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Title: Weight Loss and Maintenance
Notice:**PLEASE** enter notes in mixed case (CAPS ARE SHOUTING)!
Moderator:ASICS::LESLIE
Created:Tue Jul 10 1990
Last Modified:Tue Jun 03 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:933
Total number of notes:9931

701.0. "The Holidays are Just Around The Corner" by TLE::DBANG::carroll (A woman full of fire) Wed Oct 30 1991 19:58

...any suggestions on dealing with a holiday that is centered around
eating (Thanksgiving?)

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701.1ASICS::LESLIEVMS:TNG - coming soonThu Oct 31 1991 16:043
    Plan carefully all your meals....including snacks.
    
    	- andy
701.2It can be done...CIVIC::WHALENMon Nov 04 1991 23:4311
    If you're on WW....
    
    Weigh everything, but save your floaters and optional calories
    for that day (not ALL of them, of course).  That way, we can all
    have small "treats", but still be on program (I know, easier said
    than done).
    
    What about Christmas?  That's the holiday I'm REALLY concerned
    about!
    
    Linda
701.3Plan, Relax, and EnjoyRANGER::PESENTIOnly messages can be draggedTue Nov 05 1991 14:5747
Spending calories around the holidays is not much different than spending money
around the holidays.  

You can save up for a while in advance.  Do this by eaqting less or exercising
more.  Not a lot, but just enough to make a difference.

You can also pay later.  Spend the rest of the weekend eating less and 
exercising more.  

If you are doing the cooking, and having a bunch of folks over, you can control
the menu.  When people ask what to bring, tell them "empty tupperware".  Then 
send those tempting leftovers home with them.

If you are visiting someone else, you won't have the control of the menu, but
you won't have the leftover problem.  To be polite, you can accept the right 
leftovers (turkey breast, etc.).  Also, don't be afraid to call in advance, and
ask the host or hostess if they might be able to provide you with some steamed
veggies without butter, or ask if they could go light on the butter, letting 
people add it at the table.

When the day arrives, have a plan ready.  Last year, mine was to have no more 
than 5 things on my plate for firsts, and no more than 3 for seconds.  The plate
had to be less than 50% covered with food (lots of plate showing thru) for
firsts, and less than 33% for seconds.  Much of what I had was only a heaping 
tablespoon sized serving.  I allowed myself the "forbidden foods" as I like to
call them (a small piece of turkey skin, dark meat, gravy).  

Have a support person sitting next to you, too.  They can help fend off the
tempting foods as they pass by, and if the food is served in portions too large,
they can help there, too.

Promise yourself to leave food, eat slow, talk a lot, and most of all, don't 
eat and listen at the same time when you are having a dialog with someone.  

When you are done, excuse yourself, and take a short walk by yourself.  It has
to be by yourself, so you can congratulate yourself.  Make it a brisk one.  When
you get back, you can get other folks to join you for a liesurely stroll.  

When dessert time rolls around, know in advance what you are going to have, and
stick to it.

The important thing is to enjoy the day, eat, but stay in control, and get back
to a normal controlled diet the next day.  And most of all DON'T guilt yourself!
You don't lose weight all in one day, and you won't put it all on in one day,
either!

				JP
701.4Oh yeah, I almost forgot...RANGER::PESENTIOnly messages can be draggedTue Nov 05 1991 14:584


    Drink enough water to drown a medium sized herd of yaks.
701.5LOOK AT PICTURES!MLCSSE::MAHONWed Nov 06 1991 22:205
    When I find myself wanting "BAD" food, I pull out pictures of
    women that impress me with their physiques.  Then, wooola, I
    don't want "BAD" food anymore.
    
    b
701.6CNTROL::JENNISONMicah 7:7-8Fri Nov 08 1991 23:2625
	I find the easiest thing for me is not to deprive myself
	of anything I want.

	I concentrate on taking small portions of the foods I want,
	even stuffing, and making sure that I'm not overloading my
	plate.  Many times I find at holiday meals, the food's just
	so good that even if I'm full, I work on cleaning my plate.

	The first year I consciously worked at taking smaller portions
	while still allowing myself the foods I desired, I actually
	left the Thanksgiving table 'comfortable' (vs. over-stuffed).

	I felt so *good* knowing that I had been good to myself,
	enjoying the day and the food, and had not overeaten.

	When desserts came around, I decided I could have the 
	equivalent of one small piece of pie.  I chose to have
	2 different pies, and had my mother-in-law cut my pieces
	to about 1/2" wedges.

	I had had enough to eat that I just wanted a taste of the pies
	anyway.

	Karen
701.7Count Blessings... and Calories!ESMAIL::AZARIANThu Nov 21 1991 16:1122
    See the dessert 705.2.  It breaks down into ww equivalents.  you could
    eat the entire dessert and it would only cover for one milk, one free
    veggie, two proteins and a few optional if you used real brown sugar.
    
    Personally, I put myself in charge of family photography and that keeps
    my hands full.  Cranberry lime seltzer, icy cold with a wedge of lime
    or a few berries popped in looks wonderful and keeps the other hand
    busy.   
    
    The usualy tricks do work.  DONT use a dinner plate.  Use a luncheon
    plate.  Dont have a fork loaded with food if you're still chewing.  I
    use chopsticks!  (No I'm Not crazy!!!!) You have to slow down because
    you cant load the fork up.  At least I give my brain a chance to catch
    up with my mouth and my stomach.  Make the holiday a time for family
    and friends.  Make a mental note to talk to each person at the table or
    in the room.  When you're talking (hopefully) you're not eating.
    
    Have a wonderful holiday!  We all seem to still be employed, and we're
    concerned about eating TOO MUCH when so many have so little.
    
    Lorelei