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Conference turris::womannotes-v2

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 2 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V2 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1105
Total number of notes:36379

1061.0. "-WN-Lite, What Makes a Good Boss?" by USCTR2::DONOVAN () Thu Mar 29 1990 06:40

    What qualities make a great manager?
    
    Kate
    
    P.S. I'll go first:
    
    Fairness. It's nice to see all my peers get the same slack as I do.
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1061.1focusRANGER::LARUEAn easy day for a lady.Thu Mar 29 1990 12:143
    It's easier to follow a leader.
    
    Dondi
1061.2LEZAH::BOBBITTthe phoenix-flowering dark roseThu Mar 29 1990 13:449
    Responsiveness to needs, positive strokes/rewards when deserved....
    
    I like a manager who acknowledges me, any needs I have from her as a
    manager, and my accomplishments - it enables and encourages me to excel.
    
    -Jody
    
    p.s.  that's the gender-globel "her", which is taken to mean "her or
    him", of course....
1061.3R-E-S-P-E-C-T8713::WOODWARDa little bit dangerousThu Mar 29 1990 14:195
What makes a good manager?
    I like a manager I can look up to.  He/she should have the skills
    that I'd like to have.  He/she should be a person I can respect.
    
    
1061.4ULTRA::ZURKOWe're more paranoid than you are.Thu Mar 29 1990 15:463
A person who can value an aspect of your job or life because it is important to
you. Even if they could care less about it.
	Mez
1061.5Believes in meMARLIN::RYANThu Mar 29 1990 16:094
    My favorite (current) manager makes me believe in myself. (here,
    do this, I know you've never done it before, but I *know* you can.)
    
    Dee
1061.6this is a lite topic, right?DZIGN::STHILAIRElately I get a faraway feelinThu Mar 29 1990 17:294
    A dead one?
    
    Lorna
    
1061.7HEFTY::CHARBONNDif you just open _all_ the doorsThu Mar 29 1990 18:065
    A good boss asks for input before making a decision or
    committment that affects their people. A mediocre boss
    makes the decision, then asks for feedback. A lousy boss
    makes the decision and doesn't bother asking what their
    people think.
1061.8and a sense of humorTINCUP::KOLBEThe dilettante debutanteThu Mar 29 1990 21:1811
    A good manager at least makes the attempt to understand what you do
    technically. I'm not talking details, I mean the medium picture. I get
    so tired of "big picture" people that haven't got a clue what is
    happening. Unit level managers need to be more involved or why bother
    having them?

    A personal FLAME:

    I HATEHATEHATE managers that are too lilly livered to deal with
    personnel problems. Just telling people to "deal with it" when that is
    obviously not working doesn't cut it. liesl
1061.9CADSE::MACKINJim, CAD/CAM Integration FrameworkThu Mar 29 1990 21:343
    Easy, one who'll work for me and not just the other way around. 
    When its a two-way street amazing stuff can get done ... too bad many
    manager's haven't learned that trick yet.
1061.11I need to learn from supervisorsDECWET::DADDAMIOTesting proves testing worksFri Mar 30 1990 00:2515
    I have a hard time dealing with a supervisor that I can't learn
    something from.  They don't have to be technically better, but I need
    to be able to learn something from them.
    
    One manager I had a DEC was extremely responsive to people and situations. 
    I was due for a raise and at that time my husband had just taken a new job 
    on the other coast and it would be 1 1/2 months before I moved.  One week
    I had some jewelry stolen and my favorite dog died (talk about a bad
    week!).  My supervisor did some quick paperwork and running around so I
    could get my raise on the Friday of that week, just so something nice
    would happen that week (I probably would have gotten it a few weeks
    later).  That was such a boost to me - I'll never forget it!  She was
    also a lot younger than me, but I learned a lot from her!
    
    						Jan
1061.12Mine is pretty greatCSC32::K_KINNEYFri Mar 30 1990 14:3717
    
    
    	I have a WONDERFUL boss right now. He:
    
    	.Lets me do my job
    	.Supports me if/when I ask for it
    	.Is objective and gathers ALL sides of an issue BEFORE
    	making any decisions on it
    	.Gives us (his reports) RESPECT
    	.Handles issues in a timely manner
    	.Is NOT jealous of any of us. Lets us GROW and encourages this.
    
    	I feel all of these are to his credit and he is an excellent
    	role model for anyone wanting to be a manager ANYWHERE.
    
    						kim
    
1061.13SYSENG::BITTLEgood girls make good wivesFri Apr 20 1990 02:2013
    
    	When you're in the middle of something important and tired
    	of interruptions, and your boss comes in with yet another
    	interruption of low priority...  When you can look at your 
    	boss with a kinda deadpan expression, point to the office
    	door, and say
    
    					OUT.
    
    	And, of course, if your boss is cool, it will not be held 
    	against you in the future ;-).
    							nancy b.
    
1061.14SX4GTO::HOLTRobert Holt, ISVG WestSun Apr 22 1990 02:368
    
    If I were to do that I would expect cooperation, as I wouldn't
    have asked were it not important...
    
    One thing you can do is offer Boss a choice..."which do you want
    done first?"..
    
    If one of my people were to do that, I'd assume they were joking..