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Conference turris::womannotes-v1

Title:ARCHIVE-- Topics of Interest to Women, Volume 1 --ARCHIVE
Notice:V1 is closed. TURRIS::WOMANNOTES-V5 is open.
Moderator:REGENT::BROOMHEAD
Created:Thu Jan 30 1986
Last Modified:Fri Jun 30 1995
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:873
Total number of notes:22329

218.0. "Self-defense Training" by LATEXS::MINOW (Nihil carbohydrate carborundum) Wed Feb 25 1987 23:29

This note discusses self-defense training and rape prevention.
It is based on my memory of discussions with an old friend,
who I've lost contact with.  Any errors in my interpretation of
her ideas are my own.

-- self defense training does not perscribe how women should react to
   assault.  It only gives women statistics, ideas, and practice
   with a number of options.

-- during an assault, only the woman being attacked can evaluate the
   situation she is in and respond in ways that she believes are most
   likely to minimize harm.

-- self-defense training is only one aspect of rape prevention.

-- research studies on rape have determined that

   -- Women have successfully avoided rape.
   -- Assertive resistances correlated with rape deterrence.

-- fighting, screaming, running, etc. do not always prevent rape.  But
   such assertive behaviors correlated with a lower likelihood that
   the assault would be completed.

-- there was also a correlation between assertive resistance and injury.
   (but docility did not guarantee against either injury or additional
   sexual abuse).

-- effective self-defense training should teach participants to

   -- decrease the likelihood of an assault by observing safety precautions
      and practicing vigilant behaviors.
   -- learning how (and when) to react assertively when assaulted.

-- self-defense training should be feminist in focus, led by a female
   instructor competent in martial arts who is acquainted with the psychology
   of violence against women.

-- the class should teach options and guidelines, giving the student a number
   of responses and actions to choose from, and accepting without blame
   the judgements they and other women made during assaults.

-- self-blame is a normal reaction to rape.  It appears to correlate
   to the development of a sense of control that appears to aid
   recovery.
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218.1GOJIRA::PHILPOTTIan F. ('The Colonel') PhilpottThu Feb 26 1987 17:2415
    Having for several years "played the assailant" in such a course, and
    gotten a lot of bruises for my efforts [:-)] I would say that I agree
    with mostly all of it.
    
    However one word of caution: several thousand years of collected wisdom
    in unarmed combat seems to suggest the following maxim:
    
    	"If you stop to consider the alternatives -- you lose"
    
    or put another way
    
    	"She who hesitates is lost"
    
    /. Ian .\
218.3GOJIRA::PHILPOTTIan F. ('The Colonel') PhilpottWed Mar 11 1987 22:3212
218.4Shoot First and Ask Questions LaterSSGVAX::LUSTReality is for those that can't handle drugsThu Mar 12 1987 14:536
    As I used to tell my soldiers in Vietnam:
    
    "I am prepared to justify anyone's death but my own."
    
    Dirk
    
218.5ARMORY::CHARBONNDFri Mar 13 1987 17:333
    Recommended reading :
    "The Truth About Self-Protection"
    by Massad Ayoob (paperback)
218.7same personHARPO::B_HENRYBill HenryFri Mar 13 1987 19:0311
>	re: 218.5  
>	 Is Massad Ayoob also the author of "In the gravest extreme?" 
>	That is about firearms and the law and is very enlightening.

Yes, same person. "In the gravest extreme" is written for the person
who wants to use a hand gun for personal defense. Even if you
are not going to, or even if you are against weapons in general, it
is interesting reading and gives one much to think about.
He has written a good many books.


218.8More on AyoobARMORY::CHARBONNDFri Mar 20 1987 15:4311
    The subject matter of ITGE is covered in "The truth About
    Self protection". The new book covers a wider range of
    topics, from burglar alarms and dogs through self-defense
    (both armed and unarmed) as well as the legal ramifications
    of all these. 
    Ayoob is a police sargeant in New Hampshire, as well as a
    top authority on defensive pistolcraft. He adresses the
    B-S recomendations of many "experts" in great detail (the
    hat-pin, umbrella, car-keys school of defense).
    The book treats self protection as a system of layered
    precautions, not a single miracle cure. 
218.9moved by moderatorYAZOO::B_REINKEwhere the sidewalk endsWed Dec 16 1987 21:4722
            
CADSE::ECHEN                                         17 lines  16-DEC-1987 17:11
                       -< Guns, Knives, Baseball Bats? >-
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    After following this notesfile, it sounded like a lot of women carried
    some kind of weapon (baseball bats or knives or guns) to protect
    themselves.  Or at least to feel protected.
    
    I've toyed with the idea of keeping something close at hand, but
    the thought that if the intruder should get it out of my hand, then
    I'm definitely in trouble.  I'm pretty small physically, so that
    really isn't hard to do.
    
    I guess I'd like to know if others have thought about the above
    possibility.  Also, are guns legal in Massachusetts?  How about
    those electric shockers that some women keep in their pocketbooks?
    
    -ex-self-defense-student
    
    
218.10A comprehensive bookSPMFG1::CHARBONNDWhat a pitcher!Thu Dec 17 1987 10:1660
Many people who need some sort of protection in their lives and in
their homes simply have no idea where to start. This may seem strange
in a society where TV presents countless examples of violence. But 
there are so many myths, so many "everybody knows that" about guns,
dogs, etc. that it is hard to sort through the macho BS and outright
lies about self defense. What is needed is a systematic presentation
of self defense that starts at the beginning, and doesn't take for
granted that everyone is an expert by virtue of watching a few
westerns, cop shows, and kung-fu movies. The author of this book has
done so. 

"THE TRUTH ABOUT SELF PROTECTION" by Massad Ayoob

From the cover :"In 'The Truth About Self Protection', Massad
Ayoob provides fully illustrated, lifesaving techniques against
crime to keep you, your family and your belongings safe and 
secure. He gives specific recommendations on quality, cost and
effectiveness of every type of self-protection device sold today-
an up-to-date, state-of-the-art consumer guide to maintaining
personal safety in our violent times.
.What lethal weapons are legal to carry-the Kubotan and Mo-Gem
.What to do if you are kidnapped or taken hostage
.Attack dogs- and what to do if you are attacked by one
.When it's time to learn the martial arts
.Real protection against pickpockets and purse snatchers
.The truth about streetfighting
.The neck-twist takedown, eye attacks, and the sleeper hold
.Tips on tear gas sprays
.Locks, alarms and safes- the best for your house,your car
.Surprising self-defense devices- telephones, flashlights,makeshift
  weapons
.Special advice for the elderly and disabled
  Plus... all about guns
Should you have a gun ? The shotgun and rifles for self-defense. Why
a handgun ? Selecting a handgun. Effective combat firing techniques.
Keeping firearms safely. And the physical, emotional and legal 
ramifications if you decide to use countervailing force."

The author has written extensively on all aspects of self defense. He
is a police training officer, has spent years studying crime and
measures against it, and has discarded many myths about self defense.
He is to my knowledge the only 'gun writer' to publicly call the
'Dirty Harry' movies stupid for the inane way they portray firearms
use. He is an expert shooter, and has written training manuals for
police and civilians on firearms and other weapons. His school in
New Hampshire, Lethal Force Institute, teaches safe use of firearms
to numerous civilians. He does *NOT* recommend a gun for everybody.
He is not of the "learn to use this and you"ll be perfectly safe" 
school of firearms use. Nor does he simply recommend "get a Doberman"
or "study kung-fu". Self defense is a combination of techniques
starting with passive systems such as burglar alarms and good locks,
and escalating to techniques which may cause death or crippling 
injury to an opponent.

From the introduction : "Neither I nor Bantam Books takes the position
that citizens should violently fight back against criminal depradation.
That should be the individual's decision, the individual's option. 
However, you dont have that option until you know how to resist with
maximum force and maximum safety to yourself."

218.11re .9SPMFG1::CHARBONNDWhat a pitcher!Thu Dec 17 1987 10:203
    .10 was not posted in re.9 . It is legal to carry a gun in Mass.
    after obtaining the necessary license. See your local police to
    get details. Dana
218.12Guns for protection?CVG::THOMPSONQuestion realityFri Feb 26 1988 17:1559
	I think this deserves more attention from women then it was
    getting in the conference I found it it. (The author of that note
    gave me permission to copy it here.)
    
    			Alfred
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This letter appeared in the Feb. 24, 1988 San Jose Mercury News, on the
Letters page.  Accompaning the letter is a drawing of a beaten and
bleeding woman backed into a corner; A revolver is shown suspended in the
air in front of her -- appearently pointed at her attacker (drawing by
Gary Viskupic -- Newsday).

Background:  Laura Black had been harrassed for years by Richard Wade
Farley. She moved several times.  He was fired from ESL in Sunnyvale ~two
years ago for harrassing Black.  The day that a restraining order was to
be filed against him, he *allegedly* shot his way into ESL, killed SEVEN
people, wonded more -- including Miss. Black.

		[ without permission ]

	Fighting back is victim's best defense


Last week's shootings at the ESL plant in Sunnyvale will undoubtedly bring
the usual clamor for harsher laws against the possession of firearms.
Dispite the fact that Richard Wade Farley allegedly killed his victims
with a shotgun, this new spat of anti-gun invective will probably focus as
usual on the handgun.

Ignoring the testimony of numerous criminologists who will maintain that
gun control laws will not keep firearms out of the hands of men described
as "aggressive, violent," and utterly determined to get their way, handgun
critics will call for another statewide gun control initive like that
rejected by voters in 1982.  But the concerned citizen who finds such
retoric appealing should stop for a moment to consider what would have
happened if the object of Farley's violent attentions had been armed.

Laura Black's situation is not unique.  Millions of women live in fear of
being victimized by male suitors, ex-lovers and strangers.  Police do not
have the resources to provide bodyguards, and it is physically inpossible
for them to be there immediately when a woman's life is threatened.  As
Sue Martin, planning director for San Francisco's Family Violence Project
told reporters after the tragety, "If someone wants to kill you, a
restraining order is just a piece of paper."  Women harassed for years as
Black was have two alternatives: resign themselves to being victimized or
carry a gun.

Anti-gun activists clame to be motivated by compassion, but surely the
most compassionate advice one could give a woman facing Black's
predicament is "buy a gun."

When are people going to learn that the best guarantee against
victimization is the potential victim's willingness to fight back?


	- Cheri Montagu
	  San Francisco

218.13query for infoLEZAH::BOBBITTTea in the Sahara with you...Fri Feb 26 1988 18:2210
    Recently, a woman was sexually assaulted in a dormitory at a college
    near where I live.  The campus is overhauling its dormitory security,
    providing escorts home, etc...but I was wondering...is there any
    program that goes to colleges (and/or high schools) that could teach
    women what to do in a situation like that, and what NOT to do?
    
    any info welcome...
    
    -Jody
    
218.14SEDJAR::THIBAULTIt's only a simulation, it's only a simulation..Fri Feb 26 1988 18:4610
For what it's worth, The Manchester (NH) Police Dept and The Manchester
Union are sponsoring a self-defense program for women in the spring
some time. They ran the program a few months ago and had such a response
that they're going to do it again. I don't know the exact dates but I'm 
planning to go to the next one when I find out when it is. The way I
understand it, the program is divided up in 3 parts. There's a lecture,
a session on self-defense techniques, and an (optional) session on the
use of firearms.

Jenna
218.1519358::CHARBONNDWhat a pitcher!Mon Feb 29 1988 11:034
    Unfortunately, federal law absolutely forbids carrying firearms
    on a college campus, except by police whose presence has been 
    requested by campus officials. Dorm dwellers may not arm themselves.
    
218.16Stun Gun.ENGINE::FRASERWed Jun 08 1988 16:0825
        A couple of days  ago,  I saw an advert on TV for a 'stun gun'.
        The  ad  was  specifically  for   women  and  included  several
        demonstrations of the device, including it's  use by the police
        (over 40 forces claimed), and by two  women  being  attacked by
        volunteers.   The device appears to work successfully,  as  one
        guy who was zapped through a heavy leather jacket just couldn't
        get up off the floor after a touch at stomach level!
        
        The device is sold as being completely legal throughout the U.S
        and is money-back guaranteed.  It's about  the  size  of  a  TV
        remote  control  (about  6"x3")  and easily purse/pocket sized.
        Cost  is  $79.95  +  $5.00 s+h.  which includes  a  heavy  duty
        rechargeable  battery pack, charger and the gun - order details
        follow:-

                
                              NOVA XR 5000 Stun Gun
        
                                  PO BOX 2503,
        
                                    MISSION,
        
                                  KANSAS 66201.
        
        or call:  1-800-334-6900 to order.
218.17ownership <> use!ANGORA::BUSHEELiving on Blues PowerWed Jun 08 1988 16:378
    
    	RE: .16
    
    	While the stun gun may be legal, using it could end you in
    	alot of trouble. Say the person you used it on had a bad
    	heart and died of an heart attack. You'd end up with charges
    	being brought against you. You can own a knife, no problem,
    	but it's use is another matter.
218.18ENGINE::FRASERWed Jun 08 1988 17:0114
        Re: .17,
        
        I accept that, George, but in a life-threatening situation, I'd
        sooner my wife was able to take some kind of action rather than
        having no choice.   Self  defence  is legal against main force,
        and should an assailant die  in  the  process  of  an attack, I
        don't think there's a court in  the  land  that  would convict.
        (I'm probably wrong on the last point, but I'd sooner the woman
        was alive rather than the rapist!)
        
        Regards,
        
        Andy.
        
218.19What if the attacker "stuns" you?PSYCHE::SULLIVANRightfully ProudWed Jun 08 1988 17:358
    
    However it should be pointed out that a weapon you carry may be
    used against you.  I plan to attend the model mugging class where
    I hope to learn to defend myself.  I personally would rather depend
    on my own strength to get me out of trouble than my ability to
    fumble for and then properly operate some "gizmo"...
                                                     
    Justine
218.20SUPER::HENDRICKSThe only way out is throughWed Jun 08 1988 18:472
    I shudder to think that the potential rapist can procure and use
    a stun gun against his victim...
218.21ANGORA::BUSHEELiving on Blues PowerWed Jun 08 1988 18:487
    
    	Also worth noting is the premise of having the device on
    	your person. Simply stated it means if you use deadly force
    	to protect yourself during an attack is one thing, but being
    	armed before hand makes it another matter. I would think a
    	course in self-defense such as mentioned in .19 would be
    	a much wiser choice over any type of weapon.
218.22SPMFG1::CHARBONNDgeneric personal nameThu Jun 09 1988 10:2513
    a) if your opponent is close enough to use the stun gun against
       him, he's too close to be drawing a weapon.
    
    b) if he's not that close, he will see the weapon and may
       attempt to disarm you. In this case, you can't stop him from
       closing the distance between you. (And many criminals are
       expert at disarming victims. They practice such techniques
       in jails.)

    For these reasons, a combination of unarmed and remote defenses
    is superior to the stun gun.

    Dana
218.23don't bother...CSSE32::PHILPOTTThe ColonelThu Jun 09 1988 16:0832
218.24ENGINE::FRASERThu Jun 09 1988 17:3013
        Re: .last few,
        
        Don't shoot the messenger! :*)
        
        I'm not  connected  with  this  company  in any way and I'm not
        advocating that every  woman  should have one.  The information
        was presented as a source for this device in the same spirit as
        if I had seen advertised a self-defence course specifically for
        women - ie.  here is  some  information that might be useful to
        someone, use it if you wish.
        
        Andy.
        
218.25check your local bookstall for others...CSSE32::PHILPOTTThe ColonelThu Jun 09 1988 18:0024
       I meant nothing personal by my remarks - apologies if it were
       taken that way. I consider these things *very* dangerous,
       regardless of the legalities.

       I saw a 30 minute commercial for these things a few weeks back
       (it was run at 3 in the morning on one of the cable channels - I
       am an insomniac :-) and remember thinking that I should find
       somebody to complain to about this sort of dangerous programming
       (the tone made it appear that the program was a documentary on a
       new and viable defensive tool, rather than what it was - a fully
       paid for commercial for the Nova 5000). At one time such programs
       were banned under FCC regulations, and I for one regret that the
       rule was ever rescinded.

       Incidentally a lot of the places that sell combat knives, camping
       gear et al that advertise in the likes of "Soldier of Fortune"
       magazine carry these, and more powerful, stun "guns" (a few even
       sell Tazers - the Tazer is the same idea but looks like a gun -
       it fires a dart attached to a length of wire - once you have your
       assailant hooked up on the dart you pull the voltage trigger and
       zap him...)

       /. Ian .\
218.26more on stun gunsGNUVAX::BOBBITTMy shoes are...on top of the worldThu Jun 09 1988 21:1510
    about stun guns - I read somewhere (or perhaps heard it on the news)
    that they were re-wording a law somewhere in Great Britain to state it
    is illegal to "carry a gun which emits or discharges a dangerous...",
    rather than just plain "carry a gun", because thieves were stunning
    their victims with the stun gun and then relieving them of their
    personal belongings while they were helpless.
    
    -Jody
     
    
218.27CSSE32::PHILPOTTThe ColonelFri Jun 10 1988 14:3915
       I haven't seen that, but am not surprised if it is true...
       British law has for over a century differentiated between crimes
       in which the criminal does not carry a firearm and those in which
       [s]he does. However Stun Guns were invented somewhat after the
       law was written. Low powered ones are considered undesirable
       curiosities that can get you charged with carrying a dangerous
       weapon (but then carrying a pen knife can do that). High powered
       stun devices are classified as "Class III weapons" ie not
       availably legally to anybody without a suitable Home Office
       issued licence (not even the local cops can issue these licences
       - they are the equivalent of the BATF licences issued by the
       Federal Authorities in America for possesion of machine guns)

       /. Ian .\