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Conference oass::babynames

Title:A list of All the BABYNAMES (shadow copy)
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Moderator:OASS::BURDEN_D
Created:Tue Feb 13 1996
Last Modified:Fri May 30 1997
Last Successful Update:Fri Jun 06 1997
Number of topics:996
Total number of notes:7139

390.0. "Charity ?????" by SKIWVA::FSCNO () Tue May 23 1989 13:49

    Please help! My husband and I are planning an addition to our family
    in the near future.  We already have the boy's name (left over from
    last time) but I would like to name the baby if its a girl, Charity.
    My husband says no, for one reason our last name is Lilly and he
    says the first name should not end in "y". I diplomatically pointed
    out that so does mine. Anyway, I am dead set on this name. It always
    makes me think of that passage in the Bible. So if you would please
    help with a middle name and maybe I can work on him. I have thought
    of Charity Diane but would appreciate some input.  Also would
    appreciate some opinions on his name for the boy, Travis Devin.
    If I had my choice it would definitely be something else.
    
    Thanks,
    Cindy
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390.1careful about potential teasingWJO::SCOTLANDTue May 23 1989 16:0718
    Cindy,
    
    My first reaction to Charity is it is pretty.  But...I think she could
    be up for some teasing as she gets older..little boys can be cruel.
    Charity gives it for free???  I had a nickname in college that was
    given to me by my friends.  My name is JoEllen and the nickname
    was Jello.  Anyway, some new freshman boys moved into our corridor
    the next year.  One day I came back to a note asking me just what
    'flavor' I was.  My friends promptly stopped calling me by their pet
    name 'Jello'.
    
    As far as Travis Devin.  I am expecting...I had wanted Devin Padraic
    for a boy, but my husband wanted nothing to do with Devin.  Travis
    is getting to be a very popular name.  I know several that are under
    six years old.  How about finding a middle name to go with Devin Lilly?
    
    Just some thoughts......Jo (no longer called jello)
    
390.2Hmmmm ...SHALOT::ANDERSONGive me a U, give me a T...Wed May 24 1989 14:2423
>    My husband says no, for one reason our last name is Lilly and he
>    says the first name should not end in "y". I diplomatically pointed
>    out that so does mine. Anyway, I am dead set on this name. It always
>    makes me think of that passage in the Bible ...

	So why not just call her Faith or Hope?  Seriously, these
	names have several advantages over Charity.  First, they're 
	not sing-songy (re your husband).  Second, they're less
	directly associated with the noun where they come from (re
	.1).  I think Charity is rather a lovely name, but it
	definitely doesn't go with Lilly.  I don't think a middle
	name would help much.

>    of Charity Diane but would appreciate some input.  Also would
>    appreciate some opinions on his name for the boy, Travis Devin.
>    If I had my choice it would definitely be something else.
    
	I agree with .1 -- Travis may very well become the Justin
	of the 90s.  I think Devin is becoming very popular too.
	Also, it's used for girls as well as boys.  Though this is
	not a problem for a girl's name, it can be for a boy's.

		-- Cliff