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| 161.1 | THINK ABOUT THIS | AKOV05::EARLS | | Tue Oct 06 1987 22:30 | 24 |
| RE: 160
Sorry about 160 I guess you want to know what you would like to
think about. Well here goes...
There is this man that I like, and the situation is, everytime he
see's me in a bar he watches me from the time I get there till the
time I leave and all points in between. He has asked me to let
him give me a ride home, sometimes he flirts with me sometime he
ignores me, the thing is we have gone out a couple of times in the
past and had a great time.
What I want to know from you men is what do you think he is thinking
is it that he wants me or is it something else??? Also I should
let you in on the fact that I see one of his best friends sometime's
well ok more than sometimes, but there is one thing that I should
say that is that his friend that I'm seing is well how should I
put it oh... Married yea that's it.
So men what do you think that he is
thinking.........................See I really like him and would like
to know what to do.....
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| 161.4 | My opinion.. | AXEL::FOLEY | Rebel without a cold (YEA!) | Tue Oct 06 1987 22:48 | 11 |
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You asked:
Dump the married guy. Is it REALLY worth it?
Ask the "looker". Say "Well, are we just going to flirt around
or would you like to see if this could be interesting?" Or
something like that...
mike
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| 161.5 | Talking is usually a good start | VCQUAL::THOMPSON | Noter at large | Wed Oct 07 1987 12:16 | 11 |
| I agree with Mike. Dating married men sounds like a really dumb
thing to do. It's wrong (dishonest) for a married man to date unless
legally separated (at least) from his wife. It's dumb to expect
him to treat a women he dates better then he does his wife for long.
Talk to the "looker". Some men need help. If why wife had waited
for me to follow up all the time (I am or was painfully shy) one
of us at least would still be single. He may not know what his options
really are.
Alfred
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| 161.6 | Get on the right track | CSSE::LOMBARD | | Wed Oct 07 1987 12:48 | 9 |
| I personally don't think there is anything more self destructive
for a woman today than to date a married man.
Why don't you put some energy into asking yourself why you're doing
that instead of wondering what's going through some other guy's
mind ?
If this other fella was dating your married friend, would you see
that as an appealing quality ?
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| 161.7 | Are you so different? | CASV01::SALOIS | Support the right to beer alms!!8*) | Wed Oct 07 1987 15:25 | 17 |
| re:0-
He's probably thinking, "Hell, if she'll fool around with my
married friend, maybe she'll fool around with me!"
Women (or men) who fool around with someone's spouse usually
get a reputation that is not exactly flattering. If a person knows
that you are that type of person, chances are very good that person
will figure you to be an easy conquest.
One last thing, try to remember this;
If you are in love and want to wed a married man,
you will marry a man who cheats on his wife.
I think Ann Landers said that. If you ever wind up getting
married to a guy like that, what makes you think you're so special
that you could keep him from cheating on YOU!!
2 cents and then some
Mean Gene
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| 161.8 | | VLS9::COSTA | | Thu Oct 08 1987 22:06 | 6 |
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I knew exactly what to say and mean gene said it first!
pisano
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| 161.9 | re .0 | ARMORY::CHARBONND | Never tell me the odds. | Mon Oct 12 1987 15:44 | 3 |
| Ask him sometime if he respects his friend for having someone
on the side. then ask him if he respects that someone. he could
be struggling with a double standard.
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| 161.10 | Go for It :-) | VAXWRK::CONNOR | San Andreas It's All Your Fault | Tue Oct 13 1987 18:24 | 5 |
| Hey, you only live once, you know. So go get'um, Next time
you see him ask:
Do you wanna f***?
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| 161.11 | NICE TALK!!!! | NISYSG::AMARTIN | Vanna & me are a number | Fri Oct 30 1987 08:40 | 1 |
| And I thought she was serious!
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| 161.12 | Caution! | COMET::AIKALA | Necessities: sex, surfing, & sunshine. | Fri Oct 30 1987 11:16 | 7 |
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re: .10
NEVER try that one on me.
single white male
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| 161.13 | you belong in an X rated flick... | SONATA::LANGE | g|i|t|l|a|i|d | Fri Oct 30 1987 12:44 | 2 |
| re. .10
I spit in your general direction!
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| 161.14 | My opinion. | FDCV13::CALCAGNI | A.F.F.A. | Sat Nov 14 1987 21:00 | 17 |
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What you asked was "What do you think he's thinking"?
If he's anything like me, women scare him and he's trying to get
enough nerve to talk to you.
Once I get to know someone then it's fine, but never ever picked
up a lady. Must be fear of rejection or something.
People who know me would never believe this but it's true. As for
dating a Married man, big deal!! I say live and let live! I'm not
going to toss the first stone! The only person you answer to is
yourself, and you have to answer to yourself!
Later,
Cal.
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