T.R | Title | User | Personal Name | Date | Lines |
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4.1 | I'll share his name! | NETMAN::HUTCHINS | | Tue Apr 24 1990 12:50 | 17 |
4.2 | Yes on name change | MEMORY::OKERLUND | | Tue Apr 24 1990 14:12 | 12 |
4.3 | definitely changing my name | STOOA::PELTIER | | Tue Apr 24 1990 16:17 | 12 |
4.4 | marriage=same name | VNABRW::TRAXLER_B | reachin' out! | Wed Apr 25 1990 11:50 | 22 |
4.5 | Compromise | HPSTEK::EKOKERNAK | | Wed Apr 25 1990 15:39 | 16 |
4.6 | Inter-cultural hyphenation | BRABAM::PHILPOTT | Col I F 'Tsingtao Dhum' Philpott | Wed Apr 25 1990 15:49 | 9 |
4.7 | A compromise also. | SMAUG::DESMOND | | Wed Apr 25 1990 15:56 | 19 |
4.8 | Peas in a Pod | NETMAN::BLANEY | VOID that entry... | Wed Apr 25 1990 17:41 | 17 |
4.9 | Taking his name | ASABET::M_KELLEY | | Wed Apr 25 1990 21:38 | 20 |
4.10 | Melody matters! | ISLNDS::COLELLA | Does Uranus have an aurora? | Thu Apr 26 1990 12:36 | 17 |
4.11 | Another way? | VNABRW::TRAXLER_B | reachin' out! | Thu Apr 26 1990 14:13 | 5 |
4.12 | I guess I'm stubborn at times. | SMAUG::DESMOND | | Thu Apr 26 1990 17:46 | 8 |
4.13 | Uncanny! | ISLNDS::COLELLA | Does Uranus have an aurora? | Thu Apr 26 1990 21:22 | 7 |
4.14 | Agree to Change | RATTLE::AUSTIN | | Mon Apr 30 1990 19:36 | 8 |
4.15 | Taking his name | THOTH::MCNEIL | | Tue May 01 1990 13:08 | 9 |
4.16 | not sure yet | RUSTIE::NALE | | Tue May 01 1990 14:02 | 8 |
4.17 | Having it all! | MEMIT::MISSELHORN | | Wed May 02 1990 16:03 | 22 |
4.18 | I did, I did | POCUS::LONDON | | Wed May 02 1990 19:52 | 7 |
4.19 | | DONVAN::CAKES::YOUNG | | Mon May 07 1990 20:19 | 32 |
4.20 | Thinking out loud | ALOSWS::LEVINE | | Fri May 11 1990 02:42 | 37 |
4.21 | TIME FOR CHANGE | 42585::STOCKWELLS | | Wed May 16 1990 13:44 | 9 |
4.22 | I changed after 10+ years..... | CARTUN::CAMPAGNA | | Wed Jun 06 1990 22:19 | 25 |
4.23 | yes and no | STAR::WTHOMAS | | Tue Jun 12 1990 19:07 | 20 |
4.24 | | BRABAM::PHILPOTT | Col I F 'Tsingtao Dhum' Philpott | Wed Jun 13 1990 08:39 | 17 |
4.25 | After serious consideration | RAMPNT::HALVORSON | Into the future we must cross | Thu Jun 21 1990 15:38 | 36 |
4.26 | Another form to fill out!!! | NETMAN::HUTCHINS | Did someone say ICE CREAM? | Thu Sep 06 1990 19:29 | 14 |
4.27 | Keeping or Hyphenating for me | ATSE::LEVAN | Living in a Gemini dream | Wed Sep 12 1990 18:19 | 58 |
4.28 | Don't see the dilemna | ROYALT::IORIO | | Mon Sep 17 1990 19:37 | 18 |
4.29 | Dilemma explained but unsolved! | ATSE::LEVAN | Living in a Gemini dream | Tue Oct 02 1990 19:35 | 24 |
4.30 | | QUARK::LIONEL | Free advice is worth every cent | Tue Oct 02 1990 20:08 | 3 |
4.31 | nothing wrong with that | ROYALT::IORIO | | Wed Oct 03 1990 01:11 | 11 |
4.32 | | QUARK::LIONEL | Free advice is worth every cent | Wed Oct 03 1990 12:55 | 8 |
4.33 | replies to Steve & Amy | ATSE::LEVAN | Living in a Gemini dream | Fri Oct 05 1990 19:42 | 18 |
4.34 | | QUARK::LIONEL | Free advice is worth every cent | Tue Oct 09 1990 13:05 | 15 |
4.35 | Mr & Mrs LeVan-Colbert | ATSE::LEVAN | Living in a Gemini dream | Tue Oct 09 1990 16:44 | 19 |
4.36 | Metamorphis? | TRNPRC::PERKINS | | Wed Nov 14 1990 12:57 | 28 |
4.37 | | ALOSWS::LEVINE | One Step at a Time... | Wed Nov 14 1990 16:57 | 29 |
4.38 | | USRCV1::CONNORTONA | | Wed Nov 14 1990 19:20 | 13 |
4.39 | | QUARK::LIONEL | Free advice is worth every cent | Wed Nov 14 1990 23:30 | 5 |
4.40 | Only a question | RTOEU::CKOEV | | Thu Nov 15 1990 10:52 | 12 |
4.41 | Names: to change or not to change | FLECK::FLECK | | Thu Nov 15 1990 14:34 | 22 |
4.42 | name change not = commitment | SHARE::RICHARDSON | | Thu Nov 15 1990 15:53 | 13 |
4.43 | I second that one! | VISUAL::JACKSON | | Thu Nov 15 1990 16:28 | 22 |
4.44 | WHOA | FLECK::FLECK | | Thu Nov 15 1990 17:40 | 12 |
4.45 | turnabout... | SHARE::RICHARDSON | | Thu Nov 15 1990 18:29 | 23 |
4.46 | more .02 cents | ROYALT::IORIO | | Sun Nov 25 1990 20:21 | 24 |
4.47 | Ramblings | GLORY::MADDEN | | Wed Dec 26 1990 19:44 | 34 |
4.48 | Another example | LISVAX::COELHO | Dynamic memory exhausted | Fri Feb 22 1991 14:23 | 45 |
4.49 | "I do" to you too! | GUCCI::SCHLICKENMAI | | Thu Jul 25 1991 11:43 | 10 |
4.50 | still don't like the new name... | DEMON::CYCLPS::COLELLA | Why do feet smell and noses run? | Fri Aug 09 1991 23:02 | 12 |
4.51 | Dying for the difficult! | NQOPS::SANTINELLI | WAIT! I found her! | Thu Aug 22 1991 11:38 | 10 |
4.52 | Too common!! | KINDLE::CLARK | Sandy Clark Pendak | Thu Aug 22 1991 11:52 | 8 |
4.53 | Can't wait to change!!! | MMONRO::KMURPHY | | Thu Aug 22 1991 13:12 | 11 |
4.54 | | SELL3::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Tue Sep 10 1991 19:36 | 18 |
4.55 | Who am I now??? | KINDLE::CLARK | Sandy Clark Pendak | Wed Sep 11 1991 14:51 | 10 |
4.56 | too confusing! | GEMVAX::CRAIG | | Thu Sep 19 1991 18:45 | 13 |
4.57 | "Same FIRST and LAST name" | MCIS5::PULSIFER | | Thu Sep 19 1991 19:06 | 17 |
4.58 | Karens & Cathys | SELL1::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Thu Sep 19 1991 19:48 | 24 |
4.59 | use a middle name along with your first name | CSSE32::GRAEME | Only elephants should wear ivory | Thu Sep 19 1991 22:53 | 10 |
4.60 | Along the same lines . . . | OFSIDE::SHAIN | | Fri Sep 20 1991 12:24 | 5 |
4.61 | Using Middle Names | MCIS5::PULSIFER | | Fri Sep 20 1991 12:33 | 20 |
4.62 | Big Karen and Little Karen | SELL1::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Fri Sep 20 1991 14:00 | 13 |
4.63 | Judy 1 and Judy 2 | BAVIKI::good | Michael Good | Fri Sep 20 1991 16:19 | 3 |
4.64 | changing his name | KINDLE::CLARK | Sandy Clark Pendak | Fri Sep 20 1991 17:56 | 8 |
4.65 | i won't do what you won't do | CALS::GELINEAU | | Wed Oct 02 1991 13:45 | 40 |
4.66 | 1st part re: .65, 2nd part re: hyphenating | CIVIC::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Wed Oct 02 1991 15:11 | 17 |
4.67 | Why not change both? | FRAGLE::LUSIAK | | Wed Oct 02 1991 16:18 | 24 |
4.68 | An easy answer to hyphenated names | PHONE::POIRIER | | Wed Oct 02 1991 16:54 | 25 |
4.69 | A new family, a new name | VSSCAD::RITCHIE | Elaine Kokernak Ritchie | Mon Oct 07 1991 15:04 | 11 |
4.70 | I vote no | DSM::OHARE | | Thu Jan 09 1992 15:33 | 108 |
4.71 | Well written article, but... | STRATA::JANSEN | | Thu Jan 09 1992 16:14 | 22 |
4.72 | Call me Mrs. - not Ms., please | CIVIC::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Thu Jan 09 1992 17:25 | 4 |
4.73 | | XCUSME::KOSKI | I'm a celebration waiting to happen | Thu Jan 09 1992 17:50 | 8 |
4.74 | | RTOEU::JGIBBONS | | Fri Jan 10 1992 09:46 | 13 |
4.75 | | PSYLO::ELLIOTT | | Fri Jan 10 1992 13:16 | 9 |
4.76 | | VOX::POIRIER | | Fri Jan 10 1992 13:21 | 8 |
4.77 | Back after all these months! | DUCK::SMITHS2 | | Mon Jan 13 1992 11:29 | 14 |
4.78 | Mrs Seymour and proud of it | CRISPY::SEYMOURA | Be Excellent to Each Other | Tue Jan 14 1992 07:16 | 12 |
4.79 | My mental state is fine! | STUDIO::PELUSO | PAINTS; color your corral | Tue Jan 14 1992 10:01 | 14 |
4.80 | Glamour Magazine | DSM::OHARE | | Thu Jan 16 1992 18:59 | 11 |
4.81 | I vote CHOICE! | HYEND::LHORN | Laura Gawronski Horn...Capacity Mgmt Mkting | Mon Jan 20 1992 14:48 | 34 |
4.82 | Oh, dear...what to choose from? | SELL1::FAHEL | Amalthea Celebras/Silver Unicorn | Mon Jan 20 1992 17:26 | 28 |
4.83 | Address | DSM::OHARE | | Mon Mar 02 1992 12:10 | 6 |
4.84 | IT'S MILLER TIME!!!! | GUCCI::SMILLER | | Mon Mar 02 1992 14:23 | 12 |
4.85 | I'll have to get to the big day note...) | XCUSME::HATCH | Gail who? | Mon Mar 02 1992 17:30 | 7 |
4.86 | I want to change !!! | MAGEE::SKOWRONEK | | Thu Sep 02 1993 18:37 | 33 |
4.87 | | TRACTR::HATCH | On the cutting edge of obsolescence | Thu Sep 02 1993 19:23 | 5 |
4.88 | | DAGWUD::JACQUART | | Wed Jan 22 1997 15:06 | 15 |
4.89 | Just an opinion | JUMP4::JOY | Perception is reality | Wed Jan 22 1997 15:50 | 22 |
4.90 | | POWDML::WHEELER | Chickens have no bums | Fri Jan 24 1997 13:21 | 29 |
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Hi Sue,
When Scott and I got married, my son John was 5 years old. We
let him make the decision on what he wanted his name to be - and
gave him the option of leaving it the same "for now" and changing
it in the future if he ever wanted to... He decided he wanted
to stay as John Wheeler.
Scott and I both changed our last names to be Wheeler-Luna.
At work he is called Scott Luna, and I am called Robin Wheeler
(though our paychecks/licenses/etc say Wheeler-Luna). I have
credit/atm/etc cards in Robin Wheeler, Robin Wheeler-Luna and
Robin W Luna. I have never had a problem using any of them.
Actually, my husband's last name on his birth certificate is
Payne. When his mother had remarried they just started using
Luna as Scott's last name. When Scott was 18 he joined the
army. He had to go to court to have a legal name change done
from Scott Payne to Scott Luna before he was admitted. So,
for Scott to now prove his identity, we need his birth certificate,
legal name change, and marriage certiciate..
I'd say the best bet is to include the kids in a conversation
on what everyones name could/should/wants be (and why)..
/robin
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4.91 | Isn't that a different issue? | STAR::DIPIRRO | | Fri Jan 24 1997 13:36 | 5 |
| I thought that changing the childrens' names was a different issue
entirely and not simply up to mom and/or the children. But it depends
on the circumstances. If there's a dad around who wants their name to
stay as it is, you can't legally change it without a court decision,
right?
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4.92 | | DAGWUD::JACQUART | | Fri Jan 24 1997 17:23 | 16 |
| -4.91 RIGHT! There's not a chance that my daughter's father would
agree to a name change for them, even if it were hyphenated to still
include his!
I had originally asked the girls what they thought, and it was there
concern over me having a different last name than theirs that led to my
confusion over what to do. As was mentioned in an earlier reply, I too
don't believe that keeping another man's name is right - but my kids
play into the picture in a big way.
I 'think' that since we've been engaged the girls have gotten more used
to the fact that SOME name change will happen - and they may even now
be okay with me simply taking Jim's name. Barring that, I think I'll
simply use both last names when signing thing for their school without
making the hyphenated version official so that I can drop it one day
without any problems.
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