Conference turris::womannotes-v3

    I think both men and woman should wear more...
    
    SPANDEX!!!!
    
    Close-fitting 501's are always a big favorite, too.
    
    D!

    
    
    Natural fabrics (cotton, wool, silk, linen, etc.).  A comfortable look,
    whether it's traditional (slacks) or non-traditional dress (caftans, 
    leggings, whatever).  I don't think I really like leather anymore,
    except for shoes and sandals.
    
    CQ

    snug, but not tight jeans, and crisp button-down cotton shirts.  And
    long hair.  And a smile.
    
    -Jody
    

I'm sort of drawn to the style of that primitive man, I think he was called



Kilt-down man.

;-)

I'm with D!, let's see more spandex. I like those ST:TNG uniforms for both men
and women. liesl

    
    only if I can dress like Whoopi's character!
    
    signed,
    
    Breeder Hips Blazek
    

    I mostly like to see men dressed comfortably (for them).  But then 
    again, I enjoy seeing a man dressed in a well-groomed suit when the
    occasion warrents.  Definitely the grooming part is a big thing for me.
    For example, I can't stand dirty fingernails and dirty looking hair.
    So actually as long as he's clean, he could probably wear nothing at
    all. 8)))))))  In fact, I really prefer it that way!!!!!!!!!!
    
    Sue
    

    Re: .8 , wearing nothing at all
    
    Maybe this belongs in true confessions, but I once went to a clothing
    optional beach.  I found the guys wearing the skimpy little bikini
    bathing suits a lot sexier than those wearing nothing at all.
    
    -Mary

    G-String and whip cream.  
    
    Kel
    

    
    my dear carla! am i reading you correctly? zurich *switzerland*?
    i'm not an expert in these matters, but i got the distinct
    impression that swiss men were almost as boring as, well,
    switzerland!
    

     To the left...

    re last few:  I agree that leaving something to the imagination is
                  intriging but I'll always be a nudist at heart.  I
                  hate wearing clothes so I guess I just assume that men
                  hate wearing clothes.  Of course, I realize that I 
                  shouldn't assume anything.  My opinion is that when
                  one is nude, they have nothing to hide - no facade.
                  That's when the true character emerges.
    
                  Sue
    

    append this to .3:
    
    "no cologne or after shave"
    

Re: .14

	:-)

	My blue silk suit is dressed left...

	:-) :-) :-)


	-- Charles

    re .16:  Comparing a novel with it's dust jacket removed is, to me,
             not a fair analogy since the novel is already written and
             cannot defend or offend itself after being written.  However,
             a person will say and do a lot of very interesting things
             with his or her clothes removed that they would not do
             clothed.  Yes, it's all fine and well to cover that extra
             15 or 20 lbs. but it is still not the true self emerging.
             Clothes are simply a security device that one hides behind.
             It really doesn't bother me one way or another having no
             clothing on with regards to my physical attributes.  If I
             cannot be accepted as I am, then that's too bad for the one
             who cannot accept me.  It's their problem - not mine.  I would
             rather get to know a person without clothes on first and take
             the honesty that comes of it and then see that person with
             clothes on later and observe the difference.  Just my
             different way of looking at it.
    
             Sue
    

personally, I like the Indiana Jones look... the dirty, sweaty and
fresh-from-a-fight look..

Jenna

    Re: .14 (again)
    
    Actually 'gail, come to think of it, exactly *why* do you care which
    way a man dresses? And SHAME on you for checking!
    
    	-- Charles

    re: .21
    
    it depends on how she checks, i should think.
    
    i mean, checking from a distance doesn't hurt anyone....does it?
    
    

Ah Carla, this Switzerland idea could have merit! Would they be ready for both
of us???? ;*) You know how we jingle when we're jeweled. ;*) liesl

    
    not wishing to rathole a perfectly good topic, but the discussion of
    nude inspection earlier in this string reminded me that there is a
    tradition, still occasionally found, dating back to the days of the Old
    Religion - possibly 4 or 5000 years - in the "Celtic Fringe" (western
    Ireland and the outer Hebrides of Scotland) where a couple inspect each
    other nude (with chaperons [traditionally the mothers of the girl and
    the boy and the Wiccan priest] in the next room and the door open
    between them) prior to formally becoming betrothed.
    
    /. Ian .\
    
    

    re .9, .13, .23  
    
    ok, I bite
    
    I love sweeping statements - so if Carla says Zurich men are well
    dressed, I must concur. And perhaps it should be noted that they not
    only go for the soft, elegant touch in cloths, but go for the soft
    touch..... 
    
    Eat your heart out.
    
    And are they ready for Carla and liesl?...?...
    
    Regards,
    Heinrich
    (from Zurich, and dont ask what I wear at the moment, unless you find
    very soft black leather trousers, red braces, a soft open shirt)

    RE:  .25
    
    WOW!!!!  I must say, nice description of your clothes.
    
    Where's the cold water????
    

Forget the cold water,

Where do I order and do they take Visa??

grins,

clark.

    Men's formal clothing in Europe (suits, etc) is different looking than
    in the USA.  It is hard to say what the difference *is*, but it doesn't
    take long to be able to spot it.  Somehow the European kind looks more
    elegant.
    
    Myself, I wouldn't mind kilts.  I always liked the look of formal
    Scottish attire, both for men and for women.  But (1) the stuff is just
    about impossible to find around here, and (2) my family tartan consists
    of the colors green, black, and violet, which make for a pretty
    gloomy-looking ensemble.  Not to mention (3) the stares I would get.

    
    Re -1
    We cut suits differently in the UK.
    There is actually a style of suit here known as "American cut",
    described as "somewhat shapeless but comfortable" (in an entrancing
    book, "A Gentleman's Wardrobe", which is a guide to *the* classic
    men's clothes and how they came about....)
    
    Hope this comment doesn't offend any U.S. snappy dressers - if it's
    any consolation, the same book described R. Nixon as being very well
    dressed (though he did wear European style suits, occasionally ordered
    in Saville Row).
    The American cut, which at least has vents, is still rated better than
    a certain European cut which doesn't have vents - which means that
    it looks great when you're standing up but puckers as soon as you
    sit down or need to put your hands in your pockets.
    
    Men's classic formal dress fascinates me - it's infinitely adaptable,
    and I wear many men's formal items simply because they look so
    timelessly good...
    'gail
    
    
    

    When I was in Europe last month I browsed through some shops.  In
    general the clothing seems to be made of superior fabric that "drapes"
    or seems to fit better.  The clothing fabric patterns and texture
    seems more contemporary than what I have seen in the U.S.  I got the
    impression that the clothing that I was looking at in Europe would be
    available in the States in another couple of years.  
    I think (again to generalize) European men pay alot more attention to
    detail also, be it patterned socks, textured accessories or matching
    different types of patterned fabric and having a successful look.
    I was in a capital city and the women were "dressed to kill" too, 
    stylish and feminine while also appearing professional.  
                                                           

    
    	> If you could set male fashion trends, how would you
    	> like to see men dress ?
    
    	I really like those cotton pants with vivid designs that have
    	*velcro* as the way to secure the waist-part.  They can be
    	found in surf-type stores from what I've seen, but also sometimes
    	in department stores.  They are unlike any other pants I've seen
    	men wear, and I find them quite sexy.
    
    							nancy b.
    

    re .31 Real men don't wear Velcro :-)

    And the velcro would be very convenient....  ;-)
    
    

    ... of the opposite "sex" from that which their SO's wear!!
    
    :-)

    
    
    Hee hee.......Nancy, I shop in the men's department.....I've got a pair
    of pants similar to those....  
    
    Try 'em out, they are WICKED comfortable...more comfortable than any
    women's pants I've ever bought.  
    
    Why should men get all the comfort?  8-)
    
    kath

    re: .33
    
    :)Funny, that was my first thought;)
    
    Barb

    The only people who wear Velcro pants are the people who like other
    people to rip their clothes off without damaging the clothes.
    
    D!, a tried-and-true velcro fan :-)

    RE .37 Some of us find the sound of buttons whizzing by our ears
    far more stimulating than that gawdawful rrriiippp-ing sound
    Velcro makes >;-)

    
    I have several pairs of those velcro pants -- they're bright, loose,
    comfortable, and provide easy access.
    
    rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrip!
    
    C.
    

I own some of those pants too - is anyone surprised? My favorite pair has
an Australian aboriginal lizard design on it - way cool.

	-- Charles

    re:  .38
    
    I disagree....I think the sound of velcro rrriiippp-ing is a big turn
    on!!  Great stuff!  
    
    Didn't the musical group "ZZ Top" make a song about the "Velcro Fly"???  
    
    -Dotti.

    So...where do I find these majorly funky velcro pants?
    
    D!

I buy mine ("Dunes" brand) from International Male [woof!]. I've seen them in
some of the "trendy" clothes stores around here.

	-- Charles

    Charles,
    
    I already had this image of you as one who buys from International
    Male!  My husband gets the catalog, but I think I enjoy looking at it
    more than he does, if you know what I mean.  Great underwear, eh?
    
    Mary (blush)

> Great underwear, eh?

Oh, MAN! :-)

When we were down in San Diego for this past Thanksgiving, I stopped in at the
International Male store as I always do. As we're checking out, I asked Janice
to pick out a couple of pairs of underwear for me - as a present to her... :-)

International Male's catalogs are for women, and bi or gay men what Victoria's
Secret catalogs are for men. (I have no idea if bi and lesbian women like
Victoria's Secret catalogs.)

	-- Charles

    
    
    Ok, I can't stand it anymore.  If anyone of you out there has an IM
    catalog you no longer want, will you send itto me?  Or, how about just
    posting the 800 number here so I can call and request a catalog of my
    own.
    
    CQ

    re: a few back...on easy access velcro (TM)
    
    This must be a cultural problem - I mean, who would want easy (?fast?) 
    access if you can have the high-tension delay of a searching, hesitant, 
    slow, and yet sure "access-method" instead?
    
    :-) Heinrich
    (not picking a fight (or anything else))

    An ex-boyfriend of mine had a pair...they quickly became my
    favorite....He wore them ALL THE TIME!!!   hah hah...Ahhhh memories..
    

    International Male
    741 "F" Street
    P.O. Box 129027
    San Diego, CA 92112-9027
    
    (That's the return address. Here's the order address.)
    
    International Male
    Hanover, PA 17333-0075
    
    You might try calling their 800 number for orders and consultation...
    
    1-800-854-2795
    
    or the customer service number
    
    1-717-633-3300 between 8am-midnight Eastern time M-F and 9am-5pm
    Saturday, Sunday and holidays.
    
    	Enjoy!
    	-- Charles

    re .47 Thanks, Heinrich, I thought I was the only conservative
    in this bunch :-) :-)
    
    Dana

    
    
    D!,
    
    You can find the "Velcro" pants at the Royal Ridge Mall, I beleive the
    shop is O.P. It's on the same side as Hit or Miss, right next to it I
    beleive.  They have also been spotted at Bradlee's, and at least 4
    stores in the PLM,  Poor Simone's and Burlington Coat (all in Nashua).
    
    have fun... there are some great designs...
    
    lsn

    more eye-candy can be found in Undergear catalogs (from the same people
    as the International Male catalog)....
    
    -Jody
    

    re .50 Dear Dana, this is one of the pleasures of learning a language;
    finding out that conservative means taking an ordinary moment, such as
    getting out of clothes, and turning it into a languourous never ending
    moment. Mmmmm, how conservative can you get.....with time..
    
    Velcro (TM)? my ass!
    regards,
    Heinrich

    re: .52
    
    Hmmmmm....
    
    Jody,
    
    Is this just a coincidence or have you and Christine been feasting your
    eyes on that Undergear catalog I brought in yesterday :-)
    
    Mary

> Velcro (TM)? my ass!

Ok. Bend over. :-) 

Sometimes you want slow and langorous, sometimes you just can't wait. I have
clothes for both. (Fewer for "quick", somehow they keep getting damaged... :-)

	-- Charles

    re .55 >sometimes you just can't wait.
    
    That's the point - frustration adds spice :-)
    
    Sometimes I feel sorry for the 'instant gratification' types :=)
    
    Dana

    
    
    No, no, no, Dana, it's anticipation that adds the spice.
    
    Jody hasn't seen the catalog yet (too bad for you, Jody).  I am 
    compiling a list of names to send to the Undergear people for a
    complimentary catalog from International Male.  (Is IM the kind
    of company that only sends catalogs if you buy?)  It'll be
    interesting to see who they sell my name to.  
    
    CQ

Christine - IM will sell your name to a LOT of people. If you want to get
endless catalogs about clothes for both (either?) sexes, most of which AREN'T
up to the kind of avante-garde style standards that IM adheres to, then no
problem. If you DON'T want those catalogs, then tell IM not to give your name
out. In that case I believe you only get IM, Undergear, and one other who's
name I forget.

IM *will* send catalogs even if you don't buy, but I think they may have one of
those "send us $3 for a catalog, get a coupon for $5 off your first purchase"
kind of deals.

	-- Charles

    of COURSE I've seen the catalog.  Somewhere along the line (I noted
    this before somewhere else i'm sure), someone thought I was MR. jody
    Bobbitt.  So I've gotten on some pretty different catalogs from my
    usual former fare.
    
    It's the only catalog I ever skim through from back to front....
    
    ;)
    
    -Jody
    

    Mary,
    
    Two members of the class have determined that you should bring this
    catalog to Stress Hardiness tomorrow!
    
    (*8
    
    E Grace

    Jody,
    
    I know what you mean.  But, I never actually make it to the front of the
    catalog.
    
    E Grace,
    
    Sorry, but Christine has the catalog.  Besides I don't think its the
    kind of material that would help us relax.  Hee, hee.
    
    Mary

    
    Feel free to drop by my cube to peruse.  Look me up in ELF, though,
    or mail me; I'd rather not post my location here.
    
    CQ

    
    
    Um, torn faded jeans, a creme colored fisherman's sweater, and boat
    shoes with no socks...or underwear!!!
    
    M

    so who wears underwear in their boat shoes????
    

    
    Black tshirt.  Long or short sleeves.
    
    CQ

    A. Tight jeans and nothing else.
    
    B. Anything made by Perry Ellis.
    
    C. My sheets.
    
    
                                  L.J.