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125.1001 | :-( | SMURF::PETERT | | Tue Sep 01 1992 20:27 | 6 |
| Best of luck rochelle! How to look on the bright side? Well, maybe
George Bush will be in the same situation in a few months?
Keep on truckin'
PeterT
|
125.1002 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | from a guitar... | Tue Sep 01 1992 20:39 | 10 |
|
The deeper they get with this layoff stuff, the more people that I know and
care about are getting hit...:-(
Jum
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125.1003 | | SKYLRK::TING | Give Peace a Chance!!! | Tue Sep 01 1992 21:51 | 5 |
| But you just got here 8-(. Good luck in your new beginning, Rochelle!
There *is* life after DEC!
peace,
t!ng
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125.1004 | Good luck! | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Tue Sep 01 1992 22:39 | 10 |
| I'm sorry to hear this Rochelle, it was nice getting to know you over
this short time. I gotta admit I didn't always get the tiltles either
but you sound pretty alive and happy so I figured they were probably
cool.
I just read that Mike Lampson and Oso got hit also, I'm not used to
seeing so many people leave notes at once.
Have fun Rochelle, Maybe I'll meet you at a show someday.
Geoff
|
125.1005 | :^( | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Sep 01 1992 23:17 | 3 |
| au revoir Rochelle, Mike and Oso...
da ve
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125.1006 | either way | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Roll me away | Wed Sep 02 1992 13:13 | 11 |
|
I believe that I will be finding out the fate of my product
at an 11:00 am meeting today. I told 'em that I gotta split
at 11:20 in order to make it up to the slash_go_away_lunch...
So, what's it gonna be boys? Yes, or no?
.... story at 11am!
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125.1007 | goodbye Rochelle, Mike, Oso, / | OCTOBR::GRABAZS | Not fade away! | Wed Sep 02 1992 16:06 | 10 |
|
turning points in our lives are never easy - even when we
initiate them ourselves.
not knowing exactly what to say but wanting to say something...
I hope things work out well for you down the road, that you
look back on this turning point someday and know that it was
for the best. Good luck and best wishes to all of you.
Debess
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125.1008 | :-( | OCTOBR::GRABAZS | Not fade away! | Wed Sep 02 1992 16:10 | 4 |
|
i'm real bummed cause I'm missing /'s going-away lunch
cause I have no way to get there...
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125.1009 | | LEDS::MRNGDU::YETTO | discover the wonders of nature | Wed Sep 02 1992 16:13 | 7 |
|
I want to be sad for you Rochelle, but I can't be - thanks to your (usual)
uplifting note. I know you'll shine wherever you are, enjoy yourself and
be sure to tell everyone you meet how lucky there are to know you. ;^)
Lisa
|
125.1010 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | | Wed Sep 02 1992 19:37 | 4 |
| Wow, just when I was agetting so psyched because we had all sort of new virtual
faces, they all disappeaer into virtual space!
Definitely a bummer...
|
125.1011 | | EBBV03::SMITH | we were meant to be here | Wed Sep 02 1992 20:15 | 7 |
|
yes, this is depressing,
I can almost compare the same feeling as when all my friends
would go off to college in September, I never had the money to
go to school, all I could do is wave goodbye. I get an empty
feeling when I have to say goodbyes.
|
125.1012 | ... | STAR::SALKEWICZ | It missed... therefore, I am | Wed Sep 02 1992 20:21 | 14 |
| Well folks,. its sad for us leaving too and we gets lumps in our
throats too (especially reading about other lumps,.. I'm going to have
to ask Derek if theres anything he can do about all these lumps :-)
But rilly,... for me,.. I feel like it aint a "final" goodbye. I look
forward to satying in touch with lots of you via e-mail, seeing
folks at Ronnie/Slipknot/KIND gigs, getting together for parties
(like the one I keep threatening to have),. you know,.. so..
it aint necessarily "goodbye",.. as "til next time"
So,. 'til next time...
/Soko
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125.1013 | Speckled moon, shiny star, upon this earth, I look afar | SANFAN::SCOTT_RO | ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife | Thu Sep 03 1992 19:47 | 27 |
| Well HELLO everyone! I'm still on the system til Fryday.
I want to thank all of you for all the wonderful replies. It makes me
feel really grate inside to think that I've made alot of you smile. As
for the strange titles, ummm, I make those up....there is no *real*
meaning. The only meaning of them is to make you smile.....and it
seems I succeeded. Actually, you know, in the beginning I was a little
worried you would look down on me for kind of _mirroring_ the way some
of the Dead lyrics go.....but, well, they were mine and someday I will
take them and put them to use.
If all goes right, I'm taking a train out of dreadful Reno, and I'm
coming your way to attend the Slippin Outta Summer party.... Now how's
that for adventure!!! I've never been out of Nevada and California
since I was about 2 yrs old....Imagine! *ME* all be myself going accross
country!! My mom is gonna hit the floor!! So hopefully all will go
right, they will cash my check (no credit card anymore to guarantee
the check, could be a problem 8-\ but I'm confident everything will
work out and I will begin a new adventure....and I will have the chance
to meet alot of you.........:^)))))))))
Till next time....
may all the rainbows shine upon you
rochelle
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125.1015 | Fixing an incorrect title | GR8FUL::WHITE | Without love in a dream... | Thu Sep 03 1992 20:34 | 9 |
| Re:<<< Note 125.1014 by SANFAN::SCOTT_RO "ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife" >>>
> Heck!! ruined that last word on my title...:-|
That can be fixed after the fact, i.e., without redoing the note
itself with:
Notes> SET NOTE/TITLE="your words go here"
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125.1016 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Sep 03 1992 20:36 | 5 |
| keep an eye out for the friendly DEA man on board, rochelle
they are in the habit lately of harrasing ANYONE that REMOTELY looks
suspicious or fits "the profile".........better safe that sorry
rfb
|
125.1017 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | from a guitar... | Thu Sep 03 1992 20:49 | 11 |
|
Good point RFB....Rode the train from SF to Boston last year and there were
a bunch of people hauled off for all sorts of stuff. They don't mess around.
Jum
|
125.1018 | | TLE::ABBOT | J. R. "Bob" Dobbs in 92 | Thu Sep 03 1992 21:03 | 22 |
| I've never been hassled yet in travelling overseas. In '89 they asked
to look through my luggage, that was mainly because there was a lot of
terrorism that year and they were stopping everyone. But while waiting
in line at customs in Logan this year (Logan seems to be much more
paranoid than Heathrow) an officer was walking around with a sniffer
dog, casually strolling by everyone. The dog must have smelled Nigels
dogs or cats on my backpack, as he sniffed it for a while. I wasn't
really worried since I had nothing to hide, and just told the guy that
I had been staying in a house with dogs and cats.
BTW, I think we've finally gotten our revenge on the Brits in the beer
market. For years they've been dumping bleedin Watney's Red Barrel on
us because no one else in the world likes the stuff. Can't even get it
in England. Other Watney's products are pretty good, so I don't know
why they continue to make this vile brew. But while doing some beer
shopping in an off license shop, in between all these bottles of fine
small brewery beers and Belgian trappistes was Mickey's Big Mouth, at
99p (almost $2) a bottle. I thought it was pretty funny, since Chimay
Red was only about 30p more.
Scott
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125.1019 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Sep 03 1992 21:07 | 8 |
| Even though we know what the DEA is looking for, that was not the
intent of my warning. I meant to imply that the DEA WILL HARRASS you
because of the way you look, act, walk, talk. and I should have said,
"DON"T LET THEM!" tell 'em to shove off, you are an American and have
certain rights, no matter what George says or the DEA does.
so there %^)
rfb
|
125.1020 | the train speeds on, thinking becomes unclear, I feel myself fly | SANFAN::SCOTT_RO | ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife | Thu Sep 03 1992 22:31 | 12 |
| Thanks for the word of advice! I won't be wearing my tye-dyes on
board for sure then! I doubt they'll harrass me for that reason if
they do. I don't fit the profile of the "Deadhead" if there *really*
is a profile...;^)
And you're right, I have certain rights, and if I want to alter my
thinking, then that's MY choice and not George's, the DEA or even my
mom's! It's MINE! And they have no reason to bother me if I'm not
bothering anyone so they can all shove off and kiss my big toe, cuz,
well, I'LL BEHAVE MYSELF!! *8^)
rochelle
|
125.1021 | | OCTOBR::GRABAZS | Not fade away! | Fri Sep 04 1992 00:35 | 12 |
|
> If all goes right, I'm taking a train out of dreadful Reno, and I'm
> coming your way to attend the Slippin Outta Summer party....
Rochelle - if you can possibly hold off on your plans for a few
more weeks - WAIT TILL OCTOBER to come to New England...believe
me, it would be well worth the wait! It is the most spectacular
of seasons here then! (I'm sure Slipknot will be playing around
here in October too ;-)
Debess
|
125.1022 | | LJOHUB::RILEY | Namer of chaotic individuals everywhere! | Fri Sep 04 1992 12:59 | 8 |
|
> (I'm sure Slipknot will be playing around October too)
Sure will! Tell you what Rochelle... Come out now, and STAY thru
October!
Tree_one_of_the_many_who'd_be_glad_to_meet_ya
|
125.1023 | come back to New England mon ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Better make it through today | Fri Sep 04 1992 13:10 | 7 |
| but Debess Slip-Out_of_Summer is such a wonderful event how can you
discourge Rochelle from waiting ! just to see a few trees change color,
and anyway the weather has kinda pushed up the color changing so she
might get the best of both worlds :') and like tree said, stay ! and
she can go see more Slipknot and Cross the Water shows !
Chris
|
125.1024 | Red leaves, fallen acorns, the smell of autumn fills my nose | SANFAN::SCOTT_RO | ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife | Fri Sep 04 1992 19:02 | 5 |
| WAITING?!?! HA! Not a chance!! Actually I'm looking at staying for 6
weeks, so I guess I'll catch it all! I heard the colors were changing
early this year, that's cool I'll be able to catch it.
rochelle who_can't_wait_to_meet_all_my_new_friends!
|
125.1025 | To take a step up, one must first step forward.... | SANFAN::SCOTT_RO | ALWAYSlookonthebrightersideoflife | Fri Sep 04 1992 21:28 | 21 |
| Well, it's come time to sign off and say goodbye. I have a frown upon
my heart doing that, but well, there is a warm smile INside knowing
I will be meeting many of you next weekend! I have the money in hand
(god only knows how the hell I got my mom to front me the money!) and
am heading to pick up my ticket!!
Thank you all for all the warm wishes and allowing me to become a part
of GRATEFUL. I have met many wonderful people in here and I JUST CAN'T
WAIT TIL I GET THERE!!!! I have enjoyed my time with Digital and I'm
walking away with greater knowledge than when I first started. I have
met many wonderful people in the company, and I hope they can make it
thru all the downsizing.
Welp, this isn't really goodbye, it's hello to my new adventures......
Hopefully we'll have the boys back on the road in no time, and may
Jerry get well soon!
I love you all, and bid you goodnight....
rochelle
|
125.1026 | Help! | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Sep 04 1992 21:52 | 42 |
| I'm starting to get really bummed out. It looks like the
one or two guys that were going to help me move next
weekend are blowing me off - i.e. they don't return my
calls.
I have a rilly big truck reserved for the 12th (and 13th,
if I need it) and we're getting absolutely everything
into boxes this week and next, but I need some muscle.
I'd really like to get it over with so I can still go to
S.O.S., but I'm going to need some help if that's going
to happen.
I was thinking of offering to supply the beer, but I
figure that's not a productive way to go about driving
between Amherst NH and Littleton MA - i.e. we don't want
any accidents.... So, instead of buying a case/keg,
I thought I'd offer to buy a ticket to S.O.S. for all
of my volunteers who are generous enough to help me out.
I figure that way I can show my appreciation, and at the
same time motivate the crew to get things done...so I can
go!
I have about eight rooms of stuff to move. I'm not the
least bit chauvinistic - your help is welcome regardless
of gender. We accept muscles of all sizes...after all,
size doesn't really count, right? Right? ;-) ;-)
So, please, Please, PLEASE send me mail if you think you
can help me out. I figure the more bodies the faster
it'll get done. Makes sense, right?
Then, if we get it all moved soon enough, we'll hook up
the stereo, plug in the fridge, and throw an impromptu
pre-S.O.S. party in Littleton.
Most humbly yours (especially if you volunteer), and
eternally Grateful,
tim
DTN: 226-5108/508-486-5108
Home:603-672-2816
|
125.1027 | | OCTOBR::GRABAZS | Not fade away! | Tue Sep 08 1992 12:37 | 12 |
|
> but Debess Slip-Out_of_Summer is such a wonderful event how can you
> discourge Rochelle from waiting ! just to see a few trees change color,
you're absolutely correct Chris...I just couldn't contain myself
because it's getting so close to the best month of the year
and I just had to say something...but you're right - she should
do both!
Debess
|
125.1028 | I understand Debess, it is the best time of the year ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Better make it through today | Tue Sep 08 1992 13:01 | 8 |
| gee Im right ! wow !!! ;')
anyway she needs to see the green before the colors to rilly see
just how wonderful it is !
and SOS will be a not to miss day ! (pray for lots-o-sun)
Chris
|
125.1029 | | SELL3::ROBERTS | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Tue Sep 08 1992 16:15 | 3 |
| If October is coming - it must be time for a Debess_Pahty!
c
|
125.1030 | keep October 10 weekend open... | OCTOBR::GRABAZS | Not fade away! | Tue Sep 08 1992 16:53 | 11 |
|
> If October is coming - it must be time for a Debess_Pahty!
yes Carol ... this is true ... stay tuned for an
imminent announcement (I'm trying to convince Guntis
that it doesn't matter if I'm employed or not - we
still -need- to have an Oktoberfest ;-) )
Debess
|
125.1031 | BACK TO SCHOOL DAMMIT | EBBV03::SMITH | we were meant to be here | Tue Sep 15 1992 15:31 | 3 |
|
School starts tonight, major bummer! no more partyin til
May..... :-(
|
125.1032 | | DEDSHO::CLARK | Ever breathe oxygen, kid? | Tue Sep 15 1992 15:33 | 6 |
| School's going to stop you from partying? Good lord, man, you can't simply
make your brain cells go cold turkey like that!
;^)
- dc
|
125.1033 | | EBBV03::SMITH | we were meant to be here | Wed Sep 16 1992 13:57 | 4 |
|
re -1
Yes, it's hard not to party ;-) After I get mt degree I'll
have 5 years of partyin to catch up on :-)
|
125.1034 | Oops, I guess Tull is a month after Hedges - study time! 8-) | SKYLRK::TING | Give Peace a Chance!!! | Wed Sep 16 1992 17:56 | 16 |
| Yeah, school starts again next week. This quarter, I'm taking Spanish,
Advanced System Administration, and Korn Shell Programming. I think
Spanish is going to be the hard one 8-) (I took French in high school).
I decided that Spanish is a good language to know in California. To
get all my partying in before school starts, I'm starting my weekend
tonight with the Rads in Santa Cruz, tommorrow night is acoustic Rads
in San Francisco, then electric Rads Friday night, Miles Davis Tribute
tribute Saturday night, Ben & Jerry's One World One Heart Festival in
Golden Gate Park Sunday afternoon (featuring the Band, Jefferson Starship,
Michelle Shocked, Pele Juju), and Wynton Marsalis in Berkeley Sunday
night. Then school is every Monday, Tuesday, and Thrusday night (which,
of course, leaves Wednesday night open for shows 8-). Next Wednesday is
Michael Hedges at Great American Music Hall, and the Wednesday after
that is Jethro Tull at the Warfield. I think I'll have to study at
the stoplights driving to work ;-). School?? Partytime!! 8-) It's
the attitude, I guess 8-).
|
125.1035 | Hedges is awesome! | DEDHED::Spine | Tom Spine | Wed Sep 16 1992 19:29 | 4 |
| Enjoy Michael Hedges, T!ng! I've only seen him once, about 2 years ago...
it was without a doubt one of THE BEST concerts I've ever seen.
tms
|
125.1036 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Wed Sep 16 1992 19:37 | 11 |
| Hedges is impressive. We saw him about a year ago, and hung around
after the show and even met him... He just wandered out into the hall
from backstage before the crowd was gone. Tampa Theatre only seats a
few hundred people, so it was a very cozy atmosphere to begin with.
I would definitely go see him anywhere I could find the chance...
Have fun!!
tim
|
125.1037 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | | Wed Sep 16 1992 20:04 | 4 |
|
A grate way to learn spanich is to watch the spanish programmed TV stations.
They have one here (Chanell 27) and they talk real slow, especially on the soap
operas. the vocab they use is perfect for first year spanich studints!
|
125.1038 | | DEDHED::Spine | Tom Spine | Wed Sep 16 1992 20:07 | 6 |
| > A grate way to learn spanich...
Tell me, Fog, is spanich something like spanish spinach? :-)
tms
|
125.1039 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | | Wed Sep 16 1992 20:14 | 6 |
| :-)
Spainiards cannot pronounce the "sh" sound.
:-)
|
125.1040 | Some fine entertainment! | LJOHUB::GILMORE | You know and I know it's time for change | Wed Sep 16 1992 20:18 | 4 |
| I instantly think of Cheech & Chong
:) :) :)
sparky
|
125.1041 | Me brain be fried... | DRINKS::WEISS | Brain surgery with a monkey wrench. | Wed Sep 16 1992 20:28 | 3 |
| And are studints numbers that have lots of girlfriends?
Dave (math/cs-weenie...)
|
125.1042 | | SKYLRK::TING | Give Peace a Chance!!! | Wed Sep 16 1992 21:26 | 9 |
| >A grate way to learn spanich is to watch the spanish programmed TV stations.
>They have one here (Chanell 27) and they talk real slow, especially on the soap
>operas. the vocab they use is perfect for first year spanich studints!
I don't have a TV (no time! 8-) and I can't get Channel 27 from the Bay
Area even if I *had* an IB 8-). I think I'll just hang out at Mexican
town (downtown San Jose ;-). Of course, Mexican Spanish is to Spain
Spanish what Canadian French is to France French, so if my Spanish sounds
a little warped, you'll know why 8-)!
|
125.1043 | | DEDHED::Spine | Tom Spine | Wed Sep 16 1992 21:28 | 11 |
| > And are studints numbers that have lots of girlfriends?
Ha! Either that or they might be carpenter's numbers - perhaps a measure
of wall studs!
"Why that's a mightly big house you're building there, Fred."
"Ayup, why it took me three hundred and twenty studints just
to frame out the first floor."
tms :-)
|
125.1044 | Didn't bother me, i couldn't say half their names either | MR4DEC::WENTZELL | IfMusicBeTheFoodOfLove,PlayOn!!! | Thu Sep 17 1992 14:05 | 6 |
| >Spainiards cannot pronounce the "sh" sound.
Can't pronounce words (or names) that begin with "sc" either. When I lived in
Spain my name became Escott. 8^)
Scott
|
125.1045 | AAAACK!! | RDVAX::MOLLENHAUER | Centurion! Peel me a grape! | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:20 | 9 |
| Well, my friend Shane is hitchin' home from North Carolina - he
was hoping to be here by now but he just called from f***ing
Harrisburg, PA!!!:-( UGH!! Hopefully he'll get a lot closer
in the next 4 hours or so or I may have a loooooong drive ahead
of me - and I only got 4 hours of sleep last night!! Everyone
send pick up hitchhiker vibes to motorists travelling from PA
to this area!!!
chaotic individual
|
125.1046 | Shane! Come Back Shane! | LJOHUB::GILMORE | You know and I know it's time for change | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:29 | 16 |
| ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
**************************
* ACE TRUCKING *
* ******
* * * * * *
** * @ * ******** * @ * *****
* * * *
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Pick Up Hitchhiker vibes being sent!
:)sparky
|
125.1047 | | RDVAX::MOLLENHAUER | Centurion! Peel me a grape! | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:30 | 3 |
| Thanks Sparks - I knew I could count on you!:-)
c_i
|
125.1048 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Sep 17 1992 19:36 | 8 |
| GEEEESUUUS T!ng, how do you do it!? I'm havin a terrible time keeping
up with my JOB, an English oriented 32 week course every Tues and
Thurs WITH intense homework, my wife and kids (lemme tell ya 'bout kids...)
the high country, all my piece-o-sh*t cars, the end of summer/
beginning of our all too short fall, the remainder of fishing/start of
hunting, sexdrugsandrockandroll, taping,.......i just re-depressed
myself.
rfb
|
125.1049 | | SKYLRK::TING | Give Peace a Chance!!! | Thu Sep 17 1992 20:13 | 13 |
| > GEEEESUUUS T!ng, how do you do it!?
Easy. I don't have the kids! 8-) Last night after the Rads show at the
Catalyst, Reggie walked through the crowd. He stopped to say to me with a
grin, "I always know I'm on the west coast when I see you - you're my west
coast barometer!" 8-) Gee, it was good to find out I was useful for some
stuff. I gave him a hug! I don't think I mind being a barometer - how
hard can the job be?? I hope Reggie doesn't get too disillusioned when
I don't show up for the shows Saturday and Sunday night 8-}. There is just
too much good music going on around here to catch them all! 8-( 8->
peace,
t!ng
|
125.1050 | Pneumococcus Blues | NECSC::LEVY | | Mon Sep 21 1992 17:07 | 12 |
| Well, I've got my own bummer goin'.
I started feeling a little under the weather about a week and a half
ago, but though nothing of it. Started running a fever, and continued
to try to push through. I've been out of work since last Thursday and
saw the doc for the 2nd time today. He had a chest X-Ray done and,
yep, I've got Pneumonia! Yuck.
Medicine, rest, etc. Gotta stay home for another week.
~dave
|
125.1051 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Squeak I tell you, squeak | Mon Sep 21 1992 17:13 | 9 |
|
Wow, ~ take it easy and get better!
Jum sending healing vibes in your direction
|
125.1052 | No partying for you for a while! | LJOHUB::GILMORE | You know and I know it's time for change | Mon Sep 21 1992 17:23 | 9 |
| Sorry dude.
Want some chicken soup? I'm making some tonight!
Get well soon!
sparky
:)
|
125.1053 | | SKYLRK::TING | Give Peace a Chance!!! | Mon Sep 21 1992 19:36 | 4 |
| Wow, sounds serious! Hope you get better soon, Dave!!
peace,
t!ng
|
125.1054 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Sep 21 1992 21:30 | 3 |
| take care Probz....that stuff can be bad, even for a health nut such as
yerself! %^) seriously...TAKE CARE!!!!
rfb
|
125.1055 | The Bums | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Thu Oct 01 1992 12:32 | 6 |
|
The Red Sox have clinched LAST PLACE for the first time since this fan
has been around :^/
Hogan who feels they needed a kick in the ass anyway, and isn't that
sad about it
|
125.1056 | Ready for Bs and Cs season... | MR4DEC::WENTZELL | IfMusicBeTheFoodOfLove,PlayOn!!! | Thu Oct 01 1992 12:58 | 14 |
| >The Red Sox have clinched LAST PLACE for the first time since this fan
>has been around :^/
Yeah, too bad Frank Viola couldn't salvage some dignity for the team and
complete the no-hitter last night. The lead-off hitter in the bottom of the
9th got Toronto's first (and only) hit of the night. Still an admirable effort
though. Oooops sorry, wrong notefile... 8^)
Scott
PS - I'm actually going to game last two games of the season, against the
dreaded Yanks, this weekend. Probobly wear a paper bag over my head
though...
|
125.1057 | | EBBV03::SMITH | we were meant to be here | Thu Oct 01 1992 13:15 | 5 |
| > Probobly wear a paper bag over my head
> though...
har har, heh heh!! what a riot
|
125.1058 | I look for your bag :-) | SALEM::MARTIN_S | Department of Redundancy Dept. | Thu Oct 01 1992 13:22 | 15 |
|
psssssst!...hey, Scott...(whisper)..I'll be there Sunday, too!..sshhh
(My Dad is friends with Mike Stanley (C) of the Yanks, so we get
freebies when they're in town)
Steve-O_who_refuses_to_wear_a_bag_on_his_
head_because_it'll_mess_up_his_"do" :-)
|
125.1059 | That's "I'LL" look for your bag... | SALEM::MARTIN_S | Department of Redundancy Dept. | Thu Oct 01 1992 13:30 | 5 |
|
:-)
|
125.1060 | Transcending Forward | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's time for Change | Mon Oct 12 1992 11:54 | 10 |
| My boss' father passed away over the weekend . . . he had suffered
from Alzheimer's for years and then developed pneumonia a few
weeks ago. My boss was "waiting" . . . but still, I know it'll
be hard on her.
Never easy losing someone you love, but it really makes you
appreciate those that are alive even more.
sparky_bein'_bummed_for_my_ultra_cool_boss
|
125.1061 | Hug 'em! | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | WashaUffitze & drive me to Firenze | Tue Oct 13 1992 19:48 | 18 |
| > My boss' father passed away over the weekend . . . he had suffered
> from Alzheimer's for years and then developed pneumonia a few
> weeks ago. My boss was "waiting" . . . but still, I know it'll
> be hard on her.
I know how you feel.
This spring, my girlfriend lost her mother to a slow/debilitating terminal
illness. It had been coming for almost 6 years--Dori had spent the last
three years going to the hospital every weekend to see her mother. It was
really tough for her to deal with losing her mother, even though everyone
knew it was coming. It was also tough for me, since I never had the chance
to get to know her mother. What did I do about it? Offer a shoulder to
cry on and give lots of hugs!
Hugs are good!
- jeff
|
125.1062 | just bums me out | BOOKIE::BOOS | | Wed Oct 21 1992 23:51 | 5 |
|
Saw another 3-car accident on the way home from work today. I
only live 4 miles from work, but this is the third or fourth
accident I've seen in the past couple months. One time a car
was completely flipped over...
|
125.1063 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Thu Oct 22 1992 13:46 | 10 |
| Yeah, a two-car accident happened right outside my house last
night ... from the conditions of the two vehicles, I worry about
the occupants.
It's probably just my imagination, but does it seem like people
are driving even more frantically and aggressively than usual,
lately? Maybe the pre-winter blahs combined with economic worry?
Strange days ....
- DC
|
125.1064 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Oct 22 1992 13:55 | 5 |
| I've heard that's how all ya'll drive back there!! %^)
really not a funny topic, we have the same problem here in Colo Springs
with people running redlites.
rfb
|
125.1065 | It really a bummer driving with a one year old... | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | As the decnet turns | Thu Oct 22 1992 13:57 | 11 |
|
>are driving even more frantically and aggressively than usual,
I think so. I've been getting cut off more than usual of late, and if you
looked at my car, you'd think twice about cutting me off, since it has an
implicit "Hit me, I need the insurance money" bumper sticker.
I dunno, I think its because the thousand points of light-bulbs are all burned
out.
|
125.1066 | it must be scary out there when this can happen ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Better make it through today | Thu Oct 22 1992 14:01 | 7 |
| >I think so. I've been getting cut off more than usual of late, and if
and this coming from the man that invented the breakdownlane cutoff !
:')
|
125.1067 | Then there's the 95mph on the way to Big Rock & Back . . . | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's time for Change | Thu Oct 22 1992 14:07 | 12 |
| Taking route 9 to 495 north every day -- I'll tell ya, there are
some A$$hole drivers out there recently!!!! Like the type that just
change lanes, without looking, nearly causing an accident!
There was a 2-car accident on route 2 last night right at the
Acton/Maynard exit -- right before I got there. They were in
such a rush to be hours late . . .
I usually go 65 - 75 mph to work, and I get passed like I'm
standing still! Rediculous!
sparky
|
125.1068 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Thu Oct 22 1992 14:28 | 11 |
| Yeah, there have been a lot of accidents lately. Yesterday
morning on the news there was mention of a major one up
the street from my house, at Rts 20 and 31, requiring the
life-helicopter :-/ And on the way home, I was delayed
by a multi-car multi-ambulance accident on Rt 20 in Auburn.
Ever notice how people drive *really bad* when there's a full moon ?
(But yesterday, the moon ws about 1/4 full).
Ken
|
125.1069 | Fasten up! and use sign language! :-) | EBBV03::SMITH | I've got a peaceful easy feeling | Thu Oct 22 1992 14:30 | 15 |
|
Everyone PLEASE fasten up out there!
I go around the Concord rotary every
morning, lately it's gotten so I just
automatically roll down my window upon
arrival at the rotary, and hang my
middle finger out the window for the
period of time I travel around the
rotary, when I get on to Rt 2 I roll
my window back up! :-) My friend usually
is there when I am and we flip eachother
off as well. It's getting to be a
tradition!
|
125.1070 | In a GREAT mood today!!! :) | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's time for Change | Thu Oct 22 1992 16:57 | 18 |
|
>>Ever notice how people drive *really bad* when there's a full moon ?
>> (But yesterday, the moon ws about 1/4 full).
The moon affects people in different ways. I believe it mostly has
to do with your sign (if you're Fire, Water or Earth). I'm a Fire
sign. When the moon waxes (from New to Full) I'm in a wonderful
mood, things generally go right, etc. When it Waines (Full to New)
I'm a clutz, in a bad mood, drive bad, etc.
I think Fire and Earth signs are ok with the waxing moon, but
Water signs aren't. They boil . . .
This is my belief -- not necessarily fact.
sparky
|
125.1071 | Concord Rotary rules... | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | As the decnet turns | Thu Oct 22 1992 17:30 | 16 |
| Article XVI, Paragraph's 32 & 33, Commonwealth Of Massachusetts general Law
18974, adopted Oct 22nd, 1959 by the Massachusetts State Legislature and signed
into law by Governer Tobin, December 2nd, 1959...
Yield right of way to traffic in the rotary unless you are entering the
rotary from Rte. 2 eastbound or Rte 2 westbound. Motorists in the rotary have
the right of way over fleeing inmates at the state prison, but motorists
entering the rotary from Commonwealth Ave must yield to loose Doberman's from
the State Police K9 unit, but only when they are in pursuit of fleeing inmates.
Motorists traveling with other motorist's, pedestrian's, Doberman's, or
State Police's blood on their vehicles have the right of way over all motorists
excepts those on Rte 2 Eastbound during the hours of 7:00 A.M to 9:00 A.M
Monday through Fridays except holidays and those traveling on Rte 2 Westbound
during the hours of 4:00 P.M. to 6:00 P.M. Moday through fridays except
holidays.
|
125.1072 | | EBBV03::SMITH | I've got a peaceful easy feeling | Thu Oct 22 1992 18:01 | 7 |
|
hee hee hee
That's a riot! oh so true :-))))))
I enter from Commonwealth ave myself, have
seen inmates, but no K-9's. :-)
|
125.1073 | WHY ME ?!? | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Thu Oct 22 1992 18:47 | 18 |
| The more some things change, the more they remain the same!
I just got off the phone with my mechanic. Brought the car in 'cuz I
noticed the little pulley thingie that the crankshaft is connected to
was a-wobblin'. Hmmmm, he sez, never saw anything like that before.
Well, now he's tellin' me it's gonna cost me several hundred $$, and I
won't get my car back till the middle of next week.
The good news is that I brought it in before the gear thingies
exploded, which woulda wrecked the crankshaft, snapped the timing belt,
and generally cost me most of the moving engine parts.
And this is why I spent several thousand $$ on a nice car just four
months ago, right?
... Bobbb
|
125.1074 | | EBBV03::SMITH | I've got a peaceful easy feeling | Thu Oct 22 1992 18:53 | 5 |
|
Bobbb,
Try to get a 2nd opinion if you can, sounds
a little weird!
|
125.1075 | the engine's in pieces all over his floor | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Thu Oct 22 1992 18:58 | 11 |
| That WAS a 2nd opinion ... the guy who does my routine maintenance
pointed out the problem, and I then took it to the mechanic that does
all my other work, cuz I've known him for years and trust him to do a
good job.
I just don't get it ... this thing was in GREAT shape when I bought it.
Mebbe I should change my p'name to "Certified Ski & Car Destructor" :^(
... Bobbb
|
125.1076 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Thu Oct 22 1992 19:30 | 11 |
| re: <<< Note 125.1070 by LJOHUB::GILMORE "It's time for Change" >>>
> The moon affects people in different ways. I believe it mostly has
> to do with your sign (if you're Fire, Water or Earth). I'm a Fire
I'm scorpio, is that fire, water or earth ? I tend to get
a bit ansi around full moons, though not always.
Aaaaaaaaaoooooooooooooooooooooo ;-)
Ken
|
125.1077 | Bizzaro | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's time for Change | Thu Oct 22 1992 19:31 | 17 |
| Bobbb . . .
I know you have a Sentra too. I've NEVER heard of something like
this happening. Did your mechanic tell you WHY it happened?
Who do you go to? My mechanic is PHIL (Phil's service in Stow) --
who only works on Nissans/Datsuns. Great guy . . . and he tells
me WHY things happen -- especially if I can avoid having them happen
again in the future.
What year is it?
Hmmmmm -- sounds odd.
Sorry dude.
sparky
|
125.1078 | I always follow the rules | OK4ME::CAFE1 | Mike Lampson - lampson@eisner.decus.org | Fri Oct 23 1992 11:31 | 10 |
| Re: .1071
Thanks for the rules. Since I'm staying at the HoJo almost
directly across Rt 2 from the prison and driving through the
rotary to get to AKO1 for the next 4 weeks, they will come
in handy.
_Mike
;^}
|
125.1079 | I should get a job doing QC for a car company! | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Fri Oct 23 1992 12:22 | 33 |
| >> <<< Note 125.1077 by LJOHUB::GILMORE "It's time for Change" >>>
>> -< Bizzaro >-
I'll say ... nobody's ever heard of this kind of failure, apparently.
That's why it's gonna take him a week to get a replacement part (and I
get to drive a Dodge Aires-K rent-a-wreck ... GAK!!).
My knowledge of automobilia is rather limited, but basically what it
boils down to is that there's this bolt that holds a pulley in place.
And the bolt somehow loosened up, causing the pulley to wobble, causing
the bolt to strip it's threads, causing the pulley to wobble more.
Inside the pulley is a gear, about four inches in diameter and an inch
or so thick. It's got a slot in the center hole that's keyed to the
crankshaft, and somehow the gear has something to do with the timing
belt.
Because of the wobbling of the pulley, the key slot in the gear started
to wear, causing the gear to eventually get slightly out of mesh with
whatever it was gearing, and slowly wearing the teeth rounded. This
gear is the part that's holding everything up, cuz it "never breaks" so
nobody ever stocks it, and it'll take a few days to get here by the
usual ordering routine. All he's gotta do is replace the bolt and the
gear, and - while he's in there, he's gonna replace the timing belt (the
car's within a couple hundred miles of 50K). It ain't as bad as it
sounded on the phone, but it's still a pain in the a$$ (and still a few
hundred $$ when you throw in the cost of a rent-a-wreck).
Just my luck ... who else could manage to break a car part that supposedly
"never breaks" ?!?
... Bobbb
|
125.1080 | car 1-oh-1 | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Better make it through today | Fri Oct 23 1992 12:28 | 5 |
| gee Bobbb didn't ya know a flat tire can cause the timing belt to
break also ? matter of fact everything leads to the timing belt, even
the cigerette light burning out !
:'o
|
125.1081 | Rotate those tires or the timing belt will snap! | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's time for Change | Fri Oct 23 1992 13:04 | 9 |
| Good thing you're getting the timing belt replaced while they're
in there! Very smart move Bobbb!
I don't know what's worse -- your car being broken, or having to
drive a ***sheesh**** DODGE!
You poor soul.
:( sparky
|
125.1082 | You *DO* know why they call'em DODGE's dontcha? | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | WashaUffitze & drive me to Firenze | Fri Oct 23 1992 14:45 | 12 |
|
Yeah, I drove a Dogde once...
ONCE!!!
- jeff
|
125.1083 | Watchit buddy:-) | SALES::GKELLER | Just Say Anything (To get elected) | Fri Oct 23 1992 16:12 | 6 |
| Hey, watch it. My wife has a Dodge. It's got 104K on it and still starts
first time every time.
Wouldn't have been my first choice for a car but it runs great.
Geoff
|
125.1084 | Arrggh! | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | As the decnet turns | Fri Oct 23 1992 17:10 | 27 |
| Yesterday, I received the scariest letter in my life.
Some of you might remember me getting on my soapbox some time in the past about
a law which went into effect in Massachusetts some time ago which allows
certain paying customers access (for a small handling fee) to certain of the
states' data bases.
Well, yesterday, I got a letter from a Ford Motor Company marketing division
advertising add-on products for the '84 Ford I bought used from another state.
The only way they could have gotten my name, address, car model, make, year,
_and_ Vehicle Identification Number was from the state.
I'm really upset by this. I believe there should be free access to all to
public information but I do not believe that private information should be made
public without the option for the individual to request his data be "unlisted".
I have no recourse on this. The People have spoken and said through their
representatives in the Massachusetts state legislature that this is Good.
One thing you can guarantee I will do is write a letter to this marketing
division manager and clearly speak my mind...
Its bad enough my phone is barraged almost daily by mass marketeers who have
targeted me by other means as a white middle class homeowner in the suburbs.
:-/
|
125.1085 | The paper wasted . . . | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's got WICCABILITY! | Fri Oct 23 1992 17:19 | 16 |
| Not only do they get your name & assorted information from
the registry, but it seems the post office also gives out
that information.
It is pretty scary.
You can request to be taken off the mailing list (from each
place that sends you info), so they don't turn around and
sell your name to someone else.
I was in Marketing for two different publishing companies -
can you believe that some places can get $.15 a name?
Rediculous
|
125.1086 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | As the decnet turns | Fri Oct 23 1992 17:39 | 9 |
|
> You can request to be taken off the mailing list (from each > place
that sends you info), so they don't turn around and > sell your name to
someone else.
While this is true of mass amrketing companies and private companies, I don't
believe this is true with the registry...
Somebody. PLEASE tell me I'm wrong...
|
125.1087 | Scariest letter of your life... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Mon Oct 26 1992 11:17 | 11 |
| You have obviously never received the one that starts out with:
"Greetings from the President of the United States..."
If and when you think about voting for Perot, think about this letter, and your
kids.
tim
P.S. It used to come from your local draft board...;-)
|
125.1088 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Mon Oct 26 1992 14:42 | 1 |
| I don't understand. Can you explain a little bit?
|
125.1089 | Conscription Corespondence | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Mon Oct 26 1992 22:18 | 11 |
| Up until the late 70's, when the Selective Service was still in full
swing, a candidate (male, 19-year-old) for the draft was notified to
show up for induction into the military by a letter that began thusly:
"Greetings from the President of the United States,"
which, since we were still at 'policing action' (i.e. War) with Viet
Nam, could be loosely translated into "kiss your ass goodbye".
tim
|
125.1090 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Mon Oct 26 1992 22:22 | 12 |
| Oops, almost forgot the Perot reference. Ross is extremely
pro-military, and it would not surprise me that he would bring back the
draft in a heartbeat. Considering his inflamatory and confrontational
style, I expect he'll have no trouble coming up with a reason.
He's a hawk. A right-wing, pro-military, flag-waving, nationalist.
I think nationalists should all be classified 1-A, irregardless of age,
sex, or health. Let them get shot at first, and maybe it'll give 'em
some REAL religion!
tim
|
125.1091 | my $.02 on Ross and the military | JURAN::CLARK | I Was Warned | Tue Oct 27 1992 12:12 | 13 |
| I don't know about Ross and the military. He left the Naval
Academy when he found it to be full of phonies and unpleasant
people. Having done the same thing, I can see where he's
coming from. He's not 100% pro-military.
Ross says we're involved in an economic war with the rest of the
world. I agree 100%. Both Digital and the U.S. have been slow
to respond to the changes that technology is bringing to the
world. We need to be fast and efficient to compete with the rest
ofthe world. A large military bureaucracy sucks up a lot energy
and resources out of the nation's economy; resources we need to
compete with countries who are eating our lunch today because they
don't have huge military budgets.
|
125.1092 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Tue Oct 27 1992 12:34 | 3 |
| He's right about that... we are in an economic war... but we mustn't
go overboard and cut defense too much... it's a dangerous world out
there.
|
125.1093 | Consider this, for a change... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Oct 27 1992 18:19 | 72 |
| You can make a very convincing argument, if you so choose, that ALL wars
are econmically based. That's not the issue. The issue is more one of
arbitration, negotiation, concession and cooperation, both within our
own country and it's government, as well as with our fellow sovereign
countries. Every major war in the past century or four has been based
around the clash of competing nations for dwindling economic oppotunities
and resources. World War II: why do you think Germany wanted the rest
of Europe, and so they invaded it? To convert them to the Aryan Nazi faith?
I don't think so! Same for the Japanese in 1941. How about that white
minority in South Africa: why do you suppose they don't want to give up
control of the government to the black majority? BECAUSE THEY'RE ROLLING
IN IT! Ferdinand Marcos? Francisco Franco? That ugly little bugger in
Panama? Dun Xiao Ping? Clarence Thomas? I don't think these folks worry
about balancing their checkbooks.
So, whom would you rather have out there working towards an equitable and
stable economic environment, that can at least give us a shot at making
some bucks and staying afloat? The environmental president who vetoes the
Clean Air Act, and whose fortune was amassed in the Oil Industry,
with his trusty, albeit learning disabled V.P.? Indeed, George, who
can we trust? How about the abrasive billionaire computer executive
with a history of walking away from tight situations, whether
it's the Naval Academy, General Motors, or the Presidential
race itself? I mean, the man's very funny, and he says a lot of righteous
things, but can you imagine sitting across the table from that
face, trying to work out a deal? Picture Ross as the guy you meet
when you go work out a deal for a new car, or the person across the
desk from you at the IRS Audit! Ross' public image has been anything
but one of peacemaker...he wins the hard way, and he's been telling us
that every night for a month now. He worries me. Luckily, he has about
the same chance of winning that John Anderson did, with the sole
exception that I liked Anderson.
Better yet, which one most closely resembles what you believe to be
the direction that the country should head towards overall, while
simultaneously keeping us from incinerating it in the mean time?
Much of our values as people with interests like those in this file
see a different way of living in this country than we now must tolerate.
Which man looks to you like the first step out of this vale of
tears toward a more progressive society, and not just a more
progressive pocketbook?
We have a chance to have a voice in this election - we haven't had that
since Carter won. The misguided pranksters who still manage to haunt the
Republican party have contrived to mass-hypnotise the country throughout
most of the recent presidential elections with red herrings about flag
burning, Willy Horton, family values, and God knows what other symphony of
media trash. But not this time. This time it's a close race. This time
there's a reason to vote, simply because that vote can make a difference
by overturning the cruel regime that has driven us not only into the ground,
but underground socially as well, with hyperbolic rhetoric about
Evil Empires and the War on Drugs!
I believe that a vote for Perot is wasted not simply because it might
draw the race between Bush and Clinton closer without chance of electing
the candidate of choice, but because it's a vote for a single-issue
charicature whose values otherwise directly conflict with ours. He
hardly resembles even a remote vision of my viewpoint on life.
I think he'd make a fine Secretary of Abrasion, if we ever need one.
Clinton isn't the ideal candidate. I don't like some of the things he
has said and done. He is what he embodies in his own history: a
compromise. But he is, nevertheless, a compromise I can live with.
And he's the one that comes closest to the direction I'd like to see
the country as a whole take, and not only with respect to the economy.
Even if he didn't inhale.
This time we have a voice. Say something. Say Goodbye to the old
establishment, forever. Vote for Clinton.
tim
|
125.1094 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Tue Oct 27 1992 18:34 | 7 |
| Amen, Tim.
I've never understood it when people say that being president is nothing
more than running a business. What are we, citizens of a democracy
or human resources?
- Dave
|
125.1095 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | As the decnet turns | Tue Oct 27 1992 19:24 | 16 |
| RE: <<< Note 125.1093 by NAC::TRAMP::GRADY "Short arms, and deep pockets..." >>>
Nice werds, tim. After reading that, I convinced. Think I'll vote for Clinton.
:-)
>countries. Every major war in the past century or four has been based
>around the clash of competing nations for dwindling economic oppotunities
>and resources. World War II: why do you think Germany wanted the rest
Yes, Resources are one of the three reason we war. Resources are power, but so
is religious hegemony and just plain stoopid male ego. Power-hungry leaders
wanting more power, etc.
Gold, God, Glory, in that order, are the reason we war, the legacy left to us by
Bush, Hitler, Columbus, Marco Polo, Ceasar, Moses...
|
125.1096 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Tue Oct 27 1992 19:25 | 1 |
| how are we treated?
|
125.1097 | I won't know which way to go until 11/3 | YNGSTR::STANLEY | Sometimes you get shown the light... | Tue Oct 27 1992 19:32 | 7 |
| I'm beginning to lean towards Clinton even though I don't agree with all of his
policies. While the Libertarians most closely match my views, I really don't
want Bush to win again. I'll most likely vote for the Libs or Reps in the
congressional race. I wouldn't feel too comfortable with a Dem president *and*
a Dem controlled congress.
Dave
|
125.1098 | | TLE::ABBOT | J. R. "Bob" Dobbs in 92 | Tue Oct 27 1992 19:40 | 7 |
| Another reason for war: it boosts the economy. Pump all sorts of
money the govt doesn't have into building war toys, thereby making lots
of jobs and supporting the big lobbiers. Take a look at our economic
history and it's taken a war to pull us out of every depression.
Scott
|
125.1099 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Tue Oct 27 1992 19:47 | 5 |
| Though it's only a temporary boost ... the weapons either sit out
there and rust, or get blown up. Put the money into the infrastructure.
Russia collapsed because it directed too much money into its military
(though George would like us to believe he waved some magic wand);
when are we going to learn the lesson?
|
125.1100 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | If wishes were changes... | Wed Oct 28 1992 00:36 | 16 |
|
Speaking of Bush taking credit for ending the cold war..my boss asked me
what I wanted put in my review under accomplishments...I told him the Berlin
Wall came down and teh cold war ended..I figured if Bush could take credit
for it so could I :-)
ZEX
^^^^
dang keyboard :-/
|
125.1101 | havin' a baaaad day ... :^( | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Wed Oct 28 1992 15:36 | 8 |
| Just got off the phone with my mechanic ... the gear (balancer?) came
in yesterday, and after he installed it he realized the crankshaft is
bent, and will have to be replaced ... gonna cost me $1,500 to put this
car back on the road, and that doesn't count for the two week's worth
of rental car ... I'm f#&%ing disgusted (not to mention broke!).
... Bobbb
|
125.1102 | Positive vibes heading your way | MR4DEC::WENTZELL | Just a little sweetness | Wed Oct 28 1992 15:58 | 5 |
|
Wow, Bobbb, that hurts. I feel for ya man....
Scott
|
125.1103 | keep your chin up dude! | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:00 | 8 |
| hey Bobbb... if it will make you feel better, i have your coffee
pot from the camping trip still at my house... i can bring it back
to you anytime you want it...
at least then you'll have a pot to, well, you know! :^)
da ve_hoping_the_worm_turns_again_
for_you_soon
|
125.1104 | | DEDHED::Spine | Tom Spine | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:03 | 11 |
| > Just got off the phone with my mechanic ... the gear (balancer?) came
> in yesterday, and after he installed it he realized the crankshaft is
> bent, and will have to be replaced ... gonna cost me $1,500 to put this
> car back on the road, and that doesn't count for the two week's worth
> of rental car ... I'm f#&%ing disgusted (not to mention broke!).
Jeesh, Bobbb, what are you complaining about? For $1500 you're getting
a gear balancer *and* a crankshaft -- I couldn't even replace my car's damn
clock fer that! ;-)
tms
|
125.1105 | It's a gorgeous fall day outside. | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's got WICCABILITY! | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:11 | 12 |
| Hey Bobbb . . .
This is a MAJOR bummer! You bought the car used right? Could
it be something that happened _before_ you bought it and it
just kept getting progressively worse?
Maybe time for a lunch (we'll pick you up!) . . . what do you all
think???
:'( Sparky_way_bummin_out_for_Bobbb's_car
|
125.1106 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:14 | 2 |
| ain't cars grate????
rfb with 4 pieces of sh*t
|
125.1107 | | NOPROB::JOLLIMORE | kids'ey dance and shake der bones | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:26 | 4 |
125.1108 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:41 | 8 |
| Bobbb, that's a bummer. If it were me, I'd be real suspicious that
(or disappointed with) the mechanic didn't advise you earlier on the
cam shaft, which, IMO, should have been known. That's a lot of $
to put into a car!
BTW, how long have you had this car ? I'm thinking lemon law.
Ken
|
125.1109 | Attempt to cheer up Bobbb follows... | DRINKS::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Wed Oct 28 1992 16:44 | 7 |
| Bummer, Bobbb.
BUT...I hear that Cannon's gonna try to open for skiing on Holloween!
:-)
Dave
|
125.1110 | standin' in the toilet bowl, hand on the flusher ... | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Wed Oct 28 1992 17:49 | 15 |
| >> BUT...I hear that Cannon's gonna try to open for skiing on Holloween!
Well, that might cheer me up if I had some way to get there ... but at
15 cents a mile, I ain't takin' no rent-a-car skiin' ... besides, I'm
gonna need all the shekels I can muster to spring it outta the shop
when it does finally get fixed, so it looks like another week-end of
hybernating around the shanty and makin' tapes for people.
The real bummer is that this car was checked thoroughly before I bought
it, and it was in incredibly good shape. It doesn't even have 50K
miles on it yet. And nobody's ever heard of this kind of problem
before. Like I said earlier in the week ... WHY ME!
... Bobbb
|
125.1111 | | EBBV03::SMITH | I've got a peaceful easy feeling | Wed Oct 28 1992 17:57 | 9 |
|
holy cow!
$1500 ??????
well, at least it wasn't..er..um..$2500..um...never mind!
Hang in there Bobbb....I hope your mechanic is
truely trustworthy.
|
125.1112 | | 39682::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Wed Oct 28 1992 19:11 | 5 |
| < 50K miles ? 5 year/50K mile warranty is pretty standard
when a car is new, and I think it's transferrable. Have
you checked with a dealer ??
Ken
|
125.1114 | The Bobbby Fund | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | WashaUffitze & drive me to Firenze | Wed Oct 28 1992 19:14 | 18 |
125.1115 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Wed Oct 28 1992 19:16 | 36 |
| CSLALL::HENDERSON
>Speaking of Bush taking credit for ending the cold war..my boss asked me
>what I wanted put in my review under accomplishments...I told him the Berlin
>Wall came down and teh cold war ended..I figured if Bush could take credit
>for it so could I :-)
(heh, heh, heh) and you're probably more justified in taking credit
for it than he is also Jim. :-)
TLE::ABBOT
> Another reason for war: it boosts the economy. Pump all sorts of
> money the govt doesn't have into building war toys, thereby making lots
> of jobs and supporting the big lobbiers. Take a look at our economic
> history and it's taken a war to pull us out of every depression.
Lots of things could boost the economy though... imagine if the
Mars Observer found actual hard evidence of intelligent life? You'd
see so much money from all over the world just poured into the space
program... the economy would boom ... they couldn't hire enough people.
all sorts of technical skills would be needed... every country would
want in on the action.. they'd all be trying to buy their way into the
program with us... the race for a manned mission would be on... I can't
wait..
YNGSTR::STANLEY
>I'm beginning to lean towards Clinton even though I don't agree with all of his
>policies. While the Libertarians most closely match my views, I really don't
>want Bush to win again. I'll most likely vote for the Libs or Reps in the
>congressional race. I wouldn't feel too comfortable with a Dem president *and*
>a Dem controlled congress.
Me too, Dave.. now I'm leaning towards Clinton too. Gee will I be glad
when this is over.
|
125.1116 | | TLE::ABBOT | Jumbo Hunderglitz in '92 | Wed Oct 28 1992 19:51 | 22 |
| I certainly wasn't supporting the idea of war with my comment. I
oppose war and anything related to it. But, throughout history war has
been the most powerful influence on bringing a country together and
getting us out of bad economic times. I think it's the idea of having
a goal that keeps us moving forward in such times. These days it
doesn't seem like we have a goal. And with the USSR gone we don't even
have anyone to compete with - like when Kennedy set a goal for the
USA to put a man on the moon by the end of the decade. Look at all the
jobs created by the space program.
It's time for another goal, but what? A manned mission to Mars may be
worthwhile scientifically, but these days the space program is being
driven by private enterprise. If we have a manned moon base, most
likely it will be to exploit the moon of whatever riches it holds. The
same goes for Mars, if it doesn't prove to be a good investment for
private enterprise.
Too bad the space program seems so dead, they had some great visions 25
years ago. Maybe it was the drugs. :-)
Scott
|
125.1117 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Wed Oct 28 1992 20:01 | 3 |
| Maybe if we had a president with a vision to fix this country, who
could communicate that vision to the people, *that* could be our goal.
There's quite a bit to do right down here on Earth.
|
125.1118 | | LEDS::MRNGDU::YETTO | discover the wonders of nature | Wed Oct 28 1992 20:07 | 15 |
|
> It's time for another goal, but what?
getting Jum elected? :-) OK ok, seriously my answer off the top
of my head (and most definitely not the only answer) - Education!
without getting too high on my soapbox teaching is one of the oldest
and should be (IMO) one of the most respected professions. But for lots
of reasons it isn't. We don't need to change the teachers, we need
to change the system so the teachers can gain the respect they deserve
(from within as well!) which will give them the power to answer thier
calling and educate this country. This is going to take ALOT of
something and that probably means money.
Lisa_who'd_be_a_teacher_if_she_weren't_so_afraid_of_becoming_calloused
|
125.1119 | Junkyards: the answer to high car repairs | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Roll me away | Thu Oct 29 1992 14:24 | 10 |
| I just sent mail to Bobbb suggesting for him to call some junkyards to price
out a used engine.
Whenever a mechanic wants to do more then $500 worth of work on your engine,
SERIOUSLY think about getting a used one.
I've purchased used engines before w/o _any_ problems. I'm almost certain
that a used engine for Bobbb's car would cost much less then $1500.00....
|
125.1120 | I've saved THOUSANDS on used parts!! | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Roll me away | Thu Oct 29 1992 14:27 | 10 |
| Just a case and point about junkyards: my old Z28 ran on used parts:
alternator - $20 .. dealer cost about $150
power steering pump - $25 ... dealer cost > $100
rear axle - $35 - dealer cost probably > $100
air pump - $20 .. dealer cost probably more then 4 times that.
intake manifold - $25 .. dealer cost in the hundreds...
I believe _some_ mechanics will go to junkyards and get parts for you if
you request it / make it a condition of giving him the work.
|
125.1121 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Thu Oct 29 1992 17:06 | 15 |
| To add to what JC said, recent parts for the Subaru before
we dumped it due to *ridiculous* astronomical parts + repair
costs:
At the Junkyard From the Dealer
---------------------------------------
Altenator $35 $350
Distributor $35 $700+ (yes seven hundred!)
Amazing difference for basically good quality replacement parts.
Ken
P.S. Thanks for turning me onto those places in Leominster JC! :-)
|
125.1122 | used | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Roll me away | Fri Oct 30 1992 14:03 | 10 |
| re <<< Note 125.1121 by MONTOR::HANNAN "Beyond description..." >>>
> P.S. Thanks for turning me onto those places in Leominster JC! :-)
Hey, no problem Ken! In the 6.5 years that I owned my camaro, I estimate that
I personally SAVED more the $10,000 worth of repair bills and parts costs by
doing it myself and buying JY parts. $10,000 !!!
buy used!!! recycle, save $$ ...
|
125.1123 | I was just used to GM interchangability | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Fri Oct 30 1992 22:17 | 13 |
| Yah know, this is one of the problems with owning a recent Ford. Maybe
it's a trend with all newer cars, but at least the VW is all similar.
My truck is too new to have many transmissions accessible. A few years
older and it won't fit. Everything is custom, and yah can't do the JY
trip!
But, right now the truck is running as well as it has to and I'm
counting on it to drive many a ski trip this winter, again. I really do
like my truck when it's working, but I'm reminded of this JY stuff
every it's not.
Geoff
I blew up the transmission from my Vega by putting it in my
Chevelle and getting wheel hop in a drag race.
|
125.1124 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:02 | 2 |
|
drunken rednecks with chips on thier shoulders are bummers...
|
125.1125 | :( | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's got WICCABILITY! | Tue Nov 03 1992 14:34 | 7 |
| way so.
Sorry da ve.
Big hug ~~~~~
sparky
|
125.1126 | Re: 11.2 | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's got WICCABILITY! | Wed Nov 04 1992 13:27 | 10 |
| Wow . . .
I can't imagine NO Grateful! Hope it doesn't happen.
Good thing I've started looking for a REAL job! (Ok,
so now the cat's out of the bag.) Don't want to leave,
but I need benefits and tuition reimbursement and something
closer to home!
sparky_keepin'_my_fingers_croseed_for_Grateful
|
125.1127 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Nov 06 1992 16:12 | 8 |
| sigh... it's been one of *those* weeks... can't even get a
gd snickers bar out of the candy machine... had to settle for a dove
bar... (actually 3 dove bars-they wouldn't come out until i pumped
$1.50 into the f!@#$%^ amchine!)
come on universe... back off a little will ya?
da ve
|
125.1128 | ps. | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Nov 06 1992 16:13 | 3 |
| re .1125 thanks... i needed that! :^)
da ve
|
125.1129 | ;^) | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | There is no way to peace;peace is the way. | Fri Nov 06 1992 16:39 | 4 |
| > can't even get a
> gd snickers bar out of the candy machine...
i didn't know they made Grateful Dead Snickers bars?
|
125.1130 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Fri Nov 06 1992 17:10 | 5 |
|
Hmmm. So either Dove makes candy bars or your candy machine makes ICE
CREAM! :-)
|
125.1131 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Nov 06 1992 18:35 | 3 |
| dove makes candy bars and my candy machine makes me nuts!
|
125.1132 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Fri Nov 06 1992 18:41 | 4 |
|
but what do nuts make?
|
125.1133 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Nov 06 1992 18:44 | 1 |
| nut n' hunny... :^)
|
125.1134 | I know the answer to that one!!! | LIOVAX::MERRILL | NY's got the ways and means | Fri Nov 06 1992 19:22 | 3 |
| RE .1132
BABIES!!!
|
125.1135 | flames, flames, everywhere... | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 12:54 | 25 |
| So anyway, I'm driving home from MSO2 yesterday and I stop to fill my
car with gas. Twelve bucks later I varoom off again and notice the
engine still races a little when I put in the clutch. My ol' Mazda
and I are chugging up a hill - it's floored and we're still peaking at
only about 21 MPH. We crest the hill and I find that I'm hurtling
towards the blue Taurus just ahead. I see that this car is so cool it
doesn't even need a foot to press the gas pedal; it'll do it itself.
I'm a bit leary of rear-ending the station wagon - don't wanna die - so
I put in the clutch. This sends the RPMs up around half a million and
soon I realize I can't see the Taurus anymore. In fact, I can't see
anything. `Cept smoke and flames. Now folks, I have a mind like a
steel trap; nothing gets by me. I quickly deduce that my car should
*not* be on fire and that this is un-good. I pull over and calmly ask
the gentleman sweeping up the auto shop floor if he might have anything
along the lines of a fire extinguisher? He does,a nd soon the flames
are out.
It's times like these when I really wish I could have afforded
insurance . . .
Anybody know someone who's trying to unload a reliable, fireproof car
for not a lot o' money?
Peace,
David
|
125.1136 | i'm getting a !@#$ing horse... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Nov 10 1992 14:10 | 7 |
|
!@#$ing flat tire pulling into the parking lot this morning... and
i just bought these damn things a few weeks ago!!!! grrrrr....
i guess it is a bad week for dave's and cars???
da ve
|
125.1137 | a horse, a horse, my Mazda for a horse | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 14:15 | 3 |
| I'm with ya on the horse thing da ve . . .
How do I install my stereo though?
|
125.1138 | :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Nov 10 1992 14:40 | 1 |
| velcro...
|
125.1139 | and who signed me up? | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 14:48 | 3 |
| Hey da ve, Sooze just called me & said *her* car is down, too . . .
What's up with this? Some kinda network?
|
125.1140 | Classifieds | SALES::GKELLER | Trickled-on economics | Tue Nov 10 1992 14:49 | 4 |
| Try the CLASSIFIED Notesfile for cheap cars. There are always a few for
under $1000
Geoff
|
125.1141 | | CIVIC::ROBERTS | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:06 | 7 |
| re : .1139
what's up is that today is the full moon! That's why things
mechanical are going belly up.
:-)
|
125.1142 | | LJOHUB::RILEY | Namer of chaotic individuals everywhere! | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:21 | 7 |
|
I've got a car for sale, and it's even got a Dead sticker (SYF) on the
back window!
See the Goin' Down the Road note...
Tree
|
125.1143 | | BUSY::IRZA | blame it on that simple twist of fate | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:48 | 21 |
| *> <<< Note 125.1136 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
*> -< i'm getting a !@#$ing horse... >
*> i guess it is a bad week for dave's and cars?
you said it! last week my car died at the emerald square
mall. being the weekend i left it overnight thinking it would
be cheaper having it towed monday during business hours. well
when monday rolled around i returned to discover someone smashed
a window and trashed the steering collumn trying to steal it (of
course it wouldn't start). i don't have comprehension insurance
and mechanic estimates ~$500. to fix window and steering collumn
. car already needs new steering rack ($450 w/ tie rods and
alignment) tires, brakes, shocks, plus the unknown problem that
caused it to die. could run ~$1500-2000. not worth it for a car
with 130k on it. i'm gonna try to sell it as a parts car. it's
a 1987 olds delta 88 royal broughm (sp?) fully loaded with no
dents or rot. i should be able to get $500+ for it. so pretty
soon i'll be looking for something to bounce off snowbanks with.
^dave
|
125.1144 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Tue Nov 10 1992 15:52 | 3 |
| Oh oh ... maybe I'll take a taxi home tonight ....
- D stands for Dave C
|
125.1145 | Much friendlier than cars | LJOHUB::GILMORE | It's got WICCABILITY! | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:20 | 18 |
| >> <<< Note 125.1137 by ICS::ODONNELL "I am the Lorax . . ." >>>
>> -< a horse, a horse, my Mazda for a horse >-
>> I'm with ya on the horse thing da ve . . .
>> How do I install my stereo though?
I KNOW!
SADDLEBAGS!
Get a portable little stereo, and buy some saddlebags for your
horse. You'll be all set!
Just remember your Chaps in the winter, or you'll freeze!
sparky
|
125.1146 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | To the bright side of the road | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:27 | 10 |
|
Get one o' them horse and buggy thingies and put the stereo in the buckboard
or whatever the h*ll they call those thingamabobs..
Jum
|
125.1147 | Duuhhhhh . . . | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:41 | 4 |
| Anyone know how I can access the CLASSIFIEDS note?
I'm a mental midget.
Peace,
David
|
125.1148 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:41 | 8 |
| > Get one o' them horse and buggy thingies and put the stereo in the buckboard
>or whatever the h*ll they call those thingamabobs..
Hey! Let's not get so f(*&ing technical!!!
;-)
tim
|
125.1149 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:44 | 8 |
| Try this:
Notes> Add entry iese::classified_ads
Notes> Open class
good luck.
tim
|
125.1150 | any other avenues? | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:49 | 9 |
| tim-
thanks, but I got squashed. It said:
"insufficient system resource at remote node"
or sumpin' like that.
Hmmm . . .
|
125.1151 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | fast times at Decnet High | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:50 | 7 |
|
> "insufficient system resource at remote node"
Wait until after five...
I think the file has hours, now
|
125.1152 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | leave your stepping stones behind | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:56 | 15 |
| There's discussion about this in topic 1002 of the EASYNET_CONFERENCES
conference (press KP7 to add to your notebook) ... here's a blurb
from the troubleshooting guide posted in note 1.5 of that conference:
2) If the error is "insufficient system resources at remote node," it means
that the remote system is overloaded right now and cannot service your
request. If you wait and try again later, eventually you will get in.
If this condition persists for several days, you may wish to complain
**VIA MAIL** (NOT a note in this conference) to the conference moderator
or to the system manager (user SYSTEM) on that machine.
Last I read, I think they were saying that the node hosting CLASSIFIED_ADS
was having some problems ....
- Dave
|
125.1153 | | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Tue Nov 10 1992 16:58 | 1 |
| thanks for the help, folks . . . we'll see what happens . . .
|
125.1154 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | To the bright side of the road | Tue Nov 10 1992 17:00 | 15 |
|
RE: <<< Note 125.1148 by NAC::TRAMP::GRADY "Short arms, and deep pockets..." >>>
> Hey! Let's not get so f(*&ing technical!!!
Sorry, Veep...got a little carried away there :-)
Jum
|
125.1155 | still tenderly driving the Torch | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Mon Nov 16 1992 16:20 | 21 |
| Ok, update on the burning Lorax-hicle:
My friend offered to give me his old Nissan Sentra `cause he's tired of
it being stolen (3 times in 1 year). I picked up a speedometer at a
junkyard on Saturday (thieves stole it - why?) and cruised up to Lowell
on Saturday to pick it up. I pulled into the church parking lot (this
friend is a priest) and went inside. Had a beer with Seamus, then went
outside to get the car.
It was GONE!
It had been sitting there untouched for 3 weeks & somebody rips it off
(no plates, no ignition, no speedometer) an hour before I get there.
Pretty funny, huh? Somebody's stolen this priest's car 4 times . . .
somebody's goin' to The Hot Place . . .
We hit the pub.
Peace,
David the Lorax
|
125.1156 | theys gonna burn fursure | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Better make it through today | Mon Nov 16 1992 16:26 | 3 |
| gee Dave your notes of late have been such a bundle of joy to read !
Chris
|
125.1157 | I should move outta this Bummer note | ICS::ODONNELL | I am the Lorax . . . | Mon Nov 16 1992 17:10 | 10 |
| That's what I'm here for Chris!
Actually, my life is pretty great - I think it's funny when all this
stuff happens at once. Aaannnd, good news: I saw my first Slip Knot
show this weekend and *loved* it.
Much Peace to da ve, Geoff, and Geoff, and Treemon , and anyone else I
met there but forget names. Geat folks & great tunes all around!
Lorax
|
125.1158 | | LJOHUB::RILEY | Namer of chaotic individuals everywhere! | Tue Nov 17 1992 11:46 | 7 |
|
Yeah Lorax, Nice ta meet ya...
See you next time (in whatever you'll be driving)
Tree
|
125.1159 | :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Nov 17 1992 16:46 | 6 |
| yeah Lorax! i think it's time to move out of the bummer note! :^)
good meeting you the other night... maybe we'll get to do the powwow
thing sometime?
da ve
|
125.1160 | I can hear the drums already... | ICS::ODONNELL | It's hard being string all the time | Tue Nov 17 1992 17:15 | 9 |
| Absolutely da ve! I'll keep me ears open to the wind; you do the same
and we'll hit the first Ceremony that comes along.
Hozhoni ("peace" in Navajo)
Lorax
P.S. Can't get the image of your daughter out of my head; it's a
beautiful one. I actually started to write a poem about it. I'll send
it to you if it turns out OK.
|
125.1161 | really bad news about a fellow DEChead ... | CUPTAY::BAILEY | Certified Ski Destructor | Mon Nov 30 1992 16:36 | 12 |
| I heard from Pete Kibling that my friend (and sometimes Grateful Noter)
Bud Samiljan had a heart attack last week !!!
Please send some good vibes Bud's way ... he's far too young and too
nice a person to be having to deal with something as serious as a heart
attack.
Pete says he's doing OK ... that's all I know for now. I'll post any
further news as I hear it.
... Bobbb
|
125.1162 | Positive Energy ~~~~~~~ | LJOHUB::GILMORE | Shame on the Moon | Mon Nov 30 1992 16:46 | 10 |
| ~~~Good Vibes to Bud~~~
I remember him from a few notes here & there . . . what a total bummer,
I hope whatever stress which caused his heart attack is no longer a
part of his life!
Big hugs to you Bobbb . . .
sparky
|
125.1163 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Mon Nov 30 1992 16:59 | 5 |
|
bummer indeed. :-( good, healing vibes heading out from this direction
as well..
|
125.1164 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Nov 30 1992 17:04 | 3 |
| always around the holidays!!!
VIBES------------------->
|
125.1165 | And anti-stress vibes, too... | 2977::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Mon Nov 30 1992 18:10 | 5 |
| Get Well SOON vibes headed out to Bud!
Peace and warmth...
Dave
|
125.1166 | Oh no! | MR4DEC::WENTZELL | Hypothetical destination | Mon Nov 30 1992 18:15 | 4 |
|
Good vibes X 1,000,000
Scott
|
125.1167 | | CSLALL::HENDERSON | Workle while you whist | Mon Nov 30 1992 18:22 | 10 |
|
More get well vibes from me too...
Jum
|
125.1168 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Mon Nov 30 1992 19:19 | 1 |
| from me 3... ohmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm............
|
125.1169 | | NOPROB::JOLLIMORE | kids'ey dance and shake der bones | Tue Dec 01 1992 10:40 | 6 |
| bummer :-(
I've worked with Bud on a cupla projects.
Please keep us posted.
postive thoughts for the gratest good.
|
125.1170 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Dyslexics Untie! | Wed Dec 02 1992 16:24 | 35 |
|
Gone forever!...
Removing group alt.cellular
Removing group alt.control
Removing group alt.culture.tamil
Removing group alt.desert-shield
Removing group alt.dice-man
Removing group alt.elvis.sighting
Removing group alt.ernie-pook
Removing group alt.fan.bruce.woodcock
Removing group alt.fan.itchy-n-scratchy <<---- :-(
Removing group alt.fax.bondage
Removing group alt.fax
Removing group alt.finals.suicide
Removing group alt.flame.eternal
Removing group alt.flame.gigantic.sigs
Removing group alt.flame.hairy-douchebag.meredith-tanner
Removing group alt.flame.hairy-douchebag.roger-david-carasso
Removing group alt.flame.sean-ryan
Removing group alt.flame.spelling
Removing group alt.fusion
Removing group alt.grins.und.grunz
Removing group alt.hash.house.harriers
Removing group alt.hotfut
Removing group alt.irc.bot
Removing group alt.jubjub
Removing group alt.kodak.cd.bitch.bitch.bitch
Removing group alt.lawyers.sue.sue.sue
Removing group alt.letter.chain
Removing group alt.maroney
Newsrc file safely closed...
Newsrc file purged ...
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125.1171 | field of Screams | SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobel | Corn Dawgs Only Bark @ Nite | Wed Dec 02 1992 17:08 | 3 |
| re -.1
worse yet fog, you broke the rec.chain.letter ;-)
|
125.1172 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Mon Dec 07 1992 14:14 | 21 |
| Tough day, even for a Monday.
I'm trying to close on a house this week...I'm out of the one I'm
renting as of Saturday, so if I don't close, I'm homeless. No
small risk.
So I get up this morning and get ready, and the lens in my
glasses popped out. Pop it back in and head out to the Bronco,
pull into the street and notice I have a flat.
Finally get in here, and find more and more goodbyes -- I've got
a billion things to do if I'm going to move by Friday, and it's
just not getting started...
And I know for sure I'm having a good day compared to a lot of
people on Pearl Harbor day - positive vibes to all of you out
there - I hope we make it through the day.
Either way - see ya Wednesday night!
tim
|
125.1173 | 12 years ago, RIP, John | BSS::MNELSON | | Tue Dec 08 1992 20:11 | 8 |
|
Don't know if this is the right place. 12 Years ago today John Lennon
was murdered in NY. I remember driving back from a Bruce Stringbean
concert in Hartford and hearing the news. An incredibly depressing
ride home. Couldn't help but shed some tears.
|
125.1174 | All we are saying... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Wed Dec 09 1992 01:05 | 23 |
| Jeez, I forgot. As a kid, Lennon was my first hero. I had grown up
disliking the Beatles at first because of their bubble-gum sound
(mostly due to tunes like "I Wanna Hold Yer Hand") but as I got into
high school (no pun intended) I became a fiercely loyal Beatle Freak.
It was a major disappointment in my early life when they split up. I hated
Yoko, for my perception that she was to blame. Silly me.
Anyway, believe it or not, the only copy of Playboy I ever bought was
the December 1980 edition, that had the extensive interview with John,
ironically published the very month he was murdered. I doubt that I
have it any more...
Nothing you can do that can't be done.
Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
Nothing you can do, but you can learn how to play the game.
It's easy. All you need is love.
I miss him, still. Occasionally, I wonder how he'd think of our world
today. Is it closer to his vision of peace and love, or, like Abby
Hoffman seemed to think, is it dessimated beyond the point of despair?
tim
|
125.1175 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Wed Dec 09 1992 13:57 | 15 |
| NAC::TRAMP::GRADY
> Nothing you can do that can't be done.
> Nothing you can sing that can't be sung.
> Nothing you can do, but you can learn how to play the game.
> It's easy. All you need is love.
It's true, Tim... it's still true today.
> I miss him, still. Occasionally, I wonder how he'd think of our world
> today. Is it closer to his vision of peace and love, or, like Abby
> Hoffman seemed to think, is it dessimated beyond the point of despair?
Neither... but it's heading in the right direction now.. I think so
anyway.
|
125.1176 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Dec 09 1992 14:28 | 4 |
| yep, i remember not going back to work after lunch.....riding around
listening to beatles/lennon tunes, wiping away the tears in
disbelief...
rfb
|
125.1177 | I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round... | SMURF::PETERT | | Wed Dec 09 1992 19:43 | 12 |
| I remember where I was when Kennedy was shot (3rd grade classroom, got
sent home early, very eerie). I remember where I was when I heard
Lennon was shot (first computer job, night shift operator. I wrote
John Lennon is dead!! on the computer roll). I don't remember where
I was when Regan or the Pope were shot, but I do remember thinking that
it didn't compare to the other two (though perhaps Regan was shot
before Lennon? Don't think so though. Somehow I think I knew the
name Mark David Chapman before I knew the name John Hinkley).
Sniff.....
PeterT
|
125.1178 | | EZRIDR::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Thu Dec 10 1992 16:46 | 13 |
| I was in 8th grade. I was home for the day with a cold, so I heard about it
pretty quickly on the local (NYC) news. I heard 3 women committed suicide that
week, apparently related to his shooting. Hard to believe...
Reagan was shot a few months later, sometime in 1981. I remember coming home
from school on the subway and hearing about it there.
Which reminds me, speaking of subways. In 1980 (or was is 81) when John Bonham
died, I barely knew Led Zeppelin, but as I was walking down the stairs to the
subway platform after school, I heard mumblings about "John Bonham is dead". I
had to ask who he was.
adam
|
125.1179 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Thu Dec 10 1992 17:11 | 7 |
| I can remember not wanting to go into work, but did anyhow, and I
was in a daze from the news, the recent 20/20 interview with Chapman
made me ill. It is unbelivable what 1 insane person can do with a gun.
I remember waking up to all Beatle music in the morning, and having
the feeling something was not right, I also blamed Yoko for the
breakup.
|
125.1180 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Thu Dec 17 1992 12:40 | 5 |
| todays bummer... hmmm... hard telling which is worse... still being
sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
work again... :^/
da ve
|
125.1181 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | got the Canned Heat Blues | Thu Dec 17 1992 13:08 | 15 |
| re <<< Note 125.1180 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
> todays bummer... hmmm... hard telling which is worse... still being
> sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
> work again... :^/
i just went to mr doctor this am for a throat problem. i have this
white virus growing on one of my tonsils... yuk!
:-%
yukko!
|
125.1182 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Thu Dec 17 1992 13:23 | 4 |
|
sounds like strep, JC. Did he give you penicillan?
|
125.1183 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | the Gong Show | Thu Dec 17 1992 13:42 | 3 |
| Soak that virus in homebrew, JC ... a good source of vitamin B! ;^)
- DC
|
125.1184 | Doctor's prescription - I would hope not | SALES::GKELLER | yrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2nd | Thu Dec 17 1992 15:02 | 15 |
| > <<< Note 125.1182 by TERAPN::PHYLLIS "in the shadow of the moon" >>>
>
>
> sounds like strep, JC. Did he give you penicillan?
Strep Throat is a bacterial infection, not a viral infection. Never ever
ever take Penicillan, or any other *cillan for viral infections. it won't
do any good, as cillan's are antibiotics, and you will build up resistances
to the cillan's so they won't do any good when you need them for something
else.
Dr. Geoff
|
125.1185 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | got the Canned Heat Blues | Thu Dec 17 1992 16:10 | 14 |
| re: doctor
He took a culture of the "thing" and he said it was either a virus, which should
just go away on its own, or strep. If it is strep, he'll give me penicillan.
If not, he said just to hang out and if it doesn't go away in a weeks time,
that I should see Mr. Throat_Doctor....
I hate going to doctors/hospitals/etc !!! I had a bad experience once and
now it is nothing but a stressful time for me!! Anyone have this problem?
Anyone get over it? If so, what did ya do? Whenever I go, even for the
most basic things, I get nervous and typically break out in a sweat... makes
my blood pressure crank up and everything... Doctorphobia!!!
|
125.1186 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Dec 17 1992 16:25 | 4 |
| I usually make sure I have a good buzz goin before I enter a dentists
office.....I usually scedule apts. for after lunch and drink my
lunch....
rfb
|
125.1187 | what I do at the dentists... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Thu Dec 17 1992 16:34 | 3 |
| Ask for nitrous, and lie about your weight....
tim
|
125.1188 | I'll have to change again when/if I'm under Fallon! | LJOHUB::GILMORE | Shame on the Moon | Thu Dec 17 1992 16:35 | 40 |
| JC,
I had an EVOL doctor for 4 years! He was my "everything" doctor
from sore throats to my gyn exam. My mother and two sisters had
gone to him, so I followed in their footsteps. I should have
questioned him when my mom told me what he'd done to her. My mom's
had a real bad back for close to 15 years. He diagnosed her with
Degenerative Disk Disease . . . even gave her a presciption. When
her back didn't get better, she finally went to a chiropractor.
Turns out she had a slipped disk the whole time!
But, I continued to go to him. It seemed every time I went in for
an exam, he'd call a day or so later and tell me I had this infection
or that infection, and I'd have to take a prescription and come back
for a recheck. Now, most people know if they have an infection
(and definitely most women know when they do!) of that sort. I never
had any symptoms and thought it to be a little odd.
The last time I went to this doctor was when my knees were at their
worst (I could barely walk). I was waiting in the room with my
file for the doctor. I just happened to decide to look through
my file . . . and at the lab reports for the past 5 female exams
with him. Each test on each lab report for the past 5 times
when he'd told me I'd had an infection was NEGATIVE. I NEVER had
anything!
I was so mad I didn't do anything, except stop going to him. I
should have sued, but it would have been more trouble than it was
worth. I now have a wonderful doctor: Dr. Sheila Kennedy at
Emerson Practice Associates, Inc. in Westford. I told her of
my horror experience with my previous doctor and she said she's
heard of it before. Basically it was insurance fraud.
I *was* extremely nervous when I first went to Dr. Kennedy, but
when she asked why I'd changed doctors and I told her, we
instantly formed a bond of trust. I think in order to feel
comfortable with your doctor, you have to let them know of
problems you've had in the past.
:)sparky
|
125.1189 | Less filler than before | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Thu Dec 17 1992 17:41 | 8 |
| I've had good doctors and I've had bad doctors, but I also have had
more internal organs previously in my life as well. I guess the overall
experience of remaining alive helps mainatin my confidence, but there
are certainly those I would not trust for the time of day.
Too much of this doctor stuff to get into here.
Geoff
|
125.1190 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Thu Dec 17 1992 17:48 | 14 |
| RE: JC and Doctorphobia...
I have it too! Real bad!
I usually get myself so worked up and all that I end up
fainting! It's horrible! Not to mention getting shots!
AUGH!!!!! Instant head rush and plop... I'm on the ground!
I've passed out getting x-rays and just visiting someone
in the hospital! Gawd, I hate that smell in hospitals!
MJ_fainting_expert! (right DW and LS?) ;-) ;-) ;-)
|
125.1191 | Danny Boy is off to his 9mo checkup tomorrow... | SMURF::PETERT | | Thu Dec 17 1992 19:08 | 10 |
| Gee, I kind of like doctors. I don't even mind getting shots. I'm
always trying to check out what's going on when they take blood and
I often donate. Biology is pretty interesting and we're just
another biological organism. Obviously there are good and
bad doctors. A second opinion is always wise to get if you
suspect the one treating you is not up to par.
PeterT
|
125.1192 | | VMPIRE::CLARK | the Gong Show | Thu Dec 17 1992 19:12 | 3 |
| Unfortunately, this biological specimen can feel fear and pain ... ;^}
- dc who also has gets the palpitations
|
125.1193 | Leading doctors and dave prescribe..... | SPOCK::IRONS | | Thu Dec 17 1992 19:19 | 22 |
| > <<< Note 125.1180 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
>
> todays bummer... hmmm... hard telling which is worse... still being
> sick after a whole week home coughing and choking, or being back at
> work again... :^/
>
> da ve
Had this same thing, da ve. It's been making it's rounds. It took me
a whole month to get back to normal. First I had post nasel drip,
which turned into Broncitis, which turned into an ear infection. This
virus/cold really has it's ups and downs! :^).
It's been about 3 weeks since I got rid of it. Now my wife just got
it! Strange! My brother-in-law has it, too.
I took antibiotics (2 prescritions), cough syrup with real Codeine
(yea!!), Tavist-D for a while, then Sudafed, which worked better than
Tavist-D. Lot's o water and vitamins also.
dave
|
125.1194 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | got the Canned Heat Blues | Thu Dec 17 1992 20:12 | 21 |
| re <<< Note 125.1190 by ISLNDS::CONNORS_M >>>
> RE: JC and Doctorphobia...
>
> I usually get myself so worked up and all that I end up
> fainting! It's horrible! Not to mention getting shots!
> AUGH!!!!! Instant head rush and plop... I'm on the ground!
>
> I've passed out getting x-rays and just visiting someone
> in the hospital! Gawd, I hate that smell in hospitals!
This sounds just about like me, although I've never actually fainted. It
seems that I can pull it together right before the moment of doom! One time
I remember feeling wicked light-headed and ready to fall over. The nurse
noticed this and grabbed some smelling salts. I saw that and snapped right
back to normal!!! Man I hate those places!!!!!!!!
i'm getting worked up just thinking about it!!! when the Doc said i might
have to see a throat doctor, i gasped!!! another doctor!!!!
man, i need a drink right now!! :-)
|
125.1195 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Dec 17 1992 20:30 | 4 |
| Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
rfb holisticdeadheaddoctor
|
125.1196 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | got the Canned Heat Blues | Fri Dec 18 1992 12:04 | 13 |
| re <<< Note 125.1195 by CXDOCS::BARNES >>>
> Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
> ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
i'm not a big diary product mon anymore, so this is not a problem! milk (1%)
on the cerial in the morning, and that is about it....
i've been drinking a modest about of brew - this seems to help! :-) actually,
mr doctor is gonna call today to tell me the news. hopefully, i won't have
to take any drugs for it.
/drugfree/jc/:-)
|
125.1197 | | MAST::DUTTON | Inspiration, move me brightly... | Fri Dec 18 1992 16:10 | 16 |
| re <<< Note 125.1195 by CXDOCS::BARNES >>>
> Remember to avoid milk and dairy products both when sick with
> ear/nose/throat problems and when taking antibiotics.....
Interesting comment... I assume you're referring to the mucus
producing effects of milk when you make that recommendation?
Any other reasons? And why this bit about antibiotics?
I'm also recovering from this nasty bronchial infection, and
an R.N. friend of mine recommended that I eat yoghurt (with active
cultures). Antibiotics tend to kill of the intestinal flora,
leaving you susceptible to other infections (and perhaps killing
off the flora that allow you to digest milk products?)
|
125.1198 | | SELL1::ROBERTS | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Fri Dec 18 1992 17:12 | 6 |
| RE: .1194
hey JC .. that's exactly the way I feel when I have to go talk to
my mechanic!
|
125.1199 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Mon Dec 21 1992 12:34 | 16 |
| re <<< Note 125.1198 by SELL1::ROBERTS "a blinding flash o'the obvious" >>>
> RE: .1194
>
> hey JC .. that's exactly the way I feel when I have to go talk to
> my mechanic!
:-) really???
anyways, the doc called on frieday w/ a preliminary prognosis: NO STREP.
ya hoo. he's going to call me today only if the prelim. diag. was wrong.
/feeling_much_better/jc
|
125.1200 | don't ask | STUDIO::IDE | Can't this wait 'til I'm old? | Mon Dec 21 1992 13:01 | 6 |
| re .1181
That sounds like what I had once: a yeast infection in my throat. Very
contagious, but just annoying.
Jamie
|
125.1201 | no more soreness; must have been the Beer Medicine | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Mon Dec 21 1992 13:11 | 12 |
| re <<< Note 125.1200 by STUDIO::IDE "Can't this wait 'til I'm old?" >>>
> -< don't ask >-
>
i pondering this for a minute then started laughing a lot!!!!!!!!!!!!
:-)
btw, the "white thing" is still there, but its death is near.
|
125.1202 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Dec 21 1992 16:15 | 16 |
| re .1197
yep
you answered the question in yer second paragraph....
When my 15 year old was 4-5, she had tonsils and adnoids removed
because of excess fluids in the ENT path. Wasn't good enough for the
butcher doctor..he wanted to poke holes in her head and install tubes
for drainage. Bout that time, we discovered our holistic healer, she
put Tiffany on certain herbs and vitamins, instructed us to keep her
off of certain foods (dairy mainly) and feed her LOTS of other certasin
foods (beans and rice mainly)..within one week fluids were gone. Took
Tiffany back to butcher-doctor and he couldn't believe the progress...i
came unglued and alomost killed the b#st#rd right in his own office.
rfb
|
125.1203 | One person's bummer is another person's delight | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Mon Jan 04 1993 16:59 | 9 |
| Well, this weather is a real bummer for me. I know for some that a
nice warm sunny day in the winter is about as good as yummie pizza, but not
for me. I was really psyched on Dec 11-13 when we got a ton of snow. Now
all that snow is just about gone. Tomorrow it is supposed rain again. Is
this winter or spring? I want to live in a place where it snows in the winter
and rains in the summer. None of this mostly rainy winter stuff we've been
having for about 12 years or so!!
jc_bummed_because_my_favorite_season_ain't_what_it_used_to_be
|
125.1204 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Mon Jan 04 1993 17:05 | 4 |
|
I think you better head out to Utah or Montana, JC! ;-)
|
125.1205 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Pray for snow | Mon Jan 04 1993 17:37 | 7 |
|
Or buffle off to shuffalo...
:-)
|
125.1206 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Tue Jan 05 1993 13:00 | 20 |
| re <<< Note 125.1205 by CSCMA::M_PECKAR "Pray for snow" >>>
> Or buffle off to shuffalo...
Nah, New York ain't for me....
re: MJ
Too bad Mont. doesn't have a lot of computer companies out there otherwise
i'd be there. In mont, you pretty much have to be a logger or host some
sort of tourist activity.... logging is a very hard and scary job!
MAN THIS WEATHER SUX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHERE IS WINTER????????????????????
:-(
|
125.1207 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Jan 05 1993 13:36 | 4 |
| high temp for Great Falls Mont today......-1 degree
rfb who lived in great falls for 3 years in the late 60's and wouldn't
go back in the winter for anything
|
125.1208 | Maybe in March? | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Tue Jan 05 1993 15:33 | 10 |
| And the record High temperature for th 5th of Jan. was broken today at
4:00 AM at Logan Airport. Sixty Two degrees eff at four in the morning.
What's wrong with this picture?
They say it's unusually warm air leading a cold front. Winter
should return by tonight as soon as any trace of snow has been washed
away.
Disheartened
Geoff
|
125.1209 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Jan 05 1993 18:38 | 12 |
| well my luck finally ran out...got a $58.00, 4 point speeding tix at
lunch, 68 in a 55 mph zone. I KNEW he hung out where he was, just
wasn't payin attention, dammit! he was nice though, despite the dancin
bears and world peace bumper stickers (wife's honda with a 5th gear
DAMMIT!) called me sir and i called him sir back.
said "take care of yerself" as he left.
My plan is to throw myself on the mercy of the court with the "good
driver option", no tixs in over 3 years, reduction in points, hopefully
a reduction in the fine too. This usually means a wave of troubles in
the near future, so I'll be lookin over me shoulder.
rfb
|
125.1210 | slow down and smell the roses | CX3PT1::IDWCS3::SMITH | | Tue Jan 05 1993 20:13 | 19 |
|
Guess we'll have to call you Blaze from now on!!
You going get a haircut and wear a suit to court to see if it gets ya
any more mercy! . .
,
\___/
Sorry to hear that the cops have time to chase speeders when there are
so many "real" crooks out there.
See ya tonight
Divide Dave
|
125.1211 | Bad week for dads... :-( | DRINKS::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Mon Jan 11 1993 16:24 | 20 |
| Well, over the weekend, I found out about 3 people's father's dying.
1 was the father of friend of a friend.
1 was the father of a casual acquaintence.
Never met these 2 men.
The hardest on me was the father of my roommate from college. I've
known him, and his dad (who was a great guy) since I've been 8.
F!CK
The older I get, the more people that I know die.
I don't like it! :-(
Life goes on...
Dave
|
125.1212 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Mon Jan 11 1993 17:56 | 25 |
|
Yesturday, I was out skating around Long Lake in littleton and I
noticed a dog hanging out on the ice by the edge of the land. I approached
the dog and it got up, limping quite badly, and went into the woods a bit.
I tried to convince the dog to come to me but it wouldn't: it even growled
a bit at me. So, I skated along. On my return trip, I decided to check out
the dog again. It was lying on the ice near the edge of the woods. Once again
I approached it and it went into the woods, out of my reach. So, I skated
across the lake and told some kids about the dog ('cus they lived very close,
I though they'd call for help). Anyways, these kids had no interest in the
well-being of the dog. I skated back and the dog was just hangin' out, like
he wanted to just die and go away. Its rear leg looked really bad. So, i
walked home and told deb about my adventure and she thought I should call the
cops. I did, and ended up meeting them at the beach around dusk. they asked
me where i was skating and I told 'em the dog was right about there (pointing
to a jutt of land about 1/2 mile out). the cop said there's nothing they can
do right now "because we're not allowed on the ice and the animal control
person isn't working." I thought the dog would freeze to death over night.
The cop didn't care.
So, last night I went to sleep wondering about the dog. This morning,
I put on my skates and skated back to the place where I saw the dog. Thank
god I didn't find him, but, I still have to wonder if the poor fellow
survived the cold night?
|
125.1213 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Fri Jan 22 1993 20:07 | 4 |
|
somebody stole my electric pencil sharpener. :-/
|
125.1214 | Someone needs some help... | FRSBEE::YOUNG | where is this place in space??? | Fri Jan 22 1993 20:09 | 3 |
| Now that is a bummer...that anyone would steal anything is just beyond
me...but an electric pencil sharpener??? What people will do to obtain
the comforts in life...*;')
|
125.1215 | not the electric pencail sharpener!!!! | CIVIC::ROBERTS | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Mon Jan 25 1993 12:31 | 10 |
| acck Phyllis! That would really bother me too. At long last, after
years of yearning after one, my daughter bought me my very own
non-DEC-issue Electric Pencil Sharpener (capital letters to show the
importance of the item). They can't take it away - bu tI guess someone
COULD steal it.
I firmly believe that some of us are pencil people and some of us are
pen folks.
Carol
|
125.1216 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Mon Jan 25 1993 12:34 | 7 |
|
yep - this is what happens when we are no longer allowed to order
supplies.
wondering what will go next..
|
125.1217 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Mon Jan 25 1993 16:51 | 16 |
| re <<< Note 125.1216 by TERAPN::PHYLLIS "in the shadow of the moon" >>>
> wondering what will go next..
Maybe your workstation!
Actually, when my group was disolving, the word got around and many "outsiders"
came down to our area and did some shopping. We nailed one person who took an
entire VS3100 !!
|
125.1218 | takes one to know one!!! | LIOVAX::MERRILL | NY's got the ways and means | Mon Jan 25 1993 16:53 | 3 |
| F***in' NYers will steal *ANYTHING*, eh???
Marc (A F***in' NYer!!!)
|
125.1219 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Mon Jan 25 1993 18:13 | 14 |
|
:-)
They moved the ACT into our office building a couple of weeks ago and
when they were unpacking the equipment they discovered tons of memory
and disks had been stolen.
Of course that's nowhere near as traumatic as having your very own
electric pencil sharpener stolen off your very own desk, but I just
thought I'd mention it. ;-)
Good thing we hired all this new security...
|
125.1220 | | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | Nothing's worth nothing, but it's free. | Tue Jan 26 1993 19:11 | 11 |
| > wondering what will go next..
someone stole my mousepad a month or so ago; someone else's mousepad also
disappeared that same night
i've done some legitimate "swiping" of my own; got a nice desk chair from one
person who quit, got some screen cleaner from another person that quit, and
i swapped my old monitor for a hi-res monitor used by a co-op whose term was
up
- rich
|
125.1221 | lock them up ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Tue Jan 26 1993 19:20 | 7 |
| quit ? or do you mean layed-off ?
I've come into lots of stuff over the past few years after the
layed-off people left, matter of fact a few came to me with the office
supplies they could not take with them....
Chris
|
125.1222 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Jan 26 1993 20:52 | 1 |
| i stole some salt form the cafe......
|
125.1223 | a salt mover & shaker | SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobel | expecting something witty? | Tue Jan 26 1993 21:54 | 7 |
| re: -.1 >>>rfb:
i stole some salt form the cafe......
^^^^
what form was it in? ;-)
jeff
|
125.1224 | Mice need shelter too | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Wed Jan 27 1993 00:21 | 6 |
| re: Rich and the missing mouse pads.
It's obvious Rich a new, large family of mice moved in to the area and
they all needed a place to live. Clearly one pad wasn't enough ;^),
|
125.1225 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Wed Jan 27 1993 11:36 | 7 |
| As of this morning, it does not look like snow in the Littleton area. What is
the story on this storm?????
i'm bummed to have awakened this am w/ no snow!!!!!!!!!!!!
|
125.1226 | The Official Knot Weather | SALES::GKELLER | yrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2nd | Wed Jan 27 1993 11:40 | 23 |
| > <<< Note 125.1225 by ZENDIA::FERGUSON "A blues guitar echoes in my mind" >>>
>
>As of this morning, it does not look like snow in the Littleton area. What is
>the story on this storm?????
>
>i'm bummed to have awakened this am w/ no snow!!!!!!!!!!!!
it blew out to sea. Forcast now is for light snow and flurries. Heavier
snow towards the coast. Not much accumulation. Posible breaks of
sunshine. Tomorrow starting sunny, turning cloudy, chance of flurries
every day through Sunday. No major storms. temps about normal. Lows 0 -
10 below north, and 5 - 10 south. Highs in the upper teens north, low to
mid 20's south.
Thats it for now. At least the can blow snow. The Down East Section of
Maine still expection some heavy snow later today. Nothing in the
mountains.
Geoff
|
125.1227 | Once upon a time, there was a low pressure system | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Wed Jan 27 1993 11:43 | 11 |
| Yes the storm went east. I was bummed that with every breath Mr.DJ dude
with a last name I won't try to spell had to tell me that the storm
wasn't.
NOAA says the storm went east and Chatham might get an inch. The
word was that it no longer threatened the main land but, "Will make
life nasty for mariners". It's still a storm, but you can't ski well
off shore.
At least it's cold {:*}
|
125.1228 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Jan 27 1993 15:58 | 3 |
| what form? dyslexic form of course!!!!!
rfb
|
125.1229 | | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | Nothing's worth nothing, but it's free. | Mon Feb 01 1993 20:47 | 9 |
| > quit ? or do you mean layed-off ?
i mean quit; last summer our project was in quite a state of disarray
(officially it was "re-directed", but i consider that it was "canceled"),
and people weren't too happy with DEC; offhand i can quickly think of 7 people
that left to take jobs elsewhere; i think the actual number was a bit higher;
this was definitely people leaving voluntarily
- rich
|
125.1230 | Positive vibes needed | BSS::MNELSON | | Mon Feb 01 1993 21:13 | 8 |
|
Howdy all,
Big Bummer, I am heading into the hospital for a liver biopsy
Wednesday. Any spare positive vibes out there around then would
be appreciated.
-Mark
|
125.1231 | Good luck mon | SPICE::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Mon Feb 01 1993 21:38 | 7 |
| Mark, a *liver biopsy*?! What is it that's wrong? Man, some
good vibes heading your way !
Sparky sends good vibes too and she's keeping you in her thoughts.
Chris
|
125.1232 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Tue Feb 02 1993 11:26 | 7 |
|
Mark,
Major good {{{vibes}}} headed out your way. Hang in there..
Phyllis
|
125.1233 | I hate the hospital... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Estimated Prophet... | Tue Feb 02 1993 11:31 | 3 |
| Yow, Mark....I'm sending out positive vibes...many good lucks...
:), danielle
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125.1234 | we're with ya buddy! | BUSY::IRZA | dance out of the rain | Tue Feb 02 1993 11:49 | 4 |
|
i hope this just sounds more serious than it is...major vibes
heading your way!!!!
^dave
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125.1235 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Feb 02 1993 12:07 | 4 |
|
all the good vibes (and thoughts!) I have are headed your way!!
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125.1236 | | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Tue Feb 02 1993 12:19 | 6 |
| Mark,
Prepare to receive mucho good vibes and a prayer or two.
Marv
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125.1237 | We're here for you | SALEM::MARKIEWICZ | enfant de l'Univers | Tue Feb 02 1993 12:33 | 8 |
|
Sending all the good vibes~~~~~~~~~~I can muster your way.
I can definitely relate to the tension surrounding getting
a biopsy ( though not for liver problems). My thoughts and
prayers are with you.
Rose
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125.1238 | | GIAMEM::DPHILBRICK | | Tue Feb 02 1993 12:40 | 4 |
| I can also relate -- just finished with that biopsy "stress" myself. All my good
vibes are yours!!!!
Dorothy
|
125.1239 | | VERGA::STANLEY | what a long strange trip it's been | Tue Feb 02 1993 12:45 | 3 |
| Mine heading out there too..
mary
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125.1240 | bummer | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | under eternity | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:08 | 4 |
|
Mark, Many vibes from Rachel, Charlie, and myself...
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125.1241 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:19 | 4 |
|
good luck Mark, All the good vibes I can muster are yours!!!
MJ
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125.1242 | Thanks for the vibes | BSS::MNELSON | | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:30 | 9 |
|
Thanks for all the grate thoughts. No worry for the big C, just
finding out what kind of damage has been done by hepatitis. If
things come out well, no problem. If not, I can give up booze
start some treatment to prevent future damage and resort to just
reducing my cholesterol for my entertainment.
Thanks for the vibes, I know they'll help
Mark
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125.1243 | hoping things turn out fine... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:33 | 3 |
| Gary Burton heading your way Mark ;-) Best of luck
PeterT
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125.1244 | still more... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:41 | 7 |
| still more vibes emanating from my corner of the net-world...
oooohhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm......
da ve
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125.1245 | \ | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Tue Feb 02 1993 13:52 | 7 |
| ....and more good vibes!
hope the results are ok mon.......
.... rastamon/jc
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125.1246 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Feb 02 1993 14:46 | 2 |
| good luck Mark...I'll be in touch later
rfb
|
125.1247 | | EBBV03::SMITH | Think show | Tue Feb 02 1993 15:14 | 6 |
|
Good vibes being sent........
Medical stuff is a b!tch!
Hope things work out!
|
125.1248 | | SALEM::BURNS | world peace begins at home :^) | Tue Feb 02 1993 15:22 | 5 |
| ...good luck there Mark.
crossed fingers and good vibes fer ya :^)
Andy
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125.1249 | | EZRIDR::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Tue Feb 02 1993 16:10 | 5 |
| Good luck, Mark.
Good vibes from Maynard, MA.
adam
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125.1250 | | SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobel | expecting something witty? | Tue Feb 02 1993 16:21 | 1 |
| and even more vibes {{{{{{{{{}}}}}}}}}}}}{{{{{{{{{{{{{} headed your way Mark
|
125.1251 | This really belongs in the Feel Good Note | BSS::MNELSON | | Wed Feb 03 1993 02:03 | 17 |
|
Hey there,
I just received an 11th hour reprieve from the Doctor, Yah. I had
to take a last series of tests for pre-admittance and the Doctor
said that my liver enzymes were within the normal range! He gave
me the option of following through with the procedure or to hold off
and continue monitoring the enzymes periodically. I told him I think
I'll avoid the intrusive procedure along with it albeit small risks.
Thank's so much for the positive vibes and wishes. I have faith they
helped and it really meant a lot to me. Now I just hope the counts
stay down there.
Thanks for the Vibes!
-Mark
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125.1252 | The vibes worked! | SALEM::MARTIN_S | Don't Fake the Funk on the Dunk | Wed Feb 03 1993 09:46 | 5 |
|
Excellent news, Dude! Keep on smilin' :-)
Steve-O
|
125.1253 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Feb 03 1993 10:29 | 5 |
| glad for ya Mnelson! good talkin to ya last nite, too...
take care of yerself, keep da faith, and stay away from that devil
whiskey!!!!!
rfb
|
125.1254 | Power of Prayer | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Wed Feb 03 1993 11:48 | 4 |
| That's grate to hear. Good health.
Marv
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125.1255 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | A blues guitar echoes in my mind | Wed Feb 03 1993 12:10 | 3 |
| Phew! Wipe the sweat mon!!
Good news that you can safely avoid surgery!
|
125.1256 | | ROADKL::INGALLS | castles made of sand | Wed Feb 03 1993 14:23 | 3 |
|
Glad to here it Mark :^)
|
125.1257 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Tue Feb 09 1993 13:35 | 5 |
|
did someone set my clock back this morning? this day
seems to be crawling along awfully slowly.... :-(
MJ
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125.1258 | slow me down! | LANDO::HAPGOOD | | Tue Feb 09 1993 13:37 | 12 |
| <<< Note 125.1257 by ISLNDS::CONNORS_M >>>
> did someone set my clock back this morning? this day
> seems to be crawling along awfully slowly.... :-(
Hey MJ,
Just think of they all speed along at a fast pace then you'll be old in
not time...
?? :)
bob
|
125.1259 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Tue Feb 09 1993 13:48 | 8 |
|
Yeah, your right I suppose! ;-)
there's plenty of times I'd like to slow things down...
but work I wouldn't mind zipping right through with the
blink of an eye! ;-)
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125.1260 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Feb 09 1993 15:05 | 3 |
| You must be waiting for something....? ;-)
tim
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125.1261 | Chief must have a different meaning..... | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Fri Feb 12 1993 10:58 | 10 |
| for all you Celts Fans, if ya didn't see the news over the past 12
hours heres a news flash.....Robert Parish was busted for marijuana
in San Fran a drug sniffing dog pointed out a packaged address to the
Chief (it had @7 oz of MJ) when the package got to the Federal Express
office in Natick it again was pointed out by drug sniffing dogs ....
the cops now had reason to get a warrant to search his home where they
found @5 oz of MJ.....Parish was charged with possion.....
Chris
|
125.1262 | | BUSY::IRZA | this species has amused itself to death | Fri Feb 12 1993 12:31 | 6 |
|
i heard he didn't inhale! ;^)
|
125.1263 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Fri Feb 12 1993 14:39 | 4 |
| Apparently, they might have a hard time proving that it was solicited,
but, i dunno know the details. I doubt he'll do any time, but, ya never know,
they might wanna make an example out of him which would get a boost due to his
"celebrity" status.
|
125.1264 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Feb 12 1993 15:20 | 20 |
| I saw the news item last night about this, and thought it was encouraging,
in perverse kinda way...First of all, I thought they said it was 2 oz. in
the mail, and another 5 oz. at home - totalling 7 oz. The cops said they
saw no indication that this was for any purpose but personal use, and wouldn't
be pursuing 'intent to distribute' charges. I got the impression that being
a first time offender, he could get a suspended sentence or n months of
probation.
Think about the precedent. Five years ago, he would have gone to jail for
5-10 years. 7 oz. is a LOT of pot to get busted for nowadays, only to get
a suspended sentence. It used to be that more than a couple ounces was
de facto grounds for getting busted for dealing, no matter what.
It was also a good little reminder for that part of the population that
thinks mailing contraband via Federal Express is 'safe'...
Maybe I'm just being prematurely optimistic, but the whole incident sure had
a very different tone about it compared to when Ronald Raygun was prez...;-)
tim
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125.1265 | at least he should be force to share it ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Fri Feb 12 1993 15:28 | 7 |
| ya know Tim, this might be good for the drugs on war...or is that war
on drugs...well I see your point, but in the same vein the media might
start sticking their little pointy heads into it and causing a problem.
like so if you are someone like Chief you get a slap on the wrist but
if you're a avg. joe you get 6months "." although I like to see the
laws get relaxed by this HIGH-profile )ooo a double pun) bust I only
feel it will get worse.....
|
125.1266 | | STUDIO::IDE | Can't this wait 'til I'm old? | Fri Feb 12 1993 15:48 | 7 |
| They would've found a diet scale in Joe Pothead's house and he'd get
intent to distribute. Seven oz.?!? The Chief wasn't recreating
prudently . . .
Who (beside me) thinks they'll bust Bill Walton on the other end?
Jamie
|
125.1267 | mixed emotions on this one! | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Feb 12 1993 15:52 | 24 |
| supposedly on tv the Weston police say he is still considered a "model
citizen"...
my thoughts are somewhere between Chris and Tim... on the one hand,
if Robert Parrish can get misdemeanor posession for almost HALF A POUND
(not to mention totally overlooking the potential interstate trafficing
charges) then it bodes well for those of us who might pick up a bag
every so often... however i suspect that he is being treted this way
for who he is... if i got picked up in Weston with half an OUNCE i
would expect to be arrested and treated like a criminal...
maybe it's time for some letters to the editor that start out "Three
Cheers for the New Drug Policies in MA!"... :^)
if indeed he gets special treatment for his celebrity status i will be
pissed... i have no doubt in my mind that if you or i were bagged in
that town with almost half a pound of dope we'd be sitting in jail
calling our lawyers right now... i hope this will signal a change
in policy but i suspect it will become evidence of the fact that there
is one set of rules for the people of "status" and another for you and
i... and guess what, they aren't the same...
da ve_who_hopes_we_all"get_off"_
including_the_Chief
|
125.1268 | it'll be interesting | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Fri Feb 12 1993 15:57 | 11 |
| It'll be interesting to see what happens. With the forfeiture laws he
could stand to loose an amazing enormous pile of property.
If this were persued, he's big enough to afford a good lawyer for
a long time and get things possibly changed.
If they (the estaBlUSHment) recognizes this and want to continue
getting free cars and houses, then they probably wont pursue anything.
Coincidentally this with the new administration and hopefully a new
line of reasoning maybe some things can change
Geoff but_what_do_I_know_?
|
125.1269 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Feb 12 1993 16:01 | 1 |
| hey, i completely forgot about that!!!! shouldn't he be homeless now?
|
125.1270 | | AKOCOA::DMITCHELL | Bring back Day Job | Fri Feb 12 1993 16:27 | 6 |
|
re.1266
Jamie, thats the first name that popped in my head..
Don
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125.1271 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Feb 12 1993 16:36 | 19 |
| Au contraire - I hope they DO let him off easy because of who he is. Six
months suspended sentence would be perfect, maybe a little community service,
or such. No big cash fines - that would be a regressive precedent.
Da ve, the way I look at it is this: if that happens, and then next summer
you get pulled over in Weston with a half ounce in your car, then when you
go to court you have a perfect precedence (assuming you're a first time
offender) to get exactly the same treatment. It would be discriminatory
for the courts to come down harder on you than they did on the Chief, and
they couldn't go back and make his sentence harsher after the fact.
Since I've never been arrested for anything, I like having this kind of
insurance.
Legal precedence is a wonderful weapon, especially when it's married to
massive media coverage. They're doing us all a big favor, and maybe they'll
relieve a little of the overcrowding in prisons in the process.
tim
|
125.1272 | | SSGV02::GPEACE::Strobel | expecting something witty? | Fri Feb 12 1993 16:45 | 14 |
| Does the forfeiture law apply if he's charged with a misdemeanor which, at
least by last night's news, is what he's being charged with?
Walton: Someone asked about the who sent the package and the answer was no
one connected with the NBA. Granted maybe Bill knows of a good source or 2
and the source could implicate him, but I don't know if they can directly tie
him to anything.
Ah, the war on drugs. They'll bag the Chief for smoking pot but turn their
head on the steroids being sold to the local high school football teams (at
least as long as they win)
jeff
|
125.1273 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Fri Feb 12 1993 16:50 | 8 |
| > supposedly on tv the Weston police say he is still considered a
>"model citizen"...
>
> my thoughts are somewhere between Chris and Tim... on the one
>hand,
so da ve which one of us is the model citizen ? me or Tim ? :'j
|
125.1275 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Feb 12 1993 17:23 | 7 |
| That's exactly what I'm talking about. Parrish was arrested with 2118 times
that much pot. That means his fine should be $1,186,080, right? ;-)
Busted for 1.5 grams...that's assinine. Do you have the option to have your
record erased (expunged) after some period of time has passed?
tim
|
125.1276 | thanks Deane! | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Feb 12 1993 17:41 | 22 |
|
that's exactly what i'm talking about too... Robert gets nothing
(really) while Deane gets reamed... that's the inequity that
irks the shit out of me...
now, don't get me wrong... i agree with you Tim, in that this kind of
precendent would be really nice... still, i have little or no reason
to believe that the law would be applied equally no rich-rich,
non-famous, non-NBA heroes... i still say that if you or i get busted
for close to a half pound of pot, we would lose our property and be
faced with charges of posession, intent to distribute, conspiracy to
transport across state lines (a FEDERAL rap mind you) and that's
probably just for starters... none of this misdemeanor "model citizen"
bs...
again, i want to see him get off because *in principle* that means you
and i will get the same treatment in the future... however, just as
much as it would set a precedent, i believe it also illustrates how
the law (sheeeesh, i almost said "justice"!) is not applied evenly to
the haves and the have-nots...
da ve
|
125.1277 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Feb 12 1993 18:10 | 9 |
| I agree. That's the difference between having a good lawyer, and having
a public defender.
A good lawyer would apply the precedent. A public defender might have
trouble spelling the word.
Sigh.
tim
|
125.1278 | | MR4MI2::REHILL | Visualize Whirled Peas | Fri Feb 12 1993 18:10 | 13 |
|
I'm having a little problem with all of this flying off the handle
stuff. I heard the reports, last night the first report said
several ounces, then later it was 5 ounces, and this morning I
heard 7 ounces.....It reminds me of those busts in the 70's
where they would exagerate the "street value" - "Last's nights
bust collelcted over $10,000 worth of pot". We would joke, yeah,
that's by the pencil thin joint.... no one would buy that.....
I think we really have to wait for all the dust to die down, and we
get a chance to see the real facts, if we ever do....
|
125.1280 | | STAR::HUGHES | Captain Slog | Fri Feb 12 1993 18:39 | 21 |
| I heard on two different news services that it was 2oz in fedex, and
another 5oz when they raided his house (the discovery of the fedex
shipment being sufficient probable cause for a search). 7oz total.
re .1272
You do not have to be charged with ANYTHING for the forfeiture laws to
kick in. Remember, they appear in civil court where "guilty until
proven innocent" does not apply. The prosecution need only establish a
"preponderance of guilt" to win the case. In other words, he would have
to prove that everything he owned was purchased with money legally
earned. The RICO laws allow the Feds to seize this property until the
civil case is resolved.
The Feds tend to avoid high profile cases like this; it is more
profitable to go after people who can't afford lawyers.
The Government has no place in civil court IMO. It has laws to protect
it.
gary
|
125.1281 | | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Fri Feb 12 1993 18:47 | 17 |
| re .1279
"My record will be there forever."
Don't let that bother you. Most people don't give a shit about
that type of thing. Granted, some do but they are usually the type
that are anti everything.
I speak from experience on this. That "permanent record" rap is a
guilt trip tactic and is as bogus as things get.
Unless you want to be a FBI agent, a cop or a few other things, a
non-feloney reefer bust is a non-issue.
Regards,
Marv
|
125.1282 | inhale to the chief | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | Nothing's worth nothing, but it's free. | Fri Feb 12 1993 20:23 | 17 |
| > You do not have to be charged with ANYTHING for the forfeiture laws to
> kick in. Remember, they appear in civil court where "guilty until
> proven innocent" does not apply. The prosecution need only establish a
> "preponderance of guilt" to win the case. In other words, he would have
> to prove that everything he owned was purchased with money legally
> earned. The RICO laws allow the Feds to seize this property until the
> civil case is resolved.
yup; this basically means that you are guilty until proven innocent; if you
want to read more about how absurd this abuse of the system is, send me
e-mail and i'll try to dig up my copies of the Pittsburgh Press cover stories
from August 1991 and send them out to you; it's pretty scary stuff
hoping that the system will someday change, but not too hopeful that it will
happen anytime soon...
- rich
|
125.1283 | ugh | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Question reality | Fri Feb 19 1993 17:17 | 13 |
|
Viral bronchitus.
This is day eight of this. Ruined last weekend in the Whites and its going to
ruin this weekend too. Had to miss four days of work, including important
training that I won't get another opportunity to take. Only been able to
sleep a couple of hours at a time for the past few days, and am on this awful
narcotic drug that makes me feel constantly hung over, but without it, I'd be
constantly hacking.
vibes, pleez.
Wheezing Idiot
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125.1284 | :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Feb 19 1993 17:24 | 7 |
| ask and you shall recieve... i've had my share of that sort of thing
this year!!
oooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm............
da ve_vibing_from_a_safe_distance
|
125.1285 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Feb 19 1993 17:38 | 6 |
| bummer, that stuff is nasty...avoid all dairy products and stay away
from all that candy you eat!!!!!!!! %^)
candy IS dandy,
but likker is quicker
rfb
|
125.1286 | | EBBCLU::SMITH | Think show | Fri Feb 19 1993 17:41 | 4 |
|
sorry to hear your ill mon!
I had pnuemonia over Christmas....I can sympathize
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125.1287 | Vibes heading east | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Fri Feb 19 1993 17:54 | 8 |
|
Hey there Fog,
Bronchitis is a real drag. Lisa had it for 12 days and is just
coming out of it. Send some positive thoughts eastward.
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Mark
|
125.1288 | hummmmmmmmmmmmmmm | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:04 | 6 |
| here have a cough drop !
viiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiibeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
Chris
|
125.1289 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:21 | 4 |
|
{{{vibes}}} headed straight at ya!
|
125.1290 | time to be a couch potato | SALEM::MARKIEWICZ | enfant de l'Univers | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:23 | 7 |
| Fog,
Sending all the good vibes I have your way~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~`
Get all the rest you can. Bronchitis, like pneumonia is
aggravated by physical activity.
Rose
|
125.1291 | | ROADKL::INGALLS | castles made of sand | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:30 | 5 |
|
~~~~~~~~ healthy vibes ~~~~~~~~~
|
125.1292 | health on the way.... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:46 | 4 |
| ouch, not fun. Hope you get better soon Fog...
PeterT
|
125.1293 | some rill blues fur sure | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Fri Feb 19 1993 18:54 | 1 |
| a rill bummer news......bellbottoms are back in fashion.....yuk
|
125.1294 | The Bobby Brady effect | EBBCLU::SMITH | Think show | Fri Feb 19 1993 19:02 | 11 |
| > a rill bummer news......bellbottoms are back in fashion.....yuk
awe..cmon...
I've wanted to whip on a pair of them all my life!!!
I would like to snag a pair of orange,purple,and
brown plaid ones!!!!!
|
125.1295 | spent the nite in Utah. | AKOCOA::DMITCHELL | with my head in sparkling clover | Fri Feb 19 1993 19:12 | 6 |
|
re. 1294 Bobby Brady effect
my brother met Bob Brady out in Utah at a Dead show in '83..
Don
|
125.1296 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Feb 19 1993 19:15 | 3 |
| you guys are makin me feel old!!!
rfb who had some wayout bells in his younger days
|
125.1297 | | EBBCLU::SMITH | Think show | Fri Feb 19 1993 19:15 | 2 |
|
did he have on bell bottoms? ;-)
|
125.1298 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Feb 19 1993 20:02 | 7 |
| C'mon, bellbottoms weren't that bad. I mean, it could be worse. It could
be polyester leisure suits.
;-)
tim
|
125.1299 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Feb 19 1993 20:05 | 4 |
| I ADMIT...I NEVER wore a plyester leisure suit...except on halloween
one year
rfb
|
125.1300 | | ESGWST::MIRASSOU | | Sat Feb 20 1993 00:01 | 2 |
| You mean I shouldn't have been wearing those bell bottoms all these
years? And I thought I was being so hep.
|
125.1301 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Question reality | Mon Feb 22 1993 18:31 | 11 |
|
Good new/bad news...
First the bad news: My condition has been upgraded to pneumonia, so I'm
officially on STD now and won't be back to work til march.
The good news: I'm totally naked!!!
Fog_who_is_little_punchy_on_Hycodan,_a_narcotic_cough_suppressant.
|
125.1302 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Feb 22 1993 18:35 | 4 |
| hang in thar Fog...sounds serious but cureable...keep da faith
rfb
p.s and put some clothes on dammit, yer makin me sick! %^)
|
125.1303 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Mon Feb 22 1993 18:55 | 8 |
|
Well at least your illness hasn't effected your sense of humor!
:-)
Good vibes to you Fog, get well quick!!!!
MJ
|
125.1304 | y | CIVIC::ROBERTS_CR | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Mon Feb 22 1993 19:05 | 5 |
| I think Fog likes the medication!
get well soon ... and stay warm!
c
|
125.1305 | #2 on the way???:-):-):-) | SALES::GKELLER | yrs=4 Atax on wallet/attacks on 2nd | Mon Feb 22 1993 19:11 | 1 |
| Rachael... Get home quick. Fogs naked and Charlie's asleep:-):-):-)
|
125.1306 | | NRSTA2::CLARK | Hour of Slack | Mon Feb 22 1993 19:33 | 5 |
| Hmm, if Fog is naked, should we really be sending him vibes?
Get well soon Fog ...
- DC
|
125.1307 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Feb 23 1993 11:27 | 5 |
| as CharlieO would say .... "uh oh!" .... take care of yourself Fog
I'll stop by with sugar fixins for ya ifn you want, let me know.
Lisa
|
125.1308 | still a Sesame St fan... | SALEM::MARKIEWICZ | enfant de l'Univers | Tue Feb 23 1993 12:36 | 7 |
| Fog,
Good wishes for a speedy recovery coming your way. Now you and
Charlie can watch Sesame Street together. It's about the best
show on daytime TV
Rose
|
125.1309 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Feb 23 1993 13:11 | 4 |
| Be careful, Fog. And put some clothes on, fer chrissakes...howdaya think
you got sick in the first place?! ;-)
tim
|
125.1310 | Get Well Fog | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Tue Feb 23 1993 13:12 | 5 |
|
Good Health to ya Fog,
Take Care
Mark
|
125.1311 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Tue Feb 23 1993 14:54 | 9 |
| Hope you get better mon!
Are ya gonna quit cigs as a result of this illness?
I know a couple of people who quit due to illnesses
similar to yours....
take it slow and not too many drugs now!
|
125.1312 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Feb 23 1993 15:10 | 6 |
|
JC, Fog quit smoking years ago. Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
sure it is more than 2.....
|
125.1313 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Tue Feb 23 1993 18:15 | 12 |
| re <<< Note 125.1312 by MRNGDU::YETTO "the future is here" >>>
>JC, Fog quit smoking years ago. Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
>sure it is more than 2.....
where does the time go (or, where does my mind go???) ???
|
125.1314 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Feb 23 1993 18:44 | 12 |
| Re: <<< Note 125.1313 by ZENDIA::FERGUSON "I had one of those flashes" >>>
>>JC, Fog quit smoking years ago. Not sure exactically how many but am pretty
>>sure it is more than 2.....
>where does the time go (or, where does my mind go???) ???
have another homebrew and think about it, then let me know tomorrow.
:-) ;^) ;^) ;^) :-)
|
125.1315 | bummer | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Question reality | Tue Mar 02 1993 14:57 | 64 |
|
Today is day 20 of my illness, and the tenth day of work I've missed. The
third antibiotic treatment I started Saturday isn't doing diddly. I've
learned that some strains of Pnuemonia are tough, but this whole ordeal would
probably be over, however, if I had received a bit more attentive care in the
first place.
Serious malcontent spleen venting follows:
Fallon has really sucked in caring for me, too. How unfortunate that places
like Fallon are the way Clinton is steering our Health Care industry. They
really could give a shit about my condition. Here I am feeling reeally bad,
even a phone call is an effort, and I'm having to expend a lot effort just to
get an appt with a doctor. On my first visit, five days after my first phone
contact with them, which would not have been sceduled at all had I not
emphatically insisted on seeing a doctor, I was told I had pnuemonia, but the
doctor only passively mentioned that furthur tests might be available, like
chest xray and culture test, which would have given them some indication
which antibiotic to subscribe. I feel that they just pidgeon-holed me into
some pre-defined corporate program of medications which were empirically
derived by a panel of statisticians and whose primary purpose is to save
money (I've noticed my treatments have only progressively gotten more
expensive).
On Friday, when my condition worsened, I asked the nurse to have the doctor
call me. I'm not allowed to talk to my doctor, or even schedule an
appointment without going through what seems to be a labarythine computer
program written in ADA or COBOL to maximize profit/minimize personal
engagement. Over the weekend, I was prescribed some stuff by the weekend
fill-in, but I still wanted to talk to my doctor. I called again yesterday,
and again this morning, still no call back. On this last call, I insisted on
talking to my doctor, and having her schedule an appointment for her to see
me again for furthur tests, but its against thier rules. In this whole
ordeal, I've spent hours on the phone, yet less than five minutes with my
doctor.
In general, you don't get anything from this seemingly faceless corporation
without insisting on it. After three phone calls, I still have not been able
to get anyone their to call the DEC STD people to let them know I'm sick.
This is not the first time I've have serious problems getting adequate
care from this HMO, sme of you have heard me vent at length about these
people. Wish I could change now.
PLEASE, I request you do not forward this outside this conference. I am not
reccomening that if you are considering them as an hmo, you change your mind.
I am only relating my personal experiences with them. I MUST say that when
Rachel was pregnant, they were superb in delivering care for Rachel and
Charlie; they are the only HMO around here who currently offer midwifery
services, and while the whole birth experience did seem a little like an
aseemblyt line procedure, the people were greate and the care exceptional;
but for general healthcare, I've had nothing but nightmares.
Under Clinton's health plan, assembly-line healthcare will become the norm,
not the exception. Not everyone, including me knows how to, has the aptitude
for, or the disposition to "work the system". While I agree it is essential
that health care can be provided to all that need it, I do not agree that it
can be successfully done under capatilistic control; in order to control
health care, it must be socialized, even if its just a little; unfortunately
that will _never_ happen in The United States of Ronald Reagan.
Nap time for mikey....
|
125.1316 | my $.02 | GOOROO::DCLARK | spare a bone, Chief? | Tue Mar 02 1993 15:27 | 4 |
| switch to CMHC. They've been good for my family. Dr. Hart in
Sterling is good.
- DAve
|
125.1317 | kick some Butt Fog | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Tue Mar 02 1993 15:55 | 26 |
| Gee Fog that sucks, you go to the one in Worcester right ? I have not
heard much good about that site....odd they did a great job with the
baby thing but can relieve a flu/namonya.....get well you sicky-poo you
I just switched to Fallon from CMHC, reason was my Drs. kept quiting or
dying....and at one point I could not get a Dr. and was told I was no
longer covered until I found one, but I stilled had to pay the
$27/week. I switched to Fallon and the 1st time I used it they tried to
charge me $50 for Julie's eye exam, it should have cost me $5
(which was part of the coverage, and the main reason I choose them)
after a call to the head office explaining my problem they told me that
the remote office had made a mistake (duh!) they told me when the bill
came to my house (I refused to pay (even the $2 or is it $5 co-payment)
and walked out the door after the lady headed me the bill) to call them
back and they would take it off the books. Well I got the bill, I called
them told them the story and was treat very nicely and they apologized
for the mess up...I asked if this was going to happen again and asked
them to check my records for the type of coverage....
so I will be going for a full check up soon and I hope this is going to
be a good HMO....
My Mom & Dad have the same Dr as I do and they have praised him up and
down.....and the office is in my home town (Westboro) so no trips to
Worcester.
Chris
|
125.1318 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Question reality | Tue Mar 02 1993 19:06 | 18 |
| Yes, Chris, Worcester is where we're based. fwiw, I finally got in, got my
X-Ray, got a good twenty minutes of my doctor's time, and some good drugs.
took yet another phone call, though.
Unfortunately, I am stuck with these people until the next open enrollement:
November.
> $27/week. I switched to Fallon and the 1st time I used it they tried to
> charge me $50 for Julie's eye exam, it should have cost me $5
Funny you should mention this. I tried to get an exam last month and also was
told it would be $50.00. They said they could schedule me for four months
down the road. I said "screw it", cause that's the kind of person I am. I
_thought_ when I signed up that there was only a $5 copay on eye exams, but I
couldn't find the paper work when I got back home. This sucks. I'm _really_
_really_ _really_ pissed now.
I wonder how many other poor saps these people have phucked over???
|
125.1319 | Take Care | SHKDWN::TAYLOR | Nothing shakin' | Tue Mar 02 1993 19:09 | 10 |
| Fog,
Be importunate as necessary to get the care you need. Pneumonia kills. This
is no joke.
Tufts health plan is expensive, but we've been very happy. Everything is
coordinted through your family physician, and you get to talk to him if there
are problems.
Bill
|
125.1320 | hold on before you bust a vein son... | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Tue Mar 02 1993 19:13 | 4 |
| Well Fog the eye exam is $50 for you (you are over the age of 17...and
under the age of 65).....
Chris
|
125.1321 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Wed Mar 03 1993 12:00 | 5 |
| I have a friend who used to be a hospital administrator in CA. He basically
said that all HMOs pretty much suck as they are always looking for ways to
do the job cheaply.
FWIW - he would know - he dealt w/ them.
|
125.1322 | Taking It In Massachusetts | STUDIO::IDE | Can't this wait 'til I'm old? | Wed Mar 03 1993 15:21 | 8 |
| I owe this lousy state $300 in taxes. All because they tax interest
(which came from US savings bonds which we cashed for a house
downpayment) income at 12%, unless it's from a Mass. bank which is
taxed at 5.95%. Why oh why did I ever leave New Hampshire?
I wouldn't feel too bad if I thought my tax money were well spent.
Jamie
|
125.1323 | your tax dollars at work... trying to get mine!!! | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Mar 04 1993 13:55 | 15 |
| I got home last night and there was a letter from the IRS (hey that was
a quick return!) Turned out they wanted to make an adjustment to my
1990 return as I failed to report my 401K income. This would just
result in my owing about $5000 in taxes!!!
Well, at least I know what's going on. I left Prime in 1990 and
withdrew my 401K money with nothing withheld. After finally getting
the check, I rolled it over into the 401K plan at my next employer.
There is a 60day grace period to allow this, and I was well within
it. I guess, though, that instead of not reporting it as income,
maybe I should have indicated somehow that I received it and rolled
it over. Sigh.... More forms to fill out.
PeterT
|
125.1324 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Fri Mar 05 1993 13:43 | 9 |
| I tell ya, that f'n FORM 1 and the Scheds. in the MA tax forms are a total
piece of shit!!!!!!!!!!!!! they have so many "do this if it is < x but
if x is from source abc, then put 45.564% of x in box 10 and 20% of x in
box 11, and if the remaining x is > nnn, turn to page 224345 of MASS tax
code 4902-ADSFD to figure out what to do"
lots of cussing comin' outta my mouth while doing that one!
|
125.1325 | Pilgrim | SPOCK::IRONS | | Tue Mar 09 1993 19:47 | 11 |
| RE: HEALTHSCARE
I belong to Pilgrim Healthcare and am very satisfied. Pilgrim HMO is
not located in big building, instead, they have doctors scattered all
over MAss. and RI that belong to the HMO. You can pick any primary
care physician you want! The doctors I've had have been very good.
I pay around $7.00 a week, single. That's up from $3.00 something a
week last year.
dave
|
125.1326 | More on Pilgrim... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Just say NO to hummus! | Tue Mar 09 1993 21:19 | 11 |
| re: [dave]
I belong to Pilgrim, also, and I am also satisfied. I like the eyecare
part...discounts range from 20% to 40% off eyeglasses and contact
lenses at various optometrists. I went to Cambridge Eye. I recieved
a 40% discount on glasses, a free eye examination (the limit is
1/year), and a free pair of contacts (they have a free eyewear program
for those that fall under the guidelines....and I have no idea what the
guidelines were). They have a wide selection of doctors, and they have
been great...and it's $3.00/visit.... I pay the same as Dave, around
$7.50 a week, single, which has doubled form last year...
|
125.1327 | | BUSY::IRZA | in the shadow of the season | Wed Mar 10 1993 10:43 | 10 |
|
wow, i've got to look into that! i've also got pilgrim (fallon
bites, i had it once...ONCE!) and i have an appointment for an eye
exam TODAY, but i think i'll cancal cuz this place only offered a
10% discount off glasses, and nothing towards contacts or the
appointment fee itself. luckily i brought all my pilgrim stuff
with me today, guess i'll hafta actually read through it ;^).
thanks for the timely reply!
^dave
|
125.1328 | Do both | SPOCK::IRONS | | Wed Mar 10 1993 15:50 | 12 |
| You can always see your regular doctor and ask him for a prescription.
Then buy your glasses, etc. at Cambridge. This is what I do, however,
I haven't tried Cambridge yet for glasses and contacts. I dought if
I'll get free contacts from them; my contacts are pretty expensive for
my prescription.
Personally I never trust optomitrists that have their practice at optometry
stores like Cambridge. I tend to go for the ones that own their own
practice. I have pretty bad eyes and am not going to screw around. It
sounds prejudice but it's my eyes and no one elses.
dave
|
125.1329 | Doing both IS a good idea....\ | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Just say NO to hummus! | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:16 | 15 |
| ->> Personally I never trust optomitrists that have their practice at
->> optometry stores like Cambridge. I tend to go for the ones that own
->> their own practice. I have pretty bad eyes and am not going to screw
->> around. It sounds prejudice but it's my eyes and no one elses.
->>
->> dave
Dave, although i go to Cambridge Eye, I do agree with you. Their
service was good, but I was very lery of going there at first...I've
always had optometrists with their own practices before I moved to
Mass. Cambridge Eye has been good to me, though. But if you have bad
eyes I suggest going to a private optometrist.....
:),d
|
125.1330 | | BUSY::IRZA | in the shadow of the season | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:19 | 7 |
|
good advice dave. i think i will stick my regular doctor. they
just really irked me last time, when i asked for a copy of my
prescription they kinda hassled me. i guess they take offense by
their patients going elsewhere. but hey, it's my right.
thanx for the input...^dave
|
125.1331 | | EBBV03::SMITH | Think show | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:27 | 12 |
|
Hey!!!
Is today just a bad day or is there some sorta
stratospheric disturbances happening?
It seems as though everyone everywhere is pissed
at me and at eachother, I just can't figure why,
I had better check my de-oderant.....although,
that shouldn't make it through the ethernet wires....
Anyone else having a rotten day?
|
125.1332 | "Have a crappy day!" - Carlin | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Gone Phishin' | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:31 | 9 |
| > Anyone else having a rotten day?
Yup. I got into the lab this morning to find that someone had hacked up
some test equipment I needed to use. Spent the bulk of the morning fixing
stuff that someone else broke!
...makes me feel like I'm back in grad-school... 8-|
- jeff
|
125.1333 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I had one of those flashes | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:40 | 8 |
| re <<< Note 125.1331 by EBBV03::SMITH "Think show" >>>
> Anyone else having a rotten day?
nope, not me, foretunately.
You guys _need_ a DOSE of the blues tonight to cure dem rotten daze bluez!
|
125.1334 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Mar 10 1993 16:47 | 3 |
| i am having a bad week....earache for 3 days now, no Phish last nite
due to earache, weather sucks, kids givin me a hardtime.....
rfb
|
125.1335 | no problem here | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Wed Mar 10 1993 17:01 | 7 |
| Im having a decent day. First off, I think the flu from hell
is finally departing my body - it's about time, been 2 weeks and a
couple of days! Current project just about done. And I just got
back from a really wierd Garth Hudson brown bag 30 minute concert
at Mechanics Hall in Worcester. Oh, and it's gorgeous outside!
Ken
|
125.1336 | call me the breeze | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Wed Mar 10 1993 17:09 | 7 |
| the only bummer about today is that Im inside and not outside welcoming
SPRING !
otherwise its a wonderful day in the na-bore-hood.....
Chris
|
125.1337 | | EBBV03::SMITH | Think show | Wed Mar 10 1993 17:11 | 17 |
|
Yup, there is definitely something up....
hang in there!
Did anyone hear that the moon has jumped off
it's normal axis? I heard something this morning
on the radio and they mentioned that high tides
and volcanoe erruptions will be a direct result
as well as the unseasonal weather.
JC-
don't think I can make it to dah Bull cause
I have school tonight....I'll try...
"I sing the blues nearly all night long!"
|
125.1338 | it's the moon, but i wouldn't head for the hills just yet! :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Mar 10 1993 17:27 | 19 |
| i was going to suggest the moon thing as a possible cause...
fwiw, i don't think it's off its normal axis though... :^)
my understanding is we just had a full moon and it was at it's lowest
orbital point in years and won't come as close to us again for
decades...
i wouldn't be heading for the shelters however, to protect myself from
earthquakes, floods and volcanoes... kinda chicken little thinking to
me... remember all the disasters that were predicted for the harmonic
convergence a couple of years back? we had most of the planets in the
solar system all lined up and the chicken little's were predicting
earthquakes, floods and volcanoes then too... never happened...
high tides and out-of-the-ordinary weather i might believe (esp tides
as the moon controls them), but if you're looking forward to the other
natural disasters, i'm afraid you may be disappointed! :^)
da ve
|
125.1339 | | EBBV03::SMITH | Think show | Wed Mar 10 1993 17:46 | 11 |
| > as the moon controls them), but if you're looking forward to the other
> natural disasters, i'm afraid you may be disappointed! :^)
awe...I was all hyped out for total chaotic hell! ;-)
I think Saturday's and Sunday's weather may impact
the coastal regions extra heavily due to this....
maybe the moon will prolong the ski season for me :-)
|
125.1340 | just wondering... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Just say NO to hummus! | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:05 | 1 |
| How can the moon affect high tides?
|
125.1341 | | RAISE::GLADU | | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:23 | 9 |
| re: Note 125.1340 by BINKLY::DEMARSE
>How can the moon affect high tides?
Tides are caused by the moon's gravitational pull on the Earth.
In essence, the closer the moon, the higher the tide. I now
turn this topic over to Mr. Pedantic for a more in depth
explanation. :-) Provided he is well enough to log in.
|
125.1342 | 8^) | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Just say NO to hummus! | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:27 | 4 |
| Neat......I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters
...I think it was that gravitational pull.....
:), danielle
|
125.1343 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:33 | 7 |
|
Full Moon's have also been known to effect female cycles. I wouldn't be
suprised to learn births are up during them either. Two things I never
underestimate ... gravity and hormones! :-)
|
125.1344 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:34 | 1 |
| so true....
|
125.1345 | :^) | BUSY::IRZA | in the shadow of the season | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:34 | 7 |
| >> Neat......I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters
>> ...I think it was that gravitational pull.....
ha ha ha!!!! too funny!
^d
|
125.1346 | And as bugs bunny says.... | DRINKS::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:46 | 6 |
| > Two things I never
> underestimate ... gravity and hormones! :-)
'course, I never studied law...
Dave :-)
|
125.1347 | | 11SRUS::MARK | Waltzing with Bears | Wed Mar 10 1993 18:53 | 8 |
| re: .1342
>I was born on a full moon, as well as 2 of my younger sisters
But if they're your younger sisters, how could you have been born on
them? :-)
Mark
|
125.1348 | | EBBV03::SMITH | Think show | Wed Mar 10 1993 19:04 | 2 |
|
Green Grass and High tides....and hormones!
|
125.1349 | ... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Just say NO to hummus! | Wed Mar 10 1993 19:18 | 3 |
| re: [mark] funny, funny.......:)
so was the full moon last night?
|
125.1350 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Wed Mar 10 1993 19:34 | 4 |
|
Monday night.
|
125.1351 | from the "strange but true" department... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Mar 10 1993 19:44 | 26 |
| congrats to Danielle for being the first confirmed birth on the moon-
full or otherwise! :^)
the moon has also been given credit (or blame as the case may be) for
affecting human personality... ever heard of LUNAcy? seriously!
that's where the term comes from... there are even theories that
work to support this conclusion... to put it simply, lunar gravity
affects bodies of water here on earth... your body is mostly water...
in the full moon the gravitational pull is stronger... more water is
pulled into your cranial cavity thereby affecting mental states and
functioning... or so the theory goes... your mileage may vary...
also, from an etymological standpoint (no, i am not the pedantic one
but i may play him on tv) it is no accident that early treatments
for LUNAtics was to have them sit in SOLARiums... it was thought that
the sun had purifying effects on people suffering from too much of the
moon's influence... and again, interestingly enough, there is some
evidence to support this (though it only tends to support mild cases
of depression and not actual "lunatics"... no amount of sunshine is
going to make a nut into a sane person! i mean, look at me?! :^)...
ever heard of SAD (seasonally adjusted depressions or something like
that?) they think it comes on as a result of less sunlight and even
now is often treated by having sufferers sit under sun lamps...
da ve
|
125.1352 | Birthing on the Moon | SHKDWN::TAYLOR | Nothing shakin' | Wed Mar 10 1993 19:52 | 15 |
125.1353 | phasing out massive changes | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Thu Mar 11 1993 11:34 | 20 |
| Now this time I know it's the wrong note, but I have a problem with
the idea that the moon's gravitational pull in greater during a full
moon. It just simple make no physical sense. Gravity is directly
related to mass and proximity and if the mass doesn't change the
gravitational attraction can't change it the distance doesn't change.
The moon being at Apogee (the closest to earth it gets in it's orbit)
will increase the gravitational pull, but being full doesn't.
The reason the effect is greater when the moon is full or new is
because the sun has an effect on us too. When the two effects are in
phase then they add up. A new moon tide is actually higher than a full
moon tide. While the forces are out of phase, somewhere between full
and new, there is a funky vector that is working wuth a canceling
effect. The full moon doesn't cancel out the higher tide because there
are two high tides each day.
It has more to do with the phase matching with the sun than the
gravitational attraction of a body changing.
Does this mean I get another point on the nerd test??
Geoff
|
125.1354 | yes, you're correct, and not a nerd... :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Thu Mar 11 1993 12:24 | 12 |
| awww, c'mon Geoff... of course the moon's gravitational pull is
stronger when it's full... anyone can see that the moon is bigger
then, right? ;^) :^) :^)
seriously though, you are right... the fullness of the moon will not
change it's gravitational pull, but it's proximity to earth will...
i erred in my note...
as to whether or not you score another point on the nerd test, i think
we should leave that open to another round of voting... :^)
da ve
|
125.1355 | | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Thu Mar 11 1993 13:07 | 9 |
| .1351 and 1353/1354
Hey Geoff and da ve. How did Fog get into your accounts? Did you know
he's been masquarading as U's guyz?
:-)
Marv
|
125.1356 | | RAISE::GLADU | | Thu Mar 11 1993 13:13 | 5 |
| >Hey Geoff and da ve. How did Fog get into your accounts? Did you know
>he's been masquarading as U's guyz?
Yeah guys, who *died* and made *you* Mr. Pedantic? :-)
|
125.1357 | :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Thu Mar 11 1993 13:43 | 8 |
| much like a hindu deity, we are actually different revelations
of a single entity, dispensing peace and enlightenment on the general
populace...
either that, or it's another one of those aftermath-of-the-full-moon
things... :^)
da fogeoff ve :^)
|
125.1358 | | STAR::HUGHES | Captain Pedantic and the Space Cadets | Thu Mar 11 1993 16:05 | 4 |
| Actually, the moon is at or near perigee at present, i.e. its as close
as it gets to Earth. Apogee is the furthest point.
gary
|
125.1359 | Taping failure | SHKDWN::TAYLOR | Nothing shakin' | Thu Mar 11 1993 16:05 | 6 |
| My tape of Parts I/II of the 30 year Dylan thing ended in the middle of Neil
Young's Watchtower. Caught all the groveling though.
Grr.
Bill
|
125.1360 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Thu Mar 11 1993 16:35 | 4 |
| see ! its a curse I swear ! Neil could be behind this ya know....gets
those bootlegers going then snip snip ! AAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG !
Chris
|
125.1361 | Cops | NECSC::LEVY | Takes alot to win, even more to lose | Fri Mar 12 1993 10:32 | 14 |
| When I got home last night, I noticed a couple of unmarked police cars and
a couple of other marked ones down the street. Small crowd of people hanging
out.
It seems a neighbor (whose kid my kid hangs out with) was being busted for
drugs...unknown what type, etc. Sniffer dogs and the whole thing.
Yikes! This is just three houses away from me.
We're all freaked. Don't know what's up with the kiddo (who's 10 years old)
or the parents.
dsn%dave
|
125.1362 | Dealing, or just holding? | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Mar 12 1993 12:51 | 0 |
125.1363 | dunno | NECSC::LEVY | Takes alot to win, even more to lose | Fri Mar 12 1993 14:29 | 8 |
| I don't have details. It was certainly planned, though.
A reporter from the Patriot Ledger was there. The "authorities" had made
arrangements with the local animal shelter to house the family pets before hand.
I doubt that they'd go through all that just for a possession bust.
dsn%dave
|
125.1364 | think i'll just trek up to worcester | BUSY::IRZA | LongDistanceRunner,WhatYouHoldingOutFor? | Mon Mar 15 1993 11:27 | 27 |
|
i saw slipknot at jack's saloon in uxbridge friday night. i won't
be back to that place anytime soon. first off, there didn't seem to
to be too many heads there, just obnoxiuos locals. i met my friends
patrick and jennifer there, and we had a table in the back. jennifer
went to the bathroom and while she was gone this gross druken biker
type chick sits down and starts running off at at the mouth. she kept
pointing at me and saying "i could f*ck you up". i was like "i believe
you". well finally she spills her drink all over our table and leaves.
next during the break we decided to go out for scoobie snacks. we
walked downstairs and out the door, and i noticed "spike", a bartender/
bouncer type dude follows us to the door. well, once i stepped outside
i noticed about 8 people in line trying to get back in, uncertain if
they would. so we run back up to spike, tell him we still have our
coats and stuff inside, end up getting into a big argument with him,
but finally get back inside (snackless nonetheless).
for the second set we went right up front and danced, trying to
forget where we were. this seemed to work (that scarlet was smokin').
well we left after the end of the second set and walked out to
patrick's car to catch up on the snacks, only to find some as*hole
slammed into his car causing major damage. no note, noone around.
major bummer. come to find out though that there were a couple of
witnesses who gave police apartial description of the truck, with
some company lettering on the side of it. they'll be investigating
it today.
^dave
|
125.1365 | I'll let you know about next time.... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Mar 15 1993 14:40 | 9 |
| Sorry to hear that Dave. I guess you won't be all that interested
in finding out when Crystal Ship is playing there? I'd been
considering going Friday night, but ended up making a cheesecake
instead. Oh well. I think Slipknot is due back there in April.
Unless I have other plans, I'll let you know if there's been any
improvement.
PeterT
|
125.1366 | Can I take this whole weekend back? | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Mon Mar 15 1993 15:02 | 11 |
| Yah, I was going to mention that Lynn ????? (not from DEC) saw the car
slamming. Sounds like she's the one who gave the description. When you
were up front you missed the fight back by the bar. Did you notice that
it closed a little early. Last call was immedeately after the fight and
no encore ate 12:45.
Jack's has it's problems and except for the snow most of my weekend
belongs in the bummer note. I guess some people wouldn't have even
enjoyed the snow.
Geoff
|
125.1367 | | SPOCK::IRONS | | Mon Mar 15 1993 16:10 | 5 |
| Yeah, theres some odd, mutant folk up around that Blackstone river
area! I believe it starts around Woonsocket and flows in either
direction. :^)
dave
|
125.1368 | | BUSY::IRZA | LongDistanceRunner,WhatYouHoldingOutFor? | Mon Mar 15 1993 16:38 | 13 |
|
re: -1
ain't it the truth!!! (big smile on my face cuz i know exactly
what you're talking about, living next door to woonsocket ;^)
re: geoff
well make sure you give her a grate big thank you from patrick!
hopefully the police will catch up to this jerk. i'll keep you
posted.
^dave
|
125.1369 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | I got ramblin' on my mind | Tue Mar 16 1993 01:17 | 4 |
| Man, that Jack's Saloon sounds like a totally beat place to go!
Sorry to hear that your friend got hit... that sux.
|
125.1370 | I can't remember my point anymore!!! | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Tue Mar 16 1993 15:39 | 19 |
| > Man, that Jack's Saloon sounds like a totally beat place to go!
But... they do have Bass on tap for a $1.50 a pop! It can't be all
bad! Unfortunately you can have bad experiences anywhere you go.
And sometimes when you don't go anywhere!
This car problem reminds me of a semi-amusing incident that happened
to me. I was dating my friends sister at the time and went with her
to see some movie. It turned out that we sat right behind my
lifeguard buddy and his friend. Well, after the movie we went out
into the parking lot and my girlfriend started to freak out because
someone had put a crowbar through the back window of her VW bug.
But then she realized it wasn't HER bug, so she started laughing from
relief. At which point my lifeguard buddy comes up and wants to
know why she's laughing at the crowbar sticking out of the back of
HIS window!
Somebody is always affected.
PeterT
|
125.1371 | start the day off with a screw-up... it's a real eye opener... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Apr 21 1993 13:33 | 7 |
| doesn't it really bum you out when you show up in the morning and
someone meets you at the front door to let you know that you
made a mistake that has you in a little hot water????
what a drag... looks like another shitty day in paradise...
da ve
|
125.1372 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Wed Apr 21 1993 13:34 | 12 |
| re <<< Note 125.1371 by ROULET::DWEST "if wishes were horses..." >>>
-< start the day off with a screw-up... it's a real eye opener... >-
> doesn't it really bum you out when you show up in the morning and
> someone meets you at the front door to let you know that you
> made a mistake that has you in a little hot water????
care to elaborate mon?
hope things work out for ya mon!!!
|
125.1373 | just stoooopidity... on my part... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Apr 21 1993 13:56 | 7 |
|
a scheduling mix up... i was supposed to run a training session for
third shift last night at 2:30 am... i thought it was tonight...
had the whole third shift production crew waiting on me while i was
home snoozing...
da ve
|
125.1374 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Apr 21 1993 14:26 | 3 |
| don't get me wrong, and i feel for ya dwest, but......
I FIND THAT VERY FUNNY!!!! %^) prob. because a similar thang happened to me
rfb
|
125.1375 | seems like they could have been pro-active... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Wed Apr 21 1993 16:30 | 6 |
| And nobody had your phone number?? I've worked on the night shift and
I was told, 'don't call any one unless the building is on fire!'
But I've also done support duty and the operators seemed to have
particular glee in calling up at 2 or 3 AM.
PeterT
|
125.1376 | always a bright side! | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Be kind: unwind | Wed Apr 21 1993 16:52 | 6 |
|
Look at the bright side, da ve..
At least you distracted all those over-worked folks from having toi do their
jobs for a few minutes. They probably deserved the break...
|
125.1377 | couldn't even get my sweater off... | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Wed Apr 21 1993 17:03 | 6 |
| we will survive... all of us! :^)
just a really crappy way to start the day... caught it from 3 people
between the front door and my office... :^/
da ve
|
125.1378 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Wed Apr 21 1993 17:20 | 26 |
| this reminds me of a story with a similar twist....
I was livin' in NJ at the time with this family who had a business as an
OEM for DEC (I was working there). Anyways, this guy was my college roommate
and we loved to go out and get hammered. well, one this one particular
morning, his parents were due to fly out toe Germany in the early am and
we were responsible for opening up the business (unlocking it for the most
part and turning off the alarm). so, the night before, we go out, and get
VERY drunk... stumble home, and his parents were packing and what not for
their trip. we went outside on the porch and ate something then passed out
on the floor (it was pouring rain outside that night)... around 2-3am, his
parents (still packing) discover us on the porch, totally drunk and passed
out! i helped my friend up to bed and i crashed too... the next morning, his
parents wake us up (gave all sort of talk about being drunks and how our
rooms smelled like booze/beer/bar) and remind us that we have to open up....
....
at 9:00 am, 45 minutes late, we get a call saying there are 60 (!!) people
waiting outside to get in!! my roommate rushes over and opens up... looking
very hung-over........ we caught a bit of hell about that plus his parents
wanted to send us to detox !!
it was funny at the time anyways! :-)
|
125.1379 | Lost dog | TRACTR::MACINTYRE | | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:04 | 46 |
| Shit, I am so tightly wrapped that I actually feel like I'm going to
vomit. My wife is a basket case and my son is bummed big time.
We are currently taking care of my wife's old dog. When we got married
we lived in an apartment and could not take the dog with us. Her
ex-husband and his new family agreed to take Smoker and she's lived
with them for hte past 3 years.
They went away on a vacation and we agreed to dog-sit since we now live
in our own home. The dog is 16 yrs old, slow, frail and deaf. The
first night with us the dog kept my wife up much of the night whining.
The next night we brought the dog upstairs to our room and she was
quiet but had crapped on the floor.
Early this morning, about 3:15am, the dog woke me and I decided to take
her out for a quick pee and whatever. As I was letting her out my cat
distracted me and tried to get out the door. I grabbed the cat and
tossed him back into the house, turned on the outside light and THE DOG
WAS GONE!!!!!
This animal is so old I figured it could be far off. It was dark and
snowing and cold. I was in my bathrobe and sneakers. No other
clothes. After a couple of minutes I went back in, put on pants and a
coat and went back out looking for her. No luck.
I spent an hour walking the area. Then after a quick warm up, I went
out on my bike for another 1/2 hour. Another warm up and my son and I
drove around, still without finding Smoker.
I've called the Nashua Police, the Milford and Merrimack Police as
well. I'll be calling the Nashua Humane Society when they open at
10:00am. I can't think of anything else to do.
My wife has lost three dogs in the past and she is taking this very
hard. I know she blames me and that hurts a lot. I'm so worried that
if Smoker doesn't show up, she'll never forgive me. My son says HE
will not tell the owners what happened. Of course, I said I would if
we can't find Smoker.
What am I going to do? I feel so bad. I LIKE SMOKER and don't want
anything to happen to her.
This sucks so much...
Marv
|
125.1380 | Hang in there... | DRINKS::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:12 | 10 |
| Hi Marv.
I'm sending good vibes your way! I wish you the best of luck finding
her!
Dave
p.s. What area of Nashua do you live in? You may wanna post a note in
the DOGS notesfile (DOGS::CANINE) and definitely the New Hampshire
notesfile, too.
|
125.1381 | More info on Afgan hound | TRACTR::MACINTYRE | | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:23 | 12 |
| North end of Nashua. Fox street, off of broad, between the Dairy Queen
and Berman Realty. I posted in New Hampshire conference.
Anyone in my general area are urged to call family and friends and ask
them to be on the lookout.
Home is 598-8527, office is dtn 264-2963.
Thanks Dave and to all,
Marv
|
125.1382 | | LJOHUB::RILEY | It missed me and hit the SLASH-Mon! | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:25 | 6 |
|
Hey Marv,
Hang in there, more good vibes are on there way... :^)
Tree
|
125.1383 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Be kind: unwind | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:43 | 2 |
|
Beams to you marv...
|
125.1384 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Tue Apr 27 1993 13:47 | 4 |
|
Hang in there Marv..
|
125.1385 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Apr 27 1993 14:41 | 7 |
|
My vibes are with you and Smoker Marv! Check quiet, private alcove type
places like underneath porches ... she has probably hid herself and stayed
put for hours.
|
125.1386 | positive vibes coming your way | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Tue Apr 27 1993 14:44 | 8 |
|
Lots of positive vibes coming your way Marv. I know the pain of
looking for a lost animal. Keep the faith and hopefully everything
will work out.
Ohhhhhhmmmmm,
Mark
|
125.1387 | | TRACTR::MACINTYRE | | Tue Apr 27 1993 14:54 | 14 |
| Thanks you guys. Nothing's turned up yet. I'm scared.
Lisa, good points. I have a lunch meeting with the Big Boss from
Maynard and after that I'm going to try to split and do a thorough
"house-to-house".
Come on Smoker! Come home.
Marv
P.S.
I'm also going to head to Smokers real home and see if she's tried to
make it back there.
|
125.1388 | | SALES::GKELLER | Keep passing the open windows | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:17 | 9 |
| > P.S.
> I'm also going to head to Smokers real home and see if she's tried to
> make it back there.
This is probably where you'll find him.
Geoff
|
125.1389 | | SALEM::BURNS | how's 'bout a war on violence! | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:31 | 3 |
| My fingers are crossed for ya Marv. Hope ole Smoker turns up for ya.
Andy
|
125.1390 | Smoker returns | TRACTR::MACINTYRE | | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:41 | 16 |
| I am so happy to tell you all that Smoker has been found.
She was spotted about 5 miles away near the Merrimack River in east
Nashua. A man saw her laying on a lawn down the street and called the
Police. The cops called my home and then the man called my wife. She
had to lift Smoker into the car. Smoker is shivering and very stiff
but is fine otherwise.
My marriage is saved. My stomach is settling down. My fatigue is
beginning to overtake me (up since 3:15am and tense the whole time).
My deepest thanks to everyone who sent vibes and good wishes and
suggestions. I am in your collective debt.
Marv
|
125.1391 | whew! | VXTST6::BOURDESS | | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:49 | 5 |
| congratulations; glad to hear smoker's OK and you're no longer a
nervous wreck.
Mike
|
125.1392 | :^) | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:51 | 6 |
| cool! i like happy endings...
strange coincidence... just last night a friend was telling me how she
had searched all day for a cat... never found the kitty though... :^(
da ve
|
125.1393 | | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | GUMBO!!! | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:57 | 3 |
| good to hear that everything turned out ok
- rich
|
125.1394 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Have YOU changed your logo lately??? | Tue Apr 27 1993 15:59 | 8 |
|
Glad to hear Smoker's okay!
When I was a kid we had a cat that would 'disappear' for ~3 months at a time
every spring and come back in the summer. We never knew where or how far
she went, but she always came back...
- jeff
|
125.1395 | | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Tue Apr 27 1993 16:03 | 6 |
|
Grate News Marv,
Glad it all turned out ok.
Peace,
Mark
|
125.1396 | warming vibes to Smoker ! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Tue Apr 27 1993 17:14 | 4 |
| great news !!! so do you think it will be a movie of the week soon ?
:')
Chris
|
125.1397 | (big sigh of relief!) | DRINKS::WEISS | Beer -- It does a body good. | Tue Apr 27 1993 17:33 | 8 |
| GRATE, Marv!
I was very nervous that this was gonna have an unhappy ending! I'm
very glad for Smoker (and you) that it didn't!
Good vibes are a good thing!!! :-)
Dave
|
125.1398 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Tue Apr 27 1993 17:43 | 12 |
| re <<< Note 125.1390 by TRACTR::MACINTYRE >>>
-< Smoker returns >-
> My marriage is saved. My stomach is settling down. My fatigue is
> beginning to overtake me (up since 3:15am and tense the whole time).
sounds like you need some oatbran muffins with a couple of brews mon! :-)
yikes, major stress for ya!
glad everything turnout cool mon!
|
125.1399 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Apr 27 1993 17:44 | 3 |
|
Phew! I feel much better so I know you must Marv. Good news!
|
125.1400 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Tue Apr 27 1993 18:02 | 6 |
|
Great news!
:-)
|
125.1401 | Smoker Returns | TRETOP::SAMILJAN | | Tue Apr 27 1993 19:03 | 16 |
| Gee, I had a good feeling about the whole Smoker Affair from the
beginning. But, being a pet owner, I know how unnerving it is when
they disappear.
Our deaf cat got out on one occasion when my wife and I were living in
the Hollywood Hills. There were often hungry coyotes coming down into
the residential areas, so were concerned. (Deaf cats don't come when
you call them.) We told our dog to "go find the kitty" and I'll be
damned if he didn't run up the street two houses and into the garage
where the cat was hiding under a car. Took him all of 30 seconds.
True story.
Anyway, I'm relieved to hear about the happy ending to Smoker's Big
Adventure.
Bud
|
125.1402 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Apr 27 1993 19:12 | 6 |
| happy ending before I could send vibes! %^)
having raised basset hounds and owning Arti the Assh*le now, i can
relate....
rfb (get a german shepard, they come home!)
|
125.1403 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue Apr 27 1993 19:44 | 4 |
|
Not quite on the same vein but my dog used to find the gerbils when they
routinely escaped. This pleased my mother to no end. :-)
|
125.1404 | | EBBV03::SMITH | The sun is getting high | Tue Apr 27 1993 19:56 | 6 |
|
whew!
I was glad to log in and see that good news!
I like that name "Smoker" heh heh
|
125.1405 | | MISERY::VASQUEZ_JE | | Tue Apr 27 1993 22:21 | 7 |
| >>Not quite on the same vein but my dog used to find the gerbils when they
>>routinely escaped. This pleased my mother to no end. :-)
Our cat was in charge of finding the hamsters when they got out. Of
course, his idea of retreiving them varied a bit from ours. :-) As a
matter of fact, I am convinced that the cat had learned how to open the
hamster house whenever he needed some exercise.
|
125.1406 | i have to endure another summer of this.... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Tue Apr 27 1993 23:35 | 11 |
| I'm all excited to go to the Rat this Friday to see my favorite Boston
band, Mystery Jones. Then I call and find out the show is 21+ !!!!!!!!
AAAAARRRGGHHH!!!! This is sickening....I don't even care about drinking,
I just get upset that I can't get into any shows because I'm not 21...
and worse yet, I won't be 21 until October 25....that's 6 months away! 8(
I'm Mega bummed...:( I was all excited to go....this happens to me all
the time.....I'm going to have to get some form of identification
soon...
:(, danielle
|
125.1407 | I remember saying that,, a LOOOOOOng time ago | VOYAGR::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Tue Apr 27 1993 23:44 | 5 |
| If it's any help I'm pretty sure slip-into-summer is all ages and
that's only 1 month away.
It may be a long month, but that's just me
Geoff
|
125.1408 | Can't wait to see slipknot! | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Tue Apr 27 1993 23:49 | 10 |
| That's cool...Most of the slip shows have been 21+ this winter....i
can't wait to see you guys!
There are some clubs I can get into, but I have to pay $8-$10 to get in
because I'm under 21 and they won't make any money off me from drinks...
whereas my 21+ friends get in free...
Bummer bummer...
:), danielle
|
125.1409 | the 21 year old drinking age is stupid | ROCK::ROCK::FROMM | GUMBO!!! | Wed Apr 28 1993 03:14 | 8 |
| >I'm going to have to get some form of identification
> soon...
not that i would ever advocate breaking any laws, but it's amazing what a
macintosh, a camera, and a little investment of time will do for gaining
entry into bars
- rich
|
125.1410 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | and we'd go Running On Faith | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:08 | 7 |
| I remember when the state of Massashottis raised the age to drink from
18 to 21.....I was 3 months and 16 day away from 18.....well RI was
anoly a 30 minute drive :') fridays in school was get the list and
money day for the weekend parties, take the old mans micro-bus, fill it
up and bring it back ! white-lightin' runners :')
Chris
|
125.1411 | may your cup be full... | SALEM::MARKIEWICZ | enfant de l'Univers | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:29 | 11 |
| Marv,
I just logged into notes after several days absence. Was very glad
your fright had a happy ending. Be good to yourself today. That
was a tremendous range of emotions you went through yesterday.
Danielle,
I hope something happy happens to you to make up for your loss.
Rose
|
125.1412 | memories | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:38 | 4 |
| I remember when the drinking age was lower also.... i was on the "find a
location for senior High school skip day committee" and MA was 21 by this
time. VT was still 18, but, too far to go. CT was 19, and we had i think
1 guy in our class who was 19, so we went there... Thompson CT.
|
125.1413 | | GNPIKE::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:43 | 8 |
| The drinking age was 18 when I started college at 17 yrs.
So after a couple of months I was legal. But then when I was
19 yrs old, the drinking age was raised to 20! So I was legal
then illegal! That was tough, until I found an id which
coincidentally I could use till I turned 20 - I could pass
for the picture.
Ken
|
125.1414 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:47 | 4 |
| A popular thing to do to get an ID in my day was to take you older brother's
stuff (birth cert, ss card, etc) and go to the registry and say you lost your
license. bars were not concerned w/ duplicate licenses then, nor was society
as litigious at today, and this made it easier to get 'in'.
|
125.1415 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:51 | 5 |
|
Sounds like I had it easy. Not only was the drinking age 18 when I was
young, but NY didn't have picture licenses.
|
125.1416 | I remember them raisein' it too | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:51 | 10 |
|
I also remember when they raised the drinking age from 21 to 18 and
then back up to 21. I was 20 years 9 months when the age was raised
back up. I was illegal for 3 months again. I had a tab down at the
local packie and he told me to wait til I was legal again.
Weird, old enough to vote, get married, fight and die for your country
yet too young to be trusted with a beer.
Mark
|
125.1417 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed Apr 28 1993 13:59 | 3 |
| i rememebr when the drinkin age was 10........
rfb
|
125.1418 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:01 | 7 |
|
yea, in NY it was 18 (till I turned 17 I think) but there were no pictures
on liscences so I just gave my friend Sue, who was also 5'1" with blue eyes,
money to get me a duplicate liscence. She hit all the grandfather clauses
when the drinking age went from 18 -> 19 -> 21 so coincidentally so did I. ;^)
|
125.1419 | | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:10 | 7 |
| My cousin is 22 and she was going to let me borrow her I.D....she was
supposed to send it out a month ago and hasn't done it yet... but like I
said I could care less if I drink I just hate being turned away from shows
because I'm not an 'adult'...I don't have any older sisters either.
But I do have 3 younger sisters.....they will be all set...;"))...
:), danielle
|
125.1420 | yeah...that's the ticket! | BUSY::IRZA | its a plaid, plaid, plaid, plaid weekend | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:18 | 5 |
|
well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
walk uphill to AND from the bar....
^dave
|
125.1421 | 8^) | BUSY::IRZA | its a plaid, plaid, plaid, plaid weekend | Wed Apr 28 1993 14:32 | 8 |
|
FWIW...the loompanics catalogue has a whole section of books
about false id's. this catalogue should be on everyone's coffee
table...never saw such a collection of strange, exotic, bizzare
books in my life...definitely worth the $5. investment...thanx
to whoever it was who posted the ordering info a few months back!
^dave
|
125.1422 | Hurry up & take your time :-) | SALEM::MARTIN_S | Hit me with your rhythm stick... | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:12 | 16 |
|
Call me prude, dude, but messing with fake ID's, borrowing ID's, et al,
isn't worth the risk. Some places will just confiscate them, but others
will call the 5-O's. Believe me, getting arrested *SUCKS* no matter
what they bust you for. Just wait it out...time flies (really),
especially if you don't count the months, days...
re: Getting in to see the band
If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
assistant. It works most of the time.
Steve-O
|
125.1423 | What I might do.... | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:16 | 12 |
| >> If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
>> They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
>> assistant. It works most of the time.
Well, I know the singer pretty well (or so I think). I was thinking of
doing this, but I think that they get there early to set up, then come
back right before they go on...but I'm not sure. They need someone to
sell tapes and shirts for them, so I was thinking of going in with that
excuse...maybe it'll work...
:), d
|
125.1424 | | LANDO::HAPGOOD | | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:30 | 12 |
| >> If you know somebody in the band, you might be able to get in early.
>> They can say you're a "roadie," photo/video-person, or sound/light
>> assistant. It works most of the time.
I know a couple bands that can't play the Whitehorse any more because
of that (well maybe not that but what happened after they are in and are
having some drinks and not acting responsible ... not to even remotely
imply that anyone in this conversation would do that).
bob
|
125.1425 | I know this story too! | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:30 | 6 |
|
> well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
> walk uphill to AND from the bar....
:-) yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!
|
125.1426 | sob sob | VXTST6::BOURDESS | | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:36 | 6 |
| >> well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
>> walk uphill to AND from the bar....
>
> :-) yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!
and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the bar :-(
|
125.1427 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:37 | 11 |
|
>>> well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we had to
>>> walk uphill to AND from the bar....
>>
>> :-) yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our eyelashes!
> and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the bar :-(
HA! ;^) My mom used this one too - which carried absolutely NO
weight considering her father was a shoe maker!
|
125.1428 | | BINKLY::CEPARSKI | Sittin' plush with a Royal Flush | Wed Apr 28 1993 15:55 | 13 |
| >> well i remember back when there was no drinking age...and we
had to
>>> walk uphill to AND from the bar....
>>
>> :-) yeah, and it was so cold that icecyles formed on our
eyelashes!
> and of course back then we couldn't afford shoes to wear to the
bar :-(
But we were glad to have it!! ;^) -jeff
|
125.1429 | weird laws | QUIVER::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Wed Apr 28 1993 16:48 | 8 |
| I turned 19 when the drinking age in NY was still 19. I was legal as of Oct.
14. Then, on Nov. 1, NY raised the drinking age to 21, with no grandfather
clause. I had to wait another year and 11 months to drink again!
Then again, when I was home in CT, there was a liquor store that served me
anyway. Of course, I'd have to get there before 8 pm! :-(
adam
|
125.1430 | talk about STUPID laws... | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Have YOU changed your logo lately??? | Wed Apr 28 1993 21:38 | 12 |
| re -< weird laws >-
Hozabout that wonderful rule at the Garden where if you have an out-of-state
license, they won't sell you a beer unless it says you're 25!!! What kind
of rule is that?!?!
...so now I hafta turn in my perfectly good NY license and stand in line for
3 hours and blow $80 to get a $%#&* MA license in order to drink a beer at a
B's game??? Nuh, uh! Not this cowboy! No siree!
- jeff_who_gets_his_girlfriend_to_buy_the_beer_instead_8-)
|
125.1431 | | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | GUMBO!!! | Wed Apr 28 1993 21:57 | 15 |
| >Hozabout that wonderful rule at the Garden where if you have an out-of-state
>license, they won't sell you a beer unless it says you're 25!!! What kind
>of rule is that?!?!
i'd rather drink nothing than blow $5 on a cup of the piss-water that they
call beer
but the rule is stupid anyway
at Great Woods they won't serve you if you have a license that was valid before
you were 21; i.e. if you got your license renewed when you were 20 and it's
good for 4 years, they won't serve you until you get a new one at 24; they
might just be this anal for out-of-state licenses
- rich
|
125.1432 | 8) | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Thu Apr 29 1993 02:13 | 6 |
| >> i'd rather drink nothing than blow $5 on a cup of the piss-water that
>> they call beer
hahahaha...
:), d
|
125.1433 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Thu Apr 29 1993 13:23 | 11 |
| Well folks, YOU CAN'T BLAME THE BARS/LIQUOR STORES FOR THE PARANOIA...
Blame the people who provoked them, mainly, lawyers and all the people who
like to sue others for everything and anything they can get whenever there
is a chance to get some money outta someone.....
btw jeff, MA license doesn't cost $80... actually, after July 1, Gov Weld
lowers the rates... not sure what it'll be though....
|
125.1434 | | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Thu Apr 29 1993 13:25 | 21 |
| I was a senior in H.S. back in 1974 when I turned 18. The drinking age
in NH at that time was 18. It was a weird situation in that I could
legally go to a bar, have some drinks and then have to get up the next
morning and go to highschool. I don't think it was a very good idea
having the drinking age that low.
I wasn't an overachiever in H.S. and I think *some* of that had to do
with the fact that I could booze it up.
My little (younger) brother was caught in the "Legal then not legal
drinking age" change when he was 18. After drinking legally for about
6 months he had to stop and wait for another 2-plus years to do it
again.
Maybe now that I'm an old fart I'm a little more conservative on this
but I think 21 is as good an age as any and better than 18.
Just MHO,
Marv
|
125.1435 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Thu Apr 29 1993 13:37 | 34 |
| re <<< Note 125.1434 by XCUSME::MACINTYRE >>>
IMO, not attacking you marv, just commenting...
> morning and go to highschool. I don't think it was a very good idea
> having the drinking age that low.
during my H.S. years, it was always 21. BUT, that did not stop us from
getting whatever we needed whenever we needed it. we had a network of
guys we could call to make packy runs for us. the drinking age thing presented
nearly ZERO resistance.
> Maybe now that I'm an old fart I'm a little more conservative on this
> but I think 21 is as good an age as any and better than 18.
i think it has to do primarily with the way alcohol is treated in this
country. my old man used to let me and my friends have a couple around the
house when i was younger... it was no big deal, i sort of grew up with it.
but, i saw some folks who hit college, had their first drinks, and ended
up flunking out later on. it starts in the home, really. education on
alcohol is important, and should be taught by those who have experience...
alcohol can be used responsibly.
when i was in austria, you'd often see young kids having a beer. these kids
didn't slam back 10 beers, they'd just have one or two. same with the young
kids i saw in ireland. same in germany. same in the netherlands. it is
a social thing there, where as kids in the USA today are taught that alcohol
is taboo.
about the ID thing people have been talking about: never once have i been
or have i seen anyone asked for proof of age while travelling in europe.
definitely a USA kinda thing.
|
125.1436 | Things could be worse, I guess.... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Thu Apr 29 1993 16:37 | 13 |
| This leaves me with a couple of impressions...
First of all, I always feel grateful to anyone nice enough to card me. I've
been known to frequent places more often because they will. Mid-life crisis,
I guess...;-)
The other thing - a friend of mine from long ago (high school) became a high
school teacher when he got his B.S. At the time, in New Jersey, the drinking
age was 18. He found it more than a little awkward going to a bar on a friday
night only to find his waitress was one of his students....I guess that's the
other side of Marv's coin, eh?
tim
|
125.1437 | | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | GUMBO!!! | Thu Apr 29 1993 17:20 | 8 |
| >At the time, in New Jersey, the drinking
>age was 18. He found it more than a little awkward going to a bar on a friday
>night only to find his waitress was one of his students....
that could still happen; you can serve alcohol if you're 18 - you just can't
drink it
/r
|
125.1438 | few places card me anymore, sigh.... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Apr 30 1993 14:57 | 15 |
| When I turned 18 back in '73 the drinking age was still 18, but I
wasn't interested in alcohol at the time. I had some other vices
which appealed to me more ;-) I think it was about towards the
end of my freshman year that I had my first drink, and it still wasn't
all that thrilling. I eventually found beer ;-) and settled into my
niche. I've still got all the hard liquor we bought for the guests
that was left over from our wedding coming up on 10 years next
month. I did open up some vodka recently to try to soak the flavor
out of a vanilla bean when I was making choclate chip cookies and
ran out of vanilla extract. I guess I could have used some of the
kahlua we made a few years back too. Hmmm, now that would probably
make some interesting cookies ;-)
PeterT
|
125.1439 | bummer w/question | CSLALL::BRIDGES | Anods asGood asA wink toA blindBat | Tue May 18 1993 13:22 | 22 |
|
A bummer and a question.
First the story. Last night we witnessed for the second time one of our
cats have a siezure. The first time it happened (that we witnessed) was
in the middle of the night, Our son woke my wife and I up screaming at the
cat to "Stop it!". When we went in his room the cat was spazing out, foaming
at mouth and his bladder let loose. We called Angel (?) memorial in Boston.
They explained that it was epelipse (sp?) and that if he was ok wait till
morning and call our vet.
Well, this occurred again last night at 3:00 am. And who knows how many
other times. We have found other areas he likes to sleep that smell of urine.
My wife is bring him to the vet today to discuss options.
My question is to pet owners, in particular pet owners who have had pets die
when they have had young children attached to said pet.
"How did you (or would you) explain to a young child the death of a pet?"
Shawn
|
125.1440 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Tue May 18 1993 13:55 | 17 |
|
Wow Shawn ... death is never easy, young or old and I think that of a pet is
especially tough because the pet can't tell you how they feel. However, it is
important not to lie to or mislead children. As his parents your son will trust
and believe anything you and your wife tell him - and you may be suprised to
hear what he remembers 20 years from now.
If I were you I'd be as gentle as I could while I said that the cat was sick
and is now in Heaven with God (or whatever your personal religious beliefs
dictate) where he/she feels much better and is enjoying herself/himself.
At some point in our lives we are all exposed to death and must learn to accept
it. That is a long process, takes some of us a lifetime and we don't get it -
but the best thing you can do for your son is give him a realistic, valid
base to start with so that he won't have to deprogram himself years from now.
Lisa
|
125.1441 | like she said... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue May 18 1993 14:12 | 4 |
| ...and a lot of hugs...
tim
|
125.1442 | many concerns | CSLALL::BRIDGES | Anods asGood asA wink toA blindBat | Tue May 18 1993 14:20 | 37 |
| >> <<< Note 125.1440 by MRNGDU::YETTO "the future is here" >>>
>>Wow Shawn ... death is never easy, young or old and I think that of a pet is
>>especially tough because the pet can't tell you how they feel. However, it is
>>important not to lie to or mislead children. As his parents your son will trust
>>and believe anything you and your wife tell him - and you may be suprised to
>>hear what he remembers 20 years from now.
I wouldn't be suprised at all. At 3 1/2 yrs. his memory is already sharp as
a tack. He brings thing up from over a year ago.
I'm really hoping my wife comes back from the vet with some optomistic news.
But the last time we talk with the vet about medication he said the cat
would not have much of a life.
>>If I were you I'd be as gentle as I could while I said that the cat was sick
>>and is now in Heaven with God (or whatever your personal religious beliefs
>>dictate) where he/she feels much better and is enjoying herself/himself.
I really don't want to put the cat down because of this. Yesterday my son
saw a commercial for the show "Highway to Heaven". He then asked me
"What's heaven?" I ignored him for a while (not the right thing to do, but
I didn't want to try to explain my beliefs till he's a little older.).
When he persisted (which he always does. 8-) I told him.. "It's where you go
when you die if your good." He then said "Well I'm Bad." I asked "Why?"
he replied "I don't want to die." so I explained that you don't die if your
good... etc. He misunderstood what i said. NEways since he is a little
confused right now about death I fear that if I put the cat down and tell
him it was because the cat was sick, my son might equate "sick" to dying.
Shawn
ps. thanks for the support, Lisa.
|
125.1443 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Be kind: unwind | Tue May 18 1993 15:30 | 19 |
|
Here's my take. I do not have experience with kids this age however.
I believe its o.k. to tell kids this age about heaven and hell, the devil
and angels, and God, regardeless of your own religion/philosophy. Our
culture is too proliferated with these symbols anyway, so every time he see's
a reference, it creates an uncomfortable situation. Same deal with Santa
Claus, etc.
Do it, however, with the understanding that when the child is old enough to
grasp more abstract concepts, then you tell him/her that devil's don't
really exist; they are only stories made up for little children to explain
life and death in simpler terms. Older children will understand this. Not
only will your child be less confused in the long run, but he/she will feel
more mature when the understanding comes. Perhaps mature enough even to
understand the logic behind the lie. The child must definitely learn that
the parent is fallable and human too...
Does that help?
|
125.1444 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue May 18 1993 17:53 | 11 |
| My kids are 13 and 16 now, but we've had oddles of pets die throughout
the times our family has been together...that's cause we've had oddles
of pets. Death is inevatable <--(sp), the best thing to do if the cat
has to go is get another one real quick. Replace the pain with anew
love. We have a german shep that gettin old, maybe one more year. I do
not believe in letting animals suffer, even if i do stick to the theory
"it's just a -----" (insert dog, cat, mouse etc.) which just helps me
cope. Death IS a part of life...that concept eventually must be taught
to kids, at whawt age dependss on the kid....IMO anyway.
rfb
|
125.1445 | GOOD NEWS | CSLALL::BRIDGES | Anods asGood asA wink toA blindBat | Wed May 19 1993 12:44 | 25 |
| Well some good news.
When the vet called with the results of the blood tests he gave Max (the cat)
a clean bill of health. He then spent twenty minutes on the phone with my wife.
He said that cats feel no pain and suffer no ill-effects from the siezures.
It's alot more painful for the person viewing it. After seeing two of them
I can say it is VERY horrible to watch, and I find it hard to believe that
cat can't feel anything. But I not a vet(and i don't play one on tv 8-).
The vet gave us a choice 1. is to do nothing except chart the siezure the
best we can, and if we see one LEAVE THE CAT ALONE. Let it run it's course
and time it, as long as it's short (no more than five minutes) he'll be ok.
Also make sure there is nothing near the cat that he could knock over onto
himself. The best thing would be to confine him at night and look for signs
(puddle of urine) in the morning.
The second choice is to put him on medication. The downside of that is Max
must have it at the same time of day every day of his life, which could be
another ten years 8-). The vet thinks that unless Max was has five siezures
a day there really is no need for medication.
NEways it turned out to be good news in the end.
Shawn
|
125.1446 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Wed May 19 1993 13:02 | 4 |
| jeez, as long as it doesn't hurt Max, I'd think you'd have a most
excellent party trick to show people...%^)
rfb
|
125.1447 | | NRSTA2::CLARK | Electric Music for the Mind and Body | Wed May 19 1993 13:14 | 4 |
| Shawn, did the vet say what causes the seizures? Maybe a poisonous plant,
or something?
- dc
|
125.1448 | They really don't know | CSLALL::BRIDGES | Anods asGood asA wink toA blindBat | Wed May 19 1993 13:33 | 25 |
| RE: <<< Note 125.1447 by NRSTA2::CLARK "Electric Music for the Mind and Body" >>>
>>Shawn, did the vet say what causes the seizures? Maybe a poisonous plant,
>>or something?
They really don't know. He said with dog's it's usually from alot of
excitement through out the day, ie; a party with alot of people, then
when they sleep they dream about it and have a siezure, but where cat
have a BFD attitude about everything it's not that. What I can't believe is
that no brain damage or pain occurs. It really is a traumatic thing to see.
When I was in grade school I saw a classmate have an epileptic siezure.
That doesn't compare IMO to the cat's.
My other cat Tigger (with 2 g's) doesn't know what to make of it. If
a cat can look concerned, Tigger does.
RE: rfb
AS warp as ever 8-), I've sure missed read your notes for the past year
or so.
Shawn
|
125.1449 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed May 19 1993 14:24 | 4 |
|
phew Shawn! Thanks for the update. I'm happy for Max, and the rest of the
family!!!
|
125.1450 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Roll Like a Canteloupe, Out of Your Bowl! | Wed May 19 1993 16:46 | 31 |
| > What I can't believe is that no brain damage or pain occurs. It really is
> a traumatic thing to see.
With human epilepsy, a person can sallow her/his tongue and choke, causing
dain bramage or death in rare instances. Human epileptics can also injure
themselves falling (when the seizure starts) or thrashing about banging
their heads into the floor, objects, etc. That's why if you see someone
have a seizure, its good to hold/protect their head and make sure they are
breathing. Just don't stick your fingers in the person's mouth (they might
bite).
I don't know if the same things can happen to cats, but the vet should know.
re: lying to kids about pet deaths
My parents lied to me two times when two pets died when I was young. They
said that the pets just ran away. For years I waited for them to come back,
expecting that eventually some day they would. MANY years later, the topic
came up in conversation and I found out the truth. It pissed me off that
they lied to me like that, assuming that my young tender mind couldn't
handle it. Sheesh, I'd been killing things (ants, worms, etc.) for years!
It's better for a child to experience the pain of the loss of a loved
one/pet/etc., than to be put (unknowningly, to find out later) through
denial. Teaching one's children to deny traumatic events, either by example
or directly, rather than to face their pain and get-over it is very wrong,
imo.
- jeff
|
125.1451 | watch for cause and effect | CAADC::BABCOCK | | Fri May 21 1993 16:40 | 20 |
| Hi,
I had a dog that had seizures (?). He was a big poodle (maybe 85 lb.).
We kept him at our farm for about a year while his people were having
housing problems. My biggest fear was that he would have a seizure
while among the goat, who do NOT like dogs at all. Well, one day it
happened. he collapsed with the herd around him. They all stood there
looking at him for a minute and then roamed off. It was as if they
understood that he was harmless in that state, and did not require any
defensive action.
NOTE: I did find a strong correlation between his seisures and hunger.
If he go really hungry, like with a lot of exercise and excitement, and
missed a meal, he would have problems. If I fed him several small
meals a day, so he never really got hungry, he would go for months
without a seisure. Your cat's case may be entirely different, but it
is ssomething worth observing.
Judy
|
125.1452 | end of a chapter... | SALEM::MARKIEWICZ | enfant de l'Univers | Mon May 24 1993 15:54 | 6 |
| Well, Digital in its infinite wisdom has decided to give me the summer
off ( and the rest of my life too). I put this in the bummer note
because losing the ability to enjoy this notesfile is the worst part.
I've sensed for awhile that this was coming. I'm going to take this as
an opportunity to investigate new directions for my life. I'll be
around for a few more days so I won't say good bye yet.
|
125.1453 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Mon May 24 1993 17:03 | 6 |
|
:-( We'll miss you in here, Rose. Good luck on your new path.
peace,
Phyllis
|
125.1454 | Truly a Bummer | XCUSME::MACINTYRE | | Mon May 24 1993 17:28 | 6 |
| The "Bummer Note" is exactly where this belongs. Sorry to hear this.
Other friends here in MKO are being notified today also. Good luck
Rose.
Marv
|
125.1455 | | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Mon May 24 1993 17:32 | 6 |
| Hey Rose,
THis is a big bummer. Sorry to hear the news and hope you find
something good to do in the future. Keep the faith and positive vibes
coming your way.
Mark
|
125.1456 | | NRSTA2::CLARK | Electric Music for the Mind and Body | Mon May 24 1993 17:57 | 1 |
| :^(
|
125.1457 | ouch :^( | SALEM::BURNS | how's 'bout a war on violence! | Tue May 25 1993 10:33 | 8 |
| Oh nooo! I'll miss your smiling face here. You've always made me
happier with your peaceful, caring attitude. Stopping and chatting
with you every now and again left me with a good feeling that there
are indeed people like you in this world :^)
peace, and good luck,
Andy
|
125.1458 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Tue May 25 1993 13:16 | 2 |
| Best wishes Rose!
jc
|
125.1459 | | STUDIO::IDE | Can't this wait 'til I'm old? | Fri May 28 1993 14:42 | 19 |
| Here comes another holiday which has been corrupted into a three day
weekend. How long before all of our holidays lose their meaning? I'm
especially ticked off this year because New Hampshire has given in and
made Memorial Day fall on a Monday instead of celebrating it on its
traditional day (May 30). That leaves Vermont as the only state which
puts any stock in this tradition.
That also leaves Independence Day and Christmas (Religion Appreciation
Day or somesuch if you live in Cambridge) as the only federal holidays
celebrated on their traditional days.
I like a three day weekend as much as anyone, but these holidays lose
much of their meaning, and we lose a bit of our heritage, when we move
them around to suit our schedules.
Jamie
PS - You older GRATEFUL noters can feel free to bemoan the loss of
Armistice Day. :-)
|
125.1460 | | MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CR | a blinding flash o'the obvious | Fri May 28 1993 15:10 | 10 |
| RE: .1459
Armistice day you say!?!?!??!! Sllllowly I turn, step by step ....
Jamie - what about the real arbor day? what about the real
thanksgiving day? what about the real Ode To Batman day?
let's keep our priorities straight :-)
|
125.1461 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri May 28 1993 15:45 | 3 |
| take a 4 day weekend!!!!
rfb goin fishin
|
125.1462 | :) | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Ripple in still water... | Fri May 28 1993 16:19 | 5 |
| I kinda like the long weekend.....and specific days are irrelevent to
me. Whether Memorial Day is on a Monday or on May 30th I'll still
memorialize the same....<
:), danielle
|
125.1463 | | VXTST6::BOURDESS | | Fri May 28 1993 19:08 | 4 |
| > me. Whether Memorial Day is on a Monday or on May 30th I'll still
> memorialize the same....<
Here Here !!!
|
125.1464 | ;^) | VOYAGR::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Fri May 28 1993 19:55 | 5 |
| Re; Here Here!!!
Not me! I'm going home!
|
125.1465 | bye now | CAADC::BABCOCK | | Tue Jun 01 1993 16:35 | 6 |
| Well gang, I just got TFSOed. I has been grate noting with you all.
I am not sure what I will do next, but I am sure it will be
interesting. Best of luck to all of you.
Blessed Be
Judy
|
125.1466 | | 33593::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Tue Jun 01 1993 17:26 | 7 |
|
:-( Sorry to hear that Judy. :-(
Good luck wherever life leads you.
peace,
Phyllis
|
125.1467 | | ROULET::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Jun 01 1993 18:41 | 3 |
| best wishes in life beyond DEC!
da ve
|
125.1468 | fare thee well... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Tue Jun 01 1993 20:11 | 6 |
| Yikes! It's starting again. I got a call from a head-hunter this
afternoon looking for bodies to place. I guess they're useful, but
I don't like the tactics. Good luck Judy!
PeterT
|
125.1469 | | MRNGDU::YETTO | the future is here | Wed Jun 02 1993 13:55 | 5 |
|
good luck Judy, and enjoy your life after DEC ... it exists if you'll let it!!
|
125.1470 | you know your a parent when.... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Wed Jun 02 1993 20:27 | 12 |
| Just got a call from my wife that she had a small car accident.
It seems that while driving into the garage, she got distracted by my
daughter, and ended up impaling the car on one of the handles of
the wheelbarrow! And now she can't get it out. Well, hopefully it's
just the bumper (as she said) and it hasn't gone through and
impaled the radiator as well.
Hannah (daughter) said it was all her (Amy's) fault ;-)
Somebody suggested I get a picture of this, as it isn't an everyday
occurence...
PeterT
|
125.1471 | | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Thu Jun 03 1993 12:36 | 4 |
| sorry to her you're leave Judy! This seems to be hitting the file agin.
Good luck with your future!!!
Geoff
|
125.1472 | yet another round :^( | SALEM::BURNS | how's 'bout a war on violence! | Thu Jun 03 1993 13:41 | 3 |
| Good luck with whatever comes your way Judy.
peace,Andy
|
125.1473 | :^( | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Thu Jun 03 1993 13:47 | 6 |
|
Sorry to hear the news Judy. Hopefully something grate will come your
way. keep the faith
Mark
|
125.1474 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Jun 03 1993 14:32 | 4 |
| wanna second, third, and fourth all the good luck wishes in here for
you Judy...keep da faith
rfb
|
125.1475 | | CX3PST::BSS::DSMITH | | Fri Jun 04 1993 17:48 | 7 |
|
Good,good,good luck Judy!
Things will be better in your new life!
Divide Dave
|
125.1476 | :-( | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Live together, Play together | Fri Jun 11 1993 13:01 | 16 |
|
I thought I enetered this a few days ago, but probs reminded me that I
hadn't.
Rachel broke her lower fibula while taking a bad step off the kitchen porch
last friday. To top it all off, I had gum surgery Monday and my back is out
after having to move about four tons of stuff last weekend. Funny thing is,
My back was fine until yesterday when I picked up just one thing the wrong
way. Just goes to show...
The big bummer is having to cancel a camping trip we've been planing for
two months; our first trip this season. Having to punt on doing EICON
training in Montreal next week and missing Giants wasn't so bad in
comparaison.
Many thanks to da ve in particular for helping us out this weekend...
|
125.1477 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Jun 11 1993 13:43 | 2 |
| keep da faith fog.....hope both ya'll are back in the pink soon
rfb
|
125.1478 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Fri Jun 11 1993 14:30 | 5 |
|
lots of {{{beams}}} to the fogs! Hope Charlie's taken good care of you
two. :-)
|
125.1479 | ohhhhmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!! | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Fri Jun 11 1993 15:10 | 5 |
| hey fog,
I sending some good vibes your way also. Tell Rachel I said hello.
Mark
|
125.1480 | Be careful out there!!! | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Jun 11 1993 15:23 | 24 |
| Hope you feel better soon Fog. I know how that back situation can go.
Sometimes I wonder if doing a lot of heavy work pre-dispositions you
for for the "How the hell could I hurt my back lifting that book?!"
type accident. But, I'm not a doctor and I don't play one on TV.
Saw a nasty looking accident this morning. Coming off the Rte offramp onto
495 northbound, one small red sedan was flipped over onto it's roof, a
delivery van had the drivers side (fortunately behind the driver)
crumpled in. A few other cars might have been involved but those were
the worst. This must have happened just minutes before I got there.
No real backup on the road, no cops yet, and one woman looking into the
window of over-turned car to check on the person or persons inside.
It occured to me to stop and help out, but there were already about 10
or more cars pulled over and I think I would have just added to the
inevitble tie-up and confusion. I did think about flagging down a cop
as I continued on, but didn't see any in the usual construction areas
that I pass by up Rte 3. (Well, I did see one car, but not the cop, and
there wasn't really enough space to stop) Sigh.... Doing a lot of driving
as I do it hits home how one minute you can be listening to a dead
tune and the next ....
Hope everyone was all right.
Later,
PeterT
|
125.1481 | gloomy day in nerdville | NRSTA2::CLARK | Electric Music for the Mind and Body | Fri Jun 11 1993 17:23 | 10 |
| Fun with Pathworks:
C: COPY R:*.*
C: DEL R:*.*
All files will be deleted! Are you sure [y/n]? y
C: DIR
WHERE THE HECK ARE MY FILES?!?
Oh well ... 5 hours of work down the drain, what the heck ....
|
125.1482 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Fri Jun 11 1993 17:36 | 8 |
| re <<< Note 125.1481 by NRSTA2::CLARK "Electric Music for the Mind and Body" >>>
-< gloomy day in nerdville >-
>Fun with Pathworks:
Sounds more like fun with DOS! DOS does some really stupid non-intuitive
things sometimes!
|
125.1483 | | NRSTA2::CLARK | Electric Music for the Mind and Body | Fri Jun 11 1993 17:41 | 7 |
| I think what happened is Pathworks locked up a bunch of files, and the
DOS COPY command wasn't able to copy them but didn't report that it
couldn't ... and being the naive kinda guy I am, I assumed it did.
Oy.
- DC
|
125.1484 | | SSGV01::GPEACE::Strobel | Just Say No - To BARNEY!!! | Fri Jun 11 1993 19:32 | 5 |
| healing vibes heading to the Fog estate. Based on all of the running I saw
Charlie doing at SIS, he should be able to take care of you and Rachel easily
:-)
jeff
|
125.1485 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Live together, Play together | Fri Jun 11 1993 19:54 | 7 |
| Thanks for the vibes. Speaking of accidents, last weekend while I was
driving up I-95 in CT in a large truck, I saw a guy fall asleep at the
wheel and swerve off the highway into the gaudrail right in front of me.
He also severed a tall light pole, and I watched helplessly as it slowly
fell right in my path. I ran over it just after it hit the road. Scary, but
no damage to me or the truck. The guy was allright, too. It was actually
fun to watch those alluminum poles work the way they are supposed to.
|
125.1486 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Your recipe is so tasty | Tue Jun 15 1993 17:54 | 1 |
| Geezus Fog, that musta scared the crap out of you mon!!!!!!!!!!
|
125.1487 | | CSCMA::M_PECKAR | Live together, Play together | Tue Jun 15 1993 19:27 | 10 |
|
Not really. I used to commute up and down that very same section of I95
between Bridgeport and The Bronx, seen all kinds of stuff: hey you gotsta
when there are 200,000 cars per day crusin' through. Also, those public
safety films from the seventies which showed how collapsable light poles
worked sure went a long way towards easin' my worried mind when it came down.
The most scary incident: Discovering that I had passed over the section of
Mianus River Bridge between 10 and 15 minutes before it collapsed back in
'84 or '85-ish. I still get the heebie geebies thinking about that one.
|
125.1488 | | LANDO::HAPGOOD | | Tue Jun 29 1993 15:19 | 5 |
| Missed saying bye to all those folks who left last week.
oh well that's what happens when you are/were on vacation....
bob
|
125.1489 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | I want a workstation now dammit! | Tue Jul 06 1993 18:17 | 9 |
|
My folks called me last night...
...to tell me my grandmother passed away.
8-(
- jeff_bummin'
|
125.1490 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Tue Jul 06 1993 18:33 | 4 |
|
sorry to hear that, Jeff. :-(
|
125.1491 | :^( | ESKIMO::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Tue Jul 06 1993 18:48 | 3 |
| me too Jeff... peace...
da ve
|
125.1492 | Hang in ther, jeff | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Tue Jul 06 1993 18:52 | 4 |
|
thoughts are with you.
Mark
|
125.1493 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Jul 06 1993 19:04 | 3 |
| my thought are with you too.....keep da faith
rfb
|
125.1494 | | POWDML::MACINTYRE | | Tue Jul 06 1993 20:04 | 4 |
| Sorry to hear about it. Blessing to you and family.
Marv
|
125.1495 | | CX3PST::BSS::DSMITH | | Wed Jul 07 1993 18:51 | 6 |
|
Jeff sorry to hear that..
Divide Dave
|
125.1496 | Good times bad times, ya know I've had my share | EBBCLU::SMITH | So many roads tease my soul | Thu Jul 08 1993 20:56 | 16 |
|
I hate going to the doctors, but this time I was smart to go,
cause it may save my life. I was unfortunately told that I have
a form of skin cancer and that it needs to be removed.
I wasn't to pleased to say the least. I really shouldn't
be putting this in the bummer note because it seems that as long
as the spreading is minimal, I am going to be fine, I guess I'll
know fer sure come Monday.
It seems like everything in my life is going to pot right now...
cept my lungs! ;-)
"I'll get back on my feet someday"
|
125.1497 | vibe, vibe, vibe, vibe ... | ROCK::CAMPR::FROMM | GUMBO!!! | Thu Jul 08 1993 21:07 | 3 |
| sending good vibes your way, deane
/rich
|
125.1498 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Thu Jul 08 1993 21:07 | 8 |
|
major {{{vibes}}} heading your way...
skin cancer is definately completely curable.
wear that sunscreen everybody!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
|
125.1499 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Thu Jul 08 1993 21:09 | 9 |
| hey SMITH (DEAN?),
keep da faith, man. My dad has had a form or skin cancer for years.
He's only had it cut out twice in those many, many, many years.
And the procedure was no big deal.
Keeping out of direct sun will help in the future also.
So, although it looks/sounds bad now, hang in there and things will be
all right.
rfb
|
125.1500 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Life is like a blowoff hose... | Thu Jul 08 1993 21:42 | 14 |
|
Thanks for the kind thoughts and words, everybody!
------
re: last few
Dean-O ... I'm vibin' for ya!!!
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHMMMMMMmmmmmmmmmmmmm............
- jeff
|
125.1501 | 0000hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | BSS::MNELSON | No Time To Hate | Thu Jul 08 1993 23:08 | 6 |
|
hey Dean-o al sorts of good vibes headin' your way. Positive attitude
can go many many miles. Keep the faith and take extra care mon.
Mark
|
125.1502 | keep smilin'! :^) | ESKIMO::DWEST | if wishes were horses... | Fri Jul 09 1993 13:04 | 6 |
| still more vibes comin for Deane....
a friend of mine here just recently had some similar problems... fear
not dude... this is one thing they know how to deal with...
da ve
|
125.1503 | | EST::BOURDESS | | Fri Jul 09 1993 13:26 | 3 |
| best wishes Deane-O' Keeep yer head up!
Mike
|
125.1504 | former lifeguard - hardly ever get a tan these days.... | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Jul 09 1993 13:35 | 3 |
| Hope things look up soon for you Deane. Watch out for the sun!
PeterT
|
125.1505 | my middle name is now SPF15 ;-) | EBBCLU::SMITH | So many roads tease my soul | Fri Jul 09 1993 14:05 | 20 |
|
Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sniff....
It's real major to know how great of a support group
there is out there.
It's also nice to see grate things happening to
other people out there (Julie's skating, birthdays,
newborns) and it gives me da faith that good things
will happen soon, despite the bad things! :-)
Speaking of good things, last night I got a 98% on a
difficult exam...
it just goes to show you don't ever know. :-)
and everyone wear sunblock DAMMIT! it can happen to
anybody!
|
125.1506 | ooooooooooooooooooooohhmmmmmmmmmmm | SSGV01::GPEACE::Strobel | where's my hammock? | Fri Jul 09 1993 17:18 | 1 |
| Deane, hang in there. The positve-vibraphone is aimed in your direction
|
125.1507 | One of those days pet owners dread most... | TRETOP::SAMILJAN | | Mon Jul 19 1993 18:58 | 43 |
| Well, there comes a time in every good kitty's life when #9 rolls
around. The cat we had for the last 13 years died on Friday. He'd
had some kidney problems and they just kept gettin' worse. The vet
said he was probably comfortable, not in pain, so we might as well
keep him around the people he loved. Mr. Kitty got darn near skeletal
in the last couple weeks, but he just seemed lazy more than anything
else.
When my wife and kids got home Friday afternoon, Kitty was curled up
on the chair, just where we'd left him earlier. He looked like he was
sleeping with his eyes open, only he had gotten kind of stiff. He would
have made a good coat hook at this point.
My wife and I found that cat the day we moved in together 13 years ago.
We figured he was about a year old back then. He was deaf and had two
different color eyes. He'd been through a lot with us; travelled
cross-country, moved to several homes, watched us have a couple of kids.
He was a part of us, as you pet owners know. He was a good friend,
even though we did use him as a pin to play "Bowling for Kitties" in
his younger days.
My three-year-old and I went out and dug a good hole along the stone
wall in the back yard. (Three-year-olds are a BIG help on projects such
as this.) It was kind of tough explaining to him why we had to put
his old pal Kitty into this hole in the ground, but he didn't seem too
upset. I tried to explain how living things eventually stop breathing,
moving, seeing, and just plain stop "being." This was a difficult
concept when he could see the cat right there all wrapped up. My son
is still asking about the cat, and I expect he will continue to do so.
In fact, the next morning, my son told me he had seen Mr. Kitty walking
away from the house up the street. I'm not so sure he didn't.
It's funny when you lose an animal you've had for along time---you
still see him around out of the corner of your eye, still hear his steps,
or the jingle of his collar.
We're pretty bummed out still, but we're doing fine. These things take
time. You can't easily forget a presence that's been in your life for
that many years.
I knew I'd find some understanding here.
Bud
|
125.1508 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Mon Jul 19 1993 19:25 | 9 |
|
Bud, I'm so sorry.... I'm sure Kitty had a wonderful life
with you and your family. I have not experienced the loss
of a pet (yet... my kitty (TJ) is 16+). I'm sure this is a
tough week for you.
peace...
MJ
|
125.1509 | | EBBCLU::SMITH | So many roads tease my soul | Mon Jul 19 1993 19:49 | 21 |
|
Sorry to hear Bud,
I've never had a pet too long....I did see my parakeet
crawl up and croak right in front of me when I was about
5 or so. My Mother told me that I had no choice but
be strong and face the fact that ol Tweety was gone and
it wasn't bad to have been told this at a young age...
thats fer sure!
Little did I know, she taught me what I consider now
to be one of the most valuable things I ever learned:
How to try'n deal with loss!
I don't know anyone who's got the ol loss thing mastered
but if someone out there has a recipe or something,
don't hesitate to post it! :-)
|
125.1510 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Jul 19 1993 21:27 | 8 |
| sorry to hear that Bud, get another cat, it's the best thing to help
eleveate the loss..
Dean,
I cry.....
rfb
|
125.1511 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Mon Jul 19 1993 21:50 | 6 |
|
Sorry to hear that, Bud. I remember what I felt like when our dog
died.. it definately hurts. Peace to you..
Phyllis
|
125.1512 | | CSLALL::BENJAMIN | | Tue Jul 20 1993 00:37 | 3 |
| Some #@&*%^# truck driver ran over one of our swans here at DAS
over the weekend....the other swan just stands around looking so
sad.... :-(
|
125.1513 | Some thoughts on loss... | LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Jul 20 1993 12:28 | 26 |
| Bud, sorry to hear about your loss.
Deane brings up a good point: learning to deal with loss. The death of a
pet to a child can be a dramatic introduction to dealing with loss. As an
adult, there are so many different times you need to use this skill that
it's valuable to learn it early on. The death of someone close, like a
parent or a child, or even a good friend; divorce or the loss of a serious
relationship; even serious financial loss, like being laid off and the
social pressure that can result - these all remind us of the ephemeral
nature of our lives. Put two or three of them together in a short time
frame, and you really have a problem.
It undermines our sense of security, especially in the future. A child sees
this in the loss of a pet, and wonders about the mortality of their parents
or themselves. An adult sees it in the loss of a parent or loved one, and
questions their own values, goals and even self-worth. The challenge is to
face the grief, go through it without losing yourself, accept the loss and
move on. The last part is the hardest. Friends and family can help, but
in the end we must find the strength in ourselves. I think, more often than
not, we surprise ourselves at how much strength we have. After all, in most
cases it's not like we have any choice but to go on living. It takes time.
You cry alot.
Carpe diem.
tim
|
125.1514 | | TRETOP::SAMILJAN | | Tue Jul 20 1993 13:06 | 5 |
| re: -.1
Thanks, Tim. Nicely said.
Bud
|
125.1515 | Bad Karma for me for Bahston? Nah | BSS::MNELSON | Ripples in still Water | Mon Aug 30 1993 18:43 | 13 |
|
First I get shut out on series 1 for Bahston Gahden,
Then I get shut out on series 2 for same,
Final straw comes Friday afternoon when the decision to do
training via Video conferencing rather than face to Face back east.
This is almost too much bad karma for me. I made my own reservations
this a.m. anyway.
Mark
|
125.1516 | gross! | GOOROO::DCLARK | where the shadows run from themselves | Wed Sep 22 1993 14:01 | 4 |
| driving to work and all 3 'commercial' stations I had
programmed in (BOS, ZLX, and BCN) were playing Don
Henley songs SIMULTANEOUSLY. I almost spewed hot coffee
on the radio :-(
|
125.1517 | As Mojo Nixon says.... | CASDOC::ROGERS | peripheral visionary | Wed Sep 22 1993 14:08 | 1 |
| ...Don Henley must die!!!
|
125.1518 | I really hope its not bad.... | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Thu Sep 23 1993 14:55 | 11 |
| NEWSFLASH......
I just got a call from Jen (aka Sparkey) she told me that CHETS is on
fire !!!! (she was told by a co-worker who just got to work)
I will have an update after lunch.....
Chris
|
125.1519 | Chet is not fire !!!! | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Thu Sep 23 1993 15:03 | 10 |
| good news....
its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....
I called John Brigham (Slipknot's Bass player) to confirm....
the party is still on for the 29th !!!
Chris
|
125.1520 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Sep 23 1993 17:41 | 7 |
| > good news....
>
> its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....
Of course, not good news for the Car-Craft folk...
PeterT
|
125.1521 | | MONTOR::GNPIKE::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Thu Sep 23 1993 20:08 | 9 |
| >> good news....
>>
>> its not CHETS its the CAR-CRAFT place next door....
>
>Of course, not good news for the Car-Craft folk...
But you haven't seen their lineup of used cars...
;-)
|
125.1522 | GOOD VIBES TO BRETT!! | SPOCK::IRONS | | Wed Oct 06 1993 17:52 | 6 |
| Brett Turner is going into surgery today. They're removing some stones
from his bladder. OUCH!! Puts a new meaning to getting stoned! :^}
Let's send him some GOOD VIBES!!
dave
|
125.1523 | Peace and healing... | SALES::GKELLER | be alert, we need more lerts | Wed Oct 06 1993 18:06 | 15 |
| > <<< Note 125.1522 by SPOCK::IRONS >>>
> -< GOOD VIBES TO BRETT!! >-
>
> Brett Turner is going into surgery today. They're removing some stones
> from his bladder. OUCH!! Puts a new meaning to getting stoned! :^}
>
> Let's send him some GOOD VIBES!!
>
> dave
Hang in there Brett. Healing energy coming your way. We'll see you back
here soon...
Geoff
|
125.1524 | :-) Good luck Brett! :-) | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Inspiration, move me brightly... | Wed Oct 06 1993 18:55 | 3 |
| Yow! Sending some vibes...
:), danielle
|
125.1525 | 8-) | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Wed Oct 06 1993 20:01 | 15 |
|
Lots-o-good-vibes comin' your way, Brett!!!!
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_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-_-^-
.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'.'
Take it easy, dude!
- jeff
|
125.1526 | | MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CR | dust off those rusty strings | Thu Oct 07 1993 15:22 | 3 |
|
really cool screen SUBPAC::MAGGARD! looks alot like a sewing machine
instruction manual i used to own.
|
125.1527 | Good one, I'm in stitches!!! 8-) | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Thu Oct 07 1993 21:18 | 6 |
|
...Yeah, I'll be all set when I can figger out how ta do button-holes
in ASCII...
;-)
|
125.1528 | hey, someone had to do it... | STRATA::DWEST | reality is not... | Thu Oct 07 1993 22:27 | 1 |
| aw, Jeff... i'm sure you'll have that sewn up in no time... :^)
|
125.1529 | | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Fri Oct 08 1993 11:19 | 1 |
| Oh no, do I see another thread of puns going here?
|
125.1530 | ;-) | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Fri Oct 08 1993 13:47 | 4 |
|
I'm on pins and needles in anticipation!
|
125.1531 | | NRSTA2::CLARK | zzzzzzzzzzzzz huh? ... zzzzzzzzzzzzzz | Fri Oct 08 1993 14:00 | 1 |
| You guys got me in stitches!
|
125.1532 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Oct 08 1993 14:58 | 7 |
| Christ, another SERGE of puns. Seams like you'd have
something better to do than to needle us with all of this
silliness...
;-)
tim
|
125.1533 | thanks, I needed that | SSGV01::STROBEL | & now for something completely different... | Fri Oct 08 1993 19:27 | 4 |
| don't want to get collared on this thread, especially since many of
these puns are, at best, sew sew
:-)
|
125.1534 | todays bummer... | STRATA::DWEST | choose wisdom over intelligence... | Wed Nov 10 1993 12:33 | 7 |
| the bummer today...
one of my friends here in my group lost her brother last evening...
young guy, long illness... :^( i'm sure it's a relief for them that
it's over, but it sure does suck for them saying goodbye now...
da ve
|
125.1535 | $700 paper loss! | BIODTL::JC | Nothing like a good dose of the Dead | Fri Dec 10 1993 12:08 | 6 |
| Shares of Novell Inc. dropped 3 5/8 yesturday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ouch....
jc_who_has_200_shares
|
125.1536 | | SSGV01::GPEACE::Strobel | Psychotic Friends Network | Fri Dec 10 1993 16:14 | 8 |
| I'd hold the Novell (I have a few myself) for a while. With Ray Noorda
retiring in June and a low stock price, I think they could be attractive
to a Lotus or maybe Sun.
Then again, if I'd sold before yesterday I wouldn't have to worrry about
the paper loss either.....
|
125.1537 | | BIODTL::JC | Nothing like a good dose of the Dead | Fri Dec 17 1993 16:30 | 14 |
| re <<< Note 125.1536 by SSGV01::GPEACE::Strobel "Psychotic Friends Network" >>>
>I'd hold the Novell (I have a few myself) for a while. With Ray Noorda
>retiring in June and a low stock price, I think they could be attractive
>to a Lotus or maybe Sun.
>
>Then again, if I'd sold before yesterday I wouldn't have to worrry about
>the paper loss either.....
that's my plan: to hold. however, in retrospect, i should have dumped it
at 25 1/2 and rolled into a few other companies i'm looking at... btw, do
you use a discount broker? full service? some other means?
|
125.1538 | | BUSY::IRZA | Juneau Oates Neely..best line in hockey | Thu Jan 20 1994 14:35 | 18 |
| y
after years of not getting pulled over, it happened again today. this
morning on the way in, i was travelling at 60mph in the left hand lane
and saw the statie coming up on me (learnt my lesson from last week).
i pulled over into the middle lane and he pulled up on the side of me.
he then faded back and pulled behind me and flashed his blues. i thought
"oh great, he's gonna write me up for doing 60". turns out my taillights
were out....blown fuse. i fixed it right there, but was still given a
$35. citation for operating with defective equipment. you would think
he would have given me a warning. what sucks worse is that i don't even
think i had to have my lights on. sunrise was at 7:08am today and the
citation was written at 7:05am. i believe mass law states that headlights
(and not taillights) must be on up until a half hour *before* sunrise. i
definitely plan to fight this one also. geez, i believe if i get one more
infraction i'll lose my license for 30 days. MA staties suck!!!
^dave_who_can't_wait_'til_biking_season
|
125.1539 | easy to fight, i think | BIODTL::JC | Just one thing I ask of you | Thu Jan 20 1994 17:07 | 11 |
| re <<< Note 125.1538 by BUSY::IRZA "Juneau Oates Neely..best line in hockey" >>>
this one should be a piece of cake to fight mon.
"now judge, if you were driving, how would you know your
tail lights we're not working? I checked 'em this morning
and they were working fine; must have been that big pot hole
the DPW failed to fix that screwed 'em up, eh?"
|
125.1540 | | TERAPN::PHYLLIS | in the shadow of the moon | Thu Jan 20 1994 17:42 | 10 |
|
:-)
I just mailed $52 to the Boston Office of City Parking for 2 tickets I
picked up Halloween weekend. They were $20 tickets but went up $6 each
for non-payment. I knew they'd catch up with me eventually (it was a
rental car - pretty easy to trace) but I figure $12 was worth the
chance they'd slide through somehow.
|
125.1541 | THAT SUCKS! | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Thu Jan 20 1994 19:28 | 9 |
|
Dave,
Take a different route to/from work!!!!
"...Gonna get your number, and finger prints too, and they gotta little place
down in Virginia stirrin some soup just for yooooouuu... Gonna getcha, Gonna
getcha, Gonna getcher numbaaaahhhhhh....."
|
125.1542 | ouch... | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Jan 20 1994 19:53 | 5 |
| Actually Dave, just go to work latter. Maybe that's my secret. There's
so many damn people on the road when I drive, I'm not the most
obvious person out there.
PeterT
|
125.1543 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Tue Jan 25 1994 19:50 | 6 |
| geesh what is it with that Jackson Family anyway ? Janet Jackson just
canceled her Worcester Centrum concert tonite....now what will I do for
the nite ?
;')
|
125.1544 | | TECRUS::DEMARSE | That Lucky Old Sun | Tue Jan 25 1994 21:20 | 1 |
| Apparently, she was injured in a show last night....
|
125.1545 | winkwinknugenuge | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Tue Jan 25 1994 21:55 | 6 |
| yup thats what they said....even more of a bummer, the show will now be
this sunday, the only day I CAN'T make it !!! :') its Superbowl Sunday
and I got a few loads of whites to wash too :'o
Chris
|
125.1546 | I'll have to ski | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Wed Jan 26 1994 12:51 | 4 |
| It's SUper Bowl Sunday!?! Wow, I have to go skiing on Super Bowl
Sunday. But this year I think I'll go nordic. but that's another topic
|
125.1547 | | ROCK::FROMM | It's hard to care about a don't care. | Wed Jan 26 1994 13:44 | 7 |
| > It's SUper Bowl Sunday!?! Wow, I have to go skiing on Super Bowl
> Sunday.
i guess super bowl sunday is a good day to avoid crowds while skiing, right?
so what sunday is it, this sunday, or next?
- rich-who-cares-infinitely-more-about-skiing-than-football
|
125.1548 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Wed Jan 26 1994 13:47 | 1 |
| this sunday<
|
125.1549 | | ROCK::FROMM | It's hard to care about a don't care. | Wed Jan 26 1994 13:51 | 8 |
| > this sunday<
then i definitely wanna go skiing somewhere, perhaps killington; anyone wanna
join me?
(hmmm, perhaps this should be somewhere other than the bummer note)
- rich
|
125.1550 | not really | MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Wed Jan 26 1994 15:15 | 4 |
| Actually I've tried this several times and it doesn't work out.
More than once I've been waiting in one of the longest lift lines
of the season and heard people around me say, "I figured with the
super bowl, no one would be skiing".
|
125.1551 | Ya gotta use INVERSE psychology! :-) | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Wed Jan 26 1994 15:18 | 11 |
|
Same logic applies at Disney World:
"Nobody goes to DW on Tuesday, right?"
That's what I mistakenly thought, too. :-)
- jeff_who_sez_to_go_to_DW_during_the_
2nd_week_in_January_and_the_first_
week_in_September_for_no_lines_;-)
|
125.1552 | Mickey marathoner | SSGV01::TPNSTN::Strobel | Jetson, you're TFSO'd !!! | Wed Jan 26 1994 16:42 | 7 |
| jeff -
Drop the 2nd week in Jan from your DW options. They had the first
Disney World marathon this year which had the (planned) effect of filling
up the hotels and the park for much of the 2nd week according to a friend
who ran.
jeff
|
125.1553 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Wed Jan 26 1994 18:03 | 6 |
|
re: Disney World
I was there last year first week in February. Good time to go....
Hogan
|
125.1554 | Record Breaking Crowds! | JUPITR::OCONNORS | | Wed Jan 26 1994 18:09 | 6 |
|
I was at DisneyWorld on the 4th of July one time....talk about
HUGE! crowds.
Sean
|
125.1555 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Careful with that AXP Eugene! | Wed Jan 26 1994 20:59 | 10 |
|
re: 2nd week in Jan
Duhhhh ...no wonder why they chose that week for the marathon... :-)
If yer bizniss is slow, throw a party!
(Hmmm, here's hopin that BP is reading this note :-)
- jeff
|
125.1556 | October | 4156::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Wed Jan 26 1994 22:42 | 19 |
| Try October. School's in session, the weather is still quite warm,
enough to swim but not sweltering, crowds are minimal, Europeans have
all gone home, it's a good time to go.
Avoid: all summer, November through mid-January (Holidays), March-April
(Spring Break)...
I've been going ever since they opened - lived in Florida half my life,
and if ya gotta go (and some of us find the place a little repulsive *
now that we've grown up) then October's the time to go.
*to many Floridians, Disney World represents everything that's totally
phoney about Florida - the antithesis of the Floridian experience. I
tend to waiver, having kids who just oggle over the place tends to sway
my opinion. If you want to see real Florida, well, that's hard to do.
Sanibel used to be it, but it's pretty commercial now too.
tim
|
125.1557 | does this rilly belong here ? | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Thu Jan 27 1994 12:10 | 16 |
| yeah Oct is a good time (mid to late Oct) the last time I was there was
Oct 31 - Nov 9 1990....the main Park closed at 9 I think but Epcot was
open until 1230.....so spend the day in the main park then head over to
Epcot arund 6ish check out the sights then have a nice dinner at the
English pub (they serve beers) at around 8-9 (get a reservation in th AM)
kick back at your table and watch the lazer light show and fireworks...
then head over to the Hard Rock Cafe (at Universal Studios) for some
drinks to cap off the nite...
did this 7 nites in a row ! the last night at the hard rock they paid
our tab because the manager was a head and I believe withoutanet had
just came out and we listened to it most every nite over the HRC
system kinda made friends with the people there :')
Chris
|
125.1558 | | ISLNDS::CONNORS_M | | Thu Jan 27 1994 18:04 | 6 |
|
re: Tim
Don't EVER grow up Tim!!!!!
;-)
|
125.1559 | ;-) | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Thu Jan 27 1994 18:29 | 3 |
| Easy for you to say, short-stop! ;-) ;-)
tim
|
125.1560 | | ECRU::CLARK | Can you picture what will be? | Thu Jan 27 1994 20:08 | 4 |
| I've been to Disney World twice in early December (five years apart ;^) ...
both times the weather was perfect and there were practically no crowds.
- DC
|
125.1561 | ah, this too shall pass... | STRATA::DWEST | choose wisdom over intelligence... | Tue Mar 15 1994 20:59 | 17 |
| wow... we went the entire month of february without a single bummer
entry!!!!
kinda makes me not want to enter mine... :^( but i hafta...
cuz i'm bummin' so much... i've been trying (to no avail) to get
soime of my counterparts to cover my classses sos i could have my
birthday off... but NNOOOOooooOOOOOOOoooooOOOOOOO... can't get
help... only sympathy! :^) now i have to teach two (yes two)
protocol classes for the cleanroom from hell on my birthday...
yucko... what could be worse??? (yeah yeah... i know... 3 protocol
classes... :^) i sure wish i'd thought of this way back when the
schedule first came out...
i think this is going to call for a long lunch... followed by taking
thursday off (doesn't everyone have st patricks day off? :^)
da ve
|
125.1562 | | ROCK::FROMM | This space intentionally left blank. | Wed Mar 16 1994 01:58 | 12 |
| >now i have to teach two (yes two)
> protocol classes for the cleanroom from hell on my birthday...
i'll teach 'em for you!
don't forget to wash your hands, brush your teeth, ...
or is it not that kind of cleanroom?
;^)
- rich
|
125.1563 | :^) | STRATA::DWEST | choose wisdom over intelligence... | Wed Mar 16 1994 12:09 | 4 |
| SOLD!!! thanks! :^) (just don't forget to mention that it has to be
a cleanroom approved, lint-free toothbrush and you'll do fine :^)
da ve
|
125.1564 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Wed Mar 16 1994 12:43 | 3 |
| in the words of Marty Feldman...
"....could be worse, could be raining !"
|
125.1565 | Reality | AKOCOA::SMITH_D | 24 and there's so much more | Wed Mar 16 1994 16:38 | 34 |
|
Some disturbing news today.....
In March of 1991 I read that by 1995, the average American will
know 1-2 people that are HIV positive....
Well, here it is, 1994, one year ahead of time, and I know 2
people with HIV positive and 2 people that have passed from Aids,
not too mention the dozen or so people who are friends of friends
that I have heard are HIV positive, or have Aids.
HIV+ in heterosexuals is up 125% since the last study (when that
was I don't know), almost 75% of this number are women who are
especially vulnerable to the virus.
Being what I consider to be your average, Heterosexual, 24
year old American male, I am frightened by these stats, and
although I have been tested and have always been cautious,
I am scared for those who refuse to do so, or are unaware
of the facts.
I think it's time they start putting the facts up on billboards,
or something.
|
125.1566 | :( | TECRUS::DEMARSE | Here in the last mile of your race | Wed Mar 16 1994 16:54 | 10 |
| I know, it's a really scary thing....
some people just don't get it. Wear a condom if you are going to have
sex. Plain and simple.
There are too many ignorant people out there that don't think they
could ever get AIDS...then voila as a result of not taking precautions
he/she becomes HIV Positive...it's really sad.
:(, danielle
|
125.1567 | | ECRU::CLARK | Chairman of the Bored | Wed Mar 16 1994 17:25 | 15 |
| Unfortunately, education about AIDS and HIV has been sparse, and not exactly
consistent either. For example, on "World AIDS Day" in Nashua last year,
there were speakers at Nashua High School telling the students that latex
condoms have pores in them which are ten times larger than the HIV virus,
so the virus can get through.
Also, even when the correct messages get through, they can be confusing.
For example, kids are told that you can get infected thru the exchange
of bodily fluids, and then are told that you can't get infected by kissing.
Isn't saliva a bodily fluid?
I think the quality of education about these issues could stand to improve
dramatically ....
- DC
|
125.1568 | hmmm | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Wed Mar 16 1994 17:47 | 11 |
| First of all, I think it's about time somebody went and told the
Catholic Church about this stuff. They're still parked in the
wayback machine...
Secondly, DC - from what I've read and heard, the virus is not
particularly robust and cannot survive in the relative acidity of
saliva...so not ALL bodily fluids count (urine too, I suspect)...
That bit about latex is also wrong. Animal membrane yes - latex, no.
tim
|
125.1569 | | ECRU::CLARK | Chairman of the Bored | Wed Mar 16 1994 17:56 | 17 |
| >Secondly, DC - from what I've read and heard, the virus is not
>particularly robust and cannot survive in the relative acidity of
>saliva...so not ALL bodily fluids count (urine too, I suspect)...
Yep ... I just think it would be nice if kids were given more specifics,
to avoid what sounds like conflicting information ... maybe I'm being
idealistic.
>That bit about latex is also wrong. Animal membrane yes - latex, no.
I know ... I read about this event in the local paper, and other things
mentioned in the article about these speakers led me to believe that they
may have had a religious-right agenda. I just found it discouraging that
the high school would allow this kind of misinformation to be given to
the students on a day which was (nationally) dedicated to HIV/AIDS education.
- DC
|
125.1570 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Wed Mar 16 1994 18:00 | 6 |
| Good point. I wasn't trying to correct you - there wasn't anything
in your note to indicate the inaccuracy of those two points, so
I just sort of felt compelled to say something...source was
C. Everett Koop from an interview a couple years ago, btw...
tim
|
125.1571 | | ROADKL::INGALLS | may the four winds blow you home again | Wed Mar 16 1994 19:27 | 7 |
|
BUMMER! Our babysitter (the one and only one we know) just backed out on us
for friday night -- looks doubtful for Tom's B-day at Shakedown :^(
Glenn_bummin...
|
125.1572 | let's have an anti-bummer summer! | BUSY::IRZA | it's good to be back from the dead | Wed Mar 16 1994 19:34 | 7 |
|
wow! da ve enters a bummer and opens up a floodgate!
NO MORE BUMMERS, DAMMIT!
^dave
|
125.1573 | Call the babysitters club!!! | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Wed Mar 16 1994 20:35 | 9 |
| re .1571
Glenn, sounds like it's time to court a few more babysitters! Ask friends,
check local bulletin boards (if such exist). It's happened to us before,
and we've lucked out. (Of course not all those babysitters were all that
good, though nothing totally bad towards the kids. One ran up quite
a phonebill though!)
PeterT
|
125.1574 | | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Thu Mar 17 1994 12:49 | 5 |
| I should have gone skiing today!
dammit!
anyone know how much the NH mountains got?
we have about 6-7" in littleton.
|
125.1575 | AIDS Cases Increase Last Year (from AIDS_WALK) | TECRUS::DEMARSE | Here in the last mile of your race | Thu Mar 17 1994 12:58 | 131 |
| Copyright 1994. The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved.
ATLANTA (AP) -- The number of new AIDS cases unexpectedly more than
doubled last year under a broader definition of the disease and
boosted by a sharp increase in the number of infections among
heterosexuals.
The federal Centers for Disease Control had projected 1993 AIDS
cases would jump 75 percent in the first year of the new definition.
It actually increased by 111 percent, from 49,016 in 1992 to 103,500
in 1993, the agency reported Thursday.
Last year, the CDC expanded its definition to include those
infected with HIV who also have a severely suppressed immune system,
tuberculosis, recurrent pneumonia or invasive cervical cancer.
Most of the AIDS cases under the new definition were reported in
the first three months of the year. The surge had dropped off by the
end of 1993, and the CDC expects the number in 1994 cases to drop
below last year's figure.
The groups most affected by the expanded definition were women,
blacks, heterosexual intravenous drug users and hemophiliacs.
The increase was greater among women (151 percent) than among men
(105 percent), and greater among blacks and Hispanics than whites.
The largest increases reported were among teens and young adults,
mostly from heterosexual transmission.
"This is where the growth of the epidemic is," said Dr. John Ward,
chief of the CDC's AIDS surveillance branch.
Although the epidemic overall still mostly infects gay men,
heterosexuals represented the largest proportionate increase in
1993, said Pat Flemming, chief of reporting and analysis in the CDC's
AIDS division.
AIDS cases resulting from heterosexual contact jumped 130 percent
last year over 1992, from 4,045 to 9,288. Cases attributed to male
homosexual or bisexual contact increased 87 percent, from 25,864 to
48,266.
At highest risk among heterosexuals, Flemming said, were those with
several lovers who were infected with HIV or other sexually
transmitted diseases, or were intravenous drug users.
Women accounted for about two-thirds of heterosexual cases, but the
number of men who are infected through heterosexual contact is also
increasing.
Half of the heterosexual cases were among blacks, with Hispanics
and whites representing about 25 percent each. And young adults ages
13-29 accounted for 27 percent of the heterosexual cases.
The total number of AIDS cases in the United States through Sept.
30, 1993, was 339,250. The total number of deaths from AIDS through the
same time period was 204,390, according to the CDC.
AP 03/10 17:39 EST V0641
Copyright 1994. The Associated Press. All Rights Reserved.
By The Associated Press
New AIDS Cases
1992--49,016
1993--103,500
111 percent increase
Men
1992--42,445
1993--86,986
105 percent increase
Women
1992--6,571
1993--16,514
151 percent increase
Race-Ethnicity
Whites
1992--23,305
1993--47,003
102 percent increase
Blacks
1992--16,582
1993--36,951
123 percent increase
Hispanics
1992--8,541
1993--18,318
114 percent increase
HIV Exposure Categories
Male homosexual-bisexual contact
1992--25,864
1993--48,266
87 percent increase
Heterosexual contact
1992--4,045
1993--9,288
130 percent increase
IV Drug Use
--Among women and heterosexual men
1992--12,163
1993--28,687
136 percent increase
--With gay-bisexual contact
1992--3,028
1993--5,745
90 percent increase
Hemophilia
1992--360
1993--1,041
189 percent increase
Transfusion
1992--710
1993--1,219
72 percent increase
|
125.1576 | spring skiing is where it's at | MILKWY::HEADSL::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Thu Mar 17 1994 13:24 | 7 |
| I don't know why this snow should go in the bummer note. My understanding
from yesterday afternoons weather was that it should be snowing lightly
through the day today.
But regardless of today's snow fall, the conditions are set, they're
great.
Go skiing !
|
125.1577 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Thu Mar 17 1994 13:59 | 18 |
|
Tim, I can't help but notice that you've been ragging on the Catholic
Church a lot lately.....
The church is against birth control....right. But the church is also
against pre-marital sex. If you combine those two, then there is no
need for a condom as a deterrent to AIDS, because you'd only have *1*
partner anyway.
The Church has its stance. Why should it change that, merely because
*most* people don't follow its teachings.
I'm not a big Catholic Church supporter (though I am Catholic), but I
don't understand the cry for the Catholic Church to suddenly change its
stance on certain issues. Just because millions of people practice
pre-marital sex, should the Church condone it?
Hogan
|
125.1578 | | STUDIO::IDE | My mind's lost in a household fog. | Thu Mar 17 1994 14:37 | 12 |
| re .1577
I have two problems with the CC, the first being the inferior position
of women in it. The second is the issue of birth control.
I don't understand why the Church doesn't at least endorse barrier
methods (condoms) for married couples. I'm all for recreation without
procreation. :-)
I miss Marv . . .
Jamie
|
125.1579 | | ROADKL::INGALLS | may the four winds blow you home again | Thu Mar 17 1994 14:39 | 18 |
|
In the most recent discussion I think the difference is
between religious education and AIDS education.
AIDS education, IMO, should not be a forum for espousing
church views.
> The Church has its stance. Why should it change that, merely because
> *most* people don't follow its teachings.
let's reverse this -- can you imagine saying to the church:
"Why should people change, merely because you want them to follow
your teachings"
IMO, the only correct answer would be "it makes sense".
It makes sense for the church to change some - times have changed.
It makes sense for people to have a moral doctrine or code to follow.
If the code makes sense, people will follow it.
|
125.1580 | | PONDA::64423::BELKIN | the slow one now will later be fast | Thu Mar 17 1994 15:29 | 6 |
|
I second JC's snow-bummer, and add my own.
The bummer of it is, there's great snow out there today and we're not
out skiing (telemarking! ;-) on it! Its started melting already... :-(
Josh
|
125.1581 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Thu Mar 17 1994 15:58 | 19 |
| Re: .1577
I am a Catholic. Not only was I raised a Catholic, I have a
substantial, formal Catholic education, and I'm well informed on
Catholic teachings and policy. All of my family, on both sides, is
Irish Catholic - and there are tons of us (average number of children
per couple is about five - I'm one of five, each of my parents were,
most of my cousins are - do the math, there's a bunch of us). I have
about fifty first cousins. I strongly disagree with the Catholic
Church's policies and teachings in a number of areas. I think that the
Church should recognise the antiquity of these policies and update them
to the 20th Century. There's nothing wrong with doing that - and in
fact, there's something very wrong with refusing to do that simply
based on tradition and concepts that were created by people who lived
in caves, for Chrissakes...
tim
|
125.1582 | HAPPY SAINT PATRICKS DAY | BSS::MNELSON | Won't ya try just a little bit harder | Thu Mar 17 1994 16:05 | 10 |
|
Hello Tim,
Hate to digress from a religous discussion however you mentioned
that you are an Irish Catholic. Happy Saint Patrick's day to you and
everyone else.
Back to regularly scheduled program
HAPPY SAINT PATRICKS DAY
|
125.1583 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Thu Mar 17 1994 16:26 | 20 |
|
RE .1578
Yeah, I miss Marv too, thats why I had to enter .1577
FWIW, I'm not a big proponent of the church, I'm just trying to keep
ya'll honest.....its OK to bash the church these days, and its gotten
very easy to just blame the church for anything you want to.
Personally, I don't believe that promoting "safe sex" is the best thing
to do (its better than nothing), like it or not, promiscuity is what is
causing the spread of AIDS. I think we need to promote self-control
*first* rather than "wear a condom." A lot of people don't accept that
as a viable solution, and that bothers me. If we really want to stop
the spread of AIDS, its going to require a sacrifice. But our current
society doesn't want to be told that they should abstain from doing
something that they want to do. Safe Sex is not a solution, it will
merely slow down the spread of the disease.
Hogan (I've had this in me for a while....now its out, and I'm done)
|
125.1584 | the snow, the green, the church, kids, and beer (that about covers it!) | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Mar 17 1994 16:32 | 20 |
| I tried doing some x-country this AM, but we only had about 2" on the
ground and it was very light and my skis kept scrapping against dirt
and rock and road. Oh well.
Yes. A Happy St. Patty's Day to all. Gee, I even have some green on,
though I forgot totally at the time I put it on. Must have been
the subconscious working again (or the laundry ;-). I'm even
partial Irish (catholic). Don't know the percentage. My dad say's
he's 100%, but I'm not quite so sure he's right ;-) Heck, he doesn't
even drink!
I had a Catholic schooling too, Tim. And feel pretty much the same
way you do about the Church. Sigh... But we're bringing the
kids up Jewish with some christianity mixed in for seasoning ;-)
Hmmm, I wonder if Sam Adam's Cream Stout is appropriate tonight.
Guiness would be more correct, but then I'd have to go out and
BUY some.
PeterT
|
125.1585 | | ROCK::FROMM | This space intentionally left blank. | Thu Mar 17 1994 16:40 | 6 |
| >I have
> about fifty first cousins.
wow. that's a lot. i have 5.
- rich
|
125.1586 | this should raise some "healthy" debate | SALES::GKELLER | An armed society is a polite society - RH | Thu Mar 17 1994 16:59 | 22 |
| Ok, lets see what I can say to get everyone pissed off at me:-)
First of all AIDS, that horrible syndrome created by the government (US/
USSR) back in the fifties to eliminate the black african's, who they
thought would be the greatest political menace by the next century. Well
if a person isn't smart enough to A) abstain, B) choose one partner be
tested and remain monagamous C) use a condome to make the sexual experience
as safe as it can be, then we should let darwinism(survival of the fittest)
take over and we can reduce the world population and there won't be as much
overcrowding.
Regarding the Catholic Church, St. Patricks day and all that... The Irish
would have been better off if St. Pat never came to Ireland and converted
them. Choice a) Paganism, people generally having a good time with little
guilt a few virgin sacrafices and generally living in harmony with the
earth. choice b) Catholicism/Protastantism -- lots of guilt and war for
over 1000 years over which god or way of worshiping is right.
There that should do it:-)
Geoff_speaking_slightly_with_toungue_in_cheek
|
125.1587 | | STUDIO::IDE | My mind's lost in a household fog. | Thu Mar 17 1994 17:06 | 7 |
| Geoff, "The Prisoner" was NOT a documentary!!
>C) use a condome
Sheesh, and I thought the standard ones were less sensitive. :-)
Jamie
|
125.1588 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Thu Mar 17 1994 20:46 | 11 |
| isn't condome' french for condiment?
What ever happened to the condiment note anywayz? ;-)
I definitely think people should use more condiments...whether it's
before, during or after having safe sex.
:-)
tim
|
125.1589 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Fri Mar 18 1994 12:26 | 11 |
|
>> I definitely think people should use more condiments...whether
>> its before, during or after having safe sex.
I prefer spicy Mustard.....that honey dijon stuff makes me burp, so I
avoid that. Mayo will really turn me off, though. Just forget that
;^)
Is beer a condiment?
Hogan
|
125.1590 | reamed! | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Fri Mar 18 1994 12:55 | 16 |
| Don't get married!
No, no, deb and i are not on the "rocks".... it is tax time, y'know, and last
night i did a first pass on our taxes to find that Uncle Sam enjoys shafting
married people pretty nicely. Our tax obligation, when filing "married status",
is $1000.00 MORE than if we were filing "single-not-married status". I
couldn't believe it!! $1000.00 bucks MORE 'cuz i'm married. pissed me right
off..........i figured 'em out married, filing seperately and came to the
conclusion that i'll save about $8.00 filing jointly. but man, married status
really sux for taxes!!!!!!!!!!!! for married people, the personal exemption
is $3100 per person vs. $3700 if you're not married... man o man, where's
those Republican family value people when ya need 'em????? if anything, the
gov't discourages marriage with these HIGH taxes... geeezusss!!!
next is the MA taxes....
|
125.1591 | lonsome george | BUSY::IRZA | the wisest man is deemed insane | Fri Mar 18 1994 12:59 | 7 |
|
> <<< Note 125.1590 by BIODTL::JC "You know when your mouth is dry..."
...you're pretty high.
good tune!
|
125.1592 | | CX3PST::BSS::DSMITH | thats a joke son! | Fri Mar 18 1994 13:02 | 14 |
|
Hey J.C
Thats what our tax man told us 2 years ago!
We have no desire to have off spring and I don't like giving the
government any more money than I have too.
The government will screw very chance they get.
Divide dave
|
125.1593 | | TRETOP::SAMILJAN | | Fri Mar 18 1994 13:39 | 9 |
| JC,
Buy a house and have kids. It'll turn that tax situation around right
away. See, right now you're DINKs (Double Income, No Kids). You guys
get screwed royally. (We did, too, for years.) But Uncle Sam does
help a bit when you contribute to the economy by buying a house and
creating new little consumers. It's an incentive program.
Bud
|
125.1594 | It's all in the numbers | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Mar 18 1994 13:48 | 29 |
| Yeah, JC. I remember getting married and thinking, wow, we should get
more money back because we're filing jointly now. Bzzzt! Wrong.
That was the end of the refund years and the beginning of the pay up
on April 15th years. There are, however, solutions to this. 1)
Withhold more taxes, taking 0 exempts and signing in as married rather
than single, and if need be, contributing X amount each paycheck.
The two others I'll mention show how the government actually encourages
family values, but are guaranteed to change your life more than "merely"
getting married do. 2) Stop renting and buy a house. 3) You guessed
it, have kids.
Now, you guys are newlyweds, so I wouldn't want to push #3 on you. Citing
only myself as an example, we were living together for 5 years before we
got married, and then married another 5 to 6 years (depending on how
you view it, conception vs birth) before we had kids. I think folks
should enjoy life together a little bit before having kids, but that's
just my opinion. And #3 is not always a viable option for some, due to
fertility or health reasons.
But, having gone through all three steps now, we just deposited a
refund check that equaled in $ amounts, the year of my birth
(and yes, I was born this century ;-), which I thought was rather neat
and definitely needed.
So, definitely investigate #1, give some thought to #2, and when you
think you're ready for it, give #3 some consideration. Though #2 is
a never-ending money sucker, my heart is currently owned by the #3's
running around in #2, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
PeterT
|
125.1595 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Fri Mar 18 1994 13:49 | 7 |
| JC,
Get divorced, live together and pay her alimony. Alimony is
deductible. ;-) ;-)
tim
|
125.1596 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Mar 18 1994 13:51 | 5 |
| Bud - oops, note collisions!!!
Tim, gotta admire your spin on things ;-)
PeterT
|
125.1597 | The taxman cometh | BSS::MNELSON | Won't ya try just a little bit harder | Fri Mar 18 1994 14:15 | 9 |
|
The tax man will be getting 2300+ from me this April 15. I am
married, have 1.5 kids, a golden retriever and house interest to
deduct. I usually figure it so I break pretty close to even but
got screwed this year, bad. The withholding rate was reduced as
a last ditch effort by George Bush. I should have paid closer
attention I guess.
Mark
|
125.1598 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Mar 18 1994 14:24 | 3 |
| you guys obviously make too much money!!!!!!!!!
rfb
|
125.1599 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Mar 18 1994 14:58 | 3 |
| tragady has hit the Lawlor family out herer in COlorado..TOm and
Rosannes ex-daughter-in-law passed away this week. good vibes,
prayers, and healing thoughts are needed....
|
125.1600 | There is a 2 year grace period | SALES::GKELLER | An armed society is a polite society - RH | Fri Mar 18 1994 15:57 | 21 |
| > <<< Note 125.1597 by BSS::MNELSON "Won't ya try just a little bit harder" >>>
> -< The taxman cometh >-
>
>
> The tax man will be getting 2300+ from me this April 15. I am
> married, have 1.5 kids, a golden retriever and house interest to
> deduct. I usually figure it so I break pretty close to even but
> got screwed this year, bad. The withholding rate was reduced as
> a last ditch effort by George Bush. I should have paid closer
> attention I guess.
>
> Mark
Actually you were probabl;y hit with Mr. Clinton's new taxes as much if not
more that the lower withholding rate. There is a two year grace period to
catch up because the taxes were retro-active. Of course the good side of
this is that you are and "Upper Class" citizen because our "Dear President"
said he would not raise taxes on the poor or the middle class.
Geoff
|
125.1601 | | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:50 | 24 |
| re <<< Note 125.1600 by SALES::GKELLER "An armed society is a polite society - RH" >>>
-< There is a 2 year grace period >-
>Actually you were probabl;y hit with Mr. Clinton's new taxes as much if not
>more that the lower withholding rate. There is a two year grace period to
>catch up because the taxes were retro-active. Of course the good side of
>this is that you are and "Upper Class" citizen because our "Dear President"
>said he would not raise taxes on the poor or the middle class.
Sorry Geoff, i don't think so. there is no way the tax increases by Clinton
caused for MNELSON to pay $2300 in taxes unless MNELSON makes $150000+. i'll
believe $150.00, but no way no how $2300 !
you seem to be all sour on Clinton. you think we would have been better off
with Bush? you are already going to be living the legacy of 12 yrs of
republican rule for the next 40 years 'cuz of some of those SC appointments.
THomas comes to mind. and, all this deficit crap, how do you expect to pay
for it? repubs/demos, it doesn't matter. they all have their own little
state programs they want funded by uncle sam. maybe by raising taxes, the
irresponsible (most of the american population, i think) americans will wake
up and start voting for things that effect them. what was the voter turnout
last time around? 45% ?
|
125.1602 | clinton=Bush=democan=republicrat=politics | 22441::GKELLER | An armed society is a polite society - RH | Tue Mar 22 1994 12:57 | 11 |
| the $2300 was probably a combination of both the lowered exemptions and the
raised taxes.
The ONLY difference between Clinton and Bush is that Mr. Clinton acts like
he is holier than thou and stands on some Moral high ground that neither
you nor I nor anyone else except his wife can reach.
They are both SCUM and I can thankfully say that I didn't waste my vote on
either of them.
Geoff
|
125.1603 | Get it off our chest | MAGPIE::SAMILJAN | | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:06 | 5 |
| re: -.1
Geoff, don't mince words. Tell us how you REALLY feel!
Bud
|
125.1604 | | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:12 | 14 |
| re<<< Note 125.1602 by 22441::GKELLER "An armed society is a polite society - RH" >>>
-< clinton=Bush=democan=republicrat=politics >-
>the $2300 was probably a combination of both the lowered exemptions and the
>raised taxes.
no way mon!
my gross income to fed tax ratio is about 18.2% (that is, I pay 18.2% of my
gross income to the feds). this is most likely a very high ratio when compared
to others (by this virtue, i pay more). 18.2% of $12,627 is $2300. 1) the
gov't didn't lower the redemptions anywhere near 12k !! and they didn't raise
the taxes anywhere near $2300...
|
125.1605 | | 21793::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:14 | 9 |
| I found '93 taxes to be at an equivalent rate to past years.
Nothing has really changed at all as far as tax rate for us.
My tax dude told me this is to be expected: they get their
money one way or the other. The repubs give ya less deductions,
but claim no increase in taxes; the dems might increase taxes
but they give you more deductions. It all works out the same.
/Ken
|
125.1606 | what are you talking about? | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Short arms, and deep pockets... | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:33 | 22 |
| The change in the deduction rate (the w-4 stuff) was Bush, not Clinton,
and I think that hit last year.
I can't really comment on the rates - I'm so overloaded with deductions
that my % rate of tax/income has always been totally skewed...but let's
take a simple example, ok?
Look at the tax tables for 1991, and 1993...Head of Household (that's
what I am)...and pick $40,000 taxable income, more or less at random.
How much taxes would you pay? In 1991, $7,658 - in 1993, $7,359...or
how about $30,000 taxable income? 1991: $4,858, 1993: $4,559...
Big difference...in our favor.
Oh, and by the way, if you have kids, the deduction on the 1040 went up
$200 per dependent from 1991 to 1993, so taxable income went down
too...
So, all things considered, I can't bitch. Sorry, but I didn't have my
1992 tables handy to compare year-to-year.
tim
|
125.1607 | | STUDIO::IDE | My mind's lost in a household fog. | Tue Mar 22 1994 13:54 | 8 |
| I took a look at this last night to find out what you all were talking
about. The personal deduction is a big difference, $3700 for
singles/$3100 for couples (per person). That's where the incentive to
buy a house comes in, then you itemize your deductions and put $12k or
more into that box. The combined incomes could also push you into a
higher tax bracket.
Jamie
|
125.1608 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Tue Mar 22 1994 14:33 | 19 |
| re: <<< Note 125.1607 by STUDIO::IDE "My mind's lost in a household fog." >>>
> The combined incomes could also push you into a higher tax bracket.
It's important (and nice;-) to note that if/when you get into
a higher tax bracket that only the portion which exceeds the
limit is taxed at the higher rate.
So say you have a combined income well below $80,000 (close to
the threshold for a higher rate) and suddenly that income increases
to say, $90,000. You are only taxed at the higher rate for the
amount over the threshold, in this case, $10,000. The 80K is
still taxed at the "old" rate.
At least this is what my tax guy told me, and I have reason to
believe his expertise.
/Ken
|
125.1609 | Use money now, pay taxes later | BSS::MNELSON | Won't ya try just a little bit harder | Tue Mar 22 1994 16:20 | 15 |
|
Howdy Geoff,
I am below the the minimum level for tax increases, even those
suggested by the GOP during election time. I have spoken with several
others who have used various accountants and have told the same story
regarding with change in withholdings. It was a last ditch effort by
Ex-pres Bush to boost the economy. I have no doubt that Clinton's tax
package will effect a much larger set of people than he projected.
However, I am not currently one of those effected by the plan. I fall
below the most pessimistic of numbers for those to be effected.
In one respect, I am glad to have had the use of the cash for the
year. The bummer is paying my debt.
Mark
|
125.1610 | | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:09 | 17 |
| re <<< Note 125.1609 by BSS::MNELSON "Won't ya try just a little bit harder" >>>
-< Use money now, pay taxes later >-
> In one respect, I am glad to have had the use of the cash for the
> year. The bummer is paying my debt.
you may also have to pay quarterly tax with a $2300 tax bill. i forget what
the metric is, something llike, if you owe more than 10% of your obligation,
you have to pay quarterly.....
with taxes, the idea is to owe no more than 10% of your obligation. if you
owe more, you have to deal with quarterly. if you are getting _any_ refund
at all, that translates into a interest-free loan to the gov't!! adjust your
withholding such that you owe the gov't vs. having the gov't owe you!
|
125.1611 | | BIODTL::JC | You know when your mouth is dry... | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:20 | 8 |
| Sorry I didn't go skiing today!!!
Whites got 12" +
Sugarloaf 18"
:-(
tomorrow it is supposed to be crappy.
|
125.1612 | I'd rather be skiing | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Wed Mar 23 1994 12:31 | 14 |
| <<< Note 125.1611 by BIODTL::JC "You know when your mouth is dry..." >>>
Sorry I didn't go skiing today!!!
>Whites got 12" +
>Sugarloaf 18"
I KNOW! I'm supposed to go Friday :^/ So I held off and when I was out
walking the dogs in the sun it was nice and warm.....
general NH report:
Supposed be ok tomorrow during day changing to rain in the afternoon
and continuing in to friday morning and clearing in the afternoon.
bob
|
125.1613 | That ain't no bummer to me!!! | MILKWY::HEADSL::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Wed Mar 23 1994 14:17 | 9 |
| I am Psyched!! 18" At tha loaf is no bummer what so ever! Since tomorrow is
the last work day before I spend a week there I am more than happy to hear
18"!
SO JC, what's this thing about post snow in the bummer note?
I really dig every thing in spring!!! especially skiing
Geoff
|
125.1614 | after you swallow that bird, have some pride for dessert | STRATA::DWEST | choose wisdom over intelligence... | Thu Mar 24 1994 19:49 | 9 |
|
set voice=homer
mmmMMMMMMMmmmm, Crow!!!!! yum yum.... thank you sir may
i have some more????
da ve_whose_whole_day_belongs_in_
this_note_but_is_heading_for_
some_bloody_mary's_almost_immediately
|
125.1615 | it won't die, nor be killed ;-) | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Fri Apr 22 1994 14:52 | 8 |
| My Sentra, which just turned over to 200,000 miles, was hit on the
way in this morning by a driver who swerved into my lane on a side-
street while trying to find a cigarette lighter :-( Took out the
right rear side panel.
But it still drives!
/Ken
|
125.1616 | | ECRU::CLARK | Chairman of the Bored | Fri Apr 22 1994 15:36 | 4 |
| Glad it's still alive, Ken!
I was astonished and amazed to witness a person reading a paperback while
driving on rte 495 a while ago ... sheesh.
|
125.1617 | the shavers and make-up appliers are real winners too... | STRATA::DWEST | each has it's own moment... | Fri Apr 22 1994 15:51 | 7 |
| not much surprises me on the road anymore... some real winners
out there... :^(
but i must admit, the woman who flashed her breasts at me one afternoon
still ranks pretty high on the list of *pleasant* surprises! :^)
da ve
|
125.1618 | | BIODTL::JC | Gimmie a shorty! | Fri Apr 22 1994 16:09 | 19 |
| re <<< Note 125.1617 by STRATA::DWEST "each has it's own moment..." >>>
-< the shavers and make-up appliers are real winners too... >-
> but i must admit, the woman who flashed her breasts at me one afternoon
> still ranks pretty high on the list of *pleasant* surprises! :^)
this once happened to me on route 2!!! man, that was the best way to
polish off an already great week!!! ya mon! it was friday, good week at
work, and i was just done with workin' out... i'm headin' home on route 2
to conkid and flash time!!!!!!
re: ken
sorry to hear that ken! BUT.... could work to your advantage. my bro
bought a junker car for $280 and drove it for about 2 yrs. one day, someone
plows into the already-falling-apart car. insurance company totals it and
cuts him a check for $600. talk about ROI!!!
|
125.1619 | not my day | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Fri Apr 22 1994 18:05 | 25 |
| Yeah, I could make out insurance-wise. I wonder what they'll offer ?
I also *need* to keep driving it till July, when another vehicle will
become available, so I hope to get *some* compensation and keep the car.
A check would be nice since I probably couldn't sell it now if I
wanted to. :-/
To make things worse, I fill out the accident report at the Marlboro
police. It says on it, "send original to registry, give copy to police".
I ask the police clerk to make a copy so I can do as instructed, and
she says, sure, for $5.00! "We're not a copy center". So I go to
WalMart up the street, and when I'm leaving (they didn't have a copier),
a gust of wind takes my report and sends it sailing across the parking
lot, and here I am looking like an idiot chasing a piece of paper all
over the damned place ;-)
It lands, a car drives over it, marks it up, and I finally retrieve it.
Sheesh!!
I think I'll go home soon and lock myself in a room, just to be safe
;-);-);-)
It could be worse though. 10-15 feet slower on my part, and it would
have been a head-on collision!
/Ken
|
125.1620 | $5.00 for copies, what a deal! | SALEM::LEBLANC | | Fri Apr 22 1994 18:11 | 5 |
| Ken
you should have told her your taxes paid her salary and for the damn
copies you needed.. unreal
chris
|
125.1621 | | AKOCOA::SMITH_D | simple twist of fate | Fri Apr 22 1994 18:36 | 8 |
|
re- JC
Man, I think I'll blast up and down Rt 2 for a while after
work!!!! ;-)
Deane_who_wishes_things_like_that_would_happen_to_him
|
125.1622 | Local Gov't At Work | BINKLY::CEPARSKI | Show Me Something Built To Last | Fri Apr 22 1994 18:36 | 3 |
| >>>$5.00 for copies
So that's where they get all the money for those fancy new cop cahs ;^)
|
125.1623 | | BIODTL::JC | Gimmie a shorty! | Mon Apr 25 1994 17:38 | 4 |
| speaking of cops (and digressing a bit), i saw a chase yesturday in concord
after mt biking. 2 young kids were in some beat up car trying to outrun the
cops... they did get busted.,.!
|
125.1624 | Believe it if you need it, leave it if you dare... | CARROL::YOUNG | where is this place in space??? | Tue Jun 07 1994 18:49 | 85 |
| Now for a bummer of a head trip...
From the WEEKLY WORLD NEWS, May 24, 1994
MOSCOW --
Doctors are blaming a rare electrical imbalance in the brain for the bizarre
death of a chess player whose head literally exploded in the middle of a
championship game!
No one else was hurt in the fatal explosion but four players and three
officials at the Moscow Candidate Masters' Chess Championships were
sprayed with blood and brain matter when Nikolai Titov's head suddenly blew
apart.
Experts say he suffered from a condition called Hyper-Cerebral Electrosis or
HCE.
"He was deep in concentration with his eyes focused on the board," says
Titov's opponent, Vladimir Dobrynin. "All of a sudden his hands flew to
his temples and he screamed in pain. Everyone looked up from their
games, startled by the noise. Then, as if someone had put a bomb in his
cranium, his head popped like a firecracker." Incredibly, Titiov's is not the
first case in which a person's head has spontaneously exploded. Five
people are known to have died of HCE in the last 25 years. The most
recent death occurred just three years ago in 1991, when European
psychic Barbara Nicole's skull burst. Miss Nicole's story was reported by
newspapers worldwide, including WWN. "HCE is an extremely rare
physical imbalance," said Dr. Anatoly Martinenko, famed neurologist and expert
on the human brain who did the autopsy on the brilliant chess expert.
"It is a condition in which the circuits of the brain become overloaded by
the body's own electricity. The explosions happen during periods of intense
mental activity when lots of current is surging through the brain.
Victims are highly intelligent people with great powers of concentration.
Both Miss Nicole and Mr. Titov were intense people who tended to keep those
cerebral circuits overloaded. In a way it could be said they were literally
too smart for their own good." Although Dr. Martinenko says there are probably
many undiagnosed cases, he hastens to add that very few people will die
from HCE.
"Most people who have it will never know. At this point, medical science
still doesn't know much about HCE. And since fatalities are so rare it
will probably be years before research money becomes available." In the
meantime, the doctor urges people to take it easy and not think too hard
for long periods of time. "Take frequent relaxation breaks when you're
doing things that take lots of mental focus," he recommends.
(As a public service, WWN added a sidebar titled HOW TO TELL IF YOUR
HEAD'S ABOUT TO BLOW UP:)
Although HCE is very rare, it can kill. Dr. Martinenko says knowing
you have the condition can greatly improve your odds of surviving it. A "yes"
answer to any three of the following seven questions could mean that you
have HCE:
1. Does your head sometimes ache when you think too hard? (Head pain can
indicate overloaded brain circuits.)
2. Do you ever hear a faint ringing or humming sound in your ears?
(It could be the sound of electricity in the skull cavity.)
3. Do you sometimes find yourself unable to get a thought out of
your head?
(This is a possible sign of too much electrical activity in the cerebral
cortex.)
4. Do you spend more than five hours a day reading, balancing your
checkbook, or other thoughtful activity? (A common symptom of HCE is
a tendency to over-use the brain.)
5. When you get angry or frustrated do you feel pressure in your
temples?
(Friends of people who died of HCE say the victims often complained
of head pressure in times of strong emotion.)
6. Do you ever overeat on ice cream, doughnuts and other sweets? (A
craving for sugar is typical of people with too much electrical pressure in
the cranium.)
7. Do you tend to analyze yourself too much? (HCE sufferers are
often introspective, "over-thinking" their lives.)
|
125.1625 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Tue Jun 07 1994 19:06 | 5 |
| I think Im gonna go home and watch some mindless MTV :') this should
save me from the HCS (know to people in music circles as Spinnel
Tap-itise) !
Chris
|
125.1626 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Tue Jun 07 1994 19:12 | 5 |
| oppps, that HCE ! I gotta headache.....yeah know this might throw off
the 2 shooter theory in the JFK killing ! but then again politicians
don't have minds to think with, so maybe Stone is right !
:')
|
125.1627 | Don't even think about it.... | CARROL::YOUNG | where is this place in space??? | Tue Jun 07 1994 19:48 | 3 |
| Well they say relaxing your brain is important so maybe 'stoned' is
right...ah anyway, might as well go home and 'relax' that dreaded HCE
away...*;')
|
125.1628 | | AKOCOA::SMITH_D | Anybody really know what time it is? | Mon Jun 13 1994 14:09 | 5 |
|
Ouch! :-(
Started off my week by helping carry boxes out to a TSFO'd employee's
car....today is not our day here in Mfg.
|
125.1629 | This might make you cry. | XLIB::REHILL | Mystery Hill | Tue Jun 21 1994 14:48 | 123 |
|
My wife has a cousin. Her name is Elaine Johnson. Her husband
is Bob Johnson. Bob presently owns a small company that grinds mirrors
for telescopes. Bob tells me that they are the ones that did the corrected
Hubble lense. I see no reason not to believe him.
Elaine and Bob have a son. Being the hippies that they are,
and being big fans of Bob Dylan, they named him Dylan Paul Johnson.
Dylan would have been 13 this August 8th. (Now you know why I'm
writing this).
Elaine and Bob live up in Vermont, just outside of
Brattleboro. Being close to the mountains, Dylan was a very active
young boy. He skied competitively, usually taking first place. He rode
his mountain bike through the woods. He was very interested in all
sorts of animals.
At the age of 10, Dylan started showing signs of heart
disease. He went to the hospital, underwent many tests, took much
medication, but he was too young. He needed a heart transplant, but
his body was too big for a children's heart, and too small for an
adults. The Doctors told him to take it easy, not to over do things, to
take his medication, and when he was 14 or 16, they would do the heart
transplant. The figured he would PROBABLY make it to 16.
But Dylan couldn't give up his ski racing, and his love of the
outdoors. He still raced, but he took it easy. Somehow he still
managed to take home first place.
Saturday, June 4th, Dylan slept over at his best friends
house. Sunday morning, the mother called Elaine to talk about picking
Dylan up. Mom said, "No big hurry, Dylan is still sleeping". Elaine
thought "Wow, 9:00 and he's still sleeping, they must have stayed up all
night talking, he doesn't sleep this late at home". Five minutes later
the phone rang, it was the mother, saying, "Something is wrong, we
called 911, Dylan is cold, and we can't wake him up".
It was too late, even though they took him to the hospital,
and tried to revive him. Dylan had died peacefully in his sleep
sometime that night.
Elaine and Bob, being the hippies that they are, living in a
hippie town, didn't want to have a wake and a funeral. They had a
memorial service, last Saturday, June 18th.
Being a close family, Mike and I, plus her sisters, and their
family all went up. Elaine and Bob own "The House on Solar Hill", and
just past the house is the Neighborhood School House, where Dylan went to
school. Everyone from the schoolhouse was at the memorial, which
was held at the local Congregational Church.
We entered the church to the sounds of Pink Floyd's "Wish You
Were Here". The Program said we were listening to a selection of
Dylan's favorite artist's and songs. The list included P-funk's "Maggot
Brain", Stevie Ray Vaughan doing "Little Wing", Hendrix doing "Red
House", Clapton doing "Presence Of The Lord", and others.
After the last song, Jane Sibury's "Calling All Angels", the
minister started the ceremony with a prayer. (This past Saturday, the
temperature was in the 90's, it was not comfortable in the church).
The minister then spoke of practicality. He told us where the Rest
Rooms were, he said if you needed to get up and walk, or get fresh
air, that would be fine. He mentioned that there were boxes of Kleenex
at the ends of most aisles, and we should feel free to help ourselves.
He spoke of death and mentioned this ceremony would involve
three things. It would involve Remembering, Grieving, and Sharing. He
said, just for this ceremony, the ground rules were: "its OK to cry,
to make sounds, to display emotion. It is important to grieve, and to
mourn, in order to get over this".
Then all Dylan's Schoolhouse classmates came forward and sang
two songs. One of them, they had written this week, just for Dylan.
This was an indication of what was to follow.
After the songs, Dylan's half-sister came forward to read a
poem, and share some remembrances. She told us of Dylan-ism's. For
example, one Christmas, Dylan handed his brother Robin a present, and
said "Open this now, its your basketball". This humor calmed Mari and
she was able to read her poem. The poem ended with:
"This isn't what I meant
When I said you'd grow to break hearts."
By now there wasn't a dry eye in the church.
Aunt Carol came forward, and read three poems she had written.
First the poem she wrote when Dylan was born, explaining his name
sakes, especially the powerful voice of revolution Bob Dylan. Then two
she wrote after his death. The first a thank you to Dylan. Carol
hadn't been able to write for about three years, and this broke her
block. The second, a remembrance of Dylan in the pine trees of Maine.
Brother Robin shared some of his thoughts on growing up with
Dylan. Again, the Dylan-ism's were present. He talked of swimming in
the Caribbean, the lakes in Maine and Vermont, and the ocean in Cape
Cod, of driving Dylan around, feeling like the world' best chauffeur.
Then the minister opened it to the full group to share.
I learned that Dylan was an accomplished poet, several of his
teachers read his poetry. He was a musician. He was a lover of
animals, always stopping by the pre-school to see what had been born,
and trying to figure a way to convince Elaine to let him have one.
He was an athlete, playing softball, soccor, whatever, and especially
skiing. He felt at home with the pre-school kids as well as his own
classmates, and he seemed to spend more time with the girls than with
the boys (Dylan-ism - I spend so much time with girls, do you think I
might be a woman in a boy's body?).
Many of his classmates shared their remembrances, not always
an easy thing for a 12 year old to do in a crowd of 100 adults.
A young classmate said:
"Dylan was a pest. He always sat in front of me, and wouldn't
move. I haven't gotten rid of all my pests yet, but I wouldn't mind if
I had this one back".
Rest in Peace Dylan Paul Johnson, in 12 years you've lived
more than many people I've known.
|
125.1630 | :^( | STRATA::DWEST | riding on Blaine the Mono... | Tue Jun 21 1994 15:08 | 4 |
| wow... vibes to Dylan and all who knew him... may you all find some
peace...
da ve
|
125.1631 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | ain't no luck, i learned to duck! | Tue Jun 21 1994 16:01 | 3 |
| > -< This might make you cry. >-
yup. It did.
|
125.1632 | | MKOTS3::ROBERTS_CR | the evening sky grew dark | Tue Jun 21 1994 17:18 | 4 |
|
thanks, mystery ... helps me get a grip on what's real
|
125.1633 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Jun 21 1994 17:29 | 3 |
| had to get out of this right after reading as I had no idea what to say...
good vibes to all involved.
rfb
|
125.1634 | | AKOCOA::SMITH_D | Anybody really know what time it is? | Tue Jun 21 1994 17:41 | 4 |
|
Sounds like this fellow left some real nice memories to the people
he left behind. I admire those who can find positivness in times
of loss and mourning. Vibed to all of them!
|
125.1635 | ... | SALES::GKELLER | Stop Global Whining | Tue Jun 21 1994 19:01 | 8 |
| Jim,
That was a wonderful write-up of a very touching day. I've got tears in my
eyes as I write this, for Dylan, and for his family. Tears of sorrow that
a wonderful person is gone, and tears of joy that there are people who make
everyone around them so happy.
Geoff
|
125.1636 | :^( | BSS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Tue Jun 21 1994 19:14 | 10 |
|
Thanks for the write too. It certainly does put life in perspective.
One thing I always try to remember is that life is finite. Tell those
that you love that you love them. You never know when it might be the
last chance to say I love You.
It was really grate that Dylan had an impact on those around him. Sad
he is gone. More vibes to those who loved him.
Mark
|
125.1637 | live for today | MAGEE::OSTIGUY | | Tue Jun 21 1994 19:16 | 1 |
| sad story for sure...I'm sure Dylan is resting in peace
|
125.1638 | 8-( | MVLMC1::shawn | Guard with jealous attention the public liberty... -Patick Hnry | Tue Jun 21 1994 19:50 | 5 |
| ..sad story for sure. Vibes to all who share time with Dylan.
Shawn
|
125.1639 | | BIODTL::JC | positive vibration | Tue Jun 21 1994 20:30 | 2 |
|
peace............
|
125.1640 | Gone on before us... | CARROL::YOUNG | where is this place in space??? | Tue Jun 21 1994 20:44 | 1 |
| ...everlasting peace Dylan...we be thar before too long...
|
125.1641 | | MR4MI2::REHILL | Call Me Mystery Hill | Wed Jun 22 1994 00:00 | 10 |
| The memorial is something that will stay with me for a long time.
I knew Grateful was the place to share that story with. I still
keep hearing Mari say:
"This isn't what I meant when I said you'd break hearts"....
And to echo and earlier statement, make sure those you love know you
love them!
|
125.1642 | Adios Colorado | BSS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Fri Aug 12 1994 15:30 | 13 |
|
Today is my last day of work in Colorado. I'll be packing up the truck
this weekend. Pass papers on my house on Monday morning and start driving
after dropping Lisa and the kids off at the airport.
I'll miss the hell out of Colorado and the folks I've met here. Thanks
for the times and guidance. Sometimes you get shown the light in the
strangest of places. We'll cross paths again I'm sure.
I'll miss the beautiful sights, beautiful weather, and grate folks
Peace and love to you all
Mark
|
125.1643 | sad indeed Im sure | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Fri Aug 12 1994 15:41 | 9 |
| hey what are we chopped liver ?
:')
well we here in the east will try to live up to those standards
Welcome friend
Chris
|
125.1644 | | BSS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Fri Aug 12 1994 16:06 | 7 |
|
Chopped Liver, not at all.
Just remeniscing (sp) about Colorado. I'll
add a good news not later, once I get myself under composure.
Mark
|
125.1645 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Aug 12 1994 16:33 | 4 |
| if youse guys do any hangin with MNELSON, your liver WILL be chopped!!!
%^)
rfb
|
125.1646 | | SLOHAN::FIELDS | Strange Brew | Fri Aug 12 1994 16:36 | 3 |
| thanks for the warning rfb !
:')
|
125.1647 | no comparison :-) | NACAD2::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Fri Aug 12 1994 17:28 | 10 |
| re: <<< Note 125.1642 by BSS::MNELSON "Inspiration, move me Brightly" >>>
>I'll miss the hell out of Colorado and the folks I've met here. Thanks
>I'll miss the beautiful sights, beautiful weather, and grate folks
Ahh, Hudson blows Colorado away!
adam
ps. :-)
|
125.1648 | your right | BSS::DSMITH | A Harley, & the Dead the good life | Fri Aug 12 1994 18:44 | 12 |
|
Hey Adam
What you been drink'n back there? The water....
. .
,
\___/
Divide Dave
|
125.1649 | i can't believe i screwed up so badly | PONDA::64423::BELKIN | i want to tell you | Fri Aug 12 1994 20:58 | 32 |
|
Everybody all together now,
"hey Josh, it sucks to be you!"
I just realized (from reading a post in r.m.gd) that I send in Shawmuut Bank
money orders for the fall tour, NOT Amex or Postal money orders.
I ordered 2 tix for the Fri/Sat MSG, and 2 tix for each of the Boston shows.
ohhh f***********************************!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i wanna kill myself....
called Fog for a reality check, and reality bites!
called the GDTS problem line, they said I can redo my order (correctly this
time), put 3 index cards, 3 money orders, 3 SASE's in ONE envelope addressed
to GDST-Problems
P.O. Box 9812
with a letter explaining my situation, and throwing myself to their mercy.
aaaaaauuuuuugggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
They said they'll be doing the Boston mail order next week, so if I got it in
the mail real soon I might have chance.
I can't to it today though, can't get to the bank and then the PO before the
PO closes.. damn.. have to do it tomorrow..
I got MOSSSS ... Mail Order Stupid Sucker Suicide Syndrome.....
Josh
|
125.1650 | My letter to GDTs | PONDA::NOKNOK::BELKIN | i want to tell you | Fri Aug 12 1994 21:39 | 44 |
| Dear Grateful Dead Ticket Sales:
I have been mail ordering for about as long as you've been doing the
mail order. I finally screwed up my order, and I throw myself at your
feet begging for mercy (and tickets).
Being enet-connected, I got word of the fall tour mail order very
soon after it was announced. I printed out someone's post summarizing the
myriad details and very carefully filled out the index cards and envelopes,
"as per usual". Then I went to the bank and bought money orders. Not AMEX
or postal money orders, just regular Shawmut Bank money orders. Blissfully
stuffed them in my envelopes, and postmarked the Boston and Madison Sq. Garden
orders on the correct days.
I just was reading in the enet's rec.music.gdead newsgroup about some
poor guy who sent his wife to get the money orders because he landed in the
emergency room. She got BANK money orders.... thats when I realized I
screwed up too!
I just called you folks up, and you advised me that I might have
a chance if I redo my order (correctly, of course!) and get it to you ASAP.
This is what you are holding in your hands now: three index cards, SASEs,
and money orders, for 2 tix to each of the 6 Boston Garden shows, and 2 tix
to each of Friday/Sat. (10/14,15) MSG shows.
I feel particularly dumb and bone-headed about all this, because I
realize you must institute a closely-adhered-to system in order to deal with
the sheer volume of ticket requests. A kind of natural selection, which I,
this one time, have failed :-(
I thought I was the cool dude
Never could do no order wrong
Had everything posted up tight
I smugly lay sleeping all night long
Just one think I ask of you, just one thing for me,
Please ignore my screwed-up order
My darling G D T S order referee
(hey, that rhymes, right? :-)
Faithfully yours,
Josh Belkin
|
125.1651 | GOOD LUCK JOSH! | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Fri Aug 12 1994 22:14 | 3 |
| send a picture too Josh...with a real hang-dog look on yer face...%^)
rfb
|
125.1652 | | TOOK::PECKAR | sleep tight | Mon Aug 15 1994 14:40 | 6 |
|
> send a picture too Josh...with a real hang-dog look on yer face...%^)
That should do the trick...
Good luck Josh...
|
125.1653 | :^( | STRATA::DWEST | riding on Blaine the Mono... | Fri Aug 26 1994 19:57 | 4 |
| can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
da ve_in_agony
|
125.1654 | | POWDML::PENTLICKI | | Fri Aug 26 1994 20:16 | 8 |
|
> can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
> supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
I've never had one, but an old girlfriend had 4, yikes! And
yes, she was miserable for a long time
Steve
|
125.1655 | Could be worse, could be raining...;-) | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Into the night, an angel to be... | Fri Aug 26 1994 20:23 | 5 |
| Yeah, da ve, after the novacaine wears off, it can hurt for a few days.
Look at the bright side: it's only a root canal, not a vasectomy! ;-)
tim
|
125.1656 | | SALES::GKELLER | Access for all | Fri Aug 26 1994 20:29 | 4 |
| I've never had a root canal, but from what people tell me it sounds alot
more painful thana vasectomy.
Geoff
|
125.1657 | :( | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Sat Aug 27 1994 15:31 | 12 |
| >> can anyone here, who has had a root canal, tell me if it's still
>> supposed to hurt two days after the fact???
I had one many years ago, but my dentist never believed in using
novicane and therefore the whole root canal HURT really bad. I was
brought up with this dentist so I didn't know that novicane existed.
To make a long story short, yes it hurt a few days after the root
canal.
A few weeks later, I got an infected jaw from the ordeal and
my right cheek puffed out like the elephant man. That was not fun.
|
125.1658 | | SSGV01::TPNSTN::Strobel | bag it tag it | Mon Aug 29 1994 13:41 | 4 |
| fwiw, the root canal I had bothered me for about a day. The gum was still a
bit tender for a couple of days after that, but no real pain.
jeff
|
125.1659 | absess!!! ouch!!! | STRATA::DWEST | riding on Blaine the Mono... | Mon Aug 29 1994 14:22 | 13 |
| well, since i know that you are all very much concerned for my health
and welfar, i figured i'd give you an update... :^)
i left friday and called the dentist... he asked me to describe the
feeling and i told him "it's like i got punched in the face"...
he had me come in and sure enough, it had absessed... so i cancelled
my friday night plans and stayed home with a bottle of scotch and
a bottle of prescription pain killers... :^) a DRASTIC improvement
over the day before...
so for this week, da ve's drugs of choice are penicillin and vicatin...
da ve :^)
|
125.1660 | he's a sicko | PONDA::64423::BELKIN | i want to tell you | Mon Aug 29 1994 15:37 | 18 |
| da ve,
you can take some small comfort in the fact that Bob Wier would rather have
root canal that write lyrics ;-). Yup its a true fact I read it in the
"Bob Weir" entry in the new book "Skeleton Key", the deadhead dictionary.
danielle,
your old dentist was (is?) a certified sadist. I think he got off on a power
trip of putting little girls in pain. I bet his favorite movie scene
is in "Marathon Man" where Laurence Oliver the Nazi tortures Dustin Hoffman
by drilling his front teeth with a Dremel tool.
My dad's a dentist, and I can't imagine _any_ drilling etc. of any sort
without anathestics. Root canal without pain killers is absolutely
inexcusible. I can't imagine this so-called dentist being taugh in dental
school _not_ to use pain killers for root canal!
josh
|
125.1661 | | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Mon Aug 29 1994 15:58 | 6 |
| >> danielle,
>> your old dentist was (is?) a certified sadist. I think he got off on a
>> power trip of putting little girls in pain.
He was really old, and I think he was "stuck in the old ways", if the
old ways meant not using novicane. I grew up hating the dentist. :)
|
125.1662 | | MONTOR::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Mon Aug 29 1994 16:00 | 12 |
| On root canals, a lot depends on the state of the nerve as far as I know.
I had a root canal done on a front tooth about 20 years ago, and it was
no problem/little pain. The dentist said the nerve was totally dead.
I've found some drilling and filling cavities to be much worse. When
the nerve is live, I guess that's a different story, and root canals
can be more painful.
re: Danielle
It should be up to the patient, not the dentist, as to novacaine and stuff!
/Ken
|
125.1663 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Aug 29 1994 16:08 | 1 |
| percodan!!!!
|
125.1664 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Into the night, an angel to be... | Mon Aug 29 1994 16:17 | 7 |
| > percodan!!!!
Truer words were never spoken.
Is it safe yet? ;-)
tim
|
125.1665 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Mon Aug 29 1994 16:39 | 6 |
| my dentist just called to remind me I have an apt at noon for
drilling....that's why i entered my note,,,,safe???? just don't
drive....
rfb
|
125.1666 | | NETCAD::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Tue Oct 18 1994 12:47 | 15 |
| Well, it's about time I put a note in here.
You all heard about my latest tragedy. I slipped on the stairs at the Garden
and sprained my ankle and broke my fibula just above the ankle. The bone was
re-set with a few screws and a plate during some out-patient surgery. The bone
has healed perfectly and now I am concentrating on the sprain. I have to wear
a leg brace until Nov. 14 at which time I am a free man. I'll hopefully start
some kind of therapy at that time to help heal the ankle, since my foot is
pretty stiff and I only have about half the range of motion I should. But I'm
walking with a cane now and there's no pain unless I try to stretch my muscles
too much.
Funny thing, this thing called life.
adam
|
125.1667 | | STOWOA::JOLLIMORE | Culture out the wazoo | Tue Oct 18 1994 13:01 | 11 |
| > <<< Note 125.1666 by NETCAD::SIEGEL "The revolution wil not be televised" >>>
^^^
|||
Pushin ur luck, ain'tcha? ;-)
I'd hold out for a SkyBox(tm). Or at least a lifetime Annie Oakly
for ALL Dead shows. ;-)
Bummer. Glad you're healing ok.
Jay
|
125.1668 | !@#$%^& and then back to something pleasant... | ALFA1::DWEST | but i play one on tv... | Fri Oct 28 1994 20:07 | 13 |
|
can i just jump in here for a minute to bitch about life??? i mean,
in general it's a wonderful thing, but this afternoon it really
sucks to be me... :^(
no, i don't want to talk about it... i just want to bitch for a minute
and then go break something...
da ve_who_would_be_a_lot_happier_
with_one_aspect_of_life_if_decpc_
466_MTE_machines_had_PCI_slots
|
125.1669 | Keep da faith! | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Integrate! | Fri Oct 28 1994 20:53 | 8 |
|
Keep yer chin up, da ve!!!!!
>B-|
^^^^
My Give_Em_Hell(tm) smiley! :-)
- jeff
|
125.1670 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Thu Dec 15 1994 13:20 | 10 |
| My Army son calls us this morning to inform us he will be going
to Haiti for 6 weeks or 6 months, and he leaves Ft. Drum, Friday
evening..... eariler in the week he was coming home for Christmas.
The Army has some interesting parallels to this place, in terms of
communication, scheduling, etc....
|
125.1671 | | BINKLY::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Thu Dec 15 1994 14:12 | 7 |
| >> My Army son calls us this morning to inform us he will be going
>> to Haiti for 6 weeks or 6 months, and he leaves Ft. Drum, Friday
>> evening..... eariler in the week he was coming home for Christmas.
:(:(
BTW, I grew up in Watertown, NY, which is right next to Ft. Drum...
|
125.1672 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Thu Dec 15 1994 14:43 | 14 |
| RE: Fort Drum
re: BTW, I grew up in Watertown, NY, which is right next to Ft. Drum...
My family is from Potsdam/Watertown (Whitehall too). Mike Rogers is from
Potsdam as is Randy Switts.
And I lived in Canton for 3 years....
bob
Sorry to hear your son is not going to be home for the holidays....it could be
much worse though ....Bosnia/Middle east...
|
125.1673 | | LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADY | Stop The Violins. | Mon Dec 19 1994 11:49 | 9 |
| > The Army has some interesting parallels to this place, in terms of
> communication, scheduling, etc....
...and this surprises you?
Same reason(s).
tim
|
125.1674 | | BIODTL::JC | don't criticize it | Wed Dec 21 1994 01:53 | 14 |
| well, our group is dwinding in size rapidly...
it is really kinda sad, kinda like the exodus that
has occurred here for the last 3 yrs...
we've lost 6 people in 3-4 weeks. all attrition.
all moving on to new things... kiunda sad. i almost
moved on myself but digital answered and made it
worth my while to remain....
we're just about to release a v1.0 product... the
demand is unreal.. can't understand why people are
cruising... oh well...
|
125.1675 | | BIODTL::JC | Green is the colour | Tue Feb 21 1995 16:41 | 2 |
| A friend and sometimes-work collegue of mine died last night of cancer.
may he rest in piece.
|
125.1676 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Feb 21 1995 16:46 | 5 |
| I'm sorry to hear that JC....think of him often and keep him alive in
yer head and heart..how old was he? (if that's not too offensive of a
question)
rfb
|
125.1677 | | TRLIAN::DUGGAN | | Tue Feb 21 1995 18:03 | 4 |
| That's a bummer... My condolences to you, and to his family...
...mike
|
125.1678 | | BIODTL::JC | Green is the colour | Tue Feb 21 1995 19:44 | 3 |
| about 45 yrs old.
3 kids too.
sad.
|
125.1679 | | CXDOCS::BARNES | | Tue Feb 21 1995 19:50 | 3 |
| very sad, JC...right around the corner for some of us to, age wise..
live life to the fullest but be careful, one never knows when ones time
is up....
|
125.1680 | | STOWOA::JOLLIMORE | Food for a crow | Wed Feb 22 1995 10:42 | 2 |
| yeah, what rfb sed: live life to it's fullest each day.
and may he rest in peace.
|
125.1681 | Now where'd I park my car? | OBJRUS::SLOAN | Tell ME all that 'cha know | Fri Jul 21 1995 18:33 | 11 |
|
My new car (just 200 miles) was towed out of bank parking lot last
night. I did get to catch slipknot but it was a very expensive
night. It's bummer when you come out dancing only to find your
car has disappeared.
I forgot that Boston towing companies are busy everywhere
trying to make money while we're out playing. Just
not enough legal parking spots to go around ..
Cath
|
125.1682 | :( | WILLEE::OSTIGUY | | Wed Aug 30 1995 19:12 | 10 |
| Bummer...I comeback to work this morning after hangin' at Lake Tahoe,
I walk into my office expecting to see my Lake Tahoe calendar staring
me in the face...
IT's GONE ???!!! either someone is playing a bad joke on me, or it
fell in my basket (which the calendar hung directly over) and the
cleaning folks didn't care to notice it was the Only thing in the
basket (seeing I'm on vaca) and threw it away...
Drag
|
125.1683 | Wallowing in the mire | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Tue Jan 16 1996 13:29 | 7 |
|
School starts tonight. Talk about heavy depression...tempted to get
liquored up before class.
This semester: - Accounting 1 (barf bags being handed out at the door)
- Pascal Programming (as exciting as driving a 1972 Dodge Dart
up Mt Washington Auto road)
|
125.1684 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Tue Jan 16 1996 13:49 | 2 |
|
Pascal!! Did they already teach you C?
|
125.1685 | Could be worse...could be COBOL | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Tue Jan 16 1996 20:13 | 6 |
| > - Pascal Programming (as exciting as driving a 1972 Dodge Dart
> up Mt Washington Auto road)
What is this, a history class?
Dan
|
125.1686 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Wed Jan 17 1996 12:52 | 6 |
|
Apparently PASCAL is the way they teach novice programmers.
I ended up bagging Accounting which was not a core course. Replaced
it with Psychology which I have absolutely no interest in but it is
needed for all Mgmt. courses.
|
125.1687 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Wed Jan 17 1996 13:22 | 4 |
|
> [...] Psychology which [...] is needed for all Mgmt. courses
Something about this strikes me as incredibly funny.
|
125.1688 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Jan 17 1996 13:44 | 9 |
| re; [...] Psychology which [...] is needed for all Mgmt. courses
Something about this strikes me as incredibly funny.
funny in a sad and disturbed way when I think of the Psychology
manager types around here in CXO use...freakin ironic, i'd say
rfb
|
125.1689 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Wed Jan 17 1996 13:57 | 1 |
| same reason i liked Pulp Fiction ;-)
|
125.1690 | Cie la Vie | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Wed Jan 17 1996 14:06 | 4 |
|
Speaking of Pulp Fiction....what is the name of the catagory of that
soundtrack music?????????? My Mother told me and I've forgotten. I'd
like to participate in that music more often.
|
125.1691 | Hurtin pretty bad | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Sat Jan 20 1996 13:49 | 8 |
|
Got a call late last nite about one of my aunts.
She's dying of Cancer and the MD says there is nothing he can do
The worst part is she went through Chemo & Radiation last year
and it (Cancer) was in remission....
Toby 8-( 8-( 8-(
|
125.1692 | sad | RECV::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Sat Jan 20 1996 16:17 | 6 |
| Toby
I hope that your Aunt does not have to suffer too much.
Best wishes to you and your family.
Cath
|
125.1693 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Couldn't stand the weather | Mon Jan 22 1996 10:33 | 7 |
| :-( sorry, toby.
remind her that her own mind is more powerful than any MD.
tell her not to give away her power.
and that she is in our prayers.
jay
|
125.1694 | heading your way | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Jan 22 1996 11:22 | 4 |
| good vibes to your family my man..
chris
|
125.1695 | healing vibes... | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Mon Jan 22 1996 12:45 | 4 |
| vibes for you and yours bud... i've been watching another friend deal
with cancer in his step-daughter... it's a tough one for everyone...
da ve
|
125.1696 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Jan 22 1996 13:14 | 3 |
| rough stuff Toby...hang in there. Vibes and much peace to your aunt.
rfb
|
125.1697 | | AD::CHARNOKY | The time has come, the walrus said | Mon Jan 22 1996 13:31 | 3 |
| bad history of cancer in my family, too. your aunt is in my thoughts.
noky
|
125.1698 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Mail Ordered Husband | Mon Jan 22 1996 13:50 | 4 |
|
...vibes of peace, comfort, and strength comin' your way, Toby...
- jeff
|
125.1699 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Mon Jan 22 1996 13:55 | 2 |
|
More vibes heading to you and your family. Peace and healing
|
125.1700 | | STAR::ECOMAN::DEBESS | Wake Now, Discover... | Mon Jan 22 1996 14:43 | 12 |
|
Toby - even here without seeing you in person, your pain is evident.
I'm glad you came here for solace because it seems to be a caring
bunch of people who will hold you in their thoughts. Hope there's
someone close by who can give you a real hug and let you cry on
their shoulder. And I hope you are able to let your aunt know how
much you care about her.
and, I hope she is in peace right now.
take care,
Debess
|
125.1701 | Still hanging in there | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Wed Jan 24 1996 12:54 | 5 |
|
Thanks for all the good vibes folks I relly needed them!!!
Toby
|
125.1702 | | STAR::ECOMAN::DEBESS | Wake Now, Discover... | Wed Jan 24 1996 16:14 | 5 |
|
...just walked past a window...it's POURING out there...and
the snow is disappearing quickly...I know that makes some people
happy, but to me, it's a major bummer.
|
125.1703 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Wed Jan 24 1996 16:23 | 2 |
|
I miss complaining about the snow and giving JC a hard time!
|
125.1704 | | SALEM::MARTIN_S | Perpetual Smile... | Fri Feb 02 1996 14:30 | 10 |
|
I am bummed today.
My wife (who works for DEC @ MKO) is being sent to HOLLAND (Digital)
for a month! She takes off this afternoon.
No fair. A week would be no problem. Two weeks: enough. But a month?
Just me and Jaz (she's only 15 months old).
It's gonna be a rough month...
Steve-O_bummmed
|
125.1705 | good luck | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Feb 02 1996 14:55 | 12 |
|
That is a bummer Steve. Hope you have lots of family/friend support
for you and JAZ.
Can't you get DEC to send you over for a long weekend at least?
Call your travel agent to see if there's any deals going on if
not. This time of year the prices get pretty low to England. Then
maybe you could take a train to Holland - look in this sunday's globe.
Maybe you could meet up in Amsterdam for a wild weekend ;).
Cath
|
125.1706 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Feb 02 1996 15:16 | 3 |
| I DO NOT envy you....keep da faith!
rfb
|
125.1707 | and Mom will be home! | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:02 | 3 |
| chin up little buckaroo... :^) it'll be march before you know it...
da ve
|
125.1708 | Inquiring minds wanna know | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:11 | 1 |
| do men instantly become helpless when they marry?
|
125.1709 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:24 | 1 |
| no.
|
125.1710 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:32 | 2 |
|
it takes longer than that
|
125.1711 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Mail Ordered Husband | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:51 | 5 |
|
Steve-O, mon, I sympathize. My wife, Dori, was in CA for twelve months.
- jeff
|
125.1712 | | SPSEG::COVINGTON | I drive for music. | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:53 | 5 |
|
I'm not married and I'm already helpless...
Well, I can feed myself if you give me five bucks, but that's about it.
|
125.1713 | | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:53 | 2 |
| i dunno... i know a number of women who would claim that men are
helpless long before they marry... :^)
|
125.1714 | | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Feb 02 1996 16:55 | 1 |
| oopps! notes collision... :^)
|
125.1715 | Even though it's a Leap year | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Fri Feb 02 1996 17:25 | 8 |
|
Hang in there Steve at least the Month is the shortest one of
the year.
Peace,
Toby
|
125.1716 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Fri Feb 02 1996 17:38 | 3 |
| I know the reverse problems with travel (30%) for me, use to be
50%, good luck, a month can be long, but I would rather be home
than on the road for the month.
|
125.1717 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Fri Feb 02 1996 17:42 | 7 |
| > I would rather be home than on the road for the month.
cuz you're not married to steve-o.
his wife was last seen dancing her way to the airport with the
perpetual smile.
;-) ;-)
|
125.1718 | | AWECIM::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Fri Feb 02 1996 18:32 | 12 |
| re: Leblanc
It's not marriage, it's caring for young kids 101% of your time that
takes its toll.
re: <<< Note 125.1711 by SUBPAC::MAGGARD "Mail Ordered Husband" >>>
> Steve-O, mon, I sympathize. My wife, Dori, was in CA for twelve months.
And you're kidless!
/Ken
|
125.1719 | feh | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 18:37 | 51 |
| Ok, it's flame time.
I, for one, am getting very, very weary of the growing popularity in our
culture to slam men. Television, film, the news media, and virtually every
aspect of our society today takes great glee in portraying men as evil fools,
while their female counterparts are noble heroes... I'm probably just a
little cranked up because of events in my personal life over the past year or
five, but I tell you I see it everywhere.
Deadbeat dads. Never heard of a deadbeat mom.
Wife beaters. Husband beaters are funny.
I don't even want to start talking about child custody laws.
Single fathers whose kids show up at school with a bruise or a black eye find
their kids being interrogated by the school nurse, "does your father hit you".
Yes, it does happen - it happened to mine, and more than once. Why? Because
the schools are run by WOMEN!
TV sitcom husbands are invariably amiable buffoons, and foils for their wiley
wives or significant others.(Tim Allen, Roseann, etc) Men can't make
commitments, but women are born for it. My ass! My kids asked me to rent a
movie last night, so I rented Nine Months (Hugh Grant). Slapstick comedy, but
what a vile image of manhood! A woman gets pregnant, decides to keep the
baby, and then manipulates the shit out of her boyfriend, who is already
scared shitless, and completely without any choice except to go along or lose
both her and the child. All the while, he is portrayed as a spineless,
hapless fool. What crap!
I'm tired of it all. If people of color as a class strata were portrayed
today this way (and they WERE in the forties and fifties) there would be an
outcry!
I got a hint of this watching that first episode of "Third Rock from the Sun"
a couple weeks ago. The male lead (John Lithgow) kisses the female lead (Jane
Curtin) unexpectedly, and without explicit invitation, but nevertheless
without malice or agression either. She slaps him. He slapped her back. It
was slapstick(he's an alien, unaware of our customs), but it got me thinking:
Good for him! If roles had been reversed, and he slapped her for kissing him,
he'd be in jail.
I'm just so sick of hearing about the poor, heroic lot of women as subjugates
of the bumbling, malicious, potentially violent, selfish men in our society,
it really ticks me off.
I feel much better now.
Thanks.
tim
|
125.1720 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Fri Feb 02 1996 18:53 | 2 |
|
typical male grousing ;-)
|
125.1721 | but seriously | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:04 | 18 |
|
Actually, Tim, I've felt this way my whole life! - the women's
liberation movement (which I wholeheartedly support) began
when I was a teenager. I learned early that males are brutes
and only interested in One Thing, scum that we are.
I also have a friend who is having a majorly bad time with
DSS and it sure looks like male bashing to me (they assume
he beats his kids because his wife said so; meanwhile he won
legal custody of his kids, his ex doesn't even get visitation
rights. That was in the court - which is not where DSS
conflicts play out).
We can rightly blame the excesses of the past, but I also think the
pendulum is starting to swing back (towards true equality). I think
it's the same thing in race relations.
Tom
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125.1722 | no comprendez | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:23 | 24 |
|
OK Tim why now? Is this your way of telling SteveO that you
sympathize with taking care of his child(ren) on his own.
You may be sick of how men are protrayed in movies, film, life,
but think if even in 50% what is protrayed in the tv/films/media
is true how sick the victims are of the men that act that way, ie.
wife/children abuse.
Even us baby boomers still have a lot of the
old hangups about roles women and men play in life and families
inherited over the generation. I personally think it's more
alchohol, drug abuse, and chemical imbalance/mental instability
that drive people (regardless of gender) to abuse others.
In any case I don't think men have it any worse off than women.
Life has it's share of problems and coping skills are important.
Oh ya, woman still don't run the schools, most of the 'power
positions' are still held by men, but that's another story.
Cath
|
125.1723 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:24 | 21 |
| I see and hear it all the time, and it's getting very old.
I'm sick of the newly "empowered" woman, rising from the oppressive
male-dominated, glass-ceilinged society. BFD. Instead of actually seeing a
new collection of strong, self-secure and mature women, it seems like there
are just a lot more insecure, relationship-paranoid, self-absorbed women with
a sense of entitlement, as if the world owes them a life because Newsweek said
so. What an improvement.
It isn't that I don't believe there has been a great deal of oppression and
gender discrimination. I know, first hand, and probably better than most
women in the U.S., exactly what it's like to be faced with the generally
accepted social attitude that I'm not good enough simply because of my gonads.
I've been a single father for five years. I think I have more empathy than
most white males for those who suffer from discrimination. That's not my
point.
My concern is with the deification of womanhood and the demonization of men.
There's nothing equal about that...and equal is the only thing I'll tolerate.
tim
|
125.1724 | good luck | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:33 | 11 |
|
Re: I'm probably just a little cranked up because of events
in my personal life over the pastyear or five, but I tell
you I see it everywhere.
guess I can see where you're coming from Tim. I hope that
you are able to rise above your hostility towards women
and meet someone that proves you wrong sometime soon ..
there's still a few out there that are not screwed up by bad
experiences.
|
125.1725 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:39 | 41 |
| >You may be sick of how men are protrayed in movies, film, life,
>but think if even in 50% what is protrayed in the tv/films/media
>is true how sick the victims are of the men that act that way, ie.
>wife/children abuse.
There is a growing stereotype in the media of the evil male. Women
abuse JUST AS OFTEN AS MEN DO...but popular media makes us think
that it's a gender-specific malady. It's NOT!!! Women are just
as capable of abusing men and children as men are, AND THEY DO SO
JUST AS OFTEN! Why don't you believe this? Because the media
tells you otherwise...
>In any case I don't think men have it any worse off than women.
>Life has it's share of problems and coping skills are important.
Really? If you kiss me, and I slap you, I go to jail. The other
way around, and it's just humor. In fact,
you can probably get away with a hell of a lot more violence
against me, simply because you're female, than if our roles were
reversed. This isn't about coping skills. It's about equality.
Women are NOT being portrayed in the media as buffoons, slobs, or
irresponsible mistriant vagabonds, but men are every day.
>Oh ya, woman still don't run the schools, most of the 'power
>positions' are still held by men, but that's another story.
You don't have kids, you're not a man, and you haven't been there. I
have. Most of the people who work in the child 'industry', i.e.
schools, child care, and caretakers in general, are women. The VAST
majority. Many, many of them have a real problem with men being
primary caregivers. I have had no less than six female so-called
educators interject themselves into my family life with intent to
change it, and influence my custody arrangement, an arrangement that I
achieved simply by mutual agreement with my ex-wife. They had no
business doing that. Every single school that my children have
attended, and that's a total of FIVE schools, has seen fit to question
the validity of my role as primary caregiver and custodial parent,
PURELY because I'm male. They have ALL been women. Women don't run
the schools? Bullshit.
tim
|
125.1726 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:46 | 22 |
| >I hope that
>you are able to rise above your hostility towards women
>and meet someone that proves you wrong sometime soon .
C'mon, Cath, that sounds awfully condescending. It isn't an issue of
my having a chip on my shoulder, and simply need to meet a "good
woman". That's irrelevent.
The fact is that men are being discriminated against in the media and
society as a whole, often in ways that would never be accepted if the
target of the discrimination was female, black, hispanic,
gay/lesbian/bisexual, Jewish, or whatever. Discrimination and a media
that encourages it, is intolerable. I, for one, am tired of seeing
caricatures of people who look just like me being portrayed as the
subject of ridicule. It effects me in my every day life in the way
that people, especially women, treat ME because they're buying the
bullshit. It also undermines the self image of men and boys, like my
13 year old son, who see the subtle message that because they're
masculine, they're not as good as women. The message is definitely
there, and it's wrong.
tim
|
125.1727 | | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:48 | 19 |
|
Tim -
I do think you have sound reasoning and that your experiences
are valid.
My point about school systems is they may be the majority
employeed but they ARE the minority in positions that pay
and don't get promoted as high up the ladder as men.
Sorry that you've had so much turmoil for being a single
male parent...
I don't think it's necessary to remind me or others that
I'm not a man and I don't have kids.
Cath
|
125.1728 | | HELIX::CLARK | | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:49 | 18 |
| I sort of agree with the "men are from Mars, women from Venus" approach,
cutesy and oversimple though it is.
If you start with the proposition that men & women fundamentally
(genetically) are wired differently, down to basic ways of thinking,
feeling, analyzing, and communicating... Which most people "know" on some
level I believe...
And uphold equal-opportunity-for-life-liberty-pursuit... (Noone's going
to deny that to any female, or male, relative of mine, I'll tell ya...)
And believe in the world family, we're all in this together concept, which
deadheads seem to have a head start on...
I think it's possible to float above the general inanity on this topic...
Ignoring demagogues anxious to push your buttons or push their agendas is
a must though. Real people just deal with it as they go, with who they
know.... - Jay
|
125.1729 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:49 | 10 |
| >I don't think it's necessary to remind me or others that
>I'm not a man and I don't have kids.
Sorry. I didn't think it was necessary to imply that I'd be ok if I
just got laid.
:-)
tim
|
125.1730 | ready for happy hour | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Feb 02 1996 19:55 | 8 |
|
Getting laid well that is an interesting topic! I don't know if
that would help or not but your view point might change if you
had some good experiences with women in school system or
otherwise.
Cath
|
125.1731 | :^) | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Fri Feb 02 1996 20:01 | 4 |
| well
let's close that can of worms for a friday afternoon
Steve-O you are helpless regardless
|
125.1732 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 20:06 | 34 |
| Sorry about the cheap attempt at humor, but at first read, it sounded
like you thought I just needed to meet a good woman...that's not it,
that won't change things. It's the media itself that portrays middle
class white men as fools...it's as if we suddenly had a barrage of
media events, films and tv shows about how well black people can
dance...but are otherwise lazy and shiftless...same thing. And people
are buying it, especially women...who are being exhalted as the
antithesis of their lowlife male counterparts...they've got a vested
emotional interest in buying it, because it's connected to their own
rise to glory.
Most of the people who deal with my kids are female, and they thereby
control the childcare industry by sheer presence. It isn't an issue
of structural/organizational power, it's more an issue of influential
control, and women have that cornered....
Female school 'counselor' pulls my kids out of class during the
divorce to question them if they want to live with their father.
Female school gym teacher wishing to influence the custody outcome
calls the state childcare anonymous hotline number to accuse me of
molesting them.
Female school nurse asks my daughter if she got her black eye from her
father (when in fact she took an elbow from her sister).
These are normal, albeit somewhat dim-witted, women who are buying the
media line that men are worthless, untrustworthy, lazy, selfish,
perverts... Jeez, we don't even get the advantage of a reputation for
having 'natural rythm"...;-)
...and on and on and on...
tim
|
125.1733 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Subvert the dominant pair of dimes | Fri Feb 02 1996 20:07 | 3 |
| "A riot is an ugly thing...and it's about time we had one!"
- Mel Brooks, "Young Frankenstein"
|
125.1734 | where am i ?? | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Mon Feb 05 1996 10:15 | 4 |
| wow. i thought i was reading womennotes for a mintue!
;-)
|
125.1735 | vive la difference! :^) | ALFA2::DWEST | the storyteller makes no choice... | Mon Feb 05 1996 12:25 | 7 |
| re men and women being intrinsically different...
this belongs in the "bummers" topic?????
:^) :^) :^)
da ve
|
125.1736 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Wake Now, Discover... | Mon Feb 05 1996 12:45 | 9 |
|
kinda related, kinda not, I read over the weekend that in Florida
a father (who had been convicted and served time for murdering
his 2nd? wife) sued and got custody of his child from a subsequent
marriage because the child's mother is a lesbian.
to me, something is wrong with this picture.
Debess
|
125.1737 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Tue Feb 06 1996 13:49 | 13 |
| wow - interesting stuff going on in this note whilst i was not
paying attention. Good points made by all ... and for the most
part, arguing the point and resisting the impulse to trash the
person turned out to be the best way to be heard.
My son is now a single parent with full custody of his 3 kids. I know
from my own experience when he was a child as single parent myself that
nothing *I say nothing* is one sided. I must agree that most of
society sees female parent when they hear 'single parent'. That
stereotype needs to change - we can all get better from being less
bitter.
|
125.1738 | car jinx | AD::CHARNOKY | The time has come, the walrus said | Fri Feb 23 1996 13:21 | 21 |
| Strange stuff goin' on with my roomie, Scot...
In the past four months, he's been in 2 auto accidents. In fact, he
JUST got his car back from the auto body shop, where its been
sittin for over a month.
Well, last night he came home at 12:30 with a friend... then they
both proceed to tell this story of how Scot swerved to avoid a dog
in the fog, how his car managed to FLIP COMPLETELY OVER, how he
managed to crawl out a broken window...
I thought it was a joke. This was just too far fetched to be true, but
it WAS true! I was dumbfounded! Luckily, he wasn't hurt at all, but
Scot's pretty shook up. REALLY out there...
So, I was wondering if you could help beam me him some ~ PoSiTiVe
ViBeS ~ ??? His email is AD::SHILDEBR
Thanks!!
'noky
|
125.1739 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Mail Ordered Husband | Fri Feb 23 1996 19:22 | 9 |
|
1 year. 1 brand new car. 3 accidents.
I say the car is hexed... tell 'im to get rid of it (then again, if it's
totalled, then that's not too difficult).
Glad Scot-mon's okay. VVVVvvvvibezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz..............
- jeff
|
125.1740 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Sat Feb 24 1996 03:31 | 9 |
|
I've been driving for 16 years now, and have had only 2 accidents. But
they were 10 days apart. And for a couple months after the 2nd
accident, I had a lot of near accidents.....bad karma that I eventually
shook off.
Hope his luck changes
Hogan
|
125.1741 | {{beams}} to da ve | AWECIM::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:25 | 6 |
| da ve needs some healing beams sent his way...
According to Ed from Cross the Water, da ve had a mean fall down
some stairs yesterday, injured his neck or back, and is hurting.
/Ken
|
125.1742 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:28 | 6 |
| i wondered where he was today!
:-(
vibes to da ve.
|
125.1743 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Leap from ledges high and wild | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:30 | 5 |
|
I've wondered where he's been all week...
ouch da ve - take care of yourself and feelgood soon.
|
125.1744 | | SUBPAC::MAGGARD | Outta Here! | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:36 | 10 |
|
Bummer :-(
OOOOOOHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmm..............
Get well soon, da ve!!!
- jeff
|
125.1745 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:41 | 3 |
| Good south bound vibes to da ve..
divide
|
125.1746 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Thu Feb 29 1996 17:43 | 6 |
| da ve was here and noting toozday.
in wimin's underwear!
;-)
|
125.1747 | Ow | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Feb 29 1996 18:37 | 2 |
| wow da ve
take care and get well soon
|
125.1748 | ouch! | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Feb 29 1996 20:18 | 4 |
| Gosh, what with the luck his family has been having, you knew da ve was
about due for his share! Hope you're feeling better man.
PeterT
|
125.1749 | well, sort of "normal" anyway... :^) | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Mar 01 1996 13:30 | 15 |
| thanks to everyone for the vibes! i'm back today....
yeah, it's been interestin' being me for the last few months... :^)
wednesday i took the spill and yesterday i was still walking around like Rain Man...
head down and turned a little to the left... i'm ok now, as long as i don't have to turn right
quickly... :^)
seriously, went to the chiropractor and he restored a lot (though not quite all) of the range
of motion... i can turn my head to the right now almost all the way... no more sharp pain
but kind of a dull ache... essentially, falling down the stairs at my apartment agravated an
old back injury... a few days of exercises and stretches, and another trip or two to the
back-cracker and things should be getting back to normal...
da ve
|
125.1750 | reformated to fit your screen ... | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Fri Mar 01 1996 13:47 | 18 |
| -< well, sort of "normal" anyway... :^) >-
thanks to everyone for the vibes! i'm back today....
yeah, it's been interestin' being me for the last few months... :^)
wednesday i took the spill and yesterday i was still walking around like
Rain Man... head down and turned a little to the left... i'm ok now, as
long as i don't have to turn right quickly... :^)
seriously, went to the chiropractor and he restored a lot (though not
quite all) of the range of motion... i can turn my head to the right now
almost all the way... no more sharp pain but kind of a dull ache...
essentially, falling down the stairs at my apartment agravated an old
back injury... a few days of exercises and stretches, and another trip
or two to the back-cracker and things should be getting back to normal...
da ve
|
125.1751 | | AD::CHARNOKY | The time has come, the walrus said | Fri Mar 01 1996 13:48 | 5 |
| da ve - good to hear that you're feelin a bit better! Back probs are
the pits... especially sitting in front of these screens all day.
Hmmm, now I'll hafta get up and strech!
'noky
|
125.1752 | thanks! | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Mar 01 1996 14:01 | 12 |
| uhhhh, thanks for re-formatting that!!!!
still haven't quite figured out this !@#$%ing Teamlinks
interface... there HAS to be a way i can set this up so
that i don't go over 80 cols! :^(
this lack of Ctrl Z drives me nuts too! i always
try to ctrl z to enter my note and stuff disappears!
grrrr...
da ve
|
125.1753 | welcome back | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Fri Mar 01 1996 14:54 | 9 |
| <<< Note 125.1749 by NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes "the storyteller makes no choice..." >>>
-< well, sort of "normal" anyway... :^) >-
>.... i'm back today....
a spineless attempt at humor?
bobo
|
125.1754 | honey come quick with the iodine | QUOIN::BELKIN | Nothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-) | Fri Mar 01 1996 15:39 | 5 |
| da ve, the first thing I thought of when I read here about you was what a
hassle it must be going up and down staircase to your apartment with a sore
back! Glad to see you're up and about. Don't lift anything heavier than,
say, a 12-oz. curl :-)
Josh
|
125.1755 | | QUOIN::BELKIN | Nothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-) | Fri Mar 01 1996 15:40 | 3 |
| I think we should re-christen da ve to be Tennessee Jed :-)
Josh
|
125.1756 | a new nickname? | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Fri Mar 01 1996 15:56 | 5 |
| does that mean you have to pour alcohol over my head?
sign me up!!! :^)
da ve
|
125.1757 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Mar 01 1996 16:33 | 5 |
| that's serious stuff da ve...don't mess around. keep an eye on yer back
and keep goin back to the backcracker...
vibes...rfb
|
125.1759 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Leap from ledges high and wild | Mon Mar 04 1996 14:02 | 7 |
|
tim! I always got the impression that we were friends...
Debess
(so sorry to hear your frustrating news, but really, I don't think
I deserve this)
|
125.1760 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Mon Mar 04 1996 14:05 | 4 |
| ugh. that sux.
sorry you have to go through this, tim.
jj
|
125.1761 | and the saga continues | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Mon Mar 04 1996 14:19 | 21 |
|
Ya Tim, can't you limit your attack on women to 'some woman' at
least.
I find it hard to think of you as a friend after these kinds of
attacks on all of us ...
Sorry that you're so bitter about life with at least half the human
race.
BTW. I thought after reading your Vancouver note that things were
getting better for you.. I thought maybe you met some nice
folks there... Too bad you had to come back to that ex of yours
who seems to know how to push all your buttons.
Try not to take it out on all women.
hang in.
Cath
|
125.1762 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 14:34 | 31 |
| I'm tired of being used - again and again. I'm tired of a mindset that
seems to feel entitled to use men to gain security, or simple profit, and
I can tell you that mindset is rampant. I see it repeatedly, and not
just in my own life, but in others around me as well. I'm tired of
hearing rationalizations that make it seem almost noble to have taken
some poor man for everything he's worth, and then have the unmitigated
gall to refer to some very few of them as 'deadbeat dads'. It's not the
men who are the true deadbeats in this equation.
I'm sick of a female dominated culture (and yes, girls, the *culture* is
definitely female dominated, if not the economy) that thinks it's ok to
denounce and ridicule men at every turn - to propagate the image of the
second-class male gender, only good for reproduction and being the good
worker-drone...all the while pretending to be the oppressed, down-trodden
female....what a convenient ruse.
I'm sick of the whole mess - I'm sick of the stupid head games, the
blatant dishonesty, and the selfish motives of (some) women who wouldn't
know how to be truly independent, self-sufficient humans if their lives
depended on it - but luckily for them, it doesn't. There's always some
slob they can manipulate, at least until he wises up. Parasites. No,
it's not ALL women...but it's a hell of a big number of them. Go figure.
There must be some out there who aren't like this - my faith in humanity
itself, though, is deeply shaken by this - or at least, half of humanity.
To my female friends in here, those of you who still are, my apologies.
I see little, though, at this point to be optimistic about. I wish a lot
of your colleagues would get there heads on straight, for a change.
tim
|
125.1763 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:09 | 9 |
|
Tim mon....try to cool down, although I know that's probably really
tough to do right now.
It's terrible that you and your children have to go through with this
sort of financially driven greed. Seems your ex bases her legal
assaults on you when things are convenient for her. For certain
she's just a bad egg in the basket and not all women would chart this
course.
|
125.1764 | | ARBEIT::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:26 | 29 |
| You know, Tim, I can see exactly what you mean.
When I meet new guys, the first thing I look for is the checkbook.
Hell, I don't even consider a guy that doesn't meet up to my financial
standards and I need a man that can support me in the fullest regards,
in case I decide I don't want to work anymore or just in case we do
get married/then divorced I'm all set financially.
And that is why I am going out with Bow, my current boyfriend of 1.5 years.
Bow is a starving musician with no financial security. He probably
makes about $6,000/year. BUT, my plan is to get pregnant ASAP, so he can
indebt the rest of his life to me (NOT!). I love him very much and I
clearly do not give a shit how much money he makes, and the last thing
on my mind is devising a plan to mooch as much off him as possible,
Look, I'm sorry that you have been having bad experiences with those of
the female gender, but please DON'T aim your comments at females in
general and the evolution of the womens rights movement. As far as
the custodial/child support battle goes, I am sorry that there are
some women that take advantage of it, but there are also a lot of
a**hole guys out there that really do deserve the term 'deadbeat dads',
and really should help out more than they do with child support. This
is one area that I have experienced first-hand.
There are some really awesome, genuine women out there, and I hope
that you meet some of them soon.
/danielle
|
125.1765 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:31 | 25 |
| >she's just a bad egg in the basket and not all women would chart this
>course.
Really? What about the others since her? What about all the friends of
mine who have been through similar hell? What about the dozens of other
women I see tooling men left and right, never having the spine to just
take care of themselves, by themselves?
How about a little survey? How many of you know, first-hand, of a woman
who manipulated/seduced some unsuspecting guy, simply for her own gain,
financially, emotionally/security, career-wise or other - with little or
now semblance of sincerity? We won't even get into the all-too-common
scenario of those who convince themselves they're "in love", only to
unconvince themselves when the well runs dry. How many of you know more
than one or two such cases? Guys, how many of you have been used, big
time, at some point in your life? Ladies, how many of you have, or have
a friend who has, slept with a guy just to get something he had to offer
but woudn't give it freely otherwise?
It happens all the time. Every day. If you don't think it's an
epidemic, compare it to a real epidemic, i.e. how many people do you know
with AIDS? Which number is bigger?
tim
|
125.1766 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:43 | 16 |
| Tim, I am sorry about your pain, perhaps your survey could also include
how many people (try this file) are involved in long term relationships
that are happy? Let me be the first, I met my wife 26 years ago, and
we are coming up on our 24th year of marriage. I am happy.
I do not know your situation but please do not take it out
on all women, this is not the case at all. I have ran into the
type of woman you are generalizing about and maybe they comprise
5%-10% of the population. I am not sure how an agreement that you
reached in mediation can be put aside, perhaps you should
seek better legal representation. I would not comply with an court
order whereby I am living on 15% of my gross, that is impossible,
and enforcable. Please do not let "her" get to you in this way.
Life is too short to be this mad.
|
125.1767 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:50 | 9 |
| very sensitive subject....let's all remember that for some people, and
I'm sure Tim IS ONE, GRATEFUL is their only outlet where they feel
there's a "like-minded" audience. Can you imagine the kind of response
Tim would have gotten in say, soapbox, or any other of the conf. where
there's a higher percentage of assholes than non-assholes??? Though we
may not agree with his sentiments, let's remember this is GRATEFUL. and
he's one of us.
rfb
|
125.1768 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 15:51 | 19 |
| > There are some really awesome, genuine women out there, and I hope
> that you meet some of them soon.
Yes, I know. I just can't seem to think of any right now - or at least
certainly none that I've been lucky enough to get involved with.
This is my only outlet. It is the only place I feel I can go and say
exactly what I'm thinking. I'm sorry if that offends some - it isn't my
intention to hurt others, but mostly to vent. I just want to scream about
this... For years, and years I've been wrestling with one example after
another of this type of behavior, and despite my best efforts to avoid
it, it just keeps repeating. I know I'm responsible for making poor
choices, I suppose, but it remains a simple fact that this situation is
epidemic...perhaps far more frequent than many women would like to think
of their gender.
I'm not saying *all* women are like this, or even most - but it might be
most - sometimes it sure seems like most, when you're on this side of the
bench. All I know is, it's one might big percentage...
|
125.1769 | | AOSG::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobel | | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:00 | 23 |
| lessee, um da ve, hope you feel better, mon
Tim, not sure what I can say here. In going through my divorce, I agree
with you on a number of points (the bias against men in the courts, the
high rate of support payments without accountability as to how/where the
money is spent, etc.). Fortunately for me my situation has not been the
trip(s) through hell yours has been.
Yes, there are manipulative women, and there are manipulative men too. I
feel that in cases of divorce that any hope of civil, logical and fair
dialogue goes out the window when lawyers get involved. I'm sure your
wife's lawyer pushed her to scrap the mediation agreement and to go for the
jugular. I know of instances where men have done this too. I hate to see
you have to be put through this again.
I feel lucky in that some of my best friends are women. Given what you've
been through and what you're going through I'm sure you probably don't want
to here any more advice, but I feel compelled to pass along this food for
thought -- try and think of your friends as just people, regardless of
gender. I'm sure that in considering those who you feel are friends you'll
come up with a list that includes both men and women.
jeff
|
125.1770 | Tdavis..my parents DIVORCED year 24 of theirs | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:00 | 7 |
| I said this to Tim offline and I'll say it here online
I saw my mom do this to my dad and even though Tim was heavy handed in
what he said,......it happens more times than naught...
And if the man wants to vent, let him vent
|
125.1771 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:05 | 7 |
| Outlet or not it was/is still VERY offensive...
Tim,
Maybe write it down and then read it in an hour and see if you want
to post it.....
|
125.1772 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:15 | 21 |
| >Outlet or not it was/is still VERY offensive...
If you don't like what's on, change the channel. Life isn't all peace,
love and understanding. IMHO, Grateful's been getting pretty vanilla
lately anyway, so I don't feel at all bad about stirring the pot with a
real issue for a change. I didn't direct my comments at *all* women, and
so it is not sexist...and based on the volume of private email I'm
getting, I'm not alone in my observations.
>Maybe write it down and then read it in an hour and see if you want
>to post it.....
I did, and I did. Let's not get all huffy on one occasion about freedom
of speach and the Telecomm. Act of a coupla weeks ago, and then censor
simple personal opinions the next, shall we? Would you defend my right
to post pictures of naked women, but not my right to be outraged at a
prevalent behavior pattern amoung the politically protected (un)fairer
sex?
tim
|
125.1773 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:17 | 33 |
125.1774 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Leap from ledges high and wild | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:25 | 16 |
|
you may be venting, tim, but it sure feels like an attack to me...
If you had truly vented - against your ex/against the system -
you would have probably gotten an outpouring of support from this
community - men AND women alike. Instead, in your anger, you've
lumped all us women into a stereotype and attacked us. And now,
all the sympathy I have for your situation is clouded over by these
feelings you've caused in -me- because of what you've said -about-
me, simply because I happen to be a woman.
you may call it venting, but to me, it seems very hurtful, what
you're doing. AND, you're not hurting the people that you're mad at,
you're hurting people that like you...
Debess
|
125.1775 | $.02 | JARETH::LARU | | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:45 | 22 |
| re: .1758.
Tim,
I'm not taking sides here, but I happen to know the woman in question
and her husband, and I suggest that there are [at least] two sides to
every story.
Or, as my Sergeant used to say:
"There are four ways to do anything...
The right way
the wrong way
the Air Force way
and MY way!"
There are rarely winners in these kinds of things. I'm sorry for
all of you that things are so bitter between you. I hope you can
remember the love that originally brought you together and reach
some kind of mutual understanding and peace.
/bruce
|
125.1776 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 16:54 | 7 |
| Bruce,
>but I happen to know the woman in question
Believe me, you don't.
tim
|
125.1777 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Leap from ledges high and wild | Mon Mar 04 1996 17:05 | 27 |
|
wow - good thoughts, /bruce (hey, he's back!)...
I've got this personal spiritual belief that we're here at this
particular time, dealing with the particular people in our lives,
because we are to learn something from the situations we are in.
I often ask myself that very question - what am I to learn from
this?
so, while you're dealing with the reality of this terrible situation,
maybe you could take some time to ponder that question yourself.
If this is the only kind of woman you end up involved with, then why?
a friend of mine took /bruce's words to heart over a situation she
was dealing with. She married someone with an 8 or 9 year old
daughter. Now, that daughter is a teenager and causing them lots
of misery. One time I saw her and she said to me "I can't help it
but I sometimes feel like I hate Stacy". The next time I saw her,
she told me that she has been working on her problem from a different
angle. Now, when she is in a confrontational situation with her
step-daughter, she says she tries to look deeply into her daughter's
eyes to look for that 8 year old child that she first met and that
she loved very much. That person is still there. Admittedly, it's
hard work. (She has taken this approach after reading a biography
on Gandhi).
Debess
|
125.1778 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 17:08 | 12 |
| ...and sometimes the person that you thought was there, never was...
But you make a very good point about learning - almost all real change
seems to come with some significant pain. Anytime I am in pain, I too
think there must be something to learn by it, and time this is no
exception. The frustration for me, though, is in having to deal with this
sort of thing repeatedly, over many years' time now. I'm fed up.
I've decided to delete the original, offending note, with my apologies to
those whom I may have offended. Maybe someday I'll learn.
tim
|
125.1779 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Mon Mar 04 1996 17:17 | 24 |
| Repeating patterns is something most humans do all too well.
The partners we pick almost always have a direct connect to the way
we learned to deal with others when we were children. Unless
we (editorially speaking) have had some insight into why we keep
getting snagged into the same ol' same ol' - we are bound to repeat
the pattern over and over again. This is often why any one
of us can watch a friend go headlong into the same kind of relationship
as they have always had .. may be a few variations but with the same
kind of twists to it .. and wonder why they can't see it. And at the
same time - lots of people wish to pooh pooh that kind of introspective
work. Call those people angry, call them fooling themselves, call them
terminally frustrated with life - and you can also call them the last
ones to realize that they've walked into yet another warped
relationship.
A full scale attack on all women was an unfortunate reaction to a very
frustrating situation. I have a bit of an idea what you're going thru
as my son is a single parent of three - has full custody. never
knowing from one week to the next if his ex will decide the money's
better if she takes the kids. It's heartbreaking for everyone concerned
but you know as well as I do that painting everyone with the same brush
is extreme.
carol
|
125.1780 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 04 1996 17:23 | 8 |
| RE: *THE* woman in question....
I *don't* know *the* woman in question, but I'd sure like to ask her why
she thinks it important to take half of Tim's money and life when she
has married a man that *CAN* (i assume) support her????
sigh.................
|
125.1781 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 17:27 | 22 |
| Thanks Carol,
I'm not trying to paint everyone - I just think it's a very prevalent
problem with relationships, one that women aren't likely to acknowledge
either. It's also not terribly popular to bring up something that might
not fit the stereotypical image of the downtrodden and disadvantaged
female.
As for repeating patterns - the problem is recognizing how they begin and
breaking the pattern. I know full well that the repetition is based in
part upon bad choices on my part, but it's hard as hell to break away
from the fundamentals that lie beneath the choices. Simple introspection
is not enough. Some choices made with all the best intentions are
naturally doomed to a painful end - set up, like a bowling pin. Breaking
the pattern is the hardest part. Meanwhile, guys like me are just
magnets for women like that, I guess...
Nevertheless, that does not absolve the behavior of those who selfishly
and maliciously take advantage of others. It's just not very popular to
think of men as being the victims, rather than the other way around.
tim
|
125.1782 | This place is grate | NECSC::LEVY | Half-Step Mississippi Uptown Toodleoo | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:05 | 19 |
| I want to acknowledge the mature and thoughtful responses of all here...and
especially the women...to Tim's issue.
It's obvious that Tim is having a tough time and needed to vent. It's good
that GRATEFUL is a safe place to do that.
In many other places, Tim would have been flamed big time.
What happened here? Everyone expressed their feelings and tried to help Tim
look at the issue from another viewpoint.
Very very healthy discussion, IMHO.
Thanks to all here for, once again, affirming the intangible value of this
file and the spirit that goes with us as DeadHeads.
Tim, lemme know what I can do to support you.
dave
|
125.1783 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:19 | 8 |
| ahhh scr*w off, levy! %^)
my really, real thoughts...AMEN!
rfb
|
125.1784 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:26 | 5 |
| and furthermore ! :-)
tim is getting a really raw deal and it does indeed suck.
|
125.1785 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:40 | 26 |
| You know, Dave's got a very good point, which affirms why I felt I could
come here.
First, my sincere apologies to the women in the audience. I've been
going around and around with this issue for over five years now, and in
that much time, sometimes the weight can get to be too much. I really
appreciate that no one chose to flame me.
Secondly, the idea that repetitive patterns of behavior bring similar
results is certainly very familiar to me - the primary focus of my
introspection for most of those five years, yet I have yet to find the
key to unlock that door. In time. I'm still learning, at age 41, which
I suppose is better than things might be. As a very long-term friend of
mine keeps reminding me, one definition of crazy is to do the same thing
over and over, and expect to get different results.
Finally, to everyone, thank you for your moral support. I brought this
here because I think of you as friends, and hoped to find some peace.
It's reassuring to see that I was right. Just having the chance to talk
about it, to hear from other sides, to at least see some hope that the
world isn't as bleak as it appeared this morning, was a big, big help.
Daniele, Debess, Cathy, Carol, MJ (?) and everyone else - thanks for not
ripping my head off..;-)
Thanks
|
125.1786 | Two songs for this road... | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:50 | 14 |
| Thinking of lawyers, legal and other issues:
Since it costs a lot to win,
and even more to lose,
you and me bound to spend some time,
wonderin' what to choose,
...and...
The wheel is turning and you can't slow down,
you can't let go and you can't hold on,
you can't go back and you can't stand still,
if the thunder don't get ya then the lightning will.
|
125.1787 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 04 1996 18:56 | 2 |
| send lawyers, guns and money...
the shit has hit the fan!
|
125.1788 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | Leap from ledges high and wild | Mon Mar 04 1996 19:10 | 20 |
|
it was difficult not to spit back at ya tim (i'm not kidding,
it took lots of control)...
one last word from me ;-) - this situation sux big time for you...
but most likely the biggest losers are going to be your kids.
The money and the custody and all that are your issues - but
kids probably just want to know they're loved. If I, as an adult,
was hurt by what you were saying even though I -knew- it didn't
apply to me - how would your daughters feel to hear that?
They're young -women-, and they're also that woman's daughters...
you can't hide your feelings, but somehow, you have to be able to
control your personal attacks around the children, in the long run
it will be most helpful to them.... IMHO!
of course, I don't know what's going on in your household, so if this
is the place that it comes out in instead of there...spew on!
Debess
|
125.1789 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Mon Mar 04 1996 19:29 | 7 |
|
>if this is the place that it comes out in instead of there...spew on!
Right on! :-)
Imagine if all the world had a comfortable place to spew...things
would be much different (and probably a little messy..er..nevermind).
|
125.1790 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 04 1996 19:29 | 13 |
| No need to worry about my mood effecting my daughters - I don't get to
see my daughters right now. My ex has insisted on having them for three
consecutive weeks, due to my business trip, and is insisting that I
cannot see them until Friday. My fifteen year old daughter has been
calling me for two days, begging to see me, but her mother won't allow
it, and I can't override her.
Bruce, still think you know her?
I know enough not to trash their mother to them. There's nothing special
about that when it comes to a daughter versus my son.
tim
|
125.1791 | | JARETH::LARU | | Mon Mar 04 1996 19:51 | 12 |
125.1792 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Tue Mar 05 1996 10:27 | 13 |
| > it was difficult not to spit back at ya tim (i'm not kidding,
> it took lots of control)...
well debess, i'm glad you had enough control not to 'spit back'.
i have a hard time understanding how tim's rage could be taken
personally. knowing the person, and given some time i could just
imagine a retraction and apology. this is not to invalidate your
feelings, which i believe to be genuine and honest. i just viewed
tim's outburst for what it was: an extreme reaction to
devastating news.
now, that crack about ::GRATEFUL being vanilla lately... i think
we outta tar him for that! ;-)
|
125.1793 | | USCTR1::CONNORS | | Tue Mar 05 1996 12:13 | 8 |
|
Wow... I was out yesterday...
/whew!
MJ
ps... good luck tim... :-(
|
125.1794 | Reflection | SIOG::OSULLIVAN_D | | Wed Mar 06 1996 13:10 | 9 |
| Tim
I don't know if you ever read books. I've found they help for all
sorts of things. If you're only going to read one then I would
recommend Anthony De Mello's Awareness.
Best Wishes,
Dermot
|
125.1795 | bury labels | HELIX::CLARK | | Wed Mar 06 1996 18:10 | 23 |
| Recommend y'all give this month's CD Review a miss. The one with
Springsteen on the cover.
There's a regular feature just inside the back cover (Endpage? Backpage?)
where one of their editors gets to sound off on something or other.
The title of this month's is "Bury Garcia".
In this guy's opinion, Jerry will go down as a Phenomenon, not as a Genius
or Innovator. (Jerry would readily agree.)
Wasn't the opinion that offended me, but the title. Might send a little
note, esp. if the magazine's on the web.
If you can get past the title, the rest is mostly an oh-so-familiar slam
by someone who's listened, doesn't get it (so far), and wants us all to
share in his personal pigeon-holing. Under a different title, would rate,
maybe, 1/4 on the shrug-o-meter... (Musicians understand.) - JayC.
P.S. I am mildly curious who the author would consider a Genius or
Innovator. (Jerry considered folks like Ludwig Van Beethoven, Charlie
Parker and Art Tatum geniuses, who in pop rates next to them?) Not
curious enough to ask 'im though.
|
125.1796 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Mar 06 1996 18:53 | 4 |
| snail-mail address please, in the mood i'm in today, i think i have a
few choice words for them....
rfb
|
125.1797 | i'd like to read it... | NECSC::SANITY::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Wed Mar 06 1996 19:44 | 6 |
| actually, i wouldn't mind seeing the article...
not so much azs to go buy the magazine, but if someone
wanted to type it in, i'd be grateful...
da ve
|
125.1798 | | HELIX::CLARK | | Wed Mar 06 1996 20:26 | 11 |
| > -< i'd like to read it... >-
Well, I can try to type it in over the weekend (can't do sooner, have a
kid birthday to stage Th. and a presentation Fri.).
Maybe it'll pop up on the Web (I can't imagine other grieving fans won't
be stung by "Bury Garcia").
Gotta re-read it to type it in though, don't I? (Shoulda sharpened those
content-oblivious touch-typing skills like they tried to teach us...)
- JayC.
|
125.1799 | the rock lit. generator | OBSESS::BEAUPRE | | Fri Mar 08 1996 12:34 | 17 |
| A quick consultation of my all-but-useless American Heritage Dictionary
(the tiny blue one with all the words you already know how to spell),
reveals that a phenomenon can be "a person outstanding for an extreme
quality or achievement." So, in this authors mind, Jerry Garcia
is only a common phenomenon, and not an actual genius. And for this
we cut down a tree?
This type of discussion -- genius, innovator, phenomenon, or floor
wax? -- is usually, nay almost always, a waste of time. Granted,
there are a few rock critics out there who are capable of thinking,
as well as reacting, but not that many. Mostly, you either get the
cold-blooded technician types who apply strict mathematical formulas
to arrive at someone's all-important "chops" factor (otherwise
as known as the St. Joe Satriani complex) or you get the "infinite
college lite syndrome" where in all art is reflected off what the
author consumed for breakfast (otherwise known as the Spin magazine
syndrome).
|
125.1800 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Mar 08 1996 15:58 | 4 |
| what da &*%$ ??????
rfb
|
125.1801 | another armchair critic speaks | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Fri Mar 08 1996 16:06 | 4 |
| well
i had a bottle of mountain dew and 3 rolaids for breakfast,...and i
still think Jerry was a kick ass musician....
phenomenon or not
|
125.1802 | | HELIX::CLARK | | Fri Mar 08 1996 16:25 | 30 |
| > ...phenomenon can be "a person outstanding for an extreme
> quality or achievement." So, in this authors mind, Jerry Garcia
> is only a common phenomenon, and not an actual genius.
If/when you have a chance to see the article, I think you'll agree the
kind of "phenomenon" he's calling Garcia is different -- more in the sense
of "ephemeral".
(Ironically, Jerry would agree. Part of his charm...)
I actually wonder if the article is an extra-musical comment (distaste for
deadheads) masquerading as a musical comment.
I agree with your comments (SB) about rock literature -- IMO even the best
among rock critics [Bangs? Christgau? Palmer?] are useful mainly as
consumer weather-vanes (whenever they egocentrically label something
Important, or Significant, or Matters, well, that must mean they like it,
relative to all the garbage they have to wade through, and maybe it's
worth a listen... Avoiding the nonmusical lyrically-obsessed bunch I'm
convinced are English majors who took up criticism to make rent and get
stuff free... People should have to play an instrument or study music to
earn a license to label).
And critics are absolutely deadly for musicians to read -- as the UMass
coach told his team about the sports press, "Poison only if you swallow it."
The writer isn't a bad guy -- lots of deadheads probably badmouthed the
Dead plenty in the dark time before... 8)
I just thought "BURY GARCIA" was tasteless. - JayC.
|
125.1803 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Mar 08 1996 16:30 | 7 |
| we always jokingly "bad-mouthed" the boyz....that was part of OUR
charm...Jerry and Bobby, I'm sure would agree, that if ya can't take
a little rib-poking, then ya need something to spice up yer humor.
but Bury Garcia......grrrrrrrr
rfb
|
125.1804 | Adventures on the Road | NECSC::LEVY | Half-Step Mississippi Uptown Toodleoo | Sun Mar 10 1996 22:52 | 105 |
| 03/10/96 7:44 PM
Occasionally there are experiences in life that serve to remind you of what is
really important. Take Wednesday, March 6 for instance.
I was on my way to a customer engagement in Kentucky. I was a bit nervous
about this meeting, so I had not slept real well the night before and had
gotten up extra early. The weather was pretty lousy in Boston, so I made sure
that I got to Logan plenty early for my 2pm flight.
When I arrived at the ticket counter, I discovered that my flight to Chicago
for the connection was canceled. However, there was a flight leaving in 10
minutes that I could just make. I jumped at the opportunity and hustled to the
plane. Little did I know at the time that this apparently fortunate occurrence
would wind up being the first of a series of events leading to the longest
night of my life.
When we arrived in Chicago, it was snowing. Flights were being canceled all
over the place. My plane to Evansville IN was one of them. I got a ticket on
a later flight, though, so I thought all was well. The snow was stopping,
after all.
By the time they finally canceled this flight, it was almost 9:30 and there
were no hotel rooms to be had anywhere. The meeting at the customer site was
scheduled for the next morning. They had arranged for about 10 people to
attend and there were 2 other Digital folks who had traveled for this event.
All I could think about was the inconvenience that they'd be experiencing.
I was told by a couple of people that it was a 4-5 hour drive, so I decided to
rent a car. Later, it was made clear to me that it was more like an 8 hour
drive, but by then it didn't matter much.
By the time I retrieved my luggage, acquired the car, and got on the road it
was about 10:30. I was feeling ok. The car had a tape player. I figured that
I'd drive until I got too tired, catch a few hours sleep in a motel, and get up
real early to get to the customer site before 9am.
Driving was slower than I expected. Finally, I got to clear road on Route 41
in Indiana. After a while I had listened to a whole tape. I was still feeling
ok and going just about 60 with the cruise control on. The road was straight
and clear, at least on the travel lanes. The verge of the road was all icy,
however, with a pretty steep incline to a ditch by the side.
I reached over to grab the tape case for the one that had just finished. I had
to glance over to my right to find it. When I looked up again, the road had
begun a gentle curve to the left and the car had drifted over to the right so
that the right side tires were on the ice.
I steered gently to the left and the rear tires immediately lost traction. The
car began to spin counter-clockwise. I tried to correct the spin and, after
going about 90 degrees, it caught and quickly snapped a full 180 degrees the
other way and headed off the road sideways. As the car headed down the
incline, I started yelling something incomprehensible. Something caught and
the car rolled onto its roof and continued sliding. I thought that I was going
to die, or be badly hurt. I thought about my family. I thought about the car
rental company and the insurance. I thought about the what I was going to do
about the customer. Finally, the car came to rest upside down at the bottom of
the ditch in about 6 inches of water.
There I was hanging upside down, held fast by the seat belt. Nothing hurt. I
know that serious injuries dont hurt right away, so I tried moving and wiggling
everything that I could. Everything worked fine. Now, I started getting
concerned about the car catching on fire.
Somehow, I figured out how to release myself from the seat belt without banging
my head. The inside of an upside-down automobile is a very confusing place to
be. I managed to get into the rear of the car and get the door open. I
clambered out and surveyed the situation. Pretty grim. About 50 feet off the
road along a lonely stretch of state highway.
I got up to the road and tried flagging down the few cars that were passing by.
It was cold. I was worried that I would have to find a house or something.
After about 10 minutes, a Jimmy came back on the other side of the highway and
swung around my way. The folks inside helped me to retrieve the rest of my
stuff from the car and used their CB to call the police.
The police were wonderful. Very helpful and concerned. They took my statement
and made sure that there was a room somewhere for me to stay the night.
The tow trucks arrived after a while and pulled the car out. If you're ever in
need of service in Kentland, IN, check out Bernies Amoco! Great folks. Bernie
gave me a ride to the most run-down and sleazy motel I've ever seen. I never
really slept that night, partially due to the lousy room but mostly due to my
inability to shut out images of the crash in my head. I did get my calls to
the rental company and a few others taken care of.
Next morning, Bernie gave me a lift to Indianapolis (he was going there anyway)
and, from there, I was able to finally fly to Evansville and then get to my
hotel in Kentucky. I met with my other Digital colleagues and we strategized
for the meeting the next day with the customer. I finally got some good sleep
that night.
The meetings with the customer were rescheduled for Friday and we got
everything done we needed to.
I got home Saturday evening and have now spent a very enjoyable day with my
family. Its more enjoyable being with them than ever, considering how close I
came to never seeing them again. Thats what's important and I hope that the
next time I get overwhelmed by the need to be somewhere on time, I remember
that.
Evil_Knievel_Levy
|
125.1805 | | ASDG::IDE | My mind's lost in a household fog. | Mon Mar 11 1996 10:56 | 11 |
| Yikes! I'm glad you're all right.
>I thought about the car rental company and the insurance.
I haven't entered my not-nearly-as-exciting saga yet, but take my word
for it, you have to report the accident to First Bank Visa within 20
days. The rental LDW insurance is now covered by the credit card, not
a deal with Avis. If you don't, your cost center will eventually have
to shell out $3k to Avis.
Jamie
|
125.1806 | nice to hear the cops et al were helpful too | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | I am a man waving at the waves | Mon Mar 11 1996 11:22 | 4 |
| well, this is the bummer note, and that episode was certainly a bummer Dave, but
it's make ya feel good news that you are ok, head to toe...
Wes
|
125.1807 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | On the threshold of a dream | Mon Mar 11 1996 11:26 | 7 |
| holy sh*t.
glad things worked out the way they did.
i probably would've crashed in the airport and made it to the
customer's site at the earliest opportunity. i hope your
dedication to keeping a commitment is somehow rewarded.
jay
|
125.1808 | | AD::CHARNOKY | The time has come, the walrus said | Mon Mar 11 1996 11:57 | 4 |
| talk about bad kar karma, sheesh! seems nobody is immune lately!
thanks to the universe that you are AOK
'noky
|
125.1809 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Answers aplenty in the by & by | Mon Mar 11 1996 12:00 | 4 |
|
Glad your ok!!!
Good story, horrible experience.
|
125.1810 | | QUOIN::BELKIN | Nothin' left to do but :-) :-) :-) | Mon Mar 11 1996 12:37 | 7 |
| Dave,
Having been through an automotive near-death experience myself (caught a
deer last year) I know how what you're going through feels! I'm glad that
you made it through ok. I, too, kept replaying my accident in my head,
wondering if I could have done anything different to avoid it.
- Josh
|
125.1811 | | AWECIM::HANNAN | Beyond description... | Mon Mar 11 1996 12:42 | 4 |
| Wow that was quite the ordeal! Glad you're OK! That story makes
me real glad I don't travel regularly for the job anymore...
/Ken
|
125.1812 | Dave Levy-the voice of reason | PCBUOA::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Mar 11 1996 12:42 | 2 |
| good to hear you were wearing a seat belt and that you are ok my
man....
|
125.1813 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Mon Mar 11 1996 12:59 | 6 |
|
phew! Dave, that was scary just reading that.
glad you're back home, safe and sound.
Debess
|
125.1814 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Mon Mar 11 1996 13:19 | 6 |
|
Congrats on being ALIVE Dave!!
My heart is pounding just reading about it.
Tom
|
125.1815 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Mon Mar 11 1996 13:27 | 6 |
| WOW.... glad to see your OK.. as a frequent traveler "I share your
pain". I may get home two days later than I should, but never car
accidents, and sheer terror. Stay home for a change.
|
125.1816 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 11 1996 15:44 | 4 |
| Wow, Dave, and I thought *I* was having a bad week! Glad to hear you came
out of it in once piece!
tim
|
125.1817 | me too... | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Mon Mar 11 1996 15:56 | 21 |
| here's your typical "me too" note...
re "glad you're ok"
me too...
re "scary story, had me shakin' in my shoes"
me too...
re "glad it all worked out ok"
me too.......
re all the other sentiments in these last few notes...
me too.....
:^)
da ve
|
125.1818 | | NETCAD::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Mon Mar 11 1996 16:06 | 6 |
| Scary story. I think about all the spinouts I've had on various roads, and
how I've been lucky that there were never any other cars around to hit.
I'm glad you're OK.
adam
|
125.1819 | glad you weren't hurt... | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Mar 11 1996 16:56 | 11 |
| ...And if the kids had been in the car, they would have shouted
"That was cool Dad! Can we do it again??"
;-)
Well, you're apparently well enough to write about it, so I knew
you weren't killed in the mishap! Take it calm and relax Dave.
Sometimes being reminded we're only that close to the end of
it all makes life a little sweeter...
PeterT
|
125.1820 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Tue Mar 12 1996 17:35 | 4 |
| whew! close one Probz!!! Don't be so damn dedicated!!!
sure am glad yer OK.
rfb
|
125.1821 | i need to get a karma infusion... | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Thu Mar 14 1996 12:12 | 51 |
| boy i wish i could stay out of this note...
well, except to commiserate with OTHER people
that is... :^)
my bummer today... got home last night from work, to
discover my apartment had been broken into... :^(
on th e plus side, they didn't get much... they left me
the tv and the stereo and my musical instruments....
on the minus side, they rifled my dresser drawers,
stole some jewelry (earrings and such), stole my
10 year anniversary watch from digital, got some
loose cash, and took a lot of rolled up change that
belongs to my daughter (close to $70 in quarters,
nickels, dimes and pennies).... oh, and some of my
credit cards, including my dcu atm spare...
so mostly what they accomplished was to really
PISS ME OFF... and make me feel violated somewhat...
but mostly PISS ME OFF!!!!
man, i have to re-examine my life... i'm apparently
working out some bad karma from past actions...
probably some bit of deviant behavior in my misspent
youth...
the cop was cool... let me know that i probably would
never see or hear anything about it (i knew that already)
but that they'd pass it along to the detectives just in case...
he also said that frequently in cases like this that it's either
neighborhood kids or someone you know...
i don't really want to know who it is... i prefer to like
the people i know and it disgusts me to think that someone
i welcome into my house might do such a low life thing...
it was an old day yesterday,
but's it's a new day now...
i can't waste time being pissed off at ignorant assholes...
i hope they enjoy my daughters money...
i hope they got a hernia carrying it... all that change
was pretty heavy... :^)
da ve
|
125.1822 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Mar 14 1996 12:28 | 16 |
| sorry to hear that da ve
vibes comin at ya....
being stolen from pisses me off more than just about any other
violation one could do to me...I don't steal and i expect people to not
steal from me.
I REALLY doubt if it was someone you hang with...most likely it was
neighborhood kids, they seem to be the petty thieves now-a-days.
and don't blame yerself, ie: some bad deed in the past, that's for
people that call the pshycic hotline.
Get a big German Shepard and teach it to bite teenagers.
rfb
|
125.1823 | ouch | RICKS::CALCAGNI | what if dogs were one of us? | Thu Mar 14 1996 12:32 | 8 |
| Yow Da ve! I feel for you. I know the feeling all too well.
For me the stuff they took was a minor annoyance; the sense of
violation was the real bummer.
Treat yourself good for awhile.
/rick
|
125.1824 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Thu Mar 14 1996 12:34 | 6 |
| dunno what to say, da ve.
sux big time.
your karma is fine.
unfortunately, crap like this happens all too often.
|
125.1825 | | QUOIN::BELKIN | but from that cup no more | Thu Mar 14 1996 13:00 | 3 |
| sheeesh!
da ve, did they get any of your stereo gear? the DAT deck and tapes?
-J
|
125.1826 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Thu Mar 14 1996 13:24 | 19 |
|
da ve, man! You are having the worst time!
Maybe a little joke is in order.
A man is feeling lost and lonely, confused and downtrodden.
Things are not going well. He wanders through the park and
rests his weary downtrodden bones on the park bench and mutters
to himself.
Soon, through the gloomy fog, comes a voice, as if from the
spheres: "Cheer up! Things could be worse!"
So the guy cheered up.
And you know what? Things got worse!
ha ha hope this helps ;-) better daze ahead
|
125.1827 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Thu Mar 14 1996 13:38 | 27 |
|
psychic hotline notwithstanding, if ya do believe in karma,
ya gotta wonder ;-)
da ve, some people believe that karma is not just about this
lifetime, but about past lifetimes too. I'm one of those "some
people".
while I don't believe that you deserve this string of bad luck
that you've been experiencing, I personally believe (here she
goes again ;-)) that we're incarnated to learn lessons, that
we didn't learn before in another life and really needed to -
so we get to experience something that we can choose to learn
from (or not) - but if we don't - then we'll get to experience
it again in another lifetime.
and why I'm saying all this, is that from how we see you react
to all this misfortune is truly exemplory. You've seemed to
have kept a positive outlook through it all, and have still
managed to give "random acts of kindness" to others and it's
made an impression on me and probably lots of other folks that
know you.
I think you've learned your lessons well in this lifetime....
ENOUGH ALREADY!
Debess
|
125.1828 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:16 | 21 |
| speaking of the psychic hotline....
My wife recently went to a psychic for the first time on the suggestion
of her Nutrionalist. AMong other things, she was told that she and my
daughter Tiffany are new spirits in this earth, having lead no
previous lifes. Me and my daughter Lindsey have "been around" .
I think she's on drugs.
I believ you make yer own karma....and you pay for or reap the benifits
afterwards for the life you've lead. So, da ve, your OK! %^)
ANd *IF* by some chance we do *ALL* end up in the same afterworld, i only
hope that god or whoever let's us kick peoples ass that were assholes on
this earth, cause if Pat Robertson or Pat Bucchanen or many other
assholes i can easily think of are in the same
heaven as i am and i can't kick their ass, I'm gonna be one pissed
angel....
rfb_angel to be
|
125.1829 | more than half serious | ASDG::IDE | My mind's lost in a household fog. | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:25 | 7 |
| I think your run of bad luck is because you live in Worcester, a city
which is known to always be on the losing end. There's some sort of
curse on that city that only restoring or demolishing Union Station can
remove (the signs are fuzzy on this). I'd get out of town if I were
you.
Jamie
|
125.1830 | today is a good day... :^) | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:28 | 36 |
| thanks everybody... between the notes here
and the emails i've gotten, you guys sure know
how to pick up someone's mood... :^)
mr westervelt... :^) made me laugh... and reminded
me of a line me and a few friends of mine like to throw
out at time's like this... "could be worse... could be raining"
:^)
Josh... nope... they were pretty stupid actually... they
left the most valuable stuff behind and stuck to cash, credit
cards, and a couple of pretty baubles...
oddly enough, i am really pissed baout losing my DEC 10 yr
watch... put in a lot of time and took a lot of shit to get it...
it's kind of a symbol...
Debess... you have this way of just making me want to
hug the stuffin's out of you... :^) and rfb, i too believe you make
your own karma, and as Debess sez, i believe it comes from all
your past experiences and lives... i like to think that i, as well
as most of you here, are on the path to being true human beings...
and it is good to see (apologies to the Dances with Wolves folks :^)...
and my psychic has told me i'm a very old soul... :^) fwiw...
on the plus side, they didn't take anything that i wouldn't have
GIVEN to someone if i thought they really needed it... no one
was hurt, no serious harm done...
it would have been nice if they'd asked though...
thanks again freinds... :^) ain't it a be-oooooooo-tiful day?
da ve
|
125.1831 | :^) :^) :^) | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:30 | 7 |
| but Jamie, Worcester is MY city... :^)
i was born there... and recognize that it needs
all the help it can get... if everyone like me
moved out, then what hope would there be?
da ve
|
125.1832 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:32 | 20 |
| > I think she's on drugs.
:-)
Is that good or bad? ;-)
I used to work for this wonderfully funny district manager in Tampa years
ago, who was quite religious and very wise. We'd get together once a
month or so, and he usually would come out with one brilliant statement
each time. He once told me that he knows it's a sin to wish ill-will on
someone, and you should never want someone to go to hell, but just in
case it ever stopped being a sin, he had a list of people who deserved
it...;-)
He also once said that no one is really a good liar. It's not possible,
in the long run.
Cool.
tim
|
125.1833 | keep da faith ve... | FLUME::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:45 | 3 |
| So, da ve, just how long ago did you break that mirror?
PeterT
|
125.1834 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Mar 14 1996 14:45 | 10 |
| for some reason, i find it *extremly* funny that da ve is so worried about
his 10 year DEC watch......i'd be more concerned about how to explain
to my daughter that her allowence has been lifted. %^)
I can see him, now, checking every punk kids wrist in Worchester for a
DEC watch. "OFFICER, OFFICER! HE"S WEARIN MY 10 YEAR WATCH THAT"S
WOTRTH 10 CENTS!"
rfb
|
125.1835 | no flames | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Thu Mar 14 1996 16:07 | 11 |
| set/Wes/defensive :))) I gotta defend wormtown again...unfortunately, da ve
and I are familiar with some of the negativities and violence that occurs in
our hometown...but, statistically speakin', it's still a decent city to live
in...I'd pick it over many other New England cities, but I won't name places as
not to offend anyone living in...it has a lower murder rate tha most NE cities,
it can't compare to others in terms of arson etc...
Wormtown has a Lot of Positive to offer, a lot of good cultural happenings,
and there are many good neighborhoods too...
Wes
|
125.1836 | | NETCAD::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Thu Mar 14 1996 16:16 | 8 |
| Sorry to here about this, da ve. At least they left you your guitars for
your gig tomorrow!
If there is a pawn shop in town, I'd check it out for the watch.
It's just bad luck.
adam
|
125.1837 | rah rah rah | JARETH::LARU | | Thu Mar 14 1996 16:16 | 7 |
125.1838 | | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Mar 21 1996 17:22 | 15 |
|
My aunt finally succumbed to the Big "C" last tuesday 8-(
I guess it's a blessing as she's suffering no more. Got
to see alot of family I hadn't seen in years. wish it coulda
been under better circumstances tho...
Sorry to hear about your luck da ve keep da faith
Toby
|
125.1839 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | what's up widdat? | Thu Mar 21 1996 17:32 | 2 |
|
god bless, Toby
|
125.1840 | | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Thu Mar 21 1996 17:37 | 3 |
| you too Toby my friend... you too...
da ve
|
125.1841 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Mar 22 1996 15:58 | 4 |
| toby, peace....keep the memories...
rfb
|
125.1842 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Mon Mar 25 1996 12:00 | 5 |
|
a pox on worcester was applied the year they stopped allowing the Dead
to come to town. sorry Da ve ,,, things have to get better!
|
125.1843 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | what's up widdat? | Wed Mar 27 1996 13:36 | 11 |
|
Got a call Monday afternoon that my Mom had fallen and broke her
hip. :-(
Drove down to Ct. and then yesterday she had her surgery... all
is well, all things considered, but she's got a hell of a
recuperation coming up.
It's a bummer.
Tom
|
125.1844 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Mar 27 1996 14:08 | 6 |
| Recovery from a broken hip does
take a long time, so Both U and Yer mom hang in there, Tom.
vibes
rfb
|
125.1845 | | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Wed Mar 27 1996 14:17 | 3 |
| Yer mom's had her share lately Tom...hang in there
Wes
|
125.1846 | Mothers | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Wed Mar 27 1996 16:46 | 20 |
|
Tom, I hope your Mother heals fast and painlessly.
My Mother was going in for normal female surgery last Friday...no problem.
Saturday, I talked to her and found out the operation lasted 2 1/2 hours
too long....hummm, somethings wrong. Monday morning I get a disturbing
telepathic message from her.....I fumble for the phone and call her
room. She had just found out she has cancer...colon cancer. I cry all
day and night Monday and then I cry a little more Tuesday. Tuesday night,
under the comet, I pray on my knees for her and all people on the internet
c-cancer digest. This morning, I find out from Bob (her husband) that
her system is beginning to work again....this is a good sign for the
difficult days of treatment ahead of her.
I love my Mother so much. After my parents divorced, she the one who
basically raised me and she did a hell of a job...so we're very close
mentally despite that she's so far away physically. I noticed she has
sure become strong lately, and so have I. We're in for a long strange
trip, but we're ready. We're going to fight this. We're going to fight
this together and we're going to win.
|
125.1847 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Mar 27 1996 16:49 | 4 |
| may the health gods be on your side, dean. our prayers go out to your
mom.
rfb
|
125.1848 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Wed Mar 27 1996 16:55 | 7 |
| tom,
healing vibes to your mom!
deanne-o,
man, my heart is heavy right now. :-(
good luck to you and your mom.
|
125.1849 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Wed Mar 27 1996 17:06 | 11 |
|
hey now Tom - a speedy recovery wish to your mom.
Deane, I can feel your anguish. My heart stopped beating, I think,
when I read your note. Lots of strength and love to you and your
mom in this difficult time that lies ahead for her and you.
I've been through this, myself, so anytime you feel the need to
talk or cry or whatever...I'm here.
Debess
|
125.1850 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | what's up widdat? | Wed Mar 27 1996 17:09 | 2 |
|
Deane, peace and love.
|
125.1851 | Love will see us through | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Wed Mar 27 1996 20:08 | 7 |
|
Thanks so much for the vibes. Through the past few days, the well
wishes and support from our friends and family has been the only
thing has gotten us through all this!!! And it does work....
Just got a call from my Aunt Sally, my Mother got up and went for short
walk this afternoon!!! I'm floating...this is good news.
|
125.1852 | | RDWOLF::KUPIEC | | Thu Mar 28 1996 09:24 | 0 |
125.1853 | | RDWOLF::KUPIEC | | Thu Mar 28 1996 09:25 | 6 |
|
Hang in there Dean. KEEP THE POSITIVE THOUGHTS!!!!!
Chris
|
125.1854 | | USCTR1::CONNORS | | Thu Mar 28 1996 11:14 | 5 |
|
Tom and Deane... my heart is with you both...
/mj
|
125.1855 | | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Thu Mar 28 1996 12:10 | 3 |
| ditto that... vibes to both moms...
da ve
|
125.1856 | | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Thu Mar 28 1996 12:36 | 10 |
| Wow, some moms goin' thru some ruff times lately...my folks live in FLA, and last
Friday my mom went for an evening walk with a friend of hers from the 'hood...
Mom got a call later that eve, her friend had died about an hour after they
finished their walk...my mom thinks that she may have been the last person her
friend spoke to before she died...Mom's kinda freaked out by that, but doin'
ok...
Good Vibes...
Wes
|
125.1857 | hang in | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Thu Mar 28 1996 13:35 | 7 |
|
My thoughts and wishes for quick recoveries to Tom and Dean's mothers.
Lot's of hugs in order this Mother's day for sure!
Cath
|
125.1858 | | AOSG::connor.zk3.dec.com::strobel | | Thu Mar 28 1996 14:20 | 5 |
| Deane-o & Tom:
Positive vibes, well wishes and speedy, complete recoveries for
your moms. Hang in there.
jeff
|
125.1859 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Thu Mar 28 1996 15:08 | 3 |
| Deano and Tom,
Sending the positive vibes your moms ways. Keep the faith
Mark
|
125.1860 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | what's up widdat? | Thu Mar 28 1996 16:55 | 8 |
|
thanks for the vibes, all - it really helps!!
the maternal unit ;-) is recuperating and doing "as well as
expected" - it pays not to think about the near future too
much tho!
Tom
|
125.1861 | | ARBEIT::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Thu Mar 28 1996 17:09 | 5 |
| Tom and Deane-
love and positive healing vibes heading your way...
/d
|
125.1862 | | FLUME::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Mar 28 1996 19:00 | 4 |
| Best wishes and health to the moms. Tom and Dean, take care of them and
yourselves...
PeterT
|
125.1863 | Keep the faith! | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Mar 28 1996 19:17 | 5 |
|
Vibes of Love & healing to both your mom's dudes...
Toby
|
125.1864 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Mr. Plumber's coding services | Fri Mar 29 1996 00:51 | 3 |
| Deano,
keep da faith mon
jc
|
125.1865 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Apr 01 1996 14:14 | 6 |
| today is the first of two layoffs, during the month of April,
that DEC MCS will "participate" in..... this is the group that funds me, so
who knows.....happy april fools day
rfb
|
125.1866 | | MAIL1::TURNOF | Greetings from the Big Apple | Mon Apr 01 1996 17:03 | 7 |
| It's like death here. So many people I know have been handed their
walking papers. I almost didn't come in today.
I just don't get the short term reasoning why this is happening. I'm
too thick to "get it".
Fredda
|
125.1867 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Apr 01 1996 17:10 | 4 |
| well, i hope U don't "get it" (literally) Fredda....
rfb
|
125.1868 | | MAIL1::TURNOF | Greetings from the Big Apple | Mon Apr 01 1996 17:26 | 3 |
| naw, we're "safe" through June - after that who knows?
ft
|
125.1869 | love NOTES | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Mon Apr 01 1996 19:54 | 18 |
|
I've been kinda shying away from this note because mention of
the L word gives me the shakes...I been bit by it personally and
so have lots of folks I care about...and I know that even when it's
not you that gets hit, it hurts when the people around you do...and
it's mighty scary...
...but that hasn't stopped me from talking about it in email ;-)
I've been talking with Lisa today...and I mentioned this bummer that
rfb and Fredda have been experiencing today...and she said "Fredda
is such a sweetheart...and you can tell her I said that" and I said
"what about rfb" and she said "yeah, you can say that about him too"
so, just passing on the sweetness...
Debess
|
125.1870 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Apr 01 1996 19:56 | 1 |
| ***BLUSH****
|
125.1871 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Mon Apr 01 1996 20:09 | 5 |
|
somehow - seeing the word blush and the name Barnes on the same
screen .....
|
125.1872 | | MAIL2::TURNOF | Greetings from the Big Apple | Tue Apr 02 1996 13:06 | 20 |
| All of you are the sweethearts!! Got a wonderful e-mail from Lisa this
morn - she doing great! BTW (for you trivia buffs) - I now live in the
town that Lisa grew up in! Her Mom's house is walking distance (what a
concept!) from me!
All the positive vibes really helped me yesterday! Also, leaving a 4PM
worked wonders also!
This is the part about these layoffs that I don't get. In Feb. and
yesterday a MCS layoff occurred. The "big" managers didn't make their
margin number so heads rolled. This has nothing to do with profits -
since that's happening - but with the amount of profit. Ok, now why
don't the "big" managers get whacked? Since they obviously can't do
their jobs. No, instead the "worker bees" get it.
Just needed to vent!
Have a nice day!
Fredda
|
125.1873 | | ASABET::DCLARK | voodoo mathematician | Tue Apr 02 1996 13:14 | 6 |
| re .-1
don't ask questions like that. You'll just get angrier and angrier.
- Dave who made an intense effort to find out stuff like that a
few years back and got nowhere but mad.
|
125.1874 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Tue Apr 02 1996 14:50 | 6 |
|
Sorry to hear about these layoff's.
On the positive side, a layoff can be a bright fresh way to re-start
a life. I wouldn't object to being tapped....probably would give me
a good hard kick to get out and do something real.
|
125.1875 | get your design spec ready... | JARETH::LARU | | Tue Apr 02 1996 15:10 | 14 |
125.1876 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Tue Apr 02 1996 15:15 | 15 |
| re;
On the positive side, a layoff can be a bright fresh way to
re-start a life. I wouldn't object to being tapped....probably would give
me a good hard kick to get out and do something real.
-------------------------------------------------------------
as a father of two almost adult children, facing age discrimination if
I lose a job, with a mortgage and other debts *AND* still the desire to
*PLAY* alot....I will argue that point heatedly with ya deano.....
rfb
|
125.1877 | | QUOIN::BELKIN | but from that cup no more | Tue Apr 02 1996 17:24 | 5 |
| I agree with rfb. Having a mortgage and other big-time debts (auto loan)
can sure change your attitude about getting layed off.
Epsecially having a mortgage with lots of negative equity.
-Josh
|
125.1878 | been there, done that...no thanks | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Tue Apr 02 1996 17:38 | 32 |
|
I must say that, intellectually, I am very fond of the idea
of following my bliss, finding a way to get what I'm passionate
about into my daily life, and not just surviving but prospering
because I'm doing a great job because I love what I'm doing. I
believe that. And yet, when faced with the reality of having to
do it (kicked in the butt by being layed off), while at the same
time supporting a family, and as rfb says, wanting to PLAY, I found
I was faced with an entirely different prospect. The reality is,
I'm not a go-getter, and bliss-following requires a lot of work
and a lot of lean times...
...probably best to do when younger with lots less responsibilities
and lots more motivation and energy...
I like my job here. I like not having to drum up business for
myself. I like having someone tell me they need a particular job
done, and doing it. I like the flexibility I have, timewise. I like
the regular, good, paycheck. I like that there is respect and trust
and personal freedom to decide how I'm going to do my job. I may not
be passionate about it, but I enjoy it, so I feel that's a great
situation for me.
For some lucky people, following their bliss and making a living
are the same thing. For me, following my bliss is not directly
connected with what I do for a living. It is indirectly though -
my job, and not worrying about it, allows me to be able to afford
to have what I am passionate about in my life, outside of work.
that's why I don't view being layed off as an opportunity...
Debess
|
125.1879 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Tue Apr 02 1996 18:08 | 8 |
|
but then again ;-), I have absolutely LOVED hearing stories
from people I know who -have- been layed off and -have- viewed
it as a great opportunity and ended up turning their lives
completely around and ended up doing something they only
dreamed of before. You can see the sparkle in their eyes!
Debess
|
125.1880 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Tue Apr 02 1996 19:15 | 29 |
|
Well, I look at what I do and I have to ask:
Am I helping people? Nope
Am I helping the environment? Nope
Am I making the world a better place? Nope
Am I rich? Nope..... huh
I would much rather die a poor man...no, let me reword this....
I would much rather die a man with without money, but with a
soul that is fullfilled and a family that could look back and
see the differences that I made. Maybe soon I'll do this.
I wrote this poem a couple years ago...had to post it:
Here I am
in my cube all day.
Sitting here
just rotting away.
The sun is shining
I want to go out and play.
But, I'm on the clock
and I need pay
so here I stay
In my cube
rotting
rotting
away
|
125.1881 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Tue Apr 02 1996 19:22 | 9 |
| deano -off the subject, but yer poem reminded me of one I wrote years
ago when still on the manufacturing line.....please, no one take
offense, just appreciate the muse and humor....
another day at work,
while i set here like a jerk,
having bend-over fantasies,
joint and coffee burnt out realities.....(tm)
|
125.1882 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Mr. Plumber's coding services | Wed Apr 03 1996 03:22 | 18 |
| everyone is in a diff situation.
so, i can hear deano's side of the story: provide a kick in the butt
and rfb's: i gotta have a job 'cuz i owe,owe,owe
i'm somewhere in the middle.
yeah, gotta a mortgage, but, no kids. i could sell and cruise.
my advice is for everyone to stay current.
read the help wanted pages.
make sure you are getting the skills others are demanding.
if this means work outside of work to get these skills, DO IT!
read books.,
take classes.
stay current.
stay marketable....
|
125.1883 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Wed Apr 03 1996 11:38 | 6 |
| ... and don't be fearful.
fear paralyzes.
every turn can lead to bliss if you allow it.
even the most devastating event can open a door otherwise unseen.
but, you need to be 'aware' to see it.
|
125.1884 | follow your bliss... | JARETH::LARU | | Wed Apr 03 1996 12:51 | 9 |
| IMO, the best thing you can do for yourself is to
decide what you want... Set goals. It doesn't make
any difference if they are you ultimate goals (there
ain't no such thing; goals are always evolving/changing).
If you have specific goals in mind, you will find/make ways
to achieve them... As Joseph Campbell said, "doors will open
for you where for others there will be only walls."
/bruce
|
125.1885 | | ARBEIT::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:17 | 5 |
| >> Note 125.1883 by MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE
>> ... and don't be fearful.
>> etc.
Amen!
|
125.1886 | vibes for some friends... | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | the storyteller makes no choice... | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:22 | 45 |
| well, back to the bummer note for da ve... :^)
at least this time it's not happening to me directly...
many of you know my good friend and former bunkie Chriso...
i spent a long time on the phone with him last night... his
step daughter is dying...
some of you are somewhat familiar with the story... Christina
is 12... she's also a dancer... she competed nationally with her
dance group... she was diagnosed with the cancer after going
to see a doctor after lots of complaints about aches and pains,
mostly in her back, after her dance sessions...
she's been undergoing radical chemo and radiation therapy
for over a year... it looked for a long time like they might actually
have it licked... unfortunately the cancer wins in the end...
Chris and his wife have a new baby too... born with Down's Syndrome...
so now they are making arrangements for it's christening at the same
time that they're making funeral arrangments for Chritina... Christina's
dance group has organized a huge recital type thing at Worcester State
College's auditorium... looks like it's going to sellout too... unfortunately,
the money will most likely go to the funeral rather than the treatment... :^(
Christina is a remarkable young person... when she started her treatments,
she began writing a book... she created a main character, a super heroine,
called "Chemo-Girl" who fights cancer with her dog side kick, named after
one of the pieces of hardware used in her treatments... Simon and Shuster
are publishing it and it looks like it's going to be a big hit in cancer wards
and stuff for kids... the nurses at the hospital wear pins now that say
"i believe in Chemo-Girl!" and it looks like Christina will leave behind a
lasting legacy for kids like herself...
naturally, this is all the reader's digest condensed version... but needless to
say the whole thing has been real hard on Chris and his whole family...
he doesn't know i'm putting this in here, but he does tell me to say hi to
the heads that know him, and those that don't... :^) but anyone who has
spare vibes, prayers, or whatever else works for you all, Chriso, Christina,
and the rest of the family and extended involved folks could sure use them...
i believe in Chemo-Girl......
da ve
|
125.1887 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:31 | 9 |
| oh, man!
:-(
'
>i believe in Chemo-Girl......
a new CtW hit single?
|
125.1888 | too sad | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:39 | 8 |
|
Geez Da ve you got to stop making me cry. Christina sounds like
a real heroine and her story is bitter sweet.
Sounds like Chriso and his wife will need your continued support.
Hang in,
Cath
|
125.1889 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:51 | 10 |
| oh man....
re:stop making me cry.
ditto...
i'm off to take a small break now, after that.
*big* vibes to all involved, sounds like a very brave little girl
rfb
|
125.1890 | :-( | USCTR1::CONNORS | | Wed Apr 03 1996 14:52 | 8 |
|
Wow.... how sad... I'm so sorry for Chrisso and his
entire family...
all the vibes I can muster are theirs.....
/mj
|
125.1891 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | what's up widdat? | Wed Apr 03 1996 15:04 | 7 |
|
Very sad. Sorry to hear, da ve.
Christina sounds like a very special person... I'm sure
her parents are, too.
Tom
|
125.1892 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Wed Apr 03 1996 15:05 | 7 |
|
My thoughts and wishes are going out to her family and friends.
I believe in chemo girl.
- Deane
|
125.1893 | | ARBEIT::DEMARSE | Enjoy being | Wed Apr 03 1996 15:18 | 2 |
| wow....sending all positive healing vibes to Cristina and the rest of
the family.
|
125.1894 | I believe in Chemo-Girl! | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Wed Apr 03 1996 15:57 | 7 |
|
Vibes going to Chrisso & family
Christina sounds like an angel...
Toby 8-(
|
125.1895 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Wed Apr 03 1996 16:21 | 23 |
| sad da ve,
I went through something like this with very good friends and neighbors.
Our neighbors in Merrimack when I was in high school had a little boy
named Chris as well. Chris went from the bottom to almost the top and
then sank back down again. I'll never forget that phone call at 3am.
I still see his parents from time to time...it does something to everyone.
It's times like that I wonder about religion (seeing children with promising
futures suffer).
My prayers go out to Chris.
On another note my friend and old roommate (more than once) Harvey aka Skip
who just turned 50 is battling this again. This is his 3rd round. Last time
he had a bone marrow transplant at B&Women's hospital. Who knows what's up
this time. It took 2 or was it 3 years to revisit....
:(
|
125.1896 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Mr. Plumber's coding services | Wed Apr 03 1996 16:31 | 3 |
| My heart goes out to Christina's family.
peace
jc
|
125.1897 | | ZENDIA::FERGUSON | Mr. Plumber's coding services | Wed Apr 03 1996 17:22 | 21 |
| re <<< Note 125.1880 by DELNI::DSMITH "Can you see the real me" >>>
> Am I helping people? Nope
> Am I helping the environment? Nope
> Am I making the world a better place? Nope
> Am I rich? Nope..... huh
\deano mon.
just because your job does not able you to do those things doesn't
mean you cannot do them.
as far as helping people, work in a soup kitchen. become a big brother.
volunteer to drive an older person somewhere they need to go.
i see many volunteer oppts in the groton herald each week looking
for people to help.
as far as helping the environment: volunteer at a local dump to
sort plastic, paper, metal,etc. or, organize a "Dechead roadside cleanup"
program... there are so many thigns you can volunteer to do to help
out, and this may help you feel better about your contribution to
"Earth" or whatever you wanna cawl it.
|
125.1898 | | HELIX::CLARK | | Wed Apr 03 1996 17:34 | 24 |
| Prayers for Christina and family... Remarkable about Chemo-girl!!
I stumbled on last night's episode of Home Improvement while looking for a
ballgame.
Very well done IMO (about what a kid & family go through in connection w/
cancer) -- but I was glad my kids, who normally would be, weren't
watching. I wouldn't have been ready, at that moment, to answer "Can that
happen to me?" for any of mine. Guess I better prepare myself...
Quick comment on earlier "Don't be fearful" string:
And don't let your family's fears for you make you fearful. Given there
are times to be cautious and secure, and other times to be bold and
free... Loved ones who want to protect you are never going to recognize
when taking a risk (w/ no guarantees) is the right thing.
Last year my brother gave up a big-dinero tech job for secondary school
teaching, because he believed in it. Good thing he didn't count on the
extended family for support -- most are still clucking about it...
Anyway, I agree running scared is the worst way to go, esp. if you feel
deep down, at a key moment, that something is right. (Risks with safety
nets aren't a good thing either -- but that's a different rant.) - JayC.
|
125.1899 | rage on though, these cubes will get ya down | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Wed Apr 03 1996 17:42 | 5 |
|
Ya Deane, I've been meaning to tell you, I think you brighten up
the world with your good humor and friendly gestures...
Cath
|
125.1900 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Wed Apr 03 1996 18:20 | 6 |
|
Sending all my vibes...
|
125.1901 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Wed Apr 03 1996 18:41 | 5 |
|
>Ya Deane, I've been meaning to tell you, I think you brighten up
>the world with your good humor and friendly gestures...
I know of many people who say the same of you cathy.
|
125.1902 | a favor with regards to sharing this story... | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Wed Apr 03 1996 22:28 | 20 |
| ummm, one thing i would ask of everyone...
i've gotten a couple of mail messages asking for more information
and a note or three from other folks who know Chriso and are
interested in this news of his life, some of whom are outside digital...
PLEASE be careful/conscious of who you send this out to!!!!!!!!!!!
while i know that everyone's intentions are pure, i also understand
how stories like this can propogate on the internet.... sometimes the
best intentions can lead to trouble though... what it comes down to
is i'd hate to see this very painful and trying time for this family
turn into another Craig Shergold type of thing where they get swamped
with inquiries and attention that they really don't need right now...
PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, can we keep this more or less "between us?"
there's no problem with letting "interested others" know what's going on,
but please let's not have this passed all around the net!
da ve
|
125.1903 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Apr 04 1996 12:52 | 3 |
| where can we donate...
rfb_very saddened by this
|
125.1904 | | WECARE::ROBERTS | climb a ladder to the stars | Thu Apr 04 1996 13:01 | 8 |
|
Thanks for posting the info about Chemo-girl. ITs so inspiring. I
continue to marvel at the courage some people have to strive for one
more step/go a bit more/reach for a goal... against odds that at times
seem insurmountable. Reading about Christina and the way she has and
will inspire people makes me think twice about whining when i'm tired.
C
|
125.1905 | I believe in Chemo-Girl | SIOG::OSULLIVAN_D | | Thu Apr 04 1996 13:43 | 22 |
| A list i received which helps dealing with fear:
Do something you have never done before
Perform an act of courage
Make a plan and then follow it
Keep doing what you are doing for five more minutes
Do something extremely slowly
Say 'no' when it is easier to say 'yes'
Do what seems to you the most important thing to be done
When facing a minor choice, choose without hesitation
Act contrary to all expectations
Behave independently of what others might think or say
Postpone an action you would prefer to begin
Begin an action you would prefer to postpone
Eliminate something superflous from your life
Break a habit
Do something that makes you feel insecure
Carry out an action with complete attention and intensity, as if it
were your last
-Dermot
|
125.1906 | i don't have that handy, but i'll try and get it... | NECSC::CRONIC::semi3.hlo.dec.com::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Thu Apr 04 1996 13:49 | 19 |
| i don't have the info handy on donations for the benefit...
there's been some talk of another type of event for
her and her family later on... if she's not with us anymore
it may be something like donations in her name to the
children's hospital cancer unit or the children's make-a-wish
foundation or soemthing like that... the make a wish people
gave her an incredible day that she still talks about last
year... limo ride to fenway for practice, meeting the team,
sitting with Valentin her fav (i think she had a crush on him :^)
name on the scoreboards welcoming her and her family, sitting
in the dugout with the team etc...
i'll know more after i talk with the family again, (tentative plans
to see them saturday) but for now that kind of thing is pretty far
from their minds...
da ve
|
125.1907 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Thu Apr 04 1996 14:02 | 6 |
|
Gee da ve,
You've got me welled up with tears again. I'd love to know if
there is anything I can do.
Mark
|
125.1908 | | SSGV02::STROBEL | Jeff | Mon Apr 08 1996 01:04 | 3 |
| my prayers & vibes to an incredible girl.
jeff
|
125.1909 | | STAR::OCTOBR::DEBESS | such a long long time 2B gone | Mon Apr 08 1996 15:29 | 9 |
|
for such a young person, she is a great inspiration...
I can only hope that if I am ever faced with such pain/sadness/tragedy,
that I can be as courageous as Christina...I wish her the best,
whatever that might mean today, and tomorrow, and for the rest of
her life...
Debess
|
125.1910 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Thu Apr 11 1996 15:55 | 50 |
125.1911 | :((( r.i.p. | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Thu Apr 11 1996 16:07 | 2 |
| Wow, this is a major drag...I saw Jessica on the news recently...7 years old,
so sad
|
125.1912 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Thu Apr 11 1996 17:31 | 9 |
| I saw her on the news this morning. How sad.
Perhaps now the FAA will put a g&ddamned minimum age on
pilot's licenses -- I mean, really...cars and recently boats
require it, and they rarely even leave the ground.
How sad.
tim
|
125.1913 | rust or burn? | JARETH::LARU | | Thu Apr 11 1996 17:41 | 4 |
| Another perspective is that they died in the service of their
dream... Pushing the envelope... and we can all be inspired...
/bruce
|
125.1914 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Thu Apr 11 1996 18:02 | 13 |
| Well, yeah maybe. I can kinda see that... But there's a
7-year-old girl who never got the chance to really dream. No
Senior Prom; no graduation; no career or family of her own.
She had only been flying for a year - and never had the chance
to really live. It hit me because I saw her on the toob this
morning as I was leaving home and she was leaving Wyoming, I
think, or maybe it was Half Moon Bay still.
We would never have heard of a 7-year-old girl who was trying
to simply drive across North America...it's illegal, and
illogical.
I just think it's really very sad.
|
125.1915 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Thu Apr 11 1996 18:16 | 3 |
| Yea, I was thinking along the same lines. Are there no rules around
the age issue? she must have been an amazing child to be able
to attempt such a thing.
|
125.1916 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Apr 11 1996 18:18 | 5 |
|
That is so sad.
I'm sure she was more than qualified for the mission. Mechanical
failure is the most common problem with small plane accidents.
|
125.1917 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always stop at the top | Thu Apr 11 1996 18:53 | 11 |
| imo, there should be an age limit.
i wouldn't let my kid drive at 7.
i wouldn't even let a 7 year old make that decision.
at 7, you still have to think for them.
it was clearly her father's decision. he made the decision for
her. he was pushing the envelope. for what? bragging rights?
what if his (hypothetical) 11 year old son wanted to cross the
country on a motorcycle??
i think it was cool she knew how to fly a plane. i question the
wisdom of this decision.
|
125.1918 | | OUTPOS::EKLOF | Waltzing with Bears | Thu Apr 11 1996 18:59 | 8 |
| There is a minimum age for a pilots licence - sixteen years old for
powered airplanes (which a C-177 is). She didn't have a pilots license. That's
why the instructor was there. Legally, he was the pilot-in-command, and with
the dual controls in virtually all planes, could have controlled the plane at
any time. This isn't a case where we need more rules. I can't help wonder how
much of this was her father's idea, though, instead of hers.
Mark
|
125.1919 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Fri Apr 12 1996 12:18 | 21 |
| <<< Note 125.1918 by OUTPOS::EKLOF "Waltzing with Bears" >>>
>any time. This isn't a case where we need more rules. I can't help wonder how
>much of this was her father's idea, though, instead of hers.
I was watching the news this morning was wondering the same thing.
The the news showed an interview where her father was saying it was his
idea, he checked w/ the mother for an ok, then asked the daughter
to think it over ... of course at 7 she said YES right away.
I think this is a case of adults having bad judgement; the flight instructor
could have convinced a 7 year old that it would be bad judgement to take off
in high winds and t-storms.
sad very sad....
bob
p.s. they had an onplane camera for this trip - showed her crossing
the Rockies where she'd never seen this sort of turbulence...the flight
instructor asked her, "what would you do it you lost power right now?"
and the answer was "I don't know."
|
125.1920 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Fri Aug 16 1996 13:54 | 6 |
| My mother is in the hospital with pneumonia.
She's 65, and a victim of Parkinson's disease.
Her name is Lucille.
Your thoughts, good vibes and prayers would be appreciated.
|
125.1921 | | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Fri Aug 16 1996 14:08 | 4 |
|
Very sorry to hear that Jay! The good vibes are on their way....
MJ
|
125.1922 | Keep da faith | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Fri Aug 16 1996 14:09 | 7 |
|
JJ
Good Vibes and prayers are on their way
Toby
|
125.1923 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Fri Aug 16 1996 14:28 | 4 |
|
Sorry to hear about your mom J. Sending my vibes to her now.
Divide Dave
|
125.1924 | | BINKLY::CEPARSKI | May Your Song Always Be Sung | Fri Aug 16 1996 15:19 | 1 |
| I'll be thinking of Lucille today, Jay.
|
125.1925 | Good vibes | KOOLIT::VALLONE | | Fri Aug 16 1996 16:37 | 4 |
| Jay... More vibes and prayers headin' in your
mom's direction!!
--t
|
125.1926 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Fri Aug 16 1996 16:43 | 4 |
| Some vibes coming your Mom's way...
|
125.1927 | | RICKS::CALCAGNI | like lightning giving birth | Fri Aug 16 1996 20:28 | 2 |
| I feel the vibes most when I'm playing; I'll do a tune for her tonight
|
125.1928 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Mon Aug 19 1996 12:05 | 8 |
| thanks, all.
she's still in the hospital. she may come home today. the
pneumonia is better, but she has little strength.
i'll let y'all know.
jay
|
125.1929 | | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Mon Aug 19 1996 12:09 | 3 |
| JAy, more Healthy vibes to your Mom
Wes
|
125.1930 | mums are cool | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Aug 19 1996 12:17 | 4 |
|
same here jayjolls
good vibes to mum!
|
125.1931 | | NECSC::CRONIC::16.127.176.129::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Mon Aug 19 1996 13:02 | 3 |
| vibrating in this cube too....
da ve
|
125.1932 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Mon Aug 19 1996 13:31 | 4 |
|
Hope all is well with your ma Jay.
Thoughts are currently being directed to you and her.
|
125.1933 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Aug 19 1996 14:31 | 3 |
| ditto all that's been said, Jay. Keep us informed.
rfb
|
125.1934 | & good vibes | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Tue Aug 20 1996 15:48 | 1 |
| peace, jay
|
125.1935 | | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Tue Aug 20 1996 18:41 | 3 |
| Thinking of Lucille...
Dan
|
125.1936 | take care | STAR::64881::DEBESS | things we've never seen seem familiar | Wed Aug 21 1996 14:58 | 5 |
|
good vibes headed to Lucille...and Jay
Debess
|
125.1937 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Thu Aug 22 1996 11:39 | 7 |
| Mom was released from the hospital on Tuesday. She's still on
antibiotics (along with the dozens of pills she takes each day).
She's feeling better, but still weak.
Thanks for all the well-wishes. It always helps.
Jay
|
125.1938 | | SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobel | | Thu Aug 22 1996 19:56 | 6 |
| Jay:
Glad your mom's doing better. Vibes for a speedy, complete
recovery.
jef
|
125.1939 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Aug 23 1996 16:52 | 4 |
| so, SO glad to hear that Jolly.
keep da faith
rfb
|
125.1940 | sorry if this gets kinda long... | NECSC::CRONIC::16.127.176.129::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Wed Sep 04 1996 21:14 | 71 |
| hi... me again... back in the friggin' bummer note... again...
i've been purposely trying to stay out of here cuz it seems like
so many times in the last year, this topic could be largely owned
and operated by yours truly... and believe me, with the crap
that's been going down i could fill it up...
but that's not what i'm here to whine about now... :^)
since there are now a few of you that are hip to my situation,
and it's getting harder to keep up with everyone individually,
i figureit's time to put something in grateful so i can put stuff here
and save some typing... :^) also, anyone that has a vibe or three
to share, i can use them too...
the spicific bummer i'm on today is that Fallon Clinic is a drag
to try and get stuff set up with lately... usually not too bad but it
seems like everyone i'm dealing with now is filling in for someone
who's either sick or on vacation...
but here's the story... and i'll try to be brief... (HA! :^)
back when we were dong the "Rockin' for Christina" benefit i had
some excitement happenin... the day before i was brought into the
hospital with severe abdominal pain... turned out to be no big deal...
kidney stones, that when passed, left me a little sore but supposedly
that was it...
but when i went back the following week for my followup visit the
Urologist sat my butt down and told me that while they were checking
me out for stones, they found a "growth" on one of my kidneys... he was
concerned cuz it's apparently very unusual for someone in my age group
(which is somewhere between LeBlanc and Grady for those keepingtrack :^)...
the immediate concern was whether or not it's a malignant tumor, but
malignant or not, i should plan on kidney surgery to make it go away...
i hate it when they say "this *is* a big deal, you should be concerned..."
well, since then i've been in and out of the dr's office and the hospital for
tests... they've drawn enough blood to float Jay's fishin' boat... taken x-rays...
IVP's... CT scans... full renal scans... and a CT needle guided biopsy...
fun stuff...
so far all they've figured out for sure is that it's not normal kidney tissue,
so there's still cause for concern, but it's NOT a malignant tumor... (whew!!!)
so at least it appears no to be the cancer tey originally feared... i suppose
that's a plus... but since they still don't know what it is, that means more tests...
oh joy...
so i'll be in and out of here over the next week... the next round of tests involve
day surgery(s)... so i have to go in for a complete physical on monday, i have to
meet with the anesthesiologist on wednesday and i'll be out on thursday for the
procedure... i think this time it's a cystoscopy and left retrograde study? not
sure if i'll be in on friday... according to the Dr, "there may be some discomfort
afterwards"... swell...
so what's it mean? we still don't really know... they say there's still an outside
chance that it could be a "genetic abnormality" that will not require surgery,
even though the renal scan shows it is not normal, healthy kidney tissue...
if it does call for surgery, i can look forward to a week or so in the hospital
and 8 to 10 weeks of convalescence afterwards... so we'll see... in the meantime,
if you find an extra vibe laying around that you don't need yourself, send it my
way will ya? especially in the latter part of next week... i promise to put it
to good use... :^) and i'll let you know what's happening as i find out results...
and that's the view from here...
da ve
ps. for vibes you find *this* week, send 'em to Rochelle... i won't go into the whole
story, but she's back in the hospital fighting her own demons and could use the boost...
|
125.1941 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Wed Sep 04 1996 21:28 | 16 |
| Sorry to hear of your problems, many good vibes coming to you and
yours. Medical stuff is a real drag in the 90's, last week
my Nueroligist called me twice (yes called me) to let me know that
the results of a recent MRI are showing a Brain Aneurysm.
My wife the Nurse begins freaking out that I am on the road all
the time, etc... and I go get a followup MRI. I go on Thursday
evening and hope to hear Friday, of what is happening. Well
since it was a holiday no one calls until Tuesday (despite
repeated follow ups).... bottom line only a scare.
One thing I will not ever do again is research my "condition"
on the Internet.... a sobering experience. By the way I know
two people at Digital that have died this way, both around my
age (closer to Grady). Scary stuff.
I sure hope all turns out well, sorry for the digression.
|
125.1942 | hope your luck changes da ve | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Wed Sep 04 1996 22:07 | 9 |
|
Vibes to you & Rochelle da ve
keep a positive attitude if you can...
TDavis glad to hear it was only a scare betcha aged alot
over the weekend.
Toby
|
125.1943 | | NAC::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Wed Sep 04 1996 22:13 | 13 |
| Vibes to Da ve, Roche and Tom...
...but when did I get elected as the designated milestone of old age
around here, anyways?
;-)
tim
P.S. In an attempt to cheer up things with a non-bummer, so far nobody
has sued me this month...;-)
|
125.1944 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Sep 04 1996 22:18 | 5 |
| peace, vibes and prayers to all...I don't know what else to say
right now...I'm kinda in shock...I'm always asking myself (about da ve)
can someone really be this cool???
vibes..rfb
|
125.1945 | vibes | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Sep 05 1996 04:00 | 4 |
|
da ve & rochelle
late night vibes currently headed in your direction
|
125.1946 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:05 | 11 |
| da ve, you're gonna be fine, mon. it's important to remember that
you are the ultimate healer. please, believe in your ability to
heal. you control your own body, not some white coat. and,
nothing happens by chance.
that said, we'll be asking the universe to provide what it is you
need at this time. and, we'll be praying that spirit help our
sister rochelle. you two are ten of the kindest people i know.
peace,
|
125.1947 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:11 | 3 |
| tdavis, scary stuff. glad all is well.
(all this medical talk is making me quesy. i pass out when the
dentist gives me novacaine!! ;-)
|
125.1948 | Hmmmmmmmmm | NECSC::LEVY | Half-Step Mississippi Uptown Toodleoo | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:17 | 6 |
| Vibes to all. Yow. However, I do believe that I am officially an
older fart than Grady. I'll be 45 this October. Yikes! I guess that
can qualify as a bummer, eh?
dave
|
125.1949 | vibes vibes everywhere are vibes | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:20 | 9 |
| da ve and rochelle
vibes to both of you......some of the kindest people i have had the
pleasure of meeting....
tdavis bud......glad to hear you are gonna be ok too.....vibes for you
and the missus....
tim grady...my lawyer will be in touch with you later today
|
125.1950 | | TOLKIN::OSTIGUY | Ripples never come back | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:43 | 5 |
| Good Health Vibes to da ve and Rochelle...
non-legal vibes to Tim :)
Safe vibes to all S.O.S.ers this weekend, and raise one for me, I can't make it.
Actually, PEACE and SMILE vibes to everyone reading this...
|
125.1951 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Thu Sep 05 1996 12:54 | 7 |
|
More VIBES to those in need.
BTW I know of at least 1 in here older than 45 so you old farts don't
have't feel so old.
Divide Dave
|
125.1952 | hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Thu Sep 05 1996 13:24 | 10 |
|
da ve,
Peace and lotsa vibes heading your and rochelles way. I'll keep you
in my thoughts adn keep sendin the vibes.
Tdavis,
Hope the scare passes uneventfully and vibes to you to.
mark
|
125.1953 | | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Thu Sep 05 1996 13:45 | 7 |
| da ve,
many good healing vibes heading your way friend...
BIG HUG!
mj
|
125.1954 | | STAR::64881::DEBESS | full of cloudy dreams unreal | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:17 | 10 |
|
da ve, you know that you and Rochelle have been in both
Guntis' and my thoughts alot lately...and you will continue
to be until this is all just a bad memory ;-)
take care,
Debess
ps TDavis: phew!
|
125.1955 | i'm so weird | STAR::64881::DEBESS | full of cloudy dreams unreal | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:18 | 3 |
|
just wanted this reply cause it's the year I was born
|
125.1956 | ;-) | JARETH::LARU | au contraire... | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:20 | 8 |
125.1957 | :^) hee hee | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:22 | 6 |
| 1955?
hmmmmm
electricity was discovered
the first transatlantic balloon flight
running water comes to New england
|
125.1958 | queen of denial | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:35 | 13 |
|
It's scary to think that you folks are having these health issues. I hope
it all just goes away... I can't stand the thought of friends being
in pain.
I'll remain optimistic that you guys will be soon smiling and this
will all be history... like it was for Tom.
I was hoping to see Rochelle at SOS too ? Da ve good to hear you'll
be there.
Cath
|
125.1959 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:39 | 5 |
|
da ve, may the love & healing you've sent to others
bounce back your way ten times over... hang tight.
Tom
|
125.1960 | Bailiff, make him stop dancing! | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Thu Sep 05 1996 14:56 | 6 |
|
Positive vibrations to one and all...this puts my little job
jitters in perspective...think positively, treat your bodies
well, and Tim, please try to stay out of court!
Dan
|
125.1961 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:00 | 2 |
|
lots of Change in the wind
|
125.1962 | | AWECIM::RUSSO | claimin! | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:01 | 8 |
|
da ve, you'll be fine.....vibes going your way (and Rochelles)
though.....
Hogan
PS: I'm sure its that unidentified stuff on your kidney is just some
bong resin or somethin' ;^)
|
125.1963 | | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:02 | 5 |
| > Note: 125.1960
> Author: NETRIX::dan "Dan Harrington"
Hey whaddayaknow...I got the year of my birth, too. You've started
a trend, Debess!
|
125.1964 | hogan..toooo much | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:04 | 7 |
| re. .1962
Now THAT is funny!
scrape your liver for resin if you need a fix
:^)
|
125.1965 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:24 | 11 |
| re; resin
HA!
re; Probably Dave and Divide Dave
I was wondering when you old farts would respond!
"You can('t) stay 20,
on Sugar Mountain..though you think you're leavin there too soon,
You're leavin there too soon..."
rfb_born in 55 also, but "I can't drive 55!"
|
125.1966 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:38 | 9 |
| Da ve and Tom,
Hope all works out for you guys!
take care, follow Jollimore's advice...
think good thoughts :)
bobo young buck born in 56 (big year for me this year....)
|
125.1967 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:43 | 1 |
| Do we need a Old farts note? I am afraid I may be it!
|
125.1968 | | STAR::64881::DEBESS | full of cloudy dreams unreal | Thu Sep 05 1996 15:46 | 3 |
|
see note 377 ;-)
|
125.1969 | the big 40 | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:03 | 6 |
|
Re: 125.1966
When's your birthday bobo ? When/where's the Party?
Cathy
|
125.1970 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:07 | 1 |
| Thanks for the pointer, It's not me....
|
125.1971 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:28 | 15 |
| <<< Note 125.1969 by SEND::SLOAN "music is my aeroplane" >>>
-< the big 40 >-
Re: 125.1966
> When's your birthday bobo ? When/where's the Party?
> Cathy
I'll have to get Rae in line for this one :) She threw me a 30th that
was memorable ... or was it? I can't remember :) :) Right Mike?
bobo
|
125.1972 | | RAGE::JC | Never trust a Prankster | Thu Sep 05 1996 17:32 | 7 |
| Well, i wasn't born in 1972 (the reply number i think i will get)!
anyways, vibes heading your way da ve + rochelle
man, everything seems to be crumbling around me these days...
|
125.1973 | 1973 | STAR::64881::DEBESS | full of cloudy dreams unreal | Thu Sep 05 1996 18:53 | 3 |
|
I'll grab another reply - the year I first saw the Dead!
|
125.1974 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Sep 05 1996 19:56 | 18 |
| Peace and good health to you and Rochelle, da ve...
I don't think I mentioned that I caught that Letterman show
with the Happy Da Birthday Ve girls on again during the
summer. I tried taping it so you could have a copy, but
I tuned in too late for that part. Oh well...
Tom, glad to hear it wasn't anything serious. I often
go cruising the net to catch up on ailments (mostly things
my kids come down with) Usually it is decent info,
but I can imagine searching on Aneurysm would be a
bit scary.
And Debbess, do you mind if I ride on your coattails for
1955 and 1973 notes? I experienced similar events in those
years...
PeterT
|
125.1975 | | SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobel | | Thu Sep 05 1996 20:26 | 4 |
| geez, all the vibes I can muster are headed to all da ve, & Rochelle and a
big sigh of relief for TDavis.
jeff
|
125.1976 | | QUOIN::BELKIN | but from that cup no more | Thu Sep 05 1996 21:52 | 14 |
| hah! this is the year _I_ first saw the Dead :-)
My little bummer (all fixed now) was my hot water heater. Noticed about 3
cups of red rusty water underneath it on Friday night.
Luckily, it never did burst, but it took me a few days and 6 trips to
Home Depot to install the new one. Take it from me - compression fittings
don't work for shit. Ya gotta solder copper pipe. But, any project that
involves:
1) soldering
2) a propane torch
has a certain element of fun for me, even it if is hassling with a hot water
heater!
- Josh
|
125.1977 | hope to be hearing from ya in the good news note | GEMGRP::GEMGRP::SAMPSON | The sky was yellow and the sun was blue | Fri Sep 06 1996 13:16 | 5 |
| Good vibes and lots of them for Da ve and Rochelle. Hope things get better
real quick.
Robyn
|
125.1978 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Sep 06 1996 14:26 | 1 |
| U R weird Josh
|
125.1979 | | RAGE::JC | Never trust a Prankster | Fri Sep 06 1996 18:47 | 5 |
| 1979
may have been the first time i enjoy a bowl of
oats... can't say fer sure, but 14 years old sticks in
my mind
|
125.1980 | Scary shit | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Sep 19 1996 22:08 | 35 |
125.1981 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Fri Sep 20 1996 14:38 | 4 |
125.1982 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Sep 23 1996 15:59 | 5 |
125.1983 | | STAR::64881::DEBESS | a leaf of all colors plays... | Thu Sep 26 1996 20:25 | 8 |
125.1984 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Thu Oct 10 1996 19:47 | 26 |
125.1985 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Thu Oct 10 1996 19:54 | 3 |
125.1986 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Thu Oct 10 1996 20:02 | 9 |
125.1987 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Oct 10 1996 20:16 | 3 |
125.1988 | | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Thu Oct 10 1996 20:38 | 3 |
125.1989 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Oct 10 1996 20:56 | 4 |
125.1990 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Thu Oct 10 1996 21:16 | 10 |
125.1991 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Thu Oct 10 1996 21:37 | 2 |
125.1992 | | FABSIX::T_BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Oct 10 1996 22:37 | 8 |
125.1993 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Fri Oct 11 1996 01:57 | 4 |
125.1994 | Peace and vibes | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Fri Oct 11 1996 11:54 | 5 |
125.1995 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Fri Oct 11 1996 12:13 | 7 |
125.1996 | hang in | SEND::SLOAN | music is my aeroplane | Fri Oct 11 1996 13:34 | 8 |
125.1997 | | SMURF::HAPGOOD | Java Java HEY! | Fri Oct 11 1996 13:59 | 6 |
125.1998 | | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Oct 14 1996 20:14 | 4 |
125.1999 | Blood Donors Needed! | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Thu Oct 17 1996 16:01 | 21 |
125.2000 | bummer indeed! | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Oct 17 1996 16:17 | 4 |
125.2001 | I'd like to help | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Oct 17 1996 17:29 | 5 |
125.2002 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:01 | 8 |
125.2003 | call me O+ | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:03 | 6 |
125.2004 | hope things work out... | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:05 | 13 |
125.2005 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:12 | 6 |
125.2006 | | STAR::64881::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:13 | 8 |
125.2007 | | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Thu Oct 17 1996 18:15 | 17 |
125.2008 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:18 | 7 |
125.2009 | | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:19 | 3 |
125.2010 | | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:31 | 8 |
125.2011 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Thu Oct 17 1996 19:32 | 3 |
125.2012 | | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Thu Oct 17 1996 20:52 | 8 |
125.2013 | From 290 too | MILKWY::MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Fri Oct 18 1996 14:07 | 13 |
125.2014 | | MKOTS3::MCONNORS | | Fri Oct 18 1996 18:07 | 12 |
125.2015 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Fri Oct 18 1996 19:17 | 4 |
125.2016 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Oct 18 1996 20:04 | 3 |
125.2017 | :^) | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Fri Oct 18 1996 20:09 | 4 |
125.2018 | And I got a pretty blue bandage on my arm... | NETRIX::dan | Dan Harrington | Fri Oct 18 1996 21:30 | 12 |
125.1984 | | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Sat Nov 23 1996 21:23 | 17 |
125.1985 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | Always a hoot! | Mon Nov 25 1996 11:07 | 8 |
125.1986 | Take care... | FOUNDR::OUIMETTE | Zat was Zen, Dis is Dao... | Mon Nov 25 1996 11:29 | 14 |
125.1987 | like chuck said...talk | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Nov 25 1996 12:10 | 6 |
125.1988 | | CRONIC::sms53.hlo.dec.com::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Mon Nov 25 1996 12:52 | 13 |
125.1989 | sorry man | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Mon Nov 25 1996 13:08 | 3 |
125.1990 | :-( | RDVAX::LEVY | If the thunder don't getcha the lightnin' will | Mon Nov 25 1996 13:20 | 10 |
125.1991 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Mon Nov 25 1996 13:34 | 8 |
125.1992 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Nov 25 1996 13:34 | 7 |
125.1995 | look far | SEND::SLOAN | seek alternate routes - expect delays | Mon Nov 25 1996 14:07 | 12 |
125.1996 | | SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobel | | Mon Nov 25 1996 17:37 | 11 |
125.1997 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Mon Nov 25 1996 18:01 | 6 |
125.1998 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Mon Nov 25 1996 19:42 | 8 |
125.1999 | | NETCAD::SIEGEL | The revolution wil not be televised | Mon Nov 25 1996 21:38 | 8 |
125.2000 | I can relate | DELNI::DSMITH | Can you see the real me | Tue Nov 26 1996 14:08 | 18 |
125.2001 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Tue Nov 26 1996 16:59 | 3 |
125.2002 | Thanks for being there! | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Wed Nov 27 1996 12:29 | 9 |
125.2003 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Dec 02 1996 18:27 | 4 |
125.2004 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Dec 11 1996 19:01 | 15 |
125.2005 | | LJSRV2::JC | I'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox Mon | Thu Dec 12 1996 21:27 | 8 |
125.2006 | | LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Thu Dec 12 1996 22:35 | 18 |
125.2007 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Dec 13 1996 14:31 | 8 |
125.2008 | | LJSRV2::JC | I'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox Mon | Mon Dec 16 1996 15:11 | 23 |
125.2009 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Dec 16 1996 16:23 | 4 |
125.2010 | | LJSRV2::JC | I'm the Pox Mon, yeeeah the Pox Mon | Mon Dec 16 1996 18:48 | 6 |
125.2011 | goodbye 96 | SEND::SLOAN | seek alternate routes - expect delays | Mon Dec 30 1996 12:37 | 23 |
125.2012 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Dec 30 1996 15:00 | 5 |
125.2013 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Dec 30 1996 19:53 | 9 |
125.2014 | accidents suck | DELNI::DSMITH | In a minute I'll be free | Tue Dec 31 1996 13:51 | 4 |
125.2015 | | LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:22 | 17 |
125.2016 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:24 | 4 |
125.2017 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:35 | 3 |
125.2018 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:36 | 6 |
125.2019 | phew | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:56 | 1 |
125.2020 | pain in the neck | SUBSYS::TURCOTTE | Armand Turcotte | Fri Jan 10 1997 16:58 | 33 |
125.2021 | | CRONIC::sms53.hlo.dec.com::notes | i believe in Chemo-Girl!!! | Fri Jan 10 1997 17:18 | 4 |
125.2022 | | BSS::DSMITH | RATDOGS DON'T BITE | Fri Jan 10 1997 17:36 | 5 |
125.2023 | Good luck mon.... glad to hear you're OK | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Fri Jan 10 1997 17:52 | 7 |
125.2024 | | DELNI::DSMITH | In a minute I'll be free | Fri Jan 10 1997 17:53 | 6 |
125.2025 | | USOPS2::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Fri Jan 10 1997 17:55 | 8 |
125.2026 | | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Fri Jan 10 1997 19:14 | 21 |
125.2027 | | LASSIE::TRAMP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Fri Jan 10 1997 20:09 | 13 |
125.2028 | | STAR::EVANS | | Mon Jan 20 1997 16:39 | 5 |
125.2029 | | GEMGRP::MILKWY::SAMPSON | Driven by the wind | Tue Feb 11 1997 11:49 | 6 |
| I still can't get to Grateful from Milkwy. But since Robyn told me she
had no problem, I thought I'd try linking through her system. I'm glad to
be back
Geoff
|
125.2030 | DECnet weirdness on MILKWY | RDVAX::LEVY | Run Like an Antelope | Tue Feb 11 1997 12:36 | 23 |
125.2031 | no hunter for da ve... :^( | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Mon Feb 24 1997 13:01 | 9 |
| i hate it when Mondays start with a bummer...
i was looking through the band's schedule for March to make up
the next batch of mailers and found out that i have a gig on
march 13th at the firehouse... !@#$%^!!!!!!!!!!!!! looks like
i won't be seeing Robt Hunter from the 8th row center afterall... :^(
:^( how could i have let that happen???????
da ve
|
125.2032 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Feb 24 1997 14:49 | 7 |
| re; i hate it when Mondays start with a bummer...
ditto...$450.00 on new clutch for daughters Honda on Friday...Honda
dumping entire oil contents on Monday morning...back in shop..late to
work.
rfb
|
125.2033 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 24 1997 12:31 | 18 |
| Death don't have no mercy in this land...indeed...
Friday Nite Hoot, Patty and I are groovin to Leftover Salmon whan I see
Shap, one of the "26-year olds" we met in Vegas in 95. Helped him out
with rides. Said howdy and went on partyin. Shap lived in Manitou
Springs when I met him and had moved to Leadville last winter to
furthur his adventures in extreme snowboarding. Shap died on Pikes Peak
last Staurday on the run known as Little Italy. His two buddies,
extreme back-country skiers, saw most of it. He fell over 2000 feet and
probably died on the first impact against the first bunch of rocks he
hit. no one really knows if he slipped or fell immediately upon taking
off on the run, but he didn't make it far before nature and God took
over.
I went out last nite and checked out the eclipse for awhile. As the
clouds came in and slowly obscured the moon, I said my final goodbye to
Steve Shapiro....
|
125.2034 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Mon Mar 24 1997 12:39 | 5 |
| My Boss, and his family could use some positive vibes, his only daughter
was killed by a drunk driver on Friday while riding her bicycle
out in Phoenix, Arizona where she lived since graduating last
year from Boston College.
|
125.2035 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Mon Mar 24 1997 12:49 | 1 |
| ..death will leave you standin and cryin in this land...
|
125.2036 | :^( | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Mar 24 1997 12:54 | 4 |
| wow
grim news all around
my condolensces to both families
|
125.2037 | "feeling like it's all a lot of oysters, but no pearls" | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Mon Mar 24 1997 13:08 | 8 |
| groove on Shap... while sad, he apparently left this life doing
what he loved most...
as for Tom's boss, healing vibes abound... no doubt a cold wind
is blowing on the family these days... hope the spring sun can
let in some light and life...
da ve
|
125.2038 | | UCXAXP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 24 1997 13:40 | 25 |
| Wow, I came looking for this note today, but not for want of news...
A year ago this coming weekend, four teenage boys in Littleton were
cruising a little to fast down a hill on Harvard Rd. in Littleton, when
they skid off the road and into a ravine near my house. All four boys
were from Littleton, a small town of maybe 7,500 people. One was
killed on impact, two more were injured, one of them seriously. The
driver was not injured physically, but never recovered from the
emotional impact and dropped out of high school his senior year.
The town was devastated by the death of the grandson of one of the
town's most active citizens.
Why do I mention this?
Last night, three Littleton teenagers were involved in an accident in
Acton. The driver, a young boy of maybe 17, was killed, and the two
passengers, both girls, were medivac'ed into Boston. One's in Mass
General and the other in Boston City Hospital. The former is in
critical condition.
On both occasions, the weather was clear but cold, and as far as I know
there were no other vehicles involved.
tim
|
125.2039 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Mar 24 1997 15:38 | 1 |
| Sigh...
|
125.2040 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Mon Mar 24 1997 16:47 | 12 |
|
(vibin' so hard stuff is shaking off my cube walls)
this is turning into a real good news day ain't it?
Tim, not that it matters, and more out of curiousity than anything
else, but is there any word on what might have caused the accidents?
considering the conditions ("clear and cold" should be no problem)
and the lack of other vehicles, i hafta wonder.......
da ve
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125.2041 | | UCXAXP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 24 1997 17:27 | 7 |
| I don't know about yesterday's accident yet. The one a year ago was
the result of a very inexperienced driver who realized he was going too
fast down a long, gradual hill. He hit the breaks on sand, and lost
control. I think he was charged - but I'm not sure exactly what
charges...
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125.2042 | | LJSRV2::JC | No friends on powder days | Wed Mar 26 1997 01:51 | 4 |
| the accy last year that tim mentioned i think they went up on the
imbankment to the right, rolled the car, and off to the left it went
uinto the farmer's field... but, i'm not sure....
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125.2043 | watch your speed!... | JARETH::LARU | au contraire... | Wed Mar 26 1997 11:17 | 4 |
| yesterday's glob had a statement from the police that the cause
of this year's event was excessive speed...
/b
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125.2044 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Wed Mar 26 1997 12:34 | 9 |
|
Guntis' 82 year old dad fell down the stairs yesterday and
broke his neck...he was airlifted to Hartford Hospital where
they have a neck specialist...so far, the news seems good
(as it can be) - I don't think he's paralyzed. I am hearing
that they are expecting a good recovery. We are worried.
Debess
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125.2045 | | MKOTS3::JOLLIMORE | | Wed Mar 26 1997 12:38 | 5 |
| bummer.
healing vibes to Guntis' dad.
helping vibes to Guntis and you.
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125.2046 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Mar 26 1997 12:53 | 3 |
| ditto what Jolly said.....hope all goes well.
rfb
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125.2047 | vibes around | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Wed Mar 26 1997 13:05 | 1 |
| here is to a speedy recovery
|
125.2048 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Wed Mar 26 1997 13:12 | 1 |
| Vibes from down here, hope all goes well.
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125.2049 | | BSS::DSMITH | I'LL GET UP AND FLY AWAY | Wed Mar 26 1997 13:31 | 4 |
|
Rocky Mountain vibes too both..
Divide
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125.2050 | More on the Vibe front | FABSIX::D_TODD | | Wed Mar 26 1997 13:51 | 7 |
|
Sorry to hear the news 8-(
wishing him a speedy recovery
|
125.2051 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Wed Mar 26 1997 14:56 | 4 |
|
oooooooOOOOOOOOoooooOOOOOOoooooooHHHHHhhhhhhhhHMMMmmmmmMMMMMMmmmmm
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125.2052 | | SMURF::PETERT | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Wed Mar 26 1997 18:48 | 4 |
| What he said... Yikes, hope all goes well...
PeterT
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125.2053 | To Life | UCXAXP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Wed Mar 26 1997 19:13 | 47 |
| For the second time in less than a year, Life has visitted upon me a
view of my worst nightmare. I can think of nothing more tragic than
the senseless death of a child. In a world in which I have always felt
that everything happens for some reason, such lessons elude me on a day
like today.
Two children, both only 16, were buried today as an entire town said
farewell. For this town of barely 7,500, it is the second time in
almost exactly a year that such tragedy has struck, and it seemed
apparent in the looks on the faces of many of the mourners. Stunned,
as if the numbness of grief had bleached all expression from their
faces. Thoughts of attending such an event for one of my own dredge me
up from the deepest of sleeps in a cold sweat in the middle of a winter
night. I know it's spring already, but here, today, it is not.
Littleton said goodbye to Craig Hinkley and Jordan Cone this afternoon.
Both friends of my own children, Jordan had visitted my home last Fall
on Halloween - a bright and happy face, she stood out in the crowd of
mid-teenaged kids horsing around in costume.
Delayed by obligations to my work, I arrived at the end of the funeral
at St. Anne's Church to find a crowd of hundreds overflowing the seats
and aisles. Standing at the back of the church, some horrible sense of
sadness overcame me to see two caskets, side by side, as the priest
went back to last year's funeral for Brian Crory. Like Craig and
Jordan, Brian was killed when the car in which he was a passenger lost
crontrol and he lost his life. Surely the lesson cannot be as simple
as a need to wear seatbelts, can it? Daniele, another teenager in
Sunday's accident, was the only passenger wearing one, and the only
passenger to survive, albeit with considerable injury. Daniele is out
of Intensive Care at Mass. General.
Like Sunday, today is a bright, sunny but windy day, not one that would
normally be the setting for such a mournful time. Leaving the
cemetery, I hugged my kids as they walked with their friends to spend
more time together in solace. As I walked towards my car, a cold wind
cut across my face, bringing tears to my eyes all too easily. I am
alive, and all the urgency and compulsion of the daily routine pales
before these events. I cannot imagine a lesson so important that it
costs the lives of children to impart its message. Who would presume
to understand a message that could be so important?
Hold close your loved ones today, my friends. Nothing else really
matters.
tim
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125.2054 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Wed Mar 26 1997 19:22 | 12 |
|
fine... like i wasn't bummed out before.... :^(
but i have to agree bud... life... live it, taste it, smell it,
feel it, see it, hear it, experience it, savor it, share it,
revel in it, for it is all too fleeting... and when it's gone,
there's not much to be done for it except to say goodbye.......
so, does anyone need another reason to hug somebody today???
da ve
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125.2055 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Mar 26 1997 19:24 | 5 |
| i need a beer........
Tim...well said my friend...ditto da ve....
rfb_outa here
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125.2056 | | JARETH::LARU | au contraire... | Wed Mar 26 1997 19:25 | 10 |
125.2057 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Thu Mar 27 1997 12:40 | 12 |
|
ugh. Tim, what a picture you've painted. We hear these stories
so often - and they are just statistics to us - but when you
know them personally, the tragedy cuts deeper.
I think /bruce may be correct - that is the lesson I get from
tragedies such as this - show the ones you love that you do while
you can. Love is really all there is.
take care,
Debess
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125.2058 | 8-( | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Mar 27 1997 17:19 | 9 |
|
Tim,
that was beautiful but very painful. my heart goes out to you
and the families of the children. you never know when it's
your last day so live them all to the fullest.
Toby
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125.2059 | | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Mar 27 1997 17:20 | 6 |
|
Debess,
healing vibes to Guntis' grampa....
hope he's doing better
|
125.2060 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Thu Mar 27 1997 17:29 | 5 |
|
What a shame. Unfortunately, its hard telling a teenager that they are
not immortal. Very very sad.
Mark
|
125.2061 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Thu Mar 27 1997 17:31 | 4 |
| hey debbess,
Lots of vibes to guntis and the family.
Mark
|
125.2062 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Fri Mar 28 1997 11:36 | 11 |
| re;
What a shame. Unfortunately, its hard telling a teenager that they
are
not immortal. Very very sad.
yep...saw two kids yesterady about 14 zipping thru crawling
traffic on a "murder-cycle"doin about 60, kid in back had no helmet on
and was barely holding on...made me shiver to watch...
rfb
|
125.2063 | | NIOSS1::LEE | | Mon Mar 31 1997 13:22 | 10 |
| Tim,
You made me all weepy here in my cube...very very sad and tragic.
I've instituted a personal policy in the last few years of making
sure nothing is "left unsaid" with those that I love--I've never
been good at hiding my emotions, but I'm trying to tell everyone
how I feel about them a lot more often these days..
Alicia
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125.2064 | | UCXAXP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Mar 31 1997 15:41 | 20 |
| As a follow up to this story, on Friday I drove my daughter and three
of her friends to Mass. General to visit Daniele, the surviving
passenger. I didn't realize until Friday that the "Mass." in Mass.
General actually stands for Massive.
Daniele was freed of the resperator on Tuesday and able to have
visitors shortly thereafter. Fourteen teenagers crowded her small room
while they watched a videotape of dozens of her classmates who had
gathered that afternoon at Oak Hill Conservation to send their get well
wishes. Today, Daniele is moving to a rehabilitation center in Salem
NY.
Jeff Smith, the driver of the car, was still in intensive care at MGH
on Friday..
Gradually, life is coming back around to normal, or so it seems.
tim
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125.2065 | | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | seeking all thats stil unsung | Wed Apr 02 1997 13:25 | 4 |
| Ram Dass had a stroke on Wednesday February 19
and is in a wheelchair, but learning to walk
and talk again, slowly.
|
125.2066 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Wed Apr 02 1997 14:03 | 2 |
| WHOA! there's a piece of news I missed! See what that 'cid does to ya!
%^)
|
125.2067 | Address for Get-well cards to Ram Dass | FOUNDR::OUIMETTE | Zat was Zen, Dis is Dao... | Fri Apr 04 1997 21:31 | 17 |
|
Thanks for posting that info, Debess, I hadn't heard about that.. I
did some web cruising, and found the following address for sending
cards/flowers, for anyone interested (and April 6th is his Birthday!):
From: http://www.geocities.com/WestHollywood/Heights/1143/ramdass.html
Ram Dass c/o
524 San Anselmo Avenue
San Anselmo, CA 94960
BTW, the web site also has regular updates on his condition, and
lots of other cool links to other related sites...
-Chuck
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125.2068 | getting dark, too dark to see | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | the ghosts of 'lectricity HOWL | Mon Apr 07 1997 18:01 | 46 |
|
whatever good sh*t is coming da ve's way in conjunction with
the comet's appearance (and he's right - he deserves it!!),
it seems like all the bummers that were following him around
last year have found someone new -> Guntis :-(
we saw his dad over Easter, home from the hospital with his broken
neck in this big plastic collar thing - and every visible bit of
his body black and blue from the tumble down the stairway - and I
imagine every bit not visible was pretty bruised up too.
we knew the recovery would be a long one - but he's a strong guy -
so we were feeling quite hopeful.
at his checkup on Tuesday last week, it was determined that the
vertebra was cracked too much, and that if it moved at all, it
might cause paralysis.
so, he was back in the hospital on Saturday, having some bone
from his hip fused to his neck bone and some steel plates inserted
to stabilize things. When they opened him up, they discovered that
more than one vertebra had been broken (why didn't xrays show this,
I wonder)
when he gets out of the hospital in a few days, he will go into
a convalescent home to recover.
last night, when Guntis returned from working up north all weekend,
he called his mom. After he got off the phone he said to me
"things don't sound so good" - and I thought he was talking about
his dad. Nope, he said his mother sounded like she couldn't catch
her breath, she's having trouble swallowing, in some sort of constant
pain that is keeping her awake at night.
he called her again this morning - no answer. He was concerned
because of the way she was talking last night, and didn't think that
she would be able to even go up and down the stairs where they live,
so how come she didn't answer the phone.
He made a call to one of her neighbors to check on her, and it turns
out that she too is in the hospital, called an ambulance herself
this morning.
I knew that we would be dealing with this kindof stuff as our
parents got older, but all at once?
Debess
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125.2069 | still have access but not for long | RECV::SLOAN | Wind in the willows plays tea for two | Mon Apr 07 1997 18:07 | 7 |
|
Geez Debess sounds like Guntis is having his share of worries. Please
send him our best wishes for speedy recoveries for his Mom and Dad!
And ditto on the good news with Da ve. What's up with that?
S l o a n
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125.2070 | | ICS::SMITHDE | So many roads | Mon Apr 07 1997 18:52 | 10 |
|
Debess...make sure Guntis knows I'm thinking of him and his parents.
Todays technology will truely benefit Guntis's Dad.
I've found (especially with my grandparents) that when one goes through
a dip, the other dips as well. I think it has to do with telepathy or
being with that person for so long...or somthing like that. Certainly,
if the person I loved for all my adult life suddenly fell ill, I too
would fall ill.
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125.2071 | Cubes abuzz | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Mon Apr 07 1997 19:02 | 8 |
|
good vibes coming your way debess....
deane i can relate
my great aunt grace passed away exactly one year to the day that her
husband...great uncle joe did
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125.2072 | I would not feel so all alone | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | the ghost of 'lectricity HOWLs | Mon Apr 07 1997 19:19 | 10 |
|
> my great aunt grace passed away exactly one year to the day that her
> husband...great uncle joe did
when my brother was living in Hartford, his landlords were this
very old couple. Just like Chris' great aunt and uncle - these
two old lovers died on the same date - one year apart.
Definately not coincidental, I'd say...
|
125.2073 | ohhmmmmmmmm.... | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Mon Apr 07 1997 19:21 | 4 |
| big vibes coming at Guntis and Debess and familiy from this
corner of the cube world too.........
da ve
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125.2074 | | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Mon Apr 07 1997 19:37 | 3 |
| Hale-Bopp is innocent! But best health wishes to Guntis's folks.
PeterT
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125.2075 | | UCXAXP::GRADY | Squash that bug! (tm) | Mon Apr 07 1997 20:37 | 5 |
| Debess,
Big vibes to Guntis & Family from here too!
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125.2076 | | USOPS::MNELSON | Inspiration, move me Brightly | Tue Apr 08 1997 11:11 | 5 |
|
hey debbess,
tell Guntis he's got my vibes coming at him.
Mark
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125.2077 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Tue Apr 08 1997 13:24 | 8 |
| Healing vibes and thought yer way, Debess and Guntis and family. I can
relate, having had my dad go thru several heart-attacks last summer and both
my mom and dad have a flu right now that hasn't been too kind to older
people.
Keep da faith
rfb
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125.2078 | | GRANPA::TDAVIS | | Tue Apr 08 1997 15:38 | 11 |
| Healing vibes on the way from down yonder. Several years ago
my Father had a stroke, and was out of it for 28 days (95% recovered)
during the time he was hospitalized, my Mom falls at home, and hurts
her hip, and cannot walk.. or visit him in Hospital, as he is coming
out of a coma like condition, he keeps asking for my mother, where is
she etc... My Mother wants to keep her fall from him so as not
to add additional stress... two parents being ill at the same time
is very difficult.
|
125.2079 | | SMURF::connor.zk3.dec.com::hotpup::strobel | jeff strobel | Tue Apr 08 1997 17:53 | 5 |
| more vibes headed toward Debess, Guntis & family.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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125.2080 | matty d is a cool dude | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Tue Apr 08 1997 19:03 | 9 |
| more news from the files of "this sucks"
my budy matty is in the hospital for a collapsed lung and was supposed
to be released yesterday or today
due to complications he is staying in for further observations and
possible surgery to get it reinflated
think good thoughts
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125.2081 | | ALFA2::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Tue Apr 08 1997 19:09 | 3 |
| (da ve puts on thinking cap)
coolthoughtscoolthoughtscoolthoughtscoolthoughts...............
|
125.2082 | tough | SEND::SLOAN | Wind in the willows plays tea for two | Tue Apr 08 1997 19:19 | 4 |
|
Matty D - who's mom died this past winter? what hospital?
sloan
|
125.2083 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Tue Apr 08 1997 19:20 | 3 |
| wow...collapsed lung?? vibes goin out....
rfb
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125.2084 | stop on by | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Tue Apr 08 1997 19:21 | 5 |
| yes
he is in nashua regional memorial
room 311B
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125.2085 | what's worse is this pain in here... | EVMS::OCTOBR::DEBESS | and the wind began to HOWL | Tue Apr 08 1997 20:03 | 5 |
|
thanks for all the vibes, folks, 'ppreciate it most sincerely!
I'll turn around and send some of my own out to Matty --------<@
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125.2086 | hope everyone gets better real soon | SUBPAC::BEAULIEU | Like A steam Locomotive | Thu Apr 10 1997 14:29 | 4 |
|
Vibes to Guntis' folks and Matty D
Toby
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125.2087 | :^) | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Apr 10 1997 14:41 | 9 |
|
Stopped over Nashua Memorial yesterday to find an empty bed in room
311B
matty is at home in Dover....
thanks folks.........it REALLY does help
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125.2088 | | SPECXN::BARNES | | Thu Apr 10 1997 14:53 | 1 |
| good news!!!!!!!!!!
|
125.2089 | eat it... | ICS::SMITHDE | So many roads | Thu Apr 10 1997 16:30 | 6 |
|
Hey thats great!
I certainly hope I don't see him smoking anything next time we're
hangin out. Tell Matty to get in touch with me...I've been forced into
the same situation (no smoke) and have some grate new recipes!!!!
|
125.2090 | | TEPTAE::WESTERVELT | | Thu Apr 10 1997 17:29 | 2 |
|
debess - peace
|
125.2091 | | RDVAX::ROBERTS | | Thu Apr 10 1997 17:56 | 3 |
| debess & guntis ... hang in ... hoping all is well
carol & john
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125.2092 | Well wishes | FABSIX::D_TODD | | Sun Apr 13 1997 22:56 | 24 |
|
Perhaps the warmer weather will help play a bigger role in recovery.
Gotta love all that extra sun!!
Tons of vibes and sun's healing rays to all still working their
way back to healthful happiness.
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125.2093 | not me or mine, but a good friend... | QUARRY::petert | rigidly defined areas of doubt and uncertainty | Thu Apr 17 1997 18:59 | 34 |
| A good friend of mine, Carl, is going through some tough times. Carl and
I go WAY back. Born on the same day in the same hospital (not that we
knew it at the time ;-) In the same boy scout troop, high school. Share
interests in sciene fiction (and Babylon 5), astronomy and certain recreational
uh, things. He's been up to visit me in MA more than any of my relative have
(if only to look through my telescope ;-)
Carl got married to Gianna about 4 years ago, a nice Italian girl who's
parents immigrated and settled in an Italian neighborhood, never bothering
to learn much English. Gianna's father passed on about 3 years ago from
cancer. Tragic, but it had been coming for a while. Carl and Gianna
have since had 2 kids, Katherine, about 16 months old, and Melissa,
just 6 weeks old. They're all fine, but 2 weeks ago, Gianna's mom had
a massive heart attack late at night. Since the mom doesn't speak much
English, and Gianna is the only relative, she had to leave at 2AM to
head off to the hospital in NJ, about 2 1/2 hours from Carl's and Gianna's
house on Long Island. To make matters worse, Gianna doesn't drive that
much, and certainly not well enough to get all the way to the hospital.
So they hired a car that night. I don't know what they've been doing since.
Her mom seemed to improve after the first weekend, but has had a relapse
since. Gianna's spent a lot of time at the hospital since she's the only
one they can communicate with, and they're calling when she isn't there.
Bad as this is, it's been complicated with the newborn. Gianna hasn't been
home for much more then 24 hrs at a stretch in the past 2 weeks, and even
if her mom improves, she probably won't be able to care for herself
anymore. Carl's had to take time off and, working for a financial consulting
firm on Wall Street, his employers are getting a bit impatient, as they are
rather busy and Carl basically runs the computer system there. So they've
all been under a lot of stress lately.
Sigh... life can turn on you pretty quick sometimes. I think I'll send
down a few Hale-Bopp photos, as I don't know when I'll get down there in
the near future.
PeterT
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125.2094 | heading to nuevoy york and jollyjay | WMOIS::LEBLANCC | All good things in all good time | Thu Apr 17 1997 19:02 | 3 |
| vibes all around
|
125.2095 | | ALFA1::DWEST | i believe in chemo girl! | Thu Apr 17 1997 19:35 | 1 |
| more here....
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125.2096 | when will spring get sprung? | SEND::SLOAN | Wind in the willows plays tea for two | Thu Apr 17 1997 19:37 | 6 |
|
some fishing and some slipknot will help jay i hope.
Good luck and quick recovery to your buddy's family PeterT.
sloan
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125.2097 | | BSS::DSMITH | I'LL GET UP AND FLY AWAY | Thu Apr 17 1997 19:52 | 4 |
|
Some western vibes for your buddy!
Divide
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125.2098 | Calamity Sloan | SEND::SLOAN | Wind in the willows plays tea for two | Mon May 05 1997 18:32 | 15 |
|
Well my VW is heading to the shop for repairs again. Some yoyo drove
into my car's rear end while I was stopped with my blinker on to turn
on to Bruce. He said, 'I just didn't see you'. He was going about
30mi/hr. at the time.
Went to have x-rays on my neck today. got some pain killers and muscle
relaxers (for after today's margaritt's)..
I'm getting to know the accident/claims/insurance/dr's. drill pretty
well.
what don't kill you makes you stronger ..
Cath
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