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Conference turris::womannotes-v2

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 2 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V2 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1105
Total number of notes:36379

1054.0. "Dating Services????" by SQM::DECLAMECY () Tue Mar 27 1990 19:13


	I wanted to find out if anyone out there has had experiences 
	that they'd like to share about dating services.

	First of all, I have to admit that being a woman just 
	entering her thirties (and I do mean just barely!), I was
	hesitant at first to even think about going to a dating 
	service, but then I thought, why not?  At least it's more
	civilized and discriminating than meeting a total stranger
	in a bar, of whom you know nothing about, right?

	I had "shopped around" Nashua, looking at prices and the 
	different packages available but I ended up chosing
	VIDEOdates because their prices seemed very reasonable
	and they struck me as a professional organization.

	Has anyone else investigated dating services in the Nashua
	area?

	Has anyone had any experiences with VIDEOdates?
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1054.1there're some comments in SINGLESNOVA::FISHERDictionary is not.Tue Mar 27 1990 20:144
STARCH::SINGLES note 101 describes some horror stories, ahhh, errr,
experiences with dating services.

ed
1054.2In theory....QUILL::BNELSONRunnin' Down a DreamTue Mar 27 1990 20:3412
I'll go along with Ed on this one -- I've heard a lot of bad things and very
few good things.  I've gotten some of the flyers in the mail, but I can't
believe that they're any better here in Nashua than they would be in Mass.
I just throw them out unopened.

It's not a *bad* idea, and who knows, perhaps someone *has* implemented it
correctly somewhere.  I just haven't heard about it.  ;-)


Brian

1054.4Policy, folks! Remember the policy.DEMING::FOSTERWed Mar 28 1990 01:455
    
    PLEASE remember that Digital has new policies governing how we discuss
    other businesses on the net. We are not allowed to comment negatively
    on any business in an electronic bulletin board which the business
    cannot access to defend itself, yet a large number of people can read.
1054.5Hi Sue!GEMVAX::CICCOLINIWed Mar 28 1990 20:1412
    For the record, my roommate has just become engaged to a wonderful guy
    she met through the singles notesfile.  And it's free.
    
    Watch Ann Landers' column.  About a month ago, someone wrote in
    complaining of seemingly deceptive practices by a dating service and
    Ann suggested people start writing in with their experiences.  This
    particular woman paid over a thousand bucks to meet 3 guys, two of whom
    were serious "losers".  The third she liked and they began dating - 
    until she discovered he was married!  So much for "screening".  I expect 
    a column will be devoted to this topic in the near future and I
    wouldn't be surprised if the "verdict" ends up more negative than
    positive.
1054.6Personal Ads - cheaper + more effectiveOLYMP::BENZService(d) with a smileThu Mar 29 1990 13:0816
    Over here (Switzerland) I would recommend a Personal Ad instead.
    Getting dozens! of replies does wonders for your ego, and there are
    pretty good people both writing and answering. 
    
    A good women friend of mine went to a dating service, and is now in
    court with (against) them - indiscression and bad screening being the
    problem. 
    
    But -- I dont know if the Personal Ad scene is similar in USA, i.e. 
    non-danger, little sleaze etc.
    
    Regards,
    Heinrich
    (who tried...) 
    
     
1054.7Dick Syatt's hotlineLYRIC::QUIRIYChristineThu Mar 29 1990 17:088
    
    Since you're in Southern New Hampshire, you could always give a listen 
    to Dick Syatt's "Hotline" on WRKO (680 AM) on Saturday mornings.  It might 
    be on 11 to 2, I'm not sure.  (It's a radio program where people call
    up, describe themselves and who they're looking for, and what kind of a 
    relationship they're looking for.)
    
    CQ