Joe. That is not true. If it is, what's your source?

| Yes, it has already helped.  More (for those who are alread educated) won't 
| be effective.

	You lost me on this one. I came up with several scenerios. Could you
explain it again? Thanks.

| No wonder you think it was out of context.  I didn't say that.

	Go read your note Joe....

| >	HELLO McFLY!!!!!!????? If a marriage, a relationship lasts for 1 year,
| >1 day even, and no one has cheated, then it was a monogamous <insert correct
| >label>. If it is not, then what was it in your eyes?

| There you go.  Serial monogamy.  One day even.  This is not a safe practice.

	You were talking about monogamy. I was addressing that. The above IS
manogamy.

	BUT, with serial manogamy alone, you're right. Add in the education, and
you're wrong. What one might do with someone for one day will not be the same 
with someone who they have a lifelong commitment with if they follow what they
have learned with education.

| >| Surely you agree that such "monogamy" could introduce HIV into the equation
| >
| >	No, it can not.

| Yet you insist it is.

	No, I am insisting that those who are not educated will. Again, you
twist the words.


Glen
323.282BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 18:0712
| <<< Note 323.279 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend will you be ready?" >>>


| I suppose that's possible.  However it seems to me that Mr. Oppelt and/or
| Mr Benson could enter a note stating that today is Thursday March 9 and
| you'd carry on a 15 reply spiral disagreeing with them


	No, cuz that would be a true statement. 


Glen
323.283SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 09 1995 18:1151
     <<< Note 323.259 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>>	I favor people taking personal responsibility for their actions.
>>	I thought that you did as well. I must have been mistaken.
    
>    	You're not mistaken at all.  Glad we agree.

	Yet we have all this verbiage rfom you about how "society"
	is somehow to blame for the spread of AIDS. There seems to be
	a conflict in your beliefs.

>    	The ads are the "lip service" that I mentioned. 

	The ads are the public stand taken by many organizations, the
	CDC, the NIH, etc. You would ratther that these groups remain
	silent?

> So are many
>    	so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes. 

	You are coming out against abstinence?

>society embrace and encourages many of the behaviors
>    	that spread HIV. 

	We need your definition of "society". 

> For instance, whether art imitates life or
>    	life imitates art, our entertainment industry is rather hostile
>    	to the monogamous, married lifestyle that will practically
>    	ensure safety from AIDS.  It condones, if not glorifies, 
>    	promiscuous and casual sex.

	Is your definition of "society" then confined to Hollywood
	producers?

	My definition is a whole lot broader than that.

>  No, Jim, there aren't any specific
>    	ads that say "Go ahead and have unprotected sex,"

	I didn't think so.

> but you'd
>    	have to be blind not to see that we are bathed in the message,
>    	and in some circles even totally immersed.

	And "society" (my definition) is trying to spread the word
	about how risky this behavior can be.

Jim
323.284CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 09 1995 18:1427


RE:              <<< Note 323.281 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>


>| Ask any 7-year-old and he'll tell you that smoking leads to cancer.

>	Be real Joe. That is not true. If it is, what's your source?



 I'm not Joe, but I'd be willing to wager that just about any parent who smokes
 and has kids in grade school, 7 year-olds included, has heard their kids
 say "Mom (and/or) Dad, why do you smoke?  don't you know it causes cancer..
 when my son Scott was about 7 he was very well aware that smoking causes
 cancer and other ills.  Heck, he was even talk that if his parents drink
 they could be alcoholics!


 Jim






323.286SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 09 1995 18:208
              <<< Note 323.282 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>


>	No, cuz that would be a true statement. 

	Unless they post it tommorrow. ;-)

Jim
323.287BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 18:247
| <<< Note 323.285 by CNTROL::JENNISON "Oh me of little faith" >>>


| Greg Louganis tested positive in 1988. I don't think he made any claims to 
| having had the disease in 1980.

	I only repeated what I heard.
323.288CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Thu Mar 09 1995 18:2414


RE:              <<< Note 323.287 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>



| Greg Louganis tested positive in 1988. I don't think he made any claims to 
| having had the disease in 1980.

>	I only repeated what I heard.


   And your source was...?
323.289BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 18:303

	In my note, which you apparently did not read, he was on Oprah.
323.290Kids and smoking ...BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Thu Mar 09 1995 18:315
Both my 3 and 5 year old will tell you smoking is bad for your health
and it will kill you (cracks me up!).

They pick it up from TV. 
323.291CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantThu Mar 09 1995 18:362
    Sounds like you have two smart kids and this is also a great argument
    as to why T.V. is good for you.  :-)/2
323.293CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 09 1995 19:0248
	.283
    
>>    	You're not mistaken at all.  Glad we agree.
>
>	Yet we have all this verbiage rfom you about how "society"
>	is somehow to blame for the spread of AIDS. 
    
    	You misread.

>	You would ratther that these groups remain
>	silent?
    
    	You said that, not me.

>> So are many
>>    	so-called "abstinence-based" sex education classes. 
>
>	You are coming out against abstinence?
    
    	Ditto.
    
    	I *do* stand against labeling some of the so-called "abstinence-
    	based" sex ed classes as truly abstinence-based.  I'm surprised
    	that you seem willing to simply settle for just what's on the
    	cover of the book, Jim.
    
>	Is your definition of "society" then confined to Hollywood
>	producers?
    
    	Far from it.  All I did was mention the correlation between
    	art and society.  Regardless of which mirrors which, the
    	mirror is there.  It was just one of the most glaring examples
    	(which I notice you couldn't deny.)
    
>	And "society" (my definition) is trying to spread the word
>	about how risky this behavior can be.

    	I really haven't been fair to the efforts that have been made.
    	I called them lip service.  At times this is true, but at times
    	it is quite sincere.  I just think that the overall message from
    	society is much stronger in pushing the behaviors that spread
    	HIV than it is in emphasizing the risk.  There is a big difference
    	in impact between being bathed in one message, and having that
    	bath momentarily interrupted with public service announcements.
    
    	Morbid as it seems, I think the risk message will only overcome
    	the hedonism when we watch a beloved idol like Magic succumb
    	to the virus.
323.294BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 19:247

	Joe, your .292 is your being avaisive at your best. Thank you for
posting it.


Glen
323.295evasiveSOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBe vewy caweful awound Zebwas!Thu Mar 09 1995 19:261
    
323.296BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 09 1995 19:344


	That too!
323.297DECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Mar 09 1995 19:4127
    Louganis was just here in Atlanta on his book tour and was interviewed
    on noon news.  Greg said he found out he was HIV+ 6 months before the
    '88 Olympics. He got tested because his long time SO (he calls him
    Tom in book) was really getting ill.  Louganis could have been
    infected at least 10 years before.  I don't think even the gay
    community knew WHAT was taking its toll on their community in the
    late '70s early '80s, they just knew SOMETHING horrible was going
    on (and they couldn't get anyone in the straight community to listen
    to them).
    
    There has been a lot of education going on in the last few years
    (apparently it hasn't penetrated in some areas though).
    
    As was already pointed out, Magic proved no hetero is immune if
    they engage in promiscuous behavior and I do believe this message
    is starting to penetrate (just not fast enough).
    
    Louganis said he went public because he'd heard over and over,
    people innocently saying they would never be affected by AIDS.  He
    said everyone who cheered him on in his quest for the gold really
    can't say AIDS has not affected them.
    
    I watched him win all 4 gold medals and it was a thrill; we won't
    see another diver like Louganis any time soon.  I just hope his
    health holds out so he can get to a place of peace and serenity in
    his life.
    
323.2982 hours a day tops (Ghost Write, Bill Nye the Science Guy, Family Matters mostly)BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Thu Mar 09 1995 19:4811
  >  Sounds like you have two smart kids and this is also a great argument
  >  as to why T.V. is good for you.  :-)/2

  Actually they watch al good deal of CPB and a small amount of the rest of
  it (Their environment is highly controlled :-).

  It doesn't take much.

  I'll clue them in when they're a little older ...

  Doug.
323.299SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Mar 09 1995 20:1137
     <<< Note 323.293 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>It was just one of the most glaring examples
>    	(which I notice you couldn't deny.)
 
	Well, I thought the questions I raised would indicate a position,
	but if you insist.

	I deny that Hollywood represents "society". Anyone making claims
	to the contrary is taking far to simplistic an approach to the
	definition.

>I just think that the overall message from
>    	society is much stronger in pushing the behaviors that spread
>    	HIV than it is in emphasizing the risk.  There is a big difference
>    	in impact between being bathed in one message, and having that
>    	bath momentarily interrupted with public service announcements.
 
	So then one possible solution is to increase the warning messages.
	More education in other words. Seems to me that I remember someone
	suggesting that approach.

	Glen, do you remember who it was? ;-)

>    	Morbid as it seems, I think the risk message will only overcome
>    	the hedonism when we watch a beloved idol like Magic succumb
>    	to the virus.

	You mean someone like Arthur Ashe?

	Actually, I'm probably less optimistic than you. I believe that
	no matter the message, no matter the education, there will STILL
	be those that choose to behave irresponsibly. The difference
	between you and I is that I beleive that ONLY those people should 
	be punished.

Jim
323.301SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 01:0633
     <<< Note 323.300 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>>	I deny that Hollywood represents "society". Anyone making claims
>>	to the contrary is taking far to simplistic an approach to the
>>	definition.
    
>    	You are too transparent.  Sometimes these seem clever, but
>    	this one failed miserably.

	You said that I didn't deny it, so I denied it. What do you want?
	I don't believe that Hollywood represents "society:. You do.
	We disagree.


>    	Would you be against that message from a moral perspective?  The
>    	goal is the same.

	Actually yes. The message it far more likey to be recieved by 
	those that need to hear it if we do not couch it in any 
	moralistic terms. The goal is success, not conversion. Unless 
	you have an agenda that you have not shared with us.

>    	So you see AIDS as a punishment?  Surely I'm misinterpreting
>    	you.


	Surely you are. Your intitial representation was quarrantine,
	and however much you deny it, this is still an issue that you
	defend. Quarrantining those that do NOT participate in activities
	that promote the transmission of the virus can most certainly be
	classified as punishment.

Jim
323.302SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBe vewy caweful awound Zebwas!Fri Mar 10 1995 11:4411
    
    RE: .301
    
    Jim,
    
     Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
     Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?
    
    
    Andy
    
323.303SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 12:3016
   <<< Note 323.302 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas!" >>>

>     Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
>     Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?
 
	Presenting the message in "moral" terms brings an unneccessary
	element into the equation. Because this element is uneccessary
	there must be some other motive than simply preventing the
	spread of the disease. That goal can be accomplised without
	even refering to morality. So I view an attempt to bring morality
	into the picture as an attempt to convert people to a more moral
	lifestyle, not to merely stop the transmission of HIV.

	If that's bias, so be it.

Jim
323.304ASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereFri Mar 10 1995 12:397
    FWIW, lesbians have a very low AIDS transmission rate.  
    
    AIDS is a "create a wound where the disease can have direct access to
    the bloodstream type of disease".  Women aren't normally born with the
    optimal equipment to tear flesh.  Men are.  Needles tear flesh too.
    
    Lisa
323.305BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 12:5715
| <<< Note 323.299 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>



| So then one possible solution is to increase the warning messages.
| More education in other words. Seems to me that I remember someone
| suggesting that approach.

| Glen, do you remember who it was? ;-)


	That person's name is on the tip of my tongue..... :-)


Glen
323.306BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 13:0220
| <<< Note 323.302 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Be vewy caweful awound Zebwas!" >>>



| Why do you see something from a moral perspective as "conversion"?
| Is that a personal bias or just one stereo-type you're fond of?


	Andy, look at how the word Christian is perceived by many people. The
extreme is what they think about. While it is true that most Christians do not
fit this bill, until the transformation has been done on the pr side, people
will continue to get turned off, they will automatically feel the stuff is
being thrown down their throats (regardless of whether it really is), etc. To
reach everyone, it would be easier to keep to moral issue out of it. Through
the help that is given, through the people getting to know others, the word
Christian can change from it's present state to it's real meaning. 


Glen

323.307CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Mar 10 1995 13:585



 What is the real meaning of the word "Christian", Glen?
323.308BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 14:045


	The word itself is someone who believes in and follows Christ. What I
was referring to though is the perceptions people have of the word. 
323.309CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend will you be ready?Fri Mar 10 1995 14:055



 ...and your source for that definition is?
323.310BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 14:093

	God.
323.311CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 10 1995 14:1023
    <<< Note 323.239 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    	So if needle users let the needles sit for a week or so,
>>    	there would no longer be a risk if HIV transmission? 
>
>	True.
    
              <<< Note 323.257 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>

>| but current "education" tells us that any used needle is a risk.
>
>	During drug use, yeah, as they don't wait long enough for the disease
>to die. They shoot up, pass the needle, and shoot up some more. 
    
    
    	Well then maybe one of you two can help dispel some more
    	"ignorance".  Why do we have needle exchange programs?  You'd
    	think that by the time they get the used needles to the exchange
    	site (probably days after their use) that the HIV isn't a 
    	problem with them any more.  Or maybe in my ignorance I didn't
    	know that these needle exchanges are being transacted right
    	at the shoot-up site, and the administrator gives the sharing
    	group a new needle as each new sharer gets ready to shoot...
323.312MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 10 1995 14:275
    And how did you determine that it came from God?  
    
    Answer:  The part of the Bible that really counts.
    
    -Jack
323.313Makes the do-gooders feel good about themselves ... that's about it.BRITE::FYFENever tell a dragon your real name.Fri Mar 10 1995 14:3211
>    	Well then maybe one of you two can help dispel some more
>   	"ignorance".  Why do we have needle exchange programs? 

Needles get old/rust/break or otherwise fail. Has the number of available 
needles dwindles the remaining needles are shared. If eveyone has their 
usable needle there is no need to share. When it fails, get a new one.

Just another ineffective, illogical, emotional based liberal response
to the growing problems in this country.

Doug.
323.314CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 10 1995 14:5968
    <<< Note 323.301 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	You said that I didn't deny it, so I denied it. What do you want?
>	I don't believe that Hollywood represents "society:. You do.
>	We disagree.
    
    	I said that you didn't deny that THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY (as
    	just one example) bathes us in messages that encourage HIV-risk
    	behavior.
    
    	Not only have you been obstinate in avoiding addressing that,
    	but counter to your call to a broader view of things, you insist
    	that Hollywood is "the entertainment industry".  You leave out
    	Detroit and Nashville (music), New York (theatre).  The magazines
    	our kids read, and the morning radio DJ and evening news anchor
    	are also part of the entertainment industry.  Madison Avenue,
    	an industry in itself, is also intimately involved in the
    	entertainment industry.  All of these and more bombard us (and
    	more importantly our kids) with messages that ridicule abstinence,
    	that glorify promiscuity, that tell us we ought to be "scoring"
    	more.  From Calvin Klein ads to Joe Camel's nose, from erotic body
    	parts hidden in whiskey bottles and snack food ads to scantily-
    	clad women running in the background of video games and painted
    	on pinball machines, from overt messages in pop music lyrics to 
    	depiction of casual sex between first-tile aquaintances on 
    	prime-time TV, we are immersed in it, Jim, to the point that
    	we can't avoid it.  Just today in our local paper was an article
    	about a study that profanity on prime-time TV has doubled from
    	1990 to 1994, and in that same time complaints about it have
    	dwindled, indicating that we are becoming desensitized to it.
    	We are likewise desensitized to all the sexual depictions --
    	whether innuendo or overt -- because it has become part of our
    	culture.  And also in our local paper today was an article about
    	Nancy Reagan's plea to return to the messages of her husband's
    	administration regarding drugs.  We've turned away from that too,
    	and drug use among kids is up.  Our heros and leaders in all
    	arenas -- sports, entertainment, politics, business, etc. -- are 
    	swapping partners more frequently than the tabloid industry can 
    	keep up.  Major magazines post headlines ridiculing marriage ("Is
    	There Sex After Marriage?") and marriage itself is one of the
    	most popular subjects for derisive jokes.
    
    	**THAT** is what I'm talking about when I say that society
    	condones -- even embraces -- the behaviors that spread HIV.
    	Momentarily breaking the sexual mantra with periodic messages
    	about condom use, and passing mention of abstinence in sex-ed
    	followed by emphasis on the "but" clause that always follows
    	it, will NOT outweigh the constant diet of sexual encouragement
    	we as a society have adopted.

>>    	Would you be against that message from a moral perspective?  The
>>    	goal is the same.
>
>	Actually yes. The message it far more likey to be recieved by 
>	those that need to hear it if we do not couch it in any 
>	moralistic terms. The goal is success, not conversion.
    
    	It is the loss of the moral guidelines that society used to
    	hold that is the reason for our current problems.  The experimental
    	discarding of the moral fabric has failed miserably.  Shouting
    	out even louder the safety messages in the absence of moral
    	reasoning will not work.  You fear the moral message because 
    	you have some problem with religion.  Well morality does not
    	work because it is religious, it works because it is right,
    	and works in the absence of any particular religion.  You blind
    	yourself to the benefits of it because you see some bogeyman
    	"agenda", but while you scramble to villify religion, society
    	continues to crumble.
323.316BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 15:5013
| <<< Note 323.315 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


| Kind of works the same way for "gay rights", eh Glen?


	You're right Joe. Both have people who think the extreme equals the
group as a whole. Both have people who hate them just because they are
different than they are. So for those two things which give people an
inaccurate picture of who these people are, you're right.


Glen
323.317BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 15:517
| <<< Note 323.312 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

| And how did you determine that it came from God?
| Answer:  The part of the Bible that really counts.

	Jack, why did you ask if you were gonna provide the answer? Not an
accurate one, but an answer none the less.
323.318SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 16:0836
     <<< Note 323.314 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

 
>    	**THAT** is what I'm talking about when I say that society
>    	condones -- even embraces -- the behaviors that spread HIV.
>    	Momentarily breaking the sexual mantra with periodic messages
>    	about condom use, and passing mention of abstinence in sex-ed
>    	followed by emphasis on the "but" clause that always follows
>    	it, will NOT outweigh the constant diet of sexual encouragement
>    	we as a society have adopted.

	Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
	this before and you ignored it. 


>Shouting
>    	out even louder the safety messages in the absence of moral
>    	reasoning will not work.

	And you think that telling a herion addict that drug use is
	immoral WILL work? What color is the sky in your world?

>  You fear the moral message because 
>    	you have some problem with religion. 

	I do not fear the moral message. And I don't have a problem
	with religion, per se. I do have a problem with most organized
	religions. And I have a REAL problem with religious zealots.

	What is wrong with a nice straightforward message that says
	"If you do this, you may DIE"?

	Kindly tell us how this is less effective than a message that
	says "When you die, you'll go to hell".

Jim
323.319CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 10 1995 17:1646
    <<< Note 323.318 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
>	this before and you ignored it. 
    
    	And I answered it, and you dismissed it.  Impasse.  Next point.

>	And you think that telling a herion addict that drug use is
>	immoral WILL work? What color is the sky in your world?
    
    	You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
    	disease.
    
    	What is the moral atmosphere that allows so many people to
    	require drug use?  Do you think that increasing the message
    	"You may DIE" (I borrowed from your words below) to *any*
    	volume or frequency will change the heroin addict?
    
    	Or even most cigarette smokers?

>	What is wrong with a nice straightforward message that says
>	"If you do this, you may DIE"?
    
    	Because we have already made that message.  Who hasn't already
    	heard it?

>	Kindly tell us how this is less effective than a message that
>	says "When you die, you'll go to hell".
    
    	Who said anything about hell?  That is a strawman of your own
    	making.  I said that morals could be practiced without religion.
    	Many have argued that very point in SOAPBOX over the years.
    
    	Instead of "You will go to hell," what's wrong with the message
    	"It is wrong!"  But it has to be more than just a message.  It
    	has to be a whole societal paradigm shift.  Just as the message,
    	"You may DIE" has proven to be ineffective, the mere message,
    	"It is wrong," will be equally ineffective.  At any decibel
    	level and with any frequency.  Instead we will have to make
    	a decision as a society that "We don't do that.  We don't
    	accept that.  We don't tolerate it."  It has taken decades to
    	throw away that mindset and get to the point where we are today.
    	I have no delusions that it would take less time to return to 
    	that.  
    
    	But we must.
323.320SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 17:5937
     <<< Note 323.319 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>>	Then increase the messages that tell about the risks. I mentioned
>>	this before and you ignored it. 
    
>    	And I answered it, and you dismissed it.  Impasse.  Next point.

	You didn't answer it. You suggested (actually you inquired as
	to what I thought about) adding a "moral" message. This does
	not adress the issue of increasing the amount of education,
	it only addresses content.

>    	You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
>    	disease.
 
	I am reacting to the current reality.
   
>    	Instead of "You will go to hell," what's wrong with the message
>    	"It is wrong!"  But it has to be more than just a message.  It
>    	has to be a whole societal paradigm shift.  Just as the message,
>    	"You may DIE" has proven to be ineffective, the mere message,
>    	"It is wrong," will be equally ineffective.  At any decibel
>    	level and with any frequency.  Instead we will have to make
>    	a decision as a society that "We don't do that.  We don't
>    	accept that.  We don't tolerate it."  It has taken decades to
>    	throw away that mindset and get to the point where we are today.
>    	I have no delusions that it would take less time to return to 
>    	that.  
 
	It has only taken AIDS two decades to reach the rate that
	we have now. So while we are waiting for a return to your
	June Cleaver society, how many more people will become
	infected, how many more will die?

	And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?

Jim
323.321BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeFri Mar 10 1995 18:038


| And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?


	Jim, I thought he was clear about that. Quarentine. :-)

323.322CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 10 1995 18:1729
    <<< Note 323.320 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    	You are reacting to the symptoms rather than preventing the
>>    	disease.
> 
>	I am reacting to the current reality.
    
    	Agreed.  But doing that and nothing more locks us into 
    	merely reacting forever.
   
>	It has only taken AIDS two decades to reach the rate that
>	we have now. So while we are waiting for a return to your
>	June Cleaver society, how many more people will become
>	infected, how many more will die?
    
    	I've never said to ignore today's problems.
    
    	And you are welcome to get nasty and deride the "June Cleaver
    	society", but it's better than what you have to offer -- which
    	is the status quo.

>	And just how do you propose to force this paradigm shift?

	It can't be mandated.  It can't be legislated.  It can only
    	occur from within.  Grassroots.  I can only hope that the 
    	silent readers who have followed this string or other discussions
    	like it elsewhere can see the difference between a return to a 
    	sensible morality versus the status quo versus a continued decline 
    	in society.
323.323SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 18:2011
              <<< Note 323.321 by BIGQ::SILVA "Squirrels R Me" >>>

>	Jim, I thought he was clear about that. Quarentine. :-)

	We move from a quarrantine for HIV+ status to a quarrantine
	for having "impure thoughts"?? Yeah, that's the ticket!

	;-)

Jim

323.324SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 18:4526
     <<< Note 323.322 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

>    	Agreed.  But doing that and nothing more locks us into 
>    	merely reacting forever.
 
	Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
	and the content of that education. It was not about other
	proactive activity.

>    	I've never said to ignore today's problems.
 
	But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
	today's problems you have publicly repudiated.

>    	And you are welcome to get nasty and deride the "June Cleaver
>    	society"

	Nasty, you call that nasty?

>but it's better than what you have to offer -- which
>    	is the status quo.

	Better than favoring ignorace? Better than lying to potential
	victims of this disease? Both of which you have offered us.

Jim
323.325MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Fri Mar 10 1995 18:5218
    Jim:
    
    You can have all the impure thoughts you want.  Just keep your pants
    on...I think that's the bottom line.
    
    The base message of Christianity is that we do have impure
    thoughts...the Spirit battling against the flesh and all that
    stuff...so you can dispell the myth that we say you can't have impure
    thoughts.  However, as Christians I see a need for a daily renewal of
    the mind.  This can take a lifetime of can happen in a short period.
    
    The paradigm shift is needed Jim.  You screw...you could die...end of
    story.  What I don't like is peoples assumptions that the human race is
    destined to act like a bunch of uncontrolled barn animals and
    that...we're going to do it anyway!  That isn't the case and it can
    be curbed as is plainly shown in other societies.
    
    -Jack  
323.326SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Mar 10 1995 18:5813
        <<< Note 323.325 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

>    You can have all the impure thoughts you want.

	Why thank you. I know my weekend will be much more enjoyable.

>  Just keep your pants
>    on...I think that's the bottom line.
 
	Ooops, there goes the weekend. Should I have my wife call you
	if she doesn't understand this new paradigm?

Jim
323.327CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Fri Mar 10 1995 19:1219
    <<< Note 323.324 by SEAPIG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
>	and the content of that education. It was not about other
>	proactive activity.
    
    	Says who?

>	But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
>	today's problems you have publicly repudiated.
    
    	You haven't been reading.

>	Nasty, you call that nasty?
    
    	Oh, true.  You can get much nastier.  (I'm not sure if you
    	are proud of this or not...)  You did real well yesterday,
    	but I noticed you falling back again, so I made a mention
    	of it.  That's all.
323.328SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROSat Mar 11 1995 12:3426
     <<< Note 323.327 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>


>>	Agreed. But the discussion was about increasing education
>>	and the content of that education. It was not about other
>>	proactive activity.
    
>    	Says who?

	Are truly this obtuse? I asked you about increasing the AMOUNT
	of education to offest the, according to you, inundation of
	behavioral signals from the "entertainment industry". You 
	chose to NOT answer the question by diverting the discussion
	to content.

>>	But the only "solution" that you have offered to deal with
>>	today's problems you have publicly repudiated.
    
>    	You haven't been reading.

	It is true that you came up with an inane Pollyanna idea
	about changing the mores of the entire society "in a few
	decades". But that suggestion does not deal with the current
	reality.

Jim
323.329CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Sat Mar 11 1995 14:181
    	Now *THAT* is the Jim Percival we've come to know and love!
323.330BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeMon Mar 13 1995 13:223

	But will you answer him Joe or just keep up the diversion?
323.331MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Mon Mar 13 1995 13:275
    Jim:
    
    Obviously a message directed to the promiscuous.
    
    -Jack
323.332SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoFri Mar 17 1995 21:4073
    Woman with AIDS sues S.J. dental clinic

    By Donna Alvarado
    Mercury News Staff Writer

    A Mountain View couple filed suit Wednesday in Santa Clara County
    Superior Court alleging that a San Jose dental clinic refused to serve
    the woman after she said she has AIDS.

    The clinic, South Bay Health Center, denied that it discriminated
    against the 33-year-old woman, Nanette Sanchez -- or anybody else who
    has AIDS. ``It didn't happen,'' said Michael Bradley, a San Francisco
    attorney representing the clinic.

    But Sanchez and her husband, Michael, contend in their suit that they
    were turned away from the clinic Dec. 10 after they came in response to
    a promotional offer for a $25 ``two-for-one'' teeth cleaning.

    The couple's attorneys, from the non-profit Public Interest Law Firm,
    said the suit was filed as a way to ``declare war'' on health care
    facilities that violate laws prohibiting discrimination against
    patients with acquired immune deficiency syndrome. ``No longer will we
    sit by while the law is violated,'' Patricia Price, one of the
    attorneys, said at a news conference Wednesday to publicize the case.

    Price said she did not know of any previous AIDS-discrimination suits
    filed against a health care provider in Santa Clara County.

    According to the suit, the Sanchezes arrived at the clinic and were
    given health questionnaires. Nanette Sanchez filled out hers, stating
    that she had AIDS, and returned it to the receptionist with a $25
    check.

    Several minutes later, the suit said, the couple were shown to a
    cubicle, were told that the clinic did not treat patients with AIDS and
    were given the name of a clinic that accepts those with AIDS.

    ``It's an outrage,'' Price said at the news conference as she displayed
    the $25 check the Sanchezes wrote to the clinic. She said the clinic's
    action violated federal, state and local laws.

    The suit seeks a preliminary injunction prohibiting the clinic from
    discriminating against patients with AIDS. Superior Court Judge Richard
    Turrone on Wednesday scheduled a hearing on the matter for April 4.

    Price said the couple would not have filed the suit if the clinic had
    been willing to adopt a policy banning AIDS discrimination. But
    Bradley, the attorney for the clinic, said it was unnecessary to have
    such a policy.

    ``The people at South Bay Health Center will testify they don't have
    any policy against treating AIDS patients -- never have and never
    will,'' Bradley said. ``The allegation that Mrs. Sanchez was declined
    treatment because she had AIDS was not true, and we'll prove it.''

    Price said the Public Interest Law Firm has handled eight similar cases
    since 1991, all of which were settled out of court before a suit was
    filed.

    In most of those cases, she said, the facility either acknowledged a
    mistake or agreed to adopt a policy prohibiting any discrimination
    against AIDS patients. ``This is the first defendant that has not been
    cooperative,'' she said, referring to South Bay Health Center.

    A spokesman for the California Dental Association said refusing to
    serve AIDS patients is considered unethical under guidelines adopted by
    the American Dental Association.

    ``Dentists aren't supposed to discriminate against HIV-infected
    patients,'' John Galbraith said. ``They could be bounced from our
    association. It's something we don't put up with.''

    Published 3/16/95 in the San Jose Mercury News.
323.333WMOIS::GIROUARD_CMon Mar 20 1995 10:1712
    interesting story on 60 Minutes last night about a diagnosed case
    from which a man died in England in 1959. he probably contracted it
    in 1948 - 1949 while a teenager (25 yrs old when he died). by all
    accounts, he was a healthy heterosexual male.
    
    opinion is that the disease could've been around 80-200yrs ago. it
    simply was diagnosed under other known illnesses. 
    
    they also stated there is no hope in determining how he contracted/
    developed the disease.
    
    Chip
323.334BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Mar 22 1995 18:5813

	Well, I just got my mail and got something from the Living Center. It
is a safe haven for people struggling with HIV/AIDS in Boston. They have talked
about where they are getting the funding from. 

	 1%   Other
	18%   Foundations and Corporations
	21%   Individuals
	60%   Government

	It would seem while the government does fund 60% of their total budget,
it surely could not fund it all if we went by the way of quarrentine. 
323.335A Learning TimeJULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeFri Mar 24 1995 21:3735
    A Crosspost from Yukon::Christian
    
    I had a discussion this week with both of my boys regarding Aids and
    HIV.  I was surprised at the amount of misinformation they had and as
    well lack of understanding  just what *is* the disease.
    
    Overall we spent 1.5 hours me with marker in hand diagramming and
    writing things on a white board.  I found this to be one of the most
    positive experiences of parenting that I've enjoyed so far.
    
    I used a book entitled FACTS of LIFE which have pop out pages of both
    the male and female reproductive organs, including pull tabs that make
    certain parts move.  But no it doesn't simulate intercourse!!!
    
    However it does have a sperm page with a pull tab that makes the sperm
    wiggle!  The kids were a little concerned they had something ALIVE
    developing in them.  But as we moved on in the discussion, they
    became more comfortable not only with their own bodies, but in
    understand a woman's.
    
    The kids asked *so* many questions... and were blunt as usual with
    their own personal experiences. :-)  As limited as they are, what a joy
    to have the opportunity as a parent to guide them in this way.
    
    The end result was a question I asked them.
    
    What is safe sex?
    
    Their responses were unanimous.
    
    
    WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin  or HAVE blood tests.
    
    
    
323.336BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeSat Mar 25 1995 00:567


	Nancy, GREAT note! Thanks for posting it.


Glen
323.337SUBURB::COOKSHalf Man,Half BiscuitMon Mar 27 1995 15:518
    .335 no offense intended,but praise be that I haven`t got parents who
    talked to me about the facts of life for 1.5 hours,and showed me a pop
    up pork sword.
    
    
    
    
    
323.338CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikMon Mar 27 1995 16:0215
    nancy,
    
    One thing bothers me about the following:
    
        >>What is safe sex?
    
        >>WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin  *or* HAVE blood tests.
    
    Or have blood tests?  What. no discussion of defenses while waiting for
    the blood test to come back?  You need at least a couple over six
    months to have an idea that you are, indeed HIV -.  since this was an
    *or*, not an and, I am concerned that your boys may not have all the
    facts here.
    
    meg
323.339SMURF::MSCANLONoh-oh. It go. It gone. Bye-bye.Mon Mar 27 1995 17:4413
    re: .335
    
    Nancy, I think you must be one courageous woman. :-)
    When I think of the possibility of my poor mother, who couldn't 
    even say the word "sex" without dropping her voice to a whisper, 
    handing me a pop up book about the facts of life, I have
    to get a napkin to wipe my eyes. And no, I'm not crying.... :-)
    
    I'm sure your boys will considered themselves blessed many
    times over in years to come for the gifts of your strength
    and frankness.
    
    Mary-Michael
323.340Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Mon Mar 27 1995 22:113
    re .338
    
    meg, are you just being sarcastic with this note or do you mean it ??
323.341BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 28 1995 04:139
| <<< Note 323.340 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>


| meg, are you just being sarcastic with this note or do you mean it ??

	I can't speak for meg, but what she has said is absolutely true.


Glen
323.342Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Tue Mar 28 1995 04:346
    Do you not think that the information Nancy had provided her children
    with was enough for one day ??? I mean talk about over load !!!!
    
    I do agree with what Meg has said regarding the additional information
    but think that what Nancy had discussed with her kiddies was quite 
    enough. Especially considering how old they are.
323.343Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Tue Mar 28 1995 04:536
    Coming away from that discussion..... I read an extremely small
    articale in a Sydney newspaper the other day (less than 15 words) which
    announced that the Chinese had developed a cure/vacine for AIDs that
    had a 52% success rate. 
    
    Anyone know anymore information ??
323.344Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Tue Mar 28 1995 04:531
    Vaccine..yes I know.
323.345SUBURB::COOKSHalf Man,Half BiscuitTue Mar 28 1995 12:485
    Martin,you mean your Mum never showed you a book with a pop up
    bell-end?? A deprived child hood you must of had.
    
    
    
323.346BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 28 1995 12:5121
| <<< Note 323.342 by SNOFS1::DAVISM "And monkeys might fly outa my butt!" >>>


| Do you not think that the information Nancy had provided her children with was
| enough for one day ??? I mean talk about over load !!!!

	If you read my .336, you would see I made no mention of anything except
praise for the note. But when meg brought it up, I agreed that what she said
was 100% true. 

| but think that what Nancy had discussed with her kiddies was quite enough. 
| Especially considering how old they are.

	At one time age might have meant something. In todays world, does it
really? The younger a child can learn about life, the better prepared they will
be. Remember back when all you had to do was tell your kids don't talk to
strangers? Now you gotta tell them that and MUCH more. 


Glen

323.347CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikTue Mar 28 1995 14:1811
    No I wasn't being sarcastic.  The "or" has me concerned that these kids
    don't know about condoms, and their use in assisting in the prevention
    of disease, and I don't just mean AIDS.  There is another incurable
    disease which can be fatal which is transmitted with the same vectors
    as HIV.  fortunately there is now an immunization for it, and the same
    basic protection methods against it also work for HIV and a cousin of
    this one.  Can you say Hepatitis B, and Non-A Non-B hep?  Non-A nonB
    has now immunization is tranmitted sexually and goes choronic with
    major liver damage quite easily.  
    
    meg
323.348SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIYap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap!Tue Mar 28 1995 14:2522
    
    Just an aside and for FYI...
    
    I know someone who works for a plastics company and was related the
    following by the owner...
    
     It seems the owner was approached last year by a maker of latex gloves
    and asked if there was some substitute for those (latex) gloves that
    could be marketed and sold.
    
      It seems this latex glove maker found out that latex would not stop
    the HIV virus and was frantically searching for a substitute.
    
      The plastics company owner told them he knew of none that would be
    commercially viable for him to produce...
    
      There were never any follow-up conversations/calls by this glove
    maker...
    
    
      Wonder what happened?
    
323.349MEDICAL note 1667NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Mar 28 1995 14:273
I suspect you have the story wrong.  There are people who are severely allergic 
to latex.  Medical personnel need non-latex gloves to treat them.  There are
substitutes.  This was discussed in the MEDICAL notesfile a few months ago.
323.350SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIYap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap! Yap!Tue Mar 28 1995 14:387
    
    No Gerald... I remember the allergic problem...
    
    This was entirely different...
    
    The owner was specifically told about the HIV problem verbally, and
    when he asked for them to send something written, they refused...
323.351ODIXIE::CIAROCHIOne Less DogTue Mar 28 1995 18:124
    I'd be amazed if the gloves did not filter a virus.
    
    It's probably more like they do not provide sufficient protection
    against needle pokes, scalpel cuts, or bites.
323.352CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Tue Mar 28 1995 19:3110
    <<< Note 323.335 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>
    
>    What is safe sex?
>    
>    Their responses were unanimous.
>    
>    WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin  or HAVE blood tests.
    
	Pretty much anything you could put after the "or" jeopardizes 
    	what safe sex really is.    
323.353BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeTue Mar 28 1995 19:3812
| <<< Note 323.352 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Whatever happened to ADDATA?" >>>

| >    WAIT... be a virgin, marry a virgin  or HAVE blood tests.

| Pretty much anything you could put after the "or" jeopardizes
| what safe sex really is.


	I think the "or" already did that.


Glen
323.354SMURF::MSCANLONoh-oh. It go. It gone. Bye-bye.Tue Mar 28 1995 19:493
    Of course, if you take into consideration that people
    can and do lie.....nothing is really safe, is it?
    
323.355Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Tue Mar 28 1995 22:5219
    >        . Can you say Hepatitis B, and Non-A Non-B Hep?
    
    
    Errrr... yeah I can actually, you see I'm quite clever that way. Do I 
    get a medal now ?
    
    Anyway...
    
    Re: Your last note... That has nothing to do with the point I was
    trying to make.  How much information can children take on at any one
    time ??? I, for sure, would probably have been quite bored after a
    long discussion on something that really didn't interest me too much.
    
    There are loads of diseases which can be transmitted by un-protected
    sexual interaction (cool word, huh?). I mean VD didn't die out in the
    '60s. These deseases may be treatable but they can still cause a great
    deal of discomfort and quite a few problem.
    
    Herpes.. my dick is ruined.
323.356Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMAnd monkeys might fly outa my butt!Tue Mar 28 1995 22:531
    By the way I missed of a few :*) :*) by mistake in my last note.
323.357JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 28 1995 22:5912
    Good point Meg..
    
    We actually did discuss protection or condoms by my using a latex glove
    over my hand. :-)  The  1.5 hours wasn't my doing, it was their
    responses and desire to ask questions that led to the length of the
    discussion.  I was the one who said, ENOUGH! :-)
    
    BTW, I've heard reported that the HIV virus is .04 in size and that the
    pore size of most condoms are .06.  Anybody else  have information
    regarding this?
    
    Nancy
323.358JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Mar 28 1995 23:041
    I'll grab a snarf when it hits me in the eye!
323.359BOXORN::HAYSI think we are toast. Remember the jam?Wed Mar 29 1995 11:3511
RE: 323.357 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze"

> BTW, I've heard reported that the HIV virus is .04 in size and that the
> pore size of most condoms are .06.  Anybody else  have information
> regarding this?

Water is made of particles much much smaller than an HIV virus.  Fill your 
glove with water and see what happens.


Phil
323.360BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Mar 29 1995 14:096
| <<< Note 323.358 by JULIET::MORALES_NA "Sweet Spirit's Gentle Breeze" >>>

| I'll grab a snarf when it hits me in the eye!


	Make sure that snarf is wearing a condom!
323.361BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeWed Mar 29 1995 14:103

	Hey Nancy, is that a pop-up snarf??? :-)
323.362News affects this...GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Mar 30 1995 14:217
    
      I put something about the miraculous self-cure being reported
     of an infant born HIV+ in the News Boxers note.  If there exists
     SOME means for a human body to eradicate the virus, even though
     we dunno what it is, how does this change things ?
    
      bb
323.363CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantThu Mar 30 1995 14:3022
    A. The child will be hunted down by AIDS research zealots and kept as an
    experiment in a secret lab in the bowels of Montana searching for the 
    cure.
    
    B. Neoconservatives will squeal with delight at the opportunity to
    reduce funding since a cure has been found.  
    
    C. The religious right will claim it is an act of God and point to it
    as a harbinger of His good grace and the last call for people to flock
    towards salvation.  
    
    D. The moral decay will decline as everyone sighs collectively in
    relief that the previous levels of debauching can now resume.  Look for
    swingers club franchise opportunities in a school district near you.   
    
    E. It will be poo-pooed by research funding recipients as a freak of
    nature and a funding feeding frenzy will ensue as we are on the
    threshold of major breakthrough, if we only had more money.  
    
    F. Paramount will make a movie of it.  	
    
    
323.364CSOA1::LEECHGo Hogs!Thu Mar 30 1995 14:331
    I pick C!   8^)
323.365CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantThu Mar 30 1995 14:338
    In all seriousness, I hope this does accelerate the reasearch since
    there appears to be a naturally occuring mechanism to fight this. 
    Maybe a trigger can be found.  I hope this does not provide a
    relaxation on the education and awareness.  Even though there may be
    some hope however small, it will be years and many more victims dead
    before a cure/effective treatment is found.  
    
    Brian
323.366CONSLT::MCBRIDEaspiring peasantThu Mar 30 1995 14:341
    You and Andy already did Steve.  See, my prediction was right. :-) :-).  
323.367SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIThu Mar 30 1995 14:383
    
     I woulda picked "A"...
    
323.368CSOA1::LEECHGo Hogs!Thu Mar 30 1995 17:101
    Actually, A & C could both be correct at the same time...
323.370MPGS::MARKEYThe Completion Backwards PrincipleThu Mar 30 1995 17:3327
    I'm not sure why this particular child has been so newsworthy,
    there have been several "self cures" in HIV+ people. Actually,
    there's no "self cure" involved here or in the other cases,
    the antibodies to the virus (which is what they test for)
    simply "went away". Now the real question is, is the child
    (and the other people who were "cured") still carrying the
    virus?

    Most of the "cured" people are participating in a study
    to determine what is happening. Of course, there may be
    many "cured" people. It could turn out that most people
    that have been infected manage to overcome the virus,
    without wide-spread testing, it can't be determined.

    It's worth noting that one of those that were "cured"
    was a gay man who, prior to learning of his HIV+ status,
    was quite promiscuous. After learning he was HIV+, he
    joined a New Age religious group and took up holistic
    healing. You can deduce what you want with regard to
    "miracles" in this case... :-)

    I believe the real answer to the question, however, will
    be in some genetic variation in these individuals which
    thwarts the replication of the virus.

    -b
323.371POWDML::LAUERLittle Chamber of Fuzzy FacesThu Mar 30 1995 17:5036
    
    See how the fates their gifts allot
    For "A" is happy, "B" is not
    But "B" is worthy, I dare say,
    Of more prosperity than "A".
    (Is "B" more worthy?)
    I should say he's worth a great deal more than "A".
    
    Yet "A" is happy
    Oh so happy
    Laughing, ha ha
    Chaffing, ha ha
    Nectar quaffing, ha ha ha!
    Ever joyous, ever gay
    Happy undeserving "A".
    Ever joyous, ever gay
    Happy undeserving "A".
    
    If I were Fortune, which I'm not
    "B" should enjoy "A"'s happy lot
    And "A" should die in misery
    That is, assuming I am "B".
    (But should "A" perish?)
    That should he
    Of course, assuming I am "B".
    
    "B" should be happy
    Oh so happy
    Laughing, ha ha
    Chaffing, ha ha
    Nectar quaffing, ha ha ha!
    But condemned to die is he
    Wretched, meritorious "B"
    But condemned to die is he
    Wretched, meritorious "B".
                  
323.372MPGS::MARKEYThe Completion Backwards PrincipleThu Mar 30 1995 17:575
    .371
    
    A way _cool_ G&S ditty that!
    
    -b
323.373NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Mar 30 1995 18:231
Was its inclusion inspired by the multiple choice question or by "ever gay?"
323.374POWDML::LAUERLittle Chamber of Fuzzy FacesThu Mar 30 1995 18:294
    
    {rolls eyes}
    
    8^)
323.375BIGQ::SILVASquirrels R MeThu Mar 30 1995 20:047

	Deb, very nice..... how about gettin someone famous to sing with ya? A
duet of some sort. I would choose Bon Jovi, as at one time you had the same hair



323.376Illustrates a point...GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Mar 30 1995 20:3926
    
      Well, I dunno the truth of the report.  But it demonstrates what
     is wrong with the "You reap what you sow" argument, for me anyway.
    
      It's not that I think highly of promiscuity.  It is no surprise to
     me that some people who do outlandish things end in misery.
    
      It's that disease-as-avenging-angel seems illogical.  Suppose there
     is a cure found ?  You reap something different ?  Recall they used
     to say the same thing about syphilis, until a cure was found.
    
      No, diseases are diseases.  All the politicians and theologians and
     victims and relatives can jump up and down and scream, "The problem
     is hate !!"  But they are wrong.
    
      And all the anti-gays and religious moralists and scared-speechless
     leper-stay-aways can scream, "The problem is immorality".  And they
     are just as wrong.
    
      The problem is a virus, a thing.  It is not immoral.  It hates
     nobody.  The solution will be found as usual, by looking closely,
     for a long time, figuring it out, and devising a counter.
    
      And in the meantime, we'll all get mad at each other, to no purpose.
    
      bb
323.377CSC32::J_OPPELTWhatever happened to ADDATA?Thu Mar 30 1995 21:0541
                     <<< Note 323.376 by GAAS::BRAUCHER >>>
    
>      Well, I dunno the truth of the report.  But it demonstrates what
>     is wrong with the "You reap what you sow" argument, for me anyway.
    
    	How so?
    
>      It's that disease-as-avenging-angel seems illogical.  
    
    	That *IS* illogical.  Reap-what-you-sow is not the same
    	as disease-as-avenging-angel!
    
>      Suppose there
>     is a cure found ?  You reap something different ?  Recall they used
>     to say the same thing about syphilis, until a cure was found.
    
    	Cure or not, people still reap syphilis through many of the same 
    	behaviors that they can reap AIDS from.  Unwanted pregnancies are
    	also fruits of reap-what-you-sow.  So too many times are divorce,
    	broken homes, child and/or spouse abuse, bankruptcy, drug
    	dependence, and so many other things.  Reap-what-you-sow doesn't
    	have to end in death, nor does it have to be related to anything
    	sexual at all.  It just means that if you put yourself in harm's
    	way, you may end up harmed.
    
>      All the politicians and theologians and
>     victims and relatives can jump up and down and scream, "The problem
>     is hate !!"  But they are wrong.
    
    	Who is actually saying that?
    
>      And all the anti-gays and religious moralists and scared-speechless
>     leper-stay-aways can scream, "The problem is immorality".  And they
>     are just as wrong.
    
    	Many immoral things are precisely what put people "in harm's way."
    	you are correct, the immoral behavior doesn't cause AIDS.  A
    	biological process does.  The point about reap-what-you-sow is
    	that without those "harm's way" immoralities, that biological
    	process rarely gets started.  (And to limit that call to morality
    	as being merely directed at gay behavior is unfair.)
323.378SHRCTR::DAVISFri Mar 31 1995 14:0619
    <<< Note 323.370 by MPGS::MARKEY "The Completion Backwards Principle" >>>

-b,

From what I've read/heard, the reason this case is newsworthy is that it is 
the first and only instance of "cure" that is clinically demonstrated. 
There have been numerous other reports of once-positive people turning up 
negative, but these have all been rather loosely documented. Whereas this 
one was watched closely. The child was tested at birth (born of an AIDS 
mother). Tested again a few months later with the most sophisticated tests 
available, and still tested positive - not just to antibodies but to 
identify the actual virus, I believe. Then, at one year, it was tested 
again. All the the same tests. No virus. No antibodies. Now, at 5 years, 
still no sign of HIV. Never happened before. Other cases could be explained 
as false positive (or false negatives). No doubt on this one.

That's news.

 
323.379RDGE44::ALEUC8Fri Mar 31 1995 14:123
    natural selection
    
    ric
323.380MPGS::MARKEYThe bottom end of Liquid SanctuaryFri Mar 31 1995 14:3618
    >mother). Tested again a few months later with the most sophisticated tests 
    >available, and still tested positive - not just to antibodies but to 
    >identify the actual virus, I believe. Then, at one year, it was tested 
    >again. All the the same tests. No virus. No antibodies. Now, at 5 years, 
    >still no sign of HIV. Never happened before. Other cases could be explained 

    Tom,

    My understanding is that no test which directly tests for HIV
    is available... that only indirect evidence -- the presence
    of antibodies -- can be tested for.

    However, using this indirect test they can infer the presence
    of HIV. They mix blood from an infected person with blood
    from someone who is known not to be infected; if antibodies
    appear in the mixed blood, the first person is still infected.

    -b
323.381WAHOO::LEVESQUEluxure et suppliceFri Mar 31 1995 14:566
     Brian-
    
     I believe that the "HIV test" tests for antibodies as you stated.
    However, they are able to isolate the virus and check its DNA. So there
    is a method of finding the virus when it's present, it's just expensive
    so it isn't done as a test for HIV.
323.382NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Apr 25 1995 14:272
David Duke said in an interview that people with AIDS should be given
glow-in-the-dark tattoos.
323.384BUSY::SLABOUNTYTrouble with a capital 'T'Tue Apr 25 1995 16:203
    
    	Wherever they stand out best, of course.
    
323.385POLAR::RICHARDSONSpecial Fan Club Butt TinkeringTue Apr 25 1995 16:301
    The right hand or the forehead.
323.386MKOTS3::JMARTINYou-Had-Forty-Years!!!Tue Apr 25 1995 18:191
    Stop making references to h e with double hockey sticks  :-o
323.387BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Apr 25 1995 22:285
| <<< Note 323.386 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "You-Had-Forty-Years!!!" >>>

| Stop making references to h e with double hockey sticks  :-o

	But Jack, they had to mention who said it... :-)
323.388Pre-Registration for the AIDS WalksBIGQ::SILVADiabloFri May 12 1995 22:0439

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   Silva (BIGQ::SILVA or DTN 225-6306) or Chris Conran (BIGQ::CONRAN or DTN 
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   Please remember that Digital Equipment Corporation will NOT be matching
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323.389BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri May 12 1995 22:091
<----feel free to distribute if you would like
323.390Talk HardSNOFS1::DAVISMHappy Harry Hard OnMon Jun 19 1995 23:519
    I have a question !
    
    I forgot to post this...... I was  watching this program on TV a while 
    back and someone on this program (fiction) said "I'm HIV Positive, I was 
    involved in a bar fight and got bitten by this man" Now my question is
    how did he become HIV+ from a bite ? Would the guy who bit him have to 
    have had blood in the general area of his mouth for the virus to have
    transfered ?             
    
323.391MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Jun 20 1995 00:377
I don't know how the knowledge around this has changed recently, but I
recall as many as eight or nine years ago that HIV was found to be carried
in all bodily fluids, including saliva and tears. If that's still expected
to be true, saliva to the blood stream in an open wound seem to be a perfect
vector. The point of entry generally needs to be direct transmission to
the blood stream, as opposed to through intact mucous membranes.

323.392Listen! AIDS Kills!NETCAD::WOODFORDUSER ERROR::ReplaceUser/PressAnyKeyToCont.Tue Jun 20 1995 12:4271
Not in reference to the last question, but I had to put my two cents worth
    in on this topic......




    It doesn't matter how much information you have about AIDS, if you 
don't use that information, you could die.  It is not the lack of sexual
awareness, but the failure to live by that awareness, that is devastating
today's society.  Young adults hear the statistics relating to the dangers
of leading a promiscuous life.  They don't listen to the reality that it is
all too likely they will become part of the statistics themselves unless 
they change their ways.  This is an international problem which occurs in
all classes of society.  It needs to be dealt with on a grand scale.
    
    
    As Robert C. Noble points out in his essay, "There is No Safe Sex",
a recent study shows the percentage of sexually active college women who
use condoms rose from twelve percent in 1975 to forty one percent in 1989.
Though this is a large increase, it is still a minority.  These are intelligent
young women.  Yet fifty nine percent of these educated young people choose
to partake in threatening sexual activities.  They know the risks involved.
Still, they tell themselves 'it can't happen to me'.  In every case it can
happen to them, and in a growing number of those cases, it does happen.  They
put their lives on the line every time they have sex.

    
    In the book, Voices That Care, compiled by Neal Hitchens, there is an essay
by Jackie Iszard.  Ms. Iszard tells about how her brother Daniel contracted
the AIDS virus.  Daniel, a postal worker, was diagnosed with AIDS in 1986.
A woman he had dated on and off for several years had become pregnant from
another man.  She gave birth to the child then gave the baby up for adoption.
A short time later the baby was diagnosed with AIDS, and the adoptive parents
contacted the birth mother.  She was tested right away.  The tests came back
positive.  She then had the task of informing Daniel.  He was tested, and
found to have the AIDS virus also.  Because Daniel thought he was 'safe'
from this disease, he never used any type of protection. His girlfriend felt
the same about herself.  This irresponsible way of thinking led first to an
unwanted pregnancy, and ultimately to the deaths of three people.  They knew 
what the risks were, yet they chose to ignore the facts.


    The information contained in the book, Women In The World: An International
Atlas, is revolting.  Whole governments of countries ignore the fact that 
loose sex is deadly.  They have elected or hired officials that see the 
medical reports every day, yet they still choose to look the other way. Even
with the evidence stacking up daily about AIDS, these governments legalize
prostitution.  With or without their so-called government regulations,
legalized prostitution is a breeding ground for sexually transmitted diseases.
The devastation this could cause is far greater than another world war.  
Prostitution is legal and regulated in such countries as Canada, Australia,
India, Burma, Finland, Sweden, Norway, Germany, Austria, Hungary, Greece, 
and Mexico, to name a few.  You can charter a 'Sex Tour' from the U.S.A.,
Japan, or the Netherlands.  These tours go to all the famous brothels in 
Thailand, Manila, and South Korea.  Before you go booking a trip on one of 
these excursions, remember that no government regulations can guarantee
you will be safe from AIDS.  These prostitutes have sex with literally 
hundreds of men and women each year.  This is potentially deadly activity.


    It only takes one indiscretion to ruin your entire life.  All of your goals
could be shattered in an instant for the benefit of an orgasm.  Young educated
people ignore these facts daily.  Entire nations condone activities that have
proven fatally harmful time and time again.  Someone dies from AIDS or AIDS 
Related Complex every twenty three minutes in this country.  Don't allow
yourself to be its next victim.  Listen to what you are hearing.  It may save
your life, or the life of someone you love.


    (You guessed it....this was my last essay assignment for school.)
    
323.393GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA memberTue Jun 20 1995 13:036
    
    
    Good note, Terrie, thanks.
    
    
    Mike
323.394ROWLET::AINSLEYLess than 150kts is TOO slow!Tue Jun 20 1995 13:153
Uh Terri, you left out one country...the U.S.

Bob
323.395MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Jun 20 1995 13:297
    If anybody has this, I would be interested in some sort of chart
    stating the current known numbers of HIV infected individuals
    throughout the country.  Anybody have this?
    
    Thanks.
    
    -Jack
323.396And people vote for him!TLE::PERAROThu Jul 06 1995 16:3614
    
    Senator Helms wants to cut federal funding for AIDS research
    and treatment because he says... 
    
    "AIDS patients engage in deliberate, disgusting, revolting conduct"
    
    (Helms is really out of touch)
    
    Newt was asked about Helms comments and Newt suggested AIDS funding was too
    high.  He says "The amount we spend on AIDS compared to Alzheimer's is
    grotesquely out of proportion to the number of people affected by the
    research".  
    
    Newt feels the matter should be looked into by a scientific panel.
323.397Newt is right, Helms isn't.GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Jul 06 1995 16:4918
    
    The last time I looked, the two leading medical research areas were
    still heart disease and cancer (between 15-20 billion), just like
    they should be.  AIDS was third, like 8-9 billion, which is mildly
    overfunded compared to other second-tier diseases.  But is this
    really a good test - how many sufferers/deaths ?  I don't think so.
    I think that to do a real cost/benefit, you have to estimate the
    likelihood of success - which once again leads to cancer, the Big C,
    as number one priority.  So Newt is correct if you want the rational
    answer, scientists ought to be in on the decision, as at NASA.  But
    politically, of course, this is hopeless.
    
     As to Helms' remark - well, it's irrelevant.  We're not about to
    apportion medical care by some sort of moral calculus.  Of course,
    coming from a tobacco state, you can see where Helms might be coming
    from politically.  He's not as dumb as he tries to sound.
    
     bb
323.398GAVEL::JANDROWGreen-Eyed LadyThu Jul 06 1995 16:544
    
    
    is helms the person i heard quoted as saying something along the lines
    of "...people with aids only have themselves to blame..."???
323.399Probably himTLE::PERAROThu Jul 06 1995 17:205
    
    Probably.  He is known for saying such things.
    
    Mary
    
323.400snarfCBHVAX::CBHLager LoutThu Jul 06 1995 17:210
323.401MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 17:2518
    Raq:
    
    AIDS propogated itself through illicit behavior.  Now I have no use for
    Mr. Helms methods and his way of communicating...but let's stop kidding
    ourselves.  Let's remove the PC hats we tend to put on from time to
    time.
    
    AIDS is mainly spread through activities that the right considers
    immoral.  One need not be a rocket scientist to avoid AIDS...it is
    quite easy to do.  You don't sleep around, and you don't do drugs.
    Heck, even the AIDS activists recognize this by promoting the myth 
    of Safe Sex.  Now I agree that there are many victims of AIDS who 
    contracted it through no fault of their own.  Babies born with it,
    blood transfusions, etc.  But let's focus on the majority...the ones
    who contracted it through their behavior.  Now I ask you, if they don't
    have themselves to blame, then whose fault is it?!
    
    -Jack
323.403POLAR::RICHARDSONWhirly Twirly NapsThu Jul 06 1995 17:301
    <--- Good point. Very good.
323.404DEVLPR::DKILLORANM1A - The choice of champions !Thu Jul 06 1995 17:3611
    
    > who contracted it through their behavior.  Now I ask you, if they don't
    > have themselves to blame, then whose fault is it?!

    The Republicans ?

    But seriously, very few people will EVER admit that they are wrong.  I
    believe Al Capone referred to himself as "misunderstood."  He believed
    that he was a philanthropist.
    
    Dan
323.405MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 17:4017
    ZZ      By Jack Martin's logic, we should also cut spending for lung
    ZZ       cancer and heart disease -- those smokers and overweight people
    ZZ       have only their behavior to blame.
    
    Topes...my old friend!!!  How was your weekend??  How are your
    hemmerhoids doing these days??
    
    No, actually I didn't say whether or not we should cut spending.  I was
    simply addressing the issue of personal responsibility and that nobody
    wants to take ownership for their own mistakes these days!  Incidently,
    sure...why not???!  Smokers and people who don't take care of
    themselves have nobody else to blame!  My dad had two massive heart
    attacks in the early 80's.  Now I love my father and always looked up
    to him...but the man was 70 lbs overweight and he liked his beer when
    the Bruins were on.  It was HIS fault kimosabe!
    
    -Jack
323.406SMURF::BINDERFather, Son, and Holy SpigotThu Jul 06 1995 17:491
    hemorrhoids.
323.407TROOA::COLLINSGone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes.Thu Jul 06 1995 17:493
    
    WHERE?!?!
    
323.408CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenThu Jul 06 1995 17:509
    Helms is, was, and will continue to be a narrow minded, spiteful
    buffoon.  Along with suing tobacco companies, folks should sue him as
    well for lobbying in their favor.  After all, he is promoting
    irresponsible behavior.  IMO etc.  
    
    Jack, please readdress your statement that AIDS victims are such because
    of their irresponsibility.  I'm sure you meant some victims now didn't
    you.  You are also aware that some drug use exposes one to the
    possibility of contracting AIDS aren't you?  
323.409NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jul 06 1995 17:534
>          You are also aware that some drug use exposes one to the
>    possibility of contracting AIDS aren't you?  

Are you talking about hemophiliacs or junkies?
323.410MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 18:1234
    Brian:
    
    I can walk along the side of Rt. 128 and there is the possibility that
    while attempting to hitchhike, I will be struck by a car and die.  If I
    get drunk and walk along Rt. 128 in a stupor...wallowing in the
    pleasure of being drunk...and I stagger over the white line, then the
    chances of getting killed have risen exponentially higher...and I will
    most likely die.
    
    I wanted to address the MAJORITY of people dying from AIDS...because
    the MAJORITY are appropo to my second example.  People don't think,
    they succumb to their instinct, dark side, whatever you want to call
    it.  They screw around or they shoot up...then they get AIDS and wonder
    why.  Those are the ones I am addressing here, not the incidental
    victims of the disease who acted with a sense of propriety.  
    
    I find Helms generalizations equally repugnant but what I find to be
    worse is societies hell bent on having a good opinion of
    themselves...and will lie through their teeth to keep feeling good
    about themselves.  So let's spell it out.
    
    - AIDS is propogated through illicit behaivior.
    - Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.
    - Most people can live a long life in general if they try.
    - Most HIV infected individuals throughout the world contracted AIDS
      by sleeping around and doing drugs.
    - Chastity and monogamy are the best ways to avoid the disease.
    - Human beings don't have to succumb to peer pressure and current
      social trends.
    
    Conclusion:  Don't screw around and keep away from drugs and you won't 
    have to blame yourself for anything.
    
    -Jack
323.411DEVLPR::DKILLORANM1A - The choice of champions !Thu Jul 06 1995 18:195
    Minor nit.

    >     - Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.

    Almost anybody, remember hemophiliacs
323.412POLAR::RICHARDSONWhirly Twirly NapsThu Jul 06 1995 18:261
    hemophiliacs can avoid AIDS if they die.
323.413MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 18:344
    Correct.  I am speaking of people who are at risk because they choose
    to be!
    
    -Jack
323.414TROOA::COLLINSGone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes.Thu Jul 06 1995 18:363
    
    Driving is risky.  I just say no.
    
323.415NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jul 06 1995 18:405
>    I am speaking of people who are at risk because they choose to be!

"Hey man, let's exchange bodily fluids with potentially HIV+ strangers."
"But we could get AIDS!"
"Whatsa madda, wimp?  Afraid of AIDS?  I _choose_ to take the risk."
323.416CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Thu Jul 06 1995 18:4816
    	Hemophiliacs are less likely to get AIDS than ever before.  Most
    	of the cases among hemophiliacs were contracted before there was
    	decent blood supply testing.
    
    --------
    
    	Recently it was reported that junior high students are most
    	concerned about getting AIDS from unsterile medical practices
    	(such as the 6 cases contracted from a dentist.)  They estimate
    	that upwards of 10% of all AIDS cases are contracted this way,
    	and this vector is the one over which they have the least 
    	control.  In reality only a miniscule proportion of AIDS
    	cases are contracted this way.
    
    	I contend that this misconception is propogated by the politically
    	correct and virtueless way that AIDS education is handled.
323.417MPGS::MARKEYThe bottom end of Liquid SanctuaryThu Jul 06 1995 18:4926
    The truth is, there are _thousands_ of sexually transmitted
    viruses, most of which have only _suspected_ links to other
    health problems, and most of which are undetectable given
    present technology. Among the viruses in this class are one
    or more which are suspected of causing cervical cancer.
    Some of these viruses are believed to cause genetic damage
    which may take generations to actually manifest.

    Thus, the idea of "safe sex" is of equal mythology when
    applied to AIDS _and_ marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble
    binky, but there's no such thing as "safe sex" under any
    conditions.

    On the other hand, AIDS is now identifiable, has a fairly
    well-understood (and detectable) genetic mutation process,
    and a significant enough population upon which to experiment.
    The understanding that scientists are gaining relative to
    HIV will have profound effect on cancer and other disease
    research. HIV is the perfect "laboratory" for really getting
    down to the nitty gritty of virology, and every penny we
    put into it as _science_ will benefit us immeasurably.
    On the other hand, money spent on rubbers for school kids
    is wasted...

    -b
323.418NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jul 06 1995 18:515
>    	Hemophiliacs are less likely to get AIDS than ever before.  Most
>    	of the cases among hemophiliacs were contracted before there was
>    	decent blood supply testing.

Of course, there aren't all that many uninfected hemophiliacs out there.
323.419NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jul 06 1995 18:549
>    Thus, the idea of "safe sex" is of equal mythology when
>    applied to AIDS _and_ marriage. Sorry to burst your bubble
>    binky, but there's no such thing as "safe sex" under any
>    conditions.

Since you have to have sex with an infected partner to get an STD, the more
partners the greater your chances of getting infected.  Do you agree that
married people tend to have fewer sexual partners that unmarried sexually
active people?
323.420Error ?GAAS::BRAUCHERThu Jul 06 1995 18:585
    
      "Than ever before" ?  Um, wasn't there a time when the chance
     was zero ?  AIDS wasn't reported in humans till the seventies.
    
      bb
323.421MPGS::MARKEYThe bottom end of Liquid SanctuaryThu Jul 06 1995 18:5810
 >Since you have to have sex with an infected partner to get an STD, the more
 >partners the greater your chances of getting infected.  Do you agree that
 >married people tend to have fewer sexual partners that unmarried sexually
 >active people?

    I agree that there is "safer" sex... but there is no such thing
    as a risk-free roll in the hay. On the other hand (pun intended)
    the risks of a good wank are greatly exaggerated! :-)

    -b
323.422CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Thu Jul 06 1995 18:592
    	Lifelong-monogamous women even get fewer yeast infections
    	than multiple-partnered women.
323.423MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 19:148
Z    "Hey man, let's exchange bodily fluids with potentially HIV+
Z    strangers."
Z    "But we could get AIDS!"
Z    "Whatsa madda, wimp?  Afraid of AIDS?  I _choose_ to take the risk."
    
    That's it in a nutshell.  Alot of teenagers anyway!
    
    -Jack
323.424MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Jul 06 1995 19:2216
re:      <<< Note 323.410 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

Ok, Jack, so let's assume for a moment that we're willing to buy into
your summary on the MAJORITY of AIDS victims. The issue at hand is
Helm's claim that we should drastically cut AIDS research funding
because MOST of the AIDS sufferers are lowlife scum. Do you feel that
that approach is appropriate? If we drastically cut the funding - say
by 90% - leaving enough with which to do virtually nothing of any import,
what do you expect is to be gained for the MINORITY of AIDS sufferers who
contracted it through no fault of their own? Do we just sit back  and tell
these people "Tough noogies - eat feces and die" and then go spend the remaining
10% on National AIDS Research Foundation office parties? You don't somehow
feel that we'll still have enough left to save "just the good folks" do you?
(I ask the last only because I believe Helms to be braindead enough to
 have reached that conclusion.)

323.425No room for anyoneTLE::PERAROThu Jul 06 1995 19:278
    
    Helms statement doesn't seem to leave any thought for those who
    contracted AIDS under different circumstances.  He just throws everyone 
    with AIDS into his narrow minded opinion of how it is their fault, so 
    tough on them.
    
    Mary
    
323.426CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenThu Jul 06 1995 19:365
    Yes, exactly.  Some AIDS victims have only their own actions to blame,
    others do not.  Not all AIDS sufferers are guilty of irresponsible
    behavior.  To broad brush them in that fashion is ignorant at best.  
    
    Brian
323.427GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA memberThu Jul 06 1995 19:446
    
    
    Funny how slick scumbag felt he had to respond to Helms assinine
    comment.
    
    
323.429CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikThu Jul 06 1995 20:1314
    Joe,
    
    Hospice, etc care is covered by medicare/medicaid when the person is
    too disabled to manage to work and/or their insurance company, (if they
    were insured) drops the person.
    
    The money being spent that Helms is up in arms about is for research
    and prevention efforts.  Obviously from the sounds of the survey you
    cited, we need to work harder on getting the message of how AIDS is
    spread out to kids.  Considering that there are rarer viruses that also
    kill people after years of quiet growth, the research could save
    others' lives as well as those "undeserving" HIV + people.
    
    meg
323.430MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 06 1995 20:2116
    Jack:
    
    I think Helms made a generalization and I don't think his communication
    was well thought out at all.  
    
    I believe that AIDS in todays society is mainly propogated through acts
    of free choice.  I find the political correctness surrounding the
    disease as deplorable as any put foot in mouth politician...EQUALLY
    Deplorable.  Putting our heads in the sand is criminal in my book.  
    
    I would be interested in knowing the exact figures amongst AIDS victims
    as to who contracted the disease through drugs or promiscuous sex...and
    who got it through no act of their own free volition.  Anybody have
    this?
    
    -Jack
323.431CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Thu Jul 06 1995 21:193
    	Jack --
    
    	That is a politically impolite question to ask.
323.432DEVLPR::DKILLORANJack Martin - Wanted Dead or AliveThu Jul 06 1995 21:225
    Duuuhhhhhhhhh, I tink he ment does amybuddy got da numbaas, of who
    gots da sickness, an' hows dey got its......
    
    8_)
    
323.433Food for thoughtMOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Jul 06 1995 22:3816
Interesting commentary (partially) heard on Howie Carr this evening.
The caller was an MD involved in research (though not on AIDS). He
pointed out that medical research for viral diseases have three main
areas of concentration -
	Epidemiology - the ecology of the disease, how it's transmitted,
			how it functions, etc.
	Cure - Very rarely found for most viral infections
	Prevention - vaccine development

He then went on to point out that since AIDS is known to be a disease
with practically 100% mortality (unlike polio, measles, influenza, etc.)
and since a typical characteristic of vaccines is that they present a risk
of actually inducing the disease in some small percentage of treated
cases, how many people who are HIV negative do you think would be willing
to roll up their sleeve for the vaccine if it were discovered tomorrow?

323.434SUBPAC::SADINWe the people?Thu Jul 06 1995 23:1970
Gingrich says scientific panel should decide AIDS funding


(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.

(c) 1995 Associated Press

WASHINGTON (Jul 6, 1995 - 12:12 EDT) -- House Speaker Newt
Gingrich says scientists, not politicians, should decide how much money
the government spends fighting AIDS and other diseases.

Responding to a suggestion by Sen. Jesse Helms that the government
should spend less on AIDS, the speaker said Wednesday in an interview
with The Associated Press that a scientific panel should make that
decision based on where medical advances are most likely to be made.

"It's got to be done by scientists," Gingrich said.

Gingrich said such a panel might say: "Here are the next seven major
breakthroughs -- we ought to make sure we have the money going into
these places. If AIDS is one of the seven, then it ought to go into AIDS.
But I think I'd like to de-politicize research decisions about biology as
much as we can."

Helms' comments in an interview with The New York Times prompted
outrage from AIDS activists.

"I think the majority of the American people want to help people who are
sick -- whether they're sick with cancer or with AIDS, said Mark Barnes,
executive director of the AIDS Action Council. "What he said was
un-American."

Helms suggested the government should think about spending so much
money fighting a disease brought on by "deliberate, disgusting, revolting
conduct," the Times reported.

"We've got to have some common sense about a disease transmitted by
people deliberately engaging in unnatural acts," Helms said.

Gingrich, asked whether he agreed with Helms, said: "In the first place
it's clear that there's a lot of people with AIDS for whom that's not true,
and secondly, I'm not going to get involved in an argument with Jesse
Helms."

In a broadcast interview Wednesday night, Gingrich described himself as
"a strong supporter of the Ryan White Act."

"I think that the example of Ryan is one we can all identify with," Gingrich
said on Mutual Radio's "Jim Bohannon Show," simulcast on the C-SPAN
cable TV network. "He was a young person who through no fault of his
own ended up contracting AIDS. And many hemophiliacs have AIDS."

The Senate soon will consider reauthorization of the Ryan White CARE
Act, named after an Indiana teen-ager who died after contracting AIDS in
a blood transfusion.

The act, for which Congress authorized $633 million this year, provides
grants to communities to help people with AIDS. It expires in September.

Reauthorizing legislation was approved unanimously by the Senate Labor
and Human Resources Committee in March, and has 61 Senate sponsors,
including Majority Leader Bob Dole. The House Commerce Committee
plans to take up similar legislation soon.

Since 1993, AIDS has been the leading cause of death among both men
and women age 24 to 44, according to the Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention.



323.435re .433CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Thu Jul 06 1995 23:213
    	I wouldn't personally.  However if I lived a lifestyle that
    	is apt to expose me to the disease, I probably would consider 
    	it.
323.436DECLNE::SHEPARDIt's the Republicans' faultThu Jul 06 1995 23:246
Joe Oppelt:

	Curiosity is driving me nuts.  I must know what is "to blave".

Tanx
Mikey
323.437MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jul 07 1995 00:1430
re: .435, Joe

I tend to agree with you, Joe. (Again???? :^)

The interesting aspect is with regard to society in general, and kids in
particular. I suspect that there's a whole lot more known about the
epidemiology of AIDS in 1995 than was known about the epidemiology of
polio in the '50s. While I think it's relatively well known that there
weren't necessarily suspect vectors of Poliomyelitis/infantile paralysis
which centered on the transmission of bodily fluids, and that certainly
does appear to be the characteristic with AIDS, I wonder if that was the
possible difference in impetus for parents of the '50s and '60s (and since)
to ensure that they adhered to vaccination guidelines for their kids?
(Ditto smallpox, etc.)

And, perhaps more interestingly, since polio has virtually been eradicated,
would we be willing to bite the bullet and take the risk if an AIDS vaccine
were available?

The hypothesis is, if you get the innoculation while HIV negative, there's
a 99.999% probability that you can never be affected by the virus. This leaves
a .001% chance that you will get it from the innoculation itself, be capable
of transmitting it to others susceptible to it (presuming you don't die before
having said opportunity), and that you will eventually succomb to it.

What's the best solution for society if that happens to be among the options?

I believe there are currently laws regarding what vaccinations children in
'Murrica and other countries must receive. If there were an AIDS vaccine,
with the associated risk, should there be such laws regarding same?
323.438BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 07 1995 02:0137
| <<< Note 323.410 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>



| - AIDS is propogated through illicit behaivior.

	It can be if one does not be careful. And I mean more than safe sex.
Not sharing needles, KNOWING your partners status. 

| - Anybody can avoid AIDS if they try.

	That applies to the above.

| - Most HIV infected individuals throughout the world contracted AIDS
| by sleeping around and doing drugs.

	True.

| - Chastity and monogamy are the best ways to avoid the disease.

	True.

| - Human beings don't have to succumb to peer pressure and current
| social trends.

	True

| Conclusion:  Don't screw around and keep away from drugs and you won't
| have to blame yourself for anything.

	If by don't screw around means having one night stands with one you
don't know, I agree. If you include pre-marital sex, I disagree. See my reply
to your 1st statement.



Glen
323.439BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 07 1995 02:0715
| <<< Note 323.430 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I would be interested in knowing the exact figures amongst AIDS victims as to 
| who contracted the disease through drugs or promiscuous sex...and who got it 
| through no act of their own free volition.  Anybody have this?

	Jack, I could give this to you, but I won't. What I will do is tell you
where you can find it. The CDC has this information. You can get it from them.
The reason why I asked you to find out the information is because I'd like to
see you personally get involved in this, and not just look at a bunch of
numbers. 


Glen
323.440BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 07 1995 02:0810
| <<< Note 323.431 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>


| That is a politically impolite question to ask.

	Actually, it is not. A little less of the stuff above, and a little
more fact, and we might be able to do away with people who think like Helms.


Glen
323.441BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 07 1995 02:1210
| <<< Note 323.435 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>

| I wouldn't personally. However if I lived a lifestyle that is apt to expose me
| to the disease, I probably would consider it.

	Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
Helms seem to be forgetting about.


Glen
323.442GIDDAY::BURTDPD (tm)Fri Jul 07 1995 02:2511
Haemophiliacs have a somewhat more difficult time - they can't really ASK who 
the donors are, and theirs is NOT a lifestyle choice (apart from choosing to 
live). There has been a case reported in Australia whereby a number of 
patients attending the same doctors' surgery were infected with HIV. Theirs 
was not a lifestyle choice either.

Finger pointing doesn't help - education of those who _do_ have choices, 
patience, tolerance, research and $$$$ WILL help.

Chele

323.443WECARE::GRIFFINJohn Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159Fri Jul 07 1995 02:438
    
    I think we're probably overspending on AIDS research too, given the
    actual numbers of people infected/dying, and the costs of all that
    treatment and care.
    
    But it's not an issue I'd take with me into the ballet box; maybe there
    are social benefits from the expenditure that provide sufficient
    payback.
323.444CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Fri Jul 07 1995 02:5845
                  <<< Note 323.440 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| That is a politically impolite question to ask.
>
>	Actually, it is not. A little less of the stuff above, and a little
> more fact, and we might be able to do away with people who think like Helms.

    	Actually, Helms was pretty close in his statement.  He just said
    	it in a politically impolite way.
    
    	Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the
    	disease -- and not just for a simple majority of cases.  Those
    	who want to continue to encourage, support and participate in
    	those behavior choices need the exception cases to legitimize
    	their behavior choices.  Nobody -- even Helms I'd wager -- 
    	believes the exception cases don't exist.  Not paying homage to 
    	them is the political impoliteness, and the speaker is then
    	demonized as not having "all the facts."  
    
    	I believe that emphasizing the extreme cases is what leads
    	junior high students to believe things like 10% of all AIDS
    	cases are a result of unsterile medical practices, and fearing
    	such things more than the real primary vectors.  But at least
    	they have "all the facts"!
    
Note 323.441                     

>| I wouldn't personally. However if I lived a lifestyle that is apt to expose me
>| to the disease, I probably would consider it.
>
>	Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
> Helms seem to be forgetting about.
    
    	Any of the other ways are statistically insignificant when compared
    	to the lifestyle choices that ARE the primary vectors.  Any of the
    	other ways are not **APT** (that means likely) to expose me to
    	AIDS.  Yet.
    
    	Let's hope that NOBODY gets AIDS.  Through any vector.  How do
    	we achieve that dream?  Many people will say "education", but I
    	suspect that the only education that will work for most people
    	is seeing a loved one die of it.  By then it is often too late.
    	I say abstinence and morality (if perfectly adhered to I know 
    	that the disease will be wiped out within a generation) but
    	the modern world will not allow that solution to take hold.
323.445CSC32::J_OPPELTHe said, 'To blave...'Fri Jul 07 1995 03:0214
                 <<< Note 323.442 by GIDDAY::BURT "DPD (tm)" >>>

>Finger pointing doesn't help - education of those who _do_ have choices, 
>patience, tolerance, research and $$$$ WILL help.

	Recognizing that the fault for the spread lies squarely on the
    	shoulders of those who do have choices is an important step.
    	Being able to say it without being villified would be good.
    	(Being able to articulate it without putting one's foot in
    	one's mouth as Helms did would help one not be so readily
    	villified...)
    
    	Let me ask you.  What should we be patient and tolerant of to
    	help eliminate AIDS?
323.446re .443 ... BTW, can one mail billets-doux in a "ballet box?":)LJSRV2::KALIKOWBuddy, can youse paradigm?Fri Jul 07 1995 03:065
    Considering that left unchecked, HIV *ultimately* might well produce a
    "Masque of the Red Death" scenario for Homo Sapiens in its entirety, 
    I don't begrudge a penny of the R&D $$s being spent on it.  Not to
    mention the CURRENT humanitarian tragedy that AIDS represents.  Imho.
    
323.447WECARE::GRIFFINJohn Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159Fri Jul 07 1995 03:213
    
    Billets-doux and Masque of the Red Death -- The Jane Asher fan club
    speaks.
323.448Just a gift :^)GIDDAY::BURTDPD (tm)Fri Jul 07 1995 03:5018
re <<< Note 323.445 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>

>    	Let me ask you.  What should we be patient and tolerant of to
>    	help eliminate AIDS?

OK, let me modify and expand:
 love
 joy
 peace
 patience
 kindness
 goodness
 gentleness
 faithfulness
 self-control


Chele
323.449CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenFri Jul 07 1995 12:3413
    For once I am semi-impressed by Newt's apparent level headedness
    regarding funding levels.  I also do not believe Helms' statement to be
    a mere lapse of political courtesy.  It would not surprise me to hear
    him expound upon his ignorance by proclaiming it to be God's will that
    low lifes should die a horrible death because they sinned.  The fact of
    the matter is that the disease is here, among us, right now, maybe in
    the next cube.  We either deal with it and all the attendant
    unpleasantries or risk as Dr. Dan suggests a far more serious threat to
    humanity.  Education and prevention go hand in hand with searching for
    a cure or preventative vaccine.  Pontificating about the immorality of
    the majority of the current victims is a waste of time, at best.  
    
    Brian
323.450PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Jul 07 1995 13:053
  .446  ah, the level-headed Dan'l comes through again.  i am wichoo,
	o sagacious one.
323.451Never say it can't strike close to your homeDECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundFri Jul 07 1995 13:423
    .449  Well said!!
    
    
323.452Shock valueTLE::PERAROSell My Soul for Rock n' RollFri Jul 07 1995 14:019
    
    All the guys complain about "shock jocks".  Someone should start
    watching out for these "shock senators".  Sometimes I would if Helms
    just says these idiotic things for shock value.
    
    Keeps him in the press now doesn't it??
    
    Mary
    
323.453WAHOO::LEVESQUEthe countdown is onFri Jul 07 1995 14:072
    I think Helms says things like that because he believes them. The media
    enjoy the shock value, so they love to publicize such gems.
323.454MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Jul 07 1995 14:3559
 ZZ   >       Let me ask you.  What should we be patient and tolerant of to
 ZZ   >       help eliminate AIDS?
    
    Followed by the Fruit of the Spirit.
    
    Chele, I'm sorry but I also believe there is a place in the Christian
    community for righteous indignation...and Jesus was a user of this.  I
    believe that the AIDS community would be an excellent outreach for
    ministering to people with AIDS...and I also believe it is being sorely
    neglected.
    
    However, I find compassion with the political process to be abhorrant.  
    I see alot of irresponsibility and promoting the wrong message. 
    Planned Parenthoods pamphlets with diagrams attached are a very good
    example .
    
    "Intercourse isn't the only way.  Kissing, hugging, touching,
    masturbating, oral sex, are often very exciting and stimulating."
    
    SEX, THE FIRST TIME OR ANY TIME.  Pamphlet distributed by Planned
    Parenthood.
    
    "Safer sex for lesbians includes: Use of a dental dam for oral-vaginal
    and oral-anal stimulation...use of surgical gloves when sticking your
    fingers into your partners vagina or ass...and all other wonderful
    things that lesbians do together."
    
    From Planned Parenthoods Brochure, "I THINK I MIGHT BE A LESBIAN...
    NOW WHAT DO I DO?"
    
    As Planned Parenthood's so called "Safety Dance" program designed to
    raise the awareness of AIDS among 13-18 year olds, the teacher
    instructs the kids to tape signs on the wall listing various possible
    sexual activities.  The kids are asked to rank these activities from
    least risky to most risky for contracting HIV infection.  Activities
    on the list include massage, french kissing, phone sex, sex toys,
    erotic films and magazines, showering together, masturbation, mutual
    masturbation, oral sex, intercourse with a condom, oral/anal contact,
    and anal intercourse without a condom.
    
    Finally, there is a booklet called "The Problem with Puberty",
    distributed by Planned Parenthood to teenage boys.  A picture appears 
    with a man in a bathtub with two women, a man and woman putting in a
    dental dam, and for some reason there is a dog in the picture and I
    don't even want to know what the dog is doing there.
    ---------------------------------------
    
    Okay Chele, you still think we should exercise the Fruit of the Spirit
    with these people?  Let me tell you something sobering, YOUR TAX
    DOLLARS are paying for this Chele, and what's more, our teenage
    children are the target audience.  I find posting this sort of stuff
    distasteful at best and disgusting at worst...and yet I keep hearing
    societies still somber voice in the wind saying..."Be tolerant, display
    love and random acts of kindness, don't be a bigot"  
    
    Well, that's fine and good Chele but the sobering reality, your
    children and mine are being propogandized.  
    
    -Jack
323.455LJSRV2::KALIKOWBuddy, can youse paradigm?Sun Jul 09 1995 12:252
    Whatsis "Fruit of the Spirit" then?
    
323.456WAHOO::LEVESQUEthe countdown is onMon Jul 10 1995 11:361
    a close relative of Fruit of the Loom
323.457What prize for winning answer ?GAAS::BRAUCHERMon Jul 10 1995 14:144
    
    The grape ?
    
      bb
323.458BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Jul 10 1995 15:1366
| <<< Note 323.444 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "He said, 'To blave...'" >>>

| Actually, Helms was pretty close in his statement. He just said it in a 
| politically impolite way.

	If you believe that Joe, then you must believe the man is a hypocrite
as well. How can he say what he did, when he has been lobbying for the tabbacco
industry all these years? Do you think he is a hypocrite Joe?

| Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease 

	Agreed.

| and not just for a simple majority of cases. Those who want to continue to 
| encourage, support and participate in those behavior choices need the 
| exception cases to legitimize their behavior choices.  

	I actually agree with the above. Anybody who wants to continue and or
support unsafe sex without knowing (as in test) their partner's status should
be included in the behavior group. They may not have it yet, but they are
risking theirs, and others lives. Two people who are hiv- can have sex with
each other without spreading the disease, and would not fit into your grouping.
That is regardless of the genders.

| Nobody -- even Helms I'd wager -- believes the exception cases don't exist.  

	It's just easier for him to push his hate onto homosexuals, who he
despises.

| >	Well lets hope that you never get it any of the other ways that you and
| > Helms seem to be forgetting about.

| Any of the other ways are statistically insignificant when compared to the 
| lifestyle choices that ARE the primary vectors.  

	Yeah, Ryan White was just an insignifigant statistic. Anyone who
contracts the disease is not an insignifigant statistic. Regardless of how they
get it.

| Let's hope that NOBODY gets AIDS. Through any vector. How do we achieve that 
| dream? Many people will say "education", but I suspect that the only education
| that will work for most people is seeing a loved one die of it.  

	I agree and disagree. I agree there will be people that will have to go
to that length before they get the message. I also think that won't stop all
people. I disagree with that because it did not take a loved one dieing to make
me change. Throughout the gay community the change has been made. Some due to
deaths, and some through the education. I think the education works because
with the education, you have involvement. From making a poster, to addressing
an audience, to getting out into the streets. Involvement is was makes
education work. 

| I say abstinence and morality (if perfectly adhered to I know that the 
| disease will be wiped out within a generation) but the modern world will 
| not allow that solution to take hold.

	Joe, if person A & person B want to have sex, they will have it. If
they do not do anything dangerous (vaginal/anal sex), they will be fine. If
they get to that point, they had better be prepared. Getting tested together is
the best way to go, as you find out right then and there, together, what the
status of each person is. If each person is HIV-, then there is no problem. The
key word here is monogomy. One night stands should be a thing of the past.



Glen
323.459BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Jul 10 1995 15:165
| <<< Note 323.455 by LJSRV2::KALIKOW "Buddy, can youse paradigm?" >>>

| Whatsis "Fruit of the Spirit" then?

	It might be me cuz I believe in the Holy Spirit..... :-)
323.460MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 10 1995 15:4323
    I was listening to Peter Meade the other night on the Brudnoy show.  As
    a guest, he had the AIDS Action Committee Chairman on who was taking
    calls.  He frequently mentioned that Helms message was a message of
    hate.
    
    One of the callers was up in Provincetown last week.  There was a sign
    being held up by a gay individual which said, "Oral Sex is Safer". 
    This caller thought this message was wonderful.  That the AIDS message
    of days past was one of total abstinence, i.e. if you have HIV, then
    you can do nothing.  This sign was a beacon of hope that HIV infected
    individuals can now indulge in something...
    
    Well here's my message.  Society speaks of hatemongers and the
    like...particularly Jesse Helms.  If you partake in sexual intercourse
    and in any way open up the possibility of infecting your partner...even
    if you are both informed of the situation, then I submit to you that
    this is one of the most debased forms of hate.  It is an act of
    selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the picture.  The
    word "Safer" to me means that it is still unsafe so if you really want
    to show love to your fellow man, abstain and don't share your "love
    with anybody who isn't infected.  
    
    -Jack
323.461BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Jul 10 1995 17:3336
| <<< Note 323.460 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| I was listening to Peter Meade the other night on the Brudnoy show. As a 
| guest, he had the AIDS Action Committee Chairman on who was taking calls. He 
| frequently mentioned that Helms message was a message of hate.

	He was correct.

| Well here's my message. Society speaks of hatemongers and the like...
| particularly Jesse Helms.  

	Well, he IS one of the more vocal ones. :-)

| If you partake in sexual intercourse and in any way open up the possibility of
| infecting your partner...even if you are both informed of the situation, then 
| I submit to you that this is one of the most debased forms of hate.  

	Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate. 

| It is an act of selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the 
| picture.  

	Now you have it right with the selfishness part. If the other person is
willing to partake, that is her/his decision. If the infected partner told them
up front, I'm sorry, it can not be warped into hate. I think you need to look
up what the word means.

| The word "Safer" to me means that it is still unsafe so if you really want
| to show love to your fellow man, abstain and don't share your "love with 
| anybody who isn't infected.

	I would agree with the above if they do not tell the partner. I would
not agree with the above if they did tell the partner. 


Glen
323.462MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 10 1995 18:116
    ZZ        Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate. 
    
    Then Jesse Helms is not showing hate.  He's just showing his
    stupidity...stemming from his homophobia which is born of fear.
    
    -Jack
323.463BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Jul 10 1995 19:0924
| <<< Note 323.462 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ        Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate.

| Then Jesse Helms is not showing hate.  

	He is allowing his hate for homosexuals to cloud the issue of AIDS. It
is hate based.

| He's just showing his stupidity...

	That too.

| stemming from his homophobia which is born of fear.

	One can be a homophobe AND hate gays. Homophobia can be the reason for
the hate to develop. 

	I asked Joe this Jack, but I guess he isn't noting yet. So I will ask
you. Do you feel Jessie Helms is ALSO being a hypocrite with this?



Glen
323.464MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 10 1995 19:5923
Z    I asked Joe this Jack, but I guess he isn't noting yet. So I
Z    will ask you. Do you feel Jessie Helms is ALSO being a hypocrite with this?
    
    To a point, yes...I do. 
    
    The bottom line here is the almighty dollar Glen.  Cigarette sales may
    go down and the Clinton Administration et al may seem to really care
    for the health and welfare of Americans and particularly teenagers by
    taking a stance on cigarette smoking.  However, nations in Asia are
    importing American cigarettes in droves and Corporate America is
    profiting from them.  I find this hypocritical for government to do
    this...both democrats and republicans.
    
    Now the almighty buck part.  Our government propogates the sale of
    cigarettes and people contract lung cancer.  However, irresponsible sex
    brings NO money into the economy and hence AIDS is the great evil
    because it offers no return for it's ravage over society.  Hence, the
    irresponsible members of society are adding no value by their actions. 
    At least people who smoke themselves to the grave buy cigarettes.
    
    So yes, I do think it's hypocritcal!
    
    -Jack
323.465TROOA::COLLINSGone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes.Mon Jul 10 1995 20:013
    
    <-----  I'm speechless.
    
323.466NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Jul 10 1995 20:051
Jesse.  NNTTM.
323.467MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Jul 10 1995 20:241
    How's that for logic???
323.468CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Jul 10 1995 20:4254
                  <<< Note 323.458 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	If you believe that Joe, then you must believe the man is a hypocrite
>as well. How can he say what he did, when he has been lobbying for the tabbacco
>industry all these years? Do you think he is a hypocrite Joe?
    
    	From his standpoint on his support of Tobacco, absolutely.
    
    	Personally I'd prefer to see tobacco subsidies cut before
    	anything else in the federal budget.  And yes, I believe
    	that cancers and other diseases brought on by tobacco use
    	are equally at-fault as most AIDS cases.

> | Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease 
>
>	Agreed.
    
    	Then you also agree with Helms on that point too.

>	Yeah, Ryan White was just an insignifigant statistic. Anyone who
> contracts the disease is not an insignifigant statistic. Regardless of how they
> get it.
    
    	As an individual human being, and to his family and friends, he
    	was far from insignificant.  As a matter of statistics his case
    	and his vector are STATISTICALLY not significant when compared
    	to those of sex- and drug-behavior cases.  There is a diference
    	between "statistically insignificant" from an actuarial point
    	of view (from which I was speaking) and being "an insignificant
    	statistic" from a human point of view.  I find it somewhat
    	cruel for behavior-related cases to prey upon the statistically 
    	few cases like Ryan White's.
    
    	I wonder how much support the Ryan White Bill would have received
    	had it been called the Rock Hudson Bill....

> Throughout the gay community the change has been made. 
    
    	Perhaps throughout your limited circles of the gay community.
    
    	Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any
    	more than it is outside the gay community.
    
>	Joe, if person A & person B want to have sex, they will have it. 
    
    	I disagree.  Maybe you think we are unable to control ourselves,
    	but I still have hope for humankind.
    
> The key word here is monogomy. 
    
    	We've already discussed this before, Glen.  I do not agree with
    	your use of the term "monogamy".  What you have supported in the
    	past is nothing better than serial monogamy, and that will not
    	protect you from HIV as real monogamy will.
323.469You're both wrong!DECWET::MPETERSONMax OverheadMon Jul 10 1995 23:3817
| If you partake in sexual intercourse and in any way open up the possibility of
| infecting your partner...even if you are both informed of the situation, then 
| I submit to you that this is one of the most debased forms of hate.  

	Wrong. It's called stupidity, selfishness, not hate. 

| It is an act of selfishness and unconditional love is removed from the 
| picture.  

	Now you have it right with the selfishness part. If the other person is
willing to partake, that is her/his decision. If the infected partner told them
up front, I'm sorry, it can not be warped into hate. I think you need to look
up what the word means.

	Wrong, both of you.  It's called negligent homicide!

/mtp
323.470MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Jul 11 1995 14:314
    Well, I find lack of caring and indifference to the life and welfare of
    another a form of hate.  That's just me though!
    
    -Jack
323.471BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 17:3420
| <<< Note 323.464 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| The bottom line here is the almighty dollar Glen. Cigarette sales may go down 
| and the Clinton Administration et al may seem to really care for the health 
| and welfare of Americans and particularly teenagers by taking a stance on 
| cigarette smoking. However, nations in Asia are importing American cigarettes 
| in droves and Corporate America is profiting from them.  

	What the heck does this have to do with whether or not Helms is being
hypocritical or not? Helms was the one who stated because of their actions, the
nation should not fund their hospital bills. Yet he has been lobbying for
something that has a warning right on the side of the package. Now you said he
is a little bit hypocritical, and I would like you to explain how HE, not
anyone else now, JUST HELMS, is only a little hypocritical. Just stick with him
right now Jack, as we are discussing what he said. I asked the question about
him. Thanks you.



Glen
323.472BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 17:3926
| <<< Note 323.468 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| > | Behavior choice **IS** the primary reason for the spread of the disease
| >
| >	Agreed.

| Then you also agree with Helms on that point too.

	No, Helms tried to get away with saying all cases were that way. So I
do not agree with him.

| I wonder how much support the Ryan White Bill would have received had it been 
| called the Rock Hudson Bill....

	I read something today that was similar to what you wrote. The article
asked why do you think it was called the Ryan White Bill, and not the Robert
Maplethorpe? 

| Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any more than it is 
| outside the gay community.

	How can you make the above statement? You don't even know what is going
on throughout the gay community, do you? 

Glen
323.473BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 17:4111
| <<< Note 323.470 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Well, I find lack of caring and indifference to the life and welfare of
| another a form of hate.  That's just me though!

	Jack, if the person has said nothing, yes. If they have told the
partner, no.


Glen
323.474WMOIS::GIROUARD_CWed Jul 12 1995 17:4611
    .472 Glen, you would agree with that statement if a word like
         "generally" practiced (safe sex)?
    
         Statistically, the gay community numbers as the highest category.
    
         A recent program researched "the" community. There was an alarming
         fear that there was a digression toward more casual (unprotected)
         sex than there was just 5 years ago.
    
         You're right, I know I don't know exactly what goes on with the
         exception of the information I'm exposed to...
323.475NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jul 12 1995 17:508
>| Safe sex is NOT practiced "throughout the gay community" any more than it is 
>| outside the gay community.
>
>	How can you make the above statement? You don't even know what is going
>on throughout the gay community, do you? 

According to the organization Gay Men's Health Crisis, 50% of homosexual men
who are 20 years old today will contract HIV.
323.476BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 18:0726
| <<< Note 323.474 by WMOIS::GIROUARD_C >>>


| .472 Glen, you would agree with that statement if a word like "generally" 
| practiced (safe sex)?

	Yes. 

| Statistically, the gay community numbers as the highest category.

	Of total numbers, yes. Of new comers, no. 

| A recent program researched "the" community. There was an alarming fear that 
| there was a digression toward more casual (unprotected) sex than there was 
| just 5 years ago.

	They have started combatting that a while ago. They are becoming even
more specific in their education. I saw one sign over a urinal that said
something to the effect that you should not have unprotected sex with a
stranger, and it went into more detail that a lover is not someone you have
known for 2 weeks. Being tested before you try anything without a condom is
being stressed more and more, and it is working. 



Glen
323.477BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 18:0813
| <<< Note 323.475 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>


| According to the organization Gay Men's Health Crisis, 50% of homosexual men
| who are 20 years old today will contract HIV.


	I must be getting old.... I never heard of that group I'm sorry to say.
Gerald, did they go into the "why" they would contract the disease?



Glen
323.478NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jul 12 1995 18:115
I'm surprised you've never heard of them.  They've been around for years --
I think since the beginning of the AIDS epidemic.

I just the figures in passing in a recent issue of the Globe -- probably within
the past week.  I don't think I read the whole article.
323.479BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 18:1310


	Bummer Gerald. It would have been nice to know why they thought they
would have such a high %. A guess would be the invincable thing, but I can't be
sure about that. Knowing what they based it on too would be cool.



Glen
323.480SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Wed Jul 12 1995 19:477
    
    
    The problem is, that a disproportionate amount of money is going into
    AIDS research/funding...
    
     The fact and figures do not warrant it. The political correctness of
    the situation does...
323.481MPGS::MARKEYThe bottom end of Liquid SanctuaryWed Jul 12 1995 19:519
    > The problem is, that a disproportionate amount of money is going into
    > AIDS research/funding...
    
    >  The fact and figures do not warrant it. The political correctness of
    > the situation does...
    
    I disagree Andy. Check out .417 for my reasoning...
    
    -b
323.482SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Wed Jul 12 1995 19:5921
    
    re: .481
    
    Brian,
    
     That's why I stated "research/funding"...
    
    The Ryan White Care Act of 1990 has nothing to do with research, but
    with care...
    
     Now, I'm not denying that people with AIDS should not receive the best
    of care...
    
    
      What bothers me is that there's no Lou Gehrig Care Act for those with
    that disease (just an "off the top of my head" example..)
    
      What is the figure involved here... 3 point something billion over 5
    years? For care of no one other than an AIDS victim?? Seems kind of...
    unfair... doesn't it?
    
323.483CSC32::M_EVANSproud counter-culture McGovernikWed Jul 12 1995 20:019
    AIDS is communicable, incurable, and 100% fatal.  While in the US, it
    may have started in the gay and IV drug using sectors, it is spreading
    and is now the leading cause of non-violent death of women of
    childbearing age in several large cities on the eastern seaboard.  
    
    To me a communicable disease needs money for research, prevention
    programs, and treatment.  
    
    meg
323.484SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Wed Jul 12 1995 20:038
    
    re: .483
    
    Pretty general there meg...
    
    Just as if I generally stated that these women could be (mostly) drug
    users or sexual partners of drug users (which AIDS seems to be [mostly]
    confined to, along with homosexuals).
323.485BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Jul 12 1995 20:1715


	Andy, look at the world wide numbers for the last 10 years. Look at the
various groups infected. Look at the genders of those infected. You will be
amazed how the US differs from the rest of the world. It's very interesting
reading. The CDC has all the info you want. You could also try the AIDS Action
Committee in Boston. I'm sure they have the CDC stats as well. 

	And speaking of the AAC, Gerald, I found out the Gay Mens Health Crisis
group is the NY version of the AAC. 



Glen
323.486MPGS::MARKEYThe bottom end of Liquid SanctuaryWed Jul 12 1995 20:235
    
    I think GMHC predates AAC, and started in SF, not NY. But that's
    MHO and of course subject to CRI. :-)
    
    
323.487SMURF::MSCANLONalliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogetherWed Jul 12 1995 20:3340
    Helms will always continually amaze me with the depths he is
    willing to sink to in order to make a point.
    
    But aside from that, his remarks have an interest for
    fueling a fire which many polititians feel the American
    voting public has lit:  "personal responsibility".  I predict
    in about 10 years time we will learn to love this phrase 
    as much as we do "politically correct" now.  "Personal reponsibility"
    isn't about compassion, or empathy, or sympathy or even
    fairness or equity.  It's about mean-spirited thrift,
    miserliness, and ethinic and cultural hatred all wrapped up
    in a overwhelming fear of difference.  People seem to love
    this term.  They spit it at welfare mothers, homosexuals,
    AIDS victims and people who smoke in public.  In fact, people
    use it to describe most people's behavior, with, or course,
    the exception of their own.  Yeah, sure, some people never
    grow up.  Hey that's life.  But now, all of a sudden, we
    as a nation have taken a perverse delight in taking all these
    people and rubbing their noses in what is considered their
    "lack of personal responsibilty".  This is not only not 
    compassionate, it is not what I would consider Christian
    behavior from people who consider themselves Christians.
    
    Sure, lifestyle choices cause AIDS.  Lifestyle choices
    also cause emphasema (sp?), lung cancer (smoking, working
    in mines, handling asbestos), psorosis of the liver in some
    cases (alcohol),  amputation (working with dangerous
    machinery), and premature death or paralysis (bungee jumping, 
    race car driving, etc.).  You want to stop paying for these too?
    Ok how about people with "bad genes"?  We are getting to 
    the point where we can pinpoint genes which cause birth
    defects.  Should people with bad genes reproduce?  If they
    choose to, should we pay for it?  
    
    It never stops with one thing.  And before you choose to
    pursue that one thing, think about that real hard.  Once
    someone's got their foot stuck in the door, it gets a lot
    harder to shut it again.
    
    Mary-Michael
323.488NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jul 12 1995 20:363
Emphysema.
Cirrhosis.
NNTTM.
323.489CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Jul 12 1995 20:4021
                  <<< Note 323.485 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Andy, look at the world wide numbers for the last 10 years. Look at the
>various groups infected. Look at the genders of those infected. You will be
>amazed how the US differs from the rest of the world. 
    
    	If you look at what is culturally acceptable among the African
    	peoples most affected by AIDS (many destined for decimation)
    	you can see why it has spread so readily there among all sexual
    	orientations.
    
    	Consider that the same permissive promiscuity was a characteristic
    	of the gay community of the late 1970s and early 1980s, and you
    	don't have to wonder why it spread like wildfire there and not
    	among the (by comparison) puritanical heterosexual community.
    
    	Now consider that liberalism aims to lead this culture down the 
    	same path of permissive promiscuity.  I am not amazed that this
    	country has fared differently so far, and I am also not amazed
    	that AIDS is only now showing up more and more in the general 
    	population.
323.490MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Jul 12 1995 21:026
    Okay Glen...Jesse Helms is very hypocritical and he makes stupid
    generalizations...and he doesn't present himself as an intellectual
    source of information for the right.  I don't condemn what he stands
    for but I don't think his method of communicating is prudent!
    
    -Jack
323.491SMURF::MSCANLONalliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogetherWed Jul 12 1995 21:056
    re: .488
    
    Ah, thank you.  I think I was confusing it with psoriasis, which, while
    it is a heartbreak, is really nobody's fault.... :-)
    
    
323.492CSOA1::LEECHdia dhuitWed Jul 12 1995 21:2714
    re: .487
    
    I think you are politicising "personal responsibility" a bit much.
    When I think of personal responsibility, I think of accepting the
    consequences for ones actions without doing any finger pointing or
    whining, or asking the government to bail them out of a problem they
    brough upon themselves.
    
    It has nothing to do with miserliness or hate, but has a
    lot to do with common sense- something that has long gone out of style
    in this nation.
    
    
    -steve
323.493uh, Looks like we're in agreement.DECWET::MPETERSONMax OverheadWed Jul 12 1995 21:5851
re .487

Mary-Michael Writes:
>"Personal reponsibility" isn't about compassion, or empathy, or sympathy
>or even fairness or equity.

	You are correct.  Personal responsibility has very little to do with
	these matters.  But what does that matter?  Nuclear physics, or the 
	sex-life of hamsters are similarly irrelevant.  Nevertheless, the 
	rhetoric sounds cool, tho'.

Similarly, she contends that...
>[personal responsibility is] about mean-spirited thrift, miserliness, and
>ethinic and cultural hatred all wrapped up in a overwhelming fear of
>difference.

	Accepting personal responsibility has little to do with these issues, as 
	well.

Fortunately, she then says...
>Sure, lifestyle choices cause AIDS.  Lifestyle choices also cause emphasema
>(sp?), lung cancer (smoking, working in mines, handling asbestos), psorosis of
>the liver in some cases (alcohol),  amputation (working with dangerous
>machinery), and premature death or paralysis (bungee jumping, 
>race car driving, etc.).

	Well, we're cool again.  I thought for a moment that we were going to
	continue to argue but luckily we're on the same page here.  Whew!

Always on point, Mary-Michael gets to the heart of the matter...
>You want to stop paying for these too?


	Not sure to whom the "You" in your question is referring.  I guess my
	answer is that people in dire distress, whether by their own hand or 
	not, merit society's consideration.  On the extent to which that 
	consideration should amelioriate their misfortune is where the
	argument lies.  Personally, I believe that there exists the concept of 
	the "deserving" and the "undeserving". If resources are limited, my 
	inclination would be to allocate my care to the "deserving" first, then 
	only see what can be done for the "undeserving".

	If you disagree with this principal, I would consider it a favor if
	you would provide an answer to the scenerio I posed earlier about
	the Doctor, his two aids patients, and the desert island (#453.203).

Regards,

/mtp

	
323.494SEAPIG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Jul 13 1995 02:2713
                <<< Note 323.492 by CSOA1::LEECH "dia dhuit" >>>

>    It has nothing to do with miserliness or hate, but has a
>    lot to do with common sense- something that has long gone out of style
>    in this nation.
 
	Then you believe that all the money spent on cancer research, 
	research into heart disease, research into lung/heart/liver/kidney
	transplants was all spent unwisely.

	Right?

Jim
323.495SMURF::MSCANLONalliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogetherThu Jul 13 1995 03:5659
    re: .492
    
    First I do not believe that there is a person in this country
    who could not benefit from some help from the government at
    some point or another in their lives for something they
    allegedly brought upon themselves.
    
    Remember, help from the government isn't limited to
    welfare.  Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
    grants, Head Start programs and the like.  The governemnt
    provides many services and subsidizes many more.  All the 
    people lining up to use them are not "bad people" with no
    sense of "personal responsibility" (whatever the heck that
    may be).
    
    Second what is personal responsibility anyway?  I'd be 
    willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
    but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
    an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
    was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
    who didn't have it.  It's really nothing more than a
    catch phrase which polititians love, since everyone knows what
    it "should" mean, and no one will ever agree on it enough to
    bring it to law.
    
    This country is devoid of compassion and empathy.  We can't
    contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.  We'd
    rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
    actively participate in making this world a better place.
    We look down long noses at people who don't hold up under
    the scrutiny of our "values", blithely ignoring the fact
    that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
    judging.  Some even comb the Bible looking for justification
    of "righteous anger."  There is no justification for anger,
    I don't care what the book says.  This country is really in
    a pathetic state of affairs, and not because of welfare
    mothers.  This country is looking for scapegoats, people to
    blame for the confusion we find ourselves in.  And people
    are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
    believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.
    
    Finally, what is the difference between a drug addict and an
    alcoholic?  An alcoholic and a smoker?  A smoker and an
    overweight person with a heart condition who refuses to eat
    sensibly?  Nothing really.  Each person made lifestyle choices
    that affected their health and the overall quality of their life.
    But to society, there is a big difference.  Society nods to
    the overweight person, yes we all overeat, we understand.  Until
    very recently society accepted the smoker and turned their head
    the other way for the alcoholic.  Some may say the person who
    contracted AIDS through drug use "deserved it."  But some of these 
    same people might feel a pang of empathy for the alcoholic who 
    "got caught" (hey, people sometimes drink a little too much).  
    The behaviors are no different. They only difference is perception.  
    So, what does the Bible say about perception, Mr. Helms? Are we
    to pass our our help and compassion only to those who strive for
    perfection?  That's a real feel-good piece of fluff, isn't it?
    
    Mary-Michael
323.496WECARE::GRIFFINJohn Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159Thu Jul 13 1995 04:118
    
    Tuesday's Globe ran a column by Jeff Jacoby on AIDS spending. It had
    some interesting numbers within.
    
    Further back in the same issue was an article about gay bodybuilders.
    The article mentioned, but did not explain, the claim that 50% of
    young gay men will get AIDS. 
                
323.497DEVLPR::DKILLORANJack Martin - Wanted Dead or AliveThu Jul 13 1995 11:5248
    
    re:.495
    Minor Nit:

    > welfare.  Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
                                       ^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    I thought that these were provided by banks,..... I got mine from a
    bank, and paid back a bank.....

    > This country is devoid of compassion and empathy.

    I don't think so, I think that we're just compassioned out.  The 1st,
    2nd, and 3rd time you see someone in need, you might help.  The 4th,
    5th, and 6th times you see them, you feel bad.  But after number 12 or
    13 you just don't really care much anymore.  You have become
    desensitized to the suffering of others.

    > We can't contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.

    I believe that that is because people have come to believe (mistakenly
    IMO) that it's the governments responsibility to take care of people.

    > We'd rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
    > actively participate in making this world a better place.

    I believe that this is partially a result of the previous comment...
    The government has provided more and more services to more and more
    people.  To do this they have taxed and taxed us to the poor house. 
    "Take an active role in making the world a better place, are you
    kidding, I'm working X number of jobs just to put food one the table
    and have someplace to live!"  This is the feeling I keep getting from
    the people that I talk to.  The government take between 30% to 40% of
    my income for run their foolish (IMO) programs, give me 25% of it back,
    and I'll be able to give 10% of my income to charity and still be 15%
    ahead!

    > There is no justification for anger,

    You forgot the IMO.....

    > But some of these same people might feel a pang of empathy for the
    > alcoholic who  "got caught" (hey, people sometimes drink a little too
    > much).  

    Please clarify this for me, are you implying that people who sometimes
    drink too much are alcoholics?

    Dan
323.498TROOA::COLLINSGone ballistic. Back in 5 minutes.Thu Jul 13 1995 12:158
    
    Heard on CNN last night about a letter carrier in Charleston (?)
    who was refusing to deliver mail to the house of a couple with
    AIDS.
    
    He claims he might get the disease from their mail slot (if he cuts
    himself), or from an envelope they may have licked.
    
323.499WAHOO::LEVESQUEcontents under pressureThu Jul 13 1995 12:311
    real bright sort, he.
323.500He would find peers in the Carolina delegation....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftThu Jul 13 1995 12:334
    
    Did I hear right that he is considering running for the US Senate?
    
    								-mr. bill
323.501CSOA1::LEECHdia dhuitThu Jul 13 1995 13:235
    re: .494
    
    How did you get that from my note?
    
    -steve
323.502DECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Jul 13 1995 13:262
    Sounds like Jesse Helms is contagious :-(
    
323.503BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Jul 13 1995 13:5314
| <<< Note 323.489 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| If you look at what is culturally acceptable among the African peoples most 
| affected by AIDS (many destined for decimation) you can see why it has 
| spread so readily there among all sexual orientations.

	Joe, the people of Africa are a part of the world. The people of North
America are a part of the world. Combined they are still only a part of the
world. I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.



Glen
323.504BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Jul 13 1995 13:5411
| <<< Note 323.490 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Okay Glen...Jesse Helms is very hypocritical and he makes stupid
| generalizations...and he doesn't present himself as an intellectual
| source of information for the right.  I don't condemn what he stands
| for but I don't think his method of communicating is prudent!

	Thanks for speaking up Jack.


Glen
323.506MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 13 1995 13:566
    Dan:
    
    Your bank collected the student loan from you and then they forwarded
    it to ELSI (Education Loan Services Inc.)  I think they're government!
    
    -Jack
323.507BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Jul 13 1995 13:5610
| <<< Note 323.496 by WECARE::GRIFFIN "John Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159" >>>


| Further back in the same issue was an article about gay bodybuilders.
| The article mentioned, but did not explain, the claim that 50% of
| young gay men will get AIDS.

	It said based on current numbers, 50% of the men in their 20's now,
will contract AIDS when they are 50. With the new education that's out there,
the numbers will drop.
323.508SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Thu Jul 13 1995 14:176
    
    re: .485
    
    What are you trying to tell me vis. my reply about selective funding
    (which I believe Helms is addressing)??
    
323.509SMURF::MSCANLONalliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogetherThu Jul 13 1995 15:306
    Ok, where did .509 go?  Here I was composing this brilliant,
    eye-opening rebuttal, and Steve deletes his reply!  Now my
    paragraph by paragraph analysis will go unread.... :-(
    
    Stop applauding.....
    
323.510DEVLPR::DKILLORANJack Martin - Wanted Dead or AliveThu Jul 13 1995 15:349
    
    > Your bank collected the student loan from you and then they forwarded
    > it to ELSI (Education Loan Services Inc.)  I think they're government!
    
    Jack, are you telling me that ALL student loan are funded by the
    Federal Government ???
    
    Dan
    
323.511MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Jul 13 1995 15:581
    I dunno.
323.512EVMS::MORONEYThe gene pool needs chlorine....Thu Jul 13 1995 16:0713
The student loans are GUARANTEED by the government.  That means the
banks lend the money to you but if you don't pay they assign the loans
to the government and then THEY come after you.  The banks are willing
to lend money since now there is little risk.

This is just like the so-called Chrysler bailout, the US never lent
a dime to Chrysler, they just guaranteed the loans to those who did.

The government might pay the difference between the going rate and
the student loan interest rate, I'm unsure.
The loans also tend to be resold to a quasi-government agency
(Sallie Mae) just like most home mortgages are.

323.513NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jul 13 1995 16:125
>This is just like the so-called Chrysler bailout, the US never lent
>a dime to Chrysler, they just guaranteed the loans to those who did.

It's not _just_ like the Chrysler bailout.  The gummint's paid out plenty
because of student loan deadbeats.
323.514Sorry I wasn't clear...BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Jul 13 1995 16:3712
| <<< Note 323.508 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Zebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!" >>>


| What are you trying to tell me vis. my reply about selective funding
| (which I believe Helms is addressing)??

	I thought it would make interesting reading for you. I wasn't
addressing the selective funding issue. World wide numbers would be useless for
an issue that deals with the US.


Glen
323.515BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Jul 13 1995 16:388
| <<< Note 323.513 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>


| It's not _just_ like the Chrysler bailout.  The gummint's paid out plenty
| because of student loan deadbeats.


	Lee Iacoca was no deadbeat, that's for sure!
323.516CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Jul 13 1995 17:5412
    re: .509
    
    Sorry about that.  There were a few areas of my long diatribe that I
    simply couldn't parse on a re-reading.  I've extracted it for
    correction, but haven't gotten around to de-bugging it yet.  That's
    what happens when I note on an empty stomach.  8^)  
    
    I'm now well fed and should have that note posted in no time.
    Keep your rebuttle handy.  8^)
    
    
    -steve
323.517CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Jul 13 1995 18:4343
  <<< Note 323.495 by SMURF::MSCANLON "alliaskofmyselfisthatiholdtogether" >>>

>    Second what is personal responsibility anyway?  I'd be 
>    willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
>    but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
>    an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
>    was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
>    who didn't have it.  

	How much you wanna bet?  I'll bet you that there are quite
	a few "two people"s who read this reply today who could so
	agree.

>    This country is devoid of compassion and empathy.  We can't
>    contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.  We'd
>    rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
>    actively participate in making this world a better place.

	Though I see nothing wrong with giving money as opposed to
	time (what many here can earn in an hour -- were we to donate
	it -- would hire multiple hours of others' labor) in general
	I agree with what you wrote.  Oh, I don't fully accept the
	extremes that you portray, for then they would include you
	and me, but yes, we as a society are less giving than we
	used to be.  Less compassionate.  Less concerned.  An example
	of this is a radio commercial I heard for "The Club" (auto
	security device.)  In the ad they mentioned how often we hear
	a car alarm going off in a parking lot, but nobody does anything
	to attend to it.  And yes, while not all of us structure our
	charity giving around tax implications, it is certainly a
	consideration for far too many people.

>    that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
>    judging.  

	Where do our values say that?

>    And people
>    are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
>    believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.

	One must wonder here if you are pointing fingers, and if so
	at whom.
323.518CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Jul 13 1995 18:4610
                  <<< Note 323.503 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

> I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.

    	I believe you know that I don't often obey your commands.
    
    	I notice you could not argue with what I did say in .489.
    
    	I also believe that you'll find that what I said in .489 also
    	applies to AIDS spread (in general) anywhere in the world.
323.519My long-winded reply returns! And it's even BIGGER, now.CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Jul 13 1995 19:27274
    re: .495  
    
    This was not directed towards me, but that's never stopped me
    from responding  before.  8^)  
    
    Mary-Michael, the following comments are not directed at you
    personally, but at the mindset I see within this particular note.  You
    are a compassionate person, from what I've read of your notes, and I
    respect that, so don't take this personally.
    
>    First I do not believe that there is a person in this country
>    who could not benefit from some help from the government at
>    some point or another in their lives for something they
>    allegedly brought upon themselves.
 
    Probably right for the most part, with a few exceptions.  The problem lies 
    in the fact that the government should not be in the business of bailing 
    people out of their misfortune- whether brought about by their own 
    actions or not.
    
    New Deal, the forefather of all our entitlement programs, was economic
    suicide, and many of those who opposed these programs
    quite loudly warned about 'opening up the federal coffers' in such a
    way.  Once opened, they said, it would be impossible to close them
    again.  What was not known at the time was the cumulative affects these
    programs had on society in other areas (including the 'personal 
    responsibility' term in question).
    
    We are just now beginning to realize just how far down the wrong path we 
    have gone.  The November election, IMO, seemed to show that Americans are 
    beginning to realize this en mass, and are trying to force correction 
    (smaller government).  If we do nothing, we WILL run out of credit
    eventually.  Our debt is already costing us $260B/year to finance.
    
    Of course, what the GOP is doing is using a bandaid where a tournaquet
    is more appropriate.  They simply don't have the political nads to do
    what they KNOW has to be done (i.e. massively reform all entitlements,
    including SS, medicare & medicade).  
       
>    Remember, help from the government isn't limited to
>    welfare.  Help is also Medicaid, student loans, government
>    grants, Head Start programs and the like.  The governemnt
>    provides many services and subsidizes many more.  All the 
>    people lining up to use them are not "bad people" with no
>    sense of "personal responsibility" (whatever the heck that
>    may be).
 
    The whole point, to me, is that the government should not be in the
    business of subsidizing any particular group of people.  It is not the
    government's job to coddle citizens in every way.  It is the ridiculous
    amounts of taxation that is at FAULT for many people not being able to
    afford college, insurance, etc.  Unfortunately, Congress doesn't seem
    to look at this part of the equation of 'cause and effect' and neither
    do most Americans.  They see people who cannot afford to get ahead and
    say  that something aught to be done!  
    
    Guess what?  When something else is done to help these people, WE pay
    for it.  This causes increased amounts of taxation which only spreads
    the original problem out to more people (the problem being insufficient
    funds for necessities/education/whatever).  The more everyone pays in
    taxes, the worse off this nation will be in regards to most any
    variable you can come up with: economy, standards of living, poverty,
    etc.  You cannot help the poor by bringing everyone else down the the
    least common denominator.  
    
    Without the heavy taxation to support these programs, we wouldn't NEED
    these programs to begin with, at least not in the form of government
    subsidies.   
    
    The entire problem revolves around personal responsibility.  You are
    responsible for your own finances, your own retirement, your own
    medical insurance, your own housing and your own family.  This should
    be the law, but it isn't.  The current law says it matters not what you
    do because you will be taken care of regardless.  This promotes
    irresponsibility and the wrong mindset for getting ahead in this world.
    
    Any subsidizing should come from the private sector, not by government
    tax-nabbing and redistribution.  It is the only fair way to do it.
    
    [Charity is another topic.  I'm only mentioning what I see as a problem
    with current mindset- a minset that has gotten us into bad financial
    straits as a nation.]
    
>    Second what is personal responsibility anyway?  I'd be 
>    willing to bet two people couldn't agree on a definition,
>    but I'd also be willing to bet that the same two people each had
>    an intensely personal idea of what "personal responsibilty"
>    was as well as a list as long as your arm of types of people
>    who didn't have it.  
    
    You are responsible for yourself and your actions.  This is the essense
    of "personal responsibility".  You own up to your failures without
    blaming your hardship on others.
    
>    It's really nothing more than a
>    catch phrase which polititians love, since everyone knows what
>    it "should" mean, and no one will ever agree on it enough to
>    bring it to law.
 
    This is what the left would like us to believe.  Reduce it to a catch
    phrase, rather than putting it into policy. 
       
>    This country is devoid of compassion and empathy.  We can't
>    contribute to charity unless we get a tax deduction.  
    
    Oh, this is utter nonsense.  I give to my church and to other
    organizations.  I do not file for the tax deduction for it.  My
    rationale for giving has never included tax deduction considerations.
    
    The problem is, modern mentality says that compassion comes in the form
    of a government bail-out/subsidy program, rather that in any personal
    way.  I can't even begin to address the ramifications this attitude has
    had on our nation (it would be a good subject for a book, though).  
    
    Tell me, how is it compassionate or fair to subsidize, via LAW, certain
    groups of citizens at the expense of others?  How is it compassionate to
    continue with programs that only exasparate the problems they are meant
    to solve (at the expense of taxpayers)?  
    
    From my personal perspective, I could not only live better, but I could 
    give a lot more money to charity if the government would just get off my 
    back (and out of my paycheck).  I would also be planning on giving more 
    of my time to worthwhile organizations, rather than contemplating a second
    job.
    
    Let ME decide where my money (over x% for constitutional government
    expenses) goes!  Let me decide for myself what programs (via charity)
    warrent my money.  Let me decide who to help and for how long.  Let me
    help in a way I feel is moral and ethical and effective (no to mention
    cost effective and efficient).
    
    Oh, but we can't have that.  We have to have daddy government take care
    of everyone.  We all know that unless tax $$ are ripped from the
    wallets of us immoral, stingy taxpayers, that people would be dying in
    the streets of starvation (of course, they do anyway WITH daddy
    government taking care of the situation, but of course that matters not
    in the collective mind of the left).  We are an uncaring lot, we
    are, only concerned with our spending money.
    
>    We'd
>    rather write a sterile check than roll up our sleeves and
>    actively participate in making this world a better place.
    
    Well, since all we have to do is vote for tax-and-spend dims, rather
    than be personally resposible for our community, I'm not surprised that
    this mindset is so prevalent.  We need not take responsibility, only
    delegate our obligations to daddy fedgov via more doomed-to-fail
    federal programs.  We don't care that they don't work, as long as we
    feel that we did something.  We also don't care about the damage the
    increased tax burden will do directly and indirectly to the rest of the
    nation. 
    
    I find nothing wrong with writing a "sterile" check to a charity
    agency in need of funds to help people.  Nothing wrong at all.
    I do agree that more people should give their time to a cause they
    believe in, though.  It helps the community as well as the individual
    who donates their time.  I find the "sterile" check scenario much more
    compassionate than supporting failed programs that expound the misery.
    
>    We look down long noses at people who don't hold up under
>    the scrutiny of our "values", blithely ignoring the fact
>    that our "values" say we shouldn't be the ones doing the
>    judging.  
    
    Wrong.  As a matter of course, we ARE to judge behaviors.  If someone
    is very promiscuous, we SHOULD tell them that this is wrong and
    dangerous behavior.  If someone murders their neighbor, we certainly tell 
    them (via death penalty or life imprisonment) that this behavior is 
    unacceptable. 
    
    The problem is, we are too permissive as a society.  We stopped
    condemning behaviors and began rationalizing them, accepting them. 
    Why?  Because if society begins to accept them, we begin to feel better
    about those things/behaviors in our own life that we know deep down
    are wrong.  With a society that accepts most any behavior with a wink
    and a nudge, we can rationalize most anything we do, taking away and
    guilt we may have.
    
    The envelope gets pushed farther and farther every year, too.  It is now
    frowned upon to even suggest that certain behaviors are wrong.  How
    dare we make such 'judgements'!  How dare we call something that we
    know to be wrong, wrong!  No wonder we are in such bad shape.
    
>    Some even comb the Bible looking for justification
>    of "righteous anger."  There is no justification for anger,
>    I don't care what the book says.  
    
    But there *is* justification for anger.  What there is no
    justification for is hatred (of people).  You can be angry without hating,
    something that the government and all too many people seem not to
    understand.  Even God hates things (not people), and is angered when
    His word is ignored.  Israel found this out on several occations, if
    the OT is to be believed. 
    
>    This country is really in
>    a pathetic state of affairs, and not because of welfare
>    mothers.  This country is looking for scapegoats, people to
>    blame for the confusion we find ourselves in.  And people
>    are pointing fingers at those who do not live as they live,
>    believe as they believe, and quite honestly, vote as they vote.
 
    No, the welfare mothers (even those having additional children while on
    welfare) are not the problem.  They are a symptom of a much larger
    problem.  The problem is spiritual, as well mental (attitudes and
    philosophies). 
    
    By looking at all the current symptoms, we can see that the disease is 
    well advanced today.  Unfortunately, our doctors' recommendations are 
    analogous to taking a couple of aspirin for a large, malignant tumor,
    rather than surgically removing it.  Some doctors don't even recognize 
    the huge, discolored lump as a tumor- whether purposefully so or not,
    I do not know.  They try to ignore it, suggesting that if we treat it 
    with the very same ointment that caused it to form in the first place, it
    will magically disappear.
    
>    So, what does the Bible say about perception, Mr. Helms? Are we
>    to pass our our help and compassion only to those who strive for
>    perfection?  That's a real feel-good piece of fluff, isn't it?
 
    Actually, the Bible says to love and to help one another.  I, of
    course, agree with the Bible.  8^)  We should help those in need.
    
    However, you have to remember where this ideal comes from.  The Bible
    does not say "force your neighbor to love his neighbor" or "force your
    neighbor to help others", it speaks to the individual only.  You have to 
    decide if you are going to help, and if so, how you are going to help 
    your neighbor.  
    
    The Bible, as many have pointed out (unnecessarily), is NOT the law of the
    land, the Constitution is.  Though much of our law was originally based
    upon Biblical precepts, we are not a theocracy, therefore the Bible has
    no sway in public law (and has recently had less sway in personal
    behavior, as well).
    
    We both agree that we should help others.  What we disagree on is HOW
    that help should be applied.  I personally think it is immoral to force
    someone to give money to a charity.  This is no different than being
    forced to pay for a massive number of federal 'entitlement' (I hate
    that word) programs, IMO.  
    
    To add to the questionable morality of said federal programs, they are 
    rife with waste, corruption (which includes theft of monies through 
    defrauding the government) and are becoming a more and more burdomsome
    load to carry.  Not one entitlement program has solved any problem in 
    America, even though we've spend in the neighborhood of $3 trillion
    on them since New Deal.  In fact, most have added to the very
    problems they were created to solve (sometimes magnifying the problem
    so badly as to spawn huge infusions of tax $$ to keep up with it).  
    It simply makes no sense to continue on our current path.
    
    I still laugh when I read FDR's outcry for his welfare programs:  "They
    will end poverty within ten years!" (paraphrased from memory).
    
    Today, as we try and undo the damage done, I find comment as to the
    'miserliness' and 'lack of compassion' that those who oppose entitlement
    programs, as disengenuous.  We have been anything but miserly, as a nation, 
    if you look at how much of our tax $$ goes into entitlment programs
    each year (some 1/4 or so of our national budget, currently, if not more). 
    How about having some compassion for the working stiffs who are finding
    it harder and harder to make ends meet since it takes them from January
    through mid July just to pay their tax burden.  Imagine what just three
    months of this tax money, on a broad scale, could do for the economy
    and private charity!
    
    Enough is enough already.  It is time to admit that our social 
    engineering, though perhaps well intentioned originally,
    has failed miserably.  We now need to work to intellegently reduce
    entitlement spending and change our mental image of what compassion
    really is.  Compassion is not a government subsidy to make us feel
    like we've done something to help.
    
    
    
    -steve (who's somewhat long-winded today) 8^)
323.520SUBPAC::SADINWe the people?Thu Jul 13 1995 23:2562
Helms says he's been incorrectly characterized in AIDS
funding debate


(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.

(c) 1995 Associated Press

CHARLOTTE (Jul 12, 1995 - 18:12 EDT) -- Sen. Jesse Helms stands
by his comment that gay sexual conduct is "revolting" but says he is
being misrepresented on why he opposes an AIDS funding bill.

Helms, R-N.C., said his aversion to the homosexual lifestyle is not
keeping him from backing the Ryan White Care Act of 1990, which
would provide $633 million for federal care and treatment of people with
AIDS over the next five years.

He said he is against the measure because it grants gays and AIDS
victims better treatment than patients with other diseases.

"I have not fought homosexual rights. They have the same rights any
other American has," he said. "What I have fought and oppose with all
my being is giving them special rights."

Last week, Helms, was quoted as saying AIDS is spread through
"disgusting, revolting conduct."

"We've got to have some common sense about a disease transmitted by
people deliberately engaging in unnatural acts," Helms said.

Helms is not sorry about those statements, The Charlotte Observer
reported Wednesday.

"I meant it. It is disgusting," he told the paper.

People who suffer from heart disease, cancer and other maladies do not
have special legislation giving them financial assistance, Helms said.

Helms said gay lobbyists are trying to discredit him.

"I would not have to say these things if they would keep their mouths
shut and their bedrooms closed," he said. "No, they parade, naked. They
commit sodomy on the streets of San Francisco."

Mark Barnes, executive director of the AIDS Action Council, said
Helms is wrong to contend that the AIDS relief gives HIV-infected
patients special treatment. Many AIDS sufferers are prevented from
qualifying for existing government relief programs and usually are not old
enough to obtain Medicare.

"This isn't special rights -- this is taking care of people who wouldn't
otherwise get treatment," he said.

The AIDS law, named after an Indiana teen-ager who died after getting
the AIDS virus from a blood transfusion, expires at the end of
September. North Carolina has received $10.8 million through the act.

Helms acknowleged that people other than gays contract Aids. But he
said the bill still is primarily for homosexuals because "every case of
AIDS in the United States had its origin with homosexual contact,"
Helms said.

323.521GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA memberFri Jul 14 1995 11:568
    
    
    I think using Ryan White's name for this is in bad taste.  The reason
    being is that it is using one of the (comparatively) few cases of
    contraction of the disease to whitewash the fact that a change in
    behavior could all but eliminate the spread of this terrible virus.
    
    Mike
323.522CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Jul 14 1995 12:436
    Mr. Helms  has a point about the special treatment for those who
    contract AIDS.  I don't see any government relief bills for cancer
    patients or the like.
    
    
    -steve
323.523Deja Vu...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Fri Jul 14 1995 12:544
    
    
    And here I thought people were paying attention!!!
    
323.524CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Jul 14 1995 12:581
    Gabh mo leithsce'al.
323.525MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jul 14 1995 13:155
>             <<< Note 323.524 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>
>    Gabh mo leithsce'al.

Speaking in tongues again, Steve? Which deli did you find them at?

323.526CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Jul 14 1995 13:331
    <---  Ni' cheapaim e'.   
323.527MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jul 14 1995 13:352
Latka Gravis?

323.528CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Jul 14 1995 13:421
    <--- Cad e' seo?
323.529BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 14 1995 14:5519
| <<< Note 323.518 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| <<< Note 323.503 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

| > I believe I said look at the world numbers, not part.

| I believe you know that I don't often obey your commands.

	And I believe I didn't even ask you to. I believe I was making a
suggestion to Andy before you popped in. You remind me of Endora sometimes. :-)

| I notice you could not argue with what I did say in .489.

	Not that I couldn't argue, but that I don't need to waste my time on
you.



Glen
323.530BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 14 1995 14:588
| <<< Note 323.520 by SUBPAC::SADIN "We the people?" >>>


| Helms acknowleged that people other than gays contract Aids. But he said the 
| bill still is primarily for homosexuals because "every case of AIDS in the 
| United States had its origin with homosexual contact," Helms said.

	A man who is not playing with a full deck...... 
323.531don't underestimate ol' JesseHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 15:4814
I think a lot of people are either misunderstanding ol' Jesse or
seriously underrating him.

Jesse didn't get to his position of power, both real and influential,
because he's as stupid as he sounds or as dumb as he looks. He strikes a
chord in a large number of people and plays them like a master.

While no fan of the man, his spell over North Carolinians and much of the
conservative persuasion is overpowering. You can bet you hat, ass and
overcoat that he will successfully (on his terms) complete this term and
be re-elected to another. Only his failing health will end his stay in
the Senate.

TTom
323.532a greatly misunderstood manSMURF::WALTERSFri Jul 14 1995 16:2130
    The Ballad of Jesse Helms.
    
    Jesse Helms is a man,
    (Or so we understand),
    His mouth it can't be trained.
    Thus it came to pass
    He talked out through his *ss,
    Said "AID$ i$ $uch a drain!"
    
     Oh Jesse get a life.
     What if it was your wife?
     Or children that were ill?
     But, Jesse does deny:
     "Good people they won't die,
     Jes' those I'd like to kill."
    
    Now Jesse likes tobacco,
    Says the F-D-A are wacko,
    For causing such a scare,
    "It brings the body ease,
    Don't cause heart disease,
    And buys mah congress chair."
    
     With Jesse at the helm,
     Then right would overwhelm,
     The nasty, ee-vyl and gay.
     When Jesse smokes a fag,
     I don't mean "takes a drag",
     He blows them all a-wayyyyy.
    [
323.533goodunHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 16:2614
re: .532

Goodun there!

You might wanna something about sugar cause ol' Jesse makes more money
from them then he ever got from tobacco. You don't think that he
advocates boycotting sugar from countries that deal with Cuba cause he
don't like Fidel, now do you?

And of course, the sugar industry in NC is very big, NOT. It definitely
lags way behind tobacco, reefer and manure, a major source of income to
his cause as well.

TTom
323.534BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Jul 14 1995 17:083

	Didn't Helms win by a small margin in the last election?
323.535won rather easilyHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 17:1616
Jesse challenged by the former Mayor of Charlotte, Harvey Gannt who was
thought to be close because of some of the polls before the election.
Either these polls were in error or they motivated Jesse's fans, cause he
won fairly handily, something like 58%-42% of votes cast.

The onliest ray of hope is that Jesse and The Congressional Club, his
PAC, have parted company and are suing each other. This may not bring
Jesse down but it bodes poorly for his clone, Lauch Faircloth, pig farmer
and junior senator. Faircloth, who won mainly because his democratic
opponent, the then Senator Terry Sanford, nearly died afore the election,
is gonna face a very tough primary from another former Charlotte mayor,
Sue Myrick. The Congressional Club spent more money defeating her in the
primary than it did to defeat Sanford. It's pretty hard to actively
campaign from the ICU.

TTom
323.536MAIL2::CRANEFri Jul 14 1995 17:182
    Didn`t Andy Griffith (sp) think about running against Helms a couple of
    years ago?
323.537nope, but Petty is running for somethingHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 17:258
I hadn't heard about ol' Andy.

The one "celebrity" that's going into politics is Richard Petty. He's
currently a county commissioner, having positioned himself far to the
right, somewhere near Jesse and the very senior senator from south o' the
border, Strom "Red" Thurmon.


323.538SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIZebwas have foot-in-mouth disease!Fri Jul 14 1995 17:257
    
    Well... I'd like to take the focus of the messenger for a minute and
    focus on the message...
    
     
     Is he right to pursue cutting the funding for the reasons stated...??
    
323.539NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Jul 14 1995 17:261
Thurmond.  Who's Richard Petty?
323.540CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenFri Jul 14 1995 17:282
    Richard Petty, stock car driver/owner/sponsor, good ol' boy.  He is now
    vying for poll position.  
323.541NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Jul 14 1995 17:315
>    Richard Petty, stock car driver/owner/sponsor, good ol' boy.  He is now
>    vying for poll position.  
	       ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

good 'un.
323.542that's racinHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 17:393
King Richard Petty of NASCAR fame.

TTom
323.543NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Jul 14 1995 17:436
>King Richard Petty of NASCAR fame.

     No Title of Nobility shall be granted by the United States; And no Person 
holding any Office of Profit or Trust under them, shall, without the Consent of 
the Congress, accept of any present, Emolument, Office, or Title, of any kind 
watever, from any King, Prince, or foreign State.
323.544the emolument has left the buildingHBAHBA::HAASimprobable causeFri Jul 14 1995 17:475
Actually, this is a title shared by Petty and Elvis.

And shouldn't that be Nobility formerly called Prince?

TTom
323.545SUBPAC::SADINWe the people?Sat Jul 15 1995 20:51101
Early treatment for HIV doesn't prolong survival,
study finds


(c) 1995 Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.

(c) 1995 N.Y. Times News Service

WASHINGTON (Jul 15, 1995 - 15:06 EDT) -- Treatment of HIV
infection before it causes symptoms may delay progression to AIDS
but does not prolong survival, a new study has found.

The study, reported Saturday in the British Medical Journal, supports
findings from the Concorde study in Europe that in 1993 called into
question a standard practice of prescribing the drug AZT for people
infected with HIV, or human immunodeficiency virus, which causes
AIDS.

The British study involved 436 AIDS patients at St. Mary's Hospital
Medical School in London. Its authors said they hoped it would raise
more discussion about the relative merits of treating HIV early or
after symptoms develop and stimulate scientists to focus more
studies on the quality of life among those treated for HIV-infection.

"We are hoping to move the debate on about what we are actually
doing for patients" such as whether benefits of early treatment
outweigh adverse effects such as nausea, vomiting and bleeding, Dr.
Mark Poznansky, a co-author of the study, said in a telephone
interview.

Although the study is not definitive, the findings have "a sobering
effect," said Dr. James W. Curran, a top AIDS official at the Centers
for Disease Control and Prevention in Atlanta.

Another top AIDS expert at the centers, Dr. Harold W. Jaffe, said
"we are starting to get a fairly consistent message" from studies
that anti-HIV drugs and antibiotics against AIDS-related infections
"have a benefit, but survival is not prolonged depending on whether
they are given early or late."

The report comes at a time when growing competition from managed
care is increasing pressure on American health care providers to
justify costs for many standard treatments.

The findings also highlight cultural differences between many
American and European patients and doctors over the optimal time
to begin treatment of AIDS. Doctors in the United States, acting on
studies conducted by American scientists, tend to start treating
HIV-infection earlier in the course of the disease than European
doctors. Also, European AIDS patients have generally clamored less
for early treatment than American patients.

Proponents believe early treatment improves the quality of life by
reducing hospitalizations for the potentially fatal AIDS-related
illnesses like pneumocystis carinii pneumonia. But others say
treatment with AZT or similar anti-HIV drugs makes some users
sick.

Poznansky's team in London studied 436 AIDS patients who
developed AIDS from 1991 through 1993. Of these, 97, or 22 percent,
learned they were infected with HIV when they developed their first
AIDS illness and had no previous treatment for HIV or
AIDS-related illness. The remaining 339 patients were followed in
clinics after they tested positive for HIV during the preceding eight
years.

A comparison showed that those who received early treatment
suffered fewer AIDS-related infections. Yet once they became ill
they died, on average, a year sooner than those who were not treated
until severe symptoms began. The overall time from acquiring
infection to death was similar and the later diagnosis of AIDS "did
not have a detrimental effect on survival," the British authors said.

Dr. Merle Sande, an AIDS expert who is chief physician at San
Francisco General Hospital, said he was not surprised by the
findings. He headed an independent panel of experts created by the
government that in 1993 said AZT was no longer necessarily
recommended for early treatment of uncomplicated HIV-infection.

"Most doctors feel when they are giving AZT early, they are
increasing the asymptomatic period, but again and again they have
learned that survival is the same," Sande said. "Nothing that has
delayed progression to AIDS has ever been shown to alter survival."

There are many aspects to HIV treatment, such as presumed
differences in the virulence of different strains of the virus. But the
British study was not designed to determine whether such viral
differences existed among the participants.

Despite public education programs aimed at encouraging people to
get a blood test to learn whether or not they have HIV, many
Americans first learn they are infected when they go to the hospital
for a serious AIDS illness.

Dr. Jonathan Weber, a co-author of the British study, said his team
realized that the findings raised questions about the benefit of early
diagnosis and having medical checkups every few months. But
Weber and other experts said early diagnosis of HIV had important
public health benefits because it helped infected individuals prevent
transmitting the virus to their sex partners.

323.547CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Jul 28 1995 13:461
    Easy solution to this one...
323.548BIGQ::MARCHANDFri Jul 28 1995 14:192
    
       So, don't hold them in jail. Put them in concrete.
323.549POLAR::RICHARDSONPrepositional MasochistFri Jul 28 1995 14:352
This is Italy, where a pornstar can become an elected member of parliament and 
where an entire island is run by criminals.
323.550MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jul 28 1995 14:374
Please do not disparage the people of Italy.

Your next personality could be Vincenzo.

323.551CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenFri Jul 28 1995 14:401
    Hmmmm, sounds like NYC too.
323.552POLAR::RICHARDSONPrepositional MasochistFri Jul 28 1995 14:471
Ah! You gotta a gooda pointa there Jack!
323.553MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jul 28 1995 14:522
Omigawd! It's Father Guido Sarducci!

323.554TROOA::COLLINSCareful! That sponge has corners!Fri Jul 28 1995 14:533
    
    Yo, Vinnie!  Vinnie Vega!  Vinnie Barbarino!
    
323.555POWDML::CKELLYThe Proverbial Bad PennyFri Jul 28 1995 14:552
    oh dear.  does that mean he'll have, like, lotsa chest hair; mega
    gold chains, shiny polyester shirt unbuttoned to his navel?????
323.556CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenFri Jul 28 1995 15:003
    And what pray tell is wrong with lotsa chest hair?  Hmmm? Hmmmm? Hmmm?
    
    I'll skip the Mr. T starter set and polyester shirt though.
323.557POWDML::CKELLYThe Proverbial Bad PennyFri Jul 28 1995 15:013
    Nothing, Brian, nada, zip, zilch.  Actually, it's one of my
    requirements :-))).  Agreed, tho, on the Mr. T starter set 
    and shirt :-))))))
323.558DEVLPR::DKILLORANIt ain't easy, bein' sleezy!Fri Jul 28 1995 15:215
    
    Ba ba ba, ba Barbarino....
    
    :-)
    Dan
323.559POLAR::RICHARDSONPrepositional MasochistFri Jul 28 1995 15:231
    Hey, youa guysa better cutta that out!
323.560TROOA::COLLINSCareful! That sponge has corners!Fri Jul 28 1995 15:233
    
    Geyser?
    
323.561POLAR::RICHARDSONPrepositional MasochistFri Jul 28 1995 15:261
    <--- Youa unafaithful guy!
323.562CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenFri Jul 28 1995 17:011
    The Don Ricardoson has spoken.
323.563POLAR::RICHARDSONPrepositional MasochistFri Jul 28 1995 17:201
    Whata youa meana buya that?
323.565SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Aug 09 1995 18:463
    
    Great!! Give him (them) fuel for another personna!!!
    
323.566POLAR::RICHARDSONThank You KindlyWed Aug 09 1995 18:521
    Whatta you meana?
323.567InformationCSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backTue Sep 05 1995 14:4680
    WHO chief warns of women's vulnerability to HIV 


    (c) Copyright the News & Observer Publishing Co.

    Reuter

    BEIJING (9:02 a.m.) - Women face the bleak reality of being infected by
    the deadly HIV virus more quickly than men, due in part to their
    economic dependence on men, the World Health Organisation (WHO) said on
    Tuesday.

    "The number of infected women with HIV is increasing more rapidly than
    men in Africa, in southern Asia," Hiroshi Nakajima, WHO's
    director-general, told a news conference.

    "The bleak reality is that the sexual and economic subordination of
    women fuels the HIV/AIDS pandemic," WHO said in its position paper at
    the Fourth United Nations World Conference on Women in Beijing.

    "Women's vulnerability...is linked to their low status in society, and
    their economic, cultural and social dependence on their male partners,"
    it said.

    Women were almost absent from the pandemic in 1980 of the HIV virus
    that can cause Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), but now
    total as many as eight million.

    Some one million more are infected each year, mainly through
    unprotected sexual intercourse, WHO said.

    Every minute, two women are infected with HIV, it said

    And every two minutes, a woman dies of AIDS.

    WHO said the number of women infected with HIV will have reached 14
    million by the year 2000, and about four million will have died.

    Studies in some countries show that up to 30 percent of HIV infections
    are occurring in women whose only risk behaviour is sexual intercourse
    with a single male partner who in turn has had or continued to have
    unprotected sex with other partners, it said.

    WHO said providing women, especially young women, with the personal
    skills and confidence to refuse sex when they do not want it was
    essential to battling the pandemic.

    "This will be possible, however, only when women have sufficient status
    and economic opportunities to reduce their dependence on men for
    survival and relative wellbeing," WHO said.

    However, women at a grassroots forum on the outskirts of Beijing that
    is running parallel to the U.N. conference said WHO was following the
    wrong policies to combat the disease.

    They called for rapid development of microbicides that women could use
    to combat the deadly HIV virus, instead of relying on male partners
    often reluctant to use condoms.

    "The strategy of the WHO against AIDS is not working and is irrelevant
    to the women of Africa," said Priscilla Misihairabwi, co-ordinator of
    the Women and AIDS support network of Harare, Zimbabwe.

    One in four sexually active women in Zimbabwe is HIV-infected, she
    said. "The situation is catastrophic. It is a life and death issue.
    African women want to try microbicides."

    Microbicides are inserted into the vagina like spermicides and would be
    able to kill the HIV virus carried in the sperm of their male partner.

    Lori Heise, of WHAM, Women's Health Advocates on Microbicides, told the
    seminar that 10 different microbicides were in the development stage
    and that it would take a further five years before they became
    commercial products.

    But major pharmaceutical companies were not interested in developing
    these microbicides since they do not believe they are commercial
    products and fear litigation if they do not have the promised results,
    Heise said.
     
323.568RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Tue Sep 05 1995 14:512
    Unless it has changed in the past two years, women are the group being
    infected with AIDS fastest right here in the gold ol' US.
323.569CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Sep 05 1995 23:3521
   <<< Note 323.567 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>

>    BEIJING (9:02 a.m.) - Women face the bleak reality of being infected by
>    the deadly HIV virus more quickly than men, due in part to their
>    economic dependence on men, 
>    "Women's vulnerability...is linked to their low status in society, and
>    their economic, cultural and social dependence on their male partners,"
>    it said.
    
    	I think it has more to do with them being the catcher rather
    	than the pitcher.

>    Women were almost absent from the pandemic in 1980 of the HIV virus
>    that can cause Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS), but now
>    total as many as eight million.
    
    	If the cause in the statement quoted at the top of this reply
    	is truly the reason for the spread of AIDS among women today, 
    	then should we assume that those conditions for women didn't 
    	exist in 1980 and earlier?  What really changed that made women
    	absent in 1980 but so vulnerable now?
323.570BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 06 1995 02:033

	Joe, I hadn't realized we were talking baseball. :-)
323.571POWDML::HANGGELIPetite Chambre des MauditesWed Sep 06 1995 02:5011
    
    >What really changed that made women
    >absent in 1980 but so vulnerable now?
    
    It was much more a disease of homosexual men in 1980, and they weren't
    pitching to women.
    
    Once it spread to the intravenous drug user sorts, women became
    involved.
    
    
323.572RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Wed Sep 06 1995 13:3510
    That's right.  And no matter how women's involvement got its start, it
    is now spreading by normal sexual contact, from men to women and from
    women to men.  Especially tragic among young people, especially when
    its spread could be prevented by use of condoms.
    
    In parts of Africa where the total infection rate is very high, and
    where homosexuality is virtually unknown, women are at just as high 
    a percentage infection rate as men.
    
    It's everybody's disease now.
323.573BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 06 1995 13:385

	And to add one more thing, with the exception of North America, it has
always been heterosexuals that were in the majority of those who got the
disease. Might be why they took the disease so seriously from the beginning.
323.574CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Sep 06 1995 13:548
    > ...  especially when its spread could be prevented by the use of
    > condoms.
    
    Not exactly true.  The effectiveness of condoms is still in question
    with regards to AIDS.  Though they can't hurt, they may not be nearly
    as helpful as everyone likes to think. 
    
    -steve
323.575CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backWed Sep 06 1995 14:1717
    so Steve,
    
     Are you saying people shouldn't bother with same?  "Gee kids, you are
    going to die and go to hell for your actions anyway, so don't bother
    with the condom, and hurry it up so moralistic dweebs can feel better
    about your deaths." is not exactly what I consider a good message
    either.  
    
    I do look  forward to the development of microbicides.  
    
    Joe the only difference from 1980 is that the women getting infected at
    that point were all in the 3rd world, and the media and many churches
    failed to take notice.  However a friend did bring back a t-shirt from
    some place in Africa in 1985 that referred to AIDS as the white races'
    great hope.  There are really sick humans out there.
    
    meg
323.576RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Wed Sep 06 1995 16:0313
    > Not exactly true.  The effectiveness of condoms is still in question
    > with regards to AIDS.  Though they can't hurt, they may not be nearly
    > as helpful as everyone likes to think.
    
    The only people who are questioning it these days are the religious
    right who want there to be only one way to prevent the spread of 
    HIV -- their way.
    
    Since the democrats gained control of the executive branch, under which
    the Centers for Disease Control operate, the CDC has said that condoms 
    definitely DO work.  During the Bush era they simply refused to say
    anything one way or the other.
    
323.577Re: condoms...TROOA::COLLINSOccam's Paper Towel DispenserWed Sep 06 1995 16:044
    
    The FDA tests every batch.  What sort of qualifications do you think
    that job requires?
    
323.578POLAR::RICHARDSONAREAS is a dirty wordWed Sep 06 1995 16:191
    Urges in your areas?
323.579RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Wed Sep 06 1995 16:461
    Stamina.
323.580BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 06 1995 17:541
nymphos
323.581POLAR::RICHARDSONAREAS is a dirty wordWed Sep 06 1995 18:081
    horny bastiges.
323.582CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Sep 06 1995 18:0911
    re: .575
    
    I never said they shouldn't bother, that's your twist.  I said what I
    said.  If you feel that the information I posted is incorrect, please
    post your reasoning.  
    
    Society pushes condoms as THE answer.  I merely state that they are a
    bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
    
    
    -steve 
323.583CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Sep 06 1995 18:2630
    re: .576 
        
>    The only people who are questioning it these days are the religious
>   right who want there to be only one way to prevent the spread of 
>   HIV -- their way.
    
    Nonsense.  Condoms are not even proof against pregnancy, much less
    against a virus much smaller than sperm.  There are plenty of
    scientific studies out there, if you wish to find out for yourself the
    truth.  Don't take my word for it.
    
    As far as preventing the spread of HIV, there IS only one way that is
    100% effective.  Why is it so bad to state this? Because it also
    happens to coinicide with moral doctrine?  
    
    It would seem to me that if this moral doctrine makes specific mention
    of sexual ethics that could have prevented the epidemic of AIDS,
    perhaps society should give it a second look- especially since ignoring 
    these ethics seems to be the main problem (moving away from our
    historical ethics on sex, which were Biblically-based). 
    
    The only answers society gives is a cover up for the behavior that
    spawns the problems to begin with.  If everyone would follow *just* the
    sexual moral code of the Bible, AIDS would virtually disappear over a
    generation or two.  Is this such a big price to pay for future
    generations?  Judgeing by what I hear, it would seem so.
    
    
    
    -steve
323.584CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backWed Sep 06 1995 19:2224
    Steve,
    
    Since you are admitadly not participating in anything which should
    require a condom I would expect such ignorance from you.  The "studies"
    from the national latex institute or some such thing?  Seems this
    "institute" showed up about the same time certain people began fighting
    condom information in the high-schools.  The message from them is
    exactly what I put in my earlier note.  
    
    The Alan Guttmaker institute, the CDC, and many reproductive health
    agencies have found condoms to be safe, and effective BC, as well as a
    protection against STD's when used correctly.  The instructions are
    simple enough for any-one who can read at a third grade level to
    understand, and most packages now come with visual drawings on the
    instructions as well.  The problem with condoms is that not enough
    people use them consistantly, not that they are being used.  
    
    Giving women another avenue in microbicides, as well as spermicides to
    protect their health, and those of offspring would at least help
    mitigate the fact that far too many "men" are resistant to the one
    non-permanent method of BC and disease protection available to them at
    this time.   
    
    meg
323.585BOXORN::HAYSSome things are worth dying forWed Sep 06 1995 19:4121
RE: 323.583 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha."

> Condoms are not even proof against pregnancy, 

Condoms vastly reduce the rate of pregnancy,  even in the presence of many
thousands of times more sperm than virus.  


> As far as preventing the spread of HIV, there IS only one way that is
> 100% effective.  ... If everyone would follow *just* the sexual moral 
> code of the Bible, AIDS would virtually disappear over a generation or 
> two.  

Ignoring IV drug usage,  if _everyone_ would follow any of a multitude of 
sexual moral codes,  then HIV would completely disappear over time.  Of
course,  NO sexual code is 100% protection for an individual:  There is, 
after all,  no such thing as complete safety.  Most of the possible sexual 
moral codes that would eliminate HIV are non bible based.


Phil
323.586BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 06 1995 20:1019

	Steve, there is NOTHING wrong with saying that the only way that has a
100% rate of noninfection is to abstain from sex. Except that is not a correct
statement. One can have sex with an uninfected partner, and not get any
diseases. 

	I believe what was being talked about, and Mr. Goodwin can correct me
if I am wrong, is that the RR ONLY want the message of abstaining from sex to be
out there. They do NOT want a message that having sex with an uninfected partner
will not cause any diseases from happening. The do NOT want to have a message 
that using condoms will cut the risk of contracting the disease greatly. They 
ONLY ONLY want one message out there. That message deals with their religious
convictions (not having sex before marriage), not with the reality of what is 
going on in the world today. 



Glen
323.587CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backWed Sep 06 1995 20:2715
    Steve,
    
    Would you want someone in an emergency room treating you who didn't
    glove up?  Do you know that the first training in ANY first aid course
    regarding bleeding is to put your LATEX gloves on first?  Given the
    choice of the information from the "latex institute" and that of
    physicians, EMT's, and others involved in universal infection
    procedures, who are at far more risk of contracting a blood-and fluid
    borne infection than I, I will take the advice of the latter.
    
    Of course an alternative for some of us would be never to be in a
    monogomous relationship with a health-care worker.  They are, in fact
    an at-risk group, however low the chances are.
    
    meg
323.588CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Sep 07 1995 14:2627
    re:.586
    
    You are speaking individually, I am speaking generically.  How many
    people really know if their partner is infected?  How many people just
    met their partner that day/week?  How many actually wait until they are
    tested before having sex? 
    
    Though having sex with an uninfected partner will obviously NOT spread
    the disease, it is a strawman argument when applying to the general
    sexual habits of this society.  Once again, you would have to change
    behavior patterns in sexual encounters to insure you do not
    spread/become infected with this disease.  As I've said many times
    before, people do not WISH to change their behaviors, and all will
    suffer for it in one way or another (physically or financially).
    
    I would be happy to see even the change you suggest (insuring that your
    partner is not infected), it is the intelligent thing to do if you are
    going to have sex with them.  And by all means, even if they are not
    tested positive, wear a condom anyway.  You can't be too safe.
    
    Abstinance is still the only 100% way, as tests CAN be wrong.  It is
    possible to be a carrier and not yet test positive (unless you have a
    very expensive test done that actually tests for HIV, rather than the
    inexpensive test that only tests for antibodies).
    
    
    -steve
323.589CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Sep 07 1995 14:309
    Look Meg (and others),
    
    I did not say condoms did not help at all.  I merely state that they
    are not 100%.  I think society relies too heavily on a bandaid
    solution, rather than addressing the main problem.
    
    ymmv.
    
    -steve
323.590RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Thu Sep 07 1995 16:5012
    >Society pushes condoms as THE answer.  I merely state that they are a
    >bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
    
    How do you know what society says?  You are too busy with your own
    abstinence-is-the-only-way rhetoric to listen to anyone else.
    
    Condoms are not THE answer, and nobody has ever said they were.
    
    Condoms can help, and are better than having unprotected sex.  What is
    so awfully difficult for you to understand about that?
    
    And by the way, bandaids work very well.  Don't you use them?
323.591RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Thu Sep 07 1995 16:5810
    >I did not say condoms did not help at all.  I merely state that they
    >are not 100%.  I think society relies too heavily on a bandaid
    >solution, rather than addressing the main problem.
    
    Well then, since abstinence from sex isn't 100% guaranteed to keep you
    alive either (needles, tainted blood, dentists, getting run over by a
    truck, etc. etc. etc.) then I guess it's no use bothering with
    abstinence either, by your reasoning.
    
    
323.592RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Thu Sep 07 1995 16:594
    Actually, AIDS has me so scared, when I have sex I use two condoms,
    rubber gloves, and a surgical mask.  And that's when I'm by myself!
    
    						- Rodney Dangerfield
323.593BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 07 1995 17:3555
| <<< Note 323.588 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| You are speaking individually, I am speaking generically.  

	Then state it as such when ya write! :-)

| How many people really know if their partner is infected? How many people just
| met their partner that day/week? How many actually wait until they are tested 
| before having sex?

	You can write all that above, but then can say no to condoms? The above
is true. Many don't know about their partner if they just met them. Yet knowing
that, you feel condoms should not be talked about, or handed out in schools? I
know the claim to fame is if you talk about the condoms they will think sex is
ok. Yet you know the above, know that people are going to anyway, but want to
do nothing to help the situation. Astinance will help. It is far from 100%
effective because it is only as effective as the amount of people who use it.
You know the above is still going to be there, so why not mention condoms as
well?

| Though having sex with an uninfected partner will obviously NOT spread the 
| disease, it is a strawman argument when applying to the general sexual habits 
| of this society.  

	I never said anything like that. I was applying it to your comment that
abstinance is the only thing that is 100% effective. It is not. At the top of
this note you did explain what you meant though, but that wasn't listed until
after my note.

| Once again, you would have to change behavior patterns in sexual encounters 
| to insure you do not spread/become infected with this disease.  

	Your way seems to be that they just stop. The perfect way yes, but
unrealistic. Wearing a condom would be changing lots of people's behaviours.

| I would be happy to see even the change you suggest (insuring that your 
| partner is not infected), it is the intelligent thing to do if you are going 
| to have sex with them.  

	I agree with you 100%.

| Abstinance is still the only 100% way, as tests CAN be wrong.  

	Steve, you don't go with one test......

| It is possible to be a carrier and not yet test positive (unless you have a
| very expensive test done that actually tests for HIV, rather than the
| inexpensive test that only tests for antibodies).

	Steve, don't know which test the Fenway or my Doctor uses. All I know
is if I were to have had sex with someone, I would know within 3 months time if
I became HIV+.


Glen
323.594CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Sep 07 1995 17:5429
     re: .590
    
>    >Society pushes condoms as THE answer.  I merely state that they are a
>    >bandaid solution at best, and at worst is a false sense of security.
        
>    How do you know what society says?  You are too busy with your own
>    abstinence-is-the-only-way rhetoric to listen to anyone else.
 
    You seem to be taking offense to my view, to the point of not reading
    what I've said very well.  Perhaps it is the way that I said it? 
    In any case, nothing I wrote above is dishonest, nor misleading. 
    If you have watched any program, any commercial (public health service
    types), seen the adds in magazines, etc.; you will see the main thrust
    of the anti-AIDS campaign is condoms.  For every time I've seen/hear
    the word "abstinance", I've seen/heard "condom" 50 times.
    
    I believe the condom message is self-defeating in the long run.  It's
    not that it can't or won't HELP, it's just that the message itself
    tends to give folks a "carry on" attitude in their sex lives, which
    will, IMO, come back to haunt many.
       
>    Condoms can help, and are better than having unprotected sex.  What is
>    so awfully difficult for you to understand about that?
 
    Nothing at all.  I have even said as much.  You have obviously missed
    the point in your tirade against my view.
       
    
    -steve
323.595CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Sep 07 1995 18:0914
    re: .593
    
    Glen,
    
    Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic?  If society
    were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other dibilitating
    STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)  Do we
    really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we?  If we
    do, how can we no concentrate on "the perfect way"?
    
    I guess I have a different perspective than most.
    
    
    -steve
323.596RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Thu Sep 07 1995 18:147
    I wonder if there were people during the black plague or other major
    plagues in the history of humankind, who thought that attempts by
    doctors or scientists to find cures or preventions were the devil's
    work, and that if only people would listen to their religious leaders,
    then they would find safety.
    
    I wonder where we would be today if everyone had listened to them.
323.597CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Sep 07 1995 19:021
    And your point is?  {he asks curiously}
323.598COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Sep 07 1995 19:2414
re .-2

Of course, that isn't what's happening.

Noone is saying that attempts to find cures or prevention are wrong.

What is being said is that there is currently no cure and no 100%
prevention other than abstinence.  And that's the truth.

And what is wrong is telling people that condoms are prevention, when
in typical usage (which is never ideal) they'll only prevent transmission
of bodily fluids about 80% of the time.

/john
323.599BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 07 1995 20:2617
| <<< Note 323.595 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic?  

	When I stated that one could have sex with an uninfected partner and
not contract the disease, you went on about how people don't even ask, or just
met the person, etc. That shows me that you're able to see the reasons why
right there. Yet you seem blinded to it with abstinence.

| I guess I have a different perspective than most.

	One that deals with what would be the best thing (preventing AIDS), but
not one that uses an approach that is realistic. 


Glen
323.600CSLALL::HENDERSONI'd rather have JesusThu Sep 07 1995 21:114


 Safe Snarf
323.601TROOA::TRP109::Chrisparadigm shifting w/out a clutchThu Sep 07 1995 21:121
Jim, nothing is 100% safe!
323.602BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 02:0918
    Printed with the permission of the "NAMESletter", a Names Project
    newsletter; vol 8, no 3, Fall 1995
    
    AIDS Facts
    
    *The World Health Organization estimates 4.5 million cases and 3
    million deaths.
    
    *AIDS is now the leading cause of death among Americans age 25-44.
    *It is the sixth leading cause of death among 15-24 year olds in the
    US.
    *AIDS cases among American women are increasing by 17% a year.
    *Worldwide, women are the fastest-growing group with new HIV
    infections.
    *3,000 women a day become HIV-infected.
    *Around the world, 500 women a day die from AIDS.
    *By the year 2000, the cumulative total of HIV infections in men, women
    and children around the world will be 30-40 million.
323.603SCAS01::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Fri Sep 08 1995 06:131
    Operative word : worldwide.
323.604BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 13:391
<----- and you were going with that where?????
323.605SCAS01::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Fri Sep 08 1995 15:596
    <----- I was going worldwide.
    
    The report doesn't break anything down by country, geographic region,
    etc...or else that isn't the whole report.  Besides I'm at all
    confident with the WHO, considering their previous extrapolation
    of data in other cases.
323.606CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Sep 08 1995 17:4823
    Note 323.599
        
    Glen, you missed a few questions (the hard ones).  How about taking a
    shot at them?
    
>    Why is "the perfect way" (in your own words) not realistic?  
    
    You answered this, but ignored the next sentence which gives it better
    context to my point: 
    
>    If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other 
>    dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)  
    
    
    
>    Do we really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we?  
>    If we do, how can we not concentrate on "the perfect way"?
 
    These were not answered, either.  Best to keep them together, since
    the last question is contextually dependent on the other.
       
                                                           
    -steve
323.607CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backFri Sep 08 1995 18:1916
    Steve,
    
    As has already been pointed out to you, abstinence is not 100%
    prevention for AIDS, it only prevents you from catching it through
    sexual exchange of infected bodily fluids.  It does not protect you
    from a dentist who is sloppy with sterilization, and endoscope (which
    can not be heat treated at this point and the cemicals used to
    "sterilize" the endoscopy tube are useless against HIV.)  It doesn't
    protect you if you try to give aid to a bleeding stranger or friend who
    might be HIV+.  It doesn't prevent your being one of the unlucky few
    whose bone, organ, or blood donor hadn't yet shown up as HIV+, or whose
    screening showed a false negative, when you had surgery.  It certainly
    doesn't protect you in the case of coerced sex, something women are far
    too familiar with.  
    
    meg
323.608OUTSRC::HEISERwatchman on the wallFri Sep 08 1995 18:241
    ...doesn't protect you from mosquitos either.
323.609SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Fri Sep 08 1995 18:287
    
    re: .607
    
    meg,
    
     The key to your whole reply was the two words "unlucky few"...
    
323.610MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Sep 08 1995 18:314
>    ...doesn't protect you from mosquitos either.

What the hell is that supposed to mean?

323.611EVMS::MORONEYDANGER Do Not Walk on CeilingFri Sep 08 1995 18:321
Catching AIDS from mosquitoes is an urban legend.
323.612CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Sep 08 1995 18:387
    	Meg, since the issue of abstinence was raised to compare it's
    	effectiveness against condoms, you would not be fair if you
    	did not ask your same questions with respect to condoms...
    
    	And regarding the possibility of getting AIDS from your dentist,
    	the discussion around .231 seems to suggest otherwise.  Y'all
    	need to get your act together on this point, it seems...
323.613BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 19:5313
| <<< Note 323.605 by SCAS01::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!" >>>


| The report doesn't break anything down by country, geographic region,
| etc...or else that isn't the whole report.  Besides I'm at all
| confident with the WHO, considering their previous extrapolation
| of data in other cases.


	Errr.... the majority of the report was about the US.


Glen
323.614BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 19:5725
| <<< Note 323.606 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>



| >    If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other
| >    dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)

	Jim, it is not too much to ask, and it should be asked. But don't
expect it to happen. Do you think if you went out there now and asked everyone
who isn't married to stop having sex that they all would listen? What of those
who some Christian denominations won't allow to get married for <insert a
number of reasons>, or those who don't believe in religion and just want to
live together. You think you're gonna reach them? Not to mention those who are
only interested in getting laid period. Ask, but man, don't expect it.

| >    Do we really want to do EVERYTHING we can to stop AIDS, or don't we?
| >    If we do, how can we not concentrate on "the perfect way"?

	Because it is not the perfect way. People being responsible is the
perfect way. If everyone was responsible, then it wouldn't matter if people
were married or not. No one would be infected. 



Glen
323.615BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 19:597
| <<< Note 323.610 by MOLAR::DELBALSO "I (spade) my (dogface)" >>>

| >    ...doesn't protect you from mosquitoes either.

| What the hell is that supposed to mean?

	Maybe he is talking about anatomy here..... :-)
323.616CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Sep 08 1995 19:597
    Okay Meg, 100% proof against obtaining STDs in the usual manner.  If
    you like, you can change it to 98-99% total effectiveness, if it makes 
    you feel better.  It is ignoring the very essense of my point, but what 
    the heck, no one really seems to be interested in my point, anyway.  
    
    
    -steve               
323.617BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 08 1995 20:036
| <<< Note 323.616 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| It is ignoring the very essense of my point, but what the heck, no one really 
| seems to be interested in my point, anyway.

	You're just noticing this now??? Wow....:-)
323.618SCAS01::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Fri Sep 08 1995 20:183
    .613
    
    Gee...are we the only country, geographic region, etc ?
323.619POLAR::RICHARDSONBaddy 48 shoesFri Sep 08 1995 20:201
    Well a lot of you seem to think so.
323.620re:606 What's this, `anything to save one life?'ALPHAZ::HARNEYJohn A HarneyFri Sep 08 1995 20:4717
re: .306 (Steve)
    
>    If society were really interested in doing away with AIDS (and other 
>    dibilitating STDs), why is abstinance too much to ask? (outside marriage)  
    
"If society were really interested in doing away with automobile accidents
(and other traffic fatalities), why is a 5mph absolute speed limit too much
to ask?"

The price is too high.  We can attempt to control it, and to reduce the harm,
but we can never eliminate it.  Extra-marital activities have been going
on since the beginning of recorded time.  Your way WILL NOT WORK.  No
matter how much we want to get rid of AIDS.  We must sadly restort to
treating the symptoms, but there is NO OTHER WAY.

Abstinance is only part of the message.  No two ways about it.
\john
323.621RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Fri Sep 08 1995 20:5618
    .612 .616
    
    OK, then let's compare a couple of things:
    
    Hey guys, abstaining from using automobiles will have the same effect
    on your chances of dying in a car as abstaining from sex will have on
    your chances of dying from AIDS.
    
    So what?
    
    The problem is that your chances of getting everyone to abstain from
    using cars is about the same as your chances of getting everyone to
    abstain from sex.
    
    So we have seatbelts and airbags, and we have condoms.
    
    This is a religious issue, and you know it, and we know it, so it's
    really no use trying to pretend otherwise.  You're not fooling anyone.
323.622DASHER::RALSTONIdontlikeitsojuststopit!!Fri Sep 08 1995 21:2811
    >no one really seems to be interested in my point
    
    I think most understand and are interested in your point Steve. If I'm
    not mistaken your point is that abstinence would eventually eliminate
    AIDS and other STDs (or is that 98-99%). Some boxers point out that this 
    isn't the case. They make good arguments. From experience in the box,
    other boxers know that the issue with you is premarital sex. You think
    it immoral and against god's laws, which makes it a religious issue. It
    is difficult to see you making any arguments that don't stem from your
    religious beliefs. FWIW, your abstinence point makes sense, but is
    very impractical.
323.623CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 13:2412
    re:  .620
    
    I disagree.  It has worked in the past, and can work again.  The
    problem is, we are not WILLING to make the effort. 
    
    I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen,
    and have always happened; but they were the exception to the rule.  Are
    you saying the rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in
    the past?
    
    
    -steve  
323.624BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 13:3239
| <<< Note 323.623 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| I disagree. It has worked in the past, and can work again. The problem is, we 
| are not WILLING to make the effort.

	Let's see.... which is more likely to happen. 

Scenerio 1:

	Everyone!!!!  You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!



Scenerio 2:

	Everyone!!!! You must become responsible with sex!




	While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
try to make them abstain altogether. Look at it now. People have become more
responsible. Being responsible is a 100% way to stop the spread of diseases. 

| I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen, and have 
| always happened; but they were the exception to the rule. Are you saying the 
| rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in the past?

	To begin with, being responsible will cover the above. Your abstaining
till marriage is a lot of bunk, as it does not cover everyone. Those who can
not marry, will not be covered. And I am talking about more than just
homosexuals. 



Glen
323.625CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backMon Sep 11 1995 13:4722
    Steve,
    
    Are Syphilis, Gonnoreah, and Clamydia 20th century inventions?  The
    "treatment" for syphilis in the Victorian England was sexual
    intercourse with a virgin girl, generally well under what we consider
    the age of consent.  
    
    Preaching abstinence has not worked in the past, and there is no reason
    to believe it will change peoples' behaviors in this day and age. 
    Education on prevention, including abstinence, safer sex procedures and
    universal fluid exchange precautions has lowered the spread of AIDS,
    gonnoreah, syphilis and a host of other nasties in the highest risk
    groups in the US.  Unfortunately that word is not being spread to the
    vast majority of people, particularly youngsters where STD spread is at
    a very high rate.  Far too many hear the message that condoms might
    fail and use no precautions, furthering the spread of STD's and unwanted
    pregnancies, where the use of condoms, potential use of microbicides,
    combined with spermicides might just help to stop this.  
    
    meg
    
    meg
323.626CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 13:5171
    re: .622
    
>    I think most understand and are interested in your point Steve. 
    
    So far, the only interest I've seen has to do with telling me that it
    won't work.
    
>    If I'm
>    not mistaken your point is that abstinence would eventually eliminate
>    AIDS and other STDs (or is that 98-99%).
    
    Yup.
    
>     Some boxers point out that this 
>    isn't the case. They make good arguments. 
    
    I disagree.  The arguments to the contrary merely back up my assertion that
    people are unwilling to take AIDS seriously enough.
    
>    From experience in the box,
>    other boxers know that the issue with you is premarital sex.  You think
>    it immoral and against god's laws, which makes it a religious issue. 
    
    Premarrital sex is undoubtedly the major issue, simply because this is
    the main thrust of the problem of spreading AIDS- any way you look at
    it.  I don't need to even bring up my moral stance on this issue, the
    facts speak plenty loud to me without any religious filters whatsoever. 
    The fact that it IS against God's law, merely backs up my faith in
    God's word, as I see the results of ignoring His word.
    
    What I argue for need not even be religion related- but one of simple
    logic.  We know what causes the spread of AIDS.  We know how to avoid
    catching it.  Why not put this knowledge to good use?  We won't change
    behaviors over night, but if we start with the younger generations and
    stress this solution, AIDS will virtually vanish as this becomes THE
    THING to do.
    
>    It is difficult to see you making any arguments that don't stem from your
>    religious beliefs. FWIW, your abstinence point makes sense, but is
>    very impractical.
    
    Where it stems from is irrelevent.  The question you should ask is
    "is this a logical, effective solution to the problem?".  You say it
    makes sense, but is very impractical.  Why is this impractical?  
    
    Look at it logically:
    
    * It is free- no monetary cost involved (unless you wish to count
    educational peripherals, which would be very cost effective in the long
    run).
    
    * It is simple- even the dimmest bulb can comprehend it.
    
    * It is nearly 100% effective- the MOST effective plan available.
    
    * It would have other good side-effects in society.
    
    * It is moral.
    
    * It is safe and reliable.
    
    No, it is not impractical, it is very practical.  The only way it can
    fail is if people do not care enough about themselves or society to
    make the effort.  We cannot say it will fail until we've really  tried
    to implement this solution.  Simply saying it won't work doesn't cut
    it.  It DID work in the past, for the most part (there are always
    exceptions, and there always will be- as long as they are exceptions,
    and not the rule, we will be in good shape as a society).
    
    
    -steve  
323.627preaching abstinance DID work in the past in this nationCSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 13:5911
    re: .625
    
    You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter.  The epidemic
    proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
    considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).  
    
    You suggest that we ignore the behavioral aspect and concentrate on the
    bandaid.  I disagree with placing the priority on the bandaid.
    
    
    -steve
323.628BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 14:0217
| <<< Note 323.627 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter.  

	And you are completely ignoring that being responsible has a far better
chance of succeeding than abstinance does. You're also ignoring that being
responsible has the same 100% chance that abstinance does. Why do you keep
ignoring these things?

| I disagree with placing the priority on the bandaid.

	Then why don't you embrace the responsibility thing? It is not a
bandaid.


Glen
323.629RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Mon Sep 11 1995 14:039
    I'd sure like to see the results of an *independent* survey that would
    show how many people who were brought up in a Christian tradition
    have sex outside of marriage, as opposed to how many non-Christians do.
    
    Bet that would settle a lot of these arguments real quick.
    
    Since we have such a *big* problem with immoral sexual activity in this
    country (according to some people), I wonder whether the majority of
    people in this country are Christians or non-Christians.  Anybody know?
323.630COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Sep 11 1995 14:214
The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians
who have not completely lived up to the calling.

/john
323.631My belief is only God could ever live up to the callingBIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 14:2916
| <<< Note 323.630 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians who 
| have not completely lived up to the calling.

	I know the numbers say that the majority of people in this country
claim to be Christians. But what I always find pretty amusing is that many 
Christians will use these numbers to prove that this is a Christian nation, but 
will also say that not everyone who claims to be a Christian, is. So how can 
they ever use those numbers to begin with? 

	But as an aside, I don't believe any Christian can live up to the
calling due to free will. imho


Glen
323.632MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Sep 11 1995 14:3428
re: .627, Steve

>    You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter.  The epidemic
>    proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
>    considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).  

Actually, it has far less to do with behavioral changes than it has
to do with "our shrinking planet". It's not at all unlikely for a
carrier of the HIV to be boinking/sharing needles on five different
continents in the space of a week (recall the theories about the
original vector into North America - a flight attendant.) There are
no studies which prove that behavioral changes are strictly, or even
primarily, responsible, regardless of your desire to use that argument
to bolster your moral campaign. 50 years ago, the same sort of
carrier was much less likely to be sharing bodily fluids on a worldwide
basis, but he was just as likely to spread it at home.

And, for the same reason, your moral campaign will not cause AIDS to
"virtually vanish". There are ripe, nasty, teeming pockets of the
disease all over the world at this point. Your goal to "preach and
teach" to all of them to solve this problem, is an unrealisable one.

A preventative vaccine is the only realistic way in which this health
problem will eventually get permanently solved. Just as was the case
with Poliomyelitis. In the mean time, concentrating on things that can
help (including education, condoms, and abstinence) is advised, however
touting one course, at the expense of pushing another behind the door,
is foolhardy at best.
323.633CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 14:3764
    re: .624
    
>Scenerio 1:

>	Everyone!!!!  You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
>not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!

    You are knee-jerking, Glen.

>	While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
>that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
>try to make them abstain altogether. 
    
    As long as you are concentrating on pushing condoms, rather than
    changing loose mentalities regarding sex, I agree.
    
>    Look at it now. People have become more
>responsible. Being responsible is a 100% way to stop the spread of diseases. 

    Assuming people have become more responsible, why is the number of AIDS
    cases expected to increase so dramatically over the next few years? 
    Seems so-called "responsible" sex isn't too awfully effective (and
    remember, "responsible sex" campaigns have been around for a while now).
    
| I realize that extra-marital affairs, pre-marrital sex, etc. happen, and have 
| always happened; but they were the exception to the rule. Are you saying the 
| rule should continue to be opposite to what worked in the past?

>	To begin with, being responsible will cover the above. 
    
    Not according to the numbers, it won't.  As I said above (granting you
    your point on "responsible sex"), AIDS cases are going to increase
    dramatically over the next few years, according to the experts.
    
>    Your abstaining
>till marriage is a lot of bunk, as it does not cover everyone. Those who can
>not marry, will not be covered. And I am talking about more than just
>homosexuals. 

    No, it isn't bunk.  It is REALITY, Glen.  If we are serious about
    stopping this deadly disease, then this is the BEST solution- along with
    checking for HIV in the blood-tests of those getting married (which may
    already be a reality).
    
    Those who cannot marry, can abstain for the good of society (ooh, I
    know this one grates, but life is hard, no?).  Abstaining beats the
    hell out of getting AIDS and dying a horrible death.  Society would 
    benefit greatly by reducing future AIDS cases, which would curtail 
    the massive increases predicted for medical expenditures- both personal 
    and governmental. The disease would virtually vanish over
    the course of one generation.  [FWIW, this is not just me spouting off
    words I'll never have to live with.  I do not know that I will ever
    get married, so this certainly includes me now, and possibly forever;
    I'm willing to do this for myself and society.]
    
    Abstinance IS taking sexual responsibility for oneself.  It is not
    popular, but it is THE most effective solution, by far,
    than anything else.  To not at least make a good effort at implementing
    this solution is irresponsible and illogical.  It's akin to trying to
    prevent debt by only using low-intrest rate credit cards, rather than
    saving up the cash to buy the desired product.
    
    
    -steve
323.634CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 14:383
    re: .629
    
    How is this relevent to the current string?
323.635BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 15:11106
| <<< Note 323.633 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| >Scenerio 1:

| >	Everyone!!!!  You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
| >not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!

| You are knee-jerking, Glen.

	Steve, please tell me what is false about the above comment. You are
stating you want all sex to stop before marriage, correct? There are many people
in this world who would not fall under the marriage umbrella. Whether it be due
to their having a divorce, being gay, etc. For those people, they can never
have sex under your plan, correct? If the answer is yes to both, then were is
the knee jerking?

| >	While I believe you will never get 100% out of either, I do believe
| >that you will get more people to be responsible with sex than you will if you
| >try to make them abstain altogether.

| As long as you are concentrating on pushing condoms, rather than changing 
| loose mentalities regarding sex, I agree.

	Tell me how you can have a plan that is 100% effective, and that 100%
of the people will go with. Then, if you would, please tell me which plan do
you think the people of this world are more likely to follow:

	1) Abstinance
	2) Being responsible with sex

| Assuming people have become more responsible, why is the number of AIDS cases 
| expected to increase so dramatically over the next few years?

	Cuz the straight people of the world had the mentality that AIDS was a
gay disease, and it wouldn't happen to them. So now their numbers are soreing.
Now people are getting the message, and the numbers will drop. Look at the gay
community. The numbers had sored. They came out with the responsibility
message. The numbers eventually dropped. They have just come out with a new
campaign for responsibility. Something I think you need to do. Fresh keeps it
in the minds of people. 

| Seems so-called "responsible" sex isn't too awfully effective (and remember, 
| "responsible sex" campaigns have been around for a while now).

	Steve, the, "it can't happen to me" scenerio comes into play here. I do
believe this attitude is changing though.

	Steve, when the gay community first came out with the responsibility
message, the numbers still rose for a while. Main reason is within the big
cities, it was easy to get the message out. In the burbs, it's much harder, or
used to be anyway. Plus people don't always listen right away. Sometimes it
takes a slap in the face to wake them up. And lastly, a campaign can start, but
it takes time to have any effect.

	Now, with what you wrote above, how many of those people do you think
would have abstained? Do you think it would be higher than those who were
responsible? (btw, being responsible means you know your partner is not
infected)

| >	To begin with, being responsible will cover the above.

| Not according to the numbers, it won't. 

	Gee.... if Sally meets Dave, and they decide to have sex that night,
what would be the responsible thing to do? Wait until you KNOW what the other
persons status is. How will that not stop the spread of the disease? How is
that not 100% effective?

| No, it isn't bunk. It is REALITY, Glen. If we are serious about stopping this 
| deadly disease, then this is the BEST solution- along with checking for HIV 
| in the blood-tests of those getting married (which may already be a reality).

	If you are serious about stopping the disease, people have to be
responsible before they have sex. 

| Those who cannot marry, can abstain for the good of society (ooh, I know this 
| one grates, but life is hard, no?).  

	Abstain for the good of society? That's pretty funny. Have you ever
heard anyone say that two people who are not infected can have sex and never
spread the disease? So uninfected people should abstain for the good of
society? That's ridiculous because they aren't going to cause any harm to
society. Steve, is it religious convictions that is driving this? There are two 
ways that I can think of that make having sex not spreadable for diseases. 
Abstinance, and being responsible. You seem to be able to only embrace one of 
the two versions. Again, is it because your religious convictions only allow 
you to? If you were really serious about this, why wouldn't you embrace both 
100% effective ways? If you were really serious about this, why wouldn't you 
embrace something that has a greater chance of beating the disease than 
abstinance because it would be more likely to have more people accept. But you 
don't seem to be able to do that. Religious convictions?

| Abstinance IS taking sexual responsibility for oneself.  

	That is ONE way to be responsible. It is NOT the ONLY way though that
has a 100% effective rate.

| It is not popular, but it is THE most effective solution, by far, than 
| anything else.  

	That is not true. Knowing your partners status is at a 100% level like
abstinance. They are the same, not different.



Glen
323.636and around and around and around and around....GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA memberMon Sep 11 1995 15:232
    
    Do I hear the clicking of needles again, Deb?
323.637POLAR::RICHARDSONDarwinian TrilateralismMon Sep 11 1995 15:301
    This type of recidivism is acceptable.
323.63843GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceMon Sep 11 1995 16:136
    Meg:
    
    Spermacides are not for everyone. The package describes problems for
    women, but not for men...
    
    Steve
323.639RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Mon Sep 11 1995 16:2212
    >> Everyone!!!!  You must stop all sex until you get married. If you are
    >> not elligable for marriage, you can forget about ever having sex!
    
    > You are knee-jerking, Glen.
    
    What, you don't agree with that now?
    
    If that's not what you're saying, then what excatly ARE you saying?
    
    I think Glen paraphrased you very accurately.  The fact that you don't
    like it merely indicates that you finally understand what it really
    means.
323.640RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Mon Sep 11 1995 16:3223
    >The majority of people in this country (myself included) are Christians
    >who have not completely lived up to the calling.
    
    So how do they figure the abstinence message is going to work on
    everyone else if it doesn't even work on themselves?
    
    They don't care  $his is just another case of the good old hypocracy
    at work -- give people a mandate they are unlikely or unwilling to
    follow, then when they fail to obey it, if they have a problem, you can
    step back and self-righteously proclaim, "See I told you so.  If you
    had just listened to me...".
    
    It's a good technique if you're a religious leader -- means you don't 
    have to offer the flock anything of value, and can blame everything that 
    goes wrong in the world on their failure to live up to your so-called 
    standards.  But it only works if you make sure to demand of them things
    they will never be able to comply with.
    
    That technique also has the happy side effect of keeping people on a
    continuous guilt trip, for which you also happen to offer some relief,
    so they'll stick with you, without which you'd be out of business.
    
                                             
323.641CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backMon Sep 11 1995 16:4141
    Steve,
    
    The only person who seems to think including condoms and responsible
    sexual behavior means encouraging people to boff whoever, and whenever 
    they wish seems to be you and others who follow with the abstinence
    only message as the only message.  What a rich fantasy life some people
    must lead about us "immoral," unmarried humans who also happen to be
    sexually active.  \
    
    With a few glaring exceptions most of the single nonabstinent people I
    know are careful, aware of their HIV/HPV status, and use protections of 
    varying forms, condoms and nonoxynol 9 combinations being the most used
    around the people I know. The glaring exceptions are/were glaring
    exceptions when they were officially in a monogamous relationship,
    sanctioned by the state and church.  Marriage doesn't automatically
    make nonmonogomous people behave in a monogomous fashion, anymore than
    nonmarriage makes many of us slaves to our hormones, another fantasy
    many people have about single, nonabstinent people.  
    
    Teaching responsibility is more likely to result in long-term
    relationships and better use of safer-sex methods, including abstinence
    than trying to convince people that sex is evyl and nasty until the
    minute you have nailed down another human with a piece of paper that
    has a legal/religious sanction for boffing.  The abstinence only
    message has led kids to being "carried away by the moment," which
    doesn't lead to use of even the most basic protections available.  I
    shudder to think about how many STD's have also been transferred
    because of this message and the irresponsible actions following the
    breakdown of the message.  
    
    My experience with the teen I did raise was that factual information,
    along with a pointer to where certain devices were in the house, and
    the availability of being able to make an appointment with my doctor
    without my knowlege actually did more to delay the beginnings of sexual
    activity than the lectures about waiting until marriage did for me.  It
    also worked for other parents who raised daughters and sons with the
    responsibility messages. I expect it will work with the next two as
    well, and this should reduce the guilt and side effects when/if they do
    decide to become nonabstinent.  
    
    meg
323.642CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 18:5673
     Note 323.632, MOLAR::DELBALSO 
    
>>    You are completely ignoring statistics on the matter.  The epidemic
>>    proportions of STD's is a modern drama (and no big surprise,
>>    considering the behavioral changes over the last 30 years).  

>Actually, it has far less to do with behavioral changes than it has
>to do with "our shrinking planet". 
    
    Though new STDs can be introduced to the US via the "shrinking
    planet" scenario, the only way it can spread to epidemic proportions is
    by the behavioral changes I mentioned.  Look at the rates of Gonorhea
    (sp?), Syphillis, and other STDs that we have statistics for over the
    last 30-40 years.  The only thing that can account for the expanded
    rates is behavior.  Even if AIDS did come from Africa, from a world
    traveller (or whatever), only our behaviors can spread it.
    
>    There are
>no studies which prove that behavioral changes are strictly, or even
>primarily, responsible, regardless of your desire to use that argument
>to bolster your moral campaign. 
    
    I don't know if there is a study or not (I bet there is), but in
    reality we don't need one.  Common sense should suffice.  Regardless of
    how many STDs are brought into this nation, they can only be spread via
    a certain behavior.  The looser that behavior, the more people that
    will contract the diseases.  This is not rocket science. 
    
>    50 years ago, the same sort of
>carrier was much less likely to be sharing bodily fluids on a worldwide
>basis, but he was just as likely to spread it at home.

    But not as likely to spread it to epiedemic proportions.  If you think
    this is not a behaivorally-driven epidemic, you are sadly mistaken.
    
>And, for the same reason, your moral campaign will not cause AIDS to
>"virtually vanish". There are ripe, nasty, teeming pockets of the
>disease all over the world at this point. 
    
    Actually, your "teeming pockets of disease" is the very reason why my
    espousing abstinance IS the most effective way.  Even if they find a
    cure for AIDS, something else is likely to take its place (in the STD
    realm).  The only reason my "moral campaign" will not work, is that we,
    as a nation, are unwilling to curb our behavior FOR OUR OWN GOOD. 
    Forget religion, it isn't about religion at all.  I'm talking about
    SAVING LIVES. 
    
>    Your goal to "preach and
>teach" to all of them to solve this problem, is an unrealisable one.

    You may be right.  But I will promote what works best.  It's up to the
    individual to decide if they want to heed me.  I don't propose to make
    laws or try to control people in any way, only to tell them that there
    is a way to NOT get AIDS.  It is 100% effective (exepting the few
    non-sexually contracted cases).  That condoms are not a cure all, they
    do not equal "safe sex", but they do help reduce your chances of
    contracting AIDS (I won't ignore condoms, but I refuse to STRESS the
    bandaid solution).  If we stress this message, and back it up as a
    society, then we will make headway.
     
>In the mean time, concentrating on things that can
>help (including education, condoms, and abstinence) is advised, however
>touting one course, at the expense of pushing another behind the door,
>is foolhardy at best.
    
    Who's doing this?  I've never said "don't teach about condoms".  You
    will not find this phrase in any of my notes.  What I'm tired of is the
    prominance placed on condoms (the bandaid solution) over the most
    effective prevention technique (abstinance).  We have our priorities
    out of whack, and that's why I'm on my soapbox (so to speak).
    
    
    -steve
323.643CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 19:106
    re: .639
    
    It was the wording that hinted at knee-jerk, not the message itself.
    
    
    -steve
323.644sorry, couldn't get past that one sentence...CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Sep 11 1995 19:134
    re: .641
    
    EGAD!!!  NOT THE "SEX IS EVYL AND NASTY" STRAWMAN AGAIN!!! 
    AAAARRGGHHH!!!  
323.645BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 19:477
| <<< Note 323.643 by CSOA1::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| It was the wording that hinted at knee-jerk, not the message itself.

	Was that why you didn't address it? By the above I get the feeling you
got the jist of what was being said. Is this true?
323.646BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 11 1995 19:486

	Steve, if you have time, please address .635. Thanks.


Glen
323.647CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Sat Sep 16 1995 16:515
    	re .624
    
    	So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.
    
    	Does it still include serial monogamy?
323.648CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Sat Sep 16 1995 17:0129
   <<< Note 323.625 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>

>    Preaching abstinence has not worked in the past, 
    
    	You repeat it a lot, but you really only present words.  Sure, 
    	there were always transgressions against the moral codes, but
    	nothing like the rates we have today.  Preaching abstinence
    	*DID* work.  There are far fewer people entering marriage today
    	as virgins than there were in the past.  There are far more teens
    	getting STDs, far more out-of-wedlock pregnancies, far more
    	abortions.  And far less "preaching" of abstinence.
    
    	Your words ring hollow.
    
>    Education on prevention, including abstinence, safer sex procedures and
>    universal fluid exchange precautions has lowered the spread of AIDS,
>    gonnoreah, syphilis and a host of other nasties in the highest risk
>    groups in the US.  
    
    	And those high risk groups now rejoice in the spread of it to
    	other groups as the burden of the disease is diluted from being
    	primarily on their shoulders.  But the spread continues, and THAT
    	is what really matters!  Education has NOT stopped the spread.
    
>    Far too many hear the message that condoms might
>    fail and use no precautions, 
    
    	Where did you come up with this one?  Please provide some support
    	for this statement.
323.649CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Sat Sep 16 1995 17:0410
   <<< Note 323.641 by CSC32::M_EVANS "nothing's going to bring him back" >>>

>    than trying to convince people that sex is evyl and nasty until the
>    minute you have nailed down another human with a piece of paper that
>    has a legal/religious sanction for boffing.
    
    	How sad that this is the only thing you see in marriage.
    	Society has failed you if that's all you see, and to the
    	extent that this viewpoint is growing today, society has 
    	failed us all in this area.
323.650COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertSat Sep 16 1995 23:3564
Condoms Don't Work

Despite the positive estimation of condoms offered by past U.S. surgeon
generals and the Centers for Disease Control (CDC), scientific research shows
that condoms don't work.  Laboratory testing and real-life use have proven
condoms to be failures. Since determining what is a "failure" can be a matter
of opinion, a summary analysis of the research might help.

Dr. Ronald F. Carey, a researcher for the Food and Drug Administration, tested
89 condoms in a machine that simulates sexual intercourse. The condoms were
purchased from retail store shelves and represented major brands. Carey found
that "leakage of HIV-sized particles...was detectable for as many as 29 of 89
condoms" in quantities sufficient to cause infection.4

Dr. Susan Weller of the University of Texas conducted an analysis of 11
separate studies regarding condom efficacy in actual use. Collectively, these
studies show that latex condoms had an average failure rate of 31 percent in
protecting against HIV.5 Weller explains, "Since contraceptive research
indicates condoms are about 90 percent effective in preventing pregnancy, many
people, even physicians, assume condoms prevent HIV transmission with the same
degree of effectiveness. However, HIV transmission studies do not show this to
be true."

Dr. Richard Gordon, associate professor in the Departments of Botany,
Radiology, Electrical Engineering and Physics at the University of Manitoba,
concurs with Weller.

There is "already sufficient quantitative evidence to indicate that condoms, as
presently manufactured, are inadequate from the point of the individual for
lifetime protection for the AIDS epidemic, even with training and high
motivation," Gordon said.6

People Don't Use Condoms

Even if condom makers created the "golden condom" that did work perfectly, it
still would not solve the problem of STDs. The simple reason is that people
don't use them, even with high motivation and quality education. This fact
consistently comes up in research.

Family Planning Perspectives, a former affiliate journal of Planned Parenthood,
reports that "only 17 percent of those with multiple sexual partners and 13
percent of those with risky sexual partners used condoms all of the
time... Among respondents with risky partners, 13 percent reported high use, 4
percent reported moderate use and 70 percent reported no use."7 Dr. Kate Stone,
medical epidemiologist for the CDC, recently stated, "Despite CDC's heavy
promotion of condom use, people are not using them."8

Two particular studies9 widely cited by the CDC, both involving heterosexual,
monogamous couples where one partner was HIV positive and the other negative,
reveal much about the habits of condom usage. To participate in the studies,
couples were required to receive aggressive safe sex counseling. Given these
very favorable conditions - high motivation (having sex with a person known to
be infected with HIV); aggressive education (attending detailed safe-sex
counseling every six months); and concern for the well-being of their partner
(each participant was in a long-term monogamous relationship) - only half could
be motivated to use condoms consistently.

This statistic is even more troubling when one considers that 83 percent of
people having sex with multiple partners believe they are not at risk for HIV,
and that their behavior is safe.10 If the highly motivated, highly educated
group cannot use condoms consistently, why should anyone expect condom use from
those who think their behavior is safe?

Source: http://cc.org/cc/camag/ca0911.html
323.651BIGQ::SILVADiabloSun Sep 17 1995 13:4711
| <<< Note 323.647 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.
| Does it still include serial monogamy?

	KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
the time. 


Glen
323.652CSLALL::HENDERSONI'd rather have JesusSun Sep 17 1995 19:1412
>	KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
>the time. 


Wonder how many people have been infected when they KNEW their partner's 
status..only the partner was lying?




 Jim
323.653BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 18 1995 01:5112
| <<< Note 323.652 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "I'd rather have Jesus" >>>


| Wonder how many people have been infected when they KNEW their partner's
| status..only the partner was lying?


	Jim, that is not knowing, now is it? Knowing is being tested together.



Glen
323.654RUSURE::GOODWINWe upped our standards, now up yours!Mon Sep 18 1995 13:5712
    .650
    
    Sounds like you can't motivate people much into safer sexual behavior 
    even when they can still have sex.  So how do you figure to motivate 
    those same people to forgo sex altogether?
    
    I suspect the most good will come out of the fact that people are at
    least telling young people *something* about sex, rather than just
    ignoring the whole issue as so many parents and schools used to do.
    
    The content of the message may not be nearly as important as the fact
    that there is a message.
323.655CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backMon Sep 18 1995 17:229
    re .650
    
    More reason for developing microbicides for receptive partners, as well
    as continuing to encourage people to use condoms.  
    
    Side note:  must be one heck-uv-a machine.  Wonder who tested it to
    make sure it truly mimicked sexual intercourse?
    
    meg
323.656POWDML::HANGGELIPetite Chambre des MauditesMon Sep 18 1995 17:254
    
    <-- I don't EVEN want to think about that.
    
    
323.657MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Sep 18 1995 17:254
    ZZ    Side note:  must be one heck-uv-a machine.  Wonder who tested it to
    ZZ    make sure it truly mimicked sexual intercourse?
    
    It worked on the "Sleeper".  I think it was called the Orgasmitron.
323.658Don't know the last lineCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Sep 19 1995 03:546
	There once was a man from Racine
	Who invented a *ing machine
	  Both concave and convex
	  It could fit either sex

323.659"Eye Aqqsept zis ShawLounge," as Inspecteur Clouseau would seaay...DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC: ReClaim TheName&amp;Glory!Tue Sep 19 1995 08:0623
    	There once was a man from Racine
	Who invented a *ing machine
	  Both concave and convex
	  It could fit either sex
    
        And was made from organic baleen.
    
         And was burnished to a glossy sheen.
    
          And was furnished in chintz, puce, & green.
    
           And was first shipped to Prince, then to Queen.
    
            And was shipped with a smut magazine.
    
	There once was a man from Racine
	Who invented a *ing machine
	  Both concave and convex
	  It could fit either sex
        But was really a challenge to clean.
    
    |-{:-)
        
323.660POLAR::RICHARDSONRogering and IPATue Sep 19 1995 12:071
    ... and mmm-BOY could it make you scream!
323.661eeN, not eeM, you NINNY. Feh on .660 ... :-)DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC: ReClaim TheName&amp;Glory!Tue Sep 19 1995 12:121
    
323.662BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 15:0413


	I have been told that if I was really serious about trying to stop the
spread of the disease that I should embrace the only 100% way of stopping the
spreading of the disease, abstinance. I explained that there is another 100%
method, which is KNOWING your partners status. So I have to ask these same
people, will you embrace this method too? If not, what stands in the way of
this other 100% method?



Glen
323.663Gloom and doomMOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Sep 19 1995 15:183
It just ain't moral, Glen. What with society collapsin' all around us
and all, it's just bound to be nasty.

323.664BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 15:5311

	Jack, I have a feeling that religious convictions will come into play
here. But I figure that I was told that if I was to be serious about it, go
with the 100% method. Now if religious convictions is what keeps them from also
embracing, "knowing your partners status", then does that mean their religious
convictions are keeping them from being serious about it? 



Glen
323.665BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 15:534


	I wanna
323.666Terrie, no one will be upset at you for this snarf! :-)BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 15:544
                               DEVIL SNARF!!!!!


323.668GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERNRA fighting for our RIGHTSTue Sep 19 1995 16:582
    
    Shouldn't that be fondle?
323.669MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 17:0734
 ZZ   It just ain't moral, Glen. What with society collapsin' all around us
 ZZ   and all, it's just bound to be nasty.
    
    Jack, how many abortions does this country experience every year?  How
    many broken homes and illigitamate children are in the world today?  We
    haven't even touched on the STD issue here.  Your cynical appearance
    above leads me to believe you don't have a whole lot of regard for
    those who have moral convictions regarding sex and its context.
    
    If you really think about it Jack, premarital sex can be contrued as a
    devaluation of the opposite sex...considering this is something I've
    been pondering in my own attitudes, perhaps we should all become grown
    ups here and consider the possibility.  Sex without commitment is in my
    opinion, nothing greater than enfatuation and the utilizing of another
    person for personal gratification.  People don't want to admit it but
    it is unfortunately true.  Premarital sex erodes the trust factor and
    hence there you have it...high divorce rates.
    
    The data and the trends exist and simply can't be ignored.
    
    Re: Glen:
    
    Glen, I believe the ultimate in irresponsibility is not to inform ones
    partner as to the status of their health.  However, it is not 100% 
    effective against the fight of AIDS.  People still boink regardless.
    There was an article in the Village Voice about a year ago written by a
    prominent gay rights advocate in New York.  He was propogating the idea
    of having sex anyway...the idea being the risk of catching AIDS makes
    the experience more exciting.  Now reasonable people such as yourself
    would obviously forego this attitude.  However, many many would not!
    
    No boink....no disease!
    
    -Jack
323.670DASHER::RALSTONIdontlikeitsojuststopit!!Tue Sep 19 1995 17:256
    >Sex without commitment is in my opinion, nothing greater than enfatuation 
    >and the utilizing of another person for personal gratification.
    
    Sex of any kind between consenting adults can be fun, gratifying and
    commitment free. I didn't realize that personal gratification was a
    sin.
323.671I would't say knowing status is 100% safe ....BRITE::FYFETue Sep 19 1995 17:275
Knowing your partners status is a good thing. But partners can and do cheat and
there is no telling what they will bring home.

Doug.
323.672BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 17:4038
| <<< Note 323.669 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Glen, I believe the ultimate in irresponsibility is not to inform ones partner
| as to the status of their health.  

	Informing is not a 100% way of knowing. Being tested together is.

| However, it is not 100% effective against the fight of AIDS. People still 
| boink regardless.

	Jack, then I guess we should throw out the abstinance stuff, right? Cuz
people will still boink. I also see now that you must support condoms, as where
people will still boink, they should take any and all precautions that are out
there. So tell me Jack, is this a true picture of you? Or is JUST the
abstinance part of this picture apart of you? And btw, like abstinance, knowing
your partners status is 100% effective for anyone who wishes to use it.

| There was an article in the Village Voice about a year ago written by a 
| prominent gay rights advocate in New York. He was propogating the idea of 
| having sex anyway...the idea being the risk of catching AIDS makes the 
| experience more exciting.  

	Now there is a stupid man.

| Now reasonable people such as yourself would obviously forego this attitude.  
| However, many many would not!

	So abstinance is a solution that is more likely to work than boinking
responsibly?

| No boink....no disease!

	Boink with an uninfected partner, no disease! Are you going to embrace
it?


Glen
323.673BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 17:4312
| <<< Note 323.671 by BRITE::FYFE >>>



| Knowing your partners status is a good thing. But partners can and do cheat 
| and there is no telling what they will bring home.

	Doug, I agree. But a piece of paper saying one is married doesn't seem
to stop everyone from boinking outside of the lines either.


Glen
323.674MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Sep 19 1995 18:1917
>					Your cynical appearance
>    above leads me to believe you don't have a whole lot of regard for
>    those who have moral convictions regarding sex and its context.

Odd that it didn't lead you to believe how goddam sick
and tired I am of hearing you pontificate about
how_other_people_really_should_oughta_wanna_do_like_you_say,
which would have been more to the point.

For the umpty-umpth time, Jack, ranting on about your moral beliefs
is not going to make people agree with them, no matter how much
you'd prefer to the contrary. This is a fact of life. Get used to it.
We all are painfully aware of your position on these matters. You
may chose to believe it or not, but I can even respect you for your
moral beliefs. But I don't wanna hear about 'em every freakin' time
I hit KP3.

323.675CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Sep 19 1995 18:277
    >...nothing greater than enfatuation...
    
    It could be that, I suppose, but I think that infatuation is probably
    the word you were looking for.  8^)
    
    
    -steve
323.676MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 19:4229
ZZ    But I don't wanna hear about 'em every freakin' time
ZZ    I hit KP3.
    
    Jack:
    
    And you don't hear it from me every freakin time you hit PK3.  I
    imagine the purpose of this string is to discuss the spread of AIDS,
    the treatment of AIDS, and possible ways to save our fellow man from
    contracting same.
    
    It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non
    issue here.  That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no
    boink way of life is in fact the best way to curb abortions, disease,
    illigitamacy and the like, people seem to be sick and tired of hearing
    it.  
    
    Like I have said before, I think people should be allowed to act on
    their private lives in the quiet of their own home...and do so without 
    interruptous..err..interruption.  Just so long as the outcome doesn't
    effect me personally.....ouuuuuuu but there's the rub...IT DOES effect
    me doesn't it Jack?  People don't realize this but when they are given 
    creedance by society to act as they wish...without responsibility, then
    all of the sudden I am the coniving bigot when my sympathy meter
    doesn't exactly break the mercury point.  Doesn't this just piss you
    off too Jack?  I mean...these people in society yell and scream you
    aren't minding your business...then when the day of reckoning arrives
    we are the bad guy for not having a heart.
    
    -Jack  
323.677ah, yes, commitment...GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedTue Sep 19 1995 19:455
    
      re, "commitment-free" - or, if that doesn't work, you can give
     her a commitment, and welsh later
    
      bb
323.678BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 19:5820
| <<< Note 323.676 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>



| It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non issue here.
| That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no boink way of life is in
| fact the best way to curb abortions, disease, illigitamacy and the like, 
| people seem to be sick and tired of hearing it.

	Jack, that is one way, not the only. Being responsible is also another
sure fire way. Remember, abortions are legal. So curbing them may not be
something people would want to do cuz it's legal. Disease is not a factor with
being responsible. Maybe if you would include being responsible into your talk,
people would see that you're serious about this. But your flavor of religion
has clouded the issue it appears. If it hasn't, then explain why you won't back
being responsible.



Glen
323.679MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 20:1732
ZZ    Jack, that is one way, not the only. 
    
    Correct.  That is what I said...the BEST way.
    
    Being responsible is also another
    sure fire way. Remember, abortions are legal. So curbing them may not be
    something people would want to do cuz it's legal. 
    
    Correct again.  However, it would be extremely hypocritical considering
    the pro choice voice in this country is ".....gasp...abortion is a sad
    horrible thing...but it is necessary and should be a right....let us 
    not judge but support these poor unfortunate souls."  Spare me!
    
 ZZ   Disease is not a factor with being responsible. Maybe if you would 
 ZZ   include being responsible into your talk,
 ZZ   people would see that you're serious about this. 
    
    Glen, how specifically am I being irresponsible in my communication
    here?  Are you referring to my lack of sensitivity?  If so, then the
    obvious question is...why is it the onus of society to take care of
    those who intentionally act irresponsible?
    
ZZ    But your flavor of religion
ZZ    has clouded the issue it appears. If it hasn't, then explain why you
ZZ    won't back being responsible.
    
    I do back being responsible...but I'm a realist.  AIDS testing isn't
    that simple.  I understood it to take a few months for accuracy.  I
    just believe people have convinced themselves that horniness and human
    natural conditions supercede the need to wait for an AIDS test.  
    
    -Jack
323.680nnttmPENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Sep 19 1995 20:204
 .679  supersede


323.681BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 20:3552
| <<< Note 323.679 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ    Jack, that is one way, not the only.

| Correct.  That is what I said...the BEST way.

	It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100% effective rate 
when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%? 

| Correct again.  However, it would be extremely hypocritical considering the 
| pro choice voice in this country is ".....gasp...abortion is a sad horrible 
| thing...but it is necessary and should be a right....let us not judge but 
| support these poor unfortunate souls."  Spare me!

	Jack, where do you get this stuff? 

| Glen, how specifically am I being irresponsible in my communication here? Are 
| you referring to my lack of sensitivity?  

	No. You have 2 methods that both have a 100% effectiveness rating when
used. You will only embrace 1 out of the two. Seeing both are 100% effective,
if you can't back both to stop AIDS, you are being irresponsible. Why would
anyone not embrace all methods that would stop the spread of the disease at a
100% rating is beyond me. 

| I do back being responsible...

	This is the first I heard of this. Then it should be ok for people to
mention both in schools, right?

| but I'm a realist. AIDS testing isn't that simple.  

	I take it you have not had one? You go there, you discuss things with
the counselor, you get blood drawn. You go back two weeks later and sit with
the counselor again. You find out your results. Reason for the counselor being
there is because if you are HIV+, you have someone to talk to instantly. 

| I understood it to take a few months for accuracy.  

	3 months.

| I just believe people have convinced themselves that horniness and human
| natural conditions supersede the need to wait for an AIDS test.

	Jack, what you wrote above is the same response for abstinence. Yet you
want to push it. If you are willing to push for abstinence, then you should be
willing to push for being responsible. Both are 100% effective when put into
use. Both can have what you wrote above be used against it. 



Glen
323.682MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Sep 19 1995 20:3830
>    It would appear that you consider the morality aspect of sex a non
>    issue here.  That even though the undeniable fact remains that a no
>    boink way of life is in fact the best way to curb abortions, disease,
>    illigitamacy and the like, people seem to be sick and tired of hearing
>    it.  
    
It's most definitely a nonissue when it involves people who act responsibly.
regardless of what their matrital status is. You seem to get off on your
holier than thou "I'm a good married man in the eyes of society and my god"
crappola, when there are plenty of folks out there who are just as responsible
as you are without the papers of your government or your church to grant
them a sanctioned union. And they aren't all spreading disease and creating
unwanted pregnancies. And they aren't all switching partners on a regular
basis. And they aren't all living lewd, promiscuous lives.

>    Like I have said before, I think people should be allowed to act on
>    their private lives in the quiet of their own home...and do so without 
>    interruptous..err..interruption.  Just so long as the outcome doesn't
>    effect me personally.....ouuuuuuu but there's the rub...IT DOES effect
>    me doesn't it Jack?

No, it doesn't Jack. It doesn't effect you one damn bit in any number of
cases where people who haven't your religious and moral compunctions,
but who have every bit as much responsibility as you do, live their lives
privately in a situation of which your morals may disapprove. If you
want to complain about people who AREN'T responsible, that would be one
thing, but instead, as is your wont, you decide to take both the responsible
ones AND the irresponsible ones and put them all in the nasty_blasphemous_
sinning_lascivious_worthless_immoral_pigs scummy little box.

323.683MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 20:4015
ZZ    It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100%
ZZ    effective rate when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%? 
    
    Your way is not 100% Glen unless testing in the whole world has 100%
    accuracy rate.  Can you claim this?  
    
    I can claim that Jesus was born of a virgin but nobody else has to my
    knowledge.
    
    
    Re: Abortion...I was giving an irrelevent answer to an irrelevent
    question.  Just because it is legal doesn't mean it shouldn't be
    curbed...especially by the rhetoric of the pro choice camp.
    
    -Jack
323.684MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 20:4311
ZZ    | I do back being responsible...
    
ZZ    This is the first I heard of this. Then it should be ok for
ZZ    people to mention both in schools, right?
    
    Tough one to answer.  I believe the responsibility lies with the
    parents, the local church, and private organizations where parents may
    want their children to get this kind of information...yes, like Planned
    Parenthood.  I don't trust PP enough to take part in the schools.
    
    -Jack
323.685BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Sep 19 1995 20:4619
| <<< Note 323.683 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ    It is NOT the best way. Each of the 2 ways have a 100%
| ZZ    effective rate when the couple use it. How can 100% be better than 100%?

| Your way is not 100% Glen unless testing in the whole world has 100% accuracy 
| rate. Can you claim this?

	It's the same test. Of course it is.

| Re: Abortion...I was giving an irrelevent answer to an irrelevent question.
| Just because it is legal doesn't mean it shouldn't be curbed...especially by 
| the rhetoric of the pro choice camp.

	Jack, it is legal, and a red herring in this discussion. I would like
to see it curbed, but this discussion does not have anything to do with that.


Glen
323.686MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 20:5119
    Jack:
    
    Fine.  Then help me with this one.  e are talking disease here...that's
    all.  If you have a hooker who sleeps around and after two years
    contracts AIDS.  Then in the other scenario, you have a young man who 
    meets a woman at a bar, has a few drinks, brings her home...and
    subsequently contracts the AIDS virus.  
    
    See Jack, the point here isn't that the young man is just as lascivious
    and immoral as the hooker.  To me, that was determined at his birth. 
    The point I am making is that as a human race, there is NOBODY who is
    less sinful than another...most assuredly including myself.  Yes...I am
    just as bad as the hooker and have skeletons in my closet like the next
    person.  The whole crux of this Jack is since we are ALL susceptible
    to the same desires and temptations as everybody else, it seems to me 
    as an observer of life is to avoid certain situations which may result
    in a short life.  
    
    -Jack
323.687MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Sep 19 1995 20:538
    ZZZ       It's the same test. Of course it is.
    
    Trust in the testing methodologies of mankind.  
    
    I call that blind faith Glen.  Putting one's trust in Abbott Labs is 
    foolhardy!
    
    -Jack
323.688MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Sep 19 1995 21:576
re: .686, Our Jack Martin

I think I'm coming to the conclusion that I should have quite some time ago,
Jack. The fact of the matter is that you really are incapable of discerning
between immorality and irresponsibility. It's quite sad, actually.

323.689CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Sep 20 1995 04:0824
    		<<< Note 323.651 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| So what exactly is "responsibility", Glen.

>	KNOWING your partners status before you have sex. That works 100% of
>the time. 

    	You have said that the only sure way to know your partner's
    	status is testing.

    	Since it is general consensus here that teens are going to
    	have sex, should I suppose then that you advocate mandatory
    	testing for teens?

    	I KNEW my partner's status (and she knew mine) because we were 
    	both virgins.  I find it more likely that people can know
    	their partner's status if more were virgins.

    	You see my position as pie-in-the-sky.  Fair enough.  I equally
    	(even more so) see as pie-in-the-sky the expectation that 
    	everyone about to engage in sex is going to be concerned
    	about their partners' status before diving in.  This dream
    	is all the more implausible in your moral-devoid world because
    	of the turnover of partners over time.
323.690CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Sep 20 1995 04:106
                    <<< Note 323.667 by CALLME::MR_TOPAZ >>>

>       Abstinence makes the hard grow fonder.
    
    	You say this with disdain, but it is oh so true.  Ask any
    	couple properly practicing natural family planning (NFP).
323.691CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Sep 20 1995 04:117
                  <<< Note 323.678 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

> Remember, abortions are legal. 
    
    	You might want to be careful with that reasoning.
    
    	Remember, denying same-sex marriages is legal...
323.692KERNEL::PLANTCNever tell me the odds!Wed Sep 20 1995 12:158
    
    
    
    abstinance isn't 100% effective because there are loads of cases where
    people have contracted this disease through tainted blood.
    
    Chris
    :)
323.693POWDML::CKELLYThe Proverbial Bad PennyWed Sep 20 1995 12:5710
    glen-
    
    on testing, all in the same note, first you indicate you can get the
    results in 2 weeks, then a few lines later, you mention 3 months?
    Which is it?  And what of the accuracy?  We've all heard of false 
    negatives and the like, so why not enter some more information about 
    testing rather than just tell everyone to be tested?  More specifics
    about what's involved, time frames, accuracy, effect of accuracy if
    participating in 'safe-sex' during the period in which you are awaiting
    the results.....
323.694MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 13:087
    Oh Jack, I most definitely understand the difference between
    irresponsibility and immorality.  Irresponsibility involves
    wrecklessness and immorality deviates from a set standard.  I just
    happen to see standards as a viable way of measuring ones true
    character.
    
    -Jack
323.695CNTROL::JENNISONRevive us, Oh LordWed Sep 20 1995 13:1329
	Glen,

	Are you saying that the recommended practice is
	1) find a partner 2) abstain from sex 3) wait at least
	3 months, with both partners being absolutely sure that
	neither is having sex with anyone else 4) receive AIDS test
	5) wait for results  6) boink if negative ?

	Further, are you saying that this is a common practice ?

	Even if the above were practiced, I would not say it's 100%.

	Where did you get your figures that state that the AIDS test
	is 100% accurate ?  This is the first I've heard of it.


	****

	I was listening to a doctor speaking on a radio program, and
	he said that at a doctor's conference in New York, with some
	120 doctors present, the speaker asked how many of them would
	have sex with a person that they knew was HIV+, using a condom
	for protection.  Every single doctor there said they would *not*
	do so.  (I forget the specifics of the event, and can only remember
	the final result - none of the doctors would have trusted a 
	condom to protect them from HIV).

	Karen
323.696MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 13:1923
Well, then, why the hell must you continue to drag morality into THIS 
discussion?

You said it yourself - this topic is about a disease and how to prevent its
spread. The ways of doing that are practical ways having everything to do 
with responsibility and having nothing to do with morality.

Let's assume for a moment that we were talking about polio in the 50's.
People could be as "moral" as you like, but if they didn't act responsibly,
by ensuring that their children and themselves carefully followed the
Salk vaccine/innoculation plans, they would be guilty of continuing to spread
the disease which had plagued humanity for generations but which was within
reason of being eliminated. Was it "immoral" for people to not comply with
the program? IT DOESN'T MATTER! Because the more important matter was that
it was IRRESPONSIBLE.

The same goes for AIDS. So, if you'd like to confine your discussion here
to the issue of RESPONSIBILITY, you'll likely find that we're all reading
the same page. If, on the other hand, you insist on continuing to attack
this whole matter from a standpoint of MORALITY, then you deserve the
catcalls and derision that you will continue to receive.

This is NOT a moral problem, Jack.
323.697SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Wed Sep 20 1995 13:196
    .694
    
    > Irresponsibility involves
    > wrecklessness
    
    No, actually, irresponsibility often involves getting wrecked.
323.698CSLALL::HENDERSONI'd rather have JesusWed Sep 20 1995 13:196




 I bet those doctors were all part of the dreaded religious right (tm).
323.699SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 13:247
    
    re: .696
    
    Sorry Jack... bad example...
    
    Polio is not (mainly) a sexually transmitted disease...
    
323.700MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 13:241
    HIV negative snarf!
323.701MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 13:287
You miss the point entirely, Andy. 

Responsibility is the issue. Preventing the spread of the disease is the issue.
The fact that AIDS may be spread through sexual contact is simply the excuse
that Our Jack Martin and his ilk can use to ram a morality sermon down
peoples' throats, which totally ignores the real problem.

323.702SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 13:3112
    
    
    No Jack....
    
    In society, today's and the past, sexuality and morality went hand in
    hand...
    
    It continues today... 
    
    You have to understand that to many people, morality and responsibility
    go hand in hand.... 
    
323.703MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 13:3112
 ZZ   IT DOESN'T MATTER! Because the more important matter was that
 ZZ   it was IRRESPONSIBLE.
    
    Exactly.  I don't deny this.  Not immunizing in my mind is wreckless.
    
    Okay....I see your point.  Since morality is based on standards, and
    since standards vary from person to person, then it might be safe to
    assume that wreckless behavior can be driven by ones standards of
    conduct (or lack of standards).  I don't believe the two are always
    mutually exclusive.
    
    -Jack
323.704reckless...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 13:341
    
323.705MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 13:351
    Uhhh....sorry
323.706Don't squash that rathole !GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedWed Sep 20 1995 13:5215
    
      I don't think it so terrible, logically, to consider the pros&cons
     of promiscuity when discussing diseases often resulting from sex.
    
      After all, we've sort of exhausted the topic, no ?  AIDS is a 100%
     fatal disease with, currently, no known cure.  Lots of researchers
     all over the world are seeking a treatment, as they should be, but
     what do the rest of us do in the meantime ?  Sure, promiscuous people
     can reduce their risks by various means.  But is it not relevant to
     consider whether promiscuity is such a wise lifestyle choice in any
     event ?  There seems to be a contention in here that, in the absence
     of such diseases, promiscuity would be everybody's choice.  I don't
     believe it.
    
      bb
323.707MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 13:546
>    You have to understand that to many people, morality and responsibility
>    go hand in hand.... 

And the point remains that people can live "immorally" by Our Jack Martin's
standards and still behave perfectly "responsibly". So attempting to claim
that they BELONG hand in hand is ludicrous.
323.708SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 13:5710
    
    >So attempting to claim that they BELONG hand in hand is ludicrous.
    
    Jack... you're not listening....
    
    You may say that... believe it... and live by it. To many people they
    do BELONG hand in hand...
    
     Just because you don't think so, is no reason that it doesn't exist...
    
323.709MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 13:588
re:        <<< Note 323.706 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Frustrated Incorporated" >>>

But, no one's attempting to promote promiscuity as an adviseable course.

Responsible people who are not promiscuous can still be immoral by our
Jack Martin's standards. Jack is complaining about their moral turpitude,
which is NOT the issue at all.

323.710SMURF::WALTERSWed Sep 20 1995 14:0213
    
    >In society, today's and the past, sexuality and morality went hand in
    >hand...
    
    More bowdlerised history.   During the Victorian era when 
    "moral" standards reached a peak, so did prostitution in London.
    It was so high that economists calculated that every man in London
    must have visited a prostitute 2.5 times per week in order to generate
    levels of income that would have sustained the population of
    prostitutes.                                              
    
      
    
323.711MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 14:0314
re: <<< Note 323.708 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>

Uh - run that one past me again?

Someone lives immorally, but responsibly and they  become part of the problem
by default because of their lack of morality?

Yes - this is certainly what Our Jack Martin is claiming as he stuffs them
all into his scummy little box.

The fact reamins that Jack is logically and practically wrong to do so.
Those responsible people ARE NOT contributing to the problem, regardless
of their morality in Jack's eyes.

323.712BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 14:077
| <<< Note 323.686 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Yes...I am just as bad as the hooker and have skeletons in my closet like the 
| next person.  

	Jack, did they come with the house or are you a murderer on the side? 
323.713BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 14:1639
| <<< Note 323.689 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| Since it is general consensus here that teens are going to have sex, should I 
| suppose then that you advocate mandatory testing for teens?

	I hadn't even thought of that Joe. I was looking at it in the line of
abstinance works 100% of the time when used. Being responsible works 100% of
the time when used. I was also looking to see if the same people who promote
abstinence would promote being responsible as well. 

	But to answer your question, I don't have an answer. To be honest, I
don't think it is a good idea, because while one should get tested, they should
be tested together, so that both people KNOW the others status. So I guess I
would say no.

| I KNEW my partner's status (and she knew mine) because we were both virgins.  

	Again, like the status of a person, one can tell you anything. It may
not always be true. In your case it appears to be true. What do you do with one
who said they were a virgin, but really wasn't?

| I find it more likely that people can know their partner's status if more were
| virgins.

	And add in the disclaimer that the other person did not lie. 

| You see my position as pie-in-the-sky. Fair enough. I equally (even more so) 
| see as pie-in-the-sky the expectation that everyone about to engage in sex is 
| going to be concerned about their partners' status before diving in.  

	It is pie-in-the-sky. Both ways will only work if people use them. But
abstinence is NOT the only way one can stop the spread of the disease. But I
believe it is the only way you would embrace, or tell others about. Am I
correct?



Glen
323.714BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 14:1914
          <<< Note 323.689 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

|This dream is all the more implausible in your moral-devoid world because of 
| the turnover of partners over time.

	Missed this part. You really don't get it, do you. You could have 20
uninfected people involved in an orgy, and the HIV virus will not be spread to
any of them. How many is not the issue, the staus of the partner(s) is. While
you can continue to make claims otherwise, you can not change the fact that 2
uninfected people can have all the unprotected sex they want, and never
contract, or give out the HIV virus. 


Glen
323.715CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Sep 20 1995 14:2329
    > This is not a moral problem, Jack.
    
    The lack of morality is what leads to the irresponsibility that Jack is
    talking about.  Maybe some take precautions to try to limit unwanted
    results (disease/pregnancies), but this is only being cautious in my
    eyes, not responsible.  I'll agree it is better to be cautious than to
    not take any precautions. 
    
    I think the societal mentality is that wearing a condom is acting
    responsibly.  Since condoms are far from 100% in preventing pregnancies
    or the spread of HIV, just how "responsible" is it really?  Leaving
    religion out of it entirely, I still see the most responsible behavior
    as being that of abstinance until marriage.  It is the one pattern that
    will do the most in stopping the spread of disease, as well as the
    epidemic of unwanted pregnancies. 
    
    Logically, if you look at just what the "high-risk" behavior is (for
    STDs and unwanted pregnancies), it only makes sense to abstain from
    this behavior until a point in time that you will be joined with one
    mate for life- and that your future mate does, as well.  You need not
    be religious at all to see that this is the best way to approach this
    problem.
    
    We are obfusicating terms, IMO, by calling high-risk behavior 
    "responsible" as long as you are wearing a condom. 
    
    
    
    -steve 
323.716BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 14:2628
| <<< Note 323.693 by POWDML::CKELLY "The Proverbial Bad Penny" >>>


| on testing, all in the same note, first you indicate you can get the results 
| in 2 weeks, then a few lines later, you mention 3 months? Which is it?  

	'tine..... I went back and reread my notes. I did not see anything that
said 2 weeks. The closest I came to 2 weeks was 2 ways. Could you provide a
pointer for me?

| And what of the accuracy?  We've all heard of false negatives and the like, so
| why not enter some more information about testing rather than just tell 
| everyone to be tested?  

	'tine, good point. 

| More specifics about what's involved, time frames, accuracy, effect of 
| accuracy if participating in 'safe-sex' during the period in which you are 
| awaiting the results.....

	I have some literature at home that will have specifics. I will give
you what I know off the top of my head. Time frames, if it's what I think you
mean, are to not have had sex with anyone for 3 months before getting tested.
Accuracy is 100%. You get tested twice.



Glen
323.717BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 14:2826
| <<< Note 323.695 by CNTROL::JENNISON "Revive us, Oh Lord" >>>


| 1) find a partner 2) abstain from sex 3) wait at least 3 months, with both 
| partners being absolutely sure that neither is having sex with anyone else 
| 4) receive AIDS test 5) wait for results  6) boink if negative ?

	That's how it works.

| Further, are you saying that this is a common practice ?

	Couldn't tell you if others do this, but I know many who do.

| Even if the above were practiced, I would not say it's 100%.

	I know you wouldn't say it.

| Where did you get your figures that state that the AIDS test is 100% accurate?
| This is the first I've heard of it.

	The pamphlets that are handed out from the Fenway hospital that does
the testing.



Glen
323.718SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Wed Sep 20 1995 14:3812
    .702
    
    You're missing the point, too, Andy.  The essential problem is DISEASE
    PREVENTION.  The fact that this particular disease happens to be spread
    by sexual transmission, as well as by other vectors, is irrelevant.  To
    stop spreading a disease, we do whatever it takes.  ONE of the possible
    methods is sexual abstinence, but that won't prevent infection by any
    of the other known methods.
    
    To insist that others, who do not accept even your concept of a god,
    let alone your concept of the moral code imposed by acceptance of that
    god, should live by that moral code is the height of arrogance.
323.719Hypothetical...GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedWed Sep 20 1995 14:4511
    
      But Binder, it is one of those cases where a very few people
     can drastically affect the outcome.  Suppose we had an extreme
     society, with 50-60 million sexually active women, each of whom
     had exactly two partners in a decade - their SO, and Wilt Chamberlain.
     All of the SO's are purely monogamous.  Do you see how you could
     stop AIDS in this extreme case ?
    
      Behavior patterns of the FEW can be critical here.
    
      bb
323.720SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Wed Sep 20 1995 14:5811
    .719
    
    I agree that behavior pattern is important.  But for crissake don't
    call it MORAL, call it RESPONSIBLE.
    
    "You screw without protection, you might DIE from it, so KEEP YOURSELF
    SAFE.  One way to be safe is to use a condom, another is not to screw. 
    It's your life, it's your decision which way you choose."
    
    Stop dumping this "you're a sinner" crap on people, please, you're
    probably turning off many of the people you most want to reach.
323.721MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 15:1015
    Uhhh...Dick?  Jack D started with the cynical tone and there you have
    it.
    
Z    To insist that others, who do not accept even your concept of a
Z    god, let alone your concept of the moral code imposed by acceptance of
Z    that god, should live by that moral code is the height of arrogance.
    
 Nobody has insisted on accepting one's view of God.  This is a non
    sequitor.  The moral code however, no one cannot force it upon another
    but I believe it is within the rights of a person to state the fact
    that if you develop a standard in your own life regarding abstinence
    before marriage, then you won't get HIV and that moral standard seems
    to work best.
    
    -Jack
323.722MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 15:1044
>    The lack of morality is what leads to the irresponsibility that Jack is
>    talking about.

While irersponsibility is more likely to result from behavior which Jack
may find to be immoral, it is not the logical consequence of that behavior.
No amount of thumping will change that fact. I'm beginning to believe that
the purpose of the thumping is simply to confuse that issue, since there
really is no logical connection that can be made between the morality of the
matter and the issue of responsibility.

>    religion out of it entirely, I still see the most responsible behavior
>    as being that of abstinance until marriage.  It is the one pattern that
>    will do the most in stopping the spread of disease, as well as the
>    epidemic of unwanted pregnancies. 

Yes - just as abstinence works 100% until it fails, responsibility works until
it's abandoned.

>					 it only makes sense to abstain from
>    this behavior until a point in time that you will be joined with one
>    mate for life- and that your future mate does, as well.  You need not
>    be religious at all to see that this is the best way to approach this
>    problem.

And just how many people, in a society which has a divorce rate of nearly
50%, do you presume know for a fact that they will be joined with one
mate for life? Now, what do we do with the rest?

>    We are obfusicating terms, IMO, by calling high-risk behavior 
>    "responsible" as long as you are wearing a condom. 

Who's made the claim that calling high risk behavior of any sort is
responsible. The issue here as far as Our Jack Martin was concerned
was morality. I already stated several replies back that people can
be immoral by Jack's standards without engaging in any sort of high
risk behaviors at all. Couples in which one partner is sterile CANNOT
engage in activities which produce unwanted pregnancies. Couples who
do not carry sexually transmissable diseases CANNOT contract or transmit
diseases from/to their partners if they are involved in a monogamous
relationship. These people are not involved in High risk behaviors
and they are not contributing to the spread of any disease regardless
of Our Jack Martin's views of their morality. Morality is most definitely
not the issue regarding these responsible people, other than in Jack's
theocentric mind.
323.723MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 15:157
    Jack:
    
    All I know is that I will not be in an AIDS ward due to lack of
    forsight.  Call it irresponsibility or whatever.  A person's standards
    determines their conduct.
    
    -Jack
323.724MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 15:238
re:      <<< Note 323.723 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

And neither will thousands of people who conduct their lives EXACTLY as
responsibly as do you, but whom you label immoral, due to the fact that
they don't have some silly piece of paper which validates their union.

Why do you fail to simply admit this?

323.725MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 15:3311
> A person's standards determines their conduct.

Damn straight. I haven't heard anyone deny that.

But, guess what?

Even when their standards don't match yours, they can behave
identically to you in amny areas.

Far out, eh?

323.726POWDML::CKELLYThe Proverbial Bad PennyWed Sep 20 1995 15:5213
    glen
    
    see your .681.  You stated that the partners go together to be tested
    and meet with a counselor, then return 2 weeks later for results and
    the counselor is on hand (which is good if the result is +).  In the
    next paragraph, you mention 3 months.  This is what I'm wondering
    about.  I haven't heard anything about a 2 week test.
    
    Any additional info you enter with regard to testing is appreciated.
    
    And to Karen's point, you can both avoid sex for 3 months, be tested as
    negative, but again, we have the problem of false negatives, so, this
    kind of affects your 100% claim.....
323.727MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 16:3510
    Glen:
    
    You yourself have admitted many times to the frailty of humans.  I find
    it difficult to believe you are being intellectually honest here.  
    
    It isn't difficult to admit that abstinence is 100% effective as far as
    sexual transmission goes.  You can't stop a train that isn't moving
    Glen....and that testing even together isn't 100% effective.
    
    -Jack
323.72843GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Sep 20 1995 16:3720
    
    
    ANYONE can get AIDS from a transfusion, a dentist, etc. Please accept
    this as part of the discussion. 
    
    YOU ARE BLOWING SMOKE IF YOU USE THIS FROM NOW ON! 
    
    This is an exception. It is a factor that cancels itself out in
    this discussion. PERIOD
    
    Having said that. Abstinence, or manomagous sex between 2 people who
    have NEVER had sex with anyone else will prevent them from getting AIDS
    100% of the time.
    
    Using a condom between two people, either of which who have had sex
    with someone else is less than 100% effective in preventing them from 
    getting AIDS.
    
    Remember the 1st lie: Safe sex? It was proven to be a lie. They now say
    safER sex because it is not 100% effective.
323.729BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Wed Sep 20 1995 16:385
    
    	I though you were re-posting to spell "monogamous" correctly.
    
    	But I guess not.
    
323.730SMURF::WALTERSWed Sep 20 1995 16:414
    
    .728
    
    Thanks - I thought he meant magnanimous.
323.731MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 16:4424
    Jack:
    
    I cast no dispersions on people who choose to live together.  You may
    recall my mentioning I rented our townhouse to a couple who live
    together.  I know many people...friends of mine who live together. 
    It's a private choice and I honor their choice.
    
    All I am saying Jack is this.  Morality issues can be subliminal or
    overt.  Be it a nice clean cut college man living with a woman or a
    prostitute living with the chief of police, there is virtually no
    difference because the standard as a third party observer views it has
    been equally broken.  It doesn't really matter.  
    
    I fail to see why one would take such an offense at another person
    pointing out their views on morality issues.  As stated, morality can
    determine behavior...and eventually people, yes even the nicest people
    in the world eventually reap what they sow.
    
    Another thing Jack.  I don't really believe I've been that obnoxious
    over this.  I think I've presented my view in a plausable manner and
    have replied to comments as they have come.  I don't think I am the
    fire and brimstone individual you seem to make me out as.
    
    -Jack
323.732DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Wed Sep 20 1995 16:521
    "cast aspersions"...
323.733BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Wed Sep 20 1995 16:558
    
    	When is JMARTIN going to realize that no one is saying that a
    	moral lifestyle is wrong, and is not the ideal way to prevent
    	the spread of AIDS ... but that it is unrealistic to expect
    	society as a whole to follow through with it?
    
    	A long time from now?  Never?  You make the call.
    
323.734SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 17:109
    
    re: .718
    
    Dick,
    
     I insisted nothing of the sort....
    
    Andy
    
323.735SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 17:135
    
    re: .720
    
    "If it saves one life"????
    
323.736The big questions are AFTER...GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedWed Sep 20 1995 17:2814
    
      Another hypothetical situation :
    
        You go in for your annual checkup, and your doctor takes a
       routine blood sample.  Out of the blue, he says, "You're HIV+."
       Assuming this situation, and you don't even know how you got it,
    
       (1) What would be your moral responsibility ?
       (2) What would be the doctor's moral responsibility ?
       (3) Ought society to have a say in this ?
       (4) If you have an SO, and tell him/her, what is her/his moral
          responsibility ?
    
       bb
323.737GOOEY::JUDYThat's *Ms. Bitch* to you!Wed Sep 20 1995 17:3621
    
    
    	'tine...
    
    	In regards to Glen's question.
    
    	From what I've been told (from the health care system, directly,
    	in person)....  you go for a test, the results of that test take
    	two weeks.  Where the 3 months comes in....  If you have
    	unprotected sex with someone who is HIV+, it can take 3-6 months
    	for anything to show up on *your* HIV test.  So if you have 
    	unprotected sex and go for a test, say, within a month, chances
    	are it will have no effect because the virus will not show up
    	in the bloodstream yet.  You would need to be tested again 
    	in 3-6 months.
    
    	Does that make it more understandable?
    
    	JJ
    
    
323.738MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 18:054
re:      <<< Note 323.731 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

So your point in labeling people as immoral is what? I certainly can't guess,
unless it's to flaunt your self-righteous superiority,
323.739SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Wed Sep 20 1995 18:119
    .738
    
    It's a cultural thing, DelBlasto.  It's immoral to boink with someone
    you're not married to, but it's not immoral to shoot with that same
    person.  This despite the fact that either situation can get you killed
    if you're irresponsible.
    
    Solution:  If you're gonna boink, protect yourself - cover up.
               If you're gonna shoot, protect yourself - unload the piece.
323.740BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 18:2323
| <<< Note 323.726 by POWDML::CKELLY "The Proverbial Bad Penny" >>>

| see your .681.  You stated that the partners go together to be tested and meet
| with a counselor, then return 2 weeks later for results and the counselor is 
| on hand (which is good if the result is +).  In the next paragraph, you 
| mention 3 months. This is what I'm wondering about. I haven't heard anything 
| about a 2 week test.

	Ahhh.... thank you. You wait 3 months. You go get tested. You get the
results back in 2 weeks. You meet with the councelor beforehand as he goes over
various things with you. You meet with a conselor afterwards when you get your
results.

| And to Karen's point, you can both avoid sex for 3 months, be tested as
| negative, but again, we have the problem of false negatives, so, this
| kind of affects your 100% claim.....

	'tine, when the tests were first done, you got false negatives, and
false positives. The reason for that is because the original test was set up
for just a few weeks. It was changed to 3 months. 


Glen
323.741POWDML::CKELLYThe Proverbial Bad PennyWed Sep 20 1995 18:253
    thanks glen and jj.  now, jj mentions 3-6 months.  see what i mean?
    there still seems to be a lot of uncertainty around testing and
    waiting periods.
323.742BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 18:2613
| <<< Note 323.728 by 43GMC::KEITH "Dr. Deuce" >>>



| ANYONE can get AIDS from a transfusion, a dentist, etc. Please accept
| this as part of the discussion.

	I think people are zeroing in on how one gets AIDS with sex. I think
that is why the other ways are not being discussed right now.



Glen
323.743GOOEY::JUDYThat's *Ms. Bitch* to you!Wed Sep 20 1995 18:327
    
    
    	Ok, now *I'm* confused....
    
    	What is the 3 month thing you're speaking of Glen?  Sounds
    	different that what I posted....
    	
323.744BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Sep 20 1995 18:348


	Same thing Judy. It was a few weeks, then 6 months (6 months was where
it was at for my 1st test) and now is at 3 months. 


Glen
323.745MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 18:3720
ZZ    So your point in labeling people as immoral is what? I certainly can't
ZZ    guess, unless it's to flaunt your self-righteous superiority,
    
    Already addressed this.  Said I had skeletons in the closet like most
    everybody else and also stated that I am as an individual just as 
    sinful as anybody else.  That dead horse has been stabbed enough.
    
    Let's put this in easier terms Jack.  Statistically, individuals with
    deep rooted convictions (or morals) regarding premarital sex are less
    apt to have to deal with abortion, AIDS and other STDs, and illigitamacy.
    People who have a strong moral base or more likely to be on the outside
    looking in.  People with a strong moral base are more likely to behave 
    according to their convictions...not always but more likely.
    
    My take on this??  Well, I can't deny it.  A strong moral foundation
    WILL in fact curb the spread of the disease.  I happen to believe it is
    a far more effective way than the band aid approaches of the past.  Is
    it realistic?  Maybe not...but I believe paradigms can be changed.
    
    -Jack
323.746MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 19:1015
That didn't answer much, Jack.

No one has said that you don't HAVE strong moral convictions.

No one has said that there's anything WRONG with your having strong moral
convictions.

No one has said that there's anything wrong with ANYONE sharing your moral
convictions.

I'm still waiting to find out what purpose is served by your LABELING
others as BEING immoral.

You claim it's not to set yourself up as their superior. Fine. Then please
tell us what the purpose is, if not that.
323.747MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 19:3620
ZZ    I'm still waiting to find out what purpose is served by your LABELING
ZZ    others as BEING immoral.
    
    Actually, I have reserved that privilage to the reader...to determine
    whether they are immoral or not.  What I said was that sleeping around
    before you get married is immoral.  One then draws conclusions by their
    own behavior and then conclude with considering the possibility or
    telling me to eff off.
    
    Now let me pose a question to you.  Would you consider the act of
    pedophilia to be immoral?  We can agree it is irresponsible but do your
    standards measure it as an immoral act?  If so, then you are guilty of
    the same thing I am...pre judging the behavior of others based on their
    code of conduct or standard of decency.  We know it is destructive to a
    child and even to society.  Well...I believe premarital sex is
    responsible for the high divorce rate, abortion rate, illegitamacy
    rate, and STD rate.  Two different acts and yet we draw conclusions
    based on our standards.  No difference.
    
    -Jack 
323.748BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Wed Sep 20 1995 19:416
    
    	Not everyone has premarital sex, but everyone does eat, correct?
    
    	Maybe EATING is responsible for all the bad things that you ment-
    	ioned.
    
323.749MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 19:441
    Hey....you forgot to put a smiley face after that one!
323.750BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Wed Sep 20 1995 19:473
    
    	Hell, if my reply needed a smiley face then so did yours.
    
323.751strawman again.TIS::HAMBURGERREMEMBER NOVEMBER: FREEDOM COUNTSWed Sep 20 1995 19:495
pedophilia and boinking are nowhere near the same as the first is 
non-consenual while the second is usually done by willing partners.

what _is_ immoral is using force on one person to do your will.
so I think there is no disagreement with pedophilia being wrong.
323.752CSOA1::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Sep 20 1995 19:541
    <--- and if the child/young teen is willing?  
323.753MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 19:5522
>    Now let me pose a question to you.  Would you consider the act of
>    pedophilia to be immoral?  We can agree it is irresponsible but do your
>    standards measure it as an immoral act?

You see, here's the crux of this whole discussion.

I wouldn't label it as "immoral" because I don't use "morality" as a
valid measuring stick, unlike you. The very fact that it's a standards-
based measuring tool, and  the fact that everyone's standards, in some
way, either minor or major, are different than everyone else's, quite
clearly, in my mind, makes "morality" a very poor means of objectively
quantifying anything.

So let's agree that some behaviors may be quite certainly irresponsible,
and leave the "immoral" label, which only tends to create distance between
yourself and those with whom you are conversing, where it belongs - in
a discussion with those who SHARE your standards.

Either that, or persist in your useage of "immorality" in defining those
who don't adhere to your standards (regardless of the presence or absence
on any behavior which is irresponsible), and I'll continue to conclude that
you are being a pompous ass.
323.754BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Wed Sep 20 1995 20:006
    
    	Especially when you consider that an 18-year old can be charged
    	with statutory rape if [s]he has sex with a 17-year old.  It's
    	illegal, yes ... because the law says it is.  But how is that
    	different from a 30-year old having sex with a 29-year old?
    
323.755SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Sep 20 1995 20:136
    
    How about a 14 year old having sex with a 13 year old??
    
    
    and round and round we go....
    
323.756MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Sep 20 1995 21:2725
ZZ    So let's agree that some behaviors may be quite certainly
ZZ    irresponsible,
ZZ    and leave the "immoral" label, which only tends to create distance between
ZZ    yourself and those with whom you are conversing, where it belongs - in
ZZ    a discussion with those who SHARE your standards.
    
    Oh....I get it.  Because the terms moral or immoral might offend
    somebody, it is incorrect politically or otherwise to discuss that
    issue here.  
    
    From biblical history, you might remember that John the Baptist merely
    explained to King Herod that it was sin for Herod to sleep with his
    brothers wife.  He was jailed for his comments...and subsequently
    beheaded.  
    
    Sorry, but I don't see morality as a non viable alternative.  And as
    I said, that is all I've brought it up as.  A segment of our society
    is dying and I'm stating that their actions are propogated by their
    standards...and I'm pointing out the obvious.  If an irresponsibility
    causes death to the masses, it appears the obvious needs to be
    implemented which is a change in standards.  You may frown upon what is
    being said; however, I have yet to see any better ideas.  And as I said
    before, Glens notion that testing is 100% accurate is foolhardy!
    
    -Jack  
323.757MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Sep 20 1995 22:2810
>    Oh....I get it.  Because the terms moral or immoral might offend
>    somebody, it is incorrect politically or otherwise to discuss that
>    issue here.  

This, again, eh?

Fine, Jack. You just keep right on talking about morality and immorality
instead of looking at the issues and we'll take it at face value, and consider
the source.

323.758MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 13:3724
ZZ    Fine, Jack. You just keep right on talking about morality and immorality
ZZ    instead of looking at the issues and we'll take it at face value, and
ZZ    consider the source.
    
    Why not??  You always had that outlook anyway...that individuals who
    try to promote standards which drive conduct have no validity in a
    forum such as this.
    
    Remember everybody, the American Medical Association has deemed central
    Africa as "Lost".  They drew this conclusion because men who needed to
    support their families had to travel long distances and consequently
    got involved with prostitutes.  Now lucky Jack might consider this a
    mere irresponsibility, and from a humanist perspective, he is
    absolutely correct.  From my perspective and my guess is this is shared
    by many of the readers here (the silence is deafening), these men
    contracted AIDS because their lack of moral standards drove them act
    irresponsibly. 
    
    Important point.  Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
    being irresponsibility.  I like to go to the next level...that being
    the cause.  Cause drives the effect Jack.  Irresponsibility IS the
    effect.   
    
    -Jack
323.759BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Thu Sep 21 1995 13:5516
    
    >Important point.  Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
    >being irresponsibility.  I like to go to the next level...that being
    >the cause.  Cause drives the effect Jack.  Irresponsibility IS the
    >effect.   
    
    
    	Could someone translate this to English, please?
    
    	Somehow, I think your point might have been a little clearer had
    	you said "AIDS is the symptom, irresponsibility is the problem.
    	Fix the problem, not the symptom".
    
    	And/or "Irresponsibility is the cause, AIDS is the effect".  Cause
    	DETERMINES the effect.
    
323.760I think I heard about this on some TV tabloid.GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedThu Sep 21 1995 14:0312
    
      Point of information.  Perhaps one of our gay noters (Glen ?)
     could say if this is true or urban legend.  I have heard that
     there was an actual human being, now dead of AIDS for some time,
     who was nicknamed "The Angel of Death".   I seem to recall reading
     he was a young, attractive flight attendant who knew he had HIV.
     The story is, he deliberately decided to "go out with many boinks",
     thus spreading the disease widely among unsuspecting gay victims.
     The theory being, "I'm dead, so nothing matters."  Does anybody
     else know anything about this ?
    
      bb 
323.761BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Thu Sep 21 1995 14:2210
    
    	I'm not Glen, and I'm not gay, but anyways:
    
    	He was the "center" of the investigation done by the medical team
    	in "And the Band Played On", a movie about a team's discovery of
    	the AIDS virus.
    
    	The flight attendant was French-Canadian.  But the movie didn't
    	seem to indicate that he did it intentionally.
    
323.762WAHOO::LEVESQUEsunlight held together by waterThu Sep 21 1995 14:232
    Yeah, he was the guy they called patient 0 or some such. He was
    Canadian, if I recall correctly.
323.763FYIBSS::S_CONLONA Season of Carnelians...Thu Sep 21 1995 14:279
    The term 'patient 0' was not meant to imply that he was the first
    person with AIDS in the U.S.
    
    It was meant to demonstrate that AIDS could be transmitted through
    sexual contact (by showing a lineage of people, starting with this
    guy, who got AIDS then gave it to others.)
    
    This all occurred before anyone knew what AIDS was (and before the
    disease even had a name.)
323.764MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Sep 21 1995 14:3127
re:      <<< Note 323.758 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

You don't listen very well, do you, Jack?

>    Why not??  You always had that outlook anyway...that individuals who
>    try to promote standards which drive conduct have no validity in a
>    forum such as this.

The individuals have no validity? No - I've never claimed that. The
STANDARDS of the individual have no validity? Moot point, since your standards
don't apply to everyone, regardless of your desire that it be otherwise.
    
>    Important point.  Lucky Jack is only interested in the symptoms...that
>    being irresponsibility.  I like to go to the next level...that being
>    the cause.  Cause drives the effect Jack.  Irresponsibility IS the
>    effect.   

No. The disease and it's spread are the effect. No matter how many times
you choose to suggest otherwise, this will remain the case.

It has been demonstrated to you, in this string and others, that people
who do not share or adhere to your morals, can act as responsibly or moreso
than you and not contribute to the problem/effect. Yet you continue to
claim that irresponsibility _IS_ the effect of a lack of morals. Now, Jack,
I can see that there's no logical connection there. Others can see it
as well. You fail to do so. Fine.

323.765BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Thu Sep 21 1995 14:537
    
    	RE: patient 0
    
    	No, he wasn't the 1st in the country to get AIDS, but he was the
    	"center" or "origin" of the cases that they had been sent to
    	investigate.
    
323.766MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 16:4414
    Jack:
    
    Standards drive behavior.  You don't beat up a woman unless you have a
    standard as to the value of women.  You don't cheat in school unless
    you have a standard as to your outlook on honesty and character.  You
    don't abort a child guilt free unless you have a standard driving your
    outlook on a fetus.
    
    Standards drive behavior.  Behavior brings forth results.
    
    Morals determine behavior.  Bahavior can be responsible or
    irresponsible.  
    
    -Jack
323.767SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Thu Sep 21 1995 17:006
    .766
    
    > Morals determine behavior.
    
    Not necessarily.  I might find it highly moral to waste some jerk, but
    ethics prevent me.
323.768MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 17:093
    True.  I was thinking more in line of way of life habits.
    
    -Jack
323.769BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 17:175
| <<< Note 323.768 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| True.  I was thinking more in line of way of life habits.

	But Jack, life's habits are driven by behavior...blah blah blah... :-)
323.770SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Thu Sep 21 1995 17:2112
    .768
    
    Then you missed the point.  In a hypothetical situation, I might have
    AIDS and find it highly moral to boink everyone in sight to get my
    revenge.  My ethics would prevent such behavior, not my morals.  Morals
    are a spiritual thing, ethics are a thing of the here and now.  The
    problem with people like you is that because both morals and ethics
    indicate the same proper behavior so often, you can't distinguish
    between the two.  So you lay a moral guilt trip on everyone who doesn't
    buy your version of things.  You, sir, are possessed of an inexcusably
    inflated cranial region.  Were it filled with functional gray matter,
    you might have a more realistic take on this argument.
323.771BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 17:575


	Great cranial analogy! Does this mean that because his cranial is so
overinflated, that Jack gives good cranial? 
323.772Cranky Old Fart You Are!!!!!MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 18:0110
 ZZ   So you lay a moral guilt trip on everyone who doesn't
 ZZ   buy your version of things.
    
    That's the amazing thing.  I am considered a kook, a lame brain, and
    the town crier, and yet at the same time I am accused of having enough
    influence to lay a moral guilt trip.  That's rich I'll say!!!!
    
    Glen, go back to annoying Joe!
         
    -Jack
323.773BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Thu Sep 21 1995 18:065
    
    	Any idiot can "lay a moral guilt trip".
    
    	But that doesn't mean that people will take it seriously.
    
323.774BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 18:0925
| <<< Note 323.772 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| That's the amazing thing. I am considered a kook, 

	Yes.

| a lame brain, 

	Yes.

| and the town crier, 

	Crier, baby, same thing. :-)

| and yet at the same time I am accused of having enough influence to lay a 
| moral guilt trip.  That's rich I'll say!!!!

	Jack, you don't need influence to lay a moral guilt trip. You need
influence to make the guilt work. So What Jack D. says is true. But I guess
that means ya don't have any influence.... :-)



Glen	
323.775MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 18:156
    ZZZ      But that doesn't mean that people will take it seriously.
    
    Yeah but considering all the pissing and moaning you guys are doing, I
    would choose to believe it's working!
    
    -Jack
323.776BUSY::SLABOUNTYHoly rusted metal, Batman!Thu Sep 21 1995 18:194
    
    	If it were working, there would have been a deluge of "You are
    	right, Jack" replies after you had made your point[s].
    
323.777BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 18:409

	Shawn, you forgot all the:


			:'-(


	that would be included with the you're right jack comments. :-)
323.778MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 19:2527
    Shawn:
    
    I disagree.  The first martyr of the Church age...a man named Stephen
    was on trial by the pharisees.  He spoke on the history of the
    forefathers of Israel.  He ended his speech by asking the rhetorical
    question, "How many of the prophets have your fathers killed?"
    
    The court was so indignant they yelled aloud, covered their ears
    because they couldn't bear hearing what they needed to hear, dragged
    Stephen outside and summarily stoned him to death.  
    
    Just because a group of individuals disagree in the majority does not 
    give the messenger any less creedance.  It only means they all disagree
    with what the message is saying.  I don't think it takes a rocket
    scientist to make the observation...when a messenger brings forth a
    message and alot of people get pissed off at the messenger, then one
    can assume the message is having some of effect.  
    
    I know what's coming.  It's not having a negative effect...I'm just not
    making one bit of sense.  Well I don't buy that.  There are alot of
    people who agree with me and Central Africa is testimony to my point.
    Men screw without regard to their families because their moral
    standards are not where they should be.  Now apply that to the
    attitudes and paradigms we have here right in good old Godly America
    and get back to me!
    
    -Jack 
323.779BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Sep 21 1995 19:497

	Jack, are you saying that the guy guilted the others into killing him?
That's one hell of a guilt trip...yes it is. 


Glen
323.780MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 19:5512
    Sure as hell is.  They knew exactly what he was saying and they were
    deeply offended by it!
    
    I find it interesting how I have this knack for getting Soapbox proper
    pissed at me alot...but it's always because I don't have a brain and
    has nothing to do with exposing things that bring people out of their
    comfort zone....Things like the sexism propogated in the conference by
    all...things like the bigotry propgogated by ALL...things like
    societies dying because of stupidity and not because of
    irresponsibility...you know...the usual!
    
    -Jack
323.781SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Thu Sep 21 1995 20:075
    .780
    
    And *you* *don't* propagate bigotry???
    
    BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAA {gasp}
323.782MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 20:119
    Oh...apparently I do because people read what they want to read here. 
    I don't agree with the establishment and therefore I am a bigot.  So
    noted.
    
    What I get a chuckle out of is our lilly white Soapbox community who
    pounces on me for subtle indiscretions when bigotry and sexism are so
    overt it's unbelievable.
    
    -Jack
323.783SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Thu Sep 21 1995 20:158
    Meaty, I don't pounce on you for disagreeing with the establishment.  I
    don't care what the establishment says.
    
    I pounce on you for your repeated statements that such-and-such a
    person is less worthwhile than the next individual because of, for
    example, his or her sexual polarity.  That is bigotry, and I despise
    it - despite the fact that it is, for all intents and purposes, the
    "establishment" position.
323.784MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 20:4718
    Oh...I see.  My ridiculous assertion that gay sex should be avoided
    right?  
    
    Yes, I see what you mean about that.  Dick, there are times in life
    when one has to stick by convictions.  I am trying to reconcile gay
    relationships with scripture and quite frankly I'm having a hard time
    doing it.  Same with the premarital stuff.  Now as a libertarian, I
    believe in the sovereign right to choose provided the choices are not
    detrimental to society.  In the privacy of your domain, do as you see
    fit.  Doesn't mean I can't tell you what I think of it...or state the
    dangers of it...but I support one's right to destruction if they want
    it.  It's their business as long as they can live with the
    consequences.  Oh, and please keep your ideologies out of the public
    schools.  My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and
    lesbian month as the NEA has declared this month.  Has no more
    creedance than National Jesus month.
    
    -Jack
323.785BUSY::SLABOUNTYI'll kiss the dirt and walk awayThu Sep 21 1995 20:4815
    
    	Jack:
    
    	I agree that abstinence is the ideal way to prevent unprotected
    	sex from spreading the AIDS virus.
    
    	But that's not going to happen.  How many 1000's of years has
    	this "immoral behavior" been going on?  And for how long have
    	we known that unprotected sex was dangerous, disease-wise?  And
    	for how long have we been doing it anyways?
    
    	There are alot of old dogs in this world who aren't interested
    	in learning new tricks, especially when they aren't even pract-
    	icing the old tricks.
    
323.786SMURF::BINDERNight's candles are burnt out.Thu Sep 21 1995 20:548
    .784
    
    Jack, your position on gay sex is not ridiculous.  It is, however, a
    position dictated by your personal moral stance.  Others' morals are
    not necessarily the same as yours.  Yet you shove your view on everyone
    else as the be-all and end-all, against which only sick people or
    amoral SOBs argue.  In your insistence that no other way is acceptable
    PERIOD, you are wrong, Jack, wrong.
323.787MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 20:5719
    ZZ        There are alot of old dogs in this world who aren't interested
    ZZ        in learning new tricks, especially when they aren't even pract-
    ZZ        icing the old tricks.
    
    Shawn:
    
    You just made a wonderful case for the impotence of the UN women's
    conference.  Trying to set standards amongst a myriad of different
    cultures, and enforcing it no less, is impossible.  An exercise in
    futility...NADA.
    
    Of course there are those who believe it is a small step.  Well,
    perhaps...just as speaking on abstinence.  There is no question about
    it.  The rate of STD's and illigitamacy amongst teens was
    NOTHING...NOTHING like it is today.  Therefore, I believe abstinence
    can be effective put into the minds of youth.  It is a defeatist
    attitude to think otherwise.
    
    -Jack
323.788MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Sep 21 1995 21:0011
    ZZ    Yet you shove your view on everyone
    ZZ    else as the be-all and end-all, against which only sick people or
    ZZ    amoral SOBs argue. 
    
    A bit of a stretch.  I just got through saying I'm having a hard time
    reconciling gay sex with scripture.  I would hardly call that shoving
    my view.  This only adds to the case I'm making...people a pissed off
    more at the message than the messenger...but the messenger gets screwed
    for it.
    
    -Jack
323.789CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 22:3413
   <<< Note 323.785 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "I'll kiss the dirt and walk away" >>>

>    	But that's not going to happen.  How many 1000's of years has
>    	this "immoral behavior" been going on?  And for how long have
>    	we known that unprotected sex was dangerous, disease-wise?  And
>    	for how long have we been doing it anyways?
    
    	Your question would be more meaningful if you asked whether
    	the immoral behavior has been going on to the same degree 
    	and with the same societal sanction as it does today.
    
    	Sure, it has always been going on.  That doesn't mean we
    	should just ignore a greater occurrence of it today.
323.790CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backThu Sep 21 1995 22:386
    joe,
    
    Can you explain how "immoral" behavior is sanctioned?  All I see is
    people trying to judge other's moral behavior.
    
    meg
323.791CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Sep 21 1995 22:482
    	Well, I mentioned a few things in .314 a while back.  Certainly
    	it's not a comprehensive list.
323.792DASHER::RALSTONIdontlikeitsojuststopit!!Thu Sep 21 1995 22:563
    >All I see is people trying to judge other's moral behavior.
    
    Your right Meg. The entire definition of morals is screwed up IMO.
323.793KERNEL::PLANTCNever tell me the odds!Fri Sep 22 1995 10:5922
    
    
    Not everyone believes or wants to hear the fire and brimstone
    message that religion preaches. I believe that the bible
    was written to bring about certain ideas and was written for 
    a certain period of time. I don't believe it should be taken literally.
    If anyone out there chooses to do that though, that's fine but do
    you really need to drone it over and over ad endum in here.
    State your ideas and then go on. I get irritated trying to read
    this topic when it is constantly filled with one person's condemnations
    of other's moral beliefs.
    
    
    it has been stated in here before
    
    sex is not the only way that HIV is passed on .
    
    Abstinance may be a good way for some to lessen the chances of getting
    the disease but it definitely is not the choice for everyone.
    
    Chris
    
323.794BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 22 1995 14:2616
| <<< Note 323.780 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Sure as hell is.  They knew exactly what he was saying and they were
| deeply offended by it!

	Jack, you can't be serious. He guilted them to killing him? Man-o-man!

| I find it interesting how I have this knack for getting Soapbox proper pissed 
| at me alot...but it's always because I don't have a brain and has nothing to 
| do with exposing things that bring people out of their comfort zone....

	I believe the man is starting to understand...... ;-)



Glen
323.795BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 22 1995 14:2915
| <<< Note 323.784 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Oh...I see. My ridiculous assertion that gay sex should be avoided right?

	Well, that is ridiculous. If you were to take out the moral issues,
what would be your reasoning for gay sex to not happen?

| My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and lesbian month as the 
| NEA has declared this month.  

	I agree. But in June the schools are letting out. Can't have it then. 



Glen
323.796MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 15:158
   ZZ     If anyone out there chooses to do that though, that's fine but do
   ZZ     you really need to drone it over and over ad endum in here.
    
    No..it isn't necessary.  I was under the impression that we were
    looking for ideas on how to curb the spread of AIDS.  
    
    
    -Jack
323.797KERNEL::PLANTCNever tell me the odds!Fri Sep 22 1995 15:2321
    
    re -1
    
    
    yes that is the topic...but the ideas we are talking about have been
    well stated, not necessarily agreed with..but well stated.
    
    fact is you cannot force people to adopt your way of thinking
    especially when it comes to abstinance. Alot of people have very loving
    relationships but without the benefit of a marriage certificate and it
    doesn't affect the spread of this disease in the least. And the lack
    of this certificate doesn't nor should it make any difference in the 
    scheme of things  because what is really important with love is what's
    in the heart and not having the church or state send you a paper that
    says they say its o.k to be together.
    Personally I don't think the church has any business dictating what
    goes on in anyone's bedroom. The church should stick to teaching
    lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
    
    Chris
    
323.798MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 15:3738
Z    because what is really important with love is what's
Z    in the heart and not having the church or state send you a paper
Z    that says they say its o.k to be together.
 Z   Personally I don't think the church has any business dictating what
Z    goes on in anyone's bedroom. The church should stick to teaching
Z    lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
    
    Chris, perhaps without meaning to, you belittle and make light o f the
    whole institution of marriage.  The tearing of that insignificant
    little paper has caused our society nothing but
    misery...misery....misery.  Furthermore, I think we need to better
    understand the ramifications of premarital intercourse before we can
    make light hearted comments.  An excellent book you may want to look at
    is called, "Why Wait?" by Josh McDowell.  Any competent psychologist
    will tell you the most important element of a relationship is the trust
    factor.  Without it, a partnership will ultimately fall.  Sex before
    marriage counteracts the trust factor, whether you believe it or not,
    it's true.  
    
    Secondly, I think a better understanding of the local church mission is
    in order here.  What you stated here...
    
    Z     The church should stick to teaching
    Z     lessons of peace, love and tolerance.
    
    is true from a broad brush perspective.  Jesus Christ was in fact the
    Prince of peace and was the role model for love and peace.  However,
    Jesus did not always tolerate...in fact on some occasions his
    adversaries were met with righteous indignation.  Secondly, you
    apparently like Little House on the Prairie since that show portrays
    the view of the church you mentioned above.  What it fails to address
    is the issue of discipleship, admonishing one another toward sanctified
    living, dealing with the sinful condition of man, etc.  Apparently you
    give the martyrs of old who died horrible deaths in the name of Jesus
    little regard for what their mission was, not meaning to perhaps but
    there you have it!
    
    -Jack
323.799KERNEL::PLANTCNever tell me the odds!Fri Sep 22 1995 15:439
    
    
    I don't make light of marriage at all...I just don't feel the need
    to have a church or civil ceremony before I can make love with my SO.
    
    BTW Little House was a cute show! :))
    
    Chris
    :)
323.800MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 15:451
    Little House snarf!
323.801MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 15:489
    Actually, I also liked the show myself.
    
    The need may not be there right now Chris.  But let's face it.  There
    are alot of people out there in the same boat who just may not feel the
    need for loyalty and faithfulness either.  And by the rules, they are
    not bound to their SO.  This is the danger of the whole thing and
    consequently, AIDS is spread quite a bit from this kind of attitude.
    
    -Jack
323.802KERNEL::PLANTCNever tell me the odds!Fri Sep 22 1995 15:5618
    
>>    The need may not be there right now Chris.  But let's face it.  There
    are alot of people out there in the same boat who just may not feel the
    need for loyalty and faithfulness either.  And by the rules, they are
    not bound to their SO.  This is the danger of the whole thing and
    consequently, AIDS is spread quite a bit from this kind of attitude.
    
    -Jack
    
    
	You may be right about that ..but I don't think that today's
        church speaks to the youth of today, rather it pushes them the
        other way.
        This is straying from the topic of AIDS but I guess its related.
                                       
    
    Chris
    :)
323.803BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 22 1995 16:533

	Jack, could you address .795 please?
323.804MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 17:4121
    |Well, that is ridiculous. If you were to take out the moral issues,
    |what would be your reasoning for gay sex to not happen?
    
    There wouldn't be any reasons.  It would be as acceptable as two
    animals who naturally go at it when in heat.  Same for Heterosexual
    relationships.  For whatever reasons, two living beings are drawn to 
    one another.  
    
    | My tax dollars shouldn't be supporting National gay and lesbian month
    | as the NEA has declared this month.  
    
    | I agree. But in June the schools are letting out. Can't have it
    | then. 
    
    I don't believe teachers unions have any rights at all to make
    declarations on such matters.  I'm sure a good amount of teachers
    would agree with me.  Secondly, I don't believe it is necessary anyway.
    
    Restrict it to Jersey City in July!
    
    -Jack
323.805BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 22 1995 18:4213
| <<< Note 323.804 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| There wouldn't be any reasons. It would be as acceptable as two animals who 
| naturally go at it when in heat. Same for Heterosexual relationships. For 
| whatever reasons, two living beings are drawn to one another.

	So the whole thing is just moral. Thank you for your honesty. I know
you view that your morals aren't always up to His standards, but it amazes me
that you could try to hold someone else to your version of morals. I mean, how
can you honestly do that? Let God hold people to His morals. 


Glen
323.806CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Sep 22 1995 18:5811
    	Morals don't have to be Biblical, so it is wrong to assume
    	that a moral approach to addressing homosexuality is also
    	someone's version of a Christian approach.
    
    	Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be
    	immoral.
    
    	So yes, the whole thing is moral.  Society is going to
    	determine that morality -- with or without the Bible --
    	and this whole debate is about maintaining (or redefining)
    	society's current moral view.
323.807BOXORN::HAYSSome things are worth dying forFri Sep 22 1995 19:028
RE: 323.806 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?"

> Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.

Haven't read much about classical Greek society,  I see.


Phil
323.808CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backFri Sep 22 1995 19:042
    Who are the sexually active people least likely to give AIDS to each
    other?  
323.809MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Sep 22 1995 19:075
    Meg:
    
    Those who use condoms I suppose or are monogamous.
    
    -Jack
323.810SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoFri Sep 22 1995 19:093
    lesbians, of course.
    
    DougO
323.811CSC32::M_EVANSnothing's going to bring him backFri Sep 22 1995 19:105
    I was waiting for that
    
    ;-)
    
    
323.812BUSY::SLABOUNTYI'll kiss the dirt and walk awayFri Sep 22 1995 19:193
    
    	That was going to be my answer, and I would have been serious.
    
323.813BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Sep 22 1995 19:5523
| <<< Note 323.806 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Morals don't have to be Biblical, so it is wrong to assume that a moral 
| approach to addressing homosexuality is also someone's version of a Christian 
| approach.

	Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
moral standards that you accept as being moral.

| Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.

	And societies of today are changing. Seeing that they were wrong in
thinking so. Who would have thought one could actually be of the same sex and
marry? Who would have thought that you could be openly gay and still serve in
the military? It's slow going, but it is going. If you kind of think about it,
this doesn't appear to be any different than the other things done in the past
which were supposed to have been moral. The Spanish Inquisitions, etc. Slowly
people realized that these things were wrong too. *I* believe the same thing is
happening with homosexuality.



Glen
323.814CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Sep 22 1995 21:1318
     <<< Note 323.807 by BOXORN::HAYS "Some things are worth dying for" >>>

>> Societies throughout history have held homosexuality to be immoral.
>
>Haven't read much about classical Greek society,  I see.

    	Wrong.  It is evident that YOU are the one who is ignorant
    	here.
    
    	The truth is that during its Golden Age, Athens made homosexuality
    	against the law, and punished it severely.  Despite what politically
    	biased scholars try to tell us, the writings of Socrates and Plato
    	clearly show that they were not only heterosexual, but vehement
    	opposed to homosexual behavior.  Plato was even sodomized by a
    	homosexual ruler, an experience which he condemned as the most
    	degrading and humiliating of his life.  On homosexuality he
    	wrote: "Who in their right mind would pass a law to protect such
    	behavior?"
323.815CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Sep 22 1995 21:2522
                  <<< Note 323.813 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
> moral standards that you accept as being moral.
    
    	And your point is...  
    
    	Do you think that our moral standards today were not influenced by
    	all of history?

>	And societies of today are changing. Seeing that they were wrong in
> thinking so. 
    
    	I doubt that most of society thinks that moral taboos on
    	homosexuality have been wrong throughout history, nor are
    	wrong now.  Change today is mostly due to a concerted
    	effort by a gay movement that has been relentless.  Only
    	now is the rest of society waking up (or at least that's
    	how I see it.  And you have expressed how you see it.)
    
    	Yes, society is changing.  That's what this battle for
    	social moral conscience is all about.
323.816BOXORN::HAYSSome things are worth dying forMon Sep 25 1995 11:329
RE: 323.814 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?"

Athens is not all of Greece,  not even half.  Perhaps a little reading on
Sparta would be in order?  Oh,  and you might try to find translations of 
original texts.  I suspect that your tracts may be missing some parts of 
the truth.


Phil
323.817BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Sep 25 1995 13:2239
| <<< Note 323.815 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	Joe, what was used to form the moral standards we have today? Well, the
| > moral standards that you accept as being moral.

| And your point is...

| Do you think that our moral standards today were not influenced by all of 
| history?

	Joe, please don't divert from the question I asked by asking another.
Please answer my quetion.

| I doubt that most of society thinks that moral taboos on homosexuality have 
| been wrong throughout history, nor are wrong now.  

	I did not say most, did I? If you look at the numbers 20 years ago, and
compare them to today's, there is quite the difference, don't you think?

| Change today is mostly due to a concerted effort by a gay movement that has 
| been relentless.  

	Let's see, when some of the RR scream how evil we are, this is somehow
good? As more and more people come out, people are seeing us for what we are,
people. I think it is THAT reason(s) that has made the impact. I know for my
parents it had worked quite well. As my father said, once he swallowed his
pride, and saw that I was still the same person I was before, he could see
through the clouded perceptions he had towards gays. 

	Btw, just how is the gay movement relentless?

| Only now is the rest of society waking up (or at least that's how I see it. 
| And you have expressed how you see it.)

	How do you seem they are waking up Joe?



Glen
323.818BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 12:4021


	I saw a quick clip on the Today show this morning about a Haunted House
in Colorado. It is a little different. They showed a kid crawling on the ground
after being hit by a drunk driver, an abortion happening, and a coffin that had
someone in it who died of AIDS. The voice over said something like, "This is
what happens with alternative lifestyles". 

	Pretty sad to see a message like that spread throughout the place when
the lifestyle doesn't cause any of it, being unsafe does. 

	All in all it sounded like a place that is definitely different.
Protesters were outside the place, which had long long lines of people wanting
to get in. I wish they showed more of it and I wish I could have listened to
the interview. But I was running late, so I had to run. Anyone hear the
interview? I THINK it was going to be with the person running it. But again, I
was in a rush, so I didn't see.


Glen
323.819POWDML::BUCKLEYA Change of SeasonsTue Oct 31 1995 13:253
    -1
    
    Only in Colorado!
323.820MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Oct 31 1995 13:272
I saw/heard mention that it was sponsored by a Pentecostal Church, and that
the Colorado Council of Churches were condemning their presentation.
323.821LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 13:313
    |sponsored by a Pentecostal Church
    
    well, they sure sound like a real fun group!
323.822POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 13:323
    | Pentecostal Church
    
    That figures. Yes it does.
323.823GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Oct 31 1995 13:334
    
    
    So, it wasn't all of Colorado and sanctioned by the government?
    
323.824BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 13:401
<---say wha?????
323.825BSS::DSMITHA Harley, &amp; the Dead the good lifeTue Oct 31 1995 13:5515
    
    Re:823
    
     No Mike it wasn't all of Colorado just some Will Perkin fans who think
    they should be able to tell everyone how to live and think.
    
     Once you get away from some of these rabid types Colorado is a GRATE
    place to live,work and play...
    
     Come out some time and I'll take you to the high country and show you
    around...
    
    
     Dave (going hunting in 2 days)
    
323.826Just make sure toys are ready fer me to play wifGRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Oct 31 1995 14:017
    
    
    I'll be out there one day, Dave.  Gotta get out to see a few cronies
    from a few different files and ex-deccies.  You'll be on the list.
    
    
    Mike
323.827across the grate divide...GAAS::BRAUCHERFrustrated IncorporatedTue Oct 31 1995 14:014
    
      A "GRATE" place ?  As in, "GRATEful Dead" ?  As in Parmesana ?
    
        bb
323.828MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 14:146
ZZ    Pretty sad to see a message like that spread throughout the
ZZ    place when the lifestyle doesn't cause any of it, being unsafe does. 
    
    Hasty generalization.  Lifestyles in MANY cases cause these problems.
    
    -Jack
323.829BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 14:2111
| <<< Note 323.828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Hasty generalization.  Lifestyles in MANY cases cause these problems.

	GGGAAAANNNNTTTT!!!!! Wrong, Jack. Lifestyles do not cause it. You can
take two people from the same lifestyle. One can be safe, the other not. One
has a much greater chance of contracting HIV than the other.


Glen
323.830MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 14:286
    Glen:
    
    Harry has sex with over 1000 other men.  Harry's lifestyle is
    wreckless, Harry contracts AIDs, Harry dies.
    
    -Jack
323.831CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenTue Oct 31 1995 14:301
    Harry's behavior is reckless Jack, no that he is allegedly gay.
323.832BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 14:3112
| <<< Note 323.830 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Harry has sex with over 1000 other men. Harry's lifestyle is wreckless, Harry 
| contracts AIDs, Harry dies.

	Harry was stupid. The coffin scene explicitely said alternative
lifestyles, which you listed above. Harry could sleep with 1000 women and
contract HIV. That was missing from the coffin scene. Who you have sex with is 
the lifestyle. How many you have sex with is not a lifestyle. 


Glen
323.833POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 14:323
    Harry beats his wife every other day. Harry's lifestyle is cruel.
    Harry goes to church and sings hymns songs and spiritual songs. Harry
    is a monster.
323.834CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Oct 31 1995 14:3311


 I wouldn't support that display in Colorado.  People cannot be frightened
 into a relationship with Jesus Christ.  People come to Christ through the
 work of the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, and the love therein.  I'd
 strongly disagree were my church to support such a display.



 Jim
323.835LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 14:341
    harry should have changed his lifestyle each time.
323.836POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 14:361
    I'm not wild about Harry.
323.837BUSY::SLABOUNTYBeing weird isn't enoughTue Oct 31 1995 14:373
    
    	But doesn't he have an electrical banana?
    
323.838GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Oct 31 1995 14:404
    
    
    RE: .836  Hey, what have either my brother or my father ever done to
    you?
323.839SUBPAC::SADINFreedom isn't free.Tue Oct 31 1995 14:404
    
    	do you really wanna know Mike? ;*)
    
    
323.840POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 14:421
    Mike, that's a rather private question isn't it now?
323.841GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Oct 31 1995 14:443
    
    Hey, my bro was never in the service and my old man was much higher
    than a private.....
323.842POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 14:501
    How high can privates get?
323.843MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 14:5714
 ZZ   Harry could sleep with 1000 women and
 ZZ   contract HIV. 
    
    True.  I was thinking of a man's testimony who went to Fire Island in
    New York every weekend.  However, being gay isn't a lifestyle as you
    have stated so recklessness is attributed to a lifestyle and not a
    condition (Being gay or straight).
    
    What prompted me to write here was more your casual remark on unsafe
    verses safe in the context of abortion.  If my 13 year old daughter
    becomes pregnant, then I don't rebuke her lack of safety.  I rebuke
    myself for allowing her as a parent to be unsupervised.
    
    -Jack
323.844MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 14:571
    Correction:  Allowing myself as a parent to leave her unsupervised!
323.845BUSY::SLABOUNTYBeing weird isn't enoughTue Oct 31 1995 15:039
    
    	Jack, you can follow a gay lifstyle or a straight lifestyle.
    
    	Within that lifestyle, you can be reckless or you can "play it
    	safe".
    
    	The lifestyle itself has no direct bearing on the spread of
    	disease.
    
323.846MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 15:079
    ZZ        The lifestyle itself has no direct bearing on the spread of
    ZZ        disease.
    
    Shawn, define lifestyle.  Gay participants here have stated that being
    gay or straight is NOT a lifestyle, and I agree.  Therefore, a
    lifestyle is a course of behavior or action in a life.  Wearing a
    condom does not mean the lifestyle is any good!
    
    -Jack
323.847pigs is pigsSOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 15:081
    
323.848BUSY::SLABOUNTYBeing weird isn't enoughTue Oct 31 1995 15:099
    
    	This is from Glen:
    
>contract HIV. That was missing from the coffin scene. Who you have sex with is 
>the lifestyle. How many you have sex with is not a lifestyle. 
    
    
    	Isn't he saying that "gay" or "straight" is a lifestyle?
    
323.849MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 15:245
    Well...gee I don't know.
    
    Glen, is being gay a lifestyle or is it a predisposition?
    
    -Jack
323.850toys r us..BSS::DSMITHA Harley, &amp; the Dead the good lifeTue Oct 31 1995 16:0910
    
    
    >Just make sure toys are ready fer me to play wif
    
    Just let know what type of toys( I already have an idea or two from
    reading some of your notes) you wants play to wif and how much time you'll
    have to play..
    
    Dave
       
323.851BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:1712
| <<< Note 323.834 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>

| I wouldn't support that display in Colorado. People cannot be frightened into 
| a relationship with Jesus Christ. People come to Christ through the work of 
| the Holy Spirit and the Word of God, and the love therein.  

	Jim, what you wrote above has got to be one of the best notes I have
ever seen anyone write. Thanks for writing it.



Glen
323.852BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:186
| <<< Note 323.837 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Being weird isn't enough" >>>


| But doesn't he have an electrical banana?

	But no batteries....
323.853BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:2011
| <<< Note 323.843 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| What prompted me to write here was more your casual remark on unsafe verses 
| safe in the context of abortion.  

	Jack, where did I do this? 




Glen
323.854No 666 room, though.DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 16:2310
    .818
    
    Glenn,
    
    	Down in Texas, several churches sponsored or held alternative
    "haunted houses" to the same effect.  One even boasted of a "Lake
    of Fire" room.
    
    Barry
    
323.855BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:2410
| <<< Note 323.849 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Glen, is being gay a lifestyle or is it a predisposition?

	Jack, why do you equate gay to just sex? You would have to be doing
that to come out with the above based on what I said.


Glen
323.856BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:253

	Barry, why do they do this???????????????
323.857CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Oct 31 1995 16:302
    	Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than
    	others.
323.858GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Oct 31 1995 16:373
    
    
    RE: .85 Select Fire would be nice........ :')
323.859Tumble through room .223.DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 16:382
    
    .858 The Safety/Semi/Auto Fire room ?  
323.860BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:395
| <<< Note 323.857 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others.

	False. 
323.861BOXORN::HAYSSome things are worth dying forTue Oct 31 1995 16:397
RE: 323.854 by DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!"

Did they have a "Mormon Room",  as did one church "alternative haunted
house" in New Hampshire?  How about a "New Age Room"?  


Phil
323.862DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 16:446
    
    They had a Jack Martin room.  I was paralyzed with stupor.
    
    Just kidding, Jack....
    
    ;^)
323.863BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 16:501
<----heh heh.....
323.864MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 16:5411
    Grrrrrrrr............!!!!
    
    By the way Glen, somebody mentioned the haunted house showed an
    abortion and it sounded like your use of the word, "unsafe" was
    directed at everything the haunted house showed.
    
    And I don't equate gay to just sex.  I am asking clarification if gay
    is a lifestyle or a predisposition.  I believe it is a predisposition
    so if anything, I'm NOT equating it to sex!
    
    -Jack
323.865POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 16:572
    These people think they're so clever and they feel so good about this.
    They are modern day pharisees who encourage hatred.
323.866BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 17:0829
| <<< Note 323.864 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| By the way Glen, somebody mentioned the haunted house showed an abortion and 
| it sounded like your use of the word, "unsafe" was directed at everything the 
| haunted house showed.

	I went back and reread it. I guess it can be taken that way. Not the
way I had intended....sorry bout that.

| And I don't equate gay to just sex. I am asking clarification if gay is a 
| lifestyle or a predisposition.  

	Well, basing your words upon what I said, I had thought you equated it
to sex. Being gay is not a lifestyle. It just is. Same with being heterosexual.

	You have some people who have sex, some who don't. If you choose to have
sex, regardless of your orientation, it is my belief that is part of what you 
want your life to include. Same would be there for reading, playing softball,
anything. All of these things combined make up your lifestyle. Each one is
different from another, because each person may have other things they include,
or exclude from it all. 

	I don't view being gay/straight a choice. I mean, I have never seen a 
heterosexual who has stated they woke up one day and chose to be straight. So 
why do some view that gays did? 

	
Glen
323.867LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 17:152
    glen, you just don't get it do you?  The only good sex is
    vaginal intercourse within a heterosexual marriage.  OK?
323.868MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 17:2212
    Richard:
    
    I think the big problem with this, and I include the James Dobsons of
    the world, is that they are using the wrong strategy.  Instead of
    changing each individual so that the overall behavior of society will
    change from the heart of mankind, there is currently a civil war that
    will temporarily bring forth the concepts of conservatism, but will
    ultimately and most likely fail, because the heart condition has not
    changed.  The civil war is a quick fix but ultimately the sheep will be
    ascared again and vote with blinders on!
    
    -Jack
323.869MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 17:3218
    Glen;
    
    Okay, so we have established it is NOT a lifestyle, it just is!  I
    think it would be safe to say people use the word lifestyle
    incorrectly.
    
    You seem to equate sex with an activity like reading a book was your
    example.  I put it more in league with something that out of context
    can devastate a person.  If I take morpheme in order to bear the pain
    after a car accident, then it is proper.  If I take it in order to have
    a fix, then it is killing me.  My lifestyle dictates life or death in
    this case.  If I have sex with my spouse, then it is an activity in its
    context.  If I sleep around with prostitutes 100 times a year, then my
    lifestyle dictates life, death, or divorce.  I can wear a concom while
    making it with a prostitute but the ramifications of my lifestyle will
    still ultimately catch up with me.
    
    -Jack
323.870LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 17:351
    oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
323.871PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Oct 31 1995 17:382
  .870  {pout}
323.872MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 17:393
    ZZ    oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
    
    Hey...You said it I didn't!
323.873LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 17:391
    and during sex keep your eyes closed at all times.
323.874DPDMAI::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 17:421
    ...and think of Britannia...
323.875MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 17:422
    And when you disrobe, be sure your body from the neck down is under the
    blankee!
323.876LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 17:431
    ...and then afterwards get up and take a shower right away.
323.877SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 17:473
    
    Voice of experience???
    
323.878MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Oct 31 1995 17:471
    And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!
323.879LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 17:523
    |Voice of experience???
    
    i dunno, andy.  i've never had sex, i'm not married.
323.880NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 31 1995 17:554
>                             If I take morpheme in order to bear the pain
>    after a car accident, then it is proper.

What if you take lexeme?
323.881BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 17:579
| <<< Note 323.867 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>

| glen, you just don't get it do you?  

	Who told you!!?? :-)

| The only good sex is vaginal intercourse within a heterosexual marriage.  OK?

	Sigh....ok..... ;-)
323.882BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 17:5913
| <<< Note 323.868 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I think the big problem with this, and I include the James Dobsons of the 
| world, is that they are using the wrong strategy. Instead of changing each 
| individual so that the overall behavior of society will change from the heart 
| of mankind, 

	Jack, change the individual from what to what?



Glen
323.883SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 17:595
    
    >i dunno, andy.  i've never had sex, i'm not married.
    
    Then why all the comments as if they were facts??
    
323.884PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Oct 31 1995 18:002
  .880  mincing words again, gerald? ;>
323.885BUSY::SLABOUNTYConsume feces and expire.Tue Oct 31 1995 18:015
    
    >And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!
    
    	Is 3 days sufficient time to gain your "2nd virginity"?
    
323.886PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Oct 31 1995 18:012
  aagagagag!  Oph - are you for real?? ;>
323.887SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 18:0216
    
    re: .860
    
    >| <<< Note 323.857 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>
    
    >| Some lifestyles have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others.
    
    >False.
    
    
     When others do this, you're the first one to call them to task... 
    
    So... it's false.. huh? 
    
     Back it up then... where's your "facts"??
    
323.888BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:0418
| <<< Note 323.869 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I think it would be safe to say people use the word lifestyle incorrectly.

	Yes. Many words get screwed up.

| You seem to equate sex with an activity like reading a book was your example. 
| I put it more in league with something that out of context can devastate a 
| person.  

	Jack, if a person read a book on how to kill their parents and get away
with it, wouldn't that be devastating? So that was why I included it in with
sex. All can be good, all can be bad. The key word is, "can".



Glen
323.889BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:045
| <<< Note 323.870 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>

| oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.

	what if they wash first?
323.890LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:055
    |>i dunno, andy.  i've never had sex, i'm not married.
    
    |Then why all the comments as if they were facts??
    
    ooh er, i read it in a book Jack lent to me.  8^}
323.891BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:055
| <<< Note 323.878 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| And then remain in seclusion for three days as a time of purification!

	Let's not forget to kill, and burn a dove......
323.892LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:085
    | oh, and no oral sex because everyone knows that's filthy.
    
            what if they wash first?
    
    well, ok.  it's a dirty job, but someone's got to do it.
323.893And no fudge-packing!!!SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 18:101
    
323.894BUSY::SLABOUNTYDancin' on CoalsTue Oct 31 1995 18:143
    
    	Before or after sex?
    
323.895BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:2310

	Fudge Packing can be fun. Let me tell you about the time I did it. I
packed several little boxes full of fudge, and went around and handed them out
at a Christmas party.

	So yes, fudge packing can be fun.


Glen
323.896How about "fisting"??SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 18:241
    
323.897EDITEX::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 18:244
    
    Did you make the fudge yourself ?
    
    
323.898LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:251
    hetero or homo fisting?
323.899BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:258
| <<< Note 323.896 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| -< How about "fisting"?? >-

	Fisting is bad. It helps promote violence. Luv, not punches should be
had.

323.900BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:261
fudge snarf!
323.901BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:267
| <<< Note 323.897 by EDITEX::GUINEO::MOORE "HEY! All you mimes be quiet!" >>>


| Did you make the fudge yourself ?


	No, I only fudge packed.
323.902BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:275
| <<< Note 323.898 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>

| hetero or homo fisting?

	We all know there is no hetero fisting....... ;-)
323.903Pigs is pigs...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 18:295
    
    re: .898
    
    > hetero or homo fisting?
    
323.904POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 18:351
    I got to hand it to you guys, you sure know how to cycle a cpu.
323.905EDITEX::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Tue Oct 31 1995 18:373
    Maybe we should go to lunch, or take a smoke break.
    
    Hmmmm.
323.906new car sticker?LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:402
    Gone Fisting.
    
323.907or an ass....BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:481
	Would it have a picture of a bass on it????
323.908LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:511
    How bout a bass looking very, very surprised?
323.909SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Oct 31 1995 18:515
    
    >or an ass....
    
    You got a bunch of extra photos of yourself????
    
323.910BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:557
| <<< Note 323.908 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>


| How bout a bass looking very, very surprised?


	Now that could work. 
323.911POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Oct 31 1995 18:551
    Brings new meaning to the term `Rod and Reel'.
323.912BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 18:558
| <<< Note 323.909 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| >or an ass....

| You got a bunch of extra photos of yourself????

	Clothed or unclothed?
323.913LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Oct 31 1995 18:591
    andy, you're not being very nice to glen.
323.914BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Oct 31 1995 19:146
| <<< Note 323.913 by LANDO::OLIVER_B >>>


| andy, you're not being very nice to glen.

	And that is so rare for him to do!!!! :-)
323.915CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 02:144
    	Glen.  I noticed you conveniently skipped .887.
    
    	Take your mind out of the gutter for a moment and revisit
    	that one if you'd be so kind...
323.916BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 12:298

	Didn't skip it, Joe, I didn't think I really had to say I wasn't the
one who made the claim that needed backing up. But apparently I guess I was
wrong and it needed to be said. 


Glen
323.917SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 12:3010
    
    re: .913
    
    >andy, you're not being very nice to glen.
    
    Gee Bonnie.... I don't recall you making these types of comments when
    he's on the giving end...
    
    Would you like to see what he wrote about Jack Martin??
    
323.918BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 12:321
<----I would....it will be nice to see if ya took it out of context...
323.919MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 12:501
    Fire away...I'm thick skinned!!!!!
323.920BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 12:505
| <<< Note 323.919 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Fire away...I'm thick skinned!!!!!

	especially around the head....heh heh....:-)
323.921SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 13:027
    
    
    You see Bonnie.... 
    
    I guess my problem is I don't add smiley faces... that would just make
    my a hypocrite... no?
    
323.922SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 13:0510
    
    re: .918
    
    ><----I would....it will be nice to see if ya took it out of context...
    
    Nice bluff....
    
    You wrote it... you should remember what you wrote... I extracted it
    verbatim. 
    
323.923BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 13:1313
| <<< Note 323.921 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| I guess my problem is I don't add smiley faces... that would just make
| my a hypocrite... no?

	Andy, Jack and I have a history of going back and forth kidding around.
You and I do not. There is your difference. When I put the smiley faces on, I
mean just that. Do you think you could put a smiley face on and have it mean
that you're only kidding around?


Glen
323.924SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 13:1713
    
    
    Bull...
    
    I tell a lot of Polish jokes... many people tell them to me...
    
    I *KNOW* which people are telling me jokes to be funny/friendly/etc.
    and which ones tell me those same jokes to jab and twist and to try and
    make it hurt... Their crocodile smiles don't fool me, and neither do
    yours...
    
     In my ever so humble opinion of course...
    
323.925BUSY::SLABOUNTYErotic NightmaresWed Nov 01 1995 13:193
    
    	AIDS, people, AIDS!!
    
323.926BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 13:1922
| <<< Note 323.922 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| Nice bluff....

	No bluff, Andy. 

| You wrote it... you should remember what you wrote... I extracted it verbatim.

	Ahhh..... now I know what you're talking about. The Jack Martin is that
word I can not use in here according to Milady. With that, I was pissed at him,
and there were no smileys. Jack & I talked about it in mail. It was cleared up.
Is that something you feel is possible with you and I? Btw, and I'm sure Jack
will clear it up if I am wrong.....but I believe that was the only time that I
was ever pissed like that towards Jack. Was it an over-reaction on my part? Yup.
But is it something that isn't an everyday occurance. 

	And as far as Bonnie not defending Jack goes, she may not have seen it.
The notes were deleted.....


Glen
323.927The Fonzie school of apologies...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 13:211
    
323.928BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 13:2413
| <<< Note 323.924 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>



| I *KNOW* which people are telling me jokes to be funny/friendly/etc. and which
| ones tell me those same jokes to jab and twist and to try and make it hurt.

	Ahhhh yes.....another who knows what goes on in the hearts of people.
So many Gods in da box.....and I thought there was only one.....live and learn.



Glen
323.929BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 13:2512
| <<< Note 323.927 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| -< The Fonzie school of apologies... >-


	How did apologies get into this? Certainly not towards you, as there is
no reason to apologize to you. All you have done is list your opinions. 



Glen
323.930Clueless... SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Wed Nov 01 1995 13:265
    
    re: .928
    
    >Ahhhh yes.....another who knows what goes on in the hearts of people.
    
323.931LANDO::OLIVER_BWed Nov 01 1995 14:565
    andy, glen...have you guys ever done lunch?
    no, i haven't read the silva/martin thingy in question.
    
    i'll not continue this vermin hole, i'm just curious to
    know if you've ever met, that's all.
323.932BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 15:063

	We almost met once..... at a T-stop..... :-)
323.933BUSY::SLABOUNTYForeplay? What's that?Wed Nov 01 1995 15:135
    
    	A truck stop?
    
    	Did Andy try to pick you up or something?
    
323.934do lunch!LANDO::OLIVER_BWed Nov 01 1995 15:225
    C'mon people now!
    Smile on your brother
    Everybody get together
    Try to love one another, right now
    Right now! Right now!
323.935WAHOO::LEVESQUECompilation terminated with errors.Wed Nov 01 1995 15:322
    Yeah, The Bonster and I did, and she hardly hates me at all anymore.
    :-)
323.936CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 15:4138
    	.916
    
    	You're right, Glen.  I made the claim.  I'll back it up.
    
    	According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who
    	Love Men", (1991, Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual 
    	has between 10 and 110 different partners per year.  
    
    	According to Dr. Paul Cameron in "The Gay Nineties" (1993,
    	Adriot Press) the average life span of a married man in the
    	U.S. is about age 75, while the average for a male homosexual
    	in the U.S. is about 42 -- and that's if he does NOT die of
    	AIDS.
    
    	"In the gay community, with its emphasis on youth and looks, the
    	incentive to postpone sexual pleasure for the promise of living
    	to a ripe old age wears thin..." 
    			Tom Hold and Jim Fishman, "Honesty and HIV",
    			San Francisco Sentinel, 7-dec-1994.
    
    	"Part of it is people won't want to see the reality of gay life,
    	because they're repulsed."
    			Jonathan Demme, Director "Philadelphia"
    
    	"In the beginning we desperately wanted to believe it was some
    	big government plot.  But the dust settled and the unspoken
    	horror sank in -- WE unknowingly gave the disease to each other.
    	Today we know better, yet we are STILL giving this disease to
    	each other, only now we can't blame Ron and Nancy."
    			San Francisco AIDS writer Robert DeAndreas, in
    			"Restoring a Subculture Named Desire," San 
    			Francisco Sentinel, 16-feb-1994.
    
    	I'm getting tired of this.  I can pick out dozens more quotes
    	if you want, but I don't see a value in belaboring the point.
    	Many people out there -- both outsie and within the gay movement
    	-- say and demonstrate that there is more risk within the gay
    	lifestyle.
323.937LANDO::OLIVER_BWed Nov 01 1995 15:475
    I sat right next to the Markster and broke bread.  I shall
    never forget it.  And even though his politics are a bit
    weird (as well as his table manners), it made no diff.
    
    Brother, just kidding about the table manners.  :-)
323.938CALLME::MR_TOPAZWed Nov 01 1995 15:483
       > I sat right next to the Markster and broke wind.
       
       Hope he had the right wine for that.
323.939LANDO::OLIVER_BWed Nov 01 1995 16:111
    I heed not the wind-up, Topaz.
323.940WAHOO::LEVESQUECompilation terminated with errors.Wed Nov 01 1995 17:124
    >And even though his politics are a bit
    >weird (as well as his table manners), 
     
     With a little practice you, too, can use chopsticks. :-)
323.941BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 17:5236
| <<< Note 323.936 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| You're right, Glen.  I made the claim.  I'll back it up.

	No, Mike did I believe.

| According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who Love Men", (1991, 
| Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual has between 10 and 110 different 
| partners per year.

	Where is my share? And what did they use as a survey? I mean, you're
big on data points and all. Let's see how important they really are to you.

| According to Dr. Paul Cameron in "The Gay Nineties" (1993, Adriot Press) the 
| average life span of a married man in the U.S. is about age 75, while the 
| average for a male homosexual in the U.S. is about 42 -- and that's if he 
| does NOT die of AIDS.

	And did they go into how they concluded this? 

	Nice to see you're back to the snipets again.

| I'm getting tired of this.  

	Well, when you're going nowhere, like you are, no wonder you're getting
tired.

| Many people out there -- both outsie and within the gay movement -- say and 
| demonstrate that there is more risk within the gay lifestyle.

	You can find people from any walk of life that could do this. And your
point being.....


Glen
323.942MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 18:0611
    Glen:
    
    The point being that Joe has provided documented proof that the life
    expectency and the behavior of the gay population (AS A WHOLE) is
    different from that of the heterosexual population.
    
    Therefore, it would seem the ball is in your court to prove these
    numbers are false; either by using an alternative source or by
    disputung the reputability of Joe's resource.
    
    -Jack
323.943EDITEX::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Wed Nov 01 1995 18:082
    
    <Jack-putting-on-his-referee-uniform noises>
323.944MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 18:091
    That's right!!!!!!!
323.945BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 18:1310
| <<< Note 323.942 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| The point being that Joe has provided documented proof that the life
| expectency and the behavior of the gay population (AS A WHOLE) is
| different from that of the heterosexual population.

	Snipets and opinions are not documented proof.


Glen
323.946CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 18:1743
                  <<< Note 323.941 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	And what did they use as a survey? 
>	...
>	And did they go into how they concluded this? 

    
    	You have the references.  Check it out yourself.
    
    	Want some more quotes?  Here are some more from within your
    	expressed viewpoint:
    
    	"I show 'The Gay Agenda' and 'Gay Rights, Special Rights' (pro-
    	family videos) to seasoned, hardened gay and lesbian folk and
    	when we question them afterwards, they have more doubts about
    	themselves than they have about the videos.  They secretly
    	wonder if maybe those guys aren't right."
    				Mel White. (!!!)
    
    	"It angers me when they say that AIDS is not a gay disease.  AIDS
    	will always be a gay disease.
    				Robert DeAndreis in "We are as God created 
    				us", San Francisco Sentinel 15-jun-1994
    
    	"AIDS is spread primarily in two ways: because of drug users
    	using unsafe needles and because of unsafe sex -- primarily
    	homosexual sex."
    				Bill Clinton (!!!) speaking to a junior
    				high school audience on Feb 3, 1994.
    
    	"I've definitely lived a gay life -- I've been in the bushes 
    	and I've been in the toilets..."
    				Fashion designer Danilo in "Designing
    				Men", The Advocate, 18-Oct-1994.
    
    	"After six months [Bill and Tim] started living together.  Now
    	six years later, not only are they still in love, they still
    	make love.  What is their secret?  Their aphrodisiac?  The
    	answer: outside affairs.  According to psychotherapists and
    	thinkers in the gay community, their experience is hardly
    	unique..."
    				Doug Sadownick, "Open Door Policy",
    				Genre, April 1994.
323.947BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 18:208

	Say Joe.... the author or participants wouldn't happen to be part of
any religious organization, would they? If so, which one(s)?



Glen
323.948MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 01 1995 18:351
    They go to your church Glen!! :-)
323.949BUSY::SLABOUNTYGTI 16V - dust thy neighbor!!Wed Nov 01 1995 18:386
    
    	So Bill Clinton says that AIDS is caused by sharing needles and
    	gay sex.
    
    	I guess it IS true, then.
    
323.950BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 18:407
| <<< Note 323.948 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| They go to your church Glen!! :-)


	I really doubt that, Jack. :-)
323.951CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 19:2110
                  <<< Note 323.945 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Snipets and opinions are not documented proof.

    	It's more than you've been able to provide, and results of
    	studies are neither snippets nor opinions.
    
    	So are you asking me to enter the whole of Cameron's book wherein
    	he shows the relative lifespans?  How about you try warming up
    	that library card of yours...
323.952CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 19:4226
                  <<< Note 323.947 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Say Joe.... the author or participants wouldn't happen to be part of
>any religious organization, would they? If so, which one(s)?

    	Well, none of them seem to identify themselves as affiliated
    	with any religious organizations.  Well, maybe Mel White does,
    	and Bill Clinton claims to be.  The quotes I've provided you
    	aren't authored by anyone other than the people being quoted.
    
    	Want some more?
    
    	Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex:
    	A Manual for Men Who Love Men" is one of the most detailed studies
    	of American homosexual behavior yet.  It says that 92% of
    	respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
    	urine, 41% in fisting, 37% in sex involving deliberate pain, 
    	88% in public sex or orgies, 24% in sex involving minors, and
    	13% in sex with animals at least once.
    
    	"Thailand is a paradise for gay men, and Bangkok -- the filthiest,
    	smelliest, dirtiest, most exciting city in the world -- has hundreds 
    	of pubs, clubs, discos and gay guesthouses."
    		From an article of homosexual travel suggestions in
    		one of Australia's leading gay tabloids.  "Around the 
    		world with only gays," Sydney Star Observer, 22-sep-1994.
323.953BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 01 1995 19:496

	41% fisting???? In what country, Joe? 



323.954BUSY::SLABOUNTYGo Go Gophers watch them go go go!Wed Nov 01 1995 19:527
    
    	Actually, it was a poll of another planet ...
    
    	
    
    	... Uranus.
    
323.955CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 01 1995 20:496
    	The book says "American", so it doesn't specifically list a
    	country, Glen.
    
    	So, no comment on the oral/anal or group percentages?  Didn't
    	all this precipitate from the suggestion that some lifestyles
    	in general have a greater predominance of <unsafe> than others?
323.956BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 02 1995 14:128

	Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.



Glen
323.957MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 02 1995 14:187
ZZ    Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books
ZZ    themselves. I am in the process of getting both of them Will respond 
ZZ    real soon.
    
    HA!!  I'm going to hold you to this!  Don't believe him Joe!  He lies!!
    
    -Jack
323.958LANDO::OLIVER_BThu Nov 02 1995 14:231
    are the books on order a la martin?
323.959BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 02 1995 14:243

	I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will. 
323.960Here or in the 'Conspiracy' note?SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Thu Nov 02 1995 18:5735
The Boston Globe Thu. Nov. 2, 1995 pg. 21

In survey of blacks, 35% tie AIDS to genocide

ASSOCIATED PRESS

SAN DIEGO - A survey of about 1,000 black church members in five cities found 
that more than one-third of them believed the AIDS virus was produced in a 
germ warfare laboratory and has been used to commit genocide against blacks.

  Another third said they were "unsure" whether AIDS was created to kill 
blacks. That left only one-third who disputed the theory.

  The findings held firm even among educated individuals, said one of the 
authors of the 1990 survey, Sandra Quinn, a health educator at the school of 
Public Health at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill.

  Rumors that AIDS was created to kill blacks have circulated in the black 
community for years, and the belief is endorsed by some black leaders.

  The surveyed group was not necessarily a representative sample of black 
population, and the findings cannot be applied to blacks as a whole. But the 
researchers were surprised by the prevalence of such beliefs. "They don't 
trust our public health data," said Quinn, who is white. She has not surveyed 
whits on the genocide question.

  Quinn surveyed 1,054 church members in black churches in Atlanta, Charlotte, 
N.C., Detroit, Kansas City, Mo. and Tuscaloosa, Ala.

  Asked to react to the statement "I believe there is some truth in reports 
that the AIDS virus was produced in a germ warfare laboratory," 33.9 percent
of 983 agreed or strongly agreed. Forty-four percent were unsure, Thirty-five
percent of 979 agreed or strongly agreed with the statement "I believe AIDS
is a form of genocide against black people." Thirty percent were unsure.

323.961CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 02 1995 19:162
    	I saw that in the paper too.  It's the first I've ever heard of
    	this.  Where did that idea start?
323.962LANDO::OLIVER_BThu Nov 02 1995 19:191
    why, it's a conspiracy, of course.
323.963RUSURE::EDPAlways mount a scratch monkey.Thu Nov 02 1995 19:2617
    Note that the statement in the first paragraph of the story in .960
    does not quite agree with the last paragraph.  In the first paragraph,
    it says more than a third believed AIDS was produced in a lab and has
    been used to commit genocide.  But the last paragraph shows a third
    agreed there was _some_ truth in the statement that AIDS was produced
    in a lab.  And it says a third -- not necessarily the same people --
    agreed AIDS is a form of genocide.  They did not necessarily agree that
    AIDS was USED to commit genocide; their agreement could simply
    constitute agreement that AIDS is killing a lot of people, including
    blacks.
    
    
    				-- edp
    
    
Public key fingerprint:  8e ad 63 61 ba 0c 26 86  32 0a 7d 28 db e7 6f 75
To find PGP, read note 2688.4 in Humane::IBMPC_Shareware.
323.964ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Nov 02 1995 19:263
    re: .961
    
    In a secret government lab, I imagine.  8^)
323.965I can't believe you sheeple don't believe!PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftThu Nov 02 1995 19:4716
    All things nutters.  The very same people who bring you various nutter
    theories:
    
      * brain control
      * pineapple bombs
      * waffen agents
      * weather control
      * Foster-was-an-Israeli-spy
      * Black helicopters
      * NWO
      * Queen is a dope dealer
      * US was taken over in 1933
      * Road sign codes
      * blah blah blah blah blah
    
    								-mr. bill
323.966DECLNE::REESEToreDown,I'mAlmostLevelW/theGroundThu Nov 02 1995 19:5013
    Is there any evidence to support the theory that more blacks are
    dying/suffering from the disease than other ethnic groups?
    
    I thought white gay males still have the highest mortality rate
    from the disease (although this group is bringing the spread of the
    disease under control).
    
    I would think before locking onto some nefarious conspiracy theory,
    black church leaders should look to unprotected sex (between males
    and females) and drug usage as being the culprits for spreading
    the disease in their communities.
    
    
323.967Do not taunt happy-nutter-cow...ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Nov 02 1995 19:519
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323.968All things nutters ....BRITE::FYFEThu Nov 02 1995 20:103
I'm begining to believe it takes one to know one :-)

323.969One of the one stop nutters sites....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftThu Nov 02 1995 20:2227
    Conspiracy Control & ????? has:
    
    The nutter AIDS conspiracy theory.
    And the nutter tax theories.
    And the nutter Clinton scandals.
    And the nutter One World Government theories.
    And the nutter OKC bombing theories.
    And a whole grab bag of nutter US out of control theories.
    And the nutter cold war isn't over theories.
    And the nutter FDA's mission is to kill Americans theories.
    And the nutter militia's reports on black helicopters and other
    	absurdities theories.
    And the nutter county supremacy theories.
    And the nutter on and on and on and on.
    
    
    "But the "author" of this site, just like the cross posters here,
    disavows all responsiblity for the content.
    
    
    If you all believe that all these wacky conspiracy theories might be
    true, why do you reject out of hand the wacky conspiracy theory on
    AIDS?
    
    (For the record, *I* believe the nutters LIE.  Do you?)
    
    								-mr. bill
323.970POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerThu Nov 02 1995 20:262
    You forgot the `the nutter donut alien theory'. An impressive list none
    the less.
323.971OUTSRC::HEISERwatchman on the wallThu Nov 02 1995 20:292
    It's true.  I know because it was on the X-Files and the TV wouldn't
    lie to me.
323.972EDITEX::GUINEO::MOOREHEY! All you mimes be quiet!Thu Nov 02 1995 20:421
    ...and the nutter long-lunch-break and smoke-break theory.
323.973CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsFri Nov 03 1995 02:106
    Joe,
    
    Do you have data that isn't presented out of context by a discredited
    psychologist?  Even J dobson says he has little in common with Cameron.
    
    meg
323.974CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 03 1995 07:514
    	Great, Meg.  Discard the Cameron stuff.  That still leaves
    	the vast majority of what I've posted.
    
    	Why ask, "Do you have any..." when you can clearly see I do!
323.975ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Nov 03 1995 11:575
    re: .969
    
    >nutter county supremacy theories...
    
    This is a new one on me.
323.976BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 12:2111


	Joe, is it true that Paul Cameron happens to have been drummed out of 
the American Psycology Association and the sociology groups for having made 
statements not consistant with good studies? 




Glen
323.977LANDO::OLIVER_BFri Nov 03 1995 12:521
    and the anti-Paul Cameron conspiracy theory...
323.978DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomFri Nov 03 1995 13:1216
    
    re:.969
    
    The nutter republicans want to starve kids theories.
    And the nutter republicans want to throw old people out on the streets
        theories.
    And the nutter republicans want to make people drink dirty water
        theories.
    And the nutter republicans want to have dirty air theories.
    And the nutter republicans are the real cause of the national debt
        theories.
    And the nutter republicans want to make all abortions illegal theories.
    And the nutter on and on and on and on.
    
    (For the record, *I* believe the nutters LIE.  Do you?)
    
323.979blame it on the FUNKY MUNKERS!CSC32::C_BENNETTFri Nov 03 1995 14:098
    Well - heard the other day that it has been found but not announced yet
    that HIV has mutated and in these cases HIV is no longer detectable
    by current testing techniques.  People are dying with full blown
    AIDS symptoms but tests reveal that they never had it according
    to todays testing standards.    
    
    This means that we are at square one again and the entire blood supply
    is in question.     DAM THOSE FUNKY MUNKERS!
323.980MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Nov 03 1995 14:142
    If that's the case, then getting tested together won't be like some
    romanticize it!!!!
323.981CSC32::C_BENNETTFri Nov 03 1995 14:263
    and getting any type of blood tranfusion will be a gamble again...   I
    sure hope someone can find a cure for this once and for all!
    
323.982BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 14:327

	Well....before everyone goes ballistic, maybe we should wait and see if
this is even true? 


Glen
323.983Glen, you sheep....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftFri Nov 03 1995 14:577
|	Well....before everyone goes ballistic, maybe we should wait and see if
|this is even true? 
    
    It's not true.  But hell, nobody here seems to give a damn about truth
    anymore, so why not just spread the lies....
    
    								-mr. bill
323.984MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Nov 03 1995 15:028
    Mr. Bill:
    
    It isn't true because....
    
    I believe there is a strong chance you are correct and I certainly hope
    you are!
    
    -Jack
323.985very real possibility of HIV mutation...CSC32::C_BENNETTFri Nov 03 1995 15:158
    It could be true - 
    
    Viruses commonly mutate...  they are smart buggers...
    
    I hope its not true also but researchers have always known this
    is a possibility.    
    
    
323.986Of course "it could be true." BUT IT ISN'T!PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftFri Nov 03 1995 15:195
    
    You are spreading lies.  Why?
    
    								-mr. bil
    
323.987DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomFri Nov 03 1995 15:556
    
    > You are spreading lies.  Why?
    
    billy, that's an idiotic statement.  There is no way on God's green
    earth that you can prove he's lying.
    
323.988BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 16:164

	God's earth has more than just green as the color
scheme....well...except maybe in the 70's....;-)
323.989DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomFri Nov 03 1995 16:435
    
> scheme....well...except maybe in the 70's....;-)

    I thought that was avocado ?

323.990NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Nov 03 1995 16:471
I thought avocado was the '60s and harvest gold was the '70s.
323.991BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't drink the (toilet) water.Fri Nov 03 1995 16:485
    
    	Avocado isn't green?
    
    	What is it ... purple?
    
323.992BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 17:103

	Horrible is a better word......
323.993BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 19:363

	Joe, could you address .976, please?
323.994Surprised you'd want to bring this back up...CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 03 1995 20:0814
    	What's to address, Glen?  I don't know if he was or wasn't.
    	He says he left on his own.  Show us your proof to te contrary.
    
    	Does it matter?  Are you saying that you'd rather shoot the
    	messenger than disprove onece and for all what he claims?
    
    	And as I said in .974, does his questionability change what
    	was said by all the others?  Even if you discard the single
    	Cameron item, what about the stuff by Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: 
    	A Manual for Men Who Love Men", or what was said by your
    	sainted Mel White, or the gay journalists, producers, etc.
    
    	So attack Cameron all you want if it will make you feel better.
    	The other monkeys are still on your back.
323.995BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 03 1995 20:3412

	Well Joe, I guess I will have to take your word on you not knowing about
Cameron. So while I may question it, it's between you and God. But I do find it
surprising that you dropped the Cameron stuff so easily...... even back when
Meg mad a couple of remarks about him. You instantly took him out of the
equation. So if you're wondering why I question it, you now know why.

	As far as Hart goes, I am working on that one. 


Glen
323.996CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsFri Nov 03 1995 20:389
    Glen,
    
    given the amount of publicity that cameron has had in the paper, I find
    it difficult to believe that Joe hasn't read something about Cameron in
    the local rag.  they have had several reports about him, up to and
    including Dobson's orgnaization working to rapidly distance thereselves
    from him, while CFV is welcoming him with open arms.
    
    meg
323.997BIGQ::SILVADiabloSun Nov 05 1995 14:2156
| <<< Note 323.952 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men
| Who Love Men" 

	I have the book in my hands.... Joe, Joe, Joe.... very bad of
you....let's continue on.

| is one of the most detailed studies of American homosexual behavior yet.  

	We will address this one further down.

| It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 

	I don't dispute this as if you stick vaginal in place of anal, it would
probably be the same with heterosexuals. But the book itself never gives any
numbers on this. But it did happen to mention a study from 1976 that 25% of the 
men did not do anal sex. The 70's are a key thing with this book, when they did
list any studies....More on that one later....

| and 13% in sex with animals at least once.

	According to a report published in 1977..... yeah...extensive study....
yup....

| 29% in sex involving urine, 
| 41% in fisting, 
| 37% in sex involving deliberate pain,
| 88% in public sex or orgies, 
| 24% in sex involving minors, 

	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? I did not see them in this book at
all. And I read the whole thing. So please provide us with where these numbers
came up.

	Now let's look at this extensive study. There was a chart in there that
had estimated risk of HIV transmission. In the book it states, "It is not
possible with these bars graph to see precisely where a bar starts and ends. We
chose not to give those numbers. This underscres the fact that the graph
illistrates a consensus of opinions, not hard medical fact. The general trends
and relationships shown here are signifigant and, we believe, helpful. The
presise numbers would not be.

	What does Jack Hart himself said in his introduction:

	"Most of all, though, I want to thank Pat C%%%%. For many years I've
enjoyed reading her, "Advocate Adviser" column, and I was delighted that she
consented to read and comment extensively on the manuscript. It is a much
better book because of her insights. On some issues, however, I have disagreed
with various people who read the manuscript, and opinions expressed in these
pages are strictly my own."

	Yup....very extensive study you have here, Joe. 


Glen
323.998CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Nov 06 1995 01:5632
                  <<< Note 323.997 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 
>
>	I don't dispute this as if you stick vaginal in place of anal, it would
>probably be the same with heterosexuals. 
    
    	There is a vast difference hygenically between cunnilingus
    	and analingus.  This point was precipitated by the suggestion
    	that some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others.  Even
    	here you seem forced to admit it.
    
>| and 13% in sex with animals at least once.
>
>	According to a report published in 1977..... yeah...extensive study....

    	What makes you think that it is less likely to occur today?

>| 29% in sex involving urine, 
>| 41% in fisting, 
>| 37% in sex involving deliberate pain,
>| 88% in public sex or orgies, 
>| 24% in sex involving minors, 
>
>	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? 
    
    	Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here.  I'll be 
    	back to work on Tuesday.  Remind me.
    
    	Until then we'll just have to rely on the first point in this
    	reply showing that at least on that point even you agree with 
    	the premise that some lifestyles are more unsafe.
323.999BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 11:5033
| <<< Note 323.998 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| There is a vast difference hygenically between cunnilingus and analingus.  

	What is that difference, Joe? Please tell me. 

| This point was precipitated by the suggestion that some lifestyles have more 
| <unsafe> than others. Even here you seem forced to admit it.

	How you got that from what I wrote is beyond me. Please fill me in...

| What makes you think that it is less likely to occur today?

	AIDS, maybe? 

| >	Where did you get these numbers, Joe?

| Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here. I'll be back to work on 
| Tuesday.  Remind me.

	You know I will. And if you would, please list the page numbers that
were supposed to have had this stuff. 

| Until then we'll just have to rely on the first point in this reply showing 
| that at least on that point even you agree with the premise that some 
| lifestyles are more unsafe.

	Rely on something you say I agree with when I don't? Try again, Joe.




Glen
323.1000BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 11:501
1000 snarfaroos!
323.1001\COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 06 1995 11:534
>	What is that difference, Joe? Please tell me. 

Fecal coliform bacteria, for starters.

323.1002CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 12:015



 gak
323.1003BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 12:011
<---anymore?
323.1004Probably a lot more...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 13:283
    
    Gak!!!!
    
323.1005ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 06 1995 16:3810
    
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                          (oo)
                   /-------\/ 
                  / |     ||  \
                 *  ||W---||   GAK!!
                    ~~    ~~  

    
323.1006CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 16:408


               \|/ ____ \|/
                @~/ ,. \~@
               /_( \__/ )_\-------GAK!
               ~  \__U_/  ~

323.1007MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterMon Nov 06 1995 16:4910
                 
                 
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       /|     ||    ||W---||   GAK!!
      / ||W---||    ~~    ~~
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323.1008BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 16:5234
From a friend of mine:



	don't think heterosexuals don't engage in analinguis either. 

	first off, as I am sure you are aware, hygeine, (good old fashioned soap
and water) is the best prevention for anyone, but then these idjits should know 
that.

	Now, as for vagina's while they don't as a general rule have coliform
bugs in them, they can have a host of other nasties.......Gonnoreah, syphilis, 
gardenella, Trychimonas, clamydia, candidas just for potential starters. Also 
there are bare inches between the vagina and the anus.

	No from a personal perspective, I strongly doubt you or anyone else 
would be indulghing in oral intercourse with someone who has dingle berries 
hanging off theri hairs. (See soap and water) The risk, therefore would seem to 
be minimal, unless your partner was less than forthcoming about their STD and 
other disease status.  

	Same stuff, know your partner and their status, and there aren't alot
of problems, IMEO

********************************************************************************


	So with the other things that are out there for women & men, men & men,
it would seem that there isn't a higher risk for gay sex. 




Glen
323.1009BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 16:533

	Brian, too funny! :-)
323.1010SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 16:559
    >From a friend of mine:
    
    So.. one case a theory makes...
    
    How nice...
    
    And to think that others are taken to task for opining something
    in similar words...
    
323.1011pukeCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 17:023


323.1012CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsMon Nov 06 1995 17:076
    things to wonder about today.
    
    How so many men who have been in here saying they are straight seem to
    "know" more about gay sex than the people who are openly gay.
    
    Well?
323.1013MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Nov 06 1995 17:091
    Easy.  We believe in the words from C. Everett Koop!
323.1014Happy??SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 17:096
    
    
    I have a cousin who is openly gay and he, his boyfriend and I talk
    alot...
    
    
323.1015BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 17:1320
| <<< Note 323.1010 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>

| >From a friend of mine:

| So.. one case a theory makes...

	Andy, do you dispute the things women can have? I didn't know what
women could have, so I went to one and asked. 

| And to think that others are taken to task for opining something in similar 
| words...

	Andy, this ain't no stinkin scientific survey. And I did not claim any
of it as fact? I don't call people on opinions, just when they say it is a
fact. But I would have hoped that a woman explaining what women could get would
help make things clearer. When I call it a fact, then call me.


Glen

323.1016SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 17:189
    
    
    From a friend of mine:
    
    I went to ONE woman and this ONE woman told me how bad and nasty gays
    are...
    
     So, because of this ONE womans experience..... etc... etc...
    
323.1017BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:1017
| <<< Note 323.1016 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>



| I went to ONE woman and this ONE woman told me how bad and nasty gays are...

	Andy, please don't tell me you're this stupid. Do you believe it would
be wise to go to a woman to find out what diseases a woman can get? I mean, I
did not see you dispute /john's fecal coliform bacteria. Why is that? 

	She told what diseases women can get. She is a woman. She should know
what diseases a woman can get. Did she list all of them? I couldn't tell ya.
But she sure listed a lot of them. So, do you disagree with any one of them?



Glen
323.1018SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:1313
    
    >Andy, please don't tell me you're this stupid.
    
    Obviously, you are...
    
    We are not talking about the "CONTENT" but the statistical
    improbability of the "NUMBER ONE"...
    
     Got it??
    
    
      Naaaaaahh... didn't think so...
    
323.1019BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:2414

	Well....that's where you're lost. John answered a question I had. I
went to someone and asked them what can a woman have. 

	You don't seem to dispute either's content, so that seems fine. Now
tell me how this number thing is supposed to be working. When facts are
presented, and you seem to accept them as facts, where is there a need for
numbers? It would appear that the numbers are already done. 




Glen
323.1020SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:263
    
    Play your transparent little game... 
    
323.1021BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:278

	Andy, you're quite good at accusing people, but how about explaining?
What transparent game am I supposed to be playing? The answer is NONE, but I
would love to know what it is you were thinking I was doing.


Glen
323.1022How nice...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:281
    
323.1023pukeCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:304


 
323.1024Contact with anything the mouth wasn't made to lick isn't goodCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 06 1995 18:333
Soap and water don't do a very good job of eliminating fecal coliform bacteria.

/john
323.1025NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Nov 06 1995 18:331
Glen uses Lysol.
323.1026BUSY::SLABOUNTYGreat baby! Delicious!!Mon Nov 06 1995 18:343
    
    	Yeah, but how about anilingus with a really coarse tongue?
    
323.1027Gak and double gak!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 06 1995 18:355
re .1026

Could you use a different personal name for this discussion?

/john
323.1028SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:3625
    
    re: .1021
    
    You are a buffoon... aren't you....
    
    If some.. oh.. let's just pull a wild example out of nowhere, "bible
    thumper", used your method of anecdotal information and said something
    like:
    
    "From *a* friend of mine"... This womAn.. (singular)... etc. etc.
    
    
     You would be the first with a reply demanding "facts", "where can this
    information be found", "what are this person's credentials"... etc.
    etc. ad naseam...
    
     But, since this is ONE of your friends, and it's a woman.. well!
    that's it then.. isn't it!!
    
     I tried to beat you over the head with that 2X4 back there, but you,
    in your normal modus operandi, scudded right over it and went into your
    "game face"... ergo, your transparency...
    
    NNTTM...
    
323.1029BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:3810
| <<< Note 323.1024 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>


| -< Contact with anything the mouth wasn't made to lick isn't good >-

	Was a mouth made to lick a woman's vagina? 



Glen
323.1030BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:396
| <<< Note 323.1026 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>


| Yeah, but how about anilingus with a really coarse tongue?

	My cat has no complaints.... JUST KIDDING!
323.1031LANDO::OLIVER_BMon Nov 06 1995 18:391
    oh geeziz.
323.1032BUSY::SLABOUNTYGreat baby! Delicious!!Mon Nov 06 1995 18:4011
    
    	RE: John
    
    	Sorry, John ... I got the p_n from a Dave Barry column.  It'll
    	be gone in about 1/2 hour or so.
    
    
    	RE: Glenn
    
    	Yuck!!
    
323.1033GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedMon Nov 06 1995 18:404
    
    
    
    Well folks, we've hit it, ground 0
323.1034COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 06 1995 18:411
re .1029 no.
323.1035CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:4210


  Oh, for one of Mr. Room's "flush it" banners.





 JIm
323.1036SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:4211
    
    re: .1033
    
    >Well folks, we've hit it, ground 0
    
    
    Mike...
    
    
     "we"?????????
    
323.1037GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedMon Nov 06 1995 18:4315
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323.1038BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:4630
| <<< Note 323.1028 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| You would be the first with a reply demanding "facts", "where can this
| information be found", "what are this person's credentials"... etc.
| etc. ad naseam...

	HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
diseases they could catch? Yes or no. 

	If in my note it claimed these were all the diseases a woman could get,
then your point would make absolute sense. But my note does not. It does give 
a list of diseases known to this woman. 

	You can see the difference between the two, right? 

| But, since this is ONE of your friends, and it's a woman.. well! that's it 
| then.. isn't it!!

	What does that have to do with anything?

| I tried to beat you over the head with that 2X4 back there, but you, in your 
| normal modus operandi, scudded right over it and went into your "game face"
| ... ergo, your transparency...

	There is no game face Andy. None at all.



Glen
323.1039BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:4810
| <<< Note 323.1034 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| re .1029 no.


	Then how does it make gay sex more of a dangerous thing than
heterosexual sex, like Joe had stated?


Glen
323.1040NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Nov 06 1995 18:494
>	HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
>diseases they could catch? Yes or no. 

Is a child a good person to ask about childhood diseases?
323.1041SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:5010
    
    >HELLO...EARTH TO ANDY!!!! Is a woman a good place to go to learn about
    >diseases they could catch? Yes or no. [sic]
    
    
    No...  
    
    
    But do keep trying... there's a few more planets out there for you...
    
323.1042BUSY::SLABOUNTYGreat baby! Delicious!!Mon Nov 06 1995 18:5211
    
    	Picking a woman at random, you might get her to rattle off a few
    	diseases that she could contract.
    
    	Between 2 women, if you didn't find me, you'd find that there
    	are maybe 10 diseases that they know they could contract.  But
    	where do these women go to find out what diseases they could
    	contract?
    
    	Maybe THAT'S the right person to ask.
    
323.1043BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:523

	Why not?
323.1044It's a plant, isn't it ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 06 1995 18:544
    
      Yeast.  Women bear yeast.  Beware.
    
      bb
323.1045SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 18:558
    re: .1043
    
    >Why not?
    
    Take a stab at Gerald's question and you'll have your answer...
    
    I couldn't think of a good analogy at the time... thank you Gerald...
    
323.1046BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 18:5515
| <<< Note 323.1042 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>

| Between 2 women, if you didn't find me, you'd find that there are maybe 10 
| diseases that they know they could contract.  


	Errr....Shawn....where in that note did it say these are the ONLY
diseases a woman could contract? Where in any of my notes did I ever lay a
claim to that? I knew of ZERO. This woman provide me with some. Like I said to
Andy, if I made a claim that these were the ONLY diseases a woman could get,
then he would have a point.



Glen
323.1047Name that disease!COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Nov 06 1995 18:587
It's time for....




	      .....beat the Reaper!

323.1048BUSY::SLABOUNTYGreat baby! Delicious!!Mon Nov 06 1995 18:597
    
    	Glen, do you want to learn about diseases, or are you happy that
    	she can name a couple of them?
    
    	And if the asnwers to these 2 questions are "no" and "yes", then
    	I guess I missed the point and you are correct.
    
323.1049We can be like they are...TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Mon Nov 06 1995 19:004
    
    Seasons don't fear the Reaper
    Nor do the wind, the sun and the rain...
    
323.1050BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:0223
| <<< Note 323.1045 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| Take a stab at Gerald's question and you'll have your answer...

	You don't get it, do you. Why is it when the note never states that
these are all the diseases, why is it that when I even pointed out to you that
ONLY if the note stated these were the only diseases that you would have a
point, that you come back with this crap? 

	A child is not going to know every disease they can get. Some may know
of none, some may know of some. Same goes for anyone, whether a child or an
adult. But the ones that were listed are the ones that this woman knows about. 
Her note even states, "Just for starters". Right there it should have shown you 
it did not equal ALL. 

	If you can not say that these diseases are not real, then you don't
have a leg to stand on due to I never made a claim this is all there are.



Glen

323.1051VMSNET::M_MACIOLEKFour54 Camaro/Only way to flyMon Nov 06 1995 19:025
    I thought if you wear one of them condiments you don't get cooties.
    I wouldn't know about this stuff unless the thing turned green and
    fell off.
    
    PS. Congrats Glenn, you done made me puke on my keyboard.
323.1052BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:0413
| <<< Note 323.1048 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Great baby! Delicious!!" >>>


| Glen, do you want to learn about diseases, or are you happy that she can name 
| a couple of them?

	Actually, my original intent was to show that homosexual sex is no
worse for diseases than heterosexual sex. 




Glen
323.1053MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterMon Nov 06 1995 19:0710
    
    Anal sex is Russian Roulette with a penis instead of a revolver.
    It is not solely a gay issue. The anus is a nasty neighborhood
    and should be avoided. Tongues don't belong there either.
    
    While I realize that some may have a side agenda of ridicule
    and hatred of gays, that doesn't change the fact that anal sex
    is bad news.
    
    -b
323.1054BUSY::SLABOUNTYch-ch-ch-ch-ha-ha-ha-haMon Nov 06 1995 19:078
    
    	So ask a homo friend to name diseases [s]he's capable of catching,
    	and then ask a hetero friend to name diseases [s]he's capable of
    	catching, and the one that names the most diseases is obviously
    	the one in most danger of catching something.
    
    	Seems elementary to me.
    
323.1055CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsMon Nov 06 1995 19:0722
    lets face it ANY sex is unsanitary and can have unintended
    consequences, including STD's which may or may not be curable with a dose
    of Antibiotics, pregnancies in some cases, and is generally risky
    behavior.  People who are not responsible enough to admit sex can carry
    unknown risks regardless of the gender(s) of the people involved,
    should live as monks and leave the rest of us alone to go to hell or
    heaven in our own fashion.  
    
    Glen asked someone, he has also told people what he doesn't indulge
    in, and there are still people out here who seem to think gay == a fist
    in anatomically improbable locations, rather than listening to a person
    who is gay and asking him what he is doing, and ignoring the fact that
    there are hetero couples who engage in many of the same high-risk
    behaviors that some homosexual men (and women) engage in.  
    
    The risk of a monogamous relationship  among two disease free people is
    not going to cause a disease to spontaneiously show up, unless the
    creationists think their diety is creating evyl bugs to punish the just
    and unjust alike.  or maybe their g-d also hates hemoraging women,
    hemophiliacs, and people who need surgery where blood-loss is likely.  
    
    meg
323.1056BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:0910
| <<< Note 323.1053 by MPGS::MARKEY "Fluffy nutter" >>>


	Brian, this is where we were at before when I asked what is the problem
with it. John answered (the question was directed at Joe), and so I went
digging. (no pun intended) It would seem that sex, period, can be bad. It
really comes down to the individuals involved, doesn't it?


Glen
323.1057SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:167
    
    
    re: .1055
    Meg,
    
     If a minute % of heterosexuals engage in unsanitary sex vs. a majority
    of homosexuals.... who is at greater risk (monogamy non-withstanding)??
323.1058CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsMon Nov 06 1995 19:2216
    Sex is unsanitary in its whole.  body fluids are exchanged (unless
    latex or another barrier is used)  There is Skin-skin, mouth-mouth and
    orifice to orifice contact of all kinds that can and does go on.  
    
    when you come right down to it the only way I could see to make sex
    sanitary would take all the fun out of it (for me anyway), or to hose
    both persons off with lysol and/or clorine bleach (inside and out), not 
    something I would expose my tender places to, or to practice solo in
    the tub where things can be washed down and the surface is easily
    disinfected.
    
    slitted latex sheets, condoms, and no kissing or forplay that creates
    an exchange of fluids, bleah, rates right up there with sex for
    procreation only.
    
    
323.1059SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:249
    
    
    yeah right meg...
    
    Tell me.... have you given blood lately???
    
    What questions are asked of certain individuals and/or their
    practices... and why??
    
323.1060BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:2714
| <<< Note 323.1057 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>



| If a minute % of heterosexuals engage in unsanitary sex vs. a majority
| of homosexuals.... who is at greater risk (monogamy non-withstanding)??


	Glad you said the word, IF, Andy. :-)  What is your view on this? Do
you believe that the majority of homosexuals engage in anal sex? Do you believe
licking someone's butt is something that is included in with anal sex? 


Glen
323.1061sheeesh.CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:285



 Knock it off, already, will ya...
323.1062TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Mon Nov 06 1995 19:293
    
    GLEN!  ANDY!  Go get me something to beat you both with!!
    
323.1063BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:303

	Promises...
323.1064LANDO::OLIVER_BMon Nov 06 1995 19:301
    lunch!  lunch!  
323.1065SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:349
    
    >GLEN!  ANDY!  Go get me something to beat you both with!!
    
    Why me??
    
    I'm not the one with all those cute little anecdotes!!! And I'm not
    trying to egg him on either!1 He's too dense for that... He wouldn't
    know a "quip" or an "adage" if it hit him in the side of the cranium!!
    
323.1066BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 19:368

	Hey, this is getting good. Insulted even when I'm not the one the one
he is replying too! How nice....



Glen
323.1067TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Mon Nov 06 1995 19:373
    
    Don't make me stop this car.  I WILL stop this car!!!
    
323.1068PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Nov 06 1995 19:384
  .1065 so, ad hominem attacks are okay if they're against Glen, but
	not Nancy?  i see.  just tryin' to figure out the rules.

323.1069SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:4011
    >What is your view on this? Do you believe that the majority of homosexuals 
    >engage in anal sex? Do you believe licking someone's butt is something 
    >that is included in with anal sex? 

    
    My cousin and his boyfriend attest to the fact that this is normal in
    their sexual relationship (I don't know about the tongue thing) and
    that in their past relationships it was also normal. They also stated
    they know of NO gays that do NOT engage in this aspect of sex...
    
     Do you? If not, then you are the exception to the rule...
323.1070VMSNET::M_MACIOLEKFour54 Camaro/Only way to flyMon Nov 06 1995 19:421
    Christ, the only thing I'll put up someone elses ass is my boot.
323.1071SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:4311
    
    re: .1068
    
    >.1065 so, ad hominem attacks are okay if they're against Glen, but
    >not Nancy?  i see.  just tryin' to figure out the rules.
    
    So Di.... are you saying that in Topaz's eyes, Nancy deserved them?
    In my eyes? Does Glen deserve them? In your eyes (or mine)??
    
    Want to single anyone else out while you're at it???
    
323.1072PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Nov 06 1995 19:477
    
>>    So Di.... are you saying that in Topaz's eyes, Nancy deserved them?
>>    In my eyes? Does Glen deserve them? In your eyes (or mine)??

	A basic understanding of the language would tell you that I
	was pointing out what I perceived to be a double standard.      

323.1073SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 19:494
    
    I guess a basic understanding of the language is in the eye of the
    beholder...
    
323.1074PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Nov 06 1995 19:539
    
>>    I guess a basic understanding of the language is in the eye of the
>>    beholder...
  
	so does this mean you didn't understand that i was pointing
	out a double standard?  i don't know how it could have been more
	clear, i really don't.
  

323.1075BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 06 1995 20:0414
| <<< Note 323.1069 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| My cousin and his boyfriend attest to the fact that this is normal in
| their sexual relationship (I don't know about the tongue thing) and
| that in their past relationships it was also normal. They also stated
| they know of NO gays that do NOT engage in this aspect of sex...

	I know of many who do not. I do, but there are those out there who
don't. 



Glen
323.1076SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Mon Nov 06 1995 20:0712
    
    
    So there it is.... it's all anecdotal and not worth a hill of beans!!!
    
    
    So let's get back to facts and not fiction (anecdotes)
    
    Do you give blood? Why/why not?
    
    What/who are those questions aimed at about certain behaviours on the
    the donor forms???
    
323.1077ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 06 1995 20:091
    The AIDS Topic people The AIDS Topic!!! 
323.1078False PositiveROWLET::AINSLEYLess than 150 kts. is TOO slow!Mon Nov 06 1995 20:1310
    re: .1076
    
    >Do you give blood? Why/why not?
    
    Nope.  My cholesterol medication triggers a non-specific test for a
    blood problem.  I guess the specific test is too expensive, so they
    reject blood that is otherwise good.
    
    Bob
    
323.1079CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsMon Nov 06 1995 21:4011
    Haven't been able to give blood for years.  Pregnancy, nursing a child,
    have prevented it.  
    
    I would imagine that high-risk behaviours for many diseases, such as iv
    needle use, and multiple sexual partners in a short time would be
    ground also for not donating blood.  Question, what is the fastest
    growing cause of death (excluding accidents and homocides) for women of
    child-bearing years?  This ain't just a gay disease here that you are
    talking about.  
    
    meg
323.1080Answers your questions in .1060CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Nov 06 1995 23:2425
                  <<< Note 323.1008 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	don't think heterosexuals don't engage in analinguis either. 

    	Pigs is pigs.
    
    	The types and amounts of bacteria a person is exposed to with
    	anal sex is unmatched by any other sort of sexual contact because
    	of the nature if the biological function of that orifice and the
    	product that is naturally expelled from there.  That orifice was 
    	not designed biologically for the stretching and force necessary 
    	for anal copulation.  Anal penetration almost invariably results 
    	in small skin breaks in and around that orifice, exposing the 
    	person being penetrated to extreme amounts of bacteria.
    
    	The diseases you listed, Glen, are not limited to spread by
    	vaginal contact, but the disease risks due to bacteria from 
    	anal contact are primarily limited to anal contact.
    
    	You have already conceded that 92% participation by gays in 
    	analingus is not unreasonable.  You also mentioned that 25%
    	of gays say they do not practice anal sex (implying that 75% do)
    	in .997.
    
    	That implys a different (greater) level of risk to me.
323.1081ACIS03::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 07 1995 11:4011
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                 Gak!
    
323.1082RUSURE::EDPAlways mount a scratch monkey.Tue Nov 07 1995 12:1313
    Re .965:
    
    > The very same people who bring you various nutter theories:
    
    One-third of black people bring us all those theories?  That's very
    racist of you.
    
    
    				-- edp
    
    
Public key fingerprint:  8e ad 63 61 ba 0c 26 86  32 0a 7d 28 db e7 6f 75
To find PGP, read note 2688.4 in Humane::IBMPC_Shareware.
323.1083BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 12:1411
| <<< Note 323.1076 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Been complimented by a toady lately?" >>>


| Do you give blood? Why/why not?

	Yes. I give blood incase others need it.

| What/who are those questions aimed at about certain behaviours on the
| the donor forms???

	Anyone having sex.
323.1084BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 12:167

	Joe... you're back! How about addressing .997 now? 



Glen
323.1085COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 12:2911
>	Yes. I give blood incase others need it.

If you are giving blood, Glen, then you are (1) telling lies at the
donor center or (2) telling lies here in Soapbox or (3) wasting your
time at the donor center.

If what you have told us in this topic (that you have sex with other men)
is true, and you are being honest with the blood center when they ask you
the required questions, then they are throwing your blood out.

/john
323.1086BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 12:367

	If they are throwing it out, I doubt they would have taken it in the
1st place.


Glen
323.1087WAHOO::LEVESQUEI'm a lumberjack and I'm okTue Nov 07 1995 12:391
    He's right, Glen. They throw out high risk blood.
323.1088Anticipating Glen's next replyCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Nov 07 1995 12:405



 Got any proof?
323.1089SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 12:417
    
    John is right.... If you have answered the questions truthfully, then
    they will not use your blood... maybe for testing purposes, but never
    for a transfusion to another human being.
    
    If you lied... well then, that speaks volumes...
    
323.1090TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Tue Nov 07 1995 12:4210
    
    .1086, Glen:
    
    They will take your high-risk blood, Glen, but they won't use it
    in people.  They will either throw it out or use it for testing 
    purposes.
    
    I believe that the policy is to NOT refuse gay donors, as they are
    worried about discrimination lawsuits.
    
323.1091BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 12:463

	Well, that explains why they take it, but why do they throw it out?
323.1092CALLME::MR_TOPAZTue Nov 07 1995 12:461
       They send it to France to use in soup.
323.1093BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 12:481
<----what kind?
323.1094LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Nov 07 1995 12:491
    I don't give blood because I'm afraid of needles.
323.1095re Topaz's .1092DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Tue Nov 07 1995 12:492
323.1096BUSY::SLABOUNTYAct like you own the companyTue Nov 07 1995 12:516
    
    	Lawsuits!!  Now I've heard everything!!
    
    	Who would sue someone for NOT sticking them with a needle and
    	sucking out a quart of blood??
    
323.1097SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 12:515
    
    re: .1095
    
    He *did* warn you about soapbox.. didn't he??
    
323.1098pintSOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 12:533
    
    re: .1096
    
323.1099Do I remember MrTopaz's warningDRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Tue Nov 07 1995 12:534
    (gulps, swallows hard) Yes
    
    (PS, that was NOT soup I was swallowing)
    
323.1100COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 12:5438
Here are the current questions asked at all blood donor centers:

Do you have AIDS or have you ever had a positive test for the AIDS virus.

Have you had sex with anyone who has had AIDS or has had a positive test
for the AIDS virus.

Have you had sex with another man even one time since 1977.

Have you had sex with anyone who has ever taken illegal drugs with a needle.

Have you taken clotting factor concentrates for a bleeding disorder such
as hemophilia.

Have you had sex with anyone who has taken clotting factor concentrates for
a bleeding disorder such as hemophilia.

At any time in the last 12 months have you given money or drugs to
anyone to have sex with you.

At any time since 1977 have you taken money or drugs for sex.

In the last twelve months have you had any venereal disease such as
syphillis or gonorrhea or been treated for syphillis or gonorrhea.

In the last twelve months have you received blood or blood products
by transfusion for any reason such as an accident or surgery.

Are you a current inmate of a correctional institute or have you been
incarceraterd at a correctional institute for more than 72 consecutive
hours within the last twelve months.

Then a number of symptoms are asked about.

If any of these questions are answered yes, the blood is to be taken but
discarded.

/john
323.1101SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 12:5610
    
    re: .1100
    
    >If any of these questions are answered yes, the blood is to be taken
    >but discarded.
    
    
     Yes, but we must make sure the donor feels good about giving...
    
    
323.1102BUSY::SLABOUNTYAct like you own the companyTue Nov 07 1995 12:587
    
>Have you had sex with another man even one time since 1977.
    
    	I wonder how a woman donor would answer this question?
    
    	And which answer is the "correct" one?
    
323.1103MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Nov 07 1995 12:598
 ZZ   Are you a current inmate of a correctional institute or have you been
 ZZ   incarceraterd at a correctional institute for more than 72 consecutive
 ZZ   hours within the last twelve months.
    
    Just goes to show you what a reputation our penal system has!  (No pun
    intended!)
    
    -Jack
323.1104SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 13:055
    
    re: .1102
    
    The questions are broken down into gender on the form...
    
323.1105It doesn't make senseTROOA::trp669.tro.dec.com::Chrisruns with scissorsTue Nov 07 1995 14:077
I am a regular blood donor as well as white platelets and found out
from the nurses that a regular whole blood donation costs the Red Cross
$110.00 for the tubing, sacs, test tubes etc and that the platelet 
donation costs them $250 in material.  So I wonder, which would cost
more - the possible lawsuit of a gay male who was turned away before
making the donation, or the costs of taking donation after donation and 
then throwing them away?
323.1106NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Nov 07 1995 14:116
>                                       So I wonder, which would cost
>more - the possible lawsuit of a gay male who was turned away before
>making the donation, or the costs of taking donation after donation and 
>then throwing them away?

You must be Canadian or something.
323.1107BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 14:123

	So....why do they throw it out?
323.1108I know you're not as stupid as you pretend to be, GlenCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 14:144
To protect the blood supply from contamination by HIV introduced from those
who engage in high-risk behaviours.

/john
323.1109NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Nov 07 1995 14:143
Don't you read the stuff they hand you when you give blood?  The HIV test they
use isn't foolproof, so they eliminate high-risk donations by not using their
blood.  Which sticker do you put on your form?
323.1110TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Tue Nov 07 1995 14:158
    
    .1107
    
    To the best of my knowledge they don't usually throw it out, they 
    use it to test their testing procedures, and for other experimental 
    or research purposes, which would seem to have some value in and of
    itself.
    
323.1111To avoid any chance of mislabeling.COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 14:183
According to people I know in donor centers, it's discarded right away.

/john
323.1112SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 14:193
    
    yes, but why John???? Why??? Why??? Why???
    
323.1113There is no safety...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Nov 07 1995 14:2114
    
      If they don't take it, they'll be sued.
    
      If they use it on people, they'll be sued.
    
      But actually, I think it's just a matter of time before they are
     sued for the current policy also.
    
      And in any case, they will lose, the jury routinely awarding treble
     punitive damages, most of which will go to the lawyers, who started
     the case in the first place and talked some clueless individual into
     being plaintiff for a few bucks.
    
      bb
323.1114SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 14:276
    
    
    What a gigantic waste of resources, time and money! Gays know their
    blood won't be used (if they're truthful about it), so why bother...
    (Glen Silva's pretense non-withstanding)??
    
323.1115TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Tue Nov 07 1995 14:4911
    
    .1111
    
    It could be different here, but I confess I am no expert on the
    subject.
    
    It's been a while since I've given; the procedure now (here) is to 
    be *interviewed* by a nurse, rather than simply filling out the
    forms.  The time it takes to give has tripled, and I don't really
    feel like jawing with some stranger regarding my sex life.
    
323.1116POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Nov 07 1995 14:591
    All this makes the JW's say "See, I told you so!"
323.1117SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 15:1317
    
    re: .115
    
    >the procedure now (here) is to be *interviewed* by a nurse,
    
    It's been that way for quite some time... at least for my last 24 or so
    donations...
    
    No big deal... it's very matter-of-fact... The nurses could care less
    about your personal sex life....  I believe this is called "aversion
    therapy" for them? :)
    
    re: "tripled"
    
    So.. just imagine... if known "at risk" people would just stay away,
    that time might decrease... Costs might decrease... etc...
    
323.1118TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Tue Nov 07 1995 15:2510
    
    .1117
    
    >The nurses could care less about your personal sex life...
    
    I'm not so sure about that.  For instance, there's this one thing 
    we do where I...
    
    ...but I digress.
    
323.1119MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterTue Nov 07 1995 15:3215
    
    There are certain keywords guaranteed to pique the nurse's interest:
    
    siamese twins
    cool whip
    great dane
    mormom tabernacle choir
    first cousins
    a nun's habit
    orthopedic shoes
    the anal intruder
    rubber undergarments
    food processor
    
    -b
323.1120TROOA::COLLINSWorking for paper and iron...Tue Nov 07 1995 15:563
    
    ...and, of course, "Wankel rotary engine".
    
323.1121COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 15:581
Oh, a Mazda-slave relationship.
323.1122Leather's handballing/fisting pageCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 16:017
A link I think I won't even bother to follow:

	http://www.trends.ca/~leather/public_html/handball.html

(A link off our old friend Charles Haynes's home page.)

323.1123Why did I think I wanted to see what Charles is up to...COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 16:039
Oh, and Charles provides some links to pictures we don't need to see:
	
        Ben biting Charles 
        Charles's purple dick on the streets of DC 
        Charles in hair bondage 
        Anyone want to get fisted? 
        Joshua and Charles in DC 
        Long black hair and a naked butt 

323.1124MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterTue Nov 07 1995 16:116
    
    Watch yourself John. By even visiting such pages you may find
    yourself on the government's "list"... and if you think you
    had trouble with the placard thing...
    
    -b
323.1125POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Tootsie PopsTue Nov 07 1995 16:145
    
    When did they start asking the prison inmate question?  I've never been
    asked that.  It must have been rather recently.
    
    
323.1126COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 16:164
Yep.  It's brand new.  They added it in the same revision that removed the
question asking if you were from any of the non-Islamic African countries.

/john
323.1127BUSY::SLABOUNTYAudiophiles do it 'til it hertz!Tue Nov 07 1995 16:163
    
    	Why, Deb?  Does this mean you won't be giving blood any more?
    
323.1128CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:184
    	re red cross:
    
    	Yet another indication that some lifestyles have more <unsafe>
    	than others...
323.1129CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:205
                  <<< Note 323.997 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? 
    
    	Bibliography says HART, p. 179.
323.1130POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Tootsie PopsTue Nov 07 1995 16:275
    
    I usually titter with embarassment when they ask most of those
    questions 8^).
    
    
323.1131BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 16:3912

	I'll look AGAIN, Joe, but when I read it last time I did not see that.
But seeing you do have the book in front of you, care to comment on why you
thought this was one of the most extensive studies done when he says in the
intro the pages to follow are his opinion? Or how you thought this was one of
the most extensive studies when the one chart they put in had a disclaimer
stating that it is based on opinion, and not fact? 



Glen
323.1132Buffoon...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:467
    
    re: .1083
    
    > Anyone having sex.
    
    
    And you want to be taken seriously??????
323.1133WAHOO::LEVESQUEI'm a lumberjack and I'm okTue Nov 07 1995 16:472
    I say we lock Andy and Glen in a room together until they learn to play
    nicely.
323.1134.1080 should be sufficient reasonCSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:4718
    	.1131
    
    	No, Glen, I'd not care to do so.  You've already stated bluntly
    	on several occasions that you doubt what I say, so why should
    	I bother?  And you quite consistently disagree with whatever I
    	say as a matter of course, so why should I bother?  Answering
    	your questions has no bearing on the point at hand.
    
    	Bottom line out of all this discussion is that you disagreed with
    	my statement that some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others,
    	and I've shown a broad range of examples that agree with me --
    	from the President, to Mel White, to gay journalists and others
    	within the gay community, to other authors, to the Red Cross, etc.  
    	I'm sure that your mother agrees too.  And surely that's just a
    	part of the list.
    
    	You're going to end up buying a lot of sources and wasting a lot
    	of time to nit-pick them all.
323.1135CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 07 1995 16:559
    joe,
    
    some lifestyles are more dangerus than others.
    
    people who eat char-broiled red meat regularly are indulging in
    unhealthy habit that will most likely shorten their lives, as are
    people who eat raw seafood, drive beyond the speedlimit, run lights,
    and a host of other things.  Sex ahbits aren't the only high-risk
    factors.
323.1136Riddle me this...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:5716
    re: .1133
    
    Maybe a TTWA???
    
    Why is it a Jack Martin is taken to task for running his mouth
    helter-skelter, but a Glen Silva isn't????
    
    
    >I say we lock Andy and Glen in a room together until they learn to play
    >nicely.
    
     Why isn't this suggested of Jack Martin and Mr. Topaz??? Or Nancy and
    Mr. Topaz??
    
    Yes... definitely things to wonder about...
    
323.1137SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 16:584
    
    re: .1135
    
    Yes, meg, but why aren't these questions asked on blood donor forms??
323.1138COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Nov 07 1995 17:056
>    people who eat char-broiled red meat regularly are indulging in
>    unhealthy habit that will most likely shorten their lives,

Yeah!  See 14.4605!

/john
323.1139WAHOO::LEVESQUEI'm a lumberjack and I'm okTue Nov 07 1995 17:154
    > Why isn't this suggested of Jack Martin and Mr. Topaz??? Or Nancy and
    >Mr. Topaz??
    
     Because you're being picked on unfairly. /hth
323.1140CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 07 1995 17:224
    IMO people who eat raw seafood should be on the list.  there is a
    significant risk of hepetitus from eating uncooked seafood.
    
    
323.1141LANDO::OLIVER_BTue Nov 07 1995 17:231
    Sushi forever!!
323.1142SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 17:299
    
    re: .1140
    
    >IMO people who eat raw seafood should be on the list.  there is a
    >significant risk of hepetitus from eating uncooked seafood.
    
    So.. there's an "action item" for you meg!! Write to the Red Cross and
    voice your concerns....
    
323.1143MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterTue Nov 07 1995 17:324
    
    I'll give up my uni when they pry my cold dead fingers...
    
    -b
323.1144CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 07 1995 17:325
    oh,
    
    and abnormal cholesterol counts (high or low) have caused people to be
    sent cards which say "we don't want your blood anymore."  So on to the
    char-broiled burnt dead cow question?
323.1145SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIBeen complimented by a toady lately?Tue Nov 07 1995 17:356
    
    
    Now you're reaching meg...
    
    Ummmmm.. how many people across the country would that be perhaps??
    
323.1146CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 17:357
    	re .1135
    
    	Meg, my original statement (.857) was made without qualification.
    	Examples such as yours were firmly in mind when I posted it.  So 
    	too were stunt motorcycle drivers, cocaine users, international 
    	spies, and a bunch of other things.  Which makes the initial
    	response to my statement (.860) all the more incorrect.
323.1147NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Nov 07 1995 18:051
Hepatitis.  NNTTM.
323.1148BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 19:1241
| <<< Note 323.1134 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| No, Glen, I'd not care to do so. You've already stated bluntly on several 
| occasions that you doubt what I say, so why should I bother?  

	Here we are...when Joe can not answer, he throws this stuff out. At
least you're consistant.

	It comes down to this, Joe. Credibility. You stated it was one of the
most extensive studies, and it is a study based on opinions, the authors. He
even states it is not fact. So how can that be one of the most extensive
studies? Answer is, it can't. 

	It doesn't matter if I agree with you. It would be nice to know how a
book that states it is not fact is this extensive study. 

| and I've shown a broad range of examples that agree with me --

	You haven't shown anything that is true, yet.

| from the President, to Mel White, to gay journalists and others
| within the gay community, to other authors, to the Red Cross, etc.

	Yeah, the snipets...... how credible.... 

| I'm sure that your mother agrees too.  

	When I first came out, yeah....she did. But not anymore..... 

| You're going to end up buying a lot of sources and wasting a lot of time to 
| nit-pick them all.

	Why? Your credibility was shot to Hell based on what you've written in
here about that so called extensive study. I mean, first you pushed the Cameron
stuff, but back away as soon as anyone questioned you on it. But you kept
pushing this extensive study stuff.... and now it's trash, too. 


Glen

323.1149MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Nov 07 1995 19:191
    I wouldn't say it is shot to hell....not by any means.
323.1150CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 19:4319
    	Glen, when are you ever going to learn to spell snippet?

    	And would you be so kind as to nit-pick for us why the Red
    	Cross chooses to throw our your blood when you donate (that 
    	is, if you are honest in filling out their questionnaire.)
    
    	So you've decided that all of Jack Hart's stuff is opinion
    	(in spite of the fact that you even admitted and quoted
    	survey results from his book.)  For the sake of argument, 
    	I'll work with your assessment.  I find it interesting that 
    	you are so quick to throw out his opinion when you are willing 
    	to rely on the opinion of some unnamed friend in .1008.  Do
    	you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert
    	DeAndreis, or even Mel White?
    
    	Joe *HAS* answered.  What you find important is merely a smoke-
    	screen to the fact that homosexual sex has more risk that common
    	heterosexual practices, and I will not cater to your deflections.
    	Go play with .1080 if you want to debate the real issue.
323.1151BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 07 1995 20:0740
| <<< Note 323.1150 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| So you've decided that all of Jack Hart's stuff is opinion

	Actually, he did that himself in the intro.

| (in spite of the fact that you even admitted and quoted survey results from 
| his book.)  

	It might have been two studies, both from the 70's. Both pre-aids
dated. Even in his intro he said part of the reason he wanted to write this book
was due to there not really being much out there that wasn't pre-aids dated. But
he still went on to say it is his opinion.

| I find it interesting that you are so quick to throw out his opinion when you 
| are willing to rely on the opinion of some unnamed friend in .1008.  

	You don't get it, do you? YOU made a CLAIM it was ONE OF THE MOST
EXTENSIVE STUDIES ever done. The book is a, "how to" book for having sex. It is
not some extensive study.

| Do you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert DeAndreis, or 
| even Mel White?

	When you can provide the entire article of what was said, and not some
snippet, then we will talk. Until then, you have provided nothing.

	Anyone could take the following line, "Religious leaders hate sin" and
turn it into, "Religious leaders hate". So provide the whole thing, or you have
provided nothing. 

| Joe *HAS* answered. What you find important is merely a smokescreen 

	Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...



Glen
323.1152CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 07 1995 20:4522
                  <<< Note 323.1151 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| Do you also reject the opinions of Gay AIDS Columnist Robert DeAndreis, or 
>| even Mel White?
>
>	When you can provide the entire article of what was said, and not some
>snippet, then we will talk. Until then, you have provided nothing.
    
    	I provided the publication and the article name and date for 
    	most, if not all of them.

>	Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
>have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...
    
    	What?  That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?
    	You are about the only one disagreeing with that.  Eliminating 
    	(in your mind) a fraction of the preponderance of support does
    	not eliminate the claim.  Using your rejection of a particular 
    	phrase I used to demonstrate the absence of backing is merely a 
	smokescreen.
    
    	You conveniently ignore .1080.
323.1153BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 08 1995 11:5932
| <<< Note 323.1152 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| I provided the publication and the article name and date for most, if not all 
| of them.

	Joe, you also provided the publication for that book. You know, one of
the most extensive studies? That proved to be false, too. Like when I went to
look at page 179 of the Hart book (which your note .1129 said contained key
info) which was supposed to be the Bibliography, but was not. That was actually
on page 183. Did you even get this book? I did read the bibliography which
started on 183 and went several pages, and not one thing in there about % of
any kind. And the book is here if anyone would like to check it out for
themselves. What it comes down to, Joe...is seeing these numbers aren't there,
it would seem there is a problem with you listing things as meaning one thing,
when in reality they mean another. So where did those other numbers come from,
Joe? 
	
| >	Smoke screen? Come on, Joe. You make claims you can't back, and you
| >have the nerve to say smokescreen to me? Come on, now...

| What?  That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?

	The book, Joe....the book.....

| You conveniently ignore .1080.

	Ignore? No. Checking out? Yes. 



Glen
323.1154CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 08 1995 15:339
                  <<< Note 323.1153 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| What?  That some lifestyles have more <unsafe> than others?
>
>	The book, Joe....the book.....
    
    	Still missing the forest for the trees, I see.
    
    	Tell me why the Red Cross throws out your blood, Glen.
323.1155BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 08 1995 15:5311

	Joe, I told you I was working that issue..... should have the answer by
tomorrow or Friday. 

	Please answer .1153 please.




Glen
323.1156BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 08 1995 16:2419

	Deb, if they bring up fisting anymore..... just break out the fist
buster:




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323.1157CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 08 1995 16:598
    >	Please answer .1153 please.
    
    	I did.  See my first sentence of .1154.  Your reliance on
    	this as your only point continues to demonstrate my answer.
    
    	Tell us why the Red Cross throws out your blood.
    
    	Tell us why gay men have a shorter lifespan that heterosexuals.
323.1158CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 08 1995 22:518
    Joe,
    
    Glen said he is looking into it.
    
    You have not answered his questions.  I am sure you have page numbers
    from Glen's earlier postings.
    
    meg
323.1159BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 09 1995 10:4438
| <<< Note 323.1157 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	Please answer .1153 please.

| I did.  See my first sentence of .1154.  

	WRONG! You have not told us where you got the numbers of 41% of the men
fist (sorry, Deb), etc. You CLAIMED they were in that book. You CLAIMED they
were on page 179. BOTH claims were wrong. The numbers that I asked about were
NOT in the book. That leaves me with two possibilities. One, is that you got
the numbers from somewhere else, and tried to pass it off as this book, or two,
you lied. Now if it is not either of these two, explain where you actually got
these numbers. Did you take them from somewhere else? Did you lie? Is there
another reason? Only you can clear it up. 

| Tell us why the Red Cross throws out your blood.

	I called the RC yesterday. The nurse I talked to said that in 1985, the
Food & Drug Administration came out with the guidelines they are supposed to
follow. They do NOT throw out your blood if you are gay. But they do throw out
your blood if you have had sexual contact with a man since 1977. I asked what
were the reasons? She said, AIDS. I asked her why is it tied just in with
homosexuals. She said that in 1985, when they came up with the original
guidelines, gay men were in the majority for AIDS. She did say that due to the
CDC's recent numbers, this policy will be changing. She SUSPECTS that the 1977
stuff will be gone, and a 1 year thing will take it's place. And, stricter 
guidelines will be added into the heterosexual population. As it stands now, if 
a heterosexual has multiple partners, they will not use the blood. I guess the
CDC is what pushes the FDA on things like this. (according to the nurse)

| Tell us why gay men have a shorter lifespan that heterosexuals.

	Joe, that was a claim made by your snipets. After your last claim,
where you have yet to tell us where all these mysterious numbers came from, it
really isn't credible.


Glen
323.1160BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 09 1995 10:4511
| <<< Note 323.1158 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>

| You have not answered his questions.  I am sure you have page numbers
| from Glen's earlier postings.

	He should have had the page numbers period. He has the book, according
to his own words. 



Glen
323.1161Of course we already know the next question...CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 09 1995 16:136
                  <<< Note 323.1160 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	He has the book, according
>to his own words. 
    
    	Oh?  Is that so?
323.1162BUSY::SLABOUNTYGot into a war with reality ...Thu Nov 09 1995 16:5114
    
    	Allow me to put in the next few replies for you 2:
    
    	Yes you did.
    	No I didn't.
    	Yes you did.
    	No I didn't.
    	Yes you did.
    	No I didn't.
    	Yes you did.
    	No I didn't.
    
    	Glad to help.
    
323.1163CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 09 1995 16:541
    	Thanks.  Probably saves us a whole heap of effort.  :^)
323.1164SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfThu Nov 09 1995 17:017
    
    Shawn....
    
    You missed:
    
     "How nice"....
    
323.1165CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Thu Nov 09 1995 17:214


 Andy, great note!!!! thanks for posting it!!!
323.1166BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 09 1995 20:5844
| <<< Note 323.1161 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| >	He has the book, according to his own words.

| Oh?  Is that so?

	Then what did you mean when you said....


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>	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? 
    
    	Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here.  I'll be 
    	back to work on Tuesday.  Remind me.
    
********************************************************************************

	You said you would have the stuff on Tuesday. I'm still waiting for it.
If you can not produce the numbers, than all I can think of is that you lied.

	*IF* you did lie (and seeing I read the book and the numbers were not
in there) then it says a lot about you. It's that type of person that scares
the crap out of me. It's that type of person that spreads stuff and make claims
of where they got the info. When others believe what turns out to be a lie,
then people have misinformation, and think things that are not true. Is this
the type of person you are, Joe? If you can provide where you got the numbers,
it would help show that you are not.

	Funny thing about that type of person....if <insert person/group> is
really that bad, why can't they use 100% of the truth? 

	Hopefully you can clear this up, Joe. 



Glen
323.1167A new tail to chase, or a new messenger to shoot.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 09 1995 21:3210
                  <<< Note 323.1166 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Then what did you mean when you said....
>-----many lines deleted
>
>    
>    	Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here.  I'll be 
>    	back to work on Tuesday.  Remind me.

	The clue you're looking for is in .1129.
323.1168BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 11:4016
| <<< Note 323.1167 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| The clue you're looking for is in .1129.

	Oh come on, Joe. You know it was refuted in .1153. Page 179 is not what
you claim it is. And even when looking where you claimed the numbers were at
did not show them. And like I said, I have the book here if anyone wants to
check this out. 

	Joe, you're going around in circles. The numbers are not there. If
you're not like the person I talked about earlier (gives misinformation), then
please provide where you got the numbers. It certainly wasn't from that book.



Glen
323.1169CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsFri Nov 10 1995 12:4711
    Glen,
    
    Let's be fair to Joe, he probably got the page numbers from one of Paul
    Cameron's "scholarly works."  If for no other reason this should point
    out to people why neither reputable sociologists, nor psychologists have
    anything to do with the man.  In this case Joe has a chance to learn
    something new, about the agenda of certain people he has aligned
    himself with, and how far they are willing to go to create FUD about
    certain groups.  
    
    meg
323.1170BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 13:008

	Meg, how nicely put. Hey.... could you go and check out Joe's er....
book? You know, page 179? 



Glen
323.1171BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 13:0211

	Heard on the news this morning that there is another form of HIV. This
form is much slower, and the body can fight it off. They are saying that the
possibility exists that a vaccine could be developed in a few years. Of course
this is just a news report....so I'm not getting my hopes up....yet. Gotta see
the facts.....



Glen
323.1172CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 10 1995 16:0610
    	re .1168
    
    	You are not paying attention to the clues, Glen.  The clue is
    	the first word of my reply in .1129.  In your zeal to find LIES
    	you miss the obvious.  Meg has the right idea in .1169, but
    	the wrong guess.
    
    	Isn't this fun?
    
    	Once you tire of this mystery, we can go back to .1080.
323.1173CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Fri Nov 10 1995 16:1410


 Well, it was demonstrated earlier today in another topic that Glen may need
 some reading comprehension practice.




 Jim
323.1174BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 17:1915
| <<< Note 323.1172 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| You are not paying attention to the clues, Glen.  The clue is the first word 
| of my reply in .1129.  

	Joe, I checked page 179 of the book for that. It wasn't there. It was
on page 183. I read that entire section again, just to see if it was there and
I missed it. Not one thing on % is there. And anyone who wants to check this
out, stop by and I will show you. Will you allow Meg to visit your facility to
check out your book?



Glen
323.1175BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 17:2115
| <<< Note 323.1172 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| In your zeal to find LIES you miss the obvious.  Meg has the right idea in 
| .1169, but the wrong guess.

	You mean, it is from Paul Cameron's book, and not the Hart book like
you claimed earlier? Whoa....if this is true, then you truly scare me. 

	I guess it is very hard for you to list your source, as it is not the
original source you listed. Oh well..... misinformation and lies can be a very
bad and scary thing.



Glen
323.1176Forget it, Glen.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 10 1995 17:233
    	re .1173
    
    	You were right, Jim.
323.1177BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 17:298

	Sorry, Joe, I ain't forgetting it until you tell us exactly where you
got the numbers from. They are NOT listed in the Hart book, ANYWHERE. Why not
let Meg look at the book, Joe? What are you afraid of? The truth?


Glen
323.1178SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfFri Nov 10 1995 17:299
    
    
    re: .1175
    
    >misinformation and lies can be a very bad and scary thing.
    
    
     "Condoms stop the spread of AIDS"...
    
323.1179SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfFri Nov 10 1995 17:3010
    
    
    Joe,
    
     Tell him you'll get the info when he publically apologizes to Jack
    Martin...
    
    
    
    And Joe?... Don't hold your breath...
323.1180BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 17:325

	I love you Andy. And I love Jack, too. (but in a real sort of way). I
publicly apologize for calling Jack Martin that word that will get this note
set hidden if I use it!
323.1181BUSY::SLABOUNTYAudiophiles do it 'til it hertz!Fri Nov 10 1995 17:343
    
    	"The truth?  You can't HANDLE the truth!!"
    
323.1182TROOA::COLLINSMe, fail English? Unpossible!Fri Nov 10 1995 17:363
    
    "I seriously deride your truth-handling abilities!"
    
323.1183SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfFri Nov 10 1995 17:408
    
    re: .1180
    
    >I love you Andy.
    
    
    
    Awww.... that's so sweet Gwenny...
323.1184BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 17:423

	I know....shucks.....
323.1185CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 10 1995 17:486
    	re .1177
    
    	What, Glen, are you looking for another messenger to shoot 
    	rather than face the real issue?  
    
    	See .857, then .1080.
323.1186CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsFri Nov 10 1995 18:119
    it appears that the HIV epidemic in CO has levelled off and new cases
    are declining rapidly among gay men.  Unfortunately the number of new
    HIV infections among women of child bearing age has doubled from
    the last year stat's were available from the previous year.
    
    It looks like gay men are practicing far safer sex than women of child
    bearing age, now in this state.
    
    meg
323.1187Stupid is as stupid does...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfFri Nov 10 1995 18:141
    
323.1188BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 18:527
| <<< Note 323.1185 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| See .857, then .1080.

	That doesn't tell us where you got the numbers from. Why won't you
comment on showing Meg the book? 
323.1189CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Fri Nov 10 1995 18:544


 AARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH
323.1190SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfFri Nov 10 1995 19:014
    
    
    North bound horses come to mind....
    
323.1191ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Nov 10 1995 19:2211
                 -------|------|------------
                        ++    ++
                        ||---M||
                        ||     |
                       /\-------\
                      (00)       \
                      (  )        *
                    /
            I'm getting dizzy.
    
323.1192BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 10 1995 20:145
| <<< Note 323.1190 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>

| North bound horses come to mind....

	Jim is a northbound horse? WHOA NELLY!
323.1193BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 14 1995 22:0152
	Joe, you are a liar. Here is what your 323.952 note said:


| Apparently the previously mentioned Jack Hart book, "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men
| Who Love Men" is one of the most detailed studies of American homosexual 
| behavior yet. It says that 92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 
| 29% in sex involving urine, 41% in fisting, 37% in sex involving deliberate 
| pain, 88% in public sex or orgies, 24% in sex involving minors, and 13% in sex
| with animals at least once.


	That was what YOU said Joe. YOU said these things were in there. Now, in
note 33.1922 you state:

| I do not have the book. I was quoting (is that too large a word) from another 
| report.  

	You specifically said it came from the book, and then changed your mind
later on and told us the truth. Like I said, people like you scare me. Why?
Because you state that <insert group> is bad, and if said group was as bad as
you had stated, why did you have to lie? 

| I suppose you are TOO <BLANK> STUPID to figure it out yourself, 

	No, Joe, I had to hear it from you in order to know if it was the
truth. After reading the book itself I knew the numbers did not come from
there. What's even sader is later on in note 323.1129 you stated:

>	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? 
    
| Bibliography says HART, p. 179.


	So you carried on this lie. Why the need to lie, Joe?

| I'm done discussing (is that too large a word) it with you because you will 
| only choose to attack the source rather than deal with what it contains.  

	Let's see....you have already proven that the numbers you claimed that
were in one source, weren't really there. Seems to me that where you had already
lied, it would be hard to trust anything you put in, regardless of the source. 

| Your only intention in dealing with me seems to be villifying me rather than 
| discuss the real issues.  That speaks volumes.

	What speaks volumes is how you lied. How can anyone expect to discuss
real issues with you when you lied?



Glen
323.1195CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 14 1995 23:2359
                  <<< Note 323.1193 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, you are a liar. Here is what your 323.952 note said:
>		[snip]
>	That was what YOU said Joe. YOU said these things were in there. Now, in
> note 33.1922 you state:
> 		[snip]
    
	There is nothing contradictory about the two things you quoted.
    	Specifically because I told you:
    
.1129> Bibliography says HART, p. 179.
    
    	That should have been clue enough for you that I was drawing
    	my information from something that was referencing the book.
    	Meg even explained it to you in .1169, and I confirmed that
    	for you in .1172.  But it seem that your only goal was to
    	make me out as a liar, so you ignored whatever didn't fit
    	your agenda.
    	
>	You specifically said it came from the book, and then changed your mind
> later on and told us the truth. 
    
    	I never changed my mind.  I told you what was told to me.  That
    	is good enough criteria for you according to 33.1919, so you
    	ought to afford me the same lattitude.
    	
> Like I said, people like you scare me. Why?
>Because you state that <insert group> is bad, and if said group was as bad as
>you had stated, why did you have to lie? 
    
    	So do you still think it is a lie on my part?  Do you think
    	that 323.1080 is also a lie?  You promised to look into that
    	issue for us...
    
	Now it appears that I scare you because of boogeymen of your
    	own making.  Go back and reread this string from the beginning
    	and you will see that I did not mislead you at all.  Your
    	claims such as .1161 are of your own fabrication.
    
>	Let's see....you have already proven that the numbers you claimed that
>were in one source, weren't really there. Seems to me that where you had already
>lied, it would be hard to trust anything you put in, regardless of the source. 
    
    	Actually, Glen, I haven't proven that.  You CLAIM to have proven
    	that, but we're all taking your word for it.  You may have shown
    	that the source I was using was incorrect, but even then you have
    	not shown that the author of that source was lying.  Certainly
    	(if you are correct) the source is wrong, but is the source lying?
    	And you have a far way to go if you intend to show that my use of
    	the source was lying on my part.  Until then, you are BEARING 
    	FALSE WITNESS (to use your own overused phrase) if you persist 
    	in casting this incident as a lie.  

>| Your only intention in dealing with me seems to be villifying me rather than 
>| discuss the real issues.  That speaks volumes.
    
    	This statement of mine from 33.1922 still stands.  Thanks for
    	highlighting it for me.
323.1196BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 01:067

	Wow, Joe...deflect deflect deflect...that is a sign of yours. You
stated those numbers came from the BOOK. You lied. No if's, and, or buts.


Glen
323.1197enough alreadyACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 12:2229
    Who's to say that the information is NOT in the book?  
    
    Joe's source *may* be wrong (something you have yet to prove, though it
    would be much better for your argument if you at least made the attempt
    to do so), but calling Joe a liar for the content of what he sees as a
    viable source, is a stretch (especially considering the ref. he posted
    in one of his notes). 
    
    How about doing a bit of research (I seem to remember a note in this
    string in which you promised to do some research on this) and posting
    your findings here?  Your constant badgering of Joe is not only
    baseless, but annoying to read through.  Even if he did lie (an
    assertion that I do not agree with), it does not help your argument to 
    deflect from the issues brought up.  A better tactic would be to prove 
    his source wrong, or to post data from another source that counters what 
    he has posted.
    
    If you don't at least make the attempt at disproving Joe's source (or
    posting information that counters his), then you only show that you are
    participating in this discussion as an antagonist- preferring to
    deflect from the issue at hand to vilify Joe. 
    
    If you have a counter argument, let's hear it.  Let's discuss it.  If
    you have an opinion on this DISCUSSION (and I know you do), post it.  
    Whatever you do, PLEASE stop the witchhunts.  Even *I* am tempted to next 
    unseen, and I normally like to participate in this topic.
    
    
    -steve 
323.1198BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 15 1995 12:426
    Steve, Glen has the book himself - as he's already stated several
    times - so he knows for an absolute fact that the numbers given by
    Joe are not in the book.
    
    He did his research and he found that Joe's statements about the
    contents of the book were false.
323.1199BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkWed Nov 15 1995 12:535
    
    	Maybe Joe's book somehow misquoted Glen's book?
    
    	And if so, I don't see how Joe could know that.
    
323.1200ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 12:5814
    re: .1198
    
    
    Sorry, I missed that part.  In that case..
    
    SNARF!
    
    
    I still don't see how Glen is calling Joe a liar, and I still see this
    as a deflection, but I take back the "do some research" comment posted in 
    my previous note.  The rest stands as is.
    
    
    -steve
323.1201LANDO::OLIVER_Bhysterical elitistWed Nov 15 1995 12:582
    well, at least joe had the book in question in his possession.
    like, it wasn't on order or anything.
323.1202BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 13:3562
| <<< Note 323.1197 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Who's to say that the information is NOT in the book?

	Maybe you should catch up on the topic. I have read the book, I have
the book right here in my office. Those numbers are not IN THE BOOK. 

| Joe's source *may* be wrong 

	Joe's note said that IN THE BOOK it had the numbers he talked about.
Later on he said the numbers were not in the book. 

| but calling Joe a liar for the content of what he sees as a viable source, 
| is a stretch 

	No, when one says the numbers are IN THE BOOK, and later says they are
from another source, that person has lied.

| How about doing a bit of research (I seem to remember a note in this
| string in which you promised to do some research on this) and posting
| your findings here?  

	You do need to stay caught up. The info has been in here for quite some
time. I think it was note .997 that had the original findings. Like I said,
I've had the book here for a while. It wasn't hard to get.

| Your constant badgering of Joe is not only baseless, but annoying to read 
| through.  

	If you had kept up on the string you would have seen why he was
badgered. Anyone who has to lie to make a point about another group is a sad
individual. From reading the book, I knew the numbers were not there. But up
until he admitted that he got it from a different source, I could not say for
sure he is a liar. And as far as being baseless goes, no, it's quite true. But
you would have needed to keep up with the string.

	Steve, if I said that % of Christians are hateful, kill others, etc,
you would be all over me, wouldn't you? What Joe had to say was directly towards
homosexual men. I was all over him. What is the difference? 

| Even if he did lie it does not help your argument to deflect from the issues 
| brought up.  

	Deflect? If I can't trust him to provide the accurate source of his
data, why would I trust him period? 

| A better tactic would be to prove his source wrong, 

	Steve, a better tactic, for you anyway, would be to catch up on the
string. The above was already done. The source was not what he said it was.

| If you don't at least make the attempt at disproving Joe's source (or
| posting information that counters his), then you only show that you are
| participating in this discussion as an antagonist- preferring to deflect 
| from the issue at hand to vilify Joe.

	Please catch up with the topic.....




Glen
323.1203BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 13:3815
| <<< Note 323.1199 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "A Parting Shot in the Dark" >>>


| Maybe Joe's book somehow misquoted Glen's book?

	The same book misquoted the same book? How does that happen? He said
the numbers came from the book I had. He then said the source of the numbers
were from a different place. He kept claiming what an extensive study this was,
and how I wasn't refuting anything, and then when I do get the book, the
numbers aren't there. He couldn't even get the page right for the Bibliography.



Glen

323.1204NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 15 1995 13:392
Has the book in question had multiple editions?  Is it possible that Glen's
copy and the one quoted in Joe's source are simply different editions?
323.1205ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 13:5023
    Whether I'm caught up or not in this topic (and obviously I've missed a
    bit more than I should have) is no longer an issue.  I took back my 
    "go do research" comment already.  I also extend my apology for butting
    in when I didn't have all the fact.
    
    With that said, the basis of my last response stands.  You call Joe a 
    liar, but I've not seen in this string (maybe I missed this, too?) where 
    Joe said he actually has the book in question. 
    
    You seem more interested in vilifying Joe than in continuing your
    arguments.  Since you have the book in question, why not post some
    excerpts that forward your argument?  The only reason I bothered to
    respond is that this constant badgering is ANNOYING for me to read
    through.  Unfortunately, since I like to participate in this topic, I
    am pretty much forced to wade through the noise to find anything
    worthwhile to respond to.
    
    So, while I'm sorry for butting in without having the whole story, I'm
    not sorry for trying to get this topic back on track- which was my
    intent.  Let's stop this pointless bickering, okay?
    
    
    -steve
323.1206CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Wed Nov 15 1995 13:5210



 I believe the key is way back when when Joe said "Bibliography says Hart ppxxx"




 Jim
323.1207BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 15 1995 13:568
    Actually, the key was when Glen asked Joe for some sources and
    suggested that they might be from people of a certain ideology,
    but then Joe tried to dodge this by offering quotes that he implied
    were directly from a book that Glen happens to own.
    
    Glen knew Joe couldn't have this book since the quoted stats
    were not contained in the book.  It just took Joe a long time
    to admit that Glen was right.
323.1209\BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 13:577
| <<< Note 323.1204 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>

| Has the book in question had multiple editions?  Is it possible that Glen's
| copy and the one quoted in Joe's source are simply different editions?


	Joe has STATED he got the information from ANOTHER source.
323.1210ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 14:027
    >Joe has STATED he got the information from ANOTHER source.
    
    Which still means that Joe's source could be quoting ANOTHER edition of
    the book in question, which was what Gerald was trying to tell you.
    
    
    -steve
323.1211BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 14:0438
| <<< Note 323.1205 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| With that said, the basis of my last response stands.  You call Joe a
| liar, but I've not seen in this string (maybe I missed this, too?) where
| Joe said he actually has the book in question.

	He said the info was IN THE BOOK. I knew the info was NOT there. I even
asked him if Meg could come look at the book. That was when he said he got it
from another source. If you had caught up, you would have known this.

| Since you have the book in question, why not post some excerpts that forward 
| your argument?  

	The book is a how to have sex book. It listed one study (from 1976)
that backed one of Joe's claims (which I listed in .997 I believe). I even made
mention of the one chart they had in there. How the chart claims to be made of
opinions, and not fact. I mentioned in the authors own words in the Forward
that he stated what follows is not fact, but his own opinion. The only thing
left to go into is the how to. 

| The only reason I bothered to respond is that this constant badgering is 
| ANNOYING for me to read through.  

	Well, had you caught up on the reading, it would have helped you a
great deal.

| So, while I'm sorry for butting in without having the whole story, I'm
| not sorry for trying to get this topic back on track- which was my intent.  
| Let's stop this pointless bickering, okay?

	Steve, you have not answered the question I asked you. If I made claims
that % of Christians hated or killed people, you would be pushing for the truth
any less than I did?



Glen
323.1212BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 14:0512
| <<< Note 323.1206 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>


| I believe the key is way back when when Joe said "Bibliography says Hart ppxxx"


	Jim, the key is back at .9 something... (I believe .997 has where it is
listed. 930 something maybe?) where Joe states the book says...<insert
numbers>.


Glen
323.1213BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 14:068
| <<< Note 323.1210 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Which still means that Joe's source could be quoting ANOTHER edition of
| the book in question, which was what Gerald was trying to tell you.

	No, Steve, Joe said he got the other source AFTER he said the info was
in the book. 
323.1214NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 15 1995 14:131
Glen, do you have reading comprehension problems?
323.1215BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 14:141
no
323.1216CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Wed Nov 15 1995 14:285



 are you sure about that?
323.1217CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 14:5624
                  <<< Note 323.1211 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| [Steve Leech] but I've not seen in this string where
>| Joe said he actually has the book in question.
>
>	He said the info was IN THE BOOK. 
    
    	Steve asks a very important question.  You do not answer it.
    
    	I based my statement on something I read elsewhere.  NOWHERE
    	have I stated that I had the book itself, and in fact as far back 
    	as a whole week ago (.1129) I told you that I did not.   Another
    	source said it was in the book.  You have already told us that 
    	you find it sufficient to base YOUR statements on what you read 
    	and hear elsewhere.  (33.1919).  But you now deny me that same 
    	privilege.
    
    	I have clearly explained to you my entries.  To anyone else
    	(but Suzanne, apparently) it is clear that I was not lying,
    	but you choose to continue to propagate that characterization
    	about me.
    
    	Several others are questioning your motives here.  You now
    	stand on your own island to defend them.
323.1218the real issueSX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 15 1995 15:3316
    > I have clearly explained to you my entries.  To anyone else
    > (but Suzanne, apparently) it is clear that I was not lying,
    > but you choose to continue to propagate that characterization
    > about me.
    
    Hmph.  What is clear is that as usual, you felt compelled to hide
    your source from scrutiny.  You still haven't revealed it.  It
    isn't the first time.  You're busted, Joe- so who is the source that
    has now been demonstrated to have (at the very LEAST) MISQUOTED 
    (deliberately or not) a source Glen could verify?  Quit dancing
    around it- that's the source of the lie Glen is pursuing.  Either
    you or your source wears that misquote (a form, for the sake of
    arguement, of lieing).  You, Joe?  or your source?  Without taking
    responsibility for the misquote, your attribution is meaningless.

    DougO
323.1219BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 15:377
| <<< Note 323.1216 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>


| are you sure about that?


	yup
323.1220BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 15:4623
| <<< Note 323.1217 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >| [Steve Leech] but I've not seen in this string where
| >| Joe said he actually has the book in question.
| >
| >	He said the info was IN THE BOOK.

| Steve asks a very important question.  You do not answer it.

	Back in .1153 I asked if you even had the book. So you must have
err...missed that. Of course then there is the rest of what YOU quoted from me
that you cut off. The part where I suggested that Meg go and look at the book.
You keep missing the mark here, Joe.

| I based my statement on something I read elsewhere. NOWHERE have I stated that
| I had the book itself, 

	What source did you use, Joe? 




Glen
323.1221BUSY::SLABOUNTYAct like you own the companyWed Nov 15 1995 16:007
    
    	Joe, what was the name of the book that you got the figures
    	from?
    
    	Glen, did you ever post the figures in question?  If not, WHY
    	DON'T YOU DO IT AND SAVE EVERYBODY'S BRAINS FROM EXPLODING!?!?
    
323.1222CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 16:0724
                  <<< Note 323.1220 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| Steve asks a very important question.  You do not answer it.
>
>	Back in .1153 I asked if you even had the book. So you must have
>err...missed that. 
    
    	Steve's question asked when I ever said that I had the book.
    	And you still have not answered that question.  And you can't.
    
    	I didn't miss the question in .1153.  I do not see the need to
    	answer that question yet again when the answer was clear from
    	20+ replies earlier.  Failure to answer a question is not an
    	affirmative answer.  I also do not see the need to respond to
    	your every word.
    
>	What source did you use, Joe? 
    
    	You and Doug.  More interested in attacking the messenger than
    	dealing with the real issue.
    
    	To refresh your memory, you can find the real issue that
    	precipitated all this way back in .857.  You'd rather stick
    	your head in the sand than face that issue.
323.1223BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:1510
| <<< Note 323.1221 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Act like you own the company" >>>


| Glen, did you ever post the figures in question?  If not, WHY
| DON'T YOU DO IT AND SAVE EVERYBODY'S BRAINS FROM EXPLODING!?!?

	They are listed in notes .952, .997, .998 & .1193. :-)



323.1224BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:169

	I was wondering, cuz I never saw it done before..... if Joe got the
info from another book.... has anyone ever seen a book list the bibliography
page of another book? 



Glen
323.1225now, let's move on...ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 16:178
    re: .1211
    
    Yes, I would push for the truth.  No, I would not lock my sights on one
    person to vilify them to exclusion of all else, though I would bring into 
    question their sources of information.
    
    
    -steve  
323.1226BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:2116
| <<< Note 323.1225 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Yes, I would push for the truth.  

	Which was what I did.

| No, I would not lock my sights on one person to vilify them to exclusion of 
| all else, 

	The locking in on one person was to get him to provide his source. If
any exclusion happens, it's due to his actions.

| though I would bring into question their sources of information.

	That was done several times over.
323.1227CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 16:2711
                  <<< Note 323.1226 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| No, I would not lock my sights on one person to vilify them to exclusion of 
>| all else, 
>
>	The locking in on one person was to get him to provide his source. If
>any exclusion happens, it's due to his actions.
    
    	No.  You are the one excluding .857 and .1080 and choosing 
    	to mischaracterize me -- not even the source I used, but
    	specifically mischaracterize me.
323.1228BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:324

	No, Joe, I am basing it on where you claimed the info came from. Now
what was that source again?
323.1229Forest? Or trees? Your choice.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 16:447
                  <<< Note 323.1228 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	I am basing it on where you claimed the info came from. 
    
	Oh?  So where did I claim that the info came from?  And 
    	where did I make that claim?
    
323.1230BUSY::SLABOUNTYAfterbirth of a NationWed Nov 15 1995 16:4910
    
>	I was wondering, cuz I never saw it done before..... if Joe got the
>info from another book.... has anyone ever seen a book list the bibliography
>page of another book? 
    
    
    	You man, does a book's bibliography list the name AND page numb-
    	er[s] of the origin of the info?  Of course, or at least more
    	often than not.
    
323.1231POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesWed Nov 15 1995 16:515
    
    Joe, what is the name of your source (book?  article?  tract 8^)?) from
    which you got the numbers that supposedly came from Glen's book?
    
    
323.1232BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:549
| <<< Note 323.1230 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Afterbirth of a Nation" >>>



| You man, does a book's bibliography list the name AND page numb-
| er[s] of the origin of the info?  Of course, or at least more
| often than not.

	But do they list anothers book bibliography page?
323.1233BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 16:543

	Deb, several people have asked, and he has yet to answer.
323.1234BUSY::SLABOUNTYAfterbirth of a NationWed Nov 15 1995 16:586
    
    	RE: Glen
    
    	No, that's highly unlikely, since the bibliography is more often
    	than not found at the end of the book, and easily recognized.
    
323.1235MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 17:063
    Joe, what section and shelf can I find this book in the library and
    would the grey haired librarian know where to find it better than the
    one with the big caboose?
323.1236BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 17:078

	Then I wonder how he got the page number of John Hart's bibliography
then? Well, off by 4 pages, but it was there......



Glen
323.1237SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 17:378
    
    
    WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    
    Off by 4 WHOLE PAGES?????????????????????
    
    You and S. Conlon graduate from the same dork school???
    
323.1238CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 17:485
    re .1236
    
    	Glen, see .1214
    
    	Why would Hart's bibliography reference the book it is in?
323.1239you asked for itSX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 15 1995 17:5318
    > You and Doug.  More interested in attacking the messenger than
    > dealing with the real issue.

    Whoa, there.  You're the one dragged me into this by making some 
    wild claim about how "everybody but Glen and Suzanne" could see
    your side of it.  That isn't true.  What's obvious, as I said, is
    that you're desperately ashamed to reveal the MISQUOTING, LIEING
    source you used.  That isn't attacking the messenger - its demanding
    to know the source of the error.  And you get to choose, you know-
    either you take responsibility for the error yourself, by denying
    that your cited authority is any good, and accepting responsibility;
    or, you let us know who really made the error, and accept the
    responsibility for using that source.  It is damningly clear that
    the source is unreliable, having handed you provably erroneous
    information.  It is not unreasonable that we demand you reveal it.
    So what's it going to be then, eh?

    DougO
323.1240LYING...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 17:561
    
323.1241BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 17:5719
| <<< Note 323.1237 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>



| Off by 4 WHOLE PAGES?????????????????????

	Hell, it makes perfect sense to say where you can find info and have it
not be on that page.

	I'm still wondering how another source would list the page of the
bibliography of a totally different book?

| You and S. Conlon graduate from the same dork school???

	Sue, did you graduate from Assabet? If so, then the answer to Andy's
question would be yes!


Glen
323.1242BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 17:597

	Joe, why is it that you can drop notes in this topic, but can not
answer the several requests various people have made about your source?


Glen
323.1243CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 18:3033
      <<< Note 323.1239 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>

>    Whoa, there.  You're the one dragged me into this by making some 
>    wild claim about how "everybody but Glen and Suzanne" could see
>    your side of it.  That isn't true.  
    
    	Ok.  "Everybody but Glen, Suzanne, and Dougo".
    
    	Anyone else to jump in that boat?  (Shudder)
    
>    that you're desperately ashamed to reveal the MISQUOTING, LIEING
>    source you used.  
    
    	Misquoting?  Perhaps.  Then again, maybe there was a printing
    	error, and it only mis-attributed the source of the information.
    	In fact, I've placed a call to the publisher of the source to
    	get a verification of this item.
    
    	But you have a long way to go to show that they are "lieing"
    	about what they printed.  How can you claim that?  What demons
    	do you hear that convince you of this claim?
    
>    And you get to choose, you know-
>    either you take responsibility for the error yourself, by denying
>    that your cited authority is any good, and accepting responsibility;
    
    	OK.  For now I choose this.  That seems pretty obvious already,
    	doesn't it?  Since, according to your title of .1218 and your
    	continued harping, this was 'the real issue', I guess you can
    	just go back and play in the pedophilia topic where you seem
    	much happier anyway.
    
    	Next question?
323.1244CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 18:326
                  <<< Note 323.1241 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	I'm still wondering how another source would list the page of the
> bibliography of a totally different book?
    
    	I'm still wondering why you think it does.  Go back to .1214.
323.1245POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesWed Nov 15 1995 18:339
    
    This is driving me nuts.
    
    Joe, PLEASE, tell us the name of your source.  Was it a newspaper
    article?  Was it a magazine article?  Was it a CFV flyer?  Was it a
    religious tract?  Was it from an encyclopedia?  Just tell us!
    
    You're dodging the question like a wild animal dodges cars!
    
323.1246CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 18:357
                  <<< Note 323.1242 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, why is it that you can drop notes in this topic, but can not
>answer the several requests various people have made about your source?

    	Because I said I wouldn't.  I don't want to have Suzanne all
    	over me telling me that I committed another LIE, you know...
323.1247SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 18:406
    
    re: .1245
    
    You females are all so nosey!!!!!!!
    
    
323.1248POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesWed Nov 15 1995 18:5210
    
    <-- 8^pPPPpPpP
    
    
    When someone refuses to name hir source (see - I used a gender neutral
    pronoun!) I become suspect of it.  Joe's refusal to name his source
    makes me think it must be from a "God Hates Gays" tract or something,
    you know?  And this isn't necessarily true.
    
    
323.1249ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 15 1995 18:545
    re:  .1247
    
    Yeah, and she's getting quite hysterical, too.
    
    <running for cover...quickly>         
323.1250SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 18:545
    
    
    Could it be that he doesn't want Billy Licea-Kane questioning a
    possible "nutter" source????
    
323.1251BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 18:589

	There should be no harm in listing the source. IF the source he lists
says what he said it does, then it would mean he did not lie, and that I was
wrong.



Glen
323.1252LANDO::OLIVER_Bhysterical elitistWed Nov 15 1995 19:011
    maybe joe's gonna plead the fifth?
323.1253CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenWed Nov 15 1995 19:031
    If it's a fifth of Goslings, I'll plead anything.  
323.1254SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 19:076
    
    
    Goslings are much tastier when fully grown...
    
    :)
    
323.1255CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenWed Nov 15 1995 19:091
    er, that'd be Goslings Black Seal rum there Andrew.  
323.1256NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 15 1995 19:111
Is that sauce for the goose?
323.1257BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 19:1210

	Joe did send me mail asking for a fax number, and he said he would send
me the page. I asked him to put the source in here, and I would gladly look it
up myself. What is so bad about the source? The one thing that could prove Joe
was right, that he did not lie, and that I was wrong. 



Glen
323.1258BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 19:5514

	Well, it appears that Joe is not willing to devulge the source he has.
I can't understand why he thinks a piece of paper with no source to verify it
would be the proof that clears his name. I can't understand why he wouldn't
want to clear his name? I mean, so many people are questioning him now..... 

	Now there was something about me questioning the source itself. What
gets me is why would this be more important than clearing his name? The source
itself would prove HE was not a liar. 



Glen
323.1259MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 15 1995 19:573
    Glen:
    
    You're acting like Jabba's stooley again!  
323.1260Glen is afraid to see it in print, I guess.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 19:5913
    	Glen is Suzanning.  I was willing to fax it to him to show that
    	I am not making this up, but he must conduct his rock-throwing 
    	in public.  I've made a reasonable offer, but he insists on 
    	diverting the topic to his own little vendetta.
    
    	This is the AIDS topic, Glen, not the 'Joe's sources' topic.
    	Providing the source here merely gives you more things to
    	throw rocks at rather than face the real issues of this topic.
    
    	One would think that you, as a gay person, would be concerned
    	with the issue raised in .1080.  You even promised to look it
    	up and address it, but apparently you find it more important
    	to throw rocks at sources instead.
323.1261Earth to Silva!! Earth to Silva!!!SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 20:016
    
    
    > I mean, so many people are questioning him now.....
    
    
    
323.1262BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 20:1458
| <<< Note 323.1260 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| Glen is Suzanning. I was willing to fax it to him to show that I am not making
| this up, 

	Joe, will the fax INCLUDE the sources name? Surely you can fax that
info as well. A piece of paper that can not be verified is worthless.

| but he must conduct his rock-throwing in public.  

	You made the CLAIMS in public. But now you won't show your proof in
public. Sorry, Joe....it doesn't work that way.

| I've made a reasonable offer, 

	UNLESS the fax has the source it came from for verification, you have
NOT made a reasonable offer.

| but he insists on diverting the topic to his own little vendetta.

	This is true. I wish the truth, the WHOLE truth, be known. Considering
it started here, by YOU, why would you not want it to end here? Seeing MANY
others have expressed an interest, why wouldn't you list it here?

| This is the AIDS topic, Glen, not the 'Joe's sources' topic.

	Joe, you made some pretty harsh claims. You even listed a source of
where the data was supposed to be. That proved to be FALSE. If this is not a
Joe's sources topic, then why did you list the other false source earlier? 

| Providing the source here merely gives you more things to throw rocks at 
| rather than face the real issues of this topic.

	With the amount of people reading this now, do you think that is really
possible? List the source. Allow me to verify that the source exists, and that
the data is in there. IF both can be done, then we will deal with the data they
listed.

| One would think that you, as a gay person, would be concerned with the issue 
| raised in .1080.  

	I am concerned with many things, Joe. But I will not let you deflect
this off somewhere else when YOU made claims that you can easily show where you
got them from. But instead, you deflect. Is that in hopes that this will go
away? IF that is the case....guess again.

| You even promised to look it up and address it, but apparently you find it 
| more important to throw rocks at sources instead.

	Joe, .1080 will still be there. Considering you started all this back
in the .900's, it makes sense to end this issue first, by you giving us the
source.




Glen
323.1263BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 20:167
| <<< Note 323.1261 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "if u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyf" >>>

| > I mean, so many people are questioning him now.....


	Andy, do the names Deb, Shawn, Me, Suz, DoubO add up to many for you?

323.1264SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 20:1813
    
    re: .1262
    
    >Seeing MANY others have expressed an interest,
    
    reads better as:
    
    "Seeing some few others have expressed an interest,"
    
    
    The AHD
    
    many adj. - Amounting to or consisting of a large, indefinite number. 
323.1265SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 15 1995 20:205
    
    The AHD
    
    few adj. - Amoutning to or consisting of a small number. n 1. An
    indefinitely small number: 2. A select or elite group.
323.1266CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 20:302
    	Well then I'll fax it to anyone else who is not afraid of it
    	and is interested in seeing that I didn't make it up.
323.1267POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesWed Nov 15 1995 20:397
    
    You may fax it to me, but I'll want the entire thing, not just the one
    article 8^).
    
    dtn 223-8353.
    
    
323.1268BUSY::SLABOUNTYAudiophiles do it 'til it hertz!Wed Nov 15 1995 20:5411
    
    	Glen, before you start grouping me with 1 side or the other,
    	I'd like to make it known that I think you're both being a
    	little "vague" here.
    
    	Glen says Joe lied.  But Glen might have a comprehension
    	problem.
    
    	Joe says he never lied but won't reveal his source, even if
    	it's not the same source as Glen wants to believe it is.
    
323.1269BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 22:0418
| <<< Note 323.1266 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Well then I'll fax it to anyone else who is not afraid of it
| and is interested in seeing that I didn't make it up.

	Joe, with technology of today, I could write the same thing and fax it
out. Without the source itself, it can not be proven to be true. All that can
be proven is that the words were faxed on a piece of paper.

	For someone who has always said I was wrong just about all the time,
one would think you would jump at the chance of PROVING me wrong. But you opt
for a method, if without the source listed with it, is just a piece of paper
with words. 

	Kind of makes me wonder....why?


Glen
323.1270BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 22:0615
| <<< Note 323.1268 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Audiophiles do it 'til it hertz!" >>>


| Glen, before you start grouping me with 1 side or the other,

	I was grouping you in with those who have asked for the source.

| Glen says Joe lied. But Glen might have a comprehension problem.

	It can be cleared up if the source he says has the information in it.
IF that is the case, then I was the one who was wrong. 



Glen
323.1271BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 22:149

	Btw... I thought it was kind of funny that you can throw out these real
neat catch words like, afraid, vendetta, throwing rocks.....nice deflections,
but you still have not listed the source.



Glen
323.1272CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 15 1995 22:271
    	Empty barrels make the most noise.
323.1273BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 15 1995 22:315
| <<< Note 323.1272 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Empty barrels make the most noise.

	They sure do, Joe.... and considering you're firing blanks..... 
323.1274CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Wed Nov 15 1995 23:544


 Hey, are we having fun, or what?
323.12758^)POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesThu Nov 16 1995 00:564
    
    Speak for yourself, bucko!
    
    
323.1276CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsThu Nov 16 1995 11:549
    Joe,
    
    Add me to the list of people who would like the source that you got
    your information from.  Why are you hiding it?  Who knows maybe you
    could convert some of us tolerant people if we read the dynamite in
    this book, pamphlet, magazine article or whatever.  If you truly
    believe in it, it can't hurt to let it be shown in the light of day.
    
    meg
323.1277TALLIS::SCHULERGreg, DTN 227-4165Thu Nov 16 1995 14:1319
    Joe, 

    Add me to the list as well.

    
    I'll add that I'm not at all surprised you would dump a bunch of 
    outrageous quotes in this topic.  Its part of your homosexual 
    obsession; your never-ending crusade to demonize gays.  And you've 
    never let facts, honesty, integrity (or any of the Christian values 
    you profess to uphold) stand in your way.

    I'm also not surprised you don't want us to know your source.  Its 
    probably some worthless tract printed by a (so-called) Christian 
    ministry.

    You should be ashamed of yourself.

    /Greg

323.1278email is OK. DTNs are not.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 16 1995 14:533
    re .1276, .1277
    
    	Well, give me FAX numbers!
323.1279TALLIS::SCHULERGreg, DTN 227-4165Thu Nov 16 1995 15:002
    Will the FAX identify the source?
    
323.1280ROWLET::AINSLEYLess than 150 kts. is TOO slow!Thu Nov 16 1995 16:043
    Uh Joe,  why won't you identify the source?
    
    Bob
323.1281BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 16 1995 16:157

	The list about the source grows....but still no answer. What are you
hiding, Joe??? The truth, maybe?


Glen
323.1282CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 16 1995 16:304
    	FAX will contain the whole thing, cover-to-cover (4 pages).
    	Even to Glen.  I've already sent it to one other requester,
    	and at my next break (I'm in a meeting) I'll attend to the
    	next ones.
323.1283CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 16 1995 16:333
    	BTW, I'm not going to post anything here about the source 
    	until I get resolution regarding the quote in question.  I've
    	spoken to them, and they say that the information is accurate.
323.1284POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesThu Nov 16 1995 16:357
    
    Glen, why don't you fax p.179 of the Hart book to me (along with the
    title page so we can see the publication date, etc.).
    
    Do you have the Cameron book?
    
    
323.1285BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 16 1995 16:366

	If you are going to fax the whole thing, the number is:


		508-568-4681
323.1286POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesThu Nov 16 1995 16:394
    
    Glen, my fax dtn is 223-8353.  Sorry I forgot to mention it.
    
    
323.1287POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesThu Nov 16 1995 17:0331
    
    OK, here's the problem.  Joe's source is misleading in that all of the
    percentage numbers are in one paragraph, but in two separate sentences. 
    I quote:
    
    "In the most detailed study of American homosexual behavior to date,
    92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
    urine, 41% in "fisting", 37% in torture sex, an amazing 88% in public
    sex and orgies, and 24% in sex involving minors.  Add to this roster
    about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals at least once." 11
    
    The footnote:
    
    11 Hart, p.179.
    
    Page 179 of Hart is about zoophilia - and it mentions that according to
    a 1977 study, 13% of homosexual have had sex with animals.
    
    There is no indication where the other percentages come from - that
    specific sentence is not footnoted separately.  But those numbers do
    NOT come from Hart.
    
    I believe the paragraph is misleading.  It gives the reader the
    impression that all of the percentages come from Hart's book, when in
    fact only the last sentence about sex with animals comes from said
    book.
    
    The source should be expected to specify where the other percentages
    come from.
    
    
323.1288NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 16 1995 17:072
I wonder what percentage of heterosexuals have had experience with bestiality.
(Zoophilia?  I like zoos!)
323.1289POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerThu Nov 16 1995 17:123
    Having sex with urine doesn't sound like fun. Do you have to take the
    urine out for dinner and a movie first? Will the urine get jealous if
    you need to pee?
323.1290BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 16 1995 17:191
:-)
323.1291DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Thu Nov 16 1995 20:432
    Before I have to read through all these replies, did Joe ever reveal
    his source?
323.1292Whomever? Whoever? Pedants -- help please!CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 16 1995 20:493
    	I've faxed it to whomever asked.  As I said earlier, I'll 
    	discuss the source here once I get a clarification from
    	them regarding the discrepancy.
323.1293SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoThu Nov 16 1995 20:535
    re .1287- Deb, do you have the source attribution, or merely some
    reproduced and unattributed pages?  author name, institutional name,
    anything?
    
    DougO
323.1294MPGS::MARKEYFluffy nutterThu Nov 16 1995 22:1212
    
    RE: .1293

    They were part of the fax, which Joe was kind enough to send
    to me as well. Joe has stated that he will specify the source,
    so be patient; I'm confident he will follow through.

    Until then, I won't enter my comments, which are numerous.
    As far as I'm concerned, it's just as well Joe take his time,
    as I'm up to my ass in alligators at the moment...

    -b
323.1295TROOA::COLLINSA hayride of hyuks!Fri Nov 17 1995 15:3815
    
    WASHINGTON (AP) - An experimental drug has prevented monkeys from
    catching the simian form of the AIDS virus even when the virus was
    pumped directly into their bodies, prompting hope the medicine could
    one day protect people.
    
    The monkeys were completely protected even when the virus floated in
    their blood for 24 hours before they got the drug PMPA, a discovery
    "too good to believe," said chief researcher Dr. Che-Chung Tsai of the
    University of Washington Regional Primate Centre.  Repeated tests came
    up with the same results.
    
    The drug's maker, Gilead Sciences Inc., hopes to begin testing the drug
    in people next year.
    
323.1296POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesFri Nov 17 1995 15:489
    
    DougO, I have the entire thing, including author and publication name. 
    Joe has asked that he be the one to reveal it in public, though, so
    I'll defer to him.
    
    As stated previously, it's misleading, and the myriad of percentages
    quoted in the article do NOT come from Hart's book.
    
     
323.1297MPGS::MARKEYHooter challengedSun Nov 19 1995 16:445
    
    I have my reaction to the article typed in and ready to go.
    Just waiting at this point for Joe to say the word.
    
    -b
323.1298How about Jim saying the word? ;*)SUBPAC::SADINFreedom isn't free.Sun Nov 19 1995 18:003
    
    	go Brian!
    
323.1299BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 20 1995 12:357

	I just received it too. Joe, who doesn't work on Mondays, came in to
fax it to me. So when he comes in tomorrow, we will be ready to go. 


Glen
323.1300BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 20 1995 12:383

	SNARF!!!
323.1301BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 21 1995 12:298

	Well.....today we will find out what Joe did for that discrepency in
that article. This could very well be the day that I will owe Joe an apology.



Glen
323.1302BUSY::SLABOUNTYAudiophiles do it 'til it hertz!Tue Nov 21 1995 13:304
    
    	I sure hope someone apologizes to someone really soon, before
    	this discussion ends up in "The Ring".
    
323.1303BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 21 1995 13:323

	Well, we can't do it without Joe!! :-)
323.1305CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 21 1995 19:366
    Well since Joe has been responding to notes of mine in here, baybe he
    will deign to answer the questions everyone is asking.
    
    meg
    
    
323.1306BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 21 1995 19:389

	Joe, you've been writing in here, and you even responded to my mail.
You know people are patiently waiting for you in this topic. If you want to
reveal the source, present your findings, could you please do it soon before I, 
and apparently Brian, do? I'll mail this to you as well.


Glen
323.1307BUSY::SLABOUNTYCareer Opportunity Week at DECTue Nov 21 1995 19:425
    
    	Patiently????
    
    	[tap tap tap tap]
    
323.1308CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 21 1995 19:534
    	Patience!
    
    	I follow the lead of NEXT UNSEEN.  I knew it would eventually 
    	bring me here!
323.1309CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 21 1995 20:4034
  <<< Note 323.1287 by POWDML::HANGGELI "Little Chamber of Wet Raspberries" >>>

    	Deb wins the observation award:
    
>    OK, here's the problem.  Joe's source is misleading in that all of the
>    percentage numbers are in one paragraph, but in two separate sentences. 
>    I quote:
>    
>    "In the most detailed study of American homosexual behavior to date,
>    92% of respondents had engaged in oral/anal sex, 29% in sex involving
>    urine, 41% in "fisting", 37% in torture sex, an amazing 88% in public
>    sex and orgies, and 24% in sex involving minors.  Add to this roster
>    about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals at least once." 11
>    
>    The footnote:
>    
>    11 Hart, p.179.
    
    
    	I heard from the publisher (CFV).  What I have is not the final
    	copy.  It is not what was sent to their mailing list, and is not
    	what is available today.  The copy I have has errors, and at issue
    	here is one of them.
    
    	After the first sentence in the quoted paragraph there should be
    	an additional footnote -- 10.  For those to whom i faxed a copy,
    	you will see that there is no footnote 10, though there is a 10
    	in the footnotes list.
    
    	10 is "Dr Paul Cameron, 'The Gay Nineties' (Franklin, Tennessee:
    	Adroit Press 1993), p 41.
    
    	To get a copy of the final and official printing, contact the
    	CFV number at the top of the newsletter that was faxed to you.
323.1310MPGS::MARKEYfulla gadinkydustTue Nov 21 1995 20:4799
    reference:

    "Normal Perversions"
	Linda Tebedo
	Colorado for Family Values (CFV) Report
	Volume 30, July 1995

    Let me begin by thanking Joe Oppelt for faxing me the article
    titled '"Normal" Perversions'. The article is very useful, for
    it addresses many of the issues between G&L people and
    Christian fundamentalists. I will try my best to avoid
    "shooting the messenger." However, in my opinion, the author
    of the article does a great disservice to G&L people as well
    as a large part of of the heterosexual population.

    I was immediately struck by the strong language of the article.
    Although the article mentions a "gay agenda", it seems clear
    that the author has her own agenda. I sincerely doubt that her
    agenda stops at limiting gays from establishing special rights.
    The language is strong, the associations are clear. Gay =
    pervert. To wit: "the subject matter in this report is known
    to cause distress and nausea in normal, healthy people."

    If you're not G&L, don't feel left out. Consider the following
    quote: "The healthy heterosexual ideal can be best described
    as monogamous love between a grown man and a grown woman
    whose sexual intercourse is vaginal and private." It seems that
    I just went out the window with the rest of the perverts, as
    I -- as well as my partner, with whom I share a healthy
    monogamous adult heterosexual relationship -- enjoy oral sex.
    The article goes on to diagnose my perversion as "sickness of
    spirit."

    The article makes suspect use of statistics. For example,
    on page 5 it mentions that 24% of homosexuals have had sex
    with minors, making an association between homosexuals and
    pedophiles. While no source is supplied for this statistic,
    it deserves scrutiny. In most states, the age of consent is
    below the age of majority. The article makes no attempt to
    qualify the statistic by stating the age the person was when
    they had sexual contact with a minor. I would not be surprised
    to find that 24% of the population at large would admit to
    having sex with minors, since many people have sexual contact
    while in their teens; usually with other teens. Since
    virginity and I parted company well before my 18th birthday,
    by the CFV's definition I could be a pedophile, even though my
    partner and I were the same age and legally capable of
    consent. More "spirit sickness" I presume.

    There is also a strange double standard at work here. The
    sexual acts described in the article are those between
    men. No small wonder that; many sexual studies have found
    that a significant percentage of men harbor fantasies
    regarding lesbian encounters. Men having anal sex? "Faggots!"
    Women having oral sex? "Coooooooooooooool!!!!!" This is
    the only concession the article makes (by not mentioning
    lesbian sex) to the kinky realities of human sexuality.
    CFV apparently know where their bread is buttered.

    The article describes many sexual acts which are intended
    to make the reader uncomfortable. Yes, the idea of having
    someone's forearm thrust in my anus makes me uncomfortable.
    Yes, the idea of having sex with animals makes me uncomfortable.
    Consider this strange dichotomy: I would not solicit someone
    to mail me sexually explicit literature that detailed how
    I might go about having anal sex with a man, but the CFV,
    who espouse Christian values, would have no problem mailing
    an unsolicited description to me! Imagine some poor Christian
    person who agrees with CFV and sends a donation, only to have
    the CFV newsletter intercepted by his/her curious children!

    So what can the CFV's purpose be? On the surface it is to
    protect Christian values. No special rights for gays, no
    teaching the gay agenda in the schools. But if that were
    the agenda, why is there the need for such sexually explicit
    language? While it may not be the correct conclusion, I
    have none the less concluded that the intent of CFV is to
    dehumanize G&L people. This is EXACTLY the type of language
    that promotes anti-gay violence. If this is not the language
    of hate, then what is? The article does nothing to educate
    me; I know that gay men have anal sex; I know that some
    people think excrement and urine are sex toys (nothing
    uniquely homosexual about that, either). Why does the CFV
    feel the need to remind me?

    The article does score a palpable hit in two areas. The first
    regards sexual contact in public places (parks, etc.). I agree
    with the author that this practice should be deprecated, but
    again, it is not a uniquely homosexual practice. The second
    point relates to the health-care costs of unhealthy sexual
    practices. However, equally unhealthy practices are not
    mentioned: smoking, obesity, lack of exercise. All contribute
    to escalating health care costs. Homosexuals are singled out.

    To end on a positive note, I think the way CFV chooses to
    present its message will confine it to a small constituency
    of hard-core anti-gays. Built-in error correction, if you
    will...
    
323.1311CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 21 1995 22:558
    	Of course, you realize, Brian, that CFV's agenda is to clearly
    	villify homosexual behavior, so you have to expect their slant.
    
    	But you can't simply throw out things they use from other
    	people on a principle of guilt-by-association, and that was 
    	my hesitancy all along in revealing the source in the first
    	place.  I know how this conference works.  I know how CFV 
    	is (and forever will be) received here.
323.1312MPGS::MARKEYfulla gadinkydustTue Nov 21 1995 23:3826
    
    Joe,

    I completely understand your point about the perception of
    CFV, here and elsewhere. I think we have a little disagreement
    on who's to blame for that perception. Let's just say I
    don't see a lot of bridge building on their part! :-)

    I also feel that they are intentionally deceiving, unwisely
    preoccupied with what other people do in their own bedrooms,
    insulting and just plain mean. I have a hard time connecting
    the dots between these characteristics and so-called "family
    values".

    That said, I'm really glad we're having this discussion and
    I want to repeat my sincere gratitude for faxing the article
    to us. Even though I know that you are certainly receptive
    to CFV's message, I want to make it clear that in attacking
    their articles I am in no way attacking you. I am, however,
    relieved to find that a viewpoint which I'm not necessarily
    receptive to has to use such blatant and offensive tactics
    to forward its argument. I feel much more comfortable now
    with my defense of gay rights.

    -b
    
323.1313BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansTue Nov 21 1995 23:531
    Good note, Brian!
323.1314MPGS::MARKEYfulla gadinkydustTue Nov 21 1995 23:594
    
    Thank you, Suzanne!
    
    -b
323.1315DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Wed Nov 22 1995 03:288
323.1316BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 10:5110
          <<< Note 323.1311 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>I know how CFV 
>    	is (and forever will be) received here.


	Quite properly. For anyone who has a respect for our system of
	government, its Constitution and its laws. that is.

Jim
323.1317ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 22 1995 11:3012
    re: .1310
    
    I imagine smoking, obesity, et-al were not mentioned because the
    article was about homosexuals, not over-eaters, smokers, etc.
    
    You make some decent points, though I don't agree with everything you
    posted in this note.
    
    FWIW.
    
    
    -steve
323.1318double standardACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 22 1995 11:304
    re: .1316
    
    But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
    etc., right?  
323.1319BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 11:4219
| <<< Note 323.1309 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>



| I heard from the publisher (CFV). What I have is not the final copy. It is 
| not what was sent to their mailing list, and is not what is available today.  
| The copy I have has errors, and at issue here is one of them.

	Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
not sent out to the mailing list. And please explain how the ONLY error between
the two happens to be the #10 footnote? You see, I have both copies, yours and
theirs. I've had it for 2 days. So if you would, tell us how you obtained a
copy that did not go out on that mailing list, and how that is the ONLY error
between the 2.




Glen
323.1320BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 11:4516
| <<< Note 323.1311 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| But you can't simply throw out things they use from other people on a 
| principle of guilt-by-association, 

	You are right, but you can throw this stuff out on several counts. Paul
Cameron was thrown out of many psyciatric areas. If you look in note number
87.485, you will see a pointer that shows you this has happened. And then when
you bring in how they misrepresented what the Hart book was saying (which I
will drop a note in after I catch up on this string) in the 1st place, well,
you can throw them out just on their own merits, or lack there of.



Glen
323.1321BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 11:477
| <<< Note 323.1318 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
| etc., right?

	List what the agenda is in DETAIL. (you might want to go to the gay
topic for that)
323.1322BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 12:03113
	I can comment on the Hart excerpts, as I still have the book. The CFV
stuff is pretty funny. I mean, they only include so much.....

Footnote 4  pg 66 of the Hart book:

	Bondage, S/M and humiliation, for example, are seen as valid forms of
	sexual expression by most gay men, even those who don't choose such 
	activities themselves.

What they failed to include in the above were the 2 lines BEFORE the one
sentence they extracted:

	Among the gay community, there is a general acceptance of any sexual
  	activity between consenting and informed adults, provided it isn't
	likely to cause serious harm to either person. It is pretty clear 
	whether most situations fall into this category.

The CFV does not mention that these things are between consenting and informed
adults, just that they are seen as ok. It never mentions the harm part either.
It was there, but they did not include it. The CFV did not include that the
author of the Hart book said in the introduction, which was what followed in
the pages was not fact, but the authors own opinion. The above info they (CFV)
provided has no fact to back it up, just one persons opinion. Yet they present 
it like most gay men think humiliation, etc is ok. I believe the CFV is taking 
the Hart book out of context in footnote 4. 

Footnote 6  pg 112 of the Hart book:

	Gay men may not have invented the one night stand, but we certainly
	popularized it....Today many men still thrive on one-night stands....

What does the Hart book say?:

	Gay men may not have invented the one night stand, but we certainly
	popularized it in the decade between the Stonewall Riots and the onset
	of AIDS. Today many men still thrive on one-night stands - while others
	have never had one, and never want to.

Between Stonewall (1969) and the onset of AIDS (1979). This is what they are
talking about in this book. But when the CFV doesn't list this, it gives the
appearance that this is something that is from TODAY, not back as far as 16
years ago. And what even adds to that is when it says that many men still 
thrive on one-night stands, but they do not list others don't, or never want to.
It appears the CFV is only interested in presenting partical truth, cuz they
certainly did not list the whole truth. They seem to do that a lot here. And of
course by not listing the 69-79 stuff, they have taken the Hart book out of
context.

Footnote 9  pg 112 of the Hart book:

	Even scatology, while recognized as pretty kinky, seems to merit a page
	in the homosexual how-to-manuals with no recriminations whatsoever.

Now the above was their own wording, and not something from the book itself. I 
looked up the word scatology in the dictionary. It says:

                "An interest in obscenity, esp. in literature."

Now the only thing I see on this page that might fit into this category would
be the entire page is about a one-night stand, the proper etiquette. It doesn't
go into the sex act itself, just what you should tell the person before you go
home with them, if they/you will/can spend the night, etc.

But it is kind of funny that in their literature they say "manualS", and then 
only footnote 1 such book. It is also funny that at times they pull a few words 
out to try and prove their point, but here they seem to trash the very source 
they are using.

Footnote 11  pg 179 of the Hart book:

	Add to this roster about 13% who admit to having had sex with animals 
	at least once.

The Hart book says:

	City slickers tend to view the subject as a matter for jokes, but for
	boys growing up on a farm, sex with animals is not uncommon.

	Thirteen percent of respondents to a 1977 Gay Report said they had
	tried sex with an animal at least once. "Living on a farm can be 
	lovely," wrote one. "I've <insert word which would be deleted if 
	used> many cows and had calves suck me off." 

Now why would the CFV use something that was from a 1977 report for something
that they put out in a newsletter in 1995? That part does not make sense at
all. Would behaviors have changed since 1977? Since AIDS has sprung up, my
GUESS would be yes. And I base my guess on the CDC reports on new AIDS cases, 
and what I see happening within the community itself. 

Now, what is also weird that they used the book they trashed, to back their 
claims of 13%. But the book itself quotes a 1977 study. Why didn't the CFV go 
right to the study itself to either prove/disprove it's validity? Why does the
CFV use the information like it is from TODAY, not from 1977?

Now the CFV did hit the nail on the head when they implied this is a sick act.

Footnote 12  pg 112 of the Hart book:

	They describe the public bathrooms, bathhouses, and sex clubs, where 
	anyone can go when they're "in the mood" for easy pick-ups and orgies
	to have sex with men they've never met and prefer to never see again.

This one was quite funny, as they list the footnote to the Hart book, while
that page of the book is about one night stands only, not about where anyone 
goes, or what they are "in the mood" for. Pretty deceiving, if you ask me.

	Why did the CFV only pull out negative snippets from the Hart book to
try and prove their point? Why did the CFV not include the whole message that
the book was trying to convey? I can't know their reasoning. My GUESS is if
they did start including the whole truth, they would not have a platform to
stand on. 

Glen
323.1323MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 12:055
ZZ    List what the agenda is in DETAIL. (you might want to go to the
ZZ    gay topic for that)
    
    Heather Has Two Mommies read to kindergarten students in the NYC school
    system.
323.1324BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 12:0617
            <<< Note 323.1318 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    But it's okay for homosexuals to push their agenda into schools, law,
>    etc., right?  

Steve,	What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
	accepted as full citizens of the United States?

	What is so wrong about trying to counteract the hateful lies that
	are told about them?

	What is so wrong about using the legal processes already established
	to accomplish these goals?

Jim


323.1325ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 22 1995 12:2328
    re: .1324 (Jim Percival)

>Steve,	What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
>	accepted as full citizens of the United States?

    Nothing at all.  But this is not the case as I see it.  I guess it
    depends on how you view "full citizens".  I think this is a deceptive
    argument- simplifying that which is not simple.
    
    I'll not detail my thoughts since we've been over this more than a few
    times already.  8^)
    
>	What is so wrong about trying to counteract the hateful lies that
>	are told about them?

    Nothing at all.  But if this means spreading their own lies (as with
    the much discussed commercial from a gay activist group) and demonizing
    people, then I would call such an agenda hypocritical.
    
>	What is so wrong about using the legal processes already established
>	to accomplish these goals?

    Nothing.  But there is also nothing wrong with other groups using the
    same established legal processes to protect their way of life, when
    they see their community standards being attacked.
    
    
    -steve
323.1326COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 12:2312
I was poking around the net last night (surfing with "pro-life" as the
search word) and ended up at some Internet Zine for homosexuals reading
an article about "PLAGL".

But anyway, there was an adjacent article where the folks publishing
this gay netzine were all up in arms because of the fact that the most
popular netblocker software (which allows parents to control what their
children reach while netsurfing) restricts their 'zine site.

And they claim they don't recruit.  Right.

/john
323.1327CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 12:2521
    jack,
    
    "Heather has Two Mommies" is not exactly a detailed agenda.
    
    Glen,
    
    In fairness to CFV, the Tebedo's, or at least Kevin, have left CFV as
    it is too mainstream, and only seeks to avoid giving gay people
    "special" rights, according to KT.  Kevin has made it his mission to
    wipe the "scourge" of homosexual behaviors off the planet.  He has also
    joined sister Linda in the militia movement.  Since they gave KT a
    severance package, I have a feeling that CFV had decided that KT has
    gotten a bit too harsh and explicit even for CFV.  
    
    Howeverr, CFV also has not held itself to accuracy when painted into
    corners, as could be seen by the blitzkrieg of hateful dreck sent out
    the weekend before the '92 election, much of the same information was
    in the "informative newsletter" with many references to Cameron, who
    isn't noted for backing up his data with anything resembling facts.  
    
    meg
323.1328SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 22 1995 12:255
    
    
    Perhaps Dick Binder can help in getting them shut down if the get out
    of line???
    
323.1329BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 12:2811

	John, while you haven't listed what it is they are talking about, how
can we decide if it really is recruiting or not? Could it be that they are
discussing gay issues that deal with children, and that if they are blocked out
from it, they may not actually get the info that could help them? How would
that equate recruiting? 



Glen
323.1330Are parents allowed to decide what their children read?COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 12:313
Maybe parents don't want their little 11-year-olds reading your sex talk.

/john
323.1331CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 12:338
    Glen,
    
    We can't let kids know that there are normal, productive human beings
    who also happen to be gay, and that they lead normal and happy lives.
    I guess that could be construed as recruiting, just as a pre-aids
    survey can be construed as valid in 1995.
    
    meg
323.1332SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 22 1995 12:388
    
    <-------
    
    Bull!!
    
    If I had children at an impressionable age, I certainly would want a
    software package that would block what *I* consider dreck...
    
323.1333BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 12:446
| <<< Note 323.1330 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>


| Maybe parents don't want their little 11-year-olds reading your sex talk.

	Describe what you mean by sex talk.
323.1334SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIif u cn rd ths, u nd to gt a lyfWed Nov 22 1995 12:463
    
    Ask them...
    
323.1335CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 13:0013
    To begin with, any parent who leaves an 11-year-old alone with internet
    access gets what they deserve, just as those who don't monitor what
    their kids watch on TV.  
    
    I believe the concern with the gay community is with teens. Gay teens
    have an alarmingly high suicide rate.  (Which is lumped in with
    Cameron's life-expectancy for gay men, I am sure.  There are far too
    many old gay men, out in the world to account for his mortality stats
    any other way.)  Lack of self-esteem and feeling like you belong
    somewhere contributes to early heterosexual behavior, and less-safe
    practices; I can't imagine it is any different for gay teens.
    
    meg
323.1336BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 13:2825
            <<< Note 323.1325 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Nothing at all.  But this is not the case as I see it.  I guess it
>    depends on how you view "full citizens".  I think this is a deceptive
>    argument- simplifying that which is not simple.
 
	It is fairly simple. Access to employmenmt, housing and public
	accomodations can be denied to GLBs on a whim. In fact the mere
	accusation, without proof, to deny these basic rights has actually
	been upheld by the courts.

>    Nothing at all.  But if this means spreading their own lies (as with
>    the much discussed commercial from a gay activist group) and demonizing
>    people, then I would call such an agenda hypocritical.
 
	Using videotape of religious right activists constitutes a "lie"?

>    Nothing.  But there is also nothing wrong with other groups using the
>    same established legal processes to protect their way of life, when
>    they see their community standards being attacked.
 
	Only one side has attempted to deny access to the law by the other
	(Note: it was not the GLBs).

Jim
323.1337MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 13:3512
Z    To begin with, any parent who leaves an 11-year-old alone with
Z    internet access gets what they deserve, just as those who don't monitor what
Z    their kids watch on TV.  
    
    Meg, I agree with you.  I saw Ralph Reed on Nightline trying to get the
    government to regulate what goes on the Internet.  The opposing view
    said we should set it up so parents can control what files their
    children will have access to.  I see Reeds position but frankly, porn
    is available everywhere.  The responsibility is on the shoulders of the
    parents.
    
    -Jack
323.1338CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 13:406
    Scream!!!
    
    Jack and I agreed on something, should this be in an "on this day"
    topic?
    
    meg
323.1339COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 13:438
Right.  And "GLAAD" (the Gay & Lesbian Anti-Discrimination And Defamation
people) were moaning about this piece of software which elinates access to
sexual discussions (both hetero and homo) in the initial set of restrictions.

The software allows parents to add or remove restrictions to have direct
control of what their children access.

/john
323.1340MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Nov 22 1995 13:518
I'm not sure that I understand why _ANY_ group that publishes information
on the Internet thinks that they should not be restrictable by software
tools which users desire to employ. There is nothing that gives anyone
the "right" to force their information into my home through my phone
line nor the "right" to prevent me from doing as I please regarding
whether or not I wish to allow it there. This is as applicable to NAMBLA 
as it is to the Catholic Church or the Red Cross or the Department of Justice.

323.1341CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 13:546
    Jack,
    
    We are in some agreement here, but I want the choice, I don't want it
    to be mandatory software on my home station.
    
    meg
323.1342MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Nov 22 1995 13:552
Wait a minute. Maybe I missed something. What's "Mandatory software"?

323.1343MPGS::MARKEYfulla gadinkydustWed Nov 22 1995 13:567
    
    So John, how do you answer my comment about the sexually
    explicit content of the "CFV Report"? I don't know about
    your household, but my kids have easier access to the mail
    box than they do to Internet...
    
    -b
323.1344re .1342 -- it's about the UN Convention on Rights of ChildrenCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 13:563
Her mommy still controls her computer at home.

/john
323.1345CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 14:075
    Especially since the first mailing I saw from CFV had this same jglop
    in it and came in a newpaper bulk-rate format.  My kids bring my mail
    in.  "No honey, I don't know what all those terms are, or why someone
    would put them in a newpaper put out by someone who purportadly
    believes in family values."
323.1346COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 14:146
If the CFV people sent out obscene literature, turn them into the Post Office.

As a general solution to the problem of sleeze mail, I suppose you need to
teach your children not to read their parents' mail.

/john
323.1347Sheesh. No forests. Just trees.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 15:0516
                  <<< Note 323.1319 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
>not sent out to the mailing list. 
    
    	I'm not on the mailing list.  I have a copy that was given to
    	me by someone else.  And it is not an original.
    
>And please explain how the ONLY error between
>the two happens to be the #10 footnote? You see, I have both copies, yours and
>theirs. I've had it for 2 days. 
    
    	Well break out your fine-toothed comb and magnifying glass, for
    	they said that there were other errors as well.
    
    	Keep searching for those boogeymen, Glen.
323.1348CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 15:077
   <<< Note 323.1324 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	What is so wrong about a group of people working to be
>	accepted as full citizens of the United States?
    
    	Because they require "acceptance a citizens" to include 
    	acceptance of their behaviors.
323.1349MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustWed Nov 22 1995 15:4210
    
    Joe,
    
    I think the point is that _their_ behavior does not require
    your approval _or_ disapproval. You put _yourself_ in that
    position, and my guess is that you did so without much
    solicitation on their part. You always have the option of
    simply ignoring their behavior, but you choose not to.
    
    -b
323.1350CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 15:5514
    Joe,
    
    Excuse me, but the last time I checked I would get fired if I were
    having sex at work with anyone, orientation isn't an issue.  
    
    Are you talking about firing someone for having a picture of their
    committed relationship on their desk, wearing a wedding ring, being (or
    my god, we know what she did!) PREGNANT?  These are all things that are
    behaviours of any orientation.  Refusing to rent to someone because
    they just look like they might have a different orientation?  
    
    I mean what is to accept
    
    meg
323.1351BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 16:0528
| <<< Note 323.1347 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| >	Joe, please explain how you got a version of the newsletter that was
| >not sent out to the mailing list.

| I'm not on the mailing list.  I have a copy that was given to
| me by someone else.  And it is not an original.

	Joe, what is the name of the publisher? I'd like to see if it matches
the information they gave me. 

| Well break out your fine-toothed comb and magnifying glass, for they said 
| that there were other errors as well.

	Who is they?

| Keep searching for those boogeymen, Glen.

	Don't need to search very hard....please answer the questions above.

	BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322? 

	Also, did you have a chance to check out the www that was posted in
note 87.485 yet? It does give which associations Cameron was thrown out of.


Glen
323.1352CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 16:138
    	We've been through it all already Meg.  There are over 1000 notes
    	in this topic, and just as many elsewhere.  I have enough
    	participation in those thousands of notes for you to already know
    	the answers to your questions.
    
    	You pick loaded examples, and expect me to answer those, but you
    	fully know where I have placed my efforts in these discussions.
    	You conveniently ignore them.
323.1353BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 16:168

	Meg, methinks Joe only means to talk about the sex part of it all. If
he talks about the others, they sound too much like things heterosexuals do, so
it wouldn't help him prove that the behaviours are supposed to be bad.


Glen
323.1356NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 22 1995 16:231
DougO -- Do you support parental censorship of anti-homosexual material?
323.1355teaching self worth is not 'recruiting'SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 22 1995 16:2414
    I suppose John Covert would say that if adults are bringing up kids to
    have such disregard for gay people that the kids kill themselves when
    they discover that they themselves are gay and in their parent's view
    thereby "worthless", "depraved" or "unchristian", John would say that
    it is those parents' right to bring those kids up that way.  He defends
    the ability of parents to prevent such kids from finding materials
    published by gays targetted at helping such teens find a sense of self
    worth, after all.
    
    What does it say about Mr Covert that he supports the parental
    censorship of gay-teen-suicide-prevention materials?  It says 
    Enough.  That "shielding-from-sex-talk" smokescreen is nonsense.
    
    DougO
323.1357As usual, DougO has no answers, claims none...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseWed Nov 22 1995 16:2817
    
      But, DougO, that makes no sense.  SOMEBODY has to select what kids
     can see, even if it's the kids themselves.
    
      Do you think the kids should see anything they like ?
    
      Do you think the government should direct what they see ?
    
      If so, can a change in government change what they see ?
    
      Or is it your old shopworn "committee of objective experts",
     who the rest of us are convinced don't exist.
    
      Nope, the parents are surely the least of evils.  And at least
     they are actually around.
    
      bb
323.1358CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 16:2933
                  <<< Note 323.1351 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

    	First you say:
    
>	I'd like to see if it matches the information they gave me. 

	Then you ask me:
    
>	Who is they?
    
    	They is they.  I'm confused by you.

>	Don't need to search very hard....please answer the questions above.
>
>	BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322? 
    
    	Yup.  You ask far too many questions for someone to address them
    	all.
    
    	And I've already made it clear that I'm not interested in debating
    	the sources.  Throw your rocks and get it over with.  I'm only
    	interested in my original point back in .857.

>	Also, did you have a chance to check out the www that was posted in
>note 87.485 yet? It does give which associations Cameron was thrown out of.

	I don't www.  And you've already thrown your rocks at Cameron
    	so why beat the dead horse?  I've answered your questions 
    	about sources, and that's the end of it.  You've thrown your
    	rocks, and that should be the end of it too.
    
    	Now that it's done, you can get back to addressing .1080 as you
    	said you would once this latest question was cleared up.
323.1359SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 22 1995 16:2910
    anti-homosexual material?  you mean, parents censoring the CFV's web
    site, or something like that?  A bit counter-productive, wouldn't you
    say- how can you teach your children about how some people in the world
    are filled with hatred and publish lies, without such examples?  You
    have to explain how the culture of tolerance works by demonstrating
    tolerance for some pretty rank stuff some times.  I myself wouldn't see
    any point to such an act, "censoring anti-homosexual materials," by a 
    parent.  Who would?
    
    DougO
323.1360MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustWed Nov 22 1995 16:3411
    RE: .1359
    
    Doug,
    
    The only reason would be the one I pointed out back in .1310.
    In the CFV repoort in question, there is sexually explicit
    language. I destroyed the report when I was done with it; I
    did not want my children to stumble onto it, even if the intent
    of the report was to deprecate homosexual practices.
    
    -b
323.1361CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 16:4117
    I try to shelter preteens from graphic sexual terms and actions,
    particularly those that paint sex of any kind in a negative light, they
    don't need to grow up as twisted as far too many people who only focus
    on acts, not the people involved.  (this necessarily includes rape,
    violent acts, etc.)  
    
    They do have to be told that there are people who will not tolerate
    other people because the intolerant need something to look down on, be
    it melinin content, eye color, hair texture or length, and/or religious
    preference, etc.. to make themselves feel better about whatever thing they
    have lacking in their lives.  I hope that understanding this piece of
    intolerance, AKA the "bully factor" in humans, AKA pecking order in
    chickens, will give them more understanding, and tolerance of the
    intolerant, but not their behaviors.
    
    
    meg
323.1362We all see the demons we want to see.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 16:448
          <<< Note 323.1361 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>

>    They do have to be told that there are people who will not tolerate
>    other people because the intolerant need something to look down on,
    
    	Gee.  DOesn't sound like you're very tolerant of those you
    	attack in .1361...  But you probably feel better after writing
    	that reply!
323.1363SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 22 1995 16:4442
    > But, DougO, that makes no sense.
    
    You think that 'protecting from sex talk' made sense?  Have you been
    out there and LOOKED AT THESE WEB SITES?  There's a lot more than sex
    talk.
    
    > SOMEBODY has to select what kids can see, even if it's the kids 
    > themselves.  Do you think the kids should see anything they like ?
    
    Bingo.  They have to grow up and live in this world.  
    
    Well, ok.  Maybe a little extreme.  Each kid matures at a different
    rate - indeed, soapbox alone tells you that many never do.  But
    eventually society cuts 'em loose and holds 'em responsible for their
    actions.  With a car, usually licenses are available at 16.  With a gun
    and a soldier suit, age 17.  With sex, statutory rape isn't charged if
    partners are of similar ages, down to 13 or 14.  With information
    access - lets see, when do *you* think full privileges are warranted?
    And if you wouldn't allow for access during teen years, you're for
    censoring suicide prevention materials, too, is the way I see it.
    
    Preparing a kid to deal with the world is the biggest responsibility a
    parent has.  I don't think parents have the right to bring up their
    kids without proper schooling.  Information access has to be part of
    that.  Sex talk?  Spare me the testrionics.
    
    >      Do you think the government should direct what they see ?
    >
    >      If so, can a change in government change what they see ?
    >
    >      Or is it your old shopworn "committee of objective experts",
    >      who the rest of us are convinced don't exist.
      
    It should be obvious that I agree with none of this.
    
    >      Nope, the parents are surely the least of evils.  And at least
    >      they are actually around.    
    
    They certainly play a big role in my scheme.  But not the sole role.
    Proper schooling is a requirement, not an option.
    
    DougO
323.1364CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 16:469
    Joe,
    
    the only thing I can think of intolerant people is they are missing
    bits, particularly in the heart area.  Feeling sorry for these people
    is not teraching my children to hate them.
    
    Oh, but I foreget you are so much more logical abnd unemotional than I,
    
    meg
323.1365SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 22 1995 16:475
    Joe's .1362 is a classic, equating Meg's words of disdain for the
    haters with the savage acts of hatred directed at gays.  No need to
    wonder what color the sky is in Joe's world.
    
    DougO
323.1366BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 16:4960
| <<< Note 323.1358 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| First you say:

| >	I'd like to see if it matches the information they gave me.

	The they here is the CFV.

| Then you ask me:

| >	Who is they?

	I want the publishers name. 

| >	BTW, was there a reason you didn't address .1322?

| Yup.  You ask far too many questions for someone to address them all.

	Joe, .1322 deals with the deceptive practices the CFV used when posting
their information. So I can see why you would not want to address it. 

| And I've already made it clear that I'm not interested in debating the 
| sources.  

	We're debating the tactics the source used. It wouldn't matter who the
source was, when they use the tactics they did, then the tactics is what is
being addressed.

| I'm only interested in my original point back in .857.

	You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point. The
article you gave us does not prove anything except that the tactics that were
used in making this article were deceptive.

| I don't www. And you've already thrown your rocks at Cameron so why beat the 
| dead horse?  

	You stated earlier that there was no information about Cameron being
tossed by the different psyciatric associations. You said that there was no
information that showed Cameron's method of gathering information was faulty.
This pointer proves there is something out there that proves just that. 

| I've answered your questions about sources, 

	No, Joe, you have not answered them all. The publisher....lets have the
name... if it doesn't match the information I got from them, then it would show
that you lied. If it does match the information that they gave me, then it
would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar. Key information is
still missing.

| Now that it's done, you can get back to addressing .1080 as you said you would
| once this latest question was cleared up.

	It ISN'T cleared up. You have given us a reason, and now you need to
prove it. Giving the publishers name, and HOW you were able to obtain the
information would clear this up. Until then you have cleared nothing. All you
have done was "say".....


Glen
323.1367minor etymological ratholeCTHU26::S_BURRIDGEA spark disturbs our clodWed Nov 22 1995 16:515
    .1363 
    
    "histrionics" doesn't come from the same root as "hysteria," btw.
    
    -Stephen
323.1368SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoWed Nov 22 1995 17:043
    testrionics - you got it - so will those it was intended for.
    
    DougO
323.1369CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 17:1841
                  <<< Note 323.1366 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	The they here is the CFV.
    
    	Then THEY are the same people I spoke with.
    
    	Tell me.  How did you get the mailing list copy so quickly?
    	I'd like to see a copy if you don't mind.  FAX is 719-577-8054.

>	We're debating the tactics the source used. 
    
    	No, YOU are debating it.  Maybe you have someone else debating
    	the counter-point with you, but I haven't seen such entries.
    
>	You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point. 
    
    	The facts stand as-is.  Your choice is to throw rocks at Cameron
    	instead of disprove his statements.  That's your choice, and you
    	are entitled to it.  The red cross also takes a certain stand that 
    	you have shrugged off.  My position as posted in .857 stands.  And 
    	you promised us that you would address .1080 but have not.
    
>	You stated earlier that there was no information about Cameron being
>tossed by the different psyciatric associations. You said that there was no
>information that showed Cameron's method of gathering information was faulty.
    
    	I don't recall that.

>| I've answered your questions about sources, 
>
>	No, Joe, you have not answered them all. 
    
    	Like I said, I don't answer all your questions.  You don't
    	like it?  Well, tough.
    
> would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar. 
    
    	I've already shown that you were dead wrong in your allegations
    	that I was making up the numbers.  I have not asked for an apology
    	for that, and do not do so now.  Instead you choose to move to
    	a different rathole.  
323.1370CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 17:229
      <<< Note 323.1368 by SX4GTO::OLSON "Doug Olson, ISVETS Palo Alto" >>>

>    testrionics - 
    
    	Ah, yes.  To counter the claim that some are immature and sexist
    	for using a word that can be construed as sexist, you make up
    	a word that has only one purpose -- reverse sexism.
    
    	"I can be unmistakably sexist!  That ought to teach you a lesson!"
323.1371CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 17:286
    Well Joe,
    
    He can't very well say a manly man like use has a uterus, now can he?  
    
    Unless you scar makes you look like the mattel Ken doll, I would
    imagine you do have testes, right?
323.1372Fabricated offense is beyond my control.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 17:332
    	Meg, the only sexism in this issue over the word hysterics 
    	is the demand for a solo definition of the word.
323.1373BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 18:0185
| <<< Note 323.1369 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	The they here is the CFV.

| Then THEY are the same people I spoke with.

	Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
operation did you get your copy? 

| Tell me.  How did you get the mailing list copy so quickly?

	Easy...they faxed it to me. They have every newsletter on hand. The
VERY first one that comes off of the line is given to them for their files. 

| I'd like to see a copy if you don't mind.  FAX is 719-577-8054.

	That will have to wait until after work. We aren't allowed to send
faxes out of Hudson unless they are work related. So going to the mailroom to
fax it would be useless. (but I will try) I'll pay for it out of my own pocket
if I have to use an outside source. It is funny that the only thing missing is
the footnote.

	Oh....one other thing I forgot.....they have scatology listed as
handling feces, while the dictionary lists it as an interest in obsenity, esp
in literature. Funny how that one worked out, too.

| >	We're debating the tactics the source used.

| No, YOU are debating it.  

	I believe that Brian called them on the tactics used. But I see you
have not done anything about addressing it.	

| >	You gave us so called facts that were supposed to prove your point.

| The facts stand as-is.  

	That's just it...there are no facts. You bring up throwing rocks at
Cameron, when .1322 is ONLY about the Hart book. You seem to refuse to address
the tactics they used. Why?

| Your choice is to throw rocks at Cameron instead of disprove his statements.  

	Throw rocks at Cameron? You mean when there is something that shows
which associations he was thrown out of for his methods, that becomes me
throwing rocks at him? When there is something that shows he misquoted other
studies (from the mouths of the people who did the studies) to prove his point,
that becomes me throwing rocks at him? Do you really think that just because
Cameron is mentioned, that it automatically equates to rocks being thrown at
him? Be real. His methods is what got him screwed, not his name.

| The red cross also takes a certain stand that you have shrugged off.  

	Actually, it was addressed. Go back and read. 

| My position as posted in .857 stands.  

	Oh...it stands, but you have nothing to back it.

| > would show that I was dead wrong in calling you a liar.

| I've already shown that you were dead wrong in your allegations that I was 
| making up the numbers.  

	Joe, why is it that I used the word liar, and you used the words,
"making up the numbers"? The liar part goes far deeper than that, Joe. But then
if you said liar, you just might not be able to say that honestly....To be 
honest, I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point. When 
I was checking the footnotes when writing my reply on Monday (which I held until
today), I discovered the huge gap. And the CFV faxed me a copy 5 minutes after 
I called. They themselves said that no one should be receiving a copy of the 
newsletter until it is completed. So I would like to know, at what part of the
operation did you receive this copy?

| I have not asked for an apology for that, and do not do so now.  

	I said I would furnish one if you could prove yourself not to be a
liar. You have this big publishing gap to fill in. Who is lying...the CFV, who
say no one gets a copy until it is finished, or you, who said you got a copy
before it was finished?




Glen
323.1374BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 18:0210
          <<< Note 323.1348 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Because they require "acceptance a citizens" to include 
>    	acceptance of their behaviors.

	If those behaviors are personal and private, what business is it of
	yours?

Jim

323.1375CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 18:044
    	.1374
    
    	That's my question too, Jim.  Why do I even have to know about
    	them?
323.1376BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 18:2424
          <<< Note 323.1375 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	That's my question too, Jim.  Why do I even have to know about
>    	them?


	Oh, I get it now. As long as GLBs know their place and keep to
	the back of the bus, you are just fine with them. Right?

	Maybe you would like to see seperate drinking fountains and lunch
	counters too.

	Let's review.

	Virtually all of the sexually explicit material that has been
	posted in this file has been posted by anti-gay noters. The most
	blatantly offensive material was posted by you from a supposedly
	Christian source.

	Seems that it is not the GLBs that you should be angry with. Maybe
	you should right Will a letter telling him that you are tired of
	his in your face publications.

Jim
323.1377MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 18:2536
ZZ    If those behaviors are personal and private, what business is it of
ZZ    yours?
    
    Jim,
    
    Therein lies the problem.  IT IS none of my business and I don't care
    to know about it.  
    
    The problem Jim is this.  When somebody says they are gay, to me they
    are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse.  Now
    it is no secret that humankind is in to a variety of different forms of
    sex.  Some do the oral thing, others are well versed in the Karma
    Sutra, whatever.  I have six brothers and sisters and I have absolutely
    NO idea what they are into, what positions they like the best, what 
    fetishes they have...Nothing.  I don't want to know because my business
    it is not!
    
    Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact
    revealing what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend,
    whatever.  When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade,
    they are identifying as a group that prefers a certain form of sex. 
    Penises and Vaginas were made biologically for this specific purpose
    amongst peeing and menstruating.  If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack
    and Jill are into oral sex, then more power to them but please don't
    make it my business.  I am not interested and when groups demand to
    become a class of society because of what sexual identity they have,
    then guess what Jim, they are trying to make it my business. 
    
    That's the pisser in this whole thing.  Stop making it other peoples
    business.  I keep my opinions to myself unless somebody makes a
    statement in order to look for approval, i.e. Jack, I'm gay.  There is
    no rule or protocol that says I have to answer, "Ohhh...that's nice",
    or "Well, whatever works for you!".  You're looking for this utopia
    where we all conform and think alike Jim.  That isn't the real world.
    
    -Jack 
323.1378CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 18:2543
                  <<< Note 323.1373 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
>operation did you get your copy? 
    
    	Last June.

>	Oh....one other thing I forgot.....they have scatology listed as
>handling feces, while the dictionary lists it as an interest in obsenity, esp
>in literature. Funny how that one worked out, too.
    
    	More nits.  My dictionary has that as defn #3.  Numbers 1 and 2
    	are as follows:
    
    	1:  The study of fecal excrement, as in medicine or paleontology.
    	2:  a) An obsession with excrement or excretory functions.
    	    b) The psychiatric study of such an obsession.
    
    	Funny how that one works out.

>	I believe that Brian called them on the tactics used. But I see you
> have not done anything about addressing it.	
    
    	Precisely.  Maybe you're starting to understand what I've been
    	saying all along.

>that becomes me throwing rocks at him? Do you really think that just because
>Cameron is mentioned, that it automatically equates to rocks being thrown at
>him? Be real. His methods is what got him screwed, not his name.
    
    	No, I think that just because Cameron is mentioned, anything
    	associated with it is summarily dismissed.  You're entitled
    	to do that.  Perhaps you can provide is different/better 
    	statistics regarding sexual practices of gays?  I'd be willing
    	to accept them.

>Who is lying...the CFV, who
>say no one gets a copy until it is finished, or you, who said you got a copy
>before it was finished?
    
    	I'm sure they are talking about their mailing list.  I didn't
    	get it (or other issues that I have) through the mailing list.
    	I've had December's issue for nearly a month.
323.1379Or GAK! Or Euuuuuww! Or whatever.COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 22 1995 18:251
Gag.
323.1380CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 18:2614
                  <<< Note 323.1373 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point. 

    	Woah.  Now this is getting low, Glen.

    	First of all, my point was that I didn't make up the numbers
    	as you claimed I did.  It really doesn't matter what source
    	they came from, so why should I go through all that trouble
    	as you allege?

    	I showed you what I have.  You can make up charges all you
    	want.  Your purpose is clear.  You want to villify me, and 
    	now you even admit that you'll concoct accusations to do that.
323.1381MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 18:2910
ZZ    Oh, I get it now. As long as GLBs know their place and keep to
ZZ    the back of the bus, you are just fine with them. Right?
    
    Herein lies the pisser.  Jim, nobody would know for sure whether or not
    I was straight had I not mentioned my wife's name a few times.  It
    isn't something I have to wave a flag over.  Your statement above puts
    a victim slant on it and the credibility factor once again goes out the
    perverbial poop chute!
    
    -Jack
323.1382TROOA::COLLINSJust say `Oh, all right'.Wed Nov 22 1995 18:335
    
    .1381
    
    Why mention your wife?  I don't want to hear about your sexuality!
    
323.1383CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 18:3412
    You have something against wedding rings, pictures of loved ones and
    pregnancy?
    
    All of these are examples of active sexual behaviors, particularly the
    pregnancy one.  Want pregnant wome kept from public site, so you don't
    have to know the most likely did a horizonatl bot at some time in the
    recent past?
    
    I doubt you would find out from any person what their sexual practices
    are beyond that unless you asked, or did research, which is equivelant
    to asking.
    meg
323.1384NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 22 1995 18:375
>                    Want pregnant wome kept from public site, so you don't
>    have to know the most likely did a horizonatl bot at some time in the
>    recent past?			==============

Leave Aztec gods out of it.
323.1385BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 18:3848
      <<< Note 323.1377 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    The problem Jim is this.  When somebody says they are gay, to me they
>    are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse.  Now
>    it is no secret that humankind is in to a variety of different forms of
>    sex.  Some do the oral thing, others are well versed in the Karma
>    Sutra, whatever.  I have six brothers and sisters and I have absolutely
>    NO idea what they are into, what positions they like the best, what 
>    fetishes they have...Nothing.  I don't want to know because my business
>    it is not!
 
	All they have told you is that they prefer sex with a partner of
	the same gender. Unless they give you details regarding the actual
	sexual practices, all else is assumption on your part. 

>    Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact
>    revealing what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend,
>    whatever.

	How so? I am heterosexual. This gives you no information other than
	the fact that I have sex with the opposite gender. Again anything
	related to actual practices is an assumption that you have to make.

>  When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade,
>    they are identifying as a group that prefers a certain form of sex. 

	Assumption. You really have absolutely no idea what actual 
	practices they may choose. 

>If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack
>    and Jill are into oral sex, then more power to them but please don't
>    make it my business.

	It isn't. Only your seemingly obsessive fascination with their
	practices appears to be the problem.

>I keep my opinions to myself unless somebody makes a
>    statement in order to look for approval, i.e. Jack, I'm gay.  There is
>    no rule or protocol that says I have to answer, "Ohhh...that's nice",
>    or "Well, whatever works for you!".  You're looking for this utopia
>    where we all conform and think alike Jim.  That isn't the real world.
 
	I am not looking for Utopia. I am looking for equal treatment 
	under the law. I am not looking for you to say "how nice". I am
	looking to ensure that a person that DOES state their orientation
	can not be denied a job, housing or the use of public accomodations.

Jim
323.1386CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 18:397
    Jack,
    
    Does that mean we have to assume you do things with her too?  Oh yeah,
    you have children, that mean you,. eeeeew! yuck you use that waste
    orifice for impregnating too.
    
    meg
323.1387BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 18:4213
      <<< Note 323.1381 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Herein lies the pisser.  Jim, nobody would know for sure whether or not
>    I was straight had I not mentioned my wife's name a few times.

	Do you wear a wedding band? Do you have pictures of your wife on
	your desk?

	What assumptions can I make about your sexual practices based 
	on the knowledge that you are heterosexual? None. I need more
	data.

Jim
323.1388TROOA::COLLINSJust say `Oh, all right'.Wed Nov 22 1995 18:445
    
    The real question is:
    
    Does he do it standalone, clustered, or client/server?
    
323.1389BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 18:4656
| <<< Note 323.1377 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| The problem Jim is this.  When somebody says they are gay, to me they
| are stating they prefer an alternative form of sexual intercouse.  

	You're right, it is a problem. To me they are stating that their
attraction is towards someone of the same sex. The same thing enters my mind
for heterosexual people (except oppisite gender). I don't default to the sex
part with any of them.

| Once somebody proclaims their sexual preference, they are in fact revealing 
| what form of sex they want from their boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever.  

	GANT Not true. With both you can have oral, but not everyone likes to
do that. With both you can have kinky, but not everyone wants to do that. So
many different things, but from proclaiming your sexual orientation, you can't
know.

| When a gay organization demands to take part in a parade, they are identifying
| as a group that prefers a certain form of sex.

	Wow.....this is way out in left field. So you mean when a heterosexual
group demands to take part in a parade, they are identifing as a group that
prefers a certain form of sex? Be real. There are many forms of Irish people.
Some from clans (new meaning for Lucky Charms perhaps?), bars, etc. If you want
to take what they are representing out of the equation, then, and only then can
your statement hold water. Who is more Irish.... the gays who marched, or the
striking union workers?

| Penises and Vaginas were made biologically for this specific purpose amongst 
| peeing and menstruating.  

	Wow.....please explain a penis and menstruating.

| If Fred is into anal sex or if Jack and Jill are into oral sex, then more 
| power to them but please don't make it my business.  

	If Fred is not into anal sex, but he told you he was gay, would you
assume he was into anal sex? You can't equate who is into what without knowing
for sure. You're religious, so I imagine not much movement is involved when you
have sex. Can I really say this? No. How the hell do I know what you do? 

| I am not interested 

	Then why do you default to sex when someone says they are gay?

| and when groups demand to become a class of society because of what sexual 
| identity they have,

	Jack, be real here. Look at .1132 and tell me that that kind of
distortion of the gay lifestyle is ok to do. Then tell me that people aren't
out to make changes due to that very same thing. 


Glen
323.1390BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 18:5234
| <<< Note 323.1378 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	Joe, clear something up, if you would. At what part of the whole
| >operation did you get your copy?

| Last June.

	Please don't play games. What part of the operation, not when, did you
get your copy. 

| More nits.  My dictionary has that as defn #3.  Numbers 1 and 2 are as follows

	What dictionary are you using? Mine only had the one.

| No, I think that just because Cameron is mentioned, anything associated with 
| it is summarily dismissed.  

	Joe, I have given a pointer that shows what Meg mentioned way back
when. You can deflect all you want to make it seem that it is being dismissed,
but the methods he used is what trashed his name, not the name itself.

| I'm sure they are talking about their mailing list.  

	No, they are not. I talked to them about how the whole letter is put
together, the different stages.

| I've had December's issue for nearly a month.

	Fax it to me so I can see if it matches the one they said they will
send me. 508-568-4681.



Glen
323.1391POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Wet RaspberriesWed Nov 22 1995 18:568
    
    When I think of "heterosexual", I think of someone who prefers members
    of the opposite sex for love purposes.  I don't think of sex.  Same
    with "homosexual".  I don't automatically think of various forms of
    copulation!
    
    Is this a guy thing?
    
323.1392BUSY::SLABOUNTYDuster :== idiot driver magnetWed Nov 22 1995 19:0010
    
    	The average man has sexual thoughts every 6 minutes or something
    	like that, and an entry about gays or AIDS or heteros is put in
    	here every 15 minutes or so.
    
    	So that means that 40% of the time, most of us are thinking a-
    	bout homo/heteros in a sexual connotation.
    
    	Isn't math fun?  8^)
    
323.1393POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerWed Nov 22 1995 19:011
    Copulation very often involves women.
323.1394BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 19:0310
| <<< Note 323.936 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| According to Jack Hart in "Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who
| Love Men", (1991, Alyson Publications) the typical homosexual 
| has between 10 and 110 different partners per year.

	The book does not say that, and there is no footnote in EITHER CFV
listing that has it pointing to this. This is a lie.

323.1395CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 19:0820
    Interesting stuff some may not know about Cameron's research.
    
    did you know:
    
    52% of male heterosexuals have shoplifted
    34% have committed a crime without being caught
    22% have been arrested for a crime
    13% have served time in prison
    12% of male het's have either murdered or attempted to murder another
    person.
    
    ?????
    
    One wonders who this man picks on for surveys and why he didn't publish
    this information widely.  Oh year, its that orientation thing.
    
    FWIW I don't believe he was correct on this part of the survey either.
    
    
    meg
323.1396MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 19:088
ZZ    If Fred is not into anal sex, but he told you he was gay, would you
ZZ    assume he was into anal sex? You can't equate who is into what without
ZZ    knowing for sure.
    
    I will concede this point.  My understanding was that if one was gay,
    then they were into anal intercourse.
    
    -Jack
323.1397BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 19:1618
| <<< Note 323.1380 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >I believe you took the footnote out so you could prove your point.

| Woah.  Now this is getting low, Glen.

	Yes, it is.

| I showed you what I have.  

	Not everything.

| Your purpose is clear. You want to villify me, and now you even admit that 
| you'll concoct accusations to do that.


	No, Joe, I want the truth. Considering I have stated that if I am
wrong, I would apologize to you, it kills your above theory.
323.1398CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 19:219
    If you got this from people using Cameron's research you should realize
    that his "survey" was done on 41 male homosexuals and 24 lesbians.  Not
    a very large sample to be sure.
    
    so if you got this information from CFV, Focus on the Family, Family
    Research Council, Antelope Valley Springs of  Life Ministries, or
    anyone who cites these groups, you are working from a flawed "study", 
    the 1983 Institute for the Scientific Investigation of Sexuality
    survey.  
323.1399BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 19:2114
| <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I will concede this point.  My understanding was that if one was gay,
| then they were into anal intercourse.

	Jack, please hand in the assuming part of your brain for destruction.
Here is yet another case where you thought something was one way, and without
ever knowing, you spout it off like it is fact. Maybe if you did not assume,
and you asked, you might actually have a better understanding of things and
wouldn't have so many hang-ups.


Glen
323.1400BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 22 1995 19:223

	snarf!!!
323.1401MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 19:231
    Glen, I sent you a fax!
323.1402BUSY::SLABOUNTYErin go braghlessWed Nov 22 1995 19:257
    
    	It'd be really funny if it said something like
    
    	"Up yours!!".
    
    	Well, I think so, anyways.
    
323.1403MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 22 1995 19:266
    Glen:
    
    I think this assumption of anal sex in the male gay community is an
    assumption made by a majority of us.  I'm not in the minority.
    
    -Jack
323.1404BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 22 1995 19:2714
      <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    I will concede this point.  My understanding was that if one was gay,
>    then they were into anal intercourse.
 
	A good sign. Ignorance can indeed be fixed. Now if we can just get
	over the hurdle of equating a particular orientation with particular
	sex acts we will have made real progress.

	Gays may do it differently than you do Jack. Or they may not. Without
	a lot of detail, that I really have no interest in, I certainly can't
	make a determination.

Jim
323.1405POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerWed Nov 22 1995 19:271
    Glen, I did not send you a fax!
323.1406MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustWed Nov 22 1995 19:295
    
    Most assuredly, Mz. Deb, it is not. For I think the same as
    you...
    
    -b
323.1407CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 22 1995 19:3412
    An interesting quote from Cameron
    
    When regarding heterosexual sodomy he said "The anus is potentially
    'sexy'...Animals don't use the anus, but many humans do"  
    
    I think I am going to have to get this book, "Sexual Gradualism" to
    find out how much is taken out of context, but this stuff looks pretty
    awful.  This is obviously not a book I can take home with kids in the
    house.  The snippets from this book in the paper from the Web site are
    not something I want one of my kids reading over my shoulder.
    
    meg
323.1408CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 19:4919
                  <<< Note 323.1390 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Please don't play games. What part of the operation, not when, did you
> get your copy. 
    
    	Personal contact within CFV.  Who knows when they took it?
    	You're destined for frustration if you want anything more than
    	that, because I don't know any more than that.

>	What dictionary are you using? Mine only had the one.
    
    	AHD.

>| I've had December's issue for nearly a month.
>
>	Fax it to me so I can see if it matches the one they said they will
>send me. 508-568-4681.
    
    	Done.
323.1409CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 20:1114
                  <<< Note 323.1397 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| Woah.  Now this is getting low, Glen.
>
>	Yes, it is.
    
    	Says it all, dontcha think?

>	No, Joe, I want the truth. Considering I have stated that if I am
> wrong, I would apologize to you, it kills your above theory.
    
    	I've already answered your accusations (.1159, .1166, .1168.)  
    	Now you make new ones that are even more extreme than the first.
    	Your motives are clear.
323.1410Yes, it's been a slow day here. 8^)ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 22 1995 20:13127
    It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
    much folks want to crow about this red herring.  Fact is, if you are
    not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW.  No problem with employment,
    housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private
    owners renting property), etc.   
    
    Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more 
    than others.  If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
    badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is 
    to be quiet about it.  Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow
    about their deviant lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it,
    but be forced to change its standards.
    
    All I have to say is "life ain't fair", and no amount of legislation
    will make it so.
    
    To try and show where I'm coming from, let's look at the situation from
    a different angle in the following make-believe parallel:
    
    Let's say that I have fallen in love with a very mature and intelligent
    13-year old, and she has fallen in love with me.  We want to get
    married.  
    
    "Too bad, 13-year olds can't get married."  Says society.  
    
    "Unfair!" I yell, "we have every right to be married, both she and I know 
    what we are doing!  We both love each other."
    
    Society disagrees.
    
    We walk out of the justice of the peace's office arm in arm anyway, and
    I notice that folks are giving me dirty looks.  
    
    "What's your problem?"  I ask.  
    
    Their only response is  "pervert!".  
    
    "Unfair!" I yell.  "I am not a pervert, I really love this girl."  
    
    "It matter not that you are in love," says society, "but that she is 13 
    years old and you are 29."  
    
    I am considered by society (well, most of society) to be 
    a pervert/child molester/cradle robber/pedophile/etc. 
    
    "Unfair!" I yell.  "I'm none of these things!  I demand to be
    respected."   
    
    Society replies, "Sorry, but we do not respect this kind
    of union.  It goes against long-held standards."
    
    "Well, you need to CHANGE those long-held standards, then, because they
    are inherantly UNFAIR!  It lacks respect for me and those like me.  I
    can't help that I am attacted to younger girls!"
    
    Society responds, "It is not you we do not respect, but your form of
    relations.  We will not change our standards for a difference in who
    you are attracted to sexually.  We can try to treat you, though, and
    those like you."
    
    "There's nothing wrong with me", I say, "I was just born this way! 
    I'm just different, get used to it."
    
      **                       **                    **
    
    "Unfair!" I whine again, as my boss fires me from my job.  He, too
    thinks I am a pervert, and he does not want any of my ilk working for
    him.  "Maybe I should not have come out and said that she is my
    girlfriend, rather than my daughter that he thought she was", I think
    to myself.  No, it is HE who has the problem.  He simply is not valuing
    my difference.  I have every right to keep that picture of her on my
    desk, and I have every right to tell folks who she is!
    
                              *************
    
    "Unfair!" I yell, as I'm carted off to jail for statutory rape.  "I
    didn't rape her, she is my girlfriend!"  
    
    "Too bad", says the law.  "Having sex with a minor is illegal in this
    state.  We must uphold the standars of the community that is put in the
    law."  
    
    
    Since I KNOW that nothing is wrong with me (I am only different,
    probably something genetic, which makes it okay), so it is just that
    society is bigoted and meanspirited- probably due to ignorance of myself
    and those like me, and my lifestyle.  
    
    How dare people call me all manner of nasty names!  How dare they tell me 
    I can't have sex with my willing girlfriend!  How dare anyone tell me that 
    I am immoral!  UNFAIR! UNFAIR!
    
    Eventually, I will change the laws, as the leader of a very vocal group 
    (who share this same trait of attraction to young girls).  We will 
    pressure the state to lower the age of consent to 12, on grounds of 
    discrimination.  After all, we all have a right to choose our sexual 
    partners/spouses, it is unfair to limit these choices, as long as it is 
    a consentual choice on both sides.  
    
    
    End of parallel.
    
    
    So, who is being unfair?  Is society being unfair by not being
    accomodating to what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?  Should I
    be able to force my perversion as acceptable by law, or is that unfair?
    
    I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at
    all.  It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their
    sexual attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
    behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
    
    There is a more subtle aspect of this that simply crowing equal rights. 
    It is far more than equal right.  It is about defining sexual
    orientatin as a "race".  It is about forced changes in long-held
    community standards.  It is about state-sanctioned acceptance of a
    lifestyle.
    
    I also realize that there are wrongs done to gay men and women that
    should not happen.  They should not be fired from a job simply because
    they are gay, nor should gay people be denied housing, etc.  
    
    I'm not sure what the answer is.  I do know that forcing change in the
    definition of family/marriage is not the way. 
                                    
    
    -steve 
323.1411BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 22 1995 20:4449
    RE: .1410  Steve Leech

    / It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
    / much folks want to crow about this red herring.  Fact is, if you are
    / not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW. 

    Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about 
    our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children 
    on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
    It's only about SEX if/when people make it apparent that they are not
    heterosexual.

    / Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more 
    / than others.  If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
    / badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is 
    / to be quiet about it. 

    Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
    we have children.  Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
    they love someone who happens to be the same sex?

    / Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant 
    / lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it, but be forced to 
    / change its standards.

    Some folk don't want to be forced to sit in the back of the bus, that's all.

    / Let's say that I have fallen in love with a very mature and intelligent
    / 13-year old, and she has fallen in love with me.  We want to get
    / married.  
    
    / "Too bad, 13-year olds can't get married."  Says society.  

    Actually, 13-year-olds can get married if the 13-year-old's parents
    give their consent.  Loretta Lynn was 13 when she got married.  When
    I was a kid, a married 13 year old made it into the papers for being
    the youngest woman to give birth at a particular hospital near where
    I lived.  Her husband was 39 years old.

    13 year olds can't legally consent to sex with an adult, but if the 
    parents give consent, they can get married (and then have sex legally.)  

    One of the main arguments from the gay rights movement is that they
    don't condemn any kind of sex between consenting adults (unless the
    sex harms one or both of the individuals in some way.)

    Your bringing up the case of having sex with someone who can't legally
    consent to sex outside of marriage is not a parallel.  It's only a
    parallel you wish to CREATE for lack of a reasonable argument.
323.1412BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 22 1995 21:005
    P.S.  The ages where people can legally marry with or without parental
    consent does vary state to state.
    
    The 'age of consent' varies from state to state, too.  In Colorado,
    the age of consent is either 15 or 16.
323.1413CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 22 1995 21:0529
         <<< Note 323.1411 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>

>    Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about 
>    our orientation 
    
    	Of course!  And, in fact, society even encourages it.  Heterosexual
    	marriage is a pillar of society.  When working properly it provides
    	family stability, societal propagation, personal satisfaction,
    	well-socialized children -- all sorts of practical social benefits.
    	Oh, sure, we can all point to examples where this fails (though it
    	is important to point out that I did say "when working properly"), 
    	and we can all point to examples where other family arrangements 
    	provide some or all of these social benefits.  But by and large
    	it is clear that the social benefits are more likely to come out
    	of the standard, traditional marriage arrangement.
    
    	To be frank, Suzanne, I don't see enough "extremely" overt
    	expression of solid marriages in this society, and that is one
    	reason why so many people think less-positively about traditional
    	marriage.
    	
>    Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
>    we have children.  Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
>    they love someone who happens to be the same sex?
    
    	Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
    	morally repugnant.  (Assuming a certain meaning for the word
    	love -- a meaning that in the heterosexual marriage often
    	results in the children you hold up as an example.)
323.1414BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 23 1995 00:0160
    RE: .1413  Joe Oppelt

    // Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about 
    // our orientation 
    
    / Of course!  And, in fact, society even encourages it.  

    Er, that was my point.  Revealing ones sexual orientation is not
    something that only some gay people do.

    / Heterosexual marriage is a pillar of society.  

    Honesty, justice and productivity [among other positive attributes]
    are pillars of our society, too.  A person doesn't have to be married 
    OR have children to be a vital part of our society's strength.  And
    I say this as a wife and a mother, myself.

    / When working properly it provides family stability, societal 
    / propagation, personal satisfaction, well-socialized children -- 
    / all sorts of practical social benefits.

    When it works improperly, it has people running all over the place
    trying to vilify some who do not fit the 'heterosexual marriage'
    mold.  

    / But by and large it is clear that the social benefits are more likely 
    / to come out of the standard, traditional marriage arrangement.

    Not when those involved in this arrangement are busy in campaigns
    against other 'arrangements'.

    / To be frank, Suzanne, I don't see enough "extremely" overt
    / expression of solid marriages in this society, and that is one
    / reason why so many people think less-positively about traditional
    / marriage.

    Well, if you think that people's views of traditional marriage
    could be improved by the right 'overt expressions', then you
    won't mind it if people use 'overt expressions' to improve views 
    of other aspects of life in our society.

    // Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
    // we have children.  Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
    // they love someone who happens to be the same sex?

    / Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
    / morally repugnant.  

    As you said earlier, this same society doesn't think much of 
    traditional marriage, either.

    / (Assuming a certain meaning for the word love -- a meaning that in the 
    / heterosexual marriage often results in the children you hold up as an 
    / example.)
                          
    No, I'm talking about LOVE.  

    When people love each other, their love exists whether or not they
    are capable of creating babies together and whether or not they are
    allowed by law to marry each other.
323.1415(No, this is not an MCI commercial. :>)BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 23 1995 00:315
    Happy Thanksgiving, Joe.  Enjoy your family for the next several
    days (as others all across America enjoy their friends and their
    families.)

    Peace.
323.1416BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 23 1995 11:5660
            <<< Note 323.1410 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how
>    much folks want to crow about this red herring.  
 
Steve, 	It IS about equal protection, plain and simple.
	
>Fact is, if you are
>    not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW.  No problem with employment,
>    housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private
>    owners renting property), etc.   	

	Not overt? Overt like holding hands in public? Maybe having pictures
	of the SO on your desk? Other innocent displays of affection? 

	I do all of these. Am I being "overt" about my heterosexuality?

	How about two guys (or gals) trying to rent a one bedroom apartment?

>    Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more 
>    than others.  If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think
>    badly of us due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is 
>    to be quiet about it.  Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow
>    about their deviant lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it,
>    but be forced to change its standards.
 
	Lifestyles that cause harm no harm, or if you prefer, no harm to
	others besides those consensually involved, should carry no price tag.
 	That's the whole point of our disagreement. You want to justify your 
	bigotry, I will continue to call you on it.

>    To try and show where I'm coming from, let's look at the situation from
>    a different angle in the following make-believe parallel:
 
	Your pedophilic fantasy is the real red herring.

>    I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at
>    all.  It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their
>    sexual attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
>    behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
 
	And I think that you are very wrong. The Constitution does not simply
	protect those we agree with, or those we approve of. If it did, it
	wouldn't be worth the paper it is printed on. It protects everyone,
	or at least it should. Those who cause no harm to others should be
	fully protected. That's what equal treatment means. You version
	is a sad and ugly perversion of the concept.

>    I also realize that there are wrongs done to gay men and women that
>    should not happen.  They should not be fired from a job simply because
>    they are gay, nor should gay people be denied housing, etc.  
    
>    I'm not sure what the answer is.  I do know that forcing change in the
>    definition of family/marriage is not the way. 
 
	More progress, almost. The answer is fairly simple. Add "Sexual 
	Orientation" to the list of characteristics protected in the
	the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).

Jim
323.1417BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 23 1995 12:0420
          <<< Note 323.1413 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
>    	morally repugnant.  (Assuming a certain meaning for the word
>    	love -- a meaning that in the heterosexual marriage often
>    	results in the children you hold up as an example.)

	And so you justify your bigotry using the cloak of the majority.
	Amazing how the same arguments were used to justify the Jim Crow
	laws of a bygone age and the laws that prohibited inter-racial
	marriages.

	Even more amazing that you can not see that the only difference
	between your assertions and the nightriders with their ropes and
	torches is the object of your bigotry.

Jim



323.1418BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 23 1995 23:1913
| <<< Note 323.1403 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I think this assumption of anal sex in the male gay community is an
| assumption made by a majority of us.  I'm not in the minority.

	Jack, the assumptionS I am seeing from you is that because someone tells
you they are gay, you assume to know what kind of sex they have. Because
someone tells you their gay, you assume a thought of sex, PERIOD. If you did
away with the latter, the former wouldn't happen.


Glen
323.1419BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 23 1995 23:2420
| <<< Note 323.1408 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| Personal contact within CFV.  

	Which person? (no need for name, just title. I want to see if it
matches the info I got)

| You're destined for frustration if you want anything more than that, because 
| I don't know any more than that.

	Once the position is given, I will know if it matches what the CFV told
me, and everything will be crystal clear.

	Will you be addressing the distortions of the Hart book? I mean, one
would think you would either distance yourself from the source, or try to clear 
up their intentions. 



Glen
323.1420BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 24 1995 00:3696
| <<< Note 323.1410 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how much folks
| want to crow about this red herring.  

	Wow...... this is pretty funny.

| Fact is, if you are not overt about it, NO ONE WILL KNOW.  

	Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
the other person is? What if I have a picture of him on my desk? Or people are
talking about what they did over the weekend and I say that John and I went to
the movies on Friday, the beach on Saturday, dancing on Sunday, you really
don't think people are going to know? 

	How it appears to me, and please correct me if I am wrong, is that you
would rather just not have anyone find out, and that we should just talk our
way around things. Using genderless terms usually doesn't last long. Using the
word, friend, usually doesn't last long. If this is not what you mean, please
tell me just what it is you really do mean.

| No problem with employment,

	Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.

| housing (which I doubt is really an issue, other than with private owners 
| renting property), etc.

	Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
pour gasoline on your house? And if one of them didn't smell it, someone could
have torched their house? I know people this happened to, so please, don't tell
me it is only tied to rental property. It goes a hell of a lot deeper than
that.

| Our lifestyles all carry a price tag, it's just that some cost us more than 
| others. If we know that many oppose our lifestyle and might think badly of us 
| due to this, then it seems that prudent course of action is to be quiet about 
| it.  

	Gee, Steve...if this were to happen, I'm sure shock therapy would still
be around. Having people think badly about a lifestyle is one thing. Having one
think badly for reasons due to fears, ignorance, "this is the way it always
was", is another. Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic. Oh.... but
if everyone stays quiet, then I guess that's out. Cuz we could never clear up
any misconceptions. 

| Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant lifesyle 

	Ahhhh..... now we're getting to the crux of it all. Yes, homosexuality
does deviate from the majority of people, who are heterosexual. To put a label
on it like it's bad, then I guess you probably put a lot of labels on things
for being bad, that really aren't. Just a guess.

| and expect society to not only accept it, 

	Steve, let's go back 50 years. Do you think gays should have been
treated the way they were? Getting people to realize the person, you know,
someone who is being truthful, not hiding, has done a lot to change the
perceptions towards gays. But none of that would have happened under your plan.

| but be forced to change its standards.

	Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.
Look at the stuff from the Hart book that Joe hasn't responded to yet? Go read
that Cameron report. Hell, Joe bitches and moans about a sample size I use, and
yet he spouts off these numbers like their golden, and they were from a total
of 41 homosexual men. I know a hell of a lot more gay people than that! But my
sample size is bad.

| All I have to say is "life ain't fair", and no amount of legislation will 
| make it so.

	On this we agree.

| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to 
| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?  

	Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
adults and adults. 

| I think the crux of the homosexual rights issue is not equal rights at all.  

	Then I guess you haven't been paying attention.

| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual 
| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.

	Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all. You're kind of like OJ
Martin here. Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different 
light.



Glen
323.1421GeeshCSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Fri Nov 24 1995 02:244


 Give it a rest for cryin' out loud...it's Thanksgiving!
323.1422LJSRV2::KALIKOWHi-ho! Yow! I'm surfing Arpanet!Fri Nov 24 1995 14:496
    Yeh, have you no decency Glen...  Defending yer rights to exist as a
    hyoomin bean when you should be violating the bodily integrity of a
    turkey.  Instead you insist on exposing the mental flaws of a turkey.
    
    Geesh.
    
323.1423BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Nov 24 1995 16:244

	Dan...I know... instead of eating a bird that was killed, I was writing
notes......:-)
323.1424CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 24 1995 20:3211
   <<< Note 323.1417 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    	Because that arrangement is still held by much of society as
>>    	morally repugnant.  
>
>	And so you justify your bigotry using the cloak of the majority.
    
    	Being morally offended is not bigotry.
    
    	Society is entitled to define itself.  That definition will
    	either come from a vocal minority or a silent majority.
323.1425CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 24 1995 20:4817
      <<< Note 323.1396 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    I will concede this point.  My understanding was that if one was gay,
>    then they were into anal intercourse.
    
    	You do not have to concede this, Jack.  Glen has already
    	provided us in .997 with numbers that show 75% of gay men
    	have anal sex, and he says he does not dispute that over
    	90% particiapte in annilingus.  True, it is not 100%, but
    	we can rarely say 100% about anything.  Were you a betting
    	man, the odds would heavily favor your assumptions.  What
    	the gay agenda wants to do is backpedal from criticism of
    	common practices and hide behind the exception to deflect
    	the rule when faced with social outcry about practices that 
    	are still generally regarded as morally repugnant and are 
    	clearly some of the most physically unhealthy of sexual 
    	contacts.
323.1426CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 24 1995 21:0312
                  <<< Note 323.1419 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Which person? (no need for name, just title. I want to see if it
> matches the info I got)
    	
    	Sorry.  Horse and carriage.  
    
    	Look.  You were wrong about your assumption that I had the
    	Hart book.  And you were wrong that I made up the numbers
    	that you now know are Cameron's.  You are equally wrong 
    	about your latest quest, and I am formally severing my
    	participation in any further discussion of it.
323.1427CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Fri Nov 24 1995 21:3787
                  <<< Note 323.1420 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
>the other person is? 
    
    	Probably not.  I doubt that many married people are asked
    	about their spouses simply because they wear a ring.  I
    	can't recall ever being asked.
    
>Hell, Joe bitches and moans about a sample size I use, and
>yet he spouts off these numbers like their golden, and they were from a total
>of 41 homosexual men. I know a hell of a lot more gay people than that! But my
>sample size is bad.
    
    	I saw what you posted in another conference.  I assume it is
    	from the WWW page you previously referenced.
    
    	I noticed that little, if any, of what was in that report was
    	supported by documentation.  It asserts that Cameron used a
    	small sample size (and if true I agree with their condemnation
    	of Cameron) but you are willing to take it as gospel without
    	any support whatsoever.  "I read it in the paper, so it must
    	be true."  You put me through the wringer about my reporting
    	of someone else's newsletter, but you accept without question
    	someone else's counter report.  You are willing to accept the
    	say-so of some unnamed nurse (see .1159) and what she SUSPECTS
    	(your emphasis) as a satisfactory explanation of why the Red
    	Cross no longer sees the gay lifestyle as riskier.
    
    	It is clear that you see what you want to see, and expect 
    	others to see it the same way.  Way back in this discussion
    	you said that you would get the Cameron book.  Why not do so?
    	Why not see for yourself what he says his survey sample was!
    
    	But one thing I applaud you on. You ARE beginning to realize
    	that a limited sample size is not sufficient!
    
>| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to 
>| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?  
>
>	Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
> adults and adults. 
    
    	Steve was not talking about pedophilia.  Context bears that out.
    	(To wit, the phrase 'end of parallel'.)
    
    	You are introducing the oranges here.  Society still deems gay
    	sexual attraction as perverted.

>| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual 
>| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
>| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.
>
>	Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all. 
    
    	Well, I just want to record a vote of agreement whth Steve's
    	statement.
    
> Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different 
> light.

    	On this I agree.  Thus the distinction between behavior and
    	person.  But even more, my opposition is to the agenda as
    	much as to the behavior.  And I'll use you as an example.
    	About all we have (you and me) in common is our battle of
    	pushing our agendas in each others' face.  Don't fool 
    	yourself into thinking otherwise.  What is it that we ever
    	discuss with each other?  Even when we talk abortion, we
    	end up ratholing into homosexual issues.  This is really
    	all we have in common.  I'm sure that if we were to ever
    	meet in person, we would get along OK.  I'd expect nothing
    	different with you than I have with other gay friends.
    	Perhaps we should try this some day...
    
    	And I'd like to suggest that the gay agenda also loses
    	focus of the gay person too.  What about the push to 'out'
    	gays who are achievers to use them as positive examples?
    	What of all the gays who really DO want to keep their
    	orientation private and think that's the better path?
    	Look at the NEA's (Nat edu assn) adoption of gay history
    	month.  Look at the agenda's push to discover as many
    	gay historical figures as possible.  They are willing to
    	use the slimmest of evidence to declare Galileo or
    	Lincoln as gay so that they can add to their collection.
    	The orientation becomes more important than the individual's
    	accomplishment!  If that's not true, why do we need a 
    	special recognition month at all?
323.1428BIGQ::SILVADiabloSun Nov 26 1995 15:5525
| <<< Note 323.1425 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| True, it is not 100%, but we can rarely say 100% about anything. Were you a 
| betting man, the odds would heavily favor your assumptions.  

	Joe, the above is not the way one should handle things. Find out about
the individuals. Or is it ok to go with what I heard where most Christians are
evil? You can't go on stuff like that. Take each individual on their own
merits. That's the only way one can be sure.

| What the gay agenda wants to do is backpedal from criticism of common 
| practices and hide behind the exception to deflect the rule when faced with 
| social outcry about practices that are still generally regarded as morally 
| repugnant and are clearly some of the most physically unhealthy of sexual
| contacts.

	Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because.... you
stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
anyone would talk about the context of what was written. I have talked about
the context with the Hart book. Why won't you address it? You got what you
wanted, but you don't address it when you get it.


Glen
323.1429BIGQ::SILVADiabloSun Nov 26 1995 16:21102
| <<< Note 323.1427 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| I doubt that many married people are asked about their spouses simply because 
| they wear a ring.  I can't recall ever being asked.

	Well....maybe people in here who are married can address things. I know
women who look for rings, to see if someone is single or not. 

| I noticed that little, if any, of what was in that report was supported by 
| documentation.  

	Let's see..... they give the doctors name who he totally took his works
out of context, they list the associations who have kicked him out, but that is
not good enough? Go find out.

| It asserts that Cameron used a small sample size (and if true I agree with 
| their condemnation of Cameron) 

	Go read his study. Go to the people who said that these things are
true. Find out for yourself. Apparently you don't know, as you have said, "if
it were true".

| but you are willing to take it as gospel without any support whatsoever.  

	Hmmm.... if you said, "if it were true", then you apparently don't know
what he is using. So go check it out. Hell, I checked out what your report said
and saw how they took it out of context with the Hart book. Now it can be your
turn. Btw.... will you address the Hart stuff?

| you said that you would get the Cameron book.  Why not do so?

	Cuz I'm not going to waste my money on such dribble. Seeing what the
CFV did to the Hart book, I can see that it isn't worth getting the Cameron
book. And, based on that report, it is clear to see he is very questionable.

| You are introducing the oranges here.  Society still deems gay sexual 
| attraction as perverted.

	Uh huh.....

| Well, I just want to record a vote of agreement whth Steve's statement.

	Of course you do.

| About all we have (you and me) in common is our battle of pushing our agendas 
| in each others' face.  Don't fool yourself into thinking otherwise.  

	Don't need to fool myself, Joe. What you wrote above does not apply to
me. You have been very vocal about your disdain for homosexuals. You say it
only goes as far as behavior, but when you say the above, it makes me wonder.

| Even when we talk abortion, we end up ratholing into homosexual issues.  

	Huh? Want to explain this one?

| I'm sure that if we were to ever meet in person, we would get along OK.  

	Wouldn't know. I could go by what others have said about you that know
you, but I wouldn't know for "sure" unless I did meet you. But so far I have
not heard anything good. But one has to do things on an individual basis.

| Perhaps we should try this some day...

	You'd have to come out here, cuz there is no way in hell I will ever go
to Colorado.

| And I'd like to suggest that the gay agenda also loses focus of the gay 
| person too.  

	What you consider to be gay agenda, and what really is, are two
different things. Claiming me to be a gay ambassadoor helps highlight that.

| What about the push to 'out' gays who are achievers to use them as positive 
| examples?

	People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.

| What of all the gays who really DO want to keep their orientation private and 
| think that's the better path?

	That's their decision. I have always believed that. What *I* tend to do
is just talk with people, and let them decide. 

	Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be. It's hard to
say. It really depends on what fears they have. With people like you who spout
off the crap that you do, it is no wonder why some people won't come out. Real
based fears is one thing. Fears based not on reality is another. What ends up
happening a lot of times when someone who is famous comes out, is that they saw
the difference. There are some who are "outed". But that is done by straight
and gay people. That kind of outing is wrong, period.

| Look at the NEA's (Nat edu assn) adoption of gay history month.  

	What about it? Does it hurt to show that famous and important people in
this country/world are/were gay? Does that show them to be too much like
regular human beings? 



Glen
323.1430BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 09:468
          <<< Note 323.1424 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Being morally offended is not bigotry.
 
	Justifying discrimination on the basis of your moral outrage
	most certainly is bigotry.

Jim
323.1431BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 09:5417
          <<< Note 323.1427 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>> Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different 
>> light.

>    	On this I agree.  Thus the distinction between behavior and
>    	person. 

	Bull. You make no such distinction. A person announces themselves as
	Gay, you condemn. You want us to believe it is only the behavior that
	you have a problem with. If this is so, it raises a question. How
	many Gay sex acts have you actually witnessed? If the answer is "none",
	as I suspect, then you have only your own fantasies concerning the
	"behavior". You condemn the PERSON without any real idea about the
	behavior that this PERSON may, or may not, participate in.

Jim
323.1432BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 11:435
<---Jim, great note. Add in his lack of addressing the Hart book stuff, and it
    helps back what you say.


Glen
323.1433ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 13:5950
    re: .1411
    
>    Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about 
>    our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children 
>    on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
    
    So what?  This is the accepted norm.  Has been since this country was
    founded.  It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
    this nation and the human race.
    
>    Heterosexual people are not asked to hide that we are married or that
>    we have children.  
    
    Because this is the long-accepted norm for our society.
    
>    Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
>    they love someone who happens to be the same sex?

    That is their choice.  I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
    cause reactions not favorable- that is life.  Legislation is not going
    to change this.
    
    / Trouble is, some folk want to be able to crow about their deviant 
    / lifesyle and expect society to not only accept it, but be forced to 
    / change its standards.

>    Some folk don't want to be forced to sit in the back of the bus, that's 
>    all.

    Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
    cannot- either logically or legally).
    
>    Actually, 13-year-olds can get married if the 13-year-old's parents
>    give their consent.  Loretta Lynn was 13 when she got married.  When
>    I was a kid, a married 13 year old made it into the papers for being
>    the youngest woman to give birth at a particular hospital near where
>    I lived.  Her husband was 39 years old.

    I was unaware a 13-year old would be allowed to legally marry.  Of
    course, this is really not the crux of my point, in any case.  The
    point was how the couple- particularly the older 1/2 - is viewed by
    society.
    
>    Your bringing up the case of having sex with someone who can't legally
>    consent to sex outside of marriage is not a parallel.  
    
    Then you missed my point entirely. 
    
    
    -steve
323.1434TROOA::COLLINSThe manual is pure fiction.Mon Nov 27 1995 14:1126
    .1433
    
    >It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
    >this nation and the human race.

    Yes, I can see the obvious societal value in wedding rings and photos
    in the cube.
    
    >That is their choice.  I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
    >cause reactions not favorable- that is life. 

    Reactions in *who*, Steve?  Space aliens, or people like you, who
    *CHOOSE* to react unfavourably?  Don't try to distance yourself from 
    the issue.
    
    >Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
    >cannot- either logically or legally).
    
    Here we go again.  "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
    no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
    Down's or alcoholism."  However, Steve, it has been pretty much shown
    to be a genetic trait, so the "race" analogy isn't as bad as you'd like
    to make out.  Of course, the world has been shown to many times 6,000
    years old, but certain folks continue to deny reality.

323.1435BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 14:1122
            <<< Note 323.1433 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>>    Meanwhile, of course, heterosexuals can be *extremely* overt about 
>>    our orientation (with wedding rings, photographs of spouses and children 
>>    on our desks, kissing and holding hands in public) and it's not a problem.
    
>    So what?  This is the accepted norm.  Has been since this country was
>    founded.  It is promoted because it is deemed valuable to perpetuating
>    this nation and the human race.
 
Steve,	When you see a het couple walking down the street holding hands,
	do you automatically start imagining the kind of sex acts that
	they participate in?
	
	Why not?

	Why do you do this when you see a Gay couple doing exactly the same
	thing?

	Time to face your predjudice. I think.

Jim
323.1436BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 14:1512
      <<< Note 323.1434 by TROOA::COLLINS "The manual is pure fiction." >>>


>    Here we go again.  "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
>    no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
>    Down's or alcoholism."  

	It really doesn't matter. The Civil Rights Act covers lifestyle choices
	already. The argument that we should not proscribe discrimination due
	to lifestyle choices has no merit. We already offer such protections.

Jim
323.1437BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 14:2028
| <<< Note 323.1433 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| So what?  This is the accepted norm.  

	So wasn't slavery at one time. 

| Because this is the long-accepted norm for our society.

	So wasn't slavery.

| That is their choice.  

	You say this, but then you complain if someone does come out. Accepted
norms do not mean it is the final word. Will you use the accepted norms when
homosexuals are accepted by the majority? Or will you revert back to the old
days norms? 

| Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
| cannot- either logically or legally).

	It's a good analogy because the two have one thing in common. Both
were/are seen as bad by many people for all the wrong reasons. Both groups are
not the lesser human beings many people make them out to be. That is the common
link.



Glen
323.1438BUSY::SLABOUNTYCatch you later!!Mon Nov 27 1995 15:1618
    
    	RE: Jim
    
    	When I see a het couple walking down the street, and the female
    	is really attractive, sometimes I imagine the sex acts I'd like
    	to perform with her.  I could care less what they do together.
    
    	If I see a homo couple walking down the street, and both are
    	female and attractive, THEN I might start thinking about what
    	they do together.
    
    
    	But moving onto more important things, I'd like to start the
    	"Glen and Joe telephone fund".  Anyone who would like to toss
    	$1 or $2 into a fund to send to Glen and Joe is welcome to do
    	so.  Then they can call each other, for free, and keep this
    	stuff out of here to free up a slew of CPU cycles.
    
323.1439Over reached somewhat in .1431GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 27 1995 15:4127
    
    re, .1436 - um, Jim, it is very important to distinguish between
     theoretical, or philosophical points, and what is actually being
     decided in courts.  That is, between what we wish were true, or
     think ought to be true, and what the case law is.
    
      The point you are trying to make here is technically true - courts,
     particularly some federal courts, have made rulings which interpret
     some federal statuts to protect citizens from some forms of bias due
     to homosexuality.  It is important to note that this area is very
     confused, there are contrary cases as well, and as of right now, the
     federal court districts differ in their administrative application.
    
      There has never been, to my knowledge, even a limited finding by the
     scotus, applying 14th amendment protections to lifestyle biases.
     There HAVE been findings that various state constitutions cover this,
     and those rulings also differ.  Laws governing sexual practices also
     differ between the states, and there is no scotus ruling imposing any
     requirement that they be the same.
    
      While I differ with you on the proper scope of constitutional views
     on this matter, I bet I share with you dismay over the level of
     confusion in the case law covering this.  It is not now the case that
     "lifestyle" is "protected" in some general way, nor is it the case
     that it is ruled out.
    
      bb
323.1440BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 16:2236
          <<< Note 323.1439 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>                      -< Over reached somewhat in .1431 >-

	Nope, not even a little bit. (I assume you were refering to .1436).

>      The point you are trying to make here is technically true - courts,
>     particularly some federal courts, have made rulings which interpret
>     some federal statuts to protect citizens from some forms of bias due
>     to homosexuality. 

	I never made this claim and was unaware of any such rulings by the
	courts. I would be interested in the case citations if you have 
	them handy.

>      There has never been, to my knowledge, even a limited finding by the
>     scotus, applying 14th amendment protections to lifestyle biases.

	Want to place a small wager?  ;-)


>Laws governing sexual practices also
>     differ between the states, and there is no scotus ruling imposing any
>     requirement that they be the same.
 
	Please note that "lifestyle choices" do NOT invariably involve
	sexual practices, or sexual orientation for that matter.

>It is not now the case that
>     "lifestyle" is "protected" in some general way, 

	Certain lifestyle practices are very SPECIFICALLY protected under the
	Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).

	Those practices are labeled "religion" in the law.

Jim
323.1441ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 16:2967
   re: .1416
 
>Steve, It IS about equal protection, plain and simple.
    
    Convincing argument, Jim.
    
    It is not "plain and simple" in any way, shape or form.  I've exanded
    on this previously, but to no avail it would seem.
    
>	Lifestyles that cause harm no harm, or if you prefer, no harm to
>	others besides those consensually involved, should carry no price tag.
> 	That's the whole point of our disagreement. You want to justify your 
>	bigotry, I will continue to call you on it.

    Ahhh...the bigotry strawman again.  I was wondering how soon it would
    rear its ugly head.  Your argument must be getting pretty thin.
    
    As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.  It
    would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
    as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
    involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.  
    
    If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would
    not be crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted. 
    I know good and well that society deems such relations as immoral, and
    I have no right to try and force them to accept it via legislation.
    
>	Your pedophilic fantasy is the real red herring.

    Your reading comprehension level is going downhill, Jim.  The
    situations, as far as societal acceptance and legislative standpoint,
    are not totally dissimilar.  Perhaps since we all can easily agree that
    pedophilia is wrong, my example was lost on you?
      
>	And I think that you are very wrong. The Constitution does not simply
>	protect those we agree with, or those we approve of. 
    
    The Constitution does not protect all manner of vices or behavior,
    either.
    
>    If it did, it
>	wouldn't be worth the paper it is printed on. It protects everyone,
>	or at least it should. 
    
    This is a strawman.  Homosexuals are protected as are any other
    citizen- as a citizen. 
    
>    Those who cause no harm to others should be
>	fully protected. That's what equal treatment means. You version
>	is a sad and ugly perversion of the concept.

    Well, by your view, any deviant group can force whatever change into law 
    (by the strawman issue of 'discrimination') they can to make their 
    lifestyle legally acceptable- regardless of how society feel about it,
    morally.  Needless to say, I disagree with this.
    
>	More progress, almost. The answer is fairly simple. Add "Sexual 
>	Orientation" to the list of characteristics protected in the
>	the Civil Rights Act of 1964 (amended).

    Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it. 
    I don't know if you realize the can of worms this would open up in the
    years to come.
    
    
    
    -steve 
323.1442BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 16:4616
| <<< Note 323.1438 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Catch you later!!" >>>


| But moving onto more important things, I'd like to start the
| "Glen and Joe telephone fund".  Anyone who would like to toss
| $1 or $2 into a fund to send to Glen and Joe is welcome to do
| so.  Then they can call each other, for free, and keep this
| stuff out of here to free up a slew of CPU cycles.

	Yeah, I suppose it is easier to deal with it offline, so that the
things said so far don't have to be addressed. But that's just keeping things
status quo..... I suppose when it has nothing to do with you, it's much easier
to do.


Glen
323.1443BUSY::SLABOUNTYThis is the Central ScrutinizerMon Nov 27 1995 16:569
    
    	I was just making a motion, and so far it hasn't been 2nd'd,
    	nor have I received any money from anyone.
    
    	So majority rules thus far and the discussion will apparently
    	stay here.
    
    	You win some and you lose some.
    
323.1444BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 16:5869
            <<< Note 323.1441 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Ahhh...the bigotry strawman again.  I was wondering how soon it would
>    rear its ugly head.  Your argument must be getting pretty thin.
 
	No strawman, Steve. Just a simple statement of fact.

>    As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.

	"But it's the BEHAVIOR", is it not? I'll ask you the same question
	I asked Joe. How many Gay sex acts have you actually witnessed?

	No one DOES know what goes on behind closed doors Steve. Not you.
	Not me. You may make assumptions, but they are YOUR assumptions
	and may, or may not, reflect reality. They are certainly not 
	applicable to EVERY Gay person that you meet. EVEN if you know
	they are Gay.

>  It
>    would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
>    as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
>    involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.  
 
	It seems that the ONLY time I hear about homosexual acts, I hear
	it from CHRISTIANS. I don't hear it from Gays. Brother Oppelt
	posted the most explicit descriptions and he attributed those
	descriptions to a self-proclaimed CHRISTIAN organization.

>Perhaps since we all can easily agree that
>    pedophilia is wrong, my example was lost on you?
 
	It was not lost. It was dismissed. You can not see the difference
	between actions that involve consenting vs. non-consenting parties.
	Your comparison has no merit in this discussion.

>    The Constitution does not protect all manner of vices or behavior,
>    either.

	It protects all citizens, or at least it should. I have not	
	addressed protected behaviors because, as I have pointed out,
	neither you or anyone else can specifically tell me what
	behaviors any particular GLB actually performs.

	Today it is enough to ACCUSE, not prove mind you, someone of
	being Gay and then use that accusation to deny them employment,
	housing, or the use of public accomodations. It has NOTHING to	
	do with their behavior, all that is needed is the LABEL.
 
>    Well, by your view, any deviant group can force whatever change into law 
>    (by the strawman issue of 'discrimination') they can to make their 
>    lifestyle legally acceptable- regardless of how society feel about it,
>    morally.  Needless to say, I disagree with this.
 
	Actually, this is pretty close as far as GLBs are concerned.
	As long as they don't do it in the streets and scare the horses.

>    Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it.

	No, "sexual orientation" would cover both hets and Gays. As far
	as being a minority, there is no question that GLBs are, statistically,
	a minority. As far as legal recognition of this status, obviously
	this is where we disagree.

>    I don't know if you realize the can of worms this would open up in the
>    years to come.
 
	Ah, the "dominoe theory". Talk about strawmen.

Jim
323.1445ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 16:58126
    re: .1420
    
| It really isn't about equal protection under the law, no matter how much folks
| want to crow about this red herring.  

>	Wow...... this is pretty funny.

    Wow, this is really a good counter argument!  I've completely changed
    my mind, now.  8^)
    
>	Steve, if I wear a ring on my wedding finger, will someone ask me who
>the other person is? What if I have a picture of him on my desk? Or people are
>talking about what they did over the weekend and I say that John and I went to
>the movies on Friday, the beach on Saturday, dancing on Sunday, you really
>don't think people are going to know? 

    That's your business, Glen.  You tell if you like; but if you do,
    prepare for the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.
    
    It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable,
    moral relation.  Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that
    go against societal norms.  This is simply a fact of life.
    
>	How it appears to me, and please correct me if I am wrong, is that you
>would rather just not have anyone find out, and that we should just talk our
>way around things. 
    
    Glen, *I* don't care.  Really.  All I'm saying is that if you do decide
    to be open about it, for whatever reason, prepare for negative
    reactions.  No amount of legislation or argument will change this.
    
| No problem with employment,

>	Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.

    One example.  Don't base an argument for legislation over one example. 
    There is NO group who hasn't been discriminated against on more than
    one occation- white heterosexual males notwithstanding.
    
>	Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
>pour gasoline on your house? 
    
    Which is illegal (arson), and punishable by a good bit of time in the
    slammer.  This would seem to me to be a good reason to keep quiet about
    one's lifestyle, when it goes against the grain.
    
>    And if one of them didn't smell it, someone could
>have torched their house? I know people this happened to, so please, don't tell
>me it is only tied to rental property. It goes a hell of a lot deeper than
>that.

    Irrelevent.  Such actions are punishable by the same laws that everyone
    else is protected under.  No amount of legislation will stop this form
    of "hate" crime.  

>	Gee, Steve...if this were to happen, I'm sure shock therapy would still
>be around. Having people think badly about a lifestyle is one thing. Having one
>think badly for reasons due to fears, ignorance, "this is the way it always
>was", is another. 
    
    How do you know that all who disagree with the lifestyle do so because
    of "fear" or "ignorance"?  I think you misunderstand the majority of
    those who wish to keep current standards.  I think it is the gay
    community which misunderstands why most are opposed to legalizing
    marriages for gays and such.
    
>    Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic. 
     
    As defined by Glen Silva?
    
>	Ahhhh..... now we're getting to the crux of it all. Yes, homosexuality
>does deviate from the majority of people, who are heterosexual. To put a label
>on it like it's bad, then I guess you probably put a lot of labels on things
>for being bad, that really aren't. Just a guess.

    Being disposed towards homosexuality is not bad in itself, and I have
    never stated that it was- so this is a strawman.  Acting out on it,
    according to Christian morals (which is the basis for our societal
    moral traditions and laws regarding marriage and the like), is immoral. 
    
    So, according to traditions in this nations- which began long before
    this nations was ever founded- homosexual relations is wrong.  It seems
    to me that you want to not only change this foundation of society mores, 
    but to have such lifestyles promoted via legal marriage, adoption, etc.  
    
>	Steve, let's go back 50 years. Do you think gays should have been
>treated the way they were? Getting people to realize the person, you know,
>someone who is being truthful, not hiding, has done a lot to change the
>perceptions towards gays. But none of that would have happened under your plan.
 
    It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards. 
    There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call
    friend.  However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on
    par with the marital relations of heterosexuals.  Apparently, society
    is no quite ready to toss traditional morality to the wind, either.
    
>	Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
>that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.
    
    The truth, according to Glen Silva.  Of course, everyone who disagrees
    is wrong, eh?  Convenient, if nothing else.

| So, who is being unfair? Is society being unfair by not being accomodating to 
| what it deems as perverted sexual attraction?  

>	Please compare apples to apples. Children and adults is not the same as
>adults and adults. 

    You missed the point, then. 
    
| It has more to do with homosexuals loudly pointing towards their sexual 
| attraction, and then forcing society, by law, to be accomodating to
| behavior/relations that it has historically deemed as 'immoral'.

>	Guess again, Steve. That is not it at all. You're kind of like OJ
>Martin here. Look at gays as people, you might actually see them in a different 
>light.

    But I do look at gays as people.  I don't care if you are gay, that is
    not the issue I have a problem with.  Apparently, you have not been
    paying attention, so there is little use in repeating what I've already
    said.

    
    
    -steve
323.1446Here's what I meant...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 27 1995 16:5825
    
    re, .1440 - yes, I meant .1436.  As to the federal rulings, the most
     recent high-profile cases have been gays-in-the-military, as we all
     know.  I've read excerpts from some of these rulings, and it is a
     very confusing area.  The case(s) were NOT constitutionally decided,
     but statutory.  The implication is that, if some Congress ever gets
     around to having a policy, it would be OK, but that the Executive,
     by executive order, is limited.  That is very likely, considering
     that the courts UPHELD the no-combat-for-women law, because it was
     clear and passed by Congress.  Congress has not passed such a clear
     rule on gays.
    
      On the other hand, there are cases which remain precedent (not
     scotus), permitting various biased actions by private parties, such
     as termination of employment.  In fact, even where the Constitution
     (Amendment XIV), the statute (Civil Rights 64), and the case law is
     clear, there are anomolies you might not expect in the USA.  Example :
    
      I can LEGALLY discriminate against you, denying you tenancy in my
     own public accomodation, if it is a two-family house with longterm
     rental, and I personally occupy the other half.  EVEN on the basis
     purely of race.  Civil Rights Act of 1964 says so.  I cannot do this
     in a three-family.  Weird, eh ?
    
      bb
323.1447BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 16:5948
| <<< Note 323.1441 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.  

	Steve, let me ask you something....should someone be honest? Yes or no?
Your not wanting it mentioned pretty much tells me that you can't believe
honesty is the correct way. If you view it differently, then you would have to
do away with this silence stuff.

| It would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
| as immoral, 

	Steve, when it changes, will you state that and keep your own concerns
quiet, or will you state the moral decay stuff again? Reason I ask is you keep
clinging to this majority thing. I'm just wondering if it is just selective or
not. Cuz if it isn't, you will have to be quiet soon, under your plan. 

| that it would be best (at least at this time) for those involved in such 
| relations to keep quiet about it.

	Steve, if by relations, do you mean sex? If so, then I don't think you
would have much of a problem here. I don't want to know what you would do, as
you would not want to know what I do. If you mean by relationships, well, it
brings back the honesty thing again.

| If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would not be 
| crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted.

	You really should look at g/l/b's under the true light...human beings,
not sexual objects.

| Homosexuals are protected as are any other citizen- as a citizen.

	Is this like that thing where you say homosexuals CAN marry? But then
if a marriage is not based on love, it shouldn't be? The catch 22 thing. Can
you honestly say that *I* could get married and have it meet the standards you
feel a marriage should have? If you say no, then can we really marry?

| Sexual orientation does not a legal minority make, nor should it.

	Sexual orientation covers all of us. Straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual. 
But you don't or won't see the straight part of it all. So if you were ever 
turned down for a job cuz you were straight, you would be covered.



Glen
323.1448BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 17:0519
          <<< Note 323.1446 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

    
>      On the other hand, there are cases which remain precedent (not
>     scotus), permitting various biased actions by private parties, such
>     as termination of employment.  In fact, even where the Constitution
>     (Amendment XIV), the statute (Civil Rights 64), and the case law is
>     clear, there are anomolies you might not expect in the USA.  Example :
    
>      I can LEGALLY discriminate against you, denying you tenancy in my
>     own public accomodation, if it is a two-family house with longterm
>     rental, and I personally occupy the other half.  EVEN on the basis
>     purely of race.  Civil Rights Act of 1964 says so.  I cannot do this
>     in a three-family.  Weird, eh ?
 
	The CRA64 does not cover all employers either. There are numerical
	limits. Stay below the limit, and you can discriminate at will.

Jim
323.1449ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 17:2348
    re: .1434

>    Yes, I can see the obvious societal value in wedding rings and photos
>    in the cube.
 
    The object of my comments was "heterosexuality".  It was not a
    difficult contextual extraction to make from my note.
    
    The above is a strawman.
       
>    >That is their choice.  I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
>    >cause reactions not favorable- that is life. 

>    Reactions in *who*, Steve?  Space aliens, or people like you, who
>    *CHOOSE* to react unfavourably?  Don't try to distance yourself from 
>    the issue.
    
    If I wanted to distance myself from this issue, I would not be
    participating in this discussion.
    
    As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
    the above, which is a generic statement about generic reactions that
    may ensue from choosing to reveal a lifestyle deemed to be immoral by
    many/most.  
    
    Personaly (since you seem to want to make it a personal issue), I can live 
    with folks being gay just fine.  It's none of my business....UNTIL a small 
    vocal group of activists begins trying to force their moral standards upon 
    society.  I am a part of that society, and have every right to try to
    stop such a forced change in social structure.
     
>    >Bad analogy...unless homosexuality can be considered a "race" (which it
>    >cannot- either logically or legally).
    
>    Here we go again.  "If homosexuality *is not* genetic, then there is
>    no excuse, and if it *is* genetic, then it's in the same league as
>    Down's or alcoholism."  However, Steve, it has been pretty much shown
>    to be a genetic trait, so the "race" analogy isn't as bad as you'd like
>    to make out. 
    
    So, what race is a white homosexual man?  A black homosexual man?  
    How about an Indian lesbian woman?
    
    The "race" analogy is what I would consider a strawman holding a red
    herring, obfuscated by a deflection of irrelevency.
    
    
    -steve      
323.1450ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 17:2719
    re: .1435
    
>Steve,	When you see a het couple walking down the street holding hands,
>	do you automatically start imagining the kind of sex acts that
>	they participate in?
    
      Strawman alert.  Why would you ask this?
    
>	Why do you do this when you see a Gay couple doing exactly the same
>	thing?

    I don't.  Why would you think I do?
    
>	Time to face your predjudice. I think.

    Time to admit that your strawman has no clothes.
    
    
    -steve
323.1451Don't tell how you feel about homosexuality, Steve.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Nov 27 1995 17:3446
    RE: .1445  Steve Leech

    / That's your business, Glen.  You tell if you like; but if you do,
    / prepare for the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.

    If you make your attitude against homosexuality obvious, Steve, prepare 
    for the fact that some folks will not take to YOU very well.

    / It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable,
    / moral relation.  

    Some people don't regard it as moral to promote discrimination based on
    the prejudice that gays can be presumed to do something 'disgusting'
    in bed while hets can be presumed (mostly) to do things that are not 
    'disgusting' in bed.  [Hint:  It's not true.]

    / Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that
    / go against societal norms.  This is simply a fact of life.

    Bigotry and discrimination go against today's societal norms.

    / Glen, *I* don't care.  Really.  All I'm saying is that if you do decide
    / to be open about it, for whatever reason, prepare for negative
    / reactions.  No amount of legislation or argument will change this.

    Those who react negatively to someone simply being honest about his or
    her life are receiving increasingly negative reactions.

    Steve, perhaps you should keep quiet about your feelings towards 
    homosexuality.  If no one knows you feel this way, you can avoid
    negative responses to it.

    / It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards. 
    / There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call
    / friend.  However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on
    / par with the marital relations of heterosexuals.  Apparently, society
    / is no quite ready to toss traditional morality to the wind, either.

    Gay relations *ARE* on a par with heterosexual relations outside of
    marriage, though.  The only difference is that gays aren't allowed
    to marry their partners of choice, so they don't have marriage as
    an option (which makes heterosexual relations outside of marriage
    less moral than homosexual relations.)

    So why don't you focus more of your energy on heterosexuals who have
    relations outside of marriage?
323.1452re: .1440ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 17:5334
>    Those practices are labeled "religion" in the law.
    
    If you are trying to equate homosexuality with religious type
    protection, then I am forced to point out that the First Amendment does
    not allow "an establishment" of religion in federal law.  Using the
    establishment clause in the same way it has been abused in the Courts
    over the last 50 years, homosexual marriages could not be legalized
    under any federal law.  The same restrictions the courts uphold for
    religion today, must also be upheld for homosexality (which also means
    that no classes may teach about homosexuality in public schools, etc.).
    
    Fair is fair.  If you are going to loosely use religion as a
    "lifestyle", then you must also be confined by the same laws which do
    not allow religion to be taught in public schools.
    
    In order for your analogy to be accepted, you would also have to
    convince society that homosexuality, in itself, is beneficial to
    society- as religion was specifically deemed as worthy to protect
    because it was considered necessary to good government and for the well
    being of the people.
    
    Trying to rationalize this word down to a generic "lifestyle choice" is 
    an olympic caliber abfuscation of law.  If any court has done this, I 
    would hope that such a ruling would be thrown down by a higher court
    that has more legal scruples.
    
    Though religion can perhaps be viewed as a lifestyle choice, the words
    "religion" (even the watered down definition we use today) and
    "lifestyle" is hardly synonymous.  "Lifestyle" is too generic to be
    useful in a court of law.
    
    
    
    -steve  
323.1453ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 17:569
    re: .1451
    
    I'll not waste time with this note, other than to say "try reading for
    comprehension".
    
    I would greatly appreciate this small effort in future discussions.
    
    
    -steve
323.1454CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsMon Nov 27 1995 18:0117
    But Steve,
    
    The government does interfere in the civil part of marriages. 
    Marriages are licensed and regulated by the state as to who and how
    many people can participate.  
    
    Divorce has to be granted in such a way it is much like breaking up a
    legal partnership, (which marriage is for all intents and purposes)  A
    follower of Islam in this country cannot have multiple spouses, nor can
    a man following Islam divorce his spouse(s) with "I divorce thee, I
    divorce thee, I divorce thee", even though that is perfectly legal
    within the Koran.  Marital properties are divvied up should one partner
    die without a will according to law, not religion.  
    
    Or are you saying this is unconstitutional and the courts should not
    interfere in marital matters at all, up to and including protection of
    minor children?
323.1455Hope you didn't get whiplash from the way you just dodged.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Nov 27 1995 18:0813
    RE: .1453  Steve Leech

    / I'll not waste time with this note, other than to say "try reading for
    / comprehension".
    
    I raised my own ideas and suggestions for you to consider.  It's
    rather disingenuous of you to dodge them with a claim that you
    were misunderstood.

    / I would greatly appreciate this small effort in future discussions.

    Do you have a problem with the idea of keeping quiet about how you
    feel about homosexuality?  If so, what's the problem?
323.1456BUSY::SLABOUNTYThis Son of a Gun for HireMon Nov 27 1995 18:099
    
    	Steve, I believe the sex angle was introduced in this discuss-
    	ion to show that homosexuality isn't necessarily about sex,
    	but rather a partnership between people of the same sex.  And
    	therefore the question about whether or not you consider the
    	sexual acts of a couple you observe walking together.  They
    	have a similar partnership, but they happen to be of different
    	sexes.
    
323.1457BUSY::SLABOUNTYThis Son of a Gun for HireMon Nov 27 1995 18:119
    
    	And keep in mind that the Constitution is amendable, and could
    	possibly be changed to include some things that are legal to-
    	day.
    
    	I mean, there was a such thing as a 2nd amendment, yes?  Which
    	means that whatever the Constitution said before needed chang-
    	ing with regard to that subject matter?
    
323.1458MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Nov 27 1995 18:1515
>    	I mean, there was a such thing as a 2nd amendment, yes?  Which
>    	means that whatever the Constitution said before needed chang-
>    	ing with regard to that subject matter?

Not quite.

The Bill of Rights (Amendments one through ten) was introduced in concert
with the body of the Constitution not in order to modify the wording of
the major document regarding the issues addressed, but to clearly state
the legal status surrounding various principles and issues which weren't
appropriate to specify in the major document, the latter being principally
a description of how the government should be formulated and how it should
operate.


323.1459CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Nov 27 1995 18:2124
                  <<< Note 323.1428 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, the above is not the way one should handle things. Find out about
>the individuals. Or is it ok to go with what I heard where most Christians are
>evil? 

    	Hey, you were the one who provided statistics showing 75%
    	participation.  So if you have a similar statistic showing
    	that Christians are evil, you could truly argue that most
    	are evil.
    
>	Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because....
    
    	You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking
    	about.  I've showed you where I was misled.  You want to rathole
    	that into new territory that I refuse to accommodate.  You who
    	pretend to be mr-bear-false-witness-accuser are sure doing your
    	best to step in your own accusations.
    
> stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
> anyone would talk about the context of what was written. 
    
    	I released the source.  Everyone here knows the source.  Why
    	don't you?
323.1460TJ demanded them...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 27 1995 18:219
    
      Or, to put it bluntly, the Bill of Rights was thrown in as a sop
     to Jefferson, because the federalists, Hamilton, Madison, etc
     feared they couldn't get the 9 states without him.
    
      It was a cynical deal.  The amendments I-X are today, imo, more
     often the basis of case law than is the main document itself.
    
      bb
323.1461BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 18:2510
            <<< Note 323.1452 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    If you are trying to equate homosexuality with religious type
>    protection, then I am forced to point out that the First Amendment does
>    not allow "an establishment" of religion in federal law.

	Context, Steve, context. My only point was that certain lifestyle
	choices have already been included in the CRA64, nothing more.

Jim
323.1462BUSY::SLABOUNTYThis Son of a Gun for HireMon Nov 27 1995 18:2811
    
    	RE: Jack
    
    	OK, then move on to the later amendments.  Like the "women's
    	suffrage" amendment, 18 or 19 or whatever it was.  That was
    	an amendment put in place to change the Constitution, not to
    	"improve the wording".  And from then on women could suffr
    	to their hearts' content.
    
    	And we could add amendment n+1 to allow gays to marry.
    
323.1463BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 18:3011
      <<< Note 323.1462 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "This Son of a Gun for Hire" >>>

    
>    	And we could add amendment n+1 to allow gays to marry.
 
	Unecceessary. There is nothing in the Constitution that prohibits
	GLBs from marrying persons of the same gender. The issue can be
	dealt with in the statutes. No need to modify the Constitution.

Jim   

323.1465Sure, but why ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 27 1995 18:3513
    
      Jim is correct on that, Dishtowel.  Any state, or the Congress,
     could pass a law recognizing gay marriage.
    
      When Jim P reveals himself is in his claim that any individual
     can force them to do so, outside politics, based on his bogus
     reading of Amendment 14.
    
      Anyways, amendments are MUCH harder to pass than laws - why, as a
     practical matter, would gays seek an amendment when a law would do ?
     Fact is, they seek neither - they seek a court ruling instead.
    
      bb
323.1466BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Nov 27 1995 18:3814
    At least one state (Hawaii) has come close to legalizing marriage
    between people of the same sex.  (I don't think Hawaii will actually
    do this anytime soon, though.)

    Two heterosexual men who wanted to marry each other so that they
    could qualify to buy a house in Honolulu started a legal challenge
    for the right to enter a marriage of convenience (which is certainly
    legal for people of the opposite sex to do.)  Their challenge could
    not be fought on the basis of morality since they do not ever intend 
    to have sex with each other.  They wanted a legally binding contract
    with each other in order to be able to combine their incomes to be
    one 'family' and qualify for a particular mortgage they wanted.

    Any state can legalize marriage between people of the same sex.
323.1464TROOA::COLLINSThe manual is pure fiction.Mon Nov 27 1995 18:4357
    .1449

  >The object of my comments was "heterosexuality".

    Yet in extolling the virtues of "heterosexuality", you imply that
    "homosexuality" lacks those virtues.  And therefore...?
    
  >If I wanted to distance myself from this issue, I would not be
  >participating in this discussion.

    You *are* distancing yourself from it, Steve.  From .1433:

>>    Why should gay people be expected to hide it when
>>    they love someone who happens to be the same sex?

  >That is their choice.  I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
  >cause reactions not favorable- that is life. 

    Unfavourable reactions don't just *happen*, they don't just fall from
    the sky.  Someone chooses to react that way.  To make it sound like
    the weather is to absolve the participants of any responsibility for 
    their actions.  They don't *have* to react negatively to gays, they
    *choose* to.  You write it as though gays had no-one else to blame
    but themselves.

    "That is life" is not an intellectual justification, it's distance.
    
  >As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
  >the above...

    Not when you are arguing that gays should remain in the closet.

  >Personaly (since you seem to want to make it a personal issue)...
   
    It's personal to Glen, not me.  What is it to you?

  >I can live with folks being gay just fine...

    No you can't...

  >...UNTIL a small vocal group of activists begins trying to force 
  >their moral standards upon society. 

    ...because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.

  >I am a part of that society, and have every right to try to stop such 
  >a forced change in social structure.
     
    I forget...what was it they were trying to force you to do (these people,
    who are *also* a part of that society)?

  >So, what race is a white homosexual man?  A black homosexual man?  
  >How about an Indian lesbian woman?

    Speaking of "contextual" extraction...
    
323.1467BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 18:45130
| <<< Note 323.1445 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| That's your business, Glen. You tell if you like; but if you do, prepare for 
| the fact that some folks will not take to you very well.

	On this we have no disagreement. What I have found is most who have
found out THAT HAD A PROBLEM WITH HOMOSEXUALITY, have been pretty good. They
had many misconceptions about gays, and when those misconceptions were cleared
up, they could accept me for being me. My brother inlaw was the worst person
that I had to deal with. He wouldn't even shake my hand. Now he is pretty cool
with it. Real cool. So yeah, the initial reaction may be negative. But based on
the wrong reasons in most cases (for *me* anyway). But I have found that due to
others seeing it live (a homosexual), they have seen a homosexual for what they
are, a human being. That's why the numbers are steadily getting closer and
closer to the majority accepting the homosexual person. If they don't want to
accept the sex, fine. They don't have to. There are things about heterosexual
sex that I wouldn't accept. But then again, I don't have to.

| It is your lifestyle, and some simply will not accept it as a viable, moral 
| relation.  Every lifestyle has a price- particularly those that go against 
| societal norms.  

	The norms thing rears it's ugly head again. :-) Steve, it is normal for
you when you get married, that person will be a woman. For me, it is normal for
that person to be a man. You seem to confuse norms with good/bad. 

| Glen, *I* don't care.  Really.  

	If you don't care, why do you keep bringing up this "keeping it quiet"
stuff?

| >	Tell that to those who worked at Cracker Barrell.

| One example.  Don't base an argument for legislation over one example.

	That's the biggest one I know of. But lets look at the next note I put
in. One that actually had a case against gays for discrimination against a
heterosexual woman. It also sites the numbers of other cases for 93 & 94. 

| >	Ever live in a neighborhood where people found out you're gay, and they
| >pour gasoline on your house?

| Which is illegal (arson), and punishable by a good bit of time in the slammer.
| This would seem to me to be a good reason to keep quiet about one's lifestyle,
| when it goes against the grain.

	This is totally stupid. Hell, you being religious and all could get you
killed. Being left handed could get you killed. There are too many nuts out
there. Under your plan, we all should be quiet, and all should just stay
inside. Sorry, the reason the person poured gasoline on their house was due to
them being gay. And like you, thee people probably thought my firends should 
have remained quiet. Sorry Steve, by keeping quiet, things like this happen.

| How do you know that all who disagree with the lifestyle do so because of 
| "fear" or "ignorance"?  

	When did I ever say all?

| I think you misunderstand the majority of those who wish to keep current 
| standards. I think it is the gay community which misunderstands why most are 
| opposed to legalizing marriages for gays and such.

	Yeah... you say we already can marry. But we can't love one of the
oppisite sex in the same light that marriage requires. So if we marry, we're
only doing so to please people like yourself. That is the wrong way to do
things. 

| >    Have their reasoning be factual, not unrealistic.

| As defined by Glen Silva?

	No, as defined by the people I have talked to. Like you and OJ Martin,
they looked at it from a sex perspective. We had a discussion panel a couple of
years back called, "Sexual Orientation: What does this have to do with work?".
This woman from my group didn't go to it. She asked me about it afterwards.
After she heard what it was about she had wished she went. She thought it was
going to be about our sex lives. She got that from the words, Sexual
Orientation. The same words you have a hang-up on. That's one example of the 
unrealistic reasoning that I'm talking about.

| Acting out on it, according to Christian morals (which is the basis for our 
| societal moral traditions and laws regarding marriage and the like), is 
| immoral.

	Yes.... so we're back to the marriage thing. Would you like us to lie,
Steve? Because if you don't, then there really is no way for a homosexuals to
marry under your standards. So you're damned if you do, damned if you don't.
Thank God it isn't Steve Leech we need to follow.

| It isn't about the person, it is about morality and societal standards.

	That's just it. It IS about the person. I guess if you go by a group
standard practice, it is easier to deal with. Individuals are much harder to
deal with, classify, etc.

| There are many upstanding gay citizens that I would be proud to call friend.  
| However, I cannot morally accept such *relations* as being on par with the 
| marital relations of heterosexuals.  

	Then don't. It's plain and simple. You don't have to accept it. The way
marriage is with heterosexuals these days, it doesn't appear that it's doing
all that well, period. Getting married for the right reasons, and not because
your parents expect you too, would save a lot of divorces, and put a lot of
lawyers out of business.

| >	Hey, if you want to think it's bad...go right ahead. The only things
| >that are making changes are getting through the lies, and presenting the truth.

| The truth, according to Glen Silva.  Of course, everyone who disagrees
| is wrong, eh?  Convenient, if nothing else.

	No, Steve. The truth, period. When one views a homosexual as a femme,
they view a lot of things wrong. First off, they assume all homosexuals are
femmes. Then they also assume a femme is bad. Both of these things are false.
When one assumes that a homosexual is going to have sex with everyone they
meet, this is wrong. Individuals might. But you can't apply that anymore to
homosexuals than you could with heterosexuals. If you're a gay male, you will
eventually get AIDS and die. Now that is one of the stupidest things I have
heard yet. Then there are those that equate the words sexual orientation to
mean just gay, or gay sex. More misconceptions. Being friends with someone who 
is gay is going to make you look bad. Another sad, but true misconception.
Shall I go on? So please come down off this according to crap, cuz it really
isn't something I would expect from you.

| You missed the point, then.

	This seems to be a standard answer to a lot of people, lately. 


Glen
323.1468BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 18:4970
Labor Commissioner Rules Heterosexual Employee Suffered Discrimination


In the first ruling of its kind under California law, the Labor Commissioner
determined that an employee of a Palm Springs hotel was illegally fired because
of her heterosexual orientation. She was awarded back wages and reinstatement of
employment. 

Kathleen Sturgeon worked as a desk clerk at the Smoke Tree Inn from September
1991 until she was terminated in April 1993. Shortly before her dismissal, a new
group of partners purchased the hotel. According to witness interviews during 
the investigation, the new owners intended to market the hotel's accommodations
to gay and lesbian customers. 

In her discrimination complaint Sturgeon alleged that she was fired because she
is heterosexual. The hotel's owners responded that she was terminated in an 
effort to contain costs. They added that Sturgeon also occupied two rooms at 
the hotel, which they sought to rent to guests for additional revenue. 

Sturgeon produced two witnesses who indicated that the new owners sought to
replace heterosexual employees. The owner of an air conditioning company hired 
to perform service work at the hotel recalled overhearing a conversation shortly
before Sturgeon's termination. He overheard a group of women, whom he later 
learned were the owners, state to a visitor that they were "going to get rid of 
everyone who is not gay here" and turn the hotel into a resort serving gay and 
lesbian guests. 

Another employee of the Smoke Tree Inn stated that one of the new owners asked 
her sexual orientation. The employee refused to answer. The co-owner then asked 
if Sturgeon was a lesbian. The employee said no. Sturgeon's coworker told the
investigator that the co-owner said, "I'll take care of Kathy when the time 
comes. But that's between me and you." 

Sturgeon was fired a week later. Her coworker also said the co-owner told her 
that she wanted to replace all heterosexual employees with gay and lesbian 
employees. 

The Labor Commissioner concluded that the statements of these two witnesses
"support a conclusion that the primary factor for the complainant's discharge 
was because of her sexual orientation and not because her discharge would have
significantly contained costs." 

This case is the first in which the Labor Commissioner has found that 
discrimination occurred because of an employee's heterosexual orientation. In 
California, employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is 
illegal under Labor Code Section 1102.1, which was enacted in 1992 when 
Governor Pete Wilson signed Assembly Bill 2601. 

During 1993, the first year the Labor Code section was effective, the Labor
Commissioner received 159 complaints of sexual orientation discrimination. The
number of new cases has continued at the same pace during 1994. Complete figures
on discrimination complaint investigations will be released in February when the
Labor Commissioner makes a biennial report to the Legislature. 

Section 1102.1 prohibits "discrimination or different treatment in any aspect or
opportunity for employment based on actual or perceived sexual orientation." 
Under the Labor Code, the Labor Commissioner has four remedies available in a 
case in which discrimination is found. Remedies are a cease or desist order, 
an order to re-hire or reinstate, reimbursement of lost wages, and requiring 
the employer to post notices. The Labor Commissioner cannot award punitive 
damages. 

When the Labor Commissioner finds discrimination, the employer has 10 days to
comply with the decision. Such cases are referred to the Labor Commissioner's 
legal staff for any legal action necessary to ensure compliance. 

Determinations issued by the Labor Commissioner in discrimination cases are 
subject to appeal to the Director of Industrial Relations within 10 days of the 
decision. After that period or a decision by the Director on appeal, the case 
is closed. 
323.1469CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Nov 27 1995 18:5358
                  <<< Note 323.1429 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| I doubt that many married people are asked about their spouses simply because 
>| they wear a ring.  I can't recall ever being asked.
>
>	Well....maybe people in here who are married can address things. I know
> women who look for rings, to see if someone is single or not. 
    
    	Looking for a ring when seeking a potential mate and actually
    	asking to discuss that mate are two very different things, of
    	course.

>| It asserts that Cameron used a small sample size (and if true I agree with 
>| their condemnation of Cameron) 
>
>	Go read his study. Go to the people who said that these things are
>true. Find out for yourself. Apparently you don't know, as you have said, "if
>it were true".

    	But you have not done these things either.  You are only accepting
    	others' assessment of his study, just as you accuse me of doing
    	(and I agree I am doing.)
    
>| you said that you would get the Cameron book.  Why not do so?
>
>	Cuz I'm not going to waste my money on such dribble. 
    
    	So then did you lie in .956?  you Said:
    
>	Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
> in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.

    	You said "I *am in the process of*".  Not, "I am planning to"
    	or anything non-committal like that.  You toadied Topaz when
    	he got all over Jack for a similar statement.  Why does this
    	not apply to you?
    
    	But really what you are saying is that you are willing to take
    	the word of Cameron critics at face value without looking at
    	his stuff with your own eyes.  You are willing to take their
    	'snipets' of Cameron quotes as they use them, when they very
    	well may be taken out of context for all we know...
    
> CFV did to the Hart book, 
    
    	What did they do to Hart's book?

>	You'd have to come out here, cuz there is no way in hell I will ever go
> to Colorado.
    
    	Hold you breath.  I just may.

>	People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.
>
>	Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
> ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be.
    
    	These two statements are contradictory.
323.1470BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 19:0124
| <<< Note 323.1459 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	Uh huh...and you haven't addressed the Hart book scam because....

| You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking about.  

	Of course you do. Note .1322 goes into how the CFV took the Hart Book
stuff out of context. You have been asked many a time to address the context
part, but each time you refuse. It is understandable though.

| > stated that you did not want to release the source because you did not think
| > anyone would talk about the context of what was written.

| I released the source.  Everyone here knows the source.  Why don't you?

	The source that refutes the CFV Hart extractions came from the Hart
Book itself. The stuff that refuted the Cameron stuff was listed in the paper
itself, along with the ending part.

	So will you address the Hart stuff in .1322? It deals with the sources
methods, not the source itself.


Glen
323.1471BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 19:0414
| <<< Note 323.1464 by TROOA::COLLINS "The manual is pure fiction." >>>


| ...because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.



	I have to admit, Joan...I liked the whole note, but nothing summed it
up better than this one line. 



Glen

323.1472that was an interesting Cal case report, Glen...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Nov 27 1995 19:0510
    
      By the way, Mass also has anti-discrimination laws regarding gays,
     though they differ from Cal.  Some states have no such laws.
    
      Nor is the support of anti-discrimination laws in employment or
     public accomodation for gays incompatible with opposition to any
     extension of marriage laws to gays.  In fact, that's my own view,
     not to mention, the view of our current governor.
    
      bb
323.1473CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Mon Nov 27 1995 19:1924
                  <<< Note 323.1470 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| You keep repeating this, but I don't know what you are talking about.  
    >
>	Of course you do. Note .1322 goes into how the CFV took the Hart Book
>stuff out of context. You have been asked many a time to address the context
>part, but each time you refuse. 
    
    	You have asked so many questions that I simply can't answer them
    	all.

    	So rather than do a line-by-line I'll simply say that I disagree
    	with most of your analysis there.  But you ask one question that
    	pretty well sums up the whole issue:

.1322>	Why did the CFV only pull out negative snippets from the Hart book to
>try and prove their point? 
    
    	Because CFV has an agenda.  And in the same spirit, the negative
    	report about Cameron springs from an agenda too, and unless you
    	study Cameron's work yourself you cannot be sure that their
    	agenda is only taking negative snippets to prove their point.
    
    	Obviously you can't see the double standard here.
323.1474BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 19:2061
| <<< Note 323.1469 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| Looking for a ring when seeking a potential mate and actually asking to 
| discuss that mate are two very different things, of course.

	Joe, have you ever talked about your wife at work? Do you ever think
that others will talk about theirs when others are talking? Be real, and stop
playing games.

| But you have not done these things either. You are only accepting others' 
| assessment of his study, just as you accuse me of doing

	You have been in here touting off these stats like their gold. You have
been trying to paint homosexuals as some sick people, PERIOD. And you have the
gall to put the above in here? Please, Joe, if you or the CFV are going to spout
his numbers, then go check with the APA about Cameron. When you find out what
has been said about him is true, then you will have to stop using his numbers,
and should distance yourself from the CFV if you can't convince them to see the
truth. Hell, you should distance yourself from them now with what they did with
the Hart book. 

| >	Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
| > in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.

	Nope, I was in the process of getting them. I had sent mail out to a
.dis list and asked about both. One was handed to me. The other, no one had.

| You said "I *am in the process of*".  Not, "I am planning to" or anything 
| non-committal like that.  

	Please reread the above.

| But really what you are saying is that you are willing to take the word of 
| Cameron critics at face value without looking at his stuff with your own 
| eyes. 

	He was thrown out of the APA for pete's sake. People slammed him for
misquoting their works. What else do you need? If you don't feel these things
are true, then go disprove them.

| Hold you breath.  I just may.

	Yeah.... right...this is a trick... you just want me to hold my breath!
:-)

| >	People come out when they are ready. That is what I believe.
| >
| >	Now, is it wrong to have someone come out publically when they aren't
| > ready? On the onset, it could be. But then again, it may not be.

| These two statements are contradictory.

	No, they are not. You convienently left off the reasons behind the
latter. I saw the CFV do that with the Hart book stuff. I guess that could be
one place you get that from, as you do it quite often. Go back and read.

	And you're here on a Monday? 


Glen
323.1475BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Nov 27 1995 19:2417
          <<< Note 323.1465 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

    
>      When Jim P reveals himself is in his claim that any individual
>     can force them to do so, outside politics, based on his bogus
>     reading of Amendment 14.
 
	My argument is should, not can. The difference between the current
	interpretation of the law by the courts and what I believe is right,
	proper and just.

	Given this state of affairs, attempts at statuatory reform are in
	order. Hence my call to include sexual orientation in the listing
	of protected charachteristics contained in the CRA64.


Jim
323.1476BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 19:3033
| <<< Note 323.1473 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| You have asked so many questions that I simply can't answer them all.

	Then just address why you would associate with a group of people that
takes other people's writings out of context? It is CLEAR that they took
everything out of context. So yeah, I can see why you wouldn't want to address
it, cuz it only shows that if you believe the newsletter (I assume you do cuz
you kept hounding the stats[but let us know if you do or don't]), and they
presented a false picture of what the book was saying, then that would show you
as either a mislead individual, or someone who helps support the lies. Which is
it?

| So rather than do a line-by-line I'll simply say that I disagree with most of 
| your analysis there.  

	Of course, just brush it aside. Why address the FACT that they took the
Hart book out of context? Even though you stated you thought people would
dismiss this stuff due to the source, not the actual words. The words were
addressed, and you choose to ignore it. Understandable. 

| Because CFV has an agenda. And in the same spirit, the negative report about 
| Cameron springs from an agenda too, and unless you study Cameron's work 
| yourself you cannot be sure that their agenda is only taking negative snippets
| to prove their point.

	Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple. The CFV has used
the same tactics that Cameron did. Taking other people's works out of context.
So I can begin to see what the agenda is. 



Glen
323.1477ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 20:1510
    re: .1461
    
    I realize your intent, Jim.  I was merely showing the problems inherant
    with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
    generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
    
    You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.  
    
    
    -steve
323.1478ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 20:163
    re: .1463
    
    On this, at least, we agree.  8^)
323.1479ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 20:5476
    re: .1464
    
|  >That is their choice.  I'm merely pointing out that some choices may
|  >cause reactions not favorable- that is life. 

|    Unfavourable reactions don't just *happen*, they don't just fall from
|    the sky.  
    
    I disagree.  Sometimes, they DO just happen.  A reaction may not be
    visible, but I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
    a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
    
>    Someone chooses to react that way.  
    
    The only reaction that one chooses to make would be an outward
    reaction; which can be anything from a hi-five of approval to gay
    bashing.  THESE are choices.  My choice in this matter is to fight
    *for* what few current moral standards are left in this nation.  You
    confuse this with something personal against gay people- which is not
    true at all.
    
>    To make it sound like
>    the weather is to absolve the participants of any responsibility for 
>    their actions.  They don't *have* to react negatively to gays, they
>    *choose* to.  You write it as though gays had no-one else to blame
>    but themselves.

    And you missed my point.  Negative reactions are a GIVEN.  Period.  I'm
    not proposing that all such reactions are good, nor am I absolving
    anyone's responsibility for their reactions.
    
    That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.  This would be a
    non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
    into law.  I realize they feel they are right in doing so, and it is
    their right to TRY, but I do not agree with, nor support the agenda I
    see.  I can't- either morally or intellectually.
    
>    "That is life" is not an intellectual justification, it's distance.
 
    It's reality.  Get used to it.  Crying to daddy government will do
    NOTHING to change matters- regardless of how much legislation can get
    forced through (and the more you push, the more push-back you will end
    up receiving).  
    
    However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the 
    example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride
    parade), showing good character and a caring attitude towards you
    fellow man, would do a lot to help people understand and acknowledge that 
    you are not like what they see on TV- but a responsible, intelligent person.
    
    Maybe being a good example is tough, maybe it will only promote slow
    progress, but it will be progress, and it is the point of least
    resistence.
       
>  >As far as how *I* *personally* "*CHOOSE*" to react, is irrelevent to
>  >the above...

>    Not when you are arguing that gays should remain in the closet.

    I'm not arguing this at all.  Please read what I type in.
    I'm saying the choice is *theirs*, but to not whine when they get
    negative reactions.  In this day and age, homosexuality is still
    considered by most to be a deviancy, and anyone "coming out of the
    closet" should know good and well that they are bringing themselves
    into public view and are subject to negative reactions from the public.
      
>  >I can live with folks being gay just fine...

>    No you can't...

    Oh great.  We have another BOX mind-reader.  Don't give up your day job,
    your mind-reading skills need a lot of honing.  
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1480ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Nov 27 1995 21:018
    re: .1471 (and .1464)
    
    
    >....because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
    
    Please show where I have "insisted" on this.
    
    Another red herring.  Or perhaps a red strawfish? 
323.1481BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 21:1734
| <<< Note 323.1479 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| but I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get a negative 
| gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.

	Notice how you said heterosexual men? Common default. Men tend to have
a bigger problem with it than women. Has to do with a masculinity thing with a
lot of them.

| That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.  

	To not lie, and be themselves is their fault? And you say you're
fighting for morals? 

| This would be a non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their 
| agenda into law.  

	You keep saying that there are laws to protect everyone, period. No
need for any of these "special" laws. What you ALWAYS fail to address is that
the laws have loopholes, and when they are found, people try to close them up.
If there were no loopholes, then no group, regardless of who they were, would
bother. 

| However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the
| example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride parade), 

	Here you go again! You only see what you want to see. You don't see the
parents who are there, you don't see the schools, the companies, etc, you only
see what you view is bad. You see just as much flesh at a public beach for
pete's sake. And that's ALL you generally see there. Go to a Pride parade and
report back.

Glen
323.1482BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Nov 27 1995 21:2119
| <<< Note 323.1480 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Please show where I have "insisted" on this.

	Your notes are quite evident of that Steve. When you say it is the gays
fault for anything, that is saying they should have complied and stayed in the
closet. If someone gets bashed, and all they have done is say they were gay,
the only fault it is is the person who did the bashing. For you to even give
any creedance to it being the gay person's fault, it saying what Joan had
commented on (and I agreed with). It would be the same if someone was walking
down the street claiming to be religious, and someone bashed them. It is the
bashers fault, not the bashee.

| Another red herring.  Or perhaps a red strawfish?

	No, another blind spot you have.


Glen
323.1483I'm glad your brother-in-law is better now.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Nov 27 1995 21:5324
    RE: .1467  Glen Silva

    / They had many misconceptions about gays, and when those misconceptions 
    / were cleared up, they could accept me for being me. My brother inlaw was 
    / the worst person that I had to deal with. He wouldn't even shake my hand.
    / Now he is pretty cool with it. Real cool. 

    Do you watch NYPD Blue?  They've done a good job of showing people
    grow to accept an openly gay male character - and one of the defining
    moments of being 'accepted' was that one of the main male characters
    was willing to shake his hand in various situations.

    I noticed it because when a cop came along who was a mega-jerk, the 
    main characters in the show wouldn't shake this guy's hand at all.
    Some seemed to treat the gay co-worker the same way at first, until
    they got to know him.  This character did so well on the show that
    he's now a permanent character with a small role.  They wrote it into
    the storyline that he went from the temp job to a permanent job on
    another floor in the building.

    NYPD Blue doesn't sugarcoat how gays are often treated, though.  Some 
    people still gossip when they find out (or believe) someone is gay on 
    the show.  I think it's good that they deal with the subject in an open
    way.
323.1484BUSY::SLABOUNTYTwisted forever, forever twisted.Mon Nov 27 1995 22:125
    
    	Shaking a gay's hand?
    
    	Isn't that a good way to catch something terminal?
    
323.1485BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Nov 27 1995 22:1545
    RE: .1479  Steve Leech

    / My choice in this matter is to fight *for* what few current moral 
    / standards are left in this nation.  You confuse this with something 
    / personal against gay people- which is not true at all.                  

    When gays are fired for being gay or beaten up for being gay, it's
    personal.  The gay rights movement was created to stop these kinds
    of injustices - so when you fight the gay rights movement, you're
    fighting against those who are trying to end up-close-and-personal
    injustices that gay people have experienced for being gay.

    // To make it sound like the weather is to absolve the participants of 
    // any responsibility for their actions.  They don't *have* to react 
    // negatively to gays, they *choose* to.  You write it as though gays 
    // had no-one else to blame but themselves.

    / That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.  This would be a
    / non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
    / into law. 

    The gay rights movement started AFTER the negative reactions (including
    being fired and/or beaten up for being gay.)

    Whether the gay rights movement tries to push legislation or simply
    improve public awareness of homophobia, the goal is the same:  they are 
    trying to stop the discrimination and injustices against homosexuals.

    If people hadn't treated gays so badly in the first place, there would
    have been no need to create a gay rights movement.

    The more you fight against gay rights, the harder the gay rights movement
    will need to fight you back.  Everyone who fights against gay rights
    proves why the gay rights movement was needed in the first place.

    If all those who fight against homosexuality simply said "OK, it's over.
    We aren't going to fight it anymore.  Some people are born gay and we
    don't intend to give anyone grief about it anymore" - the gay rights 
    movement would have nothing much left to do.

    Those who are born gay would be gay without nearly as much anxiety
    about it, and those who are not born gay could go on with their lives
    without some people obsessing about what gay people do in their bedrooms.

    Our country would be a lot better off if this were possible.
323.1486re 323.1484GIDDAY::BURTDPD (tm)Mon Nov 27 1995 22:155
Monitor that!


\C    

323.1487SUBPAC::SADINFreedom isn't free.Mon Nov 27 1995 22:416
    
    	re: .1484
    
    	nice...:*\
    
    
323.1488CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Nov 28 1995 01:3816
>    Do you watch NYPD Blue?  They've done a good job of showing people
>    grow to accept an openly gay male character - and one of the defining
>    moments of being 'accepted' was that one of the main male characters
>    was willing to shake his hand in various situations.


    Fortunately, these TV programs are for entertainment however, and not
    to educate the ignorant massses..






    Jim
323.1489BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 09:2921
            <<< Note 323.1477 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    I realize your intent, Jim.  I was merely showing the problems inherant
>    with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
>    generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
 
	There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
	of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.

	Now whether GLBs make a "choice", as you appear to believe, or if
	they have no choice about their orientation, as I beleive, matters
	little. The CRA covers both situations already. This merely puts
	an end to the "choice vs. predisposition" argument when discussing
	the law.

>    You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.  
 
	You keep dancing around this one, why not come right out and tell
	us what you mean so that we may laugh at you.

Jim
323.1490BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 09:3824
            <<< Note 323.1479 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.  This would be a
>    non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
>    into law.

Steve,	Was is the fault of Blacks that they were lynched? That civil rights
	workers were murdered? That 3 little girls were burned to death in
	a church? Was Dr. King to blame for his own murder?

	Do you have ANY idea how you sound? Do you have ANY idea how similar
	your argument is to those that fought relentlessly against the
	recognition of racial civil rights in the law?

>    It's reality.  Get used to it.  Crying to daddy government will do
>    NOTHING to change matters- regardless of how much legislation can get
>    forced through (and the more you push, the more push-back you will end
>    up receiving).  
 
	Oh it caqn and does work. It's not perfect by any means, but you
	can not argue that the civil rights laws passed in the last 30 years
	have not had a positive effect on the situation for racial minorities.

Jim
323.1491BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 11:557
| <<< Note 323.1484 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Twisted forever, forever twisted." >>>


| Shaking a gay's hand?
| Isn't that a good way to catch something terminal?

	Nah.... that's only if you shake his hard drive... ;-)
323.1492Columbus snarf!!!BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 11:587
| <<< Note 323.1488 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>


| Fortunately, these TV programs are for entertainment however, and not
| to educate the ignorant massses..

	Sometimes, they do both.
323.1493TROOA::COLLINSThe manual is pure fiction.Tue Nov 28 1995 12:2587
    .1479
    
    >...I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
    >a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
    
    The human mind normally permits higher reasoning, even if the ability is 
    not often utilized.  I choose to encourage this ability.

    >You confuse this with something personal against gay people- which is 
    >not true at all.
    
    You never answered my question: It's personal to Glen, not me.  What is 
    it to you?  Why do YOU, PERSONALLY, oppose them?

    >Negative reactions are a GIVEN.  Period.

    With people continuing to insist that homosexuality is a "problem", I
    can see how these reactions are *sustained*, but they are NOT a given.
    To just dismiss these reactions as a "given" is a moral failure, IMHO.
    
    >That said; yes, in a way it is the fault of the gays.  This would be a
    >non-issue if gay activist groups would not try to force their agenda
    >into law.

    In a way, in-your-face homosexuality is a fault of the religious right.
    This would be a non-issue if religious groups would not try to force
    gays to remain in the closet.
    
    >It's reality.  Get used to it.

    Yeah, just accept it (right or wrong).

    >Crying to daddy government will do NOTHING to change matters-

    Why not, if they get the legislation they are looking for?

    >(and the more you push, the more push-back you will end up receiving).

    ...and the more you push back, the more in-your-face they will be...  
    
    >However, being a good example of a gay/lesbian citizen (rather than the 
    >example set by the most public of gay groups- like in the Gay Pride
    >parade), showing good character and a caring attitude towards your fellow
    >man, would do a lot to help people understand and acknowledge that you 
    >are not like what they see on TV- but a responsible, intelligent person.
    
    Steve, I live in the HEART of gay Toronto, and my neighbours are GREAT
    examples of gay/lesbian citizens.  They show better character and a more
    caring attitude towards their fellow citizens than most "Christians" I 
    know.  Why do you write the above as if it's such an unlikely thing that
    gays might be responsible and intelligent?
       
    >I'm not arguing this at all.  Please read what I type in.
    >I'm saying the choice is *theirs*, but to not whine when they get
    >negative reactions.

    The effect is the same: "They've no-one to blame but themselves."  If
    you argued with as much conviction against the *negative reactions*, I
    might be more convinced of your sincerity. 
      
    >Oh great.  We have another BOX mind-reader.  Don't give up your day job,
    >your mind-reading skills need a lot of honing.

    Sorry, Steve, but as long as you promote the idea that gays should not
    be seen or heard, you DO have a problem living with them.  
    
    .1480

    >>....because you insist upon invisibility and compliance.
    >
    >Please show where I have "insisted" on this.

    Your position is clear, Steve.  From 323.1441:
    
    >As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.  It
    >would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
    >as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
                      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    >involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.  
                                ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    >If I secretly liked little girls in a sexual way, you can bet I would
    >not be crowing about it, and demanding that my lifestyle be accepted. 
    >I know good and well that society deems such relations as immoral, and
    >I have no right to try and force them to accept it via legislation.
            ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

323.1494ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 12:2721
    re: .1481  & .1482
    
    I guess reading for comprehension (rather than reading your bias into
    what is typed in) is out of the question.
    
    Oh well, I didn't really expect anything different, but it would have
    been nice.  If you decide to address what I have said, rather than what
    you read into it, I will be happy to continue this discussion with you. 
    I will NOT continually repeat that which I've clearly stated
    previously, nor will I continually jump in to defend myself from things
    I have not said.
    
    I notice in your .1482, that you did NOT show me where I have "insisted" 
    that gays stay in the closet, but default to "your notes are quite evident
    of that"- which completely ignores my request that you SHOW me where I
    have specifically said this.  This is most telling to me, and shows me
    that I would only further waste my time by responding to this note.
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1495GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Nov 28 1995 12:3211
    
    
    Joan,
    
    Nice novel.......
    
    
    Actually, the religious right is against hetero's showing affection in
    public as well (I think).  
    
    Mike
323.1496TROOA::COLLINSThe manual is pure fiction.Tue Nov 28 1995 12:353
    
    I calls 'em as I sees 'em, Mike.
    
323.1497ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 12:4962
    re: .1485
    
    / My choice in this matter is to fight *for* what few current moral 
    / standards are left in this nation.  You confuse this with something 
    / personal against gay people- which is not true at all.                  
    
>    When gays are fired for being gay or beaten up for being gay, it's
>    personal.  
    
    Irrelevent to my point.  *I* do not do these things, nor do I condone
    them (as I have said previously).  The point was quite clear, that I do
    not have a personal agenda against gay people simply because I fight 
    against certain aspects of the gay agenda.  You have not been
    able to seperate these issues (and you are not alone, it would seem).
    
>    The gay rights movement was created to stop these kinds
>    of injustices - so when you fight the gay rights movement, you're
>    fighting against those who are trying to end up-close-and-personal
>    injustices that gay people have experienced for being gay.

    Not true.  There are certain aspects of the movement that I do support. 
    However, the movement in general seems to be more of a political
    juggernaught to change the social structure (and moral outlook) of
    society.  It is this that I object to.
    
>    The more you fight against gay rights, the harder the gay rights movement
>    will need to fight you back.  Everyone who fights against gay rights
>    proves why the gay rights movement was needed in the first place.

    Rather black and white world view you have there.  You either agree
    with the movement, or you are proof as to why it started?  Of course,
    the gay rights movement couldn't be going too far...nah, could've be
    that.
    
>    If all those who fight against homosexuality simply said "OK, it's over.
>    We aren't going to fight it anymore.  Some people are born gay and we
>    don't intend to give anyone grief about it anymore" - the gay rights 
>    movement would have nothing much left to do.

    I don't give anyone grief about being gay now.  I do give them grief
    when they push to change accepted social standards to fit their
    lifestyle.
    
>    Those who are born gay would be gay without nearly as much anxiety
>    about it, and those who are not born gay could go on with their lives
>    without some people obsessing about what gay people do in their bedrooms.

    I used my little strawman phrase too soon, I see.  This is a bigger red
    herring than the "race" argument a while back.  
    
    I don't care what people do in their bedrooms...never have.  I do care
    when they try and gain acceptance via legislation for relations that go
    against current moral standards, though.  This is another thing you
    seem incapable of separating.  For you, my resistence to the gay rights
    movement seems to be equated with being obsessed by what gay folks do
    in their bedrooms- which is not only beside the point, but is plain
    silly.  For the record, it is the gay rights movement who is bringing 
    their sexuality into public scrutiny- demanding acceptance for 
    a lifestyle that most Americans still find repugnant.  
    
    
    -steve
323.1498BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 12:5536
| <<< Note 323.1494 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| I guess reading for comprehension (rather than reading your bias into
| what is typed in) is out of the question.

	Steve, you seem to say this to a lot of people in here. Is it our
reading comprehension or is it maybe that what you are trying to say isn't
quite coming out the way you want it to? Something to think about seeing you've
said this so many times to people in this string.

| Oh well, I didn't really expect anything different, but it would have been 
| nice.  

	Reread the above, Steve.

| I notice in your .1482, that you did NOT show me where I have "insisted"
| that gays stay in the closet, but default to "your notes are quite evident
| of that"- which completely ignores my request that you SHOW me where I
| have specifically said this.  

	Steve, if you blame gays for what happens to them in the slightest way,
you are advocating just that. Gays are not at fault for the beatings they may
have had just because they are gay. Gays are not responsible for being denied
or kicked out of housing because they are gay. But you seem to hold some of the
fault towards the gays themselves. I suppose the people doing the harm
shouldn't take responsibility for their own actions, right? 

	And you still ignore the whole marriage thing. You say gays CAN marry.
But under the definition of marriage that most Christians seem to support, can
a gays marry a person of the opposite sex and have it be the kind of love that
is needed? 



Glen
323.1499BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 12:5712
| <<< Note 323.1497 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| I don't care what people do in their bedrooms...never have.  I do care
| when they try and gain acceptance via legislation for relations that go
| against current moral standards, though.  This is another thing you
| seem incapable of separating.  

	Steve, you know what would help us understand this more? Would you stop
complaining if the moral standard favored gays? 


323.1500BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 12:581
snarf!
323.1501ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 13:1549
    re: .1489
    
>>    I realize your intent, Jim.  I was merely showing the problems inherant
>>    with trying to use equate religion (specific and exclusive) with a more
>>    generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
 
>	There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
>	of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.

    Right.  Religion- whether you view it as a lifestyle or not- is
    protected under the CRA.  I think it is an obfuscation to try and use
    "lifestyle" and "choice" to expand upon this current protection,
    however.  You said it yourself, above, "that choice is VERY
    SPECIFICALLY protected". 
    
    The point of contention has nothing to do with "lifestyle" nor
    "choice", but with that which is specifically protected (for specific
    reasons).  
    
>	Now whether GLBs make a "choice", as you appear to believe, or if
>	they have no choice about their orientation, as I beleive, matters
>	little. The CRA covers both situations already. This merely puts
>	an end to the "choice vs. predisposition" argument when discussing
>	the law.

    Whether sexual orientation is a choice or not is irrelevent to any
    point I've brought up in this string.  As far as the CRA is concerned,
    it does not protect "lifestyle" as you seem to imply.  It protects
    "religion" specifically.  It matters not whether you or I agree that a
    given religion can be a "lifestyle".  In order for the CRA to protect
    homosexual lifestyles, "sexual orientation" would have to be added to
    the document's list of protections.
    
>>    You'd open a big legal can of worms by doing this.  
 
>	You keep dancing around this one, why not come right out and tell
>	us what you mean so that we may laugh at you.

    I haven't danced around anything.  What I see as future possibilities
    in law due to silly expansive readings of the CRA is irrelevent to the
    current discussion.  I do not want to needlessly rathole this
    discussion with what I see as "possibilities".  
    
    Of course, your above comments doesn't do much to promt me to
    take any time to respond.  You have already determined your reaction,
    so I would consider any time spent typing in my ideas would be wasted.
    
    
    -steve 
323.1502ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 13:3020
    re: .1490
    
    You've extracted one snippet of my note without surrounding context
    (not to mention out of context of the ideas I've been trying to get
    across in this string).
    
    The whole idea behind that snippet was that "when you push, folks will
    push back".  This is historically accurate, as you have pointed out. 
    [And as with any cultural movement/war, there are always innocent
    casualties].
    
    Not only do you take my snippet out of context, but you use
    emotionalism to villify me.  You equate my suggestion that by
    pushing for X there will be reaction from Y, to blaming 3 little girls
    for being burned to death.  This is completely unfair, and
    misrepresents my position completely.
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1503TROOA::COLLINSRobobar: The Future Of HospitalityTue Nov 28 1995 14:1811
    .1497
    
    >Irrelevent to my point.  *I* do not do these things, nor do I condone
    >them (as I have said previously).

    You may not discriminate against gays (this is assuming you are in a
    position to do so in a way that would affect them), but if you oppose
    adding sexual orientation to the CRA, then you support the *right* of 
    others to do so.  That IS condoning (according to Webster's).

323.1504ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 14:20112
    re: .1493
    
>    >...I'd be willing to bet that most heterosexual men would get
>    >a negative gut-reaction if they saw two men french kissing in public.
    
>    The human mind normally permits higher reasoning, even if the ability is 
>    not often utilized.  I choose to encourage this ability.

    You are making a moral judgement here.  You are saying that the
    negative gut-reaction is wrong.  I disagree.  I think there is reason
    for it being there to begin with.  
    
    I do agree with you that higher reasoning should be utilized, that such
    a gut-reaction does not turn into bashing or unfair treatment.
    
>    You never answered my question: It's personal to Glen, not me.  What is 
>    it to you?  Why do YOU, PERSONALLY, oppose them?

    I did answer you, but apparently you have ignored my answer.  In fact,
    I've answered this question over and over and over again- in nearly
    every note I've posted in this string.  
    
    Your use of "them" above has to refer to "homsexual activists" to be an
    answerable question, since this is the only "them" that I resist- and
    then not on every front.
    
>    >Negative reactions are a GIVEN.  Period.

>    With people continuing to insist that homosexuality is a "problem", I
>    can see how these reactions are *sustained*, but they are NOT a given.
    
    Hello?  Reality check time.  It is a given.  It is a fact.  Right or
    wrong, this is reality in America today. 
    
>    To just dismiss these reactions as a "given" is a moral failure, IMHO.
 
    I'm not dismissing anything.  I am bluntly stating the obvious.
    I've not said that negative reactions- outside that of what one thinks
    about a given relationship- is good.
       
>    In a way, in-your-face homosexuality is a fault of the religious right.
>    This would be a non-issue if religious groups would not try to force
>    gays to remain in the closet.
 
    There is truth to this, as well, though I do not see a concerted effort
    to try and force gays to remain in the closet.  You seem to think that
    any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle, can be equated to
    trying to force gays to stay in the closet.  I disagree completely.
       
>    >It's reality.  Get used to it.

>    Yeah, just accept it (right or wrong).

    I didn't say accept it.  I said simply and bluntly that this is
    reality.  Making changes in society is never as neat and clean as one
    would hope.
    
>    >Crying to daddy government will do NOTHING to change matters-

>    Why not, if they get the legislation they are looking for?

    This will not change the way people feel about such relations.  I see
    the most fundamental part of the gay movement as trying to force
    society to accept these kinds of relations, and legislation will not
    accomplish this.  They want acceptance, and they want society to see
    such relations as equally moral to het. marriages.  This will not
    happen wholesale anytime soon, and will never be accepted as moral by a
    good segment of the population.
        
>    Why do you write the above as if it's such an unlikely thing that
>    gays might be responsible and intelligent?
 
    I did not, that is simply what you read into it.  I think the majority
    of gays are probably upstanding citizens.  Trouble is, the most vocal
    and visible gays that *I* see (and probably most of America sees) is
    not representative.  In order to offset this bad publicity, you need to
    be above reproach in your own life- setting the best of examples for
    those around you to see.  This is the best way to gain acceptance and
    respect.
    
    This is no different than being demonized as a Chrstian because of
    the failings of highly visible Christian leaders (a few televangelists
    fit this bill).  In order to overcome such public adversity, I, as a
    Christian, must be above reproach in my personal and public life. 
     
>    Sorry, Steve, but as long as you promote the idea that gays should not
>    be seen or heard, you DO have a problem living with them.  
 
    You are reading too much into my notes.  
      
>    Your position is clear, Steve.  From 323.1441:
    
>    >As far as carrying no price tag, it would not *if no one knew*.  It
>    >would seem that since a vast majority still deem homosexual relations
>    >as immoral, that it would be best (at least at this time) for those
                      ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
>    >involved in such relations to keep quiet about it.  
                                ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
    
    "Best" does not equate to "insisting" that homosexuals stay in the
    closet.  I don't care, personally, and I've said as much previously. 
    I've said over and over that the choice is *theirs*, I do not insist on
    which choice that they make, only commenting on what I think would be the
    path of least resistence for them.
    
    Continuing to try and force-fit such a position on me is only
    deflecting from the issues I am bringing up.  MY position (and even the
    position that you feel I take) is IRRELEVENT to the points I have tried
    to bring up in this string, in any case.  
    
    
    -steve
323.1505ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 14:247
    re: .1498
    
    I think you have me confused with someone else.  I have never said
    "gays CAN marry".
    
    
    -steve
323.1506BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 15:1015
| <<< Note 323.1505 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| I think you have me confused with someone else.  I have never said
| "gays CAN marry".

	I could have sworn it was you who stated that under the laws we have
now, gays CAN marry. So there is no law needed for gays to marry other gays,
cuz gays can marry now. You're one who is usually looking at those things
trying to point out that other laws aren't needed, so I had thought it came
from you. I'll look to see who did.

	But that aside, do you hold the above condition to be true?


Glen
323.1507BUSY::SLABOUNTYWhiplash!Tue Nov 28 1995 15:194
    
    	I think the statement was "The Constitution doesn't forbid it,
    	but the states would have to OK it individually".
    
323.1508CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 15:2251
                  <<< Note 323.1474 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

> been trying to paint homosexuals as some sick people, PERIOD. 
    
    	Nope.  Just some of the things they do are sick.
    
> When you find out what has been said about him is true, ...
    
    	And when did you find this out?  So far you just have the say-so
    	of those who said the things about him.  You still can't see the
    	double standard, can you...
    
.956>| >	Joe, it is impossible to comment until I see the books themselves. I am
>| > in the process of getting both of them Will respond real soon.
>
>	Nope, I was in the process of getting them. I had sent mail out to a
>.dis list and asked about both. One was handed to me. The other, no one had.
>
>| You said "I *am in the process of*".  Not, "I am planning to" or anything 
>| non-committal like that.  
>
>	Please reread the above.
    
    	OK.  In .959 you said:
    
>
>	I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will. 
    
    	So was THAT a lie?
    
    	Again, I'm reall not intending to hold you to this.  I'm just
    	pointing out the double standards that you so readily use.
    
>	No, they are not. You convienently left off the reasons behind the
>latter. I saw the CFV do that with the Hart book stuff. I guess that could be
>one place you get that from, as you do it quite often. Go back and read.
    
    	Your reasons for accepting the outing of those who don't want to
    	be outed are mererly justifications in your mind.  It's wrong
    	whether or not you convince yourself to the contrary.  And that's
    	why the two statements are contradictory and why I did not need
    	to consider your logic gymnastics.  You've done no less with bible 
    	teachings regarding homosexual behavior too.  Wrong is wrong and
    	connot be changed by human rationalization (except in the minds of 
    	those humans who fall victim to it.)
    
>	And you're here on a Monday? 

    	Nope.  And I noticed you asked me something about this elsewhere
    	too.  Modems are a wonderful technology.  You should try one 
    	sometime.
323.1509TROOA::COLLINSRobobar: The Future Of HospitalityTue Nov 28 1995 15:2569
    .1504

    >You are making a moral judgement here.

    :^) :^) :^) :^)   I'm not the only one, Steve. 

    >You are saying that the negative gut-reaction is wrong.

    Yes.  Yes I am.

    >I think there is reason for it being there to begin with.  
    
    A reason, yes.  A *good* reason, no.

    >Your use of "them" above has to refer to "homsexual activists" to be an
    >answerable question, since this is the only "them" that I resist...

    So, while you do not "insist" that gays remain in the closet, you *will*
    resist them if they seek a more equitable status.
    
    >Hello?  Reality check time.  It is a given.  It is a fact.

    Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
    blacks.  But that changed, as people refused to accept it as a "given",
    as people exercised the moral courage to fight that "given".

    >You seem to think that any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle,
    >can be equated to trying to force gays to stay in the closet.
     
    Lack of public acceptance will have the effect of coercing some gays to
    remain in the closet, and will make life difficult for those who do not.
    The end speaks volumes about the means.
  
    >I didn't say accept it. 

    But you *will* "resist" their actions if they don't accept it.
    
    >This will not change the way people feel about such relations.

    However, standing up and saying "Such relations are okay.  I *accept*
    such relations." might change the way people feel.  Saying "Society
    should not accept such relations" perpetuates the problem.

    >This is no different than being demonized as a Chrstian because of
    >the failings of highly visible Christian leaders...

    Ahhh.  Bugs you, doesn't it?  To be lumped in with Benny Hinn or
    Jack Van Impe or Jack Bakker or Jerry Falwell.  So why do you think
    it bugs gays any less, to be judged along with Nerf ball murderers
    or practitioners of fisting?
     
    >"Best" does not equate to "insisting" that homosexuals stay in the
    >closet.

    No, you are right.  "Insist" may have been a poorly-chosen word, but
    your position is still clear: gays are better off in the closet.  
    Whatever happens if they come out is their own fault, as it was *their*
    choice to come out.
    
    >Continuing to try and force-fit such a position on me...
    
    You call it "force-fit[ting]".  I say that we're not fooled by the
    surgical use of language.  "I have no problem with gays, it's the 
    *behaviour* that I find repugnant, it's the *lifstyle* I won't accept,
    it's the *agenda* I will oppose" is a bogus rationalization.  They are
    as intertwined as crime and criminal.  No crime?  No criminal.  No
    criminal?  No crime.
    
323.1510CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 15:268
                  <<< Note 323.1476 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>
    
>	Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple. 
    
    	So?  So has homosexual behavior, but not by people you believe in
    	so you don't accept it.  What's plain and simple is that you show
    	your stripes in who you will accept without question and who you
    	question at the expense of the real issues.
323.1511And who is doing the church desecrations today?CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 15:4942
   <<< Note 323.1490 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>Steve,	Was is the fault of Blacks that they were lynched? That civil rights
>	workers were murdered? That 3 little girls were burned to death in
>	a church? Was Dr. King to blame for his own murder?
    
    	Spare us the hysterics.  
    
    	I find it curious that you bring up that era, for it perfectly 
    	demonstrates what Steve is saying.  In times past, all sorts of
    	minorities, groups, and individuals knew when it was inappropriate 
    	to express -- even more, to celebrate -- what it was that made
    	them identifiable.  Right or wrong, there ARE sentiments against
    	people and groups, and it is not wise to flaunt that identity in
    	the face of opposing sentiment.  Blacks wisely low-keyed their
    	differences during the era you point out because of sentiment
    	against them -- wrong as it was.  People of given religions in
    	certain societies must downplay their overt expression of their
    	faith because of custom and social sentiment.  Alcoholics will
    	never be wise to highlight their disposition except in a social
    	setting that encourages it (like an AA meeting.)  Many read-only
    	noters do not participate here because of the backlash they
    	fear their participation will generate in this social setting.
    
    	And what Steve is saying is that in today's greater social 
    	environment, overt homosexual expression will generate a response.
    	Those expressing it must be prepared for whatever response it
    	generates, and to expect and even DEMAND some different response
    	is totally unreasonable.  Things just don't change that rapidly
    	to expect something so different.
    
    	So it comes down to exacting that evolution in society's outlook.
    	People like you, Jim, are pushing for change in one direction, and
    	people like me are pushing for change in an opposite direction.
    
>	Do you have ANY idea how you sound? Do you have ANY idea how similar
>	your argument is to those that fought relentlessly against the
>	recognition of racial civil rights in the law?
    
    	Do you have any idea how much the black community resents the
    	gay agenda trying to associate itself with the struggles that
    	their heritage has faced?
323.1512BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 16:0157
| <<< Note 323.1508 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>



| Nope.  Just some of the things they do are sick.

	Like what?

| And when did you find this out? So far you just have the say-so of those who 
| said the things about him. You still can't see the double standard, can you...

	I see it clearly, Joe. But I really had to see if you thought what the
CFV said was fact, or just say-so. Now that I know how you view it..... 

	You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
back, at how wrong we are because of them. You weren't touting them off as
say-so, but as gold. Then you state that you did not want the source listed, as
the content would be dismissed. But guess what? It wasn't. Now you refuse to
address the facts that were presented. Why can't you comment on the CFV taking
things out of context? Or if you feel they haven't, why can't you show us how
that is possible? You're in here all the time touting off these things, but now
all of a sudden you can't defend them? You can certainly write new notes, but
you can't defend what you write? Come on. 

| >	I may not even have to buy them...... but if I need to, I will.

| So was THAT a lie?

	I guess if I do not go out and get it, the above will become just that.
I have no intentions on getting this book now. After the CFV distorted the Hart
book, and your refusal to answer to it, why bother?

| Your reasons for accepting the outing of those who don't want to be outed are 
| mererly justifications in your mind.  

	Ahhh.... now you are analyzing my mind now. You lose here, Joe.

| It's wrong whether or not you convince yourself to the contrary.  

	No..... if one is not ready, but does, then it is not wrong. If one is
not ready, and is forced, then it is wrong. 

| You've done no less with bible teachings regarding homosexual behavior too.  

	Nah....the Bible does that.

| Nope. And I noticed you asked me something about this elsewhere too. Modems 
| are a wonderful technology. You should try one sometime.

	Actually, the reason I asked is you say you don't work on Mondays, and
so you don't respond to anything until Tuesday. And then you do that once you
got caught up from Monday. Yet all this time you have had a modem, but painted
a picture that you can't respond until you're in work. Uh huh....



Glen
323.1513CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 16:0822
   <<< Note 323.1489 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    generic "lifestyle choice" within the Civil Rights Act.
> 
>	There is no problem. Your lifestyle, as a Christian, is a matter
>	of choice. That choice is very specifically protected by the CRA.
    
    	Not all religious practices are covered by CRA.  Holding one's
    	faith is so protected, but we've sees many examples of 'lifestyle'
    	or practices that have been denied to individuals.
    
    	But I'm sure you're aware that the constitution specifically 
    	protects that choice, and for a very good reason.  That 'choice'
    	was a founding principle of this nation.  It was so important
    	that the founders saw fit to specifically include it in the
    	constitution.  Ideally religion shouldn't have to be included
    	in the CRA.  It is only there as protection against those who
    	want to undermine what is already constitutionally protected.
    
    	Certain other lifestyle choices are inherently contradictory to
    	the vast majority of religions that are supposed to be protected
    	by the CRA, and it verges on insult to place them side by side.
323.1514BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 16:0928
| <<< Note 323.1510 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| >	Err....Cameron has been denounced. Plain and simple.

| So?  So has homosexual behavior, but not by people you believe in so you don't
| accept it.  

	One (Cameron) is based on realities, while homosexuality is not. Pretty
simple. Look at what the APA said about homosexuality. It's in the gay topic, I
believe. It also goes against what you think about homosexuality.

| What's plain and simple is that you show your stripes in who you will accept 
| without question and who you question at the expense of the real issues.

	It's a fact that he was thrown out of the APA. You even stated that
Cameron said he quit before he was tossed. So you know what was going on. But
the APA is funny. They don't allow members to quit while they are being
investigated, which is what Cameron did. Their investigation got him kicked
out.

	And the 2nd posting I put in about Cameron had many listings to back it
all up. Hell, you could even send mail to Dr. Groth and ask him about Cameron
if you'd like. 



Glen
323.1515NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Nov 28 1995 16:132
Glen, once upon a time the APA said that homosexuality is a disorder.
Now they say it's not.  Why do you think their word is fact?
323.1516BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 16:1515
| <<< Note 323.1515 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>


| Glen, once upon a time the APA said that homosexuality is a disorder.
| Now they say it's not.  Why do you think their word is fact?


	Because through their trials and errors of trying to correct
homosexuality (electric shock therapy, etc), they found that it was not
a mental disorder. So when they say it, they have the past to show them 
what they say is true.



Glen
323.1517CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 16:2233
                  <<< Note 323.1512 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
> back, at how wrong we are because of them. 
    
    	I listed them.  Once.  Period.
    
    	Who has been doing the rambling?
    
    	And the stats that you have decided are the whole issue were
    	merely a small part of a larger preponderance of support showing
    	that one particular lifestyle is riskier than another.  Quotes
    	from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White.  After that the
    	issue of the Red Cross was raised.  And the issue of the increased
    	exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex.  Focusing on a
    	limited set of questionable statistics at the expense of the real
    	issue for the sake of making public debating points is nothing
    	short of sticking one's head in the sand.
    
>	Actually, the reason I asked is you say you don't work on Mondays, and
>so you don't respond to anything until Tuesday. 
    
    	This seems like a rather desperate straw...  Of course, if you	
    	read for comprehension (boy, a lot of people are telling you 
    	this lately) you would know what I said.  I can refresh you:
    
.998>>	Where did you get these numbers, Joe? 
>    
>    	Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here.  I'll be 
>    	back to work on Tuesday.  Remind me.
    
    	The fact that that entry was made on a Sunday might have given
    	you a clue that I sometimes write here from home too.
323.1518BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansTue Nov 28 1995 16:2413
    RE: .1512  Glen

    Joe // Nope.  Just some of the things they do are sick.

    / Like what?

    Like what, indeed.  I've never heard of a single sexual act done
    by some gays that isn't also done by some heterosexuals.

    What consenting adults choose to do in their private love lives
    isn't anyone else's business.  Why do you suppose some folks go
    to such lengths to speculate as to how 'sick' another person's
    private love life might be?
323.1519CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 16:256
    	re .1516
    
    	ANd what's to say that further research might encourage them
    	to change their position yet again?  After all, they've been
    	wrong in the past.  How do we know that they really have it
    	right now?
323.1520CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 16:268
         <<< Note 323.1518 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>

>    Like what, indeed.  I've never heard of a single sexual act done
>    by some gays that isn't also done by some heterosexuals.

    	And this has already been answered, many times already, with:
    
    	"Pigs is pigs."
323.1521BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansTue Nov 28 1995 16:296
    RE: .1520  Joe Oppelt
    
    Well, then, you agree that heterosexuals do things you regard
    as 'sick'.
    
    Thank you.
323.1522CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 28 1995 16:3134
    Joe,
    
    You are right, some people should just know where their place is and
    keep quiet.  A police force in Philadelphia recently demonstrated how 
    dangerous it is for a black to drive a new luxury vehicle, even when
    you can afford it.  
    
    DEA currier profiles demonstrate how dangerous it is to be black or
    hispanic and have cash or a rental car.  The ACLU still has to help
    quash insisting that certain peoples have to act or look a certain way,
    or they must have criminal intent.  
    
    Cracker Barrell demonstrated that it is not good to look or act
    androgenous.  The people they fired's only real sin was to look "femme"
    or "butch" or to have someone say they looked or acted gay.  
    
    Several people in this state were murdered and injured by a man who
    walked into a bar with an (illegal) automatic weapon and the murderer 
    got away with 10 months on a firewarms charge  because these people
    didn't fit a societal norm.  (Goddess only know what those bikers were
    planning, another toy run?)
    
    You are right, hippies, blacks, hispanics, and anyone who isn't white
    and middle class appearing with their 2.37 children have no business
    acting like they are a part or society and asking to take part.  Rosa
    Parks should have moved when asked, people shouldn't have asked to be
    served at the lunch counters when they were permitted to work in back
    as cooks and dishwashers, people should never demonstrate, no matter
    how just they feel their cause is.  
    
    Guess I won't see you on Satuday mornings on my end of town anymore,
    right?
    
    meg
323.1523BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 16:4327
            <<< Note 323.1501 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Whether sexual orientation is a choice or not is irrelevent to any
>    point I've brought up in this string.  As far as the CRA is concerned,
>    it does not protect "lifestyle" as you seem to imply.  It protects
>    "religion" specifically. 

	"Religion" being a lifestyle choice. It is certainly not a 
	genetic predisposition.

>    I haven't danced around anything.  What I see as future possibilities
>    in law due to silly expansive readings of the CRA is irrelevent to the
>    current discussion.  I do not want to needlessly rathole this
>    discussion with what I see as "possibilities".  
 
	Then why do you keep bringing it up in such an oblique manner?

>    Of course, your above comments doesn't do much to promt me to
>    take any time to respond.  You have already determined your reaction,
>    so I would consider any time spent typing in my ideas would be wasted.
 
	I must admit that I am making certain assumptions about what
	"possibilities" you are concerned about. You can correct any
	misconceptions on my part by being more specific, or you can
	drop this line of argument. Your choice.

Jim
323.1524BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 16:4613
            <<< Note 323.1502 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    You've extracted one snippet of my note without surrounding context
>    (not to mention out of context of the ideas I've been trying to get
>    across in this string).
 
	I extracted an ill-concieved statement made by you that assigned
	blame to the victims.

	I merely wanted to know if your statement applied to all minorities
	that "pushed" for equal treatment under the law.

Jim
323.1525BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 16:5514
          <<< Note 323.1511 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	I find it curious that you bring up that era, for it perfectly 
>    	demonstrates what Steve is saying. 

	So then you admit that the views expressed by you and Steve	
	ARE, in fact, bigotry akin to the type that Blacks were
	subject to in the 50s and 60s.

	Well, I guess the first process point in changing your views
	is the realization that those views need changing. Good luck
	on the rest of the process.

Jim
323.1526BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 16:5912
          <<< Note 323.1513 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>Ideally religion shouldn't have to be included
>    	in the CRA.  It is only there as protection against those who
>    	want to undermine what is already constitutionally protected.
 
	Ideally, the CRA would have been unneccessary. The fact that
	specific statuatory protections were required for certain
	groups does show us that relying on the Constitution to
	protect individual civil rights is not a viable option.

Jim
323.1527See the differences.GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Nov 28 1995 17:0010
    
      Let's clarify it :  race, we assume, is inate, at least for the
     individual.  religion certainly isn't - in fact, conversion is the
     goal of many religions and belief systems, from Islam to the Commies
     or the Baptists.  We treat these two things quite differently -
     there is no "separation of race and state" doctrine.  Sexuality
     is in-between on this co-ordinate axis, more innate than beliefs,
     but less than race.  Jim, do you agree at least with that ?
    
      bb
323.1528POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerTue Nov 28 1995 17:0615
    	^            ^
    	|           /
    	|          /y
    	|         /t
    R	|        /i
    e	|       /l
    l	|      /a
    i	|     /u  
    g	|    /x 
    i	|   /e
    o	|  /S
    n   | / 
    	|/
    	+------------------------------------------>
                       Race
323.1529BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 17:0820
          <<< Note 323.1527 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>Sexuality
>     is in-between on this co-ordinate axis, more innate than beliefs,
>     but less than race.  Jim, do you agree at least with that ?
 
	Frankly, no. I believe that sexual orientation is every bit as
	inate as race. Mind you that this is a belief, not certain
	knowledge.

	I can not remember a time where I made a choice to be sexually
	excited by women. It was ALWAYS so. My brother, who was Gay,
	told me it was the same for him, except that his attraction
	was to men.

	Acting on this inate characteristic IS a choice. And I think this
	is where the confusion may lie, but the attraction itself is some
	thing that I believe is inborn.

Jim
323.1530You're all over the map.GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Nov 28 1995 17:106
    
      So, in that case, you reject YOUR OWN classification of this as
     a lifestyle choice, and you DON'T think it should be handled like
     religion, but more like race ?
    
      bb
323.1531SX4GTO::OLSONDoug Olson, ISVETS Palo AltoTue Nov 28 1995 17:339
    > YOUR OWN classification of this as a lifestyle choice,
    
    Bzzzt.  Not that Jim isn't perfectly capable of handling this, but his
    point was that this issue is moot- whether ANYONE sees it as a 'choice'
    of behavior or not, BOTH types of situations are covered by the Civil 
    Rights Act of 1964.  That he has a personal belief about the situation 
    doesn't invalidate his analysis.
    
    DougO
323.1532BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 17:4417
          <<< Note 323.1530 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>                         -< You're all over the map. >-

	Not at all. In previous generations of this discussion, the side
	opposing opening the CRA to "lifestyle choices" needed to be
	reminded that such choices were already part of the Act. It
	merely seemed like a good time to reiterate the information,

>      So, in that case, you reject YOUR OWN classification of this as
>     a lifestyle choice, and you DON'T think it should be handled like
>     religion, but more like race ?
 
	I have never classified homosexuality as a lifestyle choice.
	You may wnat to go back and re-read my postings a bit more
	carefully.

Jim
323.1533Is it really ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Nov 28 1995 18:1721
    
      Well, as you know, I would personally never use a pretentious
     newspeak euphemism like "lifestyle choices" - it was a quote from
     you.  Sorry if your usage was also a quote.
    
      Pardon me for skepticism, but I admit I have no idea what "causes"
     sexual attraction, and I doubt you do either.
    
      Race and gender are observable, mostly, and determinable by test.
     We in the USA have all sorts of special rules for those with special
     genes.  But there's no way to decide if you're a Methodist unless
     you help, and no way to tell if you're gay.  Since it's just your
     statement, it falls, at least in that respect, into the same
     category, like occupation, etc.
    
      It was precisely this fact which Colin Powell used as the basis for
     his opposition to Clinton at the beginning of the term.  Like all
     soldiers, Powell mostly only cares about practical situations.  It
     comes down to this : it's not like race at all, in real life.
    
      bb
323.1534BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 18:2753
| <<< Note 323.1517 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
| > back, at how wrong we are because of them.

| I listed them.  Once.  Period.

	You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better? Of course I see you
haven't addressed the issues as of yet. But maybe further down the line you
did.

| And the stats that you have decided are the whole issue were merely a small 
| part of a larger preponderance of support showing that one particular 
| lifestyle is riskier than another.  

	The stats from Cameron were proven false. The stuff from the Hart book
was taken out of context. End result, the article is trash.

| Quotes from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White.  

	Quotes, like with what the CFV did with the Hart book. Show the text
and we can work with it. Showing snippets, which is all you seem to be able to
do, doesn't prove anything.

| After that the issue of the Red Cross was raised.  

	And addressed.

| And the issue of the increased exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex. 

	Yup. I saw people's opinions on that.

| Focusing on a limited set of questionable statistics 

	That's where you once again are proven false. Focusing on what you are
avoiding, while addressing the other stuff, was done. When you address the
distortions, then you will have done your homework. Until then, you have just
avoided it all.

| >    	Sorry, but I don't have the stuff with me here.  I'll be
| >    	back to work on Tuesday.  Remind me.

| The fact that that entry was made on a Sunday might have given
| you a clue that I sometimes write here from home too.

	No Joe, I was referring to how you couldn't respond last week due to
your not being in work on Monday. While we all waited until Tuesday. I had
forgotten about the other one. It just appeared that there were more games.



Glen
323.1535BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 18:2914
| <<< Note 323.1519 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| ANd what's to say that further research might encourage them to change their 
| position yet again?  

	Go back and read how they came to the conclusions they have now. You
will see why they won't be changing. Do some homework.

	But nice avoidance of how they seem to have a different viewpoint than
you.



Glen
323.1536BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 18:3613
| <<< Note 323.1533 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


| Race and gender are observable, mostly, and determinable by test. We in the 
| USA have all sorts of special rules for those with special genes. But there's 
| no way to decide if you're a Methodist unless you help, and no way to tell if 
| you're gay.  

	If you use the test of looking at someone to determine race or gender,
you would not know if they are lefthanded, unless they did a seperate test.
Wouldn't hetro/homosexuality fall under the same catagory?

Glen
323.1537BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 19:1517
          <<< Note 323.1533 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>      Pardon me for skepticism, but I admit I have no idea what "causes"
>     sexual attraction, and I doubt you do either.
 
	As I said, it is a belief. I also said in was not actual knowledge.

	There is a difference in believing something and knowing something.

	My belief is based on my own personal experience and that of the 
	only Gay person that I knew really well. 

	An experiment that you can try at home. Ask yourself when you made the
	DECISION to be heterosexual. If you can come up with a date, then I may
	need to re-evaluate my belief. 

Jim
323.1538sinister...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Nov 28 1995 19:3137
    
      Yes, lefthandedness is more what I'm thinking about.  That was
     Powell's argument.  He knew perfectly well that if you ask, some
     will lie, others won't.  He was quite aware of gays in the military.
     But like any engineer at Digital, an officer in the army would be
     very hard pressed to say much about the colleagues in the next six
     offices, beyond their names.  He would know their race or gender,
     but he wouldn't know their religion, their marital status.  He would
     be more likely to guess their age than their sexual orientation.
    
      What this means is that, unlike blacks or women, there is no workable
     systematic oppression.  As a practical matter, nobody is going to
     refuse a customer or applicant on this basis, because they don't know.
     It would only be some sort of behavior to reveal, and that might take
     quite a while.  But a bias based on longterm rather than glancing
     impressions are also unprovable as a bias.  If I hire you for six
     months, then fire you about the same time I learn you are gay, how
     can you ever prove that was the reason ?
    
      So the fundamental problem any Civil Rights Act recognition has to
     face is that there's not that much you can stop, except blatant actions.
     The subtle ones are pretty much hopeless.  The advantage is, subtlety
     takes time.  By the time I find out my tenant is gay, I may know more
     than just a category about them, and a decision to end the lease will
     not be just a gut reaction.
    
      All of which is a long way of saying I disagree with Jim, not because
     I think gayness isn't genetic (I admit I don't know), but because the
     wrenching displacements, inefficiencies, and hardships the whole
     country is put through to suppress our racial prejudice, is less
     warranted in this much milder case.  And the more we extend the
     categories, the more meaningless become the definitions.  I'm sorry,
     quote all the so-called sociologists you want, you'll never get me to
     believe dislike of gays is the same sort of evil as race hatred has
     been in America.  It is to compare a boulder to a mountain.
    
      bb  
323.1539CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 28 1995 19:4218
    As far as firing someone, one would think you would have followed the
    standard corrective actions, like verbal warnings, written warnings and
    what have you, as any employer large enough to come under the CRA does.  
    
    A case in CO that was one on wrongful firing because of a persons
    legal, off premisis activities, was won, largely because shortly before
    the firing the person had had a sterling performance appraisal and a
    record of good performace for the 18 months he worked for the company.
    
    He was fired shortly after he requested leave to care for his sick
    partner, who  happened to be dying of AIDS, (this person remians
    HIV-free to this day).  Fortunately Colorado had a "smoker's rights"
    bill which states employees cannot be fired for legal activities off
    the job, and consensual relations between adults is legal.  Be
    interesting to watch if it gets appealed.  The company that lost the
    case happens to be a law firm specializing in labor disputes.  
    
    meg
323.1540BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 19:4222
| <<< Note 323.1538 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


| but he wouldn't know their religion, their marital status.  He would
| be more likely to guess their age than their sexual orientation.

	Guess is a key word. If anyone acts, or looks like they are gay, then
there are problems. Cracker Barrel used this way of doing things. But what you
fail to see is all it takes is a couple of questions, and one will know if
another is gay, religious, etc. Should the person lie? Don't ask, don't tell is
workable if one were to lie. If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed. Do you
lie? There are countless scenerios where this type of stuff comes up. In the
military, at work, etc. What happens when 2 guys, or 2 women look for a 1
bedroom apartment? Do you think people won't wonder? Some will ask, some will
use the Cracker Barrel method and assume. Either way, it comes out easily
enough without anyone having to walk up and say, "Hi, I Glen. I am gay."



Glen
323.1541CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 19:4557
                  <<< Note 323.1534 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| >	You see, Joe, you have been rambling on about these stats many notes
>| > back, at how wrong we are because of them.
>
>| I listed them.  Once.  Period.
>
>	You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
>your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better? 
    
    	I kept asking you to address .1080.  I'm sure you remember that.
    	And you said you would but haven't.
    
>	The stats from Cameron were proven false. 
    
    	Were they?  I've only seen a report that criticized his methods
    	and claims a small sample size.  How do you know that his sample
    	size realls was what they claimed?
    
    	Do you have statics that disprove Camerons?  I've already asked
    	for that from you.  
    
    	How exactly were Cameron's stats proven false?
    
>| Quotes from gay leadership, gay columnists, Mel White.  
>
>	Show the text and we can work with it. 
    
    	I provided sources.  Show me they were taken out of context.
    	Without that you are just blowing hot air.

>| After that the issue of the Red Cross was raised.  
>
>	And addressed.
    
    	Insufficient.  You provided an opinion -- a GUESS (emphasis
    	yours) by some nurse.
    
    	In spite of that, the Red Cross continues to discard blood
    	from high-risk profiles.  They seem to know something about
    	risk that you are unable to accept.
    
>| And the issue of the increased exposure to health risks inherent in anal sex. 
>
>	Yup. I saw people's opinions on that.
    
    	Biological, verifiable, documented fact.
    
    	You are the one insisting on 'education', yet when faced with
    	this touchy subject that perhaps hits a little too close to home,
    	you choose to bury your head in the sand.

>	No Joe, I was referring to how you couldn't respond last week due to
> your not being in work on Monday. While we all waited until Tuesday.
    
    	Poor baby.  You had to wait.  I don't dial in every day.  
    	You'll just have to live with that.
323.1542BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 20:0658
| <<< Note 323.1541 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	You know, you and your word games. You kept alluding to the figures in
| >your notes, asking me to address them, etc. Is that better?

| I kept asking you to address .1080.  I'm sure you remember that.

	More diversions away from the Hart stuff. Gee, for one who was gun ho
on not letting the source be the determining factor, you certainly have slid
behind a rock on this one. 

| >	The stats from Cameron were proven false.

| Were they? I've only seen a report that criticized his methods and claims a 
| small sample size.  How do you know that his sample size realls was what they 
| claimed?

	Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
Now you can do your homework.

| Do you have statics that disprove Camerons?  

	They are listed by the authors who had their studies taken out of
context, by articles listed in the stuff that was posted. Go read for yourself.
Talk to Groth. Let Nick tell you what he knows about Cameron. Write the APA. 

| How exactly were Cameron's stats proven false?

	You've stated sample size is important, so 42 is pretty small. He has
had authors tell him that he took their studies out of context. The APA bounced
him. Not credible if ya ask me. The stats can't be taken as fact when his
methods are proven wrong.

| I provided sources.  Show me they were taken out of context.
| Without that you are just blowing hot air.

	This coming from someone who won't go check the sources from the APA,
Groth himself, etc. Yup...

| In spite of that, the Red Cross continues to discard blood from high-risk 
| profiles.  They seem to know something about risk that you are unable to 
| accept.

	Uh huh... I hope you're still here when I get the info I requested.

| You are the one insisting on 'education', yet when faced with this touchy 
| subject that perhaps hits a little too close to home, you choose to bury your 
| head in the sand.

	It ain't a touchy subject. But you knew that.

| Poor baby.  You had to wait.  I don't dial in every day.
| You'll just have to live with that.

	Just more of your games, that's all. 


Glen
323.1543CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 20:0838
                  <<< Note 323.1540 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Guess is a key word. If anyone acts, or looks like they are gay, then
> there are problems. Cracker Barrel used this way of doing things. 
    
    	'Used' is the keyword here.  All of your examples are ones from
    	the past.  Look at .1420.  You are going back 50 years for
    	examples.  
    
    	Perhaps you can give us some 'uses' examples instead of 'used'
    	ones.
    
>fail to see is all it takes is a couple of questions, and one will know if
>another is gay, religious, etc. Should the person lie? 
    
    	Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?
    
    	You should practice that.  Here are some others:  
    
    		'That's personal.'  
    		'That's private.'  
    		'Why does it matter?'  
    		'No coment.'
    
>If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
>you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
>the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed. 
    
    	Straw man.  (Is that a sexist term?)  
    
    	What if you were only dating your palm?  Would you tell them
    	that too?  (I say that tongue-in-cheek, but in reality the same
    	logic on both sides of the debate could be applied to a compulsive
    	masturbator.  Hey, what he does in his private life is not my
    	concern, but what if he wanted his lifestyle choice to be affirmed
    	by society.  Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers
    	parades, and have a special month devoted to the great figures
    	in history who were avid masturbators?)
323.1544BIGQ::SILVADiabloTue Nov 28 1995 20:3046
| <<< Note 323.1543 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| 'Used' is the keyword here. All of your examples are ones from the past.  

	Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
really see into the future.

| Look at .1420.  You are going back 50 years for examples.

	Yeah, the old focus in on one thing and dismiss the other stuff. Great
ploy the CFV uses, too. I guess the other examples listed are 50 years ago. Uh
huh. 

| Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?

	Oh yeah.... it makes perfect sense to just say it's none of your
business. Great way to make friends, great way to make others think you're
hiding something. Your other examples fall into the same sad catagory.

| >If someone asks if you're dating someone, how do
| >you answer? Truthfully would be best. Yes, I am. (if the person is) Then comes
| >the next question, "what's her name?" At that point, you're screwed.

| Straw man.  (Is that a sexist term?)

	Strawman? How? 

| What if you were only dating your palm?  Would you tell them that too?  
| (I say that tongue-in-cheek, but in reality the same logic on both sides of 
| the debate could be applied to a compulsive masturbator.  

	There is no logic in that, Joe. You don't date your hand.

| Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers parades, and have a 
| special month devoted to the great figures in history who were avid 
| masturbators?)

	When you find some logic, please feel free to use it. 

	Another thing crossed my mind. Here you are, hopping on the Cameron
proof bandwagon, yet you won't address the other stuff about the Hart. Why is
that?


Glen
323.1545CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 20:4568
                  <<< Note 323.1542 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	More diversions away from the Hart stuff. 
    
    	I answered you in .1473.  You just don't like the answer and
    	now choose to beat a dead horse.
    
>| >	The stats from Cameron were proven false.
>
>| Were they? 
>
>	Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
>Now you can do your homework.
    
    	Not a single source shows that the stats are false.  There is
    	a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
    	that.  
    
    	The Cameron has serious doubt cast upon him, but his stats
    	have not truly been proven false.

>| Do you have statics that disprove Camerons?  
>
>	They are listed by the authors who had their studies taken out of
>context, by articles listed in the stuff that was posted. Go read for yourself.
>Talk to Groth. Let Nick tell you what he knows about Cameron. Write the APA. 
    
    	Cameron's STATISTICS were from his own studies.  The claim
    	against his STATISTICS regard his methods and samples.  They
    	are not a function of misquoting someone else.  The misquote
    	issues are only valid to cast further doubt on Cameron himself.

>	You've stated sample size is important, so 42 is pretty small.
    
    	How do you know that the alleged sample size is true?  I've asked
    	this several times now.
    
>	He has had authors tell him that he took their studies out of context. 
> The APA bounced him. 
    
    	What does that have to do with the statistics?
    
>| I provided sources.  Show me they were taken out of context.
>| Without that you are just blowing hot air.
>
>	This coming from someone who won't go check the sources from the APA,

    	You're the one making the claims that they are out of context.
    
    	In addition, I really don't care about Cameron.  I've moved on 
    	from his stuff except to hold you to consistency in your demand
    	for support and documentation.  I don't need Cameron make my point.  
    	The Red Cross does that for me.  So I don't need to research the 
    	sources for/against him.  But if you intend to be consistent and 
    	require accuracy and verification, it is inherent upon you to 
    	support your claims or to drop your same requirements of others.
    
    	As it stands now, you are making the claims.  1) Cameron's
    	statistics are false.  2) The quotes from gay leaders and 
    	authors were taken out of context.
    
    	So what is your proof?

>	Just more of your games, that's all. 
    
    	Looks like it, huh?  So tell us what it's like to be on the
    	losing side of the board so much...  You sure complain about
    	it enough!
323.1546CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Tue Nov 28 1995 20:5227
                  <<< Note 323.1544 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
>really see into the future.
    
    	Semantics. Show me some current cases.

>| Is saying 'none of your business' a lie?
>
>	Oh yeah.... it makes perfect sense to just say it's none of your
>business. Great way to make friends, great way to make others think you're
>hiding something. 
    
    	My my.  What a touchy conscience you have.
    
    	Personally I would EXPECT an answer of 'none of your business',
    	for in most circumstances I have no business at all asking.
    
    	Yes, it DOES make perfect sense.
    
    	And if you're talking about friends, I wouldn't be interested in
    	'friends' who wouldn't respect my privacy.  If they are put off
    	by my suggestion of 'noyb', then I'm better off without them.
    
>	There is no logic in that, Joe. You don't date your hand.
    
    	Of course, then, you missed the point entirely.  
323.1547BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Nov 28 1995 21:0563
          <<< Note 323.1538 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

    
>      What this means is that, unlike blacks or women, there is no workable
>     systematic oppression.  As a practical matter, nobody is going to
>     refuse a customer or applicant on this basis, because they don't know.

	Mere suspicion is enough and has been upheld by the courts as
	sufficient cause to refuse to hire a person.

	A case was posted in this file about a qualified teacher applying
	for a job.  The Administrator's secretary  thought the applicant
	was Gay and told the Administrator. The person was refused the 
	job on that basis. There was no admission on the part of the 	
	applicant and there was no proof that the applicant was Gay.
	In point of fact he was not. But the courts ruled that the school
	was within their rights not to hire him.

	Then you have the Cracker Barrel resturant incident where all the
	known or suspected Gays were fired, soley on the basis of their
	sexual orientation. Also held up by the courts.

	Such injustices need to be dealt with in the stautes. The CRA
	is the most likely place to make that change.

>If I hire you for six
>     months, then fire you about the same time I learn you are gay, how
>     can you ever prove that was the reason ?
 
	Because you tell me. There is nothing in the law today that
	says you can not.

	Are you willing to argue that this is right and proper?

>      So the fundamental problem any Civil Rights Act recognition has to
>     face is that there's not that much you can stop, except blatant actions.
>     The subtle ones are pretty much hopeless.

	The same can be said for all the other categories that are currently
	covered under the law. Yet it would be hard to argue that the CRA
	has not had a positive effect on those that are protected.

>And the more we extend the
>     categories, the more meaningless become the definitions. 

	Personally, I think this would be a good thing. Imagine a society
	where people are treated for what they accomplish, what they can
	contribute, how they behave. Rather than one that continues to
	discriminate against certain classes of people on the basis of
	some preconceived baseless predjudice.

> I'm sorry,
>     quote all the so-called sociologists you want, you'll never get me to
>     believe dislike of gays is the same sort of evil as race hatred has
>     been in America.  It is to compare a boulder to a mountain.
 
	Obviously we disagree. The predjudice is exactly the same. It has 
	exactly the same negative effect on individuals. And the arguments
	that are used to support this bigotry are, word for word, the same
	as those used to justify the suppression of racial minorities in
	times past.

Jim
323.1548sorry for the length, but I felt some clarification was in orderACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Nov 28 1995 21:12198
    re: .1509
    
>    >You are making a moral judgement here.

>    :^) :^) :^) :^)   I'm not the only one, Steve. 

    True enough.  8^)  But I believe (as obviously you do) that some
    judgement calls have to be made.  We simply disagree on what the right
    call is.  My judgement is based on morality that I believe to be set up
    by God, and has been reinforced since long before the colonies became a
    nation (by law, and by traditional moral teachings that is
    well-ingrained into the fabric of this nation).
    
    Our history has everything to do with why homosexual relations are
    considered deviant by most.  Even though the Bible believing Christians
    make up a much smaller % of the population than they did at the time
    our Constitution was ratified (the numbers on this that I have are
    99.5% of the population at this time were Bible-believing Christians of
    some form, while most of the remainder were Jews), society still has a
    few untoppled moral dominoes.
    
>    So, while you do not "insist" that gays remain in the closet, you *will*
>    resist them if they seek a more equitable status.
                                     ----------------
    As citizens of the US, all are equal under the law.  I believe this is
    a strawman argument on your part.  Of course, I do not consider deviant
    sexual attractions as a good reason (whether genetic or not) to define
    a minority nor change laws (speaking particularly about marriage laws
    and legal definition of family).
       
>    Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
>    blacks.  
    
    Some don't.  This too is reality.
    
>    But that changed, as people refused to accept it as a "given",
>    as people exercised the moral courage to fight that "given".

    Things are changing, yes.  However, there is still much racism- perhaps
    more than in the 50's, though certainly of a different variety
    (less outward hostility).  It is still a given, though, that some white
    folk don't want to live with black folk.  It's a shame, but it is true
    nontheless.  [FWIW, the reverse is also true in many cases. 
    Bigotry works both ways.]
    
>    >You seem to think that any resistence to public acceptance of a lifestyle,
>    >can be equated to trying to force gays to stay in the closet.
     
>    Lack of public acceptance will have the effect of coercing some gays to
>    remain in the closet, and will make life difficult for those who do not.
>    The end speaks volumes about the means.
 
    So my above statement was a correct analysis of your view, more or
    less.  You are, therefore, encouraging any activist group, who
    identifies themselves by sexual preference, to be able force society to 
    accept and protect their behavior?  To be able to identify themselves as a
    minority? 
        
>    >This will not change the way people feel about such relations.

>    However, standing up and saying "Such relations are okay.  I *accept*
>    such relations." might change the way people feel.  
    
    But to most of society, such relations ARE NOT okay, and are NOT
    acceptable.  You are suggesting that society should humor deviant
    behaivor, calling it 'okay/normal', just to make folks feel better
    about themselves.  
    
    Sorry, I don't do this for heterosexuals (pre-marital sex), nor will I
    compromise my morals for homosexuals by doing this.
    
>    Saying "Society
>    should not accept such relations" perpetuates the problem.

    Just maybe the problem is not with society?  Maybe society is rightly
    protecting its collective moral base.  It has that right to define what
    it considers family and proper relations.
    
>    Ahhh.  Bugs you, doesn't it?  To be lumped in with Benny Hinn or
>    Jack Van Impe or Jack Bakker or Jerry Falwell.  So why do you think
>    it bugs gays any less, to be judged along with Nerf ball murderers
>    or practitioners of fisting?
 
    As I said, it is pretty much the same thing.  I am not doing the
    lumping here, though, only suggesting that certain outspoken gay activist
    groups are not helping public opinion any. 
        
>    No, you are right.  "Insist" may have been a poorly-chosen word, but
>    your position is still clear: gays are better off in the closet.
    
    Probably so.  To me, there is no real human rights issue involved in
    this; so as I see it, pushing for moral acceptance from a society that
    has never accepted (as a whole) homosexual relations as moral, is only
    causing problems for all involved.
    
    As it stands, the only real things that homosexuals cannot do is
    legally marry.  They can live together as mates, however, and no one is
    trying to stop them (and some companies are even allowing partnerships
    of this sort to be equal to marriage for insurance purposes).  
    
    I think the job situation is blown out of proportion- on average gays make 
    more money that their het. counterparts, according to a couple of studies 
    that I have seen.  I don't think that the problem is big enough to warrent
    legislation to cover.  As society's mindset changes, so will this
    situation.  Besides, in most cases, I think there is some legal
    recourse if you are fired ONLY for being gay.  Most corporations have
    such conditions in their policies that do not allow firing someone just
    because of their sexual orientation (I believe Digital is amoung
    them).
    
    The housing issue is a strawman.  The only cases I've ever heard about
    had to do with small-time renters who were religious and didn't want to
    rent to gay couples for religious reasons.  They should have this
    right, IMO.  
  
>     Whatever happens if they come out is their own fault, as it was *their*
>    choice to come out.
 
    Your words, not mine.  Coming out may have consequences, yes, and by
    coming out one does take that chance.  However, this in no way means that
    I condone actions taken against gay individuals (like bashing) simply
    because they are gay.  When society is morally geared 180% from your
    position, expect to take some guff when you announce that you not only
    disagree, but will flaunt your disagreement in public.
    
    Responsibility does not lie solely in the one coming out, of course, as
    those who react must take responsibility for their own actions.  Giving
    them a target is the responsibility one has to take when
    announcing to the world that you deviate from accepted norms.
    
    Think of it this way:  I'm a Christian.  I go to an atheistic nation,
    known to be hostile to Christianity, determined to share my faith.  I
    must accept the responsibility for putting myself at risk.  If I were
    beaten, the one doing the beating is ultimately responsible for his
    actions, but I did knowingly put myself in harms way to begin with.  I am
    partly responsible, since I could have kept quiet (knowing that this
    particular country hated Christians) and avoided all problems.
    
    So, if you want to further your cause by coming out, fine.  But you
    can't choose to come out and blame everyone else for reacting
    negatively when you already know that most do not accept your relations
    as being moral or acceptable.  If you are beaten, you can be a martyr
    for the cause, a rallying point for your peers to help push your cause
    forward.  All social changes have potential to be personally costly to
    the ones pushing it- right or wrong.  Don't expect a free ride when
    trying to change society.
     
    Does this help to clarify my point a bit about "fault"?
        
>    You call it "force-fit[ting]".  I say that we're not fooled by the
>    surgical use of language.  "I have no problem with gays, it's the 
>    *behaviour* that I find repugnant, it's the *lifstyle* I won't accept,
>    it's the *agenda* I will oppose" is a bogus rationalization.  They are
>    as intertwined as crime and criminal.  No crime?  No criminal.  No
>    criminal?  No crime.
  
    I disagree.  Hate the sin, but love the sinner.  I cannot ever condone
    sin, not even my own (especially not my own).  Do not expect me to.  I
    can honestly love a person who happens to be a homosexual, this in no
    way means that I condone or otherwise approve of a lifestyle, political
    agenda or behavior.
    
    A more down to earth (and personal) example deals with my sister.  She
    slept with her husband before she married him...lived with him in fact. 
    I most certainly did not accept this lifestyle as moral or acceptable
    in any way.  Does this mean that I didn't love my sister (then or now)? 
    Of course not.  That love never changed, though it hurt me to see her
    live in sin.
    
    I veiw homosexual relations in the same light.  It hurts me to see
    people wasting their lives in what I see as living in sin the Bible
    calls an abomination.  Though my argument is not dependent upon the
    Bible, it is certainly more than a consideration to me in my personal
    views.  
    
    I view the homosexual agenda not so much as a threat to society (though 
    this may be true enough on a spiritual level, according to the Bible), 
    but as being a complete disservice to homosexuals.  If homosexual 
    relations are indeed sinful (and it is, according to the once revered 
    American moral guide), then accepting it- rationalizing it as being no 
    different (morally) than proper marriage- is harmful to society as a whole 
    and homosexuals specifically (encouraging sin...just like many TV
    programs encourage debauchery and promiscuity.
    
    I realize that this takes the discussion from "societal sensibilites
    and/or morality" to Biblical morality specificaly; but I feel that by 
    expanding a bit on my views, you may get a better understanding of where 
    I'm coming from.  My arguments seem to be viewed as hostile and/or
    uncaring, but that is far from the truth.  It is because I do care that
    I argue/fight so vehemently against the homosexual agenda.  The
    secondary reasons are the inevitable fallout (that I see) that will come 
    of this agenda, if all of it makes its way into legislation.  
    
    
    "In the latter days they shall call good evil and evil good."
    
    
    -steve                      
323.1549CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Nov 28 1995 21:5516
    Gee thanks Steve,
    
    You sound just like my grandfather did on the subjects of H Rap Brown,
    malcom X, Cesar Chavez, Martin Luther King, and a host of others in the
    60's and '70's whose main "sin" was to fight for better living
    standards for their identifiable groups.  
    
    Oh yes, he did use the same book you use to justify this. 
    
    Oh it was Cameron who came up with the income statistic (from his
    ISIS83 study, no doubt.  When it was pointed out that actually the
    income levels for most gays and lesbian couples were much lower he
    turned arund and said it was because they were morally and
    intellectually deficient, and suitable for only some jobs in the main. 
    
    meg
323.1550BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 10:0589
            <<< Note 323.1548 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    As citizens of the US, all are equal under the law.  I believe this is
>    a strawman argument on your part.  Of course, I do not consider deviant
>    sexual attractions as a good reason (whether genetic or not) to define
>    a minority nor change laws (speaking particularly about marriage laws
>    and legal definition of family).
 
Steve, 	Do you beleive that not hiring someomone because they are
	THOUGHT to be Gay is just?

	Do you believe that firing someone because they are or are thought
	to be Gay is just?

	Do you believe that denying a person housing, or the use of a
	public accomodation foir this same reason is just?

	You say that all are equal, but the opnly one you are fooling 
	is yourself. Gays can be denied simply for being Gay. They suffer
	this penalty WITHIN THE CURRENT LAW. A pewnalty that you CAN NOT
	suffer for being a Christian, that a Black can not suffer for being
	Black, or a woman can not suffer for being a woman.

	How can you call this equal?

>>    Yeah, just as it was a "given" that whites don't like to live with
>>    blacks.  
    
>    Some don't.  This too is reality.
 
	You talk a lot about "reality". Why not address the issue of right
	and wrong. Or is it your intention to justify your sexual bigotry
	by pointing to those that still are racial bigots? Saying, "See,
	I'm not the only one".

>    As it stands, the only real things that homosexuals cannot do is
>    legally marry.

	They can be denied jobs, or they can be fired and the courts will
	not protect them. They can be denied housing and the courts will
	not protect them. I can operate a store and refuse entry to a 
	person that I may suspect is Gay and the courts will not protect
	them. There is far more than just the issue of civil marriage to
	be considered.

>Besides, in most cases, I think there is some legal
>    recourse if you are fired ONLY for being gay. 

	You are wrong. 

> Most corporations have
>    such conditions in their policies that do not allow firing someone just
>    because of their sexual orientation (I believe Digital is amoung
>    them).
 
	An individual company can set policies to protect Gays, but this
	does not have the force of law. And that policy can be eliminated
	in a heartbeat and Gays would have no recourse at all.

>    Think of it this way:  I'm a Christian.  I go to an atheistic nation,
>    known to be hostile to Christianity, determined to share my faith.  I
>    must accept the responsibility for putting myself at risk.  If I were
>    beaten, the one doing the beating is ultimately responsible for his
>    actions, but I did knowingly put myself in harms way to begin with.  I am
>    partly responsible, since I could have kept quiet (knowing that this
>    particular country hated Christians) and avoided all problems.
 
	If asked, would you lie about being a Christian? Would you deny it
	if someone made the assupmtion that you were Christian? Would it
	still be "your fault" if someone made that assumption and you	
	decidedto tell the truth?

>    So, if you want to further your cause by coming out, fine.  But you
>    can't choose to come out and blame everyone else for reacting
>    negatively when you already know that most do not accept your relations
>    as being moral or acceptable.  If you are beaten, you can be a martyr
>    for the cause, a rallying point for your peers to help push your cause
>    forward.  All social changes have potential to be personally costly to
>    the ones pushing it- right or wrong.  Don't expect a free ride when
>    trying to change society.
     
>    Does this help to clarify my point a bit about "fault"?
 
	It certainly does. It puts you squarely on the side of the cops that
	sent their dogs after the marchers in Birmingham, or the Nightriders
	that burned Black churches. Maybe James Earl Ray will put you on
	his Christmas card list.

Jim
323.1551ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 12:0523
    re: .1544
    

| 'Used' is the keyword here. All of your examples are ones from the past.  

>	Joe, any example that is ever used is from the past, unless someone can
>really see into the future.

    This is called avoidance.  Joe was asking for recent examples (the
    Cracker Barrel incident is not very recent, and has been quite
    overused).  If this is such a huge problem that needs federal
    legislation, how about giving us a few recent (1995) examples. 
    
| Are you suggesting that we should cheer the wankers parades, and have a 
| special month devoted to the great figures in history who were avid 
| masturbators?)

>	When you find some logic, please feel free to use it. 

    He did, you simply missed his point.  
    
    
    -steve
323.1552ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 12:1812
    re: .1549
    
    You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have
    fought for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the
    homosexual agenda.  Race and lifestyle in no way, shape, or form, are
    equal.  
    
    Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
    seem to assert.
    
    
    -steve
323.1553CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 29 1995 12:4510
    Steve,
    
    what you don't want to realize is inequality is inequality.  Whether
    it is race, gender, religion (or lack thereof), or orientation.
    
    If gays are not identifieable, then what is your issue in the first
    place?  why should they be singled out as the one group in the country
    without equal rights?
    
    meg
323.1554BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 12:4919
            <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have
>    fought for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the
>    homosexual agenda.  Race and lifestyle in no way, shape, or form, are
>    equal.  
 
	And you don't realize how much you defecate on their struggle
	when you use the same rhetoric that was used by their opponents
	against a different minority population.

>    Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
>    seem to assert.
 
	"Physically identifiable"? No. But every bit as identifiable
	as someone claiming to be "Christian". I knew there was a 
	reason that I made that point earlier.

Jim
323.1555ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 12:5799
    re: .1550 
    

>Steve, 	Do you beleive that not hiring someomone because they are
>	THOUGHT to be Gay is just?

    I guess it comes down to what kind of job this person is applying for. 
    Selective hiring (like in the case of Hooters- only physically
    attractive females need apply) is not always a consciously evil act, but
    something done to insure business success. 
    
    Whether you or I feel it is just is irrelevent.  In most cases, I would
    probably agree with you that it is not- but not in every situation. 
    Things are not alway so black and white as you would try to make them.
    
>	Do you believe that firing someone because they are or are thought
>	to be Gay is just?

    No.  If they were hired, then I feel that they should only be fired via
    performance problems.  
    
>	Do you believe that denying a person housing, or the use of a
>	public accomodation foir this same reason is just?

    Depends on the details, but for the most part, no.  I also believe that
    this is not a significant problem that requires legislation.
    
>	You say that all are equal, but the opnly one you are fooling 
>	is yourself. Gays can be denied simply for being Gay. They suffer
>	this penalty WITHIN THE CURRENT LAW. A pewnalty that you CAN NOT
>	suffer for being a Christian, that a Black can not suffer for being
>	Black, or a woman can not suffer for being a woman.

    You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
    all along.  Homosexuality IS NOT EQUAL to race, sex or religion.  It is
    a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
    currently).  Trying to turn this into a human rights issue is an
    obfuscation of the basic principles of "rights".  Not all lifestyles
    are valued, nor are all behaviors acceptable.  Society has no
    obligation to legally condone all lifestyles.
    
    In short, sexual preference does not a minority make, at least in any
    legal sense, nor should it be given such status.  This is the crux of
    our disagreement.
    
>	You talk a lot about "reality". Why not address the issue of right
>	and wrong. 
    
    I have.  You aren't listening.
    
>    Or is it your intention to justify your sexual bigotry
>	by pointing to those that still are racial bigots? Saying, "See,
>	I'm not the only one".

    You read my entire .1548, and you still come up with "sexual bigotry"? 
    I thought your reading comprehension level better than that, Jim. 
    Although I didn't expenct agreement, I did expect better than name
    calling. 
    
>	They can be denied jobs, or they can be fired and the courts will
>	not protect them. They can be denied housing and the courts will
>	not protect them. I can operate a store and refuse entry to a 
>	person that I may suspect is Gay and the courts will not protect
>	them. There is far more than just the issue of civil marriage to
>	be considered.

    You keep bringing this up, but you fail to give any recent examples of
    such discrimination.  You have not convinced me that this is a problem
    worthy of the legislation that is proposed.
    
>	It certainly does. It puts you squarely on the side of the cops that
>	sent their dogs after the marchers in Birmingham, or the Nightriders
>	that burned Black churches. Maybe James Earl Ray will put you on
>	his Christmas card list.

    Nonsense.  This bit of hysterics is unbecoming of you, Jim...or maybe
    not.  You continually bring up the "bigot" strawman, so I begin to
    wonder.  Is it just the inability to communicate, or have you lost the
    ability to look at the other side of an issue objectively?  You don't
    have to agree with me, but equating me to a racist is ridiculous and
    insulting.
    
    I do discriminate on behaviors.  Homosexual relations will always be
    considered immoral by me, and I will do my best to keep society from
    condoning it.  As I HAVE ALREADY SAID (more than once), I do not agree
    that firing someone just because they are gay, is a good thing.  I HAVE
    ALREADY SAID that discrimination against gay people in housing (outside
    the private small-time owner) is not a good thing.  I HAVE ALREADY SAID
    that discrimination in hiring (for most jobs) is not a good thing (all
    else being equal).
    
    But that's okay, Jim.  Ignore what I've said.  Ignore the parts of my
    note that shows I do care, and label me as you will.  Your logical
    reasoning, that I've come to expect from your notes, seems to be
    limited on this issue- giving up ground to emotionalism.
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1556ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 13:1222
    Meg,  (.1553)
    
    This is the whole point.  They are not a specific group, and as such,
    they cannot be "singled out" as the one group who does not have equal
    rights..  Homosexuals are black, white, hispanic, male, female, etc.,
    and as such, they do have the same rights as everyone esle. What they do
    not have is a societal acceptance of their lifestyle, and it is this
    very thing that causes the problems.
    
    If inequality is inequality, as you say, then why don't we allow
    pedophiles to be protected.  They probably have some genetic
    predisposition, too.  Why not allow Mormons to have more than one
    spouse?  Why not allow bigamy?  Why not allow bestiality as a protected
    right?
    
    No, your inequality argument holds no water in this case.  Society has
    every right to set values for itself.  If these values make certain
    groups (who go against those values) uncomfortable, then that's tough
    noogies.  
    
    
    -steve 
323.1557BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 13:1472
            <<< Note 323.1555 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
>    all along. 

	So it is your dertermination that I am ignorant because I do not
	agree with you? Not much of an argument there Steve.

> Homosexuality IS NOT EQUAL to race, sex or religion.  It is
>    a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
>    currently). 

	Stating your opinion as some sort of fact is also very poor
	technique.

> Trying to turn this into a human rights issue is an
>    obfuscation of the basic principles of "rights". 

	Discussing people that have been denied jobs, or housing or
	the use of public accomodations is most certainly a "rights"
	issue. Your feeble attempts to claim that there is equal
	treatment is not obsfucation, it's an outright lie.

>    You keep bringing this up, but you fail to give any recent examples of
>    such discrimination.  You have not convinced me that this is a problem
>    worthy of the legislation that is proposed.
 
	THe most recent case in this file was posted by Oppelt. It involved
	the teacher that was not hired because he was THOUGHT to be Gay.
	That was about a year ago. Trying to divert the discussion because
	there hasn't been a case that happened yesterday is truly obsfucation.

>    Nonsense.  This bit of hysterics is unbecoming of you, Jim...or maybe
>    not.  You continually bring up the "bigot" strawman, so I begin to
>    wonder.  Is it just the inability to communicate, or have you lost the
>    ability to look at the other side of an issue objectively?  You don't
>    have to agree with me, but equating me to a racist is ridiculous and
>    insulting.
 
	It may be insulting, but after all according to you, you brought it	
	on yourself.

>    I do discriminate on behaviors.

	Bull. You discriminate against PEOPLE because of behaviors that
	you ASSUME they participate in, nothing more. Again I ask you,
	how many homosexual acts have you actually witnessed?

>  Homosexual relations will always be
>    considered immoral by me, and I will do my best to keep society from
>    condoning it.  As I HAVE ALREADY SAID (more than once), I do not agree
>    that firing someone just because they are gay, is a good thing.  I HAVE
>    ALREADY SAID that discrimination against gay people in housing (outside
>    the private small-time owner) is not a good thing.  I HAVE ALREADY SAID
>    that discrimination in hiring (for most jobs) is not a good thing (all
>    else being equal).
 
	So then why do you have such a problem in adding sexual orientation
	to the CRA? These are exactly the wrongs that this piece of legislation
	is designed to stop.

>    But that's okay, Jim.  Ignore what I've said.  Ignore the parts of my
>    note that shows I do care, and label me as you will.  Your logical
>    reasoning, that I've come to expect from your notes, seems to be
>    limited on this issue- giving up ground to emotionalism.
 
	I haven't ingored what you've said. You claim that these things are
	wrong, but you resist setting them right. At best, your position is
	dishonest. At worst, it the same position that a racial bigot takes
	when he tells us that some of his best friends are Black.

Jim
323.1558ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 13:1814
    re: .1554
    
    >...as identifiable as "Christians"...
    
    True enough.
    
    Now, you have to prove that homosexuality, like religion, is deemed
    beneficial- even necessary- to society.  This was the original reason that 
    religion was specifically protected via the First Amendment.
    
    Another strawman comparison, it would seem.
    
    
    -steve  
323.1559DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Wed Nov 29 1995 13:272
    Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
    society.
323.1560CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Wed Nov 29 1995 13:3012
>    Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
>    society.


  and while those arguments continue society continues to proceed on it's
 downward spiral.




 Jim
323.1561MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 14:028
 Z    Discussing people that have been denied jobs, or housing or
 Z    the use of public accomodations is most certainly a "rights"
 Z    issue. 
    
    Jim, I have no doubt you were denied employment due to discrimination.
    Inequity is spread throughout.
    
    -Jack
323.1562BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:0265
| <<< Note 323.1545 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| >	More diversions away from the Hart stuff.

| I answered you in .1473.  You just don't like the answer and now choose to 
| beat a dead horse.

	No, what you did was say you disagree with me, but went no further.
What parts did you disagree with, Joe? 

| >	Did you read the 2nd note put in the gay topic? It even has sources.
| >Now you can do your homework.

| Not a single source shows that the stats are false.  

	Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study. Dr Groth said
Cameron took his work out of context. There is one source. It had listed
newspaper articles, Cameron being tossed by the APA (gee, there is another
source), etc. It's there, but you choose to ignore it. It's understandable.

| There is a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
| that.

	Check with the APA. There is a source.

| Cameron's STATISTICS were from his own studies.  

	Then why was Dr Groth so upset?

| What does that have to do with the statistics?

	If they bounced him for producing crap, like they did, then his methods
can not be trusted. 

| In addition, I really don't care about Cameron. I've moved on from his stuff 
| except to hold you to consistency in your demand for support and documentation

	The support is there. Go check it out. Your refusal to check with the
APA, or Dr. Groth only makes one wonder if you are really willing to prove that
it is wrong. Hell, you listed an article, and yet I had to go out and disprove
it. Taking the Hart stuff out of context, Cameron's work being trash, yet now
you want me to go off and prove this other stuff? The sources are there. And
like you have told me, go do your homework.

| The Red Cross does that for me.  

	You really should talk to the Red Cross. Really. Oh, not just on the
local level, either.

| 1) Cameron's statistics are false.  

	True.

| 2) The quotes from gay leaders and authors were taken out of context.

	False. What I did say is the Hart stuff was taken out of context. But
you refuse to address it. I mean, how much time have you spent on trying to
show me that the Cameron stuff I posted is supposed to be wrong? And how much
time have you spent on the Hart stuff I posted? 1 or 2 lines, maybe? It shows a
lot, Joe. By not addressing the Hart stuff, it can show many that you know the
took the book out of context. Otherwise, why spend so much time on Cameron, and
no time on Hart? Especially when the Hart stuff is listed here?


Glen
323.1563BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:0522
| <<< Note 323.1546 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| My my.  What a touchy conscience you have.

	You forgot....according to Joe. 

| Personally I would EXPECT an answer of 'none of your business', for in most 
| circumstances I have no business at all asking.

	Ahhh.... so you're just at work, you're just in the military, etc. You
have no friends? You NEVER discuss ANYTHING that goes on in your life?

| And if you're talking about friends, I wouldn't be interested in 'friends' 
| who wouldn't respect my privacy.  

	The above made me laugh. Please, when you speak, try to remember that
there are people on this planet who like to associate with others? People are
not all like you?



Glen
323.1564BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 14:1826
            <<< Note 323.1556 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    This is the whole point.  They are not a specific group, and as such,
>    they cannot be "singled out" as the one group who does not have equal
>    rights..  Homosexuals are black, white, hispanic, male, female, etc.,
>    and as such, they do have the same rights as everyone esle. 

	Substitute "Christian" for "Homosexuals" in the above statement.
	It remains true. So how do you justify protection for yourself,
	while denying it to others?

>    If inequality is inequality, as you say, then why don't we allow
>    pedophiles to be protected......... 

	I was waiting for the beginning of the "can of worms" argument.
	Unfortunately, my assumptions about your worries were correct.

>    No, your inequality argument holds no water in this case.  Society has
>    every right to set values for itself.  If these values make certain
>    groups (who go against those values) uncomfortable, then that's tough
>    noogies.  
 
	Going to stand in the schoolhouse door to block the entrance for
	all these evil people who don't know their place, eh Steve?

Jim
323.1565I understand his view - see My American JourneyGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseWed Nov 29 1995 14:2020
    
      But "don't ask" means "don't ask", right ?
    
      And nyob is EXACTLY what Powell meant by "don't tell".
    
      I believe it was in VN that CP tells of an underling who referred
     to him as "n----r", and got his reply, "That's COLONEL n----r to
     you, Mister !"  In any event, if you aren't thick-skinned, you
     won't like the military.  Under fire, people won't watch their words.
    
      The really important thing isn't being nice or fair, it's attaining
     objectives first; reducing the quantity of US sausage meat, second.
     You must be willing to protect those you dislike, to take risks with
     the lives of those you like.  In a diverse set of personnel, it makes
     lots of sense to reduce this extraneous stuff.  In fact, the only
     reason CP gave for the difference, is that there is no way to avoid
     race.  If he could have, he would have.  But unfortunately, you don't
     have to ask about race (or gender).
    
      bb
323.1566Pigs in SpaceCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Nov 29 1995 14:208
>    Arguments have and can be made for religion being detremental to
>    society.


	And arguments have and can be made that pigs can fly.

/john
323.1567BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 14:2116
            <<< Note 323.1558 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Now, you have to prove that homosexuality, like religion, is deemed
>    beneficial- even necessary- to society.  This was the original reason that 
>    religion was specifically protected via the First Amendment.
 
	We are not discussing the 1st Amendment Steve. We are discussing the
	CRA. Now the reason that "religion" was added to the CRA is not
	becuase it was deemed "beneficial". It was added becuase there
	was evidence that certain people were being denied employment,
	housing and the use of public accomodations because of their
	religious beliefs.

	Exactly the same situation the Gays find themselves in today.

Jim
323.1568BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 14:239
      <<< Note 323.1561 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Jim, I have no doubt you were denied employment due to discrimination.
>    Inequity is spread throughout.
 
	You'll need to expound on this one Jack. Maybe a second cup of
	coffee before you do though, then it might make some sense.

Jim
323.1569BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:36134
323.1570BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:3812
| <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| You don't realize how much you cheapen the efforts of those who have fought 
| for race equality, by connecting their efforts with the homosexual agenda.  

	Wow... for the other groups, you say equality. For homosexuals, you say
agenda. How nice. Equality is what is being sought. Closing the loopholes that
are out there is accomplishing this.


Glen
323.1571BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:397
| <<< Note 323.1552 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Besides, homosexuals/lesbians are NOT an identifiable group, as you
| seem to assert.

	Sexual orientation include yourself, Steve. That's what you fail to
see.
323.1572BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:418
| <<< Note 323.1555 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| It is a deviant lifestyle that is not morally acceptable to society (at least
| currently).  

	You have avoided this quite often. I hope you address it now. When the
majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop talking? 

323.1573BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 14:448
| <<< Note 323.1566 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| -< Pigs in Space >-

	HEY! That was one of the Muppetman's best things!



323.1574Bad form, Jim.CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 14:569
   <<< Note 323.1557 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    You show an ignorance of the one point that I have been trying to make
>>    all along. 
>
>	So it is your dertermination that I am ignorant because I do not
>	agree with you? Not much of an argument there Steve.
    
    	Of course you know that Steve is not saying this at all.
323.1575MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 15:089
 ZZ    You'll need to expound on this one Jack. Maybe a second cup of
 ZZ    coffee before you do though, then it might make some sense.
    
    Easy.  Have you ever been a victim of Affirmative Action programs? 
    You're deceived if you think you haven't.  Translation, you have been
    discriminated against and it is still happening today.  So please stop
    harping on job discrimination for gays.  Poop flows everywhere.
    
    -Jack
323.1576BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 15:2212
      <<< Note 323.1575 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Easy.  Have you ever been a victim of Affirmative Action programs? 
>    You're deceived if you think you haven't.  Translation, you have been
>    discriminated against and it is still happening today.  So please stop
>    harping on job discrimination for gays.  Poop flows everywhere.
 
	Well, I think affirmative action is wrong. It goes against my belief
	in equal treatment. But I can not honestly say that I have suffered 
	because of it.

Jim
323.1577MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 15:305
    Oh but you have.  Directly or indirectly, you have.  And the really sad
    thing is your government sponsors it and you pay for its
    implementation.
    
    -Jack
323.1578CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 15:3663
                  <<< Note 323.1562 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>| I answered you in .1473.  You just don't like the answer and now choose to 
>| beat a dead horse.
>
>   No, what you did was say you disagree with me, but went no further.
    
    	Right.  So you didn't like the answer.  That's what I said.
    
> What parts did you disagree with, Joe? 
    
    	I didn't agree with your opinion that the context changed the
    	meaning of the statements.  End of point.  I disagree with you.
    	I'm entitled to that, and you're entitled to continue beating
    	that horse.
    
>| Not a single source shows that the stats are false.  
>
>	Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study. 
    
    	I see what you are saying.  But Up until now I thought you
    	were only focusing on the stats that were posted in here, (and
    	in part-1 of your posting in the other topic) and none of those 
    	came from Groth.  Stats from part-3 in your posting were 
    	supposedly from Groth.
    
>| There is a CLAIM that he used a small sample size, but nothing to support
>| that.
>
>	Check with the APA. There is a source.
    
    	APA isn't making the claim about the sample size.
    
>	The support is there. Go check it out. Your refusal to check with the
>APA, or Dr. Groth ...
    
    	Have you?  Again, all you have is claims from a report that
    	was written to counter-agendize Cameron's agenda (or alleged
    	agenda as claimed by the report.)
    
    	As I said before, *I* am not the one trying to prove or
    	disprove anything about Cameron.  You seem to be, though, 
    	and if you were to hold yourself to the same standards you
    	demand of others, you would be verifying these things yourself
    	instead of trying to get me to do it for you.
    
>| The Red Cross does that for me.  
>
>	You really should talk to the Red Cross. Really. Oh, not just on the
>local level, either.
    
    	The national Red Cross policy has already been posted here.
    	You countered that with the opinion of a local-level nurse.
    	Where is that pot and kettle topic anyway...
    
>you refuse to address it. I mean, how much time have you spent on trying to
>show me that the Cameron stuff I posted is supposed to be wrong? And how much
>time have you spent on the Hart stuff I posted? 1 or 2 lines, maybe? It shows a
>lot, Joe. 
    
    	I've spent absolutely *NO* time trying to show you that the
    	Cameron stuff is wrong.  I've only focused on your double
    	standard in what you accept and reject as proof.
323.1579CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 15:388
   <<< Note 323.1564 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	I was waiting for the beginning of the "can of worms" argument.
>	Unfortunately, my assumptions about your worries were correct.

    	Why does your crusade end with one orientation and exclude another?
    	What makes you think it ends with gays?  In more and more circles
    	pedophilia is being considered an orientation too.
323.1580BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 15:456
| <<< Note 323.1575 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Poop flows everywhere.

	Been in the Charles River again? :-)
323.1581BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 15:5548
| <<< Note 323.1578 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| > What parts did you disagree with, Joe?

| I didn't agree with your opinion that the context changed the meaning of the 
| statements.  End of point.  

	Let me ask you something. When the CFV used the phrases about gays and
one night stands, did you think they were talking about now, or did you think
they were talking about what the book said, between Stonewall (1969) and the
onset of AIDS (1977)? If you say now, then you, along with the CFV, have taken
the book out of context. We'll deal with this one first, and then move on.

| >	Part of his stats were compiled by Dr Groth's study.

| I see what you are saying. But Up until now I thought you were only focusing 
| on the stats that were posted in here, (and in part-1 of your posting in the 
| other topic) and none of those came from Groth.  

	The study, Joe. Much more than JUST the stats. And seeing the APA threw
him out for questionable practices, it would seem his credibility is shot as
well. Again, that goes towards whether or not he is credible or not. 

| APA isn't making the claim about the sample size.

	The APA used that as part of their reasoning for tossing him. That,
along with taking other people's stuff out of context.

| As I said before, *I* am not the one trying to prove or disprove anything 
| about Cameron.  

	Merely pointing out he is not credible according to the APA, and has
taken other people's works out of context. Yet I do seem to remeber the CFV
newsletter stating, "in one of the most extensive studies"...... 

| The national Red Cross policy has already been posted here.

	The policy comes from the FDA, btw. 

| You countered that with the opinion of a local-level nurse.

	Who ever said I stopped there? Talk to the director. 

| I've spent absolutely *NO* time trying to show you that the Cameron stuff is 
| wrong.  I've only focused on your double standard in what you accept and 
| reject as proof.

	Ahhhh.... I see..... GANT!
323.1582CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 29 1995 15:566
    Joe,
    
    it is the victim thing.  A child is not in a position to give or deny
    consent from an adult.  But then you knew that.........
    
    meg
323.1583MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 16:051
    So then pedophilia's wrongness is based on choice and not principle?
323.1584BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 16:0919
          <<< Note 323.1579 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Why does your crusade end with one orientation and exclude another?
>    	What makes you think it ends with gays?  In more and more circles
>    	pedophilia is being considered an orientation too.

	Asked and answered many times already Joe. But just for your
	benefit I will repeat it. You may want to write this down this
	time.

	The difference between fighting for Gay rights and not supporting
	Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting adults
	and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).

	As soon as the homophobic bigots run out of illogic, you can count
	on the word pedophilia showing up in their next reply. It's as
	reliable as the Sun coming up tommorrow.

Jim
323.1585CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 29 1995 16:1718
    Yepper,.
    
    No pedophilia is beyond a choice, although I have no idea what anyone
    would find sexually attractive about a child, I can understand what one
    adult would find sexually attractive in another adult, no matter what
    the gender.  
    
    From Groth  51% of offenders sho no persistant sexual interest in
    children, but turned to them as the result of conflicts or problems in
    their adult relationships.  A;though this group regressed to sexual
    encounters with children, their primary preference was to adults.  In
    examining the adult sexual lifestyle of this group, it was found that
    the large majority 83% of these subjects led exclusively heterosexual
    lives and the remaining subjects 17% were bisexually oriented, that is
    their adult sexual activites involved both male and female partners,
    although their preference was for women.  
    
    meg
323.158643GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Nov 29 1995 16:251
    So 49% showed a choice of children over adults?
323.1587NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Nov 29 1995 16:261
Meg, were all of these subjects male?  Your last sentence implies that.
323.1588CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 16:496
    	.1582
    
    	Dead horse, Glen.
    
    	So put in your standard "you're afraid to discuss it" note
    	and be done with it.
323.1589MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 16:516
 ZZ   The difference between fighting for Gay rights and not supporting
 ZZ   Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting
 ZZ   adults and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).
    
    Thanks Meg.  Jim, how about you?  Do you believe that Pedophilia is
    about choice and not about principle?
323.1590ALPHAZ::HARNEYJohn A HarneyWed Nov 29 1995 17:045
    Gazing in my crystal ball, I see Our Jack about to put words
    somebody's mouth...

    \john
323.1591MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 17:092
    Jim, by your silence, you have defaulted your opinion to principle
    having absolutely nothing to do with it.  How could you?
323.1592BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 17:1312
| <<< Note 323.1588 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| .1582

| Dead horse, Glen.

	errr...you mean, Meg, don't you?




Glen
323.1593BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 17:158
| <<< Note 323.1591 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Jim, by your silence, you have defaulted your opinion to principle
| having absolutely nothing to do with it.  How could you?

	Jack, don't you remember doing something like this just last week, or
the week before? Silence, without any notes going in anywhere, does not mean
they are ignoring you. :-)
323.1594CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 17:254
    	.1592
    
    	No, Glen, I meant you.  So I referenced the wrong note.
    	Sue me.  
323.1595ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 17:5020
    re: .1572
    
    >You have avoided this quite often.  I hope you address it now.  
    
    I have ignored this *once* as being irrelevent.  Since you deem it
    important, I'll answer.
    
    >When the majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop
    >talking?
    
    No.  Unless the majority turns to this form of sexual relations, then
    such relations still deviate from the norm.  If the majority accepts it
    as moral, then I will quit saying that homosexual relations go against
    societal morality.  I will not, however, say that such relations are
    proper or moral- even if 90% of America believes it is.
    
    Happy now?
    
    
    -steve
323.1596CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsWed Nov 29 1995 18:0923
    The Groth study was a study done on male convicted child molesters.  
    
    49% were exclusively into young children, boys girls or both, and
    showed no interest in age-mates.  With the exception of the 17% who
    claimed to be bisexual, the rest all expressed disgust at the idea of
    any sexual contact with adult males.  
    
    
    regardless, young children cannot give consent IMO, and may find it
    hard to reject someone in a position of trust's advances.  An adult on
    the other hand is generally able to say no, yes or whatever, unless the
    other adult is bent on a power trip and has the means to bakc the power
    trip up.  
    
    I consider sex with a child as rape,  consenting sex between adults is
    none of my business.  Love relationships between adults is also none of
    my business.
    
    meg
    
    
    
    
323.1597BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 18:1625
| <<< Note 323.1595 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| >When the majority of people accept homosexuality, will you stop
| >talking?

| No.  Unless the majority turns to this form of sexual relations, then
| such relations still deviate from the norm.  If the majority accepts it
| as moral, then I will quit saying that homosexual relations go against
| societal morality.  

	That's fair, and that was what I am wondering. Thanks.

| I will not, however, say that such relations are proper or moral- even if 90% 
| of America believes it is.

	That's fair, too. They are your beliefs. And it even shows that you
have conviction (when mentioning the 90%). Again, thanks. That was even more
than I was looking for.

	Btw, I know you stated you did not mention the marriage thing (gays
don't need a law for marriage, cuz they can marry under the law), but do you
think this is true with what marriage is supposed to be about?


Glen
323.1598ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 18:372
    If you'll parse you last question, Glen, I'll be happy to answer it.
    8^)
323.1599BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 19:1214
      <<< Note 323.1589 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Thanks Meg.  Jim, how about you?  Do you believe that Pedophilia is
>    about choice and not about principle?

	Huh?

	It's either residual jet-lag or this bloody cold that I've come
	down with, but I'm having a real tough time figuring out your
	notes Jack.

Jim


323.1600ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Nov 29 1995 19:191
    SNARF!
323.1601MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 19:3010
Z    Pedophilia rights is that one behavior involves consenting adults
 Z   and the other does not (does any of this sound familiar?).
    
    In other words Jim, if Pedophilia were legalized in this country, would
    you then think it was okay since it is legal?
    
    Not an outrageous question.  We have people here who are prochoice. 
    They agree it is murder however it is protected under law.
    
    -Jack
323.1602BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 19:539
      <<< Note 323.1601 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    In other words Jim, if Pedophilia were legalized in this country, would
>    you then think it was okay since it is legal?
 
	No. I don't think the issue is legality. I think the exploitation
	of children by adults is wrong, period.

Jim
323.1603BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 19:5633
	Btw, I know you stated you did not mention the marriage thing (gays
don't need a law for marriage, cuz they can marry under the law), but do you
think this is true with what marriage is supposed to be about?


	Translate that to:


Marriage is based on love between 2 people who want to commit to each other
forever. (you can put God in here too. I didn't because I thought the above
would cover everyone, where as God does not [ie different religions, athiests,
don't give a damn])

It has been said that gays can get married under the present law. So no new law
is needed. All gays have to do is to marry someone of the oppisite sex. 

That brings us back to:


Marriage is based on love between 2 people who want to commit to each other
forever. (you can put God in here too. I didn't because I thought the above
would cover everyone, where as God does not [ie different religions, athiests,
don't give a damn])



	Now, what I would like to know is, are you one who believes gays can
marry, so no other laws are needed. Remember, use your definition of what
marriage should be. 


Glen
323.1604Going back a few notes...BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 29 1995 20:0214
    Some folks keep bringing up 'Pedophilia' with the argument that if we
    were talking about 'Pedophilia', people on the gay rights side would 
    be against it.

    The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.

    Heterosexuality is a sexual orientation among consenting adults.
    Homosexuality is also a sexual orientation among consenting adults.
    Some people are heterosexual.  Others are homosexual.  What people
    do as consenting adults in their private sex lives is no one else's
    business whether people make it clear they happen to be heterosexual
    OR homosexual.

    None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
323.1605BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 20:034


	Suz, great note!
323.1606CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 20:1816
         <<< Note 323.1604 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>

>    The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
    
    	No one is saying that it is.
    
    	Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
    	'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
    	Civil Rights Act.  Increasingly pedophilia is being called
    	an orientation too.  Sure, it is not mainstream today, but 
    	that doesn't change the budding trend it has.
    
>    None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
    
    	It does if you are not careful about the umbrella you choose
    	to stand under.
323.1607BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Nov 29 1995 20:2011
          <<< Note 323.1606 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
>    	'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
>    	Civil Rights Act.  Increasingly pedophilia is being called
>    	an orientation too.

Joe, 	You made this claim a number of times, can you back this up?
	Who is calling it an orientation?

Jim
323.1608Get out your bag of rocks, Glen...CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 20:4512
    	Jim -- The Nov 16, 1992 Focus on the Family magazine 'Citizen'
    	quotes several professors and doctors who hold this belief.
    	For instance Dr. John Money, a retired professor of medical
    	psychology and pediatrics as Johns Hopkins University says, 
    	"pedophilia should be viewed as a sexual orientation, not a
    	disease or disorder".
    
    	Also UMASS, Amherst, has revised its non-discrimination
    	policy to protect "persons whose sexual orientation includes
    	minor children as the sex object."  (May 27,1993 Washington
    	Times.)
    	
323.1609BIGQ::SILVADiabloWed Nov 29 1995 21:043

	Gee, I wonder if FoF takes things out of context like the CFV does?
323.1610BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 29 1995 21:1633
    RE: .1606  Joe Oppelt

    / Pedophilia is introduced into the equation when the term
    / 'sexual orientation' is used in proposed additions to the
    / Civil Rights Act.  Increasingly pedophilia is being called
    / an orientation too.  Sure, it is not mainstream today, but 
    / that doesn't change the budding trend it has.

    Heterosexuality is a sexual orientation, too.

    Right now, some say there is only ONE sexual orientation that is OK.
    Well, I say there are TWO sexual orientations which are OK.

    We are both against 'Pedophilia'.  I'm against it because it involves
    the exploitation of children (and does not involve relations between
    consenting adults.)  I'm not sure why you are against it.

    // None of this has anything to do with 'Pedophilia', of course.
    
    / It does if you are not careful about the umbrella you choose
    / to stand under.

    Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
    which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation.  Both
    of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.

    If you wish to keep it legal to discriminate against gays so that
    everyone can discriminate against pedophiles at will, I won't agree
    to that.

    The sexual orientations which involve consenting adults are: hetero-
    sexuality and homosexuality.  These two belong grouped together,
    while 'Pedophilia' stands alone.
323.1611CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Wed Nov 29 1995 21:388
         <<< Note 323.1610 by BSS::S_CONLON "A Season of Carnelians" >>>

>    Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
>    which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation.  Both
>    of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.

    	Great.  Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying 
    	your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
323.1612Why?BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 29 1995 21:5623
    RE: .1611  Joe Oppelt

    // Heterosexuals and homosexuals would both be protected under laws
    // which prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation.  Both
    // of these sexual orientations involve consenting adults.

    / Great.  Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying 
    / your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.

    Why?  Would you like employers to be able to walk up to people and
    say, "You look like a pedophile to me - even though you've never
    been arrested or accused of molesting any children - so you're fired."
    
    Most pedophiles are also heterosexual, so that means that most people
    can be described as 'looking like' pedophiles.
    
    If people have been convicted (or accused) of child molesting, then
    some of their illegal exploitation of children have been documented.  
    They wouldn't be protected on the basis of 'orientation' anyway.
    
    If given a choice, I'd rather not have ANY employers given the legal 
    right to fire someone based on their (perhaps horribly flawed) 
    perceptions or prejudices about a person's sexual orientation.
323.1613MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 22:039
 ZZ   The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
    
    Right; however, they are both predispositions.  Some cultures no doubt
    consider sex with minors a non offense, as Meg pointed out last week. 
    Therefore, pedophilia being a victimization of children is based on our
    perception of exploitation.
    
    I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
    victimize each other.  My point is no less valid than yours correct?
323.1614BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 29 1995 22:1825
    RE: .1613  Jack

    // The whole point is that homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'.
    
    / Right; however, they are both predispositions.  Some cultures no doubt
    / consider sex with minors a non offense, as Meg pointed out last week. 

    Some other cultures execute people for having heterosexual sex in certain
    situations.  What's your point?

    / Therefore, pedophilia being a victimization of children is based on
    / our perception of exploitation.

    It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
    consent.  That's why pedophilia stands alone (apart from sexual
    relations between consenting adults.)

    / I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
    / victimize each other.  My point is no less valid than yours correct?

    Your point has no validity at all because you would turn all those
    who engage in anal intercourse into *victims* (as well as victimizers.)

    Please don't try to turn people into victims against their wills in order 
    to justify discriminating against them.
323.1615MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Nov 29 1995 22:2410
 ZZ   It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
 ZZ   consent. 
    
    Congressman Studds in Massachusetts might disagree with this.
    
    Re: Victims.  Haha...that's a laugh.  Your ilk in government has been
    manufacturing victims of all colors, shapes and sized for the last
    twenty years.  Don't sit there and tell me I'm doing it!
    
    -Jack
323.1616By the way, don't forget that hets have anal intercourse, too.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Nov 29 1995 22:3411
    RE: .1615  Jack 
    
    / Re: Victims.  Haha...that's a laugh.  Your ilk in government has been
    / manufacturing victims of all colors, shapes and sized for the last
    / twenty years.  Don't sit there and tell me I'm doing it!
    
    So, I take it that you've abandoned the notion of classifying people
    as victimizers (and victims) for engaging in anal intercourse with
    other consenting adults.
    
    Good idea.
323.1617BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 00:4812
| <<< Note 323.1613 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Right; however, they are both predispositions.  

	Along with heterosexuals..... but two deal with consenting adults, one
does not. Two don't have victims, one does. Yet another difference. 

| I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays victimize each 
| other. My point is no less valid than yours correct?

	Sex can be unsanitary. Depends on what you do beforehand.
323.1618BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 00:4912
| <<< Note 323.1615 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ   It's based on the determination that children are unable to give
| ZZ   consent.

| Congressman Studds in Massachusetts might disagree with this.

	Please explain.



Glen
323.1619BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 09:5410
          <<< Note 323.1608 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

	Joe, you have one quote from a former medical professional and
	one institution that has implemented a policy.

	These two instances do not support your use of the term 
	"increasingly". Do you have anything that actually backs up 
	the statement you made?

Jim
323.1620BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 09:5813
          <<< Note 323.1611 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Great.  Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying 
>    	your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.

	But Joe, as you keep telling us, it's the behavior. Being Gay
	is NOT behavior it is an orientation. Sex with minors IS behavior.
	Behavior that can be prohibited without addressing the supposed
	orientation of the pedophile.

Jim


323.1621BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 10:0013
      <<< Note 323.1613 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

    
>    I believe since anal intercourse is not safe or sanitary, gays
>    victimize each other.  My point is no less valid than yours correct?

	Is it your contention that ONLY Gays participate in anal intercourse?

	You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
	justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
	that group participate.

Jim
323.1622MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 15:5513
ZZ    You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
ZZ    justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
ZZ    that group participate.
    
    Jim, let me ask you this.  Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
    not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
    written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?
    I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
    sex are illegal in certain parts of the country.  As stupid as you may
    think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
    yet.
    
    -Jack
323.1623CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 30 1995 16:0214
   <<< Note 323.1619 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	These two instances do not support your use of the term 
>	"increasingly". Do you have anything that actually backs up 
>	the statement you made?

    	There are more than two instances, and .1608 indicates that.
    	And surely you saw in .1606 that I do not consider this 
    	widespread, so you set your expectations erroneously.
    
    	But certainly a growth from zero, to a few professionals, to
    	the policy of an entire university shows an increase.  You 
    	are welcome to debate the semantics of that if you wish.
    	Count me out.
323.1624BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 16:0522
    RE: .1622  Jack Martin

    // You point has no validity if you use a particular behavior as
    // justification to discriminate against one group, when more than
    // that group participate.
    
    / Jim, let me ask you this.  Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
    / not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
    / written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?

    This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
    homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
    to their partners.  Or are you saying that a man who has his pipes
    cleaned (so to speak) by his wife is a "victim" in this encounter?

    / I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
    / sex are illegal in certain parts of the country.  As stupid as you may
    / think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
    / yet.

    These laws are usually only enforced when homosexual couples are
    involved.  That's probably why the laws are still on the books.
323.1625CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 30 1995 16:1123
   <<< Note 323.1620 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>>    	Great.  Then it looks like you'll have to start qualifying 
>>    	your (collective you) requested changes to Civil Rights laws.
>
>	But Joe, as you keep telling us, it's the behavior. Being Gay
>	is NOT behavior it is an orientation. 
    
    	Precisely.  I stand by my position regarding behavior.  I'm
    	merely showing what the term 'orientation' can include if
    	left unqualified.  You sneer at the suggestion of 'the can 
    	of worms' or the slippery slope.  (Of course you are very
    	selective in that sneer for I've seen you use slippery
    	slope concepts in constitutional debates -- especially
    	regarding gun issues -- and you make slippery slope hints
    	that limiting gay rights will lead to jackbooted lynchings,
    	etc...)  But I've shown you that the movement into sexual
    	orientation protection is already drifting into the inclusion
    	of behaviors even you abhor.
    
    	I'm doing you a favor and giving you the opportunity to
    	adjust your wordings so that you do not inadvertently
    	include behaviors you do not intend to support.
323.1626MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 16:127
   ZZ     This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
   ZZ     homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
   ZZ     to their partners. 
    
    whatz it loik?  (Monty Python)
    
    Sorry...couldn't resist!
323.1627MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 16:144
    I am well aware of this.  So a predisposition is a predisposition is a
    predisposition as long as it is done by two consenting adults.  What
    about the case in news briefs of the 72 year old man and the 32 year
    old granddaughter?  Suzanne, do you feel incest should be legalized?
323.1628NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 30 1995 16:145
>This may come as a great surprise to you, but heterosexual and
>homosexual couples often use oral and anal sex to give pleasure
>to their partners. 

If couples have partners, it's group sex.  HTH.
323.1629NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 30 1995 16:153
re .1627:

71, 30.  HTH.
323.1630BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 17:0215
    RE: .1627  Jack Martin

    / I am well aware of this.  So a predisposition is a predisposition is a
    / predisposition as long as it is done by two consenting adults.  

    Consenting adults are not victimized by sexual acts that are done to
    give (or share) pleasure as part of sexual relations.

    / What about the case in news briefs of the 72 year old man and the 
    / 32 year old granddaughter?  Suzanne, do you feel incest should be 
    / legalized?

    As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
    husband.  Are there laws against related consenting adults having
    sex with each other?  If so, how often are they enforced?
323.1631NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 30 1995 17:066
>    As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
>    husband.  Are there laws against related consenting adults having
>    sex with each other?  If so, how often are they enforced?

I suspect most states have laws against incest.  I also suspect they're
rarely enforced.
323.1632MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 17:326
    Z    As far as I know, those two were arrested for plotting to kill her
    Z    husband.  Are there laws against related consenting adults having
    Z   sex with each other?  If so, how often are they enforced?
    
    Let's assume there isn't a husband.  Do you feel incest should be
    outlawed between two consenting adults?
323.1633I got some gasoline here for the fire...ALPHAZ::HARNEYJohn A HarneyThu Nov 30 1995 17:357
re: .1632 (Jack)

>    Let's assume there isn't a husband.  Do you feel incest should be
>    outlawed between two consenting adults?

No.
\john
323.1634BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 17:4120
    RE: .1632  Jack Martin

    / Let's assume there isn't a husband.  Do you feel incest should be
    / outlawed between two consenting adults?

    Who would monitor every consenting adult who has sex to make sure
    that he or she chooses a partner who does not happen to be a relative?

    Such laws are probably on the books already, as Gerald said, but if
    so, they are rarely enforced.

    Are you suggesting that we support discrimination against gays under
    the fear that if we don't, then related people all over this country
    will start boinking each other since they'll figure that anything done
    between consenting adults is ok?
    
    Homosexuality is not incest (just as it isn't pedophilia.)
    
    Homosexuality is most like heterosexuality, if you want to compare
    it with something.
323.1635MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 17:489
    Suzanne, before answering any of those points, I am asking you a yes/no
    question.  Do you believe incest should continue to be outlawed in this
    country if done between two consenting adults?  
    
    I believe it should remain outlawed for the simple fact that babies
    born from incest have a higher degree of genetic disabilities.  Once
    again babies suffer due to the actions and choices of selfish adults.
    
    -Jack
323.1636NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 30 1995 17:592
Jack, do you think sex between two Tay-Sachs carriers should be outlawed?
There's a 1 in 4 chance of the offspring living a short painful life.
323.1637MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 18:015
ZZ    Tay-Sachs
    
    Is that like Potato Sacks?
    
    I see your point.
323.1638BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 18:1229
      <<< Note 323.1622 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Jim, let me ask you this.  Stupid law or not...totally ridiculous or
>    not, if you commit an act against somebody else that is against the
>    written civil law for personal gratification, is is victimizing?
>    I am by no means draconian on these laws but anal intercourse and oral
>    sex are illegal in certain parts of the country.  
 
	I would not call consensual oral or anal sex "victimizing", regardless
	of the legal status of such acts. 

>As stupid as you may
>    think they are, it is interesting our politicians haven't removed them
>    yet.
 
	What is even more stupid is the Supreme Court has upheld such laws
	to be Constitutional.

	But you ignored the point of my note. Oral and anal sex may, in your
	opinion, be unhealthy., but those acts are NOT soley committed by
	Gays. In fact, from a pure numerical perspective, they are quite
	likely committed by hets MORE than by Gays. Using these acts as
	a reason to support continued discrimination of Gays is not logical.

	If you want to start a campaign to outlaw these acts throughout
	the country, that's one thing. But to single out the Gay community
	is unequal treatment, pure and simple.

Jim
323.1640BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 18:1611
          <<< Note 323.1625 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

>    	Precisely.  I stand by my position regarding behavior.  I'm
>    	merely showing what the term 'orientation' can include if
>    	left unqualified. 

	And wild, unfounded scare mongering, while a favorite tactic of
	the religious right, makes for a very poor argument. You STILL
	aren't very good at this, are you?

Jim
323.1641CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsThu Nov 30 1995 18:2416
    Jack,
    
    Irt has been pointed out to you many times, by someone who is in a
    position to know that not all, or even most same-sex couples practice 
    anal intercourse, in the case of two women, this would be nigh unto
    impossible.  It has also been pointed out that some heterosexual
    couples do.  In fact Cameron seems to approve of this practice, and
    some others that I find more repugnant and unsafe between married
    couples if they both enjoyed it, (Sexual Gradualism, C 1981)  while
    condemning the same practices among gay partners.  
    
    Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
    transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex? 
    I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
    
    meg
323.1642CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 30 1995 18:2811
    	re .1640
    
    	Content-free.
    
    	You used to be able to compose forceful arguments that
    	didn't have to resort to "wild, unfounded" accusations. 
    	I've shown you clear examples for what you requested.  
    	These are neither wild nor unfounded.
    
    	You've slipped, Jim.  You have a different style now, and 
    	you're right.  I'm not very good at it.
323.1643Only 1 or 2 cases of Lesbians transmitting AIDS have been found.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 18:2813
    RE: .1641  Meg
    
    / Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
    / transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex? 
    / I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
    
    Ooo!  Ooo!  Can I answer this, Meg?
    
    Lesbians are the lowest risk group for AIDS and other STDs.
    
    Some claim that AIDS is God's punishment - if so, then lesbians are
    God's chosen people (because they are the lowest risk group for this
    disease and other STDs.)
323.1644ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Nov 30 1995 18:2993
    re: .1604
    
    Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
    by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations.  At least 
    currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.
    
    "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
    society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
    parameters).  It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
    that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
    social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or
    immoral. 
    
    I've fully explained, historically, why society has the views it does
    in previous notes, so I'll spare you the repeat here.  Let's just say
    that the buzz-words like "sexual orientation" are irrelevent and
    misused by those who seek to defend that which is otherwise
    indefensible by societal standards.  
    
    Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal 
    to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.  
    "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
    considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the 
    foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and 
    female).  This is the crux of the issue that is purposely being ignored or
    dismissed offhand, and why the gay rights activists wisely hide behind
    the well-stuffed strawman of "equal rights".  
    
    You see, it is difficult to argue against "equal rights", so this is the 
    rallying call behind the gay movement, which tries to bury the issues
    of what society has every right to define for itself  (proper relations
    and concept of family).  As I've tried to point out in
    several of my notes (this one included), "equal rights" is simply an 
    obfuscation of the real issue. 
    
    Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.
    [and please don't take this as a defense for gay bashing and the like,
    this is not what I'm talking about at all]   This does not mean that
    society cannot change its mind on certain behaviors/lifestyles down the
    road (premarital sex is widely accepted today, and is a good example). 
    However, placing such behaviors/lifestyles under a huge umbrella of
    "eqaul rights" is not really honest.
    
    Perhaps we should add "obesity" to the CRA, too.  I've heard more
    stories about obese people being discriminated against than I have
    about gays being discriminated against; and at least the obese are 
    identifiable, though probably not a minority (as the
    term is so loosely used today).  The reasoning for adding this is
    comparable to the reasoning behind adding "sexual orientation" to the
    Act.
    
    
    Pedophilia was brought up as an overt example of going against
    society's currently defined social/sexual morality.  Having sex with 
    children is simply immoral/wrong.  What makes it a good exaple is that 
    A) we can all agree it is not a good thing; and B) it can be placed under 
    the generic "sexual orientation" strawman being thrown about in this
    currnet discussion.
    
    No one feels the least bit bad about a pedophile losing his job
    (because he was found out), being vilified in public, or being
    discriminated against in a number of other ways.  But if indeed
    pedophilia is a "sexual orientation", can those sticking up for
    homosexuality really cast aspersions on pedophiles?  If so, you are
    making a moral judgement that one orientation is NOT good, while the
    other is okay, and it is okay to discriminate against the one that is
    considered "bad".
    
    And indeed, if pedophilic "orientation" is not considered to be a good
    thing by society, then it has every right to discriminate against it-
    whether pedophilia is a choice, a genetic issue, or whatever.  And if
    it does not consider it a good thing, then why on earth would it ever
    consider giving pedophiles equal status under law (by consideration of
    sexual "orientation" only), by changing the law to conform to their
    sexual deviancy?
    
    If you can follow the above logic, then you should easily be able to
    understand my argument against changing laws regarding marriage and
    such to include homosexual.  It is not at all a bad parallel (and
    'parallel' certainly does not mean that I am COMPARING homosexuality
    with pedophilia), as you suggest, when viewed from this perspective.  
    Both go against current etablished laws and established societal morality. 
    The "consenting adults" argument against this parallel is irrelevent, as
    the parallel is not dependent upon this one factor, at least within the 
    context in which I am using it.
    
    I don't expect you to be able to separate all issues involved, but
    you can't blame me for trying to point out that your simplistic
    "homosexuality is NOT 'Pedophilia'" dismissal is quite beside every
    point I was attmpting to get across.
    
    
    -steve                   
323.1645what passage ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Nov 30 1995 18:326
    
      Jim Percival : it isn't stupid, you are.  Nowehere does the
     constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
     You made it up.  Fortunately, the SCOTUS doesn't (mostly).
    
      bb
323.1646CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 30 1995 18:3213
          <<< Note 323.1641 by CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors" >>>

>    Irt has been pointed out to you many times, by someone who is in a
>    position to know that not all, or even most same-sex couples practice 
>    anal intercourse, in the case of two women, this would be nigh unto
>    impossible.  
    
    	I missed where that was pointed out.  According to what was
    	reported in .997, 75% of (assumed male) couples do.
    
    	But regarding the two females, I wonder if this could be a
    	reason for the fact that the spread of AIDS is the lowest 
    	among lesbians.
323.1647NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Nov 30 1995 18:363
re .1643:

Solo masturbators are at lower risk than lesbians.
323.1648SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Thu Nov 30 1995 18:5116
    .1645
    
    > Nowehere does the
    > constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
    
    Bill of Rights.  Amendment 9.  "The enumeration in the Constitution, of
    certain rights, shall not be construed to deny or disparage others
    retained by the people."
    
    The people have the right to live their lives as they see fit, so long
    as they do not in so doing injure other people or society in general.
    
    Q:  How does what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy of
        their own homes injure anyone else?
    
    A:  It doesn't.  So butt out.
323.1649BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 18:5776
    RE: .1644  Steve Leech

    / Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
    / by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations.  At least 
    / currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.

    On the contrary, I think society has become sophisticated enough by
    now to realize that the days are gone when 'the missionary position 
    only with the lights out and bodies still mostly covered' was the 
    only truly "PROPER FORM" of sexual relations between consenting adults.

    Most people in our society don't particularly care what consenting
    adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives anymore.  You've
    said yourself that you don't care about it either.

    / "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real 
    / issue society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and 
    / moral parameters).  It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, 
    / in order that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon 
    / society's social base as just being "different", and not inherantly 
    / deviant or immoral. 

    Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
    do in the privacy of their own sex lives.  

    Some people in our culture are pushing very hard to 'get government
    off the backs of the people' so why on Earth would anyone want society
    (or the government) to decide what consenting adults can or should do
    in the most private aspects of their lives?

    / Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal 
    / to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.  

    Homosexuality is more like heterosexuality than it's like anything
    else.  There's nothing deceptive about that.

    People don't develop their sexual attractions based on majority rule.
    Most people grow up to be attracted to the opposite sex but some people
    grow up to be attracted to people of the same sex.  We've known about
    this aspect of our species (and other species on Earth) for thousands
    of years.  It's long past time to get used to the idea.

    / "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
    / considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the 
    / foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and 
    / female). 

    It's the most common form of sexual relations, but 'heterosexuality'
    itself includes a substantial range of behaviors within it.  A subset
    of these behaviors are sexual acts that some homosexuals also perform.

    Homosexuals have no unique sexual acts which are not also done by
    heterosexuals.

    / You see, it is difficult to argue against "equal rights",

    As well it should be.

    There is no justification for discriminating against people who just
    happen to be gay.  There are no assumptions which hold true for all
    gays (just as no assumptions hold true for ALL heterosexuals, either.)

    What consenting adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives is
    no one else's business.  Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
    gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.

    / Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.

    When gay people burst into your home and have sex on your living
    room floor, complain about it.  Until then, you're only talking
    about what you presume gay people do by the fact that they are gay.
    You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
    your presumptions about them.

    This is not rightful discrimination.  It's bigotry and unfair
    discrimination.
323.1650doesn't mean thatGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Nov 30 1995 19:0113
    
      Amendment 9 means no such thing, nor is there any recognition
     in Law in the USA that there is a victim/victimless dichotomy
     that you (and other 'Boxers) mistakenly assume.  There just isn't
     any recognition anywhere that "hurting others" is germane.
    
      If you read 9 the way you want, it forbids all laws, but that's
     not reasonable, as either a principle, or historically.  And in
     fact, nobody challenges, say, the anti-bigamy laws, on a 9th
     Amendment basis because they know the basis has no merit and the
     court would quite rightly dismiss the argument.
    
      bb
323.1651SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Thu Nov 30 1995 19:3415
    .1650
    
    > Amendment 9 means no such thing
    
    IYHO.
    
    Amendment 9 is there specifically to prevent the government from
    trampling on individuals' rights just because it wants to.  The
    Constitution does not grant rights, it recognizes the rights that are
    inherent to the people.  And the people of a Constitutionally
    areligious state have the right not to be bound by the moral strictures
    of ANY religion.  Hence, whether you like it or not, there IS a right
    to one's chosen sexual behaviors.  And there IS a victim/victimless
    dichotomy in the very nature of injury.  The people have a right not to
    be injured by each other.  Your fist ends at my nose.
323.1652BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 19:4225
| <<< Note 323.1644 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
| society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
| parameters).  It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
| that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
| social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or immoral.

	And the woman who got fired because she was straight was able to use
the sexual orientation laws because...... tell us, Steve. 

| Using "sexual orientation" is simply a way to make homosexuality equal
| to heterosexuality, which is a very deceptive form of argument.

	Deceptive? Let me ask you something. It can only be deceptive if the
person using the terminology views it as such, but uses it anyway. 

| "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", 

	I forgot...you're all gods.... Steve, talk about deception. The
"proper" form of sexual relations? I guess the next thing you should do 
is tell us which sex acts from the het community are "proper", and which
ones aren't. Or are all of them ok?

323.1653BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 19:4423
          <<< Note 323.1645 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

    
>      Jim Percival : it isn't stupid, you are.  Nowehere does the
>     constitution of the USA say you or anybody has any sexual rights.
>     You made it up.  Fortunately, the SCOTUS doesn't (mostly).
 
	Made what up? Try to at least attempt to be coherent. I most 
	certainly did not say that sexual rights were contained in the 
	Constitution.

	I stated that it was stupid for the Court to agree that the
	state has a role in the private bedroom habits of consenting
	adults. I stand by that statement. 

	Now, you may wish to argue that the state has an overiding 
	interest in such matters and that such laws are "good". But
	the idea that the state should establish some sort of "sex 
	police" detachment is very likely not one that will gain 
	a large following except among those that rely on the 700
	Club for their view of the world.

Jim
323.1654BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 19:4510
| <<< Note 323.1646 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


| But regarding the two females, I wonder if this could be a
| reason for the fact that the spread of AIDS is the lowest
| among lesbians.


	Yeah... all those wimmins out there who are straight and having anal
sex. Yup... that's how they got it. Be real...just for once?
323.1655COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 30 1995 19:484
The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
had the authority to outlaw sodomy.

/john
323.1656BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 19:5022
          <<< Note 323.1650 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

    
>      Amendment 9 means no such thing, nor is there any recognition
>     in Law in the USA that there is a victim/victimless dichotomy
>     that you (and other 'Boxers) mistakenly assume.  There just isn't
>     any recognition anywhere that "hurting others" is germane.
 
	The Court is quite obtuse at times. The same Court that finds
	the right to privacy (very likely an unenumerated right) in
	Roe v. Wade, upholds anti-sodomy laws. Go figure.

>And in
>     fact, nobody challenges, say, the anti-bigamy laws, on a 9th
>     Amendment basis because they know the basis has no merit and the
>     court would quite rightly dismiss the argument.
 
	The argument could be made on a privacy point. But more likely
	challenges would spring from the 1st Amendment's protections
	of religious freedom.

Jim
323.1657BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 19:527
| <<< Note 323.1655 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
| had the authority to outlaw sodomy.

	Now define sodomy, John. Tell me who it covers. Actually, your
definition will cover that.
323.1658BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 19:528
            <<< Note 323.1655 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

>The U.S. Supreme Court quite recently ruled in the Atlanta case that states
>had the authority to outlaw sodomy.

	Quite true. And quite a bad decision.

Jim
323.1659COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 30 1995 20:027
>Now define sodomy, John. Tell me who it covers. Actually, your
>definition will cover that.

The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
in sodomy with anyone of either sex.

/john
323.1660...so, don't do it anymore.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Nov 30 1995 20:0314
    Before anyone else even CONSIDERS making an argument against gays
    for 'behaviors', consider this:  Unless a specific gay person is
    having sex in front of you (in your house, in your office at work,
    in your car, in the movie theater where you are watching a movie,
    in the restaurant where you are eating, on the street where you
    are walking or driving, for example), then you don't ever really
    know what behaviors anyone does in the privacy of his/her own sex 
    life.

    You are trying to discriminate against people based on your
    presumptions and assumptions about which behaviors they may
    possibly be performing.
    
    That's bigotry and unfair discrimination.  
323.1661BIGQ::SILVADiabloThu Nov 30 1995 20:098
| <<< Note 323.1659 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>


| The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
| in sodomy with anyone of either sex.

	John, what sex acts does the sodomy laws include. Please don't leave
any out.
323.1662COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Nov 30 1995 20:183
Go look up the law, Glen.

/john
323.1663MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Nov 30 1995 20:1914
 ZZ   The people have the right to live their lives as they see fit, so long
 ZZ   as they do not in so doing injure other people or society in
 ZZ   general.
    
    And since 1980, would you say the way people have been behaving hasn't 
    done injury to the society in general?
        
 ZZ       Q:  How does what goes on between consenting adults in the privacy
 ZZ           of their own homes injure anyone else?
 ZZ       A:  It doesn't.  So butt out
    
    Exactly.  Now maybe I can send my kids to public school again.
    
    -Jack
323.1664BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 20:2078
            <<< Note 323.1644 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Actually, bringing up "sexual orientation" only obfuscates the argument
>    by suggesting that there is no proper form of relations.  At least 
>    currently, society does not buy into this argument, and neither do I.
 
	The term "proper" connotes a right and a wrong form. This, of course,
	raises the question concerning the authority used for determining
	what is right or wrong. I suspect that it took so many lines in
	your reply so that you could avoid answering that question.

>    "Sexual orientation" is simply a way to try and cover over the real issue
>    society has: sexual deviancy (from its own defined normal and moral
>    parameters).  It is a way to deflect from the moral issues, in order
>    that "other" sexual orientations might be inflicted upon society's
>    social base as just being "different", and not inherantly deviant or
>    immoral. 
 
	You skirt the source just a bit here. The use of the term "moral"
	gives us an indication of the source of your "authority", but I
	can only wonder why you don't just come out and tell us.

	Everyone sing along now....."Because the Bible Tells Me So".

	
>    I've fully explained, historically, why society has the views it does
>    in previous notes, so I'll spare you the repeat here.  Let's just say
>    that the buzz-words like "sexual orientation" are irrelevent and
>    misused by those who seek to defend that which is otherwise
>    indefensible by societal standards.  
 
	You have regurgitated the same arguments that were used over the
	last several hundred years to keep racial minorities in their
	place. You take aim at a different minority, but the words are
	identical. You claim you are not a bigot, but you have their
	songs down pat.

	You choose to argue for the continued unequal treatment of fellow
	citizens because you, and your ilk, do not approve of their
	"lifestyle" or more particularly of their sexual practices.
	Once again I'd like an answer to my question concerning how mamy
	Gay sex acts you have witnessed. Or is your bigotry based soley
	on your own assumptions? The concept of streotyping is another
	trait that you share with the racial bigots of old it seems.

>THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the 
>    foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and 
>    female).

	Why? Surely you have logic to back up such a strongly held belief.

>    Some behaviors and lifestyles are rightfully discriminated against.

	This is true, but I suspect that we do not agree on certain
	areas where the state has no proper interest in behavior.

>    Pedophilia was brought up as an overt example of going against
>    society's currently defined social/sexual morality.  Having sex with 
>    children is simply immoral/wrong.  What makes it a good exaple is that 
>    A) we can all agree it is not a good thing; and B) it can be placed under 
>    the generic "sexual orientation" strawman being thrown about in this
>    currnet discussion.
 
	It only is placed there by you and Joe. But let's assume for a moment
	that you are right. I could support a law that prohibits discrimination
	against pedophiles, while at the same time supporting a law that
	makes sex with children a crime. This position would be perfectly
	consistent with your CLAIMS that it is behavior that is at issue,
	not orientation. But of course your claims are bogus when it comes
	to Gays. You choose to discriminate against ALL Gays, regardless
	of the behaviors that they may, or may not, choose. You lie
	when you tell us it's the behavior and not the person. You streotype
	all Gays into one homongenous group and then point at them and say
	"Society is right to discriminate". You don't deal with behavior
	at all, only the people that acknowledge their orientation.


Jim
323.1665CSC32::J_OPPELTWanna see my scar?Thu Nov 30 1995 22:4817
                  <<< Note 323.1654 by BIGQ::SILVA "Diablo" >>>

>	Yeah... all those wimmins out there who are straight and having anal
> sex. Yup... that's how they got it. Be real...just for once?

    	I didn't say that, of course.  But all the same, I wonder why 
    	you deny that this is a possiblity?
    
    	Still, you have to consider that anal intercourse stretches
    	the sphincter beyond normal limits, causing small rips in
    	the skin, and providing the HIV virus (if present) the most
    	direct route to the recipient's blood supply.  This, 
    	whether the recipient is male or female.  And even if HIV
    	is not present, certainly the recipient's own intestinal
    	bacteria is -- whether the partner wears a condom or not --
    	exposing the recipient to a host of bacterial infections
    	not normally at risk in vaginal intercourse.
323.1666BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 22:568
            <<< Note 323.1659 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

>The specific law which was upheld was broad enough to cover anyone engaging
>in sodomy with anyone of either sex.

John,	How many Het couples have been charged under Georgia's law?

Jim
323.1667BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Nov 30 1995 23:0820
          <<< Note 323.1665 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>


	And your point is?

	Sounds to me like you want to enlist in the first squad of 
	bedroom police.

	I should warn you. The first jackboot that comes peering into
	MY bedroom will be studying the rifling patterns of TWO .45
	pistols (both my wife and I have one).

	
	When will you self righteous twits figure it out that it's none 
	of your bloody business?


	Unfortunately, the spirit of Torquemada lives on.

Jim
323.1668Some behavior yes, some no. Like, duh.ALPHAZ::HARNEYJohn A HarneyThu Nov 30 1995 23:2924
re: .1663 (Our Jack)

>    And since 1980, would you say the way people have been behaving hasn't 
>    done injury to the society in general?

you trot this out quite often.  the fact of the matter is that people
have ALWAYS been saying "things are going down hill," since the beginning
of recorded time.  It's a scare tactic, nothing more.  Like telling old
people the republicans are after their medicare, it's designed to put
fear into people.  And to control them.  To sway their opinion.

You hold no moral high ground.  You have no proof of "PROPER RELATIONS."
You are not the arbiter of what causes "moral decay."  If you believe
that book to follow so closely, you'd know you are not perfect.  That
you make mistakes.  Accept the notion for just one second that you
MAY BE WRONG about "societal pillers" and gay people.  Think about that
for a moment.  What if you're wrong?  That you've been bashing, maligning,
harassing, badgering, and insulting perfectly fine people?  ... Ok, enough
strain.  Now that you see how wrong it would be, you owe it to yourself,
and to them, to be more open.  To examine the facts more closely.  To
admit where errors might creep into the system.  To see if maybe, just
maybe, you're misdirecting your "energy".

\john
323.1669COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Dec 01 1995 01:086
>How many Het couples have been charged under Georgia's law?

I think if you actually study the history you'll find that the law has
probably been used most often in the case of heterosexual sodomy.

/john
323.1670ALPHAZ::HARNEYJohn A HarneyFri Dec 01 1995 08:056
re: .1668 (me)

Yes, I know Jack didn't bring up "proper relations."  No problem,
right?  Since there's only one morality, he certainly agree...

\john
323.1671BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 01 1995 12:039
            <<< Note 323.1669 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

>I think if you actually study the history you'll find that the law has
>probably been used most often in the case of heterosexual sodomy.

	Of course this response does not constitute an answer to my 
	question.

Jim
323.1672BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 12:356
| <<< Note 323.1662 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| Go look up the law, Glen.

	I knew a response like this would come from you. I mean, you might be
one of those law breakers.....
323.1673BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 12:3713
| <<< Note 323.1665 by CSC32::J_OPPELT "Wanna see my scar?" >>>

| I didn't say that, of course.  But all the same, I wonder why
| you deny that this is a possiblity?

	Because it is not anal penetration that does it. It is penetration in
the anus or vagina that causes it. Seeing lesbians do not have penetration from
a penis, they are a very low risk group. 




Glen
323.1674POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of Tummy TimeFri Dec 01 1995 12:374
    
    Ban penises!
    
    
323.1675TROOA::COLLINSRoboBar: The Future Of HospitalityFri Dec 01 1995 12:383
    
    {GASP!}
    
323.1676CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Fri Dec 01 1995 12:4215
>| Go look up the law, Glen.

>	I knew a response like this would come from you. I mean, you might be
>one of those law breakers.....


  How would you have liked him to respond?  John posted the Supreme Court 
 finding, you asked him (John) to define sodomy (hint, John is not the 
 Supreme Court) and he tells you to go look up the law..what the heck is
 the problem with that?



 Jim
323.1677BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 12:563

	It could have to do with he knows what the law involves. 
323.1678Love this book !GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Dec 01 1995 13:0664
 [note mine : In the Oxford Companion, an astrisk * indicates there is
 an entry under the word following.  For non-technical research on the
 Supreme Court, I heartily recommend this 1000-page reference, arranged
 as a dictionary/encyclopedia, alphabetically, with over 20 distinguished
 contributors, 400 cases, biographies of all justices, court definitions
 of words and code phrases - bb]

   from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
 1992, Oxford University Press, "Homosexuality", by John Anthony Maltese

   Homosexuality.  The Supreme Court has protected some aspects of sexual
 autonomy within the context of a constitutional right of *privacy.  It
 has recognized an individual's right to use contraceptives in *Griswold
 v. Connecticutt (1965) and *Eisenstadt v. Baird (1972) and upheld a
 woman's right to decide whether or not to terminate her pregnancy in
 *Roe v. Wade (1973).  In *Bowers v. Hardwick (1986), the Court refused
 to construe the right of privacy to protect consensual homosexual activity
 by adults in their own homes.  At that time, twenty-four states plus the
 District of Columbia outlawed sodomy.  The 5-4 majority in Hardwick held
 that such laws had a rational basis.  In his majority opinion, Justice
 Byron *White maintained that the right to privacy did not confer a general
 right to sexual autonomy but was limited to questions of marriage, family,
 and procreation, concluding that homosexual activity bore no connection
 to any of those.  In a strong dissent, Justice Harry *Blackmun insisted
 that the majority had addressed issues not before it.  Gay rights groups
 denounced Hardwick as their equivalent of the Dred *Scott case.

   Despite increasing litigation in the 1970s and 1980s, efforts to secure
 more expanded protection for homosexuals have been largely unsuccessful.
 In addition to the privacy claim rejected in Hardwick, advocates have
 suggested that constitutional protections of the rights of homosexuals
 could be derived from the *First, *Eighth, and *Ninth Amendments as well
 as from the *Equal Protection Clause of the *Fourteenth Amendment.  Justice
 Lewis *Powell, concurring in Hardwick, suggested that imprisonment for
 private sexual conduct would raise a serious Eighth Amendment issue.  Still,
 the Eighth Amendment ban on *cruel and unusual punishment would provide only
 limited protection to homosexuals.

   The most direct concern of many lesbians and gay men is not imprisonment
 but the discrimination that they face on a regular basis at the workplace,
 in securing housing, and in gaining custody of their children.  Although
 some courts have granted First Amendment protection for such activities as
 public acknowledgement of one's homosexuality, advocacy of gay rights, and
 even some forms of symbolic speech, the Supreme Court has been reluctant to
 extend broad First Amendment protection to homosexuals.  For instance, it
 has consistently denied *certiorari in cases concerning the dismissal of
 schoolteachers because of their known homosexual status.

   The Court's recognition of homosexuality as a *suspect classification
 under the *Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment would
 provide more expansive constitutional protection.  Some argue that
 homosexuals as a group meet the criteria established for suspect
 classification, but the Supreme Court has not agreed.  In Hardwick the
 Court concluded that conduct that is a defining characteristic of
 homosexuality is not constitutionally protected and may be criminalized.
 The Court has been reluctant to create new suspect classes, and the federal
 civil rights statutes that bar discrimination do not specifically address
 the issue of sexual orientation (see DISCRIMINATORY INTENT).

   Ref. : "The Constitutional Status of Sexual Orientation : Homosexuality
 as a Suspect Classification", note in Harvard Law Review 98 (1984):1285-1309


323.1679TROOA::COLLINSRoboBar: The Future Of HospitalityFri Dec 01 1995 13:148
    
    .1678
    
    >The 5-4 majority in Hardwick held that such laws had a rational basis.

    Sounds like the court is only one appointment away from a completely
    opposite decision.

323.1680BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 01 1995 13:178
          <<< Note 323.1678 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


	Very nice summary.

Thanks

Jim
323.1681Guess what "suspect" means before reading this.GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Dec 01 1995 13:4737
 [note mine : I love my new toy.  I previously used a copy from the public
 library, but two days ago, I coughed up $35 for my own Oxford Companion.
 How well written it is !  If you don't agree, hit "next unseen". - bb]

   from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
 1992, Oxford University Press, "Suspect Classifications" by Thomas G. Walker

   Suspect Classifications.  The *Due Process Clause of the *Fifth Amendment
 and the *Equal Protection Clause of the *Fourteenth Amendment prohibit
 federal and state governments from engaging in certain forms of
 discriminatory behavior.  Not all government discrimination is
 unconstitutional, however.  It is legitimate for the law to treat individuals
 differently if such classification is reasonable and designed to accomplish
 a compelling government interest.  A state, for example, may discriminate
 on the basis of age in treating youthful and adult offenders differently
 even if they have committed the same illegal act.  The Constitution
 prohibits discrimination that is invidious, arbitrary, or irrational.  The
 validity of the government action depends largely on the criterion on which
 the discrimination is based.

   The Supreme Court has determined certain classifications to be
 constitutionally suspect.  Discrimination based on any characteristic that
 the Court has declared suspect is presumed irrational and constitutionally
 invalid.  When such discrimination is constitutionally challenged, the
 court proceeds with *strict scrutiny and the government carries the
 difficult burden of proof to justify the legitimacy of its actions.  The
 Supreme Court, for example, has declared *race and *religion suspect.
 Therefore, government discrimination against racial minorities or
 religious groups is unlikely to be upheld.  The Court has occasionally
 conferred suspect class status on other characteristics, such as poverty
 and illegitamcy, especially when the discrimination has impinged on the
 exercise of *fundamental rights (see INDIGENCY; INHERITANCE AND ILLEGITIMACY).
 Women's groups have long sought to have *gender elevated to a suspect
 class, but the Supreme Court has yet to endorse that position.


323.1682POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerFri Dec 01 1995 14:171
        I might be inclined to use right guard on mine, but not ban.
323.1683MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 14:3440
ZZ    you trot this out quite often.  the fact of the matter is that people
ZZ    have ALWAYS been saying "things are going down hill," since the
ZZ    beginning of recorded time.  It's a scare tactic, nothing more.  
    
    I had Jim's "twit" remark copied to paste but simply couldn't let this
    one go.
    
    This scare tactic as you state, has been propogated by the gay lobby in
    Washington D.C., the Centers for Disease Control, the AMA, ACT-UP,
    Queer Nation, and many liberals throughout the country.  The Feds have
    just released and aired television ads on condom use and the spread of
    AIDS.
    
    Ya know, I was an average student in school.  I excelled in some things
    and was deficient in others.  Point being it doesn't take a brain
    surgeon to use common sense.  Jim just made an interesting request.  He
    said, "Why don't you twits just mind your business."  
    
    Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine!  This is what we'll do.  From
    now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
    remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
    congressional budgets.  From now on any kind of humanitarian aid will
    have to be provided by private donation, be it churches, individuals,
    and organizations.  I continually hear this pissing and moaning
    regarding none of my business but when the perverbial chit hits the
    fan, somehow it's societies responsibility to bail every victim out.
    Would that be minding our business enough???  I thought not.
    
    You think people should have the right to act reckless, fine...so do I.
    But don't sit there with this self righteous attitude that people are
    mean for having the attitude of the preceding paragraph.  The paradigm
    in this nation seems to be live free and do as you will but exploit the
    goodness of giving when the poop hits the fan.  How dare they.
    
    Same with smokers.  You want to smoke???  Then smoke your brains out
    but don't sob, piss, moan and cry when the compassion isn't there.  I'm
    sick of this perverbial whining.  It's becoming of a nation of
    dependents, not a super power.
    
    Sorry to seem heartless but I'm sick of it!
323.1684BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 01 1995 14:378
          <<< Note 323.1681 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>              -< Guess what "suspect" means before reading this. >-

	One interesting inference from this. One need not be declared
	a "suspect class" in order to be covered by the CRA. Gender
	is the obvious example.

Jim
323.1685Bowers v. Hardwick article...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Dec 01 1995 14:4194
 [note mine : In Oxcomp, all cases refer to opinions in the official
 500+ volume United States Reports, which stores all 200 years worth of
 opinions, etc.  Thus Hardwick 478US186 (1986) means in 1986 the majority,
 concurring, and dissenting opinions, if any, were stored in Volume 478
 starting at page 186.  References to page numbers in the subsequent
 article are always pages in the volume of USR where the case resides. - bb] 

   from Oxford Companion to the Supreme Court of the United States,
 1992, Oxford University Press, "Bowers v. Hardwick, 478U.S. 186 (1986)"
 by John Anthony Maltese

   Bowers v. Hardwick, 478US186 (1986) argued 31 Mar 1986, decided 30 June
 1986 by vote of 5 to 4; White for the Court, Blackmun and Stevens in
 dissent.  In this case, the Supreme Court refused to extend the constitutional
 right of *privacy to protect acts of consensual homosexual sodomy performed
 in the privacy of one's own home.  The narrow majority led by Justice Byron
 *White differentiated this case from earlier right-to-privacy decisions,
 saying that those decisions were limited to circumstances involving "family,
 marriage, or procreation" - things that bore "no connection" to homosexual
 activity (p. 191).  Indeed, White claimed the right to privacy was limited
 to the reach of those previous cases.  He further claimed that the
 proposition that "any kind of private sexual conduct between consenting
 adults is constitutionally insulated from state proscription is unsupportable"
 (p. 191)  To argue that the right to engage in such conduct is a fundamental
 right " 'deeply rooted in this Nation's history and tradition' or 'implicit
 in the concept of ordered liberty' is, at best, facetious," White wrote
 (p. 194).  He pointed out that until 1961 all fifty states had outlawed
 sodomy and that twenty-four states and the District of Columbia continued
 to do so in 1986.  He then rejected Hardwick's claim that such laws lack a
 rational basis.

   White also differentiated the Hardwick case from *Stanley v. Georgia (1969),
 arguing that Stanley should be understood as a *First Amendment case that
 was not relevant to the issues raised in Hardwick.  Although Stanley
 protected individuals from prosecution for possessing and reading obscene
 materials in the privacy of their own homes, White stressed that it did not
 offer blanket protection to otherwise illegal conduct simply because it
 occurs in the home.

   The present case evolved out of the arrest of Michael Hardwick, a gay
 Atlanta bartender, for performing oral sex with another man in his own
 bedroom.  They were discovered by a police officer who had come to serve a
 warrant on Hardwick for not paying a fine for drinking in public.  The
 officer was given permission to enter the house by another tenant who did
 not know whether Hardwick was at home.  Under Georgia law, sodomy (defined
 as "any sexual act involving the sex organs of one person and the mouth
 or anus of another") was a felony that could bring up to twenty years in
 prison.

   Although the district attorney did not prosecute, he did not drop the
 charge.  Hardwick then brought a civil suit challenging the law's
 constitutionality in federal court.  The defendant was Georgia's attorney
 general, Michael J. Bowers.  The district court granted Bowers' motion to
 dismiss, but a divided panel of the Court of Appeals for the Eleventh
 Circuit reversed on the grounds that the Georgia statute violated Hardwick's
 fundamental rights.  The Supreme Court then granted Bowers' petition for
 *certiorari.  Since the only claim before the Court dealt with homosexual
 sodomy, it expressed no opinion about the constitutionality of the Georgia
 statute as applied to acts of heterosexual sodomy.

   Justice Lewis *Powell was the crucial swing vote in the case.  It appears
 that at conference he tentatively agreed to provide the fifth vote for
 striking down the Georgia statute, but then later changed his mind.  Powell
 felt that a prison sentence for sodomy would create a serious *Eighth
 Amendment issue that could be used to strike down the statute, but Hardwick
 had not been prosecuted.  Thus, Powell was unable to apply the Eighth
 Amendment issue to this case, and he was apparently unconfortable with using
 the right of privacy to strike down the statute.  In October, 1990, Powell
 told law students at New York University that he had "probably made a
 mistake" in ultimately voting the way he did.  Nonetheless, he maintained
 that Hardwick was "a frivolous case" since no one had been prosecuted.

   Had Powell not changed his vote, Justice Harry *Blackmun would have
 written the majority opinion.  Instead, White wrote the majority opinion,
 Powell added a carefully worded concurrence that pointed out the Court's
 inability to address the Eighth Amendment issue, and Blackmun wrote a
 harsh dissent.  When the decision was handed down, both White and Blackmun
 took the unusual step of reading detailed portions of their opinions from
 the bench.

   Blackmun strongly criticized the majority opinion, saying that the case
 was no more about a "fundamental right to engage in homosexual sodomy"
 than Stanley v. Georgia was about a fundamental right to watch obscene
 movies.  Rather, he concluded, "this case is about 'the most comprehensive
 of rights and the right most valued by civilized men', namely, 'the right
 to be let alone' " (p. 199).  Blackmun also took issue with the majority's
 refusal to consider whether the Georgia statute ran afoul of the Eighth
 or *Ninth Amendments or the *Equal Protection Clause od the *Fourteenth
 Amendment.  "The Court's cramped reading of the issue before it makes for
 a short opinion," Blackmun concluded, "but it does little to make for a
 persuasive one" (pp. 202-203).  (see also HOMOSEXUALITY)


323.1686NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Dec 01 1995 14:462
Defective condoms were distributed to various agencies in NY to help with
AIDS prevention.  They're quietly being recalled.
323.1687BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 01 1995 14:4815
      <<< Note 323.1683 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine!  This is what we'll do.  From
>    now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
>    remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
>    congressional budgets. 

	You mentioned smokers, let's not forget red meat eaters, folks who
	ride motorcycles without helments, those who don't use seatbelts,
	and on and on and on.

	Close the CDC, the NIH, the whole lot. If you are going to make 
	an issue of it, go the whole route.

Jim
323.1688POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerFri Dec 01 1995 14:481
        I'm surprised they didn't cover up the whole thing.
323.1689BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 01 1995 14:5317
    RE: .1683  Jack Martin

    / Okay Jim, you want to be crass...Fine!  This is what we'll do.  From
    / now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
    / remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
    / congressional budgets. 

    You'd have to remove all funding for cancer and heart disease research,
    too, if you wanted to strike back at people for any disease which can be
    acquired through the actions people take in their lives.

    If it turned out that most people who get cancer or heart attacks were
    gay, I wonder how that would influence some folks' support for funding.

    When someone tells you he or she is gay, you have no way to know what
    this person actually does in his or her private life unless you make
    assumptions.  Stop making assumptions!  It's that simple.
323.1690NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Dec 01 1995 14:531
They tried to cover it up, but it was leaked to the media.
323.1691MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 15:0627
    Okay, you answered as I suspected you would.  So in other words,
    disease is universal, it is a part of life and can only be prevented
    through education.
    
    Therefore, it is reasonable to suggest...
    
    Jack:  So and so, if you are looking for approval as to your lifestyle or your
    life choices, then you aren't getting it from me.  Your choices are not
    healthy, unsafe, and promote a standard that is in my opinion not in 
    synch with Christian Values.
    
    So and so:  JACK MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
    
    Jack:  Fine, but don't look for special rights to support your cause.
    
    So and so:  Jack your are mean spirited, cruel, unfeeling, and I have
    no use for you.
    
    Jack:  That's your opinion and your welcome to it.  Then go ahead and 
           live as you see fit, but please don't drag me into it.
    
    The next day, so and so is in a gay pride parade telling the masses
    what his preferences are.  Hence I am getting dragged into it once
    again.  
    
    
    
323.1692BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 01 1995 15:2349
    RE: .1691  Jack Martin

    / Jack:  So and so, if you are looking for approval as to your lifestyle 
    / or your life choices, then you aren't getting it from me.  

    People aren't looking for your approval.  They're looking for an end
    to discrimination against gays.

    Do you think that if you forget to discriminate against someone at
    some point, it's the same thing as giving your approval to every single
    thing the person may ever do in life?

    / Your choices are not healthy, unsafe, and promote a standard that is 
    / in my opinion not in synch with Christian Values.

    You don't know WHAT choices the person has been making unless you've
    had sex with him yourself (or just watched.)

    / So and so:  JACK MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
    
    But you can't - or you won't.

    / Jack:  Fine, but don't look for special rights to support your cause.

    The ending of unfair discrimination is not a 'special right'.

    / Jack:  That's your opinion and your welcome to it.  Then go ahead and 
    /        live as you see fit, but please don't drag me into it.
    
    If you want to be left out of it, then don't participate in discussions
    about this subject (and don't support discrimination against gays.)

    / The next day, so and so is in a gay pride parade telling the masses
    / what his preferences are.  Hence I am getting dragged into it once
    / again.  

    The people in Gay Pride parades don't cite specific sexual acts they
    prefer.  They simply stand up to say that they are proud of who they
    are.  

    It's important for people in the gay community to come 'out of the
    closet' because every person who comes 'out' to family members and
    friends wins allies for the gay rights movement.  When people realize
    that they know good people who are the subjects of bigotry and unfair
    discrimination, many start fighting back against it along with their
    gay family members or gay friends.

    Eventually, our society will indeed accept that our species is prone
    to more than one sexual orientation (and that it's no big deal.)
323.1693SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 01 1995 15:243
> They tried to cover it up, but it was leaked to the media.
    
    Deep throat?
323.1694MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 15:5425
    Suzanne, I am not including dialog in here.  I think you need to hear
    opposing opinions in here.  If you and I worked together, you prolly
    wouldn't know my stand on such issues.
    
ZZ    People aren't looking for your approval.  They're looking for an end
ZZ    to discrimination against gays.
    
    The gay population IS seeking the approval of society.  My mother used
    to make us eat a green veggie every night.  Sometimes she would say,
    "You are going to eat it, and you are going to like it!"  Well, the
    latter of course didn't hold true.  You can' force somebody to like
    something even though you can legislate it to the hilt.  It won't do any 
    good.
    
    As mentioned, The Nat'l Education Association promoted "Gay Pride
    Month".  I don't approve of this as a taxpayer and hence I exercise my
    right to dissent.  I don't have to celebrate Gay Pride Month, nobody
    should have to and I don't believe tax money should be used to
    celebrate a disposition.  
    
    It's like the old addage of looking at the glass half empty or half
    full.  You equate being gay to good predispositions.  This should be of
    no surprise to anybody but I see it as a handicap.
    
    -Jack   
323.1695BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 15:5519

	Jack, too funny. The next day so and so is in a gay pride parade where
they are talking about their preferences? YEEEah...right. You come up with the
weirdest scenerios that I have ever seen.

	The spread of AIDS is done by BOTH sexual orientations. That has to do
with individual choices in the bedroom (unprotected sex). Now if one is in a
monogamous relationship, then AIDS will not ever be a part of those 2 people's
lives.

	Now, other diseases one can get. ANYone can get diseases from sleeping
around with many people. But I wonder if anyone has ever done a study with
monogamous couples (gay/straight) ONLY, to see what the rates are for any of
the diseases out there. 



Glen
323.169643GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceFri Dec 01 1995 16:0428
>============================================================================
>Note 323.1641                    The AIDS topic                     1641 of 
>CSC32::M_EVANS "runs with scissors"                  16 lines  30-NOV-1995 
>----------------------------------------------------------------------------
>    Jack,
>    
>    .
    .
    .
    
>    Also among the sexually active which is the lowest risk group as far as
>    transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex? 
>    I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
>    
    >    meg
    >
    
    OK Meg:  
     
     Also among the sexually active which is the HIGHEST risk group as far as
     transmission of AIDS and other STD's and concerning unprotected sex? 
     I'll give you a hint, it isn't heterosexual couples.
     
    Choose Only one:    Het      male - female
                        Lesbian  Female - female
                        Gay      Male - male
    
    Steve
323.1697BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 16:067

	Steve, that is easy. Hets. Go read the CDC's stats on this. I think
it's a 12-1 ratio (in favor of hets) world wide for AIDS alone. 


Glen
323.169843GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceFri Dec 01 1995 16:074
    By %%%%%%%%%  please
    
    
    Thank you
323.169943GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceFri Dec 01 1995 16:071
    In the US too
323.1700MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:101
    Snarf
323.1701MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:129
    Glen:
    
    That would make sense since the gay population is exponentially smaller
    than the het population.
    
    The appropriate question is...what percentage within the gay population
    is at high risk verses what percentage within the het population.
    
    -Jack
323.1702MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:4113
    Glen, you would also be interested to know
    that women who have a SINGLE lifetime partner (as opposed
    to serial monogamy -- one monogamous relationship at a time)
    are far less prone to yeast infections.  That is because
    people have different bacteria tendencies, and the SINGLE-
    partnered woman builds immunity to the common bacteria
    regularly found on that partner.  If she switches from
    partner-to-partner, she needs to re-establish immunities to a 
    different set of bacteria common to each subsequent partner.
    
    I've heard this someplace and perhaps Meg can confirm it.
    
    -Jack
323.1703SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 01 1995 16:452
    Oh rubbish, Jack.  Everyone knows you can get it from toilet seats and
    you have to microwave your panties daily.
323.1704MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:461
    Not if you use an ass gasket provided in your local DEC head.
323.1705MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 16:462
    By the by Glen, exclude Africa from the stats since the AMA has counted
    central Africa lost!
323.1706Give it up, it's NOT a gay disease any longerDECLNE::REESEMy REALITY check bouncedFri Dec 01 1995 17:029
    Silva's answer complies with what I heard reported locally from the
    CDC.  Although AIDS had increased slightly in the gay community (after
    steadily declining for several years), the CDC said the largest group
    of HIV+ and AIDS suffers are now black and hispanic women.
    
    Substance abuse, prostitution and unprotected sex were listed as 
    major factors leading to the increase in this segment of society.
    
    
323.1707DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Fri Dec 01 1995 17:4610
    RE: .1683
    
     ^From now on, we'll remove all funding for AIDS research...what the hell,
     ^remove funding for all STD's caused by irresponsibility from any
     ^congressional budgets. 
    
    I agree. Let's go further then that. Let's remove all health related
    research from the federal budget, cut taxes by the same amount,
    eliminate government controland regulations over all health related issues
    and watch how quickly all major diseases are cured. Breakneck speed
323.1708BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 01 1995 18:4138
    RE: .1694  Jack Martin

    / The gay population IS seeking the approval of society. 

    The gay population is seeking an end to bigotry and discrimination
    against gay people.

    / As mentioned, The Nat'l Education Association promoted "Gay Pride
    / Month".  I don't approve of this as a taxpayer and hence I exercise my
    / right to dissent.  I don't have to celebrate Gay Pride Month, nobody
    / should have to and I don't believe tax money should be used to
    / celebrate a disposition.  

    How is any average citizen forced to 'celebrate' any day or month
    which is declared to be for a particular group? [Hint:  We're not.]
    We hear about these months, then life goes on as usual.

    Jack, a certain percentage of our population is gay.  This means that
    a certain percentage of the children at school are already aware that
    they are attracted to people who are the same sex that they are.

    Schools and national education associations have to consider that when
    bigotry occurs against gays, it is aimed at some of their own students.
    They are doing the right thing to try to keep anti-gay bigotry out of
    the schools.  Gay children have as much right as any other child does
    to go to school without being subject to flagrant bigotry.

    / It's like the old addage of looking at the glass half empty or half
    / full.  You equate being gay to good predispositions.  This should be of
    / no surprise to anybody but I see it as a handicap.

    I equate 'gay person' to be 'human being' in the same way that I equate 
    heterosexual persons to be human beings.

    I think it is a tremendous handicap for someone to see a human being
    who happens to be gay and think, "We better discriminate against these
    people or else we'll be 'approving' of what they do" (especially when
    you don't even KNOW what they do as individuals.)
323.1709BIGQ::SILVADiabloFri Dec 01 1995 18:495
| <<< Note 323.1699 by 43GMC::KEITH "Dr. Deuce" >>>

| In the US too

	AIDS is a world wide disease.
323.1710MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustFri Dec 01 1995 19:1043
    
    Suzanne has been making some excellent points in this string.
    She's much better when she eschews etymology! :-) :-)

    I have a story to tell:

    As a kid, I was sickly. Rail thin, missed a lot of school,
    ALWAYS ill. I had the worst asthma... I had a lot of trouble
    with other kids in school.

    So, when the time came, my parents decided to send me to a
    private (Catholic) high school in another city. I didn't
    know anybody. Around this time of year, they had a dance
    for freshmen; a welcome party I guess. It was made clear
    that you could bring a date to this dance, and that you
    didn't have to bring someone from the school. Well, the
    thought of talking to a real live girl, much less actually
    asking for a date, scared the hell out of me.

    So, I ASSUMED that there would be single girls there, if
    I found the courage, to dance with. However, knowing that
    it was unlikely, I asked another shy MALE friend to go, who
    was not a student at the school (he lived in town).

    I figured, if I didn't end up with a girl (the odds seemed
    better at winning the lottery), I could always hang with
    my friend and listen to the music. Well. Let's just say
    that the fertilizer hit the ventilator when I showed up
    with a guy. For four years, I was continuously persecuted
    as a fag, by (and this is very important!) students AND
    teacher alike.

    In my senior year, we had a "marriage class". It was taught
    be a priest who appeared rather effeminate in mannerism,
    and who I thought might be gay (didn't matter much, either
    way). One day, I had one more beating than I could take,
    and was sitting in front of my locker sobbing. This priest
    came by and called me into his office. He told me, "Brian,
    whether you're a homosexual or not doesn't matter. It's
    not an awful thing to be gay, if you are. I am". He was
    the only person who ever showed me any kindness there.

    -b
323.1711PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Dec 01 1995 19:134
   marriage class taught by a gay priest.
   the mind boggles.  sort of.

323.1712MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustFri Dec 01 1995 19:154
    
    Hey, Catholic high school seldom made much sense... :-)
    
    -b
323.1713MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 19:256
    Wait a minute...now let's see here.
    
    Suzanne...was..errrr...getting beat into a pulp a few weeks ago for her
    alleged illogic.  Errr...now she is uhhh....doing a great job dealing
    with me.  Does this mean she is getting better or is there something
    about me here?
323.1714:-)MPGS::MARKEYnow 90% fulla gadinkydustFri Dec 01 1995 19:338
    
    Jack,
    
    It's you.
    
    HTH.
    
    -b
323.1715BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 01 1995 21:1844
    Brian, thanks for the story - it brings up a good point about how
    some kids get treated in school.  The schools have every right
    (and a duty), in my opinion, to keep anti-gay bigotry out of the
    schools.  No one - whether gay or not - deserves to be hassled like
    that while simply trying to get an education.

    When I was High School, my parents sent me to an expensive school
    that I didn't particularly want to attend.  But I made a lot of
    friends there and became a class officer.  I had a great many more
    friends at another school (close to where I lived), though, so I
    visited their school every time my school had an extra day off while
    the local school was in session.

    I got Bronchitis in the middle of the first school year and was out
    of classes for a week.  When I came back, I was an outcast.  No one
    ever explained why.  I was still a class officer, but it was like I
    didn't exist all of a sudden.  I still don't know what was said or
    done while I was sick at home.

    In my case, I was lucky because I was still very popular at the local
    school.  I just figured that I'd have more time at my own school to
    concentrate on my work since no one would speak to me.  After awhile,
    though, I spent so much time with my friends at the local school that
    I badgered my parents into letting me transfer there.

    The school interviewed me for the local paper when I transferred (as
    a way of saying hello to a VERY familiar new student.)  They asked
    me about why I transferred and I said (in a way that wasn't quite
    this blunt) that the other school 'kinda sucked'.

    The other school went ballistic to have this printed in the newspaper. :)
    People at my new school thought the whole episode was just great.  :)
    Things went great at the new school - I still have friends from there.
    
    I had to wonder why the old school didn't do anything when they saw
    that someone was turned into an outcast for no apparent (or explained)
    reason.  I didn't complain to anyone about it, but it was obvious.
    In my opinion, the school *did* 'kinda suck' for fostering that sort
    of environment when the parents were spending a lot of money to send
    kids there.

    Gay kids are often treated a lot worse than this - and I think the
    schools have a real obligation to try to eliminate bigotry so that
    gay (and heterosexual) kids don't have to put up with such hassles.
323.1716MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 01 1995 21:2725
    Suzanne:
    
    There is nothing I can argue against you on nothing.  There is one
    element you did prove however.  Bigotry knows no boundaries.  
    In third grade, I transferred from Catholic school to public.  The nun
    I had was inept and her skin was the only thing holding her bones
    together.  Upon transfer I was of course an outcast.  Three kids picked
    fights with me the first few weeks.  I remember sitting on the front
    steps watching the other kids play and I was basically the black sheep
    for reasons I can only speculate.
    
    The abuse eventually subsided but I remember it quite well.  There was
    a stinging feeling of lonliness.  I learned that fighting back was
    unfortunately necessary if I were to assimilate.  Well, I did, I won,
    and the isolation subsided.
    
    This was back in 1970 and it sounds like children are children.  Gay
    children being harrassed IS NOT acceptable; but it happens Suzanne, it
    happens to a cross section of people and I was a victim of this.  
    I am beginning to understand your point about changing the paradigm
    regarding gays acceptability.  Why can't we make it universally taught
    that people should not be harrassed because of their color, religion,
    or sex?  Why do we have to promote National whatever month?  
    
    -Jack
323.1717BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 01 1995 21:3624
    RE: .1716  Jack Martin

    / There is one element you did prove however. Bigotry knows no boundaries. 

    It's especially sad when it's inflicted on kids.  I think we agree on
    this.

    / Gay children being harrassed IS NOT acceptable; but it happens Suzanne, 
    / it happens to a cross section of people and I was a victim of this.  
    / I am beginning to understand your point about changing the paradigm
    / regarding gays acceptability.  

    Thanks, Jack.

    / Why can't we make it universally taught that people should not be 
    / harrassed because of their color, religion, or sex?  Why do we have 
    / to promote National whatever month?      

    Well, I think the 'National whatever months' are part of the effort
    to make people aware of the harassment (and to try to make it stop.)

    When we don't need 'National whatever months' anymore, it'll be great.

    Thanks again, Jack.
323.1718DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Fri Dec 01 1995 21:583
    ^I was basically the black sheep for reasons I can only speculate.
     
    Kinda like now, huh Jack??   :)                                     
323.1719BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROSat Dec 02 1995 14:2712
      <<< Note 323.1716 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>I learned that fighting back was
>    unfortunately necessary if I were to assimilate.  Well, I did, I won,
>    and the isolation subsided.
 
	Sounds like you do not agree with Steve's suggestions that Gays
	should simply be quiet. Sometimes open confrontation is neccessary
	to affect a change.


Jim
323.1720BIGQ::SILVADiabloSun Dec 03 1995 13:114

	Bummer, Brian. Imagine, getting that crap because people THOUGHT you
were gay. What was the name of the school.... Cracker Barrell Catholic?
323.1721ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Sun Dec 03 1995 17:50123
    re: .1649 (Suzanne)
    
>    On the contrary, I think society has become sophisticated enough by 
>    now 
    
    You say sophisticated, I say morally impaired.
    
>    to realize that the days are gone when 'the missionary position 
>    only with the lights out and bodies still mostly covered' was the 
>    only truly "PROPER FORM" of sexual relations between consenting adults.

    This is completely irrelevent, outside the one fact that society does
    indeed have standards (and it is in the law) regarding family and
    proper relations.
    
>    Most people in our society don't particularly care what consenting
>    adults do in the privacy of their own sex lives anymore.  You've
>    said yourself that you don't care about it either.

    This is true enough.  The problem is, it has gone beyond the parameters
    you define above.  It is now an issue of completely redifining the
    meaning of family and societal morality by legislation.
    
>    Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
>    do in the privacy of their own sex lives.  

    This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
    "bedroom police".  As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
    "privacy of their own sex lives".
    
>    Homosexuality is more like heterosexuality than it's like anything
>    else.  There's nothing deceptive about that.

    Which is a matter of opinion, and quite beside the point I was trying
    to make.    
    
>    People don't develop their sexual attractions based on majority rule.
>    Most people grow up to be attracted to the opposite sex but some people
>    grow up to be attracted to people of the same sex.  We've known about
>    this aspect of our species (and other species on Earth) for thousands
>    of years.  It's long past time to get used to the idea.

    How one develops their sexual attraction, or how long such sexual
    attraction is documented historically is irrelevent to my point. 
    
    / "Heterosexuality" is not considered simply an "orientation", but is
    / considered to be THE defined PROPER form of sexual relations, and the 
    / foundation of the core family (that being husband and wife- male and 
    / female). 

>    It's the most common form of sexual relations, but 'heterosexuality'
>    itself includes a substantial range of behaviors within it.  A subset
>    of these behaviors are sexual acts that some homosexuals also perform.

    Nice deflection, but you once again side-step the point.  Society has
    defined het. relationships (mainly marriage relationships, though this
    domino is quickly falling over) as the basis of its social structure
    and sexual morality.  This is not currently an arguable point- though
    perhaps the eventual swing in mindset will eliminate this domino,
    as well.
    
>    Homosexuals have no unique sexual acts which are not also done by
>    heterosexuals.

    So?  This is also beside the point.  You may refer to what I wrote
    above for a refresher of what my point is.
    
>    There is no justification for discriminating against people who just
>    happen to be gay.  
    
    The problem is, you are using "discrimination" much too broadly. 
    Society has every right to be discriminating in what it considers
    'family' and 'marriage'.  These concepts have been changing over the
    years- for good or bad- so maybe it will eventually be accepting of
    homosexual relationships in a similar way that is does normal
    marriages.  Once again, on this particular issue, "equal rights" is a
    misuse of the term when applied to legalizing marriage to include 
    homosexuals.
     
>    There are no assumptions which hold true for all
>    gays (just as no assumptions hold true for ALL heterosexuals, either.)

    Which again, has nothing to do with the point I was making. 
    
>    Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
>    gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.

    Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
    go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?
    
    The reality is that society not only has the right to make such moral
    judgements, but it has the duty to do so- if it feels that homosexual
    relations are unhealthy to the fabric of that society in any way.
    
>    Until then, you're only talking
>    about what you presume gay people do by the fact that they are gay.
    
    I don't have to presume anything to make my point.  The fact that you
    continually bring up this particular strawman shows that you are stuck
    in neutral in this discussion. 
    
>    You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
>    your presumptions about them.

    Ah, here's the crux.  Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
    equate to unequal treatement.  Not allowing gays to marry is not
    unequal treatment, as marriage is defined by society to be one man and
    one woman.  Not allowing pedophiles to marry children is not unequal
    treatment, as marriage is defined as one man and one woman.  Not
    allowing Mormons to have several wives is not unequal treatment, as
    marriage is defined as one man and one women.  Not allowing bigamy is
    not unequal treatment (to those so disposed), as marriage is defined
    as one man and one woman.  Who one loves, or how many, is IRRELEVENT. 
    Society has every right to decide what core values it will identify as
    proper for the foundation of that society (and the foundation of all
    societies is the family unit).
    
    No one is trying to stop homosexuals from living together if they so
    choose.  However, society does not recognize such as a proper legal/moral
    arrangement.
    
    
    -steve
323.1722BIGQ::SILVADiabloMon Dec 04 1995 12:4727
| <<< Note 323.1721 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| It is now an issue of completely redifining the meaning of family and 
| societal morality by legislation.

	Oh please. I mean, really. The family has been redefined due to so many
reasons. You have people who want to bring children into this world, but don't
want to be married. You have families that have split. You have families that
stay together that love isn't exactly present. You have families that are
together where love is present. And with most of these groups, you would add
gays. You see, they already fit into these groups. 

| Society has defined het. relationships (mainly marriage relationships, though 
| this domino is quickly falling over) as the basis of its social structure
| and sexual morality.  

	Steve, you have seen things change in the past. Some for the better,
some for not. I can see why you feel this is for the not. So for argument sake,
I can accept it. I won't agree with it, but I can accept it. I think it has to
do with your honesty towards it. But I think we both know that there will
always be people on both sides of this issue. But something I don't recall you
answering before is, when the majority says it IS ok, will you keep fighting
for it to change back? The reson I ask is because you keep using the majority
card. I'm just wondering how much of a card is it.


Glen
323.1723ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 04 1995 13:0614
    Glen, 
    
    My views don't depend on what the majority thinks, so yes, I would
    still fight for the traditional family standards even if the majority
    does a turn-a-bout.  Though I use the majority card to make a point, my
    argument does not depend upon it.
    
    As a parallel to this topic; even though the majority of folk seem to
    believe that sex before marriage is appropriate, I still argue to the
    contrary.  I try to bring about change in these attitudes by pointing 
    out the problems this attitude about sex has created in this nation.
    
    
    -steve           
323.1724BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 13:2514
| <<< Note 323.1723 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| My views don't depend on what the majority thinks, so yes, I would
| still fight for the traditional family standards even if the majority
| does a turn-a-bout.  Though I use the majority card to make a point, my
| argument does not depend upon it.

	Steve, then using the majority card makes absolutely no sense. Because
if you are only going to use it in cases that show things to be on your side,
then stop using it as a reason when it doesn't, isn't that hypocritical? 



Glen
323.1726BUSY::SLABOUNTYGood Heavens,Cmndr,what DID you doMon Dec 04 1995 15:1710
    
    >When you meet a nice young male-female couple with children, do you
    >think "Gee, these two definitely have vaginal sex.  They may also 
    >engage in oral sex, too, and possibly some anal sex.  She may even
    >agree to be on top once in awhile.  But vaginal sex is definite."
    >Of course not.  (Or at least I hope not.)
    
    
    	The "masturbation and turkey baster" method is possible, too.
    
323.1727POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerMon Dec 04 1995 15:211
        That would appeal to my baster instincts.
323.1728BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 15:242
    True, Shawn - the point is that most people don't usually wonder/worry 
    about what heterosexual couples might be doing when they have sex.
323.1725BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 15:3268
    RE: .1721  Steve Leech

    // Society has no business deciding what consenting adults can or should
    // do in the privacy of their own sex lives.  

    / This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
    / "bedroom police".  As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
    / "privacy of their own sex lives".

    The privacy of their sex lives has been INVADED by homophobes who hear
    the word 'gay' and immediately think about what sorts of sex acts others
    probably do.  

    When you meet a nice young male-female couple with children, do you
    think "Gee, these two definitely have vaginal sex.  They may also 
    engage in oral sex, too, and possibly some anal sex.  She may even
    agree to be on top once in awhile.  But vaginal sex is definite."
    Of course not.  (Or at least I hope not.)

    Why think of gay sex when you meet gay people then?  They aren't
    bringing you into their bedrooms - you are intruding there.

    / How one develops their sexual attraction, or how long such sexual
    / attraction is documented historically is irrelevent to my point. 

    It's central to my point, though.  Homosexuality is a normal part of
    the development of a certain percentage of people in our species.  
    Knowledge about the two sexual orientations in our species goes all
    the way back in our recorded history.

    // Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
    // gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.

    / Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
    / go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?

    When children are raped or molested, it's a different matter entirely
    than relations between consenting adults.

    // You're talking about unequal treatment of human beings based on
    // your presumptions about them.

    / Ah, here's the crux.  Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
    / equate to unequal treatement. 

    You support discrimination against people without even KNOWING what
    'lifestyle' they happen to lead.  When you meet a gay person, the
    man or woman could be celibate for all you know.  Yet you want to
    discriminate against the person for what you BELIEVE the person
    does in the privacy of their own sex life (without knowing what
    they actually do.)

    As you've said elsewhere, society is much more accepting of hetero
    sex outside of marriage now.  It's only a matter of time until
    homosexual relations are included (more than they already are) as
    being under the heading of 'sex outside of marriage' (which has
    already been accepted.)

    Every day, more and more gays come out of the closet (and it becomes
    less and less shocking to find out that someone is gay.)  That means
    that our society is slowly changing to accept it.  

    The majority will eventually accept homosexuality as being just 
    another sexual orientation (similar to heterosexuality) and there's
    nothing you will be able to do to stop this acceptance.
    
    Meanwhile, there will still be plenty of REAL problems for all of us
    to worry about when this happens (and it will.)
323.1729MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 16:1917
    Suzanne:
    
    Most hets don't really wonder or care what methodologies take place in
    the bedroom of anybody.  It all comes down to an issue of knowing a man
    is affectionate with a man and a woman is affectionate with a woman.
    Since our country IS NOT a christian nation but a humanist one, then
    the issue of Christian morality takes a back seat.
    
    I see alot of dysfunctionalism generally accepted as normal and because
    of this, I am lead to have a burden not so much for individuals
    involved in a certain lifestyle but the good of the society in general.
    
    Translation:  If the family unit is becoming meaningless and because of
    this the society is going down the perberbial poop chute, then I as a 
    citizen have a right to voice concern over this.
    
    -Jack
323.1730CONSLT::MCBRIDEReformatted to fit your screenMon Dec 04 1995 16:251
    Can I have the translation translated please?  
323.1731PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 04 1995 16:273
 .1730  aagagagag.

323.1732MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 16:3513
    Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family
    unit...MOMMY...DADDY...CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in
    crime, the rise in homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous
    other problems related to today's America.
    
    I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents.  This
    means a Mommy and a Daddy.  This means a Daddy who is attentive to
    Mommies needs and a Mommy who is attentive to Daddies needs.  Of course
    understand my convictions in this matter are molded by what I follow by
    faith.  I believe marriage was instituted by God in the Genesis account
    where a man is to leave his father and mother and cleave unto his wife.  
    
    -Jack 
323.1733BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 16:3925
| <<< Note 323.1729 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Most hets don't really wonder or care what methodologies take place in the 
| bedroom of anybody.  

	But you're not most hets.... that's obvious. 

| It all comes down to an issue of knowing a man is affectionate with a man and 
| a woman is affectionate with a woman.

	Please tell me, if you would, why do you imagine anything about
man/man, woman/woman, but not between man/woman? I know one is the oppisite for
you, but one is for me too. And I certainly don't wonder what they do. View
everyone as a human being, and you probably won't have this problem.

| I see alot of dysfunctionalism generally accepted as normal and because of 
| this, I am lead to have a burden not so much for individuals involved in a 
| certain lifestyle but the good of the society in general.

	Jack, do you believe homosexuality to be something dysfunctional?



Glen
323.1734BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 16:4222
| <<< Note 323.1732 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family unit...MOMMY...DADDY...
| CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in crime, the rise in 
| homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous other problems related to 
| today's America.

	Jack, is it so much the family unit, or does it have more to do with
the love part of it all?

| I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents.  

	I view it as love. So I guess we differ on this. Having parents is
nice, but without the love part of it, well, it's kind of useless. 

| This means a Mommy and a Daddy.  

	This is one form, true.... but by all means not the only one that works
good.


Glen
323.1735MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 16:456
 ZZ    Jack, do you believe homosexuality to be something dysfunctional?
    
    Let me answer this question with a question.  Why shouldn't it be
    considered dysfunctional?
    
    
323.1736BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 16:4713
| <<< Note 323.1735 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Let me answer this question with a question.  Why shouldn't it be
| considered dysfunctional?

	Jack, the question I asked is answered with either a yes or a no. Not
with a question. If you would like to ask me a question, fine, but answer mine
first please.


Glen

323.1737TROOA::COLLINSThis spot marks your location...Mon Dec 04 1995 16:473
    
    Many homosexuals are "fully functional".
    
323.1738BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 17:046
| <<< Note 323.1737 by TROOA::COLLINS "This spot marks your location..." >>>


| Many homosexuals are "fully functional".

	I know... I know..... ;-)
323.1739MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 17:227
    Okay Glen.  Yes, I believe it is.  This should be of no surprise.  I've
    compared the predisposition to alcoholism but also freely admit my
    opinion is molded by spiritual bias.
    
    Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?
    
    -Jack
323.1740BOOB!BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 18:2018
| <<< Note 323.1739 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Okay Glen.  Yes, I believe it is.  This should be of no surprise.  I've
| compared the predisposition to alcoholism but also freely admit my
| opinion is molded by spiritual bias.

	Jack, you're a boob...plain and simple. Not to be confused with a boob
cake, though. 

| Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?

	Because homosexuality is closer to heterosexuality (with the only
difference being the gender) than it could ever be to alcoholism. So unless you
tie heterosexuality into the alcoholism catagory on a 100% basis, like you are
with homosexuals, then you don't have a leg to stand on.


Glen
323.1741BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 18:4930
    RE: .1732  Jack Martin

    / Brian, I believe the disintegration of the family
    / unit...MOMMY...DADDY...CHILDREN is in direct correlation to the rise in
    / crime, the rise in homelessness, suicide, promiscuity, and numerous
    / other problems related to today's America.

    You can blame REAL PROBLEMS on anything you dislike or distrust, though.
    It's an easy thing to do.  Too easy, in fact.

    Sometimes, you can unite people by saying, "See???  We have all these
    problems because of ... T H E M !"  (The Nazis did this in the 1930s
    and it worked pretty well - for awhile.)

    / I see the most healthy role model for a child as the parents.

    The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
    with parents who are no longer together.  Do you think he's going to
    run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with swear
    words?  Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?  Do you
    think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old?  Do
    you think he'll get an STD?

    It isn't just the magic "Daddy + Mommy" (or the lack thereof) that defines 
    a child's future.  Further, it isn't any one societal phenomenon which
    decides whether or not a family *has* a "Daddy + Mommy" arrangement.

    Don't go after the nearest 'Boogeyman' to blame him for everything that 
    bothers you.  The problems in this (or any) country are important enough 
    to stand and be addressed on their own.
323.1742BUSY::SLABOUNTYch-ch-ch-ch-ha-ha-ha-haMon Dec 04 1995 19:0011
    
    >The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
    >with parents who are no longer together.  Do you think he's going to
    >run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with swear
    >words?  Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?  Do you
    >think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old?  Do
    >you think he'll get an STD?
    
    	Suzanne, sometimes it's the rich kids who cause trouble, for
    	whatever reason.
    
323.1743BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 19:0917
    RE: .1742  Shawn

    / Suzanne, sometimes it's the rich kids who cause trouble, for
    / whatever reason.

    There are LOTS of reasons why kids from a variety of backgrounds cause 
    trouble.

    Lately, some people are pointing to a mental ability as the solution
    to some of these problems.  Not intelligence or talent or dedication, 
    though.  

    Some people think that optimism is the key.  (Optimism is defined as
    being capable of seeing that everyday problems and bad situations are 
    temporary, but ones worth as a person is permanent.)

    These same people believe that optimism can be learned and acquired.
323.1744SMURF::WALTERSMon Dec 04 1995 19:223
    Actually Suzanne, most of the things you listed are pretty much normal
    behaviour for the Royals.  It's only quite recently that the rampant
    rogering and the "being a looney" behaviours have been hushed up. 
323.1745MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 19:4734
Before replying, the royal family is superficial and dysfunctional to the
    core.  Those poor kids don't have a chance.
    
Z    The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
Z    with parents who are no longer together.  
    
    Yes, divorce is an unfortunate fact of life which erodes the family.
    
Z    Do you think he's going
Z    to run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with
Z    swear words?  
    
    Probably not.  I imagine the kid has a great chance of going to jail or
    commiting suicide due to the dysfunctionalism of their environment.
    
Z    Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?  
    
    Good chance of it.

Z    Do you think he'll get 20 girls pregnant by the time he's 20 years old? 
    
    His chances of rebellion are greater due to the irresponsibility of his
    parents.
    
Z    Do you think he'll get an STD?
    
    Depends on his scope of responsibility or irresponsibility.  Jim
    Morrison hated his father and consequently, he fathered kids all over
    the country.
    
    The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
    determined.  I am skeptical it is doable.  
    
    -Jack
323.1746BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 19:5014
      <<< Note 323.1739 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Now, why shouldn't it be defined that way?
 
	Because you offer no cogent argument to back up your belief. You even
	admit that your belief is based on scripture, not objective data.

	In the last 35 or so centuries, these writings have been used by
	several cultures to oppress, subjugate, even exterminate those that
	did not share the same beliefs. Not a terrific track record for those
	who choose to rely upon them to label other individuals.


Jim
323.1747BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 19:541
	Jack, please address .1740
323.1748MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 04 1995 19:565
>    The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
>    determined.  I am skeptical it is doable.  

oh fer bloody crissakes . . . .

323.1749MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:0311
ZZ    oh fer bloody crissakes . . . .
    
    Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?
    Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
    to a childs development based on their environment and surroundings.
    There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
    married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
    have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
    marriage, or outlook on life in general.  
    
    -Jack
323.1750BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 20:0457
    RE: .1745  Jack Martin

    / Before replying, the royal family is superficial and dysfunctional 
    / to the core.  Those poor kids don't have a chance.

    The worst choice those 'poor kids' will probably make is to take up
    their father's passion for polo.

    // The little boy who will become the King of England someday has a family
    // with parents who are no longer together.  
    
    / Yes, divorce is an unfortunate fact of life which erodes the family.

    Charles and Diana aren't divorced.

    // Do you think he's going
    // to run out and spray paint graffiti on the walls of the Palace with
    // swear words?  
    
    / Probably not.  I imagine the kid has a great chance of going to jail or
    / commiting suicide due to the dysfunctionalism of their environment.

    So - every child of divorce is in danger of suicide, Jack?  I don't
    think so.

    Wills is going to step into a job where he will be worth billions of
    dollars.  I think he'll find a way to live with it.

    (If Bill Gates has kids and someday gets divorced, do you think his
    children will be in danger of suicide, too?)

    // Do you think he'll do drugs and rob convenience stores?  
    
    / Good chance of it.

    Only if his bodyguards agree to it, though.  (And if they do, they'll
    take the drugs and rob the convenience stores FOR him.)

    / His chances of rebellion are greater due to the irresponsibility of his
    / parents.

    He lives at a boarding school.  I doubt his schedule is interrupted
    much by his parents' relationship.

    / Depends on his scope of responsibility or irresponsibility.  Jim
    / Morrison hated his father and consequently, he fathered kids all over
    / the country.

    Jim Morrison's parents didn't get divorced, though.

    / The consequences of a child with gay parents has not been adequately
    / determined.  I am skeptical it is doable.  
 
    Jack, you have the mentality that children of divorced parents can
    be expected to try to commit suicide.  Whatever you have to say
    about the children of gay parents is bound to be just as silly, so
    who cares?
323.1751BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 04 1995 20:0724
| <<< Note 323.1749 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?

	This is pretty funny... Jack Martin asking someone if their reply has a
solid basis.... start at home, Jack.

| There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
| married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
| have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
| marriage, or outlook on life in general.

	Yeah... I know that my mother and father, who kept wanting me to date
women, drove me to homosexuality. Guess again, Jack. 

	But I would be interested in your telling us just what kind of effect 2
gay men can have on a childs view of women.

	Oh, and I guess it is ok for lesbians to "act" like a married couple,
cuz you didn't say anything about them. 


Glen
323.1752MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:1416
Z     Because you offer no cogent argument to back up your belief. You even
Z     admit that your belief is based on scripture, not objective data.
    
    For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
    revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
    rate.  Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
    misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.
    So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
    of marriage.  Alot of my ideas are based on scripture.  We know that
    casual sex has been a catastrophe.  There is no evidence to support the
    idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly.  As far as anal
    intercourse is concerned, I am not a proponent of it be it gay or
    straight.  C. Everett Koop stated the dangers of such practices and as 
    an authority, I am inclined to believe what he says.
    
    -Jack
323.1753PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 04 1995 20:165
   >> We know that
   >> casual sex has been a catastrophe.

    shoot - i thought i had the shades down.

323.1754MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:2024
Glen called me a boob...Oh well!
    
    
Z    Because homosexuality is closer to heterosexuality (with the only
Z    difference being the gender) than it could ever be to alcoholism. So
Z    unless you
Z    tie heterosexuality into the alcoholism catagory on a 100% basis, like
Z    you are with homosexuals, then you don't have a leg to stand on.
    
    Glen, sexual preference and alcoholism are both predispositions.  Of
    course there are differentiators, they are both unrelated.  However,
    just as one does not learn to be an alcoholic, autistic, straight, gay,
    whatever, these traits are inherent to our genetic make up.
    
    Therefore, adherance to this genetic makeup is driven by social agenda.
    You are saying that certain predispositions are dangerous to
    society...and on this I agree.  You state that being gay is not
    dangerous to society...and there I agree.  You state that having a gay
    relationship is a sign of love, normal behavior, and beneficial to
    society.  Well, there's where you and I differ.  However, this opinion,
    like yours, is subject to societal pressure and one's spiritual outlook
    on life.
    
    -Jack
323.1755BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 20:229
             <<< Note 323.1753 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>

>    shoot - i thought i had the shades down.

	Maybe the beddroom police have installed video monitoring equipment
	to ensure that you don't do anything "unhealthy".

Jim

323.1756BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 20:2736
      <<< Note 323.1752 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
>    revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
>    rate. 

	And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?

> Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
>    misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.

	And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?

>    So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
>    of marriage. 

	And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?

> Alot of my ideas are based on scripture. 

	No! Really?

>There is no evidence to support the
>    idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly.

	Jack, you have it backwards. In order to label something as "bad"
	YOU have to supply the data that it IS bad. You can't simply say
	that there is no evidence that it is "good" and call it a day.

>  As far as anal
>    intercourse is concerned, ...........

	You're starting to blather Jack. Take a deep breath and try to get
	focused back on the discussion at hand.

Jim
323.1757BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkMon Dec 04 1995 20:2811
    
    	Keep at it, Diane ... practice makes perfect.
    
    
    	Jack, many changes have occurred during the 60's, so how can
    	you blame the divorce rate on the sexual revolution?  Do you
    	know that that's what caused it?
    
    	Maybe the divorce rate should be blamed on color TV?  Or the
    	digital watch?
    
323.1758PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 04 1995 20:325
    
>>    	Keep at it, Diane ... practice makes perfect.

    <various and sundry looks of amusement, apathy, etc.>

323.1759ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 04 1995 20:33105
    re: .1725 (Suzanne)
    
   
    / This is not the issue at all, nor is anyone suggesting that we have
    / "bedroom police".  As I said above, it has been taken well outside the
    / "privacy of their own sex lives".

>    The privacy of their sex lives has been INVADED by homophobes who hear
>    the word 'gay' and immediately think about what sorts of sex acts others
>    probably do.  

    Ah, so it is the dreaded homophobes who are trying to redefine the
    basic family unit.  
    
    Here's a thought for you (one I've been trying to get across to you for
    a couple of notes, now), I don't care whether gay folk have sex with
    each other or not- either way, I am not willing to agree with
    redefining the basic family unit.  Sexual acts are not relevent to this
    point.
    
>    Why think of gay sex when you meet gay people then?  
    
    Who says I do?
    
>    They aren't bringing you into their bedrooms - you are intruding there.

    But when they suggest that family should be redefined in their image, I
    have every right to say "no", and support current standards.
    
>    Homosexuality is a normal part of
>    the development of a certain percentage of people in our species.
    
    This is arguable.  
      
>    Knowledge about the two sexual orientations in our species goes all
>    the way back in our recorded history.

    As do other "orientations" that have been historically unacceptable. 
    This is not something on which to base your argument.
    
    // Any attempts to pass moral judgments on
    // gays as a group are totally and completely indefensible.
    
    / Then you agree that any form of discrimination, laws or otherwise, that
    / go against pedophilia are indefensible, correct?

>    When children are raped or molested, it's a different matter entirely
>    than relations between consenting adults.

    My question really has nothing to do with children getting raped, this
    is your addition.  My question had to do with making a "moral
    judgement".  This is what I do when I fight against redefining the
    basic family unit; this is what you are telling me I have no right to
    do, while making the moral judgement that pedophilia is immoral (one
    point on which we agree).
    
    / Ah, here's the crux.  Discrimination of a lifestyle does not necessarily
    / equate to unequal treatement. 

>    You support discrimination against people without even KNOWING what
>    'lifestyle' they happen to lead.  
    
    What discrimination do I support?  My main concern has to do with
    marriage and the basic family unit of society.  On this point, it is
    society's *responsibility* to discriminate.  To wit: pedophiles cannot
    marry children; bigamy is illegal; polygamy is illegal, etc.
    
>    When you meet a gay person, the
>    man or woman could be celibate for all you know.  Yet you want to
>    discriminate against the person for what you BELIEVE the person
>    does in the privacy of their own sex life (without knowing what
>    they actually do.)

    I haven't said this at all.  Whether they are celibate or promiscuous
    matters not to the point at hand.  That point being society has every
    right to define family and marriage as it sees fit.
     
>    As you've said elsewhere, society is much more accepting of hetero
>    sex outside of marriage now.  It's only a matter of time until
>    homosexual relations are included (more than they already are) as
>    being under the heading of 'sex outside of marriage' (which has
>    already been accepted.)

    I've already granted you this point.  I think you are right about this. 
    This, IMO, does not make it morally right (just as sex outside marriage
    is not morally right, IMO), or something we want to promote by
    redefining the basic unit of our society.  Unfortunately, we probably
    will.
    
>    Every day, more and more gays come out of the closet (and it becomes
>    less and less shocking to find out that someone is gay.)  That means
>    that our society is slowly changing to accept it.  

    Correct.  We are being systematically desensitized to homosexuality. 
    It is only a matter of time before society becomes accepting of such
    coupling.
         
>    Meanwhile, there will still be plenty of REAL problems for all of us
>    to worry about when this happens (and it will.)
    
    No doubt; and the continual moral degredation of society should create
    new problems, as well as making existing problems worse.
    
    
    -steve 
323.1760BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 20:3342
    RE: .1752  Jack Martin

    / For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual
    / revolution of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming
    / rate. 

    The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
    reduced, too.  The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
    and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.

    (We won't even discuss what the VCR and home computer revolutions
    have done to the divorce rates.  These last 15 years have been hell.)

    / Every cause has an effect and the effect on children is suicide,
    / misery, crime, dropping out of school, and out of wedlock childbirths.

    When you live in a complex society which is constantly changing, you
    can't point to any one thing which is THE CAUSE of all possible problems
    (unless you want to promote a particular solution such as religion, 
    of course.)

    / So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside
    / of marriage.  Alot of my ideas are based on scripture. 

    You sometimes adjust reality to fit the Scriptures.

    / There is no evidence to support the idea that a gay couple can nurture 
    / a child properly.  

    Gay people are human beings, so there is EVERY REASON to believe that
    they can nurture a child properly.  And I've seen gay parents myself
    who have wonderful, beautiful children.

    / As far as anal intercourse is concerned, I am not a proponent of it be 
    / it gay or straight.  C. Everett Koop stated the dangers of such 
    / practices and as an authority, I am inclined to believe what he says.

    The same dangers exist for vaginal intercourse.  The only difference
    is that women are the ones in danger in heterosexual relations, while
    men are the ones in danger in sex between gay males.  Lesbians aren't
    in any danger at all.  (Hint:  It's the penetration that causes the
    problems.  Heterosexual and homosexual males are the ones who do this.)
323.1761MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:3525
    Z    He lives at a boarding school.  I doubt his schedule is interrupted
    Z    much by his parents' relationship.
    
    Suzanne, don't make the mistake of thinking rich kids will be happy. 
    There are alot of people who are quite wealthy who commit suicide.
    Kurt Colbain sticks in my mind right now and I have no doubt there are
    many others.
    
    Secondly, your posting above is actually the opposite.  His schedule is
    EXACTLY why those kids will end up screwy if in fact they are unable to
    cope.  Children at that age, particularly boys need their dad around
    and they DO notice when the father isn't there.
    
    I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
    divorced.  That's absurd.  Statistically, children from divorced
    parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
    married homes.
    
ZZ    Maybe the beddroom police have installed video monitoring equipment
ZZ    to ensure that you don't do anything "unhealthy".
    
    Snide as you want to be, this isn't about legalization.  This is about
    societal acceptance.
    
    -Jack
323.1762ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 04 1995 20:363
    re: .1740
    
    Not a very convincing argument, Glen. 
323.1763MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:3911
 ZZ   And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?
    
    None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
    children.  There is not enough evidence to show how a child can cope in
    life with two men living together as husband and husband...that was
    all.
    
    Instead of making condecending remarks, try to follow the flow of the
    discussion.  This is what I brought up in the first place.
    
    -Jack
323.1764BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 20:4010
            <<< Note 323.1759 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    What discrimination do I support?  My main concern has to do with
>    marriage and the basic family unit of society.

	So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
	the CRA? This has nothing to do with the definition of the family
	or the marriage laws.

Jim
323.1765MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:408
     ZZ   The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
     ZZ   reduced, too.  The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
     ZZ   and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.
    
    Non sequitor and I'm surprised you stooped this low.  Divorce and
    adultery/fornication have a proven correlation.  
    
    -Jack
323.1766BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 20:4110
      <<< Note 323.1761 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
>    divorced.  That's absurd.  Statistically, children from divorced
>    parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
>    married homes.
 
	Data, Jack, data. 

Jim
323.1767BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkMon Dec 04 1995 20:419
    
    	Glen, I guess homosexuality and alcoholism could be considered
    	"similar" if you happen to think they're "deviances from the
    	norm".  And in that way they're "inferior" to heterosexuality.
    
    	If they actually are genetic in nature, then although they'd
    	still be "deviances from the norm", they'd have to be consid-
    	ered "alternative" instead of "inferior".
    
323.1768BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 20:4314
      <<< Note 323.1763 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    None

	That's what I thought.

>    Instead of making condecending remarks, try to follow the flow of the
>    discussion.  This is what I brought up in the first place.
 
	Jack, when you try to divert the discussion with one of your free
	form rambles, expect that you will be reminded regarding the subject
	of the disccusion.

Jim
323.1769BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkMon Dec 04 1995 20:4410
    
    	Jack, how man "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
    	hetero parents?  Maybe all of them?
    
    	And how many "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
    	homo parents?  Maybe none of them?
    
    	With these numbers, it looks like you have no basis for your
    	claim.
    
323.1770MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:443
 ZZ   Data, Jack, data. 
    
    The datum is there.  Don't have it at my finger tips.
323.1771MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 04 1995 20:479
       ZZ     And how many "messed up" kids are from the homes of divorced
       ZZ     homo parents?  Maybe none of them?
    
    Insufficient data...I already said that!  But the claims here seem to
    be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
    am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
    child rearing that we are not aware of!
    
    -Jack
323.1772BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 20:4736
    RE: .1761  Jack Martin

    / Suzanne, don't make the mistake of thinking rich kids will be happy. 
    / There are alot of people who are quite wealthy who commit suicide.
    / Kurt Colbain sticks in my mind right now and I have no doubt there are
    / many others.

    A sample of one (out of 5+ billion human inhabitants on the planet), eh?

    // He lives at a boarding school.  I doubt his schedule is interrupted
    // much by his parents' relationship.
        
    / Secondly, your posting above is actually the opposite.  His schedule is
    / EXACTLY why those kids will end up screwy if in fact they are unable to
    / cope.  Children at that age, particularly boys need their dad around
    / and they DO notice when the father isn't there.

    If Wills and Harry lived at home (and their parents were still together),
    they'd spend more time with their nannies than with their parents.

    / I don't claim all kids will commit suicide if their parents end up
    / divorced.  That's absurd.  

    You seem to think that kids from divorced families are a lot more
    prone to suicide, though.  I'd like to see some hard stats to back
    up that claim.  (And if you do go for such stats, be sure they've
    eliminated the possibility that the kids committed suicide because
    their families faced financial ruin after the divorce.)

    / Statistically, children from divorced parents will in fact have a 
    / better chance of failing than those from married homes.

    If this is true, the financial difficulties of divorce probably had
    more to do with their success or failure than the divorce itself.
    (Let's see some hard stats on this, too, and be sure the researchers
    were watching out for the effects of financial problems on these kids.)
323.1773POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerMon Dec 04 1995 20:471
    Staring at the tips of your fingers isn't going to help.
323.1774SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Mon Dec 04 1995 20:4815
    .1761
    
    > Statistically, children from divorced
    > parents will in fact have a better chance of failing than those from
    > married homes.
    
    From the famous Curmudgeon's Dictionary:
    
        statistics  n.  Mathematical figures purporting to describe
        reality, sufficiently arcane that they can be explained in whatever
        way makes the prospects most attractive to the customer.
    
    Attractive to the customer, or, in your case, useful for imposing your
    agenda on others.  You're a great purveyor of hate propaganda, Jack;
    Joseph Goebbels had nothing on you.
323.1775BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkMon Dec 04 1995 20:5219
    
    >Joseph Goebbels had nothing on you.
    
    
    	He was my favorite "Hollywood Squares" celebrity guest star.
    	Really funny guy.
    
    
    	RE: Jack
    
>    Insufficient data...I already said that!  But the claims here seem to
>    be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
>    am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
>    child rearing that we are not aware of!
    

    	And who's to say that that "new dimension" wouldn't be for the
    	better?
    
323.1776Independence snarfSMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Mon Dec 04 1995 21:0113
    .1771
    
    > But the claims here seem to
    > be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple
    
    I don't see that claim.  I see people saying that the fact that the
    parents are gay does not per se produce a messed-up kid - or a gay one.
    I suggest that what messes up kids in gay homes is the pressure from
    hatemongers like you.  If these kids were surrounded by supportive
    people who were good role models, they would grow up a lot healthier
    than they can if they see everyone around calling their parents
    perverts.  It is YOU, Jack, not gay parents, that produce messed-up
    kids.
323.1777BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 21:0242
    RE: .1771  Jack Martin

    / But the claims here seem to be that a gay couple can raise a child 
    / as easily as a het couple 

    No one said it was 'just as easy'.  The children of gay couples have
    to face ignorance, bigotry and homophobia.  (Before you say that it's
    selfish for gay couples to put children in this situation, let me
    remind you that children at school face ignorance, bigotry and all 
    sorts of idiotic prejudices and attitudes at school - no parent can
    protect any child from all the truly stupid people in the world.)

    / and I am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new 
    / dimension to child rearing that we are not aware of!   

    My uncle had three young boys when his wife (their mother) died.  Two
    of his sisters (my aunts) moved into another floor of a three-floor
    (three-family) building that he owned.  They became like mothers to
    these little boys.  They grew up to be successful family men with
    wonderful wives and children.

    If my uncle could only have found some of his brothers to move into 
    the downstairs apartment (my Dad's family had 10 kids), I think they
    would have grown up just as well.

    The boys were loved.  They knew it.  Their lives went on with one
    parent and two loving aunts (plus the other aunts, uncles, cousins 
    and a grandmother on one side.)

    My two aunts could just as easily have been lesbians.  They lived
    together for their entire adult lives (until the younger aunt died
    of a heart condition from an old childhood disease.)  My two aunts
    owned property together.  They owned cars together.  They socialized
    together.  They even shared a room with two beds.  (They shared a 
    room with two other sisters while they were growing up, so it probably
    seemed like a luxury to them to reduce the arrangement to TWO sisters
    instead of four.)

    Children wouldn't see adults having sex one way or another.  What
    difference would it make if the two adults were siblings or lovers?

    (Or do you and your wife have sex in front of your children?)
323.1778One of my uncles was a Carmelite brother in a monastery.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 21:098
    Jack, in case you're starting to wonder about my aunts now, I should
    probably mention that they were 'lay nuns' who performed outside
    works for a convent while also holding down their own jobs to support
    themselves.  They dedicated their lives to the Church and to their
    siblings' families after their parents died.

    My grandmother - their mother - was a 'lay nun', too.  One of my other
    aunts was a nun (a Mother Superior at a Catholic school.)
323.1779TROOA::COLLINSGreat big Electrowhocardiofluxe!Mon Dec 04 1995 21:143
    
    Stop saying "lay nun".
    
323.1780we'll know what you meanPENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 04 1995 21:163
  or say "lei none".

323.1781BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 21:1710
    By the way, when my siblings and I were growing up, our parents had
    it in their wills that if something happened to them, the two aunts
    who lived together would take custody of us and raise us.

    The older of the two sisters became the head of the family after
    my grandparents died.  My Dad was in his 20s when both of his
    parents died.  He was child #6 out of the 10 kids in the family.
    
    My parents wanted us to be raised by two women - rather than by any
    of their married siblings - if something had happened to them.
323.1782BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 04 1995 21:3714
    Some convents are set up so that the nuns inside are cloistered.
    They live without making any face-to-face contact with the outside
    world.  Such convents are sometimes associated with women who make
    the outside contacts for them.  These women take certain vows - or
    make certain promises - but they do not take the full vows that
    nuns take.  

    They are close enough to being nuns that the cloistered nuns can
    interact with them on a face-to-face basis, though.

    My aunts used the term 'lay nuns' to describe themselves, I thought.  
    It's similar to the term 'layman'.  

    I certainly knew what they meant, anyway.
323.1783Do you ever wonder why people don't like you?MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 04 1995 21:4242
re: .1749, Our Jack Martin

>    Jack, is this just an emotional reply or is there a solid basis for it?

I dunno - you tell me. It is largely uttered in the amazement that you
continue to prove me wrong. On almost a daily basis, I will run across one
or another of your missives in here and say to myself, "Well, there's no
question about it - that has got to be the dumbest thing that Jack Martin
has ever said in his life." But, lo and behold, a day or two will pass
and you prove me wrong yet again.

>    Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
>    to a childs development based on their environment and surroundings.

Yes - I know. Was it in this string or another, that you made that asinine
statement about the importance of molding a child's values at an early
age by fostering the idea that a "same sex eros relationship" was
"fundamentally wrong"? Do you recall that one, Jack? The one where I pointed
out the fact that the love and respect likely to be present in a like-gendered
parental-pair home was probably a more valuable lesson for any child to
learn than the "fundamental wrongness" of such a relationship? That one -
the one you conveniently never replied to because it prolly stuck in your
miserable craw that a point had been made which even your hate couldn't
wheedle its way around.

>    There is no evidence to support the idea that two men acting as a
>    married couple would...even in the highest sense of propriety wouldn't
>    have some sort of effect on the childs outlook on women, outlook on
>    marriage, or outlook on life in general.  

And likewise there's zero evidence to the contrary and you know it, Jack.
Why the hell should it have any effect on the child's outlook on women?
Because YOU believe that all gay men are by definition women haters? Jack,
I'd be willing to bet next week's salary that the majority of gay men have
an order of magnitude more respect for women than you do! Why the hell
should it have any effect on the child's outlook on marriage? Because
people like YOU are in the business of seeing to it that marriage isn't an 
option legally available to like-gendered parents? Why the hell should it
have any effect on the child's general outlook on life? Because YOU want
to single these families out as different and unequal?

What a sad, sad, case you are, you hatemongering dweeb.
323.1784BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 22:177
      <<< Note 323.1770 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    The datum is there.  Don't have it at my finger tips.

	Oh, I HOPE you have more than one point of information.

Jim
323.1785BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 04 1995 22:218
      <<< Note 323.1771 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
>    child rearing that we are not aware of!
 
	Pure, insubstantiated, conjecture on your part at this point.

Jim
323.1786BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:2238
| <<< Note 323.1752 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| For the sake of discussion, consider the fact that since the sexual revolution
| of the 60's, the divorce rate has climbed at an alarming rate.  

	Now tie the 2 together. Could it be that seeing we also saw that a lot
of the so called, "happy families" that were out there, really weren't? That
abuse was rampant? That a lot of people were staying together just for the
kids, without realizing that because they did not love each other, it was
harming the kids? Be real, Jack. There are a whole host of things that went on
during the time period that led to the way marriages are failing now. Pat of
that also had to do with people felt, or were pressured into getting married.
For you to even imply that it is JUST the sexual revolution that has caused the
problems, shows you lack of knowledge on what happened during that time period.

	Btw... homosexuality was around before the sexual revolution. It wasn't
the sexual revolution that brought things to where they are now. It was a thing
called Stonewall. You should really read up on things before you speak.

| So we know the consequences of divorce and fathering children outside of 
| marriage.  

	No, we don't know that from what you said.

| casual sex has been a catastrophe.  There is no evidence to support the
| idea that a gay couple can nurture a child properly.  

	Please....what does casual sex and a gay couple nurturing a child have
in common? Please elaborate.

	Btw, when each person goes into the child raising part of their life,
no one has any evidence to support that THEY can nurture a child properly. Your
reasoning has nothing to back it up.



Glen
323.1787BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:2710
| <<< Note 323.1761 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Statistically, children from divorced parents will in fact have a better 
| chance of failing than those from married homes.

	Show us those statistics.



Glen
323.1788BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:277
| <<< Note 323.1762 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Not a very convincing argument, Glen.


	Steve, I think many might agree that Jack is a boob! :-)
323.1789BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:3021
| <<< Note 323.1763 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ   And this bears on the current discussion of Gays in what way?

| None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
| children.  

	Jack, if it's none, then I guess you won't be upset if I adopt a kid,
right?

| There is not enough evidence to show how a child can cope in life with two 
| men living together as husband and husband...that was all.

	Be real. You say there is not enough evidence right now. Let's go with
that. Now tell us, of the evidence that there is out there now... what does it
say?




Glen
323.1790BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:3115
| <<< Note 323.1765 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| ZZ   The divorce rate has climbed since the national speed limit was
| ZZ   reduced, too.  The divorce rate has climbed since the invention
| ZZ   and increasing frequency of the use of semi-conductor devices, too.

| Non sequitor and I'm surprised you stooped this low.  Divorce and
| adultery/fornication have a proven correlation.


	So doesn't homosexuality/heterosexuality. Btw, the speed limit thing
has more of a chance of being true than homosexuality/alcoholism.


Glen
323.1791BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:3314
| <<< Note 323.1767 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "A Parting Shot in the Dark" >>>


| Glen, I guess homosexuality and alcoholism could be considered "similar" if 
| you happen to think they're "deviances from the norm".  

	Alcoholism covers homosexuality and heterosexuality. So how can you use
it with just homosexuality and consider it a deviance from the norm? Cuz
alcoholism is a deviance from the norm for homosexuals as well.



Glen

323.1792BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:3510
| <<< Note 323.1771 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Insufficient data...I already said that!  But the claims here seem to
| be that a gay couple can raise a child as easily as a het couple and I
| am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
| child rearing that we are not aware of!

	Jack, you are using what data to determine it is bad? Oh wait, you
don't have any.... but it is bad. ok...
323.1793BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:364
| <<< Note 323.1776 by SMURF::BINDER "Eis qui nos doment uescimur." >>>
| -< Independence snarf >-

	Dick, talk about a note that says it all. Thanks for posting it.
323.1794BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:3922
| <<< Note 323.1783 by MOLAR::DELBALSO "I (spade) my (dogface)" >>>

| I dunno - you tell me. It is largely uttered in the amazement that you
| continue to prove me wrong. On almost a daily basis, I will run across one
| or another of your missives in here and say to myself, "Well, there's no
| question about it - that has got to be the dumbest thing that Jack Martin
| has ever said in his life." But, lo and behold, a day or two will pass
| and you prove me wrong yet again.

	Jack, I was reading this at home, and good thing. I don't remember
laughing so hard at anything someone wrote before. Too bad it is true. :-)

| And likewise there's zero evidence to the contrary and you know it, Jack.
| Why the hell should it have any effect on the child's outlook on women?
| Because YOU believe that all gay men are by definition women haters? 

	Jack, there could be another reason OJ has..... gay men might make
their gay children......errr....gay!



Glen
323.1795MPGS::MARKEYYour SPR pooper scooperTue Dec 05 1995 00:395
    
    Mr. Binder, aside from certain pathologies involving the Democratic
    party, is one smart man. Way to go Biggus Dickus.
    
    -b
323.1796DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Tue Dec 05 1995 00:452
     Wot, am I missing yet another OurJackBashingFest?  Oh Fie, Feh, Oi!!
     
323.1797BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansTue Dec 05 1995 02:1659
    On the subject of 'who is qualified to raise children'...

    Up until 100 years ago, the whole concept of 'childhood' wasn't even
    recognized.  Children were miniature adults who dressed in small
    adult clothing and worked for a living.

    In the mid 1800s, there was a substantial 'homeless' population in
    New York City.  At least 10,000 young children roamed the streets
    to beg, sweep sidewalks, sing or prostitute themselves for money
    to eat.  They slept on the streets, cuddled up together.  Some
    of these children were toddlers.

    The city did nothing about it until someone formed an association
    to relocate these children to homes in the country.  They went
    west on 'Orphan Trains'.  They slept in their seats for days and
    were cleaned up shortly before arriving in various farming towns
    where they would be made available to foster homes.  The children
    would stand on a stage like slaves to be purchased - people would
    look inside their mouths at their teeth to see if they were healthy.

    Many of these children had parents who died or could no longer take
    care of them.  The Orphan Trains ran from the mid 1800s until 1929.
    Around 100,000 children were relocated to homes in rural communities.

    Children were laborers, so some of the families wanted them to work.
    Other families lavished love and kindness on the children.  Some
    arrangements didn't work out well, so children were passed from farm
    to farm to look for better situations.  The 'foster parents' weren't
    screened very well, and the committees set up to watch out for the
    children weren't very persistent about it.  Some children simply ran 
    away.  In other words, it was hit and miss for these kids.  Some of them 
    did very well with loving families, but others were treated as slaves.  
    Many of them were finally off the streets for good, though.

    After thousands of years of treating children like small adults who
    needed to work to help support their parents and siblings, in the
    late 20th century we now have a situation where only a narrowly-defined 
    set of people are considered qualified (by some) to raise children at all.

    Our species has become so fragile that if the parents get divorced,
    some consider the kids to be on the brink of suicide or at the very
    least, ruined for life.  For thousands of years, a substantial number
    of women died in childbirth while men died in wars (and everyone was
    in danger from disease) - so it wasn't unusual at all for children to 
    be raised by other 'family'-type arrangements.  Children born out of
    wedlock were put into homes where most of them died from the lack of
    nurturing.  Many other children were prey to deadly childhood diseases,
    but the children who did survive were raised in a quite a variety of 
    family arrangements.

    It's wonderful that children have 'childhoods' now and that most
    childhood diseases have been conquered.  It's also great that we
    don't have 10,000 children wandering around by themselves on the
    streets of New York and other big cities.  

    Children need to be loved, nurtured and given positive examples for
    what it means to be good, honorable human beings.  People who can do
    these things make good parents, regardless of their marital status
    and/or their sexual orientation.  
323.1798MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 02:189
re: .1732, Our Jack Martin

> I believe the disintegration of the family unit [...] is in direct 
> correlation to the rise in [...] homelessness

Many of the points you mentioned here could have been fun to pursue, Jack,
but I'll restrain myself to inquiring about this one in particular. Please
enlighten us as to how this works. I'm sure that it will prove to be my source
of levity for the day.
323.1799DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Tue Dec 05 1995 09:132
        Don't forget -- hot air was the original source of levity...
        
323.1800SNARFPLAYER::BROWNLTyro-Delphi-hackerTue Dec 05 1995 09:201
    
323.1801SMURF::WALTERSTue Dec 05 1995 11:295
    
    > Any competent psychologist will tell you that there are ramifications
    
    Jack, any competent psychologist would tell you that there is not
    enough hard evidence to support your hypothesis.
323.1802DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomTue Dec 05 1995 11:3836
    re:.1764

> 	So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
> 	the CRA?

    Jim, I'm opposed to the CRA on general principle, but then we've
    already had that discussion....

    re:.1785

> >    am suggesting that the couple being gay adds a whole new dimension to
> >    child rearing that we are not aware of!
>  
> 	Pure, unsubstantiated, conjecture on your part at this point.

    Jim, are you claiming that a couple being gay DOES NOT add a whole new
    dimension to child rearing?  Or are you claiming that you are aware of
    the dimension that is added by the couple being gay?

    re:.1789

> | None...except to make the point that lifestyles have ramifications on
> | children.  
> 
> Jack, if it's none, then I guess you won't be upset if I adopt a kid, right?

    Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?

    re: Mr Binder
    I must say that I'm disappointed in your slurring of Jack Martin. 
    Calling him a "hatemonger", and comparing him to "Joseph Goebbels" I
    feel is more than a little extreme!  IMNHO.  You are an intelligent
    man, surely you can get your point across without this sort of
    foolishness!

323.1803BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 12:0918
| <<< Note 323.1802 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>



| Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?

	1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same. 

	2) Think before you have sex. You must take responsibility for your
	   actions. (ie, pregnancy, std's, AIDS)

	3) Treat others with respect, not as objects.

	4) Teach the kid about safer sex. Then revert back to #2.



Glen
323.1804BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 12:3718
      <<< Note 323.1802 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>> 	So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
>> 	the CRA?

>    Jim, I'm opposed to the CRA on general principle, but then we've
>    already had that discussion....

	The CRA was, and still is, an unfortunate neccessity. Recognizing
	this, what objection is there to adding sexual orientation to the
	list of protected classes? Even Jack and Steve seem to agree that
	denying someone a job simply because they are Gay is wrong. Or denying
	them a place to live is wrong. WE haven't specifically addressed the
	use of public accomodations, but I'll assume that they agree on that
	point as well. If this is so, then why the reluctance to simply
	codify what they believe?

Jim
323.1805MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 12:5225
    Glen, nice little box you and others have me cornered into.
    
    
     1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same. 
    
      Yeah?  And I would do the same.
    
     2) Think before you have sex. You must take responsibility for
     your actions. (ie, pregnancy, std's, AIDS)
    
      Yeah?  And I would do the same.  However I would go the extra step in
    reminding my child of the responsibility to present himself holy before
    God.
     
     3) Treat others with respect, not as objects.
    
    Yeah?  I would do the same.
    
     4) Teach the kid about safer sex. Then revert back to #2.
    
    Yeah?  You can rest assure that I would teach my child about
    contraception.  Simultaneously, I would remind him of his
    responsibility to present himself holy before God.  
    
    -Jack
323.1806strict scrutinyGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Dec 05 1995 12:5332
    
      I am NOT opposed to the Civil Rights Act on principle, as applied
     to black and native American minorities.  Yes, I see that this act
     causes terrible harm to our society, but the alternative is worse.
     In my view, the society made a proper political choice in deciding
     to violate our basic principles of egalitarianism, because we were
     doing even more violation because of long, blatant oppression.
    
      To me, the recognition of special legal status to any groups is
     repugnant - each time we do it, we restrict majority rule, we rob
     the people of their role in our system of governance, we cause
     people to throw up their hands at fate, rather than control their
     own destiny through participation, we undermine the legitimacy of
     America itself.  But I recognize the necessity of the Fourteenth
     Amendment and the 1964 Act due to the extraordinary circumstances.
     But this special legal status requires constant vigilance - it is
     a direct violation of our fundamental principles, and must never be
     allowed to grow and destroy us.
    
       To be included as such a special case, the burden of proof must lie
     heavily on any group - to convince a hostile and skeptical majority
     to voluntarily accord them rights which the majority does not itself
     possess.  At a minimum, they must (a) demonstrate systematic
     oppression; (b) be recognizable, distinct, and innate; (c) demonstrate
     through deeds their special dedication to our society; (d) have
     significant political clout; (e) minimize wherever possible any
     adverse effects upon the majority which special treatment causes.
    
       Any claim of such privilege is very, very dangerous.  It can kill
     us all.
    
       bb
323.1807doesn't belong in this note!!SCAMP::MINICHINOTue Dec 05 1995 12:5420
    Not that I should put a comment about the royal family in the AIDs
    topic, but, 
    
    
    Don't you think that Dianna and Charles are from extremely
    dysfunctional families that were in play long before the 60's. Come on,
    we all know that environment plays a big part on a childs out look on
    things, but along with that envirnment, we as adults and parents need
    to explain things honestly and openly with our children...usually it
    bores them to tears and they are ok with whatever is going on at the
    time.  
    
    Charles father was estranged from his mother (can't say I wouldn't
    have been too), CHarles grew up in a boarding school (probably with
    gay students)...(no way...gay students in England...get out!!) and
    Dianna came from a split family too...so, did they just repeat their
    parents mistake? The parents stayed together until the children were
    old enough to understand..mommy hates daddy...Now that's good child
    rearing....
    
323.1808MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 12:5615
    Dan:
    
    Thanks for sticking up for me, but not to worry.  My colleagues here
    tend to read what they want to read at times and consequently react in
    an emotional way.  
    
    Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay
    couple adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero
    couple bringing up the same child.  This poppycock about their
    instability being the fault of people like me is typical jibberish.
    There's no doubt that hatred exists...the typical "God hates fags"
    crowd.  These folks have this tendancy to try and paint me into this
    category.  I'm no stranger to this but thanks just the same!
    
    -Jack
323.1809MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 12:594
>    Charles father was estranged from his mother

When did Elizabeth and Phillip split? I must have missed it.

323.1810MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 13:0418
    Lucky Jack, 
    
    Thanks for that somewhat humorous response.  Regarding homelessness, I
    feel since the mighty new lord hemmerhoid has left our midst, I can
    bring this up.
    
    Jack, 40% of black children in the inner city will be born into a broken 
    home this year.  Be it divorce or desertion, this of course
    is a travesty and as usual, the do gooders in government are like the
    perverbial child in the drivers seat of a car.  99% symbolism, 1%
    substance.  Anyway, I would challenge you to visit any homeless shelter
    and ask any women with children why they are there.  You will most
    likely find their response to be their husband ran away, beat her up,
    or is incarcerated.  Be it divorce or separation, the result usually
    ends up making a dysfunctional and homeless family.  Hence you have
    homeless children.
    
    -Jack
323.1811BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 13:2323
          <<< Note 323.1806 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>      To me, the recognition of special legal status to any groups is
>     repugnant

	You may want to review the actual wording of the CRA. Groups
	are not specifically protected by the Act. Certain charachteristics
	are mentioned. Blacks, for example, are not mentioned anywhere in
	the wording. But a prohibition against discrimination on the
	basis of RACE is mentioned. This wording covers ALL discrimination
	on the basis of race, ANY race.

	It is the same for all the other charachteristics listed. They
	are NOT exclusive, they are INCLUSIVE.

>     But this special legal status requires constant vigilance 

	No special legal status is conferred by the Act. It prohibits specific
	discriminatory practices on the basis of certain charachteristics.
	As such, it is an affirmation of our basic principles, not a violation
	of them.

Jim
323.1813re: .1810MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 13:274
What percentage of those in homeless shelters are women with children?
I thought most of them were receiving AFDC and living in low income
housing through governmental assistance programs?

323.1814ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 13:2826
    re:  .1764
    
>	So then you have no objection to adding sexual orientation to
>	the CRA? 
    
    I do have objections, actually (some reasons given below, others can be
    found throughout this string).
    
>    This has nothing to do with the definition of the family
>	or the marriage laws.

    Maybe not, but it will be used as a lever to redefine the family and
    marriage.  This is a legal stepping stone, IMO.
    
    Legal acceptance of all sexual orientations is not a tenable solution
    to this discrimination.  Not all forms of discrimination are inherantly
    wrong, and should not be illegal (one form is not allowing two men or
    two women to marry- though I still argue whether this can be classified
    properly as "discrimination").
    
    I still say it is disengenuous to define an individual by "sexual
    orientation".  This is not a proper classification when dealing with
    legal rights, nor when defining a legal minority. 
    
    
    -steve                  
323.1815ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 13:334
    re: .1785
    
    
    And that's just what the nay-sayers said in the "free love" era. 
323.1816BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 13:4618
| <<< Note 323.1805 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Glen, nice little box you and others have me cornered into.

	Jack, no one has cornered you anywhere except YOU! Try to remember, or
maybe realize that.

| 1) Whatever sexual orientation they are, I love them the same.

| Yeah?  And I would do the same.

	But you would think the kid is dysfunctional. Something that isn't
true. Would you make your kid go to classes to get "healed" of this
dysfunction?



Glen
323.1817BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 13:5441
| <<< Note 323.1808 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Thanks for sticking up for me, but not to worry. My colleagues here tend to 
| read what they want to read at times and consequently react in an emotional 
| way.

	Wow.... this is funny. I didn't see Dan sticking up for your ideas.
Just that you shouldn't be called a hatemonger. What does that tell you, Jack?

| Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay couple 
| adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero couple bringing
| up the same child.  

	No Jack, you have added in dysfunctionalism to the parameters, JUST
because the couple are gay, so their default is to be dysfunctional. You say
that there could be problems with girls (but you haven't gone into what those
problems are yet), you say you have this data at your fingertips, but can't 
produce any of it. 

	Jack, no one here is assuming that 2 guys are going to make good 
parents. But then again, I don't think anyone in here is assuming that ANYONE 
is going to make good parents. You need the right tools for that to happen. And 
sexual orientation isn't one of them.

| This poppycock about their instability being the fault of people like me is 
| typical jibberish.

	Instability? Nah.... just most of the hatred parts. If total strangers
hate you, ya gotta wonder why. And ya gotta wonder if the reasons are even
justified...which how could they be if they don't know you, and you have not
done anything to harm anyone?

| There's no doubt that hatred exists...the typical "God hates fags" crowd.  
| These folks have this tendancy to try and paint me into this category.  

	Jack, I don't think you hate fags at all. I do think you don't hold
much respect for them though.



Glen
323.1818BUSY::SLABOUNTYAlways a Best Man, never a groomTue Dec 05 1995 13:554
    
    	And Jack, if sexual orientation is truly genetic, you could do
    	irrepairable harm to a child by trying to change him/her.
    
323.1819BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 13:5512
| <<< Note 323.1810 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Jack, 40% of black children in the inner city will be born into a broken
| home this year.  

	Jack can predict the future. WOW! Hey, does that mean these 40% are
dysfunctional, and will all become gay?




Glen
323.1820MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 14:0817
     First Glen, you say...
    
     ZZ       No, just the hate parts.  
    
    Then you say...
    
     ZZ       Jack, I don't think you hate fags at all. 
    
    Judging how you usually think, you separate hate speech from hate am I
    correct?  Glen, hate speech and meanness are cliches that are becoming
    ad nauseum, old, overused, and tired.  Put in in there with Valuing
    Differences, Abortion is murder, and Freedom of Choice.  Yawn.
    However, I believe you and others wield the word "hate" arbitrarily as
    you did above.  I consider "hate" to be a strong accusation and don't
    take it lightly.  There's a new sheriff in town....spit!  
    
    Oh...sorry....I went into Blazing Saddles mode!
323.1821ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 14:1335
    re: .1791
    
    
    Glen, alcoholism is a disorder, somtimes due to genetics.  Some folks
    have a predisposition towards alcohol addiction.  It is certainly not
    the norm for society.  Homosexuality may well be a disorder, too, in
    the same light.  Certainly, psychologists of the past viewed it as such, 
    some still do.  Homosexuality is not the norm for this society.
    
    We treat alcoholics.  We do not treat homosexuals (any more).  Why?
    Whether genetic or not, it is not "normal", nor does society currently
    consider homosexual relations acceptable.  Alcoholism, genetic or not,
    is not "normal", nor does society currently consider this "orientation" a
    good thing (which is why we treat alcoholics).  
    
    Though the destructiveness of uncontrolled alcoholism can be easily seen 
    on the physical side of things (health, job loss, depression, spousal
    problems/divorce, etc.), there are spiritual problems as well (the
    "intangables", many of which are covered by AA).  We do not try and 
    rationalize alcoholism as a good thing in order to increase the 
    self-esteem of the alcoholic (in order to help his depression).
    
    Homosexuality, is likely to lead towards unhealthy relations
    physically (anal sex is wrought with perils that have already been
    covered in this and other strings) and spiritually (according to the
    doctrine that this nation's morality was founded upon).  But rather
    than trying to cure or help those with this disorder (which is my opinion 
    of what homosexuality is), we try to rationalize it as something normal
    'for a given segment of the population'.  Not only that, but we now see
    efforts to make it legally the equivalent of normal relations in family
    and marriage.  
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1822BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 14:1528
| <<< Note 323.1820 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| First Glen, you say...

| ZZ       No, just the hate parts.

	That was reflecting to strangers hating gays when they don't even know
them. Your words can lead to that. Sorry if I wasn't clear.

| Judging how you usually think, you separate hate speech from hate am I 
| correct?  Glen, hate speech and meanness are cliches that are becoming
| ad nauseum, old, overused, and tired.  

	Then don't use them. I don't believe you hate gays. But when you say
they are dysfunctional, your words can lead someone else to hate gays. 

| However, I believe you and others wield the word "hate" arbitrarily as you 
| did above.  

	I guess seeing I wasn't 100% clear, I'll let you get away with this. :) 

| I consider "hate" to be a strong accusation and don't take it lightly.  

	Then I would watch what you say....



Glen
323.1823ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 14:2410
    re: .1818
    
    And if alcoholism is truly genetic, you could do 'irrepairable' harm to
    a person by trying to change him/her.
    
    
    Same logic.
    
    
    -steve
323.1824BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 14:2446
| <<< Note 323.1821 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Glen, alcoholism is a disorder, somtimes due to genetics. Some folks have a 
| predisposition towards alcohol addiction. It is certainly not the norm for 
| society.  

	You are correct with the above. You have gay alcoholics, and straight
alcoholics. For EACH group, it is not the norm.

| Homosexuality may well be a disorder, too, in the same light. Certainly, 
| psychologists of the past viewed it as such, some still do.  

	Besides Cameron, can you think of any by name? Or is this just a
blanket statement? Steve, you have to wonder why they changed their minds that
it was a disorder. Could it be because of the research they did into it finding
it not to be one? Could it be the failed attempts of trying to correct what
was thought to be a problem have something to do with it? I was talking with my
roomate last night. He was talking about how his grandmother had her left hand
tied to her, so she would learn to be right handed. I think we're past that
now, don't you?

| Homosexuality is not the norm for this society.

	I agree. I always have. The majority of the people are straight. But
the norm does not always mean correct, or the only way. 

| Homosexuality, is likely to lead towards unhealthy relations physically (anal 
| sex is wrought with perils that have already been covered in this and other 
| strings) and spiritually (according to the doctrine that this nation's 
| morality was founded upon).  But rather than trying to cure or help those 
| with this disorder (which is my opinion of what homosexuality is), we try to 
| rationalize it as something normal 'for a given segment of the population'.  

	Well, at least now we have learned two things in this string. Jack
Martin thinks it is dysfunctional, and Steve Leech thinks it is a disorder. How
nice. But I guess many have used the same stuff for other things... like
religion. :-)

	You say homosexuality is "likely" to lead to unhealthy physical
relations, but I see nothing that states that which is a fact. Oh, I have heard
people say this and that, but no one has provided any fact.

	And the reason why no one is trying to cure this disorder, is because
those who tried saw it didn't work. 

Glen
323.1825BUSY::SLABOUNTYAlways a Best Man, never a groomTue Dec 05 1995 14:2411
    
    	RE: .1821 [Steve]
    
    	Well, that was the gist of what I was getting at, but I'm not
    	convinced that homosexuality is a "defect" as much as it is a
    	genetic trait.
    
    	The majority of people born have O+ blood, I believe, but that
    	doesn't mean that those with AB- are "inferior".  They're just
    	different.
    
323.1826BUSY::SLABOUNTYAlways a Best Man, never a groomTue Dec 05 1995 14:265
    
    	RE: .1823 [Steve]
    
    	That's a very good point.
    
323.1827SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Tue Dec 05 1995 14:3616
    .1803
    
    >> Glen, what would you propose to teach you kid about sexuality?
    
    [ answers deleted to save bits ]
    
    Bingo.  That is, in fact, the way we raised our kids.  They have gay
    friends, they have straight friends, they have gay relatives, they have
    straight relatives.  They don't care about others' orientations, cuz
    they're too busy living their own lives.
    
    People whose business in life it is to cram their narrow agendas down
    others' throats have too much time on their hands; they need to get a
    life.  You have a problem with my life choices?  Fine, be polite and
    I'll listen.  Once.  After that, you are a pest and a disturber of my
    peace.
323.1828MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 14:4225
    Glen:
    
    I think I need to point out that my use of the word "dysfunctional" is
    not meant in the perjorative, meaning to belittle.  I am using it as a
    description to identify flaw.  We all have traits and attributes which
    are "dysfunctional" and I have my share.  I believe this is part of the
    human condition and we're all stuck with what we have.
    
    I believe how we handle these dysfunctions says alot about our
    character.  Unfortunately, how one handles being gay may involve
    compromising one's convictions regarding marriage and fornication. 
    This may or may not be a conviction you have; however it is a
    conviction I have and hence there we have the driving force which makes
    me a supposed mean individual.  I see a great lack of tolerance for
    this conviction.  
    
    As I've stated before, the personal lives of individuals is none of my
    business and I have no problem keeping it this way.  But this in no way
    means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous mold we call
    valuing differences.  Under our current system of law, we have the
    right to dissent, the right to petition, and the right of free
    expression.  While there are extremes like the "God hates fags" crowd,
    I also see the diversity crowd at times acting reprehensible.
    
    -Jack
323.1829SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Tue Dec 05 1995 14:4529
    .1808
    
    > Dan, all I'm telling these people is simply not to assume that a gay
    > couple adopting a child will have the same results as a stable hetero
    > couple bringing up the same child.
    
    If you are the archetype of a stable hetero couple,  I'd rather have my
    kids brought up by a loving gay couple.  At least they they'd learn
    what the word TOLERANCE means.  You have apparently removed that word
    from all your dictionaries.
    
    > This poppycock about their
    > instability being the fault of people like me is typical jibberish.
    
    Gibberish, NNTTM.  But until you provide documentary evidence that
    hatred does not foster misfits while love does, your argument is
    exactly the kind of gibberish you so blithely accuse others of writing. 
    
    Consider this:  At home, children of both gay and straight parents are
    loved and cherished.  Elswehere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
    and told their parents are perverts.  The second group suffer none of
    this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
    disillusionment.  Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
    messed up?
    
    At least you may take comfort in the fact that I don't paint you as a
    "God Hates Fags!" crowdmember.  I know you know God loves fags.  The
    problem is that, try as you might and despite all your pretty rhetoric,
    you yourself do not love fags.
323.1830MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 14:4512
 ZZ   People whose business in life it is to cram their narrow agendas down
 ZZ   others' throats have too much time on their hands; they need to get
 ZZ   a life. 
    
    See Dick, this is the attitude that sometimes pisses me off.  The fact
    is that I was honky dory minding my own business.  YOU are the one that
    started it, not me.
    
    Note:  The term "you" is a generic term directed at society and not you
    individually.
    
    -Jack
323.1831LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Tue Dec 05 1995 14:481
    jack was honky dory.
323.1832MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 14:509
 Z   problem is that, try as you might and despite all your pretty
 Z   rhetoric, you yourself do not love fags.
    
    So if I understand you correctly, one of the prerequisites to loving
    somebody or a group of people is that we must accept their actions?
    
    The fine line of misunderstanding I believe we have is being gay and
    acting upon our predisposition.  Dick, I believe couples living
    together without commitment is equally dangerous.  So what?
323.1833SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Tue Dec 05 1995 15:0014
    .1830
    
    > I was honky dory minding my own business.
    
    No, you were not, and are not, minding your own business.  You are
    telling people that homosexuality is a dysfunction and that gays should
    not be parents because their kids will, with high likelihood, grow up
    dysfunctional.  Jack, NEITHER of these premises is supported by ANY
    hard evidence.  When you continue to promulgate them, you are violating
    the Commandment against bearing false witness against your neighbor.
    
    Have you never noticed, Jack, that small children do not hate gays? 
    It's a learned behavior.  But Jesus says we should be as children in
    our faith (Mark 10:14).  Let go, let God handle it.
323.1834MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 15:068
    It is an accurate indictment Dick; but since you are bringing religion
    into the fray, it also teaches us to admonish one another unto holiness
    and righteousness.  Since Glen is a Christian and since he is the one
    stating that acting on ones predisposition is not an unclean thing, the
    foundation of the discussion has been set by him.  I am refuting what
    he says.  This has nothing to do with hate.
    
    -Jack
323.1835SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Tue Dec 05 1995 15:217
    .1834
    
    Jack, how many times have you admonished Glen?  How many times have you
    removed the beam from your own eye before going after the speck in his?
    Jesus told the seventy-two that if the people of a town would not hear,
    they were to shake the dust from their sandals and depart.  It's about
    time for you to do some shaking, don't you think?
323.1836MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 15:3521
    Dick, I have already succumbed to the fact that Glen is set in his ways
    and I am set in mine.  My purpose here is to provide some sort of
    balance.  
    
    Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away
    is kind of silly.  Even if I fall off the face of the earth, the world
    is going to have it's Jack Martins and its Dick Binders throughout.
    Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or
    whatever, then go ahead and knock yourself out.  If somebody wants to
    have a picture of their SO on their desk or hold hands with their
    boyfriend while walking down the street, hey...its a free country.  I
    already proposed the idea of legalizing same sex marriages so I think
    your not giving me credit here.  However, if you ask my opinion, I'm
    sure as hell going to give it to you.  And quite frankly Dick, I have
    alot more respect for somebody who speaks his/her mind than the wishy
    washies in our society today.  I believe any kind of instruction within
    the school system is a fostering of opinion, since I am a taxpayer and
    it is a proposed part of the curriculum.  Make schools an option for
    taxpayers and I promise to shut up!
    
    -Jack
323.1837BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 15:508
| <<< Note 323.1823 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| And if alcoholism is truly genetic, you could do 'irrepairable' harm to
| a person by trying to change him/her.
| Same logic.

	No, one does harm if it is not corrected, while the other does not do
harm when people don't correct it.
323.1838BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 15:5933
| <<< Note 323.1828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| I think I need to point out that my use of the word "dysfunctional" is
| not meant in the perjorative, meaning to belittle.  I am using it as a
| description to identify flaw.  

	So Jack..... do you think that my life being flawed in your eyes and
having you state it here is going to make me happy? Or that you don't think
that it isn't going to belittle me? Be real! 

| I believe how we handle these dysfunctions says alot about our character.  
| Unfortunately, how one handles being gay may involve compromising one's 
| convictions regarding marriage and fornication.

	Wow..... you really take the cake. The same group that says gays can't
marry, also says it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage. How nice. But if
compromising is being done, what is it due to? Reread the 2ndsenence of this
paragraph. 

| As I've stated before, the personal lives of individuals is none of my
| business and I have no problem keeping it this way.  

	They're just er...... flawed....

| But this in no way means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous 
| mold we call valuing differences.  

	Jack, I am convinced, on MANY fronts, that you will never conform to
valuing differences. Cuz they're just flawed people out there.



Glen
323.1839BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:007
| <<< Note 323.1828 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| While there are extremes like the "God hates fags" crowd,


	Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
and the gays are flawed crowd?
323.1840BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:0212
| <<< Note 323.1830 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| See Dick, this is the attitude that sometimes pisses me off.  The fact
| is that I was honky dory minding my own business.  YOU are the one that
| started it, not me.

	Jack, it is too bad you didn't pick up anything of signifigance from
Dick's note. It had quite the message in there. 


Glen
323.1841BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:0411
| <<< Note 323.1832 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Dick, I believe couples living together without commitment is equally 
| dangerous.  So what?

	Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
"real"?


Glen
323.1842BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:0818
| <<< Note 323.1834 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Since Glen is a Christian and since he is the one stating that acting on 
| ones predisposition is not an unclean thing, the foundation of the discussion 
| has been set by him.  

	Jack, go back and reread this string. You were on the disfunctional
road for quite a while. 

	Now please, considering I don't have the same beliefs as you,
considering there has been a lot of heterosexuals talking about this with you,
please don't state that I set any parameters to worm out of it. The TRUTH of
the matter is simple. The standards that are being set are being done so by
YOU. No one stated in this string that a homosexual couple would automatically
make good/bad parents. You stated both. 


Glen
323.1843BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:1121
| <<< Note 323.1836 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| My purpose here is to provide some sort of balance.

	Wow...Jack... this was pretty funny. 

| Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away is 
| kind of silly.  

	Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.

| Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or whatever, 
| then go ahead and knock yourself out.  

	If you want to be??? Jack, tell us the day you decided you wanted to be
heterosexual. I want to hear all about it.



Glen
323.1844BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 16:133

	Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
323.1845ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 16:4863
    re: .1825 
    
>    	Well, that was the gist of what I was getting at, 
    
    I realize that, I was just explaining things for Glen.  8^)
    
>    but I'm not
>    	convinced that homosexuality is a "defect" as much as it is a
>    	genetic trait.
 
    Is alcoholism a defect of sorts?  I think so.  Otherwise, alcoholism
    would be the norm.  It is a defect in the fact that it gives one a
    predisposition towards addiction to alcohol.  Whether it is genetic or
    not isn't really the issue- either way it is a defect/disorder.
       
>    	The majority of people born have O+ blood, I believe, but that
>    	doesn't mean that those with AB- are "inferior".  They're just
>    	different.
 
    No one is saying homosexuals are inferior.  For the record, we all have
    certain dysfunctions- every one of us.  From a religious standpoint,
    the fall of man created a sin-nature that is ripe with
    dysfunctionalism.  My point of contention is that dysfunctions should
    be recognized for what they are, not glorified or rationalized as being
    "normal" for a select segment of the population.
    
    I have a bad temper.  When I was a youth, I used to throw fits.  No one
    ever told me that my personal disposition (prone towards an anger
    reaction to <insert negative stimuli> ) was okay, or rationalized that
    I can't change or otherwise be helped to deal with this disorder (and
    yes, such fits of rage ARE a disorder).  They didn't say that such
    displays of rage are acceptable, as long as no one gets hurt.
    
    No, I was told that such displays are WRONG, and that behaving in such
    a way is unacceptable.
    
    As I grew up, I learned to deal with anger in varying ways, knowing
    full well that certain reacions- no matter how appropriate I thought
    they may be at the time- were simply unacceptable.  In time, I came to
    grips with my disposition/disorder and brought my temper under control. 
    
    No matter how in control I am, however, I still have the *tendency* to
    react a certain way.  Though I no longer throw fits or act badly due to
    my temper (though I still yell at the TV during sporting events that
    count  8^) ), I still have the seed within me.  Without being
    constantly aware of this seed, I would not be able to head off
    impulsive reactions before they become action.
    
    Just imagine the disservice society would have done to me had such
    reactions been rationalized away.  "Oh, don't worry about your
    disposition, Steve, you can't help it.  See?  We found an "anger" gene,
    which makes you act this way.  Your reactions aren't bad, just
    different.  They are perfectly normal for 5% of the population that has
    this type of gene."
    
    Unfortunately, under the guise of "equal rights" (a misnomer, IMO),
    society is being desensitized to the "disorder", the rationalization
    being that it is "normal" for some people.  This simply isn't good
    reasoning, since many things undesirable can seem "normal" to some
    people.
    
    
    -steve  
323.1846ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 16:534
    re: .1827
    
    Too bad you only apply this logic to one side of the debate.  If both
    sides adhered to your "rule", there would be fewer problems.
323.1847ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 16:584
    re: .1837
    
    Says you.  I believe otherwise, though the harm is not as visible as
    that of alcoholism.
323.1848MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 17:036
re:            <<< Note 323.1845 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

If I understand this properly, your desire is that gay people "curb
their behavior" in the same way that you curb your temper, and that society
admonish them to do this, as society admonished you. Is that about it,
Steve?
323.1849BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 17:0930
| <<< Note 323.1845 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Is alcoholism a defect of sorts?  I think so.  Otherwise, alcoholism
| would be the norm.  

	Steve, do you view lefthandedness as being a defect? Or blue eyes, etc?
Unless you view EVERYTHING IN EXISTANCE that goes against the norm a defect,
then the above makes absolutely no sense.

| It is a defect in the fact that it gives one a predisposition towards 
| addiction to alcohol.  

	Are you saying you think homosexuality is an addiction? That would be a
new twist. :-)

| My point of contention is that dysfunctions should be recognized for what they
| are, not glorified or rationalized as being "normal" for a select segment of 
| the population.

	Yup... those American Indians...what a dysfunction they are. They
aren't the norm...anymore for this country. Oh, I forget which is the
dysfunction for the Irish people...red hair or brown? I believe brown used to
be the normal one, but I'm not sure if those freaky red haired ones became the
non-dysfunctional of the two. You see Steve, for each of these genetic traits,
we have differences. But the differences are normal for a select segment of the
population.


Glen
323.1850BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 17:1213
| <<< Note 323.1847 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Says you.  

	Are we at this point now?

| I believe otherwise, though the harm is not as visible as that of alcoholism.

	Then I guess you might also believe that like alcoholism, I am in the
denial period, huh?


Glen
323.1851MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 17:1489
Z So Jack..... do you think that my life being flawed in your eyes and
Z having you state it here is going to make me happy? Or that you don't think
Z that it isn't going to belittle me? Be real! 

Glen, this is the unfortunate nature of conferences like this.  I live by the
rule that if we don't take chances, then learning is stunted.  While I
sympathize with your dilemna and have always appreciated your candor, your
willingness to share your life to the world opens the door to scrutiny.

Z Wow..... you really take the cake. The same group that says gays can't
Z marry, also says it is wrong to have sex outside of marriage. How nice. 

And what is really ironical is I stated the restriction of marriage is a church
issue and therefore should not be legislated legally or illegally.  You were
the one that said it should be under the auspices of the state.

| But this in no way means I have to conform in order to fill this nebulous 
| mold we call valuing differences.  

Z Jack, I am convinced, on MANY fronts, that you will never conform to
Z valuing differences. Cuz they're just flawed people out there.

Including myself.  But you asked a YES/NO question, insisted on an answer and
I gave it to you.

Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
Z and the gays are flawed crowd?

The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
one who blows up a clinic.  

ZZ  Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
ZZ  "real"?

Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?

Z considering there has been a lot of heterosexuals talking about this with you,
Z please don't state that I set any parameters to worm out of it. 

Fair enough!

Z the matter is simple. The standards that are being set are being done so by
Z YOU. No one stated in this string that a homosexual couple would automatically
Z make good/bad parents. You stated both. 

Fib!  I never stated this.  What I said was there isn't enough data to show 
what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would 
be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.
The effects are unknown but I don't recall commiting an opinion one way or the
other.  The point I attempted to make was that we shouldn't go into this with
rose colored glasses.  The sexual revolution nay sayers have now changed their
opinion on the ramification of choices in life.

| My purpose here is to provide some sort of balance.

Z	Wow...Jack... this was pretty funny. 

See, I do add value here! :-)

| Dick, we all have our own convictions in life and telling me to go away is 
| kind of silly.  

Z Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
Z thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.

No, I said that my going away is silly.  This forum is here to exchange ideas,
not a tool to evangelize.

| Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or whatever, 
| then go ahead and knock yourself out.  

Z  If you want to be??? Jack, tell us the day you decided you wanted to be
Z  heterosexual. I want to hear all about it.

Edited for comprehension.  If you want to freely practice what your predis-
position motivate you to, then by all means.

Z  Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?

Perhaps not one way or the other.  Madelyn Murray O'Hare had a son who was a
born again Christian.  I will however point out that for the most part, the 
nurturing of a parent figure plays a heavy role on the child's oulook on life.
Our Valuing Diversity trainer was open about her lesbianism (?) and said she is 
bringing up a daughter.  Now considering the woman was married at one time, it
is quite possible there is some anamosity toward men in her life.  This may or 
may not be the case but I wouldn't think it unusual if it were.  This will
effect the daughters outlook on men if it is true.

-Jack
323.1852horsefeathersGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Dec 05 1995 17:1523
    
      re, Jim Percival.  Look, I was there, 19 and for St. Barry in 1964.
     I know what the Civil Rights Act was about.  I remember Martin Luther
     King, Everett Dirksen, LBJ.  It was about the federal government
     restricting the behavior of the white majority in order to protect
     the black minority.  Don't kid me with weaselwords.
    
      Life, liberty, the pursuit of happiness.  If we were all the same
     race, an employer could hire/fire me as he likes, I could stay or
     leave in the same way.  That's freedom.  But in a society with a
     grossly oppressed minority, we decided as a country to sacrifice
     some of our freedom to right a terrible historic wrong.
    
      Barry said at the time that it was a very dangerous precedent.
     Once you give up some of your liberty, no matter how morally bound
     you are to do so, you are on a slippery slope.  The more we restrict,
     the less free we all become.  It is patently obvious that the
     application of the Civil Rights Act increases the freedom of the
     minority dramatically by restricting the freedom of the majority,
     to a smaller extent.  There is no free lunch - it's a compromise.
     And the less compelling the case, the worse a deal it is.
    
      bb
323.1853ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 17:305
    re: .1850
    
    Yup.  As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about
    acting out on homosexuality.  Oh, but you have ratinalizations for that
    too...I forgot.
323.1854BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 17:4694
| <<< Note 323.1851 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Glen, this is the unfortunate nature of conferences like this.  I live by the
| rule that if we don't take chances, then learning is stunted.  

	Well, I have learned a lot about you this week, that's for sure.

| While I sympathize with your dilemna 

	Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.

| And what is really ironical is I stated the restriction of marriage is a church

	Then are you saying any marriage that is not done in a church is
invalid? 

| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?

| The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
| one who blows up a clinic.

	You really think that, huh? I have to disagree.

| ZZ  Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| ZZ  "real"?

| Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?

	Jack, please answer the question, and we'll see what I am afraid of.

| Fib!  I never stated this.  What I said was there isn't enough data to show
| what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would
| be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.

	You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.

| The effects are unknown but I don't recall commiting an opinion one way or the
| other.  

	Jack, would you have no problem with a couple that you view as
dysfunctional, as being parents? Yes or No?

| The point I attempted to make was that we shouldn't go into this with rose 
| colored glasses.  

	Jack, no one has said anyone is. But you don't judge how good a parent
is due to their sexual orientation, their being single, etc. You judge it on
their love for their children, how they raise them, etc. That determines a
good/bad parent... not sexual orientation.

| Z Are you saying what you believe to be God's Word is silly? Cuz I
| Z thought Dick was talking about a passage from the Bible.

| No, I said that my going away is silly.  This forum is here to exchange ideas,
| not a tool to evangelize.

	Ahhh.... but Dick was telling you something from the Bible, not from
him. So maybe you don't hold the Bible up like you appear.

| Edited for comprehension.  If you want to freely practice what your predis-
| position motivate you to, then by all means.

	Practice? Why don't you say it like it is? If you want to be who you
were born to be, go for it. 

| Z  Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?

| Perhaps not one way or the other.  Madelyn Murray O'Hare had a son who was a
| born again Christian.  I will however point out that for the most part, the
| nurturing of a parent figure plays a heavy role on the child's oulook on life.
| Our Valuing Diversity trainer was open about her lesbianism (?) and said she 
| is bringing up a daughter. Now considering the woman was married at one time,
| it is quite possible there is some anamosity toward men in her life.  

	Wow.... this really takes the case. I do understand you said this may
or may not be the case, but when you only seem to state the bad part of life
with gays as parents, how you think of what kind of sex someone has when they
say they are gay (but not if they are het), one has to wonder if the bad is
just not a permanant default for you and gays, PERIOD. 

	Jack, when you stated that there could be a problem with gays's kids
towards women (which I guess that means we would only adopt boys), you had to
have had some specific ideas in your mind, or you would not have stated what
you did. What are those ideas SPECIFICALLY? I guess one might be that if a gay
man got out of a marriage, that they may hate women. (which would be absurd) Of
course then that would say nothing of those who never married, or ever dated
women, etc. So what are your ideas on this?


Glen
323.1855ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 17:466
    re: .1848
    
    Reasonably close, if a bit too simplified. 
    
    
    -steve
323.1856BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 17:4917
| <<< Note 323.1853 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Yup.  

	Well, I guess that makes me Cleopatra.... Queen of De-Nile! Thank you
Steve, for pointing that out to me.... I am now cured. I am no longer gay!
Wow... what a wonderous feeling this is! Hey raq! Wanna go on a date sometime!
WOW! This is ABBBBSSSOOLLLUUTTTEELLLYY amazing! YES! I feel so FREEE! 

| As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about acting out 
| on homosexuality.  

	There is nothing in there about that.



Glen
323.1857BARSTR::JANDROWGreen-Eyed Lady...Tue Dec 05 1995 17:544
    
    if i were single, definitely...
    
    
323.1858CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsTue Dec 05 1995 17:5515
    Steve,
    
    G-d also said something about going out an multiplying, something you
    apparently don't practice either.  
    
    IMO loving families raising children are great, no matter what the
    gender(s) of the adults are.  When the adults don't love each other or
    themselves, this is where children grow up with lousy examples of how
    to interact with others.  I don't care if they are a married couple who
    sing in the choir and have the reverand over every other sunday for
    dinner, if they don't like each other, and aren't good to their kids
    they are doing a far worse service to this country and society than a
    single parent, gay or lesbian parental units, foster parent, or anyone
    who is raising children in a loving environment.  
    but what does this have to do with aids?
323.1859ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 18:0236
    re: .1856
    
>    Thank you Steve, for pointing that out to me.... 
    
    You're welcome. 
    
>    I am now cured. I am no longer gay!
    
    Good for you.
    
>Wow... what a wonderous feeling this is! Hey raq! Wanna go on a date sometime!
>WOW! This is ABBBBSSSOOLLLUUTTTEELLLYY amazing! YES! I feel so FREEE! 

    See, the truth does set one free.
    
| As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about acting out 
| on homosexuality.  

>	There is nothing in there about that.

    Oh, of course not.  Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all
    simply bigoted and read that into the Bible.  Yup, that must be it.  
    
    God was just joshing when he called 'a man lying with a man' an
    abomination.  He really didn't mean it...that God, what a jocker he is.
    
    And of course, the other umpteen passages that say similar things don't
    mean what they say, either.  I see.
    
    
    You know, Glen, if you weren't a Christian, I wouldn't beat you over
    the head with Bible passages.  8^)  If you think the Bible is silent on
    homosexual relations, you really are in denial.
    
    
    -steve
323.1860ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 18:068
    re: Meg
    
    Well, Meg, my life ain't over yet.  I still got time to do the
    multiplication thing.  I do, however, follow the Biblical teaching of
    abstinance during my life as a single.
    
    
    -steve
323.1861CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Dec 05 1995 18:1413
>    Oh, of course not.  Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all
>    simply bigoted and read that into the Bible.  Yup, that must be it.  
    
 
  not only that, but the translators with their "agenda", made sure that
  the Bible, while it contains guidlines for parental relationships, and
  husband-wife relationshsips, contained no such guidelines for same sex
  relationships.



   Jim
323.1862Some Christians are now obsessed with fighting homosexuality.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansTue Dec 05 1995 18:199
    There aren't 'umpteen' admonishments against homosexuality in the
    Bible - there aren't any-'teen' such admonishments.
    
    The only quote I've seen about homosexuality included it in a list
    of things that were occurring in a certain time and place.
    
    Considering the lack of much mention of homosexuality in the Bible,
    how on Earth did so much of Christianity become so centered around
    fighting against it?  
323.1863SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Tue Dec 05 1995 18:3915
    .1853
    
    > As a Christian, you know good and well what the Bible says about...
    
    ...killing innocent women and children because they happen to be
    Amalekites instead of Hebrews.
    
    ...purification time after a woman's period.
    
    ...the penalty to be visited on your neighbor's ox if it accidentally
    kills a member of your family.
    
    ...mixing meat with milk.
    
    ...judging others.
323.1864BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 18:457
| <<< Note 323.1857 by BARSTR::JANDROW "Green-Eyed Lady..." >>>


| if i were single, definitely...


	You're so quool!
323.1865MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 18:46113
zz	Well, I have learned a lot about you this week, that's for sure.

What it shows Glen is you haven't been paying attention too well.  I have been
voicing this opinion in both conferences for well over two years and you have
been responding in kind.  If you've learned I am a homophobe, well opinions 
are like bumbs, everybody has one.

Z Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
Z this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.

This was in reference to your implication my calling you dysfunctional was 
putting you down.  This is what you indicated by your rhetorical question a 
few replies back.

Z Then are you saying any marriage that is not done in a church is
Z invalid? 

No but I am saying the state can recognize it as a religious ordination...be it
done at a church, on a ship, or in a court of law.  Deem it a religious 
ordination and then the state cannot make it illegal.

| The same difference there is between one who peacefully pickets a clinic and
| one who blows up a clinic.

ZZ	You really think that, huh? I have to disagree.

You can disagree all you want.  I am from the "flaw" crowd and am telling you
this is how it is.  Look Glen, if I visit my sister and say, "Sis, you're fat!
You're fat sis.  Go to the gym!!!", or I said, "Sis, I know you're having a 
difficult time with this and I know it is your business, but out of concern I
have for you, I would love to see you come on down to the gym with me in order
to get your weight in better control", which response shows love and which shows
hate?

| ZZ  Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| ZZ  "real"?

| Again the unanswered question to the Soapbox proper....What are you afraid of?

ZZ	Jack, please answer the question, and we'll see what I am afraid of.

No, because I believe real commitment is an act that carries the ramification
of a lifetime.  Now I realize people move in together and act married for 
economic reasons or what have you.  This however is my conviction on the matter
and I stand by it.  Now, what are people afraid of?



| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?

| Z Jack, how much difference is there between the God hates fags crowd,
| Z and the gays are flawed crowd?

| Fib!  I never stated this.  What I said was there isn't enough data to show
| what kind of effect a gay couple would have on a child, but that there would
| be ramifications just as there would be with any non traditional or family.

ZZ  You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
ZZ  child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.

My ideas are simple...insufficient data.  What we must not do is assume it 
won't have any negative effect.

Z Jack, would you have no problem with a couple that you view as
Z dysfunctional, as being parents? Yes or No?

No because it would be their call.  I would only say the parent and the child 
would have challenges ahead of them.  I would also state that dysfunctionalism
is clearly preferential over death.

Z Ahhh.... but Dick was telling you something from the Bible, not from
Z him. So maybe you don't hold the Bible up like you appear.

Glen, this is proposterous.  The scripture Dick used was a mandate from Jesus 
to the disciples who were evangelizing and sharing the gospel.  Soapbox is
NOT a forum to convert people.  It is an escape from the clutches of
Political Correctness where people can argue their POV without fear of
reprisal.  I see this as valuable and profitable for both sides of an issue.

ZZ Practice? Why don't you say it like it is? If you want to be who you
ZZ were born to be, go for it. 

This is fallacy.  There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex.  This is a result of
who I am.  I DON'T go for it because there are parameters my convictions will
not allow me to break.  There is conviction of the law and conviction of the 
heart.  It is that which restrains me from acting on instinct and in place of
that, being lead by the Spirit.

Z Wow.... this really takes the case. I do understand you said this may
Z or may not be the case, but when you only seem to state the bad part of life
Z with gays as parents, how you think of what kind of sex someone has when they
Z say they are gay (but not if they are het), one has to wonder if the bad is
Z just not a permanant default for you and gays, PERIOD. 

Glen, it isn't just a matter of what kind of sex the father has with a man.  It
is the whole conditioning thing and the attitudes a child inherits from their
upbringing.  Are you suggesting this isn't the case?  That children don't
inherit attitudes from their role models growing up?

Z I guess one might be that if a gay
Z man got out of a marriage, that they may hate women. (which would be absurd) Of
Z course then that would say nothing of those who never married, or ever dated
Z women, etc. So what are your ideas on this?

On the contrary, I think it is quite possible.  If for example you are gay but 
marry and have a child, and you are then verbally abused by your spouse to the 
point of divorce, consider the possibility the child is going to see your dis-
dain for women, see you are loving another man, and put two and two together.
You honestly think this won't effect his view of women?

-Jack
323.1866BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 18:5029
| <<< Note 323.1859 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| See, the truth does set one free.

	On this, we agree! When I was hiding who I was, I was trapped. Not
lying to others or myself about who I am, I have become free.

| Oh, of course not.  Bible scholars throughout the centuries were all simply 
| bigoted and read that into the Bible.  Yup, that must be it.

	Thems yer words, not mine. I would put it more into the likes of when
psycologists thought being gay was a mental disorder. They say what they wanted
to do. But of course, the psycologists went out and proved they were wrong. The
scholars just took a bunch of words written by men and made it into God's laws.
Not to mention the taking things out of context stuff that goes with it.

| God was just joshing when he called 'a man lying with a man' an
| abomination.  He really didn't mean it...that God, what a jocker he is.

	Put it into it's proper context, please.

| You know, Glen, if you weren't a Christian, I wouldn't beat you over the head 
| with Bible passages.  

	You call that beating me over the head? Wow!



Glen
323.1867BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 18:5110
| <<< Note 323.1860 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Well, Meg, my life ain't over yet.  I still got time to do the
| multiplication thing.  

	Actually, so don't I. 



Glen
323.1868CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Dec 05 1995 18:528
>	Actually, so don't I. 


   What the heck does that mean?



323.1869CONSLT::MCBRIDEpack light, keep low, move fast, reload oftenTue Dec 05 1995 18:521
    Do.  So DO I.  Say it!  C'mon, say it!  
323.1870DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomTue Dec 05 1995 18:5559
    
    re:.1804

    > 	The CRA was, and still is, an unfortunate necessity. Recognizing
    > 	this, what objection is there to adding sexual orientation to the
    > 	list of protected classes? 

    But Jim, that IS the point of contention.  I do NOT consider the CRA 
    "an unfortunate necessity".  I consider it one of the main causes of
    the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing.  But as I said,
    you and I have been down this road already.

    -----------------

    re:.1829

>     Consider this:  At home, children of both gay and straight parents are
>     loved and cherished.  Elsewhere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
>     and told their parents are perverts.  The second group suffer none of
>     this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
>     disillusionment.  Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
>     messed up?
                                              
    Consider this:  At home, children of both German and English parents are
    loved and cherished.  Elsewhere the first group are reviled, ridiculed,
    and told their parents are Nazis.  The second group suffer none of
    this hatred, none of the confusion, none of the soul-wrenching
    disillusionment.  Can you tell me which group is more likely to be
    messed up?
    
    -----------------

    re:.1844

    > Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?

    Yes Glen, I think that is my main question.  how will 2 gay men
    influence their child towards women?

    -----------------

    re:.1862

    > Considering the lack of much mention of homosexuality in the Bible,
    > how on Earth did so much of Christianity become so centered around
    > fighting against it?  

    Excuse me ?!?!  I think that that's a little bit of an overstatement of
    the situation!  of course IMNHO, YMMV, etc...

    -----------------

    re:.1863

    > ...mixing meat with milk.
    
    BBLLLUUUUUUUUURRRRRRRGH!   :-P
    Where's the GAK topic?

323.1871MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 19:0517
>This is fallacy.  There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
>with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex.  This is a result of
>who I am.  I DON'T go for it because there are parameters my convictions will
>not allow me to break.  There is conviction of the law and conviction of the 
>heart.  It is that which restrains me from acting on instinct 

What a load of crap this is, Jack.

You DID go for it. You're a married man with a few kids. You DID act on
your instincts by choosing to court, wed, and procreate. Most homosexual
people are asking for the legal ability to do some or all of this as
well, but principally the "wed" part, the part that you hang onto as your
holy ordination, and THAT'S the part you want to prevent them from having.

How the hell can you dare to tell them NOT to act on their instincts
when you have done just that?

323.1872BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 19:1916
            <<< Note 323.1814 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    I still say it is disengenuous to define an individual by "sexual
>    orientation".  This is not a proper classification when dealing with
>    legal rights, nor when defining a legal minority. 
 
	The CRA does not define legal minorities, not does it, in actuality,
	define legal rights. It merely outlaws certain specific types of
	discrimination based on certain charachteristics.

	What is truly disengenuous is to say that the discrimination against
	Gays in the areas of employment, housing or the use of public
	accomadations is wrong and then not be willing to back up this
	belief in statute.

Jim
323.1874MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 19:2213
 ZZ   but principally the "wed" part, the part that you hang onto as your
 ZZ   holy ordination, and THAT'S the part you want to prevent them from
 ZZ   having.
    
    Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
    than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
    able to marry same sex couples.  This is my contention that people have
    me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.
    
    Like I said Jack, the people will prevail but don't label me as a
    hatemonger for disliking it.
    
    -Jack
323.1875MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 19:245
So then you DON'T have a problem with homosexuals acting on their
instincts even though you just said they shouldn't???

Which is it? You're more confusing than usual today.

323.1873I was going to post this earlier, but forgot where I saw itBUSY::SLABOUNTYBasket CaseTue Dec 05 1995 19:287
    
>    Bottom line once again Dick is if you want to be gay, or het, or
>    whatever, then go ahead and knock yourself out.
    
    
    	And if you want to be a hermaphrodite, then knock yourself up.
    
323.1876MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 19:398
 ZZ   So then you DON'T have a problem with homosexuals acting on their
 ZZ   instincts even though you just said they shouldn't???
    
    I was asked my opinion and therefore said they shouldn't.  I believe
    people shouldn't be promiscuous but I support their right to self
    determination.  
    
    -Jack
323.1877MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Dec 05 1995 19:433
How did promiscuity enter into it? You acted on your instincts in choosing
a mate. Do homosexuals deserve the same privilege or don't they?

323.1878BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 19:45135
| <<< Note 323.1865 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| What it shows Glen is you haven't been paying attention too well.  I have been
| voicing this opinion in both conferences for well over two years and you have
| been responding in kind.  

	Jack, I have never heard you use the words dysfunctional or flawed
before. I have never thought you were one who doesn't respect gays. I did not
know that when a male tells you he is gay, you think of the sex that he has. I
did not know that you thought gay males would only adopt boys (I did get that
impression though). I didn't know that you thought gays or lesbians could teach
their children to hate men/women. Hmmm... I guess in your lesbian analogy you
must think that lesbians will only have girls. I should talk to my friend about
this. She and her lover have had 1 boy each. But these things were not the
things you have talked about over the years. These are things I have learned
this week.

	What I have lheard you talk about in the past is that Biblically, you
don't believe homosexuality is right, but you don't have any problems with the
people, themselves. That was something I said I could live with. But the stuff
I learned this week about you has nothing to do with what you said in the past.
The things I learned this week really give me a different, and unpleasent
outlook towards you.

| If you've learned I am a homophobe, 

	I don't know what to classify it as, Jack. Maybe sad is an accurate
word. It certainly is the nicest one I can think of.

| well opinions are like bumbs, everybody has one.

	Most of the population has 2 bumps. 

| Z Stop here, please. My dilema? Errr..... I don't think I am the owner of
| Z this one, Jack. I believe YOU are.

| This was in reference to your implication my calling you dysfunctional was
| putting you down.  This is what you indicated by your rhetorical question a
| few replies back.

	Jack, I know what you were referencing.... but the dilema, if there is
one, was caused by you. Plain and simple.

| No but I am saying the state can recognize it as a religious ordination...be it
| done at a church, on a ship, or in a court of law.  Deem it a religious
| ordination and then the state cannot make it illegal.

	Jack, I think you missed the point. Let me try again. If a marriage
isn't done in a religious manner (which would cut out common law, etc), is it
viewed in God's eyes as being legit?

| | ZZ  Jack, do you think one has to be married for the commitment to be
| | ZZ  "real"?

| No, because I believe real commitment is an act that carries the ramification
| of a lifetime.  

	Then two gay men in a relationship should not be seen as casual sex in
your eyes, right? 

| Now I realize people move in together and act married for economic reasons 

	Jack, I'm sorry, but I had to laugh. All I could think of was some guy
or woman saying: Come on... we're in this for economic reasons. So lets get it
on!" :-)

| Now, what are people afraid of?

	It would appear if people are willing to commit to each other, then
those people, while I'm sure have many fears, are going forward with it. So if
this isn't what you're looking for for the afraid part, explain it some more.

| ZZ  You forgot about the possible effects a gay couple could have on a
| ZZ  child towards women. I do hope you express your ideas on this one.

| My ideas are simple...insufficient data.  What we must not do is assume it
| won't have any negative effect.

	NO ONE IS DOING THAT! What I found extremely annoying is that when you
mentioned a lesbian getting divorced and possibly hating men, and passing it
onto her daughter, that you never said anything about a heterosexual woman
going through the same thing. Why was that?

| No because it would be their call.  I would only say the parent and the child
| would have challenges ahead of them.  I would also state that dysfunctionalism
| is clearly preferential over death.

	HO HO! Clearly better than death. WOW! Now I have heard everything!
Ever wonder why people get pissed at you so much?

| Glen, this is proposterous.  The scripture Dick used was a mandate from Jesus
| to the disciples who were evangelizing and sharing the gospel.  Soapbox is
| NOT a forum to convert people.  

	Jack, I hadn't thought that sharing the gospel was = to converting
people. Because if that were the case, then they would not have been told to
move on. I had thought converting was supposed to be something someone wanted
to do, not something forced. So it would appear that Dick had the correct
interpretation. So....bye.

| This is fallacy.  There are alot of things that I would like to do as a male
| with a predisposition toward others of the opposite sex.  

	Jack, do you know that there is a difference between being who you are
(which is what I said) and doing what you want to (which is what you said)? If
not, there is.

| Glen, it isn't just a matter of what kind of sex the father has with a man. It
| is the whole conditioning thing and the attitudes a child inherits from their
| upbringing.  Are you suggesting this isn't the case?  That children don't
| inherit attitudes from their role models growing up?

	Jack, attitudes are inheritted from parents, and other grown-ups, and
peers. But sexual orientation has nothing to do with this. Hell, I used to be
very bigotted before. I got that from my parents. They were heterosexual. If my
parents were lesbians, or gay males, and had the same attitudes my parents did
towards <insert race>, then I would have still grown up the same way. Sexual
orientation is not the problem. 

| On the contrary, I think it is quite possible.  If for example you are gay but
| marry and have a child, and you are then verbally abused by your spouse to the
| point of divorce, consider the possibility the child is going to see your dis-
| dain for women, see you are loving another man, and put two and two together.
| You honestly think this won't effect his view of women?

	Wow...Jack.... this is a stretch.... even for you. The above could very
well happen.... yes..... IF the parents don't explain to the child why they are
having the divorce. If they aren't close with the child so she/he would ask
mommy and daddy questions when they have them. But is that a problem with
homosexuality and child rearing? Or is it a problem where mommy and daddy
didn't take the child(ren) into full consideration?



Glen
323.1879BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 19:4911
| <<< Note 323.1868 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>


| >	Actually, so don't I.


| What the heck does that mean?


	It means if I want to have a kid, I still can.

323.1880BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 19:509
| <<< Note 323.1869 by CONSLT::MCBRIDE "pack light, keep low, move fast, reload often" >>>

| Do.  So DO I.  Say it!  C'mon, say it!


	it


	phew... I feel so much better!
323.1881CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Dec 05 1995 19:505



 "so don't I" means you can have a kid?
323.1882BUSY::SLABOUNTYBe gone - you have no powers hereTue Dec 05 1995 19:526
    
    	If you speak/understand slang, it means the same thing.
    
    	I graduated from a public school system, so I learned all the
    	wrong ways to use the language.  Right, Jack?
    
323.1883BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 19:5214
| <<< Note 323.1874 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
| than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
| able to marry same sex couples.  This is my contention that people have
| me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.

	Oh good. Then we can have sex after we get married, and you won't be
upset by it. This is good.



Glen
323.1884BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 19:5313
| <<< Note 323.1876 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I was asked my opinion and therefore said they shouldn't.  I believe
| people shouldn't be promiscuous but I support their right to self
| determination.

	Why would you allow someone to marry in a church, but not have sex
after they are married? 



Glen
323.1885ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 19:593
    re: .1863
    
    Let's play obfuscate!!
323.1886ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 20:013
    re: .1862
    
    You are misinformed.
323.1887MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 20:0615
    Glen:
    
    I have used the alcoholism analogy MANY times and you know it.
    
    Let's just agree to disagree.  This is getting dull for both of us I
    imagine.  Look, do what you feel is right in your own eyes, I am not
    your conscience.  You're gay, I accept that.  For whatever reason, you
    were born gay, I was born non gay.  How we act on our predispositions
    is molded by our convictions as to what is sanctified, what is holy,
    what is right or what is wrong.  If you truly believe your actions are
    right, then you shouldn't have any remorse or anger over what I say.  
    Like I said, everybody has an opinion.
    
    -Jack
    
323.1888ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 05 1995 20:0611
    re: .1872
    
    The answer to everything is NOT legislation.  This is not a simple
    issue at all, and I've typed in hundreds of lines of text showing you
    how your simple rationalizations come up short.
    
    I'm not sure what else to type in, other than I agree that we will
    continue to disagree on this issue.
    
    
    -steve
323.1889BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 20:1325
| <<< Note 323.1887 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| You're gay, I accept that.  

	I know you accept that I am gay, but I now wonder if you accept me, as
a person. From what I have learned this week I get the impression that this is
not the case.

| How we act on our predispositions is molded by our convictions as to what is 
| sanctified, what is holy, what is right or what is wrong.  

	Jack, you've labeled gays, PERIOD. Don't you dare try to hold this to a
me you thing. There are many people who mold their convictions is ways you have
not listed. 

| If you truly believe your actions are right, then you shouldn't have any 
| remorse or anger over what I say.

	Jack, that is bullcrap and you know it. I suppose no one is supposed to
ever get upset if people say false things about them? And not just them, but
anyone like them? Please, jack... be real... just for once? 



Glen
323.1890MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 20:2725
ZZ    I know you accept that I am gay, but I now wonder if you accept me, as
ZZ    a person. From what I have learned this week I get the impression that
ZZ    this is not the case.
    
    Glen, you're putting on the perverbial victim hat and THAT is bullcrap.
    I have NEVER kept it a secret of how I perceived the matter of being
    born gay and you know it!  If I didn't accept you as a person, it would
    seem to me we would never have dialog, or exchange EMail, or
    communicate in any way!  That ALONE should speak on whether or not I
    accept you as a person.  
    
    Glen, the cold hard facts are as follows.  There are people in here who
    honestly believe Christians are deluded, misguided fools who follow
    myths.  Heck we have that right in our own beloved Christian 
    Perspective conference.  There are people who firmly believe being gay
    is a choice.  There is another segment who believe as I do that being
    gay is a handicap.  Now the day may come when I will be called on the
    carpet as it were, for non conformity.  The fact is Glen, that there
    are always going to be people who believe differently than you.  
    It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
    I'm a misguided fool!  Heck he's always good for a laugh...and I
    respect his right to differ with me on this.  It's not malicious...it's
    just the way it is Glen!
    
    -Jack
323.1891DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Tue Dec 05 1995 20:5614
    >There are people in here who honestly believe Christians are deluded, 
    >misguided fools who follow myths. 
    
    Me, me, except for the fool part. 
    
    >It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
    >I'm a misguided fool!  
    
    Misguided yes, fool no.
    
    >Heck he's always good for a laugh...
    
    I'm glad it's working Jack, except I seldom see you smile.  :)
    
323.1892MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 05 1995 20:581
    Sorry.  I really should use that more!! :-)
323.1893BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 05 1995 21:0752
| <<< Note 323.1890 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Glen, you're putting on the perverbial victim hat and THAT is bullcrap.

	Jack, if I can't live without you acceptance, then there is a victim
hat. What I stated is at one time I thought you accepted gays as people. Now I
do not feel the same way. I can live with the knowledge that you don't. It
isn't going to effect me one way or the other, except in how I view you, maybe.
But I ain't claiming victimization. Just pointing out what I thought about you
was wrong.

| I have NEVER kept it a secret of how I perceived the matter of being born gay 
| and you know it!  

	Jack, I listed all the things that I learned this week about you. Did
you miss that?

| If I didn't accept you as a person, it would seem to me we would never have 
| dialog, or exchange EMail, or communicate in any way!  

	Oh... like I said before, you have stated that you accept gay people.
But from the things I've learned this week, I can't say I believe that now.

| Glen, the cold hard facts are as follows. There are people in here who 
| honestly believe Christians are deluded, misguided fools who follow myths.  

	You are correct. That is their beliefs. And maybe when they hear the
word Christian, they think of two people, just laying there, barely moving, and
call it their sex. I don't know. Or maybe they envision a Jim Bakker type. What
anyone should do under any of these circumstances is pretty simple. Talk to the
individual. Don't make sweeping generalizations about any group.

| There are people who firmly believe being gay is a choice. There is another 
| segment who believe as I do that being gay is a handicap.  

	Isn't that the same group, Jack?

| The fact is Glen, that there are always going to be people who believe 
| differently than you.

	I don't have a problem with that, Jack. I just stated that I now see
you in a different light, and one that is not nearly as good as the one I used
to see you from. I guess I just didn't see as much of the picture back then.

| It doesn't bother me that guys like Tom Ralston, for example, believe
| I'm a misguided fool!  

	How can you think differently on this one? :_)



Glen
323.1894BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 21:1417
          <<< Note 323.1852 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>      re, Jim Percival.  Look, I was there, 19 and for St. Barry in 1964.

	So? You are old. This does not make you right. The WORDS are what
	they are. The law can protect white as well as Black, man as well
	as woman, Jew as well as Lutheran. That's what they law says.
	If you have a problem with the applications to which the law
	has been put, then it may tell you about those who have\
	suffered discrimination.

>     I know what the Civil Rights Act was about.

	You obviously do not know what the Act says, or how it can be
	and has been used.

Jim
323.1895BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 21:2012
      <<< Note 323.1870 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>    But Jim, that IS the point of contention.  I do NOT consider the CRA 
>    "an unfortunate necessity".  I consider it one of the main causes of
>    the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing.  But as I said,
>    you and I have been down this road already.

	Yes, and if you recall, the last time we had this discussion it
	became obvious that you had confused the differences between the
	CRA and AA. I thought we had cleared that up for you.

Jim
323.1896BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 21:2418
      <<< Note 323.1874 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Could somebody please inform lucky Jack here that I've stated on more
>    than one occasion that churches, apostate though they are, should be
>    able to marry same sex couples.  This is my contention that people have
>    me painted in a box and aren't really paying attention here.
 
	Currently the state regulates just who can be married and requires
	a license before any ordained minister can legally marry two 
	individuals.

	A marriage ceremony could be performed for a Gay couple, but
	the marriage would not be legally recognized by the state.

	Failing to recognize this simple fact is a rather poor attempt
	at diversion.

Jim
323.1897BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 05 1995 21:278
            <<< Note 323.1888 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    I'm not sure what else to type in, other than I agree that we will
>    continue to disagree on this issue.
 
	Why not just a simple confession that you are a hypocrite?

Jim
323.1898ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 11:4013
    re: .1894
    
    Why was the CRA written and passed (the original)?  
    
    (hint: not to protect white folk)
    
    You can argue that the wording is such that it protects all races, and
    I'll agree with you on technical usage.  You cannot argue that the
    intent was anything but to protect minorities (specifically black
    people, at the time it was written).
    
    
    -steve
323.1899...why I am noT for adding...ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 11:4713
    re: .1897
    
    
    I've fully explained why I am no for adding "sexual orientation" to the
    CRA.  If you cannot look past your overly simplistic view on this matter,
    well, I guess I would seem to be a hypocrite to you.  
    
    Quit turning this into a black or white issue.  There are many shades
    of gray, though you refuse to accept this (or even consider the
    possibility).
    
    
    -steve 
323.1900ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 11:483
    And while I'm here...
    
    SNARF!
323.1901Yes.GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseWed Dec 06 1995 11:5017
    
      Steve's right.  If you put 6 dogs and a rabbit in a cage, and
     make a rule that "no animal may harm another", you are NOT practicing
     equality - you are restricting the freedom of the dogs, and
     specially protecting the rabbit.  Jim Percival is no dummy and he
     knows perfectly well that this is the case.  The trouble is that he
     wants us to believe that Civil Rights protection has "no" downside,
     a logically untenable position - EVERYTHING has a down side.  In the
     case of protecting the black race, our society decided (correctly,
     in my view, as in the animal case) that the tradeoff was necessary.
     For lefthanded people, I think the legal protection would cost more
     than it's worth, by a lot.  Sexual orientation lies between these
     cases.  Every time we make such protection, we make life harder for
     everybody in the society.  It's a tradeoff - Jim P. is just wrong,
     and demonstrably so.
    
      bb
323.1902BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 12:0818
| <<< Note 323.1898 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| You can argue that the wording is such that it protects all races, and I'll 
| agree with you on technical usage. You cannot argue that the intent was 
| anything but to protect minorities (specifically black people, at the time it 
| was written).

	Read what you said above and think for a minute. Specifically black
people. That would make everyone else, INCLUDING the white man, a minor thought
in the bill, under your view. 

	BUT, regardless of what you think their intent was, the FACT remains it
covers white, black, asian, indian, etc. 


Glen


323.1903DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomWed Dec 06 1995 12:3122
    
    re:.1895

> >    But Jim, that IS the point of contention.  I do NOT consider the CRA 
> >    "an unfortunate necessity".  I consider it one of the main causes of
> >    the inter-racial strife that we are currently facing.  But as I said,
> >    you and I have been down this road already.
> 
> 	Yes, and if you recall, the last time we had this discussion it
> 	became obvious that you had confused the differences between the
> 	CRA and AA. I thought we had cleared that up for you.

    No Jim, you are mistaken.  The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
    minor side issue.  The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
    continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people. 
    Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
    associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
    groups.  This leads to internal strife within the nation.  If and when
    this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
    our internal strife.  This is why I'm opposed to the CRA.
    IMNHO, YMMV, etc...

323.1904GMASEC::KELLYWed Dec 06 1995 12:5113
    Glen-
    
    I'm really surprised at you.  For all your blathering in the past about
    Joe stating x,y,z about you as fact and taking offense to it, why,
    you're doing the same to Jack with your current blathering about what
    you've learned about him this week.  Even tho he's telling you
    different.  I love how your 'go to the source' only works one way.
    And yes, Jack has beliefs about gays which you claim are not true and
    happen to dislike, but at least Jack acknowledges with his "hey I may 
    be called on the carpet for this one day" that he may be wrong.  He's
    also one of the only "thumpers" to say, yes, make gay marriages legal.
    At least admit that your opinion of his is just that, stop stating it
    as fact. 
323.1905SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Wed Dec 06 1995 12:558
    
    <-------
    
    >I'm really surprised at you.
    
    
    
    You may be the only one Christine....
323.1906MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 13:0825
    Thinking about this last night, and tell me if I'm correct, the thorn
    on the side of this segment of dialog was the use of the word,
    "dysfunctional".  Is this right Glen?  The word dysfunctional being
    applied to a whole group of society?  
    
    Let me reiterate that "dysfunctional" is a generic term and is not an
    implication to mental health.  My sister for example, cannot have
    children and never will.  She adopted three children but cannot bear
    children because she has a dysfunctional reproductive system.  There
    are men out there who are impotent, they were born with that trait.  It 
    has nothing to do with their stamina in bed, they are simply
    dysfunctional.  I have certain allergies which make it difficult for me
    to breathe properly.  The lack of oxygen affects my noting ability and
    therefore I am dysfunctional.  These dysfunctions, handicaps, whatever
    you want to label them are traits we have to deal with.  There are some
    handicaps  which require more conviction in the choice we make.  An
    alcoholic can be sober for sixty years, never touch a drop.  A gay
    individual can be chaste all his life to honor God.  The presidposition
    still exists.  Again, it is NOT the predisposition which is being
    judged.  Predispositions are given to us by the almighty in my opinion.
    How we handle life when adversity comes our way is the real test.
    
    The stalemate of course is that your "blessing" is my adversity.  
    
    -Jack  
323.1908a hint: white people did not need protection at this timeACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 13:1415
    re: .1902 
    
    Glen, please explain why the CRA came into existence.  While you are at
    it, please share with us the social situation at this time.
    
    Thank you.
    
    And fwiw, the only thought about white folk during the passage of this
    act, was the thought of limiting their right to discriminate against
    the black folk.  Intent is the issue, my friend, not technicalities. 
    
    
    
    -steve
    
323.1909TROOA::COLLINSTakin' it to the streets...Wed Dec 06 1995 13:176
    
    >A gay individual can be chaste all his life to honor God.
    
    How disappointing for him if, after all that, there is no God (or, if
    there is a God, that He just plain doesn't give a damn about chastity).
                                                                         
323.1910POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerWed Dec 06 1995 13:232
    Not only that, he may not give a tinker's cuss about not having sex
    either!
323.1911BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 13:2736
| <<< Note 323.1904 by GMASEC::KELLY >>>

| I'm really surprised at you. For all your blathering in the past about Joe 
| stating x,y,z about you as fact and taking offense to it, why, you're doing 
| the same to Jack with your current blathering about what you've learned about 
| him this week. Even tho he's telling you different.  

	'tine, he is not telling me different. He is agreeing with what I am
saying. I listed the things I had learned this week, and compared them to the
things I have leaned in the past. The end result is I view him differently than
I did before, and it is not favorable. I did state that I do not believe he is
homophobic. But I stated how I view him is differently, now.

| And yes, Jack has beliefs about gays which you claim are not true and happen 
| to dislike, but at least Jack acknowledges with his "hey I may be called on 
| the carpet for this one day" that he may be wrong.  

	What was interesting about that was he said his beliefs are Biblically
based. So if that is true, then the Bible would have to be wrong for him to be,
wouldn't it? So I'm not so sure that him saying the carpet thing is saying all
that much at all.

| He's also one of the only "thumpers" to say, yes, make gay marriages legal.

	I'm still waiting for him to respond to the sex part of marriage. If we
marry, is it ok for sex. So no difinitive statement has been made with this
yet.

| At least admit that your opinion of his is just that, stop stating it
| as fact.

	'tine, you surprise me. If I state that I view Jack unfavorably, how is
that anything more than my opinion?


Glen
323.1912SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Wed Dec 06 1995 13:327
    
    
    'Tine???
    
    
     You still surprised????
    
323.1913MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 13:4827
 ZZ   I did state that I do not believe he is
 ZZ   homophobic. But I stated how I view him is differently, now.
    
    Glen, the word homophobe has little creedance with me.  "Homophobe" is
    one of those misused terms applied to the masses of those who disagree
    regarding the morality issue of same gender intercourse.  Try labeling
    me as homophobic and you may as well be pissing into the wind.
    
    Re: Sex and marriage.  My opinion is this.  If you notice when I put
    forth the idea that churches should be able to perform marriages to
    gays, I always include, "apostate though they are".  I don't make this
    comment lightly.  I believe the tenet of the church is to build the
    body of believers in holiness and sanctification before a holy God. 
    Apostacy is a common infiltration within the church and has been since
    the beginning of it.  Personal opinion, a gay marriage is not a
    sanctified act.  My legal opinion, you should have the right to self
    determination.
    
    However, if marriage were to be labeled a religious institution, be it
    atheists, satan worshippers, Christians, whomever, then the government
    would be interfering with the establishment of a religious ordinance.
    This is why, apostate though they are, a church could and would be able
    to make a marriage legal and binding for anybody.  I believe it is an
    apostate practice but the government would be out of it and of course
    my opinion would mean squat...so you would live happily ever after.
    
    -Jack
323.1914BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 14:1626
          <<< Note 323.1901 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>The trouble is that he
>     wants us to believe that Civil Rights protection has "no" downside,
>     a logically untenable position - EVERYTHING has a down side. 

	Pray tell us the downside of requiring that discrimination in
	the three areas covered by the CRA be stopped.

> In the
>     case of protecting the black race, our society decided (correctly,
>     in my view, as in the animal case) that the tradeoff was necessary.

	Please explain why the CRA has been used, successfully, by whites
	then.

>It's a tradeoff - Jim P. is just wrong,
>     and demonstrably so.
 
	I guess as long as you are not of the ones suffering discrimination
	it's easy to call such a position wrong. But if the ideas and
	principles of this Country concerning the equal treatment of its
	citizens are to be respected then thy must apply to everyone, not
	just a select few.

Jim
323.1915BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 14:1810
      <<< Note 323.1903 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>    No Jim, you are mistaken.  The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
>    minor side issue.  The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
>    continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people. 

	Apparently not such a minor issue since you are STILL confused.
	AA does create special classes, the CRA most certainly does not.

Jim
323.1916GMASEC::KELLYWed Dec 06 1995 14:317
    Andy-
    
    Nope.
    
    Glen,
    
    Don't have the time or the inclination.
323.1917BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 14:3332
            <<< Note 323.1899 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    I've fully explained why I am no for adding "sexual orientation" to the
>    CRA.  If you cannot look past your overly simplistic view on this matter,
>    well, I guess I would seem to be a hypocrite to you.  
 
	I look at it a simple issue because it IS a simple issue. Either
	this discrimination is right or it is wrong. You, yourself, have
	opined that it is wrong, but then you attempt to complicate the
	issue with all your boogyman domino scare tactics, so that you
	can tell us (even though you believe it's wrong) that you do
	not favor rectifying the situation.

	That IS hypocritical, plain and simple.

	Of course there is another possibility. It very well could be that
	you are not telling us the truth when you say that you believe that
	discriminating against Gays is wrong.

	So we are left with a choice of believeing that you are a hypocrite
	or a liar. 

  
>    Quit turning this into a black or white issue.  There are many shades
>    of gray, though you refuse to accept this (or even consider the
>    possibility).
 
	The difference between us Steve is that I have a set of principles
	that I truly believe in. You, on the other hand, only have a negotiable
	set of beliefs.

Jim
323.1918BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 14:4027
      <<< Note 323.1913 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    Glen, the word homophobe has little creedance with me.  "Homophobe" is
>    one of those misused terms applied to the masses of those who disagree
>    regarding the morality issue of same gender intercourse.  Try labeling
>   me as homophobic and you may as well be pissing into the wind.
 
	Funny. the same thought occurs to me when you label Gays as
	"dysfunctional".

	The term, and you examples of its various useages, implies a lack
	of function. The inability to perform. The only area where this
	could possibly apply would be to Gay men bearing children. But then
	that lack of function applies to ALL men. 

	Other than this one area, which is NOT exclusive to Gays, you can not
	describe a lack of function that applies to Gays. Therefore, your
	use of the term is not descriptive. It is merely derogatory.


>My legal opinion, you should have the right to self
>    determination.
 
	Then you DO favor changing the law to allow same sex couples 
	access to marriage.

Jim
323.1919BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansWed Dec 06 1995 14:4229
    RE: .1903  

    / The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose 
    / it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.

    These categories already existed.  The categories were used to exclude
    people from jobs, education and housing.  At one point, they were used
    to exclude people from certain drinking fountains, lunch counters and
    bus seats.
     
    / Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
    / associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
    / groups.  

    The CRA didn't 'create' the categories.  They already existed.  Once
    the CRA was created, though, people from the various groups began to
    live and work together in ways that had never been possible before.

    / This leads to internal strife within the nation.  If and when
    / this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
    / our internal strife.

    The internal strife already existed, too.

    It's a Catch-22 if you tell people who have been excluded as a group
    that you can't try to improve their situation because it would turn
    them into a 'group' (thus creating problems which exist when people
    are divided into groups), as if groups don't exist until someone tries
    to solve the injustices being inflicted on a particular group.
323.1920MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 15:1015
 Z    Then you DO favor changing the law to allow same sex couples 
 Z    access to marriage.
    
    Yes, I do.  As I've said before, marriage to me is a sacrament under
    the auspices of church or religion.  Now obviously one size does not
    fit all since the world is full of non religious people.  However,
    since Secular Humanism has been deemed a religion by the Supreme Court
    under Reagan, this to me would cover those bases and an atheist would
    be able marry by a JP under the auspices of religion.  This would
    remove the legislature from legislating morality.
    
    I frankly find it surprising this idea isn't well received here.  I'm
    proposing getting government out of it and the whole bit!
    
    -Jack
323.1921BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 15:4522
| <<< Note 323.1906 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Thinking about this last night, and tell me if I'm correct, the thorn on the 
| side of this segment of dialog was the use of the word, "dysfunctional". Is 
| this right Glen?  

	Jack, the word is only part of it.

| The lack of oxygen affects my noting ability and therefore I am dysfunctional.

	See? I learned something new. I now know the reason for your faulty
noting style! :-)

| These dysfunctions, handicaps, whatever you want to label them are traits we 
| have to deal with.  

	To include homosexuality in those is pretty insulting, if you ask me.
And it was not something I thought you believed up until this week.



Glen
323.1922BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 15:4813
| <<< Note 323.1908 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| -< a hint: white people did not need protection at this time >-

	No kidding. But it was made for them incase they needed it. That was
what I was saying. The protection COULD have been made JUST for one group,
PERIOD. But it wasn't. Some thought actually went into it. Whether or not it
was put together for <insert group> isn't the who crux of the matter. What IS,
is the FACT it covers EVERYONE. 

Glen

323.1923BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 15:5311
| <<< Note 323.1920 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| As I've said before, marriage to me is a sacrament under the auspices of 
| church or religion.  

	Jack, I'm confused by this. I had thought with you being a Christian
from the Right, that the only true religion is Christianity. Are you now saying
other religions are valid in your eyes? I'm confused.


Glen
323.1924MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 15:597
Z    To include homosexuality in those is pretty insulting, if you
Z    ask me.
    
    Considering sexual relations between same sex individuals is by and
    large something most people shun away from, I think your use of the
    word insulting is somewhat over done.  You can tell me my remark is
    without precedent or without basis...but insulting!?!
323.1925BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 16:0415
| <<< Note 323.1924 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Considering sexual relations between same sex individuals is by and large 
| something most people shun away from, I think your use of the word insulting 
| is somewhat over done.  

	Jack, shun away from? Could you elaborate with some stats? Or is this
another one of your whims?

| You can tell me my remark is without precedent or without basis...but 
| insulting!?!

	Yeah, you have cassified a whole group of people as being something
less than desireable, but out of that whole group, how many do you know? 
323.1926MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 16:1517
 Z   that the only true religion is Christianity. Are you now saying
 Z   other religions are valid in your eyes? I'm confused.
    
    Well, let me splain it to ya.  Any religion is valid.  A religion is
    a belief system.  Atheism in my opinion is a valid belief system. 
    Satanism is a valid belief system.  Now are they the true belief
    system?  This remains to be seen.  "In your eyes" is the phrase you
    used above.  In other words, I have an opinion based on a core belief
    system.  In a Republic such as the US, we are afforded the right to
    believe and worship as we see fit.
    
    You also may recall I don't believe Christianity is a religion.  A
    religion has a core element of humankind reaching upi to God through
    whatever medium or avenue they deem fit.  I believe Christianity is
    based on God reaching down to man by his plan.
    
    -Jack
323.1927SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Wed Dec 06 1995 16:197
    
    re. .1923
    
    >I'm confused.
    
    Color me stunned!!!
    
323.1928MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalWed Dec 06 1995 16:3327
    Jack, shun away from? Could you elaborate with some stats? Or is this
    another one of your whims?
    
    Probably another one of my whims.  When I wrote this I was thinking of
    the hoopla a few months back regarding the use of abortion if it could
    be discovered the baby was going to be gay.  My whim here is there is a
    good probability people would use abortion for this and personaaly I
    find this to be the height of hatred.  Far more than any rhetoric
    coming from me.  Like I said yesterday, growing up with any
    predisposition is far greater than death.  Why don't you go into the
    abortion topic and pose the question to the people you side with over
    there...and see how much hatred comes out of that one.
    
    | You can tell me my remark is without precedent or without basis...but 
    | insulting!?!
    
Z    Yeah, you have classified a whole group of people as being something
Z    less than desireable, but out of that whole group, how many do you
Z    know?
    
    So my sister who cannot bear children is less desirable?  I said no
    such thing about gays as people...nothing!  What I said was to me, how
    we handle a predisposition will determine our conviction.  Your
    conviction isn't the same as mine that's all!
    
    -Jack
    
323.1929ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 18:1074
    re: .1917
    
    
>	I look at it a simple issue because it IS a simple issue. 
    
    Only if you ignore all the points I have brought up (which you have
    done a pretty good job of doing).
    
>    Either this discrimination is right or it is wrong. 
    
    I have also brought up the uselessness of using "discrimination" as a
    cover-all term.  
    
>    You, yourself, have opined that it is wrong, 
    
    I have agreed that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the term 
    "discrimination" are wrong.
    
>    but then you attempt to complicate the issue with all your boogyman 
>    domino scare tactics, 
    
    The "domino theory" was a side issue, and labelled properly as such.  
    My argument has never rested on this opinion that you are
    quick to label as "scare tactics".
    
>    so that you can tell us (even though you believe 
>    it's wrong) that you do not favor rectifying the situation.

    I have said that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the
    label "discrimination" are wrong.  I have not said that I do not favor
    rectifying the situation, but that I believe legal rectification is not
    in order, nor needed in this instance. 
    
>	That IS hypocritical, plain and simple.

    Only if you ignore 90% of what I have posted in this string. 
    
>	Of course there is another possibility. It very well could be that
>	you are not telling us the truth when you say that you believe that
>	discriminating against Gays is wrong.

    I've already said society has a right to discriminate against gays
    within certain boundaries; it has every right not to allow gay
    marriages, for one.  
    
    As far as gays getting fired from a job JUST because they are gay, well,
    I agree this is bad.  I do not agree that this problem is widespread
    enough to need legislation, and I think change will come on its own-
    without legislation.  I also believe that there are certain issues in 
    which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
    
    You are being incredibly simplistic when you attemp to label me as a
    hypocrite (or liar).  You imply that because I do not want "sexual
    orientation" to be added to the CRA, that I do not wish to see any
    of the problems you mention fixed.  This is an untenable conclusion on
    your part.  You refuse to see this issue outside of your binary
    filters.
    
>	So we are left with a choice of believeing that you are a hypocrite
>	or a liar. 

    Or that you are ignoring most of what I post.
    
>	The difference between us Steve is that I have a set of principles
>	that I truly believe in. You, on the other hand, only have a negotiable
>	set of beliefs.

    I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion.  Even
    more interesting to me, is that you feel the need to resort to personal
    attacks (no, I don't really care, I just find it interesting). 
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1930ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 18:2221
    re: .1922
    
| -< a hint: white people did not need protection at this time >-

>	No kidding. But it was made for them incase they needed it. 
    
    Nonsense.  This was NEVER a fear of the white establishment of this
    era.  The CRA was created SPECIFICALLY for blacks, who were the ones
    being discriminated against wholesale.  The INTENT (the point you keep
    deflecting from) was to protect blacks. 
    
> Whether or not it
>was put together for <insert group> isn't the who crux of the matter. What IS,
>is the FACT it covers EVERYONE. 

    Then adding in "sexual orientation" is redundant, since everyone is
    already covered.

    
    -steve
    
323.1931SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Wed Dec 06 1995 18:5211
    
    Malawi to execute certain rapists
    
    LILONGWE, Malawi - President Bakili Muluzi plans to institute the death
    penalty for rapists who infect their victims with the virus that causes
    AIDS. Speaking at a prayer meeting Sunday in Malawi's administrative
    capital, Muluzi expressed concern over the spread of AIDS to unwitting
    victims. More than 1 million of Malawi's 8 million inhabitants are
    believed infected with HIV. Muluzi succeeded dictator Kamuzu Banda last
    year, following the first multiparty elections in Malawi's 30 years of
    independence.(AP)
323.1932MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneWed Dec 06 1995 18:554
    
    President Bakili Mulazi from Lilongwe Malawi. Oy!
    
    -b
323.1933MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Wed Dec 06 1995 19:1315
So what of the situation currently going on in NYC?

A young (6? 8?) girl on the NYC subway, was "stabbed" in the thigh by
a hypodermic needle wielded by a known drug abuser/vagrant. Because
he is charged with assault, rather than a sex crime, current city,
state and/or federal laws prevent the ordering of a blood test on this
character to determine whether or not he might be HIV positive, which
presumably would help establish some probability as to the risk that
he infected the child.

Mayor Giuliani expresses disgust that the authorities' hands are tied
against violating this scumbag's civil rights.

(Or is that already in here somewhere?)

323.1934BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 19:318
| <<< Note 323.1930 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| Then adding in "sexual orientation" is redundant, since everyone is
| already covered.

	Steve, an issue you always ignore is when there are loopholes, they
need to be closed. 
323.1935i fear we are getting nowhere, Jim...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseWed Dec 06 1995 19:3251
  re, 323.1914 -

	Pray tell us the downside of requiring that discrimination in
	the three areas covered by the CRA be stopped.

  >  The downside is this : no citizen of the USA, no business in the USA,
   no organization or local government in the USA, can any longer (1) hire or
   not hire whoever it wants; (2) accomodate/ not accomodate whoever they
   want.  Instead, it now depends WHY - "just because I want to/don't
   want to" is NOT good enough, as it used to be.  Now you must be able
   to convince a court you did not violate this law.  This is a HUGE cost -
   in some cases, whole lines of work have been abolished, companies
   obliterated by foreign competition due to the added burden, people
   placed in positions for legal, not business reasons.  And a new huge
   industry of "rights" lawyers was created, a tax on all of us.

	Please explain why the CRA has been used, successfully, by whites
	then.

  >  In an ironic and gross perversion of the intent of the Congress of
   the time, angry white bigots hired the same slime lawyers the Act
   created as a weapon for blacks to use against whites, and they got
   the courts to rule "reverse discrimination", an absurd charge, but a
   predictable one, I suppose.
 
	I guess as long as you are not of the ones suffering discrimination
	it's easy to call such a position wrong. But if the ideas and
	principles of this Country concerning the equal treatment of its
	citizens are to be respected then thy must apply to everyone, not
	just a select few.

  >  I guess you can always win arguments if you put cotton in your ears.
   Or perhaps <Next unseen> your opponents' notes without reading them.
   At any rate, I fail to see what this paragraph has to do with anything
   in this argument - what "selected few" are you talking about - blacks ?
   Whites are not a "few" in the USA, they are a "many".

      And in case you didn't notice, it was "equal treatment" that I claim
   is endangered by specific mention of a list of characteristics which
   cannot be discriminated against, while, by implication, those not
   listed can be.

      Discrimination is the act of choosing through perception - it is
   fundamental to all of the higher animals.  The ability to tell the
   difference between patterns is a pure test of survivability, and in
   complex cases, of intelligence.  For the state to say what criteria
   I may or may not use in doing this is repulsive, and very expensive.
   We can justify such hideous laws only where there is compelling
   evidence that their absence would lead to something even worse.

     bb
323.1936BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 19:338

	Lucky Jack.... that's awful. Considering AIDS can be transmitted
through a used needle, that should be on the list of things to check people's
blood if they use the needle as a weapon. 


Glen
323.1937BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 19:46100
            <<< Note 323.1929 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Only if you ignore all the points I have brought up (which you have
>    done a pretty good job of doing).
 
	Once I discount one of your "ideas", I don't feel the need to
	do so again. I did not ignore "all of the points" you have
	brought up. I offered counterarguments that you have failed
	to respond to.

>    I have also brought up the uselessness of using "discrimination" as a
>    cover-all term.  
 
	We have not been using it as a cover-all term. I have been very
	specific in the use of the term and the proposed remedy.

>    I have agreed that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the term 
>    "discrimination" are wrong.
 
	Those are the aspects that I have been discussing.

>    I have said that certain aspects of what you broad-brush under the
>    label "discrimination" are wrong.  I have not said that I do not favor
>    rectifying the situation, but that I believe legal rectification is not
>    in order, nor needed in this instance. 
 
	You imply that you do favor rectifying the situation. How, short
	of legislation, do you propose to do this?

>    Only if you ignore 90% of what I have posted in this string. 
 
	Ignoring 90% of your postings sounds just about right. The S/N ratio
	seems to run about 10/90.

>    I've already said society has a right to discriminate against gays
>    within certain boundaries; it has every right not to allow gay
>    marriages, for one.  
 
	And in this particular generation of the discussion I have not
	argued with you about the marriage laws. I HAVE specifically
	addressed employment, housing and the use of public accomodations.

>    As far as gays getting fired from a job JUST because they are gay, well,
>    I agree this is bad.  I do not agree that this problem is widespread
>    enough to need legislation,

	How "widespread" does the problem need be before legislation is
	required? Is there some magic number? What about the real people
	who have been refused real jobs? They don't count unless there is
	a crowd?

> and I think change will come on its own-
>    without legislation.

	The history of discrimination in this country does not support
	such a hope.

>  I also believe that there are certain issues in 
>    which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
 
	Such as?

>You imply that because I do not want "sexual
>    orientation" to be added to the CRA, that I do not wish to see any
>    of the problems you mention fixed.  This is an untenable conclusion on
>    your part. 

	It is most certainly a legitimate conclusion. You offer lip service
	to the situation, but offer nothing, absolutely nothing, in order
	to see it corrected.

	"Don't worry, be happy, it'll get better someday" is NOT an answer.

> You refuse to see this issue outside of your binary
>    filters.
 
	I refuse to be diverted by your attempted obsfucation of the issue.

>    Or that you are ignoring most of what I post.
 
	No reading every word that you post and dismissing it is not the
	same as ignoring it.

	Your arguments are logically invalid and you have offered nothing
	to back them up other than unsubstantiated opinion. They have no
	value in a logical discussion. If you wnat to consider this
	"ignoring" them, so be it.
   
>    I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion. 

	Your words betray you.

> Even
>    more interesting to me, is that you feel the need to resort to personal
>    attacks (no, I don't really care, I just find it interesting). 
 
	It's not really a personal attack, it's merely an observation regarding
	your positions. 

Jim
323.1938ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 19:484
    re: .1934
    
    I don't consider "sexual orientation" a loophole.  But you knew that
    already.
323.1939BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 19:5322
          <<< Note 323.1935 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>                   -< i fear we are getting nowhere, Jim... >-

	I am sure of it.

	The principle involved related to employment is that ones ability
	to perform the job should be the only criteria used in making
	employment decisions. Do you disagree with this principle?

	As for housing, it the ability to pay the rent/mortgage. DO you
	disagree with this?

	The use of public accomodations also uses the ability to pay for
	services. Do you disagree with this as well?


	You seem to be arguing that people have a right to be bigots. On
	this we agree. They can think anything they want. But once they
	enter the public domain, there are certain minimum rules that
	should be followed. Non-discrimination is one of those rules.

Jim
323.1940ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Wed Dec 06 1995 20:1687
    re:  .1937
    
>        I offered counterarguments that you have failed
>	to respond to.

    Such as?  I normally extract the entire note and respond to all of it
    within a discussion- with minimal editing (the longer the note, the
    more editing out to save bytes).
 
>	You imply that you do favor rectifying the situation. How, short
>	of legislation, do you propose to do this?

    Why does Digital's policy of non-discrimination include sexual
    orientation?  Did legislation force this?  
    
    Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?
    Why must everything always be legislated?
    
>	And in this particular generation of the discussion I have not
>	argued with you about the marriage laws. I HAVE specifically
>	addressed employment, housing and the use of public accomodations.

    As have I.  I've stated that in some cases, discrimination in housing and
    employment are understandable.  For example, the religious owner of a
    duplex who does not want to rent to homosexuals.
    
>	How "widespread" does the problem need be before legislation is
>	required? Is there some magic number? 
    
    How bad did it have to be in order for there to be a Civil Rights Act
    to begin with?  I'd say that similar discrimination would have to be
    proven in order to rationalize adding  "sexual orientation" to the 
    CRA's list.
    
>    What about the real people
>	who have been refused real jobs? They don't count unless there is
>	a crowd?

    This is an unfortunate fact of life.  We can't save everyone, even if
    we legislation for every conceivable aspect of life (something we are
    not far from, actually). 
    
>	The history of discrimination in this country does not support
>	such a hope.

    Neither does it support the idea that legislation can change opinion.
    In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
    
>>  I also believe that there are certain issues in 
>>    which an employer should be able to be selective in his hiring.
 
>	Such as?

    Hooters only hires physically attractive waitresses.  I believe that
    this is their right.  An employer must do what he sees as best for his
    business- sometimes this means discriminating against those that may be
    qualified, but do not fit their criteria for this ideal.
    
>	It is most certainly a legitimate conclusion. You offer lip service
>	to the situation, but offer nothing, absolutely nothing, in order
>	to see it corrected.

    Perhaps because the small amount of such discrimination does not
    warrent an all-encompassing approach (like adding "sexual orientation"
    to the CRA).  Just because I have no alternative to your suggestion,
    does not mean that I wish to see such discrimination continue.  This is
    the untenable aspect of your conclusion.
    
>	"Don't worry, be happy, it'll get better someday" is NOT an answer.

    It already IS getting better.  The gay lifestyle is more accepted today
    than ever it was in this society.

>>    I would like to hear how your logic brought you to this conclusion. 

>	Your words betray you.

    More like, your interpretation of my words make me look bad.
    
>	It's not really a personal attack, it's merely an observation regarding
>	your positions. 

    I'll take your word for it.  Whatever the case, I find your
    "observation" lacking.
    
    
    -steve
323.1941BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Dec 06 1995 20:5980
            <<< Note 323.1940 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    Such as?  I normally extract the entire note and respond to all of it
>    within a discussion- with minimal editing (the longer the note, the
>    more editing out to save bytes).
 
	One notable example is the issue of people vs. behavior. You have
	still not addressed this. 

>    Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?
>    Why must everything always be legislated?
 
	Some things require legislation in order to cover the widest possible
	possible population. Also such legislation takes the approach that
	certain things are wrong and are not to be tolerated. Relying on
	individuals to change for the better is to view the world through
	rose colored glasses.
   
>    As have I.  I've stated that in some cases, discrimination in housing and
>    employment are understandable.  For example, the religious owner of a
>    duplex who does not want to rent to homosexuals.
 
	The resident landlord of a duplex is not affected by the CRA.

>    How bad did it have to be in order for there to be a Civil Rights Act
>    to begin with?  I'd say that similar discrimination would have to be
>    proven in order to rationalize adding  "sexual orientation" to the 
>    CRA's list.
 
	So in order for Gays to achieve basic civil rights we need to have
	them suffer lynchings, fire bombings, having attack dogs set on
	them during a march? I don't think we have to wait for these things
	to occur before we fix the problem. Why do you?

>    This is an unfortunate fact of life.  We can't save everyone, even if
>    we legislation for every conceivable aspect of life (something we are
>    not far from, actually). 
 
	Unfortunate, not for you. YOU are already protected by the CRA.
	As I stated before, hypocritical.

	How "bad" was religious persecution before that charachteristic
	was added to the CRA?

>    Neither does it support the idea that legislation can change opinion.

	Legislation can affect behaviors. Once discrimination against
	Gays in these specific areas is prohibited, some folks WILL
	change their opinions about their ability to perform a job,
	be model tenants, etc.

>    In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
 
	We are not discussing AA, but you knew this.
   
>    Perhaps because the small amount of such discrimination does not
>    warrent an all-encompassing approach (like adding "sexual orientation"
>    to the CRA). 

	How easily you dismiss the discrimination against real people,
	however few they may be. This is what I meant by "negotiable
	set of beliefs". In your mind, the problem must be of a certain
	"size" before you believe that action should be taken. A principled
	person realizes that something is wrong, and regardless of the
	size of the problem works to right the situation.

	Do the words "As you do for the least of these, you do for me" ring
	a bell?

>    More like, your interpretation of my words make me look bad.
 
	Nope, your wrods do that all by themselves. All I do is point this
	out.
   
>    I'll take your word for it.  Whatever the case, I find your
>    "observation" lacking.
 
	Naturally. You are hardlyt objective concerning your failings.

Jim
323.1942BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 22:388
| <<< Note 323.1938 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


| I don't consider "sexual orientation" a loophole.  But you knew that already.

	I'm talking about housing, jobs, things like that. There are loopholes,
and they need to be cleaned up. Btw, sexual orientation covers you as well. It
worked out fine for that woman who lost her job cuz she was straight.
323.1943BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Wed Dec 06 1995 22:5624
| <<< Note 323.1940 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Why does Digital's policy of non-discrimination include sexual orientation?  
| Did legislation force this?

	I can answer this. The heterosexual woman who submitted the policy for
review did so after going to a meeting that was being held for gays, lesbians,
and bisexuals. No one pressured her to do this. Yes, it was suggested, but she
did it because felt it was the right thing to do. She worked the issue with 2
other people. 1 woman, 1 man. Their names are, Lisa Brown, Tom Couming, and
Donna Taylor. You see, one doesn't have to be forced into doing something. Some
people, believe it or not, can actually feel doing some things are the right
thing to do, period. 

| Why can't we pressue corporations into having such policies?

	Digital wasn't pressured into this, either. But you would have to
pressure someone like Cracker Barrell. But can you? Probably not. That's why
you can't expect pressuring corporations to work, and sometimes you do need to
legislate.



Glen
323.1944COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Dec 07 1995 01:136
The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.

/john
323.1945BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 10:5220
            <<< Note 323.1944 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

>The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
>do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
>status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
>anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.

	I guess we have to keep repeating this since folks continue, either
	deliberately or through ignorance, to mistate the facts. 

	The CRA does not create any protected classes. It prohibits 
	discrimination in the areas of employment, housing and the use
	of public accomodations, based on listed charachteristics.

	Affirmative Action does create special classes, the Supreme Court
	has created special classes, but the CRA inclusively covers 
	charachteristics like race, gender, national origin, religion,
	etc.

Jim
323.1946DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomThu Dec 07 1995 11:2867
    
    re:.1915

> >    No Jim, you are mistaken.  The confusion regarding CRA and AA was a
> >    minor side issue.  The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall
> >    continue to oppose it, is that it creates categories/classes of people. 
> 
> 	Apparently not such a minor issue since you are STILL confused.
> 	AA does create special classes, the CRA most certainly does not.

    No Jim, you are mistaken.  You are not understanding what I wrote.  I
    am not confused regarding the difference between CRA and AA.  By
    "categories/classes" I meant "race, creed" etc. which are in the CRA.  I
    did not mean racial quotas as are in AA.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    re:.1919

    > / The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose 
    > / it, is that it creates categories/classes of people.
    > 
    > These categories already existed.  

    True, but the CRA itemized them.  This itemization, I believe, prevents
    people from seeing past these distinctions.

    > / Once these categories/classes are created, people will tend to
    > / associate themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other
    > / groups.  
    > 
    > The CRA didn't 'create' the categories.  They already existed.  

    A an inaccuracy on my part, the CRA itemized these categories.  See
    above...

    > Once
    > the CRA was created, though, people from the various groups began to
    > live and work together in ways that had never been possible before.

    One does not lead to the other.  People did NOT immediately begin working
    together after the CRA, in fact they had already started working
    together before the CRA.  They started working together because it was 
    mutually beneficial.  They would have anyway for the added benefits.  The 
    CRA didn't do this, it was the benefit gained from having more resources 
    to draw from.

    > / This leads to internal strife within the nation.  If and when
    > / this country falls, it will not be to an outside enemy, it will be to
    > / our internal strife.
    > 
    > The internal strife already existed, too.

    True, but as I said above, the CRA itemizes the distinctions and
    thereby makes it more difficult to see past them.

    > It's a Catch-22 if you tell people who have been excluded as a group
    > that you can't try to improve their situation because it would turn
    > them into a 'group' (thus creating problems which exist when people
    > are divided into groups), as if groups don't exist until someone tries
    > to solve the injustices being inflicted on a particular group.

    Who said that people "can't try to improve their situation"?

    "improve[ing] their situation" does not put someone into a "group". What 
    are you taking about?

323.1947DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomThu Dec 07 1995 11:3117
    
    Glen, I don't think you answered my question from .1870.  If you did, I
    missed it, so here it is again:

    <<< Note 323.1870 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

    -----------------

    re:.1844

    > Jack, just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?

    Yes Glen, I think that is my main question.  how will 2 gay men
    influence their child towards women?

    -----------------

323.1948well, at least we understand each other...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Dec 07 1995 11:5758
    
   reply to Jim, 323.1939 (my responses after the >) :

	I am sure of it.

	The principle involved related to employment is that ones ability
	to perform the job should be the only criteria used in making
	employment decisions. Do you disagree with this principle?

    >   The singular is "criterion".

       Yes, I disagree with this idiotic idea, and so does the CRA.  I can
     use any criteria not listed.   "Sorry, no lefthanders."  Animals make
     no such lists of can't use criteria - the whole idea is wildly unnatural.
     This silly concept is artificially imposed and maintained by scads of
     lawyers created for the purpose, and is used widely as a scam to gain
     advantage, and if we could do without it, we certainly should.  The
     trouble is, people are not rational about some things, so we put this
     evil in as a fix.  Yet often success or failure in a business situation
     depends upon intimate interpersonal dependencies, the chemistry of
     teamwork.  By tying people's hands in ANY way, there must be some loss
     of efficiency, and the more you tie them, the less viable the whole
     economy of the United States becomes.

	As for housing, it the ability to pay the rent/mortgage. DO you
	disagree with this?

    > Ditto.  And it is the INTENTION to pay that is critical, not the
      ability - a judgement that calls on all a merchant's faculties.
      The price of everything we buy is higher due to the CRA.  Also,
      there are other considerations - interactions between tenants,
      trusting someone with your most expensive possessions.

	The use of public accomodations also uses the ability to pay for
	services. Do you disagree with this as well?

    > Ditto. 

	You seem to be arguing that people have a right to be bigots. On
	this we agree. They can think anything they want. But once they
	enter the public domain, there are certain minimum rules that
	should be followed. Non-discrimination is one of those rules.

    > In nature, living things learn to choose quickly, or they die.  In
      commerce, same thing.  Requiring people not only to make difficult
      business decisions, but also to PROVE they did not use several
      forbidden criteria is an opening a mile wide for abuse and tyranny.
      This is not a hypothetical complaint - people resent the whole thing.
      Nor is this resentment limited to those who actually use the
      forbidden criteria.  It is a gross affront to our adulthood.

       As to your private/public distinction, it's a joke - under the CRA,
      almost everything is public by definition.  I wish we didn't need
      the government involved in any of these situations.  But we do, so
      we have to hold our noses, and document why every little decision
      is made, no matter how innocent, to ward off the circling lawyers.

         bb 
323.1949BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 12:1316
      <<< Note 323.1946 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

    
>    No Jim, you are mistaken.  You are not understanding what I wrote.  I
>    am not confused regarding the difference between CRA and AA.  By
>    "categories/classes" I meant "race, creed" etc. which are in the CRA.  I
>    did not mean racial quotas as are in AA.

	The INCLUSIVELY lists a group of charachteristics. When it lists
	Race, it means ALL races. When it lists Gender, it applies to BOTH
	men and women. When it lists National Origin, it includes ALL
	countries.

	How in the world can this be construed as devisive?

Jim
323.1950BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 12:2645
          <<< Note 323.1948 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>

>Animals make
>     no such lists of can't use criteria - the whole idea is wildly unnatural.

	So then your main arguments is that we should be no more than
	unthinking beasts? The use of intellect does not enter into
	the discussion? That your foundation principle is that there
	is no right or wrong, only survival of the fittest?

	I can not accept such a philosophy, sorry.

>By tying people's hands in ANY way, there must be some loss
>     of efficiency, and the more you tie them, the less viable the whole
>     economy of the United States becomes.

	If you would care to take a look at the economy of the US now
	and compare it to the economy we had in 1964, you might notice
	that today's is MUCH larger, more efficient and more productive.
	Your assertion that the CRA has made the economy less viable
	is utter crap.

>    > Ditto.  And it is the INTENTION to pay that is critical, not the
>      ability 

	A well intentioned idigent person would not make a good tenant.

>       As to your private/public distinction, it's a joke - under the CRA,
>      almost everything is public by definition. 

	Businesses with more than 15 employees are covered, below that number
	they are not affected. Apartment complexes of more than two units or
	less than two where the landlord does not live on site are covered.
	And businesses that are open to the general public are covered.

	The distinctions are clear.

> I wish we didn't need
>      the government involved in any of these situations.

	Actually, on this we agree. But as you point out, the CRA was
	a neccessity. And far from beeing something evil as you suggest
	it has brought along much good.

Jim
323.1951ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Dec 07 1995 12:3183
    re: .1941
    
>	One notable example is the issue of people vs. behavior. You have
>	still not addressed this. 

    I have addressed this issue, at least in general.  If there is
    something specific you are looking for, why don't you give me a
    pointer, or bring up specifics that I can address.
 
>	So in order for Gays to achieve basic civil rights we need to have
>	them suffer lynchings, fire bombings, having attack dogs set on
>	them during a march? I don't think we have to wait for these things
>	to occur before we fix the problem. Why do you?

    I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
    discussing...but you knew that.  The above is your own scare tactics,
    as society is not heading in this direction. 
    
>	Unfortunate, not for you. YOU are already protected by the CRA.
>	As I stated before, hypocritical.

    As is everyone else, Jim.  What is not specifically covered is sexual
    attraction, which I have explained before (several times) as  being a
    silly thing to base one's identity on- especially in a legal sense. 
    This is an issue you have not addressed from any of my notes,
    preferring to set your own binary rules for this discussion.
    
>	How "bad" was religious persecution before that charachteristic
>	was added to the CRA?

    Religion does not need to be in the CRA, religion is protected by the
    first.  I'm not sure why it was added to the CRA to begin with.
    But, as I have brought up in this string numerous times, religion was
    something deemed worthy to protect, as being necessary for good
    government and for the well-being of the people.  How does this compare
    with unnormal sexual attractions? 
    
    In order to be given specific protection, something must be of value to
    society.  Currenly, strange/alternative sexual attractions are not 
    something that society values, in itself.
    
>>    In the case of AA, it actually promotes racism.
 
>	We are not discussing AA, but you knew this.
 
    AA is an offshoot of the CRA.  It would not have come into existence
    without it.  
      
>	How easily you dismiss the discrimination against real people,
>	however few they may be.  This is what I meant by "negotiable
>	set of beliefs". In your mind, the problem must be of a certain
>	"size" before you believe that action should be taken. 
    
    This is where you are mistaken.  It does not have to be of a certain
    size to take action.  Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
    response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO.  I'm not
    one who is quick to legislate things.
    
>    A principled
>	person realizes that something is wrong, and regardless of the
>	size of the problem works to right the situation.

    Well, we both have a different idea on the type of solution to promote. 
    
    You insist on looking at this issue in a binary way.  Until you can
    accept the fact that not wanting to add "sexual orientation"  (for the
    many reasons I have given throughout this string) is not equal to
    "promote discrimination", there is little we have to discuss.  This has
    already become quite tedious, and will only get worse, IMO.
    
    You see, gay individuals ARE covered under the CRA -- religious gays,
    black gays, hispanic gays, women who are gay, etc.  Why must they be
    covered twice?
    
    Hey, why not add "homliness" to the CRA?  Ugly folk can't help the fact
    that they are ugly, and I bet they are discriminated against far more
    than gay people.  Why not add "obesity"?  Why?  Because these people
    are protected under the CRA as citizens- regardless of what race or sex 
    they are.
    
    
    -steve
    
323.1952trying to end rathole, get back to AIDS disease...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Dec 07 1995 12:4823
    
      re, .1950 - rather than hash over the same ground, perhaps it
               would be more useful to see where you have to get to
               to have a political concensus on sexual orientation, as
               we do on race.  You are convinced, but society is not,
               that the situations are comparable.
    
                 A gay equivalent of King would help.  Make no mistake.
               Although MLK wrote none of it, LBJ (first) and Dirksen
               (secondarily), the key players politically, were convinced
               by King and by the public reaction to him.
    
                 The demonstration of necessity was made, and the concensus
               accomplished.  Even Goldwater and Byrd, who voted against
               the bill, offered their votes if certain provisions were
               changed.  And across America, there was a commitment on
               the part of the white majority, or at least much of it, to
               try to make this thing, ugly as was, work as well as it
               could.
    
                 The country, and I, are not there yet on orientation.
    
                 bb
323.1953interesting protein identifiedGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Dec 07 1995 12:528
    
      WSJ today : Researchers identified proteins that may slow the
     progression of AIDS in people who are infected but not yet sick.
     The proteins, produced by human immune cells, prevent the virus
     from reproducing in the test tube.  The discovery is likely to
     set off a race to develop treatments, but new drugs may be years away.
    
      bb
323.1954BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 13:05100
            <<< Note 323.1951 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    I have addressed this issue, at least in general.

	No, you have not. All you HAVE done is make a general statement
	that you claim represents your view. This claim is demonstrably
	false.

>  If there is
>    something specific you are looking for, why don't you give me a
>    pointer, or bring up specifics that I can address.
 
	An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.

>    I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
>    discussing...but you knew that. 

	You said it had to be the same. Are you now saying that it does not
	need to be the same?

> The above is your own scare tactics,
>    as society is not heading in this direction. 
 
	The level of hate crimes against Gays is certainly higher now
	than it was 20 years ago, how can you say we are not headed in
	this direction?

>    As is everyone else, Jim. 

	Maybe this is where the confusion lies. People are not actually	
	covered in the CRA, charachteristics are.

> What is not specifically covered is sexual
>    attraction, which I have explained before (several times) as  being a
>    silly thing to base one's identity on- especially in a legal sense. 

	Why is it silly, when that very charachteristic is used by others
	as an excuse to discriminate? If it wasn't for the fact that you
	and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual	
	orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

>    Religion does not need to be in the CRA, religion is protected by the
>    first.  I'm not sure why it was added to the CRA to begin with.

	It is obvious that you are ignorant of the purpose of the CRA.
	The Constitution protects religion from the government. The
	CRA extends that principle of protection to employers, lanlords
	and businesses.

>    But, as I have brought up in this string numerous times, religion was
>    something deemed worthy to protect, as being necessary for good
>    government and for the well-being of the people.

	I would wager that there are several religions that you find hard put
	to categorize in this manner.

>  How does this compare
>    with unnormal sexual attractions? 
 
	Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?

>    In order to be given specific protection, something must be of value to
>    society.  
 
	What is of value is the basic principle of equality. When that principle
	is violated we all suffer.

>    AA is an offshoot of the CRA.  It would not have come into existence
>    without it.  
 
	Again, your ignorance of the law is showing. AA was implemented
	via Executive Order, the CRA was Federal Legislation passed by
	the Congress. LBJ could have very easily implememented AA with,
	or without, the CRA.

>    This is where you are mistaken.  It does not have to be of a certain
>    size to take action.  Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
>    response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO. 

	Those two sentences are contradictory. More hypocrisy.

>    Well, we both have a different idea on the type of solution to promote. 
 
	No. One of us has propsed a solution, one of us has not.

>    You insist on looking at this issue in a binary way.  Until you can
>    accept the fact that not wanting to add "sexual orientation"  (for the
>    many reasons I have given throughout this string) is not equal to
>    "promote discrimination", there is little we have to discuss.  This has
>    already become quite tedious, and will only get worse, IMO.
 
	All that is needed for evil to flourish is that good men fail to	
	speak out. You want to just turn a blind eye to the problem. Ignore
	it and tell those that suffer, "too bad". A person that truly
	believes in the principle of equal treatment would fight to see
	those injustices rectified.

Jim


323.1955BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 13:1024
          <<< Note 323.1952 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>
>            -< trying to end rathole, get back to AIDS disease... >-

	Now now, don't try to rathole the AIDS topic with discussions
	regarding AIDS.

	;-)

>      re, .1950 - rather than hash over the same ground, perhaps it
>               would be more useful to see where you have to get to
<               to have a political concensus on sexual orientation, as
>               we do on race.  You are convinced, but society is not,
>               that the situations are comparable.
 
	For me the issue is one of principle, not of political clout.
	Reality, of course, is that the situation will not change without
	that clout, but lacking that I will continue to speak out against
	the injustice.

>                 The country, and I, are not there yet on orientation.
 
	All the more reason for discussions such as this.

Jim
323.1956MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalThu Dec 07 1995 13:467
Z    and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual       
Z    orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.
    
    We do???  I thought this was all about creating a class based on sexual
    orientation.
    
    -Jack
323.1957BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 13:528
| <<< Note 323.1944 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| The fact that failing to discriminate within Digital is the right thing to
| do is a very different matter than whether there should be the same legal
| status for homosexual couples as for husband and wife or even the same
| anti-discrimination laws as for existing protected classes.

	Errr.... why? 
323.1958BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 14:0911
      <<< Note 323.1956 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>I thought this was all about creating a class based on sexual
>    orientation.
 
	Not sure about you Jack, but the discussion I have been 
	participating in deals with legal protections against
	discrimination in employment, housing and the use of public
	accomodations based on sexual orientation.

Jim
323.1959BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 14:1137
| <<< Note 323.1947 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>


| Glen, I don't think you answered my question from .1870.  If you did, I
| missed it, so here it is again:

	You know, I did answer it. But I don't have a clue where the hell it
is. I remember after I wrote it, Jack Martin responded to it stating he was
pretty much like me in how the child would be brought up. I remember asking him
if he would tell his kid that he was dysfunctional or not. Why can't I find it?
It's not in the gay topic, either. This is really weird. ANYhow, here is my
response on how 2 gay men would influence their child (which I'm assuming is a
male) towards women:


Treat people with respect, not as objects.

Think before you act, as you have to take responsibility for your actions. 

Whatever sexual orientation you are, we still love you.



	But the above would be said, period. Not aimed at women in general, but
towards everyone. I don't believe anyone has to go out and set up rules geared
towards any one gender, PROVIDING you bring your kids up to respect others. Not
the catch phrase of respecting others, but the real thing. That would involve
me and hubby doing what we preach. An example of the catch phrase version is
when I was a kid and watching football with my dad, he would say there are too
many niggers in the game. But he would say that we should respect everyone.
(thanks God he has changed!) 

	Does this help, Dan?



Glen
323.1960BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 14:1313
| <<< Note 323.1953 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


| WSJ today : Researchers identified proteins that may slow the
| progression of AIDS in people who are infected but not yet sick.
| The proteins, produced by human immune cells, prevent the virus
| from reproducing in the test tube.  The discovery is likely to
| set off a race to develop treatments, but new drugs may be years away.

	bb, the weird thing about this is while it kills off the virus in the
test tube, it doesn't in the human body. This is where they are stuck, right
now.

323.1961AIDS cases in the US to dateBIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 14:16186
Table 3. AIDS cases by age group, exposure category, and sex, 
reported July 1993 through June 1994, July 1994 through June 1995;1 
and cumulative totals, by age group and exposure category, through 
June 1995, United States.
     
                        Males                      Females
     
               July 1993-   July 1994-     July 1993-   July 1994-
Adult/         June 1994    June 1995      June 1994    June 1995
 adolescent
 exposure
 category       No.  (%)     No.  (%)       No.  (%)     No.  (%)
     
Men who have
 sex w/men  38,504 (55)  32,448 (52)         -    -       -     -
Injecting
 drug use   17,468 (25)  14,728 (24)     6,343 (45)   5,421  (39)
Men who have
 sex w/men
 and inject
 drugs       4,765 ( 7)   3,609 ( 6)         -    -       -     -
Hemophilia/
 coagulation
 disorder      583 ( 1)     430 ( 1)        19 ( 0)      23  ( 0)
Heterosexual
 contact:    2,914 ( 4)   2,974 ( 5)     5,685 (40)   5,204  (38) 
 Sex w/
  injecting
  drug user  1,004          903          2,299        1,893
 Sex w/
  bisexual
  male           -            -            441          346
 Sex w/person
   w/hemophilia  3            6             61           57
 Sex w/transfusion
   recipient w/HIV
   infection    61           65             82           57
 Sex w/HIV-
   infected
   person,
   risk not
   specified 1,846        2,000          2,802        2,851
Receipt of blood
 transfusion, blood
 components, or
 tissue3       468 ( 1)     382 ( 1)       361 ( 3)     305  ( 2)
Other/risk
 not reported or
 ident4      4,745 ( 7)   7,414 (12)     1,734 (12)   2,885  (21)
     
Adult/adolescent
 subtotal   69,447(100)  61,985(100)    14,142(100)  13,838 (100)
     
                                    Totals2
                     July 1993-    July 1994-     Cumulative
Adult/adolescent     June 1994     June 1995        total 
exposure category     No.  (%)      No.  (%)       No.  (%)
     
Men who have sex
 w/men             38,504  (46)  32,448  (43)  244,235  (52)
Injecting drug use 23,811  (28)  20,149  (27)  118,694  (25) 
Men who have sex w/men
 and inject drugs   4,765  ( 6)   3,609  ( 5)   31,024  ( 7)
Hemophilia/coagulation
 disorder             602  ( 1)     453  ( 1)    3,872  ( 1)
Heterosexual
 contact:           8,600  (10)   8,178  (11)   35,683  ( 8) 
 Sex w/injecting
   drug user        3,303         2,796         17,118
 Sex w/bisexual male  441           346          1,999 
 Sex w/person
   w/hemophilia        64            63            299
 Sex w/transfusion
   recipient w/HIV
   infection          143           122            692
 Sex w/HIV-infected
   person, risk not
   specified        4,649         4,851         15,575
Receipt of blood
 transfusion, blood
 components, or
 tissue3              829  ( 1)     687  ( 1)    7,128  ( 2)
Other/risk not reported
 or identified4     6,479  ( 8)  10,301  (14)   29,652  ( 6)
     
Adult/adolescent
 subtotal          83,590 (100)  75,825 (100)  470,288 (100)
     
     
Pediatric (<13 years old)
                        Males                      Females
     
               July 1993-   July 1994-     July 1993-   July 1994- 
               June 1994    June 1995      June 1994    June 1995
exposure
 category       No.  (%)     No.  (%)       No.  (%)     No.  (%)
     
     
Hemophilia/
 coagulation
 disorder        16 ( 3)      11 ( 2)         1 ( 0)       -     -
Mother with/
 at risk for HIV
 infection4     443 (92)     419 (88)       478 (95)     462  (92) 
 Injecting
  drug use      153          120            160          136
 Sex w/injecting
  drug user      74           70             71           69
 Sex w/bisexual
  male            5           10              5           10
 Sex w/person
  w/hemophilia    1            1              -            1
 Sex w/transfusion
  recipient w/HIV
  infection       3            1              1            3
 Sex w/HIV-
  infected person,
  risk not
  specified      70           91             85           89
 Receipt of blood
  transfusion,
  blood components,
  or tissue      12            2             10            5
 Has HIV infection,
  risk not
  specified     125          124            146          149
Receipt of blood
  transfusion,
  blood components,
  or tissue      17 ( 4)      23 ( 5)        13 ( 3)      14  ( 3)
Other/risk
  not reported
  or identified4  6 ( 1)      24 ( 5)        13 ( 3)      24  ( 5)
     
Pediatric
 subtotal       482 (100)    477 (100)      505 (100)     500 (100)
     
Total        69,929       62,462         14,647        14,338
     
     
                                    Totals2
Pediatric            July 1993-    July 1994-     Cumulative 
(<13 years old)      June 1994     June 1995        total 
exposure category     No.  (%)      No.  (%)       No.  (%)
     
Hemophilia/
 coagulation
 disorder             17  ( 2)      11  ( 1)      226  ( 3)
Mother with/
 at risk for HIV
 infection4          921  (93)     881  (90)    5,925  (90) 
 Injecting
  drug use           313           256          2,471
 Sex w/injecting
  drug user          145           139          1,107
 Sex w/bisexual
  male                10            20            120
 Sex w/person
  w/hemophilia         1             2             24
 Sex w/transfusion
  recipient w/HIV
  infection            4             4             27
 Sex w/HIV-
  infected person,
  risk not
  specified          155           180            676
 Receipt of blood
  transfusion,
  blood components,
  or tissue           22             7            140
 Has HIV infection,
  risk not
  specified          271           273          1,360
Receipt of blood
  transfusion,
  blood components,
  or tissue           30  ( 3)      37  ( 4)      359  ( 5)
Other/risk
  not reported
  or identified4      19  ( 2)      48  ( 5)      101  ( 2)
     
Pediatric
 subtotal            987 (100)     977 (100)    6,611 (100)
     
Total             84,577        76,802        476,899

323.1962TOTAL reportBIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 14:183155
323.1963ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Thu Dec 07 1995 14:25119
    re: .1954
    
    
>	No, you have not. All you HAVE done is make a general statement
>	that you claim represents your view. This claim is demonstrably
>	false.

    This is too generic to be of use to me.  Perhaps you could humor me and
    repost your questions.  I don't have the time nor inclination of going
    back and re-reading this entire string.
    
>	An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.

    And that question was?  <prod prod>
    
>>    I was referring to notable widespread discrimination of the sort we are
>>    discussing...but you knew that. 

>	You said it had to be the same. Are you now saying that it does not
>	need to be the same?

    This is disengenuous, Jim.  If there was any doubt as to what I was
    referring to before, my statement above should have cleared it up.
    
>	The level of hate crimes against Gays is certainly higher now
>	than it was 20 years ago, how can you say we are not headed in
>	this direction?

    Seems to me that over the last couple years, hate crimes have been
    going down.  Someone even posted statistics a while back to this
    effect.  Perhaps you have other statistics that will back up your
    assertion that things are still getting worse?
    
>	Maybe this is where the confusion lies. People are not actually	
>	covered in the CRA, charachteristics are.

    Right.  Characteristics that society deems worthy of protection.  I
    think you are right- this is where the confusion lies in our
    communication.  Society is not yet convinced that "sexual orientation"
    meets this criteria, in and of itself, just yet (and neither am I).
    
>	Why is it silly, when that very charachteristic is used by others
>	as an excuse to discriminate? 
    
    People use all manner of characteristics when discriminating against
    others.  Are you for adding "obesity" and "homliness" to the CRA, as
    well?  How about alcoholism?
    
>    If it wasn't for the fact that you
>	and others like you support discrimination on the basis of sexual	
>	orientation we wouldn't even be having this discussion.

    Fact?  As far as what we are discussing here, I do not personally support
    discrimination- nor do I support your solution.  Quit trying to put me
    into a box or your own creation.  
    
    Why do some people discriminate against certain "sexual orientations"
    to begin with?  Is all discrimination bad?  
    
>	It is obvious that you are ignorant of the purpose of the CRA.
>	The Constitution protects religion from the government. The
>	CRA extends that principle of protection to employers, lanlords
>	and businesses.

    But such discrimination was never a problem, so I still wonder why it
    was added.  In any case, society supported such an addition, as
    religion is deemed worthy of such protections.  You still haven't
    provided any convincing argument that "sexual orientation" is worthy of
    being added to the list.
    
>	Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?
 
    This is called a deflection.  You are avoiding the question.
    
>	What is of value is the basic principle of equality. When that principle
>	is violated we all suffer.

    Nice speech, but your "equality" argument holds no water.  I won't
    bother going through the explanation of why I believe this, as you will
    only ignore it once more.
    
>	Again, your ignorance of the law is showing. AA was implemented
>	via Executive Order, the CRA was Federal Legislation passed by
>	the Congress. LBJ could have very easily implememented AA with,
>	or without, the CRA.

    Without the CRA, would there have been an executive order to implement
    AA?  I think not. 
    
>>    This is where you are mistaken.  It does not have to be of a certain
>>    size to take action.  Howver, in order for legislation to be a feasable
>>    response, there should be obvious, wide-spread problems, IMO. 
        
>	Those two sentences are contradictory. More hypocrisy.

    Only because you equate legislation with action.  I do not.  There are
    other ways to combat problems outside of legislation, but you know that
    already.  You simply refuse to look at anything else as a viable
    alternative.  You refuse to see the other issues involved, as well.
    Such binary thinking is unbecoming of you, Jim.
    
>	No. One of us has propsed a solution, one of us has not.

    You lie.  I have promoted pushing for "sexual orientation" to be added
    to corporations' non-discrimination policies.
    
>	All that is needed for evil to flourish is that good men fail to	
>	speak out. You want to just turn a blind eye to the problem. Ignore
>	it and tell those that suffer, "too bad". A person that truly
>	believes in the principle of equal treatment would fight to see
>	those injustices rectified.

    Nice speech; but again, I have made suggestions.  You simply 
    see anything short of adding "sexual orientation" to the CRA as
    "doing nothing".
    
    
    
    -steve
323.1964DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Thu Dec 07 1995 14:5810
>just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?

    They won't, nor should they have too. Teaching children the reality of
    sexuality, that everyone is differant, that there are heterosexuals,
    homosexuals and nonsexuals, and that each person needs to decide for
    themselves what is best for their own individual lives, is what is
    right. Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty 
    and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
    and successful world. I find my homosexual friends to be the least
    bigoted of all my friends.
323.1965BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 15:0071
            <<< Note 323.1963 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    This is too generic to be of use to me.

	Awfully short attenttion span you got there.

>>	An answer to my question regarding Gay sex acts would be a start.

>    And that question was?  <prod prod>
 
	OK, for the 4th time. How many Gay sex acts have you personally
	witnessed?

>    Right.  Characteristics that society deems worthy of protection. 

	I don't agree. The actual wording of the Act makes it clear
	that the discrimination based on a charachteristic is what
	is being addressed. It is not an endorsement of the charachteristic,
	it is the prohibition of discrimination based on the charachteristic
	that is addressed. 

>    People use all manner of characteristics when discriminating against
>    others.

	Right now we are addressing the issue of discrimination against
	Gays. If you like, we can start another note to discuss other forms
	of discrimination.

>    Fact?  As far as what we are discussing here, I do not personally support
>    discrimination- 

	So you say. Ever hear "Actions speak louder that words"?

>    But such discrimination was never a problem, 

	Never?

>>	Would you consider Santa Ria "normal"?
 
>    This is called a deflection.  You are avoiding the question.
 
	Good one Steve. Accuse me of deflection by deflecting.

>    Nice speech, but your "equality" argument holds no water. 

	Not to you obviously. Too bad that you do not agree with the
	basic principles upon which this nation exists.

>    Without the CRA, would there have been an executive order to implement
>    AA?  I think not. 
 
	You can "what if" all you like. The fact is that AA in not dependant
	on the CRA for its existence.

>You simply refuse to look at anything else as a viable
>    alternative.

	No one had offered a viable solution that adresses the correction
	of the problem as well as would the CRA.

>  You refuse to see the other issues involved, as well.

	What "other issues" Steve? (prod, prod)

>    You lie.  I have promoted pushing for "sexual orientation" to be added
>    to corporations' non-discrimination policies.
 
	Which addresses precisely one third of the problem and ineffectively
	at that.

Jim
323.1966DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomThu Dec 07 1995 15:4420
    
    re:.1949
    
    > 	The INCLUSIVELY lists a group of charachteristics. When it lists
    > 	Race, it means ALL races. When it lists Gender, it applies to BOTH
    > 	men and women. When it lists National Origin, it includes ALL
    > 	countries.
    > 
    > 	How in the world can this be construed as devisive?
    
    The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
    it, is that it itemizes categories/classes of people.  
    Because these distinctions have been itemized, people see themselves
    and others in these terms, tend to associate themselves with a particular 
    group, and opposed to other groups.  This makes it more difficult to
    see past the distinctions.  This leads to internal strife within the 
    nation.
    
    This is why I'm opposed to the CRA.  IMNHO, YMMV, etc...

323.1967BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 16:2321
      <<< Note 323.1966 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

    
>    The reason that I am opposed to the CRA, and shall continue to oppose
>    it, is that it itemizes categories/classes of people.  
>    Because these distinctions have been itemized, people see themselves
>    and others in these terms, tend to associate themselves with a particular 
>    group, and opposed to other groups.  This makes it more difficult to
>    see past the distinctions.  This leads to internal strife within the 
>    nation.
 
Dan, 	I'm still having a problem with your logic.

	The CRA denotes "gender" as an example. Now EVERYONE has a "gender".
	You are either "male" or "female". The CRA does not distinguish
	between these two options. All it says is that "gender" is not
	an acceptable reason for discrimination. There is no distinction
	that one gender is better than the other. Both are declared to
	be equal. How does this lead to internal strife?

Jim
323.1968GMASEC::KELLYThu Dec 07 1995 16:425
    Dan-
    
    So, are you trying to tell us, oh, for instance, black people didn't
    know that they were part of a group and they didn't see themselves as
    being part of a group until the CRA came along?
323.1969More research into HHV-VI is needed, though.BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansThu Dec 07 1995 16:4813
    Speaking of AIDS...

    Did anyone else hear the report about how some researchers believe
    that it's a second virus (HHV-VI, or Human Herpes Virus #6) which
    actually attacks the body after HIV has harmed the immune system?

    This was on ABC's evening news yesterday, but not CNN (so I just
    heard it once.)  They were saying something about how the HHV virus
    is treatable, I think - so that if AIDS patients were treated for
    the second virus, it would make a huge difference in the patient's
    prognosis.

    Did anyone else hear about this?
323.1970DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomThu Dec 07 1995 16:5649
    
    re:.1959

    > Does this help, Dan?

    I'm not sure.  My concern is that children tend to emulate their
    parents.  How would the interaction between you and your mate effect 
    your child?  Some het couples are "hangy" (sp?), and some are distant. 
    I assume that the same is true for gays.  Children being the sponges
    that they are tend to emulate their parents in their own life.  Now if
    a boy is "hangy" with his girl friend, no big wow.  If he's "hangy"
    with his guy friends, I don't know.  If he's gay, no problem; but if
    he's straight, how's he going to reconcile the differences between
    himself and his friends, and his dads and their friends?  For an older
    child this probably isn't a problem, but a young one, I don't know.

    Please help me with this...

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    re:.1964

> >just how will 2 gay men influence their child towards women?
> 
>     They won't, nor should they have too. 

    Horse-pucky!  Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their
    child.

>     Teaching children the reality of
>     sexuality, that everyone is different, that there are heterosexuals,
>     homosexuals and nonsexuals, and that each person needs to decide for
>     themselves what is best for their own individual lives, is what is
>     right. 

    We're talking about children here, not adults. OBTW you forgot
    trans-sexuals (sp?), or is that a gender I forget.

>     Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty 
>     and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
>     and successful world. 

    Maybe true, but not relevant to the discussion.

>     I find my homosexual friends to be the least
>     bigoted of all my friends.

    Anecdotal evidence at best.

323.1971CONSLT::MCBRIDEpack light, keep low, move fast, reload oftenThu Dec 07 1995 16:596
    Tom Ralston!  How dare you!  How dare you bring reason and level
    headedness into this, um, er, debate!?  How dare you advocate
    openmindedness and tolerance.  Next thing you know you will be
    suggesting we all get along.  How unreasonable of you.  
    
    Brian
323.1972LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Thu Dec 07 1995 17:021
    i've heard tom is hangy, too.
323.1973DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomThu Dec 07 1995 17:0226
    
    re:.1967
    
> Dan, 	I'm still having a problem with your logic.
> 
> 	The CRA denotes "gender" as an example. Now EVERYONE has a "gender".
> 	You are either "male" or "female". The CRA does not distinguish
> 	between these two options. All it says is that "gender" is not
> 	an acceptable reason for discrimination. There is no distinction
> 	that one gender is better than the other. Both are declared to
> 	be equal. How does this lead to internal strife?
    
    People see themselves and others in these terms, tend to associate
    themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other groups.  This
    makes it more difficult to see past the distinctions.
    
---------------------------------------------------------------------------
    
    re:.1968
    
    > So, are you trying to tell us, oh, for instance, black people didn't
    > know that they were part of a group and they didn't see themselves as
    > being part of a group until the CRA came along?
    
    No, 'tine, of course not.  The CRA is just making the situation worse.
    
323.1974GMASEC::KELLYThu Dec 07 1995 17:196
    Dan-
    
    I don't understand your logic of how it makes it worse.  Seems to me,
    with regard to blacks in the states, it WAS a group of people who did
    oppose them and this was one of the primary problems the CRA is
    intended to correct.  
323.1975BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 17:3566
| <<< Note 323.1970 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>



| I'm not sure. My concern is that children tend to emulate their parents. How 
| would the interaction between you and your mate effect your child?  

	I can assure you that my parents were straight.... but look how I
turned out. :-)  I did go through the process of my "straight" years. But that
was due to the pressure that one is supposed to get married, etc. I believe
this is what does make some gay people stay straight for a while, but
eventually they come out. I also believe this has a lot to do with failed
marriages. People under pressure to marry to please their parents, and they end
up marrying the wrong person. 

	But I don't see that "pressure" being applied by gay parents. They went
through the crap, so it doesn't seem probable that they would apply the same
thing to their children.

	You gotta understand that if a child were to just see the two guys
interact with each other, they just may emulate them. So lets go with that one
first. Is someone who is not gay going to remain gay because their parents hug
and kiss each other? I seriously doubt it. I know I didn't. And the whole time
I knew I wasn't straight, I just wasn't ready to deal with it. I don't think
there would be problems with a child err... coming out as a heterosexual. :-)
But you should remember that a child could be gay.

	The other things involved are that a child is more likely to ask about
the relationship. Once it is explained, then the child will have a much better
understanding with it all.

	Now the important part, where I said that the child would have to know
that regardless of what their sexual orientation is, they are loved, and it
doesn't matter. 

	Now you know as well as I do that not all male/male or female/female
couples are going to make good parents. Cuz not all male/female couples make
good parents. But if love is in the equation, if openess and dialogue is
happening, then I can't see the child treating anyone, regardless of
male/female, gay/straight, white/non-white, any different. Sexual orientation
does not play into it. 

| if he's straight, how's he going to reconcile the differences between himself 
| and his friends, and his dads and their friends?  

	Dan, you need to take sexual orientation out of the equation. You have
straight and gay friends. How do you handle it? If a child is brought up in a
way where people are people, then how much of a problem is there going to be?
The child could have white, black, asian friends. How will he deal with those
differences? The same way. 

| Horse-pucky!  Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their child.

	Yes. And there is a good chance that a lot of the stuff the parents
went through as kids would not be present in this new childs life. I think you
find heterosexuals that do things differently, too. 

| We're talking about children here, not adults. 

	Dan, children are taught to hate at a very young age. They can do that
quite well. They learn that from adults. So why can't the child learn about
everyone being the same, regardless of their sexual orientation, etc? Think
about it.


Glen
323.1976CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsThu Dec 07 1995 17:3822
    Excuse me?
    
    People ave always tended to "hang" with their own race, before and
    after the CRA.  I fail to see what difference the CRA has made in that
    light, except that my neighborhood is much more integrated than it was
    30 years ago, and I interact more with people who are different from me
    because of it.  I have gotten to know people of difference in my
    workplace, schools, and neighborhood, largely because of the CRA and
    rulings around it.  
    
    As far as two men or two women raising children and what the attitudes
    of the kids might be toward people of the opposite sex, I can't see it
    matters, any more than two people of opposite sex and their attitudes
    regarding people of other genders.  With very few exceptions kids are
    not raised in a vacuum.  They go to preschools, schools, are around
    other people in a neighborhood, and most of my gay friends have friends
    who are not gay and are around as well.
    
    Isn't a loving two-parentfamily what so many think is the right thing
    to have?
    
    meg
323.1977DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Thu Dec 07 1995 19:2028
    RE: .1971
    
    I'm sorry Brian. I just won't learn.  {slap, slap}   :)
    
    
    RE: .1970 
    
    >Horse-pucky!  Whether they intend to or not, they will influence their
    >child.

    Absolutely, that influence will show their children that diversity,
    respect and understanding of individual likes and dislikes is moral and
    right.
    
    >We're talking about children here, not adults. OBTW you forgot
    >trans-sexuals (sp?), or is that a gender I forget.

    Actually I was speaking of the teaching of children.
    
    >Maybe true, but not relevant to the discussion.
    
    For you maybe who, from your words in the BOX, seems to have adopted 
    homophobic bigotry as a way of life.

    >Anecdotal evidence at best.

    But evidence none the less.
    
323.1978SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Thu Dec 07 1995 19:256
    
    <-------
    
    So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
    "homophobic bigot"????
    
323.1979To answer your question though, depends on your reasonsBIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Thu Dec 07 1995 19:3121
| <<< Note 323.1978 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>



| So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
| "homophobic bigot"????

	Andy, you need to add what was said earlier to the whole thing. From
note .1970:


>     Children being taught acceptance of individuals and the travesty 
>     and immorality of bigotry will result in a peaceful, cooperative
>     and successful world. 


	That's what Dan said was irrelavant, and why the homophobic way of life
was inserted.


Glen
323.1980DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Thu Dec 07 1995 19:475
    >So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
    >"homophobic bigot"????
    
    No
    
323.1981CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Thu Dec 07 1995 21:026
    
>    So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
>    "homophobic bigot"????
    

 There you go!
323.1982BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Dec 07 1995 21:079
 <<< Note 323.1978 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>

>    So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
>    "homophobic bigot"????
 
	By itself? No.

Jim   

323.1983CSC32::M_EVANSruns with scissorsThu Dec 07 1995 21:087
    I don't know about the rest of you, but I generally close my bedroom
    door when Frank and I are indulging in "heterosexual behavior".  While
    it  isn't the end of the world when kids walk in it isn't something I
    care to demonstrate for them.  They might "get repuled" and then where
    would I be?
    
    meg
323.1984CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Thu Dec 07 1995 21:108

  >  They might "get repuled" and then where
  >  would I be?
    
  

     Looking up "repuled" in a dictionary?
323.1985MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneThu Dec 07 1995 21:1118
    
   >    So.... if I'm repulsed by homosexual behaviour, that makes me a
   >    "homophobic bigot"????

    No, but there seems to be little or no distinction sometimes
    between "repulsed" and "obsessed". In my view most, if not
    all, of those I have heard argue against homosexual rights
    in this conference seem to be, and I feel in an altogether
    unhealthy way, preoccupied with the actual sex acts. Let
    me make it clear that this is opinion, but it is in fact
    an opinion which I hold. I can't imagine for the life of me
    why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
    people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice. If
    I didn't know better, I would conclude that being a Christian
    means that you have to care about that which you shouldn't.
    But I know better...

    -b
323.1986SCASS1::EDITEX::MOOREPerhapsTheDreamIsDreamingUsThu Dec 07 1995 21:168
      >  They might "get repuled" and then where
      >  would I be?
    
      On top ? 
    
      Couldn't resist.
    
      ;^)
323.1987TINCUP::AGUEhttp://www.usa.net/~agueThu Dec 07 1995 22:437
    Re: .1985
    
    I hold exactly the same opinion that you do regarding a few that seem
    to be not only repulsed but also obsessed.  I think it has to do with a
    "testimonial" way of life.
    
    -- Jim
323.1988BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 08 1995 11:1424
      <<< Note 323.1973 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>    People see themselves and others in these terms, tend to associate
>    themselves with a particular group, and opposed to other groups.  This
>    makes it more difficult to see past the distinctions.
 
Dan,	You keep repeating this but offer no argument that it is, in
	fact, true.

	As Meg pointed out, the result of the CRA is that there is more
	diversity in the workplace and in neighborhoods. Given this,
	more people are exposed to those from other "groups" and 
	start interacting with them as individuals and not just members
	of some other group. Now this doesn't work for everyone, but
	it does for most.

	In order for your theory to have even a small amount of validity
	you would have to show that relations between the races, or between
	men and women, or those amongst the various religions are worse
	now than they were in 1964. I don't think you can do this. For
	all the problems that we still have in these areas, we are light
	years ahead of where we were 30 years ago.

Jim
323.1989Think-speak??SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 11:506
    
    
    Nice, subtle turn in the road there...
    
    So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
    behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???
323.199038099::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 12:1411
| <<< Note 323.1989 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>

| So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
| behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???

	Yes. I think it depends on the "reasons" why, for one, and how often
they are talking about it. Take Jack, for a moment...please! :-) When he finds
out someone is gay, he defaults to the kind of sex they have. Why? 


Glen
323.199138099::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 12:143

	Brian.... maybe they're all closet cases. :-)
323.1992ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 12:1762
    re: .1965
    
>	OK, for the 4th time. How many Gay sex acts have you personally
>	witnessed?

    You mean this non-sequitur is what you are talking about?  I have
    already shown this to be irrelevent to any point I have brough up, but
    if you insist on knowing:  none.  But I'm sure you knew that already.
    
    And you accuse me of bringing up irrelevencies.
    
>	I don't agree. The actual wording of the Act makes it clear
>	that the discrimination based on a charachteristic is what
>	is being addressed. It is not an endorsement of the charachteristic,
>	it is the prohibition of discrimination based on the charachteristic
>	that is addressed. 

    I do see this as endorsement of said charicteristic.  Not too many years 
    ago, blacks were viewed as inferior by some, which was rationalization 
    for discrimination.  By creation of the CRA, society endorsed the idea of 
    equality amoung races.  By adding sexual orientation to the list, society 
    is, in effect, endorsing other forms of sexual orientation- which goes 
    against its moral make-up (currently).
    
>	Good one Steve. Accuse me of deflection by deflecting.

    I thought it appropriate.  Wasting words on a deflection
    is only going to send this discussion off on tangents.
    
>	Not to you obviously. Too bad that you do not agree with the
>	basic principles upon which this nation exists.

    Dig into your history, Jim.  Tell me how our FF have condoned
    homosexuality.  Tell me how they considered it as something worthy to
    protect in society.  You are going out of a limb, here.  
    
>	You can "what if" all you like. The fact is that AA in not dependant
>	on the CRA for its existence.

    My "what if", as you call it, is accurate, though.  Without the CRA,
    there would be no AA.  Whether one is dependant on the other is
    irrelevent.  
    
>	No one had offered a viable solution that adresses the correction
>	of the problem as well as would the CRA.
    
    Which is quite different from the "either/or" you have been laying on
    me.  My solution may not be all-encompassing, but I think it better
    overall, in the long run.  This is not the same as "promoting
    discrimination", as you have accused me of, simply because I do not
    agree your solution is the best route for this nation.
    
>	What "other issues" Steve? (prod, prod)

    If you are really interested, I'll skim through my notes in this topic
    and point you out to the pertinent ones that describe these other
    issues.  This note would be far too long if I tried to address them
    in this post.
    
    
    
    -steve   
323.1993BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 08 1995 12:3045
            <<< Note 323.1992 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

>    You mean this non-sequitur is what you are talking about?  I have
>    already shown this to be irrelevent to any point I have brough up, but
>    if you insist on knowing:  none.  But I'm sure you knew that already.
    
>    And you accuse me of bringing up irrelevencies.
 
	It is highly relevant. The issue of what, if any types of sex
	that Gays may enjoy is the true irrelevancy. But one that you
	insist on bring up.

   
>    I do see this as endorsement of said charicteristic.  Not too many years 
>    ago, blacks were viewed as inferior by some, which was rationalization 
>    for discrimination.  By creation of the CRA, society endorsed the idea of 
>    equality amoung races.  By adding sexual orientation to the list, society 
>    is, in effect, endorsing other forms of sexual orientation- which goes 
>    against its moral make-up (currently).
 
	So you are saying that Gays are inferior and that discriminating
	against them is OK.

>    Dig into your history, Jim.  Tell me how our FF have condoned
>    homosexuality.  Tell me how they considered it as something worthy to
>    protect in society.  You are going out of a limb, here.  
 
	You might wnat to notice that I did not use the term founded. The
	FFs did not believe in equality for all citizens. That concept took
	decades to take hold.

>    Which is quite different from the "either/or" you have been laying on
>    me.  My solution may not be all-encompassing, but I think it better
>    overall, in the long run.

	Your "solution" is a joke. It addresses nothing, it fixes nothing.

>    If you are really interested, I'll skim through my notes in this topic
>    and point you out to the pertinent ones that describe these other
>    issues.  This note would be far too long if I tried to address them
>    in this post.
 
	I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't interested Steve.

Jim
323.1994BROKE::PVTPARTSFri Dec 08 1995 12:388
    
    | I can't imagine for the life of me
    | why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
    | people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
    
    i can't either, but it doesn't mean it wouldn't be fun
    speculating.
    
323.1995LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 12:462
    they probably wonder whether they're missing out on 
    anything.
323.1996PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Dec 08 1995 12:488
  re: Andy
    
>    So, now it's "possible" for somebody who is repulsed by certain
>    behaviour, to actually be obsessed with it???

     are you saying this is a revelation to you?

323.1997SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 12:545
    
    >are you saying this is a revelation to you?
    
    Yes... what's so damned hard to understand about that???
    
323.1998ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 12:5656
    re: .1985
    
>   ... there seems to be little or no distinction sometimes
>    between "repulsed" and "obsessed". In my view most, if not
>    all, of those I have heard argue against homosexual rights
>    in this conference seem to be, and I feel in an altogether
>    unhealthy way, preoccupied with the actual sex acts. 
    
    Well, this is a mistaken conclusion, if you are lumping me in with this
    view (and no doubt you are, since I am most active in this string). 
    You see, I believe that the big obfuscation in this issue is the use of
    "homosexual" before the word "rights".  Defining oneself by one's 
    sexual attractions, is not a correct parameter in which we should define
    a group of people.  
    
    What further confuses things, is the fact that homosexuality has been
    long considered by most to be an unnatural attration, or a disorder of
    sorts, by society.  In addition, homosexual sex is regarded as immoral
    by society, historically, due to the Christian herritage that our moral
    make-up is based on (something that is being quickly turned around,
    BTW).
    
    It isn't an issue of rights at all, but an issue of having society
    condone one's sexuality.  Society has no legal responsibility to honor
    any sexual orientation outside what it defines as proper.  
    
>    Let me make it clear that this is opinion, but it is in fact
>    an opinion which I hold. I can't imagine for the life of me
>    why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
>    people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice. If
>    I didn't know better, I would conclude that being a Christian
>    means that you have to care about that which you shouldn't.
   
    Normally, I wouldn't (nor do I think Joe or Jack or John would,
    either), but the fact is, the gay movement is trying to change our
    social structure to accept homosexual relations in the same light as normal
    relations- by condoning gay marriage, redefining family, and promoting
    same sex relations as moral.  Though I don't think discrimination in
    the work-place, housing or whathaveyou is a good thing, I cannot
    support federal legislation that will enable these things to take
    place.  (which is why I suggested one non-legislative solution)
    
>    But I know better...

    Well, there is hope for you after all.  8^)
    
    It isn't about "rights" or "equality" at all.  I've been candid in my
    explanation throughout this string, trying to explain why these terms
    are obfuscations of the real issue.  Using the same terminology applied
    to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick up on this idea quickly;
    but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel with the current
    issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims, either).
    
    
   
    -steve 
323.1999LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 12:571
    andy, sometimes the flip side of repression is obsession.
323.2000PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Dec 08 1995 13:0411
    
>    Yes... what's so damned hard to understand about that???

    er... my question exactly.  you have never witnessed behavior
    on someone's part that you'd classify as obsessive when they
    were trying to combat something they apparently find repulsive?
    this would surprise me, if it were the case.  you've been
    around, my dear. ;>



323.2001MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 13:0634
   Z     | I can't imagine for the life of me
   Z     | why Steve, Joe, Jack, John and a host of others give other
   Z     | people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
    
    We must have some real thick participants here.  First of all, I didn't
    bring it up.  Secondly, go piss and moan at the people outside the
    Whitehouse yelling, "Shame on you Mr. Clinton...shame on you."  There
    the ones making the noise, not me.  Thirdly, well....there is no
    thirdly!  Fourthly, this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
    Unlike what you wish for your utopia, we live in a country with
    differing opinions, diverse backgrounds, and definitely diverse
    outlooks, and we're all entitled to our opinions.
    
    I saved the best for last and I know you're going to love this one.
    Let's focus on this part of the comment...
     
       Z     | and a host of others give other
       Z     | people's sexual practices even ONE cranial time-slice.
    
    Well, I'll tell you why.  Since you made a generic comment about
    sexual practices, I will just consider the gay element a part of the
    whole picture here.  The reason I give a time slice to other peoples
    sex practices is this.  Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially and
    now we have a disease we are  learning more about everyday.  This
    disease is killing people every day.  I personally think we don't fully
    know what we are dealing with here and quite frankly, I RESENT your sex
    practices interfering with the safety of society in general.  I read
    the stats and all I see is a society of lamebrains who seem to have a
    difficult time thinking circumspectly, responsibly, and logically.  
    Consequently, your practices are effecting the well being of others.
    
    So there you have it!
    
    -Jack
323.2002LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:131
    wussies and lamebrains 'r us.
323.2003It's still "think-speak"SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:1828
    
    re: .1999
    
    >andy, sometimes the flip side of repression is obsession.
    
    I hate snakes... The sight of them sends chills up and down my
    spine.... Doesn't matter what kind of snake... pick one. I'd rather get
    into a cage with a tiger than into one with a snake... I can't even
    watch them on TV...
    
     I am not obsessed with snakes...  I do not go out of my way to learn
    more about them... etc. Intellectualy, I know they can't hurt me (much)
    and I really have nothing to fear from them.
    
     I don't think about snakes normally, unless I inadvertently see one
     in passing. 
    
     I have no problem with homosexuals. I know them... converse with them,
    shake hands with them, sit with them... communicate with them. I do not
    look through them or into them and see revolting behaviour. I do become
    uneasy when the talk turns to a sexual nature, whether subtly or
    through innuendos...
    
     Does that make me obsessed?? Should I sign up for elecro-shock
    therapy???
    
     No... I don't think so...
    
323.2004TROOA::COLLINSDreaming on our dimes...Fri Dec 08 1995 13:217
    
    .2001
    
    >...this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
    
    I didn't learn this in our wussy Canadian Sunday schools.  
    
323.2005SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:2110
    
    re: .2000
    
    Di...
    
     To me.... some of the things ACT-UP does towards churches and religion
    border on the obsessive...
    
     You say tomayto...
    
323.2006PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Dec 08 1995 13:269
> <<< Note 323.2005 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
    
>     You say tomayto...

     i know you're fond of this little catch-phrase, but i fail to see
     how it applies in this case.  you seem to now be saying that it's
     _not_ a revelation to you that people can be obsessed with such
     issues.  fine.

323.2007LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:272
    andy, when the talk turns to a sexual nature, tell 'em to 
    keep it to themselves or shut up about it.  i have.
323.2008SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 08 1995 13:301
    And don't fax your buns.  You never know who might see them.
323.2009SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:3216
    re: .2006
    
    Di,
        
    Nope.... but I often fail to make myself as clear as lead crystal, but
    you know that and often point that out to me...
    
     
    Let's just say I do NOT believe that revulsion and obsession go hand in
    hand... that was the point of my example. 
    
    My saying "tomayto" was only to highlight that you *may* thinks so, as
    my "tomahto" says I don't...
    
     Isn't communication fun???
    
323.2010LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:331
    i'm still waiting for those buns :-(
323.2011SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:349
    
    re: .2007
    
    >andy, when the talk turns to a sexual nature, tell 'em to
    >keep it to themselves or shut up about it.  i have.
    
    Then does that make me a hypocrite because I enjoy heterosexual
    banter???
    
323.2012SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:3511
    
    re: .2010
    
    >i'm still waiting for those buns :-(
    
    Patience is a virtue... ;)
    
    Perhaps something can be arranged on the evening of the 21st????
    
    :)
    
323.2013LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:374
    andy, you know as well as i do that het or homo sexual
    banter can cross a line where it's just not funny anymore.
    and most people, although they're wussies or lamebrains,
    know when that line's been crossed.
323.2014SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Fri Dec 08 1995 13:398
    
    re: .2013
    
    Bonnie,
    
     That's not the point. Sigh... I guess I am homophobic because there is
    no line for me before I get uneasy...
    
323.2015LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:422
    then pick up your buns and remove yourself from the situation.
    is that so hard?
323.2016yet another law...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Dec 08 1995 13:436
    
      For every obsession, there is an equal and opposite revulsion.
    
       - Fig Newton
    
      bb
323.2017PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Dec 08 1995 13:489
     
>    Let's just say I do NOT believe that revulsion and obsession go hand in
>    hand... that was the point of my example. 
    
>    My saying "tomayto" was only to highlight that you *may* thinks so, as
>    my "tomahto" says I don't...

	 i didn't say they go hand in hand, and i don't think they do.

323.2018LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 13:529
    let me ask you this, bb.  do you think a male obsession with
    female sexuality might have something to do with a certain
    cultural practice of scraping off the clitoris and labia and
    then sewing the whole thing back up again until it's time for
    the new husband to slit it open so that he can have sex???
    
    i do.
    
    
323.2019MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneFri Dec 08 1995 14:0362
    >    We must have some real thick participants here. 
    
    I have a plethora of faults; thick is not one of them (unless you're
    using a tape measure).
    
    > First of all, I didn't bring it up.  Secondly, go piss and moan at
    > the people outside the Whitehouse yelling, "Shame on you Mr. Clinton..
    > shame on you." 
    
    I assume you mean the AIDS protestors. They want the government
    to throw more money into AIDS research. Few understand the slow
    plodding nature of science. Fewer still understand that in
    America, if there is an AIDS cure, it's because someone figured
    out how to make a buck from it. So they're a little deluded.
    What can I say?
    
    > There the ones making the noise, not me.
    
    It's "they're" MeatyLuv, but aside from that, no, it's YOU making
    the noise. Or generically, the RR. That "you" talk more about
    homosexuality than any actual homo I've ever met!! How am I
    to conclude that the RR is not obsessed? Did you see Joe's CFV
    newsletter? Sorry, but I think they're nucking futz. The idea
    of sitting down and typing a newsletter about men packing fudge
    is a little sick IMHO.
    
    > Fourthly, this is America baby....survival of the fittest.
    > Unlike what you wish for your utopia, we live in a country with
    > differing opinions, diverse backgrounds, and definitely diverse
    > outlooks, and we're all entitled to our opinions.
      
    No excrement, Dick Tracy. As a deeply-rooted cynic, I harbor
    no delusions of utopia (other than the Todd Rundgren group,
    who I think are fabulous). I must admit that getting a lecture
    from you on diversity of opinion was good for a laugh though.
    
    > Well, I'll tell you why.  Since you made a generic comment about
    > sexual practices, I will just consider the gay element a part of the
    > whole picture here.  The reason I give a time slice to other peoples
    > sex practices is this.  Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially and
    > now we have a disease we are  learning more about everyday.
    
    I'm sorry, I didn't notice the long line of people who want to
    give you VD that had formed outside your cubicle.
    
    >                                                   I RESENT your sex
    > practices interfering with the safety of society in general.  I read
    > the stats and all I see is a society of lamebrains who seem to have a
    > difficult time thinking circumspectly, responsibly, and logically.
    
    That's the crux of the matter. See, you don't really know what my
    sex practices are. But you RESENT them. The difference between us
    is simple. I don't know what your sex practices are either, but I
    don't WANT TO KNOW. I won't even SPECULATE; I'll draw NO CONCLUSIONS.
    It's NONE OF MY EFFING BUSINESS.
    
    > Consequently, your practices are effecting the well being of others.
    
    I've been told that, but really I'm trying...
    
    -b
                                               
323.2020MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneFri Dec 08 1995 14:1612
    
    Andy,

    A lesson that I have learned, and learned the hard way, is
    sexual innuendo is inappropriate unless you know the person
    very well; and preferably outside the context of the office.
    Sure, I can tolerate heterosexual banter easier than I can
    tolerate homosexual banter, but some people have an extremely
    low threshold of tolerance for BOTH and it's definitely better
    to be safe than sorry... when in doubt, stfu I guess.

    -b
323.2021sorry, over my head...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Dec 08 1995 14:175
    
      re, .2018 - if I turn my monitor upside down, will I understand
                 what on Earth your reply is about ?
    
      bb
323.2022MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 14:1712
 ZZ   No excrement, Dick Tracy.
    
    I like that...I'll have to remember that one! :-)
    
    I've thought about this for a long long while.  Maybe I think too much
    but somethings wrong here.  I agree...none of my business...don't want
    to know, etc.  Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
    in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
    choice in our public schools.  Let this molding of values remain in the
    homes.  
    
    -Jack
323.2023MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 14:235
    Brian:
    
    That's why I mentioned the boinkable topics are potential powderkegs!
    
    -Jack
323.2024LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 14:2713
    .2016
    
    |yet another law...
    
    i'm assuming you were expressing your boredom or condescension.
    let me know if i'm wrong.
    
    |For every obsession, there is an equal and opposite revulsion.
    
    | - Fig Newton
    
    i'm assuming you were expressing your boredom or condescension.
    let me know if i'm wrong. 
323.2025SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 08 1995 14:271
    probing pluto now?
323.2026BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 08 1995 15:1638
    RE: .2022  Jack Martin

    / I've thought about this for a long long while.  Maybe I think too much
    / but somethings wrong here.  I agree...none of my business...don't want
    / to know, etc.  

    Then leave it at that, because no one wants to TELL you what they 
    actually do in the privacy of their own sex lives.  "Gay" or "het"
    or "bi" is a description of the way a person is attracted to people
    in romantic and physical ways.  It isn't a description of what
    anyone actually does about it.  (The word "celibate" is a description 
    of a person's sex life - specifically, the lack thereof - but "gay" 
    and "het" and "bi" are not.)

    / Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
    / in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
    / choice in our public schools.  Let this molding of values remain in the
    / homes.  

    Plutonic?  (As Robin Williams once said to Exidor, "Don't go to Pluto.
    It's a Mickey Mouse planet.")

    Schools don't need to go into detail about how same-sex couples COULD
    be having sex.  No one needs to know what an individual couple does.

    The kids DO need to know that some of their classmates have parents
    who are same-sex couples (so that they won't go nuts and torment these
    kids when they find out.)  The kids of same-sex couples need to know
    that they are OK themselves and that their parents are OK.

    If you want to teach children to torment kids with same-sex parents,
    make sure they do this outside of school.  The kids of same-sex couples
    have the right to get an education without being treated to bigotry.

    (Before you say it's irresponsible for same-sex parents to expose their
    kids to possible torment at school - NO PARENT can protect his/her kids
    from all the stupid people in the world.  There is simply too much
    stupidity to go around.)
323.2027MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneFri Dec 08 1995 15:2635
    
    >           Bottom line Brian is that to me, couples living together
    > in a more than plutonic relationship shouldn't be shown as a viable
    > choice in our public schools.  Let this molding of values remain in the
    > homes.
    
    Suzanne or Meg or (whoever, sorry; bad memory) already explained
    why it is necessary. The point is not to encourage gay couples
    or to promote a particular lifestyle, the point is to DISCOURAGE
    violence against them.
    
    You spoke of Utopia earlier... isn't believing that every parent
    will make sure their kids don't beat the snot out of other kids
    a bit optimistic? You've been shown the examples. The ONLY reason
    for bringing homosexuality into the schools is to teach tolerance;
    and I know firsthand that many kids ARE NOT learning it at home.
    Maybe they are learning it in your house (I get the impression
    that you are an EXCELLENT parent), but you're (unfortunately)
    NOT in the majority.
    
    Everyone has the RIGHT to learn. That's what public education
    is about. I do consider it the teacher's job to make sure that
    EVERYONE in his/her class gets an education. If a kid is
    being persecuted (for whatever reason), that person is deprived
    of his/her RIGHT to an education. The teacher's not doing the
    job!
    
    It's not endorsing a particular lifestyle; it's about tolerance.
    In our classrooms. In the workplace. Everywhere.
    
    It's not about political correctness, either. Everytime you
    refuse to acknowledge the rights of another individual, you place
    your own civil rights in jeopardy.
    
    -b
323.2028MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneFri Dec 08 1995 15:304
    
    Well, I guess it was Suzanne... :-) :-) :-)
    
    -b
323.2029TALLIS::SCHULERGreg, DTN 227-4165Fri Dec 08 1995 15:3150
    RE: .1998 by ACISS2::LEECH 

    > Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct 
    > parameter in which we should define a group of people.  

    Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.

    If society stops attacking people based on their sexuality, I'm
    pretty sure people will stop insisting they not be attacked based
    on their sexuality.

    > In addition, homosexual sex is regarded as immoral
    > by society, historically, due to the Christian herritage that our
    > moral make-up is based on...

    Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
    more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex?  For example, 
    the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
    that relied on tradition and religious dogma...

    To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
    to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
    impact on members of that society?  Is it enough to just *say*
    "I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?

    > It isn't about "rights" or "equality" at all.  I've been candid in my
    > explanation throughout this string, trying to explain why these terms
    > are obfuscations of the real issue.  Using the same terminology applied
    > to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick up on this idea quickly;
    > but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel with the current
    > issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims, either).

    Steve, it isn't that people cannot see your parallel.  You seem unable
    to understand that people are *rejecting* your parallel.  I, for one,
    do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to 
    pedophilia.  You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
    as just another type of person who does things we don't like.  If this
    is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
    miscegenation?  People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with 
    the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
    historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.

    I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions 
    with facts and objective logic.  That you (and society) provide reasons
    for your beliefs and behavior.

    Or is that too much to ask?

    /Greg

323.2030:^)WONDER::BOISSEFri Dec 08 1995 15:321
re: .2022  Jack Martin
323.2031oooops!!!WONDER::BOISSEFri Dec 08 1995 15:347
re: .2022  Jack Martin

  > I've thought about this for a long long while.

Like the time between your last two replies? Sorry, just had to...

Bob
323.2032"Hello It's Me"MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 15:4313
    Bob Boisse...I thought for sure you got the joke after .2021.  Did you?
    Suzanne didn't but Brian should have...See below.
    
    / I've thought about this for a long long while.  Maybe I think too much
    / but somethings wrong here.  I agree...none of my business...don't want
    / to know, etc.  
    
ZZ        Then leave it at that,
    
    The first part of what I said came from a Todd Rundgren tune.  Brian
    alluded to Rundgren in an earlier reply.
    
    -Jack
323.2033BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 15:5366
| <<< Note 323.1998 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct parameter in 
| which we should define a group of people.

	You forgot to include, "according to the word of Steve"! :-)

| What further confuses things, is the fact that homosexuality has been long 
| considered by most to be an unnatural attration, or a disorder of sorts, by 
| society.  

	There were a lot of things throughout history that people have thought
was bad at one point, only to find out that it isn't. They discover this by not
labeling what is different as bad. This is something I'm not sure you do very
often.

| It isn't an issue of rights at all, 

	If jobs, housing, etc don't equal rights, then, and only then, can you
be correct.

| but an issue of having society condone one's sexuality.  

	Then you have no clue to what it is about. I suggest that you start
over again.

| but the fact is, the gay movement is trying to change our social structure to
| accept homosexual relations in the same light as normal relations- by 
| condoning gay marriage, redefining family, and promoting same sex relations as
| moral.  

	Steve, do you condone any marriage not held in the light of God? Yes or
no. You see, your answer would HAVE to be no in order for you to say anything
about marriage. Now, if you are talking just from a legal stance, then your
answer would still have to be no, and for the same reasons. If religion is part
of it, how could you accept any marriage that is not under God? If the law is
involved only, how can you accept a no vow marriage, but not one between two
homosexuals? 

	About redefining family. That was pretty funny. Families are defined
through several different catagories. Please don't pull this gays are trying to
redefine the family, when the family has been doing that already. But again, it
appears that seeing how families have been redefining themselves on a regular
basis, it wouldn't surprise me if you found the change to be bad. It would fit
your profile.

| Though I don't think discrimination in the work-place, housing or whathaveyou 
| is a good thing, I cannot support federal legislation that will enable these 
| things to take place.  

	Steve, say the country started to take anyone who is religious and not
allow them jobs, housing, etc. Not because they knew you, but they threw you
into this screwed up catagory. How would you feel?

| trying to explain why these terms are obfuscations of the real issue. Using 
| the same terminology applied to "pedophile orientation", folks seem to pick 
| up on this idea quickly; but for some reason, they cannot see the parallel 
| with the current issue (and it has nothing to do with perceived victims, 
| either).

	Steve, this is why you will never see the issue. The victim thing has
everything to do with it. And THAT is why folks in here don't see the parallel
with the current issue.


Glen
323.2034BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 15:5716
| <<< Note 323.2001 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially 

	Tie it into homosexual sex. Let's see some stats.

| I personally think we don't fully know what we are dealing with here and quite
| frankly, I RESENT your sex practices interfering with the safety of society 
| in general.  

	Jack, please tie all this into homosexuality. You can realistically tie
it in with people who just didn't think. But that is about as far as you can go
with this.


Glen
323.2035BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 15:588
| <<< Note 323.2005 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>


| To me.... some of the things ACT-UP does towards churches and religion
| border on the obsessive...

	And I would agree with you on this one, too.

323.2036BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 16:008
| <<< Note 323.2011 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>


| Then does that make me a hypocrite because I enjoy heterosexual banter???

	Yes. :-)  Seriously, I have many straight friends who will say, look at
her <insert body part(s)>. But if I say, wow, nice butt, they look at me. :-)

323.2037BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 16:035
| <<< Note 323.2025 by SMURF::WALTERS >>>

| probing pluto now?

	Leave the poor dog alone!
323.2038SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 08 1995 16:051
    sorry, I was feeling a bit goofy.
323.2039MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneFri Dec 08 1995 16:065
    
    I think the things ACT-UP does SUCK. Of course, I also think the
    things OR does SUCK.
    
    -b
323.2040MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 16:3515
    | Since the 1960's STDs rose exponentially 
    
    ZZ        Tie it into homosexual sex. Let's see some stats.
    
    Glen, I was very careful not to exclusively limit it to homosexuality.
    In the note I said that since the reply I was answering was generic,
    then my statement will be directed at the society at large and not just
    the gay community.
    
    I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the
    diseases.  On the contrary, I believe promiscuity knows no
    predispositional boundaries and hold up the free thinkers as
    contemptuous as anybody else!
    
    -Jack
323.2041TROOA::COLLINSDreaming on our dimes...Fri Dec 08 1995 16:427
    
    .2040

    >I...hold up the free thinkers as contemptuous as anybody else!
    
    <boggle>
    
323.2042MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 16:544
    Free thinkers:  Throwbacks from the sexual revolution who are selfish
    and act irresponsibly.  
    
    -Jack
323.204334860::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 17:0334
    re: .1993
   
>	It is highly relevant. The issue of what, if any types of sex
>	that Gays may enjoy is the true irrelevancy. But one that you
>	insist on bring up.

    Actually, it was me who said this was irrelevent to my point.  Whether
    men have sex with men is not pertinent whatsoever.  I'm not sure why
    you insist that I keep bringing it up (miscommunication?).
   
>	So you are saying that Gays are inferior and that discriminating
>	against them is OK.

    I did not say this.  I said that I am not for society to officially
    endorse any deviant brand of sexuality that it currently has a problem
    with morally.
    
>	I wouldn't have asked if I wasn't interested Steve.

    I have a list of notes that deal with issues I am speaking of.  You may
    peruse them at your leisure:
    
    .1410
    .1441 
    .1497
    .1548
    .1555
    .1556
    .1644
    .1821
    .1845
    
    
    -steve
323.2044LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 18:1913
    .2042
    
    |Throwbacks from the sexual revolution...
    
    jack, just when did this particular revolution occur?  i 
    must have missed it...or are you talking about the one
    the media made up to sell magazines and whatnot.  you
    know, the one the lamebrains and wussies believe in cuz
    they read about it in a mag somewhere...
    
    or are you just talking about the introduction of the 
    infamous birth control pill?  which?
    
323.2045MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 18:316
    Bonnie:
    
    Are you trying to tell me that STDs and out of wedlock births in the
    50's were at parity with the decades before?  I think not!
    
    -Jack
323.2046LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 18:342
    so, jack.  the sexual revolution took place in the fifties?
    is that what you're saying?  the decade of foreplay?  
323.2047TROOA::COLLINSDreaming on our dimes...Fri Dec 08 1995 18:423
    
    I MISSED IT?!?!
    
323.2048P Larkin (approximately)CTHU26::S_BURRIDGEA spark disturbs our clodFri Dec 08 1995 18:454
    Sexual intercourse began 
    in 1963
    Between the end of the "Chatterley" ban
    and the Beatles' first LP
323.2049TROOA::COLLINSDreaming on our dimes...Fri Dec 08 1995 18:463
    
    That would explain my birth date.
    
323.2050BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 18:4918
| <<< Note 323.2040 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Glen, I was very careful not to exclusively limit it to homosexuality.
| In the note I said that since the reply I was answering was generic,
| then my statement will be directed at the society at large and not just
| the gay community.

	Thanks for clarrifying. I appreciate it.

| I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the diseases.  

	But you isolate homosexuality to the point that if some guy tells you
he is gay, you think of what sex acts he does.



Glen
323.2051SCASS1::EDITEX::MOOREPerhapsTheDreamIsDreamingUsFri Dec 08 1995 18:4910

		\|||/
	       \^   ^/        EAT, Pappa, EAT!
	      (|+   +|)       |
		\ V /         |
		  O     _______
		  v
			
			
323.2052BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 18:5110
| <<< Note 323.2048 by CTHU26::S_BURRIDGE "A spark disturbs our clod" >>>

| Sexual intercourse began in 1963

	So then when they had couples sleeping in two seperate beds on tv, this
was something that reflected reality! :-)


Glen

323.2053It's inaccurate for you to speak out against gays, if...BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansFri Dec 08 1995 18:5513
    RE: .2040  Jack Martin

    / I do not isolate homosexuality as the monster spreading all the
    / diseases.  On the contrary, I believe promiscuity knows no
    / predispositional boundaries...

    Then, you regard the majority of gays (who happen to be in long-term
    monogamous relationships) as being among the 'good guys' in our
    society.  True?

    If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
    then correct your rhetoric.  It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if 
    they're all (or mostly) promiscuous.  They're not.
323.2054ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 19:3116
    re: .2053
    
>    It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if 
>    they're all (or mostly) promiscuous.  They're not.
    
    
    You don't know this is as fact.  You are assuming that this is
    true, an assumption that is not necessarily backed by reality (nor
    studies).
    
    Of course, I guess it depends on what you consider as being
    "promiscuous", too.  This definition must at least be understood within
    this discussion, in order that everyone is on the same wavelength.
    
    
    -steve
323.2055MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 19:3333
    Z    If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
    Z    then correct your rhetoric.  It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if 
    ZZ    they're all (or mostly) promiscuous.  They're not.
    
    Never said this.  I categorically deny it.  What I said was the
    teaching of ammoral lifestyles in the schools is not what I as a parent
    want...which is why I'm trying like the dickens to keep my son in a
    private school.  In order to teach the virtues of being gay, the
    teaching, as neutral as you would try to make it, would still have the
    underpinning of non marital partners who share an eros relationship
    living together.  I believe this is a destructive precedent to set but
    again that's my opinion.  
    
    Now I understand what you are saying...that the purpose of bringing
    Heather Has Two Mommies is to try and eradicate meanness and bigotry. 
    I understand that.  However, I am extremely dubious it will stop there. 
    I simply do not believe it.  And considering the bullcrap the NEA has
    pulled in the past, I WILL Not fully trust those people.  They have an
    agenda.  I will not subject my children to the 
    subjective amoral bias of this ilk if there is any way possible.  This 
    kind of training in a child must be left to the discretion of the
    parents.  The NEA must be destroyed.  The federal government MUST get
    out of the schools, and schools must be directed locally.  Ooops...I'm
    ranting.
    
    ZZ If you're really against promiscuity and not against homosexuality,
    
    Gays can't marry.  Well, you can thank government for that.  But here
    we have the dichotomy.  I believe anybody engaging in sex before
    marriage is dealing in non overt promiscuity.  Again that's an opinion
    and is biased by my faith.
    
    -Jack
323.2056CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Dec 08 1995 19:3410
    Steve,
    
    If you are using studies from Focus on the Family, colorado for Family
    values, the Oregon equivilent or the Christian Coalition it has already
    been stated in here that they use a "study" from Paul Cameron which as
    been demonstrated to be statistically unreliable, taken from too small
    a sample and says that 22% of heterosexual men have attempted or
    committed murder.
    
    meg
323.2057MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 19:354
    By the way Suzanne can you back up a claim that the majority of gays (or
    the majority of ANYONE) are in long-term, monogamous relationships.
    
    -Jack
323.2058CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Dec 08 1995 19:378
    Jack
    
    Using the same shoe since it fits you as well, can you document a study
    by a reputable sociologist or psychologist that says this isn't true? 
    The gay people I have known of both sexes were, if not in a monogomous
    relationship, looking for one.
    
    meg
323.2059MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Dec 08 1995 19:389
Then you and Steve should both check your dictionaries for the
definition of promiscuity, Jack. Sex outside of marriage does
not promiscuity make.

And, Steve, yes, I can categorically state that all homosexuals
are not promiscuous, by dictionary standards, as I know of homosexuals
who have been engaged in one single-partener relationships for the entirety
of their sexually active life (over thirty-five years on one case.)

323.2061MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 19:4810
    Jack, I did check it and wouldn't have said non overt if my dictionary
    didn't say..."...lacking standards of selection..."
    
    If you go into something as serious as an eros relationship without
    intent to make a lifelong commitment, then in my opinion one is lacking
    standards of selection.  Since perfect love casts out all fear, and
    since our society has numerous couples in a perpetual state of
    indecision for whatever reason, then the standard is lacking!
    
    -Jack
323.2062SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Fri Dec 08 1995 19:5113
    .2054
    
    >> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if
    >> they're all (or mostly) promiscuous.  They're not.
    
    > You don't know this is as fact.
    
    I know it as fact.  I know several gays, in different cities and in
    different walks of life.  They tell me that promiscuity among gays is
    about the same as among hets.  The difference is that there aren't all
    those busybodies out there screeching about the promiscuity among hets
    because, although they deplore it as fornication, they do not think it
    unnatural.
323.2063BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 19:525

	jack, I am wondering. Will you be teaching your son that when someone
who is a guy says they are gay, that your son should start thinking about what
kind of sex the person has?
323.2064LANDO::OLIVER_Bwe put the fun in dysfunctional!Fri Dec 08 1995 19:522
    i think jack's definition of a promiscuous person is anyone
    who has more sex than he does.
323.2065MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 19:5514
    Suzanne:
    
    Got a friend, right winger...celebate all his life...is gay.  I realize
    what you are saying, I believe in the right to self determination.  I
    believe standards of conduct should be left to the instruction of the
    family unit, not a school board.  Unfortunately, recognizing the simple
    predisposition of homosexuality implies one would have to eventually
    have relations out of wedlock and with a member of ones own gender.  In
    America, we all swing from a different vine and I'm not interested in
    the particulars...so we agree there.  All I'm saying is...let me
    instruct my kids on matters of sexuality.  I don't trust the social
    engineers and the beaurocrats.  I think they're scum!  Simple enough!
    
    -Jack
323.2066BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 19:556
| <<< Note 323.2064 by LANDO::OLIVER_B "we put the fun in dysfunctional!" >>>

| i think jack's definition of a promiscuous person is anyone
| who has more sex than he does.

	Wow... no wonder he thinks everyone is promiscuous. :-)
323.2067ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 19:5635
    re: .2059
    
    Why should I check my dictionary?  I never tried to define promiscuity
    in my note, but merely said that in order to debate on this aspect of the
    discussion, it may be helpful to be using the same terminology.
    
    Are most homosexuals promiscuous?  Beats me.  No one knows for sure one
    way or the other.  Some studies I've read (some from RR sources, some
    from government sources) seem to indicate that the tendency is towards
    promiscuity, but I couldn't say as a matter of fact that most
    homosexuals ARE promisuous.  Saying "most aren't", though, is every bit 
    as much of an assertion as saying "most are"- maybe more, since I've
    yet to see ANY studies by competent agencies that counter the studies
    I've seen (and I'm even willing to throw out the "RR" sources).
    
    I don't consider your example as an example of "promiscuity", neither
    do I use the "sex before marriage" as my sole parameter.  Serial
    monogamy (one partner one year, a different one the next, etc.) is
    promiscuity (in my view), though not as bad as having several partners 
    at once (what I would label as overt promiscuity).
    
    The dictionary I have basically says "indiscriminate in sexual
    relations", and even uses the term "casual" (with regards to sexual
    intercourse).  So casual sex is promiscuous, according to the
    dictionary.  I do not use the dictionary as my sole arbiter of this
    term, however, as promiscuity is also a moral issue, IMO.  I'm sure my
    view of "casual sex" differs from your view.
    
    I could start up another argument that "indiscriminate in sexual
    relations" could encompass all homosexual relations (involving sex), as
    such relations are considered by society to be rather "indiscriminate".
    But of course, I won't do that.  8^)
    
    
    -steve
323.2068MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 20:0212
Z    jack, I am wondering. Will you be teaching your son that when someone
Z    who is a guy says they are gay, that your son should start thinking
Z    about what kind of sex the person has?
    
    No, I'm sure his imagination will take care of that for himself.  
    My intent is to teach him that there is a certain percentage of our
    population who are born gay.  It's for whatever reason God created this
    predisposition.  I will also teach him that acceptance of
    acting on ones predispositions earn merit by societal beliefs and the
    beliefs of you (son).  
    
    -Jack 
323.2069ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Fri Dec 08 1995 20:0513
    re: .2062
    
    Your sampling is still limited, Binder.  You may have a good idea that
    homosexuals are not more promiscuous than hets (and for the record,
    this is certainly not saying much in today's society), but you still
    can't say that this is absolute fact.  Your sampling is too limited.
    
    I could say that I know several gay men and know that they and
    most of their male friends they hang around with, are promiscuous.  
    This would not be any more proof than your empirical data.  
    
    
    -steve
323.2070BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 20:073

	Steve, I think you need to get laid.
323.2071BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 20:0915
| <<< Note 323.2068 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| No, I'm sure his imagination will take care of that for himself.

	ARRRHHH!!!! God I hope not! :-)

| I will also teach him that acceptance of acting on ones predispositions earn 
| merit by societal beliefs and the beliefs of you (son).

	Jack, for some reason, I'm not getting this part. Could you possibly
explain it another way?


Glen
323.2072MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 20:1114
    Meg:
    
    I thought you said Focus on the Family doesn't use Camerons stuff.  I
    noticed you wrote this though...
    
    If you are using studies from Focus on the Family, colorado for Family
        values, the Oregon equivilent or the Christian Coalition it has
    already
    been stated in here that they use a "study" from Paul Cameron which as
        been demonstrated to be statistically unreliable, taken from too small
        a sample and says that 22% of heterosexual men have attempted or
        committed murder.
    
    -Jack
323.2073SMURF::WALTERSFri Dec 08 1995 20:111
    But he knows how it's going to turn out, so there's no point in it.
323.2074MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalFri Dec 08 1995 20:1414
C    I personally think we don't fully know what we are dealing with here 
C    and quite
C    frankly, I RESENT your sex practices interfering with the safety of
C    society in general.  
    
ZZ    Jack, please tie all this into homosexuality. You can realistically tie
ZZ    it in with people who just didn't think. But that is about as far as
ZZ    you can go with this.
  
    Glen, don't your stats in .1961 kind of affirm my point?  It is clear
    that certain behaviors and certain classes of individuals have the
    highest incidents of STDS.
    
    -Jack
323.2075TROOA::COLLINSDreaming on our dimes...Fri Dec 08 1995 20:196
    
    The strongest possible argument AGAINST pre-marital sex 
    is that it resulted in...ME!
    
    Smoke that, Jack.
    
323.2076BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Fri Dec 08 1995 20:2313
| <<< Note 323.2074 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Glen, don't your stats in .1961 kind of affirm my point?  

	No. Those are US stats. With the exception of north america, AIDS
(which is what those stats ONLY reflect) has hit heterosexuals far more than
homosexuals. That's EVERY OTHER COUNTRY, Jack.

| It is clear that certain behaviors and certain classes of individuals have the
| highest incidents of STDS.

	Yeah.... heterosexuals. Damn those people.
323.2077CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Dec 08 1995 20:3615
    Jack,
    
    FOF has used Cameron's study in some of its stuff on homosexual people
    and why they are "dangerous" to children.  The web site listed in here
    by Glen has a list of the groups that utilized Cameron's studies.  Now
    FoF has backed away from Cameron since he moved out here and said they
    don't use his stuff, but they have in the past, according to the web
    site.  
    
    Jack in the US black men are 2 1/2 times more likely than white men to
    be HIV +, and black women are 4 1/2 times as likely to be hiv+ in
    Colorado, stats from the CO dept of health.  should all blacks be
    discriminated against because of this?
    
    meg
323.2078BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Dec 08 1995 22:1912
      <<< Note 323.2055 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


Jack,	Your use of the term "Amoral" denotes a lack of morality. I would
	think that you should be able to accept the concept that many people
	who consider themselves to be "moral" simply do not share YOUR
	particular version of "morality".

	Simply having differnt views on the subject does not make them
	amoral.

Jim
323.2079MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Sat Dec 09 1995 01:4525
re:            <<< Note 323.2067 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

.2054>>    It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if 
.2054>>    they're all (or mostly) promiscuous.  They're not.
.2054>      You don't know this is as fact.

And my assertion was, "Yes - I DO".

>    Why should I check my dictionary?

Only to demonstrate your integrity, I guess. If you'd actually prefer to use
a definition of your own choosing which isn't commonly shared by most rational
folks, that's certainly your prerogative, of course.


> Saying "most aren't", though, is every bit as much of an assertion 
> as saying "most are"- maybe more



I wasn't claiming anything regarding "most". My claim was in rebuttal of your
assertion (at the top of this response) that it wasn't necessarily a fact that
all are not promiscuous. It is very much a fact, as demonstrated by several 
respondents here. For you to prove otherwise requires you to demonstrate
that we've lied.
323.2080ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 11:219
    <--- Actually, I must now wonder what definition of FACT you are using.
    
    I do believe you missed the point of my note, though.  Empirical data
    does not equal fact.  The sampling rates are usually too limited.  I
    did not argue that this was a possibility, however, just that it is not
    concrete fact.
    
    
    -steve
323.2081MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 11 1995 12:3523
>    <--- Actually, I must now wonder what definition of FACT you are using.

Fact
(noun)
1. Something true and accurate.
2. Something having real, demonstrable existence; reality
3. An act considered with regard to its legality; after the fact

Pick one.

>    I do believe you missed the point of my note, though.  Empirical data
>    does not equal fact.  The sampling rates are usually too limited.  I
>    did not argue that this was a possibility, however, just that it is not
>    concrete fact.

What kind of circuitous BS is that supposed to be, Weasel?

I pointed out that there are known instances of people involved in long
term monogamous same sex relationships who are clearly not promiscuous,
thereby disproving your assertion that it is a _fact_ that all homesexuals
are promiscuous, and you start babbling about sample sizes? A sample size
of one is more that sufficiently large to dispell any claims about "all".

323.2082MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 12:4716
ZZ    What kind of circuitous BS is that supposed to be, Weasel?
    
    Jack watches wrestling everybody!! :-)
    
    Joan:
    
    My two brothers and sisters outdid you.  They were able to swim around
    the diaphram, nyahhh!  I in no way made the claim that anybody born out
    of wedlock was bad...or that bad can come from a child born out of
    wedlock.  But surely you must agree that being born out of wedlock
    statistically decreases ones chances of growing up in a stable
    environment.   Unfortunately, children born out of wedlock carry a
    majority of the legacy regarding school drop outs, suicide, STDs,
    abortion, and the like.
    
    -Jack
323.2083MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 12:497
    Jim, My use of the word "amoral" connotes subjective moral relativity. 
    You are right in that we do not all hold to the same standard.  A
    standard of morality has to have a source, be it a higher authority or
    one's own consciense.  I submit to you that we are in the dilema we
    face today because people chose the latter.
    
    -Jack
323.2084Ooh, Our Jack is into S&M, heh-heh, heh-heh-heh...DRDAN::KALIKOWDIGITAL=DEC; Reclaim the Name&amp;Glory!Mon Dec 11 1995 12:532
    .2083 Martin> I submit to you 
    
323.2085ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 12:5424
    re: .2081
    
>I pointed out that there are known instances of people involved in long
>term monogamous same sex relationships who are clearly not promiscuous,
>thereby disproving your assertion that it is a _fact_ that all homesexuals
>are promiscuous,   -------------------------------------------------------
 ---------------
    
    You are mistaken.  I made no such assertion.  You are either a) reading
    comprehension impared; b) confusing me with another noter; c) having a
    bad Monday; or d) all the above.
    
>    and you start babbling about sample sizes? A sample size
>of one is more that sufficiently large to dispell any claims about "all".

    My only point of contention was that we do not know that "most"
    homosexuals are promiscuous, or whether "most" are not.  I've pointed
    out that even the studies I've read that support the idea that "most"
    are, is an inadequate to say that this is FACT.  Equally unreliable in
    the overall picture is empiracal data.  This was my only point.  
    
    
    -steve
                                      
323.2086MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 11 1995 13:0716
Go back and read your .2054, Steve.

It had been stated in a previous  reply -

> It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if 
> they're all [...] promiscuous.  They're not.

Your response was -

> You don't know this is as fact.

I responded "Yes - some folks do know, as a fact, that not all homosexuals
are promiscuous.". Do you wish to claim that by saying "you don't know this
[that not all homosexuals are promiscuous] as a fact", that you were not 
claiming the contrary to be the reality of the matter? Or were simply
contending that those who disagree with you in this matter are liars?
323.2087ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 13:1712
    Here's what I was resonding to in my .2054:
    
    >>It's inaccurate to speak of gays as if they're all (or mostly)
    >>promiscuous.  They're not.
    
    I find it interesting that you left out the parenthetical statement in
    your post.  This is what prompted me to respond- not the "all" that you
    seem to imply ("mostly" is still in question).  I thought that my notes 
    in this particular rathold made that quite clear from the beginning.
    
    
    -steve
323.2088MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 11 1995 13:256
So, then you'll be willing to state that you agree that not all 
homosexuals are promiscuous? Regardless of your contentions, it
was this that I haven't heard you yet willing to admit. It's sort
of sounded like you've been avoiding it, actually.


323.2089DECWIN::JUDYThat's *Ms. Bitch* to you!Mon Dec 11 1995 13:2523
    
    
    	I have tried to stay out of this discussion because it is
    	such and emotional one.  However, after reading Jack's .2057
    	I felt I needed to reply.  I apologize if anyone else has already
    	posted something similar but I didn't read all the replies after
    	.2057.
    
    	Because of the subject I chose to do my research paper on for
    	this semester at school, I've come across some of the stats
    	that Jack is looking for as 'proof' of monogamous relationships
    	of gays.  This is from a survey done by the Partners Task Force
    	of Gay and Lesbian Couples.  It is based on 1266 couples.
    
    	75% of women and 82% of men ALWAYS live with their partner.
    	91% of women and 63% of men have a sexual agreement with their
    	partner for a monogamous relationship.
    	90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
    	93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
    
    
    
    
323.2090re: .2088ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 13:325
    If it makes you feel better: yes, I agree that not all homosexuals are
    promiscuous.  I've agreed with this point all along.
    
    
    -steve
323.2091TROOA::COLLINSDangled from a rope of sand...Mon Dec 11 1995 13:344
    
    I believe that not all Christians are promiscuous, although many
    certainly are.
    
323.2092COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Dec 11 1995 13:397
And those who are, and are unwilling to recognize it as _wrong_, and
promote it as a positive way of life, deserve the same amount of push-back
for their improper behaviour as those who promote any other kind of wrong
behaviour, whether it's needlessly killing fur seals or picking their
noses in cafeteria lines.

/john
323.2093TROOA::COLLINSDangled from a rope of sand...Mon Dec 11 1995 13:424
    
    I *knew* we could count on you to encourage monogamy within the 
    gay community, /john!
    
323.2094"Wrong" is in the eye of the beholderMOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Dec 11 1995 13:484
> whether it's needlessly killing fur seals 

A new crusdade, perhaps?

323.2095BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:028
| <<< Note 323.2082 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>



| Unfortunately, children born out of wedlock carry a majority of the legacy 
| regarding school drop outs, suicide, STDs, abortion, and the like.

	Jack, you better have the stats to prove this one!
323.2096SMURF::WALTERSMon Dec 11 1995 14:041
    Sounds like I have a lot of trouble comin'.
323.2097PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 11 1995 14:092
  .2096  only you could tell us for sure.  but please don't.
323.2098CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Dec 11 1995 14:255
>	Jack, you better have the stats to prove this one!


  why should he.  you rarely do
323.2099BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:286
| <<< Note 323.2098 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Friend, will you be ready?" >>>


| why should he.  you rarely do

	Wrong again, Jimbo.
323.2100SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 14:299
    
    >| why should he.  you rarely do
     
    
     >  Wrong again, Jimbo.
    
    
    "Many" of us agree with Jimbo...
    
323.2101BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:316
| <<< Note 323.2100 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>


| "Many" of us agree with Jimbo...

	Then back your claims.
323.2102TROOA::COLLINSDangled from a rope of sand...Mon Dec 11 1995 14:323
    
    I believe that Andy agrees with Jim.   
    
323.2103BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:343

	:-)
323.2104MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 14:3710
 Z    90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
 Z    93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
    
    Thanks for posting this Judy.  I think the above is absolutely
    pathetic.  So in the world of living together, we have about four out
    of ten lying to their significant other, and of those liers, the
    majority selfishly put themselves in a position of danger...not only to
    themselves but also to the unsuspecting significant others.
    
    -Jack
323.2105MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 14:397
    Glen,
    
    I just put a call in to the Childrens Defense Fund.  I am also putting
    calls in to the US Census Bureau and will summarily put the perverbial
    nail in your coffin once and for all once I get the call back!
    
    -Jack
323.2106PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 11 1995 14:397
> <<< Note 323.2100 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>
    
>    "Many" of us agree with Jimbo...

	Who are these "'Many'"?, one wonders, and how does Andy know
	who agrees with Jimbo and who doesn't?
    
323.2107TALLIS::SCHULERGreg, DTN 227-4165Mon Dec 11 1995 14:416
    Steve Leech - when you have the time, would you mind addressing
    note 323.2029?
    
    Thanks,
    
    /Greg
323.2108BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 14:4111
    RE: .2104  Jack Martin
    
    // 90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
    // 93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
    
    / Thanks for posting this Judy.  I think the above is absolutely
    / pathetic.  So in the world of living together, we have about four out
    / of ten lying to their significant other, 
    
    Sounds like a better record than marriage has (considering that 50%
    of marriages end in divorce.)
323.2109BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:429
| <<< Note 323.2104 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Thanks for posting this Judy.  I think the above is absolutely
| pathetic.  So in the world of living together, we have about four out
| of ten lying to their significant other, and of those liers, the
| majority selfishly put themselves in a position of danger...not only to
| themselves but also to the unsuspecting significant others.

	Jack, isn't 40% still lower than the 50% divorce rate? 
323.2110BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 14:431
    Notes collision, Glen! :)
323.2111BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:4311
| <<< Note 323.2105 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| I just put a call in to the Childrens Defense Fund.  I am also putting
| calls in to the US Census Bureau and will summarily put the perverbial
| nail in your coffin once and for all once I get the call back!

	Jack, you mean you stated those things as fact, but you didn't know
they were? 


Glen
323.2112BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 14:443

	Suz.... too funny!
323.2113TROOA::COLLINSDangled from a rope of sand...Mon Dec 11 1995 14:5012
    
    .2104
    
    >So in the world of living together, we have about four out
    >of ten lying to their significant other...
    
    I heard on the radio the other day about a survey of married men in
    Italy.  The survey found that about two-thirds of them had cheated
    on their wives at least once.
    
    So in the world of marriage...
    
323.2114MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 14:5410
 ZZ   Jack, you mean you stated those things as fact, but you didn't know
 ZZ   they were?
    
    Glen, the datum is there.  I just don't know the exact numbers but I'm
    going to get them.  I got the fact from our beloved Dr. Brudnoy.  You
    know, the gay talk show host who is dying of AIDS??  You know, the guy
    I idolize while you don't like him. Yeah, that's the one.  See the base
    note.
    
    -Jack
323.2115MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 14:551
    Glen, see the base note of the Gay Issues topic, not this one!
323.2116MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 14:554
    Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
    that subjective relativism is a sham.
    
    -Jack
323.2117TROOA::COLLINSDangled from a rope of sand...Mon Dec 11 1995 15:023
    
    Oh, there's *definitely* a "sham" afoot.
    
323.2118BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 15:057
    RE: .2116  Jack Martin
    
    / Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
    / that subjective relativism is a sham.
    
    It proves the point that heterosexual marriage is no more stable than
    'living together' relationships by people of either sexual orientation.
323.2119BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 15:0612
| <<< Note 323.2116 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

| Yes, the marriage one is equally pathetic..which only proves my point
| that subjective relativism is a sham.

	Jack, it does not prove that. You'd have to look at the reasons why
they cheated, got divorced, etc. Several of those reasons has to do with the 2
people before they ever got married. Parents pushing their kids to get married,
2 people rushing into marriage, etc.


Glen
323.2120SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 15:0810
    
    re: .2106
    
    Oh to be the focus of the ever so curious!!!!
    
    Oh Joy.. oh joy!!!
    
    Am I then on my penultimate journey towards the land of "Those that
    Count"?????
    
323.2121PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 11 1995 15:138
    
>    Am I then on my penultimate journey towards the land of "Those that
>    Count"?????

    I wouldn't know, but you're definitely on the list of "Those who
    can't give a straight answer". ;>
    

323.2122DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomMon Dec 11 1995 15:2813
    
    re:.1988

    > 	In order for your theory to have even a small amount of validity
    > 	you would have to show that relations between the races, or between
    > 	men and women, or those amongst the various religions are worse
    > 	now than they were in 1964. I don't think you can do this. For
    > 	all the problems that we still have in these areas, we are light
    > 	years ahead of where we were 30 years ago.

    Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed 
    30 years ago?

323.2123ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 15:368
    What?  No one is questioning the source of these statistics?  I'm
    disappointed.  I never would have gotten one by that was from a group
    with a right-leaning name (like Focus on the Family, et-al).  8^)
    
    Where's Binder with his Curmudgeon dictionary telling us how worthless
    polls and statistics are?  
    
    I smell bias in boxland!!!   8^)  
323.2124CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusMon Dec 11 1995 16:088
    re .2122
    
    Oh sure, relations "looked" better when people "knew their place."  For
    me, I know more people who are different than I do, as I work with
    people, and live around people that I wouldn't have interfaced with on
    an equals basis 30 years ago.  
    
    meg
323.2125BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 16:1012
| <<< Note 323.2124 by CSC32::M_EVANS "cuddly as a cactus" >>>


| Oh sure, relations "looked" better when people "knew their place."  

	Meg, don't forget...."their place" was in the back seat of the car,
while the mens drove up front!




Glen
323.2126CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Mon Dec 11 1995 16:1210

>	Meg, don't forget...."their place" was in the back seat of the car,
>while the mens drove up front!


 you'd prefer they drove from the back?



323.2127SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment uescimur.Mon Dec 11 1995 16:157
    Passengers objecting to the manner in which this vehicle is operated
    will please note:
    
    1.  The controls are arranged so that the vehicle can be operated from
        the left front seat only.
    
    2.  There is a sprig of mistletoe attached to the driver's coattail.
323.2128MPGS::MARKEYNo thanks, I already don't have oneMon Dec 11 1995 16:175
    
    I tell you officer, her head is in my lap because she's napping,
    yeah, that's it, napping...
    
    -b
323.2129(One of my favorite Chevy Chase moments...)BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 16:326
    Chevy Chase in a phone call on the "news" set of Saturday Night Live
    (before noticing the camera was on him):
    
    	"Yes, I *do* think the truck driver saw you....
    
    	"No, I *don't* think he thought you were taking a nap."
323.2130WAHOO::LEVESQUEsmooth, fast, bright and playfulMon Dec 11 1995 16:391
     Same phone conversation: "No, honey, blow is just a term."
323.2131MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 17:2140
    Just spent 30 minutes on the phone with a man from the Children's
    Defense Fund.  Interesting revelations.
    
    First of all, I will say up front that Glen WILL NOT have the
    perverbial nail put in his coffin today.  However, the man stated that
    Brudnoy is correct in what he said.  However, Brudnoy looks at the
    problem from an Associational and not a Causal.  No one can determine
    what the causal is and here's why.
    
    In the late 1950's, women were more likely to become pregnant than they
    are today.  When a young man turned 16 or 17, and a job opened at the
    plant, his uncle, or dad would get him a job and he would drop out of
    school and work.  He would then get girlfriend pregnant.  Girlfriend
    would tell folks, folks would ask if they were going to marry, she says
    yes, parents arrange.  This was quite common.
    
    Actuality is young man is following his fathers footsteps today. 
    However, what was feasible for blue collared family of the 50's is not
    feasible today.  Job at the plant is not viable for raising a family. 
    What was feasible for middle/upper middle class is not for low class
    today.  Therefore, what is happening today is little Johnny is dropping
    out of school because he sees no benefit to finishing.  Johnny spends
    two to three years on street developing a felony record.  Johnny gets
    girlfriend pregnant.  Parent says to girlfriend, "Johnny has been in
    and out of jail last three years, we cannot afford to help raise
    child".  Girlfriend checks out other means, hence we have abortion or
    adoption.  
    
    Brudnoy and others leap from description to conclusion.  He sees
    pattern, thinks of explanations, hits talk button.  Same with Murray
    and "The Bell Curve".  
    
    So what I got out of this is poverty has an enormous impact, and I will
    concede this point.  However, I still believe there are holes in it. 
    Consider of course the rate of crime during the depression years to
    today.  And what of the causality.  Does poverty cause the family to
    erode or does the erosion of the family cause poverty.  He thought it
    was the former but I don't know!  
    
    -Jack 
323.2132BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 11 1995 17:4310
      <<< Note 323.2122 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>    Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed 
>    30 years ago?

	Significantly so.

Jim


323.2133SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 17:525
    
    >Significantly so.
    
    
    Bull!!! Too broad brush....
323.2134CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusMon Dec 11 1995 17:5418
    jack,
    
    I think that the corporate leadership has become so immoral in this
    country that it tends to spread down-ward.  Kind of the trickle-down
    theory in action.  Gone are the CEO's that believe that their own
    workers should be able to afford their products, as well as a decent
    standard of living.  Now we have companies that will job out to 3rd
    world nation contractors that don't even pay a living wage in that part
    of the world, and yet sell the items in the US for many times the cost
    of the labor, and we have a congress that has been willing to give
    corporations tax breaks to subsidize this.  
    
    The oldest Day-care facility in C Springs was founded and staffed by
    the upper-class matrons who volunteered their time in the center. one
    day a week so their staff knew that their children were well-cared for. 
    wonder how many people are willing to do this today.
    
    meg
323.2135MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 17:559
    Jim:
    
    An alarming statistic showed that many black youth believe AIDS was
    propogated by whitey to bring about genocide toward blacks.
    
    I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's.  However, I believe
    racism is very powerful today from both sides.
    
    =Jack
323.2136ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 18:00108
    Since I have been requested to respond to this note, I will.   It's a
    few days old now (and many notes ago).  8^)
    
    RE: .2029
    
   > > Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct 
   > > parameter in which we should define a group of people.  

>    Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.

    We don't.  Only due to homosexual activism, has the term "heterosexual"
    really gained mainstream use in our everyday lives.  This, in itself,
    is one of the great word-engineering feats of this agenda, IMO.  By
    turning normal relations into an "orientation", it tries to equalize
    the playing field in both legalities and morality.
    
    Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all; only those 
    "orientations" that go against the established norm are in need of being 
    identified specifically.
    
>    Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
>    more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex?  For example, 
>    the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
>    that relied on tradition and religious dogma...
    
    There is no religious dogma (at least nothing in the Bible) that suggests
    we should be able to enslave people based on their color, or to opress
    people due to their gender.  
    
    The scriptures have been abused throughout history in ways such as
    these.  Sexual orientation does not fall under the same umbrella,
    however, as scripures do indeed condemn homosexual sex.  It also only
    acknowledges marriage as being one man and one woman- not two men and
    not two women.  This is not a misinterpretation, but a consistent
    teaching of the church since day one.
    
>    To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
>    to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
>    impact on members of that society?  Is it enough to just *say*
>    "I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?

    Yes, it should.  It has been wrong in the past (slavery, for one), by
    not adequately following the dogma that made up said "morality".  If we
    are going to follow our traditional base, we must make sure that we are
    accurate in our interpretations of it.
    
    It isn't at all about adversely impacting an identifyable group of 
    citizens (as you assert above), it is a moral issue regarding family 
    and proper relations.  
    
    As society removes its historical morality, this will- sooner or later- 
    become a non-issue.  Not that many folk won't feel that something is
    "wrong" with it, but that as we lose our moral base, we cannot claim
    any universal morality that would defend these feelings.  As the Bible
    loses all authority in the lives of most Americans, it is little
    surprise that the moral issues involved are scoffed at, and little
    surpise that those who will not conform are labelled as 'intollerant',
    'bigots', 'homophobes', etc.  
    
    As far as being adversely affected, how about pedophiles?
    Those with this orientation are most certainly adversely affected by 
    marriage laws and 'age of consent' laws (with regards to sex), but this 
    is acceptable and proper limitation.  As citizens, they enjoy
    the freedom guaranteed by the Constitution, but do not enjoy the freedom
    to engage in their particular sexual orientation.    
    
>    Steve, it isn't that people cannot see your parallel.  You seem unable
>    to understand that people are *rejecting* your parallel.  
    
    There was never any doubt as to this.  However, the reasons given had to
    do with "victim" (in the case of the pedophile) and "consenting adults"
    (in the case of gays)- neither of which had anything to do with the
    parallel itself.  This suggests to me that the parallel was not
    fully understood. 
    
>    I, for one,
>    do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to 
>    pedophilia.  You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
>    as just another type of person who does things we don't like.  
    
    The parallel had nothing to do with pedophiles.  It had to
    do with societal morality.  The example of pedophilia was an easy
    subject to use, since it is something we all can agree on to be immoral.
    
>    If this
>    is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
>    miscegenation?  People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with 
>    the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
>    historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.

    Using 'miscegenation' would render the parallel useless, as it is not a
    moral issue.  The church never taught that marrying someone of another
    race was immoral.  Society may have taken a dim view of this at one
    time, but this is not an issue of morality (in itself).  
    
>    I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions 
>    with facts and objective logic.  That you (and society) provide reasons
>    for your beliefs and behavior.  
    
    I feel that it is the duty of those seeking change to back up their
    reasoning behind steering America away from its traditional morality, to
    think of what they are doing (beyond their own sense of personal
    interest).  Is it really good for the nation as a whole?  Why?  If not, 
    then isn't it really selfish to try and change America to suit your
    agenda?
    
    
    -steve                     
323.2137BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 18:036
| <<< Note 323.2133 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>


| Bull!!! Too broad brush....

	How does a broad brush? ;-)
323.2138BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 18:0511
| <<< Note 323.2135 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's.  However, I believe
| racism is very powerful today from both sides.

	Insert the word, "all" in place of "both", and I believe Jack has said 
something I could agree with. 


Glen
323.2139BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 18:1117
| <<< Note 323.2136 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>


	I'll let Greg respond to much of what you wrote here, cuz he asked you
for the info. But some things stuck out pretty bad:

| Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all; 

	Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion, right handed, brunette,
overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
sounds.




Glen
323.2140BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 11 1995 18:119
 <<< Note 323.2133 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>

>    Bull!!! Too broad brush....

	Really? Look at the news tonight ans tell me how many cities are
	burning, how many civil rights workers have been killed today,
	how many Black churches were burned last night.

Jim
323.2141BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 11 1995 18:2412
      <<< Note 323.2135 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>

>    I believe racism is less overt than in the 60's.  However, I believe
>    racism is very powerful today from both sides.
 
Jack,	If you go back you'll notice that I did not claim that racism
	was better, only that relations between the races had improved.
	Even this is not required to prove Dan's statement false, only
	that those relations had not gotten any worse. This latter
	assertion is obvious.

Jim
323.2142SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 18:3911
    
    re: .2140
    
    >Really?
    
    Yeah... really...
    
    Not where I grew up... and that's why I said it was too broad brush...
    
    YMMV....
    
323.2143MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 18:4118
    Jim, thanks for clearing that up.
    
    Meg, regarding your comments about big business.  I think you
    understand this since you are a proponent of freedom.  While I agree
    with you regarding corporate responsibility and the like, I still
    maintain that corporations are in no way obliged to have a heart.  I
    believe it is in their best interest and in the interest of the economy
    and the society to have one; however at the same time I find
    governments subtle attempts at social engineering by exploiting the
    private sector to be...most disgusting.  I would rather have stingy
    businesses and have government keep it's nose out.  I believe coersion
    of business needs to be brought forth by the people through boycotts
    and the like.  I see government as a meddling whore.  A necessary evil
    at times but a whore nonetheless.
    
    Support our troops!
    
    -Jack
323.2144PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 11 1995 18:445
>    Not where I grew up... and that's why I said it was too broad brush...

	you might have noticed that the question Jim was answering was
	in regard to race relations in general.  how could his answer
	_not_ have been too "broad brush" for you?
323.2145CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusMon Dec 11 1995 18:4519
    
    
    Information taken from "Science News" December 2, 1995 Vol 148, no 23
    pg 380.
    
    Researches have known for sometime that babies infected with HIV at
    birth suffer many hert abnormalities.  Now it appers that simply being
    exposed to HIV in utero, may contribute to developmental heart
    problems.  
    
    A Study done by Harvard Medical School on 414 infamints born to HIV
    infectoed mothers found that 12 % of infants suffered from heart
    abnormalities, including heart wall defects, valve defects and poor
    pumping function.  These defects show up in 0.8% of the general
    population.  
    
    Researchers aren't claiming that hiv exposure alone causes the defects,
    as hiv+ pregnant women often have drug, alcohol and nutrition problems
    that can interfere with heart deveolpment.  
323.2146SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 18:467
    
    
    re: .2144
    
    really??  "Significantly so" did not give me that impression...
    
    Your mileage may vary...
323.2147MPGS::MARKEYI'm feeling ANSI and ISOlatedMon Dec 11 1995 18:4910
    
    If anything, racism has taken an underground, and decidedly
    nastier, turn. In the 60s, at least we knew who the yahoos
    with the sheets were. Now? Who knows? A neighbor, who I've 
    trusted for years, upon hearing that my house was for
    sale, said "please don't sell to any niggers or spics..."
    Apparently, the look on my face said it all as he quickly
    back-pedaled into "just kidding... blah blah blah..."

    -b
323.2148PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Dec 11 1995 18:504
 .2146  >    really??  "Significantly so" did not give me that impression...

          oy.  "significantly so" didn't give you _what_ impression?
	  you didn't know he was talking about race relations in general?
323.2149NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Dec 11 1995 18:514
re .2147:

I don't disagree with your premise, but I don't think your neighbor would
have worn sheets in the '60s.
323.2150MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 18:5334
        (snip)
    
        75% of women and 82% of men ALWAYS live with their partner.
        91% of women and 63% of men have a sexual agreement with their
        partner for a monogamous relationship.
        90% of women and 63% of men NEVER break the above agreement.
        93% of women and 62% of men are NOT at risk for AIDS
    
        (snip)

   	"...ALWAYS live with their partner" is meaningless.  How long
    	does this partnership last?  If the partnership ever breaks up,
    	then THAT is the equivalent of divorce.  Chances are that there
    	is an implied clause of "for the duration of the relationship",
    	which makes this particular factiod rather impotent.

    	"...agreement ... for a monogamous relationship."  --  what is
    	the definition of monogamy?  I'd be willing to bet my monthly
    	salary that it just means one partner at a time, which would
    	therefore include serial monogamy, which would be considered
    	promiscuous by quite a few people.

    	"... NEVER break the agreement..."  Again I would bet my salary
    	that this statement implies an additional clause of "for the
    	duration of the relationship."

    	"... 62% of [gay] men are NOT at risk for AIDS"  I'd be curious
    	to see what % of het men are not at risk for AIDS.  Frankly, I
    	don't consider this a number to crow about.  More than a third
    	of all gay males (38%) are at risk.

    	And, of course, I wonder why Glen isn't asking for these stats
    	to be considered globally...  (I assume that these are USA stats.)

323.2151CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusMon Dec 11 1995 18:589
    There were plenty of people who felt the same way in the 60's as your
    neighbor who didn't wear white sheets.  Instead they relied on
    covenents and deed restrictions to keep people out of "their"
    neighborhoods, and when that failed, moved out en masse or tried
    intimidation techniques to get the offending race or religion out of
    the neighborhood.  I haven't hear the term "blockbusting" in anything
    but history books and old fiction for the last 10 years.
    
    meg
323.2152MPGS::MARKEYI'm feeling ANSI and ISOlatedMon Dec 11 1995 18:598
    > I don't disagree with your premise, but I don't think your neighbor would
    > have worn sheets in the '60s.

    I was using the sheets as a metaphor. My point was, I would
    probably have found out that my neighbor had some, shall
    we say, prejudices, before 9 years had passed...

    -b
323.2153SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Mon Dec 11 1995 19:005
    re: .2151
    
    And "There were plenty of people" who lived with their neighbors of
    every stripe in peace and harmony throughout the nation...
    
323.2154BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 19:5820

	Jack, what you continue to not see is that whether you got a piece of
paper that says you are married, or you are in a relationship without it, both
are only going to last as long as the two people allow it. If both do what they
need to do, the relationship will be a life long one, with or without a piece
of paper. If a couple is not going to put what is needed into it, then it is
going to fail at some point, with or without the piece of paper.

	You want to call it serial monogamy? Fine. But don't let a piece of
paper stand in your way from calling it the same thing for hetrosexuals. A
relationship will work, when you have two people committed to each other. A
piece of paper ain't gonna make a hill of beans.... oh wait... it will. That
piece of paper will keep many couples together who are miserable in each others
company. Cuz they don't want to give up part of their paycheck, house, etc.
Commitment ain't a piece of paper, it is a hell of a lot of work.



Glen
323.2155MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 20:0621
 Z   That piece of paper will keep many couples together who are miserable in
 Z   each others
 Z   company. Cuz they don't want to give up part of their paycheck, house,
 Z   etc.  Commitment ain't a piece of paper, it is a hell of a lot of work.
    
    Damn straight.  It keeps one from taking the easy way out.  I get
    annoyed at the lack of vision in the world today.  When people go up to
    the alter, they seem to fail to count the cost.  This is what vows are
    all about Glen.  Before you ever take the vow, ask yourself the
    question.  Would you be willing to give your very life for your spouse?
    Jesus would, and did.  This is why he calls his church the bride.  The
    world doesn't understand this because they make decisions and look at
    thing tacticly instead of strategically.  Hence they expect instant
    gratification and hapily ever after.  You use the term "piece of
    paper".  I see this as the worlds definition of marriage.  I see the
    proper definition as a vow.  Simplistic enough?  Perhaps.  I see the
    vow as encompassing much...like honor, caring, love, communication,
    tenderness, and sacrifice.  If one is miserable and communication
    breaks down, the vow is kept by law, but not by the spirit!
    
    -Jack
323.2156BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 20:1539
| <<< Note 323.2155 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Damn straight.  It keeps one from taking the easy way out.  

	Jack, the piece of paper is NOT a form of comittment other than forced,
if the two parties aren't able to give what it takes. People get married for
the wrong reasons many a time, and they should not be together if they can not
work out their differences. That would be like you and Schroeder being married,
and trying to work out your differences. It would be foolish. 

	A commitment is something that takes a begining, and is carried out
til the end. You can't FORCE it. At least not if you expect it to work.

| I get annoyed at the lack of vision in the world today.  When people go up to
| the alter, they seem to fail to count the cost.  

	More than vows, Jack.... the vows will outline the committment
parameters, but the vows won't make committment happen. 

	But seeing you're caught up in the vows thang, any two people can take
the same vows. They don't need to be married for that to happen. But vows won't
make a committment. Hard work will.

| Before you ever take the vow, ask yourself the question. Would you be willing 
| to give your very life for your spouse?

	Then it would appear the vows are useless, aren't they?

| You use the term "piece of paper". I see this as the worlds definition of 
| marriage.  

	That's why you can't see why marriages aren't lasting. You keep looking
at that piece of paper like it is going to do something magical. It ain't. But
hard work will.



Glen
323.2157ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Dec 11 1995 20:1620
    re: .2139
    
| Heterosexuality, as the norm, does not NEED a label at all; 

>	Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion,  right handed, brunette,
>overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
>norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
>sounds.
    
    Out of your whole list, "right handed" and "American" are the only real 
    norms currently in this nation; though it would be silly to do away
    with American, as we are not the norm for the world.  We could very
    well do without "right-handed", though.  
     
    Now, if you'd be so kind as to address the actual point I was making,
    rather than deflecting it with silliness, I'd be very appreciative. 
    
    
    
    -steve
323.2158DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomMon Dec 11 1995 20:2515
    
    re:.2132
> >    Are you saying that we have greater racial harmony today than existed 
> >    30 years ago?
> 
> 	Significantly so.

    hhhmmm.... LA riots ring a bell?  How about the Simpson verdict?
    I suggest you walk around in "Kennedy country" for a little bit, and
    see how well received you are.  Or have a black guy walk around in
    Lynnfield, Swampscott, Marble Head or any of a dozen other exclusive
    communities and see how they are treated.  You may have greater racial
    harmony where you are, but trust me buddy, it ain't obvious 'round
    here.

323.2159TALLIS::SCHULERGreg, DTN 227-4165Mon Dec 11 1995 20:30173
    RE: .2136 by ACISS2::LEECH
    
>   > > Defining oneself by one's sexual attractions, is not a correct 
>   > > parameter in which we should define a group of people.  
>
>    Well then, I think straight America ought to stop doing this.
>
>    We don't. Only due to homosexual activism, has the term "heterosexual"
>    really gained mainstream use in our everyday lives....

     I meant straight America ought to stop defining gay people by
     their sexual attractions.   The paragraph that followed the one you
     quoted should have clued you in.  Gay people have been and continue to
     be attacked based on our sexual attractions.  We are attacked in the
     fund raising appeals sent out by conservative religious organizations.
     We are attacked in congress by "distinguished" senators railing on 
     about "damned lesbians" in the executive branch.  We are attacked by
     teen-aged boys who's idea of a fun evening is to go to the "queer"
     areas of town looking for some "fags" to beat up on.

     You seemed to have been arguing that gay people are the ones to blame.  
     That, all of a sudden apparently, we loudly identified ourselves to 
     society and that how we have been/are treated is a *reaction* to this 
     announcement.  If that is your position, I think it is in error.

>>    Can you explain why this moral belief should be followed any
>>    more than past "moral" beliefs about race & sex?  For example, 
>>    the defense of slavery and the arguments against women's suffrage
>>    that relied on tradition and religious dogma...
>    
>    There is no religious dogma (at least nothing in the Bible) that suggests
>    we should be able to enslave people based on their color, or to opress
>    people due to their gender.  

     Hmm - seems to me one would have to ignore volumes of human history
     to make a statement like that.  

>>    The scriptures have been abused throughout history in ways such as
>>    these.  Sexual orientation does not fall under the same umbrella,
>>    however, as scripures do indeed condemn homosexual sex.  It also only
>>    acknowledges marriage as being one man and one woman- not two men and
>>    not two women.  This is not a misinterpretation, but a consistent
>>    teaching of the church since day one.

     One hundred years ago I could probably have said that it has been
     the consistent teaching of the church since day one that women are
     to be silent in church and are to submit to the will of their husbands -
     which in turn meant that in the larger society, women were to be 
     silent in matters of official state business (e.g. no right to vote)
     and were subject to rampant abuse on the part of husbands and fathers.

>>    To put this another way, do you think society has any obligation
>>    to *defend* its "moral" beliefs if those beliefs have an adverse
>>    impact on members of that society?  Is it enough to just *say*
>>    "I think homosexual acts are immoral." and not provide any reasons?
>
>    Yes, it should.  It has been wrong in the past (slavery, for one), by
>    not adequately following the dogma that made up said "morality".  If we
>    are going to follow our traditional base, we must make sure that we are
>    accurate in our interpretations of it.

     And so, now, finally, after two-thousand years, you have it right?
     The interpretation is correct?  There will be no more mistaken
     interpretations?  No more abuses?  

     And what about my question about *reasons* to support this "moral"
     belief.  I ask again, is it enough to just say that this is your
     belief (because of the Bible)?

     Finally, suppose you do have the right interpretation.  Since when
     are members of a free and democratic society required to adhere to
     the laws of the Bible?  
    
>    It isn't at all about adversely impacting an identifyable group of 
>    citizens (as you assert above), it is a moral issue regarding family 
>    and proper relations.  

     Hmm - so you just assert that it isn't about adverse impact on others
     and that makes it so?  Sorry.  That just won't cut it.  You're going
     to have to explain why I should just ignore the effects of your
     morality on other people.

>    As society removes its historical morality, this will- sooner or later- 
>    become a non-issue.  Not that many folk won't feel that something is
>    "wrong" with it, but that as we lose our moral base, we cannot claim
>    any universal morality that would defend these feelings.  As the Bible
>    loses all authority in the lives of most Americans, it is little
>    surprise that the moral issues involved are scoffed at, and little
>    surpise that those who will not conform are labelled as 'intollerant',
>    'bigots', 'homophobes', etc.  

     Steve, did it ever occur to you that some "moral standards" have been
     challenged on the grounds that they lack a substantive base of logic 
     or reason?  That maybe the standards came to be scoffed at because
     every time they were challenged intellectually the institutional 
     response was to turn red in the face and refuse to discuss the subject?

     You have *still* failed to provide any rational basis for the
     belief that homosexuality is immoral.  Simply stating that there are
     thousands of years of tradition and doctrine behind you does not add 
     up to the presentation of a rational argument.  All you've done is 
     present an appeal to authority.  Why should I submit to such a logical 
     fallacy?

>    As far as being adversely affected, how about pedophiles?
>    Those with this orientation are most certainly adversely affected by 
>    marriage laws and 'age of consent' laws (with regards to sex), but this 
>    is acceptable and proper limitation.  As citizens, they enjoy
>    the freedom guaranteed by the Constitution, but do not enjoy the freedom
>    to engage in their particular sexual orientation.    
    
     Once again you would have us ignore the very REASONS why we find
     pedophilia abhorrent (the physical and emotional scarring of innocent
     children - the direct violation of the rights of those children).  

     This is NOT an effective analogy.


>>    I, for one,
>>    do not believe you can ignore the reasons why people object to 
>>    pedophilia.  You are asking us to think of the pedophile in the abstract,
>>    as just another type of person who does things we don't like.  
>    
>    The parallel had nothing to do with pedophiles.  It had to
>    do with societal morality.  The example of pedophilia was an easy
>    subject to use, since it is something we all can agree on to be immoral.

      Huh?  What do you think the sentence "You are asking us to think of the
      pedophile in the abstract, as just another type of person who does 
      things we don't like." means?   The point is that, regardless of
      your example, you have to go beyond the simple statement that
      person A or activity B is immoral.  You have to address the *WHY*.


>>    If this
>>    is the "logic" you want to use, why not replace pedophilia with
>>    miscegenation?  People use to object to seeing mixed-race couples with 
>>    the same mixture of gut revulsion and patronizing Juedo-Christian
>>    historical mumbo jumbo used to attack gays.
>
>    Using 'miscegenation' would render the parallel useless, as it is not a
>    moral issue.  The church never taught that marrying someone of another
>    race was immoral.  Society may have taken a dim view of this at one
>    time, but this is not an issue of morality (in itself).  

    The parallel had nothing to do with miscegenation.  It had to
    do with societal morality.  The example of miscegenation was an easy
    subject to use, since it is something that was considered immoral 
    (or, at the very least, disgusting and deviant) by society.


>>    I'm asking that you go deeper. That you support your moral assertions 
>>    with facts and objective logic.  That you (and society) provide reasons
>>    for your beliefs and behavior.  
>    
>    I feel that it is the duty of those seeking change to back up their
>    reasoning behind steering America away from its traditional morality, to
>    think of what they are doing (beyond their own sense of personal
>    interest).  Is it really good for the nation as a whole?  Why?  If not, 
>    then isn't it really selfish to try and change America to suit your
>    agenda?


      I don't think that justifying the treatment of individual American 
      citizens based solely on some words in an ancient religious text is 
      good for America.  I think blind adherence to *any* standard, viewpoint 
      or belief is dangerous and bad for America.  I think continued progress 
      towards a "more perfect Union" requires that we make certain *all*
      Americans are free to claim their rights to Life, Liberty and the 
      Pursuit of Happiness.

	/Greg

323.2160BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 11 1995 20:3239
| <<< Note 323.2157 by ACISS2::LEECH "Dia do bheatha." >>>

| >	Then in the USA, we don't need caucasion,  right handed, brunette,
| >overweight, American, Ford, IBM, Christian, God, etc.... cuz these are all the
| >norms, so they do not need a label. That's how ridiculous your above line
| >sounds.

| Out of your whole list, "right handed" and "American" are the only real norms 
| currently in this nation; 

	Steve, why is it on tv that they say most Amer... of us are overweight?
Ford is the #1 car company, so their cars are the norm. IBM is the #1 computer
company, so they are the norm. You have stated that the majority of people in
this country claim to be Christian, so that makes them the norm. So that would
also have to mean that the majority of people believe in God, so that makes Him
the norm. So we don't need to weigh these things down with labels, cuz they are
all the norms.

| though it would be silly to do away with American, as we are not the norm for 
| the world.  

	Steve, reread what I wrote. I said in the USA we can do away with these
things. So let's do away with them, ok?

| We could very well do without "right-handed", though.

	Then you have to either see that we do away with the others, or your
logic is severly flawed.

| Now, if you'd be so kind as to address the actual point I was making,
| rather than deflecting it with silliness, I'd be very appreciative.

	It is silliness, isn't it? And it does address your point. You don't
feel there should be a label for heterosexuals, cuz they are the norm. Well
with THAT logic, we can do away with so much more. So if you're game, I am too!



Glen
323.2161BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROMon Dec 11 1995 20:3311
      <<< Note 323.2158 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

>    hhhmmm.... LA riots ring a bell?  How about the Simpson verdict?

	One city Dan. Care to count the number of cities that were
	burning 30 years ago?

	Please note that "better" does not equal "good". Race relations
	ARE better than they were 30 years ago. They are still not "good".

Jim
323.2162BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 20:383
    RE: .2159  /Greg
    
    Excellent note!!
323.2163MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 20:4815
Z    That's why you can't see why marriages aren't lasting. You keep looking
Z    at that piece of paper like it is going to do something magical. It
Z    ain't. But hard work will.
    
    That's what I said, I thought.  Didn't I say that people are taking
    vows blindly, not realizing there is a cost?  Didn't I say that having
    a piece of paper without the characteristics, i.e. love, communication,
    etc. keeping the vow by the letter but not by the spirit?  So
    therefore, you and I are in consensus.
    
    All I'm saying is selfishness, self centeredness and immaturity seem to
    spermeate our society today and therefore, the term of marriage in the
    worlds eyes are lowered to being a piece of paper.  
    
    -Jack
323.2164BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 20:5314
    The major flaw in the way some people think of gay people is that they
    think gay == { x, y, z sexual acts }, almost as if it's impossible for
    a gay man, lesbian or bisexual man or woman to be a virgin or celibate.

    So heterosexual == { virgin, celibate, married, sexually active or 
    promiscuous, but give 'em the benefit of the doubt if you don't know }, 
    but gay == { 'I KNOW what you do and I'm mad about it', even though this 
    person has as little idea what an individual gay person does as what 
    individual heterosexual people do in the privacy of their own sex lives. }

    That's why some people can only think of sex when they hear someone is
    gay, yet they DON'T think of sex when it's clear that someone is not gay.

    It's a double standard and quite clearly _wrong_ to do this.
323.2165DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Mon Dec 11 1995 20:531
    Question: Is masturbation a homosexual act?
323.2166If so, it sure changes the hell out of the het/gay ratio...BSS::S_CONLONA Season of CarneliansMon Dec 11 1995 20:543
    Good question.
    
    Considering that only one sex is involved in this act, I'd say 'YES'.
323.2167MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalMon Dec 11 1995 20:5851
Glen:

Z Jack, what you continue to not see is that whether you got a piece of
Z paper that says you are married, or you are in a relationship without it, both
Z are only going to last as long as the two people allow it. If both do what they
Z need to do, the relationship will be a life long one, with or without a piece
Z of paper. If a couple is not going to put what is needed into it, then it is
Z going to fail at some point, with or without the piece of paper.

  	Seeing you write this, I can only wonder about why gays are
    	so hot for being able to have that "useless piece of paper."

    	And Glen, you clearly missed the enitre point of the posting.

    	Under the anti-moral model of serial monogamy, there is no 
    	statistical cost to that lifestyle, but under the marriage 
    	model, each change in monogamous partnership chalks up another 
    	statistical divorce.

    	When people were trying to imply, "Look - these statistics
    	show that gays are more committed than married hets" they were
    	comparing apples and oranges.

    	Serial monogamy - whether gay or het - is fraught with risk,
    	and it necessarily implies broken relationships and the baggage
    	inherent with such brokenness.  (And don't try to convince me
    	that it does not NECESSARILY imply broken relationships, for
    	people are talking about truly long-term, committed, monogamy.
    	If one can simply walk away from such a relationship without
    	pain or loss, we have to question what sort of "commitment" it
    	really involved...)

    	And what RISK does serial monogamy involve?  Switching partners -
    	no matter how long it's been since the last one or how long that
    	new partner will be with you - still means that you are being
    	exposed to all the past sexual history of each new partner, as
    	well as all the past partners of that partner, and so on.  It
    	doesn't matter if you have 4 partners in one day or 4 partners
    	over the course of 10 years.  Their sexual history doesn't change
    	because of your intentions with them.

    	So pointing out that hets cheat on their spouses, or get divorces,
    	or practice serial monogamy doesn't amount to a hill of beans.
    	And it doesn't change the statistical impotency of what was posted
    	in .2089 because those stats are for totally undefined parameters,
    	and it may very well be that the lack of definition was by design
    	to obfuscate.  Regardless of design, it appears that many have
    	fallen victim to the fuzzy definitions.


323.2168HIGHD::FLATMANGive2TheMegan&amp;KennethCollegeFundMon Dec 11 1995 21:5313
>        -< If so, it sure changes the hell out of the het/gay ratio... >-
>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>    Good question.
>    
>    Considering that only one sex is involved in this act, I'd say 'YES'.

    Yes, only if you want to change the definition of the term from its
    common usage.  It would depend on the "fantasy" involved during the
    act.

    IMBHO,

    -- Dave
323.2169ASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereMon Dec 11 1995 22:0514
    re: serial monogamy is "amoral"
    
    Properly married heterosexual couple has two small children.  One
    spouse is killed in an auto accident.  Remaining spouse should now
    never remarry?  (Corrolary:  If spouse doesn't remarry will children be
    damaged by not having a male and female role model?)
    
    Properly married couple #2.  One spouse runs off, requests divorce. 
    Remaining spouse must now remain chaste for the rest of his/her life,
    even though he/she remained true to the wedding vows?
    
    Do tell, Jack.
    
    Lisa
323.2170GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERRIP Amos, you will be missedTue Dec 12 1995 09:239
    
    AIDS discussion people, AIDS discussion!!!!!!  There is a topic for 
    discussing homosexuality.  AIDS and homosexuality are not synonymous
    although many people in here seem to think so.
    
    
    Mike
    
    
323.2171BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 12 1995 11:4123
| <<< Note 323.2163 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| That's what I said, I thought. Didn't I say that people are taking vows 
| blindly, not realizing there is a cost? Didn't I say that having a piece of 
| paper without the characteristics, i.e. love, communication, etc. keeping the 
| vow by the letter but not by the spirit? So therefore, you and I are in 
| consensus.

	No, we aren't. Reason being is you said earlier that the piece of paper
will keep two people working harder, when someone who doesn't have one, won't
work as hard. As long as you think that way, then you have lost sight of
reality. 

| All I'm saying is selfishness, self centeredness and immaturity seem to
| spermeate our society today and therefore, the term of marriage in the
| worlds eyes are lowered to being a piece of paper.

	Errrr..... cuz that's what it is. Let me ask you. When did the piece of
paper come into play? Do you know?


Glen
323.2172BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 12 1995 11:4216
| <<< Note 323.2165 by DASHER::RALSTON "screwiti'mgoinhome.." >>>

| Question: Is masturbation a homosexual act?


	Masturbation is a homosexual act.





	It is also a heterosexual one as well. :-)



Glen
323.2173SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Tue Dec 12 1995 11:498
    
    re: .2161
    
    enlighten us Jim...
    
    I count three... Watts, Detroit and Newark... and if I recall, it was
    mostly black on black (neighborhoods)...
    
323.2174BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 12 1995 11:5654
| <<< Note 323.2167 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "I press on toward the goal" >>>


| Seeing you write this, I can only wonder about why gays are so hot for being 
| able to have that "useless piece of paper."

	Easy, Jack. For some they want what goes with it, so they can be
protected. For others, the piece of paper is a SYMBOL of their committment. But
the actual committment comes from hard work.

| When people were trying to imply, "Look - these statistics show that gays are 
| more committed than married hets" they were comparing apples and oranges.

	Jack, I agree with the above. I also view that if people weren't
pressured into thinking they had to get married and have 2.5 kids, then 
the divorce rate would drop dramatically. So wouldn't the marriage rate.
Don't you think?

| Serial monogamy - whether gay or het - is fraught with risk, and it 
| necessarily implies broken relationships and the baggage inherent with 
| such brokenness.  (And don't try to convince me that it does not NECESSARILY 
| imply broken relationships, for people are talking about truly long-term, 
| committed, monogamy. If one can simply walk away from such a relationship 
| without pain or loss, we have to question what sort of "commitment" it
| really involved...)

	Jack, you have implied above that if someone does the serial monogamy
thing, that they walk away without pain or loss. IF, and only IF this is true,
then you can wonder about the committment. But I'm not sure if you're trying to
lump everyone into that catagory or not. I hope not, as you would be wrong. The
other factor is one of the 2 people can be putting in most/all of the work,
trying to keep it together. In their minds they think there is a good
relationship, but in the end, it was really one person doing most of the work.
Of course all these things come into play with heterosexual marriages, as well.

| And what RISK does serial monogamy involve?  Switching partners - no matter 
| how long it's been since the last one or how long that new partner will be 
| with you - still means that you are being exposed to all the past sexual 
| history of each new partner, as well as all the past partners of that partner,
| and so on.  

	Jack, do you even know what you're talking about? You talk like one
relationship ends, they're off sleeping with someone else, no big deal. While
you will have people who do this, I believe those are the people who didn't
feel a loss. You will NOT be exposed to anyone's past if you KNOW your partner's
status beforehand. Plain and simple. If both people do not have HIV/AIDS,
STD's, etc, then no one is at risk for anything. 

	I think what you have done is take what has been said about one night 
stands/unsafe sex, and apply it to what happens after a relationship ends. It 
doesn't apply to that. It only applies to one night stands/unsafe sex.


Glen
323.2175CSLALL::HENDERSONFriend, will you be ready?Tue Dec 12 1995 12:0815


> So wouldn't the marriage rate.



  Speak English, will ya?! What the heck does "so wouldn't" mean?  Sheesh..last
 night I was in a large national retail establishment and the woman behind
 the counter was saying "so don't I" and "so wouldn't this or that"..drove 
 me nuts..



 
323.2176SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Tue Dec 12 1995 12:137
    <----
    
    I want to slap these people upside the head!!!
    
    Those that I know, when they do this, get an ear-full each and
    everytime!!
    
323.2177BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 12 1995 12:3112
 <<< Note 323.2173 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>

    
>    I count three... Watts, Detroit and Newark... and if I recall, it was
>    mostly black on black (neighborhoods)...
 
	Well, you can add Cleveland and Akron for starters. I can remember
	sitting by the scanner listening to the mayhem.

Jim
   

323.2178SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Tue Dec 12 1995 13:037
    
    
    re: Cleveland and Akron
    
    What happened there? Was it as extensive as the others? I don't recall
    hearing about these places "going up in flames"...
    
323.2179CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusTue Dec 12 1995 13:582
    Add in Chicago and Philedelphia, and i believe, Atlanta, smaller, but
    riots none the less.  
323.2180NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Dec 12 1995 14:052
Watts, Detroit and Newark were the biggest, but there were lots of smaller
race riots.  Wasn't there also one in Gary, Indiana?
323.2181MKOTS3::JMARTINI press on toward the goalTue Dec 12 1995 14:077
    We bought our parents a book called "The Front Page".  It had all the
    pertinent front pages of the NY Times since the Lindberg Kidnapping.
    I believe the first page was, "Warren Harding Dies in Sleep".
    
    Anyway, when MLK was assassinated, the headline said, "Martin Luther
    King Assassinated in Memphis.  National Guard Called in Chicago,
    Detroit, Boston.  President Urges Calm".
323.2182DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Tue Dec 12 1995 14:513
    Rochester and Buffalo, New York had very big riots during that time. I
    lived in a small town outside of Rochester and remember it being on the
    TV News, what seems like all day long.
323.2183NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Dec 12 1995 14:541
Rochester rioted because Mr. Benny mistreated him.
323.2184BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 12 1995 15:001
<---I must be old... I understood that one. :-)  Very funny!
323.2185:)DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Tue Dec 12 1995 15:011
         
323.2186DEVLPR::DKILLORANNo Compromise on FreedomTue Dec 12 1995 15:0813
    
    re:.2161

    > Race relations ARE better than they were 30 years ago.

    On this we will never agree.  You and I see different things
    completely.  Everyday I hear more and more about how divided this
    country is by race.  I see more and more examples of racial hatred. 
    White cops beat black man.  Blacks riot in the streets.  Blacks beat up
    Hispanics, Hispanics come back and stab several blacks, etc, etc, etc...

    This does not indicate to me that race relations are getting better.

323.2187BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 12 1995 15:5810
 <<< Note 323.2178 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "Rhubarb... celery gone bloodshot." >>>

>    What happened there? Was it as extensive as the others? I don't recall
>    hearing about these places "going up in flames"...
 
	Same as LA, etc.

Jim
   

323.2188BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 12 1995 16:0117
      <<< Note 323.2186 by DEVLPR::DKILLORAN "No Compromise on Freedom" >>>

    
>    On this we will never agree.  You and I see different things
>    completely.  Everyday I hear more and more about how divided this
>    country is by race.  I see more and more examples of racial hatred. 
>    White cops beat black man.  Blacks riot in the streets.  Blacks beat up
>    Hispanics, Hispanics come back and stab several blacks, etc, etc, etc...

>    This does not indicate to me that race relations are getting better.

Dan, 	You are dealing with the last few years. My statement is about the
	difference between 30 years ago and today.

Jim


323.2189TINCUP::AGUEhttp://www.usa.net/~agueWed Dec 13 1995 13:006
    RE: "perverbial nail put in his coffin ...", over and over again
    
    This cliche has been misspelled too many times to ignore any longer. 
    The word is PROVERBIAL, like the book in the Bible.
    
    -- Jim
323.2190TROOA::COLLINSSparky DoobsterWed Dec 13 1995 13:083
    
    He's had all he can stands, he can't stands no more...
    
323.2191CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Dec 15 1995 22:366
    A bone marrow transfusion from a Baboon to  human has been performed in
    an attempt to give the patient a fighting chance against AIDS. 
    Apparently Babboons are imune to HIV and the marrow is close enough to
    humans to make this worth a shot.
    
    
323.2192BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROSat Dec 16 1995 14:3623
          <<< Note 323.2191 by CSC32::M_EVANS "cuddly as a cactus" >>>

>    A bone marrow transfusion from a Baboon to  human has been performed in
>    an attempt to give the patient a fighting chance against AIDS. 
>    Apparently Babboons are imune to HIV and the marrow is close enough to
>    humans to make this worth a shot.
 

	Radio news reports I heard said that the treatment may kill him, but
	his chances without it were zero anyway. Last report (Thursday) said 
	that the patient was doing remarkably well, but that it would be
	4 to 5 weeks before they could make any determination concerning the
	outcome.

	Dean Adell (the TV and radio Doc) raised an interesting question
	regarding the procedure. Since the patient's immune system is
	severely compromised, it's quite possible that his body will
	not (not be able to actually) reject the transplant, improving
	the chances for success.

Jim   
    

323.2193BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Mon Dec 18 1995 11:566

	Steve, your personal name.... trying to tell us something? :-)



323.2194a bit worried hereBIGQ::MARCHANDTue Dec 19 1995 11:3527
    
       Hi,
    
        There's too many replies to this for me to check back and see
    if this has already been discussed. And, it's actually a serious 
    question from me. 
    
       I'm going in for surgery on Thursday this week. I was thinking
    about the fact that they are going to have 2 units of blood waiting
    for me just in case I need blood. It suddenly worried me this
    morning about AIDS. I realize that they test the blood and all that,
    but what suddenly worried me is the fact that I've 'heard' that
    sometimes people don't know they have AIDS for years and then they
    are positive.
    
       My question is..... Where does the AIDS stay dormant before it's
    'positive'. Say if a person contracted it and they don't know yet
    that it's laying there waiting to come out. I know that TB when
    contracted stays in the lungs with casing's around it. Then if the
    casing breaks the person then has TB, they could have been in contact
    with it 20 years ago. So, I'm now WONDERING, where does the AIDS
    lay dormant?  What are my risks if they need to give me the blood and
    the blood was tested negative when they tested it before saving
    it in the blood bank for me? I'm now wondering if I should have 
    given my own blood when I found out that I needed the surgery. 
    
        Rosie
323.2195BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Dec 19 1995 11:479
                     <<< Note 323.2194 by BIGQ::MARCHAND >>>

Rosie,	The possibility exists, but in the grand scheme of things it's
	a very very small possibility. Given all the risks of surgery
	(also small probabilities) contracting AIDS is way down the list
	these days.

Jim

323.2196BIGQ::SILVAEAT, Pappa, EAT!Tue Dec 19 1995 11:539

	But we are talking about two things here. HIV is detected within 6
months. So they would know that already. (they test all blood)  AIDS happens
when the t-cell count drops below 200. If the t-cell count is anywhere near
that level, they won't be giving you that blood. 


Glen
323.2197BIGQ::MARCHANDTue Dec 19 1995 12:359
    
      phew! That's a relief. I guess I was getting a little worried because
    of not knowing all that much about AIDS. I've missed the two programs
    they had here because of other obligations. 
    
      Thanks for the replies. Boy, when we don't know an answer to
    something it can be scarey!     
    
        Rosie
323.2198SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Tue Dec 19 1995 12:374
    
    
    In certain cases, you can make provisions to have your own blood used.
    
323.2199BIGQ::MARCHANDTue Dec 19 1995 14:018
    
        They asked me yesterday if I planned on giving my own blood. But,
    it's really too late to give 2 units before Thursday. Especially
    where I'm on vitamins and iron supplements to compensate for the
    main reason I'm getting the surgery..... I've had a considerable loss
    of blood since Sept.
    
       Rosie
323.2200ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 19 1995 15:4110
    
                          (__)
                          (oo)
                   /-------\/ 
                  / |     || \ 
                 *  ||W---|| CLINTON! 
                    ~~    ~~  

    
323.2201SUBPAC::SADINFreedom isn't free.Tue Dec 19 1995 20:295
    
    
    	did that cow just barf?
    
    
323.2202ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Tue Dec 19 1995 20:372
    Snarf Cow came up with something more inane than "snarf", when
    collecting his favorite note numbers.  
323.2203BIGQ::MARCHANDWed Dec 20 1995 17:212
    
        Did Clinton catch aids from the cow?
323.2204BUSY::SLABOUNTYBuzzword BingoWed Dec 20 1995 18:333
    
    	The cow probably got AIDS from Clinton.
    
323.2205Poor cow...SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIRhubarb... celery gone bloodshot.Wed Dec 20 1995 18:361
    
323.2206DASHER::RALSTONscrewiti'mgoinhome..Fri Dec 29 1995 18:3215
    LOWER AIDS RISK WITH TRANSFUSIONS: 
    
    A study published in the New England Journal of Medicine says that the 
    risk of catching AIDS from a blood transfusion is only about half as great 
    as previously estimated. The analysis, conducted by Dr. Eve Lackritz and 
    colleagues from the Centers for Disease Control, shows only about two 
    dozen of the 12 million pints of blood used in transfusions each year are 
    now infected with HIV, the virus that causes AIDS. Dr. Lackritz's team 
    examined 9 million blood donations in 1992 and 1993. The CDC now estimates 
    that the risk that a patient will contract HIV from donated blood is 
    between one in 83,000 and one in 122,000. 
    
    
    
    
323.2207BIGQ::MARCHANDFri Jan 05 1996 01:4118
    
    .2206    It's good to know that they are doing everything they can to 
    check this blood. I had decided that if they need to give me the blood
    fine.
    
       Well, the good news is that they never had to give me a blood
    transfusion. My hemoglobin was quite low, but not low enough for a
    blood transfustion. 
    
       Boy, surgery is incredible these days! I had a hysterectomy on
    the 21st of Dec. and I'll be back to work on the 15th of Jan.! go
    figure!  I'm just a little sore and tired right now, but I know
    by the 15th I'll be fine. I'm taking vitamins and iron supplements
    to get my blood back up, so by the 15th I will be fine.
    
       Rosie
    
    
323.2208POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerFri Jan 05 1996 01:423
    eating boob cake helps too!
    
    Nice to hear that you got through it all ok!
323.2209BIGQ::MARCHANDFri Jan 05 1996 01:457
    
       Gosh! I forgot all about that cake! Maybe that's what got me
    through!
    
       Thanks,
    
        Rosie
323.2210POLAR::RICHARDSONCPU CyclerFri Jan 05 1996 01:485
    We haven't!
    
    You're welcome!
    
    8^)
323.2211POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of NightmaresFri Jan 05 1996 02:023
    
    Glad to hear you're ok, Rosie.
    
323.2212BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 05 1996 12:036
	Alright Rosie! If you were a vampire, you could have avoided all this.
Ya just could have refilled! :-)


Glen
323.2213TROOA::COLLINSDialed in for dharma.Fri Jan 05 1996 12:038
    
    Heard on the nooz this morning about an AIDS sufferer in SF who had 
    been given a bone marrow transplant from a baboon.  It seems that
    baboons are immune to SIV and HIV.
    
    He is apparently doing well, although it's too early to judge the
    effectiveness of the treatment.
    
323.2214BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 05 1996 12:073

	Geeze....Canada is slow, eh? I heard about that last week! :-)
323.2215CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Jan 05 1996 12:087
    there are also fears that transplants of this kind could lead to
    another outbreak of evil viruses baboons are immune to, but humans
    aren't.  
    
    who knows?  I wish the man well.
    
    meg
323.2216TROOA::COLLINSDialed in for dharma.Fri Jan 05 1996 12:105
    
    .2214, Glen:
    
    Didja post it here?  Huh?  Didja?
    
323.2217BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 05 1996 12:176
| <<< Note 323.2216 by TROOA::COLLINS "Dialed in for dharma." >>>


| Didja post it here?  Huh?  Didja?

	No. I ain't no stinkin disgruntled postal worker!
323.2218WAHOO::LEVESQUEto infinity and beyondFri Jan 05 1996 12:182
    He didn't ask if you took an M16 to work, he asked if you wrote it on a
    product from 3M.
323.2219CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusFri Jan 05 1996 13:315
    see .2191.
    
    I think there are a few others referencing this later in the string.
    
    meg
323.2220Keep fingers crossed; he's bought some timeDECLNE::REESEMy REALITY check bouncedFri Jan 05 1996 18:0110
    The dude with the baboon marrow left the hospital this AM.  Today
    Show carried part of news conference; the guy looked remarkedly
    fit and healthy.
    
    He said considering most people thought he'd leave the hospital
    in a box, this was definitely a great day :-)  Any healthy days
    to come will definitely be appreciated as a gift and a hope that
    this might turn into a viable treatment.
    
    
323.2221...or offering...TROOA::COLLINSTurn on, log in, drop out.Fri Jan 05 1996 18:093
    
    His friends keep offerring him bananas.
    
323.2222POLAR::RICHARDSONBig Bag O' PassionFri Jan 05 1996 18:231
        At least he didn't have to go through an elephantoplasty operation.
323.2223BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 05 1996 18:241
peanuts taste better than banana's
323.2224BUSY::SLABOUNTYNever Cry Fox, EitherFri Jan 05 1996 18:393
    
    	[apostrophe alert]
    
323.2225MPGS::MARKEYWe're upping our standards; up yoursFri Jan 05 1996 18:427
   > peanuts taste better than banana's
    
    So how did banana's taste?
    
    Never mind, I don't wanna know...
    
    -b
323.2226SCASS1::GUINEO::MOOREALittleOfMazePassagesTwistyFri Jan 05 1996 19:093
    .2221
    
    ...yeah, apparently because he slipped by death's door.
323.2227COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Jan 05 1996 19:547
There is, of course, some concern that he may now be carrying some NEW virus
that previously did not infect humans.

There was supposed to be some special testing by the CDC before he was
released, but the gummint shutdown prevented this from happening.

/john
323.2229wanna see my operation scar?SMURF::WALTERSFri Jan 05 1996 20:021
    Or his bum will turn huge and blue.
323.2230POLAR::RICHARDSONBig Bag O' PassionFri Jan 05 1996 20:041
    I suppose hell be looking for a blue box to go with it?
323.2231TROOA::COLLINSTurn on, log in, drop out.Fri Jan 05 1996 22:543
    
    I'm anticipating a comment soon re: Samsonite...
    
323.2232POLAR::RICHARDSONBig Bag O' PassionSat Jan 06 1996 01:183
     
    
    case in point?
323.2233SMURF::WALTERSMon Jan 08 1996 12:381
    It probably wasn't the bag he was into....
323.2234POLAR::RICHARDSONBig Bag O' PassionMon Jan 08 1996 13:441
    He wouldn't do that woody?
323.2235Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain LetterCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Jan 24 1996 18:12497
Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter

The Email address of the original person behind this chain letter appears
to have been lost, but the name appears to be "Bradley Young".  I won't
endanger Digital's Internet connection by mailing this back out onto the
Internet, but it would not be politically correct to refuse to participate
in some manner in attempting to infect as many people as possible, so I
have posted this in a few places, rather than mailing it.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Subject:        AIDS project 
 
For a class project, I was wondering if this could be passed on to prove a 
point.  In my human sex class, we learned that if someone has received the 
HIV disease, and they don't know about it, they could pass it on to people 
who they don't even know. 
    Could you all pretend that I have HIV, and I gave it to you. Then could 
you pass it on to your friends?  Let's see if the entire e-mail population 
could get infected by me alone. 
    Please remember that this is a lab experiment.  I have to say that I am 
not intending to offend any one in any way. 
    By the way, don't erase this or the forwards from your computer. 
 
 Thankyou 
Young bradley 

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From: Marion Leeds Carroll <mlcar@ibm.net>
To: covert::covert
To: resnick@odi.com
To: gg2qc@qcunix.acc.qc.edu
To: mhl1@tribeca.ios.com
To: jennie@mit.edu
Date: Tue, 23 Jan 1996 11:59:52 EST
Reply-To: Marion Leeds Carroll <mlcar@ibm.net>
Subject: Re: [nique@dti.net: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project]

Address to: Distribution list (see below)

I detest chain letters, but given the recent events in my family   
(involving a transfusion), I feel it's important to help this person   
with this disturbing lab project.  Please read on through the multiple   
forwards to understand further.          - Marion 
 
 
Forwarding note from: yanko@vtechcorp.com 01/23/96 09:30am -0500 
 
Date: Mon, 22 Jan 1996 18:31:02 -0500 
From: bdd@world.std.com (Ben Dubrovsky) 
To: don@sirius.com, dubin@inmet.com, mitcp@MIT.EDU, dAdA@world.std.com, 
        76711.2613@compuserve.com 
Subject: [nique@dti.net: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project] 
 
Date: Mon, 22 Jan 1996 11:15:10 -0500 (EST) 
Subject: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project 
From: <nique@dti.net> 
To: "dti staff" <dti-staff@dti.net>, 
        "Patrice Backer" <backer_patrice@jpmorgan.com>, 
        "Ellerton Castor" <mnyofrs@aol.com>, 
        "Dave Decker" <0003707869@mcimail.com>, "Dzu Do" <ddo@tiaa.org>, 
        "Ben Dubrovsky" <bdd@world.std.com>, "Ian Rowe" <IVRowe@aol.com>, 
        "Dave Weinstein" <zmax@world.std.com> 
Mime-Version: 1.0 
Content-Type: text/plain; charset="US-ASCII" 
 
An useful exercise... 
 
 
Subject:     Fwd: FW: AIDS Project 
Sent:        01/21  7:39 PM 
Received:    01/22  11:08 AM 
From:        John Small, Smalljf@aol.com 
To:          Powelt@aol.com 
             nique@dti.net 
             Tyrone Thomas, tmt@hudsonet.com 
             jay.ward%bowne.comddaniels@microsoft.com 
             pboucaud@microsoft.com 
 
This is safe-mail, an idea worth pondering... 
--------------------- 
Forwarded message: 
From:	tort@radicalmedia.com (julia tortolani) 
To:	SIMONSK@gunet.georgetown.edu, VMEDIAmp@aol.com,   todd@tunanet.com, 
73664.117@compuserve.com, SKAPLITT@cwt.com, fractal@netaxis.com, 
fernandez@radicalmedia.com, paul@tunanet.com, NayH@aol.com, Mooj1@aol.com, 
Michael_J._Pinto@vmediacorp.com, mmr9829@is2.NYU.EDU, 
thompson@radicalmedia.com, avnet@radicalmedia.com, lrivers@macromedia.com, 
Sahulka@aol.com, lpray@moose.uvm.edu, Moojie@aol.com, kerry@radicalmedia.com, 
piccom@elele.peacesat.Hawaii.Edu, pjtortol@stud.med.cornell.edu, 
jurgen@mozart.set.gov.bc.ca, tetonnet@aol.com, szinger@radicalmedia.com, 
76341.1703@compuser, Arabdraw@aol.com, AngelaFung@aol.com, 
k-d-lang-approval@world.std.com, mmr9829@is2.NYU.EDU, 
rebecca@radicalmedia.com, cstaats@moose.uvm.edu, ERNDY@aol.com, EveE@aol.com, 
aicf@tmn.com, ari@inch.com, athomas@mrl.nyu.edu, douglas@rga.com.awatt 
Date: 96-01-21 13:46:22 EST 
 
I am forwarding this to all of you because I too think this student is 
proposing an interesting and important concept in AIDS awarness.  Imagine 
the consequences with this model of transmission. 
---------------------------------------------------------- 
 
From: MOOJ1@aol.com 
Date: Fri, 19 Jan 1996 15:28:36 -0500 
To: tort@radicalmedia.com 
Subject: Fwd: FW: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project 
 
------------------------- 
the following is the forwarded from info: 
------------------------- 
Forwarded message: 
From:   DGreiner@wald.com 
Sender: dgreiner@wald.com 
To:     yeap@nycnet.uu.holonet.net, tristaz@aol.com, slshults@aol.com, 
sealrb@aol.com, robinleegr@aol.com, rcourt@rosebud.berkeley.edu, 
pegleg@eworld.com, mooj1@aol.com, lawwon@aol.com, klayr@aol.com, 
jkurpius@ix.netcom.com (Jim Kurpius), krappaport@mary.fordham.edu, 
drg@cruzio.com, currier@mary.fordham.edu, ctostens@prairie.nodak.edu (Chris M 
Tostenson), bbillin@cm.timeinc.com 
Date: 96-01-19 01:17:18 EST 
 
This is not intended to offend or inflame, but it is an interesting concept. 
 
Continue it on the journey if you desire.  Please Don't delete the other 
addresses.  It will make more sense as you read on... 
 ---------- 
From: Lisa Winter 
To: Working Assets\Share CS 
Subject: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project 
Date: Thursday, January 18, 1996 9:39AM 
 
Not meant to offend... 
 ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- 
 
 -- 
FORWARDED FROM: Lisa Winter 
To: lwinter@WASSETS 
From: Paige@UGATE (Paige Manzo) {Paige_Manzo@wwire.net} 
Reply-to: Paige @ UGATE{Paige_Manzo@wwire.net} 
Subject: Fwd(3): FW: AIDS Project 
Date: 07-Jan-96 16:18:40 +0000 
 
____________________________________________________________ 
 
Not meant to offend...this is pretty interesting. Pass it on, please. 
____________________________________________________________ 
 
Not meant to offend... i just 'hub' so many peoplez... :: gLENN 
 
<---- Begin Forwarded Message ----> 
Date: Wed, 20 Dec 95 16:27:41 -0800 
From: kris@freerange.com (Kristen Nelson) 
Subject: FW: AIDS Project 
To: gossip 
 
..this is pretty interesting. Pass it on, please. 
____________________________________________________________ 
 
<---- Begin Forwarded Message ----> 
Date: Tue, 19 Dec 1995 15:45:50 -0500 
From: Tedfry@aol.com 
To: R1e2f3@aol.com, PRoberts79@aol.com, Tornes@aol.com, 
Robert_E._Fry@hud.gov, 
Laurba@mercury.sfsu.edu, Sscher@u.washington.edu, FredMoody@aol.com, 
TRAVER@aol.com, Rdcuster@aol.com, 76735.1464@compuserve.com, 
tgrob@tgrob.seanet.com, Rosep@starwave.com, kris@freerange.com, 
LHenry@aol.com, 
mwat-new@seatimes.com, 76341.2246@compuserve.com 
Subject: Fwd: FW: AIDS Project 
 
just keep reading 
 --------------------- 
Forwarded message: 
From: tomw@corbis.com (Tom Wear) 
To: cshartke@corbis.com (Sue Hartke), janng@corbis.com (Jann Glisson), 
kaszm@corbis.com (Kasz Maciag), Cameron@csgi.com ('cameron davidson'), 
clr@eskimo.com (Caryn Rose), cvdapena@aol.com (carlos), martas@microsoft.com 
('Marta Smith'), ryounger@pipeline.com (Richard Younger), Tedfry@aol.com 
(Tedfry) 
Date: 95-12-18 21:58:46 EST 
 
Interesting synergy of cyberspace and AIDS education (with a little bit of 
chain-letter). Please pass on, if you will. 
TW 
 ---------- 
From: Richard Stringfellow 
To: Alex Hattwig; Charles Sliwoski; Daniel Armstrong; Danielle Turner; 
Elizabeth Bellas; Ernest Batiste; Glen Martin; Jeff Wherett; Jon Luke; 
Katherine DeBruler; Kaya Hoffmann; Nightime Imaging Lab Staff; Matt   
vien; 
Michael O'Brien; Sarah Phillips; Shawn Schollmeyer; Tom Wear 
Subject: FW: AIDS Project 
Date: Monday, December 18, 1995 6:09PM 
 
As stated below, this is not meant to offend anyone... 
 ---------- 
From: jkuras 
To: 'Joseph, Kurt'; 'DeYonker, Michael'; 'Bertuccelli, Jeanne'; 'Hagberg, 
John'; 'Balvanz, Randi'; 'Rose, James'; 'Kuras, John'; 'Marks, Manuel'; 
'Moore, Trevor' 
Subject: FW: AIDS Project 
Date: Saturday, December 16, 1995 7:05PM 
 
 
Once again, this is not meant to offend anyone, but a good point could be 
proven if we all participate. 
 
Be well. 
 
Andie 
 
 --------------------------------- 
Forwarded message 
 
Date:     Fri Dec 15, 1995  3:44 pm  EST 
From:     Robin Ricca / MCI ID: 472-0700 
 
TO:       MHOUT 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: 71641.2520@compuserve.com 
TO:       Daniel Carda 
          EMS: CompuServe / MCI ID: 592-7515 
          MBX: P=CSMail 
          MBX: C=US 
          MBX: GI=Daniel 
          MBX: SU=Carda 
          MBX: D=ID=70304.2100 
TO:       72703,1612 
          EMS: CompuServe / MCI ID: 592-7515 
          MBX: P=CSMail 
          MBX: C=US 
          MBX: GI=1612 
          MBX: SU=72703 
          MBX: D=ID=72703.1612 
TO:       Becky Boardsen 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: bboards@advtech.uswest.com 
TO:       Paul R Gross 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: pgross@hp35.den.mmc.com 
TO:       SIEGEL 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: siegel%stkwwhdq@ccsvm.stortek.com 
TO:       ROBYN R. GOSSARD 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: 103225.743@compuserve.com 
TO:       Richard Ho / MCI ID: 546-5273 
TO:       Andie Joseph / MCI ID: 279-3580 
TO:       Joan S. Amann / MCI ID: 454-0942 
TO:       Timothy Sisneros / MCI ID: 607-2816 
TO:       Dwight W. Bynum / MCI ID: 271-2279 
TO:       Bryan Nielsen / MCI ID: 315-5567 
Subject:  AIDS Project 
 
 -- [ From: Robin Ricca * EMC.Ver #2.3 ] -- 
 
A rather strange lab project, but perchance some educational basis lies 
beneath 
this effort. 
 
Don't delete the e-mail addresses, just pass it on...definitely   
nteresting 
reading. 
 
Robin 
 
 ------- FORWARD, Original message follows ------- 
 
Date: Thursday, 14-Dec-95 01:18 PM 
 
From: Chris Poppe              \ MCI Mail:    (Chris Poppe / MCI ID: 
550-3272) 
To:   William Stockton         \ MCI Mail:    (William Stockton / MCI ID: 
423-9215) 
To:   Debbie Smith             \ MCI Mail:    (Debbie Smith / MCI ID: 
596-4457) 
To:   Cynthia Zender           \ MCI Mail:    (Cynthia Zender / MCI ID: 
720-4205) 
To:   Robin Ricca              \ MCI Mail:    (rricca / MCI ID:   
72-0700) 
To:   Pam Benton               \ MCI Mail:    (Pam Benton / MCI ID: 
543-4514) 
 
Subject: AIDS Project 
 
  As below, not meant to offend but perhaps some goodness can be found... 
 
____________________ 
Forwarded message: 
Date:     Thu Dec 14, 1995 10:57 am MST 
From:     Christopher McCloskey / MCI ID: 502-0337 
 
TO:     * Chris Poppe / MCI ID: 550-3272 Subject:  AIDS Project 
 
 
This is not intended to offend or inflame, but it is an interesting   
concept. 
 
 
Continue it on the journey if you desire.  Please Don't delete the other 
addresses. 
 
Someone should let the originator know this message's progress from time to 
time.  If you receive it on Jan 2 or 3rd please send a copy of the whole 
message to the original author. 
 
Apologies for my promiscuity.  Have a good, safe holiday. 
 
 
 
Forwarded message: 
_________________________________________________________________ 
Date:     Thu Dec 14, 1995 09:29 am MST 
Source-Date: Thu, 14 Dec 1995 08:02:42 -0700 
From:     John Roccaforte 
          EMS: INTERNET / MCI ID: 376-5414 
          MBX: JOHN@earth.ssc.pr1.k12.co.us 
 
TO:     * Christopher McCloskey / MCI ID: 502-0337 
Subject:  AIDS Project 
Message-Id: 64951214162946/0003765414DC1EM 
Source-Msg-Id: <v01510100acf5eb7989b2@[164.104.1.35]> 
U-Mime-Version: 1.0 
U-Content-Type: text/plain; charset="us-ascii" 
 
 
From: CROCCAFORTE@cornell-iowa.edu 
Date: Wed, 13 Dec 1995 22:15:02 -0600 (CST) 
To: internet"shawH@ucsu.colorado.edu"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us, 
        abriscoe@cornell-iowa.edu, 
        internet"johnr@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us, 
        cherrick@cornell-iowa.edu, 
        internet"WCS1239@tamvm1.tamu.edu"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us, 
        internet"jason-carbee@uiowa.edu"@alpha.pr1.k12.co.us, 
        jbez@cornell-iowa.edu Subject: FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
 
 
I realize that this is a bit disturbing, but I think that it makes a point 
that 
can not be made enough.  Please share this with many people; there can not 
be 
enough discourse on HIV/AIDS!!! 
 
Christy 
 
From:   ATHENA::LDOHERTY     13-DEC-1995 18:07:43.87 
To:     Croccaforte, kguijo, swelty, tnance, rwalkenhorst, clauer, lroefer, 
jbarry, priley, sditterline, eboone, jhetzel, jbrown1, drausch, rrusso, 
espiegel 
Subj:   FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
From:   ATHENA::MCONIGLIARO  13-DEC-1995 18:01:13.87 
To:     ldoherty 
Subj:   FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
From:   ATHENA::FERICSSON    13-DEC-1995 17:09:47.27 
To:     mconigliaro 
Subj:   FWD: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
From:   SMTP%"KEditor@aol.com" 11-DEC-1995 23:57:59.39 
To:     FERICSSON 
Subj:   Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
Date: Tue, 12 Dec 1995 00:55:37 -0500 
From: KEditor@aol.com 
Message-ID: <951212002305_131026680@emout06.mail.aol.com> 
To: fericsson@cornell-iowa.edu, nadamson@cornell-iowa.edu, 
        mgrey@cornell-iowa.edu, slindley@cornell-iowa.edu, 
        jclaar@cornell-iowa.edu Subject: Fwd: (Fwd) AIDS project 
 
 
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323.2236NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jan 24 1996 18:442
Um, isn't AIDS usually passed on by boinking?  Aren't most people more casual
with who they email than with who they boink?
323.2237SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment vescimur.Wed Jan 24 1996 18:471
    Not anymore, Gerald, at least not much.
323.2238NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jan 24 1996 18:481
Which question were you answering?
323.2239MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Wed Jan 24 1996 18:484
    Gerald, I would pose that question to the citizens throughout central
    Africa and see how they answer it!
    
    -Jack
323.2240BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityWed Jan 24 1996 19:024

	Jack, I believe Europe is in worse shape than central Africa. Or is
that Asia. I forget which one.... I'll look it up
323.2241NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Jan 24 1996 19:031
But there's less email in Central Africa than in Europe or Asia.
323.2242BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityWed Jan 24 1996 19:081
:-)
323.2243Thinly veiled prankHANNAH::BAYJim Bay, peripheral visionaryWed Jan 24 1996 20:1815
    I think this is actually an experiment in inundating the internet.  The
    requestor asked that forwards NOT be deleted.  And this version is
    pretty large already.  Imagine what it will look like after a few
    thousand (small number) more forwards.
    
    Also, in any "experiment", you pose a hypothesis and test it.  He has
    certainly started a test, but he has no way of actually retrieving the
    data.  Unless everyone that forwards it forwards a copy to him as well,
    which I'm sure would shut down his server quickly.
    
    It doesn't sound thought out at all.  This is more like one of those
    mail viruses, and I commend Doug for removing it.
    
    jeb
    
323.2244COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Jan 25 1996 13:47140
The note has been deleted from another conference now.  Moderators claimed
it violates orange book policy.  I don't think it does -- mailing it would
have, but posting it in a few conferences for discussion is not "developing
chain letters" (the forbidden action).

So continue the discussion here.

Here are extracts from some of the replies which had been posted there, with
other authors' identities removed:

================================================================================
Note xxx.1        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          1 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Where does the political correctness come in?
================================================================================
Note xxx.2        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          2 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                       5 lines  24-JAN-1996 15:11
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Like I said, even though chain letters are normally forbidden, political
correctness outweighs that and would make it unlikely that any internet
provider would take action against the letter.

But obviously a moderator of one other conference (where I put it in a
topic about students using the internet for class projects) isn't at all
concerned about being considered politically incorrect, and deleted it.

/john
================================================================================
Note xxx.4        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          4 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
> Like I said, even though chain letters are normally forbidden, political
> correctness outweighs that and would make it unlikely that any internet
> provider would take action against the letter.

I find this thread a non-sequitor! Are you trying to infect =WN=
members with virtual AIDs? I find no political correctness in that - 
unless it is Rush Limblah correctness. 

If this chain-letter is politically-correct to you then I think you have
a very strange [IMO] picture of politically correct that does not match
my view of it. Are you attempting to shock the members of =WN=?

I see no reason why a chain letter that portends to virtually infect 
anyone would be protected from any action. Should I virtually sue you
for knowingly virtually infecting me with unsafe noting on your part?

Frankly, I find this whole thread pretty pointless and urge the mods
to delete the whole thing on the basis of lack of content. But what
do *I* know... :-\

================================================================================
Note xxx.5        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          5 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                      10 lines  24-JAN-1996 15:31
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
The Political Correctness is "AIDS Awareness".

I'm currently discussing (off-line) whether "AIDS Awareness" is higher on
the scale of political correctness than "Spamming discouragement", and
which should take precedence.

BTW, I had just returned to move this topic to the Rathole rather than
give it a topic of its own, but the first reply had already appeared.

/john
================================================================================
Note xxx.6        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          6 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    It's politically correct to be aware of AIDS?  I should think it was
    just healthy to be aware of AIDS.
================================================================================
Note xxx.7        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          7 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                       3 lines  24-JAN-1996 15:32
                                  -< ACT-UP >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
It's politically correct to be "in your face" about AIDS awareness.

/john
================================================================================
Note xxx.9        Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter          9 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
        The "experiment" is bogus anyway -- if he really wanted even an
approximation of a transmission model the instructions should be to send
it to people with whom you have had at-risk sex or other at-risk
activites.  Sending it to everyone you know on the net is simply
spamming.
================================================================================
Note xxx.10       Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter         10 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Also, are we going to wait four or five years and THEN see if this shows
up in our mail folders? I think this is not a good analogy at all...
================================================================================
Note xxx.11       Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter         11 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    And the point is?
    
    What's the little lesson our Moral Guardian wants to teach us this
    time?
================================================================================
Note xxx.12       Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter         12 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
	I find this note (xxx.0) extremely offensive.  Not the
subject of HIV/AIDS, but the way it was presented, and the lack
of sensitivity to people with HIV/AIDS and their friends and
relatives.
	I suggest that the mods delete this whole string.
================================================================================
Note xxx.13       Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter         13 of 16
COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert"                      10 lines  25-JAN-1996 08:09
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
>    And the point is?

From the original message:

	Let's see if the entire e-mail population 
	could get infected by me alone. 

Will Young bradley succeed?  Will everyone in the entire e-mail population
be infected from this message from a high-school student, passed on by
thousands, maybe even millions of e-mail users?  Will internet providers
threaten to disconnect users for posting this message?  Will moderators
delete it?  Or is AIDS awareness such a politically charged topic that
messages such as this rightly take precedence over normal rules of
netiquette?

================================================================================
Note xxx.16       Politically Correct AIDS Project Chain Letter         16 of 16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    I see Bradley's point. He's just out of class and they taught them a
    thing or two about the transmission of AIDS. He knows about other
    things, like email and Internet, and he used that as a reference frame
    to 'play' with his new knowledge in order to get a better reference and
    a more thorough understanding. All kids tend to do that, involving
    things they learn into their standard play. Nothing special, if a
    little childish.
    
>Or is AIDS awareness such a politically charged topic that
>messages such as this rightly take precedence over normal rules of
>netiquette? 
    
    Well? What are we to conclude if it is or if is isn't? 
323.2245I'll take body lint for $200, ALexCONSLT::MCBRIDEpack light, keep low, move fast, reload oftenThu Jan 25 1996 13:526
    >> So continue the discussion here.
    
    Let's see.....
    
    Discuss a crusade or examine bellybutton lint.  Hmmmm, this is a tough 
    one.  
323.2246WAHOO::LEVESQUEmemory canyonThu Jan 25 1996 14:061
    And the answer is "the source of white fuzz"
323.2247BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityThu Jan 25 1996 14:363

	Gee John...... why here?
323.2248MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Thu Jan 25 1996 15:255
    Because Glen, the other conferences are full of dreamers who would
    rather their head be in the sand than confronted reality.  I have very
    little patience with such stupidity.
    
    -Jack
323.2249BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Thu Jan 25 1996 15:295
    
    	You mean, for instance, like if someone were convinced that teens
    	could be taught to practice abstinence instead of being given con-	
    	doms?
    
323.2250MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Thu Jan 25 1996 15:311
    Works in my house Shawn.  Sorry about yours!
323.2251MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Thu Jan 25 1996 15:345
>    Works in my house Shawn.

Geeziz, Jack - your kids are all of, what, 6 or 7 years old maybe? Less?

Let us know how well it works when they're 15 or 16.
323.2252BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Thu Jan 25 1996 15:3913
    
    	You've gotta wonder what people like Jack do to muddy statistics,
    	you know?
    
    	Jack answers a sex survey, and reveals that the teaching of ab-
    	stinence has proved successful in preventing pregnancy in his
    	house.  And 10K other parents of similarly-aged kids answer the
    	same way, and it appears that abstinence works like a charm.
    
    	So we have 10K+ households where the 6-year olds aren't getting
    	pregnant, and the 50K households which include teens of child-
    	bearing years don't bother to answer the survey.
    
323.2253BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityThu Jan 25 1996 16:0911
| <<< Note 323.2248 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>

| Because Glen, the other conferences are full of dreamers who would
| rather their head be in the sand than confronted reality.  I have very
| little patience with such stupidity.

	Is that why you don't note in CHRISTIAN? I don't think you can even
talk about AIDS in there.


Glen
323.2254BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityThu Jan 25 1996 16:5854
News from the ACLU National Headquarters

ACLU Secures Final Victory in Groundbreaking AIDS Bias Case

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
January 23, 1996

TOLEDO -- A $350,000 settlement was announced today in a lawsuit
brought by the American Civil Liberties Union against a doctor and
hospital for refusing to treat a man with AIDS.  The settlement
closes a precedent-setting case that paved the way for people with
HIV to be protected under federal law.
  "We brought this case to prohibit doctors and hospitals from
refusing to treat people with HIV," said Marc E. Elovitz, staff
attorney for the ACLU's AIDS Project.  "In clear language, a
federal court has sent a warning to medical professionals that they
are not exempt from federal non-discrimination laws.  This
settlement will drive that point home."
  The case was brought in 1992 on behalf of Fred L. Charon, who was
traveling through Ohio when he suffered a severe allergic reaction.
 He was rushed to a nearby hospital in Fremont, Ohio only to be
refused treatment when the admitting physician, Dr. Charles
Hull who was quoted as saying "if you get an AIDS patient in the
hospital, you will never get them out" learned of his HIV status.
  The ACLU brought suit against Dr. Hull and the Fremont Memorial
Hospital for violating federal law.  In an initial victory, a federal
jury in June 1994 awarded Charon $512,000 in punitive and
compensatory damages, finding the doctor and hospital in violation
of the Federal Rehabilitation Act of 1973.
  Several months later, federal district Judge John Potter ruled
that the defendants' actions also violated the Americans With
Disabilities Act, and enjoined them from further violations of the
law.  The hospital and doctor was ordered to post signs in waiting
rooms informing patients with HIV of their right not to be denied
treatment.
  In reaching his decision, Judge Potter rejected the defendants'
argument that there is a "medical exception" to non-discrimination
laws, as well as a number of arguments that would have denied
people with HIV the right to challenge unfair treatment.
  It was the first decision applying the 1992 law to prohibit
doctors and hospitals from denying care to individuals because of
their HIV status.  The settlement announced today ends the
defendants' appeal of that decision.
  Although Charon passed away on March 25, 1993, the suit was
continued by his surviving partner, Bruce Howe, who represents
Charon's estate.  The case was tried by the ACLU's Elovitz and
cooperating attorneys for the ACLU of Ohio, Ellen Simon (a partner
with the Cleveland law firm of Spangenberg, Shibley, Lancione &
Liber) and Doris Wohl (principal of the Toledo law firm of Wohl &
Associates).
  "More than one million people in America are infected with HIV,"
said Ms. Simon.  "This victory and settlement confirm that
discrimination against people with HIV is wrong and will not be
tolerated."
323.2255MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Thu Jan 25 1996 19:309
    Glen:
    
    Ya know, I'd really love to see the look on your face when some day
    there is a plague and you have a beloved family member who is exposed
    to it and would be in breach of such laws if he/she refused treatment.
    
    No doubt this will one day bite you in the arse.  
    
    -Jack
323.2256BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Thu Jan 25 1996 19:354
    
    	Jack, an infected person can't be refused treatment.  That doesn't
    	mean the victim is forced to request treatment.
    
323.2257BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityThu Jan 25 1996 19:4612
| <<< Note 323.2255 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>

| Ya know, I'd really love to see the look on your face when some day
| there is a plague and you have a beloved family member who is exposed
| to it and would be in breach of such laws if he/she refused treatment.

	Huh? A person can't be refused to be treated. How does that tie in with
the above?

| No doubt this will one day bite you in the arse.

	If I understood what you meant, maybe.
323.2258MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Thu Jan 25 1996 20:0510
    Let me ask it this way.  Say in twenty years or so, the black plague
    comes back.  You are a doctor in a hospital and somebody with the
    plague comes in.  Glen, I would in no way expect you to put your life
    at risk.  
    
    I was saying a few back that the Rehabilitation Act of 1972 may apply
    to the AIDS patient but someday it's going to bite us in the arse
    because it may put the doctors life in jeopardy.
    
    -Jack
323.2259SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment vescimur.Thu Jan 25 1996 20:1513
    .2258
    
    > You are a doctor in a hospital and somebody with the
    > plague comes in.  ... I would in no way expect you to put your life
    > at risk.
    
    Then you would expect a doctor to refuse to do the thing that doctors
    do, which is care for people who are ill.  Sometimes being a doctor
    requires risk, other times it does not.  Throughout history, doctors
    have been willing to take risks - otherwise, the cures we have for many
    diseases would likely not exist, and tens of thousands more soldiers
    who were treated by doctors in MASH units would have died from combat
    injuries.
323.2260Hang your head, JackDECLNE::REESEMy REALITY check bouncedThu Jan 25 1996 20:3413
    Jack,
    
    Hospitals have been equipped for treating patients who "might"
    have the AIDS virus for quite awhile now; there's no reason to
    refuse anyone treatment.
    
    If it had happened in the late 70s or early 80s when researchers
    still weren't sure how the virus was transmitted I could understand
    a doctor being hesitant in treating someone who acknowledged they
    had aids; by the time this incident occurred there was no excuse to
    refuse.
    
    
323.2261BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Thu Jan 25 1996 20:5911
    
    >If it had happened in the late 70s or early 80s when researchers
    >still weren't sure how the virus was transmitted I could understand
    
    
    	Reminds me of "And the Band Played On":
    
    	One of the best lines was the lady responding to the doctor's
    	question "Has your husband ever had sex with a man?" with "But
    	he's a MAN.  How can a MAN have sex with another MAN??".
    
323.2262BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Jan 25 1996 23:1511
       <<< Note 323.2258 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>

>    I was saying a few back that the Rehabilitation Act of 1972 may apply
>    to the AIDS patient but someday it's going to bite us in the arse
>    because it may put the doctors life in jeopardy.
 
Jack,	You really are a cold-blooded bastard. Why don't we pass a law that
	anyone with a communicable disease should be left to die.


Jim
323.2263BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 00:2311
| <<< Note 323.2262 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>


| Jack,	You really are a cold-blooded bastard. 

	Hmmm....... seems that something similar was said about Jack in another
conference.....funny how that all worked out, eh?



Glen
323.2264MKOTS3::JMARTINBye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!Fri Jan 26 1996 11:446
Z    Jack,   You really are a cold-blooded bastard. Why don't we pass a law
Z    that anyone with a communicable disease should be left to die.
    
    Yeah Yeah but enough with the compliments already.
    
    Typical knee jerk reaction.
323.2265BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 11:459
| <<< Note 323.2264 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Bye Bye Mrs. Dougherty!" >>>

| Typical knee jerk reaction.

	Jack, why is it that people seem to do this to you sooooooo often? In
other conferences too????


Glen
323.2266SMURF::WALTERSFri Jan 26 1996 11:581
    'Cos in the end, people get what they deserve.
323.2267POLAR::RICHARDSONCaptain DunselFri Jan 26 1996 12:104
    I heard on the news that some children have been able to fight off the
    HIV infection.
    
    This is certainly good news.
323.2268GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 13:313
Jack is right about one thing. No one should be forced to place themselves in 
jeopardy for someone else. The choice is the individuals regardless of the 
outcome. We should help or not help for our own reasons.
323.2269BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 13:3613
| <<< Note 323.2268 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>

| Jack is right about one thing. No one should be forced to place themselves in
| jeopardy for someone else. 

	Then they should not choose to be doctors. As Dick said, you have
doctors, nurses, who go to war. You have the same working with patients with
all sorts of diseases they could catch. You either accept it, or don't take the
oath. Cuz otherwise, it becomes the hypocritical oath.



Glen
323.2270not about individual doctorsGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Jan 26 1996 13:4114
    
      What's this about doctors not being able to refuse to treat a
     disease ?  I've had several decline - sorry, I am totally
     ignorant, please see Dr. Specialist who will give me a kickback.
    
      I thought this was about HOSPITALS, not individual doctors.
    
      There are hospitals who say, "Sorry, but we lack the gazillion
     dollars and rare expertise to do heart transplants.  Call this
     other place."  That's OK.  So far as I can see, the question is
     whether ALL hospitals ought to be equipped to treat AIDS.  So far
     as I know, this is not impractical.  If it were, it would be stupid.
    
      bb
323.2271BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 13:446
    
    	Bill, did you mean "treat AIDS" or "treat AIDS patients"?
    
    	The issue is not necessarily treating AIDS, but treating someone
    	with AIDS, whether treating for that disease or not.
    
323.2272BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 13:5314
| <<< Note 323.2270 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


| What's this about doctors not being able to refuse to treat a
| disease ?  I've had several decline - sorry, I am totally
| ignorant, please see Dr. Specialist who will give me a kickback.

	If someone does not know how to treat problem A, B, or C....there is no
problem. It's when they REFUSE to treat A, B or C when they do know how, is the
problem.



Glen
323.2273don't get the distinction, ShawnGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Jan 26 1996 13:5515
    
      Well, as I understand it, there really ISN'T any cure, which
     is the tragedy.  There are mitigating measures, but the prognosis
     is always horrible death.  They now have techniques of making this
     lengthy, excruciating, and expensive, but nobody lives 5 years
     with real AIDS.  Being HIV+ doesn't necessarily have this result,
     but it's the only path to AIDS, and they monitor you.
    
      Doctors actually tell people this.  "You are going to die.  If I
     could do anything, I would.  But there is nothing I can do.  Maybe
     someday we will figure it out."  I'd sure hate to have a doctor
     refuse to even tell me that, even if he does charge my insurance
     company for doing it.  Seems reasonable to me.
    
      bb
323.2274GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 14:112
Though I think that doctors should help, that does not give anyone the right to
force them to help.
323.2275BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 14:175
    
    	So if you were brought into the hospital after a heart attack and
    	died in the waiting room because all the doctors were on coffee
    	break, you'd be OK with that?
    
323.2276GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 14:2710
Re: .2275

Making a problem that doesn't exist, to prove a point? How many emergency rooms
do you know of that wouldn't treat a heart attach victim? I'd venture to say, 
none.

There are plenty of doctors to go around. Find one that will treat the condition
and leave the others alone. A doctor who refuses to treat patiences will 
probably lose his practice in a short time. In addition I wouldn't want a 
doctor who was forced to treat me. I might suspect he wasn't into his work.
323.2277BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 14:434
    
    	The issue is treating people WITH the condition, not treating the
    	condition itself.
    
323.2278SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment vescimur.Fri Jan 26 1996 14:505
    .2276
    
    Documented case.  Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis.  A man who had had
    a heart attack was allowed to die in the Emergency Room waiting area
    because he had no medical insurance.
323.2279BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 14:525
    
    	There was a "Quincy" episode that dealt with that issue.  A cert-
    	ain hospital was transferring incoming patients to a hospital a-
    	cross town if the patient didn't have sufficient coverage.
    
323.2280GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 15:067
    >Documented case.  Methodist Hospital, Indianapolis.  A man who had had
    >a heart attack was allowed to die in the Emergency Room waiting area
    >because he had no medical insurance.

So Dick, are you suggesting that new laws be created to force doctors 
participation, because you can find one case out of a millions?

323.2281Ain't anecdotes great!!SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIToo many politicians, not enough warriors.Fri Jan 26 1996 15:391
    
323.2282SMURF::BINDEREis qui nos doment vescimur.Fri Jan 26 1996 15:565
    .2280
    
    Doubting that one could be produced, you asked for a single citation. 
    I provided one.  I lived in Indianapolis at the time said breach of
    medical ethics occurred.
323.2283CSLALL::HENDERSONWe shall behold Him!Fri Jan 26 1996 16:0213


>                          -< Ain't anecdotes great!! >-

 
  They're also handy to have around in case of accidental poisoning!




 Jim   

323.2284BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 16:1213
    
    	I guess the point of this whole discussion is WHOOSHING right
    	over people.
    
    	If there is no way to force a doctor to treat someone, then
    	there is no such thing as an invalid excuse for NOT treating
    	someone.  They can refuse treatment for ANY reason that they
    	choose to use.
    
    	Becoming a doctor is tantamount to agreeing to treat anyone,
    	to the best of your abilities, whether or not it's documented
    	as such.
    
323.2285oh, bah - they're just peopleGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Jan 26 1996 16:339
    
      Get off your high horse, Shawn.  Medicine is A BUSINESS.  I
     don't do free engineering.  I don't do engineering I'm not
     competent to do.  I don't do engineering if I don't believe in
     the goals of it.  Doctors are no different.  There is no shortage
     of doctors willing to treat AIDS patients, as well as they can,
     which isn't very well.  Much ado about nothing.
    
      bb
323.2286BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 16:368
    
    	OK, a guy with AIDS goes to a hospital complaining of chest pains.
    	They refuse to give him treatment for the pains because he has
    	AIDS, and he dies of a heart attack as he's walking back out the
    	door.
    
    	Are you OK with this?
    
323.2287BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 17:066
| <<< Note 323.2274 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>

| Though I think that doctors should help, that does not give anyone the right to
| force them to help.

	Once they take the oath, they are required to, no?
323.2288BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 17:079
| <<< Note 323.2279 by BUSY::SLABOUNTY "Don't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448" >>>


| There was a "Quincy" episode that dealt with that issue.  A cert-
| ain hospital was transferring incoming patients to a hospital a-
| cross town if the patient didn't have sufficient coverage.

	Quincy went ballistic in that episode! Wait.... he went ballistic in
EVERY episode. :-)
323.2289BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 17:095
re: .2286


	Shawn, very good point, and things like that, or say a car accident, is
where people have the worst time with doctors.
323.2290BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 17:145
    
    	Glen, that's the 2nd or 3rd time I've relayed the same situation
    	with minor changes in the details ... people are confusing the
    	treating of an AIDS patient with the treating of AIDS itself.
    
323.2291BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 17:195

	Shawn, that was the one I think people might understand better than the
others. Although I got what you were saying. Hmmm... that could be a scary
thing for both of us.... ;-)
323.2292GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 17:5513
   
    	>OK, a guy with AIDS goes to a hospital complaining of chest pains.
    	>They refuse to give him treatment for the pains because he has
    	>AIDS, and he dies of a heart attack as he's walking back out the
    	>door.

The problem with this again is that it is a made up situation. If it has 
ever happened at all, it is so infrequent as to be of no consequence. We continue
to make rules and regulations based on such as this. Give me a common real
problem to solve on this subject, based on facts and then we can discuss it.
Doctors choose their fields based on their interest and experise. Void of
regulation doctors, like all other businesses, would move in to fill a need
that is genuine, for business, interest and personal reasons.
323.2293BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 18:043

	Ralston... insert car accident in the place of chest pains..... 
323.2294GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 18:177
Again, made up problem. If not OK, but show where it happens. You can keep 
changing the scenario all you want. Unless it is a real situation to solve it 
is worthless and should not be considered. In 1996 there are doctors and most
hospitals that are capable and willing to treat AIDS patients. Forcing
someone to do it only looks like it is solving a problem. If I force a 
doctor to treat a patient that he doesn't want to treat, what good is that
for the patient? I sure wouldn't want him treating me.
323.2295BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 18:187
    
    	Tom, it doesn't matter WHY he's there.  He's there, and he has
    	AIDS, and he's refused treatment.
    
    	This is somewhat of a fabricated situation, but isn't this what
    	started the current thread in the 1st place?
    
323.2296Force always produces the wrong outcome.GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 18:309
I am all for AIDS research and plenty of it. I think that it is imperative 
to cure this terrible disease. I think that the FDA should get out of the way
and let the doctors and AIDS patients decide what drugs to try and how to 
proceed. I don't however believe that anyone should be forced by anyone else to
participate. Force is of no use to anyone, especially the AIDS patient. The
high level and quality of research required to cure AIDS and the importance
of that cure makes it imperative that only the best doctors participate. If
I had AIDS I would not want a second rate doctor or one who's heart wasn't in 
the game.
323.2297BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 19:186
    
    	I give up.
    
    	Someone else can teach the rest of "Comprehension 101" while I
    	try and recover my sanity, or what little I have left.
    
323.2298GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 19:403
You often blame comprehension for those who you claim do not understand. Perhaps
your inability to communicate honestly and rationally has something to do with
it.
323.2299BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 19:418

	I don't remember shawn being irrational at all. And he has honestly
presented examples of things that can happen. So where are you coming from?


Glen

323.2300BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Jan 26 1996 19:411
snarf
323.2301GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 19:5616
Re: .2299, Glen

The examples are not real or happen so seldom as to be worthless. It is 
irrational and a waste of time IMO to create a problem just to solve it. 
A created example does not a problem make. 

If AIDS patients are not being treated for some reason that is real, it should be
examined. Why is it happening, are there alternatives. Are doctors and
hospitals refusing AIDS patients? If so why. What can be done to change this?
I would claim that forcing doctors and hospitals to treat AIDS patients is 
not the answer. AIDS patients will be hurt by this more than helped. They will
get inferior service which is only to their detriment. As I have stated their
are numerous doctors and hospitals available and willing to treat AIDS. That is
not the problem. The real problem that I see is the restrictions placed on
doctors and hospitals. Restrictions that put the brakes on real and affective
cures that are so desperately needed.
323.2302BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't like my p_n? 1-800-328-7448Fri Jan 26 1996 19:5711
    
    	Person wants heart condition treated.
    
    	Person has AIDS.
    
    	Doctor says "No treat.  AIDS bad."
    
    	Person dies of heart condition.
    
    	This bad.
    
323.2303GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesFri Jan 26 1996 20:012
Agree, but how often does it happen? Has it happened at all. Do you think 
forcing a doctor to treat the patient is to the patient's advantage. I don't.
323.2304SOLVIT::KRAWIECKIToo many politicians, not enough warriors.Fri Jan 26 1996 20:2119
    	Person wants heart condition treated.
    
    	Person has AIDS.
    
    	Doctor says "We'll treat.  AIDS bad."
    
        Person does not respond to treatment.
    
        Person becomes despondent.
    
        Person begins to hate doctor and blames him/her for
        not doing enough
    
        Person, just before slipping into a coma, spits in doctor's face
    	
        Person dies of heart condition.
    
    	This bad.
    
323.2305BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanitySat Jan 27 1996 22:5826
| <<< Note 323.2301 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>


| The examples are not real 

	False. I KNOW the accident one is real.

| or happen so seldom as to be worthless. 

	Oh yeah.... makes sense... AIDS patients don't have any type of
accidents where blood comes into play, so it has to be worthless. Uh huh....

| It is irrational and a waste of time IMO to create a problem just to solve it.

	Of course it would be a waste for you...cuz it shows how flawed your
thinking is...oh well....

| If AIDS patients are not being treated for some reason that is real, it should be
| examined. 

	Accidents, especially where blood is involved, isn't real? Uh huh....




Glen
323.2306CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusSun Jan 28 1996 01:549
    Glen,
    
    I got the universal protection lecture in my last First Aid course.
    All people in accidents are supposed to be treated as if they may have
    a body fluid transmisible desease.  I keep my gloves in a film can in
    my pack and have trained my girl scouts to always "glove up" when
    dealing with a bleeding accident.
    
    meg
323.2307COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertSun Jan 28 1996 11:5264
323.2308BRITE::FYFEUse it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.Mon Jan 29 1996 12:229
 Has anyone answered the question of the frequency a patients with AIDS being
 refused treatment?

 Is it a real problem? Few (if any) isolated instances?

 Someone set the scope of the issue please ...

 Doug.
323.2309GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesMon Jan 29 1996 13:3212
Re: .2305, Glen

I'm surprised at you Glen. Usually you keep your replies in context. Your 
emotional response to this issue is evident. Think about it. Forcing doctors
to treat patients (any patient, with any illness) will only result in the
quality of care to deteriorate. I personally do not want a doctor, who was 
forced by another law, to treat me. I would be very suspect of his dedication 
to my case. There are plenty of doctors that are willing to treat all the
known illnesses. It is s given that some problems will exist. However, the
frequency is much to small to warrant more stupid laws.

Tom
323.2310BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityMon Jan 29 1996 13:3922
| <<< Note 323.2309 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>


| I'm surprised at you Glen. Usually you keep your replies in context. Your
| emotional response to this issue is evident. 

	There is emotion involved. But it would be the same emotion involved if
someone, in an emergency situation, wasn't treated. It could be for AIDS, the
person's color, nationality, lack of insurance, anything.

| Think about it. Forcing doctors to treat patients (any patient, with any 
| illness) will only result in the quality of care to deteriorate. 

	What you have failed to see in all this is when we talk about the
common denominator in the cases. Emergencies. In an emergency situations,
people, any people, don't need to have doctors around who are not going to
attend to anyone who comes in during an emergency. If they can't do the job,
then don't be in that part of the hospital. It's very simple.



Glen
323.2311GENRAL::RALSTONFugitive from the law of averagesMon Jan 29 1996 13:589
Again Glen, your not including all of the context of my note. I know that some
problems will exist. If you think that a law, forcing doctors to treat all
patients, will eliminate these problems, I suggest you examine the numerous
laws presently on the books and see if the problems these laws were created
to alleviate worked. I suggest that they haven't. The only outcome of such a 
law will be the creation of a new bureaucratic mess that will cost taxpayers
more money and place more power in the hands of our politicians. I will even
be so bold to suggest that such a law would only increase incidents like
those that concern you.
323.2312BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityMon Jan 29 1996 15:2321
| <<< Note 323.2311 by GENRAL::RALSTON "Fugitive from the law of averages" >>>

| Again Glen, your not including all of the context of my note. I know that some
| problems will exist. If you think that a law, forcing doctors to treat all
| patients, will eliminate these problems, I suggest you examine the numerous
| laws presently on the books and see if the problems these laws were created
| to alleviate worked. 

	In an emergency room, there should be only ONE reason why a patient 
should be turned away. And that is if the hospital is not equiped to do the job
needed. Otherwise, they should help whoever comes in, PERIOD. 

| I will even be so bold to suggest that such a law would only increase 
| incidents like those that concern you.

	What I would see likely happening is if someone who did not want to
deal with certain types of people who come into the emergency room, wouldn't be
working in the emergency room. 


Glen
323.2313CSC32::M_EVANScuddly as a cactusMon Jan 29 1996 16:1914
    Actually there has been a study regarding pediatric HIV+ patients and
    discrimination.  children who are HIV + or merely have the
    antibodies for a short time are routinely denied repair of heart
    defects (not related to HIV, but common in children whose mothers had
    poor prenatal nutrition, a common problem amoung HIV+ women)  There are
    other items which are not treted as well.  This was in the news a
    couple of months ago.  It was a CDC study, FWIW.  
    
    If Dr's routinely discriminate against the smallest victims of this
    scourge, I am not surprised that the adults victims are simalarly
    treated.  
    
    meg
    meg
323.2314WECARE::GRIFFINJohn Griffin ZKO1-3/B31 381-1159Mon Jan 29 1996 16:262
    What -- no indignation about Israelis ditching Ethiopian blood
    donations?
323.2315COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Feb 16 1996 12:1860
323.2316GRANPA::MWANNEMACHERgoing, going, goneFri Feb 16 1996 13:3313
    
    
    Anyone catch the whole Tommy Morrison press conference yesterday?  What
    he said and what was shown on most news broadcasts seemed like two
    different things.  He said the lifestyle he led (permissive) can only
    lead to one thing.  Misery.  He also said he doesn't want kids to look
    at him as a role model any longer, but he hopes they will learn from
    his mistakes.
    
    Definitely a heartfelt message and one that took a lot of guts and has
    given me a lot of respect for this guy.
    
    Mike
323.2317MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Feb 16 1996 14:039
 Z   "It's sobering to me that almost one out of every three black men who
 Z   die in
 Z   this age group die of HIV, an illness that wasn't even recognised 15 to
 Z   16 years ago," Ward said. "These are very disturbing statistics."
    
    This is most likely attributed to the rampant spread of HIV in Central
    Africa to which Glen doesn't believe me.
    
    -Jack
323.2318CONSLT::MCBRIDEKeep hands &amp; feet inside ride at all timesFri Feb 16 1996 14:073
    Jack, your comprehension module is on the fritz again.  Whack your head
    on your desk a few times, that should straighten it out.  The data is
    for the U.S. HTH.
323.2319MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Feb 16 1996 14:194
    OH...
    
    
    Nevermind!!
323.2320BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityFri Feb 16 1996 17:206
| <<< Note 323.2317 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| This is most likely attributed to the rampant spread of HIV in Central
| Africa to which Glen doesn't believe me.

	No Jack, they are US figures only. 
323.2321See .2318 hthSOLVIT::KRAWIECKIHe's no lackey!! He's a toady!!Fri Feb 16 1996 17:271
    
323.2322BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityMon Mar 11 1996 14:5928
323.2323ACISS2::LEECHDia do bheatha.Mon Mar 11 1996 16:421
    Looks like Digital layed off all the walkers...
323.2324only couch potatoes remainGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseMon Mar 11 1996 16:534
    
      those of us left are too catatonic to even wiggle
    
      bb
323.2325BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityWed Mar 13 1996 13:4263

********************************************************************************
                      THIS IS A DIGITAL SPONSORED EVENT
********************************************************************************


	Hi Everyone!


		Well, we have gotten the Walk organizing started! With
	Digital not doing much of anything this year, we will have to
	do the bulk of it.

		In 1994 we raised $38+k, with 138 walkers. In 1995 we
	raised $4300+, with 21 walkers. Last year we had one person who
	came in with $1+k. And he wasn't planning on walking due to an
	injury.

		In 1996 we have got to do better. Not for Digital's 
	sake, but for those who could really use the money. 

		Site coordinators are really needed badly. Without
	them, it is going to be hard to get the message out.

		You're probably asking what would be required? That's
	an easy question to answer. We need people to hang posters and
	put pledge sheets somewhere where people can get to them. If
	that was all you did, then that would be fine. If you planned 
	an event, then you would probably have to have a meeting. But
	that is totally up to you. 

		HLO is having a contest for kids, where they draw a
	picture dealing with AIDS. The winner gets a t-shirt, and 
	everyone else gets their pictures on a poster. The t-shirt 
	will also be given to anyone who walks.

		Gear has said they would donate a jacket to us for the
	person who gains the most money from pledges. That will be
	determined by the person who comes up with the most money at
	pre-registration. (which looks to be in Littleton and Hudson
	this year)

		So all that is left is getting site coordinators for the 
	various facilities. We do have people who said they would cover the
	following facilities:

		ZKO1, ZKO3, TAY2, MRO1, NQO & HLO1-3


		If you are not at one of these facilities, and you can hang
	some posters, please let me know so I can add you to the list. 


	Thanks!


	Glen


********************************************************************************
                      THIS IS A DIGITAL SPONSORED EVENT
********************************************************************************
323.2326POWDML::HANGGELILittle Chamber of French HeatersWed Mar 13 1996 13:493
    
    When is the walk this year?
    
323.2327BIGQ::SILVABenevolent 'pedagogues' of humanityWed Mar 13 1996 14:067

	June 2nd for the Boston Walk, and June 9th for the Worcester Walk.



Glen
323.2328BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoWed Mar 13 1996 17:3613
	There is an AIDS Walk page that was started a couple of years ago. We
have permission to use it as a Digital page for walk info for 96. It will have
information about what is happening this year. Right now it is 2 years old, but
updates will be happening on a regular basis. The page is at:


   http://sdtad.zko.dec.com/pub/csgperf/group/wwlk/wwlk-aids-walk-info.html




Glen
323.2329BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue Mar 26 1996 18:1036

	We just got the numbers in from APW (AIDS Project Worcester) for
Digital. In 1994 there were 60 walkers with Digital. They raised $10,021.50. 
In 1995 there were only 10 walkers, and they raised only $1,629. 

	What seems evident in both the APW and AAC Walks is that the number of
people who actually walk are down. This is key, I believe. The APW Walk was
down 83% for walkers, while the AAC Walk was down 85%. What happened to the
walkers? 

	If you add in the money %'s, you get this result:


mf= matching funds


	1994 (with mf)   1994 (w/o mf)   1995	%drop with mf	%drop w/o mf

APW	 $10,021	   $6,700	 $1,629	     84%	    76%

AAC	 $38,000	  $25,000	 $4,300	     89%	    83%




	This is quite the drop in people, and in money. Can we make this year
any better? Not so much for Digital's sake, but for those who really need it. I
urge that if you can help out in any way with this Digital sponsored event,
please do. 

	What ways can we devise that might get some interest back into this?


Glen

323.2330MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Apr 23 1996 16:1215
Z    Police said they want to know if there are more victims. They said
Z    they are concerned that the incidents could lead to a kidnapping, or
Z    that the suspect's milk could transmit diseases or drugs to the infant.
        
Z    "There's always the possibility of HIV with fluids," Johnson said.
    
    This is a lie.  I have been assured by Glen AND the science community
    that nobody can catch AIDS except by unprotected sex, drug use, or
    transfusions.
    
    I wish these people would just mind their own business and stop trying
    to scare the public into something that isn't true.  We live in America
    and America is synonomous with freedom.
    
    -Jack
323.2331BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue Apr 23 1996 17:153

	Jack, to go along with what you are quoting, you are a boob.
323.2332BSS::PROCTOR_RSmarmy THIS!!!Tue Apr 23 1996 17:476
    > Jack, to go along with what you are quoting, you are a boob.
    
    
    I believe boobs were mentioned in today's edition of Wacky News
    Briefs". Something to do with a frustrated mother-wannabe...
    
323.2333MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Apr 23 1996 17:492
    Oh, so then you do admit that there are many more ways to catch
    HIV...and that our methods of determining truth are inconclusive...
323.2334BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue Apr 23 1996 18:505

	Jack, when you can find something where I said body fluids getting into
the blood stream is not a possible cause, then you have a point. But you never
will because I, and others, have talked about body fluids all along. 
323.2336BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue Apr 23 1996 18:543

	I don't think I can print what I am thinking, Shawn.... :-)
323.2335BUSY::SLABOUNTYFUBARTue Apr 23 1996 18:563
    
    	Jack's a few teats short of an udder sometimes, isn't he?
    
323.2337MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Apr 23 1996 19:272
    May the fleas from ten thousand diseased camels descend upon your naked
    bodies!   And may you NEVER RECOVER!!!!
323.2338BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue Apr 23 1996 19:403

	Nice answer, Jack. Maybe if you did some research into the disease....
323.2339BSS::SMITH_STue Apr 23 1996 23:122
    ...and watch out for those misquitoes, right?
    -ss
323.2340BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoWed Apr 24 1996 00:463

	I thought you couldn't write anymore? :-)
323.2341CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowWed Apr 24 1996 02:048

 mOsquito..





323.2342BSS::SMITH_SWed Apr 24 1996 03:024
    re .-2
       No. I can sneak in every once in a while.
    -ss
    
323.2343BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoWed Apr 24 1996 10:353

	How lucky we are not.
323.2344MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Apr 24 1996 15:199
    Glen:
    
    My initial posting here was a cynical response to the live free
    community.  Only to prove that the private actions of a few DO effect
    the whole community.  I get annoyed because this philosophy called
    Subjective Hedonism is a fallacy in itself.  All actions ultimately
    have an effect on the society at large.
    
    -Jack
323.2345LANDO::OLIVER_Bapril is the coolest monthWed Apr 24 1996 15:314
    |Subjective Hedonism is a phallacy in itself.
    
    As opposed to objective hedonism?
    
323.2346BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoWed Apr 24 1996 15:376

	Jack, that does not make any sense. You directed it right at me. Hmm...
ok, so you may have a point. :-)

	Of course your info was wrong as usual. :-)
323.2347MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Apr 24 1996 16:334
    Oh...so you do believe that every action ultimately has an effect on
    society as a whole.  Thanks for agreeing with me.
    
    
323.2348BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoWed Apr 24 1996 17:378

	Jack, it amazes me today that how you get the notes you write. It seems
like each time you write one to someone today, that person says the same thing,
"How did you get that from what I wrote?"



323.2349MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Apr 24 1996 17:531
    Fouteen Quatloos to anybody who can decipher Glens last reply.
323.2350BUSY::SLABOUNTYA Parting Shot in the DarkWed Apr 24 1996 18:218
    
    	OK, I'll try.
    
    	Translation:  "Jack, you are a moron."
    
    
    	And I'll take those 14 Quatloos in cash ... no checks.
    
323.2351MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Thu Apr 25 1996 13:076
    Chop chop all you want...but we can never escape the inevitable.
    
    Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
    are.
    
    
323.2352BUSY::SLABOUNTYAudiophiles do it 'til it hertz!Thu Apr 25 1996 15:0010
    
    >Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
    >are.
    
    	In the sense of "every single action has some effect [however
    	small or large] on the future", then yes, you're right.
    
    	But this is a blanket statement that just isn't true in all
    	cases.
    	
323.2353BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoFri Apr 26 1996 00:557
| <<< Note 323.2351 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they are.

	Explain...in detail. Not that I think you can, but I would love to see
you try.

323.2354MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 14:154
    Well, let's try it this way Glen.  Your personal life alone determines
    your parents outlook on you.  Be it good or bad, it makes no diff. 
    Your personal choices determine peoples outlook on your integrity, your
    convictions and character...be it good or bad, it makes no diff.
323.2355BUSY::SLABOUNTYCrazy Cooter comin' atcha!!Fri Apr 26 1996 14:4014
    
    	Jack, the fact that Glen likes guys does not effect my life a
    	bit, at least not in the way you're trying to explain.
    
    	However, let's say Glen is going somewhere to meet some guy,
    	and he's travelling down 85 in Hudson and I happen to be trav-
    	elling up 85 in Hudson.  His wheel falls off, he swerves into
    	my lane and hits my car.
    
    	NOW his personal choices have effected my life, since if he
    	didn't like guys he very probably wouldn't have been in that
    	particular place at that particular time, heading towards
    	that particular destination.
    
323.2356SMURF::WALTERSFri Apr 26 1996 14:461
    And all because the man has loose nuts.....
323.2357unless he's a sperm bankerWAHOO::LEVESQUEa legend beings at its endFri Apr 26 1996 14:554
    >	Jack, the fact that Glen likes guys does not effect my life a
    
     The fact that Glen "likes guys" doesn't effect any lives. Now if he
    liked women, then he might have a chance to effect a life.
323.2358CONSLT::MCBRIDEIdleness, the holiday of foolsFri Apr 26 1996 15:0110
    Shawn, obviously you fail to recognize the social expense associated
    with the gay lifestyle.  If there weren't gays, we would not have as
    many people to hate, fear and whisper about.  We would have less fodder 
    for our children to learn about morally righteous intolerance.  Pat 
    Robertson et al would only have half as much to blame on Satan.  We 
    would have to find another explanation for the eventual proliferation of 
    AIDS and other communicable diseases.  Yes, alternative lifestyles weigh 
    very heavily on society.  
    
    Brian
323.2359MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 15:1419
 Z    Yes, alternative lifestyles weigh 
 Z       very heavily on society. 
    
    Brian, let's make this more generic and include the whole attitude
    within our society since the 1960's.
    
    Central Africa, Puerto Rico, Southeast Asia, The Florida Keyes. 
    Brian...what do you think all these places have in common?  I'll give
    you a hint, it rhymes with pepidemic.  Hope this helps.
    
    And for your information, the inability of these slobs to keep their
    zippers up is weighing heavily on the taxpayers.  So yes, the little
    insignificant indiscretions of your ilk is costing everybody Brian.  
    
    And you have the gumption to sit there and smugly infer it doesn't have
    an impact on society.  Mister....you got balls.
    
    -Jack 
    
323.2360BUSY::SLABOUNTYCrazy Cooter comin' atcha!!Fri Apr 26 1996 15:185
    
    	RE: Doctah
    
    	Wow, I don't believe I used the wrong *ffect word.  Ouch!!
    
323.2361PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Apr 26 1996 15:182
  .2359  Brian's ilk??
323.2362MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 15:352
    Okay...that isn't fair.  How about types who keep their head in the
    sand?!
323.2363WONDER::BOISSEFri Apr 26 1996 16:3115
...a little quote heard one night a few months back, on
   Pat Robertson's 700 Club...they were doing a special report
   on the gay lifestyle...

  ..turning to his sidekick with the white hair...

  "..you know...at one time, the word 'gay' meant happy, joyful, carefree..
     ..well the truth is, these people are not happy, are they?"

  I was just waiting for him to begin a crusade to ban the use of the word
  "gay" for meaning anything other than "happy"...blame the gays for 
  destroying the word "gay"...will they never stop?

 Bob
323.2364Ilk thisCONSLT::MCBRIDEIdleness, the holiday of foolsFri Apr 26 1996 16:4623
    Jack, the 60's have nothing to do with it.  Do you really truly believe
    that there was an global unveiling of sexual awareness that began with 
    the 1960's?  Can you possibly be that ignorant?   
    
    Try this on for size Jack.  I blame the faux moralists for sticking
    their heads in the sand and ignoring the plight of humanity at large. 
    The empty platitutdes of "just say no" have given the right a smug
    moral perch in which to tsk tsk the unfortunates from.  Once again, you
    have no real solution other than to try and change everyone to your
    views.  You would be better off trying to stop the tide from coming in,
    Jack.  Your "ilks" inability to deal with that is costing society far
    more.  Your "ilks" unwillingness to help find workable solutions will
    eventually prove to be fatal.  A disease ignored is just as lethal as a
    disease confronted.  I'll choose to go down fighting. 
    
    I will agree with you on one point.  The decline continues to use a well 
    worn phrase.  I know it is too much to ask to take a look at how much
    of the decline is attributable to the pretentiously moralists at large,
    so I won't bother.  The bad news is that regardless of our positions,
    we will both end up at the bottom of the slide in the same festering
    heap.  
    
    Brian
323.2365NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Apr 26 1996 16:475
>  I was just waiting for him to begin a crusade to ban the use of the word
>  "gay" for meaning anything other than "happy"...blame the gays for 
>  destroying the word "gay"...will they never stop?

I blame them.
323.2366SMURF::BINDERUva uvam vivendo variatFri Apr 26 1996 17:1310
    .2351
    
    > Your actions effect other peoples live regardless of how private they
    > are.
    
    Ignoring your egregious linguistic solecism in an attempt to inject a
    serious tone into this banter, I ask you to explain what effect will be
    made on any other person by the decision of a single celibate man who
    lives alone to have a hand shandy instead of dropping right off to
    sleep.
323.2367GENRAL::RALSTONOnly half of us are above average!Fri Apr 26 1996 17:545
    Brian is correct in his assessment and Jack is correct on the impact
    to taxpayers. Both areas are the result of the irrational thinking that
    I often speak of. It is irrational to hate someone based on private
    personal preferences. It is also irrational for others to have to pay
    for someones private personal preferences or the results of them.
323.2368BUSY::SLABOUNTYDo ya wanna bump and grind with me?Fri Apr 26 1996 17:563
    
    	Uh-oh, here we go again.
    
323.2369MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 18:1740
 Z   Jack, the 60's have nothing to do with it.  Do you really truly believe
 Z   that there was an global unveiling of sexual awareness that began
 Z   with the 1960's?  Can you possibly be that ignorant?   
    
    Of course not.  Syphallis and Gonorrhea have been around since the
    first steps of humnakind.  I think it would be ignorant to deny the
    60's period of free love...which went well into the 70's has brought
    about a sharp increase in the spread of death.  Is this a fair
    estimate?
        
 Z   Try this on for size Jack.  I blame the faux moralists for sticking
 Z   their heads in the sand and ignoring the plight of humanity at large. 
    
    Brian, "just say no" is a sham of course.  It is human nature to ignore
    such common sense and I believe "just say no" is about all anybody
    could do....although doomed to failure.  No...sometimes society needs a
    SLAP in the face to get their attention.  So far, AIDS hasn't been 
    adequate enough for this.  
    
Z    The empty platitutdes of "just say no" have given the right a smug
Z    moral perch in which to tsk tsk the unfortunates from.  Once again,
Z    you have no real solution other than to try and change everyone to your
Z    views.  You would be better off trying to stop the tide from coming
Z    in, Jack.  Your "ilks" inability to deal with that is costing society
Z    far more.  Your "ilks" unwillingness to help find workable solutions
Z    will eventually prove to be fatal.
    
    Oh, but my ilk is doing something about it.  Ever hear the expression,
    "Think Globally, Act Locally"?  I for one pour my life into my
    children...because they are going to be the adults of tomorrow.  If Mr.
    Smith across the street is cheating on his wife and ignoring the kids,
    then there is little I can do to change his behavior other than tell
    him he is participating in destructive behavior.  Of course I will get
    the Soapbox cold shoulder regarding the inappropriateness of meddling
    into his business.  So the most I can do is try to set a good example
    for his kids when I see them...and pray the fallout isn't too bad for
    them when the powderkeg goes off.  It always does eventually.  I don't
    wish it on anybody...but I don't deny the inevitable.
    
    -Jack
323.2370Flappers were cooler than hippiesASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereFri Apr 26 1996 19:157
323.2371CONSLT::MCBRIDEIdleness, the holiday of foolsFri Apr 26 1996 19:3669
    The age of "free love" you seem so fond of pointing to as the
    accelerant of the demise of current society, was a non-event.  A
    curiosity.  It had as much staying power as the leisure suit.  There 
    is no spike on the chart of global mortality.  Life expectancies are 
    still rising, on average.  If you wish to pin our pending demise on 
    something, pin it on greedheaded money mongers and the ongoing 
    industrial explosion in the third world.  Along with this new found 
    global prosperity comes the continuous depletion of resources and a 
    commensurate population increase with all the sordid trimmings.  
    
    Focusing on AIDS and gays is so myopic in terms of the big picture.  
    Definitely a serious problem that I am confident will be dealt with 
    in time.  Most diseases that are deemed incurable, eventually are cured.  
    Of course it is not a slap in the face because people are not falling down 
    in the streets.  It is tragic when someone dies.  It has not touched
    enough people, yet.  There are far scarier things to deal with than AIDS
    I'm afraid.  Some natural, like diseases we have yet to be treated to
    and some precipitated though our indiscriminate rape of the
    environment.  
    
    If it is human nature to ignore the "common sense" of denying ones
    sexuality, (this is what you are asking, yes?) then why would you not
    want to arm people with all of the weapons possible to combat the
    spread of disease?  Why would we not wake up to the fact that teens
    will get pregnant, and gays and unmarried people will have sex and arm 
    folks with the knowledge on how to prevent the unpleasant consequences 
    these actions may bring?  Why would we deny them the education and tools 
    (condoms, b.c., etc.) to give them a fighting chance?  Jack, you are 
    always asserting that humanity is weak and depraved and we will pander 
    to our desires.  How could we be so intellectually dishonest to not 
    confront these assertions and help prepare our children and adults alike 
    to meet the challenges head on, from all fronts?  To do otherwise is 
    morally bankrupt IMO.  
    
    The expression "Think globally, act locally" is very appropriate.  It
    is ironic that you of all people should cling to this liberal mantra 
    as it is usually associated with {GASP!} the tree hugging, granola 
    crunching, free lovers.  If it works for you, fine.  For many it means, 
    "I'll send my dog to the Joneses yard to take a crap so I don't have to 
    deal with it."  
    
    If locally to you begins and ends at your children, then yes, you, OJM,
    have your head stuck 12" into the beach.  Like it or not, you are a
    member of a larger section of society.  Your nice little home with
    satellite dish that doesn't receive the Body Dance stations, does not sit 
    alone on the frontier.  Hiding in the living room will not shield you 
    from the rest of us depraved beings.  
          
    So many times in here I read "I do everything I can to protect my
    children from harm".  Why then do many of us stop short when it comes to
    sex education, birth control and allowing children to be aware of what
    they are eventually going to encounter in society at large?  Ignore the
    Pope.  Ignore the self proclained moralists.  Do the right thing by 
    untying the other hand and giving kids a fighting chance.  It strikes
    me as more than mildly hypocritical to put boundaries on what that
    protection consists of.  
    
    WRT to Mr. Smith across the street, whether or not you interfere with
    his business depends upon your relationship with the family.  Teaching 
    your kids about how destructive that behavior is, is a good first step.  
    What are you going to do when you find out one of your children went out 
    of bounds as defined by you and there are dire consequences?  Tell them 
    "I told you so!"?  If you were close to the Smith's in your analogy, I 
    personally would commend you for giving it a shot at helping out.  Far
    better than turning a blind and mumbling something about not being my
    brother's keeper.  I am sure that doesn't mean much but fwiw, sometimes
    it takes courage to help out a fellow human being.  
    
    Brian
323.2372MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 19:5227
    Brian:
    
    Heck, I am all for helping out our fellow man/woman.  Never said
    otherwise.  I do believe however that the path of least resistance
    should be attempted first....and the "just say no" mentality, totally
    futile though it may be, is in essence the most valid and logical way
    to curb disease, but it is the most ignored.  I don't believe it is in
    societies best interest to accolade lifestyles as...ooouuu....Johnny is
    expressing his freedom....or....ooouuuuu...my coworker just had her
    second child without being married.  I see the amoralists condoning
    this through their silence...and it is quite deafening.  
    
    Why is it so bad to retort this wonderful news with...."No...no I don't
    think that was a good decision at all.  Statistically, you will most
    likely end up on welfare and I resent supporting you.  Use your brain
    dingbat!"  Why is that Brian???  Why is it so wrong for society to be
    discouraging this kind of thinking?  You say that my decisions are
    fine...if they work for me.  But ultimately the stupid decision that
    Johnny or Sally makes will ultimately cost me something...and all
    because Brian thinks I should butt out because I don't know the person
    well enough to tell them to their face how inane their logic is.
    
    I believe it is the responsibility of individuals throughout society to
    treat these amoral decisions in the same manner as discouraging a child
    from drinking or smoking weed.  I just don't see a whole lot of it.
    
    -Jack
323.2373ACISS2::LEECHextremistFri Apr 26 1996 19:573
    .2364
    
    Broad brush alert!!
323.2374MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Apr 26 1996 20:015
323.2375BUSY::SLABOUNTYDogbert's New Ruling Class: 100KFri Apr 26 1996 20:065
    
    >a rise in illegitamecy,
    
    	Was the same true for illiteracy?
    
323.2376POWDML::AJOHNSTONbeannachdFri Apr 26 1996 20:196
    a datum?
    
    eek. 
    
    seems a bit of a slim basis for conjecture...
    
323.2377CONSLT::MCBRIDEIdleness, the holiday of foolsFri Apr 26 1996 20:4956
    Let's try this again, Jack.  Encourage abstinence, "just say no",
    whatever.  Agreed.  So far, so good?  
    
    When the above doesn't work we should go and belittle them for their
    indiscretions to shame them into modifying their behavior.  Right?  You
    know, call them names like dingbat etc. and predict the economic demise 
    of a co-worker (someone that is working yes?) End of story.  Right?  
    
    Wow.  I cannot for the life of me understand how I missed the brilliant
    yet simplistic beauty of this behavior modification style.  Give them
    nothing to work with up front and when they screw up, reinforce how much
    of a loser they are.  
    
    Jack, from what I read, you are willing to help your fellow human as
    long as it fits inside a nicely confined set of boundaries.  
    Discouragement for you it seems stops at filling their ears with do's 
    and don'ts and then ranting about how much of a burden they are when
    the predestined outcome appears.  
    
    Here's an OJM analogy for you:  
    
    A family get a new puppy.  The family does nothing but tell the puppy
    to go outside to do its duty.  No paper available, no hands on training
    i.e. placing the dog outside when it's time.  After the 25th time that the
    dog piddles on the shag rug, they take it to be destroyed because "it's
    a bad dog."  Pretty much a waste of everyone's time, especially the 
    puppy, wouldn't you say?  
    
    Look.  Your opinion of single parenthood and gay lifestyles works for
    you.  I think it is negligent for society to adopt an attitude that 
    all we have to do is just tell them, no.  To give them any other means of 
    learning the "correct" behavior is tantamount to condoning all the bad 
    things we wish to prevent, is grossly negligent, IMO.  If you believe
    your tactless diatribe on a single mother is helping to curb socially
    unacceptable behavior, you will in all likelihood see baby number three
    before too long.  
    
    You may be able to teach your children the correct behaviors.  Not
    everyone can or has the courage to speak to their children frankly
    about what to expect in the real world.  I feel safe in saying that we
    agree the circle should be broken.  That means stepping in, not butting
    out.  Words do not equate to direct action though.  The messages being
    delivered should be along the lines of:
    
    1. Don't do it.
    2. Here are the consequences.
    3. Here is the prevention.  
    
    With a little imagination, I bet the prevention list could be long and
    workable.  When the consequences stop at "you'll get sick and go to
    Hell" and the prevention is nothing but an endless loop of Go to 1, we
    have just created the perfect perpetual motion engine.  The product of
    which is all the evil and nasty things we (see that? we) ultimately wish 
    to prevent.   
    
    Brian
323.2378BSS::SMITH_SFri Apr 26 1996 20:593
    Yes, get rid of that damn dog.
    -ss
    
323.2379BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSat Apr 27 1996 00:0321
| <<< Note 323.2354 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Your personal life alone determines your parents outlook on you. Be it good 
| or bad, it makes no diff.

	Yes, it DOES make a difference. My parents viewed my homosexuality in a
totally different light when I first told them. But as my dad sais, he had to
swallow his pride, do some investigating, and find out that homosexuality did
not change anything about me. It was not something that should be used to guage
what kind of person I am. And this is coming from a guy who would walk out of
the room if my mother and I talked about anything that had the word gay in it.
Hell, last year he came over and helped out with outfield practice with a gay
team I am on. My personal life SHOULD not set up anything for anyone except me.
If I include other people in it, then at that point in time, they too are
affected. But not until I do. If I have sex with a man, I don't think I'm going
to go into it with my parents. It does not affect them.

| Your personal choices determine peoples outlook on your integrity, your
| convictions and character...be it good or bad, it makes no diff.

	No, Jack. Not always.
323.2380BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSat Apr 27 1996 00:055
| <<< Note 323.2356 by SMURF::WALTERS >>>

| And all because the man has loose nuts.....

	Toooooo funny!
323.2381BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSat Apr 27 1996 00:078
| <<< Note 323.2363 by WONDER::BOISSE >>>


| "..you know...at one time, the word 'gay' meant happy, joyful, carefree..
| ..well the truth is, these people are not happy, are they?"

	Bob, I woke up early one morning and was flipping through the channels.
I saw that. Unreal, huh? To think I must have caught a rerun.....
323.2382BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSat Apr 27 1996 00:096
| <<< Note 323.2374 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Easy...the 60s and 70s stand as the pinnacle of a rise in illegitamecy,
| abortions, and sexually transmitted diseases.  The datum is there!

	Jack, where is the datum now?
323.2383CSC32::M_EVANSIt's the foodchain, stupidSat Apr 27 1996 22:2922
    jack, the 60's and early 70's are long gone.  In the intervening
    decades we have had a "just say no" instead of "just say Know" system,
    and where has it gotten us?  During the "free-love" era, I knew few
    pregnant teens, few people who had gotten the clap and the one who got
    syphillis got it playing games with needles and an infected fellow
    junkie.  he was still a mainliner when I met him, but was scrupulous
    about keeping his own works and keeping them clean.  (Things you learn
    when volunteering at a clinic, you know)  
    
    Now we have a country who has spent the last decade(s) saying, "just
    say no" to kids, while ranting that giving those kids who make the
    decision to say yes the tools to keep themselves unpregnant,
    undiseased, is tantamount to giving them a green light to boff whoever
    they please.  It is the '80's and '90's where teen pregnancy, HIV, Hep
    B, and non a non b hep, clamydia, herpes, are epidemic.  Penecillin
    resistant clap was a no op in this town until 1982, even with a large
    number of young men who came back from Southeast Asia in the early
    '70's.  
    
    Now where is the problem?
    
    meg
323.2384BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSun Apr 28 1996 13:397

	Meg, that last question will force Jack to deal with the situation we
have today. Don't expect him to answer, as I am sure he does not know.


Glen
323.2385MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Apr 29 1996 18:4930
 Glen, I will be glad to address the issue.  I've done it in the past and
    I'll do it yet again.
    
 Z   Now we have a country who has spent the last decade(s) saying, "just
 Z   say no" to kids, while ranting that giving those kids who make the
 Z   decision to say yes the tools to keep themselves unpregnant,
 Z   undiseased, is tantamount to giving them a green light to boff
 Z   whoever they please.
    
    Please don't take this as a personal affront Meg...the bottom line
    is...
    
    
    We don't trust the crowd you hang around with Meg...it's as simple as
    that!  Once again it all comes down to Marketing and believe
    me...Planned Parenthood is in my book a "hostile witness".  
    Any parent stupid enough to throw their children to the wolves is just
    asking for trouble.  Planned Parenthood should be banned from the
    Public School System.
    
    On the other hand, the local church has been sorely lax in reaching out
    to the community regarding sex education.  The silence of the church
    holds no more virtue than Planned Parenthood.
    
    ---------
    
    Glen, the bottom line with you is that societies goof ups don't have to
    be handled by anybody...except the goof who goofed.  
    
    -Jack
323.2386BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoMon Apr 29 1996 21:2315
| <<< Note 323.2385 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| We don't trust the crowd you hang around with Meg...it's as simple as that!  

	Name the "we", if you will. 

| Glen, the bottom line with you is that societies goof ups don't have to
| be handled by anybody...except the goof who goofed.

	Jack, I believe that is your policy. It's cheaper and more republican
that way. You're poor and on welfare? Too bad, fix it yourself.



Glen
323.2387MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Apr 29 1996 21:4515
 Z  Jack, I believe that is your policy. It's cheaper and more republican
 Z  that way. You're poor and on welfare? Too bad, fix it yourself.
    
    Actually, it is more a libertarian  mantra than a republican one.  
    Being poor and on welfare isn't exactly what I was thinking Glen.  I
    was actually referring to the people who poo poo the Christian Right
    and scowl at what the Christian Right has to say...and even give them
    the finger....just before they fall into the ditch and have to be
    bailed out.
    
    Glen, I'm always glad to give a helping hand.  From what I can see
    however, you have absolutely NO right for judging anybody's harsh
    attitudes toward stupidity.  
    
    -Jack
323.2388BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoMon Apr 29 1996 21:4823
| <<< Note 323.2387 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| I was actually referring to the people who poo poo the Christian Right and 
| scowl at what the Christian Right has to say...and even give them the finger..
| ..just before they fall into the ditch and have to be bailed out.

	Jack, people can turn to God without having to turn to the Christian
Right. There are many conservatives I would turn to for help if needed. But not
the Right.

| Glen, I'm always glad to give a helping hand.  

	Then why is it when one asks you to listen, you can't do it? It would
help if you would not put people into neat little packages like you do. 

| From what I can see however, you have absolutely NO right for judging 
| anybody's harsh attitudes toward stupidity.

	I don't judge you, Jack. I give you my opinions. Only God can really
judge you accurately.


Glen
323.2389Two AIDS WalksBIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoThu May 02 1996 18:3171
323.2390CSC32::M_EVANSIt's the foodchain, stupidFri May 03 1996 20:4018
    jack,
    
    PP has not been in most Schools in my area since 1975.  The pregnancy
    rate for girls in middle and high school has skyrocketed since then.  I
    have not seen th "Johnny has a new set of Wheels" poster in any of the
    health classes or in hallways since the early 1980's.  Strange that the
    teen pregnancy rate also started to go through the roof about the same
    time the posters were decided to be MI.  (Morally Incorrect)  "Just say
    No," instead of "this is why you should avoid pregnancies" has been IMO
    counter-productive.  Raise your kids any way you wish, but I want the
    kids in my neighborhood to understand about and use protection should
    they decide not to pay attention to abstinence information.  Your kids
    too.  I don't want some innocent person being killed or impregnated
    because your kids didn't understand that condoms are necessary if you
    have sex outside of a comitted, monagomous relationship where both
    partners know and share their STD status and are ready to make babies.  
    
    meg
323.2391MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri May 03 1996 21:0323
    Meg:
    
    There is very little I can dispute in what you have said.  I just
    wished people in years past had used their brains.  For example, I
    believe the "sex is a natural function" talk should have been revealed,
    but should have been superceded by the message of marriage and family.
    As much as you poo poo the staistics you wrote this morning, they are
    fact.  Being in a single parent family, although unavoidable at times,
    is robbing the child of something they very much need and the kids
    stand a greater chance of failure in life...may not happen but the
    chances increase nonetheless!  
    
    This is why I have the check list....Before having a child...
    
    -MUST graduate from high school
    -MUST be married...
    -MUST be able to hold down a job...
    
    Don't want to get married...fine but don't have kids because you are
    putting a greater chance of burden on me...and everybody else (not
    directed at you personally!).
    
    -Jack
323.2392CSC32::M_EVANSIt's the foodchain, stupidFri May 03 1996 23:3715
    So, um jack,
    
    Are you going to force abortions on all who don't meet your criteria? 
    Steal their children from them when they give birth?  Vasectomize all
    boys and freeze their sperm as soon as they have live wigglies, then
    distribute it to a fertility specialist when people meet the criteria
    and get a license to reproduce?  
    
    C'mon Jack, get serious.  Single parent homes that have no extended
    family have problems.  Dual parent homes that are dysfunctional will
    have problems with children.  There are a lot of things tht boil down
    to problem kids.  It isn't just single parenthood, graduation from
    highschool, marital status, age of first pregnancy tht is the problem.
    
    meg
323.2393http://quince.tay.dec.com/www/silva/glen.htmlBIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoSat May 04 1996 22:557

	If I remember when I get into work Monday, I'll put the URL in for the
1995 AIDS numbers. But if you go to my homepage, it's there under the Dr icon.


Glen
323.2394BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue May 07 1996 21:1711

	Ok, I didn't remember on Monday, but I did now.... here is the URL for
the 1995 AIDS numbers:


                    gopher://cdcnac.org:72/11/4/yearend95



Glen
323.2395BIGQ::SILVAMr. LogoTue May 14 1996 20:3515

	Ok, for the recipient list, for the Walk route, how to get to Boston
Common for the Walk, insentive prizes, etc.... EVERYTHING! (even info on what
the AIDS Action Committee does)  The URL is


                           http://www.aac.org/walk/


	It takes about 1 minute to load, but after that it is pretty quick. Mr.
Bill found this.


Glen
323.2396Boston AIDS Walk Pre-Registration Date SetBIGQ::SILVABoston Gay Pride, June 8Wed May 29 1996 17:0931
     -----------------------------++++++++++-----------------------------
     Pre-Registration for the Boston AIDS Walk in TAY1 and HLO2 on May 31
     -----------------------------++++++++++-----------------------------

	The Boston AIDS Walk is on Sunday, June 2nd. Digital is having a
	Pre-Registration for this Walk in TAY1 Cafe (11:00-12:30), and the 
	HLO2 Lobby (11:30-2:00) on May 31st.

	What is Pre-Registration? For those of you who are walking, it allows
	you to come in with your pledge sheets, and pledge dollars before the
	Walk itself. This will help keep you out of the long lines that are
	present the day of the Walk. Also, this will also help you take your
	pre-registration prizes early, which means you don't have to carry 
	them over the 10k Walk. 

	What this does for the AIDS Action Committee is allows them to get a
	head start on processing the paperwork. As the day after the Walk is
	quite a busy time for them. 

	What some site coordinators have said they would do is to gather up 
	your pledges from your site, and bring them to one of the
	pre-registration sites for you! For a list of the site coordinators
	for your facility, check out note 5.25 in the WECARE::AIDS_WALK
	notesfile, or the AIDS Walk homepage @:

   http://sdtad.zko.dec.com/pub/csgperf/group/wwlk/wwlk-aids-walk-info.html


	So if you aren't interested in standing in long lines the day of the
	Walk, stop by the pre-registration tables at TAY1 or HLO2!
323.2397MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed May 29 1996 18:3915
    Glen,
    
    Just curious...honestly...and don't mean to sound like a troublemaker
    but because of the sensitivity of this forum...I'll take a chance and
    ask anyway...
    
    Why specifically have you taken such a strong interest in this
    disease...considering the disease is not one of gay origin...not a
    disease of the gay population, and one that is spreading far more
    rapidly toward the heterosexual community.
    
    I do believe you are operating a worthy cause here but was just curious
    if your passion is driven from a personal loss.
    
    Thanks.
323.2398BIGQ::SILVABoston Gay Pride, June 8Wed May 29 1996 19:1122
323.2399You all have my email address....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftThu May 30 1996 20:4324
    Jack -
    
    I got involved several years ago for a very simple reason - a good
    friend asked.
    
    Since then I've walked every year.  A couple of years ago, when
    the web was still young, I created a simple internal web page about
    the walks.  This was before many people were talking about "intranets".
    (Now there is a page about the walk on the internet.)
    
    
    A couple of winters ago we were visiting my folks when we got to talking
    about the people we had lost over the years.  Cancer, heart attacks, and
    AIDS claimed too many.  Erica mentioned that it was the rare family that
    hadn't been touched by all three.  My parents commented that they didn't
    know anyone that had died of AIDS.
    
    A few weeks later I got a call from my mother.  Her nephew, my cousin
    has just passed on - AIDS.
    
    
    One day maybe you too will realize that this isn't a they disease.
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2400CSC32::M_EVANSI'd rather be gardeningThu May 30 1996 21:1113
    HIV is a communicable, incurable, and invariably fatal infection at
    this time.  I have lost a very dear friend and several acquaintances to
    AIDS.  I support the research for it the same as I do innoculations for
    children.  
    
    I would imagine that my risk for HIV is at least as low as some of the
    more MC people in here, however, I do know that I want a cure or 100%
    prevention for this scourge.  since living pure is not a guarantee
    (some people have wound up infected by their partners who weren't
    living cleanly and others through transfusions, births, or
    breastfeeding) I think that working toward a cure is a good thing.
    
    meg
323.2401NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri May 31 1996 12:445
>    HIV is a communicable, incurable, and invariably fatal infection at
>    this time.

Aren't there some people who've been HIV+ for years yet show no signs of
developing AIDS?
323.2402CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri May 31 1996 13:0211
>Aren't there some people who've been HIV+ for years yet show no signs of
>developing AIDS?


 Magic Johnson for one..




 Jim
323.2403NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri May 31 1996 13:031
No, I mean lotsa years.
323.2404CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri May 31 1996 13:134


 ah...
323.240543GMC::KEITHDr. DeuceFri May 31 1996 13:143
    I saw a thing on TV about a guy in NYC (I think) who has been for 10+
    (?) years. They (medical professionals/researchers) have been studying
    the heck out of him. He has never advanced to AIDS from HIV+. 
323.2406CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri May 31 1996 13:163

 no, he means "lotsa years"  :-)
323.2407WECARE::GRIFFINFri May 31 1996 13:337
    
    New book out by Peter Duesberg disputes the HIV-AIDS link.
    
    Makes HIV sound pretty harmless, if'n you stay away from IV drugs, etc.
    
    (So much for my 2-minute browse at Barnes & Noble).
    
323.2408POWDML::AJOHNSTONbeannachdFri May 31 1996 14:0319
    Yes, there are long-term survivors who've been HIV+ for upwards of 10
    years. [PARADE magazine does annual updates on a group of 10 that is
    now down to 6, mayber less]
    
    I don't personally know anyone who has lasted that long. The longest
    anyone I've known has lived with HIV present is 7.5 years. The shortest
    is less than one, but her immune system was already very trashed from
    other illness.
    
    I have a cousin who tested positive about two years ago. She hasn't
    gotten _dangerously_ ill with anything yet, but her life-long battle
    with yeast infections has meant that she's been hospitalised a few
    times and she gets other, pesky opportunitistic infections with dismal
    frequency.
    
    Long-term survivors are very in demand as test subjects. There is much
    hope that their survival will point us toward cure or vaccine.
    
      Annie
323.2409SMURF::BINDERUva uvam vivendo variatFri May 31 1996 14:584
    There are several documented cases of infants, born to HIV+ mothers, who
    were themselves also HIV+ but have now, a few years into their
    childhood, apparently somehow managed to rid themselves of the disease;
    they show no trace whatever of HIV antibodies or virus.
323.2410BIGQ::SILVAFri May 31 1996 21:1038
323.2411CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowSat Jun 01 1996 03:235



  Overuse of exclamation points alert!
323.2412BIGQ::SILVASun Jun 02 1996 23:093

	Well, after last year being so disapointing, I got excited!
323.2413MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 03 1996 15:338
  ZZ   One day maybe you too will realize that this isn't a they disease.
    
    I will check out Glen's homepage.  A few years ago, it seemed like alot
    of the money was being diverted to special interest groups and
    political interests...which is why I never donated or participated in
    the walk.
    
    -Jack
323.2414CSC32::M_EVANSI'd rather be gardeningMon Jun 03 1996 18:356
    You mean like hospice or the Southern Colorado Aids Project?  (The
    group that sees to meals on wheels, support groups, getting into
    medical tests (e.g. experiments) .....?  (These are two biggies for
    AIDS fundraising here in Colorado) 
    
    meg
323.2415MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 03 1996 19:4813
    Meg:
    
    No doubt much of the money is going to good groups.  Like the United
    Way however, money is also getting channeled to PACs and other
    organizations who are in reality promoting an agenda rather than using
    the money for research and meaningful causes.  
    
    The listing of organizations is in the AIDS WALK conference.  Pine
    Street Inn is indeed a worthy place, needle exchange programs may not
    be considered the best and therefore, people may want to consider
    earmarking their donations...similar to that of the United Way.
    
    -Jack
323.2416BIGQ::SILVAMon Jun 03 1996 20:5623
| <<< Note 323.2415 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Way however, money is also getting channeled to PACs and other organizations 
| who are in reality promoting an agenda rather than using the money for 
| research and meaningful causes.

	I'm glad that you, who until today, have never seen a list of what the 
money is being spent on, can make the claim you did above. Interesting. 

| The listing of organizations is in the AIDS WALK conference. Pine Street Inn 
| is indeed a worthy place, needle exchange programs may not be considered the 
| best and therefore, people may want to consider earmarking their donations...
| similar to that of the United Way.

	The people in the Christian notes conference wanted to see a list of the
orgs who would receive money. I provided them with a list. I got some very
interesting mail from people. Some who said they were not going to give any
money to the AAC, but were helping out in other ways. For some, they sent money
to specific orgs. So your idea is a good one if there are things on the list
that you don't want to see get money.


Glen
323.2417MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 04 1996 13:5147
Glen:

I actually did a posting in the C-P conference in 1994 (I believe), offering a
list of the organizations the AIDS Walk funded.  Some of them were very 
politically oriented and had nada to do with R&D, but had more to do with 
promoting agendas.

Incidentally, while looking for this list I came across an interesting exerpt
from a discussion Glen and I had a few years ago.  This was in regard to
Elders distributing faulty condoms in the Arkansas School System....

I told another participant that I should go to Washington and fast for her
departure.  The challenge was to go and do it...

Note 91.4151                  Christianity and Gays                 4151 of 5559
AIMHI::JMARTIN                                        4 lines  18-JUL-1994 18:43
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    No fast required, her incompetence is a testimony in itself.  She'll be
    gone by the end of the year.  
    
    -Jack

Note 91.4152                  Christianity and Gays                 4152 of 5559
BIGQ::SILVA "Memories....."                          14 lines  19-JUL-1994 09:16
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------


        Jack, you amaze me. I'm finding more and more that you don't SEEM to
stand by your convictions. I guess maybe you COULD be one of those people that
say a lot, but then really do nothing to change anything. One of those, "some
other person will do it" type-o-guy. It really showed in your last note. If you
want to see a change, then do more than JUST SITTING AT THE KEYBOARD TYPING!
Get up and take a stand. You'd be surprised at how good it really can be when
you participate in something instead of just squawking about it. You would then
be able to find out some of the things it takes to make changes. Try it
sometime. (if you have, tell us about it)



A perfect example of how Glen diverts the discussion by ignoring reality.  
Suddenly the discussion goes from Mz. Elders to my squaking...

Glen...read and learn my son!  I need not act out these matters as stupidity
always surfaces on its own.  By the way, per usual I am correct in my 
predictions!  Sorry you don't have as good a hit rate!!!

-Jack
323.2418BIGQ::SILVATue Jun 04 1996 14:0028
| <<< Note 323.2417 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>


| I actually did a posting in the C-P conference in 1994 (I believe), offering a
| list of the organizations the AIDS Walk funded.  Some of them were very
| politically oriented and had nada to do with R&D, but had more to do with
| promoting agendas.

	So why didn't you post that list in here? You obviously went back in
CP. Come on Jack, post the list.

| A perfect example of how Glen diverts the discussion by ignoring reality.
| Suddenly the discussion goes from Mz. Elders to my squaking...

	Gee Jack, maybe the people should go back into the notesfile and see
what you posted before that as well. How you wanted this stopped, you wanted
people to hear the news, but how you wouldn't be the one to do it. That is
where I said you don't stand by your convictions. You squawk, but do squat.

| Glen...read and learn my son!  I need not act out these matters as stupidity
| always surfaces on its own.  By the way, per usual I am correct in my
| predictions!  Sorry you don't have as good a hit rate!!!

	Jack, too funny. I love the above when you leave out how you complained
in notes, but never went out to try and make a change yourself. You are just
lacking the convictions to do something about it.

Glen
323.2419BIGQ::SILVATue Jun 04 1996 19:513

	Jack... you were in... but are you gonna answer the previous reply?
323.2420MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 04 1996 20:004
    Answer what?  I cannot find where I posted the list.  I looked in the
    AIDS topic and the Gays topic.  I know I posted it some time back.
    
    
323.2421BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 02:5315
| <<< Note 323.2420 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Answer what?  I cannot find where I posted the list.  I looked in the
| AIDS topic and the Gays topic.  I know I posted it some time back.

	Can you remember any of the names of those organizations that were
supposed to be so bad? And what the money was to be used for in that
organization?

	Also, will you be addressing your lack of convictions, and your then
distortions of what I wrote in cp?


Glen

323.2422MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 05 1996 14:218
    Glen, I don't lack conviction just because I'm incapable of doing the
    extensive traveling our illustrious Gloria Stienam has been able to do.
    
    And no, other than ACT UP, many of the names allude me.  And I didn't
    say they were so bad.  I said I will not participate because alot of
    the money is being lobbied to special interest PACs.
    
    -Jack
323.2423BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 14:5524
| <<< Note 323.2422 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Glen, I don't lack conviction just because I'm incapable of doing the
| extensive traveling our illustrious Gloria Stienam has been able to do.

	Jack, no one asked you to tour around the country. You could have
written a letter to the paper, or brought it up in some meeting you might
attend for whatever group(s) you could belong to. Or you could join a group.
But you lacked the conviction to do any of that. Instead, you tried to make it
out that I wasn't open to listening to what you were saying, when in fact you
do what you always do...complain and expect someone else to fix the problem.

| And no, other than ACT UP, many of the names allude me.  And I didn't
| say they were so bad.  I said I will not participate because alot of
| the money is being lobbied to special interest PACs.

	SIP's? Be real. Let's see, ACT-UP received money because of their
needle exchange program, not because they make a lot of noise. PP got money for
rape issues, etc... You see a name, and you automatically shut it down. You
should look into it a bit, Jack. Because if you did, you would see that it
isn't SIP's.... it's dealing with specific issues.


Glen
323.2424MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 05 1996 15:0310
 Z   SIP's? Be real. Let's see, ACT-UP received money because of their
 Z   needle exchange program, not because they make a lot of noise. PP got
 Z   money for rape issues, etc... You see a name, and you automatically 
 Z   shut it down.
    
    And I stand by it.  North Korea has alot of nice citizens within it,
    yet it is still listed as a terrorist state.  Why would I possible want
    an untrustworthy scumbag organization to receive money from me?
    
    
323.2425BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 15:479

	You're a piece of work, Jack. Tell me everything you know about the
ACT-UP organization. If you don't know anything about their organization, then
you're just spewing hot air. Now where did I put that balloon???? 



Glen
323.2426Thanks!PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftWed Jun 05 1996 15:527
    
    JFWIW-
    
    ACT-UP was not on the list of recipient organizations for the
    AIDS Pledge Walk '96.
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2427MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 05 1996 16:248
    That's fine...hey look...I'm sure that organizations like PP and the
    like do offer services of value to some of their associates/patients. 
    Let's just say that their poor marketing tactics and rude behavior
    puts them on the scum list.
    
    Kind of like George Bush.  Very nice man and did a great job on foreign
    policy...but it matters not.  His tax hike made him a scum bumb
    virtuoso!!
323.2428BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 17:2611
| <<< Note 323.2426 by PERFOM::LICEA_KANE "when it's comin' from the left" >>>

| ACT-UP was not on the list of recipient organizations for the
| AIDS Pledge Walk '96.

	Right. And the list, along with what it is being used for is on that
fabulous AIDS Walk homepage you made up! Bill has a connection to the AAC on
the page. 


Glen
323.2429BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 17:2712
| <<< Note 323.2427 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Let's just say that their poor marketing tactics and rude behavior
| puts them on the scum list.

	But then that would be a lie. It's you not liking some of what they do
that makes it so you can't see that they do things that help those even you
think need it.



Glen
323.2430MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 05 1996 17:381
    Same could be said for Focus on the Family...Right Glen!?
323.2431CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowWed Jun 05 1996 17:464


 Ho ho!
323.2432BIGQ::SILVAWed Jun 05 1996 17:545
| <<< Note 323.2430 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Same could be said for Focus on the Family...Right Glen!?

	Yes.
323.2433MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 07 1996 15:546
Z    Tomorrow:  Get up early, inject coffee into me, hook up the chains to
Z    the gay pride banner, wait for a friend to come over to help me
Z    bring it to copley square, wait for other marchers to show up,
    
    A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the
    sign?
323.2434Gay Pride Banner for Gay Pride MarchPERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftFri Jun 07 1996 16:1933
|   A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the
|   sign?
    
    Uh, Jack.
    
    The AIDS Pledge Walk was June 2.  Past tense.  I raised $505.00.
    (Thanks to those who donated!)  My muscles are no longer sore from
    carrying a 30-something pound guy on my shoulders for most of
    the walk.  We had a wonderful time.  Marsden gave high marks to the
    Starbucks ice cream, the Citgo Triangle, the water birds in the Charles,
    playing in a playground while listening to Patsy Kline, and a band that
    looked like the Beatles.  (Except that that Paul was a righty.)
    
    
    I'm not gay.  I walked in the AIDS Pledge Walk.
    Glen is gay.  He walked in the AIDS Pledge Walk.
    
    
    The common denominator of all the walkers was interest in raising money
    for AIDS prevention and care.  NOT our sexual orientation.  GOT IT yet?
    
    
    Glen is marching in the GAY PRIDE MARCH this weekend in Boston.  That's
    why he is bringing a gay pride banner to Copley Square.  UNDERSTAND
    YET?
    
    
    I'm going to Foxboro with Marsden to watch a friendly on Sunday.
    Maybe you can tie that into AIDS as well?
    
    (The Walk for Life in Worcester takes place on Sunday as well.)
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2435BIGQ::SILVAFri Jun 07 1996 16:2015
| <<< Note 323.2433 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Z    Tomorrow:  Get up early, inject coffee into me, hook up the chains to
| Z    the gay pride banner, wait for a friend to come over to help me
| Z    bring it to copley square, wait for other marchers to show up,

| A question...if AIDS is a disease going across all boundaries, why the sign?

	I left what I wrote so you could see it. It said gay pride banner. I am
marching in gay pride. I don't think I have ever marched in the walk. :-)  I
have power walked it, though.



Glen
323.2436BIGQ::SILVAFri Jun 07 1996 16:217

	Mr Bill... nicely put. :-)



Glen
323.2437MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 07 1996 16:385
    Bill, please refrain from being a hemmerhoid...I got the two
    marches/walks mixed up okay!!!?  Damn, nice of you to paint me as
    Snydley Wiplash here.
    
    
323.2438NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Jun 07 1996 17:481
Patsy Cline.  NNTTM.
323.2439MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 07 1996 17:512
    Her song, "I Fall to Pieces", was number one on the charts when I was
    coming out of utero!
323.2440NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Jun 07 1996 17:561
And when your mother saw you she fell to pieces?
323.2441BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROFri Jun 07 1996 22:5116
       <<< Note 323.2437 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

>Damn, nice of you to paint me as
>    Snydley Wiplash here.
 
Jack,	I'm afraid you were holding the paintbrush. Bill merely pointed
	at the picture.

	Rather than railing at Bill, you might have just said "Ooopps,
	my mistake". Of course, doing this takes charachter.

Jim

   
    

323.2442MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 10 1996 13:2812
 Z   I'm afraid you were holding the paintbrush. Bill merely pointed
 Z   at the picture.
     
 Z   Rather than railing at Bill, you might have just said "Ooopps,
 Z   my mistake". Of course, doing this takes charachter.
    
    Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.  
    I was railing Bill for his condescending upper case letters at the end
    of his sentences.  He was implying it was done on purpose.  It was a
    simple mistake is all.
    
    -Jack
323.2443PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 13:456
>       <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
    
>    Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.  

	That is true.  I've always admired that in you.

323.2444BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 14:0212
| <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>


| Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.

	It doesn't matter how often you may or may not do it... it matters if
you do it everytime.




Glen
323.2445PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 14:073

   .2444  rubbish, imo.
323.2446BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 14:089
| <<< Note 323.2445 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>

| .2444  rubbish, imo.

	Ifn yer wrong, you should state it (provided you believe you are wrong)




323.2447PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 14:129
	So Glen, let's say someone apologizes 9 times out of 10. 
	According to you, that makes no difference?  They get zero
	credit for that?   

	Btw, I do believe Jack was justified in taking offense in
	this case.


323.2448charcoal grayHBAHBA::HAASmore madness, less horrorMon Jun 10 1996 14:233
>	Ifn yer wrong, you should state it (provided you believe you are wrong)

I think we got us a loophole, here...
323.2449Ask yourself *why* you got mixed up....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftMon Jun 10 1996 14:2424
|   I was railing Bill for his condescending upper case letters at the end
|   of his sentences.  He was implying it was done on purpose.
    
    No I wasn't implying it was done on purpose.  You keep repeating this
    same mistake, over and over again.  Frankly, you've show no ability
    to learn from this same mistake.
    
|   It was a simple mistake is all.
    
    No it wasn't a simple mistake.  It was a complex mistake.  When you
    realize that, you might *begin* to learn.
    
    
    Finally, helpful hint.  If you truly believe those five words were
    condenscending I'm sorry.  They weren't supposed to be, they were just a
    vocalization of my frustration that the light bulb still hadn't
    apparently lit up.  Your "just curious" and "a question" replies do rub
    the wrong way.  You seem to acknowledge such the first time, but
    plowed on inartfully yet again.
    
    Now if you could explain your intentions when you called me a
    "hemmerhoid" (where are the NNTTM crowd?)....
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2450MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 10 1996 14:2420
    Glen, it is one thing to have an opinion and after reflection, realize
    your point of view was erred.  In this case, I simply mixed up two
    different marches.  This didn't necessarily call for contriteness.
    
    How would it be if I had said this....
    
    Mr. Bill, thank you for straightening me out on that...I wasn't
    thinking I guess which is something my wife gets on me from time to
    time.  Incidently, your use of upper case implied to me that you felt I
    did this on purpose.  Let me assure you that this simply was not the
    case and I apologize for misrepresenting the march.
    
    Rgds.,
    
    -Jack
    
    But ya see Glen, I have to do this with customers on behalf of DEC
    screwups frequently.  Why does Soapbox suddenly require such protocol?
    
    -Jack
323.2451MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 10 1996 14:5023
  Z   No it wasn't a simple mistake.  It was a complex mistake.  When you
  Z      realize that, you might *begin* to learn.
    
    No Mr. Bill...it was a simple mistake, and by my recollection, it is
    the FIRST time I've mixed up these two marches in this forum.  As far
    as your frustration, you may have a point.  There are still alot of
    people who believe AIDS is a gay disease...or God's judgement..etc.  I
    have always been of the belief that this isn't a judgement but God
    allowing humanity to see what we reap when we go by our own agenda.
    When I say, "a question", my intent is to convey I am seriously
    interested and am not just writing to get Glen's hairs up on edge.
    
    Regarding the Hemmerhoid thing, quite simple to explain.  It isn't the
    comparison to a hemmerhoid to which I am attempting to insult you.  It
    is the comparison to my long time oversensitive arch enemy, Don Topaz,
    a.k.a. Lord Hemmerhoid.  Lord H. had this way of always becoming over
    insulted, over sensitive, or becoming a martyr for the cause
    of....whatever.  Your upper cases seemed to convey the need for a
    defense.  So I was actually comparing you to Topaz.  Now you may choose
    to believe this is an even deeper insult than the hemmerhoid remark. 
    This is up to your discernment!
    
    -Jack
323.2452BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 15:0715
| <<< Note 323.2447 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>


| So Glen, let's say someone apologizes 9 times out of 10. According to you, 
| that makes no difference? They get zero credit for that?

	The only thing they don't get credit for it the 10th time where they
did not. But that does not mean someone can say they acknowledge when they are
wrong more times than not and have it make up for the time(s) they did not. Of
course Jack may not have meant to imply this, but that was how I took it. Maybe
he can clear that part of it up.



Glen
323.2453BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 15:116
| <<< Note 323.2450 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| But ya see Glen, I have to do this with customers on behalf of DEC
| screwups frequently.  Why does Soapbox suddenly require such protocol?

	That would be the polite thing to do. :)
323.2454BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 15:139
| <<< Note 323.2451 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| When I say, "a question", my intent is to convey I am seriously
| interested and am not just writing to get Glen's hairs up on edge.

	Well, my hair IS pretty short these days... so i probably wouldn't see
it standing anyways. :-)


323.2455PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 15:177
>         <<< Note 323.2452 by BIGQ::SILVA "I'm out, therefore I am" >>>

>	The only thing they don't get credit for it the 10th time where they
>did not. 

	So, contrary to what you said in .2444, it _does_ matter how
	often someone apologizes.  
323.2456BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 15:2414
| <<< Note 323.2455 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>


| So, contrary to what you said in .2444, it _does_ matter how
| often someone apologizes.

	Di, we're looking at it from two different angles. Jack said he does
apologize most of the time. I took it that this somehow justified the times he
did not, which it doesn't. It only justifies it for the times he does. And that
is what .2444 was supposed to imply. 



Glen
323.2457MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 10 1996 15:258
    Glen:
    
    Apologizing nine times does not give me the right not to apologize for
    the tenth.  But when my integrity and character are being raised, then
    it is my desire to point out my record on humility has stood in the
    past, and it shouldn't be questioned....baldy!
    
    -Jack
323.2458And you say I'm condenscending....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftMon Jun 10 1996 15:2514
|   I have always been of the belief that this [AIDS] isn't a judgement but
|   God allowing humanity to see what we reap when we go by our own agenda.  
    
    I see someone who is such a clod that he uses other people to
    persue his own agenda.  (Notice there are no capitalizations there.
    That is, I'm not refering to God.  You're a bright fellow, figure it
    out for yourself.)
    
|   Regarding the Hemmerhoid thing, quite simple to explain.
    
    If you were indeed attempting to compare me to Don Topaz, then I must
    say you have my deepest thanks.
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2459BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 15:2714
| <<< Note 323.2457 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

	Is it me, or is Jack contrdicting himself here:


| Apologizing nine times does not give me the right not to apologize for the 
| tenth.  

| But when my integrity and character are being raised, then it is my desire to 
| point out my record on humility has stood in the past, and it shouldn't be 
| questioned....baldy!


	I think it is the SHOULDN'T be questioned part that troubles me....
323.2460MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 10 1996 15:3313
    Using people...to further my own agenda?????  Chuckle...I don't have an
    agenda Mr. Bill...but I do have the gumption to acknowledge what I see. 
    Right now I see one really screwed up dysfunctional society with a hell
    of alot of problems...the biggest one of them of course being sheer
    denial.  
    
 Z   If you were indeed attempting to compare me to Don Topaz, then I must
 Z   say you have my deepest thanks.
    
    Your welcome.  Let me tell you you have my most heartfelt condolences.
    Don was just another beaut who lived in denial as well!
    
    -Jack
323.2461PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 15:357
	Glen, look, Jim Percival tells Jack he should have apologized, but
	that that would take character.  Jack says hey, wait a second, pal,
	I do it a lot more often than other people in here.  You counter by
	saying that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time.
	That's crap.  It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't
	have enough character to apologize.
323.2462BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 16:5712
| <<< Note 323.2460 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| the biggest one of them of course being sheer denial.

	If it is anything like raq's sheer pantyhose, it'll run pretty easily!

| Don was just another beaut who lived in denial as well!

	I would have paid to see Don dress as Cleopatra.... :-)


Glen
323.2463BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 17:0220
| <<< Note 323.2461 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>


| I do it a lot more often than other people in here.  You counter by saying 
| that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time. That's crap.  

	And it also isn't what I said. Like I said, we are looking at it from 2
different views. You seem to be looking at it that the other times he did
apologize were a good thing. (which we both do agree, but it was not what I was
talking about) I on the other hand, was looking at it from the standpoint that
you can't use the other 9 times to justify the one time you did not apologize.
Nothing more. Even Jack agreed with that part of it.

	If my message wasn't clear enough in the beginning, then I'm sorry. But
this is what I was talking about.

| It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't have enough character 
| to apologize.

	And that is a different topic from the one I was talking about.
323.2464ACISS2::LEECHMon Jun 10 1996 18:571
    I'm getting dizzy...
323.2465i'm misquoting you? well, here it is.PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jun 10 1996 19:1214
>         <<< Note 323.2444 by BIGQ::SILVA "I'm out, therefore I am" >>>
>
>| <<< Note 323.2442 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>
>
>
>| Jim, I do it a hell of a lot more than most in this conference.
>
>	It doesn't matter how often you may or may not do it... it matters if
>you do it everytime.
>
>
>
>Glen

323.2466BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 21:016
| <<< Note 323.2464 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| I'm getting dizzy...


	Getting???? :-)
323.2467BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 10 1996 21:028
| <<< Note 323.2465 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>

| -< i'm misquoting you?  well, here it is. >-

	I said you are giving the WRONG meaning I applied to it. 


Glen
323.2468Who do we appreciate snarfCSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowMon Jun 10 1996 21:056

 di, you're supposed to ask Glen what he means, not tell him.


 Jim
323.2469 SCASS1::BARBER_ABut what do I know?Mon Jun 10 1996 21:051
      
323.2470BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Jun 11 1996 15:5323
             <<< Note 323.2461 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>


>	Glen, look, Jim Percival tells Jack he should have apologized, but
>	that that would take character.  Jack says hey, wait a second, pal,
>	I do it a lot more often than other people in here.  You counter by
>	saying that doesn't matter - you should have done it this time.
>	That's crap.  It _does_ matter, when someone is telling you you don't
>	have enough character to apologize.

Di,	Characther is not something you turn on and turn off.

	When someone points out an error you (or anyone) have essentially
	five  choices. You can ignore them. You can rail about the way
	they conveyed the message. You can talk about how you rarely make such
	errors. You can point out how many errors the other person has made.
	Or you can say "Ooops, sorry. I goofed".

	Only the last requires charachter.

Jim


323.2471PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Jun 11 1996 16:0016
>Di,	Characther is not something you turn on and turn off.

	No, but sometimes it manifests itself and sometimes it doesn't.


>	Or you can say "Ooops, sorry. I goofed".
>	Only the last requires charachter.

	Jack does this more often than most people in here.  So 
	I guess he has character then, eh?  Er, since you can't turn it
	on and off, that is.




323.2472MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 11 1996 16:5426
    Di:
    
    I thank you deeply for your kind words.   
    
    I think there is an element of emotionalism involved here.  Throughout
    this forum, people are wrong daily...including myself.  Sometimes it
    manifests itself through ignorance and other times through plain
    stubbornness.  
    
    I have a feeling emotions tend to get charged particularly in this
    string for a few reasons.  A, AIDS is a killer which has taken many
    lives...the lives of friends and even family members of participants
    here.  B, and this of course belongs in the gay issues topic, is
    because there is a societal propensity to equate AIDS as a gay disease,
    and my little faux pax brought out the frustrations in people.  
    
    As a side note, I see gay pride as another yawnful special interest
    group making themselves known to the world.  In closing, some of you
    seem to feel you have the obligation and the right to throw a tantrum
    or a hissy fit for the sheer reason that people like myself don't see
    these sort of things in the same light as you do.  Well, surprise
    surprise....you don't.  
    
    Rgds.,
    
    -Jack 
323.2473BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROTue Jun 11 1996 18:0911
             <<< Note 323.2471 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>


>	No, but sometimes it manifests itself and sometimes it doesn't.

	Real charachter always manifests itself. "Sometimes" is simply
	behavioral convience.

	Sorry if that sounds harsh, but it is my opinion.

Jim
323.2474BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 11 1996 20:4745
| <<< Note 323.2472 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| A, AIDS is a killer which has taken many lives...the lives of friends and 
| even family members of participants here.  

	That, like other diseases, yes. It can get people charged up. 

| B, and this of course belongs in the gay issues topic, is because there is a 
| societal propensity to equate AIDS as a gay disease, and my little faux pax 
| brought out the frustrations in people.

	The above I'm not sure what you are saying. Are you saying:

a) You believe AIDS is a gay disease, and so we should talk about it in the gay 
   topic.

b) You hear from others that AIDS is a gay disease and that is why it should be
   discussed in the gay topic.

c) You thought that because AIDS is thought of as a gay disease, I was talking 
   about the Walk and not Gay Pride.

d) Something else.

| As a side note, I see gay pride as another yawnful special interest group 
| making themselves known to the world.  

	Kind of like the St Patrick's Day Parade? Or when the Pope makes a
visit anywhere? Things like that, Jack?

| In closing, some of you seem to feel you have the obligation and the right to 
| throw a tantrum or a hissy fit for the sheer reason that people like myself 
| don't see these sort of things in the same light as you do.  Well, surprise
| surprise....you don't.

	We agree on something? Wild.

	But Jack, remember one thing... you yourself have told me you like to
wind people up in here, and that your real persona is not the same as what you
have for the box. So who knows when you are winding up, and when you are being
serious? :-)



Glen
323.2475BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 11 1996 20:4937
              MONKEY STUDY QUESTIONS RELATIVE SAFETY OF ORAL SEX


BOSTON, MA -- A new study based on the simian equivalent of the human AIDS virus
suggests the risk of oral transmission of HIV may be much higher than previously
thought. The journal Science reports six of seven rhesus monkeys were infected 
with SIV after the virus was dabbed on unbroken tissue at the backs of their 
mouths.

The New York Times quotes Dr. Ruth Ruprecht, the head of the research team, as 
saying these and other findings "should be a warning that oral sex is not safe 
sex." Dr. Ruprecht stressed it was very unlikely the human AIDS virus, HIV, was 
transmitted by casual contact such as kissing or sharing of eating utensils or 
toothbrushes.

The findings surprised both health officials and the researchers at the 
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute in Boston and Tulane University in New Orleans 
where the study was conducted. Oral-genital exposure has rarely been sited in 
the transmission of HIV. Another surprise is that the amount of the monkey AIDS 
virus needed for infection was one six-thousandth (1/6,000) of the amount 
required for infection through the rectum.

Unprotected receptive oral intercourse, even in the absence of cuts or other 
breaks in the lining of the mouth, should be added to the list of risk behaviors
for transmission of HIV, the authors wrote.

Dr. Ann Duerr, an AIDS epidemiologist at the Centers for Disease Control 
expressed some confusion at the findings, as numerous studies have shown 
virtually no transmission of HIV between infected and uninfected partners who 
engage only in unprotected oral-genital sex. "If it were that much riskier than 
anal intercourse, we would have turned it up by now, and so the implications of 
the monkey study for humans at best are unclear," she said.

Dr. Ruprecht said a protein in human saliva may help block transmission of low 
amounts of HIV but that scientists had not yet looked for a similar protein in 
primates.

323.2476BUSY::SLABOUNTYCandy'O, I need you ...Tue Jun 11 1996 20:563
    
    	The moral: avoid having oral sex with monkeys.
    
323.2477MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 11 1996 20:5611
 Glen, the answer is B.  AIDS is not a gay disease.  
    
 Z    Kind of like the St Patrick's Day Parade? Or when the Pope makes a
 Z   visit anywhere? Things like that, Jack?
    
    Yes...pretty much like this.  St. Patties bores me and I'm not
    Catholic.
    
    -Jack
    
    
323.2478SCASS1::BARBER_ABut what do I know?Tue Jun 11 1996 20:571
    agagaga!
323.2479PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BTue Jun 11 1996 21:0613
>   <<< Note 323.2473 by BIGHOG::PERCIVAL "I'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-RO" >>>

>	Real charachter always manifests itself. "Sometimes" is simply
>	behavioral convience.

	Oh, my achin' back - here we go again.  So if somebody apologizes
	9 times out of 10, they don't have character?  Give me a friggin'
	break. 

	And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
	a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
	whole thing is moot in this case anyways.

323.2480BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 11 1996 21:078
| <<< Note 323.2477 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Glen, the answer is B.  AIDS is not a gay disease.

	Jack, if the answer is B, then why did you make the connection in the
gay topic if YOU think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I was the one talking
about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-)

323.2481A question...PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftTue Jun 11 1996 21:1121
Jack Martin on "Is AIDS a gay disease?":
    
    March 1995:
    
| Glen: I don't think it is a gay disease but I certainly believe it used
| to be one....
    
    June 1996:
    
| Glen... AIDS is not a gay disease.
    
    Did you learn something this past year?  Or do you still believe that
    AIDS used to be a gay disease?
    
    
    (BTW, for someone who acknowledges the emotions involved here, you do
    seem to enjoy stiring the pot.  Over and over and over and over and
    over again.  BTW, there is that trite saying from that awful movie
    "Love Story"....)
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2482 PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftTue Jun 11 1996 21:1310
|	And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
|	a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
|	whole thing is moot in this case anyways.
    
    I didn't read him the riot act.  It wasn't a simple mistake.
    
    But do defend him here, after all, he's just going out of his way to be
    a persona.
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2483PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BWed Jun 12 1996 13:456
>  <<< Note 323.2482 by PERFOM::LICEA_KANE "when it's comin' from the left" >>>
    
>    I didn't read him the riot act.  It wasn't a simple mistake.

	Okay, it was an egregious error for which you rebuked him
	gently.  My mistake.
323.2484MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 13:5711
 Z   Jack, if the answer is B, then why did you make the connection in the
 Z   gay topic if YOU think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I was the one
 Z   talking about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-)
    
    Appropriate and reasonable question.  The reason I said it should be
    shifted to the gay issues topic was because I was attempting to seguay
    into discussing the gay pride march.  I didn't say that to make the
    connection between AIDS and being gay but I admit I didn't do the best
    job of shifting gears.
    
    -Jack
323.2485MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 14:0417
 Z    Did you learn something this past year?  Or do you still believe that
 Z    AIDS used to be a gay disease?
    
    Disclaimer:  I discuss this for the purpose of educating myself better.
    Therefore, the certainty of my statements should be construed as strong
    conjecture.
    
    Mr. Bill, I stand by what I said in both cases.  My 1995 statement
    simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
    as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population
    FIRST.  The victims of AIDS were mainly from the gay community.  My
    remarks here don't put the blame on the gay community for
    HIV/AIDS...I am a believer that we are responsible for our own actions.
    However, I find denial to be an even bigger crime than the statements
    I've made in the past. 
    
    -Jack
323.2486You are one sorry confused individualPERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftWed Jun 12 1996 14:0718
| Z  why did you [Jack] make the connection in the gay topic if YOU [Jack]
| Z  think AIDS is not a gay disease, and I [Glen] was the one talking
| Z  about the Parade? Slip of the mind? :-) 
    
|   The reason I said it should be shifted to the gay issues topic was
|   because I was attempting to seguay into discussing the gay pride march.
    
    1 - Glen enters a reply in the gay issues topic, way over there.
    2 - You extract the reply and move it *HERE* and ask, uh, a
    	provacative question.  (I'm being most kind here.)
    3 - Glen answers your question.
    4 - I answer your question.
    5 - You call me a "hemmerhoid".
    
    And you did all this because you wanted to "seguay" into discussing the
    gay pride march?
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2487MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 14:2821
    - I ask a question
    
    - You answer question but instead of graciously giving me the benefit
    of the doubt, you throw your hissy fits born from frustration at the
    end of each sentence.
    
    -I respond by saying something to the effect of..."Okay Mr. Bill, don't
    be a hemerhoid..."  Translation, Okay Mr. Bill, relax, take some
    downers...
    
    Yes, it was a simple mistake...I refuse to change my stance on that. 
    You're trying to make this a mistake of great proportions.  I will not
    give in to this.  
    
    By the way, when you were at the Walk for Life, was there a contingent
    of the gay lobby there...promoting homosexuality?  If so, then it is
    the gay community that is making the connection with gays and AIDS, not
    I Kemosabbe!
    
    -Jack
    
323.2488BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 14:4012
| <<< Note 323.2484 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>


| The reason I said it should be shifted to the gay issues topic was because I 
| was attempting to seguay into discussing the gay pride march. I didn't say 
| that to make the connection between AIDS and being gay 

	But it did end up being seen that way, would you agree?



Glen
323.2489BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 14:4212
| <<< Note 323.2485 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
| as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population FIRST.  

	In North America ONLY. In every other country, the disease hit far more
heterosexuals, than homosexuals. It is still that way today.

| However, I find denial to be an even bigger crime than the statements I've 
| made in the past.

	Denial of what? So far your facts from before are not accurate.
323.2490BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 14:4831
| <<< Note 323.2487 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| - You answer question but instead of graciously giving me the benefit
| of the doubt, you throw your hissy fits born from frustration at the
| end of each sentence.

	Well Jack, you did take something out of the gay topic and moved it
over to the AIDS topic. Think about it....

| By the way, when you were at the Walk for Life, was there a contingent of the 
| gay lobby there...promoting homosexuality?  

	Promoting homosexuality? Too funny. No, there was not. There were
people there who walked for other people. The person they walked for could have
been gay/straight, and the people doing the walking could have been
gay/straight. Who knows? I didn't ask. 

	But I would recommend that next year you do the walk yourself. This way
you can get first hand experience on it. AND, it would help clear up any
misconceptions you may have. 

| If so, then it is the gay community that is making the connection with gays 
| and AIDS, not I Kemosabbe!

	No, it would still be you. If gays were there promoting homosexuality,
then that has nothing to do with the Walk. So if you make a connection, then
you have done it, not gays. 



Glen
323.2491MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 14:5217
 ZZ    Denial of what? So far your facts from before are not accurate.
    
    Pray tell then, please give us more facts on this.  North America is
    our home Glen...my exposure to news and the media in the early 80's 
    lead the public to believe that AIDS spread throughout the gay
    population.  You say my facts are inaccurate...I haven't given any
    information other than my belief that AIDS propogated itself through
    the gay community FIRST!  Okay, in North America...so what?  It is
    common knowledge that AIDS is rampant in Southeast Asia, Puerto Rico,
    the Florida Keyes and Africa...amongst Hets...I know that Glen and I've
    brought it up here before.  I'm speaking of the early 1980's, here in
    our country Glen.  What other facts have I misrepresented?
    
    By the way Glen, do you know if there was a gay contingent(s) at the
    Walk for life?  
    
    -Jack
323.2492MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 15:0519
 Z    Well Jack, you did take something out of the gay topic and moved it
 Z   over to the AIDS topic. Think about it....
    
    Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
    AIDS walk.  Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.
    
    As far as misconceptions, I recognize I may be uninformed....which is
    why I asked the question in the first place.  
    
    Re: The march, nooo Glen.  If five men are holding a sign, for example,
    stating something perhaps like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then
    at this point the parade has lost its neutrality and has now fallen
    into the realm of becoming a tool for a special interest group. 
    Otherwise, there would be no need for such an endorsement coming out.
    
    As far as you answering the question with..."too funny..."  you
    indicate here a suspicion that my question is disingenuous.  
    
    -Jack
323.2493POWDML::HANGGELI_8^p_Wed Jun 12 1996 15:089
    
    >If five men are holding a sign, for example,
    >stating something perhaps like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then
    >at this point the parade has lost its neutrality and has now fallen
    >into the realm of becoming a tool for a special interest group.
    
    
    <boggle>
    
323.2494MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 15:521
    bugle
323.2496BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 16:4830
| <<< Note 323.2492 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
| AIDS walk.  Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.

	I know what/why you did it, but it didn't make sense. Why would *I*
talk about the AIDS Walk in the gay topic?

| As far as misconceptions, I recognize I may be uninformed....which is why I 
| asked the question in the first place.

	And this is good.

| If five men are holding a sign, for example, stating something perhaps like...
| "GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then at this point the parade has lost its 
| neutrality and has now fallen into the realm of becoming a tool for a special 
| interest group. Otherwise, there would be no need for such an endorsement 
| coming out.

	Jack, be real. If it were heterosexuals in place of gays, would it make
them and the walk a special interest group? You have Digital, Bank of Boston,
etc, all walking and holding their signs, wearing their t-shirts. Does this
make it a special interest group walk? Of course not. If any organization has a
sign for an AIDS Free America, then that is what they are looking for. If it be
gay, stright, a corporation, a grocery chain, what have you.... it is NOT a
special interest. It is a GROUP who wants to see something happen.



Glen
323.2495BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 16:5044
| <<< Note 323.2491 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| North America is our home Glen...my exposure to news and the media in the 
| early 80's lead the public to believe that AIDS spread throughout the gay
| population.  

	Thank you... now what you have said above reflects the situation. You
narrowed the field to North America. 

	But in this country, they made it sound like world wide it was a gay
disease. 

| You say my facts are inaccurate...

	Only because you did not state North America. AIDS is a disease that is
a world issue. So when you said you heard it was a gay disease, it was
inacurate.

| I haven't given any information other than my belief that AIDS propogated 
| itself through the gay community FIRST! Okay, in North America...so what?  

	Because it kills off the other tags that go along with it. That's why
the label needs to be in there. It's kind of like saying that Christians hate
fags. That is an inaccurate label. There are some who do, but to put everyone
into that group by using a blanket statement is wrong.

| I'm speaking of the early 1980's, here in our country Glen.  

	Now you are by stating it correctly. And back in the 1980's there could 
have been a hell of a lot of people (gay & straight) saved if the country did 
something about it. But it wasn't until they realized that anyone could get 
this disease, that major things started happening. Blanket statements stink.
More harm can happen from a blanket statement because it then makes those who
aren't covered under the statement feel safe, or better, or good. As with the
Christian thing, people get hurt by the blanket statement.

| By the way Glen, do you know if there was a gay contingent(s) at the Walk for 
| life?

	I already answered this a couple of notes back.



Glen
323.2497ACISS2::LEECHWed Jun 12 1996 17:5216
    <--- I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
    "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America".  I would also be suspect of 
    a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".  I fail 
    to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays, minorities, or hets.  
    
    How about "Americans for an AIDS free America"?  Sort of has that
    'all-for-one and one-for-all' togetherness that is needed for such
    causes.  Such an endorsement of cohesiveness should make the PC crowd
    all warm and fuzzy, too.  A definite win-win scenario.
    
    
    Of course, I have no idea if any such signs were present, as I was not
    there.  I'm just stirring the pot a bit.  8^)
    
    
    -steve 
323.2498BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 19:5417
| <<< Note 323.2497 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says "Heterosexuals for 
| an AIDS free America".  I would also be suspect of a sign that reads "African 
| Americans for an AIDS free America".  I fail to see the need for such 
| distinctive signs- for gays, minorities, or hets.

	Steve, you do realize that the situation Jack talked about was not
there. But lets say it was. I agree with part of what you are saying, but it
shouldn't stop at America... it should be world. But I wouldn't be suspect of
any group, any company, etc, who would say <insert group/company> for an AIDS
Free World. I mean, why would you be suspect to any group/company/etc? 




Glen
323.2499ASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereWed Jun 12 1996 20:568
    The Glob did an article on the parade.  Focused on same sex couples who
    came with their children as a family unit.  Seems there were a larger
    number of these families than before and they came from all over New
    England to promote the concept of family and try to take some of the
    emphasis off of the more extreme marchers who go overboard with the
    PDA.
    
    Lisa
323.2500JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jun 12 1996 21:081
    Is is okay to snarf in a serious topic?
323.2501BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't get even ... get odd!!Wed Jun 12 1996 21:136
    
    	Maybe you should have asked that in note 17.
    
    	Heck, it looks like you could have even gotten a .*69 snarf
    	at the same time.
    
323.2502JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jun 12 1996 21:141
    I don't do 69 snarfs!
323.2503MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 21:154
 Z   Focused on same sex couples who came with their children as a family unit. 
    
    They really should consider moving to Greece.  It's quite nice there
    actually!
323.2504BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't get even ... get odd!!Wed Jun 12 1996 21:163
    
    	Are you calling all Greeks homosexuals, Jack?
    
323.2505BUSY::SLABOUNTYDon't get even ... get odd!!Wed Jun 12 1996 21:163
    
    	Nancy, a .*69 might do you some good.
    
323.2506MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 12 1996 21:176
   ZZ      Are you calling all Greeks homosexuals, Jack?
    
    Certainly not.  They just don't have the "hangups" we Charletons have
    over here!
    
    
323.2507BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Jun 12 1996 22:0911
             <<< Note 323.2479 by PENUTS::DDESMAISONS "person B" >>>

>	And if somebody reads you the Riot Act when all you did was make
>	a simple mistake, it's perfectly natural to react to that, so the
>	whole thing is moot in this case anyways.

	The response to our beloved Bill's reply WAS perfectly natural.
	No problem with it at all. AFTER "Ooops, I goofed" of course.

Jim

323.2508BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Jun 12 1996 22:1312
       <<< Note 323.2485 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

>    Mr. Bill, I stand by what I said in both cases.  My 1995 statement
>    simply acknowledges the fact that in the early 1980's, AIDS propogated
>    as a disease of wide proportion amongst the homosexual population
>    FIRST.  The victims of AIDS were mainly from the gay community.

	Very US centric view of this disease. AIDS has ALWAYS been 
	primarily a heterosexual disease, if you educate yourself
	concerning worldwide cases.

Jim
323.2509BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROWed Jun 12 1996 22:1710
       <<< Note 323.2491 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

>You say my facts are inaccurate...I haven't given any
>    information other than my belief that AIDS propogated itself through
>    the gay community FIRST! 

	And this is inaccurate. AIDS did not spread from NA to Africa,
	it was the other way around.

Jim
323.2510JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeWed Jun 12 1996 22:233
    XXXX cuse me!!! Slabounty, thats kinda personal tyvm.
    
    
323.2511BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 12 1996 22:578
| <<< Note 323.2506 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| They just don't have the "hangups" we Charletons have over here!


	Ahhhh... so just ship us off, huh? Not on your life! :-)


323.2512Jack is still confused....PERFOM::LICEA_KANEwhen it's comin' from the leftThu Jun 13 1996 11:5733
    Jack -
    
|   Glen, I moved it over to the AIDS topic because it was germane to the
|   AIDS walk.
    
    Glen's reply in the gay topic was not germane to the AIDS walk.
    
|   Didn't want to rathole the Gay topic.
    
    Nah.  Far better to rathole the AIDS topic.  Over and over and over
    again.
    
|   If five men are holding a sign, for example, stating something perhaps
|   like..."GAYS FOR AN AIDS FREE AMERICA", then at this point the parade
|   has lost its neutrality and has now fallen into the realm of becoming a
|   tool for a special interest group. 
    
    Have you ever heard anyone refer to "The Walk for Hunger" as a parade?
    Yet here you are, calling "The AIDS Pledge Walk" a parade.  It's just
    a "simple" mistake after all.  It's quite easy to continue to get
    "The AIDS Pledge Walk" and the Gay Pride March (which *is* a parade)
    all mixed up.
    
    Lisa -
    
|   The Glob did an article on the parade.  Focused on same sex couples who
|   came with their children as a family unit. 
    
    Don't let Jack confuse you too.  The Globe's article on "The AIDS
    Pledge Walk" focused on "Team Lodie".  The Globe's article on the Gay
    Pride March is a different topic all together.
    
    								-mr. bill
323.2513CNTROL::JENNISONIt's all about soulThu Jun 13 1996 13:395
    
    	re .2505
    
    	Take it to the "Tacky Replies" topic!
    
323.2514BUSY::SLABOUNTYFUBARThu Jun 13 1996 16:057
    
    	We have a "tacky replies" topic??  I did not know that.
    
    	And BTW, I did say .*69, which refers to a snarf and nothing
    	more [unless, of course, you have a dirty mind like Nancy or
    	Karen].
    
323.2515JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeThu Jun 13 1996 16:094
.2514
        
    OH yeah, play innocent now. BWAhahahahahahah. :-)
    
323.2516ASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereThu Jun 13 1996 18:0316
    
    RE: Glob article
    
    I meant the parade for Pride Day and not the AIDS walk.  In the
    thousands of replies to this topic there have been quite a few that
    imply that all homosexuals are one of the following:
    	1) pedophiles
    	2) promiscuous
    	3) hideous people that cross-dress for Gay Pride marches and suck
    face with each other in front of impressionable 4-year-olds.
    
    I brought up the article as a counterpoint.
    
    Not that it mattered.
    
    Lisa
323.2517NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Thu Jun 13 1996 18:1210
From the Flummery Digest:

After five years of heated debate, the National Institutes of Health has
decided to undertake a nationwide clinical trial of Kemron, the drug touted
by the Nation of Islam as a cure for AIDS, despite a previous finding by
the World Health Organization that the drug had no effect on the HIV virus.
Nation of Islam Health Minister Dr. Abdul Alim Muhammed, who once told a
Baltimore crowd that AIDS is "the perfect genocidal weapon" manufactured
by the white government against black people, runs the Abundant Life Clinic
in Washington, D.C., which has been chosen one of the drug's testing sites.
323.2518MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Thu Jun 13 1996 18:426
 Z   1) pedophiles
 Z   2) promiscuous
 Z   3) hideous people that cross-dress for Gay Pride marches and
 Z   suck face with each other in front of impressionable 4-year-olds.
    
    And which of these boxes do I fit into Lisa?!
323.2519SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoFri Jun 14 1996 00:0415
    > I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
    > "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America".  I would also be suspect
    > of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America". 
    > I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
    > minorities, or hets.
    
    Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
    don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
    question of identity.
    
    That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
    your myopia, nobody else's problem.  Perhaps this will give you a 
    clue.
    
    DougO
323.2520ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 14 1996 14:2652
    re: .2519
    
>    Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
>    don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
>    question of identity.
 
    First of all, technically, I am a minority- I'm not white (though my
    skin certianly is rather pale  8^) ).  I am no less than 1/16
    Black Foot Indian.  Under the law, I qualify for whatever bennies
    native Americans get.  I could care less about being a minority,
    though.  I am an AMERICAN, dammit, not a native american, not a
    Dutch-American, etc.  (yes, I'm part Dutch, too).   No one in my family
    has ever pushed for minority status, we've done quite well without any
    government help, tyvm.
    
    If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences
    and live together in peace, isn't it a good idea not try and separate
    yourself into your own little group?  I see so much lip-service that
    says we need to "unite" Americans of all races/etc., yet each little
    group feels that it is necessary to segregate themselves.  I think this
    is counterproductive to the end goal.  ymmv.
                              
>    That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
>    your myopia, nobody else's problem.  Perhaps this will give you a 
>    clue.
    
    I disagree.  Clearly, when a group purposely segregates themselves in
    any manner, the problem will eventually be theirs.  I see it as
    somewhat hypocritical that some of these very groups promote a "color
    blind" society, while waving signs that proudly display how they are
    different.  Color me confused.  
    
    The gay pride signs take this silliness to extremes, IMO.  Not only
    does someone else's sex life not concern me, but I really could care
    less to know if your attraction runs towards those of the same sex.  In
    fact, I don't want to know.  
    
    If you want to take pride in your sexuality, fine.  That's your problem.  
    Personally, I see nothing to be prideful about in the arena of sexual 
    attraction.  Hey, flaming-red hair turns me on, but I'm sure most folk 
    find this less than interesting, and certainly nothing to be "proud" of 
    oneself for.  It's just my personal tastes.   Demanding that everyone
    respect my peculiar attractions is rather silly, IMO.  
    
    Do I take pride in being attracted to women?  No.  What's to be
    prideful about?  This comes quite naturally to most of the male
    species.  Going against the mainstream is certainly nothing to be proud
    about, either.  Get the picture yet?
    
    
    
    -steve
323.2521Instead, you approve of discrimination.SMURF::BINDERUva uvam vivendo variatFri Jun 14 1996 14:298
    .2520
    
    > Not only does someone else's sex life not concern me...
    
    And hypocrisy runs rampant.  If someone else's sex life did not concern
    you, you would be fighting to UNITE all Americans such that none would
    discriminate against another merely because of the other's sexual
    identity and the behavior choices based thereon.
323.2522BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 14 1996 15:3772
| <<< Note 323.2520 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences and 
| live together in peace, 

	This has got to be one of the best ideas you have ever come up with!
The only problem is it isn't possible while we are still in human form. I think
you will agree that the only one who can really see through the colors,
orientations, bigotry, etc, every single time, is God (and I know this could
only apply to those who believe in God). But, we can still try. If you think
about it, you have people who pull out the differences to use as a weapon to
hurt a group, while the group shows that it is a strength, not a weakness. I
can't ever see this stopping while we are here. Too many variables.

	But like I said.... that was one of the best ideas you have ever come
up with!

| Clearly, when a group purposely segregates themselves in any manner, the 
| problem will eventually be theirs.  I see it as somewhat hypocritical that 
| some of these very groups promote a "color blind" society, while waving signs 
| that proudly display how they are different.  Color me confused.

	While we are still humans, we all will still be different. Some people
say I'm loud. :-)  Imagine that.... but it is part of me, I guess. :-)  For
some, they have been put down over and over again for their difference by
others, and they are trying to show the difference is not the problem.
Ignorance is. And that is why as long as there is division, your idea will not
work. 

	To *me*, only God can see through all that, and when He is ready to
allow us to do the same, it will only be that it's because it just doesn't
matter.

| The gay pride signs take this silliness to extremes, IMO. Not only does 
| someone else's sex life not concern me, 

	What signs are you reading?

| but I really could care less to know if your attraction runs towards those 
| of the same sex.  

	Then I guess maybe you should close your eyes while passing them? :-)
What's kind of ironic here is that you are saying it is same sex, when it could
very well not be same sex. This might be the ignorance thing I was talking
about. Gay pride has gay, lesbian, bisexuals, transgendered and heterosexuals
both in and at the parade. 

| In fact, I don't want to know.

	Steve.... errr... I'm..... errrr..... gay? :-)

| If you want to take pride in your sexuality, fine. That's your problem.

	Yes, it is. But then you wouldn't be at a gay pride parade. What people
are proud about is just being themselves completely. You take for granted that
you can walk around and be heterosexual. You can be a complete person. For many
of us, it took a lot to get to that point. Not based on reality, but based on
what other people think. It's like lifting a ton of bricks off your back.
Knowing that you are ok, and not some monster some people make you out to be.

| Personally, I see nothing to be prideful about in the arena of sexual
| attraction.  

	And someday you might actually know what gay pride is about. 

| Get the picture yet?

	I'm hoping you do.


Glen

323.2523ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 14 1996 15:427
    .2521
    
    I'm not *for* discriminating against anyone, so your point is rather
    moot.
    
    
    -steve
323.2524MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 14 1996 17:544
    Glen, what I am finding is that social engineering is in some cases
    having the opposite effect.  We want desirable results.
    
    -Jack
323.2525BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 14 1996 22:0511
| <<< Note 323.2524 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Glen, what I am finding is that social engineering is in some cases
| having the opposite effect.  We want desirable results.

	Well, you can start off by which social engineering cases you are
referring to above, and what ideas you might have that could give you desirable
results.


Glen
323.2526MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 17 1996 14:0522
 Z   Well, you can start off by which social engineering cases you are
 Z   referring to above, and what ideas you might have that could give you
 Z   desirable results.
    
    Glen, I have done this in the past and you for whatever reason always
    side with big brother.  
    
 -  Abolish Affirmative Retribution programs of course.  I don't owe
    society an alternative solution since AA is illegal anyways.
    
 -  Abolish welfare as we know it today.  Make having a baby out of wedlock
    an even more frightening experience than it is today.  Put the onus on
    the individual families.
    
 -  Get rid of all programs in prisons giving aid and comfort to lifers.  I
    have no interest in reforming these dolts because there is or should be
    absolutely no hope of them ever seeing the outside of a fence.  Again I
    owe society no other alternative to make convicts feel better...
    
 That's for starters....
    
    -Jack
323.2527BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 17 1996 14:113

	Now somehow tie them all in with AIDS.... 
323.2528MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 17 1996 14:291
    Don't have to.  I mentioned special interest groups in general!
323.2529BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 17 1996 16:345

	Does that also include Christians? Like can we take off the special
interest group "no tax" clause? Or will this be a case where you will find the
interests of this group to be ok?
323.2530MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 17 1996 18:4617
 Z   Does that also include Christians? Like can we take off the special
 Z   interest group "no tax" clause? Or will this be a case where you will
 Z   find the interests of this group to be ok?
    
    And as I've said before, this is one of the most absurd and bizarre
    beliefs you have.  First of all, this would not stand in court on
    constitutional grounds and you know it.  Secondly Glen, when I say
    special interest groups, I am referring to parasitical groups that
    usurp some sort of benefit from the Federal Gummint.  The Church, Glen,
    defrays the expenses incurred by the Federal Government; therefore, you
    would be cutting off your nose to spite your face.
    
    Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization.  Therefore,
    stipends used toward the operation of a church, or any non profit
    organization cannot be taxed.  That would be robbery...pure and simple.
    
    -Jack
323.2531SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoMon Jun 17 1996 20:2852
    >>> I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
    >>> "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America".  I would also be suspect
    >>> of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".
    >>> I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
    >>> minorities, or hets.
    >> 
    >> Steve, as a white christian living in the midwest, perhaps you
    >> don't have an appreciation for what I would loosely call the
    >> question of identity.
    >>
    >> That you fail to see the need for such distinctive signs is only
    >> your myopia, nobody else's problem.  Perhaps this will give you a 
    >> clue.
    >
    > First of all, technically, I am a minority- [...]
    
    Pardon my error.
    
    > If you are going to be a cohesive nation, putting aside our differences
    > and live together in peace, isn't it a good idea not try and separate
    > yourself into your own little group?  I see so much lip-service that
    > says we need to "unite" Americans of all races/etc., yet each little
    > group feels that it is necessary to segregate themselves.  I think this
    > is counterproductive to the end goal.  ymmv.
    
    "segregate themselves" [sic] is not the same thing as taking pride in
    identity and carrying signs in a parade.  Since the personal will serve
    as such a convenient example here, tell us about your heritage as a
    Black Foot Indian.  How much do you know about it?  And if its ANYTHING
    AT ALL, I submit that as evidence that you *do* have some curiosity or
    interest in your own 'identity'.  Does this make you less American? 
    Does this mean you segregate yourself?  No, of course not.  It means
    none of those things.  It is perfectly legitimate and just for you to
    get as much enjoyment, sense of identity, sense of place, or whatever,
    from your heritage as you think appropriate.  Nobody else is you,
    nobody else is in a position to gainsay.  Do you think acknowledging
    your native american heritage is "counterproductive"?  Why, then, do
    you say that about others' particular identities?
    
    > Color me confused.
    
    Grab a clue, Steve.  The many facets of our complex society reflect
    different identities for each one of us.  Knowing ourselves as
    individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is 
    an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
    It isn't unAmerican, it has nothing to do with appealing for government
    help, and it doesn't have to be confusing.  Unless you have political
    reasons to try to make it so.
    
    Tell us about your heritage, Steve.
    
    DougO
323.2532MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Mon Jun 17 1996 21:0026
 Z   Do you think acknowledging
 Z   your native american heritage is "counterproductive"?  Why, then,
 Z   do you say that about others' particular identities?
    
    I know of many whose families left their place of origin to find a
    better life here in America.  They made a decision and upon coming over
    here, made it their prime initiative to forego the identity they had
    with their old country and assimilate into America.  While it is true,
    for example, that specific parts of Boston have a high percentage of
    immigrants from the same background, they also knew that it wasn't
    America's obligation to assimilate to their culture, but for them to
    assimilate to that of the United States.  
    
    I tend to see the opposite happen as of late.  I find some of these
    backassed repulsive philosophies brought here....the very things that
    made people leave their country in the first place...propogated and
    forced upon the masses by the PC/sensitivity types here in America.  
    Apparently, these pseudo intellectuals don't seem to believe in a
    common identity between all Americans...hence we have major cities in
    the US as repositories of violence and lacking identity.  
    
    Check out the stats.  You will find that many of the more monolithic
    countries have far less of a crime and violence problem than a
    multiculturalist society.  It's as plain as the nose on your face!
    
    -Jack
323.2533SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoMon Jun 17 1996 23:524
    putcher pants back on, Jack.  I'm still asking Steve why carrying signs
    is "suspect".
    
    DougO
323.2534BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 00:5419
| <<< Note 323.2530 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>


| And as I've said before, this is one of the most absurd and bizarre beliefs 
| you have. First of all, this would not stand in court on constitutional 
| grounds and you know it.  

	Gee..... and to think the things you talked of are under the gov as
well, but it is ok to do away with those things. Nice try, Jack. But religious
orgs are special interest groups as well.

| Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization.  

	Then if they make even 1 single penny, it should go to the government
so they are truly a non-profit org.



Glen
323.2535BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 00:5715
| <<< Note 323.2532 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| America's obligation to assimilate to their culture, but for them to
| assimilate to that of the United States.

	What IS our culture, Jack? Isn't our culture based on the other
cultures that come into the country? Oh... well... as long as no one yells in a
foreign language....

| It's as plain as the nose on your face!

	AJ has a thing for noses, I think.


Glen
323.2536CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowTue Jun 18 1996 01:0014


>| Thirdly Glen, the Church is a non profit organization.  

>	Then if they make even 1 single penny, it should go to the government
>so they are truly a non-profit org.


b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?



Jim
323.2537Don't women alone have the majority?BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 01:1314
| <<< Note 323.2536 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Every knee shall bow" >>>


| b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?

	Then give every penny away, or lose the no tax clause. It doesn't
really matter to me. But they are just a special interest group right now
receiving special status, which many people who support this special interest
for the church, would deny it to other groups who they consider special
interest, cuz those groups are bad..... (even though the groups make up the
majority of the people in the country)


Glen
323.2538ACISS2::LEECHTue Jun 18 1996 12:5113
    .2533
    
    I'd already answered that.  You simply disagree with me.  Judgeing by
    your last note, we certainly are coming from two diverse trains of
    thought (big surprise there  8^) ), and I wonder if you really
    understand what I'm taking issue with.  Perhaps not.
    
    As far as "gay pride" signs... I still fail to see what there is to
    take pride in.  Why is one's sexuality (of any orientation, much less
    one that is not the norm) a source of pride? 
     
    
    -steve 
323.2539BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 13:2022
| <<< Note 323.2538 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>


| As far as "gay pride" signs... I still fail to see what there is to take pride
| in. Why is one's sexuality (of any orientation, much less one that is not the 
| norm) a source of pride?

	Gee.... you should read the interview series as the last question asked
is what does Pride mean to you. You will see several people replying. Something
to think about. I've already given you *a* reason for it. And that is it has to
do with people taking Pride in who they are. Not being put down for who they
are. 

	Now what would really take away the sexual orientation issue would be
for you, and people like you to not bring it up? I do realize this is the only
way you can remotely justify your claims is to keep it a sexual orientation
issue. Pride has to do with people just realizing they aren't the monsters some
try to make us out to be. That there is nothing wrong being us. 



Glen
323.2540at least, according to JC&co...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Jun 18 1996 13:354
    
      Pride is a sin.  It is humility which is a virtue.
    
      bb
323.2541CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowTue Jun 18 1996 13:3519

>| b-b-b-but what about this wall of separation between church and state?

>	Then give every penny away, or lose the no tax clause. It doesn't
>really matter to me. But they are just a special interest group right now
>receiving special status, which many people who support this special interest
>for the church, would deny it to other groups who they consider special
>interest, cuz those groups are bad..... (even though the groups make up the
>majority of the people in the country)



 So, the "wall of separation" only goes one way?




 Jim
323.2542BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 14:234

	If they want to be a non-profit org and not pay taxes, then every bit
of money they make should go away, or lose their taxless status. 
323.2543POWDML::HANGGELI_8^p_Tue Jun 18 1996 14:264
    
    Well, they need to keep _some_, to cover expenses and all.  They can't
    maintain a zero bank balance, it's not feasible.
    
323.2544MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 18 1996 14:4115
 Z   Well, they need to keep _some_, to cover expenses and all.  They can't
 Z       maintain a zero bank balance, it's not feasible.
    
    Actually Mz. Debra, the church is allowed to itemize their money into
    funds, i.e. the Church building fund, Trustees Fund, etc.  This money
    then becomes non taxable, which is why it is important for churches to
    have an annual budget.
    
    What Glen again fails to see is that taxation is stagnating the economy
    as it is...and taxing churches would quell much of the goodies our
    society gets as churches are the largest defrayers of social
    expenditures in this country.  It all stems from a sheer lack of wisdom
    and understanding.
    
    -Jack
323.2545unsure of the concept ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Jun 18 1996 14:4419
    
      I have noticed that many 'Boxers do not understand what a
     non-profit organization is and isn't.  Since non-profits have
     no income, they all pay no income tax, whether they are the
     Catholic Church, Boston University, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance,
     the Sierra Club.  But they must file each year as a non-profit.
    
      If they buy things, they pay sales tax, like anybody else.
    
      Property tax exemptions for private universities, churches, etc,
     are not required by the Constitution, as far as I can tell.  They
     are there simply because they have the votes.  It would probably
     be constitutional to tax the property of all non-profits, and
     might significantly alter the tax base in our big cities.  But it
     would also have the effect of suggesting relocation.  I doubt
     there is a political concensus that property taxes on non-profits
     would be good policy.
    
      bb
323.2546NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Jun 18 1996 14:524
>      If they buy things, they pay sales tax, like anybody else.

Wrong.  They have a "tax number" which they present to the merchant.
The merchant then doesn't charge sales tax.
323.2547don't try to change the subjectSX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoTue Jun 18 1996 16:0613
    >.2533
    >
    > I'd already answered that.  You simply disagree with me.
    
    Your answer prompted further discussion to which you have not 
    yet given response.  It is not "simple disagreement".  See .2531.
    
    > As far as "gay pride" signs...
    
    You were previously talking about all manner of signs you found
    "suspect".
    
    DougO
323.2548MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 18 1996 16:287
    Glen:
    
    By the way, to answer your question, we are primarily a western
    Eurocentric culture.  What we don't need is immigrants who insist upon
    foisting their nasties that they tried so desparately to escape from.
    
    Not interested, go away!  Assimilate damnit.
323.2549BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 17:573

	Aunt Jack, the only thing you are escaping from is reality.... 
323.2550LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Tue Jun 18 1996 18:051
    jack's grundel is too tight, that's all.
323.2551POLAR::RICHARDSONHere we are now, in containersTue Jun 18 1996 18:051
    I thought you liked guys with a nice tight set of grundels?
323.2552LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Tue Jun 18 1996 18:111
    don't get cheeky.
323.2553Posted WITH permissionBIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 19:1474
From:	CRL::"dspencer@summitstrat.com" "Douglas Spencer" 18-JUN-1996 14:25:53.31
To:	distribution:;@crl.dec.com@crl.dec.com (see end of body)
CC:	
Subj:	HIV Elimination



Here's an email I just received. Check out the bottom of the article for 
comments from someone at AIDS Action.

Scientists: HIV Elimination Within Sight

       By Associated Press, 06/14/96 

       NEW YORK (AP) - Some of the world's leading AIDS researchers and 
physicians have begun talking optimistically about the possibility of 
eliminating HIV from infected people. 

       Recent tests of existing and new treatments on tens of thousands 
of infected patients appear to have left them with no detectable signs of 
HIV, the virus that causes AIDS, the researchers say. 

       ``If you had asked me in January, `Can you eradicate HIV 
infection?' I would have laughed in your face,'' Dr. Julio Montaner of 
the University of British Columbia was quoted as saying today in Newsday. 

       ``But now we've been able to demonstrate that we can effectively 
suppress viral production. That is leading to a dramatic change in how we 
think of this disease,'' he said. 

       The clinical trials were discussed Thursday in Washington, D.C., 
at a conference held by the medical journal Antiviral Therapy and the 
University of Amsterdam. 

       Scientists cited three factors for their optimism: 

       -The development of a new class of anti-HIV drugs, three of which 
were licensed by the government earlier this year. 

       -Successful tests to combine different families of HIV drugs in a 
``cocktail'' that assaults the virus' ability to reproduce. 

       -Tests that allow doctors to measure precisely the amount of HIV 
present in a patient's blood. 

       Scientists believe treating patients early with the mixture of HIV 
drugs may be reducing the virus to a level that a still-intact immune 
system can handle. 

       The Wall Street Journal reported today that even cautious 
physicians are astonished by recent developments. 

       ``It now appears, at the very least, we may finally have the tools 
to turn (AIDS) into a long-term manageable and treatable disease, much 
like hypertension and diabetes,'' said Roy Gullick, research physician at 
New York University Medical School. 

       ``Almost every one of my patients is doing significantly better.'' 

       Between 650,000 and 900,000 Americans are infected with HIV; 
almost 60,000 have been treated with the new drugs, none for more than 
two years. 

- - - - - - - 

From a friend who works at AIDS Action: the 'buzz' here is that it's all 
real, but that it's premature to drop our guard given that we don't have 
stats looking at how protease inhibitors work over time. 

There are also concerns about protease inhibitors working on healthier 
bodies, and that they may not be as effective once people have "real" 
immune damage.  It seems the jury is still out. 

- - - - - - - 
323.2554BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 20:0432
| <<< Note 323.2554 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>


| If I held up a sign that said "White people for an AIDS free America",
| I would certainly raise some eyebrows...my motivation for such a sign
| would rightly cause suspicions on my motivation.  I imagine you would
| be one of the first to cry "foul" over it.

	Steve, you don't really think the media has always been favorable
towards gays, do you? Come on.... when it started off, it was anything but
good. But as time went on, they saw what was real, and what was not. What went
as a destructive media view, has become much much much better. They just report
what is there. 

	I suspect the same would happen with your white people signs.

| I disagree.  I think it is all mush-minded nonsense.  Don't get me
| wrong, there is nothing wrong with learning and being proud of your
| herritage.  However, at some point, you have to assimilate into society.  

	And I'm sure you'll be there to tell us when we can be proud, and when
we shouldn't be. 

| I can see first and second generation immagrants calling themselves
| "African Americans" or "Hispanic Americans", etc., but after that, there
| comes a time to drop the prefix.  

	Why? Because you said so? 



Glen
323.2555LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:053
    .2553
    
    glen, this is most encouraging news.  thanks for posting it.
323.2556ACISS2::LEECHTue Jun 18 1996 20:0576
.2531 (DougO)
    
    This is a waste of time, IMO, which is why I opted for the short form
    answer.  You don't seem to understand where I am coming from on this
    issue; maybe I have not been as clear as I thought, maybe we simply
    have two very different ways of looking at things that keep
    understanding at bay.
    
    Whatever the case, I will try to clarify, since you are so insistent.
    
    
    me> I would be suspect of a sign held up in the walk that says
    me> "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America".  I would also be suspect
    me> of a sign that reads "African Americans for an AIDS free America".
    me> I fail to see the need for such distinctive signs- for gays,
    me> minorities, or hets.
    
    The word you seem to have a problem with is "suspect", it seems.  I use
    this term as I see in these signs a certain motivation which seems to
    have nothing at all to do with an "AIDS free America".  Such signs
    focus on the group in question first: "GAYS for an AIDS free America",
    "HETEROSEXUALS for an AIDS free America", "AFRICAN AMERICANS for an
    AIDS free American", etc, then on what they are for.  I find such signs
    "suspect" because I feel that at least some of the motivation for them
    is to promote said group.
    
    If I held up a sign that said "White people for an AIDS free America",
    I would certainly raise some eyebrows...my motivation for such a sign
    would rightly cause suspicions on my motivation.  I imagine you would
    be one of the first to cry "foul" over it.
    
>    "segregate themselves" [sic] is not the same thing as taking pride in
>    identity and carrying signs in a parade.  
    
    This is where we disagree.  It is a form of segregation, if a mild one. 
    It does have an affect on race relations.  If a group of white people
    started a "white pride" parade, holding up signs promoting white people
    in various ways, don't you think it would be castrated by the media? 
    Don't you think that most people would call such a parade racist?
    
    I certainly would not join in such a parade, as I would certainly be
    suspect of the motivation behind it.  I don't need a public
    display to show off my identity, or to be proud of who I am.  Such a 
    self-promotion, to me, shows a lack of confidence in one's identity.  
    
    You see, as I said in my last note, we simply disagree on the basics of
    what comprises "self-segregation".  By promoting self, you set yourself
    apart from others by default.
    
>    Grab a clue, Steve.  The many facets of our complex society reflect
>    different identities for each one of us.  Knowing ourselves as
>    individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is 
>    an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
    
    This is all fine and dandy, but why do we need official distinctions?
    Why not just be "Americans"?   There is nothing wrong with learning and 
    being proud of your herritage.  However, at some point, you have to 
    assimilate into society.  We are all in this together.  We are either all 
    Americans, or we are not.  
    
    I can see first and second generation immagrants calling themselves
    "African Americans" or "Hispanic Americans", etc., but after that, there
    comes a time to drop the prefix.  It doesn't change your herritage or
    change who you are, it merely puts you on equal footing with everyone
    else.  
    
    There was a time when immigrants came to this country and were proud to be 
    called "Americans"...no prefix.  
    
    If you want a color-blind society, you need to give every citizen the
    same moniker.  If you live in America, that moniker is "American".
    Anything extra is a form of segregation.  
    
    
    
    -steve
323.2557MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:1021
    Glen Marie:
    
    I congratulate you on your asbility to answer retorts before they are
    posted! :-)
    
    | but after that, there
    | comes a time to drop the prefix.  
    
    Z        Why? Because you said so?
    
    Glen, in your effort to be a sensytyve goody goody type, you ARE
    causing the problem.  You ARE causing a division between the genders
    and the races.  So the answer is yes, I said so, in my opinion.  You
    are perpetuating an age old problem many of us got over years ago.  You
    possess the same problem Jesse Jackson has.  Instead of getting this
    diversity thing out from under your fingernail, you insist upon, as you
    say, putting people in boxes...distinguishing each other as a seperate 
    entity...all in our cute little category to which we can use to demand
    our rights blah blah blah, etc. etc. etc.
    
    -Jack
323.2558BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 18 1996 20:2125
| <<< Note 323.2557 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>


| Glen, in your effort to be a sensytyve goody goody type, you ARE causing the 
| problem. You ARE causing a division between the genders and the races.  

	Jack, this is funny. If someone wants to be known as something, they
can't because you and Steve don't think they should be known as what they want
to be. And then you tell me I am part of the problem because I don't mind them
being known as whatever they want to be known as. I think you have it
backwards. 

	If someone comes to this country, but does not want to forget their
heritage, then they call themselves <insert country> Americans. If they don't
care about their heritage, they won't use it. Plain and simple. There is no cut
off date, there is nothing wrong with the label. What is wrong is instead of
just accepting the label, which doesn't hurt anyone, some think they should
change it to what they think it should be. How nice of you to tell others who
or what they are. If you would, I hope that both Steve and yourself never use
the word Christian again. Because those people become suspect.




Glen
323.2559LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:232
    jack, what do you want us all to be?  one massive,
    amorphous blob?
323.2560EDITEX::MOOREGetOuttaMyChairTue Jun 18 1996 20:252
    
    Globular-Muricans.
323.2561SOLVIT::KRAWIECKItumble to remove jerksTue Jun 18 1996 20:293
    
    Funded by the Tri-literal Commission
    
323.2562MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:3320
 Z   I hope that both Steve and yourself never use
 Z   the word Christian again. Because those people become suspect.
    
    Glen, I have never, in the conference or otherwise referred to myself
    as a Christian American.  I would find the term to be absurd at best
    and would simply see it as a perpetuation of my ideals upon others
    around me.  
    
    Re: Bonbon's question.  Bonnie, I find the categorization of Americans
    to be a deterrant to the cause of harmony in this country.  As I
    mentioned before, monolithic countries throughout the world are by far 
    less crime ridden than the United States.  
    
    I am Scottish-American...because I am Scottish.  What an absurd
    concept.  No...I am proud of my heritage but I am of this country
    first.  Scotland has absolutely no ties to me other than the fact that
    my great grandparents came from there.  And from what I understand, my
    great grandfather was a crackpot anyways!
    
    -Jack
323.2563EDITEX::MOOREGetOuttaMyChairTue Jun 18 1996 20:465
> And from what I understand, my great grandfather was a crackpot anyways!
    
    This explains a lot.
    
    ;^)
323.2564MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:5111
    I mean the whole thing's absurd.
    
    Why would anybody get all worked up over what piece of land their
    forebears were dropped out of the water sack from.  I believe we have
    become a society of mental midgets...I really do.  We seem to have
    forgotten the important things in life...like American pride, honoring
    those around us...that sort of thing.  Instead we have a society of
    whining, sobbing, meely mouthed spineless types who have no concept of
    looking ahead.  What a pathetic lot we've become.
    
     
323.2565LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Tue Jun 18 1996 20:591
    you don't honor those around you?
323.2566SMURF::WALTERSWed Jun 19 1996 12:194
    >If you live in America, that moniker is "American".  Anything extra is a
    >form of segregation.  
     
    Help, I'm being segregated! 
323.2567BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 19 1996 12:5115
| <<< Note 323.2562 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| Glen, I have never, in the conference or otherwise referred to myself as a 
| Christian American.  

	Jack, if you are an American, then drop the Christian label. If you
call yourself a Christian, then please don't tell others they can't also add
something else onto what they want to be. In both cases the people are saying
they are two things. You say you're an American, you say you are Christian.
Just because you don't use the 2 together, doesn't mean you aren't doing the
same thing as the other person who uses African American.



Glen
323.2568ACISS2::LEECHWed Jun 19 1996 13:309
    .2559
    
    Do you want a color blind society?  This seems to be the goal, yet no
    one is doing anything to promote it...quite the opposite, in fact.  
    No one is suggesting that we all be an amorphous blob, just that we all
    be "Americans".  Why must this include forgeting about our herritage?
    
    
    -steve
323.2569BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amWed Jun 19 1996 14:0216
| <<< Note 323.2568 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| Do you want a color blind society?  This seems to be the goal, yet no
| one is doing anything to promote it...quite the opposite, in fact.

	Steve, as long as we have people who hate for <insert reason>, there
isn't a remote chance of a color blind society. What various groups have done
is establish themselves to show they really aren't the monsters some make them
out to be. And it has worked. 

	Why don't we do the same thing you ask when it comes to jobs? Because
it would never work. Not while we are human, anyway.



Glen
323.2570MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Wed Jun 19 1996 14:3014
Z    Just because you don't use the 2 together, doesn't mean you aren't
Z    doing the same thing as the other person who uses African American.
    
    Nyah nyah blah blah blah.....Glen, this is one of the most ridiculous
    things I've ever seen.  I have no problem with labels like Christian,
    Gay, Jewish, Hispanic...whatever.  The context of this is the
    hyphenation crapola.  
    
    By the way, there are many blacks who are offended by the term,
    "African American", since their forebearers are not from Africa.  
    
    And by the way GM, very good self control on .2569!
    
    -AJ
323.2571CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowWed Jun 19 1996 15:099

 Can a white south african who comes to the US of A refer to him/herself
 as "African American"?




 Jim
323.2572EVMS::MORONEYIt's alive! Alive!Wed Jun 19 1996 15:151
How about Berbers, northern Egyptians etc. ?
323.2573SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoThu Jun 20 1996 17:2836
    Steve, I see you don't choose to discuss whether you've investigated
    much of your Black Foot Indian cultural heritage.  That gives the
    appearance you want to avoid discussing whether there is any legitimate
    purpose in celebrating one's distinctive cultural inheritances.  If you
    admit you've done it, you undercut your political position that such
    activities are 'suspect'.  No wonder you don't want to discuss it.

    >> Grab a clue, Steve.  The many facets of our complex society reflect
    >> different identities for each one of us.  Knowing ourselves as
    >> individuals, together with knowing ourselves as part of groups, is 
    >> an enriching and rewarding privilege of our multicultural heritage.
    >
    > This is all fine and dandy, but why do we need official distinctions?
    
    What do you mean by "official"?  Nobody needs government permission or
    programs to celebrate a portion of their identity on a sign, to assert
    pride in group membership, to bolster a cultural community, foster good
    citizenship, provide role models.  What is 'suspect' in that?

    The society is not culturally color blind, Steve.  I think there is
    plenty of reason to seek for color-blind justice, in legal codes, in
    court systems, in legislatures, in tax-funded life.  But to imply that
    color-blind justice imposes a whitebread american no-prefix-allowed
    cultural tapioca upon our vibrant cultural mixture is to entirely miss
    the point of why people want colorblind justice in the first place! 
    Its precisely in order to allow people the maximum amount of personal
    liberty to be themselves, whatever their cultural identity, that the
    justice system is stripped of the ability to discriminate upon the
    basis of that self-expression.

    Suppress your cultural heritage if your political values require it of
    you, Steve, but don't expect the rest of us to agree with you that such
    a self-denial is required in a free society, or even good for such a
    society.  I can't imagine living in such a place.

    DougO
323.2574ACISS2::LEECHThu Jun 20 1996 20:2815
    Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
    
    Wait, I think I should post this in the "I didn't know that" topic.
    
    As far as my herritage goes, what difference does it make if
    I've studied it or not?  I know a little about the Black Foot, but
    certainly far from a complete historical knowledge.  My only point
    was that I could claim minority status if I wished, OR I could label
    myself Native American.  I have no such desire to do either.  I'm an
    AMERICAN.  Not a Native American, not a Caucation American, not a Dutch
    American, or English American, or any other permeatation from my
    historical family tree.
    
    
    -steve                        
323.2575Parse?ASDG::GASSAWAYInsert clever personal name hereThu Jun 20 1996 21:046
323.2576MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Thu Jun 20 1996 21:2219
323.2577BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amThu Jun 20 1996 21:2411

	Lisa, Steve doesn't go by a Christian American. But he somehow thinks
just by not adding the American to the end of Christian that it is somehow
different than someone having African, Indian, etc. I guess if an Indian is
born in this country, they are no longer an Indian, but an American. But he can
be both a Christian, and an American.



Glen
323.2578MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Thu Jun 20 1996 21:299
 Z   I guess if an Indian is
 Z   born in this country, they are no longer an Indian, but an American.
    
    Oh, sure they are.  What is the issue at hand is...ready Glen??  The
    key is to have a society of people from all backgrounds obtain a
    monolithic attitude toward one another.  This will undo the racial
    problems you and others have created over time.
    
    -Jack
323.2579BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amThu Jun 20 1996 21:3319

	Jack, correct me if I am wrong, but it sounds like you can say:



                        I am Christian. I am American.
                         I am African. I am American.


	But it is wrong to say:


                          I am a Christian American.
                          I am an African American.



	Is this what you are saying?
323.2580SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoThu Jun 20 1996 22:0528
    > Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
    
    no, I didn't say that.  Finding it 'suspect' when others add such
    prefixes to describe themselves, and ducking questions about whether
    you've researched your own heritage, indicates a certain degree of
    denial, yes.
    
    > As far as my herritage goes, what difference does it make if
    > I've studied it or not?
    
    To you, personally, it may make no difference.  Or it may make a 
    lot of difference.  I'm not guessing.  I *am* saying that dodging the
    question, when you're trying to impugn the motives of others who do
    celebrate their cultural identities by calling their actions "suspect",
    looks hypocritical.  Have you engaged in any of those actions you term
    "suspect" or not, Steve?
    
    > My only point was
    
    understood long ago.  My point was that celebrating a cultural
    heritage, claiming an identity, providing a role-model as a citizen
    AND a member of a particular cultural identity, should an individual 
    wish to do so, is NOT a "suspect" activity.  You may have even done it
    yourself.  And there's no problem with your doing that, nobody minds.
    Why do *you* mind when others do it?  Why do you accuse them of wanting
    "official distinctions"?  What did you mean by that?
    
    DougO
323.2581BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 21 1996 00:547

	Friday is the day when a lot of the day time tv shows have something
that deals with HIV or AIDS. 


Glen
323.2582always wondered this...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseFri Jun 21 1996 12:135
    
      So Steve, what's the plural ?  Several Blackfoot ?  Several
     Blackfeet ?  Several Blackfoots ?
    
      bb
323.2583ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 12:527
    .2575
    
    Fine with me.  I never call myself a "Christian American".  And no one 
    *has* to do what the Bible says.  hth
    
    
    -steve
323.2584ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 13:0219
    .2577
    
    
    Glen, the obvious difference is one of nationality.  I would be a
    Christian no matter what nation I held citizenship.  "African" suggests
    Africa.  Well, are you African or are you American?  Make up your mind,
    I say.  
    
    Same goes with all the others.
    
    I don't see any x-Americans in France using the term American French,
    nor have I ever heard the term American German, American African,
    American English, American Mexican, etc. etc.  
    
    There simply is no point to official classifications outside of failed
    federal policies like AA, which are divisive by nature.
    
    
    -steve
323.2585ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 13:2136
    re: DougO
    
>    Not adding a prefix to "American" is self denial?
    
>    no, I didn't say that.  Finding it 'suspect' when others add such
>    prefixes to describe themselves, and ducking questions about whether
>    you've researched your own heritage, indicates a certain degree of
>    denial, yes.
 
    You missed the point, then.  I did not do this.  What I found suspect
    is not what someone wants to call themselves (and my latest arguments
    have anchored on "official" moniker prefixes), but for putting their
    difference on a sign in an AIDS walk.  Meaning, it would seem to be a
    bit out of place there, IMO. 
    
    In other places- say an equal rights march- it would be more
    appropriate. 
    
>    To you, personally, it may make no difference.  Or it may make a 
>    lot of difference.  I'm not guessing.  I *am* saying that dodging the
>    question, when you're trying to impugn the motives of others who do
>    celebrate their cultural identities by calling their actions "suspect",
>    looks hypocritical.  
    
    Well now, since I did not do this, you have nothing to worry about. 
    You are simply reading too much into what I originally said.
    
>    Have you engaged in any of those actions you term
>    "suspect" or not, Steve?
  
    I've never picketed with a sign that promotes my whiteness, my Indian
    heritage, nor my sexuality or religion. 
     
    
    
    -steve
323.2586BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 21 1996 13:3011
| <<< Note 323.2584 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| Glen, the obvious difference is one of nationality. I would be a Christian 
| no matter what nation I held citizenship.  

	Yes. You are Christian, and you are American. The term African American
is the same thing. The only difference is they put it together. 



Glen
323.2587WAHOO::LEVESQUEplus je bois, mieux je chanteFri Jun 21 1996 13:482
    So I'm a french canadian native american. BFD. American is label enough
    for me. I don't need to augment the label to remember my heritage.
323.2588ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 13:5017
    .2586
    
    But I am a Christain in the here and now.  Most of our darker skin
    American brothers are well-displaced from their African heritage- the
    majority probably farther displaced from Africa than I am from my
    Blackfoot heritage by a good margin.
    
    I would like to stress that there IS NOTHING WRONG with being proud of
    your heritage, but I see no reasoning behind official monikers for any
    nationality outside of the US (outside of the devisive AA policies).
    
    You also missed my point.  'Christian' denotes no nationality; 'African' 
    does (to limit my examples to one).  I disagree that this is an apples
    to apples comparison.
    
    
    -steve
323.2589ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 13:5817
    Let's take this a step further, Glen.  If I were to go back farther in
    time up my family tree, I bet I could add a few things to my heritage
    outside the immediate ones (Dutch-English-Native American).  I bet I
    could trace my Dutch roots back to somewhere else, as could I trace my
    English roots back to some other nation.  Heck, even the Blackfoot
    migrated from some other place originally.
    
    All said and done, I think all of us can trace our roots back to the
    same place, which truly makes us one big extended family - not only as
    humans, but as people with a similar origin (though
    certainly different histories to get where we are today).
    
    I find all this chasing of "immediate" heritage to distract from the 
    ideal goal.  We are not so different as we think.
    
    
    -steve
323.2590MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 21 1996 13:5815
                         Z     But it is wrong to say:
    
    
                         Z     I am a Christian American.
                         Z     I am an African American.
    
    Glen, what I'm trying to say, as I've addressed to you countless times
    in the past, is that your affirmation to labeling is not decaying the
    wedge between those of race, religion, or sexual orientation.  I
    wouldn't say it is wrong so much as it is counterproductive.  
    
    As Wahoo said, American is fine enough a label for me.  I don't give
    two cow doots where your forebearers water broke.
    
    -Jack
323.2591BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 21 1996 14:015

	Steve, if you trace your roots back far enough, the very first mom in
your family would be Eve, and the very first dad would be Adam. :-) You and I
are related! Isn't life grand!?
323.2592all wetHBAHBA::HAASmore madness, less horrorFri Jun 21 1996 14:223
Hey they reset the counter after that.

We only have to go back to Noah afore all of us meet...
323.2593CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri Jun 21 1996 14:344


 I'm a European American.
323.2594PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BFri Jun 21 1996 14:373
 I'm a Swedish American.  And I have the two lips to prove it.

323.2595CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri Jun 21 1996 14:4010

 My exwife is a European-Canadian American, her mother is an Asian-European-
 Canadian American, having been born in India, transplanted to England, then
 Canada, and then America. 




Jim
323.2596MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Fri Jun 21 1996 14:432
I'm from New York.

323.2597LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Fri Jun 21 1996 14:451
    i'm really a swedish-irish-english american. 
323.2598CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri Jun 21 1996 14:473

 Well, technically, I'm Dutch-Irish-Welsh American
323.2599WAHOO::LEVESQUEplus je bois, mieux je chanteFri Jun 21 1996 14:473
    >i'm really a swedish-irish-english american. 
    
     Oh, a swedireng american. Cool. :-)
323.2600GAVEL::JANDROWi think, therefore i have a headacheFri Jun 21 1996 14:484
    
    i'm a mutt.  what can i say???
    
    
323.2601CSLALL::HENDERSONEvery knee shall bowFri Jun 21 1996 14:498
    
>    i'm a mutt.  what can i say???
 

  "I'll have a snickers bar, please"   
    

323.2602LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Fri Jun 21 1996 14:491
    bow wow?
323.2603SCASS1::BARBER_Aout of my wayFri Jun 21 1996 14:531
    I'm at least 1/4 German.  Can I play?
323.2604CNTROL::JENNISONIt's all about soulFri Jun 21 1996 14:5711
    
    	I'm an Irish-Lithuanian-American.  I'm having the darnedest
    	time finding a social club in the area ;-)
    
    	My kids are mongrels.  Italian-English-Scottish-Irish-Lithuanian-
    	American.  But, we all know that the Italian cancels out all the
    	other nationalities, making them Italian Americans.
    
    	At least *they* have a club.
    
    
323.2605SMURF::BINDERUva uvam vivendo variatFri Jun 21 1996 15:003
    Trace it back a quarter of a million years, folks, and we're all
    African Americans.  Some of us have ancestors who emigrated from Africa
    sooner than others, that's all.
323.2606TINCUP::AGUEhttp://www.usa.net/~agueFri Jun 21 1996 15:1118
    Re .2591 & .2592
    
>>Hey they reset the counter after that.

>>We only have to go back to Noah afore all of us meet...
    
    Actually you don't have to go Biblical, use a little mathematics and
    you can demonstrate how incestuous the human race is.
    
    Presuming 4 generations per century, each century provides 16 (2^4)
    great-grandparents per individual, 200 years give 256 ancestors (2^8),
    ... .  In only 1,000 years we each have 2^40 ancestors (about 10^12 or
    1000 billion people, if there were enough to go around).
    
    Since today's world population is about 5 billion, and there were a lot
    less people 1000 years ago, we're all cousins, just slightly removed.
    
    -- Jim
323.2607GAVEL::JANDROWi think, therefore i have a headacheFri Jun 21 1996 16:256
    mmmmmm.....yum....snickers!!  (jimbo, i may have to hurt you...)
    
    -raq (french-irish-polish-scotish-french candian-american, tho a 1/4 of
          that IS irish!)
    
    
323.2608no, no denial there, nah.SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoFri Jun 21 1996 18:0710
    re .2585, Steve-
    
    You claim not to impugn the motives of people carrying signs when you
    call their actions "suspect".  That's enough doublespeak for my taste.
    
    May you never experience the degradation of having your actions judged
    suspect when merely celebrating who you are- I think the shock of
    recognition would kill you.
    
    DougO
323.2609MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 21 1996 18:387
 Z   Trace it back a quarter of a million years, folks, and we're all
 Z   African Americans.  Some of us have ancestors who emigrated from
 Z   Africa sooner than others, that's all.
    
    Dick, this is Afrocentrism and is a sham.
    
    -Jack
323.2610SMURF::BINDERErrabit quicquid errare potest.Fri Jun 21 1996 18:541
    Forgive me, Jack.  We minorities gotta stick up for *something*!
323.2611ACISS2::LEECHFri Jun 21 1996 19:1722
    .2608
    
    Now you are playing word games, DougO.  You were originally taking me
    to task for impugning upon people's motives for celebrating their
    heritage- something I did not do.  
    
    I took to task what the motivation would have been behind carrying
    signs like "_Homosexuals_ for and AIDS free America" and "_African
    Americans_ for an AIDS free America", etc.  As I explained 
    previously, I would find such exclusive signs out of place in this 
    particular instance.  I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there 
    were no such signs, so this is all just a mental exercise), in this 
    context, is celebrating one's heritage. 
    
    Because I question the motivation behind such a thing, you seem to go
    off the diversity deep end on me, suggesting that I am somehow a
    hypocrite (because I have done no more than a topic study of my own
    heritage), or that I am judging other people's actions.  Questioning the
    motivation != judging actions.  /hth
    
    
    -steve  
323.2612SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoFri Jun 21 1996 19:5713
    Don't talk to me about word games, Steve.  You've been sidestepping 
    the politics of identity since you introduced the word "suspect" to
    describe the motivations of people who celebrate their cultural
    heritage in a manner that you don't happen to find appropriate.
    You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
    "exclusive", of "segregating themselves".  You "fail to see" any
    innocent motive for their carrying signs, even though I've given a
    half-dozen reasons that people will celebrate their identity as a
    normal parts of their lives, in their volunteer time, in the arena of
    politics, as community role models, etc, etc. etc.  Well, you fail to
    see a lot, Steve.  But it isn't due to word games of mine.
    
    DougO
323.2613BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 21 1996 19:584

	I wonder if Steve would find a sign, "Christians for Christ" to be
something suspect?
323.2614SOLVIT::KRAWIECKItumble to remove jerksFri Jun 21 1996 20:064
    
    
    I wonder what sign the guy on stilts was carrying last week???
    
323.2615MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 21 1996 20:115
 Z   I wonder if Steve would find a sign, "Christians for Christ" to be
 Z   something suspect?
    
    Speaking for myself, I don't wear crosses, I don't have bumperstickers,
    or tea shirts pronouncing Christianity at all.  
323.2616BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 21 1996 20:307
| <<< Note 323.2614 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "tumble to remove jerks" >>>


| I wonder what sign the guy on stilts was carrying last week???

	The guy on the stilts was NOT part of the parade. He added himself into
it. 
323.2617SOLVIT::KRAWIECKItumble to remove jerksMon Jun 24 1996 14:447
    
    
    How about the lesbians in the bed??
    
    How about the other tasteless individuals? Or were they also not
    invited to begin with?
    
323.2618BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amMon Jun 24 1996 15:0312
| <<< Note 323.2617 by SOLVIT::KRAWIECKI "tumble to remove jerks" >>>


| How about the lesbians in the bed??

	They were not invited either.

| How about the other tasteless individuals? Or were they also not
| invited to begin with?

	What other ones. Those were the only 2 I heard of. Or are you talking
about the Digital crowd? :-)
323.2619ACISS2::LEECHTue Jun 25 1996 13:083
    .2613
    
    I would find it redundant.
323.2620ACISS2::LEECHTue Jun 25 1996 13:2234
    .2612 (DougO)
    
>    Don't talk to me about word games, Steve.  You've been sidestepping 
>    the politics of identity since you introduced the word "suspect" to
>    describe the motivations of people who celebrate their cultural
>    heritage in a manner that you don't happen to find appropriate.
    
    No, I've been ignoring your opinion of my words.  You continually try
    to evolve my words into something not intended.  I thought I was quite
    clear in my last note, but you STILL don't get it.
    
>    You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
>    "exclusive", of "segregating themselves".  
    
    And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
    
>    You "fail to see" any
>    innocent motive for their carrying signs, 
    
    I don't "fail to see" anything of the sort.  That is your assertion.
    
    I was trying to make a point.  Obviously, it went completely over your
    head.  You are so indoctrinated into PC-style diversity that you cannot
    even see the point I am trying to make.  As soon as I question
    motivation behind any minority action, you go into instant attack mode.
    
    Well, have fun.  I made my point- some folks actually seemed to
    understand it, others didn't.  As much as you and others jump on Jack
    Martin, I think it is only fair to point out that he was one of the few
    who seemed understand the point I tried to make. 
    
    
     
    -steve 
323.2621BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amTue Jun 25 1996 13:335
| <<< Note 323.2619 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>

| I would find it redundant.

	But would you find it suspect?
323.2622MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Tue Jun 25 1996 14:461
    I would find it redundant.
323.2623what a phrase !GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Jun 25 1996 16:577
    
      "sidestepping the politics of identity"  ?
    
      Could you translate to English, please ?  What on earth are
     you on about, now, DougO ?
    
      bb
323.2624SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoTue Jun 25 1996 20:2147
    >> You accuse them of wanting "official" status, of being divisive,
    >> "exclusive", of "segregating themselves".
    >
    >   And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
    
    That's because you duck every question about them.  I've asked you
    several times what you meant by your accusation that they seek
    "official status" - no answer. 
    
    >> You "fail to see" any innocent motive for their carrying signs, 
    >
    > I don't "fail to see" anything of the sort.  That is your assertion.
    
    This was an explicit reference to your previous note.  You said:
    
    > I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there were no such signs,
    > so this is all just a mental exercise), in this context, is celebrating 
    > one's heritage. 
    
    So you do fail to see an innocent motive which has been explained time
    and again.  Nope, to you this is "suspect".  My "assertion" stands.
    
    > I was trying to make a point...As soon as I question motivation
    > behind any minority action, you go into instant attack mode.
    
    "instant attack mode", Steve?  Perhaps you'd care to review how long 
    you dodged my questions about your investigation of your own Black Foot 
    Indian heritage, which certainly weren't in any way phrased as attacks.
    No, I was giving you plenty of time to consider whether such activities
    must be "suspect".  
    
    Your point was to label and attack those who find that their political
    voices are strengthened with explicit references to their identity
    issues.  Since you are often in the political opposition to those who
    are currently using this mode of expression, your attack is easily
    understood as partisanry, attacking the motives of your opponents
    rather than their political stances.  I find your attack "suspect" 
    myself, given who you've targetted.  It looks like racist. sexist, and 
    cultural bigotry to me.  Find it "suspect" when people carry signs
    proclaiming their identity, do you?  You come across with all the
    subtlety of the KKK, Steve.
    
    >    Well, have fun.
    
    This isn't fun.
    
    DougO
323.2625hope this helpsSX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoTue Jun 25 1996 20:2719
    >  "sidestepping the politics of identity"  ?
    >
    >      Could you translate to English, please ?
    
    "sidestepping", ie, dodging the issues, attempting to deflect attention
    from the weak points of the argument.  In this case, ducking questions
    about whether or not he has investigated his own heritage, ducking
    questions about his statements regarding his opponents ("official"
    recognition accusation, "exclusive" accusation, "segragating
    themselves" accusation, all questions he ducked.)
    
    "politics of identity", a shorthand to discuss the fact that many
    political groups on the scene today have come together based on their
    perceptions of their similar identities, the perceptions that as a
    group they have political grievances, and their recognition that in
    numbers, in a democracy, there is power.  Women's issues.  Black
    issues.  SUrely you are not clueless.
    
    DougO
323.2626well, it's complicated...GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Jun 25 1996 20:5028
    
      Shirley, I'm clueless.  I have no idea if my own politics are a
     "politics of identity" or not, and I wouldn't know how to tell.
    
      It is true I share views with some other people, some of the time,
     but with completely different people some different time.  So does
     that mean that I don't practice a "politics of identity" ?  In other
     words, is "politics of identity" just a case of "solidarity", i.e.,
     the thought that sometimes, "I'll oppose this politically, even
     though on the merits I'd be for it, because by opposing it I
     demonstrate solidarity with people who I find are like myself on
     other matters."
    
      If so, I can see why many people avoid solidarity out of principle.
     Curiously, this is not a left-right thing.  For example, consider
     the Christian Coalition, or even the National Rifle Association,
     then the NAACP or the AFL/CIO, all examples of solidarity.  There
     are also people who SEEK solidarity out of principle.
    
      As a tactic, the jury is still out on solidarity.  Sometimes it
     works out well for those who practice it, and sometimes it works
     out very badly indeed.  Oddly, a two-party system offers a very
     different game for group politics than proportional systems do.
    
      If "politics of identity" is intended to mean something else,
     I still don't understand it.
    
      bb
323.2627EDITEX::MOOREGetOuttaMyChairWed Jun 26 1996 05:475
    > Shirley, I'm clueless.
    
    It's "surely".
    
    ;^)
323.2628ACISS2::LEECHWed Jun 26 1996 22:10164
me    >   And you are taking all these things completely out of context.
    
>    That's because you duck every question about them.  
    
    I've ducked nothing of the sort.  You simply aren't listening.  I've
    answered every question you've posed, though obviously not to your
    satisfaction (too bad).
    
>    I've asked you
>    several times what you meant by your accusation that they seek
>    "official status" - no answer. 
 
    That's because I never made this accusation.  This is your creation.  I've
    just waded through this topic, all the way back to my .2497 - the note
    that started your reactive engines running - and have found no such
    accusation.  The closest I come to one is in .2556, where I ask the
    question: "why do we need official distinctions?"   I'll be the first to 
    admit that I've topic-skipped a bit (this question really is not within 
    the general context of what was being discussed), but I was not making any 
    accusations.  I was questioning the existence of *official* distinctions 
    (eg. "race" on applications, and federal categories of people- segregated 
    by race and color...the basis behind AA policies and other such
    nonsense).
       
>    This was an explicit reference to your previous note.  You said:
    
      > I fail to see how such signs (and in truth, there were no such signs,
me    > so this is all just a mental exercise), in this context, is celebrating 
      > one's heritage. 
 
    There is a difference between 'failing to see how a sign that says
    "African Americans (or pick any group) for and AIDS free American" is
    valuing heritage', and 'failing to see a an innocent motive' (what you
    accuse me of, below).  I even stated (in .2556) that not all the 
    motivation for carrying such signs was suspect.
      
>    So you do fail to see an innocent motive which has been explained time
>    and again.  Nope, to you this is "suspect".  My "assertion" stands.
 
    No, your assertion does not stand.  Go back and re-read .2556.
       
>    "instant attack mode", Steve?  Perhaps you'd care to review how long 
>    you dodged my questions about your investigation of your own Black Foot 
>    Indian heritage, which certainly weren't in any way phrased as attacks.
 
    Perhaps you need to go review some of your own notes.  I did answer
    your questions - even the ones I found irrellevant (like the ones aimed
    at my Blackfoot heritage).  Here's list of my notes, and a brief
    synopsis.
    
    .2497  Where I bring up the now infamous term...SUSPECT. <shiver>
    .2520  Where I first bring up the self-segregation idea (I mention in 
           .2556 that this is really a "mild" form of self-segregation, but
           IMO, it still qualifies)
    .2538  Where I try to bow out, it being obvious that we are
           communicating through too many filters.
    .2556  Further explanation on my use of "suspect", and other assorted 
           treasures.  8^)
    .2585  Yet MORE explanation on how I used the term "suspect" (when 
           communications get difficult, I try to use as many examples
           as possible...this usually leads to an argument over the 
           examples).
    .2611  Yet still even more explanation, clarification, and context
           straightening.
    .2620  Exasperation sets in (my own fault for not bowing out sooner).
    
    I may have missed one or two, but I think these pretty much cover
    things.
    
    Perhaps you need to look at your first response to me in this string,
    where you suggest I am myopic, and that your note would "give (me) a
    clue".  Or maybe you should look to another early note in this
    discussion (.2531) where you tell me to "grab a clue".  Etc.
    
    Yes, your supply of "clues" throughout this conversation has been 
    repeatedly sent my way.  Of course, you never stopped to think that maybe 
    we are simply discussing two different things (what I perceive I am
    taking to task, and what you perceive I am taking to task).  This was 
    obvious to me at the onset of this discussion, which was why I posted 
    .2538 (a note where I try to bow out nicely, without suggesting you 
    "find a clue" or somesuch clever retort).
    
>       No, I was giving you plenty of time to consider whether such activities
>    must be "suspect".  
 
    Your own notes suggest something else entirely, but I'll give you the
    benefit of the doubt that you had had nothing but the best intentions 
    when you suggested that I was clueless.
      
>    Your point was to label and attack those who find that their political
>    voices are strengthened with explicit references to their identity
>    issues.  
    
    Ahh...you admit it is political.  Well, I guess I was right to be
    suspicous of the motivation, eh?  IMO, self-political promotion, within
    the context of an AIDS march (remember the original context?), is
    certainly not the most honourable of motivations.  You may see things
    differently.
    
>    Since you are often in the political opposition to those who
>    are currently using this mode of expression, your attack is easily
>    understood as partisanry, 
    
    I am in political opposition of heterosexuals?  Remember, I did include
    a "Heterosexuals for an AIDS free America" in my list of "suspect"
    signs.  I must also be in political opposition to white people, too.
    I do learn a lot about myself in this here forum.  I never would have
    found out that I was politically opposed to white folk and
    heterosexuals without your aid, DougO.  Thanks clueing me in on this.
    
>    attacking the motives of your opponents
>    rather than their political stances.  
    
    I argue political stances day in and day out.  In this one
    instance, I decide to make a point of looking at the inner motivation
    behind a THEORETICAL sign, and I get lambasted by you for doing it. 
    You simply haven't shown any sign (heh heh..pun intended) that you 
    understand what it is I'm taking issue with.
    
>    I find your attack "suspect" 
>    myself, given who you've targetted.  It looks like racist. sexist, and 
>    cultural bigotry to me.  
    
    Oh my!  I'm a racist, sexist and cultural bigot.  I HIT THE
    MOTHERLOAD!!!  I am simply a dispicable person, I am.  Why, in my spare
    time I like to torture pupies and burn churches, too.  Don't forget to
    leave those out in your next note.
    
    Seriously, though, I'm wondering where you come up with the above. 
    My goal is the same as what the liberals say they want.  The only
    difference is, they don't seem to really mean it.  They are going in
    the opposite direction, in fact.  I want a color-blind society, where
    everyone is treated equally as a citizen of the US.  Nothing less,
    nothing more.  This has nothing to do with styfling anyone's heritage-
    far from it.  When I suggest dropping prefixes, I suggest doing it on
    an "official" level - be it federal, state or whatever.  No "official"
    classifications, only American.  How someone want to *personally*
    identify themselves is up to them.
    
>    Find it "suspect" when people carry signs
>    proclaiming their identity, do you?  
    
    Actually, no.  Those are your words, not mine.  And if you keep twisting 
    them, you can pretty much come up with any conclusion you like - especially
    given this particular subject matter.  I see you have done so.
    
>    You come across with all the subtlety of the KKK, Steve.
 
    Ah yes.  The KKK reference was over-due.  I'm surprised it took you
    this long to drag it out.  Oh, don't worry, I know you aren't
    *comparing* ME to the KKK, just using their lack of "subtlety" as a
    point of reference.  The fact that you see me as a racist, sexist bigot
    certainly doesn't come into play here.
        
>    This isn't fun.
 
    You seem to be having a grand time taking privilege with my words.
    Of course, you can't trust me to explain what I said...nah, I'm
    probably lieing.  Better that you create your own version of what I
    mean. 
    
    
    -steve
323.2629BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amThu Jun 27 1996 12:1018
| <<< Note 323.2628 by ACISS2::LEECH >>>


| >    I find your attack "suspect"
| >    myself, given who you've targetted.  It looks like racist. sexist, and
| >    cultural bigotry to me.

| Oh my!  I'm a racist, sexist and cultural bigot.  I HIT THE
| MOTHERLOAD!!!  I am simply a dispicable person, I am.  Why, in my spare
| time I like to torture pupies and burn churches, too.  Don't forget to
| leave those out in your next note.

	Steve, he said it LOOKS LIKE, not that it is. 




Glen
323.2630Jeremy was a Digital employeeBIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amThu Jun 27 1996 13:0948
TALLIS::SCHULER "Greg, DTN 227-4165"                 45 lines  26-JUN-1996 11:27
                    -< Jeremy Michael Mathews - 1957-1996 >-
--------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Jeremy Michael Mathews was born in Laconia, NH, October 9th, 1957.
    He and his family are from Gilmanton Corners, NH...just this side of
    the White Mountains.
    
    Today, Wednesday, June 26th, 1996 - Jeremy passed away after a long
    battle with AIDS.
    
    Jeremy is survived by his parents Francis (Butch) and Donna White, 
    his sister, Lisa and her fiance Scott...and his cat, Blanche - as well
    as many "brothers & sisters" who loved him as parts of their own
    families, from points all around the globe.
    
    Jeremy volunteered his time and talents for many years in the battle
    against HIV/AIDS, by working on both the Boston based "From All Walks
    of Life" as well as the Worcester based "Walk For Life"..yearly
    fundraiser marathon pledge walks, helping to raise much needed money
    for the AIDS Action Committee & AIDS Project Worcester.
    
    In lieu of flowers, donations in his name may be made to AIDS Project 
    Worcester (85 Green St. Worcester, MA).
    
    			"All hailing frequencies closed, Sir"
    
    							-Tasha Yar
    
    ****
    
    The above is my best interpretation of the final obitutary Jeremy would
    have written himself.  I would like to add some info for those who may 
    wish to attend a memorial service - it will be held on Friday, June
    28th at 7pm at the Mercadante Funeral Home in Worcester, MA.  Calling
    hours are from 6pm to 7pm immediately preceding the service.
    
    Mercadante is located on Plantation Street - From the Boston area, take
    the Mass Pike to exit 12 in Framingham.  Take Rte. 9 West into
    Worcester.  Just after passing over Lake Quinsigamond, continue to top
    of hill and take a right at the lights onto Plantation St.  The funeral
    home is located approx. two-tenths of a mile from the intersection on
    the right hand side just past the Hospital.
    
    
    		"I've had the time of my life!"
    
    					-Jeremy Mathews
    
323.2631ACISS2::LEECHThu Jun 27 1996 15:395
    .2629
    
    I'm aware of the words use, Glen.  My feigned over-reaction was just
    taking the his words to the next step in absurdity.  The beginning of my 
    next paragraph clearly shows I was not being serious. 
323.2632SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoFri Jun 28 1996 19:1917
    you doth protest too much, Steve.  You can duck and weave and obfuscate
    all you want- you're still sidestepping the politics of identity.  You
    invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent 
    activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
    them less than honorable.  What they are is different from you, and
    proud of it, and exercising their constitutional rights to freely
    assemble and to speak their points of view. 
    
    Patrick Henry would laugh at your pretensions to constitutional
    scholarship, Steve- you so plainly miss simple exercise of basic
    rights, even when its right in front of you.  Henry might disagree 
    with what someone said on their sign, but he would defend to the death 
    their right to say it.  You find them "suspect".  
    
    Well, I'm done trying to teach this pig to sing.
    
    DougO
323.2633MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 28 1996 19:338
    DougO:
    
    I personally don't have suspicions...I just think your parading your
    identity down Main St. USA is a waste of time.  Nobody really cares.
    I know this is a shock but your heritage will actually reach obscurity
    within a few generations from now.
    
    -Jack
323.2634SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoFri Jun 28 1996 19:3727
    > Shirley, I'm clueless.  I have no idea if my own politics are a
    > "politics of identity" or not, and I wouldn't know how to tell.
    
    Seems likely not.  If you don't have 'identity' issues in your politics
    then you don't.  This is not unusual - don't feel bereft.
    
    > It is true I share views with some other people, some of the time,
    > but with completely different people some different time.  So does
    > that mean that I don't practice a "politics of identity" ?  In other
    > words, is "politics of identity" just a case of "solidarity", i.e.,
    > the thought that sometimes, "I'll oppose this politically, even
    > though on the merits I'd be for it, because by opposing it I
    > demonstrate solidarity with people who I find are like myself on
    > other matters."
    
    No, I don't think solidarity is a synonym for politics of identity,
    though there are certainly congruent elements.  I do not suggest that
    the politics of identity would impel people to desert their principles
    in order to demonstrate solidarity.  Rather, given that societal
    prejudice exists, people who share common cultural backgrounds are
    likely to find common cause in their search for political
    representation.  If you've been treated the same unfair way as 100,000
    other people like you, you may practise a politics of identity with
    them.  Solidarity?  That seems more a tactic.  
    
    DougO
    
323.2635MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 28 1996 19:387
    Oh by the by:
    
    I predict our great grandchildren will view our generation in history
    as a bunch of oversensitive blokes who wasting alot of time and energy
    contemplating our navels.
    
    
323.2636GENRAL::RALSTONOnly half of us are above average!Fri Jun 28 1996 19:545
    >I predict our great grandchildren will view our generation in history
    >as a bunch of oversensitive blokes who wasting alot of time and
    >energy contemplating our navels.
    
    And I will definitely confirm it for them when they ask me.
323.2637BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amFri Jun 28 1996 20:348
| <<< Note 323.2633 by MKOTS3::JMARTIN "Madison...5'2'' 95 lbs." >>>

| I personally don't have suspicions...I just think your parading your
| identity down Main St. USA is a waste of time.  Nobody really cares.
| I know this is a shock but your heritage will actually reach obscurity
| within a few generations from now.

	Then can we cancel the St. Patrick's day parade?
323.2638MKOTS3::JMARTINMadison...5'2'' 95 lbs.Fri Jun 28 1996 20:451
    My God...please do.  I find those people equally annoying!
323.2639BIGQ::MARCHANDSat Jun 29 1996 20:1942
    
         I happened to be in a restaurant today waiting for my 'takeout'
    and a woman whom I know came in for her 'takeout'. We sat at the same
    table and were chatting, she commented on how 'delicious' her drink
    was and when I saw the label commented on how I'd never tasted 'that
    flavor', so she offered me a drink. I immediately said "no", a lot
    because I don't like to drink from others cups or bottles, but because
    a sister had once finished a brownie of a friend who was sick. The
    girl was 'sick' because she had hepatitis and my sister got it.
    
         Well, my major reason though for not wanting to drink from this
    womans bottle was because I know she has aids and is sick from it. She
    was diagnosed in 1990 and she's been losing weight and getting having
    a lot of lung problems. When I saw the look on her face and she said.
    "Okay" I almost felt like I should take a taste of it, but decided
    to not let the discomfort take over and force me to do something that
    I 'didn't' want to do anyways. But, I sensed a lot of both of our
    discomfort was because she has aids, maybe I just sensed my own
    discomfort of it.
    
         There are too many replies in here to see if anyone ever mentioned
    'saliva' and I'm sure though that most believe that it can't be passed
    on by saliva. So, a curious quesion, What if I did drink a sip to taste
    it without knowledge of her having aids?" Is there actually any risk,
    or is it really unknown? What would others have done? I mean, what
    if it was a GOOD friend and sometimes good friends share drinks. I
    guess most would say they wouldn't do that anyways. But, what if I had?
    
         She's not a close friend, she's a friend of a family member. But,
    she did share with me that she has aids because she needed a ride a
    few times and wanted me to know that so I didn't find out from someone
    else and then 'worry' about her leaving germs in my car. But, she's
    also pretty open to people whom she knows that she's got it. I would
    suppose that she's also learned enough about it to know whether
    or not sharing a drink would have passed it on or not. 
    
        I know it's better to just say 'no' anyways to sharing something
    like that, especially where there are certain possibilities of carriers
    of other 'diseases'. It just bothered me more that I worried that I 
    made her feel bad probably.
    
         Rosie
323.2640CSC32::M_EVANSI'd rather be gardeningSun Jun 30 1996 20:1922
    Rosie,
    
    I think it has to do with each and every one of our comfort zones. 
    People who live in close contact with PWA's even to sharing
    toothbrushes have not caught the disease.  On the other hand, if you
    had an easily transmissable virus bacteria or parasite, even a cold,
    you would be putting your friend at serious risk, so not sharing
    actually could have been doing her a favor as well as not taking what
    to you might be an unacceptable risk.  
    
    I do know the discomfort all of us had as far as sharing meals with
    Chuck and Jefferson in 1985.  We didn't know as much about AIDS as we
    do now, but I figured the dishwasher was good for preventing the spread
    of hepetitus and mono, so it would probably work on whatever it was
    that Chuck had.  Needless to say, even Jefferson has never
    seroconverted as he and Chuck were most careful, and Chuck and
    Jefferson were together from 1982 until 1991, when Chuck died.  He was
    the first HIV+ person I knew, although he hasn't been the last, by any
    means.  As far as I can tell it takes pretty intimate contact to pick
    this little nasty up.
    
    meg
323.2641There's intimate, and then there's intimateMOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Jul 01 1996 00:1917
>	As far as I can tell it takes pretty intimate contact to pick
>    this little nasty up.

It's the transfer of bodily fluid from an infected individual directly
into the bloodstream of another, isn't it? Via an open wound, cut, minor
tear in mucous membrane, etc? To the best of my knowledge, the virus (or
maybe just the antibody - I'm unsure) seems to be detectable in almost
any body fluid - tears, sweat, blood, semen, saliva, vaginal secretions,
etc. Ingestion of such fluids isn't the issue (the virus is pretty much
incapable of surviving the G-I environment), but the introduction of the 
fluids to areas where there might be access to the blood stream. That's
why medical, dental, law enforcement and emergency professionals who might
come in contact with bodily fluids use mucho latex - to protect themselves
in the event that they have an open route to the blood stream.

From that standpoint, a cut on the lip, a gum condition, etc., could put
one at risk when sipping from the same drink as an HIV+ person, could it not?
323.2642CSC32::M_EVANSI'd rather be gardeningMon Jul 01 1996 02:4215
    jack,
    
    One could say this is a valid concern, but people who have shared
    TOOTHBRUSHES, and I don't know about you, but I have bloody gums on a
    regular basis.  I don't know how exactly they have avoided passing
    stuff. 
    
    Like I said there is some real risk to the person who is HIV + from a
    person who has a "bug."  This doesn't mean I would tell anyone to go
    ahead and share a drink with someone they aren't comfortable sharing
    with.  I don't do this with any but very close friends, and it has
    nothing to do with HIV.  I don't need a case of hepetitus, or even a
    cold or flu.  
    
    meg
323.2643BIGQ::MARCHANDMon Jul 01 1996 12:3114
    
        I think that I was feeling pretty 'ignorant' and actually felt
    a bit cruel by saying "no"... I hadn't thought of possibly killing
    her myself. Like if I were a carrier of something and she caught that.
    Like even a cold or something that could cause pneumonia, her having
    a very bad immune system. So either way, whether I could catch it or
    not isn't AS important as catching other things either way. PLUS, she's
    not a close friend of mine and I don't drink out of ANYONE'S drinks,
    even my kids and grandsons cups. So, there was more 'guilt' on my
    part for feeling I'd hurt her feelings. She looked so sad, I feel
    so sorry for her! She's going to die in the very near future and she's
    only 24 years old! 
    
        Rosie          
323.2644NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Jul 01 1996 13:285
>    a sister had once finished a brownie of a friend who was sick. The
>    girl was 'sick' because she had hepatitis and my sister got it.

I've been reading about hepatitis B, and it's apparently not spread by saliva.
Do you know what kind of hepatitis this was?
323.2645BIGQ::MARCHANDMon Jul 01 1996 13:3510
    
       Maybe it was the OTHER hepatisis? It was determined that was where
    she contracted it. We all had to go and get shots. She's got liver
    damage because of it. She got it about 20 or so years ago, so maybe
    someone else could give their knowledge of hepatitis on this. I can
    remember them hospitalizing her back then, and then my company
    going 'nuts' and wanting me to take some time off 'just in case'. I
    didn't work for Digital at that time. 
    
        Rosie
323.2646ACISS2::LEECHMon Jul 01 1996 13:4877
    re: .2632
    
>    you doth protest too much, Steve.  
    
    What I protest, is the fact that you have done nothing but twist my
    words since this discussion began.  At first I thought it was because
    you failed to understand my point, so I clarified...and clarified...and
    clarified.  Now, I can only believe that you could care less about what
    my point was, all you wish to do is cast baseless accusations at me. 
    
>    You can duck and weave and obfuscate
>    all you want- you're still sidestepping the politics of identity.  
    
    This is absolutely laughable.  It took a lot of time and effort to post
    .2627.  I had to go back over this entire discussion to put things into
    proper context.  Not only have you completely ignored my (rather long)
    post, but you continue to assert falsehoods about me- falsehoods that
    were revealed in my note - then you claim that *I'm* the one ducking
    and weaving, as you repeat that which I have shown to be untrue.
    
>    You invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent 
>    activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
>    them less than honorable.  
    
    You don't even have the phrase right, DougO.  It is "political
    self-promotion", and it is not a label as you claim.  Once again, you
    are casting ignorant aspersions at me.  You don't even understand what
    I was talking about, obviously, as you broad-brush this well beyond the
    context in which I used it.
     
>    What they are is different from you, and
>    proud of it, and exercising their constitutional rights to freely
>    assemble and to speak their points of view. 
  
    Why do you even bother mentioning this?  Of course they are free to
    assemble, be proud of their heritage and speak their pov.  Who said
    this was a BAD thing (and before you claim I did, you better go back
    and read my notes in their proper context).
      
>    Patrick Henry would laugh at your pretensions to constitutional
>    scholarship, Steve- you so plainly miss simple exercise of basic
>    rights, even when its right in front of you.  
    
    This is a gem.  I'll add this to my "where the heck did this come from" 
    list (which is getting larger as this "discussion" goes on.  I'm very 
    interested in why you think I am missing anything of the sort, especially 
    since I HAVEN'T EVEN BEEN TALKING ABOUT THE CONSTITUTION, NOR BASIC 
    RIGHTS.  Good grief, man, you really aren't paying attention.  Normally, 
    you can at least stay on a given topic.
    
>    Henry might disagree 
>    with what someone said on their sign, but he would defend to the death 
>    their right to say it.  You find them "suspect".  
 
    Oh, get over it already.  You clearly do not understand what I call
    "suspect", even though I've explained it to you clearly (over and over).  
    And why do you assume that I would not defend their right to carry a sign 
    that I either disagreed with or found suspect?  And let's get one thing
    straight, I do not find THEM suspect, I find a PART of their motivation
    "suspect", and only within the context of this discussion (which you
    have once again expanded to fit your own agenda).
       
>    Well, I'm done trying to teach this pig to sing.
 
    Your noting is going downhill, DougO.  You used to be able to argue a
    given point, rather than creating demons where none exist.  I would
    suggest that you read .2627, or at least go over some of the notes that
    I have provided pointers for within this note. 
    
    I find your above comment amusing, though.  You have so out-maneuvered
    yourself on this discussion, that all you can do is try and make me
    look stupid, then quit the discussion before anyone notices that you
    are argue against an army of straw-men.
    
       
    
    -steve
323.2647MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Mon Jul 01 1996 13:5713
> but people who have shared TOOTHBRUSHES

Actually, a toothbrush is a poor place to culture HIV. HIV seems to be
pretty susceptible to attack by common disinfectants - soap and water, alcohol,
etc. I wouldn't be surprised that toothpaste is a good candidate as well.
Once the toothbrush dries in the rack, it becomes less than a hospitable
environment for the virus to survive, also.

My point isn't to rationalize why toothbrush sharing is OK, though - it's
more to keep a cautious eye on whether or not such casual transmission vectors
should be ignored and/or disregarded. I haven't seen any serious research
or professional indications that such lack of caution is warranted.

323.2648NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Jul 01 1996 14:035
>       Maybe it was the OTHER hepatisis?

I just read that hepatitis A is spread through contaminated food and water,
so that must have been it.  These days, there are [at least] five recognized
varieties of hepatitis (A through E).
323.2649BIGQ::MARCHANDMon Jul 01 1996 14:2911
    
       5 recognizable varieties. I surely didn't know that. Of course I
    don't keep up with all the details of a lot of things. The girl that
    gave her the brownie had eaten part of it (they were at lunch in 
    school) and the girl was getting ready to throw the brownie away. My
    sister, who loves brownies asked her if she could finish it, she didn't
    want to waste a perfectly good brownie. The girl couldn't finish
    it because she was feeling 'sick'. Next thing both girls end up in
    the hospital and both have hepatitis.
    
        rosie
323.2650SX4GTO::OLSONDBTC Palo AltoMon Jul 01 1996 14:5623
    Piggy wants more singing lessons?  Too bad.  Let me correct one of your
    more blatant lapses, and you can squeal again if you want.
    
    >> You invent derogatory labels ("self-political promotion") for innocent 
    >> activities to justify your suspicions of people's motivations, call
    >> them less than honorable.  
    >
    > You don't even have the phrase right, DougO.  It is "political
    > self-promotion", and it is not a label as you claim.
    
    I put it in quotes, I attributed it to you, and you tell ME I don't
    have the phrase right?  Go back and look at your note, clown.  And then
    tell me the way you misused it isn't a label, you'll be just as wrong.
    
    That's a sweet little example of why I don't care to engage in a
    several-hundred line quote-extract go-around with you, Steve- your
    recall of your OWN notes is so bad, you invent such misleading
    "context" after the fact, that you can't even represent your own 
    words clearly the second time through- much less understand mine.
    So boo-hoo for all your "effort".  I read your note.  It was a waste
    of time.
    
    DougO
323.2651CHEFS::COOKSHalf Man,Half BiscuitMon Jul 01 1996 15:5317
    I was reading in the Daily Telegraph yesterday about AIDS figures in
    the UK. (This was an article by a Doctor).
    
    Since 1982,there has been just over 12 thousand reported cases of AIDS.
    Of which 162 people were non-drug using heterosexuals. (Apparently,
    AIDS is similar to Hepatitus B and there are,like Hepatitus B,many
    thousands more cases of AIDS in the 3rd World,for some unknown reason).
    
    Shouldn`t the message be "if you have heterosexual sex with an iffy
    partner you run a small risk of catching AIDS. However,we do recommend
    using a condom anyway" etc. Instead of the scaremongering at the 
    moment????
    
    The truth should be told..
    
    
    
323.2652ACISS2::LEECHMon Jul 01 1996 17:3321
    .2650
    
    I see we've resorted to name-calling, now.  I was wondering how long it
    would take to degrade to this.  You are indeed a peice of work.  I told
    you we were on two different pages long ago, but you simple didn't
    believe this.  Now, many notes later, you are still whining about
    demons that you have created, never having understood a thing I've
    posted.
    
    The amusement value of this has gone down drastically.  I think I'll
    sign off.  You are simply too blinded by what you perceive to be my
    political views/motivation, to even give me the benefit of the doubt
    that we are not on the same page.
    
    But please, if it makes you feel better, continue with your
    blind demonizations and childish name-calling.  You have lost all 
    credibility with me, and you need not worry about me getting caught up 
    in any meaningful discussion with you again.  It simply isn't worth it.
    
    
    -steve
323.2653PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jul 01 1996 17:434
   .2652  hmm - no mention of the "self-political promotion" screw-up
	  here.  Steve prolly meant to say "oops - you're right", but
	  just forgot.  yep, that's my guess.
323.2654LANDO::OLIVER_Bsnapdragons. discuss.Mon Jul 01 1996 17:471
    do i smell a credibility problem?
323.2655WMOIS::GIROUARD_CMon Jul 01 1996 17:481
-1 i dunno. what's it smell like?
323.2657PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jul 01 1996 18:122
   .2656  I love a man who can graciously admit an error.  8-)
323.2658You know the restCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Jul 01 1996 18:1612
	I accidentally picked up someone else's water glass at lunch
	today.

	One of the Monday Lunch Pundits immediately said

			Eeeuuuuuuuuwwwwwww!

			That's like drinking from the
			water glass of everyone he
			ever ...

323.2659re: .2657ACISS2::LEECHMon Jul 01 1996 18:156
    <--- I deleted the note.  We were both in error (DougO and I).  The only 
    phrase I could find was "self-promotion", no "political" in it.  Unless 
    I missed a note somehow.
    
    I *was* incorrect, though.  I'm not trying to weasel out of owning up
    to it.  8^)
323.2660PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Jul 01 1996 18:214
    .2659  It's in .2628.

	nnttm
323.2661ACISS2::LEECHMon Jul 01 1996 18:296
>    nnttm
    
    Oh, but I do!  It was bothering me that I couldn't find it before. 
    .2628 was not in my search parameters (I thought I mentioned this
    general phrase much earlier in the conversation).
    
323.2662progress against this...bbGAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseTue Jul 09 1996 12:5839
        AIDS Experts Warn Against Exuberance (Lowell Sun, 7/8/96)

   Vancouver, British Columbia (AP) - The incredible news that AIDS may
 at last be a treatable disease has hardly sunk in, and experts are
 already warning against unbridled optimism that the epidemic is over.
   "There is hope, but let's not exaggerate," said Dr. Peter Piot, head
 of the U.N. AIDS program.  "Let's not switch from very dark pessimism
 to hype and over-optimism so we will all have a hangover within six
 months or a year."
   In the past few months, researchers have found they can completely
 suppress the AIDS virus with a combination of three drugs.  The
 development may at last allow people with HIV to keep their infection
 under control, if not cure it.
   But people have been taking this combination for less than two years,
 and no one knows how long the effects will last.  Many at the international
 AIDS conference meeting this week worried that the euphoria of finding an
 effective treatment will produce impossibly high expectations of a total
 victory over HIV.
   The meeting's organizers cautioned that while the preliminary findings
 are a welcome change, they do not represent a cure - although some AIDS
 experts have begun to talk about just that possibility.
   "We don't want the pendulum to swing so far over that we have the state
 of very unrealistic expectations that will leave people bitterly
 disappointed," said Dr. Martin T. Schechter of the University of British
 Columbia, the conference co-chairman.
   Even AIDS activists took up the theme during opening ceremonies yesterday
 at Vancouver's hockey arena.
   "The media started the spin that the cure is here.  The cure is here !!
 Let's dance !!  If you think the cure is here, think again.  The cure is
 not here," Eric Sawyer of the AIDS protest group Act Up told the conference.
   In all, nine AIDS drugs are on the U.S. market, five of them introduced
 this year.  The most important are three in a new class called protease
 inhibitors, which block one step in HIV's reproductive cycle.  When
 combined with two older AIDS drugs, the virus appears to stop reproducing.
   Even if the new treatments work as well as researchers hope, Piot noted
 they are likely to be little use to most of the world's HIV-infected
 people, who cannot afford to pay $10,000 or $15,000 per year for treatment.
 
323.2663Disgusted JULIET::MORALES_NASweet Spirit's Gentle BreezeTue Jul 09 1996 17:0916
    >Piot noted they are likely to be little use to most of the world's
    >HIV-infected people, who cannot afford to pay $10,000 or $15,000 per
    >year for treatment.
    
    Does anyone have an idea on who we can get medical research to
    established procedure/medicine to public without it being such an
    outrageous cost to the ill?
    
    I know this is the question of the century, but there must be a way. 
    How can these organizations to which we donate so much of our monies
    not provide the public with a more affordable result?
    
    
    
     
    
323.2664MOLAR::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dogface)Tue Jul 09 1996 17:212
Hillary has a plan ....

323.2665POLAR::RICHARDSONI shower naked, man. NAKED!Thu Jul 11 1996 06:209
    In years to come, only the rich will be able to afford virtual
    immortality.
    
    Poor people will die of many diseases that there are cures for. It
    happens already, why is aids any different?
    
    Anybody want to fund global medicare? 
    
    I didn't think so.
323.2666like rogaine ?GAAS::BRAUCHERWelcome to ParadiseThu Jul 11 1996 17:1812
    
      If my understanding of how they discovered protease inhibitors is
     correct, or if the reported difficulties of producing any quantities
     of these drugs is as bad as they say, $10-15k/yr is a bargain.
    
      I imagine the US market would bear an even higher price.  I was
     wondering if Glen could report upon the reaction amongst the AIDS
     community to this year's optimistic findings.
    
      By the way, what was the Canadian role in developing the treatment ?
    
      bb
323.2667BIGQ::SILVAI'm out, therefore I amThu Jul 11 1996 18:0518
| <<< Note 323.2666 by GAAS::BRAUCHER "Welcome to Paradise" >>>


| I imagine the US market would bear an even higher price. I was wondering if 
| Glen could report upon the reaction amongst the AIDS community to this year's 
| optimistic findings.

	Caution..... seeing there is no cure, and there has already been too
many false hopes, caution. I have a friend who found out a year ago that he was 
hiv+. He doesn't have to take any meds yet, and hopefully when his blood work 
comes back, he won't have to take anything. But his doctor did mention if he 
does, it will be the coctail that will be needed. He has other friends who have 
taken this, and are doing fine. My hope is this will work for him, as well.




Glen
323.2668POLAR::RICHARDSONI shower naked, man. NAKED!Thu Jul 11 1996 23:111
    The protease inhibitor was developed at McGill University in Montreal.
323.2669SMURF::WALTERSFri Jul 12 1996 12:461
    Is Nancy a striptease inhibitor?
323.2670COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Oct 14 1996 04:3049
323.2671BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 04:526
323.2672MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Mon Oct 14 1996 16:134
323.2673BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 17:246
323.2674MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Mon Oct 14 1996 18:1310
323.2675yet more clueless Americans...GAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaMon Oct 14 1996 18:2720
323.2676GENRAL::RALSTONAtheism, Religion of the GodsMon Oct 14 1996 19:178
323.2677BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 19:296
323.2678BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 19:3534
323.2679EVMS::MORONEYSorry, my dog ate my homepage.Mon Oct 14 1996 19:5618
323.2680BUSY::SLABTechnology: no place for wimpsMon Oct 14 1996 19:588
323.2681NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Oct 14 1996 20:017
323.2682CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Oct 14 1996 20:043
323.2683NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Oct 14 1996 20:211
323.2684ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyMon Oct 14 1996 20:2413
323.2685COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Oct 14 1996 20:565
323.2686don't look for reason, when lack of it suffices...GAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaMon Oct 14 1996 21:1615
323.2687MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Mon Oct 14 1996 21:199
323.2688POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewMon Oct 14 1996 21:221
323.2689BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 21:3521
323.2690BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 21:3918
323.2691BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Mon Oct 14 1996 21:4010
323.2692MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Mon Oct 14 1996 22:0610
323.2693MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Mon Oct 14 1996 22:0912
323.2694EVMS::MORONEYSorry, my dog ate my homepage.Mon Oct 14 1996 23:078
323.2695CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageMon Oct 14 1996 23:1211
323.2696EVMS::MORONEYSorry, my dog ate my homepage.Mon Oct 14 1996 23:2011
323.2697BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Tue Oct 15 1996 03:188
323.2698BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Tue Oct 15 1996 03:2013
323.2699BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.yvv.com/decplus/Tue Oct 15 1996 03:2313
323.2700ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyTue Oct 15 1996 12:4610
323.2701My TakeYIELD::BARBIERITue Oct 15 1996 12:5040
323.2702SMURF::WALTERSTue Oct 15 1996 12:535
323.2703ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyTue Oct 15 1996 13:0822
323.2704ASIC::RANDOLPHTom R. N1OOQTue Oct 15 1996 13:127
323.2705NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 15 1996 13:206
323.2706legitimateGAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaTue Oct 15 1996 13:2927
323.2707Me TooYIELD::BARBIERITue Oct 15 1996 13:3020
323.2708there you goASIC::RANDOLPHTom R. N1OOQTue Oct 15 1996 13:403
323.2709NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 15 1996 13:442
323.2710APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceTue Oct 15 1996 13:504
323.2711ASIC::RANDOLPHTom R. N1OOQTue Oct 15 1996 14:025
323.2712POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideTue Oct 15 1996 14:0217
323.2713MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Tue Oct 15 1996 14:0231
323.2714MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Tue Oct 15 1996 14:0513
323.2715NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 15 1996 14:1214
323.2716Most elderly men have itEVMS::MORONEYSorry, my dog ate my homepage.Tue Oct 15 1996 15:037
323.2717NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 15 1996 15:041
323.2718EVMS::MORONEYSorry, my dog ate my homepage.Tue Oct 15 1996 15:382
323.2719first symptom - whether benign or malignantGAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaTue Oct 15 1996 15:394
323.2720NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Oct 15 1996 15:431
323.2721POMPY::LESLIEAndy, living in a Dilbert worldWed Oct 16 1996 06:504
323.2722APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 10:428
323.2723POMPY::LESLIEAndy, living in a Dilbert worldWed Oct 16 1996 11:016
323.2724POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 13:1910
323.2725CONSLT::MCBRIDEIdleness, the holiday of foolsWed Oct 16 1996 13:312
323.2726NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 13:452
323.2727PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BWed Oct 16 1996 13:483
323.2728yeah, GeraldGAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaWed Oct 16 1996 13:494
323.2729POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 13:505
323.2730MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Wed Oct 16 1996 13:579
323.2731APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 16:0113
323.2732POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 16:0812
323.2733BUSY::SLABTrouble with a capital 'T'Wed Oct 16 1996 16:286
323.2734pick an adjective - eg, misleading, sleazy, meaningless, etc.GAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaWed Oct 16 1996 16:305
323.2735POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 16:508
323.2736APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 16:5111
323.2737POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 16:523
323.2738LANDO::OLIVER_BLook in ya heaaaaaaaaaaaart!Wed Oct 16 1996 16:551
323.2739APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 16:5719
323.2740PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BWed Oct 16 1996 16:573
323.2741APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 16:596
323.2742GOJIRA::JESSOPWed Oct 16 1996 17:002
323.2743BUSY::SLABTrouble with a capital 'T'Wed Oct 16 1996 17:046
323.2744NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 17:083
323.2745BUSY::SLABTrouble with a capital 'T'Wed Oct 16 1996 17:104
323.2746NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 17:111
323.2747APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceWed Oct 16 1996 17:3819
323.2748BUSY::SLABTwisted forever, forever twisted.Wed Oct 16 1996 17:455
323.2749POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 17:456
323.2750NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 17:459
323.2751ASIC::RANDOLPHTom R. N1OOQWed Oct 16 1996 18:327
323.2752POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideWed Oct 16 1996 18:3710
323.2753BUSY::SLABWatch it, Joe - danger lurks aheadWed Oct 16 1996 18:383
323.2754WAHOO::LEVESQUEguess I'll set a course and goWed Oct 16 1996 19:0116
323.2755ASIC::RANDOLPHTom R. N1OOQWed Oct 16 1996 20:0617
323.2756POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewWed Oct 16 1996 20:091
323.2757NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 20:172
323.2758research in Cal.GAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaWed Oct 16 1996 20:194
323.2759POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewWed Oct 16 1996 20:204
323.2760NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Wed Oct 16 1996 20:263
323.2761POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewWed Oct 16 1996 20:261
323.2762APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceThu Oct 17 1996 11:058
323.2763WAHOO::LEVESQUEguess I'll set a course and goThu Oct 17 1996 11:238
323.2764POWDML::HANGGELIsweet &amp; juicy on the insideThu Oct 17 1996 12:377
323.2765APACHE::KEITHDr. DeuceThu Oct 17 1996 12:5210
323.2766WAHOO::LEVESQUEguess I'll set a course and goThu Oct 17 1996 13:2612
323.2768WAHOO::LEVESQUEguess I'll set a course and goThu Oct 17 1996 13:566
323.2767POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewThu Oct 17 1996 14:0321
323.2769BUSY::SLABWhy don't you bend for gold?Thu Oct 17 1996 14:205
323.2770no math skills requiredWAHOO::LEVESQUEguess I'll set a course and goThu Oct 17 1996 14:255
323.2771BUSY::SLABWhy don't you bend for gold?Thu Oct 17 1996 14:373
323.2772CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageThu Oct 17 1996 16:167
323.2773POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewThu Oct 17 1996 16:231
323.2774WMOIS::GIROUARD_CThu Oct 17 1996 16:421
323.2775GOJIRA::JESSOPThu Oct 17 1996 16:461
323.2776POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewThu Oct 17 1996 16:481
323.2777GOJIRA::JESSOPThu Oct 17 1996 17:054
323.2778POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewThu Oct 17 1996 17:112
323.2779BIGHOG::PERCIVALI'm the NRA,USPSA/IPSC,NROI-ROThu Oct 17 1996 17:3538
323.2780No way!GOJIRA::JESSOPThu Oct 17 1996 17:384
323.2781BUSY::SLABWould you care for a McSeal,sir?Thu Oct 17 1996 17:433
323.2782MKOTS3::JMARTINBe A Victor..Not a Victim!Thu Oct 17 1996 18:173
323.2783POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewThu Oct 17 1996 22:273
323.2784BUSY::SLABYou're a train ride to no importanceThu Oct 17 1996 22:454
323.2785GOJIRA::JESSOPFri Oct 18 1996 12:591
323.2786POLAR::RICHARDSONBitin' off more than I can spewFri Oct 18 1996 14:4017
323.2787Got this in the mail this morning.....BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Tue Jan 28 1997 14:3038
Subj:	Fwd: AIDS DEATHS IN NEW YORK CITY PLUNGE 30 PERCENT

NEW YORK, NY -- The New York Times reported Saturday that for the
first time since the outbreak of the AIDS epidemic in 1981, AIDS
deaths in New York City fell sharply last year, dropping 30 percent
according to the Health Department.

Experts were quick to point out that the decline was not the result of
new protease inhibitor-based treatments. New combination therapies
would have had little impact on the steep decline in AIDS mortality
evidenced in early 1996, since the first of three protease inhibitors
was licensed only in December 1995.

Dr. Mary Ann Chiasson, assistant commissioner for disease intervention
research, told the Times that early treatment of opportunistic
infections and expanded access to medical care and services were the
most likely explanations. Chiasson said neither would have been
possible without a surge in state and federal money made available in
1994.

Since full statistics have yet to be compiled, no one is sure if the
decline in New York City will be repeated elsewhere in the
country. The number of people who died from the disease in New York
fell from 7,046 deaths in 1995 to 4,944 in 1996. Health officials in
San Francisco say AIDS deaths rose there from to 1,443 in 1995 to
1,517 last year, though California statistics include deaths that may
have occurred earlier but whose reporting was delayed.

With only 3 percent of the population, New York City has 16 percent of
all AIDS cases in the country, the Times reports. Since the epidemic
began, 60,000 New Yorkers have died of the disease. 30,000 people are
currently living with AIDS in the city and another 100,000 are
HIV-positive.

At its peak in November 1995, an average of 21 New Yorkers a day died
of AIDS-related complications. Though the decline is heartening,
current monthly mortality rates average out to between 10 and 11
people dying of AIDS every day in New York City.
323.2788CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageFri Jan 31 1997 18:398
    Latest information on the HIV front.  A two dollar, two pill treatment
    may prevent transmission of HIV to children during childbirth.  This is
    a breakthough s there had been no really good way to prevent HIV
    transmission during delivery of babies to HIV+ mothers.  This won't
    help babies who are infected in utero, but it does give a cheap,
    effective method of prevention which can be used worldwide.  
    
    meg
323.2789BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 03 1997 13:3027
                      ===========++++++++++++===========
                      Jeremy Mathews Memorial AIDS Quilt
                      ===========++++++++++++===========
    
    Many of us have lost friends, acquaintances, family members or even 
    lovers to AIDS.  At the recent HLO AIDS Walk meeting, Christine Conran 
    suggested that we, in an effort to bring AIDS to the forefront at 
    Digital, sponsor and dedicate a panel to those people who we know who
    have died from AIDS. The quilt will be named after Jeremy Mathews, a 
    DIGITAL employee who recently died of AIDS-related complications.
    
    For those unfamiliar with the concept, each AIDS quilt panel will be 6 
    inches by 6 inches, and is dedicated to the memory of the person lost 
    to this terrible plague.  Panels can include the lost person's name, 
    quilted pictures, birth dates, and any other information.  When 
    completed, any number of panels are sewn together and the resultant 
    quilt can be displayed at various DIGITAL facilities
    
    The HLO AIDS Walk team is also involving Corporate HR in this  project.  
    
    If you would like more information on the project, or if you would like 
    to submit a panel yourself, please either send mail to Christine Conran 
    (conran@bigq.enet.dec.com) or call Chris at work (DTN) 225-4749 or 
    (outside line) 508-568-4749.
    
    Let's get sewing!
323.2790interesting ethical/moral dilemmaWAHOO::LEVESQUESpott ItjTue Feb 04 1997 13:38114
    AIDS researchers confront ethical issue
    
    By Richard A. Knox, Globe Staff, 02/04/97 
    
    Worried that rapid advances in AIDS treatment are pulling them into an
    ethical maelstrom, leaders of one of the largest AIDS drug studies ever
    mounted have been asking themselves whether they should halt the
    project in midstream. 
    
    Their fear: that hundreds of volunteers who are getting a two-drug
    regimen under the study might be faring worse than those randomly
    assigned to a comparison three-drug treatment. Their worry is based on
    new data from another study strongly suggesting the two-drug treatment
    doesn't work as well. 
    
    Whatever happens, leaders of the study say it is probably the last of
    its kind - large trials that continue until differences appear in the
    death rate or the incidence of serious AIDS infections. One critic
    labels such studies ``death trials.'' 
    
    The directors of the Boston-based study, which involves nearly 1,200
    volunteers at 19 treatment centers, recently asked an outside panel of
    experts for an urgent review of the interim data. Because neither
    researchers nor study subjects can know who is getting which treatment,
    to prevent bias, only outsiders are allowed to see the data on how the
    two study groups are doing. 
    
    The reviewers found that as of Jan. 16, there was no statistically
    significant difference between the two groups of volunteers in the rate
    of deaths or serious AIDS-related illnesses. However, the panel did not
    look at other possible signs that one study group may be getting a raw
    deal - such as having higher blood levels of AIDS virus. When the study
    was designed, scientists didn't recognize the importance of testing for
    virus levels. 
    
    The outside experts concluded that the $5 million study did not need to
    be stopped for ethical reasons - at least not then. 
    
    That review didn't settle the ethical worries, however, and a regular
    full-dress evaluation of the study, code-named ACTG-320, is due in two
    weeks. 
    
    The episode illustrates a vexing dilemma in current research of
    acquired immune deficiency syndrome. As notions of what constitutes the
    best available treatment shift from one month to the next, can
    researchers properly ask some volunteers to stick with older regimens
    that many experts consider ineffective? It is an issue that has arisen
    with other human treatment studies, but the revolution in AIDS
    treatment over the past 18 months makes the question especially urgent. 
    
    Merely posing the question - and it was posed repeatedly at a recent
    AIDS conference in Washington - has touched off a reassessment of a
    dozen or so studies funded by the federal government. 
    
    Federal agencies, academic scientists, AIDS doctors, community
    activists and pharmaceutical companies are looking for more ethical
    ways to test fast-evolving AIDS therapies. ``We're all trying to
    grapple with the best way to do this,'' said Dr. William Duncan of the
    National Institute of Allergies and Infectious Diseases, the
    government's lead AIDS research agency. 
    
    ``I think it will be very difficult to do studies like ACTG-320 in the
    future,'' said Dr. Scott Hammer of Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center
    in Boston, the study chairman. ``I do think the field is at a
    crossroads.'' 
    
    Others are more blunt. ``It's treading on thin ice to ask people to
    experience death or a serious AIDS illness so we can understand just
    how good a particular drug is,'' said Dr. Calvin Cohen, a Boston AIDS
    specialist and researcher. 
    
    ``It doesn't make sense to compare something we know is suboptimal to
    something we think is optimal,'' Dr. Joep Lange, a leading Dutch AIDS
    researcher, said at the Washington meeting. 
    
    The nub, of course, is what researchers ``know'' about the best AIDS
    treatment at a given time, and how they know it. The ethics of human
    research bar using human volunteers in a comparison study unless
    researchers honestly cannot say from available data which treatment is
    likely to prove better. 
    
    This state of ``equipoise,'' Duncan said, may have eroded in the year
    since the study started assigning patients to the two different drug
    regimens being tested in ACTG-320. 
    
    Hammer said, ``1996 was a revolutionary year in drug development, in
    monitoring patients' viral levels and in changing standards of care.
    ... This trial bridged that period.'' 
    
    Most researchers think that accumulating evidence tells them the human
    immunodeficiency virus, or HIV, which causes AIDS, will not stay
    suppressed for long without maximal drug therapy. Currently that means
    at least three anti-HIV drugs, one of them from a new class called
    protease inhibitors. 
    
    Dr. Robert T. Schooley of the University of Colorado, who chairs the
    federally funded AIDS Clinical Trial Group, decried ``timid therapy''
    using less than all-out treatment because it risks creating
    drug-resistant strains of HIV. 
    
    The next generation of AIDS studies, many believe, will test drug
    combinations for their ability to suppress HIV blood levels and keep
    them down, and to allow HIV-ravaged immune systems to rebuild. Studies
    that rely on rates of death and serious illness will no longer be done. 
    
    Practically speaking, it may be impossible to do otherwise because
    individuals are increasingly reluctant to volunteer for studies that
    test suboptimal therapies. 
    
    Harry Chang, a Los Angeles AIDS activist, said researchers might have
    to rely on patients too poor to get costly AIDS drugs except as part of
    human experiments. Or, he said, recruits might be less sophisticated
    individuals who do not understand the implications of different AIDS
    treatments. 
323.2791COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertWed Feb 19 1997 14:2520
The American Foundation for AIDS Research has pulled a nationwide ad
campaign after complaints were received.

Ads included messages such as

	Sexual abstinence won't cure AIDS. Research will.
	Red ribbons won't cure AIDS. Research will.
	Prayer won't cure AIDS. Research will.

Sally Morrison, a VP for the New-York-based foundation said that the
controversy and negative take on the ads was obscuring the underlying
message.  The most complaints had been received from Dallas and Fort
Worth.

Mary Herring, marketing director for the Fort Worth city transit agency,
said that they had received a lot of complaints about ads.  She called
for the foundation to redesign the ads to play up the benefits of AIDS
research without belittling someone else's beliefs.

/john
323.2792NHASAD::SHERKI belong! I got circles overme i'sThu Feb 20 1997 22:009
    wot??
    
      is there really a segment of the population that believes that
    prayer will cure AIDS?  If so, let them get on with it.  Nothing
    like a miracle to make believers out of doubters.  Otherwise I'd
    suggest they try raising money for research.
    
    ken
    
323.2794COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Feb 20 1997 22:2012
	Prayer is just as likely to cure AIDS as it is
	to cure cancer or heart disease -- and there are
	documented cases of serious disease being cured
	(or having their cure assisted or made faster)
	by prayer reported in respectable magazines such
	as TIME and NEWSWEEK.

	That does not mean that research is not also important.

	At least as important as red ribbons.

323.2795CHEFS::UKFURNITUREFri Feb 21 1997 10:1416
    	"reported in respectable magazines such as TIME and NEWSWEEK."
    
    	Let's face it John, not exactly a guarantee of truth is it.
    	Journalists are employed by 'respectable magazines' to write good copy
    	that ultimately sells more of their 'respectable magazine'. I am
    	not saying prayer can't assist the curing of serious disease (although 
    	I expect there may be more of a psychological than spiritual reason), I
     	am simply saying that you know as well as I do that anything in the 
    	media has to be taken with a healthy dose of cynicism.
    
    	Richard
    
    	PS Find me the passage in the bible that says homosexuality is
    	forbidden, and I'll find you the passage that says men should wear
    	their hair in ringlets from their temples, I don't expect you do that
    	do you?
323.2796COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertFri Feb 21 1997 11:007
re finding passages

And then I'll find you the passages that say that the moral laws
apply to all the world while the ritual laws are not necessary for
non-Jews.

/john
323.2797CHEFS::UKFURNITUREFri Feb 21 1997 12:135
    John
    
    Which version of the bible will *you* be looking at?
    
    Richard
323.2798NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Fri Feb 21 1997 14:386
>    	PS Find me the passage in the bible that says homosexuality is
>    	forbidden, and I'll find you the passage that says men should wear
>    	their hair in ringlets from their temples, I don't expect you do that
>    	do you?

Leviticus 18:22.  Your turn, Mr. Furniture.
323.2799CHEFS::UKFURNITUREFri Feb 21 1997 14:433
    Monday mate, monday. I don't have a bible handy, ever.
    
    Richard
323.2800POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorFri Feb 21 1997 14:483
    http://www.gospelcom.net/bible
    
    very handy.
323.2801ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Feb 21 1997 14:583
XX    http://www.gospelcom.net/bible
    
    Get movin!
323.2802ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsFri Feb 21 1997 14:581
    Uhhhh.....sorry Diedra!
323.2803BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Fri Feb 21 1997 20:445
| <<< Note 323.2798 by NOTIME::SACKS "Gerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085" >>>

| Leviticus 18:22.  Your turn, Mr. Furniture.

	I guess it was a good year to be a lesbian then, eh? 
323.2804POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorSat Feb 22 1997 13:031
    Women don't count, this _is_ the old testament we're talking about.
323.2805BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Sun Feb 23 1997 02:111
did they count somewhere in the new testament? I must have missed that.
323.2806CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each daySun Feb 23 1997 02:199

 Checkout Ephesians "Husbands love your wives even as Christ loves the
 Church", for starters.




 Jim
323.2807BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Sun Feb 23 1997 12:2112
| <<< Note 323.2806 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>

| Checkout Ephesians "Husbands love your wives even as Christ loves the
| Church", for starters.

	Jim, you mean where it tells the wives to submit themselves to your 
husbands as to the Lord. For a husband has authority over his wife just as 
Christ has authority over the church; 

	You call that respect?


323.2808POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorSun Feb 23 1997 14:393
    Glen, do you believe that Christ has authority over you? If so, do you
    call that respect? If you're a Christian, what authority does Christ
    have in your life?
323.2809CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each daySun Feb 23 1997 17:5211


 Yeah, that's the one Glen..right after it says "submit yourselves one to
 another", and right before "..even as Christ loved the church and 
 gave his life for it"..




 Jim
323.2810BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Sun Feb 23 1997 18:108
| <<< Note 323.2808 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| Glen, do you believe that Christ has authority over you? 

	No. Because of free will we are able to make our own decisions. They
may be the right ones, the wrong ones. We can ask Him to guide us, but the
ultimate decision is our own. 

323.2811BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Sun Feb 23 1997 18:1110
| <<< Note 323.2809 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>


| Yeah, that's the one Glen..right after it says "submit yourselves one to
| another", and right before "..even as Christ loved the church and
| gave his life for it"..


	But Jim, you forgot that men are supposed to love their wives like they
love their bodies. Now there is a realistic thing....
323.2812POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorSun Feb 23 1997 19:322
    Glen, if you believe Christ has no authority over you, then how can you
    say you're a Christian?
323.2813BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 01:0521
| <<< Note 323.2812 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| Glen, if you believe Christ has no authority over you, then how can you
| say you're a Christian?

	I believe that Christ wants us to come to Him. He doesn't force anyone
to do that. If you want to, you do. If you don't want to, you don't. 

	When you make the decision to go to Him, then you continuously work
together. Christ wants each and every one of us (my belief). So Christ will do 
what it takes to bring us to Him. How? Sometimes by things falling into place, 
sometimes by us calling out to Him for help, and a ton of other ways. I rely on 
Him, He keeps me there. Sometimes He does that by letting me fall on my face.
Valuable lessons can be had there. It's not a one way street. If it were, then 
it would not be based on love (imho). 

	I think a marriage is basically the same thing. One way can hardly be
love, while a relationship that works together, is based on love. Again, ymmv.


Glen
323.2814POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 02:125
    But where is obedience and sacrifice? As a follower of Christ, you
    should follow his example of obedience and sacrifice. You make him your 
    saviour but not your lord. I find this to be an incongruity.

    Mileage doesn't vary, it's either right or wrong.
323.2815CHEFS::UKFURNITUREMon Feb 24 1997 07:067
    Didn't have the time to look up that passage in the bible, perhaps one
    of the kind Christian folks in here would look it up for me. I think
    John knows the bit I'm on about.
    
    Richard
    
    PS Which version of the bible do Christians in the US generally use?
323.2816COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertMon Feb 24 1997 11:2515
>Which version of the bible do Christians in the US generally use?

Conservative Anglicans: Mostly RSV, sometimes KJV, NEB, or JB
Liberal Anglicans: NRSV and REB

Conservative Roman Catholics: RSV, JB, or Douai
Liberal Roman Catholics: NAB or JB

Mainline Protestants: NRSV, TEB

Free-Church (Fundamentalists): NIV, KJV, NASB

Jehovah's Witnesses: NWT

/john
323.2817BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 11:5819
| <<< Note 323.2814 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| But where is obedience and sacrifice? As a follower of Christ, you
| should follow his example of obedience and sacrifice. You make him your
| saviour but not your lord. I find this to be an incongruity.

	One can model themselves after another, Glenn. But they will never
achieve 100%. It doesn't mean they shouldn't try, but due to free will, 100% is
not ever going to equal reality. And then one has to look at....100% of what?
The God that was written about in the Bible? How close is that to what/who God
really is? I know I can't answer that.

	But the Bible does not hold a woman as an equal to a man. She must
serve man. While man must love a woman like he does his own body. And the
strange thing about that passage was it asked what man doesn't love his body?
Talk about a bunch of crap.


Glen
323.2818SMARTT::JENNISONAnd baby makes fiveMon Feb 24 1997 12:313
    
    	<boggle>
    
323.2819BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 12:351
ganip ganop
323.2820CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Feb 24 1997 12:476

 .2817


 Fascinating.
323.2821POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 12:5315
|	One can model themselves after another, Glenn. But they will never
|achieve 100%. It doesn't mean they shouldn't try, but due to free will, 100% is
|not ever going to equal reality. And then one has to look at....100% of what?
|The God that was written about in the Bible? How close is that to what/who God
|really is? I know I can't answer that.

    Then why bother calling yourself a Christian if you admit that you don't
    know who God is? If you're saying that you can define Christ and ignore all
    the scripture about him, the accounts written about him, the things he
    said and did then it's a sham. Why bother? You're not modeling
    yourself after some guy who lived 2000 years ago, you're modeling
    yourself after a man who claimed to be the son of god, a man who died
    for your sins. If you're not going to believe what was written about
    him then you really don't have much to go on and regardless of any
    professions you make, you end up just being a follower of yourself.
323.2822ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsMon Feb 24 1997 13:3918
Z    Jim, you mean where it tells the wives to submit themselves to your 
Z    husbands as to the Lord. For a husband has authority over his wife just
Z    as Christ has authority over the church; 
    
Z            You call that respect?
    
    Absolutely.  It is also important to understand the implications of the
    husband's responsibilities here.  We are to perpetually treat our wives
    as an honored vessel.  Just as if a well admired dignitary were staying
    at your home.  We are to treat our spouses with reverence in this
    manner.  At the same time, the wife should acquiesce the spiritual
    leadership responsibilities to the husband, for this is the role of the
    husband.  
    
    If this formula were followed by both parties, marriage counseling
    would be a non existent art.
    
    -Jack
323.2823urned respectPENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Feb 24 1997 14:014
  .2822  an "honored vessel"?  oy.


323.2824NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Feb 24 1997 14:021
Better than an honored exemption.
323.2825NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Mon Feb 24 1997 14:126
>    Didn't have the time to look up that passage in the bible, perhaps one
>    of the kind Christian folks in here would look it up for me. I think
>    John knows the bit I'm on about.

The best I can figure is that you're referring to Leviticus 19:27, which
has nothing to do with ringlets or temples.
323.2826BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 14:5031
| <<< Note 323.2821 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>


| Then why bother calling yourself a Christian if you admit that you don't
| know who God is? 

	Who can say they know who God is? I doubt anyone. No one has ever met
the guy. People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His works, 
but that is as far as it can go.

	I had always thought one had to believe that Christ died for our sins
in order to be Christian. 

| If you're saying that you can define Christ and ignore all the scripture about
| him, the accounts written about him, the things he said and did then it's a 
| sham. Why bother? 

	A sham? Not Christ. The Bible I view as a history book. If you look at
our own history books, can anyone say they are inerrant? Humans give their
views of what they have seen. It doesn't mean that view is 100% accurate. 

	Basically, I think the Bible is a great guide. But nothing more.
Remember, if someone who is on their death bed cries out to Christ to save
them, and in their hearts they really mean it, then they will be saved. I don't
think at that point they have to say the book is also believed.... just that
they believe in Him. 




Glen
323.2827BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 14:5424
| <<< Note 323.2822 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>

| Absolutely.  

	I know YOU would! :-)

| It is also important to understand the implications of the husband's 
| responsibilities here.  We are to perpetually treat our wives as an honored 
| vessel.  

	Yeah.... according to scripture, love a woman like a man would love his
body. For some this might mean a lotta lovin....superficially. I mean, how can
love for a body be equated to love for another? One is in an object, and is
kind of vein. The other is in the inner workings of a person, and from the
heart. Two different levels, wouldn't you say? And if a woman submits herself
to the husband, and it isn't in the makeup of the woman, (ie, she doesn't want
that) then where is the love from the man for that?

	Respect, imnsho, is a two way street in a relationship.




Glen
323.2828POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 14:5918
    |Who can say they know who God is?

    A Christian should be able to. If a Christian can't say he knows who
    god is, then his faith isn't worth much. How can one live within such a
    contradiction?

    |No one has ever met the guy.

    This sounds really silly coming from a professing Christian.

    |People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His works,
    |but that is as far as it can go.

    So if you hear it, that's cool. But if you read it, that's not cool.
    How can one identify his works if there's no concrete way to define
    them?

    If you've never met Christ, how can you be his follower?
323.2829CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Feb 24 1997 14:5922

>Remember, if someone who is on their death bed cries out to Christ to save
>them, and in their hearts they really mean it, then they will be saved. I don't


 How do you know that?



>think at that point they have to say the book is also believed.... just that
>they believe in Him. 




 But, where did they come to know about Christ?  Without the Bible we know
 nothing of Him.



Jim
323.2830BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 15:0429
| <<< Note 323.2828 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| A Christian should be able to. If a Christian can't say he knows who god is, 
| then his faith isn't worth much. How can one live within such a contradiction?

	Glenn, with no one ever meeting Him, they can only base it on what the
read, hear, and experience. That isn't going to give you the whole picture. 

| This sounds really silly coming from a professing Christian.

	Can you name one person who has met Him? 

| So if you hear it, that's cool. But if you read it, that's not cool.
| How can one identify his works if there's no concrete way to define them?

	Prayer. Watching what He does. What He allows to happen. 

	And I didn't mean to imply that hearing is good, and reading is bad.
What one hears from someone else is probably based mostly on what that person 
talking has read, or heard from others. They are all pretty much equal because
it all relies on human frailty. 

| If you've never met Christ, how can you be his follower?

	Faith based on what He has done, what He has allowed to happen. This is
both good and bad.


Glen
323.2831BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 15:0513
| <<< Note 323.2829 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>


| How do you know that?

	From a guide I read.

| But, where did they come to know about Christ?  Without the Bible we know
| nothing of Him.

	I agree. And with the Bible I also don't believe we know everything
about Him. We don't know all the truth about Him due to human beings writing
the book.
323.2832POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 15:104
    If no one has ever met him, then he simply doesn't exist.

    Shall I name the apostles? Shall I name Saul of Tarsus? Or are these
    all mythical people to you?
323.2833CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Feb 24 1997 15:1213


 "if you have seen me, you have seen the Father"


                             Jesus Christ (about whom there are eyewitness
                             accounts in the Bible).



 Jim
                                                                   
323.2834SMARTT::JENNISONAnd baby makes fiveMon Feb 24 1997 15:5616
    
    	Aw, c'mon, Jim.
    
    	The bible is just a guide!
    
    	Can you imagine hiking a mountain using a trail guide
    	in which you only believed what you wanted to believe ?
    
    	"Hey, the guide says there's water up 100 yards on the
    	left.  Cool"
    
    	"Hmm, it also says there's a cliff 75 yards on the left."
    
    	"Anyone wanna go get some water ?"
    
    
323.2835ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyMon Feb 24 1997 16:1311
    .2826
    
    The Bible is not a "great guide" to you if you give it no authority
    (outside of being a history book).
    
    What makes it a "great guide", spiritually, if you don't believe the
    spiritual truths therein?  How can you use anything as a basis for a
    belief system, if you don't believe it?
    
    
    -steve                                 
323.2836POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 16:225
    You can create your own belief system based on your own ideas. I have
    no problems with that. Believe what you want to , great, but call
    yourself a follower of someone who is really quite well defined and
    reject most of the definition because there's no real way to be sure is
    nonsensical to me. Why bother?
323.2837CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageMon Feb 24 1997 16:265
    Why don't you all take this to "holier than thou notes," or whatever
    the name of the notesfile is where you can compare your christianity
    the way some people compare the size of their, um, wallets.
    
    meg
323.2838PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Feb 24 1997 16:304
   .2837  aagagag.  good question, Meggeldy.


323.2839POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 16:312
    I'd rather talk about it here where I can question anyone's belief
    system without having to believe it myself, thanks.
323.2840PENUTS::DDESMAISONSperson BMon Feb 24 1997 16:406
  .2839   It does end up sounding pretty absurd, at least to me, though.
	  All this you're-not-a-REAL-Christian-if-you-don't-do-X 
	  stuff.  Sheesh.  You guys could at least take it 390.


323.2841SMARTT::JENNISONAnd baby makes fiveMon Feb 24 1997 16:477
    
     re. 2817
    
    	Glen, check out Matthew 7:21-29
    
    	Karen
    
323.2842BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 18:146
| <<< Note 323.2832 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| Shall I name the apostles? Shall I name Saul of Tarsus? Or are these
| all mythical people to you?

	Can they, or could they, tell us what He looks like?
323.2843BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 18:1410
| <<< Note 323.2834 by SMARTT::JENNISON "And baby makes five" >>>


| The bible is just a guide!

	FINALLY! Now you have it right! 




323.2844CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Feb 24 1997 18:154


 What does it matter "what He looks like"?
323.2845LANDO::OLIVER_Bready to begin againMon Feb 24 1997 18:161
    he's really tall and he has a big white beard.
323.2846BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 18:1815
| <<< Note 323.2835 by ACISS2::LEECH "Terminal Philosophy" >>>

| How can you use anything as a basis for a belief system, if you don't believe 
| it?

	This coming from someone who thinks he knows what the forfathers meant.
How did you come to that conclusion? Do you believe any book you read is
inerrant? Otherwise, do you believe your view could be wrong?

	My faith is with Him. I do not, and will not hold a book at the same
level as Him. 



Glen
323.2847BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 18:198
| <<< Note 323.2837 by CSC32::M_EVANS "be the village" >>>

| Why don't you all take this to "holier than thou notes," or whatever
| the name of the notesfile is where you can compare your christianity
| the way some people compare the size of their, um, wallets.

	Meg, in one of those one side can trash the non-Christian side, but the
non-Christian side can't say anything if it goes against the Bible.
323.2848BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 18:206
| <<< Note 323.2844 by CSLALL::HENDERSON "Give the world a smile each day" >>>


| What does it matter "what He looks like"?

	How can they say they met someone if they never saw her/him?
323.2849POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorMon Feb 24 1997 18:493
    When talking about a person, that is a good question. When talking
    about god, is not anything possible? Or is god bound by your
    limitations?
323.2850idnktGAAS::BRAUCHERChampagne SupernovaMon Feb 24 1997 18:504
  So blind people never meet anybody ?

  bb
323.2851CSLALL::HENDERSONGive the world a smile each dayMon Feb 24 1997 18:5910
>	How can they say they met someone if they never saw her/him?


 my best friend is blind..he's never seen me, but I'll just bet he'd tell you
 he's met me.



 Jim
323.2852BUSY::SLABA cross upon her bedroom wall ...Mon Feb 24 1997 19:093
    
    	He might not admit to it at a job interview, though, just in case.
    
323.2853BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 19:295
| <<< Note 323.2849 by POLAR::RICHARDSON "Patented Problem Generator" >>>

| Or is god bound by your limitations?

	God is not bound by human limitations. Just we are. 
323.2854BUSY::SLABA cross upon her bedroom wall ...Mon Feb 24 1997 19:303
    
    	Speak for yourself.
    
323.2855ASGMKA::MARTINConcerto in 66 MovementsMon Feb 24 1997 21:0412
    Glen:
    
    Your rejection of scripture is based on scriptures position on gay
    relationships.  Why don't you just admit it?!
    
 Z   Who can say they know who God is? I doubt anyone. No one has ever met
 Z   the guy. People know of Him, through what they have heard, through His
 Z   works, but that is as far as it can go.
    
    I seem to recall Job's friends had the same cynical attitude!
    
    -Jack
323.2856BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon Feb 24 1997 21:3710
| <<< Note 323.2855 by ASGMKA::MARTIN "Concerto in 66 Movements" >>>

| Your rejection of scripture is based on scriptures position on gay
| relationships.  Why don't you just admit it?!

	Been there before.... 

| I seem to recall Job's friends had the same cynical attitude!

	I don't want more than one job, though.
323.2857CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageMon Feb 24 1997 21:5410
    Glen,
    
    This at least could be taken to the thumper string in this file, where
    you all can harp on who knows god better than whoever else.  Personally
    she is a round, pregnant, woman, with both maiden and crone aspects
    built in, stirring the cauldron of lfe and death. 
    
    meg 
    
    ;-)
323.2858CSC32::M_EVANSbe the villageMon Feb 24 1997 22:0816
    
    
    I am reminded by the basenote.
    
    >The Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome (AIDS) topic.
    
    >Discuss AIDS and/or the HIV virus associated with it as it affects your
    >lives and those around you, the arts, your community, and public
    >policy.
    
    doesn't say who should thump on whose head over who is the bigger,
    badder christian.  I think there is another note for that nonsense,
    something like how christians should act in the box?
    
    
       
323.2859Meg, your knee is jerkingCOVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertTue Feb 25 1997 03:067
>    something like how christians should act in the box?

I'll remind you that this rathole was started by UKFURNITURE
throwing out some bible-quoting bait which was taken up by SACKS
and followed up by SILVA and RICHARDSON.
    
/john       
323.2860POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorTue Feb 25 1997 04:262
    Thanks, John.
    
323.2861You lot aren't half tetchy.CHEFS::UKFURNITURETue Feb 25 1997 08:425
    Ha! Ha! Ha!
    
    What an excitable lot you are.
    
    Richard
323.2862BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Tue Feb 25 1997 09:597
| <<< Note 323.2859 by COVERT::COVERT "John R. Covert" >>>

| I'll remind you that this rathole was started by UKFURNITURE throwing out some
| bible-quoting bait which was taken up by SACKS and followed up by SILVA and 
| RICHARDSON.

	Don't forget the Muppetman was in there!
323.2863POLAR::RICHARDSONPatented Problem GeneratorTue Feb 25 1997 12:101
    Oh yes, what a terrible oversight that would be.
323.2864COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu Apr 24 1997 11:0321
Weird article in the St. Louis Post-Dispatch.

Apparently a guy named Darnell "Boss Man" McGee, HIV positive, had sex with
over 100 women and girls between the ages of 12 and 22.

Seems he preyed on women "with low self esteem, making them feel important
with flattery and gifts."

The health departments in the area are getting help from women who have
already come forward after the publicity about McGee.  These women are
volunteering to contact other women they think were also involved.

"It's a real testament to women," said Elisa Daues, a spokeswoman for the
Missouri Department of Health's bureau of sexually transmitted diseases.
"They're looking out for each other."

And what of McGee?  On January 15th a gunman stopped McGee and shot him
dead.  Police have no suspects, and are investigating whether it was a
revenge murder.

/john
323.286512 year olds??!!ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyThu Apr 24 1997 13:105
    For some reason his early demise doesn't seem to upset me too awful
    much.  Guess I need to spend more time in church or something...
    
    In fact, the phrase "a fitting end to a scumbag" seems to pop unbidden
    into my unsympathetic brain.
323.2866BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Thu Apr 24 1997 15:244


	Good thing you're not Jesus.
323.2867SMARTT::JENNISONAnd baby makes fiveThu Apr 24 1997 15:254
    	
    	Where's that P&K note ???
    
    
323.2868BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Thu Apr 24 1997 15:285

	Even after I said you look young???? :-)


323.2869ACISS2::LEECHTerminal PhilosophyMon Apr 28 1997 13:381
    Just being honest...
323.2870BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Wed May 07 1997 20:4433

        All employees are welcome--at 11:30 on 14 May, in the HLO2 
        Cafeteria Annex--to join in DIGITAL's kickoff for the annual 
        Boston (Sunday, 1 June) and Worcester (Sunday, 8 June) AIDS 
        Pledge Walks.  Registration materials will be available for 
        both events.
                
        Among the honored guests currently scheduled for the kickoff
        are:

        Ed Caldwell--Vice President of Digital Semiconductor, and 
        opening speaker;

        Paul Ross--Consultant/Director of HIV Education for DIGITAL, who 
        plans to discuss the company's past and present contributions 
        to this event;

        Larry Kessler--Director of the Aids Action Committee (AAC)
        of Boston, who will talk to where the money raised will be 
        spent and why the disease has not quite been conquered; and

        Andi Kudzol--Member of the Board of Directors of Aids Project 
        Worcester, who will share her experiences as an active volunteer 
        and as a young woman living with AIDS.

        The kickoff will be an opportunity for community members to 
        learn the facts about HIV and AIDS, become informed about local 
        support groups that might need volunteers, and to help raise 
        money to educate and provide support for people living with 
        HIV and AIDS.


323.2871MRPTH1::16.121.160.239::slablabounty@mail.dec.comThu May 08 1997 04:388
Hey, did you send a message to whoever mailed that out and notify him/her 
that there was an extra "n" added to your name?

All I could picture when I saw that was Mr. Richardson asking "Huh?  What 
are you mentioning me for?".


323.2872COVERT::COVERTJohn R. CovertThu May 08 1997 17:0219
In another conference, a pointer was given to "The Rethinking AIDS" Home Page.

The site maintainers quote some people with an impressive set of credentials,
including Nobel prize winning molecular biologists and biochemists.

		http://www.xs4all.nl/~raido/

I just discussed the site with a friend in Atlanta, who tested HIV+ twelve
years ago and tells me that these people really might have a point.

He says that he feels perfectly fine now, and has for the past six years
after he _quit_ taking AZT.  He is convinced that he was being poisoned by
AZT, and never felt sicker in his whole life than during the year he tried
the recommended treatments.

Is he just lucky, or do these people have a point: look elsewhere, look
to continued detrimental behaviour, look to improper treatments.

/john
323.2873BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon May 12 1997 17:2719


	In addition to the speakers at this Wednesdays Corporate Kick-off Rally
for the AIDS Walks, a viewing of the AIDS Panel will be held as well. Several
people donated time and effort to either make a panel for someone they know, or
make a panel for someone else from the company for someone they knew. 

	The overall collection of panels was named after Jeremy Mathews. He was 
a DIGITAL employee who died of AIDS last summer. There have been about 10
people who submitted panels of people they knew who died of AIDS complications. 

	The panel can be viewed between the hours of 11:00-1:00 in the cafe
annex at HLO2 on Wednesday, May 14th.




Glen
323.2874Old friend?CPEEDY::ZALESKIMon May 12 1997 17:395
    Is there a Web site or something that has a list of names of people
    who are on the quilt? I had a friend who I heard died of Aids. He moved
    to San Fran. about 25 years ago. He was a nice guy and the kindest
    person I knew. Always wondered if the stories are true?
    
323.2875BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Mon May 12 1997 17:585
http://www.aidsquilt.org/



	It should have what you are looking for.
323.2876BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Wed May 14 1997 13:2416

	The Corporate Kick-off Rally for the AIDS Walks, and a viewing of the 
AIDS Panel will be held TODAY!

	Ed Caldwell (VP of DS), Paul Ross (HIV/AIDS office), Larry Kessler
(head of AIDS ACTION) and Andi Kudzol (a woman with AIDS) will be speaking
today.

	The Kick-off Rally for the Walks will be held between 11:30-1:00 in the 
cafe annex at HLO2.



Glen

323.2877BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Fri May 23 1997 15:2139
    The Boston and Worcester AIDS Walks are almost upon us! As in past years,
    DIGITAL is having their own Pre-Registration in TWO facilities this year. 
    One will be in Littleton and one will be in Hudson. 

    On May 30th, from 11-1:00 we will have Pre-Registration for the Boston 
    Walk in the Tay 1 Cafe. A table will be set up, and someone from AIDS 
    Action will assist in collecting the pledge sheets and money.

    On the same day in HLO2 (May 30), a table will be set up outside the 
    Credit Union to collect pledges and money for Boston. The time for this 
    will be 11:30-2:00. 

    On June 6th, during the same time periods and same locations, tables will 
    be set up for collecting money/pledges for the Worcester Walk. A 
    representative from Worcester will be at this pre-registration as well.

    What does Pre-Registration do for you? The lines are long on the day of 
    the Walk. Depending on how much money you collect, you could end up 
    carrying the AAC/APW incentive prizes around with you. This would 
    eliminate that. 

    There is a prize from the DIGITAL Logo Store that will be given out to 
    the person who collects the most amount of pledges for either walk! So 
    regardless of whether you walk the Worcester or Boston Walks, you will 
    be elligible IF you come to Pre-Registration with your form/money. The 
    prize is a Sportsgear Jacket!

    Also this year, DIGITAL has made up some great t-shirts for the Walks. 
    These are in line with the Healthy Balance t-shirts many of you already 
    have. These are probably the best designed shirts for any of the Walks 
    we have had! Each Walker gets a t-shirt! 

    If you have any questions about Pre-Registration for Littleton, call 
    Donna Winston  227-3418 winston@mail.dec.com  or Patti Mahoney 227-3598
    mahoney@mail.dec.com. If you have any questions about the Hudson
    Pre-registration, call Glen Silva at 225-6306  gsilva@mail.dec.com.

    See you all at Pre-Registration!!!!!!!
323.2878UPDATED!!!BIGQ::SILVAhttp://www.ziplink.net/~glen/decplus/Wed May 28 1997 20:0427
The Boston AIDS Walk is almost upon us! As in past years, DIGITAL is having 
their own Pre-Registration in TWO facilities this year. One will be in 
Littleton and one will be in Hudson. 

On May 30th, from 11-1:00 we will have Pre-Registration for the Boston Walk in 
the Tay 2 Cafe. A table will be set up, and someone from AIDS Action will
assist in collecting the pledge sheets and money.

On the same day in HLO2 (May 30), a table will be set up outside the Credit 
Union to collect pledges and money for Boston. The time for this will be 
11:30-2:00. 

What does Pre-Registration do for you? The lines are long on the day of the
Walk. Depending on how much money you collect, you could end up carrying the 
AAC incentive prizes around with you. This would eliminate that. 

On the day of the Boston Walk, look for us at the corporate area, usually under 
the D, for DIGITAL! You won't be able to miss us with the GREAT t-shirts we 
have this year!

If you have any questions about Pre-Registration for Littleton, call Donna 
Winston  227-3418 winston@mail.dec.com  or Patti Mahoney 227-3598 
mahoney@mail.dec.com. If you have any questions about the Hudson
Pre-registration, call Glen Silva at 225-6306  gsilva@mail.dec.com.

See you all at Pre-Registration!!!!!!!
323.2879NOTIME::SACKSGerald Sacks ZKO2-3/N30 DTN:381-2085Tue Jun 03 1997 17:0711
SCOTUS declined to hear the case of a soldier with the HIV
virus who claimed that his right to privacy was violated
by the Army when his commander ordered him to use a
condom during sexual relations.

Carinel Pritchard was found guilty in 1993 of disobeying
the safe-sex order and of assault against his wife, when
she and another woman complained to Army officials that
he had not warned them of his condition nor donned a
condom during sex. The case is Pritchard v. United
States, 96-1751.