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Conference quark::mennotes-v1

Title:Topics Pertaining to Men
Notice:Archived V1 - Current file is QUARK::MENNOTES
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Fri Nov 07 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 26 1993
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:867
Total number of notes:32923

328.0. "TO CUT OR NOT TO CUT!" by THOTH::LASTER () Tue Mar 07 1989 13:11

    THE TRUE STORY,COLD HARD FACTS! 
        1988 I DECIDED TO HAVE A VASECTOMY.FIRST I ASKED PEOPLE IN THE
        SHOP.SOME OF THEM HAD IT DONE.THE OPERATION ITSELF DID NOT SCARE
        ME.BUT I HAD A REAL CONCERN ABOUT "THE FEELING" AFTERWARDS.
        EVERYBODY I TALKED TO SAID YOU LOSE HARDLY ANYTHING.ALL SAID
    THAT EXCEPT ONE.HE NEVER HAD IT DONE! HES AN ELECTRICIAN.HE SAID
    ALAN IF YOU CUT WIRES YOU ARE GOING TO LOSE THE CHARGE.WELL HE NEVER
    HAD IT DONE SO WHO YOU GOING TO BELIEVE.I ALSO KEPT ASKING THE DOCTOR
    DOC I DONT WANT THIS OPERATION IF IT AFFECTS MY FEELING.YOU KNOW
    WHAT HE SAID! MOST OF IT IS IN YOURE MIND.OPERATION TIME!THIS OPERATION
    IS A 15 MIN OPERATION. I WAS ON THE TABLE FOR AN 1 1/2 HOURS.THE
    NEEDLE DIDNT HURT.THE CUTTING DIDNT HURT.HE GRABBED THE VEIN.I WENT
    THROUGH THE CEILING.BURNING DIDNT HURT.THE SEWING DIDNT HURT.OPERATION
    COMPLETE,ALL DONE IN STIRRUPS.THREE DAYS OF AGONY.SHOOTING PAINS
    THROUGH MY LEGS LEADING TO  THE SCROTUM.COULDNT WALK.3 WEEKS LATER.
    HAD SEX.VERY POWERFUL FEELING.UNFORTENATELY THE LAST ONE.THE OLD
    MAN UPSTAIRS GAVE ME THAT ONE HAS A FAREWELL GIFT!MONTHS LATER.
    A CONTINUAL ACHE IN BOULDERS.SEX-A THREE LETTER WORD TO ME NOW THAT
    LEAVES ME EMPTY! DONT GET ME WRONG I STILL HAVE DESIRES.NOW TO FACTS!
    YOU SIGN A PIECE OF PAPER STATING ITS IRREVERSIBLE.YOU KNOW WHY
    BECAUSE AFTER THEY ARE THROUGH WITH BURNING IT OR CAUTERIZING .THEY
    HAVE NOW DESTROYED ALL THE NERVE ENDINGS .THIS IS A TWO PRONGED
    ATTACK ,BOTH SIDES ARE DONE.FOR THOSE WHO DISAGREE WITH ME REMEMBER
    ITS ALL IN YOURE MIND ,SO YOU KEEP DELUDING YOURSELFS AND FOR MYSELF
    IF I EVER GET THE MONEY REVERSAL HERE I COME.BUT FOR THOSE WHO ARE
    THINKING ABOUT IT ASK ANY ELECTRICIAN HE,LL TELL YOU CANT GET NO
    CHARGE IF THE WIRES ARE CUT!.          
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328.1cow chips!!!!HAMER::PIERSALLTHE PHOENIX RISESTue Mar 07 1989 13:201
    
328.2Double cow chips!!!!CXCAD::SCHUBERTPutting out fires... With gasoline!Tue Mar 07 1989 14:032
    
    
328.4COW CHIPS BY ANY NAME!THOTH::TOMBENOTue Mar 07 1989 17:431
    TRIPLE COW CHIPS !!!!!!
328.5ANY WAY THOTH::LASTERTue Mar 07 1989 18:3818
    IN RESPONSE TO YOURE VERY INTERESTING COMMENTS I SAY THIS.IF I GOT
     THE ONE CUT OPERATION WHICH I WANTED BUT DOCTOR SAID TO MANY LEGAL
     PROBLEMS I WOULD PROBABLY NOT EVEN BE HERE ON THIS LINE.I WAS FULLY
     AWARE OF THE RISKS AND I LOST.I KEPT MY REPLY PRETTY MUCH UNPERSONAL
     COMPARED TO WHAT I HAVE READ IN HERE.NOW AS TO THE ELECTRICIAN
     I ASKED TWO DOCTORS ,,THEY SAID NO SWEAT.NOW OBIOUSLY YOU DID NOT
    READ ALL OF IT .THERE IS IF YOU HAVENT NOTICED ALOT OF MALPRACTICE
    SUITS WHY MAYBE BECAUSE PATIENTS ARE GETTING TIRED OF GETTING BUTCHERED
    IM NOT SAYING MY DOCTOR IS A BUTHCHER MAYBE THE PROCEDURE IS AT
    FAULT,BUT LET ME TELL YOU THAT IN MANY CASES DOCTORS ARE BETTER
    OFF WIRING MY HOUSE LET THE ELECTRICIAN DO THE OPERATION.NOW AS
    FOR COWCHIPS IF I HAVE BUTCHER PUT IT ON A PLATE FOR YOU AND HE
    TELLS YOU ITS STEAK I HAVE NO DOUBTS THAT YOU WOULD EAT IT!BON 
    APPATEET! OH AND EXCUSE THE SPELLING.ONE MORE THING THERE ARE ALOT
    MORE PEOPLE OUT WHO FEEL THE SAME ABOUT THIS OPERATION.BYE BYE NO
    MORE! 
    
     . 
328.6...now back to originally scheduled program :^)WAHOO::LEVESQUETorpedo the dam, full speed asternTue Mar 07 1989 19:4911
 Sorry to hear it didn't work out. Please STOP USING CAPS! 

 FWIW- To the people who claim 'cow chips,' please allow our new visitor to
express his views without fear of a bovine ordure attack. He has related a 
very personal experience. That his experience differs from that of many others
is of no consequence; he still has a right to his opinion and I, for one, like
to hear ALL of the opinions. I believe the technique we have seen to discredit
Mr. Laster is known as "invalidating" elsewhere on the net. Disagree if you
wish, but allow each person to be heard.

The Doctah
328.7OK - no more cow chips.WHYVAX::DELBALSOI (spade) my (dog face)Wed Mar 08 1989 11:037
re: .0 & .5

Bizarre! (oops)

 I MEAN, BIZARRE!

-Jack
328.9ANT::BUSHEELiving on Blues PowerWed Mar 08 1989 13:5223
    
    	To the base noter I say, just having the "CUT" will not
    	effect your sexual performance. If it did, then you do
    	have grounds for a suit, this means the operation wasn't
    	done correctly. Also, what makes you think that have the
    	operation reversed will also reverse the effects you are
    	having? If the doctor did cut a nerve (which he shouldn't
    	have, BTW) then there is no way he can repair that damage.
    	As I understand it (which may not be 100% correct), once
    	nerve damage is done it's done, period.
    
    	 I've had mine for over 18 years and have never had one
    	bit of trouble with sexual performance. If anything I'd
    	have to say it helped take the pressure off by my knowing
    	I won't become a daddy again.
    
    	See another doctor and ask him about your problem, it could
    	very well be some scar tissue pressing against the nerves or
    	something easily correctable.
    
    	Best wishes,
    
    	G_B
328.10get another opinion...VIDEO::PARENTJphysical>human, Logical>personWed Mar 08 1989 14:2723
    
    Author: Please use lower case, it reads better.   
    
    I can't speak for the procedure first hand, but....
    
    The operation is only supposed to block delivery of sperm. Your
    plumbing was changed not the wiring.
    
    Done wrong I'll believe almost anything, including infection, sloppy
    cutting, or who knows.  FYI I know several people that felt it was
    the right choice, and also went fishing the same day(no unusual
    side effects).
    
    It is possibly the closest thing to an attack on ones maleness,
    and thus can have some real effects on the persona.
    
    Get help, if there is a phsyical problem don't delay it most likely
    won't get better on its own.  The sooner you take action the better.
    Oh yes, check other notes, the procedure is reversable (not 100%,
    of the time, sorry).  Above all get another opinion about the problem.
    
    Hope everything works out, john
    
328.11DOUBLE::DM_JOHNSONMorality curtails entertainmentThu Mar 09 1989 13:5711
    I had it done 15 years ago. It took about an hour but 45 mins of
    that was getting into the emergency room and being shaved. I went
    home and picked up a lazyboy rocker and carried it upstairs to the
    airconditioner. I proceeded to sit on ice for a few hours for the
    swelling. The next day I got on my motorcycle and went to work.
    There is nothing wrong with the procedure itself. There may be
    something wrong with the way some doctors implement it. And there
    may be something wrong with the way some recipients perceive it.
    You need to research those two areas. Get up and get moving.
    
    Dj
328.12My understanding of nervesCIMBAD::WALTONFri Mar 10 1989 14:5313
    As I understood it, the VAS DEFFERENCE was the object which was
    cut/cauterized in a vasectomy and this organ, like any other, has
    no nerve endings in and of itself.
    
    Consequently, the pain was in the cutting through the scrotum and
    surrounding tissue, which was healed, not cauterized.  THe nerves
    will heal.
    
    If this were not the case, most women would lose all interest in
    sex after the first natural childbirth :-).
    
    
    
328.13Further reading...QUARK::LIONELThe dream is aliveFri Mar 10 1989 15:233
See notes 10 and 297 for other discussions on vasectomies.

			Steve
328.15a self-fulfilling prophesy?DPDMAI::BEANwhy beep? i'm already moving!Sun Mar 12 1989 19:3221
    it's really unfortunate that the author of .0 had such an experience.
    after i had my vasectomy, my sex life improved dramatically...didn't
    have to wear condoms to prevent pregnancy (after 6 kids...you don't
    take risks!)...and of course the "feeling" actually improved, as
    one might suspect.
    
    without further knowledge.....it might be impossible to determine
    why the .0 author "lost" feeling...  but, from the base note, it
    appears that in his discussions with others (including the electrician)
    he was "expecting" a loss of feeling.... 
    
    then, he had the operation...which is so common and so simple...as
    to make me wonder if the physician goofed, or if perhaps our friend
    (.0 author) isn't actually suffering from a "loss" he inflicts on
    himself...with his expectations.

    sort of a "self-fulfilling prophesy"
    
    just a thought.
    
    tony
328.16Seek advice.PELKEY::PELKEYWed Mar 29 1989 17:1230
    I know I'm coming into this discussion a little late...
    
    When I had mine, (5 years ago) I had it done by a practicing
    experienced surgeon who was very clear in stating that "They're
    several styles of operations, some of them unsucessful, some new
    and not yet accepted by him, and some tested, and used for years..
     etc etc..."
    
    He said and I'll try to quote him directly because these
    words made an impression on me..
    
    "The operation was viewed as 'hard to reverse'.  But nothing should change
    physically except you can no longer reproduce. A change in the decsion
    to be sterile should be the only reason for reveral considerations...  
    Discomfort, and pain should be temporary, [here's the important part]
    and if discomfort, pain, or physicall limitiations continue after two to
    three weeks, something was done worng, or something has gone wrong
    with the healing process"
    
    I've had no problems, and I also urge to author of this note to
    seek medical counsil.  It has improved our sex life, and has not
    taken away from it.   I only experienced several days of discomfort,
    and for me, the real discomfort was due to sticthes, not the operation
    itself.
    
    do yourself a favor, don't blame your doctor without knowing the
    facts, but really, GO GET HELP !  You and your SO deserve to enjoy sex 
    again. 
            
    
328.17reversal???TOLKIN::WOODWORTHThu Sep 21 1989 18:174
    For those of you who want to know about reversal, Preterm Health
    Services in Brookline, MA do vasectomy reversals. They're number is
    1-800-432-1616.
    
328.18LESLIE::LESLIEThu Sep 21 1989 18:553