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Conference quark::human_relations-v1

Title:What's all this fuss about 'sax and violins'?
Notice:Archived V1 - Current conference is QUARK::HUMAN_RELATIONS
Moderator:ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI
Created:Fri May 09 1986
Last Modified:Wed Jun 26 1996
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1327
Total number of notes:28298

1326.0. "Female v Male - wanting to change" by CCAD30::LILBURNE () Thu Jan 14 1993 00:18

I recently came into contact with a woman who was very unhappy at being 
a woman. Her ambition was to have a sex change operation. Her situation 
was complicated by the fact that she is Muslim and that she comes from 
South East Asia and consequently the operation was out of her financial
reach. She has since had to return. I put this in here as I would like to 
read any comments that might help me understand transvestites/transsexuals.

BTW I have spent some time trying to get this 'safe' and inoffensive! I would
simply like to read any comments about this aspect of sexuality which I know 
very little about.

Linda
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1326.1QUARK::LIONELFree advice is worth every centThu Jan 14 1993 13:588
First of all, you'll have to understand that there is a significant difference
between transsexuals (which is what the woman you describe seems to be) and
transvestites.  A lot of people think they are related.  A transvestite is
a person who dresses as if they were the other sex, but by itself, it is
just a behavior and not related to the person's underlying sexual identity.


				Steve
1326.2pointer given againCCAD30::LILBURNETue Jan 26 1993 20:175
Somebody replied here giving me a pointer in .2 This note has since disappeared
so I am putting this in for anyone else who is interested. I was directed
to read note 655 which in turn recommended 329 among others. They made for
very interesting reading and much better comprehension of gender related 
"problems".