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Conference taveng::bagels

Title:BAGELS and other things of Jewish interest
Notice:1.0 policy, 280.0 directory, 32.0 registration
Moderator:SMURF::FENSTER
Created:Mon Feb 03 1986
Last Modified:Thu Jun 05 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1524
Total number of notes:18709

807.0. "my reply to JGilon" by TAZRAT::CHERSON (labouring under an assumption) Wed Oct 18 1989 16:12

I've read JGilan's replies and the subsequent replies, and I felt that I would
like to reply also, but in due time.  Now's the time.

I've been on both sides of the American Jew/Israeli Jew (or who's doing their 
share, etc.) question.  I'm both American and Israeli.  I've suffered along 
with Israeli youths in Zahal, running in circles in training camps, and all 
that "good stuff".  I helped build a new kibbutz in the Arava, my lower back 
pains are a constant physical reminder of that era.

I can remember one day when I was in one of my usual bent-over positions when 
a busload of "American machers" came by.  They all got off the bus and were 
admiring how hard we were all working to make the desert bloom and all that 
crap.  They asked me how life was and I said it was great, why don't you join 
me?  Of course I was swearing at them under my breath, 
calling them all sorts of names.  Well they climbed back on board their nice, 
luxurious bus (better than Egged) and went on their way to Eilat.

But now that I am back here I don't know what is right.  Sure, you can make 
people feel guilty for living the "good life", while Israelis are up beyond 
their eyeballs in debt (hmm, I'm living that way in the Galut!), spending 
more than a month in Zahal's "country club/resort", etc.  But what is right?  
Alan Goldman probably summed it up correctly in his reply everybody does what 
they can or will do.  People like Hillel Hankin, who wrote "Letters to an 
American Friend", routinely pester American Jews to make aliyah.  Of course 
what you don't see is that people like Hankin probably get $$$ from Abba and 
Ima in that awful Galut.  (Now that will fire up your Zionist passions!)

My advice to American Jews is that, yes you should consider Aliyah because 
ultimately it's you that make the difference not your checks, money dries up. 
However I also wouldn't advise anybody to make anything but FAMILY aliyah.  
Take it from me, being in Israel without mishpachah sucks eggs, particularly 
on Shabbat.  And adopted families are not the same, not by a long shot.

I don't know where JGilan lives or works in this company, his node doesn't 
seem to be in TAVland.  You can "haack" the readers of this conference until 
you're blue in the face, but that is THE wrong approach.  The gibor act 
doesn't play here anymore, how can it with over 500,000 yordim resident here.

--David 
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807.1I'm still here...SMVDV1::JGILONThu Oct 19 1989 16:049
Thx for responding and escalating up the all issue (I think I had the 
"chootzpa" enough to start with it).
I would like to answer your questions and to clarify where I'm coming from
and about some of my thoughts (I was trying to concentrate on some kind of 
facts in my previous responses), but I don't have the time right know.
So please, stay tuned . 

             Jacob
    
807.2A reply to a replySMVDV1::JGILONMon Oct 23 1989 14:04101
Thx for waiting (if at all).
I would like to start my response by the stating that I wasn't and am not 
trying to be any "shaliach alia" (or "shaliach yerida") or trying to tell 
anyone what's right or wrong or should he be doing .

I was responding (may be a little bit too aggressively) to a reply about the
relationship between Israel and growing antisemitism in USA and by that
attempting to focus on some of the basic issues that according to my opinion
should upset or at least concern any Jew whether he is in "TAVland" , "Uncle
Sam land" or somewhere else.

I'm not sure that my personnel history has anything to do with the current 
discussion, but in order to satisfy the curiosity of some of the readers (at
least those who responded to me) I will talk to it at the end my reply.  

If you don't mind I would like to elaborate on some of the issues from a
different and may be more broader prospective.

The following are some important facts about the current Jewish world:

 o We are now almost 100 years after the first Zionist congress,45 years after
   the holocaust, and 41 years after the foundation of ISRAEL, 

 o less then 30% of the Jewish people lives in Israel (more then half of them
   are from Sepharadic origin), Aprox 5-6 Mil lives in U.S (most of them from
   European origin), around 2-2.5 lives in Russia and 1 to 1.5 million
   elsewhere in the world.

 o Most of the Jews are nonreligious -- by that I mean unorthodox because I
   think that the Conservatives Reforms and "Seculars" are in the same 
   category, all of them don't follow the "Halacha" and are subject to 
   assimilation -- and there is a growing assimilation among those who lives
   in the Diaspora (according to one statistic that I read  50% of the
   college graduates in the US intermarry).
   Some people call this process the second Holocaust and predict that the
   Jewish people will decreased by 2-3 Mill. within the next two decades.

 o The Jewish community in Israel has been struggling for its survival during
   the last 70 Years! it is almost four generations in a row (see my personnel
   background later on) and there is no solution to this struggle in the 
   foreseeable future. 

 o If we include the so called "Occupied Territories" within Israel (and they
   are at least De Facto within), since 1984 there are more new born Arab
   children then Jewish and within 20 to 30 thirty years the population within
   the "Great Israel" territory  will consist of almost 50% Arabs(assuming
   that the current rate of "alia" and "yerida" will persist).
 
 o There are much more "yordim" from Israel to America than "olim" on the
   opposite direction . According to one article that I have read in an Israeli
   paper most of the "yordim" in the recent years are "secular" and well
   educated and most of the "olim" are religious (and probably as well educated).
   
 o Around 90% of the Jews who leave Russia prefer to immigrate to 
   America rather than to Israel.  

 o There is growing Antisemitism in the Diaspora including in the birthplace of
   modern Democracy and even in relatively liberal and tolerant state such as
   Massachusetts.

What all of these mean? I am really not sure, maybe I have stressed the "half 
empty glass but this I think is the more important one for the purpose of this
discussion, and may maybe I wasn't 100% accurate about my figures, but it
doesn't change the big picture.
One thing is almost certain to me - the "Jewish Dilemma"  still exist, acute,
painful, and very complicated for those who choose to remain Jews.

I wish I were orthodox and as such have answers to most of "my Jewish
dilemmas" (they always have some explanation for everything) but as you probably
understand, I am not, such are the majority of the Jewish people. 

What I would really hope is that every one will be able to make his own
"heshbon nefesh" and determine what is the right thing to do  (I have already
done mine and for the time being wouldn't like to share it with the readers of
this conference).

As I've promised before here is in short some highlights of my family 
background:

I'm an Israeli citizen who lives now in the US (I'm not a permanent resident or
in the "process", but have lived here all together almost 5 years within the
last decade).

I'm a seven generations Israeli born (from my father side). My Grandfather was
born in the old city of Jerusalem and was killed with one of his sons 
while serving in the 'Hagana" (which he joined in 1921) during the battle
on Jerusalem in 1948 (his other son was killed serving in the American
army during WW II). My father who was born in "Mea Shearim" joined the
"Hagana" when he was 16 year old and is still serving in the Border Police 
(at the age of 66).
I served 12 years (not as a Pilot) of full service at the Israeli Air Force
and 5 years in the reserves. 
My oldest son might join the IDF within 4 Years.
My wife is a daughter of Holocaust survivors.

Again, I'm not not trying to play the "Gibor" (the lines between brave, naive
and stupid is some time very vague), and may be this is not a typical history
of an Israeli Jewish Family but there are many like this.

    Jacob
         
807.3(restate the obvious)+(mix with demagoguery)=GIGOTALLIS::GOYKHMANNostalgia ain't what it used to beMon Oct 23 1989 14:465
    	Besides the fact that the "Jewish Dilemma" exists, the
    interesting personal life, and the compilation of questionable facts
    and even more dubious assumptions, so what?
    
    DG
807.4ok and...TAZRAT::CHERSONlabouring under an assumptionMon Oct 23 1989 16:3775
>Thx for waiting (if at all).
>I would like to start my response by the stating that I wasn't and am not 
>trying to be any "shaliach alia" (or "shaliach yerida") or trying to tell 
>anyone what's right or wrong or should he be doing .

Why not?  You would probably do a better job at shlichut than those that are 
sent over here for a two-three year "hofesh".

>I was responding (may be a little bit too aggressively) to a reply about the
>relationship between Israel and growing antisemitism in USA and by that
>attempting to focus on some of the basic issues that according to my opinion
>should upset or at least concern any Jew whether he is in "TAVland" , "Uncle
>Sam land" or somewhere else.

You don't have to apologize for your "aggresiveness", I understand it more 
than you think.

>The following are some important facts about the current Jewish world:

 o We are now almost 100 years after the first Zionist congress,45 years after
   the holocaust, and 41 years after the foundation of ISRAEL, 

 o less then 30% of the Jewish people lives in Israel (more then half of them
   are from Sepharadic origin), Aprox 5-6 Mil lives in U.S (most of them from
   European origin), around 2-2.5 lives in Russia and 1 to 1.5 million
   elsewhere in the world.

>>I hope that we are not looking for an "Ashkenazi balance in population".

 o Most of the Jews are nonreligious -- by that I mean unorthodox because I
   think that the Conservatives Reforms and "Seculars" are in the same 
   category, all of them don't follow the "Halacha" and are subject to 
   assimilation -- and there is a growing assimilation among those who lives
   in the Diaspora (according to one statistic that I read  50% of the
   college graduates in the US intermarry).
   Some people call this process the second Holocaust and predict that the
   Jewish people will decreased by 2-3 Mill. within the next two decades.

>>I always like to refer to it as the "silent holocaust".  It's not fair to 
lump Conservative, Reform, and secular in the same boat.  I don't want to 
open up the old rathole topic again, but Conservatives and most Reform Jews 
are not planning any cooperation in the Jewish community's demise.

> oIf we include the so called "Occupied Territories" within Israel (and they
   are at least De Facto within), since 1984 there are more new born Arab
   children then Jewish and within 20 to 30 thirty years the population within
   the "Great Israel" territory  will consist of almost 50% Arabs(assuming
   that the current rate of "alia" and "yerida" will persist).
 
Just for the sake of statistics let's not include the territories.  We 
already know the potential there for out-populating Jews.

> oThere are much more "yordim" from Israel to America than "olim" on the
   opposite direction . According to one article that I have read in an Israeli
   paper most of the "yordim" in the recent years are "secular" and well
   educated and most of the "olim" are religious (and probably as well educated).

I have seen a strange trend lately in that more religious yordim seem to be 
appearing on the scene.  It used to be assumed that datiim wouldn't leave 
because of lack of facilities for their lifestyle, but that seems to have 
changed.
   
> oAround 90% of the Jews who leave Russia prefer to immigrate to 
   America rather than to Israel.  

Wrong note for this discussion.

> oThere is growing Antisemitism in the Diaspora including in the birthplace of
   modern Democracy and even in relatively liberal and tolerant state such as
   Massachusetts.

True, there may be more isolated incidents these days, but you will never 
find any organized anti-semitism in the U.S.

--David
807.5SMVDV1::JGILONTue Oct 24 1989 15:5164
Re .3
>  Besides the fact that the "Jewish Dilemma" exists, the
>    interesting personal life, and the compilation of questionable facts
>    and even more dubious assumptions, so what?
    
>>I think that the  difference between .3 and .4 reflects the difference between
  those who experienced the "Israeli experience" the hard way and those who
  experienced it through the network, and may be there are some other basic
  differences. I don't know you DG and I prefer not to argue with E-MAIL node. 

Re .4
>Why not?  You would probably do a better job at shlichut than those that are 
>sent over here for a two-three year "hofesh".

>>Thx for the compliment but I probably don't belong right now the the right
  party.

>I hope that we are not looking for an "Ashkenazi balance in population".

>> I will try to ward it "kindly" like this: In my opinion the fact that
   the Sephradic are the majority in Israel, helps to maintain a political
   environment in which the right wing has the control.  This will probably
   might lead to a situation in which the Arab population will outnumber 
   the Jewish within few years.

>I always like to refer to it as the "silent holocaust".  It's not fair to 
 lump Conservative, Reform, and secular in the same boat.  I don't want to 
 open up the old rathole topic again, but Conservatives and most Reform Jews 
 are not planning any cooperation in the Jewish community's demise.

>> I'm sure that they are not planning to, but they are very Vulnerable
   much much more than the Orthodox.
 
>Just for the sake of statistics let's not include the territories.  We 
 already know the potential there for out-populating Jews.

>>See my reply about the "Ashkenazim and Sepharadim".


>I have seen a strange trend lately in that more religious yordim seem to be 
 appearing on the scene.  It used to be assumed that datiim wouldn't leave 
 because of lack of facilities for their lifestyle, but that seems to have 
 changed.

>>that's interesting and is not what is told in Israel.   

> oAround 90% of the Jews who leave Russia prefer to immigrate to 
   America rather than to Israel.  
>Wrong note for this discussion.

>> I think it belongs because it shows once again that the American Jewish 
   community is competing very successfully with Israel on the rare
   resources of the World Jews (except for the Ethiopians Jews).

>True, there may be more isolated incidents these days, but you will never 
 find any organized anti-Semitism in the U.S.

>> It is probably true, but in my opinion anti-Semitism is an integral element
   of western civilization and just for the sake of argument what do think
   will happen if someone like Jessy Jackson will be elected 
   ( it is not Hypothetical case, and I know that "many of his best friends
    are Jews")

 Jacob
807.6HPSRAD::KIRKMatt Kirk -- 297-6370Tue Oct 24 1989 15:5310
re -.1

>>True, there may be more isolated incidents these days, but you will never 
>>find any organized anti-semitism in the U.S.

What kind do you mean?  There are a number of anti-semitic (organized) groups
roaming about.  True, most of them are not solely anti-semitic (anti-everyone-
but-themselves, for the most part).

Examples include the KKK, the Aryan Nation-style organizations, etc.
807.7How are you specifying the databaseMELTIN::dickGvriel::SchoellerTue Oct 24 1989 17:1912
David,

>>True, there may be more isolated incidents these days, but you will never 
>>find any organized anti-semitism in the U.S.

I think a better way to state this is there are few organized anti-semitic
organizations in the US and there power is far less than their numbers
would indicate.  In other words, the open, organized anti-semites are in
the "lunatic fringe".

L'hit,
Gavriel
807.8I would rather pool insights, than argue themTALLIS::GOYKHMANNostalgia ain't what it used to beTue Oct 24 1989 17:2315
    	I have to apologize, my .3  reply to JGilon is quite rude. I
    actually meant to express something like an impatience - I didn't
    really see a statement of position in .2, and it was intended more
    like a "Nu, what do you mean to say?"
    	Having said that, I have a different perspective on the three
    main legs of today's Jewry. I grew up in Russia, immigrated to US,
    have been to Israel, and my wife is an Israeli. I also try to follow
    the news and politics closely in all three societies ( to the best
    of my meager ability :-). Thus, I don't think my opinions on the
    overall picture are any less valid than anyone else's. While you,
    JGilon, are clearly much more of an expert on Israel than I could
    ever hope to be, I am not sure you can see the rest of world Jewry
    quite as clearly as a Diaspora Jew...
    
    DG
807.9I'm not an expert, just a thinking ordinary manSMVDV1::JGILONTue Oct 24 1989 18:4513
Re : .8
>   like a "Nu, what do you mean to say?"
>   ever hope to be, I am not sure you can see the rest of world Jewry
    quite as clearly as a Diaspora Jew...
    
Thx for clarifieng where you come from, I think it makes a significant 
difference, anyhow I left the "NU" for open discussion deliberately also
because of the fact that you might be right and I don't fully understand the
world Jewry and the Diaspora Jew . I'm making an effort to understand it
(from a close distance) for almost five years (not in a row) but I'm
probably not an expert and I will be happy if someone will help me (truly).

Jacob