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Title: Weight Loss and Maintenance
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Moderator:ASICS::LESLIE
Created:Tue Jul 10 1990
Last Modified:Tue Jun 03 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:933
Total number of notes:9931

887.0. "Need willpower and incentives" by POLAR::ROBERTSON () Tue May 16 1995 18:17

    
    Help!
    
    I need some incentive from someone who has been thru or going thru this
    dilema.  
    
    I would like to loose about 30 pounds, but I can't seem to get the
    willpower to do so.
    
    I exercise a lot during the week such as roller blading, skating,
    aerobics, etc., but have a hard time keeping my willpower with giving
    up the good foods in life.
    
    I find that if my day is stressful or upsetting in any kind of way, the
    first thing I'll grab is chocolate to make me feel better.  
    
    I also find that when I say 30 pounds it feels like it's going to take
    me forever to get if off.  I find myself getting very discouraged.
    
    I am sort of nervous about being this 30 pounds lighter because I
    haven't been there for at least 10 years.  
    
    I don't like myself at this weight and I know I have to get if off. 
    
    I would like to know if there's anyone out there that feels the same
    way as I do and what can we do for some incentives to get started and
    stay on track.
    
    Thanks,
    
    Helpless
    
    
    
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887.1Here's what I did...STOWOA::NEWBERGTue May 16 1995 20:2748
    Dear Helpless (I sound like Ann Landers!),
    
    I understand what you are going through. It took me about 7 years from
    the time I hated my weight until the time I was committed to doing
    something about it. I was scared because I never had a goal of any kind
    in my life and I had no idea if I could make it. What got me moving was
    seeing several people at work go through the WW@W program and come out
    several sizes smaller. It was several cycles of the program after that
    until I actually signed up. It turned out to be the best thing I ever
    did. I lost almost 30 pounds and it was too much and I had to put some
    back on. I have been fluctuating a few pounds either way, but have
    generally maintained for 5 years.
    
    Here's what it did for me...by going once a week it helped raise the
    priority in my mind. It educated me to an eating program that is proven
    to be successful and is easy to get back into if those few extra pounds
    show up again. It doesn't make you give up the foods you love and helps
    you fit them into your eating plan. It gives token rewards at 10 pound
    intervals.
    
    The last one is one of the better benefits, because you don't have to
    look at one weight loss of, say, 30 pounds, but a journey with 10 pound
    markers along the way.
    
    What you might want to do is go to one of these meetings and find out
    what the target weight range is for your height and bone structure. You
    may find that the high end of the range is actually a lot less than 30
    pounds away from your current weight. Once you get to the top of the
    range you can assess for yourself whether or not you want or need to
    continue to lose or to go onto a maintenance program.
    
    You could struggle along alone for a while longer or try a group 
    environment where there are people in similar situations, facing the
    same kinds of issues with varying degrees of success. I was always
    amazed at the insights of my fellow strugglers and I would file all the
    tricks and hints they provided. I still use them. 
    
    I found my old progress card the other day. I was amazed to see that I
    had lost 12 pounds in the first month and then averaged 1 pound a week
    after that. I even lost weight on maintenance! I couldn't wait to go to
    these meetings to see my progress. It was such a high. After that I
    felt I could do anything. I've done a lot with my life since then and
    food isn't nearly as important or pressing an issue as it used to be.
    
    Just my opinion and experience.
    
    Good luck!
    Amy
887.2NPSS::NPSS::BADGERCan DO!Thu May 18 1995 21:5427
    a couple other ideas:
    
    OA  for support and guidence.
    
    My wife and I  went to a hpnotist 3 wks ago.  She's lost 10lbs, I've
    lost 6inches on the waist.  We have a long road to go.
    
    In addition to hyposis, they first did a lecture on nutrition. 
    Outlined a plan.
    
    -NO sugar, NO artifical sugar, NO caffine, 20% fat or less. multiple
    smaller meals.  btw, we look at fat calories, not %fat on label.
    exercise.
    we listed our food enemies- those foods we really liked.  during the
    hyposis, a suggestion was left that we don't like those foods.
    
    It works.  It's the basics that everyone knows.  but this time it seems
    really easier.  I have no cravings for the bad foods, and there is no
    hunger.  This is a diet that we can really live on.
    
    this has become more a game, the focus has changed to planning and 
    preparation vs the actual eating be anti-climatic.
    other side benifits for us is the extra time to talk we have as we go 
    on nightly walks.
    
    ed
    
887.3Believe in yourselfPARVAX::BENNETTButterflyFri May 19 1995 19:5235
    Hi,
    
    I have to agree with .1.  
    
    I have always been a thin person and then after I turned 30 the weight
    slowly caught up with me.  I wasn't overweight on their scale but I was
    20 lbs overweight to me and my husband.  It got to the point that I
    didn't like to change my close because I felt fat!  I couldn't stand
    the feeling of wearing jeans because I felt fat!  My self esteem was
    lower and last summer I hated wearing a bathing suit without shorts
    because I felt fat!  
    
    Finally, I was sick of feeling fat!  On New Years I made a resolution
    to lose the weight.  I couldn't do it on my own, I thought that if I
    snuck food when people weren't looking then it didn't count.  I also
    thought that by just walking the fat would come off.
    
    In Feb.  I decided to joing Weight Watchers and see what it was all
    about.  I was real surprised and embarrassed that I really never
    learned about nutrition and portion control.  I enjoyed going to the
    meetings not only see my success but to learn more about nutrition.
    After about 4 weeks I got my 10 lb ribbon and I was thrilled.  Not only
    was I learning how to eat, losing weight, but my health resistance
    improved.  People would catch colds and I would not catch them.  I felt
    good!
    
    Well, I am now down those 20 lbs and I feel great.
    
    The incentive that you need is your self esteem!  If your self esteem
    is low just try WW and I can guarentee that you will feel great
    physically and mentally.
    
    Good luck,
    Bethany
    
887.4Herbal Energizer to the rescue!USAT05::BELLCTue May 23 1995 00:3615
    Hi,
    
    
    My mother went to a hypnotist to quit smoking, and it was successful
    for approx a month.  Don't waste your time or money on a hypnotist. 
    
    However, on a different note, I use to be a chronic junk food eater,
    and through the Herbal Energizer product, my appetite has curbed
    drastically.  I went down from a size 10 to a size 6.  And I like
    it becaue its all natural (11 herbs and 1 mineral...see note 882.19
    for ingredients.)
    
    Hope that helps
    
    CB
887.5more?SUBSYS::ARMSTRONGsort of cast in concreteWed May 24 1995 01:399
    Cheryl,
    
    I tried to mail you, but can't get thru.
    
    Can you tell me more about this? Where can I get it? Have you kept you
    loss? Please mail me off-line.
    
    Thanks,
    ~Beth
887.6it can workNPSS::ICANDO::BADGERCan DO!Wed May 24 1995 21:3616
    re .4,  don't discount the hypnostist just because it didn't work for
    one person.  It's no magic cureall or magic pill.  You still have to
    work and WANT it.  and, the suggestions by the hypnotist do wear off, 
    and need to be 'recharged'.  We were supplied a tape to use 4*week for
    'recharging'.
    I an not a hypnostist, nor do I sell the services.
    in three weeks I've lost over 6 inches, the wife over ten pounds.
    we're happy, feeling good.
    
    one of the little things we gave up was diet Coke.  We went through 2
    cases a week.  since it has caffine and artifical sweeteners, it was on
    our NO list.  The night we returned from the session, my wife went to
    get a can by habit, and the first sips made her sick.  we haven't
    touched a can since, nor have any desire.
    ed
    
887.7Going well with WWPOLAR::ROBERTSONThu Jun 08 1995 01:0714
    Just wanted to let you know that things are going well now for me.  I
    signed up for Weight Watchers a couple of weeks ago on the fat and
    fiber plan.  I'm down 5 pounds now and I'm going to keep going.  For
    weeks and weeks of the struggle of wanting to lose weight, I finally made up
    my mind.  Instead of struggling and thinking about it all the time, it
    was time to do something about it.  So I did.  Thanks for all of your
    suggestions.  I feel alot better.
    
    Thanks,
    Hopeful instead of Helpless
    
    
    
    
887.8I heard a sigh of relief out thereSTOWOA::NEWBERGThu Jun 08 1995 18:4018
    Great news! Deciding to do it is sometimes the hardest part. 
    
    You may want to post your progress in the Progress conference.
    
    A word of caution about comparing notes about actual losses with other 
    WW people...since they have developed the two different plans some of
    the groups notice that those on the fat and fiber plan tend to lose
    slightly more slowly than those on the more structured plan. The reason
    is that, generally (and your mileage may vary) there are more calories
    involved when trying to reach the amount of recommended fiber,
    especially when using packaged foods like cereal. However, the success
    rate with the fat and fiber plan is pretty high because for some it is
    a more natural food plan than the exchange program.
    
    Remember, the slower you take it off, the higher the likelihood that
    you are actually changing your eating behaviors for life.
    
    Keep in touch and ask again if you feel like you're losing focus.
887.9ME, Too!MANM01::CABOTAJEMon Oct 30 1995 06:4814
    Hi,
    
    I am also one of the many who wanted to take off 20 pounds in me. I
    wanted to join the weight-watchers program but there's none here. Can I
    do it electronically? I am glad to have this conference. I suddenly
    found new friends whom I can share my hardships with. I am reading and
    learning from it.
    
    Yes, I agree that in order to lose weight needs will power,
    determination and support from others. I have the two but support, I
    don't get it. Sometimes I was even ridiculed. When I found your
    conference I felt I now have a team to join.
    
    Please let me know what I should do. Thanks and cheers!
887.10Welcome ...MARVIN::CROWLESeek not answers; live the questionsTue Oct 31 1995 15:3025
    Welcome!
    
    Yes, it's good to have some support.  Try not to let other people
    undermine your determination and will power!  People who don't want or
    need to lose any weight sometimes find it hard to understand the
    difficulties of those who do.  Even well-meaning friends can make
    demotivating remarks sometimes - like "Why are you dieting?  You look
    fine, you don't need to lose weight!"  Well, the scales and those
    tables of recommended weights and heights tell me otherwise.
    
    Can you join Weight Watchers electronically?  Not exactly, as far as I
    know.  There used to be a notesfile called PROGRESS, in which dieters
    would report from time to time on how they were getting on.  It was
    quite popular a few years ago, but then became less active and recently
    seems to have disappeared.  I guess if there were enough interest it
    could be restarted.
    
    If it's any help, I'm in roughly the same situation as you, with about
    18 pounds to lose.  I've lost 18 since last May, but just lately havn't
    quite gotten my act together to lose the rest.  It's so easy to slip
    back and give in to the old temptations!
    
    Good luck, drop by here from time to time, won't you?
    
    Brian