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Title:What's all this fuss about "sax and violins"?
Notice:Please read all replies to note 1
Moderator:QUARK::LIONEL
Created:Thu Jan 21 1993
Last Modified:Fri May 09 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:133
Total number of notes:1901

54.0. "Past Managers" by VICKI::CRAIG (No such thing as too many cats) Tue Dec 14 1993 11:44

    Yesterday I was thinking about all the managers I've had over the
    past 13 years, and how all of them were different.  The one I have
    now is the ultimate "hands-off" manager (my favorite style, since my
    job requires a lot of flexibility and "task swapping").  One manager
    I had back in the early '80s, no longer with the company, became
    irrational, and this was a major reason I changed jobs (his manager
    was a sleazebag, also no longer with the company if ELF can be relied
    upon for such a determination).  
    
    I also had a manager who was guilty of preferential treatment, which
    backfired on him when it became obvious he'd promoted a subset of his
    subordinates well past their capabilities, which caused those people
    quite a bit of embarrassment and suffering for several months as they
    were forced to assume the responsibilities associated with their
    newly-acquired titles (but for which they were not prepared); they
    were viewed as incompetent for quite a while, until it became obvious
    to observers what had been going on.  He, also, is no longer with the
    company.
    
    - craig
    
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54.1Respect for a manager / nice change of paceLEDS::BRAUNRich BraunTue Dec 14 1993 14:0018
    My career spans the same 13-year period as yours, and I too have had a
    number of different managers.  A year ago I quit a company in part
    because of my manager's style (he paid a great deal of attention to my
    _project_, in fact ignoring some others, but not much attention to my
    _needs_ for more staff and resources, in a highly profitable product
    line where money was not an issue).
    
    I must say that my current manager here in Storage is among the best
    I've ever had.  Can't put my finger on exactly why; he really does seem
    impartial, hands-off, concerned when there's a problem, capable of
    putting resources behind a task when it needs more 'oomph', and able to
    listen to concerns without appearing to ignore them or overreact to
    them.  It worries me when he kids around about his retirement...
    
    -rich
    Mass Storage Engineering OEM D&SG  SHR1-3/O13    DTN:  237-2124
    Work: braun@leds.enet.dec.com                      508-841-2124
    Home: richb@pioneer.ci.net
54.2CFSCTC::BOBBITTan insurmountable opportunityWed Dec 15 1993 11:3110
    
    I only had on AWFUL manager, when I first came to DEC as a co-op, and
    he was gone from elf after the first set of layoffs (not sure if it was
    volitional or involuntary).  Since then I've had excellent managers,
    who all contributed to my professional growth as well as guiding me
    towards projects that would enhance my skill set and challenge me.
    
    Of course, I've only been here about 7 years, but still....
    
    -Jody
54.3VAXWRK::STHILAIREwhat about now?Wed Dec 15 1993 12:4365
    I've been at Digital for 18 yrs., and have reported to 16 different
    managers.
    
    Of these managers, I would have to say that I considered 4 of them to
    be EXTREMELY AWFUL.  Of these 2 are still with the company according to
    ELF.
    
    I, also, considered 3 of them AWFUL (slightly less awful than the above
    4).  According to ELF, 2 of them are still with the company.
    
    In addition, I considered 6 of them to be OKAY.  Of this group 3 are no
    longer with the company, 2 are still with the company, and one I couldn't
    check on because I can't remember his last name!
    
    And, finally, I considered 3 of them to be GOOD managers. 
    (Fortunately, my current boss is one of this group.)
    
    Bits of trivia:  
    
    Of the 16 managers only 3 were women.  Two of them fall into the OKAY
    group, and one of them falls into the AWFUL category.
    
    One of the men who falls into the GOOD category also happens to the
    best looking person I have ever worked for, as well as one of the best
    looking people I've ever met in all my years at Digital.  (I guess this
    bit of trivia only goes to show that good looking men can be nice
    people and good managers, fwiw.)  :-)
    
    I'm a secretary so I have, of course, supported a lot of people that I
    didn't actually report to.  However, I have reported to 16 people in 18
    yrs.  I hadn't realized it was that many until I thought about it and
    made a list.  I think it's sort of amazing really, that it's that many! 
    Of these 16 managers, only 10 of them actually hired me.  The other 6
    were due to departmental changes.
    
    Also, I am, of course, rating these managers in the way I felt they
    managed and treated me, as a secretary.  Had I worked for them in a
    different capacity, such as engineer, or whatnot, I might have had a
    different opinion of them.  For example, I've noticed over the years
    that some managers that treated me with respect and kindness, were not
    well liked by the professional individual contributors.  And, on the
    other hand, some of the managers that I felt treated me extremely
    poorly, seemed to be liked by the Wage Class 4's who reported to them.
    
    I would, also, say that probably the two nicest people I have given
    secretarial support to over the years, were not people I actually
    reported to.  One of them was a product manager, of Scottish ancestry,
    who now works in Europe, and one of them was an English manager, from
    Reading, who left Digital last fall, and whom I supported when he was
    on frequent business trips to the US.  I think a lot of  the other
    people I have supported over the years, could learn a lot about how to
    treat others from these two guys.  Both exceptionally nice people.
    
    Another bit of trivia I just realized:
    
    These 16 managers, over an 18 yr. period, took place during the course
    of 11 different jobs, in 9 different organizations, and 8 different
    Digital facilities.
    
    As The Grateful Dead once said, "What a long strange trip it's been."
    
    :-)
    
    Lorna
    
54.4GOOEY::JUDYOn the downhill slideWed Dec 15 1993 13:5120
    
    
    	I've been with Digital for about 7 years (that includes 1
    	year as a contractor) and I've had 5 managers.  2 out of the
    	five were terrible.  One treated me like absolute dirt and the
    	other just wasn't a good manager.  I'm still great friends with
    	my third and fourth managers.  The fourth was the best manager
    	I've ever had the opportunity to work with.  She was a good
    	"people" manager as well as a business manager.  Very
    	understanding, flexible, trusted me to do my job without her having
    	to oversee everything, and we were good friends too.  I was more
    	upset when she got TFSO'd than she was.  We still stay in touch
    	and get together for lunch from time to time.  My present manager
    	is very similar to her.  Very easy going, flexible, encourages
    	me to expand my horizons and as a bonus, has been teaching me
    	to make my own jewelry.  =)
    
    	JJ
    
    
54.6ELESYS::JASNIEWSKIWhy not ask why?Wed Dec 15 1993 15:196
    
    	Re .3 -
    
    	Great note, Lorna.
    
    	Joe
54.7Musical chairsAKOCOA::BBARRYDon't breathe balloon airWed Dec 15 1993 16:0321
I have had 17 managers in the 18 years I've been at Digital. I worked at 
one site for 11 years, doing basically the same work and had 11 managers! 
This has occurred without my having taken 11 different jobs.
 
Of the ones who are no longer here, 4 left voluntarily with TFSO,  2 left 
to persue better opportunities long before we invented TFSO.

Of the 17 managers, three were women. I have mostly had managers who became
managers (as I had) because that's the way the advancement track was laid
out. If one wanted more money one took the promotions that were offered.
As people, I'd have to say that most had their hearts in the right places,
even if their minds were elsewhere. As managers, I'd have to say that most
were working an agenda that didn't necessarily support the needs of those
in their groups. 

The most difficult aspect of having so many managers was having to always
revalidate the projects and programs we had been working on to each new
arrival. One thing's for sure, its not easy to be a manager in 'digital'.


/Bob
54.8I've been lucky!MR4DEC::MAHONEYWed Dec 29 1993 17:019
    I've been blessed with managers!
    I haven't had a bad one yet in all my 30 years of active work
    involvement... and that includes many people! of course some are better
    than others, but to me, they were all respecful and fair and I had no
    problem working with anyone of them either long-term or short-term.
    (that includes places like Spain, Holland, U.S., with many
    nationalities)
    
    Ana