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Title:Celt Notefile
Moderator:TALLIS::DARCY
Created:Wed Feb 19 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jun 03 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1632
Total number of notes:20523

453.0. "WE WANT AN IRISH WEDDING!!!" by DPDMAI::GRIFFITH () Fri Oct 21 1988 16:49

    We are trying to hold a traditional Irish wedding and need any/all
    information regarding traditions, i.e.; wedding dress, attendants,
    songs, wedding vow verbage, reception food, wedding cakes, rings,
    and customs/rituals involved.  We would appreciate any assistance
    or reference to literature to get us started!  Best regards!!     
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453.1An American viewDECEAT::DARCYAbolish Section 31Fri Oct 21 1988 18:4425
    A couple of differences (between typical American weddings) include:
    
    1) Groom reading congratulations and wishes of people not in
    attendance at reception.
    
    2) ALL ushers giving a little roast to the groom (and bride).
    
    3) Good food.
    
    4) A dance after the reception where whole town is invited,
    well it seemed like it :-)
    
    5) A picture after the wedding ceremony, outside the church,
    of the whole lot in attendance.
    
    6) More good food.
    
    7) The rush of the bride and groom after they decide to leave reception
    (there must be a word for it but I don't know it)
    
    8) Coming of the hall and seeing the sun
    
    
    These may be peculiar to Cork, but Corkonians are noted for
    their "uniqueness".   [Nothing from the Clare crowd now]
453.2 You forget to mention the DRINK ;-) GAOV08::DKEATINGRoamin' Cadillac Church SAVESMon Oct 24 1988 08:541
    
453.3Thanks for the info!DPDMAI::GRIFFITHMon Oct 24 1988 13:007
    Thanks for the vital info - we can come up with the drink - half
    & halfs, Irish Coffee & Bushmills...noooo problem!
    
    Regards...Chris
    
    P.S.  What about the wedding vows?
    
453.4Blaccchhhh!CSG::ONEILLIts a LONG way to Tipperary...Mon Oct 24 1988 15:4225
    
    
    	Seems to me like there is a STANDARD wedding menu - ALL the
    	weddings I have been to at home had the following (with only
    	Minor variations).  I wonder where the popularity of (Honeydew)
    	Melon came from for socials/weddings etc.?  Its not as if the
    	Irish Population were exactly brought up on Melon! ;-)
    
    	MELON to start 
    
    	MUSHROOM soup
    
    	TURKEY and HAM, ROAST POTATO, MASHED POTATO, BRUSSEL SPROUTS
    	and CARROTS
    
    	SHERRY TRIFLE
    
    	COFFEE and WEDDING CAKE
    
    	Trad. Irish wedding cakes are very rich fruit cakes (laced with
    	whiskey or brandy) 3 tiers each one iced with a layer of Almond Icing 
	(Marzipan) covered with a layer of HARD sugar icing...everyone
        gets a MORSEL with coffee.
    
    	Ann
453.5The most important part of the mealVIDEO::FARRELLThe Hacker. DTN 235-8164Mon Oct 24 1988 18:5025
Re: .4
    
>>    	COFFEE and WEDDING CAKE
    
>>    	Trad. Irish wedding cakes are very rich fruit cakes (laced with
>>    	whiskey or brandy) 3 tiers each one iced with a layer of Almond Icing 
>>	(Marzipan) covered with a layer of HARD sugar icing...everyone
>>      gets a MORSEL with coffee.
    

The way it is with the wedding cakes, you either love them or hate them. (Hmmm,
bit like your spouse I suppose  :-) ).  Anyway, I've made about 6 of these for
myself and for friends.  If you want a recipe, I can dig mine out for you.

Two points.  They're best when:

A)  Made about 3+ months before the event.

B)  Made with lots of uisce beatha.  (Sort of cleanses any problems caused by
    A above.  :-) )


Good luck, and don't forget to enjoy yourselves.

453.6WELL laced!CSG001::ONEILLIts a LONG way to Tipperary...Tue Oct 25 1988 14:1911
    
    
    	Where I come from the BEST wedding cakes are those made with
    	POTEEN !!!  Last wedding I was at the cake was made about a
        year before it was iced, left for about 2 months after icing
        and STANK of poteen - best cake Ive ever eaten!  8-}
    
    	
    
    	Ann
    
453.7minute-rice?DECEAT::DARCYAbolish Section 31Tue Oct 25 1988 15:073
    My grandfather used to make fruit cake in September for December.
    He used to mix up all the ingrediants into a ball, wrap them in
    a towel and put it in the basement for three months.  Potent stuff.
453.8Secrets of the Master baker :-) VIDEO::FARRELLThe Hacker. DTN 235-8164Tue Oct 25 1988 15:2017
453.9101 uses....!CSG::ONEILLIts a LONG way to Tipperary...Wed Oct 26 1988 15:0915
453.10A Yank's two cents worthAIAG::GAVINThu Oct 27 1988 12:5022
    Unfortunately I have never been to a wedding in Ireland, but here
    are a couple traditional (or should I say medieval) suggestions:
    
    1) The ring.  The Claddagh ring is traditionally a friendship/
    engagement/wedding ring.  Alternatively, my brother-in-law has a
    gold band engraved with shamrocks all around (it looks better than
    it sounds).
    
    2) The toast.  How about Mead instead of Champagne?  It's pretty
    sweet, but you probably won't be drinking too much of it anyway.
    According to the label on my bottle of Bunratty Mead:
    
    "Mead is believed to have powers of fertility and virility.  The
    bride and groom at mediaeval weddings drank mead for one full moon
    after their wedding - hence the term honeymoon, still used today."
    
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    Regardless of how you do it, congratulations and have a wonderful
    wedding!
    
    Michael
    
453.11Piper?MAMTS1::JDEMARIAThu Oct 27 1988 19:234
    How about a piper at the church.  It could set a very nice mood.
    
    Good Luck!!
    
453.12The video is great tooAUSTIN::OREILLYStout in Austin?Thu Oct 27 1988 19:557
    We had the Dallas Girls Choir sing The Irish Blessing and other
    songs.  They perform for a donation and the high pitched voices
    echoing through the church were incredible.  We also a four brass
    ensemble.  The priest said a wonderful Irish prayer at the end of
    the ceremony.
    
    JO'R