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Conference turris::womannotes-v2

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 2 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V2 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1105
Total number of notes:36379

890.0. "A little piece of feel-good" by TLE::D_CARROLL (It's time, it's time to heal...) Fri Dec 08 1989 19:14

I am not sure why I am putting this in here, but it made me feel good and
I figured I ought to write about it somehwere...

I saw a note on the bulletin board outside the ZKO cafeteria saying that
the writer of the note had found some cash in the cafe, and that the
owner of the cash could claim it by giving the approximate amount and time
it was lost.  And that if no one claimed it afer a week, the writer would 
donate it to some charity.

How many people do you think would return found *cash*?  And, further, how
many people do you think would actually give that money away if unclaimed?
(I assume the logic of the writer was "This cash is not mine, and came in
to my hands as a 'gift', not earned, so it should be used to help those who 
need it more than I.")

(To the note writer, if you are reading things, kudos!)

D!
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890.1goodCECV03::LUEBKERTFri Dec 08 1989 19:359
    Is it really that rare?  There was a man recently who returned money
    from an armored truck.
    
    Long long ago in another land, I was given $400 by my bank when
    I cashed a check for $300 on a Saturday morning.  It took almost
    45 minutes in line to get back to the drive up window to give it
    back.  
    
    Bud
890.2CSC32::WOLBACHFri Dec 08 1989 19:5515
    
    
    Several months ago (during a time when I was really short on money,
    wouldn't you know God would pick that particular point in time to
    test me :-)....I found a $50 bill on the floor in the grocery store.
    
    As I did my shopping, I debated (that is, wrestled with my conscience)
    about keeping the bill vs returning it.  Ultimately, my belief in
    "what goes around comes around" and "what you do comes back threefold"
    won out and I turned in the money.
    
    Still waiting to win the lottery :-)
    
    Deb
    
890.3WJOUSM::GOODHUEFri Dec 08 1989 19:589
    A friend of mine found $5 on the street a few weeks ago.  He checked
    around to see if he could figure out who'd dropped it.  When he
    couldn't guess at the owner he donated the $5 to a group helping
    battered women.
    
    Then he wrote a letter to the editor of the local newspaper explaining
    what he had done so that (hopefully) the person who lost the money
    would know that it had gone to a good cause.
    
890.4ROYALT::MORRISSEYChestnuts smell awful!!Mon Dec 11 1989 12:3411
    
    	My fiance had cashed in some stock and put the money into
    	a CD....A while later we needed the money for something
    	so he cashed in on it.  But the girl who was handling it made
    	a check out for $5500 instead of $2500.  We of course told her
    	and she thanked us profusely for she may have lost her job
    	or at least gotten a warning if we had decided to be dishonest
    	and cashed it in as $5500.
    
    	JJ
    
890.5DPDMAI::MATTSONIt's always something!Wed Dec 13 1989 17:158
    My dad once, was paying for a prescription, and the check-out person
    charged him $5.00 instead of the correct price of $25.00.  He didn't
    notice it until he got home and was looking at the reciept.  So, he
    turned around and went back to the store, and showed the girl her
    error, and tried to give her the $20.00.  She refused to correct her
    mistake, because to do so, she would have had to ask the manager how to
    make the correction on her cash register, and was afraid she would get
    in trouble.  
890.6BSS::BLAZEKall the sins and secrets never criedWed Dec 13 1989 17:4812
    
    	There was a time when I wouldn't have corrected a monetary error
    	in my favor.  Now I'm a firm believer in what-comes-around-goes-
    	around and Karma, and I always point out the error.  
    
    	I'd feel too guilty if I didn't, and that kind of guilt *burns*.
    
    	One of these days I'm convinced I'll be rewarded for my honesty!  
    	(Hear that, O Fate?)
    
    	Carla
    
890.7RUBY::BOYAJIANSecretary of the StratosphereThu Dec 14 1989 07:3914
    After I left the =wn= party at Ann's, I stopped at the Dunkin
    Donuts shop on Route 30 for coffee for the longish drive home.
    I gave the guy a One, and he gave me back $9. I didn't think
    much about it; I just figured I must've given him a Ten. But
    when I got out to the car, I thought, "Waitaminute, I'm sure I
    gave him a One." I checked my pocket and noted that I still had
    a Ten (how I knew that I only had one Ten is complex and irrelevant).
    So, I went back in and explained the problem. He opened the
    register, saw that indeed there was a One sitting on top in the
    Ten's slot, and accepted the nine dollars back with a grateful
    thank-you. He *did* look at me strangely, though, as if he couldn't
    figure out why anyone would want to give back "free" money.
    
    --- jerry
890.8CUPCSG::CRITZGreg LeMond wins: 2nd TdF, 2nd WorldsThu Dec 14 1989 12:1722
    	Mom always taught my brother and I to be honest, and that
    	we should return something that came into our possession
    	but didn't belong to us.
    
    	Back in '69 or '70, I got my check from the factory and
    	went to the bank for a coupla money orders and some
    	cash. After I got the money orders and the teller gave
    	me my cash, I had more cash than the original amount of
    	the check. Because I went through the drive-through, I
    	was already outside. I walked over to the manager's
    	window (he was my sister-in-law's uncle) and tapped on
    	it. He looked up, smiled, opened the window and asked
    	me what I wanted. I explained the "problem," and we
    	worked out the problem.
    
    	A coupla Xmas's ago, I was walking in the Mall of NH and
    	a fella walked out of a store and dropped a wad of money.
    	I ran up to him, indicated the money on the floor, and
    	told him he dropped it. He picked up the wad, and thanked
    	me profusely.
    
    	Scott
890.9CUPCSG::CRITZGreg LeMond wins: 2nd TdF, 2nd WorldsThu Dec 14 1989 12:188
    	RE: 890.8
    
    	Yes, I'm a writer, and I shoulda known that "I" should
    	be "me" in the first sentence.
    
    	My brain (and everything else) is frozen today.
    
    	Scott
890.102 stories to addAUKLET::MEIERCollector of Glass InsulatorsThu Dec 14 1989 20:0314
A year or so ago, the ATM gave me an extra bill ($10 or $20).  I was pretty
confused for a little while, trying to figure out what to do with it, then just
called them on the handy dandy phone and they said they'd deduct the extra from
my account.

A few weeks ago my husband received a medical insurance payment for about $400
more than it was supposed to be. (a long story how they got confused, but...)
He called them up to tell them about the error and have them do what they had
to do to fix it.  The person on the other end wasn't very cooperative and asked
him to send copies of all his paperwork as evidence to support his claim that
he was overpaid!  He refused, and eventually talked to a supervisor, who is
getting things straightened out and will send him a bill.

Jill
890.11Attitude countsSQLRUS::FISHERPat PendingThu Dec 21 1989 17:358
    A few years ago I cashed a check and found myself with too many
    twenties.  I returned to the teller and said, "Excuse me, there's been
    a mistake."  She said, "We do not make mistakes!."
    
    It must have been a gift.  :)  I didn't ask if they made gifts,
    though.
    
    ed
890.12Another "Feel Good"ASHBY::MINERBarbara Miner HLO2-3Mon Jan 15 1990 20:4824
    This doesn't exactly pertain to the base note -- but it warmed my heart 
     and made me feel good  . . .

    My grandparents are celebrating their 65th wedding anniversary next week,
     which is special by itself -- their **choice** of celebrations????



                               A  DANCE
 

     They are sponsoring a town dance (Nashua, Montana, population 98 -- if 
      you're in the neighborhood, drop by);  my grandmother (86 years young)
       will do the polka and the schottisch (sp?) and the waltz with my
        90 year old grandfather.



     I hope that all of us are ***wanting to dance*** when we're 90 ish.     
    

      Barbi    
         who won't be there this time
890.13that is a feel-goodTLE::RANDALLliving on another planetTue Jan 16 1990 13:445
    That's great!  I wonder if my grandmother (79) will be there . . .
    she never misses a dance she knows about!  (She's in Whitehall,
    Montana, population around 700 on a good day.)
    
    --bonnie