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Conference quark::human_relations-v1

Title:What's all this fuss about 'sax and violins'?
Notice:Archived V1 - Current conference is QUARK::HUMAN_RELATIONS
Moderator:ELESYS::JASNIEWSKI
Created:Fri May 09 1986
Last Modified:Wed Jun 26 1996
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:1327
Total number of notes:28298

105.0. "Worth dying for..." by VAXWRK::NORDLINGER (In a GALAXY far, far away) Mon Oct 20 1986 21:14

	Although this may be more appropriate, or at least answered more 
    often, in firearms, I am interested in finding out what is worth 
    dying for.
     
    For some: a loved one, a cause, one's honor, or a religious beliefs...

    ... but for you?
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105.1how far can you go?USMRW4::AFLOODBIG ALMon Oct 20 1986 21:3121
    For me, worth dying for;
    
    I would die defending my freedoms(i.e., my country) from being
    suppressed or taken away.
    
    I would give of myself regardless of life risking situation
     i.e. pushing someone out of way of speeding car, 
          pulling someone out of a burning car,
          trying to help someone being mugged
    
    I would not die for love of a specific woman i.e., battle with another guy
    as that love is not worth death.
    
    I would risk death to give organs to a child who otherwise would
    not have a life to live.
    
    al
           
        
    
   
105.6A.F.F.A.FDCV13::CALCAGNITue Oct 21 1986 15:0416
    
    What would we die for? Good question . We can all put down our feelings
    like hell I'd die for Mon, Apple pie and the American way!
    
    I don't care what you say you'll never really know until you're
    there! When the reaper is pointing right at you!
    
    Let me tell you your values are going to make quite some changes.
    
    I'd die to protect my family without thinking. To keep them safe,sound,
    and healthy! Nothing else matters.
    
    And that's the name of that tune!
    
    Cal
    
105.7exNFL::GIRARDTue Oct 21 1986 15:1710
      From a person who wakes up every day a little nearer to death
    than the average person... If a circumstance ever came that there
    was no other option but to give my life to save another - it would
    be for my son.  For all those parental reasonings behind the statement,
    at times I love him more than myself.
    
      I would hope that in this day and age our intellect would conquer
    all threats. But I am a dreamer by nature.
    
    GRG
105.8After much thought.....HERMES::CLOUDI'm on the inside looking out!Wed Oct 22 1986 00:439
    		Tough question....after thinking about it for a couple
    	days, I would have to say I would die to defend our country
        from invading forces.  This is a must!  I would think that 
    	every American should!  Watch me get my tail fried for THAT
    	statement!  Also, if I had a family, I would die protecting
     	them.  Good point .7!
    
    						Phil
    
105.10COOKIE::SUSSWEINWed Oct 22 1986 19:4411
    RE: .8
    
    In Israel, women do NOT serve in combat.  They ARE drafted, like
    all Israeli citizens, but for 2 years instead of 3, and serve in
    support positions, as clerks, technicians, radar operators, etc.
    Unlike the U.S., they aren't even eligible for combat specific training
    (e.g. jet pilots).
    
    Steve
    (who served for three years in the Israeli Air Force)
    
105.11If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen.HERMES::CLOUDI'm on the inside looking out!Wed Oct 22 1986 21:1317
    	RE: Equal rights for women...
    
          Now, I know I'm going to get myself torched for this, but
    here's something to chew on.  A couple of friends and I were talking
    the other day about women in the services.  Moreover, inasmuch as
    women are taking in all the more dangerous duties...paratrooping
    and the like. Someone said that they shouldn't be doing that.  I
    disagreed stating that "Hey!  They know the risks.  If they don't
    want to die fighting, then they have no business in the services!"
    
       I'm sorry, but I have to stick with my statement.  If women want
    to play mens' games, then they have to play by ALL the rules!
    
    				I welcome all flames!
    
    					Phil
    
105.12No flames hereMMO01::PNELSONLonging for TopekaWed Oct 22 1986 21:212
    Here's a female opinion -- I agree!
    
105.13Women are better at covert operationsATFAB::REDDENListening slowlyWed Oct 22 1986 23:105
    For covert military opns, women are almost always more effective.
    While operations     are designed to avoid combat, they do involve
    an element of risk that our society has previously deemed unacceptable.

    This data is from JFK Center for Special Warfare, Ft. Bragg
105.14women should be equal in war timeTWEED::B_REINKEWed Oct 22 1986 23:595
    If there is going to be a draft then women should be drafted just
    as men are. Those that show the apptitude for combat should be
    given the opportunity, the same as men.
    
    Bonnie
105.15Side questionMINAR::BISHOPThu Oct 23 1986 00:3812
    There are people (I'm one) who believe that a draft is slavery,
    and thus a great moral evil.  Drafting women may be more equal,
    but not better.
    
    I don't want to debate the belief above--this is neither Soapbox
    nor Forum.  But it does bring up a "human relations" problem,
    viz:
    
    How do you relate to people who strongly hold beliefs you strongly
    hold to be monstrously wrong?
    
    				-John Bishop
105.18Let's hear it for the ladies!!REGENT::MOZERHCC ;-)Thu Oct 23 1986 11:365
    
    I personally applaud all of you ladies who have put REPLYs in this
    NOTE that truely support and promote TOTAL sexual equality!!
    
    					Joe
105.19let's start a new note.VAXWRK::NORDLINGERIn a GALAXY far, far awayThu Oct 23 1986 12:3320
	At risk of encouraging this tangent, I must say that women
   in the service in a mistake. My own experience, trained as a 
   Calvalry Scout at Fort Knox, has been that training is markedly
   less severe for females and all included are brought to the lowest
   level of athletic performace, for example full packed marches. 
  
	More convincing is the argument Plato puts forth in the 
    Republic which claims women will cause disunity among the ranks.
    They do, more than anything else I've seen.

        Finally I don't know too many females that have the moral
    level of insensitivity to be effective soldiers. To kill.

	The above argument only applies to military during peace time,
    otherwise a fine counterexample to my position would be the 
    fearless girls (the average age in Nicaragua is < 15) defending their
    country in Nicaragua and  the Isreali's (ten years ago when they were 
    defensive). 

    
105.20CSC32::WOLBACHThu Oct 23 1986 13:179
    Another feminine voice heard from:  I also agree
    that women should serve along side men.  Equal
    rights in ALL areas.
    
    I disagree with the draft in general, for men or
    women.
    
                   Deb.
    
105.21PARITY::DDAVISThu Oct 23 1986 13:387
    Did any of you watch Tom Brokaw on Channel 4 News  this week?  He
    is doing a segment on "Women in the Military" and they interviewd
    women Marines, and of the ones interviewed, all the women said that
    they want to be treated as Marines, not women Marines, that they
    should go into combat, if necessary, kill or be killed, in times
    of war.  It's what they joined the military for.  I agree - Equal
    Rights for all.
105.22more on women in the serviceSTUBBI::B_REINKEThu Oct 23 1986 14:1719
    set note = tangent
    The last time I remember reading anything about, it the ratio of
    non combat types to combat types in the military was over 20 to 1.
    Assuming women were drafted equally with men the vast majority would
    wind up in non combat positions and only the few who had the aptitude
    would end up in combat. Also having women in support roles in combat
    zones would potentially free up more men to fight. (If that is an
    issue.)
   
    I am personally against the draft. However, the current rules
    mean that women in the service do not have the chances for advancement
    that men do, especially those who are officers.
    
    In the Coast Guard they do allow women to command ships. The officer
    who heads the coast guard has publically stated that if he has a
    ship commanded by a woman in a zone where war breaks out, there
    is no way he is going to send in a helicopter and pull her out!
   
    Bonnie
105.23Licensed to kill...BIZET::COCHRANESend lawyers, guns and money.Thu Oct 23 1986 14:426
    Two wrongs don't make a right.  *Nobody* should be drafted.
    Killing is wrong.  Women should be able to do what they want
    if military service is their *choice*, but you won't catch me
    with a gun in my hand...
    
    MM
105.24Oops...pardon my tangentHERMES::CLOUDI'm on the inside looking out!Thu Oct 23 1986 15:179
    Re: all since my last statement..
    
    
    		No flames?  It would seem that I have hit upon a morally
    acceptable issue?  That's odd...
    
    							Phil
    
105.25equal treatment for ME, too, if you please!HECTOR::RICHARDSONThu Oct 23 1986 15:527
    I don't like the idea of a peace-time (at least) draft, either,
    but I too agree that if it is necessary, it ought to apply to everyone
    equally.  That might even help us to avoid getting ensnarled in
    more wars...and would, if we landed in one anyhow, provide a larger
    pool of people to do the necessary!
    
    /Charlotte
105.26Count Me OutARMORY::SEABURYMThu Oct 23 1986 16:3418
     I am not sure dying for my country is very noble or smart. George
 Patton made what I consider the most intelligent remark on the idea of
 dying for one's country. It would have to be a very specific set of
 circumstances that would get me to sign on the dotted line again. I
 am not going to go get myself killed for the profit margin of some
 defense contractor or to make some place safe for Chase Manhattan
 Bank.
     As for women in the military,no problem. I served with women
 both ashore and afloat when I was in the Coast Guard. They were treated
 the same as we all were . Some were very good at what they did and some
 were not and the same could be said of the men I served with. In short 
 sailors is sailors.
     I agree with the person who said you will never know until you
 find yourself in the position to have to make a life or death choice.
 Talk is cheap.
                                                      Mike     
 
     
105.28Patton Quote, I thinkMINAR::BISHOPThu Oct 23 1986 18:096
    The Patton quote refered to is one he addressed to some soldiers:
    
    "Your job is not to die for your country.  Your job is to make the
    other guy die for his country."
    
    				-John Bishop
105.29KRELL::FRASERAndy, WACE Product Assurance Group.Thu Oct 23 1986 18:148
        
        > Personally I think  that all politicians should be required
        >to serve in EVERY war  ON THE FRONT LINES.  It might enhance
        >their judgement.
        
        re: -1 - you said it all for me!
        
        Andy        
105.30Please Have A SeatARMORY::SEABURYMThu Oct 23 1986 19:0311
       
     Send them to the front, Great Idea!!!!
   
      Russell Baker, who writes for the N.Y. Times once suggested
 a law that would require the President to sit on the White House
 lawn in the event of a nuclear war. He feels its not so bad if
 you are the guy with the key to the airborne command center so it
 might be a good idea to change the rules a bit. Nuclear war becomes
 a lot less thinkable if you have to sit on the lawn at ground zero
                                                      
                                                        Mike
105.31Do I havta die to give my life?ATFAB::REDDENplan_or_be_planned_forThu Oct 23 1986 19:514
    If I say I am willing to die for something, am I implicitly
    saying that I am also willing to live for it.  It seems to me more
    challenging, worthwhile and difficult to decide to dedicate my life 
    to something rather than give my life for something.
105.32" "better red than dead" "????? USMRW4::AFLOODBIG ALThu Oct 23 1986 21:2357
    The replies to this note seem to have digressed from what you would
    die for, to equality of sexes in the armed forces, to I wouldn't
    die for my country. Sounds to me like like human relations is dipping
    into a political discussion.      /\   /\
                                       \   /
                                        \ /
                        someone mentioned how you really can't talk
                        on the terminal in your normal manner, well
                        the terminal is starting to show my ocassional
                        lapses of stuttering!!!
    
    Where was I??  As far as fighting wars to protect the rich goes,
    JFK came from landed gentry as did his brother(I don't look up to
    the kennedy clan-in general I don't support their political philosophy)
    and there are numerous of what we call today the rich who did their
    time and served for their country. 

    So let's leave the excuse about defending the country for the rich
    as a rationalization of other reasons. I don't like the idea of
    going off to war, but when I served my time I took that risk. If
    I have a choice in a combat situation of going home in a body bag
    or going home alive, you can bet I am not going to stand up and
    ask the other guy if we can sit down and discuss what we are going
    to do, if I did, then it would be body bag time for me. As far as
    defending my freedoms goes - friends we wouldn't be sitting here
    discussing the things we do if we lived under the shadow of communism.
    Now maybe you might think it is better to be alive then dead because
    maybe alive you can bring about change.
    
    Maybe some of you out there believe that alive we can change
    all the tyrannical goverments out there, maybe you would like to
    tell the Hungarians that the last thirty years under communism have
    been wonderful, or maybe you would like to convince some soviet
    dissidents hwo warm it is in siberia. Or maybe like in the movie
    "Red Dawn" you will try to convince yourself when they have crossed
    our borders that it is better to be alive. Communism will never
    take over the world with nuclear weapons, they will just keep chipping
    away a little piece here and little piece there till they are on
    our doorsteps.  

    No I don't like the idea of nuclear war, but nuclear weapons are
    the only deterrant that we have to prevent a nuclear war unless
    some of the liberals get off there butts and let the space defensive
    systems be put in place. If we had this defensive shield in place
    than I would vote to strip all nuclear warheads in this country.
    I would let our allies decide what defensive posture they would
    like to take as far as their weapons go.

    How's about we start a topic on this subject since there does seem
    to be so much discussion around it and we can let the original topic go
    back to its' original intent.

    
    al
    
    I bet the above will really get the flames up!!!!!
    
105.33Thank you Al...HERMES::CLOUDI'm on the inside looking out!Thu Oct 23 1986 22:505
    		Actually, I was thinking more of Red Dawn when I
    replied originally.
    
    					Phil
    
105.35Here's the meat of this topicVAXWRK::NORDLINGERIn a GALAXY far, far awayFri Oct 24 1986 12:487
>    If I say I am willing to die for something, am I implicitly
>    saying that I am also willing to live for it.  It seems to me more
>    challenging, worthwhile and difficult to decide to dedicate my life 
>    to something rather than give my life for something.
 
     This is beatiuful. How often will people claim they would die for
     some cause but never live for it. Thanks Bob, very nice. 
105.36Death might be the easy way outATFAB::REDDENplan_or_be_planned_forFri Oct 24 1986 12:519
    People that study the realities of nuclear war predict that the
    primary cause of death will be civil chaos rather than radiation.
    Underneath this prediction is the belief, based on surveys, that
    many people will choose to "dive on a grenade", die saving others,
    rather than face the reduced standard of living that will follow.
    Being willing to die for something may sometimes be much easier
    than being willing to live for something.  For me, what I am willing
    to die for has varied as a function of what I had to live for.
    
105.37You can't have Life without DeathNOVA::BNELSONThe Stars My DestinationFri Oct 24 1986 19:0239

	Hmm, I'm pretty confused.  When you talk about dying for some cause,
I assume you're reffering to fighting for your country ( or something akin
to it ).  In that context, it doesn't make any sense to say, "I'd never live
for my country"!!!  Also, to say that it's more challenging, worthwhile, or
difficult to live for something than to die for it is nonsense.  People who
wish to dedicate their lives to something would never have the chance to do
so without the sacrifice of those who are willing to die to protect those
freedoms.  I don't advocate war or the military ( ideally, anyway; in reality,
the military is a necessary evil ).  I abhor violence and killing as much ( if
not more! ) than the next person.  But if our country was attacked, I'd be one
of the first in line to get into the service.  It seems to me that for anything
truly worthwhile, you've got to be ready to make the ultimate sacrifice.


	As another example, take space exploration/colonization.  I believe
that the only way the human race will survive is for this to happen.  Ultimate-
ly, we will run out of land, food, water, or some resource; what then?  And
that's if we don't blow each other up long before then!  But if we have colonies
out in space, we will be draining less from the Earth, and also if we do have
a global war then some of the colonies would ( hopefully ) survive.  To me,
this seems a more than worthwhile thing to die for; to say that I wouldn't also
live for it is ludicrous.  Of course I would rather live for it!  People would
ALWAYS much rather accomplish their goals without death, but sometimes, through
the actions of others or simple mishaps, that choice isn't available.  The bot-
tom line is, I think, that if you care enough about something you've got to be
willing to die for it.


	Sorry to ramble, but it seemed to me that people were taking lightly
the sacrifices that others have made for us -- whether it be fighting, as in
WWII, or exploring, as in the Challenger disaster.  I don't mean to offend
anyone, so I'm hoping no one will "flame" on this...



Brian

105.38BIZET::MAHONEYFri Oct 24 1986 20:1217

   This is an interesting question.  There is many things I would
   be willing to die for.  I count my family, friends, country
   and church among them.  These are also the things I would be
   willing to live for and dedicate my life.  The hardest question
   though that I run up against is either what would I live for
   or die for.  The hardest for me is what would I kill for. Violence
   is something that is abhorrent to me. I really do not what I would
   be able to kill for if anything.  I think to myself everything I 
   believe in would not allow me to do this.  I also think about
   if someone try to kill someone I loved what would I do?  Could or
   would I kill to protect myself?  I do not the answers to these.
   What I would live for or die for me is easy.  I hope I never
   have to find out what I would kill for.

  Brian
105.39Why die at all?GBMMKT::VACCHELLITrouble meFri Jun 09 1989 17:4219
    First I don't believe that death should ever be an issue.  It happens
    there isn't anything we can do to stop it.  So why be afraid?  Why
    qeustion it?  If you have faith then you know you'll be fine in
    death if your soul is ready.
    Then again I love living and don't know if I'll quite enjoy being
    dead in the same way.
    
    I would gladly give my life to save my brother's.  I mean my actual
    sibling.  If there were ever a situation that called for putting
    my life on the line to save his, there would be no question.  Also
    the same goes for my mother.
    
    I would die defending anyone that was being unfairly beaten.  I
    would defend anybody weaker than the person pursecuting them.  I
    don't do that for myself because I know that I will survive and
    because I have faith but not everyone does and I would like to give
    them a reason to have such.
    
    Katrina