| Title: | Welcome to the Non-Custodial Parents Conference |
| Notice: | Please read 1.* before writing anything |
| Moderator: | MIASYS::HETRICK |
| Created: | Sun Feb 25 1990 |
| Last Modified: | Fri Jun 06 1997 |
| Last Successful Update: | Fri Jun 06 1997 |
| Number of topics: | 420 |
| Total number of notes: | 4370 |
I am entering the following note for a member of our noting community who wishes to remain anonymous. Please reply here or send me mail and I will forward it to the noter. Thanks. Terza -moderator- -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Title: Split custody My spouse and I have separated and expect to be divorced within the next few months. We have two children, a son in his early teens, and a daughter in her late teens. We have all agreed (as well as children can agree to somthing like this...) that our son will live with my spouse and our daughter with me. We have already established two households close enough that they can visit each other and the NCP, spend the night, etc. very easily. Each has his/her own bedroom in both households. I would be interested in others' opinions of and experences with split custody.
| T.R | Title | User | Personal Name | Date | Lines |
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| 215.1 | Time Alone? | OK4ME::PILOTTE | Tue Jun 23 1992 16:23 | 10 | |
The only experience I have had is the following: I have a child living with me who visits her natural father and my husband has a daughter that visits us. We tried to arrange the visitation so that my hubby and I would have a weekend alone. In your case where the split is there, you might want to try one weekend having both children and then the next with just one. Each month you might arrange a weekend alone so that the other parent has both. This way both children can have time together but also quality time alone with the non-custodial parent. Regards, Judy | |||||