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Conference quark::mennotes-v1

Title:Topics Pertaining to Men
Notice:Archived V1 - Current file is QUARK::MENNOTES
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Fri Nov 07 1986
Last Modified:Tue Jan 26 1993
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:867
Total number of notes:32923

86.0. "Man, Woman, and TV" by LEZAH::RANDERSON () Tue Mar 31 1987 14:54

    Last night was a classic example of what i've noticed is an issue
    for men and women who live together...that is the NCAA basketball
    tournament on one channel, and the academy awards on another channel.
    The battle for control of the remote is a common confrontation in
    relationships.  Some women like to watch sports, but on the whole,
    I think more men like watching sports than women, which can lead
    to some tension.  Especially if your lady didn't have any brothers
    and her father was not a sports fan, so she didn't watch sports
    at all, and you were used to watching every game you could.  It
    takes a little give and take, but it wasn't easy at first.  I guess
    an easy solution is to get two TVs.  Any ideas.
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86.1One solution....GENRAL::SURVILNot COLONEL::SANDERSTue Mar 31 1987 15:087
    
    	Well Ron, I'd say let the "ole lady" watch her Oscars, and
    	you could hit the local pub with the boys to check out the
    	game. That way everyone's happy, you both get a break from
    	tension.
    
    	Todd
86.3GENRAL::SURVILNot COLONEL::SANDERSTue Mar 31 1987 15:424
    
    	I like my idea better....~\~
    
    	Todd|^)
86.4A VCR.GENRAL::FRASHERAn opinion for any occasionTue Mar 31 1987 15:489
    How about a VCR?  The only problem with watching a game the next
    day is that everyone you meet tells you how the game went, who won,
    who did what, etc.  But, with movies, we record one and watch the
    other, then watch the first one at our leasure, which is usually
    about 2 months later.  In February, we were watching Christmas movies.
    
    As far as sports goes, we'd rather go skiing.
    
    Spence
86.5even had to teach them to drink beer...KLAATU::THIBAULTSwimmers Do It WetterTue Mar 31 1987 16:165
Isn't that interesting. I have 3 big brothers, and when I was growing up
I was always the one who "claimed" the tv on Sunday so I could watch the
Giants. What can I say, I tried to bring them up right...

Bahama Mama
86.6Where'd my fingernails go?INFACT::VALENZAWho ordered that?Tue Mar 31 1987 17:014
    Well, I taped last night's game, but that is so I can watch it
    over and over and over again.
    
    --Mike (IU graduate, class of '81)
86.8DSSDEV::FISHERTue Mar 31 1987 17:3617
The idea about going out to see the game is great!  Going to a 
friend's house or to a bar is a great idea.

The only other idea that I can think of is...reserving the TV in 
advance.  The NCAA final is not just any game (similarly, NBA finals, 
the Superbowl, the World Series, and so forth) and you know at least a 
few weeks in advance when the game will be held.  If you tell your SO 
a week in advance that you want to watch the game on Monday night,
then that gives you a whole week to work out compromises in case of a
conflict.  (This is a pretty big conflict since both events only
happen once a year.)  It's only when it's five minutes to game/oscar
time and when you try to make a last minute decision that feelings get
hurt. 


						--Gerry
86.12Not every interestLEZAH::RANDERSONTue Mar 31 1987 18:229
    re 9
    
    Two people are not going to have the exact same interests, no matter
    how compatible. If you want to watch a game on TV, that dosen't
    mean you've lost interest in anybody - it means you're a sports
    fan, amony other things...that doesn't mean that's the only thing
    you do.  She's interested in selling tupperware, but that's not
    one of my interests. Thats fine. There are a lot of other things
    we both are  interested in, but we're not clones.
86.15WILLIE::TIMMONSGO CELTICSThu Apr 02 1987 16:389
    Todd, say hi for me to the guys at the bar.
    
    Suzanne, how's about you and I getting together for a half-time?:*)
    
    Seriously, my ex-wife never liked sports.  but she did tolerate
    my addiction to the Patriots.  I watched other sports, but not very
    much until it came down to the playoffs.  
    
    Lee
86.16GENRAL::SURVILNot COLONEL::SANDERSThu Apr 02 1987 20:465
    
    	To tell ya the truth Lee, I can't understand your addiction
    to the Patsies either. |^}
    
    Todd
86.18Look ... don't insult other noters!RSTS32::COFFLERJeff CofflerMon Apr 06 1987 05:1116
    Note 86.17 (along with 87.5) was set hidden by the moderator.
    
    Please, people.  I will not allow notes that are personally insulting
    to other noters.  Take your insults elsewhere (SOAPBOX or MAIL).
    
    Calling somebody a jerk, or calling people stupid are not appropriate
    behavior in this notesfile.  If you insist, at least do it with tact.
    If you don't agree with a topic, we'll welcome other opinions. If you
    feel that somebody is stupid, sorry, but this public conference is not
    the forum to make senseless insults.  Please be kind to one another.

    I really don't intend to be a 'heavy handed' moderator, and that is not
    how I wish to run this conference.  I must insist, though, on basic
    consideration for others.
    
    	-- Jeff Coffler (Co-moderator of MENNOTES)
86.19ARMORY::CHARBONNDMon Apr 06 1987 16:234
    Jeff 
    
    You won't get Kerry to go to SOAPBOX. Over there they don't wear
    gloves! :-)