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| 1052.1 | I found these helpful... | GODIVA::bence | The hum of bees... | Mon Aug 06 1990 16:53 | 7 |
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"The Dance of Anger" and "The Dance of Intimacy" by Harriet Lerner.
Two good books on the dynamics of anger and intimacy and how
we often misdirect them.
clb
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| 1052.2 | | HEFTY::CHARBONND | in the dark the innocent can't see | Mon Aug 06 1990 18:11 | 2 |
| "The Psychology of Romantic Love" and "What Love Asks of Us",
By Nathaniel Branden and E. Devers Branden
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| 1052.3 | | REGENT::WOODWARD | shut up and dance | Tue Aug 07 1990 12:07 | 3 |
| "Love" --- Leo F. Buscaglia
"Living, Loving, and Learning" --- Leo F. Buscaglia
"Loving Each Other" --- Leo F. Buscaglia
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| 1052.4 | | LYRIC::BOBBITT | water, wind, and stone | Tue Aug 07 1990 13:31 | 10 |
| Human Be-Ing
(I can't remember the author - perhaps someone can supply it?)
Hugh Prather - (almost anything he writes is great)
including "Notes to Myself", "Notes to Each Other", etc....
-Jody
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| 1052.5 | refreshing | HURON::REDNER | | Tue Aug 07 1990 13:43 | 11 |
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Psychological Seduction
the author's name I can not remember
The book explains how modern psychology promises alot but
delivers very little........ interesting.
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| 1052.6 | | ASABET::COHEN | | Tue Aug 07 1990 17:24 | 5 |
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One to One
-- Theodore Rubin
ralph
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| 1052.7 | | WR1FOR::HOGGE_SK | Dragon Slaying...No Waiting! | Tue Aug 07 1990 18:55 | 3 |
| Anything I Ever Really Needed To Know I Learned In Kindergarten.
Skip
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| 1052.8 | :-) | HPSTEK::XIA | In my beginning is my end. | Tue Aug 07 1990 22:12 | 5 |
| _The Joy of Sex_ by Georg Cantor.
_The Action of a Group on Sexes_ by Galois and Sylow.
_To Choose or Not to Choose_ by Zorn.
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| 1052.10 | If you like to read...... | FOOZLE::SHAMEL | | Wed Aug 08 1990 13:00 | 472 |
| ________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
AA Big Book
A Gift of Hope R. Veninga
A New Guide to Rational Living Albert Ellis
A Time to Heal T. Cermak
Active Loving A. Kiev
Addicted to Perfection M. Woodman
Adult Children: The Secrets of John Friel, Linda 8.95
Dysfunctional Families Friel
Adult Children of Alcoholics Janet Geringer 6.95
Wotitz
Adult Children of Alcoholics P.K. Anderson
Coming Home
Adult Children of Alcoholics Wayne Kritsberg
Syndrome: From Discovery to
Recovery
After The Tears: Reclaiming the Jane Middleton-Moz 7.95
Personal Losses of Childhood
(co-author Lorie Dwinell)
Anger Tavris
Are You Missing The Boat To George W. Vroom 7.95
Recovery? How to Successfully
Take Charge of Your Life
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
As You Think Allen
Awareness John O. Stevens
Betrayal of Innocence Susan Forward 7.95
Beyond Codependence: And Getting Melody Beattie 9.95
Better All the Time
Beyond Ourselves C. Marshall
Born to Love M. James
Bradshaw On: The Family, A John Bradshaw 9.95
Revolutionary Way of Self-
Discovery
Breaking Free of the Co- Barry Weinhold 11.95
Dependency Trap Ph.D., Janae Wein-
hold Ph.D.
Brief Encounters E. Coleman
Build Your Brain Power A. Winter
Childhood and Society Erik H. Erikson
Children of Trauma: Rediscover- Jane Middleton-Moz 9.95
ing Your Discarded Self
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Choicemaking S. Wegscheider-Cruse 9.95
Codependence: Misunderstood- Anne Wilson Schaef 8.95
Mistreated
Cognitive Behavior Modification D. Meichenbaum
Cognitive Therapy and Emotional A.T. Beck
Disorders
Codependent No More: How to Stop M. Beattie 9.95
Controlling Others and Start
Caring for Yourself
Conjoint Family Therapy: Your Virginia Satir
Many Faces
Coping With Difficult People R. Bramson
Creative Aggression G. Bach & H. Gold-
berg
Creative Visualization S. Gawain 4.50
Dealing With Difficult People C. Keating
Diagnosing and Treating Co- Timmen Cermak
dependence
Don't Say Yes When You Want to J. Bauer
Say No
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Elements of Psychopathology: The Robert White &
Mechanisms of Defense Gilliland
Embracing Our Selves Hal Stone & Sidra
Winkelman
Escape From Intimacy: Untangling Anne Wilson Schaef 13.95
the "Love" Addictions: Sex,
Romance, Relationships
Facing Codependence: What It Pia Mellody 10.95
Is, Where It Comes From, How It
Sabotages Our Lives
Facing Shame M. Fossum & M. Mason 10.95
Family Secrets Rachel V.
Feeling Good D. Burns 5.95
Feelings Gaylin
Focusing Eugene Gendlin 4.95
Following The Yellow Brick Joy Miller, Marianne 9.95
Road: The Adult Child's Journey Ripper
Through OZ
For Your Own Good Alice Miller 8.95
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Fresh Start L. Felder
From Sad to Glad N. Kline
Games Mother Never Taught You B. Harragan
Genesis: Spirituality in Recov- Julie Bowden, Her- 6.95
ery from Childhood Traumas bert Gravitz
Gifts for Personal Growth and Wayne Kritsberg
Recovery
Go For It I. Kassorla
Growing Through Personal Crisis E. Cayce
Having It All H.G. Brown
Healing The Child Within: Dis- Charles Whitfield 8.95
covery and Recovery for Adult
Children Of Dysfunctional Fami-
lies
Healing the Same that Binds You John Bradshaw 9.95
Healing Your Sexual Self Janet Wotitz
Holding Back: Why we Hide the Marie Lindquist 6.95
Truth About Ourselves
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Home Away From Home: The Art Janet Wotitz 13.95
of Self-Sabotage, Dedicated to
ACOA's in the Workplace
How to Become An Assertive Woman Taubman
How to be An Assertive not J. Bauer
Agressive Woman
How to Get Angry with Feeling A. Bry
Guilty
How to Get What You Want Out of J. Brothers
Life
How to Live With Another Person D. Viscott 4.50
How to Survive the Loss of A M. Colgrove 3.95
Love
How to Win Over Depression T. La Haye
If Only My Family Understood... Don Wegscheider 6.95
Inner Work Robert Johnson
It Will Never Happen To Me C. Black
Jealousy N. Friday
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Learning To Love Again M. Krantzler
Learning To Love Yourself Gay Hendricks
Learning To Love Yourself Sharon Wesheider- 7.95
Cruse
Let Go and Grow R. Akerman
Live Longer Now N. Pritikin
Living in the Light S. Gawain
Lost in the Shuffle: The Co- Robert Subby 8.95
dependent Reality
Love and Addiction Stanton Peele &
Archie Brodsky
Love is Letting Go of Fear G. Jampolsky
Love is Never Enough A. Beck
Loving Each Other L. Buscaglia 8.95
Loving Relationships S. Ray
Loving Styles Rosenman
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Lying, Dispair, Jealously, Envy, Leslie Faber
Sex, Suicide, Drugs and the Good
Life
Making Changes A. Dean
Making Peace With Your Parents H. Bloomfield
Making Peace With Yourself H. Bloomfield
Mirror, Mask and Shadow Sheldon Kopp
Moodswing R. Fieve
My Needs, Your Needs, Our Needs J. Gillies
My Mother/Myself N. Friday 4.95
Necessary Losses Judith Voirst
Networking M.S. Welch
Nice Girls Do I. Kassorla
No Boundary Kenneth Wilber
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Old Patterns, New Truths: Beyond Earnie Larson 9.95
the Adult Child Syndrome
On Shame and the Search for Helen Merrell Lynd
Idenity
Out of the Shadows: Understand- Pat Carnes
ing Sexual Addiction
Paring G. Bach
Passages G. Sheehy
Pictures of Childhood Alice Miller
Positive Addiction W. Glasser
Power Play M. Cunningham
Rediscovering Love W. Gaylin
Reality Therapy W. Glassner
Recovery: A Guide for Adult J. Bowden, H. 10.95
Children of Alcholics Gravitz
Recovery From Co-Dependency: Laurie Weiss, 9.95
It's Never Too Late to Reclaim Jonathon Weiss
Your Childhood
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BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Risking Viscott
Same House Different Homes R. Ackerman
Self Esteem Matthew McKay &
Patrick Fanning
Self Esteem Virginia Satir 4.95
Self Parenting: The Complete Dr. John K. Pollard, 9.95
Guide to Your Inner Conversa- III
tions
Shame and Guilt Jane Middelton_Moz 8.95
Shame: The Power of Caring Gershen Kaufman
Some Men Are More Perfect Than M. Shain
Others
Speak Up, Christain Assertive- Sanders
ness
Smart Women Foolish Choices C. Cowan, M. Kinder
Stage II Recovery: Life Beyond Earnie Larson 7.95
Addiction
Stage II Relationships: Love Earnie Larson 7.95
Beyond Addiction
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BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Stop, You're Driving Me Crazy G. Bach
Stressmap M. Haney
Straight Talk S. Miller
Strong Choices, Weak Choices G. Rosellini,
M.Worden
Struggle for Intimacy...Dedicated Janet Woititz 6.95
to ACOA's
The Addictive Organization Anne Schaef, Diane 16.95
Fassel
The Addictive Parsonality: Craig Nakken 7.95
Understanding Compulsion in
Our Lives
The Adult Children of Alcoholics W. Kritsberg
Syndrome
The Angry Book T. Rubin
The Answer Within: A Clini- S Lankton & C.
cal Framework of Ericksonian Lankton
Hypnosis
The Cinderella Complex C. Dowling 4.95
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Harriet G. Lerner 8.95
Guide to Changing the Patterns
of Intimate Relationships
The Dance of Intimacy H.G. Lerner 8.95
The Drama of the Gifted Child Alice Miller 6.95
The Fantasy Bond Robert Firestone
The Farther Reaches of Human Abraham Maslow
Nature
The Flying Boy: Healing the John Lee 7.95
Wounded Man
The Mind/Body Effect H. Benson
The Miracle Of Recovery: Healing Sharon Wegheider- 9.95
for Addicts, Adult Children and Cruse
Co-Dependents
The Narcissistic and Borderline James Masterson
Disorders
The New Assertive Woman Bloom
The Power of Positive Thinking N.V. Peale
The Practice of Behavior Therapy J. Wolpe
The Road Less Traveled M.S. Peck 10.95
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
The Self Talk Solution S. Helmstetter
The Twelve Steps of AA Hazelden
The Ways of the Will Leslie Faber
They Lived Happily Ever After Leslie Bandler
Towards A new Psychology of Miller
Women
Total Recall J. Minninger
Transformations Gould
Transformers Jacquelyn Small
Turning Points E. Goodman
Twelve Steps to Self-Parenting P. O'Gorman
What to Say to Yourself S. Helmstetter
What to Say When You Talk to S. Helmstetter 4.95
Yourself
When I say No, I Feel Guilty Manuel Smith 5.50
When Lovers Are Friends M. Shain
When Society Becomes An Addict Anne Wilson Schaef 15.95
________________________________________________________________
BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Women Men Love, Women Men Leave C. Cowan/M. Kinder 5.95
Women Who Love Too Much Robin Norwood 4.95
Women's Burnout H. Freudenberger
Woman's Reality Anne Wilson Schaef 9.95
Woman's Way's of Knowing: The Belenky, Clinchy, 10.95
Development of Self, Voice and Goldberger, Tarule
Mind
Work Addiction: Hidden Legacies Bryan E. Robinson 8.95
of Adult Children
Why Men Are the Way They Are W. Farrell 4.95
You are Extraordinary R. Williams
Your Erroneous Zones Dyer 4.95
Your Perfect Right Robert Alberti
Your Inner Child of the Past W. Missildine
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BOOK_TITLE__________________________AUTHOR__________________COST
Values Clarification: A Handbook S.B. Simon, L.B.
of Practical Strategies for Howe & H. Kirschen-
Teachers_and_Students baum
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| 1052.9 | <good book> | WONDER::PTAK | Karen Ptak | Wed Aug 08 1990 14:02 | 4 |
| "Swept Away...Why women fear their own sexuality"
by Carol Cassell, PHD.
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| 1052.11 | | WR1FOR::HOGGE_SK | Dragon Slaying...No Waiting! | Wed Aug 08 1990 18:59 | 7 |
| Re.10... have you actually READ all of these???? If so how about
some comments on which onces you think are best and a little blurp
about them so we can select the ones we'd get the most from.
You must have one heck of a library at home.
Skip
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| 1052.12 | Algebraists do it in groups | ERIS::CALLAS | You can use your head if you want to | Wed Aug 08 1990 21:30 | 5 |
| re .8:
Bravo, Eugene!
Jon
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| 1052.13 | | WMOIS::B_REINKE | treasures....most of them dreams | Thu Aug 09 1990 11:46 | 6 |
| in re Jon in re Eugene...
I've been writing to Eugene about the authors to his books, nice
to see that there are other people who appreciate his humor. :-)
Bonnie
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| 1052.14 | | HPSTEK::XIA | In my beginning is my end. | Thu Aug 09 1990 17:45 | 12 |
| re .12
> -< Algebraists do it in groups >-
Then there is also the saying about Analysts (something about
continuously but discretely :-)). As a matter of fact, it is on one of
the MIT T-shirt...
re .13,
And for a moment I thought the joke was on me...
Eugene
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| 1052.15 | ..and don't forget the Holy Scriptures . | BTOVT::BOATENG_K | What d'U know that we don know? | Thu Aug 09 1990 23:22 | 8 |
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Book of Joshua -
Book of Daniel -
Book of Job -
Song of Solomon -
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| 1052.16 | P.E.T. | QUARK::LIONEL | Free advice is worth every cent | Fri Aug 10 1990 01:13 | 5 |
| P.E.T. - Parent Effectiveness Training by Dr. Thomas Gordon. Not
just for parents, but a treasure-chest of skills and concepts that
can help anyone in their interactions with others.
Steve
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| 1052.17 | | HPSTEK::XIA | In my beginning is my end. | Sat Aug 18 1990 18:12 | 36 |
| re .15
Don't mean to offend anyone, just some third rate literary criticism of
mine...
> Book of Joshua -
No, I don't like the story there. Too much violence with the
wholesale slaughter of Jerico. Also the sun and the moon standing still
thing--good for science fictions, but not very effective with the genre.
> Book of Daniel -
Don't quite like this one either...
> Book of Job -
Now this one is a masterpiece. There are still things I find distasteful,
but it is the only way to handle the moral dilemma. Fatalism permeates
the story that creates a sense of vastness only matched by that of
T.S. Eliot's Four Quartets.
> Song of Solomon -
Oh, I have read better poetry than that, but can't really say since I
read them in English, and we all know poetry doesn't translate very well.
...
My most favorite Scripture: Book of Job with the Sermon on the Mount run
a close second.
My least favorite Scripture: Revelation. To put it mildly..., I don't
know what the guy had for lunch...
Eugene
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| 1052.18 | When a Man's Fear Makes HimFun from Commitment | EDUHCI::ALLARD | | Thu Aug 23 1990 20:32 | 1 |
| Men Who Can't Love by Steven Carter and Julia Sokol
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| 1052.19 | Wow ! what a book ! | MILKWY::VUTRAN | | Mon Aug 27 1990 16:02 | 7 |
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" What men know about Women " by Dr. Alan Francis.
Times gives it four Stars...
Chronicle comments that that book SAYS IT ALL.
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| 1052.20 | | QUIVER::STEFANI | Turn it on again | Mon Aug 27 1990 16:26 | 7 |
| re: "What Men Know About Women"
I heard it was 134 blank pages. ;-)
Just a little humor to brighten up an otherwise bleak Monday.
- Larry
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| 1052.21 | | DEC25::BRUNO | IRAQnophobia | Mon Aug 27 1990 16:42 | 8 |
| RE: .20
I knew SOMEBODY would take that straight line.
Actually, I think I'd like to read that. Right now I'm stuck with
"What this man THINKS he knows about Women".
Greg
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| 1052.22 | | WR1FOR::HOGGE_SK | Dragon Slaying...No Waiting! | Mon Aug 27 1990 18:45 | 8 |
|
I've always wondered about the title of that book...
After I read it I thought the title should read
"What Men SHOULD Know About Women"
(If they want to live to a ripe old age)
Skip
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| 1052.23 | Living Alone | HOTJOB::GROUNDS | Mostly confused... | Wed Sep 11 1991 01:18 | 27 |
| TITLE: Alone In America
AUTHOR: Louise Bernikow
ISBN: 0-06-015505-1
PUBLISHER: Harper and Row
Chapter 1 Introduction
Chapter 2 Adolescents and Addictions
Chapter 3 Male Loneliness
Chapter 4 Female Loneliness
Chapter 5 Family Life
Chapter 6 Widows and Widowers
Chapter 7 The Work Connection
Chapter 8 Out of Work
Chapter 9 Communities
I recently read this book. It is a well written and informative
book. It does not attempt to solve the problem of loneliness, but
informs the reader about the magnitude and scope of the problem and the
effects it has on people of different backgrounds. The author has
avoided the dry statistical approach in favor of telling the stories of
many different real people. (One statistic that was mentioned: between
1950 and 1980, the number of people living alone in America increased by
385%.)
I recommend this to anyone.
Roger
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| 1052.24 | Relationship Imbalances | HOTJOB::GROUNDS | Mostly confused... | Tue Oct 29 1991 23:11 | 34 |
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TITLE: THE PASSION PARADOX
AUTHOR: Dean C. Delis, Ph.D. with Cassandra Phillips
PUBLISHER: BANTAM
ISBN: 0-553-05788-X
FROM THE INSIDE COVER:
"What is the passion paradox? We've all been caught by it - some of
us, many times: one partner in a relationship falls more deeply in love
than the other. The result is increasing desire and desperation in the
"one-down" lover, and dissatifaction, often mingled with guilt and
withdrawal, in the "one-up".
PART I: The Painful Patterns That Create Unequal Love
Chapter 1 Falling In Love
Chapter 2 Balancing Acts
Chapter 3 One-ups
Chapter 4 The Commitment-Ambivalence Syndrome
Chapter 5 One-downs
Chapter 6 From Rock Bottom To Rebirth
Part II: How To Create An Equal Love That Lasts
Chapter 7 Letting Go Of Old Solutions
Chapter 8 Communicating
Chapter 9 What One-downs Can Do
Chapter 10 What One-ups Can Do
Chapter 11 Seeking The Roots Of Imbalance
Chapter 12 The Balanced Self
Chapter 13 The One-down Personality
Chapter 14 The One-up Personality
Chapter 15 When To Leave
Chapter 16 Embracing The Passion Paradox In Love And Marriage
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