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Title:A list of All the BABYNAMES (shadow copy)
Notice:BABYNAMES is now on-line and writable! Enjoy...
Moderator:OASS::BURDEN_D
Created:Tue Feb 13 1996
Last Modified:Fri May 30 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:996
Total number of notes:7139

819.0. "Help naming baby Monger" by COMET::MONGER () Mon Aug 24 1992 17:23

    Hi Everyone,
    
    First, I'd like to comment on what an excellent notes file this is, I
    didn't know it existed when I had my first child.
    
    Down to business, our second child is due December 19.  By choice we do 
    not know whether it is a boy or girl, we like the surprise at the end.
    Mom's intuition suspects it will be another boy, but who knows...
    
    Some stats on our family thus far:
    
    Dad - Bryan Allyn Monger  (BAM)
    Mom - Yvonne Marie Monger (Von)
    1st son - Justin Allen Monger (JAM) sometimes referred to as Jammer
    boy.  We love his name and hope the second child will have an equally 
    fitting name.
    
    We prefer traditional style spelling, as many people seem to have a 
    problem with Monger.  We both prefer "strong" names for a boy, not
    unisex, but don't seem to have any "rules" for girls names.  Some names
    under consideration, nothing is set as of yet are:
    
    Boys:
    
    Travis Michael  (mom likes, however dad likes the initials to spell
                     something...go figure!!)
    
    Only one so far, dad has offered no suggestions.
    
    
    Girls:
    
    Auburn Michelle  (dad has loved this one since the first go round, but
                      mom does not like the sound of Auburn Monger -
                      doesn't flow well IMO.)
    
    Michelle Leigh   (mom likes, var. on middle appreciated...dad ?)
    
    Chelsey ???      (dad likes, mom not sure)
    
    
    Family names aren't really being considered at this time, they include:
    
    Mom's side:
    
    Dad - Ralph Roman Mertes
    Mom - Janet Jean (deceased)
    Sister - Annette Lynn
    Brother - Lawrence Peter (deceased - suicide) don't want to use due to
              the nature of the death.
    Nephew - Jason Louis
    Niece - Janet Jean (after our mom)
    
    Dad's side:
    
    Dad - Alvin Gorze (used variant of, Allen for hubby and son)
    Mom - Inez
    Sisters - Connie and Jodie
    Nephews - Matthew and Cristopher
    Nieces - Robin, Melodie and Joy.
    
    Middle names not readily available for dad's side.
    
    Sorry so lengthy, just trying to help.  Thanks in advance for any
    suggestions all you great babynamers out there have, can't wait to
    hear from you...
    
    Von
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819.1A-E-I-O-U...KYOA::CHANGMon Aug 24 1992 20:4025
    Hi,
    
    As I read your note and wanting the initials to spell out something,
    the first middle name I thought of was Oliver - Travis Oliver Monger -
    TOM.
    Other names - Travis Arthur (TAM)
    		  Travis Edward (TEM)
    		  Travis Isaac  (TIM)
    		  Travis Oliver (TOM)
    	          Travis Ulysses(TUM-sorry I can't think of another U name)
    
    If you go with Michelle - Michelle Anne (MAM)
    			      Michelle Erin (MEM)
    			      Michelle Irene (MIM)
    			      Michelle Olivia (MOM-probably not good idea)
    			      Michelle Ursala (MUM- ditto)
    
    Of course there are lots of combinations just by running through the
    vowels like above for any other name starting with a consonant.
    
    It's a fun approach to pick names.
    
    Good luck,
    
    Chris
819.2more names for baby mongerCOMET::MONGERWed Aug 26 1992 16:1746
    Chris,
    
    Thanks for the reply, I'll see what hubby thinks, but so far none of
    the suggestions "feel right" to me.  I don't have any preferences on
    the name's initials spelling something, that was his idea!!  I just
    want something that sounds nice with Monger.  Travis was the only
    other name we both agreed on last time and we both still like it, so
    therefore the only name on the list so far.  He also liked Jacob the
    last time, but I don't care much for Jake which I'm sure it would get
    shortened to.  I like lots of names both for boys and girls, I'll list
    some of them below and see if I can't get some more help on this one.
    Also, Michelle is a name that has been lingering in my head for a long
    time as one of my favorites but it's not definite either.  It doesn't
    seem to matter if the girls initials spell something, just the boys. 
    My initials are YMM, Von is short for Yvonne and seems to suit me much
    better.  My cohorts here at work shortened it many years ago and it
    stuck...I'm sure glad, I never did care much for Yvonne!
    
    Anyways, some other names I like:
    
    Boys                            Girls
    ----                            -----
    Benjamin                        Kaley
    Matthew                         Amy
    Bryce                           Jennifer
    Steven                          Heather
    Colin                           Shaina  ?? not sure on this one anymore
    Joshua                          Shannon
    Keith                           Kylie
    Kenneth (Ken)                   Ashley
    Tyler                           Kirsten
    Joshua                          Kristen 
    
    There's more, but I don't have my list here at work with me, these are
    ones I can think of off the top of my head.
    
    Just a note, my hubby is a truck driver/furniture mover, so we don't
    get to talk about this a lot...it's not a popular conversation piece
    over the phone for some reason, so it'll be a couple of weeks before I
    get to run suggestions by him.  Please keep them coming, I'm feeling
    like we should have this down to just a few contenders now and we're
    really just beginning, I wonder what that means??  I wasn't this
    pre-occupied with naming the baby the first time around.
    
    Thanks again,
    Von
819.3Lots to choose from...AMCUCS::MEHRINGWed Aug 26 1992 19:1947
Von,

A few comments on your input to date... Do you mind if the two names of
your children "rhyme" or at least have the same ending sound (i.e. Justin
and Steven, Colin, Kirsten, Shannon)? I assume not since these are on
your list, but it's something to think about. Personally, I like the
ones that sound complementary, yet distinct (tough to find those!).

I think Travis Monger sounds good, although I wouldn't necessarily describe
Travis as "strong" as you mentioned in your base note as a preference.
The only one on your list that strikes me that way is Ken, but it's not
my favorite with Monger... I do like Bryce and Steven though. Not too
keen on the double -er endings of Tyler Monger, etc. (just my opinion).

I think Auburn is okay as a middle name, but a little odd for a first
name (besides, what if she's blonde?) For girls, I like those ending in
an "ee" or "a" sound the best...

Some other names that occurred to me as sounding good:

Boys:
	Troy Steven Monger	(TSM)
	Ray Peter Monger	(RPM)
	Richard (Rick) Paul Monger (RPM)
	or Richard Travis Monger (RTM)
	Eric Michael Monger	(EMM)
	Daniel Travis Monger	(DTM)
	Bryan Adam Monger	(BAM)

Girls:
	Karley (or Carley) Dana Monger (KDM or CDM) 
	Casey Jill Monger	(CJM)
	Rebecca Inez Monger	(RIM)
	Michelle Rae Monger	(MRM)
	 (nickname could be Chelle, Chelley, or even Chelsey)
	Juliette Auburn Monger	(JAM2)
	Lindsay Von Monger	(LVM)
	Valerie Jean Monger	(VJM)
	Audrey Jeanne Monger	(AJM)
	Allison Chelsey Monger	(ACM)
	Hillary Jane Monger	(HJM)
	
Good luck! I can understand your focus on the names and I'm not even
in n*eed* of any... 

-Cori (mother of Collin Richard and always in search of good names for
       an M. last name...)
819.4great choicesCOMET::MONGERThu Aug 27 1992 14:3028
    Cori,
    
    What a great choice of names you came up with...I knew this would be a
    good idea!  I hadn't even thought of the things you pointed out...the
    same ending sound as Justin, Kirsten I really don't like when saying
    them together.  Also the double -er endings, you're right, they just
    don't sound good together.  Thanks!
    
    I had to get a kick out of JAM2, that was great, though I'm not sure if
    I'm keen on Juliette just yet!  The only one of the boys names you
    suggested I would hesitate with is Richard.  I've known so many that
    got shortened to Dick, which I despise (no offense to any Dick's out
    there, it's a personal thing).  I do like the nickname Rick though, so
    that's a tough one.  I think I would just change the names around and
    have a Travis Richard, that sounds good (IMO).
    
    You're really great at this, all the names do sound good with Monger! 
    I also agree with your comment about Auburn...Justin has blonde hair
    now, even though when he was born it was black.  I think as he grows
    older it will be the same color as his daddy's...brown with some hints
    of blonde and red...when he's out in the sun.  There is a possibility I
    could end up with an auburn haired child as well though, as that is the
    color of my own.  I used to hate it, but now that it's becoming more
    popular I don't mind it...maybe it's just because I grew up!
    
    Anyway, thanks again for the great suggestions, keep them coming...
    
    Von
819.5PRMS00::TLIGHTONRedskins - 1991 NFL ChampionsThu Aug 27 1992 16:2815
Von,

	I wouldn't worry too much about Richard being shortened to Dick.  I've 
known several Richards and they (or their parents) had chosen their own 
prefered nickname (or lack of one).  I know Richard, Dick, Richie, and Rick and 
wouldn't consider calling any of them anything but those names.  They are all 
quite different and each seems to fit.  Richard is a journalist, Dick owns his 
own A/C and Heating company, Richie was a good guy who I've lost track of 
recently and Rick is a PR Director.  Occupations aside, their personalities fit 
the names even better.  One of the good things about the name Richard is the 
abundance of nicknames you can choose from.  As far as boys names go, the only 
other one that I can think of that is in the same catagory is William.

			Good Luck...Isn't this fun!?!
				Tom
819.6nicknamesCOMET::MONGERThu Aug 27 1992 18:3721
    Tom,
    
    Yes, this is great fun...I just wish I could get Bryan more involved! 
    He say's "we've got plenty of time, what's the rush?"  I don't know if
    it's the hormones kicking in or that I'm just excited about naming
    another baby, but I've sure been thinking about this alot lately!
    
    What I really like about this time around is this file...it's really
    interesting and fun to get other peoples ideas!  It's great to have a
    "third" party that can give you hints on some of the names not working
    together or whatever...wish I had known about it when I had Justin, but
    I think he ended up with the perfect name for him anyway!  
    
    I can see your point about Richard and choosing your own nickname...out
    of curiosity, is that a "vote" for Richard on your part??  Anybody know
    how you get "Dick" out of Richard anyway, that one's had me stumped for
    years???
    
    Thanks for the note...
    
    Von
819.7Never too early for name-hunting...AMCUCS::MEHRINGThu Aug 27 1992 19:4523
I agree that Richard makes a better middle name (I went through your
exact same logic - the nickname paranoia - then used it as a middle name
after my father). By the way, my father's family and my mother calls him
"Richard" (or "'Chard" when yelled from a distance ;-) but his business
associates/friends mostly call him "Dick". I think it was more common in
his generation and not so slang, but kids these days can be cruel...

Anyway, I think Travis is more "parallel" to Justin than the more common
names on the list. I was just thinking that RAM would be neat initials.
Same with JAM2 - it would be cute to have 2 J-names: Justin and Jenna,
but then what if you have a 3rd? Another J? Sometimes that can be TOO
cutesy...

My husband was the same way about the "we have plenty of time to think
of a name", but I, too, started thinking of it early. But, in the end
(at the hospital) when we had it narrowed down to 2 names, he sure had an
opinion *then* -- in fact, I preferred the other name! 

A couple more ideas:
	Cody			Cassidy
	Blake			Jade
	Lukas			Hayley
	Reed			Shawn(a)
819.8Bryan's ready to really discuss names nowCOMET::MONGERFri Aug 28 1992 14:4617
    Hi Everyone,
    
    Just a quick update...I talked to Bryan last night and couldn't believe
    it when he said "we need to come up with names for this young-un real
    soon"...guess he's reading my mind!  What great timing for having
    entered this note so I can pass all the suggestions by him when he gets
    home, hopefully for the Labor Day weekend.
    
    Keep them coming, I'd love to have a whole stack of these great
    suggestions to go through with him...I'm so excited that he's now ready
    to really get this part going.  I'm one of those that started making
    lists of names I liked when I was a teenager...boy that was a while
    ago!
    
    Have fun,
    
    Von
819.9GEM Gregory E. MongerRTOEU::KRICKSThere is no place like home....Tue Sep 01 1992 08:1820
    Hi,
    
    How about    Gregory Edward Monger  GEM ?????  or 
    		 Geoffrey Edward Monger GEM ????? 
    You mentioned that you preferred strong names and Greg and Geoff in my 
    opinion are strong sounding and not overly popular. I am not overly
    thrilled with the middle name Edward but thought it would be neat to
    have something that started with 'E' so you could get the initials
    GEM!!!  
    
    For girls names: 
    Alison  Monger 
    Jessica Monger
    Lauren Monger 
    
    My mind is drawing a blank !!!  
    
    Cheers,
    Kimberly 
           
819.10TIM?GEMVAX::WARRENWed Sep 09 1992 23:252
    Travis Ian?
    
819.11still undecidedCOMET::MONGERTue Nov 03 1992 19:3526
    Well, six weeks left and still undecided.  I was diagnosed with
    Gestational Diabetes 6 weeks ago and my doctor will not let me
    go past Dec. 15.  It's nice to know that sometime between now
    and 6 weeks from today there will be a new little Monger in our
    family.
    
    Names we are currently contemplating are:
    
    Girls                       Boys
    -----                       ----
    Alyssa                      Travis (I love, hubby not so sure)
    Caitlyn                     Eric
    Kelly                       Keith
    Michelle Leigh
    
    No middle names really decided, any help you can offer would be greatly
    appreciated.
    
    Mom still suspects it will be a boy...must be the reason we are having
    such a hard time coming up with boys names this time.  It seemed so
    easy the first time around.  Girls seemed easy this time, I just need
    help with middle names.  I like Alyssa Michelle, but don't have any
    ideas for Caitlyn or Kelly.
    
    Thanks again,
    Von
819.12some middle name options...AMCUCS::MEHRINGTue Nov 03 1992 22:1923
Von,

Nice to hear your updated list (funny how it changes over time, huh?).

Here are a few middle-name ideas for you:

    Girls                       Boys
    -----                       ----
    Alyssa Michelle		Travis Michael
	or Danielle                 or Richard
    Caitlyn Jeanne              Eric James
	or Jessica		    or Steven
    Kelly Diana                 Keith Andrew
	or Amanda		    or Adam
    Michelle Leigh		Derek Jeffrey
	or Erin  		    or Bryan

I like all of these - hard to pick a front-runner - but I kind of lean
toward Alyssa or Kelly for girls and for some reason I really like
Derek Monger.

Good luck with the final weeks!
-Cori
819.13thanksCOMET::MONGERWed Nov 04 1992 13:4121
    Thanks for the ideas, they're great, as was the last go round you came
    up with!  Unfortunately, Derek is out.  I do like the sound of it, but
    my hubby has a good friend with that name that has really rubbed me the
    wrong way, so I just can't envision using it.  I'm kinda of leaning
    towards Alyssa or Caitlyn for a girl, but who knows with 6 weeks left
    how that will change.  Bryan suggested Kelly, so that one may win out
    since we both do like it and I don't want him to feel like he has to 
    go with one of the names I suggested, unless he really likes it better.
    I'm having a real hard time with boys names this time, although I like
    all the names on the list, none of them just jump out at me as one I
    definitely want to use...wonder what that means?
    
    I'm getting incredibly excited and anxious!  Although I love being
    pregnant for the most part, I'm ready to meet this new little person
    who will change our lives even more, and add so much love to our
    already wonderful family.
    
    Thanks again for the reply, I'll keep everyone posted as to what we
    finally decide on...which at this rate could be when the baby is born!
    
    Von
819.14Kelly AlyssaKYOA::CHANGWed Nov 04 1992 17:024
    
    How does Kelly Alyssa sound to you?
    
    Chris
819.15very pretty, I like it!COMET::MONGERWed Nov 04 1992 18:388
    Chris,
    
    I hadn't thought of that one, it sounds very pretty together, thanks!
    That would be one real nice way to satisfy both of our likes.  I'll
    run it by my husband along with the suggestions Cori gave and see what
    he says.
    
    Von
819.16Jared Michael??COMET::MONGERWed Nov 18 1992 14:1610
    Basenoter here again...
    
    Any feelings on Jared Michael for a boy???
    
    My first son's name is Justin Allen if that helps.  Though they both
    are J names I thought they sounded complimentary, your thoughts,
    please?
    
    Thanks,
    Von
819.17New ArrivalCOMET::MONGERThu Dec 17 1992 18:1914
    Well, mother's intuition isn't always right...
    
    Announcing.........
    
    Kellie Alyssa Monger
    
    Born:  Dec. 15, 1992.
    Time:  3:43 p.m.
    Wght:  7 lbs. 2 1/2 oz.
    Lng:   19 inches
    
    Mom and daughter doing wonderful!
    
    Von
819.18CongratulationsKYOA::CHANGThu Dec 17 1992 19:116
    
    
    Congratulations on the birth of Kellie Alyssa.  What a fantastic
    Christmas "gift"!
    
    Chris
819.19AMCUCS::MEHRINGThu Dec 17 1992 20:595
Congratulations Von on the birth of Kellie Alyssa ("KAM"?) Very pretty!

Have a wonderful holiday with your family.

-Cori