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Conference quark::mennotes-v1

Title:Topics Pertaining to Men
Notice:Archived V1 - Current file is QUARK::MENNOTES
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Fri Nov 07 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 26 1993
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:867
Total number of notes:32923

655.0. "INS questions.." by OTIGER::R_CURTIS (There is madness to my method..) Fri Oct 04 1991 19:19

    This is a 2-part question...I am a 45-year old male and will be getting
    married (for the first time) next year to a wonderful woman from the
    Philippines.
    
    I have to submit a fiancee visa application and the INS tells me it may
    take 90 days to go through...has anyone out there had any experience
    with this or know someone who has gone through this type thing ? As far
    as how long the visa took to get approved ? Any horror stories ?
    Also, we hope to start a family, any 40+ first-time fathers out there ? What
    do you feel about the experience ? How are things going ?
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655.3FMNIST::olsonDoug Olson, ISVG West, UCS1-4Mon Oct 07 1991 20:2310
I haven't experienced this myself, but be careful with the INS paperwork!
It would be a very good idea to get someone from DEC EAP or personnel to
help you out with this if they will.  One of my coworkers emigrated from
China many years ago, and recently went home and married a woman from his
home town.  Because they hadn't done all the paperwork (beforehand/correctly)
she was not allowed to immigrate to the US for quite awhile; she stayed in
Canada for over 6 months while the lawyers got it straightened out.  Save
yourself the hassle...

DougO
655.4SMURF::EXPATRIATESSOLVIT::FRASERBut I don't have an accent; you do!Tue Oct 08 1991 11:1217
        Hi,
        
        I'm Scots by birth, married to an American and went through the
        INS dog&pony show a couple of years ago.  You will find a great
        deal of useful information in SMURF::EXPATRIATES (kp7 to add).
        
        Basically, get the information  package  from  the  INS and the
        'local' overseas American Embassy, and  follow  the  directions
        _meticulously_.  If they ask for  a  photograph  with the right
        ear visible, no jewellery or eye-glasses, with  a  height  from
        chin  to forehead on one inch on the  photograph,  then  that's
        what you have to supply, exactly!
        
        Good luck!
        
        Andy
        
655.5Get a lawyerTNPUBS::STEINHARTThu Oct 10 1991 15:289
    If you can afford it, get an immigration lawyer to dot the i's and
    cross the t's.  The regulations are formidable, and change a lot.  If
    it's not done right, your fiance is considered an illegal alien, with
    no protection at all.
    
    I can connect you with immigration lawyers in New York City and
    Southern Connecticut, if you get in touch with me.
    
    Laura
655.6Use internal DEC resources...CSSE32::BEAUMONTJoe MS:ZKO1-1/C30 DTN381-2457Fri Oct 11 1991 18:3321
    RE: .3
    
    I concur with what Andy said in .3... I have just gone through the same
    exercise with INS, having just brought my new bride over from the UK.
    
    As Andy says follow the instructions in the package and you won't go
    wrong.
    
    Also, a resource from within the company is a lady by the name of Pat
    McDermott who is probably the BEST source of free advice and one that
    is very conversant with the ever changing rules and regs of INS.  Pat
    is in Maynard now, in MSO (I think...) 
    
    My view of going to one of these immigration lawyers is one of very
    last resort, and only then if the situation is a very complex or
    border-line situation.
    
    Good luck,
    
    Joe Beaumont
    
655.7hmmmmm...OTIGER::R_CURTISThere is madness to my method..Fri Oct 11 1991 18:417
    Thanks for the replies. I have been doing homework on this for about 8
    months and it seems that it is not a complex process, just slow. The
    INS officers I have talked with off and on have answered all my
    questions and their responses have been consistent. A lawyer seems to
    be a last resort, I agree. Also, if you follow the instructions
    that they give you, how can you go wrong ? Also, I have not heard any
    constantly changing rules.......