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Conference quokka::non_custodial_parents

Title:Welcome to the Non-Custodial Parents Conference
Notice:Please read 1.* before writing anything
Moderator:MIASYS::HETRICK
Created:Sun Feb 25 1990
Last Modified:Fri Jun 06 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:420
Total number of notes:4370

139.0. "Discussion on Law and Justice" by TROA09::AKERMANIS () Wed Jul 03 1991 14:34

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139.1You don' get Justice - you get LawTROOA::GRAYSONSuperstition Brings Bad LuckWed Aug 21 1991 10:5843
    John,
    
    Welcome to the system...
    
    As you can see from my node I too live in wonderful Ontario.
    
    I am the custodial parent and let me tell you, life is still hell.
    I have spent many $$$$ (last count was over 20K$CAN - Maybe I have the
    same Lawyer as your friend ;-)...)
    
    
    Your Lawyer is the guy/gal who should have told you... and I bitterly,
    suspect you are right about the motives.
    
    I undersatnd, in Canada, that if you ask advice, even remotely,
    surrounding an issue, your lawyer is responsible for all matters on
    that issue. But who ever want's to sue a lawyer.
    
    My (now rich) lawyer would like me to forget about him, I suspect,
    because he knows how much I have paid into his kids college fund - and
    is guilty as hell to nickle and dime me ala law school biz 100. I also
    suspect he will do a poorer and poorer job until I leave disgruntled -
    you only get what you pay for...
    
    One thing he did leave me with is one very good piece information that
    I refer too often (esp. friends who are going through this sh**)
    
      "	When you go to court you don't get justice - you get law
        Don't expect anything else. "
    
                              W. Meninga
                              Rich Lawyer
    			     (Law 101)
    
    Use the law to get your justice, if you can, otherwise stay out of
    court.
    
    
    BTW - I have had full custody since Oct 87 - I will be going back to
    court to ANOTHER custody battle next week.
    
Bruce Grayson
    London Ontario
139.2TROOA::AKERMANISThu Aug 22 1991 10:4626
>    
>    I undersatnd, in Canada, that if you ask advice, even remotely,
>    surrounding an issue, your lawyer is responsible for all matters on
>    that issue. But who ever want's to sue a lawyer.
>

I believe you are right here, and suspect that is one of the reasons lawyers
here choose their words carefully. For every statement they make, there is
usually a disclaimer tossed in with the same breath.

<    One thing he did leave me with is one very good piece information that
<    I refer too often (esp. friends who are going through this sh**)
<    
<      "	When you go to court you don't get justice - you get law
<        Don't expect anything else. "
<    
<                              W. Meninga
<                              Rich Lawyer
<    			     (Law 101)
<    
<    Use the law to get your justice, if you can, otherwise stay out of
<    court.
    
I'll second that..........
    
John